July 2011 Archives
July 31
R.I.P. Aquabuddha V
Creative uses for fishbowl? [more inside]
A little piece of my soul has just died.
Say you just spotted a big-ass cockroach, and you are headed out of state for vacation in a little over 24 hours. What do you do tomorrow? [more inside]
School or Work?
University student unsure of whether or not I should spend an extra semester in school or work full-time to save up for my future in the music industry and life in a new city. [more inside]
Music for The Closer?
What is the track that accompanies the opening and closing credits of The Closer? As in, the TV show with Kyra Sedgwick. [more inside]
I want to make the most out of the choices given to me in my future career.
I have a dream of becoming an anthropologist someday. The problem is I don't know what I should focus on. [more inside]
How to track down this particular highlighter?
I got a brand-less highlighter some time ago at a trade show booth, and it's the perfect highlighter, but it's running out and I would like to replace it. However, I've only found it where it seems you have to order by the thousands. [more inside]
In Kitchen Transition
We're going from an inhumanely small kitchen to a huge one with more cabinets than we know what to do with. Any tips for what goes where? [more inside]
when a rose becomes a daisy
Got married 18 months ago and finally need to get around to changing my name. I live in the U.S. I'm such a dummy; how do I do this? [more inside]
What's that annoying noise?
[SoCal Filter] What is that static that interferes with my car ipod player around Long Beach and Mojave? I use the kind of ipod adapter that transmits from ipod to car radio on FM, and it works very well other than this. [more inside]
How to get rid of mildew in my bag?
My garment bag reeks like mildew and I need to put a suit in it for a trip on Tuesday. There are no same day cleaners near by. What should I do?
Applying for Illinois state jobs?
Can anyone give me a quick narrative about getting a job with the State of Illinois? [more inside]
How can I stay focused while working?
What're your best tips for keeping on task and staying focused? [more inside]
How can I find my relative's military service records if I don't actually know very much about it?
I know where to get my great grandfather's military service records. But I don't have a lot of information to even start from. I need your suggestions. [more inside]
What is the best and most useful dental insurance for an individual living in California who is anticipating getting all his upper teeth pulled and falsies put in?
What is the best and most useful dental insurance for an individual living in California who is anticipating getting all his upper teeth pulled and falsies put in? [more inside]
"We do what we must because we can"
Where can I find Portal 2 posters? [more inside]
Romanian domain names
How do I contact a Romanian domain holder? [more inside]
What is WebProcess and why is it eating a quarter of my MacBook's memory?
What is WebProcess and why do it and mds eat up most of my active RAM on my 2008 white MacBook running 10.6? [more inside]
Give me examples of gamesmanship in sport or other arenas
Give me examples of tricky strategy in sport or other arenas [more inside]
Help me write my MA thesis...PLEASE?
Okay, this is a long-shot, I know, but I need help finding information about someone referenced in a random Ph.D thesis I came across on teh intarwebs. His ideas are about the use of patterning in High School English education, and I'd like to acknowledge them in my own thesis. His name is Chad Wolf and he taught at Jefferson High School in '00-'01. My Google-fu is weak, but all my attempts return nothing. All the information I have below the fold. [more inside]
Good ways to deal with a toddler who hits
How to deal with a toddler who hits? [more inside]
1st Time Meetup No Clicky! Do I Stay With My Exit Line?
Am I done with her????? [more inside]
wtf Waterpaper Block : /
Watercolor enthusiasts: How do I get the &$%^##%$% paper out of this Aqvarelle Arches hot pressed waterpaper block? [more inside]
Rabbit Redone?
Copyright question: Can I publish "Portnoy's Little Brother"? [more inside]
Suggestions for places to rent a cottage in Western Pennsylvania?
Where should we rent a cottage in Western PA? [more inside]
Copying lines of text on an iPhone?
iPhone: when I select some text to copy and use the grab points to expand the selection, how do I keep it from selecting the whole paragraph? [more inside]
Where do I begin researching moving to Europe?
I'm exploring the idea of moving to Europe for a year or two -- preferably to Rome or Paris, and don't know where to start my research. Pretty much all I know right now is that I loved both places when I visited, and I want to give living in one of those cities a try. [more inside]
Dolphin and Whale Sleep
Are dolphins and whales considered cathemeral? [as opposed to diurnal, nocturnal or crepuscular]. [more inside]
Looking for the best website to download music for DJing.
I have some DJ equipment (serato, turntables, mixer, etc) I play random stuff at parties, which is great, but I'm starting to get offers for more formal events (apt pool parties, high school dances, receptions, etc). Looking for the best website to download music for DJing. [more inside]
Haunted by Your Own Personal Ghosts
Nostalgia? Place Memory? Grief? Saudade? What Causes this Feeling? What part of the brain controls/causes memories and feelings to be triggered by places or events? Is it different than the memory-smell connection? Is there anything stronger to explain these associations in the brain other than nostalgia? [more inside]
How can I forget / remove values that were taught to me when I grew?
My parents are conservative Christians and I were brought up with Christian values. As I grew older, I began to question my faith and after years of searching, I finally discovered that Christianity; like other religions are based on ideas and concepts that are mostly outdated.
I am an atheist now and I am happy with that. But the thing is... I have an animosity towards Christianity; I feel that years of my life wasted in believing lies... years that I can not ever claim back. And worse... some of the values taught to me seem to stick like chewed up gum sticking on shoe. I don't know how to get rid of these Christian values I want out. [more inside]
Freezer-friendly side dishes
I'm trying to build up a supply of meals in the freezer, but I'm running into a wall when I try to think of side dishes to freeze. I've got twice-baked potatoes frozen, but surely there are other options, right? Special snowflake details inside! [more inside]
Managing drive space on a macbook air?
Just got a macbook air, how do I best manage the drive space? [more inside]
Jobs for the unconfident
What type of jobs/workplaces are best for people without a naturally abundant supply of confidence? [more inside]
Krakow music wish-list
What musical gems & rarities should I look for on my upcoming trip to Krakow? [more inside]
How do I clean this teapot?
How do I clean this mysterious metal teapot? [more inside]
Need good iphone entertainment for AFK month.
Away from computer for 3 weeks. Can you recommend some engaging, long lasting iPhone games to keep me occupied? Paid or free. [more inside]
Should I teach science? Should I teach anything?
Should I become a high school science teacher? Lots of background info. [more inside]
Please ID these nasty bug bites!
I have a bug-bite ID question for my sister's dog. Red, flat bites from what may have been a small winged ant or fly, in the British Columbia coastal area (Birkenhead, north of Pemberton). Pics inside... [more inside]
My laptop reverted to its factory date/time/wallpaper setting - to worry or not?
Cat chewed through my macbook power cord. I tried to fix it, but when I plugged it in it sparked a little bit and then went out. I bought a new charger, and when I booted my mac up, everything was fine except the time and date needed to be reset and my desktop wallpaper had changed to the default background. Should I be worried? [more inside]
Dysfunctional potential homebuyers
We've outgrown our living space, but despite having the cash and flexibility to move tomorrow, are apparently unable to do so. Lengthy ridiculous details within. [more inside]
Breakfast recipes with a really - really! - strong taste?
Breakfast recipes with a really - really! - strong taste? [more inside]
Let me not to marriage of true minds admit impediments . . .
Help me write a literary and science-y marriage "sermon" for some colleagues! [more inside]
What is the common practice for turning in a notice to quit, is email good, or do I need to do it face to face with the board?
What is the common practice for turning in a notice to quit, is email good, or do I need to do it face to face with the board? [more inside]
Aphids in a red oak
Aphids infesting a red oak! Help me understand our risk. [more inside]
Thunder thighs begone!
I'm thinking about liposuction on my inner thighs and possibly knees and outer thighs as well. Any experiences? [more inside]
Very complicated ... or not?
Should I stay in the moment and enjoy it, or heed warning signs I'm already too familiar with? It's complicated ... or maybe it isn't. A lot ... [more inside]
China's economic foreign policy in Africa?
Can you suggest the best, most recent articles that give an overview of China's economic foreign policy in Africa?
This hedge is the bane of my existence!
Laurel hedge plus cedar fence....bad idea or incredibly bad idea? [more inside]
This Genie is Not Coming Out
I have a problem. When I decide I don't like someone, it's very hard for me to act as if everything is okie dokie especially if I have to work with them. I am usually bubbly and talkative but when I'm around an individual or a couple of people who rub me the wrong way, it's hard to hide my dissatisfaction with them so my mood becomes mellow and almost somber for the event or gig. How do I change that to become an enagaging, genuine person even when I have judged them to be what I feel they are to me? I'm kinda introverted too.
Are the words "grace" and "rain" either identical or similar in Persian?
Are the words "grace" and "rain" either identical or similar in Persian? Someone wrote me a letter about a Rumi book they sent me when I was little and I remember them saying that in the language Rumi wrote in, "grace" and "rain" are the same word. According to Wikipedia, Rumi wrote the the "New Persian Language." (Yes, crappy sources, I know, hence I ask!)
Indestructible wallet
Please help me find an indestructible wallet [more inside]
Need help finding a poem, "Poinsettias," published in the New Yorker magazine
A poem, "Poinsettias", from the New Yorker, published sometime in late 1980 or early 1981? [more inside]
Pouring coffee into the tower is probably a bad idea.
How do I keep my primary data drive from constantly going idle and then spinning up again? [more inside]
Help me make my lunch more delicious.
How do I start my own podcast?
I want to start my own podcast, and I want to do it right. But I am not sure where to start, any advice? The podcast will be a comedy related one, and may have a co-host, and would have a weekly guest. Here are the things I've been thinking about. [more inside]
Baby Got Back
Aside from preventing chafing, what are the benefits of compression shorts for running? Are there drawbacks? [more inside]
How can I learn the design side of web design?
Are there any good books/free online courses/tutorials for learning the basics of graphic design for web sites in particular? [more inside]
What shaving cream should I use?
What shaving cream should I use? [more inside]
Student House Needs New Tricks
I bought a house to rent out to students. What should I buy? Cliche/common examples include a pool table, foosball table and a dartboard, but I'd like more varied and unique ideas. [more inside]
Moving city - so many emotions now!!
I have decided to move with no job - am I stupid? [more inside]
Computer freezes, what do?
My computer freezes. I'd like it to stop doing that. More details inside. [more inside]
Help me to deal with the double edged sword of child support enforcement.
I just noticed another question posted re: child support, so while we're on the subject . . . I haven't received child support in more than 5 months and it was sporadic before that. Now my ex has stated emphatically that he won't pay until or unless he gets a job. That may sound reasonable to many, but I believe he's not actively pursuing work because he doesn't have to work - his wife is the primary breadwinner. [more inside]
Best option for a cheap cable alternative?
I'm so very ready to give my cable company the boot, and questions like this one have convinced me to stop putting it off, but I feel pretty clueless about my hardware options for an internet-based replacement on the cheap. Would a Roku 2 make us happy? A Wii? Something else entirely? [more inside]
Need some good FLOSS fund nominee's.
I need some good "Free Libra Open Source Software" projects to nominate for my local Linux User Group any one have any suggestions? We seem to be running short on some worthy nominees.
List some good ones and a good reason why I should propose this to our LUG we have a fairly active and solid group.
Overpaid child support, now what?
Impact on child of lowering child support?
Shot Version:
Have been overpaying $1k per month on child support, I'm owed a credit.
Will my child hate me if I lower the support and try to take the credit? [more inside]
Google officially thinks I'm an idiot now that I've searched for "train tracks speed bump".
July 30
Mission impossible?
Please help me find this shirt. [more inside]
Looking for information about intermediate/advanced meditation practice
Looking for information about intermediate/advanced meditation practice. [more inside]
Need help identifying this engagement ring set
Need help identifying this engagement ring set [more inside]
Identify Japanese woodblock print of kabuki actor, possibly by Kunichika, possibly set on Tokaido Road
Need help identifying this Japanese woodblock print of a kabuki actor. I think the artist is Kunichika, and the print is set somewhere on the Tôkaidô Road. At the top of the page is a large box of Japanese text -- I'm hoping someone can read this, or otherwise identify any hints about the location, actor and character. (Two more translatable things inside) [more inside]
seeking new relationship advice
extreme opposite personalities and ages, one fell in love with other unrequitedly, don't know what to do... [more inside]
How can we be more comfortable around each other?
There is a guy i've started to like, but we're so shy and awkward around each other in person. How can we become more comfortable around each other? [more inside]
The Chrome has me all Googley-eyed
Does an elementary school student need more than the cloud? The hand-me-down laptop that my 7 year old daughter has been using to do homework and online lessons on has bit the dust. I'm all google-y eyed (pun intended) about a Chrome book as a replacement... but does it make sense? [more inside]
Puedo trabajar?
I'm investigating the possibilities of working as independent contractor for a US company while under a student visa in Spain. YANML, but can you help point me in the right direction? [more inside]
Are the DVDs worth it?
I'm really enjoying Torchwood: Miracle Day. The actors are charming and the sense of humour appeals to me. (It reminds me a bit of Buffy.) I've never seen any of the other seasons of Torchwood. Should I bother? If so, are there ones I should skip? [more inside]
The unconventional vegetarian
What are some vegetarian/vegan meals that make people say "huh, I never would have thought of cooking that"? [more inside]
Please Sir, may I have some more?
Kink-filter: How can I initiate sex while maintaining my submissive role in the bedroom? NSFW D/s details inside. [more inside]
Help me dump a nightmare freelance writing client.
I'm a freelance writer who needs to tactfully end a business relationship with a web design firm. Help me walk away relatively unscathed. [more inside]
What snake-themed song did I hear?
On the radio I heard an old-sounding (1960s?), female-fronted pop-rock song that had the lyrics "you tremble and you shake / when he moves like a snake". What song is it?
What ever happened to deprogrammer Ted Patrick?
I've finished reading "Let Our Children Go" by Ted Patrick and "Snapping" by Flo Conway and Jim Siegelman amongst others. I read the Wikipedia page on Patrick. My question: Where is he now? Or in the last 20 years? I would have thought magazine or television bit would have done a follow-up on him or at least mentioned him.
What's the best (and cheapest-per-balloon-inflated) way to get your own home helium tank for balloons?
Recently I realized that I'm the kind of guy who needs/wants a helium tank for balloons in my house, 'cause you never know when you're going to need some balloons at 3am. Where do party stores and supermarkets get their balloon helium tanks and helium? Do they rent those tanks, or do they own their own and fill them up somewhere? [more inside]
Program to display animated .gif file
Is there a program that would allow me to display an animated .gif on a Windows desktop? I envision it as looking similar to Windows' Slide Show widget, with a simple border, but with the ability to display the animated image file.
Bike trainer for someone with a knee problem?
Which wind trainer would be ok for me, given my injured knee and fairly limited budget? [more inside]
I need a new recipe manager
I need a replacement for the (amazing) Paprika app on iPad. [more inside]
How does a non-Muslim observe Ramadan in Seattle?
Can anyone recommend a Muslim community in Seattle that could help me (a non-Muslim) understand and participate in Ramadan? [more inside]
Was Lincoln appreciative of interrupting crickets?
I once heard an apocryphal story about Abraham Lincoln being interrupted by crickets and responding with an impromptu appreciation for their chirping. Have you heard this story? Does anyone know of a source for it? [more inside]
Not wanting to share condo---major guilt
We bought a condo in a resort town and I feel guilty about the fact that I am not excited about my adult sister and her family or my adult brother and his family or my husband's siblings and family using it. [more inside]
Install OSX Lion on a RAID formatted drive but get all Lion's features? Reinstall without Snow Leopard DVD?
Lion upgrade for Macbook Pro but my laptop is RAID formatted - how can I upgrade to Lion, keep my documents/music/applications, and get the full features of Lion (which I can't do with a RAID formatted drive)? Am I doomed to format and do a clean install? Can I without the Snow Leopard DVD? [more inside]
Joining a Women's Institute in Vancouver - your opinions?
Moving from UK to Vancouver in August: Is there a Women's Institute I can get involved with there, or something like it? Advice on volunteering at a women's health clinic/refuge? [more inside]
Great birthday gift for a DC-based 27-year-old?
My sister is about to turn 27 and I'd love to give her a hundred dollars' worth of awesome! in Washington DC. She loves books, museums, coffee, food (but not cooking), and all sorts of quirky/funny/ unexpected things (think Pirate Shop in San Francisco). She lives in Columbia Heights and does not have a car. Ideally, the gift would be something I could order online and have sent to her. Any ideas, fellow MeFites?
Last minute LA Rising tickets?
Last minute tix: Need tickets to LA Rising (LA Coliseum) tonight, but won't be getting to the venue til 9pm or so. Has anyone had good luck w/ getting cheaper tickets to such a large concert while showing up late? [more inside]
Ruby vs Java, which wins?
How does Ruby compare to C#/Java in terms of speed of development, quality of code and long-term maintainability? A broad question, I know, but my focus is on enterprise applications that might pull in from several large data sources and might be rather large. [more inside]
The Essential BSG?
The Essential BSG: I have a Sunday afternoon and evening and I want to revisit the reimagined Battlestar Galactica. Which episodes MUST I watch? [more inside]
A leisurely stroll through the Smithsonian?
I am a new resident of the DC area. What resources should I use to inform a "deep dive" into area museums and attractions? [more inside]
Ohmygod.
Oh god. Dead bird outside my door, covered in heaps of maggots. HELP. [more inside]
How Long Should I Cook This Turkey?
I need help with a cooking question ASAP. It has to do with roasting times. Thanks. [more inside]
What is going on with my posture?!
I've noticed that my pelvis/lower back appears to have a fairly significant tilt to one side. How can I get this diagnosed as to whether it is just a muscular problem, leg length problem, spine problem, skeletal problem or something else entirely? [more inside]
Why would the A/C make my car accelerate rough?
Why does my car's air conditioner cause it to hesitate when accelerating? [more inside]
Recommendations for mindless, yet productive, activities.
I need some mindless, yet productive, activities to do while listening to audiobooks. [more inside]
Needed: women's tailor in DC
I need recommendations for a women's tailor in DC, please. [more inside]
Connecting LG DVD Player to Mac
I've got LG BD 390 Blu-Ray networked DVD player. Wondering if there's a way to stream/share movies (in various formats) from my Mac wirelessly to the DVD player. Not sure if this requires special software, etc.
Freezer-proof, easy-to-peel-off food storage labels?
I am looking for labels to put on food I store in the freezer. Requirements inside: [more inside]
Mac Mini Server: Any reason I will be unhappy with it as a desktop?
Mac Mini Server: Any reason I will be unhappy with it as a desktop? I plan to Raid 0 the drives to make a 1GB drive and just turn off any server daemons. [more inside]
I'm a klutz and so are my kids.
Is there a clear coating I can put on a glass jar to keep it from shattering if it gets dropped? [more inside]
Etiquette for China?
What cultural differences from the U.S. that should I be aware of and practice while living in China for a year? [more inside]
Check Netflix queue against other services (e.g. Amazon Instant Video)
Can I somehow check my Netflix queue against other services to see which of them have things available for streaming? [more inside]
I have the sense that the world is mad down-pat
Under what circumstances is it acceptable to laugh at one's own joke, and what are the social implications of doing so? [more inside]
Don't worry, I won't use Comic Sans
I'm having trouble choosing which font(s) to use -- for example, for a flyer or poster. I don't have a graphic design background or much experience with it, but sometimes I have to design simple pieces for my job. Are there any introductory online resources that can help me learn more so that no one will point and laugh when they see a flyer I made? I'll be looking at this thread and this thread, too. My main fear is that I'll put something together and someone will point and laugh and say, "Oh no, you used THAT font?"
How to handle uncommunicative colleage?
How to handle a colleague who has raised an interpersonal issue with me via email? [more inside]
I think I may have bed bugs, pics inside!
We caught this bug on my bed and I have a few questions...1) So this is a bed bug right? Google images pretty much answered this question but I'm still hoping somebody's gonna say "no dude, it's something else, totally harmless!" But FYI, we were bitten a few times several weeks ago and just assumed it was unusually persistent mosquitoes. [more inside]
Do I need a new job?
Salary Filter: Am I getting screwed? [more inside]
New employer misrepresented vacation in job offer - now what?
My new employer misrepresented my vacation time in my offer. What should I do? [more inside]
Where have all the beds gone?
We've decided its time to buy a grown up bedroom set and have some questions I'm hoping the folks here can answer. [more inside]
Help me make a popout music player with WordPress
Wordpress help. I am using this theme with this music player. How do I make one of the links at the top (like Home, Categories, About, Contacts) popout a window properly sized for the player?
This has been driving me crazy for a few weeks now
Trying to find a poem: I don't know much about it, but remember a few details. The main details revolve around a guy watching a baseball game while on drugs. It may have been French in origin. It may have been some other sport, but I'm almost positive it was baseball.
Need Foot Surgery Advice
Needing re-constructive foot surgery, what type of doctor is best for this type of surgery, a podiatrist or an orthopedic surgeon? [more inside]
Big dudes in big buckets of ice?!?
Why are these big dudes sitting in big buckets of ice?!? [more inside]
looking for furniture online
looking for well made inexpensive online furniture resource [more inside]
Help me figure out what my new job title should be.
I'm primarily an art director and I manage the look and feel of both online and offline assets for my company, in addition to creating original art for print + web, doing user experience design, and managing our art asset library. However, I'm also going to manage the online marketing (email newsletters, ads, and the like) and social media (blogging, Twittering, etc.) My boss and I are trying to think of what my new job title should be. Any suggestions?
Art Director + Social Media Manager is too long.
Director of Online Marketing & Design?
Do not apply if DIY
Looking for a glazier in NYC who can apply safety film to some large mirrors. [more inside]
A few dollars more.
Is there a rational upper limit or ceiling on the value of currencies, such as the yen, which have experienced substantial increases against the dollar due to the US debt crisis? [more inside]
Jobs designing systems?
New career sought: designing and analyzing complicated systems; designs that will get made (but not by me) and aren't just in computer-land -- with variety and some independence while working. I'm essentially an ex-academic looking for something "alternative", as they say. I just don't know what jobs are out there. [more inside]
Simultaneous dual band wireless access point needed.
I'd like to find a good simultaneous dual band wireless access point (not router) for my home. Must broadcast N and G.
Anyone have a good experience with one?
The really cruel thing is that bats aren't even blind...
I have a bifocals prescription, but what I want are two separate pairs of glasses. Which bits of my prescription should I give Zenni to produce reading glasses that will actually work? [more inside]
Need help naming a new small business
Need business name ideas! Asking for a friend who is starting a new small business and is struggling to find a name she likes. The business will carry specialty development products for high needs individuals such as Autism, Cerebral Palsy, and Down Syndrome. Full business explanation below. [more inside]
Help with the indemnity bond process
Can anyone describe the process of using an indemnity bond to obtain title to a vehicle? [more inside]
Why is my hard drive causing a reboot loop on my computer?
Weird computer technical problem pertaining to the POST and bootup stages of conputer use. Details inside. [more inside]
MS Office themes that provide good design to my documents?
What Themes and Style Sets to pick in Office 2007? Some design and typography advice please. [more inside]
Can deficiency needs be answered?
Thinking in context of "Maslow's hierarchy of needs" (the pyramid) - can voids be filled? If so how did you succeed in it? [more inside]
July 29
Why does my butt ache when I sit?
Why does my butt ache when I sit? [more inside]
How to get on Guitar Center's good side?
I broke some very expensive headphones that i bought at guitar center... How can I get a refund? [more inside]
Is there a way for me to get my license back without being insured?
Is there a way for me to get my license back without being insured? [more inside]
Might he be interested in me?
This is silly, but might this guy be interested in me? [more inside]
training indoors for a hilly marathon - help!
I just ran 4.0 miles at a 4% incline on a treadmill. How much elevation gain does that equal, in feet? [more inside]
When people don't tell you who they are, what do you believe?
I recently hooked up with a guy I talked to every day for a few months online. I ended up liking him a lot in person and getting my hopes up in the few hours we spent together, but he has significantly scaled back his interest now that the chase is over. What can I do to get over this in a satisfactory way? Details inside. [more inside]
Head through the wall
Video-game animators, compositors, you-who-make-the-magic-happen: Why do dead enemies sometimes come to rest with their heads through a wall? [more inside]
This "health company" sells salt water in a bottle.
How do I convince my father that this so-called "business opportunity" is a complete scam? [more inside]
I have no money and go to a $50,000+ school
I go to an elite college. My parents won't pay my living expensives. My work study pays almost nothing. Help! [more inside]
So many Post-Its, so little productivity!
Best way to organize a flurry of Post-It notes covered in ideas, doodles, and designs so that the brainstorms within are easily accessible? [more inside]
Good General CS Books, Game Dev Books?
What books would you all recommend for a Computer Science student interested in making games? [more inside]
Where did I see this special handshake that ended with a face-slap?
Where did I see this special handshake that ended with a face-slap? [more inside]
Seven Dwarves in K-Town
What is this group of storybook cottages doing in Koreatown? [more inside]
Does anyone know how to replicate Umami Burger pickled mushrooms?
Umami Burger pickled mushrooms. Does anyone have a similar recipe? [more inside]
Does the following food meet all my nutritional needs?
So, I'm vegetarian and I can't cook due to multiple disabilities. Does the following food meet all my nutritional needs? If not, what other no-cook foods could I add in? [more inside]
Trumpet solo for funeral?
What would be a good piece for a classical trumpet player to play at his great-grandmother's funeral?
How do I unlock this old Cingular phone to use abroad?
I have an old Cingular Motorala Razr V3 GSM phone that I'd like to unlock. What do I need to do to unlock it for use abroad? [more inside]
How did the slash ("/") character move to right-to-left languages?
Wikipedia's article on the slash character dates it back to ancient Rome, but doesn't give much history beyond that. Looking at some Arabic websites, it appears the slashes go in the same direction, though the direction of text is different. Is the slash direction the same for all languages? Does all slash usage originate with the Romans or did other languages start using slashes independently? And was it spread from one language to another via some non-language usage (e.g. math) or via written language?
Looking for a new manual typewriter that will last...
I want to buy a manual typewriter, that I will not have trouble finding paper/ink/ribbons for... [more inside]
A 6.5 month preggo flying 18 hours to Turkey – yea/nay?
I love traveling, but is taking an overseas trip to Istanbul at 6.5 months pregnant ill-advised? [more inside]
co-worker acting like manager
How to respond to a co-worker mimicking a manager? [more inside]
pay rent or quit
Los Angeles slumlordfilter: management company cashed our check for the usual rent amount last week (verified w bank), management company left us a "pay rent or quit" notice yesterday claiming we were short on rent and must pay within 3 days, calls to management company have led the voice mail box of the bookkeeper who has yet to pick up the phone or call us back. We're on day 2 and it's a Friday. Given they actually received rent in full, how worried should we be that they'll f us over even though this is entirely their own error? [more inside]
Do I force myself to feel the pain or do I let a callous grow?
Do I force myself to feel the pain or do I let a callous grow? [more inside]
Need help deciding which account to keep: Smugmug or Flickr. Love both.
Need help deciding which account to keep: Smugmug or Flickr. Love both. [more inside]
Name that landscape painter
What American (?) naturalist landscape painter am I thinking of? I took this photo in Ketchikan, Alaska while on vacation last week. It reminds me of a painter who painted grand American landscapes with lots of lush detailed realistic trees (and mountains), maybe in the past 100 years. I feel like I'd have seen his work on posters or calendars, or promoting US conservation groups. Any ideas?
What happens if I ignore a parking ticket from my university?
What happens if I ignore a parking ticket from my university? [more inside]
Saw a guy at work on OkCupid, he seems cool--should I ask him out?
This is kind of a follow-up to this question about seeing people on OkCupid that one knows offline in some capacity. I have a similar situation but an added wrinkle: I work with my potential match. Is this a good idea to pursue him or not? [more inside]
Six-legged does an inverse Houdini
[Animals-in-unexpected-places-filter] This morning, preparing breakfast, we found an earwig INSIDE AN EGG. How did it get there? Egg was laid in the past couple of days by one of our chickens in the back yard. Shell was intact. Earwig was dead, somewhat bloated (from being in the egg white for too long I guess). [more inside]
Please help me find the great Turkish tomato.
A couple of years ago I was working at an archeological dig in Aphrodisias, Turkey. At every meal we had the most fantastic tomatoes--plates of them sliced, bowls of them whole or in salads. They were the best-tasting tomatoes I've ever eaten on any continent--medium-sized, round, red-with-a-bit-of-orange. I should have smuggled home some seeds but didn't think of it. I've lost touch with the folks I worked with, so I can't ask someone there to mail me a batch, and that's probably illegal anyway. Can you suggest where I might learn this tomato variety's name, or get seed? Thanks very very much.
Seeking a children's book?
Anyone remember a kids' book about a boy with a magic copy machine that will copy anything (objects) and has an infinity symbol button?
What's the what on terminology around "sexism?"
A question of terminology: "sexism" and the "prejudice plus power" definition. [more inside]
Help my SO reunite with his stuff.
Boyfriend is biking down the West coast. His suitcase is in Montreal. It needs to get to LA by the end of August, before we leave for an extended trip to Australia. We don't know anyone in LA to whom we can ship the suitcase. Help? [more inside]
Semi-informed designer seeks type advice for fat sans-serif logotype
[Type-nerd filter] What's a more "old-world"/traditional typeface: Frutiger or Gill Sans? Or something else along the same lines? Must have Black/Extra Black/Ultra faces. [more inside]
Did Sappho write about the love lizard?
Did I imagine this Sappho fragment describing love as a "terrible lizard?" [more inside]
Bayeux Tapestry Use?
Can I use (images of) the Bayeux Tapestry in a music video? [more inside]
Trying to remember a story
I am trying to remember a short story I read in a fiction collection over 10 years ago. The author may have been British. It was written in a Kingsley Amis-like voice and featured a guest who offends his hosts by peeing in a vase. This is my only memory of the story, and it is hazy enough that the details may be quite off. Any help recovering this (hopefully not false) literary memory would be most appreciated.
Why does this bring me pleasure?
Why does thinking about this certain (weird, gross) thing give me a heady, pleasurable feeling? [more inside]
It's the kitchen sink - in my salad bowl.
"Is This Healthy?" question #85,847,389. In an effort to start eating better, I've started to make my lunch salads for the week on Sunday nights. To stave off boredom from eating the same boring salad every day, day after day, week after week, I've collected a number of ingredients that keep my salads from making me shriek with horror. Tell me if I'm doing this wrong. [more inside]
Fasting in Ramadan - diet recommendation
I am Muslim. I will being fasting in two days. Fasting will be from dawn til sunset. I have never fasting in the month of August. Days will be long. Dawn will be at 4am and sunset at 8.45pm.
What should I eat to keep myself satiated? I was thinking something like clam chowder at the pre dawn meal?? What about drinks? Hot or cold?
Also, does anyone know what to eat at sunset to break the fast?
Any foods I should keep away from? Drinks?
Songs like Melanie Safka's Brand New Key?
"I'm really enjoying Melanie Safka's Brand New Key right now for a particular mood I'm in. What other songs convey that angsty 'I really want to keep having hot sex with you, but you could care less' while being relatively upbeat?"
asking for a friend. I never thought I'd say that, and I always thought it was baloney. [more inside]
Panning for email addresses
How do I sort the (potentially) real email addresses from the garbage data in Excel 2003? [more inside]
It moves like a robot
What is this amazing little insect / fly / creature that appeared on my magazine? [more inside]
BookFilter- recomend a great book to me!
I love dark and gritty novels like Michel Faber's Crimson Petal and the White, Sheri Holman's The Dress Lodger, and Kathleen Winsor's Forever Amber. Can you recomend some novels along those same lines?
Which phrase is more proper?
Some how I came up with a grammer question with someone and need help solving it. We were sending this in an email to family.
I say: Celebrate your life's Connections...
She Says: Celebrate your life Connections...
Which one is correct or more appropriate?
I hate my roommate's boyfriend. Help!
I really, really dislike my roommate/friend's boyfriend. How do I deal with him? [more inside]
Low odds of winning, but a bigger payout
Does Saturn have a solid core? [more inside]
Where to start, and why?
I want to start a serious and large scale (for me, anyway) web project. Could you help me decide between CodeIgnitor and Symfony, as well as figure out tools/scripts/libraries/methods for some of the goals I have for the site? [more inside]
11 inches - big enough?
Is an 11.6" laptop big enough for me? [more inside]
The wonders of Kashmir.
I need a chicken kashmiri recipe, just like the restaurants. Boneless chicken in a milky creamy curry with tomatoes and peas and mango flavor. [more inside]
What would Galileo think?
Would it be possible to make a telescope from two contact lenses? [more inside]
Is this place still going to have bed bugs?
Is it worth renting this house that used to have bed bugs? [more inside]
Help me keep my commute educational...
What are some good educational phone applications? [more inside]
Stolen in Transit
How to ship items to Kenya from Canada? [more inside]
Don't want to eat all of the things anymore.
I eat like crap. I'm now 30. Still young, I know, but I'm pushing it with the eating like a teenager. Can you help set me up with a system for better, healthier eating? [more inside]
...no bumpits please.
Adult looking hair styles for work? [more inside]
Video within a still image with Final Cut.
This is a Final Cut question:
I would like to show an image with a video inside it. More specifically, so the question is clear, I would like to show (in my video) a fake website that has an embedded video. So, "the website" will be a still image, but there is video within it. I hope that's clear. Would really appreciate any help!
Collecting a site's URL list, , METa Descriptions etc...
Looking for a tool for the quick and simple 'collection' of a website's page URLs along with each URLs associated 'title,', META Description, & META Keywords. [more inside]
Will this bed bite me back?
Boston Bedbug Filter: Moving into a new place, there's a nice bed frame and mattress there, should I use it? Also, my stuff is in storage in Woburn at Extra Space. Should I be concerned about bedbugs? Anything I can do to prevent them? [more inside]
All Swole Up
My leg was run over by a car in may. I can walk again, but every afternoon my ankle swells up. What causes this? How long can I anticipate it will last? [more inside]
Sorting a few things out after credit card theft.
It appears that my credit card number was recently compromised. I check my statement very regularly, so I noticed the unauthorized charges as soon as they happened. I'm not particularly worried about it since disputing the charges is a trivial matter, and I've seen others go through the process before. The CC company has already overnight-shipped me a new card with a new number, and has credited back the fraudulent charges. But I am curious about a couple things: [more inside]
Runners of AskMe: how do I get better at this running thing?
Fairly new runner, now comfortable running a 3.6-mile route three times a week. What's the best approach to take to improve my running (in terms of fitness, speed and mileage)? [more inside]
Lipoma removal before or after purchasing private health care?
Uninsured American Health Care Problem: Should I have a somewhat large lipoma (benign fatty tumor) surgically removed before applying for private medical insurance, or would it provide the basis for application denial or drastically raised rates? [more inside]
Is this a watermark or actually part of the song?
I think I bought a song off the iTunes Music Store that has a watermark on it. [more inside]
Can I use Sway Sway Baby, You're So Audio as a title again?
Last minute (Australia-filter) hopefulness: how can I contact a band and get them to acknowledge a 13 year old fan who is now on crutches and can't be up the front of the mosh pit? [more inside]
WTF Google?!
How is google intercepting my phone calls?! [more inside]
Should my mail come on vacation with me?
We will be in another state for the month of August, and are trying to decide whether to have our mail forwarded to the place we'll be staying (a home) or collected by a friend and held for us until our return. There's no issue of bills coming due, since we pay those online, nor any other urgent missives we'd have to worry about. [more inside]
What are the biggest reasons doctors are usually reluctant to give medical advice online?
What are the biggest reasons doctors are usually reluctant to give medical advice online? [more inside]
July 28
How does international shipping work?
I'd like to learn a lot more about shipping things. For instance, manufactured goods from China to the US. What is the process? How is the freight billed? How do you take possession of the goods once they arrive? Who insures the freight being shipped?
Is there a good reference for this kind of thing that doesn't pre-suppose familiarity?
So, I asked a guy out on a date... what does his answer mean?
Basically, I decided to ask out a co-worker I've been interested in. I've been playful/teasing around him, which he seemed to enjoy (he'd joke back, etc.). Whenever he was around my office for work, he'd usually drop in to talk, so we've been pretty friendly. [more inside]
Why do they make books with glossy paper?
Why would anybody print books on glossy paper like this? WHY?! [more inside]
Why do my speaker drivers keep disappearing?
Why are the drivers for my USB speakers missing sometimes when I reboot? [more inside]
Help us use our transatlantic move to save money on stuff!
We're moving back to the UK (London) from the US (SoCal) in a few months. What would you stock up on if you were us? Much more detail about our tastes and situation inside... [more inside]
Fresh juicy cucumbers. Help!
I have a couple of questions about my Armenian cucumbers. I need recipes, for one, and also am curious about whether anyone is familiar with variants. [more inside]
I need recommendations for doctors (primary care and specialists) in the Minneapolis area
I need recommendations for doctors (primary care and specialists) in the Minneapolis area. Specifically, I need recs for a psychiatrist, a gynecologist, a dermatologist, and a primary care physician. Ideally all of them are non-judgey and weirdfolk-friendly, and for extra points they're all in-network for HealthPartners, which is my new insurance company starting Sep 1. [more inside]
Asian clothing in Seattle
Where are good places to go in Seattle for mandarin suits? [more inside]
Where can I find a talking robot?
We're unveiling a brand new computer lab in the school and someone came up with the bright idea of a talking robot video... [more inside]
Should I ride a tandem bike on the first date?
Is it a bad idea to ride a tandem bike on first date? [more inside]
Chicago elementary options
How do we figure out elementary school options in Chicago? [more inside]
Can I find a way to eat this? Black Truffle Edition!
I have a dessicated black truffle from last October or November stored in arborio rice in the fridge (sealed glass jar.) I forgot it was in there! Risotto with the perfumed rice is obvious. What can I do with dessicated black truffle? [more inside]
Do I have the right to request a chargeback from LinkedIn? Will it hurt my credit score?
Do I have the right to request a chargeback from LinkedIn? If I succeed in getting a chargeback, will it hurt my credit score or show up on my credit report? [more inside]
Future Circus Stunts
Could a running human perform the Wall of Death stunt without a motorcycle? [more inside]
struck dumb
Do you have experience with a kind of anxiety attack that will make you unable to speak or trust your voice? I did not, until today. [more inside]
getting rid of smudge inside lcd laptop screen?
I accidentally got some soda fall on the LCD screen of my Compaq CQ56 laptop, and seconds later, a smudge appeared on the lower right side of the screen (everything on that area appears lighter when it is on). It looks like the liquid got inside the screen, and I don't know what to do about it. Can anyone help? [more inside]
Guitar for a 5-year old. Which one? Where to buy?
Planning a birthday present for my daughter, who will be 5 soon. She's been interested in guitars, and I'd love to get her one to mess around on. Ideally it would be small, not too expensive, but good enough to feel 'real'. I don't know much about guitars. What's a good one to buy? Is there an online outlet for such things you would recommend?
The (almost) indestructable camera
My camera fell into a lake. Yikes! Took it home, let it dry in a bowl of brown rice and now it turns on (Yeah!) but the screen shows the view as a monotone blob of something. Help! [more inside]
Pink doesn't suit me
How do I keep reds(or other bright colors) from ruining my laundry? [more inside]
What goes on during the smartphone assembly process?
What goes on during the smartphone assembly process? A lot of it is opaque. Does anyone have insight about what happens from the time the phone's components enter the factory until the time it leaves in end-user packaging? [more inside]
What are the (young) kids listening to these days?
I've been asked to put a bunch of music on an mp3 player for a visiting 9 year old girl. I know she likes the Bieb and Gaga and (for some reason) ABBA. Beyond that, I'm at a loss. Suggestions?
Special snowflake thinks she can go to law school
I still want to be a human rights lawyer. Is this crazy? [more inside]
Must control the fist of death...
Are you a professor? Is your dean a fossil? What do you do? [more inside]
What to do in Boone, NC?
Boone, NC. Tell me what you know about it. [more inside]
How to break up with a nice person who has serious problems?
Looking for advice about breaking up with my very nice but very troubled boyfriend. [more inside]
carpayments
Im interested in the new 40 mpg hyundai accents they cost around 16000 i was just wondering assumeing i have no credit rateing at all ( ive never used a credit card ect cetra)
was just wondering that the monthly payments would probably come to.
Also if theres any programs in pennsylvannia for high mpg car trade in or programs to help a financialy um disadvantaged person get a new car
How much can women’s clothes be altered?
How much can women’s clothes be altered? [more inside]
Butter my milk, please.
What is your favorite recipe that calls for buttermilk? [more inside]
Alexander or Acupuncture?
If you've tried Alexander technique or acupuncture for neck or back pain, did they work? [more inside]
Asynchronous instant messaging doesn't really cut it.
How do I get MS Communicator to pop up when someone is attempting to communicate? [more inside]
Doctor says "don't work" but finances say otherwise
My doctor doesn't think I should work, but our family finances are dire. Everything I've heard says that disability is not likely for me. Now what? [more inside]
What novel would make a great low-budget film?
What novel would make a great low-budget film? Any genre. Bonus for strong female lead under the age of forty, but not necessary. [more inside]
What do you do when you catch someone lying?
Why am I so bothered with resume-padding? [more inside]
When there's no Timberland
Shoe Shopping Filter. Recommendations for alternatives to Timberland ? [more inside]
A Golden Coin from the Golden Age
I have a craaazy question about coin collecting in the 1950s. Help! [more inside]
Yet another credit card question.
Now that my credit is superawesome spectacular, can I get rid of the shitty low-limit high-interest credit-building card I loathe? [more inside]
How can I convince my girlfriend to go to counseling with me?
How can I convince my girlfriend to go to counseling with me? [more inside]
Socially inept and thankless
Fix me: I'm a jerk! After 8 years at my work place, today was my last day. I didn't expect any gifts. A "party/lunch" was to happen after our morning work period, but due to extenuating circumstances (namely a huge leak causing damage) the party/lunch didn't occur. Instead I was given my gift/cards intermittently between cleaning up. I was gifted a nicely wrapped present with three cards on it. I opened the first card and written in it was a heartfelt message, I put it as well as the others aside, knowing that if I read them, I would probably cry. Turns out, one of them contained a generous gift card. I feel awful for not opening and properly thanking the givers in front of them. Of course I'll write them a nice thank you note, but should I call or email them now and explain myself?
Looking for a specific "safe touch" sociological illustration
Help me find a drawing of a male and a female body, that highlights the parts that are considered safe for non-intimates to touch. I stumbled across it years ago online, but am struggling now to find it again. [more inside]
How to do the Dakar Rally?
How can I race in the Dakar Rally? The catch: I've never been in a race before, ever, and I have no idea what an FIM license is. [more inside]
Best cell phone camera?
What's the best cell phone camera out there today? prefer a zoom lens (I really miss having one). Currently I have an LG "chocolate" and it's not very good (in many ways). I-phone, as we know, has a decent camera but no zoom.
How do I manage a single database with multiple web servers?
How do I ensure data integrity when using multiple load-balancing servers? [more inside]
Vista attempting to update a phantom program
How do I stop Vista from trying to install an update for a program I don't have installed? [more inside]
How to take antibiotics
Instructions for taking antibiotics [more inside]
Is this normal temp agency behavior?
Why might temp agencies have problems with headscarves and telling me why I was fired? [more inside]
Should I ask an employee to change his FB picture?
Should I discuss my reportee's FB profile picture with him? [more inside]
Looking for a program to help with cash flow calculations for a small business
Looking for a program to help with cash flow calculations for a small business [more inside]
Breaking the law for a packtite--and I need some advice.
I live in Canada and have waited for months, in vain, for the packtite to be allowed to be legally shipped here. I will be visiting my family in New York!!! this August, and can have a packtite shipped to their apartment. Then I will drive it home, (and use it instantly, because I will have just come back from New York.)
Two questions:
1) Who should I order the packtite from? Their seem to be a number of different online suppliers.
2) Could there really be an issue at the border? Normally the customs agent just waves us through, but on the off chance they look in our trunk, will the box it comes in set off any alarm bells for them?
Both Mr. Uans and I are getting very alarmed about the bedbug situation, more especially when we travel. I'm embarrassed to say that I've put off this trip to NY for months for that reason.
Help me get a packtite!
Do I need a doctor?
[Psych filter] I'm a few months out of a relationship that wouldn't have happened if I'd been honest with myself from the start. However it led to me questioning more than just my motives... do I need to talk to a pro, or just rest, relax and not make such a big deal of life? Of course there's [more inside]
How to care for my cat before I see the vet?
Newbie pet owner. Cat has diarrhea, time to worry, or not? [more inside]
I just ordered my passport.
I want to travel to Europe (France, Germany, Austria, and maybe Poland) this fall. I have never left the United States. I have absolutely no idea how to plan this. Many details inside. [more inside]
setlist for non-musicians with instruments
looking for easy/popular/fun/sing-alongy songs a group of non-musicians could play together -- we'll have eggs shakers, tambourines, harmonicas, mouth-harp etc.
(i.e. beatles-ob-la-di, / U2 desire / la bamba or even more contemporary gaga-bad romance?) everything's on the table - thanks
Bee balm bushes begin bending; bothers buzzv
Why is my bee balm falling over? [more inside]
Where did I see that stubble?
Comicfilter: I'm trying to remember a comic that came out around 2003. It was published as a book, had a one-word title (I think), and was drawn in a very loose, kind of messy style (maybe reminiscent of white ninja?). I believe it was autobiographical and was mostly about the author and episodes of his life with his (ex?)girlfriend. I think he wrote the comic as part of his getting-over-her period. What I remember most about how the author was drawn in the book was that he always had stubble. Not sure if this is a long-shot or if someone will get it in 2 seconds. Thanks!
More time in Portland than I'd planned. Yay?
I have a wedding to go to in Eugene. I am flying in and out of PDX. I know that it's a 2 hour drive between the two. My flight was at 5pm on Monday, but now (thanks!) it's been moved up to 1pm. I need a plan for coming back to Portland on Sunday, staying the night, and then getting to the airport at a reasonable time. [more inside]
Help me trawl the internet
At work, I'm supposed to compile a weekly list of "things of interest" on the internet which are related to our non-profit's mission. They need only fit into our general program areas, rather than necessarily dove-tail with our projects. Strategies, suggestions, hints for finding interesting things every week, without hitting the same sources or the same big news items as everyone else? [more inside]
Looking for the name of song from the early 90's.
The quotes may not be spot on, I'm working from pretty old memories and I've had no luck with Google. Any assistance in identifying the band and song would be greatly appreciated. [more inside]
Looking for hat and jewelry making courses - Boston area
I am looking for recommendations for two course: one in making jewelry and one in making hats in the Boston area. I did note a hat course at the design school, but you have to be enrolled in a degree program. Has anyone taken any courses in the above they could recommend? Thanks!
I need a high resolution of Rick Scott looking like a maniac
I am looking for a specific undoctored high resolution image of Florida Governor Rick Scott. [more inside]
Safe to add food coloring to betta's water?
I am wondering if there is any risk to a betta fish at all of adding some food coloring to his water? We have been pulling minor pranks on a coworker and many on Fridays have revolved around a fish and I am thinking adding a couple of drops to make a light tinge to the water would be good if it posed no risk to the fish. Everything I've googled looks like it is fine, but really trying to cover my bases in advance.
The bathroom is supposed to be my happy place, not your spittoon/shower/fartatorium
There are three things going on in the men's room at work that irk me. Fellow men, am I right to be annoyed at the spoliation of the safe haven that is the gentlemen's convenience, or am I being unreasonable? [more inside]
Help me to not hate Lion
Please help me not hate OSX Lion. Even though I have deselected "Restore windows when quitting and re-opening apps" every time I launch Pages, it opens several recent documents. This is driving me nuts. [more inside]
Is "too hungover" a valid excuse?
A close friend keeps flaking on events because he's "too hungover". It's getting annoying. [more inside]
Helping loved ones help themselves in MA
I have two family members in trouble in Massachusetts, and I want to talk to someone about it. I am not in Massachusetts, and I need help finding an the right "someone." [more inside]
Book ID Request, Again
Please help me ID a book about a dark-haired woman set during the westward expansion. [more inside]
something something atoms birds something
Half-remembered-poem-filter! About a decade ago, I read a poem (written by a woman, I'm pretty sure) about the Challenger disaster. I distinctly remember that she conveyed the concept of their atoms spreading into nature. Now I can't find it anywhere, and I hate when I can't find something on the internet! [more inside]
Day Trips in and Around Frankfurt
My brother (18) and I (23) are in the Frankfurt area visiting relatives. We're looking for interesting and fun day trips in and around Frankfurt (let's say anywhere within about a 2 hour train ride) for this weekend and next week: museums, festivals, interesting places to grab a drink, cool shops or places/neighborhoods we should just plain walk around and see. We don't have a car so everything needs to be accessible by public transport. Thanks!
How to get a coworker to help you
Is it possible to learn from a co-worker who doesn't seem to like you? [more inside]
You're my favorite person... too bad you're a little nutso
How often is it amazing? [more inside]
Mac
Anyone know of a good resource for retro computer artwork? [more inside]
Fun things to do in Pittsburgh when you're alive?
I'm going to be going to Pittsburgh to visit a friend this weekend. She works until 8:30 pm, however, so I'll be left to my own devices for the afternoons and early evenings. I'm totally cool with that, and I look forward to exploring on my own. But I need a place to start! Can you help? [more inside]
Another ADHD meds question
I was prescribed Strattera for my adult ADHD, but after reading up on this drug I'm not so sure I want to take it. I'm looking for any Strattera experiences you may have, as well as general advice on the whole tweaking psych meds thing. [more inside]
Writing podcasts?
Are there any podcasts that focus on writing? I'm not looking for shows that just feature different stories every week, I am looking for ones that feature writers talking about the craft of writing. [more inside]
Gonna keep movin', gonna go to town
MusicFilter! I'm looking for music that fits my current mood. I got great input when I wanted to revel in my awesomeness. Now, I'm feeling shitty and need to toe tap and sway to something else. Marvin Gaye's Trouble Man is on rotation in my brain. So is Amy Winehouse's You Know that I'm No Good. [more inside]
I'm looking for certain kinds of drinks.
I'm looking for certain kinds of drinks. Non-alcoholic, no sugar, no coffee, no tea. No processed drinks, no artificial flavours. Something I can make at home. To be drunk at all times. Apart from fruit/vegetable juices, (soy)milk, and water, what else remains? [more inside]
Moving truck rental 24 hour limitation
I'm moving from St. Paul to Minneapolis this weekend. I have to be out of my old apartment by noon on Sunday, but am not allowed to move into my new one until after 4pm on Monday. This creates a problem because none of the local rental truck companies seem to be willing to rent out their trucks for longer than 24 hours. Am I really going to have to rent a truck and load and unload it into a storage facility for a day, and then rent another one the very next day, or is there some superior solution someone can think of? Surely this isn't the first time this issue has arisen.
Thanks for any suggestions.
I was rear ended at a light yesterday. Have a few questions and concerns over what do do next.
I was rear ended at a light yesterday. Have a few questions and concerns over what do do next. [more inside]
I want to use my monitor and prolong the battery!
Will connecting an external monitor to a new Macbook Pro wreck the battery life? [more inside]
Why is the thread in the last button on my shirt a different colour?
Why is the thread in the last button on my shirt a different colour? [more inside]
How can I find out whether I can reuse city or county publications?
What is the best way to find out whether publications by a US state, county, or city agency are copyrighted? [more inside]
resthacks?
There's nothing like a productive and clear-headed day after a good night's rest. But this happens far less often than I would like. Is there some sort of guide to getting good rest? Not tips for insomniacs, just something for normal healthy people to get better rest. Resthacks? [more inside]
No, sir, I do not need more shipments. However, I'll gladly take the discount!
What's to stop someone from repeatedly signing up for Amazon's Subscribe & Save solely to receive the discount, then cancelling? [more inside]
Necklace Repair
Where in LA can I get a bead necklace restrung inexpensively? [more inside]
How do I deal with blog comment fragmentation?
How do I deal with blog comment fragmentation? I use Twitterfeed to feed my (Blogger) entries over to Facebook, so my friends playing ant farm or whatever the hell they do on FB can read my stuff. But some people comment on the blog, others comment on FB, and I'd like the blog to be the permanent record of comments. So....is there an alternative besides manually bringing over each new FB comment to my blog (i.e. posting the comment under my own username, with a header of, like, "Shelly says......")?
Someone is using my wife's phone number: should we worry?
My wife regularly gets calls for a particular different person. Should we be worried? [more inside]
The douche jokes write themselves...
NSFW product recommendation. [more inside]
How can I stop my city government from outsourcing the decision to outsource government services?
I'm looking for research or advocacy groups that are critical of governments that hire consulting firms such as KPMG for budgetary advice or auditing purposes. Other than The Yes Men, please ;) [more inside]
Physics-related jobs in Bariloche, Argentina?
I'm willing to relocate to San Carlos de Bariloche, Chili. I'm a 23 years old Belgian and I'm about to finish my Master's degree this September. I'm looking for a physics-related job. Teaching is a good example. Do you know where I should begin looking for? [more inside]
Big extended family in one house
I am 33 years old. Father of two. Living with my parents. My married sister also lives with us and another sister (not married) who is working also lives with us. My brother lives three houses down. He is married and has a daughter. I have become obsessed almost comically with the daily lives of my family. I need some help. [more inside]
Help me help my Honda.
Just had to replace the rotors on my Honda Accord. Again. Help. [more inside]
How do we know when they're really speaking Klingon?
How should I denote transitions between languages in a story I'm working on? [more inside]
Botox: Apply directly to the pits?
Should I get Botox to treat my hyperhidrosis? What is it like? [more inside]
Where to drink with my mom in West Village?
Where to have bitchin' Mommy and Me drink session in the West Village tonight? [more inside]
No, Comic Sans is NOT a "neato font".
TypoFilter: I need a somewhat inexpensive gift for a typophile graphic designer. [more inside]
How should I manage my small fortune of privilege?
I have the random fortune of being raised in a wealthy family. As I prepare for life after university I want to make sure I understand personal finance and properly manage the money that I've thus far received from parents and grandparents. Can you please help me? Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Forearmed against the six-legged
We're moving in a couple weeks, and we just found out that bedbugs were spotted in our new apartment. NOOOO! What now? [more inside]
Resources for green business initiatives?
Resources for green business initiatives? [more inside]
All I want is a humble cabin in the woods and a five-star chef
Looking for a nice accessible vacation spot in Quebec or Ontario - forest, lake, canoes. Must be a hotel or at least have locked doors and food nearby on foot. Most important: I have to be able to get there without a car! [more inside]
Intro to GenCon 101 (+5)
I am a 41yo male nerd, who will be travelling with my female nerd companion to GenCon in Indianapolis next week. I have only been to GenCon once, back when it was still here in Milwaukee, and that was only to walk through the exhibition floor. We will be staying for the entire run and would like to make the most of it. So far, she has signed up for a few costume events and I have a few random board game events in mind. Otherwise, we are looking at a lot of open time on the schedule. I would like to try my hand at some D&D and signed up for a "Learn to play 4.0" event (I haven't played since AD&D in 1984), but it looks like to play any further than that you need to start off one of the campaigns run by "Baldman Games". Unfortunately, if you miss the early parts of these campaigns (such as the ones scheduled opposite their "Learn to Play" session) you can't jump in at the next part. Is there any other option for a D&D n00b? Any suggestions on what else to sign up for or see and do in Indy? [more inside]
What's new kitty-cat - woe, woe, woe.
Friend got cats, but I'm allergic - what's the protocol? [more inside]
Entertainment for an extremely long walk.
Help me choose books and music for a solo trek through Sweden, Turkey, Nepal, and Jordan. I'll be on the "road" for six months with a lot of down time and a Kindle, so I need a lot of suggestions. [more inside]
Should I put $10,000 on a credit card and pay it right off?
I am thinking about buying $10,000 worth of appliances and entertainment-related products for my house. Should I put it all on a credit card? [more inside]
Help finding Thyrogen
Any suggestions on how a fellow might help his favorite girl get access to the Thyrogen she has been waiting all spring and summer for? [more inside]
Help me buy an AC adapter
Can I buy a 90W Power adapter for a 65W adapter? The description of the product says it is compatible with my new Lenovo T400, but I don't understand electricity so I thought I'd ask. [more inside]
Can you live healthily on one good meal a day
Can I live healthily on one meal a day? [more inside]
What is this quote about performing music?
I need help finding a quote about the performance of music. [more inside]
Zombie need phone with Brains, not to mention the Carrier that runs it
Hate my iPhone. Want a new phone and a new carrier (currently AT&T). Which one is the most worth my hard earned money? [more inside]
Knocking them dead with fruit pies
What's an amazing, mindblowing dessert that I can make tomorrow for a pool party that isn't until Saturday afternoon? [more inside]
Guidelines for Rehoming Skittish Kittens?
Guidelines for Rehoming Skittish Kittens? [more inside]
Slow boat from China
I have a a couple questions about your experience with freight forwarders. In particular, shipping containers via ocean from China. [more inside]
Info on the foreign service background check.
How in depth does the Foreign Service background check go? [more inside]
Depends on what your definition of "is" is.
How can I best cope with this relationship impasse? [more inside]
Cashew Fruit Juice in NYC?
The wikipedia page for cashews says that the cashew apple (the fruit which produces the seeds we eat) is made into a fruit juice drink that is very popular in Brazil. Surely I can find this drink in New York City? Tell me where. [more inside]
Why can so many people get away with overposting on craigslist?
Apartment hunting in NYC is a major pain for almost everyone. But lately it seems that craigslist overposters are winning the battle of keeping their listings on top, and posting the same property an obscene amount of times each day. If your looking for a particular neighborhood and price range, you will click and see the same aprartment over and over, sometimes for weeks at a time. They must be getting flagged. I flag people when it is obvious. Why are they not banned? I guess the question is, what can I do? Is flagging really helping, or is it just a placebo? [more inside]
[?]+[TAB] = Post?
Lots of text editors, like the one I use, have these nifty snippet or text expander features that let you type a couple characters, hit a tab button and have a bunch more text come out. It seems like this could really up my game as a blogger and writer (not a coder), I just don't know how. What neat sorts of things are you using snippets to do that would save me time, impress the opposite sex or otherwise change my life?
No display due to motherboard?
Do I really have to replace the motherboard? My computer is showing no display and I think I've ruled out everything except the motherboard. Changing that is obviously expensive and time-consuming, so please tell me if I'm missing anything! [more inside]
"A healthy mind in a healthy body."
I started running last October and I've lost 30 lbs. Along with this though I've noticed many other body changes. There are two in particular that I am interested in. The veins in my hands and feet are more defined and my elbows are no longer ashy. Is there any kind of relationship between these two changes and my new running lifestyle? Not sure if this makes a difference or not but I've also cut out all fast food, soft drinks, junk food and I'm eating healthy balanced meals now.
How does one merge google-map pages?
My google-maps has split into several pages - how can I see everything as one map? [more inside]
Save my mom's tomatoes from the squirrels
My mother has a squirrel problem. She has a ton of tomato plants and now that they're coming in, the squirrels are picking them and eating part of them. Is there something she can do to save her plants? Note: killing the squirrels is not an option--she would rather not have tomatoes than kill the squirrels.
The science behind contempt?
Familiarity breeds contempt. (But why?) [more inside]
Raising a pet dog on my own
Is it a good idea to get a pet dog if I live alone and need to travel occasionally? [more inside]
Clock in, clock out, clock back in
I’m a systems analyst who just started consulting. What are the expectations for my weekly hours? Not the expectations in the contract, the real ones. [more inside]
a dance with dragons, yea or nay?
Should I read A Dance With Dragons? Especially interested in hearing from people who once considered themselves fans but cooled on the series years ago and read ADWD anyway and liked it (or didn't!). Possible mild spoilers for ADWD re: characters. [more inside]
Help me find MY bike
Help me find my perfect bike. I have not owned a bike since I was a child so I am having a hard time picking one now. In fact, I went to three different local bike shops and was given 2-3 different options at each shop so I am even more confused now than I was when I started looking. Specifications and riding goals inside. [more inside]
July 27
Help me identify this nougat
Need help identifying a type of nougat (sweet) - possibly iranian. [more inside]
Mac vs. PC for college?
Paging Mutant!
Economics filter: I'm sitting on a lot of Korean won. I want to buy US dollars (practically, I'd do a wire transfer from my Korean bank acount to my US one). Given that the Republican Party might ruin the US economy out of sheer spite, how should I time this transfer to maximize my personal profit re: a beneficial exchange rate (weak USD, stable/strong-ish Korean won)? [more inside]
what is the best IRC app for Android phones - I miss #bunnies
Best Android app for IRC? Is there an Android equivalent of Colloquy to be used on an Android? Looking for a quality app to use IRC on my phone.
Dancing Paper Scam
Help me figure out what was going on with a street vendor in Rome selling dancing paper cut-outs. [more inside]
How do I choose a company to design and maintain my business' website?
How do I choose a company to design and maintain my business' website? [more inside]
Any tips on getting a four-year-old to blow his nose
How do you get a 4 year old to blow their nose [more inside]
Upgrading a videocard - need advice
Upgrading a videocard - need advice [more inside]
Potty training thread
MeFi parents - give me your potty training advice! [more inside]
omfg i hate peeing
I recently started getting UTIs and bladder inflammation after every weekend I go to see my boyfriend and have sex with him. I need some guidance so I know what kinds of questions to ask my doctor, 'cause I am damn tired of needing to pee in pain every 10 goddamn seconds. [more inside]
Who threatened to install DOS 1.0 to torture an android?
Where did I read a story that included someone threatening to install DOS 1.0 on a robot/android/uncooperative computer? [more inside]
I hope nothing goes wrong, of course.
Contractor, roofing, insurance. [more inside]
Is too much truth a dangerous thing?
Had a hunch about my SO's texting, followed it up and found I was right. Tried to make it right but I'm not sure if I have succeeded. Feeling like I might be crazy, insecure, a door mat, or all three. I know I'm not alone out there with this type of situation, wondering how others have handled things and what the outcomes were. Thanks in advance for taking a minute to read/answer (okay a of couple minutes, it's on the long side!) [more inside]
An unwanted letter
Should I read my friend's suicide letter? [more inside]
A place to sleep in the City that Never Sleeps
NYC hostel or other cheap place to sleep. It needs to have air conditioning and be quiet enough for me to sleep--I don't care about anything else. Suggestions? [more inside]
Kits for mechanical clock movements?
Are there any kits for making a mechanical clock movement? [more inside]
Inkorgible
Korg, Kurzweil, Roland... What other brands am I not yet looking for in an excellent digital concert piano? [more inside]
How can I improve my daughter's table manners?
How can I improve my daughter's table manners? [more inside]
And 1
What can I do to determine if I have a bad domain registration situation? [more inside]
Save me from killing my cats. They're plotting against me.
How can I attach my iMac to my desk? My cats are apparently stronger than they look. [more inside]
Anyone have a similar throat issue?
What's the easiest to install slick mountain bike tire?
I'd like to put some slick (or semi-slick) tires on my mountain bike. What would be a good choice? My biggest requirement is that they'd be pretty easy to install. Second requirement would be cost. I'd rather not spend 50 bucks a wheel. [more inside]
Outdoor activities for indoor person?
I'm an indoor person. I love being on my computer, playing videogames, watching TV, etc. I know, however, that I need to give my kids some outdoor time. What kind of outdoor activities can I enjoy with them that I can enjoy myself? [more inside]
Help me to stop blushing!
I blush often, even when I'm not embarrassed or angry. How can I stop? [more inside]
I'd Like to Become a Fruit and Vegetable Expert
Please hope me become a master of fruits, vegetables and possibly juice! [more inside]
About those birds and bees....
Why did my hummingbird feeder become a bee trap? [more inside]
What should I eat when I am on medication which kills my appetite?
I am on medication that kills my appetite. What should I eat? [more inside]
Descriptive video for videogames
Descriptive video for the blind and visually impaired... for videogames? Does this exist? I’d like to do it. I know there are a million videos of people playing videogames around, but I'd like to do ones tailored for people who can't see. [more inside]
Help me find this epistolary novel
Help me find this epistolary novel [more inside]
Stumped for vacation ideas in new england
Seeking: romantic weekend in a charming New England town. [more inside]
you'd probably poke it too
My fiance poked at a squishy bump in his forehead about two days ago; it squished and sort of dispersed, he said, and now his head has hurt really bad ever since. What could this have been, and do we need to be concerned now? [more inside]
How to install a child theme in WordPress.
Two part WordPress question (child themes and Twenty Eleven template.) [more inside]
How to I forward my domain elsewhere?
MeFi web experts...help me forward my domain to another site. [more inside]
Are videos of wedding ceremony's fair use?
I uploaded a video of our wedding ceremony to Youtube. Our recessional was "Love Story" by Taylor Swift. Youtube informs me today that I have "infringing content". Do I have a leg to stand on to claim fair use?
Please talk to me about the ability to stay long-term on a low/no grain diet.
Please talk to me about the ability to stay long-term on a low/no grain diet. [more inside]
Archives crash course for a (future) librarian
Do you have any tips for a librarian-in-training (not archivist-in-training) on how to best approach organizing and cataloging personal archives, without the guidance of an archivist? [more inside]
Going medieval on DC's ass
DCLaw/OrdinanceFilter: Is carrying a torch and pitchfork in Washington, D.C. illegal? [more inside]
Is transition to online-only the kiss of death for a printed magazine?
I'm looking for specific examples of special-interest magazines and magazine-style newsletters that made a transition from print-only to online-only. What happened? Did they survive and flourish, or wither and die? What factors made the difference one way or the other from your perspective as a subscriber or publisher?
Brother Mouzone
WireFilter: What's the deal with Brother Mouzone? Accurate from-the-streets representation of idiosyncratic archetype, or straight caricature and relevant only as a plot device? [spoilers therein] [more inside]
Rent or buy the water?
I need to clean my deck which was pressure washed about 5-7 years ago. I want to paint it afterwards and am wondering which option to take for the cleaning. Rent or own? [more inside]
Books By The Pound?!
Where to sell used books that isn't Half-Price Books? Special Snowflake lurking within. [more inside]
Music for a Harsh Collapse
Soundtrack for that moment when your life comes crashing down? [more inside]
Psychiatrist in Boston/Cambridge?
Psychiatrist recommendations in Cambridge, MA - additional snowflakey requirements below the fold! [more inside]
Needing cold hard facts and logistics for after mom dies.
What happens and what to do when I hear my mom dies 1,500+ miles away. What will the landlord do in the short term? Where does her body go? What happens to the cat? The medical bills? How do I unload fine art? [more inside]
Champagne tastes, Bud Light Budget
Help me find fashion similar to Boden for Women, but less expensive. Or tell me to suck it up and just buy Boden.
Examples of what I love and what I'm looking for inside... [more inside]
BORED CORPORATE DRONE NEEDS TURN BASED PHONE ENTERTAINMENT
I need a good Turn-Based iphone game to wheedle away the time. Help! [more inside]
Airport security re-screening
When transferring between connecting flights in Canada, do you need to go through security screening again? [more inside]
Groovin' Poolside
Please recommend some decent outdoor speakers for under $200! [more inside]
Why do babies of other races seem to be a little extra cute?
Why do babies of other races seem to have an extra level of cuteness? [more inside]
The book John Candy is reading in Planes, Trains & Automobiles?
In the film "Planes, Trains & Automobiles," Del Griffith (John Candy) is reading a book titled "The Canadian Mounted." Is this a real book or just a joke prop for the film? [more inside]
Looking for an online tutorial to create a line chart in Powerpoint
I have a lot of information (dates and numbers that correspond to lot numbers/Kg) that I need to plot on a line graph in Powerpoint. I do not have this kind of advanced Powerpoint knowledge and I'm hoping there is a website that has easy step-by-step instructions
What's a good NYC-based company for printing menus?
The bakery/café I work for is looking for a good company to print our menus.
We're looking to print "tall" menus. I'm sorry this is so vague, but I don't know the measurements or name of the type of menu. If I had to guess I'd say ~8" x ~4" — you know, the kind you often see in restaurants/cafés/delis, etc, often with a trifold. We're most likely doing just a double sided piece of paper, though.
We're located in Brooklyn, so we'd be looking for a company somewhere here or in Manhattan.
How bad is general anesthesia for infants?
Should we fight to have a g-tube placed in our 10-month-old without general anesthetic? If the hospital insists on general anesthetic, should we find another provider or call the whole thing off? [more inside]
Hyperthyroidism and eating disorders
Can anyone offer insight - academic or experiential - into the link between hyperthyroidism and eating disorders?
Will the pound gain value over the dollar in August 2011?
FinanceFilter: Getting paid in British pounds converted to US dollars -- should I take it now, or hold off in hopes that the pound gains value over the dollar because of the debt ceiling situation, etc.? [more inside]
no, i was not punched in the face last night...or any night.
Another question about dark circles: do these look normal to you? I'm worried that they're a symptom of something larger. [more inside]
MacAmp?
Winamp Style music visualization for Intel OSX? [more inside]
What's the best thing to say during teacher associate interview?
Hi,
I will be going to a teacher associate job interview next week. This is where I will be sort of like a teacher's aide. Do any of you have great comments or responses that will impress the interviewer? [more inside]
Why is the concept of evolution seen as contrary to Christian teaching?
Why is the concept of evolution seen as contrary to Christian teaching? [more inside]
Looking for a book about living your life by dividing your day into 3 shifts
Looking for a book about dividing a day into 3 shifts: 3 hours for community, 3 hours for land, and 3 hours for personal projects. Explained in a book by a couple who advocated this as a way of life, but I've forgotten the book and the names of the authors.
How to Solve the Issue of Constantly Recurring Paper Jams When Using Remanufactured Toner Cartridges
Remanufactured toner cartridge is causing recurring paper jams. But the remanufactured toner cartridge looks identical to the original toner cartridge! What could possible be causing the paper to jam, and has anyone ever figured out a fix or workaround so as to avoid buying the higher cost tone cartridges? [more inside]
Automatic sprinklers overspray
Automatic sprinklers -- My sprinklers spray too far. I know that the adjustment screw should lower the spray radius. I seem to have trouble making this work. Is there a technique that I'm missing? Is there another sprinkler model that has more adjustment?
Clarification - I'm not talking about fulls, halves and quarters.
I don't want my chair to smell like shampoo! I want it to smell like a chair!
How do I get this shampoo smell out of a recently-cleaned chair? [more inside]
potayto potahto
What is the origin of the "oe" (from "ö") in names like "Schroeder", "Boehner" being pronounced like the "a" in "bay" or "day" in the US? [more inside]
Twitterfilter: URL for unique tweets only, no retweets?
Twitterfilter: What URL will return original tweets with the #muckreads hashtag? (unique, filtering out all retweets, old style & new) [more inside]
Someone who can rewire my lamp in Brooklyn?
Rewiring an old rusted lamp in Brooklyn? [more inside]
I want to see music
Is there any relatively agreed-upon audio visualization standard, or are all visualizations of audio just interpretations of the sounds? [more inside]
Can you recommend a good optician in London?
Can anyone recommend a good optician in London? [more inside]
Where can I find information on government expenditure? Middle East!
Expert googler help needed! [more inside]
Unique and non-musical college radio program ideas?
Unique and non-musical ideas for a college radio program? [more inside]
Homemade Ice Cream: What do I need to know and where should I start?
I bought an ice cream maker! (The well praised Cuisinart) Now what? Looking for tips, recipes, and all around homemade ice cream 101. [more inside]
Oil Stains on Garage Floor
How can I best remove old oil stains from my concrete garage floor? [more inside]
How can I better curate my daily/weekly reading list and improve the reading experience?
Does anyone know of a good way to better curate the blogs and articles I subscribe to/automatically sort through them? I have seen some iPad apps that claim to do things like this, but I don't have an iPad and I don't particularly want to be restricted to only reading on said device even if I did.
Also, any solution for formatting articles in such a way that they could be printed to create a custom magazine or put on a kindle or something like that, to improve the reading experience? [more inside]
Cut the fat
My husband is approximately 80lbs overweight. I'm at the end of my rope. Advice?
Inside the link is an extremely long post full of special snowflake details. [more inside]
Starting Over......
Have you claimed bankruptcy in the last few years? Help! Where do I start? [more inside]
Resources that describe healthy relationships?
Resources that describe healthy relationships? [more inside]
Can I Still Have a Butler?
How would one successfully blend in with the rich? [more inside]
Wind turbines not turning?
Why do you see so many wind turbines stopped - even on a windy day? (What constitutes good or bad wind turbine running conditions?) [more inside]
Tree sculpture?
This is a long-shot--does anyone have any info on an artist who used nature/trees to make art? Maybe in the 70s? [more inside]
How do I actually get a psychiatrist?
How do I find a psychiatrist? I have insurance. [more inside]
Advice for a new business?
My husband and I are taking our used bike sales & service side business to a new level - the local farmer's market! We're getting our ducks all in a row and getting ready, but have we missed anything? Advice? [more inside]
What and why of Navi-X
What's the deal with Navi-X and similar "media browsers"? How do they work? How much longer are they likely to work? [more inside]
huh?
why was this police car swerving across lanes? [more inside]
1 + 10 + 100 + ... = -1/9
Mathfilter: In Gelfand's exceptional Algebra text, he is talking about the formula 1 + x + x^2 + x^3 + ... = 1/(1 - x). He uses the Achilles racing the tortoise model when first introducing the formula. He discusses the case x = 10, whence 1 + 10 + 100 + 1000 + ... = -1/9. [more inside]
Oh, Doctor, doctor, can't you see I'm burning, burning
Boyfriend is bipolar but won't take bipolar meds - help? [more inside]
Which is worse - less savings or more debt?
Should I cash out my IRA to significantly reduce my credit card debt? [more inside]
I'm blindfolded as to the name of this blindfolded music video
I recently saw a Thai music video and I'm hoping to find out the song and artist... [more inside]
Wake me up!
Why am I so tired all the time? I get 7-8 hours of sleep at night as well as a 45-60 mins nap after work but for months I’ve been feeling really tired. ALL. THE. TIME. [more inside]
Find me offbeat wonky pop in the vein of W H O K I L L by tUnE-yArDs!
Find me offbeat wonky pop in the vein of W H O K I L L by tUnE-yArDs! [more inside]
do you see the possibilities?
I need new glasses *and* new sunglasses. Help me understand the possibilities and figure out the best combination. [more inside]
oh brother
Need a step-down converter for plugging a printer sold in the US (110V power) into a 3rd-world socket (240V power). I get the voltage part but watts and amps and such are a bit beyond my electronoobicity. [more inside]
Interactive fiction game title...
I'm trying to remember the name of a piece of Interactive Fiction (IF) I once played, but remember almost nothing about. You start the game, sleeping next to your lover--and you can decide the gender of both your character and the lover--in what is essentially a hunting lodge. Your character can do something like shift into other times or other identities--I can't quite remember. I recall that it is supposed to be very long by normal IF standards. Any help?
Email and DNS servers - how does it work?
I am in the process of changing my web hosting service. I have a bunch of questions about what's going to happen to my email. [more inside]
There's a beach but no-one to walk it with!
I moved/relocated four months ago to a small island in SE Asia. I never really thought much about dating before this - I always seemed to have a partner if I wanted one - but there are so few single guys here looking for Western women that it might become a bit of an issue. But if I try online dating, my matches are likely to be from hundreds of miles away which could end up with me not meeting anyone that way either. Should I give it a go? [more inside]
Energy required to turn seawater into drinking water
Assuming an island with its own supply of power via generator and/or solar power, how much electricity is consumed to turn N liters of sea water into potable drinking water? [more inside]
Where are the anime-based radio dramas? =)
Where can I purchase or download English audio and/or radio dramas based on animes? Is there a website that caters to such a medium? If not, which animes do you know that have been converted to an audio drama? Perhaps a podcast? [more inside]
Am I about to be sent broke so I can retire in style?
Australian superannuation question. I'm a member of Unisuper. I've just received a letter saying that that due to the length of my continued employment, my employer contributions are going from 9% to 17%. Help me understand what this means... [more inside]
How to determine polarity of electric wires.
I have two DC electric wires: one is positive, one is negative. Without buying anything, how can I tell which is which? [more inside]
Help me stop my motorcycle's number plate cracking
Help me stop my motorcycle numberplate cracking. [more inside]
Help me catch trout
Trout fisherpeople. I must feed my family (or eat at sonic) I will be at Gastons weekend after next. I plan to do the lazy man and fish from the bank rather than venturing out in a boat (rod and reel not fly). Give me a list of what I need in my trout tool box. I'm starting out clean. No rod, no reel, no other equipment including line, sinkers and bait. I'll have a knife and I think I remember how to clean a trout but that's about it.
Any equipment, bait, technique, etc. advice greatly appreciated. I do not want to end up eating at the hotel restaurant although it is tasty. I want to buy as much of what I might need before i get there. Prices escalate as you near the site.
Thanks (cleaning pointers also appreciated).
July 26
Should I email a better answer to an interview question?
Yesterday I had an internal interview for a job I really want. I answered most of the questions just fine but one of them, "name a time when something at work depended on you and what did you do?", I bombed for some reason. Now I have a great answer and am thinking of emailing the three people in the interview panel with a revised answer, but I'm not sure whether this would be appropriate. [more inside]
Cool stuff in Kensington, Brooklyn, and surrounding areas
We are finally moving to Brooklyn; Kensington, to be exact. Tell us what you love in our new neighborhood and adjacent ones (Windsor Terrace, Ditmas Park, Flatbush, Borough Park). [more inside]
Should we go to the ER?
YANAD. Boyfriend has pea-ish sized hard mass right above belly button which doesn't protrude. Mild sharp pain, worse after eating. Touching it doesn't cause extra pain. He's also been extra gassy and a bit constipated. First noticed the lump/pain 4-5 days ago. Our health insurance is kicking in August 1st (and it's an HMO, so don't know how fast he'll be able to see someone). Is this something he should see a doctor about immediately? Should I be taking him to an ER? Lumpy masses are scary . . .
Mailing Items to China
What is the best way to ship an iPhone from the US to China? [more inside]
Another Name-that-(SFF)-Novel Question
Name this fantasy novel series, or possibly two series. A religious war, a sultan with a harem, the hero's wife is kidnapped and ends up in the harem and later his wife's daughter is offered to him in marriage. More recalled details after the jump. [more inside]
How do I make this shape in Powerpoint?
How to talk to a 7-year old about the drowning death of his dear friend?
A cousin that my 7-year-old son has a deep friendship with drowned today during recreational lake swimming and is now dead. How do I tell my son about this tragedy, especially the existential/metaphysical questions about death? [more inside]
Theft prevention strategies for bike lights
How do I keep my bike light from getting stolen? [more inside]
Where should I order bulk flowers online?
Does anyone have experience with ordering bulk flowers online? I'm looking for a reliable company to buy a bunch of flowers from for an event in mid September. [more inside]
Help me understand why desciptive bibliography is useful.
How are descriptive bibliographies of modern books useful to scholars & researchers? Rephrased: what questions are answered by the information they contain? [more inside]
An urbanist travels to New York
What are some urbanist/transit/cartography/local history-related attractions, exhibits or experiences I can visit/have when I am in New York City in mid-August? [more inside]
Bury the lead?
How do I incorporate the guitar lead in the chorus of Califone's 'Funeral Singers' into a solo arrangement? [more inside]
That's My Pretty Boy
Do I bother correcting people when they refer to my son as a girl? [more inside]
"Pardon me, your metadata is showing."
Thinking out loud - after reading many articles on the G+ naming problem, it occurred to me all the myriad ways that someone using a pseudonym could accidentally expose their real name. [more inside]
Terribly confused looking for a bike
What should I be looking for in buying a bike? [more inside]
How Safe Is It To Travel To Tokyo?
My family lives in Tokyo, and I grew up there, but I now go to school in the states. My parents want me to come out to visit next month, but I'm a bit concerned about the radiation. They assure me that any increase in the levels is negligible, but I realize that there are many different types of radiation, and food grown in the Fukushima area is still being served in Tokyo. I just really don't want to be a victim of hindsight, and it seems for every reputable article I can find that indicates the levels are safe, I can find another that begs me to reconsider the first. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be paranoid, but I also don't want the whole family to be at risk if there is an overlooked issue.
How do I close all child windows opened by a parent window?
Javascript Filter: How do I close all child windows opened by a parent window? [more inside]
How can I get into Biotech Grad School after working for 5 years?
I'd like to apply to grad schools for biotechnology after spending 5 years working in Pharma quality and I'd like advice on actually getting into one and how to find the right fit for me. [more inside]
What is God trying to tell me through this potato?
Why do my potatoes have stigmata? [more inside]
Should I be okay with my gf's ex moving in?
Relationshipfilter: Should I be okay with my girlfriend's ex move into her/her moms's house? [more inside]
I want to build a Monolithic dome home! (I think)
I want to build a Monolithic dome home! (I think) [more inside]
SharePoint: What is the best way to create a discussion board/wiki mashup where some replies are not visible to everyone?
SharePoint: What is the best way to create a discussion board/wiki mashup where some replies are not visible to everyone? [more inside]
Videophones suck and fiction proves it!
I'm trying to find a science fiction story that involves a future where people realize that they don't like people being able to see them when they're on the videophone, so they start wearing masks that hide their facial expressions while they're on the phone. Unfortunately, I can't recall the author or even whether it was a novel or just a short story. My Google-Fu is failing me; do you have any idea what story I'm thinking of?
tranny leak question
Help me ID a transmission fluid leak (photos within) [more inside]
Help me perm my gemaw's hair
This klutz needs tips, advice, and product recommendations for giving a home perm to an elderly woman. [more inside]
To use info from a girl's online profile in talking to her offline?
I've recently made chit-chat with an attractive barista at a coffee shop I frequent, mostly about the writing group I meet with there and a band we both like that she was playing over the sound system one day. This past weekend I signed into OKCupid for the first time in awhile, and she's one of the first matches that comes up for me. So now not only do I know that she's single, but that we both like several other bands, authors, shows and movies. We actually have a good bit in common. Do I exploit my new-found knowledge of her to make conversation in person (which is publicly posted, and it's not like I went looking for it), or do I message her on OKC in a "fancy meeting you here" sort of way? Which is less creepy?
Help me become comfortable with online dating
I am a 29-year old straight male who needs some help with both the mechanics of online dating as well as becoming comfortable with the idea of online dating. Snowflakely details inside. [more inside]
I won't drink to that.
How do I best deal with my negative feelings toward my friends, which are somewhat founded in concern but may also be overly severe? [more inside]
A network of pigeon owners?
I'm trying to find a reference to a story I heard of, possibly here but maybe not. It was about a society of pigeon owners that had a voting scheme that worked along the lines of PageRank, where the value of your vote was based on the number of other members voting for you, calculated recursively. It was an old system, possibly around the French Revolution. My Google-Fu is completely failing me. Does any of this ring any bells?
Open Salon alternative filter
Community blogging filter... Need hive input on a replacement for Open Salon. [more inside]
Eyepiece for DSO viewing?
Best eyepiece for viewing deep space objects with a Zhumell Z12 dobsonian reflector telescope? [more inside]
One time it duplicated every file in my library! For no reason!
I have a computer with way too much music on it, and I have an external hard drive. Can I store all my music on the external hard drive without making iTunes angry? Please explain as if I am twelve. [more inside]
Multiple control panels for website administering?
We are a small company with 3 subdivisions, each with their own sub-domain:
Main Website: www.widgets.com
Sub Domain 1: things.widgets.com
Sub Domain 2: stuff.widgets.com
Sub Domain 3: morestuff.widgets.com
Right now we can login to our webhost's control panel & admin our website. We are wondering if there's a web host out there that would give us a separate control panel for each subdomain so that the head of each division can admin his own subdomain?
When is it okay to buy a used car without a mechanical inspection?
When is it okay to buy a used car without a mechanical inspection? [more inside]
What the hell should I wear: looking well put together on a
Let's say I have $500-$700 to spend on a work week's worth of clothing. And let's say I want to look good — sharp, competent, grown up and well put together, not just vaguely "professional" or dress-code-compliant in a Wal-Mart-khakhis-and-a-polyester-shirt sort of way. (In fact, I have no dress code at all, and I'm totally willing to sacrifice ostensible "dressiness" in the interest of looking sharp and grown up and etcetera.) What should I buy? [more inside]
|...@..@@@@| "MeFites! Help me!" --more--
I want to play more games like Nethack, Dwarf Fortress, Liberal Crime Squad, etc. No, not rogue-likes: games with a similiar "made of text" interface. [more inside]
The Green-Eyed Monster
How do I deal with sexual jealousy that stems from a history of lousy experiences (possibly with therapy)? [more inside]
How do I tell my sister it's time to start paying rent
Help me tell my sister that she needs to start paying rent. She was going to trade helping around the house for rent, but that's not working out. Details inside. [more inside]
Help me deal with a difficult business partner
I've started a company with someone that I have trouble dealing with. What should I do about this business relationship? [more inside]
What skills should a jester possess?
My friend is having a medieval themed wedding, and I have been asked to play the role of the jester. Other than juggling, what skills should I practice? [more inside]
Looking for materials to use in a nonprofit social media training
I'm looking for materials that can be used to help train people how to best use social media to help nonprofits engage the community. [more inside]
She likes me fat, I like me fit.
How to cope with having an ideal body weight that is different from my SO's ideal of my body weight? [more inside]
Is this sibling relationship salvageable?
How can I fix my relationship with my sister? Should I even try? (long, unfortunately) [more inside]
I've Got Blisters on My....Sexy Bits?
I've got a weird little bump in my nether regions as a result of an ingrown hair gone wild. Is there a way I can get rid of it? In the meantime, how do I explain its existence to sexual partners without freaking them out? [more inside]
will this dock charge my hypothetical phone?
griffin simplifi question: is it compatible with the iphone 4 (and as such will it presumably be compatible with the iphone 5)? [more inside]
Stick me with needles...
(Acupuncture filter) - So I made an appointment for acupuncture. Looking for stories, suggestions, and did it help you? [more inside]
Show me a patio table that can work outside as a patio table mainly but double inside as kitchen table that only comes in when we have a (smallish) dinner party?
What is a good way to have a kitchen table sometimes, but not other times? We don't have space for a permanent kitchen table, but my fiance and I want to be able to have his parents and possibly 2 siblings over for dinner every couple of weeks. I'm having nightmares of plastic fold up card tables (yuck) or the dreaded TV trays (double yuck).
One thing we've thought of is a patio table that can sometimes come inside. Any links to cute looking patio tables that are not too heavy to bring in and out sometimes? Teak? Or?
Everything I've ever highlighted. NOW.
I have a Sony Reader Touch (PR-600). Is there any way to get my highlighted "notes" into one readable file? [more inside]
You're not my mommy
Dad wants me to meet the woman he left Mom for. Do I have to? [more inside]
Help me start my soon to be huge podcasting network
I have a few podcasts that I'd like to consolidate onto a single web page. Please help me figure out which CMS or website software to use. [more inside]
outsource my pants.
the right trousers.
I've heard that it's possible to get exact duplicates of items of clothing from Indian sources, and would like to know if anyone has any experience of thus or can recommend anyone. I have two pairs of trousers that I love, fairly distinctive, that I wish I could get duplicates made of. if I can just post them to someone and get copies back by return that would be awesome.
How do I know if the guy I'm dating is actually interested in something serious?
I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and I'm not sure where things are going. [more inside]
How do I learn to Defend myself?
I want to learn how to fight, whats the best martial art for that given the classes offered at my school? [more inside]
Could Native Americans own land in America in the years between 1700-1900?
Could Native Americans own land in America in the years between 1700-1900? [more inside]
Improving my improv
How do I practice improv by myself? [more inside]
It should be so simple, but it's not.
How can I transfer text messages from my cell phone to a computer? I can't email from the messaging window. Note: I don't have a SIM card or a memory card. [more inside]
Running shouldn't be such a bummer.
How can I feel less fatigued (and depressed) after intense exercise? [more inside]
Sprechen sie subtitles?
How can I convert MKV files with subtitles into MP4/M4V files with subtitles (OS=Windows)? [more inside]
can i forward sms/calls from my work phone to my home phone?
I may be getting an iPhone for work, would like to know how (or even if?) it is possible to forward SMS/calls to another (Android) phone -- but want to find out BEFORE I actually commit to taking the iPhone [more inside]
What's the best software for recovering data from an NTFS formatted JBOD drive?
What's the best software for recovering data from an NTFS formatted JBOD drive? [more inside]
Need Help Finding a daycare
Hello!
My husband and I found out we are pregnant. I have heard horror stories of new parents being on a waiting list for over a year for daycare. My husband and I both work and being a domestic engineer is not possible at this time. Relatives and friends are too far away to help with this situation.
I need advice from parents out there.
Is there a universal website for me to see day cares in my area with good/bad reviews? And how trust worthy would these reviews be?
I look forward to your answers.
Thank you!
Can I mod an adult trike to carry kids in the back?
Can I mod an adult trike to carry kids in the back? [more inside]
Name that film.
Need help identifying what was (I think) a horror film. [more inside]
HTTP POST with Basic Auth in Google Docs Spreadsheet API?
Can I do an HTTP POST with Basic Authentication in the Google Docs Spreadsheet API? [more inside]
What is Devouring My Picasa Space?
How can I tell which pictures or videos are eating up my free storage in Picasa Web Albums? [more inside]
Where can I buy 4' x 10' sheets of red oak plywood around Minneapolis, MN?
Where can I buy 4' x 10' sheets of red oak plywood around Minneapolis, MN? [more inside]
Help find Computer Security Book for class...
Any Book suggestions for my class that I'm teaching next semester: The course is titled "Personal Security in the Digital Age," basically it's an overview of computer security topics for undergraduate students. I am not requiring a textbook, but I like to give the students a list of books that could help them in the class, and might be good reads. So, what books do you suggest? (Course description and other books on the click) [more inside]
help me make my swap successful!
I'm hosting a fabric swap! Please help me make sure I've covered all the details. [more inside]
I'm a rank amateur
What are some basic math concepts I can use to understand and develop a ranking system? [more inside]
Help me burn a DVD
I downloaded this torrent. When I burned it to a dvd with Toast on a mac, the picture was fine, but I had no audio at all (which is sort of the whole point). [more inside]
How to find older friends?
I'm 31. I'd like to make some friends who are older than I am--even significantly older. How can I go about this? [more inside]
What recourse do I have with my useless management company?
My management company refuses to do anything about the (lackluster) security of my building. What recourse do I have? [more inside]
Custom new folder name pattern in windows explorer
In the Windows 7 explorer context menu, I'd like to add an item under 'new' that's like "New Folder" but instead creates a folder named e.g. 2011-07-26. I have no idea where I'd start; any approaches or software I should look into?
How did Woodward get Stephanopoulos to speak to him?
Why did George Stephanopoulos choose to speak to Bob Woodward (who was writing the book "The Agenda" at the time)? [more inside]
Help us sprint.
Can you recommend some free tools that can help generate timeline estimates? [more inside]
Non-Genre Fiction Magazine Recs Wanted
I'm looking for fiction journal or magazine recommendations, and I don't know where to start other than what I don't want: 'Genre' or McSweeney's. [more inside]
Trying not to impuslively quit my (new) job
Utterly desperately unhappy in my job. Please talk me back from the metaphorical ledge or help me learn how to jump! [more inside]
Looking for a retro t-shirt
I'm trying to find a retro (80s-ish) t-shirt with the Good Humor ice cream logo on it and not having any luck. [more inside]
Post-scarcity organizations?
There are organizations that are palliative (e.g. the Red Cross). There are organizations that are arguably transformative on a societal level (e.g. Kiva). Are there organizations in which global post-scarcity is an explicit goal and overarching value? [more inside]
Your phlem and burping is grossing me out. Did you get the memo?
How do I handle these loud co-workers? [more inside]
Audio problems with an Apple display monitor
The audio keeps vanishing on my Apple display monitor. Please advise. [more inside]
Help me get the book-smarts for a job in web merchandising
Looking for book/author/website recommendations on email marketing, search analytics, trend recognition, and content curation. The job I am preparing for is in Merchandising, at an ecommerce website dedicated to fashion, art, and design. [more inside]
Political ad/video with kids working adult jobs
What was that political video / TV ad that showed a montage of small children working a series of adult jobs (in a factory, for example)? [more inside]
Where should I buy a vintage Vespa?
I want to buy a vintage vespa (pre-1970) and I keep seeing a lot of sites selling them out of Vietnam and other parts of Asia.
Does anyone have experience with buying them from one of the websites? Am I better off buying a junker and getting it restored locally? Also - what are the licensing requirements for a Vespa in Massachusetts?
Environmental seal of 60D versus D7000
Environmental seal on Canon 60D vs Nikon D7000. [more inside]
Megan, write this down: "Dear the Man from U.N.C.L.E. ..."
Back when people still used handwriting for pretty much everything, what did they do for acronyms and initialisms? I'm just having a hard time imagining the Palmer uppercase forms being used to spell out NATO or AT&T or the like. Any pictorial examples would be especially appreciated.
Even tho he aint got money, I'm still in love with him, honey.
Gettin' hitched to a great guy (with some non-great credit). What do we need to do to protect my (pretty ok) credit? [more inside]
I'm sorry you're chubs...maybe have some cereal and a banana for breakfast instead of frozen pizza?
My overweight roommate is growing increasingly depressed about aforementioned extra weight. She makes poor eating choices. Should I say something? [more inside]
How do I make this chandelier?
How would I go about constructing this branchy chandelier with white fairy lights? I'm ambitious but not particularly handy with tools and craft resources.
In love with best friend, need a break
What is the kindest way to have "the talk" about needing a break from a friendship? Text, phone, IM, email, or face to face? The reason I need this break is because I am in love with him but he's not over his ex, and I've recently realized all this, and discovered it's too painful to keep hearing about her. We've been sleeping together, too, and I thought I would be able to keep it casual but I was wrong. [more inside]
two jobs, one business: yes or no?
Is it kosher to apply for two positions at the same place at the same time? [more inside]
Will I destroy my carpet?
Our 15-year-old low pile carpet still looks great. I've been hiring a carpet cleaning machine once every year to keep it that way. But the (foam?) rubber backing has begun to crumble and powder. Can I still use the cleaning machine or will this now hasten the carpet's demise?
Help Identify this Mystery Song
My friend is obsessing over a song that she can't recall any music to, who sang it, or what it's called.
What she remembers: it came out around '91, was about losing someone, sung by a solo female who she thinks had short blonde hair, and the video was shot in black & white. It came out around the same time as Nothing Compares To You, and equally as sad.
I know no better place than here to try and find this song.
Seed beads of New York
Beaders of NY: where can I find Delica seed beads in Manhattan? [more inside]
Moving out of my parents' home: good or bad idea?
Is moving out of my parents’ house a good or a bad idea? On the one hand if feels foolish to leave behind a rent-free, comfortable room in a loving home, but on the other hand the desire to feel more independent carries a lot more emotional weight for me. [more inside]
Hindi Keyboard
iPad 2 + Wireless Keyboard, in India. Currently Hindi is not offered as an international option on the iPad, which I guess is understandable since they'd have to create an entirely new touch-screen keyboard for it. But with an external keyboard, shouldn't I be able to use the QWERTY Hindi keyboard available on my Mac? Anyone have any idea how I can make this happen?
Help me identify this song... Pet Sounds + Joni Mitchell = ?
Help me find a song! It was on Sirius radio on July 23, between 10am and 3pm mountain time. It was a female singer singing over what sounded like a very Pet Sounds-like arrangement. She sounded like Joni Mitchell to me. (Maybe it was Joni Mitchell!) The song also sounded very familiar. I thought it was Both Siders, Now, but I listened to that song again and that's just guitar. This song sounded just a little more upbeat, more poppy, but equally as beautiful. Any ideas?
July 25
How do you deal with a hot-tempered parent?
I need advice on building a healthy relationship with my father despite his temper. [more inside]
Linux Netbook Happiness?
Linux netbook filter: So, I'm looking for a fairly inexpensive Linux netbook - mostly to websurf and do some light data-processing. I've looked around and the ZaReason, Inc. Teo Pro looks good for the price point. Do you agree? What upgrades seem worth the price? [more inside]
Because somebody needs to describe the 600 different kinds of plant in The Witcher
Writing for games. [more inside]
an event, not a person.
Give me your quotes and platitudes about failure. [more inside]
Why so expensive?
What's the deal with magazine prices? [more inside]
How to graduate without burning bridges
How do I solve this sticky situation with regards to my Honours thesis? [more inside]
What weight loss help is out there?
Weight loss help? I really need to lose weight but I lack the kind of support structure I think I need. [more inside]
I've hit my breaking point.
It's not a quarter-life crisis, I'm almost broken. How can I turn things around before it's too late? [more inside]
"I've got a gun let's go to a Broadway show"
What should I see/eat/do in New York City this week? [more inside]
looking for advice about freelance scientific editing
looking for advice about freelance scientific editing [more inside]
Soap stain on leather
How to remove savon noir from leather? [more inside]
Blueberries on EVERYTHING!
Help me enjoy my awesome blueberry preserves. [more inside]
i love you. oh, wait. SIKE!
BF and I had a big fight that I started because I didn't pay attention to HALT. Now he wants me to stop saying I love you. [more inside]
Celebratory charity?
I just got a fulltime job and I am moving to California- one dream I've always had, when I finally got some money, is giving out $20 and $50 bills to homeless people in Manhattan. Where would be the best place to do this? Or go about it? [more inside]
What's the difference between the new "Essentials" line and the original 4th ed D&D books?
What's the difference between the new "Essentials" line and the original 4th ed D&D books? If I was to buy 4th ed books today, which should I buy and why? [more inside]
When to use the hub lounge in Seoul Incheon Airport?
I want to use the hub lounge in Seoul Incheon Airport, South Korea. Do I use it before or after immigration? What process should I follow? [more inside]
Help us not screw up our childrearing
Are you a person with an excellent relationship with your parents? Or perhaps you are a parent with an excellent relationship with your kid(s)? Care to share? [more inside]
Wedding present filter
What would be a great wedding present for our friends? The bride is French, early 30s, groom, late 30s, New Zealander. They have two very sweet children, a little girl, three years, and a little boy, just under a year old. Wedding is in France and we won’t be able to attend, but we will be able to see them on Saturday this week. [more inside]
I hate my boss and it's only my first week. Is that enough reason to quit?
I hate my boss and it's only my first week. Is that enough reason to quit? [more inside]
How to have vaginal sex with an obese man?
Sexual positions for the obese. [more inside]
Pee, dog!
Our prima donna of a puggle won't pee in the rain. Help us before I squeeze it out of her. [more inside]
Perfect pasta not this time!
Ravioli-filter: Does anyone know about the Imperia Raviolamp 12-Ravioli maker device? [more inside]
The revenge of loose chippings
What's the point of loose chippings/chipseal for road repairs? [more inside]
Books with characters who you feel like you get to know as real people
Literature distinguished by its richly drawn characters [more inside]
What unbiased book should I read on multiculturalism, immigration and Islam in Europe?
What politically neutral book(s) should I read on multiculturalism and Islam, immigration/integration politics and/or ethnic/religious tensions in Europe? [more inside]
Car insurance: do we dare to use it?
My car got dinged up. Do I pay out of pocket or use my insurance? [more inside]
Give a hoot, ride a scoot
Going to buy a scooter! Yes! But where do I start researching? What advice do you have? [more inside]
Out damned wrinkle!
Are there ways to make garments less wrinkle-prone? [more inside]
Bicycle baby transport in the Netherlands
What is a typical minimum age at which babies are taken as passengers on bicycles in the Netherlands? What kind of carrier tends to be used at this age (trailer? car seat mounted on bike? bakfiets?). [more inside]
Transportation to White River Amphitheatre?
[Concert Filter]: We're seeing a show at White River Amphitheatre in Auburn, Washington next month. How should we get to the venue? [more inside]
Should I trade my chemical happiness for a hard-on?
Should I choose sex over Celexa? [more inside]
How do AAM datalinks work?
How does a datalink work on an air-to-air missile with a range of, say, 70km? [more inside]
Youtube account != Google account
How do I disassociate what Youtube account I'm logged into from what Google account I'm logged into? [more inside]
Recommend Programs in Art Education, especially Community Arts?
I am helping my friend apply to grad school for an MA in Art Education, with a focus on Community Arts. Do you have any advice for us? [more inside]
Where to donate darkroom gear in Toronto?
Similar to this question from 2005. I have a bunch of darkroom equipment (enlarger, timer, trays, chemicals, photo paper, etc.) that I am looking to donate in Toronto. [more inside]
Photoshop for Biologists
Photoshopfilter: I am making a figure for publication in a science journal. Is there a software or cellular components package that I could use to build diagrams of cells with mitochondria, organelles, receptors and signaling pathways? I am looking to make a schematic that look similar to this (click figures/tables to see it) that I can alter. Is there a components package I could use to build these without making it all from scratch? [more inside]
More camping advice needed...
Travelling by campervan in Victoria, Australia - any tips? [more inside]
Can you successfully introduce cats to each other BEFORE they move in together?
Can you successfully introduce cats to each other BEFORE they move in together? [more inside]
Free or cheap market / state of industry overviews for EU / Europe?
Can you help me find some free or modestly-priced online reports on the state of the publishing, recorded music, film + photo agencies / picture archives industries in the EU? [more inside]
How soon after beginning a relationship can you know if someone is 'the one'?
For those in serious relationships, how long did it take until you knew the other person was 'the one?' Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
How do I tell my children we are moving?
We are moving to the out of the country soon, and I'd like advice on how to tell my kids. What I've found online at other sites has been....less than helpful, so any personal advice or good links appreciated. Possibly relevant details inside. [more inside]
Anxiety disappeared for one month
Anxiety cured and came back. I need help understanding. [more inside]
The most beautiful portrait!
Where can I buy an Alexey Kurabatov print? [more inside]
How do I go about deciding whether I want kids or not?
How do I go about deciding whether I want kids or not? I'm 38 going on 39. I'm female and I'm single. I live in NYC. And I have no idea if I want to have children. How do I go about truly understanding what I want? [more inside]
How do I clothe my tween tomboy?
Cool for tweens -- where do I take the kid for back to school now that Justice (which was once Limited Too) is too "preppy" for her without subjecting her to social ostracism?
Please suggest stores, brands, blogs or whatever. [more inside]
Le blog est mort, vive le blog !
I.D. a cellist who uses sampling techniques?
My boyfriend is trying to remember the name of a female cellist who has an interesting technique using sampling. [more inside]
They're Right Here, Dad; Why Can't You Call Us?
Is there anything a divorced mom with primary custody of three kids could say to their dad to get him to pay attention to his kids?
[more inside]
I am not a spammer...honest!
I am not a spammer but..... [more inside]
Email Debacle!!!!
Multiple email addresses using Apple email on MacBook Pro running Mac OS X 10.6.5....what's the deal-e-o? [more inside]
How do I add text to the left margin in Word 2010?
How do I add text to the left margin in Word 2010? [more inside]
MacBook Air case
Recommend a case for my new MacBook Air. [more inside]
Hello Houston/Goodbye New York gifts?
Friend is moving from New York City to Houston, TX. What would be a good gift to get her? [more inside]
7 may have been the final cut.
I buy macs, despite the premium, but my macbook pro just died and fcpx may signal the end of needing a mac to edit video. Should I not buy a mac? [more inside]
How do I go about researching my old arrest in TN?
How do I go about researching an expunged shoplifting charge (my own) in Tennessee? (And what does expunged mean in this case anyway?) [more inside]
Help us fill in the blanks on our road trip from Seattle to San Francisco
West Coast Road Trip! Mr. desjardins and I are flying into Seattle in early September, renting a car and driving to San Francisco. What do we do in between? We want places to stay and things to do. Amazing scenery is a priority. [more inside]
Draft dodges throughout history?
I need more info (links or book recs) about draft dodges and other similar happenings throughout history and the world (i.e. people relocating to avoid participating in a war). Sources about the Viet Nam draft dodge are great, though I'd rather also have sources about other happenings.
Bed bugs or rash from sunscreen?
YANMD but need help--is this bedbugs? Can a prompt care tell? And if so what do we do? [more inside]
Internet stalking Toronto
What blogs/twitter lists should I read to get a sense of the Toronto/GTA zeitgeist? [more inside]
Missing Emails. Where are they going and how do I fix it?!?
1% or 2% of all emails sent to me never arrive. What is going on and how do I fix it! (It has nothing to do with my spam filters or folder.) Help! [more inside]
Mark-II be or not Mark-II?
Trying to decide on a DSLR. The deciding factor is low-light performance... but I'm not sure how good is "good enough."
Principally, I'm waffling between the Canon 5D and the Canon 5D Mark-II, which seem to vary almost exclusively in their low-light performance. However, since the "Mark I" 5D has a full-frame sensor (and therefore should have much better low-light performance than any smaller sensor out there, based merely on quantum light noise)... is it good enough for flashless inside photography? The price difference is basically 100%, since I can bet a "Mark I" for $1k used.
Personal experiences, please?
RSS feeds for Yahoo! News?
What happened to the RSS feeds for Yahoo! News most popular and most emailed stories? [more inside]
I want to get gas.
It's finally summer, and I need a gas grill. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Careers for someone who can code
I'm good at programming computers. But I don't want to be a software developer. What can I do for a career and what should I be doing now to make it possible? [more inside]
Fire kills everything, right?
Grilling meat with only 1 pair of tongs- my method would make Alton Brown gasp in horror, but is it safe? [more inside]
Who linked to my site on Facebook?
Who on Facebook has linked to my blog? [more inside]
Trying to get this match to strike a spark
Questions about Match.com and motives of people there. [more inside]
Binoculate me.
Binoculars. I would like to buy a decent pair of binoculars for a certain someone's upcoming birthday. I don't know much about binoculars, and neither does the recipient. Usage details inside... [more inside]
Web app tutorials for rusty coders?
How can I learn how to develop web apps? [more inside]
I want everything to be without wires.
Wires, cables - I hate them. What options are currently available (or really just around the corner) to make my world wireless. [more inside]
Which suit is appropriate for a summer wedding?
Two weddings coming up:
Wedding A is outside at night, and wedding B is indoors at night and the invitation states that it is "formal." I own two suits: a black wool traditional suit, and this one: http://www.mrporter.com/product/301855 [more inside]
My optometrist is easy on the eyes. Crap.
My eye doctor brings in a new second doctor every once in a while, I guess to handle most of the menial check-ups. To my frustration, I have a crush on this current one. I'm due to visit the office one last time in a week or two. What then? YANMD, at least, I hope not. [more inside]
How do I stop wanting gorgeous woman who aren't my wife?
I'm a mid-thirties man, committed relationship, wonderful kids, good job, great life, but I can not stop chasing attractive women. And it is wreaking havoc. How can I stop this, and why don't I want to? [more inside]
Where to buy Traeger grill parts?
Anyone know where I can get a hopper/burner assembly for a Traeger grill (I have the Texas Grill, but any of their line may work)? So far internet searches have been unsuccessful. I have not yet contacted the manufacturer to see if they will sell spares, but all I can find from 3rd parties are spare internals (motors, controllers, etc)...
I'd like to call and leave myself a message. but apparently I'm unresponsive to myself.
GOOGLEVOICEFILTER: How do you call your number FROM your number and leave yourself a message? [more inside]
Is this your card? Did you know you had a coin in your ear?
Is this your card? Did you know you had a coin in your ear? [more inside]
How can I stream or watch the Tour de France in Canada (online)?
How can I stream the Tour de France in Canada? [more inside]
I'm Not Going To Spend My Life Being A Color
I have had a mild case of Vitiligo manifest on my face for many years now. I know nothing about make-up. Give me your professional advice on what I need to buy/do to cover up my spottiness with maximum effectiveness. [more inside]
Sick of feeling like a rat in a maze
How did I go about making an awesome life and avoiding the rat race? [more inside]
It's more of an ecosystem than a pool at this point
Mr. M. and I have a gunite pool that was installed at our house by a previous owner. We haven't opened it in the 7 years we've lived here. I want to have it renovated so that we can actually use it, but I have some questions. [more inside]
Is there something that will convert a short video into a panorama of the scene?
I'm looking for software libraries or downloadable software (preferably the former) that can take an input video, and output a panoramic image. For example, something that allows you to stand in one place, turn around taking a video, and then get a massive stitched jpeg. [more inside]
Unpaid unemployment benefit taxes for 2011
I didn't pay taxes (federal or state) on my unemployment benefits from January to June of this year. I also won't have any income besides that starting in July. How can I figure out if/how much I'll owe? [more inside]
Mutual friend and the ex factor
I'm trying to get over a relationship that ended 6-7 months ago. The problem: my ex-girlfriend and I have a mutual friend who is pretty close to both of us... and I've been feeling very awkward and uncomfortable hanging out with the friend because of it. What should I do? [more inside]
can i be naked with notice?
Can you legally get around decency laws if you give advance notice? [more inside]
Help with my Joomla rss feed issues
Joomla filter: I just launched my new blog publicly, and as I did I noticed some things that should've been dealt with previous. So if you're up for a few Joomla related questions, please feel free to take a look. [more inside]
goingonearth redirect virus - how do I remove this from firefox?
goingonearth redirect virus - how do I remove this from firefox? How can it evade anti-malware ? [more inside]
Missing Adobe Reader plug-ins in Safari for OS X Lion
Can't view PDFs in Safari on a brand-new Macbook Air (OS X Lion). [more inside]
Why are satellite photos upside down?
Why are satellite photos upside down? When looking at satellite pictures of cities in the northern hemisphere on Google maps, buildings that are leaning away from me are leaning towards the bottom of the screen. This gives me the impression that I'm upside down. The feeling is very strong despite my poor description of it. Is there a particular reason satellite pictures are oriented this way?
Looking For Authors
Looking for early 20th century authors similar to Stephen Leacock and Booth Tarkington. My father-in-law enjoys their writings and would like to read similar authors that are in the public domain and are available in ebook format. He would also like to find early downloadable copies of True and Argosy magazines.
Is a single big item of luggage ok in long haul flights?
Luggage on a long-haul flight: will I be able to have a really large trolley case, or does it have to be split up? [more inside]
Sell ya later alligator.
How much money can a person reasonably expect by selling an alligator, or alligators that they have killed? [more inside]
I'm free to do what I want.
Unemployed, enough money, three months to kill. What should I do? [more inside]
Rowing race DVD?
Rowing filter: DVD of a boat race to watch while training? [more inside]
Hobbyist / DIY tunneling question.
Hobbyist / DIY tunneling question. [more inside]
Best cheapo camera trap set up?
Tips and recommendations for a cheap camera trap? [more inside]
Travel-related errand running in London.
LondonShoppingFilter: I need to pick up a few travel-related bits and bobs during a one-day stopover in London on Saturday, the 20th of August, and I'd love to have it all done within, say, two or three hours. I'd love recommendations for shops which are relatively close together and well-stocked to save time. [more inside]
July 24
There are only so many model numbers...
Looking for the specific model of an Ibanez RG guitar before I sell it. Pictures inside! [more inside]
Failure is an option, but best if avoided...
What's the best way to build a concrete block retaining wall for my small backyard? [more inside]
What resources will help me understand how to, and build better iPhone applications?
Hello from Mefi's intern Dom. I'm coming in relatively cold to building iPhone applications and am teaching myself how to do it. What are some good resources/ references that would help make the learning process easier on me? [more inside]
Save me from the horrors of overhead lighting!
How can I make my new living room light cozy and not overhead-style sterile? [more inside]
I need to find the best tire store in Northern Virginia.
I need to find the best tire store in Northern Virginia. My '04 Tiburon has a wheel that's been leaking air for months and after failures by three different tire shops I'm at my wit's end. [more inside]
Music Video on the Cheap
Tell me about/provide links to your favorite low-budget music videos. My husband's a musician, and I have a Flip camera and a copy of iMovie, and we made one video for one of his songs with no budget and it was fun. Even though I have no idea what I'm doing (as Real Filmmaking Types here will notice). [more inside]
Chilkoot or Bust!
I am going to hike the Chilkoot Pass trail in Southeast Alaska at the end of August. Any recommendations, suggestions?
Stockholm syndrome
14 hours in a car with my dad. Recommend an audiobook or comedians we might both enjoy. [more inside]
Trying To Move Beyond My Campfire Headphase....
Complete This Series: Boards of Canada, Tycho, ....., ....., ......... [more inside]
The Ballad of the Trope-Stealers from Outer Space
I'm interested in books that are nominally fantasy, but steal scifi tropes, and vice versa. Suggestions? [more inside]
Why does Mucinex smell like millipedes?
Why does guaifenesin (aka Mucinex) smell like millipedes? [more inside]
What is the price on my head?
How much am I worth to facebook (or G+, or even MySpace for that matter)? [more inside]
Can you scratch a person through the Internet?
Does anyone know of any good home or drugstore remedies for horrendously itchy bug bites? [more inside]
How to measure the size of my dropouts
Bike filter: How do I measure the size of my dropouts to purchase a pair of Halo Hex Key Skewers? Also, does anybody have these and can attest to them? [more inside]
where to travel south of the united states
Hello
We are thinking of taking a vacation from Sept 2nd to the 11th somewhere south of the united states (no Mexico/Puerto Rico as we just visited these places)
What countries/cities/towns would you all suggest? We are considering weather (including hurricanes), travel time (less is better) from the NW U.S., and looking for an experience that is different from home.
We are thinking of Belize as a possibility but nothing is definite. In the past we have driven across puerto rico and went by (local) bus down the yucatan peninsula. We enjoyed those. We are not interested in going there again but this gives some idea of the kind of travel we enjoy.
Help Me Find Short Films Online
Where can I find short films on the internet? [more inside]
Attack from the Frying Pan, a la Coconut Oil
Is coconut oil safe to cook with? Literally. [more inside]
Burning down the House
Give me a civics lesson here. What's the endgame for House Republicans? [more inside]
Where are the wind maps?
Where can I find wind forecast maps months in advance? [more inside]
Options regarding Pet Limit in Condos
Options regarding my dogs and the Condo Association's pet limit. [more inside]
What's this song?
Here's an entertaining video from some years ago of John Byner doing his Ed Sullivan bit on Letterman. Enjoy it if you will, or skip to the end. Because my question is: what is the song that Paul and the band play going into commercial?
Here Figgy Figgy
I would like to bake something using the fresh green figs I bought Saturday. Do you have a suggested recipe to share? [more inside]
To Know You Is To Love You But Not To Understand You
Help me wordsmith out the difference between the words know and understand. They seem to be used interchangeably but the meanings must be different. If you have words in languages other than Englosh that can clarify this difference, so much the better. It seems you can know something without understanding it, but can you understand without knowing?
the eternal backpack quest...
Absurdly picky backpack question! Difficulty points: small-framed female, only wants to look like she's going into the woods when she's actually going into the woods... [more inside]
I need (short-term) ways to survive what is becoming a major health crisis.
Health-Implosion-Filter: Need short-term ways to survive barrage of ailments+something undiagnosable - if I can. Way freaking more inside. [more inside]
Gloop disposal ideas?
What can I do with the gloopy sludge that resulted from my failed composting? [more inside]
Mountain hiking required.
Please recommend a mountain day hike within 3hrs (or so) drive of the Bay Area. [more inside]
Auto hex value calculator?
Color-value calculation. What's my most efficient way to come up with the hex values of 30 discrete colors that fade as evenly as possible from 220088 to DDCCFF? [more inside]
Made of Rainbows
I really love the rainbow sweater Marcus wears in About A Boy. Is this a real thing? [more inside]
Work baby shower ideas?
I have volunteered to give a co-worker her (office) baby shower. Help? [more inside]
Knowing Your Limits/Accepting or Mitigating Intellectual Failure
I have a serious problem with being seen to be intellectually 'wrong'. I need ways to get over it [more inside]
Can you tell if I've tied one on?
Can you tell if someone was drinking the night before you meet them? I have been reading several "get the job" books and many of them instruct not to drink the night before an interview. I agree that this is good advice for several reasons, but they also state that people can "tell" if you have been drinking. [more inside]
Advice on Professional Cleaning of a DSLR Sensor
I've had a Canon 5D Mark II for about 2.5 years, and I've recently noticed some bad dust particle issues that are on the sensor or mirror, not the lens. Can someone recommend a good camera store in New York City that could do a good professional job of cleaning my sensor (and an idea of how much this will cost)? I've looked into cleaning kits, and I think I would rather have a professional do it. Thanks! [more inside]
Help a novice cook
Why do I keep burning my chicken breasts? [more inside]
Heave ho, mateys. Help me cycle across water. Lake Michigan, to be precise.
Seeking water crossing from Upper Peninsula (Michigan) to Washington Island (Door County, Wisconsin). [more inside]
Stretching like a ballerina?
How can I become as limber as a ballerina, without actually being one? [more inside]
Novel about Harvard research lab?
Help me find the name of a novel about a Harvard research lab. [more inside]
Remembrance of Comics Past
Looking for pictures of (or anecdotes about!) Island Fantasy, a direct-market comic shop in Victoria, BC that was active in the mid-80s. [more inside]
dating yourself?
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who is uncannily similar to you? [more inside]
Is it safe?
Is Puerto Vallarta safe to visit in September? [more inside]
A record of my own undoing.
How do I cope with persistent project failure at work? [more inside]
Connecticut boat rental for bachelor party?
For a bachelor party in Connecticut, I would like to rent a motorboat big enough for 6 people, for a half-day, ideally near Foxwoods casino, ideally with a bbq grill, two weeks from now. Recommendations please?
Cast iron - did I ruin a pot?
Cast iron pan question - did I ruin something at my host's house that I'm going to have to replace? [more inside]
Good, reasonably priced Bay Area IT Schools?
SF Bay Area: Please recommend a school (vocational, community college, extension university, etc) for someone (age 27) to begin training for a second career in IT. [more inside]
West-end Toronto libations?
Toronto: Good place for cocktails on or around Queen West West / Parkdale? Anyone know a good place for a decent martini and/or gimlet in the west end of downtown TO? Open tonight and no insanely loud music.
Jungle, drum 'n' bass and reggae
Please teach me about the evolution of 90s jungle / drum 'n' bass and its intersection with reggae and Jamaican music! [more inside]
Solutions for (and confusion around) electronic signatures.
Is Docusign the only game in town? Who is good/cheap/sane on this? I am building a (healthcare) site where users must upload 'signed' forms (no PHI). My fantasy solution: The receiver can see that the form is *signed*, but won't see *exactly who* signed it. Memail me if necessary. Note: not talking about digital signatures, but *legally* electronically signed. Educate me on how 'legally signed', 'authenticated', and 'digitally signed' intersect.
History of the 'Fly Me' era
"Fly me" : I'm looking for more information on the early restrictions on flight attendants- that they be single, slim, attractive, etc. Who pioneered these policies? How much did they vary across the globe? Did other industries at the time have formalized policies with similar biases? [more inside]
Lightweight furniture options?
Lightweight yet comfortable furniture that can be moved out of the way easily? Asking for my mom who runs a rental cabin but also hosts yoga classes form time to time. [more inside]
Specific Gifts for Groomsmen
As part of a gift to the groomsmen for my upcoming wedding, I am getting each of them a book that is relevant to their lives or interests. I need some help picking out a book for two of the groomsmen, based on some specific criteria: [more inside]
Researching the Vampire Squid
Looking for resources relating to the Vampire Squid (Vampyroteuthis infernalis) for a school project. I especially need some high resolution images, video (I've found some good stuff on YouTube) and general information (you know, besides WikiPedia and a cursory Google search). Does anyone know of any outstanding resources out there?
I wanna be friends with my brother
How do I hang on to a relationship with my brother now that we aren't living at home anymore? [more inside]
Help me pick a new programming language to learn
I'm a developer at a C++ shop right now, and would like to expand my skills in order to be more versatile and marketable. What's the next programming language I should learn? (I know some assembly, and very basic HTML)
Am I eating me?
I have a question about the master cleanse. After 11 days, am I eating me? There is a delicate question inside. [more inside]
worlds at the feet
Where should I live? [more inside]
How to sell this stuff?
My mom has a lot of stuff to sell, and she doesn't want the hassle of a do-it-yourself approach. What kind of people should we involve? We're thinking maybe an ebay broker for the small stuff and an estate person for the big stuff. (Or else maybe a place like Sotheby's?) Know any good ones who serve Westchester, NY? How would we find good people? [more inside]
Help me not be a dbag in the dating world
I'm always impressed by the abilities of the hivemind to craft clear and concise messages. I come to you, today, to request your help. What's the best way to tell someone you would really like to be friends with them, after having gone on a few dates? Not "lets be friends" as an easy let down, but "wow, you're really cool, and I want to hang out, I just don't want to have anything romantic with you." [more inside]
How much does the production of a medicine account for the high cost?
When it comes to very expensive medicines, how much of the cost is due to just the production of the drugs and how much is because of other factors? [more inside]
So long as y'all get here....
How do I make wedding invitation directions? [more inside]
Should I acknowledge counsellor's situation?
My counsellor has experienced a loss herself. Should I acknowledge it? [more inside]
schedule of daily events
I'm looking for an app that will create a daily schedule of events (for a conference). Needs to be able to: be displayed on the web, display multiple events throughout the day (hour-by-hour) – some events happen concurrently, link each entry to another web page (event details), and be able to be used by non-programmers.
See sample of ideal look here
Google Calendar comes close but it does not seem to have the ability to link individual entries to outside webpages – and it compresses all events that happen at the same time into a very narrow column so info becomes unreadable, and, of course, each person viewing needs and account.
Perfect Outdoor Clock?
I need an outdoor clock that is readable, durable, beautiful and under $50. [more inside]
non-profit temping agencies?
What are the best temp agencies for non-profit work in the United States? Specifically, I am looking for agencies in Chicago, Boston, Washington DC, New York City and San Francisco.
I'm not over her; help me deal with her presence.
I've accepted that I likely won't be completely over my ex until after we both graduate. Considering that, how can I deal with being around her? [more inside]
Good earbuds for my iPod?
My Klipsch S2 earbuds are worn out. Any suggestions for a replacement that has the best bang for your buck? I'm using them with an iPod Nano 6th Gen.
Where to find free Web hosting?
Where can one find free Web site hosting? I don't need a lot of space, 40 or 50 Mbs will do, I just need to FTP files. [more inside]
What shoes?
What shoes with this dress? [more inside]
How to handle stress at work
We are having cut backs at work. One of the office staff was laid-off and I was told directly I would be expected to do her duties along with my current duties. This starts Monday, I and everyone else in the office knows I will not be able to be as efficient as I have been up to now. How can I not stress about this? If my boss jumps on to me I have decided I will just tell her I am doing the best I can. Has anyone else been in this situation and what are some words of advice you can give me to help me through this? (I live in a small town and jobs are scarce, I need to try to keep this job unless something better comes up.)
What TV police show theme song was this?
What TV police show theme song was this? [more inside]
How to deal with a team member who seems to make a point of disagreeing with and questioning everying I do?
What's the best way to deal with a team member who insists on being uncooperative and confrontational regardless of the approach taken to resolve the sitation at either a team or personal level? [more inside]
Ear training advice for learning intervals.
I am trying to learn intervals, by relation to songs, but need some more tips, particularly with Minor 6th, Minor 7th and Major 7th. [more inside]
1. Want MBA. 2. Have 2.0 GPA 3. ??? 4. Profit
How often are MBA applicants admitted with a poor (2.0) undergrad GPA? [more inside]
July 23
Underwater Light where are you?
Help me find old Harry Potter fanfiction by Maya, also known as Mistful. [more inside]
Becoming a freelance translator
Advice on getting jobs for frreelance translators? Experience with Proz.com? [more inside]
Does filtered water have less estrogenic activity?
Does a water filter filter plastics like BPA? Is there a way to test my tap water for them? Are there water filters that do not contain plastic? Does Aquafina or any other filter plastics? [more inside]
Looking for an SMTP server that I can use from anywhere?
What's the best SMTP server or relay that will let me send e-mail from anywhere? [more inside]
The How's and Where's of Finding Qualified Freelancers?
Semi-regular need for freelance experts in things that are not "my areas of expertise," as Hodgeman would put it. Help needed not in finding particular people, but in knowing where and how to find the experts I need. [more inside]
Strollers for the tall
Looking for stroller recommendations for a tall, car-less, couple. [more inside]
Help Save My Friend's Eye...
A friend of mine gradually lost sight of his right eye. He can no longer move it and doctors won't give him answers. Has anybody heard of this? [more inside]
Some weird bug is in our bed
My girlfriend was straightening the sheets before we got into bed tonight and found this little guy crawling around. It has a wispy tail and a bunch of little legs underneath and is about 2cm long. Anyone know what it is?
What music theory stuff is going on here?
What music theory stuff is Yngwie Malmsteen having a hard time explaining about his composition "Arpeggios from Hell"? [more inside]
Will my brother be getting the short end of the stick?
Verizon Wireless Warranty and Insurance - Phone used on account different than it's original. [more inside]
Living on the Edge... of Canadia
I'd like to move (from the USA) to Toronto for a year or so. What do I do? [more inside]
is pursuing a science degree hard?
Is pursuing a science degree hard? [more inside]
Is this political donation legal?
Is it legal for me to post a video to Youtube saying I will give a lot of money to a political party if a favored bill of mine becomes law? [more inside]
Sinhalese/Sri Lankan?
What do you call people from Sri Lanka? [more inside]
Crème de glace. Um, crème de GLASS. Tell me I'll be alright?
Will I be okay? I ate broken glass tonight. Finely-crushed small particles. Not on purpose -- I'm not a circus geek. Broken glass is one of a very few things that freak me out. Will I be okay? Sure, probably, but I'm freaked out. [more inside]
Bad Trips
Why can't I enjoy smoking Marijuana anymore, and what can I do about it? [more inside]
How to Be Good to Her Under Difficult Circumstances?
My sister is being extremely difficult. Should I go to her wedding? [more inside]
Washing sheets before use?
Do you really need to wash new bed sheets before using them? [more inside]
Help me slip into something more comfortable.
ISO Women's World Cup video
Is a full video of the Brazil vs. US Women's World Cup match available anywhere online? Google is failing me. Would like the full game and would rather not watch multiple clips, if possible.
Cambridge/London suggestions?
4-5 days in Cambridge and London. What to do? Where to eat? [more inside]
Apparel purchase reference/consumer site?
Is there a site that approaches (online) purchasing of apparel from a serious and rigorous consumer perspective? I'm thinking of a site where I select, say, t-shirts and get detailed information about the garment, various garment variations (athletic t-shirt, work t-shirt, etc), washing Instructions, which high quality value brands that sell t-shirts, verified quality testing of t-shirts from forementioned brands, etc.
Bike shop recommendation for Portland Oregon
We're living in Portland, Oregon and I'm looking to buy a bike I can use to cycle a few miles to work downtown and get around our neighbourhood. There's so many bike shops here we don't know where to start looking. I'd prefer a good-quality secondhand bike, but could probably stretch to a new one if I had to. Neither of us are bike nerds so are wary of being sold the wrong thing, so we're after a place that will give us good, honest, advice and have a good range of bikes. Thanks.
Making 50 Interesting and Memorable
Ideas for making a 50th birthday party interesting and fun. [more inside]
Dragon books...?
Our 10 year-old loves books about dragons, finishing them faster than we can find them. Read and liked: Sabine (T Kennemore), Dragon's Egg (S L Thomson), Dragonology Chronicles I&II (D A Steer), The Last Dragonslayer (J Fforde). Any suggestions for what to get next?
attn beer sleuths
Where can I find Southern Tier's Creme Brulee beer in Washington, DC? [more inside]
Old-fashioned toys
What are some really old-fashioned toys (no plastic please, other than LEGOs) that can still be easily purchased locally, and at what stores? Craft stores?
Bonus if you can sort them by age group (but hey, wood blocks never get old!) [more inside]
Mix CD: Sexy Songs, Awesome Bassline
I'm looking for sexy and romantic songs with a wicked bass line. [more inside]
I just wanted the monogramming
I've never paid $20 for a plain t-shirt before. Is LL Bean worth it? [more inside]
So many options!
What is your favourite thing to do at or near Kensington Market in Toronto? [more inside]
Alas, my beloved iPad is wounded!
iPad 2 Repair Filter: My beloved ipad has a broken screen. What now? [more inside]
The Longest Drive On Earth!
What is the longest drive, in a car, that a person could take anywhere on earth? [more inside]
How can I be more helpful?
My default response when someone has a problem is to fix the problem. I'd like to change that. [more inside]
What to get for a very bright four year old girl?
What to get for a very bright four year old girl? [more inside]
How can I best improve my credit score?
I received around $700 for my Birthday. What's the best way to use this to improve my credit? [more inside]
Inadequate blackouts!
Do you know how to minimize light coming in around the sides, top and bottom of blackout curtains? [more inside]
Having made the transition from Windows to OSX as my primary machine, I (almost) couldn't be happier... except...
I feel like this must be a tremendously stupid question: what's the best way to backup my photos on my mac? [more inside]
My Barbecue's Busted (?)
Can I eat this?: smoked pork shoulder edition [more inside]
Clarinet resources for the not beginner.
I'm picking up the clarinet again after more than a decade off and need some help improving my tone / getting my breath back. Are there any online resources that will help with this?
Driving in heavy CA traffic
I am a 52 y/o woman with a perfect driving record but for the last 20 years I have only driven in Idaho--Boise is the biggest traffic I have seen in the last 20 years. We may be moving to the Fresno area and I will want to drive the freeways to LA and SF and be confident about it. I need advice because I have really developed some anxiety when I think about it.
Last weekend my husband and I rented a car and drove from the Fresno airport to a smaller city nearby and I was even nervous as a passenger when he had to use the GPS to find our ways on the freeways. We had to keep up our speed even when we did not know when/where to turn off. The Hertz GPS magellan was not that good but it still looked nerve-wracking to me!
What advice can you give me? I would love to be able to take off from Fresno and drive to LA for the day sometime.
How will I get confident about this type of driving? It seems the traffic goes much faster than I am used to and people are changing lanes faster and with less notice too.
I would be smart enough to know not to head to LA during the rush hours but even in lower traffic I am experiencing anxiety even thinking about it!
Thanks for your help!
Do we tip the babysitter?
Do we tip the babysitter? [more inside]
Why do I think I have the body I had 5 years ago?
Am I suffering from some sort of body dysmorphia? Or do I just have a slow-so-adjust sense of self? (yanmd/t/p) [more inside]
Diet and outbreaks
Which foods are best for a person with herpes? Also, what about a specific act of sex? [more inside]
Translation rights
Is there an industry standard royalty rate for translation rights? [more inside]
Any current info on snagging expiring domains?
Does anybody have any current information about snagging an expiring domain name? I have read some articles but the information is a few years old. Specifics inside. [more inside]
Building bathroom, need store recommendations in Portland.
Building a bathroom in Portland, OR. Where to buy affordable fixtures and tile besides bix-box stores, Ikea and the Rebuilding Center? [more inside]
I don't remember when my uterus and I engaged in a game of Battleship!
[Being a girl filter] Health issues, high pressure environments, and still showing everyone how fucking awesome you are. [more inside]
Breaking into sales.
Salespeople: I'm considering changing careers and entering sales - possibly in the real estate industry. How do I decide what to sell and how do I get started from there? [more inside]
Help me find this song!!
Looking for the name/artist of a song. lyrics inside! [more inside]
American guitar
How do American sound technicians make a folk/blues guitar sound really pop? [more inside]
What to do to protect myself in the event of a US default.
I'm not saying that I think the US will default in 10 days, but I am nervous enough to start thinking about covering my butt. I have some money socked away. Its not much, but its something, and I would really love for it all not to somehow evaporate. [more inside]
Hey, I'm "Reading" Here!
Toddler Zizzle doesn't like being read to, but he likes to "read" books on his own. Should we make more effort to read to him, or is this okay for now? [more inside]
Help me pick a new phone!
What phone should I get, given some particular preferences? Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Is there hope for my brother?
Mentally ill brother is getting worse...and worse...and worse. What are our options? [more inside]
My legit ads repeatedly removed from Craigslist, anything I can do?
I'm a real estate agent who advertises on craigslist. Someone is flagging my ads and over half of them keep getting removed. What can I do? [more inside]
Literary depictions of that special moment.
Help me find orgasms in literature. [more inside]
Two paintings, separated by a common canvas
After discovering a second painting on the back of a treasured watercolor, how can I display them both? [more inside]
Significance of cotton ball taped to water bottle in hotel room?
I'm staying at a hotel in Taipei. After the last time my room was cleaned (that is, earlier today), I noticed that a partially-consumed water bottle I'd left in my room had had a cotton ball taped to it. Any idea what the significance of this might be?
What 'over 18' movie character wears a light grey pinstripe suit (no tie)?
I don't like fancy dress parties but I have to go to one tonight. The theme is '18 certificate movies'. I would like to wear a suit, preferably my light grey pinstripe one, I don't like to wear ties. I have hair, medium length, that I can wear loosely or slicked back. Is there any character from an over 18 movie you can think of that, perhaps with some easy accessorizing, I can 'imitate'?
Hyperdeflation
Has there ever been a case of real-life hyperdeflation, where prices race downwards? [more inside]
help me hack this wristband (not literally)
i got a wristband for this rock festival this weekend. i've never seen this kind of bracelet before. it's a one time woven wrist bracelet with a metal buckle that looks crimped. i want to get it off right now because it's cramping my wrists (as well as my style) but i don't want to cut it off. help? [more inside]
support for boy whose mother died at childbirth
Does anyone know of a book or article that might be of help to a child and his family (he will soon be 12) whose mother died at childbirth. He is the nephew of a dear friend, the boy really values family and as he is maturing, realizes more and more, that each birthday also marks the anniversary date of his mothers' death. He is was adopted by a paternal aunt and is being raised in a loving family. If anyone has suggestions on how best to support the boy and his family, it is much appreciated. If anyone has first hand experience with this, your knowledge would be much appreciated. The issue is clearly much bigger than his birthday, but is there any way to help him emotionally to deal with this reality as he matures.
July 22
Which convertor or transformer do I need for Italy?
I have bought a international convertor - and a foreign travel voltage
Converter. I need to know which one is correct for all my appliances to work. OR I need to get something different. All the appliances are listed below.. Thanks for your help in advance. Going to Italy.
Kooky Kathy [more inside]
Pus and Swelling after Dental Visit
Cheek swelling and pus after local anesthesia and a fairly minor procedure at the dentist. I went back today and he prescribed an antibiotic, but I am still worried. (Grossness inside...) [more inside]
When your family decides to skip your wedding...
How can I help my friends enjoy their wedding, despite a lot of family stress? [more inside]
What's the most "geek-friendly" phone on the market today?
I'm looking for a smartphone that's hackable and moddable, but I'm a lazy geek so I'm really looking for something that has a strong and independent development community that's already done most of the hacking and modding for me. What's the best phone for me?
What is a good, GSM android phone?
Can you recommend me an inexpensive GSM android phone? [more inside]
Project manage THIS
Considering making a switch to becoming a project manager. Please tell me about your best and worst project managers! [more inside]
Where does this exterior drain go?
How do I find where an exterior drainage pipe in the ground goes? [more inside]
How can I help my husband help himself?
How can I support my husband as he works through some issues? [more inside]
Help me talk to my smothering mom.
I am trying to individuate myself from both of my parents, who are controlling in completely different ways. My mom is the smothering type. My question is this: Since I am becoming an individual and doing my own thing, how do I interact with her when I talk and see her from now on? [more inside]
Looking for new ways to make solar look good in tight jeans?
How do I make solar "sexy"? [more inside]
Obtaining a Z Visa for China
Applying for a z-visa to teach English in China, what should I know/be aware of as I go through the process? [more inside]
A spot to go be for I go to Spago?
I need a place near Wilshire Boulevard and Beverly Drive in Beverly Hills, CA where I can change clothes. [more inside]
Crossing the Rockies: Interstate, or No?
Crossing the rockies from Wyoming...heading to Portland, need some advice! Stick to the I-90, or...smaller roads? [more inside]
No curry for me thanks...just pass the vaseline...
My lips are chapped. But not just, "oh, that's annoying" chapped. They're covered in red patches and the skin keeps peeling off. Nothing I try works. Halp! [more inside]
Where can I look at Kindle covers in Los Angeles?
Where in the Los Angeles area can I go to see a wide selection of Kindle covers and cases in person? (And hopefully try them out.)
What were you doing while I was wasting my time?
What are some "sneaky" ways people spend their private time? [more inside]
What's to do on a honeymoon in Vancouver?
What stuff is there to do *next week* in Vancouver, BC? (7/25-8/1) Time sensitive and general touristy suggestions both need apply! [more inside]
How do we kitten-proof my house?
How do I kitten-proof my house? [more inside]
So I just got an admin assistant… now what?
So I just got an admin assistant… now what? [more inside]
Is this healthy diet hurting me?
What was in this cheese?
I just ate a little bit of cheese with a brown mold or similar growth on it. What was this? [more inside]
How to Remove Stubborn Laptop Screws
How do I remove tight screws from laptop hard drive caddies?
I'm trying to swap the hard drives from one laptop to another. Yet I can't get them out of their respective caddies. Is there some trick that makes it possible to loosen the screws without risking the hard drives?
Corrupted BIOS Toshiba L305D
Fuck! I corrupted the BIOS on a Toshiba L305D trying to update it in windows 7 (which i later realized was an incredibly stupid idea). It was a laptop we fixed and we were getting ready to sell it on our floor. Boss wants me to come in Monday with a fix. There seems to be a way to fix it using crisis BIOS recovery. But I need a BIOS.rom file. HELP!!! [more inside]
Is there such a thing as an 'easy' programming job?
What would be the easist kind of programming job a person could get? [more inside]
I'm drawing a blank.
I seem to have volunteered to write a regular newspaper column on the Arts in my local community. I have a mentor who will find topics for me and introduce me to the right people. What I need now is resources / examples and anything that I might not have thought to ask about (including pitching to the paper).
I Need to Filter a Lotta Air
How can I clean the air in my open plan loft? [more inside]
Need a duvet cover that keeps me cool.
I bought a cotton duvet cover a few years ago that is wonderful - it stays cool and if you ever get too warm, you can just flip it over. Unfortunately the store I got it from is now closed and I can't get another one. The other duvet cover I have keeps me way too warm at night time, even with the same duvet underneath. I've noticed that the cool duvet cover feels silkier than the warm one, but is still made of cotton.
Where can I get a duvet cover that keeps me cool? What should I be looking for? Also bonus points for any links to places that ship to Canada.
Beer to the Heart
Where to drink beer in Los Angeles? [more inside]
Help me access my external hard drive through my wireless router
Why is my wireless router WZR-HP-G300NH not mounting my USB External HD?
I'm trying to access my Western Digital My Passport SE external hard drive through the wifi connection on the router. I have it plugged into the USB port on the router and it is powering on, but not mounting.
What have I done wrong?
How can I get this to work?
Does anyone know how to go about accessing the hard drive files once it is mounting properly?
I'll be using my MacBook to access the files and would like to stream my movies wirelessly from the external HD. [more inside]
Outsourcing my search for the perfect shirt.
Where can I buy plain fitted cotton t-shirts for women? [more inside]
My house is flooded! What do I do?
I just got home to find my house flooded. The tank on the back of the commode cracked open and has been running all day. What do I do to dry the ceiling, avoid damage? [more inside]
Can anyone identify this gold ring with an odd design?
This ring turned up at my deceased grandmother's house and no one recognized it. General consensus was that it looked like a man's ring from the 1970s. The band/base appears to be gold and the design appears to be rose gold. Can anyone recognize the design or shed any light on this?
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Sing O Muse
Who are some literary male muses? [more inside]
Looking for my Online Text Editor
For the last several months, I have used an online text editor to write upcoming posts for my blog. When I had my computer reimaged, I lost my open tabs, and now I can't find the website I was using to edit text. I was 99% sure that the site was called QuickWrite or QuickWriter, but I can't seem to find it again. [more inside]
Looking for a durable little video camera
I'm looking to get a video camera, specifically a quick, durable thing for using with and around a new baby. Super bonus points for being water proof. Details and thoughts inside. [more inside]
How do countries compensate each other for international mail?
How do countries compensate each other for international mail? [more inside]
Where are the authorization files and documents for iTunes on my Mac?
Where are the iTunes Authorization and/or Documentation files on my Mac? [more inside]
How changeable are SIM cards nowadays?
We were forced from Alltel to AT&T this spring, and got the freebie phone that was offered, which is, frankly, a rather crappy phone. But, this is the first phone I've ever had with a SIM card. Does that card mean I can get any phone with a SIM-card slot, insert the SIM, and - viola - it's suddenly my phone? [more inside]
Help me with my inner elbow pain!
I get inner elbow pain from playing racquetball or rock climbing. What's going on and how do I fix it? [more inside]
Need a carry-on suitcase!
Need a new carry-on wheeled suitcase [more inside]
What? Carrot sticks and cottage cheese for dinner AGAIN?
How do you diet as the primary cook for a family of non-dieters? [more inside]
Help get my money from landlord's LLCs.
Help getting money out of an LLC or two. Deadbeat (but business-savy?) landlord. [more inside]
Ugly toenails!
As a result of habitual distance running, I have very ugly toenails. As I'm male it's not socially acceptable for me to paint them, so what can I do to mitigate their unloveliness?
Apple cider Vinegar
Can Apple Cider Vinegar or any vinegar, go bad with time so you can't use it as food?
building-based webcomic?
What is the webcomic whose characters are depictions of buildings? Or ... something like that. I'm sure this exists. For some reason I'm convinced that Khrushchev is a character.
More tracks for Emotional Drivers
This theme has been stuck in my head ever since I saw Big Man Japan. As I'm not an expert on Asian music, can some kind MeFites point me towards music similar to this? What genre/style is this called? Looking up the artist's other music, or the rest of the soundtrack, hasn't proved fruitful.
Are magazines worth it?
Is it worth it to subscribe to magazines anymore? [more inside]
Undergraduate research grants for Japanese travel and research?
My sister is looking for undergraduate research funding to support some field work in Japan for her BA thesis project. She's especially interested in questions about gender and sexuality. Any advice on grant-giving organizations she might look into? [more inside]
I can laugh off the broken arm but that paper cut really hurts.
My mom hurt my feelings. I think I handled it right at the time but I don't know what to do next. [more inside]
The High Cost of Utter Financial Irresponsibility
Is there an intervention program for money management? Help me address decades of willful, juvenile negligence of money. [more inside]
What happens when you marry someone you love but aren't deeply "in love" with?
Have you (or someone you know well) loved someone but weren't "in love" with them (had a strong, warm, happy relationship but one that wasn't very intense, passionate, etc) and gotten married/been in a long-term partnership? Did it matter that you weren't "in love" exactly? If it led to problems, what were they? [more inside]
OSX NES emulator?
Can any OSX folks recommend a reliable Nintendo emulator?
how do you cool down a turbocharger?
how do you cool down a turbocharger? [more inside]
Legal issues with minors joining a community choir?
What protection does a non-profit need before accepting minors as members? [more inside]
Batch renaming through sub-directories!
I want to write a batch file that will let me change the extensions of all the files of a certain type (so, like, "ren *.nco *.zip") through all of the sub-directories in a directory. If this is possible, how is it done? [more inside]
What do I say about two nationalities on a UK student visa application?
UK Student Visa (Tier 4) application: I currently hold dual citizenship (UK and US). However, I'm starting an application for a student visa for my upcoming MA program just in case I don't receive my UK passport before I leave (there's a huge delay right now). [more inside]
Is it possible to sun tan safely?
Is it possible to sun tan safely? [more inside]
Is this person being investigated for fraud? Where is the money?
UK LegalFilter: Can you do a dead person for benefit fraud? What happens if you try? Details include a house sold privately, and a whole lot of uncertainty. [more inside]
Playing Careers with an architecture degree
I'm a recent architecture graduate trying to decide if I should be following an academic or professional route, and I'm losing a lot of sleep over the uncertainty. [more inside]
Can you access a video camera remotely with a hotspot card?
I'm looking for the simplest and cheapest way to set up a video camera at a temporary site that I can access on line. Is there a way to use one of those hotspot cards?
Usually we use a dvr system that has a static ip, forward the port within the router and then dynamic dns or something like that but I want to eliminate the need for the computer, router, and permanent connection.
Thanks!
I can has happy dogs?
We are going to be adding a foster dog to our household (currently me, my fiance, and our Corgi). Looking for advice. [more inside]
Computer Keyboard Misbehaving
My laptop spontaneously decides to treat every keypress as a character different from what I actually press. How can I fix this? [more inside]
Can I get paid to read books?
I love to read anything I can get my hands on. But does this love translate into a career? [more inside]
Meta analysis in Google scholar?
Is a meta analysis in Google Scholar actually possible? [more inside]
Cheap Health Insurance for Foreigners?
Best bet for six-weeks of catastrophic health insurance for a non-citizen? [more inside]
What to do in Fort Walton Beach
My bf and I just found out that his family vacation in Fort Walton Beach has been canceled, but we have plane tickets that we'd rather not have to pay to change. We will be there Aug. 4-10, and are looking for suggestions for things to keep us busy. The beach is the obvious one, but do you know of any other cool activities nearby? Disney World is a six-hour drive, so we're considering renting a car and heading over there for a few days, but we'd love other ideas. [more inside]
How to remove cigarette smells from apartments?
Tiro and I just moved into a new apartment. We love it... except for the smell of cigarettes! How do we get rid of it? More info inside. [more inside]
Help me be an effective tutor!
Help me be the best tutor EVER. Looking for any tips or advice, plus specifically tips for tutoring math, the kinds of obstacles I might face tutoring economically disadvantaged students, and tips for communicating with parents that may not speak English. [more inside]
continuously paying on credit to close?
I'm asking for my mom who is worried for her sister -
Should my aunt/her sister continue to pay to keep clearing her credit while waiting to close on her house? [more inside]
If Shaun White Met Hendrix
I want to put a backpack up for sale on Craigslist, but I wanted to make sure I knew what kind of thing it was first -- but I can't find what I think is the brand name, and looking at the type of pack it was supposed to be also doesn't look right. What the hell kind of pack do I have? [more inside]
Will my libido return when I stop breastfeeding?
My sex drive has completely vanished. Is it because I'm breastfeeding? If it's because I'm breastfeeding, will my libido return when my baby eventually weans? [more inside]
How can I ask my current boyfriend for an unusual technique an ex showed me?
An ex had a very specific sexual technique that drove me crazy. How can I request it from my current boyfriend? [more inside]
Tips for signing a lease in Manhattan?
I'm about to sign a lease in New York. What can I do to avoid getting scammed? [more inside]
Riot Grrrl Around the World?
I'm looking for explicitly feminist music sung in languages other than English. Can you help me out? [more inside]
Help me bring my crappy keyboard back to life!
I'm trying to resurrect an old Casio CPS-85 88 key keyboard. When it was given to me, the power jack was cracked, so I desoldered it and soldered on a new one. No luck; I can't get power (even with a different power supply). So I'm stuck running off of a lot of D batteries. As using D cells is both wasteful and expensive.is there any way for me to rig an external power supply to the battery terminals in a safe manner?
Weird Gmail Issue
I'm having an issue with Gmail not linking my reply to a particular conversation. [more inside]
I have too many conditions for Excel
Using Excel 2000, I need to do conditional formatting with 5 options. This isn't possible with actual conditional formatting, but it is possible using Visual Basic. Unfortunately, I know nothing about Visual Basic. Specifics inside. [more inside]
In need of new insights re cross-cultural LDR with issues
A long-distance relationship complicated by issues relating to (his) ex-girlfriends, potentially alarming interaction and cross-cultural issues. Also, wonderful and lovely in most ways. So, since my head and heart are a hodgepodge of contradictory thoughts and feelings, I would like to ask for your help with this. Trailing past discussions has provided some valuable insights, but did not clarify my core issues, so I hope this AskMe is on track. [more inside]
Who are the interesting independent ebook publishers?
Please recommend your favourite independent ebook publishers! [more inside]
What's a girl to do?
Travel rec's!!! I have a ten hour layover in Reykjavik - what should I do???
Also - I have a getaway weekend in London - where should I go??? [more inside]
Late adopter seeks educated input
Late adopter looking to upgrade 7yr old work and personal desktop & laptop. Please expand my mind and options with reference to gadgetry and software. [more inside]
In need of recommendations for a great cross-training sneaker.
In need of recommendations for a great cross-training sneaker. [more inside]
Hong Kong film recommendations?
What are some great Hong Kong movies for a movie marathon? [more inside]
My Pyrex bowl just exploded with no warning!
A Pyrex bowl just exploded all over my kitchen out of nowhere! What happened? [more inside]
Opium Wars and Conquistadores... of the Future!
I'm looking for future-ish fiction that casts Western Civilization as the underdog in updated (fictional) retellings of historical events. [more inside]
July 21
Copenhagen, then what?
My spouse and I are heading to Northern Europe toward the end of the summer, and we'll be staying for 2 1/2 weeks. We'll be landing in Copenhagen and staying for five days, but we haven't planned beyond that. Where else should we go? [more inside]
shake it like a polaroid picture
Digital cameras that have good image stabilization for HD video recording: Halp? I know what I want, now I need advice for which models to look at. [more inside]
Help me learn to love (or at least tolerate) Lotus Notes.
Help me learn to love (or at least tolerate) Lotus Notes. Are there any features as a user or administrator you like? [more inside]
Bathroom Air Freshener For A Sensitive Nose
I need suggestions for a bathroom air freshener solution that won't make me sick. [more inside]
What do I need to start wearing for business casual?
What do I (guy) need to start wearing for business casual? [more inside]
Chinese in primary school
How important/useful are formal language lessons in the primary school years? [more inside]
Please jog my memory...
Please help me identify this all but forgotten children's book. [more inside]
Always Buy the Art on Vacation.
I'm trying to identify an art gallery that I stumbled upon in Kyoto 4 years ago close to the Philosopher's Path. [more inside]
Virginia Creeper Trail: Virtual TrailGuide Wanted
Virginia Creeper Trail: Hints and Hacks! [more inside]
You mean I have to take ALL the pills?
I was prescribed a shot (some broadspectrum antibiotic that hurt really bad) and pills: 500mg Keflex 4x/day for 10 days. This was to treat a pubic boil. My compliance has sucked to say the least. I try hard to remember but I'm not doing well with it. I've taken 11 pills out of 40. I should have taken 35 pills by now. Am I hurting myself? Should I continue taking them? I have a message into my doc to fess up to my slackitude.
How can I distract my hand?
What do you do with your non-dominant hand to keep it busy? [more inside]
Shared housing in DC
I'm an attorney in California, and literally have a last minute two-month project in downtown DC, that just came up. Other than Craigslist, any suggestions where I can find minimal shared housing for the two months, that's within walking distance of the metro? I'll only be there to sleep pretty much, so looking to pay under $550/month for each month. I am checking Craigslist, but wondered if there were any other places that would be wise to check. Thanks.
ePub Styles
Do you have any CSS tips or tricks for ePub? [more inside]
Aunt Flo and her husband Uncle Randy...
Why does my sex drive INCREASE when I get my period? [more inside]
On the casting out of demons
For the sake of this question, assume everything in the Bible is true/real. Do you have to be a practicing Christian to cast out demons in the name of Jesus Christ? [more inside]
Seeking advice on flickr maintenance and interface.
Seeking advice on good tools for automating the maintenance of a professional flickr site, and ways to make an interface to it. [more inside]
Flipboard style Wordpress theme?
Is there a Wordpress theme that will reformat post teasers and headlines similar to Flipboard? [more inside]
Allergy Control
My five year old son was just diagnosed with a dust mite and cat allergy. What helped you? [more inside]
I'm looking for good intermediate-level German novels. In German, that is.
I'm looking for good intermediate-level German novels. In German, that is. [more inside]
Interfaith marriage assistance
Interfaith marriages: how the hell do we do this? [more inside]
organizing players
Is there a website or service that can help my players find each other and organize play sessions? [more inside]
You know Sloth, if you sit too close to the TeeVee you'll hurt your eyes...
Boychild has just declare "The Goonies" the greatest movie ever. He has requested other films in which "there is adventure, with a group" as in the group is all friends, or brothers, or have some other sort of comraderie. My mind has drawn a complete blank on other fine pre-teen/teen films that have risen to classic status. [Additional data point: Also seen and approved: 3 Ninjas.]
I was fired.
I was fired. How do I handle my job search/interview situation? [more inside]
Looking for feedback on a resume
Looking for some feedback on my resume. About to shotgun it out there to look for some engineering jobs [more inside]
Irish archaeological sites are ideally situated in driving distance of beer at all times
Can you help me remember the name of a small, beautiful, probably Neolithic site that I visited in Ireland over fifteen years ago? [more inside]
What is this black winged insect?
Bug identification filter: what is this insect found inside my parents' home in Northern California? [more inside]
How do I make my Dreamcast think it's 1997 again
Help me get online with my Dreamcast [more inside]
Help me help my countertops
A combination of rubbing alcohol, witch hazel and dissolved aspirin leaked onto my granite (or some other type of pretty rock countertops?) in my bathroom. It appears to have taken off some of the shiny finish and stained it. Is there anything I can do? [more inside]
Have yourself a tacky little Christmas card
Please help me find this tasteless photoshopped Andrew Wyeth/Santa card! [more inside]
Road Trip Filter: Ithaca, Buffalo, Niagara Falls
I am going on a road trip next week that will include Ithaca, Buffalo, Niagara Falls, and points in between. I'd love some suggestions of fun, amazing, quirky, or air conditioned things to do along the way. We'll be coordinating rest stops so any 'in between' suggestions would be especially appreciated. Moderately physically active OK, strenuous not so much. Trip includes very small children.
weekend vacation outside philly?
Hubby and I have from this Saturday morning to Sunday night for a vacation! We live about 20 min outside Philadelphia. Organized breakdown of info inside. [more inside]
Fatal Felines: Fact or Fallacy?
Has a domestic cat ever actually killed a human being? I can't find any evidence of this, and yet, I keep running into people who seem weirdly fearful of cats (and no, I am not talking about allergic folks). What is going on? [more inside]
Where To Spend The Night
What's A Good Stopping Point Between Kansas City And Big Bend National State Park? [more inside]
Check yes or no.
So my friend and I kissed. Now what? [more inside]
How to go from BA to medschool?
With a BA and basically no science courses, what would be the best way to start completing requirements to go to med school? [more inside]
iPhone in Japan?
I'll be studying abroad in Japan for a year, and I'd like to use my (unlocked) iPhone as my cell phone while I'm there. This presents two problems. What do I do with my current plan and phone number, and what plan do I get once I'm in Japan? [more inside]
Help keep my phone safe on bike rides.
I'd like to take my smartphone (HTC Hero) with me when I'm cycling and use it as a trip computer. Problem: I'm nervous that I'll be taking it home in pieces. Are there any smartphone bike mounts that will secure my Hero to the bike as well as protect it in the event that I crash?
I want more friends, not more projects!
How do I make friends with the sort of people who DON'T go to meetups? [more inside]
How to make the outdoors more attractive to someone in a wheelchair?
I love the outdoors but want to spend more time with someone in a wheelchair, any ideas for compromise? [more inside]
How do I handle this best friend breakup?
I think it's time to get rid of my best friend for the past 15 years. I don't want to, nor do I know how to, but I think I have to. Messy details within. [more inside]
Practical, respectful and efficient approaches to community vote-based decision-making?
Looking for an efficient, respectful and fair process for a group of 10-15 people to reach a consesus.
Some of the desired results: everyone would be heard respectfully (talking stick?) and cast a vote, a maximum amount of people would end up aligned with the choice, minimized influence of power games and hidden agendas, speedy (1-2 minutes per participant, including voting, so w/ 10 participants, a solid decision could be made in 10-15, max 20 minutes)
Have you experienced an effective process supporting the above? What does it look like, step by step?
Is there a resource where I can look up practical approaches to community-based choice-making?
Going away birthday gift?
My sister is going to university in September. It's her birthday soon, and I want to get her something that will make her life easier while there. What could I get her? [more inside]
How to unstick a dead mouse from floor?
How do I get a dead mouse in a puddle of dried molasses off my kitchen floor? [more inside]
Waking up to pneumonia pain
Anyone else have gut-wrenching pain from pneumonia but only upon waking? [more inside]
Am I missing something here?
Neighbor is hot to start a business with me. What precautions do I take? [more inside]
Slow cooking : science me please!
Can I reuse cooking sauce from last time when slow cooking? [more inside]
Job interview with a billionaire. No fooling.
What do I ask a billionaire? [more inside]
OMG TXTING CHAMPION!!1!
I've been tasked with holding a 'texting/SMS contest' tomorrow night, in front of a crowd at the county fair. I've got some ideas on how to do it, but I figure y'all might be able to offer more or improve mine... [more inside]
Want to watch Copa America in Baltimore
I want to watch the Copa America final on Sunday in a bar in Baltimore. It will be playing on Univision. Where should I start looking for such a bar? Or, does someone have a recommendation for a bar that will likely show it, such as a Paraguyan or Uruguayan restaurant?
Not Google Calendar or 30boxes
Can anyone recommend a fully featured online calendar that's minimalistic in design and that isn't Google Calendar or 30boxes?
Lime Overtime
Should I Eat It: Battle Lime Juice! I left the lime juice out overnight and just noticed it. It's pretty hot today, around 85ºF inside. The bottle says "refrigerate after opening". Verdict?
Why are there constantly dead pigeons on one particular street in my city?
Why are there constantly dead pigeons on one particular street in my city? [more inside]
How to pick best "keywords" to promote videos?
I'm been using both Google Adwords and a Facebook ad to promote an new album, but I think I'm using weak "keywords". Could I get the Metafilter community to look at a few no budget videos I've made to help me figure out "better" keywords to advertise my music? Or am I just wasting my money? [more inside]
Must entertain a room of adolescents. How?
I will have about 2 hours and probably 20-30 high school students to entertain. Indoors or outdoors. Supplies can be gotten, so long as they're not outrageously involved. Save me!? [more inside]
Creating a Shower in an Imperfect Setting
How do I rig a shower in my bathroom when there is no drain? A pal installed a functional shower head, now I just need to get rid of the water somehow. There is a sink and toilet right next to the soon-to-be shower, and I was thinking a pump in a basin with a tube that empties into the sink is the way to go. But what kind of pump? Is there a smarter way to go about all of this? [more inside]
Stop screenscraping our menu!
How can I fix incorrect restaurant menu information on 3rd party sites (i.e. allmenus, etc)? [more inside]
There should be at least three different kinds of ice.
Where can I find the best, most interesting, artisanal cocktails in the Mission or Noe Valley neighborhoods of San Francisco? [more inside]
Please sir, can I get on board full-time?
How can I make myself indispensable at a new job? [more inside]
With Sympathy
I recently saw an obituary for a previous employer's father. Is it inappropriate to use this situation to re-establish contact? [more inside]
Concealer tips, please!
How do you apply concealer on acne without making it more obvious? Every time I try and put concealer on, it ends up magnifying the flaky skin around my zits. [more inside]
What counts as income?
YANML, YANMSocialWorker [it takes 5 weeks to get an appointment with her]: Is a housing benefit "income"? [more inside]
Consensual internet hijackery.
Wireless network question! This one's pretty specific to my living circumstances, since what I want to do is share the network in a house across a courtyard from mine. [more inside]
Hanging out with Dumbledore and Gandalf
I want to read all of the Harry Potter and The Lord of the Rings books. How do I go about this so I can maximize my experience? [more inside]
How many smartphone users are there in New York City?
How many smartphone users are there in New York City? [more inside]
How do I get my Lenovo x220 Gobi chips into NDIS mode?
How do I get my Lenovo x220 Gobi chips into NDIS mode? [more inside]
Dog Groomer Recommendations?
I am searching for a dog groomer in Westchester County, NY and would be very grateful for recommendations! [more inside]
Line graph of a range of possible rates?
Is there an accepted way to graphically represent rates when small sample data is anonymized? [more inside]
How can my friend attend art school in the US?
I have a friend living in Korea. She's a freshman in college but wants to study art history here in the US. She's worried about paying for it all and wonders if another country might be better. I know nothing about this. What's the best course of action? [more inside]
Help me understand image size and monitor resolutions
Help me understand monitor resolutions, sizes, etc. I think I need a math whiz!!!? I'd really appreciate a bit of guidance. [more inside]
Alternatives to a t-test?
If I have a dependent categorical variable with two values (say, basketball fans vs non-fans) and an independent numerical variable (say, height in millimeters) what statistical tests could I use to analyze my data, besides a t-test? [more inside]
Daily sites?
I very much enjoy my daily word and poem sites. What other daily life-enriching, mind-expanding sites (or email lists or similar) exist? [more inside]
Your search for "tiny little corks" returned no results on Amazon.com
Help me not cry while reading at my friend's wedding. [more inside]
New word processing programme
Is it worth it to buy Microsoft Office 2011 to run on my OS X Lion Macbook? [more inside]
I want to ride my bicycle, I want to ride my bike.
Commuting by bike - expert tips needed. [more inside]
Help me find this children's book about a girl and her hamster
Help me find a half-remembered children's book about a little girl and her pet, and what they say when they get the chance to speak one sentence to each other. [more inside]
Books and online resources about complicated music wanted, also listening recommendations
I don't know much about music and I don't have a large music vocabulary - once you get past "bassline" I am reduced to saying things like "It was very squeaky yet melodic somehow, you know?" I would like some sources for critical writing about more complicated modern music. [more inside]
Kind of like Babycenter if it were run by doctors.
I'm looking for examples of best-of-breed healthcare/medical websites that combine solid clinical information with community features. [more inside]
DriveSpacio:Windows :: [ ]:Mac?
Is there a utility for the Mac that is similar to DriveSpacio for Windows? [more inside]
Cheap Chacos
Do Chacos ever go on sale? [more inside]
Lifestyle detox before starting Dream Job
I have three weeks of between-job vacation. All I really have to do is go to a few meetings and do an in-state move. I haven't had this sort of vacation in years. I'd like to take this time to recharge and nourish my poor, battered, stressed-out body, mind and soul. Any suggestions? [more inside]
'Song of Ice and Fire' synopsis?
Song of Ice and Fire review/primer? [more inside]
Help me be the best me.com I can be
How can I change the manner in which I handle my e-addressing needs: 1. email address forwarding, 2. a couple of domains, where all I need is registration and the DNS mapping? [more inside]
Can I use my ipod touch as both a cheap contact to the us and within europe?
Can I use my ipod touch for sms while living in the Netherlands? [more inside]
Which movie is this scene from?
Help me figure out the name of a movie that freaked me when I was a kid. [more inside]
Recommend dark, provocative manga to me!
MangaFilter: So, I recently watched Gantz, the live action movie, and it was so delightful, it inspired me to read the manga, and now I am addicted to it. A couple years back, I also enjoyed the DeathNote movies, as well as Oldboy. I seem to be attracted to a kind of manga that is quite grounded in reality, that trespasses into the fantastic, and goes to very dark places, and likes to play with ideas. Please, can you recommend other manga of the type I like? Thanks.
Get new laptop, then recycle the old one?
Can I purchase a laptop from the Apple store, then use the Apple Recycling Program to recycle my old Apple laptop, get the gift card, and apply it to my purchase? [more inside]
What does "hotly" mean in this context?
What does "hotly" mean in this context? [more inside]
Can I work from home?
What are the legitimate options for full time, stable work-from-home jobs for a skilled techie? [more inside]
How can I stop dwelling on the past and live in the present instead?
How can I stop dwelling on the past and live in the present instead? I'd like to know of any coping strategies you've had which allowed you to move on from mistakes you've made and live life more fully in the present, while dealing with self-destructive tendencies and poor discipline. [more inside]
Can you tell me your personal story or know more than me?
Almost 60, physically disabled (can still drive and walk) male on disability. What jobs can I get to supplement my income? I've read the posts here and googled 'til I can't see straight. I was thinking proofreading, medical billing, delivering pizza etc. I looked into Leapforce and Guru but didn't go to college. I worked in the service industry -electric, alarms, building maintenance- never sat at a desk but am computer semi literate, thanks.
Thanks.
How do I find a room in Amsterdam
Do you have any hints, tips, or advice for finding a room to live in Amsterdam? This is the first time I am looking at private non-student renting, and I could use all the help I can get. [more inside]
Kid Charlemagne used to make drugs for a living...
So I just got word that I'm getting laid off at the end of the month. Work has been getting more and more insane for the past few years, and I'm getting a pretty good severance package so I can't say I'm exactly mournful about this. You know that guy who loses his job and spend the next several months never putting on pants and only answering to the name of his level ninety night elf. Help me not be that guy! [more inside]
What immediate isolated actions or habits could I take on to add $1000 more to my bank account each year? And which can I take on in the next 3-5 years that will pay off even more?
What immediate isolated actions or habits could I take on to add $1000 more to my bank account each year? And which can I take on in the next 3-5 years that will pay off even more? [more inside]
Navy Yard Safety
How safe is the area around Nationals Park/Navy Yard in DC? [more inside]
TV Show That You Can't Put Down
Since its inception, television has often been criticized for a lack of writing and/or artistic quality when compared to books. What television show made you realize for the first time that television has the potential not only for entertainment but also for quality storytelling? [more inside]
Linear Relationships in Real Life?
I am redesigning a high-school Algebra course so as to make it more meaningful to the students. To that extent, I am trying to gather as many examples throughout our world of linear relationships. I was hoping to tap into the collective wisdom of this group to come up with as long a list as possible of linear relationships that actually exist (not contrived stuff). I once knew a teacher who had a plant that grew at a linear rate. I don't know the type of plant, however. And there are so many other linear relationships around us. I don't want everything they see be about a car's distance from home or the amount of money they saved. What do you know of that exhibits a linear relationship? I'd love to have a long list for students so that they see that studying linear relationships in Algebra really does matter. Thanks for any help in making this course more worth while to the students!
Something wicked this way comes.
The next facebook
Need ideas for websites I could build. I am going to be in between jobs in the next few months. That gap could be a week or it could be a year depending on how long it takes to find my next gig. During that gap I would like to stay productive. I am a project manager, but I can write decent python/js/css/html. I need ideas for websites I could build that 1) I would have fun doing, 2) Would be something I could talk about in interviews, and 3) Could maybe produce a community, traffic, or a few dollars. [more inside]
Reason and the Passions, How do I make one control the other?
How do I apply critically reason to my own arguments when I'm emotional and engaged in discussion with others? [more inside]
Lens for your cell phone
Has anyone tried these Fish-eye and macro/wide-angle lenses for cell phones? Do they work as advertized ? Pros/Cons?
My phone is a samsung google android. Thanks for the feedback.
Point & shoot me already.
Should I get a new camera? Alternately, how do I improve my P&S skills? I have a Canon Powershot SD630 Elph, and I maybe want a micro 4/3. I'm headed to hike for three months in some places like here, here, and Nepal. [more inside]
Great NPR pieces from the past?
Where can I find significant/classic/cherished NPR pieces from the 70's, 80's, and 90's? Archive.org has scarce selection and NPR.org doesn't seem to archive earlier the early 90's.
kiva.org for bougainville?
So, yeah...Erm...
I live and work in China and, in addition to my regular job, help a fierociously intelligent nineteen-year-old girl with her English twice a week. I don't so much teach her as talk to her and attempt to develop her debating skills. Though not perfect, her English is very good so discussion is often deep with a tendency to take unpredictable twists and turns. We've taken to reading thoughtful articles together and then discussing the main points in addition to noting down any unfamiliar vocabulary. I'd be grateful if Hivemind could suggest some provocative, not overly academic articles that could serve this purpose. I'm running out of ideas. [more inside]
Is BoinxTV the answer for live events?
I've got an event that I need a live video feed of on the stage. Is BoinxTV the answer? [more inside]
July 20
Lies my teacher told me
Some misconceptions are so pervasive that they're even believed and taught by experts. What are some of these misconceptions in countries other than the US? [more inside]
How can I increase my credit score in a good financial situation?
With one small student loan, one small line of credit, and a decent savings built up, how can I improve my credit score so that I can get a nicer credit card? [more inside]
Higher-quality replacements for beloved Target shoes
I adore these Merona cut-out flats (wedges?), but they keep falling apart -- they're $20, so no big surprise there. Please help me find something in the same style that will hold up better! [more inside]
Advice on how to make some actual friends here?
Despite my efforts (meetups, work), I don't really have a reliable circle of friends here. Any advice for meeting people? [more inside]
Made to order jigsaw puzzles?
Where can I get a custom photo jigsaw puzzle made? The catch: The "photo" file would be an image from X-Men. [more inside]
DIY Big Brother
I'm looking for ideas on ways to setup an informal neighborhood CCTV /cam enabled security system. Something like a flikr pool with wifi connected cameras taking snapshots/continuous street view. Ideally some kind of low cost DIY package that could be informally setup by a group of neighbors. [more inside]
sources about Keith Green
I want to find more primary and secondary sources on Christian music artist Keith Green. [more inside]
Which teen actor does this look like?
Which 80s or 90s teen-oriented TV show character does this guy look eerily like? I remember the character as being a bit of a schemer and he was either the lead or a major character.
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How to recognize faulty wiring in apartment?
How do I recognize poor wiring in a home? [more inside]
Where does Google get the text it uses to describe a search result?
You know that text that shows up under the link in a Google search result? Where does it come from? Specific example follows, in which the text is nowhere on the website in question. [more inside]
Help me cool my house without air conditioning
How can I cool my house without air conditioning? [more inside]
This looks all Firefoxed up
Why is my Firefox not rendering styles correctly? I'm at my troubleshooting wit's end. [more inside]
Does The Uk Recognize US state-level Same Sex Marriages
I'm a dude going to marry a dude in New York State. Said dude I am going to marry is a resident alien from the UK. Will the UK recognize the marriage? Does he become an American Citizen by marrying him? Does that counteract his UK citizenship? What are my rights, here?
Client won't pay what they owe...
What are all my options if a client won't pay my invoices in a timely manner? [more inside]
lying is a sin, but it'll probably make them happy
My father unexpectedly passed away last weekend from a heart attack. I am not religious. Part of my family, and most of our community of friends & extended family, are. Help me navigate the religious talk without either going on the defensive, or being complacent. [more inside]
I'm not gone and I already want to go back
I'm already homesick, and having an identity crisis, yet I haven't even left. [more inside]
So, hat's your question, then?
What's the best encyclopedic resource for hats/hoods/helmets/headwear? [more inside]
How to make Google (or iGoogle) my default home page?
How can I make my iGoogle page come up when I open a new tab on Google Chrome? [more inside]
Can you help me track down this statue?
I'm trying to track down a statue of a female wildland firefighter (1, 2). It is about 6" tall and has been in existence for at least a decade. [more inside]
How much does it cost a phone company to provide DSL service?
How much does it cost a phone company to provide DSL service? [more inside]
Transcription pedal incompatibility?
Finally got my office four universal transcription pedals (Infinity Foot Control IN-USB-2) and Olympus DSS Player Pro software ("with foot pedal support") after two months of bureaucratic red tape. Foot pedals aren't working. Google fu failing. Please hope me. [more inside]
9 to 5 jobs: how to tell if it's really going to be a 9 to 5?
9 to 5 jobs: how to tell if it's really going to be a 9 to 5? [more inside]
Online, Group, Photo Editing?
I have an image (I own it) that I want to post online for anyone to edit. Is there an online editing tool where someone can edit the image and then upload or save it right there for us to use? I get more specific inside.... [more inside]
Can my landlord act like my mother?
Can a landlord in California specify "no overnight guests" in a rental posting or in a rental agreement? [more inside]
Help inspire me to design great website UI's!
I'm a solo UI designer for an ad agency & I'm looking for good website or blogs that'll inspire me to make cool & effective user interfaces. Individual websites are cool & all ,but what I'm really looking for are sites like TheFWA or SmashingMagazine that curate cool designs.
Bonus points for sites that look at e-commerce websites.
Fellow web designers: Where do you get inspiration?
Soothe a Nerve
How to Comfort a Nervous Friend? [more inside]
What has you experience been with regaining US Citizenship after voluntarily renouncing it?
What has your experience been with regaining US Citizenship after voluntarily renouncing it? Wiki and word of mouth says previous citizens would be welcome...mostly... [more inside]
Recovering the contents of a stolen Blogger blog
A Blogger blog was hacked. The perpetrator declared he'll delete all content pretty soon. It's six years of work I want to save. [more inside]
Help me become my organization's social media guru!
Help me become my organization's social media guru! [more inside]
Okay, no upskirt shots, got it. What else?
What are the photography laws in South Korea? [more inside]
Mobile phone audio cable w/ high quality mic
Does anyone make an audio cable w/ a high-quality mic (w/ noise canceling?) for use in the car w/ a mobile phone? [more inside]
Hope me.
My boss never says "please" or "thank you." [more inside]
would you like a fancy outfit with that arranged marriage?
what is this movie? [more inside]
Best 4-week adventure?
I'd like to do a full-immersion, semi-planned, somewhat dangerous adventure lasting for 3-4 weeks...Any suggestions? [more inside]
Still looking for an apartment in the D.C/NOVA area
Still looking for an apartment in the D.C/NOVA area [more inside]
When do I disclose my preference for nonmonogamy?
I don't want to have monogamous relationships anymore. At what point should I tell this to people I'm interested in? [more inside]
continuing relationship
Should I continue my relationship with partner? [more inside]
Atlantic City Hacks
I live in NYC and I have never been to Atlantic City, though an AC-bound jitney service stops in my neighborhood. I've heard about all sorts of insane deals that hotels and casinos roll out to lure customers; what's the best/cheapest way to take advantage of this in the next couple of months? I'd like to travel to AC with a partner and stay a couple days, paying for as little as humanly possible. Caveat: I'm only willing to do a little cheap, incidental gambling; mostly I'd like to do my own thing once I'm there.
Help me live well in a van.
I'm going to be moving into a van for awhile. What should I expect and what are some things I can do to make it as comfortable as possible? [more inside]
Seeking Housemate Situation for The First Time - Help Me Present Myself Best
Looking for an apartment share. There are limited options in my price range, so I need to maximize my appeal. What can I do to make myself sound like a good roommate in my intro emails and calls? [more inside]
Strong neck go SQUISH!
How do bodybuilders and athletes build up their neck muscles, specifically their scalene muscles? Do steroids make giant scalenes? [more inside]
Tender feet and toes...
okay, two fold question. My best friend (a petite woman) has always had really sensitive toes. If she stubs them, or anything falls on them, it hurts a lot, and she feels nauseous.
Also, when doing yoga positions that require standing on one foot, the soles of her feet burn, or tingle.
She is in great physical shape, age in the latter 50's, and does not have diabetes. Thoughts on any of this or all?
Yoga for noobs
Yoga for beginners [more inside]
What cat litter doesn't stink up the place even when it's clean?
We need a new litter brand! We have 3 cats and a relatively small space in which they live. The recent heat wave has not helped matters. Ideally the new litter will not stink up the house with odor-covering chemicals. Help? [more inside]
Street Anthropologist
Where have you seen working-class people carrying their everyday stuff in high-end store bags (e.g., a Tiffany's bag)? [more inside]
Dangerously low blood-curry levels
Please help me find a purveyor of my preferred curry! [more inside]
How to date a deck in DC?
How do I find out when the deck on my old home in Washington DC was built? [more inside]
Math ties?
Any good math or physics neckties? [more inside]
How fast can you say the same thing?
Is there any data out there relating to the relative speeds that different spoken languages can express human thought? [more inside]
What bug is this?
What bug is this? [more inside]
if there is such a thing as Indo Amsterdam, I'd like to experience it.
I'm spending next weekend in Amsterdam. I'll be doing the usual touristy things, but I'd like to add a twist to it. I speak Indonesian very well but have never been to Indonesia... I would like to experience Amsterdam's Indo/Indonesian side. Any particular areas, restaurants, activities to check out?
I'll be the best-educated person under the 9th Street Bridge.
I'm an unemployed PhD! Wheeeee!!!! What can I do to ensure that I won't be homeless next month? [more inside]
Weirdness along Texas I35, help me find it?
Recommendations for crazy Texas roadside weirdness along I35 between DFW and Austin appropriate for children? [more inside]
Finding a European drink in the USA!
Cubicle Dwellers Go Primitivist (Comic)
I'm looking for a comic which depicts the breakdown of social norms in a cubicle farm and the subsequent progression to something like neolithic (primitive) life in the building. I remember a person tying a necktie around their head, a couple copulating on a desk, and plants being grown in cubicles (or maybe out in a parking lot).
Where can vegans and meat eaters break bread in the East Bay?
Where could we have a nice, large family dinner in the East Bay on a Saturday night for a party of 10? [more inside]
How can I support my spouse in their job search
How can I best support my partner during their teaching job search? [more inside]
Why would I need a dictionary when I know all the words?
Recently some German friends claimed that owning a dictionary of your native language was a very English-language thing. i.e. that its very unusual in Germany to have a German-German Dictionary in the home / or to own one growing up.
Is this true for other native language speakers? Is this even true of Germany at all? [more inside]
Help us ID this tv show
Help me & my sister ID this early 90s children's show based on the intro sequence. [more inside]
Looking for kid-friendly song suggestions
Looking for kid-friendly "dance" songs. Not kidz-bop. Some examples: Walkin' on Sunshine, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, YMCA. [more inside]
Words for Wisdoms
I am having my top two wisdom teeth out on wednesday without general or "twilight" anesthesia. What should I expect? [more inside]
Help me find a long-lasting, durable futon sofa-bed.
I'm looking for the perfect futon (sofa-bed) in the UK (preferably the South East) that will work equally well as a bed or sofa, long-lasting, and easy to convert. [more inside]
How do I handle a toxic work situation?
How do I handle this toxic work situation? [more inside]
Boss wants us to provide change- what?
Is it normal, in a waitressing job, for the manager to force employees to bring their own change every day? [more inside]
windows tablet
Windows 7 Tablet? [more inside]
Manhattanhenge
How do I calculate when the sun will rise directly over a particular landmark? [more inside]
Small solar panels
Are there decent small-sized, even portable solar panels that deliver safe, reliable (when the sun is out, that is) power? (enough to run, say, a stereo system/tv). I live on the top floor of a building, and have a small terrace; I can't install large permanent panels, but I get so much sun it seems a waste not to try and harvest it in some sense. But is installation tricky, and how do you actually connect it into your system etc.
It's not like they're cooking in there.
Why does McDonald's need sugar? [more inside]
Can I find mead in San Antonio, Texas?
Can I find mead in San Antonio, Texas? [more inside]
We didn't initiate defiling the environment, but we're legally obligated to finish it
My place of employment has received several thousand packages of rubber bands that need to be destroyed. Any advice on a way of disposing of these on the cheap? [more inside]
Game Design on the Cheap
Can my friend use his NYU student discount to buy non-student me an event ticket? [more inside]
How do I repair this void underneath the steps to our basement? (Long)
How do I repair this void underneath the steps to our basement? (Long) [more inside]
Songs for an Amazing Race-like event for children?
Looking for songs that would fit the theme for an "Amazing Dewey Race" (a scavenger hunt type event using the Dewey Decimal System). It's a child/young adult event at a public library, so music needs to be appropriate for that audience.
Help me remember this PBS show from my childhood!
Help me remember the name of this PBS Kid's show from the 80s: There's a lady, she's being held captive by someone (a witch?), and she passes the time by reading stories that she literally cranks out of a story machine to children. [more inside]
Fresh onions all around
RecipeFilter: Onions! I recently acquired a few pounds of fresh, homegrown onions from a friend's garden. Tell me how to use them! [more inside]
Help me help myself
My boyfriend is going through a divorce and he's taking his stress out on me. Help me take care of myself during this difficult time. [more inside]
How wide are the seats at Nottingham Arena
How wide are the seats at Nottingham Arena? [more inside]
Home is where the boredom is.
I need your ideas for fun nights in, or general fun that does not require too much walking around. [more inside]
A sticky insulation problem.
What is the best method for insulating the ceiling of a garage with attic trusses? [more inside]
Data, what are you playing?
What is this beautiful violin song (in the first minute or so of the video) featured in Star Trek: The Next Generation? [more inside]
How to prepare myself for a career in financial analysis?
I'm going into financial analysis soon -- how and what should I do to prepare myself for it? [more inside]
two minecrafts on one pc
A question about Minecraft: I would like to have a vanilla (= modfree) installation of Minecraft and a modded one side by side on my (win7) computer. This seems to be a rather complicated way to do this. Would somebody know an easier one? [more inside]
Will you please be quiet please? -- But I am!
What's the best strategy for handling an enraged neighbor? [more inside]
Spanglish for Hiring Movers
Good Spanish phrasebook for hiring day laborers? [more inside]
July 19
Rural India.
I am planning a trip to India by October and so far, places to see in my list include Delhi, Agra, and Varanasi. There's a whole lot more I want to visit but I don't want to exhaust my self with all the traveling as I will only have 2-3 weeks. In addition to the above mentioned places, where do you think can I visit to get a feel of rural India? Somewhere not so populated, countryside, and great interaction with the locals, possibly homestay too. Only requirement is that, it shouldn't be too far from my chosen destinations, somewhere I can stay for like 3 to 4 days immersing myself with the rural life, local culture.
CRM for an Advertising business, with some production tracking
CRM plus something more for a small office? [more inside]
Gettin' the wheels turning.
What are the neatest projects related to bicycles happening right now? [more inside]
How do I get an apartment without a local job or local cosigner?
I'm trying to move to a different state. How do I get an apartment without a local job or local cosigner? [more inside]
How much to worry?
Burning hunk filter: How long can you let salt dough sit in an oven at 200 degrees before it burns or becomes a problem? Do we need to wake people up or call 911? Or can it stay in until morning? [more inside]
Am I being unreasonable in my expectations for relocation assistance from my employer?
Am I being unreasonable in my expectations for relocation assistance from my employer? [more inside]
I want my own nyan experience
Should I get a cat? Snowflake etc. inside. [more inside]
how to make really cake-y cake?
really cake-y cake. I have had a few really good cakes in the last few years that were less spongy and a bit drier than the ordinary kinds of cake out there. What is the secret to making cake with this texture? Every recipe I try ends up with the softer, spongier cake that we are all used to (and that the box brands aspire to). This cake-y cake seems more old-fashioned--seems a bit more like bread. Can anyone help? I am wondering if it is a recipe issue, or whether it has something to do with time cooking, or how you prepare the ingredients, or oil vs. butter vs. ??? Let me know the secret!
what kind of treatment for hip pain?
Mid 30s and healthy. Who should I see for recently appearing hip pain? Orthopedist, physical therapist, rolfing, other? [more inside]
wait, you're girlonthemoon32? are you sure?
Online dating etiquette: misrepresenting who you are. [more inside]
Cough, cough, cough...
Help Mefites! Stupid fireplace question. I was burning some papers in the fireplace this evening and forgot to open the chimney flue. By the time I realized what happened and I got it opened, the room had filled with smoke. How to best get the smoke smell out? [more inside]
Bankruptcy Auto Loan
Anyone have success being approved for a car loan 7 months after a bankruptcy? [more inside]
Bullfights in Nîmes
Féria des Vendanges in Nîmes -- how to get into the bullfights? [more inside]
Router recommendations for more power.
Comcast gave us a router when we subscribed. It has issues. But we can replace it! Help me find the best one. (Warning: lots of data below, because I want to answer as many questions as possible off the bat.) [more inside]
Help with back pain
I'm a 25 year old guy and quite tall (6'6). I often sit down for much of the workday. I also bike and walk everywhere (I don't drive). In recent weeks I've been experiencing some back pain. This evening, upon leaving work, I began experiencing the worst sustained back pain I've ever felt. Hard to bend over, painful to walk, or do much of anything. It has been hurting for 3 hours now. I'm going to call the doc tomorrow, but does anyone know of a good mattress to buy for such an ailment? (Mine is awful, sags in the middle, etc.) Or anything else I can do?
One-man band wannabe!
Help learning pop music arrangement for piano? [more inside]
HELP, with diabetic diet.
I need clever ideas to help someone with diabetes make better food choices. This person is supposed to be on a low carb diet.
Catches: Obviously i can not force them to eat any certain thing. or deprive of food.
I want to change a rule governing my condos management.
Condominium Outrage! Today, while taking a shower in my bathroom, i suddenly saw a reflection of a man in the vanity mirror - he was just outside the slightly open bathroom door. I screamed bloody murder while my heart beat out of my chest - i thought i was about to be the victim of a home invasion. Now, i want to do something about the apparent rule/bylaw/custom in my condo corporation/board that allows workers to enter the unit without the express permission of the owner or resident. [more inside]
How to keep my emotions from sabotaging me at work
I'm responding to work stress by becoming (secretly) emotional and non-communicative. I can tell that my reaction is out of proportion to the situation - there is a lot of work and not enough bodies, and everyone in my group is overwhelmed - but I still feel very threatened. People get in my face - I act like I don't care, tell them "yeah, that isn't getting done." And after they leave I cry at my desk (again, secretly). How can I be more calm, cool, and effective? [more inside]
Help! Big burly dudes/dudettes with truck needed!
Movers in Philadelphia for a move next week may have crapped out at the last minute. Does anyone have any suggestions for moving companies for a 1-bedroom-size within-city move who might be able to strike a last-minute appointment in case this is true? [more inside]
What are the best websites to find a place to rent in Perth, Western Australia?
What are the best websites to find a place to rent in Perth, Western Australia? [more inside]
I want to conquer the universe (in a game), what is out there?
I want to play a (quasi-realistic) large-scale space combat strategy game. Gratuitous Space Battles isn't cutting it. Any suggestions? [more inside]
What should my next step be?
Job search, interview, etiquette question. Sorry for the length. [more inside]
Traveling without eating in restaurants 3 times a day
What are the alternatives, while on vacation, to devoting so much time to looking for restaurants and eating in restaurants? It seems like vacations are way too much about consuming meals. [more inside]
Getting medicinal marijuana in LA?
Drug Filter: Is it legal/feasible to get a prescription for medicinal marijuana in California while just there for a brief business trip for a couple days? [more inside]
The thick cord of hypochondria running through my life
I am a huge hypochondriac, and I have been since I was 18. I need help making it stop. [more inside]
How can I make life better for my boyfriend?
My boyfriend's hit a string of horrible luck. What can I do? [more inside]
Help an Aunt out
Help me be the coolest Aunt ever, please? My 13 year old niece is visiting for three weeks, and I want to make sure she has a good vacation. [more inside]
Understanding line segment intersections in 2d
I need help understanding an algorithm for determining if two line segments intersect (and at which point). [more inside]
Wireless video to a projector?
Is 802.11 b/g/n wireless fast enough to use to watch movies? [more inside]
What is the name of this hat?
Does anyone know the name of this hat? [more inside]
My brains my blow out of my ears but I feel great...
Blood pressure meds, I am not taking mine and I feel GREAT. [more inside]
My body wants to be thinner. My brain? Not so much.
I know the scientific hows and whys of losing weight. Please hack my brain to get it back in the right head space. [more inside]
Advice on wood doors
Do doors and jambs need to match the trim? [more inside]
"HD" glasses lenses?
There is a relatively new fancy technology in eyeglass lenses: free form lenses for single vision, which some manufacturers are calling "like HDTV" for glasses. Really? Will I notice that much difference with MY prescription? [more inside]
Redirect a domain name to another domain.
Help my two domain names exist peacefully as one. [more inside]
Wait, why are these in the Asian grocery? Maybe I should buy them.
Chayote—I have two—what's the best thing to do with them? I also have lots of zucchini. Compatible? Soup, salad, or casserole. Fav dishes or recipes, please.
Moving Out Of My Apartment - And Discovering The Floor Is Scuffed
I'm moving out of my apartment at the end of the month—and we've discovered that the hardwood floor in our office is moderately scuffed up as a result of a rolling office chair that's dug a bit into the floor. Can we fix this? Pictures and other details inside. [more inside]
Further study after failure?
I'm in my forties and have a really bad academic record, but I want to do a Masters. What are my options? [more inside]
Should I call out a friend on gossip-mongering on the number of sexual partner's I've had?
Should I confront a friend about blabbing the number of sexual partner's I've had? [more inside]
Is it even worth buying physical CDs any more?
Is it even worth buying physical CDs any more? [more inside]
health insurance premium
Using health insurance in US- possible skin cancer. Does anyone have any evidence/estimate/experience with how much premiums may/will increase if skin cancer is found/treated? [more inside]
River tubing hacks, please!
Please share your river tubing hacks. [more inside]
No they don't wear pants
Going to Provence for two weeks in mid-September. What off-the-beaten path attractions or towns are not to be missed? Specific interests inside. [more inside]
Red Bull and ritalin for breakfast?
Should I be worried about a daily diet Red Bull habit? Is there any real science about the health effects of artificial sweeteners or combining energy drinks and ritalin? [more inside]
Help me to get network outlets networked
In our office we have many network outlets in offices that are dead. In the phone cupboard is the board that these outlets terminate at and they have no connection to the router. Nothing is labelled to show which unconnected port goes to which office outlet. Help us to find what connects where! [more inside]
CDS for stocks
Is there something like a Credit Default Swap for stocks? Or, could I have gotten rich somehow by betting against Borders? Is there a way to bet that Groupon fails, for example?
Can I put a bathtub in my shower?
My fiancee and I moved into an amazing apartment which has everything we wanted...except a bathtub. The shower is porn-worthy: 2 shower heads, a big window looking over the city, and even a fully-tiled cubby with a step up...and it's 6 feet by 5 feet. The cubby is about 3 feet by 2 feet. [more inside]
I need new reading material
I am an insomniac that needs some recommendations for good late night websites to browse on my ipad. [more inside]
Please help me understand what type of riding I want to do/ what type of instructor I want
Help me choose a horseback riding style (or help me understand what to watch for in finding an instructor) according to why I want to ride. [more inside]
Excercise and eat less? Really, science?
I understand that losing weight and getting fit comes down to exercising and ingesting less calories, yet I still have difficulty accepting that there are no tricks. [more inside]
DC to Boston with a UHaul
How long will it realistically take me to drive a UHaul from DC to Boston? [more inside]
"No, really, touch this one. It feels real."
Where would I find the best sex shop in Montreal? [more inside]
Please help me show off my professional portfolio!
Please help me create awesome digital presentations for my professional portfolio! Am looking to create a series of slideshows for presentation on a tablet, and need some hardware/software recommendations. [more inside]
Can you identify the typeface in the Subterranean Logo?
What typeface is this they're using in the Subterranean logo?
What The Font and Identifont have not helped narrow it down, so I thought I would tap into the hive mind to see if you all knew what it is.
Dancey indie-synth music with vocals that doesn't suck?
Recommend me some music like Cut Copy, The Whitest Boy Alive, Junior Boys, The Temper Trap, and Phoenix. [more inside]
Car accident. If the repair costs more does your insurance go up more?
Car accident. If the repair costs more does your insurance go up more? [more inside]
One Netbook Per Child
Help me build a Linux-based system for a 3 year old. [more inside]
How can I help my new partner learn to enjoy sex?
How can I help my new partner learn to enjoy sex? [more inside]
Need help with divorce strategies when you have a child you want to move out of state with...
Need help with divorce strategies when you have a child you want to move out of state with... [more inside]
I never want to find out I have three months to live.
How do you know when your "not feeling well" is an actual cause for concern? Two people I know have been diagnosed with cancer and then passed away very shortly afterwords after seemingly common/benign symptoms. [more inside]
Stupid iron burn!
A tiny burn on my arm is KILLING ME OH MY GOD. How to stop it hurting now and keep it from scarring later? [more inside]
What's in the bottle?
How should I neatly store reusable bags in my trunk?
If you store your reusable grocery bags in your car trunk, how do you store them? [more inside]
Sci-Fi movie title memory-fu failure
Help me remember a dimly remembered childhood sci-fi flick from the '50's or 60's... [more inside]
Thinking of the children
What do you say to children of your exes that find you on Facebook? Bisexual three-way snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Stupid hard drive, be more useful
Data recovery tools: What are the best free tools that are currently available? Also, I have this hard drive that is being a jerk. [more inside]
Evidence-based haircare?
Chemists: I'm using baking soda and vinegar to wash my hair. What exactly are they doing? [more inside]
Dry Bachelor Party Ideas?
First time groomsman trying to put together plans for a bachelor party. What's a fun idea when some of the other guys are under 21 and the groom doesn't really drink anyway? He's a little socially awkward—even with us—and I want to make sure he has a great time.
Yoga, Massage, Chiropractor --which order?
Yoga, Massage, Chiropractor --which order? [more inside]
Chime in regarding wedding shoes for a guy
Man searching for wedding shoes. Hit a wall in my research. Help out if you can. [more inside]
Does anyone here speak liverpudlian musician?
In response to a question about the genesis of "Eleanor Rigby", Paul McCartney explained his initial idea for the music as follows:
"I wrote it at the piano, just vamping an E minor chord; letting that stay as a vamp and putting a melody over it, just danced over the top of it. It almost has Asian rhythyms"
This is my first encounter with "vamp." I didn't know it was a word until I came across this quote about half an hour ago.
Evidently it's both a transitive verb ("vamping an E chord") and a noun ("... as a vamp")
Even more evidently: parts of speech be damned, I have absolutely no idea what any part of this quote means.
Actually, that's not true: I have a rough idea of the meaning of "I wrote it at the piano"
Aside from that though I'm in the dark until somebody hip to musical jargon lights a candle for me, by way of explaining what Sir Paul is saying
Help! I need somebody, help...
not quite platonic
How to deal with a "friendship" that does not fit into any categories? [more inside]
Comic strip suggestion for an english language learner?
My german friend loves reading Calvin and Hobbes (in english). What would be a good comic strip to get her into? What strips are still funny to ESL readers? [more inside]
How do I get this swamp cooler to work?
How do I make my swamp cooler work best? [more inside]
Looking for a tool to reccommend a laptop configuration
Is there a tool online that might be able to tell me what parameters I would want for a new computer (probably laptop) given my current patterns of use? Looking in stores leads me to think I don't need the high end models but I'd hate to buy something only to find out I should have sprung for the extra RAM. [more inside]
In a bit of an awkward spot...
What is the most ethical choice in this situation? [more inside]
Proofreading at Scholastic NYC
Has anyone been a temporary proofreader for scholastic in nyc?
I'm being offered an assignment proofreading high school science texts. If anyone has any knowledge of the culture, the work environment, the opportunities - or just stories of your experiences - do share.
Quit smoking feedback loop
What are some feedback loops that would help me quit smoking? [more inside]
Help me get random numbers by mental arithmetic.
I would like a pseudo-random number generation algorithm that I can calculate in my head. [more inside]
Which knob am I supposed to turn to 11?
Continuing on my progression to Rock God status, I hoped you could enlighten me with everything you know about getting particular sounds out of amps and effects--both as a general proposition, and with respect to the infinitely tweakable Line 6 Pod HD. [more inside]
A thoughtful critique of crowd-sourced design contests?
Looking for thoughtful essays and/or screeds on the evils of "crowd-sourced" design contests, or design by committee in general? [more inside]
Online book retailers.
What are some other internet booksellers like AbeBooks and Bartleby.com? [more inside]
Where do I send this form?
What is the mailing address for VA burial benefits forms? [more inside]
Is the exhaust in the bathroom for the smell or the humidity?
Is the exhaust in the bathroom for the smell or the humidity? In other words: is it used to make it smell better, or is it used to make sure the room dries out better?
New laptop PC slow as heck!
What would cause the laptop to be so slow right out of the box? I was given a "new" computer at work. It is a HP Business Notebook PC with the product model = Compaq 8510p. It is so slow opening and closing windows, launching programs and starting up and shutting down--then sometimes freezes up. It is 3 years old and the warranty has expired as I was told by the HP helpdesk. I have searched the web and asked a few IT friends what the heck it could be since it has never been used.
My boss doesn't want to hear any complaints about it since it's new out of the box--he figures it should be working perfectly. Should I take it to a PC shop to get it optimized or diagnosed in some way? It's driving me crazy! What could be causing this?
Should I be keeping over a decade of personal email?
I've been keeping all of my personal email since 2001. I keep it nicely organized in yearly folders and sub-folders...but should I? [more inside]
D as in dovid
Quick now: how would you pronounce the (Yiddish?) names Dovid and Elly? [more inside]
Are therapists supposed to tell you how to live your love life?
Is it normal or ethical for a therapist to tell their patient to break up with someone? [more inside]
Need guidance on message-digest based password generation algorithms.
Need some guidance on message-digest based password generation algorithms. [more inside]
Basic dresses!
Looking for dresses that are basic, comfortable, and versatile. [more inside]
Old timey alternatives to "that's gay"?
What are some old timey words I can give my students as an alternative to "that's gay"? [more inside]
How do I get back a $10,000/£6000 loan that my brother refuses to pay me ?
How do I go about getting a $10,000 loan back from my brother and should I?more details inside. [more inside]
What was the Shakespeare quote about the perfect prince?
Looking for a Shakespeare quote about the prince having been the ideal every man wished to be. [more inside]
Eating lunch outdoors during yellowjacket season: an impossible pipedream?
Any way I can get yellowjackets to leave me alone while I lunch in the park? [more inside]
Support Groups & Information for Relatives of Global Ischemia sufferers in the UK
A colleague's (adult) daughter was recently diagnosed with Global Ischemia and they are looking for support resources - books, support groups online or in person, basically anything that can help them cope with this
would be helpful. My colleague is not very tech savvy so I am hoping to compile a list of resources to make it easy for them to browse. Any other helpful tips or advice appreciated! [more inside]
Am I paying too much for therapy?
I found a CBT doctor here in NYC, Dr. Fader, and he charges $300 per session with no sliding scale.
My insurance, United Healthcare, covers 70% after I hit my $500 deductible. So after hitting that I would be paying $90 out of pocket.
Is this a typical amount to pay w/insurance? I'm asking because I can always look around, but this doctor is supposed to be very good and if it's a typical price I might as well stay with him. Thoughts?
How do I subscribe to the Answer Me This podcast with Juice.
How do I subscribe to the Answer Me This podcast using Juice. I don't want to use iTunes.
So many droids, which to choose?
My husband is very interested in getting an Android phone that can do the Swype texting (I think that's any Android, actually, but I could be wrong). What is the best option for him? [more inside]
Should I ask my two close friends to be bridesmaids?
I'm having a hard time asking two close friends to be bridesmaids because I feel like I'm imposing. Advice/anecdotes requested. [more inside]
30 days in the middle of nowhere
A month in the Hebrides. One woman, one tent. Tell me what not to miss. [more inside]
Credit's taken, but is it due?
The popular WikiLeaks Mastercard Parody Video (youtube link) makes the claim that the wikileaks data is at least partially responsible for the Arab Spring goings on.... is it true? [more inside]
Where to find experiment participants?
Does anyone know any appropriate mailing lists or online forums where I can find participants for an online music rating study? [more inside]
What to wear?
Fashion emergency (I never thought I would use that phrase): Client is visiting, I have nothing to wear. How offended will they be if I'm underdressed? [more inside]
How do I teach my brother sex-ed?
How do I teach my brother sex-ed? [more inside]
Perfect intermediate-level yoga home workout
Help me find a perfect intermediate-level yoga home workout, preferably in a book format. [more inside]
Letters page: are anti-gay letters OK in your community? Uncomfortably, it seems they are in mine.
Are letters opposing homosexuality on religious grounds acceptable in your local newspaper? [more inside]
Why so last century?
Why are "i386" drivers supplied, and not 64-bit, for things like printer drivers? [more inside]
seeking the playlist of a compilation cassette
Can someone locate the complete playlist of a cassette that was included with the purchase of a Mercury Marquis station wagon in 1984? [more inside]
July 18
Where can we get Guinness on tap in STL? Cheers, Dear.
What are the best places to get good food and a couple of pints of Guinness in St. Louis? [more inside]
They say man plans and God laughs, but no one's laughing here...
Through circumstances beyond anyone's control, my work situation has suddenly become a lot more precarious, and I'm freaking out. How to handle the uncertainty? [more inside]
I need new glasses. Can you help me pick some out?
I need new glasses. Can you help me pick some out? [more inside]
How to write code with interruptions?
When I'm writing code but keep getting interrupted, how do I keep calm and carry on efficiently? [more inside]
Is this suicidal?
How much time should I leave driving from Brooklyn to Times Square at A.M. rush hour? [more inside]
How do I identify this metal?
How do I identify the metal from which that this nameplate is made? It's from a WW2-era lathe. Is behaves somewhat like lead, but is harder. [more inside]
Engagement Ring
What are some hints on purchasing a diamond engagement ring? Any good sites you would recommend? I have roughly $5000 for diamond and setting and would like to do some research to find a special ring for my lady.... I live in upstate New York, any good jewelers to recommend?
Booked a vacation at Miraval. Now what?
What's it like at an all-inclusive resort/spa like Miraval? [more inside]
Is it worth forming an LLC and in which state?
I'd been wanting to form a corporaton for a long time. So many benefits it seems:
track business expenses for income-tax deductions
protect assets against law-suits
gain credibility for certain transactions
privacy
But all the gory details are getting me down... [more inside]
My ex is dating my boss. How do I get over it?
I dated someone I work with. Now she's dating my boss. I would love some tips on how to get over this without quitting. [more inside]
How do I get my phone number to stop appearing on Facebook?
Why is my mobile number showing up on Facebook and how can I keep this from continuing to post? [more inside]
Is Marty McFly (Prime) The Destroyer of Worlds? Yay or Nay?
I just watched the Back to the Future trilogy (for like the millionth time) and I have a question I’m hoping the Hive Mind can help me reconcile a question I have. [more inside]
Yoga retreat
Looking for recommendations for a two or three day yoga retreat within driving distance of DC.
I want to turn tricks, please.
What is your favorite parlor/bar trick? [more inside]
3 1/2 tons is not enough, it seems.
Ductless Air conditioners - what do you know? [more inside]
Poem about life as a tree?
What is the poem about branches of a tree, i.e. choices in life, withering when the narrator can't bring herself to pick one? [more inside]
I want to have a healthy relationship with my partner's young son
I'm in a relationship with the man of my dreams (who has also been a close friends for years before we got together) and I couldn't be happier. It is serious and it is going in the "forever" direction. He has a young son, though and I want help introducing myself to his life without causing too much stress or confusion. Also, divorce fun times... [more inside]
Help me replace my 557's!
What jeans are similar to Levi's 557 Relaxed Boot Cut jeans? If you own both a pair of 557's and a similar pair of jeans, what is the other brand? I would especially like to find another one in the $30-$40 range. [more inside]
When my girlfriend gets stressed out, she dumps me.
When my girlfriend gets stressed out, she dumps me. Should I put up with this? [more inside]
I'm too susceptible to children begging.
In a moment of weakness, I agreed to adopt 2 baby rats. What do I need to know that a google search doesn't tell me? [more inside]
How can I get my landlord to replace my phone wiring?
What rights do I have when requesting repairs to telephone wiring from my landlord? [more inside]
Looking for a song..
Looking for a hipster song (with hardly anything to go by..) [more inside]
Apple store freeloaders, threat or menace?
How rude is it to use the Apple store as a de facto internet cafe? [more inside]
Worst luck or something more troubling?
Is there something causing my laptop's power supply to fail? [more inside]
Casually and quietly dropping the sauce?
Tips for quitting drinking, without making a huge deal out of it and still having a social life (other than AA and meetings). [more inside]
Overwhelmed by a job offer
I previously was working at a job for a long time. That job ended (due to company shutdown) last week I was offered a similar job today. Would it be crazy to turn it down? [more inside]
Mexico city Monday
A quick question regarding tipping in Mexico City. [more inside]
Birds and tea and ... I can't remember the rest
Help me find a forgotten children's book! My memory of this is almost unforgivably hazy -- I read the book in the mid to late 1980s. The book (possibly all of it, maybe just the ending) takes place at a beautiful teahouse, I believe Chinese, where everyone brings their birds in cages. [more inside]
Cool as a cucumber
Hypothetical thermo-engineering question. Let's say you have a room. It's a living room. It's about 300 sq feet and open on one end (This can't be closed). There's an air conditioner in the living room in the window on the west side of the room. The problem with the air conditioner is that it doesn't project very well. There's a few feet of empty space between the air conditioner and the couch, which it does a great job of cooling, but if you're not standing in front of it you're SOL. [more inside]
I need a doctor in brooklyn
[BrooklynFilter] I need a good GP, preferably in south Brooklyn, who takes GHI. [more inside]
My iPad won't play iTunes movies all the way through - help!
I get a movie through iTunes. I start the movie. The movie stops unexpectedly halfway through. How come? This is on an iPad. [more inside]
Martian seeks insight into American grieving customs - help me plan this life celebration
Could use some suggestions for making sure I have all bases covered for the "celebration of life" thing we're doing for my dad this weekend. [more inside]
Volunteer or work full-time while completing a dissertation?
Do I do the smart thing or the desired thing? Volunteering at a place I love (with no money) or getting a full-time job (with money)...while working on a dissertation. Part-time jobs that pay a livable wage are few and far between, apparently. [more inside]
Selling original art featuring someone else's characters.
[Comic book art filter] I did a "pin up" image to be included in a fellow artist's graphic novel. He asked me to do it, I did it gratis, he liked it and put it in the book. I can sell the original art, right? And keep all the proceeds? [more inside]
Body Wash for Very Sensitive Skin?
What is a gentle body wash that I can use that won't make me break out? [more inside]
How do I handle this situation at work without looking like a jerk?
How do I handle this situation without looking like a jerk?
We have a new person at work. This person will need a laptop and the company will purchase it. I have a laptop purchased by our company, but it's about 2-3 years old. I'd like to get a new laptop as mine is somewhat outdated, but the if I get a new one, the company wants me to give my old one to the new person. How do I handle this? I'm going to be in charge of the transfer and this new person will see that I am getting a new one while he is getting my old one. I don't want to look like a jerk. What do I say? Help?
I have trouble trusting and I need help
Yes, I have trust issues and I don't think my girlfriend is helping any... I'm ready for therapy... what can I expect, what can I do to make it the most helpful, and what can I do to preserve my relationship through this -- or should I? [more inside]
What do I do with these herbs?
We've got sage, chives, and sweet basil growing in small pots this summer. I've got a few recipes that use one or the other of them, but I know I could be doing more. What else can I do with them? We eat pretty much anything, except we avoid starches (so pasta, potatoes, or grain ideas won't help us much). I'm open to everything from "throw some chopped chives into scrambled eggs" to more formal recipes. Ethnic foods a plus, but hardly required.
?
Help me make sense of this silly financial problem. It's very basic, and I'm a complete moron with money. [more inside]
Garden hose thru brick wall.
What's the best/least expensive way to run a garden hose from my cellar thru a brick wall to the front of my house? [more inside]
Places to camp within a day's ride of Minneapolis?
Some friends and I - all new to the area - are looking for a good place to camp within a long day's bike ride of Minneapolis, MN (60-100mi). We're hoping for something where we'll see few other people, and preferably access to a lake or river, hiking trails, and general wilderness (or at least the feeling of being away from civilization for a bit), and good to stay for a couple of days. Any recommendations? I'm having a hard time with the signal to noise ratio of the rest of the internet. Thanks!
Wisconsin Recall Coverage
I'm very interested in the upcoming Wisconsin recall elections and am having trouble finding much reporting on them. Are there any good web sites out there covering the recall elections, like Nate Silver's FiveThirtyEight does for national elections?
Web hosting for high traffic site
I am in need of a new web host and would like some suggestions as to what are the best. [more inside]
Comic-Con Veterans: heed my call!
My wife bought me an all-expense-paid trip to Comic-Con for my 30th birthday, and while I've been to plenty of smaller cons (Wizard World, C2E2, Otakon, etc), this is my first time going to the big show.
Extended nerdery inside: [more inside]
A Welsh music mix? Oh there's lovely.
I've been challenged to create a mix of music and musicians of Wales/Welsh descent. Anything goes, however tenuous the link - if the artist's grandmother once got bitten by a Welsh corgi, I want to hear about it. [more inside]
Replacing my electric panel.
Upgrading electric wiring in an old house. Help me sound smart when I call contractors. [more inside]
I need a new driver's license, and not to throw a public tantrum
How can I navigate this RMV/Social Security office debacle and get a new driver's license? [more inside]
Talent agency interview
Job interview filter: why would someone want to become a talent agent? (Bonus morality question inside!) [more inside]
Is it worth it to move to Washington from NYC?
Moving to DC from NYC: Is it worth it? [more inside]
ScoreItNow! tool v.s. GRE essay portion
I'm studying for the GRE. Is the ScoreItNow! essay tool really accurate? What could I be doing better? [more inside]
Little time, more muscles.
I have 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes at night to do some muscle toning exercises. What should I do that would be the best use of my time? [more inside]
help me be a spike lee joint?
How to do the right thing post break-up? [more inside]
Is being a firefighter from congressional staff just too loopy?
Congressional home state staffer looking to make a... radical career jump. To a city firefighter. [more inside]
Routes through western Pennsylvania
What's the best driving route from Harrisburg, PA to Newburg, NY? [more inside]
I need to get my first passport, but there's a problem with my name...
I'm applying for my first U.S. passport but I'm afraid I might have trouble verifying my identity. Specific details inside. [more inside]
Sounder to Sounders?
Will there be Sounder train service to the Seattle Sounders-Man U match this Wednesday? [more inside]
How do I find a job after my last termination?
I know you're not my lawyer or a lawyer at all.. but I need some help. Recently lost my job due to an alcohol-related relapse that happened off work hours. How do I move on from this? [more inside]
Confirmed bachelors with more female friends than male?
What fictional male characters are confirmed bachelors with many female friends and few male friends? I'm especially interested in stories set before 1950. [more inside]
That one site that does the things with the thingees.
What's that website (blog?) where the editors make mixtapes/playlists from somewhat slightly quirky requests? [more inside]
Empirical and theoretical psychotherapy?
Contemporary psychotherapists who have popularized their empirically-tested theoretical contributions? Examples: David Burns, Eugene Gendlin, Joseph Weiss. [more inside]
How to find out if letters are getting to my incarcerated friend?
How can I find out whether my incarcerated friend got my letter? [more inside]
Looking for a 'legit' pay-service website that streams soccer games from top European leagues.
Looking for a 'legit' pay-service website that streams soccer games from top European leagues. [more inside]
City of Brotherly Ennui
Do you think your Philly-based shrink is the best? I need to hear it. Must take Magellan insurance, and west of Broad is a major plus. Probably-unnecessary details inside. [more inside]
Set up yearly reminders with Chinese lunar calendar
My parents mark their birthdays using the Chinese lunar calendar. How can I send myself an email reminding me of this date every year? [more inside]
Ein furnished flat in Berlin, bitte
What is the best way to rent a furnished flat in Berlin? [more inside]
Help me help him see the horrors that lurk around us.
Recommendation for a microscope (particularly a digital microscope) for under $100-$200? [more inside]
More songs like these?
"Papa Was a Rodeo" by Magnetic Fields. "Home" by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes. What other songs are like these in the way these are like each other?
Name That Children's Book
Name-that-children's-book-filter: I read it probably in the early '90s, and all I remember is the protagonist used a computer keyboard to do things, e.g., pressing the "escape" key to escape a dangerous situation. [more inside]
What is this mystery item from postwar Japan?
This is an item from my Grandparent's house that has been stored since the 1940s. All I know about it is that it was with other items which my Grandfather brought back with him from postwar Japan. An aunt of mine claims it's something that goes on your head, but I can't tell if it's even possible to take off the wooden stand. It is intricately detailed. It also has a small wooden case with a clear front, but the case is not especially detailed.
What is this item? Does it have value? (view larger, largest)
Help me find the right film and AV equipment for my nonprofit
Help me find the right AV equipment to buy for my cultural events nonprofit! I throw literary events that are awesome and generally undocumented. Tell me what I should buy (cameras, software, mics) to visually convey a sense of their awesomeness. Bonus points on tutorials on making podcasts and workflow process for videos. [more inside]
Where do I start?
I am a 28yo female feeling overwhelmed by some significant life changes. I am just over 2 months sober. My current employment contract (for a great job that I love, in a very competitive field) ends in December and there is a good chance the position will be made redundant. And 2 days ago I broke up with my live-in partner of 4 years, as despite the fact that I care about him deeply, we don't communicate that well and I feel doubts about committing to a long-term relationship with him. [more inside]
Where should I put all this cash?
I currently have significantly more than $250,000 in a single bank savings account, as I am starting a major home renovation project that I need to fund. I will be making periodic payments on the construction, which will take the balance well below $250K before the end of this year. My question is: given that FDIC only covers $250K, and given the debt ceiling issue and the looming 8/2 deadline, and given that most of our elected leaders seem to be incapable of reasonable compromise -- what would be the best option(s) for me in re: this money? [more inside]
I scream you scream we all scream for...ice cream machine?
Recommend me an ice cream maker? [more inside]
What makes an online store great?
What are the objective attributes that make a given online store a good place to shop? [more inside]
They have a lovely silvery-blue hue and maybe also moonletters?
How can I find and devour blue java (also known as "ice cream") bananas, those rarest and most delectable of all bananas known to man and God? [more inside]
Even paranoids can get scammed, can't they?
I have some questions about renting an apartment through VRBO, please reassure me that I'm probably just overly worried. [more inside]
Help Me Teach Teamwork
Suggestions for approaches to promoting healthy teamwork in undergraduate freshmen, as a TA? [more inside]
Need to map my Boise cycling training rides!
Is there a tool out there which will allow me to plug in the mileage I need for a certain cycling training ride, and will spit out a route that will get me that amount of miles? Maybe using Google maps or something? I'm in Boise,ID, if that matters.
Is there publicly available data on small businesses?
Are there free sources to find data about average business costs? [more inside]
$1200 Bluetooth Keyboard
Can I use a MacBook Pro as a bluetooth keyboard for iPad? [more inside]
Divide it amongst yourselves II
"the average number of molecules in a rock band" [more inside]
What's this rash on my nose?
What's this thing on the bridge of my nose and? Some sort of rash? A fungal infection? How do I get rid of it? [more inside]
Stockholm syndrome is kicking in
How do you reconcile your private and professional selves? [more inside]
How to get water out of a ear/stop ringing
[Water + Ear + Pain + Ringing] YANMD: Jumped/cannonballed into a lake this weekend - the water went down to 10 feet. The moment I was underwater my ear had a sharp pain. [more inside]
Help me find a new office copier.
Our copier died last week (Xerox WorkCentre C20) and I need to replace it. I would appreciate your recommendations on where I should look for a replacement. [more inside]
Alternatives to gymnastics for a jock kid?
Our son has a wrist bone injury that means he will have to stop training (12-16h/week) for competitive gymnastics. He's 11, medium height and slightly built, very co-ordinated, fast and strong. He loves being on a team and competitions, and did very well at gymnastics for the past five years. What are alternative sports to consider for him besides competitive diving? We're looking for sports that don't stress wrists, e.g. no tennis. Both of us are very unsporty, so we're scratching our heads over what would be fun for a jock kid. We're in Singapore in the tropics.
Divide it amongst yourselves.
If all the people in all the world took all of their cash (whether it's in a bank or not) and divided it equally amongst everyone, how much would each and every person in the world end up with? [more inside]
contact lense mix up
I have Ciba vision Air Optix Aqua 1 month disposable contact lenses and have mixed them up. I use -1.75 for my left eye and -1.50 for my right, 8.6/14.20 size. On the actual lens of one of them it says "CIBA x647" and on the other "CIBA x648", which lens is for which eye?
How can I learn to draw?
For as long as I can remember, I always liked to draw. Unfortunately, I'm also the worst artists I've ever met. Help me change this! [more inside]
Updated Comic Drawing Material?
Can anyone recommend some updated drawing books for modern comics? [more inside]
Car and driver hire in Hangzhou and region
I'll be travelling to Hangzhou, China and the region around it in a few weeks. There are six of us, and we're thinking of hiring a car/minibus and driver to transport us for the longer journeys, for example from Hangzhou to some of the nearby mountains. Is it possible for us to make arrangements with some kind of transport company beforehand, or should we just do it when we get there? [more inside]
Fix or replace my car?
Should I fix my car or purchase another one? [more inside]
Help me identify this recent indie film set in Baltimore
I saw a trailer for an indie film about 6-8 months ago, or maybe a little longer. Please help me find the film based on very little information - gritty, realistic, probably not directly related to crime or police, set in Baltimore. The Baltimore bit seemed very important. [more inside]
Enough with the fees, TD!
What to do with spare change? [more inside]
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How do I go about making friends? I know the theory I just never manage it in reality... [more inside]
Wikiproblemia
What's up with Wikipedia in my Google Chrome? [more inside]
Please help me with self helping my acid reflux.
Please help me with self helping my acid reflux. [more inside]
Help me find inspiration
What are the best biographies/autobiographies/memoirs/novels for inspiration and psyching up? [more inside]
July 17
Powerfoods and vitamins?
Easiest ways to add vitamins and minerals to your diet? [more inside]
Too rainy for a jungle adventure?
Costa Rica in September? I was planning to go to the Arenal Volcano and do jungle adventures on my honeymoon in September, but saw it was the rainy season. Anyone know how rainy it gets during that time? Any other areas to recommend that are less rainy but worth checking out for a romantic honeymoon? Thanks so much!
Honeymoon Planning Help!
Santorini Honeymoon-Has anyone been to Santorini, Greece and could recommend a hotel that was romantic and beautiful but not outlandishly expensive- Let's say $200 per night or less, or a package deal. We are looking to go in September. Thanks so much for your help.
Automate color selection in photoshop?
Is there a way to automate color selection in photoshop? [more inside]
Msau is delicious. Now, what exactly is it?
African-fruit-filter: Msau: what is it? [more inside]
Lightweight shade tent?
I need to buy a shade tent/canopy that is 1) as lightweight as possible and 2) easily erected by one person 3) who is only five feet tall. If I could, I would buy the REI Alcove Shelter, but it's out of stock. What else can you recommend?
This is your body. Let's talk.
I want to become a sex educator someday, and I'd really like to help develop a long-lasting comprehensive sex education curriculum that builds foundational emotional/interpersonal/respectful knowledge in the younger grades, and more concrete, biological/functional/logistical knowledge towards the end of high school. What's in store for me? [more inside]
Where in this world to buy men's non-leather dress shoes - here's the kicker - in white?
White non-leather men's dress shoes - do they exist? [more inside]
The jerk store called; they haven't carried that model since 1964
What did "jerk" mean in 1964? [more inside]
My inner geek is disinterested
Despite having an engineering degree, a Master's degree in software development, a strong math background, and 20+ years of programming experience the "typical" logic games bore me. Why and how can I improve? [more inside]
PayPal scam?
PayPal scam? [more inside]
Advice book from different perspectives?
Can anyone recommend some non-fiction advice books where many authors write their perspective on similar situations or difficulties in life? [more inside]
I need help selling a coin collection
I have an old coin collection that I want to sell. However, I know nothing about coin collections so I'm unsure how to sell this without getting ripped off. Is it possible to find a coin dealer/collector who will buy this collection from me at a "fair" price without me doing research in an area about which I presently know nothing? More (possibly boring) info follows... [more inside]
Congratulations! You Get to Start from Scratch!
In continuation of this question, what resources can I forward to my family member, now that he is off the streets? [more inside]
How do I move past hurt caused by a former friend?
How do I move past hurt caused by a former friend? [more inside]
How do I segue music tracks on a Samsung Galaxy S2 phone?
I have a Samsung Galaxy S2 phone. I use it to listen to music. But the music player is set up to include a brief gap between each track. This is particularly a nuisance when I'm listening to albums with segued tracks (such as live albums). How can I set it up so there are no gaps between tracks?
Should I use a migration agent to handle my application to migrate to Australia from the U.S.?
Should I use a migration agent to handle my application to migrate to Australia from the U.S.? And if so, what's the best way to go about finding a good one? [more inside]
Skin Tag Removal Cream?
I'm looking for personal recommendations on skin tag removal creams. [more inside]
I think the Internet hates my DNS server's new IP address.
I run my own DNS. Recently, I moved the DNS server to a new IP block. I meticulously changed all the zone files. Months later, phantom traces of one of the old IP addresses still linger in the public DNS at times. Unfortunately, that one IP address is the address of my DNS server itself. Help! [more inside]
Is there any way to auto-detect, and automatically switch to a free wireless channel?
Is there any way to auto-detect, and automatically switch to a free wireless channel? [more inside]
Looking for henna
Where do I find body art quality henna in Vancouver, BC? [more inside]
What do you know about living in Carlsbad?
Tell me all you know about living in Carlsbad, CA. [more inside]
Recommendations for HCG trigger-shot injection?
Can anyone recommend a nurse/clinic service in the Bay Area to give an intramuscular HCG trigger-shot injection? [more inside]
Cash rules some things around me.
If you use budgeting software, do you have a good system for tracking and categorizing your cash spending? [more inside]
Can't hear MIDI keyboard in Logic Pro 8
Logic Pro problem: I can't hear my MIDI keyboard. [more inside]
Where can I learn about court jesters?
Where can I learn about (and what should I learn about) court jesters, fools and similar figures? [more inside]
How do I get data from multiple other entries in a database?
SQL help: I'm very new to SQL, and need to update one field with the maximum value of all entries in another field selected based on a shared value in a third field. [more inside]
Help me find Grateful Dead wall art!
Last night (Saturday July 16th) I went to see the Dead/Further at Bethel Woods, NY and saw a metal sculpture/wall hanging I hope someone can help me find. [more inside]
aircare confusion
I live in Vancouver and may be buying a used car on Bowen Island. How do I go about insuring it with air care? [more inside]
Help Me Expand My Home Organization Realization
I'm slow. It took me many years to have this revelation re: home organization: "If an object is not frequently used and is not decorative, it should be put away" (unless, of course, you have incredibly little storage space).
So what's the next revelation? Or some corollaries of this one which might flesh out this basic idea?
tell me where to live!
Where is northern BC should I spend a month? [more inside]
Mortgage expectations for first-time buyers?
Mortgage expectations for first-time home buyers in the post-bubble era? [more inside]
Change or stay the same? The future of very personal computing
I have a well aged Dell e1505. I'm thinking about upgrading to a 11.6"/12.1" sized AMD Fusion based netbook. Performance-wise, will I suffer a setback, be about equal, or ahead of my Dell? [more inside]
Is Schenevus nice? I really don't know.
It's time for our annual road trip! Please help us make it even better? We'll be heading from Buffalo, through the Fingerlakes, to Phoenicia...then...um...um...I don't really know. [more inside]
Great vacation rental in DC?
Where to stay in DC? [more inside]
How can I, a total weirdo, get a job saving the environment?
Green career ideas for a right-brained, mechanically challenged sociophobic introvert who doesn’t want a desk job? [more inside]
Can I remotely administer an Ipad?
How best to remotely administer an ipad? [more inside]
Making plans for Nigel.
(Local attractions filter): Washington, DC, for teenagers. [more inside]
Where to stay on Oahu in January?
Recommendations on where stay on Oahu the first week in January, with two little kids? [more inside]
I vant to surf your break.
Help me find a surfing video which featured Dracula. [more inside]
Google Health Alternatives?
Google Health is going away. Recommend me alternative medical records software that is secure, let's me track insurance and doctor info, works on my Linux machine and is cheap to free. Bonus points for web-based apps that let me import the CCR / CSV files Health exports.
What is/was this bump on my leg?
What is/was this bump on my leg? Kind of gross details inside. [more inside]
Welcome to Japan
What should I expect once I arrive in Tokyo? And what shouldn't I miss while I'm in the Kyoto area next weekend? [more inside]
Looking for the First Computer Font.
I would like to see the character set from the first computer typeface. [more inside]
It was a very neat book.
When I was a kid one of my favorite books was a manual on how to draw spooky Halloween scenes. It was printed in orange and black, and mostly everything was in silhouette. Can you help me find it? [more inside]
What do you guys listen to when you run?
I've been running a lot these days and I'm running out of ideas for my music playlist. What do you guys listen to when you run? Need ideas and inspiration. Thanks!
What eco friendly rocking chairs for nursing do you recommend?
I'm due with my first baby later this year and am on the search for eco friendly products. I'm looking for a rocking chair that can also lock, is comfortable and cushioned (there's lots of just wood options out there), and is relatively reasonable budget wise (under $500 preferred). I want to avoid as much off gassing from new furniture as possible. What I've found so far is this and this one (which is not eco but more representative of what I'm looking for). Any experience with these or any other suggestions? Bonus points to anyone who can point me to an eco friendly, safe, well rated car seat (do they exist?!). Thanks.
Tilt my TV
Do you have a small TV (19in-26in) that can tilt forward? [more inside]
Snoring introvert looking for a hostel in Amsterdam
I usually stay in hotels, want to try out hostels for a change. I snore. Help? [more inside]
Film for Vintage Cameras
I'm getting a bit more into photography and I'm thinking about picking up some vintage film cameras (still and possibly movie). There is no shortage of inexpensive cameras available on eBay; however, it isn't clear to me what film formats are still available. [more inside]
“Time for Lyons” sure doesn't sound like France
Asking for a friend: I've been listening to one of my favourite jazz tunes, “Time for Lyons” played in this case by Lionel Hampton. It's a lovely, dreamy, tuneful piece but I've always wondered about the title. It sure as hell has nothing to do with France... The composer is Gerry Mulligan and I'd wondered it was a drug reference, as in ‘Time for Lines’. Any clues?
Can You Help Me Identify This Blues Singer?
"Blues For A Rotten Afternoon" CD filter: can anyone tell me who is singing/playing on "If The Sea Was Whiskey" on this CD? The promo says "No matter what causes the pain, sometimes the only answer seems to be diving into a sea of drink, as Willie Dixon prepares to do in 'If the Sea Was Whiskey.'" Here's a link to a page with samples from all the tracks on this (great) CD. It doesn't sound like Willie Dixon to me, and the track listing says "Willie Dixon Tribute." Thanks!
Will two hundred megabytes bring me health, happiness and prosperity?
Is 200 MB enough? I got an Ipod Touch for my birthday. It does have WiFi access but I don't want to have to run into a cafe every time I need to look something up online. So I'm in the market for a mobile WiFi hotspot and a wireless data plan. The cheapest plans available -- and I'm all about the cheap -- typically offer you c. 200 MB a month. [more inside]
How to slow down without concerning those around you
I've been ambitious throughout my career. Now I have a job I love, the pay is good, and I'm trying to figure out how to dial it back in the right way. But I'm freaking out my friends and family a little. [more inside]
YouTube not handling multiple Keynote audio tracks
When starting and stopping (i.e. pausing) audio/slide recording in Keynote, how do I get the final export to play the complete audio when uploaded to YouTube? [more inside]
where am i?
i have really significant problems with spacial orientation. my sense of direction has gotten so bad that i often start walking in the direction opposite to the one think is correct; i can't read a map or gps unless i'm heading north - even if i turn the map or gps (when i can even figure out which way to turn it). [more inside]
Books by Jurors
I want to read a book written by a juror in a criminal trial. Please recommend one! [more inside]
NYC labor lawyer sought
I'm looking for a labor lawyer in New York City, preferably north Brooklyn area ( but anywhere is fine). Any suggestions? [more inside]
What do winning 'instant win' game pieces look like?
How are instant win prizes on products (candy, food, etc.) actually displayed? I have seen 'Sorry, you are not a winner' enough, but I have never seen what an actually winning game piece looks like. Is there a verifiable code with a phone number inside the package, or does the game piece actually say "You have won $xxx,xxx!"? Also, wouldn't it be in the best interest of the company giving away the prize to make the winning game piece be inconspicuous as possible (except in the instances of those with second chance drawings) in order to make it possible for them to run a promotion without giving away the advertised prize?
How can I do damage-control in this coworker situation, or should I?
Some of my colleagues don't like or respect me. Now I'm applying for a transfer to another department which would be a promotion for me, although the role isn't as much of a promotion as people think because there's a long training period before any increase in level would be considered. I was warned that several of my colleagues are really up in arms that I've gotten an interview and I don't know how to handle it. [more inside]
Does a black hole that decelerates from relativistic speeds lose enough mass to cease to be a black hole?
Does a black hole that decelerates from relativistic speeds lose enough mass to cease to be a black hole? [more inside]
July 16
Will Software Defender screw up my computer?
Anyone know anything about a DRM package called "Software Defender"? [more inside]
Regional Netflix Canada selections?
What's with my Netflix Canada selection? [more inside]
Quality Prints From JPeg's
How can I get prints made of jpeg photos [more inside]
Financial ruin thanks to (possibly dangerous) ex-roommate
Renter's nightmare in LA: My friend went on vacation to Europe. Her roommate cashed the rent check and skipped town, friend is now getting evicted. Btw, deadbeat roommate still has the keys, collects guns, and has accused friend of being "out to get him." Advice? [more inside]
Probably should have just learned how to draw when I was younger...
How much should I expect to spend on this little piece of freelance graphic work? [more inside]
Paying it Forward
How to Reward my Facebook Page followers? [more inside]
tiger, tiger, training bright
Whats that book with tigers wearing clothes and traveling? [more inside]
Mi-24 Hinde Sippy Cup Valve Replacement
My daughter has a sippy cup with her name on it similar to this. I can't find any replacement valves. [more inside]
Subaru or Volvo?
Should we buy a Subaru or a Volvo? Outback or Forester / V50 or V70? Requirements: AWD, durability/dependability, fuel efficiency, safety, cargo space in that order. [more inside]
Blacked out one night stand
Feel disgusted and don't know how I can live with myself after drunken one night stand. [more inside]
Long backwoods camping trip coming up. What's something cool to bring for the group?
Long backwoods camping trip coming up. What's something cool to bring for the group? [more inside]
Where can I see robots in Osaka or Kyoto?
I just saw this video about karakuri (Japanese clockwork automatons) and was amazed. The guy is located in Osaka, but there is no information about where he works or whether his studio is open to the public. Coincidentally I will be in Osaka next week. Where can I see some karakuri? Does anyone know of any exhibitions of them, or anywhere else I could see them? [more inside]
Do we release funds early from escrow?
We are purchasing a house. The seller is asking us to release some of our deposit in escrow to him before closing. Is this a good idea? Read the details... [more inside]
Tailors for women
Where can I find a tailor that makes clothing that are not suits? [more inside]
Tonight, I wear a hat
One night, Jeremy Clarkson wore a hat. Now, I need to own that hat. [more inside]
How to Navigate Possible New Relationship?
How to Navigate Possible New Relationship? [more inside]
Identify movie where woman and baby are killed by exploding mailbox prank
Movie identification request: There's a movie that features a group of friends who grew up together and are now back together as adults. When they were kids, some of them put a cherry bomb or some other big explosive in a woman's mailbox as a prank, and while they were watching for it to go off, she came out to get the mail carrying a baby. They tried to stop her (I think) but the explosive went off, and presumably she and the baby were killed, traumatizing the boy who did it (?) for life. For years, I've thought that was "12 and Holding" but I just watched that today, and while there are some similarities, that's not what I thought it was. Can anyone identify the movie with the exploding mailbox for me? IMDB didn't seem to find anything using obvious keywords.
Does filing a 1040x (amended return) increase your chances of being audited?
Does filing a 1040x (amended return) increase your chances of being audited? [more inside]
A Horse, A Horse, My Kingdom for a Horse!
Have experience with/know about these motorcycles? [more inside]
Amsterdam ATM machines
Why won't my ATM card work in Amsterdam? [more inside]
Send SMS to Users From Wordpress?
What's the best way for me to send text message updates to visitors to my Wordpress site? [more inside]
I don't seem to be good at anything at all. What's wrong with me?
I don't seem to be good at anything at all. What's wrong with me? [more inside]
Life Without Amazon Prime
I need a Sony Type3b USB cable (for my Cybershot DSC-WX9). I'm in Prague and can't receive packages or have it shipped. Is it possible? [more inside]
How is this thing flying?
Where can I find good visual learning aids for flight school? (not looking for flight simulation.) [more inside]
Finding children's book about the Happy Family?
My dad has been talking about a book from his childhood for months now; it's a children's book about a family called the Happy Family, published in the US. My Google-fu isn't strong enough. Does this sound familiar to anyone? [more inside]
What is the best way to go about selling an engagement ring?
What is the best way to go about selling an engagement ring? [more inside]
Help me make a Deep Space Nine-themed birthday card.
Making a brilliantly funny Deep Space Nine-themed birthday card: I've got the design skills, but lack the humour and knowledge of the later seasons. Looking for the perfect combination of text and image. Can you help me out...tonight? [more inside]
Why are my fonts so tiny in photoshop?
The text, out of nowhere, is TINY when I type in a Photoshop document. The problem is, I know all of the ways to fix this--except, obviously, whatever solution I'm missing. I'm on Mac OSX 10.5.8 and Photoshop CS4 Extended. [more inside]
I wouldn't trust myself.
How do I go about finding a roommate situation sight unseen in a way that is safe for me and doesn't make me seem incredibly sketchy/set off scam alarms for the potential roommate? [more inside]
ID/MT/WY cabin recommendations wanted.
I am looking for wheelchair accessible lodges/cabins in Montana, Wyoming, or Idaho. Bonus points for being within an hour of a major airport, but not necessary. [more inside]
Stop annoying me, you nice competent person!
I work closely with another girl who is very kind, helpful, and talented at her job. She is also highly sensitive and neurotic to the point where I become annoyed and exhausted after working with her for fifteen minutes. Help me make the best of this work relationship. [more inside]
Currency exchange timing
If you were visiting Europe in mid-August, would it make sense to exchange US dollars now? I'm worried about the dollar tanking against the Euro in light of a possible default and the remaining parade of economic horrors.
Cute, happy, fun (japanese inspired?) clothing for boys?
Looking for boy's clothing/fashion blogs, preferably for babies and toddlers, but teenagers will do too. It must be happy, cute, fun, and crafty. [more inside]
What's an appropriate thank you gift for an otherwise discarded but big-ticket item?
What's an appropriate action in response to someone giving me their old car? [more inside]
Slideshow in search of background music
I have the pictures. I need the music. Help me find some cc or public domain music to accompany a photo montage. [more inside]
Political tourism in Beijing
What would be some "political tourism" things I could do with a few free days in Beijing? [more inside]
How do I quit my job?
I am terrible at quitting jobs. Please walk me through how I can actually quit, frame my quitting, and how to act in the meantime. [more inside]
Liberal Catholic Church In Houston? Is it possible?
Just moved to Houston; my girlfriend is looking for a Catholic church with liberal leanings - is that even possible? [more inside]
i end up feeling like an ignored puppy.
RelationshipFilter: Am I asking too much in asking for nonsexual, nonjokey/tickly affection? [more inside]
Car Broken Into: Worth Calling the Cops?
My car was broken into, but nothing of value was stolen. Any benefit
in calling the police? Or should I just fix the window and move on? [more inside]
Why aren't websites usually patented?
"I have an idea for a website." Why am I not patenting it? [more inside]
The man wore glasses.
Suddenly many people on earth disappeared in a bright light. A man had to cross the country to get back home, searching for his daughter. [more inside]
Looking for recommendations similar to "Covert Affairs"
As a mid-20s female, I find USA's "Covert Affairs" to be an empowering, fun show to watch. Please recommend me more movies/TV shows/media with fun, feminine-but-not-overly-sexualized women who are accomplished and achieving their goals. [more inside]
Songs for a 1st birthday video
Songs for a 1st birthday video! [more inside]
Best Online / Cloud Training Log
Best Online / Cloud Training Log [more inside]
What both sucks and blows while at the same time doing neither?
Sugesstions for synonym/alternative expression to "that sucks"? [more inside]
Seeking 70 music lists
Looking to reassemble the 'soundtrack of my life' from about 1970-1974. [more inside]
Did anyone cover Luna's song Lost in Space?
Did anyone cover Luna's Lost in Space? Asking for my husband: He swears he heard a cover of Luna's Lost in Space somewhere. Maybe Pandora, maybe a car commercial, maybe the radio- he really doesn't remember, but it's driving him crazy. [more inside]
How can I get back to doing old-fashioned activities that don't involve the internet?
How can I get back to doing old-fashioned activities that don't involve the internet? [more inside]
Latenight food purgatory in East County
Seeking all night restaurant in San Diego with specific requirements. [more inside]
Using credit card in Paris
Don't know my Visa credit card PIN and I'm going to Paris today -- will I be able to use my credit card in France without knowing my PIN?
Reccomendations for accessible French texts for a hobbiest literary translator.
Recommend litetary French texts for beginner translation. [more inside]
Giving my 11yo niece the sex talk - what to say?
Suggestions on giving 11.5 yo girl the "sex talk"? snowflake details inside [more inside]
Chilis for Breakfast
Breakfast dishes that involve chili? [more inside]
How to take these photos.
How does one take photos like these? [more inside]
ESL Cooking. Not for the feint of heart.
Looking for very simple recipes for a class. [more inside]
The Sahel awaits.
Where online can I purchase a reasonably authentic tagelmust (or ask someone to do so)? All I've come up with are the westernized French knockoffs from high-end boutiques...and this.
What games are like this one my mum can't play anymore?
I'm looking for a variant on an old computer game that my mum can't play any more [more inside]
July 15
Cure this earworm.
What is this dark, synth/EBM goth club song? [more inside]
Me Talk Pretty (Japanese) Someday
Can you give me strategy and tactics for maximizing my spoken Japanese interactions, towards the goal of language ability, while in Japan? Those of you who have reached exceptional/native-level fluency speaking, can you give me some tips, and share your experiences of the things that helped the most along the way, in terms of speaking ability? [more inside]
Why was RAW's Schrödinger's Cat trilogy cut?
Was there ever an official explanation for why Robert Anton Wilson's Schrödinger's Cat trilogy was significantly cut when it was republished in single-volume form? (I can think of several possible explanations, but what I'm looking for is explanations that came from the publisher, RAW himself, etc.)
Medical Insurance confusion!
Help me figure out study abroad medical and travel insurance! Thoroughly confused by all the insurance jargon [more inside]
Islands in the stream
Why won't instantwatcher open up the movie? [more inside]
Tattoo of Shame- Help me find a cover-up image/artist
[Tattoo Mistake Filter] Please feel free to laugh. I've heard it a lot over the past 20 years. Got horrible tattoo almost 20 years ago while underage and over-served, and am seeking advice/recommendation of a Massachusetts based tattoo artist who can cover it. Snowflakes and laughable picture inside. [more inside]
How can I get my data off this cell phone?
Is there a way to get data off my cell phone, which does not fully boot? How? [more inside]
$700 laptop for grandpa that does *not* have a glossy screen?
$700 laptop for grandpa that does *not* have a glossy screen? [more inside]
How to prevent companies from snooping into my web searches?
Soo...I was doing a search on buses that run to Vegas and the next day, I get email from a couple of Groupon style websites I subscribe to toting their discounts on Vegas bus rides. Note that I did not enter my email address anywhere during my previous search. Coincidence? I think not. How did they make the connection and how can I prevent this type of internet sleuthing by companies?
How does one cultivate genuine gratitude?
How do I cultivate gratitude for my wife, without feeling like I'm sucking up to her or giving-in to her? [more inside]
Chicago hotel recommendation
My SO is going to a conference in Chicago next week; unfortunately the convention-rate block at the conference hotel is full for the first night, and she's not terribly mobile right now (on crutches). She's looking for recommendations for a hotel from which it's easy to get to the Hyatt Regency. [more inside]
My first new car!
I am getting my first brand-new car in a couple of weeks. What should I do? [more inside]
is it okay to keep two kittens together during "extended" socialization?
will keeping siblings from the same litter together past the initial socialization be detrimental to their full socialization? [more inside]
Help me dress with some personality in intense heat and humidity!
Any suggestions for ways to be a bit more stylish that are comfortable in high humidity, 80-90 degree weather? [more inside]
Another long-shot song question
Please help me find a song with very little details [more inside]
Laptop battery troubles
Follow up to previous question....4yo Dell Inspiron laptop suddenly giving me the old "Plugged in but not charging" routine. Froze the battery for a day but no luck. So I bought a nice new one from Amazon that charged right up and worked for a week. No this one is giving me the same message. Any ideas? Or a place to turn to troubleshoot things? Any help would be appreciated.
ROTC and graduate school at the same time?
Is it reasonable to join ROTC while getting an MPP? [more inside]
What was that crime novel that used carmageddon as a plot point
What-was-that-book-filter: 70's or 80's (?) heist (?) novel that involved shutting down L.A. by closing a couple of freeways and the central telephone switching system. [more inside]
Android calendar replacement with iCal support?
Help me find an Android calendar that can import my Google Calendar and non-Google iCal feeds! If you don't, my friends are going to kill me, because I keep double-scheduling things! [more inside]
Cheap/fast replacement glasses lenses near San Francisco?
Cheap replacement glasses lenses in the Bay Area? [more inside]
How to donate human embryos?
How to go about donating IVF human embryos to science? [more inside]
Processing monthly donations
Our environmental non-profit in Portland, Oregon receives a small portion of its revenue from recurring (monthly) contributions drawn via direct deposit. Recently, the bank we used to administer this account was acquired by another institution and started charging over a hundred bucks per month just to keep the account open. We shut the account down but are still looking for a reasonable alternative. If at all possible we'd like to avoid paying high administrative costs for the service and processing payments manually (since we'd most likely have to keep donors' account numbers in the office).
I'm open to new ideas, and thanks in advance!
What's the best soccer bar in the DC area to watch Uruguay and Argentina in the Copa America?
What's the best soccer bar in the DC area to watch Uruguay and Argentina in the Copa America? [more inside]
How to resize a Windows 7 window to access bottom buttons
How do I access the bottom buttons of the RAW image editor in Photoshop Elements? The window is too wide, and can't be resized to fit my screen in Windows 7. [more inside]
Lightning Fixed My Landline. Really?
Could a bolt of lightning have fixed my landline? [more inside]
Pilas de Mierda
I have a portable rechargeable amplifier that was custom built for me when I was in Peru, it no longer makes sounds when unplugged, although an LED lights up. When plugged in to the wall, it emits sounds. [more inside]
Help Me See Where the Heck I'm Going
Is there a good solution for putting smartphone and its GPS in (preferably waterproof) view on my bike? My Google Fu is failing me.
FYI, We Need to Fix Our HDMI
Who can repair a broken HDMI cable? Way TMI re: HDMI inside. [more inside]
What noise disrupts In a Silent Way?
What's that noise in Miles Davis's "Shhh: Peaceful" from "In A Silent Way"? [more inside]
How can I get a Sansa MP3 player to recognize folders?
How can I get a Sansa MP3 player to recognize folders? Using the MSC option, it is recognized as a virtual drive and I can copy MP3 files (podcasts) to its podcasts folder, but it seems to disregard the subfolders I have created under that folder. This is for a new Clip, but it does the same thing (if I remember correctly) on my Fuze.
I've gotta have a gimmick
I have a very small side job as a face painter. I need a name and maybe a 'gimmick'. [more inside]
Does kissing feel different after years together?
I know that familiarity with a long-term partner plays a part, but I'm curious: for those of you who have been with the same person for 5+ years, do you find that when you kiss passionately, it doesn't have the same melty zing, even if you're very attracted? I was recently thinking back over all of my previous relationships, and realized they were so short that I never had much of a chance to experience change. I'm female, late twenties, and engaged to an awesome, sexy guy. But I noticed a shift in how I feel about kissing. It's enjoyable, it makes me feel connected, but I get turned on a whole lot slower. Kissing used to be my go-to for instant "voom."
Nice hem! Now get back to work.
How are eShakti's seamstresses treated? [more inside]
What does a pigeon look like?
I got curious about this after reading a blog article on pigeons and face recognition. What colors does a pigeon see in other pigeons? I see pigeons with white, black, and grey bands and patches, sometimes with iridescence in the neck. The wikipedia entry for bird vision says they have pentachromatic vision. [more inside]
Carless overheated woman seeks lake swimming near NYC
Swimming places slightly out of New York City for the carless? [more inside]
What's the best knitting app for the iphone?
What's the best knitting app for the iphone? [more inside]
iPad, you say? Looks like a little teevee to me, sonny.
My next task at work is to turn one of our existing web applications into an iPad app. Help me get to the point where I know where to start. [more inside]
Hello, Slush Pile! I've kinda missed you
What is it like editing a literary magazine in the age of the internet? [more inside]
The finest of Seventies rock
Mid- to late Seventies rock music wanted. I'd like to put together a recherché sampler while avoiding the well-worn tunes. If there's a good compilation already out there, so much the better. Thanks!
Where can I find a reusable water bottle with a small mouth?
Where can I find a reusable water bottle with a small mouth? [more inside]
Adult beginner soccer training/camps in the U.S.?
Adult beginner soccer training/camps in the U.S.? I'm a relatively new player (started a couple of years ago). I play on a couple of teams, but as fun as games are they're just not the best way to develop basic skills; I really need a structured practice environment and feedback. I'm considering going to this camp, but I'm wondering if there's anything similar in the U.S. (Google turns up a bunch of camps for kids, but very few for adults, and even fewer for adult beginners.) West Coast would be best, but I'm willing (obviously) to travel further afield if need be.
If you see one of these chairs, BUY IT, they are the best.
I have access to the best chairs in the world, but so far as I know there are only four of them. Can anyone help me find more of these fabulous springy outdoor chairs, probably from the mid-20th century? Details inside. [more inside]
Where should we go to appreciate Prince Edward Island?
What should an Anne of Green Gables superfan (but a gimmicky tourist stuff anti-fan) do for a weekend on Prince Edward Island? [more inside]
Post-Kipling, Pre-Independence
I'm looking for anything - websites, nonfiction, fiction - that would give me an idea of what daily life was like for the British in India in the first half of the 20th century. [more inside]
What are some good sounding portable MP3 players that aren't iPods?
What are some good sounding portable MP3 players that aren't iPods? What will you recommend? [more inside]
What Do You Wish Sitcom Producers Knew?
In order to create an original show, I turn now to the Hive Mind. Please share with me your preferences and help me find the common threads and elements linking the best sitcoms to ever be broadcast! [more inside]
Food + fun in Bemidji, MN?
Heading to Bemidji this weekend for a wedding. Looking for vegetarian-friendly restaurants, places with good beer on tap, interesting landmarks/outdoor areas (I already know about Paul Bunyan). Any ideas?
I want cheap Chinese plastic nosepads for my expensive Danish glasses.
I want cheap Chinese plastic nosepads for my expensive Danish glasses. [more inside]
What to do in Watertown, NY?
Where should we stay and what should we do in Watertown, New York tonight? My wife and I unexpectedly find ourselves with a child-free night in Watertown this evening. Is there a certain area where we could enjoy some nightlife? We tend to like pubs/dive bars more than the club scene. Ideally we would find a place that has a few bars within walking distance to a hotel. Does this even exist in Watertown? We're also open to other non-bar suggestions. Thanks!
A series of blog posts about a book predicting future gadgets...
Does anyone remember a blog that went through and commented on a book published in the early 90s about the future of personal gizmos? Each section of the book featured a handheld gadget that was "coming soon," and each blog entry looked into what happened to it and why it did or didn't take off in the two decades since the book was published. [more inside]
ugh.
my low self esteem is hurting my relationship. I am in therapy, but need fast fixes/amelioration and ways to reduce the burden on my partner while I pursue longterm change. [more inside]
What is the best reading order for the Song of Ice and Fire?
What is the best reading order for George R.R. Martin's Song of Ice and Fire? (no spoilers, please!) [more inside]
Postponing College
I'm a 21 year old college sophomore who's as independent as a fourteen year old. I'm thinking about rectifying this by dropping out and taking up a trade or technical degree, then going back once I'm established. [more inside]
Kindle 2 in France
Will the experimental web browser on a U.S. purchased (and U.S. registered) Kindle 2 work in France and Belgium? [more inside]
Is it possible for a former junkie family member to act like a normal human?
How do recovering/recovered junkies behave? Replete with juicy, depressing details. [more inside]
Where did I see this cartoon?
Where did I see this cartoon and can I find it online? [more inside]
That was one good BBQ
What makes a BBQ enjoyable for you? I’m hosting a medium-sized BBQ and want to make it great. Advice, please! [more inside]
A Little Something Special at the End
Looking for songs with something special (spoken words, sound effects, etc.) at the end. [more inside]
Extraterrestrials but inside the solar system?
I'm interested in reading (or listening, viewing etc.) speculative science essays or hard science fiction that postulates complex, extraterrestrial life within our solar system. [more inside]
Guess I'll live in the upstairs closet
How to DIY or get management to finally get rid of these friggin roaches that come up through the drains? [more inside]
How does health insurance work while on disability?
If someone goes on disability, do they have to go on COBRA or do they keep their company insurance? My uncle was diagnosed with Stage 4 liver cancer yesterday. I am trying to do research about how health insurance works when one is severely ill. [more inside]
Possible Single Mom.
20 years old, pregnant, no longer with the father and he doesn't know yet. I need advice. [more inside]
Mmm.. yummy aluminum paint!
Mefites, did mice really try to eat the paint off my can of carbonated caffeine and supposed energy-inducing supplements? [more inside]
What are some great A and B side 45s.
Help me fill my jukebox with records. What are some great A and B side 45s. [more inside]
She's not my "ladyfriend".
Isn't it odd to call someone your "girlfriend" who you wouldn't call a "girl"? [more inside]
Linux for a 2007 MacBook Pro?
What version of Linux should I consider dual booting on my MacBook Pro? [more inside]
Second Grade Teaching Resources?
I'm used to fourth graders - what are the best resources to prepare for my first time teaching second grade? [more inside]
Your shower stall advice, please
We want to get rid of our clawfoot tub and replace it with a prefab shower stall/enclosure. [more inside]
Help me understand what my small business network needs
I'm trying to set up a small business computer network and I need some help in clarifying what I need. Although we will be hiring a network person to help us set things up, I'm hoping the hive mind can help me understand the basics so I can figure out what equipment we will need. [more inside]
Please, sir, can I have some more?
How do I effectively ask for more work to do? [more inside]
Looks like it’s our turn for a run-in with that new modern rite of passage: the bed bug.
We are staying at an off-strip suites hotel in Las Vegas. Found bed bugs after our first night, and after an initially good response, we're concerned we're going to get the run-around from the hotel. Additional complications with pregnancy and chemicals mean that we need to be sure we're bug free without poisoning our little one, but I don't think the hotel has the same priorities... [more inside]
All you need is one...
I just want a WordPress plug-in that can display a slideshow of photos. No drama, no fuss, no need to make 13,000 choices. Bonus points for ability to go full-screen if the user chooses. [more inside]
Will Three Sessions Be Enough?
Will 3 sessions of IPL (intense pulsed light) hair removal be enough to be satisfactory on my underarms? [more inside]
Livret A?
Transferring savings into euros for a guaranteed interest rate? Is the risk on conversion and inflation worth it? [more inside]
"People ask you for criticism, but they only want praise."
How do I deal with criticism from a friend? How do I ensure that said criticism is meant to be constructive and not just spiteful? [more inside]
Help me recall a particular photographer in/around DC?
Hi guys. Years ago, I was considering having some..."adult" photos done. I was so enamored of the work of one photographer that I was considering a trip to DC to have them done. (I am in NC.) I am thinking about it again, but can't recall the name of the photographer. Does anyone have any ideas as to who it may have been? Clues inside... [more inside]
Is Harry Potter for us?
Mrs & I are not fans of the Harry Potter books or movies, but this last movie is getting rave reviews so please advise us if we will enjoy it without knowing much of what went before. We know it is about the struggle of good vs evil.
We enjoy other fantasy movies (LOTR, Avatar etc.). Does it start with a synopsis?
Where can I find a blind, deaf or disabled kitten in the UK?
Where can I find a blind, deaf or disabled kitten in the UK? [more inside]
How to deal with being essentially ignored on Facebook?
How can I deal with my frustrations about my Facebook profile in a productive way? [more inside]
The five fingers of the law
I had a package misclassified by Australian Customs and seized on that basis. I can apply for its release but apparently they are forced to sue me if I do so. Wtf? [more inside]
y rose to x from x-δ
Why does the New York Times write "unemployment rose to 10% from 5%" rather than "unemployment rose from 5% to 10%"? I trip over this formulation and have to go back and reread the clause every time. Is the goal to increase clarity of avoid confusion in some way? How so? This doesn't seem to be standard American English, and it's certainly not usual in the UK. [more inside]
I'll translate all the internets, you'll see!
Show me websites, freeware or other stuff that needs free translation, the more convenient the better. [more inside]
Seperating Interlocked Rings
Consider two rings that are intertwined. (These lie in 3-dimensional space, but when you draw it on paper it looks like a venn diagram.) In 3-dimensional space they cannot be unlinked. The questions is, if you had one more dimension, can you unlink them?
July 14
Where in San Francisco did I eat dim sum in the early 1990s?
Help me find the San Francisco Dim Sum restaurant of my childhood memories. Barring that, what is a decent weekday morning dim sum option in or near Chinatown? [more inside]
The aftermath
What are the best books (or book chapters) on the end of WW2 in Germany -- and particularly the chaos of the immediate post-war period (1945-46)? [more inside]
Where can I find a modern denim jacket?
DeminFilter: Help me find a slick jean jacket! [more inside]
Help me plan a leisurely, kid-friendly trip from Adelaide to Sydney
Help me plan a leisurely, kid-friendly trip from Adelaide to Sydney [more inside]
What can a vegetarian eat in the French Quarter of New Orleans?
I am going to New Orleans on business. I will be on the edge of the French Quarter and am looking for restaurants that serve at least one vegetarian dish, preferably in or near the French Quarter. Cheap is not required and in fact for many meals higher end would be preferable. [more inside]
Great Gift for Great Dad
Woodworkers of MetaFilter: could you suggest a woodworking gift for my dad? [more inside]
NYC Divorce lawyer
I'm looking for a good divorce lawyer in NYC. [more inside]
Brother and I are suffering from mysterious tonsil stones
My brother and I are afflicted by tonsil stones (Tonsiliths) Please help us discover the cause and solution. [more inside]
How can I improve my nannying situation?
I've gotten myself into a nanny situation that I don't want to be in and need advice. [more inside]
A longing to be in Wales
A longing for something you already have, or a mourning for the transience of a moment when you are still in that moment. Lend me a word for this feeling. [more inside]
I want to run up the stairs
Are there stair climbing marathons and how do I learn about signing up for them?
Preparing data for Cohen's Kappa in SPSS
Statistics Filter: help me set up my coding data to calculate Cohen's Kappa as a measure of interrater reliability. Taking data from CAT to SPSS. [more inside]
Help me name a small business!
Help with a name for a business selling beaded, metal (silver, copper) jewelry? [more inside]
Help me figure out a song title
Songfilter: need help finding an (obscure to me) song [more inside]
Help a Canadian iPhone travel to the US.
My SO will be traveling to the US (from Canada) for six weeks, starting this weekend. Help us figure out an iPhone solution so we can stay in touch. [more inside]
Magical fingerprints
What is this optical effect? It looks like it's transmitting my fingerprints through plastic, but only the fingerprints. [more inside]
Send casual Friday down the laundry chute
I just started consulting. I wore suits all week. The workplace dress code is on the casual end of business casual. But I want to wear suits! Can I? [more inside]
Where on internet post house for sale for kayak
Where would you post an advert for a house for sale in Princeton which would have great appeal for a kayaker or naturalist?
Help me plan a trip to Colombia--especially tips on trekking El Cocuy
I want to hike in El Cocuy, Colombia next month, but I need to figure out some details. Have you been there? Can you help? [more inside]
Y U No Like EE?
Why would my allergist dismiss a possible diagnosis of eosinophilic esophagitis? [more inside]
Help us fix the pain in the neck
The partner has two herniated discs in his neck C6/C7, as well as some disc bulges. Have you have success with treatment for the same problem in the same area? If so, what was it? [more inside]
criminals in space sounds good... as long as it's not LEXX.
Would I like "Blake's 7"? Where should I start watching? [more inside]
Zero Mosel
I would love help planning a two day / one night trip down the Mosel River in Germany. [more inside]
Don't go away mad (but please go away! for a few minutes! so I can work!)
Is there a technique / piece of ancient wisdom / secret phrase that (a) will get overzealous office conversationalists to back off, and (b) won't leave them mortally offended (or that at least will help me avoid Things Getting Weird in the workplace or elsewhere I have to interact with the same people regularly)? [more inside]
Quote
Looking for a quote! Its something along the lines of "keep it short and simple" or "1 page of quality writing is better than 10" (obviously more eloquently worded) I Think it was Wilde or Poe but my google-fu has failed me [more inside]
Milwaukee Pancakes neighborhood cafes/bistros
Pancakes and neighborhood bistro/cafe/restaurant in Milwaukee. Quite specific inside. You have never let me down (recommendations in Philly outstanding) [more inside]
Food suggestions for my cross country travel route
Next week I will begin a motorcycle tour traveling across the United States for 22 days covering nearly 12,000 miles while hitting 38 states and even some of Canada. My days will consist of 3 of some my favorite activities: Motorcycle riding, sleeping and eating. If I only get one chance for a meal in a city, I would prefer for MeFites to direct me on where it should be rather than a billboard. [more inside]
Why is my child selectively affectionate with family members?
Why is my three year old opposed to affection from certain family members, including his father? Is this typical for his age? Is there anything I can do to make this situation better? [more inside]
How to clean a water bottle with a black cap?
I have a water squeeze-bottle on my bike. It has a black cap/drinking-assembly and I'm concerned that it might get really gross under there without me ever knowing about it. How should I clean it? Should I just get a different bottle?
Holes. Goddamned holes.
Saw disturbing images over a month ago. Still disturbed/unsettled. Any techniques or ideas for scrubbing my brain? [more inside]
What are these car reflector things?
Triangular reflector on a metal bar hanging from the left side of a car's bumper (Pics: Car 1, Car 2). What's it for? [more inside]
Bike routes and travel tips from Vancouver, BC to Portland, OR
I'm looking for advice on bike routes and bike-on-train travel tips from Vancouver, BC to Portland, OR [more inside]
Refrigerator repair or reefer madness?
My refrigerator runs too long, methinks. What might be the problem, and would it be madness to try to fix it ourselves? [more inside]
Good short prose samples on the web?
Are there any websites with large collections of exquisite examples of prose? [more inside]
$200 Key for a jeep liberty --options
My wife broke the hole (I don't know how else to say it) off of her key for our 2005 Jeep Liberty. A replacement costs $200. The perfect answer would involve some kind of leather pouch that the key would fit in which would then attach to a key ring. I'm open to other ideas though. The better ideas will be much less than $200.
How to help a young girl with leukemia, and her parents
Suggestions for how to help out with a family dealing with a brand new Leukemia diagnosis? [more inside]
How can I end the therapy hour more easily?
How do you transition out of therapy at the end of the hour? [more inside]
Autism self-awareness: how and when to expain to autistic child that they are different?
For autistic mefites or parents of children on the spectrum: When did you (or your child) gain self-awareness of being autistic? How did that awareness change things? [more inside]
They've got a lot going on...
How to stop being distracted with what other people are doing [more inside]
Not having an immune system is frightening.
Household tips for the immunocompromised? [more inside]
Looking for a cheap multifunction laser printer for Mac
Looking for a low cost multifunction laser printer compatible with a Mac [more inside]
Like boot camp, but drunker
I am looking for a combo fitness retreat/all inclusive resort. Does such a thing exist? [more inside]
When did bands start picking non-descriptive names?
When did bands start using arbitrary non-descriptive names, e.g., "The Hollies" instead of descriptive names like "John Phillip Sousa and His Orchestra" or "The Fisherville Cornet Band"? [more inside]
What budgeting software do bi-weekly earners use?
Help me find a simple budgeting software that knows how to handle bi-weekly income and spending. [more inside]
migrated mac either boots flawlessly or not at all
Macfilter:
I have an iMac G5 with osx 10.3.9 that would fail soon after startup because of bad capacitors. I ordered a used replacement running osx 10.5, which booted up fine (the first time) and I was able to transfer all my files and programs from old to newish using target disk mode and migration assistant. After migration the programs worked but when I tried to reboot the new(er) iMac would power down immediately after or sometimes during the initial start. Nothing is displayed. About one in 15 tries boots up normally. I'll try the hardware test the next time I get it to boot, but this problem seems unlike others i have read about. Any ideas?
Growing with Autism
So my autistic son is now 9 years old. How do I (a 5'0" woman) stop him (a 4'6" tornado) from physically harming me? [more inside]
How do I deal with an explosive worker?
I got out of a freelance client meeting last night and I'm still shaken up about it. A coworker was visibly furious with me, and I'm still not understanding what the hell happened. I want to know what my next moves should be. [more inside]
So I guess I'll be out of a job, huh?
Can I ask (demand?) work give me a promotion/transfer? [more inside]
Where in the Pacific Northwest should I ask her to marry me?
Next week, my girlfriend (fiance, soon!) and I are driving from Oakland up to Portland and I'm going to ask her to marry me. She knows this already, but doesn't know when or where along the trip. So, I'm wondering if you local yokels can give me some ideas about when to go for it. [more inside]
Object moved to here?
What the heck is going on with my web access today? DNS issues? Mysteries within... [more inside]
Help us with a girl's name?
My husband and I are expecting our first baby, a girl, in less than 3 months. Please help us with the name! [more inside]
Los Angeles sex therapy
Recommendations for a gay male sex therapist in the west side of Los Angeles to deal with problems of sexual inadequacy and (in particular) psychologically-based erectile dysfunction in a 24-year-old male. Sliding fee scale a major plus.
CPAP mask and facial markings
Have you experienced facial discoloration from using CPAP? [more inside]
Affordable alternatives for hip modern duvet covers
[duvetfilter] I found a duvet cover that I really like. There's just one thing... [more inside]
loose and airy womens shirt that isn't shapeless?
women shirt filter: I'm looking for shirts that are loose and airy - but here's the catch - don't leave me shapeless. [more inside]
Fix my NPR podcast feed
My NPR playlist's podcast feed no longer works. Any idea why? [more inside]
Gotta catch em' all (in San Francisco)
Compile me a list of all the small, unique things to see in San Francisco. [more inside]
Not really a fashion victim, but...
Stuck in Phoenix, seeking pool..
Travel-snafu-filter... I'm going to be in Phoenix, AZ for about 5 hours between flights today - is there a good place to hang out near the airport? In the best of all possible worlds it would involve an outdoor pool and some drinks :)
Seeking advice on negotating with current employers when another offer is on the table.
I'd prefer a bidding war, but I'll take a better job: Looking for advice on getting another offer while employed. [more inside]
Where can I go fly a kite in or near Oakville, Ontario?
Where can I go fly a kite in or near Oakville, Ontario? I'd like to take my kids out to fly a kite. I've tried it at several fields and parks near my home, but they tend to be surrounded by too many tall trees to keep a consistent wind, and it's been frustrating for all of us. Is there a "go to" place in the area for kite enthusiasts?
My kingdom for a couch (that could fit through the entrance)
I just moved into a dream wonderful "garden apartment" in a brownstone. The only downside is that it has an entryway that forces you to make a u-turn to get into the apartment. Normally, not a problem.
But we need to buy a couch. A regular sized, real, adult persons not-dormroom style nice couch. And there's no way anybody could possibly maneuver one into here.
Is there any places that sell couches that are nice but also can be partially disassembled? Even if just the arms could be taken off it would be great. [more inside]
Is going to Angkor Wat for me?
Everyone keeps telling me to go to Angkor Wat, but it just doesn't seem that interesting to me. Is it really as life changing and amazing as everyone makes it out to be? [more inside]
So long old life! How to I really put it all behind me?
What suggestions do you have for helping me put the past in a box and filing it away? [more inside]
Tips and tricks for making and achieving long-term goals
How to set and achieve long-term goals? [more inside]
This is just more than I know how to deal with on my own.
My girlfriend is pregnant. We're keeping it. Now what? (Advice and encouragement requested.) [more inside]
writing down our life together
What is the best paper notebook? I want something in which to make a single entry per year, for many years. [more inside]
Gift to wow a 6yr old girl and help her temporarily forget about her broken leg
What might be a great gift (0-$300 budget) for a 6yr old girl who will be stuck in a leg cast for the rest of the summer?
Pixie in need of hair goo
I just got a super short pixie cut. Please to recommend some hair goo. Specifics inside. [more inside]
Where to backpack with 2 weeks to get from Barcelona to Istanbul?
I have 2 weeks to kill in which I'd like to backpack from Barcelona to Istanbul (not including the time in those cities). What's the best places to see / best way to get from one to the other? [more inside]
controlling internet assets
How does a company keep control of its internet assets (domain, website content etc)? [more inside]
My vector file has a dual personality
I have a logo in both .ai and .eps formats. It looks mostly right when placed into a comp, but part of it has a solid white background behind it.
However, when I directly open either of the files in Illustrator, a large portion of the image is missing. It seems like the portion that's missing may well be the section with the white background. [more inside]
Two Cats + 3,000 miles + 4 wheels = ?
We're sending our two cats on a cross-country road trip. Who should they go with? [more inside]
The Laws of Soccer
During the USA world cup match yesterday a French player knocked the ball out of Hope Solo's hand when Hope was looking for a player up field to send the ball to.
I saw a similar play in a different match where a player was yellow carded for doing this. What do the laws actually say about a player doing that to a GK?
Really, I'm just waiting for The Protomen to do this.
Music videos are a dime a dozen. However, it's pretty rare for an entire album to be made into a single video with a coherent narrative. What are some examples of this? [more inside]
Crown Heights for real now.
Crown Heights, Brooklyn II: a few weeks ago, I asked this. Answers were helpful. I've now signed a lease for an apartment in Crown Heights and will be moving in early August. It would be useful if you could give me tips and hints about living in my new neighborhood. [more inside]
How can I get a list of Mac specific terminal commands?
How can I get a list of Mac OS X-specific terminal commands, which is to say, those that are specific to Mac, like 'defaults write' or 'open'?
Help with San Francisco lodging
I am helping to plan a trip to San Francisco in September for a doctor from Kenya, for a conference. All the cheaper hotel rooms bought in a block by the conference organizers are taken. Where can he stay relatively cheaply that's not too far from (or too complicated to travel to) the Moscone Center?
Negotiation letters - how to be firm yet polite to get what you want.
How to word a letter (email) negotiating compensation I want from an author who sold my copyrighted work? Details inside. [more inside]
How far back does my résumé need to go?
The first few years of my work history aren't really related to my current career path. Can I leave them off my résumé? [more inside]
Non-profit organization
Help me start a non-profit [more inside]
How to rent commercial space in Sweden??
Need advice on the commercial real estate market in Sweden (Stockholm specifically...) [more inside]
Help me prototype my fashion accessory idea!
I have an idea for a design for a fashion accessory (made of cloth or leather) -- but no idea how to make a prototype or manufacture it. Help! [more inside]
Need Sipdroid VOIP equivalent for the iPad 2
Looking for Android Sipdroid VOIP equivalent for the iPad 2? More inside... [more inside]
Tehran in the Autumn?
Any recent visitors to Tehran? [more inside]
Short term car usage while travelling in the US
What is the best option for getting a car for four months while on vacation in the US? [more inside]
Looking for family-focused memoirs
I'm reading (and really enjoying) The Glass Castle, and my wife and are about to have our first kid. What other memoirs or non-fiction books should I read that focus on parenting, raising kids in unorthodox ways, or just plain unique families?
Crowdsourcing design work for a film poster?
I'm needing some film poster design work done; does anyone have suggestions for crowdsourcing? I used to see ads for a service where you paid a flat fee and got a large number of submissions from various designers (maybe $250 for 100 submissions or something?), then could purchase one of the designs for another amount. Does anyone else remember seeing that service advertise on Facebook? I can't find it now.
Things to do in 5 days in Cappadocia
We'll be heading to Cappadocia for 5 days the last week of August/first week of September. The usual Mefi vacation planning help requested. [more inside]
Scary Clown!
Can you help identify this (link to my tumblr post) "scary clown" picture please? I'd like to find the photographer & full size image details hopefully... [more inside]
What jobs pay well and don't need a degree in the U.S.?
Please suggest possible jobs in the U.S. for a British person without a 4-year University degree, but who has A-levels and over 7 years of investigative, analytical, classified material, and management experience in the Police. [more inside]
Completely lost my motivation to do what I love, what happened and how do I get it back?
A few years ago I used go through a book in a day, was drawing constantly, writing for fun and was becoming halfway decent at the guitar. Now I can barely get around to reading the first chapter, haven't even written a page nor drawn anything in the last few years and my guitar has been gathering dust. What happened to me and how do I get my mojo back? [more inside]
3g for a short stay in LA?
Temporary (1 week) 3g or wireless internet in California? [more inside]
Pet miscarriage
Pet miscarriage. More detail inside.. [more inside]
July 13
Should I just go as Metallica? Ideas needed for 1981-themed fancy dress!
Fancy dress party with a 1981 theme and I need help thinking of an idea! Bonus points for extremely cheap, clever or fun costumes. [more inside]
How to raise capital in China?
How can my Hong Konger friend find some money/investors for his rapidly growing fabric company as soon as possible in China? [more inside]
How to give readers the best info?
The best way to promote *accessible* quality products without putting the smaller businesses at a disadvantage or sacrificing site traffic? [more inside]
Configuring a cisco router using command line interface...
Help me configure my CISCO 877 router... [more inside]
Pierce or repierce?
My ears were pierced about 20 years ago. I stopped wearing earrings about 4 years ago. My left ear is still fine but the hole in the right has partially closed up. Best way to proceed? [more inside]
Where will I find the best experiences in Brisbane?
I am about to spend the weekend in Brisbane, Australia. What can I do for fun? Where is the good coffee? What are the good restaurants? Quirky shops...? We won't have a car and are staying in the city. Open to all your suggestions.
Thank you.
How do I avoid slacking off at work?
How do I avoid slacking off at work? [more inside]
What should I look out for in a shareholders agreement?
I am co-owner of a (very) small company, and the lead owner's attorney has prepared a shareholders agreement that I'll be reviewing this week. While I expect it to be a standard document and possibly even a standard form, I still want to be aware of what I'm signing. What are some key provisions I should look out for? [more inside]
I wasn't even good at asking my dad for my allowance, for cripe's sake.
I have the reverse problem of most startups... within two years I built a solid and unique brand, with a high media profile and street cred, proven content and products, and a passionate audience of over 240,000 people and growing. But although people congratulate me daily on my success I'm literally exhausted and starving. People circle me daily wanting to "sponsor" me, but I've found most of them want to make money *off* of me, not pay me and help me grow. Fact is, I'm accepting now that I just can't do it all by myself and I don't even WANT to... but I'm a victim of my own quick success. Without a staff and resources I can't expand, grow and monetize as I *need* to in order to meet the demand. [more inside]
How do I find the best surgeon?
How does a lay person go about finding the most experienced/skilled surgeon for a given procedure? [more inside]
How to quit being an unwilling asshole?
Tell me how to be yourself when your 'self' is terrible. [more inside]
What kind of helicopter is this?
What kind of helicopter is seen at the beginning of the 1967 Otto Preminger film Hurry Sundown? The movie is set in 1945 after the end of WWII, is this helicopter contemporary with that time?
Squirrel intruder!
A squirrel chewed through the window screen and broke into our apartment. How can we live with the windows open again? [more inside]
Need a Y-3CF 98040 shimano freewheel replacement
I need to buy a replacement freewheel body, but I can't find anywhere that stocks it online. Other than calling around to every local bike store in the Bay Area, where could I find one? [more inside]
How to make custom screensaver
How to make a custom screensaver for a client with clock, calendar and a banner system? [more inside]
A logo for the "other" МИФИ...?
Does anyone have a source for a nice big image of the logo for the Moscow Engineering Physics Institute? There's a vector version floating around, but I'd much prefer a large version of the original.
Hello New Zealand! Did you get that thing (email) I sent you?
I'm having problems with email delivery from Japan to NZ. Too many lost emails causing too many headaches. Any guesses why? [more inside]
Your favorite smooth and funky 90s R&B jams
What are your favorite smooth and funky 90s R&B jams? [more inside]
Atheist book with Alex Grey cover
Looking for a paperback with an Alex Grey painting on the cover. Subject is autobiographical, beginning with the author's experience of witnessing his grandfather's senility leading him to conclude that there is no soul. [more inside]
Where would Jack London eat?
Oakland, CA - dinner and lunch recommendations? [more inside]
What all inclusive resorts are there on the Pacific Coast?
All Inclusive Tropical Resorts on the Pacific Coast [more inside]
What happened to my brain? Is it too late for me to increase my intelligence?
Is it really possible for me, at 42, to increase my IQ/fluid intelligence/learning ability? [more inside]
Is this grammatically correct?
This sounds odd when I say it aloud, but I think grammatically it's correct. Or is it? "My and Kelly's favorite restaurant is Valentino's." Is there a better way to say that?
How can we stay physically close while his circumcision heals?
How can we stay physically close while his circumcision heals? [more inside]
This blog be yankin'
This "dissertation writing services" site has reposted a lengthy dissertation-related blog post of mine in its entirety (original post by me). What can I do? [more inside]
Book of nighttime skylines please?
Is there a comprehensive book of photographs of the nighttime skylines of either major US cities or major world cities?
LSAT instructor interview help
I have a phone interview tomorrow for an LSAT instructor position with a big testprep company. I am kind of worried about it and would appreciate any tips or help you can give me. [more inside]
I want to understand what constitutes a positive pregnancy experience... and how the health system can help.
I'd love your experience and advice on how to be a good practitioner of women's health in pregnancy. [more inside]
Chicken Jell-o, yum
What has happened to my cooked chicken? Strange transformation inside [more inside]
Help me find a quote about the historical imagination?
Help me find a quote about how people are reluctant to notice the effects of historical and/or social forces on their lives. [more inside]
Help me wade through this DSLR nonsense?
I'm looking to up my camera game. Help me wade through all of the nonsense and figure out what I want. [more inside]
What to give to the family that has nothing
A family in our community suffered the complete loss of everything they own in a fire recently. Mom, Dad, and 3 little boys got out unscathed but everything is gone. How to help? [more inside]
A little encouragement with rejection?
Rejection letters for job applicants -- personal note of encouragement? [more inside]
How to make high quality podcast doing interviews?
I'm starting a podcast where I will likely be interviewing people in their offices with different acoustic environments. I have a Zoom H2. Keeping it as simple as possible, exactly what techniques and software (on OS X) do I need to get the interview at a high level of audio quality, and make a high quality podcast out of it?
"First we are children to our parents, then parents to our children, then parents to our parents, then children to our children"
Who knows best for an aging parent? [more inside]
Drinking my lunch
How do I make healthy, filling juice to have as my entire lunch every day? 400-500 calories with all the protein and such that I need from lunch. [more inside]
Eye of Newt!
Can you help me determine the average size of the eye of a particular species of newt? Seriously. [more inside]
Drawings of America?
Please help me find that image of a map of The United States, composed from a bunch of smaller drawings of the United States, that shows how individuals perceive the shape of America, drawing from their minds-eye.
Tree identification help
I did the crime, but can't pay the fine.
I got caught on the SkyTrain (Vancouver) without a valid fare. Enter the $173 fine, which I can't really afford. I would love to hear about your experiences either disputing or flat out not paying a SkyTrain fine. [more inside]
How to find assessed value of a house
How can I find out the assessed value of my grandmother's house w/ out a lawyer?
Is this information in the public domain? [more inside]
What does a bivariate cubic polynomial look like?
What does a bivariate cubic polynomial look like? [more inside]
Save my sunflowers from the hungry moths!
Last year, tiny (moth?) larvae ate all my giant sunflowers. What can I do to prevent this from happening again this year? [more inside]
Ill Apron Strings
My mother doesn't take of her health at all, she ignores everyone's health advice when she has problems, and it's making me feel guilty and frustrated for not trying hard enough and not being able to support her. [more inside]
Knock Knock. Who's there? Wonder Woman's body! Is that it?
I'm looking for a kids joke that some how involves Wonder Woman's body, possibly as the punch line. All that is remembered is the following: "Knock Knock? Who's there? Wonder Woman's Body!" and laughter ensues. It was told by my sister-in-law in the 1980s when she was a wee one, so it might just be little kid humor, but I'm hoping there might be more to this joke.
Best book to learn about hiring employees or consultants
Can you recommend a book and best practices as to how to hire independent consultants or part time employees? [more inside]
Accountant recommendation for NY/NJ
I butchered my state income taxes in 2008. New Jersey caught on with an audit, and now I owe NJ a lot of money. I suspect that if I did the taxes correctly, almost all of that money (except for 3 years of interest :( ) would actually come from New York State. Having screwed it up once with Turbotax, I don't trust myself to get it right by hand. [more inside]
What chemistry software, books, etc. should I get with my grant?
What chemistry software, books, etc. should I get with my grant? [more inside]
Please help us figure out why she's suddenly afraid of places that weren't a problem before. But before "what", exactly?
Why would a 7 month old puppy suddenly develop a fear of her dedicated pee spots in our yard? [more inside]
How can I post to Metafilter if I can't see what I'm typing?
My monitor suddenly stopped getting a signal. I did some troubleshooting and don't think it's a problem with the monitor or cable. What's the next most likely culprit? [more inside]
What episode of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine was rerun on Spike TV on August 19, 2004?
What episode of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine was rerun on Spike TV on August 19, 2004? [more inside]
Affordable and romantic getaway near Asheville, NC?
A romantic and affordable place to stay in or around the Asheville, NC area? [more inside]
How to deal with back handed comments over daycare?
'But why would you have kids if you are just going to have somebody else (meaning daycare) raise them'?
The next time my neighbor offers up this little nugget of superority I'd like to have a snarky assed comment ready.. [more inside]
Should I be feeling upset/insecure about a change in my boyfriend's attitude towards certain sexual activities (NSFW)?
Should I be feeling upset/insecure about a change in my boyfriend's attitude towards certain sexual activities (NSFW)? [more inside]
Please save my pesto!
Why does my pesto sometimes stay a gorgeous green color and sometimes turn this horrible brown? [more inside]
Synthesizers on the home PC
Keyboardists: What is a good setup to go with if I want to buy a cheap vanilla polyphonic keyboard and some kind of software package that emulates one or more legendary synthesizers (Moogs, Vox Connie, Jupiters, DX-7, etc) with this keyboard on my Windows PC? Will I have to get a MIDI card or can I go with USB? Also are weighted keys worth it and what price point would these come in at? This is just for messing around at home and should be cheap... even eBay goods are fine. Thanks!
Don't understand people
I have a weird brain that needs fixing. Any recommendations for NHS advice/private psychiatric recommendations in London? [more inside]
She (wants to be) an Easy Lover.
How can I become a better lover? [more inside]
Bus/Train in St. Louis
St. Louis Transportation: Airport to Art Museum, bus/train an option? [more inside]
Elevensies in the Windy City
Most delicious brunches in Chicago? [more inside]
How to deposit a check made to a former corporation?
How can my friend deposit a check from the Department of Treasury that's made out to his dissolved LLC of which he was the sole owner? His bank has said they will not allow him to sign it over.
Gimp software bug
I'm using Gimp image editing software and loving it except whenever I type letters, numbers appear (always consecutive, no matter what the letter I'm typing). This happens when I try to type text in the image or when I try to save a file. It is only happening with Gimp. I've tried stripping the software out and reloading it, but nothing changed. I'm using Windows 7. Any suggestions?
Stinky hippie seeks odor control.
Do crystal/rock salt deodorants work? [more inside]
Tools for mixing food colors?
Are there any good online tools which give instructions on how to mix basic food colors to get more elaborate ones? [more inside]
East Coast Hockey Superstore?
Can anyone recommend an (ice) hockey superstore on the east coast of the states? [more inside]
Civil War History Road Trip (with teens) suggestions?
Two moms, three home-educated early-teen boys, planning a learning adventure for two weeks at the end of August. Driving north from South Florida, which civil war sites/events should we not miss? Also looking for great not-too-primitive tent camping. So far all we know for sure is that we want to check out Gettysburg. We want to make it educational, but awesome and fun for our not-too-fascinated kids. Your suggestions welcome!
Blue about Blurays.
Assuming Netflix refuses to yield to customer pressure and persists with its plan to raise prices across the board, what are our alternatives? [more inside]
Freelance Writing in the UK?
Any tips on starting a freelance writing career in the UK? [more inside]
Help me close my Deutsche Bank account.
What is the best way to close-out a Deutsche Bank account to dollars (US citizen)? I have a Bank of America account so that I could withdraw the cash from a BoA ATM in installments and then close the account but I am currently in Germany: would I lose anything by just dealing with the account while I am here? Bonus: Can I suspend the account at 0 balance so that it would be easier to re-open it?
What's it like when it's nice?
What are the nice aspects of becoming intimate with a "romantic partner"? What does it feel like when it's a healthy situation? Can you give me some examples of things that are nice about sharing your life in an intimate way with your partner? [more inside]
Two-person computer games?
I'm looking for two-person computer games for Mac whose main emphasis is on strategy / thinking / puzzle-solving, not fighting or socialising. [more inside]
Re-phrasing a difficult email to sound less intense / in-depending relationship doom and more of a no-pressure, open conversation?
Writing a heated *potential* breakup letter, what are some tips to effectively communicate with someone in difficult circumstances? [more inside]
July 12
from: solarion@explodingpastry.com
Is there any resources I could use for getting a custom email address (mail@business.com) cheaply/free? Features don't matter. [more inside]
I know the magnitude of my life vector and now I need direction
I've failed college and I don't feel like returning, at all. In fact, every single day I stay here seems like a waste. So, I might as well do what I was planning on graduation: Get as far away as possible and start over. Question is, where? [more inside]
Sweet scripty font that I would love to have!
I would love to know the name of this font. Whatthefont.com had no clue.
the ring came off my pudding can
Where can I find chocolate pudding in a can? The kind with the easy-to-open ring. [more inside]
Where to stay each night after a day's walking in Cornwall?
I am trying to organize a solo, self-guided walking trip to bits of coastal Cornwall for late August and am having trouble planning a 6- to 8-day itinerary that has me end a day's walk where there's budget accommodation like hostels/backpackers/campsites. [more inside]
IS British food really as bad as the rumors make it out to be?
IS British food really as bad as the rumors make it out to be? [more inside]
Pardon the bitching, but where's the itching?
Plenty of mosquitos, but there's something missing... the itch! [more inside]
Should we have flowers professionally done?
Help me choose what to do for flora at my wedding: do it ourselves, or pay more than we want to? [more inside]
Planning a trip, want a tech toy to "make it all easy"
Is there some kind of easy, intuitive, free trip-planner out there that goes beyond just "start here, end there?" [more inside]
Rafting Recommendations near Seattle?
Good recommendations for rafting companies/areas near Seattle? [more inside]
How to find affordable housing in Boston?
My mentally/emotionally/financially unstable parents are kicking me and my brother out of their house, leaving us to fend for ourselves in Boston. We need to find a really cheap place to live in greater Boston. Trying to come up with a plan. Help! [more inside]
Laptop-style keyboard for desktop?
Recommendations for a laptop-style keyboard for desktop? [more inside]
Diet question: What's the secret to increasing exercise, eating less, and feeling satisfied (not hungry)?
weight loss filter: how do you balance an increase in exercise (calorie burn) with a decrease of calorie intake without feeling really hungry all the time? [more inside]
=^.o^=
Following her final set of kitten vaccinations today, Olivia the Maine Coon has pupils that are not dilating at the same rate. Any ideas? [more inside]
Non-computer hobbies
Looking to pick up a hobby that doesn't involve computer use [more inside]
Calling All Swimmers
Injured runner who needs/wants to swim for exercise, but also wants to lose weight - looking for anecdotes about what effect swimming had on your appetite/weight loss. [more inside]
What video cameras record using a .mov format?
What video cameras will download their content to computers using a .mov format? [more inside]
What do you wish you knew before joining the iOS Developer Program?
What do you wish you knew before joining the iOS Developer Program? [more inside]
Lamb meatballs bound with hummus?
Can I bind lamb meatballs with hummus? [more inside]
Help me number my diss
In Microsoft Word (2008 for Mac), how do I get the first page number of each section to be centered at the bottom, and the subsequent page numbers to be in the top right-hand corner? [more inside]
How would you navigate No-Hire Agreements in your industry?
How would you navigate No-Hire Agreements in your industry? [more inside]
how to drive the monster from the throne
I've been coping with the realization that I've been struggling with depression for twenty years. Did you escape? How? And how did you reconcile with the time in your life that you had lost to it? [more inside]
Sincerity: If you can fake that, you've got it made
I often seem insincere to others, even when I am in earnest. I also sometimes feel disconnected from my feelings. Are these 2 things connected and how can I fix them? [more inside]
Birman Cat or Ragdoll?
What are the main differences between a Birman and a Ragdoll cat?
We are looking for a nice family cat and we have a seven year old. We are looking for a breed that has blue eyes, and is warm and affectioniate like a dog. I have heard that Ragdoll's tend to get really big, that is one thing I'm not sure we want. Any experiences you guys have would be appreciated.
I don't want to be a social Batman either.
On dealing with an increasing intolerance for, for lack of a better term, "bad people." [more inside]
Is she or isn't she?
A family member told me that his wife has been complaining that she is getting emails from online dating services. He said she told him that she has never signed up for them. [more inside]
Making Things Complicated
Is there any way to explain my feelings to this girl without being ridiculous and screwing everything up? [more inside]
Boston to Newport
One-way transportation from Boston to Newport? [more inside]
albums like Mechanical Animals
albums like ‘Mechanical Animals’ from Marilyn Manson? I don’t really know how to describe what I’m looking for precisely but there metal rock elements tied in with a lot of catchiness almost grooving. Everyone says ‘glam!’ but what in particular? I tried the Ziggie Stardust album sometime back but couldn’t get into how (comparatively) stripped down the sound was, maybe I should try again. Other stuff?
Bridge me a wireless network plz
How can I connect my (network-ready, ethernet-only) printer to my wireless network when the router is all the way on the other side of the house? [more inside]
US Budget for Dummies
Can you help me better understand the US budget? [more inside]
When it comes to apartments, it's as if the internet was not made for searching
What tips can you give me for apartment searching, given that I'm moving to Northwestern Washington (the state) and am currently 750 miles away? [more inside]
How can I battle graveyard-related depression?
How can I battle graveyard-related depression? I have things pretty good. I have a decent job, decent hobbies, a loving wife, and we're about to move into a nicer living situation. Despite all the good stuff happening, I feel myself sinking and I think it's related to the job and my lack of real sleep as a side-effect of said job. [more inside]
tired.
i need advice on choosing tires for my 2006 XC70. [more inside]
TORMENTED by beer stinkies. For decades.
A ridiculous question: I went to Haverford College (outside of Philly), and a pizza place nearby in Villanova (Connestoga? Campus Corner? I don't know) had an awful cartoon poster of zany college life, and for some reason I've always wanted to get a closer look. The only thing I remember is some hapless partier sitting on the toilet the next morning with the phrase "beer stinkies" hovering above him. [more inside]
Room in Stockholm
My girl -friend needs to find a room/sublease in Stockholm. [more inside]
Is my roommate spying on my internet/computer use?
Is my roommate spying on me via our shared wireless router? Also, is he sneaking on my general computer use? [more inside]
Can a fella get a protein shake in here?
What's the best value in pre-mixed protein/diet shakes? [more inside]
Let me sleep on it
I've gathered that people who share their bed with another person are able to get quality sleep. How is this task accomplished? [more inside]
Two couples are looking to for a weekend getaway in New England. Suggestions?
Two couples are looking to for a weekend getaway in New England. Suggestions? [more inside]
Hello folks
Your opinion on this American naive/folk painting? [more inside]
Got ducts?
House: The Sequel has baseboard heating. It also used to have a whole-house humidifier (removed when I installed a new boiler). Possibly because of the humidifier, the house appears to have at least three ducts w/grilles, two on the first and one on the (compact) second floor. Here's the question: could those ducts be repurposed for central A/C? (Obviously, it might be necessary to run additional ductwork off the extant ducts.) My Google-fu is failing me, perhaps because it's currently eighty-six degrees in my office.
Why do I smell like sour milk?
Why do I smell like sour milk? [more inside]
Help me get a giant map of San Diego!
Where can I find a giant, detailed map of San Diego? [more inside]
Name of paper storage program?
There's a kind of 2D barcoding program that stores large amounts of compressed information on paper, like a QR code. What's it called? [more inside]
marketing strategies for dummies ... or for marketing VPs?
How can I prove to my marketing VP that his approach to marketing is grossly ineffective? (I am not a marketing pro.) [more inside]
What speaker set up is best for 120 gbs of mp3s and a two room apartment?
What speaker set up is best for 120 gbs of mp3s and a two room apartment? [more inside]
How do I most efficiently promote my iPad game?
I released an app in the app store. How do I promote it? What works and what doesn't? [more inside]
All who wander are not lost. I hope.
I'm a depressed not-incredibly-recent college grad with less than a year's experience under my belt and I'm still clueless. More snowflake-y annoying first world problems inside. [more inside]
Hymn to Eros: page number?
Do you have access to a copy of The Sorrow Dance, a book of poems by Denise Levertov? (Should be in most college/university libraries or large public libraries, if you happen to be visiting your library soon.) [more inside]
Where to send two BFFs for a weekend somewhere between Michigan and DC (or not)?
surprise weekend get away for two 30-something best friends. One's in DC, one's in Michigan. Where should we send them? [more inside]
Mystery symbol on 3DS
What does this symbol mean? It's a rectangle with two circles on the bottom like wheels, and a squat diamond on top. It's on the back of a 3DS. [more inside]
Unfamiliar with jealousy
I'm not normally jealous, but one of my bf's female friends is making me feel a twinge of jealousy and I don't know if I should say something to him or not. [more inside]
Can't fly to Europe - other travel options?
My sister just learned that she can't fly for three months (lung condition), which means she can't make it over to Ireland for a big family reunion in late August. Or can she? Any suggestions? [more inside]
Am I in a good position to be a foster parent?
Am I in a good position to be a foster parent? [more inside]
Getting kitty to pee in the little cup
Trying to get a urine sample from my cat has been a challenge. [more inside]
Impassive expression
Any tips for maintaining an impassive expression during work interactions? [more inside]
Modern Indian Ethnic Inspiration
What modern clothing lines/manufacturers take their inspiration from ethnic Indian styles? Especially interested in mens clothing.
Thank you for the interview and sorry for screwing up.
I blew the interview. What should I say in my thank-you note? [more inside]
Can anyone identify this music video I'm describing?
Need help finding a hip-hop music video. Fuzzy details pulled from an unreliable memory inside. [more inside]
OSX user session timer software?
Looking for OSX software that will produce a timer on the screen during each user session so that session times can be monitored. [more inside]
What's a good way to package professional documents?
What are some creative, yet professional ways to present documents to clients? [more inside]
Tasteful personal care items for a guy.
What personal care items do you recommend for a guy looking to treat himself? [more inside]
This wild goose chase has worn me out
A professional organization I'm affiliated with wants to improve the job listings area of our website. What's the best job board plugin/widget for a Wordpress blog out there, either free or for $100 or less? [more inside]
Best resources for intensive Powerpoint lessons.
Powerpoint: Best resources to get good fast? [more inside]
Where are the local music stores in Houston?
Houston Filter: Where are the local music stores hidden? [more inside]
Hudson Valley, NY farm visits?
What are some particularly noteworthy farms to visit in Hudson Valley, NY? Obviously, they would need to be open to the public, but I don't necessarily need a formal tour- if they have nice grounds and interesting foodstuffs for sale, that's just fine. We'll be staying in Hudson, but have a car.
Conversations? Please, please no.
I can't bear hearing multiple conversations/people talking. [more inside]
Why blue?
Why is the color of no signal to a TV now blue and why that color of blue? [more inside]
Questions about the UK Mental Health Act
Someone close to me is being threatened with sectioning under the Mental Health Act 1983. The emphasis, in my mind, is 'threatened'. I'd someone to clarify some things for me. [ UKfilter | YANMD | YANML | etc... ] [more inside]
Buying swimsuits in a country where they're useless for 10 months.
Canadian-stores-suck filter: Looking for a cute and yet athletic tankini-style swimsuit. Problem? I'm super picky and I need to try it on. [more inside]
Help me plan my last minute anniversary
What silly/interesting/cool thing should we do in our anniversary? [more inside]
Sandals are wearing already!
My new sandals are already wearing at the toe and I know why -- so how do I stop it? [more inside]
looking a gift horse in the mouth, or something
Should I ask my generous relative who is paying for our trip to have my own hotel room with my husband? [more inside]
Why are divorce rates higher for those who have lived together before marriage?
Why is the divorce rate higher for those who have lived together before marriage than those who haven't? [more inside]
Things to know when hosting exchange student
We'll be hosting an exchange student this summer, not via an agency but FoaF relative. If you've hosted an exchange student, what was your experience like, and any advice to share ? [more inside]
How can I kick guests off my iMAC?
Where can I find software to limit the time that random people will be on a free iMAC? [more inside]
manual v. power aerator
Aside from uniformity, is there any difference between using a power core aerator and a manual one? [more inside]
Can I be sure about the Visio 2010 license?
How can I (be sure that I can) install Visio 2010 on more than one machine and be on the up-and-up? [more inside]
Mayfair on Monday: Fun food for tired travelers
ISO reasonably priced, fun, "non-touristy" restaurants within a small radius of the Millennium Mayfair Hotel on Grosvener Square [more inside]
Where to meet at SDCC?
Good place for a small meetup at San Diego Comic Con? [more inside]
Fulfilling our hipster destiny
Scooting in Brooklyn [more inside]
All I want is a piece of wood with character!!!
Reclaimed wood in Indianapolis? (whole, raw, and amazing!) [more inside]
Details Greece's Debt
Where can I find a complete listing of debt issued by Greece, including term sheets?
Buffalo University: Where to stay?
Looking for good, cheap accommodation in Buffalo, NY. My partner is visiting to work at Buffalo Uni for about 7 days in late September. They've offered to organise accommodation in a Holiday Inn at $98 a night. This feels a little steep. We'd like to shop around a bit, perhaps look at alternatives other than a hotel/motel. Perhaps a student "sleep in my spare room" scheme or something. Advice much appreciated. [more inside]
Help me find an awesome tablecloth
So I have taken one more step towards true adulthood and gotten a dining room set. Now I need to accessorize it. What are some online shops I could find cool tablecloths, placemats and the like? Any housewares stores with a modcloth sensibility?
Beyond Madam C. J. Walker
What is a good source of information about African American millionaires in the nineteenth century? Especially interested in cases where the successful person used a front to manage the investing and banking end of things. (I've tried library card catalogs, but am getting nowhere.)
$300 Sennheiser 600's sound no better than normal iPhone headphones with iMac? Huh?
$300 Sennheiser 600's sound no better than normal iPhone headphones with iMac? Huh? [more inside]
Wot's happening in London in 2 weeks?
Suggestions for relatively inexpensive things to do in the evening in London July 23-28? [more inside]
Ideas for fun or luxury gift delivery for best friend in NYC
I'm looking for suggestions for a gift to be delivered to my friend in New York City. I'm out of the loop: what neat thing do all the cool kids in NY want these days? For example, I think Kiehl's was all the rage a couple of years ago, and Philosophy body washes before that. She is 30, single, lives in Brooklyn, enjoys good food and drink, likes fun personal care products, is very busy at work, is very hip, elegant and quite intelligent. I know she reads things like DailyCandy and Flavorpill (I had a look there but nothing caught my eye). [more inside]
Help me install a WordPress theme.
How to install a WordPress theme for dummies, please help! [more inside]
Was he turned off me?
He seemed to really like me, then I got my period when we were having sex, did this turn him off me? [more inside]
fluoro orange pencil
artists ahoy! I am desperate to procure a fluorescent orange pencil. Does anyone know where I can get one, either online or here in Melbourne, Australia? [more inside]
Help me identify this trance track
need help identifying this trance track - between 5 and 10 years old, probably part of a paul van dijk or oakenfold mix [more inside]
Looking for a (free) online database system
I am on the lookout for a free online database and would like your opinion on the options out there. [more inside]
July 11
English? Is that a strange language?
Which aspect of English do you find it difficult? [more inside]
mystery metal object with rubber bands
What's the object in this picture? It's an angled piece of metal with hooks at both ends, and two rubber bands connecting the hooks with a metal washer. It was found at a vacation rental property after vacationers checked out.
Cushioned Risom lounge: is this a thing?
Did Knoll manufacture a variation of the Risom lounge chair with arms in the 1950s that had an upholstered fabric seat instead of one made of parachute strapping?
Hands-free reading at the gym?
What iPhone apps will let me read hands-free during my workout? [more inside]
I went to a doctor that isn't my HMO doctor and no one noticed until the bill was due. What now?
I unknowingly went to a doctor that is not my primary care physician on my HMO plan. What's the damage going to be? What can I do for the best possible outcome? [more inside]
Taking notes on an iPad
What type of options are out there for taking hand-written notes on an iPad? I'm especially interested in any programs that convert your writing into typing. [more inside]
dealing with a klepto kid
A kid at the day camp I'm helping out at is constantly lifting camp property and pocketing things when he thinks we're not looking. What can I do? [more inside]
Please Make LibreOffice Spell Check Work
How can I make the LibreOffice spell check work? [more inside]
Tricky Resume Date Range Situation
Resume-Filter: How can/should I neatly list employment dates for an internship I held for three separate non-continuous periods? [more inside]
Canon HV20 can't handle very bright video on pass-through?
I've digitized some ancient VHS tapes by passing the video from my VCR through a Canon HV20 to iMovie '09 on my Mac mini, but a couple tapes seem to be confusing the HV20. Can you help me import these troublesome videos to my Mac? [more inside]
What's the Canadian equivalent to the 5th amendment?
Canada's equivalent of the 5th amendment? I'm looking for recent case law precedents or well publicized examples in the news involving individuals compelled to give up encryption passwords or other potentially self-incriminating information.
Any DOC hut spots left on MilFord Track for Ney Year 2011/2012?
At this late stage, is there any way to grab a spot in the DOC huts along the Milford Track around New Year 2011/2012? [more inside]
How much propane is in the tank?
How do I know how much cooking time is left in a tank of propane for my grill? [more inside]
Slurpee In Seattle
The most awesome things for families to do in the Seattle/Tacoma/Peninsula area? [more inside]
Movin' to the country, gonna eat me a lot of peaches...
Can I eat peaches from a tree that has some sort of leaf curl blight? [more inside]
Ooh That Smell
Can I cure my stinky sandals? [more inside]
What is the ideal soundtrack for taking this job and shoving it?
At long last, I'm quitting a job I hate and moving on to something better. All I need is a playlist for the last day. [more inside]
Questions to ask before investing in talent
What questions should I ask a very promising Fashion college student who needs seed money for a business? [more inside]
Book recommendations for a breakup
I just got dumped. Could you please recommend some public domain books to help me get through this. [more inside]
Who are the Riffs?
The largest gang in NYC is The Riffs in the movie The Warriors.
Winchester calls Klinger a Riff in Season 7, Episode 1: Commander Pierce. Klinger is offended and informs/reminds Winchester that he (Klinger) is Lebanese.
Who are the Riffs or what is a Riff? (Aside from the largest gang in NYC and not Klinger.)
Roth IRA conversion from 401(k)?
Should I roll over my 401(k) and then convert it immediately to a Roth IRA? [more inside]
rescued at sea?
I am trying to find an official account of a story I heard. A group of three men were working on a shrimp boat in the spring of 1993. The boat sank and only one man survived. This allegedly happened off the coast of northwest Florida and the survivor was allegedly in the water for 5 days before rescue. Is there a database of modern day shipwreck survivors? Can you think of a way I can verify this story?
Help me display and rotate data
What's the best way to render and rotate data on a web page? [more inside]
Can't think of any search terms
Google Fail. I can't think of any search terms to find this video, here's what I remember:
1. Very mosaic, brightly colored, pop music video (all animated).
2. Circa 1998 or thereabouts.
3. I believe the primary band members consisted of a heavy gay guy and a frail straight guy.
4. Super catchy tune.
Help appreciated, thanks in advance.
Additional info: A current running commercial is what brought this back into my mind. It may be a soft drink commercial, with lots of moving dots creating new mosaic patterns.
Advice for a university drop-out
I'm stuck at a sort of quarter-life crisis/crossroads here. I was kicked out of an Ontarian university almost 2 years ago, and after two (failed) attempts to get re-admitted, learnt that my chances to get in are kinda slim. Since my withdrawal, I've been thinking about some very tough questions but am unable to solve them or come to a conclusion. [more inside]
Quebec City!!!
Spending a couple days in Quebec City in early/mid-August. Where should I stay? Is it worth it to pay for more for somewhere in the old city? What is the parking situation? [more inside]
Please take a look at my organ.
Is Keppra the problem?
My nephew takes Keppra for his epilepsy but I feel the meds caused his severe lack of attention. He was a seemingly alert, outgoing kid before the meds and since he's taken them for 7 years, he's displayed off behavior and his coordination is like a baby's. Is this side effect unique to Keppra or does epilepsy sometimes cause certain learning disabilities?
What books or blogs should I read to get an idea how the world will change in the next 5-15 years?
What books or blogs should I read to get an idea how the world will change in the next 5-15 years? [more inside]
Employ this graduate!
CareerFilter: Scientist branching out--what should I do with my life? Special snowflake within! [more inside]
How was this calculated?
Why is James Herbert's The City going for $1,133.45 new on Amazon, but only $8.50 used? [more inside]
Where are all the cute poly people in the SF bay area?
Where are all the cute / hot and adventurous polyamorous people in the SF bay area? [more inside]
Exceptional, unattainable in North America, Italian wine?
What excellent red wine should my partner buy in Italy to bring home that he can't get here? We're fans of Luigi Righetti Amarone, but we can, uh, get it in Toronto. Seems silly to fly it home.
Likes: dry, full-bodied, spicy. also enjoy dry pinot noirs (lighter body).
Dislikes: sweet, fruity, herbal
Price: up to $100/bottle, but that would have to be out of this world amazing.
Is it too late to mail wedding thank yous?
My wedding was almost two years ago, and I never sent out official thank you cards, because apparently I suck. I want to go ahead and send them out now, but would that be even more awkward? [more inside]
Help Us Pick A Non-Religious Name for a Boy.
We're having a boy But we can't think of a name! As we're both atheists, we'd like a name that is not at all religious. There's extra points if you can come up with a science connection and triple bonus points if it's more difficult for other kids to make fun of. [more inside]
Excel Tables
Link to a table in Excel 2011? [more inside]
I'll put that box inside another box, and mail it to myself, and smash it with a hammer
Fill in the blanks so I can make a fun art project for a friend:
Life, Death, Time, Space, ____, ____. [more inside]
The worm/stomach turns
Help me find out if this slightly repulsive experiment featuring nematode worms is real or my vile imagination running wild. [more inside]
Help me spark discussion
Looking for controversial clips to spark discussion in a conversation ESL class. [more inside]
Books about video games.
So I've got Gamespite's NES retrospective, I've got hardcoregaming101.net's new book on adventure games, I even have a thirdhand copy of Bill Kunkel's indie-press memoirs. And I want more. What's some good and insightful video game writing in print? [more inside]
What to expect on my first airline adventure?
I'm Mefi's 18 year old intern and I haven't been on an airplane since I was 18 months old. On the 18th of July, the boss (mathowie) and I are heading to New York. What should I expect now that I'm about to consciously experience my first plane flight?
Windshield vs Insurance
How can I convince my auto insurance company to pay for an OEM windshield? [more inside]
Local credit union won't do. So long, "People before profit".
International banking filter: I'm moving to Stockholm from Seattle in about a month. What's the best way to set up an account in Swedish krona when the person supporting me will be giving me money in US dollars? Also, what is the cheapest and fastest way to transfer money from US accounts in USD to the Swedish (or international?) SEK account? [more inside]
Little house in a bigger house
Help me find someone else’s dream house.
Many years ago (not sure how many but I think it was during the 1990’s) I saw a home and garden photo spread about a house, I’m pretty sure in the American Midwest. It looked like a modern glass house with a country cottage built inside. [more inside]
Not sure how I'm going to get to school, please help.
I need to find student loans in order to go back to college in September, but my parents have terrible credit and I can't find an alternative cosigner. I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Why is there less active ingredient in antiperspirants now?
Why have so many (most?) antiperspirants reduced their amount of the ingredient aluminium zirconium tetrachlorohydrex gly? Why have some brands removed that information from the label altogether? [more inside]
Hot Dog, Worried Person
Hot Dog!
The Dog Days of summer have hit early in Minnesota, and my poor German Shepherd/Greyhound mix is taking it hard. Any ideas for keeping her cool in this heat wave? [more inside]
People Who Enjoyed Reading The Complete Tales of Winnie-The-Pooh to their Toddlers Also Enjoyed...
Finished The Complete Tales of Winnie-The-Pooh for the third time. Help us pick something new to read before bed to our two-year-old twin boys... [more inside]
I've CAD it.
How do I get the product key for my 30 day trial version of Corel CAD? [more inside]
Cover song suggestions for a new bar band
Looking for nostalgic bar band songs for my new female-fronted cover band. [more inside]
safe long-distance ridesharing?
Ride-sharing on Craigslist: how to do it safely? Or should I just not? [more inside]
Buying lampshades in unusual sizes
Where do you go to buy lampshades in unusual sizes? [more inside]
Inheritance issues in Hungary
Need estate/inheritance legal help in Hungary. [more inside]
Missing Plugins
I can't see most website content due to some missing plugin. Which one!? [more inside]
How to best resolve a seemingly rigged speed trap situation?
We got caught in an insane speed trap in a small Illinois town with a seemingly inactive construction zone. We had to post bond from the car, got a mandatory court date (400 miles away from our home of Chicago), looking at $1100+ in fees. Any ideas? [more inside]
How to stop emotional "attack" reflex?
How can I be more comfortable with my SO's vulnerability? Whenever he's emotionally open with me, my claws come out! Our relationship is healthy/supportive/friend approved, and I don't want to lose him over this. [more inside]
Camping on the Catalina Island
Need information on experiences with camping at the Catalina Islands in Southern California [more inside]
Criminal biker
I got a ticket for biking on the sidewalk in NYC. What do I do next? [more inside]
It's a blast!
My stucco house needs sandblasting! Does anyone have a recommendation for a company that does home sandblasting in the Minneapolis area?
Help connect my XP virtual machine to a local network to save my back!
How can I connect my Windows XP Virtual Machine (bootcamp partition) to my office network over wifi? [more inside]
How do Istanbul street traders make a living?
Street traders in Istanbul - how can they possibly make a living? Or are they stooges for crime? [more inside]
I know it's the home of ECU, but what else?
Moving to Greenville, NC for 13 weeks, completely sight unseen. Where do I go to __ (fill-in-the-blank)? [more inside]
I can either see or breathe.
Is there any kind of substance that can block out light, but not block out air currents? Allow me to explain. [more inside]
Impossible wish request!
Asking for a friend: 2011 USA 7s Collegiate Rugby Championships in Philadelphia, June 4-5. Central Washington University defeats North Carolina. At the end of the game, the CWU coach hugs CWU player Jacob Bates, a family friend. Would love to find video of the last part of this game, or a still image showing this moment.
Have found some highlight reels, but not hitting paydirt yet. :(
Help getting past statements from Citibank UK - any suggestions?
Help getting past statements from Citibank UK - any suggestions? Kafkaesque details within. [more inside]
What to know before buying an MG Midget?
How easy is it to own and maintain a 70's-era MG Midget? [more inside]
How do I stop talking/moving/walking/yelling in my sleep?
How do I stop talking/moving/walking/yelling in my sleep? [more inside]
Need my grainy, yoghurty deliciousness, please.
EstonianFoodFilter: Where can I find Estonian food products (specifically kama jahu) in the US? [more inside]
Do ISO GUM reported uncertainties always require NIST traceability?
ISO GUM acceptable measurements w/o NIST traceability possible? Weight and length measurements always require NIST traceability for reported results (if following ISO 17025)? More inside... [more inside]
Like melt-your-face Raiders of the Lost Ark hot.
Our attic space is very very hot. We have ridge vents, and two (small) gable vents, but no soffit vents whatsoever because the house (a 2000 sq foot 1960s ranch) doesn't have soffits. Instead, when you look up at the side of the house, you just see the bottom of the roof; there's just no place to install a soffit vent.
The AC vents run through the attic. The previous owner put 20" of insulation in, which seems to be keeping things manageable, but I'm sure that we're losing a lot of cooling via the attic. As, again, it is unbelievably hot in there. I've actually been leaving the attic stairs in the garage down when I'm home, with the garage door open, in the hopes that some airflow will result.
How can we cool it down? I know that just adding powered fans will do next to nothing as there's nowhere to draw the air from (b/c no soffit vents). Any experience with any new fangled systems? Austin, Texas (so snow is not an issue). The house has stood for 50 years like this, as have all the houses around it, so I know that we don't have to do anything, but I'd like to if there's a reasonable solution.
Lobster on the South Shore?
Best place to go for lobster on the South Shore of Nova Scotia? [more inside]
Where to take indoor/outdoor pictures in Houston?
Indoor and outdoor Houston photo locations?? [more inside]
Looking for a pediatrician in Western MA.
Looking for a pediatrician in Western MA. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Inviting People to Dinner Without Invitations
Do you have ideas for an online RSVP system for a standing weekly dinner? [more inside]
Returning to work after maternity leave
What can I do now to make life easier for myself and my family when I return to work in three weeks, after a total of 3 months off for maternity leave? [more inside]
A laid-back urban trail dog
Help us choose the right dog, please. My wife and I live in a small condo in an industrial-type urban neighborhood but I want a trail-running buddy. Conditions and other info inside. [more inside]
BIG tablets, or a virtual & portable screen?
Can I use a tablet as a roaming interface for my home desktop, and as a standalone tablet when I travel? [more inside]
It's My Memoir and I Can Cry if I Want To
Have you read the book, Blood Bones and Butter by Gabrielle Hamilton? Why are some people so adverse to pity-parties? [more inside]
Help me choose a show to get tickets to for her birthday in August.
My girlfriend loves musicals. Help me choose a show to get tickets to for her birthday in August.
I'm new to Atlanta, and I also don't know much about musicals. I'm in need of some help and suggestions on where and for what to get tickets. I'm open to any ideas those with knowledge of these things (musicals and Atlanta) may have.
Thanks!
Can I be stressed out without knowing it?knowing
Can I be stressed out without knowing it? [more inside]
Pros and Cons to commuting via kick scooter?
Does anyone out there use a kick scooter to commute? What are the benefits and challenges? [more inside]
Quietly traveling the world.
Need help planning a fitness-oriented RTW trip starting in mid-August, consisting primarily of a few long-distance treks. Complication: I'm a really really extreme introvert. [more inside]
Where do they get these people for House Hunters?
Can someone explain House Hunters to me? Particularly the "International" version. I thought the housing market was dead flat? [more inside]
Why does it look like a murder scene when I blow my nose?
Why does it look like a murder scene when I blow my nose? [more inside]
How to bake a great birthday cake without biting off more than I can chew?
I seek cute, easy cake decorating ideas for wowing a crowd of (mainly) 3 year old girls. In preparation, I just bought this cake decorating kit. Bonus points for decorating blogs, books, and so forth. Extra bonus points for good lemon cake recipes! [more inside]
The Eternal Dilemna (Somerville/Cambridge housing filter)
Should I wait till September 1 to find a 1br apartment of my own in Cambridge or Somerville (Massachusetts), or is Aug 1 just as good? Other questions inside. [more inside]
Videoconferencing solution for international organization
Our office wants to invest in a videoconferencing system for some board members, based in very different parts of the world, and I need some advice. [more inside]
I fail at dating
This is embarrassing. But I could do with some tips. I freeze up around people I am attracted to. My confidence goes out the window. Can anyone help? [more inside]
Things to know before taking a consulting position with extensive travel requirements?
Things to know before taking a consulting position with extensive travel requirements? [more inside]
Business Process Analysis Software
Recommendations for Business Process Mapping Software [more inside]
Buddhist Sidewalking Scraping?
What was this (presumably Buddhist) guy doing? [more inside]
Getting Settled
What are your tips for getting settled in a new city? I am not looking for moving tips. I am looking for tips about getting aquaintaned, settled, and secured in a new city once you are moved. If it helps, I am moving to Austin with my wife and two young kids and are leaving our friend and family behind. What services did you pay for / use that made your adjustment a lot easier? How did you learn the road system? How did you find the right community groups / churches / clubs? How did you deal with the stress and emotions that come with a big move? In a nutshell, I want to know how to make the transition to a new city a lot smoother.
Also, I had a terrible grasp of irregular verbs.
I am looking for a word, and I don't think it is one in English. Articulate mefites of all stripes, step right up. [more inside]
Your experience/advice re Articulate or similar presentation software?
Do you use or have you used Articulate software or similar, and if so, can you give me your recommendations, thoughts, advice? I'm looking at software (preferably) or services for creating various types of presentations with a bit of style, and I'm a total newb. I need something that will work for business presentations, e-learning (including quizzes and tests), training videos, and sales presentations in formats that will work locally as well embedded in sites – preferably as flexible as possible. [more inside]
Shedding on my bedding
My hair is falling out. Seeing as I'm too female for male-pattern baldness, is there anything I can do to help? [more inside]
If you transplant the head, is it a brain transplant or a body transplant?
How much pain and suffering will there be if I replace a Windows 7 machine's motherboard, CPU and video card, but leave the hard drives? [more inside]
Adjusting life to reduce joint pain.
How can I adjust my apartment and lifestyle to ameliorate severe joint pain? [more inside]
Why doesn't my landline ring?
Why isn't my phone ringing? [more inside]
Help me shoot some fish!
What techniques can I use to get close to the fish in the creek behind my home (for the purpose of getting underwater photographs)? [more inside]
Page turning sci-fi for non-sci-fi buffs
I am seeking recommendations for classic science fiction that will be entertaining and enjoyable for my book club . [more inside]
40 lbs of Juicy Fruit Stink
I recently bought an enormous jackfruit (40lb) which needs a few days of ripening (the price was right). It has a few small mold spots. What can I do to slow down the mold while it's ripening so it doesn't go bad, while still leaving it edible? [more inside]
Things to do in Barcelona when You're Dead
I need things to do in Barcelona [more inside]
Practical Hindu books for Westerners
“Practical” Hindu religious books for contemporary Westerners besides the Gita? [more inside]
July 10
Askme taught me how to build 'em, but not how they think... so far.
My son received a PC game for his birthday. I'm suspicious about the origins of the disc and I've done my best to get it working, to no avail, on two different laptops. Is there something I can do so that my son can actually play it? [more inside]
Multi-city weather snapshot on iPhone
Is there an iPhone app that shows weather information for multiple cities on a single page/in a single list? [more inside]
Chinese and Indian Interracial dating
Is it really that big a deal for a Chinese and an Indian to be dating/potentially getting married? [more inside]
I may have just lost my deposit
Is there anything I can do about this relatively small stain on my hardwood floors? [more inside]
Where does sex typically happen for people without beds?
Where do couples from floor-sleeping countries have sex? [more inside]
Can anyone recommend a good partner yoga class in Toronto?
(Toronto) Can anyone recommend a good partner yoga class (or something) in the Toronto area? [more inside]
LLC to Nonprofit
How do I turn an LLC into a nonprofit? You are not my lawyer, but maybe someone has some helpful advice. Formed an LLC to operate a hackerspace since it was the path of least resistance. We have never been profitable, we now want to go the 501(c)3 route. How do we accomplish this cleanly and legally? We're in New Mexico if that helps.
Suggest a Noisemaker Replacement
I am traveling with my wife, who needs a noisemaker to sleep. We have one on my iPhone, but I left my charger so I can't use it. I do, though, have my macbook and iTunes on it. I am looking for a way to make the sound of fans, so that she gets a good sleep tonight til I can get a new charger. Any suggestions?
Netbook indecision crisis!
Buying a netbook, but can't decide which one. Do you have one you love? One you hate? What's the best way to decide when all of the specs are same-same-but-different? [more inside]
Help me with colored pencils.
I want to draw using color pencils. I have no idea where to start. Where do I start? [more inside]
UV LED Blacklight flashlight recommendations?
What is the best handheld LED UV blacklight/flashlight/torch for pet stain detection? [more inside]
The Mystery of the Cold Kidneys.
What could be the reason behind cold kidneys in an otherwise healthy person? Mr. Origami has cold kidneys, and has all his life, so has never given it much thought. He can be warm all over, but place a hand over the kidney area and it feels icy cold--and that's really the only time he notices it, when a normally warm hand or belly covers the area, or if he sits in a hot tub, and he's flushed with warmth. [more inside]
Pane in my Glass
I cracked my windshield. On the inside. Two years ago. A week ago it's gotten worse. Do I need to replace? Needlessly long DIT. [more inside]
Can you help me make sure it sucks less when I suck more?
What happened to my face when I deepthroated my guy? (so very NSFW) [more inside]
Alternative to flowers for an anniversary?
What is a good anniversary present for a long-distance relationship on a budget? [more inside]
Have I pruned my facebook friend list too much?
I've pruned my facebook friends list quite a bit. Am I going overboard or should I "refriend" some back? [more inside]
Why does the Gamil favicon on my IE Favorites bar always appear so blah?
I like to use the Favorites bar in IE8 and IE9 for frequently accessed web sites, such as iGoogle, Google Mail, Google Reader, and (of course) Ask Metafilter. I like the favicons that appear there, but, for some reason, the Gmail favicon always appears as the generic, IE website icon. See image link here. I've tried everything I can think of to make it look "nice" like the others, but it always looks like this, even on other computers with the Favorites linked through Xmarks. Why is this and can anyone offer a solution? Thanks!
What are these bumps?
This much beloved male cat in his late middle age has developed small bumps growing near his eyes. The cat is otherwise very healthy. You are not my vet, and the vet who saw the bumps said they weren't too worried about them, but your data and anecdata are solicited.
How did the NotW go about hacking phones?
In light of the UK cell phone hacking scandal, in broad terms, how do you go about "hacking" a phone? How did the NotW get access to others voice mail? Software?
Is it acceptable to ask for mugshots?
A question on social etiquette; "Hey, (insert name here), can I have a photo of your face? [more inside]
We like each other but she's got a man abroad.
A friend and I have just discovered we've both harboured a mutual, long term attraction for each other. Perfect! Only problem is she's in a long time, very long distance, online relationship. How is it appropriate to approach this, or not? [more inside]
How to commute from Hayward to Campbell
[logistics filter]We need daily transportation between Hayward and Campbell [more inside]
Help me identify an old picture book.
I'm trying to identify a book I was very fond of as a young child. [more inside]
Mystery shrub
Help me Find These Two Great Animated Shorts
I am trying to recall two awesome animated shorts. Both may have been shown during an animation festival circa mid-90s in San Francisco (possibly Spike & Mike). Details post-jump. [more inside]
How do I deal with Racist friends?
What do I say to racist friends? A guy I know makes racist jokes, and I don't know how to call him on it because he's technically not disparaging me? [more inside]
How do you decide what to share? Challenge: Asperger Syndrome
How do you decide what to share with others? I am a 28-year-old woman with Asperger Syndrome, and my biggest hurdle is figuring out what sorts of things are appropriate to share with others. So far in my life, I have erred too much on the side of caution, and I regret that I have missed out on great friendships just because I can't pick up on signals and I constantly feel like I'm wasting peoples' time even when they assure me I am not. I would like to get better at sharing on social media in particular, but I find myself totally paralyzed trying to decide what's worthy of sharing with others. I need help and advice on how to improve this crucial social skill. [more inside]
Memorial ideas for ten years after a parent's suicide
This December it will be ten years since my father committed suicide. My mother, brother and I have started talking about ways to observe the anniversary, but we're not sure how. [more inside]
Can you patent a business idea/model?
Can you patent a business idea/model? I read that you can't patent something vague like a "cowboy themed pizzeria" but what about things like, Netflix, Zipcar, etc? [more inside]
Which ACT test prep book(s) should I buy for my niece?
Which ACT test prep book(s) should I buy for my niece? [more inside]
Where can I get my PSP fixed for a reasonable price?
Where can I get a PSP repaired for less than the cost of a used/refurbished one? [more inside]
How do I save a wordpress theme created using a theme framework?
Wordpress for a noob who isn't a noob developer: Can you explain the basics of using a framework theme to create a new theme? I totally understand the concept but can't figure out how to save changes I make as a new theme. [more inside]
Looking for a new iPod Touch case
I'm looking for a case for my 3rd generation iPod Touch. I have a screen protector and don't use a case when I'm at home, but for work I've been using the Marware CEO case, but it's falling apart. I would like something similar to this: leather, covers the entire ipod (not just the back/sides), easy to take in and out, and access to the charging plug and volume controls. [more inside]
Lost article on nonlinear reading techniques
Seeking an article or blog post I read once about, er, nonlinear reading technique. [more inside]
Experiments in Ginger
What are your favorite ginger-highlighting recipes, tips or flavor pairings? [more inside]
Can I make Gmail a little more formal?
Can I force Gmail to show last names of message senders when I'm looking at the list of messages? [more inside]
Public domain poem with two speakers/pov
Publicdomainpoetryfilter: I'm trying to find a poem (any poem, not a specific poem) that is:
- in the public domain
- written in two "voices" or contains two perspectives
- (less important) one of the voices is prevented from doing something for some sort of reason
"Life Alert" medical alarm necklace that doesn't call 911 without explicit permission??
Is there a "Life Alert" type medical alarm that doesn't call 911 without permission? My sick relative is terrified of being taken to the hospital against his will. [more inside]
Help me be lazy
I would like to limit my working time to 20-25 hours per week, and spend the rest of my time as a flaneur. How can I do this? [more inside]
Help me pick a large(r) format flatbed scanner
I'm planning to buy a new flatbed scanner, and the decision about which one to get is going to hinge on some fairly picky details that don't usually show up in "consumer"-level reviews. If you have hands-on experience with flatbed scanners with larger-than-8.5"x11" scanbeds, preferably models that are still available at retail, can you help? [more inside]
Looking for good, modest hotel in downtown Ottawa
Looking for recommendations for a modest hotel in downtown Ottawa, Ontario - preferrably with a kitchen or fridge & microwave. [more inside]
Which version of the Nintendo DS should I get?
I want to pick up a used Nintendo DS for cheap, but there are a bunch of different models. Which version of the DS should I get? [more inside]
Cheese help me!
What's the best resource for learning about cheese-making processes (in general and for specific cheeses)? [more inside]
Looking for low-cost baking ideas
What are some tips or recipes for saving money on home baking? [more inside]
FiOS DVR choice paralysis
FiOS DVR options - should we take the standard FiOS DVR or get a TiVo? Something else? [more inside]
Are there swarthy Swedes?
Swedish MetalFilter: Does anyone know the ethnic origins of Alex Hellid of Entombed? I don't know much about Sweden, but he doesn't look like an ethnic Swede to me, and I've always wondered if he's a child of immigrants.
I'd like not to have an argument, please
My mother threw out a number of things during a redecoration. She told me to look through them to make sure nothing precious was getting thrown out. The thing is, I thought I had plenty of time to do this before a planned trip to the thrift store a few weeks from now. I didn't realize that a number of these things would get thrown outside next to the garbage cans to get rained on. Among them was an irreplaceable (AFAIK) VHS tape of my late father competing in a TV quiz show. My mother cannot understand why this upsets me, has several arguments for why she is right, and I feel unable to cope with arguing about it. Please tell me what to say! [more inside]
How to stop me being quite such a salty seadog?
When sailing, how do you protect your face from wind and salt as well as the sun? [more inside]
PC trojan
I ran the Yahoo spyware scan yesterday on my PC on impulse and after it ran the quick version, it recommended a full scan, which I ran. It found two "objects" of a trojan named Kollah. [more inside]
Getting a job in spite of flaws
Have to get a job within a few months. Crippled by depression and an awful work history. What's the best way to attack this? [more inside]
Can you recommend an American therapist in Israel?
Can you recommend an American therapist in Israel? [more inside]
Resources for studying Chinese characters
I'm looking for resources (preferably online and free) that will allow me to practice reading and writing Chinese characters at the level of a beginner. [more inside]
Which martial art is best for my specific interests?
Which martial art is best for my specific interests? Thoughts on Shaolin Kempo and other forms much appreciated. [more inside]
Online email pickup?
Is there such a thing as an online email client? Like Thunderbird or Outlook, only accessed via a browser. [more inside]
Failing to raise the debt limit
What happens if the U.S. defaults? [more inside]
Procedure of paying late tax d'habitation in France?
How do you pay delayed tax d'habitation in Paris, France? [more inside]
Pre-paid iPhone SIM in the USA?
I have a factory unlocked iPhone 4, and am travelling to US for a week. What are the pre-paid options available? [more inside]
Nom nom nom nom
What's the best & most healthy food for when one has 'the munchies'? [more inside]
I'll bake you cookies if you help me.
Once used Kitchen aid mixer for 100 USD...worth it? [more inside]
Help me write about a violin audition gone bad
I'm writing a short story about a violinist. In it, I want her to fail an audition for an orchestra. Specifically, I'm thinking she is a recent college graduate who would be auditioning for a training orchestra such as the Chicago Civic Orchestra. So my question is two part. What piece would she be playing? And what mistake could she make that would be bad enough to fail the audition?
**** banks
I have a UK Cooperative bank visa debit card. Recently I was unable to make a purchase on-line so I phoned the store and was told the card is a 'visa electron' not a visa debit card, even though it clearly says it's a visa debit on my card. what is going on? [more inside]
This would not have been an old person when I was young
How would I find out how to identify (if it is possible) an unnamed, newborn subject of a Dorothea Lange photograph, taken near Cleveland, Mississippi, in 1937? [more inside]
Movies to grow by?
What movies should I show my daughter to introduce her to art-house/world/indie cinema? [more inside]
What are the ideal Relationships for my MS Access database?
MS Access Database Relationship Help. I am relatively new user of MS Access and need to figure out the ideal or proper relationship between the tables I have created for multiple company's financial statements that will provide the most flexibility when viewing and comparing the financial statements. [more inside]
Japan: Looking for advice on logistics for a paranoid traveller
I will be in Tokyo for 5 days next week. Since I will be arriving at Haneda airport close to 23h00, I will need to make a call to my airport hotel to collect me at the airport. How does one actually make a phone call in Japan? I know this sounds silly but not knowing how to read all those japanese characters is making me anxious. The hotel is situated in the Haneda area and the phone number starts with 03. I searched flickr for some pictures of payphones and this one indicates that it accepts coins and phonecards. I am now worried that due to the lateness of my arrival; no shops selling phonecards will be open. Any advice ?
How do you "business meeting"?
How does one go about doing a business meeting in a city? (specifically NYC)
I'm meeting some potential employers for the first time, not sure of what protocol is... [more inside]
Heat without the sour
I love making my own hot pepper sauces but I'm not happy that I have to use vinegar as a preservative as I don't like the sour taste that much. If I use a lot, it ruins the taste, if I use less, the sauce won't stay fresh as long. Does anyone have a recommendation for something I can substitute the vinegar with, maybe even something synthetic (if it's harmless)?
Who's that girl?
I am trying to find this 1980s-1990s serial killer movie about a mute girl (from what I can remember always wear black clothes) and that on one of the scenes, a chopped body of a person was shown from a trash bag or something. Anyone known the title of the movie? I watched around early 1990s.
July 9
soundoff
When apartment-hunting, how can you tell if a place has good inter-unit sound insulation? [more inside]
Dude, Where Should I Park My Car?
I rent an apartment and park my car right next to the leasing office due to my car being vandalized several times. There's a camera right in front of the office, so if it happens again, I hope to be able to know who's doing it. Someone who works for the apartment complex told me not to park there anymore because, supposedly, they need the spots open for people who are looking into leasing. [more inside]
Can you help me find this sofa - or something like it?
A friend of mine is hunting for a sofa similar to this one - which was available at World Market until they pulled it a few months ago. Does anyone know where I can buy either this exact sofa, or something similar (a nice, minimalist, wood-framed three-seater)? [more inside]
Best colored annual-replace contact lenses?
Best colored annual-replace contact lenses? [more inside]
I ain't passed the bar but i know a little bit
Law-related song suggestions? [more inside]
Dense, walkable, cute affordable Canadian cities?
Asking this question for my mom: where should I live in Canada? (criteria: dense small city, pretty, affordable, walkable, climate not too cold.) [more inside]
Ewwww spider
Name that 1980s(?) horror movie based on skimpy details from a half-remembered trailer. [more inside]
Better wedding anniversary despite surgery
Back surgery on my wedding anniversary... I'm looking for suggestions to make it a better day for my wife. [more inside]
Monopoly Themed Dinner Party
Ideas for a Monopoly-themed Dinner Party? [more inside]
How can I find an obscure cover version of Leonard Cohen's "Suzanne" by Nina Simone?
I remember hearing a Nina Simone cover of Leonard Cohen's "Suzanne" several years ago. I can find two versions of Nina Simone covering the song on the Internet, but not the one I remember. Help me, please! [more inside]
Punished for not taking a promotion?
I was offered a promotion, but declined it. Now I think I'm being retaliated against. Is this illegal? [more inside]
I mean, it doesn't sound bad.
A family member once received an inscrutable fortune from a fortune cookie: "The rubber bands are heading the right direction." Googling has revealed other people similarly afflicted, but has not revealed any useful clues to the meaning. Does anyone have a guess as to what proverb is being mistranslated here?
Short sale? What professional advice do I need?
How do I evaluate the impacts of a short sale to determine if it is right for me? I would like professional advice from someone with an ethical if not fiduciary duty to me, be it a nonprofit consumer counseling agency, financial planner, or an attorney (what kind?). [more inside]
Repairing "rugged" GPS screen
How can I repair a chip in a GPS screen (it's not a touch screen)? [more inside]
Other good videos similar to those done by Pomplamoose.
Other good videos similar to those done by Pomplamoose. [more inside]
Can this apple tree be saved?
A 5 foot tall tree I planted last year looks almost dead (leaves are dried up) but there are two foot tall healthy shoots coming out of the base of the tree (at ground level). Now what? [more inside]
NOUGAT
I've decided to make my own nougat. Please give me tips and recipes! I like the white kind.
Why are wedges comfier than heels?
Why are wedges more comfortable than high heels? [more inside]
Outstanding examples of instrucitonal Flash or YouTube animations?
Looking for outstanding examples of animations and videos that explain a difficult-to-understand concept or topic. Not KhanAcademy-type, but rather interactive Flash works or videos with 3D animation. [more inside]
Is an (insured) American in Paris who also holds an EU passport eligible for a European Health Insurance Card for travelling elsewhere in Europe?
Is an (insured) American in Paris who also holds an EU passport eligible for a European Health Insurance Card for travelling elsewhere in Europe? [more inside]
Help me fix my fridge.
My fridge is leaking. Can I fix this myself? Details inside... [more inside]
Tracing you by the hole you make in the world
How many people would have to sign up for facebook before facebook can infer the existence of the rest? [more inside]
My wife wants to join me in geekdom!
Where might Ms.Yum go for web development training in the Boston area? [more inside]
Dealing with life in an extreme panopticon
I'm a blind person, and being around people who see makes me feel uncomfortable. Help me figure out strategies for how to fix this. [more inside]
help me lose weight on a diet of restaurant food
Weightloss filter: I want to lose weight. I eat 2 meals/day at the restaurant where I wait tables. I've gained 15 lbs in the year I've been there. But I can't...stop..eating.. [more inside]
Making Books Work
How do you read? [more inside]
The C: drive will be erased in 5...4...3...2..... -beep-
Friends are holding a computer prank contest. Need ideas. [more inside]
Skeptic sensitives support network?
If there are really paranormally gifted people, why aren't they organizing or talking to each other? If there's one person who can see ghosts, and another who's done it longer and knows a bit more, couldn't they share resources? Where do I go to really see why I can read cards without getting my brain probed or signing up for a spiritual faith? [more inside]
If I take another job during a lay-off grace period, is it wrong/illegal/unethical?
I just got notice of my lay-off last week, which will be effective at the end of this month. My company is offering what I think is a great package, but I want to make sure I am taking advantage of it to the fullest. [more inside]
Can I go ahead and disparage this company on my blog?
I'm toying with an idea for a blog. On this blog, I would write short fiction entries in which a specific product, manufactured by a very well-known brand, would be exposed in every entry as particularly loathsome and subsequently disposed of or even destroyed. [more inside]
Learn me some French.
What is the most reasonable way to try and autodidact your way into reading French well and speaking it passably? [more inside]
The religion problem.
How can one effectively participate in American politics (beyond the basics of voting and monetary donation) without subscribing to an organized religion? [more inside]
What's a good gift for a French wedding?
I need suggestions for a wedding gift for French friends getting married in Bordeaux. [more inside]
Is there any way to uninvite someone?
How do you uninvite someone to a party? Is it ever acceptable? [more inside]
USA v Brazil women's World Cup in London?
Desperate to see the USA/Brazil Women's World Cup soccer match tomorrow. I'll be in central London. Surely some pub/bar/club will have it on, but I can't seem to find any. My Google-fu is failing me badly on this one, maybe the hive mind can help?
Career for someone with a background in earth sciences?
Looking for advice on possible careers post-grad school with earth sciences training. [more inside]
Shuttle me out to the ballgame...
Dad, brother-in-law, and I are going to the Cincinnati Reds game on August 27. We want to get a hotel close to the ballpark, and since Dad's got some knee issues, we're wanting to find a hotel with shuttle service. Any recommendations? We'd just like to be able to call the hotel and get back and forth without hailing a cab, or without having to drive in the mess getting out from the ballpark. Thanks!
Looking for the Doc Ellis LSD no-hitter video.
Does anyone have a copy or know where I can find the video of Doc Ellis' no-hitter game while he was tripping on LSD?
Bloody confused
Is there a legitimate way to get certified in handling blood-borne pathogens online? [more inside]
Can Mp3tag do this?
Mp3tag-filter: Can the program fill empty Title fields with the Filename? [more inside]
Good US alternative to Boomkat?
What's a good state-side alternative to Boomkat? [more inside]
Big Dog in a Little House
Big Dog in a Little House: Should I let my renters adopt a Great Dane? [more inside]
Guitar History Detective?
About 20 years ago while working at a guitar store, a guy sold us his stuff, and in the case was a piece of weirdness.
A small black plastic box called the "Geraci Keetaar Converter" It has six keys, with corresponding felt tipped hammers below, and is mean to be mounted to the top, and over the neck of the guitar, and allow you to use the hammers to sound the strings instead of your fingers or a pick. Tried it once, and it was sort of a neat effect.
The only other info is it says "Norwood Company, Morton Grove IL. Patent Pending"
I have never been able to find any info on this thing, nor the company. Has anyone even HEARD of this particular piece of wonderful weirdness?
Looking to vibrate into a new frequency...
What's the best vibrator for a first-timer user? Bonus points for something that allows for solo and partner use! [more inside]
How to make my old cigarette lighter work in my new car?
I have two Toyotas, a '91 and a 2005. The 2005 has a cigarette lighter socket, but no ashtray -- hence the lighter socket is empty. I would like to plug my old lighter into the new socket to light my cigar, but it doesn't heat up. Anybody know a hack to make it work? [more inside]
Need a new razor!
I need a new razor/shave cream solution that will work on a weird beard and sensitive skin. [more inside]
Comparing public-school apples to apples?
Where can I find information comparing the educational quality provided by the *best* public schools in America with your average public schools elsewhere in the industrialized world? [more inside]
Why is my little toe numb?
Why does numbness in my little toe persist (and return) despite not wearing the offending shoes?
tl;dr details below the break. [more inside]
Poolside service in San Francisco Bay (ideally peninsula) area.
Looking for a swimming pool where we can relax in a lounge chair, order snacks and drinks, and take a dip. In the San Francisco Bay area (ideally in the peninsula). Like in a resort hotel, but without having to stay for a night. [more inside]
Please help my dad get a fair deal on a used Fender Telecaster.
What's a fair price for a second hand US made Fender Telecaster 52 Reissue and what's the market like? I'm hoping to prevent my dad from getting ripped off. [more inside]
Sell a Gmail Account
Someone (who I don't know) wants to buy one of my gmail addresses. Is this legal? How much should I ask for?
A cross tick
Looking for an embeddable, open-source app to create acrostics online! Something like the java app used by The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal but free. [more inside]
Tell me about Boston's good old days
I'm writing a book and want to include a scene set in the mid-1990s in Boston. I'm looking for articles, blog posts, photos and books that capture that era. Things that talk about specific bars, clubs and restaurants would be perfect. The main character is a college kid who visits Boston and is taken around to all the "cool" spots by a local girl he meets randomly.
What is a good non-USA based online bank account that offers visa debit card?
What is a good non-USA based online bank account that offers visa debit card? [more inside]
She's gonna chow down, regardless
I just opened a new bag of Puppy Chow to discover it's actually the large breed formula. She is not a large breed. Oops? [more inside]
What's the most efficient way to clean produce when the water isn't safe?
What is the most efficient and effective way to wash produce when my tap water is unsafe (microbes/heavy metals)? I live in China, and cook a lot. [more inside]
Can't you pick a different tattoo?
Younger brother asked my opinion on his prospective tattoo. Maybe I should keep my mouth shut, but I'm not sure. [more inside]
Friend bugs me for advice
A friend and I had a very brief fling a long time ago. To this day, she informs of every single romantic advance a man makes toward her and it's starting to annoy me (longer than I thought). [more inside]
Parlez-vous something something
Am I expected to speak French in Montreal? [more inside]
Fixing co-worker situation
How best to handle bad situation with co-workers? [more inside]
It's not rooted yet but that's probably coming
Previously, but 7 months is a long time in mobile phone software. Are there new, good apps for a couple who both have Android phones? [more inside]
Android made easy
I just my first Android phone. What's the easiest way to get my NPR and BBC podcasts onto it? And what are your favourite must-have apps in general? [more inside]
Places to rent between Lansing and Detroit, MI
Please recommend apartments for renting between Lansing Mi and Detroit Mi. ( potential towns Novi Mi, Farmington Hills Mi). [more inside]
Planning ideas for long-term travel
I'll be heading off for a multi-destination, 6 month trip, and I'd like suggestions for how to handle logistics & trip planning. [more inside]
cat vs sleep.
What to do with early morning kitty? GF is increasingly upset. [more inside]
Good men's clothing basics?
Good men's clothing basics, in the UK? [more inside]
My server of streaming tears
I'd like to use a 2007 Macbook Pro + 2TB FW ext HD as a NAS setup, but the drive keeps falling asleep and slowing and causing video to hiccup. How can I prevent this and get smooth movie playback? [more inside]
Blogs about infant and primary schools
I'm looking for blogs about teaching in infant or primary schools, preferably in the UK. [more inside]
Author search -help requested
Author name please. Read about him recently via the Zite Ipad app but have forgotten his surname. First name Alex, he won a book deal for his first novel and looked poised to be a literary star until the events of 9/11 robbed his contemporaneous book launch of all impact.
He's subsequently written another novel and I think also a short story collection. He teaches somewhere ;-)
thanks
Can anybody name this black digital watch (with an orange illuminator)?
Can anybody identify this digital watch? This is coming from memory, but it was a black, Databank-like watch with an amber-colored illuminator. [more inside]
Learning to Dive on Great Barrier Reef
Recommendations for PADI diving instruction on a liveaboard in the Great Barrier Reef? [more inside]
July 8
Not a Smoked, but a Smoking Duck
Is there anything to these examples of Kansas City graffiti? [more inside]
Wordpress User Management Challenge
Wordpress filter: I am trying to set up a user management system with some specific requirements. I have hit a road block. Please help. [more inside]
Help my friend keep kicking it with a kinked up hip
Resources for disabled New Yorkers? [more inside]
You won't get your drugs if you don't eat your vegetables...
What are the likely health effects of not eating vegetables? [more inside]
Dye this dress
I bought a new dress. I very much like everything about this dress except the colour: it is white, and I look terrible in white, and I would like to wear it to a wedding where I am not the bride. I bought this dress thinking "well, I can always go to askme to find out how to change the colour", and here I am: how do I dye it? [more inside]
you know, the mercurochrome song, the french one, with kalimba ...
Heard a catchy as-all-get-out song on CJBC-FM Espace musique early this afternoon. All I remember:
- In French
- Female singer
- Had kalimba/mbira featured pretty heavily
- Had "mercurochrome" and perhaps "petit pansement" in the lyrics.
Don't you forget about me... Oops.
I forgot to tell my boyfriend that I am going out of the country for vacation. I leave in a week. How can I tell him without hurting his feelings? [more inside]
Should I kill these insects?
What are these tiny round insects in my lily pond and should I get rid of them? [more inside]
Laugh? I thought I'd die!
What is the origin of the phrase, "Laugh? I thought I'd die!"? I'm under the impression that it's older than the Beau Brummels song (1964).
It's all in the wardrobe!
I am looking for an armoire/wardrobe/closet to hang my clothes. Any inexpensive ($250 or less) and non-cumbersome recommendations? Also, will it damage my clothes if it's in the bathroom, where I'll be showering daily? [more inside]
Any dangerous orange berries in Ontario?
ParanoidFilter: I chewed up a small orange berry in Ontario, Canada. It was very bitter and I still taste it about an hour later. Is there any chance it was dangerously poisonous? [more inside]
Help me name a new blog.
Help me name a new blog. [more inside]
Is this a good business idea in the USA?
How do I (legally!!) sell my homemade booze products from PA within the USA? And what do I have to know and think about and plan for and be prepared for, when I want to ship hundreds of jarred vegetarian food items from Germany to be sold via mail order in the USA? [more inside]
"The Dwarf" Restaurant/ What Do You Know About It?
I purchased a few pieces of vintage reataurantware that came from a restaurant called, "The Dwarf," The body of the the vitreous china is white and the rim is decorated with a green airbrished, stenciled oak leaf design. Inside the rim of the plate, cup and on the saucer are a dwarf wearing what looks to be an acorn hat. He's facing right and is dressed in maroon and green. Beneath him are the words, "The Dwarf." There is some speculation that The Dwarf was the original Chik-Fil-A. May not be the case. Any information about the restaurant will be much appreciated!
[more inside]
What's so cool about flying in squares?
vacapinta asked this way back in 2004 but the answers provided did not satiate my curiosity so I'm asking it again: What are these circling (or squaring) flies?
I live in San Francisco but I saw them when I lived in Southern California too.
I don't have a pressing reason I need the information, I'm just curious as all get-out about them. [more inside]
Gift for the golfing oilfield mentor?
Gift Filter: Under $40 shipped, small token of appreciation for my mentor. I'd like it to be a small decoration (or the like) that he could put on his desk. Other requirements: somehow related to both golf (his favorite hobby) and the oilfield (his career for 35+ years). I'm not very crafty, so hand making something isn't an option.
Pet problems at home.
I just moved in with my boyfriend, and as it turns out he's very easily annoyed by my pets. I'm looking for suggestions on how to moderate the tension so that both he and my little creatures can coexist without murdering each other. [more inside]
Removing fake FB profile?
My father is a relatively well-known public figure. Someone has created a fake Facebook profile in his name. It's pretty much impossible to contact FB directly to complain. Suggestions? [more inside]
Bipolar friend needs help but doesn't want it
How can I convince my bipolar friend to get treatment? [more inside]
People need a good home in Boston
Where in the Boston Metro area should we look for sub $2500 apartments. [more inside]
get deposit on house back
Are we entitled to our deposit for a house we put an offer on but canceled the sale due to the electrical wiring? [more inside]
Whistle sound coming from Volvo V70 XC?
Volvo V70 XC whistle on acceleration. What's up with that? [more inside]
Please help me find a way to vent/release my anger/stress.
Please help me find a way to vent/release my anger/stress. [more inside]
I'm a PC, you're a Mac
Switching to a Mac - how to rebind hotkeys for basic functions like cut, copy, paste, beginning of line, end of line, etc? [more inside]
You're still not done??
In some way, I'm too slow. It takes me a really long time to do things, especially if they're not interesting. This doesn't apply to all things though. I can move fast, and walk fast, and talk fast. [more inside]
In practice, could a Catholic be British Prime Minister?
Is there any reason why a Catholic would be unelectable as British Prime Minister, or any practical difficulties in having a Catholic Prime Minister? [more inside]
What can I do to make my 18-year-old female cousin's life better?
What can I do to make my 18-year-old female cousin's life better? [more inside]
Job offer retraction - what to do?
I've had a job offer retracted, and it's utterly screwed up my life. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
I like all the different people, I like sticky everywhere
Another "help me design my tattoo" question - how to turn a song lyric into a single image? [more inside]
How can I learn to be more assertive?
I want to be more assertive - to be able to express my needs, ask for and state things clearly without feeling guilty or being whiny. Please give me suggestions for how to learn and especially how to practice/build up to this so it becomes a habit. [more inside]
Pakistani cultural cues
Pakistani cultural cues -- please help me make technical design reviews less frustrating! [more inside]
Help make my LA trip unforgettable
LA-filter: Venice, Abbott Kinney. Places to stay, eat, drink in walking or biking distance? And: what or who replaced Stroh's? [more inside]
Anyone have any prenatal class recommendations in Vancouver, BC?
Anyone have any prenatal class recommendations in Vancouver, BC? [more inside]
give me french roast or give me death
What is wrong with coffee these days and why can't I get a freakin' french roast in a DC cafe? [more inside]
Help Me Focus?
Any recommndations for an herbal/OTC concentration aid that does NOT increase blood pressure? [more inside]
Finding others for video conference check-ins for self-employed
I'm a freelancer with plenty of ideas for what I should be doing to improve my business (and life in general), but I have a real hard time getting down to work without any kind of accountability or structure in my life. So here's what I'm thinking: Find 2 or 3 like-minded people and have brief daily check-ins via video conference to state our goals between now and our next session, and how we've done since our last session -- just keeping each other honest and on some kind of schedule. Where do I find people who would like to participate? [more inside]
I chose you over 10% more money.
I applied to Company's A and B. After about two weeks of interviews and talking to employees of each, Company A seemed better in nearly all respects. I received informal offers from both yesterday, but Company A specified a salary (which was well within the range I was looking for). I told company B this salary, but an hour or two later learned some things that ruled out company B pretty decisively. This morning Company B calls and offers me 10% more than Company A, and stock options (all other benefits being, afaik, equal). I realize I blew my chance at negotiation, but is there a way I can tactfully mention this to my now-employer, Company A? Could I expect them to offer a bit more, or to consider a raise more readily? [more inside]
Help me cheese it up.
What do you do with ricotta cheese? [more inside]
I'm not very good at barely getting by
How can I get a car that runs when I have no money? [more inside]
Sandpaper allergy??
Why do I feel like I'm allergic to sandpaper?? [more inside]
Using Imap to forward GMail to Apple Mail, but outgoing messages are landing in [Imap]/Drafts folder
I am using IMAP to forward GMail to Apple Mail, but outgoing messages keep landing in a folder called [Imap]/Drafts instead of sending. Why? [more inside]
How can I map out the elevations between two cities?
How steep are the roads between Albuquerque, NM; Gallup, NM;
Zion National Park, UT; Las Vegas, NV; Yosemite National Park, CA; and San Jose, CA? [more inside]
Hated Facebook. On to Google+?
I hate Facebook and quit it ages ago. Now I've got a Google+ invite. Should I use it? [more inside]
There's spam in Google's cache of my site
I have spam showing up in my website header and cached copy on Google's search results. [more inside]
How/Where can I find signing beta testers?
How can I find some sign language speakers to help me
with a beta test [more inside]
Help me find novels set in the past and present.
Help me find novels set in the past and present. [more inside]
Will I blow my hybrid's great gas mileage if I put a roof rack on top?
Prius or Insight owners with Yakima or Thule roof racks: How much of a hit do you take on your gas mileage just from having the rack on the roof? (i.e. no bikes, skis, or cargo box on top) [more inside]
One way ticket to jerkdom.
How do I stop being such a steamroller? [more inside]
Life after divorce - with kids.
I'm in the throes of a divorce. I have an 8 year old girl. I've met someone else - how best to integrate two people with young kids...more details below... [more inside]
Aside from Hershey...
I'm visiting a friend in Lititz, PA this weekend. What should I do while I'm up there? [more inside]
Is it time to come back to the grid?
This is a little complicated, but it is about identity and employment. [more inside]
Vistaprint for over-sized postcards? Yay or nay?
What are my printing and shipping options for 8.5 x 5.5 postcards? [more inside]
Online document "cart"
Development question: What is the functionality behind the "binder" module on this site: http://www.cravath.com/binder/ and how can it be recreated in Drupal/Joomla open source world? Thanks... [more inside]
How can I cool my top floor?
How can I cool the upper bedroom of my house? [more inside]
Give Me not this day my daily bread, it hurts
Where can I get good, simple, non-chewy takeout soup in downtown Montreal? [more inside]
Sour Apple or Blue Raspberry?
Jolly Ranchers chemistry. Why do you get so sticky? And how do I fix you? [more inside]
No, not lab goggles, thanks.
Better living through plant healing
Help me save Mabel, my new spider plant, who is not adjusting to my apartment very well at all. [more inside]
19th century book identification
Book identification: 19th century (?) American (??) novel with a scene that compares telepathy to rape [more inside]
The e-mail came from…inside the house!
Weird Google Groups and/or Gmail issue. I sent a message to a Google-hosted mailing list I am on, from a Google Apps e-mail address, and received a couple of unlikely e-mails in response…from myself. [more inside]
Explaning job departure in new job application
How to explain why I left working for a summer camp now that I am applying for a position that asks for whether I have been fired, or mutually let go for any reason of a job in the past five years as it pertains to a government position? [more inside]
Why don't I want to shower?
Why don't I want to shower? Even thinking about it makes me twitch a bit. [more inside]
Where to get a joey for Joey?
Librarian/KidsBookFilter: I want to get a friend's imminent arrival a very specific species of stuffed animal with a related story book for 4-year-old big sister... Oz-tastic teeny tiny little snowflake details to follow... [more inside]
DMV in NYC
I have to deal with the DMV, which is rapidly draining me of my will to live. I have two simple questions, to which I can't find the answers, unbelievably. 1) In NYC (Manhattan), do I have to schedule a written test for a learner's permit, or do I just walk in? 2) Do I have to show proof of address? I don't have any utility bills or a lease, so that is making me a bit nervous. I have all the other forms of ID though (passport, social security card, long-expired out-of-state license.)
My kingdom for...a list of government agency contacts!
(asking for a friend:) Is there a quick way to find organizational charts (incl. contact info) for government agencies? [more inside]
Books on con artists, deception, foul play and secret double lives?
Recommendations for thrilling true-life tales of bluebloods behaving badly? [more inside]
How to send email newsletters most easily?
What's the easiest way to create and send an email newsletter that includes links to an archived version of the same newsletter? Difficulty: no HTML skills and the email-marketing service I'm using doesn't support exporting pdfs. [more inside]
Human-Powered Parade Float
How much weight can a human-powered parade float (featuring two side-by-side 10-speed bicycle drive trains coupled to the rear axle of the float) reasonably pull along a flat stretch of trolley tracks? [more inside]
Looking gift tech gear in the mouth.
Potential Computer Upgrades for Misers, or should I accept this free laptop? [more inside]
Surfer Alert! What size surfboard is appropriate for my 11 year old girl?
What size surfboard is appropriate for my 11 year old girl?
My daughter has been surfing using a friend’s surfboard of unknown length but presumably around 6” long. She is about 4-10” or so and maybe 80lbs. We live in southern NJ where is surf is mild to moderate. What size board and other qualities do I need to consider? I’m assuming I’ll be buying a used board. Help me surfers!!
Online Music Retail
Where do you purchase your online music? I've been using Amazon since they sell MP3s without DRM. I'm not a fan of the software the provide though.
Dressing the petite hourglass?
Help a petite hourglass play dress up: What are your guidelines, links, favorite pieces and prohibitions for making the most out of a small but curvy silhouette? [more inside]
Windows 7 on the iMac
A few questions about installing Windows 7 on my iMac. [more inside]
I'll just go talk over here for a while.
Really good recent monologues/soliloquies in plays? [more inside]
Question about the diuretic and water retention effect of foods?
Question about the diuretic and water retention effect of foods? [more inside]
Which courier /postal services in the UK only deliver on weekdays?
Which courier /postal services in the UK only deliver on weekdays? [more inside]
Need suggestions for non-electronic fun
(Posting for non-mefites) Couple in their 30’s, happily married 10 years, no children, they have great weekends, great vacations. However, husband comes home tired from work, default evenings are husband/iPad, wife/computer. What are some playing together or parallel play options? [more inside]
July 7
Software development tools for developing other things?
Software developers, project managers, anybody trying to improve complex processes involving lots of people: Help us manage and improve a training program. [more inside]
Are baby hats with tie-strings safe?
Are baby hats with tie-strings OK, safety-wise, or are they a strangulation hazard? [more inside]
How to help out a depressed brother?
My brother gets depressed. He's been looking for a job for over a year with no luck. Aside from getting him a job, how can I help him? [more inside]
Fever for a mambo, hungary for ?
I'm looking for the name of the hot, sweet, mambo version of Liszt's Hungarian Rhapsody No. 2 that I heard while buying lunch today. [more inside]
(Not so) dead man's switch
Does anyone know of software other than Daisyman's DMS that acts as a "dead man's switch", i.e. will carry out a task (send an email or delete a file or similar) if I don't "reset" it within a certain time frame? If not, how would you suggest I go about writing such a program? [more inside]
What nightmare-inducing Made-for-TV movie shouldn't I have watched as a kid?
Name that early '80s TV Movie filter: Creepy softball coach lures preteen girl into a spate of child porn posing with guilt, Quaaludes and orange soda in glass bottles. What the heck was it? [more inside]
Help my jade plant come back to life!
My jade plant is suffering. How do I help it? [more inside]
Mickey Mouse's Ass on a T-Shirt?
Where can I get an old-school design "reversed-on-the-back" Mickey Mouse t-shirt? [more inside]
Help! I don't know how to shop!
Hey Mefites,
I need help figuring out how to buy casual clothes for my "new" body style! [more inside]
Roomba for Gmail
Is it possible to set up a script or macro to run periodically on my Gmail inbox? [more inside]
Observing a surgery - how to be professional & not make an ass of myself?
Observing in the operating room - fantastic! Now, how not to act a fool? [more inside]
Learning a language quickly - class vs. tutor?
Learning a language quickly - class vs. tutor? [more inside]
What are the science-fictioniest manufacturing locations in the world?
What are the science-fictioniest manufacturing locations in the world? [more inside]
Maid of honor/Bridal shower advice
I'm maid of honor for my sister's upcoming wedding, and fear her inner Bridezilla is coming out. [more inside]
Help me identify a Body Shop perfume circa 2000.
Help me identify a Body Shop perfume circa 2000. [more inside]
How to get a kitten to be our dog's best friend?
Tips for a successful dog and kitten union? [more inside]
Autumn in Paree
Looking for places to stay in Paris in October. [more inside]
Bean betrayal. Is it possible?
Beans, beans, they're good for your heart, but the more you eat, the more you fart. Is it true, Metafilter? [more inside]
Who might publish this?
Where can I shove this?
I've recently completed a humour piece. Who might publish it? [more inside]
The rules for job offers
Job offer ethics and protocol: I don't want to break the rules, but I don't know what the rules are. [more inside]
how to handle cash
what is the smartest way to save cash? [more inside]
Softcore pr0n for guys?
Straight couple in their 40s needs softcore porn suggestions for him. [more inside]
Divorced parent didn't announce his new marriage, but is now asking a favor for newborn half-sibling, what to do?
I recently received an email from my dad, asking me to pick out several English names for my half-sister and I'm at a loss at how to deal with the situation due to the way my parents divorced and how my dad handled his new marriage (snowflake details below). [more inside]
I've taken the Android tablet as prescribed... now what?
I recently bought an Acer Iconia A500 Android tablet. I had two questions about it though: Does anyone have any Android tablet (honeycomb) specific app recommendations, and should I root the device and why?
More like Hunger Games, please?
Looking for books a lot like the Hunger Games for a reluctant (adult) reader? Likes: POV changes and fast pace. [more inside]
What to pack and how to get to Anderson Ranch Art Center
I am headed to Anderson Ranch Art Center in Snowmass Village, Co next week. I have no idea what to bring or how to get there from the airport. Any suggestions? [more inside]
How can I increase the intensity of my workouts?
How can I increase the intensity of my workout without making it longer? Complications: I can't run, lift, or swim. [more inside]
Pre-international flight checklist.
What is the process for/before boarding an international flight (to Canada) and roughly how long does it take? [more inside]
Help me sell my car!
How to sell my car? I just moved from VA to CA and want to sell my car that still has a loan on it (though it should sell for substantially more than I owe)... how does that work? [more inside]
Optimal step order for setting up a retail shop
I'm putting together a business plan to open a brick-and-mortar retail shop and know, in general, everything that needs to be done, but I can't find information anywhere that suggests the optimal *order* things should be done in. [more inside]
How to set healthy boundaries when you're sick of therapy?
How does one build boundaries when not interested in therapy? [more inside]
If Providence, RI was a color/song/animal, what would it be?
What is Providence, RI like? [more inside]
How to get this place clean?
We're having a party. Our house is a disaster. I feel like I need a professional to help. Fiance disagrees. I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Can my laptop talk to VPNs through my Atrix phone?
Is there a way to allow vpn passthru on my tethered Motorola Atrix? I don't want to use the vpn client on the phone (which I've heard is buggy), just use the internet connection and the vpn client on my laptop. [more inside]
Autoclaving flask stoppers: rubber, silicone, or something else?
What is the best flask stopper material for repeated autoclaving / use in sterile applications? Is rubber okay? Would silicone (or something else) be better? [more inside]
Seeking hypnotic music mix
Looking for an hour or longer album or mix of atmospheric music with hypnotic beats, slow or fast, doesn’t matter. The style can be anything, though preferably current, preferably instrumental, and preferably a little dark.
Yes, yes I'm not the customer I'm the product
Google, Gmail and Facebook rolled out some major redesigns recently. In fact they look quite similar to me; a bunch of random floating lists and boxes, with a dark bar at the top. What's the philosophy beside the aesthetic choices? I realize that there are technical improvements going on behind the scenes and that taste is subjective. Still, there must be some reason Google and Facebook would make major cosmetic changes. Hey designers, what's the logic?
Corporate Job vs. Nanny?
Corporate Job vs. Nanny, need appropriate questions to ask. (See within for more details) [more inside]
What to do when in love with two people?
What to do when in love with two people? (Sex talk so possibly NSFW) [more inside]
Dog with tender inner thighs.
Why are my dog's inner thighs tender? [more inside]
DIY food processing umbrella term
What do these things have in common? Cheesemaking, home brewing, pickling, canning, smoking, etc. [more inside]
She's the Vegemite in my friendship cupboard.
I’m hosting a party tonight for about 18 people and I have a friend coming who has a difficult personality (and most of my other friends dislike and prefer to avoid her when possible). How can I, as the hostess, make sure everyone still has a good time, including her? [more inside]
Sexually to Men, Emotionally to women.
Sexually attracted to men, emotionally attracted to women. My sexual orientation? I don't know. Lots of detail. I need support. Help me. [more inside]
What are some telltale signs of ADHD and learning disorders in young children?
Sometimes my 3 year-old daughter strikes me as "not all there." I've been so careful to not be a paranoid helicopter mom that I now wonder if I've missed something. What signs should I look out for when considering ADHD and/or learning disabilities and delays? [more inside]
Help me fix my nifty webapp
Help me repair or replace this nifty instrument availability web app on my facility's website. [more inside]
How to make kitty happy?
How do I give my new kitty the best home possible? [more inside]
Yet another workout question
Looking for an exercise program that can be done in the house, with minimal equipment, with the wife... [more inside]
Great online email client
I use Gmail in a browser to read my mail 99% of the time. it's fast, can be accessed everywhere, yet I have some reservations about using it. Are there online alternatives that would work better? [more inside]
Chicken or egg.. How do I get a proof of address without a perm address?!
Moving to London: What are the simplest & quickest ways to obtain a proof of address letter? [more inside]
Help me sing the blues. To my mac mini. Without a preamp.
Seeking USB hub with audio in, or some other way to use my pro mic with my MacMini. [more inside]
How can I cover my filesharing tracks?
How can I cover my filesharing tracks? [more inside]
Can you use an PC's case to boost the antenna for an 3G PCI card?
Can you use an PC's case to boost the antenna for an 3G PCI card? [more inside]
Sculptor making jewelry seeks advice
I am working on a jewelry line this summer and I'm wondering if anyone could share resources on the next steps after design and sample fabrication. Unfortunately, I work in a completely different field (sculpture) and don't know the ins and outs of the fashion biz. [more inside]
Chicago filter: Daycare help!
We are 12 weeks pregnant! Hooray! Now down to the nitty gritty, and I'm nothing if not a planner. First time mother, so this is all relatively new to me. I need some advice from the wise hive mind about childcare and the search for it in Chicago.
My plan is to take about 3-3.5 months maternity leave and then head back to work full-time. We are due in late January, so I guess we would be looking to start daycare in early May.
Question 1: When should I start looking seriously? I know this is early, but I don't want to miss the boat.
Question 2: Any good recommendations? We are in the Logan Square area, but I would also be open to places in Wicker Park/Bucktown, Irving Park, or Roscoe Village.
Question 3: What should I expect to pay for five full days? (I checked out some rates and they seemed insanely high to me, but maybe I just need to acclimate and adjust the budget accordingly).
Thank you, everyone!
Howto: IBMJCEFIPS and Tomcat?
How to setup Tomcat with the IBMJCEFIPS provider? [more inside]
Where to spend a couple hours waiting north of Chicago at night?
Please help me find some place pleasant, close to a train station, to pass the time from 10:00pm-12:00am north of Chicago, IL. [more inside]
Why isn't Congress's Salary Paid by the States?
Can anyone explain to me the reason why the pay for members of the United States Congress is paid by the federal government and not their respective states? Was such a system ever considered and rejected and, if so, why? I recognize that the offices are federal, but their ties to their state is the very reason they are there. Wouldn't state legislatures want that control or were they happy to dump the costs onto the federal government? This seems like something that would have been debated very early in our history yet I can't find any info on it.
Thanks.
Story-based running podcast
I'm looking for a podcast that uses fictional plot points to motivate running. [more inside]
And, No. It Wasn't From Sholay!
I'm looking for a specific Bollywood music video starring Amitabh Bachchan. Special garam masala snowflake details inside... [more inside]
What is this weird lump under my eye?
What is this weird lump under my eye? [more inside]
"Locked-in syndrome" from bad drugs?
An underground chemist messed up a batch of -- something -- and caused an outbreak of locked-in syndrome (ie total paralysis) in, like, a half dozen people. I remember reading about this somewhere. (Was it in the Butterfly and the Bell Jar?) Does anyone know the whole story? [more inside]
Alternative to headphones/earbuds while bicycling?
I'm looking for ways to listen to music while bicycling that are safer than headphones/earbuds. [more inside]
Songs about being on the run?
A friend of mine is moving across the country soon, and she's asked for music mixes to entertain her on the long drive. I've decided to make a mix entirely of songs about running from the law. I need help finding some. [more inside]
Origin of the minimalist animated gif?
I am trying to figure out who (singularly or convergently) first came up with "cinegraphs", or just artfully subtle animated GIFs. Is there a known first instance of this? A known "wow, look what I came up with" post anywhere?
a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away...
star wars saga tabletop RPG filter: new to the game and having a blast, but we're confused about a couple of things (enemy attack rolls & character upkeep). [more inside]
Fast web host for Wordpress and phpBB?
What is the fastest web host for Wordpress and a phpBB forum? [more inside]
I left, but I want to come back...
How bad is this situation? I'm applying for a job at a company that I previously worked at for only four months. [more inside]
How do I help my friend solve her mysterious abdominal pain issue?
How do I help my friend solve her mysterious abdominal pain issue? [more inside]
Pictures at memorial of recently deceased friend?
(posting for a buddy of mine) Is it ever ok to take pictures at the memorial of a recently deceased friend? [more inside]
Where should I go?
I have about six weeks off to travel before starting a new job, beginning August 1st. I'm having a tough time choosing where to go, and I need to get plane tickets soon before they jump up in price. Any suggestions? Details below. [more inside]
The coffee, it burns!
Where can I find this specific style of coffee mug and what is it called? [more inside]
Theology reading list, please
I want a primer on 20th century theology. Reading suggestions? [more inside]
End of life organization?
What do I need to know to prepare for my parents (hopefully far in the future) death? What should they have ready? What about to make my or my partner's death/incapacitaton easier on the other? Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
How do I get over my anxiety about what turns up when people search for me on the internets?
Internet anonymity and lack thereof (I know, I know). [more inside]
Putting on the hotness.
How should I dress for a job interview? (Hot weather edition) [more inside]
How important is WiFi security in a rural area?
How important is WiFi security in a rural area? [more inside]
How to clean garden furniture?
How do you clean last winter's grunge off plastic outdoor furniture (chairs, tables)? [more inside]
Facebook Comments confuse me. Help.
Is it possible to unify comments across my Facebook page and blog? [more inside]
Neurologist in Baltimore
Can you recommend a neurologist in Baltimore for treatment of atypical migraine symptoms? [more inside]
He's free now. He went back to the trees.
My first "Whats this bug?" ! [more inside]
Automated notifications?
How to automate notifications from a wide variety of sources? [more inside]
What are the ideal cupboard conditions in which to hygienically store cups?
What are the ideal cupboard conditions in which to hygienically store cups? [more inside]
What's the best Tablet for editing/reviewing documents?
Tablet Advice: I read/review/edit manuscripts all the time - Which tablet should I get to facilitate this on the go? [more inside]
I just want to call a banana a banana, please don't sue me!
A question about common nouns and issues of copyright... [more inside]
Making shower time even better
I love taking showers. Do you have any tips, tricks or ideas to make my shower experience even more enjoyable?
July 6
Looking for inexpensive, decent hostels in Italy.
Traveling to Italy/Paris in the middle of August and looking for hostels. [more inside]
Sex in movies: how does it work?
Sex in movies: how does it work? [more inside]
How can I replicate this cold coffee dripper thingy with off-the-shelf components?
This doesn't look like $265 of laboratory glassware, but that could be because I don't know the first thing about buying laboratory glassware beyond buying some $5 borosilicate flasks once for making yeast starters, and ignorance breeds confidence. How would one go about effectively replicating this device with off-the-shelf components from an online lab supplier? Extra lives for links!
Safe place to put money in an economic depression
If the American and world economy truly implodes, where is the safest place to have one's money and why?
Feed me Pi
3.141592653589793238462643383279502884197169399375105820974944592.com has one million digits of Pi. I think. I've tried index2.html and index3.html, but I can't find the million digits. Where are they?
"I prefer the term 'entrepreneur.'" Give me stories about entrepreneurialism.
I've finished watching the HBO series "How to Make It in America." Any other shows, movies, books, fiction or nonfiction, like it? You can interpret that pretty broadly, but, basically, one or two guys (or girls) trying to "make it" (in the big city, or not) by tackling something that's kind of out of their league, which is to create a business from scratch. [more inside]
I show up to work, but my brain doesn't.
How can I prevent my brain from remaining a useless sack of protoplasm for the majority of the work day? (Significant (but not excessively over-indulgent) snowflakianism follows....) [more inside]
Help me get rid of this armpit rash, please
I have had an issue with a bumpy, red, ITCHY rash for the last 7 years when I use certain anti-perspirants/deodorants, and have been changing them up to fix the rash. I am asking for your help because the rash is back, I am clean out of ideas and am holding off the rash only slightly right now. Sorry for the long post, details inside. [more inside]
How do I stop hating myself and find inner peace?
I am unhappy about 95% of the time. Seems like no matter what I do, it's never enough and I'm never satisfied with myself. I base my happiness on external things and I'm aware it's the wrong way to go.. but how do I change it? [more inside]
What's the fastest swim stroke to learn?
What's the easiest/fastest swim stroke to learn? I'm a bit of a nervous beginner and I just want to go from point A to point B in water. A head- above-water stroke would be great but not absolutely necessary. The instructional videos I've seen on youtube seem more focussed on form and technique for the "official" strokes (front crawl, breaststroke, butterfly). Is there a quick and dirty swim stroke?
Songs with arguments?
Songs with arguments? [more inside]
What is the best ridiculously cheap phone that works on Verizon?
I need a super cheap stopgap phone. Which one should I get? [more inside]
Immigration lawyer in New York
I need an indication of a good immigration lawyer in NYC. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go? 2011 career satisfaction edition.
In this economy, can I actually take a step back and have it lead to a step forward? Or should I cling to what I have, even if it isn't enough income, until the step forward appears? (Or, more accurately, until I hunt that sucker down, maybe, eventually. Rambling long-form snowflake details, etc....) [more inside]
Where in NYC can I set up an ersatz stoop sale?
I want to do a stoop sale (aka yard sale) to offload things I no longer need, but I can't use my own stoop... where in New York can I have one? [more inside]
Gah, we're never going to get there!
Best Android navigation software for the US? [more inside]
What's the best *portable* bluetooth keyboard for iPad?
Best bluetooth keyboard for iPad? [more inside]
obsessive behavior
obsessive litter box behavior - what does it mean? [more inside]
Why are Turntable.fm and Chrome not friends?
How can I make turntable.fm work with Google Chrome? I've uninstalled and updated to the most recent version (12.0.742.112), Flash is up to date, AdBlock is disabled, and I still don't get a log-in button on the page.
If the ultrasound was normal, what else could this mass be?
I know you aren't my doctor, but I'm just frustrated and hoping for some ideas while I wait for a follow-up appointment. For the last two months, I've developed a tender mass on the left side of my abdomen, right underneath the ribs. I noticed it during my last period, it stopped hurting after a few days, and now it's come back again with my next period. [more inside]
It's adorable AND delicious!
I like drinking out of teeny tiny cups. If drinking a beverage involves repeatedly pouring it out of a large container into a cup that holds like 5 sips, I'm into it. Please tell me every conceivable example of this. [more inside]
I could go to the US twice with that money (& it took me a while to afford getting here)
There's a New Years gig in Manchester I'm looking at attending, and I thought I'd make a trip of it by visiting my sister in Bristol (amongst other things). However, flights from Australia to England are ridiculously expensive. Is there a way I could fly to another European country and take a cheap flight (or some other form of transport) over? [more inside]
Blogs about "having it all"?
I'm looking for thoughtful writing by women dealing with the challenges of trying to "have it all". [more inside]
Keep my meetup from becoming a creepup!
Help me resolve my first Meetup group drama. [more inside]
How do I break news to my girlfriend that I'll be out of country for six months?
How do I break news to my girlfriend that I'll be out of country for six months? [more inside]
Stop the beeping!
The battery in my APC RS900 UPS is dying, and I've ordered a replacement. Unfortunately, it doesn't know that help is on the way, and is beeping at me relentlessly. How can I make it stop? [more inside]
In search of Cleveland's mystery almond cone.
Can you identify the incredible conical, chocolate-dipped almond pastry I ate in Cleveland? [more inside]
Booty, Booty, Booty
I'm trying to recall a TV Show, I think in the 90s, that had the phrase, "Booty, booty, booty!" [more inside]
Dot dot, dot dot dot, dash, dot dot dot dot, dot--oh, screw it
Is there a repository for old telegrams? [more inside]
MY MOPPING TECHNIQUE IS UNSTOPPABLE (not really)
Please help me get my floors as clean as possible. [more inside]
Help me make most of my 5 week stay in Buenos Aires.
Help me make most of my 5 week stay in Buenos Aires. [more inside]
Looking for unique activities in Southern California
Looking for unique/unusual/off the beaten path things in the Orange County, CA area. Ideas? [more inside]
Software development jobs in the Middle East
Any tips for finding software development jobs in the Middle East? Specifically Jordan? [more inside]
Help, experienced travelers and San Diegans: where can I find lodgings during Comic Con?
Help, experienced travelers and San Diegans: where can I find lodgings during Comic Con? [more inside]
selling a dot com
I own a very valuable domain name -- it has been appraised at $100k-$150k and I believe it. However, I have no clue where to find a competent premium domain broker to sell it for me. Google just turns up auction sites. Any recommendations, referrals, suggestions? [more inside]
Wailing and gnashing of teeth
Cat adoption filter: should we take in a young feral who seems to have adopted us, or should we find a different kitten to bring into our home? Complicating details inside. Bit of a novella, apologies in advance for the length. [more inside]
Leaving the US - for where?
I'd like to emigrate - but where should I go? [more inside]
Birth Control Redux
How do I take control of my reproductive health when stressing about it is sabotaging everything? [more inside]
Is there a name or category this symptom falls under?
I need help identifying a name or category for this troubling mental health symptom so that appropriate kinds of therapy may be sought.(Not me, thankfully.) [more inside]
Writing a will in D.C.
Looking for recommendations for a competent lawyer to help me create a will in Washington, D.C. [more inside]
Short pants that don't look stupid?
I'm a skinny guy looking for some summer shorts that won't make me look entirely goofy and/or juvenile. Can you help?
In sickness and in crippling fear of you judging me
Be Excellent To Each Other: Anxious Spouse Edition [more inside]
No libido after baby
So, I gave birth to my first child 11 months ago. And I still have no interest in sex. What now? [more inside]
Where should I live in the Netherlands?
Mrs Primate, the Messrs Primates Junior and I may be moving back to the Netherlands in the near future. I'm looking for recommendations of small towns or neighborhoods in larger cities to check out. We're know A'dam inside and out and are pretty familiar with Utrecht and Haarlem, but we haven't actually lived in the country since 1999 (although we visit twice a year), so.... [more inside]
MTV documentary about one hit wonders from 1999?
Where can I find this one MTV documentary about one hit-wonders aired in 1999? [more inside]
I'm looking for folk tales about love.
I'm looking for folk tales about romantic love. The shorter and sweeter (in both senses!) the better. No tragic endings, nothing terribly vulgar, and definitely appropriate for a range of audiences.
how to best run a competitive eating contest?
have you ever run or participated in a competitive eating contest? i'm helping put one together for a street festival and would love to pick ask mefi's collective brains for tips on what to do and what to avoid!
Where's my mail?
Canada Post: Since the back to work legislation, Canada Post seems to be rationing my mail. What I mean is, since they resumed mail delivery, my house has not gotten more than two letters a day. My neighbors have said similar things about their mail deliveries, no one is getting more than the lightest trickle of mail. I'm waiting on a number of items that I know have been in their system for a month... What's going on? [more inside]
East Coast Thyroid Doctors
Can you recommend an Armour-prescribing physician in the NYC area? [more inside]
Three-day beach vacation in September
Vacation filter: My wife & I would like to take a three-day-long weekend trip for our fifth anniversary the second weekend in September (not Labor Day). Want to do nothing but laze on a beach within either a 3-4 hour drive or flight (non-stop only) from NYC. Looking for suggested destinations & hotels/resorts. Some more details inside. [more inside]
Cleaning mini multi tools
I have a couple of mini knives/multi-tools (1 Leatherman and 1 Gerber). I like both of them a lot, but they are getting kind of old (1 is 13 years old and the other is about 4 years old).
I am looking for a way to clear them properly so that some of the minor rust spots are gone and get rid of all of the "stuff" that has accumulated in the knife over the years. However, where they are so small, I am finding this difficult.
Any tips/suggestions as to go about doing this?
I have some sex issues, but I also have a potential partner who is willing to work with me on them. How to proceed?
Late to the sex game, and for the first time, I think the boy I'm with is the one who might be able to work with me on this. He is aware of the issues. Looking for advice on best way to proceed. More inside. [more inside]
Moving on from a bipolar ex
Recent break up, ex is bipolar, need some help. [more inside]
Help me move to London
I'm moving to London! Help me figure out where to live and how I'm going to get to work and back. Especially curious about commuting by bike. [more inside]
How can I help birds discover my new bird feeder?
How can I get birds to 'discover' the new bird feeder? [more inside]
just please don't hate me more
I would like some help in dealing with my insecurities. How can I ask it from my loved ones without coming across as selfish or annoying? [more inside]
Be prepared.
Help me stock my house for 24-hr sex-a-thon. [more inside]
What is the best way to collect on a debt owed by a friend?
What is the best way to collect on a loan made to a friend? [more inside]
From the Hills to the Trees
Looking for fun things to do/stop overs between San Francisco and Humboldt County CA. Party includes a 6 yo. (mid next week if that matters). [more inside]
Where should I swim / enjoy leisure?
Swimming in Pittsburgh! I'm not interested in swimming in the rivers, but looking for great (not as in the Great Lake Erie) lake suggestions, ideally within an hour of Pittsburgh/Shadyside. [more inside]
Learning more about fireworks
How do I learn more about building and using fireworks? [more inside]
Why are New Zealand turn signal controls backwards?
Why are turn signal controls on the right side of the steering wheel in New Zealand, but on the left side in the United States and the UK? [more inside]
Baby Rhyme Translation
Can anyone translate this baby game rhyme? It's possibly German or Polish. [more inside]
getitoffme getitoffme
Is this an actual phenomenon - having a physical sensation like bugs are crawling up your bare skin? This happens mostly when I'm trying to sleep, and sometimes I'll be almost asleep and then feel something big moving up my arm and jolt awake and brush off the nonexistent bug on my skin. I've only heard about this in the context of drug users (e.g. A Scanner Darkly) but that doesn't apply to me. So is this a thing, and what can I do about it? Could it be caused by drinking coffee? Am I just unusually freaked about bugs?
Filming on mass transit in Toronto, Canada. Legal?
Filming on mass transit in Toronto, Canada. Legal? ... A friend of a friend of mine was on a Toronto streetcar when a fellow passenger complained about the delay to the driver. The driver threw a fit and decided the passenger had to leave or she wouldn't drive on. The passenger refused. The driver called an inspector. The inspector sided with the driver (of course). My friend captured this on her cell phone video. When the inspector sees the camera (which was in clear view the entire time) he walks over and smashes the camera out of her hand (he didn't ask her to turn it off first). My friend wants to post the video but is unaware if filming on the transit system in the city is illegal as faces are clearly visible. I saw the video and was shocked and want it spread wide. Legally, what's the situation? [more inside]
Help me help my overtired boss
How can I help my overtired boss [more inside]
I need help with a baby shower thing!
I need ideas for a baby shower ceremony in which all the guests contribute to something physical that the mother-to-be can take with her into the delivery room. [more inside]
Review my tattoo idea and recommend a Maryland artist!
I've been thinking about getting a science-related tattoo for a long time, and I think I'm finally down to a concept that is really meaningful to me. I'm looking for refinements/comments on feasibility/inspired ideas from others on the concept, as well as recommendations for an artist in Maryland (especially the Rockville/Bethesda area). [more inside]
A friend of a friend is pregnant. She lives in NY city, is an orthodox jew, has no money, and the dad is not in the picture. What are programs to get her support, medical attention, etc?
A friend of a friend is pregnant. She lives in NY city, is an orthodox jew, has no money, and the dad is not in the picture. What are programs to get her support, medical attention, etc? [more inside]
How might fortune teller have guessed someone's age and flower?
A friend was approached on the street by a self-proclaimed fortune teller. To prove his abilities, he gave my friend a piece of crumpled paper to put in his pocket, then asked him for a favorite flower and his age. Both were on the piece of paper (daffodil, 35). Friend didn't buy this guy's services and they parted. Friend claims there was no time for sleight of hand. How might this trick have been done?
Looking for a traveling case for two small headphones and an iPod
I'm looking to make or buy a traveling case for my iPod (classic v6) and two sets of headphones (image, including new headphone case). Thoughts inside. [more inside]
Recommended Librivox Audiobooks
Great Librivox audiobooks? [more inside]
Please recommend a CRM tool.
CRM Filter: I have a very small, but growing, business and we're at the stage where we need a CRM tool but Salesforce is really too much for us. What can you recommend that will be small enough that we'll actually use it but powerful enough that we won't outgrow it within a year or two? [more inside]
Your quest: Find an obscure news clip!
Internet Detectives! Help me find a video or audio recording of a clip from a news program I'm looking for! [more inside]
Dating when 30 is like being 12 all over again. Seriously.
Need advice before I accidentally sabotage this awesome new potential relationship. [more inside]
Why might a 6mm and an 8mm spot be hanging out on a lung?
Why might a 6mm and an 8mm spot be hanging out on a lung? [more inside]
Masking my landline's outgoing number, with another phone number.
I just moved to a new part of the state, and had a landline telephone installed through my local telco. I asked if they could port my old number (123)-xxx-xxxx to my new landline, and they said my old number was not in the same "Rate Center". I confirmed that they were telling the truth based on this AskMeFi post.
I have the option to enable call forwarding from my old number to my new landline, which takes care of incoming calls.
Now I am turning to you, the hivemind, to find out how to dial out from my new landline, and have my old number, (123)-xxx-xxxx, show up on other peoples' caller ID.
I've done some searching and found a bunch of convoluted VoIP setups that would achieve this solution for me, but I'm not that technical, and I don't want to have to dial a million numbers just to make a single phone call from my land-line.
Does the hive mind have any simple solutions?
Can I run a water hose across a city street.
Can I run a water hose across a city street? [more inside]
Quiet time for two in Bermuda
Where to find a quiet, romantic spot in Bermuda during Cup Match? [more inside]
I thought this was why we had an indoor cat!
It seems we have fleas. We've started the treatment and process recommended by our vet, but is our problem getting worse or better? What should we expect next? [more inside]
I will not let this cycle of stupid behavior continue.
Met the parents. They're crazy. Need to develop strategies to cope and set clear and unavoidable bondaries NOW before the cycle of stupid and exploitative behavior continues. [more inside]
Stamp me a custom metal bracket
We need a new bracket for our vinyl fence. Unfortunately, we can't find the part we need. Has anyone had experience using emachines or another custom machining company? We don't need the part carved from a block of metal - we just a stamped metal bracket made to our specifications.
The Quicken and the dead...
QuickenFilter: Laptop died. Now what? [more inside]
Overtime+wages+more overtime=brainfart
Please help me work out this wages/payroll problem. [more inside]
Can you identify this aircraft?
I'd like to identify the aircarft in this photograph. [more inside]
Educational Videogames for Grownups
Educational videogames tend to be aimed at children and/or not much fun to play (and/or both). "Typing of the Dead" is a great exception. Are there other truly addictive videogames a grownup can enjoy while learning something? The subject being taught is irrelevant-- I'd just love for my gaming time to result in some sort of useful skill. [more inside]
Hacking an Industrial Machine for Profit?
Someone has an idea to put to use an existing industrial machine that would expand its capabilities and reach other markets. At the moment there are 3 companies that manufacture this machine that he'd like to approach. [more inside]
Weight losers: Foods that minimize calories after drinking?
What foods do you eat to keep yourself feeling full or satiated before or after a high-calorie, low nutrition activity such as drinking? [more inside]
July 5
Starting a Business in Pacific Paradise? Tips and Pitfalls
I'm looking for guides, honest accounts and balanced sober economic plans, proposals, checklists etc on the realities of starting a small business in a South Pacific Island Country (think Fiji, Vanuatu, etc) as an American. [more inside]
Cure my sister's hogweed exposure symptoms!
A cure for giant hogweed burns? [more inside]
It's just a step to the left...
Can you identify this not-famous game? Filter: Looking for an online game I lost. A very simplistic, grid-based drag-and-line-up same-colored squares game (Flash). I want to locate the game and hopefully download it for offline play. But first I need to find it! [more inside]
Help me find where to stay in Bangkok?
I have 2 nights and 3 partial days in Bangkok before meeting up with family to head to Koh Samui. Where should I stay? [more inside]
Gmail Email Address Recovery
Gmail account recovery. Please help. Long winded story inside. [more inside]
How do I appeal this parking ticket?
How should I try to fight this ticket? [more inside]
What's a good digital camera?
What's the best digital camera to take environmental photos with? We're looking to purchase a new camera and am considering spending between $1000-$1500 total. We take many photos of the wilderness, lakes, mountains, etc... Since we do a lot of backpacking, we would like it to be somewhat compact. Any suggestions would be helpful.
Why won't Microsoft Word auto-correct the word THE?
Why won't Microsoft Word auto-correct the word THE? [more inside]
I made a career change - is it too late to change back?
After a career change and a trip back to school for an MSc in Environmental Sciences, I now work in the contaminated land field. I want to find a new job and maybe even change back to what I used to do. I've had my current job for 3 years. Previously I was a technical writer and then I helped companies prepare I.T. controls for Sarbanes Oxley audits. [more inside]
Free crash course in DSLR
What is the best resource for giving yourself a crash course in using a Digital SLR camera? Food photography tips also appreciated. [more inside]
Is it bad if I send similar cover letters to the same recruiter for different jobs?
Looking for lab research assistant/technician jobs in the academic industry. Many of these jobs within the same schools have the same recruiter. Is it bad to have a similar cover letter for the same recruiter for these similar jobs? [more inside]
Will the ground beef be safe to eat?
Sorry, another meat safety question. Tonight I took a pound of ground beef out of the freezer and put it straight into a bowl of slightly colder than room temperature water on the counter to defrost for an hour. It defrosted on the counter for an hour. Then I decided I wasn't hungry and put it into the fridge in the still sealed package. Will it be safe to cook tomorrow night?
Looking for Roth IRA recommendations.
I'm looking for recommendations on where to open a new Roth IRA. Looking for something with low fees and index funds. I could put in a chunk of cash if need be, but it would be great to find one with no minimum if I commit to a certain amount per month. Who have you all been happy with when it comes to customer service and ease-of-use?
Recording of girl who designed a video game?
I remember seeing a reference somewhere on mefi float by that I can't find anymore. There was a young girl (8-13?) who had hand-written a design for a video game and someone interviewed her about it, possibly her father. She went into great detail in an audio-only recording about this Portal-like game she made, and somewhere there was a link to the audio and the hand drawn pictures of several horizontally laid out levels. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
My writer's block is about to get me fired.
I'm worried my writer's block is about to get me fired. [more inside]
What happens if I screw in a 110 volt bulb to a 12 volt power source?
I'm setting up my "off the grid" solar lighting system in my home, and I'd like to connect the battery to some LED lights. It's a 12 volt DC battery - Do my lights have to be 12 volt also? If they're LED bulbs, they'll have a transformer inside; will that allow me to use them, or do I have to have a voltage converter or something? I've got some edison-style LED bulbs around the house for 85-265 volts.
Thanks in advance for any help. pictures and web links that can explain things simply are helpful. (An earlier, relavent post:
http://ask.metafilter.com/182209/How-to-run-some-lights-from-a-solar-panel)
Impossible Colors
An optical illusion based on retinal fatigue allowing you to "see" an "impossible color"? [more inside]
Best 32 inch LED TV recommendation.
I would like to buy a 32 inch LED TV. What brand do you recommend?
How should I seek my fortune?
I want to go off to seek my fortune -- how do I do it? [more inside]
Something leaving a bad taste in my mouth
Why does my mouth taste like mothballs? [more inside]
Long-Term Weight Loss: What Does It Feel Like?
If you've lost a considerable amount of weight, and kept it off for more than five years, I have a question for you: How do you feel? [more inside]
Lasting potential?
Need some input on this relationship issue [more inside]
How do I help you, help yourself?
My number 1 may be suffering from psychotic break. What do I do here? [more inside]
how to turn a battleground into a park?
I'm looking for information on parks or playgrounds in areas of conflict, especially urban areas. [more inside]
Athenas on Folders
How seriously should I take rider weight limits for folding bikes? [more inside]
Are swimming pools worth it?
Should we get rid of our new-to-us above ground pool? [more inside]
How Do I Coax 7 Week Old Kittens Out of Basement?
How Do I Coax 7 Week Old Kittens Out of Basement? [more inside]
Social networking without social networking
How can I completely lock down my Facebook account? I thought I did, but I'm getting friend requests somehow. I simply signed up for Facebook to get to Turntable.fm [more inside]
goodbye my friend
How do I gain closure on this lost friendship? [more inside]
Just for Funsies ...
Let's say the Congress and the President are unable to reach a deal on raising the debt limit by August 4th. And let's just say, among the things that happen is that buyers of U.S. Treasury notes, bonds, Tbills, etc. on the August 15th Treasury sale demand a much higher interest rate to compensate for the fact that the "full faith and credit of the U.S." has been tarnished. [more inside]
Are SATA 3Gb/s and 1.5Gb/s hard drives interchangeable?
My computer (Macbook pro 4,1) has a Serial ATA (1.5Gb/s) bus. Can it use a hard drive that has a speed of 3gb/s? [more inside]
help me find all the winning numbers
I'm trying to compile a list of all known lottery winning numbers in the U.S. Anyone know where to go, state by state, to grab databases of these numbers and the dates they won on?
Wait a second...didn't I design that?
Design client used my work after telling me I didn't get the job. I'd just like to get paid! [more inside]
Travelling in Azerbaijan?
Travelfilter: Azerbaijan for Eurovision. Recommendations and where to travel afterwards. [more inside]
Somebody's got a case of the Mondays: Gyno Edition
Ladyparts filter: great OB/GYN reco's for Columbus, Ohio needed [more inside]
Job interview: too late for a thank-you note?
Have I blown it for good? Interviewed for a job 13 days ago and then followed up with a different interviewer 5 days ago, and neglected to send thank-you notes both times. No decision has been made yet -- should I just let it go at this point, or would I still be better off sending my thanks? [more inside]
Where can I find an outstanding jazz bar in London?
Where are some awesome jazz bars in London? I am looking for somewhere that has a resident live band... the kind of thing you'd imagine Brad Pitt and George Clooney planning a casino heist in with both of them wearing suit and shirt with no tie. Whilst drinking Scotch. Bonus points if it's a place that has an entrance fee to discourage the riff-raff.
Beginning strength training resources?
Strength training basics for women, please. [more inside]
I need some nerdy CS art!
Computer science-related art I can print and frame in my office? [more inside]
comfort food desserts
Can you recommend great kid-friendly desserts from around the world? Along the lines of rice krispie treats or banoffee pie.
Inexpensive Napa Winery That Will Take a Large Group
Inexpensive Napa or Sonoma Wineries that can accomodate large groups? I'm taking a bus of 50 people to Napa (preferably Napa but we can do Sonoma) on a Saturday. The group in question will include people who don't make a whole lot of $$$. I'm looking for quality wineries (No Gallo or Mondavi!) that could take a group that large for a tasting fee of $5-$15. Bonus points if you know of a good place for lunch for a group that large.
Deaf and hard of hearing people - how do you make phone calls?
Deaf and hard of hearing people - how do you make phone calls? Which service(s) do you recommend? [more inside]
Free solution for setting remote access between my two PCs?
Two PCs, one Windows XP, one 7, would need to transfer file from one to the other on occasion, nothing big. Know a free solution that won't expire on me? [more inside]
Waitress, more boat drinks!
NYC 79th st boat basin filter: I need to have beer and possibly snacks delivered - ideas? [more inside]
What to do for my birthday, during Carmageddon?
My birthday is on the 18th and I plan on taking Monday off to make it a long weekend. But that happens to be the weekend of Carmageddon. Which, if you don’t live near Los Angeles, is when all hell will break loose because 10 miles of freeway will be closed for a Saturday and a Sunday. Truly the end of the world. [more inside]
i don't want to lose my money, identity, or anything else! how trustworthy is mint.com?
I currently use an OLD version of quicken for mac and keep hearing how much improved and simplified managing my finances would be if i migrated over to mint.com. Although I pay all my bills online, do my banking online, etc. the thought of putting all of that info together in one place is a little scary. Can anyone explain the pros/cons to mint.com. Right now it takes forever to download transactions and pay bills via my bank's website, reconcile these with my quicken accounts, not to mention the bills I pay directly on particular websites (earn miles via credit card), so I thought consolidating might be the way to go.
What I'm looking for is where someone does a few shots of tequila and knows who shot Kennedy.
I'm looking for references - fictional and non-fictional - where someone becomes more psychic when drunk. Not high. Not drugged. Drunk. [more inside]
Beach vacation with 3- and 2-year-old (Live near NYC Metro)
My husband and I are trying to plan our first family vacation. We have two very well-behaved boys, aged 3 years and almost 2 years. We really want to do a beach vacation with family friendly attractions like an aquarium, boardwalk with rides, restaurants, etc... and we live near the metro NY area. We have to go the week of July 24th because my husband starts a new job on August 1st. [more inside]
Social Drinking Concerns Lead Man to Want Antabuse
I want to use Antabuse to cut my social drinking. [more inside]
Austin Tx carpal tunnel specialists?
Looking for recommendations in Austin, TX for diagnosis and treatment of carpal tunnel symptoms. [more inside]
Best/MostCreative Shoes Converse
What/where are the most unique Converse All-Stars for under 100 bucks? [more inside]
Purple waxed Colby in northern Indiana?
Where can I buy non-Kraft or Kroger brand Colby cheese, in Ft Wayne, IN? [more inside]
Muscle-building exercise that's easy on the heart?
What are some good muscle-building, resistance-based exercises that don't place a lot of strain on the heart? [more inside]
Day labor hiring? (come mister tally man, tally me bananas)
What is the experience like to hire from day labor agencies like Labor Ready / Labor Finders / Command Staffing / etc? [more inside]
Integrated Library System for Designers
Hi Librarians and other tech-savvy folk! My sister is a new librarian in a cooporate setting. She looking for a way to make Pintrest users love an integrated library system. [more inside]
How to save Blackberry text messages as a Word or PDF document?
Is there some way to transfer text messages from a blackberry to my mac in either Word or PDF format?
Thanks.
What actually gets done to protect civilians?
I'm looking for citation-worthy sources (studies, manuals, etc) on how civilians react in combat situations or natural disasters, and what police/military tactics & policies are for protecting civilians. Help? [more inside]
Also accepting applications from amateur roadies.
I'd love your recommendation for songs my very amateur band can cover. Some criteria inside. [more inside]
Wikipedia customs and best practices
I have a friend who has asked me for help editing a Wikipedia entry. Well... not so much editing as a complete re-write. He is probably the foremost expert on the topic, which is fairly obscure. It's been years since I participated in Wikipedia, and I am not sure of the current culture and best practices. [more inside]
SWF ISO Weird Long-Lost Mystery Painting.
Several years ago, my boyfriend and I saw a really weird painting/print/poster in a thrift store. We didn't buy it (nooo!), it disappeared shortly thereafter (NOOO!) and it's haunted us ever since. What WAS it? [more inside]
"A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal."
Two of my best friends are getting married (to one another!) and I'm putting together a book of letters, photos, advice, poems, etc. from everyone invited to the wedding. A lot of what I've found are love poems and vows written in the first person about how much the speaker loves the intended, which might feel a bit weird coming from the wedding guests. I'm looking for more general advicey-type stuff, about marriage as an institution or love in the abstract. Funny or serious; the couple are extremely happy together and have great senses of humor. [more inside]
Jules Laforgue's misery
Trying to track down the location of a quotation by the French/Uruguayan poet Jules Laforgue, mentioned by Johan Huizinga. [more inside]
New York State Law: Why would a self-proving affidavit be rejected by the probate court, and what can be done about it?
My father passed away in February, and left a very simple will - a 50/50 split between my sister and myself. His estate is very small, so we are trying to keep legal fees down as much as possible. The will and supporting documentation have been submitted to the NY probate court. One of the probate clerks is objecting to an irregularity in the self proving affidavit that's holding up the whole process. (The will itself seems to be sound.) Somehow this affidavit was screwed up by the notary. [more inside]
Roman fantasy, not Medieval fantasy!
Are there any genre fantasy books with a Roman setting? [more inside]
Song ID, Dubstep Edition
Looking for a dubstep tune when I only have the drop to identify it. Recreation here. Can you help? [more inside]
Wifi/Radio interference question
iMac and MacBook interfere with our FM radio; Dell mini notebook does not. Why? [more inside]
House wanted in Portland!
Portland OR mefis: We are in love with the St. Johns area in Portland Oregon. So much we want to move there and rent a house, not an apartment. Are there rental agents specializing in this kind of rental in this wonderful area?
Refill cartridge for thrifted pen: "PIC non-dry refill ceramic"?
Refill cartridge for thrifted pen: "PIC non-dry refill ceramic"? [more inside]
Help me save my sole
I need to find a pair of minimalist footwear (barefoot shoes? What are these things even called?) that will last out the summer. [more inside]
Help me remember a historian
Looking for the name of a historian who claimed that the American war for independence was for the rich and by the rich. [more inside]
How to handle finances during a separation?
Need advice on handling finances during a separation. I will be seeking the advice of an attorney/mediator in the near future, but want to hear how others have handled similar situations. [more inside]
How do I get back the position I was already given?
I agreed to move across the country, at my own expense, for a "promotion" that was supposed to give me a lot more money and a lot of valuable experience. It's now too late to back out and the rug has been pulled out from under me, how do I handle this situation? [more inside]
Help My Friend Find A Book
Help me find a book for a friend. Details are sketchy, but here's what we have: It's set in New York, the protagonist joins Alcoholics Anonymous to meet people, and it "gets weird from there". [more inside]
Fertility iPhone App
Please recommend a fertility tracking iphone app that doesn't infantilize me. [more inside]
Very lightweight computer monitor?
Does anyone make a super-lightweight LCD monitor? [more inside]
So that's what they think of us
What are some foreign-language terms for things that involve the name of another country or culture? [more inside]
Do I have the right to enforce my copyright on product photos taken whilst employed by the manufacturer?
What are my rights regarding photos taken of a company's products while I was employed there? [more inside]
Creating simple audio tracks
How can I edit simple music tracks on a PC laptop without spending a fortune? I have pretty good working knowledge of music notation software (mainly Sibelius) but am looking for something that I can use with my Zoom H2 Digital Recorder to multi-track ideas using live instruments and have absolutely no idea what I need. HELP?! [more inside]
Income for my mother?
What might be a good source of income for my independent mother? [more inside]
Does acupuncture help you lose weight?
Does acupuncture help weight loss? If so, how does it work? [more inside]
What is the best Mac personal finance software ? (Updated for 2011)
What is the best Mac personal finance software? I need recommendations from the Thoughtful on a personal finance software package for Macs that is actually worth the investment and the time taken to learn and use.
And yes, I know this has been asked at least a couple of times before, but the last related query I see is from 2008. [more inside]
Better three hours too soon than a minute too late.
What notable "creative types" started out late in the game? [more inside]
Toronto place to read/write
Ridin' Dirty
The lock on the rear, passenger-side door on my 99 Honda Civic is broken. Can I fix it myself? [more inside]
How to configuring my Cisco 877 small business router for the Internet...
Dirty Marmoleum - help!
We have a black and white tiled Marmoleum kitchen floor, and dining chairs with metal bobbles on the bases of the legs. The metal bobbles have made dark marks on the white Marmoleum. So has the kitchen bin. Normal floor cleaner won't get it off. Worried about what to use as Marmoleum is an organic material, so can't be too harsh with it. There is a "Marmoleum" brand cleaner - anyone used that? [more inside]
What's the name of the 12 or so jews who legend says take on all human suffering?
I read somewhere of 12 or so jews who, according to legend, carry with them the suffering of the world. Name of these people and textual sources, if possible?
Make the howling stop
Options after failed cat spay. [more inside]
reasonable price for tree removal?
Is this a reasonable price for tree removal? [more inside]
Searchin' Every Which A-Way (Yay yay)
Desperately searching for the same kind of shirt as the one worn by XTC bass player Colin Moulding in this video. [more inside]
I had to break out the vacuum for that one!
What kind of spider is this? [more inside]
July 4
Content from a Moodle backup?
Retrieving content from a Moodle backup, without having a Moodle installation? [more inside]
please stop the squeak in my car
we have two plastic parts in a motor vehicle, both made of polypropylene GF20. when the car drives on rough track a squeak noise is created. we are doing everything in design we can to avoid movement between the two parts. but regarding the plastics, is there a typical engineering method used to prevent the parts squeaking when rubbing against each other?
Do I say something?
I just finished grad school and started working a few months ago. Everything's been going great so far, but my company just hired someone new, someone whom I taught last term as a TA. In fact, they plagiarized their term paper, and I was the one who caught it. I'm upset that my company hired them, but even worse, we'll be working together on the same project. My gut's telling me to just let it go, but I feel pretty awkward. [more inside]
Help us time our trip to Asia?
WeatherFilter: Help us time our trip! Online resources I've seen haven't been consistent about the weather in Beijing, Hong Kong, Bangkok, and Phuket in late October/early November. Will we be OK? [more inside]
Does anyone know of any games similar to Subspace?
Does anyone know of any games similar to Subspace? It is also called Continuum. It's basically an MMO that in my favorite zone(Trench Wars) doesn't have upgrades--it's just skill. The fact that it's space ships is a plus.
Wii vs. PS3 vs. XBox vs. ?
My son is 8 years old. I am considering giving him (OK, us) a new gaming console. I don't know which one is best. That's because I am technologically unaware. Which console would you recommend? [more inside]
Newbie questions to apartment hunting in NYC!
Newbie questions to apartment hunting in NYC! [more inside]
Seeking... seeeking
Police lasers for fireworks? [more inside]
Blocking Me, Blocking You
Are there any shared blocklists for the Google Personal Blocklist extension? [more inside]
Strange pain in rib cage
Help needed for a friend who is experiencing intermittent pain in his rib cage. [more inside]
Help me identify a forgotten hero
Has this mystery of the war of 1812 been solved already? Or can it be? [more inside]
[UbuntuFilter] Hate Computers, Love Computer Science
I have recently become the defacto sysadmin for a number of Ubuntu machines, and it has become painfully obvious that I don't really know what I'm doing. Can you recommend resources for me to better understand how Linux works? Please note that I am not at all interested in this for its own sake, but only because I need to know this to be able to do the fun parts of my job. [more inside]
I left my heart in Northern Cal, but just for the month of July
Northern California filter: I'm going to be spending the next 2-4 weeks in the San Francisco bay area with my 8-year-old son. We'll be free every Saturday, Sunday and Monday, and I need ideas for places to take him and adventures to have together. [more inside]
Do awkward silences necessarily = incompatibility?
Do awkward silences always mean incompatibility? Or can awkwardness come from within and have little to do with the other person? [more inside]
Could my shoulder/neck pain be caused by a nerve problem?
Could my shoulder/neck pain be caused by a nerve problem? [more inside]
Please recommend good value in a ruggedized point-and-shoot camera
Recommendations please! What is the current sweet spot, value-wise, for a "ruggedized" point-and-shoot camera? [more inside]
Format Hard Drive
I have a laptop that I want to sell. How do I format the hard drive but still keep the OS system. I don't have any software disk or floppy. I want to the computer to be like when I opened it the first day.
Thanks
Doctor Who-can-I-ask-if-I-really-have-to-watch-these
Silly question: I just watched the first series of Torchwood. I like it. I don't, however, like Doctor Who. Is this going to be a problem when I try to follow the larger plot arc? [more inside]
Scandinavian Q&A web sites
I'm looking for Scandinavian (Swedish, Danish, Norwegian) Q&A web sites. They can be in any language, and all topics have interest. [more inside]
It's not needy, you're just being silly.
I feel that if I ask people to do anything with me, it's somehow "needy". At the same time, I know that this is ridiculous. Please help me work through this. [more inside]
Wake me up if you want to buy something !
We have a gallery that is next door to our home, and would like to add some sort of wireless motion detector/ alarm that lets us know when somebody enters, and is very easy to configure. It would also be a really nice bonus if that in addition to a silent ( to them) alarm, it would also have the option of ringing our cellphone in case we have gotten "too comfortable" in the recliner. Budget $150, what do I get ?
Inexpensive diversions in Montreal:
Montreal. Lots of free time. Inexpensive diversions? [more inside]
Sourdough in the Big Smoke
Is there good sourdough available in London? [more inside]
How can we keep our party green?
What's the best "green" way to serve party food and beverages? [more inside]
Used Honda with over 200k?
Am I a fool for considering a used Honda with over 200k miles? [more inside]
Hot enought for you?
cheap, inexpensive summer clothing? [more inside]
Thrillers about money?
What are some examples of fictional thrillers that revolve around some kind of currency manipulation or other arcane financial shenanigans? Spy novels, murder mysteries, police procedurals, action movies, doesn't matter what genre. Not interested in crimes like bank robberies, just white collar crimes. (Non-fiction about these kinds of capers is also acceptable.) The more arcane and complicated the scheme, the better.
I need directions about how to navigate this online relationship
I need directions for navigating this online relationship [more inside]
A cure for narcissism in twenty-five words or less...
I'm looking for quotes that basically convey - it's not about you / get over yourself.
How do I teach my mum the internet?
My mother was going to take an expensive course about the significance and ways of the internet. I stopped her and said I would teach it to her. Does anyone have recommendations of good resources in any format to do that? [more inside]
How to set up an old laptop for a young child?
What OS and programs should I use to set up an old Windows XP laptop for a young child? [more inside]
Teflon fume inhalation
My nonstick pan was on the range when I meant to heat up something else, but I accidentally turned on the wrong burner. It was smoking when I came back 10 minutes later (!!). I inadvertently inhaled some of the fumes as I shut off the range and turned on the ventilation fan. Should I be worried about what I just inhaled? [more inside]
Mystery insect larvae/eggs/cocoons?
What are these bug larva/egg/cocoons on my ceiling and hat? [more inside]
Looking for the perfect chair
Looking for a comfortable chair for reading, writing, and otherwise lounging. Details inside. [more inside]
What am I not considering when thinking about quitting my postdoc job?
Quit my job or not? [more inside]
"Hey there big guy"
At the end of Charizma's posthumously released "Big Shots" album, there is "hidden track" of a man singing "hey guy, hey big guy, hey there big guy!" a cappella. I'm wondering if anyone can tell me anything about this lovely and strange song. [more inside]
movinonuptothenorthside
Yet another where should we move? question: the liberal gay Northern edition [more inside]
Help me create my own house menu.
I want to create a personal house menu, but I don't consider myself a foodie and I would like some help. [more inside]
How can I get a balance of interesting and important things done?
My job has a lot of responsibilities and some of them are more interesting and appealing than others. Sometimes I find myself blocked on some of the ones I like less, especially when they have stressful consequences. For example, I often need to write detailed reports for higher-ups (stressful and not enjoyable!), but I'd rather be designing new CSS stylesheets. Sometimes I just stress out about writing for a whole day and don't get anything done. I've thought of doing something more enjoyable and lower priority but I'm worried that when I'm done with that, the high-priority tasks will still be there, and they won't be any easier, appealing, or less stressful.
Has anyone had any success breaking up their work like this? Have any strategies for success? How do I know how much time I can afford to spend on the low-priority stuff? How can I avoid just procrastinating on the important stuff while doing the things that make me love my job?
How can I enjoy my "staycation" in Edmonton?
Help me discover my own city! Looking for unique things to do in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. [more inside]
Is it possible to mix the live iSight video stream?
Using OS X, is it possible to show a photo in my live iSight video stream? (not using iChat) [more inside]
Ghibli in the Classroom
What are some ways I could incorporate Studio Ghibli films into the writing class I'll be teaching this Fall? [more inside]
sick & lovable
In literature there is a character type: a sickly protagonist, with their habits detailed. Examples include Gustav von Aschenbach in Death in Venice, Leo Gursky in The History of Love, and Aunt Leonia in Proust. Can you help me fill out this list? [more inside]
Dating a young widower with a small child
What should I be considering and aware of when beginning to date a young widower with an very young child? [more inside]
Hypotewhat? Pythatgowho?
Geometry question -> Determine X and Y from distance along a straight line, or, how do I find the lengths of A and B if I know the length of C and the ratio of A to B in a right triangle? [more inside]
What to do in Buffalo, Rochester and Toronto in the winter?
Fun in Rochester/Buffalo/Toronto in the winter ? [more inside]
Is it me or is it Verizon?
We just switched over our cell phone accounts, got the Samsung smartphone, and are happy as clams except... [more inside]
"BOOM BOOM beep beep beep." Quick, what is this song?
HouseMusicFilter: I'm looking for the name of a house song/sample from the early 90's in which there are no words (to my memory) and where the beat goes "BOOM BOOM beep beep beep" for pretty much the entirety of the song. If the song is in 4/4, then the "BOOMs" are on the 1 & 2 beats, and the three "beeps" are a triplet across the 3 & 4 beats. [more inside]
Santa Monica next weekend
What to do in Santa Monica next weekend! [more inside]
Two baking questions
1) All of my chocolate cookie recipes yield cookies that are gooey and soft and wonderful just out of the oven, but not as wonderful once they (inevitably) cool and become crusty and hard. What's the key to keeping cookies soft and moist? 2) A recipe calls for self-raising flour but all I have is all-purpose flour. Is there a way to turn the latter into the former, or do I need to make a run to the store?
What's the best way for an American to buy a ticket to an Everton FC game?
Everton FC hosts the Queen's Park Rangers on August 20th. I would like to see this match, and am willing to pay for a good seat. What's the best way for an American to buy a single ticket? Can I just show up at Goodison Park on the day of the match? Should I order a ticket in advance and have it shipped to the U.S.? Buy a ticket once I reach England in mid August?
Interesting things to do with my geotagged photos?
What interesting things can I do with my geotagged travel photos? I took about 600 pictures while spending 4 days walking around Rome. Besides dumping them into Picasa/Google Earth, are there any cool applications I can use to play with the photos and the metadata?
If you want to be me be me?
What do you know about "identity transference"? I'd like to find more materials on it, be it films like Ingar Bergman's Persona, songs ("I'm slowing turning into you" by the white stripes?), or fiction/nonfiction writings.
Zombie Eaters, now 100% more grim
Help me recreate this bizarre Xbox 360 music streaming glitch! [more inside]
Decided to give twitter a try, twitter isn't having it
I finally decide to give twitter a shot, and it seems that my account is immediately broken. Am I doing something spectacularly wrong, or is there some way to fix this? [more inside]
MacBook, heal thyself. Reinstalling MacOS on a recent MacBook
I need to reinstall Mac OS X on my 2011 MacBook Pro urgently, but my install disc is unreadable. Previous versions of MacOS won't install on this laptop, as it requires a more recent build. What are my options? [more inside]
No Yorker
My New Yorker Ipad app is crashing and closing within 20 seconds of opening an issue. I wrote new yorker tech support and they sent these instructions but they don't work:
Please try resetting your app using the following instructions.
1. From the iPad home screen, tap twice on the home button and the apps
that are running on your device will appear along the bottom row.
2. Hold down the icons until they "shake".
3. Tap on the red circle to reset your application. This does not delete
the app.
4. Double tap the home button again to return to all of your apps.
5. Open the app and allow for your library to update. All of your issues
should now be available for download.
I think they addressed the wrong problem. I've rewrote them but because of the holiday there is no reply. Any suggestions of what to try next? I'd like to be able to read what I've paid for
Should I tell my temp agency?
Should I say something about the temp assignment I was given? [more inside]
Resources for coping with PPD in NYC?
Resources for coping with PPD in NYC? [more inside]
Install your own OS on a VPS?
VPS providers that allow you to install the OS from ISO? [more inside]
Inflatable pool care
Inflatable kids pool - best way to warm the water and keep it clean over a long weekend. [more inside]
5 gallons of stock that needs used up
Tasty recipes using chicken stock please? [more inside]
Moving to the Staunton, VA area - what do you know about it?
What can you tell me about Staunton, VA? [more inside]
Which headphones should I get for a long (14 hours) flight with kids?
Which headphones should I get for a long (14 hours) flight with kids? I want ones that are comfortable on a large head and are easy to remove, because I'll need to get up frequently. I looked at noise-cancelling headphones on Amazon, but the ones that sounded best for me (Sennheiser PXC 450) are too expensive for something I'll use infrequently.
On previous trips I've used earplugs to deaden the ambient noise and just turned the volume up on my (airline-supplied) headphones, but there must be a better way.
Who can I contact regarding a Snapple endorsement / sponsorship for a touring UK band?
Who can I contact regarding a Snapple endorsement / sponsorship for a touring UK band? I have searched the internet for an e-mail address or phone number to no avail. Any help much appreciated. Thank you!
Where can I find a great one week intensive Spanish class in London or Spain?
Where can I find a great one week intensive Spanish class in London or Spain? [more inside]
Help me recreate a Swedish cardamom roll!
Cardamom rolls - are these a traditional Swedish thing and how can I make them? [more inside]
Smokin' amp on generator - what's up?
TubeAmpFilter: my 1970 Fender Twin Reverb started smoking when hooked up to a generator. Still works. Opened it up and can't find the culprit. What's the mostly likely diagnosis? [more inside]
are you the sunshine of my life? Stevie Wonder image search
dear metafilter, can you please help me find a quintessential image of Stevie Wonder? something like this but in colour, or this but playing a keyboard. i have been googling for an hour but i'm sure i'm missing something. i'm thinking braids, big smile, glasses, keyboard. A painting or drawing is good too. bonus points for simplicity - i'd like to turn it into a needlepoint. thank you so kindly.
What's the closest UK equivalent to the New Yorker?
What is the best forum in the United Kingdom for lengthy, in-depth narrative journalism, as exemplified in the United States by the New Yorker? I am aware of the New Statesman, the Spectator, and Prospect, but in my limited experience these seem more narrowly focused on current affairs and politics.
Patriotic sing-alongs for a Fourth of July barbecue
What are some patriotic songs that everyone in a group of early-twenties college-educated people would know? Accomplished accompanist (guitar) here, looking for songs most of these folks know the words to. Open to any American music from 1800s-present that captures the spirit of America on her birthday. Great sing-alongs are totally fine even if they don't quite fit the description.
Bring on the Gloria Jones!
Is Gloria Jones still performing? Does anyone know if her voice is still in good condition? [more inside]
Is Bikram Yoga good for you?
Is Bikram Yoga good for you? [more inside]
What kind of bug is this Atlanta, Georgia specimen?
What is this bug, and how do I get rid of them? I have been frequently discovering them, mostly in the sinks (bathroom and kitchen) in an apartment building in Atlanta, Georgia. They are about 1/2" long. [more inside]
Why go to harness races?
Who goes to harness racing (a.k.a. horse buggies, trotters), and why? A friend compared it to speed walking, lots of activity but still pretty darned slow. Is it simply something else to bet on or is there something wonderful or at least interesting about the sport that I'm missing? [more inside]
How do I make my permanently sunburned red face, less red?
How do I make my permanently sunburned red face, less red? [more inside]
A natty downgrade
How to downgrade ubuntu? [more inside]
SIM Cards for the USA
Travelling through the East Coast of the USA, I would like to use my unlocked GSM phone (Nexus One) for data. My UK provider (T-Mobile) charges extortionate rates for this service. Can I buy a pay-as-you-go or other low cost SIM card in the USA which would give me cheap(ish) data on the road? [more inside]
Please help me with an Excel formula.
How can I use Excel to automatically calculate the average of the best two of three results? [more inside]
How can I get my money back?
Eighteen months ago, a Florida car hire company went out of business, owing me money. Although I submitted my details for the creditors' list, I heard nothing. Now the company has resurfaced under a new name. What are my options? [more inside]
Alternatives to the bbq pulled pork
What else to do with pulled pork after tonight's bbq pulled pork sandwiches? [more inside]
Where can I buy loose moissanite stones in the San Francisco Bay Area?
Where can I buy loose moissanite stones in the San Francisco Bay Area? [more inside]
Help me buy a laptop
Help me choose a new laptop [more inside]
is this a healthy calorie deficit for this exercise plan?
Question regarding maximum calorie deficit, BMR and calories burned calculation in relation to my exercise plan. [more inside]
Prix Fixe Fun in the City
City of London Prix Fixe Lunching: It has recently occurred to me that I've been entirely wasting Lunch as an opportunity for culinary exploration. Unfortunately all the interesting restaurants I see with Prix Fixe lunch menus seem to be in Soho. But there must be some interesting places in the City of London right? Where can you suggest that isn't obscenely expensive. [more inside]
Where can I go to upload a lot of data quickly?
Where can I go to upload a lot of data quickly? [more inside]
Rogue network traffic on Windows XP64
How to find out why my computer is broadcasting SNMP traps and shut it down? Complicating factor, the absence of SNMP and my ignorance of Windows server environments. [more inside]
July 3
Metafilter's 11 Secret Herbs and Spices
I'd like to make some chicken at home that's as close to KFC's original recipe chicken as possible. Although I know the actual recipe is not out there, I know there's a lot of discussion on what the 11 secret herbs and spices are. But is there a prevailing theory? If so, what is it? Failing that, what's your own personal recipe to try and emulate the actual recipe?
Altered tin question...
How to attach polymer clay to a tin? [more inside]
Help me find antibiotic free fish
What kinds of fish cannot be farmed? What kinds of fish are antibiotic free? [more inside]
Where can I learn to dance with a partner in Washington, DC?
Where can I learn to dance with a partner in Washington, DC? [more inside]
Is this a thing?
Is there a name for this style of painting? [more inside]
What if my landlord isn't allowed to rent to me?
Friend signed a July 1 lease on a condo. Found out today that the owner is prohibited by the condo association from renting to her. Movers are scheduled for July 7. Now what? [more inside]
Online Art Critique Tool?
Any online artist critique sites that can be customized? [more inside]
What if you needed some curly fries?
Would a fast food restaurant in midtown have closed on 9/11? What about 9/12? [more inside]
Trying to find a surf cover of Torna Surriento?
I heard an instrumental, surf (ish) version of Torna Surriento at brunch today... help? [more inside]
Sinister solo church organ
Dark, creepy, church organ music [more inside]
How can I control floodlights via a foot-switch whilst on stage?
How can I control floodlights via a foot-switch whilst on stage? [more inside]
Hen Party Rejectee
I was invited to a wedding but not the hen party. I'm not hurt or angry, I'm just curious. And also slightly embarrassed and awkward... [more inside]
Monkey in the middle
Wife : husband :: mistress : ? [more inside]
What Would You Do With this Griswold?
Recipes for a Griswold double skillet? Help me make the most of this heavy duty piece of cookware. [more inside]
I'm picky, okay? Sorry!
Looking for a GPS solution to get me to Canada.
I will be traveling from Utah to British Columbia with my family and visiting the area for two weeks. I want to use a GPS and am not sure whether to get 1) a bluetooth GPS receiver, coupled to one of our idevices, 2) a cheap Android phone, or 3) a standalone automobile GPS. [more inside]
Are we just friends? part II
Latin Scholars - please hope me
Trying to get the appropriate form of Latin for a motto. The intent in English is along the lines of "better capability (or purchasing), through better understanding (science / research or knowledge)". Google has not been my friend here providing forms which don't translate back into English correctly. [more inside]
Why are old talk shows never reran on cable?
Why are "classic" daytime talk shows (like Donahue, Geraldo, Sally, etc.) virtually never reran on cable? [more inside]
Can I use a metal detector to find stuff in my back woods?
Treasure hunting: would a metal detector be right for my situation, and if so, which one? [more inside]
'Authorized' repair guy borked my laptop
Previous laptop issue fixed (by a certified tech!) resulted in NEW laptop issue. What now?! [more inside]
Japanese studio photograhy in LA?
L.A. Kid yukata / kimono photograhy filter: does anyone know of a photography studio that will have yukatas and kimonos for kids to pose in? [more inside]
Bibtex strikes terror into my heart.
I'm trying to figure out if using bibtex is right for me, been burned once before -- social sciences with complicated citation formatting plans ahead. Help getting started? [more inside]
Quick look at an old .pst file?
Outlook filter: How can I easily view an archived .pst file? [more inside]
WTF?!
What did I see during a crazy thunderstorm last night? [more inside]
Help us plan a fun trip to Oklahoma
Travelling from Concord, NC to Fort Sill, Oklahoma over 3 days. We'll be stopping in Nashville, TN and Little Rock, AR for our nights. What's to do? [more inside]
how do I end a relationship without unnecessarily hurting the other person?
how do I end a relationship without unnecessarily hurting the other person? [more inside]
Electronics makes me feel stupid
Being an electronics wizard, what do you wish you'd known when you started out? [more inside]
Help me find this dog, or at least make the owner try to do it.
The dog I'm sitting for ran away. Now what? [more inside]
I'm many things, but creative ain't one.
Help me name my blog, which is going to chronicle our adventures leading up to and during (and hopefully after) an 8-month world tour. I like witty, short titles. More details inside. [more inside]
Mandelbrot set bitmap calculation energy usage on Analytical Engine/ENIAC/modern desktop.
Mandelbrot set energy computation across radically different classes of computing hardware [more inside]
Where to rent near Tulsa, Oklahoma
Apartment hunting in Tulsa. We're tired of the Alaskan winters and are contemplating a move to Tulsa this fall. We've got a couple of friends in the area and a job that is lined up (downtown area) but we don't know what areas of the city to look for apartments/houses. We've heard good things about Broken Arrow, but not much else. We'd like to be close to shopping, entertainment, biking/walking trails, and preferably a dog park nearby. We'd like to avoid horrible traffic if possible but don't mind a longish commute if necessary.
One Book on Atheism I Should Read (read details!)
I am looking for one single book, perhaps a college-level read (not much higher), that explains the case for atheism. I'm not looking for any 'new atheist books', though I have enjoyed them -- especially Harris. I have read Bertrand Russell as well. I have a few atheist friends but do not want to talk to them about this as I am a Christian and don't want to give them the impression that I want to change them or judge them. I just want more exposure to it in a sincere and kind fashion without short bumper sticker like explanations. (BTW, I don't look at my friends as "Hey, here come my 'atheist' friends! But mainly here comes "Bob" and "Joe". I just don't think it is right to bug them about their positions or lack thereof. <--Not sure how to state that.) Thanks in advance for your book recommendation.
M'aidez, m'aidez!
Help me identify this (French) Rilke poem. Details within. [more inside]
Talking with someone other than your SO = problem?
Dick move or overreacting? Guy needs to understand his lady. [more inside]
Sandman story where Death closes up shop?
Is there a Sandman story depicting the end of the universe? [more inside]
How do I punctuate a list of book titles in a sentence?
Punctuation question -- Are the semicolons correct in separating the list of book titles in the following sentence, or should I use commas?
"John and Susan offer workshops based on the following books: Making Cheese: A Guide; Cheese is Your Friend: A Method for Success; and Expand Your Horizons: Give Cheese a Chance."
I like my podcasts whispered, not stirred.
Is there a podcast or audiobook out there that is narrated by a whispering female? [more inside]
How to re-attach a table leg?
How can a carpentry klutz like me re-attach a table leg? [more inside]
Haz fud on the 4th?
Wife and I will be in KC (Excelsior Springs) over the 4th. We've heard some "meh" reviews about the food of the place we're staying at, so we may need alternatives. What restaurants in the KC metro area will be open on the holiday?
That old thing? Oh, it's just always been here, and we never got rid of it.
A question about cellular networks and deployed cellular technology in the US. [more inside]
Automatically determining class scheduling needs
I teach at a language training school, at which there are a few hundred students. My boss recently distributed a questionnaire to all of those students to determine the best times to schedule classes for each level of language proficiency. Unfortunately, it turns out that his plan for efficient scheduling ended at the point where we got those questionnaires back. Also unfortunately, I've developed a reputation as the local computer guy (because I can replace a broken mouse and make a chart in Excel), and so the job of making sense of the data has fallen to me. [more inside]
Desperately Seeking A Monstrous Psychedelic Bubble Exploding In Your Mind
The Future Sound of London/ Amorphous Androgynous/ A Monstrous Psychedelic Bubble: all 8 MPB podcasts were for sale on the FSOL site, but have since been taken down (although the page still remains). I only have the first podcast - how in god's name can I get hold of the remaining 7 now? [more inside]
How do i stop my own personal sense of ethics interfering with the growth of my business?
How do i stop my own personal sense of ethics interfering with the growth of my business? [more inside]
What sort of device do I need to do in-home, online medical charting?
I guess all hospices will be required to use computer charting only this fall. Now I need a netbook? Laptop? Ipad? I'm obviously clueless about these things and have spent all morning trying to research to no avail.... [more inside]
when to give up on iphone remote wipe?
My iphone was stolen a few days ago. I activated remote wipe about 2 hours after it was taken, but the wipe hasn't taken effect yet. What's next? [more inside]
Don't kill the wabbit!
Help! I just accidentally ran over a rabbit's nest with my lawn mower. I didn't hurt any of them, but about four or five baby rabbits scattered into the woods, obviously scared to death. I've found a couple of them and I'm not sure what to do. [more inside]
Free inventory software for nonprofits?
Free materials tracking/inventory software specifically for nonprofits rather than businesses: does such a thing exist? [more inside]
What do they want with media pack?
I run a small website for a sport I enjoy and am passionate about - traffic is good (at least I'm happy) and in the last few weeks I've been starting to get some press coverage. All good so far...
A PR company have asked me to submit a 'media pack' - I have no idea what that is, or what might be included in there - I have asked the contact, but I'm thinking I should try and get ahead of the game. [more inside]
The Paycheck Guessing Game is Over
For you hourly employed people, how do you keep track of what your paycheck will be? [more inside]
Tent camping in The Everglades next weekend. AmInuts?
Tent camping in The Everglades next weekend. AmInuts?
Have you done this before - camped in the wet season? What should I expect, or should I drop the idea? [more inside]
Crossborder Debit Dilemma
I was recently in Canada (from US) and tried to use my debit card to buy some groceries. Two different cards were rejected, for different reason codes. I would have experimented more, but I was standing between a rapidly angering Canadian woman and her beer. I see by Googling that Canadian debit cards use a different network, Interac. Are there any banks/credit unions that issue debit cards usable in both Canada and USA. I know I could've used ATMs and cash, but this would make for a less hassling cross-border experience.
Best (Online) Shopping Cart for Thousands of Subscription Products? Sell it to me!
Setting up a site where people can purchase subscriptions to feeds. I need a self-service subscription system. [more inside]
Command line basics for dummies
Need help auto-deleting folders clogging my SSD... [more inside]
Best drawing magazines?
Best Drawing / Art magazines that can be ordered online?
I'm looking for recommendations for good art magazines or journals with a focus on contemporary drawing, which can be ordered online. A friend's birthday is coming up, and I want to gift him a subscription. Thanks in advance!
Calculator in math class
When should calculators be used in math class? What are good criteria for determining if a calculator should be used on a given set of problems?
Fell for best friend and am now heartbroken. Advice?
My best friend told me he was falling for me, we hooked up, then he totally changed. Long-distance situation + first heartbreak. Advice? What is he thinking? [more inside]
He could create the next Superman...
Tips for a very young budding comic book writer: my eight-year-old son is really into drawing his own superhero comics filled with made-up characters and hilarious (to his parents, at least) visual jokes. [more inside]
July 2
Downloaded videos on Computer Don't Play Steadily. They start and stop but the sound is fine. What is causing this?
Whenever I download videos onto my hard drive, they play at a halting pace. The sound will work well, continuing uninterrupted, but the video images start and stop catching up with the words of the characters in the shows. [more inside]
I'm 28 years old and I feel passionless and directionless -- how can I find something, anything that I like to do and will stick with?
I don't really have anything I can say is a 'passion' or 'interest' that I've held for longer than a few months to a year. The result is I feel completely directionless, left with absolutely nothing to do on the weekends and evenings and feeling like I'm wasting my time and abilities on nothing. How do I find something to do that I like doing and can get good at, and how do I keep my interest? I don't think it's from lack of trying new things -- I've worked vastly different jobs and have tried a bunch of different creative things -- writing, drawing, music, etc., but nothing really sticks. I just want to get good at something and take pride in it. I feel like I am completely the same person as I was 5 years ago, and that scares me. What should I do?
Can I sleep in the airport if I've checked luggage?
I'm flying to the Minneapolis-Saint Paul airport later this month. My flight arrives around 11 PM, but thanks to an unforeseen scheduling snafu, my ride won't be able to pick me up until early the next morning. Normally, I'd just hang out in the terminal overnight, but on this trip, I'll have a checked bag. What would happen if I just waited until the next morning to retrieve my suitcase from baggage claim? [more inside]
Let's get some shoes.
Will Allen Edmonds shoes loosen up a bit in the front, or should I exchange them for the next half-size up? [more inside]
Alias whatever
How can I set URL forwarding to get a second domain name to point to a subpage of my Drupal site? [more inside]
My computer keeps clicking!
My computer keeps making a clicking sound and I can't work out how to fix it or what is causing it... [more inside]
Persistant Vista rootkit infection - virus scanners aren't all they're cracked up to be.
Tracking down and killing a virus - my virus scanner (Avast) is telling me scvhost.exe keeps trying to open malicious URLs. It also tells me I have a rootkit in the MBR. It doesn't seem capable of fixing either of these problems. What can I do? Windows Vista. [more inside]
Does anyone know of good mushroom videos?
Does anyone know a good video on the biology of mushrooms? [more inside]
Keeping our elders safe on the Net
Looking for training videos & resources designed for older generations to familiarize them with basic Internet skills including checking email, using web searches, and how to avoid various scams and be web safe. [more inside]
Salsa Fiddle
Looking for a Puerto Rican salsa band headed by Victor Arlo (?). [more inside]
How to care for a wild tortoise that's on the mend after being hit by a car?
A friend of mine came across this wild tortoise on the road, outside Querétaro, México. She took it to the vet, who patched her up, sowed up the bits that needed sowing and put most of the shell back together, sans a couple of pieces. It's about 10 inches long.
She's going to have to take care of it until it's well enough to go back to the wild and has no clue how to go about it.
Off the top of her head, she'd like to know:
¿What should it eat? ¿Should she place it outside in the garden or in the house? ¿Sun or shade? ¿Water, earth, or both? ¿Will the Labrador retriever be a problem? ¿Should her trio of rambunctious kids be kept away?
Any other interesting fact or recommendation you can share will be most welcome, and will surely net you a beer on your next visit.
Pop art and cinema
Looking for obscure gems of pop-art cinema: in the vein of DANGER DIABOLIK, MISTER FREEDOM, and THE FRIGHTENED WOMAN (links somewhat NSFW). [more inside]
How can I get my babies to sleep longer than 1 sleep cycle during they day?
Baby hack filter: Are there any tricks in getting babies to sleep longer than 1 sleep cycle (45 mins) during the day? [more inside]
I need to know what this late-90s indiepop song is before it burns a hole in my skull.
Okay Metafilter, name this song: an obnoxiously bleepy, keyboard-heavy indie pop song from around 1998/1999 with a mostly deadpan, slightly sardonic female singer (and male backup vocals for the chorus). [more inside]
How to make a white dress not see-through?
I bought a white dress from a thrift store that fits me like a glove. Problem? It's see-through, and given the cut, I can't figure out how to make it not so. [more inside]
Have you ever heard of a person getting mad at someone for something they did in a dream?
My mom woke up from a nap today and got very angry at me, for no reason at all. I asked her what was wrong and she told me about a nightmare and how I wouldn't run away from these tigers or whatever, after she kept calling me. I just laughed my head off, but she was seriously angry with me. [more inside]
How do I help my volunteers help me?
What is the best way to teach and manage volunteers while maintaining an enjoyable atmosphere? [more inside]
ABCs for a two-year-old?
What's a good book for a 2-year-old? Something to familiarize him with the alphabet? [more inside]
iPod voiceover without iTunes
Help me ditch iTunes but keep using my iPod. Difficulty inside. [more inside]
Tire swap time!
How much should a tire shop charge to dismount four tires from a car, mount four new tires (purchased from tirerack.com and provided by the customer), balance the wheels and verify alignment/camber? [more inside]
Oh give me a home where it's nice and quiet and tree-ish for a week or two.
I'm looking for a cheap-as-basic-as-dirt cabin, yurt, tipi, et cetera in the Pacific Northwest to hang out in for a week or two on a writing retreat. [more inside]
How can I make a map of someone else's website?
How can I make a 'map' or 'tree' of all the pages on a particular website and how they link together? [more inside]
Gap Year
Hi,
I am about to graduate university and went through a long process of deciding what I wanted to major in and what I wanted to do after school. Suffice to say that those questions have been grappled with. I'm planning to get an MA in economics, and plan to take a year off to take my GRE and the appropriate math courses I need. In that year I'd like to do some sort of public service work in economic development (in the states, not in some 3rd world country). [more inside]
Can't find a webpage about forming new habits
Can you help me find a particular webpage about developing new habits? [more inside]
Free Infographic Software
I am looking for the best free software to make interesting and compelling infographics. Venn diagrams, word clouds, bar charts- hopefully a couple of options in order to make good looking infographics. Any recommendations or advice is welcome.
How to dye/paint a pair of white satin heels?
Asking for a friend: She needs to dye/paint these white satin Badgley Mischka Lilly pumps a saturated canary/butter yellow for an upcoming wedding. She can't find a place to color them for her. Have you dyed satin shoes before? How did you do it? What to know? [more inside]
Take a Picture, It'll Last Longer
I've offended a friend by declining a personal recommendation, am I really at fault here? [more inside]
Help us train our new puggle!
So we just adopted Apple the two-year-old puggle and need some training resources. More after the fold. [more inside]
Tips for optimal weigh-in results?
Asking for a friend: What are some dandy little tips for weighing the least on a specific date? (Best time of day? Salt avoidance? Drinking more or less water?) Not looking for anything drastic or unhealthy -- just ways to hit the lowest realistic number.
Thanks!
How to fix my car horn?
So...many years ago, our car horn stopped working, and my grandma didn't bother to fix it. But now that I drive the car mostly, I need to fix it. The car is a 2000 Ford Focus. When I press the horn on the steering wheel, I hear a click, but no sound. In the past, we used to get a dull sound that only occupants in the car could hear, but that was years ago. Now it's just a click. I checked the horn fuse in the fuse box on the driver's side according to the manual, and the fuse is intact. Do you have any other suggestions for what I should do to fix it? If it can be fixed without having to visit the dealership, that'd be great. Also, keep in my mind, I have very little car knowledge/experience. Thanks in advance!
How do I prepare for pregnancy?
My husband and I are anticipating starting to try for a baby in the next eight months to a year. What kinds of things should I be doing to prepare my body, my mind, and to get ready logistically? [more inside]
Can't misses in Athens, Ohio?
Visiting Athens, Ohio in a week, anything I should make sure not to miss? [more inside]
Time-traveling to 1978 London would be my preferred way of answering this
Which punk bands did my father see in London in 1978? (Intriguingly fragmented details follow..) [more inside]
I have back pain in a weird spot, I have included a pic of me pointing to it, can you give me more information?
I have back pain in a weird spot, I have included a pic of me pointing to it. Can you give me more information? [more inside]
What rock song is this?
Help! What guitar-filled rock song has the lyrics "won't tell a soul" as the refrain, I think? It is a male singer - I couldn't tell if the song was old or new. My Goog-itsu is failing me. [more inside]
The still sea is darker than before.
Apart from its overdose potential, is there anything wrong with using potassium chloride to supplement my daily potassium intake? [more inside]
Christmas (drama) in July!
Is there a way to tactfully ask my mother to host Christmas this year? [more inside]
Help me remember an old website
Help me remember an old website: it had art projects that (re)used computers. One project was old PC monitors with motors inside which tracked and followed a person, as if the computer could see him. Second project was using barcodes, which one scanned and produced an object on a screen. If I remember well, other barcodes were actions (i.e. shrink, grow, destroy the object). I think there were others, but I only remember those two.
Remembering To Eat?
One of my reactions to stress is to stop eating. It's not a conscious thing, food just stops being palatable and my hunger vanishes. Two days of nothing but coffee leaves me in a worse state and I ended up more stressed and it just starts over again. How do I force myself to eat when I really don't want to and break this cycle and/or what can I eat that will give me enough energy and nutrition to plow through a mood and not end up on accidental fasts?
Harnessing without jargon?
A textbook that I once read contained a passage from some famous author (possibly Mark Twain?) that attempted to illustrate the usefulness of jargon by describing how to saddle a horse, or hitch a horse to a wagon (something like that) without using any specialized terminology. It was marvelously long-winded and impossible to follow. Textbook long since discarded, Google-Fu fails; any idea what this might have been?
IPhoto Confusion
Be easy on me I'm basically clueless about Macs, but my PC died and I'm forced to work off my wife's computer
1)Where is my wife's Mac storing our pics? When I point Adobe Bridge at our Iphoto Library folder it doesn't see any pics. Instead it opens Iphoto. (note our IPhoto Library is in a dropbox folder). If I want to open them in Photoshop I have to drag the pic from IPhoto. How do I make this not be like this?
2) Can I use Dropbox as a remote library for the pics? I.E. delete them from the drive and just point Bridge at dropbox?
Or is there a better solution? Would be happy to pay but need something that requires at most the ability to fog a mirror.
Can minocycline be ruined by heat during shipping?
Can minocycline be ruined by heat during shipping? [more inside]
Recommend me some fun horror movies!
Could you recommend some fun horror movies that aren't really horror at all? [more inside]
Where can I buy colored jeans in NYC?
Where can I buy colored jeans in NYC? [more inside]
Shred it!
Computer and/or military history nerds -- please lend your speculations. Was Joe doing mundane data entry or something secret and spy-like? [more inside]
Making art AND money.
What are some genre-breaking companies that blur the line between for-proft and non-profit in imaginative ways? [more inside]
Chess.com on the Kindle 3G?
Is it possible to use chess.com on the Kindle 3G using the built-in web browser and 3G connection? [more inside]
Need to figure out a replacement/alternative for my 12" Powerbook
Need to figure out a replacement/alternative for my 12" Powerbook. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Help me find this book on home building
Out of print architecture book with design principles for the home? [more inside]
Help me keep track of stuff!
I am looking for a collection manager like Tellico that is web based, ideally able to be self hosted. Google is failing me. [more inside]
Edible gift for daddy
What edible gift can I bring my dad for a belated fathers' day gift? [more inside]
Did I already upload this image? Let's check... (40 minutes later) Screw it, I have no idea.
Is there a way to sort my Tumblr so that it will show me which images i have personally uploaded, not reblogged from someone else? [more inside]
How can I feel better about moving countries?
I'm moving countries in 30 days and I am freaking out (to put it mildly). How can I make the most of the time left in my home country and prepare for the new one - while not being mean to my partner or my family? [more inside]
Aquanet ate my brain
Help me find this lost New Wave song from the 80s!! [more inside]
IE9 unhelpful feature
I recently upgraded from IE8 to IE9, and Microsoft has introduced a new "feature" I don't like. Anyone know how to make it go away? [more inside]
July 1
How sausage is made.
What is the source of this tragic fable that I heard in my youth? [more inside]
Looking for the Usurper We Like.
Looking for examples and/or literary history of a trope that I'd refer to as the Villains' Satan. [more inside]
US VS UK Credit
I am a US citizen who has lived in the UK for the past 7.5 years. I'm thinking of returning, but I wonder what credit implications will be. [more inside]
Please help identify this painting
This is a screencap from an episode of the "Ray Bradbury Theater" series from the 1980's. I tried using the Google Goggles app on my phone, both with the picture on my TV and on my computer monitor, but it can't scan it all the way. When it does come close, it can identify it as some sort of iconography, but that's it. Does anybody have any idea who the artist might be, or the title of the painting itself? [more inside]
How do I get my engaged ex to leave me alone?
My engaged, passive-aggressive ex continues to contact me, and I continue to let him. Help me cut him off for good. [more inside]
Which bank account in China can I open that will give me a visa debit card?
Which bank account in China can I open that will give me a visa debit card? [more inside]
How can I get to Aquilonia in Avellino, Campania, Italy?
Campaniafilter. My father grew up in Aquilonia, a very small rural town in the Avellino province of Italy (about two-hours drive from Naples). How can I see it on a budget from within Italy? [more inside]
WHERE?!
Where can I buy this sweater? [more inside]
Lost link to small linguistic database of words from various languages.
Lost a bookmark to an online database of "common" vocabulary from many different languages, maintained by linguists. These were not Swadesh or extended Swadesh lists, but were a similar--the vocabulary was apparently designed to describe common experiences, like body/kinship terms, natural landscape terms, etc. It was definitely a work in progress. I think it had a blue and white design, a globe logo and an acronym in the name. Ring any bells, Metafilter linguists?
Translate my eyeglass prescription
Help me figure out what a mark on my eye prescription means... [more inside]
Yes, it's for a boy.
My little sister spent a semester last year in France as a college student. She met a nice boy. She wants to improve her French. How can she do it? [more inside]
For best fireworks viewing, please use Math.
I'd like to be able to watch the Macy's fireworks from my dad's roof on the Upper West Side. How can I figure out if I'll be able to see them? I have some variables, heights, distances, and video... [more inside]
The beauty in science
I'm looking for imagery (including, but not limited to, artwork) that captures the spiritual side of science, as expressed so eloquently by the late Carl Sagan. [more inside]
How do I redeem my Bomber Bucks?
How do I use my (Yankees) Bomber Bucks? [more inside]
I thought I understood file sharing
I use file sharing to trade info between a couple of computers in my home and I'm not confident that I had it configured correctly. Is there any way kind of "log" in OS X that will tell if some sneak has been accessing my files? [more inside]
How do I break the ice?
I need tips and resources on the pure art of starting conversations. [more inside]
Honeymoon in Vermont
My wife and I are thinking about going to Vermont for our honeymoon in September. We'd like to go somewhere relaxing and were thinking about a bed and breakfast. Any suggestions on where to stay and what to do? Thanks!
Can a poison ivy rash spread even after the urushiol oil has been washed off?
Can a poison ivy rash spread even after the urushiol oil has been washed off? [more inside]
Help a bride to be!
Female health filter- how to prevent bloating in the week of your wedding? [more inside]
I'm kind of a mess right now, and really need help cleaning and setting up my home.
I'm kind of a mess right now, and really need help cleaning and setting up my home. [more inside]
Choice Notifications for Google?
In Google documents, how can I have my boss alerted when it needs to be viewed? He has an android phone and uses google mail coupled with Mac os X and mac applications. He has his gmail open all day and always has his phone with him. [more inside]
Oh where art thou, tiny baby octopus website?
Find this old website/blog: A series of pages about raising baby octopodes (or possibly some other kind of cephalopod). They kept the babies in small, clear plastic cups and there was definitely a picture of rows of cups, each with a tiny octopus. Would have been several years ago, probably 5+. My Google-fu has completely failed me and it's driving me crazy.
Attack of the killer house kitties
My 2 cats (who up to this point have been nothing but adorable love monkeys wrapped in fur) viciously attacked me last night. I have never seen anything like it and it's making me wonder whether I can continue to keep them. But I love them! (Or at least I have for the past 6 years...) What do I do? [more inside]
The answer is, you are wrong.
Relative constantly contradicts me on all matters large and small. Help me not lose my mind! [more inside]
Please help me navigate West Virginia quickly so I can do a good deed!
Best route from D.C. to Buckhannon, WV? [more inside]
Dog is upset at new item in yard
We just had a large tree cut down in our yard.
We decided to leave a large portion of the trunk lying horizontally on the ground in an area where we generally throw leaves and prunings.
One of our dogs is now barking nonstop at this large trunk. He's obviously scared and upset.
Any suggestions on how to calm him down?
Driving to Phoenix on a holiday
what time is a good time to drive to phoenix? [more inside]
Am I doing enough for my dog?
How can I ensure my puppy's quality of life while we're both trapped at home? [more inside]
Can I create a modestly secure diary online using Wordpress, .htaccess, and a few tricks?
I want to access my personal diary from anywhere - and keep it as secure as possible at the same time. Here's my idea on how to do this...what do you think? [more inside]
avoiding thinking
I need to avoid thinking without using the net on my phone and am looking for suggestions. [more inside]
Repair for Central Nervous System Damaged from Polypharmacy?
Who can I talk to/where can I go to find an expert in polypharmacy, particularly with an eye to repairing damage to the central nervous system? [more inside]
Can a 4G iPod work with a CF card instead of an HDD?
Things to do with a lobotomized iPod 4G? I pulled out the hard drive, put an a CF card, and now, no matter how often I restore it, can't get it to work as an iPod, even though my PC can read and write to the drive. Can it work with this setup? [more inside]
The pinchers are on the back!
What kind of bug is this? [more inside]
Scared of going down south.
Moving back to Boston, working in Quincy, working nights, need to practice music at night (hopefully), would like to live in Cambridge, would like to get rid of my car.
Lots of different details I'm trying to piece together. Details inside. Advice requested. [more inside]
Caring for a sick parent
My mom had breast cancer several years ago, and developed lymphedema, which she was managing with pain medication until last November. In November, the pain management clinic decided to change her medications, which led to a gradual but dramatic decline in my mom's standard of living. [more inside]
Negotiation strategies for a disparate group?
Negotiation strategies for a disparate group? How do you get the "best deal" when your team can't agree on what the best deal looks like? [more inside]
How much are taxes on buying a macbook in Toronto?
How much are taxes on buying a macbook in Toronto? [more inside]
SELECT TOP 10 blogs FROM blagosphere WHERE type = 'SQL Server'
Best blogs for SQL Server? [more inside]
What is the best way for someone with plenty of sysadmin and programming experience but no actual professional IT experience to begin a career in IT?
What is the best way for someone with plenty of sysadmin and programming experience but no actual professional IT experience to begin a career in IT? [more inside]
Help me hack my post-shoulder surgery recuperation!
What are some things I can do before my upcoming shoulder surgery to make life a little easier afterwards? [more inside]
give me your happy stories
does it really get better? i'm a 40 year old single woman.
i have just gotten out of the arguably the worst relationship of my life (with some equivalent badness from my late teenage years, but isn't that the point of late teenage years). you can see my posts here and here.
I clearly have some issues to sort out and need to spend some time recovering from the chaos and i'm working on that in all the various ways (meditation, exercise, long walks, trying to eat right, time with loved ones, etc.)
so hive mind, what i really need right now is some hope. please tell me your tales of 40+ happiness- romantic and otherwise.
thanks!
Childhood book filter
Help me find a book from my childhood-I've been chasing my tail for 20 years now! [more inside]
Spider Identification
I recently ran across this little lady on my garden hose in my backyard in Milwaukee, WI. She moved very quickly when she wanted to, but mostly just tried to stay out of the sun. I snapped a couple pictures. She had a small white spot on top of her abdomen.
Fashion Faux Pas?
Can I wear a white bra under a white shirt/tank top? [more inside]
I can't patch patches on crotch air-conditioning any more.
Tall AND fat husband needs durable, non-cargo work pants for two jobs. [more inside]
That isn't me
Domain swiper using my old content to make their spam site look like it's actually mine? [more inside]
How to make my graduate degree look reel purty and not disintegrate?
What's the cheapest way to frame my Master of Social Work degree while preserving it/making it look professional? Do I need to look for special "preservation quality" materials or not so much?
Mental health practitioner norms indicate I need to display the diploma in my office, along with my social work license. (Neurotic circumstances elaborated upon within!) [more inside]
Best way to pay off my debts?
I'd like to consolidate my credit cards and pay off some non-credit card related debt. What's the best way to do this with the lowest interest rate? [more inside]
Shortwave radio advice please
How can I get the most enjoyment out of my shortwave radio? [more inside]
What's the best way to find the bestselling genre books on Amazon?
How do I determine all-time high sellers on Amazon? [more inside]
Preppy, on the cheap
For the preppy askmefiers: After I've stained my umpteenth Ralph Lauren Polo shirt, I've decided to start buying cheaper polos. However, I love the look and feel of the shirt (even without the pony), and would like something similar. Any suggestions on sources/stores/brands/ styles? [more inside]
How to compile pdfcrack on a Mac?
Where is the perfect weather?
What US place has the best 4-season weather? Qualifications: snow in the winter but not super cold or super overcast; real springs and falls; and a warm (not usually going over 90 degrees), NON-HUMID summer.
Using time off to explore a new career
What's the best way to use time off from my current job to figure out if I'd like a career in international development? [more inside]
Cake + Pork = ???
Ground Pork Cake? That's what it rang up as at the register. But what is it (besides absolutely delicious), where is it from, and how is it normally served/used? [more inside]
Central Park with a Canine Condition
Going to Central Park with about 10 friends tomorrow with one twist I'm not used to - one of the people is bringing a dog. I normally do Sheep Meadow, but that prohibits dogs. What's the best place in central park for 10 or so people to lay about (ideally in the shade considering the expected weather tomorrow), picnic, and toss a frisbee and/or a football around? If it's not particularly crowded, all the better.
Where do background check websites source their data?
Testing filter
Help me subvert the education-industrial complex! [more inside]
Excel help needed!
I have a formula for inputting into my expense sheet but it doesn't populate the field like it should. I stole the formula from my time sheet, and that does populat the column for the 4 weeks after I manually put in date 1.
It is:
=IF($B$4=0,"",SUM(B4+1))
So...why does it work in one sheet but not the next? [more inside]
Inexpensive family activities in the Panama City, Florida area with older kids?
Inexpensive family activities in the Panama City, Florida area with older kids? [more inside]
Another damn "identify this song" question.
This may be the longest shot question I have ever asked. Help me identify this super-catchy tune! [more inside]
Best books and articles on the role of "information" and science in society?
Best books and articles on the role of "information" and science in society? [more inside]
Recommend podcasts whose speaker(s) have an Iranian accent.
Do you know of any English podcasts whose speaker(s) have an Iranian accent? [more inside]
Looking for a movie about making a movie ...
I am looking for recommendations for an old film -- old enough to be in the public domain -- in which characters are making a film, so that there are shots of cameras, and of the movie filming. Ideally there'd be some kissing going on, getting filmed. I'm going to use the footage in a music video, so the audio/audio quality isn't important. In case it's not clear, I don't have a specific film in mind, but am just looking for footage from any film that fits the bill. And ideally the film would have been released widely enough that my library's extensive DVD collection would include it. Thanks in advance for any help.
Maintenance for MacBookPro
My MacBook Pro, not that old, is getting a big sluggish, some 'spinning wheel' (no crashes yet). But wondering if there is any good software/applications out there that sort of do 'clean up' work? Have heard of some but wondering about people's actual experience.
I miss my functioning Echofon
Echofon for Firefox has gone bananas. Are there any decent alternatives that are compatible with FF5? [more inside]
Grand Canyon Kennel Gift ?
What is a good gift for a kennel owner? [more inside]
How do I overcome depression?
How do quickly overcome deep depression before starting grad school? [more inside]
Please help me deal with these movie location folks. Whats fair for a location deal?
Paramount Pictures will be filming a movie on the street where I own a retail business. They would like to come in an do a bit of window dressing as well as possibly have the location available to them throughout the night 6pm-6am. It will not be a central location in the shoot but I get the feeling it will be periphereal. I am wondering what kind of compensation I should ask for as we will be inconvenienced. a bit
Why does powercfg not do what I want in Windows 7?
How can I disable the keyboard Sleep key from a cmd script in Windows 7? [more inside]
New York Gifts?
Hi
I am visiting NY city October-November 2011. Last year I brought back to Australia the Staples 'Easy' button for the 4 people I managed as gifts. That was a great success!!
This year I manage 20 people. I need distinctively New York gifts, under $5 each, light to pack, suitable for office workers.
Any ideas?