The Hook Up Guide for the Awkward Guy?
November 5, 2011 12:19 PM Subscribe
How do I make a move and initiate a hook up? Awkward guy in need of help!
posted by anonymous to human relations (31 answers total) 9 users marked this as a favorite
I currently find myself in the following situation...
Some of my friends(male and females) are trying to convince me that a girl I know is into me, in a 'let's makeout!' way not a 'let's get married!' way. I really want to try and make a move but I just do not know how. To clarify, what I'd like to get out of this is a make out session that could hopefully lead fooling around/sex. And if we both enjoy our selves then maybe some more casual encounters in the future.
How do I:
Create the perfect atmosphere? We have both hung out with alone at each others apartments so inviting her to grab some food and then heading back to my place to watch a movie is not at all unprecedented in our friendship.
Gauge her interest? Is she being flirty or just friendly?
Make that first move? Say that we are both sitting there in the dark watching a movie, now what? I honestly have no idea what the proper protocol is here. This girl probably won't be expecting me to do anything and she may not even WANT me to do anything.
How do we go from two friends on a couch in a dark room enjoying a movie to two friends making out?(If we start to make out, I can take it from there)If only there was a step-by-step guide to hooking up!
(Additional details: Me, my friends, and this girl are all in our early twenties. I've had previous relationships and just got out of a serious one several months ago so I am NOT inexperienced with women, I just lack the confidence and the knowledge to make that first move.)