November 2011 Archives
November 30
Help me give my first lap dance!
I am a nerdy fun girl next door type who wants to give my guy a lap dance this weekend but I've never given, received, or even really seen one before. Please help me find good resources for technique and song selection.
I found this video and this article on Google, and both seem to be a good start, but results for "how to give a lap dance" kind of fall apart after that. Can anyone point me to sites/videos that give similar instruction?
I also need help with picking a song. I'm looking for a slower song with a seductive groove/beat rather than something fast. Ideas?
posted by scarnato at 11:48 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by scarnato at 11:48 PM PST - 26 comments
No haircut today, pups.
International voltage woes. Is my appliance retrievable? [more inside]
posted by superfish at 11:46 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by superfish at 11:46 PM PST - 5 comments
What the hell kind of insect bite is this?
What the hell kind of insect bite is this? [more inside]
Microsoft Word 2002 crashing when opening specific documents
Microsoft Word 2002, running on Windows XP, has started crashing when opening particular documents, but not others. Any troubleshooting advice? [more inside]
Bubble trouble?
I just got a couple of fantail goldfish, which I am keeping in a approx. 5 gallon vase. One of my fish has developed what looks like tiny bubbles on his fins. What are these? [more inside]
posted by melangell at 9:24 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by melangell at 9:24 PM PST - 10 comments
I'm not growing sideburns or wearing those pants, so this will have to do.
I'm not sure if this is even possible, but: where could I buy a lady's Regency-period ring? Something like this would be perfect. I keep coming across awful eBay sites that have 'Georgian-style' attached to something that could have been made in China yesterday, for all I know. Something with a certificate of authenticity / valuation?
Can you recommend a carry-on luggage with wheels that doubles as a garment bag?
Can you recommend a carry-on luggage with wheels that doubles as a garment bag? [more inside]
posted by eliluong at 8:53 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by eliluong at 8:53 PM PST - 10 comments
Does an AP behind a wireless bridge necessarily incur a speed penalty?
I've been trying to setup a wifi network behind a wireless bridge, and keep finding that internet speeds are 1/3 to 1/10 of those I get by when connecting directly to the bridge or source network. What gives? [more inside]
how to calc savings due to overpaying monthly mortgage???
How to calculate how much money I am saving overall by paying extra money on my monthly mortgage? [more inside]
They need treatment - they don't want to lose their job
An aquaintance of mine works for a defense contractor company as has a fairly high security clearance. They also have a serious drinking problem and have admitted that they are an alcoholic. However, they are afraid to go for treatment because they are concerned that they will lose their security clearance as a result. [more inside]
You've got pollen on your nose, I've been leaking like a garden hose
I'm a straight chick, but I think that Mirah's songs (early stuff - first two albums) are super sexy. Can you recommend other musicians, albums, or songs with a similar aesthetic/tone? [more inside]
At least it's not blinking...
Can any web designers speak to what's up with the <marquee> tag? I want to use it in a tasteful, scrolling-credits-type way — is it even worth doing? [more inside]
posted by FreelanceBureaucrat at 8:07 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by FreelanceBureaucrat at 8:07 PM PST - 7 comments
SantaFilter: My five-year-old son wants a "real" Star Wars light saber for Christmas.
There are approximately one billion models of light saber toys out there. I'm looking at reviews, but it occurs to me maybe someone here has a great rec for a sturdy, non-lame light saber toy. [more inside]
posted by pantarei70 at 7:59 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by pantarei70 at 7:59 PM PST - 7 comments
green living
I love natural, reclaimed and sustainable products for the home. I prefer simple designs and natural materials: wood, stone, leather, silk, etc. My favorite online shops are VivaTerra and Terrain. The problem is that they only ship to US. Do you know of a shop that will ship to Europe or a similar European online shop?
My brain wants me to hate myself. My self wants me to finish college. Help.
Please help me make a plan to deal with the aftermath of this episode of severe depression. For various reasons I would really prefer not to be enrolled in college again next semester. It's long, I'm sorry, but I wrote this too quickly to pare things out. [more inside]
How to narrow down the cause of nighttime wheezing?
Something in our bedroom is affecting my boyfriend's breathing and allergy symptoms. How can we figure out the specific cause? [more inside]
Art for Their Sake?
What should I get my niece and nephew for Christmas? [more inside]
Blackwater River State Park now "Xe River State Park"
Have you been to Blackwater Falls State Park in West Virginia or its surrounding towns? [more inside]
What now, BS in Computer Science?
What now, BS in Computer Science? [more inside]
Pratchett for the elderly set?
Where on Discworld should I send my grandmother? [more inside]
What is a whole-house air cleaner for? Do I need one?
What is a whole-house air cleaner for? Do I need one? [more inside]
How to format a news release?
I am looking for an online resource for the correct formatting and layout of a news release. I have found several templates, but there is enough difference between them that I'm a bit confused. I have the essential structure and content down, but what I am looking for is what would be considered to "standard" correct formatting and layout.
Can anyone direct me to a good resource?
Low Country Books
Tell me your best Charleston, South Carolina books. Looking for anything -- history, for locals, for travellers, fiction, picture books, memoirs. What 'gets' Charleston?
posted by sandmanwv at 5:58 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 5:58 PM PST - 6 comments
Statistics terminology
Disabling and enabling php.ini functions using SSH (putty)
I need help disabling php.ini functions using SSH (putty) on my dedicated server. [more inside]
posted by Bacillus at 5:43 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Bacillus at 5:43 PM PST - 12 comments
Help me plan a great night out in Hong Kong
You're in Hong Kong on 12/13 January. You want to take someone out for a fun night. Where do you go and what do you do? Definitions of fun and budget are inside. [more inside]
Can anyone recommend an ISP in Houston?
Can anyone recommend a good, independent ISP in Houston? [more inside]
Another day, another day job
Tell me what you know about technical or medical writing. [more inside]
posted by Ollie at 5:24 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Ollie at 5:24 PM PST - 5 comments
The murky world of lampshades
Question about lampshades: finding a lamp that will fit my shade. [more inside]
Recommend some music for my dad, please!
My dad loves music, but every Christmas I end up getting him (a) winter gloves or (b) a stack of books that he's too busy to read. Given the following list of songs, artists, and genres he seems to like, could you recommend a few albums he might enjoy? [more inside]
Help me find a legal paper notebook
Help me find the right kind of notepad or sketchpad. Difficulty: a different request from everyone else who has ever asked this question. I'm looking for a notebook that is roughly legal sized without any lines, rules, or grids. [more inside]
How to prevent accepted tracked changes from carrying over into an excel + word + outlook email to 50 people?
Hi everyone,
Hoping someone can help me sort this problem ...
It's a excel + microsoft word document + mail merge to outlook email to 50 people.
I am trying to help someone out - this is is as it just as it was described to me:
Track changes were accepted and turned off and the email looked as it should - so off went 50 customized emails.
..unfortunately the sent email then shows that all the emails are sent showing all of the tracked change revision markings!
Sorry if this is too vague. Thanks for your efforts :)
How are British people taught to expect failure and disappointment?
Is it true, what Ricky Gervais says, about how in contrast to Americans and their high hopes, British people are taught to expect disappointment? British people: What life advice along these lines are British people given, that might differ from such U.S. ideas as Back to the Future's "you can do anything if you put your mind to it?"
Safe processing of old acorns
Wild foods filter: have these old acorns been processed enough to be safe to eat? [more inside]
posted by apparently at 3:35 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by apparently at 3:35 PM PST - 12 comments
Looking for Coins
Looking for an inexpensive source of current foreign coins that can be purchased by the pound. These would be a gift for a coin obsessed grandson that would be more impressed with volume rather than quality.
posted by Raybun at 3:10 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Raybun at 3:10 PM PST - 3 comments
Faking wrist cutting...?
What is the best technique/props for faking cutting your wrists with a razor blade? [more inside]
Fighting for salary re-negotiations
I've been learning new skills at my company that are far outside of my current job description. I've long ago realized that there's going to be a need for someone to take on these responsibilities beyond the one person we have now. And the time seems to be approaching! Please help me work through this and nail the salary re-negotiations. [more inside]
Marxist Solutions to the Economic Crisis?
I'm keeping this question vague because everyone that discusses the "economic crisis" is vague. It seems to encapsulate the debt crisis, the whole banking fiasco, etc. So, I'll make my question simple. Can someone direct me to essays, books, etc. on this current "economic crisis" from a Marxist perspective? I would especially like it to be solution-oriented and not just rehashing the problem - and preferably solutions from a Marxist economist. [more inside]
How to record from multiple cameras at once on OS X?
Is it possible to record video from two sources simultaneously on a Mac and/or sync up the video somehow? [more inside]
posted by hijinx at 2:40 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by hijinx at 2:40 PM PST - 6 comments
Help my get all my stuff to sync properly.
I use Google Calendar, which I access either on iCal (Lion), my iPhone 4 (running iOS 5.01) and my iPad 2 (also running iOS 5.01). Sometimes, randomly, events I add to my calendar in iCal do not show up on my iPad or iPhone. However, when I go to Settings on the iOS devices, select "Mail, Contacts, and Calendars" and turn my Google Calendars off and then on again, everything works fine, and all events show up on all devices. How can I avoid having to manually do this, and have things just work. [more inside]
Excel Macros For Dummies
Explain to me Excel macros and how I can learn to program them (assume that I know absolutely nothing, because that would be correct). [more inside]
Looking for wireless computer speakers
Can anyone suggest reasonably priced, wireless, computer speakers that sound great?
How to dress like an adult.
Dressy, affordable tees for men? [more inside]
Ack! There's hole in all my socks!
My beloved socks have holes...what else can I do with them? [more inside]
posted by Fuzzy Dog at 1:59 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Fuzzy Dog at 1:59 PM PST - 15 comments
life or limb
If you show up at an emergency room (in the US) with a limb in a tourniquet and claim that you got injected/infected/poisoned/exposed to something fatal on that limb (dimethylmercury for example, but others exist), will they amputate it on request?
How much money do I have left in my pocket?
Looking for an iPhone app that helps me keep a tally of how much I am spending as I go -- cash, online purchases, etc. An on-the-fly "budget" that just counts down to zero. [more inside]
posted by amanda at 1:38 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by amanda at 1:38 PM PST - 17 comments
Pastry dough is sticking to my countertop when I roll it out -- help!
Pastry chefs: I'm making pastries with a very sticky cream cheese dough that needs to be rolled out thin. Advice on rolling without flouring too heavily with a granite countertop? [more inside]
posted by SpecialK at 1:36 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by SpecialK at 1:36 PM PST - 19 comments
To infinity and beyond
If the expanse of the universe is infinite, does it necessarily follow that the number of stars and planets is also infinite?
posted by HotPatatta at 1:18 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by HotPatatta at 1:18 PM PST - 15 comments
Movies featuring tumbleweed.
Looking for shots of tumbleweed in movies/tv. [more inside]
posted by dunk at 1:06 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by dunk at 1:06 PM PST - 10 comments
Getting Started With Electronics - What Do I Need?
What electronic components / tools would I need to follow along and complete the examples in Forrest Mim's book "Getting Started With Electronics"? I've paged through the book several times, and don't really see any listing of what is required. I'd like to pick everything up in one go if possible. Thanks!
posted by steinwald at 12:46 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by steinwald at 12:46 PM PST - 6 comments
My partner killed himself yesterday, i am still in shock and haven't told people. I don't know how to deal with this and need help
My partner killed himself yesterday, i am still in shock and haven't told people. I don't know how to deal with this and need help [more inside]
Nacho heaven
What forms of coverage/insurance should I buy for my home?
As a owner of a brand new house, I am deluged by offers in the mail for various forms of insurance, protection, or coverage for my home (examples: mortgage insurance, water line coverage). What forms of coverage/insurance are a good idea to purchase, and which are unnecessary?
PCOS and pre-diabetes - do I really need to go on Metformin?
PCOS and pre-diabetes - do I really need to go on Metformin? [more inside]
posted by zoetrope at 11:15 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by zoetrope at 11:15 AM PST - 25 comments
Protect new oak table?
How should I protect this new White Oak table? [more inside]
posted by patrad at 11:02 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by patrad at 11:02 AM PST - 8 comments
Bird in a jar?
Confit'd game bird done in a jam jar on TV? UK programme [more inside]
Can I save my sole?
I have some crazy shoes from Irregular Choice that have an adorable pattern on the sole. I haven't worn them anywhere yet, but I have a feeling that pattern will be completely destroyed the first time I do. Is there anything I can do to preserve them? [more inside]
posted by katillathehun at 10:57 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by katillathehun at 10:57 AM PST - 14 comments
Should I buy a yamaha silent guitar?
How close are Yamaha's silent guitars to a real acoustic guitar? [more inside]
posted by * at 10:47 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by * at 10:47 AM PST - 15 comments
How to fix stained wok?
I have this cast iron Ikea Identisk wok. After I first cooked with it many months ago, it got these brown stains. I then set it aside, not knowing what to do. I hadn't seasoned it before. How can I clean/season/whatever it to make it good again, and how should I be using/cleaning it to prevent this from happening in the future? Or should I just go with non-stick for stir-fries from now on?
How to best modfy 800 Thunderbird Prefs.js files?
We are doing a campus wide migration to gmail, and that means I have a few hundred thunderbird users who need their settings changed to point to a new imap server (and change their username to username@foo.edu). What is the best way to get this done? [more inside]
How do I turn job inquiries into good networking opportunities?
How to turn down job inquiries while making sure I build good relationships that I can call on in the future? [more inside]
Confused and Sickened
Confused...not sure how to feel or what to think about recent news of a pedophile who worked at my children's daycare years ago. [more inside]
Do they still call them HiFi's?
Looking for a small "bookshelf" style hi fi unit. I have recently moved to the US from Australia and had to leave my great little hi fi behind. I am currently playing my CD's through a borrowed portable unit that sounds like a tin can and have been hunting for something better. [more inside]
posted by wwax at 10:18 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by wwax at 10:18 AM PST - 9 comments
I have mud flaps in San Jose, CA, please help me install them.
San Jose, CA: Where to get mud flaps installed on a 2005 F-250 truck? I already have the rectangular flaps, but I need them installed. [more inside]
[Toronto-filter] Skinning a leather couch
Is there any way to make money off an old leather couch -- or at least put the leather to good use? [more inside]
Does anyone remember this Katrina painting?
Looking for a painting created in the aftermath of Katrina. In it: two African American men with their backs to the viewer, walking along an empty highway, with the Interstate signs for Vieux Carre ahead of them. It was part of a fundraising competition. Does anyone remember this?
Things to do in LA - mid- to late-December
Dobbs and I are going to Los Angeles from Dec 15 - 23rd. Recommendations for any film, music, theatre, or gallery events that should not be missed (screenings, tributes, retrospectives, concerts, etc)? Restaurant recommendations are also welcome. I'll be staying downtown and he'll be in West Hollywood. Also, as Canadians who've never been to LA in winter, what outerwear is appropriate (rain much? how cold?)? Thanks!
"Please like me."
Why do I get so stressed out by the idea of confrontation, or of people being angry with me? I obsess about it for ages. How can I move past this constant need for people to approve of me? [more inside]
Ubuntu display setting problem
Any recommendations for a 3rd party .pst repair tool?
I need to try to repair an Outlook 2007 .pst file that is larger than 2GB. We've already tried the built-in repair tool (scanpst.exe), but it failed. As usual, The Google is not the most reliable source of recommendations, so does anyone here have a recommendation for a 3rd party .pst repair tool?
Weighted regression?
Excel statistics question (linear regression with weighted data points) [more inside]
posted by dabug at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by dabug at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
Affordable, high-quality HEPA vacuums?
Recommendations for an affordable, high-quality HEPA vacuum cleaner? [more inside]
"Compatible" toner cartridges for a laser printer - false economy??
Printer Ink - Is using no-brand "compatible" toner cartridges for a laser printer a false economy? [more inside]
posted by Faintdreams at 7:55 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Faintdreams at 7:55 AM PST - 6 comments
Lost control of YouTube account - please help?
I'm having a major problem at work with our YouTube account and I can't for the life of me elicit any effective help from Google (pretty much restricted to forum postings with no response after a month). Can anyone advise about how to get help from Google? [more inside]
How do I write unique cover letters?
Help me write eyecatching cover letters. [more inside]
A story, a story, my kingdom for a story!
I can write fiction, but nothing I write ever seems to be a coherent story. How do I write a story? [more inside]
posted by Senza Volto at 7:45 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Senza Volto at 7:45 AM PST - 31 comments
How do you learn to set and work on goals as an adult?
How do I figure out what I want to be when I grow up? I've been very lucky in my life so far—just a little bit of work has yielded me amazing opportunities that have more or less fallen into my lap. But I'm starting to realize that I have no idea how to set, develop, and follow through on goals on my own. [more inside]
Setting up a film club - please help!
I want to put a film club together. Looking for ideas and advice on things I should prepare for. [more inside]
posted by heartofglass at 7:35 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by heartofglass at 7:35 AM PST - 1 comment
How to cut down health care costs?
How to cut down health care costs? [more inside]
Best option for emergency mac replacement
Need specific mac buying advice: I marinated my 2008 MacBook in coffee this morning and will likely need to replace it after work today or tomorrow. [more inside]
posted by midmarch snowman at 7:24 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by midmarch snowman at 7:24 AM PST - 19 comments
Help me decide if keeping this cat is worth it.
How long does one put up with an extremely frustrating cat? [more inside]
posted by trogdole at 7:13 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by trogdole at 7:13 AM PST - 39 comments
How to change the process of production in the States?
How can united states manufacturing be made better? [more inside]
Why is your bonus scheme the best?
Bonus and Incentive Scheme filter: tell me about your fantastic bonus scheme (or just those elements of your bonus scheme that are fantastic). What makes it great, what makes it work? [more inside]
What dye could we use to replicate robin's egg blue on a chicken egg?
What dye could we use to replicate robin's egg blue on a chicken egg? [more inside]
How to overcome hypochondria
Has anyone ever had experience with overcoming hypochondria? [more inside]
Save Alice
Okay, I just finished watching the H Stern release of Super 8 and I have two very basic questions. [spoilers inside] [more inside]
Book about relationship expectations and groundrules?
Do you have a recommendation for a book about relationship ground rules and agreements in marriage? I'm interested in a book that might help someone to consider how they want to be treated, how to set reasonable expectations for interaction, and how to define what would constitute a good relationship for them. [more inside]
posted by OmieWise at 5:42 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by OmieWise at 5:42 AM PST - 7 comments
Online IT training and literacy resources for beginners
One of our office cleaning staff asked me if there are easy ways to learn how to use a computer. This totally threw me - I've a ton of experience about self-paced programming, stats, GIS, etc. - but no clue what to suggest for actually getting to grips for the first time with Windows, safe web browsing and so on. Wrinkle - it has to be free, Windows 7-based, and online - this isn't a paradox, she can open IE and navigate to a webpage. [more inside]
posted by cromagnon at 3:56 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by cromagnon at 3:56 AM PST - 20 comments
What strange, creative websites/projects do you enjoy?
What quirky, totally creative, strange but enjoyable websites/projects that you enjoy?
I like these: Jessica Hagy's thisisindexed.com, Andre Jordan's abeautifulrevolution.com,
postcrossing.com (amazing project), xkcd.com.
Just tired of reading negative, fluff stuff. Looking for more projects like the above, can you suggest some?
What font is this?
Please help me identify the font used in this image. [more inside]
posted by Wonton Cruelty at 1:44 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Wonton Cruelty at 1:44 AM PST - 6 comments
Paging Barney Stinson
What are some awesome things that are far easier to do when single? If you're coupled, what do you miss about being single? [more inside]
Location tracking/logging chips in US cars/trucks—can this be disabled?
Anyone with a cell phone can be tracked—their location, where they've been, who they've called, texts, etc and etc. A friend told me that there now location chips in every new vehicle sold in the US—is this true? Also: How long before the cars locations starts getting stored somewhere? And: How difficult is it to disable these chips in cars/trucks, can I do it myself, and/or how much does it cost to have this done? [more inside]
What dish was I served in Burma, and how can I make it at home?
What is the name of this dish and how can I make it? Ingredients include: white fungus (I think), fresh tomatoes, lime, cashew nuts, shrimp. Eaten in Burma near the Thai border. [more inside]
November 29
OK to insulate windows with regular plastic sheeting?
Will black plastic sheeting insulate my windows as well as the commercial shrink-wrap stuff? I've used window insulator kits like this and they work great. I was wondering if I could skimp. First, would any plastic do as well? I already use this stuff to block light while I sleep. If that's not as good, is there something special about shrinking the commercial kit plastic with a hair dryer, or is that just for looks? I'd rather not borrow one every year.
posted by Noumenon at 11:47 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Noumenon at 11:47 PM PST - 14 comments
Boyfriend And I Don't Have Sex
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We are happy and are sexually active, but we just don't have sex. I know that everybody does it at any age now, and that everywhere you turn, you are somehow reminded of it, but is that so bad? Basically, when we first got together, everything was (of course) perfect. He was a virgin but I wasn't, and he knew that. I liked the fact that we had a lot of sexual tension but that he didn't ever pressure me to do anything I didn't want to. Basically, he wanted me to make the shots. And I feel almost like it's still that way now. [more inside]
Box of bones
Human or what? Kids found a box of bones (photo). Here's a photo
(http://i40.tinypic.com/dy40fp.jpg)
Sure you advise us to go to the police, but really .. any chance these are human ?
Thanks
Prove cellphone hacking is a threat!
Find true-life things that could make me paranoid that my cell phone could be hacked to spy on me. [more inside]
posted by RobotHero at 10:35 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by RobotHero at 10:35 PM PST - 10 comments
Are there any real-life Mutual Adoption Clubs (Sort of like a Kibbutz but without the business)?
Are there such things as Mutual Adoption Clubs as imagined in Aldous Huxley's novel, Island? I'm looking for something like this, also similar to a Kibbutz or Co-op where a few families that are close friends live near each other (Sharing a house, being neighbors, living in the same apartment building, or maybe just in the same neighborhood). Families share child-rearing responsibilities primarily. Does anyone do this in a more-or-less structured fashion? [more inside]
posted by cman at 10:22 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cman at 10:22 PM PST - 9 comments
Hope me with social anxiety
How do I deal with not knowing how to make/change plans due to social anxiety? And the social consequences thereof? [more inside]
Spell "Apple" Phonetically without IPA
Is it illegal for a not-for-profit to promise a prize drawing for people who've raised money and then not do it?
Is it illegal or just not very ethical for a not-for-profit to promise a prize drawing for raising a certain amount of money and then not follow through? I know YANML; I just need some info as I decide how to proceed. [more inside]
So let's say you had to rebuild civilization from scratch...
Looking for a t-shirt or poster about the history of technology... [more inside]
Violent Thanksgiving=dreading wedding
Is there really any fun in dysfunction? [more inside]
"I love you, bro."
He gets to call me "sis," but "bro" is taken by bros. What affectionate term can I call my brother? [more inside]
posted by Pwoink at 8:50 PM PST - 71 comments
posted by Pwoink at 8:50 PM PST - 71 comments
best used car budget, to save the most in the long term?
What is the best used car budget, if I want to save the most in the long term? [more inside]
Hi, we got married!
How do I tell my family of origin I am married? [more inside]
yoga pants for men?
Affordable yoga pants for men? [more inside]
I want a fast lens on a compact digital camera!
What are good compact digital cameras for low-light photography? [more inside]
posted by barnacles at 7:58 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by barnacles at 7:58 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for a red head.
I need to find a picture or two of a specific long haired red-headed male model. [more inside]
posted by Marinara at 7:50 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Marinara at 7:50 PM PST - 4 comments
Does hypnosis work?
Does hypnosis work for habit curing? Details inside. [more inside]
Dungeons & Dragons Essentials Which Ones Are "Essential"?
I'm trying to get my teenage niece into D&D from scratch but I'm bewildered by the range of Essential products. Which products are absolutely essential to get a beginners campaign up and running? [more inside]
posted by DuchessProzac at 7:41 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by DuchessProzac at 7:41 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me quit my Coke (a-Cola) addiction
I need to stop chugging 8+ cans of the vile (wonderful) liquid a day. Multiple previous attempts have failed.
I need (1) motivation and (2) a plan [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:05 PM PST - 71 comments
posted by anonymous at 7:05 PM PST - 71 comments
Soothing scents for the sick!
Please recommend strongly-scented cut flowers or potted plants for someone in a nursing home. [more inside]
posted by easily confused at 6:55 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by easily confused at 6:55 PM PST - 20 comments
Bookfilter: Noir killer novel
BookFilter: I am hoping the hivemind can help me find a noirish thriller/detective-ish novel I read more than a decade ago about a socially awkward killer and his hot semi-girlfriend. [more inside]
I'm no good at the girl stuff.
Where can I find some great small gifts for my much-loved friends? My 4 pals and I get together every month for drinks, dinner, and friend-talk. Christmas is always a special gathering, with small gifts all around. I never feel like I hit the gifts right...they like jewelry, clothes, accessories etc., and they're all very crafty. I just don't have the eye for that stuff, but I love 'em dearly. $15-ish budget a piece. [more inside]
The Thing One, The Thing Two
The discussion on "The Thing" from here was interesting, and I finally managed to watch the 2011 "The Thing 0" movie. It was not as bad as a feared, and I liked how it connected well with Carpenters version. Any other connections? SPOILERS INSIDE obviously, you should have watched both 1982 and 2011 movies. [more inside]
posted by lundman at 6:41 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by lundman at 6:41 PM PST - 3 comments
Hot Tub Anniversary?
This question but for NYC midtown. Coming up on an anniversary and need to escape our apartment and find a room with a hot tub! Preferably without selling a kidney. Super bonus points if you can also recommend a place to buy super-soft women's PJs in NYC. [more inside]
What the hell is in my co-worker's mind?
What the hell is in my co-worker's mind? [more inside]
Help With Apartment Hunting in Greenpoint, Brooklyn
Moving to New York from Florida to take a job at the beginning of January, and i'm having some trouble finding a good place to live, mostly that I don't really know how to find good places that aren't on craigslist/padmapper. The friend i'm going to live with works in Greenpoint, so we're leaning heavily on that neighborhood, just off the Greenpoint or Nassau stops, so only one of us has to take the subway to work. [more inside]
posted by The Esteemed Doctor Bunsen Honeydew at 6:27 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by The Esteemed Doctor Bunsen Honeydew at 6:27 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me get my Slainte on!
Help me find a great Irish Whiskey bar in downtown NYC - preferably near the Irish Rep theater! (West 22nd at Hudson) [more inside]
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:17 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:17 PM PST - 3 comments
Help me a better flier!
I'm planning to do a decent amount of flying in the next year, including a 15-hour flight. I'm looking for some advice on how to make the trips as comfortable as possible, and how to mitigate jet lag as much as possible. Oh - I can't read in moving vehicles, and I tend to get fidgety on planes. Help! [more inside]
Anyone who had spine fusion surgery for scoliosis, or tried alternative methods?
My daughter was diagnosed with scoliosis 2 years ago, wore the boston brace for a year, but her curve had progressed to 50 degrees, which is the number to be operable. I would like to hear from people who had (or had their child) go thru surgery, or tried other alternative methods, like the Clear method. How is it living years after surgery, its success, or the success of Clear method or any other treatment? The idea of spine surgery for my child is overwhelming and scary and I would like any input from people and parents who experienced or are experiencing thru it. Thank you.
Walking away?
I think I need to tell my ex-FWB that I can't hang out with him anymore. I do, right? How do I... do that? [more inside]
But most of all, I wish her love.
Long-shot-arama: 13 years ago, I read a poem at my daughter's christening and then promptly lost the piece of paper I'd read it from. It was all about the things I wished she would have in her life, and I'm 98% sure it ended with "but most of all, I wish you love". Ring any bells? [more inside]
posted by malibustacey9999 at 5:22 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by malibustacey9999 at 5:22 PM PST - 14 comments
What are your favorite group games or activities for young kids?
What indoor games or activities would you recommend for entertaining a small group of younger kids during a dinner party? [more inside]
posted by rube goldberg at 5:21 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by rube goldberg at 5:21 PM PST - 7 comments
Too Pooped to Popmonitor
My upgrade to Lion killed off my favorite little mailserver app in the world! [more inside]
posted by zenpop at 5:14 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by zenpop at 5:14 PM PST - 4 comments
American Roads are more dangerous that British Roads?
In my Internet peregrinations I came across this: 'In 2010 there were 32,788 road deaths in the USA (Source: DfT). This equates to 10.6 road deaths per 100,000 of population and compares to the UK average of 3.1 road deaths per 100,000 of population in 2010.'. I am trying to equate these statistics with relevant land areas vs population.
posted by lungtaworld at 5:08 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by lungtaworld at 5:08 PM PST - 11 comments
Not an iPad; sorry kid
Collection of crisis call role play scenarios
Please help me come up with role play scenarios to assist me in practicing my telephone counselling skills. [more inside]
posted by KLF at 4:55 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by KLF at 4:55 PM PST - 14 comments
Can I have my dream bike and ride it too?
Pittsburgh cycling: road bike or hybrid? [more inside]
posted by jon1270 at 4:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by jon1270 at 4:45 PM PST - 12 comments
How do I get medicine into the dog?
I need to get 0.5ml of medicine into a dog, twice a day, every day, forever. Outside of holding her down and squirting it her mouth and putting it on her food, how do I get it in her? [more inside]
My car is dead. What Now?
My 1987 Mercedes 300SDL abruptly and unexpectedly died recently, and the verdict finally came in from the shop today that short of replacing the engine (not going to happen), it's a lost cause. So, what now? [more inside]
Arrgh! It's not Rumplestiltskin, is it?
Plant Naming Wizards! Can you please help me remember the name of this plant, so I can read about how to care for it before all it's leaves curl up and die? [more inside]
posted by anitanita at 4:14 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by anitanita at 4:14 PM PST - 3 comments
Starting GeekTool in the background?
I have GeekTool v3.0.1 running on 10.6.8. How can I get it to start up on login and just run in the background? [more inside]
posted by tommasz at 4:09 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by tommasz at 4:09 PM PST - 3 comments
Soft contacts: tools of the devil.
There must be a trick to wearing and removing soft contacts that I have not discovered. Please share it. Snowflake detail: I've been wearing hard contacts since I was twelve. [more inside]
posted by artemisia at 4:02 PM PST - 60 comments
posted by artemisia at 4:02 PM PST - 60 comments
You don't scam Indians?
Can someone throw some light on this (possibly) tourist scam in Bali? [more inside]
Recommend a zombie movie for a high school setting
What movie should I show my class about the spread of infection? [more inside]
Name this print
Help ID an old print or two. [more inside]
ipso facto, girlfriend! (vocab word help!)
is there a word for 'a word that fits its own definition'? for example, sesquipedalian is a big word that by definition means "prone to using big words." is there a formal term for this type of thing?
posted by carlypennylane at 3:40 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by carlypennylane at 3:40 PM PST - 5 comments
the spice who loved me
What are the essential spices to have around for cooking modern, eclectic/internationalized vegetarian food? [more inside]
help me to not implode
How do I not lose my shit to claustrophobia and insomnia on this ridiculous tour that I'm on? [more inside]
posted by aloiv2 at 3:29 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by aloiv2 at 3:29 PM PST - 21 comments
Kisai Rogue Touch...I want one!
Looking for a travel corkscrew that's easy on the wrists
Can you suggest a small, compact wine opener for someone who loves her rabbit corkscrew? [more inside]
posted by OrangeDisk at 3:14 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by OrangeDisk at 3:14 PM PST - 14 comments
Help me name my potluck event!
Help me name my speech/short story potluck event! [more inside]
Help me design an awesome multi-node home theater for my house
Help me build the bitchin'-est home theater multi-node network for my house. Let your imagination fly! [more inside]
posted by hincandenza at 3:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by hincandenza at 3:04 PM PST - 6 comments
I want to watch this movie!
When will I be able to watch 'La Source des Femmes' that was shown at Cannes this year? [more inside]
quirky / specific lit or art history classes in the east bay?
What cool places can I take classes, preferably accessible to public transit in the East Bay? Things like lit classes on specific subjects / authors, art history classes on specific artists / time periods, women's studies. [more inside]
Bulk/Discount Buy Group Management
I'm a member of a few different groups that periodically put together a bulk orders from wholesalers as a way to get a discount and also to bring products to our small island community that are hard to get otherwise. I'm managing one of these groups, and am finding that as it grows the amount of time spent keeping track of everybody's orders, calculating how much everyone owes, and dividing up the order after it's been received, has been increasing with each larger order. I've incorporated spreadsheets and a mailing list into my process but it still involved a great deal of manual processing. I've started writing some scripts to help out as well, but it occurs to me that others doing this must have faced these problems as well. I've tried some googling but haven't found much information out there, so I'm wondering how the rest of you do this. [more inside]
posted by Emanuel at 2:11 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Emanuel at 2:11 PM PST - 9 comments
Improving the air quality in the Jeffamahouse.
Where should I buy Escada Rockin' Rio? [more inside]
posted by jeffamaphone at 2:06 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by jeffamaphone at 2:06 PM PST - 2 comments
Gettin' hosed by Comcast.
Comcast is trying to charge me a $359 "early termination fee" for canceling an internet service account that I've had for over three years. My contract clearly states in large letters that the term is 12 months. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by spilon at 2:04 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by spilon at 2:04 PM PST - 20 comments
Chrome-tanned leather allergy: Help with alternatives!
Allergic to chrome-tanned leather: suggestions for brands of non-chrome-tanned leather products, or non-leather alternatives! [more inside]
Can anyone recommend me a budget hi-fi system that can play vinyl? I am in the UK and have about £300 max to spend.
Can anyone recommend me a budget hi-fi system that can play vinyl? I am in the UK and have about £300 max to spend. [more inside]
Is a large casual wedding an oxymoron
We're getting hitched and we want to invite a lot of people. Come, poke holes in my plan and help point things out that I might not have considered. [more inside]
posted by pintapicasso at 1:23 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by pintapicasso at 1:23 PM PST - 34 comments
Captain Planet! He's not being my hero...
How to remove vocals? [more inside]
Help me nip an infestation of bed bugs
omg, I think I have been bitten by bed bugs. Please help. [more inside]
Where can I find an affordable, fire code compliant armchair?
Where can I find a comfy armchair for my office that is Cal TB-133 compliant, is not butt ugly, and is not over $400? [more inside]
How many soldering irons can I plug in before blowing a fuse?
I'm about to teach a soldering class to kids, and it occurs to me that I may blow a fuse in the room that I'm doing the event in if I plug too many in at once... Any idea of how to gauge how many I can plug in simultaneously? This is the soldering iron I have. http://www.elexp.com/sdr_5258.htm Ideally, I'll plug in 12 at once... thank
Help me save a troubled external hard drive!
Help me save a troubled external hard drive! I'm using OSX and I'm fine with wiping it out and starting over. This may be complicated? [more inside]
posted by 2oh1 at 1:03 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by 2oh1 at 1:03 PM PST - 23 comments
What can the series of tubes teach me?
What are some neat, awesome, interesting accredited online classes I can take? [more inside]
What is a Meerschaum Tram?
Walk Like an Egyptian? No, Like a Nordic.
Does "Nordic Walking" really provide a more robust workout than normal walking? [more inside]
Urbane Guerrillas Seek Technical Aid in Occupying Oaklands Memeosphere W/ Motion-Murals
I want to organize free guerrilla movie nights to show Occupy Wall Street themed movies like Inside Job, Manufacturing Consent, Money As Debt and Super Rich: The Greed Game. Help me and my fellow Little Rascals Occupiers put on a show occupy some walls as well as engage some minds [more inside]
Help me get along with my colleague
How do I avoid getting annoyed with my colleague? I feel he's trying to make me look small in front of the boss. [more inside]
Hope Me To Not Show Up Wineless!
Need to pick up some wine between Oakland Airport and Inner Richmond in SF. [more inside]
Delicious uses for duck stock, please.
What delicious soup (or dish) should I make with duck stock? [more inside]
posted by alleycat01 at 11:28 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by alleycat01 at 11:28 AM PST - 14 comments
How do I make friends and start enjoying life?
I'm in my 20s and I always thought my life would be better than this by now. I'd love some advice on how to make friends and be happier and improve my life generally. [more inside]
I don't want to see your etchings.
Help me graciously decline an invitation to a guy's apartment in advance of our date. [more inside]
Help me scare my sister!
I need a scary book for my sister.... who usually doesnt read such things. I read the other horror threads but none of them are quite right.... [more inside]
posted by silverstatue at 11:16 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by silverstatue at 11:16 AM PST - 31 comments
Looking for a rebuttal to this argument about unions.
Please point me to rebuttals to the argument that public employee unions have an inherent conflict-of-interest because union members vote for their own bosses. [more inside]
Birthday breakfast help
I'm want to cook my husband a special 30th birthday breakfast. The snag, I can't cook. Help. [more inside]
posted by Nufkin at 10:53 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Nufkin at 10:53 AM PST - 17 comments
As The Skirt Turns
I'm looking for fabric to make a skirt or dress. I want a large format landscape printed parallel to the selvage, like this, not a repeating print across the fabric like this. Can you help me find one? Know of any fabric stores with this kind of stock? Google-fu has let me down.
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur at 10:49 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur at 10:49 AM PST - 13 comments
Should I raise the roof before buying the house?
I am buying a house and the roof is questionable. There were missing tabs all over. A roofer came out and did minimal repairs at the current owners' expense but he says the roof has "2 to 5 years" left, maybe, depending on weather (we live in the midwest).
Would it be reasonable to ask for a reroofing allowance in purchasing this house? [more inside]
Are there placement agencies that help people find jobs they would never have thought to look for on their own?
Is there some version of a headhunter or career advisor who takes into account the skills you have beyond your resume, and helps you find jobs you wouldn't know about that fit those skills? [more inside]
How to set up a scholarship?
How do I set up a small one-time scholarship for college-bound kids at a high school? [more inside]
How should I take care of new leather shoes?
How much should new leather show use? [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 10:42 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 10:42 AM PST - 7 comments
Help Wanted? Emerging markets edition.
What's the best route for me, a mid-20s American professional male, to find a private sector job in a developing country (emerging market)? Not especially picky about the industry or country, specific details and requirements within. [more inside]
posted by the foreground at 10:40 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by the foreground at 10:40 AM PST - 3 comments
Database Advice
Looking for a database solution for a young and expanding non-profit. [more inside]
Resources for understanding Fear on the ASD/Autism Spectrum
Looking for resources for understanding low-level (or is that high-functioning?) spectrum disorders related to children/toddlers. [more inside]
posted by cavalier at 10:37 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by cavalier at 10:37 AM PST - 4 comments
How many of the 1%-ers are rags to riches?
Is there a solid independent study showing the percentage of 1% wealthiest who were born into money vs. those born poor who worked for it?
Typography help! Help me identify this font.
Typography help! Help me identify this font. [more inside]
WordPress newbie -- where do I start?
I'm having difficulty using WordPress to set up a professional website (not a blog). I'm completely new to the platform and have found WordPress.org to be unhelpful. Are there resources for absolute beginners to WordPress? [more inside]
Help me purchase bluetooth headset.
Is anyone familiar with a product which would let you pair any Bluetooth headset, such as the motorokr's, with a desk phone, similar to the plantronics bluetooth headsets?
Chai doesn't taste like cardamom?
Why doesn't my chai taste like cardamom? What can I do to the cardamom to make its flavor more robust? [more inside]
posted by pyrom at 10:00 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by pyrom at 10:00 AM PST - 14 comments
How can I be active in planning for my parents future?
How can I take a more active role in my aging parents lives? More details and thoughts on finance and marital strife, and lack of open communication inside. [more inside]
eponysterical i know
I'm getting mysterious bug bites while I'm sleeping - can you help me figure out what's biting me? [more inside]
So he won't try to sleep in the kayak
Where can you pitch a tent near Kent Island, MD? [more inside]
Another Name for Dribble
What is this? My google-fu is failing. I need some keywords! [more inside]
posted by Sassyfras at 9:06 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Sassyfras at 9:06 AM PST - 5 comments
I would like a simple frame blocker please.
I'd like a CSS filter for Stylish (Chrome) that will block the first frame of a webpage. [more inside]
posted by Brent Parker at 9:01 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Brent Parker at 9:01 AM PST - 13 comments
Pumpkin did not fulfill destiny to become pie, seeks new path
I made pumpkin puree last Wednesday with the hopes of turning it into a pie. Alas, my sister brought the pie so I still have the puree in my fridge. I want to use it up - any ideas? [more inside]
posted by Elly Vortex at 8:59 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by Elly Vortex at 8:59 AM PST - 34 comments
I am an asshole, sorry man
Went on some dates with a friend, I'm not so into him, he's REALLY into me. How do I end this? I feel sick just thinking about it. [more inside]
So why don't you just adopt?
Adoption after infertility and loss: how did you reconcile the grief of not conceiving a biological child and come to find joy in the process of adopting? [more inside]
Scan it, scan it real good.
Airport body scans -- male and female buttons. How do they work? [more inside]
Getting a Tiltpod in Europe
How to find a Birth parent in the Basque Region of Spain?
Ms. Gogomickey just found out her birth father is from the Basque region of Spain. Any suggestions how to start a search given the extreme language barrier? She has a name and other specific information.
Problems with music over Bluetooth
I'm having problems playing music in my car from my iPhone via Bluetooth. [more inside]
posted by slogger at 8:08 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by slogger at 8:08 AM PST - 8 comments
Is it squirrels? They must use squirrels.
If I buy a can of mixed nuts, I find whole Brazil nuts inside. If I buy Brazil nuts in the shell and open them myself, I invariably end up with a pile of smashed oily nut-meat with chunks still stuck to the shell. How, dear AskMe, do those magicians at the factory manage to open Brazil nuts and extract them whole? This question has driven me nuts (ha ha) for years. [more inside]
Need a linux and mac compatible external hard drive please!
I need help selecting an external hard drive that will work to backup a linux with some rather large files on it and still be usable with a mac for occasional data storage. I'd like it to be at least 2 TB and vaguely reasonable in price. I've tried just searching for a hard drive online, but there seems to be some Mac and Linux specific things (or at least used to be) that may cause me problems, so I thought I'd ask for some guidance.
posted by katers890 at 7:59 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by katers890 at 7:59 AM PST - 11 comments
Our fancy dress party theme is '2011'. Any ideas?
Our fancy dress party theme is '2011'. Any ideas? [more inside]
Am I out my security deposit?
NYC subletting question - paid a security deposit to the leasee, with the understanding that their sec. deposit was still in the escrow account tied to the apartment. Now owner claims we need to pay up again. Help? [more inside]
posted by coupdefoudre at 7:29 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by coupdefoudre at 7:29 AM PST - 13 comments
Being self sufficient should also be tasty.
What can you tell me about keeping Quail? [more inside]
How to change this family dynamic?
Have you successfully changed a life-long family dynamic as an adult? Are you a youngest child? Tell me about it. [more inside]
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 7:18 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 7:18 AM PST - 26 comments
Is this an actual issue of the Sandman?
Which Sandman story (if any) is this? Might be misremembered, but the story was about three sons of a king who went on the traditional Bildungsroman, and at some point discovered, each in a different way, the meaning of serendipity. [more inside]
Over-thinking a plate of human beings.
You’re throwing a party. How do you invite some, but not all, members of one of your social circles with the minimal amount of hurt feelings and drama? [more inside]
Need a trustworthy kennel in London, please!
Can anyone recommend a dog kennel in London? [more inside]
Too bad professional athlete isn't a more practical thing to aspire to
Career options for a guy who likes to be active, and not at a desk all day? [more inside]
Have my job search and eat it, too.
How to look for a full-time job while my consultancy also tries to place me? [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 4:26 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Tehhund at 4:26 AM PST - 3 comments
Need a thick Aux-In Cable for my car.
I am looking for a new Aux-In Cable (3.5mm, male to male) to use my mp3 player in my car. I had a couple of cheaper retractable ones, but they usually break after a short period of use. I live in a cold climate and the cord gets cold in the car for long periods of time and I think this has an affect on its life.
I have seen some people with thicker aux-in cables in their car and I have searched, but I can't seem to locate one for a decent price.
Does anyone know where I might be able to buy a thick (preferably white, but not critical) 3.5mm Aux-in cable?
posted by dbirchum at 4:21 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by dbirchum at 4:21 AM PST - 13 comments
Readable book on AIDS pandemic?
Is there a great, readable book for science-loving arts graduate about the AIDS pandemic? [more inside]
posted by tonylord at 2:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by tonylord at 2:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Help me replace my Etnies
Which pair of Etnies (or similar) do I want? [more inside]
What inexpensive iconic British products can I use for a hamper?
Looking for iconic British products, for a gift hamper. [more inside]
posted by k_tron at 12:56 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by k_tron at 12:56 AM PST - 18 comments
Care for some all-purpose yogurt?
Crockpot yogurt: I've tried this twice now, both times delicious and creamy...but the viscosity of glue. What's going on here? [more inside]
posted by iamkimiam at 12:54 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by iamkimiam at 12:54 AM PST - 30 comments
November 28
Frog and Toad walk til dawn
Looking for a specific Frog and Toad story. [more inside]
posted by purplefiber at 11:00 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by purplefiber at 11:00 PM PST - 13 comments
Plague with reoccurring ankle injury!
I have this reoccurring injury on my ankle which always happen when I play futsal. [more inside]
How can I get boring daily activities out of the way more efficiently?
I want to spend less time and effort on "maintenance" activities. What are some good not-widely-known methods, or (cheap/small) products, to get this stuff done more quickly and get back to the more interesting parts of your day? (Examples in the extended explanation...) [more inside]
posted by SpiralT at 10:25 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by SpiralT at 10:25 PM PST - 25 comments
Sticky Question!
Ace of Cakes meets Gordon Ramsay... The question is, what would you name a bakery in rural Montana that creates unique, sculpted cakes? More inside. [more inside]
Help us get as many people as possible to our post-elopement surprise reveal party
My fiancé and I are eloping. Woo! We’re having a big ‘engagement’ party afterwards with our family and friends where we’ll reveal that we are married. But our family and friends live in multiple countries, as well as multiple states of Australia. We are a bit worried that people will be think, ‘I can’t make an engagement party, but I’ll go to the wedding’. Which, um, they won’t get to do. We know we won’t be able to get everyone to come to the party where all is revealed, but how can we maximise the number of people who do come? [more inside]
This person moved here. And then she said this.
I need to write narrative history for this paper. And I have no idea how. If you have tips for writing narrative or telling stories in general and narrative history in particular, those would be most appreciated! [more inside]
posted by kingfishers catch fire at 9:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by kingfishers catch fire at 9:45 PM PST - 5 comments
Creative Ways to Learn Creative Suite?
I'm slowly trying to learn Adobe Creative Suite 5. Dreamweaver right now, but eventually Photoshop, and beyond. And I'm having the devil of a time. The books I've seen provide detailed reference, not early learner's concepts or graded tutorials. Videos overpower my 13" laptop screen, and provide me with no simultaneous practice, nor any easy future reference. Randomly Googled tutorials are better, but I've yet to find a graded series. I'm just looking for the Basics, at a very conceptual level, and I figure trial and error and a good reference book will lead me from there.
Do your know of any low- or no-cost graded tutorials? [more inside]
posted by Violet Blue at 9:10 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Violet Blue at 9:10 PM PST - 17 comments
How to move across the country with no job lined up?
Is $10,000 enough for me to move out of Florida (where I am currently) and make it in Los Angeles without a job lined up? [more inside]
If this isn't the droid I'm looking for, which one is?
Black Friday gave me a deal on a Nook Color that was too good to pass up.
I'd like to dual boot Android on it using the SD slot and make it a functional tablet, but there's so many Android flavors out there... which one should I use? [more inside]
posted by indiebass at 9:01 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by indiebass at 9:01 PM PST - 12 comments
Please tell me I haven't missed the blogging boat!
Websites like Livejournal? RSSing? Cross-Posting? Questions inside. [more inside]
Quantitative analysis of freemium game purchases
How to approach a quantitative analysis of consumer purchasing decisions in the freemium games market? [more inside]
What is this strange feeling and why?
Why do I find this image (SFW, not disturbing to most people) incredibly repulsive? [more inside]
posted by Pope Xanax IV at 8:24 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Pope Xanax IV at 8:24 PM PST - 22 comments
y'know, like the Hendrix version of the Star-Spangled Banner.
I'm looking for more songs like this and this - long, wailing, meandering instrumental electric guitar music. Please recommend me some! [more inside]
Woburn to South Station in Boston
Boston Mefites: I need to get from Woburn/Anderson to South Station on Wednesday morning, probably close to 7:00 AM, and I will have a heavy bag. Don't really want to take the T.... [more inside]
posted by TWinbrook8 at 7:45 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by TWinbrook8 at 7:45 PM PST - 8 comments
Take a bweaff...
I have shortness of breath/cannot get a deep breath without forcing myself to yawn. Have you experienced this, and what is wrong with me? [more inside]
$3 christmas!
Tell me your best gift ideas for under $3! [more inside]
Trying to buy a Lenovo small form factor PC, but not sure what wireless network card to get. Help!
Trying to buy a Lenovo small form factor PC, but not sure what wireless network card to get. Help! [more inside]
How to make a Nepalese dish called phaparko dhendo?
What is phaparko dhendo and how can I learn to make it? [more inside]
posted by melissam at 7:14 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by melissam at 7:14 PM PST - 5 comments
Yay ipads for everyone! Now what?
I'm looking for a step by step guide to ipad 1:1 deployment in schools. [more inside]
Shop says car engine seized, with no warning signs. Need advice.
Catastrophefilter. Auto shop just called, say Subaru has seized engine. Baffling, because no warning signs. ~$5,000 for new one. Options? [more inside]
posted by Alaska Jack at 5:55 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 5:55 PM PST - 27 comments
What is written on the taped-up hands of mma fighters and why?
I like to watch The Ultimate Fighter and sometimes I see the taped-up hands of the fighters and there's something written on them in marker. What is usually written? Are those the initials of the person who taped them up? Why do they do this? Is it tradition? Is there a technical reason for it? I'm curious. Thanks!
posted by Sully at 5:53 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Sully at 5:53 PM PST - 5 comments
Best Path to a Job in a Medical Office?
Managers in health care offices: given my girlfriend's background and education, what's her best bet for landing a decent office/administrative (i.e., not clinical/nursing) job in a hospital? [more inside]
Who can cut a 4'x2' sheet of wood to custom, simple shape.
I need to get a piece of 1" thick, 48"x24" wood cut to a simple pattern. The supplier should accept credit cards and be able to ship. Where can I email this pattern to and have the work done? [more inside]
posted by lalochezia at 5:26 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by lalochezia at 5:26 PM PST - 15 comments
What's the legality of a student using a musical track in a spec ad for a big brand?
What's the legality of a student using a musical track in a spec ad for a big brand? [more inside]
A German *Thing* is Desired
Can you help me think of a neat way to give money to my sister to use toward a trip to Germany? A German-themed presentation for giving her money for Christmas? [more inside]
File Delivery Notification
Group A create a file and post it to location X on a shared server.
Group B need to know immediately when this file is available at location X.
It seems crazy that in order for Group B to know when the file is ready, Group A have to send a delivery email as well as post the file.
Is there any way an automated notification can be sent when a file is posted to a folder?
Candle: thoughtful or crude?
Is it thoughtful or vulgar to leave a candle burning in the guest bathroom when you entertain? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan at 4:22 PM PST - 80 comments
posted by Morrigan at 4:22 PM PST - 80 comments
Help find a lost book of surreal menus
What surreal work of fiction details the increasingly adventurous menus of two obviously pseudonymed authors? I've lost my copy, the name, the author's names, and possibly part of my sanity. [more inside]
posted by inappropriatefeast at 4:16 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by inappropriatefeast at 4:16 PM PST - 4 comments
Nostalgic German gifts
Looking for a present that will remind a grandmother of her German heritage. [more inside]
posted by Laura Macbeth at 3:48 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Laura Macbeth at 3:48 PM PST - 16 comments
Can I drink it?
Did F. Scott Fitzgerald every say "everyone's youth is a dream, a form of chemical madness"?
F. Scott FitzgeraldFilter: "Everyone's youth is a dream, a form of chemical madness." I've seen this quote attributed to F. Scott. Did he actually say it? [more inside]
Mocassins. Where can I find them?
Where can I get a pair of thin-soled, comfortable leather moccasins that are the next-best thing to walking around in bare feet? [more inside]
Please help me talk to my relative about his marijuana problem...
How can I talk to my relative about his marijuana problem? [more inside]
What to do about a friend living in an unhealthy situation? A friend lives in a house that is unclean to the point of being hazardous, and I don't know how I can help.
What to do about a friend living in an unhealthy situation? A friend lives in a house that is unclean to the point of being hazardous, and I don't know how I can help. [more inside]
Looking for an OCR program that will handle batch processing and columns automatically.
We're looking for an OCR program that will handle batch processing and columns automatically. [more inside]
What Third Is This?
Has there been any controversy over whether 'What Child Is This/Greensleeves' is to be played in a major or minor key? [more inside]
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:42 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:42 PM PST - 11 comments
Do new and hip fleece patterns exist?
DIY Holiday Gifts: I love sewing easy projects with fleece, but hate how all the patterns out there are stuck in the 80s. Help me find some more hip, updated and/or useful patterns! [more inside]
posted by Kindlekat at 1:38 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Kindlekat at 1:38 PM PST - 17 comments
When is it okay to keep the baggage in the bag?
Should I tell my (potential) new boyfriend about my marriage and divorce? Or can I keep this secret like I want to? [more inside]
Help with identifying Acme Novelty Library issue?
Anybody a Chris Ware expert out there? I'm trying to determine if I have a first printing of Acme Novelty Library #1. It's got a $3.50 cover price, but says nothing anywhere about which printing it is (though much of the text is so tiny it's hard to see). It DOES say "issue 1 volume 4" in one spot, but I don't think this has to do with printing _ I don't think there were more than three printings. I'm duking it out with a pal over this -- and I really want to be right! Thanks.
Backwards inflation calculator?
I'm looking for an accurate inflation calculator that will tell me how much a certain sum in today's dollars would be worth in any particular year over the past 30 years. For example, if I have $1000.00 USD today, what would be the equivalent monetary value in 1982? Or 1993?
How do I find out what I want to study in college?
I have been in college for 4 years and still don't know what to do in life. How do I find out what I want in life? [more inside]
Can I get a charge number for that?
Help me figure out how to manage an apparently needy co-worker who comes to me for what to me seems like counseling during work. (IANAC) [more inside]
posted by Feantari at 1:04 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Feantari at 1:04 PM PST - 13 comments
Didn't register my car within 30 days, now what?
I live in Portland, OR and my grandpa in Minnesota gave me his old car which I drove out to Portland in September. Because of money issues (starting school, less work hours, etc) I did not get around to registering my car in Oregon within 30 days. I have some questions now that it's almost December and my grandpa just received a tab renewal notice in the mail. [more inside]
posted by Corduroy at 12:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Corduroy at 12:59 PM PST - 8 comments
Light my way to this song, Blue-nosed Guitar Man.
Rochester, NYers, Christmas music-ID buffs, or anyone familiar with Armand Schaubroeck: what is the song in the background of the classic House of Guitars Christmas television commercial? [more inside]
posted by ifjuly at 12:53 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ifjuly at 12:53 PM PST - 6 comments
Uncommon Courtesies
In the last Roderick on the Line, John says that he always gets a houseguest a glass of water, before they ask - because 9 times out of 10, someone always loves a glass of water. I love this idea. What are some low-key courtesies you extend or have had extended to you by friends, romantic partners, suitors, etc. that show someone you're thinking about their needs and general comfort? [more inside]
posted by Apropos of Something at 12:46 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by Apropos of Something at 12:46 PM PST - 55 comments
Cable outlet installation by someone other than the cable company?
Cable outlet installation by someone other than the cable company? [more inside]
Best Carryon Bag to take to Cancun, Mexico
Looking for the best carryon bag and the cheapest carryon bag dimensions up to 10 x 16 x 24 inches for travel to Mexico via Southwest. [more inside]
What is a fun/cute way to display a large amount of cash as a gift?
What is a fun/cute way to display a large amount of cash as a gift? [more inside]
posted by heyheylanagirl at 12:03 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by heyheylanagirl at 12:03 PM PST - 35 comments
Who's the VP of Go Make Me a Sandwich?
On a generic level, who sits on the board of directors for a major/multinational corporation? [more inside]
Help me find communication skills books
Book filter - I am looking for books and other resources that teach interpersonal communication skills. [more inside]
posted by 7life at 11:26 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by 7life at 11:26 AM PST - 5 comments
Is fur actually worse than leather?
Is wearing fur actually any worse than wearing leather? There's a much stronger taboo against wearing fur, but I can't think of any reasons why it's worse than leather.
Time to canvas-ize some photos!
Looking for advice/tips on printing photos on canvas. Anyone have a service they like? [more inside]
iTunes Match Problems with iPhone Playback
I've had some problems with my iTunes Library on my iPhone since signing up for iTunes Match and am hoping the hive mind can help. Specific details on album art, track navigation and song options ahead. [more inside]
Now you see her, now you don't
Looking for songs about girls running away/being awesome by not being attached. [more inside]
I need new, durable headphones. Again.
I've had enough of all of my Shure in-ear isolating earbuds dying on one side. My right bud died suddenly, and this is the third pair in a row. I've had this pair for less than 6 months. Could you recommend a durable pair of isolating/noise cancelling earbuds/headphones with a few requirements? [more inside]
posted by flibbertigibbet at 10:21 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by flibbertigibbet at 10:21 AM PST - 32 comments
Looking for secluded getaway between L.A. and San Diego, via train and bicycle.
I'm looking for a secluded, peaceful cabin or hotel within cycling distance of any of the Amtrak Surfliner stations south of Los Angeles (Laguna Niguel, San Juan Capistrano, San Clemente, Oceanside, Solana Beach, San Diego). It's for a short December getaway. Any recommendations?
Drawing with an iPad?
I need some suggestions for an e-drawing set-up. My girlfriend has a Macbook and a 1st generation iPad. She wants to use some combination of these to start drawing with a tablet. What's the best rig? [more inside]
posted by one_bean at 9:54 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by one_bean at 9:54 AM PST - 14 comments
Lowest friction string material
Mefi Physicists / Material Science Engineers: What type of string material, when looped around and suspending an axle, will allow the aforementioned axle to rotate most efficiently? [more inside]
posted by satori_movement at 9:49 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by satori_movement at 9:49 AM PST - 17 comments
Why doesn't my local install of WordPress display correctly on my iPhone?
Why doesn't my local XAMPP install of WordPress display correctly on my iPhone? [more inside]
posted by deern the headlice at 9:48 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by deern the headlice at 9:48 AM PST - 7 comments
Looking for recipes
Looking for recipes that are low to very low calorie, filling and full of volume, made with whole foods and whole ingredients, gluten and grain free, and lower carb if possible. Thank you so much! I love really spicy stuff too.
I have money now, how do I know it's going to the right place?
How can find a trustworthy assessment of my debt? [more inside]
You might as well burn that $200
So I've got a Kindle Fire - I don't need an interface to the Amazon ecosystem so I'll probably never use it - unless.... I root it. So... [more inside]
Movies with Radio DJ narrators?
What are some other movies like Vanishing Point and The Warriors with a radio DJ-style narrator that exists in the same time and world as the characters?
posted by JauntyFedora at 9:00 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by JauntyFedora at 9:00 AM PST - 20 comments
How do MRI and x ray work
MRI ...what it shows and x ray missed [more inside]
i want to eat two turkey legs
Houston hotel/neighborhood suggestions
Where in Houston should I stay for a solo, weekend trip? [more inside]
Trying to get my bearings, so to speak
What do I need to know about "bearings" in my car? I don't know anything about "bearings" in my car. [more inside]
Oh, Christmas Tree or Seasonally Appropriate Alternative...
I want to show off my Christmas ornaments. I have a curious cat. Please help me brainstorm solutions! (details & constraints inside) [more inside]
posted by pointystick at 8:17 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by pointystick at 8:17 AM PST - 20 comments
I made a stupid mistake a flushed Clorox wipes down my apartment toilet and it clogged the plumbing. What are my responsibilities as a tenant?
I made a stupid mistake a flushed Clorox wipes down my apartment toilet and it clogged the plumbing. What are my responsibilities as a tenant? [more inside]
Buzz off already!
YANMD: Should I see a GP or go straight to an ENT about this buzzing in my right ear? [more inside]
posted by Anima Mundi at 8:03 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Anima Mundi at 8:03 AM PST - 4 comments
Splash-slash-slosh?
I have forced-hot water baseboard heating in my apartment. It sloshes. Should it slosh? [more inside]
Briefly Detained in Turkey
I flew back to the states from Istanbul yesterday and was detained briefly after my name apparently triggered a security warning. My question is, how do I find out what kind of warning is being issued. I assume it was the Turkish governments watch list because after sometime had passed, the authorities came over, returned my passport and told me they had called a US govt agency and I was free to board the plane. [more inside]
Does my partner really need a hysterosalpingogram (HSG) when we have no reason to believe she has fertility problems?
Does my partner really need a hysterosalpingogram (HSG) when we have no reason to believe she has fertility problems? [more inside]
a nervous tic became a foot problem
Have you ever had this awful tender thing happen to the ball of your foot? How did it get fixed? [more inside]
Samples used in "An Empty Bliss Beyond This World"?
Looking for all the original samples used in The Caretaker - An Empty Bliss Beyond This World (♫ Listen) [more inside]
Short ribs in fridge for 5-6 days, still ok?
Can I still cook this? (short rib edition) [more inside]
Heirloom Engagement Ring--is this possible?
My girlfriend and I are planning on getting engaged soon--hooray! She would like to use some family heirloom stones for the engagement ring. We're not sure how to best proceed. [more inside]
posted by notswedish at 5:56 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by notswedish at 5:56 AM PST - 20 comments
Mudslinger.
DIYers: How anally retentive with joint compound do you need to be to prevent visibility of seams after painting? [more inside]
How do I talk to gf about her past, secrecy and daddy issues?
She doesn't want to talk about her past; I feel it's relevant to our relationship. Most of her close friends are ex-FWBs and flirt incessantly/proposition her for sex, she's secretive about things. I don't know what to do or what to say. [more inside]
This record what is it
Random obscure record filter: Band was "The Delta *something*", 70s (synth?) cover album, abstract jacket. [more inside]
November 27
Hole in a metal box
I need to make a hole in a piece of metal. How do I do that? [more inside]
posted by devnull at 10:56 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by devnull at 10:56 PM PST - 17 comments
GET YOURS THUMBS UP OUT OF MY FACE, KIND SIR
Is there a way to disable Facebook notifications for when someone likes something you post/comment? I don't mean e-mail notifications, I mean the little globe icon notifications on the top left corner of the Facebook site. This is driving me crazy. [more inside]
Can I make a Belkin USB Cable Act Like A Direct Crossover Cable?
I bought a Belkin Easy Transfer USB Cable for Windows 7 thinking it would act much like a direct crossover cable connection would. Instead, it only seems to let me transfer the files and folders needed to set up your old Windows profile on a new copy of Windows, rather than giving me access to all files, folders and partitions, which is what I need. Is there a hack to get this cable to do what I want it to do?
Did Seether save someone's life?
Looking for a story about the song "Fine Again" by Seether and a depressed teenager. [more inside]
posted by Gorgik at 10:16 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Gorgik at 10:16 PM PST - 2 comments
Video driver FAIL, literally!
TechSupportFilter: Laptop system freezing upon screen blanking -AND- driver fail issues (GeForce 360M edition). [more inside]
Typical mid-20's crap.
I feel unbelievably shitty after a close friend hurt my feelings. I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Will my Celexa headaches go away?
Celexa headaches? [more inside]
Any recommendations for an apartment broker in Vancouver, BC?
Vancouver, BC apartment brokers: any recommendations? Especially for one that will help me find an apartment that will allow me to have a dog [more inside]
posted by lesbiassparrow at 8:28 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by lesbiassparrow at 8:28 PM PST - 4 comments
What is wrong with my nephew?
I am concerned about my nephew's strange behavior. He paces a lot, is extremely antisocial, and exhibits other odd behavior. [more inside]
posted by ElizabethEllis at 8:23 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by ElizabethEllis at 8:23 PM PST - 43 comments
Help me find a picture of Queen Elizabeth II, seated!
Does anyone know where I can find a picture of Queen Elizabeth II, sitting in a chair? [more inside]
posted by lazy robot at 8:05 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by lazy robot at 8:05 PM PST - 11 comments
Need a non-wool, non-feather, hypoallergenic bedspread
Can anyone suggest a hypoallergenic blanket that's not wool or feathers? [more inside]
posted by wenestvedt at 8:04 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by wenestvedt at 8:04 PM PST - 10 comments
what now?
What now? [more inside]
SLC to Grand Canyon, Doable?
I'm going to Salt Lake City next year for a conference. Please help me figure out whether my idea to tack on a trip to the Grand Canyon in just a few extra days is feasible, sensible, brilliant, or not so smart. [more inside]
posted by Miko at 7:02 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Miko at 7:02 PM PST - 17 comments
Hair today, Gone tomorrow
Men of Metafilter: you cut your own hair with clippers because it's that short and there's no need to pay someone else to do it. What clippers do you use? [more inside]
posted by Leezie at 7:01 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by Leezie at 7:01 PM PST - 36 comments
I need a drink
From time to time I enjoy an adult beverage, but I don't like to taste my liquor. Basically, I like drinks that taste like candy. What would you suggest for me? Additional requirements below the fold. [more inside]
posted by spinturtle at 6:55 PM PST - 56 comments
posted by spinturtle at 6:55 PM PST - 56 comments
The pain remains
IT Band problems: Tried the foam roller, deep tissue massage, building the muscle and stretches (all to no avail). What are other remedies? [more inside]
posted by xinglin91 at 6:54 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by xinglin91 at 6:54 PM PST - 12 comments
Best way to distribute my music to Spotify, Itunes, Amazon ECT? Secondly, how can I protect my songs prior to releasing them?
Best way to distribute my music to Spotify, Itunes, Amazon ECT? Secondly, how can I protect my songs prior to releasing them? [more inside]
First time Roasting Turkey Breast
Question about turkey roasting for a turkey-cooking newbie. [more inside]
posted by piratebowling at 6:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by piratebowling at 6:48 PM PST - 9 comments
One of the Boys
How do you, as a woman, succeed in the "good ol'" boy's club? [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 6:44 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 6:44 PM PST - 28 comments
Can't remember Bosnian War film....
I am unable to remember a Bosnian War (I think) film I saw randomly on cable about 5 years ago. American male lead. Spoilers within. [more inside]
Swahili-to-English translation
Can anyone out there translate these two short phrases/sayings, probably idiomatic, from Swahili to English? [more inside]
posted by telophase at 6:02 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by telophase at 6:02 PM PST - 9 comments
WANTED: Chicagoland therapist specializing in ADD assistance
I am a woman in her early 30's who has been diagnosed with ADHD (or ADD, I don't remember what behavioral health folks call it now) by four different pdocs. I am looking for a therapist in either the NW Suburbs or North Shore suburbs (preferrably those accessible via 294) of Chicago who specializes in dealing with people in my situation. [more inside]
Why didn't those crazy kids get together earlier?
If the flat earth theory was unpopular in Europe, why did so few of them try to sail west before 1492? [more inside]
posted by tchemgrrl at 5:43 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by tchemgrrl at 5:43 PM PST - 40 comments
Gift idea for friend
Need a gift idea for someone close to me who has a deep interest in the "original" King James (1611) Bible, this person studies the bible all the time and is very computer literate. Was hoping for some ideas.
posted by sandyp at 5:25 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by sandyp at 5:25 PM PST - 11 comments
Food Processors: Heaven or Hell?
Help restore harmony to our home. Do we need a food processor? Do we want a food processor? (more inside) [more inside]
19th C. overland travel
How did 19th century immigrants cross Pennsylvania en route to Ohio River transportation? [more inside]
become a public speaking teacher?
How does one become a public speaking teacher? Is this an actual job? I am in the UK but worldly advice welcome?
Motivational Poster for Daria?
Are there any existential, motivational posters?
(not these guys.)
I'm looking for posters that aren't motivational in the usual sense; hopeful, syrupy statements about the future and quotes about how life is beautiful isn't the sort of motivation I'm going for.
I'm looking more for blunt truths. [more inside]
posted by elleyebeebeewhy at 4:41 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by elleyebeebeewhy at 4:41 PM PST - 14 comments
Las Vegas to Lynchburg in a 2004 Hyundai Accent?
I plan to drive from Las Vegas, Nevada, to Lynchburg, Virginia, in my good-condition 2004 Hyundai Accent. My husband thinks the car will blow up on the way. [more inside]
The naming of cats is a serious matter
Help-me-name-my-cats filter! Two freshly adopted kitties need names. Details and mandatory pictures inside. (Bonus: videos!) [more inside]
posted by kitarra at 4:32 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by kitarra at 4:32 PM PST - 50 comments
Choose-my-laptop-filter
Choose-my-laptop-filter. This is, in broad strokes, what I'm considering: 15" Lenovo W520 with the 1080p screen, 16Gb RAM and dual SSDs in RAID 0. Questions inside. [more inside]
posted by Leon at 4:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Leon at 4:24 PM PST - 4 comments
How do billionaires/multi millionaires raise cash for very large purchases like for example a $500 million home?
How do billionaires/multi millionaires raise cash for very large purchases like for example a $500 million home? I ask since most of their net worth comes from their stocks which I presume they don't liquidate. [more inside]
American (Express) Hegemony?
Why is the corporate credit card space seemingly dominated by American Express? [more inside]
posted by kanuck at 3:48 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by kanuck at 3:48 PM PST - 11 comments
Needing a car by next Fall.
Hello MetaFilter, I am a marine sciences graduate student in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. I will be moving to Morehead City next Fall for the second half of my masters program, and will need a car. I am not sure how I will be able to do this. (more inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:18 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by anonymous at 3:18 PM PST - 10 comments
green building
Recently gotten interested in energy-efficiency design; that is, super insulation, ICF walls, triple-pane windows, with heat recovery ventilation. But (aside from experienced practicioners) discussions seem to go 1. they are converts, "green" is a religion, everything has to meet these sometimes costly/untested standards, and that trumps pocketbook costs. 2. skeptics, conveniently and defensively dismissing green building because it adds too much to the cost, and payback time will never justify the up-front costs. Help me to understand the ADDED costs of achieving higher levels of energy efficiency, going beyond the existing Building Code energy requirements, (e.g. using German triple-pane windows instead of domestic double-pane, how much more?) and how do you figure the spread out to the building's future use? Part 2 is that cost and efficiency are not the only metrics involved here. Air quality, landfill waste, health, manufacturing waste, etc are part of the equation also.
How does a Builder, Architect or prospective homeowner, new to this shifting landscape, start to understand, and explain it?
My friend wants to pledge for fraternity, I don't think it's a good idea, should I let his parents know?
I have a close family friend who is currently a freshman in college. Long explanation inside, the general question is if I should talk to him about it, or tell the parents? [more inside]
Is it too late?
I'd like to become a director. I'm a 40 year old female. Is this a realistic ambition? [more inside]
Billiard-ball smooth
Keeping the undergrowth in check - male edition. [more inside]
Essays on Il Conformista?
I am working on a short persuasive paper (about 1000 words) for a Narrative in the Novel and Film class, in which I must argue for the inclusion of a film of my choosing in a future iteration of the class. The film about which I have chosen to write about is Il Conformista, which would (theoretically) be used in a section of the class called "Terror, Surveillance, and Human Rights". I've been having trouble finding critical essays about the film that specifically look at the film's portrayal of Fascist Italy. What are some good sources for essays on this film, or on the portrayal of WWII-era Italy in cinema? (I am not looking for reviews of the film, of which I have plenty.)
posted by pxe2000 at 2:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by pxe2000 at 2:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Multi-site cms for web design shop
Multi-site cms: I'm thinking of starting a website design /hosting business targeted at a few small business verticals I work with. What is the best cms to use to control many mostly standardized sites centrally but also allow for limited customization for the client? [more inside]
Sydney or Melbourne as a "Walking City"?
Sydney vs Melbourne as a pedestrian paradise: I am a sociologist doing a study which involves observing pedestrians/window shoppers/etc. I am based in New York City, which is fantastic for my field of work. In Feb/March, I plan to go to Australia for two months, to either Sydney or Melbourne. I have never been to Australia before. QUESTION: Which city has more of a "pedestrian culture"? That is, which is more of a "walking city?" (If you know New York City, my favorite place to observe is Union Square -- I am looking for a comparable location.) Would prefer a place filled with locals, not tourists. Thanks!
Child’s Party Invitation Help / Gift Request
Please help me figure out how to word the birthday party invitation for my daughter. [more inside]
Room service is room service, and I already know what the inside of a Marriott room looks like...
I'll be in Irvine for work this coming week and will have Tuesday and Wednesday evening to myself. Please help me not waste those two nights in my hotel room eating overpriced room service. [more inside]
A new Jean Nate
Is there a good replacement for the old Jean Nate - After Bath Splash? [more inside]
Need the name of the song in a movie trailer
What is the name and author of the classical chorus-like music in the Sophie Scroll: The Final Days trailer? [more inside]
posted by joshuamcginnis at 1:26 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by joshuamcginnis at 1:26 PM PST - 2 comments
Trying to switch my cat to wet food, but she keeps vomiting!
I'm trying to switch my older cat from a dry to a wet canned food diet, but every time I try she ends up with vomiting and diarrhea. Help! [more inside]
Navy ROTC transfer from virginia to georgetown? Should I even try?
Navy ROTC transfer from virginia to georgetown? Should I even try? [more inside]
Tea noob: good caffeine-free teas I'll like? Other comfort drinks/food to consider?
Comfort drinks/food: Can you suggest some good, full-bodied teas without the caffeine? What other drinks or foods should I consider? (Location: U.S.) [more inside]
posted by Eolienne at 12:37 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Eolienne at 12:37 PM PST - 28 comments
Who makes a *good* disk imaging utility?
I'm getting a new laptop. How do I make a backup of what's on the hard drive, before I blow it all away? [more inside]
posted by fvox13 at 12:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by fvox13 at 12:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Shopping for jewelry online.
Looking for a website that sells jewelry with a search option for specific themes. Specifically, I want to buy a bracelet with a camera charm. [more inside]
"We usually do this song with a tambourine, but I keep breaking it."
I need the most durable unbreakable bulletproof tambourine ever. [more inside]
Help me be a good (cheap) aunt!
Please help me figure out *cheap* gifts for a ton of nephews and nieces. Caveat: I want to buy gifts, but I don't want to spend too much or work too hard. [more inside]
How to stop worrying and love myself
Lately I have been binging on self-help books, surfing the internet for articles on family issues -- I just want an answer, to know what went wrong and how to fix it. But everything seems hollow. I feel horribly stuck and I desperately want to move forward and I don't know how. Lots and lots of details inside. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 9:59 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by bunderful at 9:59 AM PST - 18 comments
Violent Ex
Asking for a friend: her unhinged, stalker ex-boyfriend's behaviour has escalated into violence. We are all very concerned. Any help would be appreciated, particularly if you know any details about dealing with this kind of situation in London. [more inside]
Ski store/outlet in Berkshires? Adirondacks? Catskills?
Help me find a ski equiptment store I remember from my childhood in the Catskills or Berkshires or Adirondacks? [more inside]
posted by LittleMy at 8:29 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by LittleMy at 8:29 AM PST - 2 comments
Who's doing a Transient, Random job of producing motorik pop these days?
I need to find many, many more current bands that produce hypnotic, melodic music in a motorik or krautrock-influenced vein. [more inside]
posted by Sonny Jim at 8:22 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by Sonny Jim at 8:22 AM PST - 24 comments
Insane 2 year old found abandoned by exhausted parents
Seattle 2 year old is going stir crazy every day and needs to get out of the house. We're getting tired of our usual local activities, what are some of your favorites? [more inside]
Titles, taxes, and insurance, oh my
Buying a car from my mom in NJ for a token (i.e. far less than blue book) amount. What's the best (cheapest) way to get it legally registered/insured in Chicago, IL. Any pitfalls I should look out for?
posted by Oktober at 8:09 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Oktober at 8:09 AM PST - 6 comments
Why am I writing myself?
Is this some type of spam? If so how would it work? [more inside]
posted by robotyoshimi at 7:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by robotyoshimi at 7:21 AM PST - 8 comments
How do you deal with flakey friends?
How do you deal with flakey friends that bail 99% of the time? [more inside]
Not libertarianism, not socialism, something completely different
Where would I go to collaborate on re-architecting government? [more inside]
JRail accessible waterfalls between Osaka and Hiroshima.
JRail accessible waterfalls between Osaka and Hiroshima. [more inside]
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 5:17 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 5:17 AM PST - 5 comments
I got a pressure cooker! Hit me with your tastiest recipes y'all!
I got a pressure cooker! Hit me with your tastiest recipes y'all!
November 26
Dish Cloth?
looking for a great Kitchen dish cloth: anyone have something they really like? Mostly for wiping up....
In USD, would the price of gold fall with the Euro?
If the Euro collapses, will the price of gold in US Dollars fall as people seek to hold a stronger currency?
CCNA bootcamp, Detroit area, in Dec?
Good Cisco technical training (CCNA) in the Detroit area?
Looking for a course the week of 12-16 Dec, somewhere in the Detroit area.. Anyone with first-hand knowledge of technical training in SE Michigan? [more inside]
Buying glass bottles in philly.
Where can an individual order a small number of glass bottles in the Philadelphia area? [more inside]
posted by dzkalman at 9:55 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by dzkalman at 9:55 PM PST - 10 comments
I Want It Made Out of Black Box Material
Toyota Yaris 2012 or an alternative compact bubble car? [more inside]
posted by rokusan at 9:22 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by rokusan at 9:22 PM PST - 22 comments
Help us get the perfect pet-sitting thank-you gift!
Our friends watched our dog over the Thanksgiving holiday (about 5 days), and we'd like to give them a great thank-you gift. Can you help? [more inside]
There was this one time, it was great, you gotta believe me....No, I don't have proof.
Help me decide on a pocket video recorder. [more inside]
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:51 PM PST - 9 comments
Do I move out and leave my best friend with a man I (and sometime we) hate?
Friendship Help! Currently living with my boyfriend, my borderline-diagnosed best friend and her friend with whom she has a like/dislike relationship with and who I can't stand. When the lease ends, what should I do? [more inside]
Speaking of Christmas...seasonal monologues, please?
I'm trying to get into the spirit of Christmas, but not musically. Do you have favorite seasonal spoken word pieces, and can you tell me where to find them? [more inside]
Getting a driver's license without insurance or car
I have been driving for two years under permit. I took the written test. I just now have to pass the driving test. I am just as good as my friends who now have driver's license, except I didn't take the test. I am eighteen. Recently, my grandparents told me to get out of their lives, so I have no access to their car. But since I am in LA, it would be convenient if I can get a driver's license and rent a car. I can't drive unless I have a car. But then I can't get my driver's license without a car.
I barely have money, so I am on a tight budget. I can't rent a car because I need a driver's license. I also need someone over 21 to watch over me when I drive, but there were no close adults in my life except my grandparents.
How the hell do I go about this? Most of my friends don't have cars either, and the ones that do... I am not close enough to borrow their cars. I don't want to overwhelm them with my shitty family situation either.
Only if I had a car. I am in Los Angeles.
what is wrong with my car & how much will it cost me?
Car has 2 mystery problems. Hoping to get a sense of what I might be looking at before I put myself at the mercy of the local mechanics. Details to follow. [more inside]
Having trouble figuring out if I'm overreacting to my husband grabbing my arm
Help me figure out if this is a relationship dealbreaker-- my husband recently dragged me out of my chair, against my will. [more inside]
posted by DianaV at 6:46 PM PST - 67 comments
posted by DianaV at 6:46 PM PST - 67 comments
How do I finish removing PowerDVD?
How do I remove the last trace of PowerDVD from my Win7-64 system [more inside]
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 6:41 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 6:41 PM PST - 9 comments
Skinny guy needs skinny suit
Help a Minneapolis hipster find an extra-slim cut, European-style suit. [more inside]
I don't want to feel like scrooge this time every year
Help an American engineer a good Australian christmas. [more inside]
I took the one less traveled by.
Please tell me quirky, fun, healthy, CHEAP things to do and places to see in Victoria (Australia) over Xmas break. [more inside]
posted by b33j at 5:41 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by b33j at 5:41 PM PST - 7 comments
What's a good Windows alternative to Photobooth?
What's a good Windows program that I can use to take photos with a webcam? Think Photo Booth for Mac. [more inside]
Can't legally leave my job. Help make this suck less.
I hate my job and yet I can't legally leave, I don't think. Help me cope. [more inside]
Should I file a restraining order against my ex?
Considering a restraining order against an ex, but I have a lot of questions about the logistics and just generally whether it's going to make the situation better or worse. For example, I don't think he knows where I live- so how would it even work? Many more questions inside. [more inside]
What are the sexual steps you take while dating?
I'm female in my mid-twenties and due to circumstances have been a late entrant into dating. I've been out with several guys (ages 27 - 33) and am trying to get a better handle on how quickly things move forward in terms of physical/sexual. So while every guy, girl, and experience is different, could someone share what they might consider standard in their experience? I'd be curious to know what peoples' typical natural progressions are (for a person they're dating, not a hook up) in terms of the steps, not necessarily timing. For instance, do you generally do the first base/second base/third bases in order? [more inside]
Tokyo Sexytime!
Asking for a friend- I'm serious! Friend is headed to Tokyo this December, and is looking for some cool weird funny sexy sex clubs and/or shops. "More quirky than scary," she says. Any ideas?
Can you grow goals?
I used to have clear goals. Now I don't. Have you been through a foggy period in which you had no clue what you wanted to do with your life while everyone around you spoke with confidence about moving abroad, writing the book or saving the world? What can I do to shake myself out of limbo before 10 or 15 years fly by? [more inside]
Sea of memories need creative home
After sorting through a castle of boxes, I discovered hundreds and hundreds of loose photographs. The photographs vary in size from
3 x 5 to 8 x 10 and even a few 10 x13's. I have many albums, and they are full. I have several photograph boxes, also full. I would like to display as many as I can without being obnoxious but I'm looking for fresh ideas. What are some interesting, space saving artistic ways I can use and display my sea of memories? [more inside]
Help me print the Mucha poster I love muchly
I have an old chest of drawers I'd like to spruce up by painting and découpaging a poster on the front, a horizontal slice of poster on each drawer. I've chosen Summer by Alphonse Mucha as the poster, but I have a couple of questions about how to get a poster that suits my purposes. [more inside]
posted by orange swan at 12:46 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by orange swan at 12:46 PM PST - 8 comments
CAD laptop
Seeking advice on a laptop/notebook for CAD. That may also (possibly) be able to run a Playstation 2 emulator. [more inside]
Need help diagnosing a monitor issue
I have a monitor problem. Or maybe a motherboard problem. Or maybe both. Or maybe neither. But there is a problem with my computer, and I need some help diagnosing it. [more inside]
posted by Shohn at 12:08 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Shohn at 12:08 PM PST - 4 comments
Looking for uplifting, electronic music
I love the music from this video that I discovered on Metafilter. Any suggestions for artists that make similar sounding music?
Healthy living when life involves a lot of travel
My life currently involves a lot of travel. How do I maintain healthy habits (eating and exercise)? [more inside]
How to store thousands of travel photos?
Which cloud storage should we use to store extended on-the-go travel photos? [more inside]
What's the best holiday movie on Netflix Instant?
What are the best Christmas/holiday programs available on streaming video? I'm especially thinking Netflix, but things available on Hulu, Amazon, etc. are also welcome! [more inside]
Bulls versus....? Who would be the best to see?
Now that the NBA has come to an agreement (or is very close to), that means I can purchase an awesome Xmas present for my pops! Which team would be the best/most exciting/fun to see play against the Chicago Bulls? [more inside]
posted by fuzzysoft at 11:21 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by fuzzysoft at 11:21 AM PST - 7 comments
Cost of fumigation?
What's a reasonable estimate for tenting and fumigating to remove dry-wood termites from a single story, two-bedroom house in the Bay Area in Northern California? [more inside]
Ho, ho, ho for my home, home, home!
What are your favorite Christmas decorations? Which decorative items should I replace after losing most of them in a flood? [more inside]
posted by Nickel Pickle at 10:52 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by Nickel Pickle at 10:52 AM PST - 24 comments
Crazy love
The once love of my life contacted me today to say her feelings haven't changed in the eight years we've been apart. Neither have mine. What now? [more inside]
Fixing dismissive text messages
I feel silly asking this, but please help my robotic text messaging style convey more warmth. [more inside]
posted by mossicle at 10:19 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by mossicle at 10:19 AM PST - 25 comments
I've got a mystery disorder- Pin pricks, ashy skin! Help!
YANAD, but my doctor is stumped. Symptoms: Painful prickly needles, ashy skin, angry red hives. Appears at times of stress. More inside! [more inside]
Ultra-Cautious filter
New checks came in and after my name the "Sr." designation is used. My father and I share the same name and technically I am a "Jr", though I have never used that designation either. I am concerned about identity issues, should I be? [more inside]
Smartphone injury?
I use my smartphone a lot and my hands/thumbs are getting sore. I know how to stave off pain from typing and hunching over my computer, but those techniques don't work for this. Can you recommend stretches or massage techniques? [more inside]
Is it her? Is it not her? Is it sort-of her? What do we do?
My grandmother in the process of dying is suffering through a sudden dementia?... delirium?... from her medical condition that is causing her to be extremely belligerent and hurtful to those around her. We know this "isn't her," but we don't know what to do, what time to spend with her, what is going on. I'm looking for perspectives on this. [more inside]
How can I help my family accept my partner?
My family refuses to use the correct pronouns for my partner. What is the best way to approach this? [more inside]
I've never done this before!
Some tips for an older accountant trying to transition into a less-stressful work environment? Also, some culturally specific issues. [more inside]
Using my domain on blogger
Using my domain on blogger [more inside]
Blacklight bleed on Samsung 40 inch TV
Concerned about "backlight bleed" on Samsung 40" I just bought, can you help me out? [more inside]
Affordable tower with premium tech support
My father-in-law wants a sub-$500 desktop tower that will last him 5-6 years with minimal upkeep. All he uses are webbrowsers, spreadsheets, and Quicken. Most important features: upgradeability and reliable tech support. Can you recommend a SoCal vendor who can give him what he wants out-of-the-box?
Pasta Sauce Recipes
Easy, awesome pasta sauce recipes please. [more inside]
Help me to observe myself asking this question
I want to learn about mindfulness, to be more mindful. Also known as witnessing or distancing. The ability to be both within and outside a given situation, not to be overwhelmed but to have a part of your mind observe yourself and others all the time. I think this is what very expensive education can teach you. [more inside]
posted by slimeline at 4:35 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by slimeline at 4:35 AM PST - 19 comments
Stealing pictures.
Is it proper for someone to make a profile page using a picture of myself grabbed from another website and make it public without my permission? [more inside]
Is it Safe, the Hibiscus edition
I found a large bag of dried hibiscus while cleaning out the back of my pantry... and it must be around four or even five years old. Any problem using it? [more inside]
posted by taz at 3:45 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by taz at 3:45 AM PST - 9 comments
How can I sass up a pair of motorcycle gloves for my Spike-Lee-Films-Loving man this Christmas?
My fella loves the "love/hate" monologue in Do The Right Thing and in particular, Radio Raheem's blinging handwear. He's mentioned how cool this would look on his motorcycle gloves - how can I execute this in a way that isn't completely tragic [my opinion] and doesn't ruin the safety function of said gloves? [more inside]
November 25
Jackets for Active Athenas?
I've been pleasantly surprised by how easy it's been to find decent plus-sized cycling gear--until the temperature dropped. Now it's time for a warmish jacket to wear on my morning commute and weekend rides and I can't find a thing. Plus-sized active women, where do you shop for outerwear? [more inside]
Help me find the name of this book
What is the name of book where there's a floating city and an orb which allows detectives to travel to other time/city/dimension, but now there's a problem and they're stuck or maybe travel is blocked. [more inside]
Where do I find the North American Equivalent to Fortnum and Mason
I really like the preserves, biscuits and condiments from Fortnum and Mason and Harrods in the UK. Are there similar places in North America where I can mail order the same sort of goods? I'd also love to know where we could order clotted cream that we could have sent to us as we live north of 60 in the Yukon Territory, Canada. [more inside]
I can't find the proper source of a jailbreak for my iphone 4S. Please help!
Sorry to ask this but I can't figure out the "legit" sources of info and software to jailbreak my iphone 4s.
Please help! [more inside]
posted by Ponderance at 10:30 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Ponderance at 10:30 PM PST - 8 comments
How shall I know you, new bike?
Beloved bicycle stolen. Suggestions for a 5'6" 145 lbs female, who rides about twenty miles a day through suburbia in north central Florida with a budget of under $400 and a limited knowledge of bike parts and specifics? [more inside]
Why So Serious?
Help me take life less seriously. What are some things I can do to practice loosening up? [more inside]
posted by oceanview at 10:17 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by oceanview at 10:17 PM PST - 31 comments
Laptop seeks TV for LTR
Recommendations please for using a big screen LCD TV (40+"?) as a computer display. "Don't" is fine as a response but please justify. Cost is a significant issue; we can spend up to or little over $700. [more inside]
posted by anadem at 10:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by anadem at 10:10 PM PST - 10 comments
I Bequeth These SMSes to My Estate and Future Biographers....maybe?
Help me catalog my youthful correspondence so that when I grow old and wither I may smile at a time well-spent but long-gone with those I love -- 21st CENTURY STYLE!!!11!! [more inside]
posted by Chipmazing at 9:32 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Chipmazing at 9:32 PM PST - 5 comments
Can you help me diagnose this odd health issue?
Can you help me diagnose this weird medical medical problem? I occasionally feel temporarily faint, dizzy, unable to concentrate. [more inside]
posted by denverco at 9:25 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by denverco at 9:25 PM PST - 28 comments
It there genuinely some kind of bug or issue here, or am I insane?
Is it just me, or is it *impossible* to create a user account on this (oil and gas safety) website? Please help. My husband needs to take one of their online courses over the weekend so that he can start a job on Monday. He is losing his shit over this. [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 9:09 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by kitcat at 9:09 PM PST - 36 comments
Is there a rap/hip-hop song that references Roman poet Catullus?
Is there a rap/hip-hop song that references Roman poet Catullus? [more inside]
Tips for washing delicate stemware?
School me on schools
Is the Lusher-Tulane arrangement unprecedented, or business as usual as U.S. charter schools go? [more inside]
Until we solve this, I have to keep buying CDs....
I'm technology speak impaired. Is there a wireless ... thing ... of some kind that we can somehow attach to our old (but terrific sound quality) stereo system so I can stream music to it from my phone or laptop? [more inside]
Help me find this coat!
Help me find this coat. It's sold out on Modcloth and I can't seem to find it anywhere else. It's by Steve Madden and while I'd prefer to have it in blue, another color will be acceptable. I also need it in a medium. Thanks in advance!
posted by MaryDellamorte at 6:53 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by MaryDellamorte at 6:53 PM PST - 4 comments
What to give the seamstress who has everything?
What's a super fancy thing to buy the seamstress in your life? [more inside]
How to uninstall Logic Studio safely
I got Logic Studio and installed it on my Mac, then realized I should have installed a bunch of the files onto an external hard drive instead of my computer's hard drive. I thought I would do a complete uninstall and then reinstall the way I should have initially, but from my research, it seems uninstalling Logic is kind of a big, scary deal. Can you please walk me through how to fix this situation using small, easy-to-understand words? [more inside]
It was a lot better than the current video
I'm almost positive that when Wolf Like Me, by TV on The Radio, was first released as a single it had a video that featured a Little Red Riding Hood motif where the parts of red and the wolf were inverted, and is entirely different from the current video. I can't find this, although I'm pretty sure I didn't imagine it. Did it exist? Was it a fan edit? Did it infringe on some copyright and get expunged from the Internet? Help!
Need a video monitor for my stroke ridden father
Need a video monitor for my stroke ridden father [more inside]
They don't want my professors' personal information, do they?
When an online application for graduate school asks for the addresses and phone numbers of the people who are writing your letters of recommendation, do they mean their office address and phone number? I imagine this is what they want, but I'm not sure. They don't specify.
I can of course call the school on Monday and ask if you think I should, but I'm trying to get as much of this done over the weekend as possible.
How high do we hang this picture?
How high should this picture be hung above the sofa? This high? Or lower? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 5:24 PM PST - 70 comments
posted by lollusc at 5:24 PM PST - 70 comments
Is it normal to enjoy food and drink more on thyroid meds?
I think my thyroid medication is making food and water taste super-delicious - is this normal? [more inside]
posted by joseph conrad is fully awesome at 4:38 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by joseph conrad is fully awesome at 4:38 PM PST - 7 comments
Was I hacked?
Why did google.com change to google.ne on my laptop? [more inside]
posted by Linnee at 4:37 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Linnee at 4:37 PM PST - 6 comments
Why does the pharmacist take so god damn long?
Why does the pharmacist take so god damn long? [more inside]
posted by Nelsormensch at 4:19 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Nelsormensch at 4:19 PM PST - 23 comments
Not quite Freaky Friday.
Asking for a friend: Do you remember this (possibly made-for-TV) movie from the 1980's?
A girl goes to sleep one night and wakes up as a boy the next morning. Her parents are scandalized when she wants her best friend (who is still female) to sleep over.
posted by gentian at 4:09 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by gentian at 4:09 PM PST - 3 comments
where fruit? where veg?
Where in the US or Europe should I live if my goal is to optimize the availability and variety of fresh fruits and vegetables?
Limit Breaker?
What video game magic do you love? Specifically, which video game franchises have the neatest graphical effects? What's cool about them? [more inside]
Dishwasher Loading Debate : Utensil Edition
Which direction should the silverware point when you put it in the dishwasher? [more inside]
How to give a hug from far away.
How can I help my long distance boyfriend get through his grandmother's serious illness? [more inside]
Unusual tree toppers for holiday tree
Quick, what's the strangest/most unusual/coolest holiday tree topper you've ever seen? Links appreciated, bonus points for light-up. No religious symbols, please.
posted by agregoli at 2:45 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by agregoli at 2:45 PM PST - 38 comments
Un-bork my card
Puzzling computer display problems. Is my graphics card salvageable? [more inside]
Like we say in St. Olaf, Christmas without fruitcake is like St. Sigmund's Day without the headless boy
Help me with some fruit cake alchemy (please). [more inside]
posted by Mrs. Rattery at 2:38 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Mrs. Rattery at 2:38 PM PST - 8 comments
Can we move to the Bay Area? SHOULD we?
Help me see a way to move to the Bay Area. [more inside]
posted by agress at 2:30 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by agress at 2:30 PM PST - 24 comments
Posting to Facebook via Cron and PHP
How do I post to Facebook using a PHP script that is running off a cron job, instead of in my browser? [more inside]
posted by Jezztek at 1:26 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Jezztek at 1:26 PM PST - 7 comments
Keeping a new relationship with med school residency?
How do I attempt to make a new relationship into a long-distance one when there is a medical school residency involved? Only the snowflakiest of details inside. [more inside]
How to Install Corner Molding?
I'm home over Thanksgiving break and my mom wants some house work done. Fun! But, I don't know how to do it. So, dearest MetaFilter, how do I install molding on the corner of a wall? (Picture on the inside.) [more inside]
I want to look put together all the time.
Please design a personal grooming schedule for me. [more inside]
posted by a robot made out of meat at 12:27 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by a robot made out of meat at 12:27 PM PST - 15 comments
A Year of ______
Help me find books about A Year Doing One Highly Particular and Possibly Silly Thing [more inside]
posted by lewedswiver at 12:02 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by lewedswiver at 12:02 PM PST - 31 comments
Help me find my perfect club night in London
Please help me find my perfect club night in London: Industrial/Alt edition. [more inside]
Germany & France with Teenagers and Kids
Just starting to plan a trip to France (mainly Paris) and Germany (mainly Munich) with three kids ages 17, 14, and 11. We're from the US and do not speak German or French. We've done Europe before, but never these countries. We will go in June of 2012. I need resources so I can research the heck out of this thing. [more inside]
Rush Hour Freeway Commuting Takes Years Off My Life
How reliable is public transportation in LA? Can I trust it to get me to work on time? [more inside]
Can anyone share the manual and/or tips for the Chef'sChoice Professional Sharpening Station 130?
Can anyone share the manual and/or tips for the Chef'sChoice Professional Sharpening Station 130? [more inside]
posted by JoeGoblin at 10:40 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by JoeGoblin at 10:40 AM PST - 4 comments
To ask or not to ask back?
Recommendations for music classes for a 4 and 6 year old?
Music lessons for a 4 and a 6 year old in the Baltimore area? [more inside]
Growing Arabica in the mountains really necessary?
Was the notion in the 1980s that "mountain grown" coffee was a way to sell deforestation-causing coffee B.S.? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 10:13 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by morganw at 10:13 AM PST - 7 comments
Burping the routers at work.
I am at work, at a college, and there seem to be wifi hiccups throughout the day, moments where the connectivity is briefly lost. How can I log these interruptions so I can convince our technicians that there is a problem? [more inside]
posted by mecran01 at 9:12 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mecran01 at 9:12 AM PST - 13 comments
How to shake off vivid dreams in the morning...
Very vivid and intricate dreams - do you have tips on how to shake off lingering feelings in the morning? [more inside]
Weird abdominal issues
Weird abdominal issues: I have a doctor's appointment for Tuesday and would appreciate thoughts on whether it's OK to wait until then. [more inside]
Please recommend a cheap and non-rotting medium for carvings and/or lanterns
What is a good medium for carving lanterns that is cheap, durable and non-flammable? [more inside]
What size engine to pull a boat?
What size of truck engine is ideal to pull a twin axle boat trailer (we have a Supra wakesurfing boat)...does Toyota make a viable option? [more inside]
What are some great standup comedy shows, specials or DVDs that I should see?
What are some great standup comedy shows, specials or DVDs that I should see? I'm hoping to find titles of shows and specials that are especially worth seeing, eg. "Kill the Messenger" by Chris Rock, or "Money Shot" by Whitney Cummings, etc. Extra points if the humour is still funny nowadays (I've seen some landmark performances that just seemed a little dated, perhaps because they've been so widely imitated). Thanks.
FUS RO D'OH!
Help me understand how Skyrim crashing on one PC causes other PCs on my network to hiccup. [more inside]
What are my favorite things (in Japanese, in a song)
Does anyone know of a translation of Mari Natsuki lyrics for "My favorite things" or the lyrics in Japanese that I can plug into Google translate? [more inside]
posted by sciencegeek at 6:51 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by sciencegeek at 6:51 AM PST - 3 comments
Really great subscription/gift food that's either Canada-based, or delivers to Canada?
For Christmas this year I would love to give my family food-of-the-month type gifts from places like Murrays and Zingermans, but those places don't deliver to Canada, where most of my family members live. Can you recommend really great subscription/gift food that's either Canada-based, or delivers to Canada? [more inside]
posted by Susan PG at 6:26 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Susan PG at 6:26 AM PST - 13 comments
Why is the Arab League taking a harder stance towards Syria?
Why is the Arab League sort of taking a harder stance towards Syria? [more inside]
posted by gt2 at 3:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by gt2 at 3:21 AM PST - 8 comments
Fun things in Wimbledon
Who goes to war with a non-bordering country?
Who goes to war with a non-bordering country? [more inside]
November 24
Graphics card seems fried after a few weeks of working fine
I installed a new video card and power supply in a new desktop computer, but the machine had problems (restarting occasionally for no obvious reason over a few weeks) and now the card seems dead. I need help figuring out what has gone wrong! [more inside]
posted by ZeroDivides at 11:52 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by ZeroDivides at 11:52 PM PST - 9 comments
Casual summer jobs for the already-employed
JobFilter: I have a casual job. I just found out that my shifts over the summer holidays (in Australia) are going to be fairly scant. Where can I get a second job, on short notice, that will be fairly flexible in terms of hours? [more inside]
What is this object from Japan?
My friend brought me this terra cotta rattle/ball back from Japan. What is it? Japanese instructions included! [more inside]
posted by marylynn at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by marylynn at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
How do I get an Oakland Police Department press pass?
I'm a resident of Oakland, really close to Frank Ogawa Plaza where a love of things have been going down with Occupy Oakland. Usually I am out taking photos and such, and I was wondering what the feasibility of me getting a press pass was. [more inside]
What's the best wine decanter I can buy online?
Can you please point me to a fabulous wine decanter? Here's what I mean by fabulous:
1) Dishwasher friendly
2) Lead-free glass
3) Good lookin' and good quality in person.
4) Available for purchase online. [more inside]
posted by andreapandrea at 7:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by andreapandrea at 7:51 PM PST - 9 comments
How to resurrect .Mac account
Can I transition a defunct mac.com account to iCloud? [more inside]
Man seeking Cookie to reignite old flame.
Does anybody know the name of a type of christmas-y sugar cookie with sprinkles that used to be sold in a cylindrical plastic tub? [more inside]
Innovate My Trash Talk
I need some ideas for G-rated name-calling. [more inside]
posted by Andrhia at 6:50 PM PST - 69 comments
posted by Andrhia at 6:50 PM PST - 69 comments
usb wireless adaprer won't work
We've been through 2 different usb wireless adaptors, and windows7 won't detect/enable them - help! [more inside]
posted by 5_13_23_42_69_666 at 6:21 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by 5_13_23_42_69_666 at 6:21 PM PST - 7 comments
Help with hiring someone to collect data from afar
I need about ten years of weekly advertisements placed in the classifieds section of an upstate, popular alternative newspaper. I've called around, and I cannot get the newspapers through inter library loan at my university. I cannot get the ads directly from the newspaper either, and I've exhausted every possible channel to do so. I think I am going to have to hire someone off of Craigslist, but I've never done this before, and would like some advice so that I ensure I get this to me in the most efficient format, at the lowest possible cost, without errors. I could use some advice on all aspects of the logistics of planning this, from start to finish. The project is important, and I have attention deficit disorder predominantly inattentive, which I think is why I've simultaneously procrastinating and over thinking this. I have a lot of questions, as you'll see. [more inside]
posted by scunning at 5:53 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by scunning at 5:53 PM PST - 18 comments
Temporary teeth—I've got a problem.
I'm in the middle of the process of getting porcelain veneers/crowns on my six upper front teeth. I underwent five hours in the chair yesterday and am now wearing temporaries for the next two weeks. One of these cracked off from the main "bridge" and is lifting up. Now what? [more inside]
Solve this mystery: Vine Blooms in MA
What, oh garden masters, is this mystery plant? [more inside]
posted by onhazier at 5:29 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by onhazier at 5:29 PM PST - 17 comments
Will childbirth be easier the second time around?
How can I support a friend who had a horrific first childbirth experience, and is now facing her second? [more inside]
posted by finding.perdita at 5:07 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by finding.perdita at 5:07 PM PST - 14 comments
Laptop's screen is shattered, need BIOS menu tree
I have an ASUS G60V laptop. My lcd screen is shattered, and now I need to use a repair CD. Laptop won't boot into external monitor in repair mode, so I can't see the screen. Any ASUS owners be willing to walk me through the BIOS menu steps to see if I can get my laptop to connect to the external? [more inside]
Well that was kind of awkward.
She accepted me as a facebook friend after a conversation. I sent a lame message. What do I do now? [more inside]
posted by veryblue1 at 4:36 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by veryblue1 at 4:36 PM PST - 26 comments
Was there a 1980s live-action adaptation of the Lord of the Rings?
Before Peter Jackson, was there another live action Lord of the Rings film attempt? [more inside]
posted by AdamCSnider at 4:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by AdamCSnider at 4:10 PM PST - 9 comments
How feasable is a RAIF (Redundant Array of Inexpensive Flash media) on a T40 Laptop?
How would placing two (or more!) Compact flash drives in my T40 laptop and using them as a striped RAID 0 compare to installing an equivalent (PATA) SSD? Is there some other thinking-further-out-of-the-box way of getting lightning-fast disk performance into a Pentium M-class laptop? [more inside]
posted by Orb2069 at 3:47 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Orb2069 at 3:47 PM PST - 8 comments
OpenOffice's evil twin
What the heck is OpenOffice.fm, and did this download damage my friend's computer? [more inside]
Pretty sure she already has one of those...
I want to get my mom something she'll actually like for Christmas. This is seemingly impossible. What do you get for someone who already has everything they want or need? [more inside]
posted by meesha at 3:32 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by meesha at 3:32 PM PST - 41 comments
How to remove 0b "Ghost Files" from Win7 Desktop?
I need to remove various 0 byte "ghost files" from the desktops of a bunch of Windows 7 computers. I know DelinvFile works but is there a free alternative which actually works? I know it can also be done by turning off explorer.exe and going into cmd to delete them but what exactly are the steps for doing this? Any suggestions gratefully received.
Good indie horror/sci-fi films, on Netflix instant?
What are the best indie/avant/experimental/unusual/etc. films in the horror and sci-fi genres, currently available on Netflix instant? [more inside]
Concealing a Fixed Password
A software application needs to supply a fixed password to an outside hardware device that it talks to. How can that password be concealed from hackers who take apart the software or the computer it's running on? [more inside]
Stick with my awesome CRT or take the plunge for an IPS or 120hz monitor for FPS gaming?
Gaming Monitors: Should I upgrade from my awesome Viewsonic P220f CRT to a Dell u2711 or Samsung S27A950D? Do I really have to choose between quality/resolution and speed? Trying to make a Black Friday decision. [more inside]
Thanksgiving idiocy and ovenproof bags
We purchased a precooked turkey for Thanksgiving from Zabar's. We are getting ready to heat it up. The turkey is wrapped tightly in an open weave netting type bag which is tied shut. It is then has a clear plastic bag over it. The instructions say: Do not remove from oven proof bag. We are several idiots in disagreement about whether the plastic bag is the oven proof bag. Is there someone here (preferable who has ordered from Zabar's) who can clarify?
posted by kimdog at 11:49 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by kimdog at 11:49 AM PST - 10 comments
Suggestions for holiday noms
Please give me your suggestions for homemade holiday snacks that I can make and give to my co-workers. (Sorry, kind of long.) [more inside]
posted by methroach at 11:25 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by methroach at 11:25 AM PST - 15 comments
Do you know of any Thanksgiving songs?
Do you know of any Thanksgiving songs? [more inside]
posted by rageagainsttherobots at 10:47 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by rageagainsttherobots at 10:47 AM PST - 15 comments
Welcome to middle age drama!
How to move out from your ex?
My friend wants to end a relationship with his girlfriend who he shares an apartment with. He is looking for some advice about how to deal with the apartment itself, since his name is on the lease. Should he pay her the money for the remaining months of rent in one lump sum? Or Should he suggest that they both move out, and then they split the cost of breaking the lease? And, if she wants to stay she can stay and pay full rent? He would love some ideas- its so hard to bring logistics into a very emotional situation. Thank you!
"You turn off the CAR, right, Dad?...It's like that."
Parental Computer Filter: Help me convince my father that leaving his computer on 24/7 is actually NOT a good thing to do, or tell me I'm wrong. [more inside]
At home, I'm okay with only chopping at 999 miles an hour...
It seems like many of the professional techniques for cutting vegetables will accept some unnecessary waste in order to optimize for speed or uniformity or presentation. For example, I'm thinking of cutting the stems off mushrooms to give the cap a flat base, or taking two transverse sections off the top and bottom of a capsicum/sweet pepper so it can unroll. Are there alternatives that waste less food while still being almost as safe and fast? [more inside]
Selling a car and putting down 'gift' on the bill of sale when it's not really a gift... problem?
Selling a car and putting down 'gift' on the bill of sale when it's not really a gift... problem? [more inside]
How Old Is My Quadrophenia Vinyl Album?
How can I tell if my copy of Quadrophenia is an original pressing? [more inside]
posted by marienbad at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by marienbad at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
Cooked turkey debacle
What do I do with the stuffing and gravy if the turkey is already cooked? [more inside]
Where is the best deal for Cyber Monday speakers?
Asking for a friend: Where is the best Cyber Monday (Cyber Weekend?) deal for home audio? Specifically speakers. [more inside]
Just another guy creeped out by Facebook
I have never logged into Facebook on my iPad, but the Facebook social plugin on AVclub.com knew who I was anyway. What's going on? [more inside]
Torontonian looking for a degree in happiness
I'm a Torontonian who is intrigued by the UPenn 'Degree of Happiness' / Master of Applied Positive Psychology. Is there anything like that available in Toronto? If not, are there any other resources or courses in Toronto that someone like me may find interesting (30s male, working full time)? Book suggestions would also be welcome...
Should I buy my outdoor gear in Australia or New Zealand?
I'm heading from Brisbane, Australia to Queenstown, NZ for 6 weeks of hiking over Christmas. Am I better off buying my outdoor gear in Aus or NZ? [more inside]
posted by dantodd at 5:14 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by dantodd at 5:14 AM PST - 12 comments
Drop it! Drop it!
Two cats, one dog: How do I keep a dog visitor out of the cat box? [more inside]
How do people represent themselves on Facebook?
Representing identity online - can you point me to interesting research into the way people represent themselves on the internet (and in particular Facebook)? [more inside]
Pecan Pie. Corn Starch Or Not?
PECAN PIE! I'm thinking of substituting palm sugar (which has a vanilla flavor built in) for syrup. And I have other issues. Cornstarch or not? I'm adapting different techniques and I've never done this before - HELP! [more inside]
posted by jbenben at 1:04 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by jbenben at 1:04 AM PST - 21 comments
What publication is the sociology equivalent of the Economist?
What publication is the sociology equivalent of the Economist? [more inside]
bicycle ride
Is this 90-mile bike ride around LA possible and realistic for a casual rider in four days? [more inside]
posted by mnemonic at 12:07 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mnemonic at 12:07 AM PST - 13 comments
November 23
Looking for a great essay on art.
In 1971 Artforum magazine published an essay,
'After Modernism', by American composer Morton Feldman, about Modernism's endgame and what it meant for contemporary painting. I have repeatedly looked for it online but have had no success. Just curious to see if it is on the intertubes somewhere, thanks.
posted by Phlegmco(tm) at 11:07 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Phlegmco(tm) at 11:07 PM PST - 2 comments
Chess Filter: The strangest loss of all
Chess Filter: The strangest loss of all [more inside]
posted by gregb1007 at 11:02 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by gregb1007 at 11:02 PM PST - 21 comments
Cranberry Sauce Disas... Mishap
I think my cranberry sauce is too sweet... Help! [more inside]
posted by Marky at 10:43 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Marky at 10:43 PM PST - 9 comments
Fashion advice for woman
All my life I've been an overweight girl. Now, I'm size 8/10. Help me dress myself. (But: I can't wear everything. I have disfiguring scars.) [more inside]
I found someone's employee badge. Help me get it back to them ASAP!
On the way home from work today I found an employee badge that someone appeared to have dropped and lost (it was right next to the bus stop I usually wait at). The badge's owner was nowhere in sight (it was a photo ID) and I don't know anyone who works for the company identified on the badge. What's the best / quickest way to get it back to its owner, especially given tomorrow is a (US) holiday? [more inside]
posted by aecorwin at 10:07 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by aecorwin at 10:07 PM PST - 21 comments
Five days in Shenzhen
I'm going to be in Shenzhen for five days week after next, Monday-Friday. Travelling with my husband who will be working on the Wednesday and Thursday. What should we see and do, and what tips do you have for a culturally ignorant foreign female exploring Shenzhen solo?
posted by tracicle at 9:41 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by tracicle at 9:41 PM PST - 4 comments
Anyone know why a brand new ZTE zxv10 w300 modem/router would continually kick my Apple Airport Express off the network?
Anyone know why a brand new ZTE zxv10 w300 modem/router would continually kick my Apple Airport Express off the network? [more inside]
What's the Sun done for me, lately?
So let's say we wanted to blow up the sun... [more inside]
posted by egeanin at 8:40 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by egeanin at 8:40 PM PST - 36 comments
How do I get from Denver Airport to Lakewood, CO
What is the best and cheapest way to get from Denver International Airport to Red Rocks Community College? [more inside]
Fun activities and clothes shopping in Malaysia?
I'm in Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia. What are some fun activities and places I can visit? Also where can I shop for cheap, good quality clothing? [more inside]
I'm not used to not getting hammered immediately.
Beer idiot filter: How do I keep my beers decent enough to serve tomorrow night? [more inside]
Find me matching shoes, please!
Help me find shoes to match this dress. [more inside]
posted by nonasuch at 6:36 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by nonasuch at 6:36 PM PST - 20 comments
Are we stuck? (Australian Parliament)
Aus Politics: No-one wants to be speaker, where to from here? [more inside]
More powerful Power Supply for Dell Optiplex 780?
Short version: I need to find a larger power supply that fits in a Dell Optiplex 780 Small Form Factor (the third from the left here) so I can power a larger video card (and presumably the fans for it). [more inside]
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 6:11 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 6:11 PM PST - 6 comments
Can I avoid getting junk for Christmas?
Relatives are going to buy me Christmas gifts whether I like it or not. Relatives have a different set of values than me. What should I ask for so that I don't end up with junk? [more inside]
F#/D# A/D A/B oh yeah!!!
If somebody says "I love those awesome chords they use over each other in the chorus. the F#/D# into the A/D and then A/B just sounds too epic!"
...how can I understand what they mean without being a music major? [more inside]
posted by circular at 4:24 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by circular at 4:24 PM PST - 8 comments
This is why I work 9-6
How would you deal with hearing racist slurs on the subway? How could I have done this better? [more inside]
posted by roomthreeseventeen at 4:12 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by roomthreeseventeen at 4:12 PM PST - 48 comments
What will the fate of Jupiter and its moons be during and after our sun becomes a red giant?
What will the fate of Jupiter and its moons be during and after our sun becomes a red giant? (or, please forward me to reliable sources with information beyond a first-order Google search) [more inside]
posted by ch3cooh at 3:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ch3cooh at 3:59 PM PST - 8 comments
Do different flavours of marijuana have different effects?
Is there any robust evidence that different varieties of marijuana have different psychoactive or physiological effects? [more inside]
Lip balm, or stuff that can be used as lip balm, that can be purchased in a big container?
Lip balm, or stuff that can be used as lip balm, that can be purchased in a big container? [more inside]
Christmas without a tree
How do I make my house smell like Christmas without a tree? [more inside]
posted by mikesch at 3:33 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by mikesch at 3:33 PM PST - 29 comments
I do not consent.
Legalities being of video with audio recorded by a student. [more inside]
What fictional holidays can we celebrate this year?
What are your favorite fictional holidays? This winter, my partner and I want to celebrate as many Christmas-like made-up holidays as possible. Our list includes Hogswatch (Discworld), Winter Veil (World of Warcraft), Crimbo (from Kingdom of Loathing), Festivus (which is increasingly less fictional), Life Day (from the Star Wars Christmas Special), and the Ice Festival (from Maria V. Snyder's fantasy books). Are there any more that we can add to our calendar?
Do Not Want To Die For My Art
How to simulate chewing without using my mouth or teeth? Either an object or method/process. Odd, photography-related details inside. [more inside]
What should you do if you're (almost) a victim of identity theft?
I think I was (almost) a victim of identity theft. What should I do next? [more inside]
Man is the measure of all things.
What is the philosophy of measurement? [more inside]
posted by StoneSpace at 2:38 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by StoneSpace at 2:38 PM PST - 27 comments
How did you find becoming an occasional caffeine drinker?
What was your experience transitioning from being a regular caffeine drinker to an occasional caffeine drinker? Did it work for you? Do you have any tips on success, any surprises I should watch out for? [more inside]
Too bad the stork's a myth
Babyfilter: If you could get a re-do on your labor and delivery, what would you do differently? [more inside]
Cloned plant sporting
What's the genetic mechanism that produces a 'sport' in a cloned plant? I'm thinking specifically of apples. [more inside]
posted by schrodycat at 1:46 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by schrodycat at 1:46 PM PST - 2 comments
Name my band.
Help me name my band/musical project thing. [more inside]
Unique horror movie themes!
I'm looking for some unique horror movie marathon themes. [more inside]
Going beyond basic programming
I'm a largely self-taught web designer (HTML/CSS/design) with fairly basic but competent enough programming skills (PHP/Javascript/Python) to do simple development and be able to understand roughly what's going on when I work with developers. What are some good things to learn (libraries, techniques, math?) in order to do more interactive and dynamic things on the web, particularly when it comes to data visualization? [more inside]
posted by OverlappingElvis at 1:32 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by OverlappingElvis at 1:32 PM PST - 5 comments
Thanksgiving Day kids activities?
Help us keep our sanity! What can we do with a hyperactive 2 year old in Boston on Thanksgiving? [more inside]
posted by synapse at 1:19 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by synapse at 1:19 PM PST - 11 comments
Like Finding A T-shirt In A Haystack
Last weekend I purchased a uniqueT-shirt at Bangkok's Jatujak/Chatuchak weekend market. I got home and found it's the wrong size. Help me figure out how to find and contact a single vendor out of the 15,000 stalls. [more inside]
Startup alternatives to Kickstarter?
Kickstarter is out: I'm not an American, and don't know any that can front my project. What's the best alternative? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 12:57 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Shepherd at 12:57 PM PST - 7 comments
Help me weather the economic storm
While nothing is certain, both the left and the right are noting the growing chances of a serious and devastating eurozone crisis, one which will not spare the US. What can people on the lower end of the income scale do to protect ourselves from what may become a terrible economic situation? [more inside]
The user is always right
I get really frustrated with the process at my workplace, particularly meetings. After many details, I have a couple of questions about work (specifically software development and project management decisions) and how to deal with meeting-related frustration. [more inside]
posted by sarahj at 12:53 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by sarahj at 12:53 PM PST - 30 comments
Should I quit or let them fire me?
I got a job six months ago as a technical recruiter for a third-party contractor whose field techs replace parts for warranty customers. It's a family business with about a dozen employees in the office. Things are hinky there. Please help me understand what's going on and make a decision. Sorry, but it's very long. [more inside]
As a journalist, how obnoxious can I be?
A source has refused to talk to me. Should I drop it or take advantage of a recent opportunity? [more inside]
posted by Cwell at 12:42 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Cwell at 12:42 PM PST - 22 comments
Best resources for swim training?
Best resources for swim training? Looking for books, videos, etc, that provide drills and training programs for solo workouts. [more inside]
Day trips from Rome, GA
I'll be flying into Atlanta and staying in the Rome, GA area over Thanksgiving. What parks and other scenic spots are nearby? I'm looking to explore the area on Thursday afternoon and all day Friday, so please provide any day trip (2-3hr max driving time) recommendations. Thanks!
posted by lychee at 12:23 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by lychee at 12:23 PM PST - 8 comments
Professional Training Provision
Professional Training Provision. How cam my organisation identify and provide for training at two separate sites? [more inside]
SkinCareFilter: How to bring my sexy back?
It's party dress time again, and I have a fantastic strapless, floor-length, tiered black chiffon number to wear to my office Christmas party. (Overdressed much?) Please tell me what I can do over the next 11 days to brighten up my skin, and particularly the skin on my back, so that my fellow employees aren't murmuring to each other, "So THAT's why she always wears a suit." [more inside]
posted by sillymama at 12:13 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by sillymama at 12:13 PM PST - 22 comments
[JOB FILTER] Position Title for two-person team?
After spending most of the past year working on a cool project in a two-person team of contractors where we didn't have specified positions, what would be an appropriate job title to put on a resume? [more inside]
posted by andrewmarc at 12:13 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by andrewmarc at 12:13 PM PST - 5 comments
Cranberry sorbet + ?
I'm making a little bit of cranberry sorbet (possibly with port) tomorrow as a palate cleanser and need suggestions for completing the dish-- maybe a complementary flavor of sorbet, a little savory cookie, or something else? [more inside]
It Is Not My Fault The Dollar Sucks
International customer service/refund issue. Help me reconcile whose fault it is that I'm out $90. [more inside]
how much to charge?
Calling all IT consultants: what do I charge? [more inside]
Java Help
Programmingfilter: I created a program to output Pascals Triangle in Java (in Arrays). How can i change the shape of the output from a Rightsided triangle into a (typical for a Pascals Triangle) Isoceles shape? [more inside]
Any Advice on Buying a Cool Mom-Mobile?
Looking for a cool, tech friendly, roomy, family car. Help us find perfection, oh hive mind... [more inside]
The Pattern in the Rough
What tools are available for determining patterns in short, semi-random sequences of variables? [more inside]
Hippies smell bad and don't have jobs, LOL.
How do I deal with jokes that are not funny (particularly pertaining to OWS) that I see on social network sites without getting too heavily involved? [more inside]
posted by hillabeans at 11:41 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by hillabeans at 11:41 AM PST - 35 comments
Where to stay near LegoLand (orlando)?
Looking for a nice, reasonable place for my family to stay near LegoLand in Orlando. Bonus for opinions on WorldQuest Resort . [more inside]
Boom ba doom boom boom ba doom boom bass
Is there a darker side to bass guitar solos and if so, which bands/artists utilize it? Darker bands/songs with prominent bass also work. [more inside]
posted by biochemist at 11:02 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by biochemist at 11:02 AM PST - 20 comments
Mid-road Normal Girl Goes to VNV Nation Concert! Help?
Going to a VnV Nation concert TONIGHT! Suggestions for clothes/etiquette/hidden easter eggs? I'd like to get the most out of it I can! (Fun holiday question.) [more inside]
posted by aarwenn at 10:44 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by aarwenn at 10:44 AM PST - 14 comments
To what extent are the "strange" features of Relativity Theory due to the latency of light?
Which of the "strange" features of Relativity Theory can be accounted for by appeal to the latency of light, which cannot, and why? [more inside]
How Do You Get The Most Value Out of a College Admissions Tour?
I'm attending a college tour / interview day with my son next week, He has already been accepted to this college, and offered a significant scholarship. He could be offered an even bigger scholarship, up to a full ride after his conversations with faculty that day. He'll get the tour, meet with faculty in his area of interest (history), attend a class, and have dinner there too. It's a very small (DIV III) liberal arts school. For those of you that have been through this, what do wish you knew in advance? I went to a large public school and never set foot on campus until I showed up for Freshman year, so I'm a little lacking on experience I can share with him on how he can get the most out of his half day on campus. If it matters, he only applied because they recruited him and made it easy and free to do so. This is not a school either of us had even heard of prior to then. That said, the school seems to be well regarded, in a nice location, and generally seems to be a perfectly fine place to get a BA in History.
posted by COD at 10:31 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by COD at 10:31 AM PST - 33 comments
Dinosaur slippers in TO?
Quick and easy Toronto shopping filter: where to find a pair of novelty dinosaur slippers, in adult women's sizes? Downtown core or Yonge and Eg preferred; TTC access essential. Thanks!
Do I need to shred balance transfer checks?
Do I need to shred the monthly balance transfer checks my credit card company sends me? Could someone else use them if they found them in the trash, or intercepted the mail? And has anyone had luck stopping them?
engineered hardwood floor
Security Deposit & Home Improve Filter: We moved into a brand new house and when we moved out, there were some damages on the floor. Turns out these “engineered” hardwood floor that requires a removal of an entire area for a few inches of damage.
1) Is this actually required to fix engineered hardwood floors?
2) Is this legal to charge us for an entire section of undamaged area for inches of damage?
Pics inside. [more inside]
Charity Due Diligence
I am thinking about sending 25 Euro a month to this charity (German language site), in order to provide schooling to one child in Kenya. How do I best check that this is a legit deal? [more inside]
The Real-life David and Goliath?
Champion warfare according to Wikipedia is the type of battle where the outcome to decided by a duel between two opposing soldiers. This seems like a pretty common trope in ancient literature - David and Goliath or Hector and Achilles - but has it ever been recorded in real life?
Old coat, I say to you: goodbye, my faithful friend.
[ClothingGiftFilter] I need a VERY STURDY hoodie/track jacket substitute for my husband. Price: up to $150. [more inside]
Touch Screen Communication Devices for Aphasia.
Experiences with, or recommendations for, a touch screen communication device for aphasia? [more inside]
posted by StickyCarpet at 9:17 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by StickyCarpet at 9:17 AM PST - 3 comments
The other JoePas.
What other local gods are out there? [more inside]
Mentor? Mentee? Mentos? - How to make the most of a mentoring relationship
Do you mentor someone? Are you being mentored?
What advice would you give to someone who is new to mentoring? [more inside]
Does size really matter?
Men: Would you date an attractive, big girl? [more inside]
posted by Falwless at 8:49 AM PST - 80 comments
posted by Falwless at 8:49 AM PST - 80 comments
Can I please work from inside a sheepskin cocoon?
After my weekly therapy sessions, I'm beat. I want to have a hug and a long, warm bath, and curl up in bed with the biggest cup of tea known to man. Unfortunately, I have to do full day's work instead. I'm looking for advice on how to get through my Wednesdays for the next year. [more inside]
Tablet computers - cellular without commitment
Tabletfilter: What are my options for a tablet computer with occasional 3g connectivity (not a monthly contract)? Preferably something powerful enough to handle video and other display-heavy apps. [more inside]
Terrible Threes?
I need advice on how to raise disciplined, well-behaved children. Lengthy details within. [more inside]
Trying to Find My Way
In a dark place, emotionally. Not ready to graduate, but not ready to continue with school. Help me figure out what to do. [more inside]
Where did my style go?
Why did my favorite bar style option vanish from Microsoft Project 2007 after upgrading to Windows 7 and re-installing? [more inside]
posted by The Deej at 8:23 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by The Deej at 8:23 AM PST - 3 comments
To Gift the Impossible Gift
My mother's 60th birthday is next week and I want to get her something really special, but she's the single hardest person in the world to shop for. [more inside]
posted by TheGoldenOne at 8:14 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by TheGoldenOne at 8:14 AM PST - 32 comments
Frankensteining a Windows XP Install: old into new?
Can I put my old XP state into a new XP install? [more inside]
How do I tell my supervisor I'm interviewing elsewhere when I need them as a reference?
I have a job interview next week. Meanwhile, my current supervisor is anxious to start the work plan and budget process for 2012. I feel dishonest committing to projects that I have no intention of carrying out. I need my supervisor as a reference and I can't burn this bridge - how do I tell my boss I'm interviewing elsewhere? [more inside]
Better living through audio
I am interested in hearing some historical and educational audiobooks/audiocasts. Anyone have any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by cloeburner at 7:50 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by cloeburner at 7:50 AM PST - 13 comments
Duck, duck, duck, goose
Online dating advice: when they're all pretty good, how do I pick out the great ones? [more inside]
Some questions about getting a web app developed
How to go about getting a web app developed? (and a few related questions) [more inside]
posted by pete_22 at 7:03 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by pete_22 at 7:03 AM PST - 7 comments
TIAGPC Is A Good Programming Class
What makes for a good high school programming class? [more inside]
Trouble updating Netflix
I can't update my Netflix queue. I can add movies, but when I click remove a message appears that says, "Unable to remove movie." I use Firefox and Adblock Plus on OS X. If I disable Adblock this still happens. Any ideas about why this might be?
posted by partner at 6:48 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by partner at 6:48 AM PST - 4 comments
Please help me buy a fancy espresso machine for my husband!
What's the best automatic espresso machine under $500? [more inside]
posted by FuzzyVerde at 6:45 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by FuzzyVerde at 6:45 AM PST - 20 comments
I said I'd never and now I have
Do you know of any literary quotes on the theme of self-disgust and shame when authors or characters realise they have turned into that which they once despised? [more inside]
What interesting open source projects are libraries working on these days?
What interesting open source projects are libraries working on these days? [more inside]
posted by banjo_and_the_pork at 6:18 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by banjo_and_the_pork at 6:18 AM PST - 9 comments
Neverending Ceiling Fan...la la la, la la la, la la la
How do I turn off a ceiling fan that has been running for months, short of calling an electrician? [more inside]
Which sales role has more room for advancement - Direct Enterprise Account Manager OR Channel Partner Manager?
Which sales role has more room for advancement - Direct Enterprise Account Manager OR Channel Partner Manager? [more inside]
posted by magazineaddict at 6:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by magazineaddict at 6:01 AM PST - 4 comments
You can check in any time you like.
An urgent question for a friend: your favorite survival tips for an awful hotel/motel? [more inside]
posted by availablelight at 5:48 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by availablelight at 5:48 AM PST - 34 comments
last-minute planning for tomorrow
Ann Arbor filter: decent restaurants open for Thanksgiving dinner? [more inside]
Cable TV closed captions without cable?
I need access to the closed captions from broadcast / cable television, but can no longer use my local cable company. Is there a company that provides access to up-to-date and archived closed captions from major networks? [more inside]
How far do we have to go?
To be part of the so-called 1%
If based on income, how much do you have to make?
If based on assets, how much do you have to have?
I require a time machine
I would dearly like to locate a screenshot of AmericanCensorship.org as it appeared one week ago. My attempts to do this have failed. [more inside]
High-quality daily Tweets (inspirational quotes, love/sex tips etc.)?
Which Twitter users post high-quality daily tweets? (one-liners, inspirational quotes, love/sex tips, that kind of thing) [more inside]
Which sites feature daily new graphic t-shirt designs at cheap prices?
I'm a big follower of bot Shirt Woot and Teefury, both are sites that showcase a new t-shirt design a day at around ~$10 a shirt with cheap or free shipping. I recently discovered the existence of Ript Apparel, which is more or less similar to the previous sites. I feel that Woot and Teefury have both gotten a bit too nerd-pandering in recent years, and am interested in new sites. I'm not into T-Shirt Hell or Snorg Tees as they are often text-based designs and I'm not really into pithy jokes on my shirts. Uneetee is more of what I'm looking for, but I'm not too thrilled about their prices. Design By Humans with the daily $15 deal is more of what I'm looking for, though their designs may be a wee bit too artsy, and suffer from the opposite of Woot shirts- their designs cover too much of the shirt. [more inside]
posted by Apocryphon at 1:36 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Apocryphon at 1:36 AM PST - 9 comments
Computer won't allow some programs to connect
Recently, my computer has decided to be very particular about what it will allow to connect to the internet. Some programs, like uTorrent and Filezilla, can connect fine and have no problems. But things like self-updaters and Flash-based uploading cannot connect. The same thing happens on two different internet connections on two different wireless networks whose configurations have not been changed since before this started (I do not have a wired network to test). I have not made any significant changes to my computer since before this started. I'm running Windows 7 x64 Ultimate. What could be causing the problem? How can I fix it? What caused the problem in the first place? [more inside]
Prevent Super Crazy Computer Implosion 2011
First time building a computer...am I doing this correctly? [more inside]
November 22
northwestern college?
My name is Matt and I'm from Wilkes-Barre, PA. I'm thinking about attending Northwestern College in the Twin Cities. Does anybody know anything about Northwestern College. Is it a good university? Is it too far from home for the education?
Online News Service Recommendations?
I'm looking for an international news program service that I can access online. I don't have TV, so ideally i'd like a list of videos that give me the gist of what's going on in the world, preferably from multiple sources. I'd like something like a video version of Android's pulse app, where I could choose my sources, make a playlist of stories and sit back and watch/listen. I don't mind paying for it, but I'll need it available in both the U.S. and China. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.
C'est un mystere!
This is a long shot, but my SO is trying to identify a film he saw 15-20 years ago, in France, that he would love to re-watch. Unfortunately, he's forgotten the title. The film may be French, but we're not 100% sure. He doesn't remember any famous actors starring. Can anyone help? Plot inside... [more inside]
advice about removing superglue
I inadvertently left an open vial of super glue on top of my antique desk, and then leaned on it with my elbow. Now it's stuck on with a rock-hard ring that looks like a satellite view of a mountain range, a centimeter wide at its base and peaks of a millimeter or so. I've tried applying nail polish remover with little success: the glue is just too thick. I hesitate to scrape at it with a knife because doing so will trash the finish and perhaps gouge the wood, but I'm thinking that may be my only option. Any advice?
posted by BadgerDoctor at 9:50 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by BadgerDoctor at 9:50 PM PST - 14 comments
Fool-proof vinegar infusions
I want to make infused herbal vinegars for holiday gifts, but I'm bewildered by all of the different recipes and ratios online. And I don't have enough time to experiment! [more inside]
The phone rang every night at the same time . . .
Please help me find out the name of this song and who performed it. I'm pretty sure it was 1985 when I heard this song on the radio. It was kind of an oddball novelty song that used a lot of sounds like ticking and ringing clocks. [more inside]
posted by arkham_inmate_0801 at 8:55 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by arkham_inmate_0801 at 8:55 PM PST - 9 comments
Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Info About Property
What are some resources to learn about property rights? [more inside]
Best vacay evar!
India! Where should I go? What should I do? [more inside]
posted by bardic at 8:27 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by bardic at 8:27 PM PST - 15 comments
Working backwards from the tools...
What should I cook with all these kitchen tools? [more inside]
posted by Buffaload at 8:24 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Buffaload at 8:24 PM PST - 15 comments
3 musketeer desserts
What are some Amazingly Awesomely delicious desserts to make that involve 3 musketeer bars? [more inside]
what activities shall i take my two years old to?
What activities shall I take my two years old to? I have been getting great answers here over the years. thanks all!!
my son is about two and half now. my wife stays home, so he is not going to day care.
weekends are all about mall shopping and eating out, and not much else. i have this concern that we may miss out some great activities for a kid at his age.
welcome any suggestions on what we should be doing to give my son a great time....
location: NYC
Budget Lens for Canon Rebel T2i?
Spicing up Secret Santa
We're doing Secret Santa at my work and the co-worker I chose loves really spicy food. I don't want to do just a gift card to a restaurant or grocery store or something. I'm thinking maybe I should make up a little basket of stuff and would love ideas of what to put in it -- and I'd love to hear any other ideas you have, too! We're doing this next week so I don't have time to buy online. I'm in the Bay Area, in case you have any ideas that could take advantage of stores around here (preferably San Francisco or Marin). Thanks!
posted by imalaowai at 7:36 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by imalaowai at 7:36 PM PST - 17 comments
Annotated Poetry
Poetry Majors, are there any poets who annotate their poetry? [more inside]
How much effect does bone density have on bone weight?
If you take an adult male with average bone density and put them through 5 years of weight training which will increase their bone density from the weight-bearing exercise, how much more will their skeleton weigh?
Literally an itchy ear
Help me figure out what's going on with my itchy ear. I can't get to the doctor until next week. [more inside]
I hate AT&T.
Did I just mess up my credit? And if so is there anyway to fix it? [more inside]
posted by whoaali at 7:11 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by whoaali at 7:11 PM PST - 15 comments
Indian restaurants in the Northwest
New to the Seattle area (again, it's been awhile) and dying for some good Indian food. Where do I *need* to go? I'm not afraid with venturing out of the city if there's gems to be found.
Help me help the most awesome kid I know
I'm looking for advice on how to help my five year old with some behavioral issues. [more inside]
posted by Cuke at 6:57 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Cuke at 6:57 PM PST - 19 comments
Turkey traffic
What's traffic like around NYC on Thanksgiving Day? [more inside]
Password security
Password security strength question. [more inside]
I'm being treated like an incompetent at work and I don't know what to do about it.
I recently changed career focuses and the way I'm being treated suggests that my boss thinks I'm incompetent and not to be trusted. I don't know how to read the situation and I need perspective. [more inside]
Can't cope with buying, can't cope with renting
I need help getting a mortgage on a property that needs minor repairs. [more inside]
Ethics of treating the many for the benefit of the few?
Where can I find interesting papers, discussions, blog posts, etc. about the disparity between benefits to personal health and population health when it comes to medical interventions and the ethical implications therein? [more inside]
Same Old Story
I'm getting some mixed signals from a girl, and have no idea what to do about it. Help me out? [more inside]
What should I read after Reamde (Stephenson)
Book recommendation: Help me find more books like Reamde [more inside]
A broken bed
Should I sue a furniture company for failure to execute a warranty on a broken bed? [more inside]
Looking for some books to get me through the winter...
Help me MeFites! Help me find the books that will allow me to space out during the holidays.
I'm looking for some engrossing, non-taxing, but not stupid, novels to read that will take me away from my ordinary modern life and its attendant pressures. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 5:22 PM PST - 49 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 5:22 PM PST - 49 comments
I think I'll move to Australia.
Stress is starting to hurt me. What can I do? How can I dramatically reduce stress in my life? And/or take a budget vacation? [more inside]
Please help me choose a SAD lamp.
I think I'm prone to Seasonal Affective Disorder, and would like to try a light box this winter to avoid the blues. Which one should I buy? [more inside]
How to automatically backup remote users data (OS X)
What is the best method to force my remote users to backup their data. They all use MacBook Airs currently, and I'm looking for a good solution. I need something that they dont have to think about and they will be protected. [more inside]
Why is my sleep interrupted by a painful tongue sensation?
Why do I get a sharp pain in my tongue asI drift off to sleep? [more inside]
Any decent rental agencies in Portsmouth, NH?
Are there any good rental agencies in Portsmouth, NH?
My brother needs to find an apartment there in the next few weeks and Craiglist isn't turning up much. We are accustomed to the Boston area where there are countless rental agencies but it seems that Portsmouth doesn't have any.
Career Decision: ACS Call center fixing Macs? Gut says NO, Pocketbook says "Meh"
Should I work at an ACS Call Center supporting Mac Computers? More specifically, would that give me any career advantages such as if I later wanted to work at the Genius Bar or other (?) mac related jobs? [more inside]
Poorly Early Macbook Air - Will a SSD Save it?
I have a Macbook Air from 2008, Core 2 Duo, 2GB RAM. It's been unusably slow for the longest time but Lion seemed to revive it a bit, though the graphics performance (especially after waking from sleep) is still sometimes horribly sluggish. I don't think I can upgrade the RAM, not sure about the graphics card (suspect not), but see that you can buy a new SSD that's compatible. I'm tempted, but can't find any clear information on whether a SSD upgrade would really improve things. Does anyone know if it's worth itin terms of improved system performance? Thanks!
Oh my aching back!
I carry all my stress in my low back. Help me hurt less! [more inside]
Beyond the shoebox diorama
Can you give my kid some ideas for sample lesson plans? [more inside]
Reference management for web-based collaboration
What reference management options exist for Google Docs? Failing that, what other web-based collaboration tools offer reference management, either built-in or by extension via plug-in?
Toys for a brainy kid
Great educational toys for a 12 year old? [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 2:58 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 2:58 PM PST - 8 comments
Can I plug my analog phone into the Internet? Please??
I've got high-speed Internets. Also, old-fashioned Fax machines and analog phones. Is there a Voice-over-IP box which _provides a DIALTONE_ and touch-tone-dialing functionality to analog phone devices? [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 2:47 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by shipbreaker at 2:47 PM PST - 10 comments
As If Games
Guitar Chord filter: Can anyone figure out the chords to this song by Alon Olearchik? [more inside]
posted by wittgenstein at 2:38 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by wittgenstein at 2:38 PM PST - 1 comment
Should I take this job?
Should I take this job? [more inside]
Help me understand the link between drug side effects and delivery mechanisms.
Is a transdermal patch or topical version of a given prescription drug any less likely to cause side effects that result from taking the oral form? [more inside]
Free online graphing app that plays well with Excel?
Asking for a colleague:
"Back in October 2008, I found a free online app that uploaded data from Excel and produced (very pretty) charts and graphs. Unfortunately, I didn’t keep track of the website, and I’m having trouble tracking it down again. Most of the free graphing apps I’ve found online today require that you manually input the data; I’m looking for something that will more easily upload a set of data from Excel."
posted by lassie at 2:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lassie at 2:23 PM PST - 5 comments
Pockets in Scrubs
I just started volunteering at a hospital and got my first ever set of scrubs. The pants have two pockets on the butt, as one would expect, but one of them is inside the pants, and one of them is outside. I find this arrangement totally fascinating and intriguing. Is there some reason for a pocket inside the backside of scrub pants, or did I just get a weird pair?
posted by ocherdraco at 2:17 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ocherdraco at 2:17 PM PST - 10 comments
What do you call yourselves when you're not married but boyfriend and girlfriend seems off?
We're not married but what do I call what would be my in-laws? [more inside]
posted by boobjob at 2:00 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by boobjob at 2:00 PM PST - 53 comments
Why on Earth is there an option to disable rollover menus?
The school I'm currently attending offers users of their website the option to 'Disable Rollover Menus' on some pages but not all. Why? [more inside]
posted by stet at 1:45 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by stet at 1:45 PM PST - 7 comments
Closest ski resort to NYC that is open this weekend?
I'm in New York City. I want to go skiing this thanksgiving weekend. None of the nearby resorts seem to be open (yet). What is my closest option? I'm willing to take a very long drive, but I'd like to avoid flying on thanksgiving. Thanks!
posted by falameufilho at 1:42 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by falameufilho at 1:42 PM PST - 6 comments
Networking for the Desperate
With very little to offer, how can I network more effectively? [more inside]
posted by aintthattheway at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by aintthattheway at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
I have bad teeth and I'm not wealthy...is there a way to improve my smile?
I have bad teeth and I'm not wealthy...is there a way to improve my smile? [more inside]
Is my boss a jerk / being overboard?
Is my boss a jerk / being overboard?
I've noticed certain behaviors about my boss that bother me, and I need some validation and outside opinion on whether my boss is being overboard. Everyone else at work seems to just shut up and accept such behavior. To what extent are these things acceptable in a work environment? [more inside]
Birds of peace? Not always.
I work at an animal shelter and someone gave us white doves. There's a mom, dad, and son. Originally the son was very young and his feathers weren't grown in, so we kept them together. Now he is a young adult and both he & his dad are doing the "bow & coo" aggressive stance at each other. Should I separate him from his parents? I know doves shouldn't be alone, but they are getting territorial at this point, so what should we do?
posted by ktoad at 1:13 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ktoad at 1:13 PM PST - 4 comments
A funeral suit in NY
I have to fly out to Long Island, NY (Nassau Country) for a funeral. I don't have an appropriately somber suit or the time to get one before I leave, and I am what you call "big" (135 kg) but not that tall (175cm). Where can I get a suit on short notice, that is not too expensive (max. $500)? I would prefer not to have to go into the city, but will if that's my only option.
posted by derMax at 1:08 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by derMax at 1:08 PM PST - 11 comments
Does the feast before the fast matter?
Is it stupid for me to get a cholesterol blood test the Friday morning after Thanksgiving? My doctor instructed me to fast for at least 7 hours prior to the test, but I just read something else online that said I should fast for more like 14 hours, and not drink alcohol for 48 hours prior to getting the test.
posted by queensissy at 1:00 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by queensissy at 1:00 PM PST - 10 comments
Disposal isn't flexible enough
Kitchen disposal's rubber splash guard hardly lets water pass through it - what are my options? Even after 6 mos of use, no sign of breaking in. [more inside]
posted by MuckWeh at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by MuckWeh at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
What, other than weight gain/loss, can make clothes stop fitting right?
My clothes aren't fitting right anymore, but I haven't gained or lost weight. What's going on? [more inside]
Best digital voice recorder for a Mac user doing PhD research?
I'm looking for feedback on the best digital voice recorder to buy for my PhD research interviews. It must be compatible with my MacBook Pro laptop. [more inside]
posted by sassy mae at 11:33 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by sassy mae at 11:33 AM PST - 11 comments
Help me remove my toilet paper holder!
I need help removing a U shaped toilet paper holder attached to a cabinet in my apartment. Pictures inside!!! [more inside]
posted by devonia at 11:29 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by devonia at 11:29 AM PST - 9 comments
itunes authorization quesiton
iTunes is messing with me. [more inside]
What is a pool photo?
What does it mean when a newspaper photo caption says "pool photo?" This is a New York Times article with an example. Thank you!
Seeking long term advice for dealing with "asker" in-laws as a life-long "guesser."
Seeking long term advice for dealing with "asker" in-laws as a life-long "guesser." [more inside]
Grandma loves her snaps
Grandma needs a new camera and I'd really like to switch her over to a digital camera. But are there any cameras built for seniors? [more inside]
My fridge predates the Reagan administration
How often should an old manual defrost refrigerator need defrosting, and when does excessive frost indicate a problem? [more inside]
DESIRED: Fast, wide, compact? cameras.
I want a camera that a) is decent in low light, b) has or can be equipped with a fast, wideish lens and focus and take pictures quickly and c) ideally is smaller than most DSLRs. [more inside]
posted by pmv at 10:25 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by pmv at 10:25 AM PST - 25 comments
DJ NFIN8 seems less than infinite
[asking for a friend] Trying to find DJ NFIN8 who used to spin at Retrospect, held at the Rogue in Scottsdale, AZ. We want to see if he is interested in doing our wedding. [more inside]
Didn't realize how stressful impending financial decreptitude was until this reprieve.
Received a small (huge for me) financial windfall. I have a vague plan on what to do with it. What is the title of the person at my local credit union with whom I should be seeking advice from? Bonus: is my vague plan a reasonable one? [more inside]
posted by porpoise at 10:10 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by porpoise at 10:10 AM PST - 30 comments
To the land of Oz we go
Going to Perth/surrounding areas, advice needed. [more inside]
ASL degree?
Is a degree in ASL really necessary? [more inside]
Where do I buy seeds for hydroponics? And assorted questions.
I'm thinking about starting an indoor hydroponic garden soon, using a guide I found on Instructables for DWC. What are some good vegetables/fruits to grow beyond tomatoes and herbs, which would ideally grow at similar temperatures and light levels as tomatoes and herbs? And what's the best place to buy seeds, either online or in the Princeton/New Brunswick, NJ area? [more inside]
posted by mccarty.tim at 9:54 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mccarty.tim at 9:54 AM PST - 8 comments
IT and social networking replacing old jobs?
What jobs/businesses have been negatively affected by the rise of information technology and social networking? [more inside]
Books on the history of agriculture
Can you recommend good books on the history of agriculture? [more inside]
Anything is better than this brick I've been carrying around
Phone gurus: help me pick a new cell phone! My sad, sad Blackberry Curve is on its last legs, and I'm more than ready for an upgrade. Should I go with an Iphone, Samsung, Motorola, HTC or...[insert your great suggestion here]? [more inside]
Not Martha, but in Boston.
Help leaving a job
My work and I have a last day in mind for me (I'm working and in school, and it just got too much this semester). However, a family situation came up, and I need to leave earlier than my last day. I need help on how to negotiate this with my work. [more inside]
I'd like to have time to take a nap sometime, please.
How much notice does my job need to give me if they are requiring me to work my regularly scheduled day off? [more inside]
I need a Splenda-like substitute...for jealousy
Lately, my wife only seems to be emotionally and sexually open with me if she senses there are other women (potentially) interested in me. I don't want to make her jealous... [more inside]
Is there a software tool for a small-business database problem?
My office needs a seemingly simple database setup. I don't know what tool to use to set things up (or if we need to outsource it). Can the hivemind help? [more inside]
Should I be a NY, NJ, or CT resident?
I'm trying to figure out where I should establish residency. I'm currently a NJ resident because I lived in a co-op apartment that I own there for about 5 years; I have been renting it out for about 2 years now. My current official mailing address is still in NJ (at a UPS store, so it just looks like a regular address). For the past year-ish, I've lived in CT in a house my father owns. Going forward, I will be living half of the time with my fiancee in Brooklyn and the other half here in CT. So, where is the best place for me to establish residency? [more inside]
Where did my motivation go?
What happened to my motivation and discipline with exercise that I had so proudly acquired and maintained for 5 months?!! [more inside]
How can I invite people to a ninja day event?
How can I invite people to a ninja day event? [more inside]
posted by rosa at 8:26 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by rosa at 8:26 AM PST - 11 comments
Walking a half marathon
I want to walk a half marathon. My city's marathon is next fall, so I have plenty of time to get ready. I found various training plans online that range from 12-16 weeks, but that's really not what my question is about. I'm wondering, since I have almost a year till then, what should I do be doing now? Does it matter? I'm in good health but haven't exercised consistently lately. Also, general walking-a-half advice is very welcome!
Looking For A Poster From Seinfeld
On Seinfeld, Elaine worked at J. Peterman's place and had an office with This Large Photo of a dock or some such thing on a lake. Can anyone identify that poster/print, photographer/artist name, and maybe point to a place to buy?
posted by Blake at 7:44 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Blake at 7:44 AM PST - 14 comments
How to create a "facts" list
I'd like to create something like a "facts" list and post it online similar to the Chuck Norris Facts web site: http://www.chucknorrisfacts.com/ [more inside]
Less attractive than I think?
I know the general practice for women is to date guys who seem into you, but what if guys don't seem into you? [more inside]
How do I invite a friend on vacation without inviting her awful fiancée?
I want to go on a vacation and include my best friend but no one can stand her fiancée and he certainly is not invited. I am definitely going and her feelings are going to be hurt if I don't ask them. How do I invite her without inviting him? [more inside]
posted by robstercraw at 7:27 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by robstercraw at 7:27 AM PST - 16 comments
Help! My hand's a flake!
I have eczema all over my dominant hand, which is making some day to day tasks difficult. What are some ways of getting around this? [more inside]
What's the best way for a Brit to cash royalty cheques?
I'm British and live in the UK, but get paid royalties by US companies (in the order of thousands of pounds). Some wire me the money but others give me cheques, which can take months to cash if the bank is being difficult. What are my most sensible options for getting money from the US? [more inside]
posted by humblepigeon at 6:43 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by humblepigeon at 6:43 AM PST - 18 comments
Trans support in Austin, TX?
I am looking for a Trans support group and/or therapist in Austin, TX. I have used the googles, but many of the resources listed are woefully out of date. [more inside]
This anger - it's soul killing and I can't take it.
How do you handle your spouse's angry outbursts when you feel they are irrational? [more inside]
How do I fight a parking ticket in Toronto?
Web-based self-serve tool to manage existing distribution lists?
Looking for a web-based self-serve tool to manage existing distribution lists that will work with Exchange 2003 and 2010. [more inside]
In the 1920s, was smoking indoors allowed at the NYPL?
Was smoking indoors at the New York Public Library (the main branch) ever permitted? I'm specifically interested in what the rules were during the 1920s. It seems like it would have been a terrible idea to allow it, but given the prevalence of smoking during that period, I'm curious as to if it was actually banned or not. I have been googling, but haven't been able to find anything helpful.
posted by Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo at 5:54 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo at 5:54 AM PST - 4 comments
High learning curves that are worth it?
In your field, what's known to have a high learning curve but pays off in the long run? [more inside]
posted by spec at 5:30 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by spec at 5:30 AM PST - 28 comments
Best distrubution for Linux VPS?
I run a couple of django-based websites/webapps. What OS should I use for my VPS? The most important thing is security and easy installation of packages (including dependencies). I also prefer a system that is easy to maintain. Security is more important, but if all else is equal I would specifically love something with easy to make init-scripts. I know I can install third party packages to do just about anything, but I prefer a batteries-included approach if it exists. [more inside]
Please help me find a job that I can do with my environmental/renewable energy degree.
Please help me find a job that I can do with my environmental/renewable energy degree. [more inside]
posted by sockpim at 4:14 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by sockpim at 4:14 AM PST - 3 comments
Ethical Business?
What are the major organizations that publish company profiles and/or reports on the ethics of their business practices? [more inside]
WatercolorFilter
A young, talented art student needs advice. She did a beautiful sketch for an assignment, but had a *really* hard time with watercoloring it. Here's the final piece. It's set in a grotto-like space, with light coming from above near the waterfall, but she had problems making that area bright, making water further away really dark, with lighting, layering, shadowing, etc. She's great with acrylic, but unfortunately needs to work in watercolor again *soon*. She had a fairly basic student watercolor set, and used Arches watercolor paper." Any advice on what she can do to rapidly improve in the medium?
posted by markkraft at 3:24 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by markkraft at 3:24 AM PST - 17 comments
What's it like to live in Streatham?
What's it like to live in Streatham, South London? [more inside]
posted by Ziggy500 at 3:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Ziggy500 at 3:01 AM PST - 4 comments
Toddler being raised with two languages
My 2-year-old daughter is growing up in a two-language household. Any advice on ensuring a balanced retention of vocabulary? [more inside]
posted by Tenacious.Me.Tokyo at 2:58 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Tenacious.Me.Tokyo at 2:58 AM PST - 19 comments
Best cloud-based backup solution?
What is the best cloud-based backup solution? [more inside]
Looking for tips on 3g tablets that support PPP
tabletfilter: Suggestions for a 3g/wifi tablet that supports PPTP? [more inside]
posted by 3mendo at 2:34 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by 3mendo at 2:34 AM PST - 6 comments
Learning to write Eastern Arabic numerals
Remember those handwriting practice worksheets with little arrows showing you how to write letters (image here)? I'm looking for something like that - but for Eastern Arabic numerals. [more inside]
Scrivener: when will I stop hating it?
Scrivener: when will I stop hating it? [more inside]
November 21
"Symphony of roses..." Line?
SongFilter: the line "symphony of roses" is all I could remember, and I don't remember the station on the radio I heard it on, but it was an indie station, I think. It was just on in the car and Google is failing me entirely. Anyone familiar?
posted by dubadubowbow at 11:18 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by dubadubowbow at 11:18 PM PST - 2 comments
How can I figure out how to make my "ding in the universe"?
How can I figure out how to make my "ding in the universe"? [more inside]
posted by inatizzy at 10:59 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by inatizzy at 10:59 PM PST - 19 comments
Can I install my son's OS on my wife's computer?
My wife is locked out of her netbook (W7 Starter). We're far from home with no backup or password recovery disks. Can I create a backup from my son's identical netbook and install? [more inside]
Ring ring BUZZZZZZ
I'm looking for an android sound profile app that won't crash my phone. Ideally, I would be able to create a profile that had my alarm and ringer at full volume while disabling all other sounds. The last one I tried made my phone run really slowly and freeze intermittently, and a few of the other ones I've looked at don't seem to distinguish between notification types - I need the alarm to be a different control from email alerts and stuff. I'd really appreciate a recommendation! My googling has failed. Thanks in advance, MetaFilters.
posted by prefpara at 9:12 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by prefpara at 9:12 PM PST - 12 comments
How can I get my dog to stop whining?
I love my dog Buddy, and he loves me. He loves everyone, really. But starting a few weeks ago he has become very vocally NEEDY. He will not stop whining, and it's driving us batty. Can you dog-trainer-types out there help me figure out how to help him chill out? [more inside]
posted by That's Numberwang! at 9:04 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by That's Numberwang! at 9:04 PM PST - 15 comments
Do unelected lawmakers ever change their mind?
Back when the House of Lords (and similar parliamentary bodies) had power, were party affiliations life-long commitments, or did people change parties, even without the pressure of constituent blocks? [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 8:49 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Hactar at 8:49 PM PST - 8 comments
Should the book I edited advertise my Ph.D.?
I'm editing a non-academic, non-fiction book to be published by a university library. Should the book advertise my Ph.D. credentials? If so, how? [more inside]
posted by Orinda at 8:48 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Orinda at 8:48 PM PST - 12 comments
Orchids
Getting romantic flowers from fiance.. [more inside]
China news magazine - in English?
English-language print magazines about China? [more inside]
Platforming picks?
Can you recommend some platform games for the Xbox 360? [more inside]
Little-known, but important rulers
Who is the least-known ruler from antiquity who ruled over the greatest number of people? [more inside]
Book about repudiating the strict disciplinarian parenthood model
Looking for a book title. The book is about the change in parental-child relationships from the strict disciplinarian-distant parent model of old to the parent/friend relationship that many people embrace today. The book describes how the former model—in place around the world for centuries—led to martial societies, culminating in the bloodiest century in history before many of us began to throw out the old parenting model.
Helping my sister through divorce?
How do I be the best most supportive brother I can while my sister is going through a divorce? [more inside]
Help me construct this guitar?
Why do the Seymour Duncan 50's California pickups say "works especially well with rosewood fretboards", where can I get an unpainted '57 Stratocaster, and other variations on these questions. [more inside]
posted by jitterbug perfume at 6:10 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jitterbug perfume at 6:10 PM PST - 13 comments
Where do the cows go?
Can you pasture animals in a field that's lying fallow for crop rotation? [more inside]
posted by titus n. owl at 5:58 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by titus n. owl at 5:58 PM PST - 16 comments
Fresh herbs for free! (but maybe not so easy as all that)
Growing an indoor herb garden. [more inside]
A perfect storm of awful.
Help me decide what to do with my cat. [more inside]
Ran a dildo through the dryer; throw out?
I ran it through the dryer... sex toy edition. [more inside]
What sort of people supply specimens to aquariums?
I want to get specimens of some sea snails for my research into textile dyeing but I have no idea how to go about it. I presume that there must be people who specialise in getting specimens of fish and other sea creatures for aquariums, but how do I find someone like that?
The stabbing is very cathartic...
I have just discovered needle felting! Where can I find inspiration for fun/nerdy projects, tips on technique, and any other useful bits of information? (Ideally for free...) [more inside]
USPS insurance appeal?
Can you read this number plate?
Can you read the letters and numbers on the number plate in this picture? For reasons that should remain confidential at this point, we are trying to track down the company that owns it. Unfortunately, the photo has a significant amount of motion blur (in two directions) and graininess, and Photoshop is not helping. (The only program that seems to handle the deblurring required, Amped Five, is expensive commercial software not available for casual use such as this.) This is a Swedish number plate, so the first three should be letters, the last three digits. Note how the last two digits look like '3' but not quite. None of the searches we have done on the Swedish Transport Agency's web site match a semi of this size.
posted by gentle at 5:06 PM PST - 66 comments
posted by gentle at 5:06 PM PST - 66 comments
I need a jazz score
I'm making a short (20 second) animation in the style of John Hubley's commercials and I'm looking for some music similar to this ad to score it. It needs to be just bass and drums (mostly bass) with no trumpet or vocals or anything. I know Dizzie Gillespie worked with Hubley so I've been listening to his last.fm station all day but I can't find anything that doesn't have too much trumpet. Public domain would be great (but not essential).
What's the fair way to deal with a friend accidentally damaging my laptop?
Ethics filter: Friend spilled a drink causing $750 damage to my laptop. Fair to request $750 from him? Can I apply that money to a new computer rather than just repairing this one? [more inside]
posted by losvedir at 4:32 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by losvedir at 4:32 PM PST - 54 comments
I may have killed my friend's pet.
Babysitting friend's budgie and let it out to have a fly. It hit a wall and fell to the ground beside my dog who promptly scooped him up but dropped him immediately when I yelled at him. I rushed him to an avian vet. The bird is in shock and in "critical" condition. Oh, please help. Vet expenses are going to be $400 and I don't even know if the bird will make it. But I don't care about the money. I care about my friend and my friendship with her. [more inside]
posted by heffalump at 3:41 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by heffalump at 3:41 PM PST - 37 comments
Tea and Altitude: the high leaf.
Water in La Paz boils at 80º C. What effect would that have on the taste of tea? Would a La Pazian never get to taste the perfect brew?
posted by omnigut at 3:29 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by omnigut at 3:29 PM PST - 19 comments
Vanity Fair books feature
Vanity Fair feature on the future of book publishing? I've been told there was an excellent one about a year ago, but I cannot find it. Does it exist?
posted by rhymer at 2:59 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by rhymer at 2:59 PM PST - 4 comments
Gnorthern California Holiday Gnocchi?
Northern California Italian holiday gnocchi-like dish? A few years ago, maybe in Sunset Magazine, there was an article about festive holiday celebrations in Napa? Sonoma? Mendocino? and a beloved dish made in Italian delis that resembled gnocchi but had a different name. There might have been a recipe. I have mega-googled with no success. Mille grazie!
posted by lois1950 at 2:37 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by lois1950 at 2:37 PM PST - 6 comments
What was it like to live in Babylon?
What was it like to live in Babylon? [more inside]
Best pub trivia in Philadelphia?
Best pub trivia in Philadelphia? [more inside]
Gluten-free Thanksgiving.
Gluten-free Thanksgiving. My youngest sister was diagnosed with Celiac disease at the beginning of this year. She will be coming home for Thanksgiving and I'd like to make some gluten-free dishes for our family pot-luck style dinner. The interweb is chock-full of gluten-free recipes, but I don't know which ones are good and which are just meh. Please share your favorite gluten-free Thanksgiving-y recipes! [more inside]
posted by netsirk at 1:38 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by netsirk at 1:38 PM PST - 29 comments
Fast warm and breakfasty
Warm breakfast ideas that can be made quickly without a microwave? [more inside]
How to attach a plow to a John Deere X55 riding mower?
How do I attach a "Quick Hitch" to a John Deere X585 riding lawn mower? [more inside]
How to turn audio and slides into a video
I have an audio recording of a presentation and a PDF with the slides. What's the best way to post these online so people can watch it as a video, or at least look at the slides while listening to the audio? [more inside]
posted by modernserf at 1:13 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by modernserf at 1:13 PM PST - 2 comments
The Reality of Making it Big
Several years ago I remember reading a very well-regarded article about the financial realities of the life of a band when it gets signed by a music label. I think it was from Rolling Stone, but I couldn't swear by that fact. I recall that it laid out in detail about how the advances work, how exciting it is for the band at first, and then how the entire industry is built to completely financially destroy them. Does this ring a bell with anyone? My nephew is going to become a world-famous millionaire rock star, and I want to give him something to think about while he is working for that big break....
posted by Lokheed at 1:12 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Lokheed at 1:12 PM PST - 12 comments
Worrying is in my genes and this is definitely not helping me right now
YANAL but I need to get some answers so I can stop obsessively worrying about whether or not I can get sued over this. [more inside]
Sex Postive Therapist in Chicago?
Can anybody recommend a sex positive relationship therapist in or near Chicago? [more inside]
zip lining with the sloths
Heading to Costa Rica with an open itinerary tomorrow. If you've visited, is there anywhere in particular I absolutely have to go? [more inside]
posted by roger ackroyd at 12:18 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by roger ackroyd at 12:18 PM PST - 15 comments
Please help me plan a fitness adventure!
You helped me 'dedicate a year to spoiling my physical body' - now please help me plan four months of "fitness adventure" while not working! [more inside]
posted by saraindc at 11:59 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by saraindc at 11:59 AM PST - 7 comments
What story and cultural references have outlived what they referred to?
Can anyone think of cultural references that have replaced what they are referring to? [more inside]
posted by the man of twists and turns at 11:52 AM PST - 51 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 11:52 AM PST - 51 comments
Dealing with a friend's crush
How do I deal with unwanted advances from someone who I really, really want to be friends with? [more inside]
Can't afford private school loan repayment
$45K in school loans to private bank (Wells Fargo). Lawyer/collections office wants money. There is no money. Now what? [more inside]
Help me avoid seppuku this Thanksgiving.
I need to cook a 16-18lb bird and a 19lb sirloin, and I want to do it with fire, but I'm not sure my plan is a good one. [more inside]
Put the new battery ino the phone again, it can be working.
Can anyone tell me what the purpose of this "Battery Connector" is?
We purchased some replacement batteries for blackberries, and while we can read the engrish, we don't understand what exactly is taking place when we follow the instructions. Help me mefi!
posted by TuxHeDoh at 11:36 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by TuxHeDoh at 11:36 AM PST - 7 comments
1960s film question
Can anyone suggest some good films made in the 1960s for a high school level film class? [more inside]
Is it a good idea to use Groupon, Scoopon or other 'deal of the day' websites to organize car maintenance and servicing?
Is it a good idea to use Groupon, Scoopon or other 'deal of the day' websites to organize car maintenance and servicing? [more inside]
posted by UltraFleece at 11:22 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by UltraFleece at 11:22 AM PST - 3 comments
Words
What’s a sure-fire way of knowing the difference between “their” and there; I always end up getting confused between the two. [more inside]
Life counts as a pre-existing condition, right?
I'm finally in a place where I can afford health insurance (catastrophic, at least) in Washington state. So far all I'm really doing is looking at plans on ehealthinsurance dot com...but if there are things to look out for or better ways to shop, I'd really appreciate the input. I'm healthy but nervous about being ripped off. [more inside]
posted by scaryblackdeath at 10:54 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by scaryblackdeath at 10:54 AM PST - 7 comments
Remove the shopping bag from this otherwise lovely beef preparation
Help me find a better alternative to brown grocery bags in this recipe. [more inside]
posted by Ogre Lawless at 10:50 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Ogre Lawless at 10:50 AM PST - 15 comments
How can I comfortably discuss my disabled sister?
How can I tactfully tell a large group of people about my disabled sister? [more inside]
posted by Flamingo at 10:48 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by Flamingo at 10:48 AM PST - 36 comments
Songs that keep building until they almost explode
Looking for a few examples of popular music that builds and builds and builds, without letting you down. I should be able to give several examples, but the only one I could think of is Fleetwood Mac's Silver Springs from 1997's The Dance. (Wish I could think of better examples, but that's the reason for this question)
Most other songs I know have a short step ladder effect that has minimal payoff. I'm looking for songs that keep building until they almost explode. I would prefer more popular music (pop, adult contemporary, rock, etc) but wouldn't mind some indy stuff too.
posted by unceman at 10:48 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by unceman at 10:48 AM PST - 49 comments
Stuck in the middle with you.
SadisticCinemaFilter: Film scenes in which person A deliberately and for no apparent reason hurts person B when person B obviously poses no threat whatsoever to person A. [more inside]
Hasselblad Accessory Hassle
Looking for accessories for the older analog Hasselblad camera systems. [more inside]
Chicken again?
Best "gateway" foods for uninspired palates? [more inside]
How did your parents make Santa real for you?
How did your parents make Santa Claus real for you? [more inside]
posted by Jaybo at 10:24 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by Jaybo at 10:24 AM PST - 53 comments
Inexpensive Family Travel in Europe June 2012
How can my family and I (including 3 children) travel to Europe for at a reasonable cost next summer? We are open to flying into pretty much anywhere in Europe, as I think we can travel within Europe pretty cheaply once we get there-it's the cost of getting there from the West Coast of the US that has me worried. Of course, there is [more inside]
posted by purenitrous at 10:19 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by purenitrous at 10:19 AM PST - 20 comments
Turkey Hacks?
Has anyone ever tried this Cook's Illustrated turkey recipe? It purports to cook a 12-14 lb bird in two hours. I'm a bit skeptical. [more inside]
posted by gnutron at 10:08 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by gnutron at 10:08 AM PST - 15 comments
Radar would know what to do.
I own the M*A*S*H - Martinis and Medicine Complete Collection. Along with all of the DVDs is a thick booklet that lists all of the episodes. I've misplaced that particular part of the box set and I'm wondering if anyone knows how I can go about getting another copy of that? Is there some way I can contact the company(Fox) that produces this box set and offer to pay? Or is this something that I should just accept as lost?
Tips on advertising copyediting to students
Have you advertised copyediting services at colleges or universities? How did you do it? Do you have any tips? [more inside]
Please Help Me Survive Thanksgiving
Help: I need to at least seem 'okay' by Thursday. Advice? [more inside]
Activity-less in Seattle
What are some good social clubs / activities / volunteer-type things in the Seattle metropolitan area? I want to make more friends. [more inside]
posted by lockstitch at 9:47 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by lockstitch at 9:47 AM PST - 8 comments
Testing rdesktop.
Is there a public test Windows XP machine online somewhere I can remote into with rdesktop and tsclient? I am trying to see how it is going to look and work when I remote into work machines on this Ubuntu box, but these are not yet set up. Other Windows are fine too. [more inside]
posted by By The Grace of God at 9:40 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by By The Grace of God at 9:40 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me to secure my local Imac network.
I can't seem to password protect my local network for my Imac & Mac laptops. Help me, please. [more inside]
Thank You Emails?
I want to send some post-interview thank you emails, but I don't have the email addresses of the people I interviewed with. Should I email the recruiting contact asking for the email addresses, or just leave it alone? [more inside]
posted by naju at 9:15 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by naju at 9:15 AM PST - 21 comments
How to get all my contact info in 1 place?
How to get all my contact info in 1 place? How do I grab contact info across networks like FB, LinkedIn, Twitter etc. and update & sync with Google Contacts? [more inside]
sweet/funny pictures/sayings to see by my bed at night?
Pictures/Sayings that would be sweet/funny to see by the bed at night? [more inside]
How to adjust two-line preview in Outlook 2010?
Outlook 2010 driving me insane. I prefer to look at my mail with a two-line preview in the main column, and then the full message displayed in a window off to the right. That two-line preview used to show SENT BY and then SUBJECT LINE. Somehow it has switched to WHO THE MESSAGE WAS SENT TO and then SUBJECT LINE. I really don't care who else got a message I also received, I need to see the sender. This seems easy to fix but I'm losing my mind trying to do it. Anyone know?
posted by GaelFC at 8:58 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by GaelFC at 8:58 AM PST - 2 comments
Getting there: London/Paris edition
London to Paris and back: rail or air? [more inside]
posted by troywestfield at 8:55 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by troywestfield at 8:55 AM PST - 19 comments
Heavy curtains. No, heavier.
Where (online or in NYC) can I find a really heavy curtain for an interior doorway? [more inside]
Help save our crawly descendants
How do we keep praying mantis eggs from hatching until spring? [more inside]
Somehow I doubt it worked fine the first time somebody tried it.
What are some examples of "proto-liberal" revolutions, or liberal revolutions attempted before those in the United States and France? [more inside]
posted by edguardo at 8:15 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by edguardo at 8:15 AM PST - 12 comments
Cloud-based inventory management sites?
Basic, cloud-based inventory management and control system for vendors to update stock levels? [more inside]
To pop up, or not to pop up?
I'm building a blog-like site that will have lots of old stories about a particular rural area. I'll be adding lots of supplemental information about some of the places, people and things the author talks about, and I'm trying to decide how to display it. [more inside]
How to shake up a party mid-way through?
Help me make this party extraordinarily memorable! [more inside]
Character Translation to English
Needing a translation of the characters in this picture to English. (Also on DeviantArt) [more inside]
posted by saveyoursanity at 7:43 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by saveyoursanity at 7:43 AM PST - 4 comments
How to prevent confused elder from dismantling technology components.
An elderly relative, once technically savvy, now goes into fugue states where, in his confusion, he dismantles computer and A/V setups, with no one in the household to reconnect them properly. I'm looking for a way of securing A/V and computer connections while leaving the function of the devices still accessible. The alternative so far is spending endless hours with the cable company to get them to send someone to help, or paying someone else to come by. Phone instructions are no good, and there is no one in the household who can help.
posted by oneironaut at 7:42 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by oneironaut at 7:42 AM PST - 20 comments
Vizo vs. Samsung Internet App Experience
I need a new TV. Which one has the best Internet Apps. My research shows that Samsung and Vizio are the best priced TVs with Apps but which one has the best experience are there other brands I should be considering? Details below..... [more inside]
Best car-seat/stroller for a preemie taking cabs?
We hope to take our daughter home early next year, but she will likely be only 4lbs plus then. We've been given a Phil & Ted stroller, but we'd like initially to use something that detaches into a car seat. We don't drive, but use a lot of cabs, walking etc. in Singapore. The reviews online seem more for people with cars or bigger babies. Any advice or recommendations for a light stroller that will detach into a carseat that can be used easily in a cab?
posted by viggorlijah at 7:11 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by viggorlijah at 7:11 AM PST - 11 comments
he's gonna shake the dust of this crummy little town off his feet, and he's gonna see the world!
Please help me choose the right Christmas gift for my future intrepid traveler. [more inside]
posted by headnsouth at 7:05 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by headnsouth at 7:05 AM PST - 10 comments
Should we get a (specific) second dog?
Should we get a (specific) second dog? [more inside]
I'm getting old.
Can we talk about vacuums please? [more inside]
FAM, Coverlines, and Pregnancy Help.
FAM (Fertility Awareness Method) users, help me figure out what's going on with my coverline. [more inside]
Mix-and-match ultrabook
Tell me about your experiences running Windows 7 on a MacBook Air. [more inside]
A Verizon phone that can be silenced with any button press
I'm looking for a (Verizon) dumb phone that will silence the ring when any exterior button is pushed. [more inside]
Tired out
Buying new tires for my car for the first time ever. What kind should I get? What kind of up-sells/unnecessary stuff should I look out for? What about warranty? Should I get them from the dealer or a place like Firestone? [more inside]
Discharging leisure battery - diagnose solar panel or regulator?
Instead of charging my leisure battery my solar panel is discharging it. How do I diagnose? [more inside]
Winter swimsuit shopping in Vegas
Anywhere I can buy a women's swimsuit in Las Vegas, this time of year? [more inside]
Searching for Polyhedral Light Fixture
Looking for a polyhedral chandelier / light fixture. [more inside]
extended metaphor
Please help me find a short story or poem that functions as an extended metaphor. Preferably one as obscure or ambiguous in its meaning as possible. [more inside]
What's the best way to remove a grease stain and a pen mark from a down coat?
What's the best way to remove a small grease stain and a pen mark from a down coat? [more inside]
11 minutes of passive entertainment wanted
11 minutes of passive entertainment wanted [more inside]
posted by TheophileEscargot at 2:48 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by TheophileEscargot at 2:48 AM PST - 8 comments
Just Stubborn?
Looking for online scientific studies relating to the intelligence level of mules. [more inside]
November 20
I know you don't approve. I won't talk to you about it.
Reconciliation after a break-up: dealing with fallout from friends. [more inside]
Good place to work for a few hours in San Francisco financial district?
San Francisco financial district - where is a good indoor place to work for a few hours? My wife has a few hours tomorrow morning to kill before a meeting. She needs wifi, and the place should be generally quiet but still allow for occasional phone call (i.e. no library). Would prefer this not be a crowded coffee shop (i.e. no Starbucks or Peet's). [more inside]
posted by ccl6yl at 10:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ccl6yl at 10:12 PM PST - 8 comments
Can I create pivot table from subset of data?
Can I create pivot table from subset of data? If not, is there another way to do what I want to do? [more inside]
posted by Diablevert at 9:56 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Diablevert at 9:56 PM PST - 6 comments
How to help a 5 year old cope with sudden mental illness in a parent?
What can I say to a 5 year old, when his parent is mentally unwell?
How can I explain, what can I do with him, and what structures can we put in place, to make his mother's (temporary, but severe) illness easier on him? [more inside]
posted by Elysum at 9:05 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Elysum at 9:05 PM PST - 19 comments
Liquid hand soap w/black "pearls"?
A few weeks ago, I encountered a liquid hand soap that had these little black particles suspended in it. The dispenser was just your typical brand-name, pump handle dispenser, but the spout was a little bit wider than usual to let the black "pearls" pass through, which would dissolve as I washed my hands. What brand of soap was this?
Need a new external hard drive
Easy bake cookies
I'm looking for a cookie recipe that is easy to make and will transport well. [more inside]
posted by k8lin at 8:27 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by k8lin at 8:27 PM PST - 20 comments
How can I compress my portfolio into something that won't load like a bad animated GIF?
Can somebody please explain to me image compression, specifically with regard to creating smallish PDFs from Indesign files that contain large linked vector graphics? [more inside]
Tell me the things you wish you had known before you made a music video.
My friend asked me to make a music video for his band, but I have never done this before. We don't mind it looking a little lo-fi. I am looking for tips and advice from people who have done this before. Please tell me the things you wish you had known before you embarked on this particular endeavour. [more inside]
Map-making software that allows picking individual geographical features?
Is there any software (online or Mac) that will help me to make clean, simple custom maps for a classroom? Ideally, I'd start with a simple, blank outline map, then be able to add features one at a time. (For example, perhaps I'd select "Ohio River" from a dropdown menu, and then it would appear on the map.) [more inside]
I want feminist post-apocalypse stories
Are the Walking Dead comics as sexist as the show? I love post-apocalyptic literature. I hate sexism. [more inside]
posted by Mavri at 7:27 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Mavri at 7:27 PM PST - 35 comments
How does news about a company spread during the pre-ipo quiet period?
How do people get information about a company during its pre-ipo quiet period? [more inside]
How can I make sure I get good cashmere?
AskMe has convinced me that cashmere scarf (or maybe even a scarf/hat/glove) set would be an ideal Christmas gift for a friend in the cold north. How do I make sure I'm buying the good stuff? (caveat: online) [more inside]
How does one deal with premature baldness gracefully?
26 and balding. How does one deal with it gracefully? [more inside]
Easy Art Sounds
[Synthesizer/Audio Software/DJ Filter] I need easy art sounds! I'm looking for a easy-to-use device or software that can make minimal music/sounds for my art video soundtracks. [more inside]
I want to go everywhere... where do I go first?
Travel suggestions please! Solo female traveling some time between February and May, looking for a good combination of activity and relaxing. [more inside]
How many overpasses are there on the Highway of Heroes?
How many overpasses are there on the Highway of Heroes? Do you happen to know, or can you help me figure out a GIS workflow that will help me out? [more inside]
posted by avocet at 5:23 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by avocet at 5:23 PM PST - 4 comments
What's the name of the F1 victory song?
What's the name of the Formula 1 victory song that played during the late 80s/early 90s. My recollection is that it was also used in a popular arcade racing game at the time. It features heavy 80s synth. [more inside]
posted by geoff. at 4:45 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by geoff. at 4:45 PM PST - 8 comments
No, I want that one!
Help me pick the best calendar for my office Yankee Swap! [more inside]
posted by Sukey Says at 4:43 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Sukey Says at 4:43 PM PST - 17 comments
Where to find good value on jeans?
I'm looking for a great value on everyday jeans. I don't mind spending decent money if that's what it takes, but I'd want that money to go towards quality materials and construction - I truly don't care about labels or fleeting fashions. I live in LA but I'd be cool with shopping online if that's where the value can be found. Anybody have pointers on places/brands that could help me out with this, or is it back to the Gap again? [more inside]
Anonymous and BF make a porno
Advice/best practices for homemade sexytime photos and videos? [more inside]
Do I get Thyroid Removal Surgery?
My girlfriend is confused and bewildered about the possibility of having thyroid removal surgery. Of course there's more to it, so the entire extended explanation is in her words. [more inside]
Blackberry music app that will let me rate songs? And other recommendations.
BLACKBERRY USERS: Is there a music app that will let me rate songs? (Also, as a new user, I'd love to learn what apps you think are essential/useful.) [more inside]
Instead of arresting you, how about some pepper spray?
I'm having an online discussion (which I am trying to keep civil) with a group of people who claim that the police in California have the right to pepper spray anyone who does not obey a police order. How in the world can this be true? I'm not a lawyer - but my gut tells me that there has to be case law to the contrary. Help me out!
So how do you break in a pair of jeans, anyway?
I would like some advice on the care and feeding and breaking-in of a bog-standard new pair of jeans. [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 2:57 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 2:57 PM PST - 11 comments
Small Business Blues - How to get through the slow beginning
Advice for getting through the suckiness of the first several months or even year or two of starting a new business? [more inside]
need floor layout software
Can you help me find floor plan/room layout software that will help my relative run a vendor sales event? [more inside]
posted by germdisco at 2:46 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by germdisco at 2:46 PM PST - 3 comments
Absolutely no granite.
What are our options for a uniformly colored kitchen countertop? Laminate or ...? [more inside]
Audi TT versus Volvo C30
We're choosing between a used Audi TT coupe and a used Volvo C30 hatchback - anything we should consider? Do you own either of these cars? Hate them or love anything in particular about them? [more inside]
posted by letitrain at 2:42 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by letitrain at 2:42 PM PST - 14 comments
Kettlebell training for an exercise newbie?
I'm thinking of starting an exercise program with kettlebells. Is it a good idea? [more inside]
posted by Mr_Thirdworld at 2:40 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Mr_Thirdworld at 2:40 PM PST - 17 comments
Hard-to-fit feet
I’ve had trouble getting shoes to fit for a long time, but it seems to be getting worse as I get older. Today, I outgrew my shoes in the middle of a two-hour hike. [more inside]
posted by maurreen at 2:26 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by maurreen at 2:26 PM PST - 15 comments
How to develop work ethic after your academic confidence has taken a beating
Smart people who did badly in college - how did you regain your footing and develop your work ethic and study skills? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 2:26 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by sunnychef88 at 2:26 PM PST - 21 comments
How can I see on my main monitor what is being displayed on my secondary monitor?
I have a secondary monitor on my iMac that is installed in a room 50 feet away from my main monitor. I need a way to see on my main screen, whatever is displayed on the secondary monitor. Using Mac OS X 10.7. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by orlandop at 2:25 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by orlandop at 2:25 PM PST - 15 comments
Kosher substitute for salt pork
Kosher substitute for salt pork? We want to make an America's Test Kichen recipe for Thanksgiving turkey. It calls for salt pork to be laid along the back of the turkey during the first part of the roasting process (with the breast-side down), like so. ATK says this is called "barding" the turkey, which they say makes the bird "self-basting." [more inside]
Road conditions between LA and the Grand Canyon this week
I'd like to go on a short, last-minute trip to the Grand Canyon this week. If I drive from Los Angeles on Tuesday morning and drive back on Thursday morning, can I expect snow-free roads? [more inside]
posted by HotPatatta at 2:17 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by HotPatatta at 2:17 PM PST - 3 comments
Is it looking like a bad weather year for mid-December Vermont Skiing?
We're considering a ski trip to Mount Snow, Stratton, or Okemo December 16th-18th. It doesn't look like there's snow on the ground yet, but we need to put in for vacation days early. Will we likely be OK, or should we forget about such an early-season trip given this year's weather so far? Thanks!
Recommendation for a book on jealousy in romantic relationships?
I'm looking for novels that explore jealousy in romantic relationships, particularly featuring a partner who is jealous or insecure about the other person's romantic past. Ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends haunting the relationship would be excellent. Any recommendations? ("Literature" preferred--i.e., trashy novels aren't my thing.)
posted by melancholyplay at 1:25 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by melancholyplay at 1:25 PM PST - 25 comments
Tips for new parents. Have at it!
What tips/lifehacks can you think of for the upcoming parents. Don't care how small the tips are - just avoid the obvious ones. [more inside]
Please help me understand bipolar mania.
Can you help me to better understand bipolar mania/hypomania and the thought-processes of the manic mind? [more inside]
posted by MuChao at 12:49 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by MuChao at 12:49 PM PST - 14 comments
Bad Marks: Put it in perspective
(Relatively) bad marks: help me put it in perspective. What doors have I closed to myself? [more inside]
trying to buy the right mp3player for someone with a disabilty
Looking for a mp3player for someone with a developmental disability - one that is fairly easy to navigate without the ability to read, and not too complicated in general. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by donabean at 11:52 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by donabean at 11:52 AM PST - 11 comments
Flying into the wrong airport, now what?
What's the best way to get from Washington Reagan airport to a hotel near Tyson's Corner, VA? [more inside]
posted by tamitang at 11:34 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by tamitang at 11:34 AM PST - 14 comments
Finding a drug and alcohol rehabilitation charity
Help me find a good US-based alcohol and/or drug treatment charity that's not affiliated with any religion. [more inside]
posted by Thin Lizzy at 11:34 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Thin Lizzy at 11:34 AM PST - 4 comments
Look ma, no passwords
A relative passed away. I've been asked by family to wipe her work laptop before it is returned to the company. I don't have any of her passwords. Is there a way to wipe it anyways and have it in a returnable condition? [more inside]
posted by alcopop at 11:25 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by alcopop at 11:25 AM PST - 23 comments
Calling him kicky-man just isn't going to work long term.
Since you guys are so good at this and looking at baby names lists are already making my eyes bleed, I was hoping for some recommendations for a baby boy. [more inside]
posted by katers890 at 10:31 AM PST - 128 comments
posted by katers890 at 10:31 AM PST - 128 comments
I want my friend back
He's acts aloof everytime we see each other and I'm hurt. What can I do? (Details inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:31 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by anonymous at 10:31 AM PST - 18 comments
new tile floor?
a friend's basement flooded, and the floor needs replacing (wood on a concrete slab). she asks if porcelain tile could be laid in, considering the (remote) chance it could happen again. I think so, but wonder about the contact layer, and leveling over the slab. what would you use? would you seal the edges to prevent water getting in there (freezing/expansion)? is porcelain impervious?
Drive time: CT to DC?
How long would the drive from New Haven to Washington, D.C., take on Wednesday evening? I'm trying to decide how horrendous the experience will be so I can judge whether springing for Amtrack tickets would be worth it. We'll be leaving at about 6 from New Haven. Specific experiences with that drive or a similar one before Thanksgiving would be appreciated.
How can I keep track of music across music services?
Pandora, Grooveshark, Spotify... How can I keep track of music across all the music services? [more inside]
Should I relocate to Dallas?
I have the opportunity to relocate to Dallas from Boston for my job -- what is Dallas like? [more inside]
posted by 6spd at 9:44 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by 6spd at 9:44 AM PST - 11 comments
Love and Landmines
Falling for a woman. She just told me she just got out of a long term relationship (2+ years, ended this July) and wants to stay single for a while and work on herself because she always rushes into relationships. We've agreed things have been so easy, nice and right between us (3 weeks, 5-6 GOOD dates in), but she was very clear she does not want a committed relationship. I feel myself heading towards wanting just that. Am I headed to The Bad Place if I keep hanging out with her? [more inside]
posted by 3FLryan at 9:36 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by 3FLryan at 9:36 AM PST - 36 comments
Should I stay or should I go?
Should I go to a less expensive branch of a university from a distance (online) where I may end up commuting to? Or should I go to in-person courses at an (extremely) expensive university that is close to home and has a great department for my major? (Specific details inside!) [more inside]
Kung Fu and the Bellybutton Master?
Kung fu/martial arts fans - please help me find this movie! [more inside]
posted by HopperFan at 8:28 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by HopperFan at 8:28 AM PST - 3 comments
What gift to give the World's Greatest Teacher?
What stocking-stuffer-sized gift can I get for my boyfriend, an aspiring teacher? [more inside]
Will my love for art and literature force me to starve?
How the heck can I get a cool job in New York with (almost) a graduate degree and (almost) no professional experience? [more inside]
posted by Mooseli at 8:05 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by Mooseli at 8:05 AM PST - 27 comments
As a gay woman, when is it okay to pursue a straight woman?
I am a gay female in my late 20s who has understood my own sexuality for as long as I can remember and has been out to all of my friends for many years. My orientation is certainly not anything I would consider a defining characteristic about myself. The kind of profession I am in, the kind of experiences I have had and my life goals have greatly shaped who I am as a person, and have absolutely nothing to do with who I am attracted to. [more inside]
Why does sleepiness elude me?
As I head into the darkness of winter in Northern England, I'm starting to notice the same pattern I suffered from last year...sleeping even less than I normally do (4-6 hours instead of 6-7). I'm not even sleepy or remotely tired until 2, 3, sometimes even 4 am, when I force myself to fall asleep. I wake up at 8 or 9 (sometimes earlier). What could be happening here, physiologically or otherwise? If it's related to the lack of sun/light, how does that even work? [more inside]
Coltan-free computer: Is it a thing?
Is there such thing as a coltan-free computer? [more inside]
posted by giggleknickers at 4:26 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by giggleknickers at 4:26 AM PST - 9 comments
Green fingered Mefites, how close should I plant a plum tree to my house?
We bought a plum tree, originally to keep in a pot in a patio, that location didn't work out, and now we think that if we take it out of the pot and plant it in the ground it will do better next year. How close to our house can we plant it? [more inside]
posted by foleypt at 4:20 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by foleypt at 4:20 AM PST - 9 comments
My music-loving kids need more help than I can give.
My 13 year old wants a bass guitar for Christmas. People who have some idea about musical instruments, please tell me what I should be looking for in a beginner bass guitar. [more inside]
posted by malibustacey9999 at 1:32 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by malibustacey9999 at 1:32 AM PST - 41 comments
upbeat piano songs?
hi, everyone! i'm making a mix of piano-based songs for my friend and i'd like for some of the songs on there to be more brightened but still be meaningful, of course. the type of songs i'm looking for are like "mouthwash" and "merry happy" by kate nash or "wings" by utada hikaru. something where it's still primarily piano. thank you for any and all suggestions! [more inside]
posted by thischarmingirl at 12:35 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by thischarmingirl at 12:35 AM PST - 19 comments
November 19
Clearly, it's pronounced "kisskshhh of ex"
How do you pronounce the hyperbolic trigonometric functions? [more inside]
posted by King Bee at 11:59 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by King Bee at 11:59 PM PST - 22 comments
Help me find these earrings! They mean a lot to me.
Help me find these blue rose earrings, please. [more inside]
Keeping my froggies warm for the winter...
How do I best heat my frog's tank? I have two African Dwarf Frogs and the temperature of their water is dropping too low. Their tank is too small for the heater they had in the pet store... [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 10:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 10:27 PM PST - 13 comments
Does supportive always mean silent?
After 4.5 years my sister's partner is asking her to leave him. It could be they are just having a fight, or it could be that this is really the end. Do I tell her my opinion (I've never liked him and never will, and she should run while she can) or do I hold my tongue? [more inside]
Looking for yummy Chocolate fondue recipe suggestions!
I have recently purchased a Fondue pot and I want to serve chocolate fondue at a party. The Fondue place "The Melting Pot" near my house sells chocolate bars to use, but it would be expensive to buy a lot to fill my pot. [more inside]
posted by Jaelma24 at 9:46 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Jaelma24 at 9:46 PM PST - 13 comments
Minecraft mac fail
So, i was just playing on minecraft on my mac, and this weird thing happened, where a tunnel of white streaming banners would come around me, and not let me see past them, unless i was under a tree, then i could see fine, kinda, like this. What do you thinkg the problem is?
Photoshop noob needs to get schooled
Photoshop gurus - can this scan be fixed? If so, how? [more inside]
posted by Anima Mundi at 7:54 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Anima Mundi at 7:54 PM PST - 17 comments
Help me remember the name of this old obscure sci fi comic book.
I'm trying to find a specific old comic which details the history of an alien humanoid civilization. [more inside]
posted by brownbat at 7:41 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by brownbat at 7:41 PM PST - 3 comments
Do you have any recommendations for a custom pet portrait?
Do you have any recommendations for a custom pet portrait? [more inside]
get-aways in South America
Have you taken a great vacation in South America? Please tell me about it! [more inside]
X-Treme Travel!
A while ago I read an awesome travel-blog-style series of forum posts by a couple who drove across Kenya (?) in a 4x4. Help me find it again? Or other awesome extreme-travel stories? [more inside]
posted by katrielalex at 5:05 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by katrielalex at 5:05 PM PST - 9 comments
Framed by Science.
What are the most reasonable, well-informed, and totally incorrect scientific papers? [more inside]
Recommendations for cider please!
resistant roaches
Help me kill my super-roaches. [more inside]
Substitute for Registry Mechanic?
I've been using Registry Mechanic. The last version was the best yet, but then PC Tools was bought by Symantec. They have produced a new version, which is crap. Is there another good program that does what RegMech used to do? [more inside]
posted by Kirth Gerson at 4:14 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kirth Gerson at 4:14 PM PST - 9 comments
Thanksgiving dinner on a road trip
Looking for a reasonably priced restaurant serving Thanksgiving dinner near the New Jersey Turnpike. [more inside]
posted by gazole at 3:41 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by gazole at 3:41 PM PST - 6 comments
Does a learner's permit allow the accompanying passenger to be impaired?
When a learner's permit requires the presence of a fully licensed driver as a passenger, is that requirement satisfied even if that passenger is too impaired to drive? [more inside]
posted by Trurl at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Trurl at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
Custom-printed fabric + button-down shirts = possible?
Zany custom-printed fabric + button-down shirts = possible? [more inside]
posted by pavane at 3:33 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by pavane at 3:33 PM PST - 5 comments
Good Fantasy Critiques
Can anyone help me find good online critiques of fantasy? Tropes and cliches, characterizations, books, etc. [more inside]
posted by Danila at 2:58 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Danila at 2:58 PM PST - 7 comments
Router doesn't like torrents?
Synology NAS can't torrent with new D-link router [more inside]
posted by wilko at 2:56 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by wilko at 2:56 PM PST - 3 comments
Help me become a spreadsheet power user
How do I become a spreadsheet power user? And do I have to get Excel to do it? (Or can I stick with LibreOffice/Google Docs?) [more inside]
Where to teach in the UK as a first year teacher?
What are your favorite places in England to live and work with a lower cost of living than London? [more inside]
When should/how should you intervene on a problematic potential hire of a faculty member?
Academic Filter: When should/how should you intervene on a problematic potential hire of a faculty member? (Special snowflake details inside) [more inside]
Movies online outside of English-speaking productions
I'm looking for safe, legal ways to watch foreign movies online, particularly movies not in English, either for free or as rentals. [more inside]
Don't You Touch Me
I've been sexually assaulted and heavily/distressingly harassed by a number of different men throughout my life already. Now I'm trying to break it off with a close friend because I feel like I "need a break" from even being close to men and he won't stop even mildly pushing at this. [more inside]
Email solution for an older person with (minor) dementia.
My grandma has been socially reliant on email for a decade or so now -- she emails her sister, her children, and her grandchildren. She's pretty deaf, so emails have been an especially good way of keeping in touch, as none of us live near her these days. Unfortunately, she's forgetting things now (she's 93), so what used to be possible for her now seems less so. What to do? [more inside]
posted by feckless at 2:28 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by feckless at 2:28 PM PST - 10 comments
Tumblr reads?
What are your favorite bookish tumblrs? [more inside]
Is there a treadmill with no handles that would be good for treadmill desk?
Is there a treadmill with no handles that would be good for treadmill desk? [more inside]
posted by morninj at 2:14 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by morninj at 2:14 PM PST - 6 comments
How can I reduce visits from my parents?
I was overjoyed to move several hundred miles away from my parents. Recently, they've decided they want to spend more time with family, and as of this week they'll have driven to see us three times in a year with little to no notice. Is there any reasonably graceful way to discourage/reduce these visits? [more inside]
Why listening while singing?
Why are singers using headphones while recording? [more inside]
posted by knz at 1:49 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by knz at 1:49 PM PST - 8 comments
Curse you, you mysterious orb.
Story-about-orbs filter: in my eighth grade English class, I read a sci-fi story about an extraterrestrial orb that was collecting specimens from Earth. I'd love to find out its author and name (and, optimally, a copy of the story itself on the web.) [more inside]
posted by punchtothehead at 1:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by punchtothehead at 1:45 PM PST - 5 comments
Best free DVD burning program for PC video files?
Best free (or fair cost - some commercial programs are ridiculously over the $100 range) DVD burning program that takes PC video files (mp4, avi, mpg, flv, etc...) and burns them to DVD for watching on TV. [more inside]
posted by Stryke11 at 1:27 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Stryke11 at 1:27 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I help my flatmate get past a disturbing home invasion?
How do I help my flatmate get past a disturbing home invasion? [more inside]
posted by neilb449 at 1:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by neilb449 at 1:10 PM PST - 9 comments
help a girl unwind after a long day!
i've tried to go through the numerous "looking-for-sexy-music" questions that are out there, but none seem to deal with the specific type of songs i'm looking for: relaxing, sensual songs, usually slow with sexy female vocals and minimal or unobtrusive instrumentation. think along the lines of unwinding in a steamy shower with a candle burning as opposed to music to have sex to. [more inside]
Hello, halogen oven.
Help me find an academic paper management program
I'm having trouble finding an academic paper management system that meets my requirements (Mac+Win, BibTeX, automatic PDF filing, easy to import etc). [more inside]
Does my brain stutter?
I've dealt with depression and anxiety all my life, and have just realized that I have a stuttering problem. Now I'm wondering about the correlation. [more inside]
How to get mold out of neoprene?
Please help, hive mind! I left a banana in my neoprene lunch bag and it got really moldy on the bottom. The mold didn't go through the whole bag, but it's ugly and polka dotted on the inside. It's a "Built" brand bag, made of neoprene, if that makes a difference. I ran it through a (cold) wash cycle once, and it didn't do a darn thing. I'd hate to ruin the bag with bleach, but I'm not sure what else to do. Does color safe bleach get rid of mold?
posted by luciddream928 at 11:32 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by luciddream928 at 11:32 AM PST - 8 comments
Help me stay in touch with the fam?
My poor vacuum
Cranberries from the Paleocene - Can I Eat Them?
I'm embarrassed to use up a question on this Can I Eat This-filter, but...
So I have some bags of cranberries in the freezer... that have been there since last year.
Can I use them in making cranberry sauce without courting death or intestinal discomfort?
London Business Trip Basics
I will be traveling on business to London Sunday to Friday, staying at the Four Seasons on Park and will be working most of my time there. Any down time will be after 5 pm, any suggestions on something to do/eat/see? I visited London when I was young and did many of the touristy things. I am most interested in just enjoying some of the city without making it too complicated. Also, curious about any suggestions of what things I should make sure to pick up in London for myself (sounds like there are so not to miss beauty products) and for co-workers/significant other. I was thinking of the Fortnum & Mason marmalade and possibly Scotch? This is my first time doing a big trip on business, any suggestion in that capacity would also be welcome!
posted by Carialle at 10:38 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Carialle at 10:38 AM PST - 5 comments
Kick out the jambs
Our double-hung windows have sprung alumin[i]um jamb liners, a bit like this. After taking the sashes out to paint and re-putty, how do you get them back in the frame? [more inside]
Quotation: economic theory and reality
"When economic theory collides with reality, prefer economic theory". Who said this, and what exactly did he say?
Total itunes/airtunes setup from scratch, please.
I have 300gb of music, a house, several Mac laptops, a Mac G5, a router, two iphones, an ipad, and several external HDs where the music is stored. I would like to be able to play music anywhere in my house, control it wirelessly without the laptops and update libraries as well as all my devices with whatever I like anywhere in the house, without having to drag out the external USB HD to plug into various laptops like I do now. I'm willing to buy equipment to let this happen. Bonus if it lets me move movies onto a USB stick to plug into my nifty new tv. Details under the fold. [more inside]
What misconception do I have about health and hygiene?
What did your parents tell you about health that turned out to be utterly wrong? [more inside]
Vasectomy in Chicago?
Please recommend a doctor to perform a vasectomy in Chicago. [more inside]
How can I anonymously give money to Elizabeth Warren's campaign?
How can I give money to Elizabeth Warren's campaign without it causing my unusual name to be plastered all over the internet? [more inside]
How to reduce Miata's road and engine noise (within reason; I like the exhaust note)?
Partly on AskMe's advice, I bought a 2006 Miata. Got a good deal and love it, including the exhaust note. Road, tire and engine noise are part of the deal, I know, but they're louder than I'd like. Can you suggest fixes? [more inside]
posted by fivesavagepalms at 7:33 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by fivesavagepalms at 7:33 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me make a Thanksgiving dinner for one
Help me plan a small Thanksgiving dinner -- alone. [more inside]
posted by Yunani at 7:05 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by Yunani at 7:05 AM PST - 28 comments
How can I stop this sticky substance?
How do I remove the glue residue left (and spreading) from plumbers tape? Challenge: I am in Germany. [more inside]
posted by mutt.cyberspace at 6:47 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by mutt.cyberspace at 6:47 AM PST - 15 comments
Paul Revere bio cited by Gladwell?
Malcom Gladwell's The Tipping Point mentions a really good biography of Paul Revere. What is that book? [more inside]
posted by popechunk at 6:27 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by popechunk at 6:27 AM PST - 5 comments
Friend? Love? Unzone?
November 18
Ride, ride, ride, ride, ride
How do you really forgive?
I thought I had forgiven my friend, but whenever it comes up I am disturbed by our differing accounts of the same events. Why does this bother me so much? How can I truly forgive her? [more inside]
posted by abirdinthehand at 9:58 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by abirdinthehand at 9:58 PM PST - 33 comments
What are good ear plugs that are effective and that I can sleep in?
What are some good ear plugs available that are capable of muffling subwoofers? [more inside]
Would a Crucial RealSSD 128GB SSD 2.5" hard drive work with a new Macbook Pro a1286?
Would a Crucial RealSSD 128GB SSD 2.5" hard drive work with a new Macbook Pro a1286 model? [more inside]
posted by deern the headlice at 8:47 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by deern the headlice at 8:47 PM PST - 7 comments
I want to fall asleep on my own giant Totoro
I would love to buy, or possibly make, a giant Totoro plush pillow, something I could actually sleep on. If it's not big enough for me, I'd like one that would be big enough for a child to sleep on, and that I could rest on. Searching the internet at large turns up nothing, so I turn to y'all. Thanks!
posted by filthy light thief at 8:41 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by filthy light thief at 8:41 PM PST - 8 comments
I may have infected my computer with a trojan. Help me get rid of it.
I absent mindedly opened an e-mail from the "United States Post Office" claiming that a package I had sent on the 12th had an incorrect address. Then I clicked on the attachment and that's when I realized I had done a very bad, stupid thing because the USPS doesn't have my e-mail for any reason. Yahoo's e-mail did a scan and it said the attachment was clean. Google tells me that this is a trojan. I'm running Malwarebytes as I type. What else should I do? [more inside]
posted by Constance Mirabella at 8:19 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Constance Mirabella at 8:19 PM PST - 14 comments
Can two pseudo introverts have a good time in NOLA?
My husband and I would like to go to New Orleans, LA in March, 2012. We're fairly laid back and not huge into the tourism craziness that I tend to associate with NOLA. It is possible to go to The Big Easy and, well, have a chill time? [more inside]
How do I make an aluminum object?
I want to manufacture a small brushed aluminum object for a design project. I don't know where to start. [more inside]
posted by uncannyslacks at 7:42 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 7:42 PM PST - 10 comments
Language, Literacy, let's call the whole thing off.
What are some language activities for ESL students when using chapter books. [more inside]
posted by kathrynm at 7:29 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by kathrynm at 7:29 PM PST - 2 comments
Why are the embedded videos I try to watch all FUBAR?
Why do many embedded videos look bright green and all pixel-y on my laptop? [more inside]
Who knows where those fake watches come from?
How can I learn more about the fake watch industry? [more inside]
posted by Admira at 6:48 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Admira at 6:48 PM PST - 3 comments
You Better Belize It!
I'm looking to find some Belikin beer (domestic to Belize) in Austin, Texas. I've already tried Specs, to no avail. Anybody have any idea if/where I might have some luck?
UK savings accounts have higher interest rates than US, help!
US savings accounts have poor interest (~1%). UK savings accounts are better (~3-4%). Aside from the economics for this that I likely don't comprehend, as a UK citizen working in the US, is there some way of moving money easily, getting an international account, or getting a good savings account in the US?
posted by paulesque at 4:12 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by paulesque at 4:12 PM PST - 19 comments
mo dateable?
How do I develop a sane approach to meeting Mr. Right? [more inside]
posted by airguitar2 at 4:05 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by airguitar2 at 4:05 PM PST - 25 comments
What's your best appetizer recipe?
Help me win an appetizer cooking contest! Again! [more inside]
Most accurate calendar
I am looking for the most accurate calendar. With even increments and no exceptions(leap years). [more inside]
Help me make my nerdy rock collection look classy and victorian!
Calling all nature and geology collectors! Help me find a rock/mineral display stand like this one. [more inside]
Best documented ASP.Net Open Source Projects
I am looking for the best documented open source ASP.Net 4.0 website/application available. By 'documented' I am not referring to a user guide for the Wiki/Blog/E-Commerce site or whatever it is, I am referring to accompanying documentations which details how the code works, how it is put together. A document which would act as a guide to someone who was reviewing the code/design/database etc.. Documentation which would help a developer to understand the technical architecture and structure. [more inside]
Can I rent bandwidth for a day?
Where can I rent bandwidth for a few hours? [more inside]
posted by MrBobaFett at 2:53 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by MrBobaFett at 2:53 PM PST - 6 comments
Away from home for a month for work - what should I be thinking about?
I'm going to be in Washington DC from late November and most of December, training for a new job. They're putting me up in an extended stay hotel, but it's doubtful that I'll have a car unless I rent one myself for weekends. First time in DC!
I've never been away from home for for such a long period; I guess I'll turn off everything in my apartment except the fridge, have a friend pick up mail and help me deal with that kind of stuff, pay bills online.
What should (and shouldn't) I take? This comes after a lengthy bout of unemployment, so cash reserves are very very low. How do I get a bunch of stuff there without paying exorbitant airline fees? What else do I need to be thinking about?
SPEND THREE WEEKS PLANNING A PERFECT PLAYLIST / NO ONE PAYS ATTENTION TO THE SONGS
Playing music at a party - should I use iTunes or Spotify? [more inside]
posted by Lucinda at 2:30 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Lucinda at 2:30 PM PST - 14 comments
need an immediate fix for oral dermatitis redness
Relief for peri-oral dermatitis redness, while I wait for my appointment with the dermatologist? Is putting vinegar on it a really bad idea? [more inside]
Compelling or interesting uses of municipal open data
What are the most compelling or interesting uses of municipal open data? [more inside]
posted by parudox at 2:05 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by parudox at 2:05 PM PST - 7 comments
Drunk Friday in.
Whuh? They killed Scrabulous? What now? [more inside]
Two eReaders enter . . .
Should my next eReader be a kindle touch or a nook touch? [more inside]
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 1:14 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 1:14 PM PST - 30 comments
Remote Control to Control iPhone/iPod
Is there a remote that CONTROLS the music on the iPhone (4s)? Google searches reveal only how to use the phone as a remote for other things. I need to keep the iPhone hooked up to a speaker in the back of the room, and trigger it with *something* to make the music go on and off. Any ideas??? Thanks!
posted by largecorp at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by largecorp at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
Shoes similar to Tsubos
I love the Tsubo Millay shoes I just got, and would like to get more of this type of sporty shoes that still look smart. What are some other brands I should consider? [more inside]
posted by needled at 12:56 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by needled at 12:56 PM PST - 4 comments
Recommendations for a therapist specializing in abandonment and anxiety
Therapist specializing in abandonment issues in San Diego? [more inside]
Word processor/text editor with keyboard-based hierarchical structure?
Is there an app that displays keyboard-editable hierarchical structure in the left pane and text editing/word processing in the right pane? [more inside]
posted by incandescentman at 12:33 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by incandescentman at 12:33 PM PST - 1 comment
How does this work? It's magic, isn't it? :)
Best Boston->New Haven Thanksgiving route?
Which Boston->New Haven route will have less traffic on Thanksgiving: 90-84-91, or 95? [more inside]
What is the best iOS app for timing and recording data related to contractions in childbirth?
There are a lot of iOS apps for timing contractions. The reviews are all over the place. Most of the apps do not seem to time the contractions from the beginning of one to the beginning of the next one, which seems to be the preferred data point for medical purposes. Other apps have other annoying features and problems. Which app did you use and how did it work?
We're needing a (writer's room) of our own in Chicago...help!
Where in Chicago should I look for a pleasant, airy, well-designed space for a single (very long) day for two writers needing a change of scenery to get some collaboration done? [more inside]
Relaxing Christmas gifts
Relaxing, comforting Christmas gift ideas for my extremely busy mom on a $150 budget. [more inside]
Don't bogart that turkey!
Have you smoked a turkey for Thanksgiving? Want to give me the benefit of your experience? [more inside]
posted by rtha at 11:13 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by rtha at 11:13 AM PST - 16 comments
How could I make rose-infused bourbon?
What's a good way to make rose-infused bourbon? Other liquor infusion recipes also welcome. [more inside]
What band is this?
What band is this? 5 or 6 years ago at a work site, we were listening to someone's mix tape. There was a kind of lonely, mournful song, solo male vocals with a gravely voice. I asked who the band was, and the answer was something like "Sixteen Cylinders." I forgot about it all until recently. I haven't been able to find an appropriate cylinder-related band via google, youtube, or last.fm. Any idea what I might have heard?
posted by moonmilk at 11:00 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by moonmilk at 11:00 AM PST - 7 comments
Another idealistic career change question
I would like to become a professional writer, and possibly someday be a freelance writer. My background is in the humanities, but I’m wondering if seeking an advanced degree in science might help me in my endeavors. Or are there other options that I’m overlooking? [more inside]
Excel Find and Replace
Excel - Find and Replace -- I use the excel function find and replace often. One spreadsheet finds it instantly. Another searches each cell and takes longer. I stopped updating the instant one before I noticed the effect. Windows xp -- Office 2007
I'd like to have more of the instant search.
posted by notned at 10:36 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by notned at 10:36 AM PST - 8 comments
Floor by the door chore
Do I absolutely need cement board under my tiles? What happens if I don't use it? [more inside]
appropriate, cool music for a 7 year old?
what are all the cool 7 year olds listening to these days? [more inside]
Please recommend craft ideas for Winter gift giving.
Can you help me gather some project ideas for gift-giving? Food, crafts, fun stuff all welcome. [more inside]
e pluribus paginis unus
How can I convert a web site, which is organized as a table of contents linking to 200 or so individual html "chapters", into one ebook? [more inside]
posted by General Tonic at 9:51 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by General Tonic at 9:51 AM PST - 10 comments
Was this skillet cast iron?
Were the skillets I saw at the thrift store cast iron? [more inside]
So many restaurants and no idea where to eat!
Help! In London tonight, where should we go for dinner tonight? (a Friday night!?) [more inside]
Salvaging a corrupted RTF file in TextEdit
Is there any way to salvage a corrupted RTF file in Mac TextEdit? [more inside]
I just want my stomach to work right again.
Help me manage my GERD (reflux). Snowflakiness inside. [more inside]
posted by chowflap at 8:54 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by chowflap at 8:54 AM PST - 37 comments
Can you help me generate a playlist of unusual artist/xmas song pairings?
I recently saw a video that makes me want to create a playlist of unusual/surreal Christmas music. That is to say, odd pairings or covers of classic Christmas songs. I have a small set of criteria inside. What do you got? [more inside]
3G Access for My MacBook?
Can I get 3G access on a new Macbook Pro? If not, what is the least expensive alternative for my situation? [more inside]
posted by kmel at 8:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by kmel at 8:34 AM PST - 9 comments
Book of home interiors?
Gift for mother-in-law who loves to look in your windows. [more inside]
Gmail search operator for all contacts?
Is there a gmail search operator that will return all contacts? [more inside]
posted by czytm at 7:55 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by czytm at 7:55 AM PST - 4 comments
Coming-of-age fiction in Chicago (c. 1980ish)
Please help me find fiction (especially coming-of-age stories; so-called Bildungsromans, the internet tells me; I didn't pay close attention in high school and college lit classes) set in 1970s through 1980s Chicago! [more inside]
posted by anaphoric at 7:53 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by anaphoric at 7:53 AM PST - 9 comments
What is the simplest Netflix-ready set-top device?
Apple TV or Roku for my technology-shy father? [more inside]
posted by gregoryg at 7:48 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by gregoryg at 7:48 AM PST - 25 comments
Child therapy
Recommendations for a therapist for a child in NYC. [more inside]
Learned the lessons, still doomed to repeat
Regarding family and friends, how have you been able to let go of dark/problematic pasts, and moved forward? [more inside]
Old man starter kit
My friend is turning 30 and thinks he's old. I'm getting him an old man starter kit: hard candies (Werther's Originals of course), Metamucil...what else should I include?
posted by echo target at 7:33 AM PST - 79 comments
posted by echo target at 7:33 AM PST - 79 comments
Temporary Fencing Options for Small Dogs
We recently purchased a home with a large backyard and a pool. The yard is fenced. I need a temporary fence for my dogs until it warms up and we can fix any spots the littlest dog can slip through. What should I get for a temporary fence? [more inside]
What's up with my cat's chin
What's up with my cat's chin? My cat has a strange spot on his chin that looks sort of like a wart, and I'm not sure whether I should be concerned about it or not. [more inside]
What's the best volunteering?
How can I best evaluate volunteer opportunities? [more inside]
Her brothers want to be garbage men
How do I teach astrophysics to an eight-year-old? [more inside]
How do you keep unusually focused and productive?
Motivation Filter: How to be obsessed (in a healthy way) with the work that you do and love. [more inside]
posted by seriousmoonlight at 6:15 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by seriousmoonlight at 6:15 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me beanplate baby's last name
We are considering giving our unborn baby its mother's last name as a last name and its father's last name as a middle name. How confusing will this be to strangers? [more inside]
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 6:15 AM PST - 46 comments
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 6:15 AM PST - 46 comments
Monster.com identity theft? Spam?
Yesterday, someone apparently signed me up for monster.com, beyond.com, and jobfox.com. I know this because I received welcome emails from all three of them to my primary mail address and under my name. As far as I know, my primary mail address has not been compromised. What is going on here?
Swim Trunks. Stat.
Where can I buy swim trunks in London today? [more inside]
posted by undercoverhuwaaah at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by undercoverhuwaaah at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
Clueless or inconsiderate?
Marital strife filter: Was my husband out of line to invite three women to spend the night at our house when I was out of town? [more inside]
Clean water no matter what
Water: that convenient thing you can't live without. Tell me about a portable desalination / purification device. [more inside]
Where in the southern Mediterranean should we go in mid-March?
Where in the southern Mediterranean should we go in mid-March? We're thinking of Sicily or Greece, but specific criteria inside the fold: [more inside]
So I get super powers, right?
Why does this happen and is it dangerous? When I heat anything in the microwave for about two minutes or longer, the timer/clock display casts a blur on the glass in front of the numbers, i.e. if the display says 2:30, the glass in front of the display will have a very blurred 2:30 on it. From the front it looks like the display itself is blurry, but if you stand at an angle to the side you can see how far back the numbers are from the glass in front of them. The blur will disappear after a few minutes. Should I be concerned?
posted by Nattie at 2:56 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Nattie at 2:56 AM PST - 8 comments
Prepayment meter to credit meter?
My new flat has a prepayment meter for gas and electricity. I think we want to switch to a credit meter, but I'm not sure and I don't really know what I'm doing so I'm afraid of screwing this up. Help? [more inside]
Should boyfriend do sexual arousal study without talking to girlfriend about it first?
Should my boyfriend have done sexual arousal study without consulting me first? [more inside]
posted by crawmama at 2:37 AM PST - 69 comments
posted by crawmama at 2:37 AM PST - 69 comments
Basic HTML editor for Mac
I am going to teach a Mac user basic HTML. Could you recommend a simple, preferably free, HTML editor for Mac?
"Haven't I seen you before, like every morning at the same bus stop?"
Do you interact with the proverbial familiar stranger? In particular, have you felt compelled to interact when crossing paths outside of the "usual spot"? [more inside]
What are some stories about deserters?
What are some books about deserters from the armed forces during war times? [more inside]
Toto, how do we get back to Kansas?
What is it like to have a home to go back to? How do you cope if you don't have one? [more inside]
posted by 3491again at 12:23 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by 3491again at 12:23 AM PST - 42 comments
November 17
What to do in North Carolina??
I"ll be in the Willmington, Richlands N.C. area over Thanksgiving and the first week in December to visit my daughter. We both have slight physical problems that make long walks impossible. She is also new to the area and I'm am looking for fun places to go. Restaurants, tourist spots, historical sights, etc. Her husband is overseas in Aftganistgan, so I'm trying to fill a gap and cheer her up.
Thanks in advance.
posted by cliffster99 at 11:59 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by cliffster99 at 11:59 PM PST - 3 comments
Well that shouldn't happen...
Help me fix an infected PC and prevent it from getting reinfected? [more inside]
posted by fishmasta at 11:09 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by fishmasta at 11:09 PM PST - 5 comments
Who owes me a box of cookies?
What can I do about a lost UPS package? [more inside]
Cat I take my cat on the train in Japan?
Can I take my cat in a cat carrier on the subway/train in Japan? [more inside]
posted by ZeroDivides at 10:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ZeroDivides at 10:57 PM PST - 4 comments
To be (a reference) or not to be (a reference)
Should I ask more questions before saying I'll be a reference for someone who was recently "let go"? [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 10:42 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 10:42 PM PST - 12 comments
Display Cables Battle Royale: D-Sub vs DVI vs HDMI
I've a monitor with DVI-D and D-Sub input. My graphics card has DVI-D, D-Sub and HDMI output. I'm connected via D-Sub right now, but I hear DVI gives better image quality. Is this true? And does HDMI have better quality than DVI? If so, would an HDMI-to-DVI cable give me better quality than vanilla DVI? [more inside]
Recommendations for appliance repair in/near Madison, WI?
Recommendations for appliance repair in/near Madison, WI? [more inside]
99% of books are not what I'm looking for.
Looking for the 1% of books with OWS themes. [more inside]
posted by itsacover at 9:38 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by itsacover at 9:38 PM PST - 21 comments
Help me find a site that combines "Top X Books" lists into a single list.
Does anyone know of a site like acclaimedmusic.net or theyshootpictures.com, but for books? [more inside]
How Long Has This Been Going On?
What is the average length of tenure for a primary and secondary public school district Superintendent in the states of New York, New Jersey and Connecticut? The average superintendent has been employed as the superintendent in their current district for how long? Cites please. [more inside]
Pet Hair On Clothes Is BAD
I need a great, non-refillable lint brush. [more inside]
Women of the Green! Spill your secret...
What's your secret for getting a flat belly? I would love to hear from you especially if you happen to be a bit plump. [more inside]
posted by xm at 7:42 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by xm at 7:42 PM PST - 51 comments
I'm burned out.
I burned out. Help me get through writing a paper and studying for two exams this weekend. [more inside]
posted by squirtle at 7:39 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by squirtle at 7:39 PM PST - 9 comments
How do I transfer responsibility for monies owed on a terminated housing lease?
The property manager of the house my wife and I shared with two of our friends last year has decided to keep the entirety of our security deposit and has billed us for an additional 2000 dollars in repairs. The more bullheaded of our friends wants to fight it in a litigious manner and get as much of the deposit back as he can. We just want to be done with it and pay our share of the damages. What are our rights in this situation? [more inside]
posted by triceryclops at 7:34 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by triceryclops at 7:34 PM PST - 20 comments
Best.Question.Ever.
Good news everyone! I'm wasting an Ask on the term for hearing things in Professor Farnsworth's voice. [more inside]
And glide... and glide...
Someone who very rarely wears high heels just got a pair of snazzy high heeled boots that I'm now wearing to work every day. (About an inch and a half tall, thick heels not stiletto) It's a learning experience. I'm trying to figure out how to walk gracefully but I still seem to be clomping awkwardly. Is there a trick to this or just practice? Also, I've observed that some women move their hips when they walk (which I've never done naturally) so I tried that but it makes this weird sensation in my hip joints like "popping" kind of. Is that normal? Is it just because it's a different kind of movement? Or does it mean I'm terribly deformed?
Funny Money: Maybe economics isn't supposed to make sense, after all
How can wealth be considered as anything separate from natural resources? [more inside]
Can you identify this succulent?
What succulent is this? [more inside]
Many a hand has scaled the grand old face of the (weight loss) plateau...
Has anyone broke through a weight loss plateau and managed to maintain their progress? [more inside]
Driving while not-drunk
If my tolerance to alcohol increases, does my BAC go up more slowly? [more inside]
What's the fastest way to cash a check in Hawaii?
What is the fastest way for me to deposit/cash a large check in Hawaii (hopefully in the next two days) considering that there are no branches of my bank in Hawaii and that my account isn't eligible for "mobile deposit" via my smartphone? [more inside]
How to get meals delivered to Brookfield, WI?
How to get meals delivered to Brookfield, WI? [more inside]
The moon is dark and shadowed, the sun keeps ticking by, silence and solitude, no one left to cry.
(BookFilter): Contemporary Gothic novels. [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 6:23 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Nomyte at 6:23 PM PST - 16 comments
I hope we can be friends again someday.
RelationshipFilter: Ok, based on advice from you folks and my friends (and therapist), I'm finally going to leave him. I talked with my best friend today and she agrees with me. I'm feeling really awful right now, I know I'm doing the right thing, especially when I look back on my previous questions. But I do actually like him and I just feel like crying. I know he loves and I love him, but as is so often pointed out, that does not make a relationship. [more inside]
posted by inmyhead at 6:02 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by inmyhead at 6:02 PM PST - 36 comments
Help me remember this darkish YA novel
Do you remember this YA book about two girls from different worlds spending a life-changing summer on the beach together? With a small bit involving Tarot cards? It's not Judy Blume's Summer Sisters or Francesca Lia Block's The Hanged Man. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 5:45 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 5:45 PM PST - 10 comments
Waste Not Want Not
What should I do with alla this schmaltz? I've heard you can use it in cooking "like butter" (ok, I read that searching for schmaltz here on askme) - but do you have any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by pazazygeek at 5:37 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by pazazygeek at 5:37 PM PST - 14 comments
How to hack the Myers-Briggs?
How can I hack the Myers-Briggs personality test? [more inside]
Archiving lots of data files?
Professional help on archiving a large number of data files with metadata. [more inside]
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 4:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 4:38 PM PST - 12 comments
How can I control floodlights via a foot-switch whilst on stage?
How can I control floodlights via a foot-switch whilst on stage? [more inside]
How do I get Word for Mac to copy and paste text without losing footnotes?
I am using Mac OS 10.6.8 and Microsoft Word for Mac 2008 version 12.3.1. For some reason, when I am copying and pasting a section of text even within the same document, the footnotes are dropped, both the superscript number and the actual footnote. How can I get Word to copy and paste sections of text and leave my footnotes intact? [more inside]
What books were the most useful to you during pregnancy?
What books were the most useful to you during pregnancy? [more inside]
Boss for the Day
A day of the year when traditional power structures were reversed ? [more inside]
posted by southof40 at 3:54 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by southof40 at 3:54 PM PST - 18 comments
Can someone with a knowledge of music theory help me decipher a couple songs please?
This is a kind of random question, but I was hoping someone with a background in music theory & composition could help me figure out what's going on musically with a couple songs I like. The two songs in question are Nobukazu Takemura's Icefall (link to song) and Arthur Russell's Being It (link to song). I really like what's going on in these two songs, but I don't have enough knowledge of music to understand exactly what it is. I'm aware that I'm not giving you much to go on, but I'm having a difficult time knowing how to be more specific. I know they both seem to make copious use of echo, but aside from that, I'd just like to know a bit more about what concepts they're working with from a musical and compositional standpoint. At any rate, If someone could shed a bit of light on these two songs I'd be very appreciative. Thanks!
posted by OccamsRazor at 3:43 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by OccamsRazor at 3:43 PM PST - 5 comments
Maybe baby? Please?
My partner and I have been trying for a while to conceive. We’ve used charting and ovulation predictors and, after six months, it’s not happening. I’m 38, he’s 37, and we want to get ourselves to a fertility clinic stat. Where we are, there are three to choose between. How do I make that choice? [more inside]
posted by t0astie at 3:31 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by t0astie at 3:31 PM PST - 17 comments
Help us find some PBR in Amsterdam?
I am a student living in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. I have a friend who has never been exposed to horror that is Pabst Blue Ribbon, and our morbid curiosity makes us want to track some down. Are there any bars/pubs/supermarkets that sell it? [more inside]
Source for durable and WARM earmuffs?
Where can I find durable and WARM earmuffs? [more inside]
Maternity Glam?
I have a niece who is skinny and very cool-looking in a glam, rock 'n roll way (for example, she was the David Bowie in an all-girl David Bowie tribute band). She loves to wear clothing from Patricia Field. Now she's pregnant. What brands of maternity clothes would keep up the hotness aspect as she grows larger? Stores in New York City and/or websites would work best for me.
posted by DMelanogaster at 3:12 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 3:12 PM PST - 11 comments
Today's episode brought to you by the letter P. Or maybe the letter O.
What skills and characteristics make someone better suited to a career in physical therapy versus occupational therapy? [more inside]
posted by Jaie at 3:02 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Jaie at 3:02 PM PST - 4 comments
Is it possible to export all of your own comments from an Invision Power Board forum into a text file?
Is it possible to export all of your own comments from an Invision Power Board forum into a text file? [more inside]
Where to go Where to go
Travel around the holidays-filter. We have some time in late December (exact amount of time and dates TBD) and would love to go on an awesome trip - give us your best shot [more inside]
How to manage 3 days of dayshift and 2 nights of nightshift in a work week?
How can my son manage his sleep when he works part-time nightshift/dayshift? [more inside]
posted by feelinggood at 2:03 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by feelinggood at 2:03 PM PST - 18 comments
Gmail + Thunderbird = spamfree email?
Gmail + Thunderbird = spamfree email?
I use gmail (via google apps) for my small company's email. While it is generally good, the inability to permanently block a sender (e.g. businesses who won't remove me from their spam list) is frustrating, especially when the senders keep appearing in the daily quarantine report. Could this be solved by using Thunderbird as an IMAP client (and “whitelisting” the senders in Postini so they don't appear in the quarantine report)? Is there an easier or more elegant solution? TIA.
Help me find James Dean's watch!
Where can I find a working all black Westclox "Wrist Ben" watch or one that looks similar? [more inside]
2012 planner?
Is LinkedIn premium actually premium?
Are any premium job search services (i.e. LinkedIn Premium) worth it? [more inside]
Eggy Worries! How many can I eat?
How many eggs can I eat? I'm a vegetarian on the South Beach diet. I'm healthy and have never had issues with cholesterol. What I'm wondering is, how many eggs is a reasonable number to eat? I've been doing at least one a day, often two. Is that too many? Does the vegetarianism mitigate it?
I really love eggs. But I do want my blood to continue to be able to fit through my veins...help me!
Is teaching a calling?
How happy are you with your 2nd career as a public school teacher? [more inside]
Help me get my knickers out!
Yet another book recommendation question
Book recommendation filter: If you've enjoyed reading The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, tell me what other books in a similar vein you've also enjoyed. [more inside]
How common are foreclosure deficiency judgments in the real world?
YANAL filter: I am looking at either a short sale, a deed-in-lieu, or a foreclosure. How can I form an educated guess as to the likelihood that the lender will pursue a deficiency judgment?
(Details inside!) [more inside]
Who Is To Blame? Can We Make A List?
Help me be a smarter protester within the Occupy movement. Who REALLY is to blame? Can you help me make a list? [more inside]
Facebook profile to fan page conversion
I am converting a personal profile page into a fan page for someone. I have a question about how this will affect another Page this person is an admin for. Help! [more inside]
posted by Rudy Gerner at 1:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Rudy Gerner at 1:12 PM PST - 4 comments
what do I have?
Sore throat, no fever, what do I have? [more inside]
Please help me identify the most physically remote areas of the continental United States of America.
I need your assistance in helping identify the most physically remote areas of the lower 48 that have towns and a population. Examples might be Appalachia, northern Maine, west Texas, the Oregon desert, but specific towns, general areas, personal anecdotes, histories or even hearsay would be appreciated.
Great marbling, but it tastes like the bottom of a pretzel bag.
Charcuterie Rescue: Too dry on the edges and too salty. Anything I can do? [more inside]
How to fix oven settings before Thanksgiving?
We have a residential Wolf 36" gas range, and the oven temperature is off by about 20-25 degrees, according to oven thermometer.
I can't find anything in the Wolf literature that came with it about how to adjust the temperature. This is NOT the same kind of oven as in a previous MeFi question -- there the owner couldn't remove oven knob. Here, I can remove it, but there's no obvious thing to turn or fiddle with.
Digital camera repair in Greater Boston area?
Where can I get a digital camera repaired in Boston? [more inside]
Forget the 99% (or the 1% for that matter), help me find other percentages! Fun ones!
Forget the 99% (or the 1% for that matter), help me find other percentages! Fun ones! [more inside]
Congressperson on the phone. How best to use that opportunty?
Congresspeople and candidates call me. What should I ask them? What should I tell them? [more inside]
Content for Tablets
What is the best/coolest/most cutting-edge multimedia content being created for tablets? [more inside]
Where can I listen to great fiction podcasts?
Are there podcasts like The New Yorker fiction podcast? [more inside]
How to safely loan a car indefinitely
We want to give a car to my broke brother. How can we do this safely? [more inside]
posted by my name is irl at 11:54 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by my name is irl at 11:54 AM PST - 24 comments
What bike brand begins 'Van~'
I'm in the UK, near Bath. I just saw someone on a bicycle I really want. Silver frame, canti brakes, racer / tourer style. Brand name was approx 11 letters long and I'm pretty sure it began with 'van'. Any ideas anyone? Thanks in advance!
posted by sann1657 at 11:44 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by sann1657 at 11:44 AM PST - 6 comments
Vegan campfire cooking?
Vegan campfire Thanksgiving ideas? [more inside]
posted by ChrisHartley at 11:42 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by ChrisHartley at 11:42 AM PST - 15 comments
Data Mine.
What are the best industry databases for C-level and Director level contact information, specifically in Entertainment, Sports, Finance, and Fashion? [more inside]
Me and my car
How do I rent a parking spot in the Mission in SF? [more inside]
posted by StrictlyVague at 10:56 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by StrictlyVague at 10:56 AM PST - 10 comments
The continuing saga of "Can I Eat This," microwave division
Left the metal pop-top on the soup can when I microwaved it for lunch. I think the microwave is ok, but the really important question is: Can I eat the soup? [more inside]
Newcastle to Belfast express
[Directions] Fastest way to get from Newcastle to Belfast. posting for a friend. [more inside]
posted by anya32 at 10:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by anya32 at 10:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Please help me fill my advent envelopes
With the boyfriend out of the job, money is a little tight for Christmas this year. I'd like to make an envelope advent calendar for the two of us - basically, I'll decorate and number the envelopes and inside each one will be a fun activity or item for us to share. Please help me fill my envelopes! [more inside]
posted by warble at 10:04 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by warble at 10:04 AM PST - 21 comments
I'd like a pain free delivery, please
Please tell me about your hypnobirthing experiences. I would like to hear if it worked for you or especially if it didn't - why and why not - and I am specifically looking for information about your hypnobirthing classes. [more inside]
Paypal vs Google Checkout
Trying to decide between using PayPal & Google Checkout. Would love thoughts/advice from people who have been on the merchant side as well as you on the buyer side: which are you more comfortable with? [more inside]
Locks are changed. Now: is anything missing?
So despite being fairly knowledgeable about these sorts of things, I put on my own little "worst practices in computer security" seminar with my Mac Mini HTPC. And, surprise of surprises, it was compromised. Help me figure out if I've reversed the damage, won't you? [more inside]
posted by supercres at 9:24 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by supercres at 9:24 AM PST - 17 comments
Where we're going, we don't need...wheels
Selling a financed car. Comfortably right-side-up on the loan. Should we sell it to a dealer or a private party? Complication: Moving overseas in just over a month. [more inside]
posted by dust of the stars at 9:07 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dust of the stars at 9:07 AM PST - 4 comments
Will adding a water tank to a propane stove help regulate heat?
Will adding a water tank to our propane heater help regulate the room temperature, or just suck up heat? [more inside]
posted by attercoppe at 8:46 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by attercoppe at 8:46 AM PST - 8 comments
Waxed Canvas
Can you help me find a source for waxed canvas? [more inside]
posted by slim at 8:31 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by slim at 8:31 AM PST - 4 comments
Game-changing articles on health care!
I really like Atul Gawande's book "Better" as well as his article "Letting Go" - in general, topics about systems innovations in health care, especially end-of-life care. Anything else I should read? [more inside]
Schengen visas
Schengen logistics - US citizen, 3 months each in two different Schengen countries. Neither earning money nor studying with an institution. What do I do? [more inside]
What whiskey should I buy as a gift?
What bottle of whiskey should I give to my PhD supervisor? [more inside]
posted by idlethink at 7:43 AM PST - 46 comments
posted by idlethink at 7:43 AM PST - 46 comments
Trying to fight off future Gimme Pigs.
We want our kids to have some kind of real Christmas experience this year instead of focusing on themselves and all the commercialism. Of course there are some details that need to be worked around. [more inside]
Insane way to install wall cabinet?
I have a kitchen wall cabinet to install. I can't do any heavy lifting due to a back injury. Is this an insane way to install a kitchen wall cabinet? [more inside]
Where best to write my fan letter to an author?
How best do I contact an (aged, not terribly well known) author? Via her publisher? Who do I address it to so it doesn't go straight in the bin? Are there any other ways? [more inside]
posted by ClarissaWAM at 7:23 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by ClarissaWAM at 7:23 AM PST - 7 comments
Civil claims and debt collectors after dismissed shoplifting charges?
Cousin arrested for alleged shoplifting. Charges dismissed, but civil claims persisted and sent to debt collector. Now what? [more inside]
What to tell my son's teachers about his background
What should I tell my child's teachers about his background? [more inside]
Tell me about concrete gliders.
I have a question about the concrete glider episode of Mythbusters. [more inside]
acoustic honey
I'd like to broaden my ESL songbook, and give kids things to sing that would appeal to them. [more inside]
posted by nicolin at 6:42 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by nicolin at 6:42 AM PST - 6 comments
How to stack plates in a dishwasher?
Which way do you put plates into a dishwasher? [more inside]
posted by roofus at 6:14 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by roofus at 6:14 AM PST - 25 comments
No finest words than "Encased (in Pastry) Meats"
What are your loca/and orfavorite savory items wholly encased in a pastry/bread? Should be more of a snack than a meal, and filled with cheese and or meat: This is my favorite kind of food. [more inside]
posted by sandmanwv at 5:55 AM PST - 67 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 5:55 AM PST - 67 comments
Need migraine help on a day I can't lay down and sleep
I have a long day ahead of me. I have a migraine coming on. I'm out of my sumatriptan and I not longer have prescription coverage insurance. Help! [more inside]
Boyfriend isn't ready to propose
What are productive ways to deal with the fact that my boyfriend isn’t ready to propose? [more inside]
posted by Ob Lady Dee at 4:19 AM PST - 65 comments
posted by Ob Lady Dee at 4:19 AM PST - 65 comments
Capturing and Compiling HD Video Clips?
I'm looking for the cheapest and/or easiest way to capture and compile segments of certain television news and comedy shows in full HD from a standard set-top box, then export them as a single HD presentation (either as a file or maybe as a Blu-ray disk). Luckily, I'm not starting completely from scratch. I already have MacBook Pro (2010)
Final Cut Studio (the 2006 release I think but certainly not the most current version) and
Adobe Creative Suite CS5 Master Collection. What more do I need (some type of capture device I assume) and what's the best workflow given the heavy duty software package? This project is NOT intended for any kind of sale or public distribution but instead is part of a school project.
posted by Jamesonian at 4:11 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Jamesonian at 4:11 AM PST - 2 comments
The sound of silly
Please give me some GREAT songs for a kazoo orchestra!
Ebook reader with good PDF support?
What's the best ebook reader for reading PDF-s, specifically academic papers? [more inside]
Poor cell phone reception in my home.
How can I get better reception with my new Samsung Precedent cell phone
in my home? [more inside]
So you want a traffic safety O-mamori...
My sister was in a really bad car accident, and has been in rehab for months and months. Now she's getting a new car! I want to buy her traffic safety O-mamori (protective lucky charm). Is there any particular shrine famed for this particular O-mamori?
posted by ultrabuff at 1:53 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by ultrabuff at 1:53 AM PST - 5 comments
Insert hot potato joke here
Help me figure out the best way to bake 80 lbs of potatoes for hungry protestors, please? [more inside]
posted by Mizu at 1:10 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Mizu at 1:10 AM PST - 18 comments
Too soon?
Help me rock a Zombie Amy Winehouse karaoke number! [more inside]
November 16
How can I find an alternative to Microsoft IntelliMouse?
Is there an acceptable alternative to the Microsoft Intellimouse? [more inside]
posted by Elminster of Labor at 11:31 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Elminster of Labor at 11:31 PM PST - 10 comments
I am losing everyone
TLDR: How can I keep from going off the deep end in light of repeated stressors over a compressed period of time? [more inside]
posted by TestamentToGrace at 11:29 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by TestamentToGrace at 11:29 PM PST - 17 comments
Wireshark Response Time
Wireshark filter: How to pair request packets to response packets? [more inside]
posted by JPowers at 10:43 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by JPowers at 10:43 PM PST - 7 comments
Acer Aspire One battery replacement
Replacing battery in an Acer Aspire One with one from a different Aspire One design? [more inside]
What do I do with these dress orthotics?
I got prescription orthotics made. They are "dress orthotics" (?) - i.e. they don't come all the way up under the toe, I guess to make them not so visible. But I don't understand how I'm supposed to wear them. If I take the original insoles out of my shoes, then there's a hard edge under my toes; and the ends of my toes are resting on the rough insole-less interior surface of the shoe. If I put the orthotic in and put the original insole over it, there isn't room in the shoe for my foot. [more inside]
Eyeglasses for distance cause up-close things to be blurry...
A friend of mine just got new glasses (for distance/night) and everything is super sharp... unless it's up close. Then, it's blurry. For instance, he can't read his phone at arm's length. He can read his phone perfectly without glasses and things become blurry for him without glasses at about 25 feet. I don't think this is normal for glasses. It's certainly not the way my glasses work. What say the hive? [more inside]
I want to dress better but don't know how.
I want to dress better. I don't know how. Specific (and general) questions inside. [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 8:13 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by JoannaC at 8:13 PM PST - 18 comments
Why do birds migrate?
Why do birds migrate to the Arctic and Antarctic? [more inside]
posted by selenized at 7:46 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by selenized at 7:46 PM PST - 11 comments
Is being ruthlessly overworked as an NGO employee par for the course?
I've been working in my current position for a little over a year now, and I love most things about it. But: I'm very overworked, exhausted, and I can feel burn-out creeping in. If I leave to work at another organization, will I still be just as busy? Is NGO work only for the super-committed? [more inside]
Adjust/Renegotiate mortgage on property that is worth 100K less than I bought it for.
My house is worth $100K less than I bought it for. I have trouble making payments. Is there anything i can do? [more inside]
Choosing between two health plans
I am trying to choose between two different health plans offered by my large employer - a POS80 and POS90 plan. The choice seems so clear to me (the lower-cost plan seems better) that I wonder if I'm overlooking something in making the decision. The difference in monthly premiums seems to be more significant than the difference in the deductible & out-of-pocket maximums. [more inside]
posted by Fran C. at 7:08 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Fran C. at 7:08 PM PST - 7 comments
Love the bag, hate the stained pants.
I have a new bag, a great leather briefcase from Dr. Koffer. The leather has a great feel, and I love the bag. Except...it has been staining my pants. How can I clean the pants, and stop the bag from staining? [more inside]
Dealing with a Thanksgiving non-invite
I've been specifically not invited to Thanksgiving in my own home (by a housemate). How to respond? [more inside]
What's to survey about a tree?
I live in an old growth neighborhood with loads of 100+ year old trees. My neighbor has a particularly large front yard (depth not width) for the area and today a surveyor was out taking measurements on all of his trees (like 30+ of them.) Any idea as to what such a thing would be for? [more inside]
Cash. And Taxes.
A friend owes me $8k to $12k. What tax laws do I need to know? [more inside]
posted by glaucon at 6:26 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by glaucon at 6:26 PM PST - 7 comments
Preoccupied with the problems of his kingdom, Peagood accidentally let the cakes burn.
So, now that the oven fire is out, what do I do now?! [more inside]
Cat who hates nail trimmers
How do I clip my cat's nails (he hates it more than anything)? [more inside]
I don't WANNA go to the store!
How long will canned, unopened alcoholic drinks that has been refrigerated the entire time keep? [more inside]
Gifts for a triathlete who seems to have everything?
A triathlete friend of mine has been serving, for free, as my running coach for a while, and it's time to say thank you—with presents. But what? [more inside]
are social clubs dead?
are social clubs like Rotary dead?
There's this woman I never wanted to be friends with, and somehow we've been friends for almost 10 years. Is there any way to stop being friends with her without hurting her feelings?
There's this woman I never wanted to be friends with, and somehow we've been friends for almost 10 years. Is there any way to stop being friends with her without hurting her feelings? [more inside]
Where to stay near Staten Island? What about Jersey City?
Where to stay near Staten Island? What about Jersey City? [more inside]
Yeah, I actually need you to measure the bust of a Cabbage Patch Doll.
Do you have a Cabbage Patch Doll? Do you also have a measuring tape? Can you help me out? [more inside]
posted by Mrs. Rattery at 4:23 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Mrs. Rattery at 4:23 PM PST - 6 comments
Where iPad meets micro four thirds camera.
What's the best way to hookup my canon S95 and my iPad? [more inside]
Snappy Brassy Girl
How can I apply a patina to the shiny brass snap fasteners on my jacket? [more inside]
Google results aren't recorded inSafari history.
Is there a way to fix this infuriating Apple Safari/Google glitch? Perhaps someone who knows Javascript and/or Safari extensions could help me. [more inside]
posted by nowonmai at 3:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by nowonmai at 3:57 PM PST - 4 comments
Do hands-free headsets help reduce accident rates?
Lazyweb: Have there been any studies of traffic accident rates after passage of the hands-free laws in so many municipalities in the USA? [more inside]
posted by mzurer at 3:56 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by mzurer at 3:56 PM PST - 3 comments
Are you smarter than my doctor?
What is this confounding pain in my testicles? [more inside]
Perfecting my Nick Rhodes impersonation
In a couple days, I will be dressing up as Nick Rhodes from Duran Duran and serving waffles to gallery patrons in a performance art piece in Chicago. This is a live version of this blog. The problem: I only know a little bit about Duran Duran, and even less about Nick Rhodes. Help me be the best Nick Rhodes I can be! [more inside]
What do I do with a 20lb bag of raw unrendered mixed pork fat?
Say hypothetically, that you had half of a pigs worth of unrendered and raw pork fat trimmings in your freezer, apparently about 20 lbs, that your butcher handed you when they returned the rest of your, now disassembled, half pig. What would you do with it? [more inside]
Monovision contact lens
I am going to be testing monovision contact lenses for a few days. If you have tried them - how long did it take you to get used to them? And was it easy to switch backwards and forwards between glasses and monovision contacts? [more inside]
posted by nixit at 3:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by nixit at 3:42 PM PST - 4 comments
Know of a Credit Union that will keep your mortgage / refiannced home loan?
How / where can I take out a mortgage or refinance a house with a credit union that won't sell the loan to a big bank? [more inside]
posted by unclezeb at 3:30 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by unclezeb at 3:30 PM PST - 13 comments
I know I'm bad at math, but does this add up?
Why does being salaried mean that I lose out on 5 hours of pay every week? [more inside]
posted by masquesoporfavor at 3:24 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by masquesoporfavor at 3:24 PM PST - 30 comments
Help me find my next laptop
Please help me find the right laptop! My current laptop-- a standard-issue 2008 MacBook-- is on its last legs. I need to replace it with something that will meet both my personal and work requirements, and will hopefully last a long time. [more inside]
Depression is winning and I don't have the funds to fight it.
I'm depressed, sometimes it's to the point where I really feel like giving up. I was depressed before, seen a therapist before, was on medication before, and I recovered. It's back, rearing it's ugly head. Is it always going to be like this? Am I going to fend it off time and again only to have it come back? and where do I find the strength to do that? How can I fight it now, when I don't have the things I had before? [more inside]
posted by previously at 3:23 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by previously at 3:23 PM PST - 16 comments
Can you help me (help a friend) ethically and legally get rid of some overgrown pet turtles?
Can you help me (help a friend) ethically and legally get rid of some overgrown pet turtles? [more inside]
Looking for a temporary heating solution for workshop/garage.
Looking for a temporary heating solution for workshop/garage. [more inside]
Books about the world of the Dream of the Red Chamber (The Story of the Stone)
I'd like to re-read the Chinese classical novel Dream of the Red Chamber (The Story of the Stone), but I'd like to know more about the world it's set in first. What are some recommendations for books about daily life and clothing during the Qing dynasty, particularly during the 1700s? [more inside]
posted by shirobara at 2:46 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by shirobara at 2:46 PM PST - 4 comments
Let's get corny
I'm participating in a Thanksgiving potluck this weekend. I've been assigned a corn based dish - possibly a casserole of some sort. I'm not a good cook, but can manage simple things. Does anyone have any favorite corn based recipes that are more involved than heating up frozen or canned veggies? [more inside]
posted by codacorolla at 2:34 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by codacorolla at 2:34 PM PST - 31 comments
Can someone recommend me a good immigration lawyer?
Can someone recommend me a good immigration lawyer for EB-1a, EB1-b, and/or EB2-NIW? [more inside]
Best color picker? Ideally large in size
Best color picker? I have tried various things with differing levels of satisfaction, but I'd like to know if there's some really great one that I'm missing. Firefox addons, Windows software, or websites are what I need. [more inside]
posted by 6500xf at 2:13 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by 6500xf at 2:13 PM PST - 6 comments
Come from the Dark sound-alikes
Found a song on the God Hand soundtrack that makes me really happy! Looking for others like it... [more inside]
posted by Khazk at 2:10 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Khazk at 2:10 PM PST - 2 comments
Who do we combine households in as respectful and unstressful a way possible?
I will be moving into my fiancee's house after we get married in the summer. How do we combine our stuff in a way that is fair to both of us? [more inside]
posted by asnider at 2:10 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by asnider at 2:10 PM PST - 22 comments
Another lost cat question
How much sense of place do cats really have (or another lost cat question)? [more inside]
Can't clone a drive - software can't see it but Windows can! Why?
I'm cloning a hard drive. Windows can see the new drive and access it, but none of the cloning software can access it, no matter how I format or set it up. What's going on here, and how do I fix it? [more inside]
I have sensitive skin that dries out easily. Which types of soaps, washcloths, etc. should I use to help treat my skin better?
I have sensitive skin that dries out easily.
Which types of soaps, washcloths, etc. should I use to help treat my skin better? [more inside]
Don't bleed me with color ink charges!
I'm looking for a very specific kind of printer that can print true black onto 4x6 card stock weight paper. [more inside]
Mom, stop sending me spam!
How do I explain to my mom that her Yahoo email seems to be compromised, and what should I tell her to do about it? [more inside]
posted by rivenwanderer at 1:32 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by rivenwanderer at 1:32 PM PST - 5 comments
I want to accept my sex drive.
Help me accept my sex drive and become okay with fulfilling my sexual needs outside my sexless (and open) relationship. [more inside]
posted by chameleon at 1:29 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by chameleon at 1:29 PM PST - 16 comments
Baby you can steal my car
Looking for some advice on how to deal with repeated thefts and vandalism. [more inside]
aMember Alternatives
Honeymooners, Thailand edition
We're honeymooning in Thailand for 2 weeks in February. I have questions about everything from jet lag, budgeting time between the north and the beaches, intra-Thailand travels, and the ethics of elephant rides. [more inside]
Not another Space book, please
My 6-year old nephew is currently obsessed with space travel. Having nerdy parents & grandparents, he already owns two supersized model rockets, and a whole shelf of books about the Moon, planets, and space in general. With Christmas approaching, I'd like to give him something different-but-related. Ideas? [more inside]
posted by M. at 12:38 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by M. at 12:38 PM PST - 30 comments
Help convince me that it's okay to raise our baby in an apartment.
Help convince me that it's okay to raise our baby in an apartment. [more inside]
Server security: creating separate silos for applications & hashing passwords help
Can you help me understand how to approach a couple issues of server security. (1) I want to run things in 'silos', so that if someone from the web has hacked and has code level access to example.com/blog they can't query the db of example.com/app (2) If they do get access to a user database, how do I make it harder for them to figure out passwords (beyond just storing them as md5)? [more inside]
Im 21 years old, depressed, stressed, and never been in a relationship. Is it all in my mind or do I need to see a doc for this?
Im 21 years old, depressed, stressed, and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong? [more inside]
Dual monitors without lots of $?
Is there an easy way for me to run a second monitor on my computer without a new video card? [more inside]
posted by Happydaz at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Happydaz at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
Bodies Upon the Gears
I'm looking for some intense, inspiring speeches along the lines of Chaplin's The Great Dictator speech and Mario Savio's bodies upon the gears speech.
Guilty even after proven innocent.
How can I prepare for an upcoming hearing for which we don't have a lawyer and where I'm desperately hoping for dropped charges or an acquittal. [more inside]
Tell me about the best handmade gifts you've received
What are the best handmade gifts you've received? [more inside]
SWAP space obsolete?
Is SWAP space obsolete? [more inside]
My closet is like a scene from Hoarders: The Mac Episode.....
I was an AD/Photoshop expert for years, but I've changed careers and my computer needs have become less hardcore than they used to be. I'm getting rid of old career/office stuff I don't need, but just realized I have an entire closet full of old Macs and hard drives that are full of all sorts of stuff I should probably sort through, consolidate, purge and/or save... How do people do that nowadays? [more inside]
Cry for help, or weird spam?
What is the story behind the text "My brother raped me last night" that has been posted to hundreds of apparently random online forums recently? [more inside]
I need a "talk to me like I'm five" plan...
Reached a point of desperation-- I'm looking for recommendations for an IBS-C elimination diet that defines, in great detail, what can and can not be consumed and what should be reintroduced and when. Also interested in anyone's experience with the process for this same issue. [more inside]
posted by mireille at 11:08 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by mireille at 11:08 AM PST - 23 comments
How to customize a default user profile in Windows 7. Part of a continuing SteadyState-replacement saga.
I'm trying to customize a default user profile in Windows 7 professional, with the intent of using it to create a mandatory profile. Microsoft requires the use of Sysprep. I am but an intern, and Sysprep confuses me. I can't get Sysprep to run with the command-line switches I need.
The SteadyState replacement saga continues... [more inside]
posted by UrbanEye at 11:00 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by UrbanEye at 11:00 AM PST - 2 comments
What's the best leather laptop bag that will fit a 15" Macbook Pro ?
What's the best leather laptop bag that will fit a 15" Macbook Pro ? [more inside]
I'm looking for a place online where I can get a bunch of non-prescription soft contact lenses that I could use to practice putting stuff into my eye.
I'm looking for a place online where I can get a bunch of non-prescription soft contact lenses that I could use to practice putting stuff into my eye.
I went for my first contact lens fitting about a year ago, and it took me a good 30 minutes of trying to get them in. At the end of this torture my eyes were red and teary and I had to keep blowing my nose. Things got busy and I never ended going back after the 3rd fitting (I have a crazy astigmatism that requires toric lenses and is apparently hard to fit). I also never got the hang of putting the lenses in without sitting in front of a mirror for a long, long time. Before going back, I'd like to get the hang of it. That's where you come in.
Since I don't have a prescription, I'd like to use lenses that don't correct vision. Maybe color lenses -- would that work? I'd imagine they're all pretty similar, or no? Are color contacts soft? Is there maybe a site that gives away samples lenses with no prescription somewhere?
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 10:56 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 10:56 AM PST - 18 comments
Mortgage scenario question... Comparing two loans, FHA with 5% down or conventional with 20% down. What makes the most sense?
Mortgage scenario question... Comparing two loans, FHA with 5% down or conventional with 20% down. What makes the most sense? [more inside]
Feelings of depression after diagnosis.
Depressed/angry after diagnosis of a entirely treatable condition that will improve my quality of life. I don't know why or what to do next. [more inside]
posted by [insert clever name here] at 10:48 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by [insert clever name here] at 10:48 AM PST - 13 comments
S. France - overnight destination
Overnight Trip (from Paris) without a car -- which would be better: Avignon or Nimes? We will be on foot, staying just one night, and are into history, archeology, museums, good food. If one not better than the other, what differences should we know about?
Is my doctor astroturfing his online reviews?
I have a consultation with a plastic surgeon in NYC to talk about tattoo removal next week. I made the appointment based on unanimously glowing reviews posted online. Now, reading through the reviews again, I've been struck by certain details that make me wonder if these comments are mostly an astroturfing campaign. I've been waiting awhile for my appointment, so I don't want to cancel if I'm just being paranoid. Help me out, Mefi Sleuths. [more inside]
How to find a short audio clip inside of a larger audio clip?
Is there a Windows application that will search audio files for a clip? I'm not looking for a web search, but something that will take a short clip and look within larger clips for the same audio. [more inside]
What do you give your very conservative, 40-something sister for Christmas?
What do you give your very conservative, 40-something older sister for Christmas? [more inside]
posted by theletterfour at 10:24 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by theletterfour at 10:24 AM PST - 23 comments
O hai. I'm ur noobtank. I'm here to wipe your group.
I just started playing World of Warcraft again after two years. In short: I'm a total noob again and I'm starting to tank heroic dungeons and it is... messy. Noxxic seems pretty good for basic gear/stat information, and the in-game Dungeon Guides are nice, but they're really terrible for reading on the fly and don't actually include popular strategies. Is there a good place where I can learn how to tank Cataclysm Heroics or am I fated to drag poor strangers along on my very painful learning curve? I don't love sifting through dozens of YouTube videos, but videos would be helpful.
posted by jph at 10:22 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by jph at 10:22 AM PST - 10 comments
Adding a personal touch to digital photo frame gift
With a digital photo frame is it possible to specify the order photos are displayed? I'd like to have a random set, interspersed with occasional strings of ordered photos. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go? **Warning: Wall Of Text**
Long-term love under siege because he can't seem to get his life started, and I think I am turning into his mom. Please help. [more inside]
Soccer Licenses: How Do They Work?
How do soccer teams in Europe get licensed? [more inside]
posted by Copronymus at 10:09 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Copronymus at 10:09 AM PST - 5 comments
What services are there for making custom items?
I love websites that allow me to make my own custom items. What services are there where I can submit an illustration or plans and get my own custom something that I can keep or gift to others? [more inside]
More Latin tattoofilter
Tattoo filter: Latin motto that means "always weird" or "strange"? [more inside]
Why are there big lakes along the edge of the Canadian Shield?
GeologyFilter: Why are there big lakes along the edge of the Canadian Shield? [more inside]
posted by stebulus at 9:55 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by stebulus at 9:55 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me find great brands for Men's Winter coats! (Fur lined hoods!)
Looking for recommendations on good Men's Winter Coat manufacturers. Fur trim on hood preferable! [more inside]
Clapping between movements
Re the decline of applause at symphony concerts: are there any classical/symphonic works that are still regularly applauded between movements, whether by convention or by spontaneous upwelling of feeling?
As if there wasn't enough horseshit on Wall Street...
What is the average number of police horses that are patrolling Occupy Wall Street at any given hour? [more inside]
Organizing savings goals
Looking for an online savings account or an elegant non-spreadsheet method to track my savings goals. [more inside]
posted by Laura Macbeth at 8:58 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Laura Macbeth at 8:58 AM PST - 6 comments
How can I gracefully set boundaries with conservative/religious parents when I no longer share their beliefs?
I want to move in with my partner and move on with my life, but I'm stuck in needing approval from parents with beliefs I can't agree with. How can I handle this in a kind but firm manner? [more inside]
Making DND Maps
Help me (low/no Photoshop skill) make maps for my online DND campaign. [more inside]
Global art and entertainment recommendations
Is there a site where I can get art and entertainment recommendations on a truly global level? [more inside]
Why can't I like my body?
Body dysmorphic disorder with no insurance, self diagnose before investing in a shrink? [more inside]
Please help me ID this song.
Can you help me ID this song? [more inside]
Ever notice your junk is stuff and their stuff is junk?
How do you quickly and efficiently dispose of 60 years of household items while maximizing return? I am looking for tips, tricks and suggestions for dealing with a fair-sized estate. [more inside]
Specific Accounting Software for Compensation
In search of software for tracking stock options, deferred compensation and options-in-lieu-of-compensation. Does this exist? [more inside]
Brother, can you spare a click?
I want to launch an online petition on a substantive political matter that's national in scope (and to the extent it matters, center-progressive). I have a semi-private FB account that I prefer not to associate with the petition; I do not have a Twitter account or anything else (e.g., Change.org), but could make one. What is the best means of creating a petition, getting eyeballs on it, and garnering popular support? Thanks!
Lego Birthday Party Ideas
Any great Lego themed birthday ideas? [more inside]
New iPhone 4S only plays half my music.
I just got an iPhone 4S. I "restored" the new iPhone from an iCloud backup of my previous iPhone 3GS. It worked almost perfectly, but roughly half my music won't play! [more inside]
Can cell re-sellers offer better monthly rates than providers?
Can/do cell phone re-sellers (for the big four) offer better deals on PLANs or are they only authorized to offer better deals on PHONEs. [more inside]
posted by n-palmer at 7:41 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by n-palmer at 7:41 AM PST - 3 comments
Where can I find this necklace?
Where can I buy this necklace? At the store the other day I saw someone wearing a heart-shaped pendant with a clear covering in the center that displayed lgbt pride colors. It looked kind of like this, except there weren't any symbols in the middle, the rainbow colors were straight across instead of wavy and it wasn't a keychain.
posted by Autumn at 7:40 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Autumn at 7:40 AM PST - 5 comments
Not one chicken. Not even once.
Where can I geek out about Skyrim on the web? [more inside]
posted by Sayuri. at 7:29 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Sayuri. at 7:29 AM PST - 9 comments
Her incomprehensible reading
She's asked for 'The Birth of Love' by Joanna Kavenna. What else can I get her? [more inside]
Cat Needs a House Call Stat--Brooklyn
Improve my elocution!
How can I work on a more "natural" delivery (emphasis, pitch, etc.) when reading books aloud? [more inside]
Noisy noisy car.
What is the noise my car is making? I think it might be tire. [more inside]
posted by Frasermoo at 6:28 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Frasermoo at 6:28 AM PST - 12 comments
Find me the perfect Spanish training website
Can't find dinner rolls brand or image!
What is the brand name of this one particular kind of dinner roll? They look like little chef hats, they come in a white cardboard tray in a plastic bag, and they have those little dimples on top. [more inside]
posted by XtinaS at 6:17 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by XtinaS at 6:17 AM PST - 8 comments
What did I do to my poor computer and how can I undo it?
Crap! My computer is borked and I don't know what to do about it. System Restore can't seem to find Windows, either. [more inside]
posted by Scientist at 6:15 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Scientist at 6:15 AM PST - 10 comments
Catheter? I 'ardly knew 'er...
I recently had urological surgery, and I'm on a foley catheter for the next two weeks. I'm female. How do I put up with it? [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 6:14 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 6:14 AM PST - 9 comments
Best way to back up photos and other media assets
I am trying to establish a good backup strategy for my digital media assets (photos, music, and some home videos) and documents. Would love to hear from you on on whether this makes sense ... [more inside]
posted by justlooking at 6:03 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by justlooking at 6:03 AM PST - 5 comments
Help Me Save Money
Seeking suggestions for inexpensive telephone and internet service in Ontario. [more inside]
There is such a thing as *too* user friendly...
Does anybody know of any resources, be they online or otherwise, for teaching the basics - the very basics - of iPad use to a computerphobic person? Things like "what does the home button do?", "what is the internet?", "what is a web browser?", "what is an app?".
More details below, but basically I am at the end of my tether with trying to provide technical support to someone with zero computer awareness or willingness to learn and I need to find some way of educating them to the point where they can at least recognize when something is a problem and when it isn't. [more inside]
posted by teselecta at 5:20 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by teselecta at 5:20 AM PST - 19 comments
Read Like Molasses in January
I usually consume books. Help me with tricks/strategies to savor and retain Murakami's 1Q84. [more inside]
Laissant mon coeur en Afrique, je reviens à la neige.
Moving back to Canada on short notice... like, tomorrow. Ugh. Help me figure out the logistics of living in the Western world again! [more inside]
Help Me Lock It Down!
Looking to implement the most effective reasonable set of best practices for preserving internet privacy and blocking commercial data harvesting. Seeking tips, tricks, hacks, and useful online resources. [more inside]
Is "GSM [speaker] buzz" a thing of the past?
Is "GSM [speaker] buzz" a thing of the past? I have an iPhone 4. [more inside]
posted by skwt at 3:35 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by skwt at 3:35 AM PST - 15 comments
What movie is this sample from?
Can you identify which movie is sampled on Frightened Rabbit's 'Man/Bag of Sand'? It's most intelligible at the very beginning and very end of the song. The only mention I can find of it online is in this Radar interview with FR's drummer, but he doesn't name the film. [more inside]
Hope I (don't) die before I get old
How to deal with the practical aspects of ageing - book/website recommendations. [more inside]
November 15
How to divide prize money?
How should prize money be divided in order to generate the most high-quality submissions to a contest? [more inside]
3 yr old scared of dentist. what can mom do?
What shall I do with my 3 yr old's tooth cavity? I am feeling depressed over it [more inside]
posted by akomom at 11:17 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by akomom at 11:17 PM PST - 25 comments
How do I find an image file for this famous image?
So I love this image, and want to use it for an art project. It's old, so I'm pretty sure it's public domain. I'll find out.
But meanwhile, does anyone know where I can find a hi-res image file of this photo?
I tried emailing that website, but no dice.
Yes I suffer from short term memory loss.
Can you name this movie? Random description: Group of British twenty somethings go to a countryside estate... [more inside]
posted by it's a long way to south america at 10:40 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by it's a long way to south america at 10:40 PM PST - 12 comments
What is this 80s road trip movie about two young brothers?
Help me identify an 80s road trip movie about two young (as in middle school age) brothers searching for their father. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by smokingmonkey at 10:14 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by smokingmonkey at 10:14 PM PST - 4 comments
Help a tutor be less useless at controlling kids.
I'm a new tutor. How do I get kids with behavioral problems to actually work? [more inside]
posted by Bleusman at 8:14 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Bleusman at 8:14 PM PST - 16 comments
Is my plantar wart treatment working or failing?
What's going on with my plantar wart? I've been treating it for nearly two months, but now it feels sore when I try to remove dead skin, and there's what looks like dried blood on one side of the wart. Is this a good sign? [more inside]
Statistics regarding acts of vengence against women if they fight back against harassment?
Does anyone know of statistics or studies regarding repercussions to women as a result of filing sexual harassment charges, or otherwise fighting back against daily harassment (cat calling, etc)? In the US, but interested in any data.
Free service to serve as birthday reminder?
I need a free service that can send me warnings for scheduled events (birthdays, anniversaries), specs inside [more inside]
posted by CelebrenIthil at 7:31 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by CelebrenIthil at 7:31 PM PST - 16 comments
What does Market 8 represent- a region, a number of viewers?
Please explain to me the hierarchy of News Markets? [more inside]
posted by MansRiot at 7:09 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by MansRiot at 7:09 PM PST - 4 comments
How to handle a cheating in-law?
My MIL is having an affair, is not being smart about it and I don't know how to be around her now. [more inside]
Less work, more play
Has anyone working fulltime under a manager negotiated a cut in their work hours, from the standard 40-hr work week to 30-32 hours? (But not due to childcare or other specific family/personal constraints, just for wanting more free time.) [more inside]
How are 1099 contractors different from W2 contractors?
I got a part-time job contracting for a non-profit. Turns out they have me as a 1099 contractor instead of a W2 as I'm accustomed to. What do I need to do or know? [more inside]
posted by never nice at 5:41 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by never nice at 5:41 PM PST - 20 comments
How to quickly raise iron levels outside of being hospitalized.
In the U.S., what options exist for a nearly immediate increase in hemoglobin levels (or iron) outside of a blood transfusion in a hospital? [more inside]
Give me a Flickr with better architecture.
Flickr is perfectly fine, but I hate that it switches up photo URLs/servers, so photos I post on my blog turn into 'photo not available.' Since that's what I mainly use it for, it's getting to be a pain. What do I switch to? [more inside]
What’s a good smartphone for journalling in (while on the subway)?
The end of paper: what’s a good smartphone for journalling in (while on the subway)? [more inside]
Finding cheesy commercial rock jingles
I like cheesy rock commercial jingles such as this,
this, and this. I'm looking for songs such as these.
posted by Query at 5:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Query at 5:18 PM PST - 9 comments
Therapy by Skype?
Asking for a friend: Therapy options for a wheelchair-bound person in a tiny town in central Texas? (Skype or phone, maybe?) [more inside]
posted by Alterscape at 4:47 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Alterscape at 4:47 PM PST - 4 comments
Camping citation woes.
If a park ranger gives you a citation for violating the terms of a permit, is "Other rangers told me it's ok when I got the permit" a valid defense? Also, what are my obligations when no court date is specified on the citation? [more inside]
posted by ilikemefi at 4:42 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by ilikemefi at 4:42 PM PST - 15 comments
What is the most efficient way to screenshot something and link to it in Gchat?
What is the most efficient way to screenshot something and link to it in Gchat? [more inside]
posted by critzer at 4:19 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by critzer at 4:19 PM PST - 10 comments
How does the process of purchasing a home for the first time work, exactly?
I hear that now might be a good time to buy a house. I have no idea how this process works, having rented my entire life. Beginning with the basics, how does this work? [more inside]
How to Talk to a Teenager Through their First Breakup?
I know how to help myself through bad times, but how does a mom help her 20-year-old child through her first serious relationship breakup when the reasons for it are the same as her parent's divorce (boy cheats on girl)? What are the magic words? [more inside]
posted by kinetic at 3:31 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by kinetic at 3:31 PM PST - 28 comments
Can a non PCI DSS business pre-populate form fields on a credit card field?
I'm working on a project that takes credit card payments online but wants to avoid the overhead of PCI DSS by not storing people's card details. This is fine, but it seems to be making our checkout process unwieldy. [more inside]
posted by TheDonF at 3:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by TheDonF at 3:20 PM PST - 6 comments
You keep saying matches and I'll keep saying candles.
What can you tell me to help me make great candles? [more inside]
posted by iconomy at 3:16 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by iconomy at 3:16 PM PST - 4 comments
Looking for a specific quotation about the middle class and its resistence to revolution.
Looking for a quotation related to the middle-class's resistance to revolution. [more inside]
What can I read about Shanghai in the 1930s?
I'd like to read about Shanghai in the 1930s. What (fact or fiction) books can you recommend?
Which bicycle brand is better?
Assuming all other features of the bicycles are identical, and the price is the same, which brand is better: Batavus, Giant, or Raleigh? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 2:52 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by lollusc at 2:52 PM PST - 22 comments
Sorry, Shari Lewis, but I've got to eat...
Best lamb shoulder recipe? [more inside]
What should you call a priest when "Father" isn't an option?
I work in a nominally Catholic institution with a resident priest. I'll be working with him next week on publicising the upcoming Christmas events. Most people refer to him Father (firstname). I don't feel comfortable with that - so what do I call him instead? [more inside]
How not to puke in a celebrity's face
How to handle the ridiculous anxiety of meeting a famous person? [more inside]
posted by Lobster Garden at 2:42 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Lobster Garden at 2:42 PM PST - 22 comments
OCR solutions?
Looking for hardware/software that will scan a physical form with handwritten fields and generated accurate delimited text with it. [more inside]
Putting Windows 7 on a MacBook Air
Two questions about putting Windows 7 on a MacBook Air. First, how do I get a Windows 7 ISO? Second, am I crazy to even do this in the first place? [more inside]
posted by Cool Papa Bell at 2:25 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Cool Papa Bell at 2:25 PM PST - 5 comments
How to collect B&B guests' deposits online?
My hope is to find a secure and inexpensive method for collecting my client's B&B guest deposits online, but I am unsure how to proceed?! My newest client is an already existing B&B that wants to attract new guests, in return a portion of the stay rate (aka my commission) will be allotted for me and my services. Works for me in theory, but unsure how to go about collecting the funds... [more inside]
Sexual Abstinence Until Marriage
Should I abstain from sex? [more inside]
Help me identify this obscure music!
Music ID. First some Kumbia. Second, a song from a Filipino (I think) wedding featured in Life In A Day (song is at 56m 33s). [more inside]
bb 9900
What are the best blackberry apps that take advantage of the bb 9900 touch screen. (Preferably Free)? [more inside]
posted by MechEng at 1:48 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by MechEng at 1:48 PM PST - 2 comments
Really actually fun cardio
What are some genuinely enjoyable activities I can do for an aerobic workout that aren't too hard on the body? [more inside]
How to contact Yahoo Premium services?
My friend paid for Yahoo Premium email service. His email account was hacked. And his account was locked down by Yahoo. Now I can't find any way to contact Yahoo Premium service, which he PAID FOR. Any ideas?? [more inside]
Estimating Tax Payment/Refund
We're trying to estimate just whether we'll get a refund or have to pay on a very simple, standard deduction, Federal return. Estimator apps vary widely. [more inside]
It's electric!
Is my food science experiment (an electric jello circuit) safe to eat? [more inside]
posted by shaun uh at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by shaun uh at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
Lead me
Looking for group exercises aimed at professionals that can demonstrate how leadership works, or games the group can play where they have to organize themselves and perhaps undertake an activity or complete a task. Basically any ideas that are fun, gets the group laughing and thinking- and they leave believing I'm awesome.
Day trips in Belgium
Belgian MeFites! Or MeFites who have been to Belgium! A question about trains. [more inside]
posted by TheWhiteSkull at 12:46 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by TheWhiteSkull at 12:46 PM PST - 4 comments
Sewing for a growing baby
My mother is currrently in Asia and wants her tailor there to make a sack dress for my baby. The tailor wants to know
- neck size
- chest
- length (from base of neck to a hand's breadth above the knee)
BUT...baby will be wearing this next summer, when she will be a year and two or three months old, and I have no idea how big she will be! [more inside]
posted by Omnomnom at 12:39 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Omnomnom at 12:39 PM PST - 7 comments
Dave, my mind is going. I can feel it.
My homebuilt, always-on HTPC has ground to a halt. It won't boot past the BIOS, which slowly - slowly - fills the screen like it's being downloaded by a very old dial-up modem. What's my "checklist" for zeroing in on the problem? [more inside]
posted by BobbyVan at 11:57 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by BobbyVan at 11:57 AM PST - 11 comments
Happy cat is happy coworker?
My friend and coworker is having a super shitty week. I want to send her a happy little picture or something like that - maybe a happy lolcat? - to bring a small bit of joy to her day. Suggestions?
Is VPS worth the extra $'s and limited resources?
Comparing VPS vs. Shared Server performance. Are there some ways to compare server performance on a couple of hosting accounts I have. I'm interested in seeing how much better the VPS account performs and then deciding if that's worth the extra monthly charge. Or the inverse: is the shared server account adequate. [more inside]
Am I crazy to try to build some built-in shelves?
I would like to build some built in shelves in my house. I have basic carpentry experience, and I have built basic shelves before. Would I be making a big mistake to try this? How much might I expect to pay a carpenter to do this? [more inside]
How Much Should It Cost?
How much should I pay for an old iPhone? [more inside]
posted by Yellow at 11:31 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Yellow at 11:31 AM PST - 16 comments
Becoming a red-headed stranger.
I want to be a redhead. If you've been something else previously (especially a mousy brunette), is this a good idea? What works? What doesn't? What will people SAY???? [more inside]
My fuchsia is sad. How do I make it happy?
My fuchsia is sad. How do I make it happy? [more inside]
It's not that I want to watch anything dirty...
How do I disable YouTube's safety mode? My spouse somehow enabled it last week and we've been gong crazy trying to get rid of it. I've tried Googling this, and done everything others have suggested (apparently this is a common problem) but nothing works. And yes, I've gone to the bottom of the screen and switched the safety mode to "off", but it goes right back on again. HELP! We have Google Chrome, if that matters.
Peaches and plums and pruning
Fruit tree planting question: Peach and plum trees are typically sold bare root, for planting in the winter, and most online planting guides deal with bare root trees. I wanted to get my trees in the ground before winter to give the roots some time to grow (Austin, Texas here), so I bought containerized plum and peach trees (that is, with a root ball and leaves), and I have planted the plum trees already. I am worried that I messed it up. [more inside]
posted by seventyfour at 10:51 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by seventyfour at 10:51 AM PST - 5 comments
Berlin for writers
What's a good, chill cafe for writing in Berlin? Preferably with Wifi. Any around Kreuzberg/Mitte/Neukölln?
Why do some trailers have a drum attached.
Why do some semi-trailers have a plastic barrel attached to a frame structure underneath the deck and behind the rear axle? They are on their sides, (GIS fails finding an example.) They look like they may be used to hold water and provide weight for braking.
Can you recommend a good and affordable relationship counselor in the Boston area?
Can you recommend a good and affordable relationship counselor in the Boston area? [more inside]
What is a very simple cell phone that works well?
I am looking to simplify my life. What is a very simple, compact, and good cell phone that would work with T-Mobile. [more inside]
posted by denverco at 9:53 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by denverco at 9:53 AM PST - 6 comments
Backpacking trip planning advice.
Help with planning a backpacking trip covering Asia->SE Asia. Details inside. [more inside]
How do I adjust to being by myself?
I'm recently divorced, and I'm realizing that I have never lived alone. I've always had roommates, parents, girlfriends or my ex-wife. And, wow, am I having a hard time with living by myself. [more inside]
posted by bonecrusher at 9:37 AM PST - 59 comments
posted by bonecrusher at 9:37 AM PST - 59 comments
Which Netbook should i keep?
NetbookSalefilter: I have two netbooks...A Dell mini Inspiron 910 w/ a solid state HD and Dell Latitude 2100 w/ a SATA hd. I like both and i want to sell one. Which one should i keep, i cant decide? Opinions Please.
Match this RAM with a motherboard
Thanksgiving dinner without an oven
My roommate and I were planning to host Thanksgiving dinner for 12 people, but the gas has been turned off in our building and we don't know if it will be back on by next week and I have no stovetop or oven to use if it doesn't come back on. Help me figure out a plan B menu that I can cook with only a microwave, a toaster oven, and a 5 quart oval slow cooker. [more inside]
Name that London restaurant.
Can you recommend a London restaurant that meets my specific needs? [more inside]
My sister is an addict. What should I do?
My sister is addicted to anti-anxiety pills. I have no clue where to start to help. What should I do? [more inside]
How to stop rattling in car?
Rattling muffler/exhaust? [more inside]
Growing an online community
How do you grow an online community for a small trade association's 2000-something members? [more inside]
Gavle Goat inauguration online (US)
Can you help me watch the inauguration of this giant goat? [more inside]
Sex and Love.
How do you get over the shock and pain of discovering you've been sleeping with someone who hasn't been in love with you for months? [more inside]
losterature
I entered graduate school in literature six years ago, and since then I feel like I've lost track what's happening in contemporary literature. Help me catch up: What are the essential works of the last six years?
posted by gerryblog at 7:47 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by gerryblog at 7:47 AM PST - 17 comments
Looking for an inexpensive dry cleaner in Cambridge, MA.
I recently moved to Cambridge from DC and I'm looking to find an inexpensive dry cleaner. [more inside]
Online Pharmacy - US to Holland Edition
Can anyone recommend an online pharmacy that ships to the Netherlands? [more inside]
posted by digitalprimate at 7:10 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 7:10 AM PST - 5 comments
"Consult your attorney" only makes sense if I know what to ask
I was recently arrested at Occupy Atlanta. Background here. What should I be sure to ask/say when I meet with my attorney soon? [more inside]
Other movies and TV shows like these?
If I like Connections, Ways of Seeing, Cosmos, Godfrey Reggio's films, and David Attenborough's Life series, what other TV shows or movies will I like?
Doctor, doctor, tell the news, I got a bad case of computer blues
My home computer seems to have been attacked, and possibly wiped of all programs and files, by some kind of virus. Is there hope for my computer or is all my data (which includes 75% of a rough draft of a novel) hopelessly lost? [more inside]
What is this on my elbow?
Reach for the stars! Well, maybe not THAT star...
Can I apply for this managerial job, or am I reaching too far? [more inside]
I would like a schmoopy new years eve please
My partner and I want to make New Years Eve a special night. We're both in our 30's and the appeal of doing a rowdy alcohol soaked party blowout is wearing off, so instead we're aiming for classy and romantic, just the two of us. What should we do to make it feel more like a vacation rather than a staycation, and what should we do to make the night extra special? We're looking to maximize the romantic schmultz. [more inside]
posted by gwenlister at 4:01 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by gwenlister at 4:01 AM PST - 11 comments
How to sell a grotty house and where do I start?
My house is a mess - one of the reasons for selling - and I have no money. Where the hell do I start? [more inside]
posted by b33j at 3:27 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by b33j at 3:27 AM PST - 42 comments
sweet sweet brazil
Brazil over winter break: ideas and tips, please! [more inside]
Who am I looking for to get to the people actually DOING the interaction, not just hotel brokers?
Who is the actual back end provider of all the different hotel/travel reservations systems, (bonus: in Israel specifically)? [more inside]
Building a journalism kit
Help me build a journalism kit! [more inside]
Help the permanently befuddled find a nice, high visibility wallet?
I have Lupus, and one of the things I struggle with is Lupus fog. One way in which this presents itself is that I tend to lose or forget or be unaware of the location of my wallet, and to help me with this I'd like to find a useful, high visibility wallet. I have been using a Levenger International Pocket Briefcase, but I lost that one today and I think it's time I stopped buying black / dark wallets. [more inside]
posted by planetthoughtful at 1:14 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by planetthoughtful at 1:14 AM PST - 11 comments
An "S" made of lights on the front of a truck means?
Once in a while I'll see a truck behind me with a series of around 10 small light bulbs creating an S on the front grille. What does this mean? [more inside]
What's a game like MW2, but with less grenades and head shots?
Christmas gift idea for 10 y/o nephew. Wii console game, FPS-style, but not Modern Warfare 3. [more inside]
posted by Diag at 12:57 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Diag at 12:57 AM PST - 9 comments
Where are all the crafters at?
Where in Brooklyn can I go with my crafts projects to hang out with other people who are working on their crafts projects, for free? I'm working on a number of portable crafts projects right now and I'd love to get out of the house and be with other people who are working on their own projects.
November 14
Searching for an early 2000s flash game
I am looking for a Flash (?) game I played back in 2003 that I have not seen since. [more inside]
posted by bagels at 10:33 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by bagels at 10:33 PM PST - 2 comments
Eventually, dogs and their owners will take the same drugs...
Is it possible that my dog is taking four times as much Xanax as me? [more inside]
posted by Buffaload at 10:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Buffaload at 10:12 PM PST - 8 comments
i am a horrible travel agent
Help me, I am an idiot. I long ago booked an overnight trip from Seattle to Sacramento on Alaska Airlines through Expedia. I thought it was for tomorrow and Wednesday, apparently it was for today and tomorrow... [more inside]
Beyond American Lit
Help me think of topics for a college literature course! [more inside]
Why are missing letters in closed captioning missing in pairs?
Why do missing letters in closed captioning always appear in pairs? [more inside]
posted by madcaptenor at 8:13 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by madcaptenor at 8:13 PM PST - 11 comments
From software to a trade in as little time as possible
Career change filter: Is it possible for an experienced professional in a (mostly) unrelated field to fast-track the apprenticeship portion of trades training? [more inside]
How to navigate my fractured family?
I feel alienated from my parents, and wish to be at peace and move my life forward, with or without them. What to do from here? [more inside]
posted by dolce_voce at 8:02 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by dolce_voce at 8:02 PM PST - 8 comments
Finding the Straw Man
Academics: Searching with texts that promote a fair hearing for the opposition. [more inside]
posted by Tennyson D'San at 7:58 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Tennyson D'San at 7:58 PM PST - 3 comments
talk therapy requires talk.
My long term (almost 6 years, living together for 3) boyfriend hates hates hates couples therapy. i think it has helped immensely. ugh. [more inside]
Why was there an orange X on this dead sea turtle?
Why was there an orange X on this dead sea turtle? [more inside]
posted by ElizabethEllis at 7:51 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ElizabethEllis at 7:51 PM PST - 5 comments
Trying to print a recipe IN a dl'ed template
I cannot figure out why printing recipe cards is so hard? I purchased the Avery 8386. to print 4x6 recipes for my box. Online, I found a random template for 4x6 recipe cards( I could not find any cool ones). Then I go and copy my recipe and go to paste it on the template and it doesn't paste *INTO* the template (on the lines would be my first choice), it pastes outside the boarders of the recipe card template. I'm hoping to create my new recipe box and print the recipes I use online right onto the cute card but maybe it is too perfect and easy. It is hilarious how difficult something so easy can be! Maybe I'm missing something super obvious but I have asked a bunch of people and....here I am! Help !
Why does my range trip the circuit breaker when the oven and all burners are used?
Why does my electric range trip the circuit breaker when the oven and all burners are used? This behavior is new. [more inside]
posted by wnissen at 7:40 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by wnissen at 7:40 PM PST - 17 comments
How can I miss traffic on the 101?
Best time to drive from East Bay to Santa Barbara? [more inside]
Wanting to leave design field, what else can I do?
Career change filter: wanting to leave graphic/web design field, what else can I do? [more inside]
posted by jollyroger at 6:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by jollyroger at 6:59 PM PST - 8 comments
John Wayne fans? Help me find a great region 1 DVD collection for a gift.
British John Wayne fans (who knew?) can get a whopping 34-disc set of Wayne, Wayne and more Wayne. I can't find anything like this available for the U.S. market. Can any U.S. John Wayne fans out there help me find the right DVD set (or combination of sets) for a Wayne fan for Christmas? [more inside]
Blue only US flag?
I am looking for "left" or "blue state" American flags or patches in which all the colored part of the flag is blue (eg blue stripes instead of red). Maybe I just cannot get the correct search terms, but I have not been able to find these. Anyone know where such an animal can be got?
Cat Food Sans-Dye?
Does anyone know where to find a list of cat food brands or types without any coloring or dye at all? I've tried a bunch of the natural types, and they all seem to come back up as orange or virulent yellow onto the very light beige apartment carpet, with some regularity. [more inside]
posted by thelastcamel at 6:24 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by thelastcamel at 6:24 PM PST - 13 comments
Sensitivity, Sensitivity, I'm just loaded with that...
I am looking for a copy of the script for Once Upon A Mattress. Where can I get a copy for free? [more inside]
How can I get my jeweler to really clean my ring?
How can I get my jeweler to actually clean and polish my engagement ring? [more inside]
posted by ellaminnowpea at 5:38 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by ellaminnowpea at 5:38 PM PST - 17 comments
Curses, broiled again.
What broiler pan will be easiest to clean? [more inside]
Hair at the other extreme
Just moved from NYC suburbia to Bellingham rururbia. Mrs Wardrobe would like to know which hair salons in the area come nearest to her previous experience in terms of a good professional cut and color.
Help me keep my anxiety about sex from destroying my relationship, or: Want sex now help.
How can I have a more sexual relationship with my boyfriend, and stop freaking out all the time? Or, how can I accept that this is the relationship we have and it's not going to change? Warning: this is going to be both long and stupid. [more inside]
posted by krakenattack at 5:26 PM PST - 47 comments
posted by krakenattack at 5:26 PM PST - 47 comments
Can I eat this? Like, pancreatically?
What should I make for diabetic Thanksgiving? Expanded waistline ahead. [more inside]
My brain doesn't care if I'm late
How can I create a sense of urgency about being on time? [more inside]
Can an apartment FORCE you to leave for 24-hours?
Apartment management of a 14 floor tower is forcing everybody to leave for 24 hours. Is this legal? They are supposedly doing some work on the electrical system and invoked the city and fire marshal as saying everybody had to leave. They are putting people in a hotel (no food, no nothing). ...more inside... [more inside]
posted by Gerard Sorme at 4:55 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Gerard Sorme at 4:55 PM PST - 18 comments
A django-friendly forum for a fool?
My Django-coded site -- for which I am not the programmer -- needs a forum. Halp! [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 4:45 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by Shepherd at 4:45 PM PST - 1 comment
Don't you dare say Catcher in the Rye
Seeking a contemporary coming of age novel with a few specific qualities (more details inside). Posting for a friend. [more inside]
Tiny Track
TINY TRACK. I want to know every single option for a short girl building a fixed-gear bike. What manufacturers make frames smaller than 47cm? [more inside]
How do you manage sparklessness?
How do you, um, tell if you're attracted to someone without there being a spark? [more inside]
#NotThankful for your seemingly endless bliss and my resulting jealousy. Or your dumb twitter #hashtag.
When you're in a long term relationship or marriage, how do you deal with feelings of jealousy of other couples seemingly endless "honeymoon phase"? [more inside]
Looking for a real estate tax/legal professional in the Twin Cities
I need recommendations for an accountant, tax lawyer, or real estate lawyer in the Twin Cities. [more inside]
posted by peanut_mcgillicuty at 4:10 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by peanut_mcgillicuty at 4:10 PM PST - 3 comments
Where can I get a fabulous and cheap gown for a black tie wedding?
I have nothing to wear to a black tie wedding on New Year's Eve and I'm on a tight budget. Where in NYC can I find a fabulous, perhaps second hand, long dress for less than $150? [more inside]
Can an Xbox 360 or PS3 Play Archived Ripped DVDs
Can an XBox 360 and/or Playstation 3 be made to play archived/ripped DVDs that preserve the menu structure? Is there a guide for doing that somewhere? [more inside]
posted by willnot at 3:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by willnot at 3:57 PM PST - 4 comments
Sunset for Bolivian Sunset?
Help with Bolivian Sunset... leaves turning brown... [more inside]
posted by Currer Belfry at 3:38 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Currer Belfry at 3:38 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me find these bomb-ass pants. Please.
I need help finding these pants in an XS. [more inside]
posted by jitterbug perfume at 3:15 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by jitterbug perfume at 3:15 PM PST - 5 comments
He is not sure about me or what he's doing with his life?
As everyone has already reminded me, I asked questions on here before about my bf. He admitted he is not in love with me but cares deeply for me? Still wants to be together? [more inside]
I spent 10 seconds on imdb trying to find the answer, then remembered how awful that place is
I have a stupid question about the Wikipedia entry of The Diving Bell and the Butterfly [more inside]
Madamina, this is our staffer Madamina. Pleased to meet you.
How do I apply for my own job -- especially if my bosses are my references? [more inside]
How do I avoid a crazy ex-boss?
I need tactics for avoiding someone at a conference. [more inside]
What was this article about drug use?
I read a passage about a writer's drug use, and the drug use of his friends. The gist was "we wanted the party to go on too long, but the price was too high" and it had a list of people and what had happened to them (dead, liver disease, etc.). It was very touching. It might have been Kerouac. Does this ring any bells for anyone?
posted by teraspawn at 1:32 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by teraspawn at 1:32 PM PST - 7 comments
Strunk and White first edition
I've sniffed around on AbeBooks and a few other sites, but I can't really seem to find anything that's a Strunk and White first edition.
Anyone have more ideas about how to find such an animal? [more inside]
posted by el riesgo sempre vive at 1:27 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by el riesgo sempre vive at 1:27 PM PST - 9 comments
Should I attend a close friend's party knowing that a certain foe will be in attendance?
Some of my friends are having a party and have invited an emotionally unstable individual with whom I've had some stressful clashes. Should I attend knowing there's a good chance I'll get in a fight, or should I say I can't make it to spare my friends the drama? [more inside]
Manhattan brick wall-mounted TV
I need advice about hiring someone to mount our 40" LCD TV on the brick wall above the fireplace in our New York City apartment. [more inside]
posted by sleepinglion at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by sleepinglion at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
Looking for a professional to help me manage my ADHD
I'd like to see professional who can help me develop tools/strategies to cope with ADHD. Should I see an ADHD coach? A cognitive behavioral therapist? How do I go about finding someone? [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 12:43 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by lunasol at 12:43 PM PST - 10 comments
Ringworm in Japan
I have ringworm. I am in Japan. I want to avoid seeing a doctor, if possible. What medicine should I buy and how can I prevent this from happening again? [more inside]
Most colourful tattoo artists in Toronto
Awesome tattoo artists in Toronto? [more inside]
Help Me Substitute Without Ruining Everything!
Seeking help from MeFi bakers! I'd like to make this recipe and had a question about substitutions. [more inside]
I feel like a part-time model!
I just received my first professional blow-out, and holy crap my hair looks amazing! How can I do this to myself? And without it taking approximately forever? [more inside]
Is this a reasonable test of registry cleaner effectiveness?
I've always been fond of CCleaner for its one-click approach to registry cleaning and crap removal (and some nice uninstall and startup management tools).
I'm realistic about it, though, and appreciate that it's probably more productive of a sense of tidiness than actual improvements. But! This chap did a test and found some significant benefits from taking a computer that had been loaded up with rubbish and then had the rubbish manually uninstalled.
So my question is this - is the methodology of his test basically sound? Would it change your mind if you thought registry cleaners are a waste of time?
posted by Sebmojo at 11:43 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Sebmojo at 11:43 AM PST - 14 comments
I want to make a proper English breakfast.
Please explain to this American how to make a proper full English breakfast. [more inside]
Just don't say "rods".
I have a backyard nocturnal UFC (Unidentified Flying Creature) What am I seeing? [more inside]
Travel Suggestions for sun and beach?
Your Travel Suggestions Please: Looking for a place for 4 thirtysomethings to go (from Vancouver) for beach, sun, snorkeling, tropical life, that isn't Hawaii but similar, perhaps less developed/commericial, maybe cheaper? Thinking Belize, Panama, etc but little experience. Suggestions?
Too. Many. Wires.
Please help me figure out what I need for my new TV install! [more inside]
I figured out what it was, now where was it?
Where did I read Ursula K. LeGuin's short story "Solitude"? [more inside]
posted by endless_forms at 11:04 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by endless_forms at 11:04 AM PST - 8 comments
I also want the contract to include an ironclad "No Chicken Dance" clause.
I'm looking for Boston-area DJ for my wedding. How does one find a DJ (yes, the Google, but how do you pick)--particularly given that my fiancee and I have particular musical parameters (on the hipstery/dancey spectrum)? Feel free to post/MeMail particular recommendations. [more inside]
Google Books PDF Files
Why can't PDF files from Google Books downloaded via GooReader be modified in Adobe Acrobat? I need to modify the font size size so these books can be read on my Kindle. My copy of Acrobat Standard will not recognize these Google PDF files as editable. Why does Acrobat not recognize these PDF files?
Table top coffee milk steamer for cappuccino
Hey Guys,
I have a mypressi, which is a portable C02 powered espresso machine. It seems to work pretty good, but the included milk frother does not produce a true milk froth which you would expect to get when you order a cappuccino. I found the linked video on youtube and became intriqued with the steamer/water heater setup he was using. Does anyone know who manufactures that steamer? I have found a stove top model online while searching, but not the electric one used in the video. Any help would be awesome. Thanks guys and gals!
Youtube Video Link
~Craig
Plant tastes like mustard - is it?
Vivobarefoot Ra's in Austin?
Where can I find Vivobarefoot Ra shoes in Austin, TX? [more inside]
posted by mad bomber what bombs at midnight at 9:51 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by mad bomber what bombs at midnight at 9:51 AM PST - 2 comments
The Thing from Under the Baseboard.
Does anyone have any idea what the hell this is? I found it growing in my apartment. [more inside]
posted by Nyarlathotep at 9:37 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Nyarlathotep at 9:37 AM PST - 14 comments
Yes, and then the next number is?
How save is it to give your bank account information to a company for contract work? [more inside]
Giant Dymaxion Map
I can't find a high resolution dymaxion projection map. Assuming none exists, I'd like to make my own. How? [more inside]
posted by phrontist at 9:28 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by phrontist at 9:28 AM PST - 15 comments
Should I cut up the credit cards?
Please help me curb shopping impulses and addiction. Please share with me ideas on how to resist impulses to buy. [more inside]
posted by BlueMartini7 at 9:17 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by BlueMartini7 at 9:17 AM PST - 20 comments
Short Groupon?
Groupon went public last week. I've been eagerly anticipating this event for months now so that I can short the heck out of this dog. But now that it's arrived I find I'm unable to through my current brokerage Tradeking. I messaged their CS and they said it won't be available to short through them anytime soon. Does anyone have or know of a brokerage that is able to short it now? I would presume I might have better luck with a larger one like Etrade, but I'm not sure.
Yes, I'm aware of the risks of shorting. Don't worry, I'm not actually putting much money there. It's more for fun than anything.
thanks!
posted by grammalvsu at 9:12 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by grammalvsu at 9:12 AM PST - 15 comments
protein intake, how does it work?
How do I get enough protein on a moderate weight-lifting regimen without spending lots of money on food? [more inside]
Who is Eagleson and where did Eagleson's law originate?
Programmers soon learn that
“Any code of your own that you haven't looked at for six or more months might as well have been written by someone else.”This maxim, generally cited as “Eagleson's Law [of Programming]” (and often extended “Eagleson is an optimist; the real number is more like 3 weeks”) has been floating around the internet for ages*. But who is Eagleson, and where did this notion originally appear? [more inside]
I'll be watching my mashed potatoes closely, just in case.
Assuming it wasn't a UFO, what was the weird light shining in my window last night? [more inside]
VOKRA Commander Seeks Chemical Weapon
What would be the best way to subdue an urban skunk? [more inside]
posted by justsomebodythatyouusedtoknow at 8:48 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by justsomebodythatyouusedtoknow at 8:48 AM PST - 10 comments
How bad is it to address a person by their full name?
Is it unprofessional to address an email "Dear (full name)," ? [more inside]
posted by steinwald at 8:41 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by steinwald at 8:41 AM PST - 23 comments
Need to create a karaoke video, but I'm picky.
I'm looking for a piece of software that I can use to create a karaoke video with Japanese text that scrolls at a constant rate. [more inside]
Help me narrow my timeline down.
How do I track when an item was uploaded, not modified, in GoogleDocs?
Help me find the best PDF management software for a Pd.D researcher
Looking for the absolute best and (preferably) easiest way to manage thousands of PDFs as part of dissertation research. [more inside]
posted by arco at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by arco at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
Best books that started out as films?
Help me find examples: films that later became (better) books. [more inside]
Fonts needed for a Fallout style cardgame
What fonts to use for a Fallout, art deco, post-apocalyptic style Boardgame? [more inside]
posted by Cogentesque at 7:59 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Cogentesque at 7:59 AM PST - 7 comments
Books like *Misery* or *Phantom of the Opera*?
I am writing a story about an artist who is held captive on the condition of creating a work for the captor. I want to know what other works in the same sub-genre are like.
Can you suggest some books and movies with a similar motif, especially where a captive is expected to do something for the captor as a condition of their release?
Thanks!
Help me find this incest-baptism art piece.
I'm trying to find a piece of artwork I saw printed in a magazine. It was a detailed, life-like pencil sketch, or at least a primarily black and white image with some pink shadings. Subject matter revolved around skewed father-daughter relationships in evangelical Christianity. The piece showed multiple father and daughter figures layered upon each other stretching across the frame. No background. I think it was a baptism being performed, the father baptizing the daughter, and the father's erect penis is shaded in pink, transposed over the daughter's figure, portraying this baptism scene as an act an incest. Suffice to say, it's a controversial piece of art. I think the artist is a woman, and she may have done a series of pieces on a similar theme. I feel like I saw the piece printed in The Believer or Vice magazine, but I may have that wrong. Probably was printed two or three years ago. Anyone know this artist?
posted by margoc19 at 7:46 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by margoc19 at 7:46 AM PST - 2 comments
Small Mystery Critter in Our House...Help!
We have an unknown critter nibbling the fruit and tomatoes on a counter INSIDE our house (in Miami, Fl). It's hungry enough to eat most of the bait on a mouse trap (say, leaving only the skin on a small slice of pear, as it seems to like fruit), strong enough to somehow move what's left of the bait about 1.5 inches away from the trap, but agile/light enough to not be caught by the trap. No vermin poop nearby that I can see. Ideas what it could be and how to get rid of it? [more inside]
There must be a puzzle of a forest and a lake out there somewhere!
I need to find a jigsaw puzzle featuring a Hudson River School artist! [more inside]
Why do checks take so long to cash at the issuing bank?
Why do checks take so long to cash at the issuing bank? [more inside]
I'll make you famous. No, wait! You make me famous! Can we do that instead?
What have you liked enough about your digital music distribution choice to recommend it to others? [more inside]
posted by troywestfield at 7:18 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by troywestfield at 7:18 AM PST - 8 comments
Data rescure on an iphone when backup/restore doesn't work
Please help me salvage data on my perfectly functional iphone. How can I copy and restore data if ituens sync doesn't work? [more inside]
I want a coat I saw in a 34 year old zombie movie.
There is a coat I want. Difficulty level: it's the coat Francine wears in the 1978 George Romero movie Dawn of the Dead. [more inside]
posted by mygothlaundry at 7:05 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mygothlaundry at 7:05 AM PST - 13 comments
Am I to blame for hoping?
Am I to blame for how hurt I feel right now? Details within. [more inside]
How can I convince myself that I can actually make friends?
How can I stop feeling broken and try to make friends without baggage? [more inside]
Drugs drugs drugs, which are good, which are bad
Help me understand the risks of recreational drugs. [more inside]
Casual multiplayer games for the Xbox 360
Help me find casual multiplayer games for the Xbox 360. [more inside]
posted by salmacis at 5:15 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by salmacis at 5:15 AM PST - 13 comments
How could I have handled this situation better?
Please tell me how I could have handled this situation better.
I unintentionally got into an argument with a dog-walker at the park where I was conducting a running training session. I thought I handled the situation to the best of my ability, but my trainee told me that she thought I hadn't. So I wanted to ask your advice on how to deal with the same situation if it arose again. [more inside]
posted by Petrot at 4:35 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by Petrot at 4:35 AM PST - 34 comments
Is an undefined holiday allowance legal in the UK?
My boss wants to change my holiday allowance. Ignoring how good or bad a deal this is, is it actually legal? Does it have tax implications? [UK specific] [more inside]
Which one of these track and field records will be easiest for me to break?
Which one of these track and field records will be easiest for me to break? [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 4:09 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 4:09 AM PST - 18 comments
Use statistics to find cheaters
What would be a good statistical approach to find manipulated test results? [more inside]
How do I alter the sleeves on a sweater?
I have a long sleeved hot pink sweater that is kind of marmish looking. I think it could be made kickier with short sleeves, though. How would I go about altering it? [more inside]
posted by bluefly at 2:57 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by bluefly at 2:57 AM PST - 6 comments
home row hassle
Every keyboard I've ever used has had those little ridges on F and J (or D and K) to facilitate finding home row without looking at the keys. So why does my work keyboard have the ridges on G and K? Google is failing me. Is there a legit explanation for this or did I just get a factory defect with the ridges shifted one key to the right?
Wall poster maps with unusual projections
Where can I buy poster-style world maps with unusual projections? Or, is there somewhere I can get very high resolution printable images suitable for creating posters from? [more inside]
posted by dickasso at 2:51 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by dickasso at 2:51 AM PST - 3 comments
Wait, you knew the whole time and didn't tell us?!
I go to a California community college that writes course descriptions for every class it offers, but it doesn't display them on the actual class schedule. The college has an obscure web application (which I just found) that will give you the description if you enter in the course number, but it's barely advertised (it took me three semesters to find it). How do I go about getting the (much needed) course descriptions displayed with the class schedule? Is this an issue I need to join the ASB to get publicised? Is there another way to go about this? I want to make a stink, because for a year and a half now I've been dealing with inadequate or often nonexistent class descriptions which have made choosing the appropriate classes a challenge. [more inside]
migraines at 5am every morning for four days in a row, and I am a little freaked out
YNMD, but I just want to know how much I should freak out...
Since Friday, I've been getting a migraine every morning. Saturday morning, Sunday morning, and I woke up just now, with an aura. I quickly took the large dose of ibuprofen (1600 mg) I usually take right at the first sign of aura, and drank coffee. Now I am still feeling tightness in my head but it doesn't hurt.
I have always had migraines since when I was a kid, but never four consecutive days, and I am starting to worry. Should I go to a doctor? Did something explode in my brain? [more inside]
posted by atetrachordofthree at 2:16 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by atetrachordofthree at 2:16 AM PST - 23 comments
Favoured TV Recommendation Sites
So, where do people in the know go to find out what TV to buy? We're in the market after years and years of not having a TV and I am seriously ignorant of what to look for, what's recommended, et al. [more inside]
posted by qwip at 2:00 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by qwip at 2:00 AM PST - 12 comments
Trying to find others opposed to the cloud.
So...I abhor the growing popularity of cloud computing. Yes, I know I'm revealing my tinfoil hat here, but I want to know if there are advocacy or consumer groups I can support that oppose the spreading cloud? [more inside]
November 13
How to want a relationship, part II
Help me figure out what I may be missing by not seeking a relationship (28/M/hetero) [more inside]
posted by Talisman at 10:55 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by Talisman at 10:55 PM PST - 33 comments
Poignant poetry please
Suggestions for a poignant (but not depressing) poem to give on the occasion of a niece's christening? [more inside]
What actors should play JFK, RFK, MLK, Andrew Young, Bull Connor, George Wallace in a film?
What actors should play JFK, RFK, MLK, Andrew Young, Bull Connor, George Wallace in a film? I'm putting together a treatment for said film, and need to plug in suggested actors for the parts. [more inside]
Know any immigration lawyers in Kansai?
Can any of our Japan-based MeFites recommend an immigration lawyer in the Kansai area? [more inside]
Help me not have to sell a kidney to pay for a stupipd iPhone mistake
I just HUGELY went over my Verizon data allowance by streaming something LONG on my iPhone 4s. How screwed am I $$-wise? What should I know before going to the Verizon store first thing in the morning to beg for some kind of mercy? [more inside]
posted by Pirate-Bartender-Zombie-Monkey at 10:16 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Pirate-Bartender-Zombie-Monkey at 10:16 PM PST - 23 comments
How do I work with an interior designer?
Have you worked with an interior designer? [more inside]
posted by zagyzebra at 9:51 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by zagyzebra at 9:51 PM PST - 4 comments
How can I look sexier?
I can't really believe I'm asking this, but: what are some things I can do to look "sexier," in a heteronormative-woman kind of way? [more inside]
Don't Leave Me Hot and Hanging
How do I wire my new bathroom exhaust fan? The old fan has three functions (fan, light, nightlight) and therefore connects to a triple switch on the wall. It also means that there are two runs of wire to it. The new fan has only two functions (fan, light) and therefore only needs one run of wire. How do I wire this thing up; what do I do with the extra run of wire? [more inside]
posted by TinWhistle at 9:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by TinWhistle at 9:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Get me out of this city!
I'd like to ride the train from NYC to Wassaic the Wednesday before Thanksgiving, and I have some questions about the logistics of traveling on a holiday weekend. [more inside]
posted by R a c h e l at 8:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by R a c h e l at 8:51 PM PST - 9 comments
Bug head shots
Paging macro photographers. I need help taking great photographs of tiny bugs (sub-questions on eye-fi, focus stacking, and lighting). [more inside]
posted by babbyʼ); Drop table users; -- at 8:32 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by babbyʼ); Drop table users; -- at 8:32 PM PST - 3 comments
Wait, wait, you put a penny in... and it pees on you?
Help me find a Christmas present: an old bathroom ornament(?) that works when you put a penny in it. [more inside]
Flash crashes when I start it
Flash CS5 crashes during startup- any idea how to fix it? [more inside]
Hypothyroid, yes, hypoglycemic, yes, angioedemic, yes, hypokalemic, yes. Anorexic, no.
About a week ago I was diagnosed as hypokalemic by a Boston-based Masshealth doctor. Unfortunately, while treating the hypokalemia, the doc rode right over my medical context, which is to say long-standing hypothyroidism, angioedema, and hypoglycemia. Then, to add insult to injury, he decided I fit into the one medical box I don't actually fit into: Anorexia!
How do I replace this foolish doc, with a more analytical MassHealth-approved variety? And who knows something about some blend of the low potassium, high-swelling-and-inflammation, high-protein-or-crash, hypothyroid experience? [more inside]
"So much time, and so little to do! Strike that, reverse it."
What do we absolutely need to plan or know before going to Paris? [more inside]
posted by Terriniski at 6:41 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Terriniski at 6:41 PM PST - 32 comments
What should I eat before and after going to the gym?
What should I eat before and after going to the gym? My priorities are food that (1) won't make me feel like throwing up if eaten before an intense workout, (2) is nutritious and beneficial for a weight-training/cardio improvement regime, and (3) is inexpensive. Specific requirements inside. [more inside]
posted by grouse at 6:11 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by grouse at 6:11 PM PST - 25 comments
white person problems
Strikeout for the awakwrd guy
This is a follow up to my previous question. Made a move on a girl who I thought had some interest in me. I thought wrong, apparently... [more inside]
Books about growing up poor in the U.S.
I'm looking for books, nonfiction or fiction, that accurately and effectively discuss, portray, and/or meditate on the condition of specifically children, or perhaps more broadly families, being poor. Any ethnicity or cultural group, although I am primarily interested in relatively contemporary narratives, 1950 or later, more or less. [more inside]
posted by grokfest at 5:45 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by grokfest at 5:45 PM PST - 31 comments
Brighten up my cans, please
How can I brighten up the recessed "can" lights in my kitchen? [more inside]
posted by wenestvedt at 5:37 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by wenestvedt at 5:37 PM PST - 13 comments
Sturdily constructed spiral notebooks or pads with high-quality gridded paper: do they exist?
I find myself perpetually unsatisfied with all the notebooks and pads I have tried for general note-taking/writing/sketching/brainstorming. Please help me find the perfect brand of pad or notebook. [more inside]
Help me find writing online about people's experiences with mental illness
I'm hoping people can give me recommendations for compelling personal accounts of mental illness online - do you know of any? [more inside]
posted by namesarehard at 5:10 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by namesarehard at 5:10 PM PST - 19 comments
Canonical works of Spanish-language literature
I'd like to broaden my reading in Spanish, and would like recommendations for books, originally written in Spanish, which are canonical enough to have been on Spanish or Latin American high school reading lists, or canonical enough that someone educated in Spain or Latin America might assume familiarity. [more inside]
posted by Fiasco da Gama at 5:01 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Fiasco da Gama at 5:01 PM PST - 2 comments
red wine meets concrete..
New white concrete driveway, meet bottle of red wine. Please help me get the stain out! [more inside]
posted by needlegrrl at 4:44 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by needlegrrl at 4:44 PM PST - 23 comments
ProTips for academic job interviews - campus visit edition
As a follow up to last week's question about academic job talks, please enlighten me with best practices / pro tips on campus visits for academic positions. [more inside]
posted by k8t at 4:15 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by k8t at 4:15 PM PST - 21 comments
Should I still marry her?
Doubts about getting married after 15 years together. Please help. If you were with a woman for 15 years, you live together and were engaged but really wasn't sure if you wanted to marry her or get married at all for that matter would you feel differently about the whole relationship if the following things occurred: [more inside]
posted by WhatrightdoIhave2happiness at 3:46 PM PST - 92 comments
posted by WhatrightdoIhave2happiness at 3:46 PM PST - 92 comments
Gift for 10-14 year boy?
I'm buying a charitable gift for a 10-14 year old boy and need suggestions, please. [more inside]
posted by lost_cause at 3:36 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by lost_cause at 3:36 PM PST - 17 comments
Best place for classical sheet music?
Where's the best (cheapest) place to buy classical sheetmusic online? [more inside]
I like loops and beats. But what does one call them?
I like electronic music. But what kind would this be considered? [more inside]
Help me find this game!
Recent MeFi post about an quirky adventure game that I can't seem to find. [more inside]
posted by d1rge at 2:20 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by d1rge at 2:20 PM PST - 2 comments
What do you do when you're hit by someone without a driver's license or insurance?
My car was rear ended last night and it's starting to look like the guy who hit me does not have a driver's license or insurance. So I'm not really sure what my next move is. [more inside]
posted by dhammond at 2:19 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by dhammond at 2:19 PM PST - 20 comments
I think my roommate is underfeeding their puppy, what should I do?
I believe my roommate is underfeeding their dog, but I don't know how to address it. [more inside]
Running a wireless router off a Dell 24 switch router
Is it possible to run a Linksys WRT54G wireless router off a Dell 24 switch router? [more inside]
Talk to Me About Tiny Living
Have you downsized your possessions and "stuff"? Are you living in a small (very small) apartment, house, trailer, camper? Looking for tips, trick, hacks and general do's and dont's for downsizing and living smaller, simpler, cleaner. [more inside]
Ladies sing anthems
Help me find more "anthems" sung by women or female-fronted bands that will get happily stuck in a loop in my head. [more inside]
More Timesinks Needed
I've been sinking way too much time into indie game 'The Binding of Isaac'. Recommend some similar games that will run on a MacBook Pro. [more inside]
DBAN and KillDisk are foiled, now what?
I'm trying to prep a PC for donation/craigslist by wiping the drive. DBAN won't boot from the CD drive, and neither will KillDisk. [more inside]
posted by lvanshima at 1:51 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by lvanshima at 1:51 PM PST - 12 comments
Looking for food/travel comics
Looking for more comics/graphic novels like Lucy Knisley and Sarah Becan. [more inside]
Bluegrass for Dummies
I am not a habitual listener of bluegrass. However, I really, really like The Devil Makes Three. Can you recommend additional bands or artists I might like? [more inside]
We have stamps.
Antiques/stamp appraisers in NYC or vicinity? [more inside]
posted by functionequalsform at 1:08 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by functionequalsform at 1:08 PM PST - 1 comment
What is the significance of systolic high blood pressure that drops to normal after a few minutes of sitting?
What is the significance of systolic high blood pressure that drops to normal after a few minutes of sitting? [more inside]
posted by wireless at 1:02 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by wireless at 1:02 PM PST - 9 comments
Help creating a healthy kidspace!
Looking for a printed explanation to give to my son and ex-daughter in-law why using their kids as cudgels against the other is bad for the kids. [more inside]
posted by Pecantree at 12:50 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Pecantree at 12:50 PM PST - 7 comments
Why does a processor seemingly run slower as it ages over years?
Why does a processor seemingly run slower as it ages over years? [more inside]
I'll take Poorly Remembered Bands for 200, Alex
I'm trying to remember the name of a band. They make slow, trippy, synth-y pop songs that are almost ambient. I'm pretty sure they have a silly multi-word name, along the lines of Neutral Milk Hotel or Natural Snow buildings, though it isn't either of those. I remember getting a distinctly hippy/granola vibe from their album art and song titles. They're recent, from the 2000s. That's all I can remember. I lost my whole music library a while ago and their name has been on the tip of my tongue for months.
posted by Rinku at 12:21 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by Rinku at 12:21 PM PST - 44 comments
Wanted: Italian wine.
What are some of the best Italian wines? [more inside]
Name that tune!
Help me figure out this 60s song. [more inside]
Calculate Electric Cost
How much does my refrigerator cost to run per month? The info tag on the inside reads; 110-127 VAC, 60 HZ, 11.2 AMPS. It runs 24/7 and my NYC electric is charged at .1999 per KWH. Including the calculation in your answer would be appreciated. Thanks.
What vesion of Adobe air works with mac OSX 10.5.8?
This is a bit beyond my computer abilities...
I am running mac OSX 10.5.8. I am trying to find a version of adobe air that will run on my machine but am just having the hardest time locating or even finding out what version works with my OS. Some love here would be appreciated.
ID this watch?
Seeking a feast for the eyes. In video.
Looking for something to watch online. Qualifiers: beautiful, no plot, no script, more than a clip. [more inside]
it was so beautiful it hurt
Do you know any fiction/nonfiction/poetry that has beautiful, aching language? [more inside]
posted by pleasebekind at 9:33 AM PST - 66 comments
posted by pleasebekind at 9:33 AM PST - 66 comments
Weird foot injury
My foot seems to have been injured by my dress shoes. [more inside]
posted by prunes at 9:27 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by prunes at 9:27 AM PST - 22 comments
Treatment for white scar on face?
How can I maximize the health benefits of yogurt?
If roughly one hour lapses between the time I remove a container of yogurt from the refrigerated case at Whole Foods, to when I place it inside my fridge at home, does that temperature change kill off most of the live & active bacterial cultures? If I leave the container in the fridge unopened for a few more days, will they repopulate the container? Also, if acidophilus are "acid loving" bacteria, should I be eating yogurt after a big meal, instead of on an empty stomach?
posted by invisible ink at 9:10 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by invisible ink at 9:10 AM PST - 17 comments
Can't count on Santa Paws to bring good treats...
I'm looking for tried and true recipes for dog treats. I want to show my neph-dogs some love this holiday season with some homemade treats or biscuits, but I'm not sure I trust random googling. Any recommendations for doggie cookbooks or recipes that your pups have enjoyed? (I would also accept cat treat recipes!)
posted by firei at 9:06 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by firei at 9:06 AM PST - 12 comments
Pantech
Does anyone know how to disable automatic software updating on the AT&T Pantech Pursuit II? I already disabled data services to save money, but as a result the updater can't connect to the internet. Every 4-8 hours it reminds me and it's really annoying.
Husband calling escorts but probably not seeing them. What should I do?
My husband is calling "escorts" but I have no evidence he is meeting them and actually doubt he is. What do? [more inside]
Cut this person off OR stop being so judgemental?
Am I being too judgmental regarding this casual friendship? [more inside]
posted by HopperFan at 7:51 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by HopperFan at 7:51 AM PST - 35 comments
Independent blogs
Looking for some independent political blogs on US politics [more inside]
posted by rryan at 7:30 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by rryan at 7:30 AM PST - 12 comments
I'm being flogged publicly ..is my accuser handling it legally
I did the wrong thing...but do I have any rights in this situation? [more inside]
how do you not take it personal if someone doesn't want you in their life?
How do you not take it personal if someone doesn't seem to want you in their life? [more inside]
What to put in a holiday hamper for my vegetarian home cook friend?
I want to ship a holiday food package to my broke, vegetarian, home-cook friend. I need specific recommendations from cooking vegetarians and people on extreme budgets as to what items would be most appreciated. [more inside]
posted by xo at 6:13 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by xo at 6:13 AM PST - 43 comments
M$ Exchange to Google Apps Gmail: good idea?
Moving from Microsoft Exchange mail/contacts/calendar to Google Apps Gmail/contacts/calendar. Can you share your stories, please? [more inside]
Help me find anonymous/pseudonymous bloggers?
Can you help me find currently-active anonymous or pseudonymous bloggers? Niche is fine (e.g. mommybloggers, warbloggers, foodbloggers), but more popular/well-known is better. [more inside]
How does a girl find her style?
How do I find my 'look'? [more inside]
Namecalling by strangers
How should I have reacted to being called ugly in the street, in order to feel better now? What can I do now in order to feel better about it? [more inside]
Still I Rise
What is the connection (if any) between Niccolò Machiavelli and faked deaths? [more inside]
posted by iotic at 12:56 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by iotic at 12:56 AM PST - 2 comments
You have to do that thing with the thumb over the top and the little butt wiggle at the end.
The Secret Order of Employed Physicists: How did you get there? [more inside]
posted by Jilder at 12:12 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Jilder at 12:12 AM PST - 10 comments
November 12
Sprint stealth upgrade by adding/dropping lines
Has anyone ever added a line to their Sprint account to be able to upgrade their phone early? If so, how did it go? Any catches? [more inside]
posted by kindall at 10:03 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by kindall at 10:03 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me pick the right sized faucet adapter for my kitchen sink.
Help me pick the right sized faucet adapter for my kitchen sink. [more inside]
posted by Ephilation at 9:40 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Ephilation at 9:40 PM PST - 2 comments
What thin material to use for homemade insoles?
I want to make home-made insoles for my Vivo Barefoot boots. What material could I use that's non-cushioned and thin? [more inside]
iPad 2 like cover for iPad?
iPad 2 like iPad cover? I was on the train and saw a guy with an iPad. The cover folded over like an iPad 2 cover, with the difference being that the entire back was a plastic case that snapped on. Does anyone know where to find this?
posted by satyricaldude at 9:10 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by satyricaldude at 9:10 PM PST - 7 comments
Do I reveal my bankruptcy on loan app?
Do I have to reveal a bankruptcy that has fallen off my credit report when applying for a car loan.
My credit union is asking me directly if I have EVER declared bankruptcy on its loan application. I have waited till it dropped off to apply for a loan but the way it is worded has me worried. I have not filled out the app yet and was thinking it might be better to go in person and talk with someone. My credit score is 736 which I think is pretty good, but I am still worried about this question. Any experience with this anyone?
posted by cairnoflore at 9:05 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by cairnoflore at 9:05 PM PST - 14 comments
Stiff shoulder muscles that always want to stick together
When I shrug my shoulders or stretch my arms above my head after not moving around for a while I can feel/hear the muscles kind of schlicking apart as though the different muscles were kind of sticking together (no pain). This doesn't happen with any other muscles though. Anyone else get this? [more inside]
Neck pain, please help :(
This is getting ridiculous. All I want is relief and a normal neck/upper back again . Brace yourselves for a long story and my thanks in advance for any help :( [more inside]
posted by isoman2kx at 8:33 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by isoman2kx at 8:33 PM PST - 33 comments
[spoiler]: use highlighter pen to reveal
how do you emulate a [spoiler] tag on paper? [more inside]
I've made a huge tiny mistake
Should I run away from the job I just got because a to-be-coworker's wife is sending up danger signs? [more inside]
You're gone and that's it.
My estranged ex-husband committed suicide a month ago. I am unsure about whether I need grief counseling or not or how much good it's going to do me. [more inside]
T-Shirt Hunt
I am looking for this T-shirt, a cartoon of Mt. Vesuvius saying "Pompeii? I am sorry." I saw it in Naples, Italy while visiting, at a couple of stores - one of them was the store at the Archaeological Museum. Can anyone tell me where I can find or buy it online?
I need more cushion for the... oh, never mind.
It's cold outside! Help me find some wintertime shoes [or inserts], that aren't crocs. All sorts of feet problems and style nitpickiness inside. [more inside]
Google Voice Account Lost
I can no longer access my Google Voice account. I had a phone number set up for it, and I thought I knew which username was associated with it, but when I log into my Google account it no longer has my Google Voice information. How can I figure out what account has my Google Voice number? [more inside]
posted by arniec at 6:53 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by arniec at 6:53 PM PST - 3 comments
How do you "out-reason" the lizard brain?
How do you "out-reason" the lizard brain? [more inside]
Should I continue giving my baby breast milk, even if it's just a little?
Should I continue giving my baby breast milk, even if it's just a little? [more inside]
The Helvetica of the terminal?
Help me find a truly beautiful fixed-width typeface that scream TERMINAL and that doesn't cost me a comical sum of money! [more inside]
posted by ooklala at 6:25 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ooklala at 6:25 PM PST - 14 comments
Night cream recommendations for sensitive eyes?
Need recommendations for a night cream that won't make my eyes itch. [more inside]
Calling all geologists! Help us identify a mystery rock.
Great big gods, teeny tiny temples!
Why did all the supposed-to-be-massive sets in Immortals 3D look tiny? Did it have something to do with the fact that it's a 3D conversion? It was like the whole thing was shot in tilt-shift. [more inside]
Reference Books to Write a Thriller
I am wanting to write a novel involving detective work and criminal profiling. (Yes, it may turn out horrid.) I am looking for some reference books that might help me be a little bit more informed. So far, I have gotten Criminal Profiling by Brent Turvey, and Body Trauma by David Page. Anybody have some recommendations?
posted by snap_dragon at 4:24 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by snap_dragon at 4:24 PM PST - 11 comments
How to properly thank a friend
How to thank someone? [more inside]
Can you tell me more about this Georgian folk song?
Anyone from Georgia around (not the one in the south - the one in the Caucasus). I am fascinated by this Georgian folk song, which I think is somehow related to this piece by Tsintsadze because the melody structure seem a little similar and (I think) they share a name, "sachidao". That's all I know, and I really like this song. If you're Georgian, or just happen to know Georgian folk music, can you tell me more about it? [more inside]
How to compress recorded HDTV
I have a Hauppauge WinTV950Q USB tuner that I use to watch over-the-air television (usually HD) on my laptop. I have tried to record shows (using the WinTVv7 software), but the files it creates are enormous .ts files, ~10GB per hour or more, which I can't save/burn/share. How do I compress these to some usable size? I've often watched TV shows which are ~500MB/h and the quality doesn't seem too degraded.
posted by pjenks at 4:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by pjenks at 4:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Logistics of collecting school funds for a teenager who will otherwise be married off
I am putting together a donation webpage, trying to raise tuition for a young woman in Nepal, and am looking for suggestions on the best way to go about it. [more inside]
I don't want the darn credit card!
Recently was pre-approved for a home equity line of credit. Local banker then aggressively pushed signing up for the bank's credit card touting all its benefits, blah-blah-blah....I told her I didn't want it. She fedexes me some docs to sign for the heloc and mixed in with that paperwork is a credit card application and highlighted areas to sign. I removed the credit card papers, signed the heloc papers, and sent them back. I then emailed her to tell her what I did, reiterating that I didn't want the credit card. A couple of days later I get a canned thank you from the bank for signing up for the credit card. I immediately got a hold of the banker and she apologized saying that when she was "in the system" putting through my heloc papers she accidentally signed me up for the credit card and as soon as she noticed she did that she cancelled the card and assured me I would not be receiving any cards in the mail...Today my wife and I each received a credit card in the mail. Is the banker's explanation plausible? How could she sign me up without me returning the application's papers? Am I being played? What should I request be done to ensure this acct gets cancelled? Could this all have been an honest mistake?
Get me running please.
I'm 30 lb overweight because of depression. I want to start running. Tell me what running shoes I need, what running Apps. [more inside]
What to do one night in Tech Valley? (not from the west coast)
What to do one night in Tech Valley? (not from the west coast) [more inside]
Paint it white
We painted over stained woodwork, but the stain is showing through. Where do we go from here? [more inside]
posted by mjcon at 3:28 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by mjcon at 3:28 PM PST - 11 comments
Learning to cook, ready for next step
Should I try to be friends again?
Should I try to reconnect with someone I went No Contact with? It's been a couple of months and the person is depressed and isolated. [more inside]
Health insurance is hard; let's go shopping!
[Massachusetts filter] Anyone have any experience with Tufts medical plan and getting Wellbutrin XL (or any other brand-name psychiatric meds with generic equivalents) covered by them? [more inside]
Info about Tattoo Culture?
I'm going to be getting a tattoo or two within the next few months. However, I'm also going to Japan at some point next year to live there for 2+ years. What all should I know? [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:31 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:31 PM PST - 13 comments
Serving Papers To Larger Corporation. Who Do I Serve It To Locally and Where Can I find Them
Filing a case in California Small Claims court versus large corporation on East Coast. How do I find a local representative to whom I can serve the papers. [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 1:26 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by goalyeehah at 1:26 PM PST - 8 comments
Spacing Out
What nonfiction book or paper must I read to write a convincing story about an interstellar journey on a generation ship? [more inside]
posted by Forbidden Equine Dentistry at 1:20 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Forbidden Equine Dentistry at 1:20 PM PST - 7 comments
'Cause life would take a whole new meaning in b/w
Is it possible to make "black and white" glasses? [more inside]
How to save money and enjoy a trip to Bremen, Germany?
Planning to attend a language course in Bremen, Germany early next year. Need extensive MeFi advice/help! [more inside]
posted by naskar at 1:09 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by naskar at 1:09 PM PST - 14 comments
How to watch Nov. 17 Jets vs. Broncos game in NYC
NY Jets/NFL Network issue. The Jets play the Denver Broncos on Thursday, Nov. 17. The game will be broadcast by the NFL Network. My cable provider, Time Warner, does not carry the NFL Network. What are my options for watching the game? I am in Manhattan. Thanks.
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 12:49 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 12:49 PM PST - 14 comments
Do u need UL to sell electronic goods in U.S.?
Can AC powered vacuum cleaners (500watt) legally sold in U.S. only with FCC certification without UL or NRTL..? [more inside]
Who nearly crashed himself & his son & wrote about it?
Who wrote about a change in perspective due to a near-miss in a private airplane he was piloting? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 11:57 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by morganw at 11:57 AM PST - 6 comments
Point me to a good electric pencil sharpener!
I'm looking for a good electric pencil sharpener--preferrably one that accepts multiple sizes/shapes, but I'd settle for one that sharpens standard pencils excellently. [more inside]
posted by lirael2008 at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by lirael2008 at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
GMail not working with Firefox?
Kid n play n Cat
Adopting a kitty... Tips/advice for helping the new cat (9 months) and boy (4 year-old) adjust. [more inside]
posted by bodega at 9:59 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by bodega at 9:59 AM PST - 25 comments
You'd think I'd get twice the podcasts, but instead I'm getting none.
In the last few weeks, I suddenly have *two* Podcasts categories in my iTunes - and when I try to update the original one, my iTunes crashes. My google fu would indicate this is a rather rare problem. Help? [more inside]
posted by Ash3000 at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Ash3000 at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
Changed Chimp Social Behavior?
Changed chimp social behavior -- did I imagine this? Need chimp enthusiast or someone who can google better than I. [more inside]
posted by kestralwing at 9:18 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by kestralwing at 9:18 AM PST - 5 comments
How To Update a Static Photo Site on Amazon S3?
So, I have a little Wordpress site on Media Temple for photos. Nothing else, just photos. No blog posts, no comments, etc. It's occurred to me that it's really a static site. And static sites can be hosted on Amazon S3.
I can handle building the site locally and moving it up to S3. But, I'm wondering about updates. It seems to me that if I build a site locally, publish it to S3, that I can do updates by synching S3 with my local file system. Right?
Has anyone done this? Are there apps specifically geared to publishing and maintaining sites on S3?
This must be, like, seventeenth-wave feminism.
Women of AskMe, what does pinching a man's ass mean and/or how should one react to such an event? [more inside]
Teak stain prevention?
How do I prevent stains on my newly purchased teak desk? [more inside]
posted by beerbajay at 7:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by beerbajay at 7:20 AM PST - 10 comments
Hiring Black High School Math Teachers
I am the chair of a high school math department in the Chicagoland area (north of Chicago). Our school population is 7% black. Our teacher population is 0% black. I'd like very much to hire a top-notch black math teacher. This teacher would round out our school in many ways, not the least of which being acting as a role model to the 7% of our students. I have tried working through the NAACP, the NABSE, and local college job fairs. So far I have come up with nothing. Any suggestions for what I should do to get more resumes from black high school math teachers?
Let's Swap
If you have two identical computers, can you simply take the hard drive out of one and put it into the other? [more inside]
I have some old electronic car keys. What can I do with them?
I have some old electronic car keys. What can I do with them? [more inside]
Money advice concerning division of investments in anticipation of divorce
Who or what should I be searching for as I attempt to get advice on how to equitably divide mutual funds, IRAs and TSP accounts in anticipation of a separation/divorce agreement? [more inside]
Fresh and Fruity in the UK
I need help choosing a perfume gift for my Sister. [more inside]
Off-season candy corn in Los Angeles
Where can I buy candy corn in Los Angeles, this weekend? Preferably convenient to Pasadena/Burbank? Difficulty: don't want to experiment by making my own, and buying it online will be too slow.
posted by Xere at 12:43 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Xere at 12:43 AM PST - 14 comments
November 11
What type of music is this and where can I find more?
I'm looking for recommendations or suggestions for music that is similar to Pegasus by Bear McCreary from the second season of Battlestar Galactica. [more inside]
Should I be coming down with the flue?
Our new apartment (in Oakland, CA, if that matters) has a functional fireplace. Yay! Every other fireplace I've ever been around had a chain or handle of some kind to pull to open the flue. There's nothing of the sort here. Boo! Is this some kind of strange California fireplace without a flue? How can I tell? [more inside]
posted by mostlymartha at 10:04 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by mostlymartha at 10:04 PM PST - 24 comments
Regret, turned down job offer, Will the hiring manager consider me for future openings?
Regret of declining a job offer, I want to know how the Hiring Manager perceived me? Will I be considered for future opportunity? [more inside]
Where to donate clothes to do the most good?
I recently lost a bunch of weight, and I have a lot of clothes that don't fit, some of which are pretty nice. What is the best place to donate them? I know Goodwill, Salvation Army, etc., will take them, but does anyone have a sense of which national organization or local outfit in Sacramento, CA, would be best? [more inside]
Trying to find new-type winter tires to fit older car
I know very little about car tires. Having problems finding a Blizzak-type winter tire, and retailer of same, for lady friend's older car. Advice gratefully accepted! [more inside]
posted by Alaska Jack at 9:04 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 9:04 PM PST - 13 comments
Wakeup, dammit!
Google has failed me. How do I stop my external Toshiba USB drive from going to sleep on its own when connected to my iMac file server? [more inside]
Help me find a word for "quick to perceive"
What are some words that mean "quick to perceive/discern," "sound judgment," or "keen-minded?" [more inside]
posted by melancholyplay at 8:29 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by melancholyplay at 8:29 PM PST - 27 comments
Not sure why, but I have a case of brain freeze with this one.
Looking for examples of legal clauses in Terms of Use that everyone ignores -- both the clients and the vendor. [more inside]
posted by woodman at 7:58 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by woodman at 7:58 PM PST - 9 comments
I can't just stop thinking, though that would probably fix things.
Breaking out of habitually intellectualizating my feelings - I'm looking for a how-to guide of some sort. Preferably not all about mindfulness. [more inside]
Can I make a sexy video and keep my job?
I'm making a sexy video for someone, but want to make sure there's no way it could be traced back to me if he shares it. Keeping my face/identifying marks off screen (obviously), but what about technologically? Recording with iSight on my macbookpro, maybe an edit or 2 in iMovie, then send the file thru gmail. Will anyone be able to trace it back to this macbook? [more inside]
Help me quit smoking, again, without messing up my insurance.
A discount on insurance for non-smokers? Great! Fast forward a couple of years and I've started again and want to talk to my doctor about quitting. [more inside]
tethering or usb modem?
Have an iPhone 4, and can add tethering for $20 a month with no contract. Or, I can get a 4G USB card for $50 with a 2 year contract (and refurbished USB modem). Which? [more inside]
Just call me Ranchy Pants
I am traveling, and a waitress just dropped an entire tub of ranch dressing onto my jeans. I am staying in a hotel, I do not have a car, and I do not have easy access to a store. Is there any reason I should hesitate to wash my pants with the bar of hand soap in my hotel room?
posted by wondercow at 7:13 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by wondercow at 7:13 PM PST - 23 comments
Help mr.p find a book, please
A work of fiction (preferably) that takes place in Beunos Aires? mr. p offers bonus points for anything having to do with astronomy or railroads.
I get it, John Jameson was a stud. What does this mean though?
What does this Jameson whiskey ad I saw on the subway mean? [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 6:54 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by sweetkid at 6:54 PM PST - 23 comments
Snorkeling 101
Anyone who has been snorkeling before...please enlighten us. [more inside]
Making iPhone Camera Focus Past Glass
I'm trying to make a video of a road trip with my iPhone 4. But the camera keeps focusing on the windshield, rather than on the unfolding landscape.
Help?
posted by Quisp Lover at 6:35 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 6:35 PM PST - 6 comments
Is Dropbox Safe
I work for medium sized non profit and know only a modest amount about IT. This wouldn't be a problem were it not for the fact that among my responsibilities is running IT (long story). [more inside]
posted by TheShadowKnows at 6:13 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by TheShadowKnows at 6:13 PM PST - 10 comments
Pull Up/Chin up Bar - standalone
Looking for a solid, light, and inexpensive standalone chin up, pull up bar. [more inside]
Aggravating a cold - possible?
Can drafts, wetness (shower, cold tiles, etc.) aggravate a cold? [more inside]
posted by victors at 5:40 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by victors at 5:40 PM PST - 2 comments
How can I tell if CashCrate is legit?
Any good sub $400 used dslrs for online product shots?
I need a good, used dslr for my online (Etsy) product shots. Hoping to pay $400 or less (including lens). Looking for advance on both camera/lens & where I should be searching to purchase. [more inside]
posted by ogunther at 5:03 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by ogunther at 5:03 PM PST - 11 comments
Private cataract surgery in Canada
How much does private cataract surgery cost in B.C.? [more inside]
posted by problemspace at 4:25 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by problemspace at 4:25 PM PST - 6 comments
Should we go from suck to blow?
We just had an energy audit done for our 104 year old house and 3/4 of the heat loss was coming from the uninsulated walls. I was advised to get cellulose insulation. I've heard bad things about blowing insulation into old houses like mine, but the auditor said it would be densely packed and not be a problem. I've been reading up and haven't been able to find any definitive answers. Is it okay to have cellulose insulation blown in to my old house if it is densely packed?
Hope Me. What does it mean?
Did my grandma really take on the whole British government?
Please help me try to find information about my grandmother and her suit against the UK in post WWII. [more inside]
posted by boobjob at 4:01 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by boobjob at 4:01 PM PST - 9 comments
My friend and roommate is driving me crazy, and it makes me feel like a bad person!
How can I help my very depressed roommate/old friend without being dragged down into her vortex of drama? [more inside]
YaBOOOO! Or, convince me that Gmail is all that.
I have had Yahoo! email for 15 years, but their newest upgrade is driving me away. For some reason, Gmail just irritates me. [more inside]
where to fly on New Year's cheap?
I want to take off for three weeks over New Year's, and open to go pretty much anywhere as long as the flight is cheap. suggestions? is there a website/service that allows you to search for cheap flights anywhere given specific dates?
Milk first or cereal first?
Milk first or cereal first? [more inside]
Help me retake control of my bookmarks.
Since upgrading from Firefox 4 to 8, the dropdown menu on my bookmarks is too wide to use. [more inside]
How do I deal with limerence for a total stranger?
How do I deal with limerence for a total stranger? [more inside]
How long is this going to last?
I gave birth about 3 weeks ago to my first baby (yay!). Unfortunately, though, it was a very difficult delivery and I ended up with a third degree tear to my perineum. I am still in pain and was just wondering if others who had severe tears could let me know their recovery experiences and timelines. [more inside]
ls output scrolling off the screen
Unix shell ls command: the output scrolls off the screen a lot of the time, so I find myself doing ls | less. There's probably an easier way to get ls to pause and wait at the end of every screenful of output. Could you tell me what it is? Sorry if this is a dumb question.
Can my landlord's father take over his job?
My landlord is also one of my housemates. His dad is apparently taking over the landlord duties, but he (the father) is not listed on my lease. Today there was an unsigned notice up that my rent will now be either mailed or deposited into a specific bank account. What should I do to make sure I am covered in this situation? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 1:50 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 1:50 PM PST - 6 comments
Outfoxed.
According to the Grey Lady, Fox is broadcasting the Velasquez vs. dos Santos UFC bout tomorrow. For the cable-tv-deprived, is there any way to access this fight online? [more inside]
AUTOCAD - Why won't my inserted block change to the color of the layer I've put it in?
I inserted a product block into an AutoCAD drawing that I downloaded from the manufacturer's website. I moved it to the layer I want, but it won't 'take' the color of that layer. What gives? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 1:04 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lovableiago at 1:04 PM PST - 5 comments
Baggy-bottomed sweaters look awful on my formerly baggy bottom
I've shaped up and lost a number of inches, mostly in the hip area. Yay. But now my sweaters that otherwise still fit are baggy at the bottom. For some reason, the bagginess is most pronounced in the back and they look awful. Is there a way, short of putting the inches back on, to make them more form-fitting at the bottom? [more inside]
A question about how to get a job where people will ask me questions.
MeFi Librarians, I've been working in tech services so long that I don't remember how to talk to patrons. Please help me prepare for a reference librarian interview next week. [more inside]
posted by sk932 at 12:40 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by sk932 at 12:40 PM PST - 5 comments
Help me move into a new Mac!
Being neither satisfied with a laptop nor a desktop I have decided to ditch my iMac, get a refurb Macbook Pro with a Henge dock and I have some questions regarding the new Macbook, the migration, and what to do with the iMac: [more inside]
is it just this yoga studio, or is Bikram not for me?
Is Bikram yoga taught exactly the same everywhere, word for word? Is everything about Bikram super strict? Was my experience at the yoga studio typical? [more inside]
Eligible for Unemployment?
I am teaching at a college in SF. I have SIX weeks off without pay between semesters. I am eligible to collect unemployment during this time? [more inside]
Studying whether I'm doing it wrong
I'm interested in learning about the experience of watching a movie from other people's perspectives. Do most people become fully absorbed into the movie's story, or remain slightly aloof and analyze the construction of the movie, or varying levels of both, but at what levels? [more inside]
Wedding Venue
Looking for ideas on venues for a small wedding. [more inside]
Body to Tired for Brain to Work
I started a very tiring full-time job for the Christmas season 2 weeks ago, and need hacks to help me concentrate on the college courses I'm taking during nights and weekends. [more inside]
Music that keeps you happy and focused
What's your favorite uplifting, nondistracting (no or minimal vocals!) background music? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 11:24 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by sunnychef88 at 11:24 AM PST - 40 comments
What procedure will kill my eye vein?
I went to a ENT/facial surgeon recently for something unrelated, and I asked the doctor, who also does facial plastic surgery, what I could do about a large vein I have under my right eye. He had me speak with a woman in the office, and she told me, after looking at my vein(s), about a procedure for veins like mine (not spider veins) wherein they inject saline into the vein and then it goes away. What procedure is that? How much does it cost? Do you have a recommendation for a place in Philadelphia, PA? [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 11:15 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 11:15 AM PST - 12 comments
Do we need to repaint to get our deposit back?
We're moving out of our San Francisco apartment after 6.5 years. We painted one wall orange. After mentioning to a few people that we were bummed that we wouldn't have time to repaint it and thus would get a ding to our security deposit, they all said that after a certain amount of time, we weren't responsible for repainting.
What are the laws on this? Checked the San Francisco Tenants Union and Housing Rights Committee sites, but didn't see any info. Would one or the other be better to call, or can anyone point us to the information?
posted by jaybeans at 11:03 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by jaybeans at 11:03 AM PST - 10 comments
No more staticky coffee grounds
What can I do to reduce static cling on my glass coffee grinder hopper so less coffee sticks to the sides and makes a big mess? [more inside]
posted by leahwrenn at 11:00 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by leahwrenn at 11:00 AM PST - 20 comments
Blow my Canadian mind
What's the best darned NEW Canadian music you've heard in the last six months? [more inside]
posted by philip-random at 10:45 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by philip-random at 10:45 AM PST - 34 comments
Anti-bacterial? What if they want to live too?
Some products such as ball point pens are touted as being anti-bacterial or as having an anti-bacterial coating. How is this possible? How long does it last? Is it really worth it? [more inside]
posted by Drasher at 10:38 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Drasher at 10:38 AM PST - 9 comments
Help us get through Kansas
Road trip info needed. The long bit across Kansas to Colorado, anything I should be particularly aware of except for the anticipated total boredom part? [more inside]
posted by 543DoublePlay at 10:29 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by 543DoublePlay at 10:29 AM PST - 20 comments
iTunes Is Eliminating My Songs And I'd Like Them Back!
iTunes missing tracks filter: What can I do when I see the exclamation mark beside a song in iTunes and when I click on the song, I get the message "Song X could not be used because the original file could not be found. Would you like to locate it?" Then, of course, it can't find it.
So I have two questions about this:
1. How can I find the songs that are currently tagged with that exclamation mark? I *know* I haven't deleted them.
2. How do I prevent this from happening in the future?
Tech details: Windows 7,about 17,000 songs, if that matters.
I'm sorry if this seems elementary, but I can't seem to find a straightforward answer to this in the forums.
Thank you *so much* everyone for bearing with me with this simple (but screamingly frustrating) question.
posted by purplesludge at 10:14 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by purplesludge at 10:14 AM PST - 14 comments
Next stop, rhabdo city?
Is this Crossfit workout absurd? [more inside]
Acceptable Lead Time for Grad School Rec Letters?
Is it too late to ask for grad school recommendation letters due January 1? [more inside]
Home stereo amp: Tripath?
Looking for a small home-stereo amp. Tripath or something else? [more inside]
posted by mendel at 9:27 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mendel at 9:27 AM PST - 3 comments
Trouble seeing red/green 3-d images while wearing glasses
Does anyone else have trouble watching 3-d films? [more inside]
posted by jb at 9:09 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by jb at 9:09 AM PST - 19 comments
Photography School in New York or London?
My Korean friend wants to major in photography, either in New York or London. She thinks London is better for photojournalism, and is enticed by easy access to the rest of Europe. She believes New York is better for fashion photography, but that's about it. Does anyone have firsthand knowledge about this? [more inside]
Is Cheap(er) Lodging in Oslo, Norway Possible?
Refresh iTunes cover art?
I'm using Mp3tag to add cover art to many music files that I have already imported into iTunes. Is there any way to get iTunes to recognize that new cover art without deleting the music files from the iTunes library and then re-importing them?
Bird on The Big Bang Theory
Can anyone identify the bird that was on The Big Bang Theory last night - it was identified on the show as a Blue Jay but it certainly didn't look like any Blue Jay I have ever seen.
Help me find the spirit of Texas
Suggestions for unique spirits specifically from Texas. Open to Rum, Gin, Rye and Whisky [more inside]
posted by MarvinJ at 7:24 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by MarvinJ at 7:24 AM PST - 14 comments
This t-shirt is the best t-shirt.
Do Alternative Earth shirts feel any different than standard Alternative Apparel shirts? Which graphic tee companies print on Alternative Apparel/Earth shirts? [more inside]
Darker and more menacing than Tool?
Who's darker and more menacing than Tool? No ROHHROHHROHHROHHHHH death metal recommendations, please. Otherwise, go nuts. [more inside]
posted by AugieAugustus at 6:50 AM PST - 54 comments
posted by AugieAugustus at 6:50 AM PST - 54 comments
Why are Chimps So Strong?
How is it chimps are stronger than humans? [more inside]
posted by musofire at 6:41 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by musofire at 6:41 AM PST - 13 comments
What rocks trap and hold heat best?
What kind of rocks collect, hold and release heat best? [more inside]
It said F: drive! I swear!
A windows drive mapping error has ruined my day. Please please please tell me there's some way to recover my data. [more inside]
Help me answer this support question in Japanese.
Help me answer this support question in Japanese. [more inside]
posted by artlung at 6:32 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by artlung at 6:32 AM PST - 8 comments
"Computer programmer seeks new challenges"
I have a good computer science degree and about 4 years' experience as a programmer. What other jobs can I do? [more inside]
Am I over reacting about my wife's job?
Am I over reacting about my wife's job? [more inside]
posted by Hellafiles at 6:10 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by Hellafiles at 6:10 AM PST - 49 comments
Tell me about Tetralogy of Fallot and how it affected you.
Our son couldn't wait another two or three weeks to come out of his mums tummy so he popped out on Tuesday morning. But he's had a rough first few days of life. There's numerous issues, the most serious of which is a heart defect (teratology of fallot). Tell us it's going to be OK, drawing on your experience with this to help reassure us. [more inside]
posted by Effigy2000 at 5:40 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Effigy2000 at 5:40 AM PST - 20 comments
What should I get a girl who is in the hospital?
A girl at work is going to have surgery. What can I get her to cheer her up? [more inside]
posted by xmts at 3:26 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by xmts at 3:26 AM PST - 20 comments
You mean these are all boxes of *books*?
I have, literally, tons of books. I need to move them from the Netherlands to the UK. Help! [more inside]
posted by ManyLeggedCreature at 2:48 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ManyLeggedCreature at 2:48 AM PST - 11 comments
Parallel Versions Forever?
Your country uses A4 paper. When you encounter files on the web that are only available in US Letter format, how much does that inconvenience you and/or annoy you? (And does it inconvenience you more if you want to print these files?) [more inside]
posted by kalapierson at 1:47 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by kalapierson at 1:47 AM PST - 18 comments
Math help!
Homework help!? Solving a second-order linear ODE. [more inside]
posted by btfreek at 1:47 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by btfreek at 1:47 AM PST - 3 comments
How do I get music with a full stereo track?
How can I find song files that are in full stereo? [more inside]
Examples of highly-rationalized dystopias?
Examples of highly-rationalized dystopias? [more inside]
Zombie computer?
Apparently my laptop is a zombie. Do I need to do something about this? Complication: I'm in middle-of-nowhere Russia until next fall. [more inside]
posted by toesock at 12:58 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by toesock at 12:58 AM PST - 12 comments
November 10
Cutting hours that have already been scheduled?
What are the regulations or laws in California relating to employers sending you home from work (because it's slow) after your hours have already been scheduled? [more inside]
Anyone Know Where to Find Generic Ink Cartridges?
I have an older Canon inkjet printer (ip8500) that has been very reliable. However, it really gripes my tush every time I have to pay a fortune for replacement cartridges that don’t seem to last much past the time they come out of their wrapper. [more inside]
posted by konig at 11:21 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by konig at 11:21 PM PST - 10 comments
Can you mix chlorine with juice mix without any problems?
We are creating a tablet that purifies water and delivers a nutritious "juice". However we are designers, not chemists, and we need some basic guidance.
Would it be problematic to combine chlorine (or preferably, a safer purification chemical) with a vitamin-based juice powder or liquid? Are there any health dangers to consider with this mixture? [more inside]
posted by thebigpoop at 10:51 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by thebigpoop at 10:51 PM PST - 22 comments
Hanging hats in Salem
Any tips on apartment hunting is Salem, Oregon? [more inside]
Oh Mr. President!
I heard something like this. Abraham Lincoln said he wanted to paint the bathroom green and his wife wanted to paint it yellow "so we compromised and painted it yellow". Did anything like this ever happen? Who? Where? When? I have a friend who would like to use this in a wedding speech. My google fu fails me.
posted by snowjoe at 10:22 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by snowjoe at 10:22 PM PST - 10 comments
Insulating a small brick area.
How can I insulate under my front door? [more inside]
I wish I could see you more often.
My life is very, very busy. My wife and daughter and I have decided that for the time being, we'll make some sacrifices, mainly in terms of time, to realize some important things for our family. What sorts of things can I do for them, in the "in-between" moments when scurrying around, that will let them know how much I appreciate and am thinking about them? [more inside]
How do "molecular odor eliminators" work?
How do "molecular odor eliminators" work? [more inside]
posted by macinchik at 8:43 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by macinchik at 8:43 PM PST - 4 comments
Finding a good motorcycle or scooter mechanic in Arizona?
Finding a good motorcycle or scooter mechanic in Arizona? Web directory with customer reviews? [more inside]
Looking for a specific blog, how strong is your GoogleFu?
Trying to find a specific article on a blog written by a woman who was formally obese, might have been linked to in a comment on Metafilter. [more inside]
posted by LOLcat at 8:41 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by LOLcat at 8:41 PM PST - 4 comments
Help a nerdy girl learn R-programming
Anyone know of good online or in-person (in the Philadelphia) training options for R statistical programming? [more inside]
posted by moshimosh at 8:11 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by moshimosh at 8:11 PM PST - 4 comments
Right place, right time?
Right place, right time? [more inside]
What is this dog breed?
Trying to figure out what breed of dog this is. It is pure white with long hair like a Maltese but the ears stick up straight like a Yorkie. Is it a mixed breed, or is this an obscure pure breed I don't know about? [more inside]
How do I put a CD onto an iPod?
What tool, perhaps something besides iTunes, can I use to rip CDs I own and put them onto my iPod? [more inside]
Connect action figure with movie
Trying to remember a movie/tv show connected with an action figure I had as a child [more inside]
posted by AMWKE1984 at 7:41 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by AMWKE1984 at 7:41 PM PST - 6 comments
Time Capsure vs Network Accessible Storage
What is the right apple/mac storage solution for me? [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 7:39 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 7:39 PM PST - 8 comments
Bible Belt Exploration
Help me navigate this area and tell me some good locations for day or weekend trips within a 200 mile radius of where I currently live (East Tennessee).... Tired of Gatlinburg and the 500 candy shops they have. [more inside]
posted by KogeLiz at 7:26 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by KogeLiz at 7:26 PM PST - 9 comments
How can I show a totally awesome teenager how proud I am of her?
How can I show a totally awesome teenager how proud I am of her? [more inside]
posted by brynna at 6:39 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by brynna at 6:39 PM PST - 17 comments
Will Skyrim run on my machine?
Can I run Elder Scrolls: Skyrim on my laptop? [more inside]
posted by juniperesque at 6:25 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by juniperesque at 6:25 PM PST - 6 comments
Formula for calculating mortgage principal over time
Financial maths experts, mortgage brokers, bank employees: I need a formula for calculating expected mortgage principal owing at a given sale date, please. (Explanation inside.) [more inside]
posted by aeschenkarnos at 6:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by aeschenkarnos at 6:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Brownie just won't cut it!
I need the best solution for storing my CD's in a possible damp environment!
I am looking for sturdy plastic CD storage units. [more inside]
What's this story called?
Please help me find a story i read about 10 years ago.
In a dystopian world, criminals are not locked up, but instead are marked and ordinary people are not allowed to interact with them. [more inside]
posted by revikim at 5:02 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by revikim at 5:02 PM PST - 7 comments
I Need Motivational Help!
I've asked here about HOW to budget for a family, but darn it, I can't bring myself to do it! I need help. (Perhaps psychological help.) [more inside]
What phone would suit me best?
Can you help me find a phone to fit these needs? - Verizon network, decent camera, flip/clamshell design (or otherwise butt-dial proof), no data plan required, and good build quality. [more inside]
What hilarious thing gets you kicked out of heaven?
I need help making a list of sins -- the funnier the better. [more inside]
posted by Pwoink at 4:28 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Pwoink at 4:28 PM PST - 32 comments
Home art studio space suggestion.
Suggestions please for an artist's sink/counter in my new downstairs studio. [more inside]
Roberto Bolaño Left Us Hanging
I am seeking the manner in which Argentine poet Angela Caputo died. Read on... [more inside]
posted by agathafrye at 4:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by agathafrye at 4:09 PM PST - 6 comments
Fill my head with words!
Yet another "what is a good podcast for (X)" question! Whee! [more inside]
posted by pdb at 4:02 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by pdb at 4:02 PM PST - 14 comments
I'd rather have a pot of money than an empty lot.
I spent a large chunk of inheritance money on a real estate purchase, and now I want it back. My husband doesn't agree with this feeling. There are of course special circumstances and emotions involved. [more inside]
Help the guy who trips over his own tongue compliment the girl who won't accept compliments.
Increasingly frustrated bloke looking for practical advice on how to say to his girlfriend - who won't accept compliments - without it sounding cheesy or like I'm angling to get her into bed. [more inside]
Modified Couch to 5K?
Inspired by this question, I've decided to finally go for the Couch to 5k. I'm currently reading through the excellent threads on here, but I have a couple of specific questions. [more inside]
posted by swingbraid at 3:43 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by swingbraid at 3:43 PM PST - 10 comments
Shiftin'.
Bookfilter: Books where protagonists are transformed into animals/aliens/etc for extended periods? [more inside]
posted by solarion at 3:38 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by solarion at 3:38 PM PST - 29 comments
Going up to eleven. And twelve, thirteen...
Would a FiiO amplifier or similar be suitable for amplifying my TV through headphones? [more inside]
posted by sleepcrime at 3:12 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by sleepcrime at 3:12 PM PST - 2 comments
Awesome and practical Etsy gifts?
What are some practical and reasonably-priced Etsy shops and/or gifts? [more inside]
A rose by any other name
I'm looking for a new everyday perfume. Help me narrow the field of choices so I don't go noseblind in Macy's cosmetics department from sniffing everything I see. [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 2:40 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by elizeh at 2:40 PM PST - 35 comments
Movin' out?
Help me hack my living space or the way I deal with it... or decide to move out! [more inside]
Union-made at working man's prices?
Men's fashion filter: Where to buy quality, union-made, 'work wear' classics without breaking the bank? [more inside]
Bollywoodfilter: (You Tube) Movie Recommendations ?
I've noticed that YouTube has a large Indian Cinema collection, but what to watch first ? [more inside]
Coffeeshop in Beirut
What is the best independent coffee shop in East Beirut where I can read a book or work on a laptop? [more inside]
Can the singularity help
TediousTaskHelpFilter: For a project I'm working on, I manually went through 4000+ article abstracts from a literature database and classified articles as either target articles or irrelevant articles (with broad classification for why the article was irrelevant). My advisor has indicated that it's standard practice for me to do this same search on a database that will, overwhelmingly, give me many repeats from my last search. As this is nowhere near the only thing on my plate, I'd like to optimize this task. Is there any computer-based solution to eliminating the repeats in hits between these two databases? [more inside]
I need more books to read!
I want to read more science fiction novels that deal with Artificial Intelligence or the Singularity or both. What do you recommend? [more inside]
posted by dfriedman at 1:50 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by dfriedman at 1:50 PM PST - 32 comments
Half way to Atlanta in December?
Looking for a long weekend vacation spot to road-trip to [in the middle/end of December-January] that's about equidistant for driving from Washington, DC AND Atlanta. [more inside]
How important is just the right amount of scruff?
Facial Hair Filter: I don't have a beard but I don't shave every day; for first dates does it matter how much facial hair I'm sporting? [more inside]
Okay, I'll ask, but just this one time.
What is the best way to go about ordering prescription drugs online from Canada? [more inside]
How much money are people willing to give?
What is the minimum amount of money people are willing to give as a donation? [more inside]
Are there any legal issues with security cameras outside the home?
Outdoor security camera system for a residence. Any potential legal issues to consider? [more inside]
Christmas Day in Detroit
Please tell me about things to do in Detroit -- on Christmas Day. [more inside]
posted by Capt. Renault at 12:57 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Capt. Renault at 12:57 PM PST - 9 comments
Anyone know of a good wine bar in Chicago for a bday meet up?
Anyone have suggestions for a good wine bar in Chicago to have people meet up at for a bday party? [more inside]
Help me get back into the workforce
How should I handle leaving a job due to illness (and a subsequent extended absence) when reapplying to jobs in finance and consulting? [more inside]
Smart Office Not So Damned Smart?
You know that trend a while back towards 'smart offices'? I think that's what it was called -- you know, when nobody has their own desk, and they just snag their laptop and go sit anywhere and somehow they are magically more creative and productive as a result? I'm having trouble Googling up trip reports: can you help me out with links to stories and research about experiences in implementing it (or your own personal experience)? [more inside]
How to get sold out Rio Theatre PFT tickets?
Help me get Paul F. Tompkins tickets for the sold-out Vancouver November 30th show. [more inside]
posted by Kwine at 12:14 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kwine at 12:14 PM PST - 9 comments
Devastating loss of iPhone photos
How can I recover photos that were accidentally deleted on my iPhone 4? A few days ago, I had about 4,800 photos on my iPhone's photo roll. Today there's only a few hundred. [more inside]
Sign Up Here One Click In Real Life
Looking for a user friendly way to let people sign up for an email newsletter at a live event. Other than forcing them to enter their emails right into the right website, how can I simplify the current process of a person writing their email down, and a different person writing it into a spread sheet, and then someone else uploading the emails into the newsletter system? Is there an iPad app for this? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 11:49 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 11:49 AM PST - 10 comments
Art & Happiness After Quitting Smoking?
How do I resume creative projects that I once enjoyed--when doing so triggers me to smoke cigarettes? [more inside]
Condo insurance in Brooklyn
Condo insurance in New York City for a pair of n00bs. [more inside]
Please help me plan something fun & romantic & gay (in both senses of the word) in NYC this Saturday.
Please help me plan something fun & romantic & gay (in both senses of the word) in NYC this Saturday. [more inside]
Will I even be able to understand their English?
I just spontaneously booked a five day trip to Glasgow, which leaves in about 9 hours. I have never been to the UK, don't know anything about Glasgow and don't know much about Scotland. Tips for a 27-year-old American/Bulgarian (but a Swedish resident) woman traveling alone? [more inside]
Land the coin, get a free taco
At some older fast-food joints and other smaller businesses, there used to be a contraption filled with water that you could insert a coin into, and hope that it'd land on a small platform. If it did, you'd get something from the business, if it didn't, your coin would go towards some charitable cause (I think). Any more details/ideas on what this was called? [more inside]
posted by Gori Girl at 11:24 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Gori Girl at 11:24 AM PST - 8 comments
Collusion in Lawsuits - why not?
What, in the United States, prevents two companies from colluding to create a legal precedent? [more inside]
Milwaukee Brewers 1989 Significance?
I have a baseball hat that was recently given to me by my brother on his trip through Wisconsin. It is a Milwaukee Brewers Cooperstown Franchise hat which has a "1989" stamped on the back. I have no idea the significance of the 1989 year and the Brewers. I have conducted some rough Google searches, but I couldn't find anything definitive. Anyone have any info? Thanks.
posted by dbirchum at 11:13 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dbirchum at 11:13 AM PST - 4 comments
Basic Blues Piano book
I am looking for a basic guide to blues piano. I've been playing for a number of years but would consider myself an advanced beginner.
I'm looking for a book that will show me basic patterns in blues keys and very basic improvisation.
Thanks
Close-ups knot working
What would be a good camera for shooting close-up video. [more inside]
posted by jabo at 10:36 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by jabo at 10:36 AM PST - 3 comments
My question for napkin rings has failed! Help!
I want napkin rings! Multicolored, non-chokable, and washable. [more inside]
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 10:33 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 10:33 AM PST - 23 comments
Please help me find some specialist renewable/environmental recruitment agencies in the south west of England.
Please help me find some specialist renewable/environmental recruitment agencies in the south west of England. [more inside]
Cooking for 20
I need suggestions and recipes for cooking for 20 people. Challenge: the food has to be microwavable. [more inside]
What happens if the whole board resigns?
Asking for a friend: What happens to a charity (in Canada) if the entire board resigns on mass? Who is legally responsible for the organization until replacements are found? Does the CRA revoke their charitable license? [more inside]
posted by scrute at 10:12 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by scrute at 10:12 AM PST - 5 comments
How does one support themselves financially while starting to work as an independent consultant?
How does one support themselves financially while starting to work as an independent consultant? How do I make ends meet at first? [more inside]
What am I doing wrong at the doctor's office?
I have a doctor's appointment coming up in the next few weeks. I have healthcare coverage, but I always seem to end up with a decent sized bill anyway, even for appointments that seem to be covered. What are you supposed to say and do to avoid this? This gets rather long inside. [more inside]
posted by furious at 9:48 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by furious at 9:48 AM PST - 21 comments
What's a good low maintenance website solution?
How do I best go about providing a low-maintenance-user-friendly-but-update-able website for my boss's business? [more inside]
Investing in a food business 101
Investing in a food business. How can we make sure that we're getting a fair share of ownership and a good return on our investment? [more inside]
Help me date this picture!
Can anyone tell me anything about this truck? [more inside]
posted by ephemerista at 9:26 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by ephemerista at 9:26 AM PST - 16 comments
buy me a vacuum?
what kind of vacuum or dust buster should i buy? [more inside]
posted by sabh at 9:24 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by sabh at 9:24 AM PST - 15 comments
Publishing a 50 page summary of a textbook?
Does producing and publishing a free "Cliffnotes" type document sound legal? [more inside]
Efficient support of the author
cstross! jscalzi! Other fiction authors! What's the most efficient or author-preferred way to spend a given amount of money on his/her books? [more inside]
posted by ROU_Xenophobe at 8:59 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by ROU_Xenophobe at 8:59 AM PST - 12 comments
MLM party for a bachelorette
I take an ethical stance against MLMs (multi-level marketing companies) but a friend is having a Passion Party (think tupperware party, but for overpriced sex toys) as her bachelorette party. Am I obligated to go? [more inside]
Is it possible to move rented accommodation in the UK while claiming Housing Benefit?
Is it possible to move rented accommodation in the UK, in London, while claiming Housing Benefit? [more inside]
Car Negotiations Advice Needed - ASAP
How can I get to the price I want for my new car? (Need advice ASAP) [more inside]
posted by SoftSummerBreeze at 8:17 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by SoftSummerBreeze at 8:17 AM PST - 26 comments
Please leave a deposit at my doorstep
SecurityDepositFilter: I think I'm being screwed in Virginia. The situation is complicating by many factors, but mainly by the unwillingness for either the landlord or primary tenant to communicate with me. I was a subtenant with no written lease but a legitimate verbal agreement. [more inside]
Short Story ID, please.
Please help me ID a short story I read many years ago. A handicapped woman, living with her sister and her sister's family, sees a man in church whom she feels quite sure is the devil. In order to get away from him, she struggles to regain the physical independence she had given up. (She had gone into a wheelchair because walking was possible, but too painful.) She does manage to become self-sufficient enough to move out on her own--and the rest I'm not sure of. I asked this question two years ago--I'm trying again. It's still driving me crazy.
How to find out if stock options in a job offer are competitive?
I've been offered a job by a Silicon Valley startup. The salary and benefits are good, but how do I know if the stock options are "market rate" for this position? [more inside]
Casual, multiplayer, short online games?
What are some good multiplayer online games that allow for a quick "pickup" game that can be played start to finish in a few minutes? (Mainly thinking games played via laptop/desktop computer, as opposed to iPhone/iPad/Android.) [more inside]
posted by mark7570 at 8:12 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by mark7570 at 8:12 AM PST - 19 comments
Laptop got wet. Now the screen is really bright.
About a month ago, I spilled some water on my laptop. So I let everything dry out. It works again, but now the screen is very bright, as if the contrast is turned way up. After searching the internet, I learned that the problem could be a damaged inverter so I ordered and installed a new one. But no dice. The screen is still really bright. Any ideas of what might be the problem? [more inside]
Should I pursue a certificate program?
What is the value of getting a certificate in public administration and public policy? [more inside]
posted by mlle valentine at 7:49 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by mlle valentine at 7:49 AM PST - 9 comments
Secondhand Smoke in Chicago
Any experience in Chicago with resolving secondhand smoke disputes? The neighbor across the hall in the condo I live in smokes incessantly when she is in town. I have reported that the smoke bothers me via the building management, but the smoke from her unit has only increased. It fills the hallway, as well as the unit I am renting.
I went through cancer treatment about a year ago, so I am particularly sensitive to cigarette smoke now. I experience headaches and nausea from the smoke. My unit smells like smoke-furniture, clothes, towels, etc. I am worried I will get cancer again.
I tried to seal the front door, but am not sure if I have done it the best way. (I'm not too handy.) I am also looking into filing a complaint with the department of public health. I live in a private high-rise residence; however, a good portion of the building is used for short-term corporate and vacation rentals. My neighbor owns her unit.
Thanks for any ideas.
Are there any stores in the Toronto area that carry modern Korean clothes for men?
Are there any stores in the Toronto area that carry modern Korean clothes for men? Clothes like this, the stuff that gets carried in the South Korean equivalents of H&M. Is there anywhere in the GTA to get these? [more inside]
Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives?
Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives? [more inside]
"We're giving it all to them, but don't worry, they have your best interests at heart!"
My aged parents are planning to cash in all their stocks and put them into an account in my two brothers' names to reduce the amount of money payable in fees to the government upon their demise. They have told me, more or less, not to worry, and not to doubt the good intentions of my siblings. How to respond to this? [more inside]
Where to stay in Hollywood Beach Florida
Vacation rental options/suggestions for Hollywood Beach Florida? Details inside... [more inside]
Aw Yeah Bus Ride Comix!
How are those cheap Android tablets? [more inside]
Where did my first internet crazy go?
Help me remember an early internet crazy that lived in NYC, had a Japanese daughter, and was fascinated by the game GO. [more inside]
posted by quibx at 6:37 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by quibx at 6:37 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me use an old laptop to play music on
Help me use my malware-d laptop as a music storage device with minimal investment. [more inside]
posted by chesty_a_arthur at 6:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by chesty_a_arthur at 6:33 AM PST - 10 comments
Help me find out the old girl's past..
Help me start to research the history of our old home in Atlanta... [more inside]
What to do about a tourist visa denial?
A young Chinese student and friend of our family was denied a tourist visa to come to the US. What do we do now? [more inside]
Something nice for the bride
My mate is getting ready for her wedding day at my house. Looking for suggestions for things to do and treats for her. [more inside]
infected
My pc is infected with trogan horse agent_r.ARN how do i remove it? [more inside]
All my Big Bang songs look the same!
How do I get Windows 7 to display Chinese/Japanese/Korean characters on a non-administrator account? [more inside]
colorbond sheets & insulation costs and who to use
hi, i live in south west victoria, Australia. i am about to put a color bond roof on my weather board house, has any one done this lately? I am at a loss, of who to start shopping with for the sheets, hardware needed and the insulation. Which is my other problem i have been told to use sisalation (not right spelling i know) but i have had good reports on foil board, what have others used? i do have fiber blow in insulaion, but some of its damaged due to rain getting in, would it be better to replace this with pink bats or more fiber fill or what? i hope some one can help thanks
A weekend in Frankfurt
November 9
Impact on Norway after 2011 summer
Help me understand my Norwegian colleague's tears (during a conversation where topic led to the events of the summer in Norway and the subsequent impact on society). [more inside]
posted by infini at 11:54 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by infini at 11:54 PM PST - 12 comments
Repeat on the footh barday
Is anyone out there using a blogging platform calendar plugin that lets you define recurring events such as "the second tuesday of each month"? [more inside]
Not the rat-a-tat-tat kind.
How can I order a gat (a hat worn by ancient Korean scholars) and get it shipped to England? I'm in the US.
I'm looking to spend under $50 total. It doesn't have to be of the highest quality - it's a bit of a gag gift.
posted by ignignokt at 9:39 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ignignokt at 9:39 PM PST - 4 comments
I'm picturing Homer strangling Bart right now...
Advice and resources for dealing with passive-aggressive people who aren't your SO? [more inside]
By answering this question, you will have proved yourself a genius.
The presence of A is a good sign B exists, but as people learn about the A trick they take pains to display it so it isn't as reliable a sign of B anymore. What's the term for this, is its rate of adoption reliably based on other variables, and who writes about it? [more inside]
How to cope when you can't block a personal troll
How do you emotionally deal with a long-time, persistent, cross-platform troll? [more inside]
posted by arielmeadow at 9:00 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by arielmeadow at 9:00 PM PST - 31 comments
Why did they move the tags?
OK, sometimes you just have to ask a seemingly silly question. Why do so many items of clothing that used to have the labels on the back of the neck (where they were itchy enough already), now have them on the side seam, where they are harder to see for laundry instructions and even itchier?
Is there a regulation, or some policy change, or did manufacturers decide on their own or what?
posted by mmf at 8:54 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by mmf at 8:54 PM PST - 13 comments
How terrible for me are these farmed shrimp going to be?
Safety of eating thailand farmed shrimp from costco? [more inside]
you mean we can't bring her a sheepskin?
Tourist-y shopping recommendations in Auckland? [more inside]
posted by joyceanmachine at 7:58 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by joyceanmachine at 7:58 PM PST - 7 comments
Support, not commitment, or something
I think my dotted-line boss is going to come out to me as a transgendered person. The idea of introducing gender and sexuality into professional relationships is anathema to me. I will not deny her any support. I am genderqueer but don't trouble to make it obvious at work: work is a place I go to be engaged and interested, not a place for emotional entanglements. So what do I do? [more inside]
Hiring someone to run a super simple website
I'm in the process of creating a sports-related website that will relay some very simple information. The information is already out there on the web, just not aggregated in this manner. It needs to be updated daily, and I'd like to pay someone to do it. [more inside]
Ex-fiance, mutual interests, awkward interactions
How do I deal with seeing and interacting with my ex at this event? And, actually, how do I deal with the breakup in general? [more inside]
Does my school admin. now know about my Doctor Who obsession?
If I "like" a FaceBook page, does that mean that the admin of that page has access to view my wall? [more inside]
posted by 1000monkeys at 6:28 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by 1000monkeys at 6:28 PM PST - 5 comments
Simple tattoo not particularly simple.
I have been thinking about getting 4 numerals tattooed horizonally to my inner wrist. [more inside]
Domain Suggestion for Recipe Sharing Site
Another Domain Suggestion Thread [more inside]
Bright kid needs a hobby.
My 9 year old nephew does very well in math. He also has a voracious appetite for video games. How can I help him acquire a better understanding of how these games are made? I'd like to see him become more creative with a computer, rather than just spending his time clutching a game controller. [more inside]
posted by bonobothegreat at 5:51 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by bonobothegreat at 5:51 PM PST - 24 comments
Who booked all the hotel rooms in Chicago next week?
Why can't I get a hotel room in downtown Chicago early next week? [more inside]
help me with home health care/senior care
hi friends, please hope me. oh, and this is in illinois, as that may be relavant.
my mother has a rare neurological disorder called MSA. it is terminal, and from the looks of things, she is in the end stages. she's in a temporary rehab home after her second near-death hospitalization in the past 4 months. the first one was aspiration (choking), this second one was sepsis arising from an untreated UTI. both very common occurrences with this disease. she is essentially immobile, and cannot exist without assistance. here's the problem(s): since the onset of this disease about 7 years ago, my father has thrown himself at the mercy of all this and has assumed the role of caretaker. [more inside]
Somday I would like to stop freaking out. That would be nice.
Please talk to me about your management / recovery from extreme anxiety. I would also like to hear about how you found a good anxiety therapist. [more inside]
a question about eye contact before a kiss
You know that long look that often precedes people kissing for the first time? I have trouble holding that look long enough for the kissing part to happen. [more inside]
posted by colfax at 4:58 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by colfax at 4:58 PM PST - 29 comments
Where can I watch tonights GOP debate online?
Is there live internet streaming coverage of tonight's CNBC GOP debate? I can't seem to find the link. Thanks!
How exactly do you become officially married legally?
What is the difference between getting a marriage license and getting married? I mean, do you have to have a ceremony to be married? If so, why do you need a license to do it? Can you just get a license and call it good? [more inside]
ISO ESL Advice
Please point me to excellent ESL beginner resources for a really motivated Chinese pupil... [more inside]
posted by nj_subgenius at 4:44 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by nj_subgenius at 4:44 PM PST - 5 comments
Looking for Helen Wait.
I would like to lodge the single most effective complaint against some really misleading and crappy billing practices by a dental office. [more inside]
posted by sonika at 4:41 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by sonika at 4:41 PM PST - 16 comments
If I acquire a pilot's license in the US, where will I be able to use it later?
Learning to fly in the US, then moving to Canada or the EU -- can I transfer a license? [more inside]
posted by jpziller at 4:37 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jpziller at 4:37 PM PST - 9 comments
How to use a stove top espresso maker?
Should all the water "empty" out of the bottom of a stove top espresso maker? If so, what could I be doing wrong, because half of the water remains in my espresso maker? I put the pot on medium, I don't over stuff the maker with espresso, and I don't fill the water over the valve. Thanks in advance! [more inside]
Latin, should we teach it to our son?
I want to start listening to classical music but have no experience of this genre / form whatsoever. Where to start?
I want to start listening to classical music but have no experience of this genre / form whatsoever. Where to start? [more inside]
Return the parcel at my own expense or keep the doubled-up items?
Should I return these items from Urban Outfitters like the store has requested and pay $60 for postage or keep the items?
As I see it they've helped me out by sending another lot of the same items since the parcel appeared to be lost in the post, but what it boils down to is that I - the customer - will have to pay extra because my parcel took longer to arrive to expected. [more inside]
posted by radof94 at 3:43 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by radof94 at 3:43 PM PST - 18 comments
What was that "please invent this" website I saw a few months ago?
What was that "please invent this" website I saw a few months ago? Yeah, that's basically the premise; people would just submit ideas for software or physical products. As I recall, the postings were listed in a grid format, and the layout of the page was quite elegant (simple, clean elegant, not baroque elegant).
What was that site?
posted by holterbarbour at 3:41 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by holterbarbour at 3:41 PM PST - 5 comments
Can I create a Twitter saved search for multiple terms?
Is there a way to do a Twitter search for multiple phrases? [more inside]
Spave Invaders
My son-in-law has requested a knitted Space Invaders hat. I have found a design source for the various Aliens shapes, but I'm missing the shooting turret. Do you remember the shape and the colors of the turret? I'm thinking green, but I have this nagging doubt that everything was white on a black background, in spite of the very colorful alien invaders images on Google search.
posted by francesca too at 3:03 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by francesca too at 3:03 PM PST - 9 comments
what is the deal with the family educational rights and privacy act of 1974?
I'm applying to graduate school. Apparently I have the right, under the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act of 1974 (34 CFR 99.12), to examine letters of recommendation written about me. Every application I've filled out so far has asked me if I'd like to waive this right, should I? [more inside]
posted by Hoenikker at 2:49 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Hoenikker at 2:49 PM PST - 21 comments
I’m torn between what I do and what I always thought I would do
I’m in my late 20s and still wrapped up in self-indulgent “what should I do with my life” questions that I can’t seem to resolve. Sorry for a rambling question - please help. [more inside]
Euro fears
Retirement funds worry - Euro seems shakey, where best to shift mutual funds [ 80 K +/- ] mixed risk based 401 K to provide security, no great need for income, just a really safe harbor that, for a couple years, can be achieved by shifting the portfolio on-line. Simple stuff [ I sure hope ]
Please help me import some WMVs into Adobe Premiere.
Can you help me import these WMVs into Adobe Premiere? I'm about at the limit of my knowledge here. [more inside]
Imagined lazy vs actually greedy
What does it mean, "Why is it easier to believe that 150,000,000 Americans are being lazy rather than 400 Americans are being greedy?" [more inside]
posted by Mike Mongo at 2:14 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Mike Mongo at 2:14 PM PST - 13 comments
Album ID request
Album ID request. Last five years, white rapper, seemed to be a concept album about money, and the title was, if not exactly a pun, could be taken more than one way. A single track talked about camouflage become a fashion item, and possibly body bags?
posted by Leon at 2:12 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Leon at 2:12 PM PST - 7 comments
Buying a Camera, what's good?
Your top 3 book recommendations for job hunters?
Your top 3 book recommendations for job hunters? [more inside]
May it be a light to you in dark places, when all other lights go out.
What fantasy objects has my smartphone replaced? [more inside]
I actually do take 'No' for an answer, so... ?
Can you fill me in a little on the politics of "picking up the check" when going out with co-workers? (it isn't as simple as I'd thought) [more inside]
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:49 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:49 PM PST - 27 comments
Are these toy walkie-talkies truly useless?
Can the performance of toy walkie-talkies be improved? [more inside]
posted by Dragonness at 1:47 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Dragonness at 1:47 PM PST - 7 comments
Demystify podcasts
I have a long (11 hour each way) drive coming up (NY to NC) next week. I am a pretty seasoned distance driver (many two-day TX to Toronto drives), but I am going by myself (with 2 dogs) and I need something to keep me sane and awake. I would love to have some This American Life or CarTalk or the like podcasts to listen to but...while I am nothing like a tech/net n00b, I confess that I don't really know how this podcast thing works to get past episodes. Please hope me! [more inside]
I want my husband to want me.
I want my husband to want me. [more inside]
every employee tends to rise to his level of incompetence
How to deal with the feeling of not being good enough for your job? I know the reasons but not sure what I need to do next. [more inside]
Show me photographic proof that you can correct your patella alignment by strengthening the VMO.
For patella alignment and tracking issues where the patella is too far to the outside of the knee the standard treatment is to strengthen the inner quad muscle (VMO) to pull the patella closer to the center. That makes nice sense in theory providing you can find a way to strengthen the VMO side of the quad significantly more than the opposite side...
I would really like to see someone who has posted before and after pictures of their efforts to strengthen the VMO and what it did for their patella alignment. If this is what every doctor is recommending where is the photographic evidence that this actually works?
Android Media Player alternative to smartphone?
Is there an Android -based media player that I could tweak to use as a smartphone? [more inside]
posted by SuperErin at 1:14 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by SuperErin at 1:14 PM PST - 8 comments
ChiroFilter: how did this chiropractor cause me so much pain and weakness?
I thought a chiropractor was supposed to make me feel better, but now I feel sick. What's happening? [more inside]
Walking a 5K
I just signed up for a 5K on Dec. 3. I'm certainly not ready to RUN 3.1 miles, so I'm going to walk it (and the event is called a run/walk, so it is a walker-friendly race, at least). What kind of training can I do before then to do my best that day, since there's barely any time left? I'm at a healthy weight and in OK shape but usually only exercise one or two times a week. I'd like my time to be under one hour, if possible. Tips? (Bonus question: are most 5Ks walker-friendly?)
I don't understand monies.
Forex filter: Why is the Euro still worth more than the US dollar? [more inside]
posted by the foreground at 12:49 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by the foreground at 12:49 PM PST - 13 comments
How much will it cost me to read Metafilter on the bus?
I'm tentatively in the market for a smartphone or tablet or other such device that would allow me to do computery things, preferably things that use the Internet, while on public transportation. However, I'm pessimistic about my ability to actually afford anything that would provide the functionality I want. Am I wrong? [more inside]
How do I track print media receptiveness?
Help me devise a sinister plan to track the effectiveness of a print media campaign. [more inside]
posted by OlivesAndTurkishCoffee at 12:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by OlivesAndTurkishCoffee at 12:10 PM PST - 10 comments
Get this out of my head!
Please help me remember what piano piece I played, more than 10 years ago! [more inside]
posted by fearnothing at 12:03 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by fearnothing at 12:03 PM PST - 9 comments
First World Problems
Help me find the Ultimate Special Snowflake Online Gift Registry Website. [more inside]
Free/Low-cost project management software?
What free/low-cost project management system do you recommend? [more inside]
Help with Flash Builder Actionscript 3 Programming
Need help with Flash Builder to load images from directory into HGroup. [more inside]
posted by kmurray24 at 11:40 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by kmurray24 at 11:40 AM PST - 4 comments
What's it doing in OKC?
What's the weather like in mid-November in OKC? [more inside]
Hidden Dallas - What's to see?
Dallas/Ft. Worth - What to see, do and eat off the beaten path? [more inside]
posted by trixare4kids at 11:26 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by trixare4kids at 11:26 AM PST - 23 comments
How to remotely access a doctor's office's files?
I am looking for advice to come up with a technological solution for a physician’s office in NB, Canada. The scenario is that I would like patient files to be accessible remotely while still satisfying health privacy laws (PIPEDA), especially the part about patient records having to be stored in Canada. [more inside]
Am I expecting too much?
Reasonable Interaction Wishes:
Okay out there, help me either adjust my expectations or hold out for communication/relational interaction I'm wanting. Am I expecting too much? [more inside]
posted by sleeping beauty at 10:54 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by sleeping beauty at 10:54 AM PST - 26 comments
Christmasy non-carols
Christmas creepfilter: Looking for non-Christmas songs that sound like they could be fun, happy Christmas carols. [more inside]
posted by Unsomnambulist at 10:52 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Unsomnambulist at 10:52 AM PST - 21 comments
I Need My Korean Birth Certificate
How can I get a copy of my South Korean birth certificate? I was born in Seoul, became a naturalized US citizen as a child. My parents never had a copy (it was apparently lost). I don't even know what hospital I was born in, and have no easy way to find out. I tried contacting the Korean embassy but received no response. I live in New Mexico and don't believe there is any Korean embassy near here. What can I do?
rock me like...well, just rock me.
I would like to send a rock to someone, hopefully a rock that I have in my region but that she doesn't have there. But I don't know very much about rocks or geology. [more inside]
posted by peachfuzz at 10:44 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by peachfuzz at 10:44 AM PST - 14 comments
What do I do about my neighbor's garage on my property?
I recently bought a home in the country, along with some nice acreage. After a recent survey, it seems that my neighbor's garage extends about 10 feet onto my property. I had intended to put up a fence along that straight line, but as it turns out, the line is interrupted by someone else's building. Other than consulting a lawyer who specializes in such matters--which I may or may not do, depending--what do I do from here? I don't mind building my fence around the garage, but I'm not fond of the idea of giving away some of my land, either, albeit only a small piece. Any words of wisdom?
posted by jackypaper at 10:39 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by jackypaper at 10:39 AM PST - 15 comments
I became a prokaryote
Is it possible to "become" asexual? [more inside]
My mother just wants to see her father's face.
My mother never met her birth father; in fact, she's never even seen a picture of him. She really wants to get a photo of him. How can I make this happen? Complications inside. [more inside]
Help Me Pimp Their Site Please...
Doing some web design after being out of it a long time and my brain isn't in gear. I'm admittedly rusty and oblivious to the latest trends, codes and plugins for designing some of this basic stuff right now. Main goal: if I can make my client's dream site an awesome reality in a quick manner while remaining as lazy as possible, that would be fantastic! ;) [more inside]
Understanding why an ex would want to bring you down?
Understanding why an ex would want to bring you down? [more inside]
How to learn historic rehabilitation?
How to learn historic rehabilitation?
I'm interested in the historic home curatorship program in Massachusetts. Essentially, you take over a home owned by the state and rehabilitate it without having to pay rent.
However, to be successful, you really need to have lots of skills related to construction and historic curatorship.
I'd like to acquire this skills, any tips on how to do it?
What is a good model of corded shaver?
Does anyone have a recommendation for a corded (not battery-powered) electric shaver? [more inside]
iPod/iTunes Weirdness, Instapaper AWOL, and Safari Reading List Options
A few days ago syncing my iPod Touch with iTunes deleted all but its original apps (My fault for not noticing that the list of apps in iTunes had, for some reason, reverted to the factory defaults). While slowly restoring my purchased apps via the App Store App>Updates>Purchased, I noticed that ad-supported Instapaper was no longer listed. Googling 'Instapaper Free' told me that the ad-supported version was removed from iTunes and support discontinued sometime in April of this year. This has led me to several questions: [more inside]
posted by Alvy Ampersand at 9:08 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Alvy Ampersand at 9:08 AM PST - 3 comments
Can I move a T-Mobile SIM card to another T-Mobile device?
Can I purchase a prepaid T-Mobile phone from, say, Walmart, activate it with a plan, and then put that SIM card into my older off-contract T-Mobile phone and expect it to work?
posted by speedgraphic at 9:03 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by speedgraphic at 9:03 AM PST - 5 comments
DC is full of food and things to do, give me some guidance to the good places!
DC filter: I am heading out to a conference next week that will be held in DC and am looking for restaurants to visit and things to do with a toddler while there. [more inside]
posted by katers890 at 8:45 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by katers890 at 8:45 AM PST - 16 comments
Is it okay to wear white dress socks?
Help me save my spongy seitan.
HEADPHONE RAGE
Is there a way to make these, the MOST INFURIATING HEADPHONES KNOWN TO MAN, slightly less infuriating? [more inside]
posted by pazazygeek at 8:27 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by pazazygeek at 8:27 AM PST - 20 comments
new life for a Nikon 990 Coolpix
I'm trying to set up my Nikon 990 Coolpix camera as a dedicated image camera on a PC. I'm not able to download images via USB and wondering how I could get this to work. I need to take a boatload of images and get them into a PC quickly and easily. I have this camera available as a utility camera that can be permanently utilized in this role if I can get it to work on a PC. [more inside]
posted by diode at 8:22 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by diode at 8:22 AM PST - 11 comments
Blank, bulk versions of these EMS t-shirts?
I have a couple of EMS organic cotton graphic T-shirts like these, and I love them. The material is a bit thinner and stretchier than most tees, but still feels very supple and high-quality. Also, the fit is really nice - I particularly like that they're not quite as long as most tees are these days. I'm starting to think about making some graphic tees of my own design, and I'm wondering if there's a way figure out where these come from and get them for my own to use. [more inside]
How did you tell others you were in an abusive relationship?
I realized last night that I need to get out of my emotionally abusive marriage. I'm really scared for a lot of reasons. For those of you who have been in my shoes, how did you "come out" to others about your situation? How did you cope with people who told you you brought it on yourself? [more inside]
intelligent or intellectual
I 'm learning English. When you say,"She is an intellectual person." or "She is an intelligent person.", what's the difference of meaning actually? I think ..."My cat is intellectual." is odd,though.("My cat is intelligent." is okay!??)
Lost engagement ring...
Looking for advise on making a police report and an insurance claim [more inside]
posted by ibakecake at 7:46 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by ibakecake at 7:46 AM PST - 3 comments
My Job is prefect for me! But I need a full-time version of it.
What kind of jobs am I qualified to do? [more inside]
You're artsy. I'm as graceful as a lump of coal.
How do you develop a sense of aesthetics in interior design? [more inside]
posted by Tarumba at 7:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Tarumba at 7:44 AM PST - 8 comments
Two wheels one girl
Why are road bikes and cycling accessories so expensive? or, where can I get more affordable ones? [more inside]
Did My Dentist Screw Up My Crown?
A rear molar (#30 for you dental fans) had a chip missing but was otherwise asymptomatic but my dentist recommended a gold crown before the tooth broke and caused greater problems. I followed his advise and while wearing the temporary crown I noticed a new, distinct and very painful sensitivity to cold. He dismissed it as a fluke and installed the permanent crown, but the sensitivity remains and now I can't eat anything frozen without agony. He x-rayed the tooth and found no structural issues, nor did he find any leaks in the seating. He claims that the problem is just routine cold sensitivity and advised aggressive fluoride, but with no prior problem isn't it more likely that he screwed up something and, if so, what?
Are there any good integrated, autosyncing sleep/running distance and route tracking solutions out there?
Looking for recent developments in exercise/sleep data capture ecosystems. Inspired slightly by this question, I am thinking abut what I am looking for in an exercise/lifestyle data capture solution, and none of the systems seems exactly to cover all the bases I am looking for. Have people successfully created a hybrid system that puts all the data in one place? [more inside]
posted by running order squabble fest at 6:54 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by running order squabble fest at 6:54 AM PST - 5 comments
What will happen when I blatantly plagiarize Kafka's The Trial?
What will happen when I blatantly plagiarize Kafka's The Trial? [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb at 6:48 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by Meatbomb at 6:48 AM PST - 28 comments
Going to Xela
Going to Xela in about a month, tell me what I need to know [more inside]
How do I locate the apartment that is safest in a big earthquake?
Moving to the (north) Bay Area of California: How do I best ensure that I (and my assets) survive The Big One unharmed? Eg. What should I look for in an apartment (and why), in terms of geology, design, construction, location, building codes, corner-cutting, etc. to best handle a massive earthquake?
Expert or engineer advice would be great. (I'm more interested in how to find an earthquake-proof building and area, than in how to earthquake-proof my stuff once it's inside a building.) [more inside]
posted by -harlequin- at 6:21 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by -harlequin- at 6:21 AM PST - 11 comments
Where to get smokable herbals online
Any decent "legal highs" and if so any decent web sites to purchase from? [more inside]
posted by Folkways at 5:33 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Folkways at 5:33 AM PST - 15 comments
Good preaching in NYC?
Where can I find really good preaching in New York? [more inside]
European cookbook recommendations!
I'm looking for a cookbook which has typical recipes from all European countries to give as a gift - but as a cooking novice, need some help! [more inside]
Are there any resume-writing sites you could recommend for software developers?
Are there any resume-writing sites you could recommend for software developers? [more inside]
Stitch make me cross
How can I best simplify an image in order to make a cross-stitch pattern? Whether in PCStitch or in another image editor. [more inside]
Run-tracking automated WiFi watch?
Does this exist: a watch-type device that will track my runs, then automatically connected to my WiFi network once I'm home and upload the run data to a central location without any input from me? [more inside]
posted by StephenF at 3:32 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by StephenF at 3:32 AM PST - 9 comments
Hair-trigger reactions
What does it mean to be "triggered"? [more inside]
Help me find the perfect colour laser printer for my boss
I have been tasked with finding a new color laser printer for my boss, however he has very exacting requirements which I am finding difficulty in satisfying so I thought I would turn to the hive mind for help on this one. [more inside]
Is there _anything_ that smells bad to a dog?
Is there any such thing as something that smells 'bad' to a dog? [more inside]
November 8
And then I'll forget to show up for the appointment...
What is treatment for ADHD in an adult like? I need to get an estimate of how often one goes to the psychiatrist for ADD/ADHD after the initial screening. (If he thinks I am ADD, of course.) [more inside]
posted by artychoke at 9:59 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by artychoke at 9:59 PM PST - 20 comments
Here come Dick, he’s wearing a skirt, here comes Jane, y’know she’s sporting a chain
I'm a guy in NYC interested in dressing more femme without, strictly speaking, wearing drag. Think Kevin Barnes or Zac Pennington. [more inside]
posted by modernserf at 9:56 PM PST - 14 comments
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posted by modernserf at 9:56 PM PST - 14 comments
Texting the boyfriend while he serves
What should I expect in terms of opportunities to communicate from a boyfriend looking to enter the medical side of the U.S army in the next few months? [more inside]
posted by crackerz at 9:08 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by crackerz at 9:08 PM PST - 8 comments
Best chocolate available in the USA?
What's the best chocolate available in the USA? [more inside]
Geek Part III: The Homebrew
Help on building an investigation-based, long-form D&D Homebrew campaign. [more inside]
posted by Navelgazer at 8:36 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Navelgazer at 8:36 PM PST - 24 comments
Can I obtain a Tier 2 visa after doing a Tier 5 Youth Mobility Scheme visa in the UK?
Can I obtain a Tier 2 visa after doing a Tier 5 Youth Mobility Scheme visa in the UK? [more inside]
This Canon MP495 is very sleepy...
Is there any way to stop a Canon MP495 multifunction inkjet printer from going to sleep? It has its own built in 802.11g/n network interface for sharing itself with the LAN, which works fine, until the printer snoozes and falls off the network... [more inside]
ATI Display Driver playing hide and seek
Help me stop Windows Updates from breaking my display driver software. Windows Vista, ATI Radeon X1270. I've already tried lots of fixes and only one worked, but it happened again after the most recent rounds of updates. [more inside]
Things to do near Cusco, Peru
Last minute things to do in Cusco. Decided to take a day off work tomorrow, and Machu Picchu is both too long a trip and too expensive for us. So, we're looking for a fulfilling alternative that won't break the bank. We want to start tomorrow morning, so any tips would be very welcome! We're open to almost anything, as long as we get outside and do some walking/hiking. Hot springs? Cheap ruins? Spectacular mountain hiking? Hidden waterfall?
Hip Chicago bar for mom to meet boyfriend at
*CHICAGO FILTER* My shy, relatively new boyfriend is meeting my mom for the first time while she is in town. Whats a low key hip spot to go for dinner & drinks. [more inside]
Who made this quote about knowledge and power?
Can you help me find a specific NYT Magazine article with an interview with a Bush administration official, or help me figure out where this article appeared that was not the NYTimes? [more inside]
posted by jessamyn at 6:55 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by jessamyn at 6:55 PM PST - 10 comments
Best Decaf in Canada?
I've recently been forced to switch to decaf because of medical issues (supraventricular tachycardia). I have no interest in giving up coffee completely, and I really enjoy my one cup of decaf per day. I think I'd enjoy it more, though, if I knew I were having the best decaf I could get my hands on. What are the best decaf beans available in Canada? [more inside]
need a cheap ride
Want to buy a cheap NEW car. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by wandering_not_lost at 6:33 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by wandering_not_lost at 6:33 PM PST - 48 comments
It's either this or they burn their rent checks
NYC renters filter, asking for a friend: calling 311 over repeated and frequent lack of heat and hot water isn't working, as the landlord is a flagrant scofflaw. A lawsuit seems to be the next step - any advice from others who've taken that step? [more inside]
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 6:26 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 6:26 PM PST - 11 comments
Bird Houses Aren't Real Houses
How can my kid best test an experiment regarding roofing materials and their ability to block heat? [more inside]
She never gets fucked hard enough..
So I recently suffered a relatively severe concussion. And since then.. I am hearing.. things. Voices. They are.. very specific in nature though.. and I'm kinda terrified and kinda giggling about it.. [more inside]
Some people say that I am out of my tree.
Steeping the flowers of the European linden tree Tilia cordata produces a richly colored, deeply aromatic herbal tea. Steeping the otherwise very similar flowers of the otherwise very similar American linden Tilia Americana produces a flavorless, faintly yellow fluid. Where can I reliably obtain the real thing? The two potential sources I've found — Eastern European groceries and Latino bodegas — invariably have the donkey-piss version, even if the labeling on the box would claim otherwise.
posted by Nomyte at 5:53 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Nomyte at 5:53 PM PST - 7 comments
Traveling sober for the first time-- where should we go?
Seeking sunny vacation destinations (and specific hotel and sights recommendations) for a young-ish couple in recovery. It's our first time traveling since we have been clean and sober, and we'd like to find a place where we can be comfortable. [more inside]
Gots ta pay da bills yo
How do I pay bills in the U.S. from an overseas account (Japan) without spending a lot (er, any, preferably) in wire transfer fees? [more inside]
These German historians would to like follow orders!
I'm writing a paper that involves reading forty articles by about thirty different historians. Their biographical details are relevant. I'd like to be able to enter information about these articles and their authors into a database (or something similar) and then be able to sort by the various categories, link entries together, easily have lists of all of the people or articles who fit a given criterium, et cetera. What should I use? Free or cheap, OSX-compatible, relatively low learning curve.
European Christmas markets
What are the best European Christmas markets? [more inside]
Have license, would like to travel
Working for the VA as a nurse, how difficult is it to transfer from one state/facility to another? [more inside]
Why are some women offended by the term "ladies"?
I'm a woman myself, and don't really understand the context behind why the word "ladies" is offensive. Can anyone clue me in? [more inside]
should i have a joint wedding with my sister?
My fiance and I are considering a joint wedding with my sister and her fiance. Are we all crazy? [more inside]
The fine line between understanding and way too accommodating
Trying to evaluate relationship - how to fix these major problems? Are they even major problems, all things considered? [more inside]
How do they mix the sound during football games?
From my experience, the language along the front lines of a football game is...salty, to put it mildly. Trash talk, insults, plenty of swear words. Yet, during football games on TV, I rarely hear this. Despite all the parabolic mics aimed at the line that let me hear all the grunts and clashes after the snap. Despite the fact that they mix in the quarterback's snap count and audibles - sometimes I can make out individual words and numbers. So how do they keep the good stuff in and the bad stuff out so effectively?
Cutting out reproductions from artbooks and framing them?
Cutting out reproductions from artbooks and framing them? [more inside]
posted by GlassHeart at 2:27 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by GlassHeart at 2:27 PM PST - 19 comments
I want a marching band jacket for my kid who is too little to march in a band.
I didn't buy this jacket when my kid was a baby. Who spends over a hundred bucks on something so frivolous? I didn't, but have been obsessed with it ever since. Does anything exist on earth that is similar and would suit a preschool-size boy? Boy being the operative word. [more inside]
posted by pinky at 1:58 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by pinky at 1:58 PM PST - 17 comments
How can I prevent or reduce acute anxiety?
After about one day visiting my family, I get very emotional and remain on the verge of tears for the rest of my visit. Once I've reached this point, talking about anything, even the most mundane, makes me cry. I have never experienced this except with my family. It can last for days. What causes this? What can I do to prevent it? What can I do to recover from it? Can you explain what is happening to me? [more inside]
I have a 3 1/2 year old Snow Leopard iMac on my hands that crashed, lost its disk partition (or was unable to recognize it...) when booted from install disk, froze twice while booting off the install disk, then rebooted as if nothing bad had ever happened. Twice. What is this computer's damage?
I have a 3 1/2 year old Snow Leopard iMac on my hands that crashed, lost its disk partition (or was unable to recognize it...) when booted from install disk, froze twice while booting off the install disk, then rebooted as if nothing bad had ever happened. Twice. What is this computer's damage? [more inside]
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 1:22 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 1:22 PM PST - 10 comments
What is chemotherapy like for a young man with melanoma?
What is chemotherapy like for a young man with melanoma? Can anyone direct me to a good primer, fiction or nonfiction, on what it's like to have this kind of cancer? [more inside]
posted by theletterfour at 1:05 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by theletterfour at 1:05 PM PST - 11 comments
Seeking the most bicycle-friendly cities on earth
What are some nice cities that are totally bicycle-friendly, and when should we go? [more inside]
posted by coolguymichael at 12:57 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by coolguymichael at 12:57 PM PST - 46 comments
Help me to write a convincing letter requesting jobs
Freelance Filter >> How to approach my client diplomatically on a letter? [more inside]
posted by TheGoodBlood at 12:54 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by TheGoodBlood at 12:54 PM PST - 10 comments
Cheap customized folders?
Need to produce a professional-looking folder for a nonprofit with next to zero money for it. This would be used to make simple donor kits (fact sheets, press clippings inside). Looks like printing a color cover on a standard folder is nearly a buck/per. Anyone have ideas on using bulk blank folders and doing something clever with stickers or something (though it sounds ugly just thinking of it)? Other ways to make a kit?
Favorite book of Lincoln's anecdotes?
Favorite book of Lincoln's anecdotes? [more inside]
Help me identify a Children's Book
I need help identifying a children's book about a Giant who always oversleeps. [more inside]
Learning to love Baltimore.
Please help me learn to love Baltimore and find the beauty in it. [more inside]
I rather like my ear and would prefer not to cut it off.
Sinus infection backed up into my poor ears. I need some relief while I wait on the med's to do their trick! [more inside]
What's a durable way to label Ikea Slom and Ihärdig jars?
What's a durable way to label Ikea Slom and Ihärdig jars? [more inside]
posted by neushoorn at 11:54 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by neushoorn at 11:54 AM PST - 15 comments
Best rain gear for rainy San Francisco winters?
Please recommend rain gear that will keep me dry and comfy walking around the city this winter. [more inside]
posted by kristi at 11:35 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by kristi at 11:35 AM PST - 12 comments
Let’s do it!
When can we have sex without me seeming to be a slut??? [more inside]
Italy...and math?
What just happened in Italy's Parliament? How do you win a vote but not get a majority? [more inside]
posted by Geppp at 11:15 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Geppp at 11:15 AM PST - 5 comments
Thanks for nothing, Emeril!
Does anyone know of a good crawfish or shrimp etoufee recipe? [more inside]
What should I expect when I tell my adviser I'm leaving?
I'm about to tell my adviser I want to leave to program. What should I expect from the conversation? Will she cut my funding on the day-of and refuse to help me find work? [more inside]
Need a non-sequential iDevice remote control app
I'm looking for an iPad app that will allow me to control a Powerpoint or Keynote presentation running on a computer connected to a large display. That catch? I need to be able to select slides at will and not just sequentially. [more inside]
getting my filth on for moneys!
So does anybody know a good place to work as a phone sex operator from home in the UK? [more inside]
Ideas for entries to a work recipe contest
My workplace is having a recipe contest for our workplace cafeteria. I'm trying to come up with a good submission. [more inside]
Need advice on shutting down a commercial software project.
I've reached a point where I don't have the desire to continue developing my commercial software product. I need some help on deciding what to do with it. [more inside]
SWF seeks answers
This Old House needs an inspector?
Is a home inspector worth it to find out what deferred maintenance must be done immediately in an inherited house that I'm not selling right away? I'm thinking of getting one just to solve the deferred maintenance issues of an inherited house. [more inside]
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 10:25 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 10:25 AM PST - 16 comments
Stop rewriting URLs in search results
How do I prevent Google from rewriting URLs in search results? [more inside]
posted by fake at 10:06 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by fake at 10:06 AM PST - 24 comments
Do milk, honey, and other similar animal products contain significant amounts of DNA?
Okay - I admit I didn't pay as much attention in biology class as I should have. Can someone tell me whether or not animal products such as milk and honey contain significant amounts of DNA? I have a friend who thinks people who talk about eating food that's "free of chemicals" are hysterical, because of course all food is made up of chemicals. But she takes it a step farther and asks if they've tried DNA-free food as well, which brings me to my point. I suggested things like milk and honey, which are secreted by animals, might by considered DNA-free. Her reaction was shock and dismay that I was ignorant of the (to her) common knowledge that those things do, in fact, contain DNA. I mean, I'll buy that maybe they contain some stray particles of DNA - like (I believe) our saliva does, but are they, or are they not, made of DNA?
posted by Death by Ugabooga at 10:01 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Death by Ugabooga at 10:01 AM PST - 31 comments
Ipad recommendations needed for a platform/adventure game lover!
Ipad recommendations needed for a platform/adventure game lover! [more inside]
What would be a good camera to set up a stream from out of my window? And is this legal?
What would be a good camera to set up a stream from out of my window? And is this legal? [more inside]
Looking for online tools for making nice data visualizations.
Are there online resources that will let an amateur make slick, professional infographics, graphs, charts or images+text? Or communities of designers that do quick, topical visualization challenges? Further details inside. [more inside]
Help us choose a hospital.
Mass general, Beth Israel, UMass Worcester, or brigham and women's for pancreatitis and necrosis? [more inside]
Should we get married?
Should we get married? [more inside]
I'm a mess
I've run out of antidepressants. YANAD but can I take someone else's prescription of a different but similar kind? [more inside]
Asset legal ramifications of registering domestic partnership in Minnesota
Asset legal ramifications of registering domestic partnership in Minnesota [more inside]
Calling it quits.
My currently-ex-girlfriend is bipolar. She is only hard to be around some of the time, but often enough that I'm looking for a way out. Help me not make the stupid decision of getting back together once she's feeling better? [more inside]
I want my own traditions too, FFS!
This has been bothering me for a few years. I'm really sad, and a bit angry, that I don't have my own traditions. What I mean, is that I have no reason to do anything since the "grown-ups" already do everything. I don't know if I can take it much longer. [more inside]
posted by midnightmoonlight at 9:22 AM PST - 68 comments
posted by midnightmoonlight at 9:22 AM PST - 68 comments
Fonts that can be read at a distance
Looking for the best font for long-distance viewing on a projected document. [more inside]
posted by blurker at 9:19 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by blurker at 9:19 AM PST - 8 comments
Font identification
I would like to identify and/or locate the fonts used in this label so I can create something similar. This design was a free download to use with a Martha Stewart recipe but I'd like to tweak it a bit for my own use. I dig the fonts, though! Close up of font can be seen here. The downloadable pdf is here.
Recommend a good Manhattan bar/cafe for a real world meetup of online people!
Recommend a good Manhattan bar/cafe for a real world meetup of online people! [more inside]
The transference conjecture
I'm curious if cooking sous-vide could improve on being lazy and well fed, but discussing the technique with my gf she asked reasonable questions I can't find the answer to. [more inside]
posted by monocultured at 8:08 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by monocultured at 8:08 AM PST - 21 comments
Looking for a "making of Kool Aid Man comic strip"
ComicFilter: I am looking for a one-off comic strip that depicts a man going through some sort of Wolverine-esque operation in a secret government lab. He then breaks out, and his identity is revealed.... [more inside]
posted by farmersckn at 7:59 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by farmersckn at 7:59 AM PST - 4 comments
What is a staff designer?
What is a "Staff Designer"? How does that vary from a graphic designer? Or a creative director?
This graveyard is so yesterday, need to find a crypt
Does anyone have a Minneapolis Mortgage Broker that they really loved and would love to recommend to my wife and I? [more inside]
Computer Fixing Software
ComputerToolsFilter: Just cause i work in the industry (Computer) im always getting ask from family and friends to fix their computers. Can you please give me a list of mandatory tools and software that you use so i can always be prepared when im fixing their laptop, pc, printer, router, viruses, spyware, etc? Basically im looking to put a laptop together with essential software for fixing all my friends and familys needs? All suggestions will be appreciated.
witty tshirt required to specs
Help me buy a witty t-shirt for one of my friends (themes: hip hop, Arnie, Raiders, macho posturing, 90s rnb, Michael Jordan) [more inside]
posted by lifethatihavenotlivedyet at 7:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by lifethatihavenotlivedyet at 7:15 AM PST - 8 comments
Shining a light into the dark
How do you cope and work effectively in an office culture where poor communication is rife? I'm so frustrated. [more inside]
posted by Ziggy500 at 7:07 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Ziggy500 at 7:07 AM PST - 16 comments
Can UV sanitizers decrease odors?
Will running a UV Sanitizing Wand over the litter box help with odors? [more inside]
posted by veganfilmjunkie at 7:00 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by veganfilmjunkie at 7:00 AM PST - 5 comments
Is it really so crazy to use a 200 peso bill to pay a 110 peso check?
Why are there such problems getting change for purchases in some countries? [more inside]
Names in the Form "Y At X", But Not at X
Jazz at Lincoln Center is not actually at Lincoln Center. Are there other institutions with similar names? [more inside]
posted by Jahaza at 6:40 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by Jahaza at 6:40 AM PST - 25 comments
Purchase a foreign breakfast cereal in the States?
house party keg delivery in toronto?
Animal House Filter: house party keg delivery in toronto? [more inside]
posted by crawfo at 6:31 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by crawfo at 6:31 AM PST - 6 comments
Where Should I Go for an Surf Vacation in December?
Where Should I Go for an Surf Vacation in December? [more inside]
Advice for a lengthy road trip?
About to drive from Boston, MA to Portland, OR with a buddy who is moving out there. Anyone have any sage travel advice? [more inside]
Looking for a Bergman interview.
I'm looking for an Ingmar Bergman interview (should be available online) in which he makes an analogy between the depiction of a character in film and a solo partita by Bach. All else I remember is that it was probably shot in the 50s or 60s in b/w and that the person asking questions was a Swedish critic of some sort.
posted by quoquo at 4:24 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by quoquo at 4:24 AM PST - 3 comments
How readable is A Dance with Dragons?
I am going to be bored by A Dance with Dragons, aren't I? [more inside]
Can I throw my cellphone provider out the window?
How do I avoid paying a $2345 cell phone bill on a phone that was stolen?! [more inside]
Where can I find a replacement 3D 1937 maundy coin?
I have a 1937 King George V1 Specimen Coin set. The 3d maundy coin is missing (my grandma lost it). Where can I find a replacement? I expect the answer will be to contact a dealer, but which one or ones are best suited for this?
posted by misspony at 1:57 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by misspony at 1:57 AM PST - 2 comments
Tony-Robbins-Style Motivational audio/video for Vietnamese or Chinese people?
Tony-Robbins-Style Motivational audio/video for Vietnamese or Chinese people? [more inside]
Tell me about the Siege of Syracuse
I have a whole bunch of questions about the Siege of Syracuse during the Second Punic War... [more inside]
posted by wayland at 12:26 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by wayland at 12:26 AM PST - 6 comments
November 7
What are some interesting places to eat in Chicago's south side?
Help me plan a food tour of Chicago's south side by bicycle. I'd like to make a little loop starting and ending in Woodlawn, covering < 50 mi and stopping several times to eat small, interesting things. Can you suggest some good destinations and routes? Note that we'll be five sweaty college kids in funny clothes, with wallets to match, so err on the side of "hole in the wall."
How do I find a mean response confidence interval in nonlinear regression?
How do I calculate the confidence interval for the mean response of some general nonlinear fit? [more inside]
posted by selenized at 9:52 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by selenized at 9:52 PM PST - 12 comments
What are your favourite leftovers?
What leftovers are better the next day than they were for the original meal? [more inside]
posted by fatmouse at 9:14 PM PST - 89 comments
posted by fatmouse at 9:14 PM PST - 89 comments
We're certain they're CertainTeed. Now what?
What can we do to make certain our CertainTeed shingle warranty/class action claim gets paid? [more inside]
This might be going somewhere... Nope.
If I get attached to people easily, how do I learn to pace myself so I stop getting hurt when things don't work out? [more inside]
Need help decoding an Ioncube file...
Mass transit.
I'm spending nearly $400/month on automotive-related expenses for a car I don't enjoy driving. That's about 25% of my monthly income, and when it really comes down to it, I think I'd rather be saving that money for something better, like travel. Or education. Or Scotch. Lots and lots of Scotch. [more inside]
Get on the bus?
Last minute Chicago commute question. I have an appointment on Michigan Ave tomorrow morning at 8. Usually I take the 22 bus to Michigan Ave but every morning I hear on the radio that Lake Shore Drive is a mess during rush hour these days. Is it ultimate foolishness to take a Lake Shore Drive bus during rush hour tomorrow? [more inside]
posted by bleep at 7:53 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by bleep at 7:53 PM PST - 4 comments
Looking for a site that reviews ebooks and not just books.
Could anyone recommend a site that reviews ebooks not just on the merits of their content, but on how well they're presented? [more inside]
posted by dumbland at 7:07 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by dumbland at 7:07 PM PST - 4 comments
When is it OK to talk to my wife's therapist?
When is it OK to talk to my wife's therapist? [more inside]
Filing a dangerous dog complaint: what will happen next?
[UK law filter] Today I filed a dangerous dog complaint with my council. What should I expect to happen next? [more inside]
What percentage of the population is asleep right now?
Can you help me find estimates of how many people are awake or asleep at any given time in the United States? [more inside]
posted by chrisamiller at 6:08 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by chrisamiller at 6:08 PM PST - 6 comments
Where has all the roleplaying gone?
Are there any MMO's left, released or in development, with a strong roleplaying community? [more inside]
posted by Pericardium at 6:02 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Pericardium at 6:02 PM PST - 11 comments
How can connect my laptop to the Internet via a mobile phone?
How can connect my laptop to the Internet via a mobile phone? [more inside]
What do we charge a visiting Japanese family to home-school their child?
A Japanese family visiting our town would like my wife, who home-schools, to teach their son. What should we charge? [more inside]
posted by odragul at 5:55 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by odragul at 5:55 PM PST - 28 comments
How do I ship an iPad to Cambodia?
What's the best way to deliver an iPad from Vancouver to Cambodia? [more inside]
What to do with empty six packs?
I have empty six packs of 17 different varieties of a particular brand of beer. What should I do with them? [more inside]
posted by AMSBoethius at 5:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by AMSBoethius at 5:38 PM PST - 12 comments
I need to make my parents' computer father-proof.
How do I keep my father from wrecking his computer - again? [more inside]
and but so...
Why was David Foster Wallace so footnote-happy? [more inside]
posted by mannequito at 5:13 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by mannequito at 5:13 PM PST - 17 comments
Temples of Doom
Indiana Jones, Tomb Raider, Uncharted: Drake's Fortune, etc. feature elaborate traps guarding secret treasures in hidden temples that are hundreds or thousands of years old. These series feature secreted switches, pressure plates, spring loaded arrows and other nasty surprises that seem to be intended only for would be invaders. What is the nearest analog in the archeological record for this trope, or were there really any booby-trapped temples? [more inside]
If it's not a budget, what is it?
Unemployed and looking. After over a year, it's time to start considering jobs making a good bit less than I did before. How do I figure out the minimum I need to make to be able to pay rent and still eat every day? [more inside]
How can I address communication problems with my mechanic?
My mechanic said my car would be done four days ago. It's still not done. How can I, or should I, address this? [more inside]
posted by stellaluna at 4:37 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by stellaluna at 4:37 PM PST - 12 comments
At the risk of finding out I can't shop at the supermarket I can walk to...
Is there a quick way to gauge how ethical the practices of a corporation are? [more inside]
The only constant is change
Will someone tell me what's wrong with the data cited and resulting conclusion here that the last ten years have seen a cooling trend in the United States? [more inside]
Upgrading a friend's computer from XP to 7. I recall that simply copying files to a second internal drive resulted in some permission problems. How do I avoid this?
Upgrading a friend's computer from XP to 7. I recall that simply backing up files to a second internal drive resulted in some permission problems. How do I avoid this? [more inside]
posted by sisquoc15 at 4:16 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by sisquoc15 at 4:16 PM PST - 5 comments
Listfilter for "faked" terrorism
Can anyone tell me about terrorist-like attacks perpetrated, or verifiably planned, by governments against their own people, with the intent of blaming other parties? [more inside]
posted by jeffburdges at 4:10 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by jeffburdges at 4:10 PM PST - 15 comments
Solder-guy for hire in NYC?
I occasionally have the need for precision soldering on small electronic boards. Is there someone in NYC who I can pay to do this? Manhattan or Brooklyn would be ideal. [more inside]
help me be a better car owner
I am a first time car owner, and I realized recently that I am not taking proper care of my car, nor do I know how to take proper care of my car. [more inside]
Lion + Dev Tools on a little MBA
Can anyone who has one tell me how much disk space OSX Lion plus Developer Tools leaves free on a 128Gb SSD MacBook Air? I'm no longer sure I ever had any google-fu (or else the spam answer sites are strong on this one...) - thanks in advance!
posted by cromagnon at 3:56 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by cromagnon at 3:56 PM PST - 6 comments
I need help finding a weird, obscure board game from the 80s/90s.
I'm looking for a board game, which was called (I think) Tasteful Pursuit... [more inside]
Best way to record iPhone interviews on the cheap
Best solution for recording phone interviews. Here's my equipment: iPhone, MacBook, iPad. I'm a blogger, and I've been recording my interviews into a recording app on my iPad, or into garageband on my mac, using my iPhone on speakerphone. I'd prefer to not use speakerphone, as it cuts out and sounds like a walkie-talkie. I have an important interview coming up, and I'd like to up my game audio fidelity-wise without buying any other gear. What's my best solution?
posted by letstrythis at 3:47 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by letstrythis at 3:47 PM PST - 8 comments
I need help recovering from trichotillomania. Tips?
I need help recovering from trichotillomania. Tips? [more inside]
computer careers for the un(der) educated?
Thinking about the future. What certifications, courses, qualifications, etc. should I be looking at? [more inside]
Straight talk on Sciences Po?
Can anyone give me some straight talk on Sciences Po, otherwise known as l'Institut d'Etudes Politiques de Paris? It's quite expensive and I don't know that I could get in, but on the other hand, it could be an awesome opportunity. [more inside]
posted by peakes at 3:20 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by peakes at 3:20 PM PST - 8 comments
Every man wants a shark or yeti of his own. How though?
I want to adopt a shark (or yeti) for a friend on a limited budget. Any suggestions? [more inside]
You got your chocolate in my peanut butter, etc.
Please help me come up with a list of great cross-discipline collaborations throughout history. [more inside]
Help me help my aggressive dog
My big dog wants to kill our little dog. And the cats. And neighborhood children. And babies. And maybe me! Is there any hope? [more inside]
posted by m_lazarus at 2:50 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by m_lazarus at 2:50 PM PST - 31 comments
Thank you present for a family
This past weekend I stayed with a friend's family while traveling. They were very welcoming and I would like to send them a thank you present. What are some good gifts that the whole family can enjoy? [more inside]
posted by yodangson at 2:43 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by yodangson at 2:43 PM PST - 15 comments
Unemployment is wrecking my self-esteem. How do I keep going?
Six months of unemployment has destroyed my self-esteem. Help me persist through the awfulness of writing cover letters and applying to jobs. [more inside]
What happens when rehoming cats just doesn't happen?
So what do you actually do when you can't rehome your cats? Please no (more) guilt, we have been trying for six months and we are at our wits end. What happens now? [more inside]
How can I learn to stop being a picky eater?
How can I learn to stop being a picky eater? [more inside]
Dosa cooking advice?
I am planning to make dosa for the first time this weekend, with perhaps a foray into uttapam. I have appropriate ingredients (and access to an Indian grocery), but no special equipment. Help me make them the best they can be! [more inside]
Mentalloish?
Recommend some superhero comics to me. [more inside]
What are the dimensions of an offshore oil rig?
What are the dimensions of an offshore oil rig -- length, width, height? Since they vary in size, a range would be fine. The info needs to come from a specific source / document. I have had no success with Google. (Asking for a non-Mefite friend.) Thanks!
posted by slidell at 1:54 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by slidell at 1:54 PM PST - 10 comments
Where can I sell my Mac in NYC?
Where in NYC can I sell my old Macbook in the next day or two? [more inside]
Most intuitive way of displaying Quiz Questions and Answers
I run a monthly Pub Quiz and I have a website, running on Wordpress which I use for announcing upcoming quizzes, publishing results and past questions / answers. At the moment I publish the questions and answers (50 per month) as separate blog posts with a category of Question or Answer tagged with the month and year. Is there a smarter, more intuitive way of doing it? [more inside]
posted by jontyjago at 1:28 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by jontyjago at 1:28 PM PST - 5 comments
Help me avoid Charlie Brown's Christmas urns.
Help me keep my Christmas greenery upright in my outdoor urns this winter. [more inside]
posted by sarajane at 1:13 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by sarajane at 1:13 PM PST - 8 comments
It's Okay, Vibey... Just Show Me Where the Bad Man Hurt You...
I just had to replace my car's entire powertrain. What could've happened? How do I prevent it from happening AGAIN? [more inside]
A House on the Plains
Note-taking Firefox extension?
Are there any Firefox (or Chrome or Safari, I guess) add-ons that will allow me to make a blank tab that I can type text into? In other words, any extensions that will allow me to take notes inside FF rather than in another program?
posted by OmieWise at 1:03 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by OmieWise at 1:03 PM PST - 6 comments
Where to spend 18 days in Southeast Asia
We've got 18 days in Southeast Asia - where should we go? [more inside]
Needing an "alternative lifestyle" hairdo in San Francisco
In San Francisco and in need of a good, cheap(ish) alternative haircut. Where should I look? [more inside]
posted by Hot Like Your 12V Wire at 12:54 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Hot Like Your 12V Wire at 12:54 PM PST - 6 comments
Where can I go to mentally calibrate myself in PDX?
PDX Filter: Had a small meltdown last Friday and came home from work. Today I'm feeling completely detached from my job and I just want to get some help once and for all. What kind of mental health facilities can I call up today about getting in this afternoon? More snowflake-y stuff inside. [more inside]
In the Literalist Kitchen - Lesson One
I want to bake some whole wheat bread. So, I bought this whole wheat bread flour. But that was apparently a dumb thing to do. [more inside]
posted by TryTheTilapia at 11:52 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by TryTheTilapia at 11:52 AM PST - 19 comments
I need advice on going from accounting to accounting software design
How can I go into a more appropriate field based on my passion like designing accounting software? [more inside]
Who are your favorite pop songwriters that don't perform their own songs?
Who are the greatest behind-the-scenes songwriters/producers? Give me your favorites! [more inside]
posted by Lutoslawski at 11:27 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Lutoslawski at 11:27 AM PST - 44 comments
More training? But what was this Master's degree for then?
I have questions about the amount of training a professional should get, and how the training and the time spent on training is compensated. [more inside]
posted by garlic at 11:17 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by garlic at 11:17 AM PST - 10 comments
No, seriously, don't recommend Smartwool socks.
I need clothes for fall hiking/camping. Catches: I'm tiny, and I'm allergic to wool. [more inside]
Credit card security, maybe ...
I'm hoping this is not a really really dumb question--if it is please forgive me and explain it gently.
I've just had an email from "secure@secure.co.uk" saying "our records show that someone tried to enter your verified by visa/mastercard password 3 times in a row. Please change your password now.". No other details given.
I don't have any verified by visa passwords, so I assume this is just social engineering to get some credit card numbers.
The website "secure.co.uk" exists but appears to have no content.
Am I right that this is a scam? Is there anyone I should report it to?
posted by Logophiliac at 11:10 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Logophiliac at 11:10 AM PST - 8 comments
On Such a Winter's Day
I need a day trip from Los Angeles this upcoming (rainy) weekend. [more inside]
SCotUS rules of thumb.
I'm looking for Supreme Court created tests or rules. [more inside]
posted by Garm at 10:33 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Garm at 10:33 AM PST - 11 comments
Recommend Recipe Blogs
Recommend recipe blogs that use European/UK measurements & pan sizes! [more inside]
Need a cordless phone to work with AT&T Uverse
I'm trying to find a simple cordless phone that will work with AT&T Uverse. I haven't had a land line, VOIP or cable in ages so I have no idea what I'm doing. [more inside]
I know I'm not my brother's keeper. Can I help him anyway?
How can I- or can I- help my younger brother, who I live and work with? He's in danger of losing his job, and doesn't seem to be taking it seriously. [more inside]
How to rebound from mediocre grades?
How to rebound from two almost failed midterms? [more inside]
posted by The1andonly at 10:07 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by The1andonly at 10:07 AM PST - 7 comments
Discontinued flavored rolling papers?
Are there any built in tools in my CyanogenMod7 Android phone that would help me locate it? Or anything else?
My android phone (BACKside ROM / CyanogenMod7) was lost/possibly stolen in a foreign country. Any clever ways to find it/get it back? [more inside]
Too small to ski, too legit to quit
What does the one year old set like to do in whistler? [more inside]
Please translate these text messages
Spanish/Portuguese SMS spam or should I be worried someone is laying in the gutter somewhere? [more inside]
posted by 7life at 9:27 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by 7life at 9:27 AM PST - 8 comments
How to batch convert photos for a specifi target size?
Best solution for this somewhat unique batch photo resizing problem? Photoshop doesn't seem to fit the bill. [more inside]
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 9:13 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 9:13 AM PST - 14 comments
Summer-like experiences in London in the winter?
Is there somewhere in or near London, UK that can give a summer-like experience for a few hours? I'm looking for the opposite of a snowdome or an ice bar: a space that's warm, bright and summer-themed. [more inside]
How can I wake up on Seroquel?
How can I help prevent this seroquel hangover? [more inside]
posted by trogdole at 8:55 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by trogdole at 8:55 AM PST - 12 comments
1 year old pup chewing problem.
I'm asking this to try to help my niece who has her busy hands full taking care of Altzheimer's mom and her own sick husband. Their one year old "Cav-a-poo" is way more doggie than she bargained for.
They love him very much but he is just so difficult to manage. He's destroyed part of her sofa, and even chewed the baseboards off the wall.
They didn't want to crate him but are forced to do so as he's so wild. She's had the home coach which was pretty good re: barking but the chewing is just crazy.
They have all the non destructible chew toys, tried tobasco sauce, spray water bottle, clicker, etc. '
He has a big fenced yard but only likes to go out when someone stays with him. He is walked several times a day. One thing is he is much bigger than the breeder said he would be. Instead of 15 lbs he is more like 25. She's had to give up sleeping in her bed as he cries all night in the crate and it disturbs her husband who needs his sleep. She lies on the couch together with the pup and then has to be up and out of the house by 6 AM to go to work.
I'm trying to help her find a way to a more peaceful life including Mr Chewy, of course, and would appreciate any helpful suggestions.
Help me find a barely-remembered random youtube video
ID this youtube video! Skateboarding in a roller rink, ridiculous outfit, handstand tricks. Ringing any bells? [more inside]
Fewer drinks = worse sleep. What?
Cutting back on alcohol. How long before I sleep well again? [more inside]
Does FLorida have swimmable beaches in December?
It turns out I'll be in The Villages, Florida for Christmas. My birthday is two days after Christmas, and I want to spend it at the beach. Is there a beach on either coast that far up Florida that'll be swimmable in late December?
posted by COBRA! at 8:27 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by COBRA! at 8:27 AM PST - 8 comments
What am I doing wrong in my relationships?
Why do my relationships enter the LET'S MAKE THIS A SERIOUS COMMITMENT I WANT TO SPEND MY LIFE WITH YOU stage at an absurdly rapid pace? I used to think this was a kind of charming quirk, but my apparent inability to slow things down in order to determine the suitability of my partner has begun to concern me a bit. Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Replacement for WoW for a long-distance pair
Help me find a substitute for World of Warcraft to serve as common ground and entertainment for myself and my long-distance boyfriend. [more inside]
Dyeing my beard orange -- how?
I'm going to dye my beard orange at the end of the month. What's best to use for this? Henna? Something else? [more inside]
What information should an exit letter contain?
My boss has asked me to write my own an "intent to leave" letter and I'm wondering if anything else should go in it beside the date of my last day of work. [more inside]
posted by victoriab at 7:13 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by victoriab at 7:13 AM PST - 17 comments
How can I batch rename filenames to match a list from another folder (or text file) on a Mac?
How can I batch rename filenames to match a list from another folder (or text file) on a Mac? [more inside]
posted by snarkle at 7:04 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by snarkle at 7:04 AM PST - 11 comments
How easy to brew n-a beer?
How easy is it to brew non-alcoholic beer at home?
posted by parmanparman at 6:59 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by parmanparman at 6:59 AM PST - 6 comments
"The" Ukrainian Needs Help with "a" grammar issue.
Can you help me explain how and when to use articles (a/an/the) to a non-native English speaker? [more inside]
posted by shortyJBot at 6:32 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by shortyJBot at 6:32 AM PST - 10 comments
How do you choose from so many choices?
After getting excellent advice on San Francisco, I now need help with the LA portion of our California trip! Your recommendations on how best to spend three days in LA would be much appreciated. [more inside]
posted by sabotagerabbit at 6:24 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by sabotagerabbit at 6:24 AM PST - 10 comments
I want a typed document, but I don't want to type it.
Recommend an electronic method of taking notes in meetings that doesn’t look like I’m emailing or texting. [more inside]
Where can I hold my London birthday pub quiz?
I'm planning on holding a private birthday pub quiz at the beginning of December, somewhere in London. The only problem is I can't find a suitable venue, and I'm struggling on ways to make it really special. Your help is appreciated! [more inside]
What to say to a deranged millionare?
What should I say to John Hodgman at an upcoming book signing? [more inside]
iTunes and speakers for a small house?
What I have: a MacBook Pro running iTunes. What I need: some speakers and a way to get the music into the other rooms of a small house. [more inside]
Does an elegant solution for editing documents in Track Changes exist?
I'm looking for well-designed word processing software that lets me edit documents in Track Changes and is compatible with MS Word. Does it exist or am I dreaming? [more inside]
Help me master my research/writing/reference management workflow.
Is there an app that can help me take notes, tag them by topic, then export my notes by tag while retaining information about their source? [more inside]
posted by incandescentman at 1:18 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by incandescentman at 1:18 AM PST - 9 comments
Do you know of any movies that play on third-person and first-person perspective like in Samuel Beckett's Film?
Do you know of any movies that play on third-person and first-person perspective like in Samuel Beckett's Film? [more inside]
An illlustration from Babar with demons flying about?
Trying to remember an illustration from a children's book. Did you read Babar as a child? [more inside]
posted by duvatney at 12:14 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by duvatney at 12:14 AM PST - 5 comments
November 6
Top 10 films
I have a sturdy little collection of films I love (Charlie Kaufman/Solondz/Wes Anderson/Coen Brothers/Jeunet/B. Del Toro/Fincher/Herzog....etc) and usually really enjoy going to the cinema. It's just, the past few weeks I haven't been excited about anything coming out (I usually find something to really look forward to...) and I've watched the DVDs I have a million times. I feel like there is amazing celluloid that could blow my head off out there, but I don't know what it is. Please help! What are your all-time-favourite, changed-my-life films? Your top 10 must-sees?
What did she do with the body?
Feline behavior: Kitty killed a mouse, where is the other half? [more inside]
posted by cgk at 10:04 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by cgk at 10:04 PM PST - 29 comments
Furniture Shopping in Bali and Shipping to Sydney
How to go about buying furniture in Bali (Indonesia) and getting it to Sydney (Australia)? [more inside]
posted by vidur at 9:53 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by vidur at 9:53 PM PST - 5 comments
Have any examples of people turning their life around late in life?
I've heard of people saying "It's never too late to turn your life around."
But I was wondering if anyone here has personal life experiences to share of them or people they know turning their life around late in life. [more inside]
flattening and outlining text??
Designing postcard for printing. Having trouble "converting to outline." [more inside]
Turn two hyphens -- into M dash – and three periods ... into ellipsis … in Firefox?
Firefox / WIN7: I type in two hyphens IE -- and word processor (LibreOffice Writer) changes them into M dash IE – which is what I would love to see happen in Firefox. Alternately, if this cannot be done, is there a simple way to do this with some sort of macro on my puter? Plus, hey, while we're here, can we turn three periods IE ... into an ellipsis IE … ? (Hewlett Packard HP 630 laptop, if it matters.) [more inside]
posted by dancestoblue at 8:17 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by dancestoblue at 8:17 PM PST - 9 comments
Popup footnotes in an e-book app
Are there any iPad e-book reading apps that implement footnotes as a popup? [more inside]
posted by backwards guitar at 7:54 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by backwards guitar at 7:54 PM PST - 2 comments
Karaoke Etiquette
Etiquettefilter: During karaoke, what's appropriate when a song contains, e.g., a racial slur? Should you sing the lyrics as written? Substitute some other term? Not sing anything? Does the answer change depending on context - i.e., out with friends in private room, friends in public room, etc.? Specific instances discussed inside. [more inside]
How to recognize your own manager?
What is an appropriate gift or recognition for a great manager? [more inside]
Recommendations for meditation mp3s, CDs, etc. for chilling out during pregnancy?
Recommendations for meditation mp3s, CDs, etc. for chilling out during pregnancy? [more inside]
What are some ways that foods diagnose health issues in non-obvious ways?
Apparently, 10-14% of the population get red/pink urine after eating beets and this effect is an indicator for potential iron metabolism issues. What are some other ways in which foods can diagnose health issues in non-obvious ways?
How to say aloud "Lord D——'s private chapel"?
How would you go about reading aloud a story with names redacted? [more inside]
posted by komara at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by komara at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
What is this teleportation-centered scifi short?
Inspired by the recent posting of BLIT and its related stories to the blue ...
Back in the 90s, I read several short stories by a single author about teleportation; it had your standard "some can do this, some can't, so we don't like to talk about it" tropes, and one I recall in particular had several teleporters' murders as the plot driver. Spoilers inside. I read it in a zine published for the palm pilot, but I don't know if that was its original format or not. [more inside]
Can you help us find an available domain name?
Some friends and I are creating a small creative consulting group. Our skills are pretty diverse- environmental, web development, musical transcription/composition. We are trying to come up with an easy to remember name that is vague enough to cover all of what we do (with available .com URL) and drawing blanks. Any suggestions of names? [more inside]
Pitch me your story
If you work in advertising (especially digital advertising), how did you wind up in this industry, and specifically in your current position? Was this your intended profession, or was your professional path more circuitous? [more inside]
How to speed-season firewood?
We just bought a full face cord of firewood, all oak, pre-split, advertised as being dry & aged for 2 years. We got it from a craigslist seller who logs his land and sells firewood for a living, has been doing it for years with professional equipment and so forth, so it didn't just come from some random dude with a dead tree. Sounds like it should be pretty great to use in a fireplace, right?... Except it's not. The wood doesn't want to ignite and even when we stuff the fireplace with cardboard & paper, it'll get the wood hot enough to glow a little but then it just sits there sizzling. Any way to dry out this wood quickly so we can use it this winter? [more inside]
The Bill James of Soccer
Who is the Bill James of soccer? Looking for good soccer statistics analysis that is beyond what others are doing and is considered groundbreaking.
They make it look so easy on HGTV
We're remodeling our kitchen, yay. But... [more inside]
Can I use the drive from a portable HD internally?
Is it possible to buy one of these 1TB WD Elements Portable HDs and take out the drive within to get a drive I could pop into my MBP? This site would suggest it is... but then why is this so much more expensive than this?
Cheapest possible landline plan in New Haven, CT
What's the cheapest possible land line phone service plan for a very light user available in New Haven, Connecticut? [more inside]
Bedbugs in Los Angeles - treatment, next steps?
Bedbugs in Los Angeles in a (really great, otherwise) rental - Landlord's had it "treated" once, and it hasnt worked. Could use some advice on next steps, before I completely lose my mind. Long-ish sob story inside... [more inside]
Is Nar-Anon or Al-Anon for me?
My live-in SO is addicted to the fake pot (spice, niceguy, whatever name it goes by) and I need advice on support groups for me, a la Al-Anon or Nar-Anon. [more inside]
How do I keep noise out of my shared hallway?
I moved into a loft and the acoustics in the hallway are terrible. If someone walks past my talking to someone else, at a normal volume, I can hear every word, even with the television or music on. It is as if the door is made out of paper. What's worse, is that the opposite is true. When walking past a door you can very clearly hear what is going on inside. Any ideas on soundproofing my place? [more inside]
when to finish?
Should I postpone my last semester of grad school? If so, how? [more inside]
How can a non-senior poor person access prescription drugs in Chicago?
How can a non-senior, low-income Illinois resident with no health insurance fill expensive prescriptions? [more inside]
Preschool book recs please
Preschooler books - recommendations please! [more inside]
More spacious, dark, and arrestingly beautiful songs please.
Help me find more songs like this one. [more inside]
posted by seriousmoonlight at 3:35 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by seriousmoonlight at 3:35 PM PST - 11 comments
Triage for probable latex allergy?
Lil' girl appears to have developed an actual latex allergy. Where can I find latex-free undies tonight in north county San Diego? What do I need to be careful of while we're waiting to make a doc appointment? [more inside]
posted by moira at 3:33 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by moira at 3:33 PM PST - 15 comments
When long distance love crosses the borderline disorder.
The girl I love, who wants to be my wife, is 3,000 miles away from me. She is/was a cutter, may have Borderline (BPD) and lives in a country that I don't trust their mental health system. What should I do until I get her to America and a qualified therapist? OR how do I let her go gently? [more inside]
posted by DaftMythic at 3:28 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by DaftMythic at 3:28 PM PST - 38 comments
It's like Chopped. I just don't want it all in the same dish.
We visited the local Mexican market today, and bought a ton of stuff...and I need some help figuring out what to do with it. I need recipes/ideas for what to do with: fresh guava, dried pasilla chiles, a massive pork cheek, frozen shredded coconut, cajeta, and a ton of limes (12 for one dollar!!!). [more inside]
Can you give me stats direction? Yes/No?
(StatisticsFilter) I'd like to compare two binomial variables from the same population... [more inside]
posted by slab_lizard at 3:06 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by slab_lizard at 3:06 PM PST - 8 comments
Please help me buy Iranian sohan in the UK
Now that I have tasted the Sohan brought back as a gift from a trip to Iran I must have more! But where can I buy it in the UK? Help please! [more inside]
How to learn social guitar in eight weeks?
I'm going to practice guitar half an hour a day for the next 56 days. I've never played an instrument before, and I'd like to learn basic social guitar. What goals make sense for that timeframe, and how should I practice? [more inside]
posted by jhc at 2:54 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jhc at 2:54 PM PST - 20 comments
My neighbor stinks - literally.
Bad smells filter through the heating system in my building, meaning that my apartment - and by extension, me - smell like these bad smells (cigarette smoke + other). Help us both to smell like something more pleasant? [more inside]
posted by AthenaPolias at 2:54 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by AthenaPolias at 2:54 PM PST - 12 comments
Hanged by the neck until dead, in Firefox
Firefox hangs. All the time. I tried to fix it. But I can't. [more inside]
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 2:50 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 2:50 PM PST - 24 comments
Detangling Super Straight Fine Hair
I'm looking for advice on a detangling product for super straight, fine, long hair. [more inside]
posted by twiggy32 at 2:46 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by twiggy32 at 2:46 PM PST - 28 comments
DJ Screw - where to begin?
Recent convert to DJ Screw's mind-boggling 3 'n the Mornin', Pt. 1. Pulled down the lion's share of his catalog but I'm stumped as where to go from here. Any Screw fans have a road map handy for navigating his enormous discography?
posted by porn in the woods at 2:30 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by porn in the woods at 2:30 PM PST - 2 comments
My old dog learned a really bad new trick
My sweet 12 year old labrador has decided that he's old, he's entitled, and he would much rather take dumps on our living room rug than go outside in his nice fenced yard. [more inside]
Control VLC remotely over the net?
Can I keep two instances of VLC (on separate computers) playing the same video (stored locally on both) in sync, by controlling just one of them? [more inside]
Windows Live Mail ate my everything!
Windows Live Mail ate my everything! [more inside]
Home Design Gallery
Home Design Gallery [more inside]
Smart grid tech's ups and downs
A question about electric companies and smart meters. [more inside]
posted by crunchland at 1:06 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by crunchland at 1:06 PM PST - 13 comments
Opportunities for Writers
How likely is it that writer A contacts an agent with a writing idea, which the agent rejects from writer A but then encourages writer B, who agent knows, to write it? [more inside]
posted by CollectiveMind at 12:49 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by CollectiveMind at 12:49 PM PST - 12 comments
Trying to trace a YA book involving dog aliens vs cat aliens, and mould as a weapon
I read this YA book in the mid 1980s but I have no clue it was first published. I think it was originally published in English so wasn't a translated edition.
The main character is a teenage boy. He owns a smallish species of dog (terrier??)
Somehow he becomes the prisoner of an alien race who resemble dogs. An alien race which look like humanoid cats also feature. The boy is taken to the canine alien race spaceship and they question him, then infect him with some kind of mould/disease, but he escapes, I think with the help of the cats [more inside]
posted by Faintdreams at 12:48 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Faintdreams at 12:48 PM PST - 5 comments
Must I go to this wedding?
No seriously, do I reaaaaally have to go to this wedding? [more inside]
I might be beanplating this
I've found some clothes I really like on some Islamic clothing sites. Some of them are long skirts, some are kurtis and tunics. I want to get them for daily wear, but I don't want to be doing clothes-related cultural appropriation. I'm a white atheist. [more inside]
posted by NoraReed at 12:35 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by NoraReed at 12:35 PM PST - 25 comments
What happened to adderall? What is the next best thing?
Shire pharmaceuticals has stopped manufacturing adderall & the generic version (amphetamine salts) as I cannot find it at any pharmacy anymore. What is the best alternative? Usually I can only afford generic. [more inside]
posted by JJkiss at 12:27 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by JJkiss at 12:27 PM PST - 10 comments
CPA recommendation for part-time online LLC
I've read How to pick an accountant for your online business and I'm ready to find a CPA, but a little lost on where to start. Online searches tell me who is good at SEO, but not who is good at tax advice. The few people I know with similar work situations are still doing their own taxes. I was comfortable doing that before, but my tax situation has grown complicated this year. So I'm looking for recommendations from people in similar situations. [more inside]
Please help me identify what webmail service this came from
E-mail: Is it possible to determine from a message's "User-Agent" what service was used to send an e-mail? If so, please help me identify this one. [more inside]
posted by steinsaltz at 11:57 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by steinsaltz at 11:57 AM PST - 7 comments
YelpFilter, literally
My hairstylist asked me to post a review about her on Yelp. I created an account and posted my (100% genuine and not offered in exchange for any consideration) opinion that she's fabulous. Yelp has filtered (i.e., hidden) the review. Is there anything I can do to convince them of my sincerity? [more inside]
posted by Horace Rumpole at 11:30 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Horace Rumpole at 11:30 AM PST - 10 comments
apologetic neighborly gift
I accidentally neglected to pick up my dog's poop in a shared yard, which my neighbor subsequently stepped in and got on their porch! I am mortified. In addition to assuring them that it will never happen again, I want to offer an apologetic gift. What would be appropriate in this situation? Flowers? Food? Help!
Chrome keyboard shortcuts should not be so complicated!
Can you help me set up a specific keyboard shortcut in Google Chrome? [more inside]
More tech, less clutter
I've got the Samsung Nexus Google phone with Google Wallet pre-installed. Now what? Is it worth using? [more inside]
posted by doyouknowwhoIam? at 9:55 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by doyouknowwhoIam? at 9:55 AM PST - 6 comments
What kind of combination bed and climbing furniture is good for a three year old?
We have a three year old that loves to climb. We live in a small 2BR apt in San Francisco right now, so space is a premium. She has her own room, while not huge, it can certainly handle a combo bed-climbing piece of furniture. What kind of options do we have? [more inside]
Moved in with my girlfriend and I am very unhappy, feeling smothered. How do I get her to give me enough time to myself?
Moved in with my girlfriend and I am very unhappy, feeling smothered. How do I get her to give me enough time to myself? [more inside]
Keep me busy so I don't keep you busy...
Fido is coming to visit the in laws with us at Christmas. We want to minimize his potential annoyance to others and boredom. What are the best treat dispensing smart busy toys for dogs? We have a kong and a jolly ball, but what else is out there? It needs to be durable and very difficult since Fido is too darn smart. He loves a good calf thigh stuffed with cheese, but the licking sounds he makes are a little too gross for public. He is around 50 pounds, so it needs to be for large breeds that are hard chewers. Thanks! [more inside]
New York Marathon Traffic
Asking for a friend: "Our flight leaves from JFK at 5:55 PM. We're currently in Northern New Jersey, near Morristown. My father has offered to drive us to the airport, but we're concerned about whether this will be physically/emotionally possible due to the marathon. Our plan was to head south and take the Verrazano Bridge. Will this take us around the road closures / traffic hell, or should we just take the train?"
posted by ootsocsid at 8:11 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by ootsocsid at 8:11 AM PST - 8 comments
How are nonworking spouses viewed outside the U.S.?
"Being a stay at home parent, or just a non-working partner or spouse is frowned upon and you're accused of being a parasite, gold digger, etc." This statement from the "What are America's quirks" thread earlier today has me wondering how nonworking partners/spouses are perceived in the rest of the world. I'm particularly interested in nonworking partners/spouses who are not caring for children. [more inside]
What's wrong with undertaking? (not an enterprise, or the dead-body kind)
Hot on the heels of this question, I've gotta ask you MetaFolks from outside the USA -- why do you have such a big problem with 'undertaking' ie passing in the slow lane? [more inside]
Where did my elongated wooden hippo come from?
A diaper by any other name
Cloth diapers: what's your experience with brands, fit, value, and performance? [more inside]
posted by litnerd at 6:06 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by litnerd at 6:06 AM PST - 33 comments
Dealing with Unruly Youth
I was harassed by some teenagers on the street and kicked one of them, how could I have handled this better? [more inside]
A place to live between Queens and White Plains
Since Summer 2012 I will work in Flushing, Queens, while my children will attend a school in White Plains: Where is advisable to live in order to commute easily to both destinations? [more inside]
I'll pass on that role in the Days of Wine and Roses, thanks ever so
My mother is an alcoholic. It has become painfully evident that I need to set clear boundaries with her. How do I do this without hurting my siblings? [more inside]
posted by theBigRedKittyPurrs at 4:43 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by theBigRedKittyPurrs at 4:43 AM PST - 12 comments
How to install gcc 4.2 on a macbook with Xcode 4.2
What is the best way to get gcc-4.2 on my Macbook with Snow Leopard and Xcode 4.2? [more inside]
posted by davar at 2:09 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by davar at 2:09 AM PST - 16 comments
My webpage won't update unless I hit the refresh button.
Not exactly sure how to phrase this question, cause I don't know the lingo, but here goes. How do I make it so a browser automatically updates my web-page. [more inside]
posted by snwod at 1:25 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by snwod at 1:25 AM PST - 7 comments
November 5
Aptitude-based hiring and on-the-job hiring in software companies?
I'm looking for software companies that do 1) aptitude-based hiring and 2) on-the-job training: "If you pass a (often language-agnostic) programming test, in addition to in-person interviews, maybe a code review, etc., we will train you for your job." What companies in the Chicago area follow this model? [more inside]
Apartment equivalent of a lemon?
I came home to my ceiling leaking brown water this evening. After a few phone calls from me to the 24/7 answering service my landlord has set up, a maintenance man finally showed up. He deduced that the hot water pipes in the floor between my ceiling an my neighbor to the north's floor had burst.
Meanwhile my counters, appliances drywall ceiling/wall/electrical outlets/lights and wood floors are soaked. The maintenance man said he turned off the water flow to the burst pipe, and said he would return tomorrow to ensure the walls/ceiling had dried, but I'm not comfortable with that response --- I feel that all of the waterlogged drywall/floor should be replaced and the appliances should be replaced.
What do I do? Should I call a lawyer? Should I write/mail a certified letter to the landlord?
I'd like action now, but feel like I'm being out by the wayside. Please help!
Paging Dr. House
What could I be doing that keeps getting me infected with fungal infections and infections in general? [more inside]
Video to improvise to?
What are some short, cute/ funny/ entertaining videos that could be improvised to on a piano? [more inside]
Bildungsroman, easy on the Roman?
Coming of age novels or memoir about surviving bad parenting that are not too painful to read? [more inside]
posted by R2WeTwo at 11:00 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 11:00 PM PST - 36 comments
What are America's quirks?
Calling all non-USAans: Can you give me some examples of tiny, weird things you discovered about the United States only when you got here? [more inside]
posted by Diablevert at 10:06 PM PST - 319 comments
posted by Diablevert at 10:06 PM PST - 319 comments
How can I convince an orthopedist to give me the type of cast I want?
I broke the wrist on my right (dominant) hand. How can I convince an orthopedist to give me the type of cast I want? [more inside]
posted by xyzzy at 9:41 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by xyzzy at 9:41 PM PST - 20 comments
Proper way to store stinky fertilizer
I am a new homeowner and need to know how to store bags of fertilizer so they don't stink up my yard.
I know that this may seem like a silly question, but please bear with me. I am a first time home owner and for the first time in my life I have to figure these things out. My home has a big garden and lawn. I am in southern California so it is used weekly by my gardener at this time.
I have hired to previous owner's gardener since he is so familiar with the care of the many different plants in the yard. The previous owner kindly left me with big bags of fertilizer which the gardener has started to use. They are propped up against the back of the garage and after a couple of rainstorms, it has gotten REALLY STINKY. Like, I was wondering if previous owner was hiding a body in the yard before I realized it was the fertilizer! Ha! [more inside]
posted by dottiechang at 9:35 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by dottiechang at 9:35 PM PST - 9 comments
Should I respectfully decline or just get over myself?
An old friend recently came to me with a job offer. It's to design a few dozen graphics illustrating business concepts that will be put on flashcards. I have no formal graphic design experience -- I've never taken classes or courses -- but I'm talented enough and am fairly well-versed in digital painting. In all respects (money included!) this sounds like a really cool job for me, but I'm worried I won't be able to deliver. Should I take it anyway? [more inside]
How to get rid of my beard...for good?
Sick and tired of shaving! I'm going to get electrolysis. Here's the catch: I'm a guy. Anyone out there undergone the process before want to tell me what it's like? I imagine it's quite different for men rather than women as our beards are quite a bit coarser. [more inside]
posted by satyricaldude at 9:00 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by satyricaldude at 9:00 PM PST - 10 comments
Crazed woman took my pens
Is impulse thievery a hallmark of mental disabilities? A crazy woman took my pens at a restaurant the other night, and one of her companions claimed she had some sort of mental disability or condition or something. I am inclined to think she was just drunk and obnoxious, but I don't have a lot of knowledge of mental disabilities. [more inside]
posted by 6500xf at 8:43 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by 6500xf at 8:43 PM PST - 27 comments
Judge me, I'm begging you already: Please judge me!
How long does it take for a judgment to be rendered in Boston's Suffolk Probate & Family Court these days? My lawyer swore to me that it would take eight months at most (!) to get a decision. It's now been 13 months, and I'm losing my mind. [more inside]
Who was the first ad man/salesman/pitch man to publically call himself "Crazy"?
Who was the first ad man/salesman/pitch man to publically call himself "Crazy"? [more inside]
Easy protein-based options for camping food?
Next month I'm going on a two-week camping trip in New Zealand with Flying Kiwi, a tour company I've used before and enjoyed. My main gripe last time was the food: carbs, carbs, carbs all day long! Cereal and toast for breakfast, sandwiches for lunch, and pasta and rice-based dinners most nights along with some beer and cider.
I'm looking for easy protein-based alternatives that I can stash in my stuff and turn to whenever I need a break from the carb onslaught. [more inside]
Sixteen Candles?
I am very upset with my husband for not taking the initiative with my birthday and need help coming to terms with both what he did and my response to it. Lots of special details inside. [more inside]
posted by corn_bread at 7:33 PM PST - 89 comments
posted by corn_bread at 7:33 PM PST - 89 comments
I’m ready to sacrifice a lot for this profession; but do I have to sacrifice my private life?
I'm about to enter the public school profession and am struggling with societal mindsets about who teachers have to be. Can public school teachers still be complex adults when they're off the job? [more inside]
Why can't I write in this title box? With a pen?
Tablets and handwriting recognition. What's the deal? [more inside]
Where can I find some co-working spaces for tech startups in Australia?
Where can I find some co-working spaces for tech startups in Australia? I'm building a web/mobile startup with my co-founder and would like to be working amongst fellow startup companies. [more inside]
What is the proper way to test a website idea?
What is the proper way to test a website idea? [more inside]
Issue with copying images on a Mac
Something's wrong with copy-pasting images on my Mac. When I'm editing pictures, I copy part of it, and when I paste it comes out lighter than before. Example here. The problem happens in Seashore and Paintbrush. Does anyone have any ideas what could be wrong? I don't even know how to google this problem. [more inside]
posted by WhackyparseThis at 4:57 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by WhackyparseThis at 4:57 PM PST - 3 comments
McGurk effect, how does it work?
Please explain the McGurk effect as if you're talking to a 5th grader. [more inside]
posted by fuse theorem at 4:56 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by fuse theorem at 4:56 PM PST - 14 comments
Want to create a cover gallery
I have some CBR and CBZ files and I would like to extract the first image in each one (presumably the cover) to another directory for use in an iPhoto library. I have both Mac and Windows available to me. Is there any software that can do this?
What's your view of the movie "Safe"?
music with computers
I want to learn how to make electronic music. But I need to learn in a way that guides me...very...slowly...and directedly. (Also, as free-of-charge as humanly possible.) [more inside]
Children Stuff for Adults
I need an affordable tote bag (exactly like a diaper bag, but isn't) AND reusable 8-12 oz cups, with lids and straws, which are both microwavable and dishwasher safe and will hold both hot and cold drinks. How in the heck do you find these things? [more inside]
Advice for a recent college graduate dealing with depression
I'm a recent college graduate and long time depression sufferer. Now I've suddenly been cast out into the "real world" with no directed day-to-day course of action and I'm feeling lost and needing help. Currently near by the San Francisco Bay Area, I'm needing to settle down soon to make some money and also receive the mental health care that I believe I need. The problem is that I'm totally broke. Any practical advice on breaking a stubborn depression when you're not made of money would be sincerely appreciated. [more inside]
(Giant Mess of) Christmas cookie baking best practices?
Each year we bake up a number of Christmas cookies to give to family, friends, service professionals we are grateful for, etc. Each year the list expands. This year we have vowed to get organized, make dough in advance, improve our packaging and presentation so that recipients don't get a box of crumbs, etc. What are your best practices? [more inside]
Help me relieve my boredom.
I'm sick and in bed and bored out of my gourd. Recommend guilty pleasure-type movies for me! Bonus points for government conspiracy / mysteries. [more inside]
posted by custard heart at 3:05 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by custard heart at 3:05 PM PST - 41 comments
It's a roof, not a raccoon pantry -- help!
Professionals have failed! Help me raccoon-proof my rubber roof. [more inside]
Who/what has inspired you to have more passion and better work ethic?
I'm looking for inspirational stories of people with a vision they're passionate about, and the work ethic to accomplish what they set out to. Tales that make you come away thinking "Yes, that is how I want to be living my life" and charge you up for the work you're doing. They don't have to be people you'd generally admire or seek to emulate - whatever their goals, it's that spark/drive/dedication/grit I'm most interested in. [more inside]
posted by ChristopherS at 2:49 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ChristopherS at 2:49 PM PST - 10 comments
Mitigating nutritional impacts of long term PPI use
Hey, nutrition experts: I need some advice about taking vitamins and supplements with proton pump inhibitors. [more inside]
posted by Corvid at 2:36 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Corvid at 2:36 PM PST - 2 comments
How long is too long to wait for love?
How long it too long to wait for someone? [more inside]
Plain black socks designed to keep your feet cool?
Does anyone know of some plain, black socks that are designed to dissipate heat, keeping your feed cool and dry? [more inside]
posted by hoobichu at 2:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by hoobichu at 2:35 PM PST - 7 comments
Dear Vista: Please be *Less* Secure.
I've got a windows vista installation that, as of a few months ago, has stopped letting me write to a bunch of directories or change a bunch of files, and it won't let me make them writeable again. [more inside]
"Fingers to temple" means telekinesis?
After the its recent use in "X-Men: First Class", I want to know the earliest occurrence of "two fingers to the temple with stony stare" as a physical cue for telekinetic/telepathic power (psychokinesis) ...
posted by Hugobaron at 2:11 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Hugobaron at 2:11 PM PST - 3 comments
Let's go down the psycho path! (that is the slogan I would come up with if I were a board game publisher. It is lame enough to work!)
Board Game Filter: So my mom called today, and asking about an old board game she loved. She used to play it with her cousin -- she thinks it'd have been about '73-ish. She remembers it being called "Psychopath" (or perhaps "Psycho Path"), but my google-fu failed on that name, so perhaps that is not it. (Actual Gameplay Description Inside) [more inside]
posted by Rev. Syung Myung Me at 2:07 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Rev. Syung Myung Me at 2:07 PM PST - 8 comments
Can I break my lease after fire from landlord negligence (more inside)?
Landlord negligence caused a fire in the apartment below me, causing significant damage in my apartment; had to temporarily relocate. Looking to explore my legal options/rights/advice. [more inside]
posted by kelechv at 1:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by kelechv at 1:35 PM PST - 7 comments
Oblivious rapid speech?
Name this condition: Rapid speech that the speaker is not aware of or perceives to be at "normal" speed. [more inside]
posted by ferdinand.bardamu at 1:31 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ferdinand.bardamu at 1:31 PM PST - 6 comments
The depressed helping the depressed
If you are mildly depressed, anxious, and stressed out, how or can you help someone going through a major depressive episode without hurting yourself in the process? [more inside]
Advice on buying a little place in a good location.
So I'm thinking of buying a 1 (or maybe 2?) bedroom condo in Washington, DC. Talk to me about the pros and cons of doing this! [more inside]
Fantastic Four vs. Mole Man
Where in the DC area can I sell my husband's 1990's trading cards? [more inside]
Share your experiences of stopping taking lithium?
I'm gradually coming off Lithium, having been on it few years, and I'm looking for experiences/warnings about what to expect. [more inside]
Shake That Booty?
Why am I almost always trembling, shaking, or shivering? [more inside]
The Hook Up Guide for the Awkward Guy?
How do I make a move and initiate a hook up? Awkward guy in need of help! [more inside]
Eyestrain headache
I keep getting headaches from looking at computer screens. [more inside]
Looking for a good heating therapy pad
Hi,
I have been looking for a good heat therapy bag for a while but haven't been able to find a good model. The only problem is they do not get hot enough to feel the difference, no matter on what setting or how long you keep them on. I have tried heating pads from Sunbeam, Softheat, etc.
Does anyone here know a good model?
Thanks.
posted by musicgold at 11:46 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by musicgold at 11:46 AM PST - 6 comments
This leaves a bad taste in my mouth...
Bought a bottle of wine I can't stand to drink. Can't return it. Can I resell it somehow? Does Craigslist work? [more inside]
posted by lovelygirl at 11:17 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by lovelygirl at 11:17 AM PST - 47 comments
Another lost-book-title title question. 80's Scifi Edition vol 237
Another lost-book-title question. 80's Scifi Edition vol 237 [more inside]
Looking for an online video file from the 1990s
A long time ago, in an internet far, far away, there was a file….. Seriously, this has bugged me for a long time. Circa 1996, there was a video resume posted online that was ahead of its time. I want to find it. [more inside]
Need to resize a Windows 7 image backup
Windows 7, 80gb hard drive backup of a laptop - I need to get the machine back up and running, but the largest available hard drive is 40GB - There are files I can lose on the backup to get it down to 40GB, but how do I do it? [more inside]
posted by Orb2069 at 11:06 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Orb2069 at 11:06 AM PST - 9 comments
Acting pointers..
I read the AskMeFi question, The Beginners Guide to Theatre Acting which was great for auditioning ... the only problem now is I actually have a part! [more inside]
Is it normal in Australia (or anywhere) for a restaurant to ask for your credit card before a meal in case you walk out without paying?
Is it normal in Australia (or anywhere) for a restaurant to ask for your credit card before a meal in case you walk out without paying? [more inside]
He's not Married.
Melting snowflake relationship filter. I don't believe that my boyfriend is married. My friends and some of my family do. All the messy details under the fold. [more inside]
Now this shant hurte a bit.
What movie about the (US) Revolutionary War did I see in the mid-to-late 70s? [more inside]
Things to do near the Milwaukee Airport. When you're alive. And without a car. And hungry.
What to do and where to eat when you are at a conference near the Milwaukee Airport? [more inside]
If I haven't been getting enough zinc, are there other problems I should watch for?
If I've been lacking zinc in my diet, what else might I have been missing? I recently started taking zinc supplements, and within two days my erectile issues are gone (I'm a youngish guy, so it's a real relief). I thought I ate a balanced, healthy diet, so I'm surprised that I must have been lacking zinc. I am a vegetarian. If I was lacking zinc, are there other things I may have overlooked? Are there lifestyle/dietary choices that are associated with lack of zinc? [more inside]
Is EI too shameful?
Work is ending next week, nothing lined up to follow. Should I go on EI or is that too shameful/irresponsible for someone of an upper middle class background? [more inside]
how to change no. of table columns for mobile browser?
Anyone know how I can change the number of columns on an HTML table when it is viewed from a mobile browser? I want to display a 5 column table if the site is viewed from a desktop, but want the table to be just 1 column if viewed from a mobile device. Can this be done easily? I only know basic html.
Stylistic successor to William James
William James was an astounding prose stylist, but seems to have come from a school of rhetoric long since lost. Does anyone today write in an analogously formally beautiful, dense yet lucid, naturally learned, opinionated, and wry style anymore? (see for just one entrancing example his essay on PhDs in academia)
posted by shivohum at 9:29 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by shivohum at 9:29 AM PST - 8 comments
Sorry Mom, but no.
I will no longer travel with my elderly mother. Do I tell her so or just keep changing the subject? Details inside. [more inside]
Help me sort out a career in Org Consulting, Org Leadership, or Org Change.
I want to get my doctorate (PhD or EdD) in something like organizational leadership/organizational development/human and organizational learning. I also want to move into the career of organizational assessment and change (being a consultant maybe?) with a distinct interest in higher ed. Can you give me advice, help me think of pitfalls, and generally guide me in decision making? [more inside]
Where do I find InDesign CS report templates?
I've signed up to do layout an annual report-type document for a not-for-profit. But I'm using a computer circa 2005 that has InDesign CS (the first) ... where can I find professional report templates for InDesign CS? [more inside]
New wireless router help needed.
Please help me find the best wireless, simultaneous g/n router that also functions as a print server natively or using Tomato or DD-WRT. More inside--> [more inside]
help me control humidity in a tropical climate, please!
A question about dealing with humidity in a structure that's not closed in. [more inside]
posted by Alpenglow at 6:52 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Alpenglow at 6:52 AM PST - 4 comments
What's this track?
House music nerds: what's this (very poorly recorded snippet of a) track? [more inside]
posted by Hartham's Hugging Robots at 6:38 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Hartham's Hugging Robots at 6:38 AM PST - 5 comments
How can I build a pretty video website
What options do I have for a simple website for educational video clips with video thumbnails & descriptions? [more inside]
posted by smelvis at 6:22 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by smelvis at 6:22 AM PST - 5 comments
The serial monogamist's revenge
Here is one requiring some detailed knowledge of social security benefits. How many ex-spouses can I make eligible for spousal benefits? [more inside]
Greg -> Keg, Robert -> Robber, Elisabeth -> Lizard Bath. Help me make a giant list!
Greg -> Keg, Robert-> Robber, Elisabeth -> Lizard Bath. Help me come up with a list of image mnemonics for as many names as possible! [more inside]
posted by sdis at 4:25 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by sdis at 4:25 AM PST - 16 comments
Music like The Conversation soundtrack?
Hey, did you ever see The Conversation? Remember how the soundtrack was mostly one dude on a piano? Can you recommend more music to me like that, where it's really engaging and moody like The Conversation soundtrack, but it's also just one guy? [more inside]
posted by malapropist at 4:12 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by malapropist at 4:12 AM PST - 17 comments
Do you remember this racially-insensitive book from the '90s?
Does anyone remember this book, or the controversial argument at its core? It would have been published in the late 1990's, and argued that blue eyed candidates got the job more often than thier brown eyed peers- a friend mentioned the book, which I vaguely remember, but neither one of us can find a title or author. Help!
A sackful of cold frozen death!
Hope me become bivy-savvy! I bought a great sleeping bag... so why am I still cold? [more inside]
posted by WidgetAlley at 2:16 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by WidgetAlley at 2:16 AM PST - 19 comments
Help me pick a grad program
What graduate program should I choose to get into the field of non-profit management and program evaluation? I'm considering the MIA program at SIPA and this MA in Econ/Business/Politics at Claremont (non-profit track). Will these work? What else should I be looking for? [more inside]
Preview always crashing
I use Preview to view the many lolcats I download off the Internet, but the application is crashing constantly since I "upgraded" to Mac Lion. Further, Preview only seems to display animated gifs as still frames. Recommended solutions?
Soda Drink Recipes
I want to stop drinking Coke and other syrupy sodas. Anybody have easy ideas for soda-replacements? [more inside]
Chocolate Pumpkin Pecan Pie?
Do you have a recipe for this chocolate pumpkin pecan pie? [more inside]
posted by Lylo at 12:31 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Lylo at 12:31 AM PST - 3 comments
November 4
Not feeling bullish...
Jumping ship from Merrill Lynch. But where to? [more inside]
Work flow for print design?
Can you tell me which software tools graphic designers use when they do print design? [more inside]
Why Can't I Just Be Me?
It's finally time for me to set up a website. Sadly, saralastname.com is being parked by someone who shares my name. What to do? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 10:19 PM PST - 45 comments
posted by Sara C. at 10:19 PM PST - 45 comments
Time for some new reading material.
Hit me with some great, freely-available, science fiction short stories. [more inside]
Computer Security Compromised?
What exactly is occurring in my Outlook Account. And what should I do about it? [more inside]
posted by jcworth at 8:52 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by jcworth at 8:52 PM PST - 5 comments
What's the name of Pat Summit's electronic game?
What's the name of the electronic game Pat Summitt was playing on the t.v. show 20/20? [more inside]
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 8:49 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 8:49 PM PST - 1 comment
May the sun never set on new zealand
Can anyone give me a rough translation of the Haka in Latin? [more inside]
Is This Negotiation, or Being Punked?
Is this a game of real estate chicken or what? [more inside]
In the Bloomingdales Christmas Rotation 2010...
Last Christmas, there was an indie guitar song that was really popular...help me figure out what it was! [more inside]
posted by whimsicalnymph at 7:59 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by whimsicalnymph at 7:59 PM PST - 6 comments
How to ace a non-profit development interview
Posting for a friend:
She has an interview next week for a part-time non-profit development/social media job. She has pretty good answers for generic job interview type questions, but what kinds of questions might she prepare for that are more specific to the field? What kinds of skills should she be highlighting? [more inside]
Move an iPhone 4 from AT&T to Tmobile?
I currently am on my parents plan with an iPhone 4 via AT&T for my phone/data. I would like to keep my phone and number, but move to T-Mobile on to my wife's plan. Is it true that 3G will not work as this article suggests? Can I use any other carrier beside AT&T without gimping my phone? Is there any chance in the future of compatibility with Tmobile?
Also: would this nullify my unlimited data with AT&T? Is it possible to get off my parent's plan and on to my own without losing unlimited data? (I was told they no longer offer it..)
posted by idyllhands at 7:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by idyllhands at 7:43 PM PST - 8 comments
COBRA for weekend coverage?
Insurance coverage from previous job ended on Friday without COBRA. Insurance from new job starts retroactively on the following Monday. I have pre-existing health issues. How do we know if we need COBRA or not? [more inside]
I have no idea how to summarize this.
Help me interpret my situation and figure out the practical implications of the social advice/philosophies that my friends have been giving me about it. (Warning: a super long and arguably dramatic story awaits you.) [more inside]
Do I have to allow my landlord to show the apartment to prospective buyers? My lease does not end until middle of next year.
Do I have to allow my landlord to show the apartment to prospective buyers? My lease does not end until middle of next year.
Its a nuisance and very disruptive. What are the rules around this?
I am obviously the tenant and the landlord is trying to sell the apartment. Do I have a choice?
Toronto Boundary Surveyor
I need to get a boundary survey on my residential property in Toronto. I've called several surveyors but have only heard back from one, who says it'll cost $900 and take two weeks to perform. Is this normal? Seems pricey and lengthy for an 18' x 100' rectangular lot. Any recommendations for surveyors in Toronto?
posted by krunk at 6:30 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by krunk at 6:30 PM PST - 3 comments
Alternatives to an Economics PhD
I am planning on applying to economics PhD programs for next year, but before I commit I wanted to think about alternatives, especially in light of all the articles lately about how PhD programs and academia in general are a pyramid scheme.
What other careers/education might be a less painful way of getting to a job that fits my life goals. [more inside]
Gallery Wrap Photo Company Recommendations
Any recommendations for inexpensive, but good quality, gallery wrap photo companies? Online or in Portland, Oregon? [more inside]
posted by ..ooOOoo....ooOOoo.. at 5:45 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ..ooOOoo....ooOOoo.. at 5:45 PM PST - 6 comments
Good history project topic
I have to help my fifth grade daughters with their history fair project and they think I'm smart. Help! [more inside]
posted by daydreamer at 5:27 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by daydreamer at 5:27 PM PST - 22 comments
Help, I Canna Deal With These Bulbs!
Practical suggestions for overwintering canna bulbs, please? A LOT of canna bulbs? [more inside]
Hack my L.A. trip.
What's the best way to access a car in L.A. for two weeks without going through a traditional car rental agency? [more inside]
"I think that stripper really liked me" in the movies
Looking for examples of the "I think that stripper really liked me" theme in films [more inside]
posted by vincele at 4:07 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by vincele at 4:07 PM PST - 13 comments
Cat brothers suddenly at war Help
SOS to cat behaviorists out there! My friend has a serious issue that we are trying to solve:
3 cats—brothers—born 2008. Never separated. Loving, cuddly, sleep curled together UNTIL early this spring one day all of them were sitting in peace before an open window and suddenly and completely went Bill the Cat Batshit and viciously started all out screaming catfight. They were separated for 2 wks at recommendation of vet and seemed to forget about it, resumed loving brotherly behavior but THEN 3 mos later 2 were sitting in front of window and again Total Feline Warfare—clawing, screeching, and spraying. This time it took 3 mos of separation plus application of feline pheromone diffusers in 3rd month. September and October civil relations resumed with cuddly cosleeping. Yesterday NO window open. Total screeching warfare with clawing and spraying. All have been neutered since kittenhood. [more inside]
Where can I get a rag doll repaired in the UK?
Where can I get a rag doll repaired in the UK? [more inside]
Learning C-like languages in London, fast
I work with databases and T-SQL. I'd like to be taught to program fun software-type stuff quickly and painlessly, in London. Maybe some Objective-C, I'm not sure. I think I'd prefer a one-week intensive course or two to evening classes, but I'm open to the latter if they're really good. [more inside]
Where should I take my wife for our anniversary?
My second wedding anniversary is approaching. All my wife wants is to be taken to dinner (I asked her, because I'm a romantic). But I'm new to the city (of New York), and so is she. Where would you recommend I take her? [more inside]
posted by nostrich at 3:25 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by nostrich at 3:25 PM PST - 24 comments
Correct use of a gerund?
Grammar question about gerund use in a sentence. Should be an easy one. [more inside]
posted by Cortes at 3:23 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Cortes at 3:23 PM PST - 10 comments
How Do I Connect 3 External Drives To My WiFi Network?
I've replaced an aging iMac with 3 external drives hanging off of it with a Macbook Pro with the same 3 external drives hanging off of it.
The setup also includes a cable modem and a Time Capsule.
Right now the drives are in daisychained Firewire mode.
I'm looking for a way to connect the drives to my wifi network so I can eliminate the need to plug the first drive into the laptop? Staying with Firewire would be nice, but it's not a deal breaker.
Advising team on protecting their prototype as product heads into development?
I'm advising a team which has created a clever interactive teaching item for a specific type of healthcare scenario. It has been received well in initial testing of the working prototype, and the team would like to pursue further development. They need to begin to involve others in exploring refinement and manufacturing, and are trying to determine how to protect their interests. But NDA (non-disclosure agreements) are rarely accepted nowadays. Need to consider alternative strategies... [more inside]
Et in Arcadia ego?
"Visiting the Library is by introduction. Its location is not advertised, and it does not reveal its whereabouts on the internet." So where is the Arcadian Library and how do I get to see it? And are there any other secret libraries like this?
ISO L.A. Endocrinologist Recomendation
Is there an endocrinologist in the L.A. area (preferably near Hollywood) that you'd recommend? [more inside]
"Affordable" Bay Area neighborhoods?
Looking for an "affordable" neighborhood in the Bay Area to rent in. Criteria inside. [more inside]
Integrating fulfillment with Shopify
Integrating Shopify + Google Checkout + custom fulfillment place XML API. Can they all talk to one another, and if so, how? [more inside]
Now Jimmy Hoffa was buried or something? Was that it?
What is the best one stop book for the history of the American labor and union movement? Extra bonus points for a legal perspective. [more inside]
posted by T.D. Strange at 2:30 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by T.D. Strange at 2:30 PM PST - 8 comments
Macs and Samsung TA550 - fuzzy image
Hi Everyone
I have a Macbook Air with Thunderbolt (mid 2011) and a Mac Mini 3.1. Can anyone help me with the correct display settings for a Samsung TA550? I have searched - to no avail. Also trying out SwitchResX.
What bugs me is that XP of all things seems to work properly with the display.
What gives?
Thanks!
BB
How long would the yarn supn from a single sheep's wool be?
This is a Fermi Question, I only need an approximate answer: How long would the yarn spun from a single sheep's wool be? Is 2 miles reasonable? What's a good lower bound? [more inside]
posted by ch3cooh at 2:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ch3cooh at 2:10 PM PST - 10 comments
Soon to be Big 3 if they hire me.
What's it like for a mid-career (35 years old) IT person to suddenly start working at a big 4 consulting firm? [more inside]
Requesting advice from sensible people: how to navigate weird/awkward post-hook up situation
Seeking advice from sensible people: how to navigate weird/awkward post-hook up situation, with bonus unplanned pregnancy. [more inside]
NYU Stella Adler Studio
My sibling is at NYU in the Stella Adler acting studio. She is a freshman and is very frustrated with the lack of rigor the acting program offers. She is very disappointed and questioning if other people had this experience. Other students have also shared this feeling, not just about Stella Adler studio but also about the studios they are attending. Based on your experience, did you feel it was a quality program worth attending for 4 years? Do the studio classes improve after the 1st semester? I would really appreciate your honesty. Thanks.
We like to dance fast!
Accidental DJ would like awesome advice on danceable music. [more inside]
Christmas Cards
OK not a big fan of Christmas. Looking for xmas cards to send to like-minded friends. I saw a great one a few months ago on deviantart (and can't find it again) father xmas beard collaged over various famous photographs - one particularily wicked one over D. Lange's famous photo of a woman and child in Depression Era. Not big or clever. But still...
Take a bite out of biting
Our 11-month old Black Lab is very badly behaved. Please suggest ways that we can deal with out-of-control biting and other bad habits. [more inside]
I have to leave the house occasionally.
My sweet, mellow German Shepherd Dog has started behaving in a way that is completely new and not good. I could really use some advice. [more inside]
Play my Shuffle on the road
Is it possible to use an adapter to play an iPod shuffle with a female audio jack through an FM transmitter with a 30-pin iPod connector? [more inside]
Maybe I just have a weak stomach.
Why can't I read comments on my essays, even in private? [more inside]
posted by hepta at 12:14 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by hepta at 12:14 PM PST - 28 comments
'Tis the Season for What?
What are some food things/crafts/hobbies you can only do during certain seasons, or in certain climates? For example: freeze distillation is only good when it's freezing out, canning is only useful when it's harvest time for a fruit. [more inside]
Twin Cities XC ski stores!
I'm in the Twin Cities, and I see a number of great-sounding ski stores in my area: Sisu Nordic, Hoigaard's, Midwest Mountaineering, Hopkins Ski and Cycle, and more. Can anyone help me suss out exactly what makes each store unique? I want to buy skate skis and equipment, both local and new, so help me out. Also, are there any good ski forums for the area?
posted by cothebadger at 11:48 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by cothebadger at 11:48 AM PST - 6 comments
How do I learn how to be a better song writer/composer?
I want to spend the next year getting better at writing and composing music -- how do I do it? [more inside]
posted by empath at 11:32 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by empath at 11:32 AM PST - 22 comments
How to make boring website less boring?
How do I make my boring-by-design website, well...less boring? [more inside]
They all taste the same!
I'm going to a wine tasting, but I have a low-level cold that's probably going to be around until then. Will medication save me? [more inside]
Bad product descriptions
Do you know of any poorly written product descriptions online? I need some striking examples that are bad enough to be revised effectively. [more inside]
posted by glassrose at 11:17 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by glassrose at 11:17 AM PST - 12 comments
Califlutie Dreamin
Can anyone find or transcribe the alto flute solo from The Mamas & The Papas California Dreamin? My google-fu, torrent-fu, and commerce-fu have failed me :( This would help achieve a life-long dream of mine.
posted by Mach3avelli at 11:16 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Mach3avelli at 11:16 AM PST - 2 comments
Don't taze my Flanders, bro!
Paranoid security theater question:
Will I get hassled by airport security for wearing my Remembrance Day poppy (as it has a terrorist-grade pin to attach to the lapel)?
I'm travelling to the U.S. west coast on the weekend, and I'm wondering if airport security hates our Canadian soldiers?
posted by In The Annex at 11:14 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by In The Annex at 11:14 AM PST - 14 comments
So I have cancer. Please help me live.
So I have cancer.
I have Diffuse B-cell Lymphoma that started out in my face and emerged initially as a Stage 2 tumor in my mouth (rare). I had an 85% chance of full cure and was cancer free for 1 year and 2 months until... [more inside]
Looking for online community platform
Looking for an ecommerce platform suitable for building a web community such as Etsy... [more inside]
Financial Advisor Inquiry
I'm a 33 year old male who has been interested in being a Financial Advisor since the 7th grade. I've an undergraduate degree in Finance with a CIS option and am currently 1/2 way through my MBA. I really want to become a FA but I'm a little nervous about starting from scratch, selling to my friends and family, and walking around town knocking on doors to sell although I've been told that I am a very likeable person who would be great at this. [more inside]
Flowers
How do I go about becoming a florist? [more inside]
posted by timpanogos at 10:08 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by timpanogos at 10:08 AM PST - 7 comments
Board games as culture
What countries have notable/unusual board game cultures? [more inside]
Need new laptop
Laptop recs with a $1k budget. [more inside]
Am I losing my hair or just my mind?
How can I tell if I'm losing too much hair or just shedding normally? [more inside]
Occupy Oakland: Are we safe going to Oakland's Fox Theater on Sunday evening? It's at 19th & Telegraph.
Occupy Oakland: Are we safe going to Oakland's Fox Theater on Sunday evening? It's at 19th & Telegraph. [more inside]
posted by wnissen at 9:43 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by wnissen at 9:43 AM PST - 12 comments
Pooh Emergency! Looking For Rubber Stamps!
Where can I find Winnie-the Pooh rubber stamps (Milne not Disney) [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 9:15 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by goalyeehah at 9:15 AM PST - 10 comments
User-friendly way to share large video files?
User-friendly way to share large video files? [more inside]
posted by vers at 9:03 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by vers at 9:03 AM PST - 9 comments
Apps for iPhone - but not iPad.
iPhone apps for someone who already has the iPad? [more inside]
B5 Quote?
Trying to remember a specific quote from Babylon 5. [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 8:51 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Hactar at 8:51 AM PST - 5 comments
If you wash us, do we not bleed?
My red-on-white polka-dot dress bled in the laundry... onto itself. Is there any way to remove the pink stains while preserving the print? [more inside]
posted by Bardolph at 8:12 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Bardolph at 8:12 AM PST - 5 comments
Show me the Awesome!
I'm looking for images, most likely illustrations but photos might do, that depict the most absurd, over-the-top awesomeness. Imagine someone sat down and said "I'm going to draw the silliest, most awesome thing ever." [more inside]
Jill of all trades, master of one
What kind of activities can I put my daughters in that, if pursued to a certain end, have the potential to end up on a resume? Example: “ability to swim” is not something you’d put on a resume. But “Certified Lifeguard” is. [more inside]
posted by yawper at 7:42 AM PST - 55 comments
posted by yawper at 7:42 AM PST - 55 comments
Best iPhone GPS app for a hiker?
Are there any great (or even good) hiking specific GPS apps for iPhone? Ideally, I'd be able to download a particular region of maps, enter and set waypoints, and show the distance and direction from my current location to a previously defined waypoint. Current speed and time to waypoint would be nice, but not necessary. The app must work without an internet connection. [more inside]
posted by jeffch at 7:37 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by jeffch at 7:37 AM PST - 8 comments
I guess it's better than a 100% sore throat, but...
multi colored rug care
I got a rug for my bathroom from Pier 1 Imports which is off white with colored stripes. I havent washed it yet, but it got wet, and the red bled into the off white a bit making it faintly pink in a small area. Can you tell me how to 1. eliminate the pink without harming the adjacent red or other colors, and 2. treat the other colors so that bleeding does not occur again, and I can wash it? [more inside]
Do Adderall Make Us Write Bad?
Do people write differently when they're on Adderall? Do you write differently when you're taking Adderall? I am interested primarily in those taking it as directed rather than using it for studying, but I'm interested in any perspective. [more inside]
Is 9 months too old to begin crate training a lab?
My wife and I recently adopted a 9 month old black lab who has not been crated at all. He does fine in the crate at night (just a little whining before he nods off), but when I put him in the crate in the AM, he doesn't like it. [more inside]
Bulging veins & leg pain = I'm dying? Or what?
Bulging veins and pain. Am I dying? And if not, what is going on? [more inside]
Looking for a Lunch Break on Our Drive North?
We are looking for the best food-related stops on our drive from Washington D.C. to central Connecticut. [more inside]
posted by Xalf at 6:56 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Xalf at 6:56 AM PST - 8 comments
I really need to talk right now...
I woke up this morning, and my voice is gone. That would suck at any time. BUT, my sister's wedding is tomorrow, and I'm the maid of honor. Is there anything I can do? [more inside]
posted by afton at 6:42 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by afton at 6:42 AM PST - 17 comments
Bogus web site registrations
I have a web site using Wordpress and a forum plug-in (Simple-Press) that's been around for awhile and has become fairly popular. All of a sudden I've begun getting at least 3 to 6 bogus user registrations each day that are coming from IP addresses in Russia and eastern Europe. I don't really know why or how concerned I should be. They don't need to register to post comments on my blog and Akismet is almost 100% effective at getting rid of comment spam. They're also either not trying to post spam on my forum or they can't get past the Captcha/challenge it uses. [more inside]
Looking for an inventory of street design
Lost Website Filter: I have a vague memory of a website with an inventory of urban street design options. It had photos and commentary on T-intersections, streets with curves, streets with Big Fancy Buildings framed in arches or gates... an organized collection focused on the aesthetic feel of urban design from the street level. It talked about street design almost like interior design — using buildings to create 'rooms' on the street that could feel expansive or intimate. [more inside]
posted by heatherann at 6:25 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by heatherann at 6:25 AM PST - 3 comments
Name that London hotel.
Can you recommend a London hotel which meets my specific requirements? [more inside]
posted by guessthis at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by guessthis at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
Robert C. Solomon On Love and the Passions
I'm interested in exploring Robert C. Solomon's work on our human passions, love, etc., which was one major focus of his work. Since he was such a prolific author, I'm a bit overwhelmed by the choices available. Does anyone have works they recommend in particular? Thanks.
A little new chamber for which I may reside.
Who currently does music along the lines of Rachel's and Fifths of Seven?
How should i fix an abrasive platform in my turtle tank?
How should i fix an abrasive platform in my turtle tank? [more inside]
November 3
And way to include in PHP across public_htmls?
Is there any way to include_once() in php across different cpanels on a VPS? [more inside]
How does power spikes work?
Calling all electricians: please explain to me how power surges work. [more inside]
posted by Hakaisha at 11:45 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Hakaisha at 11:45 PM PST - 4 comments
I made out with a girl at a party, but I really like one of her close friend. What should I do?
I made out with a girl at a party, but I really like one of her close friend that was there too. What should I do? [more inside]
Educational materials regarding income disparity and public policy?
What are some sources for particularly educational/relevant flyers regarding income disparity, public policy, and other issues pertinent to the Occupy Wall Street movement?
Where can I get good, cheap, solid-color men's t-shirts?
Where can I get good, cheap, solid-color men's crew-neck t-shirts? I like these GAP t-shirts, but am looking for a better deal than $17. [more inside]
posted by lunchbox at 9:50 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by lunchbox at 9:50 PM PST - 24 comments
What to Expect on the Day Of Birth and the Days and Weeks Beyond
My wife is due to give birth in the next three weeks or so. I'm interested to hear the experiences of other men about the day their wife or parter gave birth and also what the first few days and weeks thereafter were like. [more inside]
We need a Peter, we get a Paul; At least Judas had some balls
What are some punk-rock concept albums in the vein of Fucked Up's David Comes to Life and Titus Andronicus's The Monitor [more inside]
posted by holdkris99 at 9:31 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by holdkris99 at 9:31 PM PST - 14 comments
Internet book discussions for the google-fu weak
Where do you find good book discussions on the internet? [more inside]
posted by Nickel Pickle at 8:20 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Nickel Pickle at 8:20 PM PST - 8 comments
Is it normal to get cold feet this early?
My boyfriend and I are in our late 20's and we've been together for almost three years. We've talked a lot about marriage (both casually and seriously), and we've both been enthusiastic about it. I'm getting the feeling that he may propose soon, and suddenly I feel nervous about it. I think I'm just generally scared of making such a big life decision. I know it's normal for people to get pre-wedding jitters, but what about pre-engagement? [more inside]
Unexpected landings and arrest warrants
If there was a warrant out for your arrest in a foreign country, would you still be arrested if you were on a plane that had a mechanical failure or something and had to land in the nearest airport, which happened to be in that country? [more inside]
posted by Meathamper at 7:43 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Meathamper at 7:43 PM PST - 19 comments
I need to buy a lift-chair, have no clue, ideas?
Caring for elderly relatives: What is the best brand of lift-chair? [more inside]
Can weaning only affect my mood?
Can weaning feel like early pregnancy? [more inside]
What Do You Do With A Problem Like Risotto?
Best Use For Lots of Leftover, Meaty Risotto? I accidentally made more like Risotto for 4 rather than two, and one person hardly ate as Risotto is very filling. What are the best uses for lots of Risotto besides sitting in my fridge laughing at me.? What other meals can I use it in or as a part of? [more inside]
posted by The Whelk at 7:23 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by The Whelk at 7:23 PM PST - 19 comments
Buy Here, Pay Here
Are there any tips on dealing with "Buy Here/Pay Here" dealers? Are there any alternatives for someone with not-so-great credit? [more inside]
Page-flipping eBook software
I'd like some recommendations for a page-flipping eBook creator. [more inside]
VPN Alphabet Soup
From Iguazu Falls, should I go to Salta, AR or Montevideo, UY?
I'm not the first to ask this type of question, but my situation is a bit unique. I have 10 days, starting at Iguazu Falls and flying out of Buenos Aires. My original plan was to travel down to Uruguay for a few days and then take the ferry over to Bs. As (for at least 4 days). I've recently learned about Salta, and it sounds really cool. Is it worth taking the long bus ride there and back down to Bs. As. or should I just let it go and head to Uruguay? [more inside]
Nice visuals from software project
I'm looking for a way to generate something aesthetically pleasing from a somewhat successful software project I'm involved in, with an eye to giving it as a gift to the project manager. [more inside]
Grad schools for decision-making
I need to find grad schools to apply to, especially ones that aren't top-tier. Field: Decision-making. [more inside]
Nobody's walking out on this fun, old-fashioned family Christmas. No, no. We're all in this together.
How can you "fake it" or "power through it" or "put on a brave face" to make the holidays as normal as possible, when other people depend on it? [more inside]
Is it a really bad idea to open a 0% interest card and transfer the balance while home shopping?
Is it a really bad idea to open a 0% interest card and transfer the balance while home shopping? [more inside]
Should my one year old have the MMR vaccine as he has dairy allergies and the MMR vaccine is made from eggs
Is a USAirways Mastercard worth it?
I have a lot of flying to do in the next 18 months. I need help evaluating the offer of a usairways premier world mastercard. I'm wanting to see what the hivemind thinks about this being a good thing or a bad thing. [more inside]
Would prefer to not lose my mind. Again.
Accutane. HBC intolerance. IUD. Anxiety about all of the above. Here we go. [more inside]
What are the arguments for and against corporate personhood?
What are the arguments for and against corporate personhood? [more inside]
Howard Florey, what's it like?
Seeking anecdata about the Howard Florey Institute in Melbourne! I might have a lead on an interesting project there, but nobody in my network has any experience of the place - does anyone on Mefi? Or could anyone introduce me to someone there who wouldn't mind answering a few questions via email? Thanks enormously!
How to keep my email?
I'm soon to leave my current job. How can I keep my email that's in a Google Apps account through my employer (i.e., not a free Gmail account; the email address ends @employer.com, not @gmail.com)? [more inside]
posted by Other at 3:31 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Other at 3:31 PM PST - 23 comments
Capture worry in the form of media
Can you think of a movie, clip, song or any piece of media that would express extreme worry or anxiety? [more inside]
Help this freelance writer in Asia figure out his next career move!
I’m a writer, doing OK in a small pond, but I’m looking for a bigger pond to swim in. Help me figure out my next career move. [more inside]
Digitize my rollodex!
What are my best options for digitizing a large collection of business cards? Bonus points for being able to integrate into MS Outlook. [more inside]
Please help me figure out this song!
I'm grasping at straws here, but I heard a song in Nordstrom last night and the chorus went something like:
...by three by five *something something* next in line...
... oh this is all real, oh this is all real... [more inside]
posted by jstef at 2:58 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by jstef at 2:58 PM PST - 15 comments
Forever Alone?
When it comes to interpersonal relationships, I’m having a difficult time managing. I only have 3-4 good friends, and I haven’t had a girlfriend since before GW Bush was re-elected in 2004. Lately it even seems like the few friendships I have are suffering. I cant figure out how to move forward from this point in my life. [more inside]
Why doesn't ctrl+home take me to the top of the page in Firefox?
Why doesn't ctrl+home take me to the top of the page in Firefox? [more inside]
posted by misanthropicsarah at 2:51 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by misanthropicsarah at 2:51 PM PST - 11 comments
How to be disabled?
I know this sounds shit, but I need some advice on how to continue a satisfying life with a disability. Really long story as short as I can think to write it inside. [more inside]
The Great White Tee
Sourcing the perfect scoop neck t-shirt! [more inside]
Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software?
Flexible, customizable, free, gay-friendly, Windows-compatible genealogy software? [more inside]
Oceans iOS 5
What would be a good ipad app to plan a heist with. [more inside]
What are the rules regarding workman's comp and free lance day laborers?
Am I required to carry workman's comp on free lance day laborers? [more inside]
posted by zagyzebra at 2:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by zagyzebra at 2:24 PM PST - 9 comments
Dumped hard. How do I be a person?
My girlfriend just dumped me. Now what? [more inside]
Do you know the name of this homemade playstation move project?
What is the name of the PlayStation Move homemade project where the point of the game was to shake the other persons controller when the music played fast? [more inside]
posted by supyo at 1:49 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by supyo at 1:49 PM PST - 3 comments
Is there a natural substitute for the benzodiazepines?
Is there a natural substitute for the benzodiazepines? [more inside]
posted by DMelanogaster at 1:27 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 1:27 PM PST - 27 comments
What is this coin-like object?
Another mysterious metal object...Help! [more inside]
posted by SixteenTons at 1:12 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by SixteenTons at 1:12 PM PST - 13 comments
I'm not THAT eager to have lunch with you...
I have an HTC phone that keeps sending duplicate text messages because it thinks delivery is failing. Except they're sending out fine. So now I just send out 8 text messages every time I try to send something. How do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by Phire at 1:08 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Phire at 1:08 PM PST - 6 comments
Can I Get a Ticket Thrown Out For Improper Dating
I got some traffic tickets in October. My court date is December. Except the way it's written on the ticket it's January. As in the one from 2011 that already happened. [more inside]
Bugs in the air (vent)
Recs near Beacon Theater
Recommendations for food near the Beacon Theater in New York City. [more inside]
Best Regional Train Station to Park?
Best SEPTA Regional Rail station to park at or nearby Friday night to Saturday afternoon? Needs to be on Manayunk/Norristown or Paoli/Thorndale Line. Looking for stations that have either pretty easy parking or available street parking within a five minute walk.
eBook reading via computer help.
Help with viewing eBook on computer. (details inside) [more inside]
How to approach a professor after failing exam? Professor won't let students look at old exams as a policy.
How to approach a professor after failing an exam? Professor won't let students look at old exams as policy. So don't know what questions to focus on or why I got questions incorrect.
Any insight would be appreciated. [more inside]
Help Me Find the Perfect Teacher Cart
I am a teacher who travels to a different school each day of the week (sometimes two). Help me find the perfect folding cart / luggage cart / hand truck system to haul all of my crap around! [more inside]
smoothing those rough edges
Teachers : How do you deal with difficult kids in your class ? [more inside]
posted by nicolin at 11:42 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by nicolin at 11:42 AM PST - 24 comments
I'm pregnant but I still have a brain.
Please suggest pregnancy resources for a scientific, geeky, intellectual, academic woman. [more inside]
posted by medusa at 11:39 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by medusa at 11:39 AM PST - 19 comments
Democracy is messy by design
Does the U.S., by treaty or other law follow the OSCE/ODIHR – Venice Commission Guidelines On Freedom Of Peaceful Assembly in regards to applying the First Amendment right within the Constitution? [more inside]
Two questions about stoner music:
1. Can anyone tell me of musical traditions (outside of the obvious-rock, hip-hop, reggae, etc.) in which psychedelic drugs & marijuana are supposed to inform the listener's interpretation of the music?
2. Are there any fans of improvised music that comes from outside of the US/European tradition? Can someone point me to some amazing African or Indian jams?
posted by shushufindi at 11:30 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by shushufindi at 11:30 AM PST - 17 comments
Best way to contact my biological mother?
What would be the best way of initiating contact with my biological mother? [more inside]
I want to end a "friendship"
I want to officially end a "friendship". I want to be mature about it...and I'd prefer to do it via email... [more inside]
Help me find examples of obsessive wall collages in film.
You know how movie shorthand for obsession is often a collection of pictures and newspaper clippings on a wall? I need some examples! [more inside]
Thinking of moving back to NYC, what are my chances of employment in the tech industry?
I've been living in Europe for over 5 years, recently in Berlin for two. I'm considering moving back to NYC where I grew up and have family, and I want to know what the high-tech scene is like there, and how easy/difficult my life would be, professionally. [more inside]
posted by tempythethird at 11:04 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by tempythethird at 11:04 AM PST - 5 comments
I plan on making custom USB cables and I need sources for parts.
I'm looking to buy a supply of cable that would be ideal for making USB cables. Also are there any suppliers for tips and ends that can supply to Canada?
I'm tired of crappy usb cables that are never the lengths that I want them to be. [more inside]
posted by Chamunks at 10:59 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Chamunks at 10:59 AM PST - 18 comments
dude, where's my car?
can i get out of paying this ticket? [more inside]
What's the story with these goofball cars?
Take a large sedan, paint it some obnoxious color, and bolt on absurdly large wheels: what is this style of modified vehicle called, and why do people think it looks cool? [more inside]
posted by Mars Saxman at 10:34 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by Mars Saxman at 10:34 AM PST - 37 comments
Help with puppy with warts in her mouth
My poor puppy has warts in her mouth that look like COPV or the canine equivalent to HPV - probably contracted at daycare. The vet says that they will go away in time but probably last for a few months. I've been seeing on the web that L-Lysine and/or Vitamin C can help boost her immune system. Does anybody know anything about this and what dosage to give her of either?
posted by Raichle at 10:22 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Raichle at 10:22 AM PST - 12 comments
A Drobo, a Time Machine and two Macs walk into a bar...
I want to sync two comps to my drobo over the network but I need to repartition. HalP! [more inside]
I somehow doubt that I've won a thousand .dollar.Visa.Giftcard!
Recently spam mail from (what appears to be) the same source keeps getting through my Gmail account. I've never had a problem with this in the past, and the current crop all seems to be roughly formatted in the same way. I've been marking everything I notice as it comes through, but is there anything else I can do? [more inside]
posted by codacorolla at 10:05 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by codacorolla at 10:05 AM PST - 8 comments
I need some really difficult riddles, puzzles, and logic challenges.
Co-workers of mine insist on posting little brain teasers and such all around the office: riddles, mazes, jumbles, crosswords, etc. Help me find remarkably difficult (but possible) puzzles that I can use to troll them. Bonus points if they look, at first glance, relatively simple.
posted by Plutor at 9:58 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Plutor at 9:58 AM PST - 16 comments
Where should i get a prepaid phone plan?
Of the numerous prepaid phone plans around, which one sucks the least? [more inside]
I don't want to be a professor, I just want to be a lab tech who reads a lot.
Help me quit grad school. [more inside]
Move my elephant
How can I build the courage I need to face great professional and personal challenges... like writing reports and doing my expenses on time and putting up those shelves in the bathroom? [more inside]
200000 GET
What's the best platform for setting up an email mailing list or discussion for my local neighborhood? How should it be organized and promoted? We have a mix of younger (more tech-savvy) and older residents.
Tights are not pants. Apparently, some tights are not even tights.
In what movie(?) does a little brother draw lines on the back of his sister's legs to fake a pair of silk stockings? [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 9:44 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by phunniemee at 9:44 AM PST - 16 comments
Leather jacket in NYC
Hell bent for (a good quality) leather (jacket) in New York City. [more inside]
Visually Striking Scientific Illustrations for Poetry Book Cover
Help, scientists! I'm looking for a cover image for my forthcoming book of poetry. I would like to use a visually striking image (photo, diagram, etc.) from a scientific publication. [more inside]
posted by sleevener at 9:06 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by sleevener at 9:06 AM PST - 14 comments
Creative Arts Ideas for Grownups
Where can I find resources on the web or in print for great art-making and unique crafty ideas for adults? [more inside]
An American in Canada
I'm an American, and I'd like to rent a place in Canada for about three months. Is there anything stopping me from doing so? Are there any extra hoops I'll need to jump through? [more inside]
Help me plan ahead for anonymous holiday gifts
I know I'm a chronically early planner, but bear with me. I have two questions about the upcoming holidays:
1) Organizations similar to this one that sends shoe boxes of toys to needy children.
2) Random acts of anonymous kindess but AT WORK.
More details inside: [more inside]
Help me be an educated voter.
Where can I find a summary of candidates for the next election? [more inside]
posted by VTX at 8:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by VTX at 8:08 AM PST - 4 comments
Help keep my friend out of prison
My friend is being being influenced by internet crackpots. How can I get him to listen to reason? [more inside]
posted by ambulocetus at 7:56 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by ambulocetus at 7:56 AM PST - 43 comments
Tell me about regulatory enforcement careers
I'm curious about careers in financial-sector regulation. What kind of advanced education would help me get work with the U.S. Department of Justice, the FDIC, the SEC, or a state regulator? Is it better to focus on states (which ones?) or the federal government for this kind of stuff? Do some universities graduate more people into this kind of work than others? What kind of dues paying is required before the work gets interesting? What should I consider as I weigh either pursuing legal or finance training? [more inside]
Is it better to maintain a local digital music library or simply listen through services like Pandora or Spotify?
Is it better to maintain a local digital music library or simply
listen through services like Pandora or Spotify? [more inside]
posted by ChipT at 6:13 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by ChipT at 6:13 AM PST - 36 comments
What condition was my condition in?
What medical problem did I experience I few years ago? It baffled the doctors at the time - can you diagnose it now? [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c at 5:31 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by cincinnatus c at 5:31 AM PST - 13 comments
Help me make my apartment not smell bad
I clean my apartment (and myself) on the regular. So why does it smell like dirty laundry all the time? How do I make it stop? [more inside]
The Eternal quick bread
I have an important banana bread loaf that I need to keep fresh and accessible indefinately. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by Jason and Laszlo at 1:03 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Jason and Laszlo at 1:03 AM PST - 15 comments
Melbourne quirks
Where can I get a slide projector in Atlanta tomorrow?
Where can I get a slide projector in Atlanta tomorrow? [more inside]
posted by thebrokenmuse at 12:35 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by thebrokenmuse at 12:35 AM PST - 2 comments
Everything But the Cliche
For financial and quasi-environmental reasons, I live in a studio apartment with its own bathroom but with a shared kitchen down the hall. It's great except for one thing: I'd love to use my bathroom sink for kitchen-ish purposes, but the faucet and drain are too shallow. Is there anything I can attach to the faucet that'll give it a bit more flexibility - without breaking my lease or calling the plumber? [more inside]
posted by Apropos of Something at 12:14 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Apropos of Something at 12:14 AM PST - 4 comments
BLUE DIAMONDS! AND ELEPHANTS! ON TRAMPOLINES MADE WITH SILK!
Treasure and scavenger hunts! LARPs! ARGs! Murder mysteries! Interactive experiences galore! Where do I start learning about producing & designing them? [more inside]
November 2
Help me SEE-I these lyrics
Anyone want to take a crack at deciphering the lyrics from the 2:22-2:31 mark of this song? [more inside]
no more smelly gunk
Looking for the perfect simple, rich, unscented night moisturizer. [more inside]
posted by you're a kitty! at 11:26 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by you're a kitty! at 11:26 PM PST - 34 comments
Hardware mod to fix Automatic Brightness on Android smartphone?
I've got an idea to fix the crappy automatic brightness sensor on my Android phone. Will it work / screw anything up? [more inside]
posted by anthill at 11:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by anthill at 11:05 PM PST - 8 comments
I'm calling from the Philippines.
Is it really possible to have a home-based job (specifically call center related) available to people of the Philippines from companies of other countries? [more inside]
What are some viable career options for an FAE?
What are some viable career options for a hardware (semiconductors) Field Applications Engineer? [more inside]
What gift for the man who has everything??
Gift Ideas for local Celeb.. [more inside]
Give me your unresolved pasts
Looking for book recommendations. I enjoy novels where characters deal with some type of mystery from the past. Can be historical fiction (like People of the Book or Possession) or entirely fictional. [more inside]
posted by imalaowai at 9:08 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by imalaowai at 9:08 PM PST - 35 comments
Maybe a radioactive spider?
Mystery bug bite filter: woke up with a bite on the back of my right knee two days ago. Can you help me ID it? [more inside]
Bag me a pannier
Which bicycle pannier should I buy? [more inside]
posted by soy_renfield at 8:06 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by soy_renfield at 8:06 PM PST - 26 comments
Workouts that spare the spine.
Seeking alternatives to weightlifting to stay fit and nurture a newly temperamental back... [more inside]
posted by artemisia at 7:49 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by artemisia at 7:49 PM PST - 19 comments
When something seems too good to be true...
I am looking into an "unlimited" ADSL2 broadband service, offered by TPG in Australia. It seems like an unusually good deal - enough to make me suspicious that there's some kind of hidden catch. I was hoping someone would be able to confirm/refute my doubts. [more inside]
Can I donate sperm to my former girlfriend?
Can I donate sperm to my former girlfriend? [more inside]
Need InDesign data merge help
I am doing a Data Merge and I need to drop out blank lines. I want to split some of the lines to the right and left, but how can I do this without embedding some whitespace? [more inside]
posted by wenestvedt at 7:21 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by wenestvedt at 7:21 PM PST - 8 comments
Bioinformatics Down Under
I would be finishing my bioinformatics master's degree next year and am considering to go to Australia or New Zealand for PhD in bioinfo, or Computer Science with a focus in computational biology related stuffs What are the academic and industry situations like in these two countries? [more inside]
What to call a UU non-church.
What do you call a Unitarian Universalist church when you don't want to call it a church? [more inside]
posted by sarling at 6:49 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by sarling at 6:49 PM PST - 42 comments
Wedding invitation etiquette
Wedding invitation protocol question for the non-Martha Stewart demographic. [more inside]
Tipsy cactus, go boom
Dear MeFi houseplanters and succulent enthusiasts, can you help me identify my treasured, overgrown cactus, and help me keep it upright? [more inside]
posted by Sayuri. at 6:42 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Sayuri. at 6:42 PM PST - 9 comments
good girl pat pat, bad dog... ?
Recommend a dog trainer/ behaviorist in Portland, OR? [more inside]
posted by fritillary at 6:29 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by fritillary at 6:29 PM PST - 2 comments
Looking for stories/anecdotes from halfway house living
Halfway house stories. [more inside]
Is there a speed/efficiency reason not to put the slips in the register after each sale?
Is it normal for cashiers to put all the sale receipts in a pile to 'speed up the line'? [more inside]
posted by winna at 5:46 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by winna at 5:46 PM PST - 32 comments
Call 1-800-FEAR.
Mom: Cancer + unemployed + broke. Just shy of Medicare eligibility. She needs help immediately. But how? (Cook County, IL) [more inside]
Should we all switch to copper?
If copper is so effective at destroying bacteria, including antibiotic resistant organisms and viruses, why don't we see it used as a standard material in settings like hospitals, schools, public transportation etc? [more inside]
posted by YukonQuirm at 5:27 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by YukonQuirm at 5:27 PM PST - 22 comments
How to do right by my friend, and myself?
A friend helped me to get a temp position at her office. If a better and permanent offer for another position comes along before my temp contract is up, what would be the ethical thing to do? [more inside]
posted by sorrysockpuppet at 5:25 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by sorrysockpuppet at 5:25 PM PST - 11 comments
Looking for a low-budget Xmas getaway from the East Coast.
One person, I want to get out of NYC for a simple, quiet vacation at Christmas/New years; but on a real tight budget. A place to hike, read, sleep, or CCski. A cabin in the woods? A beach?Bed and Breakfast out of my range right now. Something available thru Amtrak or a bus. Go south?Any ideas?
How do I get through all of these books????
How do I tackle studying for the CFA exam? [more inside]
posted by triggerfinger at 5:09 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by triggerfinger at 5:09 PM PST - 4 comments
Combining ALL the things!
Hope me! I have a Wordpress foodie blog and I have a kitchenware retail website. I want to take the blog and export it to my website. Somehow. It gets a little more complicated and I'd really appreciate some help walking me through the various procedures. Wise advise on blog organisation would also be deeply appreciated. Apologies in advance for the longwinded rambling to follow. [more inside]
posted by ninazer0 at 5:04 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by ninazer0 at 5:04 PM PST - 3 comments
OW OW OW OW OW
Tell me about your experiences with dental implants. [more inside]
My wordpress blog hates calendars.
Having a strange problem with my Wordpress blog and calendar plugins... any calendar plugin, actually. [more inside]
Poor (but pretty) in pastel
Does anyone remember a big pink-, blue-, and white-striped shopping bag popular in developing countries in the '80s/'90s? It felt like waxed straw, or something Tyvek-y. It had handles, and was often big enough to cover a whole suitcase. [more inside]
posted by taramosalata at 4:26 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by taramosalata at 4:26 PM PST - 23 comments
Trying to get Android OS 2.1 installed on myTouch 3G. Or, CyanogenMod?
Just bought a T-Mobile myTouch 3G. Can I actually get Android OS 2.1 (or even later) on it? Alternatively, what potential pitfalls should I be aware of if I install CyanogenMod? [more inside]
posted by rkent at 4:12 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by rkent at 4:12 PM PST - 12 comments
Building reports with Microsoft Visual Web Developer 2010 Express
I have developed a project management C# website using Visual Web Developer 2010 Express and SQL SERVER 2008 Express. I now have urgent need of some reporting functionality, and I am not at all clear about what my options are. [more inside]
converting my house heating from oil to natural gas
Converting my home from fuel oil to natural gas heating - how to do it? My 1890s house is heated with radiators and run on fuel oil - which has been steadily getting more and more expensive. I have natural gas already running to the house for appliances and water heating. [more inside]
posted by waylaid at 4:06 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by waylaid at 4:06 PM PST - 13 comments
How do I become more successful with children?
How do I become more successful or popular with children? I love kids, but I don't know how to act around them. [more inside]
Soup Ideas for Leftovers?
What kind of soup should I make with leftover Italian pot roast? [more inside]
What TV episodes do I show the aliens first?
Looking for the top episodes of any TV series. "Best", most ground-breaking, controversial, funniest, awesome guest stars... Series/Season endings are easier, it's the stuff leading up to that where I need help. [more inside]
Using images from public library special collection?
How do I choose an image from a large collection of rare (or rare editions of) illustrated children's books at the public library? The Friends of that Library would like to use one of the images to promote a fundraiser for the collection, and I need some help navigating copyright and practical issues surrounding that choice. [more inside]
Gimme that Old-Time Synth Music: CA East Bay Edition
CA East Bay Area Electronic Music: Where can I find it? [more inside]
Help me hack fear of failure
What are your personal hacks for getting over fear of failure? [more inside]
Before surgery, my insurance company said I wouldn't have to pay. After surgery, that's changed. What now?
Before having surgery, I was told by my insurance company that my deductible had been reached, and that there was nothing for me to pay. After surgery, they amended that, telling me that in fact my deductible had not been filled at all for the present period, and I *would* have to pay. Am I just screwed here? [more inside]
Ordering a list of languages
Language fans: is this the most logical way to order a list of languages? [more inside]
How to find a therapist that is a match made in heaven?
How to find a therapist tailor-made for my snowflake issues? [more inside]
Buddhist with Life Goals & Desires?
How can I not be an apathetic Buddhist? [more inside]
Rainy, Cloudy, Gloomy, Snowy Movies
Rainy, cloudy, snowy, gloomy movies. Can you help me out? [more inside]
posted by Sassyfras at 2:31 PM PST - 59 comments
posted by Sassyfras at 2:31 PM PST - 59 comments
Technology museums in Washington DC
Washington DC museums - What are some good museums in DC for the history of technology, transport, computers, etc. - I do know about the Smithsonian and their Air and Space Museum. Thanks!
posted by carter at 2:03 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by carter at 2:03 PM PST - 25 comments
Cooks on Alaskas' North Slope
Alaska / North Slope Filter: Is there a month or time of the year when there is a greater opportunity to land a culinary job on Alaskas' North Slope or offshore oil services industry in this area? [more inside]
Confusing Lawyerspeak
Law question: Me and the ex are going to court to go over child support, and today I got a copy of a motion filed by his lawyer that said, "Please enter my appearance on behalf of the defendant (his name) on Complaint for Modification filed by Kinetic."
I don't have a lawyer to ask.
Does this mean my ex isn't going to show up at court?
My iPod Touch is Refusing to be Cool
Why is my iPod Touch lock-screen randomly showing/not showing the new iOS5 features? [more inside]
posted by joelhunt at 1:30 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by joelhunt at 1:30 PM PST - 3 comments
Greek and Greek-related (even *super-vaguely* Greek-related&mdashlike songs from "Grease") music suggestions needed!
My friends have a themed New Year's Eve dinner party every year, and I'm in charge of putting together the background music mix. This year's theme is "Greece" (because, well, it might be the last year that Greece exists *g*), so I have to come up with about six hours of music from, about, or in any way related to Greece. I need suggestions from MeFites! [more inside]
posted by tzikeh at 1:28 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by tzikeh at 1:28 PM PST - 48 comments
What is rave culture like today?
Can someone tell me about warehouse party culture? [more inside]
What's that number again?
CellPhoneFilter: An aging senior executive has moved beyond his Blackberry. Any suggestions for a smartphone that makes looking at email easy and dialing numbers even easier? Specific makes and models wanted. [more inside]
What is it actually like going to a well above average public school system, compared to an average or below average one?
What is it actually like going to a well above average public school system, compared to an average or below average one? [more inside]
Nothing's quite as enraging as not being able to find a simple solution to a simple problem.
Unix wizards: How the heck can I sequentially rename a bunch of files to 001, 002, etc., without using a shell script? [more inside]
posted by neckro23 at 12:19 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by neckro23 at 12:19 PM PST - 15 comments
Help my friend pack better!!
Four gals going to Vegas for 4 days. Just one wants to check her baggage. How do we/I convince her it's just not necessary and will be a PITA if just one of us is doing this. [more inside]
posted by SoftSummerBreeze at 12:17 PM PST - 45 comments
posted by SoftSummerBreeze at 12:17 PM PST - 45 comments
What kind of knob will thread on to this lamp control?
What kind of knob will thread on to this lamp control? [more inside]
Helping feed the homeless with just a little bit of time and cash and creativity
Other than chili and spaghetti, what can I make in mass quantity that requires not much $$$, time or ingredients? If it's warm food, how do I keep it warm when it won't be served for at least another 90 minutes in an open parking lot, at night, where there is no electricity and it's freezing cold? Yes, it's to feed the homeless. [more inside]
posted by HeyAllie at 12:05 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by HeyAllie at 12:05 PM PST - 35 comments
Cultural Exploration Project Ideas
My girlfriend has to do a "cultural exploration" project as part of her coursework for a BA in Elementary Education. Need some suggestions. [more inside]
posted by healthykindofsick at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by healthykindofsick at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
iPod choice
Which iPod for my bedridden elderly father? [more inside]
Should I fight this ticket?
Please help me figure out how to contest a moving violation in California (Alameda county) [more inside]
"You're Too Paranoid To Be Seduced Anyway."
My new boyfriend has become incredibly paranoid about my literary interests. How can I put him at ease? [more inside]
posted by xbeautychicx at 10:48 AM PST - 95 comments
posted by xbeautychicx at 10:48 AM PST - 95 comments
Niagra dribbles but does not fall.
How can I poop less frequently? [more inside]
What should we ask for from Target?
What have you bought and loved from Target? [more inside]
Help me love squash!
Help me love squash! Give me your best recipes. [more inside]
posted by sadtomato at 10:32 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by sadtomato at 10:32 AM PST - 34 comments
How to print small batch of custom shaped magnets?
I am trying to make a set of custom shaped and printed magnets in a small batch. Anyone have experience printing and cutting magnets? Or printing on magnetic sheet with inkjet/ using a digital die cut system? [more inside]
correct usage of pronouns for women
Guy, boy, gal, girl. What's offensively diminutive, what's acceptable? [more inside]
Must survive for 3 days without antihistamines
I have to stop taking antihistamines for 3 days in order for my allergist to run a test. It's looking like an impossible task - I've already changed the appointment date once because my hives were too much to handle, and I'm sure I would've torn my skin off. So how can I actually do this? Any tips for surviving what looks like idiopathic urticaria? [more inside]
posted by Tequila Mockingbird at 10:11 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Tequila Mockingbird at 10:11 AM PST - 8 comments
How do I write-off a donation?
Tax question: How do I determine the value (if any) for a donation write-off? [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 10:10 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Thrillhouse at 10:10 AM PST - 11 comments
Maybe I'm just an asshole...
How or when is it okay to "correct" your SO? [more inside]
posted by doomtop at 9:53 AM PST - 62 comments
posted by doomtop at 9:53 AM PST - 62 comments
Are there any documentaries about comic book fans?
Are there any documentaries about comic book fans as opposed to comic book creators? [more inside]
How to get 3 TVs to show the same thing?
How do I set up multiple TVs in a conference room to share the same presentation/video/etc.? [more inside]
What's that site where you can get local food from while traveling?
What's the site that allows people from different countries to sign up and volunteer to host travelers for a meal, to serve them local cuisine? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:28 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by anonymous at 9:28 AM PST - 3 comments
We'd like to be better at working with older adults.
I work in a research lab that is transitioning from working with young adult populations to working with 60 year old and up adults. Most people in the lab who don't have experience with older adults (myself included) are finding the transition frustrating and difficult at times. Can you recommend some resources to help us work better with older adults? [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 9:22 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 9:22 AM PST - 18 comments
There's also some self identity issues here...
How do I meet 2nd generation Chinese women in the Bay Area? (Not as creepy as it sounds... I hope) [more inside]
posted by bluelava at 8:51 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by bluelava at 8:51 AM PST - 31 comments
What is this hat called?
Millinery filter: What are the 60s-70s mod hats that look sort of like a cross between a riding helmet and a baseball cap called? [more inside]
posted by apparently at 8:49 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by apparently at 8:49 AM PST - 12 comments
I'm gif-less and sad.
I've switched from PC to a mac- help me alter my gif making process! [more inside]
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:38 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:38 AM PST - 2 comments
How can I stick with Classic Yahoo?
Yahoo is forcing users to upgrade from Yahoo Classic, but I want to keep my old "Classic" Yahoo account as it was. Is this possible? [more inside]
posted by miorita at 8:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by miorita at 8:11 AM PST - 9 comments
Where can I get cheap USB drives in bulk
Recommendations for where can I get USB drives in bulk? A musician friend of mine is looking to distribute her stuff with 'em! [more inside]
1. Self-employed creative. 2. B-school. 3. ??? 4. Profit!
What are some logical and plausible post-MBA career goals for a self-employed creative type? [more inside]
posted by Socky McSock at 7:53 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Socky McSock at 7:53 AM PST - 7 comments
Exercise goals that aren't about weight loss
What are some exercise goals that AREN'T about weight loss or running races? [more inside]
Bad idea to contact an ex from another lifetime?
This is yet another contacting-one’s-ex question. I will try to avoid cliches as much as possible and will do my best to jump to the marrow of this somewhat complicated tale. [more inside]
I Need Help For a Torn Penile Suspensory Ligament
Looking for an experienced, open-minded reconstructive urologist in the NYC area (NSFW). [more inside]
"Yes, my account number is........."
Need help wrangling account numbers/logins [more inside]
posted by Gilbert at 7:10 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Gilbert at 7:10 AM PST - 8 comments
What smartphone gives me root, has an OS that'll be around in 2 years, & won't crash too much?
What smartphone should I buy if I want root on my device (without having to jailbreak it), hardware & OS quality (crashing once a month or less), and upgradability? [more inside]
IT Inventory Asset Management for a small business
Free or inexpensive IT asset management for a small business. What is everyone out there using? [more inside]
Mystery clothes wash settings on Candy Eclypsa washing machine
Help me decode the clothes washing settings on the washing machine in my new flat. [more inside]
Fucking love how do they work
I'm tired of feeling so "issue-y" about relationships. Please help me stop. [more inside]
posted by innocuous_sockpuppet at 6:20 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by innocuous_sockpuppet at 6:20 AM PST - 11 comments
Drip. Drip. Drip. Please make it stop.
Lateral thinking to the rescue: Please suggest creative ways to make a dripping tap silent. [more inside]
The Shards of Narsil
What would happen if you reforged a particular weapon/set of weapons repeatedly? [more inside]
posted by Scattercat at 3:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Scattercat at 3:17 AM PST - 7 comments
Documentary on the modern world made by native people
Documentary filter: Heard of a film where a group of native people were let loose into the "modern" world with a camera? [more inside]
Is that a bump on your shoulder or are just happy to see me?
Anything I can do to help my shoulder heal from a bad sprain? [more inside]
posted by alex_skazat at 12:50 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by alex_skazat at 12:50 AM PST - 7 comments
he really likes you, tubby!
Do I tell my partner his friend said something snarky? The brief: I have a fantastic bf who is everything I could ask for in a man. He's got a large circle which includes several female friends. One of them, he mentioned before I met her, is known for being funny, but generally inappropriate and uncouth (he gives pretty fair descriptions like this of everyone I've met, not singling her out). Met her a few times, and most recently she was very, very drunk. Can you guess where this is going? [more inside]
posted by OompaLoompa at 12:16 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by OompaLoompa at 12:16 AM PST - 49 comments
November 1
Help me remember this disturbing horror novel
Do you recognize this disturbing horror novel I read when I was far too young to do so? Plot details below the fold, NSFW and potentially triggery. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 10:15 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 10:15 PM PST - 20 comments
Hacking fast food
Do you have favorite off-menu items you are able to get at fast food restaurants? As an example, I like to get a hamburger, egg and cheese croissant for breakfast at Burger King. I am successful at about half the restaurants I try to order it at. Do you have anything offbeat or non-standard that you successfully order?
Tips on wedding celebrant-type duties!
Hi! I'm officiating the wedding of some dear friends in a month or so. There'll be a licensed celebrant in attendance to handle all the legalities and such though! Got any tips for a newbie on how to handle it? [more inside]
posted by mooza at 10:11 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by mooza at 10:11 PM PST - 7 comments
Get rid of rats, leave the cat
What's the bets method for getting rid of rats in a house that has a cat and small kids? Obviously snap traps are out of the question, as ius posion and probably glue, but are tunnel like electrical traps safe? How effective are the humane traps? (I do not, TBH, care that much about about being humane to rodents, but safety is a concern)
Tell me about Technical Writing Certificates!
Should I get a technical writing certificate? If so, where should I go? What's the difference between the programs? [more inside]
I don't want to wear something as noisy as Mister Fred Newman.
I'm going to my first big adult night-at-the-theater thing. Except it's not a night at the theater, it's a night with Garrison Keillor and the cast of A Prairie Home Companion, and I get to go backstage! What do I wear? [more inside]
posted by deezil at 8:55 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by deezil at 8:55 PM PST - 16 comments
yipee ki-yay mister falcon!
On last Thursday's episode of It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Dennis casually calls someone a "mister falcon". A quick search revealed that it was not the first time the writers have alluded to the TBS swear word replacement censoring. Today Andy Baio "redesigned [supercut.org] as a community-driven database" (read more). I have yet to find a complete collection or supercut of said swear replacements — like monday to friday / motherfucker, peas and rice / jesus christ, etc. — but I've begun collecting from some partials. [more inside]
posted by rrrico at 8:44 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by rrrico at 8:44 PM PST - 21 comments
The academic cliche strikes again.
I am two post-docs out of graduate school and currently on the job market for tenure track positions. My former graduate advisor has confessed that he has feelings for me and that he thinks we would make a great couple. I don't reciprocate. I have two letters from my post-doc supervisors, but still need my advisor's letter for a third reference. What is the most diplomatic way to handle this situation? [more inside]
Sixth wheel?
What are the hydraulic centre wheels on dump trucks called and where can I find out more about them? [more inside]
posted by Frasermoo at 7:20 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Frasermoo at 7:20 PM PST - 7 comments
Dressing professionally
How do I look like a professional young working woman when my body-type gets in the way? Fat (pear-shaped), with curly crazy hair. I look fine in casual, float-y, "girly" clothes like wrap dresses and tunics, but put me in a suit and I look really frumpy. [more inside]
Get me some ointment, I need an appointment: I got a rash
Help Me Plan Family Movie Night
Is there a guide for adult movies that are appropriate for children, in terms of psychological/emotional readiness? [more inside]
Whatever happened to David Peace (FSA)?
Whatever happened to David Peace (FSA)? [more inside]
Three or more enter, one or more leaves
Please give examples of movie fight scenes (especially climactic ones) with one Bad Guy vs a large number of Good Guys. [more inside]
Help me put one cat on a diet without starving another! Staying sane would be nice too.
Please share your most brilliant advice on switching cats from free feeding to scheduled feeding in a multiple-cat household [more inside]
Parking meter for lulz
Are there any legal ramifications to installing a parking meter on my front lawn? [more inside]
posted by breakfast_yeti at 5:34 PM PST - 67 comments
posted by breakfast_yeti at 5:34 PM PST - 67 comments
Medicare with Advantage with Medicaid?
Does it make sense to choose a Medicare Advantage program if I have QMB and MA-AD-care through the state as well as straight Medicare and a prescription drug plan? Naturally I'd like some dental and vision coverage, which I understand are limited in Medicare. (Snowflakes below) [more inside]
What's the best available CPU/RAM right now for my needs?
I need to build a server that runs a CPU-bound, memory-intensive task that fully utilizes 3 cores and 24GB of RAM, but never needs to read/write from the disk other than loading the OS. What's the fastest CPU/RAM combination available for this task? I don't need server-level data integrity, but I don't mind buying a server-class CPU if it's the fastest option. [more inside]
Democracy and Capitalism...huh?
Looking for a basic starter book on capitalism and democracy that explains their relationship and, if possible, perhaps explores other systems or changes that could be an improvement on the current systems in place in most developed nations.
I have read that capitalism is a good way to stimulate a young nations economy but that it is not necessarily an equitable or functional long term solution. I have some small understanding regarding corporations roles in democracy. Beyond these basics I'm rather lost. (hence the plan to explore further)
I would prefer to read books as I would rather utilize them, and my library, than pop from webpage to webpage but would be willing to consider any information.
Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
Help me be a good Dad.
What skills did your Dad pass on to you that you appreciate, or have benefited from, the most? Or better yet, what should I learn so I can teach my boys as they grow up? I want to keep it basic, so they at least have a foundation in a number of things. [more inside]
Motorola Netopia Firewall Settings to Solve Streaming Media Problems?
Does anyone know how to configure the firewall settings on a new-model Motorola Netopia 2247-N8 modem/router?
I am having severe issues with streaming audio/video (endless buffering, permanent stopping), and my ISP's only suggestion is to adjust the firewall on my device. However, my GUI seems to be missing the buttons/links/menus necessary to even access the firewall settings. [more inside]
Let the good times roll in New Orleans, 2012
I'm looking for an affordable hotel in New Orleans, ideally in the French Quarter. I'm coordinating a meetup of friends in 2012. Right now we're considering April 20-22 but are open to other dates. We've only started to look but the early prices we've been quoted are $320 a night (at Holiday Inn French Quarter) which our group can't handle. Group rates are lower, but we may not be able to guarantee 10 rooms. [more inside]
posted by GaelFC at 5:10 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by GaelFC at 5:10 PM PST - 13 comments
Going 50/50 with a partner in a real estate purchase. Good idea?
Real estate investing filter: Buying a condo in Florida as a rental property with a partner. Good idea? [more inside]
posted by seatofmypants at 4:52 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by seatofmypants at 4:52 PM PST - 11 comments
You and me hubby ain't nothing but mammals
We're getting hitched! Now where do we honeymoon? June 2012, ok dropping some cash but not exactly sure of our budget, departing from the northeastern US. [more inside]
looking for art about nuanced perspective
I am looking for a specific sort of birthday gift for a friend. He would like to be reminded of the fact that reality is not binary, that What Is does not always neatly fall into one of two opposite extremes. [more inside]
posted by parapluie at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by parapluie at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
I can't do everything ASAP!
Everything at work needs to be done ASAP. How do I deal? [more inside]
Gmail additional addresses and duplicate messages.
Gmail: when I add another sender identity to my gmail account, and send from Gmail to that address, I immediately get a copy in my Gmail inbox. Confused? Let me explain... [more inside]
My Cat Thinks the Kitchen Belongs to Him
I have an older cat who has become a total bastard when it comes to the kitchen. He is constantly on the counter. I run him off and when I leave the kitchen he is back up on the counter almost immediately. He'll eat meat cooking in a frickin' frying pan. Any solutions other than constantly squirting him with water or putting him in a crate while cooking? Closing off the kitchen is not an option.
Are there any downloadable typefaces similar to these logos?
Are there any downloadable typefaces similar to these logos?
http://cdn.hypebeast.com/image/2011/10/huf-10k-pack-1-620x413.jpg
http://www.shogunstore.com/blog/wp-content/images/2010/12/undftd_logo-880x660.jpg
Thanks
Info on Info
What are the origins of the info symbol? I'm talking about this guy and all variants. I noticed recently that the new info signs around Vancouver bear the same mark as the dashboard widgets on a Mac, and became curious about the origins and spread of it. I couldn't figure out how to google it.
posted by neuromodulator at 3:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by neuromodulator at 3:48 PM PST - 9 comments
How to plan an office battle!
I need to hold a knife fight or a pistol duel between two of my employees to decide who has to take on an undesirable schedule. [more inside]
How much am I allowed to quote while writing nonfiction?
Writing a nonfiction book. I am a total quote whore. How much am I allowed to quote from my sources directly if I get this published? [more inside]
Need some advice for moving with a cat in the winter.
Help me move my crankypants kitty across the 2/3 of the country in the dead of winter. [more inside]
How to not close AmEx card but not pay annual fee.
Rewards for AmEx card now suck, but am paying annual fee. Anyway to transfer my 'history'? [more inside]
How to survive a smoking household as a non-smoker?
I've moved into a new shared-house living situation, and contrary to what the live-in manager explicitly told me, the roomies smoke cigarettes in the house. I'm not a smoker and tobacco smoke really bothers me. What to do? [more inside]
Help Me Inspire Innovation
I'm leading an innovation session and I need charming stories, motivational pitches, activities and videos. Anyone got any? [more inside]
who keeps the apartment after a break-up
A couple living together broke up. Who keeps the apartment? [more inside]
Help me find some books for my baby's room.
I'm having a baby soon and I want to buy a few children's books to have something to put in the new bookshelves and later on read to my baby. What books do you recommend? [more inside]
Rejection is part of being a writer -- but what about the embarrassment?
Rejection's part of being a writer. I can deal with rejection. How do I deal with the embarrassment? [more inside]
What does "declined" mean? Is it bad?
Application declined? Did I just inadvertently hurt my credit score? [more inside]
Help An American Find A Good Place To Land In Montreal
American moving to Montreal for work for a few years looking for advice on where to try to land in the city. Probably won't have a car, would prefer more urban to suburban, and doesn't want to pay through the nose. [more inside]
What does "pre-Raphaelite" mean to you, when describing a woman?
What does "pre-Raphaelite" mean to you, when describing a woman? [more inside]
Om nom nomnomnomnomglarpguzzleblrrrrp
Small, cheap wedding venue in Chicago for May wedding
I am looking for a venue for a cheap, small (35 people), and simple wedding ceremony in Chicago in May 2012 and are looking for suggestions. We are looking for somewhere beautiful where we don't need to do a lot of set up but is also cheap to rent.
Is there a benefits to keeping money in a 401k account after the job is terminated?
I have $1000 in a 401k from a job at which I no longer work. The Personal Rate of Return right now is at -40%. Should I still roll this out into an IRA account or is there a benefit to keeping it in that 401k account?
My room needs a scent.
I want my room to smell "good". It doesn't smell bad now - it just smells like nothing. Without having to light a candle or anything like that, what would you recommend I put in my room to keep it smelling good? [more inside]
Where can I find an AP Style practice book?
Need to bone up on my AP Style knowledge. Would love to find a book that has practice tests and quizzes about the 2011 AP Stylebook guidelines. [more inside]
What's happening in Spain next week?
I'm going to Madrid and Barcelona next week. Anything amazing going on? [more inside]
Why does my Home have so FEW roaches?
I rent a 50 year old ground level home that has NO pests! This in Hawaii where every home has loads of roaches, ants, etc etc. I have seen one roach in 2 1/2 years. and a neighborhood where they abound!
WE have used no pesticides in the past 2 1/2 years and
the house has not been tented in 5 years
I am worried that at some point in the past someone treated this place with something long acting and toxic: worried for my kids mostly.
Landlord says not to his knowledge. What tests could one reasonably do to see if toxins are a problem? Is this fear ridiculous?
posted by dougiedd at 12:38 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by dougiedd at 12:38 PM PST - 14 comments
Please give me a few gazillion bite-sized calculations to do
I'm looking for computational problems which can be broken down into a lot of small, random trials which can be executed in parallel. Folding@Home is a good example. [more inside]
I need a phpBB calendar
I'm looking to set up a calendar on a phpBB3 based company forum and would love some recommendations. Preferences inside. [more inside]
What's my mop?
I bought this mop a while ago (in a store in Los Angeles, possibly Bed Bath and Beyond). I need a replacement spongy-thing. Does anyone recognise the brand?
posted by Conductor71 at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Conductor71 at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments
Best way to get tickets to a German Football Match from Overseas?
Best way to get tickets to a German Football Match from Overseas? [more inside]
posted by Caravantea at 11:59 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Caravantea at 11:59 AM PST - 2 comments
Pills Here!
In the future, I may be spending an extended period of time in London and Genoa. YAY! Problem? I am currently on a number of medications, and I am wondering what I would do about making sure I have them during my trip. [more inside]
Am I just too damn judgmental?
Why don't I like new people and how can I get over it and make friends? Long snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by gregoryg at 11:12 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by gregoryg at 11:12 AM PST - 21 comments
Optimize video playbook black (2006) MacBook
Black 2.0GHz MacBook (2GB memory) from 2006 -- it's been repurposed as a Netflix playback machine. I have it connected to a VGA adaptor to a 19" widescreen monitor and it plays back Netflix in a browser and we also watch DVDs on it, and we also play AVIs with VLC.
The problem: video is just slightly choppy. Just choppy enough to be annoying. Tried Chrome and also Safari to do the playback.
How can I squeeze more video performance from this laptop to avoid the slight choppiness? I have a feeling if I can improve it just slightly that would be a big win.
posted by artlung at 11:09 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by artlung at 11:09 AM PST - 26 comments
Joppie Saus worth trying in Holland
Where can I find Joppie Saus in the USA (New York City even better) without paying $25 for shipping? [more inside]
Looking for travel or scientist blogs
Looking for travel or hands on scientist blogs [more inside]
50,000 songs for 50,000 words?
Help me make the ultimate NaNoWriMo playlist. [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 10:29 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 10:29 AM PST - 18 comments
Something like CiviCRM/Events/Contribute but simpler...
I've been suckered in to finding a web app that will take a list of users, and flag up any who haven't paid subs by a set time. WorldPay (or similar) integration is required. My only thought is CiviCRM... can you suggest something better and easier to use? [more inside]
Yes, I hope to be that professor who does the poetry/hip hop thing.
Poetry class: What would be good rap songs for a community college crowd? [more inside]
Simple Shenandoah Hikes
I am looking for some simple scenic hiking in Shenandoah National Park to do on a day trip starting out driving from Charlottesville, VA and returning on the same day.
I'm looking for something comfortable and not too technical but have no problems with exertion. I don't want have to clamber over rocks, ford rivers or get too dirty but I am willing to go for long uphill walks. Basically, I am fit but not outfitted for serious off trail hiking on this vacation.
posted by srboisvert at 9:45 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by srboisvert at 9:45 AM PST - 11 comments
Pricing for Ubiquity
Do you remember classic case study of technology provider slashing prices despite costs to drive high volumes and innovation immediately? [more inside]
Tell me about the secret lives of utility workers.
What is it like to work on a tree/line crew restoring power after a big storm? [more inside]
posted by mskyle at 9:27 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mskyle at 9:27 AM PST - 8 comments
Ethnic restaurants in out of the way places.
I need examples of ethnic restaurants in countries you wouldn't expect to find that type of ethnic restaurant. [more inside]
posted by lstanley at 9:25 AM PST - 114 comments
posted by lstanley at 9:25 AM PST - 114 comments
Looking for advice on induction cooktops and electric ovens.
Looking for advice on induction cooktops and electric ovens. [more inside]
This really won't let me go. Please be my internet friends and counsel me.
How do you deal with a bad social experience that cannot leave you alone for years? [more inside]
SAD therapy side effects?
Has anyone tried light therapy? I started using a SAD light therapy light and am experiencing some weird side effects... [more inside]
Help me commission an iPhone app!
[app development filter] I know little about apps and don't even own an iPhone; please help me to commission a developer to customise her existing app so it can be used by my own customers. [more inside]
What is the best month to spend as a tourist in London,England?
What is the best month to visit London, England? We are most interested in theater, art, museums and historical sights. Which month offers a good chance at decent weather as well as a full cultural schedule?
It's like a kind of torture
Before or after seeing the Muppet movie, I want to have a party. A muppety party. What foods can I serve? Vegetarian foods are best, but not strictly necessary. Buffet-style is probably easiest. [more inside]
posted by jeather at 8:37 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by jeather at 8:37 AM PST - 26 comments
To be, or not to be: this is (part of) the question . . .
TL;DR in advance: English MA grad, wondering what to do with his life. A lot [more inside]
I don't click with anyone EVER...Is this normal?
I don't click with anyone EVER...Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by mhm407 at 7:59 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by mhm407 at 7:59 AM PST - 28 comments
Pennsylvania Dutch Sticky Buns
Can someone point me to an authentic Pennsylvania Dutch sticky bun recipe? [more inside]
posted by RichardS at 7:13 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by RichardS at 7:13 AM PST - 8 comments
words are metaphors anyway, what's the big deal?
I got hit with some pretty hard core cognitive dissonance last night. I'm looking for help arriving at mental homeostasis again. So it turns out that "derp" is ableist (although some say it's not). I am totally against all "isms" and so I don't enjoy feeling like I contribute. But that's not all... [more inside]
K-pop in London?
Where can I buy K-pop CDs in London, UK? [more inside]
Help make my bed more like a couch, please!
I’m trying to think of a way to make one part of my side of the bed more like the back of a couch. But I’m not very creative, apparently. Can you help me please? [more inside]
posted by miaou at 6:30 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by miaou at 6:30 AM PST - 13 comments
I need life advice badly......
Need some life advice, I don't really know what I'm doing, I've failed so far miserably. [more inside]
Looking for info on wax seals/stamps
Getting back into letter writing. Thinking about using wax seals, looking for some information. [more inside]
proxy in windows 7
On Windows 7, is there a way to have the proxy turn on or off depending on which wireless network I'm connected to? [more inside]
Don't think Mrs. Dalloway is going to work here
Nice, comforting stores to read out loud to an elderly individual? [more inside]
posted by leedly at 5:14 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by leedly at 5:14 AM PST - 28 comments
Board game filter
What's the best German-style board game that's still unknown in the US? Bonus points if it hasn't even been translated into English.
posted by pete_22 at 3:36 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by pete_22 at 3:36 AM PST - 11 comments
How marketable is an LLM, really?
How marketable is an LLM, really? [more inside]
How to fix a noisy gas furnace?
Safe, effective sound dampening options for a noisy gas furnace? [more inside]
Help me choose the "best" hardcover editions of J. R. R. Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit.
Help me choose the "best" hardcover editions of J. R. R. Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. [more inside]
posted by GlassHeart at 1:37 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by GlassHeart at 1:37 AM PST - 17 comments