December 2011 Archives
December 31
I need some advice about my relationship with my mom
I need some advice about my relationship with my mom. I'm moving back close to home soon and I was wondering if you guys had any advice on how to deal with an illogical religious person. Or more specifically, how do I reason with her to foster a better relationship? [more inside]
Live Mail and Verizon Broadband
Dell Laptop with Verizon Broadband Card - Live Mail issue. Help please. [more inside]
New years eve in Seattle
My plans for new years eve might be falling through due to flaky friends. Where can a single lady go in Seattle to have a fun (and not too crazy) new years eve celebration?
posted by lockstitch at 8:21 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lockstitch at 8:21 PM PST - 5 comments
Who should I use to get a domain name?
Who should I go through to buy a domain name? New to this part of internet-dom. (Both using MetaFilter and owning digital real estate) My plan is to have a domain name where I can post my as-yet-nonexistant blog as well as build my own personal brand. Are there any suggestions for a newbie as to who I should go through to buy the domain? A friend has offered me hosting space, but any advice on that would be appreciated as well. Thanks in advance!
Eat or toss?
I baked a potato (skin rubbed with olive oil and kosher salt before cooking), and stupidly left it in a cold oven for a few days. Looks ok (kind of shriveled, but not bad). Is it safe to reheat and eat?
posted by I'm Brian and so's my wife! at 7:40 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by I'm Brian and so's my wife! at 7:40 PM PST - 26 comments
Five... four... three... two... one...
Looking for interesting live webcasts to watch for New Year's Eve in the EST zone! [more inside]
posted by bzzt at 7:12 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by bzzt at 7:12 PM PST - 1 comment
Soccer w/ Teeth?
In American Soccer, is it within the rules to grab hold of the soccer ball with your teeth, and carry it down the field like a canine?
posted by flyinghamster at 6:30 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by flyinghamster at 6:30 PM PST - 18 comments
Feel strange during/after running my air purifier (non-ozone). Any ideas?
I feel a little strange during/after running my air purifier (non-ozone). Any ideas on what this means? [more inside]
Please help me find images of the wonderful office design I saw one day ...
I am looking for images/renderings of a particular kind of office 'layout' - where the design involves lots of: wood, greenery, light, 'interesting' spaces, and perhaps even multi-levels. [more inside]
How do I keep my hair looking this awesome?
As a Christmas present, my awesome mom paid for me to get glorious purple highlights done at an excellent salon in my hometown. How do I take care of them and keep them vivid for as long as possible? [more inside]
posted by fermion at 5:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by fermion at 5:39 PM PST - 13 comments
How do I make a text message-based mailing list?
I want to set up a mailing list of sorts, but with text messages instead of emails. What's a system like this called, and how do I do it? [more inside]
how to help a friend when she learns she may have terminal cancer
My friend is about to get get some very serious news regarding her health which carries with it a very, very poor prognosis and I am looking for advice on how to help her when she gets this news. [more inside]
posted by teamnap at 5:08 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by teamnap at 5:08 PM PST - 19 comments
Best Music of 2011 Playlist
I am looking for a playlist with songs that are best of 2011. I'm thinking along the lines of this Metafilter post but with all the songs in one playlist. Does such a thing exist somewhere? [more inside]
posted by likeatoaster at 4:43 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by likeatoaster at 4:43 PM PST - 11 comments
my lust for bargains and local food made me forget about my actual eating habits.
I lucked into a half of a side of some beautiful pasture raised, grass fed, organic beef from a local farmer for cheap! The good news is that we ended up getting this killer beef for less than $2 a pound and that it all fits in our chest freezer. The bad news is ... well... I've realized we don't really actually eat all that much beef. What are some interesting things to do with ground beef and potroast? [more inside]
posted by lilnublet at 4:05 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by lilnublet at 4:05 PM PST - 26 comments
Recommendation for a 35mm Scanning Workstation in NYC?
Can anyone recommend a place where I can scan 35mm slides on my own at a workstation in NYC? [more inside]
Media depictions of empathy?
Film and literature that depict empathy (or lack of) between adults? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 2:15 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by morganw at 2:15 PM PST - 38 comments
Any potential tax write-offs for long-distance commuters?
US-ian Tax questions: After a long hunt, this year I finally found a job (yay) several time-zones away from my husband and family (boo). The travel, additional housing, etc costs have consumed a lot of my income. Are any of those additional expenses potential write-offs for my taxes? [more inside]
Translating WriteNow Mac files
How can I translate thousands of files written in an old Macintosh word processing program called WriteNow, into a format that is easily accessible, probably Microsoft Word or RTF? It's a problem. I'm a writer and I used WriteNow exclusively for about 15 years. Now it is unsupported and an orphan. A translator program I used to use, MacLink Plus, no longer works on the current Lion operation system for Macintosh. Here's a link that describes WriteNow. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/WriteNow
posted by Alex Marshall at 1:27 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Alex Marshall at 1:27 PM PST - 10 comments
What's wrong with my Ninja 250R?
my 2008 kawasaki ninja 250R isn't running right. hoping someone might have an idea as to what's going on with it. [more inside]
posted by austere at 1:21 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by austere at 1:21 PM PST - 12 comments
How to keep daily family friction from escalating into end of the world drama daily?
How to keep daily family friction from escalating into end of the world drama daily? [more inside]
Bored games?
Need some grammar help
"It hadn't been raining all morning, but drops began to fall at lunchtime."- is the bolded clause grammatically correct? Is there ever a case where it could be properly used in a sentence? If the person wants to say that there hadn't been any rain that morning, wouldn't he say "It hadn't rained all morning, but drops began to fall at lunchtime"?
On the other hand, if the person is trying to say that it had rained that morning, but not non-stop the entire morning, how would he say it? He still wouldn't say "It hadn't been raining all morning,..." would he? Or would it be correct in that case?
Let's Cook Steakzilla
I've committed to barbecuing an 11-pound bone-in prime rib tonight. Should I cut it up into individual steaks or grill it as one giant roast? My grill is a hybrid gas and charcoal, if it matters. Any advice is helpful; I've never done anything this big. The diners' preference is for medium well and dinner will be in about seven hours.
it's raining men
Invitations for a (co-ed) baby shower. [more inside]
posted by gerryblog at 11:19 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by gerryblog at 11:19 AM PST - 19 comments
Help software developers work on their own!
I've been working with a group of 2 other senior engineers for several years. We each have about ten years experience doing web development, mainly doing high volume e-commerce sites. Our work is client services based, companies come to our company to build sites out. We'd like to do this for ourselves. Our question is very basic, what our options for bidding work or getting clients? Do recruiters ever have projects they give out to bid? Bonus: the other two engineers are female, so we'd qualify for any contracts that give weight to women owned businesses. [more inside]
This IS clearing out my sinuses, but still.
Dumb kitchen move question: how do you wash capsaicin out from inside your nose? [more inside]
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 11:10 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 11:10 AM PST - 26 comments
First time doing a roast beef, help.
MeFi cooks, please help me ace my New Year's Eve dinner of roast beef and mashed potatoes. [more inside]
Automatic PowerPoint Formatting Approaches?
I need to automate the format of outline-based information into slide presentations, given some simple rules. I can code. I have some ideas. What options am I missing? [more inside]
I broke my mp3 collection =(
I accidentally booted my two mismatched WD SATA AHCI drives in a RAID0 array and now the audio output from the media stored on those drives is static-filled and echoing (when it plays at all). Have I hosed my mp3 collection completely? [more inside]
Flake on me once, shame on you. Flake on me twice, shame on me.
I'd like some help thinking about how to respond to being blown off for the first time early on in a relationship. [more inside]
JS/blacoleRef.Q Trojan
My computer was just infected with the JS/blacoleRef.Q trojan. Microsoft Security Essentials was able to flag and quarantine the infection and allow me to download and install the latest malware definitions, (mpam-fe.exe), disconnect from the web and do a full system scan.
Another computer was used to go online and research JS/blacoleRef.Q. This trojan was described as not being removable by (most?) anti virus programs. The registry changes that were expected from this infection were not present. A change in a quarantined Firefox file located in my Application Data file had been removed.
This system was infected when I clicked on a photograph while doing a Google Image search for plumbing fittings.
How can I find if this trojan is still present and active in my system?
How, if it is still active in the system, can it be removed? I am very uncomfortable about making changes in my registry. I am also uncomfortable with making random selections of malware removal tools on the web.
Help!
Help identifying rash on lower back
In a tropical country, very itchy rash or bite, no doctor for the next few days. Can anyone help identify? [more inside]
posted by ke rose ne at 9:34 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by ke rose ne at 9:34 AM PST - 20 comments
help me eat while I'm sick
Sick with an ongoing fatigue/pain issue and I can't cook for myself anymore. I need some help eating healthy still. [more inside]
Cheap vacations secrets
Does anyone have any really cheap vacation secrets? I'm looking for inexpensive, do-it-yourself getaways to relaxing locales, that don't depend upon me perusing scammy travel websites. [more inside]
posted by jayder at 9:17 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by jayder at 9:17 AM PST - 10 comments
Supernatural romance(?) YA novel identification help
YA novel identification help - ghost girl takes over a body? [more inside]
posted by librarianamy at 9:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by librarianamy at 9:08 AM PST - 4 comments
I love my in-laws and my job, maybe a little too much.
I love my in-laws and my job, maybe a little too much. [more inside]
Little fun drinking game
My girlfriend drinks very little alcohol, but eventually she will drink a glass of champagne and maybe a beer today. We are having a private new Years party for the both of us and I want to do a little drinking game just for fun, maybe 30 min with shot glasses of beer. So does anybody know a fun little game? It should not be something kinky, or like "drink or tell". All the drinking games I know are quite hardcore and not suited well for this occasion. It may include some acrobatics, like running around a table or some such as we will have no bystanders. Thanks! (Our New Year's eve is in 6h, she comes home in 4, so hurry up)
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 8:30 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 8:30 AM PST - 11 comments
Best monitor for photography under Linux?
I am currently (still) using a CRT monitor and would like to move to an LCD panel. My primary usage is for photography and web browsing. I have spent the last three weeks or so researching monitors and have found out that (1) I will need to buy an IPS panel, (2) having looked at monitor sizes in the store I really would prefer a 27 or 30 inch monitor and (2) I have resigned myself to the fact that I should expect to pay at least $1,000 for a good monitor, possibly closer to $2,000. What monitor would you recommend? Is it really worth upgrading to a really high-end monitor ($2,000+)? More questions and details inside. [more inside]
posted by eurandom at 7:54 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by eurandom at 7:54 AM PST - 18 comments
'Tis the season for?
Give me some ideas for "wintery" activities/projects/etc. to follow through on my resolution to live in and celebrate the present by doing seasonal things on a regular basis. [more inside]
Help Me Rule The Galaxy at 1280x1024
I've just purchased Star Wars:The Old Republic, and my four-your old HP Pavilion is having a hard time keeping up. The game is playable if I drop the resolution to 800x600 and move all the video settings to "low". Obviously, I'd like a better play experience. However... [more inside]
posted by DWRoelands at 7:15 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by DWRoelands at 7:15 AM PST - 16 comments
Oh, let me just look that up. And pass the cookies.
Are there scholarly books, articles, etc. that address what has happened to the way our brains now work due to the ease in which we can satisfy our curiosity quickly via the internet? What's been lost in our brain power? We can now find answers within seconds, and all the time we used to spend thinking are gone. Seriously, has this affected how we think when we know answers can be found quickly? [more inside]
But officer, it was only five baguettes and a couple of flounder I still had in the freezer.
Short version: How many people can I feed at once before I'm legally required to register with some sort of governmental authority? [more inside]
posted by phrits at 6:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by phrits at 6:08 AM PST - 4 comments
I always say I have the best husband ever. Today I'm having a hard time remembering why.
Am I overreacting? I am emotionally fragile, recovering from a recent medical emergency, and I don't want my husband to be counting the hours he spends in our home office as time he spends with me. (somewhat long) [more inside]
Can I make my USB PS3 Singstar microphones work with my Wii?
Can I make my USB PS3 Singstar microphones work with my Wii? [more inside]
posted by richb at 2:30 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by richb at 2:30 AM PST - 2 comments
Identify an obscure Canadian TV show?
Looking for the name of a show that aired during the mid 1980s in BC on the Knowledge Network. The only detail I remember clearly is that one of the characters, a young Nordic-looking girl, was a hemophiliac.
December 30
New directions?
Where should I study philosophy? [more inside]
How do a Shy Girl and a Shy Guy Get Together?
How do I approach a shy guy, or how do shy guys like to be approached? [more inside]
posted by oceanview at 11:35 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by oceanview at 11:35 PM PST - 21 comments
bodybugg calorie counter readings seem inaccurate
Why is my bodybugg (R) saying I burned 2,000 calories while making dinner? [more inside]
posted by carielewyn at 11:34 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by carielewyn at 11:34 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for a good father/daughter book
Looking for a good father/daughter book for upcoming baby girls. (twins!) I've been looking but I've had some trouble because of three things I'm looking for: [more inside]
Farming in Jaipur India
Hi, i will be working with a group of woman in Jaipur, India later in the year that creat handly crafts, the woman farm or 4 months of the year and in the off season are tough basic handicraft techniques to create income.
I trying to find out what these woman farmers produce from the land.
Does anyone know what Is grown and farmed in the area around Jaipur.
Plz halp
Can you recommend some software that will automagically create a decent work schedule? [more inside]
365 New Beginnings
What questions can I ask myself every day as part of a year-long self-study that will (hopefully) chronicle my personal and professional growth? [more inside]
Help with statistics!
Statistics help - What test should I use? Help needed for a novice. [more inside]
Peer review review
Can you help me figure out number of papers per year for a few top journals? [more inside]
New Year's Drinking game
Long running drinking game for New Year's Eve? At previous parties, the host bought Hot Wheels cars for everyone, and if someone asked to see yours and you didn't have it, you would have to drink. Know any similar long running drinking games? No cards or table play, just milling around/mingling (drinking) games? [more inside]
posted by skinnydipp at 8:43 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by skinnydipp at 8:43 PM PST - 13 comments
Business checking account
I need to open a business checking account for my small business. Can anyone chime in on a good bank for this? Also, I'm in the Dallas, Tx area. Thanks in advance!
How to help the hungry?
Asking for a friend: What is the best thing a typical person could do to combat food insecurity in children in the United States? [more inside]
posted by reren at 8:01 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by reren at 8:01 PM PST - 14 comments
What does this make?
We have a few random ingredients. Is there a website where you put in what you have and it tells you what can be made with those ingredients? Alternately, what should we make for dinner (for two) with what we have? [more inside]
Mine! Mine! All Mine!
Mr. Terrier and I received a bottle of Veuve Clicquot Ponsardin Yellow Label as a present a couple weeks ago. Since, then, we've been invited to a small New Year's Eve gathering. I don't actually know how many people will be there (since it's the worst possible manners to ask "who else will be there?" when invited to a 'do.) [more inside]
posted by BostonTerrier at 7:59 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by BostonTerrier at 7:59 PM PST - 25 comments
Can't wash this man out of my hair! Help!
I dated a guy for a month almost three months ago, and I can't stop thinking about him. Help me get out of this mental rut! [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle at 7:33 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by ablazingsaddle at 7:33 PM PST - 16 comments
Dexter Season Six
Slightly spoiler-ish question about the latest season of Dexter: [more inside]
posted by thewittyname at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by thewittyname at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
Not My Doctor Filter
Do I just have a lingering cold or could there be something else wrong with me? Also why are my tonsils gray? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 7:01 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 7:01 PM PST - 8 comments
Please help me set up a small, humble home recording studio
New to home-recording and need recommendations for a condenser mic, reference monitors, a few other things. [more inside]
Dating advice for my best friend
What advice can I give to my best friend about her relationship with a man who is separated. [more inside]
posted by i_wear_boots at 6:03 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by i_wear_boots at 6:03 PM PST - 15 comments
Albums that pick you up and take you with them?
What are some great, coherent, sing-along-able albums? [more inside]
Online resources for selling a restaurant in London
Are there any useful online listings services for selling a restaurant in London? [more inside]
Tonneau Cover FTW?
My husband just bought a '98 Mazda B4000 pickup. He wants to buy a Tonneau Cover for it. What specifics should we look for? [more inside]
what is this lump by my dick?
YANMD. But what might this lump in my groin be? [more inside]
posted by tr33hggr at 3:44 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by tr33hggr at 3:44 PM PST - 15 comments
Where to FranklinCovey geeks hang out?
Fellow productivity geeks: I'm trying to find an online community where FranklinCovey adherents and users of Franklin Planners hang out. Any ideas? [more inside]
How do I get my cats to stop knocking things over?
How do I cat-proof a bookshelf and desk? My cats like to climb on my bookshelf and desk and knock things off of them, sometimes for fun and sometimes to get my attention. I would like them to stop doing this. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:22 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by anonymous at 3:22 PM PST - 32 comments
How do I ship booze from Ohio to Australia?
How can I ship vodka to Australia from Ohio?!? I know the USPS won't ship hooch, but is there ANYONE that will. I'm trying to send some locally-made vodka to a very special lady in Sydney, but it's starting to look dire. HELP!
Company sale: are we there yet?
What is the timeline of the sale of a business? [more inside]
time to switch to direct deposit...
I accidentally endorsed a money order meant for my landlord. How can I fix this? [more inside]
In search of a large club for New Year's Eve in NYC!
In search of a large club for New Year's Eve in NYC! [more inside]
Interested in everything, experienced in nothing. What to choose?
Interested in many things, experienced in none. I want to change my career, but how do I figure out which way to go? [more inside]
Give me a monster for my drainpipe.
Are there gutter gargoyles for larger diameter drainpipes? [more inside]
help me sell this albatross
How do I sell this car? Special s--tflake details, I can't drive it, it doesn't run, it is a green 1997 mg, and it was written off on insurance due to a bonnet dent which was never fixed. Oh also nasty ex b.s. [more inside]
New Year Renewal
I'm looking for a mediation/yoga retreat in the Pacific Northwest or Northern California. [more inside]
What's going on with my camera? :(
Fie on phi!
8 days to kill in Colorado...
Free plane ticket to Colorado during the last week of January. Will be visiting friends in Breckenridge for a few days but have the rest wide open. Any suggestions for where to go and what to do? Also, is an SUV necessary in winter? [more inside]
posted by slowtree at 12:21 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by slowtree at 12:21 PM PST - 12 comments
I want to make my own UV reactive substances
I'd like to take a clear plastic and make it photochromatic, like you find in transition eyeglass lenses. [more inside]
"I'll Take Some Tennesee, Please."
Why is Scotch whisky called that, instead of "Scottish whisky"? And how did Scotch, which is (or should be) used as a versatile adjective, become short for the whisky itself? I'd think that'd be similar to calling Tennessee whiskey simply "Tennessee." Just curious. Thanks in advance.
posted by whitebird at 12:08 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by whitebird at 12:08 PM PST - 10 comments
What books do you have, that you bought in the '70s?
Were you an adult in the '70s? What books do you have, that you bought during that time period? [more inside]
The Library of Congress has my cheese sandwich
I'd like all my past, present and future Twitter activity to get saved to a text (csv or xml or whatever) file on Dropbox. I'd like to think about this as little as possible. What's my best bet? [more inside]
The answer isn't in the books I guess.
I feel overwhelmed, maybe because I am down with a bad cold, so I am hoping you can tell me how to get three bookshelves of books from CA to NYC. Constraints: cheaper is better, heavier is worse, and being home to get the packages is a serious challenge. Should I be shipping them in dozens of little boxes? Is there a better way? How am I ever going to get my collection out of my parents' basement and into my apartment? Like an adult? Move ALL the books? Cough cough help.
What are some tips you can provide me for sticking to a strict budget and avoiding the temptation to spend?
What are some tips you can provide me for sticking to a strict budget and avoiding the temptation to spend? [more inside]
posted by chatelaine at 11:22 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by chatelaine at 11:22 AM PST - 24 comments
What is the best Latin lexicon for translating theological works, especially John Calvin?
What is the best Latin lexicon for translating theological works, especially John Calvin? [more inside]
posted by uncannyslacks at 11:17 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 11:17 AM PST - 2 comments
There is moldcheese in my drip pan and I don't know what to do.
The drip pan of my friend's fridge is infested with mold, and it's nonremovable, too. How should he clean this in the quickest manner possible? [more inside]
My New Year's Resolution is to Stop Procrastinating
What is the best sparkling wine or champagne under 20 dollars? Also, I need help with a last-minute New Year's celebration. [more inside]
How can I get Windows to work?
My Vista laptop isn't successfully restoring itself to factory condition. [more inside]
posted by Trurl at 10:21 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Trurl at 10:21 AM PST - 10 comments
Recent college grad seeking advice on becoming therapist
What can I do now to prepare for career as therapist when I'm older? [more inside]
Turn my binder collection into electronic gold!
I want to compile and organize hard copies of recipes, craft projects, and other household things into something electronic - not particular about if local computer (Mac, OS 10.7) or cloud-based. Bonus points if accessible from multiple devices (computer, iphone, ipad, etc.). What solutions should I consider? [more inside]
In search of Portobello and shrimp recipe for New Year's yummies
Help me make Portobello mushrooms + small frozen shrimp = delicious New Year's eve hors d'oeuvre? [more inside]
posted by taz at 10:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by taz at 10:05 AM PST - 9 comments
How to take the best photos of fireworks from up high?
I will be seeing in the New Year at the top of a 100 meter tall building in Buenos Aires. I have a Canon SX30 IS, a fairly high-end point and click which has plenty of manual settings. I want to make the most of the viewpoint to take photos of the fireworks that will be going off around the city - what should I know? [more inside]
Fashion and interior design experts: please help my friend put a name to this style/aesthetic sensibility.
Fashion and interior design experts: please help my friend put a name to this style/aesthetic sensibility. [more inside]
The Lion, the Switch, and the MeFite
Now that you've been living with OS X Lion for a few months, what do you wish you had known before you upgraded? [more inside]
E-reader Reading Light Recommendations
Looking for recommendations for a reading light for an e-reader. [more inside]
posted by backwards guitar at 9:40 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by backwards guitar at 9:40 AM PST - 7 comments
Flights to Reunion
Idle travel dreaming question: what is a good approach to booking a flight from the U.S. to Mauritius or Reunion? [more inside]
A cheerful tune or two?
Suggestions for peppy, happy, instrumental music, similar to Shugo Tokumaru's - The Mop and Dave Richmond's Movin' Along? [more inside]
Number transfer process for Google Voice
How can I switch my phone to Google Voice once I'm no longer in the country? Any recommendations on services similar to google voice to consider? [more inside]
posted by jeffburdges at 8:36 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jeffburdges at 8:36 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me kill this zombie relationship for good
I'm in an unhappy, unhealthy relationship-- I'm scared I might even be emotionally abusing my boyfriend. Should I break up with him now or wait until later? How can I make sure that the break-up will last? [more inside]
How does equity even work?
How to bring up the question of getting my hands on some equity in the company I work for? I work at a small (>10 employees) engineering firm contributing greatly to the intellectual property in which we trade. I get paid decently (for which I am definitely grateful) but there's never been any discussion of earning any equity... [more inside]
Can you exercise your imagination to move very fast? and is there a paper on that, sort of?
Can people visualize themselves moving faster than they are physically capable of moving? [more inside]
posted by bleary at 8:25 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by bleary at 8:25 AM PST - 16 comments
I have a messy desk. Help me with better ideas.
I have a messy desk. Please help with suggestions/ideas on how to make a better arrangement. [more inside]
posted by Argyle at 8:24 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Argyle at 8:24 AM PST - 12 comments
What TYPE of mortgage/loan should I get?
I have a new 80/15/5 loan I took out in 2007 (6.125%/8.25%) and would like to take advantage of better rates. Who is the best person to help me figure out what type of mortgages/home equity loans I should get? [more inside]
How Do You Like Your Tea?
How do I get the most out of my teabag giftset?! [more inside]
Bad dogs!
We broke our dogs and we don't know what we're doing wrong. Please help! [more inside]
Help me find a a concern that can use me
What should I do now? I have no job, no child, no B.A., no debt, no mortgage, am female and am in my 40s. Help me see the possibilities! I have both no idea and every idea. [more inside]
Stunner Shades SOS
Help me find awesome and cheap prescription sunglasses! [more inside]
I totally would've been Pvt. Pyle in Full Metal Jacket
When playing sports, I don't handle the "drill sergeant" personality well, at all. How do I change myself? [more inside]
Getting over someone without cutting contact
How do I get over someone without cutting contact? [more inside]
Lazy green New Year's resolution
I usually use the New Year for a small environmental resolution. Can you help me find a good one for this year? [more inside]
posted by sciencegeek at 6:41 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by sciencegeek at 6:41 AM PST - 19 comments
Recommend bluetooth headsets for my android
Please recommend a bluetooth headset for my samsung android. [more inside]
posted by julen at 6:35 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by julen at 6:35 AM PST - 5 comments
MS Access newbie needs advice!
MS Access 2010 Help - I need to create something that allows a small group of people to add records and search records within a database and after much googling I'm thoroughly confused. [more inside]
Windows 7 thinks I am connected to a projector and my laptop screen is black. How can I force it to return to normal?
Windows 7 thinks I am connected to a projector and my laptop screen is black. How can I force it to return to normal? [more inside]
posted by jeremias at 5:52 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jeremias at 5:52 AM PST - 6 comments
seeking a weird, but very helpful, device that miraculously helps my PTSD
I am trying to buy an EMDR device (psychological-support device used to treat PTSD, etc.) somewhere in NYC in the next few days if at all possible. I know great places for general medical supplies and devices, but is there a store for psychological/psychiatric intervention devices in our great metropolis? [more inside]
Help me find the on-screen music from "Hugo" please!
Any idea how to acquire the source music from the new Scorsese film Hugo? The stuff the band is playing in the cafe and party scenes, in other words? [more inside]
posted by Shotgun Shakespeare at 4:45 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Shotgun Shakespeare at 4:45 AM PST - 5 comments
What specifically is wrong / bad about skeletons in Chinese culture?
Skeletons wrong / bad / taboo in Chinese culture? [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb at 3:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Meatbomb at 3:44 AM PST - 7 comments
Will Silly Archaic Art Form Turn Beloved Daughter into Quasiomodo?
My 4-year-old daughter is getting really into ballet. I've observed her standing in fifth position at home, on the train, etc. Is this going to screw up her musculoskeletal structure at some point? Should I prevent her from taking these highly-unnatural positions when not in the context of actual ballet practice?
December 29
I'm not weird, I'm practicing my dynamic flamingo therapy.
Instead of New Year Resolutions, I'd like to ask: what are your favorite efficiency tricks in daily life, which I can adopt for 2012? [more inside]
Order my zombie.
I have three folders on my Kindle.. Fiction, Non-fiction and Reference. Where do I place 'The Zombie Survival Guide'?
Last resort before moving to the cool desert environment of...where?
Is it safe to use antiperspirant on your scalp? [more inside]
I'd rather go than go to sleep.
Does constipation subside eventually with Amitriptyline (Elavil)? [more inside]
Where can I get my cowboy on in OC?
Where can I get my cowboy on in Southern California? [more inside]
posted by eddydamascene at 9:23 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by eddydamascene at 9:23 PM PST - 2 comments
Please point me toward some religious history lessons.
I'm doing some shallow research on Christianity, its development and its place in popular life throughout time. Please help me find outstanding books on this subject! [more inside]
Friends with...?
At the dinner table we were talking about code phrases to self identify belonging to a specific group that are used in public (cruise ships, bars etc...) such as "being friends with Bill W" or "friends of Dorothy" for members of AA and lgbt. Are there any more examples that you can think of?
posted by saradarlin at 9:10 PM PST - 80 comments
posted by saradarlin at 9:10 PM PST - 80 comments
20 grand seems like a lot of money for not that much work...
Do we, as unique special snowflakes, really need to use a buyer's agent? My husband and I are at a crossroads about whether to work with one or try to do without. Inside, I give a ton of personal details and you tell me who is right and who is wrong! [more inside]
What's the best way to extract juice while baking sweet potatoes?
How can I extract the maximum caramelized juice from sweet potatoes? [more inside]
posted by TreeHugger at 7:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by TreeHugger at 7:06 PM PST - 9 comments
What is 24 years anyway?
I'm dating someone 24 years my senior... what now? [more inside]
I Want to Draw Stuff
What is the coolest iPad drawing app(s)? [more inside]
Vibrator Suggestions
Help me find a new vibrator. [more inside]
Calming strategies/advice for impending older-child adoption?
Best way to calm new adoptive parent fears and prepare for attachment issues? [more inside]
Package hasn't arrived. No tracking number. Lost cause?
Sent package from MN to Toronto 3 weeks ago. It hasn't arrived. I have no way to track it. Is this a lost cause? [more inside]
posted by Laura Macbeth at 5:09 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Laura Macbeth at 5:09 PM PST - 12 comments
Grounding the negative clamp when jump-starting your car
Question about jump-starting a car: why did my neighbor absolutely insist I ground the negative clamp... to the battery? That seems unwise. [more inside]
Not a nautical themed pashmina afghan, please.
I'm looking for a gift for someone who just bought an ancient 35-foot yacht that she intends to spend the next couple of years renovating, and then live in. I want it to be kind of a house-warming gift, but, y'know, for a boat. [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 4:40 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by lollusc at 4:40 PM PST - 19 comments
How to make and keep good habits?
ResolutionFilter: I really want to start slowly adopting new, healthier habits. As it usually does, the inspiration has hit me just before New Years. But I don't want to make a resolution, I want to establish habits that I can keep. I've tried before, but here's where I always fall down: how do I make the new habits stick? They never actually make it to the "habit" stage for me. [more inside]
posted by duien at 4:24 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by duien at 4:24 PM PST - 30 comments
Please help me stop my blankets from shedding like a golden retriever.
How do I keep my blankets from shedding lint all over the place? (Alternatively, please help me find blankets that do not shed.) [more inside]
Credit monitoring? Identity theft protection? Wouldn't it have been cheaper to just encrypt the data?
A few months ago, SAIC lost a backup tape with the names, social security numbers, addresses, and medical treatment information of roughly 5 million TRICARE patients in the San Antonio, TX area between 1992 and 2011. My name was amongst them, and I'm being offered a year of "credit monitoring and restoration services" as compensation. Are there any downsides to taking it? Any real upsides? [more inside]
posted by SemiSophos at 4:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by SemiSophos at 4:06 PM PST - 9 comments
How does one actually succeed in dating?
What does it take for someone to actually want something to do with you? [more inside]
IPv4 person wants to deploy an educational but functional IPv6 network
IPv4-savvy person looking to get started implementing a home/work test IPv6 network: I'm swimming in too much information. Can someone who has done this help me with where to start? [more inside]
posted by introp at 3:29 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by introp at 3:29 PM PST - 7 comments
Bent out of shape over a ring... Treebeard would be proud.
Is there any noticeable, physical difference in any of these wooden rings? Moreover, are any of them a better choice for a wedding ring that will be worn daily? (Links and more wooden ring info than you ever wanted inside) [more inside]
posted by RolandOfEld at 3:14 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by RolandOfEld at 3:14 PM PST - 14 comments
Is this paralyzed dog always going to be in pain?
Mini Daschund with Intervertebral Disk Disease: Your experiences and advice, should we put her to sleep, or could she improve? [more inside]
posted by catatethebird at 3:13 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by catatethebird at 3:13 PM PST - 16 comments
Trying to find the radio-edit of the 1978 song "Time Passages"
I love the song "Time Passages" by Al Stewart from the same-titled album. I am one of the few that actually like the radio edit better. I cannot find it anywhere available to listen to or download though know it was on 1978 AM Gold by Time-Life which I cannot afford (rare CD). I tried getting that cd from interlibrary loan to no avail. Does anybody know where else it might be lurking?
posted by snap_dragon at 3:06 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by snap_dragon at 3:06 PM PST - 2 comments
What to expect with Seroquel
I've been prescribed Seroquel (Quetiapine). This is the first antipsychotic I've been given. What can I expect? What helps? [more inside]
Am I a total snob for being embarrassed by my friend's table habit?
Am I a total snob for being embarrassed by my friend's table habit? If so, how can I fix it? [more inside]
Saving on passport photos?
PassportPhotoFilter: I need 15 passport photos, am not finding inexpensive places (in the San Francisco area) or discounts on more than two so I'm looking at the price for two times eight. Am I missing something to think I can get two, go to FedEx Office and copy them on one of their machines for 49 cents per photo? Definitely wouldn't want to ship these things overseas, learn that they are unacceptable. Thanks for thoughts and any tips on bargain places in the SF area.
posted by ambient2 at 2:43 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by ambient2 at 2:43 PM PST - 13 comments
Hyperlocal info sought re: Metrolink and Union Station in LA
I'm trying to figure out the best way to walk to the Metrolink trains at LA's Union Station from where I work. [more inside]
Where the hell can I buy this bottle?
Any idea where I could buy a Sigg water bottle in London tomorrow? I've ordered one online, but the company have let me down - it's a last-minute gift for a loved one so it has to be tomorrow! I don't even know where to start and Googling "Sigg bottle stockists london" has got me nowhere. Thanks for any help!
posted by Ted Maul at 2:40 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Ted Maul at 2:40 PM PST - 10 comments
Backup image of hard drive and bare metal restore
Backup and Bare Metal Restore Best Practices: What is the current state of the art for dead-simple drive imaging? I need to backup a mix of Windows 7, Ubuntu, and OSX computers. I would like to do a full drive image, so that in the event of a problem restoration is simple. I need a solution that is automated in the sense that I start the process and can walk away. (Bonus points if it's automated in the sense that it can run automatically at certain intervals from another computer on the network or a NAS.) Ideally, the backup image would be compressed to save space, but my main concern is that it shouldn't take a lot of time or learning curve to set the process up or manually start the process when it's time to backup. Help? [more inside]
How can I get my sex drive back?
How can I get my sex drive back? I am a 26 year old male. I don't recall exactly when my problems started, but it's been going on for over a month. I'd like to think that I'm too young still for such a steep drop in libido to be normal. What makes it more worrisome for me is that I have no idea what might be causing it. [more inside]
What's the best way to get a job in software development with no previous experience?
What's the best way to get a job in software development with no previous experience? More details inside.. [more inside]
The Thick of My Life
What was this band I saw in the Chicago suburbs? [more inside]
posted by Marie Mon Dieu at 1:47 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Marie Mon Dieu at 1:47 PM PST - 5 comments
How to simply back up to a remote disk without putting my data in the cloud?
Simple way to do remote backups to a network-attached storage device? I prefer to avoid using commercial cloud services like Mozy, but would like offsite backup at a relative's house on a disk I own. [more inside]
what can i read in one sitting?
I am going to read a novella* a week in 2012. Lay em on me. [more inside]
Help me come up with a quitting-smoking Plan B
So I kind of made up my mind a few days ago to quit smoking via the Wellbutrin/Zyban method. But now I can't get a Doctor's appointment until Feb 8 and I'm already losing my resolve! [more inside]
US Treasury Bond, Silver, Gold or What?
I just became an uncle (Yay!) and I want to get my nephew a gift to help him start saving. My first inclination was to get him a US Treasury Bond, but I was wondering: Is buying an equivalent amount in gold or silver a better long term (30 plus years) investment?
Cat Filter: Should we get an optional surgery done for our one-eyed wonder kitten?
Help a kitten momma make the right decision!
Should we have our one-eyed kitten's non-eye sewn shut? [more inside]
posted by beloveddoll at 12:50 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by beloveddoll at 12:50 PM PST - 16 comments
Help me figure out crate training for my new puppy.
I'm getting a new puppy next week and need some suggestions about crate training. All the overly-long special snowflake details are inside. [more inside]
Wowing a nurse manager
About to enter my final semester in nursing school. Despite the shortage etc, there are very few jobs for new grads at the moment, particularly where I live. What specific behaviors will help me impress the staff at my final clinical site enough that they'll consider hiring me after I graduate? [more inside]
posted by latkes at 12:38 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by latkes at 12:38 PM PST - 6 comments
So you can probably guess what my New Year's resolution is going to be...
I have two 25-lb. dumbbells and typical living room furniture. I need to workout - strength building, not cardio, for this question. Difficulty level: I can't make much noise, because my two-year-old will be asleep in the next room. [more inside]
Be my high school guidance counselor: what career should I choose?
What are some jobs that are task-oriented but will still make use of my creativity and university education? [more inside]
Possible legal issues for using a video game brand in a song?
Possible legal issues for using a video game brand in a song? [more inside]
Gmail account compomised but not sure how
My Gmail account was compromised a few days ago and the password was changed. I've since recovered it, but I'm wondering what could have caused it. [more inside]
Should I get my MBA after I get my Bachelors of Science in Computer Science?
Should I get my MBA after I get my Bachelors of Science in Computer Science? [more inside]
Side effects of diabetic coma?
Please can anyone offer advice / guidance on what appear to be mild side effects following a diabetic coma? [more inside]
Am I making it worse by writing out all the gory details that piss me off?
Writing out your anger: does it help or hurt? [more inside]
posted by thrasher at 11:28 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by thrasher at 11:28 AM PST - 24 comments
PC VIRUS HELP! My laptop running XP has something nasty.
Does anybody have any ideas on a fix short of a re-installation of Windows? [more inside]
Lifetime leather jacket?
I'm 19, and I want to buy a leather jacket to last me the rest of my life. Any suggestions as to brands, styles, or where to get one? Ideally I could wear it all my life, wear it in like a good pair of boots, and possibly hand it down to my son, or at least my 10-year-younger brother when it became his time.
How to flatten photos of a round object?
Straightforward way to take a flattened "panoramic" photograph of a round object? [more inside]
posted by j.edwards at 11:24 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by j.edwards at 11:24 AM PST - 9 comments
If you could live anywhere...
I'm sick of Oklahoma, sick of cold and snow, sick of everything to do with this place. I want out of the state, but cant' decide where to go next. Over the last few years I've lived in San Diego, Orlando, Cocoa Beach, the Chicago area, Tulsa Ok, and originally the Phoenix area. Most of my moves have been prompted by having a friend with a couch willing to pick me up from the Greyhound station, but this time I'd like to go somewhere completely new and for the first time truly start over on my own. [more inside]
How Do I Cram for a German Placement Test?
How do I shake off the rust and review four years of German language and grammar in a short time period? [more inside]
What should I use to create an internal manual for my department?
What is the best (Mac compatible) program/thing to use to write an internal manual for my department at work? [more inside]
posted by insufficient data at 10:43 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by insufficient data at 10:43 AM PST - 6 comments
Your effort is worth zero until you're done, and you're never done.
Self-therapy ideas: How to encourage appropriate celebration of small accomplishments? [more inside]
Is there a way to make this easier? I'll be doing it for the next twenty years or so...
How can I automate email or text notifications to myself that any given employee's certification is a month away from expiring? [more inside]
This is why tech-illiterate types should not film themselves having sex...
Best way to save a video of an...um...intimate nature that was taken with phone? [more inside]
What kind of microphone do I need for recording audio for an automated telephone system?
I would like to use Audacity to record voice audio files for an automated telephone system. What kind of microphone setup (USB or standard headphone / mic jacks) that will work with my laptop do I need? [more inside]
posted by banished at 9:32 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by banished at 9:32 AM PST - 5 comments
"Three little sentences will get you through life. Number 1: Cover for me. Number 2: Oh, good idea, Boss! Number 3: It was like that when I got here." Homer Simpson
Does your profession or hobby have a pithy saying that encapsulates the work or its ethics? For example, "Make no little plans" (Daniel Burnham) resonates with city planners. Perhaps "First do no harm" (or Primum non nocere) might be an example related to physicians and other health care workers... or is it just outsiders who think so? What about "Serve and protect" for law enforcement? The quotes can be funny, ironic or sincere... it doesn't matter so long as they are short (think something that could be engraved on a charm) and people in the profession recognize the phrase as somehow emblematic of their work. Thanks in advance!
We know where we're going, just not where we're coming from.
We're looking for an app that will help logically determine which store should deliver to a given customer, based on drive-time. [more inside]
posted by BigLankyBastard at 9:15 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by BigLankyBastard at 9:15 AM PST - 12 comments
Which way to go in my continuing education?
I finished my associates two years ago and I believe it is time to begin taking classes again in order to improve myself. As an IT professional, should I aim for useful certificates or a bachelor's degree? [more inside]
Can i make a reality show into a musical?
Legality/advisability of turning a reality show season into a musical? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 8:58 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 8:58 AM PST - 11 comments
Tall Person + Couch = Happiness?
My boyfriend (who is 6'4") and I are buying a couch, and we're looking for one that would provide neck support for his head. My previous question about our cats has led me to believe we'd be best with a microfiber couch, but most tall-backed couches seem to be made of leather. Any ideas? [more inside]
How do I move without losing my job?
In two years I'll be graduating with a master's in internal systems auditing and control. I've never worked with an accounting firm before because my first degree is in English, but I wanted to set myself up to be able to move easily. Would I have to quit my job in order to move or would I have to hope that I get transferred to said location? [more inside]
Tomorrow, to Wegman's I go!
What should I get at Wegman's? [more inside]
Help me not to romanticize dating
Help me not to romanticize the experience of playing the dating game. [more inside]
There's a fratboy in the house of nerds
Please help me wrest an amazing company from the clutches of one overgrown frat boy. [more inside]
Ten strings stand between me and happiness
Where can I buy some Chapman Stick strings in southern or eastern Ontario? [more inside]
How to annoy a 15yr old boy!
Looking for ideas on the most annoying and fun way to give my nephew cash for the holidays... because I am THAT uncle! [more inside]
posted by niteHawk at 7:50 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by niteHawk at 7:50 AM PST - 31 comments
Buying quality furniture at a lower price
I'm in need of new furniture and I'm wondering if I can buy on-line cheaper than the local furniture store prices. I'm looking at manufacturers like Hickory Chair, Baker, Henredon.
I know the advice of buying used, i.e. craigs list, estate sales etc. However, there are a few things I need right away and can't wait until the perfect used piece becomes available.
Any suggestions would be helpful. I live in Santa Rosa, CA which is 60 miles north of San Francisco. [more inside]
What book to buy Ebeneezer Scrooge for Christmas
Book suggestions for Ebeneezer Scrooge. [more inside]
Hey you kids, get off my walkway!
Which pedestrians move aside while passing? When pedestrians walking at approximately equal strolling speeds in opposite directions are on a collision course, assuming each has a clear path to move aside, who yields? Help me not be THAT PERSON at the mall. [more inside]
Help me learn about online universities.
What are some good resources to start researching online universities? Or, what are some of the most reputable online universities? [more inside]
posted by Telf at 4:42 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Telf at 4:42 AM PST - 9 comments
Hey, I don't really want to hug her, either.
Unwilling toddlers and forced social interactions with adults: is it OK to instruct your child to (for instance) hug Great-Aunt Maisie, when she'd prefer not to? [more inside]
Begone Norton Security
How do you do a clean install of Windows without the CD/DVD? [more inside]
posted by dave99 at 2:56 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by dave99 at 2:56 AM PST - 6 comments
Stopmotion animation project ideas for kids
Give me ideas for stop-motion animation projects I can do with my young daughter. [more inside]
posted by snarfois at 2:31 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by snarfois at 2:31 AM PST - 14 comments
If a pop song is used on an advert, who gets the money?
Pop music royalties: If a song is used on an advert, who gets the money? (UK) [more inside]
posted by humblepigeon at 1:58 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by humblepigeon at 1:58 AM PST - 2 comments
Help me choose a front loader washing machine
What is the best front loading washing machine, for under $1000, available in Australia, that meets this criteria: [more inside]
posted by MT at 12:49 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by MT at 12:49 AM PST - 4 comments
December 28
Why should I keep my iPad?
Should I keep my iPad? [more inside]
Kevin Arnold Approved
Can anyone tell me what episode of the Wonder Years this "Kevin giving thumbs up" gif comes from?
posted by Jezztek at 11:24 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Jezztek at 11:24 PM PST - 2 comments
I am not the computer wizard you think I am.
Buying a computer. Except I know far less about computers than my folks think I do... [more inside]
posted by Hakaisha at 10:46 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Hakaisha at 10:46 PM PST - 9 comments
Thyroids for Dummies
I just started taking levothyroxine for hypothyroid issues I didn't really suspect I had: what can I expect? [more inside]
Help me "Wow!" Santa
What are some good resources to learn how to decorate for Christmas? [more inside]
Do people still wear that?
I inherited a bunch of Native American jewelry (several hundred pieces in total) several years ago. I'm thinking about selling some of it, but I'm not sure of the value. Do I need to find a specialist to appraise it? Can you recommend one near St. Louis? [more inside]
posted by DaddyNewt at 10:37 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by DaddyNewt at 10:37 PM PST - 7 comments
Plan our romantic weekend
Husband and I are broke, and planning a romantic weekend in his parents' (empty) house sometime in January. We need stuff to do that will make it fun/special. [more inside]
How to celebrate New Year's Eve while house-bound?
My wife loves going out to celebrate New Year's Eve in style, but we've got a three-week-old baby this time around. How do we celebrate at home, just the two (well, three) of us? If you mark the occasion in this style, how do you do it? [more inside]
posted by waldo at 9:33 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by waldo at 9:33 PM PST - 16 comments
Realplayer youtube
I like to pull clips down from the internet. Youtube etc. using real player, its great except when the voice doesn't match the mouths movement. Why does it do that? Can I make it stop? Can I fix it?
Why do grad schools need to know what other schools you are applying to?
Why do grad school applications ask you what other schools you are applying to? Will being honest hinder my chances at getting into a competitive program? [more inside]
Which Simpsons "Behind the Laughter" line was lifted from "Behind the Music"?
Which line from the "Simpsons" episode where they're on a "Behind the Music"-style documentary is actually lifted directly from a "Behind the Music" episode? Wikipedia says: "The episode contains many references and allusions to Behind the Music, and one line the staff thought was humorous was pulled straight from the actual series." That info is credited to a DVD commentary interview on the 11th season DVD. But what's the line? (I'm assuming Wikipedia is correct, which could be a wrong assumption.)
Name this very quiet background song?
Can you name the song [29-second excerpt, 462k mp3] that's playing all too quietly in the background of a scene from season 2 episode 8 of Happy Endings?
posted by night kitchen at 8:16 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by night kitchen at 8:16 PM PST - 5 comments
NYE in Quebec City?
What should I do in Quebec City this New Year's Eve? [more inside]
posted by iona at 8:11 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by iona at 8:11 PM PST - 2 comments
Are dash cameras worth it?
Is having a dash camera worthwhile? If so, any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by vegartanipla at 8:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by vegartanipla at 8:06 PM PST - 9 comments
South is Where the Birds Go
Car, sleeping bag, gas money, no plan, vague destination. How many ways can I fail? [more inside]
Block those rays
Recommend me a physical blocker sunblock that I can buy in Canada. [more inside]
MeFites, I need your help learning to focus...
MeFites, I need your help learning to focus... [more inside]
posted by cassini at 7:32 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cassini at 7:32 PM PST - 9 comments
Where do you look for entry-level work when you don't even know what you want to do?
What are some ideas for entry-level jobs? [more inside]
posted by artistic verisimilitude at 7:16 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by artistic verisimilitude at 7:16 PM PST - 23 comments
Concerned about future of young person with learning disabilities
I am concerned about the future of my young relative with learning disabilities. [more inside]
Can my dead Squeezebox 3 be saved?
Can I fix my dead Squeezebox 3, or failing that, can I have some fun trying to fix it? [more inside]
Gifts for Orthodox Jewish baby?
Gifts for Orthodox Jewish baby? [more inside]
Click, click, flash.
What are the differences in what I can do with these two cameras? [more inside]
Cocktails involving whiskey, enlighten me!
What are some nice cocktails that I can make from this bottle of Makers Mark that was gifted to me? [more inside]
Two Weeks to Live…
What would you do if you had two weeks to live with very little money and no family? You do have a free schedule but are somewhat limited physically (no surfing or ballroom dancing). [more inside]
posted by R2WeTwo at 5:16 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 5:16 PM PST - 21 comments
But can you make beer in it?!
Mefites! I got a fermentation crock for Xmas. Direct me to some great fermentation resources! [more inside]
The opposite of homonym? But not really?
Is there a word describing 2 words that sound the same but mean the opposite? And are there any more? [more inside]
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 5:06 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 5:06 PM PST - 12 comments
Sober Grand Tour?
Can you recommend unusual/interesting/tasty non-alcoholic drinks to try in different European countries e.g. Almdudler in Austria?
Those boots were made for walkin'....
Hello, hive mind. I have a dear friend who recently left an abusive marriage. Although she's working two jobs, she barely makes ends meet and may need EFT/SNAP and housing assistance. I've pulled together resources from the official website of the CT Dept. of Social Services, but cannot seem to find local, low-cost counseling services. Southern CT State University used to offer clinical counseling as part of their graduate program for the public, but I cannot find it. Any resources for low-cost counseling would be great. As stated, this is a dear friend of mine and I'll do anything to help - even though I'm across the country in CA.
Moving toddlers
How can I prepare my toddler for, and ease the transition to, a whole bunch of changes? [more inside]
I have no idea how I'm going to plan the wedding.
I have come to realize that I am terrible at planning in most areas of my life: education, finance, events, daily tasks etc. How do I become better at looking ahead, seeing what's coming and acting now so that the future doesn't suck? [more inside]
posted by talkingmuffin at 3:52 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by talkingmuffin at 3:52 PM PST - 8 comments
Why does my LG BD560 Blu-Ray player play DVDs but refuses to play Blu-Ray discs?
Why does my LG BD560 Blu-Ray player play DVDs but refuses to play Blu-Ray discs? Any possible solutions? [more inside]
posted by Spamfactor at 3:47 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Spamfactor at 3:47 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me install my dishwasher
Help me connect the water supply to my dishwasher. [more inside]
How do wills work?
What is the standard way that divorced parents with new partners (who also have children) organise their wills? [more inside]
How to deal with pregnancy-related fears?
How to deal with pregnancy anxiety? [more inside]
Suing person with unknown address
Is it possible to sue someone for services rendered if you don't have their address? [more inside]
posted by carlsdad at 2:37 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by carlsdad at 2:37 PM PST - 15 comments
Smart Phone Choices
I use Verizon Wireless and my two years are up on one of my phones and I am looking to keep the cost under $100. I can get a refurbished Samsung Fascinate for $19.99 and it looks like a good phone. I can also get Samsung Stratosphere or a Droid X2 for $99.99. With my two year plan those look like my three best buys. Are the refurbished phones ever worth a darn? I bought a refurbished laptop over three years ago and it's running great still. All three are rated high and look OK but another few opinions won't hurt.
She's not at all crafty!
Please help me print my images in the correct size on my Mac. I bought a sheet of 1" circle digital images and downloaded them onto my Mac. I opened them in Preview and want to print them but they print out huge instead of just 1". I can't figure out why! I selected "scaling 100%" in my printer options and that didn't fix the problem. Also when I select View...Actual Size in Preview they look really large. [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 2:20 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by hazyjane at 2:20 PM PST - 9 comments
Losing weight as a vegetarian
In my parents' Christmas card photo, I literally look like I'm wearing a fat suit. Help me get back on track to a healthy weight. Specific advice needed for a vegetarian diet. [more inside]
NOLS alternatives for adventuring in Chile
What's the best way for a solo traveler to spend a week or two adventuring in Patagonia? [more inside]
529, Ante Up
Is there any particular 529 plan with a web interface so that anyone can easily make contributions to my (forthcoming) kid's account? [more inside]
A citation style with no in-text indicators?
What is the citation style with no indicators in the text, but notes at the end keyed to page numbers? Editors, what do you think of it? And does anyone have Zotero or Mendeley tricks for implementing it in Libreoffice? [more inside]
posted by Mngo at 1:03 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Mngo at 1:03 PM PST - 19 comments
books on cults and group psychology
What are some really good books on group psychology and on modern day cults? [more inside]
Song ID needed
Soul song ID needed! [more inside]
Each font style a separate font?
[Mac OS X Filter] Combining different styles of the same font in FontBook for OS X: Is it possible? [more inside]
Which website can I have a discussion about appropriate genre to classify music in my mp3 collection?
Is there a web-site/forum where I can have a sensible/intelligent/non-flame wars discussion about appropriate ways to classify the genre of particular music, artists, etc of my mp3 music collection? I know I can classify my music with any genre I wish, but I would like to have a discussion of our other people classify the music, for example, of Paul Robson. Is it Classical, Classical vocal, or whatever?
I have looked at MusicBrainz, but that doesn't, as far as I can tell, have the genre of music. Everything but it seems.
How bad is owning half a house?
What's the legal liability ramifications of owning half a house? (I already have a lawyer. I wanted a second/English opinion.) [more inside]
How do I operate a budget?
Personal Finance and budgeting 101 for the low income world traveler. [more inside]
Help finding or making vibrant sidewalk art
My wife is helping an artist at Vanderbilt University focused in sidewalk painting. But she can't find vibrant chalks in order to accomplish her goals. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by aburd at 11:45 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by aburd at 11:45 AM PST - 12 comments
How do I increase my range of physical attraction?
Have you gotten over your extremely limited range of physical attraction? [more inside]
How to stop these identity thieves!
Someone is applying for an auto loan using my identity. What now? [more inside]
Good books for solo jazz acoustic guitar.
Good books for jazz solo acoustic guitar, to accompany voice. [more inside]
How to Buy American ebooks in China for the nook?
How can you buy books and apps for a Nook in China through a VPN? [more inside]
Another question about an insane mother
I have a great deal of contempt for my mother, which fills me with guilt. She has had serious psychiatric problems for her entire life. Although I know that she loves us, she is quite mentally ill, and I don't know how to cope with it. I need help learning how. (This is long, I apologize.) [more inside]
Can I really run it?
So I know about computers and I know about software. I don't know how they go together for games and wondering if there's an easy way to tell if my computer can run certain games. [more inside]
Are there tax implications to my parents helping me to pay off my student loan?
[Canada Tax Filter] If my parents loan me money to pay back a non-government student line of credit from a bank, and I pay them a portion of the principal each month, are there any negative tax implications? [more inside]
posted by dobie at 10:12 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dobie at 10:12 AM PST - 5 comments
Spreadsheeet for time tracking
How can I get a Google spreadsheet built to track time? [more inside]
Internet Q&A, city style.
I'm looking for city-specific internet forums for Cleveland and Dayton, OH. Any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 10:05 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Tehhund at 10:05 AM PST - 5 comments
Boston neighborhoods.
Boston and suburbs nice urban neighborhoods. [more inside]
posted by spacefire at 9:29 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by spacefire at 9:29 AM PST - 23 comments
Looking for roast pig in Chicago
Where can I find great Philippine lechon (roast pig) in Chicago? [more inside]
Financial planners in central Virginia?
Good financial planners in central Virginia? [more inside]
Harm reduction and Norco?
What can I do to warn my father about the risk of acetaminophen overdose while he is abusing Norco? Harm reduction for my own dad? [more inside]
Recommend a gaming laptop
Zero zero zero, zero zero zero zero! (Jenny)
Within the past few weeks, I've been receiving phone calls on my cell phone every day at 9am and 5pm like clockwork from the number (000) 000-0000. How do I make these bastards go away and leave me alone? [more inside]
posted by Geckwoistmeinauto at 8:45 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by Geckwoistmeinauto at 8:45 AM PST - 26 comments
Chubby hubby, what to do?
My husband is overweight. I'm not at the end of my rope, but it's getting closer. Advice, any advice is welcome, even if you tell me I'm being unreasonable. SS details inside. [more inside]
How do I find out if some bigger health problem is causing thus depression?
Depression! But maybe it's hypothyroidism? Dr google tells me it might be cancer (ovarian or bowel) when I add in the other health changes I've had over the last year. Hope me? What do I ask? Who do I see? No insurance. Location and gmail inside. [more inside]
Porch swing plans
I'd like to build a porch swing for my house. Any recommendations on where I can find some plans? Would prefer something more rustic looking but I'm open to all sources. Thanks!
Looking for a good place to buy womens' shoes in NYC.
I'm in NYC, and I want to take my girlfriend shopping for a nice, sexy, classy pair of heels. Think high-quality leather. Only problem? I know nothing about womens' shoes, shopping, or shopping for womens' shoes. Could you recommend some good stores to check out? [more inside]
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow
I was given a five-year diary for Christmas. What sort of things should I be sure to keep track of over the next five years of my life? [more inside]
Where to get wedding ring transformed into a E?
I no longer have use for my wedding ring :(
I would like to transform it's meaning into another symbol. [more inside]
posted by bleucube at 6:47 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by bleucube at 6:47 AM PST - 9 comments
Got a job offer, but would prefer a similar role with the same company that is closer to home. What are my options?
Got a job offer, but would prefer a similar role with the same company that is closer to home. What are my options? [more inside]
posted by jander03 at 6:40 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jander03 at 6:40 AM PST - 5 comments
Mental Fitness
How do I get myself in shape mentally? If I spent my life on the couch eating junk food, you might recommend running, weight lifting, a healthy diet, or yoga to get me in shape. Well, I have spent my life drinking beers, smoking weed, and watching mind numbing television. How can I get myself in shape mentally? [more inside]
What type of New Years' resolution is most likely to have a positive impact on my life
What type of New Years' resolution is most likely to have a positive impact on my life? [more inside]
Should I date my baby daddy?
Should I date my son's father, when we never really did way back when we were busy procreatin'? [more inside]
posted by youandiandaflame at 6:01 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by youandiandaflame at 6:01 AM PST - 21 comments
Forever goods
What consumer products don't depreciate much in a 5+ year timespan? [more inside]
Something cool to look at when I forgot my book
What color grout should I use? I'm using these hexagonal tiles in our bathroom, and we're about to grout them, but I'm not sure if I should use black, white, or grey grout. Which color might best highlight the tile shape and pattern? I'm leaning toward black or a dark grey, but haven't seen it used on these tiles before. Any experience with a dark grout?
I want to buy a kick ass juicer - advice?
I want to buy a kick ass juicer - advice? [more inside]
On the road. Scenic places to go along Cali coastline on a roadtrip?
I'm in the middle of a road trip and going to be in California (for the first time ever!) this week. Looking for some recommendations for places to hit along the coast, specifically beaches along the southern end, and scenic places to stop and eat/drink further north. [more inside]
posted by GastrocNemesis at 3:40 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by GastrocNemesis at 3:40 AM PST - 13 comments
Real name/location of the Arcadian
What is the real name/location of The Arcadian building in the TV show "How I met Your Mother"? [more inside]
I'll have a bleu Christmas (and New Years, and possibly Valentine's Day...).
I have been gifted a pound of (Wisconsin) Roquefort. I live alone. [more inside]
Possibly unsafe weight on upstairs bedroom floor?
Is it safe to fill up a 150-gallon tub in my bedroom? [more inside]
December 27
song title, ~1980's?
Please name this ODD song: I first heard it around 1984-6?
-Female voice. "punk" / Nina Hagen-esk absurd enough that it would never be a popular song.
-Asian "style" melody
-had lyrics "ou la la" in it.
-may have had words: "on the radio", "chickens", "other news" in it [more inside]
posted by santogold at 11:26 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by santogold at 11:26 PM PST - 7 comments
Am I a jerk?
Am I a jerk? If so, how do I stop being one? [more inside]
posted by joshwebb at 11:08 PM PST - 88 comments
posted by joshwebb at 11:08 PM PST - 88 comments
Votre Assistance, S'il Vous Plait
Where to print out a boarding pass in Paris? [more inside]
posted by BlahLaLa at 10:37 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by BlahLaLa at 10:37 PM PST - 14 comments
Can you recommend Indian-inspired meals for someone with interstitial cystitis?
I have interstitial cystitis, and I'd like to make some Indian-inspired meals that are safe for my bladder. Help? [more inside]
A small question concerning a music video.
This video of 'Departure' by Crystal Stilts seems to be comprised completely of documentary footage from the May '68 student uprising in Paris. However, there are a few shots in the video that are almost too 'perfect', specifically shots 4, 5 and 7, and I am wondering if they are in fact taken from a movie made at the time. If so, what film would that be? For some inexplicable reason I really need to know this.
Travels with a plaster bust
Best way to transport a small nineteenth- or early twentieth-century plaster sculpture from DC to London? I have no expertise in transporting art. [more inside]
posted by Pallas Athena at 9:18 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Pallas Athena at 9:18 PM PST - 6 comments
How much of a higher salary for lots of traveling?
How much more should a job pay if a significant amount of travel is required? More details inside... [more inside]
Where to go in Portland, OR for New Year's Eve?
Help some out-of-towners enjoy Portland, OR on New Year's Eve! Our ideal evening would be close to the MAX, and include a strip club, dancing to hopefully not top 40 music, and drinking of course. Should we go to an organized NYE party, or try to barhop? Any places we just can't miss/ hidden gems you're willing to divulge? We will be a group of 8 guys and gals. You guys helped me find an awesome place to camp this fall, so I'm hoping you have more great ideas!
I forgot how to write like a child.
How can I write a film review for children? Which writing samples would be useful to emulate? [more inside]
Trust or no?
Angry at boyfriend for reckless behavior. What to do? [more inside]
The gift of annual payments
Tests good. Works bad.
I have some RAM that is (apparently) bad. However, it passes a memory test just fine. Why? [more inside]
posted by neckro23 at 6:07 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by neckro23 at 6:07 PM PST - 14 comments
The Asylum for Specially-Trained Concubines
Schools or asylums that trained young girls in some sort of speciality skill only to later sell them off to rich men: did they really exist? Do they still? [more inside]
posted by divabat at 6:00 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by divabat at 6:00 PM PST - 28 comments
Help me find a urologist. A nice one, please.
MeFites of Los Angeles (and environs), can you recommend a good female urologist? [more inside]
Now iPhone, iPad, can you two play nice or do I have to have you separated?
Can I use the same Macbook Pro (and iTunes account) to sync up both an AT&T iPhone AND a Verizon iPad? [more inside]
posted by Rewind at 5:51 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Rewind at 5:51 PM PST - 5 comments
Does 'Miranda and Steve' really ever work?
Hey Succesful-ish Career Ladies! Have you ever dated a man who is much less successful/ambitious/well-remunerated or otherwise is in a much lower tax bracket than you? Can you tell me how you made it successful, or why it never will be? [more inside]
posted by Kololo at 5:42 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by Kololo at 5:42 PM PST - 51 comments
Mx records for a cheap domain
Tell me everything I need to know about Mx records, Google Apps for Education, and our server. [more inside]
What're the ethics of hiring a moonlighter who's on the job?
What are the ethics of buying skilled services if the person doing it is completing those services on the job? (Specifically, a machinist, if the industry matters.) [more inside]
Icy hands... of death?
My fingers fall asleep while I'm sleeping. Is this bad? Should I see a doctor? [more inside]
posted by momus_window at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by momus_window at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
My belt is awesome, and now it is falling apart.
I own a belt with equally spaced belt holes along the entire length of the belt. It's falling apart and I'd like to get a new one, but I can't find one. (Example inside) [more inside]
posted by JimBennett at 4:21 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by JimBennett at 4:21 PM PST - 8 comments
How can I play classic NES/SNES games on my TV?
I want to do NES/SNES emulation, and play the games on my HDTV. What's the best way to do this (details inside)? [more inside]
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 3:58 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 3:58 PM PST - 8 comments
"KABOOM!" went the Death Star.
What are some examples of spectacular, climactic visuals... in text? [more inside]
mikey, this ain't the kinda place you wanna go to the bathroom in
Please help me maximize the space in and minimize the ugliness of a tiny, ugly bathroom. [more inside]
Do hearses make house calls?
In a small city in Illinois, last night we saw a hearse in the driveway of a neighbor down the block. No other cars, police, or activity were in evidence. We know this person is elderly, but we don't actually know her. Because I've seen a cab come to her house, I believe she doesn't drive, and I have seen a second, somewhat less elderly person come by and do yard work for her occasionally. This second person's car wasn't there last night either. We don't actually see our neighbor very often, especially in winter, so if she's still there, we might not see her in passing for a while.
I was under the impression that if someone had died at their home, an ambulance would transport them; I don't think I've ever seen a hearse at a private home before. Was this the end for my neighbor, or did her hypothetical niece the hypothetical mortician pop in for supper in a company car or something? Anyone have any knowledge about hearse customs?
Video Camera Suggestions: Is GOPRO Good Enough?
In a couple of weeks I'm going to start shooting icehockey games for our local kids, the San Diego Saints. [more inside]
posted by snsranch at 3:28 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by snsranch at 3:28 PM PST - 5 comments
Other than being crazy, advice for NYC trip and on what time to arrive for ball drop?
Times Square for New-Year's filter: Is there anything I should know about being one of the crazy people going to see the ball drop? Also, itinerary suggestions for rest of trip welcomed. [more inside]
posted by signondiego at 3:27 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by signondiego at 3:27 PM PST - 15 comments
What will happen in Korea?
The recent event in North Korea has got me going on a Korea jag. Specifically, I'm wondering what's next for the two Koreas. Googling just gets me a bunch of blog entries. . . [more inside]
posted by TheTingTangTong at 3:26 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by TheTingTangTong at 3:26 PM PST - 13 comments
Squeak squeak squeak squeak
How do I either stop my bed from squeaking or stop being embarrassed about my downstairs neighbors potentially hearing it? [more inside]
posted by Autumn at 3:18 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by Autumn at 3:18 PM PST - 29 comments
Figuring out a cause of death 30 years post-mortem.
How can I find out what killed my father? [more inside]
Life changes (and the associated paperwork)
Document checklist for a recently-married couple? What's crucial to get organized/updated in terms of legal/financial issues? [more inside]
posted by bitter-girl.com at 3:01 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by bitter-girl.com at 3:01 PM PST - 6 comments
How can I use my smart phone as a camera and not pay data charges?
How can I use my smart phone as a camera in the US and not pay data/mobile network charges? [more inside]
O Holy Night, all choral, NO soloist?
Are there any versions of "O Holy Night" in the choral style of Palestrina/Victoria, without soloist? [more inside]
posted by vnvlain at 2:03 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by vnvlain at 2:03 PM PST - 7 comments
List of BBC Christmas Specials?
What BBC christmas specials were there in 2011? [more inside]
Hope for my ailing marriage?
After nearly 11 yrs of marriage my husband is talking of possibly finding his own place and at the very least separating for awhile to see if he can "get himself together". We have been a couple nearly 15 yrs. I am looking for experiences, resources, advice... [more inside]
How do I take a compliment?
How do you internalize compliments and praise? [more inside]
Ireland & France Summer Travel 2012
Planning a potential first trip to Europe this summer and I'm a little overwhelmed with logistics. We'd be hitting Ireland (because we want to go there) and France (for a friend's wedding). [more inside]
Fighting the good fight in PDX
Need a good marriage counselor in the Portland area! [more inside]
Couples therapist Baltimore
I'm looking for a good couples therapist (we are both hetero/mid 30's) in the Baltimore area. Any recommendations?
Help me decide if I should trade in my car
Buying a new car. Should I trade in my old one or give it to family? [more inside]
posted by Yunani at 12:50 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Yunani at 12:50 PM PST - 10 comments
I might be suing someone soon. What do I have to know?
I'm considering suing a company. Have you ever sued someone? I can't get a hold of my lawyer, and I could use your advice/wisdom. [more inside]
Job Guru for Ankler in L.A.
Anyone know a good career counselor in Los Angeles? [more inside]
Roku recommendations
Help me get the most out of my new Roku. [more inside]
posted by MrMoonPie at 11:59 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by MrMoonPie at 11:59 AM PST - 14 comments
Help give my Mom advice for a new career
My wonderful mom has been watching her grandchildren full time but is looking for a job this fall after the kids are in school. She first mentioned a retail job but she has so many marketable qualities and a lot of time to look so maybe the hive mind can come up with some better ideas?
Inside, I brag about how awesome my mom is. [more inside]
I need help going on the Jaws ride before it closes
Help me go on the Jaws ride at Universal Florida before it closes! [more inside]
posted by Brainy at 11:42 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Brainy at 11:42 AM PST - 10 comments
Fitbit hacks?
I got a Fitbit for Christmas!
Do you have one? What should I know about it? Any tips/tricks/hacks for getting the most out of it?
AA or AAA laser pointer recommendations for cats?
Recommendations for AAA (or AA) powered laser pointers that I can use to play with my cat? [more inside]
How do I deal with my SO's yelling and outbursts? Is it over the top?
How do I deal with my SO's yelling and outbursts? Is it over the top? [more inside]
Acoustic guitar with electric pickups?
Is Tracy Chapman's guitar in this video (best shots are in the first 10 seconds) a custom jobbie, or is an acoustic with electric pickups a thing that can be bought off the rack? [more inside]
posted by CKmtl at 11:15 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by CKmtl at 11:15 AM PST - 17 comments
“one of the USB device attached to this computer has malfunctioned, and Windows does not recognise it”
I'm getting the following message: “one of the USB device attached to this computer has malfunctioned, and Windows does not recognise it”
I post the message not because it is informative about the problem but because it's the recurring symptom. It occurs sometimes when I plug in a device, but even more often on devices that have been connected for some time. If I ignore it, the device might even start working again. (Most annoying are the message that tell me I have to reformat the device as I am afraid the cat will walk by and click on OK and wipe out my data.)
The most "interesting" analysis online suggested that some kind of timeout for a device that hasn't been used in "a while" tells the system to "renew" which fails and results in the message. This may even be true, but who knows? [more inside]
posted by Obscure Reference at 11:13 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Obscure Reference at 11:13 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me find this Peanuts strip
Help me find this Peanuts strip. [more inside]
posted by any portmanteau in a storm at 11:06 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by any portmanteau in a storm at 11:06 AM PST - 15 comments
help me help my girlfriend teach herself to play piano!
Help me find a book to help my girlfriend learn to play piano! [more inside]
posted by dismas at 11:06 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by dismas at 11:06 AM PST - 7 comments
Where Can I Find Service Website/Organizations In Los Angeles
Where can I find sites/groups in Los Angeles (other than Craig's list) where one can request, barter or time bank services. [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by goalyeehah at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
Perm: Digital VS. Straight
I have straight hair with a natural wave that curls or straightens very well. However, I am super lazy when it comes to doing my hair in the morning so am looking for a wash and go hairstyle. Thinking about getting either a digital perm or a Japanese straight perm. Any recommendations for one or the other? [more inside]
posted by lirael2008 at 10:43 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by lirael2008 at 10:43 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me design a home server.
Help me design a home server for Photoshop work. Reliable, easy to expand, and cheap are the priorities. Lots of sub-questions inside. [more inside]
Nuculer. It's pronounced Nu-cu-ler.
I'm interested in compiling a list of portrayals of both atomic energy and nuclear warfare in pop culture from around the world -- specifically the effects of radiation and mutation. [more inside]
I met a drive upon the stair, my programs think it isn't there
How to manually clean a failing hard drive before a return when I can't run any cleanup utilities? [more inside]
posted by L'Estrange Fruit at 9:39 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by L'Estrange Fruit at 9:39 AM PST - 12 comments
How do great authors describe the physical appearance of their characters?
How do great authors describe their characters' physical appearances? [more inside]
posted by caoimhe at 9:39 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by caoimhe at 9:39 AM PST - 10 comments
Eating animals that eat you
(Bear Meat Filter) - I came in to possession of some bear meat, best recipes/grillling techniques. [more inside]
Restore netbook to factory settings
How to restore NB305 netbook to out-of-box state after installing Ubuntu, possibly on the recovery partition? [more inside]
Recipes for lamb hocks?
I've come into possession of a number of lamb hocks. I have no idea what to make with them and I'm having difficulty finding recipes that call for hocks rather than shanks or ribs or roasts. What does one do with lamb hocks? Can one substitute hocks for some other cut of meat? I'm a good cook but at a loss regarding how to use these.
posted by Wisco72 at 9:01 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Wisco72 at 9:01 AM PST - 7 comments
Which caliber for a medium rifle?
I am in the market for an AR or AK-pattern rifle. I am not sold on any of the major (or minor) calibers.
I am well versed with the Four Safety Rules, and even the Fifth. [more inside]
posted by the man of twists and turns at 8:37 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 8:37 AM PST - 12 comments
Help me find songs for a playlist.
Help me create an awesome playlist buying individual songs from iTunes. [more inside]
Movie ID question - complex car chase scene around falling building.
I'm trying to track down a movie I've never seen... However, it has a very distinctive car chase scene set around a factory with a falling smoke stack. [more inside]
I am the Salieri of frogs and now they just ribbit "failure"
I feel like my life has been a long succession of second bests. For the most part, I've been okay with this; after all, second best is really good, right?!? But recently, I feel like I may be becoming second best in my little hobby--my refuge--and I'm looking for new pick-me-ups, koans, and defensive strategies so I can concentrate on what I love and not get too frustrated all the time. [more inside]
What should I buy at Kohl's and Land's End?
I have about $150 to spend at Kohl's and $100 at Land's End. What kinds of women's clothing items (or possibly housewares) should I buy? What brands are good quality at Kohl's and which are cheap crap? Are shoes worth buying at either store? [more inside]
Help me prepare for a possible job switch when I don't know where I'll be living.
My s.o. is applying for a medical residency in the US. We'll know where we're going to be placed in mid-March and chances are good that we'll end up in Baltimore, New Haven or Providence. I work in a field with very limited options in these three places and I'm wondering what I can do over the next few months, if anything, to prepare in case I have to move and get a new job. [more inside]
Help me not throw my computer out a window.
For some crazy reason, our netbook doesn't recognize our wireless router. Help! [more inside]
Best Flooring Ideas for a Basement?
What is the best flooring for a basement? Has anyone had experience with the wood-like laminate? [more inside]
Picking a doctor when doctor information in my area is scarce?
How do I pick a psychiatrist when I can find absolutely no information (besides the basics like contact info and education history) on any of the doctors in my area? [more inside]
Existential angst before bed
Existential concerns hit me as I fall asleep basically every night.
How nutters am I? [more inside]
Hold my hand for a minute, please...
How usual is it for a real estate closing to take place at the buyer's bank? In my very limited experience, closings have always been handled by a title company, and the suggestion that the buyer's bank is going to handle it is making me a little nervous. This is in Indiana, in case it matters.
posted by bricoleur at 6:30 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by bricoleur at 6:30 AM PST - 6 comments
Firefox 8 is missing my magic arrow
My work computer just upgraded to Firefox 8 (which I've had at home for a while and that's been fine) and I can't figure out how to do this one thing it did in old Firefox. So in whatever version I was using previously, I could click on a tiny downward-pointing arrow on a tab (or right near a tab, I don't remember, or maybe right near the back button) and get to that tab's recent history, so I could go back to recent searches or whatever else (the regular Recent History doesn't work for this, as I have multiple tabs open at a time, and the titles appear the same on my internal database).
How do I bring this magic arrow back to new Firefox? I really need to be able to view a specific tab's recent history.
posted by leesh at 6:06 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by leesh at 6:06 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me find a big, scary, exciting and rewarding project or challenge to take on!
Two years ago I started doing stand-up comedy, which took me very far from my comfort zone and was hard work but was hugely rewarding. One year ago I took a one-way flight to Thailand to start a solo backpacking trip, something I'd always wanted to do but which terrified me - this was also hard work but fantastic and life-affirming. These were both huge things for me. I want to begin something similarly big/difficult/scary/rewarding/exciting/life-affirming this year that will live up to those first 2 years, but what? [more inside]
posted by Kirn at 6:01 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Kirn at 6:01 AM PST - 18 comments
Cut finger, badly managed, cold and tingling - help.
Cut finger with nerve damage can a damaged nerve heal? How? Need advice - holistic and otherwise. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 6:01 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by watercarrier at 6:01 AM PST - 15 comments
Overthinking a pan of beans.
Need new cookware, can you educate me about pans? [more inside]
Living in a post-boxee america
Boxee is leaving the PC platform (Mac / Linux / OSX) after the current release (which drops a bunch of features). What should I migrate to? [more inside]
posted by jenkinsEar at 5:15 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by jenkinsEar at 5:15 AM PST - 7 comments
dog park that's not a dog park?
Would like to find a dog-friendly park that's a decent distance from Berkeley, CA. Specific requirements inside. [more inside]
How to pick SSDs
How do I decide what the best (balancing reliability and speed) SSD (SATA II) is, for x dollars?
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 2:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 2:12 AM PST - 8 comments
Resource for itinerant freelancers?
I often find myself in places where I don't know players in the local pro scene (assuming there is one). For example I have had limited success with sites such as LinkedIn and facebook in trying to find potential chamber music partners in Portland for a sightreading session at short notice. Is there a good website for making connections between like-minded people who enjoy making music for fun at the highest level? If not, is this something that would attract any interest from others, not that many classically-trained musicians necessarily read mefi?
December 26
Simple, cheap way to get onto iOS Newsstand
Is there an easy, inexpensive way to get our small periodical onto the iOS newsstand? [more inside]
How to fill a bachelor pad
I am going to be moving soon, and for the first time in several years, it will be on my own. I'd really like resources for checklists on what to have in my new domicile, and as well, ideas for furnishing and decorating. [more inside]
posted by Mister Fabulous at 11:12 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Mister Fabulous at 11:12 PM PST - 21 comments
Historical ephemera... worth keeping?!
I'm cleaning out my storage, and wanted to find out whether two objects are worth keeping / selling: A nautical insurance policy from Sept. 21, 1802 (front, back), and a B&W photograph, on a 14"x20" piece of Kodak paper, of Mt. Saint Helens erupting, photographer unknown (photo). More details inside. [more inside]
posted by markkraft at 10:38 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by markkraft at 10:38 PM PST - 5 comments
Grindr giving me grief
Is my plan to handle a tempting but ultimately unwanted and inappropriate sexual/ romantic advance from a co-worker a good one? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:16 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by anonymous at 10:16 PM PST - 28 comments
Recommendations for the Dismal Peripheral
Please recommend a small, reliable printer for around $100, but by all means, go higher if you think non-shit just doesn't exist at that price. [more inside]
posted by ignignokt at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ignignokt at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
Kindle 2 Help
Need someone with a Kindle 2 to walk me through a really simple task, because my screen is a little bit broken and I can't see something. [more inside]
posted by acidic at 9:46 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by acidic at 9:46 PM PST - 2 comments
Dear Canada, Dress Me!
Canadian-filter: I'm a petite American woman, of French Canadian extraction by some small percentage. The last few times I went to French Canada, especially Quebec, I saw several women of exactly my size and shape (5'3," roughly 105 lbs.) Thus encouraged I found and purchased a lovely xs leather jacket--something I'd been looking for in the States for several years--without much effort! (I've also purchased Canadian shoes and boots several times, and have noted that unlike their American counterparts [and despite similar climactic conditions in much of the States], they are often lined--and not just with little wisps of rayon!)
A similarly longstanding quest is purchasing flannel long-sleeved pajamas, or other kinds of sleepwear meant to keep one warm, but still be, you know, faintly cute. Although they do occasionally turn up in xs here (I have an oversized pair from Land's End; Gap has been advertising a pair recently in petite extra small), they inevitably swim on me, and the Gap pair are made out of embarrassingly thin flannel.
Where could I mail order pajamas that fit from Canada? For that matter, where could I mail order petite small/xs/size 0 clothing from Canada in general? [more inside]
US citizen in Canada with expired passport
On Christmas eve I discovered that my (US) passport expired last month yet I had a trip to Canada planned two days later (no time to renew). Well, I am in Canada (no trouble crossing the border). Now do I have to spend my next few days renewing the passport so I can get home? I guess I'm wondering how much leeway border agents have. I have the passport, my birth certificate and driver's license.
Soliciting Quotations
My wife is starting a new blog to kick off the new year, and it's going to be based on an idea that revolves around inspirational quotes, one a week throughout 2012. My daughter and I are in charge of finding the quotes. Care to donate one? [more inside]
Spare socks and lotion
What can I do with all my single socks or socks with holes in them. Also I seemed to have amassed an obnoxious amount of hand cream from hotels - is there any use for them (I can't possibly grease myself up with that much hand cream)? [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 8:51 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 8:51 PM PST - 19 comments
Books about manhunts?
Good books about real manhunts/fugitives? [more inside]
What's a good bar to work from in downtown Seattle?
I'm looking for a good bar to work from in Seattle, specifically the Belltown/Queen Anne neighborhoods but anywhere within a mile or so would be fine. [more inside]
posted by hackwolf at 7:51 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by hackwolf at 7:51 PM PST - 5 comments
How to deal with people who suck the life out of you?
How to deal with people who suck the life out of you? [more inside]
posted by Bacillus at 7:51 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Bacillus at 7:51 PM PST - 14 comments
How do I rebound from being fired?
I was just fired from my job because I didn't meet performance expectations. It's a terrible feeling. How can I best learn from this experience and attack the future? [more inside]
Looking for readings on middle childhood
I'm looking for good readings on Middle Childhood, inspired by this New York Times article and my 5.5 year old son. [more inside]
Can you recommend a forum where management strategy can be discussed? For example if I wanted to bounce ideas around appropriate project metrics?
Can you recommend a online forum where management strategy can be discussed? For example if I wanted to bounce ideas around appropriate project metrics? I know there are specific PM forums but I am wondering if there is a forum where managers sort of discuss their ideas etc. Something more general than a dedicated PM forum since my questions / discussions wont just relate to project management
Going postal over delivery failures.
Here we go again: This is now multiple times that the wonderful USPS has, given a package sent to me through their service, made the tracking unavailable until after the date they supposedly delivered and then claimed that it's been delivered when I've had no sign of it. Where do I actually find out what the handling policies of the USPS are supposed to be, and who can I complain to that's higher than my local branch? [more inside]
posted by gracedissolved at 6:41 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by gracedissolved at 6:41 PM PST - 10 comments
Which soda maker should I buy?
Alternatives to Sodastream? Or maybe convince me to buy it anyway despite my concerns? [more inside]
Picking a graphics card for a Dell Inspiron 545
Help me pick and install a graphics card for a Dell Inspiron 545. [more inside]
I'm out on the border, on the border
Renting a car in BC to drive to WA state - Why can't I? How could I? [more inside]
posted by seawallrunner at 6:00 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by seawallrunner at 6:00 PM PST - 12 comments
Careers with part-time potential that can actually yield a decent income?
I'd like to hear more about jobs like occupational therapist or dental hygienist that have part-time potential and a bigger paycheck (not to mention higher demand). I'd just like to make a list of possible jobs that I can further look into. [more inside]
Java and computers for dummies
Help me get java going on my dad's computer [more inside]
construction bid formats
We are about to send out bid documents (drawings, prelim-specs, geo-tech report) for a 3300 sqft residence, to invited Contractors;
and need some examples of tight, organized bid formats.
By Division, starting w/ General Requirements, w/ Exclusions?
Any advice, from the Architect/Owner side, would be helpful. Contractors- what formats did not drive you batty?
Android Spellcheck
Android tablet: I have ASUS Transformer with keyboard. However, the keyboard is of limited utility to me because there isn't a word processing app that actually does spell check. I find that unbelievable.
Help!
What do you do? How does that work for you?
posted by driley at 5:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by driley at 5:24 PM PST - 4 comments
How to make semi-regular out of town trips more pleasant?
Any good hacks for making semi-regular but short hotel stays (and the car trip to get there) more pleasant and comfortable? [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 5:21 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by JoannaC at 5:21 PM PST - 19 comments
My (unwashed) hands are clean.
I have become adept at urinating without touching anything. Do I still need to wash my hands? [more inside]
posted by troll at 4:39 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by troll at 4:39 PM PST - 51 comments
Rating site for baby name recommendations?
I'm looking for the Pandora or Netflix of baby names. I want a recommendation engine that will let me rate or rank potential names and then offer suggestions based on what I liked. [more inside]
Best uses for copious melted Andes mints.
Best uses for copious melted Andes mints. [more inside]
posted by a robot made out of meat at 3:55 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by a robot made out of meat at 3:55 PM PST - 9 comments
Bad sound at Dragon Tattoo
I tried to see Girl With the Dragon Tattoo today, but ran into sound problems on two different screens at the same theater. The symptoms were fairly specific, and I was curious if anyone familiar with cinema sound systems could tell me what the problem was. [more inside]
Looking for music...
I'm looking for songs that have infectious, surprising hooks. Help! [more inside]
Don't step in the mystery hole!
What could be the purpose of this mysterious hole in the middle of my brother-in-law's living room floor? [more inside]
Can I use these cuts for bresaola?
Can I use a rolled round or rolled tip roast for bresaola? [more inside]
Can I say I'm vegetarian for practical reasons, or does it piss vegetarians off?
Ethics and semantics filter - can/should I say I'm a vegetarian to communicate my dietary preferences and needs when, strictly, I'm not? [more inside]
posted by rainbaby at 2:20 PM PST - 62 comments
posted by rainbaby at 2:20 PM PST - 62 comments
Help me get this lost property back to its owner!
Yesterday we found an item on a street in Kings Heath, South Birmingham, UK. It has a photo tag attached to it so should be identifiable. I have posted a picture of this photo on my blog here and have tweeted and facebooked the link - twitter peeps are helping me, facebook ones not so much. Have alerted local twitter feeds and asked them to retweet. Any other ideas (we will be taking it to the police station in a day or so but how will the owner know to go there to get it?) [more inside]
Help Me to Help My Doctor Stop Me Coughing and Be Able to Sleep Again
Chronic cough filter: YANMD, and I am being treated by an ENT, but please, if you have any experience in annoying throat tickles that cause coughing to the point where you can't sleep, take a moment to read my long story and see if you can help me advise my ENT where to "look." [more inside]
posted by Oriole Adams at 2:08 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Oriole Adams at 2:08 PM PST - 8 comments
Can we safely buy used furniture from a hotel?
We're about to run off and peek at a hotel liquidation sale, but I'm paranoid about bedbugs. Is this a bad idea? Would quarantining the furniture for a time solve any potential problems?
posted by moira at 2:05 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by moira at 2:05 PM PST - 7 comments
Why is my modem clogging up daily?
My modem: every day I must kill the power, wait a few minutes, then power it back up in order to have any decent speed at all. Without this crude fix, I'm getting around 400 Kbps. Once I reboot it, however, I can manage a decent 4.0 Mbps. I've bypassed the router, tried different computers, and the issue persists. (Oh, and I don't have any kind of per-day download limit that's throttling me.) I'd rather try to correct the problem myself before spending endless hours on the phone with my ISP's tech support. Any idea what's going on here?
posted by jackypaper at 1:52 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jackypaper at 1:52 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for a biwa expert.
I'm looking for a biwa expert in the Cascades region. Portland is best, Seattle is fine, northern California is doable. [more inside]
posted by curious nu at 1:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by curious nu at 1:35 PM PST - 7 comments
Chemistry lab safety: Is the teacher at fault or am I overreacting?
Chemistry lab safety: Is the teacher at fault or am I overreacting? [more inside]
posted by gray17 at 1:31 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by gray17 at 1:31 PM PST - 16 comments
Anonymous hackers are planning to post my information on the web. What should I do to avoid getting my identity messed up?
My information got hacked by Anonymous. They got an expired debit card number, my name, address, and password, and are about to publish the whole mess on the internet. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:21 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by anonymous at 12:21 PM PST - 23 comments
seeds in my toilet brush holder
Mysterious seeds in toilet brush holder. WTF? [more inside]
Basic black socks
Sock filter: I’m looking for cheap black knee-length cotton athletic socks – like these, except in black.
I found them two years ago, but not since then. I’ve looked at Kmart, Target and Walmart and online. I live in Albuquerque.
posted by maurreen at 12:13 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by maurreen at 12:13 PM PST - 8 comments
VS bra search
Looking for an alternative to the discontinued Victoria's Secret Very Sexy Miracle push-up bra. Is there anything that fits like it? [more inside]
Is it possible to copy a Windows boot partition onto a new SSD HD?
Is it possible to copy my Windows boot partition (C:) onto the new SSD hard drive I got without needing to reinstall Windows and everything else? [more inside]
Making over an ignorant introverted type
Help me find plus-sized interesting women's clothing, particularly tunics and short dresses, in the UK / online, given specific requirements. [more inside]
Cheapest way to use Iphone 3 for minimal use/no data?
My wife would like to use our off contract Iphone 3g to use VERY infrequently (less than 20 minutes/mo?) with no data plan needed.
Any suggestions about how BEST to do this on the cheap?
In Hawaii if that matters.
Prepaid?
More Macbook Pro issues: diagnose this squealing noise, please!
I just opened up my Macbook Pro to be greeted by a horrible, awful, squealing noise. What's going on? [more inside]
Movie line: Did anyone ever tell you that you look like a deck of cards?
Movie line: Did anyone ever tell you that you look like a deck of cards? [more inside]
Help me make the best cholent ever without killing my guests! (Although that latter part's not a dealbreaker....)
Recipe Recommendations Needed! I'm making cholent next weekend and I want it to be tasty, spectacular and different. Would like to think outside the box a little and wow my guests. Have you had or made any recipes that just totally knocked your socks off? Unusual ingredients are fine, as long as the dish remains kosher. [more inside]
posted by zarq at 9:24 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by zarq at 9:24 AM PST - 7 comments
What are good writing applications for the ipod touch
What are some of the best writing applications for the ipod touch?
I am sometimes times writing on the fly and just did the nanowrimo thing and found it was a blast! So want to learn more about witing applications..Any info on bluetooth keyboards would be cool as I could use it with some apps. Thanks everyone and Happy and safe holidays and Merry christmas to all.
posted by Upon Further Review at 9:17 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Upon Further Review at 9:17 AM PST - 3 comments
Any relatively inexpensive ($150) New Year's Eve events in NYC?
My friend's parents are coming up for New Year's, and they'd like a rooftop party to attend that's not too young... [more inside]
Help us figure out the title of this awkwardly named book
My wife is going nuts trying to remember the name of a book she heard reviewed a few years ago. [more inside]
posted by unintelligentlydesigned at 8:57 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by unintelligentlydesigned at 8:57 AM PST - 2 comments
Should I inform my girlfriend about this unpleasant conversation between me and her parents when they explicitly requested I don't?
Should I inform my girlfriend about this unpleasant conversation between me and her parents when they explicitly requested I don't? [more inside]
How can a father leave his family yet remain a father?
This is not going to be pretty. I need to know if there is any way for me to maintain a life with my children if I cannot maintain one with my wife. [more inside]
Apple TV + converter?
I love Netflix and we have it on the Xbox. But my kid's moving to college and taking the Xbox with her. Can I replace it with an Apple TV plus an HDMI->Composite/S-Video converter or should I bite the bullet and get another Xbox? It seems a waste to buy one just for Netflix.
posted by tommasz at 8:42 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by tommasz at 8:42 AM PST - 22 comments
Who wrote "To out-[Person] [Person]"?
A bunch of supposedly literate people at Christmas dinner couldn't decide from what piece of classical English literature we all half-remember the phrase "to out-[Person] [Person]", or "it out-[Person]s [Person]". We were all sure it was from Shakespeare, but a quick regular expression search of Gutenberg found nothing. Can you think of examples of that construction?
posted by nicwolff at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by nicwolff at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
If the internet were being recreated from scratch, what would you do to improve it?
I've been asked to research the viability of the launch of a new top-level domain (TLD) parallel to dot-com. Assuming the prospective domain owner wishes not to reduplicate the internet as it exists now merely with another extension, I'd like to ask: Let's say you could take what you know about how the internet works (indexing, monetization, traffic, web-mastering but also crowdsourcing, social networking, political organizing, personal publishing, microfunding, etc.) and for reasons purely fictional, the existing system was scrapped and being re-built from scratch, what would you do with that opportunity if you had it? [more inside]
posted by brynnwood at 8:15 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by brynnwood at 8:15 AM PST - 9 comments
Do you switch back and forth between audiobook and ebook? If so - how do you keep your place?
Do you switch back and forth between audiobook and ebook? If so - how do you keep your place? [more inside]
Loss of sense of taste
I just heard from a friend in another state that she suddenly lost her sense of taste, or at least it altered noticeably. She said she has no other symptoms, does not have a cold or congestion, but sweet tastes less sweet and she has to put lots of salt on anything else to give it taste, which she does not normally do. She is in her early 50s, mostly healthy, and is now visiting relatives for a few days. then will be taking a long drive back home. Any ideas what this could be, and could it be serious?
No longer free as in speech or beer.
My new wifi security camera is playing happily with my router, and now it's time to set up dynamic dns so I can access video over the Internet. The "free" dynamic dns site, dyndns.com, recommended by my manual is no longer free--what's the best free alternative, and what do I need to know use my wifi camera over the Internet? [more inside]
Friend is doing pot, is this bad?
Asking-for-a-friend filter: One of my closest friends recently began using pot. She told me that she liked it and plans to keep using it. I'm concerned because I dont want to see anything bad to happen to her. Should I be concerned? Can pot cause any serious problems, mentally or physically? Is there much of anything I can do at this point? We are still in high school too. Thanks for any advice you can give me. I really wish to help this friend. [more inside]
How do I remove Gorilla Glue from my counter-top?
Automated website testing
¿How to automate testing for a website? [more inside]
Suggestions for OS X graphics program?
Suggestions for Graphics Applications (OS X)? [more inside]
posted by Mutant at 5:01 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Mutant at 5:01 AM PST - 7 comments
What is this film with the uneaten breakfast kipper?
Another "What is this movie?" question. A girl or young woman can't eat her kipper at the family breakfast table, so it is brought out for her lunch, dinner and so on until eventually the cat eats it. It later turns out that the reason she couldn't stomach it was that she was pregnant. 1970s or pre-1970s film; John Mills may have been in it. [more inside]
Tofu, so sweet and tasty. Tofu, don't be too hasty. Tofu...tofu tofu tofu!
What is the best time and temperature for baked tofu? Every recipe I read seems to differ wildly on those factors. I've made some that has worked, and some that hasn't. The one time I got it just right I forgot to make a note of which recipe I used.
I like it crispy on the outside but still a bit soft inside. Thoughts?
Should I have my sick cat spayed?
I have a very sick recently adopted cat who has feline leukemia. She isn't expected to live more than a year or two. I need advice regarding an upcoming medical decision. [more inside]
Shock and Awe me with your musical knowledge.
What is this piece of music in the BBC Four Program "Shock and Awe: The Story of Electricity"? [more inside]
posted by katyggls at 1:45 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by katyggls at 1:45 AM PST - 1 comment
Are humans the only species to make art?
Are humans the only species to make art? [more inside]
December 25
Sports bras and healthy boobs?
Boob filter: is wearing a sports bra all the time not so good? [more inside]
posted by zennish at 11:47 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by zennish at 11:47 PM PST - 6 comments
Where is the snow?
Where can I take the kids to play in the snow tomorrow? We're at Incline Village, North Lake Tahoe, but there doesn't seem to be any snow around here!
The tear's apparently in my hand now...
Dear Meta-sleuths, please help me find a fan-made video of Tori Amos' 'Tear In Your Hand'... [more inside]
Should I use a TV as a monitor?
I am planning on purchasing a new, larger monitor to connect to my 13" 2011 MacBook Pro. I'd like to consider the possibility of using a TV as a monitor, so I can possibly get a larger sized screen. However, I've never purchased a TV, only using someone else's old school hand-me-downs, so I know nothing about them. Looking for advice. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 7:28 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by 4ster at 7:28 PM PST - 11 comments
Just because fine ham abounds
Remove a cooked smoked ham from its cooking liquid before refrigerating the leftovers? [more inside]
Fluid Robot
Help IDing a TV commercial involving a clear robot run by blue liquid [more inside]
Help me get this Skullcandy mic to work!
Will the Skullcandy Lowrider mic work on my laptop? [more inside]
posted by Angel of Khaos at 6:42 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Angel of Khaos at 6:42 PM PST - 10 comments
Small but good
I have fifty dollars to spend on Amazon, and I'm looking for ideas beyond books, ebooks, music, or movies. If you had had to pick 3-5 $10 to $15 dollar items that would make your life slightly better in some way, what would you pick?
posted by codacorolla at 6:37 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by codacorolla at 6:37 PM PST - 34 comments
Long distance relationship fizzled out, because of distance. Do I move to salvage it?
My relationship broke down because of the distance. Can it be salvaged, or do I just let it be? [more inside]
Fowl play
Any advice on catching a guinea fowl? This is a small-turkey-sized, semi-flighted bird that really, really doesn't want to be caught. [more inside]
Where do broadly-skilled maker-ish hobbyists hang out online?
What are the best forums for asking questions about electronic projects and related things? [more inside]
What obstacles will I face trying to mortgage a house I don't live in?
What obstacles will I face trying to refinance my mom's house under my name without living there? I've heard that financing a home is "tricky" when you're not the one living in it. Does anyone have first hand experience working around interest rate penalties? Does it matter that the home occupant is a blood relative? Or that the mortgage would be a refinance and not a first-time purchase? [more inside]
Give Me Your Recs For the Best Free eBooks!
Recommend some free e-books for Kindle? [more inside]
Tips for blocks and marbles
Help me Rube Goldberg-ize umbuzinho's blocks and marbles toy. [more inside]
Female stage presence at the piano
Help me find video clips of female jazz pianists with stage presence! I'm looking for moments where the camera captures the stage presence of jazz ladies at the piano, their entrance, how they carry themselves, their hands on the keys, their interaction with their band-members, their final bow, everything. Thank you. [more inside]
Prime times for stranger things?
First time investment property
What do I need to know about building new multifamily homes and renting them out? Where can I learn about it? [more inside]
Will Ford service Land Rover?
I'm thinking about purchasing a used Land Rover. I know that up until recently, they were owned by Ford. Will Ford dealerships/service shops service Land Rovers, or only specialty/import shops? I'm in the Milwaukee area.
posted by hafehd at 12:09 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by hafehd at 12:09 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I create my own Wikipedia?
I'm volunteering at the Whistler Museum, it's just a little municipal museum, and our archives haven't been digitized yet. If it was possible to turn them into a Wikipedia-style database. Example inside. [more inside]
A Box, Shipping, and Me
This is probably a really easy question, but I can't seem to find the answer. It involves shipping, and paying for said shipping, but not being in the place where things are being shipped from. [more inside]
posted by strixus at 10:57 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by strixus at 10:57 AM PST - 8 comments
So now I have egg on my face, but are there any in the batter?
Drunk Baking Problem! I don't know if I put eggs in this batter before putting it in the fridge. How can I tell for sure? [more inside]
posted by slightly sissy tea hound at 10:50 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by slightly sissy tea hound at 10:50 AM PST - 13 comments
Good pedometer watch, to track running and walking
Can you suggest a good pedometer watch, for less than 100 dollars? [more inside]
Best carry-on suitcase for domestic travel?
Help me pick the best carry-on suitcase that will meet my domestic traveling needs! [more inside]
posted by 6spd at 10:20 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by 6spd at 10:20 AM PST - 14 comments
Drove two days into a Missouri firestorm
What is there to do in St Louis over the holidays? [more inside]
posted by scruss at 9:58 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by scruss at 9:58 AM PST - 20 comments
Finding a woman friend in Asia
Love with a clever and pleasant woman in Asia [more inside]
posted by nickji at 9:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by nickji at 9:49 AM PST - 6 comments
Deliveries by Santa only please, not storks.
[BirthControlFilter: Xmas Edition] On vacation. Left birth control pills at home. D'oh! [more inside]
Staying Friends
Two weeks ago, my partner of 7 years informed me that we are no longer a couple. We are going to continue to live together for now, with no plans to change the living arrangements. So far, things have been quite amicable between us, and I would like that to continue. What can I do to help us handle this with grace and maturity? [more inside]
posted by yesster at 9:00 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by yesster at 9:00 AM PST - 9 comments
Hearing aids: high pitched squeal upon hugging. What's the deal?
Hearing aids: Why do they emit a high pitched bzzzzzzz when you hug someone who is wearing one, and does the wearer hear it, too?
posted by Stewriffic at 7:21 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Stewriffic at 7:21 AM PST - 13 comments
Will this poison me?
I just brushed my teeth with Vagisil cream on accident. Will this kill me? Also, how can I get this nasty taste out of my mouth? [more inside]
An injury is much sooner forgotten than an insult - helmet for Dad.
My father has falls. He's got Parkinsons, sort of. He's just been put in to a helmet by the nursing home folk. I"ve just seen it on Facebook. Worn by a young person here--> This made me quite upset.
He's an intelligent and dignified man. A retired academic. And now he looks.... well... it's terrible. I'm trying to find him something concealable or ... less buffoonish. [more inside]
posted by taff at 3:19 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by taff at 3:19 AM PST - 18 comments
Ant problem
We're having a bad (and sudden) ant problem in one of the two bathrooms on the second floor of our home. I don't know what kind of the ants they are or where they are coming from; they are really tiny. They are on the counters, in the shower...the ant traps don't seem to be working. Any suggestions please?
Merry Christmas
Need something to help me get through the holiday [more inside]
December 24
mother-in-law won't stop getting baby drunk
How can I (or anyone) stop my friend's mother-in-law from sneaking alcohol to my friend's infant daughter?
Alice and Bill have a baby, Clarice. Alice and Bill used to drink heavily, until they had Clarice, who is now about a year and a half old. Bill's parents, Dave and Edna, guzzle wine all day long. When Dave and Edna come to visit Alice, Bill and Clarice at the holidays, Edna's favorite game is to stick her finger in her wine glass and get Clarice to lick the wine off her finger.
Alice hates this, and prevents it when she's around, but she can't be in the room with them every single second. Just this evening, I was holding Clarice when Alice stepped out of the room, and had an awkward stand-off with Edna because I wouldn't let Clarice do it.
Thank you in advance for any practical tips you might have.
Just quit my job… how do I not waste 9 months of autonomy?
I just quit my job to pursue my dream of making things…and I now have 9 months of unplanned time to use. How the hell do I not waste it? (a part of me wants to go all indiana jones, but i'm not sure that's a viable option) [more inside]
posted by tarthur at 11:32 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by tarthur at 11:32 PM PST - 11 comments
Locked Out
Facebook is sending a "security code" to a phone number I no longer have. What do I do now? [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 10:23 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by shipbreaker at 10:23 PM PST - 9 comments
What does it take to make a cisco/linksys E2500 router work in bombay, india?
What does it take to make a cisco/linksys E2500 router work in bombay, india?
I'm trying to connect a cisco router to an internet access point in bombay, india. Currently, there is a single computer hooked up to a cable modem. That works fine but I want to add a router for additional access ( wireless and cable ). Details follow.... [more inside]
Intense, hard artificial lighting
Whats a good way to get hard, directional, intense lighting indoors? Preferably for not too much money. [more inside]
What is the norm on attending a holiday office party as a single person?
I'm single and going to my first office holiday party. Do I need to/Can I bring someone? If so, whom? What is the etiquette here? [more inside]
posted by ramenopres at 9:20 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by ramenopres at 9:20 PM PST - 22 comments
Best apps, podcasts, and audio files for a Cantonese-speaking woman to learn spoken English?
My girlfriend and I have bought her mother an iPod Touch. At her request, we're loading it with things to help her learn to speak better English. What are the best apps, podcasts, audiofiles, etc. for a Cantonese-speaking woman who wants to improve her English by herself? [more inside]
Please help me figure out what this type of window is called and when it was popular
What is this kind of glass called and when was it popular? [more inside]
posted by dogmom at 8:51 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by dogmom at 8:51 PM PST - 15 comments
Fix Neoprene Wrinkles?
My post office decided to bend, warp and shove this purchase into my mailbox. Now it's got these ugly wrinkles in it and I'm wondering if I can somehow wash n' dry neoprene to make it nice again?
posted by DisreputableDog at 7:46 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 7:46 PM PST - 8 comments
To feed or not to feed
We recently moved into a new house out in the "country". After setting up some bird and squirrel feeders, we realized that we had raccoons coming out to feed in our backyard at night. We had a few discussions about discouraging said raccoons. So should we or should we not be putting out food for them? What are the upsides and downsides of doing this? [more inside]
posted by citizngkar at 6:37 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by citizngkar at 6:37 PM PST - 31 comments
Spanish guitar-heavy pop song
Spanish guitar pop song from circa 2009? Music video features guy walking in a (rainy?) street, kinda sweaty? [more inside]
Name that game.
i'm looking for a music trivia game that has been out of production for at least five years... [more inside]
Irrational jealousy?
My female friend's boyfriend knows a girl that has been his friend for ages and he even lets her sit on his lap. This girl is quite affectionate towards him. This makes my female friend very uncomfortable! When she discussed it with her boyfriend, he said it had been like that for 20 years and he wouldn't change. What should my female friend do?
I usually think and write good.
Asking for my brother: Correct usage of the word "anymore." [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 5:29 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by sweetkid at 5:29 PM PST - 32 comments
We Can't Afford Therapy for All 3 Kids.
We need to finish the ceiling in our basement bedroom as cheaply as possible, and with as much soundproofing as possible, and have no idea how to do it. [more inside]
posted by VioletU at 5:03 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by VioletU at 5:03 PM PST - 5 comments
How can I get my new Camry to go faster?
Can I make my brand new Camry SE V6 go faster? [more inside]
posted by rybreadmed at 4:29 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by rybreadmed at 4:29 PM PST - 13 comments
Clean my carpet?
Puff paint on carpet: any magic tips? [more inside]
How Can I Make Windows Fonts Look Better?
How can I make font display in Windows look better?
I recently had to set up a Windows 7 (64-bit) machine. I haven't used Windows for several years. The quality of the font display doesn't seem to have improved.
Fonts look ragged to me. Big headline fonts at news sites are pretty awful, like they were slapped on by a sloppy painter. How can I make this better? Any tricks or products that address this? I've used Cleartype but, frankly, I not sure I noticed anything change.
posted by justcorbly at 4:12 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by justcorbly at 4:12 PM PST - 33 comments
Need better response than, 'Good day, now get off my lawn'
Gang of kids tell me I'm stuntin'. I'm assuming that it's not ironic, tho' I am not sure what they mean. How do I respond? [more inside]
Raw denim in Santa Barbara
Looking for raw denim in Santa Barbara, CA. [more inside]
posted by TrialByMedia at 3:16 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by TrialByMedia at 3:16 PM PST - 3 comments
Planning a bunch of weddings!
Planning for the future: Maryland and same-sex marriages [more inside]
Just bloody Kinect, will ya?!?
It's Christmas morning here, and I can't get the new Kinect for Xbox 360 working for my son. [more inside]
Get site map
How do I get a site map for a site that doesn't have one? Preferably with a complete clickable list of all the site's web pages? [more inside]
Is there anything else like Picross?
Can you recommend some new Nintendo DS puzzle games? [more inside]
(Syncing) RTF editor for Android
WordPad is a bare-bones RTF editor. What app will approximate WordPad on an Android? Bonus points if the editor also syncs itself between Android and Windows. [more inside]
Hide this ugly cord!
Ideas for concealing a cord than runs along a textured ceiling in my rental apartment? [more inside]
Substitute for sweet rice flour?
I have a recipe for gluten-free chocolate chip cookies that calls for rice flour, sweet rice flour and cornstarch. I can not find sweet rice flour at this late date. What is it for and what could I substitute? [more inside]
posted by amapolaroja at 11:29 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by amapolaroja at 11:29 AM PST - 11 comments
Princess Di Beanie Baby, is this still a kids toy?
Beanie Baby Appraisal Filter: How much is princess Di Beanie Baby Actually Worth? Ebay has one listed at $500,000... Heard of One Selling for $10,000... [more inside]
posted by MechEng at 11:01 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by MechEng at 11:01 AM PST - 12 comments
Why does my WRX rattle?
MeFites, why is there so much rattling inside my 2011 Subaru WRX? [more inside]
Extreme reaction to "Sorry honey..not in the mood"
I'm having exaggerated and irrational reactions to occasionally being turned down for sex by my partner when I am already physically aroused. Our relationship is stable otherwise, and our sex life is actually just fine. [more inside]
Home for the Holidays... and In Need of Help!
In Phoenix, Arizona (and surrounding areas) for the holidays and have two questions for locals re late-night drinking and karaoke... [more inside]
posted by slide at 10:00 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by slide at 10:00 AM PST - 6 comments
Help with Ear Pain
Help me deal with ear pain after flying [more inside]
Tourette's Syndrome and Profanity
Does the fact that with a person with Tourette's Syndrome will both physically jerk and in some cases yell profanity mean that profanity is hard wired into the brain? (Written in response to seeing this).
posted by scunning at 9:31 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by scunning at 9:31 AM PST - 11 comments
cash as a gift in the US
Help me understand why cash is not considered an acceptable gift option in the U.S. [more inside]
Can I make this Mousse more than 24 hours ahead of time?
I'm making a chocolate mascarpone mousse for Christmas. I've never made one before and I've chosen to make this recipe. Will it simply set up and get dense if I make it in the next hour or so for serving tomorrow evening? Or do I need to wait until tomorrow to make it? I figure I'll make a little whipped cream to serve on top.
posted by Jacob G at 8:59 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Jacob G at 8:59 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me clear my brother of his Thetan problem.
My brother recently entered Narconon for drug rehab. How worried should I be? [more inside]
fitted sheet for thinner mattress??
Does anyone know where I can buy fitted sheets that will fit my older 10-inch mattress? Everything they make now is for really thick mattresses, and the new fitted sheets just slip right off my thinner mattress. I'd rather not buy a new mattress just yet, and I'd prefer ones with a full elastic.
posted by cmp4Meta at 8:34 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by cmp4Meta at 8:34 AM PST - 12 comments
How did the U.S. House pass the payroll tax cut extension?
How did the U.S. House of Representatives pass the payroll tax cut extension yesterday when hardly any members were present? [more inside]
Am I making the right career choice even though I feel it might be wrong?
I recently chose to change directions in my career, so I’m back in school to receive the proper/required training. I did this in response to dislike of my former job and the realization that my artistic needs likely can’t be met through a full-time job. So I’ve chosen a career path that is very technical and science-based, opposite of anything artistic, but a good balance I think (I still plan on working on my art outside of job setting). I feel like it might be the wrong choice though since it's so different and that it might take over any artistic pursuits. Has anyone been in a similar situation? [more inside]
First-person accounts of the space programme
I'm looking for first-person accounts of the US space programme from the start to the moon shot. [more inside]
posted by Zarkonnen at 7:11 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Zarkonnen at 7:11 AM PST - 14 comments
Best way to sit on the floor?
I sit on the floor a lot. It's uncomfortable and difficult to sustain. Please share with me your techniques and poses to help me achieve this. Bonus points for Alexander-related techniques.
What can me and a good friend do for fun (in the daytime) that doesn't cost a lot of money?
What can me and a good friend do for fun (in the daytime) that doesn't cost a lot of money? [more inside]
I can't bear the thought of losing my Pete & Pete screencap descriptions
Help me drop Livejournal for good by finding a Scrapbook replacement. [more inside]
aerodynamic (dis)advantage of a recumbent bike roof
Is there any chance that the recumbent version of "veltop" reduces (total) drag? [more inside]
posted by Akeem at 4:24 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Akeem at 4:24 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me make the most of an extended work trip to Chile/Argentina
Resources to help me get the most out of a few months in South America, especially Chile and Argentina! [more inside]
Turning the hot water off to save energy
Can I save energy by turning the hot water off? [more inside]
How to handle tricky Hong Kong/Macau airport/ferry logistics?
I need urgent help figuring out transit logistics through Hong Kong Airport and Macau (via ferry), staying in Hong Kong for less than 24 hours. [more inside]
Engineering entrepreneurship
Is one field of engineering more suited to entrepreneurial endeavors? How does one become an entrepreneur in engineering or otherwise? [more inside]
December 23
If kids play well together, mom will have more free time. Is this too much to ask?
Three young kids fighting for mom's attention and fight among themselves. Busy mom wants tips on how to let them play better together and be more considerate of mom's overwhelming work to do to run the household. [more inside]
posted by akomom at 11:28 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by akomom at 11:28 PM PST - 19 comments
What are some free online services/products for students?
I'm looking for free versions of paid products offered to students (or just in general). Examples of what I'm looking for:
- Github offers two years free to students upon request of their micro plan.
- Amazon Prime is free for students for a trial period
- MSDNAA
How do I make air travel less painful after surgery?
How do I make air travel less painful after surgery? [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 9:27 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 9:27 PM PST - 10 comments
Robben Ford's "Handful of Blues" Guitar Tablature
Please help me find an out-of-print songbook of guitar tablature by the blues artist Robben Ford. [more inside]
posted by nonmerci at 8:39 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by nonmerci at 8:39 PM PST - 3 comments
The Cheap Completist II
The recent AskMeFi question asked "Which albums on Google Music's sale are cheaper if you buy them by the song?". This is the opposite of that. Which albums on Google Music are a steal 'cause the album at $4.99 (or a multiplier) are awesome deals that are worth adding to your collection because you get a very good $/song price? For example, The Police's Message In The Box gives you 78 songs for $20, or $.26/song.
How long does hemmorhoid surgery recovery last?
Talk to me about hemorrhoid surgery recovery. What can be done to make the pain better? [more inside]
Dealing with myself when I become Ms. Grumpy
I am finding myself behaving too much like my bickering parents and I hate it. How do I catch myself before I become grumpy and bicker with my partner? [more inside]
How can I manage H withdrawals and an 8hr plane flight?
How can I manage H withdrawals and an 8hr plane flight? I know theres other posts up about this on here but nobody has quite the same situation I'm in. I have a plane flight that leaves 6:30am on monday morning, its an 8hr plane flight and I just took my last shot 4 hrs ago today; lately I've been going through anywhere from .2-.5 of black tar everyday, I've never gone over that and I've only been using daily since last thursday (IV'ing since wednesday, smoking before that). I have half of a suboxone and a shit ton of vitamins (L-tyrosine, N-P-K mineral supplement, B-6/12, melatonin, and a multi). My first question: will I be over the worst of it by the time I get on that plane monday morning? Second question: what do you guys think is the best way to stagger all this out to minimize my hurt?
Is there a replacement for Mass Buying Power?
Whatever happened to Mass Buying Power, and more importantly, who took their place? [more inside]
posted by qurlyjoe at 6:57 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by qurlyjoe at 6:57 PM PST - 6 comments
Canine complicating family dynamics
How do I address my parents' insistence on bringing a dog into our house when my wife is opposed to it? [more inside]
Shoo fly, don't bother me. I don't need your company.
Can you help me identify these little flies? [more inside]
posted by unliteral at 6:33 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by unliteral at 6:33 PM PST - 11 comments
Don Ho sings 'Sabotage'
Early in his career, Conan O'Brien had Don Ho as his guest. Don Ho did a cover version of the Beastie Boys' single "Sabotage". This was the greatest piece of television history I have ever experienced. Is it available anywhere?
posted by Quonab at 6:25 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Quonab at 6:25 PM PST - 8 comments
Positive driving record?
What does "maintaining a positive driving record" mean in Washington state? [more inside]
Craft ideas for plain scrap fabric
Looking for uses for small scraps of plain (not particularly pretty) fabric. [more inside]
posted by sarae at 5:35 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by sarae at 5:35 PM PST - 17 comments
What's this piece called?
Please help me find the name of a classical music piece I saw performed on a TV program. [more inside]
posted by Devils Slide at 4:22 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Devils Slide at 4:22 PM PST - 4 comments
NYC Christmas dinner miracle
Bugdet Christmas meal NYC filter - Any recommendations for NYC restaurants serving a traditional Christmas meal (turkey, mashed potatoes, veg, etc) that won't break the bank? [more inside]
posted by kaybdc at 4:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by kaybdc at 4:12 PM PST - 4 comments
Help make my time travel party unbelievable!
I'm hosting a NYE party. The theme is time travel. I have a few ideas for food and drinks (and friends are bringing things, too), but can you give me some awesome ideas for making this party really fun and memorable? Any and all ideas are welcome! [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 3:38 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 3:38 PM PST - 35 comments
I still don't want to be Mark Zuckerberg's friend
I've just noticed that Facebook is geotagging status updates. How the hell do I turn it off? [more inside]
Repair DSLR or buy a new Micro Four Thirds camera?
We've a 3 year old Canon Rebel XS. It suddenly started reporting an 'Error #99' about a year ago, and the estimates I've received for repairing it are around $250, ugh. Before I spend the money doing that, I was considering replacing it with another camera, wonder what the hive mind thinks. [more inside]
posted by carterk at 3:12 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by carterk at 3:12 PM PST - 15 comments
Books that are fun to read out loud
What are some books, appropriate for an approx. two-year-old, that have the same sort of rhythm and/or rhyming mechanism as The Night Before Christmas? [more inside]
posted by meggan at 2:56 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by meggan at 2:56 PM PST - 16 comments
Oh Little Lamb We're Going to Eat, How Best to Fake a Braise?
My Christmas dining partners have requested a lamb dish for the feast. The recipe they want is for braised lamb shanks. What we have are 2 4-lb. boneless leg roasts. Please help me tweak this to find a similar flavor profile! [more inside]
posted by cyndigo at 2:42 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cyndigo at 2:42 PM PST - 9 comments
How did you lower your blood pressure without medication?
How did you lower your blood pressure without medication? [more inside]
From Desk to _?
Are there "basic college degree-holder" level jobs that DON'T involve constant sitting? I have 2.5 years of job experience in graphic design, but it turns out I really don't enjoy it, and more importantly I'm not actually all that good at it. I'm also the unhealthiest I've ever been in my life. [more inside]
How do I do it?
Is it possible to network all my storage? [more inside]
Where the hell is she
I am all packed for Christmas and I can't find my effing cat. I know she's in the house. Where could she be hiding? [more inside]
posted by duvatney at 1:12 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by duvatney at 1:12 PM PST - 50 comments
UF romance that doesn't squick
I'm looking for urban fantasy/sci fi series with romantic components that don't make me want to claw my eyes out. [more inside]
take a bad outgoing voicemail message, and make it better
How can get my professionally recorded outgoing voicemail message onto the iPhone 4s? In other words, I don't want to record over the iPhones built-in mic, I want to transfer my super good sounding existing sound file. Any thoughts? Thanks!
posted by largecorp at 12:30 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by largecorp at 12:30 PM PST - 6 comments
ISO catchy, sonically interesting pop that isn't too harmonically weird.
ISO well-written, catchy pop music that is also interesting sonically. [more inside]
Most forgiving blu-ray/media player?
My Blu-Ray player will play AVI, MKV & other video files but it is a little too finicky about which ones it will accept. Is there a more liberal, tolerant, and accepting player on the market? [more inside]
posted by anazgnos at 12:03 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by anazgnos at 12:03 PM PST - 8 comments
DIY lamp project
Do I have everything I need to safely put together this lamp without burning my apartment down? [more inside]
Cross-platform javascript apps
I'm working on a program that I want to be cross-platform, and someone suggested writing it in Javascript and using a javascript/html5 engine to display it without using a web browser. Are there any resources to get me started on this? [more inside]
I love it when a plan comes together
I'm looking for continuous/single-shot music videos [more inside]
Singing in the rain, sun, etc
Can you recommend a good, friendly voice instructor in the Boston area? [more inside]
The Cheap Completist
Google Music is selling $4.99 albums, but songs are only 49 cents each. Help me beat the system by suggesting great albums that include just a handful of songs. [more inside]
posted by Knappster at 11:37 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by Knappster at 11:37 AM PST - 33 comments
Help me find this video of the ultimate newscast fail
I need help finding a particular TV newscast fail video (that, IIRC, was posted on that blue). Specifics within. [more inside]
posted by bjork24 at 11:27 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by bjork24 at 11:27 AM PST - 3 comments
Can I reshrink this sweater?
I had a have a sweater that was very fitted in the sleeves. Without thinking, I spent the day with the sleeves rolled up (I had a dress shirt underneath it). Now the sleeves are all stretched out. Is the sweater permanently this way, or will running it through the dryer shrink it? It is 60% cotton / 30% viscose / 10% wool.
posted by geoff. at 11:10 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by geoff. at 11:10 AM PST - 6 comments
Surely she's out there SOMEWHERE.
How to meet single women in their early 30s who don't want kids? [more inside]
I like how Spotify publishes what I listen to on Facebook. Is there a way I can have what I listen to in iTunes publish on Facebook? In real time?
I like how Spotify publishes what I listen to on Facebook. Is there a way I can have what I listen to in iTunes publish on Facebook? In real time?
Some tech help, please
Non-techie with tech needs [more inside]
phone from Guatemala
How do I contact by phone travelocity or USAirways from Guatemala? [more inside]
posted by allelopath at 10:11 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by allelopath at 10:11 AM PST - 3 comments
Help my old man enjoy his golden years...
My dad is retired, 78, pretty on-the-ball - but he's a little depressed about his waning years. Any advice? [more inside]
Do you think I can get this book ("Marie Curie: A Tale of Love and Fallout") for my ex?
For the Mefites who have read Radioactive: Marie & Pierre Curie: A Tale of Love and Fallout: could you tell me if it would be okay for me to get my ex this book as a Christmas present? [more inside]
Is Patti right?
Is no "sex without monogamy" worth a try? [more inside]
Online Subscription Money Well Spent
What do you pay for online that you really feel is money well spent? [more inside]
posted by mcstayinskool at 8:59 AM PST - 63 comments
posted by mcstayinskool at 8:59 AM PST - 63 comments
Outdoor Jump rope in the US
Silly question but I am clueless: where to skip rope/jump rope in the US?!? [more inside]
posted by xm at 8:38 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by xm at 8:38 AM PST - 12 comments
Help me get Wolfe
What should I read to prep for my second foray into Gene Wolfe's Book of the New Sun? [more inside]
Last minute tuxedo question...I'm too fat for my pants!
Need last minute fashion advice concerning wearing a tuxedo jacket without its matching pants. [more inside]
What are some great "Take X, add bottle of wine, cook for Y hours" recipes?
What are some great recipes that involve taking some thing, adding an entire bottle of wine, a couple of minor ingredients (salt/pepper/herbs/vegetables for savory, sugar/spices/fruit for sweet) and then cooking it slowly for many hours? Especially recipes where it doesn't matter that the wine is probably exceptionally bad. [more inside]
posted by Deathalicious at 7:50 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Deathalicious at 7:50 AM PST - 44 comments
reconciling the undetermined feelings of creepiness
How do you deal with childhood feelings of being creeped out by a family friend, but no recollection of anything inappropriate ever happening? [more inside]
of course when it rains, it pours.
I have a job, which I've held since March '11. And now I have two interviews. I'm not sure I'm ready to leave my current job, but one of the interviews is for a much more prestigious company. How do I play this? [more inside]
Perfect e-book reader
Wanted: a large e-book reader with e-ink and PDF support. Does anyone know of such a product or if one is in the works? [more inside]
Doctor, doctor
Is it okay for someone suffering from abdominal tuberculosis (Koch's abdomen) to smoke or drink (alcohol) in moderation?
posted by murtagh at 6:11 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by murtagh at 6:11 AM PST - 3 comments
What should I do with my hair?
What should I do with my hair? White, male, 32. Hair is dirty blonde and wavy but not quite curly. I've never had good luck getting it cut, so I've always gone back and forth between shaving bald and just letting it grow. It's been growing for most of the year and looks like a fro, with the back almost to the shoulder. That was great in my 20's but I'd like something more professional and consistent. As is, it's all messed up and lopsided by lunchtime. [more inside]
posted by mad bomber what bombs at midnight at 6:10 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by mad bomber what bombs at midnight at 6:10 AM PST - 20 comments
On any team, four offensive players won't have the ball…
Why is off-ball movement such a difficult basketball skill? The more I watch college, and even NBA, basketball and focus on offensive plays rather than just the person with the ball, the more I realize that most of the guys on the court are not moving, and it results in stagnant offenses. So why is off-ball movement such a difficult skill to develop? I would think that, at least in set plays, coaches would script out the off-ball movement for not just the key players (like the person who is going to make the backdoor cut) but for the rest of the team as well. Yet with rare exceptions, you only see one or two players moving at a time. Why?
Christmas whisky
I Wanna Walk in a Winter Wonderland!
Help me decide on a quiet but accessible winter retreat destination for snow play? [more inside]
Winter is here, lend me your ear...
Christmas carols for pagans? Mentions of Yuletide, Solstice and winter are excellent, Santa is fine, Christmas is fine, but I'm looking for beautiful music (choral and orchestral) that has no mention of Jesus Christ, Israel or saints. [more inside]
posted by ninazer0 at 4:40 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by ninazer0 at 4:40 AM PST - 36 comments
How do you not mess relationships up?
Best place for bulk spices in Cairo?
Where is the best place in Cairo to purchase spices in bulk, assuming I can't speak Arabic and want a few hundred grams of, say, dukkah, saffron, sumac, anise, za'atar, or ras el hanout? Happy to go to a supermarket or something, but I'm also happy to attempt to bargain! [more inside]
Finding a new orthodontist for my braces
I left Chicago without finishing up my braces (there really is no way I can go back due to the violence and stalking issues I had back there). I am now looking for a new orthodontist who will finish up my braces or at least remove them in LA. But I heard it's really expensive to get a new orthodontist. How should I go about getting one that I can afford?
How does a non-science major structure a self-guided science/engineering course of study?
How does a non-science major structure a self-guided science/engineering course of study? [more inside]
posted by holterbarbour at 1:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by holterbarbour at 1:28 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me spread 1960's style cheer?
MusicFilter: You all know "Denise." I need songs like that in genre, year, and theme. [more inside]
Scenarios...
How do you "wrap up" a first date that goes well? Or a date that doesn't go well? [more inside]
posted by StrictlyVague at 12:43 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by StrictlyVague at 12:43 AM PST - 17 comments
December 22
Down vs. cotton vs. silk blanket/comforter
I own this down alternative comforter. It causes me to wake up with sweaty legs, so I'm looking for a replacement. This article recommends that people in my situation should go with silk or cotton instead of down. Is there an advantage to do that over just getting a thinner down comforter?
Note: my bedroom ranges from 62-65 at night.
Help me take my mind off of my body's march toward death
Where to take a 5-7 day international (from the US) vacation next late September? Some restrictions apply . . . [more inside]
It gives you so much to talk about, but no way to flirt about it.
Cross-cultural daters, how different is flirting across (very distinct) cultures? Please tell me about your experiences with culture flirt shock. [more inside]
This Turned Out To Be a Poor Investment
Has anyone here strategically defaulted on a mortgage in recourse state? Would you be willing to talk about it? [more inside]
"Kringle was on top of the world, but then it all came crashing down..."
Can you recommend any good, relatively clean, satirical "true story"/"Biography"-type humor writings, videos, skits, etc about Santa, and/or perhaps other Christmas characters like Rudolph or Frosty? [more inside]
Mac file manipulation for power users?
Is there a SQL-like way to interact with the Mac filesystem? Failing that, what's better than the Finder for batch copies/moves/deletions? [more inside]
posted by ripley_ at 8:07 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by ripley_ at 8:07 PM PST - 12 comments
Unexpected fruits of mockery and malice
The man can be overbearing, inserting his opinion instead of closing his mouth and opening his wallet, am I right? According to Michael Ian Black on a recent, awkward episode of WTF, the cast of The State bristled at MTV's suggestion that they add recurring characters to their sketches. As a fuck you to MTV, they created a character whose catch phrase, "I want to dip my balls in it" became a sensation. Know of any other creative fuck yous that have become cultural phenomena or were otherwise successful despite their intent?
Hungry Hungry Hippo
Best restaurant in Myrtle Beach, SC? [more inside]
Why is the internet (via ethernet) working on one pc but not on another or a mac?
Internet works on one windows 7 laptop via ethernet but not on a macbook pro and not on another windows 7 laptop. Ethernet is my only option right now, router is not available.
I want to fix this particular issue not internet connection sharing (thank you for thinking though). [more inside]
Can you help me identify this image?
Who took this photograph?
Who took this photograph of Christie Brinkley?
Wherefore art thou, oh Game Genie?
Is there something like Game Genie for Wii? Surely Nintendo must be willing to take the money of us uncoordinated folk! [more inside]
posted by badgermushroomSNAKE at 7:43 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by badgermushroomSNAKE at 7:43 PM PST - 10 comments
How to Really Get Over Someone
How do you really get over someone after you may have had something? Special, long details inside. [more inside]
Can I learn to swim on land?
Which web development skills can I learn with an offline laptop, in the jungle, in a year? [more inside]
posted by pickingupsticks at 6:51 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by pickingupsticks at 6:51 PM PST - 11 comments
Can you tell me what the name of this TV special was? It may have aired on Showtime or HBO in the late 80s or early 90s.
Long ago (late 80s? early to mid 90s?) my sister had a videocasette tape of something that was presumably recorded from Showtime or HBO. It seemed to be a "special" of some sort that involved a guy in a very stage-like unrealistic bedroom interacting with large monster-like puppets and singing strange comical songs. I think at some point he also swung on a vine from one area of the room to the other. There were a lot of musical segments. I think at one point he was dressed up in a safari outfit, but I'm not certain.
I know I haven't provided a lot of details here, but maybe you know what I'm talking about?
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 6:24 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 6:24 PM PST - 11 comments
Are "Rock Operas" really operas?
Liquid echinacea: The best birthday present (but only if it is disgusting enough). Help?
Which brand of liquid echinacea is the one that tastes terrible and makes you feel like hair is growing on your tongue? Or are all of them like this? [more inside]
You put Your Whole Self In, You Put Your Whole Self Out, You Put Your Whole Self In and Shake It All About
After 25 years of marriage, I find myself on the cusp between a loving commitment based on radical acceptance of the other just as they are, and unfulfilled needs on multiple levels. From your own marital experience are these two mutually exclusive? [more inside]
posted by Xurando at 5:02 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Xurando at 5:02 PM PST - 28 comments
Spying on the cheap
Need a battery operated security (nannycam) camera recommendation. [more inside]
Dirty lyrics Ella Fitzgerald album?
I'm trying to find an album by (I think) Ella Fitzgerald with suggestive/dirty lyrics. If my memory is correct, it was a full album and the lyrics were at minimum very suggestive and more toward full-on profane.
The Wild, Wild West(ern Europe)
What is the deal with censorship on the BBC? [more inside]
Is Traverse City right for me?
Tell me what it's like to live in Traverse City, Michigan. [more inside]
There's something in the climate that charms
Beach tent camping in Florida for two weeks in January. What should I expect? Any advice? [more inside]
Please help me pick a mobile phone plan in British Columbia
Please help me pick a mobile phone plan in British Columbia. [more inside]
posted by crazycanuck at 2:48 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by crazycanuck at 2:48 PM PST - 7 comments
Shoe Trees for These?
I know what shoe trees are supposed to do, but what shoes should I be putting them in. All my shoes? Just the ones made out of leather? Any shoes I invest >$50 in? Is putting shoe trees in sneakers fussy, or good practice? In short, tell me what sorts of shoes benefit from trees, and which didn't. [more inside]
posted by Apropos of Something at 2:40 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Apropos of Something at 2:40 PM PST - 7 comments
what is this post-apocalyptic kids movie?
What is this post-apocalyptic kids TV movie I saw in the 90s or early 00s? [more inside]
posted by fireflies at 2:27 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by fireflies at 2:27 PM PST - 14 comments
Who doesn't love a dog in spectacles?
I've become mildly obsessed with a photo of Cary Grant reading a script with a poodle that he's equipped with glasses. I want a print of it. [more inside]
Looking for a web based camera DVR
I have just installed a few foscam cameras in my business but no dvr to record the feed. Does a wise soul in the hive know of any web based dvr that can record the feed for later viewing. Something I can access online with out having to install a DVR.
Do you know a good catsitter?
I need a catsitter near north Seattle with these qualifications. They can pick up my cat in Everett. They can keep my cat for an indeterminate period, possibly a couple months. They have experience living with cats. They charge no more than $10 a day over the cost of pickup, food, litter and other expenses. They can take weekly payments via Paypal or checks. Sookie has her shots and papers, as well as an airline-approved cat carrier. Do you know someone? [more inside]
Is this from a film?
Found this movie still (?) on Tumblr. Where is it from? [more inside]
posted by joyeuxamelie at 1:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by joyeuxamelie at 1:24 PM PST - 9 comments
Is it worth being acceptive of this opportunity?
She showed interest and was very upfront, but I'm self-shooting my foot concerned. Is this worth being open to nonetheless? [more inside]
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option?
Why do my significant other’s girlfriends dislike me? [more inside]
Having trouble planning my first trip in Kyoto.. a little lost
Completely lost about planning my Kyoto trip. Please help me to plan [more inside]
Shopping for the hard-to-gift
[gift idea filter] Trying to buy a gift for my daughter-in-law, who is a lovely girl (28) whom I do not know very well. [more inside]
Burned once more by my online shopping habit
I bought some clothes online from a store based in the UK, shipped to the US. Is this surprise customs/duty/shipping charge normal? [more inside]
posted by ghostbikes at 12:38 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by ghostbikes at 12:38 PM PST - 15 comments
Before bed, where do I put the clothes that I want to wear again?
Traditionally, where do people put the clothes they wore during the day that aren't dirty enough to go into the laundry hamper, but aren't clean enough to go back in the closet? Also, it's likely they want to wear them again soon. [more inside]
posted by Sully at 12:36 PM PST - 85 comments
posted by Sully at 12:36 PM PST - 85 comments
Strange holiday card image
I received this odd image on a holiday card. Who's the guy in the painting and what's up with the dolls?
Geeks! To the Bridge! I need your help picking season 2 TNG episodes for my boyfriend to watch.
Excelsior!!! My awesome boyfriend bought me all seven seasons of my favorite TV show for Christmas. He did so knowing that I would make him watch it...how brave of him!
Please help me decide which episodes of Star Trek - The Next Generation he should watch. [more inside]
yum, drinking tea with a dormouse
I am desperately trying to remember a song from a mix-tape around 1996 that involved a male singing in a quiet, resigned, almost-verging-on-happy-about-giving-up tone about how he was going to just stay inside and live his do-nothing life in his crappy run-down home and drink tea with a dormouse. Something to that effect. Minimalist sound, kind of plinky and plonky. [more inside]
Best restaurants in Cleveland
Cleveland restaurant filter: What are your favorite restaurants in Cleveland? Visiting here, interested in any cuisine in any part of town—just looking for the proverbial "best" restaurants (however you might personally judge that). Thanks!
Website that summarizes current political issues?
Is there a website that can briefly summarize current political issues and why each party is for or against?
Proper butcher shop in Portland/Beaverton/Hillsboro?
Can anybody recommend a top notch butcher shop in Portland, OR (actually even better would be Beaverton/Hillsboro)? Sometimes for special occasions I'd like to step up my cooking a notch, including getting more specific cuts or prep, asking questions, etc, and actually interacting with my butcher.
Help me make Twonky 2.0 before Christmas?
Help! Do you own the new edition of RoboRally and either a good scanner or a nice camera and tripod? [more inside]
posted by 256 at 11:45 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by 256 at 11:45 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me find high-quality image files of Xbox360 achievement icons.
Help me find high-quality image files of Xbox360 achievement icons. [more inside]
Can I take MBA-level classes (part-time) with transferable B-School credits without enrolling in an official MBA program?
Can I take MBA-level classes (part-time) with transferable B-School credits without enrolling in an official MBA program? [more inside]
posted by ariela at 11:26 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by ariela at 11:26 AM PST - 12 comments
Need some advice about Albuquerque, NM
Moving from MS to NM in a couple of weeks, and I want to lessen my culture shock... help? [more inside]
posted by patheral at 11:11 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by patheral at 11:11 AM PST - 14 comments
I wanted strawberry jelly but now you've brought out lime jelly as well ...
After a period of redundancy (thanks, ConDems) I am being swamped with job offers (well, two). How do I deal with this? [more inside]
posted by Martha My Dear Prudence at 10:31 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Martha My Dear Prudence at 10:31 AM PST - 10 comments
What was this half-remembered chapter book?
What was this children's book--not The Phantom Tollbooth--about a game based on puns, spoonerisms, and other word games? [more inside]
posted by johnofjack at 10:10 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by johnofjack at 10:10 AM PST - 6 comments
How much of Christmas Dinner can be made the day before?
How much of Christmas Dinner can I precook? [more inside]
posted by wwax at 9:44 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by wwax at 9:44 AM PST - 18 comments
Weight training equipment and advice for a pre-teen athlete
Weight training equipment and advice for a pre-teen athlete? [more inside]
Melissa Button Boots in Toronto?
Can I try on a pair of Frye Melissa Button boots in Toronto? [more inside]
posted by mellifluous at 9:26 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mellifluous at 9:26 AM PST - 8 comments
Post-Cold War spy novels?
Have any recommendations for post-Cold War spy/espionage novels? [more inside]
what's that number?
Where to eat, drink, and type in D.C.?
I'll be in Washington D.C. from December 26th to the 31st. I'm staying at the Omni Shoreham in Woodley Park. Please tell me about cheap vegetarian eats, good coffee shops and bars, and free wifi in my neighborhood and elsewhere. [more inside]
Nerdy fun for kids in PDX
So I'm visiting my wife's family in Portland and just discovered that the electronics surplus wonderland known as "Wacky Willy's" went out of business several years ago. It was sort of like Archie McPhee's for Maker types. Are there other similar places that I can take my budding geek 12-year-old that are similar to Wacky Willy's? [more inside]
Baby making
Baby making with a man who was previously married and has young children of his own. [more inside]
posted by i_wear_boots at 7:50 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by i_wear_boots at 7:50 AM PST - 16 comments
Dance party USA teeny bopper type ish?
Looking for a source for DJ dance mixes that lean toward the indie rock/pop side of the spectrum but don't neglect radio dance-pop. [more inside]
posted by sprocket87 at 7:45 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by sprocket87 at 7:45 AM PST - 4 comments
Bike and camping supplies in Las Veags?
I'm planning a trip do Death Valley in january and I'll be landing in Las Vegas where I'll spend the first day or two preparing, and I wonder if anyone has some recommendations for places where I can get the supplies I need. [more inside]
Meatfilter: "Semi boneless" rib roast?
Nearby supermarket is advertising "Semi-Boneless Beef Rib Roast" on sale for $5.99/lb. What the heck do they mean by "semi-boneless"? [more inside]
posted by jrchaplin at 7:26 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jrchaplin at 7:26 AM PST - 6 comments
Mountain climbing, girls, eternal philosophical questions...
I have a vague memory of reading a philosophical text with a high-school student I was tutoring...There are perhaps two people in the story, and they are climbing a mountain. One of them, a young man, is hung up on a girl. Perhaps the other character is a brother or even his mother? Does this ring any bells?
posted by Ollie at 7:24 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Ollie at 7:24 AM PST - 7 comments
Soft squishy sugar cookies
I need a recipe for a soft, squishy sugar cookie. [more inside]
posted by k8lin at 7:18 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by k8lin at 7:18 AM PST - 15 comments
The Perils of Visiting the ThinkGeek Website In the UK on December 22nd
Help me think of an awesome movie and/or geeky christmas gift for my brother! [more inside]
posted by jaffacakerhubarb at 6:50 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by jaffacakerhubarb at 6:50 AM PST - 9 comments
help me pick a nice red wine for my dad for Christmas
I'd like to get my dad a nice bottle of red wine to drink with Christmas dinner. I'm thinking a nice table wine that he maybe hasn't tried before.
His favorites are Masi's Campofiorin and the Cesari Mara. In the past I've splurged on some nice Amarone's and Barolo's but I'm thinking I'd like to do something in the $10-$20 range.
Any suggestions? Thanks!
Slow music for a HOT day?
Slow music for a HOT day? [more inside]
dichotomy of being content and restless.
Can one be content and yet vaguely restless in life? [more inside]
posted by gadget_gal at 2:51 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by gadget_gal at 2:51 AM PST - 11 comments
Help identify Oriental vase (Satsuma?)
Please help me identify a vase my MIL bought. She was told it's Satsuma. [more inside]
I guess it's too much to hope for that there's a Poem Fairy.
I got weird spam (?) consisting of an 8th-century Chinese poem. What's up with that? [more inside]
Remote Computer Management: "Computer Shim"?
Looking for a hardware approach to remote management, that I can stick on a computer and control everything from the BIOS to any OS I please. [more inside]
posted by Pontifex at 1:57 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Pontifex at 1:57 AM PST - 9 comments
What might I be doing or saying that is causing people to label me as ‘smart’ or to think I’m smarter than I actually am?
What might I be doing or saying that is causing people to label me as ‘smart’ or to think I’m smarter than I actually am? [more inside]
Cheer up my bathroom!
My bathroom is sad and it's making me sad. [more inside]
posted by Space Kitty at 12:27 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by Space Kitty at 12:27 AM PST - 36 comments
December 21
Best way to learn Excel (from scratch) for entry-level actuarial work?
Two actuarial exams passed, writing resume and CV, need to learn Excel fairly well, for basic entry-level actuarial work. Any book recommendations? Or other learning modules? What's the best approach?
I'm fairly competent at learning technical things.
Butt... butt... it's not a pork loin.
Can I make a pork roast for Yuletide from a pork shoulder butt? [more inside]
posted by Wordwoman at 10:17 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Wordwoman at 10:17 PM PST - 11 comments
A Very Soy Christmas
Christmas Eve, New York City, vegetarian dining. [more inside]
Computer power connection malfunctioning
Is it possible to replace the female part of the power cord connection in a laptop? [more inside]
Help Me H4x0r My Xmas Lights?
I bought a few strands of cheap LED Xmas lights this year. They include a circuit box with several settings to make the lights flash in different patterns. The circuit box resets itself (to a new annoying setting) each time the lights are unplugged or when it shorts out in the rain, and I also suspect the box is the product's "built-in expectancy" (since otherwise LEDs might last too long to be profitable. Can I bypass the box? [more inside]
HAL-lite for Mom
What netbook should I buy for my mother who has very limited experience with computers? [more inside]
posted by vidur at 9:06 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by vidur at 9:06 PM PST - 33 comments
not quite undergrad, not quite grad, but feeling a research binge
How do I turn my current (quite positive) experience with community work into (a) anthropological research pre-grad or (b) non-fiction writing? Or, how do you conduct research outside of the academy? [more inside]
Do I just fire my network?
The canonical advice for finding work is "network". I have a network: people who ask me technical questions all the time. Yet none has sent me a single reference to (engineering) work. I've gotten fed up with answering their questions, when they know I am looking and yet they produce squat in the way of "so-and-so is looking for someone who can do what you do." So what do I do? [more inside]
Palestinian Chicken
What Bird Might This Be?
this feels like an abusive relationship
Help me understand why this is not getting any better. Someone has given me nothing but signs that he thinks I'm incompetent. Then came an outstanding positive review. Yet I'm still not any happier nor do I care anymore to improve the relationship. [more inside]
Christmas cracker emergency on Long Island
Where can I buy Christmas crackers on Eastern Long Island? [more inside]
Going out of business... again.
Why do furniture stores rely so heavily on the advertising gimmick of “going out of business” sales? [more inside]
How do I find time to work on a creative project while succeeding at work?
I feel borderline incompetent at my job and spend almost all of my free time outside of work trying to work on a creative project. Am I a screw up? [more inside]
How can I come off like an adult when I feel like a nothing.
How do you tell your employer you're dealing with depression? [more inside]
Finding Art Classes
I would like to buy my girlfriend a gift certificate for some art classes, but I don't know where to start. Help! We're in Los Angeles. [more inside]
posted by phaedon at 5:54 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by phaedon at 5:54 PM PST - 8 comments
Household learning!
My cups of tea teach me things. Can the carpets, or the plates, or the cushions? [more inside]
A Clean Well-Lighted Place for Musicians?
Does something like Dr. Sketchy or a hackerspace exist for musicians? [more inside]
An ill wind
Are there any mythological creatures or figures in Russian folklore that are particularly associated with storms, wind or bad weather? Are there any particular stories that expand on what Wikipedia has to say?
posted by Artw at 4:39 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Artw at 4:39 PM PST - 6 comments
Option other than Ensure
Please recommend high-calorie, high nutrition options/meal replacements for a person who has difficulty swallowing. [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow at 4:36 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by otherwordlyglow at 4:36 PM PST - 22 comments
Live in the city, work in the suburbs?
Chicago-specific question: I'll be accepting a job in the northwest suburbs. Is living in the city and working in the suburbs doable? [more inside]
posted by naju at 4:26 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by naju at 4:26 PM PST - 19 comments
Gifts for someone who has to significantly cut living expenses.
Gifts for someone who has to significantly cut living expenses. [more inside]
My girlfriend lies about hanging out with her ex
Is it okay for my girlfriend to hang out with her needy ex?
Why she would hide their meetings if there's nothing to hide?
Am I rational or am I the product of being cheated on several times in the past? [more inside]
posted by dreamsofhorses at 3:25 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by dreamsofhorses at 3:25 PM PST - 42 comments
Upgrading and buying new Apple gear.
In what order should I make my Apple purchases? Any advantages or disadvantages to buying an iPad now and waiting on an iPhone 4s till July? Should I swap the order? [more inside]
posted by SNWidget at 3:19 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by SNWidget at 3:19 PM PST - 18 comments
As a consultant-owner of a new US company, what do I need to know about doing business in Canada?
I just started a new (technology) consulting business. We are incorporated in the US (Inc, not LLC). One of my first clients is located in Canada. You aren't my lawyer. The client wants to start work next week. The engagement will last about a week. What do I need to know (visa?, taxes?) before heading to Canada next Monday? [more inside]
If I wanted to read about "rock stars", I'd subscribe to Blender.
Tech news and commentary without the "macho nerd bullshit"? [more inside]
posted by Ralston McTodd at 3:04 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Ralston McTodd at 3:04 PM PST - 9 comments
A week on the Big Island?
Camper-vanning it on the Big Island of Hawaii next week: what should two Alaskans not miss? [more inside]
posted by charmedimsure at 3:03 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by charmedimsure at 3:03 PM PST - 10 comments
Lost diploma in Hurricane Katrina
How can I prove that I have an associates degree when the school is closed and the Custodian of Records said the records were destroyed in Hurricane Katrina. [more inside]
How can I get over this breach of trust?
How to get over a serious breach of trust that is not infidelity? [more inside]
Simple way to watch HD movies on my TV?
I want watch on my TV the videos that are on my computer. HD (720p) format. Video streaming of content not necessary. What is the easiest and cheapest way to go about this? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 2:14 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by zardoz at 2:14 PM PST - 25 comments
I know it's the right thing to do. Why don't they?
How do I handle the reaction of my family and (people I thought of as) close friends to the news of my divorce? Lots of special snowflakes ahead. [more inside]
Why am I immune to speed?
Ritalin having no effect whatsoever, why? [more inside]
Velveeta + Rotel + ______ = Boom!
What one or two ingredients can I add to my queso-cheapo (Velveeta & Rotel) to make it pop?
grating/shredding tips?
How do I shred carrots and beets so they stay moist? [more inside]
Help me name my self-guided city tour website!
Help me name my self-guided city tour website. [more inside]
Sharing experiment data
Is there a way to access Google Website Optimizer experiment data/results via a Google Analytics account? [more inside]
posted by fifteen schnitzengruben is my limit at 1:07 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by fifteen schnitzengruben is my limit at 1:07 PM PST - 1 comment
Random albums in MediaMonkey?
Can I randomize a MediaMonkey playlist by album rather than by track? [more inside]
Does anyone make an inexpensive uninterruptible power supply that supports SNMP?
Does anyone make an inexpensive uninterruptible power supply that supports SNMP? [more inside]
posted by ridogi at 12:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ridogi at 12:57 PM PST - 4 comments
Holiday viewing to distract and entertain
What are some awesome movies that just happen to be set around Christmas? [more inside]
What are these visual phenomena?
I have the perfect question for the hive mind:
Does anyone know the name for and reasoning behind the following visual phenomena:
1 The patterns you see when two fences (or any repeating "grid" of objects) pass each other (or appear to pass each other due to parallax) slightly out of phase. I was told the name for this and it bugs me that I've forgotten it.
2 The odd wobbling about you see in LED clocks when eating or (even more pronounced if you can do it) when "rolling" the letter R.
The name is what I'm most interested in RE 1, and the reasoning for 2!
posted by cdenman at 12:16 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by cdenman at 12:16 PM PST - 21 comments
spices pepper cooking
What are some of your favorite"outside the box" uses for spices? [more inside]
Free Kindle Book book
When I had the first generation Kindle I had an e-book that was basically an index of free e-books that were in the public domain, and the title of each book was actually a hyper-link that would let you download a copy of said book right to the home screen of the Kindle. Does anyone know where I could get another copy of that book? [more inside]
posted by Bango Skank at 11:48 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Bango Skank at 11:48 AM PST - 11 comments
Come on baby, light my fire (and don't let me die from fumes)
How do I open/close my fireplace flue? [more inside]
Recommend some interactice software for composing multiple choice questions which can be used online or via CD-ROM
Recommend some interactice software for composing multiple choice questions which can be used online or via CD-ROM [more inside]
Spotify, network resources, and you (with a bonus FB question)
What kind of network resources does Spotify consume, especially on the upload side, and how much is it like a peer-to-peer structure? [more inside]
posted by randomkeystrike at 11:17 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by randomkeystrike at 11:17 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me find buttoned suspender / braces pants.
Where can I find mens' trousers that have buttons for suspenders/braces? [more inside]
posted by reverend cuttle at 11:04 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by reverend cuttle at 11:04 AM PST - 15 comments
What is this object I found in Goodwill?
What is this? Spotted in a Goodwill, with no documentation or package. The smushed-ball thing is metal, and the cable is very flexible. The base is plastic.
posted by everichon at 10:58 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by everichon at 10:58 AM PST - 6 comments
Where does the pink flash in film transitions come from?
What technical film-editing component leads to "pink flashes" on transitions, like this one or this one? [more inside]
what full-time jobs, other than retail, can i find?
i didn't go to college. what full-time jobs, other than retail, can i find? [more inside]
Up, up and away ... oh shit, wait, wait!
Comic-book physics question: Let's say I'm a superhero whose only power is the power of flight. How fast could I fly in the atmosphere before I get injured, ripped apart or burned up? [more inside]
Is Textmate for me?
Those of you who are devotees of Textmate, I'd like you to convince me to switch. [more inside]
posted by middleclasstool at 9:01 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by middleclasstool at 9:01 AM PST - 15 comments
What does pre-medicating w/antibiotics before a dental visit do to your body?
I have to take 2000mg of Amoxicillin before I visit the dentist -- is that a large dose? Would it muck with the balance of good bacteria in my body? Just curious, thanks!
posted by 10ch at 8:29 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by 10ch at 8:29 AM PST - 13 comments
It's FUBAR, sir! Stay frosty, private!
FUBAR, SNAFU, any others? Do other languages have acronyms that have become embedded words within their vernacular? [more inside]
posted by rich at 8:26 AM PST - 61 comments
posted by rich at 8:26 AM PST - 61 comments
What are some good "official" programs, websites and journals on [any form of] anthropology?
What are some good "official" programs, websites and journals on [any form of] anthropology? [more inside]
I say tomato etc.
Where can I find a comprehensive list of words that are pronounced differently in the US and the UK? Wikipedia is a good start, but it's not complete. [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c at 8:19 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by cincinnatus c at 8:19 AM PST - 10 comments
Angles on angle grinders
What to look for when buying an angle grinder? [more inside]
posted by anadem at 8:11 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by anadem at 8:11 AM PST - 13 comments
I forgot the name of this skate trick.
Help me identify this skateboard trick whose name has escaped me. [more inside]
posted by jitterbug perfume at 8:06 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by jitterbug perfume at 8:06 AM PST - 14 comments
Water, water everywhere (but I guess a Brita filter isn't good enough)
Do you have a *residential* water dispenser in your kitchen or similar? I need some advice on picking and servicing. [more inside]
I need guidance on thumb pain/RSI symptoms that I can't find info on...
I'm getting some kind of RSI on the side of the end of my thumb (exterior, adjacent to the right side of my thumbnail.) It feels like it is burning and getting worse. It is the spot where I hit the spacebar/trackpad. I'm worried, but in reading up on thumb pain, can't find this particular injury, nor any suggested remedies.
minimalist running: ur doing it wrong
How can I determine if I'm using proper form transitioning to minimalist running shoes? [more inside]
How do I get that "she smells nice!" reaction, not coughing and gagging?
Every time I apply perfume I'm afraid that I'm going overboard. For those of you who wear scents, how much (and where) do you apply? [more inside]
Is there an "edit window" for PHPBB?
Is there such a thing as an "edit window" for PHPBB? [more inside]
posted by fake at 7:32 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by fake at 7:32 AM PST - 2 comments
Pre-marriage jitters, mental issues, or genuine concerns?
My boyfriend and I have been together 6 years. He's 30, I'm 27. Things have been good, but I'm seeing obstacles and not able to decide whether to get married. Can they be surmounted? [more inside]
Casual relationship and NYE
I haven't been invited to his New Year's Eve party. Now what? [more inside]
Kefir is the mind killer.
So I got these kefir grains, but what the heck do I do with them? [more inside]
posted by Think_Long at 6:53 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Think_Long at 6:53 AM PST - 5 comments
Time to see a new optometrist?
How can my eyes be healthy when I need to wear glasses? [more inside]
posted by Anima Mundi at 6:36 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Anima Mundi at 6:36 AM PST - 15 comments
Cats+Couch = Happiness?
We have a $1500 budget for a new couch. We also have two boisterous longhair cats. What type of couch will survive them better, leather or something with slipcovers? [more inside]
I see a wood door and I want to paint it white
Who's right, my realtor or my painter? Should I paint my trim white? Replace it? Details inside (and time is of the essence, the painter comes today) [more inside]
Carob versus Chocolate in History
Carob versus Chocolate: Carob is widely held up by the Vegan/HealthFoods crowd as the 'healthier' and just as tasty rival to chocolate. However if Carob is really just as great as Cacao/Chocolate then how did Cacao/Chocolate come to surpass Carob and so dominate the European Market? [more inside]
posted by mary8nne at 5:11 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by mary8nne at 5:11 AM PST - 41 comments
Looking for a quiet, unspoiled beach holiday in the US
Beautiful, quiet sandy beaches on the east coast or gulf coast of the US for a holiday next summer? Cottages with hammocks are preferable to condos or hotels. Basically I'm looking for the exact opposite of places like Myrtle Beach. Proximity (as in an hour's drive or less) to a culturally interesting city like New Orleans or Charleston is a definite bonus.
What is this symbol?
What is the significance of a symbol that was everywhere in the '90s? It consisted of a vaguely heart-shaped urn-like thing with an open top and flames coming out of the top. If memory serves, there were usually Xs across the widest point of the heart, and sometimes flames in the background. I remember this from the sleeve art for Celebrity Skin (Courtney Love is wearing a tee shirt with the symbol) and from the old House of Blues logo. What is this symbol called, and what does it mean?
posted by pxe2000 at 4:50 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by pxe2000 at 4:50 AM PST - 14 comments
Coffee stir-sticks
Is the wide end of a disposable coffee-stirrer meant for holding or stirring? [more inside]
posted by molecicco at 2:46 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by molecicco at 2:46 AM PST - 3 comments
Japan to Singapore travel help?
Traveling from Japan to Singapore via Taiwan. WRINKLES: 12:30a landing in Singapore and leaving from a predominantly-domestic airport in Japan. Question 1: Can I do yen directly to Singapore dollars in Taiwan? Question 2: How best to kill time in Chengi airport until the buses and MRT start running again in the morning?
posted by DoctorFedora at 1:38 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by DoctorFedora at 1:38 AM PST - 10 comments
Tell me about the Illuminati
Is there a serious, modern, non-fiction, non-kook, non-speculative history of the Bavarian Illuminati, as founded for Adam Weishaupt? I mean the German rationalist club, not the conspiracy theories surrounding it. [more inside]
December 20
weights vs cardio
I like running and swimming, and try to do about half an hour of each at least three or four times a week. Now I've started weight training three times a week as well. Should I reduce the cardio if I want to gain muscle faster? I'm a naturally skinny ectomorph that has a hard time putting on mass.
NYE on the cheap
What can I do for New Year's Eve? It's my first time single in five Decembers. I work for the airlines and need spur-of-the-moment inexpensive advice. [more inside]
posted by bendy at 10:06 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by bendy at 10:06 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me pull off a magic trick on Christmas morning
"Is Santa real? Wait - don't tell me." My son is 95% sure Santa is imaginary but is enjoying the 5% possibility that Santa is real. His gift has mysteriously changed color - help me blow his mind. [more inside]
posted by selfmedicating at 10:05 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by selfmedicating at 10:05 PM PST - 21 comments
What is the term for a group of things?
What is the term for a group of things? [more inside]
posted by doub1ejack at 8:49 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by doub1ejack at 8:49 PM PST - 24 comments
Can someone act rude out of awkwardness?
Went out to see a movie with a friend, and his behavior confused me tremendously. [more inside]
posted by 01080591 at 8:25 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by 01080591 at 8:25 PM PST - 32 comments
Boot a Mac from an external drive, spinning up only that drive?
Boot a MacBook Pro from an external drive *without spinning up the MBP's internal drive*? [more inside]
Healthy appetizers
I want recipes for delicious and nutritious appetizers. [more inside]
I can't remember the name of this kids' book about evolution.
Help me find this children's book about evolution that I used to read as a kid. [more inside]
Sweets without the sugar
Need recipes for sugar free (diabetic friendly) recipes for holiday treats: fudge, bars, cookies, what-have-you. [more inside]
Historical-fictional novel of ancient life
I am looking for a historical-fictional novel of either pre-Roman classical antiquity (Crete, Thebes, Sparta, Athens, etc.), the Celtic people (either before or during Roman conquest), Sumer, or Ancient Egypt. [Details inside!] [more inside]
Wow me with Paleo!
Help turn a sugar and carb addict into a cavegirl! [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal at 6:15 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by youcancallmeal at 6:15 PM PST - 26 comments
Confusing flat rate envelope
How to I address a USPS Priority Mail envelope? [more inside]
posted by bjrubble at 6:11 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by bjrubble at 6:11 PM PST - 16 comments
The big blue ball
Can I get a fairly accurate, real time view of Earth constantly on my desktop? [more inside]
posted by shothotbot at 5:13 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by shothotbot at 5:13 PM PST - 9 comments
Studies on racism?
Studies on race and racial epithets [more inside]
posted by satyricaldude at 5:09 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by satyricaldude at 5:09 PM PST - 13 comments
Help Me Give the Gift of Food!
I wish to buy a gift certificate of good food in the South Bay, LA Area. [more inside]
waves.wav
Would you recommend some very high fidelity nature sounds recordings? I am especially interested in ocean waves / beach sounds. The 1080p stuff on youtube is just not cutting it. And it's impossible to tell the audio quality of CD samples. The higher the quality the better.
Fixing my E-Brake for Inspection - do I really need to change ALL the brakes?
Fixing my E-Brake for Inspection - do I really need to change ALL the brakes? [more inside]
the banter trap
How do I stop banter from killing my relationships? [more inside]
It's long, thin & you poke balls into holes with it. And I need one quick
Where can I find a 3 piece Snooker Cue (similar to a Pool Cue but thinner and longer) that will deliver before Dec. 27th and is not that expensive? [more inside]
How can I turn two love letters into a gift?
I need ideas! I have two love letters that I would like to display, or archive in an attractive way, and give as a gift to the letter writers. [more inside]
Do I need to pay a parking-lot "ticket" issued by a private company?
Do I need to pay a parking-lot "ticket" issued by a private company? [more inside]
Daddy read me a story
What are some good chapter books to read to an almost-six year old girl? [more inside]
posted by sandraregina at 2:14 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by sandraregina at 2:14 PM PST - 40 comments
I'm broke and need to tip building staff! Any ideas?
I have very little money to give to the staff of my condo building. What should I give them this Christmas? Caveats below. [more inside]
Why does my Mac Pro beep?
Why does my Mac Pro beep very occasionally? [more inside]
posted by mark7570 at 1:54 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by mark7570 at 1:54 PM PST - 8 comments
My cat seems to have lost control of his bladder. Help.
My cat seems to have lost control of his bladder as of a few hours ago. He is going in little puddles sort of wherever he lies or sits down. I live a bit of a ways from a vet. I am wondering what to do. [more inside]
posted by Lutoslawski at 1:34 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Lutoslawski at 1:34 PM PST - 20 comments
how best to sit and bike? recumbant question
[stationary recumbant bike] looking for recommendations. [more inside]
posted by anya32 at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by anya32 at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
What uses 20amps in a kitchen?
I just bought a house that was partially remodeled in 2009. In both the main kitchen, and basement kitchenette, there is a single 20amp 120volt outlet located in the cabinet above the sink. Neither cabinet is made to hold a microwave. What could this outlet be for? [more inside]
Any edible insects or game meat in NYC?
Any NYC restaurants that serve edible insects or game meat? [more inside]
Chinese artists working for change?
Information about art and activism in China? [more inside]
Wishlist: Wolverine healing powers
General tips on promoting healing, please. [more inside]
Prize taxes and offsets
I sometimes hear about someone winning a prize where somehow the taxes due are somehow offset by the giver of the prize. How is that offset calculated?
Do they just add money to the prize until the post tax amount would be the same as the intended prize (so say 10% tax on $5,000 prize they end up giving $5,555.56. This involves the additional being taxed iteratively since it is all income to you.
Or do they somehow just pay the government the money you would owe on the intended prize amount and the offset doesn't count as income. So for 10% on $5,000 they'd just pay $500.
Or a mystery third option?
posted by obfusciatrist at 12:08 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by obfusciatrist at 12:08 PM PST - 12 comments
What is Montreal's U.S. equivalent?
What is Montreal's US equivalent? [more inside]
Sure, here's my calendar, bank account information and a list of my fears.
Should my Mom let a tech support guy access her computer remotely? [more inside]
posted by teragram at 11:12 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by teragram at 11:12 AM PST - 10 comments
Anybody catch that?
What is Michael Shannon's final line in Take Shelter? (Possible spoiler) [more inside]
Anatomy of a 7
TypefaceAnatomyFilter: What's the little horizontal line through the middle of 7s and Zs (to distinguish them from 1s and 2s when written by hand) called? [more inside]
posted by radioaction at 10:43 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by radioaction at 10:43 AM PST - 43 comments
I need a sweet potato recipe!
Hit me with an awesome sweet potato based recipe! No yucky sugary ingredients, please. [more inside]
posted by peep at 10:29 AM PST - 50 comments
posted by peep at 10:29 AM PST - 50 comments
What are Czech state funerals like?
My girlfriend and I are spending Christmas in Prague, and on Friday there will be a state funeral for Václav Havel. Does everything shut down for a state funeral? Are there certain types of business that don't/won't open? Should we make, or avoid making specific plans for that day? Will we even really notice a difference?
Dosya? Duzen? Gorunum? (Inkscape in English, please?)
The default language (i.e. all of the menu items) for Inkscape (0.48 on OS X 10.6.8) somehow changed from English to (what I believe is) Turkish. How do I change it back?
posted by gwint at 9:52 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by gwint at 9:52 AM PST - 3 comments
Secret Santa gift idea
Secret Santa gift idea, help! [more inside]
Ah, the days when you couldn't punch a hole in the wall.
When did builders of residential houses stop routinely using plaster and lathe for the walls and start routinely using drywall? Was it the 1970s?
posted by BostonTerrier at 9:37 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by BostonTerrier at 9:37 AM PST - 30 comments
Psych Consulting?
How do I get started doing legal consulting work as a psychologist? [more inside]
Java for c# developers
Java for c# developers. [more inside]
Are people gaming the NYT crossword app?
After a lifetime of being indifferent toward crossword puzzles, I've been on a real puzzle bender lately. I used the New York Times iPad crossword app today. One thing that stumps me: How do people get times in the two-minute range? [more inside]
Troubleshooting DVD burning problems on my Macs.
Help me burn these family movie DVDs on my Mac, please! [more inside]
How do I gift an Amazon Prime membership?
How do I gift an Amazon Prime membership? [more inside]
posted by RUPure at 8:50 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by RUPure at 8:50 AM PST - 11 comments
new host
Anyone recommend a good domain/website host ? [more inside]
Should I close on my house (buyer) in 2011 or 2012?
If I have the option, is it more advantageous for me to close on a house (tax wise) in 2011 or 2012? [more inside]
posted by batcrazy at 8:32 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by batcrazy at 8:32 AM PST - 11 comments
Where does UK iPhone traffic info come from?
Where does the iPhone get traffic information from in the UK? I'm guessing that multiple councils and the highways agency collect the raw data. Who collates it? Is there a publicly available database somewhere? And how often is it updated?
posted by beniamino at 8:25 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by beniamino at 8:25 AM PST - 3 comments
Cranium is not a sufficient learning tool
What are your favorite clay sculpting beginners' resources? [more inside]
posted by xqwzts at 8:12 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by xqwzts at 8:12 AM PST - 2 comments
too inexperienced to gain experience??
I'm a sexually inexperienced lady and sex scares the hell out of me! How can I calm down and have a good time? [more inside]
Song lyrics that are... secondary? alternative? Another term?
What's the correct term for secondary lyrics in songs like Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer ("like a light bulb") or Sweet Caroline ("So good! So good! So good!")? Also, can you think of other songs that have these... items? [more inside]
posted by RyanAdams at 7:47 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by RyanAdams at 7:47 AM PST - 53 comments
Custom DMG installer for OSX?
Can anyone provide a simple (and fool-proof) method of creating a customized DMG installer for Mac OS X? [more inside]
posted by caution live frogs at 7:39 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by caution live frogs at 7:39 AM PST - 4 comments
How can I deal with having a care-giving personality while also wanting a fair distribution of work in my relationship?
How can I deal with having a care-giving personality while also wanting a fair distribution of work in my relationship? [more inside]
Windows 7 unexpected restarts
Windows 7 repeatedly restarting at random. No warning. Nothing in the logs. I'd suspect hardware if it didn't always happen just after processing a load of windows updates. Sometimes a disc check seems to fix it; sometimes I have to uninstall a few updates. Any ideas?
Please don't make me start buying from the Adult Baby websites....
Seeking diapers for a 55 lb child that will not leak at night. [more inside]
posted by anastasiav at 6:58 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by anastasiav at 6:58 AM PST - 23 comments
I want a chunk of the change, please.
Is there any recourse for this sticky work situation? Crying about wanting a chunk of the commission, and whining about the business owner's kids inside. [more inside]
posted by Syllables at 6:55 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Syllables at 6:55 AM PST - 20 comments
Sending messages on CC field by mistake - what to do?
Sending messages on CC field by mistake - what to do? [more inside]
Help me find a pooping log online.
Thanks to Anthony Bourdain, after an entire life of ignorance I now know about the Catalan traditions of Tió de Nadal ("pooping log") and Caganer. [more inside]
Literature similar to IDW's Dungeons and Dragons?
What are some comics, novels or non-fiction with a similar sense of humor and adventure to the new John Rogers-penned Dungeons and Dragons comic being put out by IDW? (Sample inside.) [more inside]
Why/How did Facebook spam me?
So... FacebookTM sent an email to my email address from someone who I don't know but lives in my general geographical area requesting my friendship. Problem: this email address is definitely not associated with a FacebookTM account. However, there are probably cookies from FB on this computer. Also, this potential "friend" appears to run some sort of digital media consultancy (blech). Question: how did Facebook scrape this email address exactly and why did I get this email? Did this guy pay Facebook to send a friend request to an email address they scraped or is it something more automatic? [more inside]
Help me pick an international theme Yankee swap gift.
Help me find a Yankee Swap gift for $20 with an "International" theme. [more inside]
To-Do App: Happy to pay, but not to subscribe?
I'm looking for a to-do list/task management solution that works across multiple platforms and on the iPad. I'm happy to pay for it, but I do not want a model that works on an annual-subscription basis. [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 6:06 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Shepherd at 6:06 AM PST - 16 comments
I accept your Contract offer and your General Terms and Conditions
A system to upload electronic business offers and generals terms & conditions with an electronic acceptance procedure: it must exist, right? [more inside]
posted by NekulturnY at 5:53 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by NekulturnY at 5:53 AM PST - 4 comments
Cancer sucks
Last week we found out that my mother has breast cancer. This isn't her first battle against cancer as she had colon cancer six years ago, and so far mom is being very matter of fact and strong. She is going in for surgery to remove it tomorrow and then will start the whole radiation/chemo regiment in the new year. Any good last minute, easy to find, supplimentary gift ideas for her? [more inside]
In nose range?
I want to indicate that something is close enough to smell, but I want to do so in a way that matches these examples: "in sight" for close enough to see, "in reach" for close enough to touch, and "in earshot" for close enough to hear. I keep thinking there must be a simple and obvious way to phrase it, but right now I'm drawing a blank.
posted by amyms at 5:35 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by amyms at 5:35 AM PST - 30 comments
Are mobile phone users charged to receive calls anywhere except the U.S.?
Prompted by this article about India's “missed call” mobile ecosystem: Other than the U.S., are there any countries in which the recipient of a call pays/uses minutes to receive calls on a mobile phone? What is the history of this unusual billing structure (assuming it is unusual)? [more inside]
posted by caek at 5:22 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by caek at 5:22 AM PST - 15 comments
Can I carefully and safely drug my dog?
I've got another dog question. This time I need advice about what to do with her on New Year's Eve. [more inside]
posted by msali at 3:11 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by msali at 3:11 AM PST - 24 comments
Safe, simple recipes for diabetics.
I need safe, simple recipes for a friend who has just discovered she is diabetic. [more inside]
posted by pracowity at 1:36 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by pracowity at 1:36 AM PST - 18 comments
Dammit I don't want to change my name
I have a unique name that, when my first and middle names are transposed, becomes a more common name that is now the moniker of a rather unattractive porn star. How do I fix Google results that turn my unique name into this porn-yielding other version? [more inside]
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 12:49 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 12:49 AM PST - 28 comments
How do I dispute my final grade with a professor?
Is it okay to dispute final grades? Can I ask certain assignments to be re-evaluated if I did not ask earlier? How do I go about doing this? [more inside]
December 19
Looking for the film/DVD "Jazz A Marciac, 2004"
I'm looking for a film called "JAZZ À MARCIAC 2004" by Frank Cassenti. It's a performance by Charlie Haden and the New Liberation Orchestra, in Maciac, France (2004). I'm particularly interested in the tune entitled "Throughout", with Carla Bley and an ensemble backing the tune, with killer tenor sax solos by Chris Cheek and Tony Malaby. I can get the album on Amazon ("Not in Our Name"), but I want the video. Thanks, in advance. Happy Holidays!
posted by Vibrissae at 11:50 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Vibrissae at 11:50 PM PST - 4 comments
Hunt The Nessie
ID a short story about an infectious video
I'm trying to find a short story I read a few years ago about a 'viral' video tape. The unique property of the story was that it was written as a collection of notes and emails between the characters. [more inside]
posted by ch3cooh at 10:44 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ch3cooh at 10:44 PM PST - 4 comments
Funny, at least sort of well-written romance novels?
Looking for funny romance novels to read on break. Must be funny, should be well-written, and perhaps non-traditional? [more inside]
posted by eleanna at 10:25 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by eleanna at 10:25 PM PST - 54 comments
What to do in Taiwan?
I'll be spending just over a week in Taiwan, including New Year's Eve. I'd like to know what you'd recommend, both in Taipei and as a day trip somewhere else on the island. [more inside]
Picking between two Macs - epitome of first world problems.
Do I want an May 2010 MacBook Pro or a new MacBook Air? [more inside]
Is It Me, or Is It My Monitor?
Displayfilter Part 2: Am I technologically doomed? Is my external display monitor really dead!? I can't believe I'm using up a second question about monitors, only a week after my first. While trying to set up an Extended Desktop today, my Monitor went black. Do you know how to fix it? [more inside]
No, really, you need to give this back
I just received an (imo) inappropriately expensive gift from someone (of the opposite gender) who I don't know very well. How do I handle this? [more inside]
Looking for a non-shady beginner's acting class in L.A.
Can you recommend a good (and relatively inexpensive) beginning acting class or workshop in L.A.? (I know.) [more inside]
Did we anger our letter carrier with our gift?
My wife and I moved into a new house this year, with a different mailman and a different UPS driver. Since we just had our first baby, all of our holiday shopping has been online. To express our thanks for their efforts, we bought some gourmet chocolates from a local chocolate shop for them, and left a nice card attached to both. Neither was accepted, just left sitting where we left them. Did we run afoul of some UPS and USPS regulation, or was it a crappy gift?
all those 2-day Prime deliveries add up...
I was watching a TV show about UPS' Worldport facility, and there are a lot of shots of Amazon boxes! So I got curious: what percentage of UPS' business (by revenue, number of items, weight, whatever) comes from Amazon? [more inside]
Best way to get the CDs off my shelf
Best way to store ~300 CDs of music on an external HDD for use with a variety of players? Ideally: cross-platform, not just for iTunes, and nice-sounding for my future self who might care about this. [more inside]
posted by amtho at 7:44 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by amtho at 7:44 PM PST - 19 comments
How do I keep my recommenders happy and responding?
How do I keep asking for work references for difference jobs without pissing my references off? [more inside]
posted by raccoon409 at 7:42 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by raccoon409 at 7:42 PM PST - 8 comments
Hard Mass on my Cat?
Family cat has some kind of hard mass between his left leg and his crotch, and another small one around the groin area. What should I do? [more inside]
Proceed with a magistrate vs. a district judge?
Pros and cons of consenting to disposition of a case by a magistrate judge vs. sticking with U.S. District Judge. [more inside]
I'm a babe in toyland, help me play
Help me feel comfortable about my new *ahem* toy. [more inside]
DC bugs
Question about unseasonably warm weather in DC and bugs. [more inside]
Exercise-induced pruritus?
Sometimes, right before I start to sweat, I experience a temporary but intense itching sensation, to the point where I'd describe it more as a painful pricking feeling. Does anyone else have or know of this problem? Copious but not excessive information after the jump. [more inside]
I need to find the perfect job for me...
I'm a creative/analytical individual who thrives in an environment where I can tweak and testdrive many variables/things/ideas/etc in a creative way and put them to use for profit/critique/judgement/etc.
I have all the time in the world to figure this out, but I want to get it right and I want to find a career I will love the rest of my life. [more inside]
Excel is the death of me!
I have about 200 separate Excel spreadsheets that I need to change one field in. There is a date in G4 that needs to be the same in each sheet. Is there way way to do this without opening, editing, and saving each sheet one at a time?
Atheist Christianity Instruction
Secular, but socially sensitive, ways to teach five-year-old about Christianity? [more inside]
Sink or swim taken a bit too literally in the workplace
Senior managers are asking a coworker of mine to take on new responsibilities. The catch: they won't tell her exactly what those responsibilities are, or how to complete them. Is this as unreasonable as I think it is, and what can I do to help? Obviously, more inside. [more inside]
New Years Eve on the silver screen
What are some movies that include New Years Eve as an important part of the setting and/or plot? [more inside]
silly headphone question.
I have these Audio-Technica headphones. You can see in this picture that the connector has a spring which serves as strain relief on the cable. Only my spring has come out of its housing like so. How can I get it back in? [more inside]
thoughts on partial denture vs. bridge, biocompatibility
What kind of biocompatible partial or bridge should I get for missing lower two middle/front teeth? [more inside]
What is respect?
Respect describes a particular attitude toward another person, and not a feeling as such. It's still often used as a modifier for an emotion, though, since attitudes can modify anything a person does. This makes it even harder to observe than emotions are. So, what is respect? What does it mean to respect someone, if I'm trying to ignore how I feel about them? [more inside]
Late 1800s architecture terminology question
I'm looking for an architectural term. I'm sure it's one I should know, but I'm blanking on it. To make matters worse, I'm having a difficult time searching for a picture of the feature, because I can't come up with the right term. Let me try to describe what it is. [more inside]
I now have the ears of a sunburned bald eighty-year-old man, can I take Benadryl for it
Can I use both Benadryl cream and Benadryl pills at the same time? (And can you diagnose why I have a rash on my limbs and my ears are itchy and swollen?) [more inside]
Is paying a therapist the difference between their rate and what insurance covers reasonable?
I see a therapist on a regular basis. I have health insurance with a small copay for these visits. Some time ago, my therapist asked that I pay the difference between the fee they bill for (their full rate) and the negotiated rate that my health insurance pays to them. This increases my out-of-pocket costs dramatically. Is there something odd about this arrangement?
Hi anon, am I sure about this? Well anon, here's what I should consider.
What questions should I ask myself before getting engaged? [more inside]
Black History Help
I am tasked with creating "Cultural Heritage" posters for the transit agency I work for. Black History Month is fast approaching and I'm short on ideas/time. [more inside]
A 720p needle in a 720i stack
I'd like to get serious about organizing my own video clips and project assets, but can't find a good digital asset manager to do it. [more inside]
posted by monocultured at 4:19 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by monocultured at 4:19 PM PST - 2 comments
"Overseas" Paypal rejected by Archie McPhee
I found some fun stuff for my nieces in Oregon for Christmas at Archie McPhee, which I heard about at meFi. But I was bummed when I tried to check out and they rejected Visa and even PayPal because I live overseas. Is there a way around this? [more inside]
Things to do in Ottawa at Christmas time?
In Ottawa for three days over Christmas break, what to do, what to do? [more inside]
Software is saving the planet
I'm learning how to write scalable "enterprise-grade" software solutions, e.g. on the so-called "cloud." I've been programming for a couple decades, so this is not a stretch. Software is eating the world anyway, so I'm going to use software to save the world. Please help me cast a wide net. [more inside]
Tips for NYC renters becoming (first-time) NYC Buyers?
We're NYC renters becoming NYC first-time buyers. People who have done this, can you share things you wish you'd known/looked for? Tips specific to New York City are especially appreciated. [more inside]
Last Minute Shopping
My boyfriend wants a bow and arrow, the one with the wheels, and I have no clue what to get him and it's so last minute help!! [more inside]
How can I thoroughly test the Windows 7 desktop machine I built for my dad before I give it back to him?
How can I thoroughly test the Windows 7 desktop machine I built for my dad before I give it back to him? He lives 4.5 hours away so I won't be able to easily respond to problems once he has it. [more inside]
Responding to an offer via LinkedIn
I got an email from a recruiter at a well-known "web 2.0" company via LinkedIn. How should I respond? [more inside]
posted by mpls2 at 3:10 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by mpls2 at 3:10 PM PST - 13 comments
Please help me make cookies that look like orange cat paws!
I want to make cookies in the shape of a cat's paw. I'm attending a cookie exchange party and many people have seen photos of my cat Butters famous for his big feet. I'm hoping to find a cookie recipe that would be around the color of his feet (a buff tan color) which can be shaped into a paw shape. So it would have to be something with dough I can shape by hand. I will use almond slivers for claws. If you have a simple recipe like this it would be great. Thanks! I have most normal cookie making stuff or could buy it.
Help planning visit to Argentina from Dec-Jan
Traveling to Argentina from 12/27/11 - 01/14/12 with my wife. Want to see and experience as much as we can on a relatively modest budget. What are some essential things to keep in mind and good places to stay? We begin and end in Buenos Aires. [more inside]
A match made in PubMed
Medically-literate patient seeking recommendation for an analytical physician. Bay Area, Oakland/Alameda/Berkeley preferred. [more inside]
You can't play music on a pretty silver brick
How can I activate an old iPhone without a SIM card? [more inside]
posted by the matching mole at 2:25 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by the matching mole at 2:25 PM PST - 6 comments
Struts for Jeep
Jeep Cherokee filter. I think my 1999 Jeep Cherokee needs front struts. Monro says $600!! Anyone have any experience with this? What would you expect to pay/ did you pay for this? Thank you!
How to temporarily disable SpeedStep?
The Binding of Isaac runs really quite poorly on my PC. I think SpeedStep the problem. How can I force my PC to run at maximum speed for the duration of the game? [more inside]
What should I see and shop in Hong Kong in 10 hours transit?
I will be in Hong Kong for 12 hours and have never been there before. What are some essential things I can do, where should I go for sightseeing and where should I shop for men's clothing? [more inside]
Stories told backward?
What are some books or movies where the story is essentially told backwards? Ideally, ones that put a big initial event at the end of the narrative. [more inside]
Falling down without injury
I am very, very clumsy. I stumble, bump into things, trip, and actually fall with frequency. Accepting that, can you teach me best practices for falling with minimal injury to myself? [more inside]
posted by peachfuzz at 1:50 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by peachfuzz at 1:50 PM PST - 41 comments
A Chariot at my back?
Help us figure out which bike trailer to buy. [more inside]
posted by ambrosia at 1:46 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by ambrosia at 1:46 PM PST - 9 comments
Destroy my eardrums please?
Help me secure some slammin' good, down-and-dirty, percussion-heavy tunes. [more inside]
posted by WidgetAlley at 1:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by WidgetAlley at 1:41 PM PST - 15 comments
Tech Startup for dummies
I have an internet marketing concept that might be useful. Unfortunately this is not my field and I'm in over my head. What are some steps I can take to turn my concept into reality. [more inside]
Sweet release of death, come take me.
It's the most wonderful time of the year! For weird and trying interpersonal dynamics! I'd love your advice on dealing with people who CANNOT stop talking. [more inside]
Sexy motherforkers.
What's a good utensil set to buy (with an emphasis on forks)? [more inside]
Why do I wake up with headaches in the morning?
Why do I wake up with headaches in the morning? [more inside]
Dim sum in Minnesota
Dim sum in Minnesota--on a weekday? [more inside]
How do I fight back from fracking?
Can you help me Metafilter? The Bureau of Land Management in Colorado is trying to lease 30,000 acres of farmland and wilderness for fracking, including land completely surrounding the farm I live on! [more inside]
What was going on behind that smily face, anyway?
I'm trying to get a better understanding for how an AI like GERTY (from the 2009 film Moon) would work under the hood. [more inside]
posted by Narrative Priorities at 11:53 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Narrative Priorities at 11:53 AM PST - 18 comments
Hospice Recommendations
Can anybody recommend a quality hospice provider in the San Fernando Valley? [more inside]
posted by GIRLesq at 11:49 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by GIRLesq at 11:49 AM PST - 7 comments
Budgeting without the Maruchan diet
Help a capitalism n00b manage her soon-to-exist money. [more inside]
Finding scraps of good data in a sea of irrelevancy
I was recently placed in charge of a large database which is probably 90% irrelevant information. What should my plan of action be for cleaning it up? [more inside]
Need the Howard Zinn of secret santas
Recommend-a-gift: political/historical book edition. [more inside]
Please recommend apps/games to improve reading skills
Are there any iPhone/iPad apps or games that would help a 10-year old with her reading? When she reads out loud she does really well for a few minutes but quickly starts to skip words or guess them rather than trying to read what's on the page. She loves computer games so I was wondering if a reading game might motivate her.
Help me wrap my brain around this
I currently work about 20 hours a week at my job while my parents watch my 18-month-old. Today I'm considering whether to apply for a full-time, telecommuting job -- it's kind of my dream job. (And yes, it's a legit work-at-home job with a national org!) Please help me decide! [more inside]
Looking for a reputable Cosmetic Dermatologist/Clinic in the Toronto area
Looking for a reputable Cosmetic Dermatologist/Clinic in the Toronto area. [more inside]
What does the underside of a bedbug look like?
What does the UNDERSIDE of a bedbug look like? [more inside]
gift help
Secret Santa help: My work does Secret Santa every year (small group of 8 people). The limit is $25 I have no time during normal business hours so I have to be able to pick this up before 10am or after 8pm before Thursday the 23rd. My co-worker likes musicals, Firefly, and is gluten free. Thoughts? I'm local to NYC.
posted by edbles at 10:16 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by edbles at 10:16 AM PST - 11 comments
Minecraft resources for 11 year-old?
Minecraft resources for 11 year-old? [more inside]
Stiff as a board
The last time I deadlifted (last Wednesday), I felt great - felt like I really nailed the form for the first time in awhile. Then, two days later, I had a sudden outbreak of stiffness and aching right at the base of my spine. What gives? [more inside]
A VirtualBox Server With Nothing To Do
I have a Windows 2003 server with VirtualBox running in my colo cabinet, and I really don't have anything mission-critical running on it, and a bunch of unused cycles just sitting there. What fun can I have with it? [more inside]
9V batteries - what the heck are you good for?
Burning Man leftovays: 9V batteries - lots of them! Suggest me some cool $20-$40 or less items that would help me use them up. [more inside]
Jailbreaking iPod
Mrs. Mitheral is getting a new iPod Touch for Xmas and I've got some questions re jailbreaking and app suggestions. [more inside]
posted by Mitheral at 9:20 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Mitheral at 9:20 AM PST - 6 comments
Sad news for Saab owners today.
With the sad news of Saab's liquidation today and a two year old Saab in the garage - any advice on what to do?
Sell quickly or keep and just run it into the ground, so to speak? It runs great and we really like it but do we want to be stuck with a car that is defunct. How to get it serviced years from now, etc.?
Someone in England owes me money. He won't return emails. Is it possible to get his phone number?
Someone in England owes me money. He won't return emails. Is it possible to get his phone number? [more inside]
How do I pay taxes on freelance income in the UK?
Help me understand taxes as a freelance consultant in the UK. [more inside]
You've got Brown!
Is there any difference between UPS Basic and UPS Mail Innovations? [more inside]
The Twelve Dates of Christmas
Unique Toronto dates/events/experiences? [more inside]
the headaches of living with my parents
I'm allergic to something at my parents' house and I'll be there for 2 more weeks. Please hope me. [more inside]
Do I need to go see my doctor about this migraine?
Had my first migraine, now what? Do I need to see my doctor? [more inside]
Decent iPad/iPod cables?
Decent iPad/iPod cables? iPad and iPod usb cables infuriate me. The cables invariably fray at the connector junction, and the cable coating on several has simply disintegrated. Is there anywhere I can get solid iStuff cables that won't need replaced every 3 months? Preferably with some sort of reinforcement at the connector junctions? An Amazon search just gives me miles of what I presume is junk.
posted by monju_bosatsu at 7:30 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by monju_bosatsu at 7:30 AM PST - 21 comments
Help me re-kindle my love for comics.
So, DC Comics rebooted their entire universe: Awesome! I got an Amazon Kindle Fire for Christmas: Awesome! Is there any way to read these comics on my Kindle Fire?
I am not interested in solutions that involve torrenting or rooting the device.
posted by DWRoelands at 7:26 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by DWRoelands at 7:26 AM PST - 4 comments
Austin City No Limits
After a few questions and great answers, my wife and two kids have relocated to Austin. Now we are looking for cool things to do and organizations to get involved with. What are your favorite things to do with or without kids in Austin. [more inside]
Help us print things!
Does anyone know of a good printer (online or in Chicago or DC) that can print small-run, custom-sized, double-sided, durable cards? [more inside]
Property/Casualty Insurance Resources?
What are some good resources to learn about the property and casualty insurance industry? Looking for some online (free) or written (books I can get from the library) that can give me some basic, conversational understanding around terms, systems, process flows, etc. Current level of knowledge: familiar with terms, but not comfortable speaking about them.
posted by sandmanwv at 6:45 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 6:45 AM PST - 3 comments
What kind of BSA motorcycle is this?
What kind of BSA motorcycle is this, and should I buy it? [more inside]
300 calories: one cent
Can you help me understand this pricing strategy at Coldstone Creamery? The medium size ice cream was only 1 cent more than the small. [more inside]
posted by OmieWise at 6:23 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by OmieWise at 6:23 AM PST - 14 comments
They were the most beautiful skies, as a matter of fact . . .
Looking for a good night-sky / star projector. [more inside]
Help me find historical images of San Diego street signs
San Diego research question: I need a photo of a street sign for a residential street as it appeared in the late 1950s and/or early-to-mid 1960s. I am working on an illustration and I want to use the sign as part of the composition. [more inside]
posted by artlung at 6:05 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by artlung at 6:05 AM PST - 3 comments
Join the Army! See Korea...I Mean See Germany!!!
Would the Army have kept my father in Germany if he was supposed to go to Korea? The whole story is inside... [more inside]
posted by Hanuman1960 at 5:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Hanuman1960 at 5:44 AM PST - 7 comments
Dancing Animals
Do any animals other than humans dance? Bonus question: Do any animals other than humans make music?
Evil step mother or red-headed step child?
My girlfriend and my kid do not get along, and I don't know what to do. Plus my ex is undermining their relationship. Help! [more inside]
How do I intentionally drain my AA batteries?
What is the best way to regularly drain 6-8 AA batteries? [more inside]
posted by CrystalDave at 2:46 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by CrystalDave at 2:46 AM PST - 22 comments
Using iPad with an old MIDI piano
MIDI / iPad Newbie question: I have an old MIDI electric piano and am wondering what I might be able to do with it connected to the iPad. [more inside]
posted by sagwalla at 2:44 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by sagwalla at 2:44 AM PST - 4 comments
Economics of an electrical vs. heating oil radiator
Economics of an electrical vs. an heating oil radiator? [more inside]
posted by salmacis at 2:13 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by salmacis at 2:13 AM PST - 5 comments
Bad way to start the day.
The air is usually very dry in the winter. Why are my car windows always frosted over without exception? [more inside]
posted by WhitenoisE at 12:33 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by WhitenoisE at 12:33 AM PST - 6 comments
December 18
Is there a service in Korea that would write and locally mail a greeting card for me?
Is there a personalized greeting card service in Korea? I'd like to have a company send on my behalf a holiday card to a household with my own custom message inside. [more inside]
getting airfoil to synch audio and video
wireless speakers filter: So, coming down the home stretch for wireless music at my place. Thanks to good advice on a previous question, I have cool speakers, and Airport Express seems to handle iTunes quite well. But now I'm trying to get other audio sources (Safari, etc.) piping through the wifi, and there's a syncing problem, specifically with Airfoil.... [more inside]
Teach me how to behave like a leader
Teach me how to behave like a leader - and skip all of the theory. I want books and/or podcasts that teach leadership behaviour step-by-step. [more inside]
posted by damian_ at 9:53 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by damian_ at 9:53 PM PST - 21 comments
What food should we freeze for cancer patient mom and caretaker dad to enjoy?
We have a couple days with my parents over the holidays. Mom is in chemo. Dad is caring for her. What are foods we can make and freeze that will tempt her appetite, tempt Dad's appetite, and give him a bit of a break from cooking and cleaning up? We suspect those are different foods in some cases. [more inside]
posted by bloggerwench at 9:10 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by bloggerwench at 9:10 PM PST - 16 comments
Feminized by mint tea?
Will mint tea significantly affect levels of free testosterone if I (male) drink it a few times a week? Is there more than a hypothetical risk of some sort of endocrine disruption?
posted by phrontist at 8:40 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by phrontist at 8:40 PM PST - 5 comments
What Schubert is this?
What Schubert is this? please excuse tired husband in background.
posted by DMelanogaster at 8:02 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 8:02 PM PST - 5 comments
Identify my histameanies
Dancing about Information Architecure
Best practice advice for overhauling the Information Architecture of a large website. For various reasons, we are looking to drastically overhaul the IA of a large (many 1000s of pages) site, to reflect a change in purpose. I'm interested in practical considerations and best practice ways to ensure the transition is as seamless as possible for users, search engines and wotnot. [more inside]
posted by Sparx at 7:26 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Sparx at 7:26 PM PST - 4 comments
Traveling with frozen soup.
Can I fly domestically carrying frozen soup? [more inside]
I know where you live!
How do people get away with violence (or other malicious activities) in their own town? [more inside]
Smart people?
I'm feeling a bit sad about Christopher Hitchens' death. I'm starting to feel like everyone super-smart and erudite is either dead or close, so I think I need to be pointed at some of the younger smart crowd. [more inside]
Spots for an icy plunge into the Potomac?
Spots for a DC polar bear swim? [more inside]
Help me see the light!
Weird art/design/engineering filter: I need help designing a small, self-contained unit that will make a beam of light "visible" by filling the unit with smoke. [more inside]
Married 5 years - why are my rings suddenly causing irritation?
Married 5 years - why are my rings suddenly causing irritation? [more inside]
What was this book about Maryland?
At the end of August I heard an author being interviewed on the Baltimore NPR about her book on the history of Maryland. I was in the car and couldn't write down her name or the name of the book, and I can't seem to find it listed on Amazon. Does anyone know what this book might be?
In the part I heard she was talking about Maryland's history as a Catholic/Royalist haven, and the tensions this caused with neighboring Virginia.
Inspired by this post on the blue.
posted by apricot at 5:01 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by apricot at 5:01 PM PST - 5 comments
Bottoming out?
Underwear filter: Interested in switching to thong style panties and looking for some advice. [more inside]
Who could help me make one of the most important decisions of my life?
Is there a reliable service that will help me figure out what to do with my life, when it comes to my career? [more inside]
posted by Tarumba at 4:57 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Tarumba at 4:57 PM PST - 6 comments
30 free 8GB (or 16GB) USB pens
30 free 8GB (or 16GB) USB pens. Is this possible to find? We're filling them with our movies and giving them as a reward for our project donors, but 30 x $$ is a lot of money. Other than online surveys which we could fill out for one free one, does anyone know how I can get 30 for free? Or as a bulk deal? [more inside]
What do I need to assemble a simple LED light?
Can anyone recommend a book or website to help me in making a small led light? [more inside]
What to give someone who has everything + a great home in paradise?
What is an appropriate thank you gift for a friend who let my boyfriend and me stay at his summer home in Key West for a week? [more inside]
posted by KB.Boston_implant.By way of NY at 3:49 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by KB.Boston_implant.By way of NY at 3:49 PM PST - 11 comments
Paying duties at the airport
How do I pay customs tax and duties when flying into Canada? [more inside]
posted by ceribus peribus at 3:38 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ceribus peribus at 3:38 PM PST - 8 comments
Armchair Travels
Next year, I'll be travelling to the Netherlands and (briefly) Belgium, then later a trip to Tallinn, Helsinki and Stockholm. Are there any films or novels I should check out to get a feel for the places before I get there? [more inside]
What is this poem?
I'm trying to find a poem, but can only remember a few vague lines. (Something about angels dancing?) [more inside]
Rock This Cat
Recommend me some edgy Rockabilly bands! [more inside]
Pick a Vegas Hotel
Please put your Vegas expertise to work and help me pick a mid-range hotel on the Strip. [more inside]
posted by DarlingBri at 1:34 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by DarlingBri at 1:34 PM PST - 21 comments
Flash problems with Chrome/Linux
Problems with my netbook that I don't understand! Linux/Chrome/Flash...details inside. [more inside]
Under pressure! (my brain that is)
Looking for info, advice, doctor recommendations related to idiopathic intracranial hypertension and neurology in NYC. [more inside]
Version control with automated deployment?
I'd like to start using source control for a website, with automated, one-click (or close to it) deployment. [more inside]
posted by jsturgill at 12:28 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by jsturgill at 12:28 PM PST - 19 comments
Cataloguing Obama's presidency so far?
What are the best sources for compiling a timeline-based list of what Obama has accomplished (and not accomplished) so far while in office? [more inside]
posted by stagewhisper at 12:06 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by stagewhisper at 12:06 PM PST - 4 comments
Remembering a recently lost loved one during the holidays
My brother died 7 months ago in an unexpected and tragic accident. This will be our first Christmas without him. What are some ideas for new traditions we can start to actively remember him and honor his memory? [more inside]
Help me find the mystery comic
In my 3rd year of an engineering degree, hate it, failing and loaded with debt. What should I do?
I'm in my 3rd year of my mechanical engineering program and I hate it. I've dropped 30% in grades since my second year and now I'm tip-toeing failing/passing every class. I've gotten stomach ulcers and anxiety attacks as a result of the stress and I've started to just give up. I want to switch but I'm already sacked with 40k of loans. What should I do? [more inside]
I want to give my great aunt a present -- but what?
I'd like to find a gift for a great aunt I don't know very well (yet). [more inside]
posted by That's Numberwang! at 11:20 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by That's Numberwang! at 11:20 AM PST - 11 comments
Droid won't load web pages on open WiFi connection
Probably a stupid Droid question: My Motorola Atrix will connect to open (unsecured) WiFi networks, but I am unable to load web pages. Can't even perform a simple Google search. There must be an option somewhere that I can't locate. Any ideas? [more inside]
Equalizer for Windows?
Is there a non-expensive way I can add system-wide EQ to my Windows 7 HTPC (Asrock ION 330)? [more inside]
Waffling
Belgian waffle irons. Suggestions? [more inside]
How to Calm Down Angry Fish?
Fish owners:
I have some goldfish in a tank. They're all healthy, and well-fed, and have plenty, and I mean plenty, of water (since some of them died). However they are aggressive to each other sometimes. More inside. [more inside]
posted by Angel of Khaos at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Angel of Khaos at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
Do I have to listen to them all to find a good one?
Need specific recommendations for quirky/cute/mildly humorous Christmas e-cards. I've never sent one and am overwhelmed by the sites.
Something involving cats is fine. Or Tim Burton-style things. Or Far Side- type humor. The recipients send me glurgy cards all the time, but I'd like to send cards that non-glurgy people might also enjoy.
Florida Keys Biking
Advice on bike riding on Florida Keys [more inside]
What's going through your mind when you're pregnant?
What's going through your mind when you're pregnant? A character I'm writing about is seven months along for the first time. Not having had the experience myself, I'm wondering if I'm on the right track with how she's feeling. How easy or hard is it for her to picture herself as a mom? [more inside]
Let there be light: need 120V MR16 type LED bulbs for outdoors! Trickier than it sounds.
Where can I buy 50W equivalent LED lights that work outdoors, operate at 120V, and are of the standard base type? I simply cannot find a bulb that meets all three criteria! [more inside]
Help me get rid of some old furniture.
What is the easiest way to get rid of old furniture? [more inside]
Should I retire the old Mac Mini?
Should I get an external drive or a new computer? Longtime Mac Mini user details inside. [more inside]
posted by computech_apolloniajames at 9:42 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by computech_apolloniajames at 9:42 AM PST - 10 comments
Looking for a community/forum where I can learn more about networking, code, security, and OS-independent CS topics
I'm looking for a forum where I can ask questions about networking, security, coding, operating systems, web design, etc. There are many of these out there, but I'd like to find a single community which covers all these topics more or less equally (so it isn't a Linux forum with a small section on BSD, or a coding forum with a small section on networking). I'd like it to be the sort of forum where users stay around for several years as they learn and contribute at different levels, with high literacy and education-to-spam levels. Could I have your recommendations please?
Charcoal Grill Filter
Buying a charcaol grill. What should I consider as I make my decision about which to buy? Also, I know that there are related questions on AskMeFi, none exactly like mine AND they are dated and closed, so I am hoping for new eyes. [more inside]
What are the things every Android Phone needs?
I just got a Samsung Stratosphere LTE, my first smartphone and first Android device. I'm not looking to use it as a mini computer (i have an iPad for that) but I am interested in how to best use it as a phone and what capabilities or apps are available that don't have an iOS equivalent or work better than their counterparts. What super-neat abilities does a Stratosphere have that might not be immediately apparent?
Please give me some shoe fashion sense.
Can I have some shoe suggestions for a particular dress please? [more inside]
posted by sadtomato at 8:55 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by sadtomato at 8:55 AM PST - 27 comments
Books About The Open Road?
Books about the open road, road trips, and new starts? [more inside]
What relatively high profile celebrities, artists or entertainers have very poor websites?
What relatively high profile celebrities, artists or entertainers have very poor websites? [more inside]
Best time to work out?
When is the best time of day for an individual to exercise (i.e. early morning, midday or evening) and what factors make that specific time the best time? [more inside]
Easiest way to buy Tintin books?
What is the best way to buy all the Tintin books individually? [more inside]
No haggis drop?
How should I spend New Years Eve in Edinburgh? [more inside]
YouTube the Snitch
YouTube sleuthing question: When you're logged in, the home page shows a timeline of activity from all the accounts you've subscribed to. This is activity like uploading a new video, or liking/favoriting someone else's video. You can also click on a username to see that person's individual activity feed. What circumstances could cause an action to appear in the main feed, but not in the personal one for that user? [more inside]
Checking for Plagiarism
Term Paper: What are the best sites/programs to check my term paper for plagiarism? It really should be free but i guess i'd be open for very cheap alternatives.
It's 15 Pages and im on a mac if that helps.
Is there really no well-organized boycott against the global warming?
As serious as global warming is, and as close as we've come to the point of no return, I find it incredible that there isn't at least a moderate-scale boycott against the oil companies that are behind the public misinformation campaign and lobbying against legislation. And if not a boycott, at least some sort of active protests. Am I just looking in the wrong places? Wouldn't a boycott of say ExxonMobil (from what I've read one of the largest supporter of the denialist machine) by a few tens of thousands have an impact? Or is their revenue just too big?
bring my noms closer to me
Is there something like Gilt Taste that is based in Australia? I'm especially keen on their artisanal sweets and chocolates and cakes.
Was this (ex)relationship problem properly handled?
Recently, I said some harsh things to an ex whom until recently I had remained very good friends with. These things had been boiling inside me for months and I had to say them at this point. However, ever since I said them, she has disappeared from her online profiles (which she updated multiple times every day), I have no way of contacting her, and I'm worried. Obviously there's a lot going on, and some of it may be serious. [more inside]
posted by marriedtotacos at 5:45 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by marriedtotacos at 5:45 AM PST - 33 comments
Does anyone know how to make the photographs appear in The Guardian's RSS feeds in Google Reader?
Does anyone know how to make the photographs appear in The Guardian's RSS feeds in Google Reader? [more inside]
How to paint these metal pipes?
How to best paint these metal pipes in the toilet? [more inside]
posted by neblina_matinal at 4:47 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by neblina_matinal at 4:47 AM PST - 8 comments
Looking for a multicultural calendar that shows different systems for describing dates.
I'm looking for a printed calendar that shows, in overlay format, many of the world systems for describing dates, such as Gregorian, Islamic, Jewish, Chinese, etc... Something to hang on my wall. I don't care if it is "flipbook" style or a large poster. Is something like that commercially available? [more inside]
Tick, tick, tick....Boom!
Yet another Facebook privacy question. How can I block certain information from my friends' tickers? [more inside]
posted by eau79 at 3:16 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by eau79 at 3:16 AM PST - 6 comments
What to put on business cards?
I need business cards. Help me work out what the hell to put on them. [more inside]
Lomax maybe?
Does anyone recognize this recording of 'Go Down Moses'?
Broadband in the Greater LA area?
Broadband recommendations for the Long Beach/Greater L.A. area? There is, of course, a catch... [more inside]
December 17
I'm feeling a bit LED astray by my wedding lighting options.
What is the best direction to go in for LED accent lighting/throwies on a budget that demands maximum bang for the buck? [more inside]
posted by RolandOfEld at 9:43 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by RolandOfEld at 9:43 PM PST - 14 comments
A Very Missouri New Years: what to do outside of St Louis for New Years
A Very Missouri New Years: what to do outside of St Louis for New Years [more inside]
posted by scrambles at 8:43 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by scrambles at 8:43 PM PST - 9 comments
Music all over the house
What devices/components do we need to store our music library centrally and access it throughout the house? Also, what's a good wireless speaker solution? [more inside]
How to upload contacts to an Android phone?
How can I copy my phone book from my old Blackberry to my new Galaxy Nexus without uploading the data to Google, Facebook, or any other service? I have a Mac and a USB cable; this ought to be possible, right? [more inside]
posted by Mars Saxman at 7:04 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Mars Saxman at 7:04 PM PST - 14 comments
How many hospitals don't participate?? - Medicare Googling fail
How many American hospitals do not participate in Medicare? [more inside]
It's duck stretching time
I've got half a stewing duck in the freezer. I need it to stretch to feed six people. As it's going to be eaten around Christmas time I'd prefer to serve it with veggies (rather than, say, rice or pasta) and some kind of sauce. There's a few recipes out there but what are the awesome ones? I'm prepared to try a confit but I know that the amount of oil/fat wouldn't go down too well with other people. Long, slow, cooking is more than okay.
posted by TheDonF at 6:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by TheDonF at 6:24 PM PST - 9 comments
Is it worth forming a single person LLC for moonlighting and other tips for LLCs?
Is it worth forming a single person LLC for moonlighting and other tips for LLCs? [more inside]
Am I a clown? Do I amuse you?
I really enjoyed Martin Scorcese's Hugo. What are some other family-friendly movies by directors usually noted for "grown-up" films? [more inside]
Need TV Speakers For My Parents
I need TV speakers for my parents. How do I figure out which ones I need? [more inside]
posted by pmed at 5:05 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by pmed at 5:05 PM PST - 4 comments
The Beginning of the Dark Ages
How can I adjust my work/life plans in the face of serious vision problems and recovery from surgery? (Details inside.) [more inside]
Help me find a playable piano in a London bar
Recommend me a bar in Central London with a piano that anyone can walk in and play! [more inside]
posted by greenish at 4:41 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by greenish at 4:41 PM PST - 2 comments
Christmas Day Entertainment Help
Christmas Day Entertainment Help
Per tradition, my family of 4 (2 kids 2 and 5 years old) needs to perform some brief (5-15 minute) skit or performance at an large family gathering. Past years has been caroling, cooking demonstrations, magic. Running out of fun ideas. Anyone have some suggestions that would be easy to pull off. Humor a plus, as is involvement of the wee ones.
posted by dougiedd at 4:32 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by dougiedd at 4:32 PM PST - 16 comments
Hardly Using My Smartphone. Should I downgrade? Did you?
Anyone have experience switching from a smartphone to a feature phone?
My current phone is a Blackberry. (Its Blackberry-ness isn't the issue.) I pay AT&T $90 month.
I bought an iPad 6 months ago and my use of the phone has dropped precipitously. I initiate one or two voice calls per week and just a few texts. I never user it to browse the web. I do use it to check mail but I never respond to or initiate email on it. I travel with the iPad, so that relegates the phone to the bench on those occasions, too.
In other words, I have much more phone than I need and I'm paying ATT $90 each month for services I barely use.
So, I'm thinking about terminating the contract and going pay-as-you-go with a cheaper phone.
Has anyone done the same thing for the same reasons? How did it work out? Did you regret it?
Send gmail from AOL account
Is there a way to show a gmail From: address when sending from an AOL account? [more inside]
Make my oatmeal more filling.
What can I add to my morning oatmeal to make it more filling, without adding more bulk? [more inside]
Looking for high quality junk
MontrealShopping Filter: Yes, I am a Christmas shopping procrastinator. What are your favourite places to shop for pretty-looking things in Montreal? [more inside]
posted by costanza at 1:41 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by costanza at 1:41 PM PST - 7 comments
Help me make an awesome trivia night!
Can anyone help me come up with a pub trivia points system? [more inside]
posted by keepmathy at 1:30 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by keepmathy at 1:30 PM PST - 21 comments
Not wise, but fun, mocking dragons
What are some good insults for dragons? [more inside]
Finding the right beads
I want to buy some craft beads for a friend in the USA (I'm in the UK), but don't know the exact type of beads she uses, or where's best to buy them from, and I don't want to ask her directly as it's a surprise. [more inside]
posted by emc at 1:11 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by emc at 1:11 PM PST - 5 comments
Since it is probably poor form to sip from the dipping bowl
I have fallen in love with the sauce my sushi restaurant serves with it's deep-fried soft-shell crab. So what else tastes great with ponzu sauce on it? [more inside]
I have to move this couch without bending space and time.
Help me get this couch back *out* my apartment! Arrrrrrrrrrggggghhhh. [more inside]
posted by functionequalsform at 12:01 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by functionequalsform at 12:01 PM PST - 37 comments
Renting off the grid? Is is possible?
It's a little complicated, but it's about identity and renting. [more inside]
Help me make someone's Christmas
I'm looking for gift ideas for an elderly blind person. [more inside]
Please help me avoid needles by eating healthier breakfasts!
What are some delicious high-fiber (and ideally high-protein and low-carb) foods I could eat for breakfast? [more inside]
posted by Eshkol at 11:04 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by Eshkol at 11:04 AM PST - 45 comments
Radio Ho Ho Ho
Next Saturday, I've got three hours of radio time to do whatever I want, as long as it's holiday related - it's my holiday special! Please help me put together an awesome playlist. [more inside]
Desktop clock with map motif?
Where can I find a desktop clock with a map/atlas motif that's not a cheesy promotional item, isn't feminine/biblical/nautical, and is less than $50? [more inside]
posted by Kalatraz at 10:37 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Kalatraz at 10:37 AM PST - 5 comments
How do I giftwrap a grapefruit?
How do you gift-wrap a grapefruit? [more inside]
posted by ferociouskitty at 10:23 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by ferociouskitty at 10:23 AM PST - 26 comments
How do you gracefully compete in business with a friend?
We’ve been asked to work on a project. I have a friend who seemed to have their heart set on this same thing. We’re the older, more established company. They’re the younger company but the project is more obviously in their area of interest. They already know they won’t be doing it, but they don’t yet know that we might. What’s the graceful way to handle this situation without incurring unnecessary resentment? [more inside]
Best carry-on bag that looks professional and FITS
Trying to buy a rolling carry-on that will reliably fit in overheads and look professional when I take it to work/clients. Right now tempted by Tumi Alpha Continental 20" ($$$) but wonder if TravelPro Walkabout 4 ($) would be just as good. [more inside]
posted by stewiethegreat at 10:12 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by stewiethegreat at 10:12 AM PST - 18 comments
How to digitize my life?
Digitizing just about everything: anyone done it before? Pitfalls? [more inside]
Opposition to Fundamentalist Education
Philanthropy: Is anyone aware of a non-profit organization that specifically focuses on U.S evangelical or fundamentalist-christian education or extremist Islam education (even better, grade school focused) its mission recognizing that the Christianity or Islam, in its perverted form(s), e.g., creationism, intolerance, senseless violence etc, is logically, from an educated standpoint, harmful to society. E.g., A reputable NP organization in whatever form committed to advocate against fundamentalist schools that teach silliness and harm children, likely an idea tank or direct advocacy program.
posted by gagglezoomer at 9:57 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by gagglezoomer at 9:57 AM PST - 6 comments
Seriously, Dad, why are you making this hard for me?
So.
I want to buy my dad a book for Christmas. And I know which one.
But.
He is reading all his books on his fancy new iPad these days
How do I buy him books now? I don't want to just send a gift card.
posted by SLC Mom at 9:55 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by SLC Mom at 9:55 AM PST - 9 comments
I am not very good at titles
Please help me come up with a job title that reflects the two distinct but important roles I play in my company: sex educator and customer service manager. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 9:49 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 9:49 AM PST - 16 comments
The Spy Who Came in from the Outer Dark
Looking for some holiday reading, specifically "occult thrillers." What I want is something that mixes occult/horror and spies/thriller elements. [more inside]
posted by GenjiandProust at 9:49 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by GenjiandProust at 9:49 AM PST - 22 comments
Help me recall the name of a long-defunct email list?
Back in the early days of my Internet forays (1996? 1997?) I subscribed to an odd mailing list whose messages were pseudo-autobiographical posts by a small circle of friends. They formed an ongoing narrative, I believe one was named "Alex," and it continued for at least a couple of years. By the time blogs hit the scene it had slowly faded away, and I can't for the life of me find any of the archives I thought I'd saved.
I know it's a long shot, but it seems like just the sort of thing some other MeFites would remember... any luck?
Efflorescence a problem?
Efflorescence on basement wall: After I remove it, should I treat the wall? [more inside]
What was this logo?
Logofilter: Trying to track down a logo on the side of a train I saw that reminded me of the Windows logo. [more inside]
Water Spill on MacBook Air
Water spill on MacBook Air (4 months old). Currently drying out. What next - Genius Bar? Applecare? Some other thing? [more inside]
posted by malhouse at 9:10 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by malhouse at 9:10 AM PST - 15 comments
Can I test/check a Battery Tender Pro?
Can I test/check a Battery Tender Pro? [more inside]
Don't forget to bring _______ when you go to the hospital!
What items did you forget to bring along when you were admitted to the hospital for surgery? [more inside]
Is getting my Comcast internet via Earthlink a lot worse than it has seemed in the past?
What's going on with this Earthlink redirect default, and how ticked off should I be? [more inside]
posted by nanojath at 8:56 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by nanojath at 8:56 AM PST - 6 comments
anti-depressants for people who can't take them?
anti-depressants for people who can't take them? [more inside]
Relationship- am I paranoid or being used?
Am I being used or am I hyper-sensitive about this issue? [more inside]
jQueryMobile make my button presses do nothing.
How do I create a button within the jQueryMobile framework and have it call the URL on the remote server but not do anything on the page?
I'm sure there is an answer for this but I'm at a loss for search terms. [more inside]
posted by jmsta at 7:38 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by jmsta at 7:38 AM PST - 8 comments
Where can I find a mug like this?
Where can I find a mug like this? [more inside]
My breasts are large for my frame, how can I downplay them and avoid back pain?
My breasts are disproportionately large for my frame (34E/F, 5'2", upper-normal BMI). Because of this, my posture is terrible and my style has been decidedly cramped. Short of getting a breast reduction, how can I dress better, improve my posture, and keep my back from hurting all the time? [more inside]
Money for the gun show
How much do you tip a personal trainer you see once a week. [more inside]
So many variations of vanilla...
Ingredient ratio question... [more inside]
Bueller? Anyone?
The great news is I got a teaching job high school. The not-so-great news is that I'm biology and physical science, subjects I can barely fake my way through (I got hired because I have a background in special education and working with this population). What are some great books and online resources that will help me with super-interesting lessons? Bonus points for online games and experiments that don't involve flames or heat. [more inside]
Looking for last-minute Chicago Christmas charities
Good morning, MeFi's! It's not to late for me to make Christmas better for some deserving kids and families in Chicago, is it? [more inside]
Siri listens too fast, Siri is impatient, and Siri doesn't know who my best friend is.
Ok, got my new iPhone 4s. Siri is great and all, but I want to use it to dictate notes, and I find that it assumes I'm done speaking waay too quickly. Within a second, it's processing my request! But when I have something to record, I'd like to occasionally wait a few seconds between words. Is there any way to adjust how quickly it thinks I'm done speaking? [more inside]
posted by malapropist at 4:19 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by malapropist at 4:19 AM PST - 3 comments
Last year she asked for a dragon scale...
My daughter has asked Santa for a "rubber pound coin" for Christmas, and with the delightful phrase of "Santa can get anything" we can't find anything in the UK. I'm open to suggesstions, with the caveat I'm a bit useless at arts and crafts, [more inside]
How do I keep my long term personal goals which don't have obvious success criteria at the front of my mind?
[Not quite New Year's Resolution filter] How do I keep my long term personal goals which don't have obvious success criteria at the front of my mind? [more inside]
Searching for Proxy in Doha for US Court Search
Need help with accessing a Pennsylvania court docket search from overseas.
I'm in Doha, Qatar, and for some reason can't access this link here to search for court dockets in Pennsylvania - I can access the rest of the site though. I haven't been able to find a proxy IP that seems to work here, which seems like a possible solution... any suggestions on getting through?
Am I driving a bomb?
My truck is leaking gas. Is this just Very Bad or is it Super Bad? [more inside]
posted by KathrynT at 12:08 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by KathrynT at 12:08 AM PST - 20 comments
December 16
What to do when you get christmas cards, but don't send any.
I get Christmas cards. But I don't send any. How should I acknowledge receipt of them? [more inside]
I'm asking what to ask...
If you were talking to a 101-year-old person, what would you want to know? [more inside]
Arrested development
What are humans no better at now than they were in the past? [more inside]
Help me get couple-y
Starting a new relationship with someone very special. Help me learn to be couple-y! [more inside]
I'm going to allow this.
Looking for movies with accurate depictions of legal proceedings. [more inside]
posted by Navelgazer at 9:48 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Navelgazer at 9:48 PM PST - 16 comments
what am I wearing?
Please tell me anything you can about this vest.. [more inside]
posted by kumazemi at 9:34 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by kumazemi at 9:34 PM PST - 11 comments
Drank really nasty coconut water... am I ok?
I drank some coconut water that has been left out for a long time. Probably weeks. Should I be worried? [more inside]
posted by Sexy Question Bot at 8:58 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Sexy Question Bot at 8:58 PM PST - 9 comments
Cookware Safety Filter: Aluminum plus bleach - can a coffee pot be saved?
The Mister cleaned an aluminum Mukka Express with bleach and the inside of the bottom part turned black. Is it still safe to use? [more inside]
posted by Calzephyr at 8:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Calzephyr at 8:57 PM PST - 4 comments
help me make the most out of Bali
7 day itinerary for Bali in February? Recommendations specific places to stay, specific places to go, instead of just "stay in Ubud"? Details inside. [more inside]
Help us meet in the middle.
How can we ease our long-distance communication woes? [more inside]
posted by queens86 at 8:31 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by queens86 at 8:31 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me help my friend earn his GED
A friend of mine has decided it's time to get his GED. What study guide(s) can you recommend for me to send him as a help and motivator toward this goal? [more inside]
posted by hippybear at 7:53 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by hippybear at 7:53 PM PST - 7 comments
Is there any prophylaxis or pre-treatment for herpes exposure
Friend was possibly exposed to genital herpes, wonders if there is prophylaxis treatment before any symptoms would appear? [more inside]
Learning About Pulmonary Embolism
How long does it take for breathing to return to normal after Pulmonary Embolism? [more inside]
posted by R2WeTwo at 7:32 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 7:32 PM PST - 7 comments
Selectively edited documents?
What is the best way to present a document online that is editable by some users, but not others? [more inside]
What am I allowed to ask for from a subletter?
What are the steps I can take to ensure my long-term subletter is financially secure with good credit and a steady income/guarantor? [more inside]
Bacon gone awry?
My apartment building and apartment smell strongly of barbecue, like meat cooking. Sometimes I can smell good food smells from my downstairs neighbors as I walk by, but I can't usually smell it from inside my apartment. I guess what I would like to know is, um, is there some way I will know that my apartment building is on fire before it's too late to escape? Am I over-reacting? [more inside]
How do I break jealous thought patterns?
Ex-girlfriend jealousy, my-own-brain-originating-type. How do I break jealous thought patterns? [more inside]
Where can I find a 35" silver chain?
I recently bought this Art Nouveau aide de memoire. Now I would like to find a very long silver chain to wear it on. [more inside]
posted by orange swan at 6:00 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by orange swan at 6:00 PM PST - 7 comments
How can I fix or cover up a cracked vinyl armrest on my office chair?
I bought one of these Haworth office chairs some time ago. Now the vinyl(?) on the right armrest is cracked. How can I fix it? Or if I can't easily fix it, what's a good way of covering it up?
How to break down day care holiday tips
With our daughter having been in a couple of classes at her day care this year, and there being several floating carers who also take care of her, we're not sure how best to tip. Do we need to gift everyone the same or can we weight some teachers if they've spent more time with our daughter? [more inside]
posted by NailsTheCat at 5:38 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by NailsTheCat at 5:38 PM PST - 7 comments
What can I do to speed up my moms old Desktop PC?
What can I do to speed up my moms old Desktop PC? [more inside]
posted by Snorlax at 5:25 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Snorlax at 5:25 PM PST - 13 comments
Tallyho! To the Geekery!
What are some computer "accessory" items I haven't thought of? [more inside]
Ipad mobile hotspot package?
I want to buy my friend a package so that he can connect his 1st generation ipad to the internet anywhere? What is the best deal? [more inside]
What % of fertilized human eggs die?
What % of fertilized human eggs never attach to the uterine wall? [more inside]
How to unstick brass valve?
How do I unstick this brass bypass valve? [more inside]
posted by NotSoSimple at 3:25 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by NotSoSimple at 3:25 PM PST - 9 comments
Which genes should I get sequenced?
Which of my genes should I have sequenced, mostly for an art project? [more inside]
the key to the code to the key
How can I code a letter into the bit(s) of a skeleton key. [more inside]
Injured while working out with a personal trainer - Opinions?
Under the instruction of a personal trainer I strained my rotator cuff. A couple family members said that one of the reasons of having a personal trainer is avoiding this kind of thing and that I should find a different one.
I'd never worked out or used equipment in a gym. The personal trainer was aware of that. He had me doing dips on a piece of equipment that kept my legs up and in front of me. I was definitely straining, he was pushing me to keep going and then my muscles gave out and I dropped. It didn't hurt right away, it was several hours later that the pain came so we continued the regimen. This was my third session, second working upper body.
Should I get a different personal trainer or is this just something that happens and can be brushed off?
Help me find the porn I'm looking for
I want to get my husband an online subscription to a porn website for Christmas. But I don't have the wherewithal to sift through all the google results that will likely appear if I try to google to find what I want. Please help me find what I'm looking for! [more inside]
Laptop theft prevention
Mildew city?
The house I'm renting has very little storage space inside but has a huge deck. How much damage would I do to my stored items to keep them in plastic Rubbermaid containers on the deck? It doesn't snow here but it gets quite rainy.
posted by Pomo at 2:30 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Pomo at 2:30 PM PST - 10 comments
How to pitch myself to a startup?
I am a marketing professional - middle management in an enormous media conglomerate. I would like to shift my work environment and infrastructure completely and work for a startup that is currently staffed only with technical experts, programmers, scientists and a small sales force. How do I pitch myself to be part of a company that doesn't have any people who do what I do yet? [more inside]
Shall I just wear a wig right now?
Losing my hair: female, early 30s, not sure if I'm being hoodwinked by my hairloss clinic - what actually WORKS? iS DX genetic testing and hair bulb analysis reliable? [more inside]
How to let Wordpress readers submit recipes or other content?
What's the best way to build a Wordpress feature allowing users to contribute content along the lines of recipes? [more inside]
posted by steinsaltz at 1:46 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by steinsaltz at 1:46 PM PST - 14 comments
Art school and bipolar meds
I'm bipolar and I started taking Lamictal and Seroquel around a year ago. I'm in my second year at art school after taking a year out due to depression.
I'm finding it very hard to be creative this year. I used to instantly think of a million ideas as soon as I was given a brief, now it takes me days to come up with one. I'm also finding it very difficult to draw which used to be one of my strengths. My first semester assessment is in few weeks and I'm kind-of ashamed of what I'm handing in.
I've heard bipolar meds can effect peoples's creativity, has anyone else experienced this? Is there anything I can do about it short of coming off the meds (which I definitely don't want to do)?
Can I eat?
YANMDoT, but I think I may be developing an eating disorder. Potentially triggering description inside. [more inside]
Furry hat with ears - who wears them?
What subcultures or what people wear furry hats with ears? What is the cultural context here? [more inside]
posted by Listener at 1:32 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Listener at 1:32 PM PST - 24 comments
Seeking language-rich Spanish-language videos
Please recommend some entertaining Spanish-language YouTube videos for listening practice. I'm looking for a variety of Spanish accents, and people that are entertaining to listen to. [more inside]
posted by free hugs at 1:12 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by free hugs at 1:12 PM PST - 5 comments
Sorry, suburban white straw people, for encouraging this
What are some good articles and resources about human fascination with offensive/violent art and occurrences? [more inside]
Help me find a quote about British imperialism
What's the source for the quote about England conquering the world while asleep? [more inside]
posted by mmmbacon at 12:31 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by mmmbacon at 12:31 PM PST - 4 comments
Jobs for someone with an exceptionally pleasant voice
What jobs require a very pleasant speaking voice? [more inside]
menu bar mystery
What does this Eye of Horus in my mac menu bar do? (more inside) [more inside]
posted by alteredcarbon at 12:22 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by alteredcarbon at 12:22 PM PST - 26 comments
I can write all that, but not a line on my resume.
ResumeFilter: Should I write that I did a particular project for a job on personal time? [more inside]
Help me improve my home network!
How to turn my computer into an efficient home server... [more inside]
Finding the best work situation for a cranky, non-self-starting misanthrope
I'm perpetually anxious and unhappy in my current professional field, and have been trying to transition to a different professional field. However, I'm lately wondering if the problem is really that I'm simply not a professional-type person. Should I give up on the idea of having a "career"? How stupid would this be given, you know, the economy and all that? [more inside]
DC NYE for uncool types
Any cool "alternative"/non-fancy/non-clubby new years eve activities in DC or surrounding area? [more inside]
The art/porn divide is very relevant at work
Is there a hack to create two Tumblr dashboards from one login? [more inside]
Them's the brakes
So I'm doing dome work on a 99 Volvo XC and, not paying attention, filled my brake reservoir with DOT3 fluid instead of DOT4. If I don't drain it and replace it with DOT4 am I taking a terrible risk? [more inside]
posted by Kid Charlemagne at 11:28 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Kid Charlemagne at 11:28 AM PST - 4 comments
Can I convert a brokerage account into an IRA and claim the tax benefit?
Can I convert my regular brokerage account into a (non-Roth) IRA and claim the tax benefit? [more inside]
posted by jefficator at 11:26 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by jefficator at 11:26 AM PST - 4 comments
Little bird, how do I care for you?
We are planning to get a couple of pet finches and I have a few questions: (1) what do people to use the line the bird cage if they don't get a newspaper at their house? (2) If I leave food and water, how long can finches be left home alone? a long weekend? a week-long trip? until the food runs out? and (3) is there any difference except color between the different common breeds for pet finches?
posted by metahawk at 11:25 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by metahawk at 11:25 AM PST - 7 comments
Transferring contact data between phones
What is the easiest way to transfer contact data from an LG Lotus to the HTC Wildfire S? [more inside]
posted by SpacemanStix at 11:11 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by SpacemanStix at 11:11 AM PST - 3 comments
Which Kindle? Real world experiences?
[Kindle Filter - Snowflake v9.7.1] I think I want a Kindle, but not to read Amazon books. Looking for real world experience from Kindle owners using Gutenberg books and Instapaper. Specifically Kindle 4 and Kindle Touch. Thanks in advance. [more inside]
You could read my book, maybe?
Is there a non-obnoxious way to promote a book to specific people? [more inside]
Need a little relief
Seeking ideas for the types of professional & social resources or services (organizations, agencies, providers, etc.) that would be included on a list of potential referrals to help people across the social spectrum deal with various forms of trauma, catastrophes & highly stressful situations. [more inside]
Memorable experience gifts near Los Angeles?
GiftFilter: Memorable experiences that are a day trip out of Los Angeles? [more inside]
posted by sdis at 9:52 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by sdis at 9:52 AM PST - 9 comments
Nothing was stirring, not even a mouse.
CraftFilter: I made these (1, 2) mice last Christmas and I now want to make them into some kind of decoration. But what? [more inside]
How to Take it Slow
This question is twofold but relates to one goal: I want to approach new romantic relationships differently than I have in the past, which I think means more slowly. How to best do this? [more inside]
posted by tacoma1 at 9:42 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by tacoma1 at 9:42 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me figure this (polyamory-related ethical question) out
This question is about polyamorous ethics. It's part of a larger question about my relationship with my long term partner and considers the ethics of the third party.
What I'd like a read on or resources to help think about: the ethics of expressing interest in someone who is already in a partnered, monogamous context. [more inside]
How do I balance needing to pay my employer back with quitting in less than two months?
I need help with a work situation involving quitting and a major screw up. [more inside]
My information superhighway is more like a bike path.
I need a Firefox or Chrome extension that tracks my bandwidth usage. [more inside]
Why not % ?
Why spell out 'percent' or use 'pc' instead of the % symbol? [more inside]
posted by Rash at 8:56 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Rash at 8:56 AM PST - 16 comments
Please save my Christmas!
Long shot: Does anyone know where I can find some OP Anderson Aquavit in Manhattan? [more inside]
How about some jelly babies with that eggnog?
I'm not sure how I found it or why I didn't save it, but I remember a fan made Dr. Who Christmas video.The premise was four doctors (Eccleston, Tennant, and Colin and Tom Baker) all having a Timelord Christmas together. The Doctors were played by actors/fans. [more inside]
posted by miss-lapin at 8:38 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by miss-lapin at 8:38 AM PST - 2 comments
A career that engenders flow, focus, intensity
Hey everybody, it's another question in my never-ending search for a career I might enjoy! I'm an avid whitewater kayaker. I love just about everything about it, but I think the thing that makes it most addictive is that the intensity, the problem solving, the physicality, the threat of consequences all come together to put me in a state of flow. Are there careers that could give me some of that? [more inside]
Improving my knowledge of SQL and PostgreSQL
Free or creative-commons books to help me improve my knowledge of SQL. [more inside]
Christmas cheer, Christmas beer
What are Java deliverables?
Java: What are the expectations of deliverables for an SDK/API/library? [more inside]
SCTV, 1978. Who wrote the songs?
Who wrote the song in this very funny Steve and Eydie spoof that aired on SCTV in 1978? [more inside]
posted by kuujjuarapik at 7:26 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by kuujjuarapik at 7:26 AM PST - 2 comments
shower me with tips!
We have no water pressure and may be without it for some time, which makes showering difficult. What can we do about this? By which I mean (a) what can we do to get our water pressure back, and, in the meantime, (b) what are some tips and tricks to keeping clean without a working shower? [more inside]
posted by grumblebee at 6:28 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by grumblebee at 6:28 AM PST - 35 comments
Marvel-lous underwear.
Iron Man uni-beam underwear. Does it exist? If not, how do I get a pair made? [more inside]
Plz help me burn fun .flv and .mp4 vids to DVD for people without puters.
I'd like to burn .flv and .mp4 files to DVD for people without puters, to watch on US DVD players. What format do they need converted to (I can use VLC media player to convert them, if they need converted) and what is a good open source and/or free software to burn said converted files to DVD? [more inside]
Doctoral comps - when where and how?
How do I deal with the ghosts of bad relationships past?
Some years back, I got out of a really bad(/abusive/weird) relationship. My life is so different and so much better now, and I truly thought it was behind me. But recently, out of nowhere and eight years later, I keep getting this itch to talk/think about it all in gruesome and miserable detail. What's going on? [more inside]
What exercise & nutrition regimens really work?
Truths about working out and nutrition? [more inside]
posted by Trinergy at 3:21 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Trinergy at 3:21 AM PST - 23 comments
December 15
I'm the decider! Well, 1/2 of one, anyway. Is that ever a good idea?
i've been offered a co-directorship position for an International Scholars Office at an academic organization. I need help thinking through the pros and cons of accepting. Can co-directorships ever work? Would you ever want to be a co-director? [more inside]
I'm so sorry the green has to put up with this epic stupidity.
Is there any way to reach a human being at Mojang support? [more inside]
Seeking good ______ of the Month Clubs
Looking for some recommendations for fun, surprising ______ of the Month subscriptions. [more inside]
One day after a car accident
I know this is a stupid question, but I am going to ask it anyway. I got into a car accident yesterday. Today I have minor back pain and MAJOR anxiety. Should I go to the doctor? [more inside]
how do you take a compliment?
how do you take a compliment? [more inside]
The Hamster in my hard drive is back
I have a Iomega Home Media drive on my LAN that starts chattering like it is about to explode with activity. [more inside]
Can I get cheap, small glasses with near-sighted lenses? What about reading glasses?
Can I have a glasses store put near-sighted lenses in cheap reading glasses? Is there another way to get cheap glasses for my small face? [more inside]
What should I do about the cat outside my door?
There is a cat without collar or tags in the hallway of my apartment building. It's too late to knock on neighbors' doors to ask if it's theirs. I can hear it mewing outside my door. What should I do?
Is there any way to make an exact clone of my iphone contents and state?
Is there any software from anyone at all that can clone my iphone, so that if it craters I can restore to its EXACT state before it died? [more inside]
posted by bitterkitten at 8:15 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by bitterkitten at 8:15 PM PST - 11 comments
Caring for my alcoholic parents
I'm visiting my sick parents, and I need advice and options about how to take care of them while I am there, and how they can be cared for after I leave. [more inside]
How best to hollaback?
What is the most effective way for a woman to respond to street harassment by men? Obviously if I feel unsafe, I run like hell. But often it happens in public places where I'm easily able to stop, turn around and say something to the perpetrator. Ideally would like to a) Make the man feel embarrassed and ashamed, b) Make myself feel strong instead of victimised, c) Reduce the chances of him harassing again. I realise these may be contradictory goals, and I would like to better understand what goes on in the minds of men who harass women on the street. (In case it's at all relevant, the sleazebags in my area tend to be white and middle aged).
I has a malware
My WordPress site got hacked. Who can I pay to fix it? [more inside]
Travel litterbox.. wha?
12-hour drive home for the holidays coming up - help me let my cat pee during the trip without it being in his carrier... again. [more inside]
posted by AthenaPolias at 7:13 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by AthenaPolias at 7:13 PM PST - 20 comments
Found a large, strange bug with a large "stinger" in the living room. What kind is it?
I found a large, fast, and strange looking bug in our living room (one, two), and I'm unsure as to what type it is. It has a large "stinger" on it's bottom, with very long legs. Do you know what type it is? [more inside]
Dolt the Blunder Dog is not acceptable - what name can sneak under the radar?
Help me help my friend
How do I make sure my author friend gets the biggest bang for my buck? [more inside]
posted by CookieNose at 6:36 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by CookieNose at 6:36 PM PST - 13 comments
Should I tell someone that her new boyfriend is a horrible person?
Would it ever be OK to warn someone (whom you don't know) about about her new boyfriend, who is your ex friend with benefits? For reasons of jerk-ery, not safety. [more inside]
My Droid is low on space. What? Halp.
Android phone error: "Low on space -- Phone storage space is getting low." Help? [more inside]
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 5:43 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 5:43 PM PST - 22 comments
Should I try harder to talk myself out of marriage?
Even though logically I don't feel like he's "marriage material," I am overwhelmed lately with a desire to be married to him. Which way should I be going on this? [more inside]
posted by thrasher at 5:40 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by thrasher at 5:40 PM PST - 28 comments
A dilemna about prisoners
In fiction, an adolescent girl is imprisoned, and can only communicate with a mysterious fellow prisoner she's never met. They can only communicate in code, a plausible code that teaches the girl how to encode information into her world's predominant technology. [more inside]
posted by Sunburnt at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Sunburnt at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
Best Low Light Still Camera?
Root depth and breadth
I want to know how deep and how wide the roots of various plants will normally grow. Trees, gourd vines, wheat, clover, tomatoes, garlic, cilantro, marigolds, everything. I want to make sure my raised beds are high enough and also want to prevent plants from choking each other out.
posted by gray17 at 4:03 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by gray17 at 4:03 PM PST - 4 comments
Help re-name us!
Help re-name our popular Toronto Storytelling event! [more inside]
Any less-crowded bars on a Friday in downtown Boston?
What are my best options for Friday after-work drinks in downtown Boston? [more inside]
posted by Dixon Ticonderoga at 3:47 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Dixon Ticonderoga at 3:47 PM PST - 6 comments
Christmas toes
Christmas toes filter: I'm about to travel half-way across the world to spend the holidays with my brother's family and I want the two girls to think think they have the most awesome-es auntie known.
So here's the question... Red and green toenails. Should I do one foot red and the other green or alternate colours? I'm open to other patterns and ideas as well. I want them to giggle.
posted by michswiss at 3:38 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by michswiss at 3:38 PM PST - 25 comments
Can you identify this women's coat/cape?
Please help me identify a cape/coat thing so I can surprise my girlfriend with it. (picture inside) [more inside]
posted by plasticbugs at 3:17 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by plasticbugs at 3:17 PM PST - 17 comments
I was left as executor of a will, need a lawyer. Looking for advice.
Mother passed away, need to get court papers stating that I am the executor of the will. The will states that I am the executor, but it was never filed with a court. Courthouse says I must get a lawyer to get the paperwork if the will wasn't filed in a court of law before she died (which is was not). [more inside]
Adding someone else to a project
Adding someone else to a project. [more inside]
Put socks on your hands
Techniques to break porn and masturbation addiction? [more inside]
What kinds of Christmas gifts do you buy when you're buying for the whole office?
What kind of Christmas gifts do you get for co-workers, when you're cheap and have a bunch of them to give to? [more inside]
Words are hard!
I need a couple synonyms for a somewhat confusing work topic. [more inside]
Vocal exercises for speaking in bars?
Me me ma ma mo mo... Anyone have any tips on speaking exercises to prevent vocal rawness and pain after extended speaking in noisy environments? [more inside]
posted by teedee2000 at 1:05 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by teedee2000 at 1:05 PM PST - 10 comments
A gift for the wild blue yonder
I'd like to buy a gift for a good friend who is a flight instructor (small planes, one-on-one with students); he hasn't been doing it all that long, and doesn't have a huge amount of personal equipment. Anything nice/fancy that is also incredibly useful to have that his employer wouldn't provide? Also, any iPad/iPhone accessories for pilots? Say anything up to $500 (or even a bit more) or so - though unless I was completely assured he'd love the gift, I'd prefer cheaper. Thanks!
posted by slide at 12:51 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by slide at 12:51 PM PST - 10 comments
Help Me Find This Horror Movie
What is that 80s/90s horror movie involving someone terrorizing residents of a condo or apartment building by crawling within the walls? [more inside]
posted by dovesandstones at 12:14 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by dovesandstones at 12:14 PM PST - 17 comments
I need a personal camera.
I'm looking for a fast point and shoot camera I can use to take pictures of my pets. [more inside]
Will we have trouble bringing camera equipment to Central America?
I'm trying to find out whether we're going to have trouble bringing still and video camera equipment into Mexico, Honduras and Guatemala, and my Google-fu is failing me. [more inside]
posted by sabotagerabbit at 11:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by sabotagerabbit at 11:57 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me kill my inner George Lucas
I have to record myself interviewing others for work, and to my horror noticed I pose in such a way that gives me a double chin all the time. This is gross and makes me look weird/incompetent. How can I not do this anymore, ASAP? [more inside]
posted by slow graffiti at 11:25 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by slow graffiti at 11:25 AM PST - 16 comments
And when Santa squeezes his fat white @%# down that chimney tonight, he's gonna find the jolliest bunch of @%#holes this side of the nuthouse.
Christmas! Christmas! I seek non-annoying Christmas music, good Christmas cocktails, delicious Christmas food and Christmas desserts. What are some good things to do on Christmas Eve/day in NYC/Brooklyn? [more inside]
posted by zoomorphic at 11:14 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by zoomorphic at 11:14 AM PST - 26 comments
Ima wanna Bahama idea.
What to do in Nassau or Freeport, Bahamas that isn’t so “touristy”? [more inside]
How long must a drug company prove a drug safe and effective to win FDA approval?
When a drug company is trying to get the FDA to approve a new drug, my understanding is that they have to demonstrate that it's clinically effective and not acutely toxic for a finite period of time (weeks or months). But how long? [more inside]
Beyond the Bars
What are good early-stage dating activities in NYC that don't involve bars? [more inside]
Going from Southwest to Northeast London quick and cheap
Often I want to go from Southampton UK to Islington. The public transportation system in London is awesome! There must be a better way than the white-knuckle drive through the city I currently do...
Given that I want to do the first leg of the trip via car, I expect there is somewhere in SW London I can park and take public transportation, and get to Islington relatively quickly (~1 hour) and cheaply. I've played around with Google maps, and there are a bajillion options.... anyone know one that is near optimal? Ideally with free/cheap parking, and outside the congestion fee zone.
Hope my turn my cassettes into something less archaic.
Anyone have any experience of the HY-2010-TP gizmo for converting audio cassettes to mp3s? [more inside]
posted by ricochet biscuit at 10:38 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by ricochet biscuit at 10:38 AM PST - 10 comments
What will happen after PhD programs (hopefully) accept me?
I am (very nearly) finished with my applications to computer science PhDs, and I realized I don't really know what will happen next. Assuming I get in anywhere, what sorts of contacts with programs are in store between their decision and mine? [more inside]
posted by silby at 10:30 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by silby at 10:30 AM PST - 8 comments
How to connect a PC to an AV Receiver for the best quality audio?
How to connect a PC to an AV Receiver for the best quality audio? [more inside]
posted by 1024x768 at 10:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by 1024x768 at 10:28 AM PST - 9 comments
How can I attach some wire to the end of a tiny pine cone in a non ugly way to make it into a Christmas ornament
Hey crafties, do you know a good way for me to secure some wire to the end of a miniature pine cone in a non-ugly way so I can make a Christmas ornament out of it? [more inside]
posted by Askr at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Askr at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
Television stations for bored dogs?
I am dog-sitting three dogs today for several hours while I'm working from home. I can take them for a couple short walks, but otherwise, they're on their own. They seem kinda bored and I'm wondering if putting the t.v. on would help. Are there specific t.v. genres that seem to be of interest to your dogs? [more inside]
posted by ms_rasclark at 10:21 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by ms_rasclark at 10:21 AM PST - 30 comments
Where did I read this short story about an alien abduction?
I am looking for the title and author of a short story about an alien abduction. The abduction itself was a major plot twist-- the story was about a farmer, but very abruptly, the farmer is abducted.
iPhoto, uPhoto
Please help us get going so our blog doesn't remain some neat idea that we never made happen! [more inside]
posted by seriousmoonlight at 10:01 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by seriousmoonlight at 10:01 AM PST - 6 comments
A gift ever so slightly ahead of its time.
Our corporate gifts this year are kind of new and unique, but now I'm concerned that some of the recipients won't understand what they are or how they work. How can I best explain it in a short included message, without being off-putting to the ones who have seen them before and know exactly what they are? [more inside]
posted by mireille at 9:43 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by mireille at 9:43 AM PST - 20 comments
Binocular recommendations?
I would like to buy my wife good binoculars for Christmas. Can anyone recommend good binoculars? [more inside]
posted by tylerkaraszewski at 9:39 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by tylerkaraszewski at 9:39 AM PST - 18 comments
Guns, butter, widgets.
I attended the University of Chicago Law School. I know almost nothing about economics, much less the Chicago school, but people keep expecting me to. Where do I start? [more inside]
Brewing loose leaf tea: How do I do it?
After a failed attempt at getting my morning caffeine via coffee.. I discovered Bigelow's Plantation Mint tea. I like it stronger then their little teabags can provide though. How do I find and make it with loose leaves? [more inside]
Where's my period?
Last week, I abruptly stopped taking my birth control pill (Aviane) four days before I was supposed to start my placebo pack. When will my period start? [more inside]
Too soon to apply for a job? Or should I just go for it?
Applying for university administrative jobs in another city that I will be moving to in 4 months. Is it worth it to begin applying for positions I'm qualified for when I'm 4 months out from moving there? Could it hurt my chances of landing a job at the new university in any way? [more inside]
Gym dilemma.
What should I do if I see a painfully thin person exercising very hard at the gym? [more inside]
posted by teraspawn at 8:15 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by teraspawn at 8:15 AM PST - 43 comments
So, you want fries with that?
[College/Career Filter] How do I guide my HS daughter in her ambitions towards Theater production? [more inside]
To fight the bug, we must understand the bug.
How do I ensure carpet beetles won't destroy my clothing? [more inside]
posted by logicpunk at 8:06 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by logicpunk at 8:06 AM PST - 6 comments
Looking for a 3-5 day trek in February
Looking for ideas for a 3-5 day hike in February, easy to intermediate level, and maybe with a hut-to-hut or home-to-home element. Focusing on North and South America or Europe, and with a preference for decent weather. Any thoughts? [more inside]
Travel Suggestions for New Orleans
Going to New Orleans in January for business. Looking for some suggestions [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 7:57 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by dbirchum at 7:57 AM PST - 12 comments
recommend a book: I'm currently interested in nonfiction books on conspiracies, organized crime, corruption, secrecy, diplomacy, government misbehavior, etc.
I'm currently interested in nonfiction books on conspiracies, organized crime, corruption, secrecy, diplomacy, government misbehavior, etc. and recently, I learned about Cointelpro on Hardcore History. Can you recommend interesting books on similar topics? [more inside]
Name that Song! Again.
[Song Filter] The roommate I had in college during the 2000-2001 year listened to this song that I liked a lot but of course I do not know the name of it, who sang it, or fully remember much of the lyrics. [more inside]
posted by zizzle at 7:16 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by zizzle at 7:16 AM PST - 2 comments
Switzerland in the winter without winter gear
What should I see and do in/around Zurich and Bern? [more inside]
posted by madokachan at 7:14 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by madokachan at 7:14 AM PST - 5 comments
We love you, but only when we like what you're doing.
FamilyGuiltFilter: Please help me navigate my mother and her tendancies to pile on guilt. [more inside]
posted by floweredfish at 6:55 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by floweredfish at 6:55 AM PST - 45 comments
The ultimate tea set
I would like to give a tea set for a wedding gift. I'm looking for a timeless, beautiful set of objects that will last forever and do their job well. [more inside]
posted by grrarrgh00 at 6:23 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by grrarrgh00 at 6:23 AM PST - 13 comments
Does Canada close up shop for the holidays?
Do Montreal and Quebec City close up shop for the holidays? [more inside]
Guess the number of Jelly Beans, Win a Prize!
Is there a way for me to estimate the total value of a certain weight of random mixed us coins? [more inside]
pickle teapot enthusiasm membrane
this xkcd panel talks about human friendly passwords, that there is more entropy in four random english words eg: 'pickle teapot enthusiasm membrane' than the standard password format of about ten gibberish characters 'S@Nt&KLaWs'.
Has anyone integrated this idea into a public-key cryptography system to allow keys that are words therefore more memorable, or encrypting and hashing into english words?
what [ are / would be ] the [problems/other interesting qualities] of such a system?
posted by compound eye at 4:53 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by compound eye at 4:53 AM PST - 27 comments
Cool machines for techie fiancé?
[DifficultGiftFilter] My fiancé is one of those techie guys (software architect/developer) who already has all the latest gadgets and is generally hard to shop for. However, one of his most prized possessions is a beautiful little stirling engine. What are some other cool little machines that he might appreciate? [more inside]
It's been a long time since I had to worry about this.
Should we buy COBRA coverage for the small gap between employers? [more inside]
posted by jon1270 at 4:08 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by jon1270 at 4:08 AM PST - 20 comments
Fear of a Bot Planet
Are there people out there taking a war against robots/AI seriously? [more inside]
posted by ollyollyoxenfree at 3:59 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ollyollyoxenfree at 3:59 AM PST - 11 comments
Practical tips around positive support of youth, program structures that work, behavior management, and incentives
My wife is the director of an after school program that serves low income minority youth in grades 3 through 12. She is looking for practical tips to share with direct service staff around positive support of youth, program structures that work, behavior management, and incentives. What resources might you recommend (web or print)? What suggestions do you have as to what's successful or ways to assist in training and supporting staff within programming. Thanks.
OHHHH-HOOO said the King of Bekjae
Emperor Wang Gun. It is one of the best TV shows you have never seen. Unfortunately, I have only seen parts of it. Is there any way I can purchase this show at a reasonable price? All I can find is a heartbreakingly priced $300 DVD set.
WI-FI spots and Chinese acupuncture in Mumbai
I'm brand new to this city and live in the Colaba, South Mumbai. My partner and I are looking for free wi-fi coffee shops and cafes in the area and aren't turning up much fruit. Any Bombay folks out there have suggestions?
Also, I'm looking for a good Chinese medicine and acupuncturist in Mumbai. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
posted by pranalaxmi at 12:49 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by pranalaxmi at 12:49 AM PST - 10 comments
Was the original Internet architecture designed largely by the Finns?
Did the Finns make a major contribution to the original Internet architecture? [more inside]
posted by Tarn at 12:49 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Tarn at 12:49 AM PST - 7 comments
Pastels in London and Paris Museums
Thinking of visiting London and Paris next year...also been getting into pastels so would like to hit up art museums with a good number of quality pastel paintings by Degas, Renoir, etc. (prefer impressionist style). Which museums provide this abundance? I'm thinking the Musée d'Orsay, maybe the Louvre...anywhere else?
posted by lirael2008 at 12:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by lirael2008 at 12:15 AM PST - 8 comments
December 14
Too busy to feel this shitty?
I'm too busy to be depressed. How can I truck through this? [more inside]
posted by dekathelon at 10:37 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by dekathelon at 10:37 PM PST - 19 comments
NYC Subterranean Filter: Regarding Liquid Nitrogen Below Ground, Why?
NYC Subterranean Filter: Regarding Liquid Nitrogen Below Ground, Why? [more inside]
I will s ite thee with my smiting stick.
So does anyone know the origin of the phrase/meme "I will smite thee with my smiting stick"? [more inside]
Are there any recent (last 3-4 years) surveys of American reading habits?
Can you point me to recent surveys of reading habits in the United States? I'm hoping to find statistics from the last 3-4 years about anything from the average number of books read, time spent reading, digital reading, to whatever else you know about. [more inside]
Bitter Songs
Tell me you favorite bitter, angry songs. [more inside]
posted by catatethebird at 9:07 PM PST - 160 comments
posted by catatethebird at 9:07 PM PST - 160 comments
Looking for a bulk bourbon drink recipe
Looking for a tasty bourbon drink for a lot of people. [more inside]
Adult small socks
Mission Impossible: I'm looking for non-Hitchcock socks in mens size 5.5-6. [more inside]
posted by arnicae at 8:59 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by arnicae at 8:59 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me find a Spanish Language Magazine
Want to sign up my dad for a Spanish language magazine subscription, but seems like there is limited variety. Which Spanish language magazines do you know of? [more inside]
When is the right time to ski my first blue run?
I'm a beginner skier. I want to go on my first blue run soon. When is the right time? [more inside]
Customer service ---> Gainful employment
Help me transition out of my customer service "career" [more inside]
If you could study anything, what would it be?
If you could study anything, what would it be? I have some free time and a desire to get my neurons firing. [more inside]
what shall I call thee?
Baby-name-filter: Two middle names, possibly retracting one later. Thoughts? [more inside]
To Watch or Not To Watch- Home Surveillance when away
We are going out of town and using a housesitting service that we found through the interwebs. A friend told us that we absolutely must set up some sort of surveillance. I'm really torn. [more inside]
Please help me keep my feet from swelling.
For the second day in a row, my feet and ankles have swollen up at the end of the day (the swelling went away overnight). Why might this be happening, and what can I do to stop it? [more inside]
How to stifle a cough?
Need your best hacks for stifling a cough--in time for a choral performance tomorrow. [more inside]
I'm looking for luggage storage in NYC near the american museum of natural history
I'm looking for luggage storage in NYC near the american museum of natural history [more inside]
posted by eliluong at 7:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by eliluong at 7:43 PM PST - 8 comments
Do all electric toothbrushes get moldy?
Why is my Oral-B electric toothbrush's head moldy? Would a Sonicare have the same problem? [more inside]
Vehicle maintenance website needed.
I'm looking for the best free online vehicle maintenance scheduling, logging, and alert website. Can someone recommend one they've used? [more inside]
Eliminating cooler stink
Looking for an antimicrobial agent to add to a beer cooler. [more inside]
I'm looking for Android blogs that don't flood me with hardware news.
A Perfect Model for the Ultimate Failure of Free Market Capitalism
So, long story short: I have satellite internet. I have no other options for internet. My ISP provides neither service nor internet. What (legally, etc.) can I do? [more inside]
posted by byanyothername at 6:52 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by byanyothername at 6:52 PM PST - 26 comments
What's in a name... a twitter name to be specific
What's in a name... a twitter name to be specific [more inside]
i want to sound my barbaric yawp!
help me find poems that are self-affirming and kind of narcissistic in nature. [more inside]
Need help troubleshooting slow internet
My internet connection suddenly slowed way down. I've tried all the usual things, but I need some expert advice. [more inside]
Should I leave my company?
Should I just put in my two weeks or try to get a counter-offer from my current company? (or something else I haven't thought of?) [more inside]
Help me rock out to a Mesoamerican beat
Point me in the direction of some kick-ass Inca (or Inca-inspired) music. You know, with the pan flutes and the awesome beatz and whatnot. [more inside]
Introduce me to mindblowing covers of cliched songs.
Introduce me to mindblowing covers. I'm interested in cool, unconventional cover versions that turn cliched songs into something new entirely. [more inside]
Anthrax and Metallica
In 1986 in Brooklyn, you could speak of Anthrax and Metallica as peers. With all respect to Anthrax who have been influential, history has shown Metallica to be the bigger band. I remember an article saying that of all the influential progressive bands in the 70's, like Yes, ELP, and Genesis, lessor know Gentle Giant was just as popular. Are there other examples of bands that had periods of time then they were peers, only to be surpassed later in time. Also, please add if this was true for a specific place.
Hearing with my hair
I can hear with a location on the top of my head. Is this common? Unusual? What is it called? [more inside]
Archiving a LiveJournal Community
How can a now-defunct LiveJournal community archive its posts & comments? [more inside]
Show me your stollen
Help me find some Kirk Originals.
Kirk Originals glasses, help me find a place I can purchase them online. I like the Saturn series, and I like either the colors azur or orange in the style of Janus or Pan. Thanks!
Snacks to go with Gluhwein?
Snacks to go with mulled wine? [more inside]
Android noob seeks new phone
Should I get an unlocked Android instead of a dumbphone? If so, any tips on things to consider when buying a Android phone for a smartphone noob? [more inside]
What modem should I get?
What modem should I get, to replace an AT&T 2Wire DSL model? [more inside]
posted by Conductor71 at 2:43 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Conductor71 at 2:43 PM PST - 3 comments
Goo Goo Ga Ga, or Not?
Insights and anecdotes about relationships that don't start out with both people being crazy about one another? Or do you have to have that goo-goo ga-ga spark for it to work? [more inside]
Why can't I access certain websites with my Samsung Charge or Amazon Kindle?
Why can't I access certain websites with my Samsung Charge or Amazon Kindle? [more inside]
I'm no John Keating.
How do I effectively tutor someone in high school English and History? [more inside]
Information on the Use of Legal Solidarity by Occupy and Others?
I'm looking for information and resources regarding legal solidarity and court solidarity with an eye towards its practical application, specifically how it has been used so far by Occupy protesters and how it has been used successfully by other groups. [more inside]
posted by andoatnp at 1:43 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by andoatnp at 1:43 PM PST - 10 comments
Taking Lego pictures with an iPhone
Help me use my iPhone to take Lego pictures. [more inside]
posted by not that girl at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by not that girl at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
Learning to jam
Keyboard players: A jam session might be in the cards for me soon. What is the best way for me to pick up a bit of basic skill on a synthesizer/piano? [more inside]
What type of sensor for three dimensional position tracking?
What type of electronic position sensor (aka tracker) should I use to track the position of an object in three dimensions? I want to watch the position through software; I don't care about velocity, relative movement, or orientation. Also, I'm on a low budget for this. Either wired or wireless sensors would be fine. [more inside]
Who should I suggest he talk to about being let go?
Recommendations for an acquaintance who was previously let go from a job under possibly discriminatory circumstances? [more inside]
posted by brilliantine at 12:56 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by brilliantine at 12:56 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for a reasonably priced exercise bike
Recommend me a reasonably priced exercise bike [more inside]
Critical analysis of real estate
I'm looking for websites and information - both academic and more polemical - that critically analyze the process by which real estate is generally bought and sold in the US, and the consequences of that process for individual buyers and the economy as a whole. [more inside]
Buy vs. Build: Maine style.
Should we buy (and renovate) or build? (Portland, ME filter) [more inside]
posted by furnace.heart at 12:18 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by furnace.heart at 12:18 PM PST - 10 comments
What resharing blog service do you use?
What's the best way to create a re-sharing blog, now that Google Reader is gone? [more inside]
Best book on how to cook with herbs and spices, and NO Salt?
Best book on how to cook with herbs and spices, and NO Salt? [more inside]
What are the most popular online news sources?
What are the most famous online news sites that aren't online presences of older institutions? I'm talking 100% name recognition. Can be any type of news, but should be something that if mentioned in general conversation among people under 40 you don't have to explain what it is. [more inside]
Cross-Platform Connectivity
Help me use my PS3 controller with my MacBook Pro! [more inside]
What to consider when designing the layout of an IT office?
Goodbye cube farm! Help me redesign the layout our IT office! [more inside]
I know I'm lucky to have a job at all, but two is killing me.
I've got two full-time jobs and depression/anxiety. I'm a zombie. Help me. [more inside]
Searching for dream houses
I keep having dreams about fantastic, labyrinthine houses. What video games have similar qualities? [more inside]
posted by rivenwanderer at 10:53 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by rivenwanderer at 10:53 AM PST - 25 comments
New to Final Cut Pro X, need tips on how to organize content
New to Final Cut Pro X, need tips on how to organize content. So I've got hours of interviews in large file segments, how best to cut/edit/organize them in the newest version of Final Cut Pro X? [more inside]
posted by mathowie at 10:30 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mathowie at 10:30 AM PST - 3 comments
szzzZSHROMmmmSHZzzooomm
ISO the best beard grooming system for my special bearded person. [more inside]
Totally niche!
I'm looking for a recommendation for a graphic novel for a 30 year old lesbian journalist. I want something funny, sharp, dark, etc. [more inside]
posted by timpanogos at 10:02 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by timpanogos at 10:02 AM PST - 31 comments
Time for a new phone, what should I get?
In the market for a new smartphone— Android or iPhone? [more inside]
Is there a nice-looking website that will let me track multiple college applications?
Is there a nice-looking website that will let me track multiple college applications? [more inside]
Fix my trigger temper?
Resolving temporary hyperarousal without resorting to anti-anxiety drugs? [more inside]
posted by TestamentToGrace at 9:02 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by TestamentToGrace at 9:02 AM PST - 38 comments
Ideal presentation file format for technical presentations?
I'm looking for a presentation format that's easy to use, lends itself to automation and plays nicely with version control systems. [more inside]
troubleshooting furnace
The house I rent has forced hot air. There is a broken register on the side of the furnace which is stuck open, blowing hot air into my basement which I barely use. Can I tape this closed w/ some foil tape or do I need to replace the register? Or should I leave it open for some reason?
posted by pilibeen at 8:32 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by pilibeen at 8:32 AM PST - 15 comments
Math for Kindergarteners
Math exercises for kindergarteners? [more inside]
Numbness in hands and face, headaches, fatigue: what is this?
Hi, MeFi. I've had a medical condition for the past month which involves numbness in my hands and face, headaches, fatigue, emotional distress, and other unpleasant symptoms. I know YANMD, and I am in fact already seeing a doctor and will soon be seeing a neurologist. I'm sorry about the wall of text, but if any of this sounds familiar, please let me know -- it would really help when talking to my doctors! [more inside]
The World's Best Pins
My wife has requested sewing pins for Christmas. Please help me find the world's very best sewing pins! [more inside]
posted by Irontom at 7:31 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Irontom at 7:31 AM PST - 14 comments
How do I get my toddler to go down stairs?
My almost-3 year old, who is normally quite sweet, has started melting down about EVERYTHING and refuses to climb/go down stairs, and walk reasonable distances. Physical issue, school adjustment issue or just a phase? How do I grit my teeth and get through it? [more inside]
posted by kpht at 7:31 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by kpht at 7:31 AM PST - 36 comments
Journalism Terms of Art....HALP!
Quick help with a journalism term of art, please! [more inside]
Celebrities with hidden, incredible talents?
What are some good examples of celebrities with hidden talents? I love discovering things like Tom Green rapping, Barbara Mandrell playing steel guitar, Karen Carpenter playing drums, Charo playing flamenco guitar, Dudley Moore playing piano, or non-musical talents like Phil Hartmann's artwork or Geena Davis' archery skills. Or maybe not a skill, but a significant accomplishment (e.g., Abe Lincoln earning a patent). I love that kind of stuff. What are some other examples of people generally know for one thing, but holy cow, they could have just as easily been famous for doing another?
posted by holterbarbour at 7:14 AM PST - 142 comments
posted by holterbarbour at 7:14 AM PST - 142 comments
A modest proposal that children work as janitors
Newt Gingrich's suggestion that poor children work as janitors reminds me an awful lot of Swift's "A Modest Proposal." Can you think of anything in the 2004 presidential race that was similarly Swiftian? [more inside]
Respecting elders who are acting Unrespectable (Bar Etiquette)
An older gentleman who comes to our local often enjoys singling me out for loud and overbearing criticism, even when he isn't part of the ongoing conversation. I need a good turn-off phrase to de-fuse his little bombs. [more inside]
posted by halfbuckaroo at 6:51 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by halfbuckaroo at 6:51 AM PST - 24 comments
Can you help me find a neato secret santa gift?
Hivemind, I need your best ideas for an awesome $10 workplace secret santa gift! Details within! [more inside]
A very geeky Christmas...
My husband is into geeky electronic things. I am not. Help me figure out some gift ideas for him. More inside. [more inside]
Breaking up around the holidays
Procedure for breaking up close to the holidays [more inside]
posted by lpcxa0 at 6:19 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by lpcxa0 at 6:19 AM PST - 23 comments
How to cut down on all these paper records?
I am a high school science teacher teaching five classes in three classrooms and my desk is in a fourth. I'd love to cut down on the amount of paper I have to schlep from room to room. Is there an iPad app available that would let me take attendance (and set absent as the default) and record hall passes, discipline, and parental contact?
Web resources for student pilots.
Student Pilot Filter: can you recommend web resources for a student pilot: forums, blogs, podcasts, websites. (Et cetera.) [more inside]
Help me manage my time
Fiction writers with day jobs and lives: How do you organize your time to get your fiction written? [more inside]
Deleting search data
How do I delete the shopping and search data from my Apple MacBook? [more inside]
Scaring my kid: dick move?
Question about scaring my two-year-old to get him to obey. Am I being a bad dad? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 5:06 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by zardoz at 5:06 AM PST - 41 comments
Word and Gmail?
Gmail and Word Question: just recently, perhaps since the new look Gmail, sometimes when I compose a long email in Word, then copy and paste the text into an email reply, it looks fine, then I hit Send, and it ends up being sent without the proper line breaks. Specifically, the blank line between paragraphs (two paragraph marks from Word) become just one new line, and the email looks like a huge wall of text. There didn't seem to be any way for me to know that this would happen, as it looked fine when pasted into the reply box before I hit send. Also, if I compose a new message and post the text, it seems to go through fine; this only happens with reply. Is there an easy fix that I can do every time to stop this from happening? Can anyone explain this? Thanks.
What led to your artistic breakthroughs?
Which changes, events, discoveries, or epiphanies led to the most dramatic improvement in your painting or drawing ability? [more inside]
Ideas for Partitioning a Room to Save On Heating Costs
Anybody have ideas for a how to partition our living room from our kitchen to conserve heat/energy? But in a cheap yet stylish way? Opening between the two rooms is about 10-14 feet wide (image a normal doorway about seven times the width, maybe the size of a small garage door) [more inside]
If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you
I am running a project at work which is causing me a LOT of stress. Please give me some tips on how to keep calm in the face of a lot of pressure, conflicting demands, and lack of experience on my own part. [more inside]
Quick dishes to cook pork mince (ground pork meat) in a pan?
What are some quick dishes to cook pork mince (ground pork meat) in a pan? [more inside]
Who chops Subway lettuce?
Are Subway vegetables cut up on premises -- or are they frankenfood prepared days before in some far off factory then vacuum sealed? Please help settle a pointless argument.
posted by dontjumplarry at 1:56 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by dontjumplarry at 1:56 AM PST - 13 comments
How to track letters we send out?
So I've been tasked to find some sort of 'document repository & tracking system' for use in the non-profit I work for. I could really use your help. [more inside]
December 13
Is there anything I should fix to increase my dateability?
Is there anything I should fix to increase my dateability? [more inside]
posted by cscott at 11:11 PM PST - 65 comments
posted by cscott at 11:11 PM PST - 65 comments
Information and background on a mystery Andy Williams Christmas CD
Information and background on a mystery Andy Williams Christmas CD [more inside]
I cannot find this song anywhere, at any price
I've been looking for a copy of the song Space Command by Dallas Frazier with absolutely no success. He wrote a number of country music standards; this was his first single (recorded at age 14!) but it doesn't appear on any anthology and I haven't even been able to find an original copy of the 45, although I would prefer to just pay for a download. Any ideas?
posted by symbebekos at 9:01 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by symbebekos at 9:01 PM PST - 2 comments
Improbable, Hypothetical, Jury Duty Questions!
What happens if you are picked to serve jury duty on a very long trial (2 - 6 months)? [more inside]
Celebrating my parents' anniversary
How should I acknowledge my (awesome) parents' wedding anniversary? I want to do better than signing my name to a card. [more inside]
I just can't figure this out!!!
I can't figure out why I can't connect to certain sites through my wireless router. HELP! [more inside]
How much should we tip a driver in Mexico?
How much to tip a driver in Mexico? Two of us are getting a transfer from the Cancun airport to a resort about an hour away. The fare, round trip, for both of us, is $140 ($70 each way). How much should I tip, for each segment (airport to resort and resort to airport)? [more inside]
where the party at? oh nowhere.
Extroverts: What do you do when you have to be alone for a long time? Or you have to make a decision and there's no one to call and talk it through with you? [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 7:54 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by sweetkid at 7:54 PM PST - 20 comments
Can I get a mortgage
Buying a house for the first time, have a question about obtaining a mortgage when I believe my current job will be ending soon. Also looking for general house-buying advice. [more inside]
Blood Pressure Info
Resources for learning about blood pressure? [more inside]
posted by bearette at 7:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bearette at 7:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Is Verizon's new home automation system a good way to get into home automation?
Has anyone tried Verizon's home automation system? Or have any suggestions for an easy (and relatively cheap) way to get started with home automation (for energy efficiency, not security)?
Are you a lip reader?
Can you read lips? Can you tell me what the woman says starting at 1:10 in this video? (SLYT and there is no real audio, just static and muffled noise.)
Help me choose a 5k running route in Raleigh, NC area.
I am looking for a 5k route to run in the Raleigh, NC, area. I'm willing to drive up to 45 minutes to get to a decent running route. Can you share a good route with me? [more inside]
posted by soundproof at 7:02 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by soundproof at 7:02 PM PST - 8 comments
Good faith effort to return money failed - they show up 4 years later - what does my friend do?
(YANML filter) Asking for a friend:
"About 4 years ago, this company in (foreign country) gave my company a $3,000 deposit to negotiate a deal.
The deal never went thru, so they were supposed to get their money back. They sent over incomplete wire instructions and I requested them to send the right info. Never heard back.
When I closed the company, I tried maybe 5-6 times to get this info and they never replied. So they had their money with me all these years, neglected it and now they're asking for it back. Of course, that money is gone." [more inside]
posted by Mysticalchick at 6:47 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Mysticalchick at 6:47 PM PST - 18 comments
How do I fight a completely outrageous parking ticket in a court that clearly has no empathy for my case?
How do I fight a completely outrageous parking ticket in a court that clearly has no empathy for my case? The ticket is $250 for parking at a completely reasonable spot on Splitrock Road without no parking signs close by. At the trailhead where I parked, there is a map kiosk that shows a map that is labeled parking at that spot. When I went to court the first time, the prosecutor was very aggressive and the judge seemed to have no empathy for my case. The whole thing seems like a shakedown, please help! [more inside]
Requesting advice from sensible people: how to navigate sensitive dramatic issue
I had an abortion years ago. Now, years later, I am being accused of "faking" the abortion, and am being harassed via social media sites. Help me figure out how to navigate this situation with dignity and class. [more inside]
Rebelling against body mod conformity!
I can't be the only crafter looking for this! I'd like to make my own prong-set body jewelry... can you help me source the findings? [more inside]
How do I learn to prefer the real deal?
I find myself persistently drawn to elusive, short-term prospects rather than actual Good Real People. It's frustrating and ultimately unfulfilling, and so I'm curious to hear from anyone who made the jump from Silly to Real, and how that transition unfolded, and what (if anything) you did to help it along. [more inside]
Plastic glasses frames w/nose pads - not prodesign?
Does anyone know of manufacturers who makes plastic / acetate glasses frames with nose pads besides prodesign? [more inside]
posted by oneear at 5:03 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by oneear at 5:03 PM PST - 6 comments
Help with the help: Occupy my imaginary penthouse
Let's pretend I'm rich. Maybe not a member of the 1%, but definitely a member of the 10%: What kind of household staff would I have? What would I call them? And what would they call me? [more inside]
Welcome to the neighborhood!
What can we get for our neighbor now that we've ruined her basement? [more inside]
Who's this Ohm guy you keep mentioning?
I'm moving from the US to Hong Kong and don't want to fry my appliances. What do I need? [more inside]
posted by dust of the stars at 4:11 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by dust of the stars at 4:11 PM PST - 5 comments
How to stop blushing when coworkers talk about sex
Help me stop blushing when people at work talk about sex. [more inside]
She wants a fling, I'm wishing for a relationship
Met this incredible girl who i fell head over heels in love with. However, she's reluctant to move our relationship forward because of her past. I'm left confused and wanting more.. [more inside]
posted by kampken at 3:58 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by kampken at 3:58 PM PST - 20 comments
Whats eating Gilbert Grapefruit?
Perhaps because of his childhood memories of selling fruit for his own highschool band, my boyfriend made an over enthusiastic grapefruit purchase.
How are 2 people going to eat 10 lbs of grapefruit? [more inside]
What if this is as good as it gets?
Would I know if this is as good as it gets? I know I've got it pretty good, better than most I bet...but I feel a little, I don't know, perhaps unsettled. But maybe that isn't even the right way to describe it - physically it's more liked stressed with a side order of tired. How do you know when you're at the top of your game and when you are in the place that is best for you and your family? [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 3:26 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 3:26 PM PST - 14 comments
Look at me, I'm cool!
What are some gifts for pre-schoolers that will make them feel like grown-ups? I'm thinking along the lines of fancy snap change-purse for a girl, for example (what are those called anyway? the ones with a metal snap), and other things that children don't need but LOVE to have. [more inside]
posted by midnightmoonlight at 3:02 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by midnightmoonlight at 3:02 PM PST - 36 comments
Looking for a movie and searching Wooden Coin didn't get me far
Help me identify this movie I saw in the early 90's on TV (possibly a premium channel) that involves all kinds of weird things! What little I know ... [more inside]
posted by one4themoment at 2:54 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by one4themoment at 2:54 PM PST - 14 comments
fighting the collections beast
Hospital bill collection blues. Am I in the legal right here? [more inside]
Name that tune
What is this song? My brain "recognises" it but I can't place where I've heard it before and it's driving me mad.
posted by Mwongozi at 2:39 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Mwongozi at 2:39 PM PST - 9 comments
A Gift of Hemp is Forever
A new friend of mine has Huntington's and her prognosis is not good. I asked her what she wanted for Christmas and she said hemp jewelry. This could mean a lot of things, but I think in general it means some sort of macrame bracelet or choker with attached decorative pieces. Help me find the best hemp jewelry on the planet
What are you going to do with that?
What are some non-academic, non-science careers in which a PhD is a particularly desirable, even necessary, credential? [more inside]
Closest monitor to Apple Cinema Display?
What is the closest monitor I can get to the Apple Cinema display that's not $1000? [more inside]
Finding the source of two beer ads?
How can I find out when and where these Budweiser ads were first published? [more inside]
posted by taltalim at 1:37 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by taltalim at 1:37 PM PST - 6 comments
Baby clothes for Domo-kun fans
A good friend of mine is having a baby, and we were talking about how awesome getting a domo-kun onesie (infant bodysuit) would be awesome. We don't want a onesie with a picture of domo-kun - rather the onesie should be brown with domo's face right on the chest. Basically like this, but in baby size. It must exist somewhere, does anyone know where I could buy one?
posted by ajackson at 1:37 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ajackson at 1:37 PM PST - 8 comments
Noisy neighbour: Heathrow How do I learn to deal?
How do I get used to the constant whine of jet engines above my head? [more inside]
posted by BAKERSFIELD! at 1:32 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by BAKERSFIELD! at 1:32 PM PST - 16 comments
Can you help me decorate this wall?
So I rent this house, and it has a stupid wall in it. Can you help me decide what cool, interesting thing I should do with it? I've posted a video on YouTube to show it to you.
Tai Chi video for Parkinson's?
Can you recommend a beginner's tai chi video for a person with Parkinson's that is... [more inside]
No. You really ARE crazy.
Rejectionfilter: I'm not that into him, told him and now he's causing drama. How do I navigate this situation? [more inside]
On Ilkla Moor Baht Apostrophes
Available resources or advice for transcribing dialect speech? [more inside]
posted by Jehan at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Jehan at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
Does western culture really value critical thinking more than other cultures?
Is there any acedemic research on the importance diferent cultures/educational systems place on critical thinking skills? [more inside]
posted by empty vessel at 1:13 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by empty vessel at 1:13 PM PST - 5 comments
Simple video editing software to add text?
Can you recommend super simple, super cheap movie editing software that I can use to perform this single (seemingly elementary) task? [more inside]
posted by juliapangolin at 1:10 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by juliapangolin at 1:10 PM PST - 5 comments
What are the best abdominal exercises that are not just a variant of a crunch or a sit-up?
What are the best abdominal exercises that are not just a variant of a crunch or a sit-up? For example, the plank. What are others? [more inside]
How do I manage a workflow that is dependent on other people?
How do I manage a workflow that is dependent on other people's efforts? My (mostly administrative) job requires that I do things that are frequently dependent on the contributions and/or approval of other people, who frequently can't/don't/won't complete tasks in a timely manner. What do I do? (Details inside) [more inside]
posted by Wretch729 at 1:07 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Wretch729 at 1:07 PM PST - 11 comments
Alternative to gift-giving?
What's a good alternative to exchanging Christmas gifts? We both have plenty of stuff. [more inside]
posted by chickenmagazine at 1:02 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by chickenmagazine at 1:02 PM PST - 15 comments
Man from China. Painted mural. Maybe in Minneapolis.
A question about a mural supposedly painted by a man from China at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts. [more inside]
posted by typewriter at 12:33 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by typewriter at 12:33 PM PST - 7 comments
If I were a tree I might be this one if only I knew what it was.
This tree is a mystery, what kind of tree is it? I have photos! [more inside]
posted by marylynn at 12:21 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by marylynn at 12:21 PM PST - 12 comments
Phone or Web app to track sending/receiving of holiday cards?
Is there either a Web site or an app for iPhone or iPad that allows you to track the sending and receiving of holiday cards? (If not, there should be!) I see apps that allow you to send e-cards, but I'm sending paper cards. I would love to be able to open my mail, phone in hand, and just type into the phone that I received cards from X, Y and Z so I know to send them cards as well. Not finding anything. I've done this on paper for years, but it seems like someone should have made an electronic easy version by now.
Drawing Classes in the Bay Area
Drawing classes in San Francisco: Is there anything like the Art Students League in New York (cheaper, start and stop when you'd like) or 3rd Ward — or is it just CCA, SFAI, and the Berkeley Art Extension? I'd like to take a drawing class that is less expensive and less intensive than some of the semester-long offerings at these schools ($400 for 12 wks is the general setup). Any Bay Area mefites have the scoop?
posted by dame at 11:42 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by dame at 11:42 AM PST - 8 comments
What must we see in south Portugal or Spain?
Honeymooning! What must we see in southern Portugal or Spain? [more inside]
How many kWh would be produced in a year in the south of England (roughly)?
How many kWh would be produced in a year in the south of England (roughly)? [more inside]
Adjusting the mental rear view mirrors.
How do I spot and account for my philosophical blind spots? [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 10:59 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by Hactar at 10:59 AM PST - 30 comments
A subscription service for professional grade protocol signatures?
A subscription service for professional grade protocol signatures? [more inside]
Hedwig and the Angry Inch in HD?
I've got the DVD of Hedwig and the Angry Inch, and I've been dying to have an HD version. I don't care if it's Blu-ray or a download. Does anyone know if this exists anywhere?
Help me like dark meat.
I want to like dark meat, really I do. I hate letting food go to waste, but invariably, when we cook a whole bird, we let the back half of it sit in the fridge until one of us throws it out. [more inside]
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 10:38 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 10:38 AM PST - 45 comments
Can't Start ASAP = HR asks if I'd 1099. Figuring out a rate?
I have a hybrid question about working 1099, going rate for Enterprise Content Management/Digital Asset Management work, & maybe even accounting for costs when it'd be in San Francisco. No secret snowflake details, just how the heck do I figure out if it could work and for what amount of money? [more inside]
Touch here to switch to espanol every. single. time.
Is it possible to detect a smartphone user's language settings and serve them web content in their chosen language? [more inside]
posted by Uncle Ira at 10:22 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Uncle Ira at 10:22 AM PST - 6 comments
In-room humidifier experiences?
Tell me about your in-room humidifiers... [more inside]
Can I put my worries aside for Christmas?
How can I put off worrying about my health enough to enjoy the holidays? Also, what should I ask my second-opinion doctor? (A couple icky details inside) [more inside]
Recommendations for an oil burner service company in Southern Connecticut?
Recommendations for an oil burner service company in Southern Connecticut? [more inside]
Can you help me index and annotate my brain for my daughter.
I have a health condition that may end my life prematurely. I am an "older" parent of an only child who is currently 8 years old. It's important to me that I leave a record of who I was. Can you help me with strategies to help me "index and annotate" myself for her, so that when she is older she could have an idea of her father as an adult beyond just the Daddy that I am to her now? [more inside]
Now for something completely different, a Christmas gift question!
Two gift questions:
1. What is a good gift, ~$30, for a 9-year-old boy who loves anything to do with construction and is forever building things out of scrap wood? (It's for this kid, who, two years later, is growing up to be completely awesome and a joy to have around.)
2. A while back someone asked a fashion question and one of the answers had a link to a store that I can't find now. It seemed to be a British store that had come to the US because it kept referring to their various lines as "our [blah blah] range." It had women's and kids' clothes, I think men's, too, and the kids' clothes were colorful and whimsical and somewhat modern looking. It's the kids' clothes I'm after, so if you have other suggestions for clothes like that, that'd be great, too. Thanks!
posted by HotToddy at 9:37 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by HotToddy at 9:37 AM PST - 26 comments
Why does the Chinese government make it so hard to visit?
Canadian getting China travel visa abroad? [more inside]
Identifying odd home artifacts and features
Antiques Metafiltershow: Can you help me identify any of these wild, weird, artsy household features? [more inside]
Display Photos in Calendar Online
I want to display my images in a calendar view- online. [more inside]
How to Create a Location-Aware Annotated List of Venues for my iPhone?
How to Create a Location-Aware Annotated List of Venues for my iPhone? [more inside]
Have there been any studies about the effect of a small penis on personality or accomplishment?
Is there any scholarship out there about penis size and relative [success/happiness/confidence/etc]? [more inside]
posted by AgentRocket at 8:43 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by AgentRocket at 8:43 AM PST - 6 comments
How do i prevent ice or frost on my car windows
Car De-froster/De-icer? [more inside]
How sexualized is a federal/military law enforcement workplace?
I am a young and pretty college female about to start an internship at a federal and/or military law-enforcement agency. I am concerned about the attention I might get from men, and I'd like to hear about your experiences. [more inside]
Keeping Calm and Carryin' On in a bout of Long Unemployment ?
How do I stay confident and not feel overwhelmed in my unemployment, 2.5 years after graduating ? [more inside]
Why Waive?
What is the point of waiving a preliminary hearing? [more inside]
posted by glaucon at 8:04 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by glaucon at 8:04 AM PST - 15 comments
I need a place ... a place to put my number.
Looking for a cheap (or free) alternative to Google Voice that will let me port in a 928-225-xxxx number and forward it to another number. [more inside]
Inventing a promotion. Possible?
Machievelli Filter: I see an opportunity at my office. [more inside]
Network Bridge Over the River Kwai
Best application for sharing my Laptop's Ethernet connection over WiFi? [more inside]
Typography book for kids
Is there any such thing as a typography book for kids? [more inside]
posted by echo target at 7:12 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by echo target at 7:12 AM PST - 15 comments
Put new battery in VW Golf and now it won't start. Help!
Battery died in a Volkswagen Golf. New battery connected and now whenever the car door is opened the alarm goes off, which came as a shock because we didn't know the car had an alarm! Disconnecting a thin blue wire on the negative battery terminal disables the alarm but the car won't start -- dash lights come on, radio plays fine, but the engine doesn't even make a sound. Just dead. Presumably an immobiliser. Help! [more inside]
posted by humblepigeon at 7:09 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by humblepigeon at 7:09 AM PST - 14 comments
Need help with video blog in Atlanta, GA
I'm working on new finance-based startup in the Marietta, GA (just outside of Atlanta, GA) and I'd like to hire someone to come in do bi-weekly interviews of me and my team as we go through the process (kind of like the Robert Scoble interviews if you've ever seen them).
It's a pretty exciting time for us and our product and I've been told by many that we should start a blog or youtube channel to share our experiences. There's also an interesting personal piece that both me and the CEO would be interested in sharing and that I think a lot of young people would be interested in hearing.
The problem is that in the list of things we can spend our time doing, setting up equipment, doing the interviews, and editing the videos is low priority.
Can anyone recommend a company or how I can find an individual who would be interested in doing this for us?
posted by joshuamcginnis at 6:45 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by joshuamcginnis at 6:45 AM PST - 6 comments
Pack the zombies onto a spaceship and headout
When I was younger I spent A LOT of time with face planted in science books with a focus on theoretical physics, space exploration and the structure of the universe. Now I am older, what books or films should I throw myself back into? [more inside]
posted by zombieApoc at 6:24 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by zombieApoc at 6:24 AM PST - 10 comments
Apparently scotch and Vicodin is less recommended.
Rimadyl is pricey. Anyone have a cheaper source or experience with the generics, or with one of the other canine joint pain meds? [more inside]
posted by TomMelee at 6:23 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by TomMelee at 6:23 AM PST - 16 comments
My kingdom for an atlas...
Recommendations for best, recently published world atlas? [more inside]
posted by ephemerista at 6:23 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by ephemerista at 6:23 AM PST - 5 comments
Fall-ing
What rhymes with 'fall'? [more inside]
Don't Mess With A Missionary
How do I reconcile myself with the notion that I do not respect my daughter’s religion, or what she is doing in its name? [more inside]
posted by timsteil at 5:57 AM PST - 48 comments
posted by timsteil at 5:57 AM PST - 48 comments
Inclusion of benefits in employment contract?
Should health benefits and who will pay those health benefits be included in an employment contract? [more inside]
posted by Diplodocus at 5:57 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Diplodocus at 5:57 AM PST - 8 comments
East Coaster Looking For A Surfboard Shaper
Can anyone recommend a really good surfboard shaper on the East Coast? [more inside]
How do I get my lost package from UPS?
How do I find the large, heavy package that UPS lost? [more inside]
How do I pimp my resume in English ?
I'm french-speaking, possible new job needs my resume in English. Please help me pimp my resume. [more inside]
Who is / was "D. Goldschmidt"?
My wife has inherited a portrait in oil of Leo Baeck which is dated and signed, "1952 D. Goldschmidt". Who is / was D. Goldschmidt? [more inside]
posted by Dan Brilliant at 3:28 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Dan Brilliant at 3:28 AM PST - 3 comments
Uneasy listening
Why do we sometimes enjoy dissonance in music? [more inside]
Post your favorite year-end best-of list aggregator!
In the past Fimoculous has aggregated year-end "best of" lists for many different aspects of culture, such as music, movies, architecture, games, websites, you name it. According to his Twitter feed, though, he's done with this practice. So how to fill the void? What's your year-end-list aggregator of choice?
I know I have a big ego, but...
Is my head actually that big, relatively? [more inside]
posted by Monday at 12:18 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Monday at 12:18 AM PST - 21 comments
Pre-exam Intermolecular Forces Confusion
Intermolecular forces questions: Why do H-S-S-H molecules have dipole-dipole attractions to eachother? Why does ion-dipole attraction make for a stronger solute-solvent interaction than hydrogen bonding? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 12:05 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by sunnychef88 at 12:05 AM PST - 8 comments
December 12
What to get a South American for xmas?
A friend from El Salvador unexpectedly got me a very thoughtful xmas gift and I'd like to do the same! What could I get someone from Central America currently living in Australia that they wouldn't expect me to know about? [more inside]
posted by Silentgoldfish at 11:03 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Silentgoldfish at 11:03 PM PST - 8 comments
Website Where You Donate Art Concepts
What's the name of the website where artists can have an idea that they don't have time to do themselves? I forgot to bookmark it. Ie. I have a really good band name idea, but don't have time to do the work so I donate the right for someone to use the idea for a year.
I want to build a freaking wall of speakers
I am planning a project for a new years party involving over a hundred speakers of assorted size and Ohm values , Basically the idea is to stack all the speakers to cover an entire wall of a room and wire them all up to an amplifier(s?) what would be the best way to wire them? [more inside]
posted by 70klicks at 10:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by 70klicks at 10:10 PM PST - 9 comments
Spoken word for kids?
Favorite spoken words/performed poems for kids? [more inside]
Help me figure out exactly what it is my son wants from Santa
Please help Santa figure out how to get my kid the thing he really really wants. It relates to a Super Mario game, which I know little about... [more inside]
posted by anastasiav at 9:18 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by anastasiav at 9:18 PM PST - 15 comments
Hi! My name is.. (what?)
Can we give our first child my wife's maiden name as his/her last name? [more inside]
posted by holdkris99 at 9:15 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by holdkris99 at 9:15 PM PST - 40 comments
I really messed up.
I was asked to leave my masters program, but given a written assurance that I could reapply to the program. Now, four years later, I'd like to approach them about coming back, but I have no idea how to do so--and of course there are major complicating issues involved that are entirely my fault. [more inside]
I know how to X! Can I help you with that?
What should I learn to become a better and more-helpful person? [more inside]
posted by Kippersoft at 8:06 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by Kippersoft at 8:06 PM PST - 36 comments
Deyellow me some whites!
I have some white T-shirts (standard Fruit of the Loom/Hanes/shrink-wrapped supermarket cotton T's) that have gone yellow around the folds after being stored folded in a closet for too long. I'd like to bring them back to their original shade. Some I've actually never worn! The tools I have are a bucket, gloves, collar cleaner, and bleach. I'd like to rinse the bleach out before I put them in the machine. I've never done anything like pre-soaking or treating stains before. [more inside]
Birth Control: Does it get better?
Is the moodiness caused by birth control something I should power through, or is it time to call it quits on this brand? [more inside]
How to manage family Christmases when our kid doesn't believe in Santa Claus, but her cousins do?
How to manage family Christmases when our kid doesn't believe in Santa Claus, but her cousins do? [more inside]
Help me make better electronic music.
Help me move forward in producing electronic music. [more inside]
posted by lobbyist at 7:01 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by lobbyist at 7:01 PM PST - 16 comments
Death and taxes
My father died and left me and my sister his house. He willed her 2/3 and me 1/3. She's currently living in the house and I am not. I would like my 1/3 in money so I can buy my own place. My sister is not willing to hand over the cash and says she will put the house on the market next year. We do have a really good relationship when it comes to anything other than money, meaning I don't push the issue because she reacts unfavorably.
What are my options?
What is the origin of the Star Wars memorial wall picture?
Does anyone know the origin of or the artist who created this Star Wars/Darth Vader memorial wall picture?
Will my 2008 Mac Pro benefit from a video card update?
Will my 2008 Mac Pro benefit from a video card update? Which cards can I use? [more inside]
Is my quick Jalapeno pickling method/recipe safe?
Is my quick Jalapeno pickling method/recipe safe? [more inside]
How to end a Verizon plan and start a new one.
Help me navigate Verizon from my old family plan (w/parents) to a new family plan with my SO. [more inside]
WHere to stay in tokyo (young couple, quiet area, central)
Where should a youngish couple that likes quiet stay in Tokyo ? (keeping somewhat central) [more inside]
I don't know, is squatting an option?
My husband and I would like to buy a house that's currently vacant, it was purchased by Fannie Mae in 2009. We don't know what to do next. We're in Oklahoma. Anyone have advice? [more inside]
posted by dearest at 3:43 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by dearest at 3:43 PM PST - 5 comments
"Vroom!" went the thing that vrooms
For a sci fi story's sake, help me brainstorm a cool term for what a flying motorcycle might be called in the future. [more inside]
posted by np312 at 2:53 PM PST - 82 comments
posted by np312 at 2:53 PM PST - 82 comments
Therapist in NoVa
Northern Virginia Filter: I need a therapist. Who has evening hours. Who accepts Aetna or will not cause me to go broke. [more inside]
What is the best airplane and RC car out there!?
Please help me find an awesome remote control car and/or plane for a deserving little boy! [more inside]
Need big, light bags/suitcases
Big, light luggage or alternative? I'll probably move overseas, want to take the max weight in my (checked) bags, hope to have as little weight as possible glommed up by the bags themselves. I'm okay with something not likely to last a long time and cheap is good, though at the risk of stating the obvious, don't want something real vulnerable to tearing on the flight(s) over there. Thanks for any suggestions you can share.
posted by ambient2 at 2:26 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by ambient2 at 2:26 PM PST - 11 comments
I'm not a morning person, but my larynx is
Why does my voice sound awesome (to me) only in the morning? [more inside]
Modernist Cuisine requires a chemistry degree
Has anyone dived into Modernist Cuisine? What are some of the must try recipes? The tome is overwhelming and the equipment required can get expensive. [more inside]
I'm just not that into you
What are acceptable ways to essentially tell someone "I'm just not that into you" while minimizing the hurt factor? Caveat: you're in the middle of the first or second date. [more inside]
Experienced travellers please help!!
Best luggage for the $$??
Inexperienced (but soon to be experienced) traveler here. I need GOOD luggage. And, of course, I am looking for a good deal... [more inside]
Can someone identify this flag?
Am I overreacting to my dog's bad vet visit?
I had a negative experience when I took my dog to the vet. Am I overreacting? Should I give the vet another chance? [more inside]
posted by Elly Vortex at 1:33 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by Elly Vortex at 1:33 PM PST - 53 comments
Ever used an Alpha-Stim machine?
I have an anxiety disorder, and my psychiatrist tried an Alpha-Stim (cranial electrotherapy stimulation) on me a few days ago. The experience was pleasant but not lasting. I'm told I'll have to use it 2-3 times a week, 20 minutes at a time for a few weeks before I'll know if it's truly effective. So, I'm wondering if anyone here has regularly used one of these or knows anyone who has, and what the experience was like?
What is the best online store in Japan - Amazon, Rakuten, or others?
What is the best online store in Japan? Amazon or Rakuten or others? [more inside]
When should I let my child pick her own books if I disagree with them?
When should I let my child read Harry Potter and Diary of a Wimpy Kid?? [more inside]
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 12:44 PM PST - 60 comments
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 12:44 PM PST - 60 comments
I know it's true, I read it in a book!
ChristmasBookFilter: Looking for a book, probably published in the 90's, purporting to be a travel log of author's journey to the North Pole complete with maps of Santa's airstrip, toy factory layout, etc. The book maintains the fiction from beginning to end and is nicely done.
posted by TigerMoth at 12:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by TigerMoth at 12:42 PM PST - 4 comments
Here comes the bride. But she's wearing a ring made from a piano.
Making an engagement ring from a piano tine. [more inside]
How to get a used cargo van cheap?
Straightforward question: How do I go about getting the best deal on a used Ford Econoline cargo van? [more inside]
Google Chrome will only whisper to me.
When I am viewing flash-based streaming video like Hulu, Netflix or Youtube in Google's Chrome browser, the volume is only half as loud as when I watch the same content in Firefox. [more inside]
posted by mecran01 at 12:18 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mecran01 at 12:18 PM PST - 6 comments
Help Me Graph Abstract Points in Space with Just Distances
MathFilter: Help me calculate the location of points with lots and lots of distances. [more inside]
Where can I get my hands on some Schickele Mix?
I want to give my mom a collection of Peter Shickele's great NPR classical music show: http://www.schickele.com/mix/. I was able to track down a few shows from various sources online but I really want a complete set. Does anyone have any advice?
Need some advice for diagnosing and treating narcolepsy
My girlfriend may have narcolepsy. She's considering provigil (modafinil) as well as other forms of treatment. What advice do you have for her? [more inside]
Can I be denied leave without pay if I'm resigning?
I'm giving notice to my job today, starting a new one at beginning of January. Questions regarding holidays and family medical leave, because I think they might fight me... [more inside]
Do I fix my broken tooth for $1200 now or can I wait a month and fix it in Thailand?
Do get my broken back molar fixed now or 5 weeks later when I'm in Thailand? If now, where can I find an affordable dentist in NYC that is not NYU dental school? [more inside]
Do I stay or do I go now?
I'm at a crossroads in my life and am struggling to decide what I should do next. Do I move? Do I stay? How do I make an active instead of a passive choice? [more inside]
posted by vivzan at 11:14 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by vivzan at 11:14 AM PST - 21 comments
How are you going to deduce the encryption key, Holmes?
Espionage/Police Procedural Filter: how do the police, or CIA, or FBI, MI5, MI6, private eyes, or whoever do their job in a world of encryption, cloud storage, and teeny tiny little storage devices? [more inside]
Dear Landlord
YANML but let me hear your opinion anyway: If my family had to be unexpectedly temporarily relocated due to plumbing and flooring issues, what is my landlord required to pay? Lodging? Food? Anything? [more inside]
Help Santa setup a Kindle
"Santa" is going to be bringing my 8 year old daughter a Kindle (newest one; none touch/Fire).
How should I recommend he set it up so he can:
1. Install a note from him for when she 1st opens the gift/turns it on
2. Help me setup a account for her (she has one for a amazon wishlist)
posted by ShawnString at 10:51 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by ShawnString at 10:51 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me look at things differently
I remember seeing a set of cards that through a series of questions would allow you to examine ways to solve a problem at hand. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? [more inside]
posted by aeighty at 10:48 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by aeighty at 10:48 AM PST - 6 comments
Help Me to Feel Better About Being on My Own
How do I become more confident in my ability to be on my own again (and even enjoy it) after a devastating break-up? [more inside]
Anyone read a book about Korea, the Baltic States, and Saladin?
I'm trying to find out the title and author of a near-future geopolitical thriller written sometime back in the 90's. [more inside]
Commuting between NYC and New Haven: where to live and what to expect
There's a possibility that my partner and I might be looking at working in NYC (partner) and New Haven, CT (me). Where can we live that's convenient to the Metro North train line, gives us roughly even commute times, and might also be a halfway decent place for two early-thirty-somethings to live? [more inside]
Cheap data plan for cell phone?
Is there a cheap cell phone plan with data in the US? [more inside]
Findings on Trolling?
A friend recently owned up to being an internet troll. He claims not to understand what he gets out of it. His techniques are baiting, manipulating, feigning innocence, and never getting mad. What makes trolls tick and is it curable? [more inside]
posted by Jagz-Mario at 9:46 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Jagz-Mario at 9:46 AM PST - 31 comments
What should I get my kid's teacher for Christmas?
Giftfilter: Teachers, tell me what gifts you most like to receive from your (elementary school) students at Christmas and the end of the year. [more inside]
posted by looli at 9:45 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by looli at 9:45 AM PST - 21 comments
What musical keyboard should I get my 6 year old?
My 6 year old daughter would like a keyboard (musical) for Christmas. What am I looking for in a keyboard? She is learning some basic songs at school already and is generally familiar with the layout. What features are necessary? What are not? [more inside]
posted by otto42 at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by otto42 at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
why doesn't my child like to eat?
First child questions -- why doesn't my one year old like to eat? What to do about it? [more inside]
posted by LeanGreen at 9:26 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by LeanGreen at 9:26 AM PST - 53 comments
Any ideas on my kid's red cheek problem?
I have a red cheeked preschooler. Trying to talk to doc, but wanted thoughts from others. [more inside]
More arrivals or departures?
Are there more arriving or departing flights in the United States? Bonus: previous years, other countries, domestic vs. international, etc.
posted by michaelh at 8:47 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by michaelh at 8:47 AM PST - 16 comments
"Apple *mwah* Pie!": Who said it?
"Apple pie [3 staccato lip smacks]." Have you heard this somewhere before? [more inside]
I want to get my groove on with no strings attached
Help me pick out some new android-compatible wireless speakers. [more inside]
Cumulative current account balance
Could you interpret this map for me? Also is there an updated version of it?
posted by raphael19 at 8:05 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by raphael19 at 8:05 AM PST - 5 comments
Looking for WWII battle maps
What are sources of maps to be purchased of World War II battles? [more inside]
posted by maxg94 at 7:59 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by maxg94 at 7:59 AM PST - 4 comments
Oakland to SFO at 7AM
I live in downtown Oakland, near 12th St. BART, and I have a flight at SFO at 7AM. I imagine this means I'd need to get to the airport around 6:20. I'd prefer to take BART to SFO but it is not running that early (is it?). What options do I have to get there?
Help me stop missing email
It's time to start looking for a new smartphone. I have the Nokia E71, and I like it well enough but for one thing: I need a phone that can adapt automatically to a small number of wireless networks for email, as I move between them. What phone should I get, or failing that, what is this function/feature even called? [more inside]
Engineer me a great gift.
UK Giftfilter: My mid-20s younger brother is currently teaching himself about workshop stuff and electrical & mechanical engineering. Help me find the perfect christmas gift for him on my minuscule budget! More detail? There's more inside... [more inside]
posted by Magnakai at 7:23 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Magnakai at 7:23 AM PST - 14 comments
What's the story behind this ice bowl?
What era is this ice bucket / bowl from? [more inside]
posted by Carillon at 7:22 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Carillon at 7:22 AM PST - 5 comments
Book of Jonah Grammar Question
Jonah 1:4: "the ship was like to be broken" - "וְהָאֳנִיָּה חִשְּׁבָה לְהִשָּׁבֵר" - what is the grammar of חִשְּׁבָה ? [more inside]
posted by Paquda at 7:19 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Paquda at 7:19 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me dress like a French Ali MacGraw in her mid-thirties!
What would Ali MacGraw wear if she was in her thirties today and lived in Paris? [more inside]
Raisins Singing "Lean on Me"
Does anyone know where my sister could get an mp3 of a cover version of "Lean on Me" from "The California Raisins Sing the Hit Songs" (1987). We had it on a tape as kids and she's making a nostalgia CD.
Can't find it in itunes or amazon... Local libraries don't have it, CD is expensive. I tried a bit of filetype:mp3 searching and didn't turn up much...
posted by mgogol at 6:54 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mgogol at 6:54 AM PST - 3 comments
Why is Goldmine so sluggish?
Help, SQL connectivity issues are driving me batty! [more inside]
Just give me a full body transplant already
Chronic costochondritis... help plz [more inside]
Tips for Getting London Culture on the Cheap?
How can I find cheap tickets for cultural events in London? [more inside]
Where should we go on our honeymoon?
My husband and I will be going on our honeymoon (6 months after the wedding) in mid-February. We originally wanted to go to Molokai, but the airfare from Boston is prohibitively expensive. We are now thinking Puerto Rico, but we aren't 100% certain. Help us decide where we should go, where we should stay, and what we should do. Our specific preferences and requirements inside. [more inside]
posted by Cygnet at 6:35 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Cygnet at 6:35 AM PST - 11 comments
Auto Accident Aftermath
Should I get a lawyer, and whose insurance should I make a claim against for an auto accident that was the other driver's fault and which caused significant injury? [more inside]
posted by Vectorcon Systems at 6:35 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Vectorcon Systems at 6:35 AM PST - 15 comments
Skyrim: Too Soon?
Skyrim for the PC: Should I wait? Should I skip it? [more inside]
Mr. Freeze.
A winter trip is pending, and I'm paranoid about a potential boiler failure causing burst pipes and warped floors. What's the easiest, most surefire way to monitor the temperature in my house while I'm gone? [more inside]
Real Strength
Please give me examples of admirably "strong people" who don't fall into the macho, no-feelings, aggressive, angry, callous, dominating, violent archetype, together with what it was about them that made them "strong". [more inside]
Do athletes have musical bodies too?
I think I'm in okay shape. I lift weights 4 times a week, play soccer and have a good diet filled with vegetables, fruit and lean proteins. My body makes all kinds of crazy cracking noises (from my ankles to my shoulders) during and after exercise. Do professional athletes have this problem or am I not in as good shape as I thought?
Externalities and government intervention
Do externalities (political or economic) necessarily constitute a market failure and thereby justify government intervention?
Recommend books on boxing for non-readers.
My nephew is 20. He's starting college again. He doesn't read, so his essays are poorly written. The information is in there, but it is poorly structured, Capital letters appear for no Apparent reason, etc.
If he read anything, ever, his writing would improve. But he won't.
He likes boxing. Can anyone recommend a boxing book which would entertain him and is simple enough for him to understand ?
posted by devious truculent and unreliable at 4:59 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by devious truculent and unreliable at 4:59 AM PST - 33 comments
Restarting? Feels like homework.
Restarting Infinite Jest? I read (and enjoyed) around 400 pages worth of IJ around a year ago, but for whatever reason, I put it down for a break and never picked it up again. With a summer holiday ahead of me, I'm hoping to restart reading it. My question is: where do I start? Is it worth restarting it from scratch, or do I read some online guides to get me up to speed and read it from where my bookmark has been patiently placed? I turn to the hardiest of DFW fans for the answer!
posted by chronic sublime at 4:26 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by chronic sublime at 4:26 AM PST - 18 comments
Please help me find the ideal off-the-shelf e-commerce template for an online store project.
Please help me find the ideal off-the-shelf e-commerce template for an online store project. [more inside]
What's causing my vocal fry?
Can 'vocal fry' be a symptom of hypothyroidism? You're not my doctor, I know, but has anyone else experienced this? Should I be concerned? [more inside]
posted by biddeford at 2:50 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by biddeford at 2:50 AM PST - 8 comments
how to make a royalty agreement
Classical vs statistical entropy
Can someone explain to me in layman's terms the relation between classical entropy (heat over temperature) and statistical entropy (-k \sum p_i ln p_i)? More specifically, how do the microstate probabilities arise and how do they relate to heat and temperature? [more inside]
physics-based Android games
What are good physics-based Android games? I like World of Goo, Crayon Physics, and X Construction (building railway bridges and running increasingly heavy trains over them). [more inside]
posted by 6550 at 12:13 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by 6550 at 12:13 AM PST - 4 comments
December 11
On the 1st day of Christmas my grandchild gave to me...
I am transitioning (ftm) and haven't told my extended family. My grandmother is extremely distraught by my mother's passing last year. We are seeing each other for the first time in 6 months at a holiday dinner this month. How do I balance my needs with her needs and minimize drama? [more inside]
Family member laid off, I survived. I hold resentment towards management, should I stay or go?
Brother was laid off by new owners, had a verbal agreement with previous owner to keep both of us, should I stay or go? [more inside]
posted by MeatFilter at 10:40 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by MeatFilter at 10:40 PM PST - 12 comments
Quiet keyboard?
Help me find a quiet keyboard [more inside]
Is exercise really worth it?
I really dislike exercising and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to motivate myself. After reading this comment I realized part of the problem is I'm ambivalent because I'm not really convinced exercise does much for me. Help me convince myself otherwise. [more inside]
Stop my phone driving me mad, please!
My BlackBerry (Curve) has a Facebook app. Suddenly (last few days) it's been alerting me whenever there's a new reply to my post, etc. Drives me mad - I just want to be alerted (noise and flashing light) when I get a an email (for my work) and I don't mind the flashing light when I get a new Twitter mention. But this Facebook thing is driving me mad. BUT when I go in to ask it not to alert me to these things on the Blackberry, it stops alerting me on my home email to responses to my posts, etc. When I turn on alerting on the Facebook website, hey presto, they're back on my phone. [more inside]
posted by LyzzyBee at 8:28 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by LyzzyBee at 8:28 PM PST - 6 comments
how do I manage a foundering co-founder?
How can I be less strong at work? I am managing equity development for a start-up in Europe. Bad times so please don't bother mentioning it. I have had a good run since I arrived in October and was rewarded with two staff for my department last week. Problem: one of them is the co-founder of my company. He is not capable of working on a project he will not get public credit for. I am at my wit's end with his shirking of deadlines and his "right away" promises. How do I deal with this difficult position? [more inside]
In a bit of an odd teaching situation. Please suggest software and websites appropriate for kindergarten - grade 6.
In a bit of an odd teaching situation. Please suggest software and websites appropriate for kindergarten - grade 6. [more inside]
Help Me Identify This Disco Song
Help me identify this song that I heard during a Cut Copy DJ set. [more inside]
scraping pdf content?
I have about 4000 pdfs that i need to scrape data from and put into a database. [more inside]
Help not not need a new car
Very specific filter. I am in need of an infant seat for a 2002 chevy cavalier but of course there is more inside [more inside]
posted by dstopps at 7:00 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by dstopps at 7:00 PM PST - 6 comments
YA Book Recommendations
Recommendations for young adult books about the disability experience [more inside]
posted by Ideal Impulse at 6:20 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Ideal Impulse at 6:20 PM PST - 28 comments
Computer le jar?
I'm looking for a Latin phrase that sounds something like "computer le jar." My boyfriend's brother passed away this year and this was a saying the brother had that, according to the family, meant something like "seize the day" (this may be completely wrong though) but it wasn't "carpe diem." [more inside]
posted by madred at 5:49 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by madred at 5:49 PM PST - 20 comments
What are the best accessories/apps/tweaks/forums for a new HP Touchpad I just purchased in the firesale?
I just purchased a refurb 32gb Touchpad for $180 (tax+shipping) in the firesale. Did I pay too much? Should I keep it as WebOS or install Android CM7 alpha on it? [more inside]
Why does one version of firefox allow me to facebook, and the other does not?
Why would one browser version circumvent my company's internet blocking software, while an updated version does not? [more inside]
posted by trogdole at 4:53 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by trogdole at 4:53 PM PST - 9 comments
Asking out a socially awkward friend
You're a smart, awesome guy with serious social anxiety. What's the least awful way a friend could let you know they have feelings for you? [more inside]
Finding the Molar Enthalpy of a Reaction with One Solid Product and One Gaseous Product
This is a hypothetical chemistry question. I'm tutoring someone, and a question like this came up on their exam. There was no answer provided, so I don't know if the answer we found was correct. [more inside]
Too old for Fisher Price, too young for Canon
My soon to be 10 year old daughter just told me she wants a camera for her birthday. What to get? [more inside]
posted by Ruki at 3:55 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Ruki at 3:55 PM PST - 19 comments
Why does it reboot in fullscreen?
Why does my Macbook "reboot" sometimes when I watch full screen video? [more inside]
Temporarily using a laptop as an external hard drive
Is it possible to hook up a laptop to a desktop so that the laptop's hard drive is effectively serving as an external hard drive? [more inside]
Gotta Get Some Boom Boom Pow
I love music with an especially strong/driving beat. Whether it be techno, dubstep, drum corps, or rock, I want songs (or even artists) that have a good beat. [more inside]
Can I get the tetanus and flu shots together? And should I even get a flu shot?
Is it okay to get a tetanus and a flu shot on the same day? Also, is the flu shot really necessary? [more inside]
Will it go round in circles until it stops?
Where can I get a replacement motor for my vintage Christmas color wheel? [more inside]
French language songs in Spotify
Calling all francophile music lovers: recommendations for modern french language songs. [more inside]
i can haz sanity?!
My cat is eternally bored and wantonly destructive... and it's driving me insane! [more inside]
a more pleasant job I can support myself with while I work on my art?
What other jobs can am I qualified for that I could support myself on, but still give me time to pursue art? Or is my frustrating job as good as it gets without more qualifications / experience? [more inside]
I know nothing about baseball and want to learn. Where do I start?
I would like to converse with my boyfriend about baseball. I know *nothing* about baseball. Seeking books, websites, info places etc. to get myself up to some reasonable level of speed here. [more inside]
Nomad Making Me Mad
Home Network Filter: I have three DirecTV HR23 receivers that are directly connected to my household internet (each room is wired with RJ45 adapters near the television area). I'm trying to hook up my Nomad device to allow visibility to the receivers and to my wireless devices. The Nomad is supposedly going to allow me to transfer content from my recievers to my iPhone. [more inside]
posted by shew at 12:11 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by shew at 12:11 PM PST - 11 comments
Non-amazon online stores?
What online retailers should I use to purchase gifts for my relatives in other states, now that I'm aware of how Amazon treats its warehouse employees and do not wish to purchase anything from them until they improve the working conditions and increase their wages? [more inside]
Southern girl going north.
I just got a new job (yay!) in a far-away and cold city (Pittsburgh!). City-specific questions below and general advice on changing climates needed. [more inside]
Would I really want CPR?
How long would I have to be dead (not breathing, whatever) before I would not want to be resuscitated with CPR? [more inside]
An urbanist travels to London
What urbanist/transit/maps/architecture/local history-related attractions should I hit up in London? [more inside]
My head's all a-jumble, please help me.
Relationship with bipolar SO--please help. [more inside]
Where can I find historic prices?
Planning to use inflation as a way to show my maths students where percentages are used.
I've found a load of inflation calculators online. (E.g. from this thread). But what I would really like, is a comparison of the price of different goods over the past decade or so. Well known brands would be better, e.g. can of coke, can of heinz beans, Kellogg's cornflakes. UK prices if possible. [more inside]
I need space. Perhaps a continent.
How can I want to be my old married self again? [more inside]
Spoilers: just ask her out
I'm interested in a girl at work, it's of course a bit complicated, unsure how to proceed and/or need a push forward. [more inside]
Musicals for a 6-year-old girl
Musicals for a 6-year-old girl. [more inside]
I tell you, we are here on Earth to fart around, and don't let anybody tell you different.
My new boss farts a lot. Never thought I'd be asking this question but how should I handle it? [more inside]
Which is the exact keyboard sequence to switch an Acer Aspire 5920G to boot from CD?
Which is the exact keyboard-time sequence to switch an Acer Aspire 5920G to boot from CD instead of HDD? I need to be guided like a blind. [more inside]
posted by lion at 8:31 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by lion at 8:31 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me buy a slide for guitar
Slide Guitar players of Metafilter... I need help. I want to buy a slide for someone that is interested in learning slide guitar. He's a beginner, so advice for books on learning would also be appreciated. I've checked out what Guitar Center has online, but there are too many options - I think a good basic one will do, but which one? Also - I'd need to buy online & have it shipped to the Virgin Islands. Thanks for your help!
Help me pick/make an exercise regimen!
I put my foot down that I really really must build an exercise habit (3-4 times a week, 30 minutes each kind of thing). It's one of my new year's resolution to stick to a strict regimen, and I want to build exercise into it. [more inside]
What do medical school admissions look for (in a person)?
What do medical school admissions look for (in a person)? [more inside]
Good Cover Letters?
Advice On Writing My First Cover Letter? [more inside]
The Story of Suburban Rhonda
Looking for some suburban/small-town fiction or memoirs - think Tom Perotta, Lake Wobegon, or Northern Exposure. [more inside]
iPod touch offline tips please
What is the easiest way to dump and or sync a directory (or two) of documents to my iPod Touch (v4?) 32Gb iOS 5.0.1 for access when offline.
I want to use my iPod Touch as my sole computing device when travelling abroad and was hoping there was a way to dump a bunch of data onto it. pdfs, txt files, .docs, pngs, jpgs, travel details, notes, reading material etc. Generally I wont' have Wi-Fi access so I want offline apps / offline storage tips. [more inside]
What does this note say?
KoreanFilter: What does this handwritten note say? [more inside]
posted by Juso No Thankyou at 2:55 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Juso No Thankyou at 2:55 AM PST - 3 comments
From Digital8 to YouTube.
What resolution is DV in and how do I get DV video from my camcorder to YouTube? [more inside]
imdb.com's ambiguous ads
Every time I go to imdb.com, the homepage is sandwiched between this ambiguous advertisement for some random movie or television show. I sometimes wonder what the advertisement is for, but there is nothing to help me out. Absolutely nothing. Nothing to click on. No titles, no names of actors or characters. What is the deal? [more inside]
posted by jkafka at 12:55 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by jkafka at 12:55 AM PST - 7 comments
December 10
Do I keep dating this guy?
Help me identify this sweet drink made from dissolving an orange solid!
What was this home-made drink I drank in the 90s? It was made from dissolving a powdery orange 'rock'! [more inside]
The Cadillac of eyeglasses?
Help me spend a lot of money on eyeglasses! Due to the somewhat ridiculous way my health insurance works, I have $1000 in a health savings account and three weeks to spend it or lose it. I've decided to buy the world's awesomest pair of glasses. Help me figure out what constitutes the Cadillac of eyeglasses and how I would go about getting such glasses. Also, can you recommend a place to get them in New York? [more inside]
Why don't I quit while we're still speaking?
Seeking advice on striking out under my own shingle as a lawyer -- if you've been here, please help. [more inside]
posted by motsque at 9:57 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by motsque at 9:57 PM PST - 19 comments
Help me remember this forgotten Christmas movie.
Need help recalling the name of an obscure(?) Christmas movie. It had a boy and a girl who run away to see Santa Claus (in Lapland?) and they get in trouble with Santa and run away to a gingerbread house and (a la Hansel and Gretel) an old lady/witch puts the boy in a cage and tries to fatten him up so she can eat him but they kids push her into the oven (I think). It's all a bit hazy but I think it was from the late 80s, or possibly early 90s.
posted by 1000monkeys at 9:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by 1000monkeys at 9:35 PM PST - 3 comments
Relationship ripped apart by Facebook messages
I just read messages between my boyfriend and a former(?) flame, after we started dating.. emotional messages about sex, and meeting up. I am devastated. Help... [more inside]
posted by ninefour at 9:10 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by ninefour at 9:10 PM PST - 32 comments
Spreadsheets as web pages
How is this site (example 1 and 2) embedding interactive spreadsheets into its web pages? All I can tell is that it’s using javascript. If it’s some sort of custom solution, are there alternatives (either paid or free) that would let me do something similar in WordPress?
How do you treat/prevent stinky laundry?
How do you treat/prevent stinky laundry? [more inside]
posted by rabbitfufu at 7:22 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by rabbitfufu at 7:22 PM PST - 50 comments
Some good books to re-learn math?
I'm teaching myself to code (Python, mainly), and it's going well, except I keep on running into one big problem: I haven't done any math since high school (6 years ago). I used to be top of my class, and now I can't do simple word problems anymore. This gets tough because they inevitably pop up in the books I'm using, and then I stop dead in my tracks. Could anyone recommend a couple of books or web resources to help me get back up to speed? I never took Calculus, so a good Calculus book would help, too. [more inside]
posted by flibbertigibbet at 6:49 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by flibbertigibbet at 6:49 PM PST - 22 comments
Are there any good alternatives to Paypal for accepting donations over the internet quickly?
I'm part of a fairly small (about 60 members) online community and over the last day, one of our members was made homeless and lost all of her possessions in a fire. We're getting together donations to try and help her get back up on her feet, but a lot of people are concerned about using Paypal due to the recent problems that regretsy have had with trying to fundraise through it. Are there any reliable alternatives that we could use?
posted by emperor.seamus at 6:42 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by emperor.seamus at 6:42 PM PST - 7 comments
Save money or save trees?
Magazine subscriptions on Kindle: Save money or save trees? [more inside]
Multiple email accounts on igoogle
Is there any way to setup igoogle (or another web startpage with multiple information widows such as netvibez or pageflakes) so that I can see information for two different email accounts on my startpage? [more inside]
Help me become a grownup.
So, I've been joking for a while that I need, like, boot camp for how to be an adult. Help me find something? Maybe like Upward Bound for grownups meets finishing school plus...something? [more inside]
My balcony is boring in the winter. How can I liven it up?
My balcony is boring in the winter. How can I liven it up? [more inside]
Should I seek treatment 36 hours after mild carbon monoxide poisoning?
Should I seek treatment 36 hours after mild carbon monoxide poisoning? [more inside]
muffled no more!
Why does the audio I'm ripping from YouTube sound so weird when I play it through my car's speakers? [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain at 3:12 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by iLoveTheRain at 3:12 PM PST - 9 comments
Should I accept myself as I am and keep eating healthy foods or should I keep trying to diet?
I have a BMI of a little over 26. What should I do? Should I accept myself as I am and keep eating healthy foods or should I keep trying to diet? I keep thinking about my weight and wish I could concentrate on more important things. I'm a female and am almost 40 years old. [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 2:57 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by hazyjane at 2:57 PM PST - 31 comments
How to keep my computer safe.
What do I *really* need to do in order to keep my computer reasonably save from malware and intrusions? [more inside]
posted by lord_yo at 2:49 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by lord_yo at 2:49 PM PST - 23 comments
Korean food near Spa Castle
Korean restaurant recommendations near Spa Castle in College Point, Queens? Vegetarian friendly a plus. Thanks.
How can I help him not be a rapist?
I need resources for helping a sexually inappropriate adolescent boy learn to respect women. Some of the details are creepy and probably triggering. [more inside]
Display Candy for the Eyes?
On your wise counsel, I instantly went out and got myself a used monitor. For learning purposes, an external monitor is just great, and I couldn't thank you enough! For seeing purposes, I could still stand just a little more guidance.
Can you answer some questions about my Mac, my monitor, and me? (Oh, yeah, and the program F.lux, too.) [more inside]
posted by Violet Blue at 1:44 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Violet Blue at 1:44 PM PST - 14 comments
The gift of wine, recurring.
Looking for a wine-of-the-month club. Complication: in New Zealand! [more inside]
What's the URL this Javascript button goes to?
Is there a way to discover the destination URL that one gets by clicking a Javascript button? [more inside]
posted by Mo Nickels at 1:19 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Mo Nickels at 1:19 PM PST - 11 comments
Gifts for a new New Yorker
A friend of mine is moving to New York next year. I'd like some ideas for a going away present that will be useful in her new life. [more inside]
posted by jlibera at 12:52 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jlibera at 12:52 PM PST - 20 comments
please hope me not turn into scrooge ...
How do you deal with profound loneliness during the holiday season? [more inside]
Help with external monitor for macbook pro
Year old apple macbook pro laptop. I spilled water on it and killed the screen. I have heard that you can plug in an external monitor if you have the right "dongle". I no longer have the dongle the laptop came with, so I would like to kow what is the name of the adaptor I would need in order to plug in a second hand LCD screen? And where would I get one? Thank you.
Help a non-programmer learn to program escape-the-room games
Help my non-programmer friend learn to code in Flash (or another language) in order to write escape-the-room games! [more inside]
posted by BrashTech at 11:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by BrashTech at 11:12 AM PST - 8 comments
Help me stay out of jail!
I've unintentionally committed unemployment fraud. Now what? [more inside]
How to find super-cheap but quality gifts?
ChristmasGiftsFilter: What's the cheapest quality stuff out there? [more inside]
Mmm latkes. I hope.
I'm committed to making latkes for a holiday party tomorrow. Seeking best recipes, tips, tricks and beginner level hacks. Never made them before, and out of time to make a practice batch. Please hope me!
Merry Christmas in Mexican Spanish?
I've drawn a colleague with an interest in Mexican wrestling for an office secret santa. I've got this person a book on the subject, and now I'd like to write an appropriate inscription - in Mexican Spanish. How would I say something akin to "To [name], merry Christmas, with love from the secret santa?" [more inside]
posted by Ted Maul at 9:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Ted Maul at 9:44 AM PST - 8 comments
Can I Give My Psychologist a Holiday Gift or Card?
Is it okay to give my therapist/psychologist a holiday gift and/or card?
butt...butt...it's a shoulder.
Pork problems - I just found out that a pork butt is really a shoulder. I'm living in Germany, and I asked for a pork butt using the German "hinterschinken" and pointing at my own butt for reference. The butcher asked her boss, then went into the back and pulled out a piece and sold it to me. Now I'm pretty sure I have the wrong cut of meat for the carnitas I'm making tomorrow, so I went out and got an actual shoulder. Now my question is - what do I do with the actual butt piece I now have? Is this a ham? Obviously, I'm pretty clueless when it comes to meat cuts. Please help me make my mistake delicious.
posted by monkey!knife!fight! at 8:59 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by monkey!knife!fight! at 8:59 AM PST - 15 comments
Help me help my dog and dog sitter?
Best way to make my dog happy while I'm out of town. [more inside]
A young couple sing their love for eachother under the stars.
I would like to have a deeper appreciation of operas, musicals, and regular 'plays'. If I had the money, I would simply go to a ton of them. But I don't - so I ask for your assistance! [more inside]
Florence paper shop
Please help me remember the name of the paper shop I recently visited in Florence. [more inside]
posted by CheeseLouise at 8:06 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by CheeseLouise at 8:06 AM PST - 3 comments
Not tonight, I've got a headache- for real.
Another orgasm headache question. [more inside]
You have not reached the party to whom you are speaking.
What's the best way to handle medically-related mistaken phone calls? [more inside]
posted by fuse theorem at 5:09 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by fuse theorem at 5:09 AM PST - 10 comments
How does a creditor know if someone's working again?
I've been volunteering lately with a bunch of people with financial difficulties, and I'm wondering, if a major bank sort of unsecured creditor chooses not to sue someone because they're uncollectible for a non-permanent reason (like unemployment), how do they find out again that the person is working to sue them? [more inside]
How to confirm whether boyfriend is cheating without creating a shipload of unnecessary melodrama?
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, or at least looking for opportunities to do so. The problem is, if I can't trust him not to cheat, then I also can't trust him to tell the truth if I confront him. So how do I deal with this? (details below) [more inside]
posted by myShanon at 1:46 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by myShanon at 1:46 AM PST - 49 comments
December 9
Gifts for a newly minted real estate agent?
My brother just received his RE license and I'm looking for ideas for gifts to help him get started. A friend in RE suggested blank note cards, but I'm not sure that he would send them. Any other ideas? [more inside]
posted by snowymorninblues at 11:16 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by snowymorninblues at 11:16 PM PST - 14 comments
All Music is %Big?
What is a rough order of magnitude (ROM) estimate of the size of a searchable, database of all known recorded music? [more inside]
What does the night know?
HELP! My wife won't be able to sleep tonight unless she knows what happens in "What the Night Knows" by Dean Koontz. Please put all the spoilers here! [more inside]
What is a simple way to have Twitter update Google+?
Selective Tweets updates a Facebook status via Twitter. Is there G+ equivalent? The Publish Sync Chrome extension used to do what I want but it is now gone from the Chrome Web Store.
(I'm cool with workarounds like ifttt.com but Yahoo Pipes makes my brain cry.)
posted by smoochbelly at 8:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by smoochbelly at 8:23 PM PST - 5 comments
How to avoid traffic in NYC?
What is the optimal time for driving in New York City without hitting traffic? [more inside]
too horny for witty headlines
I want to have sex without love but I can't love sex without it. [more inside]
Momma always said not to stick things in your eyes.
I want to try out contact lenses again. [more inside]
What's the catch?
Is audiogalaxy.com a legitimate service? If so, how can something this impressive not be more well known? What's the catch? [more inside]
exfoliation 101: the face
Why do I suck at washing my face? Help me learn how to properly exfoliate so I can have that beautiful skin I've always wanted. [more inside]
So long Cagey Guy. So long Blurred-Boundaries Guy. So long Weird New-Agey Guy Who Makes Me Laugh Inadvertenly..I'll miss you most of all
I've decided to take a hiatus from dating. What are some things I can do in the meantime to improve my foundation before getting involved with anyone again? [more inside]
posted by oceanview at 6:44 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by oceanview at 6:44 PM PST - 13 comments
A horse, floating away, that's it?
Help me name this movie my 80 year old grandmother only gave me the barest of information on... this is a longshot....Can you do it? [more inside]
Sharing photos among domain users
What is a good photo sharing solution for people with accounts in the same Google Apps domain (e.g., my-school.com)? I'd rather not have to invite each user individually. I'd like to be able to set up authentication so they can post and view photos if Google asserts their identity is anything@my-school.com. [more inside]
posted by espertus at 5:55 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by espertus at 5:55 PM PST - 2 comments
How do I get better at banter and better enjoy and participate in workplace conversation and jocularity?
How do I get better at banter and better enjoy and participate in workplace conversation and jocularity? [more inside]
where to get vectorworks symbols
Where can I get vectorworks lighting instrument symbols? [more inside]
How is that that video of all the prisoners dancing is fair use and mine isn't?
Youtube keeps removing my video for copyright violation, is there any way around this? [more inside]
How did the standard composition book come about?
How did the standard black/white marbled composition notebook come about? (please read on - bonus nazis!) [more inside]
posted by domakesaypat at 4:01 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by domakesaypat at 4:01 PM PST - 2 comments
Stop the itchy madness!
Two questions about poison oak aftermath. One involves shoes, the other involves prednisone. [more inside]
Home theater test discs
Help me test the limits of my new home theater by recommending some good discs. [more inside]
How do I make the most out of a meeting with women politicians on the subject of women's representation in parliament?
How do I make the most out of a meeting with women politicians on the subject of women's representation in parliament? [more inside]
posted by kishky at 3:49 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by kishky at 3:49 PM PST - 6 comments
Why did you stop hating math?
In high school you hated math, but later you stopped hating it. How did this happen? [more inside]
Can anyone explain this part of David Cameron's demands in the recent European negotiations?
Can anyone explain this part of David Cameron's demands in the recent European negotiations? [more inside]
Should I be gifting my nieces and nephews or not?
Should I still be giving these kids gifts? [more inside]
Is it a bad idea to start taking SSRIs right before finals?
Will the immediate, short-term side effects from Zoloft and Klonopin have a serious impact on my ability to study and perform on tests? [more inside]
How much trust should be given in a new relationship?
How much trust should be given in a new relationship? [more inside]
Help me find the best of YouTube
My mother still lives in the dark ages with 56k modem. Please help me find the best YouTube videos to put on a cd and put in her stocking at Christmas. [more inside]
If I don't understand Quickbooks online, will Quickbooks the application be better for me? (Or: HTF should I be handling my accounting?)
If I don't understand Quickbooks online, will Quickbooks the application be better for me? (Or: HTF should I be handling my accounting?) [more inside]
I'm getting "rear-ended' by an insurance company on an auto accident settlement. Advice please?
No lawyer wants to touch this, so how do I negotiate a settlement with an insurance company on my injury claim for a motor vehicle accident? [more inside]
posted by loquat at 2:32 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by loquat at 2:32 PM PST - 21 comments
If no one ever helps me, how will I learn?
Do you know the origin of this quote? Something along the lines of, "If no one ever hits you, how will you learn?" [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 2:18 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 2:18 PM PST - 4 comments
How do I put on my backpack so I don't give myself carpal tunnel? No, seriously.
How do I put on my backpack so I don't give myself carpal tunnel? No, seriously. [more inside]
posted by jenfullmoon at 2:16 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by jenfullmoon at 2:16 PM PST - 15 comments
What's rummaging in my mp3 library?
What process is modifying my .mp3s in the middle of the night? [more inside]
Fred Flinstone feet and Barney Rubble calves. What kind of boot will fit me?
Fred Flinstone feet and Barney Rubble calves. What kind of boot will fit me? [more inside]
posted by Sal and Richard at 1:47 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Sal and Richard at 1:47 PM PST - 10 comments
How can I train my body to tolerate alcohol better?
I'm a 23 year old Asian-American male who sucks at drinking. I dislike alcohol, and can barely finish a beer, mostly due to hating the taste as well as my body's adverse reactions. How can I train my body to tolerate alcohol better? Could someone, for example, help me design a "training regime"? [more inside]
A retirement plan, a canal...
My parents have decided to retire to Panama (apparently that's a popular thing right now). They don't speak Spanish, and have only been there once--for ten days. What should I be asking them, pointing out to them, etc.? All the info I can find online seems to be written by marketing people hired to convince me it's a great idea.
I would love to hear from anyone who has done this, or knows people who have done this. [more inside]
posted by smoakes at 1:38 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by smoakes at 1:38 PM PST - 11 comments
Art studio insurance.
I'm renting a space which I will be subletting out to other people as artist studios. I would like to get liability insurance on the space that covers damage to the space and personal injury. I'm having a hard time figuring out exactly what I need. Does anyone have any experience with this type of thing? [more inside]
Losing your Boyfriend and Bestfriend in one swift move.
Help me stick to my "right decision" even though it's making me feel sick. Dealing with a break-up when you are both still in love and there was no breach of trust. [more inside]
posted by pandorasbox at 1:28 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by pandorasbox at 1:28 PM PST - 20 comments
What to do about the "Pro-Life Homeless"
Local pro-life organization is raising funds in a way that I think is intentionally misleading. Can I do anything? Should I do anything? [more inside]
How do I get tweets on my android phone without the extra baggage?
How do I follow a few people on twitter via my android phone without all the extra baggage that seems to come along with it? [more inside]
posted by gummo at 1:02 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by gummo at 1:02 PM PST - 6 comments
What to do in Washington DC?
Going to Washington, D.C. next week. Looking for some upscale restaurants and local events to keep me occupied - lectures, film screenings, and the like. I'll be in town from the 11th to the 16th.
posted by matkline at 12:59 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by matkline at 12:59 PM PST - 9 comments
Why don't we eat each other, really?
Is there any evolutionary basis for the near-universal aversion to cannibalism? [more inside]
Houston today
Trip to Houston tomorrow. Have all of Saturday night and Sunday to get a 'feel' of the city. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by These Premises Are Alarmed at 12:51 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by These Premises Are Alarmed at 12:51 PM PST - 16 comments
Two kids, one bedroom: what should we know?
Right now, our 3-and-a-half-year old has her own room, and our one-year-old sleeps in Mommy & Daddy's bedroom. Next week, we're moving the baby into the toddler's room. What can we do to make the transition as painless as possible? How can we make this necessity into a positive experience for our kids? Are we crazy for even considering this? If your children share a bedroom (or if you shared a bedroom as a child), I'd love to hear your advice, warnings, opinions, and anything else you think I should hear.
How should I protect my precious ideas?
How should I handle a potential contractual situation where I want to protect my own previous ideas and work? [more inside]
posted by Rabarberofficer at 12:49 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Rabarberofficer at 12:49 PM PST - 16 comments
I'm having a heck of a time accessing our exchange server on my personal android phone
I'm having a heck of a time accessing our exchange server on my personal android phone [more inside]
What is my risk of contracting HIV?
He is HIV+, I am not. Have our activities put me at risk? (potentially NSFW) [more inside]
I hope not a leaden question...
Did soldiers (1800's) shot with lead musket balls suffer from any sort of lead poisoning? [more inside]
posted by ecorrocio at 12:17 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ecorrocio at 12:17 PM PST - 8 comments
My kingdom for a ladder.
I need a bit of extremely minor home repair... but can't do it myself. Who in the L.A. area would handle this sort of thing? [more inside]
Flying While Diabetic
Beyond knowing what the TSA says here, what should I know about domestic air travel and diabetes? [more inside]
posted by The Wrong Kind of Cheese at 12:01 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by The Wrong Kind of Cheese at 12:01 PM PST - 12 comments
What do babies really want for Christmas.
My 10 month old daughter is at the age where she will be more interested in ripping up wrapping paper than the gifts she will get this Christmas. So, in that spirit, what baby-safe things can I set up for her that she'll really want on the 25th, messes be damned? [more inside]
posted by Alison at 11:49 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Alison at 11:49 AM PST - 18 comments
Crap, I told them I could do this, and now I can't.
How can I create a .pdf form that a) is able to be filled out, and b) will tally a running total of the "score" as it is filled in? The problem: I need a free program. [more inside]
How can we remarry after a dual gender transition?
My spouse and I got married when I was still legally designated "female" and she was still legally designated "male," under our old names. How can we legally remarry, using our new names and identified genders, after gender transitioning? We don't want to get divorced (it's expensive and we love eachother) to do it. [more inside]
What is inflammation?
What is this "inflammation" of which they speak? Is it, you know, a real thing? [more inside]
Magazine circulation data?
"Statement of Ownership, Management and Circulation." Where can I find them all? [more inside]
This is what I get for using something with the word free in it.
(Calling all FreeNAS experts) GPT table problems in softraid 1 [more inside]
Raise or Promotion or Both or What?
How do I ask for a raise? Or a re-promotion to a spot I was previously demoted from? Or maybe both? I don't know. Of course there are special details inside. [more inside]
Is there any evidence that our ancestors actually were healthier than we are now?
Is there any evidence that our ancestors actually were healthier than we are now? [more inside]
Why no recent Christmas music?
Why is almost all Christmas/holiday music from over 50 years ago? [more inside]
posted by Nikolai at 9:51 AM PST - 55 comments
posted by Nikolai at 9:51 AM PST - 55 comments
This time, does it really have to be personal?
What examples are there of hero stories (books, movies, etc) wherein the hero and villain don't come into contact until the climax? [more inside]
posted by scaryblackdeath at 9:42 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by scaryblackdeath at 9:42 AM PST - 36 comments
Mom is in the hospital and we don't know what she would want
My mom is in the hospital on a ventilator. She went in three days ago. Things are not looking very good at this point. They've tried weaning her form the vent 3 days in a row with no success. She has never filled out any advance directive paperwork. My siblings, stepfather, uncle and I have all heard various stories from her over the years for what she would want in this kind of situation. [more inside]
How do I break up with someone if I have no real conflict with her?
I've been dating a woman for almost a year now and I've decided it would be best for us to stop. But there are no notable "problems" in our relationship, so I don't know how to go about doing it. [more inside]
Tall Leather Frye Boots: Do I need boot socks?
Tall leather Frye boots: do I need tall boot socks with them? I'm thinking about getting a pair of Frye boots, and for some reason, the tallest boots are around $100 bucks cheaper than the lower rise boots at my local shoe store. Can I wear regular ankle length socks with the taller boots without chaffing on the back of my calf, or do I need full length boot socks to be comfy? [more inside]
posted by Freen at 8:45 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Freen at 8:45 AM PST - 10 comments
Airlines vs. Manufaturers
Airlines Vs. Manufacturers - help me find information on claims made. [more inside]
We're gonna zoom zoom zooma zoom. Or maybe macro, I dunno.
My wife has a Canon DSL (Canon-EOS Digital Rebel XTi) with only the stock lens that came with it. I'd like to get her a new lens but I know very little about DSLRs. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by bondcliff at 8:34 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by bondcliff at 8:34 AM PST - 25 comments
non-scary movies for 3 year old
Looking for Happy kid Movies with little or no scary scenes for my oft-scared almost 3 y/o daughter? (bonus if they are on netflix) Details below: [more inside]
best beer bar in new york?
best beer bar in new york? my definition of best below the fold. [more inside]
iPad or Android tablet to design illustrated books?
I want to make e-books: should I get a Android Tablet or an iPad? [more inside]
posted by TheGoodBlood at 8:23 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by TheGoodBlood at 8:23 AM PST - 11 comments
Inspiring Faith Online
I'm looking for beautiful, effective faith-based web sites. Sites for churches, sites about general religion, sites about even more general faith, really anything you think might be related somehow to faith. Sites that are beautiful aesthetically are fine, sites that actually motivate you to peruse them are the most interesting to me. I know next to nothing about what faith-based thingamajigs are online, so even stupidly obvious ones are welcome.
Should I get a dog, even though my husband has a slight tendancy to violence?
My husband has anger issues. We are considering getting a dog, but I'm not sure I trust him to appropriately express his anger around the dog. What should I do? [more inside]
USA Tax question: American Expat beginning investor
How do taxes work on investments in mutual funds?
I am a novice at investing. American citizen working overseas and building a portfolio finally. I've established my emergency savings and am heading into taxable investments. Unfortunately, I am unable to contribute to my Roth IRA or contribute to a traditional IRA while claiming FEIE (Foreign Earned Income Exemption) with the IRS. I'm looking into investing in Vanguard's VWINX fund. How would US taxes work on these investments?
posted by thatgirl1985 at 7:20 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by thatgirl1985 at 7:20 AM PST - 4 comments
SWM seeks old-time Jell-O ad
I'm re-creating an old print ad--but I can't find it! Maybe for Jell-O. The individual letters printed on colored placards or signs, held up by beautiful girls, or maybe elfs...? Ringing any bells? Thanks!
Can I bring steroid ointment into Thailand?
Can I bring 50g of prescription topical steroid ointment (Clobetasol) into Thailand without any trouble at Customs?
posted by ladybird at 6:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by ladybird at 6:47 AM PST - 4 comments
Does the tax man keep your money if you overpay?
If you pay estimated taxes and then end up not owing those taxes, do you get them back? [more inside]
posted by doomtop at 6:41 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by doomtop at 6:41 AM PST - 7 comments
Not worth dying for
I have a, perhaps irrational, fear that building I'm living in is going to collapse and kill me in my sleep. [more inside]
posted by zeek321 at 6:34 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by zeek321 at 6:34 AM PST - 22 comments
Right neighborhood to buy house in Toronto
We are searching for a neighborhood in Toronto to buy a house for our family. As we are new in Toronto, we are not sure what areas will meet the following criteria. [more inside]
Corgi or Aussie - help me choose!
Corgi/Aussie people: Tell me wonderful things about Corgis! I've had Aussies before, but I'm thinking about getting a Pembroke Welsh Corgi. [more inside]
Current displays of captured enemy weapons?
What are some examples of countries displaying "captured weapons" or war planes, etc, of any enemy country and then turning them into a tourist attraction? [more inside]
On which U2 songs does Eno shine through?
Which U2 songs best demonstrate Brian Eno's influence? [more inside]
Recommend me some good Internet radio stations!
Recently, I discovered that I can listen to Internet radio at work (i.e., they're okay with streaming music to my computer). So I wanted to ask the hive mind: what stations do you enjoy listening to, and what do you recommend? [more inside]
Da Vinci tickets for National Museum in London?
Has anyone bought tickets on the day for the Da Vinci exhibition at the National Gallery in London? [more inside]
How do I find my slimy youth?
How do I find an episode of the game show Xuxa that I was in? [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go.
Should I stay in the city unhappy, or take a big risk and move to the mountains with a wonderful but very new boyfriend? Lots of background inside. [more inside]
December 8
Selling my own books through amazon
Tactics for selling books online? Since I've pretty much adopted ebooks, I've begun to liquidate my dust-collecting dead-tree library. Rather than just donating them to a charity or dumping them on the local county library, I've started listing the more valuable books (more than a dollar) on Amazon. I've had some immediate successes, enough to prompt me to keep entering in the ISBN numbers. So now I have a few questions... [more inside]
posted by crunchland at 11:51 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by crunchland at 11:51 PM PST - 18 comments
Frankenstein meets the 21stC
Do people donate their bodies to television? [more inside]
posted by Kerasia at 11:35 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kerasia at 11:35 PM PST - 9 comments
Cheer me up with awesome sexy female music videos!
I need to cheer myself up because of relationship troubles and so I am looking for sexy, fun music video suggestions along the lines of Paris by Grace Potter and the Nocturnals. [more inside]
posted by sock puppet mop bucket at 9:55 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sock puppet mop bucket at 9:55 PM PST - 7 comments
If there's extra space, will anyone care or notice?
A hopefully simple question about web-based article formatting... [more inside]
posted by matty at 9:31 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by matty at 9:31 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me identify this horror TV show/film.
Help me identify this horror TV show/film. [more inside]
How to handle disrespect/aggression from youth
How should I approach a youth with an 'attitude problem'? [more inside]
Weighted average cost of crying
What are the best books about capital budgeting? I am looking for what finance professionals use as their reference guide. [more inside]
posted by winna at 8:56 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by winna at 8:56 PM PST - 4 comments
Grasping a Liberal Arts Degree and Practically applying Structured Education- Where to start?
Grasping a Liberal Arts Degree and Practically applying Structured Education- Where to start? •What practical resources are available that will help me build a perspective and prepare myself for the work of structured education?
•What resources are available that will help me sharpen the pathway I am attempting to find and pave?
•What sort of experiences will be very applicable to immediate, real-life circumstances and livelihood?
•How to "best apply" a Liberal Arts Degree, and other options?
•Other tricks, tips, and hints for using college as a filter to a more enriched life? [more inside]
...tapeworms?
After stopping weightlifting, how much weight is it normal to lose? [more inside]
posted by zennish at 8:10 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by zennish at 8:10 PM PST - 8 comments
All of this will be lost .... Windows XP pining for the fjords?
My installation of Windows XP Pro (SP3) seems to have developed intermittent amnesia. I've noticed a couple of times in the past week that files which I edited and saved under new names just -- disappeared. (Details inside). Today, after restarting the machine, I found my desktop wallpaper and Quick Launch icons had reverted to what I had several months ago, and my Recent Documents lists in MS and Adobe products was showing material from July 2011 and earlier. Plus, my iTunes library had suddenly been unable to find about 10% of my songs, although I have been able to manually locate them and make iTunes recognize a few again. These "missing" songs are both old and new: I don't see any pattern in time re what has gone missing. I'm assuming the worst -- XP death throes in progress! -- and am updating my data backups NOW. All my applications seem fine so far: I'm not missing anything that was recently installed. No other data seems to be actually missing. While I back up, is there anything else I should investigate or hypothesize? [more inside]
posted by maudlin at 7:54 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by maudlin at 7:54 PM PST - 25 comments
Is it possible to purchase the Pill in Jordan?
Does anyone know about access to hormonal contraceptives in Amman, Jordan? [more inside]
posted by Papagayo at 7:21 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Papagayo at 7:21 PM PST - 4 comments
Wanting catharsis
When I was a a teenager, my mom would stand with her face six inches away from mine and say things to me that struck me as being absolutely dreadful. [more inside]
What to wear in Florida in December?
I'm heading down to Ft. Lauderdale, Florida for a week on Saturday. What should I pack to wear? I'm Canadian, for temperature reference.
Ectoplasm? Algae? Nanobot sheddings?
Why does my fridge's filtered water taste ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE but only at certain times of day? [more inside]
Am I over-reacting to this situation?
Am I over-reacting to this situation or should I try and take this organization on to get what I want. What I want is the student discount for an educational conference. [more inside]
posted by cairnoflore at 7:01 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cairnoflore at 7:01 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for a quote along the lines of "every extremist was once a romantic."
Looking for a quote along the lines of "every extremist was once a romantic." [more inside]
That table is free - why can't we have it?
Why couldn't we sit at that table in that restaurant? [more inside]
posted by kirst27 at 6:38 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by kirst27 at 6:38 PM PST - 36 comments
Needs to go up to eleven.
Is there a way I can increase the maximum volume/gain on my computer on a software level? [more inside]
posted by triceryclops at 6:29 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by triceryclops at 6:29 PM PST - 5 comments
Any pointers about running with Pointers?
My dog is very active. I like to jog long distances. When we run on the lead he pulls and gets distracted by wildlife. Is there a better lead solution? Personal electric fence? How can I get him to run by my side? Must he be condemned to a mostly sedentary lifestyle? He is a Pointer.
posted by zaebiz at 6:26 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by zaebiz at 6:26 PM PST - 15 comments
Who said this: If comedians really ran their own show, every sketch would end with a hanging, a dead baby, or an uncomfortable silence.
Who said this: If comedians really ran their own show, every sketch would end with a hanging, a dead baby, or an uncomfortable silence. [more inside]
posted by brownbat at 6:12 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by brownbat at 6:12 PM PST - 6 comments
What to buy to begin a Forgotten Realms 3.5ed campaign?
A few friends and I would like to begin playing tabletop role-playing games. We've only barely played a pen-and-paper game before, a long time ago, but we play a lot of RPGs on the computer. What reference materials should we get to begin a simple campaign? Aiming to play D&D 3.5ed, Forgotten Realms. [more inside]
posted by destrius at 6:06 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by destrius at 6:06 PM PST - 8 comments
a 15 yr. old at a boat show.
Boats and kids. Need some advice here. Taking a friend's son to the NY Boat Show in January. Like most 15 yr old boys, he is attracted to power, engines, energy. Boating is new to me, so this has got me real intrigued in a whole new subject, but I want to attempt a few things here. 1. (my bias) is to introduce him to the wide world of boats out there. Some sense of the range, history, and beauty of design. (get him 'Sailing Alone Around the World'-Josh Slocum?) 2. (fun and free) but he's 15; it has to be fun, not a lesson. There will be babes in bikinis, lots of giveaways, distractions. [more inside]
Pardon me, do you have any...?
I recently embarked on a massive holiday mustard making campaign.
I have two questions regarding the success of this campaign. [more inside]
posted by baniak at 5:17 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by baniak at 5:17 PM PST - 5 comments
Where to turn for advice when a co-signer defaults on his house loan?
Where to send my wonderful neighbor who really, really needs help?
My neighbor is one of the kindest, most amazing people I have ever had the pleasure to know. He just came to ask me for advice about a financial problem that he is now facing. He co-signed for a mortgage loan for his son-in-law a few years ago, and just found out that his son-in-law lost his house. A collection agency just called my neighbor at work and is demanding payment of $90K. Where can I send him for help? [more inside]
posted by jeanmari at 4:48 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by jeanmari at 4:48 PM PST - 27 comments
What kind of gift should I get for my assistant?
Hydrating oils for face
What is best natural product for extremely dehydrated face. I have no acne problem and my skin is not sensitive. [more inside]
Popcorn is staining my stainless pan!
Cooking popcorn with vegetable oil is discoloring my stainless steel pan. It leaves a dark yellowish stain both inside and outside around the rim. Is this a reaction with the metal? Is there a way to avoid this happening? And most importantly, is there a way to remove this discoloration? Scrubbing does nothing.
posted by stopgap at 3:48 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by stopgap at 3:48 PM PST - 31 comments
the relationship between procrastination, perfectionism, and anxiety
I think I procrastinate on projects as a dysfunctional way to manage my anxiety about them. Can you help me manage that anxiety more productively? [more inside]
posted by colfax at 3:40 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by colfax at 3:40 PM PST - 8 comments
Help my computer recover quickly
tl;dr how can I easily identify before and reinstall all of my drivers after nuking my Win7 laptop? [more inside]
posted by bluejayway at 3:24 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by bluejayway at 3:24 PM PST - 5 comments
Why is my stupid brain trying to get in the way of good sex?
My husband and I have the opportunity for an intimate encounter with an awesome couple. Yay! But... trepidation! Snowflake blizzard inside. [more inside]
Best method for embedding video & audio files into a website?
Please tell me the best current method for embedding/displaying audio and video files into a website using simple HTML &/or CSS. [more inside]
Can you advise me on making a wine rack?
I'm going to make a wine rack. Do you have any advice? [more inside]
Cheap Laptop Repair in Austin?
What's the least expensive way to competently repair a laptop in Austin, TX? [more inside]
Side Business while working Full Time
BusinessDilemmaFilter: Me and a coworker have decided to start a side business doing IT work for small business's and residential work. Heres the dilemma, We both work for the IT department at our current employer and we are each on call 1 week out of the month. Even know our side business is after hours and on weekends should we inform our current boss? Pros/Cons? Whats the best way to approach this? Thanks in advance!
A Flip-Phone Style Bluetooth "Headset"
Does-this-product-exist-filter: a bluetooth "headset" that looks and acts like a mid-late 90s flip-phone? [more inside]
How can we sell our condo and buy a house?
How can we sell our condo and buy a house? [more inside]
House-sitting - is this barter income?
House sitting questions - taxes? lease? how does this work? [more inside]
Tell me about telling a non-fiction story in book form.
I have a journalism background and an idea for a non-fiction book that is biographical in nature. This would be my first attempt at writing a book of any kind. What should I know before beginning this process (other than it will take up all of my time and I'll likely never see a dime from it)? Suggestions specific to non-fiction writing appreciated. [more inside]
"We don't want to waste each other's time"
Companies wanting to get into in-depth salary discussions before they even give you an offer - is this some new trend? I'm used to focusing on my excitement for the position and what it entails during interviews, and dealing with the salary side of things once an offer is in my hand. Having the offer and working with it gives a candidate much more leverage to get into hard negotiations that leave both parties satisfied. [more inside]
posted by naju at 1:28 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by naju at 1:28 PM PST - 25 comments
Should I take apart my MacBook Air to get the spilled liquid out?
Spilled a little coffee on my MacBook Air. I've done what I could to dry it out, but should I try and get inside the computer to do further damage control? [more inside]
Token of appreciation for baristas
Baristas - I'd like to show appreciation for you this Christmas. What is an appropriate way to do this? [more inside]
posted by yoyoceramic at 1:13 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by yoyoceramic at 1:13 PM PST - 16 comments
I'm looking for information regarding the feasibility of hidden GPS tracking for bicycles
I'm looking for information regarding the feasibility of a hidden GPS tracking system for bicycles. The goal is to track/recover stolen bicycles. This product looks promising (if it was actually available), but also looks like it would be easy to spot/remove. Ideally it should be able to be inserted into the frame tubing so it could be installed in various types of bikes. This is for a community wide effort with local law enforcements cooperation.
Has anyone heard of this being done before? Either on an individual level, or better yet a community Implementation of some kind.
Thanks all.
Minneapolis for New Years!
New Years in Minneapolis! Shows, music, parties - need some suggestions! [more inside]
I'm in a love recursion, and the equation just won't quit.
Can't get an old flame off my mind. (She's been there since the flames died out.) [more inside]
What to do after we eat all the dim sums.
[TravelFilter] Two weeks in Hong Kong - what should three twenty-somethings do after we've eaten all the dim sum? [more inside]
What questions to ask about a home loan modification?
What questions do I need to ask before applying for a mortgage modification? [more inside]
Looking for a cool place to visit as a single woman traveling alone for the New Year's holiday.
Last minute travel filter: where can I go as a single gal traveling alone for the New Year's holiday? New York City? The Caribbean? Totally open for an awesome experience. [more inside]
Glass is not a valid flavor.
Some of my homebrew beer bottles with crimp-on tops broke when opened. [more inside]
posted by cmoj at 12:09 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by cmoj at 12:09 PM PST - 10 comments
We're not tiny reindeer....
Clever group photo ideas for a staff of eight? [more inside]
posted by meindee at 12:03 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by meindee at 12:03 PM PST - 17 comments
Cell number on a YP ad. Good idea?
Would adding a "text me at..." phone number on a Yellow Pages ad lead to the phone number being text-spammed and, possibly, dumped-on by third-party scam-charges? [more inside]
posted by Thorzdad at 11:53 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Thorzdad at 11:53 AM PST - 7 comments
Glad you failed?
Are their any numbers on individuals who have failed to commit suicide, and are subsequently grateful that they did not succeed? I've always heard that suicidal ideation is often a temporary thing, and was curious if there were any numbers behind it. (note: not having any myself, just curious)
posted by leotrotsky at 11:49 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by leotrotsky at 11:49 AM PST - 23 comments
Help me find a great printer for printing colored pencil drawings
Which printer is best for printing colored pencil artwork? [more inside]
posted by parakeetdog at 11:44 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by parakeetdog at 11:44 AM PST - 1 comment
What does a personal interest in math look like?
A while back I read about an english professor who claimed to have a strong personal interest in mathematics. Assuming that he doesn't use math in a professional setting, how would this interest manifest itself? Completing math textbooks? Reading books about math? Memorizing the first 1000 primes? What would someone with an interest in math do? [more inside]
posted by Homo economicus at 11:43 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Homo economicus at 11:43 AM PST - 20 comments
Unexpected outcome of disconnecting grounding wire
Sound system hum/buzz quieted by removing grounding wire from turntable? [more inside]
posted by activitystory at 11:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by activitystory at 11:15 AM PST - 8 comments
How do I enjoy my life again when I feel so alone?
How do I not feel so depressed when after years of trying I still don't fit in anywhere? [more inside]
posted by biochemist at 11:02 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by biochemist at 11:02 AM PST - 24 comments
Terminated! Proposing a way back in to the company??
Should I try to present a proposal to my old company for re-hire after they terminated me due to not getting the certifications required for the job? [more inside]
Dino-sized dino pics
Where can I find large, high-resolution dinosaur illustrations in the style of Zdeněk Burian or Charles Knight? [more inside]
Words of love so soft and tender won't win a girls heart anymore
Tell me some really touching, emotional, and meaningful ways someone has told (not shown) you they love you and how much they care about you without just saying "I love you". [more inside]
posted by gwenlister at 10:04 AM PST - 92 comments
posted by gwenlister at 10:04 AM PST - 92 comments
Are these the same kinds of inflammation?
I went on Prednisone for allergies and asthma, and within a few days my acne completely, miraculously disappeared. What does this mean about my acne/skin and inflammation, and can I achieve a similar effect through diet? [more inside]
posted by Dilemma at 10:04 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by Dilemma at 10:04 AM PST - 26 comments
How to get relief from dry fingertips and cuticles?
My fingertips and cuticles are super dry and ragged, and nothing seems to help. I have been using alpha hydroxy lotions, plus I slather Aquaphor and cuticle oil onto my fingertips and cuticles and glove up before I go to bed. None of it is really helping. Any suggestions?
Can a 3 year relationship survive a break after trust is broken (not infidelity...but almost)?
Can a 3 year relationship survive a break after trust is broken (not infidelity...but almost)? [more inside]
How to help a 6-year-old to keep his fingers (and jacket) out of his mouth?
How to help a 6-year-old to keep his fingers (and jacket) out of his mouth? [more inside]
How come hospital ice is so delicious?
Where does the ice at the hospital come from? In particularly Henrico Doctor's in Virginia. [more inside]
posted by udon at 9:54 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by udon at 9:54 AM PST - 11 comments
I am so afraid
I am stuck in a hole of fear. [more inside]
"Take these broken wings and learn to fly/All your life/You were only waiting for this moment to arise"
Help me learn to not be such a doormat – and maybe get a tattoo to remind me not to be one. [more inside]
How and where do I get a temporary tattoo like Hansel's
How and where do I get a temporary tattoo like Hansel's [more inside]
I know I need to end it, but I also know I won't
Help me end this toxic dating situation. Maybe even share stories about finally realizing you had to cut things off and how you actually went through with it. [more inside]
posted by patientpatient at 9:19 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by patientpatient at 9:19 AM PST - 33 comments
I won, I won!
Please direct me to websites where I can read about people who join sweepstakes religiously and where I can see pictures of their winnings. Also, people who sign up for "free samples" who get tons of packages from doing it. [more inside]
You say ukuleleist; I say ukulelist.
Question for the language types: which is correct, ukuleleist, or ukulelist? [more inside]
posted by chez shoes at 8:41 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by chez shoes at 8:41 AM PST - 21 comments
'tis the season for getting a financial clue (or at least reading a good book about it)
holiday gift filter: personal finance books for a brainy but somewhat clueless academic obsessed with not retiring in poverty? [more inside]
Aligning a mic and audio buddy with Mint Linux
Great mic, nice pre-amp, sound card completely incompatible with Linux. What to do? [more inside]
Help me keep the lights on.
How can I earn at least $200 per month working at home? [more inside]
Dear diary...
Looking for an Android "daily diary" type app to track a health issue, but it needs to be somehow exportable/printable so that I can provide it to the doctor. [more inside]
out out spot
What do I use to clean kool aid from carpets? [more inside]
What if I just carve a new statute?
I read this story about a rather proficient area bank robber who apparently is off the hook as of midnight last night because the five year statute of limitations on robbery has expired. Is he really free? [more inside]
posted by Terminal Verbosity at 7:57 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Terminal Verbosity at 7:57 AM PST - 7 comments
I suck at searching for things
I broke my favorite sunglasses, and I am completely stumped in my attempts to search the internet for them. [more inside]
posted by popechunk at 7:39 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by popechunk at 7:39 AM PST - 6 comments
C-I-L-L my cable
What are our cable/internet/phone alternatives? [more inside]
Knowing the Future
Can you think of any examples of a famous character in a film (or book) who knew the future, or knew that a big event was definitely going to happen, and couldn't cope with that knowledge?
And then there were none.
Knowing full well I will be pilloried for this: We have a library at work (13,000 mostly-technical books and about 100 active periodical subscriptions, 200 users), but the 1 full-time librarian will retire in 2012 and a new hire is not going to happen ... What's next? (please read the questions inside) [more inside]
Turning my frown upside down
How can I get past my negative, "taking it personal" reaction to a change at work and get back to being a positive, productive yet healthily detached employee? [more inside]
Help me network with the world's most accomplished people
How do I make the most of this incredible, unique opportunity to network with some of the most powerful people in the world? [more inside]
Help me with my Life of Brian costume
Help me recreate the headdress of one of the 3 wise men in Life of Brian, the leftmost one in this pic. [more inside]
Party Like it's 1999... Sort of.
Mediterranean Getaway for New Year's Weekend? Morocco or Barcelona or Istanbul or Athens or... argh! [more inside]
Is an 8GB iPhone enough?
I am upgrading to an iPhone. Wondering if the 8gb would be sufficient, or do I need a larger capacity? [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:04 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:04 AM PST - 19 comments
Affordable, multi-currency small business/accounting software for dummies?
Affordable, multi-currency small business/accounting software for dummies? [more inside]
The Saberprose Of Any Sport.
Who are the writers who take the statistics of sports and look at them in new interesting ways and can write a bit, too? [more inside]
posted by mreleganza at 3:20 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by mreleganza at 3:20 AM PST - 12 comments
How do I buy a US iTunes card from the UK?
I want to buy an iTunes gift card for someone in the US. I am in the UK. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted by Put the kettle on at 2:48 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Put the kettle on at 2:48 AM PST - 5 comments
What are the best plug and play arcade games available?
My nephews (6 and 8) love old arcade games and I am looking for a Plug and Play game for their Christmas gift. Any games from Pacman to Sonic would be fine. What are the best options? Also are there any two player plug and play games in the market which are worth buying?
Yolks can be good?
What shall I do with yolks left over from hard-boiled eggs? [more inside]
Wireless Lapel Mics
I need a cheap wireless lapel microphone for a school musical. Give me your recommendations. [more inside]
December 7
Looking For Early 70's Jazz Album
Looking for Jonah Jones album. Don't know the title
. [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 9:45 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by goalyeehah at 9:45 PM PST - 2 comments
Story time: Al Ain edition
Tell me your stories about living and working in the UAE (even better if you've done these things in Al Ain). [more inside]
posted by cirgue at 9:42 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by cirgue at 9:42 PM PST - 6 comments
Looking for cultural histories
I'm looking for some great cultural histories. [more inside]
posted by Awkward Philip at 9:40 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Awkward Philip at 9:40 PM PST - 13 comments
DDR solution for the new Wii that lacks Gamecube ports?
Our Wii kicked the bucket and my girlfriend brought home a replacement and was dismayed to discover that this new model no longer had Gamecube controller ports which means no more DDR, at least not with the Gamecube-controller versions of the dance pads we have. How to remedy? [more inside]
posted by Robot Johnny at 9:21 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Robot Johnny at 9:21 PM PST - 5 comments
Was I mistreated while trying to get help with my depression?
Are these types of questions normal when seeking professional help for depression and anxiety?
-Were you abused?
-Have you ever had a homosexual experience?
-What do you need help with?(asked at least twice, when I answered depression and anxiety, he persisted in asking again) [more inside]
posted by Konani at 8:57 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Konani at 8:57 PM PST - 24 comments
How can I sell my books, locally?
Where could I sell my books in Chapel Hill? [more inside]
posted by oceanjesse at 8:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by oceanjesse at 8:57 PM PST - 8 comments
Lightweight Jacket for a wedding
Help me find a lightweight Jacket for a wedding I will be attending in February. Caveats inside. [more inside]
Life moves on
What do you wish you had known before you separated from your spouse? [more inside]
A Roach-Free Apartment (for at least one night)
Help! I'm having a large-ish Christmas party in three days and my apartment's roach problem has unfortunately gotten worse. I'm currently freaking out. What can I do to minimize the chance of a cockroach popping out and grossing out my friends and coworkers this Saturday? [more inside]
How does one get rid of their scat fetish?
Okay, so I'm gay and I have a scat fetish and I really hate it. It's embarrassing, shameful and disgusting when I think about it. How on earth do I get rid of it? [more inside]
Doctor suggestions for Mayo Clinic or Twin Cities
Looking for a stellar diagnostic physician at the Mayo Clinic. (Twin Cities area works, too, if no suggestions for Mayo.) [more inside]
It's not a good time to have a baby, but I am worried this might be my only chance...
I want to have a baby. It is not the right time to have a baby. Rationally, I understand this. But emotionally, I am freaking out because of my age and feeling like I may not have other chances. How to best reconcile this? [more inside]
How can I be the next Koji Kondo?
I want to compose scores for video games as a career. I have no idea how to get there. I'm looking for advice from composers, game designers, and people generally working at the intersection of music and video games. [more inside]
posted by bumpjump at 6:03 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by bumpjump at 6:03 PM PST - 11 comments
Ipad2, what model to choose?
Will be getting Mrs Mikedelic an ipad2 for Christmas. Selection questions inside. [more inside]
It must be the chariot race...
Movies for a fan of Ben Hur? [more inside]
Looking for Headphones
Looking for suggestions for stereo headphones. They need to be optimal for Bach and Monteverde first, late 19th century and early twentieth century classical second and 1940s and early 1950s jazz third. They need to be sturdy, preferably with a replaceable cord. Not necessarily noise cancelling, as they will be used in a quiet room. No earbuds. Price in the low three figures max.
My furniture is too deep!
Where can I find a shallow dresser? [more inside]
Did John Lennon ever mention his thoughts on late-70s punk?
Did John Lennon ever mention his thoughts on late-70s punk (the Sex Pistols, the Ramones, the Clash, etc)? Can you cite a source?
posted by radiosilents at 4:14 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by radiosilents at 4:14 PM PST - 9 comments
How to remove deep iodine stain in carpet?
How do I clean thick, dried povidone iodine (Betadine) out of a carpet? Is it possible without spreading the stain everywhere? [more inside]
What children's book has monks and the plague?
My wife is looking for a children's book from her childhood about monks, specific details are inside. [more inside]
Did my German ancestors really need to know that much English?
Do immigrants need a higher level of proficiency in English to get along in the world today than our ancestors did when they immigrated? [more inside]
KauaiFilter: Where can I find the best Kalua pig on Kauai, and what kind of car will I need to get there?
Mrs. Hylas and I are headed to Kauai on 12/19 for our honeymoon. We'll stay 8 days on the north side of the island in a rental found through VRBO. After reviewing previous recommendations, we'll certainly go to Hamura Saimin. Neither of us have had a proper vacation in years, so we want to have only a few plans and leave the rest of our time open for spontaneous adventure. The only thing I really, really want to do while I'm there is make sure that we find a good source for Kalua pig (luau optional). Where should we go?
We plan to rent a car in Princeville, but a few people have now told me I should get a Jeep. Do we need one? Why?
Finally, Mrs. Hylas is convinced we're going to want to cook all of our meals in our rental and avoid eating out as much as possible. She would like to bring a cooler full of frozen stuff to save money. I'm not so sure. What say you?
posted by Hylas at 2:53 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Hylas at 2:53 PM PST - 24 comments
Podcast/audio production and workflow: How-to guides and/or ideas? (Snowflakes inside.)
Podcast/audio production and workflow: How-to guides and/or ideas? (Snowflakes inside.) [more inside]
posted by NikitaNikita at 2:31 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by NikitaNikita at 2:31 PM PST - 5 comments
What's the best way I can help an Indian colleague improve his English?
What's the best way I can help an Indian colleague improve his English? [more inside]
Preserve a fresh installation of Windows XP with updates and drivers?
I just created a fresh installation of Windows XP with updates and drivers on my parents' computer. How can I preserve this installation, so that they can easily rollback (or even wipe the hard drive) to get back to this uncorrupted state after it is inevitably infected with some unremovable malware? The contents of the hard drive are under 4gb and can fit on a DVD. They don't store content locally, so I'm unconcerned with losing data.
And, no, switching to Linux is not an option. Thanks!
Too ballsy?
I interviewed for a job at a company I really want to work with earlier this year. I was their second choice. Now an even dreamier position in a different but related department has opened up. Do I email the original interviewer, though this position does not report to her, before I apply? A few more details and questions inside. [more inside]
posted by emilycardigan at 2:03 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by emilycardigan at 2:03 PM PST - 10 comments
Do they even SELL artificial pine garlands anymore?
Where can I buy classy holiday decorations in NYC/Brooklyn that aren't inanely expensive? [more inside]
posted by Narrative Priorities at 2:02 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Narrative Priorities at 2:02 PM PST - 8 comments
My new dining room chairs rock slightly, until I sit in them. Are they defective?
My new dining room chairs rock slightly, until I sit in them. Are they defective? [more inside]
Help me, help them, help us all
I need a book recommendation for my conservative parents, something of critical thinking subject matter but not tip them off its picked to change the way they think. [more inside]
posted by MiltonRandKalman at 1:53 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by MiltonRandKalman at 1:53 PM PST - 23 comments
Good east coast skiing for a relatively new skiier?
I've skiied a total of six days on the west coast. I live on the east coast, but need help finding a place to ski that's somewhat nearby (6 hrs drive), has trails on my level, won't be filled with people, and would be good for a long weekend. Got any recommendations? More details inside... [more inside]
So many little legs
How do I deal with an unwanted Christmas guest?
My brother-in-law may be back on drugs, or possibly beginning to show symptoms of mental illness. He's recently become verbally abusive to my mother-in-law. He's also been invited up for Christmas with the rest of the in-laws. Of course, things are complicated. [more inside]
German Hair Work
What is this German hairstyle? As seen recently in Berlin on a hip young man and not-hip young child, it seemed shorter on the top than on the sides but not a mullet (my memory is a little hazy), like it must have been a traditional quick n' easy home haircut possibly done with clippers but not something I've ever seen in the states. Bonus: how do you achieve this hairstyle?
vegetarian pasta and salad recipes!
what are your favourite vegetarian pasta and salad recipes (inclu. dressings)? [more inside]
Games for Learning
I'm interested in how effective edutainment (specifically using games for learning) is, and especially interested in critical articles or books about edutainment as an industry. Much of the stuff that I read is very positive about educational gaming, but I have a gut feeling that there has to be a negative perspective as well. Can anyone recommend resources that deal with this?
posted by codacorolla at 1:00 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by codacorolla at 1:00 PM PST - 5 comments
Who Handles Complaints About Drug Shortages?
We're all suffering from the Adderall Shortage of 2011 - even those of us who actually have legit prescriptions (raises hand!) whose work is starting to suffer as a result.
I've read a lot of articles and still have no idea why the shortage exists - and at this point, I don't really care. I just want to know who to complain to. What agency/person/organization would be most "helpful" after receiving my thoughts on this shortage?
This is in NJ, but it's a nationwide shortage, so, I'm sure other people need to complain too.
posted by bfu at 12:51 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bfu at 12:51 PM PST - 8 comments
Testing, but not coding.
Do "Black Box" software testers still exist? Do I have to be a developer to find a job? [more inside]
posted by seiryuu at 12:30 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by seiryuu at 12:30 PM PST - 9 comments
Why do people comment on my facial expression?
A bit of an odd question: I'm a teacher, administrator and Masters student. Over the years, students, classmates and colleagues have commented on the fact that I'm "always smiling". I think I do consciously smile, having been brought up to believe that it makes me more approachable and pleasant looking. People don't comment negatively - it's more neutral, as in "You know what I notice about you? You're always smiling." I've considered that they might see my expression as phony, but I don't think that's the case. I've never commented on another person's habitual facial expression. What would cause you to do so? In other words, why do so many people tell me that I'm "always smiling"? [more inside]
Ceiling cat is watching you macerate
Ancient ziplock bag of rum and raisins: still good? [more inside]
posted by slightlybewildered at 12:13 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by slightlybewildered at 12:13 PM PST - 9 comments
Boozin' and Gamblin' in an unlicensed venue.
How can I set up a party with boozin', gamblin', and charity fundraisin' in a privately owned commercial space without bringing the wrath of the state of Illinois down upon us all? [more inside]
posted by OompaLoompa at 12:06 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by OompaLoompa at 12:06 PM PST - 7 comments
Seeking stamp dealer
I'm asking for my husband, who says: Can anyone recommend a good, honest postage stamp dealer in New York City? I am looking to sell my late father’s many-volume collection of stamps. He was most serious about collecting East Asian, Latin American and African stamps, but also has a few things of value from less far-flung places (a British Penny Black, for instance). Any suggestions would be much appreciated. I've looked at this thread, but the poster there is asking about Boston. I am hoping people might have more NYC-based suggestions.
Would you prefer I start shouting?
Others describe me as "quiet". Is there something wrong with how I interact with others? [more inside]
posted by wansac at 11:59 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by wansac at 11:59 AM PST - 37 comments
What are your experiences with buying a home in Hawaii that is part of a CPR?
I'm considering buying a single family dwelling in Hawaii that is part of a two unit Condominium Property Regime (CPR). I'm interested in people's practical experiences with this sort of arrangement--what are the odds I'll end up regretting the whole thing? [more inside]
Man eight years younger than woman. Will this work?
Relationships in which the woman is older (8 years). Will this work for us? Do you know any couples like this? Advice? Please share. [more inside]
posted by BeaverTerror at 11:25 AM PST - 57 comments
posted by BeaverTerror at 11:25 AM PST - 57 comments
Who knew accounting could be so dramatic?
I am so very aware of the robust good health of my credit score, thanks to having refinanced our mortgage in October. But last month, I was declined for a credit card. Turns out my former mortgage servicing company has wrongly reported late payments to the credit bureaus, and disputing this efficiently is slightly complicated, because my former mortgage servicing company is insane. [more inside]
Can severe stress and anxiety really lead to erectile dysfunction? How long does it last and what can I do to improve it?
Can severe stress and anxiety really lead to erectile dysfunction? How long does it last and what can I do to improve it? Is it physical, or all mental? [more inside]
Talk me off the ledge
Having a pre-midlife crisis. What do I do next? Talk me off the ledge. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 10:12 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by bunderful at 10:12 AM PST - 22 comments
"8: I am experiencing a disturbing amount of pain. I might actually be dying. Please help."
Can you help me cope with my utterly terrible back and leg pain? I'm at my wits end, so I'm looking for any and all suggestions - physical or mental. [more inside]
posted by youngergirl44 at 9:58 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by youngergirl44 at 9:58 AM PST - 43 comments
How to deal with interpersonal work drama while leaving a job?
How to deal with interpersonal work drama while leaving a job? [more inside]
Cuando es el juego?
What (if any) soccer matches will be in Quito, Ecuador in the first half of January 2012? [more inside]
Want in-person harmonica lessons
I'd like to learn how to play the harmonica, in person. Where can I find a teacher in the Boston area? [more inside]
Is it better to be demoted for my own sanity, or to stay miserable until I can jump ship?
Should I ask for a demotion? Or keep sucking it up while I look for the next big thing? I'm a newspaper editor who hates her job and would like to be a reporter again. [more inside]
Je ne sais pas comment le dire en Kreyol.
If I were at a stop on a tour, or at a museum, what is the right word in Kreyol (Haitian Creole)? [more inside]
Tree Snuggie
What material should I use to make my tree a blanket? [more inside]
I am a boot murderer
I'm really, really hard on shoes and boots. [more inside]
The best collection of unique candy under one (e)roof
I'm looking for online sources for unique candy. Whenever I see candy I've never seen before, I have to buy it. This is especially true if there is evidence it's actually good quality and not just weird. Small independent companies, regional and international candy, old-fashioned, unusual foodie-bait flavors and preparations, fancy packaging, I'm into it all. Are there online shops that bring any or all of these things together, on the way to my mouth? [more inside]
Acoustic guitar for absolute beginner
Recommendations for an acoustic guitar (Yamaha, < $200) on which to learn to play? [more inside]
posted by methroach at 8:14 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by methroach at 8:14 AM PST - 17 comments
Several model boats in the Brussels city museum have a rounded triangular structure attached to the side, as seen here and here, mouseover for highlighting. What is it called, and what is it for?
Several model boats in the Brussels city museum have a rounded triangular structure attached to the side, as seen here and here, mouseover for highlighting. What is it called, and what is it for?
posted by TheophileEscargot at 7:59 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by TheophileEscargot at 7:59 AM PST - 3 comments
DVD to iPad: Part Deux
Problem with ripping TV-series DVD's to iTunes via Handbrake. [more inside]
posted by allkindsoftime at 7:55 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by allkindsoftime at 7:55 AM PST - 8 comments
"What does the AUX/CDR button do again?"
Anyone have any suggestions on an easy-to-use stereo? We want to buy a system for our out-of-state mother, who not unexpectedly is not very technical. Are there any systems that have a very simple user interface? I'm basically looking for the "jitterbug" of stereos. [more inside]
How do I stop sleep-groping?
I have multiple sleep problems, but in the past year they've become somewhat "molest-y" in nature. I'm looking to hear from anyone who has been treated for sexsomnia or related sleep disorders to find out what can be done. [more inside]
posted by Monkeyswithguns at 7:33 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Monkeyswithguns at 7:33 AM PST - 15 comments
Dangling Chinese Sunflower Seeds
After seeing Ai Weiwei's sunflower seed exhibit at Tate Modern in London with my girlfriend earlier this year, I was inspired to translate the afternoon into a thoughtful Christmas gift. I've purchased 6 of the seeds on eBay and need help finding a jeweler in Los Angeles that can help me design a pair of earrings incorporating them. HELP! [more inside]
What songs are about people losing lovers to Jesus?
My favorite album so far this year has been Emmy the Great's Virtue. Partly it's because of the thematic throughline in the lyrics, which is 'my lover left me for Jesus.' What are other songs with that theme? Also acceptable: My lover left me for Buddha/Xenu/Mohammed/Meher Baba/Aphrodite/Krishna/etc. I'm not looking for songs from the perspective of the converted, but the one who lost a lover.
posted by Kattullus at 7:30 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Kattullus at 7:30 AM PST - 6 comments
DO NOT CLICK the yellow triangles, they're MALICIOUS CODES
How should I best amuse myself at the expense of fake tech support scammers? [more inside]
posted by flabdablet at 7:26 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by flabdablet at 7:26 AM PST - 40 comments
upper body strength training stalled
Upper body strength training has stalled... help? [more inside]
Advice installing remodel canister lights
I am installing 2 remodel canister lights. Everything is wired up and ready to go except I can't get the clips to snap down. [more inside]
posted by rdurbin at 7:03 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by rdurbin at 7:03 AM PST - 2 comments
When does the founder need a boss?
I'm the founder of my company, but I think I need a manager. Has anyone been in a similar situation where they actually hired a boss for their own company? [more inside]
Help a girl meet more guys in No Fun City...without online dating.
Help a girl meet more guys in No Fun City...without online dating. [more inside]
Surrealist Art and Fashion
I am looking for texts (papers, books, articles, monographs, websites) on surrealist art and its influence on fashion (and vice-versa). Do tell me if you know any.
Brrrrrrrrrrr-illiant gift ideas needed!
Gift ideas for someone who is moving from somewhere very warm to somewhere very cold. [more inside]
'Tis the season to drink eggnog...where?
Where can I get delicious eggnog in NYC? I would prefer the name of a bar, say, rather than a store-bought brand. Thanks!
posted by mlle valentine at 6:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mlle valentine at 6:21 AM PST - 8 comments
Life With a Dog
Another question about dog behavior and expectations [more inside]
posted by DWRoelands at 6:10 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by DWRoelands at 6:10 AM PST - 32 comments
format that bullet style cat newline dog newline monkey newline format that bullet style
In Dragon NaturallySpeaking Premium 11, how do I do a Bulleted list in Digital Audio Recorder mode? [more inside]
I love brunch.
Brunch filter: My friend is hosting a brunch on Sunday, and I'd like to bring something a bit more exciting than cut up fruit or muffins (unless they're REALLY good muffins). What delicious item can I make ahead of time (either the night before, or that morning at my place)? [more inside]
posted by cider at 4:52 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by cider at 4:52 AM PST - 31 comments
What Christmas dessert should I bring this year?
What's your most fabulous (christmas) dessert recipe? [more inside]
Mountain bike shoulder/neck pain?
I commute to work by bicycle, and I've noticed that my shoulders and neck are often sore at the end of my 45-minute ride. What am I doing wrong? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 3:12 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by zardoz at 3:12 AM PST - 21 comments
Help me get to sleep
I'm a nursing student and I've stopped sleeping the night before clinical. I could handle it when there was only one clinical day a week, but now there is two and I'm struggling. [more inside]
posted by pintapicasso at 2:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by pintapicasso at 2:45 AM PST - 13 comments
As the Mona Lisa is to Da Vinci ...
Inspired by this question about classics to read, I'm wondering what are the top works in visual arts, music and dance? What are most representative of major names, periods, schools, or turning points, etc.?
December 6
What's the best way to register an international domain name (i.e. .jp or .cn?)
What is the best service a US-based person can use to register an international domain (like .cn, .kr, and .jp?) [more inside]
posted by djedery at 10:12 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by djedery at 10:12 PM PST - 6 comments
Ass Metafilter?
Asking on behalf of my husband. A kindy icky question about abraded bum, and suggestions on how to deal and hopefully heal. [more inside]
Where can a tall/rangy guy buy a suit in Los Angeles?
Where in Los Angeles can my (tall, rangy) husband buy a reasonably great suit for less than $600? Is there something like indochino.com, but in real life? Any experiences with Thick As Thieves? [more inside]
Flu bug?
Husband down with a flu bug from Mexico [more inside]
Bagged popcorn better than microwave?
I've heard all the cautions about microwave popcorn and bad chemicals - but do companies that make store-bought popcorn in bags also use a noxious process for popping their popcorn? I realized I might be making a "bagged popcorn is healthier" assumption when I have no idea if companies use giant microwaves and bags to pop their corn...
posted by agregoli at 8:28 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by agregoli at 8:28 PM PST - 22 comments
Is there an ancient Korean equivalent to Japanese samurai?
I'm taking a class this year studying the history of samurai and was wondering why I didn't know of a Korean equivalent. I know we Koreans love martial arts and fighting just like the Japanese, judging by the dozens of sageuks produced every year. [more inside]
posted by qvinx at 8:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by qvinx at 8:09 PM PST - 6 comments
"This is not grade school; there are no effort marks" seems like a bad response...
Teachers & Academics: what are your tricks for dealing with difficult / entitled students? [more inside]
posted by MouseOfHouseofAnony at 8:04 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by MouseOfHouseofAnony at 8:04 PM PST - 38 comments
Help me be sure of myself.
I am easily swayed by others' opinions. I am easily encouraged by encouraging words and discouraged by discouraging words. Please help me be sure of myself. [more inside]
Left-hand-operated bicycle options?
Help me figure out the bicycle options for someone with limited use of their right hand. Long-winded details inside. [more inside]
posted by andrewpendleton at 7:50 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by andrewpendleton at 7:50 PM PST - 20 comments
Need source for scrapbook pages
Where can we get 12"x12" strap-hinge pages for old-style Creative Memories albums? Or should I bail and switch to a new format? [more inside]
Hack Hock Huckleberry
Where can I go to learn about Arduinos in New York City? [more inside]
Importing a bulky, expensive thing to the US from Canada
Seller is in Alberta, buyer (me) is in Pennsylvania. The item is $1,600 US and ships in a big crate... how do I do this correctly? [more inside]
posted by tss at 7:41 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by tss at 7:41 PM PST - 1 comment
FOK JOU! (fok jou!)
Hi. Help me find fun pop songs, not in English, which are full of profanity. [more inside]
posted by dunkadunc at 7:18 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by dunkadunc at 7:18 PM PST - 13 comments
Climbing the Walls of the Garden
New Netflix Wii version is crap. How can I revert? [more inside]
One or Two Graphics Cards?
My brother needs some help with choosing a graphics card or cards and has asked me to refer the question to Ask Metafilter. [more inside]
Do Acupressure Mats actually work
Do Acupressure Mats actually work? On the assumption that it's probably a load of homeopathic bunk, what does work for a friend with persistently sore shoulders/neck? [more inside]
This, I think, is the greatest difference between us and the Dutch.
Free online Drupal resources for beginners. [more inside]
Cheap place to stay Baltimore, MD for Christmas
Super cheap place to stay around Baltimore, MD during Christmas week? [more inside]
What to get my little female professor for Christmas?
Help me find AWESOME Christmas gifts for my smart girl... [more inside]
posted by pearlybob at 6:17 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by pearlybob at 6:17 PM PST - 32 comments
My leggings make me look like The Saggy Baggy Elephant
I love wearing the boots/skirts/leggings or tights combo in the wintertime. I also am all over the place for work - sitting down, standing up, kneeling, crouching, you name it - and I'm incredibly hard on my clothes. Can you recommend a brand of leggings or tights or similar garments that will stand up to lots of abuse and not bag at the knees after 20 min? [more inside]
Guide me; maybe I'm just lazy
The truth is that in 50 years or so, I'll be on my deathbed, and I can guarantee you that I won't be spending the experience ruminating about my time at the office. What kind of job should I get? [more inside]
help me learn to make the best of my hair!
until now, i've been a roll-out-of-bed-into-the-shower, go-to-work-with-wet-hair, throw-it-into-a-tight-ponytail-by-midday type. i'm now trying hard to put juuust a little more effort into how i present myself to the world. any suggestions for working with my hair type? (details below) [more inside]
posted by carlypennylane at 5:33 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by carlypennylane at 5:33 PM PST - 21 comments
Salads for the reluctant chef
I'm in search of no-prep salad recipes that involve spinach or baby greens as the base ingredient. [more inside]
posted by Metasyntactic at 5:20 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Metasyntactic at 5:20 PM PST - 35 comments
Why does banging two pebbles together make a weird smell?
Why does banging two pebbles together make a weird smell? I remember reading about this in a book of eclectic scientific essays. Apparently, when you bang two rocks together it makes a smoky odor ONLY if you have touched the surface with your skin. [more inside]
Help me crowdsource an archival project for my public radio show.
I am trying to create a search-able, browse-able archive for the public radio show I work for. I would like ask our audience to help me populate this archive, because there are many tech-savvy people in our audience -- and it seems like a project that could easily get done through crowdsourcing. I'm looking for software/websites/advice for managing a large crowdsourced project to make sure the archive is accurate. [more inside]
Food & Forty Winks for Folk Music in Fredericksburg
What's good in Fredericksburg, VA? Looking for restaurant & hotel for this Friday. [more inside]
posted by troika at 5:04 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by troika at 5:04 PM PST - 5 comments
How to ground my home electrical in accordance with code?
Help me understand the national electric code with regard to rewiring and updating several rooms in my 1940s-era house. [more inside]
posted by JohnFredra at 4:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by JohnFredra at 4:57 PM PST - 8 comments
All she wants for Christmas is to crush her enemies, see them driven before her, and to hear the lamentation of their women.
My eight-year-old daughter has asked Santa for a sword for Christmas. Please help me find the right one. [more inside]
posted by lekvar at 4:51 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by lekvar at 4:51 PM PST - 16 comments
What was this music video I saw?
Couple years ago I saw a music video. It was taken in a single shot, one guy dancing/singing with a microphone stand on a stage/sound set, ended with light bulbs exploding in slow mo, still part of the single shot. It kind of reminded me of Talking Heads/Stop Making Sense, both musically and visually. This was probably around 2008. Any ideas what I saw?
posted by Busoni at 4:47 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Busoni at 4:47 PM PST - 4 comments
How can an INTP manage to communicate with his ENFx partner ?
ENFx-INTP ralationship. Who has the user manual ? This somewhat long post is a call for help ! [more inside]
posted by that_guy at 4:29 PM PST - 45 comments
posted by that_guy at 4:29 PM PST - 45 comments
lets take some pictures in NYC
Creative photography ideas in NYC in December for a total photography amateur looking to kill some time? [more inside]
San Francisco Social Services?
About to end up in SF/Oakland needing some help. Most important: a sliding-scale methadone clinic. [more inside]
How to reconstruct this cool looking experiment?
Recreating the Yves-Couder Experiment from Through the Wormhole [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 at 3:57 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Peregrin5 at 3:57 PM PST - 5 comments
$40 of something expensive?
What's something expensive that I can buy a small quantity of for a Christmas gift exchange? [more inside]
posted by malhouse at 3:26 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by malhouse at 3:26 PM PST - 33 comments
Smart phone without data plan?
Please help me cut thru the complex jibberjabber and simply select a Pantone color in Illustrator.
Please help me cut thru the complex jibberjabber and simply select a Pantone color in Illustrator. [more inside]
posted by Senor Cardgage at 2:54 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Senor Cardgage at 2:54 PM PST - 5 comments
I'd like to root my Android phone (Samsung Charge), but I am afraid and have many concerns. Please help!
I'd like to root my Android phone (Samsung Charge), but I am afraid and have many concerns. Please help! [more inside]
posted by Ephilation at 2:48 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Ephilation at 2:48 PM PST - 13 comments
How to protect an original idea?
How do I protect my software idea so that it's not stolen or copied? [more inside]
Lets pretend its a Dwarf
I fought the flash and the flash won. [more inside]
Any jobs that deal with classifying or indexing information?
Please help me come up with jobs where the main duty is organizing or classifying information. [more inside]
posted by stedman15 at 2:17 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by stedman15 at 2:17 PM PST - 13 comments
What info does paypal give to a seller
Curious about this question.
What information does pay pal give about a buyer to the seller?
How do I record audio of an online classroom as a student?
How can I record the complete audio of an online course done through Adobe Connect? NOT as the instructor. [more inside]
posted by Ky at 2:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Ky at 2:04 PM PST - 6 comments
WTF is happening with my credit card?
My credit card statement shows two charges made online to Microsoft Store. The charges were reversed (credited back) two days later. The net effect on the credit card balance is zero, but I'm freaking out about it anyway. The Microsoft Store people were able to tell me that it was for a download version of Office and the email address used was wmp@commerce5.com. I don't recognize this email address. Can anyone venture a guess what's going on? There have been no other fraudulent charges on the credit card in years. And I find the fact that the charges were reversed, apparently by the person who made the charges initially, creepy beyond belief. The credit card was Discover and the charges were made on Thanksgiving Day, if it matters.
How low can we go for a tablet that lets mom do everything she needs?
Can I justify an iPad for my mom or will the Kindle Fire or Galaxy meet her needs? [more inside]
posted by Bunglegirl at 1:26 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Bunglegirl at 1:26 PM PST - 28 comments
Help me improve my performance as a university lecturer
Help me improve my performance as a university lecturer (undergrad and grad school). [more inside]
Now what?
Have you ever actually done an "informational interview"? [more inside]
Wow, a job offer...to do the same job...and piss everyone off?
A consulting company that I work with would like to hire me away from my employer but then provide consulting services to them. Is this ever a good idea? What do I need to know/find out before moving forward? [more inside]
posted by fanta_orange at 1:07 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by fanta_orange at 1:07 PM PST - 14 comments
Tell me about the potential pitfalls of hosting websites for smalltime clients?
I'm a graphic designer who does a bit of freelance web stuff, but I’m by no means a web developer. I’ve recently started building teensy (a few pages, a blog, a basic paypal shopping cart plugin) Wordpress sites with customized themes for some tech averse self-employed/freelancer friends. I'm considering offering to host these on my web space for a small fee. What could go wrong? A lot of things, I'm sure... I just don't know what. Have you hosted multiple sites for other people on your web space? If so, what do you wish you'd known going in? [more inside]
When control-v seems too obvious...
Excel skills required for a particular job… I'm not sure what they are asking for. [more inside]
What international satirical programmes are available to watch online?
What international satirical programmes are available to watch online? [more inside]
posted by pmcp at 12:35 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by pmcp at 12:35 PM PST - 10 comments
PC for a semi-senile friend
My semi-senile older friend needs a computer just for email and web, but keeps messing with Windows cfgs, viruses, spam etc. a support nightmare/comedy. Is there a recommended Linux or Windows distrib for a 5-year old PC, that stays the same with every reboot, support for web and email only, prevents messing with OS, and remote support ability?
The $100 gift
The most awesome $100 gift you can think of. [more inside]
What is this disease?
Can anybody identify this disease? My college friend, who evidently had it, recently passed away as a result. I never asked her exactly what was wrong for fear of being insensitive, but now I would like some closure. Description of observable symptoms inside... [more inside]
Mail-able, edible gifts?
Suggest delicious homemade edible gifts, yet again! Difficulty: specifically looking for (relatively) shelf-stable and mail-able recipes. [more inside]
posted by Bardolph at 12:03 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Bardolph at 12:03 PM PST - 15 comments
What kind of holiday gifts can I give to my biggest fans for the holidays?
I know I'm a little late to still be working on this, but what kind of holiday gifts would be totally awesome to give to my biggest supporters for the holidays? [more inside]
How did someone break into my home?
How did someone break into my house? [more inside]
Help me sync mac mail
I have four devices that I use for email. Macbook, desktop mac, ipad and ipod touch. I use mac mail to read my email on my laptop. To make this more confusing, I use an independent server ( not gmail, yahoo, yadda)
I would like to be able to sync my mac mail app across all my devices so I can have a current email file on any of device at any given time. Is this possible?
Getting it on with a netbook.
What programs/practices do you advise in setting up my wife's new netbook? [more inside]
posted by Frasermoo at 11:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Frasermoo at 11:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me make Ottawa's famous Lebanese garlic sauce!
This post made me long for Ottawa's awesome Lebanese food, especially garlic sauce. Help me make it for myself! [more inside]
posted by smitt at 11:12 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by smitt at 11:12 AM PST - 6 comments
Why do I have to hang up first?
Help me figure out and overcome my instinct to distance myself from my SO. [more inside]
Where there's a will is there a way?
Looking for assistance with Probate process in MA (Middlesex county). Do I need a lawyer for a simple estate with a will? I am the executor. [more inside]
posted by Gungho at 10:37 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Gungho at 10:37 AM PST - 6 comments
Alone in Dahab
I'll be spending next week in Dahab on my own, staying at a hotel. The main reason for the holiday is to have a warm relaxing week after a rather stressful year. I am not a diver. So what should I do? If anything... What should I know? I am a middle aged woman and don't have a huge amount of money to spend.
And one specific query - how cold will it be climbing Mount Sinai at this time of year? (I'm planning on taking hand luggage only, so don't want to carry a pile of clothes simply for one activity).
H2O2 source in Boulder/Denver?
Looking for a source for 35% Food Grade Hydrogen Peroxide in the Boulder Denver area. [more inside]
posted by cosmac at 10:22 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by cosmac at 10:22 AM PST - 5 comments
Kindle Fire or iPod Touch?
Kindle Fire or iPod Touch for my disabled dad? [more inside]
Chicago Recreation
Is it totally nuts for an outdoor loving backpacking tree hugger to move to Chicago for work? [more inside]
Please help me buy a desk.
Please tell me a story of your beloved desk. [more inside]
I can't remember enough coherent bits to track down this book.
I can't remember the title, author, or any of the character names for a steampunk-ish book I read a while ago. The main character was the estranged son of a duchess or something like that. There were airships, magic, a few dragons. It was a bit Victorian as well. I remember how it started but much searching hasn't turned it up. It's driving me mad! [more inside]
posted by danteGideon at 10:01 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by danteGideon at 10:01 AM PST - 2 comments
(B)Icicle toes
Cold weather cyclists: how do you keep your feet warm riding in ~40F weather for 20 or 30 miles? [more inside]
Blues Song
I am looking for a blues song about the dangers of a black man interacting with a white woman during the Jim Crow era. I thought it was an Otis Taylor song but I can't seem to find it in his catalog. I thought the song was called "White Woman."
How to find a website template for an independent film, particularly Wordpress?
No no no, help ME pick a Wordpress Theme! For a documentary movie website. [more inside]
posted by mtgoldma at 9:28 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by mtgoldma at 9:28 AM PST - 7 comments
Who sings this version of Winter Wonderland?
Please help me identify a specific rendition of Winter Wonderland. [more inside]
posted by homodachi at 9:25 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by homodachi at 9:25 AM PST - 3 comments
Should I be scared of hypnotherapy?
Should I be scared of hypnotherapy/hypnosis? If not, how can I become less scared of it? [more inside]
posted by chameleon at 9:25 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by chameleon at 9:25 AM PST - 11 comments
Cloud Photo Storage for iPhone?
I have thousands of photos in iPhoto, and I want access to all of them on my iPhone, but don't have space for full-res versions. [more inside]
posted by Quisp Lover at 9:01 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 9:01 AM PST - 12 comments
Looking for reading list suggestions for automatic topic/concept matching
Looking for reading list suggestions and search terms for fuzzy concept matching: given a list of topics, some of which might be defined by synonyms, how do you match to more exact concepts? I'm guessing that this is a natural language processing (NLP) or semantic web question but I might be wrong. [more inside]
posted by handee at 8:56 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by handee at 8:56 AM PST - 1 comment
Get me hooked on a TV show in one episode
Recommend the one episode that will get me hooked on a good TV show. [more inside]
Should I continue with personal training?
Should I or should I not continue with personal training? [more inside]
How can I help my father learn to use his computer?
My dad is 95% computer illiterate and is constantly frustrated by his inability to use his computer. What resources (books, programs, videos, etc.) can you recommend that will help improve his experience? [more inside]
posted by EKStickland at 8:34 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by EKStickland at 8:34 AM PST - 18 comments
Recommend some British Mysteries to watch via Netflix streaming.
My mom is looking for a new television series to watch via Netflix streaming in the British mystery genre. Please recommend some for her! [more inside]
Help me stop running out of space in Gmail.
It is actually possible to run out of space in Gmail. Help? [more inside]
posted by crankylex at 8:33 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by crankylex at 8:33 AM PST - 9 comments
Where or how can I find classic sports team / varsity typefaces?
Where or how can I find classic sports team / varsity typefaces? [more inside]
Where to go for a relaxing beach vacation?
I need a vacation! I'm looking for a warm, beach-y place to relax for 5-6 days in February 2012. Pros: solitude, beautiful beaches, comfortable beds, massages, spas, great food, relaxation. Cons: crowds, kids, loud parties, lots of drunks. I will be leaving from Washington DC, so Caribbean and Central America recommendations would be great. [more inside]
iPhone app for shared to-do lists?
Can you recommend an iPhone app for shared to-do lists? I don't mean "I make a list and send it to my spouse." I mean "List exists, and both my spouse and I can add to it and cross things off."
Lines on the page would be nice.
How do I put lines on these pdf documents? I'm going blind trying to match descriptions to dollars! [more inside]
Maybe they'll have jetpacks by then...
Going to the 1:00pm Patriots game at Gillette Stadium on Christmas Eve. Are we crazy to make dinner reservations back in Boston that same night? [more inside]
Help for seriously destructive anger.
Acute anger treatment. Have you sought it or helped a loved one seek it? What are some treatment options and/or some family help organizations? [more inside]
Intestacy testiness
My dad died intestate, in Indiana, in 2003. My mom took all of his estate. [more inside]
It was the best of times, it was the blurst of times
I want to spend next year reading ~the classics~.
So, um, what are they? [more inside]
How do I listen to Audiobooks faster?
How do I listen to Audiobooks faster? So I am an audiobook fanatic. Which means I was happy years ago to find out you coud listen to them 25% sped up using old ipods. That feature went away and then came back. Now Audible.com's iphone app lets you play them at "3x speed" which is in reality only double speed. The weird part is once you listen at that speed it becomes normal which makes me wonder if I can go even faster. Ideas? The fewer number of steps the happier I would be of course.
Sad plant is sad.
What is this this sad houseplant? Can it be saved? [more inside]
posted by giraffe at 6:42 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by giraffe at 6:42 AM PST - 14 comments
Room Reservations In An Academic Library
Help us deal with the barbarians students at the gates study rooms! Looking for a decent room reservation software for my medium-sized, yet busy library. [more inside]
Help us make the best buyer's agent interview list
Looking for a buyer's agent - should we interview people from multiple agencies? [more inside]
How can I concentrate on what I'm reading without being too distracted by background noise?
How can I concentrate on what I'm reading without being too distracted by background noise? [more inside]
What is the song in this radio play?
What is the song at 7.34 in this radio play? (Apologies if you can't listen to it outside the UK...)
Mp3 and cd at same time
How to buy physical cd and digital files at same time? I currently subscribe to rhapsody because I like to download the files. But I would rather just buy a few CDs a month. Is there as easy way to buy the "pre ripped" as it were?
Can I use an iPhone to control iPad 2 Photos app?
Can I use an iPhone to control iPad 2 Photos app? [more inside]
Buying Norwegian literature in London?
Where can I buy a Norwegian copy of the Norwegian book Buzz Aldrin, hvor ble det av deg i alt mylderet? in London? [more inside]
posted by narcotizingdysfunction at 5:24 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by narcotizingdysfunction at 5:24 AM PST - 3 comments
Paging HR, HR pick up Line 1.
Is it okay to call ahead to get details about a job posting before I submit a resume? [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 5:16 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Tehhund at 5:16 AM PST - 9 comments
Shopping for my first kayak
What sort of kayak would best serve a relative beginner who intends to paddle on both fresh and salt water? I have up to about $1500 to spend on equipment. I'm mostly planning to use it on an intracoastal waterway, the Gulf of Mexico and an occasional lake or river. I'll likely be alone most of the time.
posted by erzulieloo at 5:03 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by erzulieloo at 5:03 AM PST - 12 comments
Headaches, depression, moodiness, PMS: Microgynon or Mirena
My hormones were a mess and 6 months ago my doctor suggested birth control pills to regulate them. I was put on Yasmin, and that worked great, I felt much better overall, except for the debilitating headaches once a month. I tried skipping the stop/placebo week, but that didn't work at all (severe headache and long breakthrough bleeding), and so much headache every month is not an option. [more inside]
posted by blub at 4:56 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by blub at 4:56 AM PST - 8 comments
Albums recorded at home
After reading this post today, I'm wondering... what are some great home-recorded and/or lo-fi albums? Doesn't have to be a similar style, but I'm definitely more interested in individual efforts. Still, all suggestions are welcome. [more inside]
Fruitcake. Bleh.
I want to create new family food traditions for the holidays. What are some of your favorite recipes that only get made around this time of year? Due to a new Celiac diagnosis this year, I need to expand my repertoire (and we're bored). [more inside]
If dev then hire
What skills do I look for in an developer? What do I test? [more inside]
December 5
Really warm socks?
I'd like to sleep a night outside this winter. I've slept outside previously at near-freezing temperatures, and woken up with my feet uncomfortably cold because I kicked the blankets off during the night. Since Chicago can go below freezing during the winter, I'm worried about frostbitten toes. Is this a realistic concern? What can I do to prevent it? (Of course, the obvious solution is to buy a space-age sleeping bag, but I'd rather not spend so much for a rare event.)
Because lemons are for drinks, not for data.
I'd like your thoughts on the Wolverine PicPac II or alternatives, please. [more inside]
posted by mykescipark at 11:10 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by mykescipark at 11:10 PM PST - 2 comments
How do I take data from a spreadsheet (LibreOffice Impress, to be precise), and use it as input to a program in Java?
How do I take data from a spreadsheet (LibreOffice Impress, to be precise), and use it as input to a program in Java? This is fairly basic stuff, so I'm a little embarrassed to be having issues with this, but I don't have much time. I'm well aware of how to do file I/O with a text file using a Scanner object for input, but how does this work with a spreadsheet?
Where does the name PolyDac come from?
Combination polyester and polypropylene rope appears to be commonly referred to as PolyDac rope. What is the 'Dac' part? Is it a short form of a longer word?
posted by GleepGlop at 10:43 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by GleepGlop at 10:43 PM PST - 2 comments
how to sterilise tupperware?
Am I going to kill my family with this mincemeat? [more inside]
posted by Joh at 10:26 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Joh at 10:26 PM PST - 4 comments
Posting work I did for a uni course online
I'd like to make a programming project I did for a university course available as open source. I finished the course, but not my degree yet. The code could be helpful to people outside of just an assignment problem, and it's actually a well known project from a book, with answers in other languages already available online.
My question is, are there any academic integrity issues with doing this, also considering I am still working on my degree?
posted by nlap at 10:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by nlap at 10:09 PM PST - 6 comments
Conditional formatting (?): How to bold all text that comes before a colon
Is there a way to make all text at the beginning of a line, preceding a colon, BOLD in Microsoft Word? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 9:42 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by lovableiago at 9:42 PM PST - 11 comments
Song-learning playlist!
I am trying to learn a couple of songs really well for an upcoming drag performance. Is there any way to make either itunes or grooveshark(or other online music services) make these songs come up unreasonably often while shuffling through a larger playlist? [more inside]
posted by rosken at 9:27 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by rosken at 9:27 PM PST - 3 comments
Walk me through appearance in court for misdemeanor
Ticket for public intoxication, court date tomorrow - walk me through what I should do. I'm a minor and a college student. Not asking for legal advice. [more inside]
Disrespectful/uncaring acquaintances
A classmate/mutual friend of my friend (read: no friend of mine!) ruined 2 of my college textbooks and does not seem to care to do much about it. What should I do? More details inside. [more inside]
posted by camylanded at 9:14 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by camylanded at 9:14 PM PST - 25 comments
Is yellow cat vomit normal?
Is this cat puke reason for concern? [more inside]
Make Excel stop babysitting me.
Excel is treating me like a child because it thinks I can't tell the difference between .csv and .xlsx. It's wasting my time. Help? [more inside]
posted by ootandaboot at 9:11 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by ootandaboot at 9:11 PM PST - 9 comments
The things I do for airline status
Help me gamble and eat during a six-hour Vegas layover. [more inside]
posted by willbaude at 9:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by willbaude at 9:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Should I ask my doctor for a Cipro alternative?
My doctor prescribed me Cipro (Ciprofloxacin) for a potential prostate infection. This is the first prescription drug I've been on in about 10 years.
After reading up on the internet about potential side effects (as well as FDA black box warnings [!]) I have to admit I am rather concerned about permanent damage to weight bearing joints and possible tendon rupture (which can occur long after you stop treatment) There are a bunch of lawsuits going on about it. I do fairly heavy weight training and this makes me nervous. [more inside]
I want to hire an iOS App Dev.
I need to hire an iOS App Developer. Where do I do this? [more inside]
posted by GilloD at 8:38 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by GilloD at 8:38 PM PST - 5 comments
What are the great masterpieces of industrial design?
Looking for masterpieces of industrial design. What are the most well-designed products? [more inside]
How do I choose the best mortgage refinance lender?
I'm 4 years into a 30 year fixed mortgage with Wells Fargo, at a 6.75% interest rate. With rates around 4% now, I ran the numbers and decided to refinance. [more inside]
Successful Friend-Roomie-dom
Has Anyone Successfully Survived Living with a Best Friend? [more inside]
Songs with a bassy soft vocal harmony?
What songs have a similar bassy, soft vocal harmony and melody as Jonathan Coulton's Baby Got Back? (first 4 secs. and again at 3:10 and 5:00)
posted by Kippersoft at 7:50 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Kippersoft at 7:50 PM PST - 5 comments
Radiolab - Stochasticity clarinet piece?
What's the name of the haunting clarinet piece at 00:21:25 and 00:43:21 of Radiolab - Stochasticity (.mp3)? If unnamed, who played it? Thanks!
posted by ivank at 7:38 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by ivank at 7:38 PM PST - 2 comments
HowTo: annotating pdf "live" for screencast
What software can I use to annotate pdf documents "live" on a Mac with free hand drawings in various colours? [more inside]
posted by aroberge at 7:34 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by aroberge at 7:34 PM PST - 3 comments
career help. I yam so sleepy.
Career filter: How to proceed if I am exhausted and unhappy? [more inside]
Where can I buy Penda in Denver?
Where can I find Penda in Denver? [more inside]
Best Christmas gifts for nearly impoverished older family members in New Mexico?
Best Christmas gifts for nearly impoverished older family members (location: northern New Mexico). [more inside]
cool stuff for a surf fisherman?
what cool surf-fishing gadget/accessory can i get my dad? [more inside]
Inspirational quotes/essays/poems - Got any good ones, Metafilter?
Inspirational quotes/essays/poems/pictures - Got any good ones? [more inside]
posted by pseudonymph at 6:48 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by pseudonymph at 6:48 PM PST - 18 comments
Did I screw up a potentially awesome FWB after a hookup? (Involving Morning After Etiquette & Beanplating)
Hooked up with a friend (having recently gotten out of a relationship), was I being too distant the morning after? Asking because I'm interested in hooking up again and want to know how to approach him again. [more inside]
How can I find a better-than-average teaching abroad job?
I am a special education teacher in the USA who wants to teach English abroad in Asia, then return to the States to join a doctoral program in education and continue teaching. How can I make this experience a step up in my development as an educator, rather than just an adventure? [more inside]
Airline ticket jitters?
Should my friend be worried about buying an airline ticket online? [more inside]
posted by bookwibble at 5:52 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by bookwibble at 5:52 PM PST - 14 comments
Christmas gift exchange
A coworker who is above me on the job title rank has given me a gift card at Christmas for past several years. I feel odd not getting him anything but I can't afford to get everyone in the office a gift, what could I do for him though?
posted by sandyp at 5:38 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by sandyp at 5:38 PM PST - 16 comments
Is aluminum foam strong? Or just really cool looking?
Aluminum foam is said to have a compression strength of ~350 psi. Does this mean that it can support up to 350 pounds of stuff on top of it before it crushes? [more inside]
Help me move, for the second time this year!
I am accepting a job in Winston-Salem NC, and would like to find a nice place to rent, either an apartment or a rental house, while minimizing my commute in the northwestern quadrant of the city. Can anyone recommend a realtor or a good site that lists local rentals in this area?
posted by sonic meat machine at 5:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sonic meat machine at 5:24 PM PST - 4 comments
Leaving a job after an equity event/payout?
I need help/thoughts on deciding whether to stay or walk after a small equity payout. [more inside]
My daughter has a shark tooth!
My daughter may be a shark! Dental question inside: [more inside]
Help me not give him a tie (again).
What experience-intensive but local (NYC) gift can I get the Best Spouse Ever? I’d love suggestions for activity-focused things that can be acquired/done in NYC. (Note, these can be pure experiences, or they can be items that are used for some activity). [more inside]
posted by The Elusive Architeuthis at 4:39 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by The Elusive Architeuthis at 4:39 PM PST - 16 comments
Need the tooth, the whole tooth, and nothing but the tooth!
Need advice on if/how to treat a four-year-old's injured tooth. [more inside]
posted by sprocket87 at 4:30 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by sprocket87 at 4:30 PM PST - 5 comments
Where can I find a rental House in Atlanta?
I am desperately looking for a rental house in the Atlanta neighborhoods of North Decatur or Druid Hills and have had no luck finding any to even look at and wanted to know if Metafilter might have the answer? [more inside]
Arabic Hallmark
Taxi gift cards in DC/VA
I want to give someone a gift card for a cab ride in DC/NOVA. Will this be more trouble than it's worth? Have you done it successfully? [more inside]
Taking on the responsibility of starting a career while dealing with severe mental health problems
I'm a lousy student about to graduate university, and I am interested in career opportunities which would allow me to help immigrants settle into their new lives (in Canada). My degree is in no way related to this, and I feel that mental health issues have severely diminished my mental abilities. Nonetheless, any help anyone can give me would be greatly appreciated. [more inside]
posted by costanza at 3:50 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by costanza at 3:50 PM PST - 19 comments
Best book summarizing current biblical scholarship?
What book should I read to get an overview-level understanding of the current state of biblical scholarship? [more inside]
posted by knave at 3:35 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by knave at 3:35 PM PST - 23 comments
How to thank estranged relative?
What do I say in a thank-you note to a relative I am on the outs with? [more inside]
Bundle of Nerves
It has come to my attention I might suffer from some form of anxiety disorder...and looking back it's been for my whole life and I only have noticed it now...help me with an approach to this...I don't want to do everything at once because then I'll never know what helped me or made me worse. [more inside]
Making My Own Misery
I need some wisdom to get the chip off my shoulder. [more inside]
support to quit smoking
How can my SO help while I quit smoking? [more inside]
PROJECT: WIDEAWAKE
Besides coffee and caffeine, what is the best over-the-counter, widely-available stimulant? [more inside]
Subversion for dummies
I am trying to get a subversion system set up on an apache server. We do have stuff we can access by using https://s.m.edu/svn but I would like to add that I can access this way (https://s.m.edu/m OR https://s.m.edu/svn/m ) that looks like this (dir names are altered):
top level:
M
below that:
V MA MS
and below that in each:
trunk branch tag
What would be the unix / subversion commands to get these set up on the server and what permissions do you need?
THANKS
It's a mystery...
Silly question, surely it's easily answerable but I'm on a computer with no sound and have too much work to do to spend much time looking, so I turn to AskMe in hopes of settling an office disagreement before the workday is over.
The classic musical phrase which describes "mystery," "detective," etc. I think it's from a TV show. Tip of my tongue, but I'm drawing a complete blank.
It goes, "Duuuuum da-dum dum / Duuuuum da-dum dum dummmmmm...."
Notes are: 1, flat-2, flat-3, 1 / 1, flat-2, flat-3, 1, X.
Boss says X is a perfect fifth. I say it's a flat-5 Who is correct? And what the heck is it from? Thanks AskMe.
posted by Balonious Assault at 2:46 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Balonious Assault at 2:46 PM PST - 12 comments
What should I watch?
What TV series should I watch next (online or via Netflix DVD)? [more inside]
What other strategies are there for seeing CPU bottlenecks in a large PHP application?
How can I track down the cause of periodic spikes in CPU usage caused by a plugin-bloated WordPress install on a LAMP server? [more inside]
posted by cowbellemoo at 1:56 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by cowbellemoo at 1:56 PM PST - 5 comments
When can you sock it to me?
Is wearing socks with a long skirt a fashion no-no? [more inside]
What are some great broth recipes?
Hit me with some kickass broth recipes for a family member recovering from bariatric surgery. [more inside]
posted by pajamazon at 1:36 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by pajamazon at 1:36 PM PST - 12 comments
Can I fix my outline in Word?
I used "outline number" to create my outline; unfortunately I had to change the first level, and now everything below it is one level off. [more inside]
How would I find online community moderators
Where/how do I find online experienced community moderators? And a few related questions. [more inside]
posted by madamjujujive at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by madamjujujive at 1:19 PM PST - 4 comments
How much food do I need for my party?
Open House food for 70: enough! or too much? [more inside]
posted by jrochest at 1:09 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jrochest at 1:09 PM PST - 13 comments
Looking for info about online video
What are some good resources to learn about creating and implementing online video? [more inside]
posted by jabo at 1:07 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by jabo at 1:07 PM PST - 1 comment
Not quite white
I left a red sock in my white laundry and now everything is pastel pink. How can I safely and simply make everything white again? [more inside]
My dumb dog at lamb bones
My dog ate cooked lamb bones. How worried should I be? [more inside]
posted by msali at 12:43 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by msali at 12:43 PM PST - 20 comments
International Adoption
International Adoption - What should we look for in an agency here and abroad? [more inside]
Birth Control
Can you tell me about your experiences with Depo-Provera? [more inside]
Crochet me a new one!
What is your favorite esoteric/advanced crochet stitch or technique, and why should I learn it? [more inside]
posted by kittenmarlowe at 12:11 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by kittenmarlowe at 12:11 PM PST - 7 comments
Which mementos from my childhood should I keep?
Please help me, I'm overwhelmed with stuff. I have way too much stuff in general and I'm making a real effort to get rid of as much as possible. I did a massive storage closet clean out over the weekend and I discovered that my mom set aside five large boxes of things from my childhood for me. What should I keep? [more inside]
posted by tinamonster at 11:52 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by tinamonster at 11:52 AM PST - 28 comments
Another Name that Baby
Help me brainstorm a boy Eastern European / Russian / Middle Eastern name. Ideally it's easy to spell and easy to pronounce in English. [more inside]
what to buy for the kid who has everything?
What should I get my lego/star wars/video game obsessed cousins for the holidays? [more inside]
Why is this lightbulb flickering?
Why is this lightbulb flickering? [more inside]
Who is Buzzy Bus?
Computer monitor for video editing?
Mid-sized computer monitor primarily for video editing? [more inside]
how do I make this popular retro car look more retro?
2012 Beetle-filter - I just got one and I'm looking for ways to make it MORE retro looking. [more inside]
my team deserves a t-shirt that doesn't suck.
You are not my t-shirt vendor, but please give me some advice on printing my (very special snowflake of a) t-shirt. [more inside]
posted by Sauce Trough at 11:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Sauce Trough at 11:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Please help me plan a (grown-up) family vacation for this Xmas in New England
Please help me plan a (grown-up) family vacation for this Xmas in the New England area (Connecticut and north, probably?). This "Winter fun for the Non-Skier" list is a good start, but I don't really know how to put something together into a reasonable itinerary. [more inside]
posted by unknowncommand at 11:20 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by unknowncommand at 11:20 AM PST - 5 comments
panicking over a lay off
Husband laid off in time for Christmas, now what? [more inside]
posted by FunkyHelix at 11:14 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by FunkyHelix at 11:14 AM PST - 31 comments
Looking for data showing differing beliefs, despite the same label, across countries
I'm looking for data on public opinion varying across countries, particularly from folks who claim the same affiliation-- say, "progressive", or "socialist"-- but turn out to believe different things depending on the country they're living in. [more inside]
Christmas Party Video
We're hosting a Christmas party and I wanted to play a looping video featuring clips of popular Christmas video clip moments. I thought this might be an easy one to find, but I've come up short! Examples of what I'm looking for are inside. [more inside]
Postnatal Depression and anti-depressants
Postnatal depression, advice and success stories, please. [more inside]
What to do with an dog with history of aggression
What to do with my dog? Rehome or put him down? [more inside]
Schroedinger's Deployment.
How can I maintain my composure and sanity in the face of not knowing whether or not my boyfriend is deploying? [more inside]
posted by kataclysm at 10:58 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by kataclysm at 10:58 AM PST - 7 comments
How do I attach velcro tape to my couch cushions?
How do I attach velcro tape to my couch cushions? [more inside]
posted by reverend cuttle at 10:29 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by reverend cuttle at 10:29 AM PST - 12 comments
What are some contemporary crimes and sinners?
What is a good contemporary crime to add to "Dante's Inferno" ? [more inside]
posted by glassrose at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by glassrose at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
Looking for something fun and romantic to do on New Years Eve in NYC
My girlfriend and I are looking for something fun and romantic to do on New Years Eve in NYC. Obviously, it can't be something that requires more than 3-4 weeks advance notice. [more inside]
Boots on the brain.
Trying to remember the name of a brand of boots, possibly named something similar to "Duffie". [more inside]
Music recs
Music suggestions for someone who loves Neutral Milk Hotel, The Decemberists, Andrew Bird, The Mountain Goats, Regina Spektor, Beirut, and Portugal. The Man. [more inside]
posted by jingle at 9:37 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by jingle at 9:37 AM PST - 32 comments
How do I figure out what the cost of living increase has been in my area over the past year?
How do I find out the cost of living increase in my region? [more inside]
posted by asnider at 9:36 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by asnider at 9:36 AM PST - 3 comments
Food lecture series hungry for a name & other bad puns
Help me name a food lecture series. The best food lecture series! [more inside]
posted by soma lkzx at 9:29 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by soma lkzx at 9:29 AM PST - 18 comments
Need Check Printing software.
I need software which can print the full check onto blank check stock. [more inside]
My sensations, they are clashing.
Am I obligated to share a design that I feel is very much mine? [more inside]
More than just a "friend"
I am in a relationship that makes me happier than I've ever been, but there is one thing that bothers me - my significant other introduces me to new people as his "friend" and I don't like it. Help me brainstorm a way around introductions that will satisfy us both. [more inside]
posted by Neely O'Hara at 9:09 AM PST - 46 comments
posted by Neely O'Hara at 9:09 AM PST - 46 comments
Christmas in Prague gift ideas
Please help me find a nice Christmas gift for someone living in Prague [more inside]
posted by smcniven at 9:08 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by smcniven at 9:08 AM PST - 6 comments
Am i feeding my cat too much??
am i really over feeding my cat? [more inside]
Help Me Help Myself to a Nice Hot Cup of Tea
At a dinner party last night, the hostess served tea in these ingenious mug devices that had a) a ceramic strainer that fit inside the mug and b) a little mini-plate that sat on top of the mug, keeping the tea warm and serving as a place to put the strainer with the tea leaves when you were done steeping. Does anyone happen to know what these are called so I can look for them online?
Could my friend's car be to blame for 2 spin-outs?
A friend is wondering whether her '06 Honda Civic is to blame for 2 highway spin-outs over the past 5 years. She's experiencing a lot of anxiety driving on the highway after spinning 360 degrees in both instances, and is unsure whether a mechanical issue may have caused her to lose control of the car. I assume she would be less likely to spin out with a larger, heavier car? Mechanics haven't found anything wrong with it, but is it possible that this particular model has a tendency to spin out? Also, is there a technical term for "spin-out" that I can Google? Because searching "06 honda civic spin out" ain't workin' for me.
posted by tatiana wishbone at 8:52 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by tatiana wishbone at 8:52 AM PST - 47 comments
Learning Oracle and SQL
Hey all. I need to learn the basic principles of SQL and Oracle databases. I'm looking for web resources and books. Got any favorites? What's out there?
Thanks in advance.
posted by Stagger Lee at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Stagger Lee at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
Help me find a Mercer Mayer memory game!
I'm looking for a particular image from a Mercer Mayer activity book that was significant in my wife's childhood. Mercer Mayer fans, I need you! [more inside]
Are Rescued Dogs Good Dogs?
Is adopting a rescued dog safe for a young family? I've never considered it before, but I am trying to expand my horizons. [more inside]
posted by MustardTent at 8:10 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by MustardTent at 8:10 AM PST - 33 comments
Winter Coat 2.0 - Warm, sleek, techie coats for the Chic Nerd?
I hate winter, but it's coming and for once I want to be prepared. I want to buy a 3/4 length coat that is incredibly warm, very sleek and functional (think lots of pockets). Additionally, it has to look good when I'm wearing a suit as well as when I'm wearing casual clothing (jeans & sneakers). (More Inside!) [more inside]
posted by darkgroove at 8:09 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by darkgroove at 8:09 AM PST - 16 comments
Um, girls only? :)
HBC messing with my period? Is this possible, or should I be concerned? [more inside]
Zooming forward with the Xoom
I'm deploying a fleet of Motorola Xoom Android tablets to a couple dozen skilled trade workers. What apps do I need to include to help make my life and the lives of the workers as easy as possible? No internet access other than a few approved sites (managed by firewall and a wireless profile), but they'll be getting their email and calendar (all powered by GAFE) too.
Was I right to walk out of psychotherapy?
Was I right to walk out of psychotherapy? [more inside]
Is it possible to lead a fulfilled life if love and family is not in the cards?
Is it possible to lead a fulfilled life if love and family is not in the cards? [more inside]
Dog types and characteristics unique to asia
This article says that there is more variety in Asian dogs than in western dogs and that there are some dog types and characteristics that are unique to Asia. What are they? The article talks about DNA diversity, but doesn't talk very much about how the differences are actually expressed.
posted by empath at 7:46 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by empath at 7:46 AM PST - 4 comments
Ooooooh! Gross! Can't Finish Reading This!
A recent question asked for recommendations for "trash" reading. I am also interested in reading some "trash", particularly horror or suspense trash, but I am squeamish. Please hope me. [more inside]
posted by wittgenstein at 7:39 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by wittgenstein at 7:39 AM PST - 17 comments
Man's Search for the Right Book About Depression
I'm looking for a book about depression for a smart fella who has been feeling down. [more inside]
cost for main sewer line fix?
[main sewer line]: looks like we may have a block. how much should it cost to fix? [more inside]
posted by anya32 at 7:27 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by anya32 at 7:27 AM PST - 3 comments
Finding a Dead Geocities Site
Help me find my old Geocities (probably) site. [more inside]
When should I get a home equity loan?
With someone with recuperating credit, how long should I wait to get a home equity loan? [more inside]
One cup of sugar...or whatever is around.
If I'm significantly short on white sugar in a recipe, can I make it up with other types of sugar? [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 5:47 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 5:47 AM PST - 24 comments
Annual review advice?
It's annual review season! Looking for some guidance on getting through, with a few parameters inside. [more inside]
Meet me slopeside in three weeks.
What is the best way to get two snowboards (and associated gear) from Seattle, Washington to Aspen, Colorado if we don't know where we will be staying while there? Flying with the snowboards would be hugely inconvenient, since travel plans include two continents and several cities with extended stopovers before we eventually meet up in Aspen for NYE.
Why is our our shitting in the bed?
One of our dogs has shat in the bed twice in a month. There's no reason I can see for this. Any ideas? [more inside]
Help! I've been framed!
Apparently a photo frame company is using a picture of me (taken by my photographer friend) as the sample image in their photo frames. And while I'm totally flattered... this isn't legal, right? [more inside]
posted by lovedbymarylane at 3:26 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by lovedbymarylane at 3:26 AM PST - 12 comments
I can't sleep dammit.
Klonopin (clonazepam) withdrawal and insomnia. How do I get to sleep? [more inside]
December 4
With whom are we sharing the rest of eternity?
If I've gotten the right impression, much of our currently visible universe will eventually be expanded away from us, never to be seen again. Do we already know how much and what parts of our present neighborhood we'll be left huddling with?
posted by Anything at 11:57 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Anything at 11:57 PM PST - 12 comments
Five tons of flax!
What do I do with all this extra flax seed oil? [more inside]
Is it even possible to register a domain in the Cook Islands?
I want to register a domain in the Cook Islands but emails to Oyster keep bouncing. Has anyone registered a domain in the Cook Islands? Do you know the secret handshake? [more inside]
Japanese 7-eleven soup?
Last December I was in Japan and I enjoyed the 7-Eleven soup they had. Pretty much all the 7-11's had the same soup, in a stand usually by the cash register, they would have other stuff you could add to the soup; fish balls, meat on sicks, noodles, ect... The soup would be already hot and you served yourself.
My questions is what is that called? And where could I get something like it in Vancouver, BC?
posted by Iax at 10:18 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Iax at 10:18 PM PST - 7 comments
Depression.
My depression is slowly destroying me and I need it to stop. Please tell me it will get better. Also tell me what you did and how it has worked so I know there's hope. [more inside]
Changing jobs at short notice in the UK?
I am in the UK. I am currently employed, but have accepted a new job with a start date early Jan. I am wondering how to gracefully(?) resign in a way that won't screw my finances? [more inside]
What to do in Chicago with a child
What to do in Chicago with 10-year old daughter tomorrow? [more inside]
posted by Dragonness at 9:51 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Dragonness at 9:51 PM PST - 14 comments
Help my husband tell time.
Watch-filter. I have special snowflake requirements for a wristwatch to give as a gift. [more inside]
Programming sites for kids.
Java for children? [more inside]
Where have all of my file notes gone?
How can I recover missing spotlight comments in Mac OS X, Version 10.6.8? [more inside]
posted by Kimothy at 9:26 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kimothy at 9:26 PM PST - 9 comments
Peanut-allergy friendly travel options from Boston to Detroit?
I need to travel from Boston, MA to Detroit, MI to visit my family this Christmas break. I'm faced with three options - fly, bus, or drive. I have a severe peanut allergy, so I'm trying to choose the safest option for me (with a preference for shorter travel times). In particular, how safe might Greyhound bus and United Airlines be for the peanut-allergic? Fellow allergics, would wearing a surgical mask help? Personal stories welcome. [more inside]
posted by Earl the Polliwog at 9:15 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by Earl the Polliwog at 9:15 PM PST - 29 comments
Great Car Bluetooth Adapters
Help my dad get the best bluetooth car adapter! [more inside]
how to self invite without self inviting
I'd like to invite myself to see an old friend, without actually inviting myself. how to do it without looking like an inconsiderate boob? [more inside]
posted by camdan at 8:41 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by camdan at 8:41 PM PST - 9 comments
What on earth do I give my grandad for Christmas?
What should I give my grandad for Christmas? [more inside]
iPad 2 FaceTime AirPlay mirroring on Apple TV?
Long story short: does iPad 2 mirroring via AirPlay to an Apple TV work for FaceTime chats? There was news about it when iOS 5 was in beta but I can't seem to find a definite yes or no about the final product.
posted by DoctorFedora at 7:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by DoctorFedora at 7:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Dad Sure Needs Expensive Tools...
With holiday gift guides in magazines, what is the process like? [more inside]
Great gloves for cameraman?
I'd like to buy my favorite news cameraman some great gloves for Christmas. Something that will keep his hands warm on the 3:00 pm to midnight shift and won't get in the way. Any recommendations?
What to buy my Swedish housemate spending Christmas in Australia?
One of my housemates is Swedish and is missing her family a lot this holiday season. I'd like to make or buy her something that will remind her of Sweden at Christmas time, but don't have the slightest clue what that would be. Enlighten me! [more inside]
What thought-provoking things can I give my Dad for Christmas?
For Christmas, I want to give my Dad a collection of thought-provoking, idea-filled things to read or listen to - things that inspire discussion, reflection, imagination, and curiosity. His specific preferences and a few ideas I've had already are inside. [more inside]
A spot to help me Spotify?
A spot to help me Spotify? New to Spotify, and just don't have time to build my own playlists. I also would like to be turned on to new music, so finding playlists would be really helpful. I have tried to search on Spotify itself but cant find anything except for the 123 top lists. And the streaming by choosing a genre is good but I'm wondering where else to go. (also after listening to spotify all day at work, the genre streaming seems to repeat, much like satellite radio). I googled a few sites for playlists but they are meh - either hard to search, or filter - or just bad, so thought I'd ask the hive. thanks ps. i did read the archives for related, and looked up mentioned sites but still querying you
Fun Cocktail napkins in London?
Where can one buy fun paper cocktail napkins in the UK? (I live in the US, and want to buy as a gag gift for someone in London) [more inside]
A Car Lost in Brooklyn
A friend who is in the midst of a serious study cram moved his car in Brooklyn and now cannot find it. Can anyone think of a way to go about finding it? [more inside]
posted by quine's_gavagai at 4:28 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by quine's_gavagai at 4:28 PM PST - 12 comments
Can someone with a caution for possession of cannabis go on holiday to the USA?
I was cautioned (not convicted) for possession of cannabis in 2003 in the UK. I understand that the USA is not very friendly towards people with drugs "offences" on their record and I'm wondering if I will have trouble travelling to Hawaii (via a four-day stopover in San Francisco) in the middle of next year.
Please no litter issues!
Help! I've moved, and the litter box is now optional. [more inside]
Because all opinions are equally true—except mine is inspired by God.
What are the "rules" for "God told me...," "The voice of god," and other hard to believe personal experiences in creative non-fiction writing? [more inside]
Is a Mac Mini a viable illustration tool?
I'm a commercial artist wanna-be. I've tried to go my own way, but I'm tired of being on the outside, looking in. Would getting a Mac Mini help me in my quest to break into illustration? [more inside]
Oh, oh, fake mistletoe
Best fake mistletoe to order online or pick up in NYC? [more inside]
Please explain forgiveness to me
What sort of toys should I get for Toys for Tots kids?
What's the best Toys for Tots contribution? [more inside]
posted by bonecrusher at 3:44 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bonecrusher at 3:44 PM PST - 8 comments
Hope me Mefites! He's my heroin.
How can I break an addiction to a person? [more inside]
How to clean a microfiber couch
We've got a microfiber sofa and it's starting to look pretty dingy. How do I clean this thing up? [more inside]
Just can't wait to get on the road again...
What jobs involve spending most of the time driving across the country, that AREN'T truck driving? [more inside]
How to get my hiking backpack on a plane
I'm going to Guatemala next semester and I want to bring a hiking backpack instead of a suitcase. What do I need to know about getting it through the airport and plane flight in one piece? [more inside]
posted by raeka at 2:24 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by raeka at 2:24 PM PST - 18 comments
Your Insight to What Can Jump Start a Person Out of a Hopeless State
I have sputtered down into a rather listless scary hopeless state. I have depression which I am being treated for. My question... What has gotten you up or moving ahead when in the darkest pit? I am taking things about 1 hr at a time right now and was doing conventional things as best I could like exercise and spiritual things, but it is like a watch that has stopped. I guess I want to know what has helped you, no matter how tangential it may seem. I appreciate your time and responses. (I suspect there may have been other links on MeFi over the years on this as this is the human condition and I apologize in advance if it seems like I have been to lazy to look. It has taken me 1 hr to even compose this question.)
Is my modem dying?
Is my modem dying or is my ISP to blame for my connectivity woes? [more inside]
What are your kitchen essentials?
Let's say you're starting from scratch and outfitting a minimalist kitchen. What do you buy? [more inside]
I tried jogging, but the ice kept falling out of my glass
Physically fit mefites, what do you think of Kettler exercise bikes, specifically this versus this? [more inside]
Looking for some WordPress website advice!
How do i position the 'Share' options to the right of the 'Categories' line on my Wordpress website? [more inside]
Do multigrain hot cereal mixes have a nutritional advantage?
Do multigrain hot cereal mixes have a nutritional advantage over single whole grains (i.e. oatmeal)? [more inside]
Uses for a Zoom H2?
Can the hivemind come up with creative uses for a decent audio recorder? [more inside]
Those LOLCats are fun, but I want to know what their real names are.
Are there any pet brag sites I can visit to read about and see pictures of other peoples' animals? [more inside]
posted by TooFewShoes at 12:45 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by TooFewShoes at 12:45 PM PST - 15 comments
Helping children cope with adversity
I need help supporting my daughter who is upset following a stranger than life moment. I want to learn about famous people who were perhaps looked over when they were younger but then went on to do amazing things for humanity. I'd also be interested in hearing stories that are closer to everyday life if you ever felt you were ripped off when you were younger and now you have been able to use that experience and overcome adversity. [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 12:01 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 12:01 PM PST - 39 comments
How do I trick myself into thinking I have less cash on hand?
Budget Hacks Filter: I need to pretend I have less money than I do. [more inside]
Bored with my hair
Could you suggest a good hairstyle for my face shape? [more inside]
posted by peacheater at 11:22 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by peacheater at 11:22 AM PST - 20 comments
What should I do about my cat's love bites?
How should I respond to my cat's playful nipping? [more inside]
posted by brina at 11:15 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by brina at 11:15 AM PST - 11 comments
Learning to love sport again
How do I get over my feelings of fear and shame with physical activity? [more inside]
Dressing à la française, on the cheap.
Please help me find cheap, reasonably stylish clothes in France. [more inside]
Elderly cat with lump on inner cheek inside mouth
I've got a 14-year-old male indoor cat with a large lump inside his mouth, on his cheek. He doesn't seem to notice or care much—he's been eating/drinking and behaving normally (alpha male). He accidentally bites down on it sometimes and causes it to bleed. It's not a substantial amount of blood, but that doesn't seem healthy. [more inside]
posted by autoclavicle at 10:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by autoclavicle at 10:28 AM PST - 9 comments
Tips for a backpacking trip to death valley?
First time backcountry camping in the desert. I'll be biking and hiking. Any tips from people who've gone on similar trips? [more inside]
School me on the drum-and-bass scene: where, and when?
Help me find a quality drum and bass/jungle festival to attend in the next 12-24 months (or a fun city to visit with weeklies/clubs/options for hearing a variety of heavy, bass-driven music... but not so much dubstep). Preferably somewhere in Canada or the U.S.; other ideas welcome, as long as they're worthwhile and not scary-expensive. [more inside]
Floppy Disk Preservation
What is the best way to preserve 3.5" floppies? [more inside]
I don't need to make a cow-dung Madonna, I do need to get over my fear of making something that someone won't like.
I want to move on and grow and get better, but I feel like I'm at the foot of Everest. Help me not hate my art. How can I find the courage to make the art that I need to make in order to feel fulfilled and honest in my work? [more inside]
Is there a Korean version of Chinasmack?
Is there a Korean version of Chinasmack (nsfw here and there)? That is, is there a site that provides English summaries and translations of popular Korean sites? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 9:00 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 9:00 AM PST - 6 comments
Help us have a Wales of a time in Cardiff.
My husband has been offered an excellent new jon in Wales. We are from Minneapolis, MN. I am curious: what does it mean to be from/live in Wales? [more inside]
Should I cancel my LSAT score?
Should I cancel my LSAT score? I got a nosebleed during the last section. [more inside]
Help me better use HBO/Showtime
I'm looking for a website that pulls the list of currently running movies on premium channels (HBO/Showtime) and combines it with ratings data pulled from imdb or rotten tomatoes or something similar. [more inside]
New one-main-person business website: "I" or "We"?
After nearly a year of being unemployed and looking for that perfect job, I've decided instead to start my own business. It is set up as a sole proprietorship, but I will be collaborating with a bunch of fellow freelancers as their services become necessary (video editors, etc). On my website (which is set up as the name of my company), I have been using "we" to describe the work. "We have ten years of experience" "We have a specific passion for telling stories", etc.
I'm not trying to fool anyone (my "about us" page basically says "this company is SoftLord, and also other awesome freelance partners"), but I'm having a difficult time figuring out the proper language to use. I've been going back and forth on this with fellow solopreneurs (yeah, I know) and there hasn't been any consensus.
Is this disingenuous? Should I be using "I" instead? Snowflake inside. [more inside]
posted by softlord at 8:25 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by softlord at 8:25 AM PST - 25 comments
Inter room music streaming, what's the best way?
The best (quality/cost efficacy) method of streaming music from one room to another? [more inside]
posted by Wrick at 8:03 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Wrick at 8:03 AM PST - 9 comments
Octogenarian hip pain
What is wrong with my octogenarian mother's hip? She cannot get out of bed without excruciating pain. [more inside]
posted by any major dude at 7:56 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by any major dude at 7:56 AM PST - 5 comments
Resources for a newcomer to qualitative research?
I've been conducting a service review, and now that I've actually started getting the interviews done I realise that I haven't a clue how to analyse the data. Can anyone help a lost research newbie? [more inside]
Help me see Montpelier in under 8 hours
What should I see/do/eat in Montpelier, VT and surrounding area during a [very] short stay? [more inside]
McKinsey for the Right-Brainers?
McKinsey for the creative type - Are there firms which do 'creative consulting'? [more inside]
How to bear the slow, agonizing death of a great love...
How to bear the slow, agonizing death of a great love... [more inside]
posted by apolune at 4:05 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by apolune at 4:05 AM PST - 26 comments
how to survive long-distance neediness
how needy is too needy in a long-distance relationship? [more inside]
Camera accessory for iPad in Oz?
Where can I buy an iPad camera connection kit between Brisbane and Byron Bay? Non-local details inside. [more inside]
Care package ideas for WoW guildie
Hello! Can you help me think of or find a care package/christmas gift appropriate for:
1) a totally awesome lady
2) that will soon be in Montreal for sex reassignment surgery
3) that I know through World of Warcraft
4) where she is a main tank for my raid.
Thanks in advance!
posted by kavasa at 1:04 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by kavasa at 1:04 AM PST - 12 comments
Sinister Harpsichord Action!?
Do any MeFites out there in Internet-land know where I might be able to find music similar to this World of Warcraft track? [more inside]
December 3
Does a space capsule need to be heated, or cooled?
In a 'typical' space capsule - Apollo, etc. - how do they maintain a constant temperature for the astronauts? Do they have to heat the capsule, to replace heat radiated out to space, or do they have to refrigerate it, against the incoming solar radiation? [more inside]
Name that tune!
Any SeatSniffer fans? the band I mean! searching for a song [more inside]
Help me pick long-sleeved weekend shirts
What should I wear as a nice looking, long-sleeved "weekend shirt"? [more inside]
posted by primethyme at 10:56 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by primethyme at 10:56 PM PST - 19 comments
New Day Rising alternate release?
I thought I read somewhere (here? there?) that there is a alternate release of Husker Du's album New Day Rising with less studio production. Where might I buy such a thing?
Quick way to change google accounts on Chrome
Is there a quick way to change google logins (gmail, youtube, etc) on Chrome? [more inside]
Not your momma's Christmas card
With money being tight this year, I am only going to be able to send cards to my family for Christmas. Where can I find the awesomest Christmas cards ever? [more inside]
posted by Weeping_angel at 9:41 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Weeping_angel at 9:41 PM PST - 13 comments
How do I become a web developer when my portfolio is secret?
I've been working as an IT Guy and part-time web development guru on and off for close to 8 years. I'm looking to take the plunge, and become a full-time web developer, but have virtually nothing in my "portfolio" from those 8 years to show for it. Help! [more inside]
Inn at Little Washington pro tips
Looking for tipping protocol and other pro tips from people who have been to the Inn at Little Washington. [more inside]
Best film festival promotional items?
Film Festival attendees: What are some of the coolest promotional items you've seen at a fest? What are some of the ones that actually made you want to go see the film? I'm planning a promotional strategy for my first film, which will be hitting festivals next year.
Broaching the awkward/weird topic of marriage and divorce
I have a question about broaching the awkward/weird topic of marriage with my current SO. (Warning: I'm providing as much _anonymous_ backstory as I possibly can, please forgive any awkward grammar in view of this) [more inside]
3-2-1 Contax
Is there any kind of market for used Contax SLR equipment? [more inside]
Well What a Rude Thing to Say.
How to establish boundaries with way out of line friends? [more inside]
Vroom Vroom
How do I become one of those people who picks up luxury cars for rich people and drives them cross-country? I think that'd be a great job for me. To quote Rainman, "I'm an excellent driver."
posted by ktoad at 5:43 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by ktoad at 5:43 PM PST - 19 comments
Help me find the photographer of this nature image
This photograph is gorgeous! I would like to know the photographer, and where I can buy a high quality print. I checked TinEye, but didn't see anything that wasn't just imagedumps on sketchy-looking sites...
posted by snowleopard at 5:30 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by snowleopard at 5:30 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me set up a family PC
Teach me how to cook moose so it doesn't end up as cardboard!
Give me your best moose recipes, please! [more inside]
I dip, you dip, we dip
Many years ago, prolly in the late 1980-early 1990s, Bon Appetit published a recipe for the Black Dog Tavern's bar dip. It had cottage cheese, ham and wasabi powder in it. I can't find my copy. Does anyone have this oldie, but goodie, in their recipe file somewhere?
posted by Mittenz at 3:43 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Mittenz at 3:43 PM PST - 2 comments
Multiurl help!
My teacher wife has been using multiurl.com for years to stash links for her students. The site was evidently taken off line, with no warning, due to abuse by spammers. My wife has no backup of the links she had stored there. [more inside]
posted by tomswift at 3:26 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by tomswift at 3:26 PM PST - 10 comments
Passionfruit in Portland?
I recently spent five weeks in Peru. While there, I discovered I love passionfruit. (That is, maracuyá, not grenadilla.) Now I have returned to Oregon, and I miss the stuff. Does anyone out there in Mefi land know where I can buy maracuyá (or any other variety of passionfruit) in Portland?
Travel planning help.
Travel planning dilemma. Plans, friends, itinerary.. help! [more inside]
You know what? The App for That sucks.
Help me not hate my iPhone. [more inside]
How will the Euro die?
Could I get an explanation (as free of political bias and buy-gold-and-ammo hysterics as possible) of how the unraveling of the Euro would go down, how such an unraveling would affect the rich and poor nations of the EU, and what economic impact it would have on the US economy?
Are dedicated snow tires worth it?
We have a Ford E150 van (2005) and are driving from Utah to Oregon. The last time we made this trip in we had to put on chains when crossing the blue mountains around 2003 (via I-84).
Should we get dedicated snow tires this time around? [more inside]
Shave something off the price of razor blades?
What's the best value out there for cartridge razor blades? My husband and I both use the Mach 3, but I just realized the blades cost a ridiculous amount (this time, $3.35 each). Alternatives? [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 1:44 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by kitcat at 1:44 PM PST - 37 comments
What is this person's relationship to me?
Somewhat silly usage question: If I'm someone's research assistant, how can I succinctly describe their relationship to me? [more inside]
posted by dismas at 1:23 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by dismas at 1:23 PM PST - 13 comments
Medical help in Delhi
Suggestions for help finding medical attention/doctor in Delhi? [more inside]
posted by specialk420 at 1:20 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by specialk420 at 1:20 PM PST - 8 comments
It's great and all that I'm getting some in my sleep, but why and why so much?
Why have I been dreaming the same dream for years? (mildly NSFW) [more inside]
What to do when they've stolen your car seats?
Someone broke into my car and stole all the seats! What to do now? [more inside]
posted by Fidel Cashflow at 1:05 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Fidel Cashflow at 1:05 PM PST - 15 comments
Recommendations for an inexpensive unlocked non-smart phone with good voice quality and reception?
Recommendations for an inexpensive unlocked non-smart phone with good voice quality and reception? [more inside]
Can I de-google without too much pain?
I'm thinking about de-google-fying my internet life. Has anyone else done this? Can anyone give me some resources for alternatives, particularly to gmail, which have the same ease of use as their google-equivalent? [more inside]
Will crayon stained clothes ruin my other clothes?
A crayon in the dryer ruined a whole load of my son's clothes. I want to keep some of them even though they are covered in crayon stains. If I wash and dry them with other non-stained clothes, will the stains (the color or the waxiness) transfer to the good clothes? [more inside]
posted by peep at 12:46 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by peep at 12:46 PM PST - 11 comments
Word Counts by Author in Microsoft Word
Is there a way in microsoft word to count words by author (based on accepted revisions) in a final document?
How can I donate to animal charity without being added to a list
How can I donate to a cause without increasing the amount of mail I receive? [more inside]
Bachelorette gift help!
Help! Best friend's bachelorette party in less than 48 hours and I still have no idea what gift to get her... [more inside]
can gain access to what my father left behind?
some years back my father was re-married before his death. my father did not have a will in place and i am his only child. after his death the women he married ended contact with me sharing none of my fathers belongings etc. at the time i felt wronged, and as a young man i could not afford legal representation.
many years (over ten) have gone by, and i have mostly moved on with my life trying not to think of these events, but there still is a bit of anger inside. as his only child and living blood relation is there any way legally that i can gain access to as much as old photographs, clothing, or whatever small momentos that remain in her custody?
How do I obtain a license to publish another company's old, non-monetized software?
I'm interested in obtaining a license to distribute a modified version of someone else's software from a large multinational corporation. How would I go about doing this? What sort of contracts would I need, who should I contact, and how can I ensure that I get the best deal? [more inside]
Looking for instructions for a magic trick/puzzle involving rope, tube, & washers.
Can you help me find instructions for a magic trick or illusion that involves 2 or more ropes going through a large tube? (I believe the ropes are linked by washers inside, and so by discreet pinching, the user can produce baffling effects when a mark pulls on a rope.) [more inside]
posted by chr1sb0y at 10:52 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by chr1sb0y at 10:52 AM PST - 3 comments
Can you help me to diagnose this odd visual/neuro problem that I am having?
I am having these dizziness/mental/perception issues that I need help diagnosing. I will see a doctor as soon as it is possible for me. I am looking for some insight. [more inside]
How to have sex when you suffer from eurotophobia
I want to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I have an extreme phobic reaction to both genitalia and vaginal penetration. How can I possibly overcome this? [more inside]
Movie showtimes for July 1978 in Minneapolis/St Paul
I'm trying to fill in details about some movies my family saw on a trip we took in July 1978 to Minneapolis/St Paul. My brother and I have some conflicting memories and I'm trying to track down the truth. [more inside]
How are you paid in a commission-based job??
I'm looking for anecdata about the wage structure for jobs that have hourly pay plus tips or commissions. [more inside]
Advice on selling collections from an estate
I'm looking for general and specific advice about striking a balance between value and ease in selling a few disparate items from an estate. [more inside]
posted by Luke Skywalker at 10:29 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Luke Skywalker at 10:29 AM PST - 6 comments
ProTips for academic job negotiations
To continue in the series of academic job hunting posts - protips for negotiating an academic position. [more inside]
posted by k8t at 10:28 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by k8t at 10:28 AM PST - 23 comments
Unless I initiate, there's no talking. Is this normal?
I've always had to initiate nearly all [online] conversations I've ever had. I would like to do something about it. [more inside]
My friend is very troubled and I don't know how to help.
Can you give me any advice on how to help my very troubled friend? She seems to be very despairing but I can't convince her to see a therapist. [more inside]
Help me get followers please
I have been tasked by my boss to look into legit vendors of services to: increase our facebook fan page likes, and increase our twitter followers. Take it as a given that I have already tried to dissuade him, and help me at least execute the task as best as possible. Ideally, i am looking for services that actually help you get real people and not fake accounts or spam bots, etc.
How to Reconcile Faith and Mental Illness
My ex-boyfriend's schizophrenia turned me into an atheist (more or less), but that loss of faith kind of took me by surprise. I'm still thinking about it sometimes, and wondering how religious people reconcile themselves with the idea of a mental illness that produces religious experiences? [more inside]
posted by brisquette at 10:11 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by brisquette at 10:11 AM PST - 26 comments
How consistent is Wal-Mart quality from store to store?
In terms of merchandise quality, do Wal-Mart stores vary much from place to place? [more inside]
posted by LonnieK at 9:44 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by LonnieK at 9:44 AM PST - 5 comments
Easier way to put a fitted sheet on a daybed?
Is there an easy way to put a fitted sheet on a daybed similar to this one? My current method involves pulling the mattress off of the bed, putting on the sheet, and then putting the mattress back on the bed, which is too much work and still results in messy sheets. I don't have anyone to help me. (Oh, and my sheets are elastic-all-around, if that makes a difference.)
How can I connect with startup mobile game developers?
I'm a composer. How can I connect with startup mobile game developers? [more inside]
Where can I get a gorgeous white ink tattoo in Washington, D.C.?
Where is the best place to get a white ink tattoo in the Washington, D.C. area? [more inside]
Non-cheap, non-cheesy gifts for an office.
Do you work in an office? What's the best gift you've gotten from a vendor? [more inside]
posted by TallulahBankhead at 8:36 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by TallulahBankhead at 8:36 AM PST - 30 comments
help me get back into console gaming!
So I used to game a lot as a kid. PC gaming, SNES and Nintendo 64 and Playstation - went I went off to college, I basically stopped playing console games (cause I knew I needed to focus on school!). Now 10 years later, I'd like to get back into it.... [more inside]
posted by waylaid at 7:56 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by waylaid at 7:56 AM PST - 29 comments
How do I form lasting relationships with coworkers?
How do I form lasting relationships with my coworkers? [more inside]
posted by ejfox at 7:42 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by ejfox at 7:42 AM PST - 13 comments
Online Resources for Academics?
I'm making a list of online apps and resources for academics – anything to help increase productivity, manage information, help with referencing and citation, class management or planning (more for instructors and TAs than students), research tools... maybe even smart phone applications. Any suggestions/recommendations? [more inside]
posted by taz at 7:29 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by taz at 7:29 AM PST - 18 comments
antisocial personality disorder vs. psychopath vs. sociopath?
I need help explaining the differences among antisocial personality disorder, psychopathy, and sociopathy. Any explanations or resources that will help clarify the differences are welcome.
Looking for a financial advisor based in UK if possible ?
Can anybody recommend a financial advisor based in the UK? [more inside]
High Speed Dubbing
When dubbing English language TV shows/movies, does the same actor voice the same actor's roles? Or does, say, Tom Cruise have a different German voice in each movie? [more inside]
Where to go in south Japan?
I am in Naoshima, Japan. Getting here was a lovely surprise as this particular destination was not planned. Tomorrow we are supposed to leave for Kyoto, but we could gladly change our plans for some other less touristy or more intereting areas.
Do you have any recommendations to do in South Japan?
I miss my ex-girlfriend when we break up, but I want to be single when we're together?
I miss my ex-girlfriend when we break up, but I want to be single when we're together? [more inside]
posted by Snorlax at 12:43 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Snorlax at 12:43 AM PST - 20 comments
December 2
Seeking: Mentor/Protege
Recommendations for stories about the mentor/protege dynamic that are sexy. Bonus points if both parties are female. [more inside]
What if...I'm lacking inspiration?
Need some good "what if...?" sayings! [more inside]
Brainstorming problems with regular gifts from friend
Off the top of your head, what are the potential pitfalls with a friend giving me a regular gift of money? [more inside]
What books should I read that will appeal to my interests and look impressive on an honours political science application?
I am applying for my school’s undergraduate honours political science program next semester. The application requires a description of specific interests in and outside of the field, including readings. What should I read that will appeal to my interests and impress the admissions folk? [more inside]
posted by Kingsk at 8:14 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Kingsk at 8:14 PM PST - 11 comments
Slovak grandma sayings
How do you spell "hunsit"? It is Slovak word my Dad and his mom used to describe naughty child behavior or a little naughty kid. I would say it is a noun. I can't find it anywhere. Anybody know?
Is "pooka" something in slovak too?
posted by mgogol at 8:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mgogol at 8:04 PM PST - 6 comments
How to ask for phone numbers
How do I ask for a woman's phone number in a non-creepy way? [more inside]
Is it legal to charge people to use my home theater (rent it out)?
Is it legal to charge people to use my home theater (rent it out)? I have a home theater. It's pretty friggin' sweet if I do say so myself - gazillion inch screen, state of the art surround system, 12 theater seats, etc. I built it myself. I know that movies always have those warnings at the beginning but I am not charging people to see a specific movie, I am just charging them for use of the room for a specified period of time.
I need well-designed spaced repitition to repeat German things to me.
Is there a website or computer program that uses spaced repetition to help users build language vocabulary, and (perhaps more importantly) is completely free? I used to use smart.fm to help me learn German, but stopped when it became non-free. Now my knowledge of German words is almost as stingy as I am. [more inside]
How do I substitute regular lasagna noodles for no-boil ones?
How do I substitute regular lasagna noodles for no-boil ones? [more inside]
posted by juliapangolin at 6:29 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by juliapangolin at 6:29 PM PST - 11 comments
And she became a hermit, never checked email again, and lived happily ever after except for the gnawing self doubt and failed dreams.
Sticks and stones can break my bones but unread emails make me want to hide in a closet. Please help me get over my avoidance of communication. Bonus: failed therapy attempt; social outcast complications. [more inside]
posted by griselda at 6:27 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by griselda at 6:27 PM PST - 27 comments
Is this a cat emergency?
Yesterday or the day before I noticed one of my cats was squinting a little in one eye. Then she started producing thick yellow goop. This morning there was a lot more thick yellow goop. This evening I noticed the nictating membrane of that eye is a little pinker and more swollen than the other one. She is having no trouble breathing and her appetite, thirst, and energy are normal. I don't have a lot of money. How urgent is this situation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:00 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by anonymous at 6:00 PM PST - 19 comments
Holiday Sweets for Fellow Students
Two part question: 1) What attractive, low-fuss, preferably holiday-themed sweet can I make in bulk this weekend, and 2) what would be a creative and attractive packing solution for these said sweets? [more inside]
How do I get a stuck videocassette out of my VCR?
A VHS video cassette is stuck in my VCR. How do I get it out? [more inside]
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 5:42 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 5:42 PM PST - 7 comments
Like Letters from Iwo Jima, but in book form
Are there any books/movies/tales about heroism from the losing sides of WWII? [more inside]
Matter cannot be created or destroyed.
If you are going to be out of the house for a few days, does it make any sense to turn the heat down? My engineering-OCD has been bugging me on this one. [more inside]
PTBFR Allergy: Wha?
I have just found out I am allergic to paratertiary butylphenol formaldehyde resin (PTBFR). Now what am I supposed to wear on my feet? [more inside]
What new things should I do on my birthday?
I want to spend my 30th birthday doing 30 things I've never done before. Can you help me think of some things? [more inside]
Which ipad & apps should we give Pops?
Which ipad and apps for an easily bored father with few interests? [more inside]
posted by theplotchickens at 3:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by theplotchickens at 3:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Ugh.
My very new computer just got zonked with a virus that won't allow me to download anything, such as the $70 worth of Norton Anti-Virus I tried to download. Please help. [more inside]
posted by TheRedArmy at 3:24 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by TheRedArmy at 3:24 PM PST - 16 comments
Kindle vs. iPad for the courtroom?
What tablet device should I buy to help me be more productive and efficient in the courtroom? I'm really tempted by the low price tag on the Kindle Fire but I'm a little worried at all the negative reviews. [more inside]
posted by Happydaz at 3:05 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Happydaz at 3:05 PM PST - 19 comments
Un-Christmas Ornaments
I'm looking for some cool, non-Christmas-y ornaments for a Christmas tree. Any specific suggestions for where I could find some or what to include? [more inside]
posted by coolguymichael at 2:41 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by coolguymichael at 2:41 PM PST - 29 comments
Can I/How do I fall back in lust?
Can I/how do I fall back in lust? [more inside]
When I say year 2000, you say 3900, wait, what?
Recently doing more and more work in java and am wondering why was Java's getYear function was deprecated in favor of the seemingly more cumbersome and error prone "Calendar.get(Calendar.Year) - 1900" ? [more inside]
posted by nomisxid at 2:34 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by nomisxid at 2:34 PM PST - 7 comments
Shopping, MetaFilter style.
MeFites, what is your favorite place to get a good pair of jeans, under $30? [more inside]
word to wiki importing?
Converting MS Word files (2003, 2007 with images) into a dokuwiki easily? [more inside]
Trying to find the well at Northern Illinois University
There was/is a well at Northern Illinois University in DeKalb, Illinois. I met my perfect little wife there 15 years ago. For Christmas, I'm trying to find a picture of it, but I cannot remember where it is on campus. Does anyone either know where it is, or know where I can find a picture? Thanks and Merry Christmas.
posted by dabradfo at 1:55 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by dabradfo at 1:55 PM PST - 3 comments
Yes, but can it hold my bag 'o dehydrated brains to snack on?
I have a Lenovo X220. I need a laptop sleeve. What are the hivemind's favorite ones? [more inside]
My pet Sound question
Despite taking several physics classes many years ago I don't think I understand how sound works. I was watching the excellent Behind the Sounds video about creating "Wouldn't It Be Nice" and thinking about how all those instruments at different registers ultimately are just recorded as one wave (in mono) or at most two (in stereo) that hit the ear. How can one wave carry such a density of information (like the Beach Boys) yet only carry information based on frequency, wave length and intensity? How can I tell that there are all these instruments when I only hear one wave?
Advice for dying hair silver
I'm going to bleach my hair and dye part of it silver tomorrow, and I've got a couple of questions. [more inside]
posted by daisyk at 1:27 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by daisyk at 1:27 PM PST - 12 comments
The flu is gone, but my lungs still aren't working... doctor again?
YANMD... I had the flu about 3 weeks ago. I'm feeling much better now except I'm still coughing and wheezing. I have asthma, my inhaler works... But I'm using it more than I ever have. How long should I wait until I go back to the doctors? [more inside]
posted by patheral at 12:56 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by patheral at 12:56 PM PST - 14 comments
Bangkok flooding?
Is anyone here from Bangkok? I'm planning on visiting in January for a medical procedure. How bad is the flooding right now? Would you advise me against visiting in January? Also, I can't speak Thai, if that's relevant. Thanks.
Help me name my British blog.
Help me come up with a name for my new Brit-themed blog and podcast. [more inside]
Disappearing FF bookmarks
Wanted: same FF bookmark in diferent folders. When bookmarking a URL, Firefox appears to check if the URL already has been bookmarked in any FF folder in the past. If so, FF identifies the previous folder in the Page Bookmarked popup, removes the bookmark from that previous folder and puts it into the newly selected folder choice. Is there any way to force the same URL to be bookmarked in multiple folders (short of manually tracking down the original bookmark, duplicating it, and copying it to the second folder)? This "feature" seems to be URL based, so it doesn't work to change the name of the bookmark intended for the new folder in order to keep the URL from disappearing from the original folder. Win7, Firefox 8.0.1
Help me find GLBT blogs
Help me make a list of GLBT blogs. [more inside]
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
Can I use a CrockPot as a room humidifier?
Could I use a Crock-Pot as a room humidifier? [more inside]
Resilience when the schedule changes.
How do I bounce back more quickly when plans go awry? [more inside]
Halong is it gonna take for me to find a good tour company?
A friend and I will be in Hanoi in January. We want to do an awesome trip in Halong Bay. How? [more inside]
Film suggestions
Watched the UK film "Fish Tank" the other night and I'm looking for similar movies. Movies dealing w/ or featuring prominently the lives of those in social housing. Suggestions? Thank you in advance.
Trapped by the closet
#ShallowFilter! I can pretty much wear whatever I want to work. You'd think this was a good thing! But no, it is a horrible curse. I now own So. Much. Clothing, but I feel like I never have anything to wear, and I think it's because I have too many options. Help me re-learn how to clothe myself. [more inside]
posted by firstbest at 10:50 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by firstbest at 10:50 AM PST - 22 comments
Help me manage a long-distance job hunt!
I'm a 2L at a third tier law school in one part of the middle of nowhere. My same-sex partner is from a very different middle of nowhere that has distinguished itself as one of the sorts of middles of nowhere that we can actually get married in. We are provisionally considering moving. The job market's bad enough already, so... help! [more inside]
Will pregnancy be a pre-existing condition if I'm moving to the US from a country with national health care?
Is pregnancy a pre-existing condition if you're moving from a country with national health insurance? [more inside]
Inexpensive wedding venue (NYC) help.
My very low maintenance cousin and her even lower maintenance fiance is getting married in 4 months!! The only thing they really care about is the date. As far as planning goes, they still pretty much need everything. Most importantly a venue. She'd prefer something in Brooklyn or Queens (NYC). Budget is a major concern. [more inside]
How 'come I can remove a Win(7) system from our domain on the client side without permissions?
How 'come it appears that I can 'remove' a system from our Windows domain (w/ win 7 clients, server 2008 r2) on the client side - without requiring any user name or password that is known to the server? [more inside]
Guitar recommendations, give me yours!
Electric guitar for small hands, help me choose one? [more inside]
How do I explain being separated to future dates?
How/when do I explain that I'm separated to dates/on dates? I'm a good person, really! [more inside]
Coping with emotionally difficult work
I have a very emotionally intense job, which combined with my natural introversion and lack of formal training in this field, has always been a challenge for me. Now I'm six months pregnant and crying at my desk every day. What are some resources for learning how to deal with difficult emotional work? How do social workers and crisis intervention workers learn to handle the constant barrage of tragedy? How do I get through the rest of my pregnancy like this? [more inside]
Connecting Multiple USB Microphones to a Mac Laptop
I need to find the best way to connect more than one microphone (probably two but it could be up to four) to a Mac laptop. I don't need studio quality but will be capturing voices and I'd like them to sound decent. The signal from the mics would need to be seen by Flash, for teleconferencing, and by the basic Apple OS applications (Quicktime, Garage Band, etc.) Is it possible to connect more than one USB microphone at a time, perhaps through a hub? If not, is there a simple external digital mixer that I can use? Is there an on-line store that specializes in this type of audio?
And is the a wireless USB option?
Does anyone have simple paper-based technical support ticket they could share?
Does anyone have simple paper-based technical support ticket they could share? I've become the default tech support person and the interruptions are making it difficult to get my own work done. A Word or Excel document I could edit would be great. [more inside]
posted by fishpatrol at 9:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by fishpatrol at 9:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Excel for People who don't know anything
Excel issue. Tried looking on the internet, had no success. Can y'all help? Selecting and deleting multiple nonadjacent rows. [more inside]
posted by crush-onastick at 9:05 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by crush-onastick at 9:05 AM PST - 18 comments
Chip-and-pin cards in the U.S.?
How can I get a chip-and-pin card in the United States? [more inside]
Loud soungs with some folk and not about mashed potatoes
Folksy, loud, strong music. Is this a genre? I recently discovered this song, and would like to find more with a similar sound. [more inside]
Number of nuclear cardiologists in Europe?
How would I go about finding the total number of nuclear cardiologists in Europe?
Ported from AT&T to VZW, having problems
Major weird issues porting lines (iPhone to iPhone) from AT&T to Verizon. Please halp! [more inside]
Going to the courthouse and we're gonna get married
Stay single or get married for tax purposes? [more inside]
posted by angab at 8:36 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by angab at 8:36 AM PST - 10 comments
Kinder Surprise Collector Callout!
Does anyone have information about collecting Kinder Surprise Toys in Canada or getting German goods into Canada affordably? [more inside]
What can I design?
I enjoy design, but what different, disparate roles would give me the satisfaction of being a designer? That's 'design' in the most abstract sense - I'm looking for wide-ranging, wild ideas. [more inside]
posted by Kirn at 8:24 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Kirn at 8:24 AM PST - 11 comments
What movies talk about recording life events?
Help me identify movies that feature the recording of one's life events. I am looking to develop a strategy for a website or an app like Path, and I would like to include references to movies. [more inside]
posted by jacobw at 8:17 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by jacobw at 8:17 AM PST - 15 comments
What math flash card game did I play in school?
What math flash card game, which required you to use each of four numbers on a card to get to one fixed answer each time, did I play in grammar school? [more inside]
posted by AgentRocket at 8:17 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by AgentRocket at 8:17 AM PST - 5 comments
The future of news?
Best magazine (newspaper, or other publication) for tablet? [more inside]
Help me figure out how to ask for dough
Salary (re)negotiation 101: How can I figure out what to ask for, and what to avoid? [more inside]
Am I asking too much?
Help me sort through my relationship issues. Am I asking too much? [more inside]
Becoming a Quaker?
Tell me about being a Quaker. [more inside]
Help me be peppy!
I need more energy - how can I stop being tired and have the strength and will to get more done? Tell me what I'm doing wrong and give me your tips for being energetic - lots of snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Tips for keeping a clean apartment
I'm a lazy slob, so I gradually fill my apartment with clutter, misplaced items, and occasionally a bit of trash. Now that I've finished my annual cleaning, I figure that the only way to keep my apartment neat and organized is to make keeping it clean about as easy as making it messy. Do people have any tips or useful items to help do that?
posted by JohnnyB at 7:07 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by JohnnyB at 7:07 AM PST - 35 comments
Looking for visual histories, photography books, or coffee table style books you really enjoyed that are under $20!
Looking for visual histories, photography books, or coffee table style books you really enjoyed that are under $20! [more inside]
Show me the light
I've been invited to a Solstice party. The invitation says, "Please come with a symbol of light, wrapped to give away, and something to read about light, original or found." Nothing is popping into my head except a candle... and I already know someone bringing a candle. Ideas? Ideas for readings? I could do a Google search for either thing, but I'd be overwhelmed with results, I think. (And maybe there is a way to wrap the gift that goes along with the theme?)
posted by trillian at 5:57 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by trillian at 5:57 AM PST - 53 comments
Oh yes, full massage please.
Non-creepy inner thigh massage. Possible? [more inside]
posted by StoneSpace at 5:41 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by StoneSpace at 5:41 AM PST - 8 comments
Why do we start chapters on the right-hand page?
For languages that read left-to-right, what is the history of starting chapters on the right-hand (recto) page? What was the original reason for doing this, and when did we start doing it?
Out-of-this-world amazing scrambled eggs?
I want to make show-stopping scrambled eggs. I want to walk down the street and have people say "There goes the best maker of scrambled eggs that ever lived." What tips (added ingredients, cooking techniques, etc.) might help me get to this goal? What's your secret to spectacular scrambled eggs? [more inside]
Please give me examples of out-thinking ("meta-game" or "leveling") during sports
Please give me examples of out-thinking ("meta-game" or "leveling") during sports [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 4:24 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 4:24 AM PST - 24 comments
Artificially-induced Squigglevision
What would be the easiest way to replicate a jittery/"Squigglevision" animation effect using Photoshop? [more inside]
posted by TheSecretDecoderRing at 3:55 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by TheSecretDecoderRing at 3:55 AM PST - 6 comments
I have no idea who is telling me the truth.
Where can I get a decent breakdown of Government spending and taxation in the UK? In particular, where can I find reliable information about the cost of public workers / pensions. [more inside]
posted by seanyboy at 3:51 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by seanyboy at 3:51 AM PST - 4 comments
Meeting a friend for coffee next week - how and when do I tell her my feelings for her?
Meeting a friend for coffee next week - how and when do I tell her my feelings for her? [more inside]
Best Websites Not from the USA?
While it's true that we can consider the internet as a 'global village', my feeling is that the USA holds the most imposing bias. We can't deny the fact that a huge proportion of the best websites and online services are from the USA or are otherwise USA-centric.
As someone who lives in a far flung part of the world and who enjoys devouring all manner of information from the Web, I do find it frustrating at times that there are not more international sites with influence.
Probably the only exception I can think of may be with News websites such as BBC and Al Jazera.
I would be interested to know what your favourite non-American websites may be, whether they be oriented to your locality but still have useful international relevance, or if they truly are an international player?
December 1
Impact of having kids vs. adoption
I vaguely remember reading an argument that in some situations, giving birth to a kid or two rather than adopting is not particularly worse (perhaps environmentally, or in terms of effects on population growth, or resource consumption, or something along those lines--the big picture/the global future.) Yes, I realize this sounds counterintuitive, but can anyone point me to such an argument? [more inside]
Being dismissed from graduate school and other issues - advice?
I'm in big trouble. Being dismissed from graduate school, have no idea what to do next. Any advice would be appreciated. [more inside]
CSfilter: One-question test to predict if you can learn programming.
A while back, there as a controversial (flamebait) blog post by a CS professor about what predicts success in programming. He had a "one-question" test that he claimed was strongly predictive.
1) The actual question was a "whats the value of variable x" after a few steps of manipulation sort of thing.
2) He interpreted it as meaning "people who get this right actually accept that the computer does exactly what you tell it to, not what you wish it to do"
Help me find this post.
posted by gregglind at 10:09 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by gregglind at 10:09 PM PST - 3 comments
Someone has to deal with this shit
Who should pick up the poop? Owner of the dog, or roommate who gets home first? [more inside]
posted by pluot at 9:31 PM PST - 63 comments
posted by pluot at 9:31 PM PST - 63 comments
Embed a .m3u file?
How can I embed a .m3u file (so that a user can listen to the audio stream) in a website? [more inside]
Must. Hear. Now!
Must find this song or I'll implode. Hunches and clues: Damien Lovelock. Blue or Green feature in the title. Fantastic piano solo - must have the piano! Help me please or I'll I'll I'll.... [more inside]
Descent replacement for Descent?
Please help me find a descent Descent-like game! [more inside]
posted by SquidLips at 9:04 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by SquidLips at 9:04 PM PST - 11 comments
Christmas for San Francisco newcomer.
Celebrating Christmas in San Francisco with new-to-City youngish (20) niece. [more inside]
Connect the Dots for Math Geeks
Help me make an awesome connect-the-dots for middle school math nerds. I'll take care of the math, you take care of the art. Don't let these poor kids be stuck with my cat/walrus. [more inside]
A bar for talking on a Saturday night?
Last minute plans! Tell me the perfect bar in DC for drinking *and talking* this Saturday night. [more inside]
fraud
How do I report a 501c3 non profit that is fraudulant? [more inside]
What to do with commercail almond pulp.
I make orgeat commercially, and am left with a lot of almond "meal" after production. It is tasteless, as all the oil has been removed, however it seems wasteful to just throw it away. Does anyone know if this can be eaten by farm animals, or has any other use?
Help me ward off winter scurvy!
What do you do with frozen vegetables and fruits? (other than use them for ice packs?) [more inside]
Looking for a short PCI video card
Looking for a shorter-than-usual PCI video card that has either composite or s-video out. Anyone know of one that'll work? [more inside]
Sorting Image Thumbs from a pile
Lazy man's image sort: What is the easiest way to grab this batch of image thumbs from my mysql web database to use on my Windows machine? [more inside]
Lock an application open, focused, for a period of time?
Hello,
Is it possible to lock an application open? Say I wanted to use Focuswriter (or some other text editor) for one hour without being able to access anything else (like an internet browser) or shutdown, is there any way to do that on Windows or Linux?
Arrest him DS Jones!
What is the statute of limitations for a juvenile assaulting another juvenile in England. I'm in the US., laid up for a few days and have been watching "Midsommer Murders" on DVD. This would answer a plot point I have.
This is a VERY dangerous town to live in, every show 2 to 3 people die.
Don't go there!
Thanks
How Do I Get Moving on My Final Project?
I'm a graduate student in the middle of creating my final project for the semester. It's due next Wednesday. I think my project sucks, and because of this I don't want to work on it. Help? [more inside]
Keep me from literally freezing my a** off
Searching for women's long underwear bottoms that are compatible with an, ahem, "generous" backside.
I need an insulating, wicking base layer (not cotton) to wear under my fleece pants and snowpants for snowmobiling in Minnesota, in conditions possibly as extreme as, say, -20 F. [more inside]
First, press the Power button.
Help me pick out a new computer for my mom! [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 6:45 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by elizeh at 6:45 PM PST - 13 comments
What is the story of this Jazz story?
Somewhere in the Ken Burns documentary Jazz, a musician who played with John Coltrane remembers a story about Coltrane defending one of his musicians with violence in some way, and then ends the story with the punchline: "You have to be willing to Die for a motherfucker." Who was that speaking? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 6:41 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 6:41 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me join the 760+ club
I'm in my thirties. I've never had a credit card. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
How to stop itching while asleep?
I have a problem with itching at night. How can I stop itching when I'm not even awake? (warning, GonadFilter!) [more inside]
Honestly, guys: are you REALLY sexually satisfied without her orgasm?
They pretty much all want it and I'm feeling very discouraged. Are there HONESTLY men out there who are sexually satisfied if their partner does NOT have an orgasm? [more inside]
Where do they sell massage oil?
Where can I buy massage oil in Toronto (actually Richmond Hill)? [more inside]
posted by feelinggood at 5:49 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by feelinggood at 5:49 PM PST - 5 comments
Beginner bass guitar tips please
Beginner bass guitar tips please [more inside]
The goggles. I'm not sure if they do something.
I ordered new glasses online. I've been wearing them for 4 days and they still seem "off" a little. How long did it take you to get used to new glasses? Is something wrong with these? [more inside]
posted by nakedmolerats at 5:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by nakedmolerats at 5:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Twin Cities Sweet Suite?
Twin Cities Wedding Night Accommodations For Bride and Groom! [more inside]
How do I coil my training rope for carrying around?
I just got this 1.5" by 50' twisted rope and I want to know how a seaworthy veteran might coil this thing up for transporting to and from the gym. [more inside]
Light that isn't there
I'm experiencing strange visual effects on the edge of sleep. Hypnogogic hallucinations or neurological issues? [more inside]
My fear of AIDS is destroying my life
I'm a 28 year old gay male. My fear of AIDS is destroying my life. It's so bad that I don't really want to be gay anymore. [more inside]
posted by Tyrant King Porn Dragon at 4:32 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by Tyrant King Porn Dragon at 4:32 PM PST - 46 comments
the best weird, quirky, or inimitable shops in Brooklyn
What are the best weird, quirky, or inimitable shops in Brooklyn for stocking stuffers? I'm shopping for small gifts.
Help me locate a short science fiction story available online
I'm trying to find a science-fiction story that I saw on a webpage once. I can only remember a few odd miscellaneous details: the author was gay and French, he had a page about his graduate-level math research, and I think his name may have had "David" or "Simon" in it. His webpage was in both English and French, and I'm pretty sure it talked about Alan Turing on part of it. The story itself was based on the premise that the ancient Greeks discovered space travel 2000 years ago and spread throughout the galaxy, creating a galaxy-wide Hellenic-style empire. I believe only the first chapter of the story was written, which was mostly the Earthling protagonist discovering the empire, exposition about its history and politics, and him having sex with some Greek-god-lookalike guy from the Empire. [more inside]
posted by aurochs at 4:29 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by aurochs at 4:29 PM PST - 3 comments
What to make of negative reviews of online merchants?
Appliance shopping online - what to make of the bad apples? [more inside]
Disability accommodation (Ontario, Canada specifically)
To what extent can a company accommodate a disabled person? Ontario, Canada specifically. [more inside]
posted by raintree at 4:21 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by raintree at 4:21 PM PST - 6 comments
Amazon whistleblower contact info?
Amazon employees: is there a whistleblower contact number or otherwise? (Asking for an ex-employee friend) [more inside]
posted by Gucky at 4:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Gucky at 4:12 PM PST - 8 comments
What's Lap Time in Spanish?
Does Forza 4 sold in South America have English Language Support? [more inside]
posted by defcom1 at 3:48 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by defcom1 at 3:48 PM PST - 1 comment
Connect me with music I know little about, please?
Looking to make a couple of custom mixes for my GF as a gift, but her music taste is rather different than mine. Based on her likes noted below, could you please suggest specific songs that may also interest and delight her? [more inside]
posted by Exchequer at 3:38 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Exchequer at 3:38 PM PST - 20 comments
Can Scrivener generate table of contents?
Question for Scrivener users: Is there an easy way to generate a table of contents and/or an index/appendix? It seems like there should be a way to do this, but I haven't found anything.
Thanks!
Rat Killer to Grandmaster
Is there a list of common names used by RPGs to denote levels of power?
Frequently used are Novice, Apprentice, Journeyman, Master, and Grandmaster, but I'm wondering if there are more. [more inside]
posted by The ____ of Justice at 2:37 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by The ____ of Justice at 2:37 PM PST - 14 comments
A tradesman's life for me?
I'm starting to think I'd like to learn a trade, but I don't know which. I have no experience and have been a graphics guy (half corporate, half freelance) since graduating college with a BA in psychology (I'm 37 now). I really like the idea of making something, of being able to fix things, of having a skill that is useful in its own right, and of not sitting in front of a computer all day. I'm willing to go to school and/or apprentice, but I'd like to have the possibility of making decent money (>$60k) after doing it for a 2-3 years. [more inside]
What to do with our kitchen appliances from Australia?
We are in the US - Help me figure out what to do with our kitchen appliances from Australia. [more inside]
I never knew they sold super-balls by the kilo.
Help me take a big bite out of my Christmas shopping. What are some small, cheap, amusing things that I can buy in bulk? [more inside]
Converting a phone into a SPEAKER phone.
Help me use my phone as a small office conference call solution (smartphone/android). [more inside]
posted by yonation at 1:50 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by yonation at 1:50 PM PST - 8 comments
Will the Mormon kids come back to teach me their religion?
Can I get the Mormon kids who stopped by my door the other day back to teach me their religion? [more inside]
posted by akomom at 1:48 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by akomom at 1:48 PM PST - 46 comments
i want to wander around and loot properly please.
Please help with my woefully performing installation of Skyrim. Several problems and my Noob-ular cluelessness inside. [more inside]
I was supposed to call; I didn't, and he freaked out. Is this normal?
I was supposed to call; I didn't, and he freaked out. Is this normal? [more inside]
I was going to make a UDP joke, but didn't think you'd get it.
The dreaming mind
How does my brain know that I'm awake? [more inside]
The Nike of medicine? the Coca Cola of fishing rods?
you are not my attorneyfilter: Is using a trademark (not mine) in my slogan- legal? [more inside]
posted by Izzmeister at 1:19 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Izzmeister at 1:19 PM PST - 9 comments
I need a Slanket without arms, also called a blanket.
What material, exactly, are Slankets made out of? I know I'm looking for polyester fleece, but that's seems to be a very wide category. [more inside]
posted by muddgirl at 12:58 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by muddgirl at 12:58 PM PST - 14 comments
Make me laugh/cry/think for World AIDS Day
What are the best, most moving speeches, images, or articles on the internet about or related to World AIDS Day?
Too sad to be good convo partner?
Ok, so I've been having this problem lately (and I think it's related to my recent depression) where I meet new people and kind of expect that I'll never develop any friendship with them, but then it actually does happen, and I realize in horror that when they bring up previous conversations we've had, I act completely clueless because I didn't bother to remember it in the first place, and they say something like, "Remember we were talking about how my mom lives literally right next door to you?" (seriously, that happened today) and I remember suddenly, but clearly have already made it obvious that I didn't remember it in the first place... That's been happening a lot lately, and I want to know how to recall what I talked about with people more. [more inside]
I was at her home yesterday, for christsakes!
A friend getting married needed something borrowed, I lent her a valuable pin. You know the rest. [more inside]
posted by Tarumba at 12:23 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by Tarumba at 12:23 PM PST - 37 comments
Help me install a shower in place of a toilet.
I have two toilets with standard 4" toilet connections, mounted on a solid concrete floor. I would like to replace one toilet with a shower. Have you done this before? How do I do it? What problems will I face? [more inside]
posted by fake at 12:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by fake at 12:10 PM PST - 10 comments
take this coworker and shove him
I'm leaving my job in part because of a toxic coworker. Do I tell my bosses the real reason for my departure, and how? [more inside]
posted by animalrainbow at 12:00 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by animalrainbow at 12:00 PM PST - 31 comments
What is the most 'radical' movement in American culture today?
I'm trying to figure out which modestly-sized movements are most antithetical to conventional modern day culture (excluding direct political movements - I'm thinking something akin to how Gay Rights were perceived 50+ years ago) [more inside]
posted by pipian at 11:58 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by pipian at 11:58 AM PST - 13 comments
More Inflammatory Writ
For one clear reason and one pretty tough-to-nail-down reason, my two favorite musicians of all time are Joanna Newsom and Jeff Mangum. Who else meets these requirements? [more inside]
posted by davidjmcgee at 11:45 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by davidjmcgee at 11:45 AM PST - 26 comments
Hairstyles that withstand humidity?
I have shoulder length, straight, dense, ultra-fine hair. What are some cute hairstyles I can pull off that don't rely on heat styling? [more inside]
Should I start buying my music on vinyl?
Should I start buying my music on vinyl? Do I want a record player/turntable? If so, which one? [more inside]
Unusual subscriptions services similar to Quarterly?
Someone just directed me to Quarterly, a really neat looking subscription service. I love the idea of getting surprise awesome things in the mail. Does anyone know of other subscription services that are similar? [more inside]
posted by forkisbetter at 11:32 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by forkisbetter at 11:32 AM PST - 14 comments
Light shades for recessed LEDs
Help me find or make a shade of some kind for my recessed kitchen LED lights. [more inside]
Why does IE see the same html two ways?
Why does Internet Explorer's rendering of my web page change when it is uploaded to the server? How can I troubleshoot/fix it? [more inside]
posted by itesser at 11:11 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by itesser at 11:11 AM PST - 15 comments
See, kids, grandma and grandpa were young and photogenic once...
Great locations in L.A. for an engagement photo shoot? Bonus for unconventional or indoor suggestions. [more inside]
How to tether 1st gen Ipad w/Android phone?
What hardware / software do I need exactly to use my Samsung Epic 4G (android) to tether my first generation ipad? I prefer to do this without jailbreaking my phone (but am open to jailbreaking ipad). [more inside]
WWVD, or What Will Vaniqa Do?
Have you used Vaniqa? What kind of results have you gotten? [more inside]
Didja ever notice...
You have very poor observational skills. You're bad at noticing things. What strategies have you used to compensate for this? How has your spouse helped you in this? [more inside]
Help me resurrect this novel?
Forgotten-YA-Novel-Filter: Help me remember a book I read when I was in middle school. It involved a teenage girl, a church, and grave rubbings! [more inside]
Where is this?
Please identify this picture of a town build into/onto a great wall: City Wall/Wall City [more inside]
posted by The otter lady at 10:19 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by The otter lady at 10:19 AM PST - 4 comments
hip hop help
Help me find good hip hop podcasts! [more inside]
Keyboard Log Me Please
Looking for something almost like a keylogger that can be invoked with a hotkey. [more inside]
posted by panoptican at 10:00 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by panoptican at 10:00 AM PST - 11 comments
What's this Dalí print?
Help me identify this Salvador Dalí print! And another thing! [more inside]
Mani in fede?
What kind of Claddagh ring should I buy and where should I buy it? [more inside]
posted by vkxmai at 9:39 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by vkxmai at 9:39 AM PST - 9 comments
Kindle Books: Kinda Hard to Wrap
Christmas gift brainstorming: nerdy engineer dad edition. [more inside]
posted by amelioration at 9:31 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by amelioration at 9:31 AM PST - 18 comments
Late-80s Internet thing on the BBC?
What was this thing I played on BBC(?) television in the late 80s? [more inside]
posted by Perthuz at 9:27 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Perthuz at 9:27 AM PST - 9 comments
Best live-streaming solution?
Next week I'll need to livestream some conference plenary sessions over UStream. In the past, I've solved similar problems with a camcorder, component video to USB converter, and a mediocre laptop.
What's the best solution these days, given that "Of course we have a camera that will work!" has turned into "You have $200 to make this happen." [more inside]
Wififi Argentina
Wififi: Trying to get sponsors to give us loads of money via skype calls. But...where can we get GOOD, RELIABLE wifi connection in Buenos Aires, Argentina? If a café, the cheaper the better...
posted by omnigut at 9:21 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by omnigut at 9:21 AM PST - 10 comments
400 dollars should make for an awesome new years
New Years Eve @ home Filter: Lets say you and your partner decide to stay at home for new years and you have pooled your money together to have $400 to blow on the whole evening (food, alcohol, general supplies/decorations/presents/whatever). How would YOU spend that budget? Describe your fantasy new years eve under that budget. Best suggestion wins a cookie. Additional requirements within.... [more inside]
Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain
I am looking for a book or a movie geared at younger kids (mine is 7), that would start a conversation about things not always being as they appear. Kinda like how toys on TV never end up to be as cool as they look, or how some people make promises that sound good, but they just don't deliver. I'd like to help my daughter start to develop the intelligence and skill set to truly discern the difference between substance and smoke.
posted by lakersfan1222 at 9:06 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by lakersfan1222 at 9:06 AM PST - 23 comments
Backpacking in Peru, but where (how?) to get a backpack?
Backpacking in Peru, but where (how?) to get a backpack? [more inside]
Am I setting myself up for frustration if I buy a poor quality amplifier? Does it even matter?
Does the quality of a bass guitar amplifier really matter? [more inside]
I'm pretty pissed. Keep me from being stupid.
YANML, nor do I want to go that route if possible. Dealing with bullies and their parents, with added wrinkles. [more inside]
posted by rich at 8:48 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by rich at 8:48 AM PST - 17 comments
Should "library" be capitalized?
Should "library" be capitalized? [more inside]
Help with healing central serous retinopathy?
I've recently been diagnosed with what I am told is a manageable case of Central Serous Retinopathy (CSR), which means there is a tear in my retina that is allowing fluid to leak in and form a bubble in the back of my eye. I have some questions about helping it heal. [more inside]
I already ate this, can I eat this? Carrots edition.
Carrot puzzler, why is the water blue....and green? [more inside]
posted by devonia at 8:20 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by devonia at 8:20 AM PST - 12 comments
Do not taunt Happy Fun Ball
Why is a trademark weakened by inclusion of the before the product name? [more inside]
UK citizen in US seeking financial adviser who knows both systems
I'm a UK citizen, working and paying taxes in the US, seeking a financial adviser/planner with knowledge of both systems — but someone who deals with relatively ordinary expats, not just multimillionaire hedge fund managers. Where do I begin, or do you have specific recommendations? [more inside]
What is the best modern looking threaded forum module?
I'm looking for a forum module that looks nice for a small .com start up I'm working with. A lot of the ones I see, even with themes in place, look antiquated, instead of the threaded, facebook-esque look we're looking for. Could someone point me in the right direction? [more inside]
posted by unreason at 7:50 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by unreason at 7:50 AM PST - 9 comments
Did you hear about the biologist who had twins? She baptized one and kept the other as a control.
What are some article length studies readily available on the internets that summarize the evidence for evolution? [more inside]
Forensic Hydrology?
How can you tell where water came from? Lets say I give you a bucket of water taken from a local water source (river, lake, etc). There's some plants and maybe a fish in it as well. What could you tell me about where this water came from, could you pinpoint which body it came from, and how would you come to this conclusion? [more inside]
Why are these pills the same size?
Why are these pills smaller than I expected? [more inside]
posted by Bulgaroktonos at 7:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Bulgaroktonos at 7:17 AM PST - 7 comments
3100 kCal: Insane?
I'm assuming that the RDI of 3100 calories from my Android App is a bit high, right? YNMD. [more inside]
posted by glaucon at 7:08 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by glaucon at 7:08 AM PST - 9 comments
Until when is my Metro North monthly ticket good?
From what date to what date are MTA Metro North monthly tickets effective? (seems obvious I know, but I am confused)... [more inside]
posted by taltalim at 6:49 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by taltalim at 6:49 AM PST - 7 comments
AMDA LA, from 1-10
APA style emergency!
APA style emergency -- I usually write in MLA. I am writing a short (2-page) paper in APA, and I don't know the proper way to head it (you know, my name, date, etc.). My paper's due in 4 hours, I still have to write it, and I don't have time to wade through Google when it's only telling me how to do a title *page* -- not what I need! [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 3:46 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 3:46 AM PST - 13 comments
UPS delivered to a wrong address
UPS delivered to a wrong address, what can I do now? [more inside]
posted by zaxour at 3:20 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by zaxour at 3:20 AM PST - 18 comments
Does anyone remember this educational computer game?
Does anyone remember this educational computer game? [more inside]
Changing ISP in Italy: any advice?
[Italy filter] There are many enticing offers in Italy nowadays for internet accounts including "free" (in the sense of "included in the price") phonecalls, etc., all of them looking quite a lot cheaper than my present contract (Alice from Telecom Italia). But I'm nervous about switching accounts... [more inside]