April 2011 Archives
April 30
Is this a good goal?
I have a personal goal to do karaoke in the future. It's not because I enjoy making a spectacle of myself in public or want to show off my singing voice (to the contrary!), it's because I currently have severe social phobia. I think doing something that anxiety-inducing would be a great stepping stone and I'd also like to use that hopefully positive experience as a marker for how far I've come. What songs would suit an otherwise mediocre female voice that surprisingly sounds decent singing There Is A Light That Never Goes Out by The Smiths and most of Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen? I'd prefer if the songs are available on your average bar's jukebox, but feel free to suggest obscure songs. Genre does not matter.
Looking for a "strength training 101" book/resource.
Looking for a "strength training 101" book/resource. [more inside]
A Pokey Little Radio Station
What are some pokey radio stations that play old country/forgotten 45's/big band/bluegrass/rockabilly from the 1920's-1960's that I can listen to online for free? [more inside]
Get us off the couch!
I'm looking for personal trainer & weight loss coach recommendations in the Seattle area. Help me, please! [more inside]
Feed me!
Where should we eat vegetarian brunch in Baltimore tomorrow? [more inside]
Las Vegas shared housing rentals
Las Vegas Shared Housing Monthly Room Rentals... I realize that Las Vegas has been hit hard economically, but are these shared housing monthly room rentals I see on Craigslist for real... $350/$500 for what appear to be rentals in very nice single family homes, etc.? Thinking of "picking one up" as an inexpensive escape as a second "home"... feedback appreciated re red flags, etc. Or have I simply been out of the rental mkt too long and don't appreciate opportunities that exist...
How to become a family lawyer in New York City?
I want to work in family law in New York City and I don't really know where to start. [more inside]
Cedar Key advance planning
Have you been to Cedar Key, FL? [more inside]
Scratching Puppy
My 15 week old Golden Retriever pup scratches a lot. She doesn't have fleas or ticks. What kind of allergy could cause this? What should I do?
Does this situation sound like stress-induced erectile dysfunction?
Does this situation sound like stress-induced erectile dysfunction? What can I do about it? [more inside]
Can I help my mom loose the weight?
My mother is obese. Can I help her? [more inside]
Digital Media in SF
Is there a digital-media/arts-type place in San Francisco that provides access to computers and digital technology - something like The Edge in Brisbane? [more inside]
DIY Matchstick Bamboo Blinds?
I'm looking to install roll up bamboo blinds on a very wide, but short, length of windows. It would be very expensive to order them to spec, and I'm looking into making my own. The mechanism is very basic, and I imagine the material is very cheap. I just can't find shades on their own, not pre-assembled. [more inside]
Lull Me To Sleep Without Using Enya
Seeking suggestions for mellow and soothing pop music. [more inside]
Don't let my fiancé drown!
My fiancé had plans to drive from Houston to Saint Louis over the next two days. Now it's looking like there is a lot of flooding in the Memphis area and Southeast Missouri. Should she worry, or re-route her drive? What's the best route to take given current conditions? [more inside]
Does your body go into starvation mode?
Nutrition filter: I have read a lot of articles about how if you consume less than 1200 calories your body goes into "starvation mode." I have read other articles that claim it is just a myth. Anyone have any sense of the truth of this? Thank for your help!
Catering a Baltimore area wedding
Do you have recommendations for caterer in the Baltimore, MD area for my sister's wedding? [more inside]
How to enjoy a city break without walking?
My mother has recently been diagnosed with arthritis of the hips. She's going to Florence on holidays summer and is used to doing lots of walking: recommendations? [more inside]
Windows for Dummies. No, the glass kind.
My house needs new windows. I do not want the traditional window salesman vinyl. Every home renovation board seems to be geared to step 17 (this brand, this thing) in the process. And every window sales place feels scamtastic. What's step 1 to getting the windows I need? [more inside]
BUDT ZDAROV!
I'm in Moscow for the week. Where is the "Lower East Side" or "Williamsburg" of Moscow? [more inside]
Any way to find this 2002 N.Y. Real Estate Law Reporter article today?
Desperately seeking article from 2002 N.Y. Real Estate Law Reporter [more inside]
Help a bipedal human get on two wheels.
Bikefilter: I know zilch about bikes. What kind of bike do I want? [more inside]
She's the 2nd parent, not me?
How do I deal with my MIL who has inappropriate boundary issues with her grandchilden (my stepchildren) and is treating me poorly as a result? [more inside]
New entrant to a Phd programme, any and all tips welcome!
I've started a Phd and would like to get tips and advise from those who have walked the path before me. [more inside]
Cheapest GPU supporting latest CUDA features?
What is the minimal Nvidia GPU that supports all the newest features for CUDA programming? [more inside]
I assume this means I can't end up in someone else's body either.
IANAL, and you may or may not be, but why is it is illegal to marry for insurance purposes? [more inside]
Passport stamps are not Pokemon cards.
My boyfriend and I are going to have a five-hour layover in Berlin on Tuesday morning. Would that be enough time to leave the airport and grab breakfast somewhere? And if so, where should we go? [more inside]
What was this 'traditional' pub sport I (think I) saw on TV?
Some time in the last 12 months, I watched a BBC programme in which the presenters visited an event held outside a pub somewhere in England. According to my vague recollection, the point was to fish a rag out of a bucket of beer using the end of a broomstick, and then fling said beery rag at bystanders. I had thought that the programme in question was Oz and James Drink to Britain, and that this had taken place in Lewes, East Sussex, but even with variations on those things as search terms I can find no reference to this online. Has anyone heard of this? What is it called? Where and when does it take place?
How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude?
How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude? I think I remember my present problem turning up on Seinfeld or Friends or something, which makes sense because it's kind of absurd. When a romantic relationship no longer functions, there are some established processes and social mores. When a regular friendship maybe needs to end or be heavily renegotiated, the way to proceed is much less clear. Help? [more inside]
Am I a relationship freak?
I'm a 29 year old straight female, and I've never been in a grown up relationship. Is there something really wrong with me? [more inside]
Riding the roads of northern New Jersey
Help me figure out where to ride my road bike in northern New Jersey. I'm looking for a 20- to 30-mile ride in a rural(ish) area--or at least some place where there are as few cars as possible. [more inside]
How do I do something nice for Mother's Day when I normally try to avoid my mother?
What do I do for Mother's Day given that (1) she has brought me quite a bit of stress over the past few years and (2) her own mother passed away a few months ago? [more inside]
Is my hair uncolorable?
Is my hair uncolorable? [more inside]
Streaks on the machine
PC Screen Cleaning: What's the best way to clean a PC monitor? Tried water, scared of windex, changed the cloth type -- still have wipe marks and dust. Home readies or commercials solutions with type of cloth to use appreciated.
Cocktail mixes for home-infused vodka
Cocktail ideas for home-infused vodkas: Strawberry, cantaloupe, vanilla-caramel, chai tea, tea with lemon and honey, bacon. [more inside]
If the shoe fits
Recommend a new shoe for my job that requires high speed continuous walking for about 10-15 miles per day. [more inside]
How to overcome fear of rejection in relationships
I’m a 28 y/o woman who has finally found someone that I admire, who loves me dearly, and isn't a huge pain in my ass --and I'm hoping to make this last! Please help me to not ruin this wonderful thing! [more inside]
Roku Player Hookup
I would like to try a Roku Player to watch Netflix streaming vidoes on my TV. How do I hook up to my standard TV with a Dish Network Receiver and a Sony Blu Ray Player? [more inside]
Name that tune?
Why is poorly constructed text published?
NonFiction Filter: How come text in some published (non-fiction) texts is so poorly constructed? Why are bad examples not removed in the process of getting a book published? Is it down to cost, time, author's prerogative?
(I include an example inside) [more inside]
What Did I Eat Last Night? (No This Isn't About Food Poisoning.)
Last night I at something at a Northern Indian restaurant that was really terrible tasting. Any ideas what it might have been? [more inside]
compass without direction
is there a term for when a compass is going haywire and cant find a direction or at least for when the needle spins around? [more inside]
Looking for advice on pitching a pop science book
Advice on approaching publishers for a popular science book? [more inside]
Sway, sway, baby, you're so audio
What can I put on my MP3 player to get me through hours of much-hated housework & chores, particularly now that I'm packing up to move house (not long after I finished unpacking after the last move, dammit, so I haven't much motivation)? [more inside]
Port forward HTTPS on 443 to IIS server doesn't work
An IIS web server won't respond to port forwarded requests from the world on 443, but will reply to port forwarded requests on port 80. The IIS web server will answer on 80 and 443 on the LAN. I tried a new router, as well. [more inside]
Softball in the city.
Can anyone recommend a good softball league to join in the East Village? I'm a male, with above average skill level.
We started with sex. Then liked each other a lot. Now how do we slow down?
I met a girl from a club and we had sex. She had a boyfriend then (she cheated on him with me). She is now single & we have been incredibly close. I think I'm being clingy and I need help BIGTIME because I really like her. [more inside]
What Chicago neighborhood should we move to?
ChicagoFilter: We're looking to move out of our miserable Hyde Park apartment. Hooray! We don't know anything about the rest of Chicago. What neighborhoods should we be looking at when one of us will be commuting via public transit to Northeastern Illinois University (in North Park) and one half will be commuting (with a car) to Hyde Park? Budget-friendly ideas welcome--we're just looking for anything with more grocery stores and a shorter commute time to NEIU than Hyde Park.
Whyfore you play your fiddle, Nero? Burn my Blu-rays!
What's the best Blu-ray burning software out there? [more inside]
April 29
Does my cat have allergies?
My new kitten gets congested at night. Is she allergic to something? [more inside]
Nutritionist?
Careers related to nutrition/diet that don't involve working with people as clients/patients? [more inside]
Moving a bookcase without breaking it or myself
Anyone have experience moving an Ikea EXPEDIT bookcase? [more inside]
Let's Say Hilary Won the Presidential Election. Would Bill Be Called FLOTUS?
If Hilary Clinton had become President of the United States, how would Bill Clinton have been referred to? He would obviously not be called The First Lady, so how would he be styled? And would he still be addressed as 'Mr. President' in the company of his wife, who would presumably be 'Madam President'? Are there any clearly set out protocols for address in this situation?
word for a work within a work?
(for a friend) I am looking for "the word used to describe a description of a work of art or poem within another work--its a term used in art history and poetics, and it drives me crazy that it escapes me."
Heavy on the Salsa Please
Need your best Latin dance music STAT! [more inside]
What's the name of this genre of Japanese porn? (NSFW, of course)
What's the name of this genre of Japanese porn? (NSFW, of course) Okay: Several women basically have their way with a very passive (or overwhelmed or mildly incapacitated) man. [more inside]
I'm alive! Now what?
A medical condition that should have killed me didn't. I'm just understanding (three years later) just how lucky I was. What are some ways that I can keep this feeling of being lucky and grateful to be alive in happy, life-affirming (i.e., not morbid or overly emo) ways? [more inside]
Help me sit!
I once stumbled upon a site offering a belt-like device to be worn around one's (bent) knees in order to sit comfortably without a chair. Do you know where to find this? [more inside]
Reddit acting goofy in FF.
My reddit page suddenly started looking like this. What's going on? I'm on an iMac running Snow Leopard, with the latest Firefox 4. [more inside]
Good translations of Cervantes and Tolsoy?
I'm up for tackling some big all-time classics, especially Don Quixote and War and Peace, and I'm wondering which translations to get. [more inside]
Housewarming Gifts For People I Don't Know
What is an appropriate housewarming gift for someone I don't know in person? [more inside]
Waking up with knee pain - why?
About once a week, I wake up with a searing pain on the inside of my top knee (if I'm sleeping on my right hand side, it's my left knee that hurts).
The only way to get out of it is to physically hold my knee, take the weight of my leg, and move it into a different / straighter position. Once I've done that, the pain completely goes away and there is no after-effect at all - I can get out of bed and run around with no residual pain whatsoever.
But I don't think this is normal... [more inside]
Best Recent iPad games for two different types of users?
Well it happened. I'm officially bored with all my ipad/iphone games. The App store has exploded recently and I'm pretty binary on the things I like, plus I've got to share the device with another game-lover with different tastes . What are the best, new iPad/iPhone games? [more inside]
This is what happens when Mr. Wuzandfuzz goes to Costco alone - Nacho Cheese Filter
Anyone have any good (and I realize this may be relative) recipes that use nacho cheese sauce besides nachos? [more inside]
Hungry Authors are no fun.
O wise MeFites, I am looking for somewhere to take a group of 11 people for a business lunch somewhere walkable from Coit Tower. We are willing to go as far as the Ferry Building for delicious food. We are looking to spend about $20 per person for a nice lunch in a sit-down restaurant. Where shall we go? [more inside]
Only one Guardian?
Shows like The Guardian? Definitely… [more inside]
Renew US Passport
Renewing US Passport problem [more inside]
How to raise funds for trails?
What are your best fundraising ideas for a new non-profit focused on trail building for mountain biking/hiking? Another local trail building org has used raffles, film festivals, and races/contests. [more inside]
East Capitol/Potomac Ave Safe?
How dangerous is Potomac Ave Metro area of DC (East Capitol) compared to the rest of Capitol Hill, Eastern Market or Columbia Heights? [more inside]
How do I convince the NSF that I really don't want to be part of a long term panel study?
I am a part of a joint National Science Foundation (NSF)/National Institutes of Health (NIH) panel study, and seemingly will be for the rest of my life. But I do not wish to be. How do I put my foot down and get out of it? [more inside]
To Eat It or Not To Eat It?
We've recently moved into a new place with an empty lot. The previous tenants used parts of the lot to garden, but it's now overgrown with a mix of food plants and weeds. Over the past month, we've had this plant popping up. It looks sort of spinachy, but we don't want to start mixing it into salads unless it's actually edible. Can anyone identify it? Closer look here.
Pantech jest unsupported directory?
I wanted to download pictures from my Pantech Jest phone. I was using a Scandisk adapter, placed in my camera, then tried to download to my computer. They don't show up. When I place the Micro Scandisk back into the card, I get an error message that says "files are found in unsupported directory please move them to the proper directory". How do I do this? And can I do this from the phone?
I like spicy fish soup. But nobody will be there to make it for me.
I want a crockpot recipe I can make overnight that tastes like Bahama Breeze's "Bahamian Seafood Chowder" [more inside]
Money in Berlin
I'm moving to Berlin for the summer, and I need to know how I should go about transfering living funds over. I'll be getting 3000 Euro when I get there, but that will not be enough to live on for the entire summer. Should I exchange them into Euros? Should I use my US credit card? Should I get a German bank account. I would love any advice you can give me.
JFK Assassination : Books You Would Recommend?
I finished reading Richard Belzer's hilarious book UFOs, JFK, and Elvis: Conspiracies You Don't Have to Be Crazy to Believe and it has gotten me interested in the JFK assassination. I then looked at a YouTube video that basically used a computer sim that showed the shooting coming from the book depository. My main question: Can any mefite recommend a book or three (of the million written) on the subject that they enjoy and find convincing on the assassination? I am open to any suggestions. Feel free to share your thoughts on the subject.
Help me impose structure.
Desperately disorganized person seeks realistic routine. [more inside]
Flash numeric output
Why have my numeric output fields stopped working in Flash 11? [more inside]
Shopping for Homeowners Insurance
Homowners' Insurance Filter: Should I stay with Hanover or try another agent and keep shopping? [more inside]
Help Me Get Past The Dread Of A Long Trip
I am looking at a drive of 1300 miles in the next two weeks. How do I get past the dread? [more inside]
Entertaining oneself while doing nothing?
What can I do to get through having to sit 12 hours for ten days doing nothing? Nothing! [more inside]
uote about the evils of writing or technology
Looking for an ancient greek quote about the evils of writing or technology. [more inside]
How much does milk cost anyway?
Why has the cost of milk gone up so rapidly, proportionally speaking? Five weeks ago, I could find milk for $2 a gallon; yesterday, the cheapest I found was $2.49 a gallon at Costco, and that was only if you bought two gallons at once. Everywhere else it's been higher - I even saw a store selling whole milk at $3.99 a gallon! This is just milk. Nothing premium or otherwise meant to raise the price point about it. Other dairy products have gone up in cost, too, but not so drastically (that I've noticed). [more inside]
Can't upgrade until August. Any other options for <$200 iPhone?
Another iPhone question. I tried to cash in on the 3Gs for $49 special today, but my contract still has 8 months on it, meaning I'm not eligible for an upgrade until mid-August. I can't afford to pay full price for an iPhone of any stripe. Do I have any options? [more inside]
How can I best help my boyfriend quit smoking?
How can I best help my boyfriend quit smoking? [more inside]
How can I finish the Five Boro Bike Tour and still have fun while doing it?
I have a ~50 miles bike ride ahead of me this Sunday, which I've done before. However, I am completely out of shape and haven't been training much lately. What should I do to increase my chances of finishing while still having a pleasant ride and without completely destroying my Monday? [more inside]
Maddox in the bathroom
Google has failed me. I need to find that old Maddox thing about gay guys who keep doing things to him.
Is there an app for doing my weeding?
What are some useful gardening apps for my iPhone? [more inside]
They do get a lot of sun in the summer...
Looking for non-depressing fiction about Russia (any time period). Is there an equivalent to Connie Willis's wonderful Blackout/All Clear? [more inside]
Looking for a drug addict support organization besides NA
Please suggest support groups for recovering drug addicts besides Narcotics Anonymous (NA). [more inside]
How to be a depressed but functioning employee
I royally screwed up at work. This isn't the first time. Depression may be partially causing it. What do I say to my boss? Can I change? How? [more inside]
I'm not Charles Bronson. Or am I?
How do I silence the vengeful voice inside myself? [more inside]
Getting Historical Stock Data in Asp.net
I need to access historical stock data for an ASP.NET website [more inside]
How do showtunes get translated?
I'm trying to find information on the translation of musical theater, particularly the songs. [more inside]
Need the perfect maybe exotic gift
A friend of ours is going to be in Africa for a month this summer. During that month, he is going to be turning the big 5-0. What is something we can get him for his trip that would be particularly useful. I assume he already has a great camera.
help me figure out what song this is!
what song is this? synthpop-sounding, melodic and upbeat but slightly melancholic as well. from what i can remember of the chorus may have been something about "rosanna" (not TOTO!). more vague descriptors within... [more inside]
Tumi on a Target budget?
I love this Tumi bag! ...is there anything similar but less expensive? [more inside]
"When the evenin' train goes by..."
I'm heading up to Chatsworth, CA tomorrow night to record some train whistles. How far away from the tracks should I be to get that nice, misty, dreamlike faraway sound? And is there a particularly quiet/desolate part of town where I can sit for a few hours and gather said recordings?
(Recommendations for other desolate, train-heavy spots within a two-hour drive also welcome.)
I'm in love with a divorcing man who is having a divorce freak out. Help!
In love with a divorcing man who is now backing off. Help! [more inside]
This is a trap isn't it?
Online dating etiquette. When is it ok to ask about the other people you're seeing from the site? Is it different for men and women? What's the right response? [more inside]
Mysterious leg stiffness appeared after running. Not sure what this is...
I took a month off from my running routine before running again. 5 days later this muscle stiffness feeling has not gone away. It's painful enough that it hurts to walk, especially down stairs. What is this? [more inside]
I want more empathy.
Are there any psychologists out there who know why we are able to generate so much empathy for animals but not for humans? [more inside]
How can I get over the fear of (or get OUT OF) dancing at my wedding?
Getting married in two months. GF and her family love dancing and will do a lot of it at the wedding. I want to make her happy, but I'm a terrible dancer and the whole thing is making me very anxious. What to do? [more inside]
We can't just throw away our wedding photos, can we?
What should we do with our wedding photos now that we're getting divorced? [more inside]
Not French, not Dutch, but....
Please help me with a name for the kind of door I want to get replace a current standard size exterior door.
It would look like a closet door I have that is a standard size door but is in vertical halves and opens towards you on two sets of hinges. It's not a Dutch door, because that is cut horizontally, and I usually think of a French door as being two doors with a lot of glass.
How do I see a large version of Google's logos for special days?
How do I see a large version of Google's reworked logo they make to commemorate special days? For instance, today Google has a little image of the Royal Wedding in place of "Google" in the upper left corner of their search page. I used to be able to go to the main Google page and the image would be nice and big, but now it defaults to my iGoogle page and the image is still tiny....
Time Machine status: stuck in the now
The bad news: catastrophic hard drive failure! The good news: it's my back-up drive. Help me replace it. [more inside]
online tablature / chord charts for indie and alt-country?
What are the best online resources for indie and alt-country guitar tablature or chord charts? [more inside]
Who is this Archie Character?
ArchieComicFilter: Help! I was talking with a coworker and we were reminiscing about old Archie comic strips. I recounted one of my favorite strips but I can't remember who the character was! More information under the cut: [more inside]
What is this called? -alled?
Does this quirk in my son's speech have a name? [more inside]
A few house shopping questions
Given two identical townhouses, one with no basement, the other with a finished basement, what would be the difference in value? Also, who benefits from the savings related to doing a transaction without a broker? Buyer, seller or both? [more inside]
an apopogy for the unforgivable
I've been invited to a wedding where I'm only going to know a couple of guests. One of them is a woman who has every right to hate my guts. Help me navigate this. [more inside]
Ruin our child's shot at president?
Should we stay or should we go? Make a big international move as a pregnant couple or with a tiny baby? Lots of (possibly) relevant details inside. [more inside]
God Save Our Gracious Me
Does anyone have a link to the Kenny Everett sketch where the Queen sings, "God save our gracious me" while cooking breakfast? [more inside]
Sharing Matlab scripts.
Where can I find and share Matlab scipts? [more inside]
What does this hand (claw) gesture mean?
April 28
Pitching tents on campus is apparently not uncommon.
Moving from Seattle to Stockholm for graduate school this summer: how far in advance of the August 29th semester start should I fly out in order to maximize my chances of renting an apartment before all other students arrive? Also, where should I stay while I'm looking for a place to live? [more inside]
Handicapping Reality
How do I learn and practice handicapping skills? [more inside]
Free alternative to MyFoodDiary.com?
Friend is trying to cut costs in her budget.
Does anyone know a website that's as comprehensive and easy-to-use as MyFoodDiary.com, but doesn't cost $9 a month? [more inside]
Best episodes from before they got big?
TVFilter: What are some of the best episodes from before some big shows got big? Things like Mythbusters, Top Gear, and Planet Earth have big budgets now, but five, ten, or twenty years ago, these nonfiction-type shows probably had some classic episodes that are unlikely to be shown today but full of bootstrapped goodness. [more inside]
Dancing With Partner Brings Out Issue of Self-Confidence
I am beginning to dance with female partners and I am terrified. Help! [more inside]
Insight as to why this guy who is interested in me is acting nervous?
Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest? [more inside]
a remote exam under exam conditions
How to record something digitally in a way that verifies it has not been 'shopped [more inside]
Is professional detailing worth the money?
CarDetailingFilter: Is professional detailing worth it? IOW, do the professionals have tools, skills, or something else that means they can do much better work than a determined person can do on his/her own? Details follow. [more inside]
Help us live in a tent this summer!
Starting in a month, my girlfriend and I will be living for the summer in a 10x16, two room Kelty tent we bought on craigslist. We will be living/working on a farm outside of Olympia, WA. We'd love any advice/experience you might have on long-term tent living. We're super excited about it but we are aware it will suck sometimes... what sucked about it and how can we prepare for the suck? Lots more details inside on building a makeshift kitchen, hopefully cozy bedroom, etc. [more inside]
Barcode/UPC lookup tool?
I have several thousand CDs and am thinking it's time to sell them, which would be easier if I had a comprehensive written list. There are lots of barcode/UPC-lookup sites on the Web, but many don't have comprehensive databases and none seems to take a full list or spreadsheet of numbers and return the product names so I would have a single list. Any suggestions?
How to get my Dell Ubuntu server to boot from a different drive?
I have an Ubuntu server. It's a Dell PowerEdge with a PERC 6 RAID controller. I'm trying to get it to boot to a different drive, and grub doesn't seem to be cooperating - it appears to attempt to boot to the correct volume and partition and then bonks out when mounting /proc - what gives? [more inside]
phalange SOS
please forgive my typing. i had a crush injury to my index finger one month ago. my question involves trying to figure out a way to minimize involuntary hand movements at night which only exacerbate the pain. there has to be some clever way to do this? [more inside]
What can I serve with leftover beans and rice?
What can I serve with leftover rice and beans? [more inside]
Individual online appointment scheduler?
There's lots of great online software for allowing multiple participants to vote on the best single meeting time. There's also software that will allow people to book individual appointment times from a calendar. But I'm looking for a resource that will allow me to invite people to pick from an assortment of specific dates/times to schedule individual meetings with me. For example, let's say I have only ten one-hour blocks of time that are available for meetings next month. What online software will let me invite multiple people to choose from among those ten blocks, so that I am notified who picked which time, which is then not available to the remaining people?
Where was this abortion clinic in Toronto?
Dr. Leslie Smoling operated an illegal abortion clinic in Toronto from 1962 to June 10, 1968, when police closed the clinic and charged him. He then fled to Australia to evade prosecution, coming back after two decades (?) to face charges. Where in the city was this clinic? [more inside]
What foul goddamn creatures!
How can I best remove ticks from my dog? Is there a gadget to improve my batting average? [more inside]
How do you force yourself to slow down and take your time when proofing?
How do you force yourself to slow down and take your time when proofing? [more inside]
Help me figure out how to get along.
Help me make the most of a beach vacation with my future in-laws. [more inside]
Are inventions ever made possible by philosophy?
A little over a hundred years ago, William James wrote in Pragmatism that "the philosophic stage of criticism [as opposed to the scientific] ... so far gives us no new range of practical power. Locke, Hume, Berkeley, Kant, Hegel, have all been utterly sterile, so far as shedding any light on the details of nature goes, and I can think of no invention or discovery that can be directly traced to anything in their peculiar thought." (Emphasis mine.) Is it still -- or, for that matter, was it true then -- that there are no inventions made possible by the works of philosophers?
Where are the creative couples?
I'm looking for media images (books, movies, TV shows) of a certain kind of romantic partnership: happily partnered, creative, bohemian couples [more inside]
Free or cheap DIY electric ukulele plans?
My teenager started an electric ukulele project in her woodshop class and can't afford to buy plans. What's the best way to proceed? [more inside]
Is there a Yelp! for real estate listings?
Is there some nice shiny, futuristic way to peruse area real estate listings which gives one an accurate picture of what is for sale in a given area? [more inside]
A frog in a water nest?
On a hike in East Granby, CT, my friend came across this. Its a frog sitting in a fluffy nest sitting on top of a swampy pond. I really have nothing else to say other than is this normal frog behavior?
Desktop/Cubicle amplifier with at least 3 inputs.
I am trying to find a desktop or office cubicle ( by which I mean pretty small and elegant) compatible amplifier. I just really need a headphone amplifier since I wont ever be able use any speakers at work, but I must be able to select between 3 different sources. [more inside]
Same-sex Split
My same-sex partner and I have separated (to my shock and opposition) after a few years of hard financial times. While I am holding out hope that she will come to her senses, I need help deciding on what to do (especially regarding our house) in case we can't resolve our issues. [more inside]
much ado about nuthin'.
What do you do in your downtime in the office? [more inside]
What should I do about spilt fish sauce?
What should I do about spilt fish sauce? [more inside]
Where can I watch tonight's Magic/Hawks game online?
Where can I watch tonight's Magic/Hawks game online? [more inside]
Scripting PDF printing in Windows XP?
How do I script PDF "printing" in Windows XP? [more inside]
A sense of dread in an sunburnt land
I'm looking for examples of media that combine the landscape of the American West with the horror genre. [more inside]
Can I repair just the small damaged area of my parquet floor?
A small section of my wood parquet flooring is cracked and/or buckled. When I step on this area it creaks and springs up. Can I replace only the damaged section? [more inside]
When should a potential landlord cash a deposit check?
We gave a check (for a security deposit) to a potential landlord to hold our spot in line. The landlord wasn't going to cash the check until she approved us for the house. We got the house (pending a signed lease agreement). When should the landlord cash the deposit check? [more inside]
can't find a blog post about stupidity and cleverness
there's a blog post somewhere out there about the good that can come of, instead of trying to do clever things, simply avoiding doing stupid things. anyone know who posted it?
Subclinical hypothyroidism during pregnancy?
I'm a little over 8 weeks pregnant, and other than the insane morning sickness, feel like I'm in good health. However, my thyroid results came back with normal free T4 and elevated TSH. Neither my regular doc nor my midwife seem concerned... so should I relax? [more inside]
To follow up or not to follow up?
I just had a job interview I wasn't thrilled about. In a fluster, I sent my writing samples with a two sentence thank you note. I'd like to salvage the flubbed interview if I can. Should I mail a lengthier thank you letter, or just let it go?
Should I move or wait till I find a job at the end of my lease?
Lease running out and looking to move, but no job yet. What should I do? [more inside]
Book about a job doing nothing.
Double or triple play?
Baseball rules question---put on your umpire's cap. [more inside]
Reading on Research in the Digital Age
Summer short course filter: Fun readings on the internet, the future, and research in the digital age for high school teachers. Help a librarian plan a syllabus! [more inside]
Real estate trusts, partnerships or LLCs?
My father and I are interested in buying and splitting an investment property 50-50. What are the sort of legal arrangements we should be looking into to lower tax burdens and maximize buying power? LLC? Trusts? Who should we be talking to about this? [more inside]
It has a name.
What is my new job title for a very broad writing/editing position within a corporate team? [more inside]
Karaoke in DC
What is the best Friday night karaoke joint in DC (or Metro-accessible)? [more inside]
How to find and get a disability lawyer in NJ when I have no money?
I live in Middlesex County in New Jersey. I have begun the application for disabilty due to anxiety and depression. I am worried I might need a lawyer, I have no money, and I don't know where to start. [more inside]
Fun, romantic things to see and do in Atlantic City
Looking for fun/romantic things to do in Atlantic City, NJ. Best restaurants, best romantic gay-friendly hotels, don't miss events or locations? Things beyond the casinos. [more inside]
New laptop didn't match the specs advertised What are my options?
About a week ago, I purchased a laptop. When I finally got it, the laptop didn't have the specs advertised. When I wrote the company, they said it was a mistake and I could send the laptop back for a refund. The problem? I could've bought it cheaper (and gotten it sooner) from another company, but now that deal is gone. [more inside]
Searching for music with a postive outlook.
Help me think of songs/musical numbers that echo the sentiment of "Don't Stop Believing". [more inside]
PDF in Firefox 4
What is your method for reading PDF files in Firefox 4? [more inside]
Confirmation bias study and birthers
I feel like I recently read about a study on confirmation bias asking people a range of questions, one of which was an Obama birther question (as in do you hold birther beliefs), but I can't find it. The study was wanting to know perceived authority figures could influence held beliefs, and may have included questions about global warming. What am I thinking of? Can someone link to it - but mainly if it's a birther story.
Doctor? Or quit whining?
Sudden, kind of horrible knee pain--wtf, body? Is this okay, or should I go see a doctor? If the latter, what kind of doctor should I see? [more inside]
Good book on cognitive bias?
I'm looking for a good introductory book on the topic of cognitive bias. [more inside]
I love you, but let's talk about something else
Help me find songs about love or close friendship that contain lyrics about something other than the feeeeeelings the couple has for each another. [more inside]
Give me your clothes, your boots and your mathematical proofs.
I am trying to come up with the "ultimate utility tattoo" and I need some help with what would be on it. You've a full sleeve (an adult male's arm and shoulder) to work with so what important information do you think would be useful? [more inside]
Shinjuku vs Shibuya
I will be in Tokyo for a few days next month and need to decide where I am staying - Shibuya or Shinjuku? [more inside]
Preparing for my grand exit
Can anybody recommend a good estate attorney in San Francisco? We want to set up a will, and we undoubtedly need the whole estate-planning package (power of attorney, living trusts, etc). [more inside]
Thrill me
Looking for recommendations for thriller novels. Preferences insdie. [more inside]
Which Caribbean Island for our family vacation?
I am planning a summer vacation with my wife and 8-year old daughter. We would like the majority of our vacation to include beach combing and hammocks, kayaking, snorkeling and hiking.
Which Caribbean island would be best for this? [more inside]
Can you recommend a non-glossy monitor to be paired with a Mac Mini?
Can you recommend a non-glossy monitor to be paired with a Mac Mini? [more inside]
Plays for 8th-9th graders?
Can anyone recommend plays for performance by 8th-9th graders? I need to cast an entire class of 16-20 kids, and I'm looking for something generally gender balanced. [more inside]
Is there a medievalist in the house?
Are you a medievalist? I'm looking for books, diaries, art books, websites and other resources about private life and printing in the Middle Ages and early Renaissance. [more inside]
Corporate social responsibility
Companies/corporations that use strongly human- and earth-friendly business practices and ethics? [more inside]
Preserving/Documenting Lantern Slides: How do I not ruin them?
My family has a collection of 35 lantern slides dating from the 1880-90's. They are black & white photographic images, with some handcolored. They are in reasonably good condition and I would like to somehow transfer them into a digital format. Is it OK to lay these on a scanner, or will strong light exposure risk damaging the slide images? Is there a better way to photograph or reproduce the images? [more inside]
Finding work in London
UK jobsearching: I'm 26, and having a tough time finding any job in London - let alone one that's a good career prospect. Do you have any pointers, and in particular, advice on how to get reliable, short-term work to cover the gaps? [more inside]
My feet need your brain!
I need shoe recommendations, please. [more inside]
Western Branch of American Reform Presbylutheranism Architecture
Is The Simpsons' First Church of Springfield (the building, not the denomination) modeled after an actual church or style of churches? [more inside]
Preventing Bulky Arms
Workout Question - A few years ago I went away from my cardio-only gym routine and added in weight lifting. I did chest press, lat pull downs, shoulder press, etc. I'm a girl, btw. I lost a little weight but now my arms are bulky, not super muscly but just bulkier and sometimes they don't fit in my shirts. I enjoy lifting weights but I feel conflicted about it if my arms are going to continue to get bigger and bigger. My question is - how do I continue to lift weights without my arms getting bulkier and bulkier? I would like to also make my arms less bulky if possible.. Are push-ups a good option?
If it can possibly go on your head, i've tried it...
How do I get rid of my dandruff for good? [more inside]
Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out?
Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out? [more inside]
Tracking sales referrals for the long-term?
I am working out a standard operating procedure/system for a referral marketing program with a partner firm and seeking a useful web-based or software system to track signposted, offline referrals. We are thinking of using a discount code or something along those lines but I am dealing with some distrust from my partner about how we reliably continue to track referrals through the lifetime of the sales relationship. Is this going to be based on trust or are there electronic or other systems I should be looking into?
Above the Poverty Level but Still No Money...what is this called?
Is there a term for this? People who are above the poverty level (and therefore not eligible for most social services) but below middle income (where they might have some discretionary income to spend on, say, education or legal services)? [more inside]
Disable photo tagging by friends?
How do I turn off the ability of others to tag photos of me on Facebook? All I see on Google is info on how to change the setting for previous iterations of Facebook's "privacy settings".
Line of Credit: Good Idea, or Bad Idea?
Financing company offered me a 2000$ line of credit. I have questions. [more inside]
Do people really trace their family trees back that far?
Do people really trace their family trees back that far? I'm pretty much dead-ended in the 1850s. [more inside]
Facebook Question
Facebookfilter: I vaguely remember seeing something like a users most commented wall posts when viewing what i think was our friendship connection (the things we have in common). Where do i find this feature again and is there more to it? [more inside]
How to manage new wealth?
Let's say that I am about to come into life changing amount of cash. What is the best way to manage this new wealth? [more inside]
Literature for the sad
What recommendations do you have for literature with tones and themes of sadness/loneliness/inadequacy/anxiety/perfectionism/depression/alienation/dissatisfaction? (Not all in a single book, of course). [more inside]
Video for contest
I've designed a pretty awesome piece of software. There's an industry contest I wish to participate in, and I need a video. Help me make it good. [more inside]
The bigger they are, the more they run?!
NBA Filter: Why does the PF or C always inbound the ball after a made shot? [more inside]
April 27
Help me find the podcast that's just right!
Podcast recommendations sought! Snarky, humourous, preferably with some sort of informational content. [more inside]
Aussie Dollars to Spend on Hong Kong Electronic Goodies
I"m an Aussie enjoying a high exchange rate and visiting Hong Kong in a few weeks. What electronic goodies should I be purchasing, and any suggestions on how to go about it? [more inside]
dead wrong?
Are there any non-theistic/scientific/philosophical 'afterlife' theories out there? [more inside]
Where in the US should I live for a couple of months this summer?
I can work from anywhere. Hooray! I'd like to sublet an apartment somewhere in the US for a few months this summer. But where? [more inside]
Where to spend a day writing in Sydney
I'm going to be in sydney CBD tomorrow, and would like to find a nice place to sit and work for a few hours. I know about the state library and the various university libraries. I've got a folding bike with me, so I'd be prepared to cycle up to 7km out of the city, or get a short ferry ride.
Curse my metal body, I wasn't fast enough.
I'm looking for a piece of model or miniature painting advice. Please to step into my office.. [more inside]
Favorite non-fiction audiobooks?
Favorite non-fiction audiobooks? [more inside]
Unfortunately All in the Family
Is checking bank statements the best way to find a life insurance policy? Can someone get a life insurance payout if they are not the sole beneficiary? (Family drama below) [more inside]
Paxil can't be that bad, right?
After a year in counseling to address anxiety, my therapist recommended pharmaceutical treatment. My doctor prescribed Paxil. I'm nervous as all get-out about taking it after reading horror stories on the internet. Am I overreacting? [more inside]
NZ hair dye in America?
Where can I get this Schwarzkopf hair dye in America? [more inside]
But on the Internet, no one can hear your introversion.
How should I respond to my employer's suggestion that I may be too quiet to keep my job? [more inside]
What the heck is this song?
Please help me ID this song used in the last episode of a not so popular tv show in 2003... [more inside]
Help us pick a car!
Do you own, or have you owned, a Honda Insight? Would you recommend it? [more inside]
Need an ASP .NET 4.0 webhost
I need a reliable host for a ASP .NET framework 4 website. [more inside]
Should I reduce CPP payable on my taxes?
Quirky Canadian tax question - what's the long term impact of reducing CPP payable? [more inside]
Chess!
Hoping this exists: A website where I can set up a scenario on a chess board and then have it tell me what the next move should be.
Earth gravity in space? How hard could it be...
It's the future and humans live in space stations. What are some ways (real or fictional) that artificial gravity can be created so there will be no weightlessness? [more inside]
Faxing from computer, not machine
Is there a way for someone with a Mac laptop to send and received faxes directly from and to the computer? Is there a service that does this, allowing faxes to be received if the computer is off?
I am procrastinating about this RIGHT NOW
Do you cook alone? Do you enjoy it? I don't have the budget to go out whenever I am alone so I need to learn to make being in the kitchen solo a fun thing. [more inside]
Infertility specialist in the Chicago Loop?
I'm looking for an infertility specialist or reproductive endocrinologist in Chicago, preferably in the loop. Does anyone have any recommendations? [more inside]
Can you recommend interesting/quirky/entertaining daytrips or guided tours?
I went on a really good "alternative" day trip to the Scottish Highlands with this company when I was in Edinburgh last week, and am now looking for recommendations for entertaining and offbeat guided tours and daytrips in other places. There are some good suggestions here for walking tours but I'm also interested in bus/coach/cycling etc.
5...4...3...booze...1...LIFTOFF
Where can I watch the space shuttle launch on Friday in Washington, DC? Or, if there isn't anything going on: shuttle-themed cocktail recipes? [more inside]
An alternative to snacking
Is there an alternative to snacking that one can do while they focus on something else? [more inside]
Database--what words can I use to search for what I need?
Like a heathen, I'm so lost, I don't even know I'm lost.
I think I need a database. But I don't know any proper terminology to search for more information or help. [more inside]
How you say..."chef novel" in German?
What would you call a coming-of-age novel for a chef? In german? [more inside]
Buying property or renting in the UK, in old age.
UK Filter: Can people retire without buying property when younger? [more inside]
Where to host 15 in Paris for a brunch/lunch?
Paris - Looking for a fantastic location to host 15 people for a Sunday brunch/lunch in Paris. Ideally in a terasse/rooftop setting with a fixed menu per person (around 20 euros a head) [more inside]
Limited office safety topics, unlimited office safety meetings
Unconventional safety topics? [more inside]
Is my MacBook battery a ripoff?
Is this laptop battery a ripoff, and how can I be sure? I bought a third party battery for my Macbook. It looks like the original 45Wh battery, but Coconut Battery (and the appropriate ioreg command) report the 'design capacity' as lower than it should be. [more inside]
Places to stay in Boston/Cambridge, May 19-22?
Places to stay in Boston/Cambridge, May 18-22? [more inside]
Dinner date in DC
DC Filter: Affordable and romantic dinner date spots in DC? Warning: Extremely picky criteria inside. [more inside]
Pity the child that can't find a production of his favorite musical
I love the musical "Chess." It is rarely ever produced, though. How or where can I get alerts in my email when a production of "Chess" is in the Los Angeles area? [more inside]
Why not poetry?
This is a question for people who read widely, but don't choose to read poetry. What are you're reasons for not reading the stuff? [more inside]
Why did I have a seizure?
Why did I have a seizure? How do I not do that again? [more inside]
Building a personal library for an autodidactic quiz buff
What books can you recommend that do for their subject what 'A Short History of Nearly Everything' does for science i.e. cover a broad topic in an entertaining and engaging way which is easy for the layperson to understand? I am interested in improving my General Knowledge and want to build a little library of similar books covering topics such as art, film, geography, history, literature, music, philosophy etc. [more inside]
progressions up to a tuck front lever?
I'd like to train for a front lever, but I'm too weak to get my hips up even in tuck (back rounded, knees to chin), even if I try to jump into it. What other exercises can I do to develop a tuck front lever? (I do have access to a weight room, and I'm working on straps rather than rings, if that makes any difference.)
How many arcade games are imported into the United States?
I'm trying to find out how many video arcade games (think coin-operated) are manufactured within the U.S. and how many are imported. Historical data would be very helpful too. [more inside]
Whey protein for energy, not bulking up? theories?
Wondering about using 20garms of Whey in the morning for my "am" food. Will it help me lose weight or expand the benefit of my exercise or does it only make you bulk up? [more inside]
Efficient or lazy?
I wait until, I think a task needs to be done ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY or NO MORE DELAY possible to do anything. [more inside]
Great places to find Kitchen inspiration?
About to purchase my first coop apartment in NYC, and it's desperately in need of a new kitchen, among other things. Mr. Narrative and I would like to go and look at kitchen cabinets and counter-tops and tile and such in person, preferably in a nice-ish store. Where should we go? [more inside]
Have too many people that want to play on sports team, how to manage?
I started a sports team at work and now we have more people who want to play than we have spots on the team. How would you diplomatically handle this? [more inside]
Go on iPad
A well-made Go game app for the iPad (or iPhone)? [more inside]
They're all gonna laugh at me
Is blunt criticism a warning for being fired? I work in a small office where 3 mistakes (mainly numerical errors) I made have been called embarrassing in a 5 month period. This is not a financial sector job. Yes I make more than 1 mistake a month, but what's bothering me is that this specific word has been used by the 3 people I work with most. [more inside]
Planning a return visit to NYC... can you help me with a few very specific questions?
Planning a return visit to NYC... can you help me with a few very specific questions? [more inside]
Does Canada import timber?
Does Canada import timber??? [more inside]
How do you bring cash to a closing?
How does selling an under water house where you bring cash to the closing actually work? What happens if you come up short? [more inside]
Fenway South
How can we amuse ourselves near Camden Yards tomorrow? [more inside]
Learning on the cheap
I have a summer without a full-time job lined up, live near a world-class college campus, and wouldn't mind sitting in on classes. I don't have enough money to actually enroll for non-credit, so I was wondering: what's the general policy is on sitting in on large lecture classes? [more inside]
Trying to find a therapist in Atlanta to help with my reaction to stress
Can a therapist help me find a more productive (or at least less destructive) way to deal with stress? If so, can anyone recommend what style of therapy would address this best or, even better, recommend a specific person or practice in Atlanta? [more inside]
Near Death Experiences - Suicides
For Research - Need Near Death Experiences accounts of people who attempted suicide. [more inside]
Bitten by the travel bug
Is traveling before starting grad school a feasible idea? [more inside]
Keeping auto insurance without a real address?
How do I keep my car insured during an out-of-state relocation that may take a month or two to be complete? [more inside]
Help a dog who's missing his mommy?
How can we help calm this dog's separation anxiety? [more inside]
Is my money lost & gone forever?
Money intended for me was PayPal-ed to the wrong person. Any chance I can get it back? [more inside]
Rushin' Roulette is already taken
Here's another 'what should my roller derby name be?' question. [more inside]
Schenkerian analysis
Teach yourself Schenkerian analysis? [more inside]
What am I?
I'm in the process of being hired on from contractor to full time status. My boss asked me what title I would like. I need some help figuring out what I want to be and how much a person of that title should make. [more inside]
Champions League final in Barcelona?
Where to watch the Champions League Final in Barcelona? [more inside]
Thanks for the 30 reminders that I'm 30 now!
Is it fun to get 30 things for your 30th birthday, or does it just remind you that you're 30 now? [more inside]
Bunting is not enough!
Where in central London can I found the most absurd or obscene Royal Wedding souvenir? [more inside]
Any tips for vacation French immersion courses overseas?
Anyone have any tips or recommendations for French-language learning vacations? [more inside]
Language Geekery: Slavic Edition
Which Slavic language should I study? [more inside]
Trying to find a song from This Week in Science
Does anyone know what the break music during the last several This Week in Science (http://www.twis.org) shows is?
I've asked around and either gotten no response or no one knows. I've tried googling the lyrics as I understand them and I get nothing.
I have to buy a suit?
Can an employer force you to buy clothing that's not related to your job? [more inside]
Need Vacation Ideas!
I need (hopefully inexpensive) mid-Atlantic region vacation ideas. [more inside]
What Was the Name of This Book?!!
Can the Hive help me identify this children's puzzle book from the late 1960's- early 1970's? [more inside]
Where can I see the space shuttle launch?
Where is the best place to see the space shuttle launch in person this Friday? [more inside]
I need suggestions for a ticket system for my website?
I have a small website that im running a local event from and i need a way for people to be able to buy tickets online and for me to check them into the event. My main concern is people sharing tickets so I need some way to prevent fraud and it needs to be super cheap. The sites im running is built on wordpress im wondering is there a plugin or 3rd party service that I can use?
I want to make something that looks pretty gross from 30 feet.
I need food that looks unappetizing but that won't make someone gag. Oh, and I'm making it in a Jello mold. [more inside]
Computer Stuff, no gimmiks
Does anybody know a cheap computer parts store in Santiago, Chile? [more inside]
Developing a writing discipline
Aspiring author here, asking other writing MeFites: how do you write? How do you discipline yourself? What gets you in the Zone? I have no discipline as a writer and depend on random bouts of inspiration, but I'd like to start approaching writing in a more structured way, with a view to (gasp!) publishing one day. [more inside]
what are some really cool optical illusions I can print and put on my wall?
what are some really cool optical illusions I can print and put on my wall? [more inside]
Prog-rock for prog-rammers.
Prog-rammer seeks prog-rock. Help me find some new coding music. [more inside]
April 26
How does one push away from parental control while still maintaining a close emotional relationship?
How do i preserve my relationship with my mother while still making decisions she doesn't approve of? [more inside]
Please help me have comments on my Blosxom blog
You: Someone who knows how to set up a blog _with comments_ using Blosxom. Me: Apparently, a blithering idiot.
Help! I wanted to set up a very simple blog for updates for my web page. The blog software my webhost offers is "Blosxom". The blog is fine, but I want comments, and I'm totally failing to manage this with the Blosxom plug-ins. [more inside]
You gave me life but it belongs to me now
How do I stop feeling responsible to my family for keeping myself safe and guitly for taking risks? [more inside]
Day trip advice: Twin Cities, Minnesota
I'm traveling to St. Paul, Minnesota I'll have a bunch of free time and a rental car. I would love recommendations for a day trip! [more inside]
How to motivate or force an ADD student to self-study?
I'm a college student with pretty serious ADD who's doing an Independent Study contract in a sink-or-swim situation on a topic I love and am motivated to research. However, I can't actually bring myself to start to do it seriously, and have wasted nearly half the quarter. Stress is mounting, time is nigh, my ability to follow my own schedules near-zero so far. How do I salvage this? [more inside]
Help me be an adult!
What books/websites would you recommend for a recent college grad trying to navigate the practicalities of being a young adult, such as building credit, taking care of a car, wiring lighting, etc. [more inside]
Is there an office game being played here?
Is there an office game being played here? [more inside]
How do I go about getting a master's in Counseling?
What is the best way to get into the counseling field? [more inside]
Visiting baseball team hotel in Denver.
Can anyone tell me where the visiting baseball teams stay in Denver? I'm coming there in May and want to stay in the same hotel as the Giants.
Birds? Those are dinosaurs!
Can'tFindThisVideoAgainFilter: YouTube, perhaps; within last 6 months. A couple of guys go back in time (!) and keep a diary. They return to the present and assert that birds are just dinosaurs. Pretty sure the punchline was something close to my tagline above. Much better than as described...
What is the best vehicle for a Dad and his young daughter to take on driving adventures?
What is the best cheap(ish) camper/rv/vehicle appropriate for a Dad and his young daughter to take on driving adventures? [more inside]
Help with CSS for Wordpress
I'm trying to help my friend put together a simple site, using wordpress as a platform for a static site/CMS. I'm having trouble moving the header (and all the content below it I suppose) to the top of the screen, 3px from the top. Could anyone help me by looking at the source code? [more inside]
What should I get my wife for graduating from a Master's program for fiction writing?
What should I get my wife as a gift for graduating from a Master's program for fiction writing? [more inside]
Missing Friend
Any ideas for finding a lost Chinese friend? [more inside]
FSM prop
I'd like to make a giant prop Flying Spaghetti Monster for my school's atheist student group, to present during the fall organization fair. How do I go about this? [more inside]
Hothead wondering whether university faculty or reputation.
Should an incipient PhD student shoot for the adviser or the program? [more inside]
I just want to go to work happy...
Work drama! How to integrate two distinct factions in a new team? [more inside]
Where to meet interesting 30-somethings in Boston?
Where to meet interesting 30-somethings in Boston? [more inside]
Who was the controversial boy preacher from the 1990s?
For a brief period in the early 1990s there was a young boy, perhaps 10 or so, who seemed to be featured in a different story on CNN Headline News every other day. Each had the same underlying theme: Boy Preacher Causes Controversy. Eventually, there was a climax: Outside his school he told his principal, "You go to Hell.;" However, Boy Preacher was steadfast in his suspension of reality, "I said, 'You will go to Hell.' I never said, 'You go to Hell.'" Then he entered in into a religious refractory period, and there has been no excitement for about 20 years. What was his name? What is he doing today? What was the big deal, anyway? [more inside]
Advice about Guardianship
Can you recommend resources regarding Guardianship proceedings for an autistic child turning 18 at the end of the year? (You are not my lawyer, I'm not looking for legal advice, I am seeing a lawyer next week; here I am just looking for advice / experiences from other families who have been through this process.) [more inside]
Show the Love Inexpensively
A week of gifts that don't break the bank? [more inside]
Am I crazy to even consider switching from Verizon to AT&T for the iPhone?
I'm a longtime Verizon customer. Due to one of those "AUGH" instances, missed out on upgrading to the iPhone (details inside). I'm considering switching TO AT&T just to get an iPhone. Is this completely nuts? [more inside]
Christian tumblr recommendations
I want to follow more Christian tumblr blogs. Can you recommend any that have good quotes and/or write substantial blog posts? I would prefer a minimum of politics. [more inside]
I see dead people's websites.
What are the best "zombie" websites? I'm looking for interesting examples of password-protected blogs, facebook pages, etc., that were frozen in time upon the owner's demise (or incarceration/disappearance), but which still stay alive (and interesting) in the comments. Or, the sites of dead people that have been taken over by friends/fans, and are updated regularly. [more inside]
Insurance help?
Deer hunting with my BMW was expensive! Insurance question from a former insurance agent who has forgotten the rules... [more inside]
Help me save my orchid!
What's wrong with my orchid? [more inside]
Old paycheck found, now what?
What should I do about an old paycheck of mine I just found? [more inside]
Around the world in 200 books
I'd like to read a book about each country's history, ideally one offering as comprehensive of a timeline as possible. My goal is to get a brief overview of the history of a region rather than a specific focus on any singularly important event.
I'm looking for specific suggestions for any and all countries. Since that is a fairly wide net to cast, I'd settle for the best choices on the countries with the longest and most interesting histories and/or specifically interesting books.
I have a Kindle, so bonus points for books available in that format.
What's up with my ac?
Leaking central air conditioner. We live in Austin, and it's been in the 90s for the past week or so. During this time, the air conditioner (central air, not window unit) has had some water surrounding the bottom, which is now seeping through the base of the wall onto the other side. What's going on? [more inside]
Cargo Van/Truck Month-Plus Rental
Forgive terseness. Rent a cargo van or box truck for more than a month. Take some gear from Washington, DC to Phoenix, AZ. Shoot a movie. Take gear back to DC. Total of around 36 days. [more inside]
Help me with my adorable new kitty!
How do I care for a kitten who may have been taken too early from his mother? I've never cared for anything younger than a year old, and now I have an 8 week old kitten. [more inside]
Stop Motion Emergency!
I'm making a stop-motion film, and my camera (a Nikon D40) died mid-shoot. A friend loaned us a different camera (a Nikon D300), and I'm having trouble figuring out what settings I need to change in order to get the same look as my old camera had. Please help me, metafilter! [more inside]
Keeping it backed up and in synch
Continuous Backup of external drives OS X 10.6 - best system? [more inside]
Yippie!
What is the current status of the Youth International Party? (No, I don't mean what can be found via Google.) Who if anyone would need be involved in reviving that group under that name? I am not looking for speculation here, but actual contacts.
Calorie tracker to use with usb barcode scanner
I have a usb barcode scanner. I'd like to know if there is some kind of web application (or a program that I can download) whereby I scan the barcode of a particular food item and the nutritional information is retrieved. In particular, I'm interested in this so I can keep track of my calorie intake. I've done some searching and found a few iphone apps. However, I don't have an iphone (or any kind of cell phone), so these don't really work for me.
See that, officer? I told you it was a UFO.
I'm looking to buy a dashcam, just out of general geekiness and paranoia. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Can TikiWiki handle my very specific project?
Will TikiWiki (or similar software) work for my rather specific needs, or do I need to build something myself? [more inside]
What happens when Animal Control shows up?
What happens when a dog bite gets reported to the state of Pennsylvania? [more inside]
Help me find a webcomic and a webstory
I cannot remember a webcomic that I am sure I found while surfing through metafiltered waters. I also cannot remember a short story that I am also sure I discovered through similar means. Help me, O-Me-Fi, you're my only hope. [more inside]
[citation needed]
Do in-text citations made using MLA style necessarily include parentheses? [more inside]
just good not good enough
How can I advance from a pretty good writer to really good writer? [more inside]
Dealing with suicidal clients?
In my law practice, I regularly encounter clients who are despondent and suicidal. I don't feel that I am well prepared for dealing with this issue. Without considering the ethical issues as to disclosure, what is the best course of action when dealing with a client who tells you that they're considering suicide? What resources are available as a guide to dealing with a suicidal client? [more inside]
The Easter bunny is on the lam
How to capture a domestic bunny that was released into the wild? [more inside]
Toxin-free low rent vermiculture
I'd like to use hard PVC piping to make a worm tower for my garden - how safe is this? [more inside]
Soft top convertible without a garage?
Is it just flat out stupid to get a soft top convertible if you don't have a garage and live in NY (or more generically, a place where it snows a few times a year)? [more inside]
Forced to redecorate the bedroom. Halp!
So. This renovation just keeps getting worse. Now the bedroom is involved. Help me brainstorm new flooring, wall color, and keep me sane. [more inside]
Steam Heat
I'm about to sign a lease on a commercial space that has radiator heating. The landlord wants us to pay one third of the heating costs for the building, as the space takes up the ground floor of a three story building.
At first this seemed logical to me, then I thought about it a bit... [more inside]
Is there an Ipod Classic Cemetery?
My old Ipod Classic has been slow to start lately, and at times couldn't be stopped without a reset. Today, however, it started making a sad sound reminiscent of a spinning disk scraping against cardboard, interrupted by occasional quiet mournful beeps and a cute icon of a sad Ipod, along with the apple website support address. It does not seem to be able to restart, no matter what.
So -- do I take it somewhere (?where?) for repairs/refurbishment or give it a decent burial -- and if the latter, what does one do with an Ipod loaded with personal stuff which can't be restarted or wiped?
How can I make calls on my android without using up my minutes, via siproid or google voice?
How can I make calls on my android without using up my minutes, via sipdroid and/or google voice? [more inside]
Looking for a meditation radio show
Looking for a meditation radio show [more inside]
How do I hide a computer when I’m not using it?
How do I hide a computer when I’m not using it? I want to use a PC in the living area of my house but not leave electronics in plain sight. [more inside]
Spoilers!
Are there any examples of particularly elegant implementations of "spoiler tags" out there that work well with both screen readers and touch/mobile based site designs?
Taxonomy or list of English grammatical constructs?
Taxonomy (or just a list) of English grammatical constructs suitable for use as a checklist for a second language learner? [more inside]
Do we need a Living Trust?
In California, what are the benefits of a Revocable Living Trust and a will? [more inside]
Home security systems for dummies.
Home security systems for dummies. [more inside]
Is there a way to 'short' higher education?
Is there a 'bubble' in higher education? By that I mean, are there too many colleges right now, who are charging too much for tuition, and too many people paying too much for degrees, and taking loans that they will never be able to pay off? And assuming that there is such a bubble, and it were to burst, how would a deeply cynical person invest to make money on the collapse in the way that some savvy people made money on the housing market collapse?
Let's....Let's Play Together
What Two-player cooperative apps are there for the iPad and iPod Touch? [more inside]
post p90x plan
If P90X worked for you, what did you do after you finished the program? [more inside]
Impersonal Gift Ideas Needed
I need a completely generic, impersonal thank you gift for a boss with whom I spend a ton of time but about whom I know next to nothing. [more inside]
Hit me up with your 1 or 2 day Boston area trip suggestions!
Decent 1 or 2 day trips from Boston area? [more inside]
Should I report my Nanny to CPS
I am concerned that my son's Nanny may have gotten high while looking after my son. Should I report this to CPA/CPS? [more inside]
Treemaps that can use an image for each node.
Any treemap / other visualization software that can use a named image file to represent each node? [more inside]
That... sounds... gooey and romantic.
Help me plan a swanky superdate in Cleveland! [more inside]
Nanny Time
I'll be watching my friend's 1 year old for 6 hours a day (9-3), 5 days a week for the summer. I'll be bringing my 11 month old to her house.
Our kids get along well and her place is well baby-proofed. I bought a double jogger and she bought an extra high chair and car seat.
I've never dealt with two babies before and I need advice. [more inside]
Are there companies that sell access to nutritional information databases that I could subscribe to that a smartphone app could make use of via scanning bar codes and performing certain custom calculations?
When someone makes an Android/iPhone app that scans a food product's bar code and returns nutrition information on that food from a database, who made that database? I can see Weight Watchers doing their own, but surely not everybody reinvents the wheel on this every time somebody makes an app that does something similar. Does anyone sell access to such a database? If so, who is that? [more inside]
Am I screwing myself financially long-term if I go for a cheapie uncontested divorce?
Am I screwing myself financially in the long run if I go for a cheapie quickie uncontested divorce? [more inside]
The numbers are on my side, right? Do these numbers exist?
What are the chances that my pregnancy will be normal and I'll have a healthy baby? I'm not asking for fortune-telling; I'm asking for statistics. [more inside]
How to illustrate U.S. public debt?
How would you illustrate the U.S. public debt of $14 trillion in a concrete way? [more inside]
This thing makes a polio-stricken girl in a field look positively cheerful
Is 'Psychology of Incompetence' competent?
Is Norman Dixon's On The Psychology Of Military Incompetence still considered to be an accurate portrayal of organisational psychology? [more inside]
ISO Jesus for Dummies, Jr.
Is there a book (or books) that explains Christianity that's suitable for an atheist 10 year old? [more inside]
Seattle's weather goddess is a cruel, cruel mistress.
Help me deal with my debilitating S.A.D. that is worse in the transition between winter/spring (now!) [more inside]
Learning to use computers in Spanish.
Is there a good Spanish-language primer/course/guide for beginners wanting to learn Windows? [more inside]
How should I respond on a wedding invite if I do not have a date yet?
How should I respond on a wedding invite if I do not have a date yet? [more inside]
career choice
Career Counseling: What is the best resource for finding out what people actually do? Your job isn't your title or what you know, but what you sit there and do all day long. [more inside]
photocopying textbooks?
I have been asked to explain to a group of college students the consequences of copyright violation. Specifically, the consequences of photocopying entire textbooks instead of buying them. I know it's illegal because it deprives the publisher of the opportunity to make money off of the book, but what are the legal consequences? Do publishers really ever sue individual college students over illegal photocopying of their books? [more inside]
Civilian deployment blog?
I'm looking for a blog about a civilian embarking on a short-term deployment to Afghanistan (or Iraq?) in some sort of support role—I think he was involved in engineering or computer modeling or mapping or something similar. I believe he was either a MeFite or was mentioned somewhere on MetaFilter. Anyone have a link? [more inside]
Great Gift Ideas for a Road Warrior
Gift ideas for a friend who is on the road constantly? [more inside]
Help me clean my car!
What products and methods should I use to go about cleaning the interior of a car? [more inside]
Tracking with informed consent
I really want this job...
A friend of mine put me in touch through email with someone who works at a company I'd like to work for. She told me to send her my resume and she'd bring it in for me (awesome!). I haven't got a response to an email asking her if she had brought it in. Should I send it (again?) through more official channels? [more inside]
Cereal = Soup?
Is cereal a soup? [more inside]
Are we crazy to camp...?
Will it be too cold to stay in a campervan in August in Victoria, Australia? [more inside]
Looking for a tablet for video, word and and pdfs. Not an iPad.
Looking for a tablet-like media device that plays ripped DVDs, and easily saves and views PDFs and Word docs to take with me travelling. Fitting in a small carry bag would be great as well.
Difficulty: Not an iPad. [more inside]
Cheaper to buy a local cellphone while travelling?
I'm travelling in the US (Los Angeles) from Canada. What are my phone options? i'm sick of paying my local company's roaming charges. Can I buy a phone in LA that'll have full data/text/voice options for a month? If so, what'll it cost me? Can I just buy a chip for my iPhone for that month with no contract? (And if so, what's the best way to unlock it). Also, is there a way to forward SMS/text messages sent to my Toronto number? [more inside]
Where to stay during summerfest?
Summerfest in Milwaukee questions. Where to stay and what to do? [more inside]
How do I grab an unused domain?
How do I grab a domain that is currently parked but not in use? [more inside]
Latin help
Quick Latin translation help needed! [more inside]
Fetish... Anxiety... Asexuality... Help?!
A fetish is causing me a great deal of anxiety, could anyone help me figure out how to deal with this? [more inside]
Navigating job offer timelines?
I interviewed for a seasonal job and an internship. I was offered the job, and haven't heard about the internship. I would prefer the internship. They told me they would get back to me this week.... is it okay to contact them and ask if they've made a decision? [more inside]
Am I moving to a decent apartment or a human kiln?
Has anyone survived a Texas summer (or a similar hell-like environment) living in a second story 110 year old building that has floor vents for air conditioning? Yeehaw. [more inside]
YANAD/YANMD – Was I mis-diagnosed?
Last Thursday and Friday I had really bad pain in my back on the right side, in the middle – just about where the ribcage ends. I had a low-grade fever on Friday evening. On Saturday morning I decided that the pain was bad enough to necessitate a trip to an Urgent Care facility, as my doctor does not have weekend hours. [more inside]
Fast Keystroke Navigation in Windows
Is there an open source or shareware program like Quickjump? allowing jumping to a folder with a few keystrokes? [more inside]
How does Bates Numbering on exam papers reduce the possibility of cheating in universities?
How does Bates Numbering on exam papers reduce the possibility of cheating in universities? [more inside]
GPS....
Help me understand GPS devices for cars. [more inside]
My fiancee would murder me if I murdered the baby birds.
When can I fix this hole in my house without killing the baby birds? [more inside]
Help us name our health site/blog
Please suggest names for a healthy living website... [more inside]
Dropping out of grad school
I'm planning to drop out of grad school in a few weeks. My questions is, when do I tell my advisor? I would wait until the last day of the semester, but I have a big presentation that will require my thesis committee member's time. I really don't want to do this presentation so would telling my advisor before this happens be a good idea? I also feel it would be more decent of me to tell my advisor sooner rather than later, but I'm not sure what to do. My advisor can be really mean and may make my life a living hell for the final weeks/days that I'm there (though I guess I deserve it). Any insight is greatly appreciated.
Look at this face, what do you see?
Please help name my Italian Greyhound puppy before he develops a major identity crisis. [more inside]
Help looking for a sci-fi story?
I'm looking for a web novel/short story: sci-fi, underwater research facility, end of society, etc. [more inside]
Traveling from Nepal to Tibet: during monsoon season? Seeking tour and advice
Traveling from Nepal to Tibet: during monsoon season? Seeking tour and advice [more inside]
Places for great photos in South Wales?
Places in South Wales for photo-hungry tourists? [more inside]
Help me find a half-remembered article
Half-remembered-article-filter: Being a single male in your 40s. [more inside]
Girl...on a budget...very shallow pockets...moving across country...what is the safest/cheapest way to get this accomplished?
How does one move across country with the least amount of headaches possible? [more inside]
I want to sail around Australia. Help me!
I'd like to circumnavigate Australia in a sail boat one day. What's the best way to learn about sailing to prepare me for the trip? what do I need to know to survive? and more... [more inside]
Actually, I just don't like you.
Someone I don't like has asked what she did to make me not like her - should I tell her the truth or just gloss over it? [more inside]
April 25
mandarin-english dictionary with unicode
Looking for chinese english dictionary with unicode code points [more inside]
Hi, how are you?
What do you say to friends or acquaintances when passing each other while walking in opposite directions? [more inside]
Croatia to the EU?
Croatia to the EU? [more inside]
How do I change my life from an immature lax kid to a mature responsible man?
I need help with my life especially what's going on with me nowadays. How to defeat my fear of failure? How should I start living a fresh life? How do I actually start? [more inside]
Please help me figure out how to get from Paris to Chamonix and back, via train.
Please help me figure out how to get from Paris to Chamonix and back, via train, 2 weeks from today. [more inside]
Where do the really good custom CMS creators show off their work?
Where can I read about the craft of deploying really well-designed, client-appropriate content management solutions for the web? [more inside]
Believe Me If All These Endearing Charms sounds like Home on the Range
Why do parts of the song Believe Me, If All These Endearing Young Charms sound like Home on the Range? [more inside]
Please help me be happy in Kalispell.
I got a sweet internship in Kalispell, MT going from mid-June through July. I've never been up there - what should I know, see, and do? [more inside]
Not Another Nicholas Nickelby
What are some characters named Nicholas in well known, or hopefully famous, works of literature? [more inside]
Who can I hire in Portland to convert an analog slideshow to digital?
One of my aunts has a slideshow of her life (meaning actual slides in a slide projector) that has been matched with some music on cassette tapes. My aunt's family would like this transferred to DVD. They lack the technical know-how and money to get this done, so they've turned to me for help. If I had time, I could convert the slides and cassettes to digital format. I don't have time. I do have money, though. Can you recommend a company in Portland, Oregon that will convert an analog slideshow to digital? Cost is no object, really. If there are no good options in Portland, I'm willing to consider shipping this elsewhere to get the work accomplished.
Am I a jerk/idiot for wanting the ultimate man-cave... my own place!?
Am I a jerk/idiot for wanting the ultimate man-cave... my own place!? [more inside]
Dear new friend.
I would like to be a Mid-East soldier's internet pen pal. [more inside]
Opening a Can Should Be Easy
Best hand operated can opener ever! Recommendations? [more inside]
Help me find globe string lights
How to switch apps well on a Mac?
I just bought my first Mac (Leopard). It seems like Command + tab to switch applications is way less useful than Ctrl + tab was on my Windows--I don't really want to tab between things I've shut but not closed (or however you say it), and repeatedly four-finger swiping to view all open apps makes me have to look for which one I want every time, which is slow. Am I missing something?
I've got nothing but time...
What would you do with 2 months and $2000? [more inside]
Truck + BBQ = Name?
Challenge: The BEST name for a food truck serving excellent BBQ? [more inside]
Pharmaceutical Companies in Denver?
ColoradoFilter: Who are the major industrial players in Colorado, specifically the Denver region? Are any pharmaceutical companies big there? I may be dragging the SO to Boulder with me for law school, and he needs a job in this field. (slightly more inside!) [more inside]
Computer ignoramus at the helm over here.
How do I make videos to put on Vimeo when I just have audio? [more inside]
Getting business cards
Where is the best place to get embossed business cards? [more inside]
Help me look cute while not getting the evil Grandma eye!
Find me a dress, chubby tattooed girl version. [more inside]
Where should newlyweds travel over the Christmas holiday?
Where should newlyweds travel over the Christmas holiday? My fiancée and I are going to spend our first Christmas together as a married couple apart from our families. We are trying to decide where we should go. We aren't looking to do something on a super small budget (like no hostels, shared showers, etc.), but we also can't spend an obscene amount. We enjoy beaches, food, culture, and maybe some adventure. We are going to Mexico for our honeymoon so that is out. We are traveling from NYC if that influences your ideas. We welcome all suggestions. Thanks in advance.
Casual off-site conference meetup in New Orleans
Looking for a place in New Orleans to host a casual meetup during a conference. Any ideas? [more inside]
wine and dash?
name-this-really-long-fundraising-run filter! featuring: wine and a really great cause. [more inside]
But what if I CAN'T make it there?
I just graduated, and I have an opportunity to live rent-free in NYC for a couple of months while looking for work. Can you think of a reason this is a bad idea? [more inside]
Vegetarian+Office+South Beach?
Office-lunch-friendly South Beach food for vegetarians? [more inside]
Small fire pit inside gazebo... bad idea??
Is it possible to put a small fire pit underneath a metal/fabric gazebo? [more inside]
F yeah starting a community garden
Give me a crash course (links, personal experiences) in helping start a community garden! [more inside]
Splitting Disneyland Tickets?
Can two people split up a two-day Disneyland ticket? [more inside]
Longer, place-oriented fruitcake books. Panforte?
Getting songs on Beatport
How do you go about releasing songs on Beatport? [more inside]
Why do I tear up my shoes like this??
Why do I tear up my shoes like this??
I do this to all of my tennis shoes. Is there an insert or something that I can place in my shoes to help stop this nonsense?
dye that "ran" a bit---health hazard?
I recently Rit-dyed a silk outfit for a special reception. The dye "ran" a bit at the underarms, staining my undergarment. Is this a health hazard? [more inside]
SF Filter: Where can I find more SF in the vein of Peter Watt's "The Island"?
SF Filter: Where can I find more science fiction in the vein of Peter Watt's "The Island"? [more inside]
Spiders Terrify Me, but I Want One as a Pet
I'm considering getting a spider as a pet. A tarantula of some sort. Can anybody provide some tips for me? [more inside]
Help me ride a broken raft...
Is there a good (definitive or even just interesting, really...) companion reader to Ezra Pound's Pisan Cantos? [more inside]
How do I properly show 2 addresses?
Two addresses.
The physical address the other the mailing address. How do I show this in my letterhead? Business card? Invoices? I'm stumped.
Words like "birther"
Is there a canonical list of words like "birther" and "truther"? [more inside]
I need my web site translated into Spanish
I need to have my web site translated into Spanish. Is there an online service that will do this cheaply and that I can trust? [more inside]
Tips on Fighting Irrational Anxious Thoughts?
I struggle greatly with anxiety and am on a crazy amount of meds simply to sleep and relax. I am doing things to get through such as exercise, yoga and breath/meditating. One of the things that I read and have been implementing is answering 'cognitive distortions' with reality-based answers. Basically, I think I'm helpless (it spirals from an event to "I'm going to lose my job" all the way to "I'm not going to make it"). I've read the books like Feeling Good and do techniques on paper but am not sure how to think realistically and come up with any responses that I believe. This has been going on for some time. Any others who struggle and have tips on how you have tackled cognitive distortions (aka Bullshit Thoughts)? I am not in a hurry and am willing to put in solid effort. I am asking for help but am willing to try to believe I'm not helpless in the long haul. (BTW, I haven't been able to afford a counselor....yet.)
Advice for getting through the mid-twenties identity crisis?
What has helped you get through the identity crisis that sometimes occurs in your twenties/thirties? What has helped you form your sense of who you are as an entity separate from your parents/schooling? [more inside]
How to get a postdoc position in the social sciences
I'm interested in potentially pursuing a postdoc and have no idea how the process works! I'm completing my PhD in the social sciences in Canada and wondering how one goes about getting these positions and if I can secure my own funding, can I go anywhere? [more inside]
What do I do after my automatic sprinkler goes off?
What do you do after an automatic sprinkler in your home gets activated? [more inside]
Sloth much?
How can I be more active in my daily life? [more inside]
Like a sitcom, but in my ears
Scripted comedy podcasts? [more inside]
When is it necessary to write a cover letter?
When is it necessary to write a cover letter? [more inside]
rap lyric disambiguation
we can’t figure this out… is the guy saying “simply to simplifiy” or “simply the semper fi” at [nsfw/violent lyrics] this timestamp at 3m30s
Guitar -> ??? -> iPad -> audio files
What connection kit and software do you recommend for amp modeling and recording guitar on iOS? I'd like to plug the guitar into the connector, pick an amp, record stuff, then get the audio files either off the device or into other apps for mixing.
artfilter question - help identify this painting from the museum of art fort lauderdale
looking for clarification on this painting i recently spotted in ft. lauderdale. i assume it is a robert henri, which is why i snapped it, but then ingeniously neglected to check.
Going it alone following adrenal vein sampling (AVS).
Once my ride home from the hospital drops me off, what should I expect to be unable to do by myself after my adrenal vein sampling procedure? [more inside]
Mrs. Betty Draper
What do I need to be a good corporate wife? [more inside]
How many hats is one person supposed to wear?
Am I incompetent or being pulled in too many directions? Very long, I'm afraid. [more inside]
Not Constantinople
I’m beginning to think about a trip to Istanbul (from the DC area) in September or October (dates somewhat flexible). Detailed questions and background inside… [more inside]
The best classic/progressive rock vinyl albums?
Recommendations for the best prog/classic rock vinyl albums? [more inside]
How to become an omnivore...and like it?
An adult friend of mine is very, very picky about food. She doesn't eat any vegetables in their recognizable forms (e.g. hates tomatoes, but tomato sauce is no problem). Fruits, meats, dairy and other starchy stuff (bread, potatoes, rice, etc.) are all OK, but she'll gag on a piece of lettuce.
What can she do to expand her tastes? Is it as simple as forcing yourself to eat a tomato once a day, or is there any pattern for how people can learn to appreciate more foods? [more inside]
Seeking a poem about blurry vision
I am looking for a poem I read once online about an artist (Matisse? Gaugin?) who confronts his eye doctor about not wanting to wear eyeglasses. In the poem, the artist talks about how his blurry vision allows him to experience the world as connected. It's a really beautiful poem, but I can't find it through all of the eyeglasses spam on Google.
Can anyone point me to the poem?
Any tips on Harris Wofford?
Graduation gift ideas: Does anyone have the contact information for Former Senator Harris Wofford? Or alternatively, any old campaign memorabilia? [more inside]
What's a great sewing class for this summer???
For sewing/textile geeks out there: My summer just opened up and I have the time and financial resources to take an awesome class somewhere in something. Any recommendations??? [more inside]
Weird interviewing situation.
I really think I got screwed during my grad school interview. Should I try to remedy it, or will that just look like I'm being a spoilsport? [more inside]
Baby shower play list
I'd like to put together a play list of songs that you probably shouldn't play at a baby shower. [more inside]
Proximity between homes and schools
X% of people live within Y miles of a public school. Where can I find datapoints for X and Y? [more inside]
Tracking Devices: How do they bleepin' work?
Follow-up: What could temporarily block or disable the tracking anklet my fictional character is wearing? [more inside]
Trying to get to the root of what's causing my dog's reoccurring discharge.
Can you help me identify this reoccurring discharge my dog is having? Pictures included. [more inside]
SNL Sketch About No Yes
Does it bother anyone else when people say "Yeah. No." or vice versa? Saturday Night Live spoofed this in the last few years. Help me find the sketch or other examples of people criticizing this recent-ish sentence structure. [more inside]
Have you ever taken Enbrel?
I may start taking Enbrel to treat moderate-to-severe psoriasis (no - knock on wood - arthritis to date), and I'm wondering if anyone here has experience with it. [more inside]
Fat pills for the fatty
I suspect I have Body Dysmorphic Disorder and Avoidant Personality Disorder. My current psychiatrist is only treating me for Social Anxiety/selective mutism. During our first session he did not focus on what I consider to be the disorders causing me to remain homebound and avoidant of people. [more inside]
Buddhist Mythology
Recommendation for a book of Buddhist mythology? [more inside]
Recommendations for Bay Area libraries to visit
My friend and I are going on a driving tour of awesome/strange/compelling Bay Area libraries and we're looking for recommendations. The only one on the list so far is the Mills College rare books room. We're open to special libraries, public libraries, academic . . . . the only criteria is that it is not actually in San Francisco (since we have use of a car for the day we don't want to waste it on things she can access via public transportation). Recommendations?
Woofers shake uncontrollably at moderate volumes with turntable source; why?
When increasing the amplifier volume beyond a certain level, my speakers' woofers begin to shake spasmodically when my turntable is the source. However, the same problem doesn't occur with a digital source at higher volumes. What's goin' ahn? [more inside]
Employee with mental health issues.
Need advice on handling an employee's mental health issue. [more inside]
Gonna need an ocean…of calamine lotion
Three weeks ago, I was exposed to poison ivy, and it wound up going systemic on me. I am going to be placing myself at risk of exposure again, and need to limit the damage. There is a product called Oral Ivy that has been recommended to me as a preventative. I have questions. [more inside]
Ultra-portable toss-up
ThinkPad X120e or Asus Transformer?
Lightroom capability on the Thinkpad?
Honeycomb photo apps? [more inside]
I don't even get past the second song on my playlist...
I can't run for more than 3 minutes or so without getting shin splints - what's going on, and how can I fix it? [more inside]
Please tell me more about project management
What are some of the project management best practices? Are there tools that can help keep a program manager aware of details or is this a characteristic of the person? If I wanted to hire a project manager, what should I look for to get a good/skilled person? Are there contract/independent project managers? [more inside]
Help me with life choices!
Help me with my life problem! I want to move, my husband does not. [more inside]
What happens if Korean immigration refuses my tourist visa?
What happens if Korean immigration refuses my tourist visa? I am a Canadian living in Korea using tourist visas. I am doing online university from Canada and I am not working illegally. I have an apartment in Korea and I am worried that if I get rejected for some reason, I will have no way to get my things. [more inside]
job interview in France, help me avoid awkwardness
What should I know about french cultural conventions in the context of a job interview? [more inside]
Will Kindle Demons Eat My Baby?
I want to self-publish my urban fantasy novel, but I'm worried about shooting myself in the foot with a number of decisions. [more inside]
Best iPhone apps
What are the very best (i.e. most useful) iPhone apps in these specific categories? [more inside]
Oh, it's THAT song!
What are some melodies or samples that everyone recognizes but most people don't know the origin of? [more inside]
Extended low grade fever - when is it doctor time?
Low grade fever for 10 days with (mostly) no other symptoms. When is it doctor time? [more inside]
How to move songs in a playlist to an external drive on a Mac?
How to move a single playlist worth of music from my iMac to an external drive... ? [more inside]
Vegans and carnivores, living together ...
Where can vegans and carnivores get some good food together in NYC? [more inside]
I hope that someone gets my, I hope that someone gets my, message in a...
When my girlfriend checks into her hotel in Europe a couple months from now, I'd like her to have a letter from me waiting on her, is this possible to arrange? [more inside]
How to watch my dog at home when I'm at work?
Is there a good iphone app that will allow me to use my Mac's built in camera (or multiple Macs cameras) to monitor my home? I need an app that will record both audio and video (and save them to my computer) not just play sound when I am monitoring it through my phone. [more inside]
What are some accounts of black slavery in America?
What are some good recent fictional and non-fictional accounts of African-American slavery in pre-Civil War America? [more inside]
Selling with "World" Music
Asking for a student: we're looking for TV commercials that have any kind of identifiably "world music" or more generally non-western musical styles in their soundtracks. [more inside]
How do I help my parents from several states away?
How do I stop having extreme anxiety when I think about the fact that I live 1,500 miles away from aging parents? [more inside]
What are little things I can do each day to lower the amount in which I care what people think of me?
What are little things I can do each day to lower the amount in which I care what people think of me? [more inside]
what the heck are these things?
Please help me identify the device seen here (3 pics) what i'm looking for is the specific brand etc. [more inside]
Tell me about yourself
Following from this question, how do you approach and answer the classic interview questions? I am looking for specific examples / tactics around questions like: Tell me about yourself? How do you deal with ambiguity? How did you manage a difficult personality? How do you deal with competing priorities? How do you influence people? Any of the examples in the aforementioned thread are fair game. I am interested in both your specific answers but also your general approach / goal in answering the question. Personal anecdotes a plus!
Where can I sell used DVDs in Canada?
Where can I sell used DVDs in Canada? [more inside]
Trader Joes for the Preggos
Help me put together a care package for a pregnant friend based on shopping at Trader Joe's. [more inside]
How to Spend My Mid-Spring Staycation
You live in New York City. (Brooklyn, to be exact.) You have two weeks of unemployment before you start a new job, during which you can do WHATEVER YOU WANT. You don't have a car, so staying within the realm of public transportation is important. Where do you go? What do you do? [more inside]
I'm going to be in Venice for the next week and a half! Please give me some recommendations for food and sightseeing. Thanks!
Hi all. I am looking for recommendations for food in Venice (anything from a Paninoteca to a Ristorante). I've read that it is difficult to find good food in Venice, so I'm hoping the Metafilter hive mind can help me out. In addition, any recommendations for sightseeing would be great. Especially non-traditional/off the beaten path stuff. Thanks again.
Parking in Boston
I'm currently apartment-hunting in Boston, and have a question about how street-parking works (specifically, in the winter). [more inside]
Party like it's 1991 in a maternity ward.
Where in south east Asia can 16 adults - half 20s, half 40s - have a good time for a week. Requirements: beach and relaxation for all, nightclubs and shopping for some. Not too overblown but not too quiet and within a day's easy travel of a main airport. Hotel / resort / villa recommendations welcome. Budget up to US/Aus $70 per person per night. [more inside]
Resources for making handmade jewellery (earrings)
Looking for information about making handmade jewellery (earrings) - resources, tips, help, suggestions, etc. [more inside]
Disappearing Files
Is iTunesU supposed to act like this (ie: auto-delete after a single play)? [more inside]
April 24
Why is my belly so pootchy?
Suggestions for reducing a pootchy far-post-pregnancy belly? [more inside]
How do I translate "販売、サービス 改善部 into English?
How would you translate 販売、サービス改善部 (kaizenbu) into English? [more inside]
What did your personal trainer teach you about getting fit?
What did your personal trainer teach you about getting fit? [more inside]
Have you had sedation dentistry? Can you tell me about it?
Have you had sedation dentistry? Can you tell me about it? [more inside]
Memorable Mothers' Day
My best friend's husband has asked for help finding a first Mother's Day gift. We're at a loss. Hope him? [more inside]
"Josh got caught... awww-deeeeeee!"
As a kid, did you say, "aww-dee" when someone got in trouble? [more inside]
Name that classical tune!
Most TI-99 games used classical tunes for their music. I'm trying to identify the main theme from the game Alpiner, which can be found here. I'm also trying to identify the tune that plays when you conquer the last mountain, which I couldn't find online but reproduced from memory here. Any ideas? [more inside]
Double vision-- double vomit
Pukey kitties: when is it normal and when do we go to the vet? [more inside]
What do I do about someone squirting glue into the locks of my house?
What do I do about someone squirting glue into the locks of my house? [more inside]
How Can I Make This Chart in Excel 2010?
Can you help me change the color on part of a chart in Excel 2010? [more inside]
Dental Work Fail
Help! My old dentist screwed up my teeth and now I live 500 miles away and need a possible root canal. Is there any way to get a reimbursement for the work that was done? [more inside]
Songs of Babel
Hearing the same song or melody done in disparate languages fascinates me. What are some songs that have been covered in multiple languages? [more inside]
Half my advertising budget is wasted...on one billboard
You know those amazing billboards with moving parts and 3D effects and breaking the 4th wall and so on? Where the hell are they? [more inside]
What are some ways to promote a garage/yard sale?
What are some ways to promote a garage/yard sale? [more inside]
Caramel experiment gone wrong...
How do I rescue a caramel experiment gone wrong? [more inside]
Want a nerdy online forum
Are there any online forums that are more intellectually oriented? [more inside]
Subnormal Memory
Attempting to identify a comic book artist! [more inside]
Thats my daughter in the water
I recently found out I have a 13 year old daughter. Now what? [more inside]
How can I work on a ship in Europe?
My brother will soon graduate from a US Maritime Academy with a 3rd Mates Unlimited, and a couple years later, have a 2nd Mates Unlimited License (to steer ships). How hard would it be to transfer/use this license in Europe? Specifically, he is interested in working in the North Sea for Norwegian companies because of the better pay, working conditions, time off
Hold out for it all in relationships?
As a single Mom at 36, is it foolish to believe I can "have it all" regarding relationships? [more inside]
Yeah, So That One Guy Is Blogging About Becoming a Pro Golfer, But...
Is there a website that tracks how many hours you've put into building a skill, a la Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 Hours-to-Mastery concept? [more inside]
What was this disaster movie?
Movie ID: Disaster film, sabotage at a nuclear plant? (not The China Syndrome) [more inside]
People want a part of you, but who they get is never who you seem.
Stupid questions for interviewers: memorable, harmless, or just stupid? [more inside]
How can I deal with my alcoholic parents?
What are my opinions for dealing with my alcoholic parents while they spend the week with us? [more inside]
Unhappy in our own way.
Being around most of my mother's family makes me uncomfortable and angry. How to let go of my past with them and come out of family gatherings feeling more positive? [more inside]
Let's Go Mexico (City for 6 months)
I am a US citizen considering spending 6 months in Mexico City in about 12 to 18 months from now. What kind of things do I need to consider over the next year or so? [more inside]
Help me lose my belly
I'm a fit guy in my early 30's, but I have a small stomach and some soft love handles that I can't seem to get rid of. [more inside]
videogame books
What are some good books by or about videogame designers? [more inside]
Saddleback Backpack Questions
Questions about the Saddleback leather backpack. Can't find many reviews about this particular piece. How is it for carrying? How is it in the rain? And most importantly...just...do you like yours? [more inside]
Videos with easy to follow inter-personal interactions.
Looking for simple videos with easy-to-follow interpersonal interactions with a white/plain background, with limited camera angle changes. Use of sarcasm or other subtle social cues appreciated. [more inside]
The Great Wall of My House
I want to make an existing wall taller so I don't have to look at my awful neighbors anymore. Help! [more inside]
Is it better to master the basics or challenge yourself with something beyond your level?
With respect to developing skills/expertise, is it better to master basic techniques before moving on to something more challenging, or to challenge yourself with something beyond your level? [more inside]
Alice's Dress Changed Colour
I remember seeing on British TV some time in the 90s/00s, a production of Alice in Wonderland where Alice's dress subtly changed hue in between (every?) scene(s), from blue, through yellows and violets. (It may not have been a specifically British, or a made-for-TV production, either.) [more inside]
Agreed to review a book. It's awful. Now what?
I agreed to review a novel. I just received the review copy and read the first chapter, and it's absolutely awful. What does professional etiquette dictate here? [more inside]
What is early labor like?
What is early labor like? [more inside]
How should I sit up in bed?
How should I sit up in bed? [more inside]
What does an online law degree do, exactly?
What does someone do with a law degree from one of the online unaccredited law schools? Can you pass the bar and practice law? If you represent yourself as a "lawyer" or "counsel" is that illegal? [more inside]
Businessese is not my first language.
How do I go about learning to speak better businessese? [more inside]
Why do I feel like I am driving on the wrong side of the road?
Why do I feel like I am driving on the wrong side of the road? [more inside]
Websites with ideas for new websites?
Are there any sites with ideas for new web services? I'm in an entrepreneurial slump and ideas are a dime a dozen--so where are all the ideas? Trying to find inspiration for creating a new consumer web service. [more inside]
Missed techno-utopias
What are some compelling techno-utopian visions from the past that didn't pan out? [more inside]
I apparently give other people second-hand trauma--how do I stop?
How do you cope with other people finding your life strange, depressing, or kind of disturbing, especially when you don't feel the same? I'm really tired of having to choose between everyone telling me I'm "hard to get to know" because I don't share a lot of personal information or floods of tears on my behalf. [more inside]
One nervous pagan versus a thousand christians
I am not Christian, and often feel seriously awkward and uncomfortable talking to faithful people on/around/about Christian holidays. How can I avoid or lessen this feeling? [more inside]
Short Stories like White Elephants
IdentifytheShortStory Filter: Takes place in Spain. Probably by Hemingway. About a man who dies, but at the end of the story the narrative scope expands to include the lives of others.
Why was Jesus killed?
Why was Jesus of Nazarath (also called Jesus Christ) killed? What was going on in Roman occupied Jerusalem that lead up to his death? [more inside]
Got a bright idea?
Is there a better option than incandescent bulbs for my kitchen? More inside... [more inside]
Can pepsi-can alcohol stoves release dangerous vapors?
I've been cooking in the backcountry for years with a pepsi-can stove (it simply provides an aerated vessel in which to ignite 75% - 99% isopropyl alcohol which you pour into it)...now recently I've noticed a distinctive, not exactly pleasant smell at the very end, when the fuel finally runs out and the flame extinguishes itself...perhaps a residual vapor is released at that point (I'm usually done cooking). SO, my question is, are dangerous gases perhaps being released? I'm wary of course of getting aluminum in my bloodstream and catching Alzheimer's, but any other dangers I should know about?
I want a kitty!
I just moved to Orlando, and I'm a little lonely. I really, really want to adopt a cat. However, I'm not convinced that it is a good idea. Help? [more inside]
Help me solve this dessert challenge!
Help me solve this dessert challenge! [more inside]
Weird moving elevator buttons, why so blue?
Why do the elevator buttons seem to be moving? My eyes deceive me! [more inside]
Where can I buy a Wake 'n' Bacon alarm clock ASAP?
Bad reaction to antibiotics. Make the itching stop...
I had an allergic reaction to amoxicillin. I am currently half way through a 10 day prednisone taper. The hives are gone, but I am still itchy. When will the itching stop? [more inside]
Learning languages the smart way
What's the best way to apply the "deliberate practice" philosophy to language learning? [more inside]
Replacing wooden fence posts.
I need some advice for DIY replacement of a wooden fence. [more inside]
Wedding bells... again...?
What's the mean number of marriages for Americans? [more inside]
Melancholy loners
Melancholy movies about loneliness and alienation? [more inside]
How much should a freelancer be compensated for project-related travel?
I'm being asked to travel to a 3-hour meeting as part of a freelance project I'm working on. How much time should I be compensated for? [more inside]
Family friendly to visit the black hills immediately after Sturgis?
Should we avoid vacationing in the Black Hills, SD area, right after the Sturgis rally?
We (4 adults, 4 kids aged 3-8) are planning to arrive on August 14, the day the rally is ending. The plan is for camping and visiting the Black Hills, Mt Rushmore, Custer State Park, ect. Are we likely to regret arriving on the tail end of a biker rally, or should it all be over and done? [more inside]
Setting up an ATM machine: Is it a relatively simple process? What's the catch?
The site that I'm valeting at right now has plenty of foot traffic. Almost every time I'm at work, I get asked if there's an ATM machine around. I tell them that it's a half-mile away, and they just give up. I thought it would be a great opportunity to put up an ATM machine nearby. [more inside]
Suspenders for shirts?
Does such a thing exist that will allow me to keep my shirt tucked in, invisibly? [more inside]
April 23
Far Too Jealous
Please help me understand and manage what I think is an unhealthy and debilitating jealousy. [more inside]
Keep deactivating facebook account, how do I make useful?
I keep deactivating my Facebook account, but I think it can be of use to me. How can I make it useful, especially while in a quarterlife crisis? [more inside]
Help me remember the name of this magical movie
Help me to come up with the name of this movie. The world contained magic, and Michael Caine was a strong magician with an 'evil eye'. [more inside]
How can my girlfriend and I stay..."pure" until marriage ?
How can my girlfriend and I stay..."pure" until marriage ? [more inside]
Ich will ausrocken!
What's some great German music I can dance, sing, and rock out to? [more inside]
Twilight, Rearranged
I'm trying to find a Twilight-related blog that I remember seeing recently. The blogger cut all the pages out of a copy of Twilight, scanned or photographed them, and rearranged snippets of text to highlight and criticize odd or repetitive choices of language. [more inside]
How to deal with your parents getting a divorce when you're an adult?
How to deal with your parents getting a divorce when you're an adult? [more inside]
Computer glasses?
Do computer glasses work? Where can I find a company that will fit a pair of frames with eyestrain lenses? [more inside]
Help me identify this music video
Help me identify a music video containing a couple of black metal kids. [more inside]
Gift for MPH Grad
Your best ideas for a graduation gift for my sister-in-law who is getting her Master of Public Health next week. [more inside]
Should I give up on antidepressants?
Do antidepressants just not work for some people? [more inside]
The Most Toast
Toast Filter: Some members of my family feel it necessary to touch everyone else's glass when toasting at the table - glass-to-glass contact between every dang glass at the table. It can be a bit inconvenient, especially when there more than a few people at the table. Anyone know toast etiquette / history? [more inside]
friend to the left of me, girlfriend to the right, here i am
My best friend and girlfriend hate each other. [more inside]
No you cannot has dsl
Please help me get my DSL to work. I have to keep power cycling my modem and tech support is useless. [more inside]
Where in the world can I find the most high-tech and futuristic locations?
Where in the world can I find the most high-tech and futuristic locations? [more inside]
Help me get my Doctor Who!
Is iTunes my only option for getting Doctor Who Season 6 online? [more inside]
tips/tricks/product suggestions for DIY hair color?
I haven't colored my own hair in over 10 years, and the last time I did I used salon products sold to me by my hairdresser. Those products aren't available to me now, so I'm looking for a decent store-bought brand (or at least something available to non-professionals). [more inside]
Premed in Austin?
I'd like to become a psychiatrist. Problem: I earned a bachelor's degree that includes none of the prerequisites for getting into medical school. I live in Austin, TX. [more inside]
Blueberry plant advice needed please
Please help my bring my blueberry plant back to life! [more inside]
Walk this way
End Credits movie sequence. Where did this shot originate from? [more inside]
Who is the dog that said, "Yes, dear" in the cartoon?
I'm trying to remember the name of the animated cartoon (or the dog in the cartoon) that said "Yes, dear, right away, dear." In my memory, it looked kind of like the Pepe Le Pew animations. [more inside]
Dealing with being introduced to a large group at once
How do I more gracefully join a large group of people when I only know a couple of them? How do I make my friends comfortable in the opposite situation? [more inside]
Slideshow Bob needs help !
I need to make about 3-4 different jpeg slideshows that can be burned to a DVD. Nothing fancy, but it would be nice to add text to the images ( I have Photoshop, so that's not critical), and be able to control the speed (very critical) to maybe 30 seconds per slide/jpeg. Total images would be less than 50. Autoplay a plus. I am using Windows 7, and love simple to use free stuff, but would pay 50-100 if it is worth it. What am I looking for?
Help me identify that hip-hop microphone song?
Hip-hop song with something about a microphone and an atomic bomb? [more inside]
I need help putting my ideas for a tattoo into an actual image. Help please?
I need help putting my ideas for a tattoo into an actual image. Help please? [more inside]
Doesn't seem all that jaunty to me.
I'm trying to copy some windows files to an external USB drive so I can wipe the disk. I am doing this under Ubuntu Jaunty because it won't stay up in XP due to malware (not even long enough to scan the drive, but I'm don't need to repair the system. I just want to get some files off it.) [more inside]
How do I give and receive "vacuous" compliments graciously?
How to give and receive "vacuous" compliments graciously, particularly in relation to artistic work? [more inside]
Help finding an IT job at a non-IT company?
Recently I've been looking for a new job. I think I want to work at an interactive agency, but I can't really finding any listings, and I feel like I'm missing something. Can you help point me in the right direction for finding tech jobs that are at places other than pure IT companies? [more inside]
Inappropriate Anthropologist Love Story...DVD or Book?
An anthropologist studying some primitive society fell in love with one of the women he was studying, and, against all professional decorum, married her and brought her home. The ensuing events were apparently pretty interesting. The person who told me about it can't remember if it was a book, a film, or what. Or which country...or which anthropologist. Can anyone help?
We are all responsible adults, right? Right?
Are my expectations about STD testing unreasonable? Am I being paranoid? [more inside]
What is Time Machine Backing Up?
Why is Time Machine backing up nearly a Gigabyte every time? [more inside]
My cat is acting sad and its my fault, please help
Cat psychology question: I may have really upset my cat - please help me soothe her. [more inside]
What should i do for a bachelor party in Windsor, Ontario?
A group of us are planning on heading to Windsor from Chicago for a bachelor party next month. What are some fun things we can do? [more inside]
Give me girl power-- but with nuance.
I'd like recommendations for books, stories or non-fiction accounts of women wrestling with societal norms to achieve their goals and having trouble overcoming their own internalized ideas of gender. [more inside]
Help me identify this bird?
A friend snapped a photo of this bird outside of their house near North Plains Oregon, and we're having trouble identifying it. [more inside]
Looking to buy a cute, non-wool rug
Looking to buy a cute, non-wool rug. [more inside]
"kids love pedos"...?
At a local gas station I received a quarter that is branded with a symbol that says "kids love pedos." Am I supposed to bring it to the police? [more inside]
Seeking a Charming Inn Without the Florals and Lace
Any suggestions for inns or small hotels that incorporate modern/minimalist design? I'm trying to avoid the Victorian, lace, floral aesthetic. I'm particularly interested in the New England/East Coast area. [more inside]
Comic with irreverent comments?
Barely remembered web comic filter: "This week, Author X communed with nature while Author Y was reduced to a fine powder." Literally all I remember about this comic (apart from that I liked it) was that every strip had a comment afterwards saying odd things that each of the authors had done. Long shot, but do you know what I'm talking about?
What is going on in my body?
Possibly really dumb, gynecology-related question inside, regarding a former hysterectomy and what is going on in my body now. [more inside]
Obi-Wan Kenobi to my Anakin
How do I make the most of a corporate mentor? [more inside]
Epstein-Barr treatment options?
A friend of mine has a relative with Epstein-Barr. We are looking for information on treatment and doctors in either New York or Chicago. [more inside]
Crayons and Paas tablets? Ist that all you've got?
I'm getting ready to dye Easter eggs with my kids, ages 7, 9, 11 and 14. Do you have any tips for decorating easter eggs? Our repertoire consists of using two colors, crayons, and putting on stickers. My google-fu is failing me. [more inside]
Help Ubuntu blindness!
How do I get Ubuntu Linux to recognize my plugin USB DVD/RW drive? [more inside]
Possible Masonic symbol? Something else entirely?
What is this weird symbol carved in stone? [more inside]
What would Einstein eat?
I once read that Einstein had several outfits exactly the same, so he didn't waste time figuring out what to wear. Has anyone done this with food; specifically, figuring out exactly what to eat over the course of a week to provide exactly the right amounts of all the proteins, carbohydrates, vitamins, etc. that the body needs? If so, is this menu available? [more inside]
The Cockroach of the Internet
My parents seem to have a fairly stubborn Trojan on their computer that periodically will forcibly install various Facebook-related apps. They don't even USE Facebook; but I check my own account when I visit them (about twice a year). I've just run Malware Bytes and run their Norton; Malware picked something up and killed it, but then it tried to install something again and I ran Norton, but that only found one cookie. Help?
Can-I-Eat-It Filter: The Unrefrigerated Jelly Episode
Is it safe to eat this unrefrigerated strawberry jelly? [more inside]
Forgotten book request
Searching for the name of a (trilogy? or longer?) of SF/Fantasy books I read in the late 1980s or early 1990s. [more inside]
The Golden Retriever Needs New Wheels--Help him pick out a Subaru Forester.
What do you know about 2000 - 2005 Subaru Foresters? Problems? [more inside]
April 22
Coming of age in the Atomic age
What are your favorite mid-century memoirs? [more inside]
Menstrual Migraine Filter
I've had brain surgery that involved cutting out a quarter-size hole in my skull and peeling back the dura-matter and layers of other tissues, drilling through bones connected to my ear, then putting everything back with a titanium plate. The surgeon forgot to order pain meds. and I was in misery for two hours before the first shot. This was NOTHING compared to the migraine I barely endured two days ago. Had we a gun in the house I would most certainly not be here. [more inside]
How do I break up with him?
How do I break up with him? [more inside]
Jacket: similar but cheaper.
Like Tufts, Only Easier
What are some colleges close to major cities in the Northeast (NYC, Boston, etc.) that are challenging but not at the top level? [more inside]
Which?
Grinnell or Oberlin? [more inside]
Late-night PDX hangouts that aren't 18+?
My 16-year-old sister and I will be in Portland, OR tomorrow and we need to kill some time between 8PM and 1AM. Know of any places, activities, or events that go late and aren't 18+? [more inside]
Work & Holiday maritime jobs Down Under?
If I were to do a Work and Holiday Visa in New Zealand/Australia what jobs could I reasonably expect to get that allow me to legitimately log USCG Sea Time and and gain other valuable maritime experience? [more inside]
How can I get these files into family videos?
What are the best user friendly video editing software programs? [more inside]
Removal of moles and other blemishes from my scalp when I shave my head?
I am losing my hair, but I'm comfortable with the fact that soon I'll either be a guy with thinning hair, or a guy with a shaved head. What I'm worried about is that I may just have unsightly moles on my head. [more inside]
How should I respond to "how was your trip?"
How should I respond to "how was your trip?" [more inside]
Stomach stretching and tips on preparing for and succeeding at restaurant eating challenges (or competitive eating contests)
Man vs Food vs Stomach Capacity: How (and for how long) should I "train" my stomach to hold six pounds of food? What can the stomach handle? How does food differ from liquid in the stomach? Additional tips for beating restaurant eating challenges? Lots of questions, and an account of my experience preparing so far, after the break. [more inside]
What do I do with an incredibly old laptop?
I have a Thinkpad 755c, dating from 1995 or so. Is there anything remotely useful/interesting I can do with it? [more inside]
Swap a Car Lease?
Taking over a car lease- My fiance and I are wanting to take over a car lease. We have searched under leasetrader.com and swapalease.com, but there aren't many options in our area. Are there other websites you know of? Thank you!
Seeking archival professional laundry in Houston, Texas
Do you have a recommendation for a trusted laundry in Houston who can clean treasured linens, quilts, and hand-knits and -crochets and wrap them with archival paper? [more inside]
Let Me Build On That Thought
After fourteen years of being being in the same position/job I may be moving on by October or earlier. During this time most of my networks have dried up/disappeared. Looking for sites online where I can brainstorm entrepreneurial, creative, occupational ideas and possibilities. [more inside]
How do I learn more about root cause analysis?
Root cause analysis. What exactly does it mean in the context of an engineering job and how can I prepare for this interview? [more inside]
Stealth evangelicalism in "haunting" shows?
What's the deal with shows like Animal Planet's "The Haunting?" Is this just a front for evangelicalism or charismatic christianity? [more inside]
Get this thing out of me?
I am experiencing serious mood-swings and insecurities. Just got Mirena IUD put in a few weeks ago. Could it be the hormones, and how do I manage without destroying my relationship? [more inside]
Does anyone have experience with waxed cotton?
Waxed cotton jacket: is it practical? [more inside]
Is this clause in my temp agency agreement fair?
Is it fair for my temp agency to prevent me from being hired on full time at the current business I'm contracted with? [more inside]
Remote mouse & keyboard applications?
I need help finding a remote keyboard and mouse app - for one computer to control another, not for a smartphone to control a computer. More inside. [more inside]
As-it-happens research updates: can't write with 'em, can't write without 'em?
How to concentrate on a research-driven book project when the subject matter is periodically changing / being updated by other writers? [more inside]
Can I just hire a drill sargeant to scream at me?
I want to learn how to (temporarily) show no reaction when someone is angry with me or says mean things to me. [more inside]
Need a Mother's Day gift for grandma
I need a great mother's day gift for my new baby's wonderful grandmas. [more inside]
Quaint village near Berlin?
I am currently vacationing in Berlin and I have this notion that it would be wonderful to escape the city for a small, cozy, quintessentially German village somewhere nearby -- like within 1-2 hours of train travel if possible. I know Potsdam and Spandau, but I would prefer somewhere less traveled and -- for lack of a better word -- quainter, where we can taste the locally-brewed beer and eat some rustic German food. Any suggestions?
A Ring Fit for My Own Queen Mother
Where in Manhattan/NYC can I buy a cheap replica of the Princess Diana/Kate Middleton engagement ring? [more inside]
Like wearing red to a bullfight
What are some interesting/quirky/idiomatic phrases that convey the sense that one has just walked into the metaphorical lion's den, or somewhere you are dangerously out of place? Examples of what I'm looking for, inside. [more inside]
I got funded for an MA in London. Hooray! Now how the hell will I pay the rent?
I got funded to do an MA in London, but I still don't know how I'm going to afford it. What jobs could I do that will allow me to study and live without insane financial stress? [more inside]
Providence? Or Scaminence?
Providence? Or Scaminence? [more inside]
wiki my science!
I run a user facility that houses a variety of scientific equipment and i want to start a wiki for documentation & tutorials. Looking for open-source wiki software and your tips for starting a wiki. (Or if you're a scientist and you've ever used a facility like this, what kinds of things you'd like to see in your FacilityWiki!) Details inside... [more inside]
Have I been played?
I've been in country for one day and suddenly I am very popular with much younger women. Do I have "Sugar Daddy" written on my forehead or is there something else going on? [more inside]
Non-libertarian SF recommendations, anyone?
Help me find awesome SF books that aren't libertarian screeds, y'all. What are your favourite Science Fiction books that aren't just swimming in libertarian ideology? [more inside]
Who'll auction off my old beater for me?
On the heels of this recent question, I'm wondering -- can I have my old car sold in a [non-eBay] auction? [more inside]
For I did go a-wandering, a-wandering I went...with dog.
Where can I hike with a dog off-leash in or near Portland, OR? [more inside]
Reluctant Barbie Girl
How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)? [more inside]
Help me fix my question mark earrings!
Online Plain Text Editor for HTML and/or CSS
The default plain text editor on my work computer drives me up the wall, and I'm not allowed to download a replacement. Are there any online plain text editors I can use to draft an occasional HTML or CSS file and preview my results?
LA Puppy Play Date?
I want to play with puppies and awesome dogs this weekend. Where in Los Angeles can I do this? [more inside]
Halp me trim down my Mac system drive to fit a ssd
SSD's for Mac Pro (NOT a laptop): I'm thinking about adding a smallish one of these to a 3-year-old Quad-Core Xeon desktop and can't find any descriptions about how exactly to split out storage (Documents, Pictures, Mail, Downloads, etc.) from apps and System files. I.e., how to install Snow Leo and apps on the ssd so they use another standard internal drive for all their storage, etc.? Anybody done that? Thank you!
How to handle exclusion
Do I let (seemingly) being excluded bother me? Do I say anything? [more inside]
Help me glaze this ham with raw honey.
I have a jar of raw honey that is more like a paste than a liquid. I would like to use it to glaze my ham this weekend. [more inside]
Good doggies deserve better?
My next-door neighbor keeps her dogs outside 24/7. I'm not sure how I should feel about this. [more inside]
Running 16bit Windows program via a browser or some other solution
I have a small simple 16 bit windows application that I need access to from a couple dozen Windows 7 64 bit computers. Unfortunately we lost some of the source code so recompiling it is not in the cards any time soon.
Is there a way I can host this app on something like Amazon AWS and give all these users access to run the app via a browser or some other method?
Installing VM lite or the windows virtual pc is not an option unfortunately. These users would need access to this program concurrently. The VMWare solutions are far too expensive and the VMLite product that might help we won't be out for some time.
Thank you for reading my post. Have a great one.
Do I have to tell my boss I'm applying for another job in our office before I land it?
I am applying for a job within my small department. Career counselor says I MUST tell my boss this before landing the job. I don't wanna, but can't see a way around it either. [more inside]
Midcareer Academic negotiations: what to look for?
Mid-career Academic Offer/Negotiations filter. Qs about questions to ask, people to see, other advice from faculty/academics wanted. [more inside]
Foreclosure (but not on us personally) How long til the bank bounces us out and we dont get to live rent-free? Because this is pretty awesome right here.
Foreclosure!!!(but not on us personally) How long til the bank bounces us out and we dont get to live rent-free? Because this is pretty awesome right here. [more inside]
Singable and danceable?
Looking for good pop songs that I can dance to and sing along with. [more inside]
Should I keep my mouth shut?
Is there anything I can say to discourage my socially-anxious friend from giving pedantic lectures? [more inside]
Where can I move that is near Toronto, but cheaper and better to live?
I'm not sure I want to live in Toronto anymore, but I want to stay *near* Toronto. Where can I go? [more inside]
It's three fingers to the next campsite
Is there a topo map of the Superior Hiking Trail that gets granular enough to be useful on the trail? or a few maps that cover the whole thing? [more inside]
.org domain name for personal blog?
I want to but a domain name and .com is taken. Should I buy .org? [more inside]
Suggestions for car donation programs?
Suggestions for car donation programs in Washington DC? [more inside]
Need a dentist on the Seattle Eastside
Seattle Eastside dentist recommendation, please? Special issue: I haven't seen a dentist in 16 years. Yes, you read that right. [more inside]
What's the word for not coincidence? (Not synchronicity)
I'm looking for a word or term that says that coincidence may be your unconscious keeping useless information in the background of your mind (i.e. reading about a specific type of bird on wikipedia, and then the next day seeing one fly in front of your car). [more inside]
Where do I get my Italian beef and other Chicago classics for 10 people coming to my house for the weekend?
What are some good Chicago-area catering options for a group of 10 people? We are hosting a small group of relatives at our house for the weekend in May, and we want to have some classic Chicago dishes for people to eat. But, we also don't want to spend the whole weekend in the kitchen working on deep dish pizza, either. So, we're looking for suggestions on places to check out that we can bring food home for about 10 people. So far, we're going to check out Portillo's and Jewel for Italian beef, but I'm open to other options for the beef and other Chicago specialties. (Actually, we live in Naperville, but I'm willing to go pretty much anywhere in the area if it is worth it.)
Liquidating small vintage items
What antique stores/dealers in Austin might be interested in buying vintage kitchenware such as Pyrex, and various small pieces of American art pottery (Roseville, Sascha B, Van Briggle, etc.)? [more inside]
Somatic Experiencing, trauma recovery
Somatic Experiencing is a method of recovering from emotional trauma-- I'd like to hear about experiences with the system because In an Unspoken Voice describes it as dealing well with the paralysis aspect of trauma, not just the intrusive memories and explosive emotions, and I tend to be pretty stuck. [more inside]
embroidery france french stitches names
Is there a list somewhere of French names for common embroidery stitches (split stitch, backstitch, stem stitch etc.)? Google is failing me... [more inside]
Windows networking for dummies
Help this Unix guy understand Windows domains, security and file sharing. I'm a software tester who's mostly worked with unix systems and unix file systems but now I've got to develop and execute a test plan for file sharing between Windows clients and samba servers running within Windows domains of various configurations. What are some good relatively quick learning resources that can get me up to speed? [more inside]
Electrical Grounding problem
How to ground (shield?) a laptop to get a good EEG signal? [more inside]
A cool and smell free summer in Brooklyn
I need to cool my apartment without making it smell terrible. [more inside]
How do I recover from un-quitting my job?
My husband was laid off today... The day that was supposed to be my last day of full-time employment. How do I recover at work? [more inside]
Good relationship counselors in Northern VA?
Need a recommendation of a good, preferably non-marriage-centric, relationship counselor in the Northern Virginia / DC Metro area. [more inside]
Is this staffing agency legit?
Help me decide if a contract staffing agency is legit. Google has turned up nothing. [more inside]
I'll carry your backpack; you carry the baby
Long-term travel during pregnancy. Should we go? And where? [more inside]
Now word on the street is y'all suckers (don't) want static.
Help me find a place to purchase this tiny car part for a Scion xB! [more inside]
Nothing but moths in my bellfry...
I need to buy a bell today. Where would I shop for such a thing? [more inside]
Where can I get a whiff of the ghost of blackpowder?
Can you recommend the best Historical Fort/Monument to visit in the North Eastern USA or Maritime Canada? [more inside]
Looking for a diabetes monitor that's strong enough for a human, but gentle enough for a cat
I need to find a blood glucose meter I can use to track my cat's blood sugar. [more inside]
Robber barons, in reverse
What is the moral obligation that the wealthy have towards the less-well-off? [more inside]
Tips for Vanuatu/general Pacific island life?
Opinions on Vanuatu/general pacific life? [more inside] [more inside]
Job switch advice
Old job over, new job good! But help me ease a few anxieties over the switch. [more inside]
Learn business basics, apply to art field?
How can I learn basic principles of business? [more inside]
Alan from The Hangover is NOT Admirable
Examples of admirable fictional characters named Alan? [more inside]
Should I study in London, even if I can't afford it?
Should I study abroad when finances and my gut are telling me no, but everyone else is telling me yes? (Lots inside. Yes, I'm going to talk to the financial aid office and a therapist.) [more inside]
Movie With Ghostly Children?
Can anyone help identify this classic movie about ghostly children? [more inside]
Possible to change Wordpress comment timestamps?
Is it possible to change timestamps on comments in Wordpress? [more inside]
I Rap Therefore I Am
I know this is kind of vague, but I'm looking for examples of rappers, or even just individual rap songs, that have a "philosophical" message.
I don't mean that they encourage people to get off drugs, or do something with their lives, or anything like that (though I'd like those examples, too) -- but that they espouse a specific philosophy of life or worldview. I'd love some mainstream examples -- I'm not just looking for "issue" rappers who have made philosophy their thing (though I like these, too!)
Thanks!!
Which should we pay for and which should we do ourselves?
DIY: is it easier to go a good DIY job painting walls (interior) or installing laminate floors? [more inside]
April 21
Mysterious green/white flower
Can you help me identify this flower? I saw it in a park (in England, if that matters) the other day. [more inside]
Exotic => Erotic
Soc-Psych-filter! Do people become gay or lesbian because they grow up feeling that stereotypically straight-acting kids are "exotic" -- as per the "Exotic Becomes Erotic" theory? [more inside]
want to turn low res web image to higher res print ready image
What are some websites, software or photoshop plug ins to turn a low resolution image (ie. something I grabbed from the web) into a high resolution image (ie. something that I can use to print)? Something that is good enough to make the image look good at 16 by 11 or so. [more inside]
Help me make my kitchen work for me!
I am looking for an app (android preferably, but iPad/iPhone ok) to help me keep my kitchen inventory... But with a special detail. [more inside]
art school confidential
Help me become the uninhibited artist and writer I once was. [more inside]
Moving to Seattle for residency, need apartment recommendations.....
Seattle knowing/loving Mefites....A friend has to move to Seattle for surgical residency, multiple hospitals, crazy hours...What's the best apartment choice? [more inside]
Will yoga help my herniated disc?
I have a mild herniated L5 disc. It's been causing me continual back pain, and pain in my left leg. I've heard that yoga can help build strength and help with the pain. Is this true? [more inside]
Technology Focused Blog Directories
I am looking for some high quality blog directories devoted to technology blogs. I already have plenty of general blog directories with technology sections, and I have googled extensively, but I am hoping there are some out there I am missing.
Another Name Assistance Plea
Please help name another business/Etsy store/website. (I had to ask because I am stuck and you are good at it!) [more inside]
I have the game Mousetrap, but not an actual mouse trap.
There is a mouse running around my house right now, and all the stores are closed. How can I trap it? [more inside]
Pillsbury pie crust ideas
I've got this packet of Pillsbury Pie Crust in my freezer. What are some delicious things you can do with it? There are plenty of recipes out there but I'd like to hear what your favorite is.
Commute from Glendale to Long Beach
LA Traffic Filter: How long will it take me to drive from Glendale to Long Beach tomorrow morning? And when should I leave to arrive by 8:00am? And what's the best route?
Less than a week to spend in South America
I have less than a week -- but where? Sao Paulo, Rio de Janeiro, or Buenos Aires? [more inside]
Smartphones for world travel
What's the state of the art in quad-band capable Android smartphones? Essentially I'm looking for alternatives with capabilities similar to the Motorola Atrix 4G. It needs to be carrier unlocked and support 850/900/1800/1900MHz GSM 2G functions and 2100MHz WCDMA. [more inside]
How to get a strong white line on a black ink background?
I'm trying to draw in white over a black fountain pen ink background that I've applied to vellum Bristol. But I haven't found a way to do so that results in a sharp line. [more inside]
Internet-Notebook Computar
What is the lightest-weight netbook released in the past twelve months? [more inside]
Help me fly!
Flying. ID. Waiting for new driver's license, old one clipped. [more inside]
Have I damaged my career options after grad school?
How will I look to recruiters after getting the boot before school starts? [more inside]
Spot, Spot2, Spot3, Spot4?
My foster dog is very pregnant and about to pop. I need some awesome puppy names! [more inside]
Help me help my family
A family member has just found out their very aggressive cancer has returned after what was thought to be a successful surgery. My family member and their partner have been advised to think in terms of management as opposed to cure. [more inside]
Upgrade from Outlook 2003 or no?
Should I upgrade from Outlook 2003 or just keep using it forever? [more inside]
step on a crack, break your mother's back, etc.
I'm curious about ritual superstitions, particularly the ones involving driving--holding your breath when going past a graveyard, for example. What are more of them? [more inside]
THESE SCAREWARE VARIANTS ARE GETTING TOO STRONG
"XP Security 2011" --- did I really just get absolutely beaten by a Windows scareware virus? [more inside]
Trying to figure out the title of an old Easter special from HBO...
Is anyone familiar with an Easter puppet special that was on (I think) HBO in the early '80s? I remember that it involved a bunch of bunnies working in an Easter egg factory, and that the Easter Bunny ("E.B.") was fairly nervous and might've had a Woody Allen-esque delivery. It definitely isn't "Tale Of The Bunny Picnic" (though that looks pretty cute, too).
Bonus points if there's a streaming version anywhere online - I'd love to show this special to my bunny-obsessed niece. Thanks, all.
Teh HeteronormZ data outdated, incomplete, or other?
What scientific research has been done on the science of gay attraction and sexuality? [more inside]
Smartphone - call plan - data plan = PDA + WiFi?
I have a Samsung Captivate smartphone with a rate plan and data plan. If I were to cancel my AT&T contract (and pay the required fee, of course), could the phone continue to be used to access the Web via Wi-Fi to sync my Google calendar/contacts/e-mail, surf the Web, and run Web-enabled apps? Would I lose anything else besides telephone and 3G data capabilities?
The Theory and Technique of Obtuse Electronic Music Textbook Writing.
Miller Puckette's The Theory and Technique of Electronic Music, as a textbook, seems obtuse and unrefined to me. Am I missing something? [more inside]
Where can I find satirical lyrics for Billy Bragg songs inspired by his support for Nick Clegg
Where can I find satirical lyrics for Billy Bragg songs inspired by his support for Nick Clegg [more inside]
Creative Color
Are tetrachromats more prevalent and successful in the fashion industry and art world? Are there groups of trichromats who are overrepresented in artistic endeavors on the whole? [more inside]
Building a website for a professional writer
[WebdesignFilter]: Building a website for a professional writer and film critic. Just articles and stories, as Victorian as possible. Got a prototype ready and need feedback. [more inside]
Why does nose-oil make the foam go away?
Why does nose-oil eliminate the foam from carbonated beverages? [more inside]
How many books are checked out of public libraries per year?
On average, how many books are checked out of a US public library, per year? Has there been a decline or an incline books being checked out in the last couple of years? [more inside]
Searching for people to read to me.
Is there a service that takes articles from the web and reads them for you? [more inside]
I don't know how to quit you, Tofu.
Being a vegetarian for 18 years comes with a whole lot of identity issues and emotional baggage. How do you let that go and start eating meat again? [more inside]
Can someone help me find a Plastic/Acrylic artist that was posted on MeFi last summer???
There was an artist posted on MeFi around last summer/spring and I need help finding their name. I've searched for quite a while over the past week. I believe they melted plastic over busts, can anyone help me???
Here is an example of their work.
(Spain) Spanish Social Movements: What sites and literature can I look into to get up to date with social movements on the ground in Spain currently?
(Spain) Spanish Social Movements: What sites and literature can I look into to get up to date with social movements on the ground in Spain currently? [more inside]
Why is entropy necessary for there to be memory?
In the From Eternity to Here episode of the Science Talk podcast, Sean Carroll says that without entropy there could be no memory. Could you provide an explanation of why that is to somebody who's very much a layperson when it comes to thermodynamics? [more inside]
via @predictive_users
Is there any way to identify social media users who are consistently sharing viral content before it goes viral? [more inside]
Help, I'm a Platonist!
I am passionately in love with ideas, but I feel pretty tepid about real things. Can this be reversed? [more inside]
Equipment list: Circular saw, tourniquet, bowl of ice, phone with 911 preprogrammed into it ...
Help me get over my fear of using a circular saw. [more inside]
JET vs AmeriCorps
JET (teaching English in Japan) vs AmeriCorps (cool community stuff in my city). Or, how do you decide between two paths that seem comparably engaging/difficult/unknown? [more inside]
To refund or not to refund, that is the question
I just finished up a small project that I way overestimated. I sold the project for a fixed bid, nominally based on the hourly rate I charge for my services. The customer has already paid me - should I offer to refund the difference? [more inside]
Brain Tumor Blogs
I have been diagnosed with stage 2 glioma/astrocytoma (brain cancer). I would love to find some good blogs from people who have gone through the treatment and experience of brain cancer, but I've been having trouble with the search. Links would be much appreciated! I've looked at "Blog for a Cure" and there are few that are updated. I've found more by googling but many are inapplicable. Thanks in advance for your help.
What should I know before getting my website made?
What did you wish you knew before you had your first website built. [more inside]
The Song of the Gregarious Polygynous Pinniped
I would like a full CD/LP of bearded seals, please. [more inside]
Studies that tell us to invest in the very young
I'm looking for research studying the efficacy of parenting classes and/or early education intervention for infants and toddlers (as opposed to programs that target older children). [more inside]
Is it as bad as it seems?
Need information on the Wyndham Orlando Resort, please [more inside]
Culinarily conflicted, or How I learned to stop worrying about what I eat and just love food.
How to balance the desire to eat vegan with the passion for occasional meals that aren't? [more inside]
Outlook Notification?
In Microsoft Outlook 2007, how do I set up a notification when a contact is available? [more inside]
Do you have good examples of compelling "Feature Tour" videos for web applications or software?
Do you have good examples of compelling "Feature Tour" videos for web applications or native/software applications? [more inside]
Looking for short farm/food films
For a film festival focused on farms, food and food systems, I'm looking for short (under 45 minutes) films on those topics. Documentary, fiction or animated all acceptable. Any suggestions appreciated, especially with contact info or website links.
How Much Personal Information Should I Give Out When Being Designated An Heir?
How Much Personal Information Should I Give Out When Being Designated An Heir? [more inside]
Great movies/films/documentaries about the roots of rock 'n' roll?
Great movies/films/documentaries about the roots of rock 'n' roll? [more inside]
Needing an interesting reading fix.
Please help with RSS/Atom feed suggestions that are both interesting and easily read, in full, via Google Reader's mobile version. [more inside]
Is organic food really better for you?
Is there a scientific consensus—ideally based on controlled, peer-reviewed, longitudinal, independently replicated studies—that an organic diet is healthier than a non-organic diet? [more inside]
Please recommend web performance/compatibility vendors
Browser/OS/platform/device compatibility testing vendors - reviews and advice. [more inside]
How would I modify recipes for making mini-cakes and tarts instead of a single large cake/tart?
How would I modify recipes for making mini-cakes and tarts instead of a single large cake/tart? Specifics on my cakes and tarts are inside. [more inside]
Braintree, where's that??
Braintree, MA filter: looking for a cool bar/cafe/bistro...you get the point. [more inside]
Help for iron deficiency anemia symptoms?
Iron deficiency anemia causing sustained exhaustion and fuzzyheadedness. How can I treat the symptoms? (Underlying cause is undiagnosable so far and only worsening.) [more inside]
so long suckers?
What did you do the summer before you went on the academic job market? What do you wish you had done? [more inside]
Recommendations for an "Intro to R" course in the NYC area
Hydraulic brakes better for long descents?
I am looking for a cross-country bike for use in a mountain-y watershed area. I am not a skilled or graceful descender, and there is going to be a lot of descending. Bike shop guy, who I have known for a while and trust, says hydraulic discs are the way to go because of how they handle heat. Is this really a factor I should account for? [more inside]
Help Me Dump AT&T
AT&T be gone. What are my options to have a land line at home? Can I use the phones I have? [more inside]
How to create a line graph and vary line thickness dynamically?
I need to figure out how to create a line graph that allows me to vary the thickness of the line dynamically (i.e., as a function of a variable). Sort of like the way this health care expenditure/life expectancy graph varies the line thickness based on average number of doctor visits per year. [more inside]
Help me debunk Auntie (& Bill Whittle)
Help me debunk Auntie (& Bill Whittle) - warning, highly politicized fiscal data [more inside]
How do I turn the folders/files on my server into a website?
How can I turn the folders on my web server into a browse-able website (without setting up a content management system)? [more inside]
How happy are German cows?
I'm heading over to Europe in a few weeks and I'm curious about the differences in food quality and food ingredients as compared to the U.S. What will I find there that might be emblematic of a different system or attitude toward food? [more inside]
Cheap drunk vs. blood alcohol level
Ok I admit it, I’m a cheap drunk, a lightweight. One beer, one glass of wine, and I’m feeling good. Any more than that, even another half a beer or half a glass of wine, and I’m starting to get buzzed. So I’ve always been very careful with my drinking. I’ve never been stopped for suspected DUI, and don’t plan to be.
That said, I’m curious about whether my blood alcohol level actually increases more quickly than most people, or do I just feel the effects of the alcohol more quickly without my blood alcohol level rising very much. IOW, over a period of an hour, you drink two beers, you’re not drunk, and your blood alcohol level is below the legal limit. I drink two beers in an hour, I’m pretty buzzed, enough that I would not drive. Is my blood alcohol level probably over the legal limit? If it matters, I’m a fairly normal-sized adult female, 5’5”, 120 lbs.
Abandon ship, once and for all, or fight for what I have?
Seven months ago I cheated on my partner. Six months ago I came clean to him. Three months ago we broke up. This past week we have begun to spend some time together, and I feel like we both reached a breakthrough last night. Am I crazy to have this renewed faith in/willingness to work for our love? Do I need to finally let it go? Much more inside. [more inside]
Pot fell off stove, burn ring on wood floor.
Hot pot fell of stove onto wood floor. Burn ring! Help! [more inside]
Chemotherapy Comfort Stuff
My beautiful, hilarious, brilliant, elegant mother started chemotherapy today. Please give me your best suggestions for comfort items. [more inside]
Sante Fe in August
Sante Fe, NM in August: Yea or Nay? [more inside]
An Abundance of Avocados
What to do with a sudden, moderate, windfall of avocados? [more inside]
Gay Perry.
Where should I stay during Gay Pride in Paris? [more inside]
Amsterdam Cycling Excursions
I'll be in Amsterdam for 7-10 days in early August, and am looking for some self guided bike rides out of the city and into the surrounding countryside. [more inside]
Why are teachers allowed to scream at kids?
Why is it legal for teachers to treat kids in a way that you could never treat adults in a workplace? And if a parent wants to think about addressing this archaic situation in terms of the system (rather than just moving one's child to another class, for example) how would one even start to think about doing this? [more inside]
Why do my thumb knuckles always crack?
Why do my thumb knuckles always crack? And how can I stop it? It seems like every time I bend either of my thumbs all the way, they "pop". I have no other poppy bones, and I am a 28 year old male, and neither of my thumbs have ever been injured as far as I know. It started about a year ago.
How do I find a researcher on the internet?
What is the best way to find a freelance researcher to help me create infographics? [more inside]
Help me find a hat!
Good summer hat for city wear? [more inside]
Southern women's film!
Does anyone have any recommendations for films, performance art pieces, or shorts with the subject matter of women's identity politics in the South? [more inside]
How do car engines work?
Are there resources on the internet where I can find information about what's under the hood of my car? I just feel that being a man and all I should have a good idea of what I'm looking at when I pop the hood of my car. I just want to learn the basics and maybe get a better idea of how stuff works under there. I have a Honda and a Toyota, and I know things are built differently under there, but if there's anything specific to those two then that would be preferable.
INTP jobs?
INTP-friendly companies in Philadelphia, New York, Chicago, or Madison? (à la Myers-Briggs) [more inside]
What's this handwritten, scroll font?
What is this font? I'm trying to match the cute, handwritten scroll feeling of "just add ice." I'm happy to find a typeface either to buy or a free download. OpenType preferred. My results from Identifont weren't close.
Do you know of a free web base facebook update and email scheduler?
I looking for a reliable and free way to schedule facebook updates. I have used laterbro, hootsuite and socialsafe. All have issues. I post about 12-20 times a day and they frequently stop sending the updates at some point. The best solution would be web based. I would also like to find a free web based email scheduler as well.
What have you, hive?
If you can't cite it, it doesn't exist?
What is the proper MLA citation for a book abstract? [more inside]
iPad gmail app is broken... help?
My iPad Gmail app appears stuck in viewer mode. How to fix? [more inside]
installing Win7 without admin privileges
Tech help - trying to install Win7 over XP Pro, without administrator privileges. [more inside]
Gift ideas for Diabetic
I need gift basket ideas for an elderly diabetic homebound woman. [more inside]
Loving life and loving my wallet too
Lately, I've been enjoying myself more. I go out to concerts, I eat in restaurants, I buy books from Amazon, I buy fruit juice and cake and cool ingredients to make delicious food. All this is a welcome turnaround from the days when I would spend hours indoors feeling miserable. But the result is that I'm burning through money like there's no tomorrow. [more inside]
A relatively strange css/js problem
Why can't my javascript see the position of an element if it's set in the CSS but it can if it's set in the style attribute? [more inside]
This relationship, it's like Groundhog Day.
How to extricate myself from a negative relationship cycle. [more inside]
Looking for the best resources about generative art
Looking for the best resources for generative art [more inside]
How do you become an international election observer?
How do you become an international election observer? [more inside]
Stadium Operators
Which company is seen as the premier Stadium Operator in the industry, internationally or otherwise? [more inside]
What to do during a free weekend in Shanghai?
I have a short weekend (Fri night to Sun morning) off in Shanghai during a work trip, and I'm looking for an activity - even a day trip to Beijing or the Great Wall. I'd appreciate suggestions and/or advice. [more inside]
I'm feeling lucky with chrome custom search leaves me feeling decidely unlucky
How do I use I'm Feeling Lucky with Chrome Custom Search and ALWAYS get the first result, not a list? I've googled my heart out. Some searches work, others give me regular results. I always want the first result. [more inside]
April 20
Chicago Restaurants for Locavores Updates?
A 2009 question by the same title (http://ask.metafilter.com/141735/Chicago-Restaurants-for-Cheap-Locavores) with loads of good advice, but 2 years in the restaurant world can be a long time and it is not so critical to be in that 30-40$ range (though 195 before tax and tip is a stretch). Will be there for three nights in May. Any places that speak to the intersection of community and food would be of interest as well as those with wow factor for food (ambiance not so important)
will be at hyatt regency
Arena in the Pacific?
Does anyone know of a movie similar to Fredric Brown's short story "Arena," (or the Star Trek episode of the same name) that takes place on a Pacific island, with an American and a Japanese soldier pitted against each other? Note: I just watched Boorman's Hell in the Pacific, and it's not that. [more inside]
Who celebrates pre-Easter holidays?
Where is there a Thursday Pre-Easter Holiday? I met an Asian tourist today who asked whether banks, libraries, and schools would be open on the Thursday, Friday, and Saturday before Easter. When I said the only "holiday" was Easter Sunday, he said that 15 yrs or so ago he visited the US and remembered these days as holidays. Now I'm curious. Does anyone know where in the world this might be so? I told him that some churches might hold special services on those days, but that wasn't what he remembered.
pscary psi pseminars? Help!
Psi seminars: BF is hooked, I'm scared, what now? [more inside]
Pregnancy scare
What have been your experiences with the medical abortion pill (RU-486 or mifepristone and misopristol)? If you have to have an abortion, would you do it in the US or the UK? [more inside]
And it's all for me grog, me jolly jolly grog.
I would like to find a small pub in Portland, Oregon, with regular live folk-ish music. [more inside]
NACA?
Finding a cheap/creative wedding venue that can trick people into thinking it's a formal/traditional location.
How to search for a wedding and reception venue in LA. [more inside]
How do incentive stock options work?
Incentive stock options: explain them to me as if were a child! [more inside]
Ahh, there is that liberal guilt again!
I am looking for a few pointers to well-regarded non-profits that focus on "social equality" (I may not be using the right term) - breaking povery cycles, education assistance, living wages for blue-collar work and so on. I don't know where to start, but maybe you can help me! [more inside]
TV leads to dissing ?
"Television will lead to people disrespecting authority figures" ... what is this article/paper/book which I saw quoted recently ? [more inside]
should've realized in the beginning
Help me figure out what to do about this undergrad research situation [more inside]
Should I purchase a house?
Am I crazy to want to purchase a house? [more inside]
CMA, as good as a CPA?
I am debating getting my CMA, certifed management accountant designation. It is a new term to me, and I work in finance with gaggles of CPAs. Is the CMA a recognized and respected designation? [more inside]
Cheap bike repair in Austin
Please recommend for me a down-and-dirty bike shop in Austin. [more inside]
am i crazy or what?
Should I sell a settlement annuity to buy a second house for an investment? [more inside]
Electrolyte sources
What are cheap bulk sources of electrolytes? [more inside]
Not your grandfather's black New Balance
Here's what I want: leather sneakers that are acceptable for a young man to wear with business casual clothing. I want them to feel and wear like sneakers, but look nice enough to wear with wool pants and a button-down dress shirt in a professional environment. [more inside]
Help me get this job!
Give me your best behavioral/situational interview questions! [more inside]
When I watch a movie, you don't have to worry about maintenance, computer!
How do I keep my Windows 7 computer from deciding it's time to update when I'm watching a Netflix Watch Now movie full-screen? (It really breaks the mood.)
Indie Songs of Sex
Suggest some non-mainstream songs about sex, the erotic, and especially seduction. Bonus points if Australian. [more inside]
Customizing Wordpress's Media Library -- should I use a hook?
Question about Wordpress plugins and hooks. [more inside]
Help me find a new home in the Philadelphia suburbs
Advice for where to move in Montgomery County (North Philadelphia suburbs) and where to find good listings! [more inside]
Treadmill desk recommendation
Which Treadmill Desk? [more inside]
I want a portable, non-folding, legs-that-screw-in, table
I want a portable, legs-that-screw-in wood table. Does anybody know what kind of hardware I need to make this happen or of a table for sale that has legs made to screw on and off frequently OR a folding leg table of wood that is truly a cut above a regular card table? [more inside]
Source for downloadable list of current stock symbols?
Where can I get a list (or lists) of all stock symbols of stocks currently trading on major US exchanges for download? If possible, lists that are kept updated over time would be preferable. I don't mind pulling the data out of a larger set if necessary.
Are they the same book with different titles, or variations on a theme?
Gwyneth Paltrow's cook book is called My Father's Daughter in the US and Notes from my Kitchen Table in the UK. The synopses I've seen suggest they have the same recipes but different surrounding texts. Are they the same book with different titles, or variations on a theme? [more inside]
Help me reword "ascend a [horizontal] walkway" so it is correct.
Can you "ascend" a horizontal "walkway"? No? Then how does one describe this action in a single word? [more inside]
How can I beat the craziness of the Continental/Amtrak link between EWR and Philly
Does anyone have any recent experience with the Continental/Amtrak link for trips to Philadelphia 30th St. Station (coded ZFV by Continental)? I need to get to Princeton NJ (not Philly) and Continental/Amtrak link is much cheaper than just a flight to Philly or Newark. [more inside]
bittersweet painkillers
Can I do anything to reduce hydrocodone (lortab) "hangovers" which happen when the pill wears off? [more inside]
Lumbar Limbo
This morning, I sneezed and threw out my lower back. Since then, I've been unable to walk any significant distance without severe pain throughout my lower back/butt/left thigh, and the pain while walking is getting worse. Should I go to the hospital? [more inside]
2.5 months in Paris--what to see?
I'm going to be moving to Paris for 2.5 months, what should I do while I'm there? [more inside]
Fillin' out forms... fillin' out forms...
So for work I have to login to a DoD website and fill out this form, and to complete my task I'm going to have to fill out this form several thousand times. But, here's the deal - the data I am entering in all of the fields are indentical for each form except for one field. [more inside]
Reflections on Collections
Hou Hanru: On the Mid-Ground is a collection of curatorial statements and catalogue essays by a curator/critic. What other collections of curatorial statements might you recommend? [more inside]
I need to understand more about cultural differences in doing business with Japan
I need to understand the Japanese cultural importance of "saving face" with respect to business, and how I can make myself less frustrated with an ongoing business negotiation I'm involved in. [more inside]
Recurring herpes outbreak
Recurring herpes outbreak - every week for 6 months [more inside]
Is 'throat malfunction' a thing?
Can throat muscles weaken or stop working? [more inside]
Software for the Socially Minded?
What open source/free software projects exist that have a humanitarian or social justice mission? [more inside]
Is The Onion hacked or is it me?
What is "Yaza Kilolardan Kurtularak Girmek İstermisin?" Has The Onion's Facebook sharing section been hacked, or is it my computer? [more inside]
How do runners pass the time?
What are some games that 2 people can play while running long distances to pass the time? [more inside]
Aside from mushrooms, are there any decorative houseplants I can grow in a dark and neglected apartment?
Does a dark and somewhat uninhabited apartment mean I can't have houseplants? [more inside]
Is a Mul-T-Lock worth the Mul-T-Cost?
Is a Mul-T-Lock worth it? [more inside]
Could my relationship break be temporary and successful?
My girlfriend have decided to go 'on a break'. I'm interested in hearing about how others have fared in such an arrangement. [more inside]
Refinery cold start article in Wired?
In the past 6-9 months, I read an issue of (I believe) Wired Magazine that included an awesome multi-page diagram of the steps required to restart an oil/gas refinery after an emergency shutdown due to hurricanes. Which issue of Wired is this in? [more inside]
Laws that 49/50 US states have.
What are some laws that exactly 49 out of the 50 US states have on the books? [more inside]
tips or advice for cat with arthritis?
tips/advice for a cat with arthritis? [more inside]
How to settle for someone ugly?
How do you settle for someone? I feel like it would be so much easier to find a woman to date if I didn't care what her face looked like. Does anyone know of any way to make myself do this?
Recommend a USB microphone or headset for NaturallySpeaking?
Dragon NaturallySpeaking: Can you recommend a USB microphone or headset that works well with this software? (or maybe bluetooth) [more inside]
Negotiation 101
Here's what I don't understand about negotiation: why it's good to go last. [more inside]
"Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain" by Betty Edwards - Materials list?
My wife is planning on learning to draw from the book "Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain" by Betty Edwards.
I'd like to surprise her with a box with all the materials that are needed to complete the course but I can't get the book away from her for long enough without her being suspicious. I've tried google but no luck. Does any one have or can direct me to a list of the materials needed?
Thanks
How do you find a space to convert into a home?
After reading this post, I've realized that I want my next house to be.. different. How do I go about finding a warehouse/church/water tower to convert into a home? [more inside]
cabin recommendations near Richmond, Va (up to 4 hours away)
cabin recommendations near Richmond, Va (up to 4 hours away) [more inside]
What variety of leather pants are most appropriate for my needs?
I am the proud new owner of a beautiful 1985 Honda Nighthawk 700S. Tell me what else I should spend my money on. [more inside]
Retired spy, looking for some movies to watch
I really like spy movies where the main character is trying to retire/extricate themselves from The Company. I've seen a bunch from the library, but which ones have I missed? [more inside]
Need some good portable headphones.
Good portable headphone suggestions. [more inside]
Very affordable commuter/road bike?
Very affordable commuter/road bike? [more inside]
Abandon my job for future prospects?
Abandon my job for future prospects? [more inside]
Know anyone that has experienced burning pain in their neck (back of neck) that radiates to the face , and if so how do they relieve it?
Know anyone that has experienced burning pain in their neck (back of neck) that radiates to the face , and if so how do they relieve it? [more inside]
Tired of being the kibble that's always there; time to turn into a laser pointer!
My boyfriend and I live together, and the relationship is great, but things have gotten very 'comfortable'. I think it's time to take everything he thinks he knows about us and turn it upside-down (in a good way)! How though? [more inside]
Why do I cry so easily when I used to never cry?
Have you ever switched from being a stoic to being a crier? Could this be from treating my depression or something else? [more inside]
Yet another albumfilter
I'm looking for a recently released album that was actually recorded in the 70s but was only released now. The name was something like Torrey Canyon, Torrey Pines, Laurel Canyon (but Google is not helping me here), any ideas? I really wanted to listen to it but it's looking like I have the name completely wrong.
I believe I originally heard about it on Metafilter.
I do not have lyrics, because I haven't heard it!
Note: it is not Torrey Canyon LTD, from Kent, OH.
Best OC neighborhoods for living & playing?
Help me find the most interesting and walkable neighborhoods in Orange County! [more inside]
Photo Library
I have several thousand images from almost 30 years of photography and filmmaking scattered throughout one of four hard drives on my Mac. I want to move all my images to their own drive, build a searchable photo library, and I need a way to organize, tag, search, and easily find images. [more inside]
How can my wife and I make our ill-defined vacation home dream a reality?
Please help me figure out how to build or buy a vacation/summer home or cabin within 3-4 hours of New York City [more inside]
White couch = worst. idea. ever.
White Couch + 2 Dogs = I need recommendations for upholstery cleaners in NYC [more inside]
Help me find an M.I.A. mashup?
I'm looking for a specific mashup, and suggestions for similar mashups. [more inside]
PowerPoint to PDF on iPad
How can I convert powpoint presentations (.ppt and .pptx) to PDF for editing on iPad 2? [more inside]
Breaking glass nicely
I collect beach glass to make things. I've used a rock-polisher to create beach glass. I am looking for hints in increasing my yield from the rock-polisher, namely how to break bottles to get decent sized pieces. [more inside]
Dear Mr. Darwin: How is babby formed?
How did sexual reproduction become evolutionarily advantageous? [more inside]
Looking for umbrella with Library of Parliament on the inside
Anybody know where I can find a Library of Parliament umbrella that was previously sold by Chapters? [more inside]
Criticise my coworkers, how do I do it right?
How do I get better at providing constructive criticism to design colleagues? Especially ones that don’t ask? [more inside]
How to find a medical specialist
How does one find a specialist in your area? [more inside]
How to handle speed dating rejection with class?
How do you handle rejection from Speed Dating in a classy manly way? I received a rejection email from a woman and I feel like I should reply...see details below... [more inside]
Too zombied to come up with a creative title.
I'm worried I'm going to be fired because I'm so tired. [more inside]
How do I change key or pitch on a song in itunes?
Hi,
I have a song in my itunes that my daughter will be singing to at a recital. The teacher asked me to "change the song a few half steps up to key C". She said her students do it often, but I'm not computer savvy. [more inside]
Do you have a wicked source for laptop parts?
I've got a busted up Dell Mini 9. Can you help me source a few parts? [more inside]
What on Earth was going on in Venice?
I was in Venice for a few days at the end of March, and several times saw young people in the street participating in a weird ritual: they would read out a passage from a hand-made poster, the crowd would laugh, and someone would attack them with a foodstuff -- I saw a lot of flour, once a meat tray, and an unfortunate soul having canned whipped cream injected down his pants. What? [more inside]
Wife mistrust me, what do I do?
Wife mistrusts me now over a single comment, and thinks I'm withholding family information. What should I do? [more inside]
One what?
When rappers say "one time for the .../two times for the ...", what are they referring to? If I'm watching a concert, what am I supposed to do? [more inside]
When did the idea of America being the "freest country in the world" gain popularity?
When did the idea of America being the "freest country in the world" first gain popularity? [more inside]
How do I make these cakes for a 2yo's birthday?
On my daughter's second birthday, I'd like to make cakes like her favourite toy - but edible. Please help me! [more inside]
Synching "likes" between facebook and website posts
There are two sets of FB "likes" that I would like to be synched; one, the likes on the website's posts, and the other, the likes I get when I link to those posts on Facebook. 21 people like my latest post on my website, but only one person has liked the link I put about the post on facebook. Can I get the two to add together with some automatic gizmo? Thanks mefi!
1970s French cop movie
I saw this French cop/conspiracy/scandal movie at French camp in the 1970s. Now that I have the awesome power of the internet at my disposal, I'd like to find it again. But I can't. [more inside]
Help with Brazilian Cheese Bread
Help improving my Brazilian cheese bread. I tried to make Brazilian cheese bread, but the inside is all gooey. How do I make the inside fluffier? [more inside]
How to find concierge (private) doctors / medicine in Europe and Asia?
I'm looking to find doctors who practice private/concierge medicine in Europe and Asia. These doctors typically charge an upfront fee and gives you significantly more attention (ie, he has 500 instead of 3000 patients; is available immediately 24/7). They usually practice family medicine or internal medicine.
This type of doctor is growing in the US, but I can't seem to find them elsewhere in the world...
April 19
Image monster wants images NOM NOM NOM
How can I easily save the images I find online for later viewing? [more inside]
Where Can I Find This Silver Elemental Ring?
Please help me find this silver ring with a rectangular lapis lazuli (or possibly sodalite?) setting and elemental symbols around the band. [more inside]
Southern California Mystery Building
Help a survivor figure out how to get medical care.
How do sexual abuse survivors handle getting long-term medical care? [more inside]
How much storage for photos on Google Apps?
How much storage does Google Apps for Non-Profit provide for photos (Picasa Web Albums)? [more inside]
The Tree Ferns Have to Love Themselves Before I Can Love Them
What is going on with my new tree ferns? Bad things, yes, but what manner of bad things? [more inside]
My eyes are going to pop out of my head.... thank you Spring!
Hello fellow Metafilterians, now that allergy season is upon us, does anyone recommend the best OTC med for: pressure on the eyes, chest congestion, stuffy nose, and sore throat? It's much worse in the morning. Coughing up yellow awfulness (sorry, gross). Claritin and Mucinex-D do NOT work. Sudafed works like a charm but knocks me out, literally for 2 days. Not sure what's out there, haven't had allergies in a couple of years.
Should I pay a deposit despite a weird clause in the application?
I'm renting an apartment in Denver, CO, and the property manager is asking I pay a deposit in the form of a money order mailed to his address or delivered to the onsite manager to hold the apartment. I've checked the property out with the onsite manager, and it looks great. Worryingly, the application says that if offered the apartment and I refuse to sign the lease, the deposit will be kept. Is this normal, and is there anything else I should be worried about? [more inside]
Self-Referential Name Check Mixtape
Dear MeFi, please help me in making the most awesome self-referential name check mixtape ever. [more inside]
Who is the Moriarty to your Holmes?
What sort of questions would you ask someone about on the theme of enemies and nemeses? [more inside]
How to practice safe PayPal?
I'm about to purchase a $1500 camera from a fellow I met through an online photography forum. I'll be paying via PayPal (funded by my American Express). I've no reason to think the seller untrustworthy, but what can I do to protect myself just in case?
Show, don't tell!
Tutoring two 2nd-grade students in writing more creatively. I'm a creative writing grad student, so no sweat right? Wrong. Their first language isn't English. [more inside]
Opening a can of tomato paste, the contents spewed out. Can I eat this?
Opening a can of tomato paste, the contents spewed out. Can I eat this? [more inside]
Which ADHD med won't cause anxiety?
What's a focus-enhancing ADHD medication that won't cause anxiety or make me feel "out of it" the way caffeine does? [more inside]
justin.tv DVR?
Hey, anybody got an end-to-end solution to do set-it-and-forget-it style timeshifting of Justin.tv streams? [more inside]
What non-teaching jobs are available for a potentially laid off teacher?
My government has made severe cuts in education, due to that and the fact I'm only in my 2nd year of teaching the probability that I would be laid off is very high. I have a sociology degree and an education degree, but I'm struggling any job that asks for either. [more inside]
I Will Die a Happy Person If I Find This Song
I'm on a search for a song from the eighties. [more inside]
Where did "as all get-out" come from?
IdiomFilter: What is the origin of the phrase "as all get-out"? [more inside]
Get me off my butt.
After getting married, and starting a new (temporarily lower paying) job, money is tight. During the wedding planning, I thought, "Man, when I have the money again, I'd love to get back to rock climbing or take a French class". Well, the money is still tight, and looks to be for a while. What are some hobbies I can pick up that would cost very little to no money per month? [more inside]
My Dad Needs a Better Son or Daughter
There will soon be a death in my family. I'm worried this one's going to be especially hard and I'm not sure what to do. [more inside]
Vegan mac and cheese, please!
Does anyone have any tips for vegan mac and cheese? Or favorite recipes would be nice also. [more inside]
tv pour les petites?
Asking for a friend: French-language TV (or radio) pour les petites? [more inside]
Straight out of the box: smartphone(s) that can...
Which current smartphone in the market plays FLAC files, has crossfade, has 10-band equalizer, and can either grab folder.jpg/cover.jpg from the same folder or display embedded artwork of any size straight out of the box? [more inside]
How do I get a good apartment at the right time?
I'm in College Park, MD for graduate school. My lease ends in August, and I feel like it's time to start looking for a place. I want to stay within a few minutes of campus (lived in Hyattsville before, and really liked that) but also want to try to get a place between $500 to $700 before utilities and cable. I've mostly just known people for the past few places I've lived, so I'm looking for some advice on when to start seriously looking, where to look, and other advice. [more inside]
I need a (soft) condensed matter physics textbook.
I need a (soft) condensed matter physics textbook. [more inside]
Music like Up's; up, then down
I'm looking for songs that start out cheerful or sweet and turn sad. My best example of this is the Marriage Song/Theme from the movie Up. It doesn't suit my purposes, however. Can you help me find some others? [more inside]
Is a drug test required for a DOT medical card?
Drug-testing filter: A friend of mine is working for a non-profit domestic (USA) organization and was asked to get a DOT health/medical card to drive a truck/trailer combination in excess of 10,000 lbs, carrying heavy equipment. Will a drug test be required?
A carnivore-herbivore compromise spot in Ann Arbor?
Restaurant recommendation in Ann Arbor for a vegetarian and a picky carnivore. [more inside]
Your best burrito recipe please.
Why are food cart burritos so so good and how can I make my burritos at home that good? [more inside]
Need a new fridge, what?
I have to buy a fridge and I don't how important things are. [more inside]
How do you make 'cinegraph' gifs?
We've talked about how to make gifs before - but what about "cinegraphs?" [more inside]
Where do I go to sell custom designed notepads?
Where can I go to sell custom notepads? [more inside]
Book title
My mother in law is convinced there was a novel published in the last twenty years featuring a nun as the protagonist. It was written by a man and won at least one award. Any ideas?
Fun/amazing/mindblowing Physics Presentation?
Ideas for Amazing in-class Physics presentation? [more inside]
Ebook reader help.
Hello Folks;
My wife would like a ebook reader,and we know very little about this. [more inside]
Questioner that just won't quit. HELP!
How to deal with a customer that just won't stop asking pre-sale questions? [more inside]
Nom Nom Ow!
Is my diet triggering migraines? [more inside]
I need cover(s)!
I need sound clips from film, television or other media that incorporate the word 'cover' or 'covers' in some way. Suggestions? [more inside]
Survey software recommendations?
I'm looking for a better web survey software for academic research applications. I cannot use a hosted service such as survey monkey because of human subjects data safeguarding considerations. [more inside]
No me gustan los almacenes
Why are people in Mexico not interested in "grocery stores"? [more inside]
How to find passersby at 9/11?
I am a journalist trying to find a way to locate people who were
passersby at 9/11. Not first responders, mind you, or folks who escaped from the towers -- just people who happened to be around when it happened. And despite their non-direct involvement, may have been in some way affected. Thoughts?
What should I do with my unlimited bandwidth?
What should I do with my unlimited bandwidth? [more inside]
Seeking side job to earn $400-500/mo.
How to earn extra $400-500/mo. with limited hours and 8-5 job? Specifally, seeking good at-home/on the side or Saturday/Sunday A.M. job ideas. [more inside]
I have a hard disk, but nothing to enclose it.
Please help me find a reliable external Hard Disk enclosure. [more inside]
Where can I get these old Sony tape formats converted?
Sony HG120 tape, Sony 8mm MP120 tape, Sony Video8 MP60 tape. Need converted to DVD or other modern format, in Philadelphia. If not local, than some reputable online business someone has used previously. [more inside]
Gold Standard Minus Federal Reserve
What would the U.S. economy be like right now if it hadn't left the gold standard and the Federal Reserve had not been created? [more inside]
Crotchety Crocheter is Crotchety
Crochet-filter: Can you tell me how to make the edging of an afghan not be bunched up and stupid-looking? [more inside]
Did Robert Fulgham really write this short reading?
There's a sweet and commoner-than-I-expected wedding reading that's frequently attributed to Robert Fulgham. It starts "You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment..." and is sometimes referred to by the title "Union". Did he actually write it? [more inside]
Basic HTML Knowledge of New Employees
Is it unreasonable to expect most knowledge workers entering the job market today to have basic HTML knowledge? [more inside]
Multi-skilled graphic designer
Hiring a new graphic designer. Is it realistic to be looking for someone with both print and web design skills and some ability to code? [more inside]
Our long-term NYC hotel just canceled on us
We're moving to New York City in 8 days. Our extended-stay hotel, where we made a reservation weeks ago, just told us they won't be open by then. What do we do now? [more inside]
What are librarians to do when they suspect a student is cheating on a research paper and want thier help to do so?
What are librarians to do when students cheat on a research papers and 'want them to help them? [more inside]
How can my wife get a teaching job, or a similar job?
Wife cannot get a teaching job. How to increase chances or what alternate career paths? [more inside]
Where do IT people go to die?
Where do IT people go to work when they don’t want to do IT anymore, or even work in a corporate environment? In which jobs and/or careers would IT experience be valuable? [more inside]
The Winamp Countdown (nee-ner-NEE-nerrr)
Did Winamp just install something on my computer without my permission? Help solve my mystery. You have 3 hours 52 minutes remaining! [more inside]
How do major chains make pizza?
How is pizza made at a major chain pizza restaurant? [more inside]
Plateauing after 7 pounds? Not fair!
Why aren't I losing weight anymore, despite meticulously tracking my calorie intake and exercising? [more inside]
Let's Do The Brain Wave Again
Has anyone had success with neurofeedback, or know someone who has? [more inside]
Canadian Election returns in Austin?
Where can I watch the Canadian Federal Election in a bar/coffeshop in Austin, TX? [more inside]
SSD Tips
Hoping for reliable info on appropriate care and management of modern SSD drives. [more inside]
Can you help ID this mysterious piece of electronic music?
Can you identify this (seemingly) misidentified piece of electronic music? It's supposedly by Marumari and is called "Kid Icarus Fight", but I am pretty sure that's incorrect... [more inside]
No, woman, no cry
Why does random music make me teary? [more inside]
So much grief
Is there a grief groups in Silicon Valley, for men? [more inside]
common properties of x and not
when considering 'time/space', and then identifying 'time frames' as a discrete property of this.
is it appopriate to then say 'time/space' and 'not time/space' share the common property of 'time frames' ?
Who Corrects the Correctors?
"Graphic novel" isn't merely a more sophisticated synonym for "comic book." The "H" in the Montreal Canadiens logo doesn't stand for "Habitants" (it's just "hockey"). What are other examples of wrong "insider" info commonly cited by poseur-types? Stuff that only true experts/fans would be quick to refute, and probably snicker at? [more inside]
What, if any, is the connection between Desi Arnaz and Desi Arnaz Hines II?
What, if any, is the connection between Desi Arnaz and Desi Arnaz Hines II? [more inside]
Nice suburbs to rent in darwin?
what are the nicest suburbs to rent in darwin australia? is the inner city a good option? apartment for preference
Why are these pipes built in a strange way?
Why can't LNG (liquid natural gas) pipes have long straight runs? [more inside]
Why did my electric motor stop?
What in an overdriven, broken electric motor is "burned out"? [more inside]
April 18
Trying to remember childhood novel titles
Looking for titles for two fantasy books from childhood, the publishing time frame is 1970~1990ish. Scenes from Game of Thrones reminded a friend of them... [more inside]
Sparking, short-lived light bulbs - is there any solution?
Why do our light bulbs seem to burn out far faster than they ought to? And our light switches make sparking noises? [more inside]
Job hunting in Canada
Where to start looking for web content (or similar) work in Canada? From New Zealand? [more inside]
When do I file my 1040X?
I just realized I made a mistake on my NJ state income tax return *after* I e-filed it with TurboTax. The mistake turns my refund into a payment. Should I wait until the incorrect refund clears and then file a 1040X, or just file the 1040X immediately? [more inside]
Finding supporters of human cloning
I need help finding contact information of supporters of human cloning for my school project. [more inside]
Flickr + Creative Commons = ?
I'm thinking of switching my default Flickr license from All Rights Reserved to Creative Commons. Help me understand the practicalities of this. [more inside]
What Wifi connector is this?
Can YOU identify this wifi connector? [more inside]
cabin stuff
What cool/useful/fun items do I want to have at a cabin with no electricity? [more inside]
OS X Style Folders in Windows 7?
Is there any way in Windows 7, an application or setting, to get folders to behave like in Mac OS X? I mean specifically the little triangles you can click to expand the folder so you can work with the contents without going into the folder. [more inside]
Tiny NOM, NOM, NOM.
What should we feed our new kitten? [more inside]
New apartment + new kitty?
I will be moving house soon and am interested in adding a (second) cat to my household. How to minimize trauma for the cat I already have? [more inside]
If you owned an Italian restaurant, what would you call it?
Please help me think of a new name for an Italian restaurant. [more inside]
Sleep Cycle App Killing Battery?
Sleep Cycle app on iphone 4 - does it kill your battery? [more inside]
Need "Weird" Sci Fi book recommendations
Can anyone recommend Psychedelic/ Mind Expanding contemporary Sci Fi books? [more inside]
Is bullying behavior from 15 years ago an automatic dis-qualifier for an interview?
Hiring a new employee. Well qualified applicant bullied a current employee in high school (15 years ago). Immediate disqualification? [more inside]
I'm about to take my GED test, and it's long overdue. I'm fairly confident I'll pass most sections, but how can I keep from over-thinking the essay question?
I'm about to take my GED test, and it's long overdue. I'm fairly confident I'll pass most sections, but how can I keep from over-thinking the essay question? [more inside]
The cat ate the keat
What term describes this property of human language? [more inside]
Cheapest TV?
What's the cheapest, best HD TV I can get in Australia? I'm upgrading from a CRT to some sort of flatscreen. I'm mostly going to use it for playing XBox and watching TV, so larger is better and it should be in HD. I've looked around on Gumtree but I'm wondering if there are any sites that would let me order overseas with cheap shipping and/or tricks MeFis know to get the best prices.
Do I really need a T series thinkpad?
Will I be missing out much if I buy an SL series or Thinkpad Edge laptop instead of a T series thinkpad? [more inside]
Pythagoras Switch available to purchase?
Is the adorable Japanese children's TV show Pythagoras Switch, (aka Pitagora Suicchi) available as a dvd or download in the US? [more inside]
Go see a doc now or wait?
Should I go see my doc tomorrow or wait a month? [more inside]
Am I working legally?
I'm currently a UK international student and I just found out about online writing services such as www.demandstudios.com. I've just earned my first $15 through the first article which I'd submitted, yay ! However, I'm concerned about the legalities of such activities. [more inside]
Mental Biking
Tips on getting mentally prepared for my first mountain bike race. [more inside]
Something other than tubular bells plz
What's the chime-y instrumental background music at ~1:35 of this clip from the No Reservations Thailand episode? [more inside]
Fighting like cats and cats
Help me introduce a new kitten to my cat. [more inside]
Stupid burning stupid hand
Can you help me stop stupid burning my stupid hand? [more inside]
Annual reviews and raises for a newbie
My first annual review since entering the workplace is coming up. What should I expect? Can/should I parlay the courtship I'm getting from other companies into a raise? [more inside]
Help me not be a creepy jealous boyfriend
How do I get over feeling weird about my girlfriend and her male friend? [more inside]
High altitude day hikes in California.
High altitude day hikes in California. [more inside]
How do I un-traumatize myself?
I tried to break up with my boyfriend over the weekend, and it didn't go well. I've agreed to give things another shot but I don't think I can get over what happened during the breakup. [more inside]
What should I get paid as an editor for an ebook company?
What should I get paid as a senior editor of a new ebook company? [more inside]
Looking for online environmental video recommendations.
I'm looking for awesome short environmental videos available online, to be included in an environmental video festival. Thoughts? [more inside]
Facebook friends
I have an old friend Ned (who is not friends with any of my other friends) on facebook. I comment on and discuss many things with this Ned. My other friends (who are not friends with Ned, live in a different state, have never met Ned, and have no connection to him except my existence!) show up on Ned's page liking what I have said and occasionally even adding to the discussion. [more inside]
Roadtrip SF to LA/Indio with teens?
Help me plot out an awesome roadtrip and hotel from San Francisco's East Bay to Indio, CA this weekend. Bonus point: teenagers, driver's sanity, scenic viewpoints [more inside]
Ghost in the van
Ghost in the van: our 12-passenger van has started up a few times without a key in the ignition. Also, the locking mechanism sometimes engages continuously, leaving us briefly locked in/out of the vehicle. Is it haunted? [more inside]
Atomic Cafe Incidental Music
Does anyone recognize the music playing during Eisenhower's speech at about 40 minutes into "The Atomic Cafe"? It's not on the soundtrack and it doesn't seem to be listed in the closing credits. Thank you!
Legit indie mmo projects?
I need help finding an Indie mmorpg project. [more inside]
DC charities that pick up furniture donations?
DC area (Arlington, VA specifically) charities that will come pick up furniture donations? Preferably alternatives to the Salvation Army? [more inside]
Product recommendations for the usual summertime beauty issues...?
Product recommendations for the usual summertime beauty issues....? [more inside]
Getting off the advanced plateau
Given 4 months of free time, how can an advanced English learner take the biggest step toward full fluency? [more inside]
Python-Tkinter data passing
I'm writing a program in Python using Tkinter for GUI stuff. How can I pass data back from my buttons to the logic of my program? [more inside]
Alphabet songs around the world?
Are there "alphabet songs" for alphabets other than English? THere is the familiar alphabet song, to the tune of "twinkle twinkle little star". Are there similar songs for children learning the alphabets of other languages, such as Finnish, German, French, Spanish, Italian, Russian, etc.? [more inside]
Conflict wine?
I was invited to a Passover seder tomorrow night with the request that each guest bring a personal bottle of wine for our own individual enjoyment. There was also this: "I would appreciate if your wine was not produced in occupied Palestinian territory." In the spirit of being difficult, I'd like to locate a wine produced in a state with an ongoing territorial dispute. Can you recommend one? [more inside]
Kanye's art history?
Seeking online collaboration tool!
Looking for a cheap (free?) online collaboration tool that will allow me to share documents with a group of folks. Maybe it has a blog/notes capability? Maybe a discussion board? Plus it sends email notifications to users when updates are made. Is KeepandShare? Is it something else? Help?
Help me make the best ever Bachelorette party goody bags.
Help me make the best ever Bachelorette party goody bags. [more inside]
Which deaths cause angel lust?
Which circumstances lead to an erection after death? [more inside]
There's data just waiting to be scraped....
Excel-macro filter / this-must-be-possible filter: copy and paste a cell (say, A2) into Google Maps, hit submit, then copy and paste the first phone number into an empty cell (say, A10). How to make it work? [more inside]
how can I have the community help tag hudreds of text documents?
Looking for web based Open Source tool for allowing tagging of text documents by a community [more inside]
Refi under water?
Is refinancing a house absolutely excluded when you're under water? (Mortgage balance ~250k, home value ~220k)
The Social Impact of Air Conditioning in the United States
I've been thinking about the social impact of relatively mundane technologies, like air conditioning, largely because of a brief mention by Kevin Kelly in What Technology Wants. He says something along the lines of, "cheap air conditioning transformed the American southeast."
So I'm looking for scholarly sources that discuss the transformative power of air conditioning on american culture. [more inside]
What are our tenant rights in MI?
If a tenant's safety is severely threatened, can they legally bypass the lease agreement and break the lease? [more inside]
I'm burning for you
help me break a fever asap! [more inside]
No cow prints.
I'm looking for recommendations for dressy, breastfeeding-friendly outfits to attend a wedding (or two!) in. [more inside]
Why have a herb & spice rack if you dont use it?
My herb and spice rack never gets used. I would like to use them all up this year, if not I will probably throw them away. Since I don't have a chef's instinct, I don't know what foods they are best used for, or probably more importantly, what foods they wont work well with. [more inside]
eu quero falar ..
Can you direct me towards a Portuguese class in Seattle? [more inside]
Theater. China. Sheesh.
Hey Theater People!!! How do I run backstage wardrobe for a show in China??? [more inside]
Pasttimes for sad children
I have three weeks off and I've forgotten how to amuse and improve myself. [more inside]
What is the title/author of this essay about caring for an aging dog?
What is the title/author of this essay about caring for an aging dog? More inside. [more inside]
Need insurance advice.
Renter's insurance. How much does one get, and how do appraisals work? Asking on the higher end of things, broadly speaking. [more inside]
My beloved cat died. How can I integrate her collar into a memento?
My beloved cat died. How can I integrate her collar into a memento? [more inside]
Springtucky Derby
I'm trying to gather a list of regional pejoratives for cities and suburbs. Like here in Oregon USA, we refer to Springfield as "Springtucky," and Clackamas as "Clackansas". In Denver they call Aurora "Saudi Aurora" or "Guadalaurora". "Spocompton" is a common epithet for Spokane, WA. [more inside]
Sticker Printers in California and Area
Looking for recommendations for print shops in California (or close by) that can print full color stickers on a roll. [more inside]
How do I remove print artifacts from a scan?
Removing colour print dithering artifacts from scanned image/map? How? [more inside]
Rustic cabin on the Appalachian with in a 1/2 day drive of Pocono PA
The last weekend of June I'm headed to Pocono PA for a family reunion with my bf. We're from Seattle and want to stay an additional 4-5 nights to explore the area. We're looking for a rustic cabin or lodge surrounded by wilderness to explore.
We've been looking around the Delaware Gap but everything seems targeted at families with kids or golfers (we're in our 20s). It'd be great to do some hiking on the Appalachian Trail. The hut to hut hikes in NH look pretty amazing but they're a bit of a trek from PA. If you're familiar with the Northwest we're looking for the Doe Bay or Kalaloch of the area. Thanks for your help.
Another toy to be abandoned, or fierce time waster?
I have an opportunity to get an new xbox for cheap, and I have a huge (really huge) library of games available for me to borrow from and play for free. If I do go this route, which games should I look at? I'm not really a gamer... [more inside]
Always scribble, scribble, scribble -- now how to display?
I've been keeping research notebooks since the early 1990s, on a lot of different subjects. They're all finally consolidated as a couple thousand text files written in Markdown syntax. I'd like to start putting them up, gradually, on a website for others to use. A wiki seems the best way. (Is it?) I've got a few other questions about the best one, and best way, though: [more inside]
Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse.
Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse. [more inside]
Enable me to change my latitude for 30 days, please!
Please help me request a month off of work. I have a great opportunity coming up, but don't want to risk my job for it. [more inside]
Please help me find a group video chat solution that works better than Skype!
Please help me find a group video chat solution that works better than Skype! [more inside]
help identify books about solipsism
help identify books about solipsism [more inside]
connect pv-gs120 without firewire
Can a Panasonic PV-GS120 be used for streaming video without a firewire port? Plus more questions! [more inside]
Is my cat a stealth arsonist?
My roommate is blaming an oven fire on my cat, and it's causing some tension between us. Help me figure out the best way to handle the situation so we're both satisfied. [more inside]
Job applications: how to get positive references?
So what is the current protocol for getting professional references & making sure they're positive? Difficulty: I am still employed and don't want to tell The Boss I'm applying. [more inside]
Looking for specific Radio Lab (I think) piece
Where can I find a Radio Lab (I think...) recording that was of a girl's speech patterns from birth through adolescence? [more inside]
Rock of Cashel art
Where can I find a print or high-quality poster of this photo of Ireland's Rock of Cashel? [more inside]
Save me from having to fix my couch every half hour?
How can I make this cover stay on my couch? [more inside]
Burning Sulfa? Freezing Sulfa? Striking a happy medium...
My RA medication (sulfasalazine) seems to work less well after I am about halfway through a bottle of tablets (i.e. about halfway through each 30 day supply). How do I keep the tablets at a defined (warmer than average) temperature, in case storage conditions are an issue? Details inside. [more inside]
Where do I buy eighties ski gear?
Where can I buy ski wear from the eighties? Better yet, are there any companies that do this now? [more inside]
Unwanted webspace - what now?
I just accidentally bought a year's premium-ish web hosting. I can't get a refund. How should I sell it or give it away? [more inside]
Bimonthly San Francisco apartment question: Student Edition
Please help a new grad move to San Francisco. I will probably arrive on June 1 and start working June 10, and I have $1500 for the whole move in process. Where do I stay while I'm apartment hunting? A hotel is very expensive and a hostel is pretty cramped. I could probably stay on a friend's couch but are there any other reasonable options for 1 month stays? [more inside]
Tablet application UI / UX resources
I'm looking for user interface (UI) and user experience articles, tutorials, and resources specifically targetted at tablet applications. [more inside]
Looking for long, colourful leather bracelets
I really like the coloured leather bracelets in this photo from STREETFSN. Where can I get similar bracelets? [more inside]
Show me a clip with real personality...
I am seeking movies and clips of individuals with personality disorders, for a lecture I will be giving to college students. Any great ideas? [more inside]
Help me find durable high-quality clothing basics for small women
I'm looking for recommendations for well-cut, simple, durable, high-quality clothing basics for women. [more inside]
Should I buy bank stock? The sequel
Should I buy bank stock? The sequel [more inside]
April 17
Help Us Design a CS + English Puzzle
My friends, a software engineer and a novelist, are getting married. I want to give them a puzzle to solve as a wedding gift that requires the use of both their skills. [more inside]
Songs about domesticity
What are some good songs about domesticity besides "Our House" by Crosby Stills Nash and Young?
iPhone was stolen - now what?
Stolen iPhone - no remote "wipe everything" software set up, what can I do, if anything, to protect my privacy? [more inside]
Places around Sydney for Day Trips
[SydneyFilter] The Easter holidays are upon us, and we aren't going anywhere. Right now, it seems likely that we'd only be able to do day trips (same day return, no overnight stays) to places around Sydney. Where should we go? [more inside]
Do I have to live in Virginia to go to school there?
My family lives and pays taxes in Virginia, and has for nearly a decade. I'd like to live and work in D.C. and commute to a certain suburban Virginia school to finish my Bachelor's degree starting this coming Fall term. I'd be financially independent with the exception of tuition, which my parents would cover. Is there any way I could be eligible for in-state tuition while living in the District?
Am I losing my mind or just getting old?
I've recently noticed that I occasionally feel lost (literally) when I absolutely shouldn't. [more inside]
How can I learn to cook
How can I learn to cook for myself? [more inside]
Pop group backup dancers. What's the story there?
What's the history of performers using backup dancers? [more inside]
name of a movie...
Can you help with the name of this movie: From the 70s (possibly early 80s) about a teenage boy and his relationship with a psychiatrist/therapist. I think his brother had died, also, he might have been a swimmer? The therapist helps him overcome his emotional demons. I cannot remember much more than this but it was a great movie and I want to watch it again!
Help me find a hip hop song with the lyric "black diamond, white gold".
Help me find a hip hop song with the lyric "black diamond, white gold". [more inside]
How to deal with re-emergence of a braggy friend?
What do you do with a "friend" who gets you down but you'd like to keep as a professional connection? [more inside]
Becoming more laid-back?
How do I become a carefree person? [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go?
My living situation is perfect. But I'm not satisfied with it. Is there a way to fix it? Should I leave? If so, how? [more inside]
How do I sell video?
How do I sell footage of a celebrity from before they were famous? [more inside]
protecting myself while walking against agressive dogs
what can i use to protect myself from unleashed aggressive dogs on my walk to work? [more inside]
Identify this board game?
The song title notwithstanding, what's the board game being played in this ABBA video?
How to unload a painting of light
How much is this particular proof of a Thomas Kinkade painting worth and how do I go about selling it? [more inside]
Do Italian soccer players use their ankle more?
Do players of Italian soccer use the heel part of their foot for dribbling/passing more than in the Premier league or elsewhere? [more inside]
Explain business ethics, and how they are applied today.
Is my new employer (a spice company) acting ethically in its business practices? [more inside]
Companions to love of my life The Last Express?
I don't know much about computer games, but I love historical adventure game The Last Express. Please help me find similar games. [more inside]
Moving to a new and better host
I am moving to a new host for my website and I have a couple questions. [more inside]
Help me resurrect my Xbox - for the 4th time!
Anyone know of real E-74 error Xbox 360 fix? [more inside]
Twelve/Douze Points to Estonia...
What foods should I serve at a Eurovision party? (It will be mid-afternoon in my time zone.) Any other party suggestions? [more inside]
Looking for Tiny Houseplants in Savannah
I have the urge to build a small terrarium but have had little luck finding plants the right size in Savannah, GA. Where can I find small houseplants in the Savannah area? [more inside]
Apple-Esq Music
Control Issues
Control issues: help me find online resources and reading material [more inside]
Is my cabbage a boy or a girl?
Please help us with French translation for an engraving on a wedding ring! Details inside. [more inside]
How to deal with a traffic ticket I got while on my bike in New York?
I was cycling in Central Park this morning and got a summons for running a red light with my bike. Now what? [more inside]
Wanting to Learn How to Make Digital Art (poorly worded, I know)
I have good drawing skills (especially pen and ink) but am an amateur artist. I would like to get into working with digital art etc perhaps even to the point as a side job or making a living. The bumps are that I cannot afford to go back to school and am not super tech-savvy (yet). I have basic skills in Photoshop and Adobe Illustrator but that is it. Any ideas on where to go next? (I am so completely ignorant on the field taht I don't know what to call people who do this for a living.) Push come to shove, I could probably take a few classes a year, though after I save some money.
My feet are killing me after a London weekend.
Can anyone help me get back on my feet (literally)? My feet are killing me after a London weekend. [more inside]
How do I convert video from my DSLR?
Hassle free way to share video from a DSLR? [more inside]
I don't have to explain myself to you
I'm looking for bubblegum dance music. The most sublime bubblegum dance you know of. Things like Waka Laka or the famous Barbie Girl. [more inside]
How much can I expect to spend in two weeks at the Bahamas?
How much can I expect to spend in two weeks at the Bahamas? [more inside]
Helena Fun Map
Where online can I buy a "fun" map of Helena, MT? [more inside]
How to set up online appointment booking for advising/experiments in academic department
Recommendations to set up an online appointment booking system for student advising appointments and psychological experiment participation in a medium-sized academic department? [more inside]
Lodging in Reykjavik, Iceland
Icelandlodgingfilter: My wife an I will be in Iceland for a week in late May and are looking for lodging. We're out of the demographic for loud noises and partying but like to get a feel of places that we visit. [more inside]
help my dog stay chill
Two years ago, I rescued an older 10lbs shiba inu/chihuahua mix who has a lot of fur and overheats easily. We've already had a few hot days in Los Angeles this year, and I'm concerned about keeping him cool and healthy, especially since we've moved to a new house that gets a lot warmer during the day. [more inside]
Help with disability insurance post lay-off
Help! Got an injury before getting laid off, but doctor underdiagnosed me until after the lay-off. Can I still make a disability insurance claim with the company or is it too late? [more inside]
Best Aloha Experience
Visiting Hawai'i for 10 days. Staying on Oahu. I also want to go to the island of Hawai'i to Volcanoes National Park. What are the best site s to research my trip? Are there some overlooked interesting sights you can recommend, a can't-miss restaurant, etc., on Oahu or Hawai'i? Out of the way museum? [more inside]
Berkeley Staycation
Need Help planning a Berkeley CA/East Bay Staycation with my wife. [more inside]
Finding a Job in the Middle East
overseasjobfilter: I'm about to be a newly minted BA with a foundational understanding of formal arabic. I want to find a job in an Arabic-speaking country. Thoughts and ideas? [more inside]
Does one need good grades to enter the Coast Guard?
How much does GPA affect entrance into the Coast Guard? [more inside]
Graduate School: Can I ? Should I? Where?
Graduate School: Can I ? Should I? Where? [more inside]
Gracefully handling more power at work - tips?
I am becoming more "powerful" at work even though my job title is remaining the same, and I'd like some ideas on how to handle the change gracefully and maintain good relationships with my colleagues. [more inside]
Rowhouse 101?
Moving Into A Rowhouse In Baltimore. What Do I Need To Know? [more inside]
Nothing sappy for this baby boy!
What upbeat song would be an appropriate soundtrack for a 30-second time lapse video clip of my wife's baby belly growing over the span of her pregnancy? (intro to the baby's first year video) [more inside]
Is she my ex-BFF?
Is she my ex-BFF? [more inside]
Are strawberries related to catnip?!?
One of our cats gets off on strawberries. Is this OK? [more inside]
MORE relationship hacks?
My relationship is good, but I want it to be the best relationship EVER (hyperbole). What are some good ways to improve a long term relationship, after both people are really comfortable with each other? [more inside]
Help me cut up a giant video clip - easily!
I ripped a DVD of music videos, and now have one giant .m4v file. What's the easiest way to cut it down to separate videos?
I used handbrake to rip it, but the chapters don't correspond to the videos - there are intros, etc. that i don't want. I have access to iMovie and maybe Final Cut Express, but that seems like overkill.
There's gotta be a simpler way, right?
Happy first birthday! I got you a Tjōlerfäger!
I am in Canada and would like to acquire an Ikea gift card that can be used at an Ikea in Sweden. [more inside]
Help me find one weekend of fun or inner-peace.
Where in North/Central American could I go for an overnight of adventure or peace or interest? [more inside]
Any tips for an older learner driver (UK)?
I'm going to learn to drive a car. I have never driven a car before (unless you count, like, dodgems). I'm in my late 30s, and have recently moved to a town on the edge of nowhere (in Wales). The idea of driving is beginning to make me nervous. It's a combination of the "it's hard to learn when you're old" thing, the "rural place so no dual carriageways" thing, and the "oh my all those cars seem to go so fast" thing. What can I do to make this easier? Are there any "learning to drive for dummies" books that are worth getting? Or should I just stop panicking, bite the bullet and book myself some lessons?
Oh, it's on now! Give me your best dessert recipes, please.
I'm looking for the very best, "I've never tasted anything so good," melt in your mouth, dessert recipes I can find. [more inside]
How to help a girl who is being made to feel uncomfortable at work?
This afternoon, a girl at work confided in me that a male colleague of ours has been making her feel uncomfortable. I want to help her, but I find myself questioning my own motives. I don't want to be one of "those" guys... [more inside]
Is there already an online resource for looking up the punishments for various crimes?
Dear Metafilter, I'm trying to create on online database of the legal status and punishment of various activities in different jurisdictions. Does this already exist? [more inside]
Help me find the value of my sterling tea set. :)
How do I find the value of a silver tea set? [more inside]
To Persevere or 'Next'?
How to solve this dating dilemma? [more inside]
how can I reduce my fiancee's anxieties so I can eventually start looking for work?
My fiancee suffers from panic and anxiety disorder as well as OCD. I live with her and her mother and haven't worked since 2005 because of my own mental health challenge (bipolar disorder). I now want to start the long journey towards being employed again, but a potential stumbling block will be her anticipatory anxiety. She gets totally panicked when I have appointments such that I have had to cancel visits to my psychiatrist or meeting up with friends. How will we ever get to the point where I can be making regular appointments for job interviews? More inside. [more inside]
Is there a trick to probate I'm not seeing?
My mother died, and now I need to know what to do about wills and probate and so forth. [more inside]
Help me not suck at job interviews
I have an interview for my dream position this week. Help me ace it/not ruin my chances. [more inside]
My friend is being stalked and harassed, how can we help?
How can I help a friend protect herself from a stalker? [more inside]
Puppy love
Will getting a dog help me be less of an introvert? [more inside]
Please help me binge by giving me your high volume low calorie food flood ideas
Please help me binge! Looking for high volume, low calorie foods that I can seemingly eat endless amounts of without feeling bad [more inside]
Prompted for a username and password when browsing to an IIS virtual directory
Why do I get prompted for a Windows username and password when I connect to a virtual directory under IIS? [more inside]
Awesome Android themes?
Anyone know any cool kickass Android phone themes that are really well designed?
April 16
Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society. Mark Twain
I need a major rehabilitation of my wardrobe. I kinda know where to start, but I need any fashion help possible. Caveats: I'm a guy, I'm overweight, I have a limited budget for now, and I'm style-impaired. [more inside]
What are these white bugs on my houseplants?
Catching automotive scofflaws on my street
Automated camera w/infrared for catching scofflaws (boom cars)? [more inside]
Please recommend books on "mixed-use" garden design for Northern climates.
I have an old formal garden next to my 1830's house and I'd like to transform it to more of a kitchen garden with a combination of vegetables, herbs, flowers, berries and espaliered fruit trees interspersed with stone work and some wilder areas. I'm also considering chickens and will want a place for a clothes line. Do you know of a good book for designing beautiful, yet practical, gardens? [more inside]
help me decide
I got 2 job offers - yay! But now I need help on deciding which one is the right career move for me. [more inside]
Moving from the cool aunt to the coolest aunt ever
Help me introduce my aunt to good music she's never heard. [more inside]
He's been so much more relaxed since we started shouting at him
Senior dog going deaf. Care of deaf dog: anything I'm overlooking? [more inside]
Can best friends transact Silver bullion?
A good friend of mine is in a reciprocal position to my position. He has a decent amount of old silver dollars that he would like to convert to cash and I am interested in accumulating Silver bullion... [more inside]
help! I bought a cellphone I can't use.
Confused about my new Samsung cell phone.. [more inside]
How much bacon deliciousness am I really dealing with here?
Am I misunderstanding how to read basic nutrition labels? Please help me figure out how much of what is in my package of bacon. [more inside]
Please tell me I won't have to busk for money in Mexico!
Going overseas in 4 and both by debit and credit card stopped working. Can I get a replacement or open a new account and get a card in time in Australia? [more inside]
Literature by Committee.
Do you know of any high end forum or blog threads which have started with a controversial but lucid OP (original post) and over a large number of comments the OP'er has proven him/herself to be totally and wickedly dishonest and possibly insane. [more inside]
Best fine visual art on web?
What is the most interesting fine visual art that has been made for the web? I am especially interested in experimental stuff that could never exist as a conventional painting or sculpture, and which can only be experienced online. Any examples appreciated!
Are there any good resources for modestly priced sunglasses made for women with bigger craniums?
I'm a petite woman with an extremely large head. It is difficult for me to find decent-looking non-RX sunglasses that don't painfully squeeze my head. [more inside]
my honda civic has trouble going into reverse. why?
our 2006 honda civic EX sedan (automatic) is having occasional problems shifting into reverse. we're taking it in to be fixed, but i want to try and read up on this beforehand. fascinating details inside. [more inside]
Is unity sameness?
Spirituality filter:
What does "union with God" or "unity" mean to you? Mystics and religious figures often talk about how union with God/ unity is the final end/ realization in the spiritual path. I have heard many different ideas and interpretations about what this means but am unsure how to think about it. [more inside]
You givin' me the high hat?
Help! Name that movie! I only remember a single scene: the movie is set in the 20s or 30s, I think, and one of the characters- who I believe is a chubby little guy with a moustache- is obsessed with the idea that people are "givin' him the high hat." [more inside]
Forum suggestions.
Is there somewhere I can go online to discuss relationship questions, or to ask for advice? Which forums are best for getting someone else's perspective? [more inside]
A little too sensitive. On both sides.
Dating bean plate: Are we both too insecure and anxious to date each other? Or this is normal for the first stages of dating? [more inside]
Like a moth to a flame
Why am I drawn to certain people like a moth to a flame? [more inside]
Help me eat the food of other countries!
I need more information on which popular ethnic dishes I need to avoid. [more inside]
Which drinks for springtime?
What are some seasonally-appropriate beverages for spring? [more inside]
lost for words
Spanish idiom filter: I'm looking for a spanish idiom/phrase meaning something far away from civilisation. It went something like: ahi donde el jesu christo something.any ideas?
Instant Mouse
I'm looking for the recipe for "Instant Mouse" from The New Natural Cat by Anitra Frazier. Is it kosher to not buy the book, but ask for the recipe? I did used to own it...
A night we'll never forget... that we can't tell anyone about?
My longtime boyfriend and I are coming up on an anniversary soon, and we're planning a "sinful" vacation to celebrate. We're also pretty kinky. Where in the US can we go and what can we do to have THE most (legally) debaucherous weekend imaginable? [more inside]
Never be friends with your boss?
My friend is now my boss. How does our friendship change? [more inside]
Papal Hitman Gear: Never Leave Rome Without It
[Catholic-Details-For-Fiction-Filter] I'm one of the Pope's personal hitmen/supernatural problem solvers on assignment. What's in my travel kit (besides blessed weapons & ammo)? [more inside]
What weeds are these?
I'm having some trouble identifying two weeds in my yard/garden. [more inside]
How to get to Crater Lake without a car?
How can I get to Crater Lake from Portland OR, without having to rent a car? [more inside]
Keep me dry
Fender suggestions for a road bike [more inside]
How to store lemon zest?
How to store lemon zest? [more inside]
How do I deal with an expectation of perfection at work while receiving little constructive feedback?
How do I deal with an expectation of perfection at work while receiving little constructive feedback? [more inside]
Should I admit that the anonymous gift was from me?
Should I admit that the anonymous gift was from me? [more inside]
One way the West has the East beat...
What are some In-N-Out Burger locations easily accessible via airport and light rail? [more inside]
BBQ recommendations
Help me choose a new BBQ. [more inside]
Car won't start - could it be a loose timing belt?
Rainy day + Replaced timing belt (2005) that's loose + Car won't start.
Could it be the loose timing belt or just a wet distributor cap? [more inside]
There's a Mystery Afoot!
Can anyone identify these splats? My friend found them in her Ann Arbor MI (USA) townhouse after having been away last weekend. They were on windowsills as well as the bathroom floor. In addition, a few small items on top of a tall piece of furniture were knocked over. While she was gone, the interior motion-sensor of her alarm system went off twice, but the service tech found and replaced a bad wire, so this may or may not be related. We assume it's animal droppings of some sort, but have no idea beyond that. Can you help?
Should I continue on with my co-author on a questionable project (and with a difficult working relationship)?
Should I continue on with my co-author on a questionable project (and with a difficult working relationship)? [more inside]
And She is Looking Forward to Trying Some of this Casual Sex Everyone is Talking About
I am in my mid-twenties and, after being in relationships almost continuously since high school, I am finally single and ready to start dating around. I want to start meeting people and maybe have a few one-night stands, because why not? I am a little unfamiliar with how to meet strangers. The discussion came up with some of my friends about wingmaning. [more inside]
ET 2.0 Beyond Phoning Home
I just got a smartphone. What are some great ways you've found to use your phone? I've got a good array of basic apps, so I'm not so much looking for recommendations, but instead for your ideas about how to integrate the phone and its combinations of apps into a productive and creative way of life. [more inside]
Need help ID'ing this bird
Strange but beautiful large bird - what is it? [more inside]
Ach I'm an idiot
After 10 years of being blasé about downloading dodgy stuff from wherever I pleased, I've just messed up my computer in a single mouse click. It won't start up now, even in safe mode. How can I fix this? [more inside]
What are the most genuinely useful, practical things you've bought on Amazon that you didn't even know Amazon sold?
What are the most genuinely useful, practical things you've bought on Amazon that you were surprised they even sold? I'm trying to spend a gift certificate, but drawing a blank. [more inside]
My kitten is missing
My kitten is missing. What can I do to maximise the chances of getting her back? [more inside]
Phaa Love Pa!
Is a human-dolphin hybrid genetically possible? [more inside]
Taxes Taxes Taxes - What Do They Want From Us?
You Are Not My Employer's Accountant: My W-2 this year has an entry in Box 18, which is preventing me from e-filing because Boxes 19 and 20 are (correctly) blank. There's a mistake here somewhere... but where? [more inside]
Are my antibiotics necessary?
I had a tooth extracted last week and despite being on antibiotics for four days, it's infected, and the infection has spread, making it painful to swallow. The solution: a different antibiotic has been prescribed. I don't like antibiotics, so my question is: what would happen if I just didn't take the damn things, took the painkillers, braved it out and waited for my body to handle it alone? Would that just be stupid? I appreciate that it's probably hard to advise without specific details, but any comments welcome.
Need to know if the auto repair guy is ripping me off! help!
Check engine light came on this morning. Auto repair guy is giving me a very large estimate and an offer to just buy the car off my hands. I know next-to-nothing about cars, so can't tell if he's robbing me or not. People who know cars, help me figure this out? [more inside]
Good contest sites and Facebook contests that are open internationally (or just to Canadian residents)?
Good contest sites and Facebook contests that are open internationally (or just to Canadian residents)? [more inside]
keep your chemicals to yourself please
What can I do if my neighbor's pool leaks into my yard? (USA, VA) [more inside]
Denver Airport Layover
I'll be taking a business trip in a few weeks and I have a 6 hour layover in the Denver airport. What are my options? I've heard the airport might be too far away from the city for any real excursion. Is there anything worthwhile INSIDE the airport? NEAR the airport? Or do I just need a good book and a cup of coffee?
Is that shyness or are you just unhappy to see me?
How to tell the difference between an anxious person who's interested in you but shy about it from a person who's not interested and anxious because you're creeping them out? [more inside]
silence of the shams
just how unrealistic is a gun silencer as presented in films, something about twice the size of the barrel making a pistol barely audible? how close to the "polite sneeze" sound of a silenced pistol can you get in reality with a similarly-sized muffler?
Please help this fictional illiterate...
My brain needs some fiction reading and I'd like some recommendations based on my tastes in TV/Film: Mad Men, Quadrophenia, Good Fellas, The Krays, There Will Be Blood, Election, Spinal Tap, American Beauty, Eyes Wide Shut, Flashbacks of Fool, The Graduate, Rushmore.
Thanks!
Why Is Facebook Crashing My Computer?
My Windows Explorer has recently begun to crash whenever I get a Facebook email. Any idea why this is happening and how I can fix it?
iTunes for v8.0?
iTunes doesn't want to sell apps to me anymore, and I'm hurt. Any help for a v8-er? [more inside]
Comfortable formalwear -can it be done?
Calling Men's Fashions: Is there a way to do formalwear without squeezing the neck? [more inside]
Should I be content to do a poor job?
Career: New job, rapidly discovering I don't like the way the place works, but need to stick it out. How to adjust my expectations in order to survive? [more inside]
Navigation without data connection on Android
I used to have an app on my Nokia E71 that would allow me to set waypoints and then provide a distance and bearing back to that position using the phone's built-in GPS. You could store thousands of GPS waypoints, either by using your current location or by entering long-lat; and organise waypoints into groups. There was no need for any data access. Does something like this exist on Android (HTC Desire)? What I'm not looking for is an offline SatNav program like CoPilot or MobileNavigator.
An album cover as a toilet door sign?
What album cover would be cool as a toilet door sign? Anything goes...! [more inside]
Motorcycle suggestions please!
I'd like suggestions for a motorcycle- less than $8000, would get 40-100 miles daily with several stops, comfortable for a larger dude, and gets rocking mpg. [more inside]
What to expect way before you are expecting
I am not even pregnant yet, and I feel like my husband is already concerned about the state of my body after pregnancy. [more inside]
What are these lists called?
Is there a specific name for the McSweeneys-type quizzes / lists where the reader is asked to identify which category an item belongs in? [more inside]
April 15
Chess sites wanted
I'm looking for free sites on which to play chess against live people. [more inside]
hurtin' pup
My dog had oral surgery today and had six teeth out; all went normally. Sent home with pain meds, and has taken them. She has been whining all night, and I know I would too if I were her, but I'm running out of ideas. What else can I do to help both of us sleep? [more inside]
OK, You've Had Your Fun at My Expense....Please. I mean it. Stop.
What's it like "on the inside" when a politician gets skewered over really stupid comments or actions and the response goes viral? [more inside]
Seller/developer claims to have a competing offer on house that we're interested in, the day before we're due to meet with her-- is this suspicious?
Do real estate sellers ever falsely claim to have a competing offer to drum up a sense of urgency and drive up your own offer? That would be really unethical, right? But is there any way to verify their claim of another offer? [more inside]
Can I make a thing go switchy?
Can i put a three-picture, automatically alternating slideshow in a wordpress.com post? [more inside]
What is the cheapest prepaid WiFi in Australia?
What is the cheapest pre-paid WiFi internet is Australia?
How to improve my writing?
Do you know of a free website, or good book, that will help me write better? [more inside]
Studying Abroad vs. Working
Asking for my friend. My friend is finishing her associate's degree in a creative field in May, but is not sure of whether she should look for a job right away, or accept her admittance to a prestigious and high-profile exchange program at a foreign university. Oh, and she knows about the flipping-a-coin trick so that won't work. [more inside]
Hi, my name is -, and I'm incredibly creepy
Can you recommend good books on forgiving yourself / accepting yourself for having a kink? [more inside]
How does re-categorizing independent contractors work?
My wife is looking into reporting her boss for miscategorizing her as an independent contractor. I'm quite sure she has been; her boss has even referred to the staff repeatedly as employees. (In materials we have saved.) We're looking for an employment attorney right now, but I've just got a couple preliminary questions to understand how this works. [more inside]
Making travel plans to San Fran.
Trip planning to SF/Yosemite help! [more inside]
Bosch Dishwasher Drain Noise
I've got a Bosch SHU9915UC/U11 dishwasher that makes a really loud noise a few times during the wash cycle. The noise comes during the draining cycle(s). It's loud and I think I might even hear some grinding noises. It does drain, and there is no water left inside when the cycle is complete, but I could do without all of the extra noise.
I've located a replacement pump online, but before I buy I just want to get a few second opinions as to what you think the problem might be.
Thanks!
Oh god, why is there a dead deer under my deck?
There is a dead deer under my deck. Who do I call to get rid of it? [more inside]
Bandwidth meters show no activity
Bandwidth meters don't detect any network traffic. What's happening (or not)? [more inside]
What test scores should one list on a resume?
What test scores is it appropriate to list on a general resume for someone with a Master's and job experience? [more inside]
Meow, meow, meow, plink, plonk, plink.
Linux flavor for old laptop
I have an old IBM Thinkpad T30-2366-21U 1.6 Ghz 256 Mb ram, came with Windows 2000 Pro SP4 which MS no longer supports. I wonder which Linux distro would be a good fit for this machine to get a little more useful life out of it. Thanks for your opinion.
Best local cellphone option in France?
My family is meeting up in Paris this June to spend time together, and my parents would like to have a cellphone to use there. They don't currently use one, and know very little about how to get one. They've asked me to figure out their best option. [more inside]
WaxingFilter: Advice for a rookie?
I have an appointment tomorrow morning for my first session of body waxing. What do you wish someone told you before the first time you got waxed? [more inside]
I love it when a plan comes together
Tell me your favorite movies about the successful execution of a plan. [more inside]
Anybody have any experience with multi-point locks for French doors?
Anybody have any experience with multi-point locks for French doors? [more inside]
Why is my Wordpress blog redirecting to a single post from the front page?
Help me figure out why my wordpress blog is redirecting the front page… [more inside]
Best of JSTOR?
Help me make the most of JSTOR and the other online resources my university library subscribes to before I graduate. [more inside]
Getting good help these days, cancer edition.
Medicalized New Yorkers: How do you get a biopsy appointment fast? [more inside]
Simple walkie-talkie recommendations?
Recommendations for good, simple walkie talkies, or similar "Where are you, kid?" devices. [more inside]
I'm probably fucked.
What is the best way for an US-based online poker player to obtain proof of their online bankrolls in light of the pending worldwide shutdown of FTP, Stars and AP? [more inside]
Considering Naltrexone
I am attempting to curb my alcoholism, and I'm wondering if taking Naltrexone might be a good aid. [more inside]
Be vewwy quiet...
How do I catch a rabbit? [more inside]
Help me not get robbed in Rome.
I'm going to Rome and concerned about getting robbed/pickpocketed. Help me have an unstressful vacation! [more inside]
Establishing a business in Japan for a European
Any suggestions for a guide to business development for a European in Japan? [more inside]
Pickled beet surplus
Does anyone have any good ideas/recipes/uses for pickled beets? [more inside]
Antiques Roadshow, perhaps?
Help me identify and date this glass pendant lamp. [more inside]
Scotland Itinerary Planning
Scotland vacation help needed, please. We have the itinerary, now we just need suggestions on the best things to do! We'll be visiting Edinburgh, Inverness, and Glasgow. [more inside]
Also, I'm not to keen on working for free, either, unless that's not as outlandish a concept as I perceive it to be.
Thinking way, way ahead filter: I would like an industry internship for summer 2012, between the first and second year of my MSc in Biochemistry program. How do I go about securing it? [more inside]
Please tell me how to say "little sister" and "little brother" in different languages.
I'm looking for translations for the phrases "little sister" and "little brother" in any language you might know. I'm interested in both literal translations and any affectionate slang-y translations. Many thanks!
YANMAccountant... but do I need one?
My 2010 was the first complicated tax year I've had- bought a house, and wondering whether the HR Block online filing is still sufficient, or if I'll need and want a professional- and if so, where to find a good one in the Capitol Hill/Seattle area this weekend. [more inside]
Would you like to buy this toaster?
I’m looking to make a career change, possibly into sales. You sell me on it…Go! [more inside]
I'm ready to join 2009.
So, what's this Twitter thing all about? [more inside]
Reputable online mortgage brokers?
Anyone use an internet-only mortgage company to refi their mortgage? [more inside]
WiFi in a Plaster House
I just purchased a home that is all plaster and wire-mesh. Apparently, the place is one huge WiFi deadzone. What are some options for getting the house WiFi enabled? [more inside]
I'll swap my chainsawing abilities for this any day!
Help me to wildly change my professional direction from Forest Engineering to Anthropology...I have some ideas, too. [more inside]
How to say "I'm praying for you" when, well, I'm not.
Prayer alternatives. [more inside]
Should I keep trying to maintain the friendship?
Should I keep trying to maintain the friendship? [more inside]
Dinner party recipes for someone who eats yogurt for dinner
Go-to dinner party fare for recovering vegetarian? [more inside]
What is "sugar"?
What are ways to eliminate sugar from my diet? [more inside]
Is a link to illegal content illegal in the UK?
In the UK, can a link on a website to illegal content (in this case a version of the leaked BNP membership list) itself be considered against the law? [more inside]
I don't need the pointy boots; I just need the hat.
I need a "tribal" cowboy hat. The short-brimmed kind worn by those SLP boys with the pointy boots. [more inside]
Please help me help my mum.
My mother (45yo) is suffering tremendously from some sort of arthritic condition. But is there something else we should be looking for? [more inside]
Documentary Hypothesis
Is there an alternative to the Documentary Hypothesis yet? [more inside]
ideas for homemade planter covering
I have three DIY self-watering tomato planters made from beige 30-or-so gallon containers. They work great, but "in the sun" in my yard means "visible from the street." Please tell me some ways that I can make them more attractive with coverings or any other ideas that you might have. [more inside]
Free version of 3D Studio
I need a free alternative to 3D Studio, one that has a fairly similar interface. [more inside]
The little subaru that could...
Car is acting funky. I know there is a transmission issue, but... [more inside]
One list or many?
OrganizationFilter: When scheduling tasks for a day, do you just throw them into a giant list and move through it, or do you come up with specific times and orders for things? [more inside]
Is it appropriate to ask my new employer if my salary will increase over a period of time?
Is it appropriate to ask my new employer if my salary will increase over a period of time? I forgot to ask that question during the job interview. [more inside]
How can I set up a retired professor's web presence.
What's a tastefully-themed content management system + host that is not a blog? [more inside]
How to use slingbox without a cable box
How can I set up a Slingbox or Vulkano without a set top cable box? [more inside]
Should I doubt my awesomeness?
Okay, okay. I started sending out resumes. Now I need some help separating the wheat from the chaff, so to speak. All of these emails about consulting and contract positions - are they worthwhile, or just recruiter spam? [more inside]
A Jewish mother, natch
Does traditional Judaism and/or the Talmud say anything positive about women who do not marry or have children? [more inside]
chocolate muffins that are chocolaty, filling and nutritious?
chocolate muffin recipe filter: I'm looking for a recipe for muffins I can make and take when on the go, that are chocolaty, filling and as nutritious as possible (ingredient and capability limitations inside). [more inside]
Scintillating scotoma, now what?
I got my first scintillating scotoma, now what? [more inside]
Do you have a hotel recommendation for Washington DC?
Two dads and four kids visiting Washington DC for a weekend next month. Do you have any hotel recommendations? Other travel advice? [more inside]
Should I destroy my old journals?
What should I do with two of my hidden journals which might hurt the feelings of my fiancée if discovered? [more inside]
Need advice on finding a job while pregnant.
I'm seven months pregnant. I need to find a new job, stat. Advice? [more inside]
Snap, Edit, Sell = Money
What is the best photographer fee approach for portrait photography? Mrs. dyno04 is getting into the photography business and is trying to figure out how to best price sittings, prints, etc... We don't really like the sitting fee + price per print approach. So we are thinking about either a sitting fee + price per print + after X amount of prints receiving print release rights or sitting fee includes print release rights.
If you were going to pay someone to take pictures (she is targeting babies, families, possibly pets), what kind of fee structure would you like to see from a photographer?
Looking for blogs that are off the beaten path
Which blogs out there are the best kept secrets? [more inside]
How To Finance a Non-Degree Program
My sister wants to be a Speech-Language Pathologist, but is having trouble figuring out how to finance the program she wants to go into. [more inside]
Copenhagen international schools?
International schools in Copenhagen? [more inside]
Taxing dilemma...
11th hour tax filing question...Do I have to file a NY state tax return? [more inside]
Laptop losing signal
My HP laptop keeps dropping wireless signal after only a few minutes. [more inside]
Danger is my middle name.
Why is it common practice in the US for people to be known by their first initial and middle name eg. J Robert Lennon, E Jean Carroll? Why don't those who prefer their middle name still keep the initial? [more inside]
The 'Build a Better Bike' Trap.
What's a good bike?
While looking for a bike, I realized there are (maybe) six manufacturers of frames and ten manufacturers of everything else (excluding hand-made specialty parts).
Which ones are the best - 'best' meaning highest quality construction for the least added 'name-brand' expense? [more inside]
Cheap rig for Skyrim
Sub-$700 Skyrim computer? [more inside]
April 14
Down Far South
I know that there is a big country scene in Australia, and I know some of the artists (Kasey Chambers, et. al) but I don't know the details really. [more inside]
Is there an appropriate gesture for a favorite shop that is closing?
One of my favorite coffee shops is closing their doors after many years in business. I'm thinking of getting something for the proprietors to thank them for their many years of brightening my mornings with caffeine and conversation, but I'm not quite sure what would be appropriate. [more inside]
Why is my memory failing me at such a young age?
Why is my memory failing me at such a young age? [more inside]
How to distribute self-published books
Does anyone know of a company or companies that do sales and distribution of self-published books? [more inside]
Small mistake or burnt bridge - where is the dividing line?
After growing up in a VERY authoritarian family environment, I lack a sense of proportion when it comes to when I've really screwed up bad. I'm in therapy but would like some further advice. [more inside]
Help a budding videographer
I've got a Nikon D7000 to record video. I've got a Zoom H4n to record sound. I've got Adobe Premiere Pro (which I'm just learning) to put them together. What's the best way to go about recording and combining audio and visual during post to ensure easy (I really don't want this to be a pain in the neck, if possible) and effective synching? If it matters, I'll be recording musical performances in a controlled environment.
Maybe I caught it from the toilet seat?
I have been dating the same man for 4 years. We've been monogamous for about 3 and a half years. When we became monogamous, I had the full round of STD testing done, all negative. Since then, I've had regular yearly pap smears that included testing for HPV. All negative. Until today, when my doctor called me to tell me that the pap smear I had last week tested positive for HPV. [more inside]
Share and share alike
We just bought a hot tub and we are concerned about herpes. [more inside]
Is my friend's Hotmail account hacked or not?
I got a spam email from my friend who has a hotmail account. It looks like the spam has been sent to everyone in his hotmail distribution list. My question is, how did the hackers do this? Did they need his password in order to get access to his distribution list? As far as I know he is still able to use his account which puzzles me. Wouldn't a hacker (if he had the password) quickly change the password so that they could keep sending spam out on that account?
How to figure this out?
Did you ever have a burning urge to do something significant that makes a difference in the world? How did you become that person? How did you figure out what is it that you wanted to do and how to get there? [more inside]
Is this math impossible?
I do not know math. I have a number, and I want to backwards engineer that number so I can arrive at it by adding some unknown amount and 13% of that unknown amount. Is there any way to figure this out besides trial and error?
Tell me where to learn golf in Pasadena, CA. Please?
I live pretty close by to the Brookside Golf Course in Pasadena, CA. Can you recommend a golf pro to seek out? Also, what questions should I be asking to see if I'm a good match with the instructor?
I'm a beginner. Never been out on the fairway. But I've hit a few balls on my own.
Thanks!
We're content, should we move?
You have friends, a kid, a spouse, family that you reasonably like nearby, a good job, a place to live, and most of the other trappings of a decent life. Would you move for something new? [more inside]
Camera gear in Los Angeles
In Los Angeles (Redondo) for a few days. Any suggestions for the best place(s) to purchase Lowepro/Pelican camera cases/Lastolite panels etc ?
Does the 2010 version of TurboTax Premier really remove an important useful function useful in previous versions?
In past versions of TurboTax Premier, there was an option to use an external file (not a data feed directly from a third party) to import all stock transactions. Where is that in TurboTax Premier 2010 ? [more inside]
Help me to hack Google Translate
How to get Google Translate to translate only parts of a Word document? [more inside]
OSX / Little Snitch Internet problem!
My iMac (running Snow Leopard) suddenly stopped connecting to the Internet, and I think--but can't prove--that Little Snitch is to blame! [more inside]
Not so Incredible anymore
I broke my smartphone, what should I do? [more inside]
If I've got to lug it through airports, it better be fantastic!
Which of these scotches would you recommend? [more inside]
Typical Cost of Insurance covering Knob & Tube Wiring
What is the average increase in home insurance if the house has knob and tube wiring? [more inside]
Gift Card Recursion
Why is letting our customers use gift cards to buy gift cards a bad idea? Or is it? [more inside]
Integrating research with mind maps
I'm involved in a major research-based writing project and I'm looking for a way to bridge the gap between mind maps and research findings. I currently do a lot of thematic organizing in mind maps, and I separately keep a huge list of quotes/paraphrases from my research. The problem is fitting the two together. [more inside]
Oh prickly pear, where are you?
Where can I buy prickly pear syrup in Chicago [more inside]
Help an old guy read.
Kindle guide for an elderly gentleman? [more inside]
Any recommendations for a good clinical nutritionist or naturopath in New York?
Any recommendations for a good clinical nutritionist or naturopath in New York City? [more inside]
People watching for fun!
What are the interesting traits, habits or facts that you can pick up on just by looking at someone? [more inside]
What are the best 'visual novels'?
What are some good 'visual novels'? [more inside]
I Want A New Drug
Is there a dictionary of prescription and OTC drug names, which has an open license or can be licensed cheaply? [more inside]
Best way to resolve a failure-to-file notice?
Please help me figure out how to resolve, as cheaply as possible, this failure-to-file notice I've received from the Massachusetts Dept. of Revenue. [more inside]
More books for eager reader
Help me find appropriate books for my 3rd grade daughter who is a voracious reader. [more inside]
"I love you!" "...I know." ::WOOSH FREEZY SOUND::
So, my poetry is going to be in a large local juried art show. One of my poems is professing my love for my boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you." but have discussed marriage and house-buying and will be living together this summer. Should I point out the poem is about him to him? [more inside]
Bank is keeping my money!
How long can my bank hold a deposit? [more inside]
asparagus appetizers sans bacon, pretty please
Give me your best vegetarian appetizer/hors d'oeuvres recipe using baby asparagus! The catch: it should go well with sour beers. [more inside]
On Being Financially Responsible...
Going forward, what is the best use of my about-to-be-paid-off credit card? [more inside]
Help me find a good IDE for gui development in Java
Help me find a good IDE for gui development in Java. [more inside]
Tax Filter: I Swear I'll Pay As I Go Enough This Time
Must I pay estimated taxes this year if last year I didn't withhold enough taxes and triggered a $29 penalty when I filed my 2010 return? [more inside]
What is this WWII film?
Another movie filter-name that WWII movie! [more inside]
Student loans at 40?
Is it worth it at 40yrs. old to take out student loans and go back to school full-time for 2 years? The profession I am interested in has a starting pay around 45-60K and is in the healthcare profession, so jobs are plentiful. I would be taking out about 30K in loans and of course, losing my current salary. My spouse and I both make pretty good money, we have a 4 month old child, we own a home and have 2 car notes, but no other debt. Considering these factors is it worth it to take on that amount of debt at 40 to make that kind salary?
Is having a more satisfying career, being a happier person, parent and spouse (not that I am unhappy personally, just very dissatisfied with my career) worth the loss of salary and debt?
Is that fair to my family?
Shampoo me!
Help me find a better shampoo. [more inside]
Choosing shower floor tile shouldn't be this hard.
Now I need help choosing tile for the shower floor. Is the one I picked going to hurt me? I know you are not my tile setter but I've got to order tile soon. Testing the tile before ordering is not an option. [more inside]
Where to find a stats person in Boston?
Statistical analysis (for dissertation) in Boston? Help. [more inside]
How can the NBA fine a coach?
Lakers coach, Phil Jackson was just fined by the NBA for talking with the media about a possible lockout next year if the NBA and the players union don't finalize a new CBA. As part of the player's CBA or the ref's CBA they can fine those guys, but on what authority can the NBA as a league fine coaches, assistant coaches, and owners?
Why does this Russian translation not match up?
There's a "Trimet Respects Civil Rights" notice on all the public transit vehicles in Portland. It's one straightforward paragraph translated into 6 languages. Why is it that in the [what I believe to be] Russian translation, the word "Trimet" only appears once, whereas in the 5 other languages it appears twice? [more inside]
I have an idea for a documentary. Now I just need to see some similar ideas so I can figure out how to do it.
I'm thinking of putting my resources into a documentary on a small quirky themepark that went out of business a while ago. What I need are good examples of feature length documentaries on unusual places so I can see how one would be produced. [more inside]
Vegan macaroon recipes!
Have you ever made tasty vegan coconut macaroons? Do you have an awesome recipe from that experience? [more inside]
It ain't a yard, it's weeds.
What is the best thing to do about all the weeds in my yard? There's hardly any grass remaining. [more inside]
Clasp your hands, say yeah
What if I say no, don't contact my supervisor?
When applying for federal jobs, how problematic is it not to allow a potential employer to contact a previous supervisor? [more inside]
How do I ship Iodine tablets from the UK to Japan?
How do I ship Iodine tablets from the UK to Japan? [more inside]
Tasty
American cooking : If someone from Europe was your guest, someone with a sweet tooth, and you really wanted to treat that person to a special dish representing a genuine sample of your State's cooking, what would it be ? [more inside]
mouth off
I chew my mouth and I want to stop without using gum or other mouth foods as my main crutch. [more inside]
Should I get eye muscle surgery?
I have Strabismus, a misalignment of the eyes which causes double vision. It's a condition I've dealt with my whole life but which had largely only manifested itself during periods of above-average tiredness, fatigue, or intoxication. As I passed through my 20s and now into my mid 30s, the condition has worsened to the point where it affects me every day, and I want to fix it. I'm considering eye muscle surgery, but I'd like to hear some personal accounts as to the effectiveness of this treatment. Positive or negative experiences are welcome, as well as non-surgical treatment ideas.
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Looking for book and/or film recommendations for 2 young girls (10 and 8) who will be visiting the Holocaust Memorial Museum in a few weeks. As a sort of primer.
I want to know everything about cocktails: making, history, science, and theory.
I want to learn how to make truly excellent, craft-quality cocktails. What should I read? [more inside]
Stop Chrome from adding extra tab when opening links
Help me stop Google Chrome (Mac OS X) from creating a superfluous tab when opening for the first time with an external link. [more inside]
Letters to a friend in prison
How do I respond to an old friends letters from prison? [more inside]
What should I do about people who flake on me?
How to deal with friends who cancel on you at the last minute constantly? [more inside]
How do I send automated text messages to multiple recipients?
For a community health project, I need automated capability to send text messages to participants' phones based on a specified schedule, content and sequence of messages. The volume would be in the range of 100 recipients grouped into 6 or 8 different categories (each category would receive a distinct sequence of messages), with perhaps 2 or 3 messages per day to each recipient. Any suggestions?
Maintaining privacy while networking
Can I use LinkedIn and still maintain a modicum of privacy online? [more inside]
Student loans available for a student without a co-signer?
Student loans available for a student without a co-signer? Need a one time loan of $18,000.... [more inside]
Ready, set, hesitate.
I was all set to leave my current job in two weeks to take some time off and work on my Masters. I need to call my boss tomorrow to resign, and I have cold feet. Help! Should I take the plunge? [more inside]
android apps
Is it possible to develop personal android apps? [more inside]
Cordial Exes
The friends of my recent ex-bf sent me an email invite to attend their monthly music jam session. My ex will probably be attending. I want to go, but I also don't want to make things awkward. [more inside]
Help finding a composition from an experimental film.
I can't seem to find out if a song used in a short experimental film is available anywhere. The film is "Tango" by Zbigniew Rybczynski. You can check the film out here. I believe it's from 1980. More details inside... [more inside]
Noob Camera Question
Camera Noob Filter - I like taking pictures and I find that I like taking them a lot lately. My boyfriend is in a band and I love taking pictures of their shows but I can't get great shots in low - light with my Sony point and shoot.
Any suggestions on a camera that isn't the full-blown DSLR but not point and shoot that will give me great low light shots as well daylight shots?
Flea replica bass?
Is a replica of my dream bass made and sold anywhere? (It's Flea's [of Red Hot Chili Peppers].) [more inside]
Who is most likely to say this word?
Is there a web service that shows the geographical usage of a particular word from twitter? [more inside]
DC breakfast for foreign tourists
Friends coming in to DC from overseas. Where should I take them for breakfast and sight-seeing before they can check in to their hotel? [more inside]
Do you recall the story about the almost perfect carving with one obvious flaw?
Does anybody have a link to an old story (or fable) about a great artist or craftsman who intentionally introduced an obvious flaw into each of his works (or maybe it was his greatest work) so as to avoid invoking jealousy in the gods? [more inside]
Pick me! Pick me! How do I do the employment equivalent of getting chosen for the team?
I am in the running to get a dream job. I just heard back from the place and it is between me and one other candidate with a decision to be made by the end of next week. Is it appropriate/would it be helpful to make one final pitch to my contact? [more inside]
Protein BLAST
Eating lots of protein for depression, anxiety and mood swings? It's working. Anybody ever done this? What did you eat, and when? [more inside]
Help me buy a unique frame (or ten) online...
Are there any good resources online to buy unique picture frames online? Where else can one find good frames for 4x6 photos (or slightly bigger) for a large travel collage. I don't want to use the same frame more than once, and I'm happy to buy from several different stores. [more inside]
Tooth issues - what gives?
What is up with human teeth? Why do they so often come in crooked, in the wrong place, or not at all? [more inside]
Writers or artists who have killed.
Who are artists or writers who have committed murder? [more inside]
What to do in Martinsreid?
I will be traveling to Martinsreid Germany, near Munich, in June. While my partner is at a conference I will have a couple of days to look around. This is my first time overseas and I'm pretty excited! Suggestions on what to do?
How can I be smart in buying smart pen as gift?
How smart are smartpens? [more inside]
A Matter of Appenstance
Creating, what I think would be, an extremely simple app that only does one thing. How difficult and where to start? [more inside]
classic works, published in high quality
Tell me about high quality publishing! What does it involve, where can I read more about it and who does it? I’m interested in buying old cornerstone types of works like The Federalist Papers, The Origin of the Species bound, made, etc. at the best possible quality. [more inside]
Add Wordpress to Dreamweaver site? Or start over? Or something else??
I built and maintain a fairly basic website for my daughter's nursery school, and I need to know the simplest way to integrate a blog feature (to be utilized by the teachers), as well as a way to allow the school's director to make updates from time to time to a particular page of content without having to teach any of them how to use Dreamweaver CS4 (this is key), which I use to maintain the site. I am by my own admission more of a designer than a coder (the technical stuff is not my strong suit), and on top of this I have a pretty limited time frame in which to accomplish this. Other than hiring someone else to do it for me, can anyone offer suggestions? I thought about using Wordpress - either integrating it into the site as is, or starting over and rebuilding the site in Wordpress. But I haven't come to any conclusions yet (obviously!).
Preemptive Strike
I have sixth months until I need to look for another job. Outside of keeping my resume and LinkedIn profile up to date, what things can I do in the meanwhile to strengthen my position with recruiters and potential employers? [more inside]
Gearing up for summer
I'm looking to replace my '70s vintage Schwinn 3-speed cruiser with a lightweight bike that would be more conducive to longer rides.
It's an adorable bike and it has served me well, but I live in a walk-up building and schlepping it up and down the stairs is downright painful, and doesn't exactly make me want to take her out for a spin on a whim. [more inside]
Help me find a good camp
Do you know of any summer day camps in New York for an inquisitive, science minded 11 year old boy? [more inside]
Help me clean my couch
We have a two-year old sofa that looks terrible and needs to be cleaned. The upholstery is 100% light-colored polyester that looks like linen. The problem is that any water leaves a very noticeable ring on the fabric. Although we're pretty good about keeping food and drinks off the couch, we have a very drippy-nosed greyhound who has left dozens of little drip marks all over the cushions. Cleaning with water and a wet rag only makes the problem worse. I also tried using Goddard's Dry Cleaning fluid (a solvent), which just left a whitish spot. Any suggestions? Would hiring a professional do the trick?
FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU
I've got a nasty bit of malware. How do I get rid of it? [more inside]
A theme that rocks ?
[Wordpress filter] I like the looks of www.rollingstone.com and I am trying to look for a theme that can get me there. [more inside]
Help me get cat to stop chewing fabric!
About a year ago my cat developed the habit of chewing on fabric. I can't leave clothes anywhere in his reach now, because anytime I do he chews on them (I have had to throw out many articles of clothing due to this.) My bedding is also full of holes, and I'd like to get new blankets and sheets but know there would be no point as long as he'd just chew them up too. I can't spray my whole bed with anything bitter, and I'd really prefer not to have to start shutting him out of the bedroom because he usually sleeps at the foot of the bed. What can I do to end this behavior? Help
A book about the tax man?
I've recently started using Kindle Direct Publish. During the signup process, they ask for all of my identifying information so that they can properly cut me a royalty check. What are, if any, my tax obligations? [more inside]
Can you identify this plant and help me take better care of it?
Can anyone identify this plant and help me take better care of it? I think it's slowly dying. [more inside]
Why does images look good on a computer screen, but a print-out even at hi-resolution produces images that don't look as good?
Why does images look good on a computer screen, but a print-out even at hi-resolution produces images that don't look as good? [more inside]
Researching 19th century India
I'm starting a novel set in 19th century India-- but I don't know where to start my research. [more inside]
This COBRA is strangling me!
I have COBRA health insurance now, and while it's terrific, it's really expensive (almost $500 a month!!). I am thinking of dropping it and going for short term health insurance until I get a job with a group insurance plan. Is this a terrible idea? I'm an otherwise healthy young woman with no pre-existing conditions (that I know of). And, if it's not a bad idea, can anyone recommend a reputable company?
Clean my bedroom!
After misplacing something important, I've decided I've had rather enough of my messy-ass bedroom... [more inside]
April 13
Blur me.
How can I achieve these beautiful blurred-background shots on my Nikon D40 camera with lens 18-55? [more inside]
I can't keep walking on broken glass
I need help with an employee who cannot stop breaking stuff. [more inside]
Whaaaaaaa? Can it be TRUE?
Will Shortz' face as a crossword? [more inside]
I knew I should have bookmarked it...
Help me rediscover a long lost blog that had an awesome design. [more inside]
Where can I find cheap bulk 256mb usb drives?
Where can I get a pack of four or five 256/512 mb usb flash drives to be used as give-aways? [more inside]
Default pandora station
How do I get the default station pandora streams to you when you're not logged in, but it still knows your facebook account? Rarely I get it by accident but most of the time I just get a log in screen.
Panic attacks while driving!
I am terrified of driving cars. I don't have much experience driving (lived in a large city and used public transportation until recently). I find myself thinking that I will get into a car accident every time I get into the car. It is especially bad on the highway, and I even experience shortness of breath and major anxiety while on the highway. Help! [more inside]
Help Me Keep my Arthitis at Bay
My knee pain was just diagnosed as "mild arthritis." I'm going to be 44 in a month. I know losing some weight will help, and I'll go back on my diet to lose a few pounds. What have you done to mitigate arthritis in your own life? [more inside]
Paying taxes as a self-employed person for the first time on 2011 income
Newly self-employed in 2011, I have a few (U.S., Federal) tax questions for experienced independent contractors or otherwise self-employed persons out there. [more inside]
i hate my tonsils.
Just had my tonsils removed. The liquid Vicodin I was given keeps wearing off every two hours. I can only take it every four. Help me prolong the pain-relief (and survive the next few days). [more inside]
50megs is runing my rep.
15 years ago, as a teenager, I wrote a fanfic about a sexual encounter and published it under my real name. One of the archives with this story has resurfaced on a new server, www.50megs.com, unbeknownst to the original owner of the archive. She's tried to have the page removed but to no avail; I've also been in touch with the new host of the site but have been told to just contact the owner - who no longer really owns it. What can I/we do to get this page down? [more inside]
Discreet bar in PDX
PDXfilter: Can anyone suggest a bar in Portland, Oregon (far west part of downtown) for a discreet meeting? [more inside]
Pitching a Fit
What's a good program for pitch shifting a .Wav file? [more inside]
Green chile in my burgers, Green chile in my eggs. Green chile on enchilada. Green chile on my chicken legs!
Where can I get New Mexico Chiles in Philadelphia? [more inside]
Aloha bartender!
The Dr. Mrs. Strangelove and I's favorite late 20-something female bartender is leaving for warmer pastures (Hawaii from San Diego): what is a good going away gift for her?
I think my earring hole closed -- what now?
My ear piercing is closing after TWENTY YEARS? What do I do? [more inside]
Need help IDing a sci-fi novel about the building of an interstellar transport network, a mean ship AI, and first contact with an unknowable alien intelligence
Can you help me identify this SF novel? Female protagonist is employed overseeing the construction of a transportation network into deep space. She has to deal with the ship's AI who is trying to turn her son (also a crew member) against her. They run into a very strange intelligent creature and try to figure out how to keep from destroying it with their gateway network, while also carefully monitoring the amount of time that she spends outside of suspended animation. [more inside]
help me find my happy medium groove
Dancing 101: I need to find my middle ground between grinding on guys and dancing like my grandma. [more inside]
If you don't have the wherewithal, you don't need the why.
Have you been able to convince employers that your transferable skills make you a good hire? [more inside]
Help me understand the way the world works!
I follow politics and current events, especially international politics, fanatically. I know next to nothing about economic systems, philosophy (particularly political philosophy), sociology, and other basics of social science that could be useful when trying to make sense of the world, though. I would like to change this. [more inside]
My Forever 21 jeans stink!
Help me get the Forever 21 smell out of my jeans! [more inside]
Sudden Problem Burning with Nero 7
What would cause Nero to start erroring out every time I try to burn a data DVD?? [more inside]
Psychologists who research GLBTQ families?
I'm a history student, tossing around a project about the construction of collective memories in the GLBTQ community. I am wondering what psychologists might have to say about this topic. [more inside]
In a fit of boneheadedness, I planted onions and peas in the same row...
Got distracted and planted my onion sets and my peas in the same row... [more inside]
Errors in police report: what to do?
Police report (auto accident) does not contain accurate information. The officer took details about my passenger, but the report says there were no passengers. The other driver was at fault. Why would the officer erroneously mark that there were no passengers, and should I report this error? If so, to whom would I report it? [more inside]
"satavaziru"... what does it mean!?
A guy in Tallinn pointed at me and said something that sounded like "satavaziru!" (emphasis on the "zi" syllable). What might that mean? [more inside]
Editing old Dreamweaver-built site
I've been tasked with making a relatively minor change to the footer of a website, but it was built in Dreamweaver, uses tables for layout, and I don't have the template files (or anything else other than what's on the server). [more inside]
Can I just buy a Windows 7 product key?
If I buy a Windows 7 product key from an Amazon marketplace seller, will my Windows installation be legitimate? [more inside]
How can I edit someone's required google form list to include my unique entry?
How can I edit/alter a friend's Google Spreadsheet Form so I can put my own answer in required list items? [more inside]
What are the differences between sharing a folder over a network from a Win7 desktop, having a NAS, or having a Windows Home Server box?
What are the differences between sharing a folder over a network from a Win7 desktop, having a NAS, or having a Windows Home Server box? Is an actual server better than a folder share? [more inside]
Best software for managing clients with IT-related subscription services?
Do I need a CRM, or does something else exist for IT clients? Focus on managing existing subscription services, rather than sales leads. [more inside]
Looking for a recent political cartoon
Help me track down a political cartoon where Presidents (current and past) talk about reducing dependency on foreign oil [more inside]
Put all my eggs into one cyber-basket?
ParadoxOfChoiceFilter: For the first time in a long time, I have the financial assets to get a good computer. I definitely need a new laptop soon, but have fond memories of the awesome graphical power of the desktop. In terms of graphical processing power, given that I need a laptop either way, does it make more sense for me to split between a laptop and a desktop than to spend it on one very expensive laptop? Either way, what are my mid-to-high end laptop/desktop options? [more inside]
How do I get involved with an awesome new start-up without selling myself short?
I am a freelancer and recently a startup launched that does exactly what I do, and it looks to me like they want to head in a direction that I'd like to go. I really want to do what they're doing, and I want to tell them I'm really interested in helping. I would even be happy doing some sort of internship for them (I am currently a college student). How do I express that to them without selling myself short? [more inside]
new laptop + Minecraft. trying to avoid heartbreak. your experience could be helpful.
new laptop + Minecraft. trying to avoid heartbreak. your experience could be helpful. [more inside]
Bronchitis or else?
YANAD etcetc but I've had a nasty cough for 3 weeks. Finally I went to the doctor. After a 4 minute auscultation, he said I have bronchitis and he prescribed antibiotics. [more inside]
Mr. Kazimierz - (not) from Kazimierz
Mifi activation without a computer?
Can I activate a Virgin Mobile Mifi 2200 using an iPad? [more inside]
Poster Mystery
What to do in Ethiopia for Easter?
Extended Easter weekend in Ethiopia. Where to go? [more inside]
What should I do with this WWI scrapbook?
Fictional Encryption Code
Can you give me an example of what this ridiculously-hard-to-decrypt code might have been? [more inside]
Oh and I also don't know how to store animated GIFs and NSFW photos!
I collect images on Tumblr, Evernote, iPhoto, and my harddrive. Please help me organize this process! [more inside]
Latin translation
How to say sisters in latin please? [more inside]
Where is this quote from?
"Put your tray tables and seats in an upright position. Turn off all electronic devices. Fasten your seat belts. Remove your tie, sir."
Apparently, I should know where this quote comes from. I don't. Google only shows me items for sale with this quote.
But I know you guys will know it.
Setting my timer to see how long it takes!
What to get best friend moving to Baltimore
My super awesome 27 year old best friend/ roommate is moving to Baltimore at the end of next month. What would be a good present to get her for the move? [more inside]
Tips for traveling by car with a large bird
Tips for traveling by car with a large bird? [more inside]
High Platelets in a 3 year old...
You are not my kid's doctor but.... they are taking their sweet time getting back to me. Test details inside... [more inside]
Looking for a sewing pattern to match the USA Women's World Cup uniforms
0+0+0+0=-.1215????
What is wrong with my composite z scores? [more inside]
Does shortest always take the middle?
Who gets the middle seat on family road trips? [more inside]
US resident needs Tasmanian Ginger Beer Injection
Is there a US-importer of Cascade Brewery (Hobart) Ginger Beer? I had this a few months ago while in Tasmania and I 'need' to try it again and share with ginger beer loving friends. I would buy a whole case.
I did some searching online and I haven't been able to find any importers. Are there any Australian import stores in the US that might be able to get some in?
[this feels like a waste of a question, but its damn tasty]
If I was in World War II, they'd call me Spitfire...
Hard-driving techno/electronica/beats&breaks workout music at 124 - 128 beats per minute? [more inside]
MIDI Implementation Chart for QY70
Where can I find a MIDI implementation chart for a Yamaha QY70? [more inside]
Need to download .flv from RTMP server
Trying to use rtmpdump to download a video from my city council's website but not sure how to proceed from here. [more inside]
Hey, there. Can I take your picture...?
I want to write a blog called "This is MARTA" I'm in Atlanta, GA. [more inside]
Help me find a good long distance calling card
I live in Victoria BC, Canada. I need to find a long distance calling card for use from a land line, or some other solution, that will give me a good quality long distance call to Europe. [more inside]
A question nearly as cliched as "name my puppy"
I'm looking for suggestions for naming structures of computers and network devices on my home network. The thing is, I want them to be geeky and yet also indirectly descriptive... [more inside]
Should I close my old bank accounts?
About a month ago, I got a new checking account and savings account with ING Direct. Should I cancel my old checking and savings accounts? [more inside]
Help me catch up on the Evangelion series
I just heard about the Evangelion stuff....and that it's great. I want to catch up. But they seem to make endless "adjustments" to their DVDs, leaving me unsure what to buy. [more inside]
How can I find discrete geographic areas around the world which meet certain meteorological conditions?
I need to identify certain areas of the world - figure zip cod/international analogue is discrete enough, although more granular is preferred - which meet a variety of meteorological conditions. [more inside]
htaccess to 404
.htaccess rule to direct results to 404 page. [more inside]
Need a Better iPhone Protection Solution
I want a dock-ready iPhone 4 case with a holster that will be protective but not overkill. Recommend me one? [more inside]
What to do when you're concerned but the doctor isn't?
Should I be worried about my split urine stream and side pain, even though my urologist isn't? [more inside]
Bike locker for home use?
Where to find/how to build an outdoor bike locker for use at home? [more inside]
Help me redecorate my husband's cube for his birthday
My husband is turning 40 tomorrow. We work together but he's not in the office today. I want to decorate his cubicle. Give me some creative ideas. [more inside]
How do I get over the shame of my bigoted teenage past?
How do I get over guilt and shame of sharing very prejudiced things online as a teenager? [more inside]
How do I manage this job conundrum?
I have an interview for a job coming up very soon. I have another interviewed scheduled with a firm that I really want to work for, but not until at least another week. If I get an offer from the first firm before I get an offer from the second firm, how do I manage this? [more inside]
How expensive is cheap lawn equipment?
Is Stihl really worth it. [more inside]
Help me find a wider selection of PVC moulding..
PVC moulding options? [more inside]
"Quaffable, but uh... far from transcendent. "
Please be my sommelier for an upcoming in-home catered dinner. [more inside]
South America travel ideas
A friend and I have next week (4/18 to 4/22) off from work. We want to travel somewhere exciting - probably somewhere in South America. We're looking for suggestions, ideally with places that have interesting things to see and do during the day and a fun nightlife. Also, would love to hear about any events that are happening next week that would make one destination worth choosing (e.g. like traveling to New Orleans for Mardi Gras), but open to all suggestions. Money is not a big issue.
Need grant money to hire for nonprofit center
I volunteer with a nonprofit that operates a community center. We need to hire a Facility Manager but we can't afford it. I have been researching grant money but I only find grants for community programs not for hiring personnel to work in community centers. Are there any sources for grants where the money can be used to hire personnel to work for nonprofit groups?
Should we take a chance on a charter school
What are your experiences with choosing a charter school over the public school system for your elementary aged child? [more inside]
Another Ohio tourist question
Where to spend a week in June near or between Cleveland and Columbus. [more inside]
Should I act as a process server?
I've been asked to serve papers for a small claims case by an acquaintance. To what sort of risk will I expose myself - especially legal or financial risk - if I do this? [more inside]
What US prescription drugs are allowed in Southeast Asia?
I'm traveling to Southeast Asia in two days, and need to determine if I can bring my prescription drugs with me into the region legally. [more inside]
Leonardo, Donatello, Michaelangelo, or Raphael?
Job application goof
I applied for a job with the wrong phone number - how to fix? [more inside]
How do I find people to play tennis with in Berlin, Germany?
How do I find people to play tennis with in Berlin, Germany? Do novices join tennis clubs to find playing partners? [more inside]
Let's twist again...
50's and 60's songs appropriate for "twisting" to (that aren't by Chubby Checker)? [more inside]
How do I get a static menu on a website?
Who were some politically and creatively challenging artists pre-1900s?
Who were some politically and creatively challenging artists pre-1900, before the Modernist movement? [more inside]
Heston Blumenthal's ice cream recipe
Does anyone know the exact recipe for the vanilla ice cream that Heston Blumenthal introduces in the ice cream episode of his "Kitchen Chemistry" series? I am looking for his ice cream base recipe, not the bacon or pistachio one. I would be really happy if it was in grams/milliliters/Celsius.
April 12
Private Health Insurance or Self Insurance?
I'm being kicked off my parents health insurance, so I'm trying to decide whether to take out my own policy or "self insure". Is there something major that I'm overlooking? (In Australia) [more inside]
Microsoft, leave my Gmail alone.
A while ago, my Gmail account notified me of suspicious activity. The IP that accessed my account seems to be from Microsoft. [more inside]
Gods throw dice; Fate plays chess
How does one go about learning to think ahead? Great chess players think several, if not many, moves ahead. I want to do that in life. What do you suggest? [more inside]
Passport "Sleeve?"
I'm looking for a hard passport case that is designed to hold nothing but my passport, sort of like a sleeve made of thin metal or rigid plastic, and I'm imagining the passport just sliding in and out. Does this even exist?
Do I need to bottle my pee?
What are the chances of actually getting rush tickets at the Tribeca Film Festival in NYC? [more inside]
what do you sell to the folks who sell us everything?
I'm headed into Taiwan in a short while. Not to be indelicate, but I want to know what carry-on luggage-sized items I could bring to sell for a couple of bucks. [more inside]
What do I have to negotiate with registrar registry operators?
To become a domain registrar, ICANN here says: "Once you return the signed RAA and pay your accreditation fee, ICANN will notify the applicable registries of your accreditation and add you to the list of registrars at http://www.icann.org/registrars/accredited-list.html and http://www.internic.net/regist.html. You should work out the contract, financial, and technical details with the registry operators."
Who are these "registry operators" if not ICANN, what do they want and what will I have to pay them?
turn this into a (lazy person's) crockpot recipe!
Schrodinger's Actor
Dead actors and alternate universes? Does anyone remember this? Folks recall reading death notices of actors, who then turn out not to be dead, and people use this as (somewhat facetiously) an indication of parallel universes? I'm thinking of Robert Duvall in the Apostle, but I'm sure that there's other canonical examples as well.
Their Meals, My Wheels
I'd like to make a meal once a week for our elderly neighbors who are having medical issues, but I'm already really busy. What can I make that they can freeze and is easy for me? [more inside]
Help me write up a summary of QA/Vendor Relationship Management Work Experience in Plain English
I'm trying to update my resume to include my work on a website redesign/migration project. How can I summarize my responsibilities/accomplishments so that it emphasizes my work doing Project Management and Vendor/Contract Relationship Management, not QA and bug tracking. [more inside]
It's 3am. Pay me more!
For low-wage hourly employees, how common is it NOT to receive additional compensation for working hours far outside of normal business hours? [more inside]
Caning, southern style!
How do I go about finding sources for cane sugar stock in my area? Yea, for growing... [more inside]
Tues 10:00 - Don't be evil
Do you use a web calendar that isn't Google ? Can you recommend it ? [more inside]
When should I apply for a job?
How early is too early to start looking for jobs? I am moving across the country in July, and I don't know how timing works for applying to private sector jobs. [more inside]
Please help me
My annual review at work is coming up in three days. I’ve messed up, really bad. I feel like my life is about to be over. How do I get through this? [more inside]
Gluten for punishment, indeed
What delicious fillings can I use with gluten-free shortcrust pastry? I'm over the quiche/aka-egg-and-bacon-pie option. [more inside]
Who covers All Together Now in the Sprint commercials?
Help me identify the female artist in this Beatles' cover. [more inside]
I'm a chemist, but don't want to experiment with this
I just got grease from KFC on my shirt during my break while I was eating. I am actually at work in a lab right now. What is the best solvent to use to try to get out the grease stain? [more inside]
But I hate all my [recipes], I have nothing to [cook]!
Help me get over the food equivalent of hating everything in my closet and give me your yummiest recipes that make you think spring! [more inside]
Critical constants by simulation.
I am wondering if there are generally accepted ways of getting the critical constants (acentric factor, critical pressure and temperature) of a substance from a simulation of some sort (i.e. quantum chemistry) [more inside]
How do I turn off the "Final Showing Markup" feature on Microsoft Word 2011 when the document is initially opened?
How do I turn off the "Final Showing Markup" feature on Microsoft Word 2011 when the document is initially opened? [more inside]
Retrieving a toothbrush from the sink drain?
How can I get a toothbrush out of my sink drain without taking apart the pipes? The bottom end of the toothbrush is about 5 - 6 inches below the sink. I tried using 2 butter knives: Fail. Any common household items that could be used? Something available at Home Depot?
Stupid mailman
Help me get my postman to stop delivering my mail to the neighbors and vice versa. [more inside]
Too old for growing pains
Resources for growing up? [more inside]
What songs deal with unrequited loved between a gay man and a straight man?
What are some songs that lyrically deal with unrequited love between a gay male and a (questionably) straight male? [more inside]
San Francisco Kindergarten
What are some strategies for surviving the San Francisco public school lottery? [more inside]
Will these eggs hatch?
Some bird built a nest in the center of the wreath hanging from our front door. Can the nest be saved by moving the wreath? [more inside]
"White Person as Other"?
"White Person As Other" - looking for a book with a similar title, about how white Europeans have been seen/portrayed by other cultures. [more inside]
Can I find flooring that's green, durable, and relatively inexpensive?
We're about to tear up old, nasty carpet and install some new non-carpet flooring. But after way too much time spent researching, I'm still completely confused about the best option that combines sustainability, durability, and appearance without breaking the bank. [more inside]
Am I Allowed to Use Anecdotes in Fiction?
Fledgling story writer here. Let's say somebody tells you an anecdote about a friend of a friend, an anecdote that might be interesting to put in a longer work of fiction. [more inside]
Children's Books
I have to buy books for two young children for their birthdays. The boy is seven; the girl is five. I need several awesome books for both. I prefer to give classics--but my definition of "classics" includes such books as THE JUNGLE BOOK and THE WIND IN THE WILLOWS and I am open to hearing about newer wonderful books. Help me find some great books for these kids.
What things were important to you as a college freshman with ADHD?
Please suggest gifts for a young adult with ADHD who is graduating high school and entering a university horticulture program. [more inside]
Help me see this show!
JobFilter: Should I contact the hiring manager . . . again?
Should I contact the hiring manager again if no response the first time? [more inside]
Wildly inappropriate faculty member - now what?
Just returned from a meeting with a member of my dissertation committee wherein he admitted to repeatedly having "dreams about me" of a certain nature. Holy inappropriateness, Batman! Am I wrong to think this was way out of line to drop on me while waiting in his office to get some forms signed? [more inside]
What's it like to live in Orange County?
Tell me about Orange, CA. [more inside]
Destin, Florida
I am planning to go to Destin,Florida this week. I am having hard time finding a good resort or a hotel. Anyone had good experience recently with any place? also please suggest any good places to visit and saving tips. Thank you so much for your help in advance.
Like a bailout, but for laundry.
Is there a laundromat or cleaners in NYC that will hand wash clothes? [more inside]
¡Quiero Salsa de Aji con Chochos!
I traveled through Ecuador for about 2 months, and in the process fell in love with Salsa de Aji, specifically the Salsa de Aji con Chochos, made by SNOB.
I cannot for the life of me find somewhere online to buy it (that ships within the U.S.). What would be the best way for me to find someone in Ecuador to get me some? I'm located in Los Angeles. I realize this could get expensive but right now I'm just trying to think if there's even a way I could do it.
Ze Bonds
Can anyone tell me where I can cash some U.S. EE savings bonds in Paris, France? [more inside]
Theorizing internet-infused life
Recommend a nonfiction book (or article/essay/shorter piece) that theorizes what life is like now with present internet (and, bonusly, smartphone) technology. [more inside]
Rabies DB?
Where can I find rabies info if the original owner can't remember or the vet they had the dog vaccinated at it is out of business? [more inside]
Cohen's kappa in R?
Statistics filter: Cohen's kappa and inter-rater reliability in R? [more inside]
If only we could sharpen that image..
I am a sucker for mysteries that involve clues hidden in photographs/film clips and am looking for other examples(SPOILERS for Blow Up, Veronica Mars and Stieg Larsson inside...) [more inside]
Second spay?
my puppy's first spay went poorly (let's not discuss what happened - i'm focusing on something else now). she's having surgery again tomorrow. looking for stories of things going well. [more inside]
Why does flying abroad cost so much?
Why are international flights so much more expensive than domestic flights? [more inside]
All I Wanna Do Is Rock Tonight
Where to find an awesome 80's rock bar in New York City? [more inside]
Peripheral needs - printer/scanner/copier
I'm looking for a home office solution for B&W laser printing, scanning, copying (in approximately that order of importance, with the ability to fax coming in a very distant fourth). I'd like to spend less than $350. Network connectivity nice but not critical. Pony optional. Suggestions? Am I doomed to a choice between an endless string of near-disposable crappy all-in-one desktop models and far-out-of-budget business class maintenance contract solutions?
mentors for sport?
I used to produce a public radio show and do journalism. I love writing and the work of program-making. They say everyone should change their careers at least once in their life. I moved in fundraising, which I do not honestly think is in itself a career. Since October 2010 I am the commercial director of a pro basketball team in England. I don't know how long the job will last but it has brought a lot of meaning to my life to do real executive producing again. I would like to find a mentor in sports business but most mentoring organizations in the UK are not equipped to deal with this request. What are some logical resources in Europe and the USA I should be looking at?
Best Motorcycle With Data Source
Motorcycle selection question: using data only, how can I find out what is the best motorcycle for a variety of situations? [more inside]
Is a brushcutter overkill for clearing 1 acre?
Is a 40cc saw bladed brushcutter ridiculous overkill for clearing out a 1 acre woodlot? [more inside]
Help me draw the Japanese House in the Boston Children's Museum!
I have a week to draw a short comic about the Japanese House in the Boston Children's Museum, and can't go there in person to take photos. As such, I am in desperate need of reference! [more inside]
Chest tightness when drinking sugary drinks quickly?
Sometimes when I drink really sugary drinks quickly, especially soda or juice, I get really uncomfortable chest tightness for a few minutes. (If I sip them it's usually fine.) Why does this happen?
Anyone see an impressive camera commercial?
Saw a commercial this morning about 7AM EST - I think it was on the Today show - it was apparently a camera fixed on a guy's face who was skydiving. I saw in on my HD TV - it was a beautiful, crystal clear, professional looking shot. The guy pulled his parachute, and then they showed this camera, and the tag-line was "Be a professional" or something. What was the name of the camera? Did anyone catch this?
Help me identify this cheesy sci-fi movie from the 70's or 80's!
I've been trying to identify this movie for years with no luck. This is one of those strange movie memories where you just have little snapshots in your mind. I've Googled my brains out (er... you know what I mean) and I just come up empty. Help! [more inside]
What's good Cowboy Bebop-ish music?
Cowboy Bebop's [amazing] soundtrack was heavily inspired by American music. What should I be listening to? [more inside]
Rene: Tren bloqueado
Train ticket frustration, Level Spain: Have any of you encountered the message "tren bloqueado" or "train blocked" when trying to buy tickets from Renfe? What exactly does it mean and will I ever get a deal on these tickets? Is there anywhere that will sell them? [more inside]
Not meant for relationships?
I feel relief after breaking up with my boyfriend, but I’m unsure if it’s because the relationship wasn’t right, or if I am just not meant to be in a relationship. [more inside]
How do I start saving money now that I'm actually making it
If you were 22 and making a good amount of money at a new job for the first time, what would you be doing now to have a better life later? [more inside]
Who needs the help of 120 7th-graders for a day?
Chicago filter: Where can I take 120 13-year-olds to do a service day in June? [more inside]
Can you hear the shot before it kills you?
Hypothetical game of Russian Roulette. Real bullets. Will you hear the shot before it kills you? [more inside]
To your scattered machines, go
Help me coordinate my digital ecosystems [more inside]
Commercial refrigerator mavens needed
Designing a commercial refrigeration solution for a rustic retreat center. [more inside]
Food allergies! Oh no!
How easy is it to diagnose food allergies? YANMD, etc. [more inside]
How do you manage your music library?
How do you manage your music library? [more inside]
Got any examples of well-designed community theater websites?
Got any examples of well-designed community theater websites? [more inside]
Snarky, sane, smart and down-to-earth weight loss support?
I want a weight loss community for people like me. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go?
I'm at a cross-roads career wise and am going round in circles trying to work out what to do. The situation is complicated by the fact that my current job involves working with deeply nutty people. Would be great to have some advice from impartial observers. [more inside]
Should I renew my TMo contract?
I'm a customer of a certain recently purchased wireless service. My contract (and my handset) are about to expire. Help me figure out what to do next. [more inside]
Is there a good alternative to the current US tax system?
US Tax Reform Filter:
Our current system is too complex, and has way too many loopholes. What are some great alternatives to the current US tax system? [more inside]
How to write better telemarketing scripts?
Can you recommend some resources to help me learn how to write fantastic outbound calling (telemarketing/teleprospecting) scripts? [more inside]
WTF is living on our house?
Is this mould? We're stripping down our bedroom to redecorate. We've found these yellow blobby stains on bare unpainted plasterboard (drywall for Americans) behind the old fitted wardrobe. [more inside]
Everest Documentaries?
Movies, documentaries, and TV shows about high-altitude mountain climbing (such as Everest)? [more inside]
Mystery stomach/pelvic pain/no energy yet tests are negative. Now what?
Doctor doctor, gimmie the news. What is wrong with me (YNMD)? [more inside]
I bought the same item twice from eBay, but they have no record of the first transaction. I want my item, but I only want to pay for it once.
eBay doesn't have a record of my purchase, but PayPal does, and the payment has cleared. Will I receive my item? [more inside]
Please default to column headers, Excel.
How do I get Excel 2007 default to using column headers when I'm sorting? [more inside]
Does it kill bacterias?
Does Aegis Microbe Shield really work? The science behind the product seems a bit hokey to me.
More info: http://aegismicrobeshield.com/
Sorry about your car - here are some cookies?
Any good 'sorry your car got broken into' gifts? [more inside]
Seeking novels with mysteries (murder, chiefly) where the crime is not solved but the ending is nonetheless totally satisfying.
History is full of unsolved mysteries and crimes. I'm seeking novels with mysteries (murder, chiefly) where the crime is not solved but the ending is nonetheless totally satisfying. [more inside]
Don't be a fool, cover your tablet
What's the best brand of cases to protect my fleet of tablet devices? [more inside]
Ill enough to rest/not always sleepy
What can you do if you're ill enough to want to rest in bed, but not so ill you can just lie there?...I'm getting frustrated. [more inside]
Montesorri, then public high school?
Looking for experiences from students, teachers, parents on kids who went to a Montessori school for 'grade school' - but then went on to attend a public high school.
Delicious Digging?
I'm looking for the best/ most functional social bookmarking site. [more inside]
Positive effects of being occasionally drunk
Does being drunk have any proven positive effects?
Too fat to ride?
Am I too heavy for my bike? Looking for info on weight limits for bike frames/rims. [more inside]
Which special character codes?
What code standard should I be using for special characters in html? [more inside]
How was your recovery from CT surgery?
What was your recovery from Carpal Tunnel Surgery like? [more inside]
Please help me identify a broadcast on public radio in the San Francisco Bay Area.
Please help me identify a broadcast on public radio in the San Francisco Bay Area. [more inside]
April 11
Cows with Guns
What are the best resources for someone new to pro-active account management?
What are the best resources for someone new to pro-active account management? [more inside]
What's the best Android phone to get for a developer?
What's the best $100-150 (new or used) Android phone to get for a developer? [more inside]
Hotel recommendation in Singapore
I will be in Singapore in May for three nights on the way back from Vietnam and I am looking for a hotel recommendation. I want to stay somewhere in the centre (Chinatown maybe, not sure) and looking for something not too expensive but also not a hostel. Any ideas?
A middle finger when no one can see it
Ugh. Search is failing me today. What did the U.S. POW's who subtlety gave middle fingers during their propaganda interrogation films refer to the gesture as to their captors?
Baltimore to English dictionary?
What is Casualty Section as repeatedly referenced in the Wire? [more inside]
Sensation of being pushed into the bed
What shoved me down into the bed and woke me from my dream? [more inside]
What is it like going to Planned Parenthood for birth control?
I just lost my virginity and took a Plan B pill. I need birth control pills asap and cannot afford to wait for the next available appointment with my ob/gyn. So, I will be going to Planned Parenthood. I've never been to Planned Parenthood, never been on any form of birth control (except the Plan B pill I just took) and have no idea what to expect. Did you go to PP for birth control pills, and how satisfied were you with the level of care? Generally speaking, have you consulted with both a Certified Nurse-Midwife and an OB/GYN? Which one did you prefer, and why?
Did anyone predict e-cigarettes?
Did electronic cigarettes appear in any science-fiction prior to becoming widely available in the real world? [more inside]
Explorations of freedom of speech
Looking for resources on explorations of the philosophy of 'Freedom of speech'. It seems to nowadays have a lot of baggage about it - such as the fact that people seem to mistake the platform for the speech itself or that the entire concept of freedom of speech fails to take into account that some people have a much, much louder 'voice' in today's media. [more inside]
Shopping between Los Angeles and Vegas
What is the best (outlet) shopping between the Los Angeles area and Los Vegas? My friends want to stop at one place and spend a few hours shopping.
Grandma needs cancer treatment, but has no insurance
MIL has cancer and needs to move from OH to IA. She has no insurance. How do we get her into treatment fast? How do we get her insurance (Medicare/Medicaid)? Details inside. [more inside]
Return my words to me
I am looking for the text of a letter that I wrote to The Guardian in January 2008. [more inside]
Is Epi for Me?
What do you know about careers in epidemiology or biostatistics? Please help me decide if epi would be a good career fit, and whether I should pursue an MPH or MS in the field. [more inside]
Am I eligible to play NCAA Ball?
I played one season of soccer in 2003 for a NJCAA school.
I am now 28 years old and want to play NCAA soccer. Am I eligible? for how many years?
P.S I have received my bachelors degree from an NCAA school but played no sports there.
I have tried googling to no avail.
A link or citation would be very useful!
I was considering getting a lawyer to help me sort this out once and for all, but maybe metafilter can do it!
AT&T U-Verse Set Up
AT&T U-Verse internet set up help needed. Reading the quick set up guide provided by AT&T is not really helping. [more inside]
1099-misc in different state
I have a 1099-MISC for a job I did in Florida, early 2010. I then moved to Virginia for a new job mid-2010, for which I have a W2. I am using tax software (TurboTax or HR Block) and when my federal tax return info transfers to my state, my Florida income is taken into account on my Virginia tax return. What do I do? [more inside]
Are the phish biting?
Does this type of e-mail scam affect Macintosh computers as well as PCs? [more inside]
Why do you brace for a fall or slam on brakes?
What is the technical term for the phenomenon of reflexively or instinctively thrusting your foot out to brace for a fall, slam a brake, etc. when fearful of impending injury? [more inside]
How do I proceed in the wake of a car accident?
Car accident. I am having difficulty thinking this through clearly. Please help me figure out what steps I need to take. [more inside]
Mac OS - hanging up at user login screen; making me insane.
Mac OS - hanging up at user login screen; making me insane. [more inside]
Don't wanna slouch
How do I improve my posture? [more inside]
Propping up a desk's top
My desk's legs are shot, and I need to prop the desk's top off the floor at regular height... as cheaply as possible. [more inside]
Motion Detection for Video Files
Is there a program or set of tools, preferably free / open source, that can take a video file as input, analyze the video, and output the parts of the video which contain motion above some threshold? The output could either be a video file or a series of still images.
Where should I get a poster framed in San Francisco?
Can you recommend a framer in San Francisco? I am going out there at the end of May for my aunt's 60th birthday, and the present I'd like to give her is a large poster, framed. I do not wish to travel with the framed poster, nor ship it already framed, so I was thinking I could contact a good framer out there, ship the rolled poster in a mailing tube, and pick it up when I arrive in SF. Does this sound like a good plan, and who would you recommend?
This just might be your bag, baby.
What are your favorite old fashioned phrases? [more inside]
Kosher for Passover hot sauce?
Kosher for Passover hot sauce? I love spicy foods and am a Tabasco addict. Passover's just around the corner, but I've never been able to find a KfP hot sauce. If you know of any, you will be my hero. (Note that I'm specifically looking for something certified as Kosher for Passover, not merely Kosher.) Thanks!
Please help me rediscover this mac itunes program!
I recently had to reset my mac, losing all the downloads, and I'm having trouble finding an itunes program I had once downloaded and now realize I came to rely on heavily. Here's what it did:
1) Displayed artwork and song/artist/year in a floating window in the lower left corner
2) Had hot keys to control itunes from any program - apple-f10 made the floater appear; apple-f11 track backwards; apple-f12 track forward; apple-f13 play/pause
I keep walking up to my computer and hitting apple-f10 and nothing happens. Help! Thanks.
Will the Cambodian New Year strand me in Phnom Penh?
Will the buses from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap stop over Cambodian New Year (from tomorrow)? Will the hostels close/be full? Will Angkor Wat be closed? Help me Cambodia veterans, you're my only hope.
Please don't tell the librarian.
I can't believe that not only did I read fanfiction, I'm actually looking for more of it. Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationalitywas and is just such a good read that I have to put my puritanical objections away on the entire subject. I'm looking for fanfiction about Dune, LOTR, Harry Potter, surprise me.
Extra points if its funny and better than the original.
So, I have options
I recently received approximately ~$10k worth of restricted stock that vests evenly over the next several years. I've been with the company one year and it's my first job out of college. Could someone provide some insight into 'stock options' as compensation tool? [more inside]
Android app for special needs user
Hide/move taskbar persistently, like locking a phone from a baby? Is there an Android app for that? If not, who would I ask? [more inside]
Can music be mashed up automatically?
I like the idea of Genius play lists, but I'm wondering when I will be able to click a button that says "Make awesome mash-ups of my iTunes library". [more inside]
Should we break up?
Do I break up with her? Is this her fault, or mine? [more inside]
MiFi for a month
Short-term MiFi strategy. Will this work? [more inside]
Wow, you can actually LIKE people you work with.
Help me learn from my coworkers as well as I can. They are awesome and I want to enjoy this resource. [more inside]
Moving to Sacramento -- where to live, what to do?
Relocating to Sacramento -- where should I live? What do I need to know? [more inside]
Recipes for the whole family
What are some vegetarian meals that all of us can enjoy -- two adults and a baby? [more inside]
Please help me feed my daughter on a limited diet.
Please help me feed my daughter while she's on a very restricted diet. [more inside]
Online "flipping page" catalog viewer software recommendation
I'm looking for a "flipping page" online catalog viewer for print catalogs. Hoping to find something that will work for iPad, iPhone and Android. Ideally I'd like something self-hosted, but that is not a deal breaker. The ability to add image map-like links to URLs is needed. The source file is a PDF built in InDesign.
I left something on an SF bus- is there anyone I can call?
I left a bag containing new shoes I purchased on a bus in San Francisco. I realize they're probably goners, but is there a number I can call to make sure?
How can I get better at using @Font Face
Question about the best way to set up @font-face for custom fonts. [more inside]
stand back, he bites
What happens when the tooth fairy visits grownups? My SO who's in his 30s is finally getting some gnarled-ass old wisdom teeth pulled. I am looking for hilarious (or sweet) (or hilariously sweet) ideas for what a cohabiting Tooth Fairy might leave under his pillow the next morning. [more inside]
I prefer to sleep unsquashed by bathtubs.
How worried should I be about the possibility of a bathtub killing me in my sleep? I wish I were joking. [more inside]
Please help me out of a financial panic
What should I do about a debt collection agency notifying me of a bill that I shouldn't have? [more inside]
Public Speaking Over the Phone
How can I overcome my fear of giving presentations over the phone? [more inside]
How can I benchmark and measure cloud computing latency?
I am looking to do a project on the effects of latency on cloud computing, specifically latency impacting on Amazon EC2 virtual machines and I am trying to get my head around it. EC2 is an Infrastructure As A Service cloud product. Unfortunately, I do not have much experience with it.
I haven't found alot on the internet on this area; has anyone seen any information on this subject?
Could anyone make suggestions about appropriate ways to do latency benchmarking in this area.
What kind of things ought I be looking to include in any benchmark tests.
How exactly do others go about measuring latency for Amazon EC2. Are there any software tools out there which will help.
Is Mickey Mouse really making swiss cheese with his penis in this clip?
Make the most of my two-day vacation!
How can I best spend my two days in (Mefi favorite) Mendocino? [more inside]
Hard numbers on a hard drug
Seeking numbers/statistics: outcomes of heroin addiction and how likely are they? [more inside]
CSS Gradient Background?
CSS Filter: I am trying to create a cross-browser gradient background
using only CSS. Is this possible? [more inside]
What will we make better today?
My company is encouraging employees to participate in community service activities by allowing us up to two full days to volunteer during work hours. What would be an appropriate activity for a small group to do together? [more inside]
Brooklyn engagement shoot
I am looking for particularly photogenic Brooklyn backdrops for our engagement shoot this weekend. DUMBO and Coney Island are not options. The more specific places, the better! General engagement shoot advice is welcome as well, because I don't really understand the concept. [more inside]
Help me not get arrested.
I am volunteering for a 501c(3). I have been given the task of writing checks to pay the bills. We are paying for the executive director's personal bills. Help! [more inside]
To Diagnose Autism, or Not to Diagnose Autism...
Is it necessary to have my 3-year old son diagnosed for Autism Spectrum Disorder by a neuropsychologist if we're already certain he has high-functioning autism? [more inside]
Half-Drop Repeats in Illustrator
Is there an easier way to preview half-drop repeats on illustrator than this super nuts way I'm doing it? [more inside]
Turkey in the 1800s - Question about day-to-day details.
Turkey/Istanbul/Constantinople/19th Century History question. I need some help discovering some basic cultural info - naming conventions, religious practices and beliefs, headwear details. All specific to Istanbul/Constantinople between 1790s and 1820s. Specific questions inside. [more inside]
Prost!
Visiting Germany -- Munich, Garmisch, Frankfurt -- your favorite places to stay, eat and see! [more inside]
adding t9 dictionaries to cellphones
Adding another language T9 dictionary to an LG GX200? [more inside]
Buying guns: What to get and how to do it in CA?
I want to buy 3-4 guns. Which ones should I get? And how to do it in northern California? [more inside]
Why is this year different to all other years?
My ultra-orthodox parents are coming for passover, what can I make that tastes good and adheres to their incredibly strict rules? [more inside]
What would be the name of a republican UK (without monarchy)?
What would happen to the name of the United Kingdom if it became a republic? Anything? [more inside]
Peludo Potter
I'm a hairy guy and want to de-hair my stomach and back. How can I do this without stubble, while leaving a small amount of chest hair? [more inside]
Dictionary Recommendations
English dictionary recommendations? [more inside]
Would you like to be friends again?
How (and should) I platonically re-connect with an ex? [more inside]
How can we bring down these scumbag phone scammers?
Someone just called my grandfather claiming to be me, and tried to scam him out of several thousand dollars. Should we report this, and if so, to whom? [more inside]
Any hope out there?
About a decade ago, I stubbed my big toe so badly that I clearly broke it. My crappy University Health Services refused to x-ray it, insisting that it was just a normal stub. I have since had severe pain every step I take, I can't really bend it very well, it sits differently than the other toe, and I am incapable of wearing heels or doing various athletic activities that I am dying to do, or even wearing most flat shoes, or taking long walks. I fantasize about it being broken again and then set correctly, but I have no idea if this is something that is done. What do doctors tend to do in this kind of situation, so I have some idea before trying to arrange a way to see someone? [more inside]
Evolution book title?
I can't remember the title of a very thorough "defense of evolution" type book. It presented hundreds of arguments used against evolutionary theory and argued against them, usually only with a paragraph or two. It was large, detailed, straightforward, and non-polemical.
Too much time together in an LDR
How can an LDR relationship that has spent most every moment together for a long period of time transition into one that allows more freedom for each person. [more inside]
How do I find a list of upper education institutions that have shuttered as a result of the economic downturn?
How do I find a list of upper education institutions that have shuttered as a result of the economic downturn? [more inside]
Weren't we supposed to get along once I grew up?
My mother and I have a difficult relationship. Looking for advice about how to get through a period during which my mother, my daughter, and I are spending a lot of time together. (And, yes, there's a lot more information inside.) [more inside]
Conducting an efficient job search
How do I prioritize all the tasks that come with being unemployed, from getting help to finding a job? [more inside]
Exporting Mysql user data
Mysqlfilter: How can i export all users ids, passwords, and permissions (grants), from mysql?
Middle of Where? Vermont
Where can I/should I stay overnight in Middlebury VT? [more inside]
Searching for radio program
Billionaire/Millionaire avoid paying taxes - NPR Bloomberg. Please help me find the article about how the rich avoid paying taxes - it was on WNYC AM - I think it was on Friday the 8th and I think Fresh Air. I have searched all I could but to no avail. The interviewer was talking to a writer for the Bloomberg magazine. Any pointers. (I have searched)
Thanks!
Winter is Coming, and I have no HBO!
Please help me find a way to watch the upcoming Game of Thrones miniseries on HBO that starts this week, without having to actually subscribe to HBO. [more inside]
Allergies and Asthma suck
Please help me deal with my newly diagnosed Asthma and allergies. I know you are not my allergist. [more inside]
Pretty shoes for Problematic Feet
Help me find pretty, comfortable women's shoes that don't kill my problematic feet. [more inside]
Company refuses to honor one of two offers that were agreed to
Legal experts of AskMe, I ask for your advice (which is not to be interpreted as legal advice)! Company X provided two online bonus offers. At the time I registered for the offers, neither offer stated that they could not be combined with the other. However, Company X only wants to apply one of the offers. [more inside]
What video game music could I arrange for one to three wind instruments?
I play clarinet in an orchestra that exclusively plays video game music, and there's an opportunity to a solo or small ensemble piece in the next concert if you can come up with your own music. Although I took two semesters of music theory, I don't think I'd be able to arrange anything involving piano- I'm looking for something that could be done with one to three wind instruments. Any ideas?
How to move rows in a table in google docs?
Any way to move rows within a table in a google docs document? [more inside]
How can I find a mystery font in my document?
How can I kill a mystery font showing up in my Word to PDF conversion? When I compile a PDF from this Word document, a font I did not use shows up in the font list in Acrobat. I have tried everything to hunt it and eliminate it, but with no success. [more inside]
How to create a raw footage library?
How can I organize all of these video clips from different sources (Flip cam, iPhone cam, etc) into some kind of database to make it usable? [more inside]
Open parking lots for driving practice
Best place to practice driving stick in Chicago? [more inside]
Really Remarkably Simple Problem: Randomination Rather Seems Puzzled
Canada tax: Question about timing of RRSP contributions. Did we mess up? [more inside]
Also, I have an eggplant.
What can you tell me about Moroccan/north African cooking? Got any recipes? [more inside]
Is this rucksack suitable for men?
Changing My Stage Name - When?
How much hassle would it be to change your performance or working name, especially when you have some projects in transition? Is there a good time to do so? [more inside]
Help! I'm scared of the dark!! Dark screen that is.
It's all gone dark here....My Acer Aspire One AOD150 is just out of warranty and the screen will not wake up from sleep. I'm out of tricks and wondering if it's just time to buy a new lappy. [more inside]
Do you have a recommendations for an excellent optometrist in either Boston/Cambridge or surrounding "metrowest" suburbs?
Do you have a recommendations for an excellent optometrist in either Boston/Cambridge or surrounding "metrowest" suburbs? [more inside]
Also looking for Gussie Fink-Nottle / Newt slash fiction.
Please tell me about Jeeves and Wooster's sex lives. [more inside]
Florence Advice: Put away that Baedeker Miss Honeychurch
Travelfilter: Florence Italy for 4 nights over Easter. Any tips on what we Must See, Must Eat or Must Do. [more inside]
Which magsafe should I get?
My girlfriend's Apple Macbook Pro power cord stopped working, and I want to replace it with something that's not $80. Which third-party magsafe power cord should I get? [more inside]
Retrieve multiple email contents
How might I retrieve the text contents of c. 6,000 emails, and put each one into a separate field or document? [more inside]
Cooking Lesson for Paris Tourists
We will be in Paris for two weeks in May. My wife and I would like to take a one-day or half-day cooking or baking lesson. Language is a bit of an issue. [more inside]
ॐ
How do I sort out the many different types of meditation? [more inside]
Should I vacation in Nova Scotia or Northern New England this fall?
What's a better fall vacation spot: New England or Nova Scotia? [more inside]
Switch for a heated bathroom mirror
I need to buy an electric switch. [more inside]
But he DID come over!
A film where Abraham Lincoln comes to a little girl's house? [more inside]
Frankly Exasperating, TI.
In a FET (Flash Emulation Tool), what exactly is being emulated? [more inside]
How can I speed up a slow VPN connection?
I've set up an OpenVPN VPN on an overseas server as a way of getting around the Great Firewall of China. It's working, but is considerably slower than paid services like Witopia. I'm a total n00b when it comes to this sort of thing and am wondering if the speed issues are a result of the configuration, or if it's just the way things are. [more inside]
April 10
What brand of glasses does Jonathan Franzen wear?
What brand of glasses does Jonathan Franzen wear? Here are some pictures. I can’t find this information anywhere. Are there other brands of glasses that look similar to the ones he wears?
Egalitarian blogging for a pair?
What is the best (free or very cheap) blog platform for a dual-authored blog in which both authors have their own logins, but neither is the administrator? [more inside]
The other boy in the plastic bubble film
I'm trying to track down the name of a movie about a "boy in the plastic bubble" that's not the John Travolta or Jake Gyllenhaal version. [more inside]
What happened to my dryer?
What weird, undiagnosable health malady am I suffering from?
You’re not a doctor, and you’re not my doctor, but I’ve seen a dozen of them to mostly no avail. Maybe you can help. Something strange is going on that no one can diagnose. [more inside]
Like a cow in water
How can I finally learn to swim? [more inside]
What watch is Curtis Stone wearing?
Can someone ID this wristwatch? [more inside]
How do I learn about something very quickly?
How can I learn a large amount about a topic in a few days? [more inside]
Portugal by cycle
Trying to plan a June bicycling trip in Portugal that either ends or begins in Coimbra. Does anyone have any experience cycling in Portugal? What are the good books? Any tips? My google-fu has failed me, and I can only seem to find places which want to take me on guided bike tours. [more inside]
When do I tell my employer I'm leaving?
My wife has been accepted into an out-of-state grad program, so we will be moving at the end of July. When do I tell my employer that I'm leaving? [more inside]
Big Brother for Good
I am putting together a proposal for my English class. It proposes that cameras should be required in meat processing plants all along the "dissemble" line, and broadcast "to the public somehow," (probably via web-feed or something) . Is there such a thing, in any law, in any jurisdiction (even outside of the U.S.)? [more inside]
CS Math books
I am a GIS college student looking to develop my skills in programming, particularly in Python. For starters, I need to wake up my dormant math skills. What mathematics-for-programmers books, or general Computer Science books, should I be looking for? [more inside]
less qq more pew pew
Where can I find the raygun (or one similar to it) that James Iha is using in this video
And little fleas have lesser fleas, and so, ad infinitum
After my six-year-old read What's Eating You?, a kid's book about parasites, we had the question: Which animal has the most recursive number of parasites, and how many levels deep can it go?
What to do about a bad appraisal?
We got our home appraised so we could remove PMI ahead of schedule. The home declined in value and the request was denied. But we're convinced the appraiser did a poor job. What can we do? [more inside]
Roman Holiday
Can I get from the center of Rome to Fiumicino to catch a plane on Easter Sunday morning? [more inside]
Department of Obvious Department, Sushi Version
Best practices for leftover sushi? [more inside]
How to skip the wait for a doctor
How can I get a quick appointment with a medical specialist?
I have gastroparesis and it has recently gotten bad - I am significantly underweight and I am continuing to lose weight because I am not able to take in enough calories. I have gone to a couple of generalist gastroenterologists before but they didn't help me at all. I found some gastroparesis specialists a couple hours away from me, but the next available appointment isn't until the summer. I have done some research and haven't found any other nearby doctors with this specialty. Does anyone know of a strategy I can use to get an earlier appointment? [more inside]
Pimp my HIIT
Please relieve my informationally-overloaded mind and my gym boredom by sharing your outdoor HIIT workouts. [more inside]
Now how did this happen...
ProteinFilter: Anyone ever worked with a protein that forms a filmy mess after purification? [more inside]
Help a Hard-To-Fit Woman Dress Herself.
I am 5'9", an hourglass shape with a long torso-- what should I wear? [more inside]
women's pants pockets
Women's pants - easy way to increase hand pocket size, and add side pockets? [more inside]
Help me find a career working with the dying
Help me find a career working with the dying and/or those close to them. [more inside]
Now you read it, now you don't
What is the name for the rhetorical tactic of communicating through the conspicuous absence of communication? [more inside]
A portable PA system for film projection
Help us choose a portable PA system to show films. [more inside]
Using US-based iPhone during trip to Korea for web, Skype, etc?
My husband and I are visiting Korea soon. Is the famous WiFi in Korea ubiquitous enough to use his iPhone 4 for web browsing and Skype? We're also renting an SKTelecom cellphone, but we'd like to use the iPhone for data-related tasks and travel apps. Is it just a matter of his iPhone jumping on any Wifi network (without incurring any roaming charges)? We're coming from the US (AT&T), and staying in Jeju and Seoul. [more inside]
Moving from England to Washington DC - advice?
Moving from England to Washington DC - advice?
I'm moving with my wife to Washington DC in the summer from England to start a job downtown. I'd like your thoughts on finding a place, neighbourhoods, logistics and cultural stuff. [more inside]
Help me identify this children's pastor!
I'm watching Jesus Camp, and there's a scene where a South African (I think) guy gets the kids to smash cups while talking about corrupt government. I've googled around, but can't figure out who this guy is. Does anyone know? (Link to a video under the cut.) [more inside]
Advice for FSBO
Help understanding implications of the condo I want to sell by owner being not FHA compliant? Also, does it make sense to get an independent appraisal? [more inside]
Identify an obscure children's book(s) from the sixties?
Obscure children's book(s) from the sixties? Warning: this is a very long shot. [more inside]
Which button do I push for a job?
Graduating soon... Where do I go from here? Lots of details and sub questions... [more inside]
what backpack to take and where to go in bahia (northern) brazil?
hi all,
i am looking for a quality backpack and cool places to go to in northern brazil. i would appreciate any help. [more inside]
Under what conditions can my landlord inspect my apartment?
My landlord (in Massachusetts) has given notice that they are inspecting my carbon monoxide detectors, but also intend to inspect faucets and thermostats. Is this legal? [more inside]
Moving to Dallas & would like advice on East Dallas living.
My girlfriend and I are moving to the Dallas area for her doctoral internship in July. We're both East Coasters and haven't spent too much time in the south, so we are looking for answers to some questions about Dallas itself. [more inside]
What was that for you psycho!?
Ow! I got bit by a cat. Really hard! Fang hole puncture wounds with blood! Should I be worried? [more inside]
If your kids have kids, I want to hear from you!
What's the deal with grandkids? [more inside]
Looking for books or movies with the same humor as Mike Judge's movies
Looking for books or movies with the same humor as Mike Judge's movies. [more inside]
Why a feather above the door?
I was a guest in a house where a feather or a few feathers were hung above the doors. [more inside]
Meta-book-ID please!
What is the title or author of this older fiction book? The main character says "Well!" throughout it. [more inside]
How to access other drive's contents on startup in Ubuntu?
How to access other drive's contents on startup in Ubuntu? [more inside]
Remember when you'd skip your early classes, and we'd learn how our bodies worked?
Are there any places in Nassau County (NY) an old friend and I could go to pretend we're teenagers again? [more inside]
i would be sad if i stepped on one....
I find slugs adorable. But not so much in my kitchen.
Is there a cheap humane way of keeping them from coming inside? [more inside]
Asparagus making sparks in the microwave?
I tried to microwave some asparagus and it started sparking. What is going on? [more inside]
Recording currency exchange in gnucash
I sold my bank some euros for dollars, and had the proceeds deposited in my checking account. How do I record this in gnucash? [more inside]
Interested in a house with "settling" issues
You are not my structural engineer: I'm interested in a house that has a "settling" problem. There's a 2-inch gap in the floor moulding in the master bedroom. There's a small crack visible on the wall on the first floor directly below. Other than that, no visible issues (but I haven't looked too hard and were directed to these problems by the disclosure statement.) Is this a "RUN!!" situation or is there a scenario which can result in a clean bill of health? The house was built in 1910, is otherwise in beautiful condition, and we're in New England.
Finding a mystery leak?
My house gets its water from a well. I've been noticing the well pump running at odd times, even when water is not being used. As a test, I double checked that all faucets were off, no washer in use etc. Sure enough the gauge on the pressure tank was slowly dropping, at a rate of about 5psi/min. There is no visible leak anywhere. Any suggestions on how I track this down? [more inside]
Safety in Richmond District and GGP
Visiting San Francisco next week. Would it be safe to walk down 9th Ave (from Lake St.), through the Richmond District, to Golden Gate Park and back, in the early evening and then back around 10:00 after attending the Nightlife event at the Academy of Sciences? Any advice about this event? Is it ridiculously crowded?
Substitute for discontinued protein powder?
Seems Muscle Milk no longer makes "26g protein powder, pure, isolated & concentrated milk protein". Anyone know of substitutes with the same high protein, good taste and texture when mixed with milk? I'd prefer not to do trial and error if I can help it. More within. [more inside]
The Shining
I was recently watching The Shining and I was struck by what an amazing movie it is. I'm not very well versed in film theory, so I was wondering if someone who knows film can tell me, from a critical perspective, what makes it such a great movie. [more inside]
I have an amazing ticket to a Braves game today...what should I do with it?
I have an amazing ticket to a Braves game today...what should I do with it? [more inside]
Columbia or Yale MPH?
Should I go to Yale or Columbia to get my MPH? I'm already in NYC, but I'm hearing unhappy rumblings from students at Columbia. [more inside]
Whose dog is this?
What to do with a found dog? Pet owners please help. [more inside]
coffee help please!
Why won't my moka pot (italian stovetop coffee maker) make me a decent cup of coffee? half of the water seems to be unable to come up from the bottom part to turn itself into delicious, morning-saving coffee. [more inside]
WHY AM I ADDICTED TO THE INTERNET?
This could be the question that undoes the entire universe: Why am I addicted to the Internet? [more inside]
Inspire me to grand adventure
Help me find engaging audio sources of accounts of people hiking the AT or PCT or something similar. [more inside]
Looking for a video
Looking for a video of two people in different buildings flirting with each other via paper messages on the window. I believe it was a short video somewhere playing along to music, a guy works in one tower, and a girl works in another tower. And they start sending messages to each other by writing big text on 8.5x11 paper and pasting it on the window, so the other can see. Then I think one day the girl's office gets moved and the guy's really sad, but then they find each other again. Then the guy asks wanna meet, so they meet up in the street, and instead of saying hi verbally the girl hands him a paper saying nice to meet you (something like that). Hoping someone remembers where the video is!
Oh what I wouldn't do for a crystal ball
What do you do when doctors can't give you an answer? Like... whether or not you SHOULD try to have children? [more inside]
YouTube? Sucks?
Why does YouTube suck so much? [more inside]
April 9
How many calories is a tomato?
How many calories is a tomato? [more inside]
Rapscallions wanted
I am looking for new books in the same category as Le Petit Nicolas, Gian Burrasca, and, kind of, Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn. [more inside]
Zig-Zag-And-Swirl?
Who designed, built and flew the worlds first commercial passenger airplane?
Oooh! Pick me!
How do you get on a nonprofit organization's board of directors? [more inside]
I have a lot of questions about therapy.
I need to find a therapist, and I have a lot of questions. [more inside]
Scammy political billboard of questionable legality: what to do?
There's a misleading political billboard up in my small Massachusetts town, implying photo ID is required for voting. This is not true. I'm hopping mad & trying to figure out what would be an appropriate response to this situation. (More info & a photo link below.) [more inside]
Burt's original eleven herbs and spices
Burt's Bees' recipes were supposed to have come out of a "19th century personal care recipe book" that Roxanne Quimby found. Does anyone know what particular book this was? I'm hoping its floating around in some public domain site somewhere...
Avenue then street, or vice-versa?
When you state an intersection in a city that has avenues and streets (or some other system where N-S is one set and E-W is another set), is there a convention for which you name first? In other words, how should people interpret something like "9th and 11th"? If there's a convention, is it universal? Or, does it vary from city to city? [more inside]
ID this painting's artist, please!
Three's a crowd?
Help me brainstorm groups of three words to help a student study for a test. [more inside]
What changes when you get married?
What changes after you get married*? [more inside]
You go now!! You eat like killer whale!
What is a "normal" amount of food to order at a sushi restaurant? [more inside]
Wine Dark... Hair?
Wine Dark... Hair? Have there been significant studies of the gradient between black and red hair in literary, visual arts, etc? You see a lot of attention paid to the gradient between blonde and red. Does anyone know anything about this? [more inside]
Amoxicillin and morning after pill
I'm taking amoxicillin for a UTI and I'm on birth control pills. I had unprotected sex. From what I understand, antibiotics could make birth control pills less effective. Will the amoxicillin affect the morning after pill also? I'm uninsured so I'm turning here for help.
Not sure how to do this
Normal dating expectations. What are they? [more inside]
How to help a student SO dress better?
How can I buy clothing for my grad student significant other? Should I? [more inside]
Gallstones are a pain in my back.
Recently found out I have gallstones, and I have some degree of back/stomach pain every time I eat, no matter what I eat. YANMD, but what can I do about the pain? [more inside]
Help me un-secure my dress.
Stupid Retail Mistakes Filter: Is there a way to safely remove a security tag that was accidentally left on a garment? [more inside]
What to do with leftover vanilla bean?
What can I do with leftover vanilla pods OTHER than vanilla sugar or extract? I have both of those already.
Read 'em and don't weep.
Book recommendations - slay me with modern fictional awesomeness! [more inside]
How can something so cute make me this sad...
Our dog gives all her love to my husband, but I do the bulk of the work. How do I deal with the hurt feelings? [more inside]
Command-line Windows 7 (64-bit) robot voice
Seeking a command-line way to do text-to-speech in Windows 7 (64-bit), with a robot-sounding voice (something like the speech synthesizer in Wargames). I am able to do it with ptts.exe from Jampal, but the only voice I can use is Microsoft Anna. She is nice, but I want a voice that sounds like a robot. I am not interested in doing this in Linux at all. [more inside]
Great Dining for Less in RI?
Looking for a good but inexpensive restaurant in Providence, RI to hold my wedding rehearsal dinner. Any recommendations? It can be a short drive outside of the city too. Thank you for your help!
Poor man's first class flying
I'm flying from SLC to DTW on May 18, 2011. Is there a foolproof way to book the emergency aisle, or a particular flight search engine that lets one choose their seat? I'm 6'6, 230 lbs, and I'd love to have the extra space.
School "Bell": ring or beep?
When you were in High School, did your school "bell" beep or ring? What years were you in HS? [more inside]
Is there life after Seroquel? Is it good?
Crazymedsfilter. Have you tried to wean yourself off Seroquel? What happened? [more inside]
iWant my kid to have fun with an iPad while we travel
My 8-year-old son and I are about to go on a trip which will require two 6-hour plane trips. A friend is going to lend me an iPad to take on the trip. So what can I load on it to amuse my kid? [more inside]
DIY websites with sorting functions
Help me find do-it-yourself/make-your-own/instructables websites that one can sort by user ratings. [more inside]
Quality at a Low Price?
I'm asking this on behalf of a friend. She is looking to get a computer in =< $600 range. It is for a mother (college papers; Web and email) and six year old child (games for kids). [more inside]
How do automotive firmware engineers do their jobs?
Are you an automotive engineer? Do you design engine control module firmware? Do you know or love someone who does? How is that firmware actually written? [more inside]
Cheap ways to improve apartment living
What are some relatively inexpensive things I can order via Amazon Prime to improve the design/quality of life in a studio apartment? I'm a single dude and my place still feels as cold and faceless as a furnished room, but I don't have the cash or the vision to do a full-scale overhaul.
more Melvins please
The Melvins' discography is vast. Help me navigate it optimally based on some preferences. [more inside]
Do it yourself scratch repair?
Will I get caught? (AMT a bitch for ISO's in private company)
Will I get caught if I don’t report the purchase of my PRIVATE COMPANY ISO’s? (AMT is a bitch!) [more inside]
dog acting scared/sick
What can I do about my dog who has been hiding under chairs and blankets shaking everyday for the last week. [more inside]
bye bye bathroom?
Am I insane for wanting to remove a bathroom from my house? [more inside]
Beauty without animal cruelty
What cosmetic brands would you recommend to someone who is trying to choose products developed without animal testing? I've methodically flipped over the back of packaging at major supermarket and pharmacy chains when hunting for mascara, for example, with no joy. Ordering products that need shipping would be problematic since it's already 90+ F (32+ C) where I live during the day. Suggestions much appreciated.
Help Me Park at the Park!
Where do I park to play tennis at Golden Gate Park? I'm getting some conflicting information .. some folks say it's easy, some say it's impossible. I'm playing a match there and I'll be looking for parking around 11:45 or 12p today (Saturday).
2 Folks and a Dog on Road
What do you recommend we visit between Halifax and Detroit? [more inside]
Best medium for long-form essays?
What are the the relative pros and cons of publishing a long-form non-fiction essay or series of essays in a blog vs. a book vs. a magazine article vs. a newspaper article vs. some other medium? Are there any good articles that explore this topic?
Looking for Weight Loss Spa/Retreat in Ontario
Can anybody recommend a weight-loss focused spa/retreat in Ontario (preferably a few hours drive from Toronto)? [more inside]
Best headphones on the market that are $60 or less?
Best headphones on the market that are $60 or less? [more inside]
How am I going to look like I just rolled out of bed now?
My favourite hair product has been discontinued - is there a similar replacement? [more inside]
Polish Fallout 3
So yesterday I bought a used copy of Fallout 3 for the xbox 360 at my local Gamestop. Turned out it was a Polish version. Anyone know if it's possible to change the default Polish text and dialogue to English?
Help me relocate from Brooklyn, NY to Providence, RI.
Looking for reputable landlords and/or a good apartment broker in Providence, RI. [more inside]
Proactive Dynamic Synergy
I have to come up with a 250 word answer the following HR recruitment question: "What can X-company do to make sure it can operate effectively in a fast paced changing environment?" What do you think they want me to say? Are there certain "buzzwords" I should be using?
Giant bug attacks unwitting camper twice!
What animal or insect in Georgia is likely to climb onto a sleeping camper twice in two nights? [more inside]
Jumpstarting a lasting fund, without the pesky
I would like to create a non-profit fund / fundraising org earmarked towards jumpstarting community centers. I've heard that rather than trying to create a non-profit, it might be best to partner with an existing non-profit with similar interests, and see if they'd "host" the fund I want to create / help with the legal aspects, while allowing me to earmark and oversee the fund. I intend to do regular fundraising, and hope to create a lasting fund that attracts bequests. Does anyone know about the legalities involved here? Any advice as to how I might want to approach such a project?
Looking for specific (3d) logo of a cultural building
About a year or two ago I saw a presentation about the design of a logo for a cultural building / institution: opera, theatre, museum or university, library. I think they used a 3d model of the building, to create profile shots of different angles, thereby providing different logos for different occasions Im desperately looking for this presentation or logo.
Anyone? [more inside]
Is my bottle of Rhum still drinkable ?
There are some floating solids in my small bottle of Rhum. Is it still drinkable ? I received the complimentary bottle of Rhum in early 2010 from an Air France flight. [more inside]
Can you recommend some melancholy piano pieces?
Looking for melancholy piano performances. [more inside]
April 8
Cascading Style Sheets Positioning Phenomena Question
My friend has a question about how positioning is supposed to work in cascading style sheets. [more inside]
What are the appropriate emotions for an ex during and after divorce?
My boyfriend recently finalized his amicable divorce, but I am more wary than ever. What are the emotions one goes through after divorce and what sacrifices are required on my part? It's a little long - thanks in advance for reading. [more inside]
Great Minds Riff Alike
Giants of culture and science coinciding. Where can I listen to more of something like this? [more inside]
Help me find this abduction story!
A few years ago, I heard a segment on NPR/Seattle Public Radio about two men who claimed to have been abducted by aliens some number of years ago. I'm not sure if it was a This American Life story (but I don't think it was based on what I found of the show archives), a NPR story, or a Seattle Public Radio story. I am trying to find a recording of that piece now and/or more information about the story it covered. [more inside]
Can you make a side-scrolling Tumblr theme?
Is it possible to create a side-scrolling and sideways posting Tumblr theme? [more inside]
Baffling holes in my shirt making me nuts.
What is causing the tiny holes on the bottom front of all my shirts? (this was asked in 2006, but maybe new info has become available on holey shirts). [more inside]
Mini-ITX HTPC Motherboard with Analog (Composite or S-Video) Output
Looking for a mini-ITX motherboard for an HTPC that supports analog video out (s-video or composite/y-rca) or I need a cheap way to convert HDMI or DVI to one of those analog video formats. [more inside]
Any advice for finding this missing suicidal person?
Any advice for finding this missing suicidal person? [more inside]
Skillfully choosing my manager?
My manager just went to bat for me with Human Resources for an increased salary. But now, days later, another manager within the company is trying to recruit me. I'm tempted, but I feel indebted to manager #1. How can I best manage the situation? [more inside]
What was my ancestor doing in the Philippines in World War I, anyway?
I've been doing some research into my family history, and recently learned that my great grandfather was stationed in the Philippines during World War I. Can you help me figure out what he was doing there? [more inside]
What is the best phone for this?
What's a newer Android phone on t-mob where you can use a wifi-sharing program (a common one that I've seen free online) to create a wi-fi hotspot? Not trying to get anything related to this from t-mob directly. I just want a newer Android phone that is capable of this, if such a thing exists. I'm assuming that said phone would have an option for an unlimited data plan.
Heat my hands!
Does anyone have experience with heated gloves? [more inside]
Help a travel n00b.
Flying to San Francisco to Berlin, returning to SF from Milan in the summer. When, where, and how should I go about buying plane tickets? [more inside]
My poor, innocent computer is being held hostage by a malevolent virus. Please help!
Can anyone tell me how to remove the XP Security 2011 virus from my home computer? [more inside]
Where might I find this spring jacket?
I'm looking for a women's jacket that I've been seeing around town lately, and I'm hoping someone with better search skills than mine can help me find it! [more inside]
Break me out of my auditory rut.
Can you help me expand my music library? [more inside]
What you do not smell is called Iocaine Potato...
Will planting potatoes poison the hummingbirds? [more inside]
carpet art
Say you had ideas for a series of artsy rug designs. You don't have the money for something like this, but are relatively crafty. Is it possible? [more inside]
Documentaries about physics
What are some great documentaries (or documentary series) about physics? Note: I'm a physics nerd, and I'm picky. Explanations and caveats inside. [more inside]
Passport renewal during gov't shutdown?
Will my passport get renewed at the US Embassy in Tokyo even if the federal government shuts down? [more inside]
Emergency interview-wear question!
Emergency interview-wear question! What do I wear with a pinstripe jacket? [more inside]
Finocchios
What's the Italian gay scene like? [more inside]
Why Didn't The Democrats Pass A Budget When They Had The Chance?
Budget Battle Question: someone on Facebook made the argument that the Democrats should have passed the budget during the last session, when they still held the majority in both houses. Is there some procedural or other technical reason why they did not or could not have done so?
NVIDIA black screen in Ubuntu Linux -- software or hardware?
I have a Linux laptop with an nvidia graphics card that is giving me headaches. Help me figure out what the deal is! [more inside]
Need new driver's license STAT!
Lost driver's license in Minneapolis and need to rent a car for work. Help! [more inside]
Silk cord bib necklace
Help me identify a type of jewelry (artist or style) which I first saw in Bilbao, Spain. [more inside]
Which David Attenborough BBC film is best?
Which is better? LIFE or PLANET EARTH by David Attenborough? [more inside]
GarageBand for Windows?
Longtime GarageBand user finds himself with a Windows computer. What music sequencing software should he use now? [more inside]
Special snowflake goes abroad
I'm meeting up with family in Paris this June, and I'd like to spend a week or so travelling alone beforehand. Can you suggest inexpensive destinations with the following requirements? [more inside]
Need a bar in Manhattan for a hot/sweaty/sexy/danceparty birthday...
Yes, it's yet another person asking for the perfect bar to party at... help me find the perfect(ish) bar for me to throw my 28th birthday party. [more inside]
more like the Delicatessen opening credits
I'm looking for sequences like the opening credits of Delicatessen where the camera flies through a collection of objects to focus on specific tidbits of information. I'd like to see anything done in this style, not just credits sequences. Thank you!
Student looking to settle debts so he can study abroad
I am a US citizen enrolled in a California State University and am signed up to spend the next year studying abroad in Europe. Before this happens I need to settle about $10,000 worth of debts and deal with a car payment. The foreign university needs me to show a bank balance of about $15000 to cover expenses for the year and I am wondering what kind of student loan options are available to settle debts and show proof. [more inside]
I Do! Now Go Home.
Living Together Apart: getting married and maintaining separate residences: crazy? awesome? [more inside]
Does funding planned parenthood also fund abortions?
Does the government funding Planned Parenthood pay for abortions at all? [more inside]
My Apple boycott has left me ignorant - what do you do with an ipod nano?
What can you do with a third generation ipod nano? Don't use itunes or any other Apple products. [more inside]
Enigma
What does this mean? It's code some of the kids I work with use on FB. [more inside]
ANOVA says there is a significant difference, but Tukey shows nothing
I need help with SPSS- ANOVA says there is a significant difference between my variables but when I run Tukey there aren't any significant differences? [more inside]
Boston-area ADD/ADHD specialist?
I'd like a recommendation for a specialist in the Boston/Cambridge area to help me with what I think is ADD/ADHD. [more inside]
Help Ripping Music CDs
Can anyone help me with a problem I have with Ripping music to my Ipod/Computer.
I have several CDs that are meant to be gapless Album (IE a continous 80 minute mix) and when I try to rip them to my Ipod, it make a momentary gap appear. So how can I rip these CDs without the Gaps, or how can I rip them to my PC without track markers, so that they are one long mix
Thanks for any advice/Help
Should I try to leave a job I started in the past few months?
I started a new job a month ago but it's turned out to be totally different than what I expected - and I want out. I'm within the three month probation period, but how hard is it going to be to find a new job? More questions inside. [more inside]
URL help?
How do I change our wiki URL from www.name:port to www.name:port/wiki (where 'name' is the name of our support portal)? [more inside]
Is handwriting analysis a valid forensic tool?
Is handwriting analysis a valid forensic technique? [more inside]
How do I find the specific path where a DLL was loaded from?
Programming Filter: How do I find the specific path where a DLL was loaded from? [more inside]
The Indespesible Gaga
If I wanted to make a compilation of the best tracks by Lady Gaga, what would those tracks be? Smash hits and obscure remixes both considered.
Are there any free/cheap bike programs for kids?
Do you know of any programs in the Portland-Metro area which provide free or cheap bikes to kids? [more inside]
How can a great classroom teacher find a geat job not in the classroom?
Where can someone who cares about children, especially those who are disadvantaged orwith special needs find a job outside of the classroom? [more inside]
Savage Inequalities?Sex& Menopause
Savage Inequalities? Menopause and Erotic Intimacy. I have skimmed many AskMes and haven't seen quite this combination. Dan Savage is often touted and cited, but this combination is not well covered. What do Mefites and others do when their sex life is on indefinite hold due to their female partner's menopause? What if polyamory is off the table? [more inside]
Anxious like a mofo over new relationship. Please help prevent me from sabotaging!
Anxiety over new relationship is killing me. Help me to stop it. [more inside]
Magical feed services, how do they work?
How do services that create a full-text RSS feed when a site only offers partial feeds actually work? As example, fulltextrssfeed.com.
Will my old pump organ send me falling to my death in my sleep?
I just bought a late 1800's pump organ from a church. It's still there, but I am planning on moving it to my room in the third/top floor of the house soon. My roommate (who is often a contrarian and rain-on-your-parade dick) brought up the idea that perhaps the floor can't handle the weight. I don't know whether or not this is plausible, but it has brought up a lot of past fears from falling through the roof of my childhood garage and I need to figure this out before it maybe kills me. [more inside]
"Like father, like son" in Italian?
Italian speakers: how would you say "like father, like son" in Italian? My boyfriend wants to get this phrase as a tattoo, but neither of us speak Italian.
Help learning regex
I have a brain-block when it comes to Regex and really need to learn it. Can anybody suggest really good tutorials with little exercises to reinforce the info? I've tried so many times to get a grasp and it just escapes me and would be invaluable for school/work since I'm doing a lot of string processing in Perl and PHP. Thanks!
Packhorse on Wheels
I ride my bike about 50-70 miles a day, but now I'd like to be able to carry a minimal amount of overnight camping gear and hiking boots with me. How can I do this while keeping the weight balanced and without breaking my back?
Looking for awesome, well-trained Pandora stations
Give me your awesome, well-trained Pandora stations! [more inside]
What's black and white and red all over? A guy in a tuxedo without any jokes.
Jokes. We all know one, maybe even two or three, and there's a good chance they're slightly or completely off-color. But let's say you need to entertain a room of five- to eight-year-olds, and they're expecting a non-stop barrage of hilarity. Anyone have any favorite kids' jokes they'd like to share?
Modding a Toyota RV
I was given a 1984 Toyota RV that is in rough shape cosmetically, but is a strong running chasis. It has the legendary 22r engine (with low miles), a 6 bolt rear axel and a dual battery setup.
The living quarters are a little run down. I am wondering if there is any information on how to strip it down to the frame and if there are any examples of rebuilding a new structure using modern materials?
Help with building an outdoor IR webcam enclosure...
Ok this is may sound like a weird one...
Basically I'm building an outdoor enclosure for a panning/tilting webcam that has IR lighting built into it. It was going to be all sides Lexan, to keep things simply and neat looking.
I learned, midstream of course, that the Lexan/Plexiglass/glass all reflect IR light like crazy so you just see a beautiful ring of IR lights and not what's outside the box when viewing the stream.
I'm told a UV filter might work, embedded in the front of the enclosure. The challenges are: [more inside]
Supply seeking demand
Where to sell lots of SATA cables and stuff? [more inside]
Why have I been having panic attacks almost everyday for the past 10 years?
A Medical Conundrum for the Hive. Why persistent panic attacks occurring during twilight, as the light dims and the outside gets darker, since the onset of puberty? [more inside]
TaskMe
I am in love with the Tasks function in Gmail -- but I rarely actually remember to open it. Is there any setting that will make Tasks open automatically whenever I sign in to my account?
What are best practices for moving to a new Macbook?
I have a few questions regarding upgrading from one Macbook to another and transferring data/settings. [more inside]
MY GHOULS 1-2-3!
When you played Hide and Seek as a kid, what did you call the "base" and what rules existed, if any, about the base? [more inside]
Dysphagia- Swallowing/Deglutition Exercises
Dysphagia Swallowing Exercises: Looking for websites and books that graphically display picture sequences for therapuetic swallowing exercises. I am most interested in the pictures and visual cues within the pictures that help allude to what is happening internally at the level of the mouth/pharynx/larynx. I need (possibly sequential)pictures and images for these exercises! [more inside]
Touchy subject is touchy
Novel research filter: Trying to find detailed information about sex therapy. [more inside]
Is a nervous breakdown an option?
How can I arrange my life so that I feel less overwhelmed? [more inside]
Would you want to know if your partner has doubts, or is ignorance bliss?
If you are in a relationship and there are difficulties, should you tell the other person that you are thinking about breaking up, or should you wait until you're *sure* you want to break up to mention it? [more inside]
You mean you spent your time making money? For shame, for shame.
Trying to enter the field two years after completing my masters: How to spin/represent my unrelated work experience since then? [more inside]
Recommendations for good local movers in Portland, OR?
Can anyone recommend good local movers in Porland, OR? [more inside]
How can I try to help a depressed, possibly borderline, friend who's trying to isolate herself?
My friend is deeply depressed and is trying to cut herself off from me and her other friends. How can I try to help her? Key questions: 1) Any suggestions on how to try to convince her that I genuinely want to stick around and be her friend and it's not just out of obligation, and/or other other ways to respond to her trying to push me away? 2) She's given up on hope of any treatment or improvement-- I think she might be borderline and that DBT could be a good fit for her regardless-- any suggestions of what I could send her about DBT and/or BPD (or anything else) that would have the best chance of getting through to her and giving her hope that things can get better? [more inside]
Does installing a new Linux OS erase the hard drive?
Will installing a Linux Operating System onto an old Windows laptop fully erase the contents of the hard drive? [more inside]
Prestige or cultural experience?
Is it always better to attend an intensive language program in the country where it is spoken, or is the name recognition of a program a reason to stay within the US? [more inside]
Contaminated WVO disposal?
Where can I dispose of contaminated vegetable oil? [more inside]
Vacation: 0 -- Budget Riders: 1
Flying into Miami tomorrow evening, will this government shutdown affect me? [more inside]
Where else can I go with my museum-database experience?
I need help recontextualizing my skillset. I think I’m looking at my resume too literally, and boxing myself in unnecessarily when it comes to looking for other options. [more inside]
Breakfast restaurants near Earl's Court, London
What's a good breakfast place near Earl's Court in London? My boss will be there next week for the London Book Fair and could use a place with good breakfast to meet with various people in the mornings before the fair.
How to dip a toe into the ocean of Digital Librarianship?
Librarians of Metafilter: Let's say I have a week to orient myself to the world of digital librarianship. What should I read? [more inside]
What to do about the wall air conditioner of doom?
What to do with a dead through-the-wall air conditioner that we no longer need? [more inside]
Recent Grad Help! What to do next.
Recent graduate: What is going on with me!? Advice, suggestions, feedback welcome! [more inside]
Need web/marketing recommendations, please. In Tampa.
Web/Marketing Firm? In Tampa Bay Area? Need recommendations, please. [more inside]
Exciting electronics video?
I am looking for an interesting or exciting video that would, in some small way, get Grade 7 kids excited about electronics or science in general. The video will be one part of a talk by Skype I'll be giving to a teacher friend's Grade 7 class. Ideally, the video would be less than 15 minutes and deal with electricity or electronics directly.
Where in New York can I find a hunting stand/tripod?
Getting mental balance for job interview/outcome
In a whirlwind of a week and a half, I submitted a resume, got a phone interview, and a job interview scheduled for Monday so have been cramming. My question though is on handling outcome. I am so anxious that I need to somehow convince myself that it doesn't matter what happens. There are pros and cons for uprooting if I get the job and the same if I stay at my current job. Pay is the same, just be starting over, but would be near my family. Any Jedi mind tricks when things are uncertain?
Amazon gift return complications
Amazon gift returns: Several questions. If the buyer (gift giver) did not mark the item as a gift at the original purchase time, how long does the gift recipient have to return the item, as long as they tell Amazon it was a gift at the time of return? Also, does a gift recipient need to pay return shipping? One more... if there was an Amazon shipping label created to return a specific item from an order -- but that label is never used -- can a different person later then create another shipping label & return the item for a refund? [more inside]
Thank You
Help me write a thank you note to my dentist, please? [more inside]
Hit me with your best quiche. Fire awaaaaaay.
Give me your frittata, your quiche/
Your savory custards yearning to be eaten by me/
The whisked soufflés of your steaming casserole./
Send these, the delicious, oven-baked to me/
I lift my fork and cram them in my mouth-hole! [more inside]
How can I get stains (old and new) out of polyester tablecloths?
How can I get stains (old and new) out of polyester tablecloths? I can't bleach them because they're colored, and I've tried Shout gel as well as making a paste of detergent - the stains remain.
Low Income veterinary care assistance
My next door neighbor's cat is seriously ill. Unfortunately, she has had her hours cut at work and cannot afford veterinary care. Does anyone know of any organizations, national or local, that provide financial assistance for emergency animal care? [more inside]
God damned 2012 superbowl.
My car was damaged driving through a construction zone, do I have any legal recourse? [more inside]
Trade vs. Degree
How to make the most of a Master Electrician license while attending school? Should my husband even be going to school? [more inside]
Does it count as a diploma mill if they still make you take the classes?
I switched universities. Did I make a mistake? [more inside]
Dementia
Is it possible for dementia or Alzheimer's symptoms to come and go? [more inside]
Are there any places offering surfing lessons around Maryland in April?
Are there any places offering surfing lessons around Maryland in April?
I just booked a trip to Hawaii, and would love to take a lesson or two before I head out there.
Is switching homes too often detrimental to his development or is this acting out a phase?
Children in Divorce: 3 1/2 year old acts out, Mommy thinks it's because he is switching homes too often, wants to change visitation schedule to have him overnight every night. Is switching homes too often detrimental to his development or is this acting out a phase? What can I do? [more inside]
Help me replace my bedroom door with a cat friendly alternative.
I need a door that I can leave open for my cat, even if it's closed for my privacy. I live in a house with a bunch of roommates and the litter is in my closet so the cat must be able to come and go. My door knob is broken anyway so I'd like to put something in the doorway or hallway that gives line of sight privacy but doesn't impede cat traffic. Does anyone know of some curtains or something that would do the trick? [more inside]
photoshop files I create often don't include previews. how do I fix that?
photoshop files I create often don't include previews. how do I fix that? [more inside]
Career woes : digital project manager vs. software project manager
I'm a digital project manager and have been through a few advertising agencies, each lasting about a year. I'm in my mid 30's and am currently in management running the digital department at an advertising agency. I'm truly looking to get out of advertising and into software, where process is more respected and you actually make products that need to last and serve a purpose.
When I go through job postings, my skills don't seem to transfer because it's openly acknowledged that true project management is not practiced in advertising. Anybody have any insight on the possibility of moving over or experience with it?
Slow pitch softball bats: advice for a novice shopper?
Help me buy a slow-pitch softball bat!
I play on a very non-competitive co-ed slow-pitch softball team (we're mostly there for the beer) and I'm not looking spend a ton for the latest and greatest. I hesitate to just buy the cheapest thing around but part of me wonders "Is there really any reason to go above the basic box-store bat for a team that can barely be bothered to track the score?" So, is there a middle of the road option I should be looking into? Is there a minimum level of crappy-bat I should avoid? Budget tops out around $100-$120. Bonus points for gender specific recommendations. Thanks!
"If the shoe doesn't fit, must we change the foot?"
I've recently started long distance running (5 months). I purchased a pair of running shoes two months ago and I've noticed that my left shoe is rubbing the back of my achilles tendon. Does anyone know of any type of product that will cushion the back of my running shoe and prevent it from rubbing against my tendon in this way? I can still run at the moment but there is some strong soreness where that part of the shoe hits the back of my foot. [more inside]
Help me find tres chic beret
Black beret, with white cursive/handwriting text on it in French(I can't remember what it said). I've seen two people with these, brought back from Paris, but I couldn't find them over there myself. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Where would I find them next time? [more inside]
Best route to avoid traffic around LAX
How do I avoid traffic around LAX while driving to Las Vegas on a Saturday evening? [more inside]
Turn me into a monster. A happy, tile-eating, triple-letter-score using monster.
What's the best bang for my buck when it comes to improving my Scrabble game in a very limited time period? [more inside]
I must consume everything my TV shows me
Anyone have the recipe for "The George" cocktail chef Thomas Keller invented for the movie "How Do You Know"? (hint: it is included on the blu-ray extras) [more inside]
Return of the trumpet?
TrumpetFilter: After a year and a half of no playing, I've got three months to improve as much as I can. How can I make the most of my time? [more inside]
Grade This!
What's the best way to approach a teacher about what I feel is an unfair grade? [more inside]
What exactly does Dn,e W dB indicate?
What does Dn,e W dB indicate exactly?
It is a measurement that refers (apparently exclusively) to the acoustic attenuation performance of "trickle vents". [more inside]
April 7
I might be wrong, but I can't imagine a banjo being popular anywhere else.
Is bluegrass music a solely American phenomenon? Do people in other countries listen to bluegrass? If so, do they listen to American bluegrass, or are there similar genres throughout the world?
One CFR Title in one PDF document?
Where can I find entire chapters of the CFR available in one PDF file? [more inside]
Is a Professional Master's Degree from UCB worth the time/money?
I've been accepted to the brand new (first year offered) Professional Master's (M. Eng) program at UC Berkeley. I can't decide whether it's worth the cost. Berkeley has a great reputation and all, but this is a new program and so there's not much information to go on. Furthermore, aside from taking 9 months of my time, this is going to cost me $43k as I have a sizable savings and therefore received no financial aid.
What do you know about M. Eng programs? Have you met or worked with anyone with such a degree? What do you know about UCB's engineering department?
Ideally I'd come out of the program with a strong network of ambitious people ready to start new companies. I'd like to be an early member of a start-up. Should I do this program?
How to save scan doc. on ipad/iphone?
Is there an app for the iphone and ipad that will let me store all my scanned documents?
Thanks
Which monitor should I get?
Confused about which computer monitor to buy! There are so many and so many different kinds now. [more inside]
Abra-cadabra!
Is there anything like Shazaam for iPhone, but better? [more inside]
Kaiser therapist in San Francisco?
Good therapist in San Francisco that takes Kaiser insurance? [more inside]
Help us find an awesome, non-traditional "first dance" song for our wedding reception
Could you please recommend some non-traditional songs that may be suitable for a first dance? Pls. see details inside regarding our musical tastes. [more inside]
Mens size 9.5, womens 11.5.
Why do we have men's shoe sizes and women's shoe sizes? [more inside]
Labor without comfort food
How can I get through labor without using food for comfort? [more inside]
Solo piano recommendations.
I've found my ideal music for reading and studying - Ryuichi Sakamoto's solo piano albums (BTTB and Playing the Piano). The pieces are unobtrusive and calming, and there aren't too many elements that draw my attention away from what I should be doing. Yet they're also melodic and carefully composed, not just ambient tones. Draws me into that certain headspace that is conducive to reading and focusing. Where do I find more music like it? [more inside]
Move, Text!
I need to animate text (short quotes, one or two sentences each) for a video presentation. Are there any (free or cheap) softwares other than Keynote/Powerpoint that do this? [more inside]
Carbon Fiber Vacuum Balloon!
Giant carbon fiber ball strong enough to be vacuum pumped. Is that possible? [more inside]
PGP for kids video ?
I am quite interested in finding a video I saw a year or two ( scratches head ) ago where a class room (possibly as young as six) of kids were taught how PGP works with construction paper.
It got me to my understanding and I need to share it with others as it was memorable for being so good at it .
I will now go and help someone else to pay for not bookmarking it . . . Google is giving me nothing
This is just to say. . .
I am looking for literary magazines that specialize in short short pieces, prose and poetry. [more inside]
Stipend vs. Fellowship
Science graduate students! How does funding from fellowships affect your stipend? [more inside]
Help me figure out this card trick
Help me figure out this trick from some drunk guy at the taqueria. He asked me to pick a number from 1 to 4. He had a stack of handwritten cards with him, and he took one out and put it on the table in front of me. He asked me to say what number it was, and I answered 3. He flipped the card over, and there was a handwritten 3 on it!! It was just the one card, I didn't see multiple layers where he could have hidden the other options. He did this again with another person, successfully. How did he do this? What am I missing here? Was he just lucky?
how do I incorporate live video into a powerpoint presentation?
Is there any way to incorporate live video into a powerpoint presentation? [more inside]
Long Distance Job Searching
What, if anything, can I do now to have a productive - and hopefully successful - job search six months from now? [more inside]
Help me be more authoritative at work
How can I be more authoritative? Is it ok not to enforce all rules? [more inside]
Help me break into publishing!
How can I break into publishing? Details on my situation inside. [more inside]
What do I do with this Criminal Justice degree?
What do people with a B.S. in Criminal Justice do as a career besides being a security guard? [more inside]
Experiences with Tim Ferriss' slow carb diet?
Are there any mefites out there who have tried the slow carb diet as described by Tim Ferriss in The 4-Hour Body? If so, I'd really like to hear about your experience. [more inside]
Atari game with numbers, cave, monsters?
What was the Atari game with numbers that you had to pick from bushes (bouncing on your dog if necessary) in order to destroy monsters in a cave? I've been googling for ages with no luck, hoping someone else can recall it instantly.
Help Me Escape Craigslist Purgatory
I'm having endless amounts of trouble posting a job offering on Craigslist. The job is real and legitimate (I just posted it on MeFi jobs too) but for the past few weeks every-time I try to put it up though my post does indeed goes live it doesn't show up in the feed and I get no responses. Why is this happening? How do I get around it? [more inside]
Open-source front end and commercial back-end? Is this feasible?
I have written software that I would love to make open source. However, I would like to take the back-end, the core of the application, and sell Android and iOS implementations of it while keeping the front-end for PC development open. Is this possible? Practical? Even worth considering? [more inside]
I need terrible killer and/or lover robot movies, please.
For an upcoming party I'd like to show two terrible movies featuring killer and/or loving robots. At previous parties I've shown such movies as Blood Freak, Turkish Star Trek, Hausu and The Dragon Lives Again, just to give you an idea of the quality of film I'm looking for. Easy access on DVD or the Internet a plus.
What to do about crumbling foundation bricks in my detached garage?
My detached garage has some damaged foundation wall "bricks" - cinder block or masonry, not sure of right term. Detached garage photo, and a Closeup of damaged masonry bricks/cinder blocks. How bad is this and what kind of professional do I need to call about it? (Or can I fix it myself?) [more inside]
What do I call the workouts I like done out in fields when searching for a new trainer?
I'm looking to get back into the gym... without exactly going into a gym. I want to find a trainer that does workouts I like, but I don't even know what to call them to help narrow my search. Is there a term for football practice style workouts that don't take place in a gym? [more inside]
Sticky Messages in Android Inbox
POP email messages stuck in Android Inbox. Help! [more inside]
turns out there IS a limit to how many times you can re-watch Arrested Development
What TV shows to watch next? [more inside]
some tuck, some no-tuck
nyc tailor filter: Ever have men's dress shirts shortened in nyc? need recommendations for someone who'll do a great job in manhattan (for reasonable price). Not chinatown! [more inside]
7am: Rocky Road Ice Cream; Mood: WOOHOO
I've been having various on-and-off problems varying from madigestion to bloating, etc. I've been seeing a doctor. I'm interested in keeping a food diary for the purposes of figuring out which foods, if any, are causing my issues. [more inside]
Mmmm... sausage
I'm ready to finally break out the grinder attachment for my Kitchenaid mixer and make sausages. Where should I be looking? What website, books and/or recipes are must haves for a beginner?
PDF printing in Firefox
Mac OSX 10.5.8 form PDF printing: Can anyone tell me why it might be that sites which generate a unique PDF for download will malfunction with Firefox but not with Safari or Chrome? A typical example is Purolator.ca: clicking on the javascript link to print a waybill returns a cgi file but no pdf. [more inside]
Cleanser to use with an exfoliator brush on oily skin?
Cleanser to use with an exfoliator brush on oily skin? [more inside]
Hunting for office space
How would one go about finding unserviced office space to rent in major uk cities?
Tsunami Videos
Has anyone put together a collection of videos from the recent tsunami in Japan? I am sure there are new ones surfacing as time goes on. I may be morbid but the videos are fascinating. I'd like to find a webpage that is keeping a current list of what is appearing.
Help me decide if there's any life left in my LDR.
My girlfriend of 3.5 years (I'm 25 and a he, she's 24) just dumped me after I moved out to another city for a job. Help me decide if there's any life left here. [more inside]
The Edge is not on the White Page
Who would you see as a seminal guitar player in the early to mid eighties? Totally frivolous question! [more inside]
I never took accounting 101 please help!
Basic accounting text? I'm an attorney and recently a lot of my job involves ferreting out a defendant's financials, balance sheets, and cash flow statements. I've never taken accounting and my knowledge is very limited. I'd like to get some kind of basic accounting text (or other source) to just kind of help me better understand what I'm looking at and also ask informed questions of CFOs and accountants and the like. I work in a very small firm, so we (and our clients) don't really have money for expensive experts and I've got to do a lot of this leg work on my own. Thanks for your help. I'm looking for something that just explains the basics of balance sheets, cash flow statements, and financials etc.
I don't know what it's called, but I like it.
What is the name for what the people in the first part of this video are doing, and where can I learn/find the accessories needed to teach myself?
Internet search engines that use boolean search?
Are there high quality internet search engines that recognize boolean rather than a natural language search queries? [more inside]
Iphone more like laptop
Are there any good Iphone4 keyboards? [more inside]
Limited time to lift, trying to multitask
How much do "micro intervals" help with strength training? What can I do to maximize my limited time to lift weights? [more inside]
How do I store 40-50 comb bound books?
Is easily-scarred skin a contraindication to tattooing?
Yet another tattoo/scar question: Although I almost never bruise, I tend to scar very easily. Will this be a problem if I ever decide to get a tattoo? [more inside]
Creating the fourth wall
How much money and work would you estimate it would take to fix this basement? [more inside]
The planet in the sky
Looking for a picture of Jupiter or Saturn as seen from their moons. [more inside]
How can I help a friend not be a Nice Guy?
How can I help a friend avoid the "nice guy" trap? [more inside]
Reproduction of Picasso print
Contacts in CISCO's CSR department?
How do I find contacts that work in corporate social responsibility at CISCO or other companies? [more inside]
Life as lived in the lab - tell me about physicists
What do physicists do all day? What is the lab environment like? Minutiae welcome. [more inside]
McAfee Anti-virus protects us from jokes?
I was surprised to find an option in the McAfee anti-virus enterprise management software, that "jokes" are a category that they block (screenshot). What sort of jokes? Are any of these jokes awesome and/or funny? [more inside]
Where do lonely hearts go (online)?
What are your favourite online dating sites? [more inside]
Talkin blues recommendations a la Corb Lund?
I've recently discovered Corb Lund. Turns out there's a name for the style of country I like called 'talkin' blues' (I also like his stripped-down sound). I despise 'new' country. Can anyone recommend other artists that have a similar style? (old obvious choices also welcome, I'm country-illiterate)
How to find galas in London
So, I want to find galas/fancy events to go to in London. [more inside]
I wanna come down from this cloud
Why is my lemoncello cloudy? When I combine the simple sugar and the lemon infused alcohol, both of which are very transparent (although one is a luminous yellow) the resulting mixture becomes instantly cloudy. Can anyone explain why? For bonus points can you suggest a way to minimize this? [more inside]
No more politics!
I can't take listening to the news anymore. What else can I listen to in the morning while I get ready for work? Requirements inside. [more inside]
What should I look for in a mid-range commuter bike?
What should I look for in a mid-range commuter bike? And where should I buy one in Oxford, UK? [more inside]
How to get started in golf?
After waiting 42 years, I'm thinking about taking up golf. Is that possible? [more inside]
hourly rate for scientific journal editorial work?
What is an appropriate hourly rate for scientific editorial work? [more inside]
Seeking small one-time donors
Is there a donorschoose- or modestneeds-like organization for small non-profits with discrete, well, modest needs? [more inside]
A beautiful book to read in a beautiful place.
Please suggest something beautiful, appropriate, challenging, and substantive to read in a beautiful place--California setting a plus, but not absolutely essential. [more inside]
$20 projector! Now what?
Can I project from my laptop with this $20 projector? If so, how? [more inside]
Where can I find public domain Chicago news?
Where can I find public domain (1920s and before) Chicago newspapers online - especially with birth and marriage notices and building permit news? [more inside]
Dress me
Teach-me-how-to-be-a-girl filter: I do not understand how to accessorize. Hold my hand and show me how it's done. [more inside]
The Music in Sleep No More
I'm trying to figure out what music is used in the play Sleep No More currently being shown in New York City. [more inside]
Which bicycling app and mount for iPhone should I get?
What is the best / your favorite bicycle computer app for the iPhone? Also, what bike mount would you recommend for an iPhone?
Hotel near San Mateo?
Fun / Funky hotels on the SF Bay Peninsula? We will be spending a weekend at the San Mateo fairgrounds and would like a break from the highway chain hotels. We will be traveling with our children, ages 3 and 6 months. [more inside]
We're going back to school, but for what??
Please help two hardworking yet poor 30 year olds get careers and move out of this tiny one-bedroom apartment. [more inside]
Anger Management for Kids?
Looking for books on anger management for kids, age 12ish. [more inside]
What do BOUNCE and FAMILIAR mean in a WWII airman's logbook?
NAVY TERMINOLOGY HELP! I'm reading through my grandpa's old flight logs (he was on the crew of a PBY during WWII), and just need help deciphering a couple of terms I see again and again. Both are located in the "Remarks" column of the logbook:
FAMILIAR &
BOUNCE.
Other terms like Ferry, Scouting, Patrol, and Photography are pretty self explanatory, but I have no idea what these two mean.
Any help?
Ivory Tower to Silver Screen
Who are some film directors, screenwriters, and TV showrunners who went to grad school in the humanities, or taught in humanities departments before going into show business? [more inside]
Big night out in Riverside, CA
Looking for awesome places to eat dinner in Riverside, Ca (near the Barbara and Art Culver Center of the Arts on Main Street) tonight! Nothing fancy, just tasty.
Live Streaming from a TV tuner
LiveStreamFilter - I want to stream ATSC television from a tuner to the web. No luck feeding a Hauppauge 850 USB tuner into Adobe Flash Media Live Encoder. Any suggestions on how to grab the video stream from the tuner to redirect? [more inside]
How to change my I'm not lovable belief system?!? Help me!!
How can I fix myself so I can attract and believe in a healthy relationship is out there for me? I have great friends, I'm well-liked, I have a great career and have made tons of progress working on myself over the last ten years to make sure I don't adopt the patterns of my family of origin. I want a relationship but I still keep falling into the pattern of "I'll never meet anyone for me" or thinking that I'm meant to be alone AND I WANT TO STOP THIS BS ALREADY! Help/ideas please! [more inside]
My interest in having sex is essentially 0. What?
My interest in having sex is essentially 0. What? [more inside]
Giving resignation notice with or without an official offer letter?
I was offered a fantastic new job 3 days ago, and I accepted. They want me to start in 4 weeks, but they haven’t yet given me an official offer letter. The usual advice is to wait for the offer letter before giving notice, right? Well, here's my dilemma: 1) Starting next week, I'm leaving for 3 weeks on my honeymoon. If I wait till next week to give notice, I'll have less than a week left in the office. I work in an extremely small office (4 ppl), and I’ll be putting everyone in a difficult position. 2) I don't want to burn any bridges because I'm using work data for my dissertation. 3) The HR woman at the New Job says I don't need to wait for an offer letter. Should I take her word for it? Should I give notice with or without an offer letter? [more inside]
VMWare, Windows, Apple...
Installed VMWare Fusion 3.0 on a Mac. Now want to install Windows 7 on the Mac as a virtual machine. Here comes the confusing part. [more inside]
ID this tree for me?
I took a picture and posted it on my site as a desktop wallapaper. I would like to title the image with the appropriate name of the tree — it was taken at Chicago Botanic Garden. Can someone identify this type of tree?
the image is here
thanks
Plz help me get to data partition on XP desktop.
XP. Trying to get backed up files off old desktop computer. Using windows explorer, I cannot 'see' a partition on secondary hard drive, like the partition is hidden. But I *can* see the files when I search for *.mp3 or *.jpg or *.txt over the whole machine; they can be seen, through search facility, read only, in a partition that doesn't even show up in win explorer. I'm not certain if I somehow hid that partition and if I did I've no idea how I did it. I want to get these files off that desktop and to a place I can access them anywhere anytime, but right now I can't access them at all. Any help you can provide greatly appreciated. [more inside]
Hippie Songs List
I need a list of quintessential "hippie" songs. Already have "If You are Going to San Francisco". What else should be on the list?
Help me identify this old Yiddish theatre piece
Help me identify this old Yiddish theater piece that was also on vinyl? [more inside]
Stupid sexy flannel
Can I wash my dry-clean only flannel shirt? I mean.... it's flannel. Come on. [more inside]
How do I make this story work?
Working on a fictional story about campaign finance reform. I need holes shot in the governing premises. The first tenet is the most obvious hole in it: no corporation may contribute to a national political candidate. It's not a new idea, and it's not interesting. The enforcement of it is. And I need to know more about accounting and auditing to even have a shot of making it feasible, so read on. [more inside]
How does a Creative Commons Share-Alike license on an image affect a web design that image is used in?
I have used a photo that is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike license as a background image in a WordPress theme. How much of the theme needs to be shared-alike? [more inside]
How to get objective career advice
Looking for a few good accountants' opinions on careers. [more inside]
Needing Advice on An Okcupid Profile
Looking for honest, thoughtful input regarding an OkCupid profile..... [more inside]
Do you know this painting?
Can anybody identify the painting in this image?
April 6
Are you being served?
Posting for a friend who may be sued in California for a credit card debt. The friend has been a starving university student in Europe for several years, with no money to make payments on the debt. We've read this useful thread and others, but wonder what the advice is for someone who's not in the country. [more inside]
Ow, my head
Are diet shakes packaged in cans made of significantly heavier-gauge metal than carbonated beverages? If so, why? [more inside]
Are there ways to remove facebook VOICE chat from my computer?
Are there ways to remove facebook VOICE chat from my computer? [more inside]
'OK Computer' wallpaper? Check. 'Blade Runner' ringtone? Check.
Help me take advantage of my Samsung Nexus S Android cleverpants-phone. [more inside]
Bedazzle my smile!
I have the special trays already. What teeth whitening goo should I buy online to put in them? [more inside]
What can I attach to my hose to send water 40-50 feet away?
What can I attach to my hose to send water 40-50 feet away? [more inside]
Protect me from malicious web pages!
Economic Crimes
Ai WeiWei, the dissident and artist, is under arrest for suspected economic crimes
what the hell does that mean? what is it code for?
Can't think of the word like 'idiot'.
Historical meaning of synonym for 'idiot', which I can't remember? [more inside]
What are some songs that would be considered "Era defining"?
What are some songs that would be considered "Era defining"? [more inside]
Shortcut needed for cursor
Is there a shortcut that moves your cursor into a box on a web page? [more inside]
Help my theoretical trains not crash.
I have a rather specific excel question. Please help me. [more inside]
Where to donate a cool bicycle fixer-upper in NYC?
My wife wants to know if there are any groups in the New York City area that involve school-age children and bicycle mechanics. The point of the question is we have an old Dyno Mooneyes cruiser bike in great shape with a broken rear fender -- it would actually have to be welded to be reconnected. We'd like to donate it, and she thinks some kids might get a kick out of fixing it up, especially if they're into low-rider or other fancy-pants souped-up types of bike. (It's heavy, so she's not into the idea of shipping it anywhere. We're in Westchester.) Thoughts? Suggestions? Recommendations?
Ctrl-s should be save, not save as, please help!
how on earth to I assign shortcut keys in windows 7? [more inside]
Let's have some fun! Interview questions for prospective interns!
What are some great, curve ball questions to ask potential interns? [more inside]
Advice for becoming a bartender as soon as I legally can.
Advice for becoming a bartender as soon as I legally can. [more inside]
Are aptitude tests actually helpful?
Are aptitude tests worth taking? Specifically, the aptitide test administered by the Johnson O'Connor Research Foundation for $600. I would like to know if it would be a worthy investment or an expensive disappointment. If it was the latter for you, what was an effective alternative?
I'm a 23 year old guy, about to (re)start my college career and tired of working retail, if this helps.
Am I having a bad reaction to cipro?
Am I having a bad reaction to cipro? [more inside]
I have no clever title.
I remember seeing part of a movie (it could have been a TV show) involving a female hospital patient killed by a man posing as a doctor. Do you know which movie this is? [more inside]
Dogs with issues
Where should I begin to deal with these dogs' problems? Is there a good order to this? Do any of these things appear to relate to each other? [more inside]
What to do in a Chinese city?
I am living in a Chinese city for a month. What are some interesting things I can learn or do while here that I can't elsewhere? [more inside]
Best DJ all in one console under a grand?
Could anyone make any reasonable comparisons between the Numark MixDeck and the Devon 1200 with a Denon Mixer? [more inside]
What was on when?
Is there an online archive of what TV shows aired and when? [more inside]
Point A to Point B, not Point A to Point A again!
Hiking the Maine/NH Appalachian Trail for 5 days: need help with logistics [more inside]
How can I stay hydrated and avoid stress fractures?
[Marathon Running Filter] Should I keep training in my Vibrams and how the heck do I keep hydrated?? [more inside]
Best fitness/nutrition apps for Android?
What are the best Android apps for nutrition-diet-exercise? Just got my first Android phone (love it!) and am looking for the apps of my dreams.
HTPC or plethora of appliances is the question
I am debating between getting a Mac Mini Vs getting having a few different appliances in the house. Am sharing a description of what I think I need and what my options are and what my initial evaluation is. Thoughts from others will be appreciated! [more inside]
Another sold-out dress question!
Can I buy this dress if it's a) three sizes too big and b) I need to add sleeves? What would the cost be like? Should I ask someone on Etsy to make something similar instead? [more inside]
Flight attendant sleeping nook?
On a recent flight, I noticed flight attendants entering what I thought was a bathroom, but once I caught a glimpse of a very steep stairway--almost a ladder--that must go up to some sort of sleeping loft. I think the plane was a 777, but it could've been something else.
I am intrigued (and jealous). Does anyone know what this loft looks like? Anyone ever been in one? Pics would be great.
Wooden Head Hunting
I am looking for an art image (20th Century I think) and for the life of me I cannot find it. [more inside]
Please help
Really need help - depression, unemployment, bleak future etc. [more inside]
Great view is worth how much?
How to value a great view. [more inside]
The force is not with me in remembering this video.
Looking for an 80s progressive rock video featuring Darth Vader [more inside]
Bring this dinosaur web developer back to the future!
Bring this dinosaur web developer back to the future! [more inside]
Zombie sewer movie
What's this zombie movie? [more inside]
How in the hell did the gorgeous cover for ELO's Out of the Blue get designed, created and printed? HOW!?
How in the hell did the gorgeous cover for ELO's Out of the Blue get designed, created and printed? HOW!? [more inside]
How do spas scent their air?
What machines/types of aromatics do spas use to make the entire facility smell pleasant and relaxing? [more inside]
Can anyone help me ID this song that's stuck in my head?
Help me identify this song I heard a kajillion times on the radio in Costa Rica last week. [more inside]
The mysterious black key poster
Can someone please help me identify (for potential eventual purchase) this poster? It features a silhouette of a single antique key. Image inside. [more inside]
Late to the Mario Party
Is it still possible to hack a Wii? If so, what is the homebrew "killer app"? [more inside]
Good artists borrow; great artists steal
Movie posters. With people. And a car (or cars). [more inside]
Did Anyone Invent Some New Math Stuff So They Could Solve A Problem Which Then Lead To a Technological Breakthrough?
Can you cite any examples where a technological breakthrough wasn't possible until there was some sort of mathematical breakthrough? [more inside]
Could I give up snark?
Given this post on the Blue about being less snarky/cynical/negative and the related comments about how it made people's lives better, I thought I should try it. But how? [more inside]
What's a lightweight, hassle-free site for playing Go
Is there any site which is as awesome for playing Go with a friend as lichess is for chess? "Awesome" means more specifically lightweight (dial-up friendly), browser-based, ad-free, no registration required.
watch quality of jewelry brands
how are jewelry brand watches (e.g. Cartier, Boucheron, Harry Winston) regarded among watch enthusiasts? Is it the same as 'designer' watches in that they're not taken seriously?
How do I rent a Mustang for sure?
I'm planning to head out to Los Angeles in May, and I want to rent a Mustang for a few days, but the rental car companies suck at it. Halp? [more inside]
Mr. Snuffalupagus is real, you guys!!
How can I verify my own sanity without talking to a shrink? [more inside]
Best digital piano for an adult wanting to learn?
What's the best keyboard / digital piano for a relative "newbie"? [more inside]
Who are these 80s musicians?
Please identify some of the people in the video for Band Aid's "Do They Know It's Christmas": [more inside]
The art of schmoozing
My company is hosting a private convention for clients next week, and my assigned tasks are to 1) attend all sessions and 2) chat up clients as much as possible. I could use some pointers on how to do the latter. [more inside]
Psychiatrists and psychologists in Jacksonville, FL
Are you or someone you know from Jacksonville, FL with similar mental health issues? If so, please recommend a psychologist and a psychiatrist preferably near the 32210 zip code area who is able to recognize and treat Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Avoidant Personality Disorder, and Selective Mutism. [more inside]
Socially engineered pain
How do you deal with the loss of what turned out to be something you never had? Social engineering relationship question [more inside]
The music ... of your life ...
What is this awesome piece of easy listening music? [more inside]
No Reply?
You all have met some of those non-responsive people in your life. You engage in a rather personal and/or meaningful cyber-conversation and ask open-ended, non-intrusive questions. After a few exchanges, bam, suddenly, no reply, no apology, no nothing. [more inside]
Keeping it in the family...
My 23 year old cousin is showing his 15 year old brother porn - is this ok? [more inside]
Need Genetic Counseling. Help!
My partner and I need to get Genetic Counseling before attempting IVF, IVF with ICSI, or IUI. Help! [more inside]
Purple dress!
Wooden mystery object.
Permission to Bug a Criminal in England?
Under British law, what sort of evidence would police need to already have in order for them to get a court to grant them permission to plant a bug? [more inside]
Help me find a website where I can map what towns/cities/countries I have received orders for on my webstore.
Help me find a website where I can map out what towns/cities/countries I have received orders from on my webstore. [more inside]
Why use Ubuntu?
Tell me why I should use Ubuntu. [more inside]
How can I be sure to pass the CA drivers license test?
Are there any good quick references or study guides for experienced drivers from other states (Washington in my case) taking the California drivers license written test? [more inside]
Plus, I eat healthy...
After being out of commission over the winter, I'm trying to get back into shape. I am 5'8", mid forties female. Last fall I weighed 118 lbs, and ran 5k five days a week on the treadmill, followed by 10-20 minutes stairmaster. I was extremely sedentary for about 4 months over the winter due to a knee issue. I currently weigh 129 after being back to working out for a few weeks, and only want to lose about five more pounds. However, I want these five pounds to come from my lower body, not my upper. [more inside]
What magazine is this?
A few days ago, I saw online what seemed to be some kind of "high-end" fashion/athletics/etc., with a slant on surfing. I have googled to the negatory. [more inside]
File Conversion - XML - CSV?
Advice on converting XML to csv. [more inside]
Preliminary Hearing or Grand Jury?
Information needed for a script--
When does a crime call for a preliminary hearing, and when does it call for review by grand jury? From my research, it appears that grand juries are not used as much these days, but are still active in California, the state in which I'm interested. [more inside]
Is disliking a SO's friends a dealbreaker in a serious relationship?
Is disliking a SO's friends a dealbreaker in a serious relationship? (snowflake details inside) [more inside]
Looking for therapy in Chapel Hill
Need a therapist recommendation in Chapel Hill. [more inside]
New car 2nd service -- to dealer or not?
Should I take a new Nissan Versa for 2nd service to a dealer or to a nearby mechanic? [more inside]
Where should we live near Uptown Albuquerque?
At the end of May, the wife and I will be relocating from the Midwest to Albuquerque. Most of the details are taken care of, other than the major exception of where we will be living.
We will both be working in or near the Uptown area and I especially would prefer to be car-free. I am definitely okay with biking to and from work and/or using public transportation too. [more inside]
How do I bake a dense, chewy bagel?
How do I bake a dense, chewy bagel at home? [more inside]
Maybe a complete assay structure and materialogical survey for Azerothian mining operations?
[Technical Fiction Franchise Publishing Filter]: What are the necessary steps in getting a intellectually rigorous book based on a combination of contemporary topics and a franchised universe published? [more inside]
It's been five dates and I'm still lukewarm
I met a guy through OKC a couple of months ago. We've gone out five times and I'm still not feeling a spark. While it's not a complete "no", I'm beginning to worry that waiting to come around might not be a good idea either. When do or should you cut things off with someone when you're so unsure? [more inside]
How do you flirt with someone on the other side of a room?
How do you flirt with someone on the other side of a room? Let's say I'm sitting in a bar at a table with some friends and I see a girl sitting with a female friend on the other side of the room who appears to look at me a couple of times. What should I do? Smile? Go over and say hello? Assume she was just looking in my general direction and not at me?
How can a family accept online donations to a child's custodial account?
How can a family accept online donations to a child's custodial account? [more inside]
Do they suck or do they suck?
What's the best way to package and store food? Do vacuum-sealer machines suck like they're supposed to? Or do they suck in a different way? [more inside]
...just for the sound of it.
What VST, AU or semi-modern hardware synth is able to create the same types of curiously tuned space-age analog synth sounds as this or this? [more inside]
Kids books auf Deutsch
Recommendations for children's and young adult books auf Deutsch? [more inside]
Seeking Hardware: Articulated Joints
I'm wanting to build a sculpture armature for small-to-medium-sized clay work. It'll be pretty typical, except that I want the horizontal support arm to have two articulated, lockable joints so I can easily reposition a sculpture while I'm working on it. I was picturing three long, thin bolts of a few inches length screwed on to some kind of joint with a wingnut. I've looked at hardware stores but haven't found anything like this and I'm not sure how to articulate what I need. [more inside]
Lupus. Pregnancy. What could go wrong?
Anyone ever been pregnant w/lupus w/kidney involvement? [more inside]
Drag-and-drop file upload plugin?
Great-Grandma-proof, drag-and-drop, web-based file upload plugin for email-size-limit-busting files? [more inside]
Convert WAV to FLV audio only on Mac cheap?
[My friend has] a 771mb .wav audio file [he] desperately needs to compress into an audio-only .flv file. Is there a freeware, shareware or inexpensive software tool that will help [him accomplish] this? Big thanks in advance. [more inside]
SQL Alter statement
SQL SERVER: Need help creating new column in a table with unformatted SSN. [more inside]
Travel to Belize
Traveling to Belize [more inside]
Skype for Blackberry Overseas
Can anyone recommend a blackberry app for skype that works outside the US? [more inside]
Is it gone for good?
My best friend got the new iPhone 4 in early August, but never synced it. When she finally synced her phone last week, she mistakenly told iTunes to Restore from back-up (the July back-up). Is there anyway to get her data back? [more inside]
Growing up on screen
I have a 15 month old daughter. Since she was born we have taken thousands of pictures of her and a great deal of video. [more inside]
How can I UK citizen open a bone fide US bank account?
How can I (a UK citizen, resident in the UK) open a US bank account? I'm not interested in a US dollar account. I need an actual bone fide US account for online work I do.
... And Fido Makes Two
Given my personal circumstances, will it ever become possible for me to get a dog? [more inside]
TEFL in Lithuania?
Advice on teaching English in Lithuania? [more inside]
Easiest way to destroy a hard drive in situ?
I'm having trouble disassembling an old desktop PC to get to the hard drive before I can destroy it and throw everything out. Is there a quick and easy way to destroy the drive in situ, using everyday household objects? [more inside]
I think I used to have a porpoise
Can you help me come up with a NIN-related pun for a cross stitch pattern? [more inside]
Can you open a PDF via a link with a search phrase highlighted?
Can I bring a search phrase into a PDF from a URL? [more inside]
Roll Out the Barrels!
I would like to import a small barrel of bourbon for my husband's birthday. I am in Australia, happy to pay freight, excise and associated taxes but I need to find the bourbon first. Help? [more inside]
Six week road trip of the U.S...what should I see and do?
I'm going to take a six week vacation, and I want to tour the United States. I'm based in Los Angeles, and I have a reliable car. I am familiar with most parts of the western and southern U.S., but I've never been to New England. I want to do this late summer (say, mid-August through mid to late September, but this is flexible). How can I make the most of the trip? What are the must-sees? Must-haves for the trip? Any tips for the road?
April 5
My thumb drive is bad at math
Why won't a 5 gig .avi file fit on my empty 8 gig thumb drive? [more inside]
Californian paternity and child support law
California child support filter: Question from a foreign friend with a daughter fathered by an American man. [more inside]
Could an EMR absorbing chip reduce the health risk of cellphones?
Assuming that the radiation from cellphones is somewhat dangerous, will a product like a chip that absorbs EMR like this one (http://www.radiguard.com.au/the-solution.html) be useful? [more inside]
How to ftp contents of a smartplaylist in iTunes (os/x)
Mac: How can I ftp the contents of a smart playlist in iTunes on a scheduled (daily) basis? [more inside]
is my inheritance being held up due to incompetence?
My dad passed away 18 months ago, and the executor's lawyer informs me they're still awaiting a foreign beneficiary's obtaining their tax id in order for final distribution of his estate to be made. Is this a reasonable delay? details inside. [more inside]
What movie has this car scene?
What movie has this scene? A guy loosely holds a handkerchief/piece of paper out a car window and talks about how he likes to see how loose he can hold on to something important without losing it. [more inside]
seeking easy-to-set alarm clock radio iPhone dock with dim glowing numbers
If this iHome and this clock with big dim red numbers had a baby I might be willing to pay $150 for it. [more inside]
To add to my reading list
clinical psychologists! what listservs, mailing lists and online communities do you belong to? [more inside]
Greek to me..only in Japanese.
My oldest daughter is beginning the college application process. Neither me nor my wife hold college degrees. How best to move forward? [more inside]
Heavy carpet cleaning chemical exposure in pregnancy
Pregnant, first trimester. My office is having all the carpets, chairs, and upholstery cleaned. I was able to verify with the cleaners that they use a perc "dry cleaning" solution, among several other strong industrial chemicals. Should I be concerned in terms of anything teratogenic/dangerous to my embryo? [more inside]
I promised something I couldn't deliver on. If I break my promise, I could lose all my other work. Please advise on how to approach this..
I promised something I couldn't deliver on. If I break my promise, I could lose all my other work. Please advise on how to approach this.. [more inside]
Housing in Lausanne
What is the best way to find affordable accommodations for a two-month stay in Lausanne, Switzerland this summer? [more inside]
I believe you when you tell me that we've met before, this time you've got my interest, this time you've got the floor
How can I get better at talking to new people? [more inside]
Can I transfer MP3s from an external hard drive into someone's else's iTunes?
Can I transfer MP3s from an external hard drive into someone's else's iTunes? [more inside]
Help Me Be More Than One Hit Karaoke Wonder
Help me find another song that I can sing WELL for karaoke. [more inside]
Richmond, VA...next stop Big South Fork
Any good recommendations en route from Richmond, VA to Big South Fork, TN? Or Big South Fork to Morgantown, WV? [more inside]
How much wood could a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck had a gift certificate?
Got a $400 gift certificate to spend at Lie-Nielsen heirloom woodworks. I'm a beginner luthier (solid body electrics) and furniture maker. What are the essential basic hand tools for a hobbiest? [more inside]
Music to go mad by
Can you suggest your favorite songs for creative work? [more inside]
Lesbian hypnotic seduction, please?
Erotic-story-filter: looking for stories that fit a specific fetish. (NSFW) [more inside]
$2200 to fix my car?
Is it crazy to spend $2200 to fix my car? Then replace the car in a year or two… [more inside]
Mathematics help for 6yr old son
Help me help my 6yr old with maths. [more inside]
The chicken or the egg?
Did the word "evolve" exist before Darwin came up with the theory of evolution?
A trip to Grand Canyon!
We (my wife, our two and a half year old and me!) are considering a five-day trip to Grand Canyon and Sedona next week. Would love to have your insights and tips for this trip .. [more inside]
What's living in Chicago like?
What's living in Chicago like? How's is it different from Cambridge, MA? Should we move there? [more inside]
Meta Meta Web
What are the best websites to use to create websites extremely easily? [more inside]
Cheap Flights!
Help me understand airline bookings - when and why they vary the price. [more inside]
How do I unscrew a screw that turns freely?
What do you do with a screw that turns freely and won't unscrew? I'm trying to replace the brake light bulb on my Audi A4, but the screw that holds the brake light assembly in place turns and turns without unscrewing. I assume that the corresponding nut is loose, or that whatever it seats into is broken, but I'm stumped.
LANDYLAWD
NYC Landlord Weirdness. Our building had two landlords, each of whom presided over different apts. 3 Apts (including ours) were managed by Landlord A, 4 by Landlord B. Now landlord B is taking over the entire building. I have some questions. [more inside]
Mise en abîme
Which commercial is playing in the background of this scene (NSFW due to swearing) in Wayne Wang's 'Smoke'? I'm trying to figure out the company behind that duck and phone commercial. Secondly, is that Fruit Rings cereal real? [more inside]
It ain't easy being cheesy!
I've decided to try my hand at making my own cheese... [more inside]
Can I start hyphenating my name?
Can I abruptly start hyphenating my last name? [more inside]
Cross-country moving company rec?
MovingFilter - please suggest a moving company for a CA->MA move. [more inside]
Mac Hard Drive file double check!
Getting ready to replace a hard drive. Am I missing anything? [more inside]
How can I handle alcohol without throwing up?
I have trouble ingesting small amounts of alcohol (a few shots), what can I do to make my stomach cooperate so that I can drink the odd time when I go out with friends? [more inside]
Group SMS?
How to SMS within a group? [more inside]
Sell a dying car?
I have a 2001 Honda Accord with a potential transmission problem. I owe about $4000 on it, it's worth about $3500-4000K and the transmission will likely be $3000. Do I keep it or sell it? [more inside]
Looking for handheld GPS unit for fieldwork
What's the best handheld GPS unit for hiking/fieldwork under ~$500? [more inside]
71 in 45 mph zone. >$500
I was ticketed in NYC for going 71mph in a 45 zone. I'm a CA resident. I have a court date in a month. Please help me pick the right strategy. [more inside]
Other foreign dramas on the caliber of Forbrydelsen?
Online Work Order System?
Does anyone have any experience with an online work order system? [more inside]
Seriously though it's hilarious.
Wizard People, Dear Reader literally made me laugh out loud at work. What other (free!) long format audio parodies, comedies, etc. should I try? I am not looking for traditional audiobooks and I'm not looking for unscripted or conversational podcasts. I'm also not looking for stand-up comedy routines. Fan Fiction is fine as long as it is relatively well done and hilarious.
How do naturally thin people eat?
Yet another Healthy Eating question! Naturally thin people (and people who've maintained significant weight loss for a long time): do you manage your meals/portions in such a way that you never are really concerned about how much you've eaten, OR, are you constantly compensating for eating too much or too calorically? [more inside]
Secret connection between the President of the US and an Irish version of the Flintstones?
Why does my relative call President Obama "O'BamBam"?
What is it meant to signify, other than derision?
Tomato soup and turkey burgers
Questions regarding the execution of a specific cream of tomato soup, as well as more general questions regarding turkey burgers. [more inside]
My cat is not a guard cat.
Where can we purchase a solid wood vintage door (circa 1920s) in Los Angeles? [more inside]
September Honeymoon in the Philippines?
Philippines in September? My fiance and I our planning our honeymoon and we were thinking about going to the Philippines this September. Does anyone have any thoughts on whether this is a good idea for a honeymoon? [more inside]
Feels like high school all over again…
How do I know where I stand with him? [more inside]
Gchat SMS? How the fsck does it work?
How does the SMS feature in Gmail work? I know there's some kind of base of phone numbers used for it, but I assume those numbers send out thousands of texts per day; how does a reply end up at my account, instead of someone else's? If someone replies to one of my SMS messages sent from Gmail in a month, will the reply still be connected to me?
Apple Remote without the Apple
iTunesFilter: I used to own an iPhone, and used Remote to control iTunes at home. I have both Macs and PCs at home, and would like to use both to be able to control iTunes playback on another machine (old system dedicated to stereo in kitchen/living room) remotely. I'd prefer not to use Remote Desktop. [more inside]
Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but how old are they?
I have this bracelet with diamonds that was inherited to me. Can you tell me circa when was it made? [more inside]
What can I learn?
What are my rights concerning notes taken at an interview for a potential job? [more inside]
Can I get a Y-shaped extension cord for my dryer outlet?
Problem: My welder needs 220v power. My dryer is on a 30A 220v circuit but to swap the dryer cord for the welder cord, I need to move the dryer. This is a pain. Can I make or buy an extension cord with two outlets on it so I don't need to swap the plugs? [more inside]
How much of a commitment is jailbreaking an iPhone 4?
I'm currently using a Verizon unlimited data plan and I'd like to occasionally provide my work laptop with a little data so I can work away from home. [more inside]
I hate it when I take a contract out on myself!
Here's the plot: what's the movie(s)? Character figures his/her life sucks but can not bring themselves to commit suicide, so they hire a hitman to do the job. Character finds out life is, in fact, worth living (typically falls in love) and tries to call off the hit but can't because the wheels are turning. [more inside]
Convince my boyfriend to wear a seat belt.
Convincing statistics about seat belts: I need them. [more inside]
Case study integration within a thesis?
How to approach (personally created) case study integration within a thesis? [more inside]
The Audacity of Greed
Does the story behind this signed book increase its value at all? What's the smartest thing I can do with it? [more inside]
Flunking a course, now going crazy.
I failed a class for the first time in my life, and I have no idea what to do. [more inside]
Grown-up getaways in the greater New York area?
Looking for suggestions for an affordable, romantic, but not TOO romantic, weekend staycation or trip around NYC. [more inside]
Simple online solution for managing attendees of weekly soccer game.
I am organizing a weekly indoor soccer game via email and sms. This is proving to be a challenge. Can anyone point me towards a simple online solution which would allow people to confirm their attendance? [more inside]
Men's Fashion
What are some examples of men's fashion on casual cruises, and more importantly, where can I buy them? [more inside]
Heat gun to sear meat?
My guts hate me. I hate them back. Help us get along?
I'm going to have health insurance in the near-ish future and I need to know what to ask a doctor so they take my debilitating menstrual cramps seriously. (not for the squeamish) [more inside]
How do I make the most of this quarter, rediscover myself, and recover from hitting rock bottom?
How do I make the most of this quarter, rediscover myself, and recover from hitting rock bottom? [more inside]
Buying a car across (many) state lines
I want to buy a car and drive it across the US, but I am not sure how to handle the paperwork since I will be buying it on the other side of the country from where I will eventually want to register it. [more inside]
Looking for a Quebec-based, bilingual tax lawyer/accountant
I need an effective and bilingual Quebec-based tax lawyer/accountant to deal with my friends at Revenu Quebec. [more inside]
Solar window treatment options
I have a bunch of thin, old, south- & west-facing windows that need energy-efficiency treatment. I got estimates for both solar film and solar screens, and the cost seems pretty comparable, although I may be able to get the screens a bit cheaper. What's my best option, bang-for-the-buck-wise? And is direct sunlight-blocking actually the most important factor, or does heat leak in/out through thin windows regardless of the light striking them? [more inside]
Salivary gland pain
Help! It stings in my salivary gland area when I chew. Have you dealt with this in the past and if so what should I know? [more inside]
the back of books
Why do paperback books generally have synopses of the book on back, while hardcover books generally have quotes in praise of the book in the same space?
Should I be worried about racism in the East of Germany?
My 1 1/2 year old daughter and I will be spending some time in the former East Germany this summer. She is black, and I am white. How concerned should I be about racism? The three or four German people I've spoken to about racial attitudes in the former East have not been reassuring, so I am particularly interested in hearing from people of color who have lived in the region. [more inside]
Why do web sites that send me text messages need to know my carrier?
Why do web sites that send me text messages need to know my carrier? [more inside]
How can I get rid of some nice men's clothes non-wastefully?
How can I get rid of some nice men's clothes quickly and non-wastefully? [more inside]
What was that strange light and sound board I played with when drunk/bjork?
Sound and light board with 4-5 smooth objects - which objects are on the board and where changes the sounds and lights, including light from some of the objects ... what is this thing and where can I get one? [more inside]
There are no fine lines.
What reason do I have to fill out my annual performance review? [more inside]
Like window shopping, but with real estate.
What new condo or apartment developments can we go look at in Chicago? [more inside]
How to fix my conservatory!
We have just removed some wooden floorboards from our conservatory - there is a leak from somewhere that has caused the floorboards and the 2x3 to rot. Can anyone help identify and recommend a way to fix this?
Image Album [more inside]
Finding a volunteer position related to cleaning up the oceans
I would like to volunteer at an organization that is committed to cleaning up the Pacific Gyre. I live in Vancouver. I am not interested in "awareness" or eco-tour style ventures, only organizations that are doing concrete, actual things that might need a hand. [more inside]
What can I use to easily archive web pages that I've bookmarked to my hard drive?
What can I use to easily archive web pages that I've bookmarked to my hard drive? [more inside]
iPad 3G cellular vs. wi-fi -- which takes precedence if both are active?
iPad 3G cellular vs. wi-fi -- which takes precedence if both are active? If I have 3G cellular turned on, while sitting at home with my home wireless, does it use the faster home wireless? Or does the 3G just clobber everything and gleefully rack up data charges? I've been turning it on and off as needed, but that's just annoying, so I'd like to get the question settled once and for all.
If I can't live with her for a couple of days, how will I make until death do us part?
I want to propose to my long-distance girlfriend this weekend, but I have some lingering doubts.
The opportunity for a special/romantic proposal is coming soon, so I know that if I don't pop the question then, it will be too late. I don't have a ring, and I'm not sure if I should get one.
But I have a few doubts that I would feel better hearing other people's opinions on... [more inside]
I'dl ike to renounce my title as 'Lord of the Flies'
I have a housefly infestation. Fly paper isn't working. Help? [more inside]
In need of a media box that plays files off usb drives
You want to PAY me?!
What do I charge? [more inside]
"Sorry, buddy, bad news..."
What's the best way to tactfully tell someone that I don't want to be their roommate? [more inside]
Gift For Dental Team
How on earth do I say Thank You to this Dental Team? [more inside]
Help me buy a TV
Help me buy a TV and a Blu Ray player [more inside]
Who is This Manson Family Member?
Who is the guy to Gypsy's right in this photo of the Manson family? He's seen quite a bit in Robert Hendrickson's "Manson" documentary, too.
Here comes my Shaolin Style
Kung Fu Movie Filter: Looking for an older Kung Fu movie where specific hand gestures were featured. [more inside]
Pouring concrete for fence posts was tiring enough, thank you very much!
ConstructionFilter: Mounting posts to concrete, but not in? [more inside]
Obvious Mushroom Joke
Help! I'm looking for a source where I can buy about 30 Ganoderma applanatum fungi, also known as shelf fungus, bracket mushrooms, and artist conks. The idea is to use them for an art workshop, so they need to be blank. I'm really striking out on Google. Any ideas?
Where everybody knows your name.
I'm about to spend a few weeks in Ottawa and I'm looking for a coffee shop to spend some time. Can anyone suggest a few for me? [more inside]
Columbus to Cincinnati sans Car Rental?
Is there any other way to get from Columbus to Cincinnati without renting a car? One-way car rentals are astounding. [more inside]
It's not a peninsula, is it?
You know how two rivers converge into one, and there's the little peninsula-like...thing that exists at the point of convergence? What do you call that? [more inside]
day hikes outside London
Metafilter, what is the best day hike in the British countryside, accessible by public transport from London? [more inside]
Get us to New Zealand on the cheap!
Best time and any hacks for buying Christmas-time flights from the UK to New Zealand? [more inside]
Lacking knickknacks for backpacking
I'm leaving tomorrow from Boston for a round-the-world trip - what easily packed knickknacks should I bring to exchange or give away to new friends? [more inside]
Where does Baudrillard talk about the hyperreal with reference to dildo mounted cameras?
Where does Baudrillard talk about the hyperreal with reference to dildo mounted cameras?
Isle of Wight holiday recommendations please?
Recommendations for a two night break in the Isle of Wight (UK)? [more inside]
The awesome power of the sun means nothing without proper conversion
Have Casio Exilim G camera and iPhone. I want to purchase the least equipment needed to make both recharge using the sun. Oh, and I'm in Seattle need to buy everything Tuesday before getting on plane to New Zealand Wednesday. [more inside]
Programming for kids
Best resources for teaching 6yo kid to program? [more inside]
April 4
Sushi cupcakes?
My 11-year-old nephew loves to make (mostly cucumber) sushi, and he also loves cupcakes. While goofing around with him about the Sunday we'll spend together - his parents and sister are excluded from this, it's strictly us - I foolishly said, well, we'll make sushi cupcakes! And I'm being held to it. My execution is not up to my imagination. Please help me realize this!
angry little asian
My professor makes me uncomfortable and angry. How do I get through this class without letting my emotions get to me? [more inside]
From teaching to tech - updating resume and skills
I have a Master's in math, and would like to get a job in the tech industry or a laboratory, but my resume is very teaching-oriented. I would like tips on retooling it to make myself more attractive. I also have several months to improve my skills. [more inside]
Help me take my site and design from MovableType to Wordpress
Can I switch my site's CMS from MovableType to Wordpress but KEEP my site's design? I'm a coder and looooong time MT user, and I've got questions. [more inside]
Broken glass. What to do?
Glass in older double hung windows - is it relatively easy to replace, or should we hire a pro? [more inside]
Stop talking politics.......please !
What can I say to someone who wants to talk about the upcoming election, but I don't? [more inside]
Afraid of change.
I want a new job. I got my resume together. Now I'm too afraid to apply anywhere. Help! [more inside]
Pervasive tetra fin rot?
What can I do about my tetras' chronic fin rot? [more inside]
The Joy of Work
I'm starting a new job. What are the weird little things you do on a daily, or weekly basis to a) get up to speed in a new workplace, or b) 'get your game on' to be worky/professional at your job, or c) quite literally, not go crazy from work-stress? [more inside]
Pass for eurorail, interrail travel for american living in france
Eurorail, Interrail Travel: Is there any pass I can use in France as an American living in France? [more inside]
I need a nursebuddy to give me blankets and soup :(
I need to have my wisdom teeth extracted with full serious-business anesthesia, and I don't know who I can/should get to drive me home and watch out for me for the day. [more inside]
Membership Management Systems?
Is there such a thing as an open-source, web-based Membership Management System? [more inside]
For the Jason Bourne in all of us
I have an idea in mind that would be centered around a fake passport-like document taken to specific, fun places around the world. Not something fake enough to break laws, but fake enough to be something fun to carry around, not look cheap, and be durable to carry around and get stamped when requested. Where would I go to get something like this made? [more inside]
No money, mo' problems...
How do I reconcile myself to earning less money in a more expensive location? [more inside]
Most underappreciated movies of the last decade?
What are the most underappreciated (and/or critically-acclaimed but underwatched) movies of the last decade? [more inside]
my dog has ptsd
My sweet natured, playful dog was attacked by another dog on an off leash trail last week, how can I best help her regain her former confidence? [more inside]
Modern Standard Arabic (MSA)- how prevalent is it?
Modern Standard Arabic (MSA)- how prevalent is it? [more inside]
Help me buy a foreclosed home in Austin Texas
Help me buy a foreclosed home in Austin Texas. I have lived in Columbus Ohio most of my life, and am an online professional poker player. I am considering relocating to Austin Texas. I love Sports, I'm vegan, I like getting around by bicycle, I like the environment. Austin seems to have most things that I want, and not many cons. [more inside]
Radiography or BSN?
I need education and career advice from those who have BTDT. [more inside]
STATA Help
How do I write a stata program that will loop through multiple variables? [more inside]
how can I find an good(hopefully inexpensive) manufacturer abroad( outside US)?
Need help finding manufacturer abroad to produce a product. I'm struggling finding companies that are still interested when I tell them I am a small business startup (with a great idea!). I understand that telling manufacturers that I'm not going to put in a huge order they are less interested but a girl needs to start somewhere!
There are so many people that read this site I thought someone might have an idea or experience doing this.
Thank you very much!
Help me follow a twitter account on my android
My phone's running on Android Froyo. I'd like to track someone's twitter account real time on my home screen without having to create my own account. Is there any way to do this? [more inside]
What's so cool about Beantown?
Help me get excited about moving to Boston/Somerville/Cambridge area. What are some cool things that go around in these places that you only really know about once you live there? [more inside]
List of National and Sate Candidates
I'm looking for a site or data source to find out who is running for office in 2012 at the state and national level. [more inside]
How can I figure out the value of a used car?
Seeking recommendations for resource(s) to determine the value of a used car not sold in the U.S. -- and thus not listed by Kelly Blue Book. [more inside]
What Can A Hospital Do With Drug Screen Info?
What can the hospital do with drug test results that are positive? [more inside]
Where'd they come from, where'd they go, and why pw protected?
After yesterday's pc scan, BitDefender reported that five files could not be read, because they were password protected. Now the files are gone. WTF? [more inside]
Help me chose?
Toshiba L650 vs C650. Replacing a secondary notebook. The former has a core i5-480M processor and the latter a pentium P6200 .All other specs are essentially the same. The laptop will be used primarily for word processing, internet and data storage. Is the more powerful processor worth me spending $100 more given the applications it will run?
What Month and Year did the Flying Toasters first fly/toast on Macs?
What month and year did the Flying Toasters from Berkeley System's After Dark first make their appearance? [more inside]
Remote Islands!
Can you help me find any books on remote modern day colonies? [more inside]
Can the ER legally test me for drugs without telling me and without my consent?
Can the ER legally test me for drugs without telling me and without my consent? [more inside]
I'm 26 going on 14.
How can I act on this silly schoolgirl crush? [more inside]
I gave him another chance, did I make a mistake?
I agreed to give my a boyfriend a second chance after finding out he cheated on me multiple times. Its been 6 months since we are back together, and I still can't seem to trust him. Did I make a mistake? [more inside]
From Mars to Earth??
I was listening to this Fresh Air interview today and wondered how they know a meteorite is from Mars. [more inside]
Is the price of experience worth the cost of free labor? (Looking towards a career in news design)
How do I start designing news...? [more inside]
how do I fight an airline service charge?
How do I fight this absurd airline service charge? [more inside]
Tell me where to stretch my legs.
Traveling from Indy to Austin, Tex. in July by car with my 1.75-year-old son, my wife and my mom for a wedding. Where should we stop? [more inside]
How to get financial papers in order?
How and in what form should financial documents/bills be kept at home? [more inside]
This game haunts my dreams.
Trying to track down a Flash game/interactive animation made sometime between 2001 and 2004. [more inside]
Where can I find historical data about employment for large companies?
I'm looking for historical employment, revenue and profit information for the top 500 businesses in the world, and I don't know where or how to look for it. [more inside]
Why do speedometers go so high?
Why do car speedometers go so high? [more inside]
Hack my nap
I want examples of writing, music, films or youtube clips that involve somebody being soothed by the sound of their heartbeat. [more inside]
Lengthening your horizons.
How close is the horizon on the moon? On Mercury? On Mars? [more inside]
Derby Name Game
Another "Help me pick a derby name" request... Brooklyn Brewser, Tricky Spillane and Sis Boom Bootie have been nixed. [more inside]
How to get through non-interstate Texas?
Best non-interstate route through Texas? Entering Texas through Amarillo and leaving through Houston en route to Louisiana. I'm pulling a trailer and would like to keep a steady of 55-60mph, though 45mph can be fine if it's flat and light on traffic. Any advice and anecdotes are welcome.
Why wasn't Jefferson Davis executed?
After the Civil War why didn't the Union execute Confederate leaders as traitors? [more inside]
Best VOIP options?
I've got a VOIP service that's really inexpensive, a first year, new client deal. That's about to expire and my rate will bump. While it's still inexpensive, I'm wondering how I can get control of this and not be at the affect of a external company, specifically how can I control my public phone number, keep my calling rates low, and avoid having an external company call the shots. [more inside]
Restaurant for group meetup in Manhattan?
I am coordinating this month's meetup for a group of my friends. We're about twenty people, ranging from 15 years old to middle-aged, looking for a restaurant that would have room for us on a Saturday evening. Ideas? [more inside]
Controlling a VFD in Labview?
I'd like to control a VFD (Hitachi L100) by computer via a LabView program. [more inside]
At what point do I just give up and get a new laptop?
When I type on my wife's Toshiba Satellite L25-S121, it drops characters. It doesn't drop the same characters, and sometimes there is just a delay before they show up on the screen. I've restored from the factory CDs and updated the Bios, but the problem persists. [more inside]
Where can I find a recipe for "mal-DOO-jen"?
Can you help me identify a recipe, possibly Depression era, with a German-sounding name? [more inside]
I want to visit Hawaii!!!
I'd like to visit Hawaii, alone. Here's a few questions about it. [more inside]
SF bay area bridal shower venue at $20/guest
Where have your favorite bridal showers been held in the bay area? [more inside]
How to "encourage" someone to delete work data?
If we have an employee who has access and/or copies of potentially sensitive data on their computer *outside* of the office (e.g. they've used their home computer to download email containing work info, spreadsheets, customer records, etc) and we terminate that person, is there any sort of form or confirmation that we could have them to sign to "ensure" that they will delete any such data?
e.g. something along the lines of "I certify that I will delete all company/work-related data on any of my personal equipment"
I realize there's no way to *guarantee* that they'll do it. I'm just wondering if there's any sort of potential benefit to create such a form for them to sign off on (e.g. if we find out later that they sent a copy of x info to a competitor *after* they were terminated, will having such a signoff help us at all in court, for example)
Looking for books to knock me out.
Please recommend some books that give a similar experience to reading the New Yorker. [more inside]
resources on species selection
What traits can a group of organisms possess that an individual cannot possess (e.g. a ratio of males to females)? To put it more generally: in reference to units of selection, can you cite any examples of a whole being greater than the sum of its parts (particularly the sum of its genes)? [more inside]
How can a library student prepare to become an information architect?
How can a library student prepare to become an information architect? [more inside]
What's it like to interview for a government research position?
After a rather disappointing year on the academic job market, I've been contacted for a phone interview at Big Government Laboratory for a position in Research Area of My Expertise. What to expect? How to prepare? [more inside]
magic realism in film (south america)
I am trying to find a South American or Latin American film that we watched when I was in college in the 80s. It was described by the professor as being an example of "magic realism" in film. The scene I remember was of an orchard with trees in bloom and the flowers all turned into butterflies. It was NOT an animated film. Any help greatly appreciated!
How can I transform my resume into a federal resume?
How can I transform my conventional resume into a federal resume? [more inside]
Where can I fill my tiny tummy?
What are some good Weight Loss Surgery Friendly restaurants in midtown Manhattan? [more inside]
I want to be BEHIND the bar!
I have a dream of opening a little pub in a sleepy little British village, but I have zero experience. How can I learn to be an tavern-keeper? [more inside]
How to "crunch the numbers" for a startup.
Good resources for the "crunch the numbers" part of starting a business? [more inside]
New York, New York (in Helvetica)
What fun design-related things can I do in New York City this July? [more inside]
Social/Political theory of movement
I am looking for theories of political/social movement (i.e. dance, performance not ideological) for a research paper on the Mass Games in North Korea, a large-scale spectacle including gymnastics, music, dance and art performed for Kim Jung-Il.
Why yes, he would like some cheese with that whine.
Puppyfilter: 9 month old lab. Will this habitual whining get better with age? [more inside]
Commuter Bike. . .Start from Scratch or ???
Want A Great Commuter (70%) Road (30%) Bike. How to get there? [more inside]
Mount Rushmore tips
Mount Rushmore! Where to stay and what to do! Tell me. [more inside]
“Those who are clever, who have a Brain, never understand anything.” - Milne
We have this terrific audiobook of Winnie The Pooh (with Stephen Fry as Pooh and Judi Dench & all sorts of wonderfulness) and were wondering if there are any more like it? [more inside]
Any recommendations for good articles and papers on cloud computing?
I am interested in cloud computing and I am looking for recommendations re interesting and worthy articles and papers on the subject of cloud computing.
One area of interest is in how it will change the old-fashioned client-server network model - the status quo.
Is outsourcing the network infrastructure really going to produce a dramatic transformation or is it somewhat over-hyped and exagerated.
Broken plugs from an RCA cable are stuck in my amp. Help?
I tripped over an RCA cable connecting my amp to my laptop...and the RCA cable broke off, leaving the actual plugs stuck inside the amp. How the heck can I get them out? [more inside]
easy on the bawdy
I'd like to find funny, slightly bawdy songs suitable for teenagers. [more inside]
The internet man cometh
Let's say you run a business without an online / social media presence. A professional firm offers to get your business on Facebook, Twitter, etc. - how much is it worth to pay someone to set it up - especially if you can't be bothered to learn and do it yourself? [more inside]
Is it counterproductive to work out the night before practice?
I want to build endurance for early morning practices. Is it counterproductive to work out the night before? [more inside]
Living in Stowe, Vermont
Anyone live in Stowe, Vt? [more inside]
Obscure NBA rule question regarding timeouts
Obscure NBA rule question regarding timeouts [more inside]
What language to write a multi-search utility in?
I want to write a tool for multiple-searching a site that only supports single-searches. What's the best implementation language? [more inside]
Fresh grad job hunting--help!
New public health graduate looking to find a job in the field within Canada. For some reason, I'm getting nowhere. Any job board suggestions, websites/organizations I should check out? [more inside]
I want to relearn everything I forgot from Middle School & High School
I would like to relearn the important things that I probably learned in middle school and high school and then forgot. How should I proceed in an efficient manner? [more inside]
Sort of specific fun in Sydney
Sydney (AU) MeFites, I need some specific must-see suggestions. [more inside]
A special gift for my favourite baby
I will soon be attending my niece's naming ceremony, and I'd like to give her a special gift as a memento. My partner and I are the only aunts (and there are no uncles, either) and are "guests of honour" for the ceremony. [more inside]
Pimp my browser (again)
I would like a chrome feature or extension that will have all (or those in a given "class") open in a new tab when I mindlessly left-click on them. [more inside]
Vacationing in Montreal?
Thinking of taking the family on a vaca to Montreal this summer. Looking for recommendations for places to stay, things to do, etc. It would be great to stay somewhere we could cook our own meals. We are two adults, two teen girls and one 11-year old boy. [more inside]
Help me be Counselor to the Stars! (or to their characters)
Looking for examples of anxiety/depression/other psych issues in film and t.v. characters. What can you recommend? [more inside]
Examples of well-designed wikis?
What are some examples of well-designed wikis (that break the mold of the traditional wiki look and feel)? [more inside]
Was a specific West Wing event based on a real incident?
Was this described atrocity from a West Wing episode based on a historical incident? [Plot points will be discussed inside for those wary of spoilers; also a discussion of rape] [more inside]
Hotel registration software reccomendations
Anyone have any experience with customizable hotel registration systems for the web? [more inside]
Happy 40th birthday Sis! I better not see this on Ebay!
My sister is turning 40 soon. Can you help me find a good gift to give her? [more inside]
help me dress my sister-in-law
searching for a gown with sleeves for a wedding. [more inside]
What is the most accurate test for finding gallstones STAT!
What is more accurate for detecting gallstones--HIDA, MCRP, CT, ultrasound? [more inside]
Did You Major in History in College?
What can you tell me about majoring in history in college? My son (high school junior) is planning to study history in college and make a career out of public history. Yes, he is 17 and most 17 year olds have no idea what they really want to do. However, he has had a passion for history since he could read, and has already logged some hours doing volunteer research for the National Park Service, so I really think odds are good that he will stick with that path. I'm looking for suggestions on interesting colleges that he might want to investigate. Just about every school offers a history major, which makes the narrowing down process a little harrowing. [more inside]
Resume Ideas
Where can I find great examples of resumes / cv's? I will be pursuing a new job in the next 6 months and would like to polish up my resume now. I think my resume is pretty good, but I would like to look at some different approaches to brainstorm how I may tighten it up. I am a I.T. project manager if that helps. My Google-Fu is turning up sites with resumes templates that are, ummmm, a lot worse than my existing resume. Any general tips would be much appreciated as well, but I am more interested in format, structure, and wording. Help me find example resumes that jump off a recruiter's desk!
How to clean a brick floor?
How do you get stains out of a brick tile floor? [more inside]
Printable NCAA Men's Tournament Brackets
Looking to 'collect' NCAA Men's Basketball printable blank "brackets". Help me find some links/resources? [more inside]
Blooming Jasmine
My Jasmine is broken.
How can I persuade it to blossom? [more inside]
No Money For Paul Krugman and Four Computers
Until nytimes.com comes up with a family plan, I will not be subscribing. Where can I get my thoughtful, eclectic, comprehensive news mix in one place?
Notes to the MAX!! (Awesome, forEVER, or otherwise)
What are the ways in which you use Evernote (or AwesomeNote, or whatever your poison) to make your life better, easier, happier, more organized, more awesome, etc? I'm not doing too bad a job of it myself, but I suspect I am just scratching the surface. [more inside]
Suggestions for music server software with smart playlists and unified playcount
I have multiple Ubuntu PCs in multiple rooms, each connected to individual HiFis. I want to be able to listen to my 150GB music collection from any of the PCs. BUT, I want to have a unified record of playcount, so, from each PC, I can access a "Not Recently Played" smart playlist that has been updated from all PCs. I'd also like to sync this Not Recenlty Played playlist with my Android phone. How can I do this? [more inside]
Why won't my cat let me sleep?
My cats are nocturnal! Which was never a problem until, a few weeks ago, one of them started getting really irritating at night. She will scratch a piece of furniture or wall, making that wonderful knife-sharpening sound, until she sees that my wife or I are awake (usually this involves us yelling or throwing something, but I've noticed that even rolling over or lifting a head to look, will make her stop). This happens 6 or 7 times a night. The other one is usually fine but now they get in fights every night. Nothing in particular has changed in our, or presumably their, lives. They seem healthy and otherwise happy. What gives? [more inside]
mas bonita que ninguna..
You are around 20 years old and live in Spain. What songs would you like to hear on acoustic guitar? [more inside]
How do I work out what to write about?
I’m a talented hack who can’t think of a long-term personal writing project. Any ideas for how I work this out? [more inside]
How do I glue alabaster?
What's the best way to repair alabaster? [more inside]
Who owns our Google Analytics account?
Is there any way to find out which email address 'owns' our google analytics stats? [more inside]
Affordable mailing list service?
Can you recommend an affordable mailing list service or alternative? [more inside]
April 3
What should I know about long-term maintenance of a large library of personal books?
What should I know about long-term maintenance of a large library of personal books? [more inside]
How should I set up this trust
What are some ways to structure a trust? I'm setting up a trust so that if I die, my child would not have a sudden, relatively large windfall. I've got life insurance, 401k and quite a bit of equity in a house, and at this time, I think it would be problematic. [more inside]
Does a living body reveal the story of its life?
Are there ever any reliable inferences to be drawn about a person's work or lifestyle from physical characteristics? [more inside]
Polite Dispensation of Elderly Attentions?
How do I deal with my elderly gentleman stalker? Story inside. [more inside]
NYC Dive Bars
NewYorkCityFilter: Great newish dive bars? [more inside]
Reading Recommendations Please.
Help me find good non-fiction graphic novels for an ESL reader. [more inside]
Does it matter when you ask for the ADA?
Time frame: Does it matter when you ask for accommodations under the ADA? Two weeks in, I brought a doctor's note to the manager of my new job. He wanted to know if I had asked for accommodations when I was hired. I hadn't, because I didn't know the job would aggravate my condition. I had thought I would just try it and see. Anyway, he told me I had to go to HR and fill paperwork out. Do you have to ask at the time you're hired? (Why would I ask for accommodations if everything seemed fine at the time?) Thanks in advance.
after grad school
I'm curious what unconventional things people here have done after getting a computer science PhD, and what it took to get there. [more inside]
How Do I Become Ivy League Material?
In five years I'm planning to pursue an MA in an artistic field. I live near an Ivy League university; my current teacher has a degree from that university and is encouraging me to apply. I had ruled it out because I had never considered myself anything near "Ivy League" before (the closest I've come is blowing an undergrad interview for a different school). What can I do between now and then (five years) to make myself an attractive, creative Ivy League arts grad school candidate? [more inside]
It's a small world, even in the big city
I just found out a guy I have been corresponding with on OKC works at the same law firm as my ex. The new guy seems like someone I might want to get to know. How should I handle this situation? [more inside]
Running KeePass on OS X under Mono
PEBKACFilter: I'm trying to run KeePass under Mono on OS X. I can't, for the life of me, understand the installation instructions. Help! [more inside]
D.C.-neighborhoodfilter: How's this area and this rent?
(Posting for a friend, on behalf of their friend, all three of us equally un-D.C. savvy:)
A friend of mine is thinking about renting in an apartment in Washington DC, near P St NW and 4th St NW. Based on some internet research, it looks like this is the Truxton Circle or Shaw neighborhood, but we're not quite sure about that. She's a single white female in her mid-twenties, and will be a student keeping irregular hours. She has a car, and has lived in major cities before, though always in relatively safe areas. How safe is this neighborhood? What is the crime situation like? Will she be comfortable walking around alone at night? [more inside]
How do you respond to "Tell me about yourself" in a job interview?
How do you respond to "Tell me about yourself" in a job interview? Details inside. [more inside]
2011 Ford Explorer Commercial
In the 2011 Ford Explorer commercial, at 0:24 - 0:25sec, what are they doing with their hands? [more inside]
Quality Individual Health Insurance in NY?
I need to buy (gack!) my own health insurance. I'm in New York state. I'm looking for very good coverage. Would rather pay more for high-quality, flexible, non-nitpicky coverage (if such a thing exists), and then economize by opting for high deductibles.
I once lived in CT for a short while, and loved Anthem Blue Cross. But I've heard horror stories about Empire Blue Cross in NY. What other options are out there?
Helpful loss mantra?
Quotations to help with the loss of loved ones? [more inside]
I promise this isn't about Lost
ForgottenStoryFilter! Asking for a friend because the details are familiar to me too, but I can't place where *I* could have read it... [more inside]
Sparser Living Through Chemistry
What can I use as a safe substitute for dishwashing liquid? [more inside]
There's a women's right movement, how come there's no MEN'S rights movement?!
I am looking for articles that address the backlash against feminism in the age of the internet. [more inside]
casting a broad net
Looking for work in June and July. Somewhere other than the US. [more inside]
Sensible medical intervention guidelines
I'd like some guidelines on how to be reasonably cautious with my child's health when I can't tell if the nurses are overreacting or not. [more inside]
Need women's travel pants with pockets
Tell me about your favorite travel pants for women. [more inside]
How can I interview this person?
I have been charged with recruiting a social media advisor for the organisation -and I'm not quite sure how I can evaluate the person's knowledge. [more inside]
Help me build a special dog ramp
Help me design a ramp to fit over a staircase for a dog to go up and down. My parents’ dog has arthritis. My parents house has a hardwood floor staircase that she can’t go down comfortably. She slips and frequently falls down the stairs and it’s obviously painful and stressful for her to go down. I’d like to build her a ramp with some ridges (i.e. pieces of wood set up as crossbars so her feet don’t slip). Two catches inside. [more inside]
Should I be upset over my girlfriend's relationship with her male friend?
Am I just being oversensitive? My girlfriend shares an apt with her cousin (male) whom she calls her best friend. I feel like the relationship is kind of creepy and closer than any best friend situation I've ever seen. He calls her 3-4 times a day, just to check in. She waits until late night to eat dinner with him even though she gets home at 5. They do everything together. [more inside]
editing from home online
Can you make money online doing copy editing? If so, how? What is the best website for it, how much money do you make, and is it enough to count as a full time job?
Twits go mad in South America
I'm looking for the name of a documentary I saw many years (over 15) ago. A group of British upper class, university age people go trekking in South America. [more inside]
What's the best set up to run a MBP to a non-Apple display?
I want to run my Macbook Pro into a non-Apple display. Preferably one that's no bigger than 24" wide, 1920 resolution max, and is especially good for a graphic designer. Any advice? [more inside]
Back Me Up On This, Would Ya?
I have two external hard drives: one Mac formatted (WD 500 GB); one Windows (Iomega 1 TB). I have a Macbook and a lot of music. Let's get all this together and end up with a setup that does what I want. [more inside]
Why won't my kitty let me brush him?
My cat Mr. Mister is pretty calm for almost anything, even when I clip his nails, but he bites and scratches when I try to brush him. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Learning Danish Sign Language (DSL) with only English as my primary language?
[sign language filter] How can an American learn Danish Sign Language? Preferably without a tutor. [more inside]
How to Get Glue off Laminate?
My new floor is stunning--Except for the glue spots.... [more inside]
DVD remote too hot to handle!
What's causing this DVD remote control to become too hot to handle? [more inside]
Too tight bananna leaves
Green thumb-ish indoor banana tree question (with pic). Quickie. [more inside]
Fat legs in a short dress: FatshionFilter
I'm attending a wedding in 3 months (late June) for which I have been asked by the bride to wear a specific short dress. It's actually very cute - black, sparkly - and is flattering on me in every way except that, well, it's short. And I have fat, pale legs. I'll be wearing nude high heels, but besides that, how can I make my lump gams appear nicer? Quick-fix exercises? Spray tans? Tights/stockings are not an option.
Euthanize now or wait for the next crisis and piss off our nanny?
We're most likely euthanizing our dog this week. I've read previous posts, but want some reassurance. Much much much more inside because I want you to know the whole story. [more inside]
Interview tips
What should I know for my first project management interview? [more inside]
Any other YNABers out there?
I'm a newbie to YNAB software and need some input from fellow users: What is the best way to learn how to use this software? There are so many forums, tutorials, videos, and the manual (which is a nightmare to use) that I am lost! Help! I just want a step-by-step guide that goes in some kind of sequential order and shows me how to use all aspects of the program. [more inside]
Remixed electronics: can I make a working frankenphone out of these two broken 6820 phones?
Help me identify a mystery component from the board of one of two damaged/crippled Nokia 6820 phones and determine if it's possible for me to get one working Frankenphone out of the two. [more inside]
Should we go back in the water?
wait. hold up. rewind.
Asking for a friend: The SO and I rushed into having sex and saying "I Love You". Now we're struggling to keep our relationship chugging along. I'm especially anxiety-ridden. How can we regain our momentum? [more inside]
a week in Reykjavik
I'm about to leave for Reykjavik for a week. Any great restaurants or shops I have to check out?
Bad experience with marijuana?
I had a very bad experience with marijuana recently, and I’m looking to figure out what caused it, and how I can stop it from happening again. [more inside]
Automating Street View
Is there a way to make Google Street View "drive" for me? [more inside]
"Eat a bag of dicks" on my principal's back? Please?
Do you know Japanese? Do you not know Japanese? What does my shirt say? (p.s. It's likely not Japanese.) [more inside]
Can a move to Europe work?
Another moving to Europe question. Is it possible. [more inside]
Something peed in my sneakers.
Can my beloved sneakers be saved from the uriney menace? [more inside]
Bookfilter: authors like Calvino, Keret, Murakami
Bookfilter: I'm looking for authors (and especially short story collections) in the vein of Italo Calvino, Etgar Keret, and Haruki Murakami - playful, slightly absurd, and a little bit surreal.
Work in a tollbooth?
What's it like to work in a turnpike tollbooth? [more inside]
I just inherited my father's record collection. Now what?
Buying a turntable, vinyl record cleaning kit, and vinyl sleeves. Need your recommendations, please. [more inside]
Concert or tenor ukulele for a beginner?
Is a concert or tenor ukulele better for a beginner? [more inside]
Thank you for making my MBP faster
What's an appropriate thank you gift for a friend who will be upgrading the memory in my MacBook Pro? [more inside]
Baby in a baby carriage without K-I-S-S-I-N-G
I'd like to get pregnant artificially, but without going through a doctor - seeking tips. [more inside]
Photos that won't break the bank?
Can anyone suggest a wedding photographer in Los Angeles who charges less than $2k? [more inside]
How do you estimate a cancer risk from radiation exposure?
How is the following risk assessment from this NYT infographic reached?: "The estimated increase in cancer risk of eating two unwashed pounds of [radioactive cesium-tainted broccoli] is about two chances in a million." Is it based on population studies, or sieverts, or something else? What biological effect do sieverts measure? [more inside]
Intense Fashion Analysis Mandatory.
Fashion obsessives: Where can I see Tilda Swinton's wardrobe for Io Sono L'Amore ... not in video format? [more inside]
How do you get over someone that dumped you out of the blue and says they will never speak to you again?
How do you get over someone that dumped you out of the blue and says they will never speak to you again? [more inside]
Is an older MacBook a good match for an iPad2?
iPad first-timer - is my mid-2007 MacBook the right computer? [more inside]
Seeking Smash Hits
Old person seeks new music in the internet age. Constraints: one hour a week; does not want to watch video or hear interviews. [more inside]
Help us find a good home for our treasures!
Appraisal experts, please help! My family has several paintings done by a now-deceased uncle, and we would like to get them appraised. [more inside]
How do you Video-cast with a talking head in a box
I enjoyed Matt's SXSW talk about metafilter and would like to know how to replicate that style of videocast myself using Windows, preferably using free and open source tools and if that's not possible then with something inexpensive.
How to move to another state and get a job?
How to move to another state and get a job? [more inside]
Buying bottled beer in Austin on a Sunday?
I've got an extra several hours in Austin to fill up due to differing travel schedules from friends. I want to buy some local beer to take back with me (Jester King and Real Ale), but just about every decent looking liquor store is closed due to it being Sunday. After noon, some places open up for beer and wine, but most of those are just selling the normal stuff and Shiner. Any ideas? (As well as other ideas for filling an afternoon in Austin)
English Panic
I'm a native speaker of English and I feel like my poor English grammar is degrading me. [more inside]
Decompression Chamber for Compressed Londoners
Husband and I have one week holiday at end of May, coinciding with Significant Anniversary. Help us find the Perfect Getaway before Significant Anniversary is spent in local pub moaning that we never go anywhere! Our modest wishes inside... [more inside]
Windows Laptop Similar to a Macbook pro
Im looking for windows laptop suggestions for something similar to a macbook pro that has a 16" or 17" matte screen and a decent trackpad
Bonus Points for Vintage Moog Hardware
What's hip and cool in the modern-day synthpop scene? [more inside]
Help for the monetarily challenged
A friend, who's as bad at numbers as I am, has money in an American bank account. He needs to pay for something in Switzerland. Is there any advantage to changing the dollars to euros and then to Swiss francs, or is a direct dollar-franc transfer the best way to go? [more inside]
How would you make a scaled plan of photo/art frames and the wall to organize a plan of attack for drilling/mounting?
I've got a ton of picture frames big and small that I want to hang in my living room all at once on one big wall and want to plan out their layout before drilling. Is Sketchup a good tool to use? Or what/how would you do a scaled plan of the frames and the wall to lay them out in a certain order? Tetris for mounting pictures.
SongFilter: Music along the lines of Eels' "Are You and Me Gonna Happen Soon?".
SongFilter: Music along the lines of Eels' "Are You and Me Gonna Happen Soon?". Also like, and sharing the central, longing-filled theme of eagerness/waiting/emotional investment in a relationship that may or may not bear fruit of, Bright Eyes' "Make a Plan to Love Me" and Elliott Smith's "Say Yes". I look forward to you responses! Extra points for nominations falling under the indie umbrella.
The jar also advises, "Examine oysters for pearls"
Can I eat it, oyster edition: I left a jar of fresh yearling oysters at room temperature while I went snowboarding. [more inside]
April 2
How can I overcome my fear of self-promotion?
How can I get better at promoting myself and my work, without dwelling on my failures or fearing I'll be judged? [more inside]
You're lucky to even know me; you're lucky to be alive.
I don’t remember how to be single. Help? [more inside]
Old Movies with New Sound Effects
Why, when remastering old movies, do they record new sound effects to dub over the original audio? [more inside]
Eight Months To A Dissertation
I have eight months to write my social science PhD dissertation. How can I improve my chances of finishing? [more inside]
Thinking about moving, when is enough, enough?
Roommate/Renting Filter: Should I stay or should I go? I've rented room in a nice neighborhood for 3 years. I'm sick of my roommate and I want to be more social. Advice/opinions needed. (long version within) [more inside]
I never got a bill of sale when I sold my car, and now I'm screwed. What can I do?
I need some armchair legal advice about a messy situation involving a car I sold 2 years ago coming back to haunt me. I never got a bill of sale when I sold the car- now it's in police custody, and I'm liable for fees and possibly implicated in whatever this car's been into. [more inside]
Post-quake survival: pet edition
DisasterFilter - What steps can I take to ensure my pets survival in the case where a disaster strikes and I can't get home? [more inside]
Craigslist scammer?
Trying to sell TV on Craigslist. Does this email seem like a potential scam or legit business? [more inside]
Anyone have an easy, yeast-free bread recipe?
looking for recipes for easy, yeast- free bread not using a bread machine. i am impatient and don't like waiting for dough to rise, punching it down, etc.... (examples of similar recipes would be beer bread or soda bread)
Muffling vibrations from below?
Any ideas for a material to put underneath a Lazy-Boy chair to muffle vibrations from below? [more inside]
Is there a website showing tax payments by public companies?
Is there a website showing tax payments by public companies? [more inside]
Dealing with damage to a leased vehicle
How to deal with minor cosmetic damage to a leased vehicle? [more inside]
BabyFilter: is there any medical evidence that it's bad for babies to sit or stand before they can get into those positions on their own?
BabyFilter: is there any medical evidence that it's bad for babies to sit or stand before they can get into those positions on their own? [more inside]
Acid wash cotton does not belong in my house.
Cotton twill fabric developed acid-wash effect after a trip through the washer. Another wash didn't fix it, what is wrong and what do I do? [more inside]
Techincal question re: soffits and attic ventilation
Technical question for architects / builders / roofers about attic ventilation in a southern zone. I'm renovating a house in south/central Texas (Brazos County), and I need some advice on how to properly ventilate my roof, as the original soffit/gable ventilation now seems quite messed up. [more inside]
Save vs. Plagiarism.
Plagiarism! I wrote some articles on my blog, now the ideas are being sold in a book - using specific terms and techniques that make it unmistakable about source or parallel development. No one else has rights to these articles, and no one notified or asked me for permission. What are my options? [more inside]
Snap-on shell case for MSI U230?
Snap-on shell case for MSI U230? [more inside]
how can a combo of a strawberry and orange flavor be so grody?
Citrus filter - what kind of bizarre orange (tangerine?) did i just eat - and hate? I swear it said "strawberry tangerine" on the sign at the farmer's market... [more inside]
American equivalent of a royal wedding tea towel?
What tacky, uniquely American gifts/souvenirs should I bring from the US to the UK? [more inside]
Can anyone recommend some good French podcasts?
Can anyone recommend some good French podcasts? I'm not looking for language-learning programming, Just French language podcasts similar to CBC's Spark on technology & culture, The Moth-style personal stories, gaming a la GiantBomb's Bombcast
, or NPR-style in-depth journalism. [more inside]
Messy involvement with someone sort of in another relationship.
I got involved with a friend who was in a relationship. He is confusing me and I am backing off. What now? [more inside]
Using Java to do a repetitive flight search (with querying and scraping)
I'm trying to use the Google App Engine to make a Java program that goes to Southwest.com every six hours, enters in two airport codes (i.e. JFK and LAX) and two dates (i.e. 7/22/2011 and 7/29/2011) into the text fields on that webpage, and parses the HTML of the results page to find and store the lowest price on the page. I need some help getting started. [more inside]
Fine Literature in Shakespeare's time
I've heard from more than one academic source that Shakespeare's plays weren't considered particularly "high art" in his time, being somewhat more on the level of TV sitcoms of today. How accurate is that assessment? If it is accurate, what was considered highbrow literature at the time and why?
Taxing carbon?
The Australian government is working out the details for a tax on carbon. Where will the money raised in this tax go? What will it be used for? [more inside]
Car Headlight problem
I have a 2006 V6 Sonata, last night I was driving and when using my high beam headlights they would stay bright and then dim then brighten up again all along my hour long drive. The headlights did not do this on regular beam (no dimming on this setting). The battery has not been replaced since I have had this car, but I didn't know if it could be the battery, alternator, headlights or something else entirely?
Hamsters!
Thinking about adopting a hamster. I would love to hear people's experience about proper care... [more inside]
Anxiety and Depression
What should I do about my anxiety/depression? [more inside]
Stand back, I'm going to try science!
Is there a quick and easy way to tell if the soda I am drinking is diet or not? [more inside]
Did this relationship end for the right reasons? IS it even over??
Is he a commitment phobe, or is it me? Does he just not like/want me? [more inside]
Labor of love, or profit?
How do independent used stores price things? Particularly, video games? [more inside]
We want a web expo for our humanities expo
Agile training
Project Management filter: Product Owner training? [more inside]
Kind of freaking out about commitment.
Why do you commit to being in a relationship with someone? [more inside]
quiero televisión provechosa
I want Spanish language TV shows/movies that I can find free online where the dialogue is relatively slow and I can have Spanish subtitles. [more inside]
Help me understand my emotional responses.
How do I chill out about other people respecting me? [more inside]
EXAMPLES OF FREE PUBLICITY WORKING IN A COMPANY'S FAVOR
What are some good famous examples of free publicity paying off big-time --- "You couldn't even _buy_ publicity like that!!" ? [more inside]
How do I get a career I love?
I'm stuck in a career I'm not sure I love. How do I get out of it? How can I get paid to do the things I love? [more inside]
Please help me with this encoding issue!
Please help me with this encoding issue! Fun with Python, Unicode, Excel, and the IPA. [more inside]
Would we like Capitol Hill
Calling all DC MeFites: What's it like living in Capitol Hill? [more inside]
Get-away in the French Alps?
Where should I go in the French Alps where I can spend a few days outdoors in late May? [more inside]
How do I discourage unauthorized use of artwork images on the internet?
How do I discourage unauthorized borrowing of artwork images on the internet? [more inside]
Interesting Uses for Coffee Syrup?
Audiobook is read too fast.
The audiobook I'm listening to is read too fast. How can I slow it down? [more inside]
Help me find some skills!
I'm getting my masters degree with the eventual goal of going into nonprofit work. What skills can I work on (outside of school) that will make me more desirable to organizations and better at my job, and how do I get them? [more inside]
Why must my Google calendar look like a KandyKid puked Skittles on it?
Please help me tidy up our color-coded shared Google calendars. [more inside]
DTMFA
Okay I'm crazy, now what? [more inside]
Flash Crash
Why does my Flash Crash? [more inside]
Is FSBO worth it for a Manhattan co-op?
Is FSBO worth it for a Manhattan co-op? [more inside]
Smooth Writer
Looking for a great pen. Something that writes very smoothly, (as in low friction to paper) with consistent ink flow, which won't stain the outside of one's pinky. [more inside]
Setting a timer to record online video?
I won't be home for the one-time-only broadcast of LCD Soundsystem's final concert tonight on pitchfork.com. I know there are Firefox extensions and what not that can record online video if you're actually there to start the recording, but is there some way to start recording when I'm not home? Alternatively, does anyone know of another way to access this concert video after the fact?
Suggestions for drawing on exposed film stock for animation project.
Please recommend a drawing method for exposed emulsion film slug for animation. [more inside]
Repair or buy?
Help me navigate recent accident damage and whether or not I should buy a new car with 0 down! [more inside]
Fix My Chain, Please!
I need to fix a stiff and twisted bicycle chain. Can you help? [more inside]
Spread 'Em!
Idiotic Google spreadsheet question: how do I shrink the column size? [more inside]
Where to watch ICC final?
Where can I watch the India - Sri Lanka ICC final live online from the US?
How to protect high arched feet around the house?
What might someone with high arches and developing forefoot pain wear around the house? [more inside]
Wanted: Handbag friendly digital camera
I'm looking for a small, sleek digital camera for my wife, with a few caveats. [more inside]
Where online should I buy a French press and burr grinder?
Where online should I buy a French press and burr grinder? [more inside]
Where to find a case of case studies?
Last week, I've picked up a book "Introduction to Personality" by Jerry Phares, and now looking for similar books. What can you recommend me Metafilter? [more inside]
Helping a new mum
How do I help a friend who may or may not have post-natal depression, but is definitely having a rough time due to babies not being well or sleeping? I am not able to pop in for visits to help with babysitting, housework, etc but there must be something else I can do to help, surely? [more inside]
April 1
How do IR thermometer guns work?
My goal is the detection of small temperature variations over a larger area than a single one would allow, monitored by a computer.
What sensor do they use? I saw IR thermocouples on the web (starting at $150) and the fact these consumer devices are often under $30 leads to believe they are not using this, but something a lot cheaper. [more inside]
Scariest first person shooters on PC...
What is the scariest first person shooter you've ever played on PC? [more inside]
Bonfire of the Vanitizzle [rap-filter]
Seeking urban bonfire imagery in rap videos. Usually the fire is just in the background and/or a crowd is gathered around it, while the rapper does his (usually his) thing. I feel I've seen plenty but am blanking on specific examples. Not thinking of scenes where the rapper is walking away in triumph from some scene of vengeful or simply spectacular explosion, however. (Sorry for horrid pun in title.)
What software extracts sounds by humming them?
What's the software or academic paper that isolates sounds by humming them? I remember seeing a demonstration video of this where the narrator removed a phone ringing by imitating its trill. He also removed the guitar from the AC/DC song Back In Black. I think the title was "Isolating Sounds Via Frequency Matching" but my google-fu has failed.
Help me make a movie
I would like to make a short documentary. I want it to not suck. I know nothing. [more inside]
Aviaries
What company makes these kinds of bird/lizard cages? [more inside]
My girlfriend is smothering me! How do I deal with this?
My girlfriend is smothering me! How do I deal with this?
I have been going out with my girlfriend for a few years, however of late she has become very smothering. I need time for myself and I consider that I give enough time to us, whilst leaving enough for myself. [more inside]
What shall I give?
What might you recommend I give away at a Farm Bill protest? [more inside]
Stop itching, please!
Embarrassing question about stuff going on with my lady parts. Probably NSFW. Apologies in advance for the following grossness within. [more inside]
Four interviews for one job?
I recently started interviewing for jobs for the first time in 7 years. Every single job (coordinator positions) seems to require multiple interviews and/or tests. The process can go on for two weeks. A friend who is trying to get a job as a waiter in a catering company told me he has gone through the same multiple interview thing! Is this common now, due to the recession, or what? I didn't get the first two jobs. I must come across as exhausted as I feel.
What was this magazine?
Looking for a magazine issue from the late 90s. Don't remember name or date. Scant details of the cover follow. [more inside]
What's the State of the Art in Font Embedding
What's the best current free or paid website font-embedding service? In terms of ease of use, stability, cross-browser-ity and general typographic badassness? [more inside]
cooking for two!
please throw me your recipes for two people to cook together! we're pretty advanced as far as cooking goes, so the more difficult, the better! a bit more inside. [more inside]
5-part humor or riddle for science presentation
Help me come up with a five-part joke, riddle, or comic strip to embed in 5 separate data presentations at a science conference. [more inside]
Star Trek:TNG Visual Cues
What visual cues do you need to see in an ST:TNG tv episode to know that the episode is over the hump of mediocrity from the early years of the series? [more inside]
Car Pay Diem
'02 Honda Accord V6 timing belt/fuel pump. $$$ = :( [more inside]
How do I get better at thinking on my feet?
How do I learn to think and react more quickly, especially in surprise situations or high excitement and/or stress situations. [more inside]
Losing faith in my dog whisperer
Am I wrong to lose faith in my dog obedience trainer? [more inside]
Should I drop university?
I'm in a huge dilemma-- should I drop university and pursue a hot new start up or should I persist and finish the degree? [more inside]
How to clone or duplicate a Wordpress entry?
Is there a Wordpress plugin or some super simple way to clone/duplicate a Wordpress entry in the dashboard? [more inside]
RELEASE THE DORK!
How do I learn to be more myself with someone I'm crushing on? [more inside]
getting my teeth right back where they started from...
How do I get my teeth BACK IN LINE?! I miss my straight teeth! [more inside]
Kona Luau
My husband and I will be in Kona, Hawaii on vacation in June. There are lots of different luau's advertised, but I was hoping for some help to figure out which one would be the best to go to. [more inside]
The Evidence! It's Inside the Game!
I am looking for a link to a specific crime drama video. [more inside]
Just one html answer can help prevent premature balding
Please help me insert line breaks in a Wordpress site that will appear the same in IE and Firefox. [more inside]
Groom needs a gift for his bride
What should I buy my wife-to-be as a wedding gift? [more inside]
72 hour rule for online dating?
Online dating: how long after receiving a response should I respond? [more inside]
Looking for a discount for MLB.TV
I want to buy MLB.tv Premium for my husband. Are there any discounts available? He seems to remember getting a discount through Sports Illustrated last year.
Fun things to do with kids in Boston
How can we best entertain my partner's middle-school-aged cousins during their trip to Boston? [more inside]
Name this piece of violin music
What is this piece of vaguely remembered classical music? The piece, or one movement of it, begins with an extended, ascending, dramatic violin solo that's a good minute long, and I think is titled something in the key of E. Any guesses?
bob vila and the like, please advise!
A screw that holds the wood facing facing of my silverware drawer onto the glides broke in the wood. After a long protracted battle, it ended up having to be "chiseled" out, making a big mess, and making a big crater in the facing. Good news, it is on the inside so it isn't an eyesore. Bad news, I have no idea how to fix it. I need to be able to put a screw back in - in that same spot. The crater/hole is about 1/4" deep and about 1" in diameter, and basically is as deep as the screw was drilled. I can't afford to go much deeper to grab into new wood bc it will drill into the front exposed part of the facing. My question is - can I use wood putty to fill the crater? Will that hold a screw strongly? Everything I've looked into about wood filler doesn't really address holding a screw that is used often so I'm not sure. Most talk about using a toothpick or matchstick but that won't work here because the crater is shallow and wide, and there is no hole anymore, just the crater. Handymen and women, please advise! thanks in advance!
How can life be made more like games?
How can life be made more like games? [more inside]
Writing on android
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4G VoiP tablet instead of Cell Phone?
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Is there such a thing as a truly collaborative medical diagnostic facility?
Does there exist, in the USA or anywhere else, an actual medical clinic where the doctors definitively work tag-team, sort of a la House M.D. (okay, minus the verbal abuse), to find diagnoses? [more inside]
Time to ditch the workgroup and take it up a notch?
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Yakitty Yak
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Does this Ethernet device exist? What is it called?
Does this Ethernet device exist? What is it called? [more inside]
How long does Flash Data last (if drive is only used once)
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Making a DIY dog septic system.
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How to deal with toxic friends/ex-classmates when they work in the same tight-knit industry as you?
How to deal with toxic friends/ex-classmates when they work in the same tight-knit industry as you? [more inside]
I keep almost-getting colds. Or is it something else?
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Where can I find the right tuning pegs for a Fender Starcaster Acoustic?
Fender Starcaster Acoustic: Can you help me find the right tuning pegs? (Picture links inside) [more inside]
Some girls just want to flash
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Bedtime is for kids. Or not.
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To thesis or not?
I am considering writing a senior honors thesis. Please help me work through the various worries I have so I can make a decision. [more inside]
Changing how I think about my girlfriends' sexual history
Problems with my girlfriends' sexual history. How do I change the way I think? [more inside]
Bad-Faith Bears
Please suggest sources - books, articles, confessions - dealing with the question of bad faith among priests or other adherents of some or other religious belief. [more inside]
Seeking mutually beneficial arrangement with research assistant.
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To reproduce or not to reproduce
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Simple small biz bookkeeping software for a Mac?
I need simple bookkeeping software for the Mac, and in a hurry. [more inside]
mason williams to van halen
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Suggestions for a great .name registrar?
I've got a client who owns several .name domains, registered with GoDaddy. She would like to move them off GoDaddy, so she's having me look for a replacement registrar. Any suggestions? [more inside]
The green fields of Frankreich
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Java App monitoring
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To bridge or not to bridge
what is having a dental bridge like? [more inside]
Can I take control of my written life?
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City rules governing advertising bicycles attached to cycle racks?
Anybody know their local city rules governing advertising bicycles attached to cycle racks? What does your city do? [more inside]
Local knowledge Requested
Can anyone please point me in the direction of a great place to watch the next leg (Malaysia) of the Formula 1 in Berlin next weekend? Going to Berlin for a few days and I would love to find some fellow F1 fans.
Help me find a high-quality replacement for some cheap shoes
How do guitar learners stay motivated and start "knowing" the fretboard?
I'm thinking about getting back to playing guitar after a decade. I never got past the basics the first time around, so I've always wondered about two things: how do experienced guitar players fundamentally see and "know" their instrument (especially where everything is on the fretboard), and what motivated them to keep practicing when they were newbies? [more inside]
He said, I said, she said
Help me prove my friend wrong. What are some works of fiction (novels, short stories, even poetry) written by women, but from the first-person point of view of a male character? [more inside]
Losing my wife to the black helicopter crowd - need help.
Looking for conspiracy theory debunking in Japanese. My wife is starting to worry me. [more inside]
Where to stay near Perpignan
Where to spend 10 days near Perpignan? [more inside]
I'm going to replace them with a quick release
The axle nuts on my front bike wheel seem to be stuck solid. Is there some sneaky trick to getting them to loosen up? [more inside]
Please reccommend me some wetland tree species for short rotation coppice.
Am wondering what tree species would make for a good short rotation copice for a wood burner. [more inside]
How do I learn written Chinese?
What is the best way to learn written Chinese? [more inside]
What is this German book?
German Book Filter. What book did I read? Involves yellow shoes... [more inside]
Name that film
What foreign film did I watch on television in the UK in the 80s [more inside]
Um...
Writing Portfolios: WAT? [more inside]
(Contemporary) Japanese karaoke hits
Karaoke in Japanese. Am looking for tracks with a karaoke version on YouTube for an event. This old post has some great ideas, but sadly half of them have been removed from YouTube. What Japanese language songs do you sing at karaoke at the moment?! The more contemporary the better
European festivals in July?
I'm trying to find something offbeat/curious/adventurous/ quaint to do in Europe in mid-July. Any suggestions? [more inside]
What is the best way to build sources and contacts in sports journalism ?
What is the best way to build contacts and sources in sports journalism without being labelled as a stalker ? I recognise there is a thin line between the sources (mostly celebrities) and the reporters who may be star struck.
Doing something socially unacceptable
Socially-unacceptable-filter: For people who do things that are extremely socially unacceptable, how do you hide it? How do you cope? What if you are outed? [more inside]
Does it REALLY have to be this expensive?
Need to rent a large car or small van to go from Akron, OH -> Wilmington DE -> to Dallas, TX -> Akron, OH and I was hoping to spend no more than $800 or so. Is this possible? Results I have found so far are discouraging. [more inside]
Am I risking my health trying to be healthy??
I recently purchased the Jillian Michael's Total-Body Kit. In doing some recent research about workouts to use with it, I came across this warning, which was in reference to the product I bought. What does it mean? [more inside]
Help me not get pregnant and make my partner happy
Non-barrier birth control... your experiences and advice? [more inside]
My netbook can't handle the internet anymore.
Recently, after a series of automated updates, Windows 7 (starter) intermittently will not connect to (seemingly) random, but reproducible websites. Other sites just lose all images. Help? [more inside]
how do I write a google-image snatch-and-caption code?
I'm thinking about building a little web thingy. Can some tech-savvy mefites point me in the right directions, code wise? [more inside]