June 2014 Archives
June 30
U(ltra expensive)-Pack
I've heard a lot of good things about ABF's ReloCubes, both on here and from friends, but the prices I've heard bandied about are wildly lower than what I'm being quoted. Am I missing something, or have their prices just skyrocketed recently? [more inside]
posted by invitapriore at 10:53 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by invitapriore at 10:53 PM PST - 14 comments
How do I get my intelligence and identity back after depression?
Hi. I am currently 21 years old, female, and I think I was depressed for a long time, sometimes I think most of my life. I think I'm just starting to get out of it though, and I'm having a lot of realizations lately. I have had a lot of good days where I feel somewhat like myself again but have had bad days too. I really want to continue having good days but I'm struggling. I need help. [more inside]
posted by anon1129 at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by anon1129 at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
What was this cartoon with a cross-language pun?
As a kid, I saw part of a cartoon aimed at bilingual (Korean + English) children. The plot involved a bunch of children on some sort of fantastic quest or journey. The scene I remember most clearly is one where they're being riddled/quizzed by something (I remember it as a floating light, but it might've been some kind of creature or robot or something). It asks for the name of the backmost teeth, and the youngest of the children answers "몰라" ("I don't know"; pronounced molah, which the riddler interprets as "molar") [more inside]
posted by kagredon at 9:22 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by kagredon at 9:22 PM PST - 2 comments
Sibling weddings cannot be in same month, even in different years?
I have two brothers-in-law, my husband's younger siblings. Both of them are getting married. The older of the two, who we'll call Brother A, has been planning his wedding for a while. His fiancé and he have been dating for a few years and are planning a traditional wedding for next year in August. The younger, Brother B, is getting married ASAP to a girlfriend he has only been dating briefly, for well... the classic reason for getting married in a hurry. They also want to get married in August, of this year. Brother A says that's "his" month. Is that even a thing? [more inside]
How often does a residential septic system really need to be pumped out?
I'm getting conflicting opinions on how often a septic system needs to be pumped, and pumping isn't cheap. My current system is about ten years old, and it's been mostly just me using it. I've heard of other low-use households that have been pumped maybe once in 30 years. Conventional wisdom seems to be thus: pump every 3 years or so or risk anything from a bad smell to a total system wipeout and replacement. Is that for real? [more inside]
Struggling with my sleep patterns and eating.
I need help with overcoming my stress in order to start eating and sleeping heathily. What are your hints and tips to get my life back on track? [more inside]
How to deal with cards I have been dealt?
I was always a very high achiever but in my late teens, I was diagnosed with a debilitating chronic illness. I spent most of my 20s severely limited. In my mid 30s now and still struggling with the feeling that life is unfair. [more inside]
Portland, Maine. Is Craigslist best for rentals?
We're hopefully going to get the go ahead on a job move to Portland, Maine very soon and want to get set up with a rental to move into when we get there. Looking for a pet friendly 2/3 bed house/apartment in either Portland itself or South Portland or nice neighborhoods very nearby. Is Craigslist the best place to look or is there something Maine/Portland specific that outsiders like us wouldn't know about?
Any tips/area recommendations gratefully received!
How can I help rural women who want to obtain an abortion?
I live in a rural place, the nearest Planned Parenthood is far away and hard to access if you're poor and/or without a car. I want to help women in my area get to the clinic if that's what they need. How can I do this? [more inside]
posted by blue_bicycle at 4:59 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by blue_bicycle at 4:59 PM PST - 13 comments
Ideas for preparing kids for a White House tour?
We're taking a White House tour -- yay! How can I get my kids excited (and informed) about it? [more inside]
Please computer, don't leave me!
My computer is suddenly dead. How can I resurrect him? He refuses to even turn on. [more inside]
Help me find these shoes, please!
I would like to find these exact shoes.
I've seen some similar but would like to find these. Thanks!
posted by theredpen at 2:52 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by theredpen at 2:52 PM PST - 3 comments
Readings on Form and Content
I am writing a piece about the melding of form and content within a certain musician's body of work. (I'd rather not give this artist's name.) I am looking for texts which deal with concepts of form and content in any genre. Denise Levertov's "Some Notes on Organic Form" is likely going to be my main reference, but I haven't been able to think of many other resources despite attempting to search the library databases on this. Can anyone think of other texts to check out?
how can I kindly reject PhD students?
I have just begun as an assistant professor in the humanities at a prestigious university, and I am getting more emails from prospective PhD candidates than I can handle, gracefully or otherwise. I am presently a total n00b (read: incompetent at my job) and can't realistically take more than one a year. But I have no idea how to deal with these emails. Any suggestions on how to handle them, from anyone in similar but wiser positions? Agonized details below. [more inside]
posted by starcrust at 2:11 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by starcrust at 2:11 PM PST - 21 comments
Repair brushed stainless steel refrigerator door (pic inside)
In the attempt to clean my pre-owned fridge I've taken a nylon scouring pad to the door and caused noticeable damage. Can I fix this? [more inside]
What should I read after watching the Up series?
I am an American who has just finished watching the Up series on Netflix, and I am wondering if there are any articles or books worth reading about the series. I would be interested in anything, but I'm particularly interested in anything that fleshes out the stories of these people's lives and also anything concerning how the series changed the lives of those portrayed (are they celebrities in the UK? etc.)
posted by imabanana at 1:57 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by imabanana at 1:57 PM PST - 4 comments
Help Me Shop Online for Nursing Bras
Help me shop online for nursing bras. I am currently a 38G with the expectation of major fluctuations after the birth of my first child in August. I do not have stores nearby with a range of nursing bras in my size, and I prefer to shop online anyway, so please help me sort through the options. [more inside]
A hopeful future for our moldy basement of doom?
8 inches of rain caused our basement to flood, so we ripped out the carpet and pad, baseboards, and waterlogged drywall. It turns out we had decades worth of pre-existing mold in the drywall, so most of the walls had to come out, too. Now we have a partially unfinished basement with 60 years of half-assed renovation attempts exposed. What do we do now? [more inside]
posted by Maarika at 1:45 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Maarika at 1:45 PM PST - 10 comments
A playlist which prefers to play songs I REALLY like over filler?
I'm wondering if it's technically possible to "weight" a song's importance on a playlist so that it has a higher chance of being played. With that weigh ranging from "100% certainty" to "do not care one way or the other." [more inside]
What can I do with a pound of menthol crystals?
I purchased menthol crystals online, with no specify purpose outside of trying to see if I could use it as a flavoring. That was a bust [more inside,] but now I have a pound of very strong crystals that I have no idea what to do with. I'm looking for creative applications, and I'm out of ideas- and I'm not interested in using these with a vaporizer, which seems to be what the internet recommends. [more inside]
Follow up with employer that sounded interested, but wasn't?
Do I personally contact the person who made me think I was a strong candidate, but didn't consider me again? [more inside]
Sunscreen advice: burnout replacement
My favorite sunscreen (BurnOut) has been reformulated and I need a replacement. [more inside]
posted by medusa at 12:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by medusa at 12:38 PM PST - 12 comments
Asking the Green, As One Does...
Is there a known origin point for the phrase "as one does" (or "like you do" or similar variations), when used to indicate that the speaker is aware of how ridiculous an action is? For instance, "I was at the supermarket at three in the morning, offering the cashier ten bucks for an early box of Count Chocula -- as one does -- and...."
posted by Etrigan at 12:19 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Etrigan at 12:19 PM PST - 12 comments
Name that movie...
Semi-famous lefty NY writer comes back to the neighborhood in LA where he grew up. There's a neighbor across the street who's had a hard life and back after stint in prison. The writer's trying to negotiate a failing marriage and a relationship with an actress who starred in a movie he wrote or directed. The bad neighbor comes over to escape police and holds the guy hostage. They drink some beers together, get high, talk philosophy and he has a phone call with the famous actress. [more inside]
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 12:02 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 12:02 PM PST - 3 comments
Gather round, OKC profile critics...
I know the topic of OKCupid profile critiques is polarizing. Those who enjoy picking apart profiles and judging photos, please bring your honesty and step on up. [more inside]
Instead of giving you money, I'll buy food, drinks.. but, cigarettes?
If a homeless person requests cigarettes, should I fulfill that request? [more inside]
I am annoyed by everyone and everything.
I just googled "I am annoyed by everyone and everything" if that's any indication of my current mood. How do I change it? [more inside]
Help me think through getting my very first credit card
I'm in my mid-thirties and have good credit, but I've never had a "real" credit card. I'm going on an international trip in December/January, and in the hopes of offsetting some of my plane tickets through signup bonus miles, now seems as good a time as any to finally get a credit card (still, I'm not averse to cash back rather than miles). Give me advice! [more inside]
posted by tapir-whorf at 11:08 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by tapir-whorf at 11:08 AM PST - 18 comments
Neighbors put bushes and landscaping several feet onto my property
My neighbors, who are renters, have put lilac bushes, flowers, and landscaping several feet into my property. I've nothing against flowers and landscaping, but I would not have chosen to add this to my land in this particular configuration, and I am concerned about the idea of encroachment on my lot. How should I respond? [more inside]
Home security in a low-crime world, for security-minded people
DH and I will be moving from an upper-floor apartment in a moderate-crime neighborhood of a big city to a single family house in a low-crime (and to be frank) affluent suburb. We're having a little trouble translating our expectations about home security. What is a reasonable level of home security to aim for when the burglary rate is 1/10th of where we're coming from? How safe can you get when you've got glass panes in your door, and windows everywhere? Can you help us sort this out? [more inside]
Internet's having issues--some sites load, some don't.
My internet (AT&T DSL) got weird a few hours ago this morning, and is still struggling. I went through a long list of stuff with a tech, who is sending out a new modem.
Here's what's happening. Certain sites are loading fine, while others just time out to the "The connection has timed out" message. [more inside]
posted by Slinga at 10:31 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Slinga at 10:31 AM PST - 8 comments
Looking for an old-fashioned 4th of July celebration
When I used to live in Texas, my friends and I used to escape the big city to a small town that held a old-school 4th of July event. The firetruck parade, the town band enthusiastically playing John Phillip Sousa, funnel cakes and cotton candy and a ferris wheel, the whole nine yards. It was awesome. I would love to find something similar near (less than a two hour drive) DC. Thanks everyone!
posted by backwards compatible at 10:26 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by backwards compatible at 10:26 AM PST - 6 comments
Humorous memoir ID
I'm the title of a humorous memoir by a guy who loves breakfast cereal and Saturday morning cartoons. [more inside]
How to get up when you wake up
My mother is trying a number of tactics to help with debilitating chronic migraines (occurring multiple times weekly). She's been told that getting out of bed immediately on waking has reduced the occurrence of migraines in some other sufferers. This is proving a difficult thing to implement. Hive, how would you motivate yourself to get out of your cosy cosy bed? [more inside]
posted by mymbleth at 9:57 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by mymbleth at 9:57 AM PST - 20 comments
Please help me not go crazy with worry about my wife's health.
My wife's been experiencing vertigo, dizziness and nausea for almost a week. I'm concerned; she says it's almost certainly going to go away soon. I'm extremely anxious when it comes to her health. I'm looking for reassurances or any other help to clear my mind so I can support her, as well as any ideas on what this could be. [more inside]
Help me avoid getting ripped off buying a used Volvo wagon
I'm temporarily stranded in a pleasant but completely unfamiliar city on the east coast. Partly because used car prices seem to be much lower here than my native Seattle, I want to buy a used car while I'm here, and use it to travel west. I'm on the lookout for an early '00s Volvo wagon. Ordinarily, I'd pay to have a mechanic look over a prospective purchase, but that's just not a practical undertaking in my specific situation.
So: should I just not do this? Or are there a few simple things to look for before buying a car that I could do in under, say, ten minutes, as a relative novice to car-buying and -servicing?
File management and getting two directories in sync.
I'm in the process of cleaning up a hacked Wordpress install. How can I use the file list from a known-good directory as the basis for deleting all other files in the hacked one? e.g.: If a file exists in .../goodtheme/ leave it in .../badtheme. Otherwise, delete everything. [more inside]
Similar Music to This?
Being a life-long fan of Neil Finn, I bought his latest album a couple of months ago. I am absolutely head over heels in love with the Divebomber track which is very atypical of him (with a handful of exceptions). I really like the abstract, soaring soundscape and fairly unconventional structure of the Finn song. Seeing as my musical horizon isn't what it used to be, can you recommend music similar to the Divebomber track? [more inside]
posted by kariebookish at 8:43 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by kariebookish at 8:43 AM PST - 7 comments
Newspaper strangling vs. Hollywood neck-break
Is it really possible for a person to kill another by twisting their neck the way stealthy soldiers do on movies? If so, why in the world would anyone ever strangle someone? [more inside]
Calling all osteologists.
Can you identify what animal this (1, 2, 3) bone is from? It was found washed up on a beach in Rhode Island. [more inside]
posted by geegollygosh at 8:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by geegollygosh at 8:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Long Form Music Journalism
Link me to riveting, long form music journalism online! I want to read case histories of musicians with troubled lives, like these articles about Elliot Smith and Ben Todd. Or maybe a peek at a subculture I barely knew existed, like Kid Rock's Cruise or Nathan Rabin's many recaps of The Gathering. I'll also accept a straight-ahead profile, as long as it's as well written as Elizabeth Gilbert's piece on Hank-3. [more inside]
posted by Juliet Banana at 8:19 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Juliet Banana at 8:19 AM PST - 8 comments
Dear Coworker: Why do you care what I eat?
I'm getting really tired of a particular coworker's constant prying about what I eat. It's starting to feel like bullying, and it happened to me before at my previous job. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by shiggins at 8:19 AM PST - 67 comments
posted by shiggins at 8:19 AM PST - 67 comments
Psychotherapy - Transference
I have been seeing an older male psychotherapist (psychodynamic/analytic orientation, I guess) for a year to deal with issues related to my divorce, self-esteem, trauma, grief, and so on. At 34, I am finally resolved to living a conscious life and so I decided to commit myself to long-term psychotherapy. Our sessions have been fairly productive--I have gained some insight into the faulty and harmful ways I deal with men, and have accessed deep wells of grief that I had repressed for a long time. My shrink is (was) wonderful....until... [more inside]
posted by Jaspersen145 at 8:01 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by Jaspersen145 at 8:01 AM PST - 37 comments
Where can I buy a cheap, giant suitcase on the internet?
A few friends of mine have bought cheap, giant suitcases from novelty shops and souvenir shops in NYC. Since I'm halfway across the country, I'm looking for something similar that I can buy on the internet.
Workable dimensions are around 32 x 25 x 10 inches - really freakin' big. But, amazon and ebay and the like are failing me.
Can you help?
How much might a sleepover nanny charge?
How much might a sleepover nanny/childminder charge per 24 hours? As a guide, this would be in the U.S. Say for example the nanny currently charges about $100 for a full day (it's actually more), but has not done sleepovers before. We want to arrive at a fair rate for the 24 hours.
posted by carter at 7:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by carter at 7:05 AM PST - 9 comments
Please suggest great but lesser-known non-fiction to give my dad.
Like many dads he reads mostly non-fiction books with a historical, military, political and/or transportation focus. But he seems to have read them all. [more inside]
posted by neat graffitist at 7:01 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by neat graffitist at 7:01 AM PST - 27 comments
Electronic music similar to Abdullah Rashim?
Just now listening to Unanimity for the first time and picking the pieces of my jaw up off the floor. Need more like this. A LOT MORE like this.
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:59 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:59 AM PST - 17 comments
Self-improvement and forgetting
How do I incorporate the things I learn from self-improvement reading into my life? This is more than just a question about remembering what I learn from self-improvement books. I am looking for ways of making that knowledge stick, so that I can make good use of it later when I need it. [more inside]
ground hornets
I have just been stung by a bunch of ground hornets. What do I do about the stings and how do I get rid of the nest? I'm not allergic as far as I know, but they burn like fire!
not technically depressed but is this as good as it gets?
I believe that popular wisdom holds that contentment or real inner peace is the goal for those who have been depressed and who have pulled out of the hole.
But what about people who have been unhappy since childhood, for example. One popularly cited data point for whether someone has diagosable depression is they lose interest in what they've loved doing, and this notion assumes that they've had a chance to develop hobbies or friendships at some point until they became depressed.
So short of having had hobbies or friends to return to, at what point do people "stop being depressed"? (I know that there are manuals that professionals use to tally up symptoms, but I am asking not about technical definitions of depressed versus not; I'm asking about the experience. Has anyone experienced a bright line shift in their thinking?) [more inside]
Life with a robotic lawn mower
I'm considering investing in a robotic lawn mower. Technical specs and short reviews are easy to find, but I'm having trouble sorting out if the investment is worth it, or if I should rather buy a high-end "normal" lawn mower or possibly a riding one. How is life with a robotic lawn mower? [more inside]
posted by Harald74 at 5:39 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Harald74 at 5:39 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me Pokemon Kenobi, you're my only hope!
How do I figure out which Pokemon sets are currently "in rotation"? [more inside]
posted by jozxyqk at 5:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by jozxyqk at 5:05 AM PST - 9 comments
grain-free make-ahead salads?
I love to make a huge vat of salad to eat throughout the week. I'm looking for recipes for such salads, which will stay good all week already mixed up. No pasta, please!
posted by chaiminda at 4:51 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by chaiminda at 4:51 AM PST - 20 comments
Does everyone have a vice?
Are there people with no vices? Is it possible to switch one vice for another? [more inside]
Air conditioners allow fresh outside air into the room (fan setting)?
Do some AC's allow fresh outside air into the room? [more inside]
posted by BillyAnne at 3:00 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by BillyAnne at 3:00 AM PST - 4 comments
What is useless, obnoxious and forces me to stock up on tampons?
Every month for about a week, my quality of life depreciates. My breasts hurt. My normally-clear skin breaks out. My bowel function goes haywire. Sometimes my back and thighs hurt. Sometimes I get cranky. I have to deal with the gross reality that blood is pouring out of my body. Um... No thank you. I'd like to stop this, please. [more inside]
June 29
Putting a pricetag on my dream?
I've had a fantasy that has been rolling around in my head for the past 15 plus years of opening a small public aquarium. It's always been the sort of things that I thought to myself "If I ever won the lottery one day." level of realism.
Over the past year or so, I've been getting encouragement from friends to actually go for it. While I still thinks it's just daydream fodder, I sort of want to figure out a rough idea of cost to see just how crazy the idea is.
The problem is, I have no idea how to figure that rough estimate of what it would cost. [more inside]
posted by [insert clever name here] at 10:45 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by [insert clever name here] at 10:45 PM PST - 14 comments
Hardy Boys TV Show - Kubrick Maze?
I was watching the first episode of The Hardy Boys (1977) with opening credits showing them running into a large labyrinth with camera panning above. [more inside]
posted by chicaboom at 10:22 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by chicaboom at 10:22 PM PST - 4 comments
Ideas for an awesome birthday present for soon-to-be new dad
Mr Robin's birthday is coming up, and I'd love to get him something really nifty this time around. I don't really have a knack for selecting gifts - I do okay and occasionally nail it. I'd like to really nail it this time! [more inside]
Retrieving accidentally deleted photos
I accidentally deleted photos from my Canon 7D, photos that I mistakenly thought I had saved, and was wondering, since I haven't used the camera since, if it's possible to somehow retrieve them?
Is it fake?
I bought a fancy (to me) Longines watch used. I'd like to verify that the watch I got is legit, ideally without paying too much for the service. Should I take it to a Longines dealer locally (I'm in D.C., looks like a place called Diplomatic Duty Free is the only authorized dealer) or should I take it to a different kind of place? How much can I expect to pay for this? [more inside]
Ready for career change. Nanny to ......
With 13+ years experience working in the field of child care, I am ready for a career change. Most recently (the last 5 years), I have been working as a nanny in a major American city. Previously, I've been a camp counselor, Au-Pair, and tutor, etc. I'm looking to parler this skill set into something outside of 'household help'. [more inside]
Something like malm
I am looking for a dresser with drawers that don't stick and are nice and deep so they hold a lot of clothing. Ideally I'd like a 3-drawer Malm dresser from Ikea, but the closest one is 3 hours away and they don't deliver the Malm. Any other substitutes? [more inside]
posted by sockermom at 8:51 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by sockermom at 8:51 PM PST - 12 comments
Kindle time zone
How do I set the time zone for my Kindle Fire? Right now it's displaying UTC, I think, instead of UTC-7 which is my time zone. I just turned on "Location-based services" and that didn't help.
My knees constantly crack and pop and crunch and I'm over it
Please help me attain knee health before it's too late. [more inside]
Tell me your go-to songs that make you cry.
I feel many emotions when I am listening to music - happiness, melancholy, goosebump-y, etc. - but I rarely find albums that can bring me to tears. I just bought a Non-English album that brought me to (mostly joyful) tears many times; the experience was almost cathartic. Please give me songs (in any language, or even without any singing) that provoked a strong emotional response in you the first time you heard it - I'm talking powerful feelings like awe, joy, sadness, etc. that would make you tear up or outright cry. Details inside. [more inside]
Finding my GGG grandfather
I'm visiting Scotland for a week in July, and I thought it might be fun to lookup some of my Scottish ancestors. We know that the family lived in New Cathcart (parish?) in the 1840's, which appears to now be a part of Glasgow. We also know my GGG grandfather died sometime between 1847 - 1849, in Cathcart, but it's not clear exactly when he died or where he's buried. Would I be wasting an hour or two trying to find it? [more inside]
Philadelphia recommendations, summer special snowflakes inside
What things should I be sure not to miss when visiting Philly July 6-11th? Difficulty: Attending a conference but free in the evenings, solo traveler, nervous driving in cities. [more inside]
Quality online t-shirt maker?
Hi, simple question here. My friends and I are designing logos on photoshop. We'd like to put the finished logos on some shirts what we'll probably wear for a marathon. I'd love to hear some recommendations on what reputable online sites you might have used - I found a a decent bunch of choices on google, but can't seem to find reviews so It'd be nice to have some anecdata.
Melodies and Mixed Drinks in Montreal
I will be in Montreal from July 5 to July 11. Anything cool happening? [more inside]
posted by isnotchicago at 6:14 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by isnotchicago at 6:14 PM PST - 5 comments
Bumped a neighbor's house over 2 yrs ago, now an insurance claim looms
I bent the metal railing and caused some cracks in the brick staircase. After talking with the owner of the house, nothing was done for over 2 years. Now the owner is considering a repair and has told me that he's gotten quotes for $4000. How should I respond to this situation to both protect myself and take responsibility for my actions? [more inside]
Grand Coulee Dam 4th of July
We're going to the laser and firework show at the dam this year for the first time. I did some research and they are expecting 15,000 people for the show. Has anybody else been there before? I need some hints to make it more fun and not a hassle. Do we watch from the vehicle or should we bring blankets and a picnic, how early should we show up, best viewpoint, parking, etc.? Any suggestions will be appreciated. Thanks!
posted by cliffster99 at 5:11 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by cliffster99 at 5:11 PM PST - 5 comments
What flooring should I use in my home office?
One of my bedrooms serves as my home office, and the old carpet needs to be replaced - with something. Requirements: 1) I need something that will be easy to clean when the cats puke. 2) I would really prefer to not have to use a mat under my desk chair. 3) Wood is probably out. The office already has a lot of wood furniture, and a wood floor would be too much. [more inside]
posted by jeri at 5:10 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jeri at 5:10 PM PST - 13 comments
Change & Drawing from Within
I was curious as to what others have done when they are not sure as to what they need to change to make their lives better? I am a big believer in therapy but it is also very problem oriented and can focus too much on deficits. I guess what I'm asking is how do you know what you need to change in your life? How do you know if you have fallen off the path of what you need to do in your life? [more inside]
posted by nidora at 5:08 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by nidora at 5:08 PM PST - 5 comments
What language do the refs speak at the world cup?
There are teams from around the world that speak so many languages. When teams have different primary languages is their an " international" language for soccer? I highly doubt that the ref for today's game spoke Spanish and Greek.
Businesses in New York that have been around for over 100 years
I'd like to compile a list of businesses in New York City—starting with Manhattan—that have been around for 100 years or more. I'd also like to include places the public can visit that aren't "businesses" per se.
I'm guessing this information is publicly available, but I don't know where to start. Any guidance would be extremely helpful. Thanks!
Maybe we are stuck-up jerks.
My boyfriend and I are considering moving to the Twin Cities. [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 3:44 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 3:44 PM PST - 29 comments
Specific day hikes +/- swimming in southern-central Ontario?
Hi all, the girlfriend and I are planning a trip for the August long weekend, and we'd like to go somewhere where we can do a moderately exertional day hike (i.e. 5-6 hrs or so). We were thinking about heading to the Bruce peninsula, but despite our combined Google-fu, we're having trouble locating specific hikes (as in, "Start at point x, see nice things y, finish at point z") that meet our criteria. We're going to be getting the reference guide to the Bruce from the library, but I was wondering if anyone had specific ideas about good, scenic day hikes that would be feasibly within a 3-4 hour drive of Toronto. Areas other than the Bruce also considered! Bonus points for access to a beach in the area (e.g. on Georgian Bay or a lake). [more inside]
Whose Lovecraft-in-suburbia art is this?
A while back I randomly downloaded this image, very possibly from a Metafilter thread, without noting the name of the artist. Anyway, I recently posted it to Facebook and one of my friends wants to know who the artist is as he's pretty sure he went to school with the guy ... but he forgets his name.
Any ideas?
posted by philip-random at 3:09 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by philip-random at 3:09 PM PST - 3 comments
Can I use the cell phone that I bought abroad in the US?
I just came back to the US from living in Europe. I have a very basic Samsung phone that I bought cheaply over there. I brought it back with me, and am wondering if I can change the sim card and have a prepaid plan in the US. [more inside]
Help me return to legality!
I like to think of myself as a law-abiding citizen, and in pretty much all areas of my life I have been, save this. I believe I've twice illegally renewed my vehicle registration because I am not a legal resident of the state where I registered. How do I fix this without facing stiff legal penalties? [more inside]
A way to thank leasing office employees?
A couple of middle-manager-ish employees perhaps bent the rules a little bit for us and allowed us to transfer a lease to new parties, completely getting us out of the lease. Should I/how do I say thank you? [more inside]
Hippy Shake
Please recommend some newer songs that have that 60s psychedelic sound. (Like the recent Ray LaMontagne album or GOASTT.)
posted by Malla at 1:41 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Malla at 1:41 PM PST - 14 comments
Read cable modem status through router?
Is there a wireless router that can tunnel http to 192.168.100.1 so I can read my cable modem's Signal and Log pages? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 1:24 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by morganw at 1:24 PM PST - 7 comments
What happened to these men's scalps?
On Saturday (the 28th) in Ataturk Airport in Istanbul, I saw three men who looked like they had burns or injuries to their scalps (two were together, one was separate). What was I seeing? [more inside]
posted by Rora at 1:22 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Rora at 1:22 PM PST - 5 comments
Desperately in Need of Passport Help
My family has a flight at 6:30 tomorrow morning to Montreal. I realized a couple hours ago that my sixteen-year-old daughter's passport is over a year expired. Any advice for me on what to do with this situation? We are flying from Louisville, via Chicago. [more inside]
Late 80s indie song ID
I've been searching for various songs I used to have on tape from UK Radio 1's John Peel show in the late 80s (roughly 87-90). One in particular is proving a bit tricky. On the tape inlay I labelled it Imaginary Girlfriend by Mighty Mighty, but if that's true I haven't been able to turn it up on Google, so that could be completely wrong. I don't have the tape anymore so I can't upload a sample. More half-remembered details below the fold. [more inside]
posted by crocomancer at 12:36 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by crocomancer at 12:36 PM PST - 3 comments
Poem (Rimbaud?) about young soldiers' blood in summer fields
I read this poem years ago, and I'm pretty sure it's by Rimbaud, but I can't find it on Google. I think it starts out by describing a beautiful summer landscape, perhaps some wheat fields in France, and then it turns darker and describes dead young WW1 soldiers who lie there bleeding. Which poem is this?
posted by mbrock at 12:27 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mbrock at 12:27 PM PST - 6 comments
Having a messy house is the least of my worries
Mefites with ADHD, how do you cope with the social and professional problems caused by this condition? [more inside]
posted by Sockrates at 12:00 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Sockrates at 12:00 PM PST - 7 comments
How did you move in with your SO when you worked opposing schedules?
I work days, he works nights. We both like to sleep. And now we want to move in together. How do we make this work? [more inside]
Duck Wars: Is there anything humans can do?
We have two families of ducks on our pond.
The older family of six started killing the new babies of the young family of ten. [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 11:42 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by shipbreaker at 11:42 AM PST - 7 comments
They're off!
Trying to remember/identify a poem I remember from an old compilation of Beat stuff. It went something along these lines of "If castration rewarded greatness, such an honor to hear, 'They're off!'" I want to say the poet was an African-American with the first name Michael, possible Irish-ish last name.
Bird ID
Need help i.d.ing the most likely name for a bird I saw in Singapore, on Sentosa Island. Unfortunately, I have no pics. [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 10:56 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 10:56 AM PST - 3 comments
Will my tree be okay?
Hop on up!
I'm looking to turn a chainlink fence, together with lines up to my roof, into a semipermanent trellis. What material should I use to build it? [more inside]
posted by jackbishop at 10:25 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jackbishop at 10:25 AM PST - 6 comments
How do I sell my car?
I have a 2006 Mini Cooper S Convertible that I can't afford to maintain properly. It pains me to do it, but I need to sell it and get into a cheaper, more practical car. But how? [more inside]
posted by Space Kitty at 10:16 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Space Kitty at 10:16 AM PST - 15 comments
What makes a good "welcome to our town" package?
What would you like to have known when you moved into your town? I'm helping to put together a 'Welcome to' package for new residents to my town and looking for ideas of what to add to it. What would have helped you settle into and get to know your neighborhood when you moved in? [more inside]
Grad school decisions
I've been accepted into two MLIS programs. I need help deciding. [more inside]
posted by gorbweaver at 9:42 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by gorbweaver at 9:42 AM PST - 13 comments
To blot or not to blot: that is the question.
Has anyone tried cleaning their teeth with the Dr Phillips Blotting Technique? [more inside]
posted by essexjan at 9:34 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by essexjan at 9:34 AM PST - 5 comments
Suggestions for "milder" horror movies?
After being a wimp my whole life and doing everything I could to avoid scary movies, I'd like to now slowly build up my tolerance to be able to handle them to some degree. What I really dread about them is the feeling I get afterwards of someone or something being hidden anytime I'm in the dark and coming to get me, and that's caused me to avoid watching movies with friends and miss a lot of great fiction. What are some suggestions of "easier" scary movies that I can use as a stepping stone before I start watching the really scary stuff? Books and other types of media are also welcome.
What's *like* scanning on my phone, but without the phone? Or a scanner?
I have and use Turbo Scan on my iPhone. It does what it does beautifully--snaps a picture of a page, straightens it, compensates for perspective, and best (for me), takes the yellow age coloring away, leaving me with a pure black and white image. (I'm mostly scanning old sheet music).
Are there any Macintosh apps that would do the same corrections from a digital snapshot? Reason: I have a lot of pre-existing images--high res, but they look like photographs of a page, not that easy-reading, clean black and white.
Any suggestions? Thanks!
Explain reparations to me like I'm an alien
I've been trying to follow the reparations debate, particularly as referenced in The Atlantic in the last few months, but I find that it's largely targeted at convincing readers of the injustices suffered by African Americans...which I don't just accept, I take for granted. That said, I don't understand the practical case for reparations, EXCEPT in terms of community rehabilitation. In scanning the wikipedia page, I felt like the practical reasons against were even more compelling. Here I'm speaking of US government taxpayer-funded reparations for slavery etc. I list the following reasons I don't see how reparations could be a good idea, and hopefully someone can explain what points I'm missing. [more inside]
I would really appreciate some career and life advice
At the moment, I'm feeling at a loose end and really direction-less. I don't know what I want to do with my life and it's making me feel really depressed. I have no short or long term goals. I'm in the process of being referred for CBT and have taken up running to treat the depression. [more inside]
Will JC Denton play nicely with a Snow Leopard?
How do I play Deus Ex on an Intel Mac running OS 10.6.8? [more inside]
Progressive religiousish communities in NYC?
Someone I know who is about to graduate from college would like to participate in a religious community in some way and is interested in exploring hyper-progressive religious institutions in New York City (if any exist). [more inside]
Variations on a code?
This is a code, poorly printed, on the inside of a snack package. It is the last one I need to get a very small "reward." [more inside]
posted by 41swans at 8:07 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by 41swans at 8:07 AM PST - 6 comments
Why is my husband's driving making me crazy?
In the last 6 months, I have suddenly gone from being entirely comfortable riding in the car, to a glued to the seat, slamming the imaginary brake scaredypants whenever my husband drives. He hasn't changed. Why have I? [more inside]
Boiler leaking - emergency or not?
Our combi boiler (a Bosch-Worcester 532i I think) appears to be leaking a bit - water is dripping down from somewhere inside. I've put a bucket underneath it for now. It being a Sunday, getting someone out today to take a look and/or fix it is likely to be expensive. Water pressure seems to be fine and it still seems to be working (i.e. we still have hot water). Is this an emergency situation that warrants calling out someone right now, or is it something that can wait until tomorrow?
What are the most unpredictable films?
What are the most unpredictable, non-formulaic movies that you've seen? I don't mean movies with twist endings, or that discard traditional narrative altogether, but basically conventional films that don't follow familiar plot formulas, but move in ways you can't predict throughout. Thanks for any suggestions!
What can we learn/do on multiple long plane rides?
We're about to take a trip with five, 5+ hour plane journeys, none of which will have decent in flight entertainment, and are looking for inspiration of things we might do/learn in that time for entertainment? We're looking for ideas beyond general reading/podcasts/movies/sleeping, particularly since we love learning new things. [more inside]
Best use / design of finished basement living space
What should we do with this newly opened up space in our finished basement? [more inside]
What are the best blogs about history?
What are the best blogs or other online publications about history (any kind) out there? I'm looking for medium-to-long, well-researched, smart, readable articles by a variety of authors with some expertise in their subject matter. I don't want anything too clickbaity, but nothing straight from an academic journal either.
posted by oinopaponton at 7:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by oinopaponton at 7:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Good Job, Hit the Ceiling Quickly, Looking for Advice on the Next Steps
Looking for advice.
I have a great job, great quality of life, but no career potential whatsoever.
I want to move jobs and stay in my industry but have been told alternately: too expensive, not qualified or way-too-experienced-for-entry-level. Snowflake details (and tl:dr) inside. [more inside]
Should I tell hubby about my poor behavior?
About 15 years ago I behaved badly. Should I tell my husband about it? Ordinarily I'd say no, it's in the past. But there are some complicating factors. Help me figure out what to do. [more inside]
What's this Greek song?
Asking for my ukulele teacher: This is, apparently, the favorite song of a Greek lady living in a nursing home he works with. He'd like to sing the whole song with her, but does not know the name, lyrics or even the whole melody, apart from a few parts that she sang for him (and the melody might not be 100% accurate). Here's an approximation on soundcloud.
Apparently, the song is about riding the train and/or the bus. Does this ring a bell for anyone? Thanks!
How to detect sexist attitudes earlier
I realized over time that 3 of the men I've known for years have patriarchal beliefs, even though they've always said feminist things. I sometimes remember sexist remarks they've made and then feel worse about myself. What's worked for you in being able to recognize people like this earlier, before you let them into your inner circle? [more inside]
posted by cheesecake at 12:38 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by cheesecake at 12:38 AM PST - 47 comments
June 28
[Los Angeles Filter] Looking for a great OB/GYN and GP near Santa Monica
For the last few years I've been going to the Women's Clinic and PP for my routine exams, BC, etc. as needed but it's time to find a regular OB/GYN. I also need to replace my retired GP. Please refer me to your awesome doctors located in the Santa Monica/Venice/MDR/WLA area! [more inside]
posted by Room 641-A at 11:51 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Room 641-A at 11:51 PM PST - 3 comments
YANMD Filter: muscle weakness/shakes
I'm a fit, active 30-year old lady, and over the last month I've noticed that when I lift my arms fully outstretched to the ceiling, the muscles around my shoulders and upper arms feel weirdly tired. I thought I'd pulled them somehow to start with, but it's lasted at least a few weeks now. Also, I've always had a hand tremor when I'm tired but recently it seems a little worse. I'll be seeing my GP soon (UK) but any ideas what I should look out for? [more inside]
Invoices and payment processor for low-transaction contractor?
My new boss apparently prefers to use more convenient and/or flexible methods to pay me, an independent contractor (web dev). He suggested I invoice him through PayPal the first time he paid me. I have a general dislike of PayPal, and I like automation, so I'm trying to decide on a payment processor or other method of billing that can take the same money sources as PayPal. [more inside]
Coloratura Bollywood
Can you point me in the directions of some songs that really show off the vocal pyrotechnics of Bollywood playback singers? [more inside]
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 10:08 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 10:08 PM PST - 2 comments
Read-It-Later Services and Archiving - Help
I have about 1500 articles "archived" on Instapaper. I thought it always retrieved the local cached copy from my app or Instapaper. However, whenever there is an internet connection on my iPad, it will attempt to get the article from the original URL and if it's not there, tell me it's not available. >>>details inside [more inside]
Help me be the mayor of FLAVORTOWN!
Planning to cosplay as Guy Fieri at an upcoming convention -- Difficulty: I've only seen maybe three episodes of Diners, Drive-ins and Dives, and have neither the cable subscription, nor the inclination to watch any more than that, and was hoping that instead, I could get some general tips from the hive mind on how to project an aura of Fieri-ness. [more inside]
Bathing suit of specific description sought
So, I've been looking for a couple of years for a decent bathing suit, and I have a few requirements. Longish bike-y shorts and a tankini top that is sporty and feminine without being plain, supportive for a 38D bustline, and ideally with some kind of tummy panel for shaping. The tankini top part is not that hard to find, but the big deal has been the shorts. I don't want a swim skirt and I don't want "boy shorts". [more inside]
posted by lakersfan1222 at 9:16 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by lakersfan1222 at 9:16 PM PST - 19 comments
My kingdom for an intern!
I need a grant writing intern for my non-profit. Possibly several. Do you know what universities have good green technology or permaculture degree tracks that would be a good place to start looking? (many snowflakes inside) [more inside]
posted by ananci at 9:05 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by ananci at 9:05 PM PST - 16 comments
Good yoga clothes for men?
Where can I find good yoga clothes for men? Mid-length pants and shirts that don't fall all over the place. My old Lululemon stuff was well-designed and held up wonderfully, but they don't seem to make any purpose-designed yoga clothes for men anymore. [more inside]
Make my black fitbit clip flesh toned
Is there a simple way to paint or color the standard fitbit clip so that it is a nude/flesh tone? I would like to paint it, but I anticipate difficulty since it seems to be made partially of silicone. Is there a way this can be done successfully?
So, can you tell me a little more about the genocide?
Please give me tips for conducting an in-depth interview with a genocide survivor I've never met, over the phone. [more inside]
posted by femmegrrr at 7:25 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by femmegrrr at 7:25 PM PST - 15 comments
I don't litter at your house.
Every week (sometimes twice) I get a bag of ads on my doorstep - some mattress place, Lowes, SmartSource. It's litter. It's wasteful. I'm sick of picking it up all the time. It's not mailed; someone is dropping on every doorstep. Is the local newspaper the culprit? How do I get rid of this stuff? [more inside]
Help me translate these Chinese breaker box labels.
Mrs. Penguin and I just bought a house, but we discovered today that the circuit breaker box is labeled in a mixture of English and Chinese. We will eventually just turn them off one at a time to figure out which is which, but in the meantime can y'all translate them for me? [more inside]
posted by Elementary Penguin at 4:55 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Elementary Penguin at 4:55 PM PST - 3 comments
I have trouble taking advice from authority figures. How to change?
By "authority figures" I mean people with more experience who are, extrapolating from that, more knowledgeable than myself. I know asking for advice on how to take advice is ironic, but help. [more inside]
Who am I and why should I matter to a boss, a boyfriend, or a friend?
What methods would you recommend to someone looking to develop a sense of self and a more accurate sense of their own value if they've spent most of their life defining themselves and their worth through their grades, their job, and their partner? [more inside]
posted by Hermione Granger at 3:58 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Hermione Granger at 3:58 PM PST - 23 comments
Music nerds, please help me figure out chords on the mountain dulcimer
I would like to be able to tune my 3-stringed diatonically fretted mountain dulcimer, typically stuck in the key of D, to other keys such as G, C, A, F, E, and Am. Then I would like someone to teach me how to figure out the notes on each fret so I can build the chords to play whatever song I'm in the mood for. [more inside]
Suggestions for English literature 1400-1600
I'm interested in reading English literature between Chaucer and Shakespeare and would like suggestions. [more inside]
Help me take care of my fingernails and cuticles!
I want to start taking better care of my nails and cuticles, beyond just clipping them when they're long, so I want to pick up some good products for cleaning up the ends of the nails and the raggedness of the cuticles. [more inside]
Plans for a Maker Shed
One of the first issues of Maker Magazine had a project to build a backyard modern shed/office with simple materials bought at any home improvement store. I've been Googling all morning but can't seem to find the plans online or any references to the project since the magazine has launched Maker Shed as their store for buying stuff, which muddies the results. Can anyone help me find this project?
posted by mathowie at 2:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by mathowie at 2:42 PM PST - 4 comments
Need some of that quiet confidence.
I've been dating a great person for about 4 months.
She's really outgoing, charming, attractive, and funny, and people just love her. [more inside]
mother has cancer and I have so many questions
My Mother is likely going to receive a Metastatic Lung Cancer diagnosis on Monday. Due to her health, she probably won't be able to receive treatment. Questions about seeing an oncologist, palliative care, hospice, and my options. [more inside]
posted by royalsong at 1:10 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by royalsong at 1:10 PM PST - 26 comments
Do I need to book in advance in Iceland?
My friend and I are driving the Iceland Ring Road the first two weeks of August. Should I book accommodations in advance? Or would it be OK to book along the way (or just show up at places). [more inside]
Seperating 2 dogs during move/relationship seperation?
I am moving to New York for work, and would like my dog to come with me.
My husband and I are going to be long-distance for a year, and possibly more. I am the "dog person" in our relationship, and we have 2 dogs. I want to make the healthiest decision for my animals in terms of their dynamic during a seperation/move. Deets on dogs inside. [more inside]
The deadline for re-admission is soon, but...
I still have absolutely no clue what I want to do. More inside. [more inside]
posted by Urban_Painter at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Urban_Painter at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
Help me set a fair commission for qualified lead gen in advertising
I run a small media company with a staff of five (two people on sales, two editors, one social media person). The salespeople have a low salary, high commission salary structure, and advertising deals are generally in the low-mid 5 figure range. Our social media person is interested in getting into sales, or more specifically, getting compensated for introductions that eventually turn into sales. We're happy to accommodate her but have no idea how to structure things. [more inside]
posted by paddingtonb at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by paddingtonb at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
Hat's off to you!
I love wearing hats. I have many: fedora, bowler, newsboy, boater, summer straw, cowboy, porkpie . . . . How can I make best use of my suave accessories? [more inside]
posted by carrioncomfort at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by carrioncomfort at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
How do I get my money from class-action lawsuit after settlement?
A few months ago, I joined a class of plaintiffs in the High-Tech Employee Antitrust Litigation. The defendants settled a month ago. When do I get my money? [more inside]
Seattle neighborhoods
Another where in Seattle should we live question. We are a family of three, one person working downtown, the other working likely in SLU or at the UW + a baby with daycare downtown, but who long term will be going into the Seattle school system. Where do we want to live? [more inside]
posted by annie o at 9:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by annie o at 9:05 AM PST - 9 comments
gimmie shelter
How do you be a 'safe space' for someone? Have you defeated your habit of emotionally checking out when things get hairy? [more inside]
posted by serenity soonish at 8:43 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by serenity soonish at 8:43 AM PST - 25 comments
Evanston, IL areas to avoid for a female on foot with a fancy camera?
I am doing a photography project in Evanston, IL next week. How safe is it for me to be walking around with my equipment, by myself, on weekdays? Also, how's public transportation there? [more inside]
posted by Opal at 6:11 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Opal at 6:11 AM PST - 11 comments
A cake recipe long ago in a galaxy far away...
I have this amazing Star Wars ships silicone moulded cake pan. I have no idea what kind of cake works best with it. What cake recipes work best with fancy moulds? Help me eat the Death Star!
posted by Katemonkey at 5:19 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Katemonkey at 5:19 AM PST - 11 comments
Sleep Suddenly Sucks
I used to be good at sleep. Now I suddenly suck at it. [more inside]
posted by RobotVoodooPower at 12:35 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by RobotVoodooPower at 12:35 AM PST - 17 comments
June 27
Good examples of freelancer portfolios?
I'm starting to get more well-paid freelancing writing work (features and corporate comms). It's a good way to quickly earn some extra cash, so I need an online portfolio to show to new prospects. Does anyone have any examples of good online portfolios by journalists and marketing copywriters? [more inside]
Where to park $12,000 for 5-8 months?
I have a sum of about $12,000 of which I will probably need to access about one-half in November and the other half around February or March. It's currently sitting in a savings account where it's making negligible interest. Is there something better I could do with it in this very short time frame? [more inside]
posted by zeri at 8:36 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by zeri at 8:36 PM PST - 15 comments
Extra time in the Hoosier state...
Tomorrow I'm driving from Indianapolis to Terre Haute, and have 3-4 hours longer than I need to make the drive. Any good detours or stops I should consider? [more inside]
posted by heyforfour at 7:52 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by heyforfour at 7:52 PM PST - 13 comments
academic library access for the independent academic?
I live in the West Midlands, home to a few good university libraries. Unfortunately, none of these libraries offer memberships to community members. My own alma mater, Birmingham City University, does not have an alumni library membership. It's very annoying. I would really like access to SagePub and T&F for journal articles. Can you recommend a university or college in the UK, Europe, or anywhere that offers remote access to their library's databases and where I could buy an annual membership?
posted by parmanparman at 7:52 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by parmanparman at 7:52 PM PST - 15 comments
Gardasil Pros vs. Cons
How dangerous is Gardasil? What is your personal experience with taking it? I just heard all the horrible stories and in so scared because I just received it today. I see nothing good reviewed about it. [more inside]
Do prostitutes date and marry? How does that work?
I had assumed that it would be nearly impossible for prostitutes to date and marry, due to the stigma of sex work, the increased risk of venereal disease, and the guarantee of infidelity. Apparently, this is not true, and now I'm really curious about the dynamics of those relationships, especially how they deal with the question of fidelity. Both scholarly works and ancedata would be welcome. [more inside]
Shipping food across the country - ice packs necessary?
I want to ship (locally store-bought) chocolate and (homemade) jam across the country (US). Will the quality noticeably diminish if I don't use ice packs? [more inside]
posted by dragonfruit at 6:31 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by dragonfruit at 6:31 PM PST - 10 comments
Financials and Relationships
I quit my job about a year ago. Through a mixture of savings , part-time jobs I have managed to stay afloat. My girlfriend's birthday will be coming up next month and has asked me to fly with her to Paris. I would love to join her but believe my financial situation is not up to snuff. How do I communicate this in a manner that is positive for the both of us? Complicating factors below. [more inside]
Help some buddies form a biz together. No buddy bands.
I pretty much only have 2 non-family friends but i am really close with those two friends. We are all low to mid 30s living in different cities in the southeast. Two of us are lawyers, the third is in sales. None of us are breaking the bank but we live comfortably. The problem is (1) we dont work together and (2) none of are particularly in love with our jobs. We have been talking about forming a business together for years but we have thought of any idea as sad as that sounds. We just need some practical but that we could do together. It would be a side gig for us all unless it got big enough to replace our current jobs (the ultimate goal). Looking for suggestions on business ideas or just importantly suggestions on where to find some business ideas. They do not have to be sexy biz ideas but i should say we would probably not be interested in paid blogging, or similar 'work from home' business ideas. I would appreciate any thoughts! Best
Still sick, getting worse, and can’t deal
I’m dealing with a variety of debilitating health problems, and I'm having trouble coping and getting to the bottom of the cause. I’m toward the end of my rope and have had too many breakdowns to count. [more inside]
"Customer of Size?"
Have you taken advantage of Southwest Airlines Customer of Size policy? Does it work like I think that it works? [more inside]
Oh, Man, I Want to Buy a Boat!
We dream of living aboard some day, and are wondering if that day can be today*. But we have cats. Have you lived aboard with cats? [more inside]
posted by ethidda at 5:16 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by ethidda at 5:16 PM PST - 7 comments
How can I get my six-year-old to stop licking his lips?
How can I get my six-year-old to stop licking his lips, which results in a chapped ring around his mouth? [more inside]
Midwest US to UK beer arbitrage
My wife wants to bring an American craft beer to a former colleague who is primarily a real ale drinker in the UK. He is pretty game to try anything (and is more of a hophead than I am) and we would like to get him something he can't get there and that is a bit different (so no American Belgians for instance) but also worth the hassle. What should we get?
We are in Chicago and probably have to get it from Binnys.
posted by srboisvert at 4:08 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by srboisvert at 4:08 PM PST - 20 comments
Can I take my water in pill form?
If I eat 8 oz. of water frozen as ice, is it the same as drinking the water as a liquid? Assume I'm not chewing ice, it's in bits I won't choke on, I'll go slow and take it easy, and I already have a high tolerance for and strong preference for cold, ice, and icy drinks/frappucinos/Slurpees.
posted by blnkfrnk at 3:38 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by blnkfrnk at 3:38 PM PST - 14 comments
Toddlerfilter: How do we prep for our first weekend getaway sans bebe?
My wife and I are leaving our 2.5 year old with her grandmother for the Fourth of July weekend. How do we prepare for this first trip away? [more inside]
I Feel Like I Won the House Lottery
How do I remain gracefully excited about the beautiful new home I'll be moving into? I've been gibbering insanely to anyone who asks, but I want to develop a solid library of tasteful adult answers that quietly acknowledge my good fortune but still channel my enthusiasm. [more inside]
posted by brisquette at 3:32 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by brisquette at 3:32 PM PST - 24 comments
My girlfriend snooped through my phone. Now what?
I found out my girlfriend snooped through my phone. I don't know how to proceed. [more inside]
Work with an unlicensed contractor
I've taken some estimates for work on my large deck that will involve mostly painting, some replacing trim, and replacing some rotten joists and boards.
A contractor who comes well recommend from similar work by neighbors gave a quote, but he is not licensed and bonded.
A contractor who we have worked with in the past and has done good work for us, who is licensed and bonded, gave us a quote for twice as much. It's a significant amount of money. [more inside]
Should I tell or stay out of it?
How do I approach this delicate situation of a recent breakup, addiction issues, and levels of responsibility and boundaries in a new ex’s life? [more inside]
My dog is dead, and I'm a mess
What can I do in the short and long-term to process and cope with my dog's death? [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle at 2:40 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by ablazingsaddle at 2:40 PM PST - 44 comments
Portland Filter: Looking for a quiet restaurant in the Pearl
I am meeting up with a friend in the Pearl, someone I haven't seen for years, and would like a quiet, moderately-priced restaurant for dinner. Somewhere that is low-decibel level and conducive for conversation?
posted by nanook at 2:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by nanook at 2:24 PM PST - 9 comments
"Also sprach Zarathustra" doesn't come across too well in print
I'm looking for a tagline to use this year on print and web PR for a small literary science fiction and fantasy convention that riffs off of 2001: A Space Odyssey. [more inside]
posted by telophase at 2:17 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by telophase at 2:17 PM PST - 12 comments
Is 'illegal downloading' an actual crime in the UK?
I live in the US and have followed the RIAA/MPAA suits closely. Over the years I have heard British news agencies report such-and-such as being charged with illegal downloading and wondered if that were even possible. [more inside]
Determining if it's time to end a LTR and then the follow through
I'm currently in a LTR relationship, we currently live together, have pets, and I'm starting to think the relationship has run it's course - but I've been in this mentality at least once a year the past few years, and it always passes. [more inside]
Storing mid-sized art prints?
We love art prints, but we signed up for some subscription series and have managed to buy more than we can afford to frame. What's the best way to store them to make sure they stay flat and pristine? Typical size is between 11x14 and 24x36.
Androidfilter: can I use my Android's GPS despite not buying a 3G plan?
I own an old Samsung Galaxy SII Android phone. I've recently cancelled its 3G plan, so now it accesses the Internet exclusively through Wifi. This has apparently caused its GPS function to stop working when it's out of range of a Wifi network, which I hadn't expected.
I'd like to resume using it as a mobile GPS device without re-purchasing a 3G plan. Do you know whether this can be done? [more inside]
Homemade cat food
My neighbour would like to/needs to make her own catfood for her ageing cats. Details inside. [more inside]
Business correspondence via SMS
The management software my company uses recently added the ability to send messages via SMS to our clientele. We've signed up and it's tested well, but we're not clear on the legality of sending business correspondence messages (no marketing, simply "Your rent is due, please call # or pay online @ oursite.com/pay") without the client expressly opting in for SMS messaging. Do we need to have everyone opt-in or are non-marketing messages for the purpose of communicating legitimate business notices exempt? [more inside]
DSL in Lancaster County, PA?
Moving to a fairly rural section of Lancaster County (Paradise, PA, to be exact), where cable isn't available. *Sad trombone*
I work from home full-time and will need reliable, fast internet. Suggestions, please!
BTW, FiOs isn't available here (I checked) and it's been hard to get a solid answer on exactly WHAT internet services are out there, so alternatives are welcome.
The last tenants here used a mobile hotspot, which was unreliable and slow, so I want to avoid that. Also want to avoid working from a coffee shop every day.
Good beaches along the Hood River where I can let my dog swim and play.
I am going to Hood River for three days next week and taking my dog along. He loves to play in water but he can get frisky with other dogs. I am looking for an off the beaten path type of swimming hole or beach that will not have lots of people or tons of dogs. The public river spots on the internet all say no dogs on the beach so they are out.
posted by cairnoflore at 11:39 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by cairnoflore at 11:39 AM PST - 3 comments
How can I stop my leather bag staining my clothes?
I have a swell new leather shoulder bag. I wore it walking for an hour slung diagonally across my chest. It was a warm day leaving a very attractive diagonal line of sweat across my chest and shoulder from the strap. So far, so typical. However, with this new brown bag brown stains were left as well. Is there any way to treat or wash the strap to make sure it doesn't stain again? It is a fairly pricey bag, which I had assumed would mean it would not do this.
Mystery mark stains seat! Blue butt print upon the tainted throne!
This morning, I was surprised to see the clear imprint of my wife's butt and thighs in a bluish tone on our white melamine toilet seat. Is the actual chemistry known here, and what should we do to avoid this in the future? [more inside]
Learning HLSL for a non-coder
My sweetie is trying to learn the programing language HLSL but she has zero- and I mean, Zero- coding knowledge. Help? [more inside]
posted by cheap paper at 10:12 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by cheap paper at 10:12 AM PST - 11 comments
Child reading books in the summer
Hi,
My 10 year old girl loves to read. When she gets started, she loves it, but it's the "getting her started" that I have a problem with. [more inside]
Veg-friendly NYC restaurants
[NYC Filter] I want to take my girlfriend out to a nice dinner. No special occasion being celebrated. I'm thinking New American style. For vibe, think Northern Spy, which she and I loved. She's a vegetarian (I'm not) so I want the place to be veg-friendly. Most places only have a token veggie appetizer and veggie entree. I'd love to find a place that offers her more choices. Bonus points if they take reservations. Any thoughts guys?
Oregon or Washington?
My friend and I want to move to either Washington or Oregon. What are good/affordable places to live for two poor artists in debt? [more inside]
Syncing libraries (iPhoto, etc.) between two Macs using External HD?
I am thinking of buying an external HD to store my iPhoto, iTunes, Lightroom, and possibly iMovie libraries so I can switch between my iMac and Macbook Air. Will this work? Thoughts, tips, caveats? [more inside]
I need to write some incredibly tedious essays for work. I can't. Help.
I'm currently on a graduate training scheme, and whilst some of it's interesting, they keep making me write really horrible essays on 'professional practice', and I really can't cope with it. [more inside]
posted by Ned G at 8:39 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Ned G at 8:39 AM PST - 15 comments
Summer Fun and Structural Integrity
So I'm the proud owner of a new above-ground swimming pool. I set it up in the corner of my building's rooftop and filled it with water. Everything's perfect, but there's one nagging thought: should I be worried about the floor not holding up? [more inside]
posted by Silky Slim at 8:31 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by Silky Slim at 8:31 AM PST - 32 comments
Cable Internet Issues -- bad cable modem?
I've been having a lot of problems with my Comcast cable internet (both performance, and with their service, but this question focuses on performance) over the past few weeks. Is this really caused by a bad cable modem? Many details inside. [more inside]
posted by inigo2 at 8:17 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by inigo2 at 8:17 AM PST - 22 comments
Need advice for setting up a crowdfunded music festival
A group of friends and I have been considering setting up a small music festival around May next year and are trying to get our heads around what we will need to think about, so that we can work out the cost of it all. Extended explanation inside. [more inside]
Road trip to Canada in three parts
The short of it: (1) Do you have any personal experience getting into Canada and re-entering the US with only a driver's license and birth certificate? (2) What is the drive like between Toronto and Ogdensburg for someone who has really only spent time in cities and driving on major highways up and down the East and West coasts? (3) What should we do in Toronto? [more inside]
posted by anthropoid at 8:15 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by anthropoid at 8:15 AM PST - 37 comments
Frenemies R Us, Workplace Edition
I'm currently working with, for the first time in my life, someone who I can truly classify as a frenemy. 50% of the time, all smiles and sweetness; 50% of the time, undermining, secretive, backstabby, and manipulative. This is someone I actually *have* to work with-- we're on a number of teams together. Lately she's been telling others that a project I created, developed, and sold to a client was actually "a fluke" and that my contributions were minimal.
How to deal with this in the most productive way? [more inside]
How do you buy a used car?
How have you successfully bought a used car from a private owner? The last time I bought a used car was 14 years ago. Not sure how it's done anymore. [more inside]
State of Being Other
How to reconcile the differences between your origin and daily society? [more inside]
Does diatomaceous earth harm lizards?
Mr. Ant and I own a specialty retail shop that is housed in your standard-issue metal building on a concrete pad. We have seasonal problems with bugs, mostly assorted beetles (not roaches, praise be to the small god who manages insect infestations.) We also have skinks that live in the walls. And our dogs come to work with us. [more inside]
posted by workerant at 7:37 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by workerant at 7:37 AM PST - 4 comments
Best plan for unlocked Moto G?
I have an unlocked Moto G phone and I'm looking for a good prepaid plan, for only voice and text, preferably 100 minutes and 100 texts and very cheap.
I should have probably researched this before buying the phone! I assumed I'll just look at the basic plans from major carriers and pick the cheapest talk-only plan -- but I can't even figure out which ones offer talk-only prepaid, and which ones will accept unlocked Moto G. It's amazing how hard they make it for you to give them money in exchange for service, oy. [more inside]
posted by rainy at 7:30 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by rainy at 7:30 AM PST - 15 comments
Reporting a WA State trucker for making obscene, sexist gestures?
While driving with my young children in the car, the white male driver of a large WA State semi truck suddenly pulled up alongside my car on a WA state road, honked his horn, and made obscene, sexist gestures that simulated cunnilingus, directed at me (I'm a woman). Right in front of my kids. [more inside]
Where can I buy a food thermometer (in walking distance from work)?
Is there any place in a residential neighborhood I'm likely to be able to pick up a food thermometer? There are two small drugstores, a small 99-cent/home goods store, and a big organic grocery. I need this by 1:00 today so I have to run out on my lunch break and see if I can find anything, but I don't want to skip my lunch to go running around to half a dozen different places if none of them are likely to have one.
posted by Jeanne at 6:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Jeanne at 6:49 AM PST - 6 comments
Which OS X version is best for a MacBook Pro from 2009?
I have a MacBook Pro from 2009, with a 3.06 GHz Core 2 Duo and 8 GB RAM. I am running Mavericks on it, but I find that it can be slow when it is accessing the disk a lot, and it runs hot. It meets the minimum spec for Mavericks but I am thinking that I am over-stretching it. I am planning to upgrade the 500GB HD to a 1TB hybrid. Would this be better able to run Mavericks or should I think of stepping back to something like Snow Leopard when I change the hard disk?
I just lost my appetite. Again.
Where I'm living now, it seems really common for the local people to leave food on their faces while they're eating. This makes it difficult for me to enjoy meals. [more inside]
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 6:23 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 6:23 AM PST - 17 comments
Half-remembered fairytale
The library of my childhood had a book of fairy tales which I remember fondly but not in very much detail. I remember only one of the stories - perhaps it will ring a bell with someone? [more inside]
posted by Wolfdog at 5:44 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Wolfdog at 5:44 AM PST - 5 comments
Suggestions on Where to Submit a Non-Game iPhone App for Review
I've recently created an iPhone app that's not a game, but falls more in the "Entertainment" category (it uses Twitter to predict the future). And I'm not sure where I should try to send it for review/exposure, as most review sites are game-oriented. I've tried the usual suspects (MeFi Projects, submitted to BoingBoing, shared on FB and Twitter), but am surprised at how quickly I'm running out of ideas for places to send this guy to. [more inside]
posted by avoision at 5:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by avoision at 5:12 AM PST - 8 comments
woe is my broken toe
Got a little too enthusiastic practicing my Zumba moves a couple days ago, and smashed my pinkie toe into the coffee table. Oops. How can I burn 500 calories a day through exercise, and avoid going stir crazy with a freshly broken toe? [more inside]
What's the best high-SPF cream for a sensitive face?
I need a facial sunscreen - but everything I try makes my make-up melt off or give me spots. Any suggestions? [more inside]
I'm ready. How do I turn my life around?
I'm 27, male. I have struggled as long as I can remember with depression. I naturally turned to drugs and alcohol, and after a few years of abuse.. most recently with lots of cocaine and occasionally speed.. I'm ready to quit everything. Cigarettes included. I have realized that everything I touch turns to shit... and I want to be a better man. My relationships have failed, I'm hurting myself and everyone I love, and I feel like worthless garbage. But I have hope. I want to clean up my act. I am terrified of going to AA, and I like therapy. Groups are much harder for me. I recently began to exercise. I want to keep going but I have very little in the way of controlling my impulses. How do I keep my momentum?
June 26
Solicitation calls -- from a phone company--Best Way to Make it Stop??
Verizon is calling me from three or four similar numbers all starting with 213-223-87XX.
They do not leave messages. I found out it was Verizon by calling these numbers on a blocked phone at work. How to stop this? More info inside.... [more inside]
Is this actually a lease?
We signed a lease for a place and it's been a debacle and we haven't moved in yet. Is our lease legally binding if it wasn't countersigned and the owner hadn't closed on the place when we signed it? [more inside]
Morning Routine Mp3
Help me find sound editing software to create an MP3 routine to automate my morning tasks. [more inside]
posted by alice_curiouse at 9:18 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by alice_curiouse at 9:18 PM PST - 5 comments
Fun stops between Chicago and Detroit
We'll be flying to Chicago, spending a day or two there, then driving to Detroit. What are some fun, interesting, or picturesque stops between the two cities?
Air Force Jobs: Cyber Security vs. Computer Systems Programming
Can anyone provide any information or details on either of these jobs, good or bad? [more inside]
Can my employer retroactively withhold the "first paycheck" after years?
Is it legal for an employer (FL Tax ID in FL) to suddenly decide after four years that they want to withhold the "standard" week's worth of pay (based on salary, not hourly)? [more inside]
posted by Debaser626 at 8:02 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Debaser626 at 8:02 PM PST - 10 comments
questions about volunteering as a ZMP worker
Looking for practical tips on how and where to volunteer as a ZMP, unskilled worker with horrific social skills/personality. [more inside]
posted by beigeness at 7:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by beigeness at 7:47 PM PST - 11 comments
Fun stuff to do on a Sunday night in the San Francisco Bay Area
I'll soon be flying to the Bay Area in order to attend a memorial service. My schedule is pretty structured for that weekend, but I'll have about five hours of free time (by myself) on a Sunday night. What's the best way to spend those hours? [more inside]
posted by alex1965 at 7:15 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by alex1965 at 7:15 PM PST - 7 comments
Masters degree for "Makers"
I need to take masters credit worthy classes, I already have a Masters degree so want to take a greater range of courses. What classes would you put in a Masters degree for someone as part of the "Maker" community? [more inside]
posted by dstopps at 6:40 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by dstopps at 6:40 PM PST - 9 comments
Help me find this half-remembered house design.
OK, hive mind. Hoping you can help me out here.
A while back, say, probably six or seven months ago, I saw a blog post... somewhere... about a cool house design in Europe. I think the design firm was Dutch or Belgian. The blog I saw it on may have been Design Sponge or Building a Wolf, but searching those sites yields no results.
Here's what I remember: [more inside]
posted by starvingartist at 5:50 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by starvingartist at 5:50 PM PST - 4 comments
I want to see what kinds of content a DVD has without having to play it.
I'd like a Win7x64-compatible tool that can dump the structure of a DVD: like, a list of the disc's titles/chapters with their durations, each title's native resolution/display aspect radio, details on the audio tracks each title has, etc. If it can report on details like the menu/program hierarchy—what titles/other menus are accessible through each menu, which titles are set for mandatory playback—and where playback goes next when a specific title ends, so much the better, but that's not required. [more inside]
posted by Lazlo Nibble at 5:48 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Lazlo Nibble at 5:48 PM PST - 4 comments
Will health insurance still pay for my baby's doc band if we stop early?
The provider of my baby's flat head fixing helmet submitted an insurance claim but it has not yet processed. If we quit treatment, will the provider tell the health insurance company? Will we have to pay the full amount out of pocket? [more inside]
posted by echo0720 at 5:09 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by echo0720 at 5:09 PM PST - 12 comments
Learning about artificial intelligence
I'm currently exploring artificial intelligence as a potential field to go into. What books (fiction or nonfiction), films, or resources would you recommend for learning about artificial intelligence, the possibilities of AI, and its future? What should I know? [more inside]
posted by markbao at 4:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by markbao at 4:45 PM PST - 12 comments
Help my shivery Puggle!
I have a 7 year old puggle. He has had no health issues to speak of. Within the last week I've started noticing him shivering. It lasts for up to 20 minutes at a time and doesn't seem to have any pattern. We're in Arizona so it's definitely not cold that's causing it. We keep the house air conditioned to around 78 degrees and always make sure he has water. Any thoughts on what could be causing this?
What would you like to eat?
My brother and sister in law and 14 month old niece are coming to stay with us for one night this weekend. I want to make sure we have the right food. Or do I? [more inside]
How to get a home developer to make a small change to the plans?
I've purchased a new home from a developer. I want to make a small change to an interior item. They are telling me a cannot. How do I get what I want? [more inside]
posted by quadog at 3:47 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by quadog at 3:47 PM PST - 14 comments
How to deal with a landlady who wants to keep an entire security deposit
On June 1, I gave month’s notice for an apartment I’ve been living in for ten years (I’m in California). I had a month-to-month lease and was never late with rent.
Until now, I’ve had a cordial relationship with my landlady.
When I gave her my notice, she called and said that she was going to keep my entire security deposit ($950). This came out of the blue.
She claims it was for two things. A few months back, she replaced my stovetop. There was nothing wrong with it and I hadn’t asked her to replace it. [more inside]
posted by holdenjordahl at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by holdenjordahl at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
Stranger in a strange land
I am lonely and alone in a different country. How can I be okay with being alone? [more inside]
Shiprock, New Mexico and climate change.
This past weekend, we drove through Shiprock, New Mexico and I started wondering how much humans have changed the landscape. Pre-Columbus - what was the landscape like? Was there more water and groundcover - or was it always arid and (almost) desolate?
Error in letter of recommendation
I just received a very nice and thoughtful letter of recommendation from one of the doctor's I've been working with for the past 2 years. The problem is he said we've worked together for 3. [more inside]
posted by AtoBtoA at 2:32 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by AtoBtoA at 2:32 PM PST - 8 comments
Who needs the Enterprise when you can beam yourself to Klingon?
I need examples of technologies that have "advanced" over time, (where "advanced" means looks better, and maybe runs faster, but is basically the same ol' same ol',) and then a counter example of a totally different thing that solved the problem in a different way than the original tech did. I'm doing a talk where I'm trying to point out that sometimes the solution isn't a faster starship Enterprise, it's a better transporter, except I'm not exactly happy with that example.
posted by nushustu at 2:07 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by nushustu at 2:07 PM PST - 22 comments
How should I clean these sandals a dog peed on?
On Tuesday, my cousin's dog let forth a deluge of pee on my feet. It was LOTS of pee. I was wearing my favorite leather sandals (very similar to these). While I cleaned off my feet, my cousin cleaned my sandals with a wet towel (no soap). I had to wear them the rest of the day, before I traveled home on Wednesday. I feel kind of icky at the prospect of wearing them again. How should I clean them?
posted by ocherdraco at 1:34 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by ocherdraco at 1:34 PM PST - 18 comments
Collaborative Inbox, Email Ticketing Tracking
I'm helping a non-profit organization that gets dozens of inquiries a day distribute the workload among a number of volunteers (around 70). I wanted to use Google's Collaborative Inbox for this, as it allows multiple users to respond from the same email address, mark message status (complete, requires response, does not require response), and assign messages to a particular user.
The crucial feature it lacks is automatic assignment to particular support volunteers based on keywords or email address received from (e.g. support+metalworkers@union.org goes into the same inbox as all the others, but is auto-assigned to the volunteer who specializes in metalworkers). What alternatives to Google Groups are there for this scenario? Free options are ideal, but we have a budget in the tens of dollars a month if required.
I'm PRETTY sure I'm gay. Help me be okay with it.
I've always known I was a little different. I have trouble remembering things from my relatively normal childhood, so it took until high school to connect the few dots I had, but after I did that, I relished in the attraction I felt for certain other men. It was exciting and made me feel as though I was part of a community with a common story. I grew up with conservative parents who I haven't been able to tell but who I suspect have an inkling, given the things they found left open on my teenage computer and my shy, sensitive nature.
I was fine with not making it a part of my identity and limited its sphere of influence to my taste in porn and online friendships. I never felt the need for a relationship- with women or men- but I enjoyed the way validation from "manly" men made me feel both emotionally and physically. [more inside]
posted by marsbar77 at 1:10 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by marsbar77 at 1:10 PM PST - 30 comments
Possible cancer and upcoming job interviews?
I am a 36-year-old woman that was just diagnosed with (endometrial) atypical hyperplasia, which is a precursor to uterine cancer. (I may have cancer already, but I'm trying not to let my mind go there). I will, most likely, need a hysterectomy. The thing is, I'm scheduled to move 300 miles away, and I have several job interviews lined up in my new location - great ones, too. How should I handle this with potential employers, particularly when they ask me when I can start? Or should I forget about my job search for a while?
Help me change my (already healthy) diet - for better joint health
I eat pretty well, but I eat mostly the same stuff every day. Recently, my joints have started cracking a bit, and I'm wondering if mixing up my diet would help bring different nutrients to the body's hard workin' part. I'm 40, male, physically active, and am usually pursuing some kind of bodywork or therapy like Active Release Technique to keep everything cooperating. I have pretty good nutrition, but I want to mix it up. I'm open to supplements, too, but lean towards evidence-based suggestions that won't break the bank. [more inside]
Turning a giant spreadsheet of order info into "Here's your order info!"
I have a giant excel spreadsheet with ~2200 customers worth of order details for a Kickstarter. The details are complex; I have around 60 products I'm delivering, and I'd like to send everyone an email with their individual orders before I start shipping them out. How do I do this? I'm planning on outsourcing this job, but I'd like to know a bit more about who I'm trying to hire (An excel expert? A mailing list person? Some other platform I don't know about?)
Newish speculative "Rebuilding Civilization" fiction books?
I love books where a plucky group of 'survivors' works hard to rebuild after any kind of disaster, especially the nuts and bolts of the rebuilding process. I'm familiar with and have read many of the older works (published 5 or more years ago). I'm wondering if there are any more recent works I may have missed, especially with the recent wave of YA dystopia/post apocalyptic fiction. Please recommend newer spec-fiction Rebuilding civilization books (alt history/YA/Sci-fi all ok).
Visiting The Most Confusing... er, Happiest Place On Earth
Help two (practically) first-time adult visitors plan a trip to Walt Disney World / the Wizarding World of Harry Potter next January. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Mortgage dilemma: seems like there is no optimal solution?
This was me a few months ago: Rent or sell my condo at a loss? Well, now I've decided to sell it. But have a question about what to do about my mortgage. [more inside]
What's the easiest way to get from O'Hare to downtown Chicago?
My family and I (2 adults, 2 kids, probably 3 pieces of luggage) will be arriving at O'Hare around 4:30 pm. What's the easiest way to get to a condo in downtown Chicago? [more inside]
posted by leahwrenn at 12:05 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by leahwrenn at 12:05 PM PST - 26 comments
Help me keep this kitchen appliance from being a dust collector.
I just got one of those round glass tabletop convection ovens. Now what? [more inside]
Best resources for learning Google Apps Script?
The company I work for is starting to use Google Docs more frequently. I'd like to jump in with both feet. One of the things I'm most interested in is getting up to speed on using Google Apps Script as an end user who makes frequent but basic use of macros in Excel (so not so much as a developer or other high skill user). What are the best learning resources for this? Books, online tutorials, webinars, etc. anything is fine, just trying to figure out where to begin.
posted by Lentrohamsanin at 11:12 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Lentrohamsanin at 11:12 AM PST - 2 comments
Help a cis and trans lesbian couple make a baby.
Can you help a cis and trans lesbian couple try to have a baby? Looking for resources, forums, blogs, columns, articles, and anything else that might be helpful. [more inside]
How to find/contact a family member in Milan, Italy?
Looking for ways to find/contact a lost family member in Milan, Italy. Suggestions welcome. [more inside]
posted by knz at 10:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by knz at 10:44 AM PST - 8 comments
Where to buy flavored cigar wraps in/near Chicago?
I've noticed that flavored cigar wraps aren't sold at any smoke shops in Chicago. Any recommendations on places in or close to the city that would sell these?
Help me find this rousing European folk song
A few years ago I saw a video of a slow, solemn folk song sung in a European language (sorry I can't be more specific!). It begins quietly and builds up to a louder, epic sound. The choir was made up of hundreds of people, or perhaps it was a football stadium singing? It was possibly about thunder and lightning. My youtube-fu is failing me, maybe you can help?
posted by Naanwhal at 9:24 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Naanwhal at 9:24 AM PST - 5 comments
Contract work? How do I even get started?
So I left my previous job (as of this month) and was quickly offered contract work by a past manager who is a higher-up at a different company now. I respect this person, and would be happy to work for him again -- the "unsaid" (on paper) purpose is to bring me in as a full-time employee. That said, I don't even know how to get started with contract work. [more inside]
posted by theplatypus at 8:40 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by theplatypus at 8:40 AM PST - 11 comments
Really? The computer that used to come in "Blueberry"?
I'm fed up with Windows and want my next computer to be a Mac—but the product landscape has changed a lot since the last time I seriously considered it. Is an iMac really a competitive machine for someone doing heavy graphics and video work? [more inside]
German House Party Etiquette
We're Americans visiting Berlin. We have some German relatives who live here who we've met before and prior to this visit, when they knew we were coming, they invited us to a party that was already scheduled for during our visit. It's an annual family gathering held at the grandfather's house. Should we bring a gift? If so, what?
posted by otherwordlyglow at 6:46 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by otherwordlyglow at 6:46 AM PST - 14 comments
Bondathon without the Bond
2 years ago my husband got all huffy and insulted that I hadn't seen all the James Bond movies and instated "Bondathon" where we watched one Bond movie, in order, every sunday every week until we got through them all. He had it all timed out so that the final week coincided with the release of Skyfall. I may not have liked all the movies (Oh my god, "You Only Live Twice" is utter crap!) but I really liked the experience otherwise. Give me some suggestions for other movie -athons that we can have. [more inside]
Toronto Doctor for Someone Scared of Doctors
I’m looking for a General Practitioner in the Downtown/Western Toronto area who is both accepting new patients and sensitive to issues of medical anxiety. Much much more inside. [more inside]
Project Management App/Time Tracking App
I'm looking for a great project management & time tracking app that meets these criteria:
1. Not cloud-hosted (i.e., must be installed on our own servers) for legal reasons.
2. Great iOS apps.
3. Capacity to handle a team of multiple people, not just a single individual's projects
4. Painless time tracking (with reporting for the manager)
5. Ability to create tasks or projects (either, I'm flexible), estimate time in advance, track actual time spent, and report on difference between estimated time and actual time. [more inside]
Help identifying a traumatizingly scary movie/TV show scene
I've had this scene scarred onto my brain for about 30 years, I've encountered another person online who also remembers it but likewise has no idea what movie or TV show it was. His and my descriptions of the scene below. [more inside]
Chocolate cake for SCIENCE!
How will changing variables in this microwave chocolate cake recipe change the outcome? [more inside]
posted by Solomon at 5:39 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Solomon at 5:39 AM PST - 11 comments
Need website help...or not
I need help narrowing options to convert my site to responsive for tablets/mobile. I've developed chemo brain and just can't concentrate and stick to it myself. I don't have enough money to pay for a good developer/designer right now, either. I also need to get it done as soon as possible. (A bit more inside...) [more inside]
Looking for examples of wedding photography done differently
I'm shooting a friend's wedding this weekend and I'm looking for inspiration and ideas for non-standard wedding photography. NOT 'the happy couple's beautiful day' but something different. I'm not the primary shooter so I was thinking of doing something more 'fine arts', perhaps even dark... but I'm not yet sure where to take it. [more inside]
Help me clean my cuddly friend, please!
I have a huge plush turtle I like to cuddle when I sleep. I think I should probably clean that turtle once in a while, but how do you wash a stuffed animal? [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 1:17 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 1:17 AM PST - 23 comments
How can one make an DVD MP3 disc?
My brother's only means of listening to MP3s is with a DVD player. I've many spare DVD-Rs and would like to put them to use by making him DVD MP3 discs to listen to when we get together. [more inside]
June 25
The job interview follow-up++
What is and is not acceptable to include in job interview follow-up emails? Difficulty level: I'm literally in the middle of a project with them right now. [more inside]
Where is so much anger coming from?
Have you been in a similar situation with respect to anger? What helped? How did you identify where the anger is coming from? Were you able to resolve it? If so, how? [more inside]
posted by xm at 9:03 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by xm at 9:03 PM PST - 32 comments
Concerns about Public Trust investigation (low-level security clearance)
I am hoping someone here is knowledgeable about this issue. I work for a government contractor, and after a few months on the job was told that I need to undergo a Public Trust investigation. It's not really a security clearance per se...but it is very similar. I spoke with a consultant who used to be a gov't investigator, and also spoke to a security clearance attorney (just a brief free consultation). [more inside]
A fareweather friend apologizes for being a bad friend, should I care?
I'd already stopped caring a few months ago and it's hard to go back to caring again. [more inside]
posted by winterportage at 8:40 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by winterportage at 8:40 PM PST - 21 comments
Best Twitter app for viewing photos (iPhone)
I love Twitter, and it's a big part of my social life, but I loathe all the (iPhone) Twitter apps out there (that I know of so far). There seems to be a lot of great features, but spread across multiple apps - where's my dream app?? [more inside]
Cheapest way to move a bunch of stuff across the country
I am planning a move across the country. Most of my furniture is cheap second-hand ikea second-hand, and it's really not worth it to rent a u-haul to drag it all across the country. So I'm mostly moving books, clothing, and some kitchen stuff.
At a loss. For the most part speed is not a concern, I just need my stuff to get to my new home eventually. Any advice on the best and least expensive way to do this? Posting it one box at a time seems pretty expensive (from looking up usps rates).
Strange problems with my router
My router is playing up, throttling my speeds unpredictably. I don't know where to start and the ISP quite rightly say it's my issue not theirs. Details... [more inside]
Whoops. Condo Board Renovation Issues
I own a small condo apartment.
In December, I contacted the condo board to ask for information about how to proceed with changing my floating floor because I had a 6'X6' section of damaged flooring (just from 7 years of wear and tear... the original materials were really really shoddy). A representative responded immediately and gave me the material specifications and informed me that I would need to obtain authorization before proceeding with the work. I didn't proceed with the work at the time... [more inside]
why did so much of Philadelphia smell like gas yesterday?
Yesterday morning it smelled like gas from South Philly though center city and up into Fishtown, but it wasn't actually natural gas. What was it? [more inside]
posted by sepviva at 6:12 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by sepviva at 6:12 PM PST - 11 comments
We can be friends if you respect how boring I am.
My friend would like me to go out more. I am not interested. How do I address the tensions this is causing in our friendship? [more inside]
What to Do When Job Requirements Change
I'm open to all suggestions on this. I started a new job in January, one that requires me to write press releases, take photos, etc. Today, the boss, who is not my biggest fan, announced to our little group that whoever is assigned to take photos will also have to shoot video at the same event, [more inside]
posted by etaoin at 5:41 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by etaoin at 5:41 PM PST - 5 comments
What counts as "unlawful conduct"?
I'm a reference for a friend who is applying for a license to practice law. The reference form asks me whether my friend has ever "been arrested, or engaged in unlawful conduct". My friend has not, to my knowledge, ever been arrested (or had any other trouble with the law), but like most people consumed alcohol before the age of 21, jaywalks, downloaded music as a teen, etc. Nothing serious at all. What should I say? [more inside]
posted by Cygnet at 5:07 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Cygnet at 5:07 PM PST - 17 comments
So, I'm allergic to NM, will it be the same in WA?
My allergist says I'm allergic to a lot of stuff that grows around this area (like, highly allergic). The altitude isn't helping. I've had a chronic sinus infection since soon after I moved to NM, and no amount of medication has made it go away. It's been a two year battle and I really want to breathe normally again. Now, I know YANMD, but I have a couple of questions about allergies... [more inside]
posted by patheral at 3:22 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by patheral at 3:22 PM PST - 18 comments
Taking a Bag to Yankee Stadium
Yankee Stadium (and all pro baseball parks) let you bring in a soft bag that measures up to 16 inches by 16 inches by 8 inches. So where do I find a bag that measures as close to 16"x16"x8" as possible? [more inside]
How would Don Draper pull this off?
If Don Draper were a graphic designer, how would he convince a client that his job was indispensable? Any examples on how he handled condescending clients? [more inside]
Hauling stuff on a car with no roof rack
Is it possible to haul a portable dishwasher strapped on top of a Ford Taurus? [more inside]
posted by rossination at 2:54 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by rossination at 2:54 PM PST - 17 comments
Was having a second child a career killer?
For you full-time working mothers, was having a second child a career killer like my googling suggests? Are there other potentially negative ramifications of having a second that I'm not considering? Feel free to ignore the special snowflake details inside; I tend to ramble. [more inside]
posted by kei02003 at 2:53 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by kei02003 at 2:53 PM PST - 23 comments
Kid vs Cats
We have two adorable cats and an even more adorable 4-year-old son who we've just confirmed is allergic to cats. What now? [more inside]
posted by logic vs love at 2:45 PM PST - 57 comments
posted by logic vs love at 2:45 PM PST - 57 comments
"Emergency" alterations in Copenhagen, Denmark
FashionEmergencyFilter: I am in Copenhagen for an academic conference at which I am presenting. I had tailoring done on two special athletic fit sports coats, which was repeatedly delayed by the tailor to the point I had to grab the jackets immediately before my flight. But here I discovered that the tailoring was incomplete or perhaps not even started, due to a mixup, incompetence, whatever. Is it at all possible to get something like a next day or two alteration job done, anywhere, much less in Copenhagen?
posted by Keter at 2:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Keter at 2:23 PM PST - 5 comments
Contact-lense wearers: Is what I'm experiencing normal?
I'm a new contact-lense wearer. A couple of weeks ago, I got the Acuvue Moist daily contact lenses from an optometrist. I was told to wear them daily for a week to get used to them. I wore them for about 4 days (5 hours/day) and then I quit wearing them because I had to do a lot of driving on those days and the contact lenses made my eyes feel dry and uncomfortable. So now I'm trying to wear them again but they still feel as uncomfortable as they did when I first began wearing them. I don't have blurry vision when wearing them. They just feel uncomfortable and I know that they are in my eyes. I don't know if it's because I'm still not used to them or that my eyes just can't handle contact lenses. How long did it take you to get used to your contact lenses at first and how did it feel for you?
I know the job I want! Now help me come up with a name for it.
I work at a school for gifted kids that has a lot of talented staff but not much emotional support for the kids. I have been providing that and am starting to get training for it, but I need a title and to more tightly define what I want my role to look like. Help me, Ask.Mefi! [more inside]
What are some interesting facts about Microsoft Excel?
I work extensively with Microsoft Excel, and I'm putting together a list of little known facts about Excel for a presentation. I haven't found much on the interwebs that's exceptionally interesting. Does anyone have any facts they can share that come from off the beaten path? [more inside]
Sleeping, it's sooo boring
What tricks or tips do you have to make yourself go to bed? Even when I'm tired, I balance sleeping (man, sleeping is boring!) with doing something, whether it's Internetting, tidying the house, reading, etc.
[I'm not a great sleeper, I probably get uninterrupted sleep once a week, which has been the case my entire life]
posted by sandmanwv at 12:44 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 12:44 PM PST - 21 comments
CollegeFilter: How is one to choose without regret?
At the age of 24, I just completed my first year of undergraduate studies at a good public university. I am a strong student with a 4.0 GPA, but I feel that my interests are so broad and varied that I don't know how to narrow down on a specific path of study. Compound these problems with the ubiquitous financial and career concerns of the modern college student, and you have one confused student. How can I resolve this inner turmoil and structure a long-term plan that will bring me (at least some) peace of mind? [more inside]
Looking for cloud based job tracking
I'm looking for a way to keep track of anywhere from 50 to 150 current projects for my manufacturing business. There seems to be a lot of project management suites out there in the cloud (Asana, Zoho, etc.) but they seem more involved than what I'm looking for.
What I have envisioned in my head is more like an Access or Filemaker database -- a nice one-page synopsis of jobs with searchable fields like job name, job number, customer, current status (design, tooling, production, shipping, etc), salesperson, date of order, estimated delivery date, etc.
Does this exist? Thanks!
Help me ID a Sci-Fi Story about computation and evolution
A few years ago I went into my school's SciFi library and I was given a book of short stories which I read several of sitting on the floor of the library. And then I put down the book and I don't remember what it was called.
One short story was about a world in which computation speeds get faster and faster until someone, eventually makes computers capable of running models on the order of complexity of a world's worth of physics very very quickly. I think the computers may have been the shape of small cubes. [more inside]
posted by ch3cooh at 11:48 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by ch3cooh at 11:48 AM PST - 2 comments
Taking my iPhone to Canada -- how to not get burned by fees
I am confused about my options for using voice/data/texting on my Verizon iPhone 5 while on a trip to Canada. [more inside]
posted by capnsue at 11:28 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by capnsue at 11:28 AM PST - 10 comments
How can I make my apartment smell great?
How can I make my apartment (including my closets) smell great? [more inside]
Recent quirky romantic comedies?
Just saw and really liked The Lunchbox.
What are some other quirky, intelligent, modern romantic comedies? International titles appreciated, but not at all necessary.
I hit my head several times a week. How do I stop?
I hit my head frequently, on the order of several times a week. Usually it's something like straightening up into the freezer door after looking in the fridge. About 25% of the time I get a bad headache afterwards. I'd really like this to stop. [more inside]
How can I rid my house of laundry soap / softener odors and allergens?
I need help freeing my house / furniture of evil chemicals, because I seem to be allergic to damn near everything. I am particularly interested in ozone generators or other beyond the norm solutions - because we have tried so much already! [more inside]
Rock, meet hard place.
I have no idea what to do. Eight months ago, I accepted an offer from Job A. Job A is limited in duration. I have a standing offer from Job B, which I am free to accept after Job A ends. Both jobs are in the same field, albeit geographically remote from one another. Sounds great, right? Well, just you wait. [more inside]
Spinach and wolves
In 'The Half-Life of Facts' there's this neat anecdote on the importance of checking data: a guy puts a decimal point in the wrong place and everyone thinks the wrong thing about spinach for decades. But this academic paper makes me wonder - has anyone ever checked the origin of that data? [more inside]
posted by robself at 10:13 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by robself at 10:13 AM PST - 1 comment
How bad is satellite internet service?
I'm considering buying a house in rural Vermont where cable and dsl internet are not available, and mobile phone service is spotty. It seems the only option would be satellite internet through a provider such as HughesNet. Would this be a huge mistake? [more inside]
posted by bobafet at 9:53 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by bobafet at 9:53 AM PST - 22 comments
What is a good dry cat food for a senior (13 years plus) cat?
What is a good dry cat food for a senior (13 years plus) cat? [more inside]
posted by The locked room sockpuppet at 9:51 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by The locked room sockpuppet at 9:51 AM PST - 19 comments
how can I support a close friend with a terminal illness
A close, long time friend just got the C word from his doctor. This is not a good prognosis, it's perhaps weeks/months to live. He and his family are more than likely going through various stages of fear and emotional paralysis, just my assumption as I've yet to speak with them personally, just got the news. How can I best support them from a distance? [more inside]
novice party host seeks help!
Is it a faux-pas to not provide dinner for a party held during dinnertime? Also, need more suggestions for a first-time party host! [more inside]
posted by bearette at 7:45 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by bearette at 7:45 AM PST - 36 comments
Seeing volcanic sights en route to Seattle?
Road trip filter! We're spending today (and tonight) in Portland and want to be in Seattle by mid-afternoon tomorrow. On the way, we'd like to visit a volcanic (or geological) outdoorsy spot. The original idea was to hike the Ape Cave lava tube, but looking at a map, it may be too far out of the way if we want to leave Portland at 9am and reach Seattle by 4. Any good alternatives?
Can I use Dragon Dictate for Mac to transcribe MP3's of my dictation?
So I'm trying to decide whether I'd prefer to send MP3s I dictate into a digital voice recorder to an overseas personal assistant to be transcribed or if there's some way to do so with technology. Even if it wasn't 100% exact I could still clean up the files later. So the question is: is there a way to do this? I have the latest version of Dragon Dictate for Mac and the files are digital. Is this possible?
Job suggestions for introverted anarchists
I've been working as a library assistant for the past five years, but although I'm getting an MA in librarianship, I see no real future in it. I'm looking for jobs that can be done part time which would suit an anarcha-feminist interested in writing, art and technology. [more inside]
Help me kill time while working near 34th St, NYC
Pottering around NYC: I work near 34th St/Herald Square and have huge gaps in my work schedule. Help me find nearby places (walking distance or only a couple subway stops at the most) where I can escape the office? Slightly narrowing constraints inside: [more inside]
posted by zoomorphic at 7:04 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by zoomorphic at 7:04 AM PST - 21 comments
Help with a huge career decision
I'm between a rock and a hard place in my career, and I could really use some advice and outside perspective. In short: my current job is incredibly stressful, with an environment bordering on abusive. I have an offer for a new job which I think would be much more pleasant. But I'd really be putting some people I truly like in a bad position if I leave my job now. Details below. [more inside]
How do severe depression and (inattentive)ADHD mix?
I know that ADHD and depression often occur together, understandably. But how does each change the way that the other displays? [more inside]
Google: slow for everyone, or just me?
I've experienced extreme slowness with Google products, especially Gmail, for the past few weeks. This is true on several difference computers, tablets, etc., on several different internet connections and networks, using various browsers, apps, etc. [more inside]
posted by randomkeystrike at 6:40 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by randomkeystrike at 6:40 AM PST - 7 comments
Best A3+ printer for printing mockups, wireframes and diagrams?
I'm looking for an affordable home-sized A3+ printer that prints faint colours especially greys well and is relatively fast and not too expensive to run. [more inside]
College essentials - gift edition
I'm looking to put together a gift basket filled with college essentials for a soon-to-be college freshman living in the (driving distance from home) dorms for the first time. I can afford to drop some money on this, but the big things (computer, etc) have been covered. I can coordinate with the parents so that there aren't too many doubles of the same thing as well. What did you bring to college that was absolutely worth it?
Prospects for UK law grad in the US?
I currently attend a top 2 law school in the UK (no prize for guessing which), and am interested in working in the US after I graduate. While I am aware that I will be eligible to take the bar exam in NY and California with a degree from a common law jurisdiction, would my prospects of landing a law firm gig be appreciably augmented if I go for an LLM (or perhaps even a JD) at a US law school? [more inside]
Bike helmet for the helmet averse
I want to buy a helmet for my 20 year old son who commutes to work and school via bike. He does not now own a helmet and hasn't since middle school and would not be likely to purchase one, but I'd like to give him one. What helmet would he be likely to wear? [more inside]
posted by readery at 4:37 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by readery at 4:37 AM PST - 31 comments
Tax strategies for a travel year of no income
My spouse and I are going to leave our jobs at the end of the year and travel internationally throughout 2015, with no income. Are there any strategies we should be following to make the most, tax-wise, of this change? [more inside]
Can I wait for two months to go to the doctor for this?
I found a lump in my armpit and will be getting it checked out by a doctor. Unfortunately, I work in a contact-based job and my next contract is schedule to begin in August. My benefits, including health insurance, will be in place again at that time, but I'm uninsured during summer months. Is this the sort of thing that can wait until I have insurance again or do I need to go to the doctor right now? [more inside]
How to get someone to stop flirting with you
Uncomfortable situation with an overly flirty fellow volunteer. How do I deflect his attention without being mean about it? And how do I be polite but not send him mixed messages? [more inside]
What is this bolt that fell off the bottom of my '99 Honda Civic?
Driving home from work, my '99 Honda Civic suddenly got louder and, in addition, stared making a tinkling noise. I parked to look underneath and saw that there was a bolt dangling from the middle of the car. It's about 9 inches long, still has a nut on it, and was attached at the other end to a rubbery, possibly oval-shaped gasket sort of thing. Any ideas on a) what this is and b) how much I can reasonably expect to pay to get it fixed? [more inside]
posted by HeroZero at 4:01 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by HeroZero at 4:01 AM PST - 5 comments
Help Me Keep My New PC Happy, Healthy and Safe From Harm
I've very recently (ie yesterday) got myself a brand new desktop PC! I would really like your advice on the best ways to keep it running at its best, protected from the nasty things that lurk on the internet (virii, malware, spyware etc) and set up to get the most out of our blossoming relationship... The machine runs on Windows 8. [more inside]
posted by Philby at 2:54 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Philby at 2:54 AM PST - 10 comments
Keeping on a rented house while working away - any suggestions?
Hi,
There is a chance of being offered a very well paid 6 month job 7 hrs away from my newish home The lack of work here makes it hard to dismiss. That said I'm newish to my home and fond of it and my community. I suffer with hideous depressions and want to keep it on/build roots. (More inside). [more inside]
Should I say what I need to say?
Stuck on someone, but things got weird and awkward. Would it be a good idea to open up and just let this person know how I feel about them? Wall o' text commences... [more inside]
Home renovation - worried about asbestos and lead (after the fact ...)
Well, I'm feeling quite stupid now because my partner and I just redid the floors and walls of our new apartment, a building that was built in the 1970s, and I am just now thinking of the possible hazards that didn't cross my mind before we did all the renovation work (yes, stupid, I know). How worried should I be? More details inside. [more inside]
posted by Blissful at 1:39 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Blissful at 1:39 AM PST - 7 comments
Longer FLL layover
23 hours in Fort Lauderdale! Where to stay, what to do? [more inside]
June 24
Seeking seamstress, simple tailoring, Austin Texas
I am looking for a reasonably priced seamstress or tailor in Austin. I love to buy these 70s / 80s silk shirts from thrift shops, they're lots of fun. But the collars are dorky thin, I'd like to have a seamstress or tailor take the collars off. [more inside]
posted by dancestoblue at 11:25 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by dancestoblue at 11:25 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me find two subjects I can write on for a job application.
I am submitting an application for a graphic design position and they are asking for design portfolios and two pieces of writing. I have no writing to give them. What the hell do I write about? I don't want to put a ton of time into researching topics so I can write about them but, seriously, I got nothing. I am a good writer with no outlet. Help!
Everybody thinks they have good sense of humor but they can't all have..
I take everything seriously and overthink every last thing.
How can I lighten the f- up?
[Long, drawn out, unfun, over-thought more inside.] [more inside]
Preventing rice noodles from clumping
A friend occasionally buys fresh (not dry!) rice noodles for stir-fries and such, and they always end up clumping together. The package is in Chinese, so no help there. The usual tricks don't help: being careful not to over-cook, adding a little oil after draining, tossing them gently with the rest of the stir-fry rather than stirring. Anyone have any tips?
Does this little piggy just need to grow out?
Hey All,
I think I know the answer to this questions already, but I thought I would throw it out there to you, a trusted audience of my peers. I cracked my toenail on the biggest toe. It looks like someone took a nibble out of it. Nothing hurts, there is no damage to the nail bed. Should I just let it grow out? [more inside]
Is my necklace racist?
I inherited a beaded necklace I would like to wear, but first let me run it by you: is it racist? [more inside]
posted by The corpse in the library at 7:46 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by The corpse in the library at 7:46 PM PST - 20 comments
Enterprise immigration and records management software for a corp?
I work for a Fortune 500 company with global offices, and we need to switch to an enterprise-level immigration tracking and records management software that's global-friendly (supports foreign characters, data fields that are non-US specific). PROBLEM: We are not a law firm, and every immigration case management software I've seen caters to law firm needs and not our needs. [more inside]
Lessen or kill PMS symptoms?
What can we/she do to lessen my wife's PMS symptoms? Specifically cravings, and pretty heavily despondent mood swings. [more inside]
Meetup Community Help
Earlier this year, I started a Meetup group for people across companies who work in my field (Interactive production at creative agencies). I've had 100 people join the Meetup group, but very low turnout (8-10 people) at the actual events. This is a third of the people who RSVP. More frustrating, the same people never come to more than one meetup, except for people I know already/work who are supportive of what I'm trying to build. Even the people who requested the next Meetup's topic don't attend. [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 7:30 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by sweetkid at 7:30 PM PST - 15 comments
What's the least awful ISP in Chicago?
I'm trying to set up internet service at my apartment. AT&T's downstream is abysmally bad for what they charge – 3 mbps for a lousy $30 per month. Comcast is better, but possibly more evil, and there are a lot of confusing legal riders in the contract that make me scared. Help! [more inside]
Eighty-one Chars for an apostrophe!?
My cel is an LG with AT&T pay-as-you-GoPhone. When I text, an apostrophe or a double quote 'costs' me 81 characters! Does this happen to other people? [more inside]
posted by Rash at 7:01 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Rash at 7:01 PM PST - 3 comments
I'm going to lose my job in one year. Help me decide what to do next!
As my title says, I'm going to lose my job on June 30th, 2015. I'm not sure what to do in order to land on my feet, so I'd like some advice, other then save money (I am, $700-$900 per month) and apply for jobs (I also am, but my field is pretty thin, job-wise).
I see my options as: 1) continue to apply for jobs for the next year and hope for the best
2) continue to work at my present position but also go to grad school in a different profession (I'm pretty sure this will work and I get a free class every semester at the university I work at). [more inside]
Applying to copyeditor/editorial jobs?
I will be applying to "editorial assistant" jobs soon, which is a career switch. How do I submit the best possible application? [more inside]
novel uses of blockchain tech
What are some interesting new uses of bitcoin's distributed ledger system? [more inside]
Help me island my life
I will admit up front that this is a vague, cerebral kind of question. I'm not sure how to make it less so at this point, so if you can wade through, I'd really appreciate it. Wall-o-text ahoy. [more inside]
Experiences at Small Claims Court in San Francisco
We moved out of our rental house and our property owner is refusing to return our full deposit or interest earned over the 9.5 years we lived there. What are our chances of winning in small claims court? A wall of snowflakes falling inside. [more inside]
posted by mamabear at 6:09 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by mamabear at 6:09 PM PST - 11 comments
How do I get "certified" as having a disability?
I'm better now, but I feel that I was disabled before and want to re-file my taxes. Do I need to prove this, and how does that work? What does it take to prove disability, especially retroactively? [more inside]
Getting from Boston Logan to Providence by rail
I'm traveling to E. Greenwich, RI for a wedding in September and it's about $60 cheaper per person to fly into Boston than to Providence (arrive Thursday 3 pm - depart 7 pm Monday) I don't really want to deal with the traffic driving from Boston to Providence so I'm looking into rail options but I can't make heads or tails of the MBTA schedule. 1) Can I pick up the Providence line at the airport or would I have to get a cab or bus to the train? 2) Can I take my luggage (probably two bags)? 3) Can I rent a car on arrival in Providence? 4) What will it cost?
Why would police need my birthday?
I just called up the non-emergency police station in a suburb in Long Island to report some keys I found, and upon the police coming by to pick them up, the officer asked me for my name and birthday. I was caught off guard and gave the information to the officer. While I'm sure the information is certainly not difficult to find in other ways, is there any reason I should be concerned?
posted by jangie at 5:04 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jangie at 5:04 PM PST - 9 comments
Strip club recommendations for NYC
There are old questions about this topic but I am looking for updated information and suggestions about strip clubs in Manhattan or Brooklyn. [more inside]
Incidence of personality disorders by occupation
Is anyone aware of any studies/articles/information that talks about the frequency of certain personality disorders by occupation? Is this even a thing? Just idle curiosity...
posted by SpecialSpaghettiBowl at 4:33 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by SpecialSpaghettiBowl at 4:33 PM PST - 11 comments
Let's get sauced....
How do you make your pizza sauce at home? Looking for recipes and tips! Especially for white sauce or non-standard "sauces" for pizza. [more inside]
posted by amanda at 3:55 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by amanda at 3:55 PM PST - 27 comments
What to do about my dying smartphone
I have six months left on my Verizon contract. My phone is dying and is not gonna last that long. I'm not eligible for an upgrade. I'm reluctant to enter another contract. Am I trapped? [more inside]
posted by lolo341 at 3:30 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by lolo341 at 3:30 PM PST - 25 comments
Dead Ford Van Question (wont turn over but electric is good?)
We have a low mileage 2000 Ford Econoline van which has been running well but now will not turn over. It was just running, turned it off, now it wont turn back on. We had to towed to a mechanic and they said it stated right up and could find nothing wrong, drove it home and same thing. All the electric is fine. Nothing happens when we turn the key, lights don't dim, nothing, but again, all the electric works great. A looses fuse or loose cable is what I would expect but where do we start with something like this?
Thanks so much for any ideas.
posted by 1inabillionmistake at 3:26 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by 1inabillionmistake at 3:26 PM PST - 5 comments
Squares for Safety! Help me talk to my bf about burn rides.
Rate my reaction to burn rides. Am I getting upset about the marijuana equivalent of an alcoholic drink with dinner? Also: How to talk to my boyfriend about it. [more inside]
My Gentleman friend has gone to a detox facility, now what?
The love of my life has been admitted into a detox and rehab facility. Communication has been cut off (I'm told this is part of the process) and I have no idea how he is. I am sad, I never knew it was this bad, but he almost died of alcohol poisoning. What should I expect while he is in this facility? What will happen when he returns home? What should I do when he is home to make sure I am conveying my love and support?
Math book recommendations?
Years ago I read John Derbyshire's Prime Obsession: Bernhard Riemann and the Greatest Unsolved Problem in Mathematics and loved it. Now I'm studying formal theory/real analysis and I'm finding it really it interesting, but would like to be able to spend my downtime reading about the background of math and also explains some of the concepts. Thanks!
Historic Supreme Court voting records
I'd like to have a list of every US Supreme Court decision ever, including which justices voted how. I'd like the list to be easily parsable by a computer program. Details and alternatively acceptable things inside. [more inside]
posted by Flunkie at 2:02 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Flunkie at 2:02 PM PST - 3 comments
I'm too tired to think of a quirky title
We're tired of sleeping on a twin sized futon mattress. Literally. Help us find a solution. Difficulty: Spiral stairs! [more inside]
Mexico Tips
I'm spending several weeks in Cuernavaca, can you tell me... [more inside]
posted by j_curiouser at 1:43 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by j_curiouser at 1:43 PM PST - 3 comments
Recommend me some WordPress plugins
I am tasked with updating a WordPress site for my research facility. I need to add two features, an image gallery and an event ticker or news feed. Free plugins are greatly preferred, since the mechanics of payment for this sort of thing are a giant pain in the patookus. I am not terribly experienced with WordPress, but have spent a decent amount of time elbow deep in the site and have an idea of how most of it works. [more inside]
Using Flesch reading ease test
"Can you use the Flesch Reading Ease Formula with a one-word sentence or a phrase that isnt a complete sentence? Such as a multiple choice answer on a test.
Not a souvenir, more a neat token...
I'm going to Dublin, Ireland for several weeks for work. Do you have any suggestions for something to acquire while I'm there that isn't a tourist-type thing and that is usually only doable if you're in a place for more than a few days? [more inside]
Cuenca to Quito in eight days
We're getting into Cuenca, Ecuador on a Friday and departing out of Quito on Saturday night, eight days later. Other than that, we have no plans. Where should we go, and how should we go there? [more inside]
Securing a rental in a tight market
My partner and I are looking for a house to rent in Seattle, which has become an increasingly competitive and expensive rental market. We've finally found a place that we're really excited about and we'll be touring it this weekend. Is there anything we can do to make sure we're the ones who get the house? Should we offer a deposit on the spot? Have credit reports on hand? Any other strategies that have helped you secure a rental in a tight market? [more inside]
posted by leitmotif at 12:06 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by leitmotif at 12:06 PM PST - 14 comments
finding feijoa: fruitless / great guavasteen gathering goal
Where can I find feijoa or feijoa-flavored items in or around Washington, DC? [more inside]
Is it legal in NYC to charge tenants for repairs to building?
My NYC apartment management company is charging tenants for repairs to the roof and outside of the building (the facade). These are not improvements to the units, but to the building. The repairs were finished earlier this year. My apartment is rent stabilized. As I understand it, my next rent invoice will show an extra payment due for these repairs -- although I do not know what the fee will be yet. Before I call 311 and complain, is it legal to charge tenants for building improvements?
Thanks in advance!
posted by quixotictic at 11:35 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by quixotictic at 11:35 AM PST - 14 comments
Can anyone identify this flower/plant?
Image is here. I'm in Northern California (Bay Area) if that helps to clarify.
posted by thewumpusisdead at 11:20 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by thewumpusisdead at 11:20 AM PST - 15 comments
Panic attacks and other fun
I just had a panic attack at work over my resting heart rate. Questions about resting heart rate and panic attacks inside. (Snowflakes abound) [more inside]
posted by glaucon at 11:14 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by glaucon at 11:14 AM PST - 22 comments
Hot Fun in the Summertime?
Due to a series of unforeseen circumstances, we will need to spend the summer sticking close to home. We are trying to embrace our homebound summer and are having a bit of trouble finding things to do. What are your quintessential summer activities? [more inside]
Why do so many retail stores, bars and restaurants play Brazilian music?
Aside from the fact that the music is quite enjoyable, why the over-representation? Can anyone shed light on this perception / observation?
I notice that many retail stores, bars, restaurants/coffee shops, etc. play Brazilian music to a disproportionate level as compared to music from other places. [more inside]
posted by LittleFuzzy at 10:27 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by LittleFuzzy at 10:27 AM PST - 13 comments
International routing...
I'm looking to purchase a router in the U.S. that will work in Russia. What do I need to buy? [more inside]
copenhagen in 19 hours
Place to stay, things (or thing!) to do for a very short visit to Copenhagen. [more inside]
posted by bluesky43 at 10:25 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by bluesky43 at 10:25 AM PST - 11 comments
Would I be a jerk to initiate a chargeback in this situation?
Trying to return a purchase and the item is in USPS limbo: is it appropriate to initiate a chargeback? [more inside]
posted by kitkatcathy at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by kitkatcathy at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
You pay for what?
What software are you happy using, so much so that you are willing to part with your hard earned money? [more inside]
Remembrance of Financial Catastrophes Past
Asking on behalf of a friend (let's call her "Liz"): can a credit restoration company help fix a credit report with multiple charge-offs? If not, what CAN be done? Sadly drifting swirls of bleak gray snowflakes within... [more inside]
My MySQL Kung Fu is not strong...
I need a script for a MySQL table. The table has multiple fields but one ENDDATE will be populated as a Date/time value. When I am 90 days from that date, I need to update the field STATUS with the value of "email"
Work your magic hive!
thanks
posted by keep it tight at 9:12 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by keep it tight at 9:12 AM PST - 9 comments
How have you shared appliance purchases with landlords?
Do you have experience with conversations like "I'd really like to get a nice new stove, can we come to an agreement on the cost?" What have you done, what's worked, etc? [more inside]
posted by colin_l at 8:53 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by colin_l at 8:53 AM PST - 30 comments
Navigating (Occasionally Crippling) Self-Doubt and Uncertainty
How did you deal with self-doubt and uncertainty after committing to a path you are not so sure will pan out? [more inside]
posted by tackypink at 8:53 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tackypink at 8:53 AM PST - 7 comments
How best to track medical expenses and medical records?
Can you give some advice on how to document/archive medical expenses and medical records? My wife and I are particularly meticulous filers, but I don't think we've found our best practices for the medical stuff. Details inside. [more inside]
My cat is messed up. Help!
We awakened this morning to find that overnight, our 14-year-old cat had vomited many times throughout the house, and had also pooped in the living room and then leaked black/possibly very dark green fluid/diarrhea throughout the house as well. We do have a vet appointment for this afternoon, but the hive is good with cat stuff, so I'm asking here as well. Details about our kitty inside. [more inside]
Mind Games!!!!! To help me fall asleep.... Tell me yours
For years, when I couldn't sleep for whatever reason, I was able to mindlessly play this game where I would picture my dream flat (which was an actual place I had spent time) and arrange the furniture in it how I would do it if it was mine. Now it doesn't work. What are your mental mindless games you use to drift off to sleep, or relax? [more inside]
posted by misspony at 7:27 AM PST - 68 comments
posted by misspony at 7:27 AM PST - 68 comments
Because I don't think I could pull off Jules from Pulp Fiction
I'm taking a beginning acting class for kicks and giggles, and our instructor has asked us all to pick a 1-2 minute monologue we'd like to work on performing. I'm having a tough time coming up with something. Can you give me ideas? [more inside]
posted by DingoMutt at 7:17 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by DingoMutt at 7:17 AM PST - 34 comments
Science for English Majors
I saw -- maybe here, maybe on the blue -- a link to a webpage with discussions of all sorts of future-science problems. I can't find it again. Help? [more inside]
posted by AmandaA at 7:04 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by AmandaA at 7:04 AM PST - 2 comments
Cheap-er cat food than Big Box?
Is there a cheaper way to purchase kitty food other than PetSmart or PetCo? Or if there's a website that magically sends it to the house? Four kitties who love Blue and Max Nutro are eating us out of house and home. [more inside]
Loaner iPhone for All Repairs?
My wife's iPhone 5 seems to have a hardware failure. I'm going to try taking it to the Apple Store tonight, anticipating they'll have to send it in for repairs. It's out-of-warranty, so we'll likely have to pay for the repair. The question I have: is there a loaner program? She needs something while it's out. I know they had one for a defect--is it available for all repairs?
posted by MrGuilt at 6:18 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by MrGuilt at 6:18 AM PST - 8 comments
French music recommendations needed!
Hi!
I'm traveling to a french immersion program this summer for 5 weeks. Nothing but French everything is allowed...even music. Anyone have some recommendations for great french music (with lyrics)? I've listened to Yelle, and have exhausted my Carla Bruni playlist. All genres are welcomed, but I'd especially love some contemporary stuff!
Merci!
What should I know about minimalistic running in Innov-8 F-Lite 230 shoe
I've recently decided to go more minimalistic in my running having been inspired by some books I've read (Born to Run, for instance) as well some articles from people whose opinions I've grown to trust and respect. I switched out of my stablizing running shoes (Saucony Omni 12) and purchased Innov-8 F-Lite 230s. I need advice on how to adjust to them. [more inside]
Inviting only *some* family to our wedding?
We’re in the very earliest stages of wedding planning, trying to come up with a guest list so that we have approximate numbers in mind when we look into venues, etc. How can - or should - we balance a seriously lopsided family tree with our desire to have our friends there (and not go bankrupt/remain engaged forever)? Details inside. [more inside]
posted by Austenite at 12:26 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by Austenite at 12:26 AM PST - 47 comments
June 23
How to process bad internship experience?
I'm in a dire professional situation. Please help me process what just happened and plan my next move. I just got fired from an internship in my last week after slaving away for six months with little appreciation. [more inside]
What do I do in Bangkok when I can't really DO anything?
I am in Bangkok for another week and a half. I've been here 18 days already and have been confined to my hotel recovering from surgery. It was fine, but boring, but now my fiance has had to return to the US ahead of me, and I find myself wondering if I can keep it together and maybe even have some fun while here. I've been cleared to leave the hotel as of today, but can't go far. I'm also having anxiety and some post-surgical depression (that's a thing, right?) that's making me wonder what I can do in this situation to stay sane? [more inside]
posted by polywomp at 10:29 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by polywomp at 10:29 PM PST - 16 comments
Maximum sum of numbers, one from each set, with constraints
Working on a personal project, I am running into a number of math problems of the kind described within. I am not a math expert, so I don't know what to call these kinds of problems, so I don't know how to search for information about them. [more inside]
posted by moonroof at 10:16 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by moonroof at 10:16 PM PST - 11 comments
London comedy club suggestion for fan of Mighty Boosh
I'll be visiting London and I'd love to see some comedy while I'm there. I enjoy going to places like Upright Citizens Brigade in Los Angeles and Second City in Chicago. I love British sketch comedy and love shows like the Mighty Boosh. What are some clubs where I can see some comedy in that vein?
Neighbors' pit bulls jumping on me and shitting in my yard
I live alone in the basement apartment of a row house in a large city; there are four people in the apartment upstairs who moved in fairly recently. We share a small, fenced-in yard, and the layout is such that it is my only entrance, while it is their backyard. With them came their two dogs, pit bulls, whom they allow to run loose in the yard. [more inside]
How old is this pair of Levi's?
I have a pair of Levi's jeans with a fun illustrated label on the inside saying, among other things, "The more you wash 'em, the better they look and fit!" The label looks 70s to me, but I'm not very knowledgeable about Levi's, so I was wondering how I can date these and where I can find some more info about them. [more inside]
Can I sell my deceased cat's new insulin & new needles?
We have brand-new, unused needles and a new, unopened Lantus insulin vial that we had bought for our cat, but our cat passed away late last month. We can't seem to figure out if it's legal to resell these prescription items. Is it? [more inside]
posted by StrawberryPie at 7:16 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by StrawberryPie at 7:16 PM PST - 15 comments
Unemployed and demoralized. Should I go back to school?
I just graduated from college. I have had absolutely zero luck finding a job. Should I go back to school for computer science? [more inside]
What is wrong with my car?
It sounds like I am riding a chopper. [more inside]
Japanese translation help
Help me translate this tea cup from Japan... [more inside]
posted by IfIShouldEverComeBack at 6:30 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by IfIShouldEverComeBack at 6:30 PM PST - 3 comments
Clean eating and living...or is it?
I'm curious as to how some people, despite taking up a "clean eating/healthy mind/healthy soul" lifestyle approach, justify frequent alcohol consumption and/or occasional hard drug use as fitting part of the lifestyle. I am curious to read about any anecdotes, studies, what have you, on the matter. [more inside]
posted by chloe.gelsomino at 6:04 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by chloe.gelsomino at 6:04 PM PST - 26 comments
What is this Sicilian dish?
I grew up with a Sicilian grandfather who was an amazing cook. As is usually the case with amazing grandparent cooks, he never wrote anything down. I know the recipe in general, I just don't know what to call it. [more inside]
posted by stripesandplaid at 5:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by stripesandplaid at 5:23 PM PST - 5 comments
How can I safely and legally find 800$ in a week?
Ok, so...long story short, I am really having a hard time making rent for reasons outside of my control. It's due in a week, and despite exhausting every venue I can think of I can't come up with that money. [more inside]
posted by Rosengeist at 4:55 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Rosengeist at 4:55 PM PST - 27 comments
Help me buy underwear (post-baby body edition)
I need underpants that fit my post-baby hips, thighs, and belly flop and do not ride up. Tell me what to buy, Metafilter! [more inside]
Product recommendations for long hair
Mac printing only in landscape layout, not portrait, in Firefox
A couple of weeks ago, our office Mac (OS X 10.7.5) started printing everything from Firefox (30.0) in landscape layout (on our HP laserjet CM1312nfi), when we need portrait layout to be the default. [more inside]
posted by Lettuce_Leaves at 4:30 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Lettuce_Leaves at 4:30 PM PST - 4 comments
Remembering everything except one
I'm a person who excels very well in jobs and make great first impressions. However, a problem that has plagued me all my life is forgetting ONE detail that might seem small but very important. [more inside]
a spikely joint
I've been having knee pain recently resulting from physical activity. Will it get better with time, or do I have to choose between accepting it and taking a long break? [more inside]
DVD Authoring Advice for Elementary School Movies?
Please recommend some good software for amateur authoring of DVDs? [more inside]
posted by bodega at 2:56 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by bodega at 2:56 PM PST - 5 comments
He's driving me nuts! Co-parent edition
The person in question is my significant other’s ex, I’ll call Steve. We share custody of the kids (3 under 12 years). Their separation agreement calls for the responsibility/decision making for the kids to be shared 50/50. The kids go back and forth between houses. In reality, we do much more than our share. A recent conflict has left me searching for a new outlook on Steve. I’m tired of being frustrated and angry with his behavior and attitude. I need to find some peace. [more inside]
Active Miniatures
What are, and where to get, these miniatures as used in http://instagram.com/marsder ?
posted by Heatwole at 2:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Heatwole at 2:43 PM PST - 8 comments
Does this software/web service exist?
I'm starting a blog, and I have this hunch that perhaps a service or program exists out there that allows you to: 1) Write, format, and save blog posts, as well as mark them as "ready" to publish, and 2) Automate publishing those ready posts chronologically onto your blog at a fixed rate or alternatively by selecting a publishing date and time for every post marked as ready. The theory being, I could write as many posts as I want on a given day, but schedule and automate their publishing. Does this sort of thing exist? [more inside]
It's my ankleversary
Sprained my ankle May 2013. It seemed to heal, and now is acting up again. Thoughts? Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by Lardmitten at 2:31 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Lardmitten at 2:31 PM PST - 14 comments
Best way to fill in missing floor tiles?
When our staircase was remodeled several years ago, it left an area with no tile at the base of the new stairs (old stairs were curved, new ones are not.) It's been 6.5 years of stubbed toes and general unsightliness, and I need suggestions on what to do with this area. [more inside]
posted by pyjammy at 2:01 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by pyjammy at 2:01 PM PST - 18 comments
What are some good meal ideas for a houseboat vacation?
My family will be vacationing with another on a houseboat. Total of 4 adults and 5 kids, all good eaters (but the kids are kids, too). We are trying to optimize our food and seeking wisdom from those with experience. [more inside]
Dead car--how to get rid of the car and keep its nice new tires?
About two weeks ago my 2002 PT Cruiser Limited suffered a head gasket failure. This is the second time it's happened on this car in recent years and I'm not having it repaired it again. About a week ago my wife and I bought a nice 2011 Toyota Corolla LE to replace that car. Now I'm trying to figure out what to do with the Cruiser and how to keep its nice new tires for the Corolla. [more inside]
posted by FelineoidEntity at 1:01 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by FelineoidEntity at 1:01 PM PST - 15 comments
Why am I having leg, ankle and foot pains when I walk and jog?
I recently started a mix of walking and jogging for an hour a day, to help me lose weight. I'm about a hundred pounds overweight and until now have been pretty sedentary. Since I started walking and jogging, I've had aching, tight pains in my shins, ankles and heels. What could be causing this? Is there anything I can do to prevent it from happening? [more inside]
posted by qi at 12:51 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by qi at 12:51 PM PST - 29 comments
Twitter feeds from academic departments/programs.
I'm looking for examples of high-quality (official) Twitter feeds from academic departments/programs that are particularly informative (either to students or non-students, ideally both). I'm especially interested in departments or programs in healthcare/medical science-related fields, but all suggestions are welcome.
Painting a Peeling Garage Door
The paint on our wooden garage door is seriously peeling, and I want to re-paint it. How should I go about this? What tools do I need? What kind of paint should I use? Brand recommendations welcome. [more inside]
Help me decide what to do with a new-to-me piece of furniture
I have had my eye on a piece of furniture from Ikea. A friend is moving out of town and getting rid of that piece of furniture so I said I would buy it from him, but I'd like to have a plan for what to do with it before I bring it home. [more inside]
posted by kat518 at 11:39 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by kat518 at 11:39 AM PST - 11 comments
Getting around Chicago & Renting a Car
We (two adults and one rambunctious toddler) will be visiting family in Morton Grove, IL this coming week (Jun 28–Jul 4). Although we will be spending a few days with the family, we also want to make a number of trips into the city to see the sights. Since we are outside of Chicago we're wondering about the logistics of getting around. [more inside]
posted by Deathalicious at 11:05 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Deathalicious at 11:05 AM PST - 18 comments
Finding an Apartment in NYC without a broker?
I am moving to NYC for work (yay!) and need to find an apartment. My start date in my new position is between 8/15 and 9/1, depending on when I can get into a place.
Because I'm moving from a low-income area to a high-income one, my salary is basically doubling, which is fantastic, but not until 8/1. I'm trying to figure out a way to get around paying broker fees because my cash flow is not going to be great until the raise kicks in. [more inside]
Gift for a UX Designer?
Our UX designer is leaving for a new job, and we want to get her a going-away gift. Any ideas for something design-related that is somewhat geeky but cool and trendy?
Looking for great dinner salad recipes
Give me your crunchy, your cool, your refreshing flavors yearning to breathe free. Favorite dinner salad recipes and ideas, please? [more inside]
posted by peachfuzz at 10:26 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by peachfuzz at 10:26 AM PST - 41 comments
Furniture for the decorating challenged
I'm decorating for the first time. I want things to look nice and not "grad school chic". Difficulty: I hate shopping and don't have a lot of time to spend fussing with things. Where should I buy stuff and how do I find out what I like? Is there a website where I can see a beautiful living room and click to buy what I like from it? [more inside]
Bands Like Vampire Weekend or Cayucas?
Um, what bands do you know of that are similar in sound to Vampire Weekend or Cayucas? K thx bye.
posted by joelhunt at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by joelhunt at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
How do you balance graduate school and raising a kid?
I will be starting a highly ranked MBA program in August with a full ride. I already have one graduate degree, but this time I have an added degree of difficulty: I am now a mom. Does anyone have advice for balancing going back to school with the needs of a three year old? [more inside]
posted by Alison at 10:15 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Alison at 10:15 AM PST - 12 comments
The Case for Welfare
Can someone help me find well-researched academic or think tank articles that challenge the position that current US welfare spending is a disincentive to work? I am specifically asking about debate over actual real levels of benefits in various states in the USA, not other countries or welfare as an abstract ideal.
I'm looking something that engages with the basic argument of this CATO whitepaper. [more inside]
posted by Wretch729 at 10:02 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Wretch729 at 10:02 AM PST - 9 comments
Patient/physician sharing info blogs/forums in Germany
I am interested in finding forums or blogs about breast cancer treatments in Germany to see the content and sentiment of conversations happening among patients and/or physicians. If they are behind a pay wall I would be interested in purchasing the data if possible. Thanks for input!
posted by mooselini at 10:00 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mooselini at 10:00 AM PST - 3 comments
Asian text translation
Can someone decipher what this says for me. Thanks in advance.
posted by krisb1701d at 9:48 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by krisb1701d at 9:48 AM PST - 3 comments
Light, Humorous, Feelgood Books for Cancer Patient and Family
Dad's got cancer and the whole family (readers all) are looking for some book recommendations that are light, humorous without being wacky, and immersive. We've got a lot of time to sit around and worry. Thanks!
How to organize seismic retrofit and various renovations
We bought a 1920 bungalow in Berkeley and need to get various things done. We're hiring an engineer to look at the foundation + retrofit and make plans. After that, should we hire a general contractor, or should we go with organizing everything by ourselves? [more inside]
Scary or normal? The eternal question
For the past few months, I've found it very hard to run. Slowing down (a lot) helped the problem out but it still pops up occasionally. Lately I've been wondering if it's my heart. And yes, I want you to listen to a long recitation of my symptoms and problems. [more inside]
Help me buy a diesel pickup truck with 200,000+ miles.
Looking at 2002 Chevy 2500 HD 4x4 Diesel, 220,000 miles. I'm told truck diesel engines like this last 500,000 miles. I'm new to diesel and buying a truck with that much mileage on it. What warning signs should I be looking for with either the engine or the chassis? [more inside]
What cooking chemistry should I know?
What are basic pieces of kitchen science that would be helpful for me to know? I'm most interested in baking but cooking is okay too. Things like the effect of salt or liquid on a recipe or whether I want my bread dough to rise in a dry or humid area and why would be really great. I'm okay at following recipes but I'd absolutely love to know why different ingredients and combinations have different effects and how I can use that to my advantage. [more inside]
Pearl Jam's most punk influenced songs?
What are Pearl Jam's most punk influenced, or punk sounding songs, that you would recommend for a mix tape for my punk music interested girlfriend? I'm a big fan, but a musical novice. I don't know names of songs (except for the obvious ones), have skipped some of their albums, and just know there is someone out there who can answer this questions better than I. [more inside]
Help out a writer with a severe case of writer's block!
I am working on a story where a character recalls several intense "Rashomon" type events with multiple perspectives and interesting differences in how intense events play out to different witnesses. I've thought of a couple but I'd love the germ of a few more ideas... [more inside]
Because, not why
What's the word for when a website's malfunctioning makes you feel trapped and panic-achey in your hands and arms? For example, right now any Google Spreadsheet is stuck "Working..." and I can't get cells to update even though I can type in them. I'm using e-claustrophobia as a working word, but is there another name for this?
Help me beat the crap out of my camera
How can I best protect my dSLR camera during a rugged hiking trip, while still keeping it accessible for shooting? [more inside]
posted by bondcliff at 8:22 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by bondcliff at 8:22 AM PST - 14 comments
Need to find information regarding homicides perpetrated in 2013
Please help me find information regarding homicides perpetrated in 2013, either nationally or at the state level. I am compiling information on LGBTQ victims of intimate partner violence related homicides, and I need to find all of these types of homicides that occurred in 2013. Websites listing all homicides are definitely also welcome in addition to intimate partner/domestic violence related homicide websites. These two sites are examples of what I need: North Carolina and Washington.
Yet another question about digital cameras
I'd like to upgrade my household's photography capabilities with a new camera and I am torn between a low-end DSLR and the new mirrorless micro-4/3rds cameras. I'm torn between the world of possibilities in the DSLR space vs. the more portable aspects of mirrorless cameras. [more inside]
Should I buy a Digital-to-Analog Convertor (DAC)?
Just wondering if this is something I should invest in, or would it be a waste of money? [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:52 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:52 AM PST - 11 comments
What are your favorite ABOUT US pages?
I run an alternative arts nonprofit that does literary events between pop and high culture, social justice interventions, and online magazines. We're making a new ABOUT US page. What are your favorite ABOUT US pages online? [more inside]
What was this show about pink eye from my childhood?
Sometime between 1980 and 1987 (or so), I saw a show that convinced me that pink eye was fatal. What was this show? [more inside]
posted by hought20 at 3:45 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by hought20 at 3:45 AM PST - 8 comments
How do I get my hope back?
My question is this: how do I get my hope back, and how do I reject my apparent acceptance of my current state? (Way too many details inside. Huge wall of text. Apologies in advance.) [more inside]
June 22
Photo scanning service in the UK
Can anyone recommend a good, reliable photo scanning service in the UK? I need to scan a decent number of old family photos, and I've also got some VHS tapes I need to digitise. [more inside]
how to upload and transfer 1 gig of files to my SO in usa?
i am in china apparently. google browser and anything related to google like gmail and dropbox have been blocked in the past month. and most file host / media share web sites are blocked too. i want to upload and transfer 1 gig of files to my SO in usa. could anybody give me some good suggestions?
I'd rather not be branded
Can I be a freelancer without having a "personal brand"? [more inside]
Where can go to I touch something that's been to the moon?
Where can I go to touch something that has been to the Moon and back? Is such a thing even possible? There must be artifacts spread around the U.S. Where's the nearest one to you (and where are you)?
posted by dws at 9:02 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by dws at 9:02 PM PST - 20 comments
How long does it take Triamcinolone to start working?
I have this crazy rash thing on my legs, started a couple weeks ago with a small patch and has gradually spread. It is blotchy and itchy and generally unpleasant. I finally went to the doctor on Friday morning and was diagnosed with eczema and prescribed Triamcinolone, 2x a day for up to 2 weeks. How long should it take to start helping? Because my blotches are still spreading! [more inside]
Resurrected sewing machine!
I found my Bernette for Bernina 6800 which has been in storage of some kind since I last used it, over a decade ago. I would love to get it running again and get a lot of use out of it--what should be my next steps? [more inside]
Advice about a poor body image and low self-esteem
As I am now in a relationship and have some money, I have been looking at taking mixed martial arts classes and/or kickboxing classes, but I feel compelled to take these classes regardless of whether nor not I like them. [more inside]
Rude joke filter, Spanish/Portugese edition
A friend was wracking her brain trying to recall a joke in Spanish about Portugese people.... [more inside]
True Love & Sexuality - Middle School version
Asking for a friend - her 12 year old son is "in love" with a 12 year old girl. Hormones are active and kids are definitely interested in doing more than just holding hands. My friend is struggling to figure out reasonable rules on dating behavior, especially since in her culture, children this young simple don't date and yet here in sunny California the rules seem to be different. Complications inside. [more inside]
posted by metahawk at 4:41 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by metahawk at 4:41 PM PST - 38 comments
Please identify this bird
My spouse went surfing and found this bird bobbing on the waves. There seemed to be something wrong with the bird so he took it home. Here's another pic. The bird is very passive and doesn't move much, so we're guessing it's either ill, injured or exhausted. What bird is this? And what should we do with it? We're in Holland. [more inside]
Where should I visit in Oakland/Pleasanton area?
I will be in Pleasanton Tues and Wed and will have a bit of time, but sadly no car - what could/should I do with myself? [more inside]
Please help me identify this item.
My Mother brought a tool that looks like a strange type of pliers, however she has no idea what they are. So I told her I'd ask on here. So if anyone can enlighten us as to what these are used for that would be great. [more inside]
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 2:22 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 2:22 PM PST - 14 comments
Recommendations for Big Bend river tour
My GF and I will be visiting Big Bend National Park in late July, and we would like to take a 2-day river tour, probably in Santa Elena Canyon (although I'd love to hear if you think a different one is better for some reason). There are several tour companies listed on the wikitravel page, but I don't know which one would be the best choice. Have you gone on such a trip, and can you recommend or caution against any particular tour company? [more inside]
posted by crookedgrin at 2:03 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by crookedgrin at 2:03 PM PST - 5 comments
Where to go for a month to get our heads screwed on right?
Where would you go if you had a month to regroup, restore, and come up with life's Plan B? Difficulty: the month in question is July, 2014. Yep -- just over a week from now. [more inside]
posted by nadise at 1:05 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by nadise at 1:05 PM PST - 36 comments
Allergic to metals - is there a work around?
I can wear platinum, higher grade gold and titanium sometimes. The biggest problem is my belly ring, though I gave the same problem with earrings. Can I do something to surgical steel to open up my jewelry horizons? [more inside]
posted by crankyrogalsky at 11:57 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by crankyrogalsky at 11:57 AM PST - 16 comments
Identify Ralph McQuarrie cover art
Some Librarians are trying to identify the book this
art by McQuarrie goes with. [more inside]
Rent question (grace period falls on holiday) Oregon
My friend rents an apartment. According to the lease he signed there is a 4 day grace period before his rent is considered late. (He sometimes pays on the 4th of the month because of when he is paid). This month the grace period involves the July 4 holiday. [more inside]
Which treatment option should I choose?
I have trigeminal neuralgia, aka "the suicide disease." Good times! I've been given four treatment options: lifelong heavy-duty medication, having a needle stuck into my face with a few months' relief, CyberKnife radiology, or microvascular decompression surgery. Which should I choose? How do I even approach this decision? Difficulty level: I want to get pregnant, but I don't know when. [more inside]
What's the best gift you can give to someone who LOVES MST3K?
I have a wonderful boyfriend and I want to do something really special for him, just because. His favorite thing on earth is Mystery Science Theater 3000. He already owns all of the episodes and watches them constantly, so I am looking for REALLY SPECIAL merchandise or home made MST3K items to buy for him. Can you guys point me in the right direction? Google and Etsy aren't turning up anything interesting.
posted by SkylitDrawl at 11:03 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by SkylitDrawl at 11:03 AM PST - 16 comments
Primo Flavorstation not bubbling
I'm annoyed to use a question on this but whatever. Our Primo Flavorstation 120 isn't bubbling. I changed the CO2 canister but no improvement. When I press the button to fill the bottle, just a little bubbliness starts coming out, and then nothing. What the heck? [more inside]
Chronic Unhappiness
I was curious as to what others have done to find happiness once they have come to a complete system halt? Without going into too much detail, the last two years have been not very much fun. I finished my degree, but nothing really makes me very happy these days. I keep myself busy with volunteer work and I read a lot, but this has not resulted in any lasting happiness.
posted by nidora at 9:38 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by nidora at 9:38 AM PST - 25 comments
How do I not get taken down by PTSD?
I am experiencing acute PTSD symptoms after a variety of different traumas, most recently an incredibly toxic roommate/landlady situation which I am now out of. I am looking for suggestions on behavioral changes to implement, therapeutic techniques, and books that might help. [more inside]
What is the current best method for getting DVR content to multiple sets
Moving from a situation where I have 1 TV to one where I will have multiple TVs. What is the high-quality budget alternative to get DVR content to multiple sets? [more inside]
debt consolidation, good move at the expense of my credit?
briefly, over the last 3 years i experienced various times of unemployment. I've unfortunately accumulated about $45k in credit card debt. Does it make sense for me to have a debt consolidation service negotiate my balance down at the expense of my credit? [more inside]
Help us remember the name of a bar in Frederick Maryland
Asking for a friend. Does anyone remember the name of a bar/ night club in Frederick, Maryland where all drinks were $1.00? [more inside]
posted by JennyJupiter at 8:09 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by JennyJupiter at 8:09 AM PST - 2 comments
Kitten rescue in central Florida
My friend and I found two abandoned kittens when we walked her dog last week. We saved them from the street, but neither of us can keep them (she: single mom who can't afford two cats; me: in Hoboken, NJ and already have two cats). She's willing to foster, but can only do so for the rest of the week as she's leaving for six weeks a week from today. They're great - playful and affectionate with each other and they turn on their motors as soon as you pick them up. She got an offer to make them barn cats, but they seem too sweet and gentle for that. They've been to the vet and are about 12 weeks old. They're being spayed tomorrow and will soon be ready for a home.
My friend called a local rescue organization, but they don't have any foster homes available. Does anyone have any experience with a good rescue near Merritt Island, FL?
posted by Wet Hen at 7:40 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Wet Hen at 7:40 AM PST - 22 comments
Online photo storage and display
I was a very happy Picasa user, but for reasons like the push to G+ and an attempt to minimize my general Google reliance I'm looking for another service. [more inside]
posted by harujion at 7:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by harujion at 7:17 AM PST - 7 comments
Hey Brooklyn Mefites, do you love your veterinarian?
I have a dog, and the vet I take him to is okay. She's nice, I'm sure she's competent, but she's not the best communicator, and for some reason I don't have absolute confidence in her. My dog has a heart issue, and I'm going to want a really good vet as he gets older. Any recommendations? I'm in Park Slope, but would go elsewhere for someone great.
How close to unlocking the Global Conversationalist achievement am I?
Help me find this half-remembered website: You tell the site what languages you speak, and it tells you what percentage of the planet's population you can communicate with. I remember it having a map that broke it down by country or continent, but I could be conflating it with another website.
Is good luggage worth buying?
Is "good" luggage worth purchasing? [more inside]
otel.com --Legit? How does it work?
So I'm going to New York, and I reserved a hotel room through otel.com. I'm supposed to print out a voucher from Tourico (with whom they contract) and give it to the hotel. The website and correspondence don't inspire confidence. Neither do the super-low prices. Is the site legit? The hotel does have my reservation, so that part is fine. I'm just worried that they'll tell me they don't take the printed voucher as payment or like. Should I worry? Thanks!
posted by persona au gratin at 1:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by persona au gratin at 1:08 AM PST - 4 comments
June 21
Please help us name our kitten - very specific requirement edition!
We have a naming convention for our cats - so far they are all science related terms that start with M. We have Magnet, Möbius and Meniscus. Now we have a new little fluff ball - a black kitten with a white tuft on her chest. Can you help think of a name for her?
So far we've thrown around Muon, Mendel (too masculine) and plain ol' μ.
posted by lizjohn at 9:25 PM PST - 68 comments
posted by lizjohn at 9:25 PM PST - 68 comments
Reticulating Splines ... forever?
Issues with downloading the Minecraft update to XBox 360. Please help so my child doesn't disown me forever. [more inside]
Air Conditioning Efficiency (Coefficient of Performance) Questions
I have come to understand that a typical modern window or residential-central air conditioner (which I believe is referred to in the industry as a "Direct Expansion" or DX unit) has a coefficient of performance which typically ranges between 3.0 and 3.5. That is to say, for every unit of energy consumed, the air conditioner removes between 3 and 3.5 units of heat from the conditioned space. I have a few questions regarding this, inside. [more inside]
posted by Juffo-Wup at 7:37 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Juffo-Wup at 7:37 PM PST - 3 comments
SciFiFilter FTL-ish Plausibility Check
In a discussion elsewhere on the internets a twist on a common science fictional transportation technology was proposed. A spaceship leaps from one point in space to another, but while it is instantaneous for the passengers, the transit actually takes some small amount of time longer than light would take to cover the distance (let's say the Planck time). Would the time delay prevent the violation of causality? It appears that everyone is staying in their light cones, what am I missing? [more inside]
posted by Octaviuz at 6:53 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Octaviuz at 6:53 PM PST - 13 comments
Looking for the original footage of an inspirational viral video
I'm looking for the original footage of this video, entitled "Words of wisdom brought to you by an insane person" (http://vimeo.com/98810628). This version has a Hans Zimmer song over the top and I want the original without any music. Can anyone help?
sent home from the ER with a life-threatening condition. now what?
I had a health scare and a physician in an emergency room misdiagnosed me. What should I do? (a question especially for the md's here) [more inside]
posted by krautland at 6:29 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by krautland at 6:29 PM PST - 21 comments
Looking for inexpensive long weekend vacation ideas
I work an extremely stressful seasonal job. I start getting 2 days off a week starting in July. My girlfriend and I love going to the Asbury Park beach. We usually go in August/September, but I NEED a break now. I suffer from anxiety and the laid back vibe of the beach coupled with the relaxation of the water calms me. My concern is that earlier in the year the beach will be packed and the hotels will be expensive. Does anyone have any experience with this location this time of year? I don't like tons of people.
Are there any alternatives in the tri-state area? It doesn't even have to be a beach. It just has to be relatively inexpensive and RELAXING!!! Something that includes nature is a big plus (especially water). I'm not a fan of camping.
Thank you in advance!
You want to know what's hard? A web counter. Do you know how to do it?
I have OS X Server 10.9, and I'll be using YUI's Pure to create a lovely responsive page/website but I need a counter of the downloaded files on the page. I also want to show the states of page access.
Looking for some hilariously awful movies to watch.
I recently got my friend hooked on "so-bad-they're-good" movies. We're looking for more to watch together, but the last few haven't tickled our funny bones quite like the others we've watched. Happen to know of any quality bad movies that might leave us in stitches? So far we've enjoyed these films the most: The Room, Troll 2, Birdemic, Miami Connection, and Sharknado.
Marriage in trouble, wife refuses relationship counseling. What next?
My wife Jane and I are in our 40s and have been together for eight years. We got along well for the first few years, but things have been steadily going south since then. In theory, we both want to improve our marriage, but we are not making much progress on our own. I could use some advice. [more inside]
Habanero? Ouch!
How can I get the most out of fresh habanero peppers? [more inside]
How to smile on command?
How do I make a genuine smile when I encounter people so that they know that I'm open to interactions? [more inside]
Things To Do In Los Angeles When You're Twelve
Family -- including my preteen cousin -- is coming to visit me in Los Angeles and I'm not sure where to bring them. Special personality snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 3:06 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by Sara C. at 3:06 PM PST - 33 comments
If i activate my new credit card will i need to transfer my balance?
If i activate my new credit card will i need to transfer my balance over or will they have already done that? [more inside]
posted by earthquakeglue at 2:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by earthquakeglue at 2:12 PM PST - 4 comments
How do I cope with an ex-boss's plagiarism?
I write product descriptions for a small online retailler. One of our directors left, joined a competitor, and promptly used all my product descriptions on this new site. I'm fuming, but my boss says to let it slide because we're "playing the long game". How do I cope? [more inside]
ISO cheap things to do in Albuquerque without a car
I am taking a short train trip from CA to Albuquerque next weekend for a few days. I'm on a very tight budget and I won't be able to afford a car. How can I get around and what should I see? [more inside]
OK to use alcohol wipes on IEM eartips?
Is it fine to clean my silicone eartips with alcohol-based wipes? I've been doing it for a few years, and even the same tips for quite a while, without noticing any problem. Yet some scant audiophile advice on the Net says don't use alcohol. I'm wondering "Why not?" But I'm concerned if I am doing damage... Sometimes I do soak them in soapy water, but it's so time-saving to wipe them down with these pads from the first-aid aisle; plus, they -- and my ears -- stay pretty clean anyway. (I have standard silicone tips that came with Brainwavz and other brands of in-ear monitors.) Thank you.
posted by noelpratt2nd at 1:34 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by noelpratt2nd at 1:34 PM PST - 5 comments
Too soon for new stress?
Took a promotion I'm not sure I'm able to deal with right now. Head is on the fence, gut says get out. What to do? [more inside]
What makes a good Barbecue?
Ex abusing via medical billing
My friend is divorced, ex has custody of the 2 children. Ex is a sociopath who has made screwing up my friend's life one of his main hobbies. Their divorce decree has uncovered medical expenses split 50/50. While this may seem like a usual, reasonable thing, especially since the ex is in the military with very good health insurance and doctors at his large army base, he is starting to use it against her. [more inside]
How to Win Friends and Influence Peopleware
What books can I read about the people side of managing software developers, as opposed to the process side? [more inside]
Am I rushing in to surgery?
I posted this question a few weeks ago. Since then I have taken the hive's advice and sought medical attention. The results have been less than thrilling. [more inside]
Weekly Calorie Counting
Are there any apps or programs that let me count weekly calories instead of daily? [more inside]
posted by entropyiswinning at 11:38 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by entropyiswinning at 11:38 AM PST - 5 comments
Why does health club agreement waive my litigation rights?
The "health club" in my apt. building (some free weights, a few weight machines, treadmills, ellipticals) requires tenants to sign an agreement, the first two clauses of which involve litigation:
The first says, paraphrasing, I hereby release, waive, discharge and covenant not to sue the management co., owners, employees, etc. from all liability to me and anyone with me for any loss or damage on account of my injury or death caused by the exercise equipment, negligence of the company, etc. [more inside]
posted by the sobsister at 11:30 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by the sobsister at 11:30 AM PST - 10 comments
Teach me about women's boots
I think I need some boots: hiking boots, winter boots and stylish boots. But I am boot-ignorant. Please help me understand what I'm looking for! (I'm female) [more inside]
How can I recover old (versions 4.9) Dantz Retrospect backups?
Posting for Mr. 58:
About 10 years ago I would regularly back-up a couple of household Macs using Retrospect Express (version 4.9). I have a number of these old backup files sitting on a drive and I don't know how to recover the files. As far as I can tell I need a version of Retrospect Express that matches the version thru which the backups were created. I'll also need a Mac running OS 9 on which Retrospect was then running. These are both significant hurdles. I've been occasionally hunting on ebay for a the software with no luck. Does anyone have any advice on what might work? Any other possible solutions to investigate?
Help me find a Noir novel that I read the first chapter of and lost.
Sometime in the past few months I read the beginning of what I remember as a noir novel that is a about a hitman. Please help me find it, more inside. [more inside]
posted by miles at 10:40 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by miles at 10:40 AM PST - 4 comments
Film Camera Maintenance
I start a darkroom class next week, and want to get my cameras up to snuff before then. They haven't been used in decades, and have been sitting in a pile in a bag on a dusty shelf in the meantime. The models are: two Minolta SRT101s (likely from the 1970s), one Mamiya MSX1000 (also likely from the 1970s), and one Franke & Heidecke Braunshweig Compur-Rapid Heidoscop-Anastigmat 1:2.8 (likely from the 1950s, though not sure). [more inside]
posted by rue72 at 10:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by rue72 at 10:33 AM PST - 10 comments
morel issue
What can I do with common and grey morels?
He keeps on flaking.
Today he forgot about our date, and i am really upset because it shows that he doesn't like me right? I would love to see him more regularly, but it isn't happening. At the beginning of our relationship we were both a bit nervous and getting to know eachother, but the last couple of times have been great and we really connected on a deeper level, which is why i still want to see him, but not sure if it is worth it if he flakes. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by aivilo91 at 9:45 AM PST - 48 comments
posted by aivilo91 at 9:45 AM PST - 48 comments
Nannies/Caregivers/Families: how do you handle car insurance?
I'm currently applying for nannying jobs and have been informed by my car insurance company that my policy does not cover me if I am transporting a client in my car, and that they do not offer coverage for business purposes. They gave me contact information for their parent company, who might be able to help, but the parent company is not available until Monday. I'm in California, if that matters. [more inside]
Fran Lebowitz in skirts
Looking for websites and books for guidance and encouragement, not just techniques, in professional dress. I am entering a field where the top echelon of business casual seems to be the default setting. [more inside]
posted by 8603 at 9:31 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by 8603 at 9:31 AM PST - 6 comments
I'm here to buy shoes; I don't need the extended powertrain warranty
Where (if anywhere) can I go in Manhattan to browse a reasonably large selection of high-quality men's dress shoes and try them on in different sizes without needing to deal with any salespeople? A warehouse with a bench would be fine. I am a guy with large but not gargantuan feet if that matters. Thanks.
posted by Inspector.Gadget at 9:07 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Inspector.Gadget at 9:07 AM PST - 8 comments
My difficult roommate wants to stay...hooray
I have a difficult housemate who makes me stressed out and angry, has alienated my friends such that they don't want to come over to my house, and who my housemates and I asked to leave when the lease ends and the new lease begins. She refuses to leave. What happens now? [more inside]
Where to buy exercise shorts in Athens, Greece?
I am staying in Ampelokipi and am spending most of my days in Kolonaki. I am not Greek and do not speak Greek. Is there a department store or something around here where I could buy a cheap pair of exercise shorts? I tried the Carrefour in Ampelokipi and wasn't able to find any. [more inside]
posted by crazy with stars at 8:39 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by crazy with stars at 8:39 AM PST - 3 comments
Someone I admire committed horrible crimes.
This question is about a professor I had in college. The crime in question involves child porn. [more inside]
Great comedy routines, 2-3 minutes in length
I need to spice up my radio show, and I think one way I want to do it is to start incorporating some stand-up comedy clips, both classic and modern. Specific needs inside. [more inside]
Help me name my business?
I'd appreciate help naming a small graphic design firm whose work is grounded in natural beauty. Extra points for help with a tagline based on the view that nature is the touchstone of all art.
Brainstorming so far has yielded: "Second Nature Arts" and "Inner Nature Designs." I'm getting stuck because I don't want to use the word, "nature" twice: in both the name and the tagline. Any other words evoke natural beauty for you?
posted by R2WeTwo at 7:39 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 7:39 AM PST - 15 comments
Quiet location to study in NYC where it's not too cold
Can anyone suggest a relatively quiet place to study(must have power socket and wifi) without loud music and not too cold? In NYC, Brooklyn or Manhattan. Preferrably can stay for long hours. NYU library is too cold due to AC temp too low. I already wear long pant and fleece jacket, just cant sit still without chills. Thanks.
posted by pack2themoon at 3:32 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by pack2themoon at 3:32 AM PST - 14 comments
Please help us identify and eradicate these bugs
Here is a picture of them. Things we know: no one has gotten bites from them, they are always dead or dying when we find them, seems like there are more of them now that the weather is getting warmer, seem to be found near the walls although no obvious holes (we recently got new windows and doors and skirting). What are they and how do we get rid of them because they are grossing me out.
posted by like_neon at 3:15 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by like_neon at 3:15 AM PST - 13 comments
Transitioning to a long distance relationship
My husband will be moving from where we live in the NYC area to Boston for work for a minimum of three to five years and I'll be staying here. I'm looking for suggestions on how to transition to a long distance relationship and then how to maintain it. Best practices, things that worked, things that didn't work, and any ideas for how to survive a difficult transition. [more inside]
posted by sciencegeek at 2:09 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by sciencegeek at 2:09 AM PST - 20 comments
Music similar to "Woman Like a Man" by Damien Rice
What other music will I like if I think I've misspent my life for not seeing this live?
June 20
Knee/lower back pillows for sleeping?
My back is arching while sleeping (well, arching all the time actually). I'm currently doing what I can stretch-wise to try and help the problem, but I often wake up in pain. The arch makes me sore - my lower back never touches the bed. I've been told pillows for my knees/lower back would help. What knee/lower back pillows have you tried that helped relieve the pressure on your lower back? I'll probably be purchasing from Amazon.
What do you do to a dog happy and busy while you work on the computer?
I need more ideas for what I can do to make my dog's time happier & more active/stimulating for him while I am focused on the computer doing my work. [more inside]
Good quality and cheap elevator touch-screens?
I want to purchase a few elevator advertising touch screens. You know, those interactive touch-screens that display all kinds of adverts and slideshows. Problem is, I don't know where to get them. [more inside]
stop the blow outs
My daughter has suddenly started having "blow outs" nearly daily - help me fit her diapers better. [more inside]
posted by annie o at 6:13 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by annie o at 6:13 PM PST - 17 comments
A very specific spoiler please
I am a show watcher wondering if a specific Game of Thrones fan theory has been confirmed in the books. I am hoping that the Maesters among us will deign to indulge me. [more inside]
posted by sparklemotion at 5:40 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by sparklemotion at 5:40 PM PST - 25 comments
Looking for meticulously curated archives to browse through
I'm looking for archives of... things to look at and meander through. Things like those that I have seen of medieval manuscripts, engravings of pictures of businesses featured on receipts from the 1800s (? not sure of dates), and I guess other things of that ilk. [more inside]
Can you translate this?
Websites that Mimic a Smart Phone Screen?
I encountered this website today: a news aggregator that wants you to put it on your smartphone, but if you want to read it on a normal computer you have to read it inside a pretend smartphone. [more inside]
Best studies of the atomic age from an international perspective?
I've read Paul Boyer's By the Bomb's Early Light (1985) and Margot Henriksen's Dr. Strangelove's America (1997), and both focus on American society and its reactions to the bomb. Now I'm looking for books and other material that give an overview of other countries in the atomic age. Can you recommend any? [more inside]
posted by Quilford at 4:21 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Quilford at 4:21 PM PST - 4 comments
A catchier way to say "Nice Meeting You" / "Let's get together again"?
Looking for words or short phrases that represent the idea that it was "Nice Meeting You" or "we will see each other again" or maybe "let's hang out again sometime soon." The best I've got so far is "Ciao," which may be perfect - it means hello and goodbye, and it's kind of informal. [more inside]
Why do people enjoy the Saw movies?
As a horror fan, I've never understood the appeal of the Saw movies. Can someone explain the psychology involved with liking that series and similar types of movies? [more inside]
Recommended wait between cold sore healing and oral sex
Is there a recommended waiting time between a cold sore healing and performing oral sex on someone who may not have HSV-1? Does the answer change if Abreva warded off the cold sore before it actually appeared? [more inside]
Help me find my Sifu, Mefi!
Who was that elderly Chinese Kung Fu teacher in Salt Lake City in the early 1990's? [more inside]
posted by Captain Shenanigan at 1:47 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Captain Shenanigan at 1:47 PM PST - 2 comments
Please navigate me to a good car GPS for the USA!
I am an inexperienced driver, and I am about to be taking a number of long road-trips alone across the US this year. To aid me, I am looking for the best GPS that is reasonably priced. Can you recommend one for me? [more inside]
Still need help
In my last question I laid out a basic primer to understanding the clusterfuck that is my life right now and you were very helpful. I took some of your advice and hired a cleaning lady to clean my kitchen. But I realize now that the kind of help I need for getting the rest of the house in order is kind of extreme and I need help thinking it through and making a plan. [more inside]
Is there a money owed here?
How to get those health care dollars? [more inside]
Is this electrical feature dangerous?
When I'm sitting in the room with the breaker box to my house, I hear a series of short buzzes, like "bzzzt." The noise seems to be coming from the breaker box, and I notice that a faceplate to one of the switches is missing (breakers were last switched off a month or two ago, when new heat pump was installed.). Here is (or should be) the image (if not, there's just copper surface where the breaker faceplate should be):
How to craft ice
I have one of those insane ideas for a birthday present for my other half, but it involves making an 'ice crystal' out of acrylic or glass or something and I have no idea where to start, or where to start looking for help... [more inside]
Cute short feminine hairstyles for curly haired trans lady?
Hello everyone! I am early in my transition as a trans woman and am working on growing my hair out. In the meantime I am interested in figuring out some way to do my hair that looks cute and feminine and doesn't require a ton of maintenance. [more inside]
The "Star Wars" of books, you might say
Are there any prominent examples of authors who wrote the middle book (or even the last book) in a trilogy first? Non-fiction preferred, but will take fiction examples, too.
posted by NotMyselfRightNow at 12:23 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by NotMyselfRightNow at 12:23 PM PST - 16 comments
Too hot for real cake
Your favorite icebox cakes / put everything in a baking dish and let it sit in the refrigerator and get really delicious-type cakes? Let me have them so I don't have to turn my oven on this summer. [more inside]
Help me help him put a ring on it
He's asking me what style of ring I'd like; it's just a promise/"love you" ring right now, but of course it's relevant for the "big one", we both know. Except I don't know what I like. Special snowflake: periodic months-long long-distance situation. [more inside]
Out of the cubicle, into the light?
I am absolutely convinced that having a job that requires me to spend a good chunk of my day in front of a computer is contributing to my depression. What jobs can I do, given my background, that will get me a bit of social interaction and challenge? (Not too much social interaction, just a little). [more inside]
posted by nubianinthedesert at 11:09 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by nubianinthedesert at 11:09 AM PST - 5 comments
Leaving Academia, but Sticking it Out for the Degree
Assuming nothing goes catastrophically wrong (which might not be a good assumption to make, unfortunately), I should be getting a PhD in about 18 months. I'm about 90% sure that I don't want to stay in academia. What steps can I start taking now to have a smoother career change? [more inside]
Get Me to Some Water, Stat
Dearest Mefites with Missouri Knowledge: it is so hot, and I want to go swimming so badly! And I mean real swimming -- none of this water park or public pool business. Please tell me of the best waterholes near St. Louis, MO. [more inside]
posted by likeatoaster at 10:32 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by likeatoaster at 10:32 AM PST - 7 comments
Psychiatrist in Westen Mass.
I'm looking for a psychiatrist in the Northampton/Amherst Massachusetts area, and it's proving difficult. [more inside]
How do I set up a "Giving Tree" at work this winter?
I'm on the Corporate Social Responsibility team at work, and one of the things I'd really like to do this winter is a "Giving Tree", where people can choose a gift to buy for a stranger in tough times. Have you done this? Can you help me figure out how to make it happen? [more inside]
Widower quickly remarries family assistant? Maybe?
At some point after reading My Life in France, I convinced myself that Alex Prud'homme wrote that after Julia Child's death, Paul quickly married her long-time assistant, with an explanation that he didn't know how to be alone after being married so many years. That's not the case (in fact, she outlived him by 10 years). I know that this is a long shot because that sort of thing probably happens quite a bit, but: Who was I thinking of? [more inside]
posted by amarynth at 9:10 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by amarynth at 9:10 AM PST - 7 comments
Books to take a train by
Next week, I am taking the Empire Builder from Chicago to Portland, Oregon. In a previous question about train travel, someone suggested reading books that take place along your train route. This is an idea I love ... and I have at least 47 hours to pass! So: what are your favorite (kindle) books which occur in Wisconsin, Minnesota, North Dakota, Montana, Idaho, Washington, or Oregon? Bonus for rural themes. I am not a big mystery fan, but if it is particularly excellent, I'll read it. Romance is out. Otherwise, I'm open to anything!
posted by ChuraChura at 8:43 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by ChuraChura at 8:43 AM PST - 41 comments
Ideas for a kitchen remodel?
Hello MeFites, I'd like to redo my kitchen but I'm not sure what it is I want. Help me figure it out! [more inside]
How Much Does this Job Have to Pay to Maintain Quality of Life in SF?
I am considering a job offer that would relocate me from Washington, D.C. (an expensive place), to San Francisco (an even more expensive place). I'm trying to get an idea of how much of a bump in salary I'd need in order to make the move worthwhile. [more inside]
[element].[classname] vs. .[classname] in CSS
If I plan to define a CSS class to style only one type of element, is it a good idea to write the selector, for example, as img.gallery rather than simply .gallery? Seems that it would make the CSS a little more human-readable.
posted by markcmyers at 8:11 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by markcmyers at 8:11 AM PST - 7 comments
Tedium, tedii, tedio
I'm teaching a three-hour daily intensive college Latin class. Help me come up with ideas to relieve the mind-numbing boredom of endless drills and "The queen sent the letter to the citizens"-type sentences. [more inside]
posted by hoist with his own pet aardvark at 8:08 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by hoist with his own pet aardvark at 8:08 AM PST - 16 comments
Recommendations for an easy, customizable Python Parser for NLP?
There are loads of options (too many!), but I can't figure out if there is a basic parser that I could use and tweak a bit, or which might be the most straight-forward to create a new parser for a language variety without one. Any ideas for someone with limited skill would be awesome at this point. [more inside]
Forcing Nicecast to Port 8000?
The Community Radio Station I helped found uses Nicecast to repeat the signal from the station to our streaming provider. The problem is that if there is a power outage when the system starts back up Nicecast thinks Port 8000 is busy and so switches to Port 8001. [more inside]
posted by terrapin at 7:19 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by terrapin at 7:19 AM PST - 9 comments
Browser extension security -- ad injections, malware
I get conflicted information about the browser extensions/add-ons Awesome Screenshot and Hover-Zoom. My university community uses browser extensions/add-ons extensively, in particular, Awesome Screenshot across Firefox, Chrome and Safari. Concerns? [more inside]
posted by jadepearl at 7:13 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by jadepearl at 7:13 AM PST - 2 comments
Is there a way to add background music to a Google Hangout?
I'm running a Google Hangout-based D&D game and I was thinking that certain scenes might be nicely enhanced with some background music. [more inside]
To update or not update my OS: Verizon iPhone4
I've got an old Verizon iPhone I would dearly love to keep as long as possible, because once I give it up for a newer one I lose my unlimited data plan. (Grumble! Rant!). [more inside]
What was this foreign-language horror film called?
Zombies outside hospital; man and woman inside; man is infected and slowly turning; woman must decide when to kill him. Those are the vague details because I never saw this movie but I remember reading reviews and wanting to see it. I think the title was one word & I think it was a spanish-language film. [more inside]
posted by gauche at 5:13 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by gauche at 5:13 AM PST - 6 comments
June 19
Story ID: computer thinks man is dead
A friend asked me this and I'm coming up blank:
I remember an old SF story ('50s or earlier) about a person living at a time
when everything is run by computers (i.e. now) and he is entered has having
died, so the system cancels all his ID, freezes his bank account, won't
recognise him as alive, and he ends up living in the cracks (he can't be
arrested because he's dead, etc.)
Can you remember which story this is?
Curing Pig Legs
Okay, second charcuterie question in a row! So I have two hams in my basement, in trashbags, covered in a buttload of salt. Am I going to die of botulism? [more inside]
posted by wrok at 10:39 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by wrok at 10:39 PM PST - 21 comments
tweet me a novel
I'm enjoying following Moby Dick excerpts via Twitter, and Angus MacLise's calendar poem YEAR. Are there any other Twitter accounts like this that the hive would recommend? [more inside]
Would you pay an extra $1K/yr to be able to choose your own doctors?
How much is it worth to you to have (relative) freedom of choice? Enrolling in health insurance and I'm debating between an HMO and a PPO (both under Blue Shield of CA). The difference in cost is roughly $1,000. I'm a 26 year old female but I'm not exactly "healthy". I have mysterious, debilitating, chronic joint pain all over (undiagnosed as of yet), a couple car accident-related injuries that flare up every now and then, and I need to get a pap smear every 3 months due to a recent scare. So acupuncturists, chiropractors, internists, rheumatologists, and gynecologists must all be within easy reach for me. [more inside]
Am I wrong to be totally unenthused about a friend's wedding?
A friend is having a 2-day wedding to a man whom only one of the 4 of our invited group has met, in a location that's an expensive pain in the butt to get to, and will make us all late for work Monday. None of us really want to go. Are we horrible people? [more inside]
posted by area.man at 8:28 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by area.man at 8:28 PM PST - 39 comments
Party meat-up: top sirloin filter
Having a party on Sunday. Menu is mostly settled, salads, appetizers, vegetarian chili, a rice dish, etc. I also have three pounds of 'choice dry-aged top sirloin' and am wondering if there's any prepare-ahead dish I could make and serve at the party. No grilling, no last minute prep but want lots of flavor and easy to serve. Like Ropa Vieja? Your suggestions and recipes, please!
posted by lois1950 at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by lois1950 at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
go to the bank, like an adult.
How can I as a poor person make myself less scary to a potential partner who has gainful employment and a career? [more inside]
Sweet and funny movies for my sweet and funny boyfriend.
I need recommendations for movies or shows to watch with my boyfriend, specifically lighthearted goofy comedies and musicals. [more inside]
Frankfurt stopover - euro needed?
Do I need to cash/euro to get by for 12 hours in Frankfurt? [more inside]
Extreme Exposition
I wish to read fiction that has a very high ratio of exposition imparted to amount of actual writing. [more inside]
Remind me to never have a random hookup…
About a month ago, I hooked up with a classmate that I had met earlier in the semester. There had been a lot of tension between us since the beginning of the year, and it finally happened the last week of the semester. It was a Big Thing for me because it was the first time I had hooked up with a guy and outwardly acknowledged my bisexuality. It was great, but then the semester ended and we both went back to our respective hometowns for the summer. More details and questions inside... [more inside]
Help me use Excel to save my job
So, I just got promoted to a new position at my company (Yay!). Unfortunately, the new requirements involve scheduling a ridiculous number of people. It turns out my predecessor has just been doing dozens of iterations manually until one kind of worked, but every slight change puts a bunch of other things out of wack.
I feel like Excel could probably be capable of doing it, but I have no idea how I would go about designing such a spread sheet. [more inside]
posted by cacofonie at 4:59 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by cacofonie at 4:59 PM PST - 17 comments
Off the beaten path in Africa
I’m looking to take a 2-week trip in Africa, to somewhere that can be a good introduction to the area. Current short-list is Kenya, Ghana, or South Africa. Where would you recommend to go? [more inside]
Cooking Challenge: Ovenless Editon
I am going to a cabin in Maine for the summer. When I am in this cabin I like to spend many hours cooking and fussing over meals. The fussier the better. Problem: there is no oven. What are your best ovenless recipes suitable for two people in the middle of nowhere with lots of time on thier hands? [more inside]
Driver for M-Audio Midisport 4x4 for Mac 10.9
I just updated my iMac to 10.9.3 Mavericks. I just discovered that the Midisport 4x4 USB MIDI interface that was using with another Mac doesn't work. It would appear that M-Audio doesn't support 10.9. I tried installing their latest driver for the heck of it but it still doesn't appear to work. Should I just get a new interface or do I have options with this one?
posted by tommasz at 3:55 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by tommasz at 3:55 PM PST - 6 comments
Where to go camping near Columbus Ohio? Fishing, and foraging preferred
I'd like to go camping with my son and daughter this summer, somewhere near Columbus Ohio.
We would like to go fishing (a place that is easy to fish at with high likelihood of success), and gathering some wild edibles that are easily identifiable with my wild edible book. [more inside]
I'm not astigmatic. Will the optometrist agree?
My last few glasses prescriptions have come up with 0.25 dioptres of astigmatism in them in various directions (i.e. not consistent between eye tests). I've only had my eyes examined because I've needed to buy new glasses, not because of any difficulty seeing, but I've not enjoyed the effects of getting used to new astigmatism correction on new lenses, and can't help but feel it's spurious precision in the testing. [more inside]
I get so lonely, I could... Become really confused as to why
I've always been good at being on my own. I read a lot, love going to movies and museums alone. I've traveled alone extensively. But lately, being alone has become almost unbearable, and I can't figure out what the problem is.
I have lots of good friends (though my very best friend moved thousands of miles away a few years ago, I have at least five "one of my best friends" in the area). My husband and I enjoy each other's company immensely and never run out of things to talk about. I have a large social circle, and there are big parties at least a few times a month, and lots of smaller get-togethers. My "events' page runneth over. A few things have changed in the last year, though. [more inside]
Recommend some iOS games for me
Lately I've found it difficult to find anything new to play on my iPhone (have an iPhone 5 and an iPad, but typically use my iPhone for this sort of thing). I've been playing the same old games for a while now and need some new ones. [more inside]
posted by jourman2 at 3:46 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jourman2 at 3:46 PM PST - 13 comments
Is Microsoft Sharepoint hard to learn?
Or is it easy enough to learn that I could learn it in a couple of weeks for a job? [more inside]
Merging Duplicate rows in Excel or Access
I have a table with duplicate values in one column. Some of the other columns have a value, some don't. I want to have one row for each record, with all of the colums values in one row (NOT CONCATENATED). I can use Excel or Access for this. [more inside]
posted by desjardins at 3:12 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by desjardins at 3:12 PM PST - 21 comments
Display fitbit steps/info on desktop or chrome toolbar?
There must be a simple way thru a desktop widget or chrome extension to display the step count (and perhaps other daily data) from my fitbit on my windows 7 desktop or my Google Chrome browser toolbar, but I can't seem to find it. Does anybody know how to do this? thank you so much!
Can I really not buy an iTunes giftcard for someone in another country?
I'd really like to give someone an iTunes gift voucher. Problem: I'm in the UK and they're in the US, and my googling so far says it can't be done cross-border. Is there a workaround I'm missing?
How do I talk to my roommate about houseguests?
I'm a mid 30's female living with another mid 30's female. I'm not a big fan of having out of town house guests. But I'm not sure how to broach the subject when my boyfriend occasionally stays at our place. Do I have the right be bring up my irritation? [more inside]
I want to start a blog about being an escort
For many reasons, I think it could be entertaining and educational for me to blog (anonymously, and with identifying details removed) about my experiences as an escort. However, I have a few questions that I'm dealing with. [more inside]
Where can I find info on the contemporary Saudi Arabian art scene?
I'm organizing as as-yet themeless, artist-less show on contemporary Saudi Arabian art for an American audience. Where could I find significant artists, significant prior shows, critical responses, constraints, if any, under which they work, and, in general, information on the Saudi cultural climate? Books, essays, blogs, I'm open to anything at this early research date.
I don't read Arabic, by the way, but I can get by in French, Italian, and German, if needed.
Thanks.
Why do some people write "1950ies", "1980ies", etc?
I would write "1950s" or "1980s", and this is universal among native English speakers, so far as I am aware. In international contexts, however, I sometimes observe that people whose English spelling is otherwise flawless will consistently write "1950ies" or "1980ies", which reads to me like it has an extra syllable. Where does this convention come from, and what linguistic background makes it sound like a reasonable way to contract these numbers? [more inside]
posted by Mars Saxman at 2:18 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Mars Saxman at 2:18 PM PST - 12 comments
Looking for best practices for creating a "living" manual
My co-workers and I have created a "living" (continually updated) manual for some processes we do with some associated agencies, but none of us are technical writers or copy editors, so we're looking for assistance in the structure and appearance. Please share your experiences, guides, and tutorials for creating and managing a manual that won't remain in a fixed form. [more inside]
To IVF or not IVF
I'm conflicted about using IVF to conceive, but at this point it's my only option. I have severe endometriosis and the eggs reserve of someone close to 40 (I've just turned 35). I've been trying to conceive for 19 months and have done everything except IVF. How do I decide what to do? [more inside]
Does this musical percussion technique have a name?
I have a vague memory of seeing someone perform a percussion piece where they swung a rope in each hand with a weight on the end. They would sometimes allow the weight to strike the wooden resonating chamber to make a "clack" sound. In so doing, they were able to clack out some surprisingly complex rhythms. Does this instrument/technique have a name? What is it? And most importantly, where can I find some videos of people doing it?
posted by Galaxor Nebulon at 1:44 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Galaxor Nebulon at 1:44 PM PST - 5 comments
Fantastic 50th in Greece?
I turn 50 in September and am taking the trip to Greece that I've wanted to take since I was about 10. The problem is, there's so much to see and so much I want to do.... And I'd also love to get recommendations for a fantastic and romantic dinner in Athens on the actual birthday night. [more inside]
posted by Cocodrillo at 12:50 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Cocodrillo at 12:50 PM PST - 7 comments
Looking for Foreign Films filmed in NYC
Hello, everyone, I'm looking for non-American films that were filmed in NYC. I don't mean films that just take place in NYc but are filmed elsewhere (a la The ninth Gate) but films that were actually filmed in the city. They don't have to be in English, in fact it might be preferable if they weren't.
Allergies & Olive Oil
Hi all. I've been diagnosed pretty recently with allergies severe enough to warrant carrying an epi-pen. For the purposes of this discussion, the only relevant allergy is to nuts. [more inside]
posted by feckless fecal fear mongering at 12:06 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by feckless fecal fear mongering at 12:06 PM PST - 14 comments
What do you say when you're returning something 12 years after the fact?
I borrowed a classmate's folder full of Thermodynamics notes in 2002, and I just found them in my closet. I also just tracked down his address, so I can return them to him.
Should I include a note? What should it say? I haven't spoken to him in 12 years, and I didn't know him that well to begin with. [more inside]
posted by jeffxl at 11:43 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by jeffxl at 11:43 AM PST - 34 comments
Name That Noise
What kind of frog (or other animal) is making this noise in my backyard? [more inside]
2 Hours + 7 Girls + 11 Years Old + 0 Money = Galveston Island Beach?
What is the best beach in Galveston to take a bunch of eleven-year-olds for a couple of hours? [more inside]
Cleaning up the massive mess the ex left
So, the ex just went to prison for 2 years, non-parole period of 1 for a despicable crime, that like everything else, he lied about - and I wouldn't be bothered except he's left a mess behind for his kids, my kids, nice young adults on limited incomes. [more inside]
Help a non-coffee drinker buy a coffee maker?
I would like to get Mr. BlahLaLa a new coffee maker. Bonus difficulty: I don't drink coffee. [more inside]
The singleton is coming! Tips for infant+toddler
Baby #2 is coming at the beginning of August, and #1 will be almost 17 months. We're very excited, and wanted them close together, but I can't quite wrap my head around how it will actually work. So great hive what are your tips, tricks and experiences handling two under two, or two very close together? [more inside]
Hopelessly adrift on a sea of gas-range choices
I desperately want to swap out my electric range for a gas range. I want one that will serve my long-term needs and am totally bewildered by the variety of choices. [more inside]
posted by jackbishop at 10:09 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jackbishop at 10:09 AM PST - 11 comments
If only they made Crush Begone
I have a longstanding (10+ years) crush on someone I do not want to have a crush on. How do I go about eradicating it, when going no-contact is not an option? [more inside]
Can I put 2+ versions of OS X on a brand-newest Macbook Pro?
For testing purposes at work, they would like this magic to happen - put different iterations of OS X (e.g. snow leopard, lion, mt lion, mavericks) each on its own partition on the same physical disk. Apple L2 support has disavowed knowledge of such potential doings, despite there being support articles indicating that at least two versions of OS X on the same physical disk (and different partitions) is possible. Either a) it's doable or b) it's not doable. However... [more inside]
posted by bitterkitten at 9:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by bitterkitten at 9:57 AM PST - 5 comments
Probably should have been a coach, pretty good at blowing whistles
I worked for a few months in the worst workplace environment ever. I'm pretty troubled at how badly the place was run, particularly by the actions of the director. Is there any point/way to let the larger, national organization know about the issues there? [more inside]
What is this book?
Within the past 2 years, I read a book set in a dystopian future London, with a female protagonist who was a member of an underground gang with special magical or psychic abilities. She could enter other people's thoughts or possibly their dreams. Use of these special abilities was outlawed by government. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by spectacularicity at 9:50 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by spectacularicity at 9:50 AM PST - 5 comments
Trying to find metal waste pick up guy in Millbrae CA
My friend said that there are people who would pick up metal waste for free. I have metal stuff to donate and want to call the right person for pick up. I live in Millbrae CA. Anybody know the phone number to call?
Hear me out so we can walk away!
Our son is about to be 17 months and he can't stand or walk unassisted. I know, I know, kids do things on their own schedule. I think there may be a bigger problem than sheer will at work here. I believe his left foot is pronated and preventing him from being able to balance properly. [more inside]
Engrossing Science Fiction Recommendations Please!
Help me fill my Kindle with vacation reading! I like well-written doorstop SF, urban fantasy, spaceship books, epic fantasy, deep complicated books but also joyful romps, complicated prophecies that manifest in unusual ways, great worldbuilding, etc. Romantic elements are fine but I'm not as into stuff where the plot is a thin scrim to hang over endless sexy sex. And as a lifelong SF reader, I have now officially read enough books without women in them, so only books that include solid female characters (as opposed to braid-tugging smurfettes). Things I have loved under the cut. [more inside]
posted by KathrynT at 9:40 AM PST - 66 comments
posted by KathrynT at 9:40 AM PST - 66 comments
Cooking for a friend
My dear friend is coming over for dinner tomorrow night and I'd like to impress her with a delicious, healthy meal. Difficulty level: No oven. [more inside]
Another Queens/NYC bar/restaurant question
I need a bar or restaurant for a small group on Sunday. One of our group however, is my puppy. Another requirement is that it is near the N train, or a quick transfer from the N train on this Sunday (are they still randomly shutting down the 7 train over the weekend?). Beyond that, it's not too picky. I know about the Bohemian Beer Garden, but I am not sure that they allow pets. Sidewalk cafes, anything outdoors should be great.
posted by kellyblah at 9:26 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by kellyblah at 9:26 AM PST - 7 comments
Help Me With the Stench of Death Under My Deck
So, something has died (or more likely been killed by one of the many neighborhood cats) under my deck and the smell is pretty awful. I know nature will take its course (probably somewhat quickly as it's summer in North Carolina and thus ludicrously hot and humid) but is there anything I can do to counteract the smell? [more inside]
posted by thivaia at 9:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by thivaia at 9:12 AM PST - 8 comments
Why did Wagamama change the katsu sauce recipe?
It changed (in the UK) just over a year ago. They claim it is back to their original recipe - and call it an improvement on the previous outsourced version. Many of their customers seem to disagree (search Twitter/Facebook for "katsu change") and have stopped visiting as a result. I can only assume this was a commercial decision - it is cheaper for Wagamama to make this new sauce, even taking lost business into account.
Does anyone who works (or has worked) at Wagamama in the UK have any idea what actually happened and why?
Small home office design
What design / remodel / reno / decoration ideas do you have for a home office / chillout space backing onto a kitchen, 7'4" wide by 9' long , with 9' ceiling, for a DINKY couple in Queens, NY? [more inside]
posted by lalochezia at 8:59 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by lalochezia at 8:59 AM PST - 4 comments
I need someone to teach me how to replicate sounds I hear in songs.
Where could I find this person online? Using a DAW, what sound settings produce that type of sound? What instrument is it, etc. [more inside]
Marinades for Chicken
Recently I've been buying Trader Joe's marinaded chicken tenders, and using the bag throughout the week to prepare stir-fries, fajitas, and other simple dishes for dinner. I really like having a marinade I can pull from for a quick meal, but I'm getting tired of the flavors that Trader Joe's offers. What are your favorite chicken marinades that I could start at the beginning of the week and use throughout the week to make dinner? My taste is pretty wide, but I'd prefer stuff that uses fairly common ingredients.
finding a half marathon
I’ve lost my damn mind and want to run a half marathon. Can you help me find a race? [more inside]
posted by raztaj at 8:17 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by raztaj at 8:17 AM PST - 16 comments
Should I go for the better job with less security?
I work at an emotionally taxing job, and sometimes I take a frustrated, depressed attitude home with me. A job that appears to be in a much better work environment has opened up a few cities away. Should I go for the job that will probably make me much happier at work but reduce the amount of quality time I have with my family, or should I stay where I am and just learn to deal with the stress there in a healthier way? [more inside]
Please recommend a short piece I can recite at a Winter Solstice party.
I've been invited to a Winter Solstice party and the host would like me to participate by reciting a poem or short written piece. My muse has deserted me so I can't write anything at the moment. What would be a good piece to share?
posted by h00py at 7:35 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by h00py at 7:35 AM PST - 14 comments
Connecting in Toronto Pearson
What happens to bags on US-international connections in Toronto Pearson, and is it feasible for me to go into Toronto for a day on a long layover? [more inside]
How are the cast and crew of Orange is the New Black making any money?
How does an on-demand streaming site pay a cast and crew? [more inside]
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 7:09 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 7:09 AM PST - 26 comments
Plus Size, Knit Capri Pants ...
Where do I find more of these perfect pants? Felt like pajamas, but acceptable to wear in public and to work?? AMAZING. [more inside]
What to do about a HIPAA violation at my son's pediatrician office
I needed a copy of my son's immunization records for some travel we are planning this summer. I called his pediatrician's office, and they said they'd send them right away. 2 days later an envelope arrived addressed by hand, the home address was correct but the recipient name was wrong. I opened the envelope to find another child's immunization records. [more inside]
posted by askmehow at 6:25 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by askmehow at 6:25 AM PST - 25 comments
Are slow cookers a smart choice for vegetarian dishes?
I've read many articles about the flavor-enhancing properties of slow cookers when preparing meat dishes. Are they a good option for vegetarian and vegan dishes? [more inside]
Visiting Hong Kong during National Day week?
I'm planning a trip to China during September, which ends in Hong Kong. I'm arriving in HK on 29 Sept and leaving on 3 Oct - right around the start of the National Day holiday. Is this a bad idea? [more inside]
Media Center Computer: MadCatz M.O.J.O vs. AppleTV 1/3 with XBMC
I have 2 AppleTVs and I'm considering getting this new MadCatz M.O.J.O. Is it worth the price? Mostly for media consumption, the gaming is just a plus... [more inside]
Does my UK passport tell me how many people share my name?
The machine-readable code at the bottom of the id page of a UK passport (starting P<GBR) contains a name on one line, and on the second line a long string of numbers, lots of chevrons and then a two-digit number. My mum claims that this two-digit number indicates the number of people with the same name as me already registered as having a passport. This seems unlikely, but is there any truth in it? [more inside]
posted by AFII at 4:50 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by AFII at 4:50 AM PST - 7 comments
Why are hazard lights how they are?
Picture the scene: you are passing a line of cars, and one of the cars has its indicator light flashing. You expect it to pull out. As you pass you notice that both indicator lights are flashing: the car's hazards are on. Why aren't hazard lights easier to distinguish from indicators?
Not another iPhone contacts sync question!
A strange mismatch is going on between my Mac Contacts and my iPhone contacts.
Even though I'm using a single Apple ID on both machines, certain contacts exist on the iPhone but not the Mac and vice-versa. I haven't been able to find the explanation for this. [more inside]
Just because they share half their DNA....
Should I help my daughter connect with her half-sister? Or more precisely, should I help my daughter's half-sister connect with her? [more inside]
posted by marionett gjorda av strumpor at 12:46 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by marionett gjorda av strumpor at 12:46 AM PST - 23 comments
June 18
Is my problem electrical or mental?
When my central air turns on or off, I hear a loud popping sound coming from the thermostat area. I have replaced the thermostat and still hear it. I'm sure that I have always heard it and that other ac's have made that noise but, for the past few months, it seems to have gotten louder and it wakes me up throughout the night. It is driving me crazy. Is your thermostat that loud? Could this be an electrical issue? [more inside]
Mini-moon!
The soon-to-be-Mr-Vortex and I are getting married in September! Hooray! We are thinking about taking a mini-moon instead of a honeymoon after the wedding, because we're also going to be moving and I will be starting a new job. We'll do a nice, longer vacation once we're settled into our new lives.
Trouble is, we're having a tough time thinking of somewhere to go. We've traveled in the upper midwest quite a bit, and would like to find somewhere new to go. Help us, Metafilter! [more inside]
Cheap, simple camera for the photography n00b
Help a newbie photographer choose a decent point-and-shoot for $200 or less. [more inside]
World Cup 2014 podcasts?
What with work and family life, I'm not getting to see that much of the World Cup. I do, however, have some time each day to listen to podcasts while riding the bus to and from work. I'd like to listen to discussions and analyses of the various World Cup games while on the bus. Can you suggest some good podcasts?
Best college major for addressing climate change?
What kind of skill sets does one need to be of best help to addressing climate change? It would seem like the most obvious choice is to major in environmental science. Otherwise, maybe political science to deal with legislators and capital hill? Or "who cares what you study undergrad" and go to law school?
posted by defmute at 7:40 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by defmute at 7:40 PM PST - 27 comments
Late night falafel in Baltimore?
I'm driving from Harrisburg to Balitmore this evening and won't be there till after midnight. I foolishly didn't eat dinner before leaving. Are there any great late night dining options in Baltimore - especially a good falafel or middle eastern? [more inside]
posted by inflatablekiwi at 7:23 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by inflatablekiwi at 7:23 PM PST - 2 comments
Please help me plan a co-worker's retirement party!
I've been stuck with planning a co-worker's retirement party (I was happy to do it, but rather expected I'd have some help from other co-workers). Please help me out with advice in two main areas: the food and the gift! Details inside. [more inside]
Because my paper just isn't good enough for journal A
Where to watch a World Cup in Albany
I will be driving through Albany on Sunday around 6 p.m. I want to pull over and watch the U.S.A. vs Portugal soccer game. Where is the best place to watch the game that is accessible to the NY Thruway? Thank you.
What a college education "means" in 2014
What is the basic cultural literacy and knowledge a post-collegiate adult "should" have in 2014? Are there certain humanities subjects you assume or expect everyone in your college-educated social circle to have a baseline understanding of - semiotics? Critical theory? Familiarity with a bunch of poetry, drama, novels, sociological texts, art, music? None of that? [more inside]
Restaurant delivery service in Gainesville FL?
So my sister just had her second wee tot and we thought it might be nice to get her and her hubs a gift certificate from one of those places where you can pick from Many restaurants and then little men bring you food. Google suggests there are more than one in Hogtown. Any recommendations or disrecommendations?
What is a good, professional level, television/video monitor?
I need a professional level (able to color calibrate) television/video monitor to use a client monitor. [more inside]
Awoken to Striking Chords of Gold
Can you help me find the song that rattled me yesterday morning? [more inside]
posted by alice_curiouse at 5:46 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by alice_curiouse at 5:46 PM PST - 5 comments
Fishing in or near Ulster County, NY?
Looking for some suggestions for fishing spots near to Kerhonkson, NY, in late June. Snow flake details inside. [more inside]
posted by mosk at 5:41 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mosk at 5:41 PM PST - 6 comments
Can anyone identify this nice London restaurant?
Does anyone in London recognize this restaurant, I wonder? I think it's in London, anyhow. It might be in Europe. [more inside]
Old(ish) and established, or hot new startup?
I'm in a good position; I'm being pursued by two big tech companies for a public policy/government relations/privacy role, at a regional (ie multi-country) manager level. One is an established giant, the other is a hot, extremely well-funded and rapidly expanding startup. But which to choose? Hope me, MeFites! [more inside]
Dinner for 75
Every year we throw a Summer Solstice party that includes a buffet dinner for about 75 neighbors and friends. I cook everything because it's easier to do that than to organize a pot luck, which isn't part of my culture. Most years, I enjoy preparing this feast. This year, I am completely uninterested and fantasizing about ordering 25 pizzas and a keg. Hope me, please! [more inside]
What is going on with my mail?
My local post office happened to lose a piece of (certified) mail that was important to me- so I was busy chasing them around for the past month to no avail. However, today the green "return receipt" card finally arrived back on my doorstep. But unsigned and the (online) tracking still doesn't indicate it was actually delivered. Do they get sent back unsigned? Did it just fall off and get mailed here? Help solve my mail mystery! [more inside]
Heat is the enemy
Where is the coolest place I can visit in July or August? Primarily in terms of weather, but also the other type of cool! Preferably in the US, due to cost, but also open to foreign locales if the average flight might be $1000 or less, leaving from the Midwest. [more inside]
Am i receiving alien transmissions?
So i finally got my turn table hooked back up and got a phono preamp. Awesome! But now i'm having mysterious interference, and receiving radio signals on it(!?!?)... [more inside]
The Big Talk. Moving Mom to Assisted Living. I need advice.
What's most the most intense thing inside a French letter?
What's the best lubricant to go inside a condom to increase sensation for a man? Difficulty level: SSRI side-effects. [more inside]
Zuehl dëhn wortz Kobaian?
Has there ever been any real linguistic exmamination of Christian Vander and Magma's constructed Kobaian language? It seems odd that the Zeuhl style would prove influential enough to have other bands adopt the style and language and yet never have any sort of official lexicon.
Pregnant + stomach sucks. WTF? (IT'S NOT MORNING SICKNESS).
I'm asking for a friend. Whom I'm married to. She says:
I am 16 weeks pregnant and am having a GI symptom that I can’t find any information about online, from my OB, or from several different nurse midwives.
(univac sez: This is not about morning sickness. If you think this question is about morning sickness or nausea during pregnancy, GO AWAY.) [more inside]
Best iPhone app for fitness tracking?
I was using Moves to track my walking and biking, etc, on my iPhone. It was great! Unfortunately, I felt I had to delete it once it decided to send all my data to Facebook. Are there any decent iPhone replacements for Moves? (I don't have a fitbit or anything except the iPhone (5S).)
Audio interface x 4 channels?
Looking for an audio interface to take 4 analog line inputs and allow me to record them digitally. [more inside]
posted by BillMcMurdo at 2:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by BillMcMurdo at 2:10 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for diet journaling short-cuts.
I have begun keeping track of my daily eating as part of a cardiac rehab program. I am using myfitnesspal.com which I like because it has a tremendous variety of commercial products. However, I do a lot of preparation on my own from fresh ingredients and eat a lot of salads with a variety of different ingredients. [more inside]
Help this graphic designer become the best production manager ever
I have been a graphic designer, or in related jobs, for most of my work life. Now I'm moving into a new print production manager position at the marketing agency where I work, and I will be doing a diverse range of stuff, much of which is new to me. Help me kick ass! [more inside]
A very inexpensive, small, and quickly obtainable token of my thanks
I'd like to give an inexpensive token of thanks to each of around 40 people. They are physicians and nurses who are helping on a project. It needs to be something I can get quickly, travel with easily, and ideally no more than $4 US. My ideas so far are Amazon gift cards or Starbucks gift cards. What token gift would you like to receive if you were one of them?
Help me find the right multi-zone audio setup
I'm looking for a way to implement multi-zone audio in my house but I'm getting a bit lost in my search... [more inside]
I need a system for managing a shared email inbox.
Please give me your shared email box efficiency tips! [more inside]
posted by triggerfinger at 12:34 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by triggerfinger at 12:34 PM PST - 5 comments
Can I apply for Dutch Citizenship?
I'm a child of a Dutch immigrant to the USA. Is it possible for my father, who naturalized as a child to the USA at the age of 10, to renew his NL passport? [more inside]
posted by kmeryl at 12:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by kmeryl at 12:23 PM PST - 5 comments
Settling after an accident
How do I negotiate an accident settlement without getting taken advantage of? [more inside]
What's the name of this kids' scifi anthology I remember?
I read this book of short stories years ago, and for some reason I remember most of the stories in it but have had no luck with Googling for it. Must be that the stories' premises were creative enough or caught my imagination in a particular way. The most memorable story was about trying to survive on Earth after a supernova. I'm pretty sure these are all from the same book: [more inside]
posted by lostburner at 11:39 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by lostburner at 11:39 AM PST - 7 comments
Need an executive level primer on the current state of 3D printing.
I'm looking to get up to speed on the current state of 3D printing, from a pretty high level. I'd like to know what the major technologies are, how they compare to each other, who the major players are, and how their products compare with each other. [more inside]
Fixing My Photography Workflow So It Will Work For Me
I am in the market for a new Nikon DSLR, but my home laptop/photo workflow situation is sadly out of date and not working for me. Should I consider an iPad for a main photo workflow solution, now that I could get a DSLR with wireless capability? Lots of snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Airline flights that stop but don't require a plane change?
What are these called and is it possible to identify them on sites like Expedia? I'm trying to help my mother fly cross country as comfortably as possible.
Many thanks.
posted by harrietthespy at 10:46 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by harrietthespy at 10:46 AM PST - 10 comments
Cookie delivery in Miami right now?
Is there a way I can have cookies from somewhere delivered ASAP to a house in Coral Gables, Florida? [more inside]
posted by Lutoslawski at 10:36 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Lutoslawski at 10:36 AM PST - 11 comments
Ulocked Android phone with QUERTY keyboard?
Are there any newer phones that use the Android operating system (Jelly bean or later) that also are both available unlocked and that have a physical QUERTY keyboard? Shopping for a blind person who is trying to find easier ways to send text messages, but doesn't want a full-time plan as he is out of the country half the year.
Tattoo around a scar
I have never once considered getting a tattoo, until now. I have a fairly large scar just below the belt line on my back, just above the 'ol butt cheek. I had a bone graft when I was a teenager, and have been used to this scar peeking out on my back when I wear shorts in the summer, etc. 20 years later, and now I've thought about getting a tattoo around it- something whimsical, snarky, funny, not sure. [more inside]
How much of the content on Youtube is "stolen"?
I am trying to locate studies or cited figures that estimate how much of the content on Youtube is posted without permission or attribution. [more inside]
How do I get my 6 year old son to sleep in his own bed?
My son has been sleeping in my bed since he was a tiny infant. He's nearly six now. So how can I gently and kindly get him to sleep in his own bed, in his own room? A few more pertinent details follow below. [more inside]
I've Run Out Of Damn Shoes TO Drop
After a solid 6-year stretch of one-thing-after-another bad luck, things are finally turning around - but I am still automatically reacting as if another disaster is impending, when there's no sign one is. Help snap me out of it? [more inside]
It's a bad time...but when is it ever a good time?
I'm coming to realize that my partner is seriously abusing alcohol (and being cavalier about other substances) just as he's embarking on an existential crisis following a messy legal situation (finalizing a divorce that's 2+ years in the making). The relationship needs work; he needs work; hell, I might need work; but he's got a lot on his plate and I can't really pile on. I have kind of lost sight of what is reasonable here, and could use some perspective. [more inside]
Epic homebrewing fail
I've got a very weak and too tart berry beer in primary/secondary. I'd like to avoid tossing it, but as it stands, this stuff is not drinkable. Can you help me fix it? [more inside]
ID of small black bug?
My friend saw a small black bug in her apartment maybe 1/4-inch long. It was long rather than round and moved fairly slowly and low to the ground. She said it didn't look like a roach (lacked the long antenna, high speed, flat body), beetle (didn't have the segmented structure or mandibles), termite, silverfish or house centipede. What could it have been? No photo, unfortunately.
A Microsoft Access Class
At work, I have been deemed the person in my group who should learn Microsoft Access. I am allowed to take a class. Can anyone recommend a good Microsoft Access class in NYC? [more inside]
Whitewashing a sociopath's actions
My BIL is a sociopath. We don't deal with him. But the parents still do. Therein lies the problem... [more inside]
posted by lost_lettuce at 8:48 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by lost_lettuce at 8:48 AM PST - 24 comments
Fantasy Disguised as General Fiction
Looking for fantasy books hiding out in the non-genre section of the bookstore. [more inside]
posted by xenization at 8:39 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by xenization at 8:39 AM PST - 27 comments
Rubber wood chips - are they truly non-toxic?
My daughter's school uses rubber wood chips on the playground. She comes home with her clothes smeared with black "soot" from those rubber wood chips. Is this stuff possibly harming the health of the children who are playing in it? [more inside]
Hummingbirds are Go
Why won't hummingbirds come to our backyard? [more inside]
posted by the webmistress at 8:09 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by the webmistress at 8:09 AM PST - 12 comments
Is New Zealand cake flour the same as American all-purpose flour?
I'm working with a baker in New Zealand whose recipe calls for plain old "flour," though she says it's called cake flour there. To confirm this, I did some Googling, but I can only find New Zealanders looking for (American?) cake flour, which is confusing. I know cake flour in the US is a totally different thing than all-purpose. Can anyone tell me if the flour labeled "cake flour" you buy in New Zealand is the same as plain all-purpose flour in the USA?
posted by chowflap at 7:43 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by chowflap at 7:43 AM PST - 15 comments
Why would a potential Craigslist landlord ask for my birthday?
Is there a scam I'm not aware of, or any reason why I shouldn't tell this person my birthday? I can't think of why I shouldn't, but it just seems a little strange. I would ask them why they want the info, but don't want to come across as strange, in case this is a normal thing. [more inside]
Suggestions for unusual, exciting condiments
I enjoy foods that have a great deal of flavor. But I'm getting tired of the standard condiments you're likely to find in North America (like ketchup, mustard, Sriracha, Tabasco, salsa, or mango pickle). What are some new condiments for me to try? [more inside]
posted by akk2014 at 7:38 AM PST - 62 comments
posted by akk2014 at 7:38 AM PST - 62 comments
Personal financial help for student loans and taxes?
I need some financial planning / loan help.
I graduated from grad school a year ago, and I'm getting my life together. I'm doing well professionally, juggling freelance gigs -- this doesn't necessarily mean I'm paid well, but I'm happy and fulfilled with what I'm doing. But my personal finances are a total wreck, and I need a professional to help. Who should I be looking for? [more inside]
Introduction to Episode Skipping
I don't have a lot of TV watching time nowadays, so I'm behind on everything. I've only now caught up on the first three seasons of "Community." Having heard that the Dan-Harmonless season 4 was a disappointment, I plan to just skip ahead to season 5. Before I do, are there any Season 4 episodes that I should make a point of watching -- either because they are up there in quality with the first three seasons, or because they set up crucial plot points for the fifth? [more inside]
Work problem got moved to collegue, feel bad about it.
I wasn't happy with my work-issued laptop and mentioned this to my supervisor. He announced a switch, my collegue would get my laptop and I would get her new one, which is due to arrive next week. She is not happy with it either, but didn't protest. I feel bad about it. What to do? [more inside]
Adding depth to "old-school" RPGing
Does anyone have any tips for adding some more modern narrative tricks to old school gaming, while maintaining the "it's just fun" feel? [more inside]
Best practices for creating tutorials and FAQs
I work for a small web hosting company and have been tasked with creating user tutorials and a general FAQ section. Please give me your best resources, tips, and ideas on how to best go about doing this. [more inside]
posted by jammy at 5:43 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jammy at 5:43 AM PST - 11 comments
How do stop Gmail/Mail from sending emails to a listserv to junk?
I have a Gmail account, and I use Mail. I am signed up to a listserv. I get most of the emails sent to this listserv in my inbox, but some of them get spam-filtered and sent straight to junk. [more inside]
posted by dumdidumdum at 3:07 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by dumdidumdum at 3:07 AM PST - 6 comments
Finding Computer Chess Analysis
When I was little I had a version of Chessmaster on a Windows computer, and the feature I found the most fascinating was that you could have the program analyze an entire game and the moves in it. [more inside]
Anyone have experience with Minecraft Realms?
I'm considering purchasing Minecraft Realms for my sons and their friends, but I have a few reservations. Looking for tales from early adopters. [more inside]
posted by digitalprimate at 1:53 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 1:53 AM PST - 7 comments
Recording Audio from a Theatre Show
We run a small improv theatre company. Potential sponsors and clients always ask about videos of our shows, so we're looking into recording our shows. We're okay on the video side but we can't get good quality audio. What kind of setup should we use? [more inside]
Dealing with parental pressures to find a job
I recently graduated, but I'm already feeling pressure to find a job now or else be bombarded with my mom's criticism. How should I deal with this until I get work? [more inside]
Classic psychiatric texts?
I'd like to get my step-mother a gift for her 50th birthday - we're not particularly close, but I'd like to make a nice gesture. She's a psychiatrist, and a lot of her identity is bound up in that, so I'm thinking some kind of classic psychiatric text in a nice edition would be appreciated, but I don't know where to start. Can spend up to $200 or so. Any suggestions?
posted by nicolas léonard sadi carnot at 12:10 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by nicolas léonard sadi carnot at 12:10 AM PST - 7 comments
June 17
should I own this car pre or post- interstate move?
I am 24 and about to be a car owner. Next month I am moving from Utah to Indiana alone with the car, which is currently owned by mother. We don't know whether I should be given the title, have the car registered in my name and get an independent insurance policy in Utah before I go, or leave everything in my mother's name until I get to Indiana. [more inside]
Am I in the wrong or is this something I should complain about?
Today I was shopping at Walmart and was accused of coupon fraud and stealing merchandise while using valid manufacturer's coupons. I feel as though the way I was treated was unacceptable, but I'm not sure if I'm the one in the wrong or not. [more inside]
The Name as Subject Line==Severe Stuff convention: how did it start?
So I've noticed a convention that using someone's name--and only their name--as the subject line in the email message means that something pretty severe has happened to them. Like, if Jane Bloggs had a healthy baby, the subject line would be something like "Jane had a baby!", but if the subject line was just "Jane" or "Jane Bloggs" or "Aunt Jane" (assuming I'm Jane's nephew) then either Jane or her baby or both would be in the (N)ICU or more likely the morgue. I'm wondering where this started. Any help?
posted by tellumo at 9:45 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by tellumo at 9:45 PM PST - 18 comments
What animals are making these vocalizations?
I live in Deerfield, MA, USA. These sounds are coming from a tree across the street. Both the whimpering-pup sounds and the louder squeals/screeches are coming from the same place. Any idea who is making these sounds?
posted by Camofrog at 9:15 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Camofrog at 9:15 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for NYC-based activities for recently retired grandmother
My grandmother is 89, and only retired in the last year. Since she's retired, she hasn't been doing much, and I'm worried about how she'll do over the next few years if she doesn't stay busy. I'd like to make a list of things she could be doing in NYC, where she lives, to stay active. She has some very specific needs and interests, though, and can be a bit ornery, so I'm hoping you can help me work within her limitations. [more inside]
posted by violetish at 8:35 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by violetish at 8:35 PM PST - 14 comments
Where to get algebraic help?
I am working through the mooculus calculus one mooc as a refresher (which I clearly need), and there is one thing I have run across that I just don't see. Can you help me figure out what is going on, and what I can do to work out future problems? [more inside]
How can I find out if I was used as a case study at a medical conference
I'd like to find out if my surgery/medical condition has been presented at conferences. [more inside]
posted by futz at 7:17 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by futz at 7:17 PM PST - 16 comments
Library books (and e-books) vs. physical copies of books for children
What are the pros and cons of buying physical books vs. relying primarily on library books from the point of view of exposing one's future children to a wide variety of books? [more inside]
posted by peacheater at 6:55 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by peacheater at 6:55 PM PST - 18 comments
How can I turn a text file into a bunch of images using imagemagick?
Say I have a text file with short lines of text (e.g. License plate numbers or radio call letters). I'd like to use imagemagick to convert this text file to a folder full of images of said text, with each line from the text file being a separate image. Preferably, I'd like the output to be named with the content. What are the magic command-line words to make this happen? [more inside]
posted by brentajones at 6:50 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by brentajones at 6:50 PM PST - 4 comments
Where to find casual men's clothes for the office?
My company just moved from business casual to casual. Most of my clothes are business casual and I'd like to upgrade my wardrobe (on a reasonable budget) to dress sharp in a casual (jeans ok, shorts not) environment. I'm 30 in middle management so looking for something contemporary, but not cutting edge that would look sharp in a big, conservative Midwest company.
Can you point me to online resources to help find outfits that look good and are reasonably priced? Thanks in advance!
Not happy with teeth after braces. What should I do?
I had both invisalign and braces because invisalign did not correct all of the problems, especially the 2 upper front teeth so I had to wear braces for about 3 months. I was done with braces about 2 months ago and I've been wearing a set of retainers every night. I've noticed that my teeth tend to shift pretty quickly that it feels tight when I put on my retainer every night. Also, there's a tiny gap between 1 of the front teeth and the retainer. It's almost as if the tooth cannot touch the retainer. Is that normal? This is a picture of how my teeth look currently. They do not look bad but one of the upper front teeth isn't very straight and it bothers me. Those of you who have had experience with braces, what do you think I should do? If I go back to the orthodontist, is it likely that I will be charged?
Thank you for your time!
Football Game like Sensible World of Soccer 97
I recently read this article which reminded me what an awesome game SWOS 97 was, particularly the football management side of it. My friends and I used to spend AGES playing this game. Is there a modern equivalent, or a way I can play SWOS with updated teams? [more inside]
TV Shows/Movies About Grad School
Are there any TV series or films with a college setting where the main characters are graduate students? Difficulty: No law schools or medical schools. Thanks for any tips!
Finding it difficult to imagine ending cycles of self-sabotage
I keep falling into cycles of self-sabotage, with a few complicating factors. Recent academic news feels like its biggest manifestation - advice on this, and the possibility of moving past this when i go into employment. Apologies for the long read. [more inside]
Why do I have three electricity meters? And how to choose a provider?
I just moved into a new house (in Sydney). We have three old fashioned looking electricity meters in the meter box. Why are there three? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 4:52 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by lollusc at 4:52 PM PST - 8 comments
A tinder issue
This feels like a very strange question to ask as I can't figure out if the issue is technical or personal. I will try to explain, however. [more inside]
Help us move to Europe.
My partner and I are finally in a position where we can seriously work towards relocating from the US to Europe (specifically Germany). Help us make this a reality. [more inside]
Help me do something nice for my coworker, whose beloved pet is dying
One of my favorite colleagues has a cat, and it is dying. She is just waiting on tests to come back from the vet so they can decide if palliative care is an option or not. I'd like to do something nice to let her know that I'm thinking of her, but need ideas that won't memorialize me as "That girl who did that crazy thing in a misguided attempt to nice." Also looking for a sanity check - if this is a bad idea, please say so (and why). [more inside]
posted by schroedingersgirl at 3:34 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by schroedingersgirl at 3:34 PM PST - 31 comments
Safe to go below BMR on diet?
I've been cutting back on calories since late December, given the weight gain I've faced over the past year. I am still gaining weight. How low can I go? [more inside]
I need to be my own Chinese wall
I just received a master's degree and am looking to move into the technical field I trained for. Over the years, I have increased my profile in the creative fields I pursue part-time (writing, theatre, etc). This poses a challenge to my "by day" career, which sustains my creative work, and the new direction I want to take. How do I separate my professional identities so that they don't conflict, and interfere with my goals? Yadda yadda snowflake after the cut. [more inside]
posted by mitschlag at 3:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mitschlag at 3:04 PM PST - 6 comments
Can anyone identify this... Thing?
One of the kiddos in my Cousin's class found this:
rando nature doodad
Data points - she is located in Iowa. She describes it as being squishy and the white bit feels kind of like a hard boiled egg.
Any ideas?
How do they issue parking tickets so fast?
Every time I get a parking ticket, its issued within minutes of the meter expiring. Most of the meters can be paid by mobile phone, and the county also recently installed "smart meters".
If they can send me a notification that my meter is going to expire, they can also send one to a local meter watcher. But do they?
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 1:39 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 1:39 PM PST - 10 comments
Best way to get audio from youtube videos into a Sony Walkman?
I just received a Sony Walkman NWZ-W262 for my birthday. I am psyched about filling it up with music and using it at the gym.
I'd love to transfer some music from my own CD's, but most of them are in storage. I don't have money to pay for new music. What I do have is a bunch of youtube videos saved whose audio I'd love to use for workouts. [more inside]
posted by mysterious_stranger at 1:38 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by mysterious_stranger at 1:38 PM PST - 7 comments
Steer compost and vegetable gardens
I asked this question a couple weeks ago. Nothing is growing, although I have been watering faithfully every day. The tomato starts don't look particularly happy either, and the dill, oregano, and pepper starts have died (though the basil, sage, and cilantro look ok). [more inside]
Are you efficient, Switzerland?
I have found an airfare deal that I am happy with that involves going through Zurich. Potentially short layover in Zurich. From what I can gather, the airport at Zurich is a breeze for short flight connections but the sources of that information are a little outdated. Will this be enough time? [more inside]
Resources to better understand Einstein's Theory of Relativity
I'm seeking recommendations for documentaries or books that offer more than a layman's explanation of Einstein's Theory of Relativity, but don't require advanced studies in astrophysics to comprehend. [more inside]
I don't want to send an actual baby to kindergarten
Let's say I have a five year-old daughterabout to start kindergarten in the fall. She's whipsmart, hilarious, kind, and generally awesome. Let's add, though, that she's overly babyish, timid, prone to crying over the smallest stuff, and lagging behind her peers in basic coordination/athletic things. She doesn't run well. Even with training wheels, she's a nervous wreck on her bike, constantly braking because she's "going too fast" (even as the reality is, she could walk faster.) She's prone to dramatically declarations of fear about pretty much everything. If you toss her even the softest Nerf ball, she'll cover her face and possibly shriek. Despite all of her finer points, her crying, her mewling, her uncoordination, and her babytalk are causing her peers to tease her. And as her parents, we want to help.
We want to help her get the sort of confidence and basic physicality that will help her tackle new challenges without tears and panic and play better with kids her own age. What are some things we could do with her to get to kind of--if you'll pardon me making up a word--de-infantilize?
Okay, now remember all of those ideas you just had for me, but here's one more thing:
I don't have a daughter. I have a son. And all of the above describes him. [more inside]
posted by DirtyOldTown at 12:35 PM PST - 84 comments
posted by DirtyOldTown at 12:35 PM PST - 84 comments
On transitioning to the 'alien' corporate world...
My background is touchy feely/health based. I've been developing a business idea that has relevance to the corporate world and could offer this in a training/advisory type capacity. I've been advised to start meeting with representatives of organisations to explain how I could help them. How do I do a good job of this? [more inside]
Healthy Eating for the Anti-Foodie
I need some recommendations on how to eat healthy for the people that genuinely do not like to or have any interest in cooking. I work a lot and I have no interest spending the free time that I do have cooking. I eat out almost every meal and the meals that I do eat at home are usually microwave meals. When you eat out a lot, it can be difficult to find quick healthy options. I am trying to lose a few lbs and probably could stand to eat a little healthier. I am hoping to get some recommendations on how to eat healthy without the usual 'just cook it, it only takes X minutes' or 'its really easy' comments. Not only am I cooking-adverse, the grocery store may be one of my least favorite places. Has anyone tried one of those companies that gives you a weeks worth of food at a time (do you have to cook the food?)? If it is helpful, I am a single guy in my early-thirties living in Georgia. Any thoughts or recommendations would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Nonviolent sff: where is it?
Please recommend to me any science fiction/fantasy novels (maybe TV shows as well) that are well written, interesting, and essentially nonviolent. "Completely violence-free" isn't necessary. I'm particularly looking for novels aimed at adults that don't rely on combat scenes to advance the narrative, generate/resolve tension, or provide Crowning Moments of Awesome.* [more inside]
posted by wintersweet at 12:22 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by wintersweet at 12:22 PM PST - 42 comments
Hardy fast growing ground cover safe for chicken?
I'm looking for hardy fast growing ground cover suggestions that are chicken friendly [more inside]
posted by 7life at 11:49 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by 7life at 11:49 AM PST - 5 comments
How to update my accounts quickly with less tedium?
Credit card stolen -- How to update my accounts quickly with less tedium? [more inside]
UK leasehold purchase: the demise and our right to park.
(YNML) We're purchasing a leasehold property in the UK. The lease for this property says "The Demise hereinbefore contained includes the following rights:- ... and the exclusive use of the parking space numbered 1 shown hatched red on the plan ...". Our solicitor has been saying that 'as the right is exclusive this does not form a legal right under common law and as such may be denied by subsequent Landlords.' I don't understand why this is an issue, and as it's held up our move, I would like to understand. Although I've asked my solicitor, I suspect Mefites can give me a clearer answer! More details inside... [more inside]
How do I stop taking others' decisions as an indictment of my own?
I seem to have this problem where I will get worked up, disappointed, upset, and distressed--a combination of all four--whenever someone makes a decision that is wholly unrelated to me but is a different one than I would have made. It has moved beyond someone being wrong on the Internet over the past few years and is really starting to drive me bonkers. Do you, denizens of the green, have any advice for changing my behavior? [more inside]
What are these?
My boss wanted me to throw these away but I have a feeling they might be useful to someone so I want to put them on craigslist instead. Does anyone know what they are / what they are called? They were components of a speaker system, I believe.
Aw, bless.
People tend to think of me as cute, sweet, and other infantilising adjectives. I feel that this is a problem at work. How can I amend my behaviour and appearance to be less cute and more serious? [more inside]
posted by sockandawe at 10:52 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by sockandawe at 10:52 AM PST - 37 comments
Boss is treating me like his personal assistant - how to deal?
I'm a woman who works in a very male-dominated profession as a specialist in a scientific/engineering discipline. In my workplace, about 95% of the people with my role are men, and most of the women there besides me are admin. However, there is a huge shortage of admin support and we end up doing most of our own admin ourselves. My boss, though, seems to think he has found a "solution" to this - he just asks me to do his admin. And then he gets annoyed with me if I don't do it. [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 10:29 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by hazyjane at 10:29 AM PST - 42 comments
There's a hole in my siding, Dear Liza, Dear Liza
I drove by my rental property today and it appears that my idiot tenant has backed into the front of the house within the last few weeks. The damage looks like this, with the damaged area measuring about a foot tall at its longest point. Is this an appropriate DIY project for someone with only basic levels of handiness, and if not, what professional do I call? [more inside]
Book about Italian apprentice making fountain for stray cats.
Ok, I could have sworn I read this book multiple times when I was a kid, but nobody seems to remember it exists including my cat-loving, children's literature professor mom who gave it to me. I'll try to list every thing I can remember about it in the extended explanation. To summarize, it takes place in an Italian town where a young-fountain-making apprentice wants to make his own fountain so that all the stray cats around him will have some place to drink. As he is poor, he cobbles together the material from things he can find, and in the end I do believe he ends up making the fountain. My mom and the internet don't seem to remember this book, but I think it did exist. Maybe you guys will come up with something. [more inside]
posted by KinoAndHermes at 9:34 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by KinoAndHermes at 9:34 AM PST - 6 comments
Boneless short ribs... to BBQ and beyond
Meatfilter: I just picked up a bunch of boneless beef short ribs. No idea what to do with them besides slow roasting in barbecue sauce - which would be fine for me. But what other recipes would you suggest that would make people who are committed medium-rare grilled steak lovers happy? Cooking ability moderate, added difficulty: no dairy ingredients, not a big fan of ketchup or mustard.
DC temp work recommendations
Finding myself in financial straits in Washington D.C. Looking for current recommendations for administrative temp work in the D.C. area. [more inside]
posted by warm_planet at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by warm_planet at 9:32 AM PST - 6 comments
EMG on wrong side?
The pinky and ring fingers on both my hands have numbness, tingling, very mild pain, or weakness typical of ulnar nerve compression. I've recently had my first EMG with needles, but when sticking the hand, the doctor stuck needles only near the thumb and index finger. Does it make any sense that they would test nerves only on the opposite side of the hand that has problems? [more inside]
To be there, or not to be there?
Ex wants to pick up room full of stuff this Saturday. I don't want to be there. Is that cool? [more inside]
How do you work with complex vector files?
I'm trying to make a 24x36" poster from some Excel tables. They're somewhat complex -- half-finished example here (Flickr link). I exported PDFs from Excel and used Inkscape to arrange them. But Inkscape can't handle this much stuff at one time without becoming unusably slow. How can I arrange the layout while keeping everything vector? [more inside]
posted by hjo3 at 8:58 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by hjo3 at 8:58 AM PST - 5 comments
Anyone have experience with kinesthetic desks for kids?
I'm considering investing in some kinesthetic desks for classrooms in my middle school. Anyone have any experience using these in a classroom context for middle school-age students? [more inside]
What forum do U.S. expat mefite's use most on the internet?
I'm looking for THE forum for peeps like me (mid-30s, freelancing creative professional, not a backpacker) making a go of settling down overseas. I figured the hive must know the good sites with relevant info. [more inside]
posted by talljamal at 8:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by talljamal at 8:49 AM PST - 6 comments
How to de-stink our rental deck?
Because of Reasons, Mr. Blues and I rented an apartment sight-unseen. We moved in last week. It is generally quite nice, but the balcony/deck absolutely reeks of urine. Evidently a previous tenant seriously neglected her dogs (and potentially cats? it smells like cat pee to me) and they used the balcony as a bathroom. It absolutely reeks. How can we and or the management company fix this? [more inside]
posted by charmcityblues at 8:48 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by charmcityblues at 8:48 AM PST - 18 comments
How to find the Really Great AA Meetings?
Is there a way to find AA meetings with consistently good speakers or other helpful aspects? [more inside]
posted by ldthomps at 8:48 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by ldthomps at 8:48 AM PST - 4 comments
Breakup - Difficulty: Hard
My S.O. and I broke over a week ago and agreed that she would move out. But.. we're on week two now and she's still here. [more inside]
What's good at Subway?
A Subway franchise has opened right across the hall from my office. I haven't been to a Subway in years, and am not a huge fan, but the convenience and cost angles are compelling. So what do I get? [more inside]
posted by MrMoonPie at 8:26 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by MrMoonPie at 8:26 AM PST - 42 comments
Help me find an Online Time-Keeping Solution for my office?!
I am looking for a good online time keeping solution for my office staff. Basic, clocking in and out and weekly time cards. So many online, can't figure out which one is the most affordable and reliable. Any suggestions? (more inside) [more inside]
Skin care for a man who does not really like lotiony things
I am nearing 40, but my skin is in pretty good condition. My regimen to date: wash face in shower daily, and also wash with bar soap as needed. I'd like to make sure I take good care of my face in my coming fifth decade and beyond, perhaps with unguents, emollients, and tinctures! Do you have recommendations? Need not be overly manly, but preferably not particularly greasy. [more inside]
Mechanical Turk and the IRB
I'm planning to use Amazon's Mechanical Turk to perform a survey, but I'm a bit confused about how to work this into my IRB application. [more inside]
Need Some Really Incredible and Creative Apps for ios 6.1
Looking for some of the most impossibly interesting and creative apps for iPad 1. Top of the line and free. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 6:54 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by watercarrier at 6:54 AM PST - 5 comments
How do I get my contractor to finish the renovation job I paid him for?
Almost three months ago, I hired a friend of mine to do about $18k worth of renovations to my condo, $4k of which is labour. However, I made the mistake of paying him in advance, and after I paid the last instalment, he started making excuses for why he couldn't arrive on the site to finish the work (it's about 90% done). The project, originally estimated at two or three weeks, is now two months behind schedule. [more inside]
posted by xekul at 6:49 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by xekul at 6:49 AM PST - 12 comments
The twins are coming!
My wife is pregnant with twins who are due in November. We currently have a boy who will be two at the end of July. We know nothing about managing new babies with a toddler, especially twins. How did you manage your (breastfed) twins, particularly if you had a toddler in the house. What did you learn that you wish you had known at the outset, even just in relation to a new baby and a toddler? What worked best for you for developing schedules and splitting duties? Do you have any recommendations for twin specific how-to books?
looking for romantic songs in funny movies
For our 10th anniversary, I'd like to present movie buff Gnik Nus with a list of sweet songs sung by the actors in modern (say, the last 30ish years) comedy movies. So far I've come up with "Tonight You Belong To Me" from The Jerk, "I Was Born To Love You" by Chevy Chase in Caddyshack, and "I Wanna Grow Old With You" by Adam Sandler, and Steve Buscemi singing 'This Much Is True" in The Wedding Singer. Bonus points for sweet moments and then something funny happens, like when Bernadette Peters pulls out the trombone while they're softly singing on the beach.
posted by Neeuq Nus at 4:35 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Neeuq Nus at 4:35 AM PST - 20 comments
Women's socks. Difficulty level: Canada.
A lot of my socks (plain black, mid-rise/crew, breathable) are getting thin or holey. I looked at previous women's socks questions on AskMe, and they recommended brands that don't ship to Canada (Uniqlo, Gold Toe, Smartwool, etc.) and can't be found in my city (Ottawa). What are the best women's appropriate-for-office-work socks I can get in Canada? [more inside]
posted by flibbertigibbet at 4:07 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by flibbertigibbet at 4:07 AM PST - 13 comments
Worth it to take a big company to small claims?
I would like to take Sephora.com to small claims court. Is this worth my time and do I even have a case? [more inside]
June 16
Another Grandparent's coded ramblings
I read news coverage about metafilter members helping to solve the "Decoding Cancer-addled Ramblings" and thought I should give it a shot for coded messages we found in my Grandfather's posessions after his passing. Although my Grandfather did not have cancer and was of sound mind at the time these documents were sent (circa 1921), he and his brother sent some coded messages to one another for some reason. My family has tried to figure out the messages, but to no avail. Some think the coding was simply used to save money on the cablegrams/telegraphs, others think it was because the text was being sent to Germany during WWII time frame, and others think it was because there was some suspicion about co-workers who may try to access or read the cablegrams/telegraphs. [more inside]
accommodation in Oregon
We will be visiting Oregon and will be staying for 1 week in Eugene (18-24th July). We're looking for short term accommodation, preferably rent a house. Can you recommend any places or sites where these things are listed? [more inside]
Help me ride my new bike
Cyclists of MeFi: I recently acquired a lovely new ride but wow, is it ever different from my daily commuter. Help me get used to drop bars and downtube shifters. [more inside]
posted by avocet at 9:05 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by avocet at 9:05 PM PST - 25 comments
Free shipping in Australia?
Circumstances being what they are, online shopping is increasingly attractive to me (as opposed in in-the-flesh purchases). However, I hate to pay for shipping. Could you recommend some companies/brands that offer free shipping to Melbourne, Australia? [more inside]
Help tracking down originating IP of a Gmail address.
Recently, a friend's mother received a few emails from someone with a Gmail address. The emails were sent to my friend's mother as well at least a hundred of her professional colleagues. The problem is that the emails included a (faked) pornographic image that is supposed to be of my friend's mom. What steps should my friend's mother take to do something about this? [more inside]
posted by juliebug at 8:07 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by juliebug at 8:07 PM PST - 10 comments
Should I work for the ultra-wealthy?
I have a job offer to work for an ultra-high-end residential design company. I am proudly middle class, (sort of on the Robert Reich "inequality for all" side of things) and I am having uncomfortable, knee-jerk reactions to the work this firm does - very non-green homes for the 1%. However, it's a well-paying job, and after three years in a job being underemployed at 30% less pay, and getting close to being broke, I could really use the money. How do I get my head in the right place to take this job? [more inside]
Spouse has "condition" or does not?
Long Story not soo Short. Spouse had long history of sinus infections - always causing time off from work - lots of antibiotics prescribed. This past early spring Dr convinced spouse to have sinus surgery and that spouse would be back to normal in like two weeks. After surgery recovery did not go well and in addition to add'l sinus infections that needed more antibiotics spouse was also treated a couple of times with prednisone (nasal sprays, etc.). Things really never really improved - after a few weeks started experiencing shortness of breath and chest tightness. This was not at all present before surgery. Battery of tests have been performed - everything from lung clot to asthma to now cardiomyopathy have been tossed around. And lots of tests have been performed with lots of specialists. It has now been three months and we are no closer to finding out root cause. [more inside]
Where can I hire a formal dress in Sydney, with in-person fitting?
Surprise! I'm going to a black tie event on Saturday night. I have nothing to wear and therefore need to hire a dress. Everything I can find on Google so far is an online order. I would prefer a brick and mortar building where I can try on someone's inventory of dresses; I've done this before in other countries so I know it's A Thing. Where can I do this in Sydney? [more inside]
posted by olinerd at 7:33 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by olinerd at 7:33 PM PST - 5 comments
How to deal with a really damp house.
There is a lake under my house and we have a very serious damp issue. Thank goodness I don't own it but while we house hunt (to buy), we have to live with it. Looking for ways to cope. [more inside]
De-stinking clothes without a washing machine
I have a new shirt that smells terrible. Difficulty level: no washing machine. [more inside]
posted by orrnyereg at 6:00 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by orrnyereg at 6:00 PM PST - 16 comments
Cosmos - "The Clean Room" Clarification Question about Age of the Earth.
My wife and I just watched the seventh episode of Cosmos called "The Clean Room" which tells us (among other things) about how Clair Patterson determined the age of the Earth. The episode explains Patterson used meteorite fragments, such as those from the Canyon Diablo crater, because they were assumed to be leftovers from the creation of the solar system. My question is one of clarification; specifically, how they could be sure that assumption was correct? [more inside]
Pretty hairstyles that stay out of your eyes but also stay put
I’m looking for ideas for pretty things to do with my hair so that it’s mostly down but stays put and doesn’t get in my eyes during physical activity. I usually use something like a Hipsy headband for this purpose, but I would love something a bit more interesting and/or sophisticated. [more inside]
posted by lettersoflead at 4:59 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by lettersoflead at 4:59 PM PST - 10 comments
Surely backpack technology has progressed alongside the laptop?
I'm looking for a men's backpack or messenger bag that exists at some magic intersection of lightweight and strong/durable. This is for daily commuting, often by foot, in New York City. My flashy new devices are impossibly light, and I'm looking for a bag that won't add unnecessary bulk when I carry some or all of them with me. [more inside]
posted by scarylarry at 4:44 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by scarylarry at 4:44 PM PST - 12 comments
Why won't this company work in an abortion clinic?
I was just offered a job as an apprentice plumber in a small shop, but they have a curious rule in their policies and procedures that I'd like to know more about: "Do not enter/work in an abortion clinic". [more inside]
Phone "interview" with prospective subordinates
As part of the interview process for a new job, I'll be speaking with two staff members I'd be supervising. Help me figure out the best way to approach it? [more inside]
Why are drinkers so determined to get non-drinkers drinking?
I occasionally have to work-related social events where there is huge pressure to drink alcohol. I am trying to understand where this pressure comes from. [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 3:41 PM PST - 65 comments
posted by JoannaC at 3:41 PM PST - 65 comments
Mention Bad credit on rental application?
Due to reasons that don't matter, I did not pay my college tuition from my first college at the time. In October I paid off the entire $9000 balance at once. I am filling out rental applications (going to grad school). Do I mention in the additional information why I likely have a sucky credit score (I do not know my score, I know it's on my report though)? Or do I not draw anymore attention to it and just hope beyond hope?
posted by Aranquis at 3:02 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Aranquis at 3:02 PM PST - 11 comments
Help me find this John Stockton poster and create a magical moment!
I need this poster from allposters.com (I think?) of John Stockton shooting a basket while X Basketball player tries to block him. It's shot from behind from the other end of the court and a very famous picture... X Basketball player is Charles Barkley I think??? Is that a thing? Can you help me a) find this poster and b) get it shipped to me this week. Thank you very much.
Klaus Schulze vs Jean Michel Jarre
Klaus Schulze vs Jean Michel Jarre - so why is Jarre well known?
My question is why Schulze has more than 40 albums to his name (according to the web) or many more than Jarre at least, but is still the lesser known of the two. I only discovered Schulze recently, but I love his music so far from several different albums. I guess this is a question on musical history. [more inside]
Trying to find Neurofeedback provider in Boston for ADD I have insurance
I was doing Neurofeedback for ADD in Chicago. I worked with some therapists, and they gave me neurofeedback but charged it under mental health services, that way my insurance covered it .
So I am in Boston now, in graduate school, and wow, my ADD is really kicking in! lol, I am really against medication and am trying like heck to find a provider that might be able to see me under my prior arrangement, so a person who is at the least a LSW who can bill my insurance, so that I do not have to pay out of pocket, it is just too cost-prohibitive for me. I have not had much luck, so I thought I might reach out to you Hivemind, see if you know anyone, or have any creative ideas for me.
Perhaps there is someone in the area that is working on their eeg certification, not sure, but hopefully you might have some ideas and pointers for me. I just wish this service was covered by insurance already- uggh.
Has anyone indexed a book lately and can recommend a process?
Any advice on indexing a pdf and making an index in Word? [more inside]
posted by quixotictic at 2:31 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by quixotictic at 2:31 PM PST - 7 comments
Moving cross country together without too many tears
I'll be moving with my boyfriend to a new city in a few months. It'll be the first time either of us have lived with a partner, or with each other, or in this new city. We know it's going to be stressful, but how can we make it less so? [more inside]
posted by good day merlock at 2:03 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by good day merlock at 2:03 PM PST - 28 comments
Font help?
I'm at a loss - here is a rough sketch that I want to create in Photoshop but I just can't decide on a lovely font to use? My inspiration came from these images, here, and here. I know those were handlettered but font lovers, what do you recommend? We will be using Cinzel Regular as the primary font on the wedding invitations.
posted by xicana63 at 1:59 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by xicana63 at 1:59 PM PST - 9 comments
Offline task time tracker, stopwatch, and alarm
Hi, I was wondering if you folks know of any applications that will track the time you spend on different tasks? [more inside]
posted by The ____ of Justice at 1:55 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by The ____ of Justice at 1:55 PM PST - 2 comments
Test for significant change from a menu of choices over time.
A large group of people are asked to choose exactly one option out of 8 options, A B C D E F G H. A year later this is repeated. How to test for significance? [more inside]
Nice car stranger, can I interview you about it?
I'd like to do a series of documentary vignettes about people with interesting cars. What's the best and least creepy way to get the owner of a car I see on the road or in a parking lot to agree to an interview? Creative suggestions encouraged. [more inside]
posted by hamsterdam at 1:38 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by hamsterdam at 1:38 PM PST - 20 comments
Resources for Nonprofit Program Evaluation
What resources are available for nonprofit program evaluation? If you have been involved in this kind of work, what resources have been particularly useful to you? [more inside]
posted by kortez at 12:42 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by kortez at 12:42 PM PST - 6 comments
Pediatric surgery - advice on preparing and helping the child
My 2 1/2 year old son will be having lung surgery next month and I'm looking for suggestions on how to help him cope during his inpatient stay. Also, on managing parental pre-surgery anxiety. [more inside]
How in the heck can I watch Oakland A's games live?
Haven't owned a TV ever since I got a projector, but now that I'm back in the US I'd like to catch Oakland A's games on local broadcast. How to do this as cheaply as possible? [more inside]
posted by allkindsoftime at 12:09 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by allkindsoftime at 12:09 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for lovely summer-time instrumentals
I'm looking for suggestions for light, airy, instrumentals that evoke feelings of peaceful, summer afternoons....and that doesn't fit into the all the other summer music questions, ha! [more inside]
posted by barchan at 12:00 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by barchan at 12:00 PM PST - 12 comments
Real estate agent recommendations in Manhattan/NYC?
We're thinking seriously about buying a place in Manhattan (and possibly Brooklyn). We have a fairly unique split search (one strand of which is focused on looking for a place that will lower our costs, and the other strand of which is focused on finding a place that might increase our costs a little bit). We need recommendations for honest, intelligent, and very capable real estate agents to help. [more inside]
Bruised feeling on abdomen, traveling in a few days. Should I worry?
In a few days, I'm going on a several-week trip to Europe. Yesterday I noticed a small (quarter-sized) area to the right of my bellybutton that feels bruised, but has no mark. It doesn't hurt unless I press on it, and then it feels like a bruise. I figure if I had appendicitis or something I'd be in a lot more pain. Should I be worried about this at all?
Short Story set in developing country- protagonist is white Western male
[ShortStoryFilter]: Sort of canonical (I'm sure I read it in junior high school in a collection) - unnamed Western tourist is in some village in unnamed developing country. Gets thirsty and asks for water from nearest hut- is given bucketfuls, and asks for more to douse himself. [SPOILER]: Later finds out that the only water supply in entire area comes from one faucet that drips tiny amounts and entire village waits in line for hours to fill one bucket. Ring any bells?
Gear For Just One Mix
I'm going to make a mix on CD to mail out to a bunch of friends. I need to know which software to use and how to make 70 copies of the disc. [more inside]
Hey, that worked out...
I'm looking for stories about 401k withdrawals made under the age of 55 that didn't lead to any regret. I'm asking this because the "sane" thing to do with 401k-s always involves NEVER touching that money until retirement. So has anyone gone off this path and found out that it actually helped them out in the long run? [more inside]
Should I go ahead and take this book offer? I'm broke and I need the $$$
I would love to hear from anyone who has experience with book publishing, either as an author, editor or publisher. [more inside]
Looking to buy used teeth
Where can I find cheap dentures? Wholesale rejects, dental school models, or used - any would be fine by me. [more inside]
Automatic Flickr Photo Books
Is there any service/script/app that will automagically take the photos from a date range in my Flickr photo stream and set them up to be a printed and bound book? The model for most tools is upload, review, print. I would like it to be capture all from Flickr, review, print. The first is an include model, the second is an exclude model. Since I take on the order of 500 pictures/year, the first model is onerous.
posted by plinth at 10:44 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by plinth at 10:44 AM PST - 3 comments
New York City Subletting and maybe leaving early?
What is an appropriate agreement to buy out an NYC apartment sublease in order to leave before it is through? [more inside]
North West Road Trip (what to do in Oregon)
I'm taking a leisurely drive from San Jose CA. to Tacoma WA. I have allowed myself 4 days for the ride up and 4 for the ride back. What should I see? [more inside]
posted by doctor_negative at 10:27 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by doctor_negative at 10:27 AM PST - 11 comments
Looking for a daily to-do list type program, I think.
I'm trying to find a calendar-based list program, where I can make a list for a given day in the future, and check off once things happen. One caveat, I need it to be viewable, but not edited by other people. ie: TeuxDeux.com would be perfect, but it doesn't allow for any read-only access. Standalone or web-based is fine, or if something like this can be done inside MS Outlook, that would work too. I looked at the Daily Task List in Outlook, but it doesn't seem to be able to work with shared calendars. Any ideas?
Where does 'verse originate?
Where does the elision of universe to 'verse originate? I know it from the television show Firefly (aired late 2002) and recently noticed it used casually in The Chronicles of Riddick (released mid-2004), but it seemed unlikely that the screenwriter would appropriate a bit of slang connected to someone else's failed project from barely a year earlier. It seems to me I have heard it again since, but I cannot recall where. I read very little sf these days; did both these I mention draw it from elsewhere?
posted by ricochet biscuit at 10:09 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by ricochet biscuit at 10:09 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I stop spending so much time on the Internet?
I feel like I'm addicted to the Internet. The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is go on my smartphone and Reddit for at least half an hour. I live at home and spend most of my day on the computer listening to music and surfing the web into the early hours of the morning. [more inside]
What is your favorite pizza dough recipe?
Pan or stone. Bonus points for not needing a mixer, only a bowl or breadmachine. Ready-set-go! Also...how do I get it from the peel to the pan?
posted by TomMelee at 10:06 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by TomMelee at 10:06 AM PST - 30 comments
Android App to Remind Me to Stretch?
I need an Android app that will remind me to stop and stretch my hands/wrists. Bonus for an app that shows what stretches I should be doing. [more inside]
posted by MuChao at 9:56 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by MuChao at 9:56 AM PST - 8 comments
Life After Depression?
My depression medication is working, I feel better than I can remember ever feeling... and I have no clue how to deal with it! Once your brain chemistry is taken care of, what comes after? [more inside]
Telling our son about the split - when?
My husband and I have decided to seperate. [more inside]
What to pack for ten days in Costa Rica
I'm going to Costa Rica for the first time in a few weeks. I am by no means a seasoned traveler, so I'm looking for tips on packing smart and light for ten days in the rainforest during the rainy season. [more inside]
Tell me where to go!
I want to go take pictures of mountains in Alberta, but so far, no luck. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
What to expect at a university comms/marketing position?
I've been hired to be the Director of Marketing for a humanities faculty at a small but prestigious North American university. I've spent the last nine years at a mid-sized national ad agency. I start in two weeks. What should I expect in my new position? [more inside]
JFK -> Penn Station
Trying to work out some travel logistics. If I am on an international flight that gets in to JFK at 7:20pm on a Tuesday, what is the likelihood that I could make it to Penn Station to catch a 9:20pm train? [more inside]
posted by aaanastasia at 8:02 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by aaanastasia at 8:02 AM PST - 34 comments
Best practices for your workday!
What are some best practices that you use on a regular basis as part of your workday? [more inside]
Collective protective instinct?
I am looking for research/articles/papers on people's instinct to sacrifice for the "greater good".
I have read an article mentioning John Bowlby and a term called "collective protective instinct", but outside of said article I haven't found any mention of this term. [more inside]
Autoprinting a PDF from a Broswer
I'm working with a cloud-based application (NetSuite) where we need to quickly print a document from the broswer. Right now it's taking too many clicks to get the job done. I'm wondering if there are any scripting/plug-in options we can use to create an auto-print solution. [more inside]
Teaching/Refugee Education Jobs in Seattle, WA?
I'm planning to move to Seattle in the fall and hope to work with the international/refugee population there, specifically Somalis. Which organizations are the best for international/ESL/refugee education or support for women and children? [more inside]
What Sylvia Plath poem am I thinking of?
It mentions her father but it's not "Daddy". [more inside]
posted by quadrilaterals at 7:18 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by quadrilaterals at 7:18 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me plan a three-week trip to Australia!
My husband and I have our plane tickets booked, but not a lot else planned and I'm starting to panic slightly. We've scheduled 20 days on the ground, from the end of August to the beginning of September. [more inside]
Yearbook picture style directory
I want to make an online directory that allows me to simply post a large directory of listings featuring a photo, name, and short description (akin to how old year books looked, for example). Is there an easy was to do this that avoids databases? [more inside]
Improperly written parking ticket: is it valid?
We got a parking ticket in the city of Ottawa (we live here), but the officer made an error in writing the ticket. [more inside]
posted by mbarryf at 6:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by mbarryf at 6:57 AM PST - 5 comments
Sailing 101
I'm joining friends on their 28' sailboat for a week this summer. I haven't really ever sailed, and I'd like to read or watch some materials to get me up to speed on the basics and concepts beforehand, so I'm not this guy. What would you recommend?
posted by benbenson at 6:39 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by benbenson at 6:39 AM PST - 12 comments
Sewage Backup. Insurance Questionable.
We had a sewage backup - we live in a townhouse, on a slab. (Two neighbors got hit, too.) My homeowners insurance covers rain, flooding, and roof problems, but not sewage. However, the cause of the backup was not our toilets - a branch dislodged on our shared roof and sent down a swimming pool full of water, which overwhelmed the sewer. Insurance is... confusing, demoralizing. [more inside]
TuneIn Radio App
Recently having trouble with my TuneIn Radio app and some streams (ESPN) [more inside]
Paint my decorative garden fish!
I am usually pretty crafty but for the life of me can't figure out what kind of paint will suit my needs - semi-to completely permanent, will stand up outdoors year round, semi see-through, pretty colors, for glass. [more inside]
posted by librarianamy at 4:44 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by librarianamy at 4:44 AM PST - 4 comments
Lean in or get real - apply for the higher or lower job?
An employer I am interested in working for has two jobs open. The jobs are at different levels - one role reports to the other. Should I apply for both jobs or one only? [more inside]
Creativity made easy, I hope.
I just want to design and print a poster online. Snapfish, Shutterfly, and Vistaprint don't seem to offer what I thought would be pretty basic design tools. I don't want to make the default photo collage; my idea was to use this kind of gridded layout, but with rounded corners on all the squares. Some would be replaced by photos, others would be white text on black. Where or how can I do this?
posted by psoas at 4:33 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by psoas at 4:33 AM PST - 1 comment
Songs about ... errm ... disliking someone
Looking for some hatred-filled songs to channel my frustration. [more inside]
posted by leopard-skin pill-box hat at 4:10 AM PST - 58 comments
posted by leopard-skin pill-box hat at 4:10 AM PST - 58 comments
Utility to rename files as they are extracted from a RAR archive
I have many data files named in a particular format. The files are either ZIP or RAR archives, and contain several sub-data files each in different formats (with a different extension; this is Windows). I need a utility to extract the contents and simultaneously rename each sub-data file to the name of its parent archive AND preserve the sub-data files' extensions. Anyone know of such a utility? Winrar, 7zip don't do this, and I've had no luck searching around.
posted by flutable at 3:48 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by flutable at 3:48 AM PST - 10 comments
Political Boundry Colored Map Maker?
June 15
La cucaracha, la cucaracha...
I don't have a cockroach problem in my apartment exactly, but there are cockroaches outside and I want to keep them far enough away from the door that they don't periodically follow me inside. Difficultly level: Please don't kill my cat in the process. [more inside]
posted by cheerwine at 11:40 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by cheerwine at 11:40 PM PST - 3 comments
Help me un-peanut butter my breakfast
Difficulty filters: Hypoglycemia and picky-ness. [more inside]
What constitutes a basic household/woodworking toolkit?
What would you include in a basic, well-made set of tools for household projects? I often find myself building wacky small construction projects. Things like shelves, doghouses, stands, simple woodwoorking / home-improvement tasks. [more inside]
[ l i m i n a l i t y ]
How fast does sunscreen wear off, really?
After a minor bout of skin cancer last year, I am required to wear sunblock every day. I have questions. [more inside]
posted by Andrhia at 8:31 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by Andrhia at 8:31 PM PST - 30 comments
Wireless Monitor
Is there an adapter that would let Mac and PC laptops connect wirelessly to an external monitor? I don't own a TV, but I watch a lot of Netflix/Xfinity on my laptop. I have a large flatscreen monitor that sits unused on my desk. I'm thinking of positioning this monitor like a tv in my living room, but I don't want to haggle with cords every time I watch a show. [more inside]
Samurai Jack in widescreen
Has anyone bought Samurai Jack on Amazon VOD? I have a kind of complicated question about the formatting. [more inside]
posted by roll truck roll at 6:58 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by roll truck roll at 6:58 PM PST - 5 comments
Worried mom of 10-year-old son with inferiority complex
10-year-old that struggles with many things who, for a few years now, has, when feeling sad/depressed, talked about how no one likes him, he's not good at anything, has no special qualities, isn't smart... etc. Looking for ways to help him. [more inside]
posted by youdontmakefriendswithsalad at 6:43 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by youdontmakefriendswithsalad at 6:43 PM PST - 51 comments
Recommendations for specific things on an ongoing Australian vacation.
Asking on behalf of (The Rt Hon.) MP, who currently has spotty internet access while he travels around Australia. Where are the best places to 1) see an improv comedy show in Sydney, 2) see a punk/hardcore show in Melbourne, 3) get to relatively quickly from either of those cities to be able to see the outback (as opposed to the bush, which has already been seen on this trip)? [more inside]
The only thing standing in the way.. is myself.
How do I get motivated to change and make life better for myself? [more inside]
posted by MeaninglessMisfortune at 6:25 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by MeaninglessMisfortune at 6:25 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I safely/reliably buy used watches?
I have a couple of nice ($5-10k) watches I got new. I love this kind of stuff, and would like to expand my collection, but it's really hard to justify laying down that kind of cash on a regular basis. So I'm considering buying some used watches. However, I'm really nervous about getting ripped off if I buy used (either online or from a local dealer who I don't have a track record with). If you buy nice watches used, where do you go, and how do you know you're getting a quality watch at a fair price?
posted by primethyme at 6:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by primethyme at 6:09 PM PST - 6 comments
To caulk or not to caulk?
In an Australian rental unit, how likely is it that our landlords will expect the caulking in the shower to be clean at move-out, and if they will, should we do the caulking ourselves to avoid paying a handyman for this simple but tedious and probably time-consuming job? [more inside]
Nutritional Value in Unripe Rasberries or Other Berries
Is there any nutritional value in unripe berries, such as raspberries or blackberries? Is there any negative health consequences for consuming any unripe berries? [more inside]
Victorian England/Europe book recommendations
Looking for recommendations of books exploring the culture and society of Victorian England/Europe. A few snowflakes inside... [more inside]
posted by kuanes at 5:39 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by kuanes at 5:39 PM PST - 17 comments
Should I wait for a follow-up to medical tests in 6 months?
Trying to work out what good options would be regarding not having to wait 6 months for a follow-up to a set of medical tests in Canada (British Columbia), which given my current condition, seems an unbearable delay. Not sure what my options are rather than paying to go private. [more inside]
posted by lesbiassparrow at 5:19 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by lesbiassparrow at 5:19 PM PST - 10 comments
Bathroom flooded - what do we need to do?
Our bathroom flooded today when a sink plugged up and was left on for 10 to 15 minutes. We've cleaned up the water, but it's an upstairs bathroom, and water got into a light fixture in the main floor and a few gallons got into the basement (through the HVAC system, I think). What do we need to do? [more inside]
posted by Happydaz at 3:25 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Happydaz at 3:25 PM PST - 12 comments
Where to watch Ghana vs USA in DC?
Sadly the Ghana Cafe is closed, and now my dad and I need a new venue to watch Ghana vs USA tomorrow. Hoping to find a place with fans of both teams, a clear view of the TV without jostling or dodging, and preferably Tusker or other African beer available. Any recommendations, DC mefites?
posted by nkknkk at 1:02 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by nkknkk at 1:02 PM PST - 8 comments
Experiences on a cross-Borneo trek?
I've been reading up on things to do in Borneo and my guidebook has some sections about cross-Borneo treks. It sounds like it could be an amazing experience but also extremely challenging. I'd like to hear from people who have done something like this. What was your day-to-day experience? Where did you sleep at night? How bad were the leeches? [more inside]
How to clean house like the professionals.
Between bad timing and desperation I hired a professional housekeeper to clean before family arrived for the holidays last year. She left the place looking better than when I first moved in. How can I do this on my own? [more inside]
posted by adapt at 11:20 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by adapt at 11:20 AM PST - 30 comments
Suggestions for flexible Japan travel?
Entering the country without an onward ticket, wanting to be flexible. [more inside]
What's showing, Netflix?
Is there any way to see what movies are available on Netflix (at least currently, and preferably also things that were available at one time or another)? After poking around their website, I can't find any way to search unless I want to Start My Free Trial TODAY!!!
posted by spacewrench at 11:03 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by spacewrench at 11:03 AM PST - 8 comments
Affordable intermediate sailing lessons in NYC: is it possible?
Ahoy! I've taken (and enjoyed) Manhattan Sailing Club's basic intro to sailing course and been on the water several times in other places. I'm now looking for a way to continue to sail and learn in New York on the weekends. Is there anywhere you can take a non-beginner class with an instructor without emptying your bank account? [more inside]
Kate Wolf Music Festival
Thinking of going. Could use some tips, hints and tales. [more inside]
A car for camping?
Does it make sense to buy a cheap car just for weekend camping trips? If so, what should we look for? [more inside]
posted by enn at 8:51 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by enn at 8:51 AM PST - 33 comments
How do you deal with family-in-law that's in a cult?
Short version: my fiancé's family is involved in a cult. He left the cult while in college, but they don't know. Most people don't know, except me and a few other friends. He hasn't told his family that he left, and he says he never will. My question is, what do we do when/if they want us to be more involved in their lives, without either getting involved in the cult or letting it slip that we're not part of it? [more inside]
Narita airport domestic-to-international question
I'm going to Fukuoka in September. On the way back to USA, I'm looking at just a little more than 1 hour to make a transfer from the domestic Jetstar flight (Fukuoka-Tokyo) to the international JAL flight (Tokyo-Boston). Is that enough time to make the switch? Uncertain what Narita's airport structure and procedure are. Hand-carry luggage only. The 2 bookings are separate. Thanks. [more inside]
BDSM (Baby-Directed Scrubbing and Mopping)
My precious little moppet is turning my house into a pigsty, and I'm getting very frustrated with playing maid. Can I contain the mess a little? [more inside]
Cat in a "no pets" apartement
I moved to a new city and am renting a cool place. The catch is "no pets". My parents are taking care of my cat but I miss him terribly. My landlord lives in another country and never checks up on the place. Would it be a terrible idea to fly my cat over here without my landlord's knowledge? What's the worst that can happen?
Incurable non-fatal infectious diseases?
I'm looking for examples of contagious infectious diseases for which there is no known cure (and which do not clear on their own) but which are non-fatal (or can be rendered so with known treatment). So basically, a disease where once you catch it you've got it forever, but it probably won't kill you, at least in the short term. Examples: Herpes Simplex, HIV. [more inside]
Will my GPS cigarette lighter adapter work overseas?
I am going to Ireland. Yay! We forgot to request a GPS with our car rental so I'm bringing mine from home (USA) in case they don't have any when we get there. Unfortunately, my GPS no longer holds a charge and has to be plugged in to work. Will my US cigarette lighter adapter work in an Irish car?
How to find out which chemical plants are union shops in La./Tx.
How do I figure out what chemical plants in Houston-Beaumont-Port Arthur and South Louisiana are union shops? [more inside]
posted by CtrlAltD at 6:44 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by CtrlAltD at 6:44 AM PST - 5 comments
A special book for a special dad.
We are expecting our first child and I am an excited and joyful father to be. I would like a book or a pair of books on pregnancy and child rearing with special conditions. [more inside]
60s garage-pop in not English? (or French)
I'm making a Spotify playlist of rare 1960s garage pop not in English. French Ye-ye music is well covered online, I'm full up on that. But other than a couple of hints about Italian and Spanish singers from the Wikipedia Yeye page I haven't found much else. Give me your favorite examples of danceable, hip, poppy, swinging 60s tunes from other parts of the world! [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 6:13 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 6:13 AM PST - 29 comments
Good value in hydronic radiators
Does anyone have experience by value hydronic radiators. Basically i want a Myson-like radiator but they are out of my budget. What other brands are a good value.
Duets to sing with my father
My father's been quite ill and we've been looking for ways to keep his mind off the discomfort he's in. He generally doesnt sing very much but sings marvelously when he does, so today we started singing together—he, I, my brother on the guitar, and my mum humming along tentatively :). It was lovely; we all enjoyed it, and we'd like to do it more. I'm looking for duet suggestions—more details inside. [more inside]
Spam. A lot.
Pretty straightforward...what's the best spam filter for Mac's Mail program? [more inside]
June 14
What are some awesome breweries/distilleries run by women?
What are some awesome breweries/distilleries run by women? [more inside]
Android tablet with best battery life?
My cheapo Android tablet finally gave up the ghost. I'm in the market for a new, nicer one and thought about getting the Nexus 7*. But searching around, it seems to have a lot of problems with battery life, even when on stand-by. I don't play games or watch videos or even listen to music much on a tablet. My main use case is reading and annotating pdf articles and books, especially when traveling (long flights) when battery life is kinda important. Are these battery life concerns for the Nexus 7 founded? Is there another Android** tablet that does better? [more inside]
Help Me Learn Math!
I will be returning to school in the fall to start prerequisite courses for a Physical Therapy program.
I don't know math.
The last time i took math was in high school, and it was basic geometry.
I would like to teach myself primarily, so that i can test into higher classes. The goal is to be able to test into pre-calc, so that i can also qualify for the physics classes as well.
Any suggestions? I don't really care about the method. I was thinking about buying a textbook, but i was unsure of which ones to get.
Thanks.
posted by hiddenknives at 7:31 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by hiddenknives at 7:31 PM PST - 13 comments
What iPad app can I get for my Luddite child to record in harmony?
I'm listening to my 10-year-old daughter use two old iPhones (A and B) to record herself in four-part harmony. She records on A, then plays that while singing the second part and recording on B, then plays that on B while singing the third part and recording on A again. Surely this can be done on a single iPad, with better fidelity. [more inside]
posted by Capri at 7:23 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Capri at 7:23 PM PST - 7 comments
Can I gracefully exit a management role? Should I?
I took a management role at a fast-growing startup for a mix of good and bad reasons. Eight months into the new role, I'm realizing my boss & I have very different styles, that the expected "management perspective" and accompanying behaviors feel itchy. I don't want to leave the place — I just don't think I like a situation where I'm constantly managing up, down and sideways. How can I get out of this without having to leave altogether? [more inside]
Vague road trip question
I want to take a road trip this summer but have no idea where. I'm willing to drive within about a 10 hour radius of Champaign, IL. Specifications inside. [more inside]
Is there a Pandora for eBooks?
I'm looking for a service/app/website to help me discover new [e]books to read - a little like how pandora works for new music. Ideally I could enter an book and get lists of 'similar' books. In this case similar might be genre, author, series, plot details, setting. Other functionality I'd love would be to replicate the book-store experience of browsing shelves (especially the New Release section) to find books. [more inside]
posted by Long Way To Go at 6:47 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Long Way To Go at 6:47 PM PST - 10 comments
I'm a pregnant snowflake. Help me dress myself.
The past 3 years of my life have brought both steady weight gain and financial instability, leaving me with a very sparse, heavily-worn and ill-fitting wardrobe. The financial strain has finally lifted, so yay! time to get some new clothes. The problem? I'm 10 weeks pregnant, teetering into plus sizes, and trying to strategize my purchases for maximum future wear. [more inside]
posted by ohisee at 6:38 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by ohisee at 6:38 PM PST - 21 comments
more money more cash more chilling
I'm having trouble keeping my finances organized for tax purposes. Special considerations: renting out a property, medical expenses. [more inside]
Should I tell a prospective landlord that I'm pregnant?
I'm pregnant, so my husband and I are looking for a larger place to live. We found a great house, where the landlord lives in a separate basement MIL unit in the house. Should I conceal that I'm pregnant (doable depending on what I wear) in case concerns about screaming babies might convince him not to rent to us? Or should I tell him up-front, since living in the same house as a landlord who doesn't want you there could be uncomfortable and stressful? [more inside]
How to fix my college blunder
I was doing a degree program and I had some mental health problems and dropped the ball big time. How do I recover? [more inside]
Dress me for summer! (Office tattooed-person edition)
I'm in the process of expanding my work wardrobe, and especially need things for summer! Help a girl out during this time of 90 degree weather! Slight complications inside. [more inside]
Songs that start off slow and sexy and then go completely off the hook
Okay, I feel like mixtape questions are about the laziest questions you can ask, and yet I'm going to lose my mind if I listen to these two songs back-to-back one more time. I'm listening, non-stop and endlessly, to Hozier's Take Me to Church and Jeff Buckley's Lover, You Should Have Come Over. [more inside]
posted by pretentious illiterate at 4:52 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by pretentious illiterate at 4:52 PM PST - 36 comments
Transmuting Abuelita into chocolate pudding
Cooks, do you think I can make chocolate pudding with Abuelita hot chocolate tablets and coconut milk? [more inside]
posted by zepheria at 4:34 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by zepheria at 4:34 PM PST - 4 comments
Extreme Tree Grafting
I have a vision to (when I buy a house someday) grow a forest where the lawn used to be. The best time to have started this was 20 years ago. Since that did not happen, I am wondering if it's possible to speed the growth of trees excessively through grafting. Can you graft the trunk of a young tree into the middle of another young tree, thus doubling the height? Now I am wondering what are the most extreme and crazy things that can be done with tree grafting.
How do I make better use of my personal time? (work 40 hr weeks)
[A fairly mundane issue, so apologies if something similar has been answered, but I didn't see anything.]
I function normally at work, and get things done just fine, but on my down time I fail completely to meet even marginally acceptable levels of time management. [more inside]
Trying to find a quote from Gone with the Wind
I'm trying to find an excerpt/quote from Gone with the Wind (the movie). Someone (I think Rhett but I'm not sure) is criticizing Ashley (to his face? behind his back? can't remember) for being unfair to both Scarlett and Melanie. I thought it was along the lines of Ashley being too weak to either love her properly or give her up properly. Help? [more inside]
posted by Salamandrous at 3:02 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Salamandrous at 3:02 PM PST - 5 comments
Please help me put the magic back in my carpet
Do you know of a good, inexpensive place that repairs and cleans oriental rugs in NYC? [more inside]
App for beyond C25K
Flying on a jetplane to Dallas. What can I do at night?
I will be arriving around 5 PM, might take me until 6 PM to get to the hotel on Sunday. It's a business related trip, but since I'll be working normal office hours, I can work around it and still try to have some kind of fun. I've never been to Dallas. What can you suggest to me that might be fun? [more inside]
Physiotherapist: a career for the middle aged?
Is physiotherapy a viable career to take up in your thirties? [more inside]
drinking puns in song lyrics
What are your favorite drinking-related puns in popular music? [more inside]
posted by neat graffitist at 1:38 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by neat graffitist at 1:38 PM PST - 14 comments
Help me help my dog: Potty training edition
I love my dog, but I am at the end of my rope. He's a sweet young chihuahua mix but can't seem to master potty training. I found him as a stray when he was about a year old. He was likely horribly abused: emaciated, terrified of people, cowered/shivered when approached, had never eaten out of a bowl, covered in ticks in a very urban area, and so on. He may have never lived inside. After three years, he's much rehabilitated but still struggles with house training. [more inside]
posted by stillmoving at 1:31 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by stillmoving at 1:31 PM PST - 15 comments
Letter Opener Blade
HEY! Build your rainbow bridge somewhere else, mister.
My little lady is 16 this month. She's been my best pal since I was 21. But we're hitting a rough patch, and I'm not sure what my course of action should be. [more inside]
How to not be needy while still having needs
How do I let my friend know that her lack of communication is hurting my feelings, without sounding needy or desperate? [more inside]
Research help on health disparities, and health equity terms and history
I am doing research on health disparities, and health equity. I would like to find out when the following terms were first used in the US, or in what fields/disciplines: Health Disparities, Health Inequities, Health Inequalities.
I would also like to find references to historical works which talk about these concepts, although not using the exact phrases. The earliest mention of health disparities I have found thus far, with a reference librarian, is 1991 Whitehead. Although I know the term has been employed prior to this date.
I also know that W.E.B DuBois has written about about health differences experienced by blacks in Philadelphia as compared to whites. And Engels has written about inequalities due to SES. However, I would like more sources, and the reference librarian and I are stumped. At this point, we are not finding what I am looking for in articles and therefore the reference librarian suggested I started looking in books, we are just not sure where to start. Thanks Hivemind! Any creative ideas to find this information are much appreciated!
Should I pursue an MA in Higher Education Administration?
I am currently working my dream job in the Advancement/Development office of my alma mater. I've only been there four months, but I love it and they are already talking about promoting me! Yay! The only problem is that I need to earn Masters degree if I want to travel the career trajectory my boss plans for me. I have applied and been accepted at a relatively good Higher Education Administration graduate program with a concentration in fundraising management, and am due to start a summer class in just a few weeks, but I am feeling unsure. [more inside]
posted by SkylitDrawl at 12:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by SkylitDrawl at 12:18 PM PST - 9 comments
Should I upgrade my peer-to-peer business network to a server system?
I own a small business with 11 employees, about 13 computers and a half dozen or more other devices. We currently run a peer to peer network and all the machines are on Windows 7. Is it time I bit the bullet and upgraded to a server based system? [more inside]
posted by bowline at 11:23 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by bowline at 11:23 AM PST - 12 comments
Fans are Slans?
Who was it that spoke out against works of fiction with characters and plots similar to 'Slan,' in which the sympathetic protagonist is innately, biologically, invisibly superior or special for some reason, and is persecuted or otherwise struggles because of it? [more inside]
posted by Verg at 10:17 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Verg at 10:17 AM PST - 3 comments
Help Me Not Use My Partner's ADD As A Crutch.
My partner, who I love dearly, has Adult ADD, which means, among many symptoms, he gets "stuck" at work and has trouble transitioning out of work projects. If he is particularly engaged in work this means he does not come home until 10 p.m. or later. Sometimes he pulls all-nighters at the office.
Spouses of ADD partners, how do you create your own routine in the midst of disarray? I don't want to assume he will fail -- i.e. not expect him home until after 11 p.m. -- but frequently that is what he does. It feels cold-hearted to assume I will be spending the evening alone, but if I am to make my own healthy habits, it seems I must make them solo. How do I create healthy habits in the midst of uncertainty? I want to encourage him to come home and spend time with me, but I'm aware that counting on him to be home and participate in shared activities sets me up to fail. Help me, hivemind (and any stories of thriving with an ADD spouse would be much, much appreciated!!). [more inside]
What can we do with flavored (olive) oils?
We have two bottles of really tasty flavored oils (one is jalapeño olive oil and the other is olio piccante, some sort of spicy Italian oil) and we're looking for ideas on what to do with them. They don't heat well (the flavors dissipate quite a bit), so we're looking for suggestions on what to do with them. We like to drizzle them on soups right before serving and over hummus. Any other great ideas?
Criticism, Belief, and Experience
Does anyone have any advice about taking criticism is a healthy manner? Whether it be work, your home life, or some other venue, taking criticism seems to be an important skill. When people who I do not know very well offer criticism or unsolicited advice I can have a hard time with it, if I'm not sure whether what they are telling me is solid or not. Which leads me to my next question about how much of what someone tells you do you take on faith versus trusting your own experiences? [more inside]
posted by nidora at 9:21 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by nidora at 9:21 AM PST - 13 comments
What did Robert Oppenheimer say about scientists' drive to get results?
I read a while ago a quote from Oppenheimer that eloquently expressed the idea that once a scientist gets in his or her head the idea that a result is achievable, he or she will not be stopped until that result is achieved. He referred to the scientist, though the sense in which he meant the term might better map to what many consider an engineer. [more inside]
posted by edw at 9:10 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by edw at 9:10 AM PST - 6 comments
What type of floor tiles are these?
I am trying to identify the type and brand of floor tiles in my kitchen so I can replace a couple of them. Unfortunately, there is no box, no label and no brand identifier on them. I think they are vinyl tiles, in an off-white and black cover , with a cork backing and fit together with locking edges (see pics here). Anybody have any ideas of the manufacturer or brand name?
Never in my life did I think my son share/split...the restaurant tab
Indians of me-fi: is it commonly accepted etiquette that splitting a restaurant bill with Indian parents is an insult? [more inside]
posted by ovenmitt at 8:59 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by ovenmitt at 8:59 AM PST - 32 comments
What progressive social justice organizations should I will my money to?
I'm writing my will, and I'm planning to donate pretty much my entire estate. Places on my radar are: ACLU, Planned Parenthood, and Lambda Legal. I know there are tons of other great organizations out there, but I don't know who they are, so please tell me about them. I am interested in anything progressive/social justice-y.
Explain to me a point-and-shoot's wide depth of field
Digital point-and-shoots have a very wide depth of field. I've been explained this is because of the tiny sensor size. But film P&S have very wide depth of field too, despite being "full frame." My guess is because of the lens distance to film and small aperture. Is this correct? Say, if I frankenmount a film P&S lens to a DSLR would I get the same wide depth of field of a P&S?
posted by jgwong at 8:38 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by jgwong at 8:38 AM PST - 13 comments
Buying a scratch & dent furnace from Florida and finding installation?
I intend to buy a scratch & dent furnace from these guys, even after shipping (100 dollars) It will be much cheaper than buying a new one. I want to find some heating/cooling company to install it for me.. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Help light my whey
Rules of thumb for substituting whey for water in the bread machine. [more inside]
posted by colin_l at 8:02 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by colin_l at 8:02 AM PST - 9 comments
Boss hits on me, I'm gay, but I don't want to ruin things with him
My boss hits on me. I'm gay and he doesn't know it. But I don't want to end up souring my relationship with him because I think he could help my career. And honestly, I otherwise enjoy working for him and do think I can learn a lot from him too. It just makes me uncomfortable when he hits on me just because a) it's awkward. But also b) because sometimes I wonder if it's why he keeps me around. (Although he has been really positive about my work and I do think my work is very good, to be honest. But it still makes me wonder sometimes.) [more inside]
YANMD - Is my crazy foot pain arthritis, or running related?
I recently took up running. Three days after my last run I was struck with crazy pain in my foot which has never really gone away. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by Brodiggitty at 5:18 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Brodiggitty at 5:18 AM PST - 15 comments
Help me case these joints!
I recently picked up a set of these behind-head earphones. The frame is plastic and I'm worried that they might get broken if they're folded up and stuffed in a bag or my pocket. Help me find an appropriate carrying solution? [more inside]
posted by mikurski at 4:58 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mikurski at 4:58 AM PST - 3 comments
France Rail Strike -- Can I Still Get Train Tomorrow?
In Paris with new husband, atrocious French skills. Haven't seen my Brit sister in over 15 years and she booked us hotel in Deauville-Trouville to meet tomorrow, 15 June. All I know is the train leaves from Gare St Lazare. The NCSF site requires Europe billing address so we couldn't buy ticket online, and train listings appear and disappear. We are getting frantic about what is happening. Train strike appears to be renewed, from what I can glean. Can anyone help?
posted by Locative at 2:23 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Locative at 2:23 AM PST - 12 comments
Lesson plan ideas for the last few days of school (in China)
Exams are done, grades are submitted, and we still have class? Yeah, I have up to 6 45-minute periods left with my grade 10 and 11 students next week that I would rather not fill with nothing but movies. I need ideas for something else to do with ~35 Chinese teenagers. [more inside]
posted by sarae at 12:38 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by sarae at 12:38 AM PST - 12 comments
June 13
How can I learn to communicate better and be less awkward
I am currently 21 years old. I feel like I have been awkward my entire life and I don't know how to fix it. I am willing to go through the painful process of learning though. What can I do? Am I just a weird person? [more inside]
posted by anon1129 at 10:06 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by anon1129 at 10:06 PM PST - 20 comments
Impressive exertions
I've been watching a lot of Kodo, the taiko band, lately, and wondering what other sorts of performance are based on impressive human effort. [more inside]
How can I see an original Pennsylvania birth certificate from the 1920s?
My grandfather was born in Pennsylvania to Italian parents during the 1920s in Lackawanna County / Scranton. I was able to obtain a new birth certificate from the PA Dept of Vital Records, but the last name was misspelled. When I called about this, they could only tell me that the mis-spelling "was what it said on the birth certificate". How do I go about seeing the original to get the mistake corrected? [more inside]
How can I check an employee's military record?
Thinking of hiring someone. His resume says he's been a Navy SEAL. Is there any way to check whether this is true?
Digital Humanities Course for Art Historian?
What is a good digital humanities/digital visualization intro course or workshop for me? Difficulty level: immediate, NYC/London. [more inside]
How can I make my cinder block classroom cozy?
My first grade classroom looks slightly like a (colorful) prison. It is white painted cinder block. It has three big windows with blinds and most of the furniture is kind of dilapidated. There are fluorescent lights. I have a few houseplants and even had a friend build some colorful curtains for the cubbies and cabinets, but I can't seem to kick the institutional feel. It also smells sort of weird. What are some of the make or break elements that make a space feel cozy, homey, livable? Especially for a child-friendly place.
Spontaneous Female Arousal
I'm curious to know what's going on with my body. I'm enjoying very high sex drive the last 6 months, ever since my 7th month of pregnancy. I thought it was a third trimester thing, but I wanted my husband 5 days postpartum. So what's going on? [more inside]
This ain't pretty
I need sources that list racist words & phrases applied to Black Americans during slavery and immediately following. I've nosed around the net and I've got a good library of primary and secondary sources for the period, but I'm looking for additional, focused sources.
NOTE: I'm not soliciting terms with this post. Just sources that list terms.
Doctor wants to hold off on allergy shots. I would like them soon.
My go-to OTC allergy med isn't working well, and my ragweed/pollen allergies are going crazy. I went to the allergist and she gave me a nasal spray to try, then said I could use allergy shots in the fall. I told her that I would like to try them right away (she said they have a chance of eliminating allergies, which would be a miracle!), but she doesn't want to use them yet. The nasal spray doesn't seem to be working. Should I force the issue, or is she right to be cautious? [more inside]
Los Angeles: Season 1 of Sherlock with Chinese subtitles in a store?
Are there any stores in Los Angeles that might carry this version of Sherlock - Season 1 (region 3 Taiwan version with Traditional Chinese Subtitles)? I need it quicker than YesAsia's 7-14 day shipping estimate.
posted by bluecore at 5:47 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by bluecore at 5:47 PM PST - 1 comment
Seattle area it is... can you help me find a neighborhood?
So, the hubster is actively looking for work in the Seattle area and we have a few leads. We're definitely looking to move there soon. I've lived in the PNW before, but on the other side of the Sound. I have no idea what the area on the Seattle side is like and am looking for guidance. [more inside]
How do I pivot careers?
I went to university for Architecture. I've been in the field for 8 years, never got my license, and I really don't see my future in it. I'd like to switch to computer science / programming. Is this realistic? How do I do it? [more inside]
posted by Llamadog-dad at 4:46 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Llamadog-dad at 4:46 PM PST - 11 comments
Photographing indoors, need lens recommendations
I need a recommendation for a camera lens for my Rebel Xsi. I'm photographic quilts indoors (the quilt is hanging flush against a wall) and I can't photograph the whole dang thing with my current lenses (a 50mm 'nifty-fifty' and a EFS 18-55). Is there an affordable lens I could buy that would work better? The distance from wall-to-wall is about 7 feet. The quilt I was trying to photograph was 70x70 inches. Thanks in advance.
Help Me Tweet
I'm looking for a Twitter client for Windows 8. Failing that, I'm looking for a way to force Win8's Metro apps to run as desktop apps, or a way to log back into a Twitter client that I've previously used. [more inside]
posted by MeghanC at 2:08 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by MeghanC at 2:08 PM PST - 7 comments
Buying into a gymnasium, what to look for?
Mr. Attackpanda teaches gymnastics and has been offered a job to become the head coach of a gymnasium and eventually become the owner of it. What should we ask of the current owner to make sure this is a good opportunity for us? [more inside]
Looking for a specific Bloom County strip
I'm trying to find the Bloom County strip where they made the "President James Garfield as Garfield the cat" joke ("Presidents don't respond on Mondays"). I've looked at this site which has a strip archive, and searchable text, but no luck. It was definitely in one of the original printed collections.
Any idea which book it was in, or an approximate date, so I can track it down?
posted by Chrysostom at 1:36 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Chrysostom at 1:36 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I control my high anxiety and sensitivity when dating?
How I can I better handle these intense feelings and hold them in while maintaining the confidence and calmness that made the woman like me in the first place? [more inside]
posted by My Famous Mistake at 1:35 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by My Famous Mistake at 1:35 PM PST - 26 comments
How do I deal with my alcoholic mom
Hi guys
I live in us and my mom in Romania. We talk on the phone quite often- everyday being that I am the only child. But it hurts me so much when I talk to her to know that she drank, or that she is drunk. The way I suspect it is by speech. She is not that fluent, the words come out harder from her mouth. I know her, and I know if she drank just by listening to her speech. Obviously she denies like any addict. This thing kills me because I know it kills her. How do I deal with it? I told her repeatedly that I hate it. I was thinking to stop talking to her. Basically I was thinking that if one night I call and she is drunk then don't call for a week. Hopefully she can link her drinking to me not calling which she freaks out if I don't call. It might not work but at least I keep my sanity because after I see her like that my whole day is ruined.
Where can I purchase Cisco fortified wine in Northern Virginia
Where can I purchase Cisco fortified wine in northern Virginia or the metro DC area. Ideally I wouldn't have to drive all the way in to DC, but could be convinced if you're sure its sold a shop there.
For what it's worth - acquiring the wine is for lulz purposes, not for "oh I really want to drink Cisco."
I want to have a waterproof set of Cards Against Humanity. How?
The idea of playing Cards Against Humanity in a hot tub sounds awesome. How can I make this happen? Bonus points for waterproofing options that don't cost hundreds of dollars and/or don't take hundreds of hours of work.
What is the most polite way to turn down a request for a second date?
So, I've jumped into online dating. It's going oddly better than expected, such that I now have a couple etiquette questions: 1) how do I politely turn down a request for a second date? He seems like a kind person and I'd like to avoid hurting his feelings inasmuch as possible, but I wasn't quite feeling that spark of attraction. Is there some equivalent of Miko's breakup talk for this that will help here, something clear but gentle? Also... [more inside]
Help with State Laws Website
I've built a website that combines all state constitutions in one place.
I want to build another website that puts all state laws in one place. But state laws change much more often than state constitutions. And although states make their laws available online (usually in the form of revised statutes), their word count greatly exceeds the total word count of state constitution. It took six months to build the state constitutions website. [more inside]
Help! A friend in trouble.
I’m asking on behalf of a friend, who for the purposes of this question I'll call ‘Ted’. A good friend of his ‘Pete’ has taken a turn for the worse. Ted saw Pete for the first time in several months, and he’s a mess.
Ted is seriously worried for Pete’s well being, he’s falling into a cycle of partying and drug use, and seems to be falling apart. Drugs, Physical and Mental Health issues abound, Ted wants to know how to help Pete before things get really bad. [more inside]
Help me get from Paris to Caen tomorrow through the train strike!
Any mefites knowledgeable about the French transport situation at the moment? Two of us have booked train tickets from Paris to Caen tomorrow and it seems that almost no trains are running. [more inside]
Machine sewing with only bottom thread - is this possible?
What is this machine sewing technique called? I read a sewing encyclopedia a while ago that had a section on an unusual method of loading the machine that involved pulling the bobbin thread from the bottom part of the machine through the needle... [more inside]
posted by ostranenie at 12:05 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by ostranenie at 12:05 PM PST - 3 comments
How to phrase an email for a job that I might have priced myself out of?
I got hit with a "what kind of salary range are you looking at?" inquiry from a prospective employer, and I asked for a figure which is at the upper limit for starting positions at said company. It's been two weeks and I haven't heard back. I could use your advice on how to best phrase a follow-up email letting HR know that I am just checking in and also am open to negotiations. [more inside]
posted by Thanquol180 at 11:58 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Thanquol180 at 11:58 AM PST - 13 comments
My computer got hit by a truck. Sorta.
Yesterday my PC repeatedly failed to update Windows. My attempts to get things back on track went catastrophically wrong. I have a backup system and am now putting my system back together. What *should* I have done? [more inside]
Google cannot help me find this tsunami movie...I hope you can!
It's from within the past 10 years, I think. The wave hits very early on--a couple are in a high rise hotel and the woman sees it coming from the hotel balcony. I remember a scene of her and I think her son underwater at some point. Not "The Impossible"! I hope that rings someone's bell...and thank you!
Keep my baby from getting sick from the airplane
We traveled a couple of weeks ago, and my 7 month old got a respiratory virus and got very sick. Sent from pediatrician's office to ER to PICU sick. Based on timing, Occam's Razor says she caught it on the plane. We will be flying again in a few weeks. I would like practical tips for things we can do on the plane to minimize the risk of her getting sick again. [more inside]
posted by telepanda at 10:57 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by telepanda at 10:57 AM PST - 11 comments
How to take two rugs back to US from Morocco??
We are in Morocco, flying back to the US via Madrid on Sunday...bought rugs today without thinking about how to get them home with us! [more inside]
Tipping full price during happy hour?
Am I supposed to tip on the full, normal cost of meals and drinks during happy hour? [more inside]
How do I create a custom keyboard for Windows 8? Difficulty: Parallels.
I need to create a custom keyboard for Windows 8, which I'm running in a Bootcamp partition with Parallels. Microsoft Keyboard Creator doesn't work (some people claim it does despite not being supported, but it didn't work for me.) [more inside]
How do you get out of a funk?
I'm in a funk. I (logically) know that I have a good life, but I'm really depressed right now and I can't seem to be able to bounce back. I have eliminated all distractions from my life, and that means that I have more time to be depressed. The only thing that provides me real joy is food, and so not only I'm getting fatter, but I'm getting more depressed because of that too. I just sit around and eat all day (which is not good!). I need to get out of this funk, please help. [more inside]
Where should we go in Portugal in July, other than Lisbon?
I'm going to a conference in Lisbon in mid-July, but my partner and I are flying to Portugal 5 days early to check it out. We've never been before, and we'd like to explore somewhere other than Lisbon during that time--2 other towns at most. Which should we choose? [more inside]
How do you know if someone's filing a lawsuit against you?
Assuming a person moves around a lot and does not have a permanent mailing address, how do you know if someone is trying to sue you? Do you just continuously check your credit report to see if you missed a court date somewhere? But then by the time you miss it, it's too late. You automatically lose if you don't show up in court.
Help me plan my (diet-restricted) dining on a trip to Malaysia
Fructose filter: I’ll be in peninsular Malaysia. I hear the food is incredible and diverse, but I have a dietary restriction. Can you suggest some dishes that might be suitable? [more inside]
posted by scrambles at 9:51 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by scrambles at 9:51 AM PST - 10 comments
Cheaper version of this handbag?
Can't get this "modern, adult version of the trapperkeeper" out of my head, but it's too expensive! [more inside]
posted by paddingtonb at 9:21 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by paddingtonb at 9:21 AM PST - 10 comments
Choose Your Own Adventure? Halp
I have to write a piece of a Choose Your Own Adventure story for a baby shower - the idea is to put them all together so the baby will eventually read this story we've created for them - and I want to look at some examples for inspiration since it's been a long time since I read those stories. Can you point to something online? [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 9:02 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by sweetkid at 9:02 AM PST - 5 comments
How do I turn a large image with low dpi into smaller, higher quality
I have a 20x20" jpg that is 72dpi. I don't have the original file, or any other versions of it. Using photoshop, how can I turn it into a smaller picture that is a higher dpi? [more inside]
posted by stewiethegreat at 8:59 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by stewiethegreat at 8:59 AM PST - 12 comments
What are some examples of humanitarian acts gone awry?
Can anyone provide instances of humanitarian efforts on a global or national scale that ended up exacerbating matters or creating new problems? What made these efforts different from successful ventures? [more inside]
Four Years in our Nation's Capitol!!! What to do?!! What to do?!!
What should be my nephew check out while he's going to school in Washington, D.C.? [more inside]
posted by Hanuman1960 at 8:28 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Hanuman1960 at 8:28 AM PST - 12 comments
Neo-noir film from the last 10 years?
Help me remember the film I'm thinking of. Takes place in a small town in Kansas or Nebraska or somewhere. Raining hard throughout. Somebody has something valuable that he stole from a bad guy. Bad guy owns a bar. Beautiful woman seems like an ally but turns out to betray the protaganist. She is killed by him in the end. She is a Kim Basinger type. Protaganist is a John Cusack type. Bartender is an older actor with a biggish physique.
posted by stupidsexyFlanders at 8:08 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by stupidsexyFlanders at 8:08 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me find a low-key party location in Orlando
I'm planning an alumni party for my workplace's residents and fellows who will be at the national annual meeting for our specialty. The conference is at the Orange County Convention Center. I'm looking for a place within walking distance of the conference, with good food (doesn't have to be fine dining, or anything, but needs to be tasty) and a pleasant ambiance where our doctors can catch up on what they've been up to for the past year. It'll be a Tuesday night in September. [more inside]
posted by joannemerriam at 7:28 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by joannemerriam at 7:28 AM PST - 3 comments
Costco Ground Beef - Packaged today, best before tomorrow. Why?
The last couple times we've gone to Costco looking for bulk ground beef (we make chili in large batches and freeze individual portions), we noticed that it had been packaged that day, and was marked best before the very next day. [more inside]
posted by heavenstobetsy at 7:22 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by heavenstobetsy at 7:22 AM PST - 9 comments
Oxford, MS, last week of July
Please help me make the most of my vacation (staying just outside Oxford) the last week of July (7/28-8/1). (The Faulkner conference will take place the previous week - dang.) I am familiar with the town generally, but plan to be showing it (and north MS generally) off to a friend those last few days. Thacker Mountain Radio does not have a schedule posted for then, nor does Square Books, nor the Ford Center. I know it is a ridiculous time of year to travel there, but that's not negotiable. Any ideas?
posted by mmiddle at 7:20 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mmiddle at 7:20 AM PST - 8 comments
IEM shorts - How to know where it's coming from
I have Brainwavz M3 in-ear monitors and, before sending them out to be fixed, I want to know if the problem probably resides in the earbuds themselves or in the audio jack. See Extended explanation... Thank you. [more inside]
posted by noelpratt2nd at 7:00 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by noelpratt2nd at 7:00 AM PST - 3 comments
My new glasses are weird
Will splitting the difference between distance and near pupillary distance make my glasses easier to use? [more inside]
Help me find five (different!) books of amazing poetry to give as gifts!
I'd like to give my 5 bridesmaids a book of poetry each as a gift. Your poetry suggestions, give them to me! [more inside]
Looking to purchase a particular Trappist jam in the U.S.
My esteemed coworker bought some apricot jam in Parma, Italy, and we'd like to buy some more. [more inside]
Just signed up for Costco - find me their best deals!
I recently purchased a Costco executive membership, and am pretty thrilled with how much I'm already saving. But I only want to nab the good deals, and it's hard to individually compare each item's price to the other supermarkets I shop at. So, I'd like to hear what you consider to be Costco's consistently top bargains; also, are there any sites that list Costco's prices for the month relative to other stores' prices? (and maybe even show the items with the biggest savings?) [more inside]
Trans etiquette: nosy person edition
I googled my new supervisor at my volunteer gig and found out that this person is trans and doesn't identify with a binary gender. I don't know how I should refer to my supervisor now. Some questions about how to proceed. [more inside]
posted by ArbitraryAndCapricious at 5:58 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by ArbitraryAndCapricious at 5:58 AM PST - 34 comments
Lamictal - therapeutic dosage for depression/bipolar?
Okay, so I don't really have bipolar but I was prescribed Lamictal off-label for depression since the SSRI's were giving me all kinds of side effects (none on Lamictal, yay!) I'm on 150 mg right now, and I am doing a lot better. I do, however, still go into these dark moods every once in a while. I heard that the therapeutic dose is closer to 200mg, and am debating asking my psychiatrist to bump me up. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by CottonCandyCapers at 5:30 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by CottonCandyCapers at 5:30 AM PST - 15 comments
Show me the 154 (chord progression).
Recently I heard Gotta Get Away by the Black Keys. And it took me a couple days to identify Ball and Chain by Social Distortion as the song it sounded like. My resident musician tells me this is a simple 154 chord progression and pointed me to Dead Flowers by the Rolling Stones. Got any others? [more inside]
Hivemind, please help me choose a career direction
In short: PMP? CISA? Dev? Or all of the above?
I'm working at a small IT company (30 people). I have a CompSci degree. I went from programming to business analysis to project management with a side of information security thrown in as I'm responsible for ISO 27001 policy compliance. I'm not a "rockstar" or expert in any of those fields, but I can do them competently. (There certainly haven't been any complaints from the management.) Basically I'm a "jack of all trades, master of none". So where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted by Behemoth Judge And The Explosive Xerox at 4:25 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Behemoth Judge And The Explosive Xerox at 4:25 AM PST - 2 comments
How to respond to Mars exploration vs feed the hungry?
Today, I was enthusing about a photograph from the surface of Mars, and a friend responded along the following lines: "I find it hard to get excited about it when there are so many starving people here on Earth. We should fix our own problems before exploring other planets." How could I have responded? [more inside]
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 3:30 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 3:30 AM PST - 40 comments
What are the most historically accurate period movies/series?
I'm looking for examples of period movies/series - particularly of ancient times - that are absolutely, obsessively, flawlessly historically accurate. As in 'if I emerged from a time machine, that's how it would be' accurate, or universally-blessed-by-eminent-historians accurate. [more inside]
June 12
Acting classes in London
I am looking for recommendations about adult acting classes/courses in London to take later this year. I am interested in longer and more demanding courses (1 year or more), which I could accommodate with my day job. I know there are many options available (e.g. Foundation course at CityLit). I am asking here in order to explore all possible options and hear about your recommendations and experience. Thank you very much for any feedback! [more inside]
Learning About Ableism
I'm interested in knowing more about ableism (its central theories, history, politics, etc). Frankly, I'm very ignorant of the subject at present. I've tried researching on my own, but have come up nearly empty in terms of finding thorough sites, blogs, books -- anything, really. Disability rights is also something I'd like to learn about, though I'm so ignorant of that subject as well that I'm not sure of the overlap between that and ableism. [more inside]
posted by rue72 at 10:17 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by rue72 at 10:17 PM PST - 14 comments
Resources for making my own skincare products.
I'm interested in making things along the lines of Lush and Herbivore Botanicals, but all I seem to be able to find online is "how to mash a banana and smear it on your face." [more inside]
posted by Sweetchrysanthemum at 10:16 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Sweetchrysanthemum at 10:16 PM PST - 13 comments
Candid conversations about black-white relations in the US
As a white foreigner who spends much of his time on a college campus where black people are few and far between, I feel like there's a lot I don't understand about black-white relations in the US. I know my history and understand the social and political issues involved reasonably well, but what I'm missing is a sense of how these things play out in the everyday lives of ordinary people. I'd like to hear conversations and stories, in podcast form or the like, that touch on this stuff. The more candid, informal, personal, and no-holds-barred, the better. [more inside]
Specific poster from Mork & Mindy
What is the source of the poster on the wall in this scene from Mork & Mindy (the one with a man with what looks like blades for arms)?
posted by dilaudid at 8:40 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by dilaudid at 8:40 PM PST - 4 comments
Best physotherapists in Toronto?
My mother has lately undergone hip surgery and had her's replaced with an artificial one. She has regular OHIP and has no physiotherapy coverage. She will need a few sessions at her house until my sister, who will be looking after her full-time, learns the exercises and is able to do them herself. In addition to the doctor's recommendation, I am looking for the best physiotherapists in Toronto for this kind of thing. Someone who is professional, friendly, and isn't on the morbidly expensive side of things.
posted by omar.a at 7:51 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by omar.a at 7:51 PM PST - 2 comments
Is this technology possible?
Once again while driving tonight I did not hear an ambulance's siren. This happens to me all the time, and it's not related to being on the phone or listening to music. It would be great if there were a way to transmit some type of signal that could be heard in cars within so many yards of an emergency vehicle. I'm not sure how this could work, or if it is possible. I imagine the ambulance would deliver some signal that could be picked up in a car outfitted with a sensor. What do you think?
Regret and home renovations: is it worth it?
I am considering two properties for purchase. One of them is straightforward and the other is complicated (multiple parcels, over 20 acres of land, has tenants living in the cottage, needs to be significantly renovated). I am looking for those with experience to offer advice on whether purchasing a property with major issues like this is worth it. [more inside]
posted by treehorn+bunny at 7:19 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by treehorn+bunny at 7:19 PM PST - 40 comments
Is there a housing safety net for a severely disabled person in Canada?
A 69 yr old wheelchair bound man, in SK, Canada, may end up homeless in the very near future. I need to know our options so that he continues to be cared for. In short, all the other safety nets have had holes in them, and we are being threatened with eviction. He relies on me (caregiver/wife) to bathe him, dress him, attend to personal hygiene/bathroom needs. He cannot walk at all, can stand with help, has use of one arm/hand. Living on the streets isn't going to work. Where do I turn now? More details below the fold. [more inside]
Should I try to undo this?
Well, here is a little more of me being neurotic about romantic relationships. (I have long forgotten about the crush I asked my last question about.) Yesterday, I was surprise asked out by email by a guy I have met a couple of times. I hadn't thought of him that way, and had no idea he was interested, but thought about it, decided my evaluation of what I knew so far was that he seemed like a sweet person, and said yes. (And then changed my mind.) [more inside]
posted by picardythird at 6:48 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by picardythird at 6:48 PM PST - 29 comments
Help Building a Gameplan For a Career In Market Research Analysis
So, I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about how to land a career in market research analysis. Below are the steps I’ve laid out for myself. Could you tell me if this is a good game plan to get where I want to go? [more inside]
posted by ggp88 at 6:30 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ggp88 at 6:30 PM PST - 5 comments
What mixes with unsweetened juice and bubbles, served in a wine glass?
I recently bought a Mastrad Purefizz, which easily carbonates 750ml (roughly a wine bottle's worth) of just about anything. My goal is to create drinks to sip on at night, and I'm particularly interested in non alcoholic ideas (but that's not essential). I'm clueless about what tastes good with what, so I need your help! [more inside]
Problem with logging in to Gmail [or other google accounts]
Over the last month, google informed me that my gmail account had been hacked several times. Each time I dutifully changed my password (on the official google site--not the link posted in the warning email). Now, however, I am running into a problem. I can no longer log into to gmail on any computer that isn't one of my home computers or iphone. Every time I do I get the notice from google that "Your password was changed [x] number of days ago." I keep re-entering new password and nothing happens but the above message.
Any advice?
thanks
Can you name this 1980's movie?
My wife and I remember the same mid 1980's movie about a young couple, but cannot figure out what it is. [more inside]
posted by Leenie at 6:00 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Leenie at 6:00 PM PST - 5 comments
Web developer salaries: help me distinguish hyperbole from reality
I'm considering a career change into web development and I'm hoping AskMe can help me sort through the abundance of relevant information and get a sense of what reasonable expectations might be. To put it succinctly, I'd like to make about $75-80k a year so that I can support my parents while still being able to save money for my own future. Is it probable for a self-taught developer to earn a salary in this range? [more inside]
Date Night in Palo Alto - suggestions
The lady and I would are visiting Palo Alto Saturday night. Where should we go for a fun date. Would like to eat, do a fun activity or see a fun thing (though i am on crutches at the moment), and have cupcakes for dessert.
posted by jander03 at 5:49 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by jander03 at 5:49 PM PST - 7 comments
How to find a starting job?
Just graduated with a degree in Industrial Engineering and having hard time getting a job. [more inside]
I can't put "Mr. Wolf" on my business card - help?
I do a lot of different things, and I'm not sure there's a title that really captures the kind of trouble I make. [more inside]
A good personal wiki with tags? OR, fiction writing software?
I'd like to find some software to organize and tie together less-important details in my story. Probably I want a personal wiki--but which one? I'm open to wiki alternatives also. [more inside]
Eating not-quite-cured bacon?
So I've got a slab of bacon curing in the fridge (in spices, salt, sugar + sodium nitrite). It's been in there for 3 days, out of the eventual 7-10 it will cure. I want to make carbonera tonight, and would love to use this certainly-much-yummier bacon than the normal store bought stuff. Any contraindications to eating half-cured bacon?
posted by wrok at 4:58 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by wrok at 4:58 PM PST - 9 comments
Inexpensive, vibrant, interesting temporary place to live
Let's say you wanted to take between 3 and 6 months off in order to write. What inexpensive, amazing place would you go? [more inside]
posted by jeffmshaw at 4:48 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by jeffmshaw at 4:48 PM PST - 35 comments
Young French chef seeks US employment
One of my former English students from Toulouse, France is now attending Anne-Sophie Pic's culinary school and hopes to find a job in the U.S. in a couple of years. He has asked me for advice on how to go about that, avenues he should pursue, the kind of Visa he should get (before or after he finds a job?), so now I'm asking for you--- any advice or personal knowledge for fulfilling this dream of his?
I'm About to be Fired. Now What?
I walked into work today and was suspended with potential termination for policy violations, one of which does include the event that led me to ask this question. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
Gay Tax
I hit the holy grail and have a new position with full benefits, including full coverage for domestic partners. I have a partner who lives with me, but we are still fairly newish and are not ready to get married. I have to enroll us in the benefits very soon, like now. The problem is, the queer tax (I guess now the Not-Legally-Married tax) on my partner's benefits. [more inside]
Depictions of the 90's Rave scene in books, movies and TV.
I'm working on a writing project partially set in the 1990's underground rave scene in America, and I'm gathering research materials -- books, movies, tv, etc -- that will help me set the stage. I'm interested in both the underground rave scene as it really was, as well as its depiction in popular media, however warped/sensationalized -- basically, anything that could help me build a fully-formed immersive world for my audience, the way Mad Men has done for its time and place. [more inside]
Vocabulearn MP3s: Do I need to buy additional copies?
I purchased some Vocabulearn Mandarin Chinese MP3s. Unfortunately they didn't come with a transcript. [more inside]
Je Regrette Tout
Please help me figure out how to deal with crippling regret over small and large things. [more inside]
Where the hell do I find narrow shoes?
I'm 27 and wear a size 9 (sometimes 9.5) in women's shoes. I also have very narrow feet and fear I'll be going barefoot soon if I can't find somewhat affordable, narrow shoes that don't look like they were made for little old ladies (no offense, little old ladies of the world). I am literally down to one brand of shoe. Halp. [more inside]
Shopping for Disney shoes for August
A portmanteau for this man's poor toes:
Are Keen Newports good shoes for a long trip to Disney World in August? If not, what beats them? I mean, can I simply wear my running shoes?
Do you try on footwear like this with or without socks?
Do you allow extra room on the assumption that your feet will swell in the steam heat? [more inside]
posted by wenestvedt at 1:31 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by wenestvedt at 1:31 PM PST - 21 comments
Why does my brain put an article before IHOP
The fate of the world depends on finding an answer to this question: Which is more grammatically correct -- I'll meet you at IHOP or I'll meet you at the IHOP? If grammar has no opinion, what is the most common formulation? [more inside]
posted by angrycat at 12:50 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by angrycat at 12:50 PM PST - 30 comments
What are these facial nodules and how can I get rid of them?
What is the rough pebbly texture that has shown up on my face in the last couple years, and can it be treated? [more inside]
Skyrocketing Zillow Estimate For My House
Holy crap. My house value has been creeping up since the bust, which was to be expected. But I just checked Zillow, and they've boosted its estimated value by 23% in the past 30 days (I'm in Westchester County, not far from White Plains). [more inside]
posted by Quisp Lover at 11:10 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 11:10 AM PST - 22 comments
Problematic seller on Amazon: what's my next step?
Bought an item on Amazon. Seller sent me different model than what I bought. Took effort, but finally convinced seller they should pay for return shipping. I shipped it. Seller claims item was not in box I shipped. Now what? [more inside]
Best World Cup liveblogs and twitter feeds?
What are the best World cup liveblogs? I'm looking for people who will blogging during games and who will be both insightful and funny. Any people/organizations who will be livetweeting games will also be appreciated.
Graduation Gift for Special need young man
We have been invited for a graduation party ( next Saturday)for a 21 year old special need young man who is graduating from a special school.I don't know much about him.But I know he is verbal and independent .This is my first invitation to any graduation party.I don't know what to buy for him.I meet his mom in my son's games.So,I want to give something that will be memorable and they like it too.
Another question is what is the appropriate clothes for such parties?haven't been before.so,please help me out with this too.
Thanks in advance.
Best cocktails bars in each US state
I want to sit alone for a few hours at the best cocktail bar in your city. [more inside]
Auto Lease Ending. What Can I Expect If I Purchase Vehicle
The current 3 year lease on my car is about to end. I have decided to purchase the car.
What are the next steps? I want to be prepared when I go back to the dealership.
I will be paying a $150.00 purchase option fee. Will I be negotiating the monthly payment? Will there be anything else I will have to negotiate.
I also purchased a lease protection program t. The lease ends next month. The vehicle does have scratches and dings. Does the protection cover the vehicle within the lease or does it apply only when the lease ends and the vehicle is returned to the dealer.
Any other insights appreciated.
Best VIDEO resources for greywater recycling?
My husband and I are building a small cabin to live in and I would like us to eventually be able to recycle our greywater to water our future garden. [more inside]
What’s the best suburb south of Philly for a single/late 30’s something?
I’m thinking about relocating for a job around Wilmington DE. My first thinking is to find a place to live somewhere between Wilmington & Philadelphia. The commute would be south to work, north for arts/culture and other nice things… [more inside]
Applying for a job when I don't know my availability
A dream position of mine just opened up, but I'm unavailable for up to 6 months. Is it worth applying? [more inside]
posted by Nonsteroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drug at 10:03 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Nonsteroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drug at 10:03 AM PST - 6 comments
Is Feedly's DDoS attack as extortion common online?
For the last two days feedly has been down for significant chunks of time because of DDoS attacks (article). They say hackers are trying to extort them for money. Is this common online? [more inside]
posted by lownote at 9:53 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lownote at 9:53 AM PST - 9 comments
Is Lasik worth pursuing if my eyes are wonky?
I've worn contacts for over 30 years now but have recently considered getting Lasik. I have heavy astigmatism and have been wearing toric lenses, which work most of the time but still tend to drift making my vision poor at any distance. I signed up for a Lasik seminar, attended and was interested in continuing. I stopped wearing my contacts over two weeks before my preop exam but apparently my eyes still haven't settled to a consistent shape because they couldn't get consistent results when measuring them. I have another exam scheduled in two weeks but I'm beginning to wonder if it's even worth it. Should I just accept defeat or go back and try again?
posted by tommasz at 9:33 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by tommasz at 9:33 AM PST - 13 comments
Block The World Cup 2014 from online life
How can I block all mention of The World Cup 2014 from my online life? [more inside]
ISO best practices for cleaning up broken glass outdoors
I have a (potentially) lovely area in my yard where I'd like to put some patio furniture. Problem: it seems to have been used as a midden/trash heap at some point in the past. Things I've found there include old glass fuses, broken window glass, and old vacuum cleaner parts (some with tree roots growing right through them). I suspect the *right* way to fix it is to dig up and replace a few inches of the topsoil (or to pave it over), but I'm renting. I'm willing to put down a few inches of mulch, but I'd like to get as much of the glass up as I can beforehand. I've been picking it up by (gloved) hand but if anyone has any secret tips for locating and picking up broken glass off of dirt, I'd love to hear them!
My period is out of control and I keep bleeding on things
I am dying of embarrassment. Please help. I have really heavy periods and in the last couple of years, I can't contain the blood. I need some practical solutions. Metafilter is where I can ask for help with the grossest body things, right? This is so embarrassing I don't even know who to talk to. [more inside]
Delight my dog
With summer here, we need some new recipes for treats that I can stuff into a Kong and freeze. What are some of your (and your dog's) favorites? The best options will be relatively easy to make, totally delicious, and not terribly terribly messy as they melt.
How do I block all Amazon pages for a particular item?
So a book I wrote is about to be published, and for my own sanity I think I need to stop looking at the ranking/reviews on my Amazon page. Until I grow some more self-control, I need help. Is there a plugin (or other method) I can use to block all Amazon pages relating to my book? [more inside]
posted by Ms. Informed at 5:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Ms. Informed at 5:57 AM PST - 5 comments
How do decent human beings live with pedophilia?
I'm obviously not talking about people who act on it. But we don't choose our fetishes, and I've read a few tortured anonymous accounts of people who don't want to molest children and will never act on it, but nevertheless suffer with that compulsion. So I'm wondering what resources they use to cope. [more inside]
posted by Because at 4:36 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Because at 4:36 AM PST - 16 comments
How do I get rid of Adobe Acrobat font squares?
When I attempt to Edit Document Text using Acrobat X Pro on a page I often need to alter, all I get are squares in place of the letter/numbers I'm attempting to type. The original font on there is Verdana (screen shot here) and this occurs on both my computers. I have Verdana in my font directory and I'm on Windows 7. Any ideas? Thanks.
British sitcom with a guy afraid to leave the apartment?
British sitcom. Probably from the 90s.
Two guys and one girl sharing an apartment, one of the guys was afraid to leave the apartment (suffered from agoraphobia).
Anyone knows the title?
posted by dfreire at 3:36 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dfreire at 3:36 AM PST - 4 comments
There must be a schadenfreude-adjacent word for this!
There's got to be a word or phrase for when someone chooses to sympathise with or prioritize the pain and suffering of a perpetrator over their victims. It's not "victim-blaming" which is about making a judgement of fault or cause of the act itself to reduce the level of the crime, but where people put the weight of their attention and efforts towards the perpetrator and there is comparatively little for the victims. I'm especially interested in a phrase or ethical/theological concept that addresses the hypocrisy of this, where this sympathy to the perp is viewed as a Great Moral Kindness in rehabilitating the sinner while refusing to acknowledge that that effort comes at the cost of further silencing and refusing voice, aid and power to the victims.
What have I done to Firefox?
Unusual browser behaviour in Firefox - I can't re-open closed tabs any more. For a long time I've made use of Firefox's 're-open closed tabs' feature - (CTRL-SHIFT-T on a PC). I would shut a tab just as I realised I still needed it, hit the keys and it pinged back just as it was. However, in the last couple of months this functionality has totally vanished and that key combo simply brings up a new blank window. What have I broken? In a related development, about 50% of the time, CTRL-clicking on a browser link doesn't open the link in a new tab, it opens a blank tab instead. Any suggestions welcome.
posted by srednivashtar at 2:29 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by srednivashtar at 2:29 AM PST - 7 comments
How do I go from friends with my male classmate to a relationship?
It has taken me two years to get over my ex-boyfriend, and now, in graduate school, I finally, finally met a guy classmate whom I think could be great boyfriend material. He is kind, sweet, super intelligent, and not to mention pretty good-looking. We've spent a bit of time together on projects and study together occasionally, and over the past few months I've really developed some feelings for this guy. The trouble is, I am quite shy and not very good at flirting, so I've tried to initiate contact by organizing study get-togethers, asking him questions on Facebook, etc. I don't want to seem clingy or weird by initiating all this contact though. As for me, people have said I'm pretty, kind, intelligent, blah blah blah.
I'm at a point in my life where I would like to find the right man for me and settle down, and I think this guy could be it. Unlike my previous relationships in which we met online, with this guy, I've developed a friendship and my feelings have grown from what I've gleaned from his character and interactions with his family and friends. I really like him, and I don't want to let this one go. Do you have any advice for how to maybe hint to this guy that I like him?
Terrible experience with a new dentist. Report it or let it be?
I was referred to an oral surgeon by my local clinic that caters to low income folks like me. I have a major infection in a tooth that is crumbling and dying. I made an appt. with the oral surgeon and chose to have a local anesthetic for the exrtaction. [more inside]
"Learn English" videos for Spanish speakers who aren't literate?
Can anyone recommend a beginner level English language tutorial series for Spanish speakers who cannot read or write in either language?
posted by jayCampbell at 12:20 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jayCampbell at 12:20 AM PST - 5 comments
June 11
Ghanaian decorations
I've pulled Ghana in our World Cup sweepstakes - how can I decorate my desk on a Ghanaian theme? [more inside]
ITA Matrix, Orbitz, etc. price discrepancies
Why are there such large price discrepancies between the initial displayed prices, and the final displayed prices, with all of these airfare searches? [more inside]
I've come this far, but even so, it could be yes, it could be no
Managing post-job-interview anxiety? [more inside]
Shoulder pain from working at computer, while sitting and standing
I'm in my 20s and spend all my time working on the computer. I have this recurring pain in my upper left back (Trapezius) which always bothers me towards the middle of the work day. When I massage the area, it feels knotted and tough. [more inside]
What are these flowers?
I have a bunch of flowers in my yard. Pic 1. Pic 2. What are they? I am particularly interested in the blue one, but there are an awful lot of flowers.
posted by amber_dale at 8:01 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by amber_dale at 8:01 PM PST - 21 comments
Help with circuit building, please!
I'm interested in adapting this tutorial and this tutorial into a dress design. Basically, I want to keep the accelerometer as part of the design, but have lower profile lights and reduce the number of lines to two or three, somehow... I could solder two extra beads (right?) on but it would look better with just two or three beads/lines. What can I do? The accelerometer isn't super-required since I can just program sparkles, so losing that isn't completely off the table. [more inside]
posted by ancient star at 7:55 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ancient star at 7:55 PM PST - 6 comments
Looking for the rockingest places in Chicago
I'll be heading to Chicago this weekend for a vacationy weekend in a new city. I've got an armload of plans for various things to see and do (including the Wax Trax popup shop), but I also wouldn't mind doing some shopping while I'm down there. Suggestions for an alt-culture excursion? [more inside]
So much music, so little time (music without drums)
I'm looking for music without original drums so I can practice my free-playing. Right now I'm using some Eno, Gem Club, and Satie, but I'd like some more punk- and rock-oriented stuff if it's out there, especially stuff approaching a conventional rock song structure so I can work in transitions and different grooves. [more inside]
Please help me make peace with my high efficiency washer.
I recently moved into an eco-friendly apartment building, and my unit has this high-efficiency Whirlpool washer. I foolishly did not consider how having this type of washer would impact my lifestyle- namely, that there is no way it can accommodate my full-size comforter. I really do not want to drive down to the laundromat every time I have to wash my comforter. If you have a HE washer, how to do work around this issue? Are there thinner, more heat-insulating comforters out there? [more inside]
posted by invisible ink at 6:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by invisible ink at 6:27 PM PST - 13 comments
Why do so many people turn around at the end of the BART line?
When I get off BART at the Dublin/Pleasanton station, I often see quite a few people (as many as ten) getting off my train, walking across the platform, and boarding the train that goes the other direction. Dublin/Pleasanton is the end of the line, and there is only one line that goes there. What are these people doing? [more inside]
posted by aws17576 at 5:54 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by aws17576 at 5:54 PM PST - 11 comments
6'2, new rider and looking for great first motorcycle
I just got my Endorsement after taking the Ride Oregon 3 day class and I am itching to get on my own ride and tool around! I am looking mostly at older Hondas (CM4000 specially) as I like their look and they have a reputation for being pretty bulletproof and great first riders. I, as of today, have not sat on any Hondas other than some older dirt bikes when I was younger and a old co-workers 250cc.
So what I am asking is, will this bike fit me (6'2, 183lbs, 30' inseam)? If not, any models you can recommend? Since this is my first, I'm not looking to go over 700cc, with a 400-600cc non-cruiser being ideal for my eventual commute on the freeways.
Summer Fun in Seattle?
I'll be living in Seattle for the summer. I'm looking for suggestions of things to do and places to go, both tourist-y and everyday, as well as general resources for someone new to the city. More about me and my interests inside [more inside]
Here's a long shot
It was someone's homemade outgoing machine message that included some sound effects, and then a voice saying "just show me a rich geologist" followed by a different voice excitedly exclaiming "I'm the mayor!" I definitely downloaded this in the last five years, but I don't know where. Do you?
posted by blnkfrnk at 4:19 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by blnkfrnk at 4:19 PM PST - 4 comments
Restoring and preserving a paper art project- How do I do this?
When I was a kid, my grandfather and I spent a lot of time working on a personalized monopoly type game. We made it out of cardboard, construction paper, elmer's glue, paint, and pen ink. It also is covered with stickers. Unfortunately, it is yellowing/faded/coming undone/moldy(?) and kinda gross. Who can I contact to have this fixed? [more inside]
NJ Real Estate - Split Listing Question
Hello,
I am new in the Real Estate business, and I don't have too many people to ask questions to.
I am going to list my parents house for sale as an agent, this woman offered to help guide me through the process if I split the listing with her.
She originally wanted 50% of the commission, I told her that was not going to happen, I offered 25%.
The way she explained it, is that when my parents sign the listing agreement, both her name and my name have to be on the listing.
I am nervous about this proposition, I am wondering if I could somehow get her into a subagency contract for 25%, rather then having her directly on the listing?
------
Thanks,
Leon
Rescue Remedy for Pets
Some people swear by Rescue Remedy to calm their anxious pets. Are you one of those people? If so, can you tell me your experience? [more inside]
posted by something something at 4:05 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by something something at 4:05 PM PST - 15 comments
Calling all librarians...
I am looking for a reference manager that can integrate with MS Word, can attach pdfs to the references, and can be accessible maybe over the web to my colleagues in different countries. Basically EndNote, but with cloud storage and remote access. Does this exist? [more inside]
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 4:00 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 4:00 PM PST - 10 comments
Full-body tension while sleeping leads to hours of pain in the morning.
At some point during the night I go from sleeping comfortably to being curled up in a tight little ball, resulting in pain and intense achy stiffness in the morning. If I have an obligation I just deal with it and get up. But on my days off I stay in bed, laying flat on my back, sleeping in 20-minute increments for another two hours or so, and by then the pain is gone and I finally feel rested. While that's nice, it doesn't help me on work days, and it means I don't wake up until about 10am on my days off, so I lose a big chunk of my morning. [more inside]
posted by possumbrie at 3:31 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by possumbrie at 3:31 PM PST - 23 comments
Cast Iron Radiators of Death
Mr. Kitty and I are pretty handy, but removing 100 layers of 100 year old paint from our cast iron radiators may kill us. Who can we pay to make this problem someone else's? [more inside]
Sex therapist recommendations in western mass
Seeking recommendations in Amherst/Northampton, keywords sexual dysfunction, OCD, kink-positive, couples. [more inside]
Which Wacom tablet do I need?
My dad, who is an engineering professor who can barely type, is looking for something that can help him put together lecture slides. I'm not sure if we want to attempt handwriting recognition, or just hand-write slides (similar to Khan Academy videos), but would a Wacom tablet suffice? If so, which model should I get? [more inside]
What is the greatest recording of the Blue Danube Waltz?
What is the greatest recording of the Blue Danube Waltz? I want to dance to it at my wedding. I have Googled and whatnot. I want to hear personal suggestions from MeFites.
posted by trip and a half at 2:22 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by trip and a half at 2:22 PM PST - 10 comments
What happens when I dial 999 in the States?
Let's say I'm in the USA and I dial the UK emergency number (999), or I'm in the UK and I dial the US emergency number (911) or the European number (112). What happens? [more inside]
posted by devnull at 2:12 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by devnull at 2:12 PM PST - 18 comments
Motorik/Krautrock playlist for running
I'm putting together a Spotify playlist for running (working my way up to 5K), which so far includes Hallogallo by Neu! and Jenny Ondioline by Stereolab, and some songs by Fujiya and Miyagi. What I like about them is the driving, repetitive, steady motorik beat (or a beat that, if not technically motorik, gives the same feeling). I'd love to get more recommendations for other songs that would go on such a playlist.
Need some specific short term goals
I spend lots of my free time watching TV and surfing the internet. I feel like I am wasting my life. I am looking for free or very low cost programs like "how to learn/make X in 30 days!" with daily or weekly milestones. I need to see very concrete progress or I will just give up. [more inside]
Music that makes me feel big feelings about being small
I love thinking about the vastness of space, the long arc of the cosmic time scale, the complexity of connections in various systems. I find thinking about these big ideas creates a pleasurable feeling in my body, and putting them to music is even more moving. Examples of favorites include Peter Mulvey's "Vlad the Astrophysicist" and Symphony of Science's "We Are All Connected". What other songs combine music and big scientific ideas about how small and insignificant humans are?
posted by spindrifter at 1:37 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by spindrifter at 1:37 PM PST - 13 comments
Where did this Game of Thrones theory first originate?
I've only watched the show, but I regularly read fan theories online about Game of Thrones. [more inside]
posted by scunning at 1:29 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by scunning at 1:29 PM PST - 33 comments
Temporary Spray-On Hair Highlights - Brands that don't smell?
Hi All,
Have been searching for awhile now for a brand of hairspray that can give me blonde highlights that wash out. Have tried out this brand by Jerome Russell but find that 1. the smell is horrible 2. it makes my hair super crispy 3. the glitter is crazy and gets EVERYWHERE.
Are there any alternatives out there to this??
Gracias!
Need low cost mental health care in phoenix, Arizona
I need to find a psychiatrist/therapist/someone who can prescribe and treat chronic anxiety and panic in the Phoenix area, preferably at low cost/sliding scale. [more inside]
Want to Switch from Agency to Client
Hey all, this is a tough one. The long and short of it is, my work at the ad agency has grown stale and my biggest client is revving up its own internal digital strategy team. I want to be on that team and there are several positions that would be a good fit for me. Among other things, I would have a better commute and more money; plus the invigorating effect of a change of scenery, work, etc. BUT I have to clear it with my bosses at the agency. [more inside]
posted by Mister_A at 11:59 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Mister_A at 11:59 AM PST - 14 comments
Do you have any suggestions for non-seasonal apartment door decor?
What can I add to my apartment door that is NOT distastefully preppy, hideous, ghetto fabulous, arrives with an invisible "steal me" voice, or requires a million screw holes? I never thought that I would struggle to come up with a decorating idea! But I am. I like colorful, but minimalist designs, but otherwise I am open-minded. Feel free to post links to galleries of door decor(not pinterest unless it's a specific diy), photos or make suggestions based on your own projects. Sometimes a touch of inspiration is all that's needed. [more inside]
posted by bibliophilia at 11:52 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by bibliophilia at 11:52 AM PST - 18 comments
Short-term ISP in Champaign, IL
I moved to Champaign last weekend (will be here until mid-August) and my plan to use the library as my ISP is already wearing on me. It seems that everyone hates Comcast—I haven't been able to reach customer service to ask about options, so I get that already. My post-August plans are up in the air, therefore I don't want to sign a 12 month contract even if it can be transferred to another location. What are my options for short-term internet access? [more inside]
will switching to a non-dual intent visa status affect US green card?
H1-B to TN-1 to GC? My actual immigration lawyer is suggesting that we use TN-1 status to bridge the gap between the end of my 6th year of H1-B and PERM approval. Will using a non-dual intent status to fill this gap negatively affect a future employment based green card application? [more inside]
Bed movement is disrupting our sleep and making me cranky, what to do
My boyfriend's mattress is about 6 years old, and he's a tosser. When I sleep over and he tosses and turns it keeps me up, and it sucks. I'm not sure if it's the mattress or the boxspring - he thinks mattress. Let's say getting a new mattress is not in the immediate future - will a memory foam cover help us? Is there any thing else you can think of? I'm guessing not really, but sometimes there are innovative suggestions around here. [more inside]
posted by namesarehard at 11:04 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by namesarehard at 11:04 AM PST - 26 comments
The best calcium gummies in the world?
My lactose intolerance has worsened in the past year and so I've gone from eating yogurt/ice cream/cheese a few times a week to more like 1-2 times a month. Dairy and calcium intake has always been bad (i.e. low), but I have a new resolve to fix the problem... please help me find the perfect supplement or strategy! [more inside]
posted by serelliya at 10:58 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by serelliya at 10:58 AM PST - 25 comments
Peculiar password problem
The OS X GUI—but only the GUI—has stopped accepting my password. Any password. [more inside]
posted by Zozo at 10:36 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Zozo at 10:36 AM PST - 13 comments
Like a safari but cheaper and safer
I'm looking for a quiet vacation spot near nature and living creatures for our April vacation. We are traveling from Boston are are pretty open to locations. [more inside]
posted by beccaj at 10:35 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by beccaj at 10:35 AM PST - 3 comments
Cycling, Center of Gravity?
Three years ago, I inherited a solid Biachi road bike from my dad. I'm pretty into it now. I usually bike 50 - 100 miles on the weekends, but as that number has crept up, I've run into some some fit issues. Maybe you can help me out with some conceptual stuff. [more inside]
Pain - it got good to me?
I've been in chronic pain--rarely acute, but constant, flitting about different parts of my body--for years: diagnosis: early Fibro. In early spring, I started getting really bad headaches from clenching my teeth. Not the first time I've had the problem, but never before this intense and for this long. Then about a month ago, I developed lower-back/sciatic pain--again, I've had it before, but never so badly or for so long. The two things didn't overlap much, but they sort of drowned out my regular aches and pains.
Now my back problem is clearing up, and I find myself in a panic about not being in pain anymore [more inside]
Brasilian Portuguese Translation Help
I'm a high school marching band director and our fall marching show is jazz from Cuba, Brasil, and the United States. Visually I'm using vintage postcards that someone may have sent while traveling. My translation of "Wish you were here!" is as follows...
"Queria que você estivesse aqui!" [more inside]
posted by bach at 9:52 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by bach at 9:52 AM PST - 6 comments
Mirror a video RSS feed on a secondary server?
I work in an educational environment, and we have a local media server set up to record lectures and then allow them to be watched/downloaded online via podcast-type RSS, but only a limited number can be stored before they're deleted. How can I go about setting up a mirror of this RSS feed that will allow me to store these recordings indefinitely? More details inside. [more inside]
Smith & Doe or Smith-Doe?
What's the best way to reflect our family's last names on a return address stamp? [more inside]
What is this terrible spider
My husband just sent me a picture of a spider he found in our kitchen today. Can anyone identify what it is and how high I should calibrate my level of terror (which is currently extremely, very high)? Here is photo of the terrible creature. Beyond identifying, should I be very alarmed about the possibility it may have laid eggs somewhere in our house? We live in Massachusetts, so I am guessing it hitchhiked in on bananas or something. To that point, I bought bananas on Sunday (and usually do a good check in the store for this very reason), and I did take said bananas down from their hanging perch this morning and discarded two that seemed to be rotting from the bottom (bottoms had turned brown). I am now imagining that our trash can is full of terrifying spiders. Help me, Metafilter!
posted by banjo_and_the_pork at 9:27 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by banjo_and_the_pork at 9:27 AM PST - 25 comments
How do I get lots of free/cheap porn magazines for an art project?
I am working on a very large series of art pieces which incorporate images from porn magazines. (I prefer magazines' print quality to that of what I can find online.) However, I'm having trouble getting enough magazines and don't know how to amass a lot without spending lots of money. Freecycle and Craigslist both forbid porn, though I have gotten a couple stacks from CL. There is no bookstore locally that can help. I am open to any and all hardcore magazines (no Playboy or Penthouse). Any orientation, any fetish is fine, and they need not be recent. I can't afford to pay much for the magazines but could of course pay for shipping.
Open / Free 3d models for splints and hand braces
I would like to make a custom brace for my wrists and some supports for my aching feet using my 3d printer. What are some good places to get started in approaching this project? Is there a site with some existing models? Has anyone on MeFi done this? Should I just start from a 3d scan of my various body parts and build from there to see what's comfortable or should I just take apart my existing splints and start tweaking parts? [more inside]
From Oracle Solaris to vmware Red Hat
My boss wants me to find out how to convert our server room full of Oracle / Sun Solaris machines, into vmware Guest Machine instances running Red Hat Enterprise Linux. [more inside]
Bay Area cat rescue question.
A friend in the Bay Area (Daly City) rescued an abused cat and is looking for a home for him. The cat is chipped to the abusive owner. [more inside]
At the end of my itchy rope
As an eczema sufferer, how can I stop scratching in my sleep and give my raw, battered skin time to heal? [more inside]
posted by rachaelfaith at 8:13 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by rachaelfaith at 8:13 AM PST - 25 comments
Recording Skype calls with Audio Hijack Pro
As part of my doctoral research, I will be conducting interviews with Skype for transcription and analysis. I've heard good things about Audio Hijack Pro as a tool to record audio from Skype -- both from online reviews and from faculty mentors. I've installed the latest version of Skype on my MacBook Air and am currently using the trial version of Audio Hijack Pro (I expect to pay for the full version if I can get the demo working). It works, BUT, I am consistently hearing a horrible echo and feedback when I am hijacking the audio on my Skype test calls. Help! (help...help...help...) [more inside]
posted by pantarei70 at 8:07 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by pantarei70 at 8:07 AM PST - 6 comments
Benign Keylogger
I'm looking for a benign keylogger to record the number of keypresses and button presses I make each day. This would be installed on my laptop running Vista (and is for my own personal edification). There are lots of results via Google, but I trust MeFites more, of course. [more inside]
iPhone 5s internet restriction solutions for a teenager
Looking for a simpler way to cut-off internet access between specific times at night and morning on an iPhone... [more inside]
What is going on with my laptop screen?
In the past few days I've notice blue vertical lines on my monitor, only in white areas. What is going on? Is it a graphics card issue? [more inside]
posted by msbrauer at 7:28 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by msbrauer at 7:28 AM PST - 10 comments
Staving off the malicious narcissist
We all know of them, and some of us are unlucky enough to know one or more in real life - the narcissist, the emotional vampire, the malicious manipulator without a conscience. Some of us have seen them in action for years, but the malice was never turned our way. And now, my partner and I are on the receiving end of that malice. What safeguards can we put in place to protect our family? [more inside]
No, kitty, this is MY garage.
A stray cat has apparently taken a liking to our garage. How do we stop this? [more inside]
How do I get google to distinguish me from another author?
I'm an author with a google problem. I have the same name as another author (completely different genre, though) and if you google that name, my books show up alongside hers in search results. This has been a recurring problem for years, to the point where I'm planning on tweaking my name for my next book, but for now I'd just like our books not to be conflated. (Google also combines images of me and this other woman, although I'm not as concerned about that). I've tried reporting this issue to google, but so far haven't had much luck penetrating the bubble. Any tech-savvy people have ideas on how I can distinguish my work?
Thanks in advance...
What's going on with my girlfriend's wifi/LAN?
Recently my girlfriend switched internet providers, from Verizon to Time Warner. Since installing the new Time Warner-provided router, we've both been having problems with our phones seemingly not being able to use certain apps or services. [more inside]
Explain business to an innumerate child.
I'm working on a novel (yeah, yeah) in which the bad guys are, among other things, a couple of rival business-criminal assholes.
I know nearly zero about business, finance, and politics, and I don't want to talk about these folks in ways that show me to be the faffy prancing buffoon I really am. [more inside]
posted by Mister Moofoo at 5:12 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Mister Moofoo at 5:12 AM PST - 11 comments
I want to ride my bicycle - NY edition
I'll be in Manhattan from this weekend for a conference and some holiday time. I'm trying to keep up cycle training for a big event in two months. Are there routes around Manhattan where I can do some nice mileage while seeing some sights and feeling secure? Details within. [more inside]
posted by hannahlambda at 3:38 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by hannahlambda at 3:38 AM PST - 18 comments
From which Samuel Beckett novel is this?
Looking for a specific passage in a Samuel Beckett novel (probably from Watt or Murphy). I'm pretty certain this is from one of his early novels, rather than any of his other works. [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c at 3:14 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by cincinnatus c at 3:14 AM PST - 3 comments
June 10
Enough with the wrinkles
I moved to a new place with in-unit washer and dryer a few months ago. Since I started using those machines, my button-down casual and dress shirts come out of the laundry extremely wrinkled. Jeans also end up wrinkled enough that they usually require ironing. I've almost never had to iron clothes in the past. Now I spend quite a bit of time ironing everything, and it's especially difficult and time-consuming because the wrinkles are so severe. How can I stop this from happening? Ideally I want to go back to those blissful days of not ironing at all. A few pertinent facts inside. [more inside]
posted by naju at 11:16 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by naju at 11:16 PM PST - 24 comments
Podcasts exploring how a topic interesects other areas
One of my favourite Youtube series is Extra Credits. This series is centered around games, but it explores any number of related topics from games in education, the business of making games, careers in the game industry, religion, psychology, social issues....
Are there any other podcasts or video series where the creator has strong expertise in a particular topic, but relates in to a broad range of other areas?
epiphanies while living the van life
You've lived/camped/traveled extensively in your caravan/camper-van/class b RV... [more inside]
Help us not get scammed!
My fiance and I are thinking of renting other people's timeshare units. We notice that there are a number of websites that offer this. We are concerned about getting scammed. How should we go about renting and paying for timeshares without getting scammed in the process? [more inside]
You can't get there from here. No, really, you can't.
How can I tell Google Maps and GPS navigation systems that there has been a gate across part of my road since the mid-90s? [more inside]
posted by Lou Stuells at 9:18 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Lou Stuells at 9:18 PM PST - 8 comments
Attending a classical Indian dance performance debut?
A coworker invited me to her daughter's rangapravesha (indian dance performance) after I saw a fancy brochure/program at her desk and remarked, "Wow, this looks amazing! It would be great to see this kind of dance performance! Let me know when she is performing!" Did I awkwardly invite myself to what is essentially a family event, like a quinceañera or a graduation? If you've been to a rangapravesha or had one of your own, what else should I know if I attend? Additional over-thinking questions below the fold. [more inside]
posted by NikitaNikita at 8:37 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by NikitaNikita at 8:37 PM PST - 10 comments
How to be an aunt?!
How can I be a good aunt to my future nephew and support to my sister? [more inside]
Fundraising for a sick friend - need advice on banking
My dear friend is entering the hospital tomorrow and joining the heart transplant list.
We need to open a bank account so we can start accepting Paypal donations from friends and family who live too far away to help make meals, etc.
What questions should I be asking a bank? Ideas on how to get started? [more inside]
Master in Bioengineering at EPFL vs Biomedical Eng. at Imperial College
I summarize this dilema below:
I have been accepted at EPFL (Switzerland) for the master in bioengineering with an EPFL Excellence Fellowship and also at the MsS in Biomedical Engineering at Imperial College London. Both Universities are very well ranked in these areas, as you can see in this bioengineering rank.
In most rankings, Imperial College is a few places above EPFL and London is a great city but I would have a really good scholarship if I go to EPFL (18000$ per year) and the tuition is much lower (about 1000$ vs 13000$ at Imperial). [more inside]
Partners of motorcyclists - how do you manage your anxiety?
My boyfriend has had a motorcycle for years, since before we met. I've always known he loves motorcycles and will always want to have one. I've always had some anxiety about his safety on the bike - not because I don't think he's a cautious and experienced rider (he is very much so) but because, well, they can be quite dangerous, especially in the city. We live together now and I'm more aware of his comings and goings than I used to be, so I find myself feeling more and more fearful of something happening to him while riding. [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 7:30 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 7:30 PM PST - 13 comments
Where can I buy humanely acquired milk and cream in Vancouver, BC?
I'm shocked and appalled by the recent revelations regarding the treatment of cattle on the dairy farm in Chilliwack, BC. This is the final straw for me; I can no longer contribute to the success of factory farms by purchasing their products. Help me find a place where I can buy cream for my coffee that is from happy, humanely-raised cows. [more inside]
Webhosts for small sites?
I'd like some recommendations for web hosting companies for relatively small sites. Some snowflakery inside. [more inside]
posted by transient at 7:23 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by transient at 7:23 PM PST - 12 comments
I want to learn DIY skills. What should I buy?
I know the basic renter apartment maintenance things, but nothing beyond that. I have hammers, screwdrivers, etc. However, in a week I am moving to a rural house and want to learn some real DIY skills. What are the "entry-level" DIY tools I should learn and use?
Can I ask her what I should wear?
I have been invited to lunch on my first day at a mid-sized federal agency by a fellow analyst. What should we talk about? [more inside]
posted by inevitability at 6:14 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by inevitability at 6:14 PM PST - 10 comments
Heritage Speaker Guilt
How can I deal with this nagging sense of guilt that I should know more Chinese than I presently do? Or, how can I improve my Chinese as a busy twenty-something year-old? [more inside]
posted by gemutlichkeit at 6:01 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by gemutlichkeit at 6:01 PM PST - 9 comments
Technical Writing offshoring and job security
Technical writers: please share your experiences with me regarding offshoring and job security. I am considering technical writing as a career change and want to determine if it would be a good move to enter this field. Details inside. [more inside]
Please, please please let me get what I want....
I need help finding a hairstylist that listens! [more inside]
Are any computer or IT certifications worth pursing?
I'm in the weird position of being halfway through a psych/programming/IT degree meant to train me as a user interface expert. I'm taking a year off to work. I want to learn more about networks, networking, and network security. I want to learn more about computer security in general, best practices to follow. I want to eventually get a non-glamorous job in tech support or similar to pay the bills until I work my way up. Are any of the current computer/tech/IT certifications worth pursuing? [more inside]
How do I de-program my paper-ripping cat?
I have accidentally trained my otherwise lovely cat to be as annoying and destructive as possible when he wants to be fed by just giving in and feeding him. How do I get him to stop this behavior? [more inside]
posted by shesdeadimalive at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by shesdeadimalive at 3:39 PM PST - 20 comments
These Boots are Made for Showing Off
I love cowboy boots, and on a recent trip to Portland let my lust overcome me and bought some. I'm normally a conservative dresser (suits, dresses, skirts with jackets) during the week, and a jeans and Tshirt kind of person on weekends. Suggestions on what to wear with the new boots? They are mid-calf. One pair are a gorgeous rich brown with tooled roses and the other is brown and black tooling.
posted by bearwife at 2:59 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by bearwife at 2:59 PM PST - 16 comments
Car insurance for someone who doesn't drive
My mother wants to give me her car so I can insure it for her - is this insurance fraud? [more inside]
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 2:25 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 2:25 PM PST - 17 comments
Tips for shopping for a mid-level acoustic guitar
I have about $300-400 to spend on a new acoustic guitar that will be gifted to someone who is a classically-trained pianist but would be a beginner on this particular instrument, someone who wants to play music in the vein of Cat Stevens (i.e., pop-folk). There are simply so many options out there that I thought I would ask this site for advice. [more inside]
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 2:23 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 2:23 PM PST - 27 comments
Are there Risks to Moving a PreCor 5.31 Eliptical to Another Room?
The PreCor 5.31 is balanced with magnets, and doesn't seem to have any wheels. It's behind my desk right now, and we redid a room on the same floor I want to move it to.
I'm worried that, since it doesn't seem to be built to move around, there might be an issue with taking it across the house.
Anyone know of risks? Do I need to contact my dealer?
do I need to relocate my business and register in a new state?
Currently I live with family in Hew Hampshire and have registered an LLC this year here in NH at my parents' address.
I'm moving just south of the border in MA, only 20 minutes away. Do I need to relocate my business? Seems like it costs more to register a business in MA.
Tax-wise I believe it will be the same because NH based software businesses operating in MA will be taxed a sales tax starting this year.
What are the real risks to having a google account?
What are the real risks to having a google account? What are the benefits to staying out of Google's ecosystem that outweigh the inconvenience? [more inside]
posted by Naib at 12:44 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Naib at 12:44 PM PST - 15 comments
Musical instrument that can be stored in a vehicle?
I need a musical instrument that can be stored in a vehicle (no climate control) for months at a time in a climate that is hot (over 100 degrees F during the daytime in the summer) and dry (not humid), without becoming warped or destroyed somehow. [more inside]
Evaluating a City - what to look for before moving?
I'm visiting a new city for the first time with the idea that I might move there within the next year or two. What should I be sure to check out/consider to be sure I get the information I need to make a good decision? I've only moved for jobs, and have wound up in a city that stresses me out. How do I pick a better one? [more inside]
posted by snaw at 12:23 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by snaw at 12:23 PM PST - 15 comments
What kind of circuit breaker is this?
An electrician told me that I need to replace the main breaker on this board. He wasn't sure where to find them. I'm hoping someone here has an idea what kind this is so I can try to get it replaced. I live in Austin,TX, so either online or near here.
Here's a picture
posted by jonclegg at 12:22 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jonclegg at 12:22 PM PST - 9 comments
Name that blues song: fish and lipstick.
I heard a song on the CBC a couple weeks ago and can't seem to identify it.
It was a female singer, singing a blues song. The opening line was something along the lines of:
"You told me you went fishing, but I am doubtful, because I don't know any fish that wear lipstick."
Any ideas?
Urban cycling footwear with a straight last?
Looking for good looking, versatile, bike-commute friendly shoes with a "straight last" so my feet stay happy. [more inside]
Bachelorette in DC?
Looking for a couple of nice, loungey spaces for a gathering of about 6 pretty relaxed women (mid-20's) in DC on a Thursday evening.
The bride is pretty low-key, but loves 90's dance music. Ideally, we would:
1) relax at a pool during the afternoon
2) Have a relaxed dinner
3) Drinks at a lounge or low-key club
Looking for suggestions for #1 and #3!
Thank you!
Starting Lamictal, how scared should I be about SJS?
I'm being prescribed Lamictal for a neurological condition by one doctor (a neurologist), but my primary is scaring the crap out of me about the possibility of SJS (8/1000). Should I be terrified? Has anybody had experience with this? I feel like these odds are very small, but I've had some weird reactions before to medications so, yeah, I'm scared. I wish I'd never Googled it!
My house needs new awnings. What would look good as a replacement?
My house has front and back awnings, and they are torn, unravelling, and covered in lichen. I would like to get new ones, but I don't know what would look good color-wise. I also don't know whether I'd prefer metal or cloth. I do know that the back one should probably be metal, since the current one has a big rip where the cloth sagged when it was covered in snow, and then the door opened and ripped it. I am not the most color-coordinated. Should I go with a red/tan pattern similar to the house, or something that would stand out more?
How much does shaving your legs cost you?
I'm looking for any studies that examine time use and grooming, for men and women, and what that means for financial outcomes. NOT: Do well-groomed people get paid more?, but the time that women spend maintaining a traditionally "feminine" appearance, over a lifetime, means time NOT spent cultivating X Y and Z lucrative skills. Have you seen any economists studying this? [more inside]
posted by Ollie at 10:50 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Ollie at 10:50 AM PST - 11 comments
How to most effectively communicate with elected representatives?
In the wake of recent events (left out as this isn't a partisan question, but yes, you all know what I'm referring to), I'd like to contact my elected representatives to urge them to enact and support specific changes to current US laws & policies. I've casually contacted representatives before, usually through canned twitter or emails through various petitions & other party-line websites, but I've never engaged more because I was never sure just how effective it would be - particularly when I am contacting an official who has the opposite viewpoint from mine. So my question is: what is the most effective way to use my time in contacting local and state officials to communicate my views on certain issues? [more inside]
posted by AthenaPolias at 10:29 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by AthenaPolias at 10:29 AM PST - 17 comments
I love tiny things
I was always fascinated by dioramas in museums as a kid, and it only just occurred to me that I could learn/teach myself how to make them as a hobby. I would like to be able to make realistic ground/foliage/rocks, buildings (both modern and otherwise), and people/animals. The last one is easy enough to find books on. As for the rest... I'm having a harder time. [more inside]
Please help me finish this quiz
I don't know and can't find the answer to this old school rap question:
"This rapper’s name is sometimes sprayed on the faces of chumps who think they gonna git some from a lady who ain’t havin’ it. (spelling counts)"
posted by denaps at 10:10 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by denaps at 10:10 AM PST - 4 comments
What's happening with Truecrypt?
Recently I noticed a lot of controversy about whether Truecrypt is secure or not. It looks like their webpage is raising concerns about it, even to the point of suggesting that people migrate their data away from it. Arstechnica and others are following the story.
What's going on? Might this be a hoax? Are truecrypt encrypted flashdrives not safe? If not, what level of security do they provide, if any? What would be a good alternative if we are to migrate away as quickly as possible?
posted by jasper411 at 9:59 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by jasper411 at 9:59 AM PST - 9 comments
Article finder edition
Help me find a blog/article on using Outlook as the email organization/productivity system! My google searches are failing. [more inside]
"Sobriety" Coins/Chips/Medallions For an Ex-Smoker?
After several decades of sucking up carcinogenic fumes, Mr. Thumbscrews quit smoking... yay! I'd like to present him with the smokers' equivalent of AA sobriety "chips" on his various "___ months without a cig" dates. My Google-fu is failing to produce anything. Any ideas, Hive? The ideal medallion would be cheap-ish, possibly funny, and definitely non-hokey (no soaring eagles or serenity prayers). Thanks!
Can I learn rhythm?
I'd like to be a better musician. I have a poor sense of rhythm. I can get by, but I wish I were better. Is there anything I can do? Listening to beats in headphones all day? Or am I doomed to just try my hardest and being mediocre?
posted by cmm at 9:14 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by cmm at 9:14 AM PST - 15 comments
How can I keep going forward during a series of crises?
My life has been a bit hard for a while now. It has been ruthless #@$* for a few months. I need some strategies to force myself to keep going. Lots of moaning follows. [more inside]
Thoughtful-but-entertaining novels for the nonliterary type?
I'm teaching an introductory course on prose fiction (reading, not writing). What fun post-1900 novel should I put on the syllabus? Should be intelligent, but needn't necessarily be, you know, Literary. [more inside]
Economical Vehicle for 8?
I need to find a safe vehicle that can seat a family of 8 comfortably and still have enough room to haul backpacks and school sports equipment. [more inside]
At your age? With no degree?
I have been thinking about a career switch, but I'm feeling overwhelmed by the possible choices. I'm increasingly interested in some kind of tech field. But god... so many different ways to go there. Programming? Web development? Database administration? Heck, what about blogging? Or this fancy data science thing that everyone's talking about? [more inside]
posted by natteringnabob at 6:56 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by natteringnabob at 6:56 AM PST - 11 comments
Easy way to manage iPhone photos and iCloud photo backups?
I'm getting frequent alerts on my iPhone that my free 5gb of iCloud storage is full. Most of this is from years of photos on my phone--in fact, that's pretty much the only thing on my phone I would care about having backed up. I also think most/all of the images on my phone are already backed up to my computer in Lightroom. Is there a convenient/automatic way to handle what photos stay on my phone and what photos are backed up to iCloud? [more inside]
Not-too-dressy, sneaker-y work shoes (for men)?
I love my Camper romeos, but the white outsole is, I've recently been informed, inappropriate for work/with dress pants. I'm looking for a shoe with a similar look/style without the white outsole: more sneaker-y than dressy, but dressed up enough that I can get away with wearing it at work.
I really like desert shoes, but they're a bit too large and clunky for me. I looked at Camper's other offerings but don't see anything that appeals; same with Clarks.
My Zappos searches keep turning up the same few options. Any ideas on specific models or brands I might be overlooking? Thanks!
posted by batscam at 5:51 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by batscam at 5:51 AM PST - 18 comments
Identify this painting of a merman
Can you attribute this painting of a merman? Likely circa 1910-50, maybe a Belgian Symbolist or French Surrealist painter.
The Ballad of Hillary Clinton?
I just discovered the awesomeness that is Amelia Earhart's Last Flight [SLYT].
I'm looking for other songs about women who made an impact, historical or modern - if you know of a tune about Catherine the Great, Margaret Meade, Freya Stark, etc please share!
Can you answer this question before my traffic court at 9 am?
I'm due in traffic court at 9 am. Help me use math to prove I didn't do it. [more inside]
posted by anastasiav at 4:41 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by anastasiav at 4:41 AM PST - 15 comments
Help me not get fired, Metafilter!
Some really horrible stuff was going down at work. I took absolutely no part in it, and even acknowledged that it may not be legal. I did this all over email, and even received responses back acknowledging this. I was explicitly threatened that if i wasn’t going to be a part of it, then i was to “forget about it or lose your job”. So recently, they all got busted. And like a bunch of cowards, they all blamed it on me. And because I’m the low girl on the totem pole, it looks like I might have been the one doing all this stuff (without ANY proof). But I have proof! [more inside]
Should I continue pursuing her?
Basically, there is this girl I really really like, and there are a few things that tell me that the feelings are mutual.
But she has already told me... twice... That she just wants to be friends with me.
The way she acts with me doesn't match what she says though. [more inside]
A great quote in 20 words or less. GO!
When I sleep aboard a boat I often slip a 6" piece of cardboard into the vent over my head to stop the chilly airflow while I sleep. I want to write on it with marker a nice quote I'll look up at every time I'm in bed. I'd like for it to be a nice reminder to see every night before I close my eyes. [more inside]
posted by AnOrigamiLife at 2:01 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by AnOrigamiLife at 2:01 AM PST - 27 comments
Working for Redfin as a Real Estate Agent
My friend is a Realtor in Madison and needs a job for when she moves to Seattle. She's intrigued by Redfin. What should she know about working for them? [more inside]
How is non-stolen offline credit card fraud possible?
I just got notified about suspicious credit card activity that is indeed not me. Talked to my bank and all is good. But what boggles me is how this even happened. I have my credit card with me right now (not stolen/lost). The purchases that were made also seem to have required a physical card (gas station, fast food restaurant, home supplies store, etc.).
So how was it even possible for the fraudster to make physical purchases without an actual card? As far as I know, whenever you make a purchase offline, you have to swipe a physical card, correct? I am bewildered and now highly paranoid. I just want to know so I can be more aware and hopefully prevent something like this from happening again.
posted by pockimidget at 12:14 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by pockimidget at 12:14 AM PST - 17 comments
Square Pin in Round Hole (which happens to be my iPad headphone jack....
Oh nooooo! Square reader connector pin broke off in my beloved iPad's headphone jack It doesn't protrude, I tried tweezers, needle nose pliers, and as suggested by some:bent thumb tack, hot paperclip, Bic Pen refil, everything but glue. Can't loosen it, I think it is really jammed. Others report apple can't/won't fix. PLEASE HELP, thanks
June 9
How to best cope without air conditioning?
I moved to the Pacific Northwest; absolutely none of the apartments I've toured feature air conditioning. How do I use the amenities I do have to improve comfort and quality of life? [more inside]
Daughter's boyfriend has made edits to her social media
Daughter's (21) boyfriend (of 7 months) has made edits to her social media accounts to block her (long ago) ex-boyfriend, without her permission or knowledge. What should I advise her?
I did look for previous questions (snoop, email, etc) but couldn't find relevant questions.
My Grits Runneth Over
Due to a miscommunication, my wife and I each bought a giant carton of quick-cooking grits for a recipe that used about half a cup. I hate to waste food, but I'm a Yankee and not in the habit of a bowl of grits for breakfast. What can I make with this avalanche of grits? [more inside]
posted by murphy slaw at 10:24 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by murphy slaw at 10:24 PM PST - 21 comments
Social Media Protocol: Unfriending a Coworker Edition
What's the protocol for blocking/unfriending a coworker if you still want to be friends with almost all your other coworkers on Facebook? [more inside]
posted by Hermione Granger at 8:25 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Hermione Granger at 8:25 PM PST - 24 comments
Hound Anxiety!!!!!!
Yesterday my boyfriend and I adopted a loving, sweet, mostly well-behaved rescue hound (Basset/Beagle cross). He doesn't want to let us out of his sight, and definitely doesn't want us to leave the house. We know about long-term separation anxiety training, but what do we do in the short-term so we can actually leave the house together once in a while? [more inside]
posted by Bluestocking_Puppet at 8:25 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Bluestocking_Puppet at 8:25 PM PST - 17 comments
Oh god oh god the dog is sick.
Yesterday my family adopted a companion dog for my elderly grandmother. Today, the vet says the dog has a long list of medical concerns. I am not sure if it is best to keep the dog and deal with his health problems or return him to his rescue group (which makes me a little sick to my stomach but might be best?). We only have a few days to decide. [more inside]
posted by Snarl Furillo at 8:15 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Snarl Furillo at 8:15 PM PST - 26 comments
Get Me Some Hobbies
As per the title, but with a lot of restrictions: I have a 4mo baby so I can only leave the house for about an hour before she needs to nap again. The baby also has us down to one income so the hobby must be cheap. The baby is also unpredictable with naps, so anything that requires long intensive periods of concentration won't work. I have to be able to drop whatever I am doing with no notice. I also have a very chewy puppy, so I can't lay things out on the floor (or even on the table, really) or she will eat them. I am not keen to go outside while she sleeps as I can't hear her crying.
What can I do with my time? [more inside]
posted by jojobobo at 8:12 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by jojobobo at 8:12 PM PST - 18 comments
And the beat goes on...
They left the music running....(snowflakes inside) [more inside]
Please help me buy my first car! Snowflakey details inside.
I am, unfortunately, in the market for a (used) car. I know nothing about cars. I need a car for upcoming PhD research travel to inaccessible places, but, being a PhD student, have very little money. I need help figuring out: a cheap but reliable car model, a price bracket to spend that will have me driving something that won't literally fall apart on the road, what my deal-breakers should be, and a game plan on where and how to actually purchase a used car. Help? [more inside]
posted by ClaireBear at 7:50 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by ClaireBear at 7:50 PM PST - 29 comments
Has something happened to the Kevin Pollak Chat Show iTunes feed?
Does anyone know if there's something wrong with the Kevin Pollak Chat Show video podcast iTunes feed? Starting with the 5/20/14 episode #204, only the episodes titles are downloading automatically from the subscription into my iTunes but not the episodes themselves. [more inside]
Can I drive a car with temporary documentation into Canada?
Last week, I bought a new car. Can I drive in and out of Canada with a temporary license plate, registration, and insurance card? [more inside]
posted by ddbeck at 7:32 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ddbeck at 7:32 PM PST - 4 comments
Can I ask for a raise?
I've worked at my current job for 12 months. I think I've had a great year and have become more valuable to the company. I would like to ask for a raise but I don't know whether this is a reasonable request or how to ask if it is. Career specific details below. [more inside]
There has to be more than this
I periodically get overcome by a feeling of what I can only describe as existential angst. Almost as if I can see life stretching in front of me and it's just more of the same: the daily grind of work, housework, weekends that are never long enough. Never feeling like I've achieved enough or done all the things I should, but also feeling like there's never enough time for it all. And what's the point anyway? Not in a "life is so meaningless I wish I was dead" kind of way, but just this nagging feeling that there's supposed to be something more than this. [more inside]
posted by Athanassiel at 6:31 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by Athanassiel at 6:31 PM PST - 39 comments
Nonfiction, Fiction, Poetry about people's lives
I'm looking for essays, books, poetry, nonfiction, or whatever else about normal people's everyday lives and pasts, humorous if possible. I'm looking for stuff in the vein of the New York Press's old columns (like the ones Ned Vizzini wrote) or like Books of Adam. Writing that is casual, but well written.
posted by holmesian at 5:49 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by holmesian at 5:49 PM PST - 10 comments
Fancy Ryokan close(ish) to Narita Airport?
My good friend and I will be in Japan this August for two weeks! Most of the time we're staying at budget ryokan, but for our last night in the country we wanted to find someplace more special....and convenient to the airport. [more inside]
Daycare recommendations for infants in the Cambridge/Somerville area
Hi, my wife/partner/homie and I are going to be having a baby. He will emerge in August. Can you recommend daycare places (including home daycare providers) near Cambridge and Somerville that you've had good experiences with? [more inside]
How do I find my episode of Reading Rainbow?
Many, many years ago, when I was a wee pup, I was on an episode of Reading Rainbow. You know the short segments when they had kids present a sort of short, spoken book review of their favorite book? Well I presented Oliver Twist. [more inside]
Uploading photos to Facebook for the computer unsavvy
My dad is a HUGE fan of Facebook. However he's not hugely competent with computers. He's now asking how he can upload photos from his most recent holidays for his friends to see. There are over a thousand photos in the album. How can we streamline this? [more inside]
Does twitter ads hold itself accountable for followers it did not get?
Debating using Twitter ads at the company where I work- you only pay if the ads actually work, according to twitter - only if people follow you, they say. Our question - if it charges per follower, is it per follower who clicked through the ad and ended up clicking follow after being led there by the ad, or does it charge for every single - even organic or gained otherwise - follower you or your company or brand amass during the time the ad is running? This is a very big distinction as far as I am concerned.
posted by jitterbug perfume at 3:48 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jitterbug perfume at 3:48 PM PST - 3 comments
How much to tip delivery of lumber
I bought $500 of lumber from the local hardware store/lumber yard. They will delivery it tomorrow. Assuming there are two guys and it takes them 5-10 minutes to unload it, how much should I tip each of them, if anything?
Maytag top loading washing machine stopped working & filled with water
I washed a pillow in my washing machine last night; the machine kept stopping during the cycle. I would re-adjust the pillow and re-start. Before it got to the spin cycle, when the machine was still filled with water, it stopped completely. My husband is pretty handy but he can't figure this one out. Before I spend 100-200.00 on a service call, does anyone have any suggestions?
posted by htm at 3:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by htm at 3:43 PM PST - 8 comments
Looking for neurologist and other doctors in Northern Louisiana
I am moving to Northern Louisiana and looking for a neurologist who treats idiopathic neuropathy and an internist who is sympathetic to chronic pain. [more inside]
White House Staff Members During Bush/Cheney Administration
Why don't we have jet helicopters?
Inspired by this post. So we actually already have flying cars, they're called helicopters. But why aren't there any helicopters that use jet turbines instead of rotors for lift? I'm not talking about turboshafts or tip jets, but actual turbines like in a jet plane. They would look more like a car and people would shut up already about this flying car nonsense. Thanks.
posted by Tom-B at 2:57 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Tom-B at 2:57 PM PST - 17 comments
Help me find a memorial poem my mom and I both like.
I'm reading a poem for my grandmother's memorial service. I want to find something I like that will also get my mother's OK. [more inside]
I lose everything and I need to stop!
Not sure how to express this problem. I've had this as long as I have lived. Basically, I am little absentminded and lose track of where things (like wallet, phone, keys) are really easily. It hasn't been too bad until recently. [more inside]
How can I stop looking at websites that just make me upset?
I can't stop reading PUA websites even though they make me unhappy, and I'm not sure how to deal with the effects it's having on me. [more inside]
posted by aivilo91 at 2:11 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by aivilo91 at 2:11 PM PST - 46 comments
Google spreadsheet to generate list of styled links in html document
I'd like to have a simple html page of styled links that can be updated using a Google spreadsheet. [more inside]
Tips for Visiting a Robert Frost Landmark?
I'm interested in visiting a Frost Landmark in September as part of a road trip to Northern New York, Vermont, New Hampshire, and Massachusetts in September.
But there are so many to choose from! And my traveling companion probably won't put up with visiting ALL of them. So help me pick, particularly if you have experience with visiting one or some or all of them. [more inside]
posted by Jahaza at 1:49 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Jahaza at 1:49 PM PST - 4 comments
Doctoral advisor moving universities
My doctoral advisor is moving universities. What do I need to know? What are good questions to ask? [more inside]
How to get cited in media articles relating to your domain?
How does one get interviewed/cited in articles? Someone once told me there was a service that you could sign up with if you were interested in being contacted by journalists who were covering a particular domain. Does this ring a bell with anyone?
Preserving a butterfly for eternity
So, I found a mummified, perfectly preserved butterfly on my window sill. Its beautiful and I want to preserve it and look at it and may be show it off to people. See if I can make a brooch or something out of it and give it as a gift to people close to me.
But I cant do any of this as the butterfly is quite fragile. How can I preserve this butterfly forever ... or if that's not possible, a very long time? [more inside]
posted by TheLittlePrince at 1:31 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by TheLittlePrince at 1:31 PM PST - 7 comments
PMP management
I am looking for classes/training on project management (PMP). [more inside]
Applying for FoodStamps want to be ethical, get approved, it's complex
OK, so I am a grad student and I have been struggling to get by on student loans. I found out that if I am eligible for work study, which I am! Then I am eligible for food stamps- the $200 in food stamps a month would really help me out. My tuition is high (I don't have support from my family- Ha! I help them) and last month my student loans ran short, I had to get an increase and was late on rent. [more inside]
How to conquer activity withdrawal depression?
I get depressed when I can't surf. Sometimes it's just a day or two because of work, sometimes its weeks because of an injury or a bout of bad weather. The closest I can find to this on Google are runners who get depressed when they can't run. I realize this is a very first world problem. I'm not going to kill myself and the depression lifts as soon as I can surf again. I can perform my job without getting fired. I have mentioned my depression to my other surfer friends and, while they all itch to surf, they don't seem to get depressed.
I would love to get thoughts on:
1. Non-chemical solutions to not being depressed on days without surf
2. Deeper questions as to why my happiness is so linked to this activity [more inside]
posted by puertosurf at 1:20 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by puertosurf at 1:20 PM PST - 10 comments
ETAIORNS
What's the best way to buy a lot of six-sided alphabet letter dice? Distribution would ideally be similar to what's found in a Boggle game. I'm not picky about colors or inclusion/exclusion of certain characters.
What does it say??
Characters on the bottom of a porcelain box - what does it say? [more inside]
NYC bar for a Saturday night gathering
Seeking an NYC bar for a gathering of around eight people in their mid-to-late 30s. Requirements: quiet enough to talk; spacious enough that we can all congregate in one spot or will take reservations; in downtown Manhattan (roughly speaking); reasonably accessible by subway a big plus. Difficulty: event planned for a Saturday night, around 8 PM, and I don't expect everyone to show up at the same time (which makes reservations tricky). Thanks!
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 12:47 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 12:47 PM PST - 8 comments
Stock just split, so what do I do with my paper certificates?
A while ago I was gifted a few shares of AAPL stock. They were – and still are – on paper certificates. I don't have a brokerage or anything. Today that stock split 7-for-1. Do I need to do anything now? You can assume I know pretty much nothing about this stuff. Thank you!
posted by churl at 12:31 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by churl at 12:31 PM PST - 8 comments
Missed escitalopram dose and side effects.
I missed my daily dose of 10mg of lexapro. (I am out of the country for a long spell otherwise I'd ask my doctor!)
I swear all day and the next I was depressed and anxious in a way I haven't felt since I started the drug.
However, from what I understand of the drug, this seems unlikely to be related physically.
Is this evidence on the side of the argument, that the positive effects are largely psychological? Or is the contrary true?
Help me make this awesome playlist!
Looking for songs that would sound good on a playlist with I Am The Walrus (The Beatles) and Subterranean Homesick Blues (Bob Dylan) [more inside]
Where are my female zucchini flowers?
I planted a zucchini plant in a container in March (I'm in the US, zone 9) and it has only given male flowers. It's probably gone through 6 generations of flowers by this point. Am I ever going to get squash? What's going on here? Details provided inside. [more inside]
posted by karbonokapi at 10:34 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by karbonokapi at 10:34 AM PST - 4 comments
Nice girls don't get the corner office
Tips for succeeding in the workplace (Special snowflake details: female people pleaser) [more inside]
Great lenguage irrelevat activities?
My wife is finally going to meet my family. Problem, they don't speak English, She doesn't speak Russian. What are good non speech dependent fun activities we can all do? [more inside]
Trying to keep my house's value up (fighting the man!)
The property behind our subdivision is large (~6 acres) and has been sold to a developer. Developer wants to put in 92 townhomes. I'm all for people doing what they want with their property, but this will have a great impact on our homes. We have a small creek that can't handle that much runoff. This neighborhood will have one entrance/exit for the 92 homes and back up traffic on our road. They will fell a lot of trees. My house might lose value. Any ideas? City council meeting is tonight.
posted by heathrowga at 9:50 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by heathrowga at 9:50 AM PST - 13 comments
another podcast suggestion question
My job lets me listen to stuff while I work, and I'm finding that podcasts are the right level of mental stimulation. I don't know much about podcasts. I like media and funny people shooting the shit. What should I listen to? [more inside]
Where to stay in New York City?
I will be in New York for five weeks in December/January, and need to find a relatively affordable place to stay. More inside. [more inside]
posted by ASlackerPestersMums at 9:36 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by ASlackerPestersMums at 9:36 AM PST - 13 comments
Please, please, please, please, please sleep.
Our 6 month old has never slept well. The sleep deprivation is destroying me. Is there anything we haven't thought of? Anything else we can try? [more inside]
Resources to recover from PIED?
[NSFW] Looking for resources and experiences from others who suffered with Porn-Induced ED. What can I do and what can my partner do to help me get my mojo back? [more inside]
Where can I smoke cannabis in Seattle?
I'm in Seattle for a few days, and I purchased a small amount of pot. Where can I legally smoke it? Preferably near Belltown.
Gillian Welch without David Rawlings?
I love Gillian Welch's songs and her voice, but I really dislike David Rawlings' guitar-playing. Are there any substantive recordings of Gillian Welch playing solo, without Rawlings accompanying her? [more inside]
posted by aparrish at 7:44 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by aparrish at 7:44 AM PST - 6 comments
How to catalogue a collection and plan a rare book sale
I'm looking for general advice about how to bring a garage collection of many hundreds of valuable books to market. Part of this process will likely involve software choices. [more inside]
posted by peacay at 7:42 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by peacay at 7:42 AM PST - 7 comments
Best therapists in the Milwaukee or Appleton areas ?
Trying to help a friend find a therapist. He's been seeing a counselor at our university, but the student counseling center is closing for the summer. [more inside]
Introductory sources on biological classification
I'm beginning a project that looks partly at biological classification, primarily in western science. I have no background in this, and so I'm digging around. I'm interested to know more about the current rules for nomenclature, and also to know more about historical, philosophical, sociological, knowledge practice, ethnographic, anthropological, science technology and society (STS), sociotechnical, etc., approaches to the study of biological classification. I'll take monographs, articles, papers, web sites, etc. I have access to a university library. What are some good sources that can introduce me to this? Many thanks!
posted by carter at 6:53 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by carter at 6:53 AM PST - 13 comments
Summer Solstice events in the East Midlands of England
I'm having a difficult time finding interesting summer solstice (June 21st) events in Derbyshire, Leicestershire or Nottinghamshire this year. By events, I mean actual solstice-related events e.g. traditional customs or folklore rituals, morris dancing, pagan events, or astronomical things. Either are there any, or (even better) are there online listings for such events?
posted by Wordshore at 5:53 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Wordshore at 5:53 AM PST - 3 comments
Identify 90s (?) short story collection with a title maybe about falling
Cover was white, cover art was a face or mask or both, female author (I think), and my best recollection is that the title story was about falling or hitting bottom or some combination. [more inside]
Men's Neck Hair (and Shaving)
I have a question about men's neck hair and shaving; looking for input and suggestions. [more inside]
How best to store and preserve old magazines?
I have a dozen old Omni magazines that I'd like to take better care of. They're over thirty years old now and the covers are starting to come off, the page edges are slightly worn, etc. Right now they're just standing on my bookshelf. I'd like to keep them in good condition but also be able to read them, without worrying too much that they'll be damaged in the process. Can they be rebound somehow? Should I just keep them in plastic sleeves, or is there another idea I haven't thought of?
Looking for a song that was wrongly tagged "the bravery - time wont.."
I remember a song from around 2008 that was tagged the bravery- time wont let you go. Ive basically listened to both their sun and moon album but its not one of those songs.
It starts with a strong piano and and its kinda slow but the drums are prominent in the song.
Its killing me and i cant find it anywhere. I can half remember it in my head and it sounds like it could be by the bravery but im not excluding similar sounding artists like the editors.
Cant remember any lyrics though!
Saturday morning child care while at Pepperdine conference
I have a conference at Pepperdine University near Malibu CA and am bringing my kids and another adult. There is a Saturday excursion that my youngest, 6, is too young to participate. We're flying in from the East Coast, how do I find a fun, responsible college kid for that morning? [more inside]
June 8
How do I cash expired coupon bonds in Canada?
Help me, Mifi hivemind! You're my only hope!
My Dad died in December 2012. He was a hoarder who often lost track of his money (and other things too). No surprise, he left a rather tangled estate, including twenty uncashed coupon bonds. All are long past maturity; I know that they stopped earning interest as soon as they matured, and probably we won't be able to get the interest, either. But I'd like to get the principal if possible, and I'm having a hard time finding out if they're redeemable at all. [more inside]
Does anyone recognize this flowering shrub seen in Portland, Oregon?
This shrub is in full bloom now in Portland, Oregon. It is tall and rangy. I've been here thirty years and have been an avid gardener, and I'd never seen it before today.
posted by ADave at 10:12 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by ADave at 10:12 PM PST - 13 comments
Getting a package shipped to the US
I'd like to purchase something online however it is only available for sale in Canada and the UK at this time, and they are not yet shipping to the U.S. Is there a way that I could arrange for an intermediary to get it shipped to a place in Canada and then forwarded to me? [more inside]
posted by gilsonal at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by gilsonal at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
Mysterious random pains
You are not my doctor … but: Off and on for about 30 years, I have had random pinpoint pains. They first started in my head and my legs/hips. Now they are anywhere in my body. They are of basically three types: shooting or stabbing pains (these are the most severe), pinpricks, and the feeling that I am being hit mildly to moderately with a hammer. They are all quick, momentary. [more inside]
posted by maurreen at 8:14 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by maurreen at 8:14 PM PST - 10 comments
How do I remove this Venetian Blind?
One of my cats has chewed through the cord of these blinds and we need to fix it before we move out in a couple of weeks.
The attachment seems to be different from the others in the house which were spring loaded.
We have tried pulling, rotating and prying with a screwdriver but nothing seems to move it.
Here is a link to one of the brackets holding the blind in place.
I've had a look through the other questions but didn't see anything that matched what we have.
posted by poxandplague at 7:53 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by poxandplague at 7:53 PM PST - 13 comments
How can I travel with my prescription medications to a music festival?
I have a variety of health problems; in addition to my asthma inhalers and such, I take about 5 or 6 different prescription medications multiple daily. Several of these are scheduled drugs (things like sedatives mostly) that I need to carry with me at all times. If I do not take them regularly I'm at risk of seizures.... [more inside]
posted by WhitenoisE at 7:33 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by WhitenoisE at 7:33 PM PST - 10 comments
A Lasting Fire
Can I safely preserve my homemade peri peri sauce? [more inside]
YANMDermatologist, but...
I had a mole removed and biopsied last week. It came back negative but the dermatologist recommended a surgical excision to remove "the rest of it." I am leaving the U.S. indefinitely... tomorrow. What are my options? Could I reasonably expect to be able to have this procedure done overseas? [more inside]
Identify 90s song
Can you identify this song about someone's dog, by a 90s girl-fronted band? [more inside]
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAL FOR URUGUAYYYYYY!!!!!!!!
How can someone *listen* to World Cup matches, in the USA, either through a computer or a smartphone? I know something similar has been asked recently, but that was about watching: How do we watch the World Cup?
And by listening to the matches, I mean *all* of the matches. So, hook me up with Iran vs. Nigeria! [more inside]
posted by spinifex23 at 6:37 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by spinifex23 at 6:37 PM PST - 4 comments
I have *the feels* for a boy that I made friends with.
We met as travelers on the Greyhound bus and developed a platonic friendship. I like him so much though. And he may have a girlfriend. Should I just let it go? [more inside]
posted by winterportage at 6:26 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by winterportage at 6:26 PM PST - 21 comments
The right hand of darkness
My right hand and arms have slowly been developing an ache or cramp over the last two weeks that gets worse when I use a trackpad or smartphone. (I'm right-handed.) I'm also starting a software engineering internship tomorrow. What should I do to keep my hands okay? [more inside]
posted by glass origami robot at 6:02 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by glass origami robot at 6:02 PM PST - 18 comments
Firefox 29: Please share your favorite extensions, themes, and scripts
Also Greasemonkey and Stylish [more inside]
wedding reception activity for tables that people would want to do?
We are getting married and we want to have mini pinata-type things on each table at the reception (11 big tables). We want to put some fun stuff in the pinata (like glow sticks for later on) - including - some sort of activity. We want people to break open the pinata and then have to do something as a table. Not terrible or terrifying, very fun. 5-10 minutes. But what? What are your ideas for fun activities they can do? ALSO, what else should we put in the pinata that is fun and (ahem) cheap? Thank you!
International travel and frozen food
I'm about to depart to a foreign country with high priced, low quality, not kid friendly food. It is common for expats to bring meat with them and I want to do this too, with AskMe's help. [more inside]
Accidentally drove 20,000 miles without changing the oil... Now what?
I bought a new Kia Sorento in July of 2012. I then stupidly put 20,000 miles on the car without a single oil change. The car is now burning oil at a rate of roughly 1 quart every 300 miles, so I know I broke something (my dad's theory is a damaged ring; roughly a $5k repair for engine rebuild).
The car came with a great warranty: 3 yr/36k mile bumper-to-bumper, and 10 yr/100k mile power-train. Unfortunately, I have voided that warranty by not preforming the most basic maintenance.
So, I'm not sure what to do now. Options I see are:
-Take it to the dealer for repair and hope they don't ask/notice/care what I've done.
-Take it to the dealer and confess my complete ineptitude.
-Go to a random auto shop for repair (another act that will void my warranty). [more inside]
Help with balky riding lawn mower
I have a Craftsman riding lawn mower with a Briggs and Stratton 10 HP Model # 214907 engine. I just had it serviced this spring, cleaned the carburetor, new air filter and spark plug, etc. It runs like new when I start mowing, but it dies anywhere from 15 - 45 minutes later, and won't start again until it cools down. Google research is pointing to a bad ignition coil. Is there anything else I should check given those symptoms, before ordering a new coil?
SUPER dense hiphop a la Public Enemy & The Bomb Squad?
I've always loved the dense, claustrophobic productions of The Bomb Squad - the information overload sounds like 2 record stores colliding with one another. Public Enemy's 2nd and 3rd LPs, Amerikkka's Most Wanted, etc., sound fresh to this day. What's gone on in the past 20+ years? Point me towards hiphop that's as thick and mindboggling as "Welcome to the Terrordome."
Do I have to cancel my health insurance plan?
I signed up for health insurance via the NY State health insurance exchange in February. At the time, I was unemployed and eligible for Medicaid, which I accepted so my plan was of no cost to me. Fast forward to today, and I have job and I am also covered by employer's health insurance.
Is there anything I have to do, such as cancel the plan, because I am now under my employer's insurance plan?
Mathematical moments of wonder like Cantor's diagonal method
I've been reading Godel, Escher, Bach and I want to find more mind-expanding concepts that give the sense of understanding some fundamental truth. [more inside]
posted by StephenF at 3:57 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by StephenF at 3:57 PM PST - 14 comments
Email help from Gmail experts; Difficulty - key GTD needs would be nice
I want to fly through my email. GTD/Zero inbox style. Trouble multiple accounts including .Mac, gmail and Gmail for business.
I thought I found a desktop client - MailPilot for OSX - but it's just not doing well enough (it's development is too slow.)
Meanwhile, I hear that you can be super clever with Gmail - More inside! [more inside]
Moody, pouting, murderous Tango?
My partner and I are intermediate-level ballroom dancers; we're looking to put together our first formal routine, and would appreciate some helping finding the right music. [more inside]
Songs that say "You suck" - cheerfully!
I'm looking for songs that sound cheerful and perky but express disdain, loathing, hatred, etc. (Not necessarily directed at a former romantic partner, although there are a couple of break-up songs that may fit the bill.) Two of the best examples I can think of are Lily Allen's "Fuck You" and the Scissor Sisters "I Can't Decide." Genre is irrelevant, although it will probably be hard to find a death metal song that is appropriately sunny-sounding. Got any recommendations?
posted by rednikki at 2:52 PM PST - 133 comments
posted by rednikki at 2:52 PM PST - 133 comments
Honest Android RPGs
What are some honest Android RPGs? [more inside]
Mens Pants Filter - Either the butt or the waist fits, but not both
Whenever I shop for pants or shorts, almost everything I try on either has a tight waist and comfortable butt, or tight butt and too-loose waist. This applies across various brands.
I like to say that I'm little in the middle but I got much back, but my proportions aren't that strange. Skinny jeans don't fit me, but I'm not going for pleated dockers, either. I wear approximately a 30" waist and 28" inseam.
Guys, can you recommend any brands that solve this problem?
Looking for the right iOS app to help organize my life
I'm heading to graduate school soon and I'm trying to develop good habits and a good routine in preparation for that change. I've never been good with physical planners (I lose them or forget to write in them) but I always have my iPad so I'm trying to find an app that meets my needs and could use some input. [more inside]
Historical British Detective Novel(s)
I'm looking for suggestions for a book that could appeal to a diverse set of people (i.e. my family). Some historical fiction set in England/Scotland/Wales/Ireland, with a detective-style plot, seems like it would work. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by benito.strauss at 1:24 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by benito.strauss at 1:24 PM PST - 29 comments
How to decline a dinner invitation from bad cooks, but still see them?
My wife and I are foodies, her relatives are terrible cooks. How do we decline their dinner invitation while still getting the chance to see them? [more inside]
Argument got out of hand. Police got called to the house. Now what?
We're a married couple with two kids.
We got into an argument that spiraled out of control and wound up with screaming and yelling and slamming things around (on both parts). There was no physical violence between us, and nobody was at risk of being physically harmed. Nevertheless, someone (a neighbor, we assume) called the police. [more inside]
From Massachusetts to Mount Desert Island, This Land Belongs to You & Me
Thoughts on our New England itinerary? Drive Pittsburgh to Boston then up to Salem, Gloucester, Rockport, Portsmouth (I saw the great thread on the kid trips centered around Portsmouth), Portland, Acadia National Park and back bypassing Boston on the return. [more inside]
My chest is a tank! Tanks need suit jackets too!
FashionPhillyFilter: I have had a borderline-apocalyptic time trying to find a suit/sports jacket that fits in Philadelphia. I am a tall-but-not-notably so (6'0") dude who is built like a [big football guy term here], but with a smaller waist & bottom half to mis-match my enormous breastplate/shoulders. (My friend says "you are an inverse triangle"). Attendants at the stores I have gone to have been completely flummoxed by my proportions, which end up with either the jacket not fitting over my chest or there being a puffy cloud of fabric on the bottom. It's at the point where I'm getting recommendations for $1895 (low estimate I was given???)+ tailor-made jackets as the only solution for my build, which I am trying to avoid based on my budget (doctoral student on stipend). Surely there are... some stores that have tailorable off-the-rack things that might fit? Any suggestions as to stores that have fashionable, comfortable clothing for larger-built gentleman, especially in distance of Philadelphia? [more inside]
posted by Keter at 12:04 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Keter at 12:04 PM PST - 15 comments
Perfect Pork Chops?
I have bought the most expensive, most organic and local and mollycoddled pork chops in my life. I do not want to waste this experience. Please tell me how to make the perfect pan-fried pork chop in agonizing detail. I own cast iron pans and I'm going to serve it with asparagus - that's the only limitation. Otherwise anything goes. Teach me the wisdom of Pork Chopery.
posted by The Whelk at 11:52 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by The Whelk at 11:52 AM PST - 32 comments
Historical TV shows with a theme song about the main character
For some reason, I’ve been thinking lately about the Monty Python sketch “Dennis Moore”, which contains repeated snippets of a song about the main character. (The first instance begins at about 2:40.) I’m looking for similar shows, but played straight instead of as comedy. [more inside]
posted by five toed sloth at 11:01 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by five toed sloth at 11:01 AM PST - 22 comments
Ladies, how do you shave down there without cutting yourself?
I like waxing my lady parts, but it's expensive and I'm prone to ingrown hairs, so I'd like to switch to just trimming. I have a beard trimmer that works well for the hair above my labia. But I'm hesitant to trim the labia majora itself. How do you hold it to avoid nicking yourself inside? (I've already done this, unfortunately). How do you see what's going on in the back? Help.
posted by three_red_balloons at 10:59 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by three_red_balloons at 10:59 AM PST - 15 comments
Source for Silverstein Graphic
I am hunting for the original source for this Shel Silverstein image. [more inside]
posted by fluffycreature at 10:35 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by fluffycreature at 10:35 AM PST - 6 comments
Sexually attracted to women, but romantically attracted to men?
So I've always been attracted to both genders. But I get strong crushes mostly on men. However, unfortunately I'm mainly sexually attracted to women. I thought maybe it wasn't a big deal, but I really can't orgasm without thinking of myself with a woman. This sucks because I haven't ever met a woman that really gave me the butterflies the way men do. What the hell am I supposed to do relationship-wise? [more inside]
Where to stash a car for a couple of weeks near downtown Denver?
We are on a roadtrip in Colorado and want to stay in downtown Denver for 1-2 weeks. We don't envision needing our car during our stay and wish to avoid the expensive parking options in downtown. Is there a good place to stash our car in the Denver area that is safe and inexpensive ($7/day or less) and readily accessible from downtown by public transportation? Any specific parking lot recommendations are welcome.
I need to be better at customer service
If you're stuck working retail, how do you deal with the worst in people? [more inside]
Advice for a new youtuber
My twelve-year-old son has aspirations of becoming a pro youtuber. He initially wants to do video game reviews and demonstrate in-game scenarios. This will involve screencasting while skyping with friends.
What resources can I point him to or advice do you have for getting started? What software and setup are most Youtubers using? He can recognize poorly done videos and wants to do something with decent production quality (bearing in mind it is for an audience of kid gamers). What are some of the key skills in video and audio he should start to pick up? What video formats and resolutions are best for Youtube? Are there places he can get free backing tracks? Are backing tracks even something to worry about? I'm quite knowledgable about computers in general but don't know what I don't know in this area.
I currently have him set up with a decent mic on a Mac Mini, Quicktime for recording, and iMovie for editing. I haven't purchased any screencasting software yet.
Best bike for a really, really short woman?
I have a bike that is way too big for me and as a result, I don't ride it much. I'd like to change that and am looking at WSD bikes. [more inside]
Help me remember the name of an old DOS block pusher puzzle game
I'm sure there are many games like this, but I can't find anything at all similar to the one I'm thinking of. It was a "block pusher" (I'm not sure what else to call it, the sort of game where you solve a puzzle like this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sokoban). I played it on DOS when I was a kid.
I believe the game was set in a dungeon, or at least stone featured heavily. There were various enemies, and you would push around blocks to get through the puzzle while defending yourself from the enemies.
Can anyone think of any specific games like this? It would have been released by 1996 or so at the latest.
posted by jrsnr at 6:37 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by jrsnr at 6:37 AM PST - 10 comments
is bad credit really wiped out after 7 years?
I will try to forgo going into a lot of detail, but certain dramatic events in my life caused me to default on a couple of credit cards years ago and sunk my credit rating into the toilet. I never made any payments on it again and never got another credit card because I had other things on my mind. And Technically I wasn't supposed to be alive now either (Cancer) but suprisingly I survived so now instead of worrying about death I guess I'm worrying about things that normal people worry about now. Like credit rating. I've read that after 7 years you get a clean slate on a debt. It's almost been 7 years since the last payment I made and I'm wondering if I will get a clean slate after that.
The Tech Tree from Civilization is just not detailed enough
I'm looking for a technology tree for the early early history of human technology. I want one that is detailed but it doesn't need to go any further than the Classical age. Do you know of any resources on-line or have any book recommendations that would give me a good part of what I need? [more inside]
How do I cut my own (long, curly) hair?
I don't want another salon cut but I do want shorter hair. How do I do it? [more inside]
posted by terretu at 5:46 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by terretu at 5:46 AM PST - 9 comments
Virginia speeding ticket: asking for leniency? (72 in a 55)
Motorcycle speeding ticket in VA (72 in a 55). I'm not contesting it per se, but is it worth asking for leniency? Details inside. [more inside]
What is this plant?
I bought this plant from the florists but it didn't come with a tag so I don't know how often to water it. Can anyone identify it?
Thanks!
posted by tsh at 5:33 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by tsh at 5:33 AM PST - 3 comments
Best FREE tabletop rpg?
Looking for the best freebie pen and paper rpgs. [more inside]
posted by turbid dahlia at 5:25 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by turbid dahlia at 5:25 AM PST - 13 comments
A big trip to Australia and Japan. Recommendations wanted.
I am planning a big trip this summer to Japan and Australia, departing from Belgium. I have 2 months to travel and this is going to be a 'once in a lifetime' experience. When I get back I know it will be a long time until I can do a trip like that. [more inside]
posted by wolfr at 4:01 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by wolfr at 4:01 AM PST - 12 comments
Does cooking time affect heat retention?
Years ago, a friend of mine mentioned something he'd read about the effect of cooking time on a food's cooling time. The example he gave is a pot of chili. If, for example, you were to heat the chili to a certain temp, and then continue to apply heat just enough to keep it at that temperature overnight, it would take longer to cool than if you heated it to that temperature and then immediately allowed it to cool.
Is there any truth to this? Can you please point me to articles/resources that can prove/disprove this theory?
posted by phreckles at 3:11 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by phreckles at 3:11 AM PST - 16 comments
What's the origin of the nuclear radiation = big monsters sic-fi trope?
With the recent reboot of Gozilla, I got to thinking about classic (and not-so-classic) 1950s era giant monster movies such as Them! or The Beginning of the End, which invariably involve giant monsters that are created through nuclear experiments or explosions. [more inside]
posted by saslett at 1:25 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by saslett at 1:25 AM PST - 10 comments
Yeah, so the real reason I didn't come to your party....
Do I tell a good friend that I've been avoiding him because my husband's jealous of the friendship? Gory details and backstory inside. [more inside]
What are some delicious, easy-to-prepare savoury breakfast foods?
I have about 15-20 minutes to eat breakfast every morning, and when I walk into the kitchen I often have no idea what to eat. This is because I'm really sensitive to sugary things in the morning and the thought of eating cereal / toast with jam or pb or honey / pancakes / crumpets / pikelets / muffins / whatever makes me queasy.
So I really crave savoury things! But I don't know many savoury breakfast foods, and often I don't have enough time to make them e.g. bacon and eggs. And there are only so many times a week I can eat toast without wanting to cease existing. If you have any great recipes for savoury breakfast foods that can be prepared and eaten quickly, or that can be prepared the night before and then be thrown together quickly, I'd love to hear them!
Bonus points for hot foods.
Caveat: I don't like eggs just by themselves. [more inside]
June 7
I Shot Andy Warhol trailer music?
What's the vibraphone-led latin jazz number on the I Shot Andy Warhol trailer? It's not on the soundtrack album.
posted by morganw at 11:50 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by morganw at 11:50 PM PST - 1 comment
What's one place I should eat in Phoenix/Tempe?
I'm new to Tucson and have reason to be in Phoenix for one night (my first time there.) What is one place in Phoenix where you had delicious/pleasant/memorable dinner (besides Pizzeria Bianco)? Any type of food, any type of place: from weird hole in the wall up to moderately priced sit-down restaurant (cheap is a plus, tho). In or near Tempe is a bonus, but I'm open to driving. Maybe something with a little history?
How can I get a OnePlus One invite?
I would really like to get my husband a OnePlus One phone for Father's Day, but it's an invite only release. What would be the best way to get my hands on an invitation?
How can I spend more time around dogs?
I enjoy dogs but am very busy. Where can I go spend a few hours with dogs? I think it may improve my mood. [more inside]
Help me move a concrete birdbath 1800 miles
I have a tall, concrete bird bath that I need to get moved or shipped. It probably weighs somewhere in the neighborhood of 200-300 pounds. It will need to get from Duluth, MN to Portland, OR. What is the best option here? Do we call a moving company there and try and get it to hitch a ride? Hire a college student on a road trip? [more inside]
Tier 4 visa (US to UK). What should I know?
What do I need to know and be prepared for when applying for a tier 4 visa to relocate from the US to the UK? How will my (totally minor and mundane, youthful, etc.) criminal record come into play, and how can I get in front of any potential issues? [more inside]
What to do with a mountain of somewhat questionable potatoes?
I just bought a 10-pound bag of potatoes for super cheap. Yay! On closer inspection, a whole bunch of them are about to go really bad. boo. Please give me your best recipes for quickly turning a whole lot of potatoes into something tasty! [more inside]
posted by Dante Riordan at 7:10 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Dante Riordan at 7:10 PM PST - 12 comments
What are these metal thingies?
My daughter bought a second-hand sewing machine, a Singer Tradition, which is apparently only a couple of years old. Included in the accessories was a small ziplock bag which held six metal thingies, three of one sort and three of the other. We are baffled as to what they are. [more inside]
posted by malibustacey9999 at 6:51 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by malibustacey9999 at 6:51 PM PST - 6 comments
Will I ever get my license?
I've failed my US road test (in NH) -- twice! The first time, six months ago, I messed up in a roundabout, missing my exit because I couldn't find the street the examiner wanted me to take, and slowing down too much while looking for it. I didn't have a chance to to take the test again till last week, and had very little driving practice in the intervening time. [more inside]
Why is this almond milk different?
I am traveling in Europe and have found unsweetened almond milk here with very different nutritional information than I find in the US. Help me figure out what's diffferent, or if one country just has the wrong information. [more inside]
posted by yellowcandy at 6:07 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by yellowcandy at 6:07 PM PST - 8 comments
10 years before the mast?
Do trees respond to a harsh winter by producing a larger volume of seeds in the following spring? [more inside]
Need a little, silly book
I have a young friend graduating from high school - I would like a cute little book to include with a gift certificate as a gift and could use some suggestions.... [more inside]
posted by hilaryjade at 4:01 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by hilaryjade at 4:01 PM PST - 18 comments
Why are computers so mysterious?
I am trying to figure my new Samsung Galaxy 2014 tablet, can anyone recommend some specific video tutorials? [more inside]
Mean cat. No, REALLY mean. Find us a vet in Austin who can handle that?
Our cat is terrified of strangers to the point of serious violence. (We have both owned reasonably shy and standoffish cats before. This one is worse than any other cat we've known — the bites and scratches he gives people who pick him up are sometimes not just warning nips but serious attacks. We are almost certain he was abused before we adopted him, for this and other reasons.) We need to find a vet in Austin, TX where we can take him. We have already been asked not to return to Animal Trustees, the discount vet clinic in town, because he clawed a vet tech there, so we are worried that he will be unwelcome other places as well. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by nebulawindphone at 1:40 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by nebulawindphone at 1:40 PM PST - 18 comments
Garbage disposal unit does not work
I have a Disposall (GFC 300P) brand garbage disposal installed under my sink and all of a sudden, it's no longer working. All it does now is hum. My Google searches showed only one DIY solution and that was to unplug it from the wall socket then put the correct size allen wrench (hex wrench) into the nut at the bottom of the unit and spin the nut clockwise until it moves on its own. However, the Disposall GFC 300P does not have that anywhere on the unit. Also, there is no access to the blades (to move with a wooden dowell, to free it up that way) from the top. Am I screwed or am I just not finding the access for the allen wrench? It seems to be a common enough brand/model of garbage disposal to find some sort of help online, but I can't find any.
posted by NoMich at 1:07 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by NoMich at 1:07 PM PST - 9 comments
When did the subway go over the Brooklyn Bridge?
What are the dates that the Myrtle-Chambers Street Line of the BMT traveled over the Brooklyn Bridge?
Seeking Tongue-in-cheek Latin Grammar Advice
Hi,
As a member of the advisory board of the Butts Institute I've been asked to seek feedback regarding our motto, "recte, rectus, rectum". While I believe the phrase is close to perfect, would any Latin-knowers care to comment on the grammar and rectility of the slogan? Are there any adjustments we can make in order to improve it?
Thank you
posted by c[,,] at 11:15 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by c[,,] at 11:15 AM PST - 6 comments
How do I display 75 business cards in a creative way?
My a cappella group is having a 20th anniversary bash in August, and I'd like to do something fun to display the set lists that I have collected over the last decade or so. I use the backs of our business cards to write our set lists in different colored pen, including the note to blow before each song, who will be introducing what, and other cryptic scrawls. I have amassed about 75 of these cards, and the group would like to display them as a piece of memorabilia of sorts. I have considered a business card collage, which could be interesting, but I'd like some more ideas.
Please help me be crafty!
High Points of Western Civilization
I'm looking for a book that tells a cohesive high points summary of Western Civilization. I've read one of the CLEP study guides, but I get lost in the smaller events and need a framework to connect all the events together. [more inside]
posted by gregr at 10:48 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by gregr at 10:48 AM PST - 2 comments
anecdotes and advice for elevated anti-cardiolipin antibodies?
mrs oigocosas had this measured at "26" a decade ago
and is being retested due to odd ankle swelling.
if it has gone up, what might this engender? down?
thank you for your advice o sage mefi community!
Mobility expert in downtown Toronto?
I'm nearly 37 and want to remain viable as an athlete. I'm looking to connect with some sort of practitioner in Toronto (physio, athletic therapist, whatever) who has a deep understanding of mobility, in particular hips and shoulders. [more inside]
posted by spacediver at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by spacediver at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
Socially awkward human seeks advice on friendship.
A while back, my friend sent me a message confessing his love for me. Awesome, right? Not so much. I failed to reply because I am a socially awkward human being and it was overwhelming at the time and now he has stopped speaking to me entirely. I'm not sure how to fix this, and honestly, I'm not sure if I even want to. [more inside]
Projector doubles as space heater. Anything I can do?
My new projector, an Epson EX5220 blows super-hot air right where I am standing when I do presentations. Anything I can do? [more inside]
Teach me how to bicycle!
I have just become the lucky recipient of two beautiful bicycles. One is a Gary Fisher Sugar 3+ mountain bike; one is a Greg LeMonde Alpe D'Huez road bike. My knowledge of bicycles is limited to pushing the pedals with my feet, thereby making the bicycle go. Help? [more inside]
Do I know where I'm going to?
How can I plot the next steps of my career, given where I am now? [more inside]
If I drink this, will I die?
I've heard that consuming products that have been smoked can increase cancer risk. I've recently started to regularly drink several cups a day of Lapsang Souchong, a smoked tea. I am an ex-smoker so I am concerned that my risk for certain cancers is already elevated. I am having difficulty finding information on if there are any potential cancer risks from drinking this tea and if so, if they are significant enough that I should consider cutting back the amount I am drinking.
MA Filter: Will an unregistered vehicle citation affect my insurance?
Long story short, I moved from Texas to Massachusetts at the beginning of June this year while my car's registration in Texas was expired since April.
I knew I was going to be moving very shortly so I purposely chose not to re-register my vehicle, which was my mistake. I own the fact that I am at 100% fault for this. [more inside]
Fly little birdies, fly!
Have you ever ran an incubator team as part of a larger engineering organization? Wild speculation invited! [more inside]
posted by colin_l at 7:39 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by colin_l at 7:39 AM PST - 2 comments
Why can't I rent out high-value goods to people in the UK?
So this may sound dumb, and obvious.... I'm just thrashing out a question that I've been discussing with a couple of friends recently.
Let's say I legally purchase a batch of high-value, trendy goods. It doesn't really matter what they are -- let's say the latest iPhone, for the sake of argument. Can I set up a store (online or in the high-street) renting them out to anyone who wants to agree to a contract with me? So let's pretend an iPhone 6 will retail at £500. If I purchase a batch of 100 at £400 each, and rent them out at £25/month for a 2 year contract, I make a good profit.
Assume the iPhones are genuine, and that purchasers/renters are happy to arrange their own SIM cards, telecomms contracts, etc. These are working items.
What are the reasons I couldn't do this? Is there any legal reason, or trading standards reason, that would prevent me from setting up a business doing this? [more inside]
posted by ajp at 6:29 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by ajp at 6:29 AM PST - 21 comments
Do any bloggers collate ebay art? Or, how can I find artwork on eBay?
I occasionally find what seems to me to be very interesting cheap-ish (<$500) artwork on eBay. But finding it is incredibly labor-intensive. Due to the nature of the site you have to search carefully to exclude some things but not too many listings particularly at the lower pricepoints. Are there any bloggers that post round-ups of the best art that they've seen posted on a given week? Or any paid services that do the same kind of thing? I'm flexible stylistically but like older pieces, particularly pre-20th century oils with interesting subjects (boats, animals people) or large canvas sizes or textures. [more inside]
Distance x Speed x BMI
Please settle a running-related argument (distance vs. speed) [more inside]
posted by Chorus at 6:00 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Chorus at 6:00 AM PST - 18 comments
Hayfever frog noises! How to repress?
Bad hayfever sufferer here and the only way I can describe one of the symptoms is like an involuntary grumbly frog noise that seems to be like my throat is trying to itch itself??? It is only for the allergy season and seems often worse at night.. but it's pretty loud and weird (normally happens a few times per time) and embarrassing infornt of others. A bit like a tic almost. I consume a lot of honey and apple cider concotions which helps a bit.. but has anyone else had this and controlled it? It's well weird.
Where can i find a photo of Carol Burnett as 'Flora' ('Laura' parody)?
In her show, Carol Burnett did a movie parody skit of the 1944 film Laura called Flora. I've tried searching online but can't find a photo of the portrait she used in that skit imitating the famous Gene Tierney portrait from the film.
Why are my legs so sore?!?
Dear Metafilter, I am a fit, active lady and my legs feel weak, crampy, and I want to go for a run tomorrow morning but I have a feeling it will not end well. What the fuck is going on with me? [more inside]
June 6
Recurring Issues with People
I keep having recurring problems with people at work sometimes, personal issues, what can I do, and how can I prevent this from happening? It's really just bad energy. [more inside]
posted by wak5700 at 10:59 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by wak5700 at 10:59 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me start making music!
I don't know where to start engaging with the process of actually making music. I know a little bit of music theory and can read music. I think I'd really enjoy exploring the structure of music by actually playing around and making music. I'm totally lost about where to start though and I'd be grateful for ideas or resource suggestions—books, websites, etc. Maybe a book that teaches music theory through composition? [more inside]
posted by miaow at 10:47 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by miaow at 10:47 PM PST - 13 comments
It's time to do this once and for all
So, for a variety of reasons, I was never very good about my dental care regimen. This has come to mean that, at 24, I have one cracked tooth, two chipped ones covered with veneers, two that have been pulled, a mouth full of cavities, gum disease and on-and-off pain in different teeth. I'm so tired of this. I know it's horrible to think this way, but the more time that passes, the less I feel like even brushing my teeth ( I only do it when I have to go out at this point). The guilt and anxiety are wrecking me psychologically as is the constant threat of intractable pain.
I've tried to get things done the usual way- one appointment/procedure at a time, when I could afford it and had the emotional fortitude to go through with them.
The problem is that my last two or three appointments- for root canals and fillings- have gone terribly. The anaesthetic never, ever worked, even after multiple injections, and even with nitrous. My last visit for a root canal was the first time I ever had the distinct displeasure of knowing what a drill on one's nerve feels like. I now shudder at the mere sound of a drill or anything that sounds like it. [more inside]
posted by marsbar77 at 9:32 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by marsbar77 at 9:32 PM PST - 13 comments
Should I quit my job?
I started a new job couple of months ago. I feel it may not be working out. I don't want to be impulsive. Is the decision to quit a good one? [more inside]
Does my coworker like me?
I know some people may judge me, but I am not looking for that...I already know I'm in a sticky situation. I've been married for 9 years but am planning to leave within a few months (I have to wait to move out due to financial reasons). Anyway, I started a new job about 6 weeks ago, and have been working very closely with a guy that I am attracted to. One day we were working a little late, and he closed the conference room door and started playing music while we were working together...he kept asking what kind of music I preferred, and would only play that. We talked a lot and that is when I really started liking him. [more inside]
posted by Maggsie97 at 8:56 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Maggsie97 at 8:56 PM PST - 20 comments
Attending a scientific conference alone and overseas
I could really use some tips on networking and well, not panicking. Difficulty: I'm pretty strongly introverted and have some social anxiety as well, although I can fake it for a few hours if I have enough energy. I'm a senior PhD student who is expected to be better at this than I am. [more inside]
Is Amazon outsourcing to this extent?
I just received an Amazon delivery (a Kindle, actually). The package was delivered by two guys in street clothes in a beat-up sedan -- no uniformed driver in a marked delivery truck. Is this the new normal for Amazon? [more inside]
posted by mudpuppie at 6:31 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by mudpuppie at 6:31 PM PST - 24 comments
Leaving from Canada for a work trip?
I am a US citizen working for a US company who is being sent to Europe later this year on a temporary (~1 month) work assignment. My ability to work in the destination country is not an issue. My flight to get to and return from the destination leaves from Canada. I have a NEXUS card but won't be arriving in Canada via a NEXUS lane, so I'll do regular land-based Canadian immigration. How do I tell them the purpose of my visit? If I say "flying to Europe," is "for work" an acceptable answer if they ask why, or will CBSA even ask why? I'll have copies of my air tickets away from and back to Canada, along with proof of ties to the US. Am I over thinking this?
posted by fireoyster at 6:02 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by fireoyster at 6:02 PM PST - 9 comments
What's my job title?
So, along with a raise, I'm getting a new job title to recognize what my actual duties are, and I can choose it myself — but I'm no good at titles. Non-profit communications folks, can you weigh in? [more inside]
Iphone apps to track reciepts? Privacy issues abound.
In trying to be more of a grownup I've gotten a financial advisor, and he's urged me to use my iphone to record and store receipts of deductible expenses. But there are a lot of different apps that claim to do this, and most of them are free, which makes me worry about what they do with my info in order to make money. MeFites, what receipt trackers have you found to work well? [more inside]
posted by overhauser at 4:57 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by overhauser at 4:57 PM PST - 6 comments
How to get healthy slowly?
I'm looking for examples of small lifestyle changes that will gradually help me to be healthier. [more inside]
Where do the butterflies go?
Core attraction: does it go away? Looking to hear from people who have been in a relationship for 15+ years. [more inside]
Car trouble of an electrical variety
I have a 1998 Oldsmobile 88 LS. She's got around 130K miles on her. She is old and has had a fair share of trouble. On the way home today it started giving random "misses" and I lost power to the car. Many Details inside. (Bonus question:credit approval) [more inside]
posted by Twain Device at 3:39 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Twain Device at 3:39 PM PST - 10 comments
What is this clay, bowl-like object?
While visiting a friend the other day, he showed me a very strange clay bowl. The bowl came with the house, which he rents. The owner does not know/recall the purpose of the bowl, nor have any guests been able to produce a convincing answer. More details and a drawing follow. [more inside]
posted by cobro at 3:28 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by cobro at 3:28 PM PST - 16 comments
Do we need animal materials to extract or refine petroleum?
The reliance of industrial agriculture on petroleum products is fairly well-documented. Is the reverse also true? Would we be able to produce oil without industrial farming? [more inside]
what is this NSA symbol?
Is there a connection between Maryland and the Autobots?
I feel like I keep seeing the Transformers logo every time I go to Maryland. It's on people's bumpers, T-shirts, etc. Is this just confirmation bias, or is there some significance to this logo that is somehow connected to the state of Maryland? Is there a similar logo used for something that's local to MD?
posted by capricorn at 1:55 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by capricorn at 1:55 PM PST - 19 comments
To qualifty for a GS-13
Looking for advice on obtaining employment with the federal government. [more inside]
How often should a 3 year old pee?
My almost 3 year old son has still not been potty trained. [more inside]
Where and how do you store and organize cosmetics?
I have, at conservative estimate, a TON of makeup. Not a lot of big, oversized palettes (2? maybe?), mostly individual eyeshadows, lipsticks, blushes, pencils, mascaras, glosses. I cull through often for expired stuff, old stuff, stuff I don't use, but it still kind of takes over bathroom counter space. I have a couple sets of plastic drawers on the bathroom counter, and a segmented acrylic cup thing (for pencils and brushes), but it's still just a hot mess and I can't find things. I need advice and inspiration - how do *you* do it?
Is history repeating itself?
Boyfriend has a history of commitment issues. Am I letting the past affect my future? [more inside]
posted by askme at 10:48 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by askme at 10:48 AM PST - 45 comments
Seat swapping: a solution to vote splitting in Canadian politics?
The Canadian Conservative Party is currently at 30.2% in nationwide polls but, due to factors such as vote splitting and regionalized support, is currently projected to form a minority government with 131 out of 308 seats in Parliament. That's undemocratic. Idea: what if opposition parties agreed not to run candidates in specific ridings so as to create two party races (Conservative-Liberal in some ridings, Conservative-NDP in others). Would that be lawful? [more inside]
What are the current important cultural touchstones of 11-13 yr olds?
I teach a summer camp, and on the first day we hand out a list of questions and have the students interview each other one-on-one as an ice-breaker. We do it very quickly, so simple questions are the best. What are some things that a group of 11-13 yr olds (mostly girls) are likely to have an opinion on?
Thanks!
I Love My Dog, But Oh! You Wife!
How can I return the spontaneity to my sex life now that I have to share the bed with a blanket-hogging dog? [more inside]
How can I learn to be a very good acrylic painter?
I've been a professional writer all my working life--non-fiction: newspapers, national magazines, books, tv--and now that I'm semi-retired I'm attempting to learn a new skill. Painting. It's thrilling to see the world in a new way and I love it. The instructor is delightful: accomplished and generous with praise. I've taken her beginners' course and learned a lot--by my subjective eye, I went from worst in the class to second best. Now I'm in the follow-up course. But I'm not very good yet and nearly all the 15 or so others in this class have painted for years or have taken lots of courses, and they're embarrassingly far ahead of me. I know that I must "compete" only with myself. I know that I can advance only at my own pace and that should be fine. But I want to learn faster! I want to be the best! I'm reading books, and practicing outside class, and messing around with different paints and colors and substrates, and that helps.
Is there anything else I might do that would help me learn faster? Tips? Reading? Materials? Just practicepracticepractice? See, I don't even know enough yet to ask a clear and concrete question. Mefi artists, can you show me the way?
Jokes for my 7-year old's repertoire?
I'm looking for jokes my 7-year old son can tell at, say, a dinner party, which are made particularly funny by the fact of being told by a child. [more inside]
posted by Dragonness at 9:20 AM PST - 55 comments
posted by Dragonness at 9:20 AM PST - 55 comments
Help me stop becoming a man-hater/bitter ice queen
I used to be a soft, sensitive, hopeful young woman but too many knocks is making me feel hard, and it shows. I am too young to feel this way, help me figure out new thought processes to prevent this from getting worse. [more inside]
posted by DeadFlagBlues at 9:20 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by DeadFlagBlues at 9:20 AM PST - 21 comments
What are your favorite Deeply Satisfying songs?
What are your favorite Deeply Satisfying songs? [more inside]
posted by gt2 at 9:15 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by gt2 at 9:15 AM PST - 42 comments
Three night escape near London
My family and I are looking to spend three days, somewhere near London, between our visits in London and Paris later this month. We will be in London until the 28th, and have Eurostar tickets to Paris on July 1. No car. We are leaning towards Bath, but are open to other ideas. [more inside]
Bland recipes for the first trimester.
I'm seven weeks pregnant with my second child and the first trimester nausea is kicking my ass. Clever cooks of metafilter, can you help me with some dinner ideas that will satisfy me, toddler, and husband? [more inside]
Cheap Door to Door Delivery of Flyers
I need to get word out about a neighborhood meeting next week. I know I can (and will) use email to get the word out.
However, I don't have everyone's email address. So I am going to use a paper flyer with the info about the meeting. I need to deliver these to about 150 homes.
I can walk around and do it myself. But I was wondering if there were any sources out there to crowdsource this kind of job. What would be a reasonable payment?
I need the hive mind to help me.
posted by cmh0150 at 8:30 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by cmh0150 at 8:30 AM PST - 12 comments
Easy Peasy iPhone and Android App Creation. For Dummies.
I'm not looking to create the next Flappy Bird and make $50k a month, I'm just looking to create apps that go with my published books, and man, is there a lot of choices out there. Help me suss them out! [more inside]
Nausea or vertigo when exercising?
I recently started exercising for the first time ever (in my early 30's) by joining a gym and trying out their HIIT classes. They're really hard but I'm doing it. I'm running into some problems that only occur with certain exercises, and I'm wondering if there could be an underlying cause. [more inside]
Toot toot beep beep
We will soon be owning and insuring a car in NJ, but are confused about how much coverage we should be getting. How much coverage do we need? [more inside]
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 7:31 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 7:31 AM PST - 8 comments
Network drive for windows?
Our small office (Windows 7) had a Western Digital My Book World Edition drive. This drive attached itself to the network so everyone could see it, but mostly it was used for backups of our backups. Now the drive seems to be dying and we're looking at replacing it, but WorldBook edition don't seem to made anymore.
Can anyone verify that? And if so, point us to similar type of drive, preferably 2 or more terabytes for a Windows 7 office. Does the MyBook line do anything like this?
We already have a server that's managed by our IT department. This other drive is mostly just a secondary backup with storage of a few other video files on it.
posted by sock, the puppet at 6:55 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by sock, the puppet at 6:55 AM PST - 5 comments
Curbing restless eating?
I am by nature a restless, fidgety person, and when I'm eating out with friends, this tendency manifests as restless eating -- just because the food is there and I want something to do with my hands and with myself. It happens almost unconsciously. Any tips on how to avoid this behavior?
Looking for a type of self-test on ballpark estimates
A number of years ago (I'm going to say with 90% confidence it was between one and ten years ago) I came across a test that asked you to provide a range for a number of values that you could make a somewhat educated guess at but probably wouldn't know the answer to off the top of your head (so, maybe, the land area of Maui, or the number of words in A Tale of Two Cities). The goal was not to pinpoint the values, but to provide a range that contained the correct answer with 90% certainty, so, the best score was 9 out of 10 questions correct. A score of 10/10 was as bad as 8/10 -- the aim was to get 9, so that your ranges weren't ridiculously broad. [more inside]
posted by payoto at 5:16 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by payoto at 5:16 AM PST - 7 comments
Two Phones, One Case
I now have two iPhones - my personal iPhone 5 and my work 5C. Right now they both have protective cases (5, 5C). I tend to carry them both around at work along with my laptop (I go to a lot of meetings) and often drop/fumble them, so I'd like to buy a case that accommodates them both. [more inside]
Good free, open-source support ticket system?
I am now managing a small team of question-answerers in a University setting. The team has a physical location, but I'd like to implement an effective online system for them to receive questions as well. [more inside]
Help me plan camp food for a big, tipsy, crowd.
I’m organizing an event in early July and I need help figuring out the easiest way to provide five meals to 70 to 90 people at a campground.
Our location is booked- it’s a great campground with showers and bathrooms and a pavilion and a fire pit. Our planning is moving along nicely, but but as with previous years, food is the challenge. Details follow: [more inside]
People losing it and going berserk in a SciFi novel
Current affairs - that is, the apparent epidemic of guys with guns shooting up public places - are reminding me of a SciFi novel I read long ago, but they're not reminding me which one it was. As I recall, it was a dystopia where population pressure caused people to suddenly snap and lash out physically at whoever was nearby. IIRC, they were described as berserkers. What is that book?
posted by Kirth Gerson at 4:20 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Kirth Gerson at 4:20 AM PST - 11 comments
What to do with a kid who won't poop?
My five-year-old son is anal retentive. Literally anal retentive. Is this a problem? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 1:27 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by zardoz at 1:27 AM PST - 26 comments
June 5
X-ray treatment for rheumatoid arthritis?
Can you point me to any research or even provide anecdotal evidence in the effective use of radiation, specifically x-ray treatment, in reducing the symptoms of rheumatoid arthritis in the hand? [more inside]
I need a map. A FODMAP map.
So after all of the recent hubbub about how gluten may not be the culprit in many cases of indigestion/discomfort, I learned for the first time about FODMAPs and realized, "Wait a minute... I have gotten painfully bloated from eating ALL of those high FODMAP foods!" BUT. When I search the internet for FODMAP resources I find a lot of woo and a lot of really bland recipes. Is there a way to try a low FODMAP diet without dying of boredom? [more inside]
posted by rogerrogerwhatsyourrvectorvicto at 10:24 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by rogerrogerwhatsyourrvectorvicto at 10:24 PM PST - 8 comments
Acute Dizziness & Sweating
What might have caused my recent episode of acute dizziness and sweating? [more inside]
Flying internationally 101
I'm flying alone internationally for the first time. Help me make it as painless as possible. [more inside]
posted by Tamanna at 8:48 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by Tamanna at 8:48 PM PST - 34 comments
The Itsy-bitsy spider...
There's always room for Vitamin D Jell-O shots?
Pretty much what it says in the title. If I mix up jello & pour into shot sized containers, can I dropper vitamin d liquid to each & expect them to form & be taken? [more inside]
posted by tilde at 8:19 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by tilde at 8:19 PM PST - 11 comments
Why do art museums not publish a list of works in a show?
Why do art museums not publish a list of works in a show? [more inside]
Cat scratch = money fever?
A friend who is catsittting claims that my cat has "gashed" her nose. She included a photo of her face and it's setting off alarm bells. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by wxysock at 7:18 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by wxysock at 7:18 PM PST - 32 comments
Is it possible to prove I received an email at my old email address?
A while ago I had a different email address and I received a couple of emails from someone saying that they owed me money (which they did). But I deleted the email account a while back. (I know- stupid.) I eventually reinstated the account, but obviously all the old emails are gone and now this person is claiming I never lent them money. I thought ok- I'll just use the emails as evidence, but oops.... I forgot I no longer have those emails. :( [more inside]
New, unreasonable anxiety
I've recently started to experience unreasonable anxiety about a lot of everyday activities. [more inside]
Why wouldn't a cubic meter of chocolate solidify?
I read recently that
posted by jepler at 5:22 PM PST - 19 comments
it is technically impossible to make a cubic meter of chocolate, because the center would never solidify(emphasis mine). Why wouldn't a one meter cube of chocolate fully solidify? My naive understanding of chocolate production implies it might be technically challenging to properly temper a meter cube of chocolate as a single piece, and I have no doubt that nobody has equipment to do this on hand, but I don't know why it would be impossible. Is it true that the center of a cubic meter of chocolate would never fully solidify? If so, why is it so? If merely solidifying is not the problem, is there some reason it would be impossible to properly temper such a mass of chocolate?
posted by jepler at 5:22 PM PST - 19 comments
What is this motif on a Japanese kimono?
Can anyone identify what this symbol is supposed mean or represent? It's a pattern on a kimono. [more inside]
Easiest way to learn these programs?
I would love to learn Autodesk 3ds Max (my goal is to use it for 3d architectural and product visualization) and Adobe Premiere Pro (I need to study the technical aspects of editing and hopefully move on to other offline and online NLEs). I fear at this point in my life, it might be too late to embark on such career-changing endeavors, especially that the learning curves for both these programs are reputably steep. What is the easiest and best way to learn these programs, and can I do it on my own? [more inside]
The ramifications of having a partner who is a known sperm donor?
My boyfriend is considering donating sperm to his best friend and his wife. I personally find the situation a bit worrying and I'm wondering what I can expect. [more inside]
What are the "big shifts" that have changed humanity?
I'm looking to explore the big shifts and major revolutions that have made a historical impact. Examples in the modern age: the rise of democracy, the proliferation of capitalism, and the Information Age / Internet. What other big shifts and major revolutions have changed humanity? [more inside]
The World Has Turned and Left Me Here... without concert tickets
I am following my favorite band on Facebook and Twitter, and somehow I still missed that they're performing a gig near me tonight. How can I track when my favorite bands are going to be performing near me? [more inside]
Seeking Parenting Support Group in Seattle
My sister is a mother of twin girls, 14 years old. Just this year one began engaging in "NSSI" (cutting herself) the other was found to be having a sexualized, online affair with a 19 year old girl. [more inside]
Who can help us figure out if our employer is breaking the law?
I think my coworkers and I are getting screwed over by our non-profit employer. I am not sure how to confirm this or what to do about it. Any ideas? [more inside]
Dealing with mental fatigue throughout the week
I usually start off the week with a lot of energy and ready to go. But by Wednesday, I feel mentally fatigued, lacking motivation, prone to procrastination, unable to focus creatively. The worst part is that I really need the energy to push through to Friday deadlines. Do you have any tips or advice to deal with this? [more inside]
Beating a Dead Horse but, is flac worth it?
Well is it just a placebo or does it actually sound even the tiniest bit better than an mp3 encoded with the highest quality settings possible? Only about 1/3 of my music is currently on cds though and not sure if it's worth hunting down the rest at garage sales etc just to upgrade from mp3s averaging 256kbps. Most of the time I listen to music is when walking around town, sitting at the computer, doing household chores,or playing videogames
Online shop for new designers womens clothing ?
what is a good online shop for simple original womenswear (wearable to work). new designers or original fashion appart from the brands stocked at most dept stores.(nordstrom/saks, etc..) [more inside]
Looking for a doctor in DC
I'm looking for a GREAT primary care physician in Washington, DC, preferably in/near Chinatown or Capitol Hill. I'd love someone who could see a new patient in the next week or two (ie, doesn't have a months-long waiting list) and who is part of a larger practice/clinic. [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 1:36 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by lunasol at 1:36 PM PST - 13 comments
Where to find old U.S. passport application forms?
Current U.S. passport application forms for a new (first) passport D-11 bear the date of 09/2013. I assume there must be a repository of all the revisions to the forms going back, say, at least 30 years (probably more?). However, are those available online, or some other easy way of accessing (local library?), or does one have to contact the U.S. State Department? [more inside]
I Have Never Thought Of My iPad As A Passenger
My iPad sets off the passenger seat belt alarm on my 2013 Subaru CrossTrek when I put it on the seat. Does anyone know exactly what's going on here and if there is a solution other than disabling the alarm or clicking in the belt when their is no one in the seat? [more inside]
How do we watch the World Cup matches without ESPN123?
Straightforward question: we'd like to be able to watch the 2014 World Cup soccer matches, especially towards the later stages. We have ultra-basic basic cable (over the air broadcast TV via cable, no cable box), fast internet, Netflix, Amazon Prime.
Since this is mostly for my dad, a solution that doesn't involve too many technical steps would be better - I'm not averse to spending some cash on it, but the thought of paying even more money to Time Warner Cable fills me with murderous rage.
Obvious solutions? Creative ideas?
Shoes like Clarks Redbones?
I have a pair of Clarks Redbone oxfords. They're my favorite shoes, and it shows: they're pretty near falling apart. I went online to order a new pair, but apparently they've been discontinued (tried a dozen different websites, all out of stock, and they're no longer listed on the Clarks site). Is there another line of shoes that is very similar to Redbones that I can order instead?
The sheets... they float
My partner, for the lack of a better term, is a "squirter". NSFW details inside. [more inside]
Help me remember a 4X game from the 1990's
There was a Windows 4X game I played in the 1990's I'd like to play again, but I can't remember the name of it. [more inside]
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 12:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 12:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Can my parents make me a mortgage loan?
Trying to buy a house. Have money for a down payment, but I'm self-employed and was turned down for a traditional loan. My parents are willing to lend me the money I'd need for the balance, and have me pay them back with interest, á la a mortgage loan. Is this doable? [more inside]
Am I qualified for this and, if not, what AM I qualified for?
I will be graduating with my B.A. in December (at the age of 54) and looking for a job. All along my plan has been to work as a non-profit program manager or project manager. Now I'm not sure I'm qualified. If I'm not, what AM I qualified for, besides the soul-deadening bookkeeping that I've been doing? [more inside]
posted by primate moon at 11:42 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by primate moon at 11:42 AM PST - 12 comments
Virginia, you're creeping me out!
My yard is getting overrun by Virginia Creeper. Is there any practical way to get it under control. [more inside]
Quote help: "No one looks back on their life and remembers..."
I'm looking for a variation of this quote related to working too hard, or missing family events. I know there's the version that says "No one looks back on their life and remembers the nights they got good sleep..." but I thought there was one that was like "and remembers the nights they stayed late at the office" or "the times they stayed at work instead of being home in time for dinner." From a movie maybe? [more inside]
posted by jtajta at 11:28 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jtajta at 11:28 AM PST - 6 comments
Can this tree be saved?
We have what was a beautiful Japanese maple tree in our yard. It has sentimental significance for my family - we brought it from our old house in another state. This past winter was hard on a lot of trees and shrubs where I live. Most things have recovered, at least somewhat. Until today, we thought the Japanese maple was dead.
Today, there are two leaves. Does it have a chance? What can I do to encourage it to survive? [more inside]
Make my task list easier
I need to create a list of tasks that rotate between a number of employees on a monthly basis. I'd like the ability to assign a variable number of tasks to each employee, so one person might receive one task and another two. Previously this had been done manually on an excel sheet; can you think of any way to semi-automate it? [more inside]
How to buy new tires for old AWD wagon in snowy climate?
We recently bought an old 1995 Subaru Legacy L wagon (2.2L, AWD) and find ourselves needing to replace all of the tires. Complications: snow, AWD, no storage for winter tires, and we need to be able to use the car on poorly maintained logging roads for field work in the summer. [more inside]
Tips and tricks for the noob cake-baker
What are some tips for an adequate baker trying to get into cakes and more advanced things? I made my first ever cake last night (cake, filling, and buttercream icing) and it came out fine, but was a little nerve-wracking because the batter took nearly twice as long as the recipe said to bake. Then I realized I didn't have a wire pan to cool it with, nor a "cake plate" so it would look nice for presentation, nor a means of covering it without messing it up. What other pitfalls can I expect in preparing, timing, or equipment? What are the vital tools and supplies for my new hobby? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 10:28 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 10:28 AM PST - 39 comments
Instructions for our house guests?
My wife and I are going to have house-sitting guests for the first time in our lives. We want to provide them with a collection of information (a binder) on things like how to connect to the WiFi in the house, who to call if there are any problems with an appliance, etc. I don't want to reinvent the wheel, so - are there examples on the Web that I can use as a starting point, and to make sure my binder is reasonably complete? Or a draft binder that I can buy and modify? [more inside]
posted by WestCoaster at 10:26 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by WestCoaster at 10:26 AM PST - 5 comments
You ain't messin with my garden
Teach me how to garden. We are in Zone 7 in Southern US with one plot that gets full sun and another that gets partial sun. Our flowers keep dying or being eaten by deer. Help. [more inside]
Seeking New Identity
Somedays I feel like I don't know who I am anymore due to complicated life decisions. How do people find a personal identity with ongoing depression/mental heath problems? [more inside]
Did I fix my sump pump? Was there even a problem?
Last night we experienced a severe rainstorm. The pump failure or high water alarm on my sump pump woke us up at around 4:00 this morning. I fixed the problem, but I'm not sure what was wrong, why what I did worked, or if I have to do anything further. [more inside]
posted by tckma at 10:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tckma at 10:17 AM PST - 7 comments
I must bend you and break you and make you my fan!
What we thought would be a simple ceiling fan install has turned in to a stumper. After removing the existing fixture and light box we find the lightweight brace for the previous light to be a pain to remove. [more inside]
Movers with a truck, cross state lines
In need of a recommendation for a moving service that would move the contents of my 2-bedroom apartment from Baltimore, MD to Brooklyn, NY. [more inside]
Where to buy large(ish) cable clips in Canada?
I'm much of the way through building a TRS Drawbot robotic arm thingy, and I need to buy cable organizer / management clips more or less like this that are large enough to hold a sharpie (or similar-sized) marker.
The Make Magazine project was sponsored by a US retailer that doesn't exist in Canada, and I'm having trouble locating an equivalent or serviceable substitute on short notice here.
If you've seen these or something that you think would work in a pinch around - at a national chain, or somwhere in the downtown/East end Toronto areas - I'd really appreciate your help! [more inside]
posted by onshi at 9:48 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by onshi at 9:48 AM PST - 4 comments
On the Road Again
So I bought a new-to-me car last night, and I pick it up on Friday. Now I'm asking myself all the questions I should have asked myself at the dealership. Help? [more inside]
Flip publications
Looking for a recommendation for software to "animate" a document so it appears to turn pages.
(i.e., http://www.instantflipbook.com)
Should work cross platform as well as on mobile devices.
posted by pmaxwell at 9:40 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by pmaxwell at 9:40 AM PST - 3 comments
Plug an HDMI-only laptop into a VGA-only projector?
I'm looking at new laptops, and the one at the top of my list has everything I need ... Except that the only video-out port is HDMI. The problem is that a big part of my job involves presenting, so I need to be able to plug in to projectors that only have VGA ports. What are my options?
posted by robhuddles at 8:34 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by robhuddles at 8:34 AM PST - 8 comments
Where to they get that awesome music from?
Where do private DJs/stations for streaming music sites get their awesome electronic/dance remixes from??? Details inside. [more inside]
posted by WinterSolstice at 8:34 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by WinterSolstice at 8:34 AM PST - 11 comments
AWS maven I'm not
A question for folks knowledgeable about Amazon Web Services...is it better to have EC2 and RDS is the same Availability Zone? [more inside]
Need ideas on how to represent "computer" in tattoo
I have an idea for a half-and-half forearm tattoo (like this) where one half will be filled in such a way to represent computation, computers, electronics, artificial intelligence, something like that. Trouble is, I can't think of something appropriate that would work in a tattoo. Need ideas for this fill! Requirements and current ideas: [more inside]
posted by supercres at 8:12 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by supercres at 8:12 AM PST - 18 comments
How do I talk to the guy I'm dating about this?
We've been dating pretty steadily for 2 months, but now he's suddenly unresponsive and distant. I want to ask him tactfully what's up. [more inside]
I want to be Happy-er!
Oh hive, what are your favorite remixes of "Happy"? [more inside]
posted by Sheydem-tants at 7:15 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Sheydem-tants at 7:15 AM PST - 5 comments
a new career in web design...or am I being led astray?
So the work atmosphere at my current employer has been fairly toxic the last year. Actually the well was poisoned several years back when the department manager's wife was promoted from a secretarial assistant to a management position but that episode of nepotism another surreal story I won't get into. The final straw was the moment they re-structured my position, thereby giving me a $45,000 pay-cut while simultaneously asking me to do more work.
I believe this led me to my current dire straits in my mid-career crisis in choosing whether I should embark on a totally new career opportunity or questionable legitimacy or whether I might be better off playing it safe.
Please read on below... [more inside]
posted by cicadaverse at 7:05 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by cicadaverse at 7:05 AM PST - 21 comments
Good daily baseball podcast?
I am looking for a baseball podcast that gives a rundown of the previous days games. The old Baseball Today used to do that, but since they've switched over I haven't been able to find anything that does this. Sounds simple, right?
Best way to print our own letterhead?
I work for a company that has many sub-companies (an LLC for each project, that sort of thing). We are re-designing our logo and need to reprint all of our letterhead. We have some that we use frequently, which I will be ordering from a commercial printer. We have others however that are used very infrequently (think 5-10 sheets a year or less). How can I best print our own letterhead for those very short runs? [more inside]
How to Juggle Several Job Offers At Once
After a long, long stretch of unemployment, I landed a temp job that somehow kicked my resume into high drive. Great news! However, the amount of interest I'm getting and the urgency with which everyone seems to need to hire is really overwhelming to me right now. I'm worried that I'll get swept along into accepting a position that may not be the best choice. Please help me figure this out! [more inside]
posted by pineappleheart at 6:35 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by pineappleheart at 6:35 AM PST - 11 comments
Groundhogs: any tips for keeping them out of the garden?
Groundhogs. I've tried every folk wisdom trick under the sun — used cat litter, hot sauce, extra fencing, whirligigs, trap and release, stinky sprays, you name it. Now they're climbing my six-foot privacy fence. Any tips? Over half of my garden has been eaten in the past two days. I have 14 six-by-four beds, so that's a lot. [more inside]
It ain't heavy, it's... no, it's heavy.
I need to fit an 8' long x 2' wide x 1' tall box into a 2012 Ford Fusion's trunk. Possible? [more inside]
posted by Nyx at 6:19 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Nyx at 6:19 AM PST - 10 comments
Point me to some strange, macabre or otherwise bizarre news-y websites!
Inspired by this Gabriel Garcia Marquez interivew, I'm looking for some off-beat news stories to inspire a collection of short stories I'm writing. [more inside]
Jersey Inappropriatre for a Ride
I'm doing a bike ride that is to raise money for breast cancer research. Truthfully, I'm more interested in the ride, but there will be many on the ride more focused on the cause. I wanted to wear my new Sufferfest jersey, but worried that, given the folks who may be/know breast cancer survivors, it might be viewed as offensive or insensitive. Is it OK to wear the jersey, or should I pick a different one to avoid hurting someone's feelings? [more inside]
posted by MrGuilt at 5:07 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by MrGuilt at 5:07 AM PST - 19 comments
Cortisone shot for acne in Paris?
I have developed a cystic acne that I'd like to get rid of before the weekend. My skin is fine otherwise, and although I have not tried the cortisone injection before, I've heard good things about it. However, despite calling many doctors, I cannot seem to find a dermatologist who would perform this in Paris. (It seems to be a very uncommon procedure in France). Does anyone have experience with this in Paris?
Two-party check from insurance co: When do I give it to the repair shop?
I got into an accident last week, and my insurance company is mailing me a two-party claim payment check (for ~$6000) to give to the repair shop. I'm wondering when exactly I hand over the check. [more inside]
My 2-year-old niece is battling cancer. What can I say to be supportive?
I have been with my partner for over 5 years and know his family fairly well.
A little over a year ago his brother's one year old daughter was diagnosed with cancer. His daughter, whom I consider as a niece even though my partner and I are not married, has now been battling cancer for over a year. It appears to be quite aggressive. When my sister-in-law calls to give me updates about their daughter's condition (or vice-versa), what can I say to be supportive and express that I care?
More details inside. [more inside]
June 4
Help me name a boardgaming website!
I'm setting up a new board gaming site but am having difficulty coming up with a name that isn't cliched. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by SRMorris at 11:59 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by SRMorris at 11:59 PM PST - 19 comments
Need a tubing holder thingwhatsit
I need something to hold 2.79mm ID Viton tubing halfway up a rack. OD is about 5mm. I'm pumping water from a large plastic container down into a filter. The pump is on the bench, and the plastic container will be about 30cm above it (pic). I need some way to make sure that the tubing doesn't slither out of the container. I feel that there should be some sort of cable holder that will grip the tubing well enough to keep the tubing up, but still allow me to quickly remove all the tubing for cleaning or rearranging. So far the best thing I've come up with are twisty ties or electrical tape. [more inside]
How about you tell me how to use a password manager?
I'm getting tired of the constant hacks, and I pretty much use the same passwords across multiple sites. Thing is, I can't keep up with eight dozen passwords. Seems like the answer is one of the password manager programs/apps out there.
So which one is the one to use? How do I use it with multiple locations and computers (work/home/mobile)? I'm willing to pay upfront, but not a subscription. No one needs another monthly expense.
Bonus points if you can explain it like I'm five.
posted by Willie0248 at 10:10 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by Willie0248 at 10:10 PM PST - 38 comments
Legal Life Coach?
Lawyers of Metafilter: I'm looking for recommendations for a legal life coach. I am in a professional and confidence rut right now in my lawyer life and I thinka lawyer life coach might be able help me. Have you used one or know someone who has? Throwaway email: anonlawyer@hmamail.com.
Photo EXIF and system metadata
I changed phones a few weeks ago, and the transfer utility that copied data from phone to phone screwed up the /system/ timestamp of my photos. Unfortunately, this changed the sort order, so I can't find anything. How can I fix the data? [more inside]
posted by daveqat at 8:48 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by daveqat at 8:48 PM PST - 6 comments
Have toddler, will travel, but how to minimize protesting?
Can you suggest some good classic (read: legally free) ebooks for little people around the age of 3? We're planning for a road trip, and we have a long list of good distractions, but I want to lighten our load of books by utilizing our Kindle Fire and the wonders of the Internet Archive and other sources for high quality digital books. Do you know of any good sites that compile such lists, or can you suggest some good picture books from such sources? And any suggestions for distracting a little person on a road trip would also be appreciated. [more inside]
Cheap graphics card for 2008 iMac?
Apple iMac A1225 desktop computers from 2008 came with the notoriously unreliable Nvidia 8800GS graphics card that burns out and turns the iMacs into bricks.
Getting a new Nvidia 8800GS graphics card costs about $650 for the part. Getting a used one on costs about $300. Is there a cheap alternative -- something that costs, say, $50?
As I understand it, the only alternative is the ATI 4850, which go for about $300 used. Yet I find it hard to believe that there are no other graphics card options.
posted by Eiwalker at 8:16 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Eiwalker at 8:16 PM PST - 9 comments
Recommend helpdesk solution for chat and e-mail support with ticketing?
I work for a small eCommerce company that provides customer support via live chat and e-mail, and relies heavily on it. The people who chat with the agents are not necessarily people who have bought or sold anything or even used the site yet, so being able to ask questions in real time could help them decide whether to use our site. We would like to implement a helpdesk solution that does chat very well and can provide good analytics so that we can assess agent ratings, why the customer contacted us, and issues that are driving up volume. It also has to be a third-party cloud-based solution because we don't have the resources to set it up on our own system. Do you have any recommendations? [more inside]
a road trip without any ability to drive
BeMyTravelAgentFilter: Help me figure out a way to make a trip from the Bay Area to New Orleans doable and affordable - when driving is not an option. [more inside]
posted by divabat at 7:55 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by divabat at 7:55 PM PST - 24 comments
Creative Pros: Design client from the depths of Hell. Help me deal...
What seemed to be a nice new client has gone haywire on me. How do I survive this project? [more inside]
posted by ecorrocio at 7:42 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by ecorrocio at 7:42 PM PST - 15 comments
Blu-ray software for Mac
I'm looking for software to read Blu-ray discs on a Mac. [more inside]
posted by nickthetourist at 7:13 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by nickthetourist at 7:13 PM PST - 7 comments
2 problems of combinations and permutations.
How many unique ways are there to put X rocks into Y boxes?
(Given two different sets of attributes for both the rocks and the boxes.) [more inside]
NOLAfilter-Travel safety for woman arriving at dawn, on foot in Marigny?
My friend is taking a Megabus from Florida to Texas. She's connecting between the two states in New Orleans - where she arrives early tomorrow morning. Can you offer advice about navigating the Marigny safely by foot, or about using Megabus services in New Orleans? [more inside]
posted by mitschlag at 5:53 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by mitschlag at 5:53 PM PST - 10 comments
Loved the game "Titanic, Adventure Out of Time" - alas, it is no more.
I have a Mac Book Pro and, as much as I have inquired, it seems that wonderful game is just not compatible with Mac any longer. Does anyone know of any possible way I could still resurrect or play it? It was fantastic. A total recreation of every detail of the ship plus you solve a cool mystery.
If not possible to recreate - is there anything similar, i.e. shipboard mystery? No X box.
Thank you.
Need help sorting out a very complicated friendship
Just over a year ago, I met this guy, let's call him A, via email. He got in touch with me requesting some of my tutoring services and asked if I were willing to teach him via Skype. This tutoring relationship collapsed after a few months due to a number of factors but he insisted we stay in touch on a more personal level. I quickly learned that he'd gone through a lot in life: abuse, estranged family, homelessness. I wanted to learn about his life and be there for him because it became apparent that he didn't have any fixtures of support in his life whatsoever. The nature of our friendship became more and more intense. All-night phone calls became the norm and it began to have a significant effect on my ability to function in my already hectic life. After several months of this, all of the following have happened: I told him that I felt our friendship was dysfunctional and that we should cease contact, he told me that he couldn't live without me and said he was in love with me. And then made a last-minute trip to visit me. I'm so confused and lost as to how to handle this situation and desperately need perspective. Big ol' wall of text inside. [more inside]
What do you get a 94-year old man for his birthday?
I won’t be able to attend my dad’s 94th birthday party in a few weeks. I live in another state and have a work obligation this year. I’d like to get him something he’ll appreciate, but I’m short of ideas. [more inside]
posted by Short Attention Sp at 4:03 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Short Attention Sp at 4:03 PM PST - 27 comments
Devil Worship Is A Flat Circle
In a recent comment on the Blue, I mentioned a strange case of mass hysteria that spread through my hometown when I was a child. After writing it -- and falling a bit deeper into the rabbit hole of moral panics and 80s boogiemen in general -- I'm left wondering if there is any documented evidence of this particular event. So I'm wondering if AskMetafilter could help me solve this puzzle. [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 3:46 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Sara C. at 3:46 PM PST - 20 comments
Give me your hungry, your vegetarians, your omnivores.
Cooking for a group of 12 foodies whilst on vacation, three of whom are strict vegetarians. The other 9 people have expressed the desire not to eat vegetarian food all week. So I'm looking for entree recipes that A: can have meat added on separately at the end, but are also satisfying sans meat B: are easy to make for a large group aka not very time-intensive/time-sensitive/complicated and C: are super-duper tasty. Unimaginative casseroles aren't going to cut it, here. Difficulty: no appliances available other than stove and a BBQ.
posted by egeanin at 3:46 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by egeanin at 3:46 PM PST - 23 comments
Awesome women doing awesome stuff
I'm looking for books in any genre with only three limiting factors. They have a female protagonist, NO sex and NO romance.
Cabin In The Woods
I want to rent a small cabin in Michigan's Upper Peninsula for a couple of nights (June 27-29). I'm having trouble finding the things I want. [more inside]
Energy efficiency research, where art thou?
Looking for quality sources and data regarding energy efficient and energy outputs. Details inside. [more inside]
Looking for small, exterior car-mounted camera to take infinity photos.
I'm looking for a sturdy, small, car-mountable exterior camera, preset to infinity, that will let me snap a photo of whatever it is pointed at at the time, triggered by me whilst driving. [more inside]
Winnipeg, 2014 version
Yearly or semi-annually I travel to Winnipeg to visit family, and as each year passes I get more and more out of touch with the city. Please help me figure out what to do, where to eat, where to shop.
1. Eating. On this trip I have gone to Boon Burger, Affinity Restaurant and some sushi place on Corydon. Any other suggestions for moderately-priced eats with pescatarian/vegetarian options?
2. Shopping. I used to love to cruise around Eaton's and the Bay in downtown. But that era is over. Where do people in Winnipeg shop? Surely not just Polo Park and St. Vital malls?
3. I have been to WAG, the Forks and may visit the Manitoba Museum, where else should I go?
posted by nanook at 2:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by nanook at 2:24 PM PST - 4 comments
Finding a long term effective therapist for a first timer?
Looking for advice on finding a suitable therapist for some issues I'm having and just for a long term self improvement. I have been putting it off, but finally am at a space where I'm ready to find a good long term therapist. About a year ago I met with a therapist a few times but we didn't "click" plus I couldn't afford it at the time.
Things I want to work on: [more inside]
Techno babble
I like movies/shows that are heavy on the jargon and the fast-talking. Scenes of professionals in crisis that don't bother to fill the audience in on what's going on. Think secret-service operations on the West Wing, air traffic controllers, military maneuvers, television control rooms, Le Carre's espionage slang, etc. What movies/tv shows will I enjoy?
Note: It doesn't have to be military or necessarily violent. I like the thrill that comes from the fast talking and the quick decisions and such.
Food Recipes w/parameters
I have 6 free hours.
Give me your most labour intensive yet ultimately compelling/yummy recipes.
[caveat: I have access to all ingredients] [more inside]
posted by Dagobert at 2:10 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Dagobert at 2:10 PM PST - 16 comments
Looking for suggestions on what to watch.
I usually get suggestions from friends on things to watch, but they seem to have run out of things that appeal to me. I like crime drama, horror, SF, and intelligent comedy. Do you have any suggestions? Things that do/don't appeal to me beneath the fold. [more inside]
Experiencing shortness of breath. Looking for some guidance
On Saturday while kayaking in the bay, I experienced shortness of breath for about ten minutes, which then went away. The last time I’d experienced this feeling was nearly 20 years ago when I was 12, when I last had asthma. [more inside]
Monitoring mycotoxins in the home
Is there a way for a homeowner to monitor mildew, mold and/or mycotoxin levels in a room?
Transport from Montgomery Co PA to Newark Airport
For upcoming international travel I booked a flight out of Newark for the lower cost. I anticipated having a ride but am now forced to deal with transportation to/from the airport. I'll be gone for just over two weeks and will leave and arrive back during normal business hours on weekdays.
I live in Montgomery County PA and am looking for transportation options to Newark Airport. Some options include:
- Suburban rail to center city Philadelphia, Amtrak to Newark
- Suburban rail to trenton, train to Newark/bus to airport
- driving
- hiring a car service
- shuttle
So far it seems like all the public transit options are pretty cheap but a pain from where I live and given that I'll have luggage. Hiring a car service would be easiest but most expensive. I liked the option of the SuperTrans shuttle which could either pick me up at home or at a nearby hotel, but have read terrible yelp reviews on them.
Anyone have experience getting to/from Newark that could be helpful here?
posted by moshimosh at 12:55 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by moshimosh at 12:55 PM PST - 9 comments
What kind of suit for an arts interview? Or suit at all?
A friend has an interview for a really great administrative job at a midwestern arts organization. He's a big guy, so our options are not infinite - ie, no going to JCrew. [more inside]
Writers' websites: easy platforms and good examples?
I'm looking for platforms for professional writers to build their own websites--like 4ormat, just not as image-focused--and working examples of such. [more inside]
posted by gottabefunky at 12:04 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by gottabefunky at 12:04 PM PST - 11 comments
Connecting to Postgres through Powershell/Changing Username
I'm trying to log on to Postgres using Powershell and it's not working. I did this before a little while ago and now I can't remember how I did it and it's driving me crazy. [more inside]
Help me phrase this effectively.
Can you help me apologize to my boyfriend, and convince him to attend a wedding I can't go to? He doesn't think he wants to go without me, but I know (from experience) that he would have a blast. Complication: My reasons for not attending might not be clear to him. [more inside]
posted by janey47 at 11:15 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by janey47 at 11:15 AM PST - 37 comments
Is there an easy way to overlay photos in state-shapes on a US map?
I saw a pinterest item recently: the person took a large US map and cut photos from each state into the shape of the state, then overlayed the photo on the map of the state. The result was a US map with a photo standing in for each state. This was done by cutting photos by hand. Is there an easy way of doing it on the computer?
SPSS for a Mac
Does anyone know if there is a trial version of SPSS to download for a Mac? I tried downloading a free trial, but I didn't trust the website that I was on. Are there add-ons for excel that would allow me to do this? Any suggestions are welcome.
posted by nidora at 10:49 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by nidora at 10:49 AM PST - 4 comments
Scrubs for a tall skinny guy?
Where can I buy scrubs that fit me? I'm a tall, skinny guy (6' 1", 31" waist) and would like to buy several sets of scrubs in neutral colors. Suggestions of online sources, chain stores or local places (currently in the DC area) are all welcome.
Songs about starting to falling in love
I'm working on a mixtape and looking for songs about starting to fall in love with someone. It seems like most of the songs I have are either about starting to like someone or about someone you've already fallen in love with. I want songs for that in-between stage. [more inside]
posted by considerspace at 10:39 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by considerspace at 10:39 AM PST - 31 comments
Strictly Business, like EPMD
What are some techniques I can use to get through a day job that is sometimes really grating? [more inside]
Workplace etiquette question
I've recently been teamed on a project with a co-worker who dresses and acts professionally, but tends to wear low-cut blouses. The problem is not what she is wearing but that she is frequently, nervously making adjustments to her neckline. So often that it's now making me nervous. Question inside. [more inside]
posted by qi at 10:33 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by qi at 10:33 AM PST - 33 comments
International dating- help me stay safe in worst case scenario
I am currently involved in a sexual/dating/subculture where international meetings are normal.
Most recently, men have met me in my city and then we have planned a trip later....
And I have had a fab time with these men- they have been great fun!
I am okay with meeting men for dinner in Oslo, London or Stockholm.....
I have no problem hopping on a plane and meeting a man, spending a few days with him and nipping back home... but I cannot figure out how to make sure that my flight home is paid for- if something doesn't work out.
Is there any way to have your flights and hotel paid for, in a way that the host can not just cancel on you if you refuse to have sex with them?
posted by misspony at 10:17 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by misspony at 10:17 AM PST - 32 comments
The horror of "casual", the heat of "summer"
I am a tall (5'11), fat (22/24), lady, soon-to-be attorney working in a downtown law office that just declared the next few months to be "Casual Summer". Help me look professional and casual and feel comfortable at the same time. Difficulty: pants. [more inside]
As an hourly contractor, what tasks should I charge for?
I'm an independent developer. I work from home, and I charge most of my clients by the hour. Often, a project will require the computer to do something while I twiddle my thumbs; for instance, downloading, uploading, running, or compiling a lot of code. I'm divided as to whether to charge for this. [more inside]
How to get rid of the remains of an old, unwanted Mac app
Some time ago I seemed to have acquired a less-than-legitimate copy of the Mac app Angry Birds 4.0.0. Since updating my Mac to Mavericks I am bothered daily by a notification popping up asking me to update the app today, or be reminded (forever) about doing it tomorrow(s). [more inside]
Gardening Resources?
We just bought a house in the Bay Area with a small yard that I would like to maintain and improve on. I have the wonderful book Golden Gate Gardening, but I'm looking for a community to ask questions - preferably online? Things that might come up - diseases and how to treat them, plant ID, where to buy stuff at good prices. Local blogs, Facebook community pages, mailing lists etc might also be helpful. Offline resources are welcome, too, but I don't have a lot of free time to spend at club meetings etc. [more inside]
posted by The Toad at 9:05 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by The Toad at 9:05 AM PST - 12 comments
My Macbook was stolen - do I need to change all my passwords?
I had my Macbook stolen last week. I believe it was set to automatically log into my user and it logs into all sorts of websites (Paypal, Amazon) automatically. So I'm inclined to go change all my passwords, but immediately after the theft, I activated all of the timebombs in Apple's Find My Mac, and it hasn't popped up online. Can I assume that the thief can't use my login information, since he doesn't know my admin password and if he ever goes online and tries to use my auto-login stuff, the computer will lock down? Or can he migrate that data over to another computer and use it there?
Bought new running insoles; horrible blister after first run! WHY?!?!
I recently took up running, but ramped up the distance pretty quickly and probably as a result have been having some ankle pain. I went to a sports doctor, who referred me to a physical therapist and also recommended that I buy superfeet or powerstep insoles (I went with powerstep). The following day I ran with them for the first time, and subsequently developed a nasty blister on my left foot. I NEVER have gotten a blister while running. My right foot feels very comfortable with the insole.
I'm seeing the doctor again next week, but would like to continue running until then after my blister heals up a bit more. My question for my fellow running MeFites is... Is getting a big blister after one run with new insoles a sign of a bad fit? Or, could it be that the insole isn't properly broken in yet? (I heard that insoles need to be used for a while before they become comfortable, but... a blister after one run, with no prior history of getting them?? Is this not unusual?)
Best Burner Phone for a Month in London?
This has become somewhat of a perennial AskMe question (previously in 2013, previously in 2012, previously in 2007), but as the mobile communications landscape is ever-shifting, it never hurts to have up to date information.
So, if I'm spending the month of August in London, which of the several offerings is the best PAYG-SIM phone to grab upon arrival? I will be bringing my iPhone (AT&T), but turning off data roaming and using it as wi-fi only when I can. Are there deals on low-end smartphones that are worth the extra cash, or is it still best to just grab a simple flip-phone with SMS?
posted by grabbingsand at 8:45 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by grabbingsand at 8:45 AM PST - 7 comments
Outdoor allergies, why do you torment me so?
I have allergies. I'm not sure to what, but I'm assuming it's something like pollen or mold since they seem to only really get bad outdoors. I often go to the park to run, and usually am just fine. Yesterday, however, as soon as I entered the park I felt my nose acting up. I was right, and my allergies went crazy as soon as I left the park; I couldn't focus on anything, and my day was essentially ruined. This has only happened a couple of times before in this particular park. My question is - why are my allergies usually okay when I enter this park, but once in a while go completely nuts? What can I try to keep this from happening again. [more inside]
What decorative plant is this?
What decorative plant is this? [more inside]
Should I turn my old travel diary into a project and if so, how?
In 2003 I backpacked alone around Australia for a few months. This was a pivotal trip for me, and I kept a detailed diary and took a ton of photos. I'm thinking about doing something with all this content instead of letting it just sit there. Should I publish it somehow, or is this a ridiculous idea? [more inside]
posted by scrm at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by scrm at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
Chrome Extension Filter: Selecting multiple checkboxes, click-and-drag
I used to have a Chrome extension that allowed me to select multiple checkboxes on a site by clicking and dragging. I can not remember what it is called. [more inside]
Terrified over dream job
I am moving into a job I always wanted to have. Please remind me this is the right thing to do. [more inside]
Cultural Etiquette -- Turkey
Someone I work with is Turkish and in Turkey for the summer. He asked me to let him know if I would like something from Turkey. I do! But do I take him up on it? [more inside]
posted by zizzle at 7:27 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by zizzle at 7:27 AM PST - 17 comments
I need a list of minor crimes
For a project of mine, I need a list of petty crimes, misdemeanors, and minor offenses. Think things like stealing pencils, jaywalking, siphoning gas, or taking home a roll of toilet paper.
men's summer DRESS shirts that wick moisture and stay dry - NOT COTTON
I am looking for nice dress shirts to wear to the office that would be made of some kind of microfiber or quick-dry fabric. In our office we cannot wear polo shirts, so it has to be the traditional type of collar shirt. In the 90+ summer heat and humidity, I am a wet mess by the time I get into the office. I don't like cotton shirts for this reason, that they get sopping wet and don't dry out fast enough. [more inside]
posted by cmp4Meta at 6:47 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by cmp4Meta at 6:47 AM PST - 14 comments
Off the beaten path rambling in Porto
I am in Porto for a few days to play some music. I rarely have time off, but our schedule has allowed us some free time before our next show. I love this city. So easy to just drift through the labyrinth of streets and get lost in the most amazing ways. However, I would appreciate it if someone had specific suggestions of things to check out here that are a little off the beaten path (tourist wise). Local tour guides welcome!
Things to do around New Haven/Meriden/Hartford CT this weekend?
Heading up to Connecticut this weekend, looking for recommendations for things to do on Friday and Saturday. [more inside]
posted by cali59 at 6:08 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by cali59 at 6:08 AM PST - 16 comments
Please help me figure out if this friendship is over
I think a friendship that had meant a whole lot to me is over. Part of me is ready to just cut ties and call it a day, but another part of me is loathe to let go of what had been a really fun and meaningful friendship. Details below. [more inside]
How to find a reliable guide in Morocco?
My husband and I are travelling to Morroco in a few weeks, with stops in Fes, Marrakech, and Taghazout. I'd love to hire a guide for the day for at least Fes and Marrakech. How can we find a reputable one and avoid getting ripped off? Any personal recommendations would be awesome.
I really just need a walkthrough.
I am really terrible at 1) figuring out what the hell I want, and 2) communicating it. I've started dating a guy and this problem is magnifying my relationship anxieties by a thousand, and it's starting to make me super stressed. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong here! [more inside]
How do I annotate epub's in a portable way?
I prefer to work with electronic academic texts in PDFs since I can annotate them in a portable way and easily store them in Zotero. I have a few texts, however, that I only have access to as epub's. What's the best way to annotate them so that I can return to those annotations at any point and search them in Zotero? [more inside]
Mike Read plays Venom's single "Warhead" for charity (Radio 1, 1984)
I'm trying to find an online recording of Tommy Vance's challenge to Mike Read: he would pay £100 to charity if the DJ played Venom's single "Warhead" on his breakfast show on Radio 1. 1984 sometime, I think. I'm after a recording of both the challenge and the acceptance.
Church tax on income - consistent with the bible?
I'm not religious, but would like to know whether the enforcement of a tax on income by the church in some countries - normally around 1% - is consistent with the bible.
posted by devnull at 1:21 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by devnull at 1:21 AM PST - 14 comments
June 3
Gifts for my grocer
My grocer is awesome! We chat every time I go in and he always throws in something extra with the food I buy. What would be a good thank-you gift to give to him for all this greatness? [more inside]
posted by movicont at 11:23 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by movicont at 11:23 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for a stylish, plus-sized summer hat
I'm looking for one of the big, floppy, straw hats that are in style this summer-- or something else that is reasonably stylish and will shield my face-- but I have a pretty large head. Does anyone know where I can get one in an extra large size? [more inside]
Anxiety! The Musical.
So, it's been a mothereffing year, and really longer than that, and I have some anxiety that I thought was okay, but is really, it seems, not. [more inside]
Grow food in a giant cave?
I'm working on a story where some people live in a cave and have to grow their own food inside. I would like some idea of what could realistically be grown in this situation (more details below). [more inside]
posted by ErikH2000 at 10:16 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by ErikH2000 at 10:16 PM PST - 20 comments
1/8 or 3/32 chain for a poor man's single speed bike?
I'm doing a poor man/ lazy woman single speed conversion, and am not sure which chain to buy. I am going to leave the sprocket where they are (knowing that my chain line won't be perfect but that's fine) and just ride only on the cog I like. No deraillers, nor chain tensioners (I have horizontal dropouts). Based on my research, I should get the 3/32 because of the width between sprockets, right? Can I make do with an 1/8 chain if I am never, ever, ever going to shift? It's just so much cheaper and so much easier to find a 1/8 chain! [more inside]
posted by atetrachordofthree at 10:08 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by atetrachordofthree at 10:08 PM PST - 7 comments
Memorial for family member planned while I'm away working
Someone in my extended family passed away. Her only child just told me that he'd like to plan a memorial for a future date while other relatives are in town. He and I were very close growing up, have somewhat drifted, but lately have been in one another's lives again. His mom was his only immediate family member. I already know I'm scheduled to be away from home working for three weeks at that time. Do I cancel, or proceed? [more inside]
The ghost of Christmas Past came calling. Now what?
My best friend and I had a big, ugly, dramatic falling out six years ago and we haven't spoken since. Today, out of the blue, she cold calls me at work to say hello and asks if we can meet for dinner. I'm not sure what I want to do. Wall of text inside. [more inside]
posted by Sal and Richard at 8:10 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by Sal and Richard at 8:10 PM PST - 34 comments
How much money should I make? Graduating with an MPH
So I grew up broke. And, I did not learn the best ways to handle and think about money. We were always living paycheck to paycheck. My parents are still that way and so am I. But, I am going to finish my master's and I want to break the cycle.
Financially secure here I come!
I am in Boston. $40,000 sounds like a lot but when I met with a school financial adviser she said to be looking for 60k.
Where are these public health jobs that pay this much? It feels weird and greedy to think this way, but my adviser made good points.In Chicago one of my friends was a pulling 72,000 as a teacher. so what is a good start salary? i have 8 years exp in health promotion and social justice. and what titles am I looking for and what areas to look, for 60k? maybe consulting? if so, which ones in Boston and DC? Thanks [more inside]
posted by TRUELOTUS at 8:05 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by TRUELOTUS at 8:05 PM PST - 14 comments
How to nail the GRE's
Open to any and all recommendations on the most efficient way to study for the GRE (focusing on writing and grammar). My GPA in college was meh (3.0). So I really need to have a nice shiny test score to go along with my floating-by transcript in order to get into top choice schools. Any advice on courses, sites, studying regimens etc. to go into this thing as ready as possible? [more inside]
Translation of Chinese pen
I recently got an old fountain pen marked in Chinese. Please help translate the pen. Links to photos and more information below the fold. [more inside]
posted by ardgedee at 7:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by ardgedee at 7:35 PM PST - 3 comments
Housemate and I are making each other miserable. What are my options?
My housemate and I have reached the point where it's really, really clear we aren't going to be able to work things out and get along. Despite this, she is digging her heels in about moving out. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Why has my period come back?
This is a question about the Mirena IUD and my period. Don't click if you don't want to talk about bleeding and IUDs. [more inside]
How long should I wait before calling my school financial advisor back?
This is sort of an etiquette question. A scholarship that I'm receiving is requesting the school's bank account information. I have been trying to reach my financial aid advisor for the past 4 days. I emailed her 4 days ago and did not get a reply. Thus, I called her office several times yesterday and today and no one answered. I left her a voicemail message asking her to call me back and she still hasn't called. Today, I showed up at her office and I was told that she was out for lunch. I couldn't wait so I left a note at her desk to call me back. She never did.
Should I continue to pester this lady until she responds? It's very frustrating that I haven't been able to get a hold of her but at the same time I don't want to be a bother or seem impatient if she's indeed really busy. Please advise.
Thank you!
3-2-1 open! Space-themed gift suggestions for an adult
Help me think of a space-themed gift for an awesome 35-year-old guy. [more inside]
posted by shortyJBot at 6:38 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by shortyJBot at 6:38 PM PST - 22 comments
Beans and Rice and Beans and Rice
I have set myself a goal of paying off my $10k credit card in the next 6 months. After I cut out all luxuries, entertainment, eating out, new items for myself etc, the main variable is food. I have trimmed the fixed payments where I can and accepted the ones I can't. I need to feed myself, my partner, my 9 year old daughter and my dog. Please help me do this as cheaply as possible! Short term pain, long term gain and all that. [more inside]
What's the Fairmount section of Philly near Broad like?
My daughter is headed to Temple and has found an apartment near 15th and Fairmount in Philadelphia. What's it like in that area? [more inside]
posted by lpsguy at 5:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by lpsguy at 5:48 PM PST - 9 comments
New job, new wardrobe
- About 1/3 of my job will involve meeting with clients in their home environment, which is mostly going to be a shelter, SRO, transitional housing unit, or the street.
- Another 1/3 or so will be located at a hospital and in local clinics, meeting with physicians and social workers, and accompanying clients to appointments.
-The final 3rd or so of my job I will be sitting at a desk in a large, shared office, in a department that expects a business casual dress (although tolerates a diverse range of expression of business casual).
- Also, I'm a butch (masculine) woman.
What should I wear? [more inside]
Bringing Up Bilingual Bebe
Belatedly realizing that if we want my baby to grow up being able to speak a second language, I'm the one who's going to have to be the one to speak it to him all the time. I'm not great at this language. Practical tips on how to do this? [more inside]
Mission Statement v. Goals
What is the difference between an organization's mission statement and its stated goals? I've seen Websites, for example, that have the organization's mission statement as well as the organization's goals listed in separate areas and I'm not getting the difference.
posted by longhaultrucker at 4:47 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by longhaultrucker at 4:47 PM PST - 7 comments
never thought how quickly bedbugs could become my problem.
Bedbugs in apartment we just moved into. What to do? Legally, practically, emotionally. [more inside]
What software do I need to streamline my office?
In my office I have multiple employees working on my files in different roles. I am looking for a way to integrate things so that I can look at one or two programs on my computer and see what is happening on them. [more inside]
Interviewing for current job but new boss. How to make a good decision?
The company I work for is being bought by another company and I have a phone interview this week with the new bosses, who are interested in keeping me on. This is pretty much my dream job already, so keeping it would be great ... but how? [more inside]
Assessment tool for grantseekers: personality quiz edition?
I am currently working with a local nonprofit to create a new grant program focused on community engagement. This organization serves primarily as a funding intermediary, raising funds and distributing them as grants to other nonprofits throughout the region. They actually have a number of existing grant programs that already require varying levels of community engagement, education, and/or outreach, and have tasked me with creating a self-assessment tool to pair potential grantees to the most appropriate grant(s). I'm thinking I need a tool that would help me create something similar to those personality quizzes you find online, but I am finding it difficult to know what resources exist for this and how I should format the thing. [more inside]
posted by a.steele at 3:19 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by a.steele at 3:19 PM PST - 3 comments
this here doorknob
This door is in the corner of our (soon to be) dining room. It formerly lead to the kitchen but now leads no where and is nailed shut. should we keep the knob on it? [more inside]
posted by Baby_Balrog at 2:21 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Baby_Balrog at 2:21 PM PST - 35 comments
Keeping my Kindle stocked
I get an email every month from Amazon with their editors' "Best Books of the Month." I always find some good recommendations there in a number of categories, and I'm hoping for more. Are there other websites that offer curated lists of new books on a monthly basis? [more inside]
Best magazines for diabetics with a low-carb philosophy
Looking for diabetes management magazine with a low-carb or controlled-carb diet. My family member was relatively recently diagnosed and is not getting great diet education. [more inside]
Interesting uses for some leftover cuts of beef
Dear Metafilter: Please help me use the last few cuts from the beef quarter I ordered last year. These are cuts I probably wouldn't normally buy, but i'd like to make interesting use of them if I can. I have a 2.5 lb blade roast, 2 lbs of braising ribs, 1 lb of stew beef and a tail. [more inside]
Is there a mascara secret that I'm just not in on?
I made it through most of my 37 years without wearing make-up. I also made it through most of my 37 years without ever getting a stye. [more inside]
How can you block a page from Facebook search results?
Asking for my wife. There's a page that keeps popping up in her Facebook search results that she doesn't want to see. Clearing her search history hasn't got rid of it, nor has clearing her cookies and browser history. Is there any way to get rid of the page so that she never has to see it? [more inside]
posted by yasp at 1:05 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by yasp at 1:05 PM PST - 5 comments
Nail polish that is free of chemicals but won't chip
Do you know a nail polish that is fee of chemicals like formaldehyde, etc.?
I think they call it the 4 free or 5 free.........I tried the polish called "Butter" but it chipped right away.
I'm willing to even just have 2 or 3 free if I can have a polish that does not chip the next day. I'm just trying to find something with "less" chemicals than the normal polish.
Thanks.
excellent yet super convenient takeaway in barcelona
I am working this week only at Hospital Clinico in L'Eixample of Barcelona (here). I am pretty busy with work; basically, I go back and forth between the hospital and then back to the hotel where I do more paperwork in the evening. It would great if I could pick up some excellent takeaway food on my way home from the hospital. Any recommendations? I see lots of places and I have lots of yelp recommendations for good sit-down places, but what kind of place will be both accomodating to take away and also taste a little better than fast food?
Best place in the US to hold a one-day business meeting?
I need to organize a one-day business meeting for 17 academics who would be flying in from all over the US. We need a conference room and a decent hotel. Where is the best place to hold such a meeting? [more inside]
Health insurance deductible question.
Say I have a 2500$ deductible, and I get blood work totaling over 2500$ which the diagnostic company has billed the insurance company for, but agreed not to bill me for ... [more inside]
Where to live for Yeshiva/Albert Einstein College of Medicine?
My cousin's boyfriend has accepted a postdoc at Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx. He'll be moving here in August. He is a research scientist and will be keeping very odd hours and making frequent trips to campus to access the lab. Where should he live? Details under the fold. [more inside]
posted by kimdog at 11:47 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by kimdog at 11:47 AM PST - 10 comments
Energy attunements: is it possible to become an energy healer online?
I'm getting mystery pains as I mentioned in another question. I'd like to treat this with an energy modality, e.g. Reiki. I am based in the UK. Ideally I would like to learn online. [more inside]
Where should my family rent a house in July (driving distance from LA)?
I've got a wife, two small kids, a dog (although the dog doesn't always come with us), and an insatiable urge to get the hell out of LA in July. Where should we go? We'd like to rent a house in an area that's not too pricey but still nice and clean. Has to be within, say, a 4 hour drive of LA. Near the beach is a plus. Maybe not completely swamped with people is a plus. Are there any hidden gems, or should we just go to Santa Barbara like everyone else?
Help being diplomatic with employer...
My employer signed my housing lease and wants to take over my living space. How do I say no? [more inside]
fssshhhh
Best aquarium option available on Amazon? [more inside]
posted by troika at 10:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by troika at 10:47 AM PST - 4 comments
Level up my life...
There are about a zillion goal-tracking and habit-forming apps out there with a bit of gamification ingrained in them. Which are great? [more inside]
Non-Western History Please!
I want to read some non-Western history, from pre-colonial periods. All I ask is that it be a good read, but non-Western authors would be a cool bonus. [more inside]
Looking for hand drawn animated shorts, suitable for children
I've been sorting through youtube trying to find some animated shorts to show a group of kids, turns out there is a lot of flotsam! I'd appreciate any links. [more inside]
A slight under-understanding of Tinder
I am having trouble understanding how matches are formed. If I am bisexual and it shows me pictures of people of both genders, does that mean or imply those people are interested in people of my gender, or does it just randomly show men and women when both are selected? Is the pool of people I am shown a pool of people who already said they liked me first and then people who haven't been asked only after those people? Does it ever show me a picture of someone who has already specifically said they don't like me? And along the same lines, does it sometimes (as it seems) show me a bunch of people who haven't yet had the opportunity to thumbs up or thumbs down me, and if they do thumbs me up, will it then tell me and them we matched at the same time? Thank you.
Postscript: Also - why so many matches and so few people initiating conversation?
Last minute NYC planning
I'm going to NYC for a few days. My plan was to sit in the park and read and then see plays. I am going with someone who wants to Do Things. Assuming I am free during the days only (and tomorrow night before the late Welcome to Night Vale show), what things that aren't the Big Name Attractions should I go for?
Best shoes and pants for a waiter?
Hey all. I'm starting a new job as a server on Monday, and I have to bring my own black pants and black non-slip shoes. This is my first time working in a restaurant outside of the bar or kitchen, so I'm not sure where to go (online or in person, I work in DC) to get the requisite gear, and what I should buy. United servers of MeFi--any recommendations on work pants and shoes?
I want to host my own videos for my website. What's the best way?
The videos need to work across all browsers and devices. I'm having a hard time finding good advice. Can you help?
posted by markcmyers at 8:18 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by markcmyers at 8:18 AM PST - 13 comments
Does Windows 8 suck?
I need a new laptop for school/writing/scientific programming/mefiting. I will be spending a lot of time on buses so I need it to be light. I've always had a PC but may switch to a Mac since I heard that Windows 8 sucks. Does it? [more inside]
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 8:02 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 8:02 AM PST - 43 comments
USPS lost my passport. What now?
Somehow the USPS has lost my passport, which was mailed from NYC to Boston. What are my next steps? [more inside]
posted by peacheater at 7:56 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by peacheater at 7:56 AM PST - 14 comments
Living 'below' your means, tips, experiences?
How'd you make a long term mental transition to having lower income without going crazy or going into debt? Say you made more money before and then because of life goals (or worse) your income was very much reduced. How'd you prepare? How'd you go against the tendency to spend your money? In other words, how do you not stress about money when you are able to save more money than many people make in a year? [more inside]
posted by sandmanwv at 7:51 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 7:51 AM PST - 25 comments
Leather Fun!
Last year you helped me devise activities for my second wedding anniversary.
Help me again this year. [more inside]
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 7:38 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 7:38 AM PST - 9 comments
Best way to display postcards?
Interior design filter: We have a bunch (15-20) of cool postcards that we'd like to display. In our old apartment, there was a narrow (maybe 20") wall next to our desks that worked really well to "frame" the postcard collection, but in our new apartment, our only viable wall is like 20 feet long, which makes it look weird to put up a handful of postcards. Assuming that we are neither crafty nor inclined to spend tons of money (no custom framing), what's the best way to show off our postcards? Something nicer-looking than a bulletin board would be good.
posted by goodbyewaffles at 7:30 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by goodbyewaffles at 7:30 AM PST - 9 comments
Panleukopenia outbreak in our house. What now?
My fiancé and I foster homeless kittens and cats in our house as volunteers for a local cat shelter. Panleukopenia just hit us hard, killing all of our fosters, making us really depressed, and now we don't know what to do. Any advice? [more inside]
How can I replace a lost 1989 VW vanagon key?
Totally embarrassing, but I lost the sole remaining key to my family's 1989 VW Vanagon (on my way to make a copy, natch) ... I'll be calling locksmiths and my mechanic today, but if anyone has any experience and/or knowledge of fixes for such a SNAFU, I would appreciate tips. (No, I don't have a picture of it. Yes, very stupid. Trust me; I've heard it.)
posted by mrgrimm at 7:14 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by mrgrimm at 7:14 AM PST - 11 comments
What to look for in credit unions/good ones in MD?
I'm asking on behalf of a friend looking to join a credit union in Maryland. What should I be looking for? What are some red flags? Also, what are some good ones that you've had personal experience with? [more inside]
What's the best place to get Civil War uniforms?
I've wanted a Union Civil War uniform for a long time. There are a lot of places online to get them. Can anybody recommend one over another? Some particulars inside. [more inside]
Laid off after two months on the job. How to explain at interviews?
50 Year Old Male, IT Busines Dev/Vendor Mgr role. [more inside]
Best internet provider in St. Louis
I think I am doing laundry wrong. Hope me?
I have noticed that after being washed for a few months or so all my clothes begin to go stiff, especially t-shirts. I miss having soft clothes. What am I doing wrong? [more inside]
looking for Marvel Unlimited recs
What comics on Marvel Unlimited should I read?
I asked how to read Captain America a couple months ago and read through the Brubaker run and enjoyed a lot of it. I'm looking for more recommendations for what to read that's up on the Marvel Unlimited site-- I'm not really interested in buying issues that aren't up yet. [more inside]
Vocal tumbleweeds
After a long period of near-silence, help me learn how to speak again! [more inside]
Always covered up
I like to run shirtless, but I have confidence issues!
How can I convince myself I am not doing anything wrong, and not be stressed about it? If you lived in my apartment building (mainly young professionals, some young techie families) would you be offended by a shirtless guy in the elevator going out for a run? [more inside]
posted by niccolo at 12:23 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by niccolo at 12:23 AM PST - 28 comments
June 2
Is it housing discrimination to require an American credit history?
At the age of 46 I had to get my younger brother, who also lives in the U.S. but for a much longer time, to cosign my lease because my wife and I have only a year of American credit history being recent immigrants. Now I know it is illegal to deny housing based on someone being an immigrant but that it is legal to deny housing based on a credit check. Is it foul play that they refuse to check our foreign credit history? [more inside]
New Therapist: best things to ask at first appointment?
What kinds of things should I be asking about/finding out while I'm shopping around for a new therapist? [more inside]
Best service that can print & bind one copy of a 500 page pdf?
I have a public domain pdf book that I'd like to have a durable hard copy of. Googling throws up too many false positives, and the most relevant previous AskMeFi doesn't really help. Recommendations?
posted by mono blanco at 9:11 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by mono blanco at 9:11 PM PST - 11 comments
Help me deal with subclinical... everything...
Despite all my efforts and success(!) in treating myself well and recovering, I feel like my anguish over this sexual assault that happened to me over a year ago still subtly manifests itself in many aspects of my life. And it is precisely the "subtle," diffuse nature of these symptoms that makes me uncertain as to how best to proceed. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by gemutlichkeit at 9:04 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by gemutlichkeit at 9:04 PM PST - 9 comments
How do I talk with potential employers about being fired?
Follow-up filter from last week: how do I discuss my recent dismissal from a job I held for a year and a half with any potential employers? [more inside]
Oh my god the ants, help!
We've been battling a carpenter ant infestation unlike any before. In past years we've had NO PROBLEM getting rid of them quickly. This year, they seem to be all over the house, and we're trying all the same tricks with no luck. I don't think we've ever been cleaner and we've been keeping things in airtight containers as we normally do. I have questions about how this could happen and what I can do. [more inside]
Help me find the Guy on the Train!
Should I try to reconnect with an old high school acquaintance? Or just leave it be? [more inside]
New computer - will it have a dial up modem and if not what to do
My mother uses dial up internet (yes, it is true, I can hear the groans now) on her old computer which uses Windows XP.
I just ordered her a new Dell 745 Mini-Tower Desktop PC with Intel Core 2 Duo Processor, 4GB Memory, 1TB Hard Drive and Windows 7 Professional. It has a 10/100/1000Mbps Ethernet - Connect to a broadband modem with wired Ethernet.
My question is will she be able to connect with her dial up internet connection with this and if not what are our options? Could I take out the modem in the old computer and install it in the new tower or should I buy a external dial up modem - if so can you tell me what kind - I am not tech savvy so the more details the better.
posted by just asking at 6:48 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by just asking at 6:48 PM PST - 22 comments
How do I get rid of mousie?
Pestfilter -- Intermittent mouse smell coming from behind impossible-to-block-off radiator -- with bonus bug problem! [more inside]
How can I sync Mac Outlook 2011 on two computers?
I set up my work Outlook for Mac 2011 Exchange account on my work computer today and now the identical set-up on my home computer is no longer working. Help! [more inside]
posted by hapax_legomenon at 6:16 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by hapax_legomenon at 6:16 PM PST - 2 comments
Young adult novel about becoming a girl becoming a fugitive?
In the late 90s, I read a lot of young adult novels - the plot of one in particular has stuck with me for years and I think about it way too much. If you could help me track it down I would be forever grateful. Basic premise, a teen girl sees something she shouldn't while at her father's house and she then goes on the run. [more inside]
posted by cessair at 6:10 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by cessair at 6:10 PM PST - 2 comments
Am i getting screwed on vacation time.
I've been working with this shop for a little more than a year. One of the few benefits is two weeks vacation after one year, actually it's 2 weeks vacation after 20 years also. So today I went to the manager and asked for a week off in August and a week in November. I was told since I had started May 25th of last year, I would only be able to get one week vacation. So this is how they work it, because there is a half a calendar year left, I get half of the two weeks of the vacation time it says i get printed on the benefits page. No where is this explained on any printed material. [more inside]
What if Carhartt and 2(x)ist had a baby?
I need new clothes, and I would like, for once, clothes that look good. Significant bonus points if they signal modesty and I can do some physical work in them. [more inside]
posted by The Gaffer at 5:55 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by The Gaffer at 5:55 PM PST - 7 comments
It seems like a scam. Is it?
My mom just got a check for a few thousand dollars from a place called Republic Bank Tax Refund Solutions in Kentucky. She doesn't know what or whom it's from. There's a phone number to call to "verify" and you can only verify a check once. [more inside]
posted by crankyrogalsky at 5:48 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by crankyrogalsky at 5:48 PM PST - 14 comments
slow fade isn't working
I have a friend who I consider to be almost family. We used to be extremely close through middle and high school, and probably most of while I was in college. She had a really rough childhood that resulted in PTSD and lasting issues with relationships. Over the past few years our daily lives have become pretty different and I think as she's had less going on she's gotten harder to talk to. I've been trying the slow fade, but she's noticed and I have to figure out how much to explain. [more inside]
posted by sepviva at 5:46 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by sepviva at 5:46 PM PST - 14 comments
Maybe the longest shot ever: Looking for an old book about bigfoot.
When I was a kid I had a book about bigfoot that I read and re-read. I can't remember what it is called or anything like that but I am clinging to the faintest hope that the AskMe hive mind can help me find it. [more inside]
posted by synecdoche at 5:35 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by synecdoche at 5:35 PM PST - 12 comments
How have you improved job-related self confidence?
I've only very recently identified a recurring behavior/thought pattern in myself. In hindsight, I am surprised it's taken me this long to realize what I'm doing. I guess I'd just call it a lack of self confidence when it comes to work, but there may be more at play. I doubt this is totally unique, so I'd appreciate any advice people have had on improving it. [more inside]
Bay area/wine country wedding venue help?
My fiancée and I are getting married next year, and are looking for venues in/near wine country, or elsewhere in the Bay area. We would like an all-in-one facility, so have been looking at large houses to rent so far, which have the added bonus of letting the wedding party sleep on site, but are open to other possibilities. Does anyone have any suggestions or advice for this search? [more inside]
Ajwa dates... Do any stores in Los Angeles carry them?
Am wary of buying these online, as I am looking for fresh, malleable, amber deliciousness. Anyone know any retailers in the LA/Orange County area? I have tried some Middle Eastern markets so far, but to no avail, if that helps. Thank you!
Flipping my job from one field to another - again
I may be close to receiving a job offer after my efforts to escape my horror transition into government began to pay off rather more quickly than I thought they would. Now I feel really uncertain about another career pivot so soon after the last one. Should I consider flipping again into another completely different area? [more inside]
Seeking stories of professional boldness.
I'm looking for real examples of people who made bold, honest, and somewhat risky moves in a job situation and saw positive results. [more inside]
Removal/rescue of bird's nest under the eaves of my back patio
I'm not sure how to attach a picture of if I can. Our association is saying it's not their responsibility to remove it. I don't know if the bird/eggs in the nest are dead or alive. The big bird hovering over the nest hasn't moved in a week. There are daily bird droppings directly under the nest on our back patio. I'm an animal lover. I don't want those birds/eggs killed. Who can I call in Orange County, California to help me with me with this? I did a Google search but couldn't find anything for this particular situation. Any ideas? Thanks much. Sincerely, htm
posted by htm at 3:28 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by htm at 3:28 PM PST - 25 comments
Magnetic combo spare key lockbox on your car: bad idea?
I am debating getting a spare key lockbox for my car so I can stop carrying the spare keys in my wallet, as is currently my custom. Is this uniformly stupid, and I shouldn't do it? Any particular errors to avoid, or a lockbox you can recommend? [more inside]
How to tell a carless friend I don't want to give him a ride
Friend sold his car. He now wants me to play chauffeur when we hang out. I don't want to. Is there a gentle way to tell him this? [more inside]
Spreads on breads!
A friend of mine is hosting a party. The theme is Spreads on breads. Friends, I am so excited, and so is my stomach. Please share with me your most delicious spread recipes, and the breads they taste the best on. [more inside]
posted by woodvine at 1:54 PM PST - 63 comments
posted by woodvine at 1:54 PM PST - 63 comments
Stockholm with little kids
We will be spending four days in Stockholm in the middle of June, with two boys, three and six years old. We've got the standard order guidebook suggestions (Vasa Museum, Skansen, etc.) of things to do, but I'd really love some suggestions of fun things for kids, or even just playgrounds for them to run around when they have had enough of Vikings and whatnot. They tend to be very excited about all modes of transportation, so trams, ferries, etc are a bonus. We will be staying near Ostermalm.
posted by ambrosia at 1:27 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by ambrosia at 1:27 PM PST - 11 comments
I started taking a Ssri (Zoloft) and I need serious reassurance
I've been on 50mg/Zoloft per day for the last 10 days for severe anxiety and some depression. To say it's been a rough ride is an understatement – and I really need to hear success stories and make a decision on how bad the side effects get before it gets better. [more inside]
How do I get Websense to stop blocking my website?
My company website is being blocked by Websense on the grounds that it is a compromised website that *may* contain malware. The webhost assures us that there is no malicious code, and we've run several other scans that say the same thing. There are four links at issue, and they just redirect within the site. This is a problem because our largest client uses Websense filtering, and none of them can see our website. Websense won't even talk to me because I'm not a Websense client. Have any of you encountered this issue before or have any ideas on how to resolve it?
posted by crankylex at 12:49 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by crankylex at 12:49 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me replace these specific socks
I prefer to own only one type of sock, because it expedites the laundry, and when one wears out you haven't lost the pair. Sadly, my favorite socks appear to have been discontinued. Help me find a replacement! [more inside]
Children's book about "growing" machine/industrial sprawl?
An image (link) reminded me of a children's book I read at school (in England) in the 1980s. I can't remember much about it except it involved a machine that started out small and benign, but eventually grew to take over and pollute the whole world (allegorically, no doubt). I think it was largely or entirely pictorial, so impossible to google for! Anyone have any idea what it might have been? Thanks!
posted by puppygalore at 12:37 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by puppygalore at 12:37 PM PST - 4 comments
Reduced highway mpg in a 1-year-old car. What gives?
2013 Subaru Crosstrek XV got 32-33 highway mpg last year. Now it gets 28. [more inside]
posted by nicodine at 12:27 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by nicodine at 12:27 PM PST - 20 comments
What various socks are best for work, walking, lounging, and more?
Askmefites always recommend socks. The best gift for dad, the best thing to spend money on, the best things to put on your feet, etc. Sometimes they recommend brands, sometimes they recommend uses of the socks. Usually, they just say "buy good socks". This is basically a question asking for more details. [more inside]
posted by bbqturtle at 12:09 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by bbqturtle at 12:09 PM PST - 20 comments
Recommendations for two travel items
After lugging around a very small but not comfortable suitcase on wheels in chicken buses in South/Central America I realized I need a better travel bag as well as a money belt. Would welcome suggestions for these two travel items. [more inside]
Odd question about flip flops...
We are currently vacationing on the Gulf in Alabama and have noticed something odd. We are staying at a very large condo complex and a significant number of people leave their flip flops/shoes at the end of the dock before they slog with their stuff to the waterfront. This isn't a short walk and some of these shoes are expensive. It's odd to me that people wouldn't just wear their footwear to their claimed spot on the beach. Is this a regional thing? I've seen a few pairs left at the end of the boardwalk on my native Georgia and Florida beaches but never in these numbers. Any clue? Thanks.
posted by pearlybob at 11:07 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by pearlybob at 11:07 AM PST - 25 comments
How to long until robin fledglings will leave?
I love wild birds and am lucky enough to have several types of wild bird nesting in my backyard this season. First to leave the nest was a fledgling robin, some research has informed me that unlike many other fledglings which seem to get up and out of the back yard quickly robins stay fledgling for a while, running around the ground hiding and being fed and trained in the ways of being a robin by their parents but I can't find any info for how long it will be at this stage. [more inside]
Early Lyme Treatment Success Stories Request
Have any of you, or people you know, developed a rash from a tick bite, and maybe additional symptoms, treated it early, and recovered without issues? If so, how long were antibiotics taken for? [more inside]
posted by frankturning at 10:59 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by frankturning at 10:59 AM PST - 19 comments
How to deal with sexual jealousy in a relationship?
My boyfriend sometimes expresses sexual attraction to other girls when he's with me and I'm wondering if a) his actions are reasonable, b) my reaction to this is reasonable or c) if there are underlying issues behind this that need to be addressed. [more inside]
posted by sweetshine at 10:58 AM PST - 74 comments
posted by sweetshine at 10:58 AM PST - 74 comments
Help me find a good programmer community for my research...
I am an academic who studies things like online communities and entrepreneurship. I would like to conduct a survey of open source and non-open source developers to see their commitment to helping out other programmers and their attitudes to entrepreneurship. When I last did research on this, Sourceforge was the place to go, but I have been outside of this world for awhile and it has moved on, perhaps to Github? Please help me figure out a good site to survey! Details inside... [more inside]
posted by blahblahblah at 10:52 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by blahblahblah at 10:52 AM PST - 1 comment
Problems with Internet connection. My ISP is blaming my cable modem.
Time Warner is telling me that I need to buy a new cable modem. I would like a second opinion. [more inside]
Inside Baby and the Not-Bummer Summer
With ~10 weeks to go in my pregnancy, some health complications are keeping me and my husband close to home and eating bland food. Have kept us there for quite a while already, actually. How can we keep from going stir-crazy, especially at a time when I would love to be out and about? [more inside]
Thinking about making robots do my housework.
Lately I've been considering getting a Roomba or a Neato, but I need to know if it'll try to suck up dog toys. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 9:54 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by phunniemee at 9:54 AM PST - 14 comments
"Do I look fat?" No... (yes!!)
My husband sometimes asks me, "Do I look fat?" The answer is yes, but I don't know how to say "yes." Should I tell him the truth?
Here's the context: For several years he has been hitting the gym hard. 5x/week at Crossfit, and currently in training for his third marathon. He went from a skinny, twiggy guy to a mass of muscle. He looks great, feels great, is healthy (we are vegan but do drink lots of beer on the weekends)... but as his muscles have grown, his belly has, too. It's big and looks fatty, even though the rest of him is muscly. [more inside]
Yes, I'm being nosy
When I go to the prescription counter at a local pharmacy in a not-so-great area, I often am waiting behind people getting a liquid prescription that they need to drink in front of the pharmacist. What is this? [more inside]
posted by barnoley at 9:33 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by barnoley at 9:33 AM PST - 13 comments
Default Browser Setting, Where Art Thou?
I've decided to switch over completely to Google Chrome, and on my work laptop it's NBD. My home laptop, however, asks me EVERY DAMN TIME I START CHROME if I want to make it my default browser; clicking OK does nothing (Firefox is still the default). More inside... [more inside]
posted by IAmBroom at 9:15 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by IAmBroom at 9:15 AM PST - 9 comments
What are feelings, really?
How does the brain's circuitry actually create conciousness? What is actually going on at the terminus of all the chemical reactions and processes that creates sensory experience? What about feelings such as pain, happiness, sadness or anger?
Yep, I know these are the million dollar questions and there are not definitive answers (yet!), so I'm interested in hearing your ideas or any research/theories you find particularly interesting on the topic. Cheers!
Is it ethical to shop wholesale for my own use?
There's a way I could, legally and within the rules, shop wholesale - even though the purchases wouldn't really be for my business. Do you think this is okay, MeFi? [more inside]
How does one model?
I will be modeling for a clothing boutique's website tomorrow afternoon. I've never done this before and haven't received very detailed instructions. What should I be thinking about to make this the best experience possible? [more inside]
posted by in a dark glassly at 8:52 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by in a dark glassly at 8:52 AM PST - 9 comments
Hope for Ossified Cochlea?
When my boyfriend was a child, the bones in his inner ear fused. They were removed and he now has a giant hole where his eardrum used to be. Is there anything that will restore hearing if the bones are gone? [more inside]
What should I know before hiring a virtual assistant?
So I've decided I make enough to put someone on my personal projects full time and I'd like to go the virtual personal assistant route. And I was wondering what i should know. What should a monthly salary be? Are there certain countries it's trickier with? What duties are best served? Transcription? Research? First drafts? I've tried googling but it seems like it's either four year old esquire articles or certain larger sites that have done enough SEO that everything points back to them. So it's time to ask the experts: the hive mind.
Cat hair EVERYWHERE
We have two very healthy, VERY active longhair cats. We (two adults and an 5-month-old) live with them in a 700 square foot apartment. There is cat fur EVERYWHERE. You can neither walk through the air nor sit on any surface without getting covered. We've tried all the obvious fur-mitigation measures; help us figure out how best to keep our apartment clean. [more inside]
Urine/Cigarette
If you smoke a cigarette that you peed on the night before (dried out now), will it make you sick? (like more sick than just usual smoking risk)?
posted by josher71 at 8:29 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by josher71 at 8:29 AM PST - 19 comments
I avoid people. Is this normal?
Apart from some very special people, I avoid interaction as much as I can. I don't remember ever feeling like I enjoy interacting with people just for the sake of it unless I already have an established good relationship. You are not my therapist, but what is my deal? [more inside]
Need recommendation for best book to use for GRE
Daughter planning to go to grad school to further study psychology and industrial management (sort of human resources) and needs a book for GRE others who have gone on to grad school have found very useful.
Lefty? Righty? Leave it alone?
We are starting to suspect our five 1/2 year old son may actually be a lefty. Do we ask / try to switch him over, or leave it alone? [more inside]
Help us block ants from our house
Today we found tiny ants on a kitchen counter and followed their path to a stretch of baseboard. We sprayed it with Sevin & left for work. Don’t know what to expect EOD.
We’d prefer to use more natural products, but we’re willing to go nuclear if necessary. (We own the home; no landlord.)
How have you handled ants?
The kid has a birthday coming up! Help me weasel out of her plan!
My step-daughter's 16th birthday is right around the corner. Like, 8 days away. We always ask her what she wants to do on her birthdays and usually she comes up with something like renting out a place to play laser tag or going to the water park or whatever and we are more than happy to give that to her and she invites friends and there is food and drink and merriment and Huzzah!
This year, it could go bad. I need some help! [more inside]
How to carry stuff and bike?
I've recently gotten into bike riding. What is the best way to carry stuff? [more inside]
Flushing a weekly question away
How can I fix my toilet that is acting weird? [more inside]
posted by Liesl at 7:23 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Liesl at 7:23 AM PST - 10 comments
Inexpensive CRM replacement, please?
Hello,
We are currently using Business Contact Manger as our CRM software. We are having problems when having to re-install (computer crashes, etc) at this point and are looking to either upgrade to Office 2013 (which will allow us to use Business Contact Manager 2013) or to find a new CRM.
The preferred option (long-term) would be to get a new CRM, as BCM (Business Contact Manager) does not meet all our needs, and is essentially defunct, but it would need to be less than the price of buying Office 2013 for the 4 users who use it (around $2100). [more inside]
Yet another OKC profile critique request
So far my response rate seems pretty low compared to I've heard is typical. Is there anything in my profile that might be the cause? [more inside]
posted by doctord at 6:42 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by doctord at 6:42 AM PST - 31 comments
Measure twice, cut once: tool buying edition
With Father's Day fast approaching and the home improvement season upon us, I've been thinking about tools. Delicious, delicious tools. Let's talk about the tools I need for my toolatorium. [more inside]
Making original music
How do you know that the music you are making hasn't already been written? I have a decent level of proficiency with one instrument and recently branched out and have started learning the basics of a few others. I have never made original music and recently have started tooling around and playing my "own" songs on a combination of a few instruments. It seems unlikely that I am playing anything unique which leads me to wonder how does one know when they are? Thanks.
T-shirts that don't feel like t-shirts
I am looking for higher-end women's t-shirts that drape beautifully and fit great. Where do I find them? A surprising number of details and preferences and constraints inside! [more inside]
Options for an EMT-B to volunteer/work abroad (Africa, Asia, caribean?)
I would like to find websites, or lists of opportunities to work or volunteer in an impoverished area as an EMT-B (EMT Basic). Details, tips, advice, all are welcome.
Thanks.
Apple Certified Lightening Cable Recommendation
Looking for a recommendation for a LONG (6 feet) Apple Certified Lightening Cable that works works to charge my iPad. [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:08 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:08 AM PST - 10 comments
Accreditation and risk in Japanese-English translation in Australia
Am I correct in assuming that NAATI accreditation is not a legal prerequisite for undertaking translation work? How to mitigate risk as a freelancer? [more inside]
Why does lack of food cause head/neck pain?
When I have gone too long without eating, I tend to get a neck-ache, often also accompanied by a headache localized at my temple. Why is this? What's going on, physiologically? [more inside]
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 2:13 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 2:13 AM PST - 6 comments
June 1
Wrong vaccine... what now?
I believe my son received the wrong vaccine. I don't trust his doc. I have questions. [more inside]
Can i heal this dying cactus?
The house I live in was flipped and landscaped with these cactuses before we moved in. The largest one seems to be dying. It looks rotten in the center and even has some mold. I suspect the recent heavy rains and lack of good drainage.
The question I have is two fold: Is it possible to fix this guy, or is he a goner? If I do replace the plant, what kind of plant is it, and how should i prevent this from happening again?
Here are some pictures of the plant.
posted by jonclegg at 9:25 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by jonclegg at 9:25 PM PST - 12 comments
Best resources for pronouncing English phonograms?
Hi AskMetafilter.
I've found that I have properly enunciating the 'o' related English phonograms. Especially 'our.' I went to a speech pathologist who claimed (reasonably) that I wasn't moving my upperlip properly and moving my jaw done enough. But I wasn't satisfied by the resources he provided for correcting those problems.
Does anyone have any suggestions about the best resources for learning the proper lip/jaw movement of English phonograms?
What is the best cord cutting setup?
I'm considering finally dropping cable and implementing a home DVR solution that captures over-the-air channels. I'm in the Phoenix metro area so will have no problems picking up the basic channels. I'm leaning toward the Simple.TV (the new one with two tuners) setup but wanted to see what other options might be out there. I subscribe to Netflix and have an Apple TV but don't want to pay for other subscriptions - which eliminates the Tivo. I also want everything to run off a dedicated "box" so I don't have to use a computer to manage things. So - in your experience, what works well? What doesn't? Is the Simple.TV 2 decent... or junky? I know this question has been addressed before but don't know what might be new in the last year-ish.
Cancun on a budget?
I'm going to be spending a couple of weeks in the yucatan peninsula with my girlfriend, mostly staying in inexpensive hotels and hostels. We're flying home out of cancun, and her parents are going to meet us there for a few days. We don't have a huge budget, but would like to spend a couple of nights at a decent hotel with a nice pool. Being all inclusive isn't important to us, if there are decent restaurants nearby. In fact, being on the beach isn't that important, if we can get to it without too much hassle.
Any suggestions for places to stay? I'd like it to be less than $100 a night per person.
How do payments on property in a trust work?
Father left his stuff to me in a trust. Not sure what that means, and need an answer to the most basic of questions. [more inside]
posted by ratherbethedevil at 7:07 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ratherbethedevil at 7:07 PM PST - 5 comments
If you've got the answer, honey, I've got the time.
I am looking for a recording of Hank Williams, Sr. doing the song "If You've Got The Money (I've Got The Time)." I have exhausted all the resources I can think of. Anyone out there have a clue?
posted by ronofthedead at 7:00 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ronofthedead at 7:00 PM PST - 8 comments
Moving away- need a gift for my son's coaches of 6 years.
My son is a competitive gymnast and has had the same coaches for 6 years. We love them and want to get them something memorable but not cheesy. [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 6:17 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Thrillhouse at 6:17 PM PST - 9 comments
ArcGIS on a Mac
I am starting a geography class tomorrow and I am trying to install ArcGIS on my computer. I have a Mac... [more inside]
posted by ekf at 5:52 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ekf at 5:52 PM PST - 14 comments
Dance classes for 18-25 year olds in Dallas?
Hello hivemind. Recently I came upon the idea of going to dance classes in order to meet girls. To that end, I was wondering if anybody could suggest places that have dance classes for young adults in the Dallas area. I realize that I can use Google to find all sorts of dance studios that offer classes, but I would like to try and find ones that tend have the greatest prevalence of women my age. Latin stuff is what would interest me the most, but I'm open to any suggestions.
posted by bookman117 at 5:33 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by bookman117 at 5:33 PM PST - 3 comments
I know I have a lot of bacon, but how much exactly? 40 lbs? 80? More??!
My husband and I own and manage a small farm, where we raise heritage/organic-fed/pastured/blah blah pork, beef, lamb, goat, poultry, etc. We sell cuts of frozen meat by the pound at farmers' markets and direct to consumers via a CSA-type model. However, we have nothing in place for managing what we have on hand, other than vague "I think the bacon was in the bottom on the left side, there should be enough for market today"-type information. We clearly need to get some kind of inventory management in place. [more inside]
I might buy a pinball machine. For those who own one, do you enjoy it?
I'm seriously considering purchasing a pinball machine. For those who do own one, do you still enjoy playing it or would you rather have a new machine? I can't imagine getting sick of a machine I like, but it's a large purchase for me. Thanks!
posted by shawnmcnulty at 4:54 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by shawnmcnulty at 4:54 PM PST - 13 comments
What is wrong with my trees?
I live in east Tennessee and I have a couple of trees in my yard that get what I think is a fungus of some kind but I can't identify it. I have tried to google the disease but I can't seem to find it. Spiky growths come out of the berries and some leaves will get similar growths later in the season. [more inside]
posted by slavlin at 4:46 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by slavlin at 4:46 PM PST - 3 comments
Leftovers again?
I have a large roasting pan full of BBQ pork left over from a party. What tasty things can I do with it? [more inside]
Help me find ways to make more money
I am unable to work because of disability. I collect SSDI and while I get food stamps, I only get $17/month, which doesn't go very far. Since I went on SSDI in 2010, I've tried various ways to supplement my income, but I have yet to come up with anything reliable. Budgeting is not the problem; there simply isn't enough money. Plus, it would be nice to improve my quality of life even a little bit. [more inside]
Give me your checklists and frameworks.
What checklists and frameworks do you use in your professional life? [more inside]
posted by rippersid at 3:54 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by rippersid at 3:54 PM PST - 4 comments
What is the furious homonym of "Booker Prize"?
John Banville starts his review of Lost for Words, by Edward St. Aubyn, thus: "There are book prizes, and then there is the Booker Prize, known, fondly, as the Booker, or, furiously, by a close homonym." The only likely suspect that came to mind was "Bugger Prize," but Google suggests that is not a thing. Does anybody know what he's talking about?
Me write pretty one day
How do I craft beautiful sentences? [more inside]
Did I translate this poem into French correctly?
Did I translate this poem into French correctly? I'm looking more along the lines of grammar and vocabulary usages and so forth. (This is not a homework assignment; I just did it for fun.) [more inside]
posted by joethefob at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by joethefob at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
You Just Can't Get There From Here...
I recall reading an anecdote where a guy said "I would give my left arm to be ambidextrous!" I am looking for other similarly broken in a you-just-can't-get-there-from-here way metaphors, anecdotes and mental models. [more inside]
posted by Michele in California at 2:22 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by Michele in California at 2:22 PM PST - 42 comments
Looking for a particular sink.
So I have come down with shingles, what to expect
I have been diagnosed with shingles. I currently have patches of raised rash running from spine to sternum passing through my armpit. I have been on Valtrex for 2 days and the rash is still expanding a bit. The rash is a bit itchy and annoying and occasionally hurts but otherwise I have not had major pain to this point.
So what I want to know is what to expect. I work in a field that has mostly desk work punctuated by some physical labor. Should I expect to have problems with work? Or am I do for an easy case as I have not had much nerve pain?
posted by The Violet Cypher at 1:50 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by The Violet Cypher at 1:50 PM PST - 13 comments
What is the origin of the dimensions of large-sized US dollar bills?
US dollar bills before 1928 were larger than they are now, 188mm by 79mm. Are there records of why that particular size was chosen? [more inside]
posted by CrystalDave at 1:18 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by CrystalDave at 1:18 PM PST - 8 comments
How long ago did science discover pigs' genetic similarity to humans?
More specifically, when did scientists learn that pig skin is very similar to human skin?
How Can I Reduce My "Fear Of Missing Out" And Relax A Little?
How can I slow down and take time to myself and enjoy it when there is always a constant stream of social invites? How can I stop worrying about missing out on something, and specifically missing out on meeting new romantic chances? [more inside]
posted by christiehawk at 12:44 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by christiehawk at 12:44 PM PST - 9 comments
Undoing botched highlights
A friend has very dark brown, basically black hair. She wanted to lighten it up and went to a salon yesterday and asked for some subtle highlights. The stylist used foils and then decided to process her hair again using foils a second time because the color came out uneven. She left the salon with some very blonde highlights, mixed with some very brassy highlights. How do we fix this? [more inside]
Refrigerator filter cover won't budge
I am trying to change the fresh air filter in my Samsung LG refrigerator. Unfortunately, the filter cover won't twist off - it's jammed in good and tight and won't budge. Hope me budge it! [more inside]
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 11:24 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 11:24 AM PST - 3 comments
How to lose weight with core injuries?
I'm in physio and working on my core. But every time I try to exercise, I injure myself. I'm gaining weight like crazy and really can't afford to only do core exercises. Is there anything I could do to help lose weight? [more inside]
Name of a movie possibly set in Venice.
A couple on Honeymoon. They leave their hotel for a night out and get lost in the side streets. Just as they start to get worried a rich guy rescues them and brings them to his large house by boat. It turns out he his a psycho who has been watching them since they arrived in the city. I think he murders the guy but the girl escapes. I think it dates from the 1990's. A river and river taxis feature heavily. Thanks.
posted by night_train at 11:05 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by night_train at 11:05 AM PST - 6 comments
Should I butter up my boyfriend?
How to dismantle a bra
I recently purchased this dress. I need to remove the padded cups in the shelf bra without destroying the dress. Is this possible? [more inside]
posted by fox problems at 10:13 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by fox problems at 10:13 AM PST - 13 comments
Office with a view: prospects for using your car as a home office?
It recently occurred to me that in a temperate climate, my car could be a nice place to work from, offering freedom to select the locale and the view and to change them at will. Has anyone tried this? How did you set it up? What worked and what didn't?
What can I make with Nanking cherries?
I anticipate a big crop of Nanking cherries this year, and am looking for ways to use them. Help, please? [more inside]
Walking in London
Where are some interesting places to walk in London? I am in London the next few days and would like to explore some new areas after work. All I know is Bloomsbury to Mayfair to Westminster, so not much at all! It would need to be reachable by tube and should be safe. I would love to find little shops or cafés as well as just a pleasant place to walk for a few hours. I am staying in Hackney, if that is relevant. [more inside]
Where can I find lunch meat called chicken roll?
Where can I find lunch meat called chicken roll? [more inside]
Are stove top drip pans universal sized?
Short and sweet question - See title. [more inside]
Taking on more hours with a baby on the way
I've been offered a job I'd like, but the hours are longer and there's a commute, and we're expecting a baby. Would I be crazy to take it? [more inside]
Fiverr for cover design: yea or nay?
The designer who normally does my ebook covers is no longer working out. Creating my own covers is not an option for me given my current lack of design chops. Some members of my writing group suggested Fiverr as the go-to place for covers. Looking around there it seems there are some decent "gigs" that would serve my needs. However, I have some questions about Fiverr itself and about the possible knock-on effects of using Fiverr for graphic design. [more inside]
A question about parenthood from a single, childless guy
I am in my early forties, single and childless. Many of my peers have opted to marry and have babies. I don't see myself joining them any time soon but I'd like to understand them a little better.
So what are the aspects of parenthood that single, childless people (men in particular) Just Don't Get? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 9:06 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 9:06 AM PST - 29 comments
Vitamins for trees?
I've planted a variety of trees around my house - kwanzan cherries, tulip trees, flowering crabapples - and many seem to have shared problems. These are 1) extra thick trunks for their size, 2) a tendency toward something like witch's brooming, and 3) a tendency to grow off vertical. No basic nutrient problems on soil testing, but haven't done trace minerals. Should I break up with them, or is there someway to work this out?
posted by bullatony at 8:48 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by bullatony at 8:48 AM PST - 5 comments
Spurious correlations in big data
So, "big data" is all the rage among technologists and venture capitalists.
Intuition suggests that as the amount of data analyzed increases, so too does the amount of spurious correlations. Have there been any good studies (academic or otherwise) that try to resolve this problem?
Or feel free to tell me why my intuition is wrong.
Thanks.
posted by dfriedman at 7:29 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by dfriedman at 7:29 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I maintain sanity while I await my horny cat's vet appointment?
My adolescent kitten is in heat. Unfortunately, it's not quite hot enough to melt my eardrums, so both of us suffer while she stands next to the front door and yowls in vain for tomcat dick. She seems as miserable as she's making me. Unfortunately, her appointment to get fixed isn't til Wednesday. Is there anything I can do to make her less screetchy in the meantime?
What stuff can only be bought in China ?
Hello,
I'll be leaving China soon and I want to bring back some stuff that you can only find in Beijing (China).
I already bought a lot of things from Xiaomi for example.
Do you know anything else ?
Have a good day !
P.S : no food