February 2011 Archives
February 28
Longbox longboat
Hit me with your favourite, most cherished, most exhilarating, and downright best comic book runs of the past 30 years (Preacher, Watchmen, Y, Invisibles, Dark Knight-free zone). [more inside]
Content farm blocking?
Firefox version of Chrome's Personal Blocklist extension. [more inside]
Have you seen this hat?
My partner left her favorite hat on the subway last week, and despite her valiant attempt to search the same train on the next run, she couldn't find it again. Have you seen this (style of) hat -- or any advice for finding it? Is there such a thing as an image-search for products? [more inside]
One Up
CellPlanFilter: What is the total cost after taxes, fees, etc. of adding an iPhone or Android device to a family plan on Verizon?
How to find companies within an industry?
I'm doing market research and am looking for companies like Gore Tex and eVent, developers of functional textiles for outdoor apparel. Where can I find such information?
Help me shop, please
I'm female, US ~size 12, ample in chest and hip area, relatively smaller waist, and I want to shop for clothes that are flattering and professional. [more inside]
Camping our way to Maine (with a small dog)!
We are going camping this summer though upper New York state, Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine. 2 adults, 1 senior citizen, 1 small, well-behaved dog. We are looking for dog-friendly campgrounds that might also have a cabin option. Any suggestions? [more inside]
What kind of massage should I ask for?
What kind of massage do I want to ask for? [more inside]
How can I increase the screen resolution of the TV I'm using for a Monitor
How might I resolve my resolution confusion? [more inside]
There goes the credit score
Can you strategically default on student loans and credit cards like you would a mortgage? [more inside]
I am terrified I am going to lose my husband.
I don't know what to do. Is my marriage doomed? My husband loves another woman and says he loves me too. [more inside]
"I'm Gettin' Gray From Bein' Blue"
Recommend me a salon or hairdresser that excels at semi-unnatural hair coloring in Cambridge/Medford/Somerville/Boston Metro North-West! My life has been the stuff of bad country-westerns the past month - [more inside]
Microscope image of an organism with sticky filaments?
I'm trying to find (I think) electron microscope images of a certain type of organism. I know basically what it looks like, but I have no idea what it's called. [more inside]
Help me find a photo of a cat.
I'm looking for a specific photo of a cat that I found on Flickr a few years ago. It was an orange cat with a lion cut, sitting up. He may or may not have been sticking out his tongue. It was a scanned Polaroid, with a blue background. Does anyone remember seeing this? [more inside]
Guy looking for painting/decorating advice.
Just bought my first home! Looking for resources for masculine painting and decorating examples/tips. I have scanned through the old posts on decorating/painting and have found them either too feminine or with old/broken links. [more inside]
What is the right replacement tweeter for my passive nearfield monitors?
Passive nearfield monitor speaker repair filter. I need to replace a blown tweeter. I know the kind of tweeter but it's no longer manufactured and I need to select a compatible alternative. Please help. [more inside]
ConferenceFilter
Are some professional conferences scams / wastes of money? [more inside]
What do I do with my life?
Please help me figure out what to do with my life [more inside]
Dead Man's Seed?
Are there anonymous torrent seeding services suitable as dead man's switches for dissidents and reporters in dangerous locations? [more inside]
Failing that... what features in a bathroom make you want to take a bath?
Pimp my bathroom! Help me transform my smallish shabby chic/cottage chic bathroom into as dreamy (and manly man-friendly) a bathing space as possible, on a budget. [more inside]
No fly zones?
what does establishing and enforcing a "no fly zone" entail?
London hotels - why is it so hard to search for you?
LondonHotelFilter: Looking for the perfect place to stay in London - super cheap, grungy is okay, free wifi, access to a printer (one can dream), near Paddington/West London... [more inside]
Between 0 and 10 inches
Competitive Googling: Is there such a thing? [more inside]
Gluten-Free Baking with Rice Flour Gone Gritty
What is up with the grittiness in rice flour and how do I make it go away? [more inside]
Famous children in history
I'm looking for examples of children that have played pivotal roles in history. [more inside]
Experience with vacuum coffee brewers
I'd love to hear anything you know about vacuum coffee brewers. I watched this video, and it just looks sweet and fun to make. I've looked a bit online, but I live in Portland, Oregon in case anyone has bought one here in town. [more inside]
Sitcom Science
The sitcom Mork and Mindy is a spinoff from the sitcom Happy Days. What makes Mork and Mindy seem unique among spinoffs is the fact that it, or more precisely its central character (Mork), is spun off from a single episode of the original program. Can you think of other examples of spinoff sitcoms that derive from a single episode of another show?
Rabbot
Tell me about having a pet rabbit. [more inside]
Not as fun as picking real blackberries.
Blackberry-filter: do I pick the Curve 3G, Bold 9700, or Torch? [more inside]
I am not a Google-Fu Master.
I need to find published articles about a certain educational topic and am coming up empty-handed. Please help me craft some more productive search strings. [more inside]
A $50 history of everything?
Give me an entertaining history of the world for $50! [more inside]
A friend in need
How to politely bring up money to a friend before I work for free? [more inside]
Batch file to create files using a file containing file names
Windows batch file help: I have a file containing a list of files, I want to generate a new file for each of the files in the list. [more inside]
Photo processing / Flickr toolchain for Mac?
I have a bunch of photos I haven't uploaded to Flickr. Why? Because it's a pain with the tools I have now. I want to be able to color-correct, title, caption, tag, and upload photos from my Mac as fast as possible. [more inside]
Overqualified? How can I figure this out?
I work for a services solution company. Recently, I've been interviewing heavily within that company at other units/accounts that are not my own. The other day, I had an excellent interview with a District Manager and she made many comments about me being exactly what they were looking for. Since then, I received an email from her saying that she had not selected me for that position, however, there is another position within her district she would like me to apply for. [more inside]
Can this waterlogged mini-bar be saved?
On a walk through the alley behind my apartment building, I discovered a beautiful vintage vinyl-upholstered bar next to the dumpster, abandoned by some craigslist-averse neighbor. Unfortunately, it appears to have absorbed several gallons of this morning's downpour. There are a few tears in the vinyl, and the foam beneath is saturated- ditto for the plywood shelves. Is it salvageable? Should I try to use a hairdryer, or will that only hasten the development of dry rot?
Looking for a good credit union in Portland Oregon
We've recently moved to Portland Oregon and are looking to ditch our bank for a credit union. There seems to be a good few out there and are looking for recommendations. Who's worth going to check out in further detail?
How to set iPhone bookmark to radio stream?
How do I make an icon-based bookmark to an online radio stream on my iPhone? [more inside]
Agony in the recovery room.
Yesterday I woke up from an operation in terrible agony. Is this normal (details inside), and if not what should I do? [more inside]
My tap is faster, but is my stove more efficient?
Which wastes more energy, heating water at the tap, or on the stove? [more inside]
Rabbi with a hat
Searching for a rabbi to officiate a wedding in the Boston area. Both specific recommendations and pointers to general resources are welcome. [more inside]
Business or Pleasure?
I'm about to start a 5 month internship in France, I'm leaving next week, and my visa hasn't been processed yet. What should I tell customs? [more inside]
Cigarettes and CO2
How much CO2 emissions result from cigarette smoking? Could aggregate cigarette smoking worldwide be considered to have an effect on global warming?
How to passively track outbound clicks
I've used MyBlogLog.com's statisitcs service for years to track outbound clicks on my sites, but now Yahoo is killing the service. MyBlogLog was never especially great, but it did allow me to see the top out-clicks each day, and run reports for how how many times a given URL had been clicked in a set period of time. How can I passively track outbound clicks now? [more inside]
Examples of environmental (in)justice in Mexico, Cuba, and/or northern South America?
Looking for examples of environmental (in)justice in Mexico, Cuba, and/or northern South America. [more inside]
Using a camera in the archive?
I'm visiting a special collection/archive in a university library. Will a digital camera offer a viable means of capturing data? [more inside]
What, if anything, do I say to my friends about their daughter's urgent need for braces?
What, if anything, do I say to my friends about their daughter's urgent need for braces? [more inside]
I need help with sex and gender issues.
Please help me deal with issues regarding sexual orientation and gender identity, and either assure me that I’m not a bad person or tell me how to stop being a bad person. A lengthy, detailed and NSFW explanation follows. [more inside]
Do they actually *make* Blu-ray carousels?
My beloved CD/DVD player (a five-disc carousel model) conked out last night after eight years of faithful service. I'd like to get one with much the same functionality to replace it, but apparently things have changed drastically in the home video market since 2003. Who knew? Help me figure out what kind of machine I need to buy. [more inside]
Best travel experience of your life?
Best travel experience of your life? [more inside]
Limiting kid's computer use
I'd like to limit my daughter's time on the computer, not only by hours (as Windows offers in its parental control system), but also by session (so she could use it for, say, only an hour at a time, with a break between sessions). Ideas? Suggestions?
Watson! Komdu hingað! Ég þarf þig!
Balto-Slavic, Germanic, Italic: help me select which Indo-European language(s) I should learn next! [more inside]
Know the Song, Don't Know the Artist
Last night on the way home from work I was listening to Cosmic Commander's Sonic Radio on Faction. I heard a song and would really like to find out who did it. [more inside]
When free wi-fi is a bug, not a feature.
Seattle cafes WITHOUT free wi-fi? [more inside]
Can anyone recommend a good medical alert system?
Can anyone recommend a good medical alert system? [more inside]
Windows hardware recognition problem
My computer doesn't seem to recognize attached hardware in Windows XP mode under Windows 7. [more inside]
Need a non-greasy moisturizer/sunscreen option
Help me find a moisturizer + sunscreen that won't make my face greasy! [more inside]
Vacation Destination Help
Need vacation ideas for a group of 22! [more inside]
Where to vacation this summer?
Should we go to PEI or Nova Scotia and what areas would be excellent summer vacation spots? [more inside]
Is there an etiquette for reclining in the air?
Is there an etiquette for reclining in the air? [more inside]
Motivation 10, Experience 0
I've never ice skated in my life. In a week, I'm starting lessons, in the eventual hope of learning how to play hockey and joining a club league down the line.
I am 39, 6'3" and around 250 pounds. My exercise regimen is walking/running 4-5 times a week, 3-5 miles at a time.
I have questions, as a total novice to on-ice sports of any kind:
- What is going to frustrate me the most?
- What is going to hurt the most (and how do I treat it?)
- What's the most important thing to remember, so I don't get frustrated?
Can you recommend products for a sun kissed look for a freckle face?
Help me get a healthy glow without getting skin cancer. [more inside]
Did any company in SF ever sell out and have to share profits with their landlord?
Back in the year 2000 during the tech boom, business space was in HUGE demand and landlords in San Francisco's SOMA district used to ask for very long leases and even a % ownership stake in your startup. I'm wondering, ten years later, did any property owner rent out their space to a successful startup and end up getting a payday when they flipped? [more inside]
Help me navigate the Poppy Field to business ownership
I want to open a small flower shop. What flavour of business management course should I be looking into? (in NS, Canada) Caution: some snowflakes ahead [more inside]
Help a potential future basement dweller
Considering moving into a basement apartment, just can't get over the basement-ness of it all. Any strategies for making it feel more welcoming? [more inside]
ofcourseican+yayforfilters@gmail.com
Gmail-like "+anything@gmail.com" in cPanel? [more inside]
When should I preorder the next book in the series?
How does it affect an author’s first week sales if you preorder their book and it ships/is delivered before the release date? [more inside]
Economics for Dummies
How much does the corporate tax rate really affect jobs? [more inside]
How would you build a Zen Art Deco book harem?
Ton of books + unused corner in totally sweet loft = book harem! I'd like to put together a space for up to 4 people to hang out, read, write, meditate, or generally just relax. Help me design & accessorize it! [more inside]
Ambition and the unambitious fiancé
On ambition and potential married bliss... or hell... [more inside]
Should I cut the cord?
Talk me in to (or out of) ditching my landline... [more inside]
Keep calm and carry on.... studying?
I'm graduating from college, hooray! Now help me announce it in the most amusing, unique, and creative way possible. [more inside]
Keeping squirrels from digging up my garden
Squirrel Wars: Can I lay down a layer of chicken wire or hardware cloth directly on top of my raised beds to keep the squirrels from digging up my plants, and then let my veggies grow through the wire all season? [more inside]
How can we dance when there is no sound!?
We're getting married on March 19th, and it turns out our DJ friend does not have the speakers required for DJing. No big deal, but how and where do we rent something like that? We're in Philadelphia, PA. [more inside]
Life after art school
Hey art school grads, what industry did you end up in? [more inside]
My office smells like a casino.
The group that works right outside my office are chain smokers. After the first smoke break of the day, my office reeks of menthol cigarettes. Any ideas on how to solve this? I'm willing to try anything at this point. [more inside]
Under Armour for tall but not big guys?
Under Armour doesn't make tall sizes, but yet lots of pro athletes wear it. My problem is I'm tall but not very big, so what are my alternatives? [more inside]
Help a fat guy buy a new car!
After putting 176,000+ miles on my 2005 Ford Taurus, I'm in the market for a new car. My 2 previous cars have been a Mercury Sable and another Ford Taurus. I think I'm done with sedans for the time being and want something different.
What kind of car should I buy? [more inside]
We want to buy something new and shiny, but a direct to dvd camcorder from 2005 seems like the best solution. Do you have any better ideas?
We want to buy something new and shiny, but an ancient direct to dvd camcorder seems like the best solution. Do you have any better ideas? [more inside]
No perhaps you should not give his name as a reference
Why, exactly, would it be terrible to announce that he is a child molester? [more inside]
I don't need caller ID because it's always my MIL
Sorry if this seems repetitive of other threads about home phone, VoIP, etc. I've read those, but my special snowflake situation is this: [more inside]
Is there a standard history of the Philippines in English?
Is there a standard history of the Philippines in English? [more inside]
Pyjamas? Check. Alarm set? Check. The fear? Check.
Am I having panic attacks while I am sleeping? Is that possible? Is this something else to get all anxious about? Or is it merely the onset of normal, adulthood worries? [more inside]
Help me learn about the neighborhoods in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
I want to move to Cambridge, Massachusetts. Can someone map out the area in a way that I can understand the neighborhoods and squares? [more inside]
Doing the Web Stuff So You Don't Have To: Who Am I?
Content manager? Social media consultant? Help me find this job title, so I can (most efficiently) learn more about this job. [more inside]
Let's touch base again offline about that next deliverable...
I'm a computer science and biochem major about to start a software development internship at a high-frequency trading firm. What are the classic mistakes you see inexperienced geeks make in a professional environment, especially a financial-sector/"business" place, and how can I avoid them? What can I do this summer to impress my supervisors and maybe get my foot in the door for a full-time job after graduation? [more inside]
Layover in Las Vegas
I've got a 6 hour layover in Las Vegas today. What can I do with my carry-on bag and how can I get to the strip and get a meal relatively cheaply? [more inside]
Lost bedtime story book from the 1980's
Calling all Librarians! I am in need of your superpowers. :-) I can not remember the title and author of my favorite childhood story book. I have a one-year-old son who absolutely loves reading. It would mean so much to me to share these with him. Please help! [more inside]
Mardi Gras Parti
I'm throwing a Mardi Gras party this weekend. What should I make? [more inside]
Dawn of man movie with no dialogue
Help me think of the name of a film I'm not clear about because I didn't see it: I think it came out in the 70s or 80s, and contained no dialogue because it was set around the dawn of humanity before speech developed.
I'll take half a dinner, please!
Putting together a menu for a dinner themed "half." [more inside]
Facebook: Taking choice away, bit by bit
OK, facebook started doing this thing where every time I click the Like button on any website, it generates a facebook post on my behalf, complete with wrongly selected thumbnail. Anybody know how to deactivate this?
February 27
Big group in the city
I have a bunch of friends coming to visit me at the bay area. I want to be the perfect host and I've done my research on what fun things to do to make sure they have a good time. I have two remaining doubts though: how to get all of us around in the city using public transportation, and the nightlife. [more inside]
Help me help my players.
I've played every version of D&D and am wondering, is there an RPG that doesn't take 3 hrs to make a character, where combat can be resolved in less than an hour and doesn't require a dozen books?
I'm flexible on the genre, but fantasy or scifi is what I'm most interested in, something that can be used over the longterm, not just for a few games (RISUS and it's pals appeal but doesn't seem durable enough), with enough flexibility for me to mash things together but without me having to design my own homebrew from 2 or 3 systems. I've done that.
Lots more inside... [more inside]
Soaked Mattress a Goner?
The roof leaked, thoroughly soaking my (conventional, not foam) mattress. It took quite a while to dry out, and, after a quick inspection, it doesn't look or smell bad. An experienced handyman friend said I should throw it out and buy another. Is that necessary?
I was in a motorcycle accident. What will I get?
I had a motorcycle accident (I hit a car). The other driver is at fault. My bike will most likely be totaled, I went to the hospital, and some of my other stuff is broken. What will happen, and what should I be doing to make sure I recoup my damages? [more inside]
How do I rent a sag-wagon?
I'd like to rent a sag-wagon, and a sag-wagoneer, for a bike trip inside a national forest. Where do I start? [more inside]
Screen Printing On Plastic- Nightmarish?
Is it possible to screen-print directly onto plastic, or am I bound for a world of trouble? [more inside]
How can I get my neighbours to stop putting non-recylable food rubbish in my yellow recycling bin?
How can I get my neighbours to stop putting non-recylable food rubbish in my yellow recycling bin? [more inside]
brb, getting my life together.
You've met someone who could, in many, many ways, be the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with. What do you do if the timing is off? [more inside]
Kansas City, here I come
What do I need to know about moving to Kansas City, MO? [more inside]
Installing countless fonts—each in its own folder—onto WinXP machine
Mass-installing fonts onto an XP machine when each font is enclosed in its own folder. [more inside]
First time home buyers without a clue as to how it all works.
We are thinking about buying a home but have no idea how one goes about that sort of thing. What kinds of things should we be considering as first time buyers? [more inside]
LandUseFilter
Are you a lawyer? A Michigander? A farmer? Or just someone who knows about zoning? Come in, come in! [more inside]
In need of some happy tails...
Dog Filter: If you have a really awesome dog that you adopted when they were around a year old- tell me about it. Specifically, the journey from crazy wily pup to well mannered dog whom you can take anywhere and not have to worry about a thing.
Please leave alone, you stone!
Another kidney stone question... from a female [more inside]
Show me people moved by music.
I want to see moments where people are moved by music. [more inside]
♫ The dream of the ’90s internet pricing is alive in Portland... ♪
What’s the cheapest internet package in Portland, Oregon?
(Can I go cheaper than Comcast's $47-a-month Xfinity?) [more inside]
is my husband an idiot or am I a worrywart?
Please talk to me about dealing with the symptoms of trapped wind (gas). My husband is really suffering and I'm bewildered. [more inside]
How do I bundle cardboard boxes most efficiently?
What's the trick to flattening cardboard boxes of varying sizes/thicknesses and bundling them together with twine? I handle the recycling for my building, and I can't figure out how to manage the boxes most efficiently. [more inside]
It's bikini butt season...
Butt Filter: Please share your best exercises for lifting and tightening of the female glutes. I am going to Mexico in 6 weeks and I look ok, but have always been cursed with a disproportionately flabby/droopy/flat ass. I am determined to do something about it finally.
I have been doing the "ultimate butt and thigh" workout on Your Shape: Fitness Evolved for the Kinect, but I really am hoping for some advice for my specific, er...problem. I do not have access to a gym, so I am looking for things to do at home.
I am mid 30s, 5'2, 125lbs, and yes I know you cannot spot train :)
Grad-school-Filter-Again:
I've been accepted to PhD programs in neuroscience at NYU, University of Chicago, and into an MSc program in medical biophysics (with a heavy neuroscience focus) at the University of Toronto (most people reclassify into PhDs).
The difficulty: 1) No one program is exactly perfect. 2) My partner-in-crime is a med student in Toronto, and she will be in Canada for minimum the next 6 years. So what's my best move, considering
1. I hope for a career in research (academia/industry) or science writing.
2. I could see myself spending my life with this girl (but that said, I am 25, for what it is worth)
3. I am concerned that staying in Toronto will limit my career opportunities [more inside]
How to get inappropriate fellow volunteer banned from our historical archives?
How to get inappropriate fellow volunteer banned from our historical archives? [more inside]
Cost to build a website
I am planning a website for a not for profit. We will be linking high school and college students from all over the US. At most we will have 10,000 connections on the site. How much will this cost to build and maintain?
How to network
I'm in the final months of my university degree, and several companies (finance related) who I'll be applying for work with are holding 'networking' events on campus. How exactly does one 'network'? [more inside]
Want a good air filter for home.
I am looking for a recommendation re: a great air filter for my home. I am really most interested in cutting down on dust. Any suggestions?
Method to get wedding photos from friends?
I am getting married soon, and for my reception I'd like to set up an easy system for my friends and family to send me all of the photos that they took during the day. My friends in the past used a shared flickr account, giving the password away so everyone could log into the account and upload the photos. I'm wondering if any mefites have a better solution out there. [more inside]
It's an Irish dilemma
So, we wrote a song that got a few million views on YouTube. [more inside]
Whistler Day Trip?
Ski-ing/ snow-shoeing Whistler as a day-trip from Vancouver - is this do-able or crazy? Is Cypress Mountain a reasonable alternative? [more inside]
Help me create a scatterplot that isn't ugly and bad
Better-looking scatterplot using data from an OpenOffice calc spreadsheet? [more inside]
Is an ice creme cone in the category of a pastry: that is, is it like a cookie or is it more like a cracker or is it neither?
Is an ice creme cone in the category of a pastry: that is, is it like a cookie or is it more like a cracker or is it neither?
It's NOT the mayari, cozumel, or tabora. What is it!?r
I've been searching for these Birkenstock sandals everywhere online beyond that QVC link bc I would prefer to buy them in non-dayglo colors. But I can't even figure out what they're called. HELP? [more inside]
Today is the first day of the rest...
What techniques do you use to affect positive change in your life? [more inside]
Automated Adding to iTunes
OSX automation. Broadly speaking: I have a folder where all my music torrents go. How can I get these automatically added to iTunes. [more inside]
Music for God to play before creating the universe
Everybody recognizes the THX deep note sound. Last night, at Nuit Blanche here in Montreal, and just before the fireworks, they were playing recorded instrumental music (with no percussion) featuring long drawn out notes that were as "rich" and exciting as the deep note sound. The music filled me with a thrilling anticipation of something powerful. What music could I have been hearing? What songs do I want to get?
Techniques to bar thoughts from your mind or fend them away?
"Shield your mind..." I don't expect to be mentally attacked, but are there actual techniques to bar thoughts from your mind or fend them away? [more inside]
Wordpressing Question
Looking for a method by which one could automatically add content to a wordpress sidebar, I dont even know what to search for. [more inside]
Quality of Trader Joe's versus Whole Foods
Quality of Trader Joe's versus Whole Foods [more inside]
ugh
What happened as your dog died of cancer? [more inside]
Keeping kosher and looking like you are
Judaism Filter: Is there a principle or law that Jewish people who keep kosher must also avoid appearing not to keep it? What is it called? [more inside]
If I purchase the negatives of photographs at a thrift store, do I own the rights to the photos?
If I purchase the negatives of photographs at a thrift store, do I own the rights to the photos? [more inside]
Need a home in Orlando!
Moving to Orlando for about 6 or 7 months for a short school program. I'm trying to figure out where and how to live during that time! [more inside]
Help me add to my booklist.
I want to challenge my preconceived notions. [more inside]
Mr. Status Quo Need Not Reply
What are some boutique dating websites, other than OKCupid? Also, do men really like it when women contact them on dating sites? [more inside]
"She won't go away and she doesn't even speak English!"
What lanuage is the annoying Number 58 speaking in Free For All?
How can I ask my uncle to hurry up dividing up inheritance?
My maternal grandmother passed away 5 months ago and my uncle has taken charge of handling her inheritance with her lawyer. He hasn't given any updates or information on how the process is going since his initial email 5 months ago, in which he told me that my grandmother had passed and that I would receive inheritance. How can I ask him to hurry up? [more inside]
Should I lie on a visa application?
Should I lie on a visa application? [more inside]
How do I get feel good about going to sleep?
Whenever I finally turn out the lights and get in bed, I immediately get a bit upset and sad over the things I could be doing. Perhaps not quite sad, but this feeling of emptiness. What do you do at night before bed to feel good about going to sleep when you could be doing so many other productive things? [more inside]
I got a halo 'round me...
Can I do anything except submit to my skin's yeast intolerance?
I am on a self imposed yeast free diet after I realised it really triggers the seborrheic dermatitis-like condition that I have on parts of my face. Am I going to have to eat like this forever? [more inside]
Too much choice!
How can I figure out which characteristics of a person are deal breakers vs. things that I can learn to live with? [more inside]
What to do with my (US) off-contract iPhone 3GS?
I switched/upgraded to a Verizon iPhone 4 and now enjoy reception even in obscure places, like my apartment. What should I do with the (slightly cracked screen but still completely usable) iPhone 3gs? Fix/don't fix the screen? Sell it? Unlock it and sell it? Unlock it and keep it for traveling/guests? (I'm in the States). [more inside]
Food and Hiking in Coastal DE and NC in March.
Traveling during March to North Carolina, Crystal Coast/Southern Outer Banks region, from NYC metro area. Instead of inland, though, we're taking the coastal route (Rts 13/17 south of Philly) with an overnight stay in Delaware. Looking for non-chain restaurants, hiking, history/science, and the cheaper end of antiquing. [more inside]
my eyes hurt now...
Looking for a video of David Cameron's (UK PM) recent announcement that private companies would be helping to reform the NHS/public sector. [more inside]
Yes you are awesome but how did you get there?
Type A Filter: For those of you who have big ambitions and plans for your life, how did you arrive at them? How did you go about creating a vision for yourself? [more inside]
Stupid standby timer being all standby-y
I'm trying to interrupt a standby timer on a DVD player for a homebrew projector dowser project and I need some help with capacitors and resistors. I've wired a momentary switch across the eject switch terminals to pop the cd tray from a distance. [more inside]
I have (camera) baggage
Please help me find the perfect camera bag for my Nikon D40. The ideal solution would be something with enough room for both photo and personal stuff, so I don't have to carry my purse. Or, are "camera bags" a dumb idea if I already have a somewhat-padded messenger bag? [more inside]
CAN COMPUTERS READ POETRY PROPERLY?
If there are "poetry generator" engines available on the Web, is there anything that comes close to reading input of (English) poetry which then computer-generates the scansion pattern that might result from somebody reading it? [more inside]
How do I keep from messing up my neck & shoulders in my sleep?
How do I keep from messing up my neck & shoulders in my sleep? [more inside]
Mystery dreamy music
Where can I stream the Academy Awards tonight?
Where can I stream the Academy Awards tonight? [more inside]
bookmarklet for a random link in a new tab
In Firefox, how can I get my bookmarklet to open a link in a new tab? [more inside]
How to overcome feeling lost, aimless, confused, and alone?
How to overcome feeling lost, aimless, confused, and alone? Thirty years into my life, I feel like I haven't accomplished anything, and I'm not sure how to go about achieving the things I want from where I am (physically, mentally, and emotionally) right now. [more inside]
Can someone recommend me some science philosophy please..
Can someone recommend me some science philosophy please.. [more inside]
my cat's breath smells like Drakkar Noir
Our extremely friendly outdoor cat came inside reeking of cologne. This was two days ago, and it's still across-the-room strong. How do I clean this off? [more inside]
amtrak long distance routes
Amtrak long-distance routes: optimal combination? [more inside]
Meyer's Dark Rum--how to drink it?
I received a gift: a bottle of Meyer's Dark Rum. How do I drink it? [more inside]
Can you explain what it means exactly to be "fully funded" in a Ph.D. program?
Can you explain what it means exactly to be "fully funded" in a Ph.D. program? [more inside]
February 26
Which animal would win a race between a cheetah or a utahraptor?
Which animal would win a race between a cheetah or a utahraptor? Please help my six-year-old son learn even more about dinosaurs. [more inside]
closet hoarder.
what do you do with your old clothes? [more inside]
Sorry, but I'm not giving anybody any money until there's campaign finance reform. Also, I'm saving up money for a new humidifier.
Do you throw $3 at the Presidential Campaign Fund when prompted by your tax filer? [more inside]
Understanding Ohio's SB 5 legislation
Help me edumacate myself on Ohio SB 5! As a former resident of WI, I could find news easily enough because the internet already existed when I lived there and I was familiar with online sources. In my attempts to read more about Ohio, I just don't know where to turn. Obviously national media is out as it's been crap at covering recent events in the midwest. Is there an Isthmus equivalent? A few possibly wonky blogs that are right on? [more inside]
best snorkel bang for buck within 7 hour radius of California?
Help me plan my next multigeneration family trip for a bunch of enthusiastic snorkelers, toddlers, and demophobes! [more inside]
iPhone Contacts Sync : my way or the highway
Looking for recommendations for a *private* "sync-your-iPhone-contacts/PIMdata-to-the-cloud" solution. [more inside]
How do I end up in a decent group of people for group assignments?
Group work at University: How do I maximise my chances of ending up in a group with people who possess at least medium-to-high intelligence / conscientiousness? When who you sit next to determines what group you end up in, what "cues" can I look for when deciding who to sit next to? [more inside]
Help me save my iPhone!
Help! I broke my iPhone 4 screen, and it's locked! The phone turns on, but the screen is completely destroyed, so I can't enter my password to use iTunes to back it up. Any chance of getting at my pictures before my new screen comes in? [more inside]
Help me find the Latin phrase describing my position on a religion/government issue...
Government/History/Religion question: is there a Latin phrase for a doctrine of belief in secular government (vs. theocracy or other religious governments) amongst a plurality of beliefs? [more inside]
Help me help my neighbors dog!
Is there anything I can do to help this dog? [more inside]
Time to kick my foundation up a notch?
Seeking a makeup refresh and can't decide what to get with a budget of $100. [more inside]
Lack of oxygen when still breathing
Can a heart arrhythmia cause brain damage even if you're still breathing? [more inside]
Is it really necessary to get teeth cleanings and dental checkups?
Is it really necessary to get teeth cleanings and dental checkups? [more inside]
What are the best RPG engines?
I want to write a text-heavy story-based RPG. I'm familiar with scripting languages like python and ruby, but I have no art talent whatsoever, so i'd prefer that whatever I use have art assets available, and I don't want to write an engine from scratch so I'd like to build off of an existing framework. What are my options? Free or paid, doesn't matter. It might be an RPG engine or an adventure game engine, or even a 3d engine, but whatever I use, I'd want something that would let me focus on writing and designing and less on programming the framework.
I don't want to write back on an empty soda bottle
How should I set things right with my neighbor when their communications to me have been slightly crazy? [more inside]
Looking for a vacation rental research recommendations. Florida, mostly.
Recommendations for a Florida vacation home/condo/etc search.
What resources do people use? I know about HomeAway, VRBO, Flipkey, and, ahem, craigslist.
I have never booked anything but hotels before, so am a little worried about just going the craigslist route. The other 3 sites look legit, but maybe there are other, hidden, gems :)
thanks in advance
Should I pay off all of my loans before I try to buy a house?
I need some house buying help, and advice about whether to pay off my loans now or save more for the down payment. [more inside]
Preventing social anxiety
I want to stop using alcohol to mediate situational social anxiety. [more inside]
How to help a hoarder and his wife in Henderson, NV?
How can I help my female relative who lives far away from me (NV) and is married to someone who is becoming a hoarder? [more inside]
How long is a Maltese dog pregnant?
How long is a Maltese dog pregnant? [more inside]
portland psych
any recommendations for a psychiatrist in Portland? [more inside]
Why does my ipad say it's not charging?
Why does my iPad say it's not charging when it is, in fact, charging? [more inside]
song ID help
[song ID help] partial lyrics: "we can name our kids after my favourite hockey players... if you'll let me..." [more inside]
What's the best way to proceed with the interview process when I like the company but I'm increasingly unsure that I want a job right now at all?
What's the best way to proceed with the interview process when I like the company but I'm increasingly unsure that I want a job right now at all? [more inside]
wearable waterproof materials
I always wear/use leather in rain but they always tell me it's wrong for the material. This is a bit naive but I'm wondering what high quality good looking materials work for coats and bags in rain? I don't mean plastic or nylon looking stuff (although if they're technically the best I'd like to know) but more stylish.. let's say upto $1k/coat
Book Club for Life
I'm 30. Each year until I'm 60 I want to read a masterpiece by an author the same age as I am when s/he wrote it. Help compile my list. [more inside]
Hush don't cry
How do I stop crying at work-related criticism? [more inside]
am i supposed to wear black for a year?
How soon is too soon to adopt another kitty after the death of the first one? [more inside]
Am I selfish for asking for more input in our financial decisions?
Help me understand financial partnership in marriage. Snow flurries within. [more inside]
keep hands & arms in the vehicle at all times
Have you ever jumped out of a moving car? What's it like? [more inside]
What should I display on a dedicated dashboard screen at my desk?
I have an extra display at my desk connected to a Mac Mini which I use to watch Netflix/Hulu. I'd like to use it for more useful purposes, as some sort of informative display that will be up as I work. I need some help figuring out some applications that could show handy information, as well as your ideas as to things to display if I were to build something myself. [more inside]
North of 49 Party Rockers, please
CANADIAN CONTENT FILTER: What are some recent (released in the last six months) cool kickass CANADIAN party rockers? (Music, that is) [more inside]
Fire in the Fireplace
Please help my S.O. and I settle a debate about the fireplace. [more inside]
We don't have cameras.
Please help me choose a digital camera that does what I can't make my itty-bitty Canon ELPH do but is still reasonably portable. [more inside]
Help me feed my tiny dog
What should I feed my 3 month old toy poodle? [more inside]
Famous songs, performed by jazz or classical musicians
Looking for jazz and classical covers of popular/famous songs. [more inside]
Micro-distilled goodness in PA?
What great small batch, artisinal liqours are available in Pennsylvania? [more inside]
How do I disassemble a Samsung HD501LJ hard drive?
I am trying to disassemble a Samsung HD501LJ hard drive to destroy the platter, but the top cover will not remove from the casing. Help? [more inside]
43% body fat. What the hell?
43% body fat. Am I about to drop dead, or is my scale wrong? [more inside]
How to fix corrupt fonts?
Windows 7 sfc (System File Check) cannot repair certain files. What are my options (short of re-installing Windows)? [more inside]
You Asshole!...Um, I'm sorry I called you an asshole.
Help me stop apologizing for my own assertiveness. [more inside]
Recommend something for me to read, please?
Book recs? I love stories about f'ed up families in the south (ala pat conroy). Darker and more screwed up the better. [more inside]
What should I eat?
I'm 22, male, 184 centimeters (~6ft), 70kg (161 pounds), 11% body fat (as judged by one of those imprecise electrical gadgets), and, until recently, fairly sedentary. I'm now running three times a week and plan to start lifting weights another three days a week. For the past two weeks I've been assiduously tracking everything I eat with this software (note: I'm not at all interested in "caloric restriction") and a gram-precise food scale. I'm trying to become generally fit - increase cardiovascular endurance, gain muscle, start fencing again. With all that in mind, how do I decide on nutritional targets? [more inside]
Detailed historical account of a Chinese tea ceremony please
What is the historical origin and cultural significance of the Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony? [more inside]
Why doesn't imgur work for me?
Images hosted by imgur won't load for me. [more inside]
It's not a zero-sum game, guys.
My partner is very liberal and effusive with compliments. I am generally much more reticent. When I realize that he has said the same things to others that he has to me, I can't help but feel like those compliments are now devalued, and that his esteem of me can't possibly be as high as he says it is. [more inside]
My bag smells terrible.
I managed to spill clam chowder in my beautiful new purse. It smells awful. How do I fix it? [more inside]
Where are all these flight deals?
People always tell me they found cheap flights by not buying direct from the airlines... however, when I search all the sites they recommend and the ones I find via google, they're always about the same price as buying direct from Air Canada. Sometimes AC is cheaper! The same thing happened last year. What am I not understanding here? [more inside]
How can I stop my 7 yo daughter from picking her scabs?
How can I stop my 7 yo daughter from picking her scabs? [more inside]
You are likely to be eaten by a grue
What kind of therapy or self-help can I do to stop picturing all sex taking place in a room where I was abused? [more inside]
What documentaries for a 2-year-old, like Babies?
Multiple Therapists: Okay or Outlandish?
I recently asked a relationship question, and came to realize that the main problem was actually my debilitating anxiety and the fact that I need to sort that out before being able to seriously wrestle with my relationship. In one week, I met with 2 different therapists who are very different in their styles, and I have an appointment set up with a psychiatrist for next week (my primary care doctor recommended I see an actual psychopharmacologist.) I am very serious about getting help now that I realize I have been wasting so much time denying the severity of my problems and the genuine abuse I grew up with. My question is, can I see two or even three doctors about these issues? My main fear is getting only one or two perspectives on my problems, and I think I can trust the process more if I feel like I have a diverse set of views, perspectives, and mental frames. Is that outlandish or within the realm of normal behavior? [more inside]
Did my masturbation style overwork my vaginal muscles?
I am female. Someone whom I slept with complained that it was difficult to do the missionary position with me. Did my masturbation technique cause this? [more inside]
What's next?
So, what's next? How have you made significant career changes after investing in specialized skills and knowledge? [more inside]
The Poison is Fictional, but My Brain Needs an Antidote.
I'm under the impression that I have some sort of clinical, WAY beyond rational fear of being poisoned. My food, my drinks- even the air itself seems to be conspiring to kill me day in and day out. It's begun to interfere with my normal daily life. Is there anything I can do to overcome this? Anything to keep me from staying up half the night on account of panic attacks? [more inside]
marriage separation
Differences with wife. [more inside]
How can I find a vacation rental for people who are under 25?
How can I find a vacation rental for people who are under 25? [more inside]
(Homework filter) Snappy genetics poster title needed
My poster group needs a short, snappy title (preferably with a terrible newspaper style pun). And we've got nothing. [more inside]
Sales tax collecting?
In business - Is it true that if you pay sales tax on your materials you do not have to charge to your customers? [more inside]
Where too after Rome in March for beach holiday
I am going to Rome for a weekend mid-march. After that I want to go for a week's holiday somewhere warm and with things to do (history, shops, etc). [more inside]
The lazy man's approach to water kefir
I acquired some water kefir grains and I am maybe taking a lazy approach to caring for them, is it safe? And if not what should I be doing? [more inside]
Can I compete with his ex girlfriend?
Can I compete with the ex? [more inside]
Help us choose a dog breed!
My girlfriend and I are interested in getting a dog. We've talked about getting a Golden Retriever, which is the breed of dog I grew up with. We're interested in recommendations for breeds we may not have considered. [more inside]
Pen Party! Obsess with me and recommend writing & drawing implements..
I am always and forever on the quest for better pens for writing and drawing. I'll tell y'all what I like to use now, what I've tried and kinda liked, and what I'm just not into. Then you will unleash your inky obsessions upon me, and I will have great new pens to try. [more inside]
February 25
Purchasing strategy for New MacBookPro (with bonus iPhone problem)
The new MacBookPros just came out, and just in time, as I have encountered an issue with my iPhone 3GS (constantly disconnects from the 3G network) that, obnoxiously, seems to require me to upgrade my computer (a June '04 12" Powerbook G4 1.33ghz, OS 10.4.11).* My question is whether, as a long-term investment, it makes more sense to buy the 2.7ghz 13" MBP vs. the $300 cheaper 2.3ghz. [more inside]
help me track down this glow in the dark shirt
last-minute-birthday-present-filter:help me find this glow-in-the-dark shirt! [more inside]
the right computer-based DAW
Help me choose the right computer-based digital audio workstation. [more inside]
Where to find English-speaking jobs in Berlin?
Help! Where should I look for work as an English-speaker in Berlin? [more inside]
How to search Hule and Netflix at the same time?
Is there a site that searches all the flat-rate streaming sites (Netflix, Hulu, and now Amazon prime) for a particular movie/tv show? Or, better, that's like Instant Watcher for more than Netflix? I realize I can search all the sites separately.
Is it normal to get this freaked out?
In situations where I am stressed, both minorly and majorly, I sometimes get totally overwhelmed by the things I hear and see. It makes my heart race and I become unable to speak or think. Is this normal, or could it be indicative of a psychiatric disorder?
I know, you are not my doctor. And I plan to see a therapist once I can afford one, but that won't be for a few months.
What can I do with an unecpected, 4 lb. bag of Sesame Seeds?
Through a bizarre set of circumstances, I have come into possession of an extremely large bag of sesame seeds. What interesting or appetizing things can I do with these seeds? [more inside]
Mental Illness and becoming a USCG Licensed Mariner?
How is diagnosed but treated Bipolar I viewed by the US Coast Guard and Dept of Homeland Security when seeking MMC and TWIC? How about maritime employers? [more inside]
Kingdom of Plaice?
Lawrence Durrell's "Kingdom of Plaice" - does this novel about the independent nation of Redonda exist (perhaps under another name)? [more inside]
If the answer is rsync, then I need to be told what the question is.
Help me choose a file synchronization solution to keep a set of RTFs up to date between two computers, must be able to operate both over wifi and via a usb thumbdrive. Must also be free and work on all of Win XP, Win 7 and Linux. [more inside]
Animal actors for fair pay
I have a trained animal about to appear in national commercial. What should I be looking for in my contract? Residuals /one off / both? [more inside]
Need specific inspiration images for shabby chic bathroom.
I need inspiration for an impending South Florida master bathroom remodel. I like a shabby chic style, and I understand the principles, but desperately need specific images for a bathroom that totals 45 sq feet outside of the shower stall, and probably more like 30-35 sq feet once you subtract the water closet. [more inside]
What I'm looking for is the Mario Andretti of everything.
How would I track down someone who holds the most or at least multiple licenses for driving? Ideally someone who's legally cleared to drive anything from a motorcycle to a locomotive. [more inside]
How to fix my inappropriate semi-infatuation with a historical figure?
How to fix my inappropriate semi-infatuation with a historical figure? [more inside]
home science filter: Why is my water is singing!
I just microwaved a mug of water. And after about a minute it started making a loud humming noise, like what happens when you run a wet finger around a champagne glass. It sounded like there were aliens landing in my microwave. What happened? [more inside]
Stuck in Cincinatti
I'm stuck in Cincinatti for the weekend. Help me stay sane and find something metafilter-worthy to do? Sights, food, bars. I know little to nothing about the place. Thanks! [more inside]
How to control all data being sent/received from Win 7
How do I control all data that my computer is sending/receiving? [more inside]
Music suggestions for a 12 yo girl
Music suggestions for a 12 yo girl's birthday party? [more inside]
How much pain after cornea surgery?
I am scheduled for a superficial keratectomy mid-March. What can I expect as far as pain after the procedure as well any insight anyone can give me regarding going through the actual procedure. [more inside]
Hair on my chinny chin chin, but my head, not so much.
Why is my hair falling out? I stopped breastfeeding my 2 year old almost 6 months ago. Can it be related to that? I've noticed the hair loss for the past month or two. (I think it's all growing back as chin hair. Sigh.) Sorry, long details to come. [more inside]
How do I make sure that I will have a job to come back to after checking into a psychiatric hospital?
How do I make sure that I will have a job to come back to after checking into a psychiatric hospital? [more inside]
Sticking it to Big Tickettaker
I can't make a concert, and I'd like to sell or even give away the tickets. Here's the problem: the venue claims that tickets must be picked up night of, that they can't be transferred, and that one must present ID and the credit card used to buy the tickets when picking them up. The tickets aren't Ticketmaster or a similar service. Am I screwed? [more inside]
Help satisfy my curiosity about how e-mail announcement lists work!
Why do e-mails sent to a mailing list look like they're sent to me and CCed to the mailing list? [more inside]
Surely there is hope?
Has anyone here ever suffered from chronic migraine, and ended up overcoming it? [more inside]
Differing values for LFO depth for Peak and Trough?
Is there a way to change LFO depth so that it isn't one number that applies to both peak and trough, but that you can have the peak be one value and the trough at another? [more inside]
Do my dancing feet need a pedicure?
I have just started dancing again after a long break, in a style that's very hard on the feet. Is it better to remove hard skin or leave it? [more inside]
messiah studio 5 on a tibook?
Is there any way to get Messiah studio 5 to run on an oldish ppc mac powerbook? [more inside]
Car Bye Bye
Which-car-to-get-rid-of-Filter: Car A) Ford truck, 97K or Car B) Soobie Legacy formerly 4WD, 140K. Complicating details follow..... [more inside]
Help me find a shirt
How could I find some exact duplicates of a Faconnable shirt that my wife and I like a lot? Would you get alerts on ebay? Are there vintage clothes sites that you would recommend. Is there a website at which I could post its picture? In general, if you know exactly what you want in the way of clothing that is a couple of years old, how do you find it?
How Private is the Download Option?
Does downloading a photo on Facebook leave any indication that you have done so? [more inside]
how to make sushi with long grain rice work out as well as possible?
I know it's a sin, but I have to use long grain rice to make sushi. No short grain of any kind in my area, I promise. So, any cooking tips for how to make it turn out as good as possible? Should I skip washing it so it is stickier? Should I tweak the cooking time? etc.
Do I need a driver's license to re-enter the US from a visit to the UK
Do I need a driver's license to re-enter the US from a visit to the UK? [more inside]
Hi guys I'm in Hungary and I just got married. Ttyl.
Help me figure out what I need to prepare for my trip around the world. [more inside]
What makes lemon bars tart?
What makes lemon bars tart? [more inside]
An App to Keep Track
app filter -- I am finally getting on the smartphone wagon, and it will be a droid (probably a used G1 if that matters). Lots and lots of my job involves talking on the phone. I want an app that will automatically time my outgoing and incoming phone calls by contact and/or by info that I type in. I want to transfer that information on a monthly basis to my computer, to sync that information with my billing program. [more inside]
We Need a New All-in-one Printer!!
It's time to (massively) upgrade our home printing capabilities. We are looking for a color laser all in-one-device. Wireless printing capability would be nice, too... Recommendations?
What are some good seeds to give as gifts?
This is for all of the green thumb mefites out there. I am looking for unique seeds to give as a gift to a friend who lives in southeastern Alabama. She is an advanced gardener with a degree in horticulture, so it should be something rewarding, but with a bit of a challenge I think. She
enjoys interesting flowers as well as food goods. Any good suggestions?
Festivals / must sees within an evenings train ride from Amsterdam?
Festivals / must sees within an evenings train ride from Amsterdam? [more inside]
How high the temperature?
I can't believe I'm asking this, but I couldn't find an answer anywhere: what do the daily high and low temperatures provided with weather forecasts mean? I always thought they put a boundary on the range within which the temperature is predicted to fluctuate, with no particular assumption that those temperatures would be reached; however, I've recently had a few friends tell me that those numbers represent the predicted maximum and minimum temperatures that will actually be reached in the course of the day. Which is it?
You have dancing shoes with nimble soles.
I've gotten super into Zumba, but wearing my clunky running shoes to class isn't working too well for me. What's a good shoe alternative? [more inside]
Help my career as a stripper (of PDF background images)
How to strip background images from a PDF? [more inside]
Inception inspired dessert ideas - go deeper
This weekend we're hosting an Oscar party where everyone is invited to bring a dish inspired by one of the Best Picture nominees. I've decided to base a dessert (it's kind of like a parfait I guess) on the movie Inception and I'd like some suggestions for the 7 separate layers. Especially for the final "kick" layer. [more inside]
What's a good/cheap external microphone for my Kodak Zi8 camera?
What's a good/cheap external microphone for my Kodak Zi8 camera? [more inside]
Finding a job civic
I am graduating university next semester. I would like to get involved in civic engagement at some capacity. Can I get recommendation of companies / foundations to apply to for jobs and internships. i.e. See Click Fix, Code for America. I have no programming experience (as of yet) but I am extremely sociable, have been selling all my life so I do have something to offer. I am intrigued by the idea of individual initiative to solve problems in the community
What are some movies with strong messages?
Movies with strong messages? [more inside]
My glass is weeping?
Is "my glass is weeping" a real Italian expression? What does it mean? [more inside]
Does my termination violate the notification clause of my contract?
I am currently working in the NY area for an employer that hired me a few months ago as an independent contractor. This employer just notified me that my position has been terminated (without cause) due to budgetary reasons, with termination effective in one week. According to my contract, either party is supposed to give 30 days notice prior to termination or resignation. There is no indication within the contract regarding payment in lieu of notice. Do I have any recourse or reasonable expectation of some form of compensation considering that I have been given only one week's notice? [more inside]
Can I get files from the IRC via my android phone?
IRC N00b. Can I get files from the IRC via my android phone? [more inside]
email marketing and getting responses
How to deal with rejection when marketing myself via email in the entertainment industry? And how can I have more success? [more inside]
Why 'Mark Antony' and not 'Marcus Antonius?'
Why do we say 'Mark Antony' and not 'Marcus Antonius?' His name seems unique among Romans in the way we name them now - is it?
How do I "Let Go" and let life go at its own pace?
How do you "Let Go and Let God"? Or how do you just "Let Go" without believing in God? I'm struggling with sitting back and patiently letting life and relationships take their natural course. I always feel like I need to be "doing something" to control the situation and it's driving me insane. I know I want to stop this behavior, I just can't seem to figure out how. [more inside]
I want to out on dates, not sit at home and write emails
Online dating question for the women of Metafilter : if a guy asks you out in the first email, do you automatically assume that he's a player, a creep, or otherwise undesirable? What if you email him first, and he asks you out in his first reply? [more inside]
I want to learn, not get a degree
How can I get a comp sci education without all the BS that goes along with getting a BS? [more inside]
2011 Cost of Living Increase for NYC
I am meeting with my boss for my annual review. I have not have a raise almost since I started four years ago. Is there an easy way to determine the NYC cost of living increase for 2011?
I've tried to use teh google but no luck. Thanks.
Very simple affiliate tracking for Mom and Pop online store
Is there a dead simple way to track affiliate links for dead simple online stores (literally a list of Paypal links on a page)? [more inside]
Unexplained sore throat that won't go away
Extremely sore throat for last four days. Not strep. No other cold/flu symptoms. What is going on? [more inside]
Where to buy lots of loose leaf or easy to peel Clairefontaine?
Paper Nerds - Where to buy lots of half sheet sized, loose leaf (or easy to peel) Clairefontaine? [more inside]
Car Crash = Insurance screwing me over
My beautiful car was destroyed in a crash, someone turned in front of me and it's totally their fault. But their insurance made me an offer for about half of my car's replacement value. And I'm injured too. Now they want to cut off my loaner rental car, to pressure me to settle. How can I get justice? [more inside]
Help identify this murder method from a short story
What is this short story (maybe by Asimov?) ... [spoilers] [more inside]
Skincare 101
It's time to come clean... literally. I'm 26 years old, and I don't really know how to take care of my skin properly to keep it clean, breakout free, and hydrated. Please teach me Skin Care 101, so I can have a daily routine to make this happen. [more inside]
Pinto Toe
Without a podiatrist, how do I fix my big toe? I do not think it is a hangnail, and it looks normal to the eye. But I could bump it on a down pillow and it will be so painful I want to chop it off. And it's a delayed pain. [more inside]
Jewelry (earring) repair in Austin
I need to have a post earring repaired. The setting (with the stone intact) has broken from the post. I'm looking for a local Austin jeweler to repair it. I prefer an independent shop, and locationwise, south Austin is more convenient. Thanks!
Don't touch the plumbing?
Why do vacant homes that are for sale often have tape over the plumbing fixtures? I assume it's to prevent use when the water is turned off? [more inside]
If you wouldn't mind, suck my peepee, woman of ill-repute.
How do I act more controlling in bed? [more inside]
Communication Hacks: I know I need to communicate more. It's the remembering to do so that I have a problem with.
I persistently forget to keep my colleagues informed on my work progress. Please help me with your actionable, communication hacks! [more inside]
Instant energy boost, please!
I need an instant boost of energy to get through this work day.(Female, low energy related to iron-deficiency). Please help. [more inside]
I barley know her!
Give me your best barley recipes! [more inside]
The opposite of zombies minds without bodies
Can you recommend stories of disembodied minds? [more inside]
How do I bulk my shoulders when I have a rotator cuff injury?
Thanks to a previous post I've been able to get back to the gym and get a great workout going. Now I have a snag. I hurt my rotator cuff years ago (due to a poor benchpress technique or lack thereof). I do the advised exercises for it but regardless, I am unable to lift above my head without injury (and the doc advised against it). Eventually surgery may help. Shoulder presses prior to injury would really bulk up my shoulders but because of this injury I cannot do them anymore. I do dumbbell front and side raises which help but is there any other exercises that might bulk/round the shoulder? I am not going for extremely heavy weights. Just enough to continue to challenge the muscle. Any thoughts?
I need more than just banging on pots!
Ever been to a chivaree? Need help planning a music-based post wedding party. [more inside]
How long, o lord?
Going gluten free: how long to really tell a difference, if gluten intolerance is really a problem? [more inside]
13yr old does small town Conneticut
13yr old boy going to live with US host family: advice needed [more inside]
Looking for recommendations for leather shoes in London, UK.
UK Filter: I want to buy a nice pair of leather shoes, budget about £250 - recommendations? [more inside]
How to keep the daily grind from grinding you down?
As a creative person working a day job completely unrelated to your chosen form of expression, how do you cope when the urge to create comes up while at work? [more inside]
A (safe) additive to whiskey
Little rock-like addition to whiskey - what was it? [more inside]
Moving on up (off the floor)
How can I elevate a tri-fold futon frame, currently resting directly on the floor, to the height of an actual bed (and have it still be stable)? [more inside]
From the "duh" files
I'm looking for a certain study online, or just an abstract. Scientists at a British (?) university apparently did a study years ago that revealed -- news flash! -- that cookies and milk are a good combination. [more inside]
Too terrified of needles
Blood test failed due to needle phobia - what to do now? [more inside]
Adventure/speculative fiction writers who have Lived.
I would like to read speculative and adventure fiction by authors with lots of life experience related to the stories they tell. Oh, they also have to write well. For bonus points: the experience shouldn't be in technology or military. [more inside]
Do contractor light bulbs last longer?
Why do the light bulbs my builder installed last so much longer than the ones I replace them with? [more inside]
Pumped up.
Two months ago, I replaced my well pump, but my domestic water still shows light traces of brown. Will this diminish over time? [more inside]
Professional offroad driving for power-chair user in UK?
I'm looking for a professional offroad driving facility in the UK that caters - well and without fuss - for disabled people and particularly for power-chair users. [more inside]
Windows just doesn't like tunnels
What's the easiest way to implement a Windows SMB redirector? [more inside]
In desperate need of dastardly deeds.
Please me think of villainous crimes that villainous villains might do! [more inside]
Is a ticket home required?
I'm leaving for Australia next week from Thailand, I have my tourist visa & will be staying with friends. What I don't have yet is my return ticket home to the US. Am I going to have any problems (with the airlines or AU immigration, or - ?) because I'm not yet ticketed?
Poorly misinformed character
Name book and character, where character associates being ill with being interesting. [more inside]
all of the sinning with none of the guilt!
i need some help with some convention swag that relates to the seven deadly sins. [more inside]
February 24
Help me listen to the radio on my computer!
How do I get my computer to live-stream radio stations without giving me a big black screen with the message 'waiting for video'? This happens whether I click on 'High Quality Live Audio Stream', 'Unmetered Content' or 'Low Bit Rate Live Audio Stream' It also happens when I try to listen to audio files from my university webpage. I have a PC with Windows 7.
What companies/businesses do you know about that are reliable that will provide emergency replacement passports reliably?
Passport emergency - My sister's passport seems to have gotten lost in the mail, and she needs to get a new one immediately - like, within the next day, or on Saturday. What companies/businesses do you know about that are reliable that will do this service for her? [more inside]
Infant seat in front seat? How bad?
Apparently apnea monitors aren't reliable in moving vehicles, and I may have to put my 11-day-old in the front seat to be able to see that she's still breathing. Anybody have experience or expertise? [more inside]
What's Romania's Amazon.com?
In the US, I like to use Amazon to send gifts directly to the recipient. What similar service could I use to send gifts to people elsewhere in the world? [more inside]
Is it worth paying to have my iPod Touch fixed?
2nd generation iPod Touch isn't syncing properly. Is it worth fixing or should I just look into buying a refurbished one? [more inside]
What was that song?
Trying to find a song from the 90s. [more inside]
I need an easy campaign for total D&D n00bs.
I'm being asked to DM a D&D game for a bunch of completely new players. These are people who aren't even really into gaming. This could be fun! But we have 2 roadblocks: One, I haven't DMed in like 10 years. Two, I need a pretty set campaign to run.
Is there a resource somewhere for easy to run, complete scenarious/campaigns for total n00bs?
Un-distorting a "jewish" sound clip.
I need help un-disorted a sound clip. There is a sound in Civilization 4 that plays whenever you discover Judaism. I could not place it--and I know my Jewish prayers--so I dug in the install folder and found the full file. It is heavily distorted in a way I cannot quite figure out. Could someone help me see if this was ever a prayer to begin with, or was just random vocalizations approved as being "Jewish enough" in order to avoid offending people with actual prayers? [more inside]
Unstick my seatbelt.
I have a dog seatbelt harness stuck in a seatbelt buckle. Help me get it unstuck. [more inside]
Please help our poor, sad dog.
Any idea what is causing my dog to chew her back feet, all of a sudden? [more inside]
space shuttles
I cannot find out where the space shuttles were physically built; gave up on WIKI. They were built by Rockwell International (?), but plants are located all over the US.
Make us feel better about the bar exam
My husband just finished taking the Tennessee bar exam and just found out that they changed the way they grade it - and it's in opposition to his test taking strategy. Help us down off the ledge! [more inside]
Best Wiccan blogs?
What are the most interesting, influential Wiccan sites and blogs? [more inside]
Is it ok to ask for time to consider a job offer?
Is it ok to ask for time to consider a job offer? [more inside]
How to indulge my inner snoop?
I love doing research to uncover things that are hard to figure out--or, better, that I'm not supposed to know about. The sort of thing that investigative reporters and detectives do. How can I find an outlet for this interest? [more inside]
No more unencrypted emails! EVER!
Looking for an open source, self-contained and webpage-based file lockbox program where my clients can upload sensitive files I don't want them emailing to me. Suggestions? [more inside]
How to sow seeds properly?
I am planting a container garden for the first time. I am planting herbs and vegetables that require 36" of space when mature, but I'm wondering if I need to give them that much space when I am sowing them and growing seedlings? [more inside]
Rory only recently realized how cheap yarn is when you buy in bulk
I want to cover a room with yarn, including ceiling and floor. How can I best estimate how much yarn this will take? And are there methods of attaching vast amounts of yarn to walls that will make it easy to remove when I eventually have to?
say yes to the dress!
Where can I find a unique, non-fussy, non-traditional wedding dress in Los Angeles? [more inside]
Video to dvd..How to
I have several Hi8 video tapes from years ago. My camera is broken so how do I watch them? I want to watch them to decide which ones to transfer to dvd. [more inside]
Everyday hacks for a colostomy wearer.
What things should I know as someone who has just received a colostomy? [more inside]
Was it really Secret?
Herod The Great had a “secret police force” or network of spies. What would he have called them? [more inside]
Vegas - Senior Style
I'm taking my 65 year old Grandma to Vegas. She's never been. How can I make this the best trip ever? [more inside]
I rock in the affirmative! I rock in the negative!
Please help me find the most life-affirming "Yeah!" and devastating "No!" in all of rock n' roll history. [more inside]
How do I keep my flatware from turning brown?
How do I prevent brown spots on my new flatware? [more inside]
Connect Four? No, just one.
Please -- please! -- help me troubleshoot a vexing wireless connectivity problem. Just to put this front and center: I am not knowledgeable about computers. [more inside]
creepy eye
My boyfriend burst a blood vessel in his eye while doing an inverted weightlifting exercise today. Is this something to worry about? [more inside]
Is there such a thing as whole grain paella?
Can I make paella with whole grains? I've found a paella recipe that I love, but I generally try not to eat white rice. So I'm wondering if I can make it with spelt or farro instead. I would just experiment with the recipe, but the ingredients are kind of expensive, and I don't want to end up throwing the whole thing out because the grains didn't cook up right. Anyone cooked this sort of thing or had it in a restaurant?
Looking for user and designer friendly ecommerce software
I'm looking for recommendations for ecommerce software that is easily customizable for a fairly code savvy designer which provides a very user friendly interface for my clients to add new items to the store. [more inside]
I want to buy some German insect power!
What Volkswagen (old) Beetle model/year/feature set is right for us? [more inside]
Where should I put the Do Not Bend labels?
I'm about to send out about 100 envelopes (6 inches high by 9 inches wide) that I don't want bent. I'm going to have "Do Not Bend" labels printed, and plan to request that the envelopes be hand-stamped at the (U.S.) post office (and/or ask whether I can hand-stamp them myself at that location). The question: Where is the best place on this size of envelope to put a "Do Not Bend" label?
Need a moving company and less stress
Moving a short distance on the east side of the Sound (Seattle area). Any recommendations for a moving company? [more inside]
America on film
I teach ESL to new refugees and they have expressed a desire to see movies that tell them about or show America. They want to know about the different landscapes, accents, lifestyles, etc. I'm looking for suggestions for simple, visually descriptive films that feature a wide variety of geographical locations and Americans. Can you think of any? [more inside]
I need the bizarro Martian version of Galileo.
Martian Astronomer Filter--when Mars moves like this in the sky from our point of view on Earth, how does the Earth appear to move from Mars' perspective? [more inside]
Is not the headbutt somewhat pyrrhic?
Help me understand the efficacy of a headbutt as an offensive opening gambit in a bout of fisticuffs... [more inside]
Need a good wireless headset for a land-line
Need a good hands-free, wireless head set for my land line at work. I'm on the phone all day at work, and for the past few years I've used the Plantronics CS-50, but there are a few things about this model that are annoying... [more inside]
Looking to buy a chair.
Unique chair from TV series. [more inside]
Go Team!
What are some things that I can do to prove to my boss that I am a team player? Of course, there are special details below the cut! [more inside]
Tips/Etiquette on driving safely in the US
First time US Driving Filter: I have been driving for about 5 years now, but not much in the US. I need tips on driving safely. Details inside. [more inside]
Hiking in Israel
Good places to hike in Israel? [more inside]
How do tax deductions for donated goods work?
How do non-monetary tax deductible donations work? How is the value of the donated items determined? Is there a special receipt needed? Can any 501(c)(3) provide donors with a tax deductible receipt?
Any and all information related to this topic would be appreciated! [more inside]
How to burn many unique CDs?/
Are there cd duplicators that can burn many unique images (as opposed to identical images) simultaneously? [more inside]
Lower abdominal pain. What to do?
Lower abdominal pain and tenderness. What do do? [more inside]
Would it be smart to buy/sell a new Mac laptop every year?
Spurred by today's announcement about new MacBook Pros, I have a quick question about owning a Mac.
Specifically, I'm wondering whether it would be wise to just buy a new 13-inch Mac laptop (~$1300, after I upgrade the RAM and hard drive) every year, and sell the old one. [more inside]
to buy a bench
Where on the Internet, or in the Bay Area, can I find a small bench (@ 3' wide x 1' deep) for my front stoop? [more inside]
Midwife recommendation in Vancouver, BC?
Midwife recommendation in Vancouver, BC? [more inside]
Google Apps and Sites
Please break down Google Sites and Google Apps (standard or education version). I want to start a uni. department wiki site but I'm confused by my options. [more inside]
which vacuum would I enjoy?
I'm in the market for a vacuum that uses bags and is inexpensive, reliable, not too powerful and not too big. Help me pick the right one. [more inside]
What do you mean, "Don't use the checklists as checklists"?
I have approximately 3000-5000 baseball trading cards (and a few hockey and football cards) from 1978 through 1983. What's the best way to sort through them, figure out the quality, identify the more valuable cards, and sell them?
Help me be less patronising and condescending
Tips on how to be less patronising and condescending [more inside]
iPhone App Access to Contacts
iPhone security question: My employer is considering allowing the use of iPhones (and possibly Android phones) in place of our traditional Blackberries, but is concerned about ensuring security of our confidential information. We already know how to turn off the ability of apps to access location data on the iPhone, but I'm also looking for a way to prevent apps from accessing the contact list. Perhaps my GoogleFu is failing me--is there an easy (or not so easy) way to do this?
Pimp my iPad!
Pimp my iPad! I'm going to be using an iPad for business trips in the near future. Can you help me find all the best apps for wandering through a strange city? [more inside]
No, this isn't a smoker's cough, its a nonsmoker's cough!
Quitting smoking filter: Of all the things I expected, this horrible scratch in my throat is seriously bumming me out. How can I fix it? How long might this last? [more inside]
Where can I find this salad dressing?
Can anyone help me find a way to buy this salad dressing which is only sold for foodservice use? [more inside]
My girlfriend has a shitty, shitty cat.
My girlfriend's cat has a tendency to become REALLY active at night, most often between the hours of 4 and 6 in the morning. Loudly running around the bedroom, knocking things off of tables, clawing furniture, whatever she can do to make noise. How can we curb this behavior? [more inside]
Science Fiction book title
Name that Science Fiction book title! [more inside]
Text editor for Chrome
Is there an equivalent plugin for Chrome that duplicates It's All Text for Firefox? I use a browser a lot to enter complicated text into things like wikis and I need a full featured text editor for Chrome. I currently use It's All Text which lets me use vim to do everything that vim can do to the text in a text box but there doesn't seem to be an equivalent for Chrome.
Easy Oscar Party Meal
Help me plan a menu for a small dinner party that I can cook during the Oscars this Sunday. [more inside]
Tablet advice for Lightroom
I'm thinking of getting an Intuos 4 tablet for my photo work (Lightroom, Photoshop). Obviously, it's the bees knees for Photoshop--anyone using it with Lightroom (where I do most of my editing)? Which version to get? Thinking the medium or the slightly smaller wireless version--do they have enough real estate for effective use with a 23/24" Apple Cinema Display? Lastly, are there any rumors about an impending refresh? The wireless version was released over a year ago, and the wired versions were released almost two years ago. [more inside]
Calling all kids and kids-at-heart
Help source photographs and ideas for the design of a maximally creative schoolyard play space for grades K-8. [more inside]
What is the best thing to do for my cat?
What is the best thing to do for my cat? [more inside]
Can you identify this vintage design chair?
Can you identify the yellow chair in this photo? Here's another picture, and here is one more. I contacted the photographer, who said the chair had been purchased used in an antique store in the US, and that it has no markings to identify its maker. It's similar to the Vernon Panton S chair, but it ain't it.
Moving out of state -- what do I do with my bank account?
I'm moving from Washington State to Southern California in a few weeks. My primary banking is with Bank of America. What do I need to do with respect to my bank accounts when I move, to cause the minimum possible disruption? [more inside]
Morph a FB personal account into biz account (not a page)?
Can I convert my Facebook personal account into a business account (not a page)? [more inside]
Alternatives to laundering a stuffed animal?
How to clean a Very Important stuffed animal: the baby edition. [more inside]
Vague description and sketchy timeline for game I played once
Biology-based learning computer game in the earlyish 90's, with an amoeba? [more inside]
Veggies for breakfast
Vegetables for breakfast? How is it done? How do you have breakfast this is not focused on meats, dairy and grains? Please share your ideas and recipes.
And the winner is...
My friend is holding her annual Oscar betting pool. Last year I got fewer picks right statistically than if I had just chosen randomly. How do I win this year's Oscar pool? [more inside]
Three's Company Too
Need financial/legal info about buying a house with someone else. I know YANML and YANMA but wanted starting points, advice, and any stories from people who have been through this. [more inside]
rebuttal for The Spirit Level
Help me find a fantasy book in which the ex-king is turned into a deformed midget court jester.
Help me find a fantasy book in which the ex-king is turned into a deformed midget court jester. [more inside]
500 kcal nutrient cube BID
I'm a vegetarian, I'm starting to work out with weights, and I'm looking for specific ways to add 1,000 calories per day to my diet. I'm very confused about how to accomplish this healthily. Halp! [more inside]
World Financial Group scares the heck out of me...
Please share your knowledge of and/or experiences with World Financial Group. [more inside]
Pictures of a deceased ex
A little over two years ago, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. A couple of weeks later, he passed away unexpectedly. The whole situation, the break-up and his death, was incredibly difficult for me. For almost the past two years, I have been in a relationship with someone else; this relationship has gotten really serious over the past year and a half or so. We were friends when my ex-boyfriend and I split, so he has been with me through this whole situation and knows how hard it has been for me. Generally, over the past couple of years, he has been very supportive and understanding of what I am going through. Since my ex passed away, I have had pictures of him and me together in my apartment and as my facebook profile picture. [more inside]
Daredevil killed in the 1970's - help me find articles about this...
Please help me find articles, about a daredevil who was killed doing a stunt in the late 1970's... [more inside]
Examining 300 MS Word documents, looking for shortcuts
How would one go about the task of recording the word-counts of hundreds of MS Word documents? Is this something that could be automated? [more inside]
Secular choral music
Can you recommend some secular choral music? [more inside]
Surviving Aix-en-Provence for two weeks
I have to go to Aix-en-Provence for work for two weeks. I would like to hear some restaurant recommendations in the "cheap and good" category. [more inside]
Fortunatly, it wasn't a tramp stamp
Where can I get some stamps mounted in NYC? [more inside]
How does one build a supercomputer?
Computer Theory Filter: In short, what are the major reasons/roadblocks stopping someone from gathering computer processors and parts that are going to be recycled etc. and building a larger and larger supercomputer? (more inside) [more inside]
I want to be more stylish. Help? Looking for both general style tips and specific clothing recommendation.
I want to be more stylish. Help? Looking for both general style tips and specific clothing recommendation. [more inside]
Supernatural themed outdoor games and activities
Looking for summer camp-like activities that could be played by adults... with a creepy or supernatural twist. [more inside]
I want to check some predictions
I'm looking for a short film I saw in a computing class about 10 or 15 years ago. It was set in the "close future" demonstrating the use of computer technology by a disaster recovery team after an earthquake in California. Notably, all the computers and devices like printers were wireless. [more inside]
Books for Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment Style
What books will help me fix my anxious-preoccupied attachment style? [more inside]
Taking night classes while accepting unemployment
A friend wishes to take night classes while accepting California unemployment insurance checks. He's scared that he'll be caught, because of question 5 on the EDD grid: Did you begin attending any kind of school or training? [more inside]
February 23
Smoking in L.A.?
Is the show Californication's representation of smoking in a bar in Los Angeles complete fabrication or are there still some bars in L.A. that have grandfather clauses? [more inside]
Los Angeles Nightlife for College kids
Los Angeles Nightlife [more inside]
Short-term vroom
I've had my driver's license for less than a year, and I want to have a car for a couple months so I can practice driving every day and get really comfortable- I think it'll make me a much safer driver in the long run. What's the best way to get a car for just a couple of months? [more inside]
What gender do newly-invented things have in languages where things have genders?
What gender do newly-invented things have in languages where things have genders? [more inside]
How to manipulate "12 = x - (square root of x)" into "x="
The solution to 12 = x - (square root of x) is 16, but how do I manipulate the equation to show that? [more inside]
What was your best learning vacation?
What was your best learning vacation ever? I'm open to all ideas - I'm interested in great teachers rather than any particular subject, I'd like it to be a minimum of a week long and a max of a semester. Europe, North or South America or Asia, preferably when the weather is cool.
Jam Sessions at Jazz Fest
I'll finally be going to Jazz Fest in New Orleans this year. Does anyone know if there are open jam sessions around the city during the festival? I don't have any illusions about playing with famous folks, but it would be nice to get together with some other musicians and play jazz. (I'm a vocalist, if that makes any difference).
Help me bounce back from an emotionally abusive relationship.
I just left an emotionally abusive relationship. And I feel... off. Help? [more inside]
Help me identify this piece of comic art.
I've lived here far too long.
What should I do this summer? I have four months, no job, little money, a beat-up car, and I live at home. I'm a twenty year old female. Points for recommending free Judaism classes. [more inside]
Throat clearing
Why is he always clearing his throat? My boyfriend is constantly clearing his throat, multiple times a day and I'm really concerned. What's wrong with him? He won't see a doctor and just says he's phlegmy.
Name that song, Google Maps edition
Where is the music in this Google Maps for Android demo video from? It seems really familiar, especially starting at about 0:18. I've already run it through Shazam with no luck. [more inside]
Bring music back into my life!
I'm in the market for a keyboard that is as piano-like as possible for around $1000. Recommendations? [more inside]
Veal-entines?
Help me feed people delicious and February-themed food! [more inside]
My electrons are party poopers.
How do you stay with and build upon those "moments of realization/inspiration?" [more inside]
We have gerbils
How can we contain our gerbil population? [more inside]
How to write an acting resume?
How to write an acting resume? Or rather, how to make my bare-bones resume not look so embarassingly empty and bare? And a sorta ethical question.... and much anxiety... [more inside]
How much is he worth?!?!
What's the asking price for a web developer in the Baltimore/DC area? [more inside]
Help me control my furnace's blower
How can I reconfigure my Goodman GmH950703Bx furnace so that it doesn't blow all the time? [more inside]
Can the wrong emergency contact written in ink in a passport be crossed out?
Is this something I should call the State Department about or is it just a tempest in a teapot?
I just got my renewed passport. In the back, where it plainly says to write in pencil, I wrote the wrong name in pen. I'm thinking I can't white it out (or whatever the 21st century equivalent is) because that would raise all sorts of red flags at customs. It would, right?? And what about just crossing out the wrong name and inserting the right one, in pencil, above?
Anyone have any experience in this? Thanks.
Do linguistics grad students have time to breathe?
Lifestyle of a Linguistics Graduate Student? I am starting a Ph.D. Program next fall, and I want to have an idea of how much time I will be spending on campus, working, studying, etc. Will I have time to sleep? Will I be burnt out and hating myself after one semester? What about money? [more inside]
So, my therapist broke up with me. Is it worth trying to find another one?
So, my therapist broke up with me. Is it worth trying to find another one? [more inside]
Can you suggest resources for a cancer survivor who works with cancer patients?
My SO is a speech therapist/speech pathologist at a major hospital, and her department specializes in cancer patients. This can take a quite a toll on her, but the impact has worsened following her own skin cancer diagnosis last year. I was wondering if there were any books, websites, programs or resources designed to help healthcare providers deal with working with these kinds of cases, and perhaps also ones to deal with dealing with cancer diagnoses. [more inside]
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Tampa
What are some great novels that are set in Tampa? [more inside]
Earth, cut in half.
Is anyone aware of an image that's been generated depicting the whole circle of the earth in section view, showing the topography of the relevant land masses and sea floors? [more inside]
Why would someone slip "reddit" in a craigslist ad?
[Craigslist filter] Asking for a friend: Why would someone slip "reddit" at the bottom of a Craigslist room for rent ad posted in San Francisco, CA? SEO? Magic keyword?
I need a Big Book of Bugs for toddlers
My toddler loves bugs and books. Obviously, a bug book is needed. [more inside]
Is there a dead rodent in my wall?
Bad house smell has come on strong and suddenly. What is it? It's giving me a headache but my dogs don't even seem to notice it. [more inside]
How to recover page-ranking in google after being pharmahacked?
SEO Fliter: My blog recently got pharmahacked and my page-rank has died. Anything I can do to hasten recovery? Or am I permanently hosed? [more inside]
Am I overreacting?
Am I overreacting to my boyfriend's behaviour? Very confused about recent events and trying to work out what to do. Details and back story under the cut. Anonymous due to private details. [more inside]
Best certifications and online courses for a new database administrator?
Best certifications and online courses for a new database administrator? [more inside]
I mean, other than annoying?
Does this style of of oft-viral video actually have a name? Do you have a favorite? [more inside]
Looking for books with daily essays or tasks for the entire year.
Help me find a book I saw years ago which had a different healthy habit for every week of the year. Also, I am interested in more books with daily/weekly essays/thoughts/meditations/tasks, so can you recommend me any? [more inside]
In a new relationship, she has a daughter who is not comfortable with the divorce ...
In a new relationship, she has a daughter who is not comfortable with the divorce ... [more inside]
How do I be the parent and scientist I want to be?
Can I take 2 or 3 years off after getting my PhD to be a parent full-time without seriously reducing my ability to be a researcher (not necessarily a professor) in the hard sciences? [more inside]
Lose Your Shirt European Vacation
Going to Europe this summer. Do I really have to spend $1500 to get there?! [more inside]
To Dyson or Not To Dyson?
I'm having trouble vacuuming the carpeted stairs in my new home with our upright vacuum (for obvious reasons). I've finally convinced my husband that we need a canister vacuum to do the job. What's the best option on the market, in terms of a happy balance between quality and price? [more inside]
Equality Now! BBall Substitutions dilemma
MathStoryProblem: I coach youth bball and need help with equal playing time substitutions with a line-up that varies week to week. I think some kind of formula or counting trick should help, but my math skills are failing me. Up to 15 kids, 10 substitutions per game (25 min halves - subs every 5 min). As close to equal amount of floor time as possible (obviously, this can't always be the case). [more inside]
Why does white on TV make noise?
Why does white on a TV screen cause audible buzzing noise?
It's obvious more on an all-white screen, but even small amounts like captions. It seems like it's been this way for decades, through CRT and on to plasma HDTV screens. [more inside]
How to design an after-school program for teens?
I have a chance to start an after-school program for teens in my rural community. I have no experience designing this sort of program. Help! [more inside]
How do I add a listing to EAP directories?
How do I help a small, non-profit day care get into directories for Employee Assistance Programs (EAP)? [more inside]
What small projector will work with Macs?
I just bought an Optoma Pico PK301 to use in our (Mac-based) office and also when we travel. Unfortunately I didn't realize that it won't work like a normal projector - i.e. just letting me project what is on my screen. Can I hack it or should I return it and get a different one? [more inside]
Best bag for 8 weeks of travel?
I'm going to be traveling in South Africa, Southeast Asia and Australia for 8 weeks this summer. I am very much a minimalist, but still, 8 weeks is 8 weeks-- what's the best bag that meets carry-on requirements? [more inside]
Be a dentist, you'll be a success...?
Should I go to dental school? [more inside]
But what if I don't want to?
This video clip from the TLC leaves me wondering what should be done. I know to never allow the police to search anything and to not answer questions. But what if the request is not a question but a demand rationalized by the officer as a safety issue. Bonus question: does the door being opened count as consent to search? YANML YANAL TINLA apply [more inside]
How to approach a job review when I'm likely to leave the company?
How do I handle a performance review when I'm likely to leave the company in the next month or so? [more inside]
It slices, it dices?
I am looking for video editing software very similar to programs used by college sports teams to make 'cutups' of game footage. [more inside]
Games to play in the background
Looking for good games to play in the background. [more inside]
How to make the best out of my first meeting with a web designer.
Help me organize this website idea I have, being technologically impaired. [more inside]
My new favorite dress is too small.
Is it possible to get this dress let out a little (made larger) without it looking obvious? Or should I send it back? Bonus points for good-but-inexpensive seamstress/tailor recommendations in NYC/Brooklyn! [more inside]
Good bluetooth stereo (noise canceling?) headphones?
Good bluetooth stereo (noise canceling?) headphones? [more inside]
Pecking Cat has turned into Gobbling Cat
Pecking Cat has turned into Gobbling Cat [more inside]
law_process_advice
YANML. My son is being charged with 4th degree felony. [more inside]
Immediate gratification SQL learning?
For professional development, I would like to take a college-level statistics course over the next few months. I am also looking into learning more about SQL. What online programs are best for me? [more inside]
Exercise: how do I push myself without damaging myself?
I strain a muscle too frequently when I exercise. How am I supposed to get stronger? [more inside]
A little bit of southern charm to the northern tundra.
I want to to purchase a tacky-ish tube dress like you see at college football games in the south, but for a team in the north that definitely doesn't have anything like this commercially available, as a gift. Where do I get this done? [more inside]
Help me name that diva!
Help me name that tune! [more inside]
How to ensure documents moved to a shared folder have the same permissions as documents created in the shared folder?
Looking for a setting in Windows XP to ensure that all users (or all users in a certain group) will always be able to access documents in a shared folder. [more inside]
Should I abandon my half-assed fitness regimen on the second day?
After a lifetime of indifferent body maintenance I am engaging in a fitness regimen of sorts. One day in and I am extremely sore. What am I in for? What should I do? [more inside]
I fell in love again all things go, all things go drove to Chicago
Honeymoonfilter: Chicago in late October. Good idea?
The 'what ifs' are getting to me.
How much would a 3.4 college gpa limit me in terms of grad school? [more inside]
Fear of the glaucoma test
How can I learn to tolerate glaucoma tests? [more inside]
Primary-Secondary School Teaching Jobs References Through Applicant: Is this Stanard?
Is it standard for applicants to primary/secondary school teaching jobs to submit their own recs (US)? [more inside]
New bike commuter with questions!
This past weekend, I purchased my first road bike. My long term goal is to cycle to/from work every day. I’ve taken the bike on a few exploratory rides, been humbled by my general fitness level, and came away with a number of questions I hope you all can answer. (Many more details inside. (This ended up much longer than I thought it would.)) [more inside]
To Montessori or not to Montessori?
How would you describe the difference between a Montessori preschool and a 'regular' preschool? [more inside]
Krasny Oktyabr (Красный Октябрь) Д8, Д8e or Д6 engines?
Any MeFites know anything about Krasny Oktyabr (Красный Октябрь) Д8, Д8e or Д6 engines? [more inside]
Bang bang
When a hairstylist offers a complimentary bang trim between haircuts, do you tip them for this? I would assume yes, but how much?
QuoteFilter: what did Feynman say about "Godel, Escher, Bach"?
What did Feynman say about Hofstadter's "Godel, Escher, Bach"? I recall a quote, something like "The book is 90% brilliance and 10% crap, and no one knows which is which" but I can't find the source.
Flying with a Newborn
Logistics of traveling solo with an infant. Looking for tips regarding carriers, going to the bathroom, changing a baby on the plane. I'll be flying Alaska Air and I'd love any special tips for flying these small planes or even Alaska in particular. [more inside]
Need DJ's in Ranchi
Need DJ in Ranchi [more inside]
How can I make the BBC liveblogs update?
How can I force the Ajax/jQuery style pages on the BBC website to update on the user end? [more inside]
What are the best examples of stylized visual resumes?
I'm looking for the best examples of stylized visual resumes. [more inside]
How good is "good enough"?
Should I settle for mediocre grades? [more inside]
What if it's not ADD?
What was your adult neuropsychological evaluation like, if you've had one? What should we be looking for in the process? I'm not sure my SO is getting the sort of evaluation he needs. [more inside]
Thermostat for new Lennox gas furnace
This is pretty specific, but we have a new Lennox G61-MPP gas furnace and aren't all that happy with the thermostat the contractor installed for it (Pro1 IAQ). Does anyone have any experience with other thermostats compatible with this furnace? Should be able to provide 7 day schedule, advance recovery, and multi-stage heat calls. Thanks!
refreshments that don't leave crumbs and aren't sticky?
Which refreshments can I serve that won't leave crumbs or sticky fingers? [more inside]
What should we know about vacationing in Ireland/Scotland in late spring?
Planning in two-week vacation with the wife in Ireland and Scotland. We've never been to either before, what should we know? [more inside]
Looking for the artist who did the illustrations in The Orphanage
Shot in the dark illustrator search: who actually did the drawings on the wall of Thomas's sealed off room in The Orphanage, 2007? [more inside]
Does PowerPoint 2010 run lag-free?
PowerPoint 2010 is running slow on my system. It takes a long time to redraw thumbnails every time I go to slide sorter (up to 1/2 second per slide), lags a lot when moving objects on a page or when flipping from one page to the next. Seeing as I do PowerPoint for a living, this is not so good. Before I shell out for a new computer, I wanted to make sure this is my computer and not a problem with PowerPoint. So, my question: Do you find PowerPoint 2010 to be nice and snappy on your system? [more inside]
Intermittant rewards are frustrating
Do you have the Epson NX420 printer/scanner? Does it work? [more inside]
La di da-OH GOD
I absolutely shot myself in the foot, academically, with an email intended for my boyfriend gone awry to the wrong recipient -Admissions at the school I applied to. Is there anything I can do to remedy the situation? (Caution, this is a trainwreck) [more inside]
How to plan a career to accomodate having a child?
I know that life is what happens when you're busy making plans, but how do you (as a woman) build a career that can survive having a child? [more inside]
Inhomogenous classroom.
Have you ever been in a (college-level) class with students very different in abilities ? What did the instructor do right / wrong?
Also, what are good tips on keeping people engaged when teaching them on a block schedule (8*45mins training a day)? [more inside]
How to do Internet radio without umbrella licensing
What is the best way to get rights to play music on your own Internet Radio station for an artists work that is not shown on BMI, ASCAP, or SESACs repertoire?
If you have rights to a song, then do you have rights to the songs remixes as well?
Also, is it possible to get rights to play artists material without using an umbrella licence, even if the artists work is listed by BMI/ASCAP/etc... [more inside]
February 22
Cracked Crown
2 years ago I had a root canal performed on my second molar. Today the crown cracked and a piece fell off. Could this be cause by excessive grinding? [more inside]
must be something in the water...
This is a question for anyone who knows about houses from the inside out: Do homes ever use aluminum pipes for plumbing?
We just had our water tested by the national center for water quality at Heidelberg University using samples from two separate faucets in our home. One sample came back totally normal; the other had double the rate of acceptable aluminum per billion parts.
Readings for all other substances were fairly close to each other between the two faucets (and except for the aluminum, no other concern.) Why could one faucet have a higher aluminum rate than another in the same home? [more inside]
Seattle area battery dealers, DC UPS
Seattle area telecom: Can anyone suggest a battery distributor/warehouse that stocks deep cycle lead acid batteries of the type suitable for a DC UPS? Shipping costs on these are very high so we would prefer to buy from a dealer somewhere along I-5 in the area from Bellingham to Olympia. We're looking for 6V 220aH T105 (golfcart type) and AGM 12V 120aH batteries.
How do I stick with a name I'm choosing for myself?
My parents gave me a hard-to-pronounce name, and when I got to grade school my classmates started calling me something similiar for pronunciation ease. I picked a new name for myself in Highschool, but I haven't been able to stick to any name since then. How do I stick to whichever name I choose? [more inside]
No one gossips about other people's secret virtues.
How do you deal with rampant gossip in an academic context? [more inside]
New England Road Trip Hiking?
The breadth of Long Island up to Connecticut, then over to Cape Cod, then up to Boston, and then back to NYC. Where are the best hikes? What do I have to stop and see (and eat) in between the cities? Where can I stay on the cheap? [more inside]
I lost my commands or whatever you call them
I lost my line of commands on the top of Firefox! The line that includes View with all the toolbars. I have the navigation toolbar still there, but I'm talking about the one over it, that says "File Edit View etc."
It's just gone. I've rebooted the whole laptop, etc. Any way to get this back? thanks.
how do I link to a shared playlist in itunes?
iTunes playlist publishing, ping, yikes, help, this shouldn't be so difficult right? [more inside]
Oh woe is me no mobile me :(
I didn't activate mobileme.
My iphone was stolen from my bag in a yoga studio change room a few hours ago.
Called Rogers to freeze service, called apple, and called police to file report. No one seems to be willing to do anything to track it down.
Is there ANY way I can track its whereabouts?
I built a Windows 7 HTPC / Media Server. It worked beautifully for a few months, but now it's f-ing up. Any ideas?
I built a Windows 7 HTPC / Media Server. It worked beautifully for a few months, but now it's f-ing up. Any ideas? [more inside]
Low Cost Health care resources in LA? (warning ickyness inside)
Can you help me find health care resources in the LA area? (warning, some icky content inside.) [more inside]
Illegal price fixing or good business?
Supplier wants my company to sell a 'combined product' at a specific price in order for my company to get his best price.
In the relationship, his company would be a supplier to me, and I would sell to the end user. There's a potential recurring revenue stream on the other end of this deal that could be big for the supplier. [more inside]
Moisture, thou art mine enemy!
I'm going to build a camper shell for my truck and need advice on how to seal/paint it to protect it from moisture. [more inside]
Planes, Trains, and Automobiles...
What's the best transportation option for visiting NYC, then going to Long Island for a wedding, and then getting back to La Guardia? [more inside]
Article about how "The Crucible" has stood the test of time?
Looking for any peer-reviewed article about modern critical response to Arthur Miller's "The Crucible" (No, I'm not asking you to do my homework, trust me.) [more inside]
From the heart...to the head. How?
How do you INTs (Introverted Intuitive Thinkers on the Myers-Briggs) like to be shown appreciation, affection, acceptance, and attention and allowed to be yourselves? [more inside]
Home recording 101
Help this musician get started with home recording. I've written lots of music and its time to get it recorded. I have basically zero equipment and zero knowledge, so start me from the beginning. [more inside]
Figuring out transportation in Melbourne
Help me figure out transport in Melbourne for a conference. [more inside]
Help me find this book that is about a drug addict who steals bikes in Amsterdam to feed his drug habit. It is a diary-style of book.
Help me find this book that is about a drug addict who steals bikes in Amsterdam to feed his drug habit. It is a diary-style of book. [more inside]
Should I try a back saver handle or just break down and get an ergonomic snow shovel?
Have you ever tried one of these: #1 or #2. Did you like it? Hate it? And if so, why? I can't afford a good ergonomic snow shovel and thought one of these might do in a pinch. Is there another model you liked better? Did it matter if the handle was perpendicular to the shaft like #1 or parallel like #2?
How do White Noise machines work? Are white-noise sleep machines really made up of a mosaic of tiny repeating patterns?
How do White Noise machines work?
Are white-noise sleep machines really made up of a mosaic of tiny repeating patterns? [more inside]
Cairns - Tell me where to find the fun
In a few days I'm moving to Cairns, Queensland. What cool and fun things should I look out for in particular to distract and amuse my toddler in our new environment? [more inside]
Feel my pane.
Apartment rental. Subdivided house circa 1910. Help us tweak these original single-pane wood frame windows so as not to freeze. [more inside]
Electric power for the little guys
I am looking for quantitative information on energy demand for mobile devices with low power requirements, such as alarm clocks, book lights, TV remotes – things that usually require batteries to run (but not devices with higher power requirements like smartphones or laptops). Does anyone know where I can find such information? [more inside]
User Interface Design 101
Calling all UI designers: What are your favorite books/resources? What is "required reading"? Where should I start? [more inside]
Massage Table Recommendations
My wife loves massages (I understand most people do) but I have trouble with my back and knees "doing it" on a bed. I'd like to get her a massage table for her birthday so I can "do it" staqnding up. Any recommendations on brands, features, options, etc?
PLI Patent Bar Homestudy Course: Was I scammed?
Has anyone ever used a PLI Patent Bar homestudy course? I was a bit uneasy about my purchase of the course on eBay, and now that I've received the materials, I can't figure out if I have a legit copy. Considering the high price of copies of the course, I find it possible that someone would indeed go to great lengths to fake a copy. [more inside]
Building Up An Immunity to Assholes
When someone yells at me, or tells me I've screwed something up (oddly, in my profession these two events seem to be somewhat mutually exclusive) I get a physical reaction. My throat constricts to the point that it becomes sore. I get dizzy. My brain turns into jello. What's going on and can I train myself out of this?
Help me plan my Scottish walking tour!
I am planning a Scottish walking tour this summer (around the middle two weeks in July). Do any of you fine Mefites have any recommendations for companies or don't miss routes? [more inside]
Evil care bears
Does anyone remember evil care bears with a care bear glare? As I recall it, they were shadows in disguise.
Calculating Inflation Accurately
There is a branch of economic theory concerned with the calculation of inflation. It has a name. The name is something like "hexanomics"--but that's not it. Please help. [more inside]
Recording loud concerts with minimal gear?
I've got a good video-capable DSLR camera, and a good external microphone for it. But when I'm at concerts, the audio is blown out. Help? [more inside]
You're coming through loud and clear, unfortunately.
My boyfriend's across-the-hall neighbor loves to talk on his CB radio at all hours. We don't love hearing it through every speaker in the apartment. What can we do? [more inside]
How can I get back into academia?
Repositioning myself for academic career success. Help! [more inside]
If simply eating too many calories caused me to gain weight then I should be permanently gaining weight every time I eat a pizza and feel stuffed.
If simply eating too many calories caused me to gain weight then I should be permanently gaining weight every time I eat a pizza and feel stuffed. Yet, I don’t. What factors decide a person’s natural weight? I was watching a documentary about Rocky (the most recent one) and how Sylvester Stallone got in shape for it and did the last part of the movie first while he was still in good shape. It sounded as if his body was going to just lose shape the moment he stopped training. That made me wonder if even people like Stallone have a natural weight that they must fight against every second of every day. [more inside]
Exchange - privatize my meeting details!
Scheduling resources in Exchange - how do I make things private? Please let this be much easier than I'm thinking it is. [more inside]
need to fix up my little art studio
No good deed goes unpunished: Gave my lovely little Greenwich Village basement art studio to someone for a few months. I got it back in the most atrocious shape...with my beautiful plaster walls completely hacked to bits from him incompetently drilling screw after useless screw into my wall, taking huge chunks of plaster out, and making occasional giant gouges with long anchoring screws (and even incomprehensibly applying adhesive spray insulation to glue wood boards to the wall. *sob*) The wall is about 11x9 feet. How much should I expect to pay to get this fixed? I'm handy, but know nothing about plaster and feel gutted about letting someone treat this super-old plaster wall so badly. [more inside]
TervisTumblerFilter
I have a 20-oz Starbucks Tervis tumbler. I want to replace the lid/straw with a "travel lid" since I'm trying to go straw-free. I see travel lids for the 24 oz. Tervis tumblers and I wonder if the 24 oz. lid would fit. Anyone got the 24 oz tumbler? What's the lid diameter/circumference (my cup diameter is ~9.5 cm)? Anyone else find another lid for the special-snowflake Starbucks 20 oz. tumbler?>
WidgetFilter
If I know the number of widgets, number of days, and total budget, can I break down a per widget price? [more inside]
How to sell EPUB books for programmers
Selling EPUB e-books, adding on to a custom shopping cart app: handle like any downloadable file? DRM? If DRM is a bad idea, good layperson-accessible article explaining clearly why not? If DRM is a good idea, how is it implemented? [more inside]
RSS to Blog
Blog Help Filter: I am looking for a way by which I can have an RSS feed (consolidated from various sources and filtered - using Yahoo pipes) end up into a blog as draft posts. I would then edit, delete, modify these entires and post them in real time or at a predefined time.
I am open to most blogging platforms such as:
1. Tumblr
2. Posterous
3. Blogger
4. Wordpress
Does something like this exist for those of us who cannot program?
And, is there a way to do this with twitter? I know I can post on twitter when I update a blog but is the reverse possible? I know it is a weird request.
Any help is much appreciated. Thanks
Youtube videos with strong accents?
What are Youtube videos with strong, classic, interesting, funny accents to imitate? [more inside]
original reporting on the partition of india
Where can I find original footage or news clippings covering the partition of India? [more inside]
If a transmission costs $1600, surely something on this car is worth $?
My husband's car needs a new transmission. How do we get rid of this car and get some money for it? Also, advice on buying cheap car helpful, too. [more inside]
Brazil or Bust!
Any good recommendations for using Facebook to handle a wedding in 9 months in South America with North American attendees? Hoping to deal with flight ideas, share travel tips etc. Anyone used the site in this way lately?
Phoning home from Indonesia?
Mobile phone for Indonesia? [more inside]
Keeping a distributed group on task in real time
I am looking for real world experiences using video conferencing software (WebEx, Elluminate, Connect, EVO, etc) to hold a working meeting (not a presentation) with multiple people on multiple sites (20 people in 15 locations in my case). [more inside]
My partner has both Sinus and Digestive issues... could they be linked?
My partner has problems with IBS, her bladder and her sinus. Could they all be linked? Slightly worried it could be something very serious. [more inside]
Kayaking coastal Georgia
Coastal Georgia - kayaking and camping. Does anyone have any experience? I'm looking for suggested paddle routes, campsites, etc. [more inside]
Help me program a YouTube commercial avoidance mechanism
I want to make a Firefox extension that helps multi-tabbing users circumvent annoying YouTube ads. Looking for advice. [more inside]
Is there a "Miss Manners" attachment to this thing?
Plate o' wedding beans: We're starting to receive early wedding gifts, both from people attending and not attending the ceremony in 3.5 weeks. Should we open them? Acknowledge their receipt? Send proper thank-you notes? Help me, Emily-Post-i-fites. [more inside]
Cord-cutting
I want cable TV without the cable! I'm nearly there, but I want the most efficient way to accomplish this.
Help me round out my setup make it more efficient! [more inside]
Business change
Can I change my LLC in video editing to a music publishing company? What forms do I need to fill out and who would I need to notify?
Will they ever call?
Do health departments actually contact potentially infected former partners? [more inside]
Something fishy in the kitchen?
[sushi at home] can i do it without poisoning myself? [more inside]
Random whiteheads and breakouts in strange places
Random body acne after a swollen lymph node - YANAD but does anyone have any idea what is going on? [more inside]
How can I sort out this confusing work/education history?
I've got a slightly confusing work history as a defense contractor, and a 4 year gap in my career when I went to school full time. I'm not sure how to best list this information on my resume. [more inside]
We're a small office - what's a good platform to use for shared checklists?
We're a small office - what's a good platform to use for shared checklists? [more inside]
In general, how much money do you make doing quality control work for a biotech company?
In general, how much money do you make doing entry level quality control work for a biotech company? [more inside]
it's silver and gold
My wedding band is plain and made of yellow gold. My watch is stainless steel. I wear both on my left side. I haven't worn my watch since the wedding because I'm (perhaps unduly) bothered by the clash between the gold ring + silver watch. [more inside]
I need to find a transcription service that can transcribe ~10k very short recordings.
I need to find a transcription service that can transcribe ~10k very short recordings. All different speakers calling from various places. I know of Casting Words and am trying to find out if they can do this. Each recording may be from one to a few words. Perhaps a date. Can you recommend any other resources I can pursue? Thanks.
"I love you." "Thank you". D'oh!
Told the boyfriend that I loved him and he said "Thank you". Now what? [more inside]
Foreskin cleaning? (possibly NSFW)
How do I insure hygiene under my foreskin? [more inside]
Which authors are known for their places?
What authors write about particular places? [more inside]
How do I stop hyperventilating during masturbation?
Help me figure out how to orgasm without hyperventilating! [more inside]
So now what do we do?
So we are in an icky situation involving a friend dying of AIDS. Advice? [more inside]
Clumpy Coffee Mess
Coffee grounds in my french press—disposing of them. Am I missing something? [more inside]
Used Car Newbie
I'm interested in a used car I saw on the side of the road, and I have a test drive scheduled this afternoon. If I decide to go through with it, this will be my first time buying a used car from a private seller that wasn't a friend or family member. What should I know, ask, or do to protect myself and get the information I need? [more inside]
When was the apex of American power?
When was the apex of American power? [Or: When did American power begin to decline?] [more inside]
Vile poetry virtuous poetry for which my mind aches and soul groans lol
Poetry that's not emotion based? [more inside]
gimme a break
Recommend a nice (but not necessarily fancy) part of the South for a spring getaway. Details inside! [more inside]
Get me some temporary cheap space with an incredible view!
Those high-rises in center city, Philadelphia: Are there coffeeshops in any of them? I want to spend less than $5 on a drink and then do some programming for a couple hours with an incredible view. In lieu of that, other ideas?
Cheap in-state long-distance?
Cut-rate, in-state long-distance, sans internet? [more inside]
I know this phone will do more than just let me play Angry Birds.
How do I get my computer to talk to my husband's phone. Specifically calendar and address book functions. Use small words please... [more inside]
Blacklist for Radio DJs?
Music Industry question: Is there such a thing as a "Do-Not-Send-Download Links-or-Free-CDs" blacklist for radio DJs? Many Details Within. [more inside]
Help me throw one hell of a going away party for man's best friend
For those of you that have said goodbye to your dog, how would you spend one more week with your pet if given the chance? [more inside]
Can you translate this beautiful Portuguese song?
Can a man get a Portuguese to English non-machine translation of the lyrics to 'Assinado Eu' by Tiê? [more inside]
Looking to move into geopolitical and economic strategy consulting. Suggestions for firms?
I'm looking to make a rather significant career change into the field of geopolitical and economic strategy consulting, and I'm trying to identify top-tier firms to pursue. I was wondering if the Hive Mind had any suggestions for suitable firms and guidance for how to best approach the process? [more inside]
How to get my neighbors to STFU?
The Super and his family in the apartment next door are way too loud. Three kids in a one bedroom, running, screaming, jumping. The apartment and his salary is paid for by the coop.
What recourse as an owner/share holder in my coop do I have? [more inside]
How do handle feeling patronized?
How do I let someone know I feel patronized without putting them on the defensive, especially if that person may not realize that they're being patronizing? [more inside]
Help me find a compact video camera
I'm looking for a compact video camera to capture the activities of my 3 month old. Currently I have my eye set on Kodak Zi8.
If you have suggestions, advice on the Kodak or any other camera please let me know.
Would a regular Class 10 SDHC be enough for video recording or do I need a 15mbps one or a 30mbps one.
Words with friends rule variations?
Words with Friends rule variations? [more inside]
Woodstock Info
Attending Levon Helm's Midnight Ramble outside of Woodstock, NY in April on a Saturday night with a group of eight and looking for recommendations on nice places in the area to stay for the night, eat before the show and have a drink after (+/- 11pm). I've never been to Woodstock and would appreciate any and all suggestions. Thank you.
Places to stay for the Cherry Blossom Festival
What's a good place to stay in D.C. for the Cherry Blossom Festival? [more inside]
A donut divided against itself cannot stand
Why is there a split along the top of an old-fashioned donut. [more inside]
Details on Gov Walkers Pension?
Does Wisconsin Gov Scott Walker receive a pension and if so, are the details of that pension public? [more inside]
Shoud I use an unlicensed electrician?
I might hire an unlicensed electrician to work on my home. Is this bad? Worst case scenario? [more inside]
Show an 8 year old how Africans evolved into Asians over time
Evolution: What would be a simple and clear way of explaining to an 8 year old how African people with dark skin, big eyes and curly hair turn into Japanese people with lighter skin, smaller eyes and straighter hair over X amount of years? [more inside]
Stranger In the House
How do I move into a squat? [more inside]
Find a frame
I need new glasses. Sadly, my choice of frames (RX5226 or RX5150, both Ray-Ban frames) are not available on the UK high street. Are there any trusted online retailers where I can get these frames, either with or without lenses? Or very similar? [more inside]
What's the easiest way to transfer files off of a corrupted Windows XP install?
What's the easiest way to transfer files off of a corrupted Windows XP install? [more inside]
February 21
Waffle Fries!
FriedPotatoFilter: Where can I find the best waffle fries within an hour's drive from Boston?
Does Sofia Coppola appear in Hiromix's photobook "Girls Blue"?
Does Sofia Coppola appear in Hiromix's photobook "Girls Blue" (1996)? [more inside]
What video/singer is this?
Music video filter: Relatively recent video with a youngish, light-skinned black woman who seems to have a 70s-esque flair (hair, clothes, etc, at least to this uninformed viewer), trying to organizing some dancing and partying in what seems to be a mental institution. Video and song have a fun and funky vibe but I know nothing about the artist other than that she's got an amazing voice. Driving me crazy that I can't find it, help plz?
Which song am I sucking snot to?
We have a Graco Nasal Clear Nasal Aspirator that, as a peripheral function, plays 12 little melodies to distract kids as they're getting their sinuses suctioned. Eleven of them are ones I recognize but the twelfth is driving me nuts. [more inside]
Upbeat Denver song?
Is someone were moving to Denver and having a celebratory party, what would be a good Denver-themed song to play at the climax of this party, i.e. as the cake is being brought out?
Rocky Mountain High by John Denver is an obvious choice, but it's kind of slow, not exciting. Something like Elevation by U2 or Gold Digger by Kanye West are better, more upbeat and indirectly related to Denver, but I'd prefer something a bit more obviously connected to Denver. It should also be a song a group of 20-40 year old American geeks would enjoy.
What to say to a parent who suddenly loses their child?
I just found out that a coworker lost her daughter today in an accident. What on earth do I say to her when I see her later this week? [more inside]
Danger's my middle name.
Someone I met once mentioned to me that her name, Judy, meant "catastrophe" in Russian, her mother's native language. Is this true? Do I have the details wrong? What Russian word was she talking about?
College search: city universities that aren't too big or too urban?
College search: city universities that aren't too big or too urban? [more inside]
What is the first radio signal sent by humankind?
What is the first radio signal sent by humankind and could it be understood by an alien race? [more inside]
Help us fight price gouging in a natural disaster
How should we address an incident of price gouging at the motel we're staying at? (Longish, despicable details below). [more inside]
words, words, words, words
I'd like to read some sharp, simple fiction writing to improve my academic essays -- what would I like? [more inside]
Calling all biochemists!
Biochemistry filter: What do you consider the best evidence that would show a direct protein-protein interaction? [more inside]
Your Best Electropop Reccomendations
Dragonette, Little Boots, Annie, Frankmusik - help me find more music like this! [more inside]
one third long distance relationship
my boyfriend goes out of town to deal with difficult things, I miss him: I need to keep these feelings 'normal and healthy' as opposed to 'irrational and demanding' [more inside]
How are you? I'll be fine when I can remember what language to reply in.
What language is this? The two things I remember sounded like "nazoor sun" and "sollaar sun" for how are you and fine thanks, or similar. The guy who taught me speaks several languages including Farsi, Arabic, Azerji and Turkish, but googling hasn't worked for me. What was he teaching me? I'd like to learn some phrases in that language to surprise him with next time I see him.
Seeking the perfect motorized stand-up desk
Where can I find an adjustable-height desk that meets my needs? [more inside]
What should my hardwood floor stairs look like?
May I please tap the Hive Mind for some advice about hardwood floor stairs? I'm not sure how to identify what I want. [more inside]
Start your guessing engines! This time about the Bar-Kays.
NameThatSongFilter: Looking for a 90's song that used the horns from Soul Finger by the Bar-Kays [more inside]
Enable Ableton for me
[AbletonLiveFilter]Is the fact that many of my samples/wavs/VST plugins are on an external hard drive the reason that Live is quitting on me? [more inside]
I need broomball shoes that aren't broomball shoes.
Cheap tennis shoes with good traction for playing broomball? (In broomball you are on ice in tennis shoes. We aren't allowed real broomball shoes.) [more inside]
How Much Does It Cost To Be Big In Japan?
How much to charge for video licensing? I've licensed photos before, but never a video so I don't even know an appropriate range. The video in question is a minute and a half YouTube video featuring me and an invention of mine which has some modest interest (100K views). [more inside]
Pretty eyed, pirate smile
Seeking long-lost interactive dancer webpage. [more inside]
What drives ticket site pricing mechanisms?
Do airplane ticket sites (Expedia, Travelocity, Kayak, etc.) increase prices between successive browsing sessions, as well as manipulate prices so that they are in agreement with each other? [more inside]
Can anything in N.S. compare with the Hopewell Rocks?
Dreaming of a maritime summer - Is the Nova Scotia side of Bay of Fundy as awesome as the New Brunswick side? [more inside]
Where'd Snoop go?
Why do radio station eventually stop playing versions of songs that feature two singers in favor of those that feature only one? [more inside]
I want to moon the moo-cow
I'm looking for work skirts for farm work. A cross between a tool-belt, utilikilt, and A-line or flip skirt. [more inside]
Winter getaways near Boston
Looking for a guest house/B&B/inn with a fireplace 2-3 hours from Boston. [more inside]
Surely they can't claim me as a dependent against my will...can they?
In order to establish residency for grad school, I have to file my taxes independently as a resident of my new state. This weekend, I discovered my parents have already filed, claiming me as a dependent. Please help me. [more inside]
Did anyone predict the Middle Eastern revolts?
Are there any political scientists or Middle Eastern scholars who predicted the recent protests? I.e. in the way that these people predicted the Great Collapse of 2008?
Cash vs. Loan from Bank's Perspective
I'm looking at some foreclosed homes in the front-range area of Colorado. There is no shortage of "bank owned" homes in this area, and I happen to have a pretty good chunk of cash and I want to buy a home "outright" with cash, no loan. I was wondering if I could low-ball the asking price of the house, and what would be a reasonable, realistic amount to offer. [more inside]
You killed the yellow mold!
My new house appears to be taking "it never rains but it pours" just a wee bit too seriously. Runoff from lots of melting snow + ancient sump pump = kaput sump pump and flooded basement. And, of course, mold. Because there's too much for me to handle, plus drywall that clearly needs to be yanked, I'm starting to ask for estimates from pros. But what should I ask them? Major red flags (hard sells, etc.)? Any advice appreciated.
Help me Do it Wrong
Ok, here's a stupid-sounding idea: can someone point me to a guide to how to manipulate an Access database client-side on a web page? [more inside]
Not a scrapbook lady.
I have two large shoeboxes of keepsakes and souvenirs from travels over the past five years, including event tickets, hotel key cards, tourist maps, pub coasters, receipts, photo booth pictures and banknotes in about a dozen different currencies. I don't want them to live in a shoebox any more. What's a good way to organize them into an album of sorts? [more inside]
If I'm going to spend 24 hours flying there, I might as well stop somewhere on the way
If you had five nights to spend on stopovers en route to Australia, and your options were Dubai, Singapore, Kuala Lumpur and Auckland, how would you apportion your time?
How to recover money from my landlord after they failed to live up to an oral agreement?
After months of pestering our landlord about cracked walls (from foundation shifts), we reached an oral agreement that as compensation, I would not be required to pay for the last two weeks of rent. After moving out, they sent me an itemized bill for those two weeks of rent, and deducted it from my security deposit (bringing our recovered deposit to essentially nil). What are my options? [more inside]
Help me plan a special dinner
Looking for a nice place for an anniversary dinner in Chicago. [more inside]
Resume entry relating to death of family
Need assistance for a resume entry to recognize taking care of deceased parents affairs. [more inside]
Android PAYGo That Doesn't Suck?
I want a good Pay As You Go phone on the CDMA network. Suggestions? [more inside]
Is there a spanish-speaking engineer in the house?
A question about (I'm assuming) Cuban engineering/hydropower slang. [more inside]
Vitamins for mostly-vegetarians?
Please help me through the vitamin labyrinth. I have some idea of what I would find ideal, but finding it is rather hard. Please suggest vitamins that meet my criteria. [more inside]
Get my head in the game
Weight loss motivation - I got a lot of great tips on a question I asked a little while ago, but I'm still having trouble getting my head together to make progress on my weight loss goals, so I'm looking for books on weight loss plans/motivation. [more inside]
need help sourcing material!
Where to source cheap LED strands? [more inside]
So many phones!
What t-mobile smartphone should I get? [more inside]
Are there any Cable Modem/Wireless Router combo devices that support DOCSIS 3.0 and N-band wireless?
Are there any Cable Modem/Wireless Router combo devices that support DOCSIS 3.0 and N-band wireless? [more inside]
Bigscreen-friendly Mac apps for HDTVs?
I love my HDTV hooked up to a Mac Mini, but I want it to look like more than a computer desktop with icons. Any recommendations for bigscreen Mac apps that will bring the TV to life with Twitter updates, news feeds, ambient phantasmagoria, you name it? [more inside]
Bollywood golden goose
Looking for a recent Bollywood movie title [more inside]
A ToDo list for Android?
What is the best "ToDo" application available for Android phones? [more inside]
Help my inner geek: Find books to "go deep", learn new things/actively learn
Nonfiction book recommendations for books that both 1) explain the why behind things and 2) list specific things that you can do to learn the idea (not just “read along with me). [more inside]
How do I, as a habitual snooze-button-hitter, become a morning exercise person?
I am trying to get back into a regular exercise habit, but I seem to always have things that I have to do right after work. How do I, as a habitual snooze-button-hitter, become a morning exercise person? [more inside]
I know this song! ...just not by name.
Please help me identify this song, from a Humans vs. Zombies video. [more inside]
Name my cocktail blog
What should I name my cocktail video blog? [more inside]
How do I get started in silent film solo piano accompaniment, as a hobby?
What are some good starting points on the study and performance of period silent film piano accompaniment? My end goals are modest, possibly to do a small show of classic comedic shorts or a famous feature for friends. I'm interested in both generic cues and full (piano) scores, as long as they're of the period. I've only just begun the research, so any introductory tips would be appreciated. [more inside]
Finding the Escher Waterfall diecast sculpture model?
Where can I purchase this diecast sculpture of the escher waterfall? [more inside]
Did best-selling novels have more sex a generation ago?
Are modern best-selling novels less likely to have sex scenes than the best-sellers of a generation ago? [more inside]
Computing Menages a Troi
After fifteen years of using a laptop and monitor as my desktop, I'm strongly considering switching over to dual-computer life, trading in my trusty MacBook Pro for a Mac Pro at work, and a MacBook Air at home / on the road. Are there non-obvious (i.e., beyond Dropbox and MobileMe) services, software, or best practices that would make wrangling two computers less of a disaster?
I can't think of a good pun involving webkins. Maybe you can.
Asking for a friend: Need names for junior roller derby teams. [more inside]
Why does my friend smell like beef jerky?
Are there any dermatological/gastrointestinal issues associated with a smell similar to beef jerky? [more inside]
Alternative whiteboard in Canada
I'm looking for alternative whiteboard solutions (like Whiteyboard) from a Canadian retailer. Any thoughts on where I can get something? [more inside]
Moving up in teaching, advice on applications
I'm an adjunct lecturer at a community college, and I'm looking to move on up. Some of the positions I'm looking at require recommendation letters. How exactly should I go about this? [more inside]
Has anyone here changed his/her personality from a pessimist to an optimist?
Has anyone here changed his/her personality from a pessimist to an optimist? I am talking about a lasting personality / attitude change. If so, how did you do it?
Can we find an old friend?
Is it possible to locate a person when the only information you posses about them is their name? [more inside]
Is there a shrink who can get me off my ass?
Recommendations for a therapist in NYC to help me address self-sabotage, procrastination, and other behaviors that are making my life shitty. [more inside]
Solar energy
Sun Run Solar energy experiences? Good ones, I hope? [more inside]
Webcam text overlay needed
What Windows software can I use to display a text overlay (or graphical) on a live webcam feed? [more inside]
Plastic free single serve espresso
Single serving espresso maker that is plastic free? [more inside]
upgrading computer/IT skills
whats the quickest way i can learn how to run an active directory server? [more inside]
Looking for "The-birth-of-[field of science]" and "The-X-that-changed-the-world" stories.
Looking for "The-birth-of-[field of science]" and "The-X-that-changed-the-world" stories. [more inside]
My Nice Menu is sad
I've got a drop-down Nice Menu at the top of my Drupal site. Suddenly, instead of highlighting menu parents as active when visiting a page in the submenu, it goes ahead and calls that submenu item active. How can I get it to only keep the menu parent set as active no matter where you are in the submenu? [more inside]
How do I return this item and be a good citizen in the process?
I bought a "new" comforter at Target that is really a used Bed, Bath, and Beyond comforter. What are my options? [more inside]
iTunes Song Options Without Opening iTunes
I'm looking for an Apple script or (preferably) Automator or Quicksilver action that will allow me to set a song to "Skip When Shuffling" while I'm listening to it on iTunes, so I can mark songs I don't want to hear when they come up without switching windows.
It's 2AM and I'm leaving the scrollbar...
I am stuck again and need help. I am tasked with creating a web page that displays information in a grid format. The data is static in that the user cannot change the values, but they can reorder the column and/or row order. [more inside]
Mobile phone options for Africa to US calling?
Help me stay in touch with my baby while in Africa. [more inside]
Big Apple vs Capitol Hill?
Help a first-time visitor to the US decide how to split her trip between DC and New York. [more inside]
Is the news about Wisconsin Democratic Senators being forced to leave the state accurate?
Is the news about Wisconsin Democratic Senators being forced to leave the state accurate? [more inside]
Too soon?
Should I begin dating again or force myself to take some time off? [more inside]
On collision course with self-prescribed therapeutic imperative
Almost 30, filled with hang ups and doubt, on collision course with self-prescribed therapeutic imperative.
[Abridged Autobiography Inside] [more inside]
Desktop Computer Decline
I'm looking into the decline of desktop computer sales and would like the latest percentage figures vs laptops and if possible mobile devices like the iPad.
How to fix a flat
What's the cheapest (safe) way to take care of a leaking car tire? [more inside]
Resetting a ring in Boston?
Can you recommend a jeweler in Boston to reset a stone on a tight deadline? [more inside]
Probate probate, who's got the probate?
Probate mysteries? [more inside]
Including Video in an Online Powerpoint?
Easiest way to incorporate videos into a Powerpoint for online viewing? [more inside]
Help these teen girls
Help a mom and two teen girls plan a trip [more inside]
Is there any hard evidence that washing your car is better for the finish than not washing your car?
Is there any hard evidence that washing your car is better for the finish than not washing your car? Isn't washing hard on the finish? Wouldn't a coat of dust protect the surface from sun damage? I think you can see where I'm coming from here.
How to write an intriguing magazine pitch?
Writing magazine pitches: help me as though I were a child. [more inside]
modern songs that sound like 80s songs?
Help me assemble a mixtape of contemporary songs that sound like 80s songs, won't you? [more inside]
Need advice to best approach ridiculous electric bill.
Ridiculous electricity bills: what is our best next step? [more inside]
Contacting retailers and restaurants
How to contact large and small retailers and chain restaurants to open in Puerto Rico? [more inside]
How many Chinese characters are shared between Mandarin and Japanese?
How many Chinese characters are shared 1:1 between Mandarin and Japanese? [more inside]
I can haz appointment?
How can I get evaluated for ADHD in New York City with out-of-state insurance? [more inside]
Online history texts?
Are there any non-American history texts available online, similar to Howard Zinn's A People's History Of The United States? [more inside]
Art Fundamentals 101 for a quilter
I need Art Fundamentals 101 -- what books should I get?
I need to learn more about color (mixing, harmony, schemes), value, composition, and perspective. The trick is that I will not (primarily) be applying what I learn to any particular painting medium but rather to quilt art. What books can help me study me the fundamentals of art? [more inside]
You have food, find it yourself!
How can I get my cat to realize he has food in his bowl and quit bugging me? [more inside]
Is dragging bugged in CorelDRAW?
CorelDRAW X5 Bug/Feature: Sometimes, dragging objects will copy them instead of move them. What's up with that? [more inside]
lightweight laptop fullsize keyboard?
The lightest possible laptop with a full-size keyboard? [more inside]
Subtitling Videos - Need Help!
Need a simple subtitle solution for videos. [more inside]
How do I collect on a law suit judgement?
How do I collect on this lawsuit? [more inside]
Don't mind me, I'm just reading your retinas here...
How did I develop such an aversion to looking people in the eye, and how I can overcome it? It was recently pointed out to me that I unconsciously avoid eye contact in all but the most intimate circumstances---one on one conversations, with friends, etc. Apparently, this makes me look "shifty-eyed" or even like I'm trying to peek down a woman's shirt, so I'd like to stop, but it's very difficult. Not only do I do it unconsciously, but making eye contact with strangers or more casual acquaintances actively feels wrong. [more inside]
PhD retrospective
PhD filter: What do you wish you had done or known, as you started your PhD? [more inside]
Polyface-quality eggs in the Bay Area?
In The Omnivore's Dilemma, Michael Pollan pays a visit to Polyface Farms, where he discovers chicken eggs of an unusual consistency. Please help me find similar eggs in the Bay Area, if they exist! [more inside]
Copy-right free hip-hop beats and loops?
Where can you find copyright free high-quality hip hop beats and loops to be used for rapping over? Something that could be used in an iPhone application that will be submitted to the appstore. Prefereably high-quality wav format and fresh!
Cool My Jets
I have a system with a Microstar K8N Neo4 Platinum motherboard.
It's got an NForce4 Ultra chip on it. This has a fan on top of it which has become annoyingly noisy (and so I'm worried it's going to fail altogether) . What can I use as a replacement ? [more inside]
What's this building?
Can anyone identify this building? I'm at a loss...
plumbing misadventurs
I caught my hot water heater dripping almost as soon as it started... so why is the ceiling below dripping water now? [more inside]
February 20
What is Modern Monetary Policy?
Reading about the current fiscal hullaballo, the idea of "Modern Monetary Theory" keeps popping up. I get the basic gist of it but I was hoping to learn more. Will you explain Modern Monetary Theory, aka Neo-Chartalism, to me? [more inside]
What suspenseful music can I find?
I'm looking for instrumental, soundtrack-type (but not necessarily a soundtrack), and suspenseful/eerie/dark music. I'm interested in music that sounds something like Clint Mansell's Lux Aeterna and The Inception Dream is Collapsing, but in more of a suspenseful, even creepy tone.
Think of Alfred Hitchcock-- that kind of drawn-out, building tension. [more inside]
What happened to Amazon's requirements for their textbook buyback program?
Last semester, I purchased a few textbooks brand new from Amazon. The deal was an amazing buyback if they were purchased brand new. Was I dreaming?? [more inside]
Years of Travail: The Birth of Labor and Radical Politics in the US 1870 - 1945
Good Books about history and personages of the American Left from post Civil War to WW2? [more inside]
where's the flush?
You are not my plumber: toilet water supply goes real slow [more inside]
Freeloaders Live Fake Orgasm
ObscureMusicFilter: I am trying to find a copy of a song by a band called The Freeloaders. The song was naughty. Hope me MeFites in finding me a copy of this! [more inside]
Lapsed sci-fi reader looking for a new literary love in all the wrong places.
I'm getting back into reading for pleasure after years of avoiding it during college. I've found fantasy books easy to get back into, but have no idea where to start with sci-fi! [more inside]
I need to tone it down a bit...
Sometimes some people tell me that I think too much and that I over think things. Is there a way that I can become more of a feeling person and less of a thinking person? [more inside]
Mom and Pop Conundrum
A husband-wife freelancing team has decided to become "official" in the eyes of Uncle Sam. It's just that the poor old guy doesn't make sense some times. Any mefites out there familiar with starting a business with their significant other? [more inside]
I am looking for a cover of a Bad Religion song "Give you Nothing"
I am looking for a cover of a Bad Religion song "Give you Nothing" [more inside]
How to shower with a busted hand?
Hack my hygiene! Yesterday I fell, hard, and broke 3 fingers on my left hand. (It's now wrapped in a stiff splint, with only my index finger and thumb operative, waiting to see the doc this week). I also have large abrasions above and below my left eye. How the heck am I supposed to shower, wash my hair, &c. without use of both hands? Complications inside. [more inside]
What is wrong with my Calengoo!?
What happened to my iPad Calengoo?!?! [more inside]
wiring in my walls (in the key of D)
Can anyone help me identify the sounds that my house makes? [more inside]
A great life for my elderly Pekingese
How to give my new 9-year-old Pekingese the healthiest, happiest life possible. [more inside]
Who retains legal rights to the logos of long defunct companies?
Who retains legal rights to the logos of long defunct companies? [more inside]
Should I call the auto insurance companies?
Very minor car accident. The other party exploded with anger even though I thought he was at fault. After he took down my insurance info, he sped away without exchanging more information. That was 2 days ago. I have not heard back from either his or my insurer. Should I call the insurers myself? What should I do? [more inside]
Changes in Police Hiring Practices
I am trying to find changes in the hiring policies of Police, especially changes in policies that allowed more women to enter the police force. For instance, I know there have been gender discrimination suits that have forced police forces to change height requirements and similar potentially discriminatory measures.
What is this song?
The chorus (sung by a woman) went something like: "Affair, affair - J'taime I love." Searching for those lyrics doesn't seem to help. I heard it often on JWAVE in Tokyo in about the early '90s, but it wasn't from Japan. Anyone?
Allergies cure?
What are the chances that I could conquer my seasonal allergies if I threw everything modern medicine has at them? [more inside]
The beautiful Mad Max dog that got away
I met a dog once. He was large, sturdy, and brindled, with a basically friendly demeanor. Other than a mohawk-like crest at the top of his head, he was hairless. What on earth was he? [more inside]
Traveling from NYC to Chicago via Memphis - Suggestions? Warnings?
Traveling from New York to Chicago for a wedding and taking a major detour... [more inside]
Why is this so hard?
We are looking for a small, used diesel car in the U.S. What are we doing wrong? [more inside]
Friends with your ex?
Why is being friends with your ex supposedly a good sign to future dating prospects? [more inside]
Audio-only line out on dock?
How come I can use my ipod classic with an A1256 Apple Universal Dock to play video with audio (iTunes movies) on my stereo tv, but i cant do the same with audio-only (iTunes podcasts)?
is $20k enough for a wedding today?
In you opinion how much of a wedding can you get for $20,000 in Chicago and the southwest suburbs? [more inside]
Do you remember these?
Hoping someone can help identify 2 movies from my distant past. It's been bugging me for a long time because I can't find the titles on the internets. [more inside]
Need to stalk down these jeans before the ones I have wear out
How can I find more jeans from this obscure clothing company? [more inside]
Mac Monitor Calibration Conundrum
Monitor Calibration Nightmare - Macbook Pro 13" ->DVI -> DELL 2407WFP - Did my Starcraft 2 installation screw up my color calibration? [more inside]
Encontrando podcasts
Spanish podcasts for intermediate/advanced speakers? [more inside]
How to get replacement passports for my parents?
How to help my parents get new copies of their passports so they can re-enter the US at the end of a Caribbean cruise? [more inside]
Multi-State Tax Fiasco
I am having some major tax issues and can't find the right way to go about filing for 2010.
I left to travel abroad in January 2010. However, I was finally paid my last part of a bonus in March 2010. I forwarded my address to my parents house in Illinois - but officially I don't really have proof that I actually lived in IL (No lease, no driver's license etc.).
To make things more complicated I lived in NYC and worked in Connecticut. Therefore, I have NY State, NY City and CT state taxes taken out of my pay check. Then I moved to Wisconsin in August of the same year.
What do I do/What state should I claim I was living in when I was received my final pay check? 1. Claim I was living in IL? 2. Claim I am not a resident of any state when I was last paid? 3. Claim I was living in WI? 4. Another option I am not thinking about?
Any advice would be appreciated/I know you aren't a tax professional!
This is worse than finding a needle in a haystack.
Did you ever meet two potential Significant Others with whom you felt an equal level of physical attraction, shared interests & common values over the course of several dates? How did you end up deciding which one was the Right One? How many dates did it take? What questions did you ask yourself? Did your thought process center mostly on emotions or practical concerns, and how did either approach (or both) help you choose your partner? [more inside]
What are the best techniques for learning languages?
What are the best mnemonic or other methods for learning a language? [more inside]
'99 Corolla...worth it?
'99 Corolla CE, 120,000 miles, $4700...help me decide if this is a good deal. [more inside]
Which camera should I buy?
Movin' on up filter: Nikon D3100 or Panasonic DMC-G2? [more inside]
Hey, that isn't a real city!
Why can I tell the difference between an aerial shot and a picture of a model? [more inside]
How do I replace both drives in a RAID 1 configuration?
How do I replace both drives in a RAID 1 configuration? [more inside]
Circuit for headlight LED works, but I don't know why
It's been cold recently (-15C) and I burned out two bulbs in my dutch bike's headlamp in a short time. Since the bulbs are hard to find, I thought this was a good time to replace the bulb with a 1-Watt LED light. What I built works, but I don't quite know why. [more inside]
travel-agent like website?
Is there a website where I can say "I want to go somewhere warm for 10 days with family" and the search results will be all over the place? [more inside]
What's the longest sentence you can make in English using only three letters of the alphabet?
What's the longest sentence you can make in English using only three letters of the alphabet? [more inside]
Who's that shouty guy with the mustache from the home shopping channel?
Does anybody know the name of the shouty guy with a mustache who was on all those home shopping channels in the 1990s, the one who is parodied in this Saturday Night Live sketch?
What kind of wheel chair would work inside a home that is not built to be accessible?
What kind of wheel chair would work inside a home that is not built to be accessible? [more inside]
Nuclear War! Giant Mutant Vegetables! The Comic Pages?
Does anyone remember this newspaper comic strip from the 1970's? It focused on life after a nuclear war, complete with sentient mutant vegetables. [more inside]
Help me get my anachronistic snake oil business off the ground
How can I make new glass look like old, buried glass? [more inside]
How much extra salt?
Chemistry, math nerds, and smart people please help me with this cooking question involving salt. [more inside]
Why oh why do you not work, fantastic washer of garments?
Did I break my washing machine? [more inside]
Amy Pond. Mad, impossible Amy Pond.
Doctor Who themed party at a local bookstore next weekend. Need ideas for costume for a little girl. [more inside]
How do I import food from the US?
To import food from the US to Europe, where do I start? [more inside]
Who's number 2?
According to Representative Mike Pence, Planned Parenthood is the largest recipient of federal funding under Title X. Who's the second largest? [more inside]
Canada + US + marriage = messy?
Talk to me about same-sex marriage in Canada between a citizen and a non-citizen. Rights, responsibilities, etc. [more inside]
A life-guard for my dog?
Where should I leave my puppy in my house? Swimming pools and dogs. [more inside]
Help us save energy so that we can help you save your $.
I run a medium sized (70 room) hotel with my family. The cost of our utilities is a continuing concern for the hotel. Guests routinely check-out of their rooms and leave all of the lights on, heater/air-conditioning on, television and radio playing. There are also incidents where the tap water is left running. We realize that there is a mentality that once the cost of the room has been determined, the guest assumes that they may "use" as much of the room/utility as they can. My question: is there a way for the hotel to place a small sign by the light-switch or the door that advises guests to help us conserve energy without being perceived as rude or cheap? Additionally, how would the wording on the sign read? [more inside]
Managing anxiety and depression in a stressful job
How do those of you with depression and anxiety manage demanding professional jobs? [more inside]
For never was a story of more woe than Juliet and her security cleared Romeo...
How do you best go about a relationship when you can't be honest with your partner? [more inside]
Portland, OR after Beijing, China?
Should I move to Portland, OR after years abroad? [more inside]
concentrated adblock?
A disgusting Google ad is popping up on nearly every website I visit. Is there any way to make it stop? [more inside]
Good vegetarian food in Brussels?
I'd like recommendations for vegetarian dining/drinking in Brussels; not necessarily vegetarian-specific restaurants, but any bars, cafes or other sites with a reasonable selection of non-meat/fish based dishes. [more inside]
Singing lessons on CD or DVD?
Are there singing lesson courses on DVD, CD or mp3 that are any good? They don't have to be perfect. I'm not going to be a professional singer; I'm just a guy who would like to learn a few basics about breathing, etc so that it's more fun singing in my car and shower. Thanks!
February 19
Pup pup and away!
I need to get from LA to OBX in May .... with my ~100 lb German Shepherd. Hive, give me your wisdom! [more inside]
My name is Laura, and I am not afraid.
Late '90s, '98-2001, Boston, local band. A female vocalist, and the lyrics:
"My name is Laura, and I am not afraid!" -
"You can crush my spirit, yes, you can crush my spirit, I am not afraid!"
Google has failed me, now you are my only hope...
How can I find a cheap undeveloped forested property in Western Washington (State)?
How can I find a cheap undeveloped forested property in Western Washington (State)? [more inside]
Help me find a song about making coffee
What song's lyrics contain a reference to a "#4 Melitta filter"? [more inside]
Where can I get a king cake in San Francisco?
Where can I get a king cake in San Francisco? [more inside]
STRONGER AND STRONGER STRAINS OF COMPUTER VIRUS
A Google search for my latest problem, the "AntiVira AV" Windows PC virus, pulls up an actual Sponsored Result from "wiki-security.com", which itself looks like a HOAX WEBSITE, suggesting that I purchase SpyHunter to remove the virus. How large is this conspiracy? [more inside]
How to balance family and boyfriend?
I don't know what to do about my relationship with my parents anymore. Or whom to spend spring break with - this is a weightier issue than it seems. [more inside]
Help me name a Hispanic employee network group
Help me name a Hispanic employee network group [more inside]
How do you viewing photos on your tv from a burned DVD?
How do you viewing photos on your tv from a burned DVD? [more inside]
similarsites.com but no similararticles.com
Can anyone point me to a URL that performs a "find similar articles" function? [more inside]
Keeping the home fires burning - frequent business travel
I travel frequently for work (at least one week/month domestic, plus regular international trips of up to 10 days and other short haul domestic trips, which often results in being away every second week). I am well set up for what I need on the road, but would welcome tips and hacks for preparing my home for while I am away and having it set up for my return. [more inside]
Single male seeks single female spy/assassin/action-heroine. Must love kids!
I get the feeling there's a lot of movies that feature an ordinary, plucky, independent single-mom, and her son, and the male hero who enters their life and serves as a father figure of sorts for the son (Terminator 2, Witness, The Day the Earth Stood Still). Are there gender-reversed examples of this, ie, single-father + daughter + heroine? And I'm thinking more of action/adventure type stuff, and not straight dramas.
What considerations should I make when looking for a software job in San Francisco if I want to continue living in Fresno?
What considerations should I make when looking for a software job in San Francisco if I want to continue living in Fresno part-time? [more inside]
what is this webcomic
Webcomic, drawn in a typical newspaper cartoon panel style, sort of raunchy, with a douche-bag main character who is sex obsessed. Ongoingstories, not gag panels Every weekend there is a retro strip, of the same character as a boy. What is it?
What should she be when she grows up?
What can a 27-year old with a BFA do for a semi-stable career? [more inside]
What does "FER-MAY-GHEN" mean?
German speakers, please tell me what this word means (and how it's actually spelled). [more inside]
What would you ask your dog's birth mom?
My family and I have been approved to adopted a standard (short hair) collie. We were approved by the New England Rescue organization after a visit over the summer. They have found a potential dog for us. What should we ask the owner? [more inside]
Did Steve Jobs ever publicly comment on jailbreaking iPhones?
A shameful failing of my Googling ability leads me to ask: Did Steve Jobs ever make a public statement about his feelings on "jailbreaking" iPhones? I see second hand quotes, but couldn't find anything solid.
Says she likes me but doesnt want to hurt me.
We dated, broke it off. Met again yesterday, she says she likes me but is scared of hurting me. Case of paralysis of analysis. [more inside]
Caribbean Advice
The Mrs. & I are looking for a 25th anniversary Caribbean vacation in late summer or fall and, never having been, are kind of overwhelmed. Advice? Experiences? See inside... [more inside]
Do you want a sandwich? Something open faced?
How are you supposed to eat an open faced sandwich? [more inside]
I want to spend a romantic weekend in a cabin near Washington DC with my girlfriend in March. Any recommendations?
I want to spend a weekend in a cabin within 3 hours of Washington DC with my girlfriend in March. I need something private with a hot tub and a fireplace and being a student, my budget isn't very high. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Career options for the passionless
I've been through four majors and I'm no closer to figuring out a career. Now what? [more inside]
I can't look like Prince Valiant!
What should I do about a bad haircut? [more inside]
PS3
PlayStation3 has stopped playing with Netflix. I have done the fixes I found on internet and set a help request to Playstation. However, if y'all have the solution, it would saving me waiting for Playstation to get back to me. [more inside]
Shouting fire in a crowded internet
I am a strong believer in free speech and a free press, but I work in a field where news coverage is used as rock-solid evidence with serious, even deadly consequences. I am looking for resources on how to reconcile free speech and responsible journalism...and what the limits of both ought to be, if any, both legally and morally. Canadian/American/British academic articles or books and examples or cases would be particularly welcome. [more inside]
Brain Biopsy?
Have you ever had a brain biopsy? How was it? [more inside]
Vegetables I'd like to meat
Besides coconut, what non-animal foodstuffs have "meat" in them? [more inside]
Should I get an MA in Anthropology?
Considering a Masters in Anthropology... curious about which programs are worth applying to and job/graduate options afterwards [more inside]
I swear it was not a dream.
Warning: extreme long shot searchfilter. I am trying to find a video I saw online a number of years ago, and despite best efforts, have not been able to locate it. [more inside]
Epic/Emotional Soundtrack Music?
I want more soundtrack music like Hans Zimmer - Time and Gattaca - The Departure -- really emotional, sweeping orchestral songs that tug at the heartstrings...
Who could actually make weed legal in the US?
How exactly would marijuana be decriminalized in the US? Who would effect its removal from Schedule 1? Is that something Obama could do? [more inside]
Everyday life at the time of Christ
Looking for information about daily life for everyday folks in the Middle East around the time of Christ. [more inside]
Do you use the same adjectives (high/low) for space and pitch in languages other than English?
LanguageFilter: A friend of mine was asking her various polyglot friends this question, and I thought I could help her get a wider scope: "In English, we describe high pitch and low pitch sounds with the same terms we use for things that are high and low in space ("high" and "low" could describe space or pitch). Is this also a convention in your language(s)?"
Scottish duel movie ID?
Movie ID Filter: 2 Scottish Clans make a circle and pit a representative of their respective clans for a duel. One huge guy with a broadsword and one regular size guy with a foil. The foil guy dances around cutting the big guy to ribbons until big guy finally grabs the foil with his off hand and cleaves the other guy in two.
Fired at work and I now need to get back on track
How to get my life back and remove the stigma after wrongful dismissal? [more inside]
Does Alaska have a huge surplus or huge deficit?
Can somebody explain to me how Alaska claims a budget surplus, yet is scores low nationally on deficit rankings? [more inside]
Looking for Netflix or similar in Japan.
Does anyone know of a Netflix or Hulu type streaming video service that is accessible outside of the U.S., in Japan specifically? No doubt Japan has its own such services, but I am considerably less than fluent in Japanese, so I am looking for English and English subtitled films/television. Also, I wouldn't be able at this point to navigate the Japanese services' websites, so I probably am looking for a U.S based service that allows overseas access. Thanks a lot.
These shoes were make for walkin... for 8 months
What's the average expected lifespan of a shoe, given daily wear? [more inside]
Which deck is this High Priestess from?
Does anyone know which Tarot deck this High Priestess card is from? (Ignore the yellow text over the card--it's a screen capture from a Youtube video.)
Inception Parkas
Any ideas what the winter parkas are in the ski fortress scene in Inception? This is the only decent picture I can find. [more inside]
Dealing with death...as an atheist.
How can I help my wife deal with the death of a loved one? I am an atheist and I find it hard. [more inside]
I don't know why there are separate titles, honestly.
Does stretching (before/after exercise) actually help in any measurable way at all? [more inside]
Well it's not the oil level (check engine light question)
First my check engine light went on. After checking the oil I saw it was getting low, refilled it. I took it to jiffy lube cause it was time for all that. Then, a few days later, the light came on again. I'm going to take it to a repair shop, but I want to know what to expect. [more inside]
Quatre jours a Paris
Can you help make a four day solo trip to Paris extra awesome? [more inside]
What to do in San Miguel de Allende?
Going to visit San Miguel de Allende in March. What to do? [more inside]
Where can I find link histories?
Is there any website that allows you to see the history of linking and traffic driven to a particular website? Explanation inside. [more inside]
I want to buy a really boring car.
I have about $9k to spend. What car should I buy? And where should I buy it? [more inside]
How to A-record DNS redirections work?
Some DNS registrars offer a service where they redirect anybody landing at http://yourdomain.com to http://www.yourdomain.com. What do they do to the DNS record to make this happen, particularly if the www is a CNAME record (that is, not an IP address)?
Boston North End Apt Search
Hey everyone... I have the dreaded task of looking for an apartment in Boston this spring. My boyfriend and I are looking for a 1 bedroom in the North End for no more than $1200 with heat and hot water. I know this will be pretty difficult to find, but I was wondering if anyone knew where I could find apartment postings by landlords themselves in stores in the north end, a website, etc. [more inside]
Looking for Gursky Schiphol Airport Poster.
A similar question has been asked before but I am looking for a Gursky poster for my apt- ideally (one of) the Schiphol airport series. [more inside]
Resolve this Paradox
Resolve this paradox! I'd like to combine the following: volunteering, nature&fresh air, and the New York City environs. Suggestions? [more inside]
Alternate YouTube interfaces
What alternative, userfriendly interfaces to YouTube exist? [more inside]
Aviation Shutdown?
If the fools in Washington end up causing a shutdown of the federal government, would all commercial flights be canceled?
My former employer leaked my ss number!
Can I sue my former employer for leaking my social security number, email address and physical address? [more inside]
Python for beginners
Python noob alert...
Looking to write a mood tracking program in python. I am definitely a noob programmer. I had one required class in college (mumble years ago). I know what I want to do, but I'm wondering if there's a more elegant way to do it. [more inside]
Austin Here We Come
My wife and I need an itinerary for our Austin scouting trip. We are coming with high hopes next week, without the kids ( 2 and 6 months ), to scout out Austin as a potential place to live. [more inside]
Weird nails
Are my nails going to fall off? [more inside]
Bloody dilemma
How can I (should I) talk to my roommate about leaving the toilet seat bloody during her period? [more inside]
February 18
I saw someone famous from the 70's when I looked at my friend's photo.
What actress or famous person from the 60's/70's does my friend resemble? [more inside]
Protect Kindle DX from drops?
What's the best bet to protect my Kindle DX from my accidentally dropping it? A hard-shell case? Some kind of case with wrist straps? Any particular recommendations?
Why so much leakage?
As a test, when I have music on loud, I take my earbuds out, hold them a few feet away from myself, and I can't hear it.
Yet, I can clearly hear the words in the songs of people wearing headphones 20 feet away from me in the subway. Do their headphones have terrible leakage? Do they have their music on earsplitting levels? [more inside]
Good foam or bad foam?
Is a green foam on steel cut oats normal? [more inside]
Reliable flat shoes: DO YOU HAZ THEM?
Recommendations for good quality ballet flats? [more inside]
RomanianInterjectionFilter
How do you say "oh God!" in Romanian? [more inside]
Wikipedia might be a reliable source, surely.
Help me agitate my course facilitator and change his opinion of wikipedia: What are some wikipedia pages that are edited by authoritative professionals or recognized field experts?
What are some objects that a patient in the hospital can safely "fiddle" with?
What are some objects that a patient in the hospital can safely "fiddle" with? [more inside]
Can you make my brain my screenshot?
I'm diagramming the history of visual arts in my city. I need a "database" -- I use the term loosely -- to help me keep the connections straight. Does such a thing exist? [more inside]
Where can I find furniture hardware like in this picture?
Where can I find furniture hardware like in this picture? [more inside]
"Everything has gone from me but the certainty of your goodness."
I just received a grant to conduct original research on Virginia and Leonard Woolf. Yay! Now what? [more inside]
It's just a crush, why do I feel so anxious?
How can I manage my situational anxiety when the situation is being attracted to someone? Part of the problem is that I'm used to a particular romantic scenario, but I think it's an unhealthy one and want to avoid it in future. Not sure how to act when it's not fast and furious. [more inside]
how can i commission a little painting?
my friend has a photo (not this one, but one that's similar in that there are lots of different characters doing zany things) that she wants turned into a mini painting. etsy alchemy is 'being phased out,' apparently. how could she find an artist who is willing to paint this for her? [more inside]
Tell me about chiwalking
Do you have any experience with ChiWalking? Has it helped you prevent / recover from injuries? Helped you get fit? Made your life awesome? [more inside]
What is the world worth these days?
Ecological Economics filter: Is there a more current estimate of the global value of ecosystem services than Costanza's 1997 estimate of $33 trillion? [more inside]
How to recognize the best mangoes?
How to recognize the best mangoes? [more inside]
New to Crohn's
My boyfriend was just diagnosed with Crohn's disease. What questions should we ask his GI doctor at his next appointment? [more inside]
What name should I pick?
I've joined a roller derby league, and the time has come for me to pick a name. Help me come up with something nerdy and awesome! [more inside]
Where to have a work breakfast near Lincoln Center/John Jay in NYC?
My boss and I are meeting in NYC next Monday morning and I need a place for breakfast near the 59th Street/Columbus Circle/Red Line Subway Stop. [more inside]
Quality TV Shows?
Recommendations for good shows and/or podcasts for me? I do not like reality tv, sitcoms or cooker cutter serial dramas i.e. CSI. [more inside]
Inner-city Batting Cages in Houston, TX
Can anyone recommend a batting cage *within the 610 loop* in Houston, TX? [more inside]
Overcoming the cultural divide
How to tell my Muslim parents about my white boyfriend? [more inside]
How can I have confidence in a professional setting?
I will be attending an industry conference for the purposes of networking and I need to find the right mindset in order to create the best impression. This includes networking when I have little to no initial contacts, trying to impress industry professionals, and keeping it together through the week. Success is going to be tantamount to me appearing confident, how do I get in the right mindset? [more inside]
Will there be a new high capacity iPod soon?
My trusty 60gig iPod finally bit the dust. Capacity is crucial to me. Should I buy a new 160gig iPod Classic, or is there a general consensus that Apple will be releasing something new soon for the high-capacity iPod crowd?
Where to have a desert bonfire near Santa Barbara?
What's a good place to have a bonfire in the desert near Santa Barbara? [more inside]
Seeking intelligent books on food/health
Hello everyone-
I wish to learn more about the different types of food and the effect they have on the human body. [more inside]
She's a good cat.
My cat's left eye is weepy and shutting. Her inner eyelid looks like it might be infected. What can I do for her? [more inside]
Just Like Mom Used To Make, But Snobbier.
What homemade or "real food" ingredient can I substitute in recipes that call for Cream Of Whatever soup? [more inside]
Trying to go to McMurdo Station in Antarctica for a drink and then leave after about six hours
I would like to go from Chicago to McMurdo Station in Antarctica, have a drink at the local bar, hang about for about six hours or so, and then leave. Any ideas on how I would go about doing that?
A lie that speaks the truth
On balance if you were to take all the rumors that are published in blogs, newspapers, etc. about business news, celebrity happenings, etc. would the trend be that more rumors end up being true or false? [more inside]
Am I just using these laundry detergent bottles incorrectly?
Why are these push-button laundry detergent bottles so messy? Is there some secret to dealing with push-button nozzle laundry detergent bottles that I'm just missing? [more inside]
Movie (memory) fragments
Help me remember a movie where part is live action, part is comic book drawing and the guy is trying to get over a relationship. [more inside]
Change Reading Font in Outlook
Please help me increase the font size of Outlook. [more inside]
I'll be your mirror--but I'd rather not
I've realized that I mirror people's emotions back at them way too much, especially at work. I have a lot of trouble dealing with an accountant who is very nervous and fussy because I get nervous and fussy along with her; I also mirror the tone of another accountant who is very aggressive and accusatory over routine no-wrongdoing things. In each case, I escalate behavior that is already upsetting. How can I stop? [more inside]
Who carries witch hazel gel?
Looking for witch hazel gel. Help! [more inside]
Puzzled by Elusiveness of Puzzle Game
Looking for mid-90s Windows-based puzzle game. [more inside]
Help me with mortgage tools
Are there any good tools for visualizing mortgage options? [more inside]
CAT scan for kitty?
Cat is getting an X-Ray tomorrow in search of a tumor. Is this the correct procedure? If you went through cancer with your cat please find more info inside... [more inside]
Help me identify a bit of sound
Could someone please tell me the original song that features the breath sound with delayed effect that you hear in this sample (check at about 0.06). This is a snippet I recorded from a recent mix by MJ Cole.
Perhaps it's even one of Mr. Cole's songs.. but which? And if it is do you think the breath sound was created by him or was it sampled from older material? I'm almost certain I've heard it elsewhere.
Music for a Time Cube Infomercial.
Updated for Spring 2011: Please recommend your most oblique, sideways, unsettling, and unusual dance music. [more inside]
Do YOU know any "formula recipes"?
I'm looking for simple recipes which follow a set procedure, but whose ingredients can be easily changed up. [more inside]
Help me find this resume template
Help me find this resume template [more inside]
Help my students see!
The lecture section of my Human Bio class is in a roughly 25x50 ft computer lab. The class is packed, I barely have enough seats for everyone, and better than half of my students can't see what is going on in the front of the classroom.
Help me modify my teaching style and technology so my whole class can see my notes, videos etc. [more inside]
Need used car recommendations
Need recommendations for a used car that meets certain conditions, snowflake inside. [more inside]
Tool you need that doesn't already exist
What is the one tool that you need or would love to have at work that doesn't already exist (but that you've found an unideal workaround for)? [more inside]
Flushed
I'm looking for a good plumbing supply store, preferably in lower Manhattan. [more inside]
Raise the (Fiscal) Roof
How much will requesting a credit limit increase hurt me? [more inside]
I am not a tourist.
In Orange Country, California for a few days. What tourist spots would be appropriate for a "right winger" tour? [more inside]
Colorblind and 3D vision?
Can people with red-green colorblindness see depth in 3D comic books where you look through red-blue glasses? Personal testimony from my colorblind readers would be most compelling to me, as the optics are complicated.
Help me be less paranoid about getting fired.
Help me be less paranoid about getting fired. [more inside]
Bar Hopping Puzzle Hunt Ideas
I'm planning a bachelor party in a few months. As a surprise for the "bar hopping" part of the evening, we plan to have a puzzle/scavenger hunt from bar to bar. Starting at our dinner location, there will be some puzzle or task that the bachelor has to perform to figure out where to go next (and maybe what to do there). For example: At one bar, he will have to try to buy a drink with Monopoly money. The bartender will know to give him his drink and also an envelope full of scrabble tiles, which he then has to unscramble into a name of another bar and.. well.. [more inside]
Shirts vs Skins
Do people that play pick up basketball in your area do shirts and skins(i.e. one team plays with shirts off, one keeps their shirts on)? [more inside]
It's a real....fixer-upper....
Where do I begin with home renovations? [more inside]
Is human-level intelligence only possible in land-based mammals?
Given enough time and the right circumstances, would it be possible for non-land-based mammals to develop human levels of intelligence? What about non-mammals, land-based or otherwise? [more inside]
Help me identify this bug
Help me identify this bug. [more inside]
name that tune: an ancient transmission from Mars...
So... nineteen years ago I recorded the top 30 countdown on Mars FM, a radio station in L.A.
Four years ago I dumped those cassette tape recordings to MP3, and in the process I found this song that I've been wondering about all this time. The end of the tape comes right as the announcer is about to say what it is. All I can tell you, which I highly doubt will help at all, is that it was #16 on the Mars FM Top 30 for January 4th, 1992.
I asked some friends about it at the time, but nobody knew what it was, and Tunatic wasn't able to decipher it, so I forgot about it for a while, but just the other day I remembered it for some strange reason, so now I'm posting it here to Ask MeFi. Can anyone name this early-90s rave anthem?
What movie is this from?
I vaguely recall a scene from a movie where an apartment building raises and lowers to let people off/on at the ground floor. I'm thinking it was a comedy. Does anyone know what movie this was in?
buffering...
It would be rad if my iPhone could stream podcasts instead of downloading them to the hard drive. [more inside]
Is 'Duck' a place or an instruction?
Help two Londoners plan a road-trip to the Outer Banks - we have no idea where to start! Advice from Americans is needed... [more inside]
Risks of aldosterone suppression test?
Aldosterone suppression test, AKA oral salt loading test - how dangerous is it? [more inside]
Is my TomTom spying on me?
Why does my portable GPS power on of its own accord? (conspiracy theories welcome) [more inside]
Can we whitelist some NR films on our otherwise PG-13 Netflix account?
My wife and I set our Netflix account to show only PG-13 and below, but now we can't watch shows like The Rockford Files or Sherlock Holmes or even Hardy Boys and Nancy Drew Mysteries (!), because they're not rated (NR). Is there a whitelist feature we can use, or something like it? [more inside]
How can I increase the brightness of a color without increasing perceived saturation?
I'm working on a website that lets users set their own page colors. They only pick a handful of colors, then I'm offsetting the brightness (converting to hsv, add/subtract v) for things like shaded boxes, lines, faded text, etc. The problem is that in HSV, when you decrease brightness, the perceived saturation decreases (and when you increase brightness, the perceived saturation increases). How can I create these offset colors while making the saturation appear the same as the original color? Is there a formula for this? Should I be using a different color space?
What's Food? I need FOOD
What happens that results in business women not eating lunch, or anything throughout the day? [more inside]
Help me be a Cricket Hero
Where can I go to watch the Cricket World Cup in Chicago? [more inside]
Level up, Super Me 3
I want to gamify (see Gamification) my current fitness routines. Tell me what tools to use and suggestions for fun times! [more inside]
Does Anyone Put On A Show Like Tom Waits?
When Tom Waits plays live, he really puts on a show- with banter, jokes, stories, etc- as you can hear in the opening to "Nighthawks at the Diner". Does anyone else perform in this style- in the sort of jazz bandleader/comedian role? [more inside]
Computer says no one more time, it's going out the Window^W Linux
Why can't I delete these files from my Linux server? [more inside]
Milk baths?
Amazing skin forever? At my ritzy gym I constantly see older gentlemen with the most amazing skin quality: smooth, clear, even tone, even lightly tanned. What have they done to get/keep this peternatual skin quality and what can I do now as a younger man to get it?
Best Camera/Video for New Parents?
Best camera/video device + software for new parents who want to take artistic photos of their baby? [more inside]
Advice for PE test?
Any advice on taking the Mech. Engineering PE test, beyond taking the refresher course? [more inside]
Phrases about machines.
Do you know (un)common phrases about machines? [more inside]
Overwhelmed and Seeking Perspective
Is it automatically wrong to stay with someone if you have doubts regarding the ultimate strength of your compatibility and ability to stay together for the long-haul? For once I want to try to relax and see where things go, but I don't want to be hurtful to this wonderful woman. It is a bit complicated, since we broke off our engagement 2 months ago, we are both women in our early-to-mid 30s who each want a child at some point, and I have serious anxiety problems which paralyze my thinking, and which make me feel extra immature when faced with overwhelming questions like this. [more inside]
Dog Chewed Through Exterior Cable TV Cable
My dog chewed through my exterior Cable TV cable (provider is Shaw Cable). A service tech is coming this afternoon to repair.
Any idea what its going to cost to repair? Thanks.
Looking for quality British "reality" programming
Looking for quality British "reality" programming.... [more inside]
How do I get tested for a hedgehog allergy?
How do I get tested for a hedgehog allergy? [more inside]
Help me use Gu for the first time.
Please advise me about using Gu for the first time while running. [more inside]
How to develop and Ipad app with no programming skills.
I'm not a programmer so what tools/resources should I pursue to make an Ipad application? [more inside]
Excel template for a great database of the world's religions
So let's say hypothetically that I decided to make a database of the world's religions and that I wanted to organize the data by a few properties ... [more inside]
renting out your house
Homeowners who own a single family house - I wanted to ask your experiences renting out a single family house? I own an older SFH in the DC area, and I was thinking (potentially) about the possibility of relocating for work in the future. [more inside]
Unusual American History 101.
American history nerds: What are your favorite unusual, quirky, or unique events in American history? [more inside]
Where can I find a chiropractor willing to adjust me the way I want?
I have a chiropractic question but I don't want to hear about whether chiropractors are all quacks, etc. [more inside]
Where is this place?
I came across this picture on a pic dump site and was curious to know where it is. Can anyone identify the location?
Any recommendations for a good psychiatrist in Las Vegas?
Hi all! A really good friend of mine is looking for a psychiatrist out here in Las Vegas, Nv. She's had bad experiences with them in the past, and the one good one she found ended up retiring some time ago. She's currently on foreign medication and wants to transition to US drugs, so wants to find a new doc to help with figuring out what she should be on, etc (basically, high anxiety issues and some other things, but a lot of it stemming from some really rough events in her past).
Any recommendations?
Hockey stick similar to TPS Tricore 3?
I'm looking to purchase a new hockey stick. My favorite shaft is the Louisville TPS Tricore 3 but they've been discontinued for a while. Do you know of a stick similar to the Tricore?
I want a composite shaft and I particularly enjoy the wood outer shell on the Tricore composite.
There are pictures of the Tricore on this site: http://hockey.inlinewarehouse.com/showthread.php?t=10557
As for me, I play forward, 5'7", 150lbs. I take the occasional slap shot but I'm more of a stick handling, dangling, deking, wrist shot type of player. I realize stick choice is a personal preference but I'm really hoping there's something similar to the Tricore out there somewhere.
"I think I got half of it, which got me through the half I didn't." "Like the first season of The Wire."
What are the pop culture references cited in Season 1 of the TV show Community? [more inside]
February 17
What to ask Brian Greene?
I get to meet a celebrity physicist next week! How do I be an interesting ignoramus? [more inside]
Cat boarding. Slightly less traumatic than water boarding.
Where is an excellent place to board my cats for a week and a half in Philadelphia. [more inside]
Help me find this New Yorker cartoon.
Help me find an electronic version of this New Yorker cartoon. It was published within the past couple of years and is an illustration of a teacher receiving an apple from one of her students; she says something like, "Billy, I don't want an apple. I want money." Thank you!
Sourdough, pukey but delicious!
Why does all sourdough bread leave me feeling nauseated? [more inside]
Should I go to SE Asia this summer or is it too rainy?
I want to travel this summer - in the "backpacking" sense - and I'd love advice on where to go. I'm leaning towards ~6-7 weeks in Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, Burma..but I'm worried about the rainy season. Should I go somewhere else? How many countries should I hit? Any other advice? [more inside]
Design book Part II
TiVo to iPad via Mac?
Has anyone copied TiVo's recorded shows to their Mac and, if so, how? [more inside]
Synth solo in Led Zep's "All My Love"?
Led Zeppelin's "All My Love": where else has that synth solo been used? [more inside]
Anonymous Jellyfish
Asking for a friend - can anyone tell me exactly what type of jellyfish this is?
Satan drives a Ford
Songfilter: Cover/parody of The Devil Went Down to Georgia, but Johnny has a Chevy and Satan drives a Mustang in a race for a bar (or Johnny's soul of course). I think one line was "this here Chevy's my last hope." Help me find the artist & title and even better the song somewhere on these intertubes.
Six weeks in China...
Hi Mefis,
This is an open-ended question about taking a long trip to China. My boyfriend and I will be spending about six weeks traveling throughout China from early March through mid April... [more inside]
Help me make an ass end of a unicorn of myself.
There's a con at the end of March that I'll be attending, and I only just thought of the costume I'd love to be part of. I think it would be hilarious and incredibly fun for my friend and I to go together as a pantomime unicorn. I would welcome suggestions to make it clever... hopefully with a bit of style. [more inside]
How should we split this travel bill?
How should two sisters split the benefit of gifted frequent flyer miles when they have different sized families? [more inside]
Finding IT jobs in (K-12) education
For various reasons, I've decided to find an IT job at a school, preferably NOT at the college level, though I'm somewhat open to the idea. Let's just say that my credentials/resume/references are not the issue. The issue is finding job openings in educations! [more inside]
Teenage Girls and Black Swan
I mentor a 13 year old girl who someone saw the movie Black Swan (she downloaded it illegally, I suppose), and she really wants to talk about it. I'm kind of at a loss as to how to even begin this conversation. [more inside]
Is splitting HDMI out into HDMI video + RCA audio possible?
Hi hive mind, hope you're well.
Here's hoping one or more of you might be able to help me out with an A/V setup question. I've been (slowly) building a fairly decent setup piece-by-piece around an Optoma projector. Trouble is, I now have an issue splitting an HDMI combined A/V signal into HDMI video + RCA audio. A little help here, please! [more inside]
Visiting Iceland - where to go?
Visiting Iceland - where to go? [more inside]
Mens no show socks in earth tone colors
I'm looking high and low for men's no show socks in earth tone colors, but coming up empty. The ones I've found are either not really no show (like they're not truly below the ankle - and I'd like them to be below shoe-top level), or they're too expensive. I need some for about $7 per pair, max. And non-white and non-black is a must (earth tones are what I'm really hoping for, but I may have to settle for gray.). Please help! Thanks!
Childproofing hacks for traveling?
Childproofing hacks for traveling? I'll be traveling in Mexico with my 2yo and 5.5yo, staying in a variety of places (rental houses, condos, B&Bs, and hotels). Given my experience with hotels in general, I think I'll need to childproof on the spot without knowing in advance what the trouble spots are and without having access to lots of supplies. Will the traveling parents of MeFi lend me their hacks? [more inside]
Bettering an Experience
"What can I use to paint a low temperature thermoplastic splint that is being worn by a five year old? [more inside]
concert listings for major us cities?
Are there any other good concert listings sites for major metro areas like http://stevelist.com/list provides for the bay area? [more inside]
I'm sure I have relatives...somewhere.
[biogeography filter] Both of my parents are adopted. How can I find out more about my ethnic heritage? Complicating factors inside. [more inside]
Safely remove popcorn ceilings?
I recently purchased a condo and it comes with popcorn ceilings. I want them removed but I had an asbestos abatement company come to look at them and they determined that they contained a "trace" amount, or less than one percent, asbestos. They provided me an outlandish quote for safe and sanitary (as well as legally up and up) removal. Doing some web research, I find their quote to be about standard for what similar companies charge. [more inside]
How can I make the pain due to bruxism stop?
I've been grinding my teeth for a while now. I have a fancy mouth guard, yet I still have constant jaw pain and headaches. Anyone have any advice on how I can make this stop? [more inside]
What on Earth is this?
What is this? I've had it hanging on my wall for a year or two. It was found on the sand below the water line at the Fire Island National Seashore/Wilderness. It's lightweight and friable, like a sea creature. It's 24 cm (9.4 inches) long by 11 cm (4.3 inches) wide. 24 cm is 1.7 monkey skulls, if that helps.
Quirky little places of inspiration in Seattle
Please point me towards quirky little places of inspiration in Seattle
I Have a Real Estate Tax Question...
A real estate/math/tax question. I sold my house for $210,000. The buyers wanted a new roof but wanted that included in the loan so the sale price was changed to $217,000 and the $7000 for the roof was paid out of escrow. When I do my taxes next year do I need the receipt for the roof or do the buyers? I believe that since I technically paid for the roof, the cost of the roof could be used to offset the capital gains on the house. What do you think?
How can I get decent healthcare w/o insurance and somewhat limited funds?
My husband used to love his IT job. Things changed, now he hates it, because his new work is boring and his new boss is a bully. So he might have found another job... but it has no paid vacation and no health benefits. I am a (secular) homeschooling stay-at-home mom with several chronic health problems. Can I somehow manage to deal with my physical symptoms w/o insurance, because I know it would be mentally better for both of us for him to not work for the bully. [more inside]
Games That Talk About Their Own Buttons
I know that some fairly recent video games, at least as recent as Ocarina of Time, have moments where characters (or physical signposts) inside of the game talk about the buttons that the player has to hit. I have a vague memory of this occurring in much older games, maybe characters in NES games saying "make sure you equip your weapon on the start menu" or things like that , but I can't locate them. Can anyone verify times where this happens?
Nokia 2730 not working.
Today I bought a Nokia 2730; stupidly, I took the battery out before taking it home. Now, even though it says the battery is charged, the phone won't work. Help! [more inside]
This is my book, in Korean. How can I buy it?
My book was translated into Korean. How can I buy a copy? [more inside]
Help me find an orthopedist in the Bay Area!
Can you recommend a great orthopedist in or around San Francisco? [more inside]
Porsche 911 or Boxster or...?
Porsche 911 or Boxster or...?
Please help us choose our next car!
My wife and I are getting a second-hand car and are looking for something fun to drive on the New Zealand B-roads. What we are looking for:
- A fun and quick driver’s car. Practicality is not a major concern, but…
- A reasonably comfortable and luxurious car (ruling out a Lotus for example!)
- A reliable car. Neither of us knows anything about fixing cars
- Price in US$ maximum $30,000
Which car would you choose? [more inside]
Good online loose-leaf tea vendors?
Good online loose-leaf tea vendors? [more inside]
Need help selecting an upgrade from Apple Earbuds.
Need help selecting an upgrade from Apple Earbuds. [more inside]
How can I contact the South Korean post office?
As an English-speaker in the US, how can I contact a South Korean post office to resolve a delivery problem? [more inside]
New email notifications for Facebook Pages
New update to Facebook Pages gives email notifications to admins. I'm one of the admins but don't want these; how do I personally opt out? [more inside]
Help me find this data visualization blog.
Good Data and Visualization Blogs? In particular, I recall one based out of an analytics company in Chicago (that maybe uses Python?) that discussed an automated dimensionality reduction using some sort of regression technique.
Which box to choose?
I've decided that I want to get an Internet TV box of some sort. I'd like to stay under 150 dollars, and would probably be using it to watch Netflix Instant mainly, but would be interested in other features as well. What can you tell me about the different models on the market, and which would be the best value?
I-95 Eats
Any worthwhile pit stops along I-95 in the Northeast Corridor? [more inside]
Guidance Councilor for Adults?
Are there guidance councilors for adults? I never learned how to find a job or advance within career paths. [more inside]
Awesome online shopping in Australia
Awesome online stores in Australia? [more inside]
Where do I look for cheap wireless earphones?
I'm looking for an inexpensive set of wireless earbuds/earphones. Where do I start? [more inside]
How to retrieve precious text messages from Nokia 2610?
Need to somehow retrieve SMS text messages from old, low-end Nokia 2610 cellphone. Please, someone save me from hours of mind-numbing thumbery. Details, including things I've tried, follow. [more inside]
Non-profit tax help in NYC
Recommendations for an NYC accountant familiar with non-profit business and personal (freelance) taxes? [more inside]
Help me hope my brother.
I'm looking for an inpatient rehab center in Northern California for my brother. He is early 30s, extremely depressed, and mainly has a problem with alcohol but also cocaine to a lesser extent. [more inside]
Exercise makes you fat.
I started exercising and eating less, and I'm gaining weight. I highly doubt I'm building muscle. Is this going to stop eventually? [more inside]
It's my sink and I'll move it if I want to.
I have a sink in my basement I would like to relocate. I would like to do this with a minimum amount of plumbing. I shall explain my intentions with a few pictures and way too many words inside. [more inside]
In Wisconsin We Say Forward?
Some time ago I heard a metal/hardcore song with the lyrics "In Wisconsin we say Forward!" as the shouted chorus. What song was it? [more inside]
En route to zoom
Best place online to find free/cheap Massachusetts DMV's permit test questions and answers for practice? [more inside]
Astrowoman
Can anyone give me more information about this photo, or a link to a high-res version? [more inside]
Next time, call your mother when you need bailing out.
How far to go for semi-estranged relative in big legal trouble due to their own foolishness? Anonymous because I need some plausible deniability. More inside. [more inside]
How export list of sent emails?
Outlook filter: How can I export a list of sent emails to Excel? [more inside]
Is there something that will detect/count circles in a photo?
How can I detect circles/ovals in a photo, and ideally count them automatically? [more inside]
Muscianship at work?
What can I do when I am away from my instruments to be a better musician? [more inside]
What's the best way to donate a timeshare?
Does anyone have any good advice/experience for donating a timeshare? [more inside]
How can I manually backup/restore an entire WHM/cPanel account?
I'm looking for a manual alternative to the WHM's built in "Copy an account..." function. [more inside]
Wet House
I just read this article and I'm curious about this place. A little searching brings up proposed sites elsewhere but I am wondering if any exist, specifically in the North East. Has anyone ever heard of such a place?
How many branches does each bank have?
Where can I download a list of how many branches each bank and credit union in the United States has?
"volunteer" engineering positions with a stipend?
How do I find engineering or science research positions abroad where I can help communities and will cover my living expenses? [more inside]
What Power a Paper Towel Holds in the Microwave!
Why does the addition of a layer of paper towel make such a big difference when microwaving certain foods? [more inside]
Help me AskMe, you're my only hope...
What alternatives are there to IO9?
What are the cool review and news sites for science fiction and fantasy? For comic books? For sf&f tv and movies? [more inside]
WHY YOU DIE ON ME NOW?
Have I killed my HP dv6700 dead? Whenever I plug in the AC adapter, the LED panel lights up like this, with the speaker LED flickering purple. Hitting the power button makes the screen flash intermittently. No response beyond that. [more inside]
What to do about a possibly dead dog?
A family I know of, but do not know personally, has been looking for their lost dog for two months. Today on my way to work, I saw a deceased dog on the side of the expressway that matches the general description of the lost dog. What do I do next? [more inside]
Please give me some hope.
Please give me some hope. [more inside]
2 questions for those experienced in working from home
2 questions for those experienced in working from home [more inside]
Convection, subduction, confusion
How can I visualize geological phenomenons? [more inside]
Trouble streaming Amazon VOD while watching it through my TV
Everytime I watch Amazon streaming video on my TV (via my laptop) my internet connection goes away. If I watch Amazon streaming on my laptop and don't connect it to the TV, I'm fine.
What's the deal? Tech specs and more detail inside. [more inside]
What's causing my sudden headaches?
YANAD - What could be the cause of a recurring headache on the back of my head? [more inside]
Help me transfrom my suburban yard into a patch of Texas.
I would like to populate my yard with native plants that would grow on their own in my local climate (read: no extra watering, very low care). How can I, a gardening novice, successfully transfer cuttings of live plants I encounter on my hikes around the area to my yard? What should I look for? What should I avoid? [more inside]
neighbor toddler tantrums
My new neighbor's toddler throws constant tantrums. Can I say something? [more inside]
Great TV Shows on Netflix?
What are the best television series that are available on Netflix Watch Instantly? [more inside]
Chaining Up A Dog--How Can I Stop This?
My parents have a guard dog that they chain up, all day and all night. How do I stop this? [more inside]
EVIL is the way to go, but you must show me the way
I would like a new camera. Please help me find the perfect one for my needs. [more inside]
Need MacBook advice.
Looking for advice on 1) which Mac laptop to buy (yes, I know the rumors of a MacBook Pro refresh in early March; we'd wait for the new models) and 2) how to integrate a happy home network of Macs. [more inside]
How to deal with looting and mismanagement after an apartment fire?
A large group of friends recently lost nearly everything they owned in a devastating apartment fire last month. Since then, the building - and their lives - have sat in limbo while looters have been free to ransack the building at their leisure. What options, legal and otherwise, do my friends have to hold somebody accountable for this gross mismanagement? [more inside]
Less Verbal Top Hat, More Verbal Hankerchief
I want some new verbal affectations or expressions that I can use to express my personality without looking either anachronistic or a jackass. [more inside]
What's a great 1 or 2 week adventure on the West coast?
I'm looking for a great retreat to do in late March/early April in Northern CA, Oregon or Washington state. I'm going to be in Portland, OR at the end of March and then in San Francisco and LA mid-April. I'm thinking that instead of returning to Vermont in the meantime I could stay on the West coast and find something fun to do (really? ya think?). [more inside]
"Remember to buy eggs, milk, piano strings."
At a chamber music concert I attended on Monday evening, the pianist came out and, just as he was sitting down to start, used a pen to write down a couple of things at the top of his score. What and why? [more inside]
Mappoint Alternative
Looking for a free Mappoint alternative GIS program... any suggestions? I'd prefer not to use Google Earth, so something else... [more inside]
Please help me with my fear of being in a car...
Please help me with my fear of driving - either as the actual driver or even in the passenger seat. [more inside]
Help me keep my house.
My bank informed me a couple of months ago that the refinance of my home under Making Home Affordable is a no-go. Help me work something out anyway. [more inside]
Is being an administrator for a games designer a bad idea if I want to become a games designer myself?
If my ambition is to become a creative techy person, am I likely to be negatively typecast if I work for a tech-company in a non-tech, non-creative job? (Special snowflake details inside) [more inside]
Help My Friend Kick it to the Next Level
(posting for a friend):
My friend, a small business owner, has a delightful store but realizes that she needs a web presence. She has neither the cash nor the know how to make it happen. Is there help for her? [more inside]
Teach me how to Tighten Up!
The song is The Tighten Up and the band is Archie Bell & the Drells, but the dance????? This song is the bomb and I know there was an associated dance, but after a fair amount of internet research, I've got nothing. [more inside]
Forgotten feel-good poem
Long forgotten poem filter: do you know who wrote this poem? [more inside]
Contemplating the ethics of using a job prospect as leverage with my current employer
Is it bad form or unethical to use a new job prospect as leverage for a raise/promotion at the existing job? [more inside]
Song ID filter. Japanese/Chinese female vocalist, accompanied by cello/violin only, in the late 90's.
Song ID filter. Japanese/Chinese female vocalist, accompanied by cello/violin only, in the late 90's. Phonetic attempt at the only line I can remember inside. [more inside]
February 16
Beautiful film poster
Eldritch Horrors, Please!
SeattleFilter: Where can I buy weird old stuff? [more inside]
War & Revolution Tactics 101
Can you point me at some resources where I can learn more about revolutionary tactics? I'm looking for books describing strategies and tactics used in historical revolutions, or instructional books, perhaps in the vein of Clausewitz's On War.
Basically, imagine your town is being defended by a guerilla platoon made up of the local teenagers. What books / blogs / etc would you have wanted the guerilla leader to have read?
What are some good poems for Young Adults?
I need to find some poems for Young Adults. They have to be by published authors, and they should fit into the theme of "heroes".
Would my forum work?
Would my forum work? [more inside]
No law saves the Queen?
Is there a mechanism enshrined in law by which the British monarchy could be removed by a popular vote?
Fruit and Veg
Help a Fruit and Veg Newbie! [more inside]
For young Tam-Lin is there.
Can you recommend me songs, bands, or compositions that evoke moods similar to those of nursery rhymes or fairy tales? [more inside]
Quick Translation Help with European Languages for a Balloon Project?
I need to know how to write "Hello! I'm HARMLESS!" in every language from Norway to North Africa! Want to help? My friends are sending a robot balloon across the Atlantic Ocean to Europe, and I'm designing a label for it tonight. Sound fun? I'd also love to have a couple of sentences about the project translated into French, German, and Spanish. [more inside]
Looking for a bargain on a Dell UltraSharp
How should I go about getting the best deal on one of the Dell UltraSharp monitors? [more inside]
Where do I click from here?
Where do the really smart people hang out online, and discuss varied topics? [more inside]
Food delivery in Portland, OR
Food delivery as a gift in Portland, OR? [more inside]
eMac, meet G3
[AncientMacintoshFilter] Is there a way to get an eMac to fileshare with a G3 (blue-and-white tower)? In the good old days, I would have whipped out an AppleTalk cable and called it done, but the eMac does not have an AppleTalk port. [more inside]
So first I'd google and use someone else's implementation.
I have an interview that includes an algorithm test with a financial services firm. This is for a "Senior Developer" type of position. Perusing through GlassDoor's interview questions for a lot of firms (Amazon.com in particular) has me nervous. What's the best way to prepare for this? I've been out of school for awhile and never use the language "breadth-first search" or "find the intersection of a linked list" in my day-to-day life. [more inside]
Term for Efficient Pathfinding
What is the term that describes pathways out of trampled grass made by animals or humans navigating the most efficient route? [more inside]
Designer to Plumber - Crazy?
I am 35, live in Vancouver, Canada and currently work an office job doing design work. Recent events have prompted me to review my career direction and becoming a plumber has kept coming up in my head. [more inside]
Time management with young children?
I have two months to put a book proposal together. How on earth do I manage my time? [more inside]
What kind of adrenaline-filled experience can I get as a gift?
Looking for places in the US where you can race a car, sail a boat or do some other adrenaline-filled activity for a weekend. This is for a birthday gift in April. [more inside]
If not kids then what
If you know you aren't going to have kids, what would you do to make your life awesome in other ways? Looking back, what would you recommend someone do in your 20s, 30s, and 40s, to happy later on in life (50s, 60s, and 70s) without having a family? [more inside]
Someone is using our mailbox to steal money...
Someone is using our address to take out loans and not pay them. It continues to go on, despite marking the letters "Not At This Address" and sending them back. Is there anything more we can do? [more inside]
Internet writer romance scandal
I need help remembering a story/internet scandal thing! Details inside. [more inside]
Looking for arctic horrors
Looking for more arctic horror in the vein of The Thing (and the offshoot X-files episode Ice) and Mountains of Madness. [more inside]
Movie title? Man attacked by demons, etc.
I am trying to remember the title of a movie. The plot is that a man is being attacked by demons wherever he goes. At some point he realizes he is in purgatory and the demons are actually angels working to free him from his attachment to the material plane. Anyone?
2011: The Summer of Brazil
Looking for information, tips, and suggestions about an upcoming extended trip to northern Brazil. Details within! [more inside]
Some questions about the NSW, Australia public school system.
Some questions about the NSW, Australia public school system. [more inside]
Life: punching me in the face over and over and over again
I broke up with my boyfriend last week. How do I focus on a mountain of academic obligations when all I want to do is crawl into bed and sleep forever? [more inside]
I'm out of the loop...
What audio editing software should I use if I want loops to be automatically detected? This seems like a fairly simple task - all the program would have to do is identify repeating waveforms. [more inside]
Written and illustrated doubly
I'd like examples of a certain kind of work, which surely must exist: a nonfiction narrative, either typeset or handlettered in columns, set against, or surrounded by, artwork in the margins which tells a parallel story (not the same) in graphic-narrative fashion. The closest thing I can think of is Lynda Barry's What It Is. [more inside]
Best Study Guide for Miller Analogies Test (MAT)?
Best Study Guide for Miller Analogies Test (MAT)? [more inside]
Sell or lease a /24 IP block?
I have a /24 and I want to put it to use as income either leasing it, or selling the company they are allocated to. Where would such a thing be advertised, or sought by potential buyers? How much of a pain in my @$$ is leasing them really going to be? [more inside]
Possibly illegal rental lease
Is it legal for a landlord to make a tenant pay an inspection fee, even though the landlord-tenant code says that the landlord must pay it? [more inside]
Help find Sartre quote!
Jean Paul Sartre's thoughts on love? [more inside]
Books like this little-known book
Bookfilter: I want to read books that are similar to "Saturn is almost invisible" by Vasily Ardamatsky. [more inside]
Is it really a binary decision?
Are my relationship demands unreasonable? [more inside]
Anyone know how to to book meeting rooms for Outlook AND Entourage?
Hi MeFites :) My current workplace has a mix of PC's and Macs and I need to find an easy way to book a meeting room that will work for everyone (some on Outlook 2007, some on Entourage Mac 2008). [more inside]
Being ill & undiagnosed. Ramifications on health care coverage as preexisting condition?
I'm ill but will be leaving my job (with medical insurance) for another one (with different medical insurance coverage). Should I hold off on getting a medical diagnosis since it's not life threatening just chronic? [more inside]
Atul Gawande of business writing
Is there an Atul Gawande of business writing? Recommend some good business writers!
It's their party. I don't want to make them cry.
Good gifts for a couple sharing a birthday party? Especially an "experience" gift located in or around Toronto? [more inside]
Books about world politics, conspiracies, and espionage.
Bookfilter: I love world politics, conspiracies, and espionage; TV shows like Alias and Rubicon really do it for me. What books would I like? [more inside]
Can I use a tiny desktop computer?
How small can a usable desktop computer be? [more inside]
Dog breed of this beautiful, strong, attentive guy?
Just been following the 2011 Westminster Dog Show and stumbled across this beautiful guy. Love his (or her!) eyes. Can anyone identify what breed he (or she) is? Thanks!
What movie starts with Jesus killing himself disgustingly?
What blasphemous, disgusting black and white movie did MeFi possibly introduce me to a few years ago? [more inside]
Need disposable all-cotton post-surgical underwear
Disposable cotton underwear for post C-section -- where to find? NO LATEX! [more inside]
Using speech recognition in an open-plan office?
I have a medical condition that is making it more difficult for me to type, due to muscle pain. So, I am thinking of trying a speech recognition app like Dragon Dictate. The problem is that I am in an open plan office, and I am concerned that it might not work with background noise and me whispering so as to not annoy my neighbors. [more inside]
Food miles from nowhere!
Surprise food hamper. Help me fill it... and quick! [more inside]
How can I make meeting new people easy and advance in my career when I have an unusual name?
My name is unusual in the US, and the associated hassle is inconvenient. Should I use a nickname, change my name or keep it as-is? If I keep it, what strategies can I use to wear it better? [more inside]
How to get Google Checkout to give us our $$?
Google Checkout: No payouts, frozen bank account info, and Google seems to be ignoring all messages sent via their help form. Any advice on how to proceed & how to get our payouts? [more inside]
I have allergies, not a drug problem
Is my wife going to get arrested as a meth maker? Anything I can do to stop it? [more inside]
Is our garden safe?
Please help me decide if we should replace the pressure treated wood foundation of our raised-bed garden. [more inside]
How do I get a loan for cheap/free?
How do I get a loan with no interest? I was thinking that I could buy an item on my credit card and then turn around a sell the item. As long as the credit card was 0% for 12 months then it seems to me that would be a free loan. The only question then would be 'What item could I buy that could be sold for as close to the purchase price as possible?'
Also, are there any other ways I could get a no interest loan? I was thinking I could put the money into a brokerage account and earn interest off the money - then pay it back at the end of the year.
Where did this site disappear to?
I briefly had a link to a web site that sold packages of different sample men's colognes. They were packaged by similarity and were sold in 5 ml. And slightly larger sizes. There were usually 5-6 different per package but the packages could be bigger. Does anyone know of this site?
"If we ever create a sport whereby monkeys fling poo at one another, and there's one dedicated supporter, there's a solid chance that shit will hit the fan."
What are some things you like to tell or remind yourself about when you have "woe is me" moments to steer yourself out of self-pity/moments of weakness and back into awesomeness?
You shall not... forget the light on.
I want to convert a wall switch into a door switch (for a wardrobe light). Is this easily feasible? [more inside]
Is the "nos" in "nostalgia" of the same origin as the "nos" in "nosotros"?
Spanish etymology question: Is the "nos" in "nostalgia" of the same origin as the "nos" in "nosotros"? [more inside]
Car selling scam?
Why would someone steal a credit card number to setup a Vonage phone number and buy a Cars.com advert? [more inside]
Make our calendars play nice with each other.
My girlfriend and I need a shared calendar for events we're going to together, days one of us will be out of town or in a conference, etc. Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
The Liberal Education ideal is ruining my life. Please help disabuse me of it (or at least temper it.)
The Liberal Education ideal is ruining my life. Please help disabuse me of it (or at least temper it.) [more inside]
Scraping the web
I keep hearing about web scraping. What tools are used to scrape content from the web? [more inside]
Are there stand-alone .srt players for OSX?
Hulu is often great with the closed captions, but sometimes they're a day or week behind on adding them, or there's a set of bad captions. Is there some sort of .srt player for OSX that hovers over whatever video app you're using? [more inside]
Inhalt vs. Gehalt
Germanfilter: could a fluent German speaker please help me, a non-German speaker, understand the difference between the word inhalt and the word gehalt? Both are translated as "content" in online dictionaries. Is there an easy way to grasp the distinction?
Can a predatory live with its prey?
Can I keep a kitten, three birds, and a mouse all in one apartment? [more inside]
Mr URL Redirection & Mrs Search Results
Client requested a single page website. Same client has bought himself a shiny new domain name - www.client.com. Given likely very low volume of hits, I propose hosting that single page under my existing Apache-enabled webspace - www.existing.com/client. How do I set things up such that Google results show client's domain and not my own? Thanks!
English Novel Study
What is a great pre-1980's novel to read and write about for English class? [more inside]
You can take this job....
Job boards and resources, paritcularly government and non profit sector. [more inside]
What time is it? It's BABY TIME! ...we hope!
Has anyone here had experience with conception post-IUD? Is there anything I should know ahead of time, or start doing a few months in advance to smooth the transition? How long after removal will fertility return? [more inside]
Help me find these 80s PSAs
Elephant with stuff in his ears, villains plotting to dirty a PI's teeth, and a man crawling under descending cardboard smoke: help me find footage of these early-80s PSAs. [more inside]
Suggestions for books about dungeons and dragons and awesome heroines.
Bookfilter: I need new stuff to read! Really enjoy fantasy where the hero is female.. bonus points if she's conflicted in some way. [more inside]
How do I compare rents w/ or w/o utilities included?
Is there a way to estimate the cost of utilities (heat, electricity) in a given city or region? [more inside]
One cable to rule them all ?
Cabling help please! All our video sources (and internet cables) are currently in the living room. Is it possible to run a single cable to the other rooms to share the video and data ? [more inside]
LA Car Chases...
Have there been any books/papers/movies/theses/etc. done on the pathology of high speed chases particularly as they relate to Los Angeles? [more inside]
When is the best time to travel to Tokyo?
When is the best time to travel to Tokyo? [more inside]
How should I report road rage
I have witnessed road rage and I want to complain about it. How should I go about this? Or should I just leave it?
I live in Vaughan, Ontatio (a suburb of Toronto). I witnessed a man get out of his car (I didn't get the plate number but it was a company van with the company address and logo on it) and yell at the other driver, hit his window repeatedly and then opened his door to yank the driver out of his car. Luckily the other driver managed to let go of him and shut his door. Then the aggressor went on to kick his driver side door.
It was a traumatic to witness this incident for me. I wonder what the poor driver of the other car must have gone through.
All he did was block a lane to get into a lane from the gas station that would make a left turn. The other driver obviously angry that his man blocked the lane (mind you the light ahead was red).
So how should I go about this? I have never reported such an incident. Should I call 911?
Travel Sweden
Any good stopovers when traveling between Malmo and Stockholm in Sweden? [more inside]
I give you the money, you give me a car. Please.
I have $3000 cash. You have a car. Help me make this transaction go smoothly. [more inside]
Seeking Personal Recommendation for DC Tax Preparer
Can you personally recommend a reasonably priced tax accountant in Washington, D.C.? I'd like to keep the cost under $500. Also, I think I'd prefer an accountant in a solo or small practice, for the personal touch, but if you've had a great experience with a big firm or chain, do tell. Finally, I'm looking for someone with an office that's Metro accessible and not too far outside the city. [more inside]
iTunes Error
Recently, I have new (weird) problem with iTunes. (9.0.2.25 on XP)
After starting the app, the music store show-up and vanish..
Link to Video.
I didn't made any critical changes to my XP machine recently.. (Firewall, Hosts file..)
What can cause this issue.. ?
planning for a pekingese!
Planning for a Pekingese! Future lion-dog owner seeks advice and information! :) [more inside]
Advice or resources for dealing with guilt/fear in a divorce?
How do I stop myself from second-guessing my decision to get a divorce? Does the little bit of doubt mean that I'm doing the wrong thing? Are there any books or resources for people in my situation? [more inside]
Is it easy to transfer music files from an iTunes on an old computer to a new computer?
I have a lot of music on my old computer's iTunes (which I didn't back up) which I'd like to transfer to my new computer's iTunes. Is this easy to do? Please treat me like a complete n00b and step me through this. [more inside]
Should I (hire a GC to) build a new house?
So, after an exhaustive house search, not finding what I want, I'm debating building a new house. Er, hiring people to build a house. I know what I want, I know where I want it, I think I have the budget. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
Wire wire go away!
There is a wire hanging in my yard. It appeared about 2 months ago. I have not had any new services installed in my home. It runs from a telephone/ electric pole at the corner of my property and is draped over my bushes then runs down the alley out back. I have a dog now and worry about him chewing on it. Who do I call to have it removed? I called Comcast (we don't have cable) because they had been doing work in our neighborhood about the time it appeared but it is still there. I looked at the wire up close. It reads commscope F677TSVV Xpress Prep. Any clue what it is for? I have touched it and didn't get shocked- but I worry the dog will eventually notice and find it a fascinating tug of war toy. I am on the verge of cutting it, but don't want to get electrocuted. Ideas on who to call?
Buckle my swash in the 19th century....
I love the Great Game. What books capture the adventure and romance of this historical period? [more inside]
Weird-eye kitty
We have a cat that sometimes visits our garden that has short legs and very strange eyes. They are big, dark brown and flecked. The cat seems healthy and affectionate, but I'm curious why it looks like this.
Do you know this song?
Song lyrics filter: help me remember this song from my childhood! "The sun is up, the sun is shining bright, it fades away the moon and the stars of night." Then something about birds and butterflies? Google failed me. Can you tell me how the song goes on?
Faking it
I need to learn how to fake my feelings better around people I dislike. [more inside]
I'm selling a photo, do I prepare the legally binding contract/quote?
I'm an amateur selling a photo to a professional publisher for a single run in a brochure. How do I prepare a quote that ensures that everything we've agreed upon is legally binding? [more inside]
Electronica/dubstep that sounds similar to classic burlesque
Looking for electronica/dubstep that sounds similar to classic burlesque. [more inside]
Am I being extorted?
I've a question about apartment rental in Germany : Am I being extorted? [more inside]
Where does this laptop connector go?
The screen of a friend's HP Pavilion DV1000 no longer turns on after he dropped it. My dad is currently having a look at the laptop to see if he can fix it but upon reassembling it he has found a loose 3 pin connector that he can find no obvious place for. I have taken a photo of it and indicated whereabouts on the laptop it is located. Anyone got any ideas?
Can this Minestrone be Saved?
Can I Eat It: Part 7,934 in an ongoing series. In a fit of industriousness, I made Cannellini Minestrone this morning! I put part of it in a container for my lunch, and part of it in a container to store in the fridge. I realized once I got to work, however, that the container to store never made it to the fridge, and is still sitting on the counter in my apartment. The soup was made at 8am, and I won't be getting home until 8pm. Can anything be done to salvage the soup into something edible, or at least usable?
Badass Kitty
Would you like to name another survivor cat? [more inside]
How to book musicians in a new space
How do you get started booking musicians in a new venue? We've just opened a new event space and one of the things we want to do with it is book music. But I'm nervous about making a bad first impression. [more inside]
I can haz storiez?
What are the best stories you know? Any kind of stories, written or unwritten. (Examples: the story of the founding of Australia, as written in the book The Fatal Shore; Orpheus and Euridice; Matty Groves (the folk song); [interesting stories here]). [more inside]
Find us a Kings Cross pub
What is a great pub to watch football in Kings Cross, London? [more inside]
Can I put a SIM card in my PC?
Is it possible to make/receive calls and send/receive texts using my PC, rather than my phone? [more inside]
Which arabic dialect?
All this revolution stuff is making me curious about this whole middle east and north africa place I hear so much about. So much so I'm half thinking of learning Arabic, or at least trying and failing. Oh God's of Mefi which dialect should I go for? Whats easiest to learn or most understood by most people: Egyptian, Classical,Standard, Gulf, Syrian, Maghreb or waa?
Why are video cameras used for still shots by news channels (and not digital cameras)?
Why are video cameras used for still shots by news channels (and not digital cameras)? [more inside]
Financing hell
My friends bought a new car in Canada, moved to the States, and just discovered that they violated their financing agreement by taking the car abroad for over 30 days. Nissan Canada's financing people say they have a month to pay the whole car off--$18,000--or it gets repossessed and their credit is ruined. They don't have that kind of money. What would you do? [more inside]
Help me find a good river near Melbourne...
Does anyone know any sections of rivers or creeks not too far out of Melbourne (Australia) that are very wide yet quite shallow? You know the type, like something you see in a documentary about Alaskan bears with pebbles on the bottom and crystal clear water. After swimming in an amazing river in West Virginia may years ago I've dreamed about finding a similar one over here.
Breaking out of Rome airport in the middle of an indirect flight?!
I am taking a trip to Japan from London, my flight is via Rome (both ways). On the way back I'd like to just get out at Rome and take another flight which I will book separately. I don't want to pay anything extra. Is it possible without changing my booking? What's the worst than can happen? I will only have carry-on luggage. I am an EU citizen. [more inside]
February 15
Don't deport her!
How long can EU citizens stay in the United States per year? My girlfriend would like to stay with me for two-three months, then return home to work for a month, come back to the US for a couple months, etc. Will homeland security break up this arrangement after a while? Is there a limit to how many days per year she can stay in the US? To be clear, she won't be working here.
Is this job a scam?
I can't tell if this job is a scam or not. Help please! [more inside]
Brittany or Aussie? Woof!
Brittany or Aussie? Which dog is the right dog for me? Bonus highlights if you have owned or have experience with both breeds! [more inside]
How do I make high quality .gif images?
What programs do I need to design high quality .gif images? [more inside]
How can my friend find a job in programming?
How does my friend overcome the catch-22 of needing experience in programming, but being unable to get a job because he doesn't have any? [more inside]
Ze rrrrain in Spain...
Physical exercises for English as a second language? [more inside]
Where to stay in Santiago in May?
Hubby and I will be in Santiago, Chile from approximately May 16 to June 4. Hubby wants to drive east to check out the wine harvest but we'll be spending a fair bit of time, at least a week, in the city proper. There are ample and cheap options for apartment rentals in the period (it's off season) but I don't know the city at all and would like to find an area, if possible, that's like Barrio Norte or Palermo in Buenos Aires: Characterful (not all glass highrises and superhighways that seem to dominate so many photos of Santiago I've seen), walkable, with lots of street-level shops and restos but not a party atmosphere. Think more cafe culture than Ibiza. [more inside]
Possible 3 part-time jobs, or 1 fulltime job. What should my strategy be?
Possible 3 part-time jobs, or 1 fulltime job. What should my strategy be? [more inside]
Tell me about your elbow surgery
Tell me about your experiences with heterotopic ossification excision, ulnar nerve transposition, or, best of all, both. [more inside]
Apples to delicious apples.
I overheard about a recipe, in which an apple is halved and cored, baked in an oven for a bit, then the core areas are filled with pretzels, the apples are baked again, and voila, you have the cheapest, best desert in the world. Can you help me figure out the recipe? [more inside]
Out of the way travel wonders?
Any out of the way amazing small/medium towns that nobody talks about but are really worth visiting? While I am hoping for more exotic locales any place is fine by me. What makes these places so interesting to you? I am planning a trip starting from East Africa and heading up to the Middle East and then to either Eastern Europe or Asia. [more inside]
Hungarian/US dual citizenship. Why not?
My wife (a US citizen) is considering becoming a Hungarian citizen (this would make it easier for us to move to the EU if we choose to). This is possible because her mother's parents were born in Hungary. What are the downsides of this, excluding (a) security clearances (we don't care) and (b) social/reputational consequences (ditto). Does she have to then file Hungarian tax returns every year (even if we continue to live in the US)? Anything else we need to know?
Stalker Tromboner
Looking for a short film where a woman is harassed by a trombone player who follows her around for a long time. [more inside]
What is it? Television Edition
I saw this while thrifting this weekend, I'm assuming it's a television perhaps? I didn't get the chance to open it or look at the model # since it was already sold. Does anyone have more information on this?
How do I gain a reading knowledge of Dutch on my own?
How do I go about gaining a reading knowledge of Dutch on my own, and what is important to emphasize when doing so? [more inside]
Halloween's biggest communities?
What are the top American cities or regions for Halloween? (or how can I find a way to measure this?) [more inside]
Misplaced aggression and Cat Crazies - What to do?
Yet another cat question. I recently moved to a new place, and now my cats hate each other. Help, please? [more inside]
US tariff for Panama hat gift?
Will two Panama hats sent as gifts from Ecuador have exorbitant tariffs through US customs? [more inside]
Should I provide a W-2 to a potential new employer?
Should I provide a W-2 to a potential new employer?
A job offer was made to me pending a background check. The background check is delayed because my current employer has not replied to the new employer(I do not know why). I was given the option to verify employment using a W-2 form.
Do I want to give all of this information to the new employer? I didn't lie about salary but never gave a direct amount. The new job is a 15% increase and I feel like I should not make that obvious to the new employer. If I never stated or lied about a my current salary am I worried about this for no reason? Is 15% going to be perfectly acceptable to them if I am the right candidate?
Tutoring 101: A Crash Course
Tutoring 101: A Crash Course [more inside]
Can I hope for future government employment after failing an SF85P?
Having failed an SF85P investigation, have I wrecked any chances of future government employment? [more inside]
How do I quit wasting my life on online escapism?
Please tell me how to break my stupid addiction to fandom and fanfiction. [more inside]
Can't save an Automator script
Why can't I save an Automator script? [more inside]
Tabletop for my mom
I am looking for short easy Table-top system for a one shot game. [more inside]
How to use a translator on a budget?
Lost in Ukranian Translation: How can I best utilize a Ukranian to English Translator for only portions of a trip? [more inside]
Please help me to figure out if any library catalog entries were lost during a file transfer from an old to a newer computer.
Please help me to figure out if any library catalog entries were lost during a file transfer from an old to a newer computer. [more inside]
My tools make you better, you used to rent them, now I work for you...I'm still using my tools.
Contractor turned full time employee. Still using my own laptop and other tools. How should I be compensated? [more inside]
How to get the most out of Sydney's Gay Mardi Gras?
What's the best way to experience Sydney's Mardi Gras parade on March 5th? When does the parade start, where should I watch it from, and what associated events are worth going to? [more inside]
Should I put radio to bed?
I seem to have found myself occupying the realm of professional fundraising. I don't like it although I am outstanding cultural activist according to everyone I am a great cultural activist.
I want to be a journalist and work in media as a program producer. But, I enjoy fundraising and took a career leap to learn major giving a few years ago. I am finding it very difficult to get back into radio now, even though I have offered myself for lower salaries. I feel like I will be forced into politics. Is there any hope for me?
What the hell did I hear?
This is definitely a long shot, but I'm looking for a weird reggae-ish song I heard on a radio a few months ago. The only things I remember about it are that it was pretty long, and the lyrics included something about "a piece of leg" and taking off your clothes. [more inside]
That dirty feeling...
Say you wank a lot in a single session, so much so that you end up feeling kind dirty and icky. Do you know that feeling? I hope so, otherwise I'm a weirdo. Well I've been getting that feeling randomly throughout the day without a trigger that makes sense to me. What is it and how can I stop it? [more inside]
Import Lastfm playlist?
How do I import my 3,000 item list of Last.fm "Loved Tracks" into iTunes (for Windows) as a playlist? [more inside]
Get me away from Train
What songs sound like Train's "Hey, Soul Sister" but definitely are not "Hey, Soul Sister"? [more inside]
Where can I demo a whole bunch of skis?
I've heard tell that there are some ski mountains that are particularly well set up to, for a single price, spend the day trying a whole bunch of demo skis. I'm in the NYC area. Know of any within a 5-hour driving distance which either has this all the time or on one specific day per year? [more inside]
Why do you lose weight when you go overseas and feel hungrier and fatter in the US?
When I go overseas from the US, I almost inevitably lose weight. When I return to the US, my appetite increases a lot and I gain weight. Anyone know why this happens? [more inside]
Because I said so is a better argument
Help me formulate a response to the "personal responsibility" argument. [more inside]
What would you ask if you had just one question?
What question should I ask my favorite musician, or at least propose asking so that I can meet him? [more inside]
You know where you hope this train will take you, but you don't know for sure.
Around Thanksgiving, I was given a temporary full-time staff position at a well-known university research lab. (See this question.) Well, I've been officially offered a job as a proper member of the lab, tuition benefits and all. This is quite literally the best opportunity I've ever had. I'm extremely interested in the field of clinical psychology and eventually becoming some kind of therapist. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
Limited Liability Company
I want to drop one member, pick up a new member, and change the name of my limited liability company. Is that possible? [more inside]
Office Politics-Book
Books on dealing with office politics [more inside]
How can I more quickly redeem my credit score?
Another US student loan question: how can I best mitigate the damage to my credit score from a defaulted Perkins loan? [more inside]
How do you come up with pitches for your magazine articles?
You're a freelance journalist. You make pitches to magazines. How do you come up with ideas? [more inside]
Help us find the blue tickets!
Leapster 2: Calling All Engines! Help us find a blue ticket! [more inside]
Looking for a critical work on Tolkien
Looking for an essay/other view of Tolkien's Middle Earth depicting Sauron as a liberator. [more inside]
Help me remember the underwater headlights...
Help me remember a book: artificial lake, main character keeps seeing headlights under the water, turns into a murder mystery [more inside]
Shhhhh....
Cube-dwellers: I need recommendations for music that is enjoyable at very low volume. [more inside]
Looking for a Mac program (or some other way) that will monitor my MacBook's battery and turn off another program when the battery gets really low.
Looking for a Mac program (or some other way) that will monitor my MacBook's battery and turn off another program when the battery gets really low. [more inside]
Can't find this yarn.
I'm looking for two skeins of discontinued yarn, the Noro Kureyon #92. It's not on ebay and being a new knitter, I don't know where fellow hobbyists hang out on the internet to ask instead. Any pointers are greatly appreciated.
Can I go to an independent garage or is dealer service the way to go?
I'm looking to have maintenance done on a 2.5-year old Nissan (40,000 mile tune-up and addressing a little tire/front-issue that probably stems from my wife running over curbs recreationally). Is a dealer absolutely my best option? If so which one? [more inside]
Need a Boston area women's tailor
Recommendations for a Boston / Cambridge area tailor focused on women's clothing? [more inside]
Does landlord registration help?
Landlord registration. Is it working for your community? Why or why not? What steps has your community taken to address rental housing that's in poor condition? [more inside]
Best app for tracking spending?
Best app for tracking my daily expenses? [more inside]
The long and winding road
Is an ostensibly better job worth a longer commute? [more inside]
Help me buy a sub-$200 digital camera
Looking for a point and shoot camera, best I can get under $200. [more inside]
Who got angry at Space Ghost and had to leave?
Who got angry at Space Ghost and had to leave? [more inside]
Beantown Activities
Mefite Beantowners: Wife and I are heading to Boston for a week in May. What to do? [more inside]
For as long as I can remember, I always wanted to be a journalist
Can an introvert be a journalist? If so... how? [more inside]
Dance-Club Book Club
ISO works of fiction about disco/techno/dance music! [more inside]
Is my boyfriend looking at porn every day ok when we haven't had sex in almost three weeks?
My boyfriend and I have been fighting/bickering quite a bit the last couple months, but he says he has never loved anyone like he loves me. That being said, we haven't had sex for almost three weeks, and have only messed around twice in the shower. I initiated both of the shower incidents, and I've made my concern about the lack of sex known. He blames it on stress at work and being tired after work and then the gym. But, I can see that he's looked a porn almost every day for the last 10 days. Am I being sensitive by being upset by this? I feel like if he's horny enough to look at porn, why shouldn't he be saving that energy for me? [more inside]
Histories of the Viking Age
Can you recommend an accessible history of the Viking Age to complement a vacation to Iceland, the Faroes, and Norway? [more inside]
How do I get an iPhone, T-Mobile and Google Voice to play nicely?
I've got a T-Mobile prepaid account on a jailbroken 1st generation iPhone and I'm using Google Voice. Is there any way to get my voicemail to work the way I want it to? [more inside]
Should I leave New York City before I turn into Christmas cake?
Should I leave New York City before I turn into Christmas cake? [more inside]
What makes something a medical device?
What are the regulations around being a medical device or not for product sales in Canada and the US? [more inside]
Hotel for Lollapolooza?
Whats a good hotel to stay at in Chicago for Lollapalooza 2011? [more inside]
Is there interactive fiction out there?
With the invention of eReaders and iPads I thought I would come across more fictional books online that are more interactive. The latest example of this that I read was Corey Doctorow's free PDF of Little Brother, which I loved becuase it hyperlinked to maps, destinations and really brought the neighborhoods and events to life. It also was great for reading at work, since I was viewing a PDF. I also saw this type of merging of fiction and references with our own Mefite Dobbs, who back in the day had a amazing email communication called Victory Shag, which were these weekly emails he would send that were about "his" fictional love life that often times had musical tracks and maps and neighborhood references embedded in the interactions. There must be more options out there. I don't own a eReader or an iPad, but just thought that that I would come across more talented writers that use more interactive oppurtunities. I might be out of the loop though, so suggestions would be much appreciated.
Surrendering to dark circles. Well, kind of.
No amount of hydration, sleep, cucumbers, teabags, fancy gels and creams will get rid of the very dark circles under my eyes. I have made peace with the fact that they will never ever go away, but I would love some makeup solutions for covering them up. Is it possible to do so fairly minimally, without layers upon layers of caked on makeup and products? What products have you had success with? [more inside]
What do students want from a freshman composition course?
I'm a freshman composition instructor who wants to rock the evals. But how? If you've taken a first-year college writing or rhetoric course, what teaching practices made for a good (or horrible) experience from the student's perspective? [more inside]
Am I being too sensitive? Valentine's Day stupidity inside.
How should I be interpreting this? [more inside]
The Canadian Arctic
Nunavut, Nunavik and the NWT: What's it actually like living and working there as somebody from "the south"? For positions in various fields that require 10+ years of experience and educational qualifications, the salaries seem high, but I'm aware the cost of living is also high. [more inside]
Help for a kid with anxiety and distorted thinking
Resources to help a perfectionist/anxious kid with distorted thinking. [more inside]
car insurance. how does it work?
How and where do I get my car repaired? (or, please explain to me how car insurance works) [more inside]
Eindhoven for 2 weeks
Have you ever been to Eindhoven? [more inside]
Mac External Keyboard & Mouse
Mac peripherals filter: Just bought a MacBook Air. Looking for an external mouse and keyboard when I want to use it at my desk (plugged into my external monitor). What are your favorite Mac mice and keyboards? USB or Bluetooth are options. Thanks.
If I give in, I'm giving in to all the cute, fuzzy bunnies in the world.
All of the places I trust to provide comfort and security, in any form, are imploding. I've already been existing in coping mode; what can I do now (particularly day-to-day)? [more inside]
Can my hardware store also be my jewelry store?
Where can I find a machine part that would make a good wedding ring? [more inside]
Songs by women about parts of women.
This song and also this one are men singing about the (their?) penis.
Are there songs where ladies sing about lady-parts?
Wedding Venue in Bay Area?
I am looking for a wedding venue in the SF Bay Area (ideally San Francisco or the Peninsula/South Bay. The twist here is that we will have just four guests, so I don't exactly need a ballroom. Rather, a more intimate outdoor or indoor venue will do great (shooting for July, on a Saturday). For example, are there any nice public buildings or spaces open on a weekend? I don't want anything too remotely located, unless there is something else to do in that location, like have lunch afterwards. Thanks for all your suggestions.
I don't blab any drab gab-- I chatter hep patter
"I don't blab any drab gab-- I chatter hep patter." What is the source of this odd picture/phrase?
Should I bounce my stalker's emails?
Should I bounce my stalker's emails? [more inside]
Limited form of regirlfriending?
I have a crush on my therapist. My therapist has a crush on me. Now what? [more inside]
Security over a public wireless network
How can you know if someone is capturing information that you are sending over a public wireless network? [more inside]
High Quality Super Short Run Printing in New York
Seeking NYC print shop recommendations for nearly one-off prints. I have about 20 pieces of different, mostly standard sizes -- nothing larger than 11 x 17 and B4 -- that I'd like to make a very limited number color prints of (1 - 3 each). I have an approximate budget of 10 dollars per print I'd like to hew closely to and a number of quality and care requirements. [more inside]
Where to buy Pellon Peltex #70 in Manhattan?
My wife is working on a bead project and needs to procure a yard of white pellon peltex 70 ultra-firm stabilizer. She would like to get it from a brick-and-mortar retailer in New York City. [more inside]
pornmusic.metafilter.com
What is this 70s styled porn (or funk) song? Content marginally SFW. The clip is from a 2003 Phil Hendrie radio show sketch. I searched around on YouTube under "porn music" but didn't find anything that sounded this steamy.
Astrowheel?
What is astrowheeling? [more inside]
How do you solve a problem like Roberto?
Should I just give up? [more inside]
Back rooms in Center City?
A "back room" that you can reserve in Center City, Philadelphia? (Non-alcoholic venue extremely preferred, like a coffeeshop.) [more inside]
Does my daughter's name actually mean something in Scottish Gaelic?
Can anyone tell me if my daughter's name means something in Scottish Gaelic? [more inside]
Facebook: How to change my music page to a music page!
How can I make my facebook "Musician/Band" page show up under people's "music" (you know, the area under "info" where it lists people's favorite music)? [more inside]
I need an android navigation program that is more suited to my biking needs
I need an android navigation program that is more suited to my biking needs [more inside]
You Say Daily, and I Say Goodbye
I am subscribed to too many financial daily newspapers and need to switch to 3-4 weekly magazines. Which should I read to get a complete (but not excessively detailed) picture? [more inside]
Other Sites Besides Craigslist for Listing Part Time Jobs?
Where can I post a job listing for a part-time (20 hours a week) temp-to-perm personal assistant in Santa Monica/LA? This is for the entertainment industry, and we're looking for something beyond Craigslist. [more inside]
Trying to promote a local group on facebook.
I can't believe I'm wasting my question on this: Is there any way to make a facebook page (NOT profile) public? I mean a page promoting a not for profit, not a person's profile page. [more inside]
Does anyone know of a petting zoo / farm in London which keeps 'micro pigs'?
Does anyone know of a petting zoo / farm which keeps 'micro pigs' in or near London?
Smart Phone Browser Emulator
I want see how various sites will look on various smart phones. Is there an online emulator that can do this? [more inside]
Watson buzz-in
How does Watson know when to buzz-in during this week's Jeopardy? [more inside]
How do I achieve this 'rays of light' effect in Photoshop?
In Photoshop, how do I achieve the 'rays of light' effect you see in places like Campaign Monitor's masthead? [more inside]
Ski clothes in Philly?
Can I rent ski clothes anywhere in the Philadelphia area? I'm going skiing this weekend and the resort I'm visiting doesn't offer clothing rentals. I just need a jacket and ski pants--any ideas?
Adventures in the Lower 48
Where should we go on vacation in the contiguous US (with credit-card-reward conditions and preferences inside)? [more inside]
Hiking for the month of June - where to go?
I'm looking for some assistance in planning a month-long hike in June of this year. [more inside]
Should I be the bad cop?
Is good cop -- bad cop a bad idea as a parenting tactic? [more inside]
A Box of Wine, a Loaf of Bread-and Thou, Metafilter
For the holidays, I was given a 5L box of Franzia Cabernet Sauvignon (the guilty party has already been punished with a houseful of sick toddlers). I'm not a wine snob, but I tend to reserve my drinking for social occasions and I've yet to find the right moment to drag out this behemoth.
What do I do with this wine? [more inside]
Need a name for an abandoned survivor cat
I am adopting a cat who needs a good name. I found him at the shelter where I volunteer; he'd been left outside and abandoned, and suffered from frostbite. He's losing part of his ear, all of his pawpads (which will grow back), and several teeth, and half his whiskers have broken off. He was so anemic and dehydrated when he got there, the higher-ups decided he should be euthanized, but the shelter manager intervened, treated him with meds, and he survived. [more inside]
Crossword Publishing help
hi, i am a beginner to creating crossword puzzles (i have only created 4) but i am wondering about some strategies to try and get published. i have emailed a number of newspapers and magazines but not sure what else i can do. i know i don't have enough puzzles at the moment to start a blog and i work full time so can't really dedicate a lot of time to creating daily puzzles. does anyone have experience with publishing crosswords and any tips on how to possibly do it as a part time gig? thanks for any advice.
I love Excel... when I know what I'm doing
ExcelFilter: I have Worksheet1 and Worksheet2. Both worksheets contain PersonName on the X-axis, ClassName on the Y-axis. I need to run some comparison between the two. Thinking of doing this on a 3rd worksheet. Here's where it gets tricky:
1. There are several thousand PersonNames.
2. There are about 100 CourseNames.
3. There is volatility in the PersonNames and CourseNames; they will be constantly changing, especially, the PersonNames. [more inside]
Help: American Express Never Cancelled My Card and Now a Collections Agency Is After Me
Last year I cancelled my American Express card after almost 20 years, just before it expired. It just didn't seem worth the annual fee anymore, and it doesn't contribute to your credit score. I then went out of the country for several months. When I got back, I was greeted by a collections agency (Allied Interstate) who told me I owed American Express several hundred dollars, all of which seem to be late fees accrued on the annual fee. I explained the situation to them, and they suggested I contact Amex, which I just did. More details below, but Amex just told me I had to call the collections agency - how can I get them to talk with one another so I can at least talk with someone at Amex about this? [more inside]
Antiquities catalogues online
Britain's Portable Antiquities Scheme database is a source of endless fascination. Are there similar (non-English language) databases available--online, for browsing?
Make it Pretty
Where can I find more creative examples of status charts dashboards like the Panic dash(only web based)? [more inside]
courting the tallest companies on earth
What do I need to learn, and what experiences do I need to attain to get a top software development job? [more inside]
What kind of tool(s) should I use to cut this thin metal ring?
What kind of tool(s) should I use to cut this thin and flat metal ring? [more inside]
The power of my position is intoxicating
What is the easiest way to collect money from a group of people? [more inside]
One two three one two three VIC-TO-RY
Please provide me with powerful, cinematic, orchestral waltzes. [more inside]
Smartphone + app to use with the autofocus/GTD system with multiple lists
I'm looking for a smartphone + application to use with the autofocus system for todo list/productivity.
I want to have context dependent lists like GTD. Can you help me make sense of the hundreds out there? [more inside]
An ADHD coach in Los Angeles?
Looking for an ADHD coach based in Los Angeles. [more inside]
What should I explore in New England?
So, I am moving to Philadelphia from Toronto. What are things I absolutely should do while I explore New England over the coming spring, summer and fall? [more inside]
What do I need to do to bring my website into the age of Facebook and Twitter?
Facebook and Twitter are passing me by. It's no longer enough to know how to rank very well in Google, by providing good material that people want to read and that is easily indexed by Google. Now, we're told, Google is passé. Small businesses must switch to using Facebook and Twitter to reach their audiences. But how? [more inside]
Lunch and music in Nashville this Saturday?
Where should I get lunch in Nashville this Saturday? [more inside]
Looking for work in Amsterdam and can't seem to find any.
Looking for work in Amsterdam and can't seem to find any. [more inside]
Crystal Reports
Help with using Crystal Reports to report on an Oracle database [more inside]
Name the sappy, instrumental tune, whose basic melody I'm humming.
Can you name this slow, sappy, mostly-instrumental song (and its artist) from the last decade? [more inside]
What is to Comcast as phreak was to AT&T
Is there a contemporary equivalent to phreaking? Are there (dis)organized groups that steal bandwidth? [more inside]
I'm not a 12-year-old boy -- So walk me through Nintendo DS Lite?
I think I want a Nintendo DS Lite, but I'm totally ignorant. → I'm in Greece ←, and don't want to spend the money (this money, it is tight) only to find out that it was a bad choice for me in terms of game level and types of games, acquisition of games, country specific restrictions, and if the one I have my eye on (via EBay) is the right choice. Can you hold my hand? [more inside]
February 14
Is it time for our group massage yet?
What's this kind of group massage called? It involves a small group of people simultaneously performing the same massage stroke on a different part of the massagee. [more inside]
What do you do when someone accidentally causes you minor injury or damage to your personal property?
What do you do when someone accidentally causes you minor injury or damage to your personal property? [more inside]
Are we less violent than we were before?
My friend has commented that the world is getting less violent as we progress. He states that that the 20th century is less violent than all the previous centuries. My question is this.
Considering all forms of violent action against humans in the Western world is the 20th century less violent than previous centuries. Are we becoming more peaceful as a species as we evolve?
New room for a nine year old
We want to help give a nine year old girl a new start, by making her room more habitable and homelike for when she returns [more inside]
What is my legal responsibility when allowing users to either transfer online images to my server, or creating hotlinks to online images?
What is my legal responsibility when allowing users to display images on my site that are sourced by the user either transferring online images to my server, or creating hotlinks to online images? [more inside]
My thesis needs a power-up.
I'm looking for feedback from grad students who have used a thesis or dissertation coach. How did it work out for you? [more inside]
Please help me find the ultimate black leather messenger bag
I'm looking for the ultimate black leather messenger bag. I love the everything about this one, but I've read mixed reviews of the brand's quality. Can you help me find similar bags from other manufacturers? [more inside]
Unclimbable
Is there any mountain on earth that is considered unclimbable? [more inside]
Slow Macs, iPhone. I'm stumped.
All 3 of my primary Apple machines have sudden, inexplicable slowness. My Quad G5, my PowerBook G4, and now even my iPhone suddenly have serious performance problems for no reason I can determine. I know there are some Mac guys on MeFi, I thought I'd ask for additional angles to investigate. [more inside]
Tet Offensive and the Viet Cong
Was the purpose of the Tet Offensive to destroy the Viet Cong? [more inside]
Possibly Moving to Atlanta
I'm thinking of leaving New York for Atlanta. [more inside]
What is this "treposa" really called?
"Dan, one of my patients, attended a retreat where he engaged in treposa, a meditation procedure in which two people hold hands for several minutes, lock gazes, meditate deeply upon one another, and then repeat the process with new partners." The author of this passage seems to have gotten the name of this meditation practice wrong. Does it actually exist at all? [more inside]
Last Second President's Day Long Weekend Trip - NYC area
Last minute long weekend holiday getaway, Doable? Advice needed on taking a belated Valentines long weekend with my sweetie. We're in NYC and would prefer to drive. (Or take a train if the place is really acessable). A very nice hotel in the country would be great, we don't need a bunch of outside entertainment - beautiful scenery a plus. We're looking to leave late Thursday or early Friday and return early/mid-Monday. [more inside]
Apple wireless network -- how many nodes?
Providing WiFi to a small "campus" from a single source? Lots of Airport Expresses? Anything cheaper but robust available? [more inside]
I can't work under these conditions
I'm a web developer. I feel like I'm not living up to my potential, not getting the opportunity to apply my abilities, and drifting into a career dead end—and it's bumming me out. [more inside]
APN? What? I did that.
How do I set up an iphone to use 3g data from Laotel? [more inside]
Looking for a 70's Sci-Fi Short story collection...
Random 70's SciFi Bookfilter: Mid to late 70's science fiction short story collection, lots of cool ship art, and one story in particular about two individuals hunting each other, one using all the latest tech, and his opponent taking a more primative approach. Story ends: "And the laser hummed and cut him in half." Ring any bells with any one?
How much to expect for a car with no transmission?
How much can I expect to get for a car with no transmission? [more inside]
Future famous crossing paths
Looking for examples of future celebrities or public figures crossing paths when both were unknowns. [more inside]
How serious is salmonella, really?
How flexible are y'all with expiration dates on food? [more inside]
Where did this unclaimed money come from, and how do I find it?
I received a letter from an "independent refund processing agency" stating that I have a fairly significant amount of unclaimed money from the government, which they offer to send me for a 25% fee (I pay them after I receive the check). Since I'm aware that there are real agencies (such as Keane) that do pretty much the same thing as what this agency is doing, I'm wondering if it might actually be legit, and if so, where on earth can I find this info on my own and avoid the 25% fee? [more inside]
Dead Fish: Make It Yummy
How do I cook half a (dead, frozen) fish? [more inside]
How to get chocolate delivered to Leiden this week for cheap?
How can I get a small amount of chocolate or similar delivered to a friend in the Netherlands this week? [more inside]
Wherever I have my dogs, that's my home
How do people find rent houses - actual houses, single-family dwellings - in the US? [more inside]
winter fishing on Cape Cod?
So how's the fishing on Cape Cod this time of year? [more inside]
Vintage Digital Multieffects Pedal
What is a cheap, crazy sounding vintage multi effects unit? [more inside]
Be back in 5 years...
I've got $50k -- help me run away for 5 years. [more inside]
How do you transport pavlova? And do you pre-assemble it or not?
I need advice from experienced bakers, pavlova makers, or Kiwis/Aussies. How do you transport a pavlova? And do you pre-assemble it or not? I'm making a pavlova for a birthday dinner & I'm concerned about cracking & sogginess. Help! [more inside]
Entertainment at wedding reception
Any exclusive ideas for entertainment at wedding reception [more inside]
Recommendations for hosted business email (excluding Google Apps and Exchange)?
Could you please recommend a reliable email hosting provider (non-Exchange) that provides excellent customer support? This will be for a business in the US with about 25 users, and we'd be switching over the mail server for an existing domain. We've looked into Google Apps for Business, but the support area comes up short. Here's a list of the things we're looking for... [more inside]
chop chop chop! -shwing!-
We'd like to buy my mom some really good kitchen knives for her birthday. However, we don't really feel like paying $55 for a 4.5 inch knife. [more inside]
Where can I find a kickass keyboard tray I can firmly attach to a desk made of glass?
Where can I find a kickass keyboard tray I can firmly attach to a desk made of glass? [more inside]
Artificial sweetener is my vice and I think it is gross
I use artificial sweetener. I think I shouldn't. Help me not. [more inside]
Office chair for under $200?
Had this office chair and it royally fucked my back. Which office chair should I get for under $200? [more inside]
Effect of a small mass at 'near light speed' in atmosphere?
Science of Science Fiction - What happens when a small mass at 'near light speed' enters the atmosphere? [more inside]
So I'm an impostor.
I've written the standard textbook about a topic. I'm teaching a regular class at a college (in summer) and at a research university (winter term), as well as some summer school courses. Instructor of record, giving exams, all those things. I'm rather good at it, or so I think - at least for being hired as a so-called outside expert.
Yet I'm incredibly anxious about this and feeling like an impostor. One of the reasons? Well, nobody knows, but when I'm not a lecturer, I'm still a freaking undergrad who is failing most of her classes. [more inside]
Books that suck you in... TO REALITY
Recommend me some immersive, journalistic non-fiction books. [more inside]
Gateway laptop won't boot
My Gateway MT3422 laptop suddenly won't boot. Please help me figure out what to do. [more inside]
Anyone know the best way to go about finding a private rental (not through a estate agent) in Melbourne?
Asking on behalf of my brother, who has just moved to Melbourne with his girlfriend. They are looking for a house to rent, and have been going through the usual real estate agents, etc. They were talking to a couple of friends of theirs, who were also looking for a place to rent, and who just found a private rental property (ie. through the landlord, not through a real estate agent) on Gumtree. My brother was wondering if there is some sort of website or centralised place to find private rental properties in Melbourne? [more inside]
cheap herpes antiviral medicine
I live in NYC and do not have insurance. I am having an especially painful herpes outbreak. What is my best bet for getting affordable/generic Valtrex? [more inside]
30 year old man dating 20 year old woman?
My 20 year old younger sister is dating a 30 year old man. Is this a cause for concern? [more inside]
What's a good fluoride mouthwash for adults?
Tom's of Maine has taken my beloved spearmint "Natural Anticavity Fluoride Mouthwash" off the market. What can replace it? [more inside]
Best Media Streamer for Playing Back Ripped DVDs?
What is the best choice currently for a media streamer to play back ripped DVDs and other content on your network? [more inside]
Dispelling Brain Fog
How do you quickly dispel post-illness brain fog? [more inside]
Can an actor who only acts once in a while make a living as an actor?
HollywoodFilter: Can Demore Barnes, actor on The Unit, one of my favourite TV series, make a living as an actor? [more inside]
Keeping my business and pleasure separate on my cell phone?
Can I set up separate voicemail greetings on my phone using google voice? [more inside]
Animal Non-Grata
How do you enjoy your pets? My interactions with my animals of late has been them asking for lots and me giving them lots but it doesn't seem like there's much in the other direction. How do you get past the gimme, gimme, gimme needs of your animals and just enjoy them? [more inside]
Looking for high quality image of painting in Mexico City
My dad is collecting images of paintings of "the miracle of the black leg" as supposedly was performed by the Saints Cosmas and Damianus. He's looking for a good color photo of one that's in the Cathedral of Mexico City. Right now he only has a black and white image. Does anyone have a really good quality color image of this painting or has the ability to make such a photo? [more inside]
Conference Advice
Help me attend my first industry conference! Need advice on asking permission/presenting my case to mgmt. [more inside]
Getting from where I am to where I want to be.
You know those people whom you admire - those people who are confident, smart, funny, humble, kind and a gazillion other qualities besides? Those people who have had a lifetime of experience and are sagely, and take troubles in their stride calmly. Those people who have fortitude and courage. Those people whom others wish to emulate. I want to know how I can be like them. [more inside]
Where can I buy orange marshmallow
Where can I buy orange marshmallows for s'mores? [more inside]
I used to love this lens ...
My Sigma camera lens stopped working - what's causing it and what can I do? [more inside]
My name is not Bruce Banner, I want pants that don't rip.
I need durable khakis and slacks. Where to get? (US, Bay Area, will order online) [more inside]
What happens when I correct the deed to my home?
What are the possible consequences of correcting the age of my house on the deed? [more inside]
Japanese gameshow help
Need help identifying this Japanese game show... and hopefully finding a clip online. [more inside]
What can my friend do about an unknown animal in his ceiling?
What can my friend do about an unknown animal in his ceiling? His apartment maintenance people said they'll look into it in "a few days"... [somewhat time-sensitive] [more inside]
How can we buy a fully foreign-language laptop in the US?
My mother is visiting a friend abroad, and wants to bring her an inexpensive windows laptop as a gift. Her friend speaks fluent russian & german, but not english. How can we buy, in the US, a laptop with keyboard and windows localization settings appropriate to one of those languages? [more inside]
Weekend Zoot Suit: ENGAGE
My lady friend and I will be in DC this coming weekend (the 18th to 21st), which DC jazz club should we go to? [more inside]
Etsy for your thoughts.
Is it worth it to make an Etsy account for this kind of craft? Considering that they charge for listing items and shipping would be somewhat expensive ($15-20~) as I live in Chile. [more inside]
Window sill question
There is air coming under the window sill. [more inside]
Help us find a house in Denver, for two weeks.
We (Mr. Mrs. + 4yo + 2yo) want to spend two weeks in Denver this summer. Where do we start looking for accommodation? [more inside]
"Strong like bear"... from where?
Where does "strong like bear" come from? [more inside]
I would like to clone Lois McMaster Bujold...
I would like to clone Lois McMaster Bujold... [more inside]
Dining room carpet protection from my little slobs?
My dining area is carpeted and I have two young children who are experts at landing their food on the floor. We've been using plastic sheeting/vinyl table cloths under the kids, but I'm looking for a more elegant solution that wipes up easily. [more inside]
How many times was I re-tweeted (RT'd)?
What's up with Twitter and the Re-Tweet? [more inside]
Should I report and/or sue this doctor?
I know…YANMD, YANML. My daughter was born with an odd head shape and no fontanel. At three months our GP set up an appointment with a paediatric specialist. His diagnosis was, “that's just the way she was positioned in utero.” He did not schedule a follow up. [more inside]
Which SharePoint power user training should I take?
Which SharePoint power user training should I choose? Please give me your recommendations about good training companies and courses, thoughts on aiim.org, and any thoughts or advice about training remotely--is there any reason I shouldn't do it? [more inside]
Where can I find kava (aka kava-kava) in Sacramento?
Where can I find kava (AKA kava-kava) in Sacramento? [more inside]
What's it Worth to You?
Art Enthusiasts... an experienced artist asks: Help me price my work & tell me about your art buying proclivities... [more inside]
Keylogging my son's mac
I suspect my young son is carrying on an ongoing discussion with a stranger he met on the internet. My wife and I are going to approach him, but we would like some evidence so we know what questions to ask. [more inside]
Is NOLS a safe place for LGBTQ folks?
I'm a trans-man looking into a month-long NOLS course. Is NOLS a safe place for LGBTQ folks? [more inside]
Notes on a powerpoint picture
I have a group picture, I want to add hidden flickr style notes on to the picture within a powerpoint presentation so I can mouse across faces and show information. Is this possible? [more inside]
Weighty lamp issue
Looking for a way to repair a floor lamp. The weight in the base broke and fell out. [more inside]
Need recollections, tips and inspiration for a dinner party themed around the Oscars Nominees for Best Picture
Foodie Cinephiles, help us pair foods with the 10 Best Picture nominees for our Academy Awards dinner. Need help especially remembering food in the films and, secondarily, thinking of other possible connections. [more inside]
Why do I feel worse after getting enough sleep?
Why do I feel worse after getting enough sleep? As the physical symptoms of exhaustion recede, my emotional state goes to pieces. [more inside]
What to see in Key West?
Going to Key West this coming weekend. What should I absolutely not miss out on? [more inside]
Where can I get recommendations for the 'greenest' house cleaners and personal care products?
Where can I get recommendations for the 'greenest' house cleaners and personal care products? [more inside]
I can just ignore this, right?
How important is the big piece of plastic that goes across the bottom of the front of my car, under the engine? Because mine fell off.
Help me figure out the algorithm to solve a maths problem
Need help from Math and IT geeks :-)
Long question inside. [more inside]
Who painted this picture of a crowned cat?
Please identify the source of this painting of a cat being crowned and robed by cherubs. [more inside]
It shouldn't be this hard to find d6s.
Di(c)eFilter. I need help finding old dice! [more inside]
We have the idea, the place, and the workforce. We just need the money to get it rolling.
Through my work I've become aware of a gaping hole in available high-dollar products. I've got access to all the personnel I need to make this A Really Big Deal, what I don't know is how to go about funding it. [more inside]
Software for local history?
How are people using software and the net to gather and write local history? [more inside]
No spam please. We're American.
Oh, dear. It seems my WordPress blog has decided to randomly insert visible links to an online pharma company. What's going on, and how do I stop it? [more inside]
Why doesn't the paint touch the corners?
This recent post on MetaFilter on pour painting and this comment about how the paint, when poured slowly on to the top face of a cube, does not run down the corners of the cube, got me thinking about why it didn't ... but after a day thinking about viscous liquids I'm still completely stuck for a scientific explanation. Can anyone enlighten me?
Comic Book Communism
I'm looking for the name of a book I read back in the late 60's or early 70's. It was an illustrated, I'd almost say sequential art (that'd be comics to you and me...) book all about the Chinese Communist revolution. [more inside]
Hello dendrologists!
I'm trying to identify a type of tree that I remember from when I lived in upstate NY. It had needles (rather than broad leaves) which were a little longer and much "softer"-- less prickly, anyway-- than most coniferous trees I've seen/felt. Most strikingly, they would turn a gorgeous scarlet in the autumn-- the only non-broadleaf tree I've seen to do so. Has anyone out there seen these beauties?
Customers who bought these rabbits also bought...
Books like Watership Down? [more inside]
Help us navigate the large corporation world!
Looking for the best route to contact large corporations for sales of an R&D solution. If I were a small company with a patented product that could revolutionize how certain industry giants could do business, how would I find the right contact inside the company that would take the time to listen to me? [more inside]
How to send multiple HTML files as one?
A way to send multiple HTML files without having to use something as complicated as ZIP. [more inside]
February 13
"Breakup" anxiety
Help me alleviate post-"breakup" anxiety. Not as complicated as some situations of this sort, but I'm still confused. [more inside]
What I really need is a friendly robot who wouldn't mind watering my plants while I'm gone.
I'm going away for 2 months. How do I keep my plants watered? [more inside]
albums for when the party's over
God, how I love Roxy Music's Avalon. Can you recommend other albums from that era that have a similar laid-back, late night glamorous feel?
because putting "Maybe Sprout Wings" on repeat isn't really a valid coping strategy
I've been having short, intense feelings of overwhelming despair, particularly at night. I need advice on dealing with this. [more inside]
black-eyed peas and fried stuff
Traditional Southern food (southeastern U.S.): why has it remained so popular within the region? Is it just history, or 'comfort food'? [more inside]
Cheer up, kids.
[Subculture Filter] What is emo all about anyway? [more inside]
I need to find sources for my Croatian roots.
My husband and I are both a quarter Croatian. Both our respective families hail from around Dubrovnic, on the Dalmatian coast. Being from such diverse backgrounds, we appreciate this cultural heritage that we share in common. As such, we would very much like to be put into contact people who can provide us with fabrics, traditional musics, religious traditions and the like. [more inside]
Help me fix my corrupted Eudora mailboxes.
Help me fix my corrupted Eudora mailboxes. [more inside]
Beer in Sacramento
Looking for good bars in Sacramento who focus in quality beer. [more inside]
Does septic tank your home's value?
Does having a septic system negatively impact the value of a house? [more inside]
Gin, please.
Where can I find the best gin and tonic in downtown Toronto? [more inside]
How can I view my webcam from my Android-powered mobile device?
How can I use my Logitech HD Pro Webcam C910 as a baby monitor? I want to view the video on my Android phone. [more inside]
Not Your Beck And Call Girl
Help me understand modern dating. Why do guys think that endless/pointless txting is how they build meaningful relationships. [more inside]
Kicking the bucket, one console at a time
I kicked the DVD tray while it was open on my roommate's xbox 360 slim. Now it won't close. It feels like the gears are off track or broken.
Does the warranty cover that? If not, what should I do to fix it? Home repair? Take it to the local console repair shop? Can it be fixed, or should I replace the dvd drive?
Slim-fitting hiking/travel pants
Do slim-fitting men's hiking/travel pants exist? [more inside]
Your fridge's secret ingredient made by you
Do you have food preparation tricks for transforming simple ingredients? Do you take foods to a new level before they sit in the fridge, waiting to be used in a dish? Please share your special alterations to grocery store fare, and also how you use them after! [more inside]
Mucho macaroni
What do I do with an excess of macaroni? [more inside]
how to calculate fence shadow
Is there an easy way to calculate the length and time of the shadow cast by my fence this spring and summer, for gardening purposes? Specs: 8 ft tall solid wood fence running almost exactly east to west, located in Washngton, DC.
Document formatting systems for collaborative work
We're trying to set up a collaboration on a textbook-like document, but we're not sure what formatting system to use. Considering LaTeX, but would appreciate some perspectives on how to make it easy for people to make contributions. [more inside]
The Ivy League Survivor
What is the name of this (old) reality TV show? [more inside]
A book to make the miles fly by…
I have recently discovered the joys of reading my Kindle while running on the treadmill. I'm looking for well-written, super-engrossing books to put on my Kindle to make the miles fly by… [more inside]
La da de dada dede dada dee dee dee dee, uh-oh SpaghettiOs
What are the full lyrics to the SpaghettiOs song? [more inside]
Have I missed anything?
How to revive old Dell XP machine ? [more inside]
Why does my chest flush so easily?
My chest and neck are very prone to flushing. Emotional stress, itchy sweaters, and just about everything else cause bright red patches to appear. How can I control this? [more inside]
I'm a girl with boy underwear envy
I'm a girl with boy underwear envy. Where can I buy (online) some skivvies that have a fun pattern or design, but that are in a cut for a girl? [more inside]
How can I survive my mother's death?
How can I survive my mother's death? [more inside]
I have no idea
I keep going through brief bouts of suicidal ideation. I won't carry these out, but obviously it is very distressing. What should I do? Frustration with mental health services also included as a bonus... [more inside]
How is Brazil helping Haiti right now?
What aid/help is Brazil doing in Haiti today? [more inside]
What are these bugs on this plant and how do I get rid of them?
What are these bugs on my sister's plant and what should she do about them?
Replacing porcelain lampholder
Did I wire this new porcelain lampholder correctly? Replaced an old one in the basement that was slightly different, and want to make sure i did OK. [more inside]
I like you and you're awesome and I am so lucky you talk to me even though I am so weird as to tell you this
Should I send mash notes for Valentine's Day, or will that freak everyone out? [more inside]
What are some nicely-designed podcast websites?
What are some nicely-designed podcast websites? [more inside]
Plug it in, Plug it in...
Do these Firefox addons exist? 1) something to allow you to manually control the width of tabs and 2) something to show the title of a destination page when you mouseover a hyperlink? [more inside]
Vampires with Tentacles?
Vampire fiction series from the seventies - with tentacles? [more inside]
Score some bonus points!
Women of Reddit! Mrs. Funmonkey1 is looking for new pc or internet based games. Difficulty level: PopCap has been exhausted and farmville facebook type stuff not interested in. [more inside]
Why call now, after all these years?
WTF... is it my imagination or is there likely something else behind my SO's ex-wife calling to give him news of the passing of someone he used to know? [more inside]
Should I sue Bank of America for mishandling my account and improperly sending me to collections?
Should I sue Bank of America for mishandling my account and improperly sending me to collections? [more inside]
How do Icelandic surname conventions work for same-sex couples?
Icelandic naming conventions and same-sex couples' children. [more inside]
Where's a cheap place in Milwaukee to have stitches removed?
Where's a cheap place in Milwaukee to have stitches removed? [more inside]
SQL Query help in Access 2000
I have a MS Access 2000 table with approx 300,000 records. I need help with constructing a query. [more inside]
Setting up a debating club at my university
I need advice on setting up a debating club at my university. [more inside]
state tax returns - argh!
Taxfilter: what's the right method for computing your taxable income in NYC if you only lived there part of the year? [more inside]
Color printer quest
I'm looking for a color printer which can compete with designer and scrapbook papers-- designer papers are the computer paper with preprinted color backgrounds. [more inside]
japan gift for a 12 year old
Japan-themed gift for a 12 year old boy. He's interested in anime, video games, and all things Japanese (even though he doesn't really know that much about Japan). A book with lots of photos would be great, but adult ones have too many words, and kids ones have too little real info. This book looks perfect, but it's not releasing until this summer.
Visualizing my computers data
How can I visualize the file structure of data on my computer? [more inside]
Name this font
Typography nerds: I need to ID this font [more inside]
Drinking too much Snapple?
Am I going to overdose on Snapple? [more inside]
Therapeutic, non-recreational cannabis
I need to know more about therapeutic use for marijuana, specifically for menstrual pain and vulvodynia. Snow flurries inside! [more inside]
Find me a non-stuffy ballet class in northwest Philadelphia
Does anyone have suggestions for a high quality dance studio in northwest Philadelphia (especially Chestnut Hill/Mt. Airy area)? I'm a twentysomething who is primarily interested in ballet, although I've enjoyed tap in the past as well. [more inside]
Pimple-ish looking thing on the outside of my shin. What is this? (Pic inside)
Pimple-ish looking thing on the outside of my shin. What is this? [more inside]
Condense a few thousand years of history into a few hundred pages?
Is there a good overview or history of China to read? Or a few books together to read on the various eras of Chinese history? It's one of the areas of the world that I know surprisingly little about but really should. Ideally, I would love to find some books that are available for Kindle.
This prior AskMefi question targeted Early Chinese History. I'd also like some suggestions on 19th and 20th century Chinese history and the Communist revolution, in particular, too.
Gah facebook do I have to delete you again
Facebook Question: Finally got back onto the facebook bandwagon a few days ago. But why don't I show up in searches? [more inside]
What happens when I eat a bunch of sugar and then go to bed?
Are there any nutritionists that can weigh in on what exactly occurs when I eat a bunch of sugar immediately before going to bed? [more inside]
Need tips for relating to fellow countrymen and making new friends!
Need tips for relating to fellow countrymen and making new friends! [more inside]
Recommendations for the 2011 Berlinale
Which movies should I watch at this year's Berlinale film festival? [more inside]
Who might want my compost?
I'm moving interstate and don't want to take my compost + worms with me, but I don't want to just throw it away. Any suggestions for how to find people who might want it? [more inside]
Should I transfer to complete my cs degree?
UT Austin vs. UT Dallas computer science. [more inside]
Moving against the technology tide
Migration from Linux to Windows. What do I need to know in order to make this bumpy transition smoother? [more inside]
February 12
Photo of "Nobody's Twisting Your Arm"?
What is the background of the photo on the Wedding Present single "Nobody's Twisting Your Arm"? [more inside]
Can I Spell Check an Entire Folder?
I’ve amassed a fairly large collection of documents over the years. Among other things, I keep text files, MS Word documents, PDFs, HTML files and a few other formats. Many of these contain my own writing.
I am a terrible speller.
I was wondering if there was some sort of application that could recursively spell check all documents within a folder, similar to how MS Windows can search for a text string in all documents within a folder.
For the past few days, I’ve been opening every document in my collection (that I wrote) and pasting the text into MS Word to spell-check it. At the rate I am going, this will take months.
Thank you in advance for any help you can give me.
Which college or university for which academic department?
Does anybody know of a resource that ranks American colleges and universities by academic department? For example let's say I want to know what institution of higher learning has the best undergraduate physics department.
Mapping software that can count addresses within an arbitrarily bounded area
I’m looking for mapping software that will let me import addresses from a spreadsheet, plot them on a map, and then allow me to draw arbitrary boundaries on the map and give me the count of addresses that fall within the bounded area. Also, is there a name for this functionality?
What is the lowest median age of any human population group?
What is the lowest median age of any human population group? How low can it go? Is there a theoretical lower limit? [more inside]
I need the ottomans to nest.
I want to buy this awesome adjustable height table/nesting ottomans. They have it at Macy's here in NYC, but the catch is I'd really like to have it tomorrow and they can't deliver for another week. [more inside]
the shoes on my feet
quick! low-maint. costume for destiny's child themed party? [more inside]
Where to find photos of people at a specific age?
Where online can I find a variety of pictures of men or women of a specific age? [more inside]
Help me figure out "interesting" beer!
Beer of the Month club or a variety of beers? [more inside]
Help me lern 2 blog?
How do I let people know that I even have a blog, once I get it started? [more inside]
"Amazingly odd and oddly amazing" - is there a name for this kind of phrase?
What are these phrases called? Examples: "amazingly odd and oddly amazing"; "terribly basic and basically terrible"; "embarrassingly hot and hotly embarrassing". I could swear I came across a name for this type of word pairing once before (quite possibly on this very site, in which case sorry), but my searches to find it again have been hopelessly awful and awfully hopeless. [more inside]
Jumpsuits and Solenoids?
Totally failing at finding a series of videos of a Japanese man in a jumpsuit and hardhat who has invented several musical instruments based on solenioids. Anybody know what I'm talking about and/or where to find them?
Valentine's in Detroit
What are some things to do and places to go for a Valentine's day in Detroit? Art or science related a big plus! [more inside]
Sites to find sites like the ones you like?
Are there any sites out there that work on a principle similar to gnod, but for finding web sites you might like? i.e. You input sites that you like, and it gives you a list of other sites you might also like.
INFJ seeks ENt/f? ENp/j?
What does it mean when you come out completely even on half of the Myers-Briggs/Kiersey temperament sorter indicators? [more inside]
So do you come here often?
She wants my advice, my empathy, my help, and my attention. I just want to date her. What is my next move? [more inside]
Disco motown.
What are some disco and/or funk remakes of motown songs/oldies, in the same vein of "Heaven Must Have Sent You?" Making a playlist. Help!
Help me get tied up in SF!
I'd like to get tied up somewhere in or around SF either tomorow or Monday. This needn't be a sexual encounter, but it need be professional and discreet. [more inside]
A series of series and serialized sub-serials. Seriously, basically help me make some mini-series - there will be spoilers.
*Spoiler Alert*Never Read This Thread (but none within the question itself): I am hoping to create a set of custom original miniature series "arcs", highlighting various things; characters/topics/ story-arcs/plot-arcs... any sort of "shortening of a longer series" that you love, or like or know. [more inside]
I love sushi. I don't love crazy cults. Now what?
Do the Moonies actually supply that much of the sushi market, and if so, do my favorite sushi restaurants in Madison,WI (Takara) get their sushi from them? [more inside]
penny for my thoughts?
I know what my problem is. I know why it was happening. Question is: how do I CHANGE my knee-jerky negative subconscious? [more inside]
How to set up LAN-only SSH on the D-Link TM-G5240?
I have a D-Link TM-G5240 wireless router, and I want to set it up to allow SSH traffic strictly over the LAN; i.e., no access from outside. (I don't envision ever needing to SSH into our home network from anywhere else, so I'd like to keep anyone else from being able to do so.) What's the best way to go about it? Keep in mind, I'm a networking novice.
Patrick Stewart's best ST:TNG performances?
Patrick Stewart's best ST:TNG performances? [more inside]
How long should you keep makeup brushes?
How long should you keep makeup brushes? [more inside]
NPR special on a certain eccentric pioneering biologist...
Trying to find an NPR program about an eccentric pioneer of genetics who insisted on black laboratories? [more inside]
What to do about social anxiety?
Orlando adventure update and please share some tips for loneliness [more inside]
A poopy cloth diaper by any other name would still smell like a poopy diaper.
Help me brainstorm names for a friends South Florida natural mothering store, with online presence, eventually transitioning into a brick and mortar location while maintaining the website. [more inside]
I have a webcam. Now what?
I recently acquired a nice webcam (about $100) that I didn't have any particular use for. What should I do with it? [more inside]
Where best to look for cheap short-term accommodation in NYC?
I want to rent a room in NYC for 3 months between June - August, pay a maximum of $700 monthly, where should I look? [more inside]
Where to register a .rs domain?
Where should I register my .rs domain, so I don't get ripped off? [more inside]
What should I do next?
I'm 20 years old and in college. Wondering about what I should do regarding a person who I'm interested in. [more inside]
Too late for Lili's tee?
Several years ago I saw commercials for a movie featuring Lili Taylor. In one scene, she was wearing a t-shirt that caught my eye. I managed to find it via Google, but I never bought it. Now, I want to know if still exists, so I can get it! [more inside]
What to do about putting a previous job that I was fired from on my resume?
I just went through an extended period of depression and ended up getting fired for missing work. What to do now? [more inside]
Need advice on leaking roof.
I noticed water spots in the ceiling a few days ago. Obviously the roof is leaking. The roof is fairly new, put in fall 09. But we've got a lot of snow, and what looks like an ice dam on the roof. I'm not sure what it all means or where to begin. Seeking advice. [more inside]
Mr. Crowley, what went down in your head?
Recommendations for books about Aleister Crowley himself or his influence. [more inside]
How can I keep predators out of my small container pond?
How can I keep predators out of my small container pond? [more inside]
Now what do we watch?
What (non-SFF show) should a friend and I watch together? Long story arcs and funny, not murder-of-the-week shows. [more inside]
How can I conveniently text message from all my devices?
Are there ways to do my text message correspondence from my Mac and my iPad? I would greatly prefer a solution that does not require me to switch phone numbers or send from different phone numbers/addresses on different devices, I don't want my recipients to have to know different addresses/numbers for texting me. Ideally I would like my texting to be like my IMAP email, the same no matter what device I check it from.
Internet in Winter Garden
What are good options for Internet in Winter Garden FL? [more inside]
I will not resort to cheap brake puns.
My wife's car's rear brakes need replacing. I'm not a car guy. [more inside]
Valentine's Day gift ideas for my pregnant wife.
Valentine's Day gift ideas for my pregnant wife. [more inside]
[MidlifeCrisisfilter] Help me help my friend who is turning 40 and is very upset about it.
Please help me think of new ways to help a friend cope with turning 40. This friend is really upset about it, especially because she is single, has no prospects, regardless of how hard she tries, and feels despondent over it. [more inside]
Mystery female on Destroyer's Rubies.
Who is the female backup singer on Destroyer's Rubies?
Her voice is very familiar, but I just can't place it. She sings a short phrase here at the 3 minute mark, and again at 4 minutes. I've read the liner notes, scanned the reviews and read the Destroyer Wiki, but cannot find a name.
Where can I get this screensaver?
Does anyone recognize the screensaver being used in this picture? Searching Google for "Mac clock screensaver" and variations thereof was unsurprisingly unhelpful.
How to cope with a fear of death? I
I'm terrified at the thought of dying and don't know what to do. I am not actually dying or sick in any way but sometimes I can't stop worrying about it. How can I stop, or feel better about it? [more inside]
Dealing with bisexuality
Being bisexual in a relationship... How do you deal with being attracted to the other sex? How do you know you're supposed to be with the sex you're with? [more inside]
Soul chorus.
SongFilter. Super sweet soul tune: does it have a twin? [more inside]
Something stoped these Tranes
I have 2 Trane XV 90 furnaces in my house the upstairs one has been unused for the season and is now not igniting. The downstairs unit has been running fine but it appears the blower motor is not coming on. [more inside]
Help me identify this short story based on the plot!
Help me find the name/author of a short story with the following plot:
human children are the work slaves of gremlins (goblins?), and made to do manual labor underground. Those with good behavior and who are getting older are "graduated" and told that they're being freed, but after a gremlin-only "ceremony," are killed for food instead. [more inside]
It's the perfect template!
I have a template I use for my grocery lists that I've made in my spreadsheet program (Numbers). Is there somewhere online that I can send it (say, as a PDF) to be printed in the form of a pad of paper? Staples doesn't appear to do this. I am in Canada.
Realtor recommendations for the East Bay?
Can anybody recommend realtors who could help us find apartment rentals in San Francisco's East Bay? [more inside]
my toes are burning. what gives?
my toes are burning. what gives? [more inside]
Can I stop my newly-single friend from self-destructing?
Can I stop my newly-single friend from self-destructing? [more inside]
Ya wanna grabba cuppa cawfee?
In the United States, is a strong regional accent a class marker? [more inside]
February 11
Shining waterproof shoes
How do I shine "waterproof" leather shoes? [more inside]
Given $1000, where should I go?
I'm getting about $1000 from my tax return and I'd like to take a vacation from April 16-25. Where should I go? [more inside]
Cloning a hard drive...how?
Using clonezilla, I cloned my 80gb Maxtor SATA hard drive. Now my new Western Digital 500gb SATA hard drive reads as identical but only 80gb. What did I do wrong?
Knock me out
Can you help a night-owl go to sleep early just this one time? [more inside]
What's your favorite inspirational story?
What's your favorite inspirational story? [more inside]
Stinky, jumpy car needs fixing
Help me figure out what's up with my gimpy car. It reeks of sulfur, has no power and bucks like a sad, old donkey. [more inside]
Is it too soon to shack up?
How soon is too soon to move in with your significant other? [more inside]
Short range on a RC vehicle
RC toy car (a remote-controlled Tyco Stunt Psycho) has very short range. Is there any way to troubleshoot the problem? [more inside]
Want: Not Dickhead Nor Snakehead but Nailhead
Lost my beloved Mountain Hardwear Nailhead Pullover. Desperately want/need another one. But it was discontinued 3 years ago. [more inside]
Potstickers on a bbq
I've been challenged to make potstickers totally on a bbq (wrappers are purchased, filling made separately). Suggestions on technique????
Oddly, I miss Facebook
A friend asks:
"My facebook account was hacked by 419 scammers, and is now disabled. I have gone through all the hoops facebook says to go through to reinstate it, and I get NO response. Is there any way to get them to respond and reinstate my account?"
Take Me Out To The Ball
How can I be the best event planner possible? [more inside]
refinishing oak cabinets
I have a 20 year-old house with decent-quality stained oak cabinets (built by a cabinet builder on-site during the house's construction). I love the layout of my kitchen and the cabinets are very functional, but the finish is looking a little worn and chipped these days. How can I refinish these cabinets? [more inside]
Central LA Neighborhoods?
Where to live in Central LA? Been away for a long time and looking for input on neighborhoods. [more inside]
Gigabyte Doubling Trouble
The case of the missing Mac HD space, and symlink shenanigans. [more inside]
Happy Valenhog Day to you, too! Now, what to eat?
I need an idea for a dish to bring to the work Valenhog potluck lunch on Monday! (Valenhog Day is Valentine's day and Groundhog's day, of course.) [more inside]
Looking for a Group
My wife is looking for a group to join in San Francisco with some particular characteristics. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Anyone know a good rosacea Dr?
I'm 32 and in the past year have developed pretty serious rosacea. Can anyone recommend a good dermatologist in the NYC area?
Marketing an internal website
Launching a global internal website...how best to market it? [more inside]
What's the name of this very scary picture book from the 80s or 90s?
Does anyone have any idea what 1980s or 1990s children's picture book this was? (very scary, about monsters). [more inside]
Attention Cottagers: Help us find our dream summer cottage rental in Ontario
What's a good method to find a summer cottage rental on Lake Huron or Georgian Bay? [more inside]
How much for parts?
Help - quick! Someone has offered to buy our 1991 Volvo 240 wagon for parts but we are being required to set an asking price instead of him making an offer. Anyone have any advice? The mechanic kind of scoffed at $500.
How do I go about hiring an artist??
How do I hire an artist to create concert poster style wedding invitations? [more inside]
iJust want iPhotos on my iWall.
I can't *possibly* be the only person who would like to pull photos wirelessly from my iPhoto library and display them on a reasonably-priced wifi picture frame -- am I? [more inside]
Etymology of "once and for all"?
What's the etymology of the phrase "once and for all"? What's the earliest known attestation?
Dictators, Despots, and Wealth, how do they get away with it?
Mubarak is estimated at being worth between $40 to $70 billion, how can he hide that type of money? [more inside]
Daily Show and Colbert Report blocked ?
Has Comedy Central blocked the Daily Show and Colbert Report for viewers outside the US ? I live in the Netherlands and I watched the show for years on their site and now I get a black screen. Is there another way to watch the shows ?
How can I have a good time around someone I'd rather never see again?
What's the best way to deal with being around a guy who really hurt my feelings (not romantically), without killing everyone's good time? [more inside]
What goes in my "Publications" section?
Journalist with academic aspirations has a CV question. [more inside]
How Do I make a very simple map to help my friend hawk their wares?
I want to make a simple USA map showing the 15 nationwide locations of a friend's stores. Besides making it by hand in photoshop or using the overly detailed google maps (or google earth) how do I do it? [more inside]
ADHD Seeking Personal Assistant?
ADHD Seeking Personal Assistant? I'm 35 years old, married with children, and an assistant professor on tenure track with relatively high research and teaching expectations. I was diagnosed with attention deficit disorder (predominantly inattentive) in the summer of 2010. [more inside]
Hilarious blog that debunks/critiques New York Times articles about new social trends
There is a hilarious blog that debunks/critiques various "OMG NEW TREND!" society / lifestyle / etc. articles in The New York times. I think I may have originally found it via a link in one of the comments here. But my Google-fu is failing me. Help? Thanks.
dinner time blues - how often to cook
I'm wondering how often people cook dinner from scratch versus prepared foods. [more inside]
Is there any Mac (OSX) Contact Management Software specifically focusing on sales?
I need to keep track of my clients and the homes they purchased so that I can provide the best level of service to them after I have worked with them. Is that possible with any OSX software? (More inside!) [more inside]
This might have been the book that sparked my love for all things fantasy
Another forgotten YA book title. I would have read it in 1985 or so - elementary school. Two kids from modern times are led through a portal (maybe?) or time travel (??) into a medieval/fantasy setting with (or possibly, where they meet?) a ranger type character. [more inside]
I Before E Except After Huh?
Does anyone know the background behind this song, or the origin of its lyrics? Is it just random texts? [more inside]
Where can I watch the Grammy's in Portland, OR?
Where can a friend and I watch the Grammys on Sunday in Portland, OR? [more inside]
How do you turn a bad therapy session into moving forward and continue to find help?
How to I convince spouse to find another therapist when their first encounter was so bad? [more inside]
Help me flush my toilet replacement worries down the drain
I'm considering replacing the toilet in my oldish house, and I'd like to be prepared for any trouble I might run into. [more inside]
Cabbages and... conveyor belts
Help me figure out what this YA science fiction novel was! It had very deep cities, an escape having something to do with cabbages, and some kind of rural life outside. Maybe. [more inside]
Let's Just Be Friends?
I have had a few fledgling relationships that have gone from awesome platonic friendship --> sexual tension ---> hook-up (instigated by the guy)--> awkward, painful attempt at going back to friendship (also instigated by the guy).
I'm really confused and bitter and angry. Can you help me decipher what's going on and figure out if these friendships are salvageable? [more inside]
Looking for Serious Bowling Online Resources
I need serious bowling resources. (online forums, buying guides, technical discussions, SCIENCE!, etc) [more inside]
"Oh, so you already know all the old science?"
Quip identify filter-
Reporter: "What's the newest thing in science?"
Scientist, feigning surprise: "Oh, so you already know all the old science?"
Does anyone recognize this? Who said it?
The right vehicle insurance for traveling musicians?
Do traveling musicians in the US need to have commercial vehicle liability insurance? If so, what should we expect to pay and where should we get it? [more inside]
Groping stepdad vs. little kid
How do I resolve this awkward family situation involving a groping stepdad? More info after the break. [more inside]
How do I collect dictionary definitions for ~350 words to put into a database?
I have a list of about 350 words that I'm putting into a database that I'm building from scratch. For each word in the list, I'd like to include its American English dictionary definition (preferably American Heritage Dictionary), UrbanDictionary entry, and Wikipedia page link (I realize that entries may not exist for some columns for many of these words). Is there some way to streamline or data-mine this process, so I don't have to look up each word individually in 3 separate sources x350+, not to mention all the copying and pasting? [more inside]
I want to be the next Terrance Dicks.
I desperately want to write for Doctor Who - not the show, but the tie-in novels and audiobooks. Do I have a snowball's chance? [more inside]
Trying to follow the light. But failing.
Bookfilter: something something FANTASY something something BLUE LIGHT something something BIG SNAKE. [more inside]
Flavorless chewing gum?
I'm looking for sweetener-less, sugarless (and yes, flavorless) chewing gum. [more inside]
Existential Angst, Party of 1
I made a turn in my life about 7 years ago and it was a wrong turn. Now I need some assistance backing out, turning around and figuring out a new path. (possible tl, dr) [more inside]
In search of a project note organization system for Windows
I'm looking for a Windows-based (or online/multi-platform) program to organize my various notes, with the ability to sort by contact name, contact phone number, project name, and date(s). More thoughts inside. [more inside]
wok, don't run
How (un)healthy is stir fry, as a cooking method? [more inside]
Is a big trip to the big rock worth the expense and effort?
Is a trip to Uluru/Ayers Rock worth it? [more inside]
How to get Firefox and Winamp to mesh well?
Is there any way to get Winamp's controls and playlist window to open upwardly? [more inside]
Why would one of my RAM bays be okay with a 512MB stick but not a 2GB?
I got some new RAM for my Macbook, but it's causing some really weird freezing issues. [more inside]
Goodbye and don't let the rain of shoes hit you on your way out
Now that Mubarak has stepped down after weeks of protests, is any other authoritarian governments in the region on the brink of similar civic uprising? [more inside]
What's the name and origin of the "long Noooooo" shot in film?
Is there a name, please, for the now-clichéd and much-satirized film shot in which the camera pulls rapidly out of a close-up, often moving back and up, while the subject, having just had bad news or seen something dreadful, goes "noooooooooo" rather a lot? We are meant to gather that they are somewhat alone, and not at all happy. Where/when did this shot originate? [more inside]
Got African Tribal Singing?
Where can I download recordings of African "tribal" songs? [more inside]
The wrong kind of hat-hair.
How, in Flash AS3, would I implement a sort of forced-transparency? [more inside]
Ride, Sally, ride.
Help me plan my trip to Sasquatch! 2011. [more inside]
When is a .pdf not a .pdf? When it's scanned.
Ipad filter: highlighting and annotating scanned .pdfs? [more inside]
Nicotine + birth control - the same risks as smoking + birth control?
I know you're not supposed to smoke on the pill, but what about nicotine replacement therapy? [more inside]
Pre-ordering Kindle books
A book that I want to read on my Kindle will be released soon. Is there any advantage in pre-ordering it? [more inside]
CSA-Approved Doc Martens in Ottawa
Where can I find CSA approved steel-toed Doc Martens in Ottawa, ON? [more inside]
negotiating up
I made the mistake of telling them my exact current base salary at the interview. How to negotiate? A spreadsheet, good/bad idea? Measures/conditions to ask for to prevent being overwhelmed in understaffed situations/persistent unpaid overtime work? [more inside]
Another book title search.
Science Fiction identification: In high school (the 80s) I read a scifi book in which (I believe) a fat despondent boy's family is wiped out, and he is sent to either a school or a prison. Someone there makes him run around the perimeter for a long time, until he's in great shape. He goes from fat and soft, to lean and hard. He may subsequently become a soldier. That's all I remember. Can you help me find the name of the book?
Recommend me some funk albums!
I've discovered that I really like funky music. [more inside]
Where are the gourmet Chinese restaurants?
Why are there so many Chinese restaurants in America that serve really cheap, low quality food, compared to, say, Thai restaurants, which seem to always have fresher ingredients? I've seen what really good, genuine Chinese food looks like from shows like Iron Chef, and I'd love to try some, but every restaurant I eat at always seems like they serve reheated food out of vats. How can you find the good Chinese restaurants in your town? I know they must be out there.
Crafting a successful dental insurance appeal
Help me craft a successful dental insurance appeal. [more inside]
Two Winter Trees to Identify
Identify these two trees in Winter? For planning a spring landscape. [more inside]
Why do I wake up feeling achy and sore?
I wake up feeling achy and sore, and can't figure out why. Do you have any ideas? [more inside]
Cardiologist in NYC?
Tested, consulted and faced with imminent surgery for repair/replacement of valve.
Male, 60, congenital MVP, a problem since contacting bacterial infection. Severe mitral regurgitation, enlargement, familial thrombocytopenia, fatigued, otherwise good health.
Looking for 2nd opinion, Doctor recommendations in NYC.
Old Route 66 Postcards
I'm looking to buy around 150 postcards from the 50s - 70s that feature attractions from Route 66, or that highlighting Route 66 generally or the states along the way. Are there any stores in either New York City or Washington DC that sell that sort of thing? I've looked around on eBay a little, but I haven't found anything but single postcards here and there -- but I'm hoping to buy them in a lot. Is there somewhere better online I should be looking into?
Hello World. How are you?
I run into people I know and they say "Hello, how are you?" and I say "Fine". This is getting boring. I understand that there really isn't a question-answer thing happening, but I want something more interesting than "Fine". What else could I say? [more inside]
Forgotten craft article
Half remembered craft article - a cute gift made with an egg. You pricked a normal egg, sucked the contents out, then bored a little hole in it. You could then roll up a nice little note or something, slip it in the hollow eggshell, then conceal the hole by making the egg spotted - sticking circular stickers on the egg including one covering the hole. I think the egg was also spraypainted gold. It was a pretty cute idea, anyone remember this? [more inside]
women's clothing sizes
How do women's clothing sizes differ in different stores, especially in comparison to H&M? [more inside]
Help me become a public intellectual
I may know what I want to do with my life. Yay! But how the heck do I get there? [more inside]
Recommend a PA real estate lawyer
I need a recommendation for a real estate lawyer in the Easton, PA area. I'm the buyer. It's a short sale and I'd like to find a lawyer with some experience. I don't want to pick someone out of the phone book. Ideally you have actually worked with the attorney but any reliable advice would be appreciated. Responding here is best but MeFi mail is good too. Help? Thanks in advance!
Small differences in the U.S.A (international people)
What are some small differences you've noticed about the US?
Examples:
My Japanese friend says that in Japan, large buildings have multiple public entrance/exits.
My Dutch friend says that in the Netherlands, women shower in the gym showers.
Specifically, I'm interested in things that could imply some theory (elaborate or not) of US culture, of some region of the US.
The Switch Back
ComputerBuyingFilter: My beloved iBook is on his last legs. I haven't owned a Windows computer in nearly 7 years, but I'm considering buying one as my next computer. What would you tell a longtime Mac user who's considering going Windows? [more inside]
February 10
Home Electronic Music Studio - DA signal paths and other questions.
Re-building my electronic music home studio with a new computer at the heart of it. Have lots of pieces but not sure of optimal setup/signal path. [more inside]
Baking soda and apple cider vinegar for your hair?
Anyone use baking soda instead of shampoo to wash your hair? [more inside]
sax hook
What is that 80s sax song that goes "do dwee do dododo?" [more inside]
How can 6 people split 6 season's tickets equitably?
Help me design a good strategy for splitting a seasons ticket pool. [more inside]
Stoney Tangawizi in NYC?
Stoney Tangawizi is sweet sodafied deliciousness. You owe it yourself to try some. If you tell me where I can buy it in New York City, I'll get you a bottle.
Staying home for our second honeymoon - where to go in San Diego ?
My wife and I are finally ready for a vacation. We're leaving the kids with the grandparents and will have 3 days to ourselves. Except we're not ready to travel so we'll be staying local in San Diego.
What interesting places can we visit in San Diego ? [more inside]
Help me locate this Victorian pulp fiction!
Another book-locating question: help me locate this Victorian pulp fiction! [more inside]
Dating/socializing 101 for introverts
An introvert in an extrovert's world - Teach a perennial shy guy how to navigate dating and relationships [more inside]
A good view of sunset + buildings in Philly?
I need a good look at the sunset in Philly tomorrow. With the skyline and the sunset at once. This is for a ~1hr time lapse photo shoot. Any locations in mind? [more inside]
Help me - my boss is trying to screw me out of worker's comp and I'm a statutory employee!
I work for a club in the San Fernando Valley and recently broke my ankle on the job. I am classified as 1099 but am actually a misclassified statutory employee and I think the the guy who owns the club and/or his insurance company is/are trying to cheat his way out of paying me worker's comp. and covering the cost of my pending operation. [more inside]
Please, no tiny puddles of pee for my feet to discover in the dark.
I'd like to get a dog. I think a small breed would be best based on my specific situation and I have only had past experience with large breeds. Can you provide some guidance about the housebreaking difficulties I'm reading about everywhere? [more inside]
My roommate, for the "most generous, altruistic reasons," is making my possessions disappear and become disfigured.
Help me find a new strategy with my "good-hearted, altruistic, generous" roommate who lends out my belongings to neighbors, damages and uses up my stuff. Please. [more inside]
Timekeeping for Virtual Assistants, and Complicated Cell Phone Questions.
How can I best keep track of my time when working remotely for another party? I'll be responding to inquiries by cell phone, and double-checking to make sure insurance information is kosher. But I have a problem: I have no idea how to keep track of my time. [more inside]
English essay help!
What are some representations of gay, uniformed (police, military, etc) men in television and film?
Cross Border Rx Shopping: The Canadian Edition
Is there a online pharmacy in the USA that will ship prescription medications to Canada? [more inside]
help me bend Mailman to my will!
How do I enable people on a Mailman list to send common (MS Office, PDF, etc) attachments in their email to others on the list? [more inside]
What's an amazing cocktail to serve with pho?
I need the perfect cocktail recipe and and beer to serve with phở! [more inside]
twin cities adhd doc
Good psychiatrist for adult ADHD in the Minneapolis-St. Paul area? [more inside]
Science: Sound, Percption, MP3, and Beyond
I'm in need of graduate level schooling on psychoacoustics and audio compression on the cheap. What are the latest and/or most used textbooks on these topics? [more inside]
3.1 don't fail me now
I taught myself Python 3.1... But, Django only works with 2.x. What are the alternatives for a web application framework for a complex data driven website that work with 3.1? [more inside]
What was that music webapp I had on my iPod?
What was that music webapp I had on my iPod? Help me remember the site I had saved to my homescreen a while ago. I'm fairly sure it was a webapp and not a proper app. I seem to remember the name for the icon was shortened to a two-letter acronym; I thought it was DI for digitalinspiration.com but googling that shows I was wrong. I'll try to describe it anyway: the app had a series of square, colourful icons down the left-hand side, not unlike the style to the iTunes gift card drawings. Each icon represented a category; I definately remember 'lounge', and the others were mostly dance/electronic music related genres like house, groove etc. probably hip-hop stuff too. Definately a cool and groovy site.
Should I pursue my interest and study college physics more?
Should I pursue my interest and study college physics more? Specifically, should I take a year-long calculus-based program, until I get comfortable that I'm on top of it-- and can really judge my level of interest and aptitude fairly?
Considering I'm a Junior English major. Also considering that it's been 15 years since HS algebra and I've never been good at math. But I want to be. [more inside]
Bully on the lose and there's nowhere to hide.
I am being bullied at work by my supervisor and there is no one to go to for help. I have four more months of a one-year contract but I feel like I may be nothing but a grease spot by the time I reach the end of this. What should I do? [more inside]
It *is* hard to stay up, it *has* been a long, long day
Is there a way to automatically add YouTube videos to a personal playlist as they are posted? [more inside]
1Password/Lastpass confusion.
I have severe 1Password/Lastpass confusion. Does one supercede the other or are they meant to be used concurrently, in an ideal situation? I'm confused whether they perform the same function or not.
Please help me organize my stuff! [more inside]
What type of flooring should I install in my home gym/dance studio?
I'm building an addition to my home which will include a dance studio/gym area. Looking for advice on what sort of flooring to install. Activities will include pole dancing, might include ballet, yoga, tae kwon do and falling down a lot. I want cushiony floor for the falling, but floor that I can spin around on and slide across for the actual "moves". Do you have any experiences/advice to share on flooring?
iPod Charger/Tuner with International Mode
I need a new iPod charger / FM Tuner for a 6th Gen Nano with International Mode. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Need a good chair
Any suggestions for "office chairs" that aren't technically office chairs, but that let you keep your feet up or feel similarly relaxed? [more inside]
Can you get sick from your own germs?
Is it possible to reinfect yourself with your own germs when sick? [more inside]
Trying to find two books from my childhood
Please help identify these two books (fiction) from the 70s (possibly earlier), each with an aviation motif. [more inside]
Help me show that this Evian for your face is bunk, with science
Is this this Evian spray bottle of water for your face is just bunk? Seeking cites one way or the other based on the science of skin moisturization. [more inside]
Please help me find a kosher deli/caterer in the San Jose area.
South (San Francisco) Bay Area: I need a kosher deli/caterer ASAP! [more inside]
Helps up plan our first real vacation!
Hooray, we're taking our first "big kid" vacation to New York City for a week! ...um, what now? (March 13-19 edition) [more inside]
photochemical etching supplies in nyc?
Photochemical etching supplies in NYC? [more inside]
I see my doctor more frequently than I see some friends and I feel mostly fine.
Is pain during intercourse and a swollen cervix, resulting from a specific position, worth going to the doctor for? Probably NSFW. [more inside]
Is an interactiv whiteboard purchase a good investment for a school?
My school is contemplating an interactive whiteboard purchase. I think this is a bad idea. Convince me that I am right (or wrong) please! [more inside]
What's the copyright law on postcards from the early 1900's?
Can I publish really old postcards in a book free and clear?
What are the rules around doing this (i.e. are there copyright concerns? do they every expire?)
Why did my bank call me about a wire transfer?
Why did my bank call me and ask if I'm expecting a wire transfer? [more inside]
Not even a vampire could tap me.
Is there a lancet-based or bloodless herpes, hep-c, and/or syphilis test? [more inside]
Why doesn't google help with the REALLY important stuff?
Thanks to some fabulous advice here, I have been invited to apply for a staff writer position. Woo-hoo! But they want to know my rate per 100 words. How do I figure that out? [more inside]
Bedbugs on trash day?
How dangerous, bedbug-wise, is picking up discarded luggage off the street? [more inside]
How was anything this ugly ever created?
Suggestions for covering a god-awful Formica sink counter-top? I'm a renter, so the solution needs to be removable if I move. [more inside]
What kind of hat is this?
What do you call the kind of soft-looking, somewhat pointed, one-piece hat typically shown on the head of the stereotypical "hillbilly?" [more inside]
Saké
Can you recommend a decent bottle of saké, and why you chose it. [more inside]
Hotels for Austin Scouts
Looking for hotels in Austin. My wife and I are coming to Austin on a scouting trip with my parents. All research is telling us Austin would be a great place to raise our kids. Kids won't be with us. We are coming on March 9th - 13th. We realize SWSX starts on the 11th. I am not concerned about staying near all the action. I actually wouldn't mind staying out in the hill country or any location where we can hop in our rental car and get a good feel for the metro area. We don't mind paying $150 - $200 a night. Where can we stay that will be a good launching point for checking out all that the Austin metro has to offer?
No American Pie, thanks.
Help me find some movies to watch... I'm beginning to think I don't like watching them. List of requirements inside... [more inside]
Japanese girl travels country with griddle TV show?
Once upon a time I saw a few episodes of a japanese TV show about a girl who runs an okonomiyaki restaurant (I think?) in Japan who travels the country with her cast-iron griddle looking for her father. Every episode ends with her in a cook-off against some random person. It was on TV in the Bay Area and subtitled. What the heck was this show? It has defeated even my powerful google-fu.
Griddle me timbers, matey!
What's your favorite use for a cast iron griddle? [more inside]
Heretical Handiwork
Alternative (non-religious) rosary bead activities? [more inside]
The Human Soul vs. General Anesthesia...
The Human Soul vs. General Anesthesia: I'm looking for reading material on how general anesthesia is viewed by people who hold spiritual beliefs that include the existence of an immortal soul/spirit/energy that is independent of ones physical body. [more inside]
Can anyone recommend good stargazing community sites for new stargazers?
Can anyone recommend good stargazing community sites for new stargazers? [more inside]
Where to find successful survivors of childhood sexual abuse?
Asking for a friend: How can an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse meet other survivors who have ended up happy and successful in spite of their childhoods? [more inside]
Sci-Fi Stumper: Post-apocalytic future; evil evolved rats?
Help me identify this book: It's science-fiction; it's set in some kind of post-apocalyptic or generally bleak future; and most memorably it features evolved rats that can do people-type stuff and may have been the "bad guys" of this book. I read it in 1980 at the latest. I suspect it was pulpy. And I most clearly remember a dramatic chase/action scene where either a human protagonist or one of the rats jumped in a big truck and, although it started, the tires began disintegrating because of its age (so the entire book couldn't have taken place more than a decade or two after something bad happened).
Reading fun.. out of the library!
How to have fun in Reading, UK? [more inside]
Help me find my possible dynamic IP range.
How do I determine the range of possible addresses that my ISP might assign me? [more inside]
XBOX 360 setup help followup
I'm still trying to connect my upcoming XBOX 360 to my computer monitor. The monitor has only VGA and DVI-D inputs and no audio output, however, so I'm having issues tracking down what needs to be done. Currently I'm fairly sure I've got what I need for video, but I still need help figuring out how to connect audio. [more inside]
How can I extricate myself from a tricky work situation?
Help me stay out of trouble at work! [more inside]
Building Communities As Alternative Lifestyles
For a long time now I've been aching to feel part of a larger community. Have you ever felt this way? How did you handle it? Have you ever built or been a part of a tight-knit social circle or community that lasted? [more inside]
Student loan hacks
Student loan hacks? Going to grad school (MBA) this fall most likely, and will be taking out loans for tuition and some living expenses. Any pro-tips or tricks of the trade for doing this most effectively? Also anything I should be aware of so that I don't screw myself over in the future?
Please tell me everything I need to know about the Sasquatch Music Festival!
I think I may be going to Sasquatch this year! I've never been - for that matter, I've never gone to any sort of music festival or even a concert bigger than a hundred people or so - so can any kindly souls out there give some tips or advice to a first-timer? I'm pretty clueless as a general rule so even the most basic of suggestions would be gladly appreciated, whether it's "if you hitchhike you will die" or "you will need to bring toilet paper" or "don't bother with a cell phone cause there's no reception out there" or "make sure not to miss this artist!" or anything else of the sort. My (pretty rough) plans and specific questions are under the fold... [more inside]
Play video or Power Point with motion sensor activation.
Need to find a way to activate a Power Point show via a motion activated sensor. [more inside]
I got the job...but did I maximize my potential earnings during the interview?
I got the job...but did I maximize my potential earnings during the interview? [more inside]
STI Testing in Chicago?
Need STI testing in Chicago. Where should I go? [more inside]
How do I use a running machine without breaking a leg?
Whenever I've tried to use the running machine at the gym, I feel like if I make one false move I'm going to fall or slip. How do people nonchalantly run on these things? [more inside]
Sound familiar...
What are the songs that make up the intro music to this Classic Game Room youtube video? [more inside]
How do I allow another person to post to my tumblr account?
How do I allow another person to post to my tumblr account? [more inside]
Essential books on branding?
What essential, comprehensive book (or other resource) on branding would you recommend? [more inside]
Advice or Experiences with UK Immigration?
I am a Canadian that has been living in America for 8 years as a permanent resident. I currently live with my English boyfriend, who is here on an L1 visa (which is being transferred over to an H1B). We are in the process of getting my paperwork together so that he can sponsor me as a common-law unmarried partner to move to England. As I've done this before (Canada to America) I do know that one of the best ways to get some insight into the underbelly of immigration is to ask people who have been through it. [more inside]
How much do I charge as a writing consultant?
How much do writing consultants charge? [more inside]
Stylish investments
Help me build a better, more cost-effective wardrobe! What's the one clothing/bag/accessory item that give the most bang for your buck? [more inside]
Did the Great Brain ever have his palm read?
Can you think of any children's books in which palm-reading is a plot point? I'm looking for books for kids about 7-12, so not primers, but not young adult, either.
I Need All the Help Ever: Calculus Edition
Help me arm myself for a future-determining showdown with calculus. [more inside]
Looking For Companies Who Use Statistical Process Control
Investing money. How do I find out about if a company/business uses Statistical Process Control systems [more inside]
Let's all share.
Pinko-filter: If all wealth in the US were completely evenly distributed how much would a given person have? [more inside]
Um, didn't we bail you jerks out???
Sallie Mae decided out of the blue to take my husband's student loans out of deferment. We are both three years into a PhD program (kind of the definition deferment is based on, no?) and truly cannot afford the $700 a month payments on these. What can we do? [more inside]
Do you remember this movie I can't remember?
I remember seeing a movie as a kid and I'd like to see it again but I don't know what it was called or who was in it. [more inside]
Trying to find the Green Machine
In the late 1970s the Australian Army made a recruiting film called "The Green Machine". I remember it having some fairly spectacular flying footage by the Army Aviation Corps as well as the usual other stuff. For reasons I'd probably not want to examine too closely I'd like to see it again. Does anyone know of an on-line source? It's not on Youtube as far as I can tell.
Philly Hotels in City Center?
Philadelphia-Filter: I'll be heading to Philly at the end of March for business and will need to stay within walking distance (or easy transit) of City Hall. Recommendations for inexpensive hotels? [more inside]
Can I eat umami without raising my blood pressure?
Is the umami flavor, although distinctly different, intrinsically tied to saltiness? [more inside]
How to protect a startup idea
A friend wants my advice on a secret project, but has been burnt before for sharing and wants some protection from it happening again. How can he share his idea and be sure I'm not going to run away with it. [more inside]
covariances versus covariation
Okay, stats mavens: What's the difference between covariance and covariation? [more inside]
Wants to join the military but not physically capable
I want to join the military but am not physically capable. I want to help out, but since strength and fitness are not my strong points, I am thinking of contributing other services that won't require those. But I heard that everyone, even the people not in physically demanding jobs like medical and intelligence force, must pass physical tests and training. I am willing to train myself beforehand if it's required, but I need to know what I must do and how everything works. Thanks.
Does anybody have Maynard James Keenan's phone number
I need some help compiling a list of resources for troubled teenagers, particularly teenaged boys. International (particularly the UK) resources are also required. [more inside]
The Best Library Programs
Friends, librarians, patrons, lend me your eyes. What are your favorite library programs in your area? Links and pictures are appreciated. [more inside]
Used to be confident, got the girl, now I'm a wreck. Why?
I was confident and had loads of self esteem right up to the moment I actually started a real relationship. Now I'm a mess. How did I lose it all? [more inside]
SWF seeks the right trousers.
Trousers for curvy girls going down into "straight sizes". Please hope me cover my curvy butt! [more inside]
Milnacipran?
Antidepressant question: Milnacipran?
I'd never heard of it, but I'll likely transition from venlafaxine (Effexor) to milnacipran (brand names Toledomin, Savella, Ixel etc.) soon due to an upcoming move (from US) to Japan. Venlafaxine is not available in Japan. [more inside]
How would you go about finding real friends on the internet?
How would you go about finding real friends on the internet? Facebook is where I go to find out I have nothing in common with my friends. I'm looking for a few people I can really connect with, though we may never meet in person. What would your strategy be?
Thoughtful, emotionally real Batman stories for a newcomer
Help me to find Batman trade paperbacks for my housemate to read! I really, really want her to appreciate how awesome Batman can be at its best. She's not read many comics before, but just read and enjoyed 'Bruce Wayne: Murderer'. She liked the focus on moral reasoning and personal dilemmas, as well as the fact that nothing supernatural happened. I don't think she'll like Frank Miller. [more inside]
Meth addicts have terrible skin
I'm not a pharmacist or organic chemist or pharmacologist, so I'm confused by the difference between methamphetamine and Adderall, and the side effects it may wreak on the body long-term. I've tried to figure it out using Google, but it's all sort of over my head, and I don't know if the people on those chatboards are reliable sources of information. [more inside]
Help us plan our honeymoon!
We're planning our Italian honeymoon and would love your advice! [more inside]
Please help our SMB finally go paperless!
What paperless solution would you recommend for a manufacturing company with ~60 employees? (please chime in with comments about your employer's paperless solution) [more inside]
Help a completely inexperienced CS grad find his first job!
I'm a fairly recent and very inexperienced computer science graduate from a great public university, and I need some job advice. At the moment, I'd like to get into game development (specifically on the iPhone side of things), but I'm also interested in music and composition, mathematical art, animation, photography, and cinema, as well as archiving to some extent. What's a good job for me, and how do I get it? [more inside]
Help me build up a Jack Vance book collection.
Help me build up a Jack Vance book collection. [more inside]
wedding invitation questions
Need some advice on wedding invitation related stuff. [more inside]
Roses are red, violets are blue...
Roses are red, violets are blue...where in Philly will deliver only two? [more inside]
Cheap accommodation in London
I just got offered a Work Experience placement at a big publishing firm in London - but it starts on Monday, and I live in Derbyshire. I need two weeks' accommodation for ideally around £300 or less. Help!
A creative director is you!
I've been tasked with finding and hiring a professional freelance photographer for my company. I've never done this before, so I'd be grateful for some basic guidelines. [more inside]
Should I consider a Christian preschool for my kid when I am a non-believer?
Religious preschool options. We are not religious. Am I overthinking this? [more inside]
Dispatch, we have a problem.
Is there a standard protocol (or best practices) when an emergency responder (PD, FD, EMT) gets into an accident en route to or from a call? [more inside]
...and then the stork dropped you off. The end.
My son's birth was not a good experience. How can I make it into a positive, kid-friendly story?
(I tried to leave the details out, but some traumatic birth story stuff inside.) [more inside]
Looking for a House of non-Worship
I would like to belong to a church. Except, you know, without all that annoying God stuff. Where do I find one? [more inside]
Switching to windows by title on Windows?
I want to switch to windows by title on Windows. [more inside]
Help my find my Wiki!
Where can I find a private/personal (just me) type Wiki Database to organize my writing projects? [more inside]
What determines the gender of a neologism?
In languages where nouns have a gender, how is the gender determined for neologisms or loanwords? [more inside]
What are the yellow grids on telephone poles?
What are the yellow grids on telephone poles? [more inside]
[book filter] Audran, Marîd Audran
Just finished George Alec Effinger's Marîd Audran series, please point me to similar reads.
How do I know which sources to cite for a book I'm writing?
I’m in the process of writing an English education book, and I’m going to be using a lot of information: maps, lists, etc. I need to know how I should cite my sources. [more inside]
February 9
Who are you and what have you done with my mother?
Over the past two years or so, my mother has undergone a complete, total and sweeping personality shift. She's gone from June Clever to Lizzie Borden. Can I get my real mom back? [more inside]
How to cut veggies so they're totally cut?
When trying to cut vegetables with my new, sharp Shun santoku knife, I find that a simple chop is not cutting through all the way through the skin. So for example, I'll have slices of diced bell peppers that are diced 97% of the way through, but still hang together. I think it's a problem in my technique. After I push down all the way, am I supposed to slide the knife backward to complete the cut? Or wiggle the knife a little left and right (though this produces an unpleasant screech as the knife grates against the cutting board)? Or just slice harder? Or get a different cutting board? Thanks for helping an amateur.
How to find housing in Madison from a distance?
[Badger-filter] We have specific questions about renting in Madison, WI from across the country. [more inside]
iPad not synching iTunes movie rentals
iPad/iTunes help needed--rental movie not transferring to iPad and I'm leaving on a jet plane in just a few hours. Please help avoid an entertainment meltdown! [more inside]
What's your favorite travel expense app?
What's a good solution for tracking travel expenses while on the road? [more inside]
What do I actually like?
How do I know what hobbies I like and things I want to do? [more inside]
How to go about getting foodstamps
Asking for a friend: can you still get food stamps if you work under the table? Her bf no longer qualifies, but she still needs them. [more inside]
Can you identify this movie?
I saw a trailer for a movie, in about 2007-2008(?), that seemed to be shot to look like a 1970s education film/horror movie, and in the trailer it featured men and women running around an abandoned middle school as paranormal events happened, specifically file cabinets and envelopes moving around by themselves... I thought the movie was called "End of the Season" but I can't find any info on it. Can anyone help? [more inside]
PC games that have public servers?
I'm looking for PC games that have public servers. [more inside]
the great recession
Why has the world economic crisis hit some countries - USA and UK, but especially Ireland, Iceland, Greece and Spain - so much harder than others?
And I have had 'Beauty School Dropout' from Grease in my head ever since.
I dropped out of college with one class to go. How do I go about taking that one class four years later? [more inside]
Name that font?
Could someone please help me name the font that is on this label from some non-dairy creamer at work?
Online surplus stores that aren't just electronics or army/navy?
Online surplus stores that aren't just electronics or army/navy? [more inside]
PhD committee blues.
I had a rough PhD candidacy exam with a provisional pass. I have three months to "make things more specific and do an experiment." Some of my committee comments were constructive, but something seems off. [more inside]
a pane in my a$$.
should i keep my renter's deposit fee to pay for a broken window? [more inside]
Where to Find This Bicycle Lamp?
Does anyone know where to buy this bicycle lamp? Maybe it is a custom job.
Can I script a Wacom Tablet command?
How can I trigger the "Display Toggle" for a Wacom tablet from the command line, an executable script, or by a keystroke combination? [more inside]
So much to do, so little time
Help me navigate Las Vegas this weekend! [more inside]
Nutrient values for raw juices?
I'm looking for nutrient data for raw fruit & vegetable juices, such as those produced at home with juicers (Champion, Omega, Breville, etc.) [more inside]
Hotel in downtown New York City?
Hotel in downtown NYC? [more inside]
Google Checkout on eBay?
I purchased an item on eBay via Buy It Now. I just now noticed that the seller's only accepted payment method is "Visa/MasterCard, Amex, Discover." PayPal isn't accepted. The seller sent me an invoice via Google Checkout. Is this legit? [more inside]
Help with finding a 3d gaming/virtual reality engine
I’ve been tasked with finding a suitable 3D system to power a VR platform we are thinking of building, and I’m having a hard time finding one that seems to be usable, let alone suitable. [more inside]
Who said this?
Who really said "You can't do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth." The quote seems to be attributed to 3 different people: H. L. Mencken, Evan Esar and Shira Tehrani. Bonus points if you can tell me when, where and why they said it.
In search of a multiplayer PS3 FPS
Can you recommend multiplayer co-op shooter games for PS3? [more inside]
Work for the right to keep a tie on.
Help me use a college career fair to my best advantage! [more inside]
Why does my text editor keep inserting ^M
Why does my Smultron text editor for Mac insert unwanted ^M characters into my files, and what settings can I check to make sure it doesn't? [more inside]
Should I add fuel to the (now-banked) fire?
A fellow manager left me an offensive cartoon. What to do? Details inside [more inside]
Custom LED lights without burning down the house
I've been looking around at lighting options for my bedroom, and my geeky self decided that custom LED strip lighting would be awesome. Then I read previous AskMe's and want to make sure I can do this without burning down my house! Questions and a search for the easy way inside! [more inside]
Construction at work making me sick?
I think the construction in my workplace is making me sick. What can I do? [more inside]
Marital Aids: Where to buy?
Online sex toy vendor recommendation? Difficulty: must be located in Canada as I'm not willing to sign for this kind of package sent through customs irregardless of the discreetness of the labelling. [more inside]
How do I launch my webapp?
How to launch a webapp that derives its value from a community when it has no community? [more inside]
What hourly rate for a 10+ year UNIX (Linux) admin in Bay Area?
What hourly rate for a 10+ year UNIX (Linux) admin in Bay Area? This is for maybe 2-3 visits a month, each 3-4 hours in duration. [more inside]
Help me feel better about leaving my baby for a business trip
I am going to be away from my baby for five days. Help me know that he will be OK without me. [more inside]
Undo my click
Is it possible to 'unrespond' to an event on Facebook? [more inside]
What is this autism book?
Looking for a book I read about a decade or a little more ago about a boy with autism. There was a dog that helped him communicate with the world, and it might have been from either his perspective or his mothers'. Any ideas what it is would be appreciated.
Allergy Issues
Allergy Question. My new puppy. Help. [more inside]
Are explosives really as unreliable as they appear in the media?
I've been watching a lot of Mythbusters. Why are their explosives unreliable? [more inside]
Brain freeze, dont know why, hopelessly dissapointing
Help me with this brain feeze?
No one visits me, I have no friend or I can get along with anyone socially great first few times. So I decided to let everything go. I cant ask help to anyone in person so this post.
I do have a good job, good credit, somewhat healthy, good education {May be I never learned :) }
Couple of days in a week I think as follows...
I am living a life, lifestyle thats truly less than the true potential.
Selling myselves less
so called "plucking the low lying apple"
Not stretching my comfort zone.
Some people have said that may be I get depressed.
The problem is I dont always try to change it.
Instead I just think about all the chances I screwed up and all the people, relationships I have pissed off.
Its like my brain freezes to come up with solution and want to just watch TV and eat pizza(comes later though).
For few days I live a very lethargic , lazy life.
Dishes lie unwashed, no laundry, no bath, no gym, exercise.
I live alone, so need to be ashamed of someone might say something.
I am 31 years old, live alone, never been in a relationship, no gf(as I piss off everyone in some way I cant understand).
I do have a good job, good credit, somewhat healthy, good education {May be I never learned :) }
Help me with this brain feeze?
Help with writing an email for an update on a job, post-interview?
It's been a week since I interviewed for a position, and I've not heard back yet. I need help drafting an email asking for an update, and also help on using one offer against another. [more inside]
Help a soon to be homeless blogger?
I need to move a couple years of archived blog posts from Wordpress to another host that doesn't suck. [more inside]
80s CGA Cat Breeding game?
There's this quasi-educatainment game that I had in the 80s. It was CGA graphics, on MS-DOS... The idea was breeding cats with dominant and recessive genes. The only cat game I can seem to find online is Alley Cat, but that's nothing like it. This game is a grid of something like 4 cats across, and 2 down. I don't remember what the exact point of the game was.
Do I need to be in a union?
I've been contacted by a union organizer regarding the potential formation of a union to represent administrative staff at the large public university where I work. What does this mean? [more inside]
I need help with my boogers.
I need help with my boogers, please. [more inside]
Pre-need question about giving a eulogy.
Pre-need question about giving a eulogy. [more inside]
Long Shot, Name that Childrens Book from my Childhood
The book I'm looking for was a juvenile chapter book. If I remember correctly part of a series, possibly involving space travel. I remember a Giant Pickle and a Giant Chicken (that may or may not have been ridden), and possibly fried chicken. I think the cover of the book was probably mostly blue.
I realize it's a long shot, but AskMe has certainly come through for others, why not me?
Need help finding a home for a VERY high-energy dog in Virginia.
It is clear that my friend has the exact wrong dog for her. How can she find a good home for him in Northern Virginia (or anywhere in the Mid-Atlantic). Special circumstances described inside. [more inside]
Help supply our windowless office with a little dose of nature
What images or video should we play on our office TV as a pleasant background? Basically, we want a fake window to a nicer world. [more inside]
How can a JD get a job as a paralegal?
What can I say in a cover letter that would convince someone to hire me as a paralegal even though I have a law degree. I'm specifically looking at in-house jobs. [more inside]
Where can I find other kindred spirit exobese people on the internet?
I lost about one hundred pounds a few years ago. While I've mostly dealt with it on my own, I'd love to know of any online support groups of previously obese people. [more inside]
Suzanne takes you downtown train
Calling all music nerds: has Tom Waits ever covered Leonard Cohen? Has Leonard Cohen ever covered Tom Waits? [more inside]
lawyer recommendations?
Looking for a good lawyer to deal with a landlord/tenant issue in the Chicago North Shore area. [more inside]
How do I contact somene I don't know and not come off like a weirdo?
I recently went to a film screening and Q&A. I didn't go to the mic to ask one of the panelists my question. How would I ask it now? [more inside]
Your garden's a mess, how do you look for help?
I'm trying to optimize my Adwords campaign. What search terms would you use if you were looking to hire a local person to take care of your garden, or someone to give you ideas for your yard, or someone to plant a tree for you or some other garden based service? Off the top or your head, what words would you type? [more inside]
Am I eligible for my bonus after a resignation?
I have just resigned from my job and I need to know if I am eligible to collect my bonus payout for 2010 under Quebec labour law [more inside]
shave it off
What are your best practices for preventing tangled hair? [more inside]
Kan I Haz Household Budget Manager???
Looking for this type of service.... [more inside]
How to deal with a jerk when you live with him?
How do I deal with my inconsiderate roommate when ignoring isn't an option? (kinda long) [more inside]
:(
I'm a bit lazy, and a bit irresponsible. But most of all, I'm scared. Hope me. [more inside]
Comma usage in a subject/verb/object sentence.
Why is the sentence "Let's read, Freedom by Jonathan Franzen." incorrectly punctuated? [more inside]
Good fingerstyle resources
Recommend me some good, comprehensive online resources for fingerstyle techniques, please! [more inside]
Does the DMV remember?
Repercussions of unpaid Michigan speeding ticket from 30 years ago? [more inside]
Not being chased, just making a break for it.
I'm looking for examples of well-drawn TV characters (from multi-season shows, preferably) for whom a major--but not solely defining--aspect of their personalities is a struggle with the desire to run away from difficult situations. Two I have in mind already: Nate Fisher (Six Feet Under) and Nancy Botwin (Weeds).
Where to watch the News Online
Need a good source for watching news online. Usually miss news on tv so would prefer to watch it when i can...Any suggestions? [more inside]
skype + wifi + iphone = the ultimate threesome?
can i use skype over wifi on my iphone without getting hit with data/phone charges? googlefu has failed me - now i'm more confused than ever. [more inside]
Increase router range
Hi I have this router http://www.netgear.co.uk/pdfs/wgt624.pdf I would like to increase the range of the wi-fi.
I have brought this. Can i combine the two to increase the speed or range? I've had a look on google be must admit i'm a little confused. Thanks.
Looking for documentation about what Robert McKee says about Rick and Ilsa’s love at the end of Casablanca.
Looking for documentation about what Robert McKee says about Rick and Ilsa’s love at the end of Casablanca. [more inside]
Different Pregnancy is Different. This Different?
This pregnancy is so different from the last one, and I feel weird. [more inside]
Post-acne red spots
Post-acne red spots and discoloration - YANMD but do I have to see a dermatologist or is there another solution? Pic included [more inside]
Comox Funsplosion?
What can a 2 1/2 year old do for kicks in Comox? [more inside]
unplugged: again
How much current does an AC adaptor draw when it's plugged in but not powering anything, or the device to which the adaptor is attached is powered off? [more inside]
Why do my Grado headphones cause me ear pain?
Why do my Grado SR325 headphones cause my ears to hurt? If I wear them for over half an hour, I get pain from my earlobe around to the jaw joint. It's not related to ear infection or anything specific, because I've experienced this a number of times. I read in a related question that some suggest the headband be bent out, but I don't see how to do that on this model without breaking it--its flexibility wouldn't seem to support it. The weird thing is they don't feel tight when I wear them; it's just that, after a while, I start feeling persistent pain.
Worth Replacing Speaker Wire on a HTIAB?
Is it worth switching out the wires on my home theatre system? [more inside]
Mama's secret recipe
Does a typical east-coast independent neighborhood pizza place do anything to its tomato sauce (or other ingredients) between the can and the pie? [more inside]
drummer's headphones
I want my son to protect his ears while drumming, but he wants to listen to music. [more inside]
How to edit video into 4 way split screens
After searching and coming up empty, does anyone know the best method and software for editing video into a four way split screen?
I admit I am just starting to get my feet wet to editing so if it will be tricky thanks for the pre warning.
Could it be done in Premiere Pro 5? Also might have access to Final Cut Pro if it calls for it.
Similar to this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r28LLqyXBKs
foolproof skillet pizza recipe
recipe filter: anyone have a foolproof skillet pizza recipe? [more inside]
What are my feet trying to tell me about arch support
I am trying to experiment with arch support to assist in alleviating a long term heel pain issue. I have been under a podiatrists care for a couple of years now and have tried almost all of the well known recommended therapies, including custom orthotics, which were way too rough on my feet. We are really at the stage of trying anything that might work, as the definite source of the pain is not spelled out in MRI results.
My specific question here regards over-the-counter arch support. While participating in physical therapy last year, one of the exercises was to stand on a hard foam roller for a while. When I did that, I felt a profound ache in the arch of my affected foot. Generally the heel pain injury didn't involve any symptoms in the arch. [more inside]
Am I overreacting?
Am I justified in bringing this is issue to HR, or is it something I need to just suck up and deal with? [more inside]
German family tree research?
I'm tracking down my grandparents' backgrounds in Germany.
Point me in the right direction? [more inside]
What's playing in NYC?
Looking for some NYC theater recommendations. [more inside]
Where can I download Incendies?
Where can I download the movie Incendies? [more inside]
Long-distance first date in Miami.
I'm looking for recommendations for first-date ideas in Miami. The catch is that the first date is with someone who lives 2000 miles away from me, and we're both traveling to Miami from elsewhere. I want to spend time getting to know him in a low-key way, but also see a little bit of Miami while I'm there. Suggestions for places we should see/those we should avoid? [more inside]
Membership database
Looking for a membership database for a small nonprofit. [more inside]
Tool to create an iPad application/interactive publication
I want to create something similar to the Martha Stewart iPad application. It's a little more interactive than a straight e-book. It has similarities to other applications (wired, etc)... Enough similarities that I thought there must be a tool that would let you create something without having to create and code something unique each time. [more inside]
Recommendations for men's wedding rings in New York
Need recommendations on good men's jewelry store in Manhattan for engagement rings. [more inside]
F- this, we're going three blades. Uh, four? Five? Six? Seven? Thirty?
Help me find examples of parodies, jokes, and satirical pieces that eventually became real. [more inside]
How do you accept that some things will never change?
How do you accept that some things really won't change? [more inside]
Help me keep track of all the machines.
Recommendations for a server inventory tracker? [more inside]
The grass is greener at the other houses nearby
My partner and I bought a house last month and although you would think I'd be over the moon right now, I'm actually a bit depressed about it. How can I come to terms with maybe not having chosen the best house to buy? [more inside]
ISO Backgammon software
Searching for a free computer version of BACKGAMMON. [more inside]
Tracing the origins of American English.
I'm interested in learning more about the history of American English. What books will help me get a grounding in this subject? [more inside]
How to help friend pick up her life after losing her spouse
How can I help a friend who has lost her spouse at a very young age get on with life? A dear friend passed away in august last year after a long sickbed. He was only 32, and leaves behind his girlfriend, who is just 23. I'm worried about her. [more inside]
Drinks with pungent pickled garnishes
If you wanted a martini (or other cocktail) with a garnish of a pickled garlic clove and/or a pickled tiny onion, what would you tell the bartender? [more inside]
Help me identify this song from South America
Help me identify a song which appears on this webpage from French Guiana. The words Indien Yanomami appears below the music player, but I'm not sure if there's any connection with the song.
Save okcupid messages in bulk?
Is there a way to save one's okcupid messages? A grease monkey script perhaps? How about a way to save your questions/answers? I've invested a lot of energy into the site and I'd like to have a backup in case the match.com people ruin everything.
Clean, no hassles, beautiful scenery.
What's the best tour company for a trip to/within Halong Bay, Hanoi, Vietnam? [more inside]
February 8
Latex paint = waterproof?
Interior latex paint: Is this waterproof? [more inside]
Dry Corks in Wine Bottles
Dried out corks in wine bottles come apart in pieces - what to do? [more inside]
I want to go, but I'm afraid...
I want to go overseas. I'm terrified of the prospect. Um, help? [more inside]
Where do people go to socialize in the mornings?
I'm a single mid 20's male who's taken up working part time evening shifts (4-9 pm). I'm pretty introverted and have most of the common geek interests. I lack a car and am limited by trimet scheduling. How do I develop a social life? [more inside]
Help me find the best gps for my car
GPS for my car first time buyer: Please help me select the model you think will give me great service [more inside]
Etymology/definition of "shit-eating grin?"
What does the phrase "shit-eating grin" mean? And what is its etymology?
(Please no random guesses on the latter question, not looking for 'folk etymology')
Can you get onto a Kyoto townhouse roof from inside the building?
I'm being stalked - his name is Silvy and he's a cat. Help?
The cat came back the very next day... and everyday after that, too. [more inside]
Turning Without Direction
Help me convince my husband that using a turning signal while drive is a good thing. [more inside]
How to handle a great situation?
What do you wish you'd known before your job/company began to seriously take-off? [more inside]
Help Hire Hub Headshrinker
Can anyone recommend a good therapist/psychologist/counselor who deals with motivational issues in downtown Boston? (I work very near South Station.) I'd prefer it if they accepted health insurance. I'm in Providence the same day every week as well, if you know someone really, really good there, too. By motivational issues, I mean a very heavy and intense inertia, affecting my home and work life, probably tangled up with depression and ADD or something like it. [more inside]
Do-it-yourself online weight loss programs?
What would be useful about weightwatchers online: the fact of having committed to tracking your weight and being more conscious about what you're eating each day -- being forced to acknowledge the program you've set for yourself, instead of just letting it slip away like most good intentions.
But. The recipes and points etc. are not for me. I want to eat my own things, not their version of "banana bread" or low fat chicken recipes or whatever. I know *how* to lose weight in terms of food choices. I just want a support or tracking system.
Does this exist?
Help me find a job in the UK, please!
I am having real trouble finding a job. I'm in the UK. Any tips/pointers greatly appreciated. [more inside]
Is there a path out of this job I'm not seeing?
I made a big mistake, and took a job I now realize was an extremely poor fit. I'm having a hard time keeping out of tunnel vision of despair - help me think of more options than I can by myself. [more inside]
How to move to the West Coast
Moving to the Bay Area… How can a recent college grad find a job on the West Coast when they live in the East Coast? [more inside]
SONG! By ARTIST! By BAND!
How many bands have a song with the same name as the band, on an album named after the band? [more inside]
Help me figure out what people are trying to tell me
Help-with-my-life-filter. I have a psychological issue that several boyfriends and friends have pointed out, and I'm not sure what it adds up to. [more inside]
Good places to study at odd hours?
Best study spots, particularly late-night, in and around Chicago? [more inside]
Will an international unlocked smartphone work with Fido? Which one to buy?
A two-parter on smartphones: 1. Can I buy an unlocked smartphone on Amazon and use it with Fido? 2. Help an iphone user pick a non-iphone smartphone. [more inside]
thicker than a snickers
I suspect that my boyfriend likes women who are 'thicker' than me. What do I do? [more inside]
Why do my genius mixes keep disappearing from my iphone 4 when I sync?
Why do my genius mixes keep disappearing from my iphone 4 when I sync?
How to plug a water leak, food-safe?
My stovetop espresso maker has a small leak. I don't think returning it will help me. Are there any recipes for food-safe 'stop leak' compounds? [more inside]
Where can I find spoken French with word for word transcripts?
Where can I find spoken French with word for word transcripts? [more inside]
Stay silver, Ponyboy.
According to the S.E. Hinton wikipedia page, The Outsiders is the second best-selling young adult book of all time. What's the first?
What is your alibi
I'm looking for songs about people being put to death for crimes that someone else committed. [more inside]
What's a good small, light, pen-powered digital notetaking machine?
Help me find the ultimate electronic notetaking device? [more inside]
Building a PVC Upright Bass
Where can I find PVC Upright Bass plans other than the one posted here?
emergency ski rental
Emergency ski rental filter: I'm staying in South Lake Tahoe soon. I would like to rent a pair of demo/performance skis and a snowboard setup from somewhere in Sacramento and take them up from there. Yelp and Google are failing me. Halp? [more inside]
Is there such a thing as a US network TV almanac showing when it's all in reruns?
CuttingCableFilter: Is there such a thing as a (US, OTA) network TV season calendar that indicates premiere/new eps/hiatus status? [more inside]
i need help with my own homophobia, and i'm queer.
i'm a queer with some serious internalized homophobia. how can i move forward without my insecurities hurting me more? (nsfw?) [more inside]
I like my lizard brain
How do I emphasize the lizard part of my brain, and deemphasize the relationship part? [more inside]
Movie Memorabilia Collecting
How to collect movie memorabilia (posters, lobby cards, etc)? Collecting gurus wanted! [more inside]
Crime & iPunishment
My iPhone was stolen while I was on vacation. But then the police and I began tracking it with the phone's GPS. [more inside]
What is "roll for initiative" and should I do it?
I have never played D&D before, but last week's Community looked super fun and interesting (not to mention, what a great episode) I've hit up some friends who used to play and there's some interest about getting a game going. But I literally know nothing, and don't know if I'm going to like it. How do I proceed? [more inside]
Dating Pickle.
Please help me sort out my emotions and this dating situation. [more inside]
SRI resources for Europe?
What are some definitive online and published print resources on socially responsible investment fund ownership in Europe?
What's a cheap, reliable A/V laptop?
Help me find an inexpensive laptop for my DJ/VJ gigs. [more inside]
How, exactly, is a share price decided or dictated?
Explain to me the stock markets... [more inside]
What can my pregnant self do for my future post-partum self?
I'm giving birth in a few weeks. What can I do for myself now that my husband and I will appreciate later? I'd love to have recipes, things I can order and whatever else you can think of. [more inside]
Music Filter : was it a real song?
Please help me find this song! I was in Cosco the other day and a video was playing in the electronics section. I was sure the name of the song was Naomi. It matters that as I was at Cosco when I heard this as it was on their in-house video channel. [more inside]
Moved states. Which taxes do I pay?
YANML, YANMA(ccountant). I moved from Arizona to NYC in mid-November (of 2010). Where do I need to pay taxes? [more inside]
Where can I buy a Macbook Pro charger in Cusco, Peru?
Where can I buy a Macbook Pro charger in Cusco, Peru? I think my charger crapped out on me and I need a new one. I can´t really wait for my family to mail one down from the States, so I´m venturing to Cusco, the closest big town from the one that I live in, to find one. Does anyone have any idea where i can find Apple products such as this? It´s the magnet kind :)
Cleaning Service Trust Procedures
What should I do to increase my trust of my house cleaners? [more inside]
What the duck?
Mysterious duck is mysterious. Help me ID this bird! [more inside]
Give me apps for AP.
What can a high school AP English teacher use an iPad for in the classroom? [more inside]
Looking for a rap video.
I'm looking for a hip hop music video I saw once that takes place entirely through the viewscreen of a stolen camcorder. [more inside]
Proposal in Napa Valley
I have a friend who wants to propose to his girlfriend in Napa Valley, CA in the spring. Any suggestions as to location? He is open to all ideas. Thanks!
Good thank you gift for newborn supplies?
Parents who have given away kids stuff: What would you appreciate in return or consider an appropriate thank you? [more inside]
No Regrets, Really?
What do people mean when they say they "have no regrets?" [more inside]
Why did I suddenly go all VGA?
How did my laptop's display driver suddenly cease to exist? [more inside]
Scenic seattle drive
Good scenic/fun limo route from Lake City into downtown Seattle? [more inside]
ha ha ha realplayer ha ha whew no seriously
132 GB of music, a new computer, and iTunes mandatory thanks to iPad. What are best practices with iTunes and/or the best music software for 2011? [more inside]
Help me find this Swedish trance musician.
Trying to remember a trance artist from back in the MP3.com days. [more inside]
Freelance writer's toolkit needed
How can I quickly get my presentation skills up to speed for use in general freelance writing roles? (white papers, marketing pieces, newsletters, etc.) [more inside]
I'd like to register a .an TLD
I'd like to register a .an TLD but there are a couple of issues. One, I don't live in the Netherlands Antilles and two, the Netherlands Antilles don't seem to exist any more. [more inside]
Longshot filter - appliance part
How can I find this recently discontinued part for my GE Range hood? [more inside]
I want all my iMacs to be exactly the same!
I want to set up netboot images for my small iMac lab. Should I run Snow Leopard Server on the iMac that I use Apple Remote Desktop on, or should I buy a Mac Mini Server? [more inside]
not that marriage theorem, another one
A friend in college once mentioned a theorem for deciding the number of people to meet before deciding on the person to marry. Was it just a joke, or is there really such a theorem? [more inside]
How can someone with these mental health problems be a part of our community?
Mental health/safe space question. [more inside]
Do broadcasters *have* to tell the truth in the US?
Where is a definitive source (& BTW Mefi post) for the widely held belief that recently the US Supreme Court ruled that a news organisation does NOT have an obligation to tell the truth? [more inside]
This mouse is losing its tail.
Replacement USB cord and repair guide for MS Trackball Explorer? [more inside]
Details on a Drug Trafficking Ring
When the DEA or FBI makes a major drug bust and the arrested parties go to trial, how would I find the trial or deposition records to understand how the drug trafficking ring worked? [more inside]
I'm in the Navy, now???
Armed Forces filter: What do you wish you had known before enlisting? Close family member considering joining the Navy, and I want to provide as much info as possible. [more inside]
Help me find this book
Hello Hive Mind,
I'm looking for the title/author of a non-fiction book I read in the last few years. Here's what I remember:
Retired professor returns to college as a freshman... Goes to a school that teaches a "Great Books" curriculum, where practically every class is a seminar/discussion group. The school encourages every student to participate in intramural athletics, so the old "freshman" joins the rowing team. The book is the story of his year at the school. Thanks for your help!
Does magnetic poetry work in Korean?
KoreanLanguageFilter: Would magnetic poetry work in Korean? I want to make a set as a Valentine's Day gift with Korean and English words. [more inside]
Will drinking kill this new relationship?
The person I’m seeing drinks frequently, and sometimes their drinking annoys me. It’s only a month into this relationship – what is the best way to either bring this up as a topic of conversation or to decide whether this is worth it? [more inside]
Please Help She Bop
I can only orgasm in one specific way. I blame a decade and a half of one type of masturbation. I’m 27, female, and a special snowflake. [more inside]
In the banking jobhunt world, AVP does not mean Alien Vs Predator
What are the best job hunting sites/resources for an AVP level bank officer looking for a new job? [more inside]
Wanna go out for coffee? In Eastern Queens?
Non-bar first date ideas in (mostly eastern) Queens? [more inside]
hypnosis program for cold call selling
Can anyone suggest an effective, powerful hypnosis program to improve cold call selling?
The Times They Are a-Changin'
In order to prepare a competitive examination, I've got to delve deep into North American counterculture history. What should I read ? [more inside]
20,000 leagues of awesome.
Does anyone have any info on today's google art? Or maybe even where I can view the whole image, not through google-shaped portholes? [more inside]
Job interview with CEO. Help!
[Job Filter] So I've got a job interview with the CEO coming up. What can I expect? [more inside]
To tell or not to tell?
I'm an Assistant Professor with an upcoming job interview at another institution in the state where my spouse lives (we are currently long distance). My question: do I tell them about my spouse, and if so, how and when? [more inside]
How do I help my daughter be as successful as possible?
Yesterday my daughter was diagnosed with Asperger's. I know a little, my husband knows next to nothing. Can you help? (Yeah, this is going to be pretty long.) [more inside]
I need newspapers. Lots of them.
Where can I get a big stack of newspapers for free/cheap? Or other garden mulch substrate. [more inside]
I want a clean couch.
I need helping cleaning this filthy couch. Give me your best cleaning tricks! [more inside]
radiator hose leaking after radiator replacement
I just replaced the radiator on my 2002 Ford Crown Victoria. I filled the coolant reservoir to the cold fill line. Now, if I let the car warm up for 10 minutes, coolant starts leaking out from under the upper radiator hose where it meets the radiator. The hose looks solid, and the hose clamp is on pretty tight so I assume the pressure is just getting really high. Also, if I open up the coolant reservoir cap, liquid coolant starts coming out, not steam. The coolant isn't even that hot. I can stop the radiator hose leak by reducing the amount of coolant in the reservoir, but the coolant level needs to be way way below the cold fill line for that. What is going on? What should I do?
How can I help someone I my physical presence probably hurts?
Met a girl who seemed to like me. As an aspie virgin, this is unprecedented: she's sending huge-massive signals. Long story short, it turns out she's fallen really, really hard for me, is probably depressed and tells me she's self-harming. Tried being friends, didn't work. Can I help her? Is that even possible? [more inside]
Who is singing in the Bebe McDonald's commercial?
Dear Slutty Abby
What's the general opinion on "morning after" etiquette? [more inside]
Paid VS Unpaid Design Internships
I'm a graphic design student. Members of an agency came to our class to recruit for their unpaid internship. Their work is great, they seem nice, but is it a bad sign that the internship is unpaid? [more inside]
A simple problem with a complicated solution
In ColdFusion 7, how do I find every URL in a string containing HTML, and replace them with root-relative versions? [more inside]
How to create multiple local users on multiple remote servers?
Our company has 5 Windows 2008 Standard (non-R2) servers - none of them set up on AD. I have to create usernames individually each time for each one of them when we have new employees. What would be the best avenue to pursue in order to make this process less terrible? [more inside]
Hello IT, have you tried turning off and on again?
Hello IT, have you tried turning off and on again? I'm in need of a short extension cord, with a separate, big button toggle switch. Extra difficulty: It needs a short time delay before it powers back on. Any ideas? [specifics inside] [more inside]
Why can't I meditate?
Why can't I meditate? What do I just not get about meditation? [more inside]
How can I politely rebut "Everything happens for a reason"?
People always say, “Things happen for a reason,” or, “It was meant to be,” or, “God has a plan.” But I don’t believe any of those things, and I don’t know how to respond politely when people say them. [more inside]
The future of work
Will unemployment soar as machines do more and more of our work for us? [more inside]
Leave academia for K-12?
My partner is doing her Ph.D in English but is starting to think she wants to teach elementary or high school. We're in Canada. We've got questions about the job market, location, and the benefits and burdens of getting the Ph.D. [more inside]
Strange doings in State College, Pennsylvania
A man sitting on a park bench notices something odd. A police officer drives up to a stop sign at an intersection of two streets in a residential section of a medium-sized college town. The police car stops at the stop sign, then moves forward, clears the intersection and, once on the other side, stops again, opens his car door, waits a few seconds, closes the door, and moves on. A few minutes later a different police officer approaches the intersection from the other direction. This time the police officer stops at the intersection, opens the car door, waits a few seconds, closes the door, then moves through the intersection and drives off. The person on the park bench notices this occurring throughout the morning, day, and night. The pattern is the same but the players change. Different police officers routinely drive down a particular street. They routinely stop on the north side of an intersection only, but in either lane. Sometimes they will stay parked/idle for up to a minute. Whenever they decide to move from their fixed position, they open the driver's side car door, wait a few seconds, close the door, and move on. What's going on?
Make my fish yummy!
Feeding the Family Challenge! What to do with one single piece of perch & 3 hungry mouths? [more inside]
Best little known or obscure love songs?
Kiss Kiss Kiss Fun Fun Fun: What are your favorite little known or obscure love songs? The stuff that makes you go "Oh you have to hear this it is great?" Funny is nice, catchy is better, catchy and lively is bestest. [more inside]
mothballed
We are visiting my in-laws. Lingering mothball fumes permeate their guest rooms, despite MIL's insistence that they were removed months ago. Aside from fresh air, how can we *quickly* abate the odor from the air, closets and bedclothes?
Where can find I data for TV ratings and/or newspaper sales before, during and after September 11th, 2001?
Where can find I data for TV ratings and/or newspaper sales before, during and after September 11th, 2001?
Mobile Home Eviction
Just curious: A friend is behind on his land rent in a mobile home park, where a (fairly nice) double-wide mobile home he owns outright is parked. They're talking eviction, and they're definitely within the law to do so from my read of relevant WA state code. My friend cannot afford to move the home. What happens next, generally? [more inside]
How and when to replant young grape vines?
I think I've failed in my first test as a backyard gardener by planting some grape vines in a stupid place. What can I do to save them? [more inside]
Where should the spacing go?
Where should you put the space in function defs/callls in C-like languages? [more inside]
Letters to the Departed
(Canadian Detectives!) What is at PO Box 4585 Stn "A" Toronto ON M5W 4W7? [more inside]
But I don't WANT to be a California Girl!
Why SHOULD I be excited about moving to Pasadena? Based on not much more than TV, I think that life in the greater LA area would be pretty much the opposite of my current, wonderful lifestyle. Is there a way to live in So Cal AND have what I love about my current life? [more inside]
Streaming video of public meeting. How do I download for offline viewing?
Video pirates, ahoy. All I want to do is save .wmv streams of some Seattle-area public meetings to my computer, for offline viewing. Simple, right? [more inside]
February 7
Asked by a fellow teacher, hasn't got a clue.
In need of help with grammar, again. [more inside]
Has DVR killed the commercial star?
Have businesses suffered since DVRs became popular and everyone stopped watching commercials?
Rail connection at MIA?
How can I get from Miami Int'l Airport to the Space Coast region of Florida without renting a car? [more inside]
How do I deal with my alcoholic parent?
My alcoholic parent is causing me stress and keeping me from living my life as well as focusing on my college work... What should I do? [more inside]
How can I immediately preview on my Macbook the picture I just took with my SLR?
Please help me use my Mac as an immediate preview/proof window for the picture I just took with my digital camera. This has to be doable right??? [more inside]
Best Simple Time Tracking App for iPhone?
Can anyone recommend a streamlined time tracking app for the iPhone? I'm looking for something that will let me set up a few general categories — desk work, studio work, commute, gym, etc. — and basically lets me pick one and hit a big start/stop button. Export functionality in some way (even dirt-simple) is needed, fancy stuff like invoice generation / project management is not. The goal is to get a rough statistical overview of how I spend my days, not to get obsessive granularity or handle timesheets, so the ideal app would be about two taps to pick a category and start the timer.
I would like my brain back, please
I had symptoms of hypothyroid that went away when I started taking vitamins; now they've returned. Is this hypothyroidism or something else? [more inside]
Email Forwarding help - domain level.
Multiple domains- I know how to forward them.
I could start a Google account for each.
But I'd really like to get the email to forward instead? I want it to be that you send an email to (anything) foo@filmgeek.com and it ends up going to my main domain/email account.
This book may only exist in my head.
I'm looking for the title of a book about sci-fi film from my youth. [more inside]
Tired of playing everyone's favorite game, Bitch about the MBTA (aka my line sucks the most)
Is there any empirical evidence out there about which MBTA subways/buses are actually most reliable? [more inside]
Identifying a poem and a poet
PoetryFilter: I am looking for the poet and title of a poem I read yesterday. [more inside]
Any tips for finding out the meanings of out-of-the-ordinary names?
Etymological/genealogical question--tips or tricks for finding the origin of a very elusive family name when Googlefu, Ancestryfu and all other manner of -fus fail? [more inside]
Seeking 40-plus female film kick-assness
Non-romance/drama/comedy movies co/starring (not in support cast) an actress the age of 40 or older (at the time of filming). [more inside]
Costume Ideas for Emma Peel from The Avengers?
I'm helping a friend with an undergraduate film school remake of The Avengers. I've been cast as Miss Peel, and I'm searching for the perfect costume to fit the character. Unfortunately, my school is in the middle of nowhere - shopping in person isn't really an option.
Any thoughts for how I can assemble or where I might find a hip 1960s-looking catsuit on the internet?
Thanks!
Help me figure out how to pay taxes in Ontario.
It's income tax time in Ontario, and I've never filed before. Help me get through this as cheaply as possible, won't you? [more inside]
Does this mean I am going to the Spanish consulate?
FMNT digital certificates from the Spanish Government [more inside]
How to differentiate two similar papers when both are supposed to be general surveys?
Academic (social sciences) filter: How do I make chapters about my research that are destined for two general handbooks different from each other, or does it even matter? [more inside]
Interesting War Museums or Memorials?
A friend's 16 year old son has picked up an interest in history, particularly war memorials. She'd like to take him on a trip over spring break to encourage him but is lacking choices other than Civil War sites in VA/MD and the Pearl Harbor Memorial, both of which they've visited before. Places in the United States are preferable but she'd consider other English-speaking countries (she doesn't want to hire a tour guide). Where can they go to get a real sense of history and blow this teenager's mind?
Help me find a new and better daycare please!
Need daycare recommendations in Woburn, MA or Cambridge, MA (though in Cambridge needs to be on the cheaper side) or in between the two. [more inside]
Promoting TV shows during the Super Bowl
Why do TV networks do promos for their shows (like for Glee or House last night) during the Super Bowl? [more inside]
Fired for pregnancy?
EmployerFilter. My soon-to-be wife is around four months pregnant. Our due date is the first week of July, which at that time will be employed with her current employer for eleven months time. She currently is covered under their group insurance.
Today they informed her that they will give her seven (unpaid) days of maternity leave. They informed her they will be terminating her if she takes anything longer off. To me this sounds rotten, possibly illegal.
We are the state of Florida, USA. Can they really fire her for taking more than a week of maternity leave?
I wanna be street(sign)wise
Why did they stop posting street signs on the sides of buildings in the U.S.? Everywhere I've been in western Europe, at least anywhere marginally urban, street names are posted on the sides of buildings. In the U.S., though, they're pretty much universally stuck on a post or hung over an intersection on wires. There are still remnants of the side-of-the-building practice throughout NYC, so the switch must have been relatively recent. Why did this happen? Does it have something to do with American conceptions of property rights? NOMBism (Not On My Building)? Legibility for motorists? Any idea?
Looking for a good read now.
I have a $20 gift card to Barnes and Noble. I want to go and pick something amazing up to read. What should I be reading now? [more inside]
Gay for a day?
I consider myself straight, but am interested in having sex with a girl just to see what it's like. I am under the impression that lesbians are not big fans of people like me. [more inside]
What's the best development tool/framework to create my specific iPhone app idea?
What's the best development tool/framework to create my specific iPhone app idea? [more inside]
I won't call it the Brizzle.
Where do I go to enjoy the seedy-chic indie scene in Bristol (UK)? [more inside]
How can I get my personal profile to "like" something on a Facebook for which I'm the admin?
When I "like" something on my a Facebook page where I'm the admin, it shows the page itself as the "liker." How can I get my personal profile to "like" something on my own page? [more inside]
What is the most effective way, in approaching a family member about sponsoring a non-profit group you've recently gotten involved with?
What is the most effective way in approaching a family member about sponsoring a non-profit group you've recently gotten involved with? [more inside]
laptop hard drive choices
I'm planning a laptop replacement purchase; I think I know the one I want, but am having trouble deciding whether to go standard hard drive or SSD. [more inside]
How do I get businesses for sale marketed to me?
I am interested in buying an existing business. How do I find businesses for sale, and how do I get taken seriously? [more inside]
What are the ins and outs of a short code (sms) texting system with billing
TelcoFilter: What are the ins and outs of a short code (sms) texting system with billing? [more inside]
Time to get our trade marks.
Needing recommendations for a competent, reasonably affordable intellectual property attorney in the US. [more inside]
help me lessen the stink
What scents are good at minimizing/masking/neutralizing cigarette smoke? [more inside]
Can't sleep without daytime
My spouse has having problems going to sleep and staying that way for as long as we've been together. We've found a few things on Dr. Wikipedia, but wanted to get the hive mind's opinion. [more inside]
How do I keep specific parts of the Firefox history?
Is there are Firefox addon that will allow me to keep the history for specific sites, while removing the history for every other site? [more inside]
Help me discover some new podcasts
Can you recommend me some clever, funny podcasts to occupy my slow work day? [more inside]
Richard Scarry pig book identification filter...
Richard Scarry pig book identification filter... [more inside]
Did we do that?
I hooked up with my friend but she doesn't remember doing it, what is going on? (NSFW possibly) [more inside]
[crappy software filter] How can I speed up ESRI ArcMap?
[crappy software filter] How can I speed up ESRI ArcMap? [more inside]
Wait, maybe I SHOULDN'T blog about this
What are some things, either from your experience or that of others, that one should avoid or at least think twice before sharing on the internet (namely through blogs, twitter, etc.)? [more inside]
I need to identify a plant to figure out if it is bird safe.
I need to identify a plant to figure out if it is bird safe. Thanks! [more inside]
Useful and or edible party favor
Nice, useful, inexpensive baby shower favors? I'm helping to plan a baby shower for my younger cousin. I've been to tons of baby showers and hate favors because I never know what to do with them. So I put them in a draw for a while and then throw them away, feeling guilty about the whole stupid thing. [more inside]
Help Me Customize my Droid 2 Global (please)
What does Droid (2 Global) Do for me? [more inside]
What perks can I get working at a non-profit?
So I just signed up for membership to TDF! Awesome! What other benefits can I get as a worker in a non-profit (NGO) organization?
One-Eyed Shrinks?
I cannot for the life of me remember the name of a particular social psychologist (personality psychologist? plain old psychologist?) who I learned about in a Psych 101 class. All I remember is he had an eyepatch and an unusually colorful or bizarre personal life. [more inside]
I hate asking anyone for help.
Should I ask my Godfather for help? [more inside]
Help me find small vitamins!
Recommendations for daily multivitamins that are reasonably sized? [more inside]
More Information Than You Require
Being a compassionate, generous man, I will keep my pooping-related medical question off of the main page. [more inside]
how to talk to a woman somewhat scorned
A (once?) good friend has been flipping out after I started dating someone. How do I go about talking to her without feeling like I'm talking to a wall? [more inside]
Study strategies for parents
Parents who had/have to study with young children around: what strategies did/do you use to help integrate the kids into your study sessions? [more inside]
Putting together a hip-hop/rap playlist containing artists from St. Louis, MO. HELP.
Putting together a hip-hop/rap playlist containing artists from St. Louis, MO. HELP. [more inside]
Facebook Privacy Settings
Will changing privacy settings on Facebook cause something to appear in my (or other's) News Feed? [more inside]
Offering a settlement on a credit card - how did it go for you?
I'd like to call my credit card company and offer to settle my $10K account for $5K, but circumstances extenuate - how has this worked for those of you who have tried? [more inside]
What is the process for quickly selling a car willed to me?
What is the process for quickly selling a car willed to me? [more inside]
Actress Identification Filter
A soap opera actress lives in my neighborhood and I see her every day walking her dog. We exchange friendly hellos, and it's driving me crazy that I don't know her name. Halp! [more inside]
Where should we live within driving distance of NJ?
My husband's adventure in grad school didn't work out and now we need to find a place to move next. Help us figure out where to live! [more inside]
Help me find an old website about a paranormal-related black book.
I'm looking for a site that I saw probably a decade ago - it was a personal site about a book with a paranormal story behind it. What was it called? What happened to it? Did it even exist? Details inside. [more inside]
What should I do as my brother's Best Man?
Could you guys help me out with some pointers on being Best Man in my brother's wedding? [more inside]
I don't want blonde roots!
I've asked how to keep my red hair from fading, and those products definitely help, but I've returned to my old standby for touching up my roots: Schwarzkopf Igora toning mousse in Light Copper Brown (5-7). I've finally mastered the art of applying it evenly without staining my fingers. Only problem is, I'm out of the stuff now, and it appears to have been discontinued. What can I use in its place? [more inside]
Pants!
Pants! I want men's pants that are not jeans, not khakis, don't need to be ironed, can be worn to a casual office with a nice shirt, and cost less than $50. [more inside]
Trying to find a song to see if I like it.
Trying to find a song but don't have much to go on. [more inside]
We really should have said something earlier
How do we tell his relatives that we got married...one year ago? [more inside]
A fight for my rights!
Please help me retain administrative rights on my work PC. [more inside]
English-language journalism jobs abroad?
Is it possible to find English-language journalism jobs in Asia? Or anywhere else? [more inside]
Pretty, personalized DIY baby gifts?
Please recommend small, pretty gift ideas (preferably personalized!) that I can hand-make as new-baby, birthday or Christmas presents for small children. [more inside]
Recommendations for an orthodontist in Chicago?
ChicagoFilter: recommendations for an orthodontist in Chicago? [more inside]
How to get a Business Bank Account when your credit is shot
I need a UK Business Bank Account, but I have a terrible credit rating. Anyone managed to open one with a High Street Bank? [more inside]
Blackberry Bold Internet Browser problems
Why does my Blackberry Bold internet browser insist on remaining set on the essentially useless "MEdia net" browser rather than the one I want, "Internet Browser"? [more inside]
Why does my rabbit put poop on his foot?
Rabbit owners: I have a rabbit with a very strange habit and I need some help figuring it out! Involves poop and a foot. [more inside]
What is going on employment-wise with me?
I'm moving from being employed to being a contractor...but things are not going as planned, at least so far. What are my options in case things don't go according to plan? [more inside]
Gimme dem points
Starting a new traveling sales job. At what hotel chain should I throw all my business to? [more inside]
How to relax in dreamland and wake up feeling good?
I'd like to hear from anyone who has overcome excessive tension in the jaw, neck and upper back during sleep. I wake up feeling very stressed and tense and it's a drag. [more inside]
Solution is null
How can I explain this software bug to management? [more inside]
Who are some doctors who are renowned for their work outside the field of medicine?
Who are some doctors who are renowned for their work outside the field of medicine? [more inside]
SLP client's behavior interfering with therapy
Hi all,
I'm an SLP grad student doing language-phonology clinic this semester and one of my client's behavior is getting in the way of therapy. She's 5.5 years old and is home schooled. It's quite clear there's no discipline at home and now I get to look totally incompetent for it. Any ideas about what I could do? This child spends most of the one-hour session mouthing off, spending 10 minutes on one sip of water to avoid work, pounding on the two-way glass (mom taps back, oy), and falling on the floor and telling me, "Me died." I've tried rewards but it seems she doesn't associate the rewards with anything. Just takes them and demands more. [more inside]
Football Manager 2011 is causing me to need a valium
I recently downloaded Football Manager 2011 from Amazon.com and my saved games are often corrupted and lost causing me to get extremely frustrated. What can I do to prevent this from happening in the future? Also, why is the software so buggy? I have never had seven saved games become corrupted in any game I've had previously.
44 days of Christmas?
Are houses in your neighborhood still decorated for Christmas? On purpose, with the lights turned on, wreaths with red bows, Christmas flags, etc? Or is my new neighborhood just weird? [more inside]
Votre salon préféré?
Parisian mefites! Need your recommendations for good hair salons that speak English. [more inside]
Hey, I just bought a lot of new bookshelves.
I'll be attending a conference at Boston University next Friday, and (barring some sort of apocalyptic weather) will have nearly all of Thursday to myself. This means...I need to go to some academic bookstores. (Yes, I'll do other things. But, really, I need to go to some academic bookstores.) I've checked online reviews, etc., and while I know about the Harvard area, where else should I go? If it helps, I'm always looking for stores with good stocks of history of religion, literary criticism, and British history. Home base while I'm there will be in the immediate vicinity of BU.
Which out of copyright children's books have death scenes?
What are some out of copyright children's books with touching death scenes? [more inside]
Connect Computer to TV?
How do I connect my Dell Inspiron 6000 computer to my Toshiba Cinema Series HD - Model 51HX84 TV to play movies that I have on my computer?
StickFigures, High Impact Presentation
Trying to find a video about a young woman (editor?) from a major publishing house who did a really great, to-the-point stick-figure-simple powerpoint about ... how a book gets published? I can't remember if I saw it here, You Tube, mediabistro, Facebook -- oy. Searching has failed. Thanks!
Getting a mortgage without a job?
We have liquid assets that total over 85% of the cost of the house we want to buy, good credit (each of us has a credit score over 730) and a strong employment history. The house we want to buy is in Massachusetts and we are currently employed in California. We've been pre-approved by our bank (in MA) for a mortgage that is $50,000 more than we are interested in borrowing. We are concerned that the fact that we will have given notice on our jobs in CA during the time we will be closing on the house will result in the mortgage falling apart at closing. We've got a call into the loan office of our bank but we are looking for suggestions and experiences from people in similar circumstances. [more inside]
Inexpensive software for printing ID badges for a small/mid-size non-profit?
Any suggestions for inexpensive software for printing ID badges for a small/mid-size non-profit? [more inside]
What is the cheapest way of getting my bike to Germany?
What is the cheapest way of getting my bike to Germany? [more inside]
Hope me with a .docx document !
Can some kind Mefite please open and send me a .docx document as a Word doc, or PDF ? I've tried two online services with no luck, and since I'm running Chrome, I can't download the MS fix. In addition, I'm too inept to figure out the workaround. It's only a letter from the GSA covering the Art In Architecture application process for artists, and since it IS a government agency, I want to make sure I haven't missed something stupid. My email is in my profile. Thanks in advance !
need professional help with tax debt in Toronto
I'm looking for professional help with settling an old tax debt. I would like to know what kind of professional I should be looking for and recommendations for an individual or firm in Toronto would be most helpful. [more inside]
Work in Patmos for a month?
Hi I'm considering remote working from Patmos or another Greek Island for a month or so either in spring or late summer. I hear from Negroponte's initiative the island has free wifi -- what's coverage like? Does anyone else know of a sweet spot of affordable + great internet connectivity in Greece? Free isn't necessary; reasonable is.
If so, recommendations for sites offering short term apartment rentals in your recommended area would be most awesome! Let's say, 4-6 weeks.
Taxes are problematic, but this is ridiculous.
Help me get rid of the "Windows Could not Connect to the System events notification service" error. (Warning - you will need to dumb down your answers a little.) [more inside]
Help me manage my multiple interests and hobbies, aside of my personal and professional life
How can I manage multiple personal interests without going crazy? [more inside]
Bundt cake blunders and how to avoid them
Cakefilter: Bundt cake blunders and how to avoid them. Or, help me make the best birthday cake ever! [more inside]
The best calendar to manage a group of people
Any suggestions for a daily, non-online calendar to manage 60 people for 2011? Like an offline (Excel?) version of Tom's Planner. [more inside]
Road bike clothing online discounter?
Unbranded & weirdly branded road cycling clothing: About four years ago I came across a website that was a clearance center for major road cycling clothing manufacturers. It sold a lot of jerseys and shorts that appeared to be excess items from custom-design production runs printed for odd cat2/cat3 teams in different countries around the world, printed with sponsorships for things like Colombian soda-pop companies, German pneumatics firms, etc. They had a lot of jerseys that would normally be $75-100/ea going for around $30 a piece. I lost the URL and am not even sure if the company is still in business (iirc it was a Yahoo! storefront). [more inside]
Calling all people who really like the way they've decorated their homes.
What are your favorite decor ideas that you use in your home? [more inside]
February 6
One more hill's as far as I can go
What is this song I heard today? It's a slow folkish bluegrass song with the lines "Lately I've been moving kind of slowly, one more hill's as far as I can go" as the chorus. [more inside]
Recommend an Autocad System Build?
An architect friend has asked me to build her a PC for autocad. $1350 is her price cap, including monitor but she'd love to come in under. [more inside]
How do education researchers design experiments?
How do education researchers design experiments? [more inside]
how to nip it good?
I need new nail nippers (not clippers), since the last ones from Target were never really satisfactory and finally broke. Recommendations?
Relaxing, Cheap Weekend Getaway Near Seattle
We are looking for an inexpensive getaway for 2 couples within a few hours' drive of Seattle. We want to sit around, read, play board games, drink, etc -- and we're trying to find a good place to do it. [more inside]
Help me plan the quintessential Cancun Spring Break
Help me plan the quintessential college spring break [more inside]
Should a 4 year old with a new cast be allowed in gym class?
One of my 4-year old students broke his arm on Saturday, and is now in a cast. The parents, and school directors, are encouraging him to still come to gym class (which I teach), and play soccer and run around.
Am I alone in thinking this is a bad idea? [more inside]
Help me find this video on working your whole life in order to be able to go barefoot again
There once was a video... it talked about how we were born barefoot and then put on shoes so that we could go to work to earn enough money to retire on the beach and go barefoot. My Googlefu is weak tonight. Does anyone know where I can find it online?
Half-baked Cake filter
Is it healthy or sensible to half bake a cake, cool it, freeze it, thaw it, and finish cooking it? [more inside]
What are your favourite science experiment themed music videos?
For my latest video project, I'm creating a presentation that's science themed (think sexy girl in lab coat performing science experiments with a catchy music track). I'm looking for inspiration but my youtube and vimeo search fu can't seem to find anything. [more inside]
Finding an isolated vacation cabin in Michigan
How can I find a nice, but isolated, Michigan cabin to stay in on vacation? Everything I find online is both 1) not isolated, 2) unnecessarily large for me and my wife, and 3) doesn't allow us to bring our dog. [more inside]
Favorite Fairway Coffee?
What are your favorite Fairway coffee beans? We shop at Fairway regularly, like their coffee but haven't settled into a handful of favorite choices. Opinions?
I don't care whose status you commented on
Facebook filter: Can I hide friends' comments on other people's status? [more inside]
Health, Healing, and Nutrition resources for the average human
Please help me find good sources for health, healing, and nutrition information online. [more inside]
How can I see if I'm being coerced into belief?
What should I do if I suspect I'm being indoctrinated? [more inside]
Woke Up, Got Out of Bed, Dragged a Comb Across My Head
For those of you who work outside of your homes (especially single people without loved ones or kids to pay attention to in the morning) what's your morning routine? What have you been able to stick with that leaves you happier and healthier for the rest of the day? [more inside]
iGoogle and Google Talk Issues
I use iGoogle as my homepage and use Google talk from there as well but in the last few months I noticed with a few contacts, I can only chat with them in gmail. When they send me a message on iGoogle it flashes orange but the chat box is blank, I have to then go into chat history and see what they said and reply in gmail. I tried searching for answers, even reset my whole iGoogle yet this still persists. If anyone can provide any assistance it would be much appreciated.
Pantry Pile Potluck: What should we make with all of this food?
My boyfriend and I have a cooking puzzle for you: we rather wildly underestimated the price of our groceries when we went shopping this evening, and as a result we decided to try to raid the current contents of our pantry to accommodate two weeks of meals rather than just one. Well, it turns out we have way more stuff than we thought, but we have no idea how to put it all together. Assuming that we can buy $10 or so more groceries if we need to make recipes work, can you tell us how to make the enclosed list of ingredients into 5-7 tasty vegan dinners that are more interesting than just five nights of beans and rice? We know we've got lots of food, we're just not very good at improvising. [more inside]
Where are these old buttons from?
I have these old buttons from my grandmother. They look like they are from the military but I'm not sure. Does anyone know where these are from?
SWF crashes when unloaded in IE7 and IE8; non standard code and iframes?
A colleague is finding that a page on a server that includes a SWF can load smoothly and be viewed in its entirety, but it generates a JavaScript error message whenever that page is unloaded, but only in IE7 and IE8. (Line 1, Char 1, "Access is denied", Code 0, URL=SWF file name). Firefox 3.6 and IE6 have no problems at all. For some reason, the page has been designed to load the SWF directly into an iframe's src attribute instead of using the usual OBJECT and EMBED tags and associated parameters within a separate HTML page. Is this unloading problem simply IE7 and IE8 being extra-vigilant about security with non-standard code? [more inside]
Geocache puzzle?
Suggestions for geocache puzzle? [more inside]
c'mon iTunes - quit being such a PITA
Does anyone know a good way to sync multiple devices on the same iTunes account on multiple machines easily? [more inside]
Genre for Max Martin-written songs?
Is there a name for the genre that Max Martin's pop hits from the late 90s - early 00s fall into? (You've probably heard them, even if you haven't heard of him.) [more inside]
I want to run DeluxePaint II on a Mac, how do I do it?
I have a Mac laptop with Snow Leopard.
I have experience with mid-1980s Amiga graphics app DeluxePaint II
I want to run that piece of software. I have tried to futz with Amiga emulators but have not been successful. [more inside]
But...where will I get my latte fix now?
How do I rediscover my city before it makes me scream? [more inside]
MySQL Self-Referential Table Problem
Can't find any reference to this on Google. I'm writing a MySQL query for a self-referential table using an EXISTS clause. [more inside]
Weird rash after taking antibiotics
This very localized rash appeared on my left side after taking some antibiotics. Then, two months later, it reappeared in the exact same location after taking a different antibiotic. What is it? [picture included] [more inside]
V-Day in LA
I'd like to do something cool with my wife for Valentine's Day. Difficulty: we'll be away from our home base in Riverside, CA (near Los Angeles). [more inside]
How can I convince grad schools I'm not a 2.6 student?
I'd like to go to grad school. I have my eye on one or two programs, but there's a catch: My Undergrad performance is, uh, spotty and I need to become more competitive. What's the best way to do this? More inside. [more inside]
no 1099 for you!
1099 form issuance refused. what to do? [more inside]
I am looking for a ventriloquist's plush toy cat.
I am looking for one of those plush toys that you can put your hand up and make talk, like a ventriloquist's doll. Specificially, I am looking for a cat. Is there a particular brand that caters to such things? Years ago I seem to remember there were places where you could go in, choose the "skin" of the plush toy, then stuff it yourself, name it, that sort of thing.
Recommendations on synth DIY
I am looking for recommendations for DIY synth kits. I recently built the Weird Sound Generator and Voice of Saturn kits and am now looking for more to build. Does anyone here know of any similar noise-making PCB kits, or something else in general I should look into?
Thanks.
Am I stuck with an expensive paperweight?
[Possibly NSFW] What to do with pricey but useless adult toy? [more inside]
Is my friend's psychosis temporary?
What signs can I look for to help me determine whether my meth-addicted friend's paranoid behavior stems from amphetamine psychosis, or something more permanent, like schizophrenia?
What movie is this?
What movie am I thinking of? [more inside]
Hack 'n Cheese
Help me hack my Kraft Dinner/macaroni and cheese! [more inside]
Pickup BBall in Hoboken?
Pickup basketball in NJ? [more inside]
Help me find a place to live for 6 weeks near Simon Fraser University!
I'm trying to find a place to live in Vancouver for 5-6 weeks this summer. It needs to be someplace that I can take transit to Simon Fraser University each day, and preferably someplace a skinny male will not be scared to walk alone at night. [more inside]
Cell to cell
Cheapest way to text / call to California cell phone from Canada? [more inside]
USB picture frames as secondary display?
I've heard that some digital picture frames are addressable over USB and can be used as a secondary display with Windows. It doesn't appear that most vendors make this information easy to find, however. Is there a list, or something better I should be searching on to find out which can be used this way?
I want to ride like an old-timer!
How can I ride a penny-farthing bicycle? [more inside]
How can I maintain a good supply of new running songs?
Suggestions for running songs and ways to collect them? [more inside]
Horror set in space
Looking for recommendations of horror stories set in space - movies, TV shows/episodes, books, comics, games etc. Bonus points for 'ghost ship'/'haunted house' story constructions. [more inside]
So what social networks do (UK) kids use?
I work in health communications and have spend a couple of years now engaging with adult patients and the public using Facebook and Twitter. Now I need to understand how to communicate with a much younger age group using social networks - but have no idea where to start... [more inside]
Where can I develop 35mm film directly to digital?
Any recommendations for places that will develop 35mm film and just return the negatives and a CD/DVD
(or even just a download link) of the prints for a reasonable price? [more inside]
Is there a word or term to describe my aesthetic?
During a recent conversation with a co-worker we tried to figure out a term to describe her personal style, and when I came up with “artsy bohemian”, she agreed to it promptly. Now I’m wondering how to describe my aesthetic. [more inside]
french revolution history
Which Historian said of the French Revolution: "...it was not the product of poor people but of poor lawyers." [more inside]
urghhhhguhh.
In the middle of a pretty crippling psychiatric/depressive break. what do i do? [more inside]
Books about betrayal - for middle school readers
Need a book recommendation for my middle schooler. She just finished reading The Gadget by Paul Zindel, and is interested in other books or movies, for that matter, that involve betrayal by a friend. [more inside]
How do I write "From Life" in Latin or French?
I'd like to add a Latin or French phrase meaning "from life" (i.e., short for "painted from life") to my signatures on paintings to differentiate my work from artists who rely on photos and video monitors instead of live models for their work. I'd like it to be pithy and idiomatic, and so I'm somewhat reluctant to rely on Google Translate . . .
Like two peas in a pot
Mathfilter: Antiderivative explained? [more inside]
Running shoes that look cool too (cool like a rapper)?
Running shoes that look COOL? Like if Jay-Z had to go run a 5k. [more inside]
Friendly Seattle sports pub to watch the super bowl?
Trying to figure out where to watch the super bowl this afternoon. I'm in North Seattle. Any recommendations for bars where I can have a little unironic enjoyment of the game without getting beer spilled on me? [more inside]
Clever attire for a "Golf Pros and Hos" Birthday
What funny or clever costume could I wear to a Golf "Pros and Hos" themed party? (I'm a girl) [more inside]
Best tasting whey protein powder?
Best tasting whey protein powder? [more inside]
Where to go in Mexico
Where should I drive to specifically, going from Atlanta to Mexico? [more inside]
Weird game from the past is nagging at me...
Help me find this weird little game where you control the productivity of a creature working in a cubical at a science lab... [more inside]
"Western Wind" set to music.
Who did it and where can I find their music? 25 years ago in an Irish coffeehouse in the Bronx, I heard a band perform a rendition of "Oh Western Wind, when will thou blow? The small rain down can rain. Christ if my love were in my arms, and I in my bed again". It was sung by a beautiful brunette woman. Lately,I've had it stuck in my head again. This is my first question to askmetafilter and I've got faith in the hive mind...
How can we remove ancient tarpaper?
How to get tar paper off a hardwood floor? We've tried paint remover, paint stripper, adhesive remover, dry ice, fabric softener, GOOP, and so on... [more inside]
Soup kitchen near Las Vegas strip
ISO soup kitchen near Las Vegas strip. [more inside]
How do I toughen up to succeed in the corporate world?
How do I toughen up?
I want to be successful in my career but I wonder if I have the necessary ruthlessness. [more inside]
B-A-R spells Bar, B-E-R-S-H-O-P spells Bershop
Barbershop quartets. I want the strangest, most delightful, most reality-shattering, most unlivewithoutable barbershop quartets. I want the barbershop quartets that play in your mind during the best and worst moments of your life.
Desperately seeking quote..
Looking for a quote about traveling. Something about the purpose of traveling the globe over is to come back to the place you came from and see it with new eyes or anew.
Does that ring a bell to anyone? Much thanks in advance..
I hate ruining good food.
What would be the best way to cook unshucked, frozen corn? It's been in the deep freezer since June, mostly because I'm not sure the best way to cook it now. [more inside]
Help me find an article about the TSA!
The google-fu fails again: help me find an article by a guy who got tons of stuff past the TSA and wore, like, taliban t-shirts and stuff and proved the ineffectiveness of the system? [more inside]
Wanted: Super pain in the neck non-allergen dog treat needed. Apply Within.
Help! I need an easy inexpensive dog treat/cookie recipe without any common allergens. Is this really as impossible as it seems? [more inside]
How do I deal with a mother who has been in and out of an abusive relationship for years?
How do I deal with a mother who has been in and out of an abusive relationship for years? She'll leave him for a few months, but always goes back. Can or will this ever stop? And how to I support her while not condoning her behavior? [more inside]
How can I tell if my 3 y.o. grandson was molested?
My three year old grandson made a statement that suggested he was molested at his daycare. Earlier, he told his parents a different version of the story that doesn't suggest molestation. How can we get to the truth? [more inside]
What do I do at Sudanese wake?
How do I pay respects to a Sudanese coworker's family? [more inside]
not your typical rsi question
I clean houses for a living. I'm getting RSI. A lot of the usual advice doesn't seem to apply to me, and I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Just got a job after 7 months of unemployment. So why do I still feel like a giant loser in life?
Just got a job after 7 months of unemployment. Yay! Why do I still feel like a giant loser in life? [more inside]
Why did the ticketing police officer recommend I plead not guilty to a moving violation?
I just ran a red light in Brooklyn and was pulled over by police. I was given a ticket and the officer urged me to plead not guilty and to attend the scheduled court date and pay the citation otherwise I'd be hit with 6 points to my license. Why did the officer recommend pleading not guilty? And what should I expect in a Brookly TVB court? [more inside]
Need a catchy phrase
I'm offering an adult self esteem improvement group in my community. Need ideas for a great title, that would spark some interest while marketing it. Any ideas?
Mass (and volume) murder. How to compute the "body" count?
Help me write yet another science fiction story. I need to figure out the environmental damage resulting from an accidental sewage spill. [more inside]
Bring out Your Dead, so that we may read about them
My sister and I enjoy a well written obituary. After reading the post yesterday about the Ghislaine de Polignac obit, I wonder if there's a good repository on the web of obituaries? [more inside]
Occupations for 40+ yr old, new BSME grad besides designing?
Occupations for 40+ yr old, new BSME grad besides designing? (Details inside.) [more inside]
Counting the corners in a new (to you) room
I'm curious if this is something my mother made up, or if it's actually a cultural practice/superstition from somewhere? Counting the corners in a room that you've never slept in before the first night you sleep in it. [more inside]
Graphic Novels Without the Graphics, Please
I love superhero fiction. I love stories that look into what superhero powers would be like--its psychological and social ramifications. I love the mythology that has developed around superheroes. I love the darkness and moral complexity many modern superhero stories involve.... But I just cannot get into comics or any visual storytelling of that sort. So, can you point me to any good novels about superheroes? [more inside]
Please help with your suggestions for a home theater notebook/netbook. Details inside.
Please help with your suggestions for a home theater notebook/netbook. Details inside. [more inside]
Why ask to have something notarized?
What is the purpose of having something notarized? Do notaries have any legal responsibility for the authenticity of the documents they sign? [more inside]
Where the heck was this floaty grasslandy thing?
What was the location for this poorly remembered Ripley's Believe It Or Not exhibit of a floating grassland I saw as a kid? [more inside]
Snowshoe me please
Tell me what snowshoes to buy! [more inside]
Help me make sure I don't buy redundant audio equipment, please
I just moved and am trying to figure out the most elegant network audio solution. Most of the equipment I think I need is already here [below the fold], and I want to figure out if I need to buy anything else, or if what I have already is enough to suit my needs. [more inside]
Augmenting NFL Broadcast Coverage with the Web
What should I have open in my browser during the Super Bowl today? [more inside]
Help an American overseas watch the SuperBowl!
Anybody know of any live streams of the Super Bowl tonight that will be available online? [more inside]
train keeps a-rolling
I love this 7+ hr video of the Bergensbanen in Norway. The scenery is amazing and the fact that it's just one shot means that I can just leave it on on the background as a kind of moving landscape. I'm looking for your recommendations for something similar to play via computer on a pc, tv or flat panel monitor. [more inside]
help me identify this British movie about elderly cannibals
I saw the very end of this color movie on TV when I was in grade school in Illinois between '76 and '80. Now whenever the White Cliffs of Dover are referenced I think of elderly cannibal ladies. [more inside]
Printing services for personal Coffee Table Book
Printing services for a Coffee Table book with my own photos and text. Details inside... [more inside]
February 5
Not the Battle of Helm's Deep
Where can I find a video clip of an old city defending its walls against an enemy (with axes, battering ram, catapults, towers)? [more inside]
Can you help me find the title of this novel?
Can you help me find the title of a novel (probably Young Adult) I read sometime between 1979 and 1981? [more inside]
NYS Thruway poster: Where?
30 reasons to shake up the status quo . . .
Help me generate a list of experiences I should have before I turn 30. [more inside]
To Online Date, or Not to Online Date, that is the question
Should I try online dating or stick to hoping to meet someone in the outside world? More details inside. [more inside]
"I endeavor to give satisfaction, sir."
Your best British comedy suggestions, please. [more inside]
Old school children's books with audio?
I'm curious to know anything about some books I had as a child. The books were from the 70's or early 80's and had small phonographic records embedded on the pages. There was an apparatus you would put over the disks that would play the audio.
Bra removal champion???
What is this half-remembered VHS tape of very-low-production-values, very short sketches, that my friend and I rented in the mid-to-late 80s? [more inside]
College student new to the world of investing...
Should I go with the stock market? Or perhaps something less risky such as a CD? How much knowledge do I need to thrive in the stock market? Halp! [more inside]
I want to make a DIY wine rack
I want to make a DIY wine rack, preferably holding at least 10 bottles. I invite you to tell me your best DIY wine rack ideas, bonus points if you've actually built it. Hanging on the wall is a possibility, but I'm slightly more interested in racks that would sit on a table or on the floor against the wall.
Somebody come play with me...
Forgotten book filter: A girl ghost (or imaginary friend) is luring other girls to their death. [more inside]
How do I find a reliable mover in Vancouver?
I need recommendations for reliable movers in Vancouver, BC (or recommendations about how to find reliable movers). [more inside]
I Need This Bear
Long Shot: Help me locate this bear for a friend's birthday! [more inside]
How Can I Get Around Graduate School GPA Requirement?
I'm 41 and I want to go back to school - how do I get around the GPA requirement? And a few other questions as well. [more inside]
Looking for unpretentious dance spots in SF
What are some awesome, unpretentious places to go out dancing in San Francisco on a Saturday night? [more inside]
Is there any way to contest deferred interest on a "same as cash" store credit card?
Is there any way to contest deferred interest on a "same as cash" store credit card? [more inside]
Having kids in New York if you're not rich: how do people pull it off?
Having kids in New York if you're not rich: how do people pull it off? [more inside]
Community Group Website
My community group needs a website and I've been given the job of setting it up. We need to sell tickets to events, keep track of membership dues/renewals, have some basic info pages, photos, etc. Right now we've working with Paypal, some spreadsheets, and a very out of date website (has a geocities era look to it). I have 20 hours to devote to this project, and have some very rusty coding experience. I know I can't build this myself. Are there ready to go solutions out there?
Çatal Höyük to The Anger in Egypt
Can you suggest great, chronological, world history documentary series? [more inside]
K-NEX-filter
The box for the "K'NEX Thrill Rides - Light-Up Ferris Wheel" says that there are instructions for assembling the "Comet Chaser" (using the same parts) on their website. Can't find them. Anyone found them?
Please help me figure out who made my socks!
I received one pair of socks from my mother-in-law this Christmas. She doesn't recall where she bought them. Here are two pictures - one of the sock, and one of the logo (Looks like an EL - extensive Google searches aren't helping). Any idea who makes them? Thanks!
Sock
Logo
Lithium-Ion battery care
Talk to me about Lithium-ion batterys on my iPhone and iPad. Seems to be many vague opinions on care and maintenence, 'discharge fully once a month, but charge frequently', etc. I currently aim for charging when it hits near 40-50% if I'm near a outlet. What's your take on how to best make these batterys live longest?
Help me help someone get their sculptures exhibited in Toronto.
How does an established professional but not well known artist best go about 'exhibiting' a collection of beautiful metal sculptures in Toronto?
Would they have to rent their own space and throw an event?
Do they pitch/apply to various galleries? Which ones?
Asking for a friend! Thanks in advance...I love the green.
Legal set-up for a commune in Canada?
Legal set-up for a commune in Canada? [more inside]
Suing an LLC building contractor?
Suing my contractor. Insurance companies want to enter mediation to settle, but contractor won't supply them with necessary info for them to investigate and move forward. Now what? [more inside]
Cable modem/wireless router combo with EASY set-up
Please help me choose an easy to use, reliable cable modem/wireless router combo: [more inside]
Love will tear us apart
Valentine's Day gifts for people who hate Valentine's Day. [more inside]
Tied, Untied, or Doesn't Matter?
Should my biodegradable compost bags be tied or untied when they go into the compost heap in order for the contents to break down fastest? [more inside]
PhD Failure - What next?
Where next after failing my UK PhD at the viva stage? [more inside]
Identifying a design aesthetic.
What art/design style/aesthetic would these sci-fi pictures be classified as? [more inside]
I need rehab for depression.
I need rehab for depression. [more inside]
How to get Contacts into iPod Touch
How to import my Contacts from Palm Desktop ver. 4.1.4 to my iPod Touch ver. 4.2.1?
I have looked at Apple Support , and PdbConverter without success. and the AskMefi 91 posts tagged with ipodtouch. I have Win XP SP3 and iTunes 10.
2001 VW Golf caught in flooding - now difficult to change gears
My 2001 VW Golf (1.6l manual) was caught in flash flooding on Friday. The car stalled in water that came up to a couple of inches past the level of the bottom of the doors. The car was in the water for about 15 minutes before some local residents helped me push the car out of the water. Luckily, the car started and I drove home. The next day I found it was (intermittently) difficult to change gears. Is it possible that water could have got into the transmission or some other part of the car effecting the transmission? Or is this just a coincidence and the well know problem with the Mk4 transmission has happened? Any advice is appreciated.
Looking for a movie title
There was a movie from about the 80s, I think, about researchers who had invented a helmet of some kind that allowed its wearer to record their experiences and then the helmet could be used by someone else to experience what had been recorded. The lead-up was putting the helmet on a person who was dying. Can anybody tell me what that movie was called? Thanks!
Scenes From a Marriage
What are some novels in which the plot primarily revolves around a marriage? [more inside]
Is this Motorcycle Academy being unreasonable?
I signed up for a Motorcycle RiderCourse through a local academy and realized I was not able to make the date I had signed up for. They offer no course changes (even for a fee) and if you miss your scheduled date they give you 90 days to get in a class via stand-by. I've tried more than ten times to get in a class via standby and I wasn't each time. Their policy says no refunds, and even politely e-mailing the academy owner, she offers no sympathy and says getting into stand-by is not a guarantee. Are they being unreasonable? If they won't accept my request for a refund should I go through the chargeback route? [more inside]
Large water bottle storage furniture needed!
Help me to hide my 5 gallon Arrowhead bottles! [more inside]
Civet-Filter! Where to buy?
I, a huge coffee fan, have a bag of Kopi Luwak that I was given as a gift. I cracked it open today, and can't help but think that it's a tad on the stale side.
Probably because it was pre-ground. Okay, whatever, I'm sure you can buy recently roasted beans, right?
The edible store only seems to carry pre-groud! At 24gdp for about fifty grams, this strikes me as a total sin.
So tell me meta-folks, where can I order the beans, without the grinding? (Preferably with some reasonable guarantee that I'm actually getting what I pay for.)
Humor a coffee snob.
knock wood will never be used
What should I put on my medic alert bracelet? [more inside]
Multifaith alternatives to Sunday school and/or catechism?
Are there "multifaith" alternatives to Sunday school and/or catechism? [more inside]
Baby, You Can Drive My Car
Where is the best place for a scared 30 year old woman to learn to drive in the DC area? [more inside]
Physics II for grown ups
Contemplating a return to school to complete those last few credits I need for a particular Bachelor's degree (while working full time). The classes I need can be done through distance learning or night school for the most part, with one exception. [more inside]
Did this really exist?
Does anyone remember a Boston Celtics poster from the 80's featuring only the white players? [more inside]
What useful skills can be learned in an hour or less?
What are some useful skills one can learn in an hour or less? [more inside]
Stopping ripped knees in Women's pants
My pants keep ripping at the knee. Looking for prevention and repair ideas! [more inside]
I want clean teeth, not receding gums.
Homemade dentifrice? Please weigh in. [more inside]
Superbowl in Portland: where would YOU go?
Australians in Portland, OR for Superbowl: where can we go to experience this national cultural event? [more inside]
Odd after-death arrangement: how to?
Two questions. How do I write a last will and testament when it involves those I know across the internet? And, how do I ensure that certain...eccentric requests involving my funeral and/or body be carried out? [more inside]
Why am I under investigation? How worried should I be?
Why would a private investigator be investigating me or my car? I just recieved a letter from the WA state Department of Licensing notifying me that they have disclosed my vehicle licensing information to a private investigator called Melendez & Associates, Inc. Investigations. It does not state the reason for the investigation. [more inside]
Sending out a daily photo email. What's the best way to organize the mailing list?
I want to charge people to receive one of my photos everyday via email. What's the most efficient way to set this up? [more inside]
A/S/L...and?
I've agreed to participate in a speed networking event. I'll be chatting with 20-30 people. How do I keep it fresh and not ask each person the same question? What can/do I want to know about someone in 3 minutes? How do I use this to improve my own 'elevator speech'?
Please help me identify a Parisian restaurant I once visited!
Help me to identify the place I ate in Paris years ago. (More information is below.) [more inside]
It's a bit tricky to search for "book cover design book."
I want my books to be judged by their covers. [more inside]
Please Array A Path For Me
Does anyone know anything about the song snippet at the end of The Decemberists' song "Why We Fight" (which starts at about the four and half minute mark)?
Help with Dog Tags
Does anyone know if Vietnam era Pilots carried Dog tags, and if so, did they have the same info on as their Army counter parts??
I know that Army service guys, carried (amongst other things) their service number proceeded by RA for regular Army, so would Airforce guys be proceeded by AF?? And What about Marines???
I tried to search the web, but cannot really find the answers to my Questions, any help appreciated
Crash Helmet Diva
I think stage fright is causing me to lose consciousness while singing. How can I stop this from happening? [more inside]
Do Pólya's constants prove my cat will come home eventually?
We have lost a cat. Ignoring obstacles like trees, roads and houses, I am assuming he has gone on a random walk. Me and my fiancée have been out every night since he left, also walking randomly, hoping to find him. But I know a random walk in two dimensions always returns to the origin eventually, so are we actually any better off searching for him than just staying at home? [more inside]
Help me eat!
Help me eat without a refrigeration or microwave. [more inside]
Bring me my news! Very customized!
How do I create an RSS feed to filter news items based on about 300 keywords? [more inside]
Whatever happened to band logos?
While some bands still have logos|symbols, they do not seem to be as essential a part of the band identity as they were in the seventies. What was it about the seventies music culture that encouraged the extensive use of band logos and symbols? [more inside]
All my bags are packed.
Making a mix tape: Need songs about moving away from home for the very first time. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Proximity calculation on facebook
Can you find how "close" you are to any specific person on facebook using an API (e.g., something very similar to linked-in where it shows how many degrees you are away from someone?) [more inside]
The Beginners Guide to Theatre Acting
Thespians of Metafilter: What should I, a humble stage acting newbie, expect when auditioning for a role with his local theatre company? [more inside]
Physical fitness benchmarks?
What are canonical physical fitness benchmarks specific sports, occupations, and other activities? [more inside]
Name of French Film?
Does anyone know the name of a recent French movie( well maybe 2005) about three gangsters in Paris and a girl who gets involved with them...they ask her to video a heist for them then she becomes one of the gang. They go to Cannes, etc and have a gangsters holiday, then the big robbery they have planned goes wrong at the end (where she dresses as a high class prostitute in a blonde wig) but she ends up in a large apartment by the sea America with a piano full of bank notes
Finding breadfruit in Oregon
Does anyone know where I could find breadfruit to buy between Salem and Portland, Oregon? [more inside]
February 4
seeking name for giant streak in the sky that doesn't sound as stupid as "giant streak in the sky"
People are living on an Earthlike planet with rings like Saturn a la this youtube video. What would they call this streak in the sky? [more inside]
Name for Speech Therapy Practice
CreativityNameFilter: A friend of mine is starting a speech therapy practice, and has called on me for genius ideas. Um. I'm no naming genius. [more inside]
Too much rice pudding?
Is there a reason why eating so much rice pudding is making me want to barf? [more inside]
Dress like an adult, in Houston
Where to shop in order to dress like an adult, in Houston. [more inside]
Patch my panic-addled brain.
YANMD: Please help me with immediate methods of managing a panic attack. [more inside]
A child's history of racism in the US
Looking for a young adult reader that focused on the history of racism/oppression in America published in the 1990's. [more inside]
I'd like the liner to actually form some manner of line
How can I make my eyes hold! damn! still! when I'm trying to put on eyeliner? [more inside]
Can I stop thinking mean thoughts without saying them?
I keep writing devastating (and true!) letters to her in my head. This makes me sad, because I don't actually want to be mean to her. I want to stop being sad. [more inside]
Top quality pin punch?
I need to buy a 1/16th inch pin punch, but I'm lost telling between cheap Chinese shit and top quality. [more inside]
It's my 29th birthday. Again.
What should my family get me for my momentous 30th birthday? [more inside]
Burn that disc
Ten hours to burn six DVDs. Really? [more inside]
Small, powerful, and cheap - can I really only pick two?
My Hitachi Magic Wand can get me off like nothing else, but it's a bit intimidating in partner sex. Is there anything smaller that can come close? [more inside]
What's the pay for a software architect in the S.F. area?
What's the going rate for a software architect in the San Francisco area? [more inside]
where can I buy PowerUp Rewards PRO "online"?
where can I buy PowerUp Rewards PRO online? [more inside]
Escaping from BART? (Or, oh crap, I have to go back to Oakland now?)
What happens if I don't have enough money on my farecard to get out of BART? [more inside]
Searching for the writer of a half-remembered short story
Trying to find an author that wrote at least one story for the New Yorker perhaps 20 to 30 years ago, about being in the Marines, not fitting in somehow, getting a rifle butt to the temple, being discharged and suffering brain trauma. [more inside]
Tell me where to go on vacation
Recommendations for All-Inclusive Caribbean Resorts? [more inside]
Long form Law and Order episode guides
Is there a website/blog that has fairly detailed summaries of episodes of Law and Order? [more inside]
Rank ignorance.
Do human beings as a species, homo sapiens sapiens, have a strong body odor in their natural state? Anthropologists, biologists, informed laypeople, any way to get at the truth? [more inside]
Free to Air satellite feeds on cable access
What Free-to-Air satellite feeds should I consider having run on my local cable access stations? [more inside]
Italian Vacation
Suggestions for an Italian Family Vacation? [more inside]
Preferably without electrocuting myself...
All of the electrical outlets in my bedroom—except for one—are switched. The single unswitched outlet is in a useless location. How can I convert one of the switched outlets to unswitched? [more inside]
Snack Dome
What is the purpose of the dome on this vending machine? [more inside]
My car is far away, uphill, in the snow. How can I make this easier?
My driveway isn't going to get plowed anymore this season. How do I make the trip up to and down from my car at the top easier? [more inside]
Lady Tux Fashion
Snappy but reasonably priced women's tux in Toronto? [more inside]
iWannaThrowItOutTheWindow
iPhoneFilter: Pictures/videos in my "photo library" on my iPhone (NOT camera roll)...how do I delete them? [more inside]
Help me find this photo blog
Help me find this photo blog I used to follow: I don't remember the name, but it always presented a single photograph that was updated infrequently (maybe once a month?) ... the guy who took the photos had an Asian name, but to my knowledge never appeared any photos. His girlfriend was also a frequent subject of the photos and she was white. He also listed the lens, camera and other information at the bottom of the photo. Most of the photos were shot digitally, but a few were vintage cameras. The domain was also short and catchy. Any ideas? [more inside]
What looks good with #AFC398?
Programmers: know any good algorithms for picking colors, modifying colors or choosing colors that go well together? This is specifically for code. I'm NOT looking for apps that let you choose colors. [more inside]
Trip Insurance with expensive camera equipment?
Two Brits and one American are taking a ten month trip around the world (inc. America) to document street performers. We need to insure ourselves for the standard backpacking trip, but we are also carrying expensive camera equipment - WHAT IS THE BEST VALUE-FOR-MONEY INSURANCE? [more inside]
housing crisis and income tax in florida
Article (very possibly by Matt Taibbi) dealing with the housing crisis and how it affected Florida's state revenues. [more inside]
Eugene Onegin in English
When discussing Eugene Onegin, how do English speakers typically pronounce the protagonist's first name? [more inside]
How Do I Wire My House for Sound?
I need to split the audio signal outputs (CD, tuner, Computer etc) to different amplifiers in my house, what do I need to do this? [more inside]
Defer or Default?
I have $33,000 in subsidized federal student loan debt. This past year my loans have been in deferment, which means that accumulating interest has been capitalized. I earned approximately $6000 last year. My annual income has never been above $18k. Between the job market and child care for my kids, the future doesn't look much better. What happens if I default on my loans? Is there a better option for me than deferment?
How to keep a chunk of money safe in the UK?
How do I safely look after a large chunk of money for a short period of time? Difficulty - I'm in the UK, and some of it isn't mine... [more inside]
Best Plutarch Translation for the Uninitiated?
Which version of Plutarch's Lives should I read? [more inside]
Romantic, vegetarian, and not swamped?
Need recommendations for decently classy, vegetarian-friendly restaurants in DC that might still take a Valentine's Day reservation. [more inside]
Help me name my Etsy shop for my crafts!
Help me name my Etsy shop for my crafts! I mostly make ribbon & fabric flower pins, needle-felted animals, and sew simple bags & purses. I need a clever little name for my humble Etsy shop; this name would also be used on labels for the items, and as a general identity for my crafting persona. [more inside]
Something happens and I'm head over heels
MorbidCuriosityFilter: I just saw this on my friend's blog, which is an odd coincidence, because only the other day I was wondering: How many people have jumped or fallen off of the spiral walkway at the Guggenheim Museum in NYC? [more inside]
Hands are either cold/dry or warm/sweaty. How can I get dry/warm?
Maybe its because I have poor circulation, maybe it's because of something else, but my hands are often cold to the touch. They're also often dry, or other times just very sweaty and moist (when warm). How can I find a happy medium where I can have dry yet warm hands?
I'm not sure of the cause, but if it is poor circulation to my extremities, how can I improve this naturally?
My Girlfriend Wants To Go Back To School For Design...and I'm a lousy guidance counselor.
So my girlfriend wants to get into a design field and go back to school for it. What's the fastest and most affordable way for that happen in a meaningful way? [more inside]
Rental House Headaches
Can my landlord require that I mail rent checks to a USPS Post Office Box instead of delivering them in person or sending them Certified Mail with Signature Confirmation? [more inside]
Cartoon soundtrack billionaire?
Billionaire who made his money with cartoon soundtracks? [more inside]
What happens to bone fragments left in the body?
What would become of my spinous process if it broke off? The doctor told me it would eventually dissolve inside my body but I hear about people needing surgery to remove bone fragments so I wonder if it could still be there contributing to my pain 10 years later. [more inside]
We got wars going down in the middle western states, kevlar vests against the crystal flakes.
I want raw, dingy music about shady characters navigating the dark corners of American society. [more inside]
Cardboard to plastic
What's the best way of turning a cardboard art project model into plastic? [more inside]
Could I ever wear this outside an SCA event?
Could a young man ever wear this cape outside an SCA event? I have a mild fascination with winter outerwear and I've wanted a cloak for a long time, but they cost more than I can afford for a toy. Between the hood, the length, and the woollen material, I think I could actually wear this as functional garment, but, as a matter of mores and fashion, would I ever get away with it?
Better lighting for photographing machine tools
I need to take better pictures in my home machine shop. I have a decent camera (Nikon L100) but my workshop lighting is poor (mostly florescent lights) and my camera's flash is too directional and too harsh. I think I need to invest in a small umbrella light but I'm not sure and I could use some advice, including what to buy.
I take a lot of close-ups, I don't have a lot of room to work in and I'd like to work with a continuous light rather than flash. The photos are for my blog.
What do athletes put under braces (tennis elbow brace) to prevent them from slipping?
What do athletes put under braces (tennis elbow brace) to prevent them from slipping? [more inside]
RAID Madness! (Well not really)
Please help me get my RAID 5 disks organized. I have two RAID 5 arrays that I feel I could make better use of. [more inside]
Help me document my big day for cheap!
Help me document my new england wedding for cheap! See details inside. [more inside]
How should I address the RAID problem on my new computer?
I recently bought a computer with two drives in RAID 1 configuration. After a couple of weeks, I started recieving the message "RAID 1 LD 1 goes critical." [more inside]
Where should I watch the Superbowl in Milwaukee (Mayfair mall area)?
Where should I watch the Superbowl in Milwaukee (Mayfair mall area)? [more inside]
How do I prep for a talkshow?
What resources are useful for prepping a webshow? [more inside]
Recommend instrumental Renaissance music to me
Please recommend to me more music like this track by Thomas Tallis, performed by The King's Noyse.
I'm finding it a little tricky to find entire albums by this Consort or that Ensemble that are exclusively instrumental.
What I'm looking for is: 1) Instrumental, without vocals; 2) 16th century-ish; 3) similar, not-too-lively tempo; 4) Available from Amazon mp3 or iTunes. [more inside]
Be vewy vewy quiet, I'm hunting wabbits
My girlfriend asked me to purchase a rabbit vibrator for valentines day gift. What rabbit vibrator should I get her? NSFW [more inside]
Repackaged images
Help me find where (or if) people have talked about the practice, seen on tumblr and in wider visual blog culture, of completely forgoing citation when posting other people's visual work. [more inside]
I just want to go to sleep, dammit!
How can I make the best out of an upcoming meeting between myself, my landlord, and my noisy downstairs neighbors? [more inside]
Retirement Should Not Be This Hard
Please help me help my mother's retirement crisis from across the country. [more inside]
Part Time Job in Boston?
I would like to pick up a second job. I've got a salaried 9-5 job and would like to earn some extra cash.. but I'm not sure where to look. [more inside]
What are these Wild Card women dancing to?
Can anyone help me identify the song used in this tribal bellydance performance? [more inside]
veteran players and team performance
Does this paper topic sound interesting? Looking at the effect of veteran players on team performance in baseball. [more inside]
Good fences make good neighbors?
What are my obligations as a neighbor with a shared driveway? I really don't want to be a special snowflake. [more inside]
looking for children's book about dolls
Looking for a children's book about a girl with six dolls... [more inside]
Days to recharge?
"Mental Health" days? Is this a proper use of sick days? [more inside]
How to contact a newly-discovered half-sibling?
How should I go about contacting my half-sister whom I've never met? [more inside]
Can you recommend an adult ADD doc in DC?
ADD/ADHD adult treatment recommendation in Washington DC. Details inside. [more inside]
how to make a digital photo look like exposures or film
easy formatting photos on the pc to get the lomography effect with the film-like holes on the top ad bottom of a photo. [more inside]
Help me find a good PR media monitoring service
Currently my office, a media relations outfit, uses a news monitoring service called Meltwater News. I have found the interface clunky, slow, and we have consistently had problems with the newsletter feature. Any suggestions for a replacement? [more inside]
Books like 'Unbroken'
If you've read Laura Hillenbrand's, 'Unbroken' what other books would you recommend for a 16 year old who loved it? [more inside]
What can we do outside in the American Southwest in March?
Spring break in the desert southwest (definitely Death Valley and probably some combination of Bryce/Zion/Grand Canyon and environs, or whatever else we discover is awesome)- what should we do and how should we budget our time? [more inside]
An Apple Store with Exposed Brick?
What cities have successfully integrated the yuppie lifestyle with the historic urban core? [more inside]
I don't even like long drives, so how can I make it easiest for her?
Bringing our new puppy home this weekend-- she's a 10-week old Husky (and a little bit Malamute). The drive home is going to be long (10 hours-- we live in a really remote location) and I'm looking for some tips to make her as comfortable as possible. [more inside]
There's a mobile site for that.
Smartphone apps - what's the fuss all about? Why use them? [more inside]
Tumblr 'likes' via RSS
I want my tumblr 'likes' to be readable via RSS. Tumblr does allow you to export your data (including 'likes') by xml or json via their API. Unfortunately I have no clue how to get started and would appreciate any help. Thanks.
Can a (possibly stray) cat make my dog sick?
Can a (possibly stray) cat make my dog sick? [more inside]
Give me examples of web services that make something happen in the physical world
Give me examples of web services that make something happen in the physical world (e.g. send a letter, make a phone call) [more inside]
Do things get spoilt?
Is "gets spoilt" proper English? [more inside]
Advice Needed!
Advice needed!: Hi everyone, thanks to a friend letting me use her account. I'm a 25year old college graduate currently returning to school to do undergraduate prereqs to go into medicine. I live in Arizona and have a pretty serious situation. I've been pounding the pavement looking for work, part time or full time for over a year now, tailoring my resume for each application I make out. [more inside]
Underground tour and Theo factory tour, really?
How do I entertain two Texan friends over a long weekend in cold, dreary Seattle (and vicinity)? [more inside]
February 3
Long-Johns just don't cut it.
I bundle up with jackets, sweaters, and scarves during the Winter, but my legs are always cold under my jeans. I've bought two kinds of thermal pants. One doesn't do much, the other makes me colder. [more inside]
Could this design be a stylized cross?
Whats up with my yogurt?
I'm making my own Greek yogurt. Its worked well before, so why is it so thin now? [more inside]
The car, it is hot in the wrong place
My temp gauge suddenly went to the max and the heater died. I was a couple miles from home (downhill) so I limped home. No water leaking from anywhere. I assume this is coincidence (??), but I very recently had the serpentine belt replaced. In recent days, the car's been a bit stumbly at low RPMs, maybe a bit more in the last couple days. It's a 2000 Crown Victoria (police model), 4.6 V-8. Water pump? Thermostat? Thanks for any thoughts you have to share.
I need a necklace that I can hang a ring from that looks nice and not trashy. Help me find it!
Where can I find my SO a nice necklace chain to hang a ring from? [more inside]
Help me add truthiness to this fictional anecdote involving the military.
I want to write a short, not-very-detailed fictional anecdote about a soldier who gets separated from his unit during a (short) firefight and winds up lost for a few minutes in a Middle-Eastern city, before his fellows find him. This will be just a few paragraphs in a larger story. [more inside]
Tortilla baby, you are messing with my lung feng shui!
I was starting to get a pretty nasty cough from my SO. My tonsils are HUGE on a normal day, but when I get throat-sick, they swell up and sometimes bleed. Great! To complicate matters, I was eating the smaller bits of a bag of tortilla chips and accidentally inhale a piece or two. I nearly choked, and I could not cough up the piece(s). Now I'm having (what I think are) lung spasms every 30 secs to 5 minutes, and it's freaking me out and causing some serious pain. [more inside]
America-India Relations
Sparks are flying between myself and a workmate/friend from India. Help me get my head around the cultural aspect of this. [more inside]
Art
Young art lover. I want to buy more art. How should I proceed without offending anyone and also having good taste?? [more inside]
When can I take a pregnancy test?
Clueless and confused: when can I take a pregnancy test? [more inside]
Bizarre Foods
I finally tried balut! I don't think I'll be trying that again, but I'm so thrilled that I could get past the gross (for me) factor and actually think about the taste and texture... So, what's next, and available in grocery stores or preferably restaurants near San Mateo, CA?
U-nanny-muss
Help me understand unanimous consent (In the US Senate) [more inside]
How to safely remove monster icicle
Giant icicle mass on a wire and over a walkway: how do I get rid of it? [more inside]
Something special for my special someone
Valentine's Day gift: what to give someone who has almost everything? [more inside]
Dude, you're totally harshing my network connection.
I feel like a dick asking this, but is there any way to tell if my neighbors are throttling our shared internet connection with downloads? And if they are, is there any way to partition the connection so my connection's not affected? [more inside]
Help me find an economical laptop!
My Macbook died and I'd like to get a new Windows laptop. I'm a bit overwhelmed. I'm looking for an economical laptop, mainly for basic computer work and some image editing (with gimp). Help! [more inside]
It's 17 o'clock somewhere -- I just wish that wasn't here
My alarm clock/iPod dock has decided to display 24-hour time, and I'm really much more at home in the 12-hour format. (I may have desperately hit a lot of buttons when it was beeping...) [more inside]
Big Head Hat Yet Again
The other day I lost my black acrylic/wool Nautica knit beanie-style hat. I lost it in a train station, so I don't expect to ever find it again (the station staff had not seen it). Help me find one like it! [more inside]
Old TV Commercial Filter: "Bluuuuueberry! Straaaawberry!"
Old TV Commercial Filter: A man walks around an orchard (or somewhere) with a pack of stuff shouting "Blueberry! (or Blueberries!), Strawberry! (or Strawberries!)" in a sing-song voice. Possibly for Smuckers? What was this an ad for and can I find it on the internet?
American Revolution Rock?
OK, so for a history project, looking for (modern rock/pop) songs that would be relevant to the American Revolutionary War, in the same kind of vein that "Run to the Hills" by Iron Maiden is about the American-Indian conflict. [more inside]
What is the best way to seal a hole through stucco?
What is the preferred way to waterproof/seal a hole through stucco for the purposes of mounting lighting and the like? [more inside]
My godfather has offered me a partnerhip, help!
My godfather has offered me a job in his company. I am unsure what to do and need help! [more inside]
Twin Cities Olives without the Garden
Is there a restaurant in the Twin Cities metro that serves up awesome olives? [more inside]
Please help me make chili hot chocolate!
Please help me make some delicious chili hot chocolate! [more inside]
Cool storylines involving Eberron's industries/politics/economic disparities?
Eberron veterans! Help a DM (new to Eberron, not to DMing) out. I'm looking for intriguing plot hooks that specifically exploit two of the setting's distinctive characteristics: the treatment of magic as everyday technology, and the huge rich/poor gap (i.e., the extent to which the dragonmarked houses dominate). Share your stories, unused campaign hooks, or idle musings. Our preferred focus is role-playing, not roll-playing. [more inside]
What do you do with a baby who's interactive but pre-crawling?
I never feel quite sure about how my 5 month-old daughter should be spending her awake time. I'm looking for parents to chime in on what's normal and appropriate in terms of both quality and quantity. [more inside]
How to segment the market for services by lawyers in a region?
Where can I find accessible market research on the American legal services market by practice area within certain markets, regions, states, or cities? In particular, have studies been done on the size of legal markets by city or region? [more inside]
Help me find a quote about a bad dad from tv/movies?
Sorry for the fuzzy details... I'm trying to find the source / remember a quote. It was a story told by a character about when they were a kid. They had been riding their bike, got hurt and was hiding between two cars. The dad finds the kid eventually and doesn't know what to do with the crying child... so he bends down and smacks the kid.
I just want my name back, particularly since I never changed it in the first place.
I never changed my name after I got married, but I signed my name with my husband's last name on several legal documents. Now we're getting divorced, and my lawyer tells me that I have to request in my MDA that my name be restored to my maiden name. I live in Tennessee. Help me understand this please! [more inside]
Have you been to Beirut?
Should I go to Lebanon in April? What do I need to know if I go? I have a chance to attend a conference there, and need to decide quickly if I'm going, and if so, how long I want to spend there and if I want to go anywhere else in the area. [more inside]
Advice on primitive text recognition to beat Yahoo! Text Twist?
Dear Hive, please give me pointers on making a text-recognition algorithm in Java for a program that wins at Yahoo! TextTwist. [more inside]
Movies and books to expand vocabulary
In what English movies or books would I most likely be exposed to new words? Any genre and time-period.
I'm over 30 and lost...what am I doing wrong?
I'm 33 years old. I obtained my BA in English from a respected college in 2001. Since then I have worked in nonprofits, retail, education, and in an administrative capacity. I have never made more than 32,000 a year. Currently I make 12/hour in NYC metro area as a temp, doing data entry. All of my previous jobs lead to nothing...the one promising job fell apart because I was suffering from major depression at the time and I quit so that I could be hospitalized. [more inside]
How to convert videotapes to digital video?
What is the cheapest and easiest way of taking 10 videotapes and turning them into digital video on my computer? Note: I do not own a VCR.
MLB home run leaders on April 29, 2003
How can I find out who the MLB home run leaders were on April 29, 2003?
I'm being evicted and need fast advice.
I'm being evicted and need fast advice. [more inside]
Consumer bennies are only good for the consumer if you are a good consumer.
Who offers a credit card without rewards? [more inside]
Cheapest phone with wifi tethering.
I'm looking for the cheapest, unlocked GSM phone that will let me wifi tether to my locked iPhone so I don't have to pay the obscene AT&T roaming charges outside the US. [more inside]
Do usb and firewire outlets exist?
Can I set up usb connections, dvd/cd drives, and other computer stuff in separate rooms? Do usb and firewire, and dvd/cd drive outlets exist that can be mounted in wall-boxes? [more inside]
French Pronunciation
French pronunciation: Schwa at the end of words that end in consonant plus final 'e'? [more inside]
Quick and dirty cassette to mp3?
Best Windows free/shareware software for recording analog cassettes to mp3? [more inside]
Please Kindle my Blog Reading
I am the proud owner of a new Kindle 3, and am already loving the many things it does, including the early AM delivery of the NYT to it every day. So now I'm eying the blogs that can be e-delivered to te device too. Which, if any, does the hive mind recommend?
Help me get my VS2008 "go To Definition" back!?
"Go To Definition" Greyed out in VS2008...help get it back?! [more inside]
How to deal with a relationship gone wrong at work?
Where do I turn now that things have gone disastrous at work? [more inside]
Want to print my very own chapbook, is there a freeware printing app for the occasion?
Want to print my very own chapbook, is there a freeware printing app for the occasion? Am using an ancient version of Word, so it needs to be standalone if possible - on and it needs also to be smallish - like paperback size. Any leads, help and suggestions, please list them. Thank you!
Help me choose my next keyboard
Recommend me a new keyboard (/mouse combo) for my PC [more inside]
The spouse and the house
How to deal with the guilt of leaving a spouse with a house they can't afford? [more inside]
Looking for a song that goes ding
I heard a song in a bookstore today. I went and asked at the counter but it was playing off a mix-cd an employee had left in the store a while ago. There was no information on the cd. The song had minimal instrumentation, the most distinctive part of it was a high-pitched 'ding' sound, higher pitched than a triangle. It was a duet, I could barely make out what I think was a woman singing. The lyrics I remember from the louder, male voice were something about "the palm of my hand" (or "your hand") and the word "no" repeated. Anyone know what song this is?
I see your shotgun and I raise you a zombie creeper.
The girlfriend and I are going to Hawaii in a few weeks and have a 10 hour flight. I'm looking for a fun, nerdy card game to bring with us to kill some of that time, something that would be fun for two people. We both like the Fluxx variants, but they tend to spread out which seems inconvenient for the plane. Also probably things that require shouting or slapping (a la Spoons) would be bad. Bonus points if it's readily available at The Compleat Strategist in NYC.
Help my friend wear David Ruffin's glasses?
Can you help me identify these glasses, like David Ruffin used to wear? Or, failing that, lead me towards some decent replicas/lookalikes? [more inside]
sous vide suggestions
I now can SOUS VIDE. What should I SOUS VIDE? [more inside]
I need book learning for Ubuntu LTSP
I have searched the web, the AskMe mind, and asked a couple of local LTSP experts about a good, printed resource that will take me step by step through setting up an Ubuntu server and eight to ten clients. I know where to find most if not all the install info online, which is where most experts have pointed me, but my mind works better if can can see it in a book. Suggestions? [more inside]
How warm are Hudson Bay point blankets?
I'm considering buying a Hudson Bay Point blanket (4 point, full/double size) but how warm would it actually keep me? [more inside]
Jalopnik alternatives?
What are some fun car blogs? [more inside]
Eureka! Or not.
Help me learn how to read and watch movies critically/more deeply. [more inside]
Help me understand the current political situation in Egypt.
Help me understand the current political situation in Egypt. [more inside]
Printing company recommendations for food packaging labels
I'm looking to have a small run (a few hundred) of labels printed for a food package. This package is a frozen plastic bag with one flat side that has room for a sticker about 2 1/2 inches by 4 1/2 inches. We would like to get the labels printed and then hand apply them ourselves. [more inside]
Person with possible cognitive disabilities keeps calling me, may need help
A person that possibly needs help keeps calling me asking for his parents, likely has cognitive disabilities. [more inside]
Is 10,000 texts a month crazy?
Looking at my phone bill, I see my daughter, 18, is averaging over 10,000 texts/mo over the past five months. [more inside]
Who is Hipolito M. Wiseman?
Who is Hipolito M. Wiseman, and why is he leaving all those spam comments? [more inside]
How do I turn Gmail into a database?
Is there a way to turn my Gmail account into a database? I have tons of valuable information in my 15 gigabytes Gmail box...can you recommend exciting ways of extracting it? [more inside]
Optimizing an external hard drive
Let's say I want to buy a new external hard drive. I can pick a case with a particular interface (USB2/USB3/FW400/FW800/eSATA) and a mechanism with certain performance characteristics (RPM, latency, transfer rate, etc). Is there a straightforward heuristic that will tell me "if you're using interface X, don't bother buying a mechanism faster than Y."? [more inside]
Help! I'm Alive.
My mind is a very dark place at the moment. Please help me find the light switch? [more inside]
Hourly editing help?
Another "what do I charge" question, magazine editor edition. [more inside]
Sparky woodstove
Strange woodstove question: Occasionally, there's a little shower of sparks that flies off the back surface of the stove. What's going on? [more inside]
Fall back plans
What are some "different" things to do when my original plans fall through? [more inside]
What are some good sci-fi omnibuses?
Sci-fi omnibus recommendations? [more inside]
Should my art museum put some of our collection on Flickr?
I'm working on a proposal that the art museum where I work should put images of some of our collection onto our Flickr account. Are there downsides to this that I'm missing? [more inside]
How can we get our cats to give us more love?
How do we get our two cats to love us more? [more inside]
Multi cultural childrens crafts?
I am looking for inexpensive, multicultural, childrens crafts to use with the summer reading program at our library. Any suggestions?
What's the current best-in-class calorie-tracking website?
What's the current best-in-class calorie-tracking website? [more inside]
Why is shadowbox (in wordpress) redirecting people to the video page?
Shadowbox redirects people to the Vimeo page instead of just opening up in a...shadow box. Here's the page. The "promo video" is in the sidebar, under "The Busking Project Promo". Here's the code I'm using. [more inside]
Help me sell my antiques without getting ripped off!
How do I sell antiques and get a fair price? [more inside]
House-cooling advice for fraidy cats
It's really hot. I need to let the breeze through my house while minimising risk of invitin burglars. [more inside]
repairing 5 year old macpro
when starting up my 5 year old macpro, grandprix flag style graphics have appeared. Could this be a warning of graphics card failure? it is not N vidia so will be costly. The hard drive also needs replacing so is it worth the gamble on such an old model?
XBOX 360 setup help: Using a monitor & getting audio
I'm getting an XBOX 360 shortly, but I have a few questions about setting it up. For one, my television is very bad, so I'd like to use my computer monitor for it - should picking up a VGA cable be fine?
Secondly, I'm not sure how the XBOX's audio ports are set up - can I just plug my headset with a standard headphone and microphone plug into it, or do I need adapters? [more inside]
Portable running shoes
Portable (possibly fold-up) running shoes for a female? [more inside]
February 2
Can threats be privy to self-destruction?
Are there any examples from history in which a government has ended a "war" against a specific threat that has resulted in the self destruction of said threat? [more inside]
Sun over the yardarm?
Is the sun over the yardarm earlier when one is closer to the equator?
I want this to be a triumph.
Internet quest: I'm looking for video of a full playthrough of the game Portal, available to download. I want to be able to watch it like a movie. Google fails me. [more inside]
German potty humor
Sauber? Sauber! Help me find this German toilet ad. It's been cracking me up for twenty years. [more inside]
OpenSourceMusicGeekProjectFilter question
I need some advice on how to build a database-driven site around an archive of ephemera (mostly flyers). Essentially, I want to build an online archive of scanned rave flyers from the Toronto-London-Detroit rave scenes (plus some Midwest US flyers). Here's what I have: [more inside]
Psychological Conditioning in the Real World
What are some practical ways to implement classical and operant conditioning in the real world to change people's behaviour? [more inside]
Game recommendations for a Monopoly-obsessed 5 year-old
What games, puzzles, and activities would you recommend for my almost 5 year-old son who is currently obsessed with Monopoly (real life version) and Plants vs Zombies (iOS)? [more inside]
What should I do on the Big Island?
I'm on my way to Hawaii. Looking for interesting things to do. Will be mostly around Kona and South Point, but have a car so the whole island will be accessible. Particularly interested in unique or somewhat physically demanding ideas. Prefer non-touristy, although I do plan to do a mantaray snorkel tour. Cost is not a major issue, I'm willing to pay up for things that are worth it. I was there and hit the major attractions last year (Volcano, Waipi'o Valley, various waterfalls, etc.) and don't need to repeat. The types of things I *would* like to repeat from last time are kayaking out with the humpbacks, and taking the trail down to Captain Cook's Cove. Thinking of trying some geocaching. Please submit your ideas and recommendations!
Can you name this movie for me?
Can you name this movie for me? The film is a romantic drama (or comedy?) where the basic premise was a boy and a girl who were friends and sort of are meant to be together but travel along their own paths for a while until, presumably, the end when they end up happily together. [more inside]
Where in the world is this weird traffic circle?
Where is this traffic circle? I saw it in one of those ambient videos of scenes from around the world, but I couldn't figure out where it was from. [more inside]
How to survive in Orlando
Almost to Orlando and I don't have a job, savings or a place to live- what now? [more inside]
Keep it weird, my Gaelic friends
I need some Dublin pointers. I'll be there for a short stay, and since I'm going over on St. Patricks day (as well as my birthday), there will be no historical touring for me. So, I'd love to know about any unique Dublin sites (for instance the torture museum in Amsterdam), including any day trips - bonus points if any of these include drag queens! [more inside]
What are my chances for landing a teaching job in the UK?
What are my chances for landing a teaching job in the UK if I have a related BA but little experience? [more inside]
Oven cleaning = evil
Help me clean my gas oven. [more inside]
Failure + Redemption = Success?
Does my (big, big, big) failure from 4+ years ago preclude my getting into a good business school? [more inside]
How to reboil the oil?
How can I safely reuse cooking oil? [more inside]
Why am I so damn itchy?
What is making me itch... [more inside]
Is this connector readily available?
Is this electronic connector (pics: 1, 2, 3, 4) easily available, or is it a custom part? [more inside]
How do I start having healthy relationships as a female introvert at college?
I'm a female eighteen-year-old in the middle of my freshman year at college. I've been having trouble making friends and meeting new people. [more inside]
Facebook de la Majuscules
Why doesn't Facebook allow uncapitalized names? [more inside]
what should I know about teaching?
Should I be a teacher? [more inside]
looking for the perfect large desk mug
There's been a few great threads on travel mugs, but what I need is the perfect large desk mug. [more inside]
Tisker, Tasker
Help me learn how to use Tasker effectively. [more inside]
I bless the rains down in Africa.
My boyfriend will be in Sierra Leone this summer conducting research for his dissertation. He's looking for recommendations for satellite phone and/or internet service. [more inside]
Recording & Networking At An Academic Conference
Two questions about an academic conference: (1) voice recording at a distance and (2) networking at said conference as an undergrad. [more inside]
Where do I set the Transfer Function in Adobe Photoshop CS5?
Where do I set the Transfer Function in Adobe Photoshop CS5? [more inside]
Need to amend taxes for a three word change?
TaxFilter: Received a 1099-MISC after filing, but I reported the income on 1040 Line 21. Do I need to amend? [more inside]
Seasonal tasks in RTM
Can any of you Remember the Milk aficionados out there tell me how to create a seasonal task?
I.e one that appears in my inbox on a specified day and disappears once completed until the same date next year. Repeat after next September 1?
Comes over one an absolute necessity to move
Recommendations for somewhere within a two-hour plane or train trip of London (not including time to get to LHR, LGW, LCY, KGX, etc.) for a three-day personal retreat. Ideally, self-catering or B&B.
Suggestions? [more inside]
How Dry I'm Not
Help me get out of the pool: Strategies for post swim workout re-entry to the dry world. [more inside]
Name that pot
What did I just buy, stoneware edition. Another thrift store find. [more inside]
[job filter] How can I fight to keep a job that I love now that the higher-ups have decided that my girlfriend and I can't work together?
[job filter] Should I bother to / How can I fight to keep a job that I love now that the higher-ups have decided that my girlfriend and I can't work together? [more inside]
help- being foreclosed on
Help, I'm being foreclosed on... [more inside]
Has anyone used quizzle for free credit score and report? Are there any catches?
Has anyone used quizzle for free credit score and report? Are there any catches? [more inside]
Macro, Meso, ??, Micro, Nano
I need help with some terminology of scale. Is there a term for something on a scale between "meso" and "micro"? Alternatively, I'd be happy with something higher than "macro" or between "micro" and "nano" (but I'd rather avoid that one if possible). [more inside]
Tunes in The Cloud
How can I listen to my music, anywhere? [more inside]
Wordpress Multisite Tools?
Is it just me, or is displaying cross-network data from a multisite installation of Wordpress bizarrely hard?
Can you recommend some non-Wordpress solutions to overcome my hurdles? [more inside]
When is a Vehicle Identity Check needed?
UK-Car-Insurance-Write-Off-Filter:
My car was declared an insurance write-off after an accident. Since the accident it has passed an MOT, and has new road tax. Do I need to take it for a Vehicle Identity Check before driving it? [more inside]
Devolving into chaos
How do I fix two audio recordings that should be in sync, but aren't? [more inside]
Ballin
In basketball, why do west coast teams score more in general? NBA, NCAA, recreational - why is that? [more inside]
...and don't forget to write!
Another gift-filter: our friend is moving back to China! [more inside]
one couch too many
My beloved is leaving her apartment in Oakland, which means getting rid of her couch. She arranged with a local thrift store to pick it up, but upon inspection they were unwilling to do so, citing "sun damage". Now she has only about 48 hours to get the couch out of her apartment and get rid of it. Any suggestions? Goodwill no longer does pick-ups. [more inside]
Cheating is apparently a virtue.
My husband recently told me he wants to be cuckolded. While I'm up for flirting and creative exaggeration to make him happy, actually having sex with someone else is not remotely an option for me. Unfortunately, it seems that anything less is not an option for him. [more inside]
Does an artist need to get permission to sell art of famous people?
If I create an original piece of artwork based on a famous person and then sell prints, do I have to get that person's permission? [more inside]
How do I wipe a hard drive on an iMac with a dead display?
How do I wipe a hard drive on an iMac with a dead display? [more inside]
Slouching towards Wall Street
Career change time: help me leave my interesting job to become a finance drone! [more inside]
How to sell/recycle a used computer?
How do I easily rid myself of a busted Powerbook and still make a little bit of money back? [more inside]
He's sensitive about his hair.
Long shot: my coworker in NYC saw someone carrying a pink umbrella the other day that had the words "don't look at my hair" printed in large letters on it. We want to buy one of these umbrellas for another coworker. Anyone know where we could find these in New York City?
Not a *white handbag*!!!
What's inappropriate about wearing a white handbag to a job interview? [more inside]
What do you use to design an Apple?
I have a guest staying with me who suggests that Apple uses PCs and PC-based CAD software for doing the mechanical design of their products. I'm skeptical, and consult the mighty and infallible Oracle of Metafilter for first hand verification. Anyone know what they use... for real?
Need quotes about lying and deception and ethics to convince a Mormon to do the right thing
Help me fight back against a swindler by appealing to his religious convictions. [more inside]
She's got feet like mountain peaks
Foot-filter: My feet are... tall? High-boned? Help me find a term for this, and maybe even some boots. [more inside]
An interesting story about a nobody
Writer anecdote filter. Who was the writer in this little story? [more inside]
How to fight seasonal depression with online memes
How can we fight seasonal blues with a meme? [more inside]
SFX in the US
What would be the American equivalent of SFX Magazine? What would be the major sources of science fiction and other genre media news, online and off, in the united states?
Incapacity insurance claim denied due to lack of objective proof of chronic pain
About to have an incapacity insurance claim denied due to lack of objective proof of chronic pain in the UK. What are our options? [more inside]
comparing sentence structures to death
good web resources that compares english sentence structures to death? [more inside]
Sweet Shots
As a hobby, my friends and I create alcoholic-infused cupcakes inspired by cocktails and shots. Friends, family members and relative strangers have been egging us on to start selling them. We've been reluctant to do so, for all the obvious reasons, but now we're considering a very, very small-scale word-of-mouth/online ordering business.
What do we need to know in order to avoid getting sued, fined, or going bankrupt? [more inside]
When should I ask for a raise?
My company doesn't do yearly reviews so when should I ask for a raise? [more inside]
Need easy low-carbohydrate meal and snack ideas
Those of you who keep your carbohydrate intake low: what are your go-to simple meals and snacks? Even better if it's easy to make ahead, to take to work, or to find when you're on the road. [more inside]
Frozen pipe: is the damage done?
Frozen water pipe: call a plumber or wait it out? I've tried all the ehow-type articles I can find online, but the spot where my pipe is frozen is not very easy to get at. [more inside]
Does law school make sense for me?
As a general proposition, law school is a losing investment. But I’m a specific proposition. Should I go to law school? Lengthly, probably annoying specifics inside. [more inside]
XML me
Is my dream of an XML file builder merely a dream? [more inside]
We want some education, justice and some damn peace.
Good books on black Civil Rights activists, particularly the Black Panthers? Looking for you smart people to recommend well-written, engaging, thoughtful analysis of the struggle for racial justice in the U.S. for someone born in the 70's. [more inside]
Not not hungry
How have you successfully decreased or suppressed your appetite? [more inside]
My lunch is nuking Sirius
Why would a microwave oven in the next room ( approx 15 ft from the antennae) kill my Sirius reception? [more inside]
Spectrum Lasso?
What is the spectrum lasso tool being used at 4:00 in this video?
How can I have more sex with my boyfriend?
I hope this isn't bratty, but I want to have more sex and I don't get why my boyfriend doesn't. [more inside]
Is there anything in the Bible that can help one justify the estrangement of an abusive parent?
Is there anything in the Bible that can help one justify the estrangement of an abusive parent? I know that not speaking to my mother is the right thing to do, but what does the good book say? [more inside]
Not breaking the law
I’m looking for an old, rare mp3. iTunes is a no-go. Help? [more inside]
"portlandia" ... satire or not-so-much-satire-actually?
how accurate is the show "portlandia"? i get the satire part ... but that doesn't mean it's not spot on. [more inside]
computer game does not compute
Trying to remember the name of (and possibly get) an old DOS video game I used to play in the mid 1990s, and probably featured a woman as the lead character. [more inside]
Caesarean preparation, gastroschisis and small babies
What should I be doing now to prepare for a c-section in approx. 10 weeks' time? And please share your experiences of having a baby with gastroschisis and/ or who is very small. [more inside]
Paris Cat Bar
In December 2002 I went to Paris and found a really strange, ramshackle little bar. Does it sound familiar to anyone? [more inside]
Cherrying Shelves to Newcastle
I want to buy some Scandinavian modern furniture with a cherry finish, but it just doesn't seem to be available here in the northeast of England. Can I order it somewhere? [more inside]
Can you recommend a headset that doesn't pick up ambient noise?
Is there a computer headset that has a very limited range of pickup to avoid ambient noise leaking into my Skype calls? [more inside]
direct recording from digital piano to SD memory card
record live digital piano with sd memory card [more inside]
I bought myself a liarbird, things got more and more absurd.
(JobFilter): Help me work with a university career center. [more inside]
Oh no, not my EVO!
I broke my EVO, new one is on the way. What should I do to make the transition to the new phone as seamless as possible? [more inside]
Help me make an online TV channel for user-submitted content a reality.
Attempting to create an online "television" for a massive online course that would rotate through content created by the course participants. Similar idea to betamaxmas but will probably include static visual content like Flickr feeds as well. Hoping to not have to build this completely from scratch but coming up blank on all searches. Read on for the dirty details [more inside]
Pittsburghers need Superbowl fix while in New Zealand
A few months back, I said to some friends "would't it be great to watch the Steelers in the Superbowl while we are on vacation in New Zealand?" I didn't really expect it to happen given we were losing to the Pat's at the time... now I need to figure out where to watch it. [more inside]
drummers complaining about tuning. lol.
Half remembered anecdote from a music class I took long ago:
"A great German percussionist(?) travels to India in the 20's(?), and on returning says that the trip was a complete waste of time. Not only were the musicians always out of tune, but - most infuriatingly - they were always out of tune in exactly the same way!"
Can anyone peg an attribution onto this story? [more inside]
Street view for library stacks
Inspired by this recent post on MF, wherein Google now offers us access to some of the great museums, can I set up some sort of home-grown 'street view' for library patrons to have a look through closed stacks? Would it be super tough to do?
What is the scope of this category?
How broadly do we define technology in today's world? What do we understand it to refer to when using the word? What are the assumptions we are making? [more inside]
February 1
All worked up, and nothing to show for it
I'm getting worked up and freaked out about nothing, have you done this before, have any solutions? [more inside]
Note to self: try this in ten years
Has Google changed the structure of the web? [more inside]
2 devices, 1 headset.
Is there any sort of headset I can get that I can use both with my PC and my 360? Bonus for wireless setups. [more inside]
How to record youtube videos
Is there any way to record or download youtube videos for free using some software? Thanks.
Name this spider, please!
Daisy... Daisy...
Need help recovering data on a dying Macbook from Ubuntu [more inside]
What sort of pro can help us manage inheritance across US and UK?
Unexpected inheritance of $100,000 - $150,000 complicated by move from the US to the UK in the next year. My wife and I have never dealt with financial matters beyond credit cards and a moderate paycheck before, who do we talk to in Los Angeles/Southern California to make sure we don't screw this up? [more inside]
strange monitor distortion
Any idea what might be happening to my monitor? [more inside]
Cheapest way to ship jewelry from India to US (Jaipur to Boston)?
Cheapest way to ship jewelry from India to the US (Jaipur to Boston)? [more inside]
What should I bill for as a contractor?
I recently took on some hourly contract work. I'm running into some grey areas about what I should and should not be billing for. [more inside]
Can pregnancy hormones create sexual compulsion?
At what point does it go from typical pregnancy hormones to a physiological/psychological concern? [more inside]
Mesh Networking on Wifi cards?
GeekFilter: Is it infeasible to wirelessly mesh/ad hoc network computers together a la MIT's Roofnet using integrated/inexpensive wireless cards instead of dedicated routers? [more inside]
Is it 6pm or 6am?
Is this kind of time/day disorientation a normal sign of aging or should I be concerned? [more inside]
Please spoil Nier for me
I don't want to play this video game any more, but I want to know what happens. Where on the Internet can I find a plot summary of Nier? [more inside]
We're working together, alone, again --- no no no
How to deal with no-go work infatuation [more inside]
Catalog application(files,folders & media)
Catalog application: I'm looking for a lite or open source app, to Catalog all files,folders & media on my PC & Mac ,that can be saved in pdf. I can search , store on my PCs and Macs,so that when I create a backup volume, I can know what is on it.
I have tried a few lite and open source apps, but dislike ones I tried ( PixDiskat 1.08 ,Media Catalog Studio Lite 5.9, MediaMonkey because it conflicts with itunes)
How to keep a Room
I will have to be out of town for a few months. How can I persuade my landlord to keep my room at very small or no charge for four months until I come back? [more inside]
pout for me baby
photographer_filter: what do you say to make people at ease in front of the camera? [more inside]
What size is the average movie download in gb?
Netflix streaming movies - What kind of load should I expect on my service (in gb) for an average movie? I have Comcast and have a pretty healthy limit, but I don't want to start pushing it.
Best online flash card program for studying?
Best online flash card program for studying? [more inside]
Oh, Savannah!
My husband-to-be has suggested Savannah as a honeymoon location. He has a friend down there; we enjoy exploring and going to cool places and eating good food and being near the ocean. (Not sunbathing, just dunking our feet and hanging out, maybe riding a boat.) Tell me more, MeFites! [more inside]
Who will deliver a lot of food and drink in Pittsburgh?
I need to have a large quantity of drinks and snacks delivered to a hospital in Pittsburgh (for a non-profit). Usually when I do this kind of thing in NYC it is easy to use Fresh Direct, but I haven't had any luck finding a service in Pittsburgh that will take care of it for us. [more inside]
How do I (or do I) express anger/hurt to significant other?
How do I (or do I) express anger/hurt to significant other? [more inside]
Spinning a yawn.
Why aren't yawns contagious to infants? [more inside]
Cloud based backup freeriders?
How do the economics of cloud based backup services work? [more inside]
Sterling Hayden Films
I'm planning to draw a picture of Sterling Hayden everyday for the next month so I want to watch as many of his films as possible. I've seen Dr. Strangelove, The Godfather, The Long Goodbye, The Killing, and Asphalt Jungle. What are some other great Sterling Hayden performances?
What's the video for Bijelo Dugme's Đurđevdan about?
Bijelo Dugme's Đurđevdan - what's going on in the water ceremony? [more inside]
Is it okay to widen the f-hole of a violin?
Is it okay to whittle a violin f-hole a sliver bigger to fit a rattlesnake rattle in there? Will I break my fiddle? [more inside]
Blackberry 9700 case
My 17-year old son is on his third Blackberry 9700 screen. At $130 a pop to repair it, it's getting rather expensive! Can anybody recommend a case, armour or force field that will protect it? He doesn't want a holster. [more inside]
How to get demographics on the New York State 10th Senatorial District?
Any idea where I could get semi-recent demographics on the New York State 10th Senatorial District? Got some on the the 10th Community District, but their boundaries don't, of course, match up. Thanks much.
does it make sense to avoid canned tomatoes?
Am I being silly about BPA and tomato products? I have small children and am under the impression that I would do better to eliminate as much BPA as possible from our household diet. Am I doing any good by avoiding canned tomato products? [more inside]
Good neighborhood near BART?
Where to live in San Francisco that is close to BART? [more inside]
Excel 2003 Page Break/Print Area Q
Microsoft Excel 2003 Question: Can I manually set the Page Breaks in Page Break Preview, and THEN print the document so that each manually set page will fill the entire printed sheet of paper? [more inside]
I have the worst teeth you have probably ever seen. What can I do about this?
I have the worst teeth you have probably ever seen. Now what? [more inside]
Cut down a tree that is messing with my sewer line?
A mature sidewalk tree is growing through our sewer line and has already caused disgusting explosions of sewage. Yet the city says we can't cut it down. What can we do? [more inside]
I wish I could quit you, Mozy
I've been a faithful Mozy backups user for 3.5 years, but they changed their pricing structure such that it is no longer unlimited. Looking for new remote backup services. [more inside]
What current video card will work in a six year old Mac Pro desktop system?
What video card currently available for sale could replace the dead ATI Radeon X1900 XT in my six year old Mac Pro tower? [more inside]
Professional boundaries for an adult education environment
I am seeking information (website/blog/journal article/etc) that will help me talk about the need for professional boundaries & role definition for staff working in an adult learning environment. Bonus points for info that talks about both the teacher-student relationship, and relationships within the staff team/whole organisation.
Help me write a short piece of copy for my website explaining photo calibration.
Help me write a short piece of copy for my website explaining photo calibration. [more inside]
How can I reuse a Query Builder query?
Is there any way to save a query in MS Office 2011's Query Builder that isn't tied to a specific spreadsheet? [more inside]
Decently priced Pilates studio?
I'm looking for a decent Pilates studio in NYC, that doesn't cost a billion dollars. [more inside]
How can I become a professional computer literacy tutor?
Recently, I've found that I enjoy and am good at teaching people basic computer literacy and helping them with other technical issues. Is there any way I can turn this into a job in Austin? [more inside]
To register or not to register?
We're getting married! We're young and sort of poor, but so are most of our friends. Do we still get registered? What are the pros and cons? Married peoples, did you regret having a registry or not having one? What are the alternatives to traditional registries? [more inside]
Who will train me?
[career filter] I am looking to start a third career and looking into medical lab technician. I am having a hard time finding programs in Atlanta, Ga believe it or not. [more inside]
Who is this "The Phantom" comic artist?
Help me identify a comic artist of an old "The Phantom" comic. I've got this old issue from my childhood, maybe the 70s or 80s. It's a spanish translation for the South American market by Editorial Novaro. [more inside]
What dance classes should a single 35 year old man take?
As a single 35 yr old guy living in Los Angeles, I want to take a dance class to meet people, improve posture, and gain self-confidence. I am totally clueless as to what style to learn. Any ideas? [more inside]
From cohabitation to nohabitation
I have lived with my boyfriend of 4 years for 2 of those years and now I am moving out. How can I make this transition smoothly? [more inside]
All my life I've been good, but now, whoa oh oh oh oh I'm thinkig "What the hell!"
Help me get my gay groove back, or find it in the first place! [more inside]
The Science of the Music Keeping You On Hold
After sitting on hold with United for a few hours during this latest travelpocalypse, I've become deeply curious about the science of the music used when a caller is placed on hold. For example, at United, the hold music is "Rhapsody in Blue". Rather than being a lovely full recording of the piece, it is an incredibly scratchy partial recapitulation of the main theme that sounds as if it is being played on a phonograph. It skips, stops and starts, and sounds just terrible. But I found myself wondering, is the annoyance to keep the caller on edge? Are those sometimes looong skips and stops designed to keep me paying attention? While these observations come from United, I've noticed the same thing at other companies. Is there a real reason behind this?
Typing out the wrong words
I keep switching words out that sound alike or are similar in the number of letters as the word I was trying to type. Am I just typing faster then my brain thinks, or is something else going on? [more inside]
I'm just a shy introvert in need of a job
Networking - how long until I'm "one of the gang"? [more inside]
Tape me out?
Best pocket camcorder for low lighting/garbage sound conditions? [more inside]
Pahk the police cah in Futurah Blahk
Does anyone know the history of Boston's use of Futura Black as its "official" municipal font? Examples inside. [more inside]
Yes, Virginia, it is possible to know both Os Sertões and the financial leverage equation.
Does having more than one graduate degree really make you look bad on the job market, if they're not related? [more inside]
I already saw Dogtooth and OMG, that was weird
I want to beat my friend in a race to see all (or as many as possible) of the Oscar nominees. [more inside]
help me find the right wireless audio setup
Please help me pick wireless computer speakers. [more inside]
Tree-style hyperlinks in Word?
I need to show/hide a separate list of hyperlinks that in turn can also be clicked on to show another list of subheadings or text. Like a tree, I guess? The problem: I have to do this in Word. [more inside]
What is a DVD Plus?
We're getting a nuchal translucency tomorrow, and the doctor's office said that we can bring a "DVD Plus" (sic) to record the ultrasound. We have a call in to the doctor, but they haven't gotten back to us yet. Is a "DVD Plus" just a DVD R+, or is there some something else that goes by that name? [more inside]
I am almost 20, gay and tired of being a virgin. Should I hook up online?
I am almost 20, gay and tired of being a virgin. Should I hook up online? [more inside]
Should I continue to date while struggling with depression?
Should I date/continue to date someone while trying to deal with my depression? [more inside]
So, I have delusions of being the next Derek Jeter...
I need a baseball/softball mitt and the last time I played was more than 20 years ago... [more inside]
Looking for Good, Drawable Discs
I would like to buy some blank CDs that are just white on top—completely blank, no brand or logo (it might be OK if it's very, very small) and with a surface that can be drawn on with permanent markers. Can you please recommend me a brand?
Stenosaurus
[Stenofilter] I know that stenotypes are useful for the transcription of speech, such as on-the-fly close-captioning, court reporting and similar. But is there any benefit in using a steno-type or other similar chorded keyboard for, say, writing your next novel? [more inside]
I have lots of pretty, old junk. Some of it needs to go.
I am looking to sell some "antique" items and I am not interested in doing so online, for various reasons. I am looking to sell them at one of the many "antique malls" in southeastern Pennsylvania and am looking for recommendations. [more inside]
Paris - iPhone, iPad questions
Two US families going to Paris for 8 days. Between us we have two iPhone 4s and one iPad. Would like to use data on the iPad and be able to keep in touch via our iPhones on a local network. Can we buy “pay as you go” sim cards for the phone and the iPad? Where and what would be the likely price?
Microwaved food safety question
Microwaved food safety question - help me argue with (or gracefully capitulate to) my hippie friends! [more inside]
drug bust examples
I am looking for an example of a drug bust for which the police uncovered a pattern of drug shipments not just uncovered one shipment. I am interested in looking at a pattern of drug transportation in which I can know approximately when drugs where delivered over a period of time. [more inside]
How do you properly "age" a new ball cap?
How do you properly "age" a new ball cap? [more inside]
Baby bulge
Help me brainstorm postpartum exercise! [more inside]
What do I need to know about leaving my job on disability in the US?
What do I need to know about leaving my job on disability in the US? [more inside]
Meow, Meow, How?
How do I help our newly adopted older cat to adjust to our other cats' dry-food diet? [more inside]
An odd way to reimburse
Strange (to me) accounting practice for a work benefit. Is what my company doing legal? [more inside]
DAMNED STUPID TACO ALWAYS BREAKS APART WHEN I'M TRYING TO EAT IT
How do you prepare crunchy taco shells so they don't shatter after the first bite? [more inside]
Google mispelled or knot
The story that "Google" was a typo for "Googol": repeated many times. Is it true or not? Have the Google founders ever commented? This is probably an old hoary question [insert hoary joke here] but I haven't found a reliable source/answer.
Help me become a SAN expert
I need to quickly become an expert in SAN technology. [more inside]
One of those, "but you don't look sick" situations.
How do I explain to people the aftermath of what is probably due to mono? People (family, cute girls) keep brushing off my physical symptoms when I try to concisely explain that, even though I'm infinitely better than I was a couple months ago, my energy fuel tank still empties suddenly and unpredictably, and then I feel awful, freezing, aching, dizzy, and extremely sick until I sleep it off? [more inside]
Help Teach My Comedy Class
Help create my Intro to Comedy Writing syllabus! I'm teaching a comedy writing class for teenagers this semester for the first time. What assignments/
readings/video/audio should I include? [more inside]
To Market, to Market (Do you have a public one?)
Does your area have a public market? Please tell me about it. [more inside]
Long distance writing courses
I'd like to take a long-distance writing course. It'd be particularly cool if it were about food writing or travel writing. Wondering if anyone here has experience with a particular course, ideally one that doesn't have fixed hours (in the case of a virtual classroom). Please share your experiences with me!
A better iPad audio scrubber?
I'm trying to find an ipad app that'll allow me to replay small, short sentences from a recorded screenplay. [more inside]
What can I do to deal with my boyfriend's bad memory?
My boyfriend has the worst memory I've ever encountered. Can we hack it? If not, what are my coping mechanisms? [more inside]
Safety tips without pop-ups/unders
Please recommend good websites and blogs about computer/internet/social media security issues, someplace where I can find out about the latest scams, phishing attempts, malware, etc. I don't really like Snopes, due to the pop-under ads (what is up with that, anyway?). Thank you.
i'd like a universal usb power cable plz.
i'd like to make or buy a custom usb cable that takes different power adapter tips. [more inside]
Florence Italy
Hey everyone,
Going to Florence Italy in the end of March to early April. Anyone have any idea of the weather at that time? Also going alone so any advice on crucial things to take?
Cheers