Too banal for Dan Savage...
June 22, 2010 6:19 PM Subscribe
What another clear
way for a (nervous!) girl to show a guy she's interested *other than* kissing?
posted by elleyebeebeewhy to Human Relations (35 answers total) 12 users marked this as a favorite
Alright, so despite myself, I seem to have run into a guy that is nice, educated, well traveled, confident, and attractive.
I, on the other hand, am overly self-aware, insecure about my flirting/dating skills, and can over-think *anything* to death.
- No clue how to make the official first move, which I'm sure he's waiting for.
(he's a nice guy that way)
- Despite a nearly non-existent dating history, I have enough experience, ahem, to realize that I just do not enjoy or understand kissing.
- He's a preeeetty heavy smoker. So I wouldn't imagine kissing would be that fun anyway.
What's left to me to show him I wouldn't mind taking a tour of his bedroom, without being awkward or too forward?
Once we're there I'll feel more on solid ground, it's this transitional friends to NOT friends space that I don't know how to navigate.