November 2013 Archives
November 30
Help me miss my Dad
My Dad died this week after a long illness. I don't feel a thing, except maybe tired. How do I get my feelings back? Are there resources for people like me? [more inside]
posted by SecondSock at 11:52 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by SecondSock at 11:52 PM PST - 36 comments
Requesting book recommendations for a one-year-old
My one year old niece loves books that "do things" - especially ones with flaps to lift. Her favorite thing to do when she wakes up is to play quietly with her books for about 20 minutes, and I'd love to encourage that. I would like to get her some books for Christmas. I've purchased Fuzzy Bee and Squishy Turtle for children before, and they were well-received, but the children were younger (in the 6 month range). Are Fuzzy Bee and Squishy Turtle too young for her? Can you recommend any other books that she might like? Her parents are open to anything, as she doesn't have many books and they'd like her to have more, but they're first time parents and not sure what she'd like either.
Midnight snacks that are safe(-er) for teeth?
I'm looking for midnight snacks that are less likely to cause tooth problems/tooth decay/etc. Assume that I'm grabbing this food in the middle of the night and then going back to bed without brushing my teeth. [more inside]
posted by Deathalicious at 10:02 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Deathalicious at 10:02 PM PST - 6 comments
How do I exercise in winter?
I have been running 3 to 4 miles every other day since about June of this year. It has become a very important part of maintaining my mental health, and now that winter has arrived it has been nearly impossible to run. What do I do now to stay active and sane? [more inside]
What's a proxy app for Chrome that works like Anonymox for Firefox?
Is there an app like the Firefox extension Anonymox for Chrome? I have switched to Chrome, but I can't figure out how to use a proxy as easily as I did on Firefox. [more inside]
Replacement hat
I bought this hat, I think, in Cairns back in 2002/2003, lost it a few years ago, and would dearly love another one like it. Every now and then I get online & try searching for one, but I can never find the right thing.
I loved this hat, I found the width of the brim to be just perfect for me, it was easy to shove into my handbag with mangling it, it was light, wouldn't blow off, etc etc. Above the blue/black band, was more white & a blue star on the top.
It was made of cotton & either knitted crocheted.
Is there a specific name for this type of sunhat?
I don't want anything with bows or frills or other adornments. Happy to consider commissioning someone to make one.
Poisoning the well of Facebook's facial recognition
I don't like that Facebook knows my face, so I'm tagging myself (and asking that friends tag me) in a lot of random photos. Does this work? Any tips to do this more efficiently? Is the algorithm already smart enough to detect that something fishy is going on?
Are these running tights or underwear (or both)?
I received these compression pants and I would like to use them as running tights. To my mind, the difference between "running tights" and "base layer" is primarily just marketing, but similar models look like they are really just meant to be underwear. Assuming the ugly waistband is covered by my shirt or jacket, can the pants I received be worn as running tights (without shorts over the top), or will everyone think I'm running in my long johns?
How can I accept online donations given some snowflake details?
I'm raising funds for a non-profit, and I have a quota to meet. They have an online donation form, but I need donations attributed to me. And there's no way for me to look over the list. How can I accept online donations? [more inside]
can I eat this, butter edition
long story short: apartment fire on Monday, frantic move on Tuesday, unorganized to say the least. I had butter in my freezer.Just found the butter in a box in my new kitchen a few minutes ago , thawed. it is still holding its shape. is it still edible?
posted by St. Alia of the Bunnies at 7:06 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by St. Alia of the Bunnies at 7:06 PM PST - 20 comments
How to make Windows 7 find all files. Like Mac program Easyfind.
Hi everyone. Sometimes I'm trying to find an obscure system or game file, and it is actually very difficult to get Windows 7 to understand that, yes, I want it to search through ALL files on a disk. [more inside]
posted by Alaska Jack at 7:00 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 7:00 PM PST - 5 comments
To catch a mouse...
Give me all your best tips for catching mice and making traps more effective. Creative ideas welcome, I just want these little bastards dead! [more inside]
New Yorker publication schedule
I know that the New Yorker Magazine publishes 47 times per year. But what weeks does it skip? There doesn't seem to be calendar of publication/non-publication weeks.
I have a recurring fear of finishing an issue at the end of a week only to find that I have to wait 7 more days for another one. (the horror!)
posted by schrodycat at 6:29 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by schrodycat at 6:29 PM PST - 6 comments
Dog defense in Los Angeles
Good people of MeFi, please tell me anything you can about defending against a plaintiff and animal control after having your dog bite someone. Anecdotes? Love to hear 'em. Attorney recommendations? Love those even more. Getting homeowners insurance affordably after settling a dog bite suit? I'll listen to and consider anything and everything. California and Los Angeles a plus.
posted by infinitewindow at 5:44 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by infinitewindow at 5:44 PM PST - 2 comments
Banking error?
I deposited $200 cash into my checking account today and requested that the teller push the funds through so they would be posted today and I could use them on Monday. This evening, I checked my online banking statement and I had two deposits and an available balance totaling $200 more than expected. [more inside]
iPad stand for the office?
I'm looking for a stable iPad stand to support the iPad as an additional screen in the office. [more inside]
Stomach crunches: more quickly, or fewer but holding them?
Is it better (in terms of muscle building) to do a large number of stomach crunches quickly without pausing at the 'up' part of each crunch, or fewer but pausing and holding the muscles tensed for a few seconds with each crunch?
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 4:53 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 4:53 PM PST - 7 comments
I never want to cry about my body again.
I'm 21, got both legs and arms, a working brain, am decently attractive and completely healthy. I have periodic crashes where I whole-heartedly despise certain parts of my body and fall into deep despair. What can I do to help avoid these crashes? I am seeing a counselor and she's been helpful in that regard. I ask: other than therapy, when did YOU stop giving a crap about your bodily imperfections? And what's helpful to you when you do start needlessly worrying? [more inside]
posted by rhythm_queen at 4:29 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by rhythm_queen at 4:29 PM PST - 51 comments
Can my ex withhold work that I've already paid for?
YANML. TINLA. What are the possible legal ramifications of a contractor accepting payment for work, but refusing to deliver the completed (or partially completed) work once the business relationship is terminated? Possible complication: the contractor is a soon-to-be-ex-spouse. [more inside]
Learn to code the hard way
I want to learn to program, and I really like the webpage for python, "Learn Python the Hard Way." Are there any other books/websites that work in this type of style for learning how to code? Ones where they really stress the basics and walk you through exercises? Thanks.
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 4:14 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 4:14 PM PST - 13 comments
Need park games & ice breakers for kids and moms
What kind of easy 1) ice breaker kind of game and 2) active game can a small group of kids and their moms play together as a group in a park? [more inside]
Plan My Day For Me Mount Dora Edition
Mrs. W and I are spending the weekend after Christmas in Mount Dora, FL. Recommendations wanted- restaurants (particularly lunch), arty type stuff, bookstores, out of the way gems we might not otherwise know about. Plan our weekend!
posted by wittgenstein at 3:23 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by wittgenstein at 3:23 PM PST - 2 comments
How much to charge for part-time film lecturer position?
[HowMuchShouldIChargeFilter]: I've recently been asked to teach a filmmaking course in New York on a part-time basis by a private start-up. What to charge? Details inside. [more inside]
"Scalper" ticket source for Stirling Castle Christmas events?
My mother and I have planned a somewhat last-minute trip to Scotland and we just discovered the Carols at the Castle event at Stirling Castle on the 15th. It is, of course, wildly popular and already sold out. Where might an enterprising couple of ladies manage to find tickets from those who have purchased them but no longer want/can use them? In the US I'd look on Craigslist for something like this, but that doesn't seem to be a popular option here in the UK. Gumtree hasn't given me anything either. Any way for us to track them down, or is it a sadly lost cause?
posted by olinerd at 2:31 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by olinerd at 2:31 PM PST - 11 comments
Christmas Entertainment in San Francisco?
My wife and I usually visit our families on the east coast for Christmas. This year, however, my wife will be 35 weeks pregnant, so we're staying home in San Francisco. We'd like to find some festive Christmas events in San Francisco to entertain us that are local and compatible with being pregnant (so Santacon is probably out). Bonus points for events that are uniquely San Franciscan.
How do tattoo parlors stay in business?
I don't know anything about how much tattoos cost. I know I see a lot of small tattoo parlors all over the place. I got to wondering how many tattoos they would need to do a month in order to stay in business. How much does it typically cost to run a tattoo parlor?
Help me to be a Secret Santa
I need to make some purchases online for Christmas - but I don't want the items to show up on the sidebar. We're a one computer family and my 16 year old daughter will easily figure out what Santa's bringing. I know there's a way to surf and purchase covertly, but when I Google "shop online secretly" and other such phrases, I don't find what I'm looking for.
posted by kbar1 at 12:24 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by kbar1 at 12:24 PM PST - 10 comments
Fiction featuring Thanksgiving gatherings?
What are some examples of works of fiction (e.g. novels, movies) that feature a Thanksgiving family gathering as a major plot element? [more inside]
Short. Sweet. Macabre.
An artist friend makes charming decorative lettered signs with uplifting, inspiring words on them. 'Growth.' 'Love.' 'Inspire.' 'Dream.' I asked her if she had 'Vengeance' - regrettably, it was not in stock. [more inside]
posted by Lou Stuells at 11:14 AM PST - 58 comments
posted by Lou Stuells at 11:14 AM PST - 58 comments
Recorded history...What's a good way to approach studying it?
My local news can barely report stories accurately when they happen on the same day, in the same town. How can I trust the validity of information that's been whispered-down-the-lane for decades, centuries or millenia? And if history isn't intended to be entirely factual, then what are we supposed to be gaining by studying it? [more inside]
posted by jumelle at 10:41 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by jumelle at 10:41 AM PST - 16 comments
Help us move without too much chaos!
We are making a local move (less than a mile) to a new house. When my husband and I moved into our current 4-bedroom house 14 years ago, it was the two of us coming from a small two-bedroom apartment with not much stuff - I packed it all, had movers, and it was done in a day. This is not that move. Please share your tips and tricks for moving a big, complicated household! [more inside]
Instead of sending out Xmas Cards to clients - I need an alternative
I'm looking for an innovative alternative to sending out Xmas cards to clients. [more inside]
posted by jacobean at 10:01 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by jacobean at 10:01 AM PST - 13 comments
Blood work: how do I normalize values over time between different labs?
How do I normalize similar values from multiple medical tests with different reference ranges? [more inside]
Vocabulary buffs: What's the word for this?
What's a word that means you say things to make people believe your intent or mindset is different than it is in order to harm them later without them suspecting you? For example, you might mention in discussion how much stealing disgusts you so that they won't suspect you later when you steal from them. [more inside]
posted by Defenestrator at 9:09 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by Defenestrator at 9:09 AM PST - 49 comments
How do I eyeliner?
I'm late to the makeup game and would like to get better at applying eyeliner. I am especially interested in doing the cat-eye look that's become so popular recently. Unfortunately, I have had some problems. [more inside]
forgiveness
How do you know when you've truly forgiven someone? How do you let go of old pain when you've long ago forgiven the person who caused it? Is it possible to truly forgive someone but still not want them in your life? [more inside]
posted by evil otto at 8:28 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by evil otto at 8:28 AM PST - 21 comments
what are these red blotches on skin
My partner went hiking in Spain about a year and a half ago. She experienced some difficulties with her feet so it was a difficult hike with a fair amount of pain to complete the journey. She stayed in hostels along the way. She now has what looks like poison oak patches on her feet and arms that never seem to heal. [more inside]
posted by diode at 8:12 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by diode at 8:12 AM PST - 22 comments
How do I find out if my wireless bridge, wireless router is the problem?
This is a follow up to this question. My cable provider allows me to use ethernet instead of coax. Wired works fine, but wireless bridge sort of works fine ... it'll play fine for long stretches then inexplicably freeze up. No other devices are on the wireless network. How can I troubleshoot this problem? I can certainly upgrade my router, which is 300mbps wireless-n, but I have a feeling that raw bandwidth isn't the issue. Any ideas? [more inside]
Fantasy/sci-fi TV series NOT available on Netflix?
I'm looking for a DVD stocking stuffer for my partner, who loves fantasy and science fiction television series of varying quality (examples within). He uses his Netflix account heavily. Do you know of any fantasy or sci-fi series that are slightly more obscure -- meaning they're not available on Netflix, but are still available for DVD purchase? [more inside]
Best cities for a mid-thirties single woman: international edition
I asked this question recently: best cities for a mid thirties single woman, and got lots of awesome answers about US cities (thank you!). I'm wondering the same about some cities outside the US (I have a few specific ones in mind). [more inside]
Will my partially frozen soda be OK?
I happened upon an extremely good sale on 2-liter bottles of soda yesterday, and stocked up for entertaining this holiday season. Like a big dummy, I forgot they were in my trunk over night, and when I went and retrieved them this morning, they were partially frozen. [more inside]
posted by mzwz at 5:20 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by mzwz at 5:20 AM PST - 14 comments
Where can I buy glasses online?
I'm about to go get an eye exam, and I would like to buy my glasses online. However, there seem to be so many sites out there that I'm having trouble choosing which one to order from. What have your experiences been like? [more inside]
Un-waterproofing a fleece jacket
How can I remove the waterproofing treatment from a polyester fleece jacket? I've tried running it through the wash a few times, which is about all I can think of. [more inside]
November 29
Is bitcoin mining worth it at this point?
So bitcoins have gone up in value a lot recently. It's gotten to the point that supercomputer level processing power is being used in some mining rigs. Does it make any sense for the average Joe that has a single laptop to a few home desktops to spare at most to join a pooled mining coop like this? Or is it a complete waste of time and electricity?
posted by bookman117 at 11:36 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by bookman117 at 11:36 PM PST - 10 comments
I love my boots, but they hate my socks. Help!
I have several different pairs of boots - ankle, cowboy, calf-length - and I have the same problem with each. How do I find socks that don't slide down and get scrunched under my heels within a dozen steps? [more inside]
posted by Salieri at 10:50 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Salieri at 10:50 PM PST - 19 comments
What are these mystery cables in my condo?
My new condo (built 2005) has a couple of holes in the wall with pink cables coming out and another hole with random wires. [more inside]
What's a reasonable price range for airfare from New York to Tokyo?
I'm traveling with a friend to Tokyo next year, May 24th to June 6th. I've had Orbitz, Expedia, Kayak and Skyscanner on heavy rotation for three weeks and the best price I can find for travel time shorter than 24 hours is about $1500 round-trip. I'd rather not get scolded by our friends for paying too much, and Googling "nyc to tokyo airfare price range" is giving me the equivalent of hearing "usual and customary" from my insurance company, so I am turning to MeFites for help. Possible pertinent details below the fold. [more inside]
posted by Recliner of Rage at 10:13 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Recliner of Rage at 10:13 PM PST - 13 comments
Red state vs. Blue state: where can you do more good?
I'm currently serving as an AmeriCorps VISTA in VT and while I love it here in this socialist wonderland, I find myself wondering if poverty-related service wouldn't do more immediate good in a red state. [more inside]
Using OpenVPN only for specific applications
I have a working PPTP VPN with very specific routing requirements that I need to replace with OpenVPN due to issues with our ISP, and I am having issues adapting my Linux routing table rules to OpenVPN. [more inside]
posted by chundo at 8:51 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by chundo at 8:51 PM PST - 4 comments
Tastless, cheap liquid caffeine
For some time now, I've been getting my AM caffeine through these fancy "sparkling energy water" drinks I get at the health food store. They are totally unsweetened carbonated water with caffeine. These drinks are expensive, and earlier tonight my husband and I had a come to jesus talk about our out of control grocery budget. My daily sparkling energy water can has got to go. [more inside]
posted by long haired child at 8:07 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by long haired child at 8:07 PM PST - 26 comments
Samsung S4 protective cover deals
Looking for deals on covers for Samsung S4 [more inside]
EZ-pour wine decanter?
I find wide-bottomed decanters hard to pour from, especially when I'm sitting at a table. Can you recommend one that's not too heavy and can safely be used even by clumsy people? [more inside]
posted by wryly at 7:04 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by wryly at 7:04 PM PST - 8 comments
Making furniture from reclaimed materials. Wut.
I plan to take up a new hobby: making furniture from reclaimed wood and metals. What should I read? What materials do I need? What should I know? [more inside]
End of life planning
My brother and I are sitting down with my parents tomorrow to discuss specifics of what they've put in place for end of life planning. What should we ask? [more inside]
posted by chiababe at 6:07 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by chiababe at 6:07 PM PST - 23 comments
I need wedding shoes that fit orthotics
I'm getting married in October 2014 and I'm starting the search for shoes now as I need to get shoes that will fit my orthotics. [more inside]
What should I know about Lake Merrit that I'm afraid to ask?
We'd like to learn everything there is to know about Lake Merritt and the surrounding neighborhoods. [more inside]
posted by nominal at 5:12 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by nominal at 5:12 PM PST - 16 comments
Examples of transactional relationships in pre-industrial cultures
Anthropologists, please help-- I'm looking for unique examples of interpersonal relationships or family/friendship customs that are blatantly transactional, specifically in so-called "primitive" tribes or far-flung cultures that exist/have existed within the past century. The more surprising, extreme, or out-there the anecdote, the better. [more inside]
posted by np312 at 3:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by np312 at 3:47 PM PST - 11 comments
Best starter lens for Canon 60D?
I'm buying my first DSLR, a Canon 60D. My original intention had been to purchase a body and (18-55mm) lens kit and spend some time learning with that before purchasing any other lenses.
However, I have found an excellent deal on a 60D body only and am contemplating purchasing that and putting the savings (and maybe a little top-up from the slush-fund) to purchasing a separate lens. (Especially as i understand that kit lenses tend not to be great quality).
What would be your recommendation for a good, versatile lens for a DSLR beginner?
Keep me from buying a 'homebuying for dummies' book.
My wife and I are trying to wrap our heads around the process of purchasing a home. We know a little bit, but we also know there are gaps in that knowledge.
We're looking for information on how to go about the process, and what specifically we should be doing to assess the prudence of home-buying [more inside]
posted by furnace.heart at 3:20 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by furnace.heart at 3:20 PM PST - 25 comments
How to administrate "photos with Santa" as painlessly as possible.
My place of employment (an agro-tourism destination) has procured someone to play Santa this weekend for photos with kids (by donation), and we are having trouble figuring out the best way to deal with the paperwork and administration of that, without it turning into a huge nightmare. [more inside]
posted by wats at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by wats at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Kill the Buzz Kill
I met a guy recently who has an amazing personality. He's incredibly playful and sweet, and he's a nerdy feisty intellectual. Precisely the type I like. I want to go on a few dates with him and see if there's anything there, but my interest in him is dwindling already because of a certain something, and this always happens to me. It's damn frustrating and I'd like to change it, but I don't even know precisely what 'it' is. [more inside]
posted by OneHermit at 3:09 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by OneHermit at 3:09 PM PST - 27 comments
How do I hold people accountable in a fair and reasonable way?
Over the summer I was promoted to Art Director at my small company (15 people total). I've never been a director before, and so far things have been going really well, but I feel like I'm still on shaky ground when it comes to dealing with people when they've made mistakes. What are you supposed to do and say when someone screws up and you want them to be held accountable but you also want to treat them like the human being they are? [more inside]
How can I turn my Finnish visa into a temporary residence permit?
I'd like to turn my Finnish tourist visa into a temporary residence permit, and I don't know how. [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 2:19 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 2:19 PM PST - 3 comments
career switch from public to private sector
I currently work in the federal government in transportation. Its the third career I've had (had worked in the private sector in IT and the nonprofit sector as well). I've been there for about six years and have a good track ahead of me - it's a safe and stable one, if a little monotonous and mono-industry. I make an excellent salary and have thought of returning to the private sector at some point. [more inside]
A good mechanic near New Orleans for a '94 4Runner?
This is a long shot, but does anybody know a good mechanic in the New Orleans area who'll work on my old 4Runner? I'm having a hard time finding one for some reason. [more inside]
posted by Scientist at 1:15 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Scientist at 1:15 PM PST - 5 comments
How do the recent Stereolab reissues sound?
I'm wondering if anyone has picked up any of the recent Stereolab reissues from 1972, and if so how do they sound? I'd like Emperor Tomato Ketchup and Mars Audiac Quintet on vinyl, but a previous reissue of Peng! by Too Pure was totally unlistenable, so I'd like some feedback before laying down my cash.
Let's pretend it's not winter.
I am looking for gardening books focusing on perennial flowers or vegetables or books on landscaping design/ideas that will make me drunk with plans for spring. [more inside]
How much do you spend on food in a month?
I just downloaded the mint.com app and found to my absolute horror that partner and I are spending $1300 a month on food (!!!) Surely this cannot be right. What does your budget look like and what is an average spend for you? [more inside]
posted by everydayanewday at 12:23 PM PST - 79 comments
posted by everydayanewday at 12:23 PM PST - 79 comments
Where to go on beach/scuba vacation, renting a house, w/in-laws & kids?
I'm looking for suggestions on where to go on vacation next summer (late July, early Aug 2014) with my in-laws and their kids.
The criteria:
1) Within reasonable travel/flight time from Dallas, Texas. There will be four children on this trip, ages 1, 3, 5, and 7.
2) A house/apartment/bungalow to rent for around $2500/week to house 6 adults and the aforementioned four kids.
3) Good SCUBA diving for my father-in-law, brother-in-law, and myself (all with advanced open water).
4) Good beaches for my wife, mother-in-law, brother-in-law's wife, and the kids, preferably within easy access of the lodgings.
Thanks very much.
posted by oneironaut at 12:20 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by oneironaut at 12:20 PM PST - 12 comments
Starblazers/Space Battleship Yamato inconsistencies?
So I remember watching Star Blazers a bit as a kid. I remember enjoying it, but never really got into the long term storytelling that was going on. Was probably too young to understand it anyways. But I do specifically remember the Argo/Yamato being completely hopelessly destroyed what seemed like damn near every episode. And yet when the next episode began, everything was hunky dory. I don't remember this ever really being explained. Was it? Wikipedia hasn't been much help. This has been bugging me for a while, thanks!
NAME THAT FILM PART N, Regency Fop edition
Some time ago, on one of the national basic cable movie channels (USA, I think) which would run multiple showings of a given film for a month or so, I repeatedly flipped into a period film that amused me each time I watched a snippet.
Unfortunately, I never watched enough of the film to get a good idea of the plot, and therefore can't effectively describe the story, sooo... [more inside]
Getting started with EC2 and SOA
I want to write a web app that deploys to EC2, but not having any prior experience I'm struggling to find the info I need to get started. [more inside]
posted by invitapriore at 11:54 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by invitapriore at 11:54 AM PST - 7 comments
Books that allow ten y/o girl take new feelings out on "test drive"?
There is a scene in season 3, episode 4 of Louie ("Daddy's Girlfriend Part 2") where Louie is in a bookstore asking the salesperson (Parker Posie) about recommendations for his ten year old daughter. There is a great exchange where Parker Posie reveals to Louie that there are things about being female, that at that age, start coming "online." And that she knows of books that can "take these feelings, these big emotions, they let you take them out for a safe kind of spin." Then she hands Louie a book. At first I was dying to know what book, specifically, that was. Then I thought I might ask Mefites for recommendations for those types of books. Can y'all help me out? Books for ten year old girls that let them take new teenage emotions and feelings out for a "spin"?
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 11:44 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 11:44 AM PST - 36 comments
Awesome books from 2013?
What are some well reviewed books in 2013 that blow my socks off? [more inside]
posted by SpacemanStix at 11:44 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by SpacemanStix at 11:44 AM PST - 19 comments
Barnett Jackal vs. Wildcat Crossbow
I'm trying to find an entry-level crossbow for my husband. Correct me please if I'm wrong, but it looks like Barnett is a good brand and I've read that the Jackal is a decent entry level one. But I've noticed that there is one call the Wildcat and I can't figure out which is better. [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 9:56 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by kitcat at 9:56 AM PST - 5 comments
Do you close the bathroom door when you're home alone?
On the most recent episode of Homeland, a female shut the bathroom door during use, which allowed an intruder to make a clean exit. The people I watched this with were baffled as to why she would close the door when she was home alone. This is something I do 90% of the time, and after talking to some other people I'm definitely not alone in doing this. I'm just curious if this normal, a guy or girl thing, something cultural? I guess for me it just feels odd to have the door open while in the bathroom.
Help me learn to daydream again
As a kid I loved to make up stories and fantasies. Now, 22 years old and almost out of college, I realized that I can't do this anymore, can't let my mind go where it will. How can I learn to? [more inside]
How to stay sane spending the holidays with my bigoted parents
How to stay sane spending the holidays with my bigoted parents [more inside]
Seeking Metaphysical Mystery Tour
I'm looking for recommendations for literary crime novels. (Examples within.) [more inside]
posted by mlle valentine at 8:34 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by mlle valentine at 8:34 AM PST - 25 comments
What are the oldest art collections depicting life in Poland?
I'm looking specifically for paintings/art that depict what daily life was like for non-royal people in Poland. It's easy to find lot's of art depicting royalty but I'm looking for the oldest paintings that captured what the houses and villages and people looked like outside of the castles and royal families. [more inside]
posted by xarnop at 7:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by xarnop at 7:57 AM PST - 5 comments
Configurable soundfont player on old iPad
I'm looking for an app for my 1st gen iPad (iOS 5) that can play soundfonts and respond to a USB midi keyboard plugged in via the Camera Connection Kit. Ideally I could also set it up to fade between two different soundfonts via the keyboard's mod wheel (perhaps by mapping it as a pan control). Is there such a thing? [more inside]
We can just drive around Brooklyn!
Help! My brother and his many children (ranging from 4 - 19 in age) are heading up to visit from PA right now. They live in Illinois, and spent Thanksgiving with other relatives. They are only coming for the day, and when I asked what they wanted to do, my brother said "we can just drive around and see Brooklyn". [more inside]
posted by catrae at 7:14 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by catrae at 7:14 AM PST - 11 comments
Is there anything out there like a small pre-made deck I can buy?
Basically I have a very tiny tiny yard behind my place. It gets no sun and there's green carpet there now. One of my thoughts was to make a little 3x3 or so deck to put a couple of chairs on it. But rather than have someone build it, I was wondering if there's anything like a little pre-made, pre-treated deck - like shipping pallets or something only not awful - that anyone sells. It'll save me sawing off a finger or hiring a handyman or filling out permits. And I'd rather not do way too much for something so little.
A crash Course into Netflix
I just signed up for netflix (streaming only) for the first time for several years (since 06-07ish). I'm looking for some great tips, tricks, and userscripts, other websites to get the most out of netflix, particularly with tuning the ratings system so it gives very relevant recommendations. [more inside]
posted by fizzix at 6:34 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by fizzix at 6:34 AM PST - 6 comments
What happens if a deer gets hit by a car but doesn't die?
If you hit a deer with your car, and it doesn't die, what happens to the deer? Does someone come and "put it out of it's misery"? Take it to the deer hospital? [more inside]
Any business people out there? I'm looking for some tips.
Hi,
I have been building up to launching a specialist coaching business in the new year for a long time. I have done a lot and learned a lot but there is still so much I'm unclear about...
If anyone had any thoughts on any of the below I'd really appreciate your insight. [more inside]
AV receivers which split audio and video output
Are there AV home theatre receivers which do the following with input and output: [more inside]
Should I have casual gay sex?
I’m a 28 year old gay guy. Up until recently I had never considered the idea of having casual sex until now. Should I and if so how? [more inside]
Why's it called that?
What are the etymological origins of the drink called "Chapman"? [more inside]
November 28
Why do I feel so sad, post wisdom tooth extraction?
I had a wisdom tooth extracted yesterday, surgically with IV sedation. I was very very nervous, but it went fine, and today the pain is under easy control from paracetamol.
However, I feel not just completely drained (which is, I guess, understandable given how tense I was yesterday and the small physical trauma) but unusually sad. I can't remember the procedure due to the sedation, and I feel weirdly like I'm missing a bit of time that I shouldn't be. I feel ashamed that I was so nervous beforehand. But more than that I just feel so sad about nothing I can put my finger on.
I take lofepramine for depression, which is generally pretty well under control. Would any of the drugs I might have been given yesterday counteracted it? Has anyone else experienced this?
Help me cater for Christmas
My family Christmas lunch has blown out from the usual 15 people to at least 27 and my original plan to roast a whole sirloin in the Webber isn't going to cut it.
I have a motorised spit-roaster (charcoal, rated to 25kg) and I need to cook beef. What sort of cut should I order from the butcher to feed the crowd? [more inside]
Am I really gonna dump someone over a dog?
New SO's dog is sort of a nightmare. Can this get better or is it time to jump ship? [more inside]
Should I mention sexual harassment in a job interview?
The primary reason I'm interviewing for another job two months into a new position is because this potential job is a better fit with my interests and will better prepare me to move forward in the field. The secondary reason is because I want to escape the subtle but frequent and unwelcome sexual harassment going on at my current job and the office culture that is aware of this one man's behavior but doesn't see it as a problem. [more inside]
Can't find peanut butter cup recipe
I can't seem to find a recipe I'm fairly certain I've seen in the past for peanut butter cups. I seem to recall that it involved not using any actual peanut butter, but starting with peanuts and grinding them up kinda coarsely with something else in them to get that weird, chunky, not-quite-peanut-butter consistency to the filling. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
posted by DoctorFedora at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by DoctorFedora at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
A Certain Irritating Soundtrack
A friend of mine's been watching the anime "A Certain Scientific Railgun S", and he's been having trouble identifying one of the incidental music pieces. It's in episode 11, from 17:52 to 20:00--what song is this (mp3), used here, and which of the OSTs is it on, if any? He says he's searched them all, including a second Railgun S OST which apparently came out yesterday, but he can't seem to find it, though he admits that he might have missed it along the line. Any help you can offer he'd appreciate. Thanks!
Blanket of Earth?
Tonight my 8 year old niece told me that for Christmas she wants a blanket for her bed that has a giant picture of Earth on it. I asked her if she saw this somewhere, and she told me that she just thought about how cool it would be in her own head. I tried doing a Google search, but I'm having no luck. Anyone have an idea of where I might find such a thing? Thanks!
posted by ezrainch at 7:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ezrainch at 7:59 PM PST - 8 comments
NYC experience gift for a 9 year old boy: GO!!
I babysit a (pretty mature) just-turned-9 year old boy and would like to get him a ~$20 gift that is non-material and preferably something we can do together in Manhattan. He has two little brothers so the apartment is bursting at the seams toys and books. My first, best idea is a trip to the Superhero Supply Store in Brooklyn, which totally would be his jam, but Mom would probably prefer staying in the city, so I'd like to source some other ideas first!
Something we could do after school together one day that wouldn't take more than 2 hours would be perfect. Educational and enriching are secondary to straight up fun. He's mostly an indoorsy bookwormy type whose yearly highlight is the NYCC. He does karate and loves Shake Shack (but too cold!) He's vaguely into video games. And his bday party is inviting friends over to watch Indiana Jones and eat "dirt cake". Is there anything coming up in the next month event-wise that the little dude would enjoy? Any ideas for fun experiences would be magnificent. Thank you MeFi!!!
Were/are the Taliban pro or anti-poppy? Why?
Sounds simple, but we were wondering because in 2000 for religious reasons they cut opium production and we're curious where they stand.
posted by glaucon at 6:15 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by glaucon at 6:15 PM PST - 2 comments
Find me my perfect PDF organizer!
In my line of work (doctoring), there are a lot of PDF files that I use, for example, handouts for patients, copies of guidelines, referral forms for particular clinics, etc. I'd love to be able to organize them hierarchically but also access them in a way that lets me search for keywords or tags and returns results quickly and dynamically, with the ability to easily print said PDF results. Are there any programs (for Windows) or cloud-based sites that might make this easy?
Ideally it would be great to have a little search bar that could just sit on my desktop, but that would just be icing on the cake.
Oh, and I've tried Mendeley - it works somewhat well for this, but it's a hassle to print files unless you open them up in Acrobat Reader or another external program.
Book ID Request: Book on Internet & Culture with Brin/Page interview
In an opening chapter of this book which I read a year or two ago, the author describes a meeting/discussion with Google's Brin and Page, during which one of them refuses to take his eyes off the mobile device he's holding (if memory serves, the author requests the Googler to be present and not distracted/have his attention split by his little device, to which the latter responds laconically in the negative). [more inside]
posted by tenderly at 5:39 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by tenderly at 5:39 PM PST - 3 comments
Will this facial flushing be permanent?
My cheeks were flushed and very hot when I woke up today thanks to an electric blanket.. Will the flushing probably be permanent? Pictures included. [more inside]
From "Did you play football in highschool?" to "Are you up for tenure?"
AcademicClothesFilter: MetaFilter, help me (20ish dude) find a store that sells awesome tweed or professorial-like sportscoats/jackets! I am a beginning academic who hates suits, but soon I will start to teach and go to conferences and will need to "look the part." Thus, I need to update my wardrobe with something thematically between "formal" and "wannabe hipster causal." The hitch is: I am sort-of built like a linebacker, with a very broad chest and very wide shoulders but with a not-quite-commensurately-large bottom torso, and thus sizing can often be an issue for me (i.e., getting more fabric "up top" in generic sizes ends up with billowing fabric down below). Is there any store that sells hot to trot professorial tweed that might fit someone with my body build? Or will I need to get a loose fit and then get it tailored? (Is that... what tailoring is?).
posted by Keter at 4:14 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Keter at 4:14 PM PST - 14 comments
Best alcohol to add to eggnog?
This holiday season I want to make a non-alcoholic eggnog and have some liquor on the side that people can just add to it. The question then is: bourbon, whiskey, rum, brandy...what's the best alcohol for eggnog? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 4:09 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by zardoz at 4:09 PM PST - 31 comments
Alpine touring setup for a 105 lbs, 5'0" beginner skier
With just about every activity that I ended up enjoying, I started out by buying cheap-ish gear and then having to purchase everything all over again when I was ready to upgrade. Help me not do that when it comes to a randonee/alpine touring ski setup to be used in the Pacific Northwest backcountry. Complications: I'm a 5'0" woman with mondo size 22 feet, don't weigh a whole lot, and I'm going back to skiing after a decade of snowboarding (lessons start next month and I tend to be a very fast learner). I've my backpack, all clothing and avy gear, but I need skis, bindings, boots, poles, and skins. I'm on a budget and unfortunately nothing is available used in my size, but I'm willing to invest. Help?
What does this part of the sentence mean?
I'm translating some Pynchon. Here's one of those endless and rambling sentences, and I can't figure out what this one part is supposed to mean. Longish sentence below. [more inside]
posted by Pyrogenesis at 2:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Pyrogenesis at 2:18 PM PST - 9 comments
Owl problem.
There's this owl, and it starts hooting at around 2am, not finishing until 4:30am. This has now become a frequent occurrence, and it's driving me nuts. Unfortunately, one attempt to remedy the situation has made it worse. So, how can I get this owl to either shut up or go somewhere else? [more inside]
posted by Wordshore at 2:14 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by Wordshore at 2:14 PM PST - 54 comments
Recommendations for an online meal planner?
I need to be better about managing my grocery budget and streamlining my time in the kitchen. I've just started poking around for options but I'm eager for hive mind recommendations.
The main caveat is that I'm in Canada, which has ruled the promising foodonthetable.com.
Something that allows you to cost meals fairly easily would be nice.
Please pardon any typos--mobile AskMeing is a bit tricksy.
Where can I buy these glasses frames?
I found the perfect frames for my new glasses! Unfortunately they are discontinued and I I can't find a supplier who will ship to the UK. I'm looking for Roxy 03
Does it inconvenience anybody to call AAA assistance on a holiday?
A friend mentioned they were not to call AAA today about their car problems because it's a holiday and they don't want to inconvenience anybody. Would this really inconvenience people?
posted by circular at 12:38 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by circular at 12:38 PM PST - 15 comments
What account is this WP8 account currently associated with?
My sister has a WP8 phone, but she doesn't remember what Microsoft account she associated with when she first set it up. Is there any way, on the phone, to discover this?
posted by kickingtheground at 12:22 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by kickingtheground at 12:22 PM PST - 1 comment
How to make a standing privacy screen out of posters (or similar)?
Looking to make freestanding privacy screening on a small budget. I have the notion that posters on some sort of framework would do the trick at a minimal price. I'm crafty but have never tried this before; I have some ideas but I'd like to hear success stories and surefire techniques. [more inside]
Suggestions for games that can be interspersed with getting things done?
I'm looking for suggestions for games that fit well for short breaks in between getting stuff done. See inside for more info on the kind of properties that I think would be good. [more inside]
posted by philipy at 11:39 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by philipy at 11:39 AM PST - 27 comments
Xmas gift filter: What's the best weekly sports magazine?
Please help me choose a sports magazine subscription for a literate 53 yr old sports fan. [more inside]
Publishing contract with a new publishing house
A publishing house expressed interest in a story of mine but I know nothing about this side of writing and wanted some Meta Advice regarding royalties and rights. [more inside]
I love ginger! Let me drink it! Glug glug glug!
I am obsessed with ginger at the moment in terms of drinks. I love the sharpness and the bite of gingery burn from the spiciness. I have a hot ginger tea/drink recipe NAILED but now I want to make my own ginger drink that is akin to ginger beer but not too alcohol-y. I would also like it to be as natural and inexpensive as possible (ie. no "Soda Stream" or nutsy chemicals or adding pop). Help? [more inside]
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:33 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:33 AM PST - 26 comments
Am I the only victim of this devious plant?
Nothing is happening with my plant-in-a-can Venus Flytrap a month after planting the seeds. Do I wait? [more inside]
posted by Dr Dracator at 8:48 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Dr Dracator at 8:48 AM PST - 7 comments
Returning a car to Seatac with a lot of luggage to check.
I have more luggage than I can carry by myself. I have to return a rental car and check my luggage. Is there an easy way to do this at Seatac? [more inside]
Looking for a working Bakelite radio in the U.S
Aside from the standard stops ( etsy, eBay, etc ) where should I be looking to find a breadbox-sized, working radio from the 1930s-40s? Ideally Bakelite but not a deal breaker. Ideally shipping from the U.S? A period shell over modern electronics/cords is fine.
Toilet flush runs constantly after flush...
Hello all. My toilet cistern has developed the extremely annoying habit of continuing to run water into the bowl after a single flush. [more inside]
Is our relationship over and time for us to move on?
So me and my girlfriend of 6 months got into an argument over going to her house for Thanksgiving and she ended up break up with me. [more inside]
How can I get help from my work colleagues?
The problem is that sometimes is is quite difficult to get a help from my colleagues - I can clearly see that they know how to help me, but just can't really get them talking. [more inside]
Making friends out of communities
How do I turn people I am in communities with into friends? [more inside]
posted by dinosaurprincess at 2:23 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by dinosaurprincess at 2:23 AM PST - 9 comments
I would prefer not to spend time with my friend when she is very stoned
Is there any good way to tell a dear friend I don’t really want to chat on the phone or spend long periods of time with her when she’s very, very stoned? [more inside]
posted by JayAlfred at 12:31 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by JayAlfred at 12:31 AM PST - 15 comments
November 27
Recipe ideas for cookery tomorrow!
I'm going to a friend's family's house tomorrow and want to bring something delicious. I have wine as a fallback, but am hoping you can help me combine my random ingredients into a delicious whole. Ingredients are in the [more inside]; what I need is something vegetarian, seasonal, that won't become too gross on my two-hour journey to their place. [more inside]
Which small tablet to get? (7-inch-ish)
I like Apple stuff so I ideally want an iPad mini :), but it's a little too expensive... [more inside]
Why does my mother get called "dear" in restaurants, stores, etc?
My mother gets called "dear" in restaurants, stores and coffee shops. It started about two years ago and drives her nuts. She thinks that it's an overly-familiar term of endearment and it feels weird (and even patronizing) coming from a stranger. [more inside]
IE-11 Edge mode
IE-11 for Win7-64 rolled out yesterday, and it makes one of my favorite sites break. The site isn't mine and it isn't going to get fixed any time soon. [more inside]
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 7:47 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 7:47 PM PST - 5 comments
How bad did I ruin this pie?
I followed this recipe for a coconut cream pie up to but not including the last step for making the custard. I did not incorporate the butter? How bad is this? How will it affect the final product?
posted by blackjack514 at 7:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by blackjack514 at 7:47 PM PST - 11 comments
Serious joint pain, no diagnosis
Does anyone have any experience with persistent, unexplained joint pain in multiple joints? [more inside]
Help me remember the name of a Philip K. Dick story about molluscs
It's a relatively short one, and it concerns some type of land molluscs – snails or some other type of small creature that is typically regarded as "gross". I remember something about the shells being important. There's a twist in the end, possibly involving the nature of the molluscs. I can't remember much else – hence the AskMe!
Nerdy field guides for California/Baja?
I am a biologist moving to San Diego. My work will take me all over the state, including SoCal deserts and Baja California. There are a million natural history books out there - which ones are worth the money?
I want a good plant book for sure. But I would also love recommendations for geology, herps, birds, general natural history and anything else an outdoorsy gal might find interesting.
Welcome back
Congress readmitted several Southern states to the Union in an “Omnibus Bill” it passed on June 28, 1868. Where can I find the text online?
posted by LonnieK at 7:26 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by LonnieK at 7:26 PM PST - 4 comments
Travel to South America, west coast
We're thinking of traveling to South America and in particular, the southwest coast ... [more inside]
How to eke out a great Thankgiving while sick?
My SO has a lot of anxiety about holidays - and so we try do something to make them special. We're all sick (with colds). What can I do to still make this work? [more inside]
posted by lab.beetle at 7:03 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by lab.beetle at 7:03 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me find the NM secret sandstone caves
I'm in northern New Mexico for a few days and would like to visit the caves discussed here. [more inside]
posted by doctord at 6:54 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by doctord at 6:54 PM PST - 7 comments
How do you hook up this Comcast cable box?
Had the Comcast basic cable service. Saw a deal for HBO for just an extra $10 a month for a year. Ordered. Had to get a new Set Top Box in order to display HBO. The box included instructions for setup, they looked simple.
Except the instruction diagrams didn't match the box that was sent. [more inside]
posted by sock, the puppet at 6:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by sock, the puppet at 6:45 PM PST - 5 comments
Embellishing my own wedding dress. Will it end in tears?
How difficult would it be for a non-sewer to add lace or embroidered appliques to a dress? [more inside]
posted by Rora at 6:37 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Rora at 6:37 PM PST - 18 comments
Please help me find video presentation about psychology of programming
Some time ago (maybe four years) I saw a video of a presentation about psychology of computer programming by a man who said he was writing a book about it. He also had a blog where he discussed the book. It wasn't a single blog post about the topic, but a specialised blog about the psychology of programming. I can't find either. [more inside]
Narrowing my son's grad school search
My son is a junior physics/math major at a small midwestern state university. He needs to start looking at graduate programs. He would prefer to stay in research or academia. How can I help him start this process? (B.S. for me) Location is not an issue. It's more a question of what programs offer the best opportunities and fields of study. How can we find out that kind of information? How can I help him start with a reasonable number of candidates?
Supporting friend with PTSD and dealing with my own anger
How do I support my friend, who was diagnosed with PTSD for severe sexual abuse? How do I deal with my own anger towards the perpetrators and guilt for not having done more? [more inside]
Dealing with the company holiday party
How can I better handle the dreaded company holiday party without freaking out? [more inside]
posted by ljs30 at 4:47 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by ljs30 at 4:47 PM PST - 13 comments
Flood Plains, Surveying, and Housing Projects
Recently I purchased a home that has acerage. Part of the acerage, part of the garage, and part of the lean-to are in the flood plain. The house and the rest of the land are not.
Trying to figure out logistics between house projects, FEMA zones, and surveying. [more inside]
posted by aetg at 4:28 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by aetg at 4:28 PM PST - 9 comments
another college radio song ID request
What's the name of this song that was played on a college radio station? [more inside]
posted by aerotive at 3:47 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by aerotive at 3:47 PM PST - 2 comments
SMTP Failure
I am trying to do some household computer work for my dad, and his email problems are giving me a fit. Can you, o wise metafilter, help me? [more inside]
the cost of a breast reduction
I have health insurance, and the co-pay will be about 3150. Should I do it now, or wait? [more inside]
You know, other than spending my entire next paycheck at Ikea.....
Ok, so I recently purchased a pullup cage/station. You know, includes a side for dips, a pullup bar, etc. and is one large metal structure put together with nuts and bolts. Anyway, I think I enjoyed putting the darn thing together even more than I will using it. What other projects/hobbies can I work on/build/create using a tool box, wrench, other hardware type stuff etc. in my small to medium sized apartment that won't lose me my security deposit?
How do I address the issue that my new flame doesn't offer to pay?
I'm a 32 year old male, she's 28, and we're both NYC natives, if it matters. We get along well and we enjoy our time together. Generally, I'm ok paying for the first three or four dates, however beyond that it's clear we like spending time with each other, so I'd prefer that it was a mutual effort to cover costs. Otherwise, I feel like I'm paying for her time and presence, and it feels gross. We've been dating for almost a month now. [more inside]
How do you all deal with death?
How do you all deal with the fact that you and everyone you love will die some day? [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 2:44 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 2:44 PM PST - 34 comments
Help me find a good pendant for a man
I am looking for links to places online (or names of brick-and-mortar shops accessible to the Seattle or Portland area) where I can find a unique and unusual pendant for a man. The price should be in the $75-$150 range. I already have a white gold chain so I am looking for the pendant alone. [more inside]
Google Glass Etiquette
Given that many people are divided about Google Glass, with some people especially resistant to even the idea of someone wearing them, how, when and what would be appropriate for someone wearing them?
I'd especially like to hear feedback from people who are averse to the concept. [more inside]
Turning a tres leches cake recipe into mini cakes?
I have a beloved recipe for tres leches cake. It makes a single 9" diameter cake, and bakes for about 45 minutes at 350F. I would love to convert this recipe so I make a lot of individual tres leches cakes with it - cupcake-sized. [more inside]
Teach me to read (a particular book)
I'm a devoted reader but every now and then a book will just stump me. I am about to start reading The Man Without Qualities and I'm afraid it may fit this description. I'd appreciate any hints as to how to approach it for most enjoyment and absorption. [more inside]
Switching flank steaks for top round steaks.
How do I cook this roulade given the following changes? [more inside]
posted by squirtle at 12:47 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by squirtle at 12:47 PM PST - 6 comments
What is the best way to ask for pay when my employer takes vacation?
(Posting on behalf of a friend and sending them a link to the thread. I can relay updates as needed).
I am a nanny caring for a three-year old in the Boston area. The family I currently work for is leaving for two weeks during Christmas vacation. I expect that I won't work during that time and I won't get paid. I would've requested the first week off anyway because I am traveling with my family. but the second week I would have chosen to work had they been here.
Is it fair for me to ask for compensation for the second week? If so, can you recommend how I can word this request so it doesn't sound like a demand? I've been writing it down and talking it out and I can't seem to come up with the right words.
Advice re: overhead video monitors in a Toyota Sienna
I am interested in adding an roof-mounted video system to my 2005 Toyota Sienna. I have three kids and when we visit family it's a boring 9-hour drive. But I know nothing at all about car video systems. [more inside]
Charlie Rose is a shill for the powers that be. Too judgemental? Unfair?
Before I get into any more arguments about it, I'd like to know if my negative impression of Charlie Rose is unfair -if anyone remembers any shining moment where he actually contradicted someone who was spouting "the conventional wisdom". [more inside]
Why won't my carmel....carmel?
Two attempts to make carmel sauce have gone wrong. Hivemind, tell me what I'm doing wrong and lead me to Thanksgiving Pie Glory. [more inside]
posted by zara at 11:32 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by zara at 11:32 AM PST - 21 comments
Best laptop to install minecraft on.
What is the best laptop to install minecraft pc on? [more inside]
posted by BillyAnne at 11:20 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by BillyAnne at 11:20 AM PST - 8 comments
No Tingles, But My Chance at Having a Family...
I'm with a great guy who's ready to have a family with me. I'm in my late 30s, near the end of my childbearing years and definitely want a family. While he is a very good man who I love and respect — I'm not feeling much in the way of butterflies, tingles, or excited feelings to be with him. He's nice though! If I were 22, I'd probably take a break for awhile and date around more. But I worry that if I did this now, I will risk never having children of my own. What to do...? [more inside]
Brain and body not both in love, makes me feel bad
I have been dating a woman for just under six months that I met unexpectedly when visiting another city. She is almost perfect: smart,funny, sassy, intellectually stimulating, kind, attentive, independently minded, socially aware, positive, sociable, generous, emotionally strong and sensitive, likes and wants to have children, easy going and has great friends. She dresses well and is pretty, has a lovely smile and is healthful. We enjoy straightforward communication and are open and honest with each other. I am not very physically attracted to her. [more inside]
How do I optimize the gift of diapers?
I would like to give a subscription for diaper delivery to a friend. I want to make sure I do it right, though. Does anyone have experience with diaper subscriptions? [more inside]
I'm hacking together a standing desk- But what do I need to know?
In advance of the new year, I'm making a resolution: No more sitting desk. Traditional standing desks are hilariously outside my budget, but I've spied a number of Ikea hacks that are appealing. Here are the Q's I have (And, hey, suggestions are also welcome!): [more inside]
New Year's Day in San Francisco
I'm spending New Year's in San Francisco so my partner and I can get married (no gay marriage allowed in Montana, so we're headed to the home state of both our families). We plan to be there with our parents and siblings for the event, but are not sure what to do with ourselves on the day of the 1st. [more inside]
Simplest setup for unembarrassing Youtube video creation
What are the simplest requirements -- in terms of both technology (camera/software/etc.) and lighting/clothing/makeup/background setting/etc. -- to make a reasonably good-looking Youtube video that will feature just one speaker talking. Are iMovie and an iSight camera inadequate?
posted by shivohum at 9:52 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by shivohum at 9:52 AM PST - 8 comments
Looking for a new laptop.
I'm looking to replace my development laptop with a more powerful model. I'm having a hard time finding a model with everything I need. Do you have any recommendations? [more inside]
How do you dance like nobody's watching?
Been checking out Pharrell's 24 Hours of Happy and some of the people don't seem to care what they look like and totally go with it and have fun. Others are decidedly apprehensive. I would probably not even volunteer to do this sort of thing myself.
For those of you who can dance like nobody's watching, or do or say something funny that might grab the attention of the room, or sing karaoke at a bar, etc, I am curious to know what goes on in your head before, during, or after you "perform."
Other ways to phrase this question:
What makes you a ham?
Do you think about what you are doing or going to do, or just go with it?
Why don't you get embarrassed when you do something fun and crazy? Or do you?
What is the payoff for you?
Were you born this way or did you learn it somehow?
How to deal with disappointment and sadness?
I've been involved in a long distance relationship for years. I live on one side of the country and he lives on the other. We don't see each other as often as I'd like for us to and I constantly deal with sadness and disappointment because of that. What can I do to combat these feelings? [more inside]
posted by BrianJ at 9:09 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by BrianJ at 9:09 AM PST - 19 comments
Recommend me an ENT specialist in Portland, Oregon
Last week I managed to have an attack of vertigo at work which resulted in me collapsing, throwing up all over the floor, getting stretchered out of the office, into an ambulance, into the ER, an overnight hospital stay and a diagnosis of Vestibular Neuritis. Fun times. The doctors there have been telling me that my symptoms will clear up soon, but the more I talk to people, the more this sounds dubious, and I very much want to see an ENT. [more inside]
International affairs
Where can I find good, solid articles on this year's revolution in Egypt, and the war in Syria, and their respective effect on international relations? [more inside]
Best paint to use for a portrait on a toaster oven?
A coworker of mine often complains that we do not have a toaster in the office. I have an unused one, and would like to paint her portrait on it as a humorous secret-santa gift for our office xmas party.
I like to work with acrylics and india ink, but am afraid that they will peel off when they get hot. What paint/technique do you think will work best?
posted by DaveZ at 8:52 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by DaveZ at 8:52 AM PST - 8 comments
please recommend books like Greider's Secrets of the Temple
Please recommend books like William Greider's "Secrets of the Temple". [more inside]
One pork roast with froth, please.
Should I eat fizzy pork? [more inside]
Is a Christmas pudding containing coins safe to microwave?
I made three Christmas puddings on Stir-up Sunday, with the intention of giving two away to two families with small children. As is traditional, I included a coin in the pudding. I really don't want to add to the faff of Christmas with toddlers so I was going to suggest that they microwave the pudding. Today it occurred to me that there's a chunk of metal inside each of them so perhaps that suggestion isn't as clever as all that. [more inside]
posted by calico at 8:35 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by calico at 8:35 AM PST - 16 comments
What's the best way for a nonprofit to hire a web developer/coder?
Our nonprofit has a ~$20,000 budget to spend on a web coder for our new website. We're developing our wireframes/design in-house. Where/how should we hire a web developer/coder? [more inside]
How can I fix my scaly dragon eye?
I have eczema on my eyelid, and have been advised by my GP not to use the prescribed steroid/antibiotic cream for more than a week. What should I be using now to help it heal, and keep the rest of my face happy? Are there any brands/ingredients I should steer clear of? [more inside]
Help me find particular glassware
My housemate has a couple of glasses he LOVES, and I want to find and purchase more for him for the holidays. They hold about 4.5 oz, have a relatively heavy bottom, and very thin walls that curve in a gentle hourglass shape. Here's a picture.
I'd love to find these or some very like them.
OTC anti-anxiety remedies?
Are there any studies or medical evidence to support the effectiveness of homeopathic remedies for anxiety, such as Hyland's Calms, Hyland's Nerve Tonic, or Rescue Remedy? [more inside]
My ex-girlfriend assaulted me. Now what?
My ex-girlfriend assaulted me, damaged my property, and kicked in a door to a public establishment where I was hiding from her. What's going to happen now? [more inside]
Staying at Land of a Thousand Cleaning Products
My family spends most holidays at the home of a family member with untreated OCD. It’s already a huge challenge, and I’ve discovered it’s slightly worse than I’d thought. Will solve an immediate problem temporarily, but won’t see my therapist until after Thanksgiving. Please just help me to not go nuclear this week. [more inside]
Words with Fires?
Why does my iPhone 5s get too hot to touch when playing Words with Friends, and is there anything I can do to stop it? [more inside]
I swear it's not a Double Secret Quonsar!
We received a mystery package form Amazon, which I didn't order. I have the Order ID number. Is there a way to figure out who sent it? [more inside]
posted by Liesl at 7:23 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Liesl at 7:23 AM PST - 3 comments
Is a steam mop worth it?
We have all hardwood floors, other than two tiny areas of ceramic tile in the kitchen and bathroom. I have been using a Swiffer WetJet on the floors, but I dread mopping the floors with it because it uses so many pads (we have two dogs in a tiny house so our floors get really dirty), the cleaner refills are expensive, and I don't even think it actually cleans all that well. [more inside]
Matchmaking for singers?
I'm an amateur singer in NYC. I've done a lot of choral singing and have taken a lot of voice lessons. I'd really like to be singing folk music or non-experimental jazz - acoustic music with zero to light instrumentation and tight harmonies - with small groups (2-8 people). I'm not sure how to make it happen and how these things work. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 6:32 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by bunderful at 6:32 AM PST - 5 comments
What cool stuff can I do with 30 Pez dispensers?
I have a ton of extra Pez dispensers that are itching for a use.
What cool things can I do with them?
If I reapply to grad school, will my application get shot down?
An academic mentor says I should wait a year and submit The Strongest Application Ever to guarantee my acceptance. I said if I get rejected this year, I'll spend a year developing more research experience and reapply next year - no problem! What do I have to lose, right? Everything, according to him: he says he's concerned that they automatically look unfavorably upon re-applicants. Is that true?
posted by sarling at 6:10 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by sarling at 6:10 AM PST - 17 comments
The Overhead Oven Hood Is A LIE. How Do I Install A New Fan?
So I've got a nice oven and a nice overhead hood. Unfortunately, behind the facade of wooden veneer is NOTHING.
No vent, no fan, nothing.
Can I install a fan up there? [more inside]
posted by John Kennedy Toole Box at 5:57 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by John Kennedy Toole Box at 5:57 AM PST - 10 comments
What is the best Internet forum software for hosting debates?
I'm looking for Internet forum software -- preferably at no cost -- that is suitable for hosting debates. I'd like something that is threaded, which allows strict moderation, and yet is fairly bare-bones. I don't want Slashdot or Reddit style voting (I don't need comment voting at all), and I don't really want the user to be able insert any HTML or crappy banners. Maybe administrator configurable emoticons, at the most.
I want the message system itself to be easily searchable, and if anything has been written for enforced constructive debate, I'd be especially interested.
Help me find more of these nice, long, relaxing YouTube videos
I like streaming long videos on YouTube that are soothing in some way. Can you recommend some more things I might like? Specifics within. [more inside]
posted by tomboko at 4:39 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by tomboko at 4:39 AM PST - 8 comments
iCloud…Should I Use It?
Just curious if I should use the iCloud? Will it make things complicated for me? Make it easier? Do I need it? Am I using it already?? [more inside]
Help me find the right job knowing my strenghts
I co-own and manage a financial services company and I stopped liking my job about 2 years ago. I'm growing increasingly frustrated because I have to spend my time doing things I don't like, and the job (actually thew industry) has changed so much over the years. My problem is to find an alternative. I read many books about finding my path and did many tests, and the usual result is that I love inventing things, fixing things/problems and helping people. [more inside]
High quality black friday pants to Germany
Where's this black friday online deal: 1. high quality pants (really nice chinos/khaki pants/like Bonobos - i.e. a bit hip/in fancy colors) 2. at around $25-50 3. that ship to Germany?
Recommendations for brands that match the style and price are fine (I'd find out about the shipping..).
Board book recommendations
My 4-month-old loves reading eye-catching books, but I am a bit bored with the ones we have. Help me find some more, with examples inside. [more inside]
posted by lollymccatburglar at 2:00 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by lollymccatburglar at 2:00 AM PST - 23 comments
November 26
Impossible to have flammable material shipped to Hawaii?
Hello--I'm very interested in buying this spray fixative called Fixatif Lascaux but can't seem to find a way to have it shipped to me. [more inside]
Making camp awesome, one craft at a time
I've been offered the chance to run a week-long day camp this coming summer at a local art space. I have an idea for a theme, but I want to run it by the hive mind and make sure it's as awesome as it can possibly be. Who want to help me plan Costume Camp? [more inside]
How to manage bloating? Halp
I've had about 10 days straight of distended belly due to bloating. I look 5 months pregnant if I stop sucking in my stomach. I've tried Gas-X and charcoal pills and so far nothing has worked. What should I try? [more inside]
posted by spamandkimchi at 11:33 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by spamandkimchi at 11:33 PM PST - 20 comments
Over-indulged kids, thrifty aunt: Christmas present version
What do I buy 6 nieces and nephews when a) they have everything, b) I'm on a tight-ish budget, and c) I'm a bit anti-consumerist and riddled with guilt about buying anything? [more inside]
posted by Salamander at 9:56 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by Salamander at 9:56 PM PST - 53 comments
recommendations for a wallet as a gift?
I'm getting my girlfriend a wallet for christmas, and need some help shopping! [more inside]
What's it like to be a RAINN online hotline volunteer?
I'm thinking of volunteering for the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network, specifically their online hotline. Before I dive in, I'm hoping to find someone with RAINN (or comparable) experience who could speak a little beyond what's on the website as to the day-to-day of working on the online hotline, if I should expect much contact with other volunteers or paid staff, favorite/least favorite parts, anything to know going in, etc. [more inside]
Can I take notes during a job interview? (I'm the one applying.)
Hi! Quick question for people who conduct employment interviews. I have a job interview in two days. I would like to take a small notepad with me and jot down the pertinent things discussed that I will need to consider should I be offered the position, and make a move from my current job. I am afraid I will not remember accurately the important aspects, such as salary, benefit details, and other kind of crucial stuff I will need to consider. [more inside]
Do I throw her under the bus?
My assistant is all of these things:
(1) Friendly;
(2) Good about telling us when she won’t be there for the day;
(3) Takes no initiative;
(4) Makes an error in every single document or task given to her, without fail;
(5) As a result of #4, unreliable. [more inside]
posted by juliagulia at 8:12 PM PST - 57 comments
posted by juliagulia at 8:12 PM PST - 57 comments
News Articles about Canadian Fundamental Freedoms for Students
I'm working on a draft lesson plan for elementary students that involves news articles about violations of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms' "Fundamental Freedoms" or situations where the Fundamental Freedoms were upheld...but I need more news articles! [more inside]
Public library job interview advice needed
So I have a job interview coming up for a librarian position at a public library. However, all of my job experience has been in academic libraries, so I'm not sure what to expect from this interview. [more inside]
What do afghans from Afghanistan look like?
I'm looking for links/books/a place to start researching to find out more about the origin of afghan blankets.
I just ordered the yarn to knit a largish blanket of my own design. In thinking of a name for the pattern I got to wondering whether the word "afghan" as applied to blankets really had anything to do with Afghanistan. [more inside]
posted by sparklemotion at 6:11 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sparklemotion at 6:11 PM PST - 7 comments
Why is Sesame Oil sold in hourglass shaped bottles?
This is a typical bottle of sesame oil as sold in Japan. When I lived in the US there were also bottles with the same hourglass shape, usually with ridges, and only for sesame oil. Why are the bottles this shape? [more inside]
posted by 23 at 5:58 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by 23 at 5:58 PM PST - 15 comments
Which Analysts cover which stocks ?
Is there a source of information which tells you which Stock Analysts cover which stocks ? Particularly interested in Australian stocks but grateful for others. More inside ... [more inside]
Hot tamales! Ay yi yi -- what now?
A local group of Latina women make tamales to help raise money for community support of our county's Hispanic workers. They offer a variety of kinds of tamales for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. This year we're having a vegan Thanksgiving, so for the first time I ordered a dozen vegetable-only tamales, and picked them up this afternoon, as instructed. [more inside]
posted by kestralwing at 5:08 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by kestralwing at 5:08 PM PST - 15 comments
Do professional bakers like receiving cooking tools as gifts?
I have a person that I know fairly well for a secret Santa gift exchange that has a soft 30 dollar cap on it. I have a few routes I can go down, but she's a baker by profession. She works at a grocery store's bakery department, and does some side work for weddings on occasion. For people who work as bakers / cooks, would you want to receive some sort of gift related to this or is that the last thing you want to think about after you're done with work? If no, then what's an awesome ~30 dollar gift that someone could give you?
Where can I find Sony Featherweight headphones at a reasonable price?
I'm trying to track down a pair of Sony Featherweight headphones for Mrs_Eep, but the prices have quadrupled. Is there a similar pair that anyone can recommend? [more inside]
Amusing, surprising, and cheap stocking stuffers for the whole family
Every year, each of my (8 or so, all adult) family members buys the same small gift for the rest of us and gives the gift anonymously (and to themselves, to preserve anonymity). With Christmas a month away, what silly or useful stocking stuffers can I give out to each of my family members across a wide variety of ages? [more inside]
Making the most of a professional windfall
An opportunity to consult for a prestigious institution fell into my lap right as I've been trying to make a professional shift, how do I make the most of it? [more inside]
Wool/Fleece Jacket for Women?
Is there a jacket out there that is just like the LL Bean Wool Tek Hooded Jacket, but for women? [more inside]
posted by The Toad at 3:57 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by The Toad at 3:57 PM PST - 9 comments
Have 2 IT degrees, but want to do something else. How to go about this?
I have a BS degree in Information Science/Technology and have just completed a further post-graduate degree in the same field. I was awarded my degree with distinction and could most likely go on to a PhD if I wanted to. I am also currently looking for work in my field and am confident to find a job. The thing is, I really don't like IT. I try to convince myself that there is something I would like, but in all honesty, I am not excited about any of the jobs I'm looking at much less continuing on with more education (although that would at least allow me to explore something I may somewhat like). [more inside]
posted by deeba at 3:48 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by deeba at 3:48 PM PST - 13 comments
Should I walk away from this mortgage?
My ex-boyfriend and I own a home together that he is currently still living in. We're underwater on the mortgage and he doesn't make enough to cover the whole payment. I've been paying half of the mortgage since the breakup in order to buy time and figure out a plan. But I'm at the end of my rope both emotionally and financially, and I'm wondering if there are any options left or if I should just stop paying. [more inside]
posted by fanta_orange at 3:47 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by fanta_orange at 3:47 PM PST - 31 comments
Suggestions for what to do on a 12-hour layover in Mexico City?
I have an upcoming trip that includes a stopover from about 6AM to late evening in MEX.
We'll be traveling with a 3-year-old, so we will probably spend the first few hours trying to get some sleep at an airport hotel.
I'm wondering if anyone has an idea for something to do with the rest of the day that won't cause a lot of stress about making it back for our flight?
I've never been to Mexico City. What are the usual tourist attractions?
Is traffic so bad that we could only fit in something really quick and nearby?
Is it even worth it to leave the airport area?
Thanks!
Setting up online appointment system?
So, at my work, I'm thinking of setting up a simple online appointment system for the people we work with (citizens of a given municipality). There are a few questions I have if we go this route. [more inside]
Antique Keyboard on Windows 8.1
My beloved IBM M keyboard from 1991 works well on windows 8.1 with a USB adapter. Is there an Alt-something-something-something command that represents the Windows key on newer keyboards?
To stay or to leave? that is the question.
What would you do? Im saving money to buy an apartment. Another part of me wants to go live in another country for a few months instead. [more inside]
posted by red47Apple at 2:09 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by red47Apple at 2:09 PM PST - 21 comments
Motivation to exercise when there are no goals, or they are vague?
I have read in numerous places that exercise can sometimes help with mood and concentration. My only exercise goal is to help alleviate these possible issues, but I couldn't keep any motivation and stopped after only a few weeks. Specific considerations: [more inside]
posted by polywomp at 1:53 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by polywomp at 1:53 PM PST - 38 comments
Make Ahead Hors d'oeuvres
Every holiday season I generally host at least 2-3 get-togethers focusing on small bites, hanging out, and (on Christmas Eve) presents. However, after many, many years of making the same things I am looking for some new additions. [more inside]
posted by daikaisho at 1:25 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by daikaisho at 1:25 PM PST - 18 comments
Do corporation dream of paper sheep?
How does a corporation show that it "sincerely holds a belief"? [more inside]
posted by PMdixon at 12:52 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by PMdixon at 12:52 PM PST - 17 comments
I don't want to be a witch.
I am interested in Wicca. Always have been. Despite a conventional Christian ubpringing, my inner belief has always been that 'god' is part mother nature and part earth/environment. That's just the way my mind has always imagined 'god', and it's worked for me for over 40 years. Now I need to take it further. [more inside]
Attempted Mugging
Practical gifts, coffee edition: please direct me toward a travel mug which meets these criteria: 1. All components of the mug must be permanently affixed TO the mug (no fully-detachable lids/etc). 2. It must be difficult to tip over. 3. It must be dishwasher-safe. 4. It must be durable. [Backstory: Mr. Julthumbscrew has lost-lids-to/inadvertently-destroyed/wept-copiously-about hundreds of sub-par mugs; I want to get him ONE MUG TO RULE THEM ALL.]
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:55 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:55 AM PST - 10 comments
Stocking Stuffer Block -- Help
So, every year I can't figure out what to put in my beloved Bear's holiday stocking, and this year I have total Stocking Stuffer Block. I so don't want to delay getting shopping for this done. Details about him below. [more inside]
posted by bearwife at 11:45 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by bearwife at 11:45 AM PST - 27 comments
Designer bag too expensive: looking for similar affordable one
I fell in love with the Fendi bag this woman is carrying, which I think is the 2Jours tote, or something quite similar. Barring winning the lottery, I'm not about to pay that much for a bag, and would like suggestions for a similar one. Details of what I like about the bag inside. [more inside]
posted by telophase at 11:28 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by telophase at 11:28 AM PST - 12 comments
Long-term WordPress Maintenance
I'd like to read about issues, strategies and concerns regarding long-term WordPress maintenance. I have several clients using WordPress. I'm adept with the nuts and bolts, but I can see that staying on top of plugin updates is important and must be done carefully. I've killed live sites enough times to know now not to update willy nilly. [more inside]
Has your childhood bully ever apologized to you?
I was an angry kid at one point in my life. My best friend had moved away and I was unpopular. I became a bit of a bully. There are three people in particular that I treated particularly bad. I want to apologize to them, but does it just serve to only make myself feel better? Has anyone here been bullied and received an apology later in life? And how did it make you feel? I was also bullied. My bully tried to add me as a friend on Facebook multiple times, and I always declined it. I wonder sometimes if maybe he was trying to apologize.
posted by kbennett289 at 11:04 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by kbennett289 at 11:04 AM PST - 53 comments
Roots in my root beer: do you have a favorite homemade soda?
I would love to make my own non-alcoholic beverages. As hippy, from scratch as possible. Do you have favorite recipes? [more inside]
Looking for a basic review of math (algebra, geometry, fractions, etc)
I have to take a math placement test in the next two weeks that will determine which college class I will place into next semester (January). I have already taken Math 1010 (Intermediate Algebra) and 1030 (Quantitative Reasoning) long ago but those credits do not count any longer towards this current placement. I need to test to see where I fall now. I'm hoping to get into Math 1050 (College Algebra) ideally. My skills are rusty though. [more inside]
posted by rabu at 10:39 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by rabu at 10:39 AM PST - 9 comments
Retro USB Controllers for NES/SNES/Saturn
Looking for a quality build of classic console controllers with USB. [more inside]
posted by lkc at 10:31 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by lkc at 10:31 AM PST - 10 comments
Dog-friendly DC
I have yet another "where should I live in DC?" question, but mine has a dog park twist! [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 10:04 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by lunasol at 10:04 AM PST - 16 comments
Sure, I accomplished....something. Workfilter edition.
I took a job two years ago thinking it was a great opportunity, and instead, it's turned out to be terrible. Lots of nice people and good intentions, but little infrastructure, tight budgets, and an executive director whose poor leadership skills are equaled only by her desire to micromanage.
Long story short, I have about 8 weeks to meet some (unreasonable) departmental goals or I'm likely to get fired. Help me turn two years of helping my department tread water in spite of huge organizational obstacles into accomplishments for my resume, please? [more inside]
Macbook pro battery life
My macbook pro battery life is awful, and it shouldn't be. What can I do about that? [more inside]
Good 3.5mm male to 3.5mm female audio cable extension?
I am looking for a 3.5mm to 3.5mm male to female audio cable extension where the male end would fit into an iPhone audio jack through a case. (So the male end should be roughly similar to the end of a pair of default iPhone headphones.) The female end would attach to, say, speakers or maybe a Square card reader. I would prefer if the male end is at a right angle to the rest of the cable. [more inside]
posted by Korou at 9:41 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Korou at 9:41 AM PST - 5 comments
Talk me into or out of an airport lounge.
I have two passes to an American Airlines lounge that expire at the end of the year, and only one opportunity to use them between now and then. I've never been inside of an airline lounge before, so I don't really know what I'm missing, and I'm having a hard time deciding if it's worth dragging my wife to the airport an extra hour early so these don't go to waste. [more inside]
posted by ndg at 9:24 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by ndg at 9:24 AM PST - 20 comments
Comcast modem/router upgrade - asking for trouble?
After an internet outage (now resolved) Comcast customer service recommended that we update our 8 year old cable modem (Thompson DCM-425) to a new wireless router/modem combo. I'm trying to figure out if this will really be an upgrade or more of a "well the wireless would be faster, if it were still working" sort of situation? [more inside]
posted by mercredi at 9:00 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by mercredi at 9:00 AM PST - 10 comments
Him: Prince Albert piercing. Her: Veneers on front teeth. Advice?
If all goes well, this weekend I will have my first encounter with a Prince Albert piercing. I am very excited about this prospect, but I'm also concerned about breaking the veneers on my two front teeth. Other than the obvious "be careful!" is there anything else I should know or do? Even better, is this really not a problem I need to worry about? [more inside]
Condo insurance conflict of interest?
I'm in the process of buying my first condominium. Is using the same insurance agent that holds the condo association's insurance for my own homeowners/content policy a good idea? If not, any suggestions for insurance agents in the Bergen County area of NJ?
posted by quokka quokka quokka at 8:29 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by quokka quokka quokka at 8:29 AM PST - 4 comments
Do you deal with major depression without drugs?
I've been off Effexor cold turkey for about five days. I think the worst of the withdrawal is over. My doctor's office is not calling me back about refills. Should I keep trying to get some more or should I try to go it alone? [more inside]
Becoming Fluent in Predictive Analytics
I work in a University managing the broad based direct mail, email and calling programs. I have zero undergrad or graduate experience with math, business or the social sciences. (Aka, I can write a really nice essay...) I would like to chart a path to being recognized as an expert in predictive analytics. [more inside]
posted by meta x zen at 7:34 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by meta x zen at 7:34 AM PST - 3 comments
Is there a temporary aesthetic solution to toothlessness?
A year into recovery from a decade-long meth addiction, the most obvious and lingering effect for me is a horrific case of "meth mouth". I've been told I'll need to have my remaining teeth pulled and replaced with a full set of dentures. Due to my HIV status, I receive basic dental care and denture coverage through a national insurance program; unfortunately, the system-wide policy of the program-affiliated clinics in my city is that once my teeth are removed, I must wait about 6 months for my mouth to heal sufficiently before I'm fitted for dentures. Is there anything I can do to avoid looking drooling pudding for the next half year? [more inside]
Where can I buy Jelly Belly Sour Santas?
Is there a retail chain that carries Jelly Belly Sour Santas candy? I found them online but I'd like to avoid paying shipping. I'm in the Kansas City area, if anybody happens to know a local source.
Scented oil mishap - how to de-scent my clothes?
A bottle of nasty, concentrated potpourri oil spilled in my closet - now all of my clothes reek like rotten fruit mixed with lighter fluid. Repeated washings with Tide aren't helping at all! What should I use? [more inside]
Can I make the web have pages? No, really!
I want to read web sites by flipping through a series of letter-size pages (like you do with PDFs), instead of scrolling one long page. Right now I'm just printing sites as PDFs and reading them in Acrobat, but is there a way to make the browser do it instead? [more inside]
posted by overeducated_alligator at 6:33 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by overeducated_alligator at 6:33 AM PST - 9 comments
Bench Press and Injury?
What exercise should I substitute for Bench Press if I'm concerned about injury? So many people have nagging shoulder problems that started when they were bench pressing. I'm an older guy and I really need to stay injury free, even if that means I end up making slower progress. Should I bench press using dumbbells instead? That would make linear progression harder, as the weight increments aren't as small. I've tried using incline bench press with the barbell as a substitute, but that seems to interfere with my progress on overhead press. At the moment, I'm using a plate-loaded bench press machine, and that has worked well, but I wonder if I'd be better off using a free weight exercise? Thanks.
Fun fitness-based games/group challenges for bootcamp/group fitness
I'm looking for a few new ideas for game or group challenge style activities to make my group fitness classes more engaging and fun and to mix things up. What have you tried and loved, or heard about and thought sounded fun?
Emergency Thanksgiving Chicago pick-up
I was wondering if anyone knew of some place in Chicago that was still offering Thanksgiving pick-up that's somewhere in the vicinity of the lake or the loop. Everything I'm finding is way out west which isn't going to work for me, or sold out. Alternatively, given that it's just the two of us, is it better to just go to a restaurant? If so, any recommendations?
posted by bleep at 4:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by bleep at 4:45 AM PST - 13 comments
Gift Ideas for a 6 year old
My nephew is 6 years old and will be 7 in a couple of months. Looking for Christmas gift ideas. He's really interesested in becoming an actor/director. A few snowflakes though... [more inside]
Who has time to enjoy a robe?
I would like to purchase a terrycloth robe for a woman, ideally with animal print. Images of animals would be preferable to a leopard or zebra print pattern. Where can I find such an item?
posted by outlaw of averages at 1:19 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by outlaw of averages at 1:19 AM PST - 8 comments
November 25
Help me find a all metal space heater with a high quality thermostat
I have found that space heater with plastic anywhere on it starts to smell like burning plastic if you run it alot. I have also found that the thermostats on a lot of space heaters do not work well. example you set it to 73 but it just runs and never turns off or turns off before reaching 73.
Where do the feminist programmers hang out online (other than MeFi)?
I read a lot of Hacker News. I'm a self-identified male feminist programmer. Comment threads like this one make me want to strangle my computer monitor. I loved this article. What else should I read? Who should I subscribe to? Where do the feminist programmers hang out online?
posted by azarbayejani at 11:49 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by azarbayejani at 11:49 PM PST - 17 comments
Best book on art deco or architecture in Mexico City
Am looking for a book recommendation or three. I am really getting into the architecture of Mexico City but I really don't know all that much about architecture, particularly Mexican architecture. I'm not much into colonial or contemporary stuff but everything in-between, from the Porfiriato French Empire stuff to the 1960s, and particularly the Art Deco and Art Noveau periods and whatever it is that came just before. Amazon is kind of skimpy with recommendations. So anybody read any really great books on either
Art Deco architecture,
Art Noveau architecture,
Mexico City architecture,
20th century architecture,
or one of these art movements as a whole if they are really good?
Preferably in English, but Spanish would be good too.
Concerned citizen meets with real estate developer and architect
A real estate developer offered to meet with me and a friend and have his architect show us conceptual plans of their project in advance of the official unveiling to the public. I've never met with a developer or an architect. What do I do to make this a productive meeting & not waste the time of developer and architect? [more inside]
posted by bertran at 10:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bertran at 10:09 PM PST - 9 comments
how to help the salvadoran anti-mining cause?
I am Canadian and feel really sad about the lawsuit brought against the El Salvador government for banning mining. Are there any Canadian organizations to which I can donate money that will support El Salvador people in their fight against the mining companies? If not, do you know of any good organizations that work in the country that might be doing this indirectly?
Looking for new-to-me abstract artists, especially painters
I love abstract art and recently did a very thorough self-led course through its history. (I decided I am most a fan of lyric abstraction, if that helps at all.)
Now I'm trying to get schooled in more current abstract artists (particularly painters), but it's hard to know where to go for info, especially for artists who are under the radar. I've been reading the major websites and I also looked into all the artists mentioned in this wonderful article:
The Golden Age of Abstraction: Right Now and liked a lot of what I saw.
I don't live in a big city and don't travel to cities often, so those aren't viable options for me. If you have any names for me to investigate or websites, etc. that feature exciting new abstract artists, please share. (I say new,but they don't have to be brand new--just don't try to introduce me to Damien Hirst or Jackson Pollock.)
My Folks Want a GPS
What's the best GPS for my folks? They're in their 80s, and want it to speak directions to them. [more inside]
CD's not playing properly in my car?
When I burn a CD, some songs that sound fine in iTunes on my computer will inexplicably have between 3-20 seconds of 'silence' at the beginning, thus causing my car's CD player to skip them if I don't fast forward to the actual music...WTF? (do my best to give some Tech Specs inside!) [more inside]
Seeking meditation apps and podcasts
I'd like to meditate more. I have the Simply Be app and like it, but would like to try others.
MeFites, what do you recommend?
Looking for a new job, but don't know where to start
What are my options for good jobs without a bachelor's degree? [more inside]
Chasing debt in the land of Oz
I run a small business. I have a couple of clients who won't pay their bills. What's the best move? [more inside]
posted by mewsic at 8:05 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by mewsic at 8:05 PM PST - 11 comments
Statistics for approval correlating demographic variable?
How do I use SPSS to analyze a range of approval ratings which vary by participant and correlate the skew to one demographic variable? [more inside]
So I love your digs and all…
How to tell a company I’d like to telecommute? Should I take the job if they don’t agree to it? [more inside]
posted by Dotty at 7:38 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Dotty at 7:38 PM PST - 6 comments
Front license plate blues
Is there a way I can get my front license plate on my 97 Honda Civic without using a power drill or going to a mechanic and having him take the bumper off/drill it on? [more inside]
Heatless in NYC
My apartment has no heat. How long must I wait for a response from my landlord before I report them to the NYC housing authority? [more inside]
An incredibly convoluted - possibly dumb - travel dilemma
I am headed to Los Angeles for work. My wife is in the NYC-area (where we live). We can meet somewhere for our anniversary: Where should it be? [more inside]
Netflix sound issues
Netflix recently updated their Roku app and now we're having sound issues. [more inside]
Is this some kind of crapmunk?
Heya, people. I live in an apartment in a rural area and I have a question about what appears to be giant mouse poop, but perhaps the reality is truly more monstrous. My cat is alert and caught a couple of mice in the past and I assumed that he had it under control. However, this showed up in his bowl today, and I'm wondering WTF kind of animal left this. I found something similar earlier this year, and it felt like mud and smelled like mud, so I dismissed it as a fluke....now I ask: what the f kind of animal could this be from? I don't want to utter the R-word, but brutal honesty and trapping techniques welcome.
posted by lakersfan1222 at 6:13 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by lakersfan1222 at 6:13 PM PST - 11 comments
How much did 19th century climbers know about their gear's limitations?
If you were the average climber/mountaineer in the mid-to-late 19th century, how aware were you that your gear was basically crap in terms of providing protection from falls? [more inside]
Where can I buy fancy coffee beans in sample sizes in San Francisco?
I'd like to give a person some coffee beans from San Francisco-based roasters, but instead of just buying one full-size 12-16 oz bag of one specific kind, I'd like to put together a set of multiple kinds - for example, 4 oz each of four types of beans. Do any of this city's fancy coffee shops sell small sizes or gift sets like that? [more inside]
posted by dreamyshade at 6:00 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by dreamyshade at 6:00 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me get my legal classic doctor who on!
Ok, the 50th anniversary special bit me and I really want to rewatch the old classic Doctor Whos that I loved so much as a kid (and now will probably find painfully boring...) I can find scattered episodes on netflix or amazon (or even google play), but I really want to watch ALL THE DOCTOR WHOS, or at very least have continuity that doesn't suck. I'm totally willing to pay, but not huge amounts. And I'm in the US for region issues.
Lemon Meringue Pie: Beginner's Luck edition
I'm making a lemon meringue pie for Thanksgiving, and it's my first time 1) making a pie 2) making meringue and 3) transporting it in my car for a hour. My grandmother's signature dessert was a lemon meringue pie that she made from a recipe she'd memorized and no one ever wrote down. She's been gone for about ten years, and we're all still missing her cooking. I decided to make a lemon meringue pie this year, one that my father (who has celiac disease) can eat too. [more inside]
posted by gladly at 4:55 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by gladly at 4:55 PM PST - 18 comments
Transfering Photoshop files to Windows PC through iPhone?
Is there a way to transfer Photoshop files from a Dropbox folder to a Windows 8 PC, via iPhone, without wifi? [more inside]
posted by Nedroid at 3:52 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Nedroid at 3:52 PM PST - 5 comments
Best food for a large breed dog that's not quite a puppy anymore?
My husband and I are adding another dog to our family. Yay! He's a rescued coonhound/great dane mix, about 18 months old. We couldn't be more excited to bring this awkward, gangly guy into our home. But what should we feed him? [more inside]
posted by terilou at 3:43 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by terilou at 3:43 PM PST - 11 comments
Recommend some festive, easy champagne cocktails
I have roughly a case of cheap, but drinkable champagne. It was purchased to go in mimosas, but fewer mimosas were consumed than anticipated, so I have lots and lots of leftovers. Luckily, its the holidays, and people feel festive, so I should be able to serve it to everyone I meet, right? Wrong. In my crowd, if I offer this up at a party, I'm going to be met with a chorus of "thanks, but I'll have a craft beer please." [more inside]
Messaging app for Android that supports Google Voice?
I need a text messaging app for Android that supports sending/receiving through my Google Voice number rather than my phone number. [more inside]
Tips on running a successful nonprofit for the first couple of years?
I'm federally incorporating a nonprofit in the next few months. I've heard that most nonprofits fail within the first couple of years. How can we plan for success? We are Canada-based and our focus is on wildlife, but any general nonprofit advice would be welcome. [more inside]
How do I find the best rate to refinance my car loan?
My credit is good. My loan on my new-last-year Toyota Yaris is awful; the interest rate is absurdly high. My credit union, who issued the loan, doesn't want to help. How do I find the best rate I can get on a refinance? [more inside]
posted by drjimmy11 at 2:43 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by drjimmy11 at 2:43 PM PST - 18 comments
How Old Before He Can Travel On His Own?
What's a nice round consensus on the minimum age for an unaccompanied boy to go from South Station to Midtown? [more inside]
posted by whuppy at 2:39 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by whuppy at 2:39 PM PST - 44 comments
Are we there yet? 17th Century Version.
How long did it take to sail from the Americas to England in 1609? And vice versa? [more inside]
posted by Big_B at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Big_B at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
Turkey Day toast
So we are hosting Thanksgiving. Neither one of us believe in God, and our families are very religious. Please help me with a toast. [more inside]
Point me to the best chocolate bars
When I encounter the chocolate bar aisle at a Whole Foods/Trader Joe/Central Market (if you're in Texas) type store, I am struck dumb by OPTION PARALYSIS. Please recommend me the best 2 or 3 brand/variety type chocolate bars to try next time I find myself in one of those hellpits. Muchas gracias!!!
Where can I find "Le tour du monde en 80 jours"?
I've bought hundreds of books online so please believe me I wouldn't ask such a dumb question without trying myself. My son would like a copy of Le tour du monde en 80 jours (English: Around the World in 80 Days) meeting these three criteria: in French, unabridged, with the original illustrations. Looked on amazon.com, amazon.fr, abebooks.com and several other places, but I can't find (a reasonably priced) copy that says explicitly that it meets all three criteria. We've already gotten burned! Apparently there are a lot of abridged student editions out there. I don't speak French myself so it's hard for me to parse the many French listings.
Merci pour votre aide.
posted by iconjack at 1:38 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by iconjack at 1:38 PM PST - 4 comments
Oh the fun you'll have!
Magical video of festive people speaking lines in rhyme about life and fun? [more inside]
posted by Mike Mongo at 1:01 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Mike Mongo at 1:01 PM PST - 2 comments
Donating to Public Radio
So I've been donating to public radio about as long as I've been listening to it. But as I'm getting ready for end of year donations, I realized I listen to podcasts instead of the radio now. So should that affect how I give? [more inside]
posted by garlic at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by garlic at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
What are "beam clamps" called in Canada?
Searching HomeDepot.ca comes up empty, but this is the result from HomeDepot.com. [more inside]
posted by wutangclan at 12:29 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by wutangclan at 12:29 PM PST - 4 comments
Where to buy a deceptively warm coat?
I get cold easily. I'd like to buy a new men's winter coat that doesn't look like anything special but is secretly lined with magic warmth nodules. I don't want to be the guy bundled up in a Michelan man snowsuit when everybody around me is wearing hoodies and windbreakers. Help me fit in, fashionably speaking, while still feeling like I'm perpetually cozied up by a roaring fire. [more inside]
Identify this t-shirt?
Does anyone recognize the t-shirt with a stylized bear logo worn here by J Mascis (Dinosaur Jr)? Is it a logo for something or a one-off design? [more inside]
posted by Pre-Taped Call In Show at 12:05 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Pre-Taped Call In Show at 12:05 PM PST - 4 comments
Address for Ryan Gosling?
My wife has written a letter to Ryan Gosling that she'd like him to read personally. She's found the addresses for his fan mail, but doesn't think Gosling actually sees the mail sent to those addresses. Ideas you might have on how to search for a direct address for him or where to send such mail for him are appreciated.
Has anyone heard of Simpson College?
My son is interested in Simpson College, in Indianola Iowa. It seems to be a reasonable choice for him, but we can't find any seemingly independent first hand accounts of the School. Can somebody help? [more inside]
posted by vilcxjo_BLANKA at 11:08 AM PST - 46 comments
posted by vilcxjo_BLANKA at 11:08 AM PST - 46 comments
Tis the season for a Yankee Exchange / White Elephant gift
What are your suggestions or best items you have seen for a swap gift? More inside. [more inside]
posted by maxg94 at 10:32 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by maxg94 at 10:32 AM PST - 36 comments
Any ideas for getting primary school children into school on time?
The primary school (age 4-11) I teach in is in a socially disadvantaged area: about half of our pupils are on free school meals compared with around 18% nationally (England). Educational attainment is low. With the aim of improving student outcomes, the Local Educational Authority is awarding an innovation prize of £5000 to execute the project. One of the biggest problems that we face is low attendance - about 92% (of which only approximately 1-2% are absent owing to illness). Currently, actions to improve attendance such as weekly assemblies to celebrate good attendance, class awards and a rigorous follow-up of attendance issues, have only had mixed results. What do schools in the US do to ensure their children attend school regularly and come in on time? Rewards? Phone calls to parents? We are at our wits' end at our school, so I am calling upon you all for suggestions and advice. Thank you so much!
posted by ashawill at 10:16 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by ashawill at 10:16 AM PST - 28 comments
It Wasn't a Tuffet
Is there a single, non-compound English word for this kind of university lecture hall desk (those bolted-down seats with the arm-rests masquerading as desktops)? [more inside]
Who was the sci-fi writing mathematician who didn't cash his checks?
In James Tiptree, Jr.: The Double Life of Alice B. Sheldon, the author, Julie Phillips, mentions "a mathematician at the Institute for Advanced Study who was so closeted about his pen name that he didn't even cash the checks for his stories" (Google books preview) that Fred Pohl had worked with previously, but Phillips doesn't provide additional details. Who is (or was) this mysterious writer? [more inside]
National Lampoon's European Vacation Moocher
What's the age cutoff to expect to be able to tag along with your parents on a vacation? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 9:17 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by Sara C. at 9:17 AM PST - 34 comments
How to handle my healthy pregnancy and friends' pregnancy struggles?
How to handle my healthy pregnancy and friends' pregnancy struggles? [more inside]
posted by wannabecounselor at 9:05 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by wannabecounselor at 9:05 AM PST - 13 comments
Where's someplace warm and cheap to spend a week or so over New Years
I've been thinking recently that it might be fun to spend 4-7 days in a warm part of North America to ring in the New Year with my girlfriend. I'd love to find a place to get away, warm up from the Chicago winter and maybe sit on a beach if I can. [more inside]
posted by Carillon at 8:51 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Carillon at 8:51 AM PST - 15 comments
Thanksgiving-related vocabulary word needed! (for adults, not children)
I am required to bring a "word of the day" to my Toastmasters club's next meeting. This word should be an interesting and useful word that will expand everyone's command of the English language and ideally would be fun to use. Twist: I want it to be Thanksgiving or holiday season related if possible. My google-fu is failing me because I keep getting results meant for children's crossword puzzles ("pilgrim", "turkey", etc.). I'm looking for something more along the lines of "puritanical" or something like that. Can be historical, related to feelings or gratitude or even satirical of the holiday.
posted by halseyaa at 8:51 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by halseyaa at 8:51 AM PST - 17 comments
New-baby present for a second, older baby?
I have spectacularly flaked on a friend's new baby and am now looking to buy a welcome gift for a ~9-month-old. It's also a second baby, so they'll already be overstocked with gear, clothes, toys and books. To be worthwhile, this will have to be monumentally awesome, and/or personalized to the particular baby. What should I get? [more inside]
Verizon Nixes Nexus, What Now?
Made the mistake of buying an iPhone 5c on which no one can hear me. I've brought it back to the apple store twice, they wanted to give me a third phone and I said no. I'm stuck with the contract but want out of the phone. It looked like the Nexus 7 was going to be a perfect replacement until I found out it don't work with Verizon. Need a contractless, reasonably priced alternative to the 5c. I don't need or want the options of the 5s. Would like to buy new phone over the net not through Verizon or Apple. Any suggestions?
Turning unpublished report into conference paper - self-plagiarism?
I'm trying to turn my masters report into a conference paper. This mainly involves shortening it by many, many pages. Masters reports in my department are not published or even listed online or at the library. The only way anyone could ever read it or even know about it is to ask me or my advisor for a copy. Instead, the way I am sharing the work is to write a conference paper on the same subject. Do I need to cite my own unpublished report? [more inside]
posted by Gravel at 8:27 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Gravel at 8:27 AM PST - 9 comments
One Day in Istanbul
I'll be traveling to Hong Kong/China this February, with a one-day (19 hour) layover in Istanbul. What's the best use of my time there? [more inside]
posted by Curiosity Delay at 8:03 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Curiosity Delay at 8:03 AM PST - 6 comments
Instrumental Tracks - Jeff Wayne's "War of the Worlds"
I'm interested in getting the instrumental tracks from Jeff Wayne's musical version of War of the Worlds without any singing or narration. Any idea how I would get ahold of that?
Advanced Home Cooks--What's on Your Wishlist? (Assuming You Were Good!)
Cooking is probably my main hobby these days. And, as a late-thirties professional, I have a fully outfitted kitchen. I'm being asked for gift ideas for Christmas, and I think I'll probably limit myself to 1) whisky and 2) stuff for the kitchen. Fellow advanced home cooks with fully stocked kitchens, what's on your wishlist this holiday season? Not looking for gimmicky stuff; rather something I'd actually use for years to come. [more inside]
The Penn is mightier than my patience
Two adults catching a mid-afternoon Amtrak from New York Penn station on Wednesday. Looming weather disasters aside, what's the best way to make this as stress-free as possible? Travel pros, share your Penn station hacks! [more inside]
posted by Theophylactic at 7:21 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Theophylactic at 7:21 AM PST - 16 comments
Onion bit re: brother & sister wait for sibling relationship to occur?
The Onion posted either a photo with a title, or a short article, around the idea of a brother and sister who are awkwardly waiting until they somehow magically end up with a close sibling relationship. I've googled and searched the Onion site, but I can only find the one about the brother and sister who talk on the phone to make their mom happy. [more inside]
posted by chonus at 7:20 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by chonus at 7:20 AM PST - 5 comments
Wifi Woe
Having wifi troubles, don't know why. Help! [more inside]
Best way to track number and duration of wireless sessions?
As an organization that provides free wifi to our guests we would love to be able to track the number and duration of the wireless sessions in our facility.
Just as importantly, we'd like to be able to track these statistics as easily as possible, e.g., with a log that's emailed daily, or with an interface that lets you query data for a particular time period. [more inside]
Where to run in Bryan - College Station that isn't concrete?
We'll be spending time in Bryan-College Station over Thanksgiving. Where can we get in a long run -- say, 7-10 miles -- that isn't concrete? Crushed granite paths would be ideal, but I'm not holding my breath.
posted by starkraven at 4:27 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by starkraven at 4:27 AM PST - 2 comments
Career advice for math major (also competent programmer)?
I like math. Programming is OK, but I don't want to make it my thing. What careers should I be looking at? (Special snowflake details inside.) [more inside]
November 24
What to do if nude photos were ever leaked?
I’m in my very early twenties. I made some horrific decisions in my late teens to send guys naked photos of myself. Yes, completely naked. Yes, including my face. While none of them have leaked as far as I know, I’ve been extremely anxious about the possibility that they one day will. I pray everyday for it not to happen. I was young, stupid, insecure. I’m going into a field where, if I’m successful, I’ll be in the public eye, where I’ll be well-known to some degree. I worry that one day these photos will either be used as blackmail or be leaked…or that it’ll ruin a blossoming career. I worry that the bad decisions I made to hurt myself will haunt me. What can I do to alleviate this risk, and if it does indeed happen, how can I deal with it in the best way to save my career, relationships, soul? [more inside]
When does Dorothy's dream begin in Wizard of Oz?
In the 1939 film version of Wizard of Oz, Dorothy wakes up and discovers her trip to Oz was all a dream. But when does the dream begin? [more inside]
Thanksgiving in Manhattan
Help me be an non-touristy tourist in New York City this week. [more inside]
Help me identify the meaning and origins of this old Netscape t-shirt!
I'm on a major closet-purge (selling off all my old geek t-shirts from the 90's & 2000's), and I uncovered this old "Cypherpunk Policy" Netscape t-shirt that I'm trying to identify the origins of. [more inside]
posted by melorama at 8:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by melorama at 8:24 PM PST - 9 comments
Bulk Christmas goodies
What are your best recipes for holiday goodies to give out as gifts, to make in bulk? [more inside]
Why is sports officiator Frank Fats Cubellis called "Fats"?
Frank Cubellis, a New Castle, PA, sports officiator, got the nickname "Fat" shortly after birth and was later called "Fats". Is this because he was chubby or fat or for some other reason?
No more drama, plz
How can I handle this situation with a minimum of fuss and hurt feelings? [more inside]
Vegetarianism for the lazy
Is there a vegetarian/vegan version of Shrinking on a Budget that provides a weekly meal plan and shopping list? Doesn't necessarily have to be weight-loss oriented. [more inside]
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 7:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 7:23 PM PST - 5 comments
How to sell classes online (but not online classes)?
Can you show me examples of websites you love that make it easy for you to sign up for/purchase classes? Alternatively, can you point me towards resources for best design practices for this kind of site (online signup for real-life classes)? [more inside]
My Wii audio is all static! Gasp!
Suddenly today my Wii (regular, not U) is putting out static in the audio! Google says it may be the component cables going, could it be anything else? [more inside]
Baby Sucked Down the Snot Sucker
Your child ate what? I'm fairly certain that Baby Tafetta swallowed herself one of the filters from the Nosefrida Snot Sucker this evening. The blue filter consists of moisture absorbing polyurethane. I tried unsuccessfully to sweep out her mouth a couple of times but found nothing. She was otherwise fine and finished her bottle before going to sleep. [more inside]
posted by tafetta, darling! at 6:06 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by tafetta, darling! at 6:06 PM PST - 11 comments
Student discounts for software?
I am graduating college this year and wondering what student discounts on software ought I take advantage of? I am aware of Tableau, Max/MSP and Microsoft Office Suites offering academic discounts but would like to be aware of anything that becomes prohibitively expensive after my scholarly status ends. Are there any professional organizations I can join such as the ACM that offer book or software discounts as well?
Recreating the hot chocolate from City Bakery in NYC
What is the richest hot chocolate recipe you know? I'm looking for something starts off, "grate baker's chocolate into a bain-marie of heavy cream..." and produces something so rich I can nurse a "small" serving for almost an hour because every sip fills my mouth with chocolate flavor. [more inside]
posted by d. z. wang at 5:42 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by d. z. wang at 5:42 PM PST - 25 comments
Crash-course in IT security?
I'm looking for good books or websites that will give me a crash-course on modern IT security - common vulnerabilities, common strategies, common jargon, etc. [more inside]
posted by Dr. Zachary Smith at 5:30 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Dr. Zachary Smith at 5:30 PM PST - 13 comments
Song help needed : "beware the romance of exotic frontiers"
I heard a song on the radio. Male vocal over instrumental backup, more or less folk style, sort of vaguely Irish sounding in style. I can only remember two lines: "beware the romance of exotic frontiers" and "garnished the blood of a nation". Google's got nothin'. What is this song? Thanks!
Advice for broken-hearted 36 y.o. who cannot stay pregnant
My best friend just lost her third pregnancy. She and her husband have been trying to have a baby for 3 years. Her first and second losses were both in the first trimester, causes unknown. This most recent loss was especially horrible - they terminated after profound birth defects (as in: the baby could not survive outside the uterus) were detected on the 20-wk ultrasound. She's 36, and wonders if she'll ever be able to carry a healthy pregnancy to term. Should she give up trying to get pregnant and give birth? Anyone been down this road before and have good advice for her?
posted by hush at 5:00 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by hush at 5:00 PM PST - 28 comments
Monkey Farm
My 3yo wants a monkey farm for Christmas. We have no idea what a monkey farm is. [more inside]
posted by Hogshead at 4:00 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by Hogshead at 4:00 PM PST - 37 comments
Paypal Prepayment: am I being scammed?
I need to know whether I should be refunding a client who prepaid me on PayPal and then cancelled. [more inside]
posted by endless_forms at 3:22 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by endless_forms at 3:22 PM PST - 5 comments
Used iPhones in Stockholm?
A long shot but does anyone know if there are any places, online or preferably in a store, where you can buy a used or older iphone in Stockholm, Sweden? [more inside]
posted by Papagayo at 3:21 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Papagayo at 3:21 PM PST - 3 comments
ISO: fabulous soft Thanksgiving food
My sister just had thyroid surgery that did not go entirely as planned; she is getting better, but is very hoarse and having some difficulty swallowing. We are very hopeful that this is temporary, but it will certainly put a crimp in her Thanksgiving. [more inside]
Best way to get from Boston to NYC
We're trying to get from Boston to NYC with as little expense and aggravation as possible. What's the best way to do that? [more inside]
posted by Colonel_Chappy at 2:58 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Colonel_Chappy at 2:58 PM PST - 23 comments
Help me keep our Apple Cinema displays out of the landfill.
We have five aluminum 30" Apple Cinema displays at the office. They are slowly going dim. I don't want to trash them. How can they be fixed? [more inside]
posted by Mei's lost sandal at 2:33 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Mei's lost sandal at 2:33 PM PST - 12 comments
Oh wow, I bet it's a gift card.
Looking for fun ideas to wrap restaurant gift certificates for Christmas that will disguise what the gift is a little under the tree. Difficulty: less than $10. [more inside]
Geek parent meets high school theater -- there must be an app for that?
I've got a kid enjoying high school theater, and I'd like to help. My skills do NOT run to hammers or sewing machines, but I can work Chrome / Google Docs / databases like a pro.
The costume designer is wishing for a way to track student measurements, costume notes, and pictures / photos in some sort of online / app format for going to fabric stores and keeping track of sewing progress. She's coveting an iPad mini to use with it, so I guess an app would be fine. I'd prefer a Chrome / Google Doc option, because I'm cheap.
LOVE to hear from costume designers / wardrobe coordinators who've figured this out. Extra credit points for people who know how to create a costume database for completed costumes after the shows.
Putting weird lenses on a micro four thirds body
I have a lovely little Lumix GF3. It has a 14mm lense. While I have great fun sticking the camera right in peoples faces to get a picture, I would like to get something a little more versatile. Ideally by buying inappropriate lenses from strange Chinese sites. [more inside]
posted by Iteki at 1:40 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Iteki at 1:40 PM PST - 7 comments
Can father be legally required or encouraged to improve housing?
Asking for a friend. She is wondering if anything can be done to get her ex-husband to move into larger accommodations and stop sharing a bed with her protesting children. [more inside]
posted by Chaussette and the Pussy Cats at 1:33 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by Chaussette and the Pussy Cats at 1:33 PM PST - 39 comments
interesting tree choices for South Carolina yard?
The very large pecan tree shading our backyard is dying and must go this winter. We're looking for a replacement to be centered in the (1/8 acre or so) backyard. We don't want another shade tree - just a nice tree to anchor the yard. I'm specifically looking for especially odd/unique/interesting options - something that will surprise people. This is in zone 8a and would probably start as a seedling.
posted by ftm at 1:22 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by ftm at 1:22 PM PST - 20 comments
Car-appy paint job
We have a 97 Jeep Cherokee, which has two flaws (according to my wife, who is the primary driver). One is the paint job, which is typical for a car of this age- many little scratches and dings from rocks and such, and the other is the headliner (the ceiling fabric), which is descending. We can't afford (nor is the car worth imho), a new paint job, and the headliner issue just makes me shake my...head. Anyway, I was hoping to DIY one or both of these things while I have access to the car between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by PlantGoddess at 1:02 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by PlantGoddess at 1:02 PM PST - 15 comments
How to drive cross country - safely - in the winter?
I'm driving from DC to Washington State in a few weeks, and will take the northern route (OH, IL, IA, SD, MT, ID, WA). I'm concerned about wintry weather, and want to take precautions for a safe drive. What are some best steps or considerations to get there safely? What worked well for you in similar circumstances? [more inside]
posted by LittleFuzzy at 1:01 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by LittleFuzzy at 1:01 PM PST - 20 comments
Need art portfolio app with extended text, for ipad
Can you recommend an app for iPad that will be useful both as an art portfolio and a sort of book creator? I'm trying to figure out a way to display small works of art with their short individual (fictional) backstories. So, sort of a picture book. Sort of an art gallery. [more inside]
Figuring it out
What should I learn next: Node.js or Android development? [more inside]
How can I listen to new music inside my blackhole office?
In my office at work, I have no FM radio reception, no cellular phone reception, and only have https internet access. Are there any internet music streaming sites using SSL? Or any podcasts I could download at home and bring to work? [more inside]
posted by mnemonic at 11:15 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mnemonic at 11:15 AM PST - 13 comments
Trying to find the title of a dog movie; perhaps Wilford Brimley
I'm vaguely remembering a movie, maybe a made-for-tv movie. The plot involved a kid, I think a boy, coming to live with relatives (?) Maybe he was a foster kid, or maybe the adults he was to live with were his grandparents. The kid wants a dog. Wilford Brimley, I believe, was the irascible grandfather with a heart of gold. [more inside]
posted by newdaddy at 10:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by newdaddy at 10:45 AM PST - 13 comments
Have you ever used a laundry pick-up/delivery service in Brooklyn?
Laundry is a major scourge in my life. It occurs to me that there are services that pick up and drop off your laundry. How…do those work? What sort of bag do I need to put my stuff in? How risky is it, i.e., what is the likelihood something will get lost or damaged? Most importantly, is there a service you can recommend in the Prospect Heights/Park Slope area?
posted by Charity Garfein at 10:17 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Charity Garfein at 10:17 AM PST - 9 comments
Running shoes without laces
Can anyone recommend some running shoes with no laces that don't need to be fitted in a running shop? Ideally they should be buyable in London tomorrow, or able to be delivered in the UK quite quickly. [more inside]
Help me make Beautiful Music with my computer.
What software for the Mac will let me import midi files and produce a full piano score for the song? [more inside]
posted by duckus at 10:00 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by duckus at 10:00 AM PST - 5 comments
I want to be heroic but not, you know, in an inconvenient way.
I recently lost my cat, and I would like to go to the local humane society to adopt another one. I would like to find a balance between selecting a cat that would both best fit the requirements of our household and one that would probably a lower chance of being adopted. Can you help me identify traits to look for? [more inside]
posted by bibliowench at 9:59 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by bibliowench at 9:59 AM PST - 17 comments
Choo choo cha question. About trains. For grammy.
Help me help grandma figure out what's in the passing trains. [more inside]
posted by letahl at 9:52 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by letahl at 9:52 AM PST - 9 comments
Newbie travelling to India
I'm contemplating travelling to India (New Delhi to start with) in January for ~10 days and meeting a friend there who is a naturalized US citizen who was born and raised in India. I know I need a visa in advance of leaving (gathered that much from the US State Dept website) but which kind? And: what else should I know?
posted by eustacescrubb at 9:49 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by eustacescrubb at 9:49 AM PST - 17 comments
Looking for a vacation spot in NC or Virginia, need help!
I'm planning to travel south from Massachusetts this summer's vacation, Virginia or NC (with elementary aged kids). Looking a home base with beautiful natural scenery, nice little restaurants nearby, and maybe a river to tube down. [more inside]
posted by beccaj at 9:47 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by beccaj at 9:47 AM PST - 12 comments
Area Woman Wants to Learn to Hit People
I'd like to take up a martial art, and there are a bewildering variety of them. Help me choose one and figure out where I can study it in my area. [more inside]
Computer shopping, what do I need?
I have a Dell Computer desktop that runs with Windows XP now. It is 11 years old and has been a good one but is running slow so it is time for a replacement. I just need the tower, I have been looking at Dell's website but am willing to try another brand if they are comparable.
I do not do any gaming on computer, just internet surfing and some Microsoft Office Word and Excel work. I have Internet through Dish Network Satellite. I have read if you are not into touch screens to get Windows 7 Home Edition. I don't think I want to go with refurbished computer and Amazon seems to be a popular choice for computer shoppers.
I have no idea really what to look for, the Dell Inspiron 660 is priced at $529 with 1 TB Hard Drive, 8 GB RAM, 6 M cache/up to 3.3 GHZ Intel Core i5 - 3340 processor.
There are other towers with 1 TB Hard Drive and 4 GB RAM - would this be a good choice?
Any suggestions appreciated.
SelfishFilter: Is there a polite way to say "gifts ok"?
Some friends are throwing us a wedding reception and have requested "no gifts" on the invitation. Can I somehow ask them to change that or is that just the done thing now? [more inside]
Pregnancy announcement at work
You all have helped me out with scripting a number of workplace situations, including lay-off, being hired, and sadly telling HR that I would not need maternity leave (which I asked anonymously, but no longer care if it became known). Plus, I've learned a lot from others' questions. So I'm hoping you can help me out again with telling my brand new employer that I am newly pregnant. [more inside]
posted by Kriesa at 8:48 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Kriesa at 8:48 AM PST - 18 comments
Non-sports competitions for adults
I'm most productive when I'm being competitive and there's outside pressure. I'd like to find some competitions or groups to give me this opportunity. [more inside]
Spend all the money on the car or use it to vacate Dodge?
A longish just post quarter life crisis question for my 30 year old daughter. Short version: jobless; car died; cost of repairs = every single penny coming from her 401K - her only income. Worth it to repair or should she b) leave town or c) get a cheaper beater car or d) got a Plan D? She could use a d. [more inside]
Considering divorce... or depression
Married almost 3 years, together for over 4 years. My husband is a funny, arrogant genius, and when I first met him he was very kind to me. Right after we got married, things changed... [more inside]
Live Cam?
How do I set up a live camera at my business? [more inside]
posted by unreasonable at 7:04 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by unreasonable at 7:04 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me stay warm: tall+slim outerwear for women
Winter coat filter: Hello minds of mefi, I am looking for an uber warm women's parka. Complexity level: I am six feet tall and size 4. Brands like North Face are great, but the sleeves are too short and waist is too wide. So I am looking for quality brads that I could look into that would fit a tall, slim woman. Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks in advance.
posted by mooselini at 7:03 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by mooselini at 7:03 AM PST - 9 comments
Ow. Ow. Ow. Ow.
Inside my right boot there is a thin fold in the material that is in the perfect spot to press directly onto my pinkie toe and hurt. How do I iron this out or something? Even the thickest socks don't help; it's like a Princess and the Pea thing going on. Ideas?
Murder Mystery/Thriller buffs, I need your help for Nano!
I debated whether to post this as I am not sure it is an acceptable use for AskMe, but I am stuck and need help! I have pantsed 39K of what I would describe as a plotless mess of an anti-novel, but I am determined to fiinsh. So even though this feels a bit like cheating, I am asking for advice related to plot issues in my Nano. [Warning - contains spoliers lol!] [more inside]
Help me win the hearts and mold the minds of my faraway niece and nephew
I'm spending the holidays with my sister and her family and need gift suggestions for her son and daughter, ages 8 and 6 respectively. Bonus for gifts about animals! [more inside]
What are some gender stereotypes that used to be reversed?
I am interested in gender stereotypes that used to be reversed or are the other way around in another culture. For example, pink used to be considered a vigorous masculine color and blue was a softer color associated with girls. Similarly, high heel used to be worn by men (as riding boots), but were introduced into women's fashion at a time when women were dressing to emulate men
November 23
What can I do to improve my old school gas-fired floor furnaces?
Are there improvements that can be done to them to improve their efficiency and safety?
Are there retrofits?
Would I be able to purchase something more modern that would directly replace the existing units? [more inside]
Is there some sort of etiquette in getting a second medical opinion?
I haven't had many medical problems over the course of my life, but recently I had two (separate) "emergency" hospitalizations for a condition that I had been unaware that I had/have. (Complicated diverticulitis with perforation). Both hospitalizations were truly harrowing and have pretty much turned my life upside down. Very serious! In the hospital (the 2nd time) a surgeon who was on call told me that it really is not a matter of if I need surgery, but when I need surgery. (He says I need a colon resection). [more inside]
CPAP Machines and TSA X-Rays
Why must CPAP machines be removed from their carrying cases when being X-rayed by the TSA? [more inside]
Point me to some harbors from the storm
November 2013 has been brutal. It has featured the sudden collapse of my prosperous business of 17 years, and simultaneously of my romantic relationship of 3 years, and now it looks like I'll be losing my home. What I'm left with is an income of only about $1100 per month, a battered heart, 100,000 frequent flyer miles, and a passport. Where can I go to get my head together? [more inside]
posted by dacoit at 8:55 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by dacoit at 8:55 PM PST - 19 comments
Where can I get more education, inexpensively?
I already have one bachelor's degree, and now I have all the time in the world, and a desire to learn even more. Which state offers low-cost or free-cost bachelor's degree programs, and can you just get into your car and go? What are my options for getting more education, inexpensively? [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 7:32 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by shipbreaker at 7:32 PM PST - 15 comments
In desperate need of Italian sausage recipes
Due to an impulse purchase at Costco, we have more mild/sweet Italian sausages than I know what to do with. I wanted a couple-few to stuff mushrooms and eat for lunch, and now we have enough to feed the entire neighborhood (which I would do if there were room to invite them over, but there's not). So please, give me your best recipes and ideas for Italian sausage! And your second-best, and third-best... Difficulty: no pasta, bread, or poratoes because we're eating low-carb for medical reasons.
posted by rhiannonstone at 6:28 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 6:28 PM PST - 40 comments
Meal planning extreme!
Help me app-ify the way that I plan for meals for extreme streamlining given a series of food restrictions. [more inside]
What should I put in a meal in-a-box?
What meals-in-a-box should I send to my darling? [more inside]
What are the lyrics for Vlasta Popic's song, Nova?
I don't speak Croatian, but I need to find out whether the lyrics to the song "Nova" by Vlasta Popic are objectionable. If anyone can understand the song lyrics, could you tell me what the singer is singing about, and if any part of it would be offensive to little old Croatian ladies?
http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Vlasta_Popi/ [more inside]
A JFK assassination book that stays away from conspiracies?
I'm looking for a book about JFK's assassination that covers the events leading up to, during and following the assassination, but not one that gets bogged down in discussing the various conspiracy theories. A book that's written by a respected historian with a good reputation works the best. Thanks!
Searching for more squonky sax.
What is some music that sounds like this?
I keep thinking GE Smith SNL intros, but there has to be a well of this somewhere- I hope?
Need tall slim women's boots
My wife ordered these boots but they are not slim enough in the calf. (The site states they are 13" around at the top but it is really 16".) She can't find anything under $300 that is a slender enough size. She's about 5'3", ~110 lbs, size 8 shoe. Any suggestions? Would like to keep it under $150-200 if possible.
posted by tracer at 4:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by tracer at 4:57 PM PST - 8 comments
Would it be ok to ask this person for a reference letter?
I haven't known him for that long. And am in a position of privilege [more inside]
posted by winterportage at 4:50 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by winterportage at 4:50 PM PST - 17 comments
Home practice guitar amp for 80's hair metal fan?
I'm brainstorming ideas for a Christmas gift. The recipient is a fan of 80's hair metal (Van Halen especially) and has a guitar but no amp for playing at home. Sound quality is the thing I'm after, it doesn't need to be too loud. [more inside]
Should I buy a camera?
That's my question, really... I'll be going on a short overseas trip soon and I'm still undecided about whether or not I should splurge in a new camera. Surprisingly long (more inside) for a camera question. Please advise. [more inside]
posted by misozaki at 3:57 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by misozaki at 3:57 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me improve my dismal musical ability!
I'm looking for a piece of music training software, designed for use with a MIDI keyboard, that will help develop my dexterity and general competence with melody, harmony, and chords. [more inside]
A question of screws
I've got some heavy things mounted on the wall (mirrors, mostly) that are mounted (and can only be mounted) by hanging them onto two screws inside their top corners. There are no screws at the bottom, and there is no way for them to be: but I'd like them not to fall down if they are hit from the base and pushed upwards, lifting them off the screws. [more inside]
Christmas Sweater Question
I need to buy a christmas sweater for someone with one very important detail. [more inside]
posted by poffin boffin at 2:01 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by poffin boffin at 2:01 PM PST - 23 comments
What's it called when you have label inks in an illustration?
Realistic question: What is it called in printing when a copy of the art has inks labeled with lines and callouts and labels? Long "this would solve everything" question inside [more inside]
Finding the markets for your salvage?
I am in a remote rural area of Atlantic Canada. There is as much old collapsing shit here as a person could want, I have only been here a short while and already have more salvage than I know what to do with, it's an embarrassment of riches! [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb at 1:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Meatbomb at 1:27 PM PST - 13 comments
Wedding Dance Lessons NYC
Weddingfilter: My fiance and I are getting married in NYC in October, we'd like advice on Wedding dance classes. We'd like personal recommendations if anyone has experience with specific places. [more inside]
posted by edbles at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by edbles at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
Any bright ideas to bolster my diagnosis about this electric motor?
Troubleshooting an ancient 3hp split phase 240 VAC motor, I found a likely problem, which I fixed, and the fine old beast still trips the breaker. Join me in my diagnosis, and suggest if further work is warranted. [more inside]
Educational mathamatics apps for adults that will work on an iPhone?
I am looking for adult-oriented iOS apps that will help improve my math skills. [more inside]
Adventure vacation suggestions
Help me plan our next vacation. [more inside]
Do I really need both stocks AND bonds in my long-term investments?
I am planning to invest for retirement (35+ years away) in a Roth IRA. I've always been told to have a mix of stocks and bonds in any portfolio, starting at about a 90/10 split for someone my age. Considering that I'm not going to touch this money for a very long time, wouldn't I be better off just putting my money into some low expense ratio index funds and skipping the bonds altogether? This seems to fly in the face of every investment advice I've ever seen, but I don't understand why. [more inside]
Same-sex marriage: what does it legally mean?
Dear Metafilter:
My girlfriend and I (also a lady) want to get married. Yay! Now what exactly does that mean for us? [more inside]
I'm looking for an article about an old woman that looks fabulous.
Roughly a week ago I read an article about an elderly woman (eighties or nineties) that looked fantastic for her age. I cannot find it. [more inside]
posted by Fairchild at 10:58 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Fairchild at 10:58 AM PST - 3 comments
How to set up a weekly meal planning/recipe subscription service?
I would like to set up weekly meal planning/recipe/shopping list service. I follow a certain dietary plan -(NOT paleo )and think that that there i a gap in the market for a simple menu/shopping list which arrives in your inbox every week.
The problem is that I have no idea how to go about setting it up.I am a very decent cook and have done this for myself for about a year,so I already have a whole set of recipes and tricks that are diet compliant.
I need to know if there are any software options that I should be looking at and I have no problem investing the money for someone else to do it-but I'm not even sure who I should be approaching!I would like to be able to modify it and maybe offer add ons/customizations if it was successful.
So any help and advice would be gratefully received!
Thank you!
Scraping/Painting an Old House With Layers of Lead Paint
The exterior of my 100 year old house (dutch colonial) is a mess: layers of paint atop paint. Nobody's ever scraped because there's obviously lead in there. So at this point, it's a gunky, peeling mess. And I don't want to resort to siding. I got one estimate to scrape (in full-out hazmat suits and containment set-ups, etc) and paint for $25K. Yeow! I don't want to make anyone sick - not the painters, nor the kids in the nabe - I really don't. Are there less expensive options?
posted by Quisp Lover at 9:20 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 9:20 AM PST - 25 comments
Advice for Massachusetts Road Test
I will be taking my first road test on Monday, in Massachusetts (specifically, Lynn). I'd like to hear from people who've taken this test in the past. What were you asked to do?
I'd particularly like to hear from people who've failed the test: where did you fall down? [more inside]
posted by HoraceH at 9:05 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by HoraceH at 9:05 AM PST - 19 comments
Hourly contract rate for SQL in the UK?
I'm an American in the UK and have been hired to do some freelance work for a tech company in Northern England. I'm not sure what to charge for my hourly rate. I am working in SQL, writing queries and turning them into data visualizations for the web (using Ruby and Javascript/HTML). I am very junior, although quite competent at SQL; I'm coming up (and quickly) in the other areas. [more inside]
What to do with my life?
I'm at a crossroads, and I want to figure out a few things:
a) What I can do with my interests, in the long run.
b) What I need to do in order to achieve my goals.
c) Whether I should start undergrad next year.
d) What I should do with the next year of my life if I don't start undergrad next year.
Long details inside, but if you have a personal story of how you handled these decisions that has nothing to do with my special-snowflakeyness, I'd love to hear it, too. [more inside]
To DHA or not DHA when pregnant?
Hello! My wife is pregnant with our first child (second trimester.) She's been taking a DHA supplement (Nordic Naturals PreNatal) for prenatal brain development, but has suddenly gotten worried about whether it's good to take a DHA supplement. Our doctor/nurse pretty much has no advice on this matter. Now my wife is worrying about mercury/lead though we can't find any evidence that this actually exists in fish oils, or Nordic Naturals in particular. Take it or not? [more inside]
posted by EtTuHealy at 7:22 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by EtTuHealy at 7:22 AM PST - 18 comments
California / Southwest road trip itinerary advice
Boyfriend and I are planning a round trip (by rental car) through California and the Southwest and we'd love some input on the first rough draft of the route. We're going for 23 days in September next year and would like to stay in fairly affordable hotels and motels (no camping). [more inside]
posted by Skybly at 7:20 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by Skybly at 7:20 AM PST - 34 comments
How can I listen to cricket broadcasts in the US?
How can I listen to live Ashes cricket radio commentary in the US? During the first leg of the series played in England, I listened to Test Match Special via the "British Radios" app but all I get now when I choose the BBC Radio 5 link is a message telling me that "this part of the program is unavailable due to rights restrictions." I cannot access the ABC through the Grandstand website. Clicking on the live commentary link gets me ads for Grandstand but no Jim Maxwell. The link on the Cricket Australia site is dead. Google hasn't helped me. I'd rather listen on my iPhone or iPad (ios7) but I'll resort to a laptop if needed. Is there a free solution I've overlooked? Is there a paid option I haven't found? If it turns out that I can't listen to broadcasts can someone please explain why?
posted by firstdrop at 6:48 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by firstdrop at 6:48 AM PST - 13 comments
November 22
What is this movie?
Nutritionally Balanced Fish Recipes
Recommendations for fish recipes that include a carbohydrate and a substantial vegetable component? Alternatively, what are your favourite vegetable side dishes/pairings for fish? [more inside]
Find me a beer similar to Golden Road Berliner Weisse
What beer can I easily find that will be closest to Golden Road's Berliner Weisse? [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow at 9:37 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by otherwordlyglow at 9:37 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for pc action-adventure game from the 90's
-PC action-adventure game, mostly action, but I do remember simple adventure things like moving blocks or unlocking doors
-first person view
-can't remember how health stats and weaponry were viewed
-Had to rescue a woman (go figure), but not sure if she was royalty or anything, just motivation to do the journey
-Started in kobold (or kobolt) caverns, there was a spider cavern section where it was tunnels burrowed by the spiders themselves, a lava cavern/mining level where you had to break down a rock borer (might have been a laser)
-mid to late 90's probably because it's graphics were close to Quake 2, just not as smooth [more inside]
posted by LittleNami at 9:27 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by LittleNami at 9:27 PM PST - 9 comments
What car to buy?
Let's play the ask-the-green-what-car-I-should-buy game. [more inside]
What are the best cities for a mid-thirties single woman?
What are the best cities for a mid-thirties single woman? [more inside]
Is there any reason to change this compromised password? And if so, how?
My "throw-away" password is in the list of those compromised by the Adobe hack. It's a common dictionary word that I use for sites that I really don't care about security on: things that I don't even understand why they should be password protected, "test-driving" sites or products where I don't intend to keep using them, and an old email account that was for a blog that I haven't updated in about four years. (And I don't use the account any more). I'm pretty unconcerned about it being compromised. Is there any reason I should worry? And if I do want to change it, is there any way to find out what all the sites are that I have used it on in the past? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by lollusc at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Should I buy my son a hookah for Christmas?
Should I buy my son a hookah for Christmas? [more inside]
Help Me Find Some Giant-Sized Snacks!
So, a few weeks ago we were in Freeport, Maine and saw a giant whoopie pie, which we knew immediately would be the perfect Chrismas gift for my youngest brother. Then, tonight, my wife found a giant Rice Krispie Treat, which she bought as a Christmas gift for my middle brother. So now we have A Theme for amusing consumables for the rest of the family. But now we need to come up with some other Abnormally Large Food Items for 5-6 other family members. Help me find them. [more inside]
posted by briank at 5:12 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by briank at 5:12 PM PST - 39 comments
Looking for Jiro or Fuyu Persimmon recipes
My neighbor has a persimmon tree. They are the squat, bright orange type of persimmons, likely Fuyu or Jiro. They look like this. I have tasted one and it has the texture of an apple. The skin is edible. The flavor is honey. What can I do? [more inside]
wanted: brick-and-mortar store in Chicago for winter coats
First Chicago winter for a California native. Need recommendations for stores that have good-quality but not-too-expensive winter coats. [more inside]
Can we eat it: talking a green streak version
We have just the right number of potatoes per person. Organic Yukon. One of them had a green streak visible through the skin -- I can't see everything that's inside, of course. Can we eat this potato? I cut off the visible green part.
There is a lot of Toxic Green Potato lore out there. I just can't believe it's a big deal -- I mean, a busy sous chef would never throw out a potato for a bit of a green streak, right? or even notice it?-- but another cook in our kitchen thinks it's dangerous toxic mold. Yes, the potato was only 25 cents or something, but it would be nice for everyone to have their baked potato if there's no reason to toss it. The potatoes will be done in an hour, so thanks!
posted by third rail at 4:10 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by third rail at 4:10 PM PST - 13 comments
Human assumptions?
Lists of assumptions? [more inside]
Does black carbon silt coming from the filter in my ZeroWater pitcher co
Does black carbon silt coming from the filter in my ZeroWater pitcher contain any of the stuff it filtered out? [more inside]
posted by vash at 3:25 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by vash at 3:25 PM PST - 1 comment
Batman: Linguistic Origins
What are some examples of really easy/obvious etymological descents that most people aren't really aware of? I'm trying to prove to somebody that there are a lot of these in the english language but I've forgotten most of the interesting ones I used to know. [more inside]
posted by tehloki at 2:59 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by tehloki at 2:59 PM PST - 28 comments
How do I get the "follow" button to show up on Facebook posts?
I have a Galaxy S3 that I've been using to check facebook groups by clicking on the link in my email notification, then opening it in Chrome. I like to "follow" posts to get email notification if anyone else comments. I just got a Nexus 7, and when I access my groups in Chrome, there's no follow button, only "like," "comment," and "share." The follow button does show up in Firefox, but Firefox doesn't let me pinch zoom. Trying to click on the link in my email and then choosing the facebook app to open it with doesn't work at all.
So if anyone has ideas about how to either make the "follow" button show up in Chrome or how to zoom in Firefox or if I should use a different browser/app, please let me know. Thanks!
posted by madonna of the unloved at 2:48 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by madonna of the unloved at 2:48 PM PST - 1 comment
Where can I find high-waisted boy's pants?
My kiddo, like his dad, has a pants problem. Specifically, while his legs are only slightly longer than normal, he is built in such a way that regular pants don't make it far enough up his butt. Basically, he needs pants that are longer in the crotch-to-waistline area and can pull up higher. Most boy pants don't have a lot of room for that. We end up with either plumber crack or uncomfortably hitched pants. [more inside]
How to discuss possible theft with house cleaner?
I have had the same house cleaner every two weeks for close to 20 years with no issues. He is very honest. The main guy comes every time and I trust him enough to have a key to my house, but his crew of 2 or 3 that accompanies him seems to change. On Sunday night I wore a diamond pendant and 3 not-valuable stacking rings. I recall removing them and placing them in the drawer where they live when I'm not wearing them. The cleaning people came Wednesday. I went to wear them again today (Friday) and found the necklace and one of the three stacking rings missing. [more inside]
posted by cecic at 2:37 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by cecic at 2:37 PM PST - 17 comments
Doctor my eyes have seen the tears
The past few days, my eyes, especially my right eye, have been watering a lot. Like, people keep thinking I'm crying a perfect single tear. But there has been no redness, no swelling, no anything, other than tears running down my cheek or waking up with salty crust on my eyes. Last night and today, however, are a different story. Snowflakiness inside. [more inside]
posted by emcat8 at 2:29 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by emcat8 at 2:29 PM PST - 16 comments
Recommendations for a robot kit to build to with my two young sons?
I'm looking for recommendations, please, for a robot kit to with my two young sons, 9 and 7. I want it to be a serious project, which will produce a fairly sophisticated animal-like robot, with sensors, navigational abilities, learning abilities, etc. I also want the project to be educational, so that the kids learn something about robotics, electronics, and computing. [more inside]
posted by kitfreeman at 2:29 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by kitfreeman at 2:29 PM PST - 6 comments
Awkward neighbor
My neighbor attempted to ask me out today. I'm not interested. How do I keep things from being awkward while living here for another year and a half? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 2:18 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 2:18 PM PST - 43 comments
How do I get blood out of sheets that have been washed?
I have a 3-4 quarter sized blood stains on white sheets. The sheets were laundered and ran through a dryer. Anyway to get it out? They're definitely a lighter color then before, but still visible since the sheets are white. [more inside]
To sign or not to sign
I'm doing a series of digitally printed images on canvas for a show. I've only done this screen printed before, so this time with the digital prints, I'm not sure what to do about signing and numbering them. Is this something I should do? Not? [more inside]
Ontario plumber hassles
Hired plumber to fix water softener. $357 later I am worse off than I was before I hired the plumber. What remedies are available to me in Ontario...? [more inside]
posted by kmennie at 1:54 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by kmennie at 1:54 PM PST - 2 comments
Cross-cultural meal times & frequency
How standard is the 3-meals-a-day eating behaviour? What about times of day for eating, x-culturally? It would be interesting to hear any insights from folks outside of North America. Thank you!
How do I deal with my spouse having an external romantic relationship?
I found out my partner of 20 years/spouse of 11 was having an emotional/romantic affair with our best friend and lied to me about it. Now that we've gone through the initial reveal, I've told her I've forgiven her; she's hinting she's been thinking about romantic relationships outside of our marriage. tl;dr- Are we done here or can this be saved? [more inside]
What do you do when you're new in a job, and your life goes to hell?
I'm new in a job, and so far I've received extremely positive reviews, however I've noticed that I'm making mistakes that are unlike me because I'm terribly distracted by personal challenges. Some snowflakes inside. [more inside]
What could they be, the 12 Flavours of Hercules?
Homebrewing brother brainstorming for a series of Classically-inspired beers. One such thought - 12 Labors of Hercules. Trying to pin down geographically helps - lots of apples, oranges, dates, different kinds of aromatic trees, etc. Milk stouts for the cattle. Have any of you seen a food/drink play on the 12 Labors before?
Summer Slippers/House Shoes?
My mum and I have been wearing simple fabric embroidered slippers (as house shoes) for years. The store we used to buy them from (in Chinatown Sydney) for $10 each has closed down and I can't for the life of me find a new supplier. [more inside]
posted by bingoes at 12:55 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by bingoes at 12:55 PM PST - 6 comments
Is there a way to regulate a steam radiator?
Apartment dweller here; I don't use much heat, and believe there is an addition to one-pipe steam radiator to regulate them? Anything on the market? reliable? cost?
Weekend headaches: WTF?
For the last two weeks, I've woken up on Saturday morning with a nasty headache that has lasted the entire day. Help? [more inside]
What are some good tabletop role playing games similar to D&D?
What is a good "offline" role playing game that I can buy as a gift for a 12 year old who has just gotten really into Dungeons & Dragons? (affordable ones?- under 25 dollars? other than d&d obviously)
Tips on Portraying Santa Claus?
I have to portray Santa Claus at my library in a few weeks and would appreciate some suggestions! [more inside]
posted by cinemafiend at 10:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by cinemafiend at 10:21 AM PST - 8 comments
Non-photographer has to learn to use a studio light kit ASAP
Because I've taken photos that people like, my boss has given me the task of shooting a few corporate studio portraits using the company's equipment (studio light kit and light meter). The problem is that I've never used any of this stuff and have no idea where to begin. I've watched a few YouTube videos but they seem to assume some familiarity with the topic. I have none! While I understand things like f-stop and shutter speed, I've always used the auto settings on my camera. I have any eye for composition but no practical photo equipment skills. Can anyone offer a quick tutorial on how I use this stuff? [more inside]
posted by Jamesonian at 10:13 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Jamesonian at 10:13 AM PST - 12 comments
Looking for a cognitive therapist in Ulster County, NY!
My father has recently suffered brain trauma and needs cognitive therapy. He is at a rehab center now but we are hoping to move him to outpatient soon. First we need to find a good cognitive (and possibly occupational) therapist. He lives in the Kingston/New Paltz area of New York. [more inside]
Suggestions needed for romantic deliveries before the big proposal
On the day I'm planning to propose, I want to flood my partner with deliveries at the office. I'm already planning on: flowers, fruit basket, balloon-o-gram.
I'm hoping for additional suggestions of items to send. Difficulty level - gluten free. Bonus question - looking for a courier who will deliver in east Toronto/Scarborough (for gluten free baked goods, which I need to source - recommendations?) [more inside]
Short video for in-class discussion of film techniques
In class next week I'll be doing a "shot at a time" session as described by Roger Ebert, and I need a short (~30 min), visually interesting, readily available video to show in class. [more inside]
posted by fogovonslack at 9:33 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by fogovonslack at 9:33 AM PST - 16 comments
Please recommend some DJ mixes to put on my running iPod
I've started listening to hour long DJ mixes as the soundtrack to my daily runs. I love BigBeat, Funk, GlobalHouse, Soul, mash-up type stuff. There are millions of DJ sets to download but the names mean nothing to me as I left the 'scene' well over a decade ago and find searching for new artists exhausting. Current faves and musical tastes inside, please help me find more? [more inside]
posted by BlerpityBloop at 9:32 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by BlerpityBloop at 9:32 AM PST - 9 comments
How do I get reimbursed for out of network health expenses
I have had quite a lot of medical expenses this year - much of it not covered by insurance.
I will speak to my accountant about tax write offs.
Is there anyway to get reimbursed for any of the following out of network:
blood tests (expensive tests)
phone consultations
dr visits
vitamins
travel time
Thank you in advance
Axis of Awesome?
At our company, the "Centre of Excellence" has been too overused, and we've been asked to come up with an alternative. We're hoping to find one that also spells something memorable (Centre of Genius would be COG which is not quite what we'd like).
Can you help us? If it helps, the context is around a new PMO Dept, who is intended to be the new Centre of Excellence around project management. Although we have a little leeway, it needs to be professional, so "Axis of Awesome" probably won't fly (not to mention it doesn't spell anything).
posted by routergirl at 9:18 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by routergirl at 9:18 AM PST - 8 comments
How do I break up with a partner who is going through a rough time?
My partner of several years and I are in a long-distance relationship, and I think I've come to the point where, due to a whole bunch of things (which probably mostly rely on a fundamental difference in what we want in terms of a romantic relationship), that I want out. At the same time, I do care about them, and since they are in a really rough spot, I don't want to abandon them. [more inside]
Leather + shampoo =?
Shampoo spilled in my suitcase. My leather boots and leather pumps were stained. I tried absorbing the shampoo but the stains are still there. Home remedies? Take to dry cleaner? Cobbler? [more inside]
I work with a vampire.
Please help me sort out a human relations issue I'm having with a coworker. I feel exhausted when I work with this person. The easy answer seems to be Talk with her about it, but I imagine the conversation just creating more exhausting drama. And, seeing as it's a work relationship (colleague), I wonder if the right thing for me to do is suck it up and accept that part of what makes it paid work is dealing with different personalities. Any unpacking advice? [more inside]
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:44 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:44 AM PST - 36 comments
DC on Black Friday... Non Shopping Suggestions, Please!
My husband and I have the opportunity to be dropped off at the Metro (red line, Glenmont side) at around 11:00am and picked back up there around 5:30-6:00pm on Friday 11/29, the day after Thanksgiving. What should we do? What's open? [more inside]
Where to buy kitchen utensils in Berkeley, California?
To be precise, I need to purchase a gift voucher (online) for a store selling kitchen utensils in Berkeley. Details inside. [more inside]
What's your favourite dance workout?
I love workout DVDs, but often HATE the music they have in them. I get especially annoyed when the instructor isn't even moving to the beat, so imagine my joy when I discovered Zumba a couple of weeks ago! I don't have a regular schedule, so can't really guarantee that I'll be able to attend classes, so I think I'll be exercising in my small living room.
What other DVDs or styles of fun and intense dancey workout things should I try?
Bonus points for something that burns off a lot in a short amount of time.
posted by joboe at 8:16 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by joboe at 8:16 AM PST - 8 comments
Tennants rights re: storm broken window.
Yesterday I left 2 apartment windows cranked partially open and, in the heavy winds later that evening, they broke. There is a possibility my landlord could try and charge us for replacing them (~$175 ea). Help me prep in case it goes that way. Oakland, CA. [more inside]
I think I need a UPS? If so, which one?
When the heater in my place (convector) cycles off, my TV goes black for a second or two. I worry a lot about what this is doing to all of the electronics using outlets in the same wall as the convector. Do you think I need a UPS, and can you guide me through the process? Details inside! [more inside]
Post Apocalypse Fic in a Car
My husband needs audiobooks for a boring night shift that work on his (android) phone. He really likes apocalypse and dystopian fiction, as well as classic sci-fi. More inside. [more inside]
Good weekday DSLR beginners courses in London?
I've recently found myself with an excessive amount of holiday which needs to be taken in December so I've decided to buy myself a Digital SLR and go on a beginners photography course in London. However given that I won't be working and it's the winter (so limited hours of light), I want one that runs during the day. Help! [more inside]
posted by mr_silver at 7:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by mr_silver at 7:50 AM PST - 4 comments
How to deal with a stalking e-mail sent to 12 year old girl
My friend's 12 year old daughter just received a disturbing anonymous e-mail. What should my friend do? [more inside]
Help me do passwords like I should.
So, I was one of many people to have my adobe account information leaked. Though I know I shouldn't, I use that same password on lots of different accounts. I've changed them on the important ones, but how do people possibly keep the dozens of passwords for every different website straight? [more inside]
posted by fontophilic at 7:18 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by fontophilic at 7:18 AM PST - 37 comments
Guidelines for roof work in MA
Our landlord sent us an email last week telling us that they were doing roof work on our building. They asked us to leave the driveway free so they could put a dumspter there, which we did. They're currently *doing* the roof work, but there is no dumpster, no scaffolding, and no work permit, and they setting up to go up on the roof in the rain. Is this kosher? There are safety nets, but as far as I can tell nothing else. This is for a commercial property in Massachusetts [more inside]
posted by puckish at 7:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by puckish at 7:12 AM PST - 8 comments
I can't do much, but I can help cook! Best recipes for freezing, please!
Going home unexpectedly for a week this December because of a sick parent. Aside from being there for moral support, I would like to help make food for future meals. Snowflakes within. [more inside]
This post will change your life!
How can I best fill two hours in order to help young adults? [more inside]
posted by Cuke at 5:41 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Cuke at 5:41 AM PST - 17 comments
How do courses at dinner work where you live?
I am in the UK and am fascinated by a 'salad course' separate to either a starter or main course. I would like to know how that works, and how a typical multi-course meal would go where you live. [more inside]
Can I open a European bank account in Finland from the internet?
I'd like to open a bank account from a bank of any EU member country, preferably opening it over the internet, and I am an American Citizen, in Finland on a tourist visa. (details inside) [more inside]
experts on portuguese literature senior academics preferably
can anyone direct me to some experts on either portuguese literary translation, portuguese literature or 19th century portuguese literary realism senior academics preferably or people with a PHD anywhere in the world who write in english? [more inside]
posted by sparkle55 at 4:03 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by sparkle55 at 4:03 AM PST - 4 comments
MacBook G4 SUDOERS file At COMMAND PROMPT - Can't Exit - Help
So someone gifted me with an old MacBook G4 - and now stuck in Command Prompt. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 1:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by watercarrier at 1:05 AM PST - 9 comments
November 21
Help Me Figure Out the Best Finanacial Strategy
I'm unexpectedly broke. How do I get cash to use now, and a way to pay tuition and living expenses soon -- with the least risk of ending up in this situation again? [more inside]
posted by rue72 at 11:36 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by rue72 at 11:36 PM PST - 19 comments
Alcohol 101
I just turned 21, and believe it or not, I have done very little drinking of alcohol until now.
However there is now a plethora of choice I am newly privvy to, and I am interested in trying some things out. But I would like some advice. [more inside]
Switching to 12-hour night shifts: what am I missing?
I'm a new nurse, just getting used to working second shift, now I'm switching to overnight 12-hour shifts.
I haven't fully adjusted to the second shift way of life after two months of it, so I'm rather concerned with how this is going to go. I know intellectually the importance of sleep, proper meals, socialization, finances.... What am I missing? [more inside]
posted by RainyJay at 11:09 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by RainyJay at 11:09 PM PST - 18 comments
how do you find / hire a researcher (for a freelance project)?
I am looking for one or more professionals to find interesting moments in the history of one of the detroit car makers. someone who can i.e. provide me with information out of which I can make interesting "on this day in 1952, this happened" articles. how should I go about finding the right person for this project? [more inside]
Children's book about two kittens on a witch's broomstick
My daughter vaguely remembers a picture book from her childhood (10+ years ago) about two lost kittens who find there way to a witch's house, then stow away in her bag while she flies off to a witch convention (or party?). When they stick their heads out of the bag, their eyes look like headlights in the moonlight, so the witch lets them stay.
Does this sound at all familiar? Googling turns up some near misses. It isn't "Room on a Broom," or one of the "Worst Witch" books.
Help me find two animations from early-mid 2000s
There were two animations I saw years ago pre-youtube that have stuck with me, but I no longer have a link to the animation itself, or even name. However, I'm pretty sure I originally found these animations here on metafilter. One was a live-action city being invaded by fun animated characters. The other was a Japanese Red Riding Hood-esque animation (much more animation than this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oEhxd16f0A). So if you can help me figure out what these are from my loose recollection, I will be amazed. [more inside]
Help me fill out my birthday mix cd!
As a small birthday gift for a friend, I want to make a mix of birthday songs. I'm looking for rap, hip-hop, R&B, and upbeat pop/dance songs that reference birthdays. I have some already, but not enough for a worthwhile mix cd, which is where I need Mefite help. [more inside]
posted by Fig at 8:17 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Fig at 8:17 PM PST - 12 comments
Any websites or blogs similar to this one?
I'm thinking of starting a low-key blog that posts black and white photographs of impoverished and disadvantaged people from around the world. The stories don't have to be elaborate or contain a lot of photos. Each one can consist of only one photo and a short description of the person's plight. Are there any similar websites/blogs out there? [more inside]
posted by omar.a at 8:00 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by omar.a at 8:00 PM PST - 21 comments
Breaking Up is Hard to Do: medical system edition
I think I need to dump my primary care doctor under bad circumstances. He's abrasive, no longer coordinating my healthcare and has been suddenly unwilling to perform the services I pay for as part of a $3k+ yearly concierge program. After being a real boon to my healthcare as somebody with a rare disease for years, his treatment of me changed on a dime this fall. I blamed myself initially -- or thought he was just having a difficult day/week/month. It turns out he's being disciplined for severe incompetence (like, jaw dropping) and the practice will be monitored for many years. He has been so angry and abusive just to my husband picking up paper that I don't feel safe in the room alone with him. How can I tell new doctors why I'm leaving? How should I wrap things up? *blizzard* [more inside]
What hoop-jumping is necessary to take or audit classes at NYU?
I graduated from college in 2010, and have lived in downtown NYC ever since. I'm getting the desire to take some classes again, and NYU is a few blocks away. But I can't find any information on how to get into classes there, as a non-student. [more inside]
posted by Jacen Solo at 7:08 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Jacen Solo at 7:08 PM PST - 6 comments
What are your office whiteboard tips and tricks?
I just got a 3' x 4' (91 cm x 121 cm) whiteboard installed in my office. And I can't think of a single way to use it. Any ideas? [more inside]
A microwavable Thanksgiving
My son and I are both gluten-free and incredibly sensitive to cross-contamination. We are going to a big family thanksgiving where the food will not be GF and cross-contamination will ruin the food that normally is. (a serving spoon being shared between dishes or someone dropping bread crumbs on an open dish would leave me very sick).
I would like to bring dishes so my son and I can enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving meal. I don't mind spending this whole weekend cooking and freezing so he has a nice Thanksgiving. The only problem is that everything we bring has to be microwavable...
So help me MFites. What are your favorite Thanksgiving recipes that would hold up well to being warmed up from frozen in a microwave. (Don't worry about the recipe being gluten-free -- I'm pretty good at converting recipes).
posted by LittleMy at 6:55 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by LittleMy at 6:55 PM PST - 8 comments
Gifts for the Twelve Days of Christmas?
My sister needs help coming up with gift ideas for the twelve days of Christmas! [more inside]
posted by chatongriffes at 6:49 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by chatongriffes at 6:49 PM PST - 6 comments
Going to my boyfriend's grandma funeral
Hi, guys. My boyfriend's grandma died today of a brain tumor. I come from a culture where when someone dies you all go and spend time and mourn together with the close family of the dead. It is something similar to viewing in America.
Now he calls me tonight and tells me she died and that the funeral is on Monday. Then he says that probably this weekend he will go home to his parents house and spend the weeken with them and that might be best if I don't go because I might not see them at their best and that way he gets to see them alone because he hasn't really spend any time alone with his family ever since we started dating.
Like I said, I am Romanian and in our tradition you want exactly the opposite , people to come by and sit by your side. Is that a cultural change in America? Is he right? Is he acting goofy? Just don't know if I should just shut up and mind my own business? This is weird because he was ok before with me spending the entire weeken in the hospice. Tell me how would you react from an American perspective? We have different cultures.
Help me find a big-button phone for my elderly father
My father has been using a plain old phone for decades. He's been somewhat visually impaired for a long time, but recently he started receiving an eye treatment in his one good eye that has reduced his vision even further. He also has low dexterity (though his mind's still totally sharp) due to a stroke earlier this year. He needs a new phone. Help! [more inside]
What calendar/scheduling program might have output this graphic?
I've taken over a graphic design project and need to update this weekly calendar image (just the schedule part, not the kids on rolling globes). But I only have the image, not the original working file. Where did it come from? [more inside]
posted by nevers at 6:36 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by nevers at 6:36 PM PST - 5 comments
What is the best used car for the money?
I am buying my first car. I am thrifty so I'd like it to be used because I think I will find the best deal there; I just don't like the idea of spending all of that money for a rapidly depreciating asset and I'd rather buy it after it has already depreciated some.
I am looking for one of two types of cars, either:
1) A sporty, but economical car (think Honda S2000, Mazda Miata)
2) A long lasting electric/hybrid (ie Nissan Leaf, Toyota Prius, Corolla, etc)
Please let me know what your suggestions are, along with any caveats to buying a used car. I do not know much about cars. Should I bring a friend who does or hire a mechanic to inspect my car before purchase? Also, where is the best place to find a good deal? Thank you all.
Help me toddler-proof our apartment!
Three-year-old relative coming to stay with us for four days over Christmas. We need to toddler-proof our place. [more inside]
Can you use standard Handlebar Mounts on the Frame of a Wheelchair
I'm looking into easy ways to mount lighting to the frame of my wheelchair. It's easy to purchase items designed to be mounted to the handlebars of a bicycle, but I'm wondering if anyone here has ever used those same mounts to secure something (like a safety light) to the frame of there chair.
posted by OpnSrce at 6:13 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by OpnSrce at 6:13 PM PST - 6 comments
Inexpensive Electric Menorah in London?
So you're Jewish and homesick and in London and all you want for your Chanukah miracle is an inexpensive electric menorah. How can this be achieved? [more inside]
Help me understand the difference between 28dB, 38dB and 48dB.
Help me understand the difference between 28dB, 38dB and 48dB.
I'm thinking about buying a fridge, and the fridges I'm considering have noise levels ranging from 28dB to 47dB (according to the latest fridge assessment in Choice).
Fridges with a 28dB noise level rating are too expensive for me, though, so I'm trying to find something I can afford but which won't annoy me too much (I'm sensitive to the noise of a buzzing fridge). What I can afford tends to be somewhere in the mid-30s dB range.
But it's no use going into a noisy showroom and trying to properly gauge how a fridge will sound in my quiet home. So I'm wondering if there's a way I can test these different noise levels at home before I buy, to see what's the difference.
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 5:12 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 5:12 PM PST - 9 comments
High quality audio dramas?
I have been enjoying We're Alive. What are some similarly high-quality serial audio dramas? They can be ongoing or not. I particularly enjoy post-apocalypse fiction and historical fantasy along the lines of Jacqueline Carey. I'm not a huge fan of science fiction, but otherwise I'm open.
[Australia filter] Weirdness with Telstra connection in rented house
I'm trying to get a phone line and broadband set up in the house I'm renting. When the Telstra technician came round to set up the connection, he gave up and left without completing the order because it appears the phone sockets on the walls aren't connected to the line to crosses the boundary from the Telstra pit outside the property. WTF? [more inside]
posted by infinitejones at 4:57 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by infinitejones at 4:57 PM PST - 18 comments
Work and depression
I had a nervous breakdown at work two weeks ago. At the insistence of my doctor, I took medical leave and am now in a partial hospitalization program being treated for depression and anxiety. [more inside]
Is endless crying during therapy really a good thing?
I have been seeing a sex therapist for about six weeks. We started off with a very specific focus but she now seems to be having trouble figuring out where to start with the Hydra of my emotional issues. [more inside]
posted by chaiminda at 3:15 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by chaiminda at 3:15 PM PST - 8 comments
The Meltdown Kid
My husband and I have been married 15 years and we have an 8-year-old daughter. She is incredibly intelligent and receives straight As in school. She participates in the gifted program and reads at a 6th grade level. She has always been an intense child -- one who feels emotions strongly. But after we moved about a year ago, things started to move up a notch and third grade has been very difficult. She has these meltdowns, usually over small things. [more inside]
Monthly subscription from extabit.com
A year and three months ago I registered on extabit.com. And I got a month service and I paid for it.
I just realized they have been charging me on my paypal account monthly since then.
But autopayment did not go through. So I owe them about 200 dollars now.
I have never used the account after the first month.
Do I have to pay for it?
I want to complaint but I don't know how to reach to them either.
Thank you guys so much!
Trips tips for weekend visit to LA and Huntington Beach
I'm flying down to SoCal on Saturday morning and flying back back Sunday evening after spending Saturday evening visiting with some friends in HB. I'll be flying into LAX, picking up a rental, then head south to Huntington Beach. On Sunday, I'll head north to catch the plane flight back. How can I make this easy to do, where can I stay, and what beaches might I visit along the way with the short time I have planned? [more inside]
What are the cheapest cities to fly to on United?
I'm in San Antonio. I am going to be 1,454 miles short of making platinum on United Airlines at the end of the year. I'm trying to find a site or something that would allow me to find the cheapest round trip flight that would get me another 1,500 miles I could make on a single day before the year is out. Is there anything like this? [more inside]
What kind of used projector can I get that supports wireless live stream
I have a ceiling mount for a projector – I’d like to get a projector that I can use to wirelessly stream video from the internet (e.g. from Netflix) with no plugs and cords connecting my projector to my computer necessary. [more inside]
CRM platform recommendations?
Hi, I work at a political advocacy organization and we're looking for a new CRM platform... [more inside]
How Does NYC's High-Tech Community Communicate?
I want to sell my communications services to high tech start-ups in NYC. How do I get tech eyes onto my promotional materials? Are there bulletin boards, newsletters, or message boards that serve Greater New York City where I can advertise my services? [more inside]
Help me find the half-mint julep poem/story
As a child my grandfather read me a poem/story about the old South. A man murders his wife with a silver icepick, and at his informal trial, he says that his wife had an absolutely annoying habit. When asked if she wanted a mint julep, she would say "No thanks, I'll have half of my husband's." [more inside]
Best way to get a weird and wooden object framed?
How best can I frame a wooden star that has survived since the 1960s? [more inside]
Canceling your Internet Service: Is this a weird thing?
I had to send my ISP a letter in the mail to cancel my internet service. My question is, what this a weird/jerky requirement or is this something that the FCC makes them do? [more inside]
Oral sex-iprocity?
My boyfriend has forgotten I exist in the bedroom. How can I go about initiating a chat about this and finding a solution before my sexual self-esteem completely disappears? (NSFW) [more inside]
why is my cat sniffing so much?
my cat is reverse-sniffing...short, half-second bursts maybe once or twice an hour. this is a new development, i.e. she hasn't always done this and I wonder if anyone out there can let me know what this is about. Google search is not helpful. [more inside]
snowflake skirt needed
I would like to find a seamstress or tailor to make a custom pencil skirt for me that I can wear to work (so, stuffy business fabric). My attempts to google a solution have not been successful. I either find places that want to charge me $300 or more (nope!), places that do alterations (I need it made from scratch), or places that make custom clothing for men but not women, or brides but not non-brides. I am located in lower Manhattan but have a subway card and am willing to use it. Can anyone suggest where I can go to have a nice suit-like pencil skirt created for me?
Canada has SEDAR, US has EDGAR, how about other countries?
Canada has SEDAR, US has EDGAR, how about other countries? [more inside]
What do you tell a kid who has been caught "playing doctor"?
What should we say to our daughter about appropriate play and touch after learning she was playing doctor with one of her little friends the other day? [more inside]
Pranks for nothing: anonymous, international version.
For the last day, my phone has been targeted by the "have two random cellphones call each other simultaneously and see what happens when someone picks up" prank, similar to what is available through websites I won't advertise here. (Google, "have two phones call each other prank." Yes, I looked up the 4 I could find, and registered on all of them to have my number blocked....it's still happening.) [more inside]
Everyone IS hanging out without me!
Like it says in the title: everyone is hanging out without me. How do I get back into my group, or should I not even try? [more inside]
posted by like_a_friend at 10:18 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by like_a_friend at 10:18 AM PST - 31 comments
Is it ever a good idea to have kids late in life?
I would like to hear from either parents who had children much later than they planned, and also from people whose parents were older than "normal". What were the main obstacles? What do you wish you had known in advance if you were the parent? What would you have advised your parent if you were the child? And what were the positives on each side? Complications to follow. [more inside]
posted by outoftime at 10:18 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by outoftime at 10:18 AM PST - 29 comments
Where to go in Europe?
Going to Europe. We have 4.5 weeks. Help us narrow down our choices! [more inside]
What is French coffee.
I am currently in Kuwait drinking something they call 'French coffee'. I like it a lot but I cannot figure out what it is and the internet isn't helping (nor is the waitress).
Its texture is mealy (unfintered), it's strong, there's a lot of sediment, no milk (none offered either), there seems to be a hint of sugar in it (was offered the option of extra when ordering) and it's served in a cup that is somewhat bigger than an espresso one but much smaller than an American coffee cup. It's definitely not Turkish coffee.
What is this stuff and how do I make it at home?
posted by Skyanth at 9:36 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Skyanth at 9:36 AM PST - 19 comments
You bastards!
I want to hear more pre-solo exclamations. I'm talking about the thing where the vocalist yells something (not just the end of a chorus or verse) to kick off a guitar solo. Examples: You bastards!, Do it! [more inside]
Dating for dysthymics
Single guy here, doing the online dating thing. Despite pickiness in who I message and high on-paper compatibility, all my dates so far (about ten different women) have been meh. This may be just a statistical fluke, but I suspect it's related to the meh-ness of life in general: I have dysthymia, aka constant mild depression, so am rarely very excited about anything, women included. I'm in therapy for this, and may be starting on meds soon, but meanwhile, what should my dating strategy be? Should I try for second and third dates with women who don't really interest me and hope I warm to them with time, or should I keep searching for that spark? [more inside]
Chocolate frosting emergency!
I am making a birthday cake to serve to a bunch of kids, and I just did the first stage of the frosting recipe: I melted 125 grams of chocolate with 75 grams of unsalted butter. Then I realized the next step involves raw eggs, which I'd rather not use in a recipe for young children. (Especially because it will probably sit out for a while before serving.) But I hate to waste the chocolate and butter. Without using raw eggs, what can I do to transform this melted butter/chocolate mixture into a delicious chocolate frosting? [more inside]
posted by yankeefog at 9:07 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by yankeefog at 9:07 AM PST - 19 comments
My coconut flour pancakes taste like dirt and disappointment
In an attempt to embrace my gluten intolerance, I purchased some coconut flour. Things have not gone well. I've had problems with another GF flour mix I have. WTF is going on. [more inside]
Alternatives to the Appalachian Trail
I want to go on a long hike before my wife and I buy a house or have kids, sort of a 'final big adventure by myself' before completely settling down. The Appalachian Trail is tempting but 5 months is a long time to be away from home (not to mention it'll be expensive). Please suggest some alternative long hikes. Maybe in the 1-2 month length range. Bonus points if your suggestion is in Canada. [more inside]
Smoked salmon + pasta ?
Is there a delicious way of combining sliced smoked salmon and pasta for dinner? [more inside]
What are these? Die-cut stamps from Japan
should I risk my Honda's engine block failing?
Should I risk my Honda's engine block failing? My 2006 Honda Civic is unfortunately one of a batch of Honda's Civics made from 2006 to around 2008 with engines that have potential engine block failure. [more inside]
posted by bitterkitten at 8:13 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by bitterkitten at 8:13 AM PST - 7 comments
Boundaries with builders.
Hands up. I struggle with boundaries. I am pretty confident (some think 'uber' confident).. but give me a situation that could potentially spurn conflict and I will do anything to avoid it. This has caused me a phenomenal amount of other kinds of crap.
So here s the deal - I have had a young'trainee' builder in doing some work - very pleasant and a good worker. We agreed a fee and I said I'd pay half that if he did half a day.
He said he'd do the full day today and so I was shocked when he left at 3:30 (he started at 10). I said I would settle with him on his last day (this was because I wasn't sure what to pay and wanted to think about), though then he'll be with someone else so I'm probably going to find it harder.
I can see now, I should have stated prior what I meant by a full day.
2 questions -
Is a builder's day shorter than an office day? They seem a bit of a law unto themselves.
If it should be an 8 hr day - how do I say I'd pay for 3/4's of a day whilst sounding reasonable and nice/assertive instead of aggressive or a tad, frankly, nervous. [more inside]
Name that graphic style!
I'm fascinated by old union logos, especially the iconic IBEW (fist-and-lightning-bolts), Teamsters (two horses) and IWW (globe) insignia. I like the heraldic layouts, the modern-as-of-1920 visual style, and the heroic/futuristic/quasi-mystical iconography. You see similar features in Masonic iconography, logos for other fraternal orders (Lions, Eagles, the FOP) and in some older corporate logos (MGM and Paramount, the old American Airlines logo, Does this cluster of design features have a name? Where did it come from? What are some other good examples? [more inside]
posted by Now there are two. There are two _______. at 7:40 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Now there are two. There are two _______. at 7:40 AM PST - 12 comments
Best jazz Christmas records?
I like jazz, and I like Christmas music. Which jazz Christmas music would I enjoy? [more inside]
posted by rabbitrabbit at 7:39 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by rabbitrabbit at 7:39 AM PST - 21 comments
How do I feel like my boyfriend is my boyfriend?
I see my boyfriend once a week with little to no contact in between. I don't feel important or close to him but I don't know if I'm being unreasonable or pushy about this. How do I change this without being crazy? [more inside]
Snacks for a Doctor Who 50th viewing party
I'm throwing a party this Saturday for the Doctor Who anniversary special, and am trying to come up with some ideas for food and drink. Bonus challenge: One of the guests eats gluten-free. [more inside]
Help me be a good therapist!
Therapist in training. Finally got my first clients. This is my calling and I want to be damn good at it. Naturally, I turn to AskMe. [more inside]
posted by stuck on an island at 7:18 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by stuck on an island at 7:18 AM PST - 13 comments
How much for a Wireless Tower ground lease?
A wireless carrier has approached us about building a cell tower on our property in Northern Virginia. Aside from using the bandits that pop up in a Google search, how do we determine a fair ground lease price? [more inside]
Post-assault PTSD resources in NYC?
A friend of mine was physically attacked while walking to the train station in NYC a couple of days ago. Can you recommend good, affordable PTSD counselling/care in NYC? More details under the cut (trigger warning for violence). [more inside]
posted by fight or flight at 6:46 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by fight or flight at 6:46 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me convince the boss I DON'T have to be in the office 12/26-12/31
I've been asked to show up at the office for the four weekdays between Xmas and January 1 -- AGAIN. But the boss is taking vacation. More drama inside. [more inside]
I slept with him on the first date - is this fixable or a lost cause?
I slept with him on the first date, and now he's lost interest. Is there any salvaging it? [more inside]
posted by Autumn at 6:27 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Autumn at 6:27 AM PST - 44 comments
Battlestar Galactica viewing order
I'm watching the 2003 Battlestar Galactica series for the first time, and loving it! I've come across this post, which purports to be the ultimate BSG viewing order guide. I've just finished season 2, episode 17, The Captain's Hand, and this guide now recommends I watch Razor, a TV movie that was the start of season 4, before watching the next episode of season 2. It also recommends that I mute two bits of dialog near the end of Razor to prevent any spoilers for season 3, which I'm fine with doing. BSG fans of Metafilter - what do you think? Is watching Razor now the best idea for continuity of the story? Will I spoil anything for myself by doing so?
posted by srrh at 6:09 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by srrh at 6:09 AM PST - 18 comments
Linking Facebook group to Instagram + Twitter?
I'm an admin for a Facebook group that focuses on local history and sharing / discussing old photos. We also have Instagram and Twitter accounts that we'd like to make better use of. In trying to integrate the three, I'm running into some problems. [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 6:09 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by ryanshepard at 6:09 AM PST - 1 comment
25 minute Spanish lesson
Tell me what topics would make you excited to learn a foreign language. [more inside]
posted by chainsofreedom at 5:54 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by chainsofreedom at 5:54 AM PST - 12 comments
Help me stay the cool aunt: lemonade-version....
What's the difference, if any, between pink lemonade and regular lemonade? [more inside]
posted by easily confused at 5:54 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by easily confused at 5:54 AM PST - 25 comments
Kids Arts & Science Room
We have a spare room that we're turning into an Arts & Science room for the kids (13 year old girl and 8 year old boy). It's in a walk-out basement with a painted concrete floor and a window. We have some ideas but little knowledge in how to setup a room for them to create and explore. We have a cheap beginner's chemistry set, some art and craft supplies, and...that's about it. What ideas can we implement with the little expertise and money we have? [more inside]
How do you process empathy?
What do you guys do with your feelings when you see people you love really struggling and it makes you sad? [more inside]
Best place to relax and get some work done in Porto on a Firday morning?
I'll be visiting friends in Porto (Portugal) this Friday, but my flight lands early in the morning and I won't be meeting them until lunchtime. What would be a good place downtown to get some work done on my laptop and possibly drink a coffee or two? Internet access is a must. I'd love something with a bit more local flavor than a Starbucks, but I'm open to all suggestions.
Thanks in advance, Hive Mind!
Teach me how to cook congee.
I've searched previous instances of congee showing up in comments on the Green, but very few actual recipes. None of the recipes I've found online even agree on the rice-to-water ratio or cooking time. Recipes from any nation, savory or sweet and any serving tips or suggestions most welcome!
posted by digitalprimate at 4:24 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 4:24 AM PST - 9 comments
I am afraid to write.
I'm a writer who doesn't really write anything...help? [more inside]
posted by Cybria at 4:17 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Cybria at 4:17 AM PST - 31 comments
How do I develop an interest in football?
I'm a dork who's never been interested in any sports at all. I've never played or watched any sport. I don't see why it's so interesting. But sports, especially football, is one of the most-watched type of show on television. The Superbowl is like a national holiday. I feel like I'm missing out on something big. How do I develop an interest in football (or other sports) after a lifetime of disinterest? What makes football exciting that should be obvious?
posted by Sleeper at 12:09 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by Sleeper at 12:09 AM PST - 33 comments
November 20
Who yields right of way at a crossroads?
Who yields right of way in this situation? A north-south street (North Street) intersects an east-west street (East Street). At this intersection, there are no stop signs or signals on North Street; East Street has stop signs. Two cars approach this intersection on East Street from opposite directions, arriving at their stop signs more or less at the same time. One car is turning left, the other is turning right (that is, they're both trying to go in the same direction). Which car legally can go first? [more inside]
posted by jaguar at 10:58 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by jaguar at 10:58 PM PST - 7 comments
four wheels good, two wheels bad?
What's wrong with running my 4WD with the front wheels always engaged? [more inside]
posted by wilful at 10:42 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by wilful at 10:42 PM PST - 8 comments
A comprehensive schedule for Christmas Music specials on BBC for 2013?
Every year I look forward to BBC Radio's Christmas music specials (especially choral concerts), including the Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols on Christmas Eve. In 2005 the Beeb broadcast a concert called 'Carols by Candlelight' by the Chapter House Choir that was delightful.
And so every year, I scan the schedules of the various BBC Radio services to see what I can find, but I invariably miss something or other (I'm in the US, btw).
For all you radioheads in the UK: is there an all-in-one place to go that has a complete list of that kind of thing?
What is a good phrase or analogy, similar to passing the buck?
An angry client emails a partner at a law firm about an expensive court filing. The partner responds "oh, don't worry, we'll look into this and take care of it." He cc's his secretary, the associate who drafted the filing, the associate's secretary, the paralegal, and the accounting clerk in charge of billing. Being at the top of the food chain, the partner immediately assumes that the associate will take care of it, and the partner's secretary assumes the same. The associate assumes that since the paralegal prepared the documents, including the itemized fee transmittal, that she'll handle it. Meanwhile, the paralegal figures that since the associate's secretary was the one in charge of electronically filing the document and selecting the fee options online, that it was probably an error on her end, and that she'll look into it. The associate's secretary assumes that since the accounting clerk is the only one with authorization to view and reconcile the charge account online, that she'll handle it. Last but not least, the accounting clerk brushes it off, as she works in accounting, not preparing and filing legal documents. Aside from passing the buck, what is a good term, phrase or analogy to describe this circular, dysfunctional work dynamic that occurs when a dozen people are cc'd on the same email? Everyone assumes someone else will take care of a problem, and in the end, the problem is never addressed.
posted by invisible ink at 10:11 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by invisible ink at 10:11 PM PST - 22 comments
flipped out!
How do I get better at not ignoring all the positive emotional work I've done when suddenly being triggered in a high-stress low-functioning situation? [more inside]
What can i do with a (cloud) server?
Someone linked to CloudatCost on Metafilter recently and, on a whim, I sprung for the $35 for life plan -- so I'm now the proud owner of a virtual cloud server. But I'm kind of a doofus and don't know what I can actually do with it. [more inside]
posted by AwkwardPause at 8:50 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by AwkwardPause at 8:50 PM PST - 2 comments
Have I imagined this thing in Hotline Miami?
I replayed Hotline Miami when it came out for Linux, and noticed something missing--but it's such a tiny detail, I'm not certain it was really in the game to begin with. [more inside]
What phone is right for me?
I am a phone luddite moving into the modern era. There is a huge array of options, most of which are meaningless to me. [more inside]
Looking for RAGBRAI advice
What charter service would you recommend to both shuttle me to and from the airport, and to provide support during the ride itself. [more inside]
posted by sixpack at 7:34 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sixpack at 7:34 PM PST - 4 comments
Moving to the Washington DC area
I recently started a new job, and for the time being I'll be working remotely in NE PA. Eventually though I'll need to move down here. I've been doing some research and well there's a lot of information to digest. [more inside]
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 7:32 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 7:32 PM PST - 18 comments
Negotiating the best Comcast internet rates (PDX edition)
Ok, theoretically simple question that I can't find a simple answer to:
I'm currently a Comcast customer subscribed to low-tier tv and internet. I'd like to drop my tv service and replace it with an antenna for OTA channels and a higher internet tier for streaming and general internet'ing (Comcast is my only real internet option, so I won't be dropping them entirely).
I need advice as to how to get the best possible rate for the internet service. Details below the fold. [more inside]
Why am I still single?
I'm female, 37 and single, with minimal relationship experience. I'm moderately attractive, a bit shy, and lacking in confidence. Over the years I've tried online dating, speed dating, asking people out, expanding my social circle, asking friends to set me up and going to therapy. I've dated a few guys but haven't been involved with anyone in almost 2 years.
I've considered reaching out to guys I dated in the past to ask why things didn't work out, to see if there is a theme, but I've been advised this is a Bad. Idea. Guys tend to just drift away with no explanation. I think it may be that I'm not so good at talking about feelings or asking for things (like commitment, or "can you tell me where this is going?")
I know you don't have enough information to pinpoint why I am single. However, perhaps you can suggest some of the questions I could be asking, or things I could try that might help me find someone and not scare them off?
Is my TV too old for my nifty new tablet and adapter?
I bought a Kanex Slimport Adapter (from the company) to connect my Nexus 7 (2013) to my TV. There is no signal - nothing on the TV at all. I have searched around online and it seems that it's possible my TV is just not compatible. But the info is thin on the ground and I am at a loss. I have an older TV -- a Sharp Aquos LC-26DA5U -- which I think I bought in 2006 or 2007. I am going to test it on another TV when I can -- I only own the one TV so it might be a while. Question: Could it be my TV? I don't want to send the adapter back unless it's really broken. Not that I want to buy a new TV, but I really want to watch Netflix with Hola Unblocker....the whole point of this tablet purchasing exercise.
Help me choose a name, book club edition
I'm starting a book club and need to come up with a name. [more inside]
Is there a word for a four year period of time?
I find that I measure time in spans of four years. Is there a good noun that can be used to a four year period of time or four objects in a group? (Wikipedia suggests a tetramer, but I find that answer unsatisfying & am hoping for a better one.)
Um... well... it sort of... how do I put this... kind of... like...
How do I stop using filler words? [more inside]
Muppet Puppets in NYC
Anyone know where I can buy Bert and Ernie-ish hand puppets in NYC? [more inside]
posted by overhauser at 5:07 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by overhauser at 5:07 PM PST - 10 comments
best podcasts for personal growth/ recovery from depression
I will be doing quite a bit of driving. I would like to listen to smart, interesting, thoughtful people talk about depression, Buddhism, neuroscience, anxiety, brain science, being better humans, rocket surgery, and other stuff, including humor of the not-mean category. [more inside]
posted by theora55 at 4:47 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by theora55 at 4:47 PM PST - 24 comments
You give my website money, my website gives you the file you need
My dad is a consulting structural engineer. His current approach to billing clients is to finish a job (or portion of a job) and email files along with an invoice generated in (I think) quickbooks. This works fine for his regular architecture firm clients- he knows that they will pay, even if they take 90 days or whatever. The problem is little jobs for people that will probably never hire him again- say, someone who has a sagging beam in their house, and hires him to take a look at it and make a plan for a fix. Once they have the files they need, there isn't much leverage for him to get them to pay, and the amount isn't really enough to take them to court over. What he would like to do is be able to email them an invoice with a link. That link would take the client to a secure website where they can enter a credit card payment, and, after it goes through, give them access to the files that they paid for. Does such a tool exist, preferably as a plug-in or part of something like Freshbooks or the ecommerce portion of Square? [more inside]
posted by rockindata at 4:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by rockindata at 4:39 PM PST - 13 comments
Cricket near Times Square?
I'm a big cricket fan (support England) and live near New York City. Now that the Ashes are going again, I'm quite interested in spending an evening or two watching the cricket in a social environment with other like-minded people. It doesn't actually need to be near Times Square, but Manhattan is preferred, since I live in Newark. Any suggestions of good places to go?
posted by naturalog at 4:19 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by naturalog at 4:19 PM PST - 3 comments
What to consider and how much to charge for freelance jingles?
How much should I charge companies to write and record 30-60 second instrumental jingles to help sell their products on websites? [more inside]
Praising Others - Dependent Personality Disorder
Is there a specific disorder when one goes to all costs to avoid rocking the boat, overpraises others , and always feels the need to project a sunny emotional state all in order to gain the affection and adoration of others? (While actually being in a state of anxiety about being liked?)
posted by M83 at 3:22 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by M83 at 3:22 PM PST - 6 comments
Is this what "being the breadwinner" means?
What strategies can I use to convince my husband to more openly discuss our household finances with me? [more inside]
Looking For Songs That Have A Dark, Driving Beat
Working on a project and I'm looking for songs that have a dark, driving, ominous beat. Like a thunderstorm looming on the horizon if I could give it a visual. [more inside]
Tile in living room: fugly or nice?
I am getting rid of the horrible pet-stained carpet in my living room and am considering replacing it with tile. Is this a completely crazy idea? [more inside]
awful running weather trifecta
After months of training, I’m due to run my first 5k on Saturday morning. It’s going to be quite cold. And windy. And pouring rain. Thinking about it makes me shiver, and really, really not want to run it. Can you help me not quit it and get through the rain? [more inside]
Additional Education
I completed my masters in counseling psychology back in December. I have been unable to find a job doing therapy as of yet. It seems like most of the places I've applied to work for want someone with a CADC in addition to their masters degree. [more inside]
Earlobe holes.. why?
I think my back is dying.
I have been having some really really terrible back pain lately and I need to know roughly what it might be and what kind of doctor person I should see about it and what I can do in the meantime so that I don't end up defenestrating myself in order to escape it. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 1:07 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by phunniemee at 1:07 PM PST - 23 comments
Seeking estimated drive times... at some point in the future
Is there a mapping service that will give me the estimated drive time for a given route at some specified time in the future, based on historical data? [more inside]
A question I wish I weren't asking
We put our 20-year-old cat to sleep at home last night. I had read about what to expect, but did not anticipate her struggling so desperately throughout the procedure. Now my mind keeps going back to those awful moments over and over. I’m wondering if anyone here has had a similar experience, or just has some thoughts on how to process this. [more inside]
Is my neurologist incompetent, lazy or reasonable?
My Doctor wants me back on MS modifying medications. To avoid going back on the self-injecting MS medications I am trying the new pill forms. These medications all have side effects that sometimes go away or lessen over time. I am willing to soldier through this period with help. The prescribing Doctor does not want to deal with the side effects. [more inside]
Some questions about the medical process of pregnancy
What happens, from a medical process standpoint, when you first tell a doctor you may be pregnant? Where do midwives and other professionals fit in? [more inside]
The best-case "two cats and a baby" scenario?
My brother and sister-in law are about to have their first human kidlet. They also have two cats (both rescued young-adult Siamese mixes) that they absolutely adore. I'd like to help them out in the kitty department...any suggestions for gifts / books / Really Useful Bits Of Advice / etc. geared toward integrating a baby into a cat-containing household? [more inside]
posted by aecorwin at 11:53 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by aecorwin at 11:53 AM PST - 20 comments
I CAN READ THAT!
I own this very cool book, that attempts to teach you a few of the most common Kanji that you might come across in China on a day to day basis. It makes no attempt to teach you to read Chinese; it just familiarizes you with some common, useful Kanji. If I wanted to do the same type of thing for Egyptian Hieroglyphics, what 10 hieroglyphics would be the most useful to memorize for the purposes of visiting museums (whether in person or in pictures)?
posted by wittgenstein at 11:49 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by wittgenstein at 11:49 AM PST - 7 comments
Scary books for someone who's new to the "reading" thing...
What would be a good scary "intro" book for someone who normally isn't into reading but loves scary movies and has recently decided he is open to reading scary fiction? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 11:42 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by lovableiago at 11:42 AM PST - 31 comments
How can I best preserve and distribute pre-digital manuscripts?
I have inherited several memoirs and other paper documents produced by family members before the digital age made document creation, storage, and dissemination so easy and extensive. What's the best way to make sure these documents survive and are accessible to those who might be interested in them? [more inside]
posted by Naberius at 11:39 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Naberius at 11:39 AM PST - 5 comments
Indestructible plush dog toys
Can you recommend a plush squeaker toy for dogs that's durable? [more inside]
posted by .kobayashi. at 11:23 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by .kobayashi. at 11:23 AM PST - 20 comments
LDR Distress: did I lose the love of my life?
I have been in a (very) long distance relationship that I think might be over. I need closure but I am not sure if I can get it. I am always worried something very bad happened to keep this person from contacting me. I have no idea what to do. Loooong story. [more inside]
posted by his median eminence at 10:18 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by his median eminence at 10:18 AM PST - 24 comments
Is it crazy to consider teaching a class 8 weeks after having a kid?
Hi! I'm pregnant with my first child, due in early spring. I just found out that I can teach a short (college) summer school course that starts about 10 weeks after I'm due. (Who knows, if I'm late, it could be just 8 weeks.) The pay is very good, and we kind of need it, but I don't want to sign up for something I'll regret. [more inside]
Textbook return after THREE months?
Today, I received a second refund request on my Amazon seller account under the A-to-Z Claims Guarantee. This is for a textbook I sold three months ago on Amazon. Should I accept the request? [more inside]
Are there any websites that lets you explore the human anatomy in 3D?
I'm looking for a low-cost app or site where you can explore the muscular structure, how they attach to the skeleton, isolate a muscle by turning on/off other muscles, etc. My chief aim is for fitness purposes so I can understand my own body better before my chiropractic visits. Book or other learnig tool recommendations are welcomed! [more inside]
posted by film at 9:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by film at 9:11 AM PST - 9 comments
How to make an appointment with a UK GP for mental health issue?
OK, I know how to make an appointment with a GP, but I need a bit of advice with how to navigate the logistics of making the appointment and getting the best out of that appointment. [more inside]
accessibility and web captioning timing formats
I'm managing a project right now, acting as the go-between for two vendors, and I'm having some trouble communicating the requirements for a particular captioning format. I'm hoping someone more experienced than I in the MeFi community can identify the name of the standard being used here so I can point to a clear reference for it. [more inside]
HR Filter: I think I have an employee conducting drug deals in parking
HR Filter: I think I have an employee conducting drug deals in parking lot. [more inside]
posted by cheechman85 at 8:19 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by cheechman85 at 8:19 AM PST - 34 comments
Home Laundromat!
I would like to buy a used washer/dryer and thought I'd pick your collective brains. I've been in apartments with coin op laundry for so long the thought of buying a washer/dryer is daunting. I looked on craigslist and there are scads and scads of washers and dryers and the prices run from stoopid cheap to stoopid expensive. [more inside]
posted by ian1977 at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by ian1977 at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
How to make our Hawaiian Christmas party special?
We're having a holiday party for about 65 guests, and the theme will be "Holiday Luau." What are some clever, on-theme games/activities or decorations or a surprise dish or tiki spectacle that will make the evening truly memorable? [more inside]
posted by pgswim at 8:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by pgswim at 8:15 AM PST - 8 comments
Fake reviews and conflicts of interest?
What are some instances where people got caught praising a business that they worked for or a Scott Adams-like fiasco where the person being praised turned out to be the person posting? [more inside]
Blue flower, red thorns. Blue flower, red thorns.
Mix CD, Christmas edition. Now with special snowflakes! [more inside]
Can't sleep. Mice will eat me.
How do I endure the mice that descend upon my room at night? I really need to sleep again. [more inside]
Is it still thoughtful if I had to ask MeFi for help?
My best friend is taking her quals in a few weeks (or comps or whatever you want to call them--the thing that makes you ABD). I thought I would send her a little present of the stress-reducing variety, but I'm kind of stuck for ideas (or way overthinking the ideas I do have). Help? What would you have wanted? [more inside]
How to remove a baseboard diffuser?
I am attempting to install a new baseboard diffuser in my room as the current one has started to rust off. I got the grille off but I am not experienced at anything DIY so am not sure how to remove the rest. I will be installing a Truaire Smoothglide. Photos, extra details inside. [more inside]
Should I give this another shot?
I searched for similar questions but had a hard time finding something that applied to what I think is a very specific situation. I'm trying to decide if I should attempt dating an ex, and I'm hoping the Hive Mind can help me out. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go?
I am in a strange situation. Around 8 or so months ago I met a man on a message board. We started private contact and things quickly turned romantic. He lives in another country that I will be visiting in a few months. There are some concerns in if I should bail now or go through with the meeting. Details inside. [more inside]
Busted oxygen sensor on my car: safe to drive?
Looking for second opinions. My car has a busted oxygen sensor, and it can't get fixed today. Tomorrow I'm supposed to start driving for Florida. Is this crazy? [more inside]
posted by JanetLand at 5:54 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by JanetLand at 5:54 AM PST - 16 comments
Where can you license crossword puzzles for republication?
A friend has built a crossword app and wants to find some content for it. [more inside]
What to do about my expensive family wireless plan?
Please tell me what wireless plan to get for my family! We have four lines (mom and dad, two grown kids) on our family plan from Verizon for $188/mt. I think we can pay less but I'm really overwhelmed by all the options and possibilities. [more inside]
posted by Snarl Furillo at 2:45 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Snarl Furillo at 2:45 AM PST - 14 comments
AdChoices: by Google or Yahoo??
I saw some ads online showing a lable on the right top corner with a "i" in a triagle, by moving mouse to it it shows "AdChoices". Clicking on the label brought me to: http://www.aboutads.info/choices/#completed [more inside]
posted by pack2themoon at 2:05 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by pack2themoon at 2:05 AM PST - 4 comments
November 19
Superhero mystery party ideas
Planning a superhero-themed 11th birthday party. Birthday girl wants it to be like a murder mystery party, with one guest a supervillain who must be defeated. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Developer looking for high-performance portable dev laptop
I'm a software developer who is finding himself more and more in need of a very powerful, very portable machine. Here are my requirements:
posted by pennstatephil at 10:44 PM PST - 27 comments
- Under 5 lbs (key-- I don't want this to be a brick)
- i7 processor
- 8 GB RAM (with 2 slots for upgrade to 16 if desired)
- 512 GB SSD, or smaller SSD with HDD secondary drive
- NO HP. Their repair rate is terrible, their customer service is worse. They're the one brand I will not buy for PCs.
posted by pennstatephil at 10:44 PM PST - 27 comments
Can we ever see eye to eye? Body language idioms, please.
Trying to think of idioms / phrases that relate to body language, rather than just body parts.
One example could be "to raise eyebrows".
There must be others, but the web mostly came up with things like "in one ear and out the other", which isn't quite what I wanted.
Suggestions appreciated.
Can I see an oral surgeon about wisdom teeth before deep cleaning?
Do I need to get my teeth deep cleaned before seeing the oral surgeon? [more inside]
posted by Danila at 10:27 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Danila at 10:27 PM PST - 12 comments
Response to (foreign) friends posting antisemitic conspiracy theories?
I'm finding several Chilean friends circulating an antisemitic conspiracy-theory sketchy blog "news" item on Facebook. And I realized they were taking this quite seriously. I'm offended as a Jew and hurt as a friend, but I'm not sure how/ or whether it's my place to respond. [more inside]
posted by Jeddelicious at 9:13 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by Jeddelicious at 9:13 PM PST - 29 comments
Why are there multiple versions of Lincoln's Gettysburg Address?
In short, the "Question Title" provides my question... Why are there multiple versions of the Gettysburg Address? [more inside]
posted by matty at 8:54 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by matty at 8:54 PM PST - 7 comments
How does a white girl learn to do black girl hair?
My husband and I are foster parents and we just got a placement. She is 20 months old and in addition to being silly and snuggly and clever she is also a girly girl and black. How do I learn to style her hair? [more inside]
posted by Saminal at 8:36 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by Saminal at 8:36 PM PST - 37 comments
Can mental clarity / acuity come in bursts on a regular (monthly) cycle?
Can mental clarity / acuity come in bursts on a regular (monthly) cycle? [more inside]
Help me source my perfect chopping knife
A decade or more ago, in an Asian market somewhere in North America, I came across a chopping knife that became my favorite kitchen tool. It's been lost for more than a year now ... and I am desperate to replace it. But I haven't a clue who the maker was and have had no luck locating anything like it again in the dozen or so markets I've since visited. Help? [more inside]
posted by peakcomm at 8:03 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by peakcomm at 8:03 PM PST - 11 comments
Best Christmas light displays near Hopkins or St. Louis Park Minnesota?
I'd like to take my mother-in-law on a drive Christmas Eve to look at Christmas lights. What neighborhood should we go to in the Hopkins/St. Louis Park/Minnetonka/Edina area near the Twin Cities? [more inside]
posted by OrangeDisk at 7:41 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by OrangeDisk at 7:41 PM PST - 3 comments
Red light alarm clock
I'm having a tough time finding an alarm clock with a pure red light digital display that can hold a radio station in tune or otherwise play a pleasant sound, with a large snooze button. The better quality ones are in the blue light spectrum. Since exposure to blue light is related to age-related macular degeneration and sleep disturbance, I'd prefer looking at only red light in the dark. I also tried an alarm clock app for my phone, but the red light option is stylized so not really red light only. So, can anyone recommend a good quality red light alarm clock?
Where should we go?
My wife and I have 10 days off after Christmas and would like to take “a trip of a lifetime.” We got married this past June and never got a chance to go on a honeymoon. This is our chance to go on a fantastic trip but we can’t decide where to go. We are hoping you all can help! Details inside. [more inside]
Stories where heroes travel to the villain's land and bring back a cure?
I'm looking for stories (movies, books, folk tales, whatever) where somebody or something arrives from some rather mysterious realm and proceeds to wreck up our hero's land, and the hero has to travel to the realm of the unwelcome entity and bring back some way to defeat it. (It could be a special weapon, some knowledge of the previously unstoppable villain's weakness, etc.) Anybody got some examples? [more inside]
What can I do with a lot of garlic?
The CSA garlic has been piling up. What sorts of things can I do with quantities of garlic? I think we currently have 10-12 heads of garlic. Bonus points if whatever it is will keep in the fridge for a couple of weeks, or in the freezer for a couple of months. (I found this from previously but maybe there's more!)
You can check my nooks, but don't bother me.
We are selling our home and have an offer. My baby and I have no where to go during inspection. What happens if we stay? [more inside]
Nice, Ice, Baby!
I am looking for the absolute most convenient, easiest to use, best, and well-engineered in ice tray/bin setups! Find me one like it was designed by Dyson! [more inside]
How might I squeeze a little extra mpg out of my old truck?
I've become mildly obsessed with trying to improve the fuel efficiency of my old truck. I've already done all the basic things and I realize that I'm fighting physics at this point, but what else might I consider if I wanted to make a bit of a hobby out of it? [more inside]
Should I ask the man I'm seeing not to have a vasectomy?
I'm in my mid-20's, leaning towards not having kids, but recognize that I could change my mind. I just started dating a wonderful man who has scheduled a vasectomy for next month. Is it asking too much to ask him to reconsider? [more inside]
Motivational sites like Health Month and Fitocracy?
I'd really like an easy way to motivate myself and my family members to do a few things everyday or at least more often (push-ups, stretches, skip dessert). [more inside]
songs about folk tales
You know that Decemberists song "The Crane Wife"? I'm looking for more songs like that - songs that re-tell, are inspired by, or make explicit references to a particular folk tale or fairy tale. [more inside]
What's the #1 change you've made to improve your time management skills?
former chronic procrastinators, reformed flighty people, etc.: What's the #1 change you've made to improve your organizational and time management skills? (new mantra or mindset? taking a course? etc) [more inside]
Plan My Day in London (Include a Fabulous Lunch)
I'll be arriving at Marylebone station at 10:30am and departing from the same station around 5:00pm.
What should I do with my six hours?
I definitely want to have lunch somewhere fabulous.
posted by tmharris65 at 4:06 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by tmharris65 at 4:06 PM PST - 3 comments
I want to estimate the cost of an animal shelter
I want to estimate the cost of building and running a state of the art animal shelter for dogs and cats. [more inside]
Questionable Credentials
I want to acquire unusual certificates. Something along the lines of Certificate of Ordination at Church of the Latter Day Dude and the amusing (and fake) Certificate of Virginity. What are the (preferably legally recognized) certificates out there?
posted by pakoothefakoo at 3:46 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by pakoothefakoo at 3:46 PM PST - 8 comments
Can I get pasteurized eggs in Portland?
Has anyone seen pasteurized eggs anywhere near the Portland, OR metro area?
I used to get Davidson's pasteurized eggs at Safeway, and maybe long ago at Trader Joes? Neither of those stores have them now. Davidson's doesn't seem to supply any local stores. [more inside]
posted by peep at 3:44 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by peep at 3:44 PM PST - 4 comments
Help my friend find a dog! Snowflake details inside.
I have a good friend who wants a dog. Here is the criteria. We are looking for ways/places to go check out/ideas on how to find a dog for her:
-My friend lives in Northern California, and is willing to travel a reasonable distance (50 miles give or take). She is willing to pay adoption fees.
The dog:
-Must be male.
-Can be of any breed/mix.
-Must be young to adult, but not a puppy.
-Must be medium to large in size.
-Must have all shots/vaccines.
-Must be neutered.
-Must be a rescue dog.
Help us find places to look around for rescue dogs. We have been striking out... maybe there's some places we aren't finding/thinking of besides the pound, pet shops, rescue agencies, etc?
Wanted: state of the art educational/career counseling
I'm curious to know which businesses, organizations, people and projects are at the forefront of helping young people (12-25) to reach their educational and career goals. What kick ass programs do they have that motivate kids and help them figure out and work towards their futures? Are there any ventures/tools that support or replace the career counseling that kids get in school? [more inside]
What is this song?
Trying to find an awesome song I heard. I saw the music video once a long time ago (five years?). The color palate was all white. Poodles featured prominently. I recall in certain scenes the poodle was getting it's hair done, as if in a salon. A blonde, very sensual and well-manicured lady. Something about wanting to be a dog. Very cool electronic-sounding, kind of monotonous vocals. Help, I'm dying to hear this song again!
posted by space cat at 3:06 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by space cat at 3:06 PM PST - 4 comments
Quickbooks Enterprise vs Sage 50?
We are a retail business, ~10 employees, multiple locations of inventory and some drop-ships. I am looking at both Quickbooks Enterprise and something from the Sage 50 family but can't find anything online that provides a good comparison. Anyone use both? Opinions?
History Trivia
I'm writing a trivia game for a birthday party. What are events from the 1950s through today that 60 yr olds would have a good grasp of that I would miss out on just by scanning through wikipedia? [more inside]
Quino cartoon about television.
I've been trying to find one of my favourite cartoons, but with no luck so far.
I'm pretty sure it's by Quino.
It depicts a child watching TV and the child's mother coming in through the living room door.
The child's head is made up of horizontal lines (presumably from watching too much TV), and the draft coming in from the door makes the lines (i.e., the top of the child's head) disconnect from each other and fly out.
Help me find a link.
Thank you!
posted by jlverissimo at 2:43 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jlverissimo at 2:43 PM PST - 3 comments
Build a Doll?
Besides American Girl, are there any other sites that will let you enter some basic characteristics and create a doll for you? [more inside]
posted by ramix at 2:10 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by ramix at 2:10 PM PST - 11 comments
Do I need a flu shot?
According to the CDC, the answer is yes. But wait, there's more inside! [more inside]
posted by lollymccatburglar at 1:44 PM PST - 73 comments
posted by lollymccatburglar at 1:44 PM PST - 73 comments
Naked Lunch
Philosophical persectives on slaughtering animals for food required. Help me work through unexpected questioning? [more inside]
Best doll for a toddler?
I went shopping for a baby doll for an 18-month-old relative, thinking it would be an easy purchase, and now I'm so confused... [more inside]
Retro Comic Artist
I'm looking for current amateur/underground artists who have a style similar to late 70s/80s X-Men artists Dave Cockrum and Marc Silvestri. [more inside]
From Experience... in Latin.
If I want to say "From experience" in Latin, what's the best way to say it? Right now I'm thinking "Ab expertus." [more inside]
posted by heliostatic at 1:09 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by heliostatic at 1:09 PM PST - 8 comments
Transporting board games
What's the best solution for transporting a bunch of board games? [more inside]
posted by MsVader at 12:40 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by MsVader at 12:40 PM PST - 12 comments
Where on can I get Cirque Du Soleil style dance and acrobatics costumes?
I am a member of a small acrobatic group including both men and women, and we are having a hard time finding costumes. There are more options for women, but almost none for men except basic gymnastics outfits and unitards in a handful of colors. We'd love to find a place to get really dramatic costumes, or at least parts we could use to design our own without having to make them completely from scratch. Online is best, as I am in Iceland.
posted by Nothing at 12:33 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Nothing at 12:33 PM PST - 5 comments
LankyManClothing Filter
Where does one buy clothing for a 6'2, slim, broad-shouldered man that is dapper but not preppy, well-made but not exorbitantly priced?
Britishy aesthetic, minimalist style, and monochromatic colors all desirable. Current favorite is Topman, but looking for something with better quality construction. [more inside]
Dear IRS, I swear I am who I say I am!
My legal name and gender change court order will be finalized in late January and I will immediately go and change my SSA, DMV, and birth cert information. My W2 will probably arrive before I can get my new documents to my HR department. Will this cause problems filing my taxes? What should I expect and prepare for? I'm in California and use Turbotax.
Purchasing a waterproof, fireproof safe?
Hive mind inquiry: does anyone have experience or advice they can give for the purchase of a waterproof, fireproof safe, big enough to store a few folders of documents? [more inside]
extrapolating temp/energy use difference from small boxes to my condo
Physics geeks! Help me save energy! How do I estimate how much less energy will be used by light siding vs gray siding, based on an experiment with small boxes? I made some identical boxes, put them in the sun, measured temperatures, and am trying to figure out how to scale up. The net has info about different roof colors, but not siding colors. [more inside]
posted by amtho at 12:02 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by amtho at 12:02 PM PST - 6 comments
Seeking a series of fantasy/war books from the 1980s
You know how you can just remember a few details about some subject from your youth, and it's going to bother you until you can reveal the full scope of that memory? Yeah, I'm right there. I'm looking for a series of books. They were in the SF/F section in the 1980s. They were probably popular because their covers resembled Frazetta prints, and they tended to be really violent (i.e. jumping on the popularity of Conan). [more inside]
posted by thanotopsis at 11:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by thanotopsis at 11:47 AM PST - 4 comments
Tell me about the history of unusually same sex dancing!
I just caught a scene from the 1953 film Stalag 17. In it, some WW2 prisoners of war hold a dance, and for obvious reasons, half the male dancers are following.
Can anyone help me fill in the imaginary back story as if I were watching this film in 1953? [more inside]
gift heirloom mom
Can Mefi help me find a gift that would become an heirloom later on? Details inside... [more inside]
Facebook Friend Stop Dinging Me!
I have one friend on Facebook, whom every time he posts a status update or shares anything, I get notified or dinged on my mobile (this only happens with one other person, my girlfriend, and that's ok :>) How do I stop this? I've looked at all the options in Facebook and can't find what I need to adjust him singularly, am I just looking in the wrong place? Help!
What have you been wrong about, realized it, and it changed your life?
What have you been wrong about, realized it, and it changed your life?
I remember reading Albert Ellis' wonderful self-help book A Guide to Rational Living where he gives a great list of irrational and self-defeating beliefs that people have. Among these beliefs was the importance people placed on other's opinion of them as well the emphasis people placed on being perfectionistic in their own lives. Much of this underlies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy but the effect is even more prevalent than that. We all have had beliefs that have held us back, and I'm curious as to what things you once believed that were holding you back in your personal or professional life. Anything will do. It can be anything from knowing the importance of making good first impressions to the need for keeping oneself physically fit even when one doesn't want to. I'm looking to see whether I share of any of these traits or not. So what are the beliefs that have held you back or others that you know?
RAW processing on the go
What´s a good portable option to process RAW files? [more inside]
Chicken Soup for the Entrepreneur's Soul
So I asked you for help solving my problems and said I'd do a three-part series over three weeks- thing is, I'm still on the first. Please help me with my business. [more inside]
posted by cacao at 10:07 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by cacao at 10:07 AM PST - 10 comments
Should I sign over this check?
My father has just sent me this specific text - "I'd like to do some income tax avoidance, completely above the board, by having you sign over a check to me from my year end family trust account funds. I've had my brother's son **** do this is the past, no big deal just a matter of having someone in the family sign a check made out to them over to me." [more inside]
Getting your name changed. How to?
Do any of you have experience with changing your name for non-marriage/divorce reasons. As far as I understand, it involves filling out a form, getting your fingerprints taken and requesting a hearing with a judge. It's the hearing that concerns me. On what basis might a name change be denied? What helps your case? Florida here, if that's an issue.
I know, I know. Talk to a lawyer. I plan to do so but it's also important to just hear "I never thought of that" real experiences from everyday, non-attorney people. Thanks.
Adrienne Rich poem
Poetry question: Do you think Adrienne Rich's "November 1968" is literally about burning leaves? Does she intend that month and year to mean something to the reader? Any other thoughts? [more inside]
posted by kalapierson at 8:56 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by kalapierson at 8:56 AM PST - 13 comments
Any audio equivalent of "extract a person or object using Photoshop"?
I have a sound recording that ideally I would like to remove the background sound from. My recording has unfortunately captured the unwanted sound of an episode of Doctor Who being played from a TV in the background. Is there a way to filter that out? [more inside]
posted by polymodus at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by polymodus at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
What are your favorite quirky sayings?
I find certain sayings particular endearing and would love to add more into my repertoire. A few examples of saying I use are:
Mary Beth is as sweet as pie (meaning, I think she's just a swell girl).
That new baby is as cute as a button.
Spending my weekends as the park makes me as happy as a pack of puppies.
I've also been known to say someone "drinks like a fish" and/or "smokes like a chimney."
Your favorite sayings don't need to be analogies, I just want to know what sayings you use regularly.
I am an english speaker in the us of a, if that helps at all. Thanks! [more inside]
Helping 7 yo process mother's death
So my sister-in-law had a stroke last week and passed away on Friday. My niece's are 7 and 19. The older one, of course groks it, but I'm not sure how much the younger one is getting. [more inside]
posted by jacy at 8:29 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by jacy at 8:29 AM PST - 25 comments
Make handwritten feedback as anonymous as possible?
I'm planning a workshop for my colleagues with various exercises. In one exercise, each person will have a stack of index cards. We will focus on a person in the group, everyone will write that person's strengths/weaknesses on one of their index cards, move to the next person, repeat.
How can this process be anonymized as much as possible? I'd like people to feel comfortable and be completely honest. Their handwriting, unfortunately, will ruin anonymity. Also, I'd rather not involve technologies like computers.
iPhone budgeting app with multiple users?
I'm looking for suggestions like Toshl in the budgeting / family expenses app department. [more inside]
What are some good books on the history of LGBT rights movement?
I really want to find out more about the history and progress of LGBT rights. Namely, early forms and social codes to express homosexuality, the civil rights movements and how psychology viewed before and now, and what led to finally removing homosexuality as a disorder from the DSM. [more inside]
RC Helicopter or Plane Recommendation
Looking to purchase an indoor Remote Control (RC) helicopter or place. [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 6:03 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by dbirchum at 6:03 AM PST - 15 comments
Can we have a stealth wedding at sea?
My fiancée and I want to get married at sea on a cruise. Unfortunately, we can't find a cruise line that sails from our nearby ports that offers a wedding package that works for us (all the lines we checked require that everything be done by the book on their schedule with their vows, music, food, etc.). Has anyone ever staged a "stealth wedding" at sea where you bring your own officiant, gather a small number of family and friends together at an agreed-upon time in a quiet corner of the ship, and carry out a short impromptu ceremony? Will the cruise line have a problem with this? Would there be a penalty if we were caught? More importantly, would a marriage license from our state be valid if signed at sea in international waters? If not, what if we handled the paperwork in port? It's just a germ of an idea right now and at this point we really want to know if this is all possible and legal. Any advice for us?
posted by Servo5678 at 5:43 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Servo5678 at 5:43 AM PST - 12 comments
From Dixons to Nixon
I'm interested in learning more about late 20th century American history and politics, particularly the Cold War, Watergate and Nixon. What books, fiction or non-fiction, can you recommend to a non-American? [more inside]
I heard you like emotional stress
Managing my mental healthcare has become stressful at precisely the worst time for it to be stressful. Please can someone advise me on how to play this. I feel like the anxiety about what happens next is making things worse right now. [more inside]
posted by Acheman at 4:56 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Acheman at 4:56 AM PST - 14 comments
Unwanted Stuff On My Cat
My cat had something on his fur, near his left rear thigh, that looked like a slug. It was about an inch long and 3-5mm wide, black, and shiny.
He is a fraidy cat who will not tolerate being touched. He only just tolerates playing chases with a piece of string, so I spent some time with him this morning doing just that and trying to take a picture. I was not able to get a picture that was clear enough. He actually washed around whatever it was, but only once, and he didn't dislodge it in the process.
We tried to catch him and failed. He got outside. Since he has so many hangups it is possible that he won't come back and likely that he won't trust us for another six months if he does. He only knows a few words, but "vet" is one of them and he has a very strong reaction to that one, so the effects of stuffing him into a pet carrier can only be imagined, even if we had any hope of accomplishing that now.
So: what external feline parasite looks like a slug, is about an inch long and lurks on the fur near the thigh, and what do we do about it in the unlikely event that we get the chance?
posted by tel3path at 3:51 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by tel3path at 3:51 AM PST - 20 comments
Help me find this Dutch photographer
He took portraits of people on the street and arranged these portraits into collections of 'types' - parka boys, gabber girls, nonnas, Muslimahs etc. Does this ring a bell for anyone?
posted by nerdfish at 3:07 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by nerdfish at 3:07 AM PST - 2 comments
Name this song!
I'm looking for this pop/R&B song that appeared on the radiowaves sometime between this year and last year (so fairly recent). I think it's pretty popular. [more inside]
November 18
3D Printer >$3000?
My wife and I are looking into investing in a 3D printer in the $2-3,000 price range. Can anyone who actually owns one / has used one extensively give any suggestions on brands/models to look at?
We're hoping for a basic desktop model with a size capacity of about 8"x8"x8" for making small props, prototypes, etc.
Also, what can one expect to pay for the "goop" or whatever they use for a printing medium?
What Does a Woman Taste Like?
However bizarre my inquisition, for those men and women who have 'been down,' and eaten the proverbial flower, what have your experiences been like? What does it taste like? Men taste like skin and smell a bit earthy.. and sometimes taste incredibly salty which is slightly unpleasant but not off-putting in the moment lol. So what do we taste like?
posted by OneHermit at 11:10 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by OneHermit at 11:10 PM PST - 22 comments
How do I hack scheduling classes when I work all day?
I'm a science teacher who is trying to take prerequisite courses in order to eventually apply for a graduate physics degree. The problem is as a teacher I work a set schedule everyday, and the pre-requisite classes I want are designed for the first-time college goer who is attending school full-time or has a part-time job at night. How do I get the classes I need? [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 at 10:17 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Peregrin5 at 10:17 PM PST - 16 comments
Fun games for a wedding?
What are some fun games or activities that can take place at a wedding and at the reception? I'm hoping to hear about things that you've experienced at a wedding that worked really well, made people laugh or contributed to the meaning of the wedding. Thank you.
Help me replace Everpix, at least a little.
So I'm one of Everpix's many very disappointed soon-to-be-ex-users, and I really, really liked their Flashback emails showing me photos from Today In History. Is there any way to easily automate something like that just coming from my local Aperture library?
posted by DoctorFedora at 9:36 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by DoctorFedora at 9:36 PM PST - 6 comments
Where do you acquire cheap thin plywood and acrylic sheets?
I'm a member of a maker space that recently acquired a really awesome laser cutter. I want to learn how to make awesome laser-cut 3D objects. Problem: materials for it seem unreasonably hard to find in local stores, and are super expensive online. [more inside]
Why do Rx pain meds make me so mellow and sentimental?
As I type this, I'm having to curb the urge to call friends and family and gush about how much I love them and how wonderful they are. I'm on 750mg of Percoset for an arthritis flare tonight. What is happening in my brain or body to cause these feelings?
I'm always this way with any kind of Rx pain meds and I'm just curious.
Thanks!
posted by michellenoel at 9:02 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by michellenoel at 9:02 PM PST - 9 comments
This is just a crazy, crazy coincidence, right?
OK, this sounds insane and paranoid, and I feel fairly confident this is just a very weird coincidence, but is there some computer virus-y way that a Google search term can end up being reflected in credit card fraud? [more inside]
Step right up! Oh wait, you're taller than I am...
I'm looking for fundraiser carnival game ideas for middle school kids (ages 11-14). The carnival will be held in the spring, with a Color Festival theme. We will have a color run; we're looking for booth games, as well.
These kids have been playing the ring toss/ cakewalk/ bouncy castle circuit for years, so we're looking to make it more appealing to them now that they're older. Some popular ideas so far have been a football toss and outdoor twister. Do you have more?
[Gotta shoot you down on the teacher pie-tossing/ dunking booth ideas, though. I'd like to keep enforcing respect for the teachers, especially since their average age is about 24.]
posted by Jane Austen at 8:01 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Jane Austen at 8:01 PM PST - 11 comments
Articles / books comparing writing to other artistic mediums
Can anyone point me to articles or books which investigate the artistic advantages and disadvantages of writing vis-a-vis other mediums like film (e.g. what effects can written documents have that movies cannot, and vice-versa)?
posted by shivohum at 7:52 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by shivohum at 7:52 PM PST - 1 comment
Help me try to figure out what kind of career might be good for me.
Help me try to figure out what kind of career might be good for me. [more inside]
Can I legally get work to pay my rent?
So I've done the math, and if my job pays me $750 a month less, and uses that money to pay my rent, I actually end up about $150 ahead. [more inside]
Looking for MIL-W-5664-T1-C2.
I am making myself a pair of suspenders.
I have determined that the ideal elastic for this endeavor would be MIL-W-5664 Type 1 Class 2, 1.5 inch width, dark green.
I have found a few dealers online that sell this product, but they're wholesalers and have minimum orders in the range of a thousand feet or so. I'm looking for about twelve feet of the stuff.
Teaching in France ??
Hi, my last questions have been about learning French, then skiing in France (thank you for all those answers to those questions)...and now I'm thinking "what about working in France"? [more inside]
posted by bquarters at 5:27 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bquarters at 5:27 PM PST - 8 comments
What steps can I take to meet a family orientated partner?
I'm an early 30s male, I have spent the last few years living a very self-centered life, hopping around short term casual relationships. I recently had a change of priorities, and want to prioritise starting a family. The gist of the question is about compromise. What kind of traits should be prioritised in a partner? [more inside]
Schubert's Impromptus - who should I be listening to?
Falling hard for both Schubert's Impromptus and Chopin's Nocturnes. Who are the best players, what recordings are essential to own? [more inside]
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 4:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 4:12 PM PST - 8 comments
Cheddar for Christmas
I am mailing my friends a package for Christmas. They live in Africa; I'm in the US. They asked for cheddar cheese (among other things). How do I make this happen? [more inside]
Gay story from the 70s - 80s about a body part changing color.
Does anyone remember a story from the 70s or 80s about one day when every gay person woke up and their noses (ears?) had turned purple (blue, green?)? It was basically an illustration of Harvey Milk's call for all gay people to come out because if everyone was out, straight people would realize we were everywhere. It may have been a short story, a children's book, or a short film. I was a manuscript reviewer for Alyson Books in the mid-80s, so it might have been something I read then. [more inside]
posted by hworth at 3:25 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by hworth at 3:25 PM PST - 6 comments
Stranger in a Strange Land
I'm considering confronting my father with the threat of estrangement. What should I know before initiating this kind of "break" with family? (Snowflakes abound, but general guidance helps too!) [more inside]
How to kick ass when you're depressed
My depression seems to have come roaring back all at once this weekend. I know how to take care of myself in the long-term scale, but I have an important and difficult life event in two days, and a lot of work to do in the interim. [more inside]
Best houseplant soil mix and filler for use in self-watering planter?
Should the capillary action which will allow water to soak upward from the bottom of my self-watering planters be a factor in selecting a potting mix for Arrowhead Vine houseplants, or is the ideal potting mix the same regardless of whether they receive most of their water from the surface? Also, what would be the best lightweight "filler" for the bottom portion of the planters? [more inside]
posted by lmpatte2 at 3:11 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by lmpatte2 at 3:11 PM PST - 2 comments
Minimalist Thanksgiving
I need help finding some really easy, uncomplicated one-pot Thanksgiving recipes! I'll be hosting an orphan's potluck for 4-8 people at my place this year and I need to provide a couple dishes. Problem is, I'm a notoriously shitty cook which means I never cook which means I have a really understocked kitchen. And I'm kinda poor. [more inside]
Roller Derby Documentaries
Which roller derby documentaries would you recommend as a 60th birthday gift for my mother? [more inside]
posted by postel's law at 2:33 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by postel's law at 2:33 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for a rather long article about a psychotic break
I'm trying to find an article from several years ago written by a man who had had a psychotic break, stayed at a hospital and then was released when he was behaving normally, but still considered himself a robot. The article was written after his break had ended. [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 2:33 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Hactar at 2:33 PM PST - 4 comments
Munich in January?
I'm going to Munich the second week of January! What should I do in Munich in January? [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 2:08 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by 2bucksplus at 2:08 PM PST - 9 comments
How to modify potato recipe cooking time/temperature?
Can I cook the potatoes at a lower temperature for a longer period of time and have a good result? Will the potatoes dry out or not cook (or otherwise go wrong) if cooked longer at a lower temperature? Can I cook them and then reheat them without them getting soggy or otherwise weird? [more inside]
posted by AllieTessKipp at 1:56 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by AllieTessKipp at 1:56 PM PST - 10 comments
Why do drivers swerve left to turn right (and vice versa)?
I see this behavior all the time on the road, and I don't really get it: drivers about to turn -- usually into a parking lot/space -- who first swerve in the opposite direction before making the turn. Sometimes it's just a small movement. Other times the driver will actually swerve into the other lane before turning. What is the advantage in doing so? It doesn't look like a move that saves any amount of time or effort, and in most cases seems counter-productive. I've tried this to see what the benefit is, but have only ended up making my turn less efficient.
posted by Mo' Money Moe Bandy at 1:21 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Mo' Money Moe Bandy at 1:21 PM PST - 35 comments
Small Thanksgiving meal thought: Am I missing something?
I think I figured out a way to simplify my family's Thanksgiving meal. What didn't I think of? [more inside]
posted by Marky at 1:10 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Marky at 1:10 PM PST - 21 comments
[MovieFilter] Help me remember this movie
I can only remember one scene, where a woman is looking for a kid gone missing (maybe her own or maybe she was babysitting) and ends up finding him with a couple of pedophiles (a man and a woman) who have the missing kid and one or two others. The kid is hidden somewhere in their place and at first she is almost ready to leave, but then something strikes her as odd, and she starts noticing little details, like the nursery floor covered with plastic (to make cleanup easier). She comes back and finds the hidden kid and I think she ends up shooting the pedo couple.
The movie is from the last decade or so. I can't remember any of the actors. I think the missing kid story was just one of several intertwining stories in the movie.
posted by gakiko at 12:37 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by gakiko at 12:37 PM PST - 6 comments
Is there a dead-simple way to create an insert for an audio cassette?
Assuming a level of graphics competence at "low, but very willing to learn", what's the easiest method of creating inserts for audio cassettes? Level of quality around "punk/hardcore/straight edge" on the sliding scale. Preference slightly skewed to a 4 or 5 panel card, tools available are MS Office products, Photoshop Elements and of course GIMP. Access to printers and copiers, willing to lay out double digits for a tool, click-and-drag type template, or assistance. Thoughts/advice/help?
Will I collapse and then freeze to death in the woods?
I've been thinking of trying cross-country skiing this winter. How easy is it to learn, and is it possible to start without a great baseline level of fitness? [more inside]
I've been going in circles about this for a while
My relatively new boyfriend (half a year) told me he never wanted to get married or have kids. I have always wanted these things. Friends tell me that since we're still young and none of this is an issue yet, I shouldn't be worrying about it, but I can't help it. What to do? [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 11:56 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 11:56 AM PST - 49 comments
Elephant: Combining B2B sales divisions in a large company
I work in e-commerce at a large national retailer. We have at least four other B2B divisions at some stage of e-commerce, and we all know it's time to get our act orchestrated.
The question: the head of one of the groups-- my boss-- has asked me to provide internal or external content that makes the case for not only getting our omnichannel presence together online, but also combining our processes and customer-facing (CRM) act together, too.
Anyone been to this rodeo? Have any resources you can point out?
should I switch to Ting phone service ?
I'm thinking of switching my phone service from sprint to Ting. Since this is a change that's difficult to undo, I'm asking for feedback ( positive or negative ) about how your Ting experience has been.
I'm in Seattle so if you're a Seattle Ting customer, I'm particularly interested in what you have to say about signal quality, 4g/3g service, etc.
I'm not too concerned about the savings of switching to Ting. It's clear that I come out ahead even with the penalty I have to pay for terminating my contract early. I'm more interested in any gotchas that you didn't find out about or think about until after choosing Ting. For example, unexpected roaming charges, bad customer service, bad reception...
If it makes any difference, my phone is a samsung galaxy s3 .
Thanks!
mineral rights
Through a long series of events I have come to own some mineral rights on some acreage near Norman, OK. I found out I owned when I was contacted by a landman offering to lease it. I thought the offer fair, so I took the money. But now I am getting offers to outright buy it. [more inside]
How can I improve my computer screen reading experience?
I do a lot of proofreading for work, but it's a struggle compared to proofreading hard copies. I already use f.lux to cut down on eye strain, and browser plugins to make text more readable, but I find I'm still straining to keep my eyes from bouncing all over the place. Help! [more inside]
Should I give my baby the same name as my cousin's child?
I'm pregnant with my second child (yaaay!) and am mulling over naming options with my husband. Two of my favorites are family names, but already taken by the children of cousins. Is it weird for us to use the names, too? [more inside]
Incognito Rolex?
From 1967 until his death, my dad wore a perpetual-movement stainless steel watch that my mother gave him when they got married. He always said it was an "incognito Rolex," and I've recently learned that there might be some truth to that. Watch-loving MeFites, can you help me discover my watch's history and teach me how to change the date on its face? [more inside]
Question about resume and jobs in Democratic politics in the South
I am considering some jobs in Democratic politics in Georgia or elsewhere in the South, and I'm wondering if there are some activities that I should leave off my resume and cover letter, even if they might have some relevance to the job I am applying for. [more inside]
Help me identify this short story based on my hazy memory, please.
I heard a story (fiction) on the radio a few years ago and I'd like to find out what it was called and who wrote it. It was most likely presented on the show "Selected Shorts" but I'm not certain about that. The story took place in a town where everything seemed normal except that a black shape appeared one day in the sky overhead. Slowly over time the black shape fills the sky until the horizon is covered. A married couple are at the center of the story - there's more about their relationship than this thing in the sky. I think the sky-thing is a metaphor for something unspoken that dominates our fears. The characters barely react to it's presence (I think.) Anyone out there know this story?
posted by cellura p at 9:45 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by cellura p at 9:45 AM PST - 7 comments
Looking for web app development resources.
Help me find good web app planning and development resources. [more inside]
Can I put a TV in my window so I can watch while I watch?
What are the downsides, or dangers to my TV, of putting my TV in a bay window? [more inside]
posted by Naib at 9:35 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Naib at 9:35 AM PST - 7 comments
Real propaganda?
Defense Against Enemy Propaganda, a 1956 film intended for US troops, contains a couple of clips of Soviet propaganda with voiceovers in English. Are they genuine Soviet films? Where did they come from? [more inside]
Life is awesome. I'm depressed. How do I become ok?
I think I've been plagued by this low-grade, corrosive depression for a while now. Maybe over a year. You think, "Ah ok if I do this and achieve this and fix this in my life maybe things will be okay again." And they don't turn out that way. I've reached goals, I've exercised, I've tried CBT. I don't enjoy living. What do I do? [more inside]
Help me give my first blowjob.
I'm a gal in my late 20s and I've never given a blowie before. Give me some tips on how to try it out without embarrassing myself too badly. [more inside]
Help me to check the information against a source about Fuller
"He had catched a great cold,had he had no other clothes to wear than the skin of a bear not yet killed."- Fuller- This is from "Middlemarch" written by G.Eliot. I'd like to know the source of Thomas Fuller. I can't find any information about it whereas I read a lot of his another quotations on the internet. I wonder if he really said so...
posted by mizukko at 8:39 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by mizukko at 8:39 AM PST - 1 comment
Driving from Maine to Chicago via Canada with 2 dogs...Tips?
We are planning to drive to Chicago for the holidays, and we thought it might be fun to go through Canada on the " getting there" leg of the trip. We will have two dogs with us, so the sightseeing and lodging would have to include them. [more inside]
posted by lobstah at 8:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lobstah at 8:28 AM PST - 9 comments
App for alternate-side parking regulations, street by street, in NYC?
Is there an app or a web site that will tell you what the alternate-side regulations for each block in the city? (And if there are meters or) not. [more inside]
Home-owners Insurance Co Wants to Survey House...After 12 years
I've had a home-owners policy with the same insurance company since purchasing my house in 2002. Last week, I had a message on my answering machine from a man identifying himself as an auditor with a 2nd party surveying firm. He said he was calling at the request of my insurance company to set up a date/time for a survey of my house. [more inside]
Any recommendations on how to donate labor to disaster recovery?
Lacking money but possessing skills, I'd really like to pitch in, and Illinois isn't too far away. How can I volunteer labor and time? [more inside]
posted by TomMelee at 7:35 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by TomMelee at 7:35 AM PST - 9 comments
Plant ID for pets
Is this a polka dot plant? I need to know in case Mr. Muffin decides to munch on it (details and links to pics inside) [more inside]
posted by Calzephyr at 6:59 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Calzephyr at 6:59 AM PST - 8 comments
Better than now? Maybe? Different from now? Certainly!
Awhile ago, a friend of mine on Facebook posted this picture of John Kennedy and friends in some kind of control room. I commented about how photographs from the 60s had a certain quality about them that I tried to find words for. I came up with 'hyperclarity' in that stuff in the background and foreground are blurry as usual, but when an object is in focus, it is in FOCUS! What makes this happen? The film? The equipment? Photographic technique current at the time? [more inside]
Combating SAD with a light therapy box - suggestions?
My mood has always taken a downturn around November and picked up again mid-April for as long as I can remember. I've been getting particularly depressed this year, so I talked with my therapist and was diagnosed with SAD. She recommended a light therapy box to help, but with my circumstances I am unsure of which to purchase. Details inside. [more inside]
How is distillery formed?
How do newcomers enter the spirits business when distilling without a permit and or without paying excise taxes is a federal crime? Home distilling is not a viable gateway hobby like home brewing. [more inside]
Private Genes.
Who does genetic testing that is as interested in protecting my privacy as taking my money? [more inside]
posted by Goofyy at 6:26 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Goofyy at 6:26 AM PST - 8 comments
T-shirts for chubby, busty women?
I'm seeking the perfect black t-shirt. I'm also fat, short and busty. Where should I look? [more inside]
Proper Settings for Adobe Media Encoder Bulk Transcoding?
Previously, I have used Adobe Media Encoder to convert hundreds of varying video files in to one common format. Works great. Set it and forget it. A godsend.
Now, I have a folder of about 5000 WMVs (with a few MPGs and MOVs scattered throughout) of all different resolutions and quality. I need to convert them to MP4s, each the same resolution and quality of the file each original was. [more inside]
Birth control pills and ejaculation inside vagina
I would like to know your opinions about ejaculation inside the vagina and the risks of pregnancy, while using birth control. [more inside]
Skinny man seeks winter coat (London)
I like M&S-style clothing, but as a slender man (35 chest 31 waist) I often have trouble finding something that fits, and the M&S range of winter coats, even in 'Small', looks a little baggy on me. Where else in London could I find something reasonably stylish, but also warm, to wear over a shirt & sweater, for less than, say, £300? [more inside]
best places to live working in west covina (los angeles?)
I'll be working in West Covina, CA in the Los Angeles area for two months early next year. (I currently live in DC). I'm trying to figure out where to live. [more inside]
Legal copyright procedure?
How does someone get a copyright to a photograph they have taken? [more inside]
posted by BillyAnne at 4:19 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by BillyAnne at 4:19 AM PST - 5 comments
How to deal with spicy food when avoidance is not possible
I am starting to travel to India for business, there is no getting around it. I LOVE to eat, but I do not like spicy/hot food. Everything (to my palate) is spicy in India. How to acclimatize? Just time? Please help. [more inside]
posted by alchemist at 4:17 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by alchemist at 4:17 AM PST - 25 comments
How should I spend $3000? Need to thank 1000 volunteers
I work for a fledgling non-profit. We have 1000 volunteers spread throughout the state but most people are in the capital. We hold a barbecue once a year and inevitably, it's here in the city. Most of our social events, meetings etc are here in the city.
Now we're coming up to the end of the year, I really want t thank everyone for their hard work. The thing we're doing is socially, historically and politically significant. It's an uphill battle for many because we're breaking long and tightly held tradition and often its the people outside of the big city who deal with the most resistance (therefore, do the hardest work and with least support).
1. What are some good things you've done or seen to thank volunteers in general?
2. What can I do to include those who are out of the city?
I have $3000 to spend.
How to do what I want in Remember the Milk?
I have daily, weekly, monthly, and seasonal tasks. I want these tasks to show up on their due date and stay on my to do list until I complete them. Then I want them to disappear until the next due date.
But instead of showing me what repeating tasks are currently due, my inbox shows me the next instance of ALL repeating tasks. How can I use RTM to only show me the tasks that are currently due?
Thanks.
Help me find a new psychiatrist in NYC pdq?
I've looked at all the askme NYC psychiatrist questions but haven't found what I'm looking for, which is a recommendation for a doctor who will pretty much do two things: take insurance and manage meds. I am not interested in talk therapy; I have a non-MD therapist that I love. My prescriptions are just straightforward antidepressant/anxiety stuff. [more inside]
posted by torticat at 2:13 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by torticat at 2:13 AM PST - 11 comments
Apart from the William Tell Overture.
Classical music for workouts? [more inside]
Explain this Spanish translation for me
I was googling for a Spanish chef called Karlos Arguinaño and found what turned out to be his web site but Google Translate seems to have a wicked sense of humour as every mention of his name is translated as Gourmet Dessert, this made reading the pages very confusing initially.
Google Translate seems to not convert the words in isolation or in reverse order but only when the name appears in full. What is going on? Is this some lingustic subtlety or guerrilla branding?
posted by epo at 2:08 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by epo at 2:08 AM PST - 8 comments
Seeking gunk-free mascara
My current mascara (Cover Girl Professional) leaves residue that collects in my tear duct area and beneath my lower eyelid. I apply the mascara carefully, and remove it thoroughly at the end of the day, but the gunk nevertheless manages to surface, sometimes the following morning. I've tried both the waterproof and non-waterproof formulas without success.
While this doesn't irritate my eyes (yet), I can't imagine it's good for them.
I'm seeking recommendations for mascara that won't leave gunk behind. Bonus if it's also effective at making your lashes long and full.
Book recommendation for feminist soon-to-stay-at-home mum
Please help me find a good book gift for my amazing manager who is leaving before Christmas - after fifteen years in HR, she has decided to spend some time with her two school-age kids, one of whom is disabled and needs more time of her than she can manage whilst working. [more inside]
November 17
How do I swap houses with my mother?
My mother has suddenly got into a position where she cannot afford to keep up payments on her mortgage since retiring. The amount left she has to pay is £14,000. I have a mortgage of £72,000 left to pay on my own house. How do I go about tacking the £14,000 onto my own mortgage and swapping houses so she lives in my place mortgage free and I have her house with an increased mortgage? (Bonus points for a super easy fix for all this!)
Language school in Beijing needs business model advice.
We have an idea to create a paid membership site based around short educational videos. We have lots of supplementary materials (PDF's e.t.c) to go with each video. Our question is how much should we give away for free?
Any experience with paid membership sites based around a freemmium model would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Self-Perpetuating Hierarchy
I saw an incredibly concise quote floating around social media a few weeks back that described how hierarchy becomes self-perpetuating. The gist of it was that those at the top of a hierarchy deprive those below them of the practice required to conceptualize and implement their own plans, and then turn around and justify their position by pointing out how incapable their subordinates have become.
I'm almost certain the person quoted was female, and I'm fairly sure she was a social sciences academic, but may have been an activist of some stripe.
posted by wobdev at 9:32 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by wobdev at 9:32 PM PST - 1 comment
Dear Santa, I can explain....
Help me write clever holiday cards. [more inside]
Where to donate / sell specific items in Atlanta?
I have inherited multiple generations of household items that I would like to donate to the best possible recipients in Atlanta or sell if there is a market for these items. [more inside]
Shoe repair while you wait in Manhattan?
I'm visiting Manhattan for a few days, and only have one pair of shoes. The stitching on one side has started to come apart, but I really like these shoes. I'd like to get them repaired, and not buy a new pair. Is there anywhere I can get my shoes repaired while I wait? If it helps, I'll be in the upper west side.
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 7:30 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 7:30 PM PST - 2 comments
Holes in the wall, concrete behind drywall, shelving disaster.. help!
I'm trying to put up shelves on a wall that, I believe, is drywall over concrete. I made holes for plastic anchors, but the drywall part isn't deep enough for them to fit. Help, I'm about as handy as the two I have at the of my arms! [more inside]
posted by cacofonie at 7:19 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by cacofonie at 7:19 PM PST - 8 comments
Is this anaphylaxis?
Several times in the past 2 years, my husband has had episodes of skin redness. He also seemed oddly drunk. He's already promised me he'll make an appointment with our doctor about it, but I'm curious what questions he should be asking and what precautions we should take. [more inside]
Why would remaining silent "harm your defence" in the UK?
Was just watching a UK mystery-crime show when one of the cops recited the right-to-silence statement, which includes the phrase
posted by Deathalicious at 6:35 PM PST - 18 comments
You do not have to say anything. But it may harm your defence if you do not mention when questioned something which you later rely on in court. Anything you do say may be given in evidence.This seems backwards to the law in the States where nothing you say to the police is useful for your defense. I'm curious about the legal circumstances under which answering police questions would benefit the accused. [more inside]
posted by Deathalicious at 6:35 PM PST - 18 comments
How can I look more "tough"?
I'd like to incorporate a bit more edginess into my work look (I work in a creative field, and as a lady, I want to project a bit less sweetness and a bit more edge). What are some ways I can do this? Open to any appearance-related suggestion-- clothing, hair, makeup, accessories, etc.-- with the exception of satanic face tattoos. [more inside]
posted by enzymatic at 6:33 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by enzymatic at 6:33 PM PST - 36 comments
immaculate conception: hermit crab style
A weird thing happened with our hermit crab(s). We started with two, one died, but now we have two again! [more inside]
Getting over a love and hate relationship with a womanizer
I dated a guy, on and off, for more than two years... He didn't commit and even slept with other women while he was sleeping with me. I still loved him but hated him at the same time. I tried to get my revenge but I don't know what to feel anymore. [more inside]
Help me become a bomb-ass hip-hop dancer in New York City!
Where do you find great hip-hop dance classes in NYC? I have never taken a dance class before. I am interested in private instruction or intimate classes (NOT a gym class...). I would like to learn as quickly as possible, in a structured way. I don't expect to go from 0-60 overnight, but I will put in some serious work. I tend to prefer methodical approaches to learning new skills with clear goals. I'm most interested in hearing about personal experiences and recommendations.
posted by yaymukund at 6:09 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by yaymukund at 6:09 PM PST - 1 comment
Teach me the piano.
I have loads of free time and would really like to use it in a positive way. I want to be more musical and have always been attracted to the piano. I spent a few years in middle school band playing the tromobne but haven't done anything musical since (I'm 27). I've been pondering the idea of buying a keyboard and searching for some software or resources for self-learning. Does anyone have any good recommendations for a young adult who wants to learn the piano?
What's that essay about hearing "finger fucking" in Blondie's "Rapture?"
Back in the 1980s, when I was an impressionable lad, I read an essay in which the author remembered a friend of his insisting that Debbie Harry sang a lyric that included "finger-fucking" in the hit song "Rapture." I remembered this as appearing in Stephen King's book Danse Macabre, but I just checked the e-book edition and it's not there — and it doesn't really fit with the mission of Danse Macabre, anyway. Do you know where this essay appeared? [more inside]
Help me name/make my playlist!
I'm putting together a new playlist and so far have added Drake's Hold on, We're Going Home and Lady Gaga's Do What U Want. I need help coming up with a better name than "That SOUND" and finding more songs to fill it. [more inside]
What was supposedly in these jars? Please translate the labels?
I bought eighteen apothecary jars at a recent auction. They were from the set of Total Recall, and some of them still have labels on them. I'm not sure what language it's in, and I'm curious about whether the "herbs" in them had the names of anything real, or if someone just made stuff up for the movies. Have a look at these three, for instance, and please let me know if you can translate? (The middle label may now be upside down at this point.) Thanks, in hopes of satisfying my curiosity.
posted by peagood at 5:13 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by peagood at 5:13 PM PST - 6 comments
DIY ombre dye velvet curtains?
I bought a pair of very hefty velvet curtains and am wondering whether or not it is possible to ombre dye the bases of them with bleach... this is soooorta the look I am going for, and the curtains are dark green and 9' long. I don't want to ruin them, they are very nice curtains... how well does velvet bleach?
Thanks for any and all suggestions!
dirty backpacker seeks employment
I'm currently traveling outside the us and trying to line up a job for when I get home in January. Help me succeed. [more inside]
posted by geegollygosh at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by geegollygosh at 4:48 PM PST - 9 comments
Best digital photo frame - easily adding pics via iPad?
Any photo frames out there easily allow adding of photos via an iPad? [more inside]
It's all downhill...
How do you make sure your kids have a good time sledding? [more inside]
posted by Sublimity at 4:30 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Sublimity at 4:30 PM PST - 32 comments
I'm slow, lethargic, unproductive, dirty, messy - but it's just me
I'm generally a very, very messy girl. It's really cramping on my style and how I feel about myself. I feel pretty close to the people on Hoarders when I really let myself go (which happens when my mother doesn't get on my case every week)... I just simply have no energy or motivation to cleaning my room. My poor mother has no idea why I am the way I am.
I also do NOTHING over the weekend. If I'm at home for a break, I have an insanely hard time getting anything done, doing ANYTHING productive. I do EVERYTHING last minute. It's insane, stressful, horrid. I have a hard time following through on anything important, any big projects on a long-term basis. While I have some successes (doing decently at school, have cultivated some cool hobbies, have had some great experiences, have learned a lot, etc) I think I'm reaching about 30% of my potential. I have some sneaking suspicions why I'm this way, but how do I change this? [more inside]
posted by rhythm_queen at 4:28 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by rhythm_queen at 4:28 PM PST - 48 comments
Japanese/Korean food for the Chinese home cook?
Reasonably decent Chinese home cook would like to venture into Japanese and/or Korean cuisine. I'd appreciate help on (1) good cookbooks, (2) pantry stocking and (3) choice of cuisine! [more inside]
Seeing a play at Cort Theater in New York - What seats should I get?
I'm planning on going to see Patrick Stewart and Ian Mckellen do Waiting for Godot (AMAZING!). The tickets are a lot, from $100-300. Because it's already that much, it would really stink to get some of the cheaper tickets and be dissatisfied with them. Can you tell me which tickets to buy? Seating chart inside. [more inside]
posted by Buckt at 3:53 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Buckt at 3:53 PM PST - 4 comments
What's a good gift for a parent and child on the go?
Over the next year, my friend will be doing a lot of air travel with her one-year-old child in tow. What are some useful products that will make the whole airport/airplane process easier for both of them?
Definitive book for Doing Things?
Is there a definitive activity book? Sort of like a cookbook, but for Activities To Do? [more inside]
posted by aniola at 3:39 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by aniola at 3:39 PM PST - 6 comments
Stumped on this Sudoku
I've been stuck on this Sudoku for weeks. What's the next step? [more inside]
posted by johnofjack at 3:25 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by johnofjack at 3:25 PM PST - 14 comments
What advert is this?
Looking for a TV advert where a woman is walking through the woods surrounded by cute woodland animals in the style of Snow White. She ends up leading the animals into a trap. (I think).
posted by iamsuper at 2:53 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by iamsuper at 2:53 PM PST - 2 comments
Novels about entering middle age?
Can you recommend fiction books that feature a main character who is entering middle age and is evaluating his or her life so far, and what direction their life should take? [more inside]
posted by mark7570 at 2:18 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by mark7570 at 2:18 PM PST - 27 comments
Please identify this trailer music.
The UK trailer for the French film Les infidèles has a piece of music about thirty-five seconds in. Does anyone know the artist and title? The hearable lyrics are "I see you watchin the way that I walk, I know you like it the way that I talk..." which seem impervious to Googling and Midomi doesn't recognise it.
Desoerately Seeking info on Painting of Two Butterflies Dancing on Stage
Once, I saw in an art book a reproduction of a beautiful drawing of two butterflies dancing and stamping on a theatre stage, the curtains pulled apart behind them.
I've been looking for this drawing , I don't even know who the artist is. Perhaps Dufy? Thanks!
In search of decadent, divisible, freezable recipes
I’m looking for a specific type of recipe that will hit that right note of yummy hearty comfort food AND that I can make a decent quantity of so I can freeze the leftovers in one-serving containers for nights when I don’t feel like cooking and really shouldn’t order/eat out. I’m looking for stuff that is decadent and enticing enough to persuade me that I’ll feel just as “treated” as if I’d gone out. [more inside]
posted by hapax_legomenon at 1:31 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by hapax_legomenon at 1:31 PM PST - 28 comments
Immigration to Europe, preferably Nordic, without a Bachelor's degree?
Best way for a moderately successful Canadian tech entrepreneur without a degree to emigrate to Europe? [more inside]
Your experience with solar power
We're seriously contemplating installing a PV system on our roof. Any experience you've had with this process would be most appreciated. [more inside]
Trying to find an artist...
I'm trying to find the artist who made this painting. I purchased the painting in Orta San Giulio, Italy, about 5 years ago.
The signature says "Bertocchi" although it may say "Beitocchi". The painting came in a larger frame, I think I spent about $200 for it, however it may have been slightly more.
Would like to get more works by this artist on this location.
Thanks!
Space Jam II
My jam did the thing again -- it levitated in the jar overnight. I took a photo this time. I'm asking again in the hopes that someone new may have a definitive answer, as I'd like to know for sure if this means the jam is now inedible. [more inside]
Help me get my jam on! (Because I can-can-can!)
This year for Christmas, I want to make jam, specifically this strawberry-grapefruit marmalade. But I've never canned anything in my life! Specific questions inside. [more inside]
posted by Weeping_angel at 11:59 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Weeping_angel at 11:59 AM PST - 7 comments
How safe is Clinton Hill, Brooklyn?
I've been living in Brooklyn Heights for two years. It's expensive and kind of boring, but definitely very safe. I'm moving soon and found a place I love in Clinton Hill close to Pratt. I love the beautiful architecture and artsy vibe. I was ready to sign a year's lease but then I did a bit of googling and found out that Clinton Hill and Fort Greene were found to be the 6th most dangerous neighborhood in NYC.
Is Clinton Hill really that dangerous? I am a 95 pound woman in my 20s, not super street smart, but familiar with the Subway and Brooklyn in general. Is moving to Clinton Hill a bad idea? Am I doomed to moving to Park Slope instead just to be safe? Will I be okay in Clinton Hill as long as I don't walk home alone at midnight - which I do in Brooklyn Heights now? Or conversely, is it on the dangerous level of not walking alone any time after dark?
What is the likelihood we picked up worms from our pets?
Our dog had tape worms several weeks ago. Presumably she got them from raw pork fat she got out of the garbage overnight. We gave her medication as prescribed by the vet and they cleared up quickly. We just noticed several small worms sticking to the area around our cat's butt. [more inside]
A Christmas present for my sister who is travelling in Asia
I am trying to find a great Christmas present for my sister. This year there are complications. [more inside]
Is "tee tee" for pee a regional or ethnic thing?
Is "tee-tee" for urination a regional or ethnic thing? [more inside]
posted by vincele at 11:49 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by vincele at 11:49 AM PST - 37 comments
Gold leaf stuck on cat eyeball
My new hobby is gilding things and now the cat has a big gold leaf stuck to her eyeball. How bad is it for the cat? Will it just go away by itself?
This feels like Iron Potluck
My office does everything-but-the-bird potluck for Thanksgiving, with prizes in each category. But every year I kind of end up punting to something dumb because we have some limitations. I want to impress this year. [more inside]
posted by Lyn Never at 10:56 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Lyn Never at 10:56 AM PST - 14 comments
Days of wine and oxtails...
What's the best wine to use to cook oxtails? According to the recipe, I should"use a wine that [I'd] enjoy drinking." Ah, but I enjoy drinking a lot of different kinds of wine. I've googled and looked at previous AskMes, but all I really get are suggestions on what to pair with beefy dishes. Is that what I should be using to cook with, too?
posted by LynnDee at 10:30 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by LynnDee at 10:30 AM PST - 12 comments
How do I get into the field of Human Resources?
I am currently a program assistant in banking, but I am considering trying to get into HR. How can I successfully achieve this goal? (details inside) [more inside]
Short, brilliant books on management?
My software management roll is expanding, looking for those rare, insightful, better than average books on the subject. [more inside]
posted by colin_l at 7:27 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by colin_l at 7:27 AM PST - 9 comments
Can you have a mini-seizure due to food blocking your airway?
So I was just eating some hummus on crackers while doing something else, felt a clump of hummus get lodged in my throat, felt briefly dizzy, then a kind of blackout for about five seconds. Came to, my trackball has been knocked off the desk. I otherwise feel 100% okay. What just happened? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 6:31 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Shepherd at 6:31 AM PST - 11 comments
Help me find volunteer work for theater gigs in Philly.
For reasons related to an interest in playwriting, I want to volunteer for Philly theater companies. I'll do anything as long as it is related to the theater and in the company of other theater folks. THE BIG CHALLENGE: I'm a wheelchair user. What is the best way to approach this looking-for-volunteer work situation?
I want a copy of the audio guide in the Forbidden City
The Forbidden City has a cool self-guided audio tour. How can I get the audio track? [more inside]
How to make a ring with a certain image
I've been googling and googling different ways to make rings, but I can't find precisely what I'm looking for. I have an image that I'd like to use to make a ring with a simple band. I want to know how to treat/preserve/protect the image so I can wear it frequently and also how to turn it into a ring. A plain wire-type band is fine with me. Adjustable size is ideal, but a fixed one would work too. Does anybody either know how to do this or know of a resource that would be helpful? I think this is enough information, but feel free to ask if you have other questions. Thank you!
Substitute Philippines telephone carrier SIM for my AT&T SIM in Ipad 3
I purchased an iPad (3rd generation) with AT&T SIM in Dallas in 2012. I am now living in Philippines and would like to use the device's comms capability with a Philipppines carrier. However, I have tried simply switching the AT&T SIM with one from the Philippines carrier, GLOBE. [more inside]
posted by lometogo at 2:27 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by lometogo at 2:27 AM PST - 6 comments
November 16
What are some non-ideological resources related to gender issues?
I've personally found that the vast majority of blogs or discussion groups on gender issues (both feminist and MRA) are either too extreme or too ideological. For example, while I am generally opposed to affirmative action (but might consider it allowable in extreme circumstances), I'd love to debate someone who generally supports it, but who is willing to consider the possibility that they may be wrong. Or it would be nice to read an article about the wage gap where the writer isn't trying to either maximise or minimise it, but actually discover what the gap is and what causes there are
What are some good moderate and non-ideological resources? Try to keep in mind, that what a non-feminist, non-MRA like me considers moderate is obviously going to be different from what a feminist or MRA considers to be moderate
posted by casebash at 9:51 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by casebash at 9:51 PM PST - 18 comments
I love you to the Moon and back / I love you to the Stars and beyond
What are the top space / space exploration achievements for 2013? [more inside]
posted by Mike Mongo at 9:42 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Mike Mongo at 9:42 PM PST - 8 comments
Take my husband, please.
Calling all the comedy writers of MetaFilter! Mr. BlahLaLa have a low-key but long-running marital dispute. I've decided that I need some snappy one-liners to throw at him the next time this happens. Give them to me? [more inside]
Types of Defects in Vision
When I was around 8 years old, I would get headaches if I watched TV for more than an hour or so. My mother took my to the optometrist and I was given an Rx for glasses that were supposed to make my eyes "aline correctly". What is the technical term for the type of vision defect I was suffering from? [more inside]
posted by 517 at 9:22 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by 517 at 9:22 PM PST - 1 comment
Scooter safety
What should I be aware of in terms of safely riding a small scooter (150cc) in the dark on icy city roads, with extra baggage? [more inside]
posted by Rainflower at 8:49 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Rainflower at 8:49 PM PST - 28 comments
What is it like to own an old-ish farm property with a pond and stable?
I'm currently on the market for a house, and have made a critical error in my house hunting quest - I've fallen in love with a house - which is a 1970s era home with stables, a horse paddock, and a pond. I have thus lost the ability to be objective in my assessment of said house, and so I turn to you, AskMe…. [more inside]
posted by treehorn+bunny at 8:04 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by treehorn+bunny at 8:04 PM PST - 53 comments
Why am I so tired?
For the last several weeks, I've been very tired and prone to napping during the day. This doesn't seem to affect my ability to fall asleep at night. Before you suggest sleep apnea: yep, I have it. I use my CPAP as directed - I breathe so much better with it on that it's no hassle for me to use it (even during my frequent naps). More details below: [more inside]
posted by rikhei at 8:02 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by rikhei at 8:02 PM PST - 13 comments
Smallest border on tablet
What is the tablet with the smallest border? Are there any where the screen goes all the way to the edge?
posted by meech at 8:02 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by meech at 8:02 PM PST - 4 comments
What sci fi story had an assistant trapped in a prof's simluation?
I remember reading a seminal short story notable for raising ethical issues about simulated consciousness, but I can't recall the title or author. I believe a group of researchers were trapped in the simulation, being used to draft papers for the Professor. [more inside]
posted by brownbat at 7:49 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by brownbat at 7:49 PM PST - 7 comments
Best free antivirus software in 2013?
This was last asked in 2011, and things can change a lot over 2 years. In your experience, what is the best (free) way to protect one's PC?
Ideally, it would use native system dialogs, not hog the CPU, and respect users by not constantly attempting to up-sell.
How do you get over someone who loves you and still leaves you
There's a lot of advice out there for getting over someone but I can't wrap my head around being left unexpectedly when I still feel loved. First time being broken up with at 30 doesn't help either... [more inside]
How do I include tethering in my AT&T order?
In spring of 2014 I will be getting an iPhone 5S. I cannot figure out how to get a plan that includes tethering so I can generate wifi for my non-cellular iPad mini. What will I need to do to activate that during my order (I am switching from Verizon to AT&T) and how do I find out how much it will cost in addition to my unlimited talk/text plus XGB of data? I have already contacted customer support and they have given me the same unhelpful stuff that's on the AT&T website.
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 4:39 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 4:39 PM PST - 7 comments
Simple meals, low sodium, one skillet
What are some tasty low sodium meals I can make in a skillet? [more inside]
Samsung 3 or 4 OR the Iphone 5s
I need a mobile phone for work and am debating, help me choose please [more inside]
How to troubleshoot the phones in my house.
I'm looking for pointers for troubleshooting the phones in our house. They seem to have been installed by Cheech and Chong and appear to be wired in series: one to the next. However, some work and some do not. [more inside]
posted by jquinby at 3:21 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by jquinby at 3:21 PM PST - 4 comments
Do I go to my stepson's wedding if I don't support it?
Do I go to my barely 18 year old stepson's wedding if I don't support the reasons and believe it to be a huge mistake? Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
to authenticate a lie
Is there a word that means to corroborate a lie? For example if one person says the sky is green and then another person confirms that they sky is green. Or is there a legal term for this as well in the sense of lying about statutes?
posted by skwint at 2:50 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by skwint at 2:50 PM PST - 14 comments
I need to share this space somehow...
I like my housemates but hate sharing the kitchen with them. This is not good for housemate relationships. I can't move out. What can I do to mitigate things in the mean time? [more inside]
The alternative is removing either the dashboard or my knees...
I really want to have something small and sporty but I've just had my heart broken by discovering i'm too tall for the MR2, MX5 and GT86. Is there anything available in the UK that I will be able to drive? [more inside]
Whom should I ask for a letter of recommendation?
I'm a liberal arts major who wants to study Nutrition Science. I know that a letter of recommendation from a community college teacher generally doesn't carry as much weight as a letter from someone teaching at a university. Unfortunately, I have only taken science classes at the community college level. Is my case an exception? [more inside]
posted by aphorist at 1:52 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by aphorist at 1:52 PM PST - 10 comments
Please help me find a wellness escape where I can recover (East Coast)
One of my oldest friends just died and I'm feeling serious Crohn's pain starting to creep up again, threatening my remission. Everything in my life right now is stressful and exhausting, and I know that if I do nothing I will have a full-bore flair on my hands by thanksgiving. I need help finding a health resort/ wellness retreat on the East Coast - optimally between DC and Boston. My wealthy uncle says money is no object, so my only real stipulation is somewhere that isn't too scary/isolated for a young woman alone. [more inside]
Movie with a twist in a very modern house on the coast
What's that James Bond style cinema movie, where at the end hero and heroin are inside a very modern house on the coast, overlooking the ocean? The house might be surrounded by mediterranean pine trees. The two are followed and discovered by a team of police or similar, and then follows some kind of a twist, a pun, a surprise. Sorry, can't even remember what that is. Thank you!
posted by oxit at 12:30 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by oxit at 12:30 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I get used to not having an item I loved?
My house was burglarized this week and I'm taking it surprisingly well. This isn't my first time having my place broken and entered, and I know I'll eventually start feeling safe here again. But one thing that was stolen had profound sentimental value, and I feel like I'm in a bit of denial and trying to understand how to heal. [more inside]
What to do about $600 glasses?
I got a new pair of glasses. Hated them (exaggerated my baby face). Returned them and got another pair. Hated them too (too severe, made me look like a mean old witch). Yes, I know this makes it seem like I'm the problem, but there aren't a lot of glasses available in my width to choose from, plus the styles I prefer just weren't in the stores at the time. [more inside]
Variations on cat pee + carpet + pulling out my hair
We recently discovered that my cat has been peeing consistently on the carpeted floor behind a bookcase in our rental apartment. The bookcase is ruined, but what can we do about the carpet to keep our security deposit bleeding to a minimum? [more inside]
posted by wintersonata9 at 11:21 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by wintersonata9 at 11:21 AM PST - 9 comments
Specific places for my fiance to apply at
So my fiance is very smart, hardworking, great with people, courteous, etc and so forth. He's currently working as a lead teller at a large banking corporation. He's been there for a while, and the management staff over him have all rotated and gone from being pretty good managers to people that make working there frankly awful for him. He of course wants to leave, but both of our experience has been that looking at places that post lots of classifieds from different sources is that you may as well mail your application to the void. SO! What are your recommendations for specific employers whose job postings we should keep an eye on? [more inside]
Tech that can run Adobe Suite, that is cheap, sturdy, and in bulk?
I need recommendations for a all in one desktop or study laptop that can run the Adobe Suite (not the newest in the creative cloud) for a new proposed Digital Arts course.
These would purely need to run Photoshop, Illustrator - some sort of video editing program, and potentially a light game design program. (Doesn't need to be Flash)
I know about different specs needed but am lost how to find what would work best and for 32+ students in one classroom.
This would be a huge investment for the High School so if I can quote under 30,000 for all the new technology it would be more likely considered. [more inside]
posted by mariecheri at 10:59 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by mariecheri at 10:59 AM PST - 14 comments
I Need a Good Search Box
I have a website that has 50 pages, each containing the text of a different US state constitution. I want a search box that gives me the option to search all 50 constitutions at once (Entire Site) for all mentions of that term OR lets me search a single constitution (Alabama) for all mentions of that term. The box I'm currently using only allows one result of the term per constitution. So the entire site search give a max of 50 results, and a single state search gives a max of 1 result. And Google Custom Search freezes. Do I have to build one or is one available commercially that I can customize and plug in?
Debit card compromised: what should I do besides dealing with my bank?
There was a fraudulent online charge on my debit card which I'm dealing with disputing with my bank. What passwords should I be changing or other tactics now to protect myself and the new card I'll be getting soon?
How should I store my grandmother's fancy table?
I have a very old, fancy-seeming wooden dining table with lots of scrollwork around the edge, etc, that I need to store. The legs are detachable, giving me a 6ft by 4ft by 1ft (or so) oval tabletop with real pretty wood surfaces. I have no idea how she kept it in such good shape for longer than my whole life. [more inside]
posted by doteatop at 10:07 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by doteatop at 10:07 AM PST - 5 comments
Want to chomp some vegan food.
You're vegan? Tell me, what delicious things did you eat this week? [more inside]
Can you help me understand this sign of mourning I saw in Honduras?
When I was living in Honduras, I noticed that when a person died, the family would hang up a large piece of black fabric outside of their house or in their window. This banner would be cut into a shape that reminded me of a bow tie. This might be a long shot, but does anyone know what the history is behind this tradition? [more inside]
posted by Paper rabies at 9:07 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Paper rabies at 9:07 AM PST - 7 comments
Working as a petsitter
For years I have wanted to be a professional petsitter. Right now I work 30 hrs./week in an office. I would do it the "right way," getting insured, learning pet CPR, paying self-employment taxes, etc. Ideally it would be my main job, along with maybe freelance writing on the side (which I have done). Have you done this? Is it possible to make an OK living doing this? I have a lot of marketing experience and animal-related contacts, so that will help.
How much should potential visitors to Israel be worried about polio?
My family has planned, but have not purchased plane tickets for, a trip to see relatives in Israel a couple of months from now. We are concerned about the presence of wild polio virus there, apparently imported from Syria. The CDC is recommending that adults get a booster dose of IPV (the "killed" virus used in the countries, like the US, where polio infection has been essentially eradicated) and that kids are up to date with our vaccination; for our 3-year-old, this would mean getting her last dose of IPV early (though not so early as to violate any guidelines.) But Israeli children are getting OPV, the live vaccine. If I understand correctly, IPV is effective at preventing you from actually getting paralytic polio, but it does not prevent asymptomatic infection with poliovirus. [more inside]
Ideas for a low powered home server running Linux...
I'm not going to be doing much with this. I already have a NAS so this won't be a file server. I just want it to do a few things such as XBMC, OpenVPN server, Squeezebox server, etc.
It's going to be on 24/7, and I don't want it to use much power. Since it is isn't going to be doing too much, I don't want too spend much.
I tried the Raspberry Pi, but it doesn't have enough power. It can run one of these applications perfectly, but it can't run much more at the same time. Same with an old PogoPlug.
I was thinking about one of these: Beaglebone Black? CubieTruck? An old Dell Mini 9?
If anyone has any ideas or can tell me about their low powered/low cost server, I'd appreciate it.
posted by toddst at 6:49 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by toddst at 6:49 AM PST - 18 comments
How high do backgammon stakes get?
In my limited experience, the doubling cube gets to 2 frequently, 4 rarely, and 8 not at all. Among high-level players (for some definition of high-level), how many doubles have ever occurred in a single game? Also, given that the stake of "1" occurs (at least briefly) in every game and the stake of "64" almost never, why is the unit space on the die labeled "64"? [more inside]
Break or Break Up?
My boyfriend of two years has given me the silent treatment for a week now. [more inside]
Gift for a camping enthusiast
My aunt is a big camper. And we're talking serious wilderness mountain/desert camping, not loading up the RV for a weekend. She shops regularly for gear and thus has most of the basic things. I need to get a Christmas present for her.
What are some objects that serious campers/hikers can never have too many or too much of? Alternately, what would make a good gift as an object that is more attractive or otherwise superior to the basic utility version? (I'm thinking here of like a really good folding knife, but I am purely spitballing here.)
Price range would be ~$50.
A is for Autopsy
My soon-to-be-17-year-old niece is interested in pursuing forensic science as a career. What are the best books on the subject that would both entertain and inform her? Fiction and non-fiction suggestions are welcome.
posted by Paris Elk at 4:39 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Paris Elk at 4:39 AM PST - 14 comments
Which Christian Saint said his teachings had been worthless.
I recall that there was a famous Christian Saint who had some type of mystical experience towards the end of his life, said something to the effect that all his previous work had been worthless and did not speak again until his death. Does anyone know who this was?
November 15
LDRs: Tales and travails
Have you been in an LDR? What worked, what didn't, and what's your analysis of the outcome? I'm in an LDR now (after 1.5 years of togetherness and half that cohabitating) and I'm struggling for a number of reasons. Your thoughts/experience/advice/et cetera welcomed. [more inside]
posted by stillmoving at 10:25 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by stillmoving at 10:25 PM PST - 12 comments
Identify this Chrysalis
Saw this chrysalis on an old wooden picture frame inside a house. Would love to know what's going to emerge from this this thing. Description and Links to photos inside. [more inside]
Can you teach me how to winter?
I've spent my entire life (with little exception) between Houston and Atlanta, latitudinally speaking, and moved to Seattle this summer. I don't really know what I'm supposed to be wearing to best handle the winter. [more inside]
Samsung NC20 Laptop Slow, Malware--Should I just reinstall Windows?
I have a Samsung NC20 laptop that I bought 4 or 5 years ago. It runs Windows XP and has some sort of malware, IRP Hook, that AVG has found but cannot remove. In addition, it runs significantly slower than I would like, and cannot play most videos at all--the sound plays fine, but the image just staggers and jumps. [more inside]
What is the best way to back up photos and videos?
What is a good place to back up photos and videos from several different devices into one shared place? [more inside]
Who is this?
Who is the guy being interviewed by Fuse in Washington Square Park last week? I *think* I know, but would like some outside opinions...
I was fired after six weeks. Do I tell potential employers?
What started off as a good relationship with my manager soured after I was not living up to his expectations. More details inside. [more inside]
Engagement rings
I'm trying to develop my taste in engagement rings, but nothing feels right. Help me figure out what I want. [more inside]
Find me the best martial arts choreography of the last 8 years
Okay, so I used to share a house with this guy who would often bring home lots of good Asian cinema (of all sorts, but this question is about martial arts movies), but I moved across the country back in 2005 and I've been getting a hankering for some well-choreographed fighting. I haven't been paying attention to what's come out lately, so I don't know much of what's out there.
So I'm looking for the best and cleverest fight choreography from Asian cinema, from 2005 on. [more inside]
posted by ErWenn at 6:20 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ErWenn at 6:20 PM PST - 14 comments
How to frame a poster...
Is 31.5 inches by 23.5 inches a common frame size? [more inside]
Husbands/Partners of a Surrogate Mom: Tell me your journey/thoughts
If your wife/partner was a surrogate, can you give me some more info? Feelings, type of surrogacy, was it worth it, how was your wife, ANYTHING else useful. Bonus points if you had kids during surrogacy. [more inside]
Funny books for me
Read Pratchet. Read Adams, Asprin. What next? [more inside]
What do you wish you knew when you first started cooking?
I recently took the step from instant meals and dining out to to living a little more health-consciously by making my own meals. Although my creations thus far have all been edible, I get the feeling that I am making a lot of novice mistakes that I would be able to correct more quickly if I had someone more experienced guiding me. To this end I come to you, oh wise MeFites; please share with me a list of things you wish you knew or realized when you started out cooking. (Or, mistakes you used to make that made you much better when you fixed). [more inside]
posted by Kamelot123 at 4:37 PM PST - 57 comments
posted by Kamelot123 at 4:37 PM PST - 57 comments
Navigating after the apocalypse
If Earth-based command centers ceased functioning tomorrow, how long would the GPS system remain usable? [more inside]
posted by escape from the potato planet at 4:34 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by escape from the potato planet at 4:34 PM PST - 4 comments
Charles Dickens -- where to start?
I've read A Christmas Carol, and I sure love it, more often than not I read it on Christmas Day each year. But that's it for me. Where to start on any of these following titles: A Tale of Two Cities. Bleak House. David Copperfield. Great Expectations. Nicholas Nickelby. [more inside]
posted by dancestoblue at 4:20 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by dancestoblue at 4:20 PM PST - 17 comments
Not disciplining 7-y.o. boy for publicly battering younger girl - WTF?
While at a small family gathering in our friends' home, my coworker's 7-year-old son suddenly grabbed a 4-year-old girl, raised her up into the air over his head, and body-slammed her onto the living room floor -- in full and complete view of 8 parents, including both of his own. His parents never did or said anything to him about it that night, and we're all horrified. How do we get to a place of acceptance when folks make vastly different parenting choices than our own, and our kids see it? Details ... [more inside]
posted by hush at 4:08 PM PST - 58 comments
posted by hush at 4:08 PM PST - 58 comments
Those pesky hairs
Need recommendations for a battery-operated ear and nose hair trimmer whose noise level doesn't cause me to become hard of hearing! [more inside]
How to Create and Place a Sign for Delivery People
Help me figure out how to make a permanent sign asking package deliverers to leave packages inside my front door (there's a vestibule, so the outermost door's unlocked). And where to put it! [more inside]
posted by Quisp Lover at 3:39 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 3:39 PM PST - 17 comments
Gift for someone starting a new life overseas
I have a friend who is extremely social and environmental conscious. She has been an activist for most of her life not because she woke up one day and decide to be one, but because she sees where the need is and get busy. She is an Pediatric Nurse Practitioner who volunteered for a month duration in Haiti after earthquake hit in 2010. During her service at Haiti, she saw what she was doing was just a stop gap measure and not really in any way helping Haitian to better their medical service and delivery. So she came back and got busy with getting a master degree in Public Health. Now she got a job of a lifetime to go over to Rwanda for Partner's in Health to oversee and train nurses in 3 hospitals and 30 clinics. This assignment is indefinite, meaning she will be starting a brand new life. [more inside]
posted by gloturtle at 3:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by gloturtle at 3:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Pittsburgh: Riding the choo choo with Daddy
What's fun around a Pittsburgh Light Rail stop for a 2.5-year-old? I'm taking my toddler-daughter for a ride on the train tomorrow. Last week we went to Dormont Park. What should we do this week? I haven't spent much time in the South Hills. (I'm looking to go South, not North - we know the North Side in-and-out) Meal suggestions also welcome!
Advent Calendar Ideas Needed for Geeky Adult Male.
My husband is a big fan of Christmas so I would like to do him up an Advent calender to count down the days. I have the actual calender idea sorted, I am going to wrap each present in tissue paper and number them and hang them from a decorated branch that we hang our Christmas cards we get on.
I am looking for smallish reasonably priced present ideas, say no bigger than say a paperback and around a few dollars for each present. He is a typical Geek guy, programmer by trade and loves his computer games, table top games and dungeons and dragons.
I have thought of getting a pound of assorted dice from Amazon so he could have a few bundles of mixed dice, gaming themed mints and a few of his favourite candies, some bones figurines for different games but that gets me no where near 24 presents.
So basically silly, fun, geeky, smallish, cheap things a guy would like, he's parents will be seeing the gifts so I'd like to avoid sexy things or "coupons for hugs" type things.
Any and all ideas appreciated.
posted by wwax at 2:45 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by wwax at 2:45 PM PST - 14 comments
Good online banks with fraud protection
I'm interested in switching to an online-only bank, but I want one that offers complete fraud protection. I am considering Ally Bank, but I can't tell from their website exactly what sort of coverage and reimbursement they offer. My current bank (B of A) watches my account for red flags and has been very good about immediately reimbursing me for any fraudulent purchases. It's happened about once a year when I use my debit card regularly, so I need to make sure I'm covered. I'm a student, so I don't have that much in a checking account to protect but every dollar counts.
Can I use my old passport even though I've legally changed my name?
I was married a few years ago and subsequently changed my name. My DL says my married name. We are preparing for international travel early next year, and I'm wondering if I need to pay the $110 to get a new passport or if we can just put my maiden name on the plane ticket. I'm a US citizen... [more inside]
posted by ancient star at 1:53 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by ancient star at 1:53 PM PST - 12 comments
Increased fusion in the sun's core: How long to reach the surface?
If hydrogen fusion in the center of the sun suddenly increased by a factor of 10^3 to 10^10, how long would it take until the energy burst reaches the surface and is radiated away? As I understand it, energy is transfered via convection and radiation within the sun and may take tens of thousand of years until reaching the surface and being radiated away. Would this hold even when the energy flux is much bigger? [more inside]
posted by Triton at 1:41 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Triton at 1:41 PM PST - 8 comments
How to not get a panic attack during road test
I failed my road test 3 times. My driving instructors said I'm ready and I have years of experience but the day of the test I choke and freak out. [more inside]
Shipping songs?
I'm looking for songs written from the perspective of someone who is expressing admiration for another couple (in a shipping sort of way). Any suggestions?
What kind of frog/toad will this tadpole be?
Asking for a friend. This tadpole was shipped to the pet store accidentally with some fish and she's taking it home with her. It's about 2-2.5 inches long.
How do I invest according to my ethics?
How can I find mutual funds to invest in that are inline with my ethics? For example I am vegan, liberal, pro-choice, feminist, not anti-gay, etc. To that end I'd like to not have companies that test on animals, engage in discrimination, are part of war effort, etc. Looking in my mutual funds there are some companies that I don't know about, and some that are sketchy like tobacco companies. [more inside]
posted by ridogi at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ridogi at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
How do I get over a platonic workplace crush?
I've had a platonic crush (aka squish) on a male co-worker for the past six months or so. Even though I'm a woman and we're both heterosexual, it is not in the least sexual. If we were men, it would be called a "man crush" or "bromance". (FWIW, I'm happily married, and he's happily engaged, both to people of the opposite sex.) It's not mutual. He sees me as a friend and colleague, while I idolize him, even though I'm aware of some of his flaws, including that his social skills aren't very good, and he occasionally does or says something that inadvertently hurts me (he wouldn't deliberately harm a fly), especially because he underestimates my professional competence. Anyway, I wish I didn't care what he thought of me. Any advice for getting over this crush, besides time and distance?
Massage Therapists Help Me NOT Be That Client
I get regular massages from my local massage-in-a-box store. I want to know what kind of things NOT to do so that I am not an annoying client. I'd also like to know how to best ask for certain treatments so they get done properly. [more inside]
posted by WalkerWestridge at 12:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by WalkerWestridge at 12:39 PM PST - 13 comments
I'm looking for contractors for retaining wall repairs in Minneapolis.
I'm getting estimates for repairs to a retaining wall in south Minneapolis; the web's awash in listings, but I'm hoping that some MeFites have worked with and had good experiences with some contractors they could recommend. The wall in question is about 10 feet high and holding up my neighbor's yard, so this is more of a structural thing than a cosmetic thing.
How do I learn to enjoy talking about myself more?
A while ago, I joined Meta specifically to ask this question. Well, I am happy to announce I am another AskMeta success story! Following a large amount of advice I received, I was more specific about my wants and needs and to cut a very long story short, my boyfriend proposed on my birthday a couple of weeks ago! I'm thrilled! The boy did good. He agreed he needed a kick up the bum and I really owe that to you guys! This brings me to my question, I am extraordinarily uncomfortable talking about myself for extended periods of time and being the centre of attention. [more inside]
I need an excellent Thanksgiving dessert!
I need a Thanksgiving-related, autumn-inspired dessert to bake. I would like something with some manner of fall seasonings like ginger or cloves that will make the house smell like the holidays. I am not looking for pumpkin pie (other pumpkin recipes are welcome though). [more inside]
posted by Viola at 11:12 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by Viola at 11:12 AM PST - 25 comments
Employment Attorney in Portland
How do you go about finding an attorney for someone who has just been fired? [more inside]
posted by repoman at 11:01 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by repoman at 11:01 AM PST - 11 comments
Commercial kitchen space in London?
I am helping a friend to expand her London based bar snack business and seek commercial kitchen space to rent in London. [more inside]
Streaming Theater
I just learned that today is the premiere of "Waiting for Godot" with Ian McKellen and Patrick Stewart in New York at the Cort Theatre. I am a Beckett-Fan as well as Stewart/McKellen-Fan, but since I live in Europe, is there any possibility that I can watch the performance? Will it be recorded? I couldn't find recordings for past plays at that theatre,so I guess the chances are slim. Any ideas?
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 10:39 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 10:39 AM PST - 3 comments
Cancel my credit card?
I just got a call from my credit card company.
it seems my card's number got compromised, along with about a million others. they strongly urge me to cancel the card and get a new one.
this will be a major pain, as i have all sorts of accounts linked to the card for automatic billing. and, besides, isn't security their responsibility? because what if this happens next week and the week after? do we have to change numbers each time there's a breach?
does anyone have any experience with a situation like this and how did you resolve it?
thanks.
posted by holdenjordahl at 10:16 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by holdenjordahl at 10:16 AM PST - 28 comments
What jobs were unique to the Renaissance era? And Colonial America?
Obviously innkeeper, bartender, tailor, etc. were jobs of both of those eras (and virtually all other eras, including our own.) But I am trying to figure out jobs that only existed in these two specific eras (Renaissance and Colonial). The sort of thing I am looking for: ie. specific jobs for specific eras: atilliators (who made crossbows in the middle ages); lamplighters; and "board boys" (who manually posted stock quotes in brokerages in the early 1900's. ) [more inside]
Scatterbrained sadness. How to feel better about myself?
I've been having a hard time for the past few months. With what? Just being me! [more inside]
Anyone know anything about buying a stair lift?
So, I'm getting progressively more disabled and looking at getting a stair lift. I have zero experience with stair lifts. Does anyone have any words of wisdom about buying one? [more inside]
Really want to call this guy...but not sure if for friendship or dating.
We clicked and he seems super fun and I want to hang with him again [more inside]
posted by winterportage at 9:12 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by winterportage at 9:12 AM PST - 14 comments
Pie
What's an easy pie to make? I don't really cook or bake, but I have to make a pie for Thanksgiving because of reasons. [more inside]
Differing Used HD Space Reports in OS X
According to Disk Utility, I have only 36 GB / 500 GB free, and it's been pretty full for a while. For the last year I've taken this at face value, but today I looked into it closer, and found that according to other applications (Disk Inventory X and JDiskReport), I apparently should have more like 200 GB free. How can I figure out what is using this extra space? [more inside]
posted by Yiggs at 8:54 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Yiggs at 8:54 AM PST - 20 comments
Spotify withdrawal woes
Is it possible to see the "ticker" of what friends are listening to in the Spotify web player? [more inside]
posted by aka burlap at 8:45 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by aka burlap at 8:45 AM PST - 4 comments
Can you help me prepare for a planning job interview?
I have an interview for an urban planning job (yay me!), but I feel a little worried about the interview. [more inside]
How can I give myself the best shot at getting into PA school?
I am 28, and will soon be setting out on the long journey of becoming a PA. I already have a bachelor's in another field, but I now need two years of science prereqs before I apply to PA schools. Should I go to my local community college for the prereqs (it'll be cheaper, and I'll have a better shot at getting top grades), or should I go to the more respectable, more expensive local university where straight A's will be harder to come by? In other words, what do you think admissions officers are more likely to value: excellent grades from a community college or the occasional B from a state university known for its medical school? [more inside]
Is there a mobile webcam that can stream video w/o WiFi?
I would like to put a streaming webcam on the front of a large piece of machinery as it goes about its daily business. The problem is that this piece of machinery will most likely be outside of WiFi range for the majority of its day. However, it will be within good cellphone/4G range. Are there webcams built to handle this kind of use? Any recommendations if so? (Or, potentially, could I just use a smartphone or something similar?)
Turkey on the Big Green Egg - Looking for kickass recipe
My aunt, uncles, cousins, grandma, and everyone else I know is coming to Thanksgiving this year, and they all love good food and my aunt and grandma may very well be the best cooks I've ever met. I am smoking a turkey on the Big Green Egg and I want it to knock their socks off. I've googled but what I've found doesn't give me any indication that the turkey is going to turn out GREAT. I need a great, great recipe. Anybody have one? I'd be forever indebted to you. Bonus question: anybody have an equally delicious bread pudding recipe?
Finding the essential episodes of multiple-season TV series.
I'm wondering if there is a website that builds lists of the essential episodes to watch in a given series in order to maintain story continuity and emotional investment. [more inside]
Scotish Highland Day Hikes? in November?
So last time I was in the UK I asked about day hikes outside of London. This time, I'm looking for day hikes in the Scottish Highlands... and I'm even more overwhelmed. [more inside]
posted by larthegreat at 7:19 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by larthegreat at 7:19 AM PST - 17 comments
Do doctors actually tell their patients they "cannot have children"?
In my life I've heard a number of stories from women who claim to have been told they could not have children... who then proceed to have children without intervention. Sometimes, this is an extremely welcome development, other times, very much the opposite. Saying something like "you will not be able to have children" with such certainty seems like an extremely irresponsible thing for a medical professional to say to a patient and so I have a bit of a hard time believing that doctors say it, at least in any case where it is at least physically possible for someone to conceive. [more inside]
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 6:37 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 6:37 AM PST - 47 comments
Saving water in the shower and at the toilet
I'm looking for ways to save water at home. We already have a water efficient dishwasher and washing machine, so I'm looking at the shower and toilets. I live in the US and own my house.
Shower:
* We waste a lot of water waiting for it to warm up. Is there something we could install so that the water is warm immediately?
* What's the best low-volume shower head?
* Strategies for an on/off switch at the shower head so we can wet down, shut off, soap, turn on to rinse?
Toilets:
* What's a good low-volume toilet that won't clog up?
* Dual-Flush toilets (for when you do a number 1 or a number 2)
Thanks!
How to consolidate, organize, and share tourism information?
I'm looking for smart ways to consolidate, organize, and share tourism information for people who visit me and for places that my partner and I might visit. [more inside]
posted by neushoorn at 2:04 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by neushoorn at 2:04 AM PST - 8 comments
November 14
Can you translate what's written on these mysterious envelopes?
These two envelopes arrived in my office in the autumn of 2010. I've kept them around because they're neat-looking, and an interesting conversation piece. Can you translate into English what's written on them? They may be in Japanese or Chinese (?). [more inside]
posted by not_on_display at 9:28 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by not_on_display at 9:28 PM PST - 16 comments
Am I actually an Aspie?
I'm a 45 year-old adult who has just been diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. At least, my counselor and my ex- both believe I have it. I don't believe I can be an Aspie because I am *phenomenally bad* with *both* computers *and* math (details on request). Are there Aspies like me?
O captain, fire of my loins!
What are some flattering address from classic literature? My two examples (and the extent of my list) are Walt Whitman's "O Captain! My captain!" and "...light of my life, fire of my loins!" from Lolita. Both are very fun things to call Mr. Grandysaur. BUT I WANT MORE. I'm looking for grandiose, recognizable, turns of phrase that I can use to address those that are worthy. The more ridiculous the better.
posted by Grandysaur at 7:04 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by Grandysaur at 7:04 PM PST - 40 comments
Furnaces Suck!
Whenever I change my furnace filter (approx every 60-90 days), it's always bent inwards towards the furnace fan. It's gotten significantly worse this year, and tonight when I tried to replace it, the filter was nearly sucked into the furnace. What causes this? Do I need to call for service? [more inside]
How do I help a battered friend out?
I have a younger friend, not very close, that was beaten up badly by her boyfriend. He went to jail on existing warrants and just got out. She hasn't answered his phone calls and has been walking past her restaurant with a friend, looking in as he does. She wants to come over until she finds a friend to stay with for tonight, since I live close by. She's young and I think has had bad incidences with the police before and won't talk to them. I want to help her, but she's not that close at all and more of a friend of a friend. I'd like to extradite myself from the situation as much as possible while still doing the right thing. What should I do? [more inside]
How do you eat green curry?
When you get a soupy rice dish like green curry, what is the intended way of eating it? Are you expected to have a big bowl of sauce at the end that you throw away?
posted by cgs at 6:28 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by cgs at 6:28 PM PST - 22 comments
Conundrum about working out preferences
What can I do at the gym that would mimic Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred? I like the idea of an intense, well-rounded program (abs, strength and cardio) that I can do every day, but I don't see myself bringing in my ipad to the gym and taking over a classroom. I tried this at home like you're supposed to but there aren't any suitable spaces in my apartment. I had a phase where I went to the gym and did the elliptical for awhile but I liked how this program was more well-rounded yet compact. Also I don't want to shell out for a trainer. Please advise..
posted by bleep at 6:20 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by bleep at 6:20 PM PST - 11 comments
How to manufacture a version of something that already exists?
I would like to manufacture a table with these legs, but with a wood desk top. Where would I go to do such a thing? Most "prototype" manufacturers are for metal products, etc.
posted by uncannyslacks at 6:06 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 6:06 PM PST - 5 comments
Meet me in St. Louis, Meet me at a big screen movie theater
This December, I want to see the holiday movie Meet Me in St. Louis at movie theater. It needs to be on a weekend. It should be in a city served by Southwest Airlines. A beautiful revival theater would be awesome. [more inside]
How to mend a broken heart after so many years?
There is this guy I've liked for the past four years. I'm 25 and he's 33. We were always good friends, very attracted to each other, but he always told me he never wanted a relationship, not just with me, but with anyone. But I always had very deep feelings for him, he was the first man I ever had sex with, and he cared for me a lot too; even got a little jealous when I had a boyfriend.
Anyway, he's been seeing this girl for a few months that he told me tonight he's really serious about her. It's killing me. He said the reason me and him never got together was because of timing, our age difference, and the fact that we are at different stages in life. He said he sees a better match with her than with me.
He said I'm amazing and it has nothing to do with me, but this whole scenario killed me. With me, it was casual hanging out, and with her, it's nice vacations,meeting his family, spending holidays together. He also came back to me once over the summer while they were broken up, but went back to her. It hurts so much to see him giving to someone else what I always wanted. How can I feel better? :(
posted by summertimesadness1988 at 5:52 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by summertimesadness1988 at 5:52 PM PST - 31 comments
Traveling to Nicaragua in February. Costa Rica and other questions...
Looking for a particular kind of vacation in Nicaragua. If it isn't possible, hoping for some advice on the best way to Costa Rica. [more inside]
posted by lattiboy at 4:42 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lattiboy at 4:42 PM PST - 5 comments
Searching for a Lumix Li-ion Replacement Battery in Austin
I'm trying to find a replacement battery for my Panasonic Lumix camera in south Austin, TX. The camera is a relatively new model (DMC-FZ200), and I'm having a hard time finding local stores that might carry the battery in stock. The battery is a DMW-BLC12PP 7.2V, 1200mAh/8.7Wh Li-ion. No time for ordering, I need to find something and pick it up tonight. Thank you for your help!
What are the best film festivals for short films?
My friends made a handful of short films this year, and we'd like to send some of them out to various film festivals. Where should we submit? [more inside]
Which of these zillion things could be causing my thinning hair?
My hair has been thinning noticeably lately (I've noticed it in the past 2-3 months), but there are a bunch of things going on and I have no idea where to begin figuring out the probable cause. Short version: I have seborrheic dermatitis that's been particularly bothersome lately, I have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome), I color treat my hair about once a year, and I've been under some stress. Long version under the cut. [more inside]
Housemate money troubles
What is a fair way to divvy up finances when two people move out of a four-person share house? [more inside]
Is your school tax a line item on your property tax bill?
I am looking for examples of states or localities (in the US) where school tax payments are separate (either separate bills, or line items) from property tax bills. This is the case in NY State where the school tax bill is a separate bill. If anyone knows a comprehensive source on which states do and don't do this, that would be great. Otherwise your anecdotes as property tax payers in specific states will be helpful, even better if you know where this is explained on a state government website.
I am trying to figure out where people know (as in NY) exactly how much money they are contributing to the local school system (or think they are, since they are also contributing to federal and other forms of school support).
Songs about two women on the run?
I'm looking for songs about two women running away/hitting the road, preferably on the run from the law. [more inside]
posted by honey wheat at 2:25 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by honey wheat at 2:25 PM PST - 15 comments
All the world's a stage...pictures or it didn't happen
Is there some sort of online repository where I can find photographs of the sets of Broadway productions? [more inside]
posted by BrianJ at 1:46 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by BrianJ at 1:46 PM PST - 10 comments
Who is the executor?
A relative passed away this Summer who was the executor of an estate that was "finalized" 20 years ago. Now there are new assets found from the estate. Is the relative's surviving spouse the new executor? [more inside]
Can you explain these comments on my credit rating?
I have a fairly good FICO rating, but according to the report, these two factors are negatively impacting my rating. Can you explain these to me and--more importantly--offer some advice on how I can improve them?
1. Proportion of loan balances to loan amounts is too high.
2. Length of time revolving accounts have been established.
posted by jackypaper at 1:29 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by jackypaper at 1:29 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me make the most of a trip to China
I'm psyched because I'm planning to go on a volunteer trip to Guangdong, China in March. However, I'm going alone (will be meeting a group there) and I would like to do some brief independent travel while I'm in the country. More details below the fold. [more inside]
Should I still be looking for a new job?
I am working full time and making okay money. But I'm not satisfied with my salary or my commute. Should I keep looking or stay where I am for awhile so my resume doesn't look flaky? [more inside]
Entering Data in Semi-Protected Google Spreadsheets
I work in a high school where we often want teachers to fill out a single Google spreadsheet with information about students in their homeroom class. [more inside]
posted by allison00 at 1:13 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by allison00 at 1:13 PM PST - 8 comments
Roadtrippin' in basically winter. Where to?
Imagine you're leaving New York City in a rental car. You have one week—November 30th through December 7th. You're first spending a few days with your Grandmother near Washington DC. Where would you go after that? [more inside]
posted by ulfberht at 1:10 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ulfberht at 1:10 PM PST - 6 comments
Running Every Day... What do I need to watch?
Basically, complete the following sentence: “Now that you’re exercising all the time, you should_______________________.” [more inside]
Recording video to PC
I have a PC that has a very nice external camera connected to it that I use for lecture capture, but I need software with more capabilities. Details inside. [more inside]
How about a little Mefi interior design?
I have an awkward window and I don't know what to do with it in terms of covering it up. It's in a baby's room. Please help. [more inside]
Where should we stay in LA?
What part of LA should we stay in for a long weekend trip of exploring and eating, preferably without a car? [more inside]
Port-Forwarding To Different Internal Port, Keeping It Simple
My old router with Tomato firmware did it very simply: there was a blank for the external port, and a blank for the internal port behind NAT, and external traffic sent to the external port gets forwarded to the internal computer on the internal port. Now, I can't seem to find any router hardware or alternative firmware that does it so simply. [more inside]
posted by AzraelBrown at 12:07 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by AzraelBrown at 12:07 PM PST - 10 comments
Help with Hydronic Heating
Our new-to-us-but-very-old home needs a new boiler (and water heater). What are our best options? [more inside]
posted by sportbucket at 11:55 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by sportbucket at 11:55 AM PST - 7 comments
Mundane Portal!
Starting with the wardrobe in the Narnia books, I'm looking for other examples of mundane objects (ideally furniture) that contain or allow access to magical worlds. Literature, film, pop culture - anything really. [more inside]
so question such askmefi very internet
What is the name and/or origin of the meme where intensifers/adverbs are placed before nouns? [more inside]
posted by i_am_a_fiesta at 11:36 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by i_am_a_fiesta at 11:36 AM PST - 8 comments
Why can't our iPhones, and other devices join the Comcast network?
Apple products not working and playing well with Comcast Wifi. Is there a trick to overcoming the dreaded "unable to join network" message? [more inside]
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 10:53 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 10:53 AM PST - 11 comments
Grommets (no Wallace)
I had to take my drapes (shirred, not pleated) down when I got new windows. This has presented me with the chance to make some changes, and I've decided that I'd like to insert grommets into the drape headers and rehang them that way. [more inside]
Several characters in search of a plot
I'm looking for an example novel(s) that features several separate third person viewpoint characters with seemingly different plot strands at the beginning but whose plots converge as they go on and they end up meeting further on in the novel (if only briefly). I want to see how the author handles these meetings and the meta narrative of several stories merging into one. I would prefer mainstream rather than literary as I'd like to seem something straight forward rather than overly tricky and would prefer sf but please don't let that constrict you as I'm more interested in the mechanics rather than the background and any genre would do.
Running - but for the arms??
Running has done amazing wonders for my tree trunk like legs. I am wondering if there is an equivalent exercise to get shapely arms? [more inside]
Zap! Pow! Wizards grow up!
So I've been reading Harry Potter to the kiddo (7) at nighttime for a while and she's loving it. I'm enjoying it too to the point where I don't really want spoilers on anything. However as things get darker I have some concerns about the stories ahead... [more inside]
posted by Artw at 9:35 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Artw at 9:35 AM PST - 44 comments
Disable iTunes Radio on iPhone?
Is there a way to disable iTunes Radio on the iPhone, or at least keep it from being the default Music app selection and overriding my previous selections and playlists? [more inside]
Help me change a light bulb in an old fixture
I need to change the light bulb in this older overhead light fixture (and others in the building like it). Problem is, I can't figure out how to get the glass down. [more inside]
posted by OHSnap at 9:15 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by OHSnap at 9:15 AM PST - 9 comments
What exercises can someone with cervical disc herniation (c3-c6) do?
After a nightmare MRI experience sometime in 2011 I found out that I have a cervical disc herniation on c3, c4, c5, c6. The pain was so severe that I was unable to move my neck to right side without feeling like I was going to pass out. Now that I've gotten my first coritsone shot and feel alive, I would love to work at gym on strentheting my cervical discs so I can beat this problem and avoid having to marry cortisone shots for the rest of my life. What are some excercise machines and workouts I can safely use to strengthen my neck without damaging it further? [more inside]
How do I send an encrypted email with attachments from gmail?
I know there are a variety of options out there, but I'm having a hard time sifting through the information myself. [more inside]
How to integrate teacher's notes into student class materials?
I am working on student materials for classes that I and others will be teaching. We have a need for a "teacher version" of the student materials that consists of the student materials with teaching notes inserted in various places. Currently, I have been doing this by making handwritten notes on my copy of the student materials for a given lesson. Is there a better solution for this? [more inside]
Biology Gift Idea
Iam thinking of gift idea for the scientifically minded specifically Biology, even better Microbiology. It's for a SO who just enrolled in Phd program in a reputable university. She already has the microbe/parasite pillows. Any suggestions?!
posted by radsqd at 8:21 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by radsqd at 8:21 AM PST - 17 comments
soup kitchen volunteers! can you lend me your recipes, menus, & advice?
I am part of a group that regularly gets together to cook and serve meals at a soup kitchen. Our amazing group leader of many years recently passed away very, very unexpectedly, and we have been struggling somewhat in his absence -- he always just kept everything in his head: set menus, what to buy and how much, where to get the best price on stuff, etc. Can you help us put everything back together? [more inside]
posted by divined by radio at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by divined by radio at 8:16 AM PST - 18 comments
I don't drink. How do I answer "Why?"
I prefer not to drink alcohol and can't figure out how to tell this to people without them wanting to discuss my reasons. [more inside]
posted by LSK at 7:38 AM PST - 91 comments
posted by LSK at 7:38 AM PST - 91 comments
Can you identify the group playing this ancient pagan Slavic music?
Music buffs of the Eastern European, pre-Christian/pagan and generally history-oriented sort: I stumbled upon a youtube video of what, as far as I can make out, is a group performing ancient pagan Slavic music. Fascinating stuff and I want more of it. Can anyone help me identify the group? Are there other groups like this? Thanks!
posted by tidecat at 7:35 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tidecat at 7:35 AM PST - 7 comments
Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a...vodka cream sauce?
I am cooking dinner this weekend for an old friend who has requested Italian, preferably pasta with a creamy sauce. I am not very well acquainted at all with cream sauces, apart from this very simple one. I have many extra hours to work on this, and access to several specialty markets and a Trader Joe's. Help me find a crazy delicious recipe! Special farfalle inside... [more inside]
posted by jetlagaddict at 7:27 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by jetlagaddict at 7:27 AM PST - 16 comments
Employment scam or legit invite?
I've been job searching for the past couple of months. Some online listings compel you to apply for them through a recruiter site. I try to avoid doing this, because I've been spammed as a result by sites like Careerbuilder.com who apparently don't vet their partners very well. [more inside]
Please Help Me Overcome My Programming Anxiety
I am paralyzed trying to work on code. Not sure how to proceed. [more inside]
Contouring for pale gals?
I am trying to learn how to do make-up. All the advice for contouring requires you to have some bronzer a shade darker than your skin. The thing is, I'm super pale, and I don't have much of an interest in looking more tanned than I am. Are there any other colour options for shading my face?
Recommendations for interactive teaching methods
I am working on compiling a list of interactive activities for my faculty colleagues. Our department is trying to move away from heavy lecture-based teaching, and my goal is to compile a resource guide of ways to involve students in the learning process so that the department can provide support to faculty who have less experience with this approach to teaching. Can MeFi recommend resources to me that I can add to our resource guide? [more inside]
Writing a letter of recommendation via email: in body or as attachment?
A question about writing letters of recommendation. Specifically, when the letters are not hand-written and snail mailed, but are emailed instead. [more inside]
posted by spikeleemajortomdickandharryconnickjrmints at 6:06 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by spikeleemajortomdickandharryconnickjrmints at 6:06 AM PST - 12 comments
What is the secret sauce of a technology meet-up group?
What is the secret sauce to starting and maintaining an informal meet-up of technology start-up people? [more inside]
posted by jacobean at 5:59 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jacobean at 5:59 AM PST - 5 comments
Bookfilter: YA Roller Skating Novel
I am trying to find a book I read as a child in the early/mid 90s. Set in the UK. [more inside]
posted by drunkonthemoon at 5:22 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by drunkonthemoon at 5:22 AM PST - 3 comments
Appraising a property to split equity
I currently jointly own a property in the US, that both parties agree I should take sole possession of. I would like to get a realistic appraisal value, in order to buy out the other person. Is there anything particular that I should discuss with a potential appraiser when I contact them? Thanks! [more inside]
posted by carter at 5:16 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by carter at 5:16 AM PST - 6 comments
Kit me out in Union/Hippy/Socialist/Anarchist/Morals Friendly Clothing
I am looking for a new clothing supplier. The previous company I shopped with have been outed as a bunch of labour-abusing dirtbags and I can't have that. I need to know the names of some places I can buy clothes with confidence and conscience and was hoping maybe I could get some suggestions. [more inside]
posted by longbaugh at 5:04 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by longbaugh at 5:04 AM PST - 21 comments
Selling domains in 2013
I have a private offer to buy a domain that I registered with Network Solutions. It's not worth much, and I'm selling for less than $200. After some email communication, I'm happy to just trust the buyer to deposit funds in my Paypal account.
Question: How do I actually do this in 2013? Do I have to use a domain escrow service and then eat the commission fee? I seriously cannot figure out how to do a direct person-to-person transfer/sale without using escrow. Every search for "transfer domain" points to transferring back to Network Solutions. Every search for "sell domain" points to escrow services. I'm stumped and turn to you.
Please explain it to me like I'm in elementary school. Thanks.
posted by ImproviseOrDie at 4:28 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by ImproviseOrDie at 4:28 AM PST - 4 comments
Vanilla is the finest of the flavors
I like vanilla, caramel, butterscotch, brown sugar -- what are some reasonably easy-but-delicious desserts I can make that allow for multiple servings over a few days/a week and aren't too troublesome/weird to make, ie., not creme brulee? [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 2:17 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 2:17 AM PST - 25 comments
Advanced Korean Foods in LA's Koreatown for an East Coast KoreanAmerican
What can a Korean American who's grown up eating Korean food on the East Coast find in LA's Koreatown that they can't find in the Northeast? [more inside]
posted by Hennimore at 1:12 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Hennimore at 1:12 AM PST - 8 comments
336 Hours of Looking at the Floor
My mother will undergo eye surgery soon and her recovery involves at least two weeks of keeping her head tilted forward, even when she's sleeping. Please help me help her through this time. [more inside]
Looking for globetrotting (non-news) podcasts
I'd like to expand my podcast listening horizons a bit--as in geographically and culturally. Are there any podcasts that regularly go globetrotting for their non-news stories? Makes regular attempts to be less WEIRD? Radio Netherlands Worldwide for example had the environmentally themed Earth Beat and a TALish The State We're In. They were both amazing, but canceled due to budget cuts.
I'm also on a crime and mysteries kick, so something like Interpol's greatest hits podcast (they don't AFAIK) would be awesome.
posted by jyorraku at 12:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by jyorraku at 12:47 AM PST - 4 comments
How do I describe my goals and interests to a valuable contact?
How do I describe my goals and interests to a contact in the PR field? [more inside]
November 13
find me a Canadian women's magazine
I'm looking for a magazine subscription for a gift. The recipient lives in small-town Canada, is very fit and outdoorsy, has a cozy house, enjoys gardening in the summer, and is a child-free professional in her 30s. Can you recommend any magazines that might fit? Not too rustic, but not too design-focused. Just a general eco-friendly-interesting-articles-home-and-lifestyle-women's-interest mag (no celebrities and not too much fashion and make-up). US magazines would be fine but they would need to post to Canada at a reasonable rate.
All nature all the time
Please recommend interesting spots within the US or Canada for a 7-10 (or even 15) day nature-centric vacation (for example bike tours, canoe trips or long hikes). [more inside]
Where to get a gift card for cookware?
Since we are moving soon and already have tons of stuff to move, a couple of family member are considering getting us a gift card for cookware. We have a bunch of cruddy old stuff that we won't be moving, and it'd be great to replace some of these things with items of reasonable quality. However, places like Williams-Sonoma and Sur la Table are very expensive. Is there another good choice for a place to shop in person with a gift card? We live in the San Francisco Bay Area. [more inside]
Please help my house not smell like ass.
My new dog seems to have a problem with her anal glands. Which is now my problem. [more inside]
Help me help people with the least waste.
How much does giving a lot to one charity vs giving a bit to a few smaller charities help a relief effort? [more inside]
The real Irises?
Was it really the real Irises, for reals? [more inside]
posted by shino-boy at 9:08 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by shino-boy at 9:08 PM PST - 9 comments
Lyric-free music for good concentration while working?
When listening to music and working, I find I concentrate better when the music is lyric free. Please share some of your favorite music without words that helps you get into the zone and also drown out noise while working. I'm open to most kinds of music. So far I'm listening to things like the Tron Legacy soundtrack, Ottmar Liebert, Bernie Williams and some classical music.
posted by fx3000 at 9:00 PM PST - 63 comments
posted by fx3000 at 9:00 PM PST - 63 comments
Best dry cleaner in Bay Area for a white satin designer suit?
I need to clean an expensive white Oscar de la Renta skirt suit that's lined in taffeta/tulle; it has some faint smudging here and there on the thick reverse silk-satin fabric. I wouldn't trust a normal dry cleaner with this, and don't know where else to go. Alex's seems exorbitant and gets awful reviews; Peninou seems doubtful as well; and I read somewhere about Crystal in San Mateo but don't have much to go on.
Does anyone know a cleaner (preferably in San Francisco, but I can drive elsewhere if necessary) who works with designer items, maybe wedding gowns, who would know how to work with tricky white silk fabric? Many thanks!
What do I need to watch movies on this projector?
I have Casio Megavision LCD 2way projector FV-600 that my parents found in the garage (just the projector, no cables, instructions).
It has a cable coming out of its butt that goes into the wall (a plug), and three holes that say "ear" and "input"
What do I need to watch movies on my wall? A DVD player? Can I connect it to my computer? Do I need to buy any cables? If so which ones? Can I get everything I need with amazon prime?
Obviously, please explain it like I'm a three year old.
posted by LaunchBox at 7:32 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by LaunchBox at 7:32 PM PST - 6 comments
I've reached a crossroads
Have completed 2/3 of an undergrad course and want to transfer out. [more inside]
Why do people on TV holster their guns wrong?
Why does everyone on TV or in movies seem to holster or tuck their gun into their belts backwards? Is there something behind this screen convention? [more inside]
posted by stet at 7:26 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by stet at 7:26 PM PST - 16 comments
Toy Universe
What are some good simulation/strategy computer games that don't emphasize violence or warfare? [more inside]
Looking for romantic heavy metal songs
I'm looking for romantic heavy metal songs, specifically Iron Maiden songs. Any ideas? [more inside]
Identify a classic rock song by outro (butchered approximation attached)
I always hear the very end of this song on the local rock station, but never any other part! Since much of what the station plays (94.1 WHJY, "94 HJY" in Providence, RI) could be called "classic rock", I'm going to assume it falls into that category. A butchered GarageBand approximation of the outro is attached. (Note that the actual outro is played on an electric guitar - it's actually chords.) [more inside]
posted by Seeking Direction at 7:00 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Seeking Direction at 7:00 PM PST - 5 comments
Web presence strategies for academic/professional job search?
I am at the start of a long runway leading to a job change in mid/upper higher education management. I don't have online skeletons, I just want my presence to be coherent and to point to me -- I google people when I hire, and I know how it can go awry. I am looking for best practices in self-SEO, details inside. [more inside]
Outsourcing ALL of your Information Technology
How common is it to outsource almost an entire Information Technology department in a corporation? Can anyone provide some examples? [more inside]
posted by smalls at 5:49 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by smalls at 5:49 PM PST - 16 comments
Help me remember what TV show or movie this was.
My wife and I are going crazy trying to remember a TV show or movie. All we can remember is that two high school girls go out with two college guys, hang out at a furniture store, and things turn bad. (more inside). [more inside]
posted by lenore at 5:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by lenore at 5:45 PM PST - 3 comments
I'm dumb. How many cups of beans?
The recipe says "2 cups dried cannellini beans, soaked overnight". Does it mean 2 cups of the beans after soaking, or before soaking? [more inside]
posted by under_petticoat_rule at 5:21 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by under_petticoat_rule at 5:21 PM PST - 13 comments
Summoning native Rhode Islanders
Help me locate this historic home /museum in the Fall River area of Rhode Island near or across the border in Massachusetts. (No Lovecraft jokes required.) [more inside]
Weekend Civil War Roadtrip around the SE US?
We'd like to take a three-to-four day road trip originating and terminating in Atlanta, focusing on Civil War history this weekend. Looking for suggestions on sites and itinerary ideas. [more inside]
Should I join the UK genome project?
I'm interested in joining the UK personal genome project (PGP), as I like big science and think that the project looks interesting and has some admirable aims. However, I'm not so sure about having my genetic information freely available on the internet, and I don't fully understand what the risks of this could be. I found this article on the gurdian, but any more information, resources or advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
posted by Ned G at 4:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Ned G at 4:45 PM PST - 3 comments
Can you recommend a food tour in NYC?
I'm sure my Manhattan (West Village) based niece would adore a food tour as a gift, but I'm overwhelmed with the choices and don't know New York very well. She has traveled much of the world and is an adventurous eater as well. Single, thirty-something, is relatively new to NYC. If you have either specific food tours or operators to recommend, I would very much like to hear. Thanks!
What's my career
Help me find a new career where I don't have to take my job home with me. [more inside]
posted by Salvor Hardin at 4:06 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by Salvor Hardin at 4:06 PM PST - 29 comments
Flash! Aa-aaa-a!
Teach me about flash/vacuum pickling. Caveat: I'm not using a chamber vacuum. [more inside]
Making something pretty from old slides
I need ideas for an art project using old 35mm slides. I have looked at the lampshades and curtains. The problem is most of my slides are a black background with very fine colored lines forming the image (they're protein structures, this picture here is a good example of what's on my slides). I worry any lampshade I formed with these wouldn't highlight the images on the slides the way I see in photos because so much of the slide itself is opaque. [more inside]
Sweater Obsession
I recently stumbled across this sweater and I'm enamored with it. Unfortunately, it's sold out or $600 everywhere I can find it. Oh great hivemind, can you find me a sweater that ties in the front like this and drapes all gorgeously? I especially love how wide the belt is and how gracefully the sweater flows from the waist.
posted by chatongriffes at 3:38 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by chatongriffes at 3:38 PM PST - 5 comments
At least I won't be a *40* year old virgin
I'm a woman in my thirties. I'm in a newish relationship with a guy I really like. The problem: I'm a late bloomer who took it a little too far and before I got together with this guy I had absolutely zero sexual or relationship experience. What's the least horrifying, least embarrassing way to tell him this, and when should I tell him? [more inside]
Please help me snap myself out of this
I am depressed/anxious and self-sabotaging by doing little to no work at my job. My boss has not yet said anything to me about my un-/non-productivity, but I have to think she'll cotton on sooner or later. Help me figure out a) how to start working again and b) whether I should say anything to my boss. Predictably, there is more inside. [more inside]
Buying a house... weirdly
I want to buy the house I'm renting. How do I even start? [more inside]
posted by MrVisible at 2:26 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by MrVisible at 2:26 PM PST - 12 comments
How do I cite a film Harvard style,that was filmed in several locations?
My reference requirements are getting increasingly obscure and I can't figure this out. So much for leaving referencing behind in my Uni days.. it was always the referencing part that pushed me over the edge! Thanks for reading
Twitter tips for ex-facebooker?
I've just left Facebook for Twitter, please help me understand this new place. In what ways are they alike, and different? Tips, tools, etiquette? Thanks!
Basic Math for Math Majors
Hello! I'm a first semester grad student in applied math. I am a non-traditional student in a variety of ways (liberal arts undergrad, working full-time), and while I'm finding that I intellectually understand the concepts I'm learning, execution is being made difficult by my lack of fluency with algebraic manipulation and calculus. [more inside]
posted by downing street memo at 2:08 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by downing street memo at 2:08 PM PST - 16 comments
Why can't I connect devices to my wifi?
Last week I had to upgrade my cable modem. Most of my wifi devices were perfectly happy, but my scale and printer refuse to connect to wifi now. [more inside]
posted by Blue Jello Elf at 2:08 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Blue Jello Elf at 2:08 PM PST - 7 comments
What are some movies or TV shows that will make me cry continously?
I've recently realized how therapeutic it is for me to have a nice, long, crying session. Watching something emotional that makes me cry has been my way of releasing stress, but I'm having a hard time finding material. I've been able to find lists of "movies to make you cry", but they tend to be romance movies or feel-good dramas with a sad ending. What about movies or TV shows that are sad, sweet, or emotional throughout the length of the film? [more inside]
boyfriend is leaving for two months... are we doomed?
My boyfriend of 1.5 years is leaving to go back to his country (wasn't granted a visa) and he will be gone for at least 2 months.. maybe more if he doesn't get another one he's applying for. I feel like that's a long time and we are both bad at communicating on the phone/skype/etc. We work best when we can see each other and value doing a lot of things together (our love language is touch and quality time).
He hasn't mentioned coming to visit, although I would. I'd even love for us to both go to another country and explore while he's in this transition period but I don't think his financial situation would allow for it and would feel like Im trying to save the relationship more than he is. I feel like we're doomed since long distance relationships rarely work out. What should or can I do?
Band-Aids for Gushing Wound of Irresponsibility
I'm screwing up and need mind hacks to get through the rest of the semester and finals. [more inside]
posted by rue72 at 1:36 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by rue72 at 1:36 PM PST - 11 comments
Best suggestions for Team Communication & Collaboration Tools
We are a team of about 25 spread across two main locations with a single person in a third locale. We also use some outsourced resources now and again. We use a mish mash of tools to do everything from email (some of us use Outlook, others use Gmail with a forward, others use webmail/Zimbra, some use MacMail, etc.) to file sharing, chat and video conferencing. We need to get our act together and select the right tools. Help! [more inside]
A one way flight to anywhere? (What should I do with my life?)
I'm recently back from a long trip through South America, but my travel lust is hardly satiated. I have some savings left, and I'm desperate to take off again. Is this a good idea? And if so, where should I go next? Details inside. [more inside]
I need a short, long, casual, formal, trendy, classic jacket.
Not really, but it’s just as tall of an order. I am looking to invest in a winter jacket, since I’m tired of buying one that falls apart after a couple of seasons. It needs to be formal, yet casual, and made for a body type that clothes just are not made for. I’m petite and busty. (Think Jessica Simpson’s body type, but even more… full figured in the upper area.) [more inside]
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 1:25 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 1:25 PM PST - 9 comments
Help me come up with a new Thanksgiving family tradition
So, I have a friend whose family has an amazing Easter tradition. They have a traditional easter egg hunt in their yard, only some of the eggs contain candy and some of them contain various numbers of tickets. Their mom buys a range of amazing and not so amazing prizes (think PS3 to a new spatula, or whatever). Next ensues a crazy bidding war on the prizes, using the collected tickets. I want to start a new Thanksgiving tradition that compares in awesomeness. [more inside]
Mood tracking app for iPhone
My young adult daughter, who suffers from depression, was advised by her therapist to track her moods, to be better able to identify what triggers them. I suggested that she use an iPhone app, since she has her phone with her at all times. Does anyone have a recommendation for a specific mood tracking app? [more inside]
songs: i'm sorry
Looking for songs that reflect the following sentiment: I'm sorry I hurt you, you were right to end things, I hope we can build a better friendship but I don't expect anything, thank you for trying anyway. [more inside]
Men's trousers: flat front, high waist. Help?
I wear a suit or dress trousers most days to the office, and am looking to replace some of my wardrobe. I've gone to a few mens' clothing stores, but have struck out looking for high-waisted, fitted but not tight, flat front men's trousers. (Details/snowflake/etc inside) [more inside]
posted by Seeba at 12:18 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Seeba at 12:18 PM PST - 12 comments
Will the Project Runway Belk dresses be sold anytime soon?
In the latest season of Project Runway, there was a challenge in which the prize was to have your design produced and sold by Belk. I'd love to purchase Dom's design, and I've been stalking the Belk website since, but there have been no updates, much less actual dresses for sale. Anyone know if/when this is ever going to happen, and if they'll be sold online? (Maybe they're only appearing in physical stores, but seems like they are really missing out on a marketing opportunity if that's the case!)
posted by rainbowbrite at 12:09 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by rainbowbrite at 12:09 PM PST - 2 comments
I'm actually into someone. Uh... what now?
I've taken a liking to someone and it seems that whenever this happens said person loses interest - even when they were previously quite into me. How do I prevent this from happening this time? Also, how do I not mess things up inbetween dates? [more inside]
posted by Autumn at 11:59 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Autumn at 11:59 AM PST - 8 comments
Young, Cancer, Abroad
Asking for a friend: my good friend has just been diagnosed with endometrial cancer. She is in Europe and not returning home for treatment, and I'm trying to help her figure out her funding options and provide emotional support. Tips wanted/needed please. [more inside]
posted by obviousresistance at 11:49 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by obviousresistance at 11:49 AM PST - 11 comments
Raising kids with "grit"
What can I do as a parent to help my child build persistence, self-discipline, high standards, and work ethic? [more inside]
A Broad, Abroad, Alone
In a month, I'll be traveling abroad for the first time, all by my lonesome. Looking for helpful tips for a first-time international traveler. [more inside]
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:47 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:47 AM PST - 26 comments
New power supply for old lego motors
I have a bunch of old Lego 71427 motors (seen here) and a battery pack (I believe part 5293) that was stored for a decade with the batteries inside, with predictable results. Easiest way to make these usable, short of tracking down the long-discontinued original battery pack? [more inside]
Gaming console and games for a almost 6 year old.
Looking for a gaming console and games for almost 6 year old boy, with few issues to address/target. [more inside]
Do you know a programme that showed a dance in a swimming pool?
I don't suppose you remember a programme that showed ballet or contemporary dance in a swimming pool at night that would have been shown in the UK in the late 80s or early 90s? [more inside]
posted by calico at 10:58 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by calico at 10:58 AM PST - 4 comments
Gas Struts
I have a couple of gas struts to lift a big steel hatch. I'm concerned about breaking them (because I had a couple of other gas struts which did break) I'm assured by the vendor that they are suitable for the location, but I am not entirely convinced by their design.
It was put together only by looking at a few photos and is only really for the purpose of selecting the correct bracketry etc.
What do I need to think about when attaching these struts?
What sort of forces are particularly bad?
What kind of travel should I be looking at?
Basically what advice can you give me on positioning these things?
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 10:46 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 10:46 AM PST - 2 comments
What are these stains on my pillow covers?
I have blue stains on my new pillowcases, and I'm scared it could be mildew. But I don't understand how it could have got there so fast, and I don't know what to do now. Can anyone confirm what it is, and give me ideas for what to try next? [more inside]
posted by jlibera at 10:40 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by jlibera at 10:40 AM PST - 17 comments
Where can I get a neck tie in this one-horse town
Where can I buy a cheap, solid red neck tie in NYC? Preferably in Soho, or anywhere along the west side? [more inside]
posted by windbox at 10:37 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by windbox at 10:37 AM PST - 9 comments
Automate My Monotony?
I write minor variations on similar reports pretty much everyday. Other than working from basic templates, what can I do to speed up, automate, etc? [more inside]
Alcoholism and the holidays
How do I navigate this family dysfunction around an alcoholic at Thanksgiving and Christmas? [more inside]
Preparing my house for a new adopted shelter dog
What can I do to make my home "dog-proof" for the new 18-month-old dog I'm getting from a shelter? And what can I do to ease the trauma for him of moving to a completely new home? [more inside]
posted by madman at 10:15 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by madman at 10:15 AM PST - 11 comments
Printer spooler not working... again
My Dad has an old (5+ years) PC running Windows Vista, and a laser printer. Over the last few months, he's started to have problems printing pdfs. Help me fix the problem, please! [more inside]
posted by meronym at 10:12 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by meronym at 10:12 AM PST - 3 comments
Help needed with nvidia works with Parallels Desktop 9 in MS Windows 8.1
I have an Apple MacBook Pro Retina display with NVIDIA GeForce GT 750M
I use Parallels Desktop 9 for Mac and I installed Microsoft Windows 8.1 Pro with success, however windows does not recognize that I have nvidia installed in my system.
My question is:
How to let Parallels Desktop 9 to enable NVIDIA work in windows 8.1 pro?
If it does not support it, what other tools or software to make nvidia work in windows 8.1 pro?
Thank you.
I want better poop.
I want to poop better. I poop frequently enough, but I rarely get the super-satisfying, perfect, long, clean-wipe poop that I deserve. I need reliable information on how to do this. What diet should I have? What should I eat more/less of? What supplements would help? Thanks!
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 9:16 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by MisantropicPainforest at 9:16 AM PST - 38 comments
Bacterial growth - logarithmic vs. exponential?
Why is the log phase of bacterial growth called the log phase, when it actually resembles an exponential curve rather than a logarithmic curve? I'm really dusty on my math, can someone explain this to me?
posted by jolyn at 8:59 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by jolyn at 8:59 AM PST - 15 comments
Medi-Cal in San Francisco - how does it work?
How will Medi-Cal (Medicaid) work in San Francisco in 2014? Can you choose your doctor? [more inside]
posted by kristi at 8:55 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by kristi at 8:55 AM PST - 3 comments
The red wire!? No, the black wire!
I've been watching Archer recently, and they had an episode with the super cliched "which wire to cut" scene. This made me wonder, is there any actual real world precedent for cutting a single wire to defuse a bomb (with every other wire resulting in death), or is this entirely a fictional scenario?
Book and movie name
What is the name of the book and movie about a simple-minded, poor man who lived with his mother, carried a pet bird with him and gets innocently involved in an social uprising? I think he discovered gold near the beginning and his clothes are tattered.
Life after coding
I'd like to hear about people who have left the computer programming/software development field, particularly for jobs that don't involve sitting in an office all day. If you've done this, how did you manage it? How old were you, and how long had you been in the software industry? What kind of job did you end up in? Do you like your new job? [more inside]
My fiancé is friends with a sex worker.
My fiancé is friends with a sex worker. (NSFW) [more inside]
Why does the advertised and available hard drive space not match?
I ordered a Buffalo Drivestation Quad 4Tb external hard drive. It shows up as exactly 3Tb capacity. Am I missing something, or did they ship the wrong item in the right box?
posted by roofus at 7:57 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by roofus at 7:57 AM PST - 7 comments
Should I Buck the Trend and Move from Mac to PC?
Long term Mac user, 90% of work is browser (chrome) based and other than that I use skype, evernote, 1password, coda, join.me etc. I run my own web based business and consider myself almost but not quite a geek. Purchase price and maintenance costs are important to me but also given my browser based use I now doubt that I can justify the extra $ for a mac. [more inside]
Opensource Music?
I have a video thanking funders that is scheduled to go live for National Philanthropy Day on Friday. I thought I had student composed and performed music to go with the video, but this morning I learned that I don't. Can you point me toward any on-line source for peppy, modern-ish (ie: not classical), instrumental music recordings that are free for public use?
posted by anastasiav at 7:32 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by anastasiav at 7:32 AM PST - 4 comments
I don't need a smart phone. What do I need?
I have a Verizon iPhone 4 that is now off-contract. It's clear from my usage that I don't really need a smart phone. For my purposes, what do I need? [more inside]
School us on the Twin Cities School Systems
We just moved to the Twin Cities (Keewaydin in south Minneapolis to be exact) and are starting to explore potential neighborhoods for our first home purchase next fall. We're interesting in your experiences with either having your children schooled in Minneapolis or St. Paul proper or being schooled yourself in either of the Twin Cities school systems. [more inside]
posted by playertobenamedlater at 7:20 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by playertobenamedlater at 7:20 AM PST - 17 comments
Strategies for quality time with my wife when life gets in the way
How does a youngish (36) married couple spend quality time together when demanding jobs and childcare responsibilities seem to make it nearly impossible? What are your strategies? How do you cope? [more inside]
posted by Creamroller at 7:18 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Creamroller at 7:18 AM PST - 18 comments
Buy or watch old episodes of Nature?
Is there somewhere I can buy old episodes of Nature, like from 1998? It seems like you can only find recent episodes online, from 2008 at the earliest. Any leads would be greatly appreciated! Even transcripts would be helpful. [more inside]
Is there a list or blog that tracks writing contests?
I enjoy writing but often have trouble with motivation. Is there a blog or other resource that tracks writing contests? Looking for anything from publishers looking for compilation submissions on a certain theme to overtly commercial contests (where you might write something about a product to win a small prize or the product itself) to just for fun bragging rights competitions. [more inside]
posted by mikepop at 6:51 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by mikepop at 6:51 AM PST - 4 comments
Searching for a searchable directory of line art
I'm in love with these wedding place cards, but I'm having trouble finding online sources of line art I can use. Specifically, I would like to find an online directory of line art - the kind of black and white image that would accompany a dictionary definition. Ideally, it would be open source/taken from old books but I'd be willing to pay if I could find the right images. I've tried searching Google images with the line art function, but it's pretty limited in the results and often too cartoon-y for what I"m looking for. Additionally, if you could think of any additional search terms for that style of art it could be very helpful. [more inside]
posted by fermezporte at 6:19 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by fermezporte at 6:19 AM PST - 7 comments
Child-friendly Nexus 7
What should I do to a brand new Nexus 7 to make sure it's both safe and fun when my four-year-old daughter unwraps it at Christmas? [more inside]
posted by monkey closet at 6:06 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by monkey closet at 6:06 AM PST - 8 comments
Unexpected Death
My Dad just called and my Mom unexpectedly died in her sleep at 62. We need help in knowing what to do. [more inside]
posted by RoadScholar at 6:02 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by RoadScholar at 6:02 AM PST - 21 comments
Gluten allergies must be made up
How do I come to terms with the glaring in-your-face reality that I have a gluten allergy and that it is not going to go away? [more inside]
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 5:52 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 5:52 AM PST - 32 comments
Outlook -- removing or hiding text when displaying emails
We have been required to attach a lengthy signature to all of our outgoing emails signatures must be attached to replies as well. This is very frustrating when trying to read through an email thread because there is a 18 line signature block in between the content of each email. Assume I can't modify the email signature policy is there any type of scripting available in Outlook that would allow me to search for a string in an email I am viewing and hide it? I could do something like this with Grease Monkey in web outlook but I prefer to use the desktop client.
posted by jmsta at 5:28 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by jmsta at 5:28 AM PST - 1 comment
What are hidden benefits to applying for a patent?
I have many unusual ideas of unique approaches to complex problems which relate to my line of work. Writing a patent seems like a good way to get them on paper and an interesting way to boost my competitive profile. I do not have the legal know-how or resources to finance legal action, nor do I plan/care/want to. Aside from helping me outline my idea in precision and detail, what other "hidden" advantages are there to patent application?
Selling one-square-metre plots to stop a developer
I read about this some years ago and can't recall the details - Does anyone recall it? [more inside]
posted by Quillcards at 2:37 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Quillcards at 2:37 AM PST - 4 comments
November 12
Can biofeedback help somebody with cold hands?
I'm curious about your experiences with using biofeedback devices to learn how to warm your hands up. My wife is always cold and I've been thinking about getting her a handheld thermometer (e.g. this doodad), but I don't want to waste her time / our money if it's unlikely to help. [more inside]
MacBook Pour Homme (looking for a men's fragrance I remember)
~10 years ago, I used to wear a cologne that came in a smooth, rounded rectangular grey aluminum bottle with a white front. Very Apple-esque. I can't remember what kind it was now. Any help?
posted by ferdinandcc at 11:21 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by ferdinandcc at 11:21 PM PST - 3 comments
My roommate hates me. I can't afford to move out. What do I even do?
How do you live in an apartment with a roommate who would probably prefer if you dropped dead? [more inside]
Pee Wee Herman doll in a movie?
Got this photo of a Pee Wee Herman doll from a friend, who claims that the doll (well, maybe not this exact one, but the same model) was featured in a movie. No other clues - no year, genre, etc. I've tried the Google, to no avail. Any of you happen to know what movie featured a Pee Wee Herman doll?
posted by davidmsc at 10:14 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by davidmsc at 10:14 PM PST - 3 comments
What is this horrifying Batman parody?
Can anyone point me to this online Batman deconstruction? [more inside]
posted by moonlight on vermont at 9:58 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by moonlight on vermont at 9:58 PM PST - 2 comments
What do you wish you'd read before you left college?
I'm helping to design a course for college juniors and seniors in the health sciences. What books (textbooks, popular non-fiction, or even novels), articles, essays, and websites would be most helpful for the students as they finish up their degrees? [more inside]
Catgotmytongueasana
I'm a single guy. I go to a yoga class. There are lots of attractive women in my yoga class. I'd like to talk to some of them, but I suck at talking to strangers. I need prescripted lines. Not pickup lines, just making-a-basic-connection lines. Ideas please. [more inside]
posted by zeri at 9:11 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by zeri at 9:11 PM PST - 48 comments
Any good event spaces in San Francisco?
Looking for an event space in San Francisco for Thursday, November 21st. I'm looking for something that can fit 60-80 people. It's for a developer-focused meetup event. Have you been to a good event in SF? Do you know of a good space?
posted by TimeDoctor at 8:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by TimeDoctor at 8:35 PM PST - 3 comments
Tiny Advent Gifts
I made my boyfriend an advent calendar for Christmas and I'm looking for tiny (but quality!) gifts to fill it! [more inside]
posted by brynna at 8:29 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by brynna at 8:29 PM PST - 26 comments
What is the best drinking water option?
Been reading a few articles about tap water vs. bottled water, and some of these mention how tap water is at least the same, or even better (1, 2, 3, and 4) and of course, less expensive. I live in Toronto and I buy PC's bottled water (simply because it doesn't have that artifical taste that other brands have in my opinion), but I'm starting to look at other options. Between bottled water, water cooler bottles, and installing a tap filter, which is my best option?
posted by omar.a at 8:15 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by omar.a at 8:15 PM PST - 18 comments
White bundle of joy or white elephant?
I have around $200 Aus burning a hole in my pocket and I am thinking of getting a nintendo console, two remote units and wiifit board. I have never played anything on a tv or computer except dos tennis and solitaire. I know zilch about nintendo and game consoles or games. [more inside]
posted by Kerasia at 7:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Kerasia at 7:35 PM PST - 8 comments
My pooch is a never-nude
On Saturday we have a community street festival here in Perth, and I need my little Clyde to win the whole damn dog show. [more inside]
Looking for new job but uncertain about career direction...
I'm a GIS office worker for a city government in the midwest. After a few years in my full time position I think its time for me to go, and move closer to my family, but I'm having trouble figuring out what exactly I should be looking for. Suggestions much appreciated. [more inside]
How to stop the weight gain?
Stressed out and at my heaviest, how can I gradually start to lose weight? [more inside]
posted by elisse at 7:10 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by elisse at 7:10 PM PST - 28 comments
"Same background dating" for a potential immigrant in the United States
I'm currently a non immigrant in the United States and looking to settle down here because I want to be away from the society I was raised in. However, I'm looking for a person that shares the better parts of my cultural beliefs and value sets so I can preserve some of them when raising children here, and keep in touch with my roots. Are there any good dating resources that mefi can help me with, or general ideas on what I can do to seek such partners? [more inside]
Game Show Blues
I'm scheduled to appear on a game show and I just found out that a guy I went to high school with years ago used to work for that particular game show, but no longer does. I think this might disqualify me and I'm Not sure what to do. [more inside]
Please help me plan a big Christmas Eve party in a small apartment!
My husband and I moved into our first real apartment a little over a year ago, and we've entertained groups of four (making it six counting us), but I invited eight people for Christmas Eve... and they all said yes. Even the people with family in the area who usually have other plans. Even the people with kids - they're getting babysitters. Totally unexpected. Help me do this without losing my mind! [more inside]
posted by skycrashesdown at 4:47 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by skycrashesdown at 4:47 PM PST - 19 comments
Star Wars EU: just the good parts.
What parts of the Star Wars Expanded Universe are worth exploring? [more inside]
1994 Toyota 4Runner with bad muffler/tailpipe – what to do?
My 1994 Toyota 4Runner (V6, RWD) has a bad muffler and/or tailpipe. It runs loud, but not undriveably loud. Today I took a good look under there for the first time since buying the truck (pictures within) and I would like some advice on the best and most cost-effective way to proceed. Bonus mystery switch question at end. [more inside]
posted by Scientist at 4:28 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Scientist at 4:28 PM PST - 15 comments
Durable children's activity table and chairs
I need a durable (durable!) children's table and chairs for a new community center (human services multi-service center). [more inside]
posted by fieldtrip at 3:43 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by fieldtrip at 3:43 PM PST - 11 comments
Advanced Current Affairs in 10 minutes a day!
What is your 'current affairs' routine? [more inside]
Hotel near Trinity River jogging trails in Fort Worth?
We'll be staying in Fort Worth this weekend. I've read that there are some nice crushed gravel trails along the Trinity River. From my review of the trail map, it looks like the crushed gravel portion begins west of downtown, just a little north of Trinity Park. So, we'd like to choose the most convenient decent hotel to that portion of the trail. Fort Worthers, are there any decent hotels just a hop, skip, and a jump away? [more inside]
Should I consider a new therapist?
My ongoing problems with my therapist have reached a head, but she is urging me not to leave. Having received humane and insightful responses from AskMeFi about another MH issue, I would really appreciate some perspective on this. [more inside]
Temporary bookshelf walls - outside of NYC?
Can I get a temporary bookshelf wall outside of NYC? [more inside]
I need help identifying a Japanese author/filmmaker!
I need help recall the name of a Japanese author and/or filmmaker. The one detail I remember is that during WWII he was a boy working in a factory that was firebombed. In order to survive, he and the other boys fought to get under one another as the building came down around them in flames. Does anyone know who this might be? I'm stumped and so is Google . . .
posted by Quaversalis at 2:37 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Quaversalis at 2:37 PM PST - 2 comments
Struggling to forgive my SO's emotional cheating
How can I forgive my SO (and myself) for emotionally cheating on each other? [more inside]
Heart Rate Monitoring on the Cheap
Dear Hive Mind,
My friend (a graduate student in psychology) wants to collect physiological measures for her dissertation. However, she doesn't have much money with which to do so. What is the cheapest way for her to accurately record the heart rate of some undergraduates? How much more will it cost her to be able to export the data to a computer?
Thanks 10^6,
zscore
posted by zscore at 1:53 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by zscore at 1:53 PM PST - 15 comments
Moving a digital piano. Difficulty filter: UK to Belgium.
Further to my earlier question, I want to have my digital piano with me in Belgium. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by fearnothing at 1:08 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by fearnothing at 1:08 PM PST - 4 comments
Hair for Grownups-Slash-Dummies
I have medium-thick, fine, kind of wavy hair that I have washed and either pulled back still-wet into a high ponytail or French braided every day since the beginning of time. It's a little longer than shoulder-length. I would like to find some more interesting and adult things to do with it, (maybe something that looks a little less severe?) but would not like to spend more than 10 or (gulp) 15 minutes of my morning on hair-related tasks. Is this even possible? [more inside]
posted by charmedimsure at 12:39 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by charmedimsure at 12:39 PM PST - 31 comments
Source for vegetable-shaped flash drives?
I'm looking for reasonably priced, low capacity, vegetable-shaped flash drives to use for holiday gifts. They will store a small PDF e-book and about fifty small .doc files of my recipe collection. I've seen... [more inside]
What is the best method / materials to use when making hand prints?
Salt dough isn't good for the very long term when it comes to durability, so I need suggestions. I don't have access to a kiln, but anything else is fair game. This is for keepsake handprints for a baby and preschooler.
Looking for new, intellectual, stand-up comedians
The other night I dumb-lucked into the last ten minutes of the new Dana Gould stand-up special, and I loved it. And it got me thinking about how much I love intellectual stand-up comedy. Who else might I like? [more inside]
What are the exemptions to performing the Hajj?
I know that Islam requires followers to perform the Hajj at least once in their lives if able... but what determines that ability? I presume it's a matter of health and financial concerns, but even so, I imagine many Muslims make great sacrifices and take significant risks for this. Are there generally-accepted measures of when it's understandable for someone not to make the Hajj, or is it all a matter of personal faith & judgment? I also know there was a time when one could send someone to more or less take their place... is that still an accepted practice? [more inside]
Convert rich text field in Access or Excel into plain text
I have thousands of rich text message message fields currently formatted in RTF (rich text format) that need to be stripped of their formatting and converted to plain text. Currently the field is in a Microsoft Access database. But if needed, the database could be sent to Excel if that would ease the conversion of the RTF to plain text. [more inside]
taking responsibility in a breakup
How do you manage healing from a breakup when you contributed a lot to the problem? [more inside]
Stop My iPhone From Making Ghost Prank Calls?
People I have never heard of before are calling me to ask that I stop calling them. Fine. If I had called them, that is! But I haven't. Neither has my phone, according to its log. [more inside]
Cheap, Chew proof, Non-toxic, hard surface for a puppy's pen
Husband & I are getting a puppy soon. Since we spend most of our time in our study, we were going to purchase this pen to keep in our study along with his crate. Unfortunately, our study is carpeted. So we need something we can cover a section of the carpet with, help us find it! [more inside]
What regular maintenance should I schedule for our new home?
We bought a house, yay. It’s a small 1910’s bungalow with gas appliances and everything basically works. The foundation’s been replaced in the not-too-distant past and it’s ready for an earthquake. I've never been anything but a renter, so what kinds of regular maintenance should I be thinking about to minimize the risk of catastrophic emergency repairs? Plumbing, gas, heating, electrical, sewers: what’s a good schedule, and what kinds of things do I ask for to make clear that there’s nothing particularly wrong but I’d like to keep it that way? I looked at this old question, but most of the interesting-sounding links are dead.
posted by migurski at 10:51 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by migurski at 10:51 AM PST - 10 comments
23andMe for Jewish Genetic Testing
Is 23andMe sufficient for the genetic testing my fiance and I require before getting married (Jewish genetic testing)? [more inside]
posted by RUPure at 10:48 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by RUPure at 10:48 AM PST - 16 comments
Upgrade or Replace Gaming Computer?
I am considering either upgrading or replacing my 6 year old gaming computer, not sure which to do. What would you do? [more inside]
posted by zompus at 10:42 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by zompus at 10:42 AM PST - 17 comments
How can I best help my depressed friends & also take care of myself?
I watch many people who I care a lot about suffer from depression. I would sincerely do anything to help them, and do whatever I can think of: conversations, little notes and random texts, hanging out, offering help with thinking through options if they want it, etc. But, as someone who is lucky to not have 'been there', it's hard to know when I'm crossing a line and what's really needed. In fact, I think most of my efforts translate to "I know you mean well, but..." even though I'm also one of the few people these friends go to when things get bad. On top of worrying and trying to help, I also spend (probably too much) time thinking about what they're going through and what would be most helpful. It's exhausting for me and stressful, but it's personally not an option not to care. I end up internalizing this stuff and it affects my normal activities, even though at the end of the day, I'm not the one suffering. I want to be as good a friend and resource as possible to these people I truly care about and also want to avoid falling victim to anxiety or depression myself because of it. Any tips from either the 'been there' - depressed and knows what's helpful - perspective or the sincerly-caring-friend side of this equation would be much appreciated. Thanks.
How do get into Science grad school w/an Art undergrad degree ?
I have a bachelors degree in film. I want a Masters in Cell and Molecular Biology. I want to work in a research lab. Getting into grad school in general is a mystery to me, but my special circumstances make it seem that much more impossible...is it? [more inside]
I need a jacket that won't shed or cling to my shirt sleeves
I need a fleece jacket that has a wooly and not velour texture. [more inside]
inexpensive cold weather headgear, for outdoor exercise?
Can you help me find some inexpensive, machine washable headgear for cold weather exercise? [more inside]
How can I sleep cooler at night?
I sleep hot. My body creates a lot of heat at night, which is good for me but bad for my partners. My ex-wife used to complain, and my current girlfriend doesn't enjoy cuddling because I'm warm and often sweaty. I sleep hotter when I drink alcohol, I know that, and memory foam seems to be a problem (so I'm replacing my memory foam mattress with an expensive mattress that's supposed to be cooler). What other things can I do to be cooler at night? I want my girlfriend to cuddle more!
3D Printing: Can I Affordably Print Larger Than a Matchbox Car?
I'm looking to print something with about 2.5% density that would fit within a bounding box 355mm tall, 505mm wide and 253mm deep. I modeled it in Google Sketchup (only took me 3 days to really figure out what I was doing!) and found that it was too big for ponoko and others who could print that large (is a foot and a half really that large?) wanted over a thousand dollars. Is 3D printing affordable as long as you're willing to print cheap rings, D&D dice and tiny action figures? [more inside]
posted by Brian Puccio at 9:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Brian Puccio at 9:28 AM PST - 9 comments
how to strip out text from a CSV file record
I have an exported CSV file which contains a field with an entire address in it like so: name, address, postal code, country.
I need to strip out everything except the country name so I can sort by country. [more inside]
Help me find plates that will last a decade
12 years ago I bought Mikasa stoneware dishes for our every day use. They held up really well for the first 10 years. But now they're breaking, chipping, and in need of replacement. But it seems stoneware is no longer available. I see a nice porcelain set by Mikasa. Is that good for everday use or am I looking at lower cost china? [more inside]
Why does my cat chomp on my bare legs when I'm walking around?
YANMC (You are not my cat), but why does my 2 y/o cat attack my legs? Bare legs = Wide, crazy kitty eyes and sideways CHOMP right into my calf. This has been going on for about a month. And I mean MY legs- we've tried to see if she will go after my husband's and she won't! This is not a serious problem; I'm just curious. I'm an experienced cat owner but this is funny and baffling. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by ShadePlant at 9:00 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by ShadePlant at 9:00 AM PST - 38 comments
Help me buy a bike please
Shopping for a used bike for light commuting and weekend touring. What questions should I be asking? [more inside]
Genetic DNA test turns up a surprise... what should I do?
I am a male. I am the family historian. In an effort to fine-tune my own research into my maternal grandfather's family (the "Jones"), I have my male first cousin take a Y-DNA test, since he has the "Jones" Y-Chromosome (I have my Dad's Y chromosome).
Lo and behold, the test comes back with a perfect match, and a predicted Most Recent Common Ancestor within 3 generations. I have researched back farther than that and I know all of their names. None of the last names match.
My occupation doesn't take me anywhere near genetics... but I am assuming that a Y DNA match with a MRCA that close should have the same surname for his male ancestor, correct? Except if there's been adoption or infidelity or rape, correct?
I sent the results to my cousin, prior to the lightbulb going off over my head. He knows a lot less about this than I do. He hasn't called me yet, but what if he does? Should I just let sleeping dogs lie? Ugh!
Can you sue a dead person for libel or slander?
I am writing a novel (and hoping to publish it under a pseudonym), and I was hoping Metafilter's legal experts could provide some guidance: can you sue a dead person for slander and/or libel? [more inside]
Help me pick my baby doctor!
I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant, and this afternoon I'm heading into a "meet and greet" with a new pediatrician at a practice affiliated with the big multi-specialty doctor group in my town. At this point, we're thinking it's pretty likely that we'll either go with the pediatrics group or with the family practice group where my PCP practices, and I had set up this meet and greet to help try to make that decision. However, it's now 5 hours until we head over and I have no clue what to ask this doctor to help us make a decision. I am sure others have probably gone through this before--so help me figure out what to ask! [more inside]
posted by iminurmefi at 8:38 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by iminurmefi at 8:38 AM PST - 15 comments
Why won't you just leave the package?
We're getting increasingly frustrated with the UPS driver refusing to leave our (no signature required) packages at our front door. Would a small sign help? [more inside]
posted by juniperesque at 8:33 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by juniperesque at 8:33 AM PST - 20 comments
Good quality hardshell suitcase?
We're looking for a good quality hardshell suitcase - any suggestions on brands and where to buy? A 2 pack would be great - one carry on size, and one slightly larger. [more inside]
posted by needlegrrl at 8:18 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by needlegrrl at 8:18 AM PST - 3 comments
Restaurant Thanksgiving Options?
Need options for a nice, high-quality restaurant experience for Thanskgiving Day in Columbus OH [more inside]
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 7:51 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 7:51 AM PST - 4 comments
We're fine, mom
(stop worrying about my husband's employment) [more inside]
Should I tell my wife that I know her family's dark secret?
Sorry for the gothic novel vibe this seems to give off, but it is what it is. There's some unpleasantness in my wife's family's past that I know still troubles her, and that she's never told me about. I know what this secret is, but she doesn't know that I know. Would telling her lift a burden from her, or just stir up trouble? [more inside]
Iceland in the winter
Three friends and I semi-impulse bought tickets to go to Iceland in a month (December 4-8) -- what should we try to do in the short time we're there? Winter-specific suggestions most welcome! [more inside]
posted by aaanastasia at 7:23 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by aaanastasia at 7:23 AM PST - 6 comments
What percentage of English words have three syllables?
What percentage of English words have three syllables?
posted by reverend cuttle at 7:12 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by reverend cuttle at 7:12 AM PST - 10 comments
How [Not] To Job Search
I've heard it all: "You're Too Professional," "Not Enough Experience," and of course, "Just not the culture fit we're looking for." After three months of non-successful job searching, I've decided to turn to the hivemind for help. [more inside]
Italian business font wanted
Is there a particular font that figuratively says "Italy" and business for a US person who will be reading about an investment in an Italian company? [more inside]
Turkey or house?
Do people generally go house hunting Thanksgiving weekend?
I had planned on doing Thanksgiving on Saturday (it is the ONLY day we can), but now that our house is on the market, I fear we may have to forgo it this year.
How to make your own massage wax?
I just started a massage course and I'm looking for a good recipe to make my own massage wax. Any professionals out there that want to share their recipe? Thanks!
posted by Sourisnoire at 6:09 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Sourisnoire at 6:09 AM PST - 1 comment
Headphone and Earbud Recommendations?
Looking for suggestions for headphones and earbuds to purchase for myself. [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:56 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:56 AM PST - 12 comments
What are the greatest EU/UK bath & beauty products?
So, every time I go looking for recommendations for makeup, etc. (here, and Makeup Alley, mostly), the majority of highly rated items are US products that are usually impossible or expensive for me to get, which is why I'd like your tips for your top-rated favorite bath and beauty items made-locally / available in Europe at reasonable cost. Maybe I can replace a few things, and find some new gems. [more inside]
Help dress me - over 40 edition
Looking for websites, blogs, sources for fashion for women of a certain age [more inside]
How will 3rd floor renovations affect us?
If you've ever lived on the first floor and had renovations going on on the third floor/roof (adding dormers, installing plumbing for a bathroom, etc), please tell me your story! I'm trying to figure out if this will be a minor inconvenience (eg, only distant noise) or a major headache (feels like it's happening in my apartment).
The building is a 2-family condo with three floors altogether.
Thanks!
Replacing guys
Whats a good group noun to replace guys? [more inside]
posted by Cannon Fodder at 3:48 AM PST - 56 comments
posted by Cannon Fodder at 3:48 AM PST - 56 comments
Clinical or academic term for "make work" situations?
I'm having trouble searching for articles on this because I don't know the right terms. It's when you have a job that isn't a real job but is instead a very simplified job paid way above the market value in order to provide income and occupation to someone who is otherwise unable to get employment, e.g. creating a simple lawn mowing job for someone with intellectual challenges when you could hire a professional to do the job twice as fast and much cheaper. Does anyone know the correct phrases I can use to find academic or clinical articles on this? I'm especially interested in the phrases social workers would use.
posted by viggorlijah at 3:27 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by viggorlijah at 3:27 AM PST - 11 comments
It rubs the lotion on its skin...
I'm looking to find / make / adapt a costume for a fine art photoshoot that I'm currently planning. The character in the picture is one from myth, who is said to have a skirt made from flayed human skin. Short of sending Ramsay Snow's a raven or becoming Buffalo Bill, how can I put together a costume that will look as creepy-beautiful as I need? [more inside]
posted by gmb at 3:18 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by gmb at 3:18 AM PST - 12 comments
Sunday Assembly?
Looking for a Church/not a church [more inside]
How to get past four years of misguided limerance?
Around a month ago, I (female, straight, Asian, 21) broke off an engagement (with P, 32) because I had reason to believe a former tutor of mine (B, 26) was interested in me. I've since spoken with the latter and he ignored my emailed request to reconnect. What's more, I discovered that he (B, 26) is sleeping with a variety of 18-yo "sugar babies" on my college campus. (This explains why I see him often; he's not there to see me but to see attractive freshmen he pays for sex.) I feel betrayed because I really loved B and thought he was the perfect guy for me; I'm appalled that he's resorted to such a low that he targets freshmen girls. I wonder if he was only pretending to be interested in me when we met, since I was an 18-year old freshman then and am now older. I've been feeling blue about the entire situation and I'd appreciate any advice on navigating the post-limerance stage. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 2:25 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by anonymous at 2:25 AM PST - 30 comments
Blocking ebay seller's items from listing?
Is there a way to automatically block an ebay.co.uk seller's items from showing up in the search results? I'm hoping for a greasemonkey script, but I'll take whatever works. [more inside]
posted by Solomon at 2:08 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Solomon at 2:08 AM PST - 1 comment
I want to set up a fund for the children of a friend who passed away
A very close and dear friend of mine passed away a few days ago at a very young age and left behind a wife and 2 very young children ages 3 and 1. I would like to set up an investment fund for his children in his memory which people can donate to and will accrue interest until they are ready for college. To increase the chances people will donate I want it to be possible to use paypal or google wallet. I know nothing about finance or laws or any of the things that I imagine come with setting this up. Can anyone advise? Thanks in advance
November 11
Apps created by artists or as part of an artistic project
I'm a journalist looking to write a series of profiles on artists who are using apps, not to create their work, but as part of their output.
If you know of any, or where I should look, could you let me know? Cheers.
posted by quarsan at 10:32 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by quarsan at 10:32 PM PST - 14 comments
Buy her out or sell it?
My wife and I are getting divorced, and I'm trying to figure out what to do with the marital home. We have a lot of equity in the place, but also have a not-insignificant amount of joint debt. Equity is probably between $130-$150k. Around $60k other debt (two cars, small credit card, student loans). Help me consider the pros/cons of buying her out of the house (through a cash-out refi) and selling the place. [more inside]
How to get video off the camera
I have a canon camcorder, a mac computer with no hard drive space and cannot figure out how to transfer the video to an external server. [more inside]
Help me figure out a sustainable exercise and nutrition routine
I used to exercise a lot, generally violent sports like rugby or boxing, but several years ago I got injured and two years ago I got pregnant and I haven't really done much since. I really want to figure out how to get back on the horse -- and while I'm at it eat a little better -- but every time I try to just think about it, the many layers of interacting constraints exhaust me. I'd really appreciate help thinking through these, or ideas about what might work. [more inside]
posted by forza at 9:10 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by forza at 9:10 PM PST - 28 comments
How to baby an injury for a newbie runner?
I'm midway through a 13-week beginner's running program. Today was supposed to be a run day for me, but I noticed a little twinge in my ankle last night, and the soreness has persisted. Skipped the run for today, but I'm wondering how long I should rest the ankle before attempting to run again? Spent the day reading about high ankle sprains and freaking myself out, need some advice from experienced runners. [more inside]
posted by Diablevert at 8:58 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Diablevert at 8:58 PM PST - 11 comments
Gift ideas: puzzle, game, or other.
Looking for a gift for my father, who loved the Tetris Cube puzzle, but is the kind of guy to get himself whatever he wants. So, I'm trying to be thoughtful and creative. [more inside]
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:57 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:57 PM PST - 7 comments
Best video games for two?
What are the best collaborative 2-player video games? My husband and I played Mario Galaxy 2 and it was perfect - he player Mario and I played "Starfy" and it worked out great. Are there more games like that for 2 players, where one player (aka me) can be kind of bad at video games? We have a Wii, some computers and are considering getting an Xbox One in the next few months..
Helping a partner through life changes
My partner is facing some big life changes, including a new job and loss of a pet, and I'm wondering what small ways I can support him and make life easier for him. [more inside]
posted by whistle pig at 8:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by whistle pig at 8:20 PM PST - 6 comments
Surprise! I'm moving out!
O wise people of AskMeFi, please help me decide if I'm being too impulsive in jumping at a chance to move out of my parents' place. I really want this, but I want to make sure I won't regret it a few months down the road. [more inside]
posted by cucumber patch at 8:08 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by cucumber patch at 8:08 PM PST - 15 comments
Determine pricing structure for financial portfolio management software
With a couple of friends we are building a very sophisticated system that we believe is vastly superior to anything currently on the market. Our aim are independent financial management companies of any size in Europe (those non-bank companies that manage people's investments by buying and selling stocks, bonds, funds,...). The current market practice heavily penalises the small companies and only few of them can afford a good system. We want to change that. [more inside]
Hats, please!
I need help coming up with famous hats/headwear in popular culture... [more inside]
Former business partner (fbp) is trying to con me
The question is, is it possible to delete Google revision history? I hope not, because that is
the proof I have that fbp has changed the revenue percentages we agreed on. [more inside]
Help for jaw neuralgia?
In May, I went to my dentist for a deep root cleaning on my upper and lower teeth on the left side (with the right side to be done the following week). After the Novocain wore off, I had the usual mild soreness that has accompanied similar cleanings in the past. However, after a couple of days the pain started to migrate over to the right side (i.e., the side that had not been cleaned), at which point it gradually flared into an intense upper and lower jaw ache that was reminiscent of the pain of getting my braces adjusted or the pain that followed my jaw surgery about 9 years ago. The pain lasted off and on for about a month, then gradually went away – until... [more inside]
posted by scody at 6:01 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by scody at 6:01 PM PST - 7 comments
Telemark shop in Boston?
Can anyone recommend a good telemark ski shop in the Boston area that can do a decent boot fitting?
Best Wireless Digital Photo Frames?
For Christmas, I'd like to purchase digital photo frames for family members that would allow me to update the photos wirelessly. The reviews for several of the digital wi-fi frames are awful on Amazon. Do you have any recommendations for digital photo frames that specifically come with wi-fi? Or another digital photo frame that would be easy enough for non-tech-savvy people to use? Thank you.
play audio file, stop, start, so 2 people (diff places) can listen,eval
How can I listen to an audio file (and stop and restart) with a colleague far away, so we can hear it simultaneously and evaluate it? Something like Team Viewer with audio? I've been trying Audacity, holding my cordless phone to the speaker for my colleague, but it's very tiring for me and hard for him to hear. I have an iMac, one colleague has an iPad, other a Windows PC.
Correlations between orange juice and automobile accidents?
I would like to find a cite-able reference for an anecdote that I heard — drinking orange juice is correlated to a lower frequency of automobile accidents. The point of this example is that correlation is not causation by using a true correlation with a ridiculous causation. But, where did I hear of this example? Is the correlation true? [more inside]
That Used Car Smell
What do car dealerships typically do to used cars before offering them for sale? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 3:53 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Sara C. at 3:53 PM PST - 9 comments
Does this card game still exist on some form?
I used to play a set of solitaire games called Thieves And Kings, which for some reason is no longer available to download. I particularly enjoyed a game called Fortitude. Does this game exist under other names? I'd love to find a tablet version. [more inside]
Can I snatch up an expiring domain at GoDaddy without losing my soul?
There is a domain that would be nice to have, but it has been registered for a very long time. I just recently decided to check on it, and it seems to be expiring. The site now shows a GoDaddy landing page that says it expired around a month ago. So, would it be advantageous to use their auction site, since they seem to currently have some control over the domain? [more inside]
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 3:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 3:12 PM PST - 8 comments
Chess engine that would always resign
I remember reading about how, in the early days of computer chess, someone wrote this engine that played pretty poorly, but knew when the game was no longer in his favor and would resign. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Or would this have been a pretty common feature among many engines?
posted by Busoni at 3:05 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Busoni at 3:05 PM PST - 6 comments
I want to go into Marketing Communications. Good idea?
Is Marketing Communications a good fit for me? Career advice appreciated, especially from people with experience in the industry. [more inside]
How to deal with an overbearing, perfectionsist boss?
I am from the United States and love my new job in a developing country. I believe in what the organization is trying to accomplish. There are two bosses. One is laid back and lets me do my thing. The other is a complete perfectionist who is so overbearing at times that I want to cry. [more inside]
SDHC card on Treo 650
Yes, I have an old phone, and I want to keep it. I also want to play music on it from an SDHC card. The Treo 650 does not read SDHC cards. Apparently, the Treo 680 does, and some people installed the card slot driver from the 680 into the 650 with success. Unfortunately, all the links in the websites that describe doing that are now dead. [more inside]
A camera for cheats
I'd like a camera that can take a photo very quickly after the shutter button is depressed, that can take lots of photos in rapid succession at a decent resolution, that can focus quickly, that has a good sized sensor, and works in low light. Oh and it should be inexpensive. [more inside]
posted by devnull at 2:32 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by devnull at 2:32 PM PST - 12 comments
white wine punch recipe?
I have a bunch of bottles of probably not-super-awesome white wines. I'd like to make a punch for a party this weekend and am looking for a good recipe for a fall/winter punch. [more inside]
How can I build more physical strength for myself?
My story is thus: between the ages of 14 to 21 my parents starved me very badly as a form of physical abuse. I became very weak as a result, always puking and my hair fell out. No one believed me so I was referred to a psychiatric ward where I was pronounced mentally ill. That all happened a long time ago but I am still finding it very hard to build basic strength and would appreciate some help from a trainer or anyone with fitness experience about very gentle and easy exercises to help build real strength and get my body moving. I've tried googling but a lot of the exercises are just way too heavy for me and I would try the gym but I would end up nearly passing out after 20 minutes.
Cooking is a hobby of mine, I'm not an expert but enjoy making my own meals and avoid preprocessed foods and takeaways, so my diet is pretty good. Unfortunately I am too weak to eat 2000 calories per day, I will pass out before I can eat that amount. Please help because this is really affecting my life
posted by inaisa at 2:12 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by inaisa at 2:12 PM PST - 18 comments
Can't bring myself to change my address
I'm being unreasonably emotional about changing my address. Help me snap out of it. [more inside]
Why won't my Chrome load YouTube's stylesheet?
For some reason, the version of Chrome installed on my home laptop won't load YouTube's stylesheet on YouTube (or indeed show embedded videos on other pages), resulting in a page that looks like this: http://imgur.com/i6UiqpV
Any suggestions on how to fix this? [more inside]
Shampoo question
I started using sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner (Burt's Bees) about a month ago. Now my hair feels like it's never really clean, but also like it's never really dirty. [more inside]
posted by auntie maim at 1:29 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by auntie maim at 1:29 PM PST - 31 comments
Vacation in El Salvador?
Two wonderful people - a Salvadoran and a Russian, both living in New York - just got married and have invited my girlfriend and me to join them on vacation in El Salvador this December. Carlos is very sweet, very generous, and very excited to show us his country of origin. It all sounds wonderful to me - beach, mountains, pupusas, family, etc. Plus monkeys! My girlfriend is also very fond of the couple and loves the idea of a tropical vacation, but is typically more cautious than I am and is concerned about safety. This seems to be a valid concern, given the overall crime rate, State Department travel warnings, and so on. El Salvador has a murder rate of 69 per 100,000 people, which is about the same as Flint, Michigan and twice that of Baltimore. I'm a fairly experienced traveler and am inclined to think we'd be safe as long as we stuck with Carlos and his family, but don't want to be foolish. Neither of us speaks Spanish terribly well and we could probably be identified as foreigners by our appearance. The same can be said for Carlos' wife. G/f and I decided to turn to the fine folks of MetaFilter for outside perspectives - thoughts, anecdotes, information, or advice - on the safety and advisability of traveling to El Salvador for fun. Thank you!
How do you throw out tampons in a house with a minimum of yuckiness?
What is the best (most hygienic/cleanest/least gross) way to dispose of tampons at home if you can't flush them? Is there a specific type of bag for this? [more inside]
AA for atheist
Atheist and alcoholic
I need to seek support from AA. Please interpret aspects of the higher power stuff in a way that is not cognitively dissonancing for someone who has no belief in a deity. I know there are other options for "rational" alcoholics but my circumstances and location make AA the best option.
Feel free to include scripts and behaviours for me to respectfully avoid participating in group prayer (and hand holding - im really uncomfortable with touching strangers) without drawing excessive notice to myself.
I am in Australia which is not overtly religious but the two AA meetings I have been to previously (and will be attending) included a prayer, and people who explicitly said they were not religious but recommended the higher power as crucial in their sobriety.
Best agent for cat travel NYC-London?
Howdy! We're relocating from New York City to London at the end of this year, and of course we're taking our cat Olive with us. What we're having a little bit of a hard time with is figuring out just *how* to bring her, and we're hoping you can help us. [more inside]
How to deal with terror surrounding dentists.
I'm terrified of going to the dentist. I need significant amounts of dental work. I am having difficulty with my dental providers insurance and have the option to switch insurance providers, but have no idea how to navigate this emotionally, or financially. [more inside]
How can I turn my Google inbox into an excel document and process it?
Over the last year, I've had a contact form on my website with a checkbox for "Notify me when your book is done." My book is done and I'd like to email them. Around 1200 people used my contact form, and ~800 people clicked that checkbox; how do I get all of their email addresses into an excel spreadsheet? [more inside]
posted by sdis at 11:06 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by sdis at 11:06 AM PST - 15 comments
I (and everyone else) want a yellow raincoat for a kindergartener.
When my kid was three, I bought him a yellow raincoat lined with thin fleece from Target. It was $12. It was perfect - a little warm but not too warm. Still fits in the body, but the sleeves are much too short for my now 5.5-year-old. And now I can't find anything remotely similar for that price or any price, really. [more inside]
LCSWs and Psychology Ph.Ds, tell me about yourself
I'm looking for current LCSW and Clinical/Counseling Psychology PhD holders to give me "real life" information on the pros and cons of each degree. [more inside]
posted by metacognition at 10:35 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by metacognition at 10:35 AM PST - 14 comments
What to do about someone I like
Basically I met a guy at a bar (I'm also a guy fyi)...
We've been going places, eating out, and hanging out for the past month and a half and still are. Every day or every other day or so and he's always up for it. He messages me while we're both at work. [more inside]
Looking for a criminal defense attorney in Sacramento
Please recommend an excellent attorney in Sacramento for someone facing drug possession charges. Money is no object.
Arachnid Identification Question #248: What is this little guy/girl?
Best iPad 1 apps for kids?
I have an old iPad 1 that still gets pretty good battery life, and I'm going to give it to my folks for my niblings to play when they're visiting grandma and grandpa.
I'm a childless dude in his late 30s, so I'm a bit out of the loop with what kids like these days. I've tossed things that I think would be simple enough for kids to play and have fun with (even if they're not "doing it right") like Angry Birds, but would like suggestions for stuff I may not think of.
Thanks all. [more inside]
posted by bigdamnnerd at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by bigdamnnerd at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
I quit smoking, but he didn't
I quit smoking about a month ago. My boyfriend wants to quit smoking, but hasn't. He's cut down quite a bit (he hasn't been smoking in the evenings), but he still smokes during the day. I know it's not easy, I thought about quitting for a long time before it actually happened, but I just feel so upset now whenever I see him light up, or if I smell smoke on him. I feel like a hypocrite! How can I get a grip on how I react and how I feel? [more inside]
posted by ohmy at 10:10 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ohmy at 10:10 AM PST - 11 comments
Name of short story?
When I was 12 or 13 my English teacher assigned a short story that is quite profound.
From what I remember, it was scifi. In this society there was a new company that sold delicious milkshakes. They became incredibly popular, and their stores were everywhere. Unfortunately the people in the story got obese.
So another company created a product that would help you lose weight. That became popular too.
The people bought lots of milkshakes, and the people paid to lose weight. Round and round...
Does anyone know the title of this short story?
posted by daniel.poynter at 10:06 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by daniel.poynter at 10:06 AM PST - 8 comments
Progressively Challenging Hindi Literature for the Novice Hindi Reader
I'm looking for Hindi books that progressively increase in difficulty. I'm a Hindi speaker that learned from my parents conversationally, but I have no grasp of the Devanagari script. I thought I could teach myself the script by rote, then work my way up through books of increasing difficulty similar to how I have read books in grade school in the USA. [more inside]
The Cadillac of sweatpants?
What are the highest-quality, most comfortable sweatpants I can buy? [more inside]
posted by Metroid Baby at 9:11 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Metroid Baby at 9:11 AM PST - 22 comments
How to clear out the base of an outdoor clothes dryer?
I have an outdoor clothes dryer in my yard. The pole fits into a pipe about 1.75 inches in diameter and about 6 - 8 inches deep. This pipe is gradually filling up with dirt and debris and I want to clean it out. The pipe does not come out of the ground. How can I get all the junk out of the hole? (This is not as easy as it might seem.)
Thanks.
posted by feelinggood at 9:04 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by feelinggood at 9:04 AM PST - 9 comments
Disneyana/Disney Collectible Pins & Plushies SKU lookup
I have Disney pins and plushies... I would like to link them with their description by SKU. [more inside]
Coolant line rupture: who should pay?
Yesterday, my car overheated (or got close to it) on the way home. I'm 100% certain that this is due to some work that my mechanic did, either directly or indirectly. Who should pay for this repair work? [more inside]
posted by kdar at 8:51 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by kdar at 8:51 AM PST - 16 comments
Complications of a rebreak of a boxer's fracture, 2 weeks post-surgery.
2 weeks ago, I had surgery to repair a boxer's fracture, during which a plate and 7 screws were inserted. I recently was doing some push-ups (VERY dumb idea), and it appears I've rebroken it, as the pinky knuckle is now sunken. Can it be fixed again, or am I screwed?
Yeah, you're ill, but you're still being a nightmare...
I posted this question back in May, about my father's strange (and awful) behaviour that seems to be driven by some kind of illness. Things have not improved. Part of me says, "you should be there for him, it's your dad and he's obviously ill"; another part says "he's behaving like a monster, cut him out of your life." How do I determine which part to listen to? [more inside]
Where to live and advice in living in Charleston SC
My son 23 and single is moving the Charleston SCfor his first real post college job. What advice would you give him for finding an apartment on a modest income and living in what looks like to be a very cool city? Thanks.
Am I too old (51) to go to grad school?
I have been thinking about getting my pHD—for a couple of reasons. Though I am a very well-established and published non-fiction author, I have been up for a few teaching positions lately and have been told that my lack of an advanced degree (I have a BA) is holding me back. In addition, I simply am interested in going deeper with my work; the degree I am considering is in geography, though history of science also intrigues me. The question: am I crazy to be thinking of this at my age? I don't want to get a degree strictly as a "broadening my knowledge" proposition—I want to be able to use it and to teach. But we're seriously talking being the oldest guy in the class, most likely. So, my questions: is it worthwhile? will it help me find employment teaching? does my existing experience count for anything? and where do I start? Thoughts, answers, advice...all appreciated. Thanks.
Help on teaching kids on Project Management
My kids' school has started a program to have parents come in and talk about careers after school - what jobs are available, what it means from overall responsibility and day-to-day activities. I am signed up to talk about IT Project Mgmt... [more inside]
How to Visit an Art Gallery
I've only been going to art museums, but lately, I've been wanting to explore and go to art galleries. Problem is, it's a bit of uncharted territory, and so I have no idea where to start. [more inside]
How to stop someone from urinating on the bathroom wall?
He urinates in the bathroom walls and uses the near by hand flush to wash it off.
I have to shower next to this wall everyday. Details inside. [more inside]
Hey engineers - I need a mechanical elbow!
I'm working with some science-types on a project, and we're looking for a joint that gives a similar range of motion to a human elbow or shoulder. Is there a name for this, and is our current path to finding some a good one? [more inside]
posted by ASoze at 6:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by ASoze at 6:44 AM PST - 7 comments
Consequences of snitching on cheating classmates? None of my business?
My college classmates plan to cheat on a project everyone else worked hard on. My instinct is to look the other way. [more inside]
posted by plaintiff6r at 6:13 AM PST - 52 comments
posted by plaintiff6r at 6:13 AM PST - 52 comments
What to do around NYC 11/22 to 11/24
Know of any fun activities for the weekend of 11/22-11/24 somewhere around NYC? [more inside]
posted by cali59 at 5:34 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by cali59 at 5:34 AM PST - 5 comments
What's wrong with my log splitter?
Having trouble getting my log splitter to work as it should. It's not delivering power over most of the stroke. [more inside]
posted by pipeski at 4:34 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by pipeski at 4:34 AM PST - 6 comments
November 10
Tips for making my Chinese studies more enjoyable?
I enjoy studying Chinese but I seem to be going through a slump at the moment. Any advice on how to increase enjoyment in my studying? [more inside]
Is there any good forum online where people seriously discuss about USA?
Wondering is there anywhere online where people seriously discuss about USA as a nation, as a home?
I am not talking about tourism or which town to move to and such but the actual things and problems that we should all work on together and improve.
Not sure if I am worried too much, I do feel that there is a need to get the voice out now because the politicians are losing it, and so are the citizens.
If there is a good one, please share with me, thanks!
What goes well with kinako? And general help w/ Japanese/Asian desserts
My friend does a ramen night every so often, where he makes ramen completely from scratch. I'm often tasked with dessert because I'm a blogger and baker... I've already made plenty of desserts with black sesame and green tea so I want to try something new.
I have taro powder and was originally going to do something with taro and coconut. I already even made taro marshmallows.
But then I remembered that I had bought a bag of kinako/soybean flour some time ago and I should use it... I found a recipe for a kinako chiffon cake but would an ice cream be better? [more inside]
posted by picarosado at 10:30 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by picarosado at 10:30 PM PST - 4 comments
Kindle Fire game suggestions like Drawn: The Painted Tower and The Room
So I really dig these adventure / puzzle games. The Room was the first one I played and I just finished Drawn. Drawn's two sequels don't appear to be available for my Kindle Fire. In between playing those two games, I tried a couple of Big Fish games in this genre but they were not nearly as good. Maybe you guys can help me not waste my time trying to sort through the crap to find another good one. Please assume I only have access to a Kindle Fire for gaming. [more inside]
Elvis can't figure out how to leave the building
Help me learn to exit conversations, interrupt people, and generally be more assertive with the big groups I'm in charge of. [more inside]
Iphone 4S, ios7. Videos app screen now shows videos as thumbnails...
Iphone 4S, ios7. Videos app screen now shows videos as thumbnails, but I want my list view back. How can I switch the title view back to a simple list? Thanks.
Did I blow my chance for a plumbing apprenticeship?
I am applying to be an apprentice plumber with my local union. I missed the orientation due to a family emergency on Friday evening (Nov. 8). I have the application all ready to go and the orientation was the next step in the application process. According to the letter I received, those who did not attend the orientation will not proceed to the next step (an interview this week). I am devastated. How to I proceed? [more inside]
I've been Stung!
Heard a Sting (The Police?) song at the bar, never heard it before. Funky '80s sound, totally fit my mood that night. My google-fu failing me, I turn to the wisdom of metafilter.... [more inside]
posted by St. Peepsburg at 8:11 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by St. Peepsburg at 8:11 PM PST - 19 comments
Adult looking for answers about college, specifically Nursing school.
I'm a 31 year old single father who currently has something of a dead-end job after giving a sales career a shot (I was terrible). I have a BA in History from Ohio State with a graduating GPA of 2.42 (it's fun working full time, going to school full time and raising a kid full time!). I want to go back to school, but don't know where to start. [more inside]
How to support 90" countertop in sewing room?
How can/should I best support a 90" span of countertop, in a room where we want to do sewing, crafts, and schoolwork? [more inside]
posted by wenestvedt at 6:52 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by wenestvedt at 6:52 PM PST - 12 comments
Books for my friend with ADHD?
She can read, but doesn't like to. There's been only one book that has captured her attention. Help me find more books that she will like! [more inside]
posted by switcheroo at 6:40 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by switcheroo at 6:40 PM PST - 22 comments
Everything looks very bleak
I am trying to fight low grade depression. Things haven't been going well on all fronts so I feel it's more circumstantial than anything. I have lately lost passion for life and I am not sure how to get it back. [more inside]
Getting started with British inheritance and tax
Would a standard solicitor be the best person to advise? A specialist of some sort? A tax accountant? How to avoid unnecessary fees for work on this that the family can do--for instance, they are already tracking down all the banks with investments. [more inside]
posted by Anwan at 5:44 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Anwan at 5:44 PM PST - 5 comments
Couple Dilema
How to respond to a self invite for a vacation? [more inside]
How to deal with a co-worker's passive-aggressive behavior?
Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Looking for a print online (speaking Italian would help)
I would love to purchase a print of this (warning: auto-playing music) but I can't locate a store online. I'm hoping someone with better Italian skills than me can find a clue somewhere that would lead me to a site.
Non-academic researcher seeks organizational software solution.
I'm looking for software solutions for organizing and searching non-academic research. [more inside]
Do I need a new wireless router?
Comcast internet accessed via a Motorola modem, which Comcast assures me is performing well, even though it's older. I have a D-Link DGL 4300 router behind that, which supplies the house network (desktop, Tivo and drops for laptop setup throughout the house). The router is probably 7-8 years old. [more inside]
posted by Pantengliopoli at 4:29 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Pantengliopoli at 4:29 PM PST - 10 comments
Shocking films!
I'm looking for scenes in movies that feature electricity. [more inside]
I spilled teak oil and made a mess! How do I clean it up?
So when I was teak oiling my table I stupidly put the can of teak oil down in my stainless steel sink. Now I have a teak-oil-can-shaped ring of dried teak oil in my sink. And also some on my granite countertop. [more inside]
Funny ha-ha? Or funny peculiar?
Can someone explain this joke in the NYT Book Review? [more inside]
posted by LonnieK at 3:10 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by LonnieK at 3:10 PM PST - 7 comments
Real-time plumbing question
There is a handyman in my home right now who is in his 3rd hour of installing a new kitchen sink and faucet. Part of that time was devoted to running out to the hardware store to get the right parts to replace the water shut off valve, which apparently was stripped. That took about a half hour (which was reasonable given the distance). He told me originally that he thought the sink replacement would take about an hour, so minus the hardware store run, it's taken 2 and a half times longer than he estimated. Is the amount of time he's spent so far excessive? [more inside]
posted by Wordwoman at 2:18 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Wordwoman at 2:18 PM PST - 14 comments
What are some new technological advances on the horizon?
I recently heard about Jack Andraka and his project involving carbon nanotubes and how it's so seemingly simple but also so revolutionary and something that older and wiser scientists weren't able to figure out. I also saw this high school student on Conan who had come up with a way to greatly prolong battery life in cell phones. So, along those lines, where could I learn more about these kinds of innovations (besides talk shows...)? I'm not too plugged into the science/tech world, and I'm more interested in tech. If there are any particularly exciting topics, please feel free to share, as well. Thanks!
fwb not beneficial
FWB turned into dating but now I want even more! [more inside]
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 12:03 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 12:03 PM PST - 26 comments
Why are HD broadcasts at 720
(I could have some misconceptions regarding my question, so if so help me clear up my initial incorrect assertions.) It seems if most, if not all HD network broadcasts are 720p rather than the higher resolution 1080p. Why? Networks won't upgrade their cameras/transmission facilities? I spoke to my cable provider (Telus) and they assured me they could transmit higher resolution signals but the networks only provide them degraded quality feeds. Are there any networks that broadcast the higher quality signal?
I'm puzzled. Help puzzle me more!
I'm looking for some good puzzle games, preferably for iOS and based on words rather than numbers or physical pieces. [more inside]
I don´t always shoot digital, but when I do...
In my personal view of photography and life in general, the "convenience" that, for me, is the only advantage that digital cameras have over film (specially if we talk about medium format film), was never something I cared about. However I may have to start caring about it, at least part of the time.
The thing is, I have no idea of what camera to get, so I would like some advice. [more inside]
Where to look for an economist who might want to help write a book?
I'm writing an update of a very old and very funny short book. In the original, the author rails against God; in my modernisation it will rail against the free market — replacing one invisible hand with another. I need someone who is very well-versed with economic theory, who still has their finger on the pulse, who has a sense of humour, and who is willing to brainstorm with me for an hour or two a week. More info inside. [more inside]
posted by omnigut at 9:58 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by omnigut at 9:58 AM PST - 19 comments
What is the best recipe for pecan pie without corn syrup?
What is the best recipe for pecan pie without corn syrup? [more inside]
posted by vincele at 9:53 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by vincele at 9:53 AM PST - 29 comments
Changing the state setting in Google Scholar
I use Google Scholar to look for court cases. For some reason, for the last few months the options at the bottom of the search box have been as shown in the extended area. It used to be that the last entry would be "Michigan courts," as that is where I live. But the choice now is always "California courts." Even if I take the several (annoying) steps needed to select Michigan courts, it defaults back to California courts the next time.
Does anyone know how this behavior can be changed? [more inside]
Anything worth stopping for on a drive from Brooklyn to Emerald Isle?
Driving from Brooklyn, NY to Emerald Isle, NC — via the NJ Turnpike, Delaware 1 and US-13, and Route 17 past Norfolk VA into NC. Anything truly worth checking out along the way, or taking a reasonable detour for? [more inside]
posted by D.Billy at 7:38 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by D.Billy at 7:38 AM PST - 12 comments
Where Can My Wife Bargain Hunt For Used Clothes Online, Other Than Ebay?
My wife's favorite hobby for after work is to go onto Ebay and bargain hunt for clothes. She has been doing this for years. She doesn't buy that much, she just enjoys searching.
Last week, out of the blue she got an email from Ebay that her 12 year old account was being closed and there was nothing she can do. The reasoning was odd (something about a similar account blah blah) but that is besides the point.
Anyway, I am looking alternatives websites she can go to and bargain hunt for clothes online. Etsy.com is the only similar thing I can think about.
What, if any, is the in-group term for "SJW"?
Is there an in-group term for "Social Justice Warrior (SJW)"? That is, I definitely think there is a signified there, the strain of progressives focused on privilege, intersectionality, and oppressor/oppressed group identities, so I think it's a term with useful meaning, but it is also an out-group term with mildly negative/mocking connotation so not the best for writing seriously. Plenty SJWs here, what do you call yourselves? The closest I've heard is "intersectional feminist" which I don't even see all that often & also many SJWs are more focused on another area like race. [more inside]
posted by save alive nothing that breatheth at 7:26 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by save alive nothing that breatheth at 7:26 AM PST - 17 comments
What was that enchanting smell? (not bufala)
Spent a little less than a week in Paestum, Salerno in late September/early October this year. I remember smelling something beautiful and herb-like, particularly in/around the forum area. I'd like to know what it was that I was smelling! [more inside]
posted by onehundredand80 at 7:13 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by onehundredand80 at 7:13 AM PST - 3 comments
What's my next step in dealing with depression?
I have rapid and extreme mood swings and am generally empty and anxious. I've got all the time in the world. What should I try, medication, self-help or therapy wise to get better and find happiness? [more inside]
Plant ID - Like Plantago but Is it?
What is this plant - can some one tell me? Tiny burrs like those of cleavers - little yellow flowers. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 6:38 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by watercarrier at 6:38 AM PST - 7 comments
Phaedrus, Isn't That a Kind of Car?
Novel Plot Filter: If you went to high school in the 80's or 90's, were you required to read Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance? If you read it, did you understand it, and did you retain it at all? What was your high school understanding of the book? [more inside]
posted by Xurando at 6:33 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by Xurando at 6:33 AM PST - 36 comments
Recommendations for shoulder surgeon in NYC?
My son dislocated his shoulder and may require surgery. I am looking for an excellent surgeon in Manhattan. [more inside]
First-time trying fwb, failing badly
Please help me see my fwb situation with clear eyes. I am starting to fall for him (see a plausible future with him) and feel as if I should end it, but he doesn't want to let me go just yet. [more inside]
posted by Sa Dec at 5:46 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by Sa Dec at 5:46 AM PST - 41 comments
What kind of divorce support is available in Massachusetts
Asking for a friend. She has decided to divorce her husband after 21 years of marriage. Her lawyer has said that, although he makes six figures annually, because he is retirement age and has many debts, she is not entitled to very much. Apparently she can't get any alimony nor money from the retirement account, and she doesn't have rights to the house. They are in Massachusetts. [more inside]
November 9
Are the ear drops causing Tinnitus or the ear infection itself
Went to the Dr Thursday as ear felt blocked and was a bit sore after a week long cold. Diagnosed with an ear infection and prescribed Cortisporin Otic Solution (neomycin and polymyxin B sulfates and hydrocortisone otic solution) since then ear doesn't sound any clearer, although it isn't painful at all now but I've also developed tinnitus. Which is more likely this being due to the drops, or the infection? [more inside]
posted by zeoslap at 9:45 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by zeoslap at 9:45 PM PST - 6 comments
Yes, they both need lawyers, but
This is for a friend: Bankruptcy first or Divorce first? [more inside]
posted by ctmf at 9:01 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by ctmf at 9:01 PM PST - 13 comments
Convention Swag for Beginners
I need to start thinking about ordering convention swag and I don't know where to start. I'm promoting myself as a copy editor, and my clients are writers. [more inside]
posted by BlahLaLa at 8:47 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by BlahLaLa at 8:47 PM PST - 25 comments
Got that sinking feeling
Our underhung kitchen sink detached itself from the countertop this afternoon - can I repair this myself? How? [more inside]
posted by backseatpilot at 8:22 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by backseatpilot at 8:22 PM PST - 9 comments
Courtly behaviour
I have just finished Atoinia Fraser s biography on Marie Antoinette, and she talks in the beginning about the inter-relation of the French court with other European courts, esp. Holland and Austria, but also to a lesser extent England. She then talks about when Louis and Marie fled, they didn't seek aid in those courts, and none of those courts intervened explicitly or implicitly in rescuing the queen or her children. What's up with that?
posted by PinkMoose at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by PinkMoose at 7:20 PM PST - 6 comments
TV exposure in under twos
So I just read that the American Academy of Pediatricians recommends zero TV exposure for kids under two. I read that after we had worked our way through Ripper Street and Sons of Anarchy with 2 month old baby Merocet feeding and occasionally watching the screen. I have also let her see a couple of episodes of Waybuloo. I am scum. [more inside]
Is you is or is you ain't a possiblity?
Having read a lot of relationship/dating AskMes, I've decided rather than wait for a relationship to fall into my lap, I should try the whole online dating thing. I am finding it rather frustrating and confusing, and hope the hive mind can help me understand it a bit better. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by Athanassiel at 6:47 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Athanassiel at 6:47 PM PST - 19 comments
Cursive is weird.
Why doesn't a cursive capital G look like "G" or "g"?
posted by DoctorFedora at 6:33 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by DoctorFedora at 6:33 PM PST - 8 comments
My aunt has a mystery ailment. YANHD, but the hive mind is often wise.
I've posted here several times in the past regarding my own mysterious health woe, and got some good suggestions, so I figured I'd ask again. : ) My family is well aware how many medical professionals I've seen in the last 10 years, so telling me their own tales is not all that weird. In this case, we're talking strange bladder pressure that seems to cause pain. More [somewhat TMI] inside... [more inside]
Toddler holiday gift that can be used up
My nephew is one and a half years old. (He's a real toddler, not a baby anymore--runs around all over the place.) His grandparents (and other gift givers) inundate him with toys, and his parents are starting to feel beleaguered by the well-meaning deluge. Since he's not quite old enough to be put out if I give him something purely utilitarian, my primary gift this year is clothes. However, I'd like to give him one gift that is purely for his enjoyment, and which can be used up (but isn't food), so it's not just another thing that sits on the (increasingly crowded) toyshelf after the holidays are over. Do such things exist? Can you think of suitable gifts that fit those criteria? A couple more thoughts inside. [more inside]
posted by Ash3000 at 5:44 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Ash3000 at 5:44 PM PST - 28 comments
What good alternatives exist for WordPress for the semi-skilled?
After the probably eighth hacking attack (and success) on my site in less than a year, I'm sick to death of using a platform that has to be updated on an hourly basis or get totally nuked by Moldavians. What platforms are relatively user-friendly for people who want to blog? [more inside]
What breed of dog is this?
We adopted a three-year-old special-needs pooch from the pound. We thought he was a rottweiler at the time, but now we don't know. We love him and want to know more about his provenance so we can train him better. (pics provided) [more inside]
Christmas mother-daughter road trip in America
My mom and I are hoping to get away over Christmas and explore the States a little bit. GIve us good ideas for where to go and what to do? [more inside]
Gift and/or ideas for girlfriend running PHL marathon
My GF is running her first-ever marathon next weekend in Philadelphia. I'm looking for creative or interesting suggestions for either a gift or something I can do that she might like (beyond flowers at the finish and a massage, both of which are a done deal).
Any runners out there have a specific suggestion--maybe something sweet or thoughtful that was done for you after you finished?
Thanks!
posted by eggman at 4:36 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by eggman at 4:36 PM PST - 12 comments
Would this be tacky?
I'm trying to gather job references, and so far I have 2. I have another potential reference in mind, but I'm not sure if I should ask him. We currently work at the same company, though he works in another department. However, we're currently working on a project together and have worked on projects together in the past. I'd feel weird sending him an email at work asking him if I could use him as a reference. Would sending him a message on Facebook be in bad form or awkward?
Where to study in brooklyn, NY
Looking for somewhere quiet and convenient in the prospect heights area to get some schoolwork done on a regular basis. Willing to travel about 20 minutes, so suggestions for places in surrounding neighborhoods are also welcome. [more inside]
Help me shake it.
Is there a non-cheesy DVD that will teach me to dance? [more inside]
posted by annabellee at 3:49 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by annabellee at 3:49 PM PST - 5 comments
Motherboard Voltage Regulation
Explain motherboard voltage regulation to me like I'm very interested but not very smart, and have little or no understanding of electronics. [more inside]
Opium-Related Drawing
Do you happen to know of this drawing? [more inside]
Pre-Shrink My Bi-Polar
What should I do to prepare for my first visit with a Psychiatrist? [more inside]
Yet another cat naming question...
My roommate and I have just adopted this cat, an 8 year old male, and are hoping to get ideas on what to rename him. He's currently known as Fantik (apparently this means candy wrapper in Russian), and comes from a previous household where they couldn't keep him because of allergies. [more inside]
posted by MelanieL at 3:22 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by MelanieL at 3:22 PM PST - 43 comments
Pennies from heaven? No, coins from Canada
I am in Portland, OR. I have >$50 face value of Canadian coins. I need to get rid of them fast. (Obtained legally!) Hope me? Details after the cut. [more inside]
Identify these grown(?) hollow "stones" I bought in China?
Bought these cream & brown hollow "pebbles" at a Beijing market a few years ago. I think they are grown, because each has a hole, like it was picked from a tree maybe. They are extremely lightweight but have a hard exterior. The lady who sold them to me cautioned they would break if dropped. I'm going back to China soon and would like to buy more, if I know what to ask for. [more inside]
posted by MuckWeh at 2:48 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by MuckWeh at 2:48 PM PST - 4 comments
With every good wish, cordially.
In 1993 I bought a box of unlabeled Sony dictation machine tapes from a Volunteers of America thrift store in Binghamton, NY. They contain what is surely Carl Sagan's voice dictating his personal notes, correspondence and business instructions, from around 1984. They are pretty compelling. What should I do with them? [more inside]
posted by dirtdirt at 2:23 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by dirtdirt at 2:23 PM PST - 25 comments
Understanding space heaters?
We have a large (~500 sq ft) family room which is not connected to our central heat. We'd like to use a space heater (maybe 2 *) to heat it in the winter. What's the difference between the cheap little ones and the more expensive ones? [more inside]
How to delete only one site from Chrome history
So my problem is that I sometimes stalk people on facebook - come on, I'm not the only one -.- - but don't want some people/things I checked on facebook to appear in my omnisearch bar in Chrome. So I tried to go to history to delete/clear only facebook data but apparently you can't select all facebook history at once and delete it. It might take a long time if I were to select each individual item to delete.
Is there a simple way to do this?
posted by iliketothinknu at 1:57 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by iliketothinknu at 1:57 PM PST - 11 comments
A very Canadian question.
Our mobile phone contract is up with Bell and we'd like to not renew with them again. Admittedly Canadians get the short end of the stick no matter what mobile provider there is, but is there at least a more decent end of the stick? [more inside]
posted by Kitteh at 1:27 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Kitteh at 1:27 PM PST - 16 comments
Women's fashions
As a working woman where do you shop for your clothes? [more inside]
Give me your best tips for big family Thanksgiving meals.
I usually host Thanksgiving for our family, and I do a fairly good job. People have fun and the food's ok. I'm usually not too rushed at the last minute. I know it could be better, though. So here's my question: what special thing do you make or do that makes your Thanksgiving particularly efficient, or fun, or tasty, or awesome looking, or easy to clean up, or otherwise excellent? I'm especially interested in buffet serving ideas and what you use to make those look great or taste great (and should I buy one of those three-crock-pot serving thingies? I feel like my food gets cold really fast.) I want to hear everything from what you make in advance and how you reheat it, to how you deal with cleaning up all those big dishes afterwards. What about music? What about table decor? Tell me everything. [more inside]
posted by fingersandtoes at 12:51 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by fingersandtoes at 12:51 PM PST - 24 comments
Make Me Fancy.
For a bunch of reasons (some good, some bad) I have the next two and half months totally free. I don't have to do a thing, I have no reason to make any more money and I've got oceans of time, a nest egg of savings, and a gym membership. Previous times like this I've focused on making my skill-set or apartment better/fancier, but now I want to focus on myself. No creative projects, no learning and growing, just pure, unabashed vanity. What can I do in two and half months to get all kinds of pretty? Ideally during the day. [more inside]
Questions about the 1970s phase of the Vietnam War
My knowledge of the Vietnam War is not as complete as I would like it to be. My own internal representation of its 1960s period is fairly strong but it fades a little at the 1970s/Vietnamization phase of the war. So I'm posing the following questions: [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 12:40 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 12:40 PM PST - 5 comments
Help me identify an end-of-level jingle from an unknown Gameboy-era game
I've had a sound effect from a video game stuck in my head for the past few years, and I'd like to figure out where it came from. I'm almost certain it's a jingle that plays right before an end-of-level gate opens in a 2D game, possibly on the Gameboy. Here's a transcription of the melody. Any ideas?
posted by archagon at 12:36 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by archagon at 12:36 PM PST - 4 comments
Refrigeration condenser selection help
Hi,
I'm a college mech eng student and my group has been tasked with designing a small refrigeration/heat recovery system from scratch. We've selected the compressor based on the cooling load and the evap and condensing temps that the professor assigned. Now we're trying to find an off-the-shelf condenser but we're stuck on how to evaluate the ones available to know how well they fit our needs. (details inside) [more inside]
posted by atm at 12:23 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by atm at 12:23 PM PST - 4 comments
New apartment: must-haves for day 1 and week 1
I'm planning a move from a shared apartment to my own space. In many ways I'll be starting fresh - I'll have to buy a new iron, shower curtain, etc.
I'm trying to come up with a list of must-haves for day 1 and week 1- things that should be packed so that they are easily accessible, or should go on a list to be purchased the day of the move. Like toilet paper. By the time you realize you don't have it, it's too late.
So far I have: toilet paper, hand soap, corkscrew, can opener, shower curtain. What else should be on this list?
posted by bunderful at 11:34 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by bunderful at 11:34 AM PST - 40 comments
help me solve my problems
I plan to make this a three-part series over three weeks, where I ask you to help me solve the three problems that keep percolating in my head. This week: my career [more inside]
posted by cacao at 11:24 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by cacao at 11:24 AM PST - 2 comments
PC racing game with beautiful Japanese island landscape
I remember a PC racing game with winding up and down road, with a Japanese island landscape (amongst other themes). You would be racing with a car or some flying thing,
racing against computer players, maybe with some simple weapons to eradicate opponents. Roads would surprisingly split up and you would need to decide which alternative to follow.
Era is probably DOS, 256 or 16M colors. Good music included (which is what gave me the flashback).
Thanks heaps.
Why is my Dell studpio XPS 1645 overheating and shutting down?
Please help me figure out why my Laptop is overheating (I have already cleaned out dust, and re-installed windows..and overheating seems to be a common problem on these XPS 1645 [more inside]
Who should say thank you?
At checkout, the cashier hands you a coffee, you hand them money, they hand you change, then somebody says thank you and somebody says you're welcome. I'd like to know who you think should be the person to say thank you. [more inside]
posted by smirkyfodder at 9:09 AM PST - 58 comments
posted by smirkyfodder at 9:09 AM PST - 58 comments
Lady sewers! Wife wants a desk sewing lamp. Recommendations please
My babe of a wife is hoping Santa brings her a desk sewing lamp with "natural light" or full spectrum lighting. Not a floor lamp and not something that clamps onto the table--but a lamp that sits on a table. Maybe something with a gooseneck or at least adjustable. She does a lot of machine sewing (especially on quilts). She has nothing in mind and asked me to do the research and find something. Santa is willing to spend maybe $50- $60 tops. Less expensive is good too. Any recommendations would be appreciated.
(P.S. I bet you read the title as "Lady sewers" as in toilets. Sorry. English is a weird language)
Mini movie
My sister's birthday is coming up and I want to ask her friends and other family to send me short videos of them saying happy birthday or whatever for me to compile into one full video to present to her on her birthday. What is the EASIEST way to go about this that a techophobe can handle? [more inside]
Great Holiday Gifts for a 4 and 2-year-old?
Great, possibly homemade Hanukkah/Christmas gifts for a 4-year-old girl and 2-year-old boy? Homemade/crafty suggestions very welcome. [more inside]
Can you identify this artist?
I just bought this nice painting and would like to know who painted it. Here's a close-up. [more inside]
Trusting after past abuse
I'm already in therapy. What can I do on my own, when I interact with others, so I won't feel so guarded? I'm noticing that despite a lot of healing from my past relationship, including EMDR, I continue to be very cautious and awkward with people. I feel vulnerable and expect to be criticized and rejected. The walls I'm putting up are leading me to a feeling of loneliness. How can I go back to being my authentic, warm, openhearted self? [more inside]
posted by Rainflower at 5:42 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Rainflower at 5:42 AM PST - 6 comments
Where to live in Boston?
I'm looking for advice on where we should be looking at potential places to live in Boston. Small young family with dog, looking to buy rather than rent. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
How long does a permanent makeup tattoo last?
I got a permanent makeup tattoo not as makeup, but as a tattoo. I was told it would last 3-5 years, but eight years later, it's still there... [more inside]
How do I learn to be less squeamish about meat?
I love meat, but I hate its squishy, rubbery, gummy bits. [more inside]
posted by lollymccatburglar at 1:18 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by lollymccatburglar at 1:18 AM PST - 21 comments
Age 25. Huge college debt. Can't land a better job. What should I do?
I have $40,000+ in debt, a bachelors degree in criminal justice, an EMT-B license, a basic computer tech certificate, 4 years of customer service experience as a banquet server, a bad driving history, and one misdemeanor - how can I find a better job than being a banquet server? What can I do to be competitive? Should I attend police academy or not? What are my options - what can I do to improve my life? [more inside]
November 8
Where do ships get medicine for ships medicine chest?
I plan to sail around the world with several people and regulations state that I have to have a stocked medicine chest on the boat. I have a book by the world health organization called "International medical guide for ships" that has a list off the different medications I need to have and when to use them and the dose ect. but it does not say where to get these medications, many of which are normally prescription in the US. What do most small ships do?
YANML but... help?
I need to cite this, 20 USC § 2891, but it was omitted from USC. How do I denote that? [more inside]
help me reverse my cravings for distracting information
Over the past year, I noticed some pretty frustrating behavior in myself (it wasn't always like this). It seems like I'm always craving a distraction and so these distractions have become highly interspersed with my work -- a huge time sucker. [more inside]
Allergen immunotherapy for dogs: is it worth trying?
My dog is allergic to a lot of things (39 out of 54 in her allergy test), some of her worst reactions were to several types of very common grasses and her own yeast. The doctor recommends allergen immunotherapy -- exposing her to low levels of the allergens to increase her tolerance to them over time. It is expensive and it takes a while -- about $1,200 over about 1 year. I would love to hear about people's (and their dogs') experiences about this therapy to get a better sense of its efficacy and safety. How well did it work? Were there any side effects? [more inside]
posted by ethand at 8:28 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ethand at 8:28 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me hone my new york apartment hunting skills
I'm looking to rent a room in Brooklyn/Queens ASAP but I know very little about the city. I have a place to stay for a few weeks when I move down there on the 17th of this month but after that I'm pretty much on my own. How can I educate myself in the meantime so I know what to look for when I'm reading craisglist ads? Also, suggestions for good apartments based on what I'm looking for? [more inside]
When can a puppies be allowed free reign of the house?
My partner and I are getting a puppy mid January. Questions about house breaking and crate training. [more inside]
How worried should I be that my system has been compromised?
A couple of days ago I clicked a legit-looking result from a Google search and got to a page of hackery-looking type saying that my system now belonged to somebody else. I backed away fast, but tried it again out of curiosity and the same thing happened.
I didn't cap the screen and now I can't find the page, but can somebody hijack my computer (Mac running Safari this week for some reason) just because I clicked a link? This might be a laughable question, but since this has never happened to me before I don't know how seriously to take it!
How does a non-commercial Creative Commons license work?
If a work (say, a book) is licensed as a non-commercial CC, does that mean that anyone is free to make digital copies, photocopies, hardcopies, etc and redistribute it as long as they don't sell it? What about the author? Are they able to sell it for profit, after that? Can they publish it through a third party, (e.g. Harper Collins) and how does the third party get around the prohibition on commercial distribution? Maybe I'm understanding this all wrong. I'm trying to figure out if there is a license that would allow the author (and the publishers he selects) to profit from a work, but also gives people the right to copy and redistribute the work for free. If it exists, is it practical? Are there examples of publishers being willing to do this? Or does that model prevent them from making a profit by printing?
Science + law = profit?
Scientist interested in transitioning from the lab into a legal advisory position. Advice? Cautionary tales? [more inside]
What are nutritionists *supposed* to do? Also, paging Dr. House...
I have had a laundry list of unusual symptoms that, taken separately, are annoying, but put all together are SUPER-ANNOYING. Next step, nutritionist... but what are they able to do / not able to do for you? Dr. House Medical Mystery inside... [more inside]
Creative MeFites! How about some help?
What are some creative things I could make using a list of memories? [more inside]
CBT or RET/REBT Worksheets or Own Methods that Work for You
I have struggled with intense anxiety and depression for many years. My counselor who still uses RET (REBT) is helpful. I have read Feeling Good (CBT) along with other books of RET author Albert Ellis...but I have difficulty finding a way that makes sense in disputing my thoughts that I stick with. I am willing to put the time in but I am curious is anyone here is willing to share their own style of doing CBT or RET homework that works for them. I'm not asking for shortcuts but unique ways you may have tweaked either layout or jotting down things. I am open to whatever you might suggest. (For what it is worth, I find Albert Ellis' writing rather strange but understand the philosophy of REBT and CBT.)
posted by snap_dragon at 5:59 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by snap_dragon at 5:59 PM PST - 12 comments
DNS Services the 2013 edition
I've had some odd slowdowns in internet surfing over the past month or so (now resolved), and in trying to diagnose why, I started thinking about DNS services. Currently I'm running through my ISP (TimeWarner), but wondering whether there's any advantage to switching to Google Public DNS or OpenDNS, and what are the possible disadvantages, and if it is worth it, which one would be better? [more inside]
classic gangster movies with stool pigeons/informants?
I'm looking for any old gangster movie - not a particular one, just any gangster movie older than about 1960 - where a villain caught by the police is offered some kind of break for ratting out his/her associates. Bonus points if the cops, once they have the information, punish the guy anyway.
What to do with teens on one-day visit to Manhattan?
I think I'll take my kids (18 yr. old daughter & her boyfriend; 16 yr. old son) down to NYC for just the day this Sunday. Kids have spent almost no time in NYC and not since they were little, so it's pretty much brand new to them. I only get to go about once every 5 years, so I'm not very familiar.
Son is video game enthusiast, Minecraft, EDM, young for his age, geeky kid. Daughter likes everything and will be gung-ho no matter what we do. Neither of them is particularly into museums. I myself just like walking along the streets, taking in the sights, people-watching, window shopping.
I'm thinking walking around in Central Park, maybe the zoo. Or maybe checking out the highline. But what else should we do with about 5 or 6 hours?
Also, we're driving down, using a rental car. What's the best part of town to park in, and what kind of parking situation would be best?
Help me fight this parking ticket!
At what time of the day are the parking meters no longer in effect on 17th St NW in Washington, DC? [more inside]
posted by Venadium at 4:41 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Venadium at 4:41 PM PST - 3 comments
RSS Feeds greenhorn
So, I love checking news and at last I have an RSS feed in my browser. What RSS news feeds do you recommend?
Hack my cholesterol
A recent blood test found my bad cholesterol is low (or at least in the desirable range), but my good cholesterol is also low and should be higher. What's the most effective way for me to change that? [more inside]
What am I on the hook for if I break my lease early?
YANML. I am in Vermont. I need to end my apartment lease early (ends 09/2014) because I cannot afford rent. Is this a reasonable request, and how do I go about asking my landlord? [more inside]
K.I.S.S.: Laptop Edition
What's the best reasonably priced laptop (under $700) for someone who only needs it for basic personal entertainment use (e.g. storing/listening to music, Flash games on the internet, and movie-watching)? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 3:27 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by lovableiago at 3:27 PM PST - 9 comments
Recommendation wanted: simple photo retouching service
Could you recommend an online service for clipping paths/simple image retouching? It's pretty basic stuff for pictures in an online shop. Thanks a lot!
posted by mathiu at 3:18 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by mathiu at 3:18 PM PST - 4 comments
How does the statute of limitations work?
What if the date a crime was committed is unknown? [more inside]
Baby Shower Baking! Complication: Gestational Diabetes!
I'm providing the cake (??????) for a good friend's baby shower on Sunday, which I'm very happy to do. The complication is that I just found out that the mother-to-be was recently diagnosed with gestational diabetes. I don't know anything about how to bake for people diabetes in general or gestational diabetes specifically, and I don't have time to do a ton of research before I have to start baking whatever it is I'm baking. Panicking a little! HELP! [more inside]
posted by Narrative Priorities at 1:58 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Narrative Priorities at 1:58 PM PST - 16 comments
Need help finding animation tutorials/classes for this style?
Hi Everyone!
All of my clients are asking for this style of animation/screen casting (SFW):
http://youtu.be/RYZ7IkboW7M
It's the manic screen twisting animation with text and simple images displayed over basic color backgrounds.
I am moderately skilled in After Effects (and own the suite) so I'd love to accommodate them, but I am more accustomed to creating explosions, light sabers and monsters than this kind of stuff. I would like to know if anyone knows of specific online classes or easy to follow tutorials for this specific style/type of animation? I've found many After Effects tutorials, but I'm looking for something specifically geared to creating a video similar to the one posted above.
I am happily prepared to pay for these as I really need to be somewhat proficient in this by early 2014.
Thanks a million!
posted by MeetCleaverTheatre at 1:06 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by MeetCleaverTheatre at 1:06 PM PST - 7 comments
Tiny differences cause enormous conflict
What is the name of the concept that describes how, as parties become more and more similar, smaller and smaller differences cause conflict? [more inside]
posted by looli at 1:05 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by looli at 1:05 PM PST - 14 comments
Buzz off - or not?
I am a first time city apartment dweller, and don't have a clue on how/when to use my door buzzer. What is okay, what isn't, and yes, I am over thinking this, but it is bugging the hell out of me because I am already overstressed. [more inside]
posted by batikrose at 12:27 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by batikrose at 12:27 PM PST - 35 comments
Costco insurance--Auto and renter's policies
A few weeks ago, I asked whether I should join Costco, and on your recommendation, I did (and am quite happy). Several people mentioned the Costco-branded insurance (underwritten by Ameriprise). There are both auto and renter's lines of insurance available, and my existing policies with another carrier are coming up for renewal. How is the insurance coverage and customer service on the Costco policies (or with Ameriprise in general)? Did you actually save the money you were expecting? Are there other carriers we should consider? [more inside]
I like advice columns. Please advise.
Nothing helps me fall asleep at night like a well-written advice column. My current favorites are Dear Prudence, She Said, She Said, and The Gentleman Scholar. Who else might I like? [more inside]
Recommendations for easy-to-learn video games that run on Windows 7
I'd like some recommendations for easy-to-play PC-based video games that an uncoordinated person could enjoy. [more inside]
Early bird gets the PhD?
Searching for a graduate school advisor in undergraduate studies - does cold calling really work? What can I ask my current undergraduate advisor to do to assist me? How can I make best use of the advantages that I currently hold? [more inside]
Thinking of becoming a physician starting at age 39?
I am currently 39 and will need to finish my BA first. What are the chances that I will be accepted into medical school, internships, residencies, and hired at this age? [more inside]
posted by derward at 11:29 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by derward at 11:29 AM PST - 40 comments
Looking for good Christian folk music...
So I'm looking for some good Christian folk, bluesy, or bluegrass music and have a few specific styles in mind... [more inside]
Why didn't my limoncello turn cloudy?
I watched a video where a guy mixes his simple syrup with the month-old alcohol/lemon peel infusion, and the mixture became cloudy.
I let my lemon alcohol get filtered, then sit for way longer than a month before adding the syrup.
Was this a mistake? Now I add the syrup and it's just clear yellow liquid.
posted by film at 11:01 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by film at 11:01 AM PST - 12 comments
Not smoking anymore and more colds than usual?
I smoked for most of my adult life. I managed to quit once before (for about 18 months) and now am on my fourth month of quitting again -- so far, so good except I seem to be getting more colds and sinus issues. I don't recall this happening last time I quit. [more inside]
posted by Lescha at 11:00 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Lescha at 11:00 AM PST - 14 comments
Need comfy shoes for around the house
This seems like such a stupid question, but that's because I'm stupid about shoes and clothing.
Our new house has laminate flooring, and it's killing my feet. I guess I'm used to the cushion that carpeting provides. I need some shoes I can wear around the house that have enough cushion that they'll prevent some of the foot pain I'm having.
Difficulty: I hate wearing shoes in the house -- not for cleanliness reasons, but because I'd prefer to walk around in socks. Some kind of sandal would therefore be best, because it would be the least constricting. Also, I get really hot feet, so I need cool shoes.
So, please, name that shoe, and tell me where to find it.
Dear Google, taking hostages counts as evil.
I have two Google accounts, so I already have Google Plus on one and it's fine, not that I use social networking much. But the other one was the one I used to sign up with Feedly. Which is now insisting that I create a second Google Plus profile in order to sign back in to view my feeds, with no warning. Is there any way out of this aside from creating a brand new feeds account using the email address that already has a profile? [more inside]
posted by Sequence at 10:37 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Sequence at 10:37 AM PST - 4 comments
I'm underweight. How do I stimulate my appetite?
I'm depressed and anxious and dropping weight like crazy (my highest weight ever is 108, I'm probably 90-95 now). How can I eat more when I don't feel like eating? [more inside]
Palaces, barricades, threats, meet promises
I'll be in Seattle for a conference in late February. Seeking the hivemind's tips on climate, entertainment and dining. [more inside]
How do I deal now?
After getting severely depressed in Japan, I quit my fabulous grad school and left my friends and boyfriend behind to go back to Germany last month. I am getting treatment, but what can I do to make sure I won't get worse again? [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 9:45 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 9:45 AM PST - 8 comments
Help Desk Lead: Soft Skills questions, please
I am involved in hiring for a help desk lead position. What are are good interview questions to tease out a technical person's "soft" skills? Beyond "Describe a situation where things didn't go right", or "Tell us how you deal with disagreements".
Hey, Soul Sister, is that Mr. Mister?
You guys have been awesome answering my slightly weird music questions, so, I turn to you again for help with another playlist. I'm looking for songs that reference other artists. [more inside]
Looking for BBC2 Arena documentary episodes
Is the BBC2 series Arena available for purchase or online viewing in the US? I would like to see Anthony Wall's documentary Slim Gaillard's Civilisation. [more inside]
posted by zepheria at 9:00 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by zepheria at 9:00 AM PST - 1 comment
Convince me that kale can actually be tasty
We get a lot of kale from our CSA, and we pretty much know it's headed for the compost. Have tried many recipes that turn out nasty -- kale chips that won't dry, sauteed kale that's too bitter to choke down, etc. -- and have yet to find anything that gets us excited to use this vegetable, no matter how healthy. (Yes, I do make some green shakes, but one bunch in the freezer can fuel me for a year on that front! We have 3-4 bunches in the fridge right now.)
I should say that the one exception was a recipe called "Carolina kale," which involves some stewed tomatoes and cumin, but our experience after making it a few times is that we love it on day 1 but then never want to touch the leftovers, so then that feels like a waste too.
So, metafites, convince me that kale is fit for human consumption! wow me with your best, genuinely delicious, kale recipes, before it's compost time again!
posted by acm at 8:50 AM PST - 81 comments
posted by acm at 8:50 AM PST - 81 comments
Boyfriend takes pictures of neighbor
I feel kink of embarassed but last day, I used my bf's camera to take pictures and when viewing the pictures I took, I saw that my boyfriend took pictures of our hot-looking neighbor when she was in her room changing, brushing her hair, etc. It was at night, the curtain in her room were not closed. He also took pictures of her underwears (bra and panties) hanging outside... [more inside]
posted by daile at 8:44 AM PST - 197 comments
posted by daile at 8:44 AM PST - 197 comments
Help I'm Lost
My peers all have careers, spouses, houses, families ... while I'm single and thinking of moving to Germany as that's the only way I'll be able to afford a second Bachelors. (I want to study something STEM related to break out of this job rut I'm in).
I can't help but think of it as an incredibly lonely endeavour - to study a new language and then attempt to go to Uni all over again with people more than a decade younger than I, in a country where I know no one at all ... and to top it off, I was never very good at making friends and I am not close to my family members at all.
Are my misgivings valid or should I grit my teeth and just go ahead? I feel stuck, I can't move forwards but I can't stay where I am either. I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Hypnotherapy filter: If Erickson didn't do this, who did?
Decades ago I read a description of Milton Erickson's most interesting/spectacular cases--how he used hypnotic suggestion to help people overcome their obsessions and other life problems. The one that has stayed with me was a description of dealing with a man who had been given to an orphanage at birth and had spent his childhood and adolescence growing up in a variety of institutions. His life as an adult was one of petty crime, unemployment, no relationships of any kind. The hypnotherapist spent many many hours over the course of months with this man giving him a new set of memories--here you are with your loving family on your fifth birthday,here you are with your friends in eighth grade, etc--just built up a whole life of new memories for him. This enabled the man to make a better life for himself.
I have checked out "An Uncommon Casebook: Complete Clinical Work of Milton H. Erickson, M.D." and although I saw many case histories I remembered reading, I didn't see anything like this.
Am I looking in the wrong book? Am I looking up the wrong hypnotherapist? Any help or direction would be much appreciated.
Back to school with Fs in sex and social life.
I just started an intense school program and I have very little sex drive or social drive. This is frustrating for my boyfriend. [more inside]
New icon added to work computer task bar called pncmonv3.exe.
Hi, can someone computer savvy in the hive mind please tell me what pncmonv3.exe does? I have googled it and it doesn't come up with anything. I'm wondering what it can monitor/what it is doing. Thank you.
What's the best way to experience the Mama Negra festival?
Have you been to the Mama Negra festival in Latacunga, Ecuador, or do you know someone who has gone? If so, can you give me some practical festival advice or real life anecdotes about what to expect and how to plan? [more inside]
Alternate day fasting vs. caloric restriction?
Does anyone have information about the pros and cons (in terms of fat loss, metabolic effects, and anything else) of alternate-day or intermittent fasting vs. alternate-day or intermittent caloric restriction (e.g. in diets like the 5:2 diet or the UpDayDown diet where on your "fast" days you take in 20% of your normal calories)?
iTunes is pissing me off.
iTunes now streams podcasts from the cloud, and as far as I can tell no longer provides the capacity to download the mp3 podcast files onto my iMac. [more inside]
posted by elf27 at 7:52 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by elf27 at 7:52 AM PST - 8 comments
How to support a spouse through weight-watchers?
My spouse has made a conscious decision to try weight watchers. She is terrified of failure. How can I help? What are some goals that I can set? [more inside]
How to disengage
I am a student working on a term project with a group that has pretty much gone off the rails. We're probably not going to fail, but we will definitely be submitting a solidly (sub-)mediocre finished product, when I know that we could have done much better. As someone with somewhat perfectionist tendencies, how can I learn to let go and accept this? [more inside]
What was this pillow?
The last time I was in Canada, I slept on a magical pillow. I suffer from a dicky neck and this pillow was the most comfortable I've ever slept on. Unfortunately the owners of this pillow are away from home at the moment and can't tell me specifically what brand it was. This is where you come in Metafilter! [more inside]
What are the new Alaskan Sneakers?
I am looking for a great pair of Xtratuf boots like these but I understand that now they are made in China and the quality is very poor. I have heard of similar problems with L.L. Bean's boots. I have been looking at ebay for the old made in the USA boots but I have not seen any in my size. Is there another boot make that is similar to the good old Xtratuf? [more inside]
Essay about colorblindness leading to pink living-room walls?
Can you help me find this half-remembered essay about a color-blind guy who inadvertently painted his living room walls pink? I think I recall him describing it as a Pepto Bismol shade of pink, but I may have invented that detail. [more inside]
Dummies Guide to Politics In Japan....
So, I have a sudden burning desire to learn as much as I can about Japanese politics pronto. Please hope me. [more inside]
Good online spaces for discussing outrageous or unpopular ideas?
I'm looking for any online communities that provide a space for the discussion of ideas that would be unpopular or considered outrageous by most people.
posted by casebash at 4:38 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by casebash at 4:38 AM PST - 13 comments
Ethical to use a hacked account on COD Ghosts?
Me and 3 friends were matchmade (not invited) into a hacked Dominion match on COD Ghosts for x360, and now all of our quad profiles, including locked ones, are max prestige. I've reported the incident thoroughly -- is it okay to play this way, having done all that? [more inside]
posted by Quarter Pincher at 4:24 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Quarter Pincher at 4:24 AM PST - 5 comments
Am I right in thinking the people I write for are incompetent?
I write for a website and I feel like my editors don't get it. I've really had enough and I've wasted enough time and energy helping build their site up and arguing with them about their stupid decisions. Here's the thing: Am I wrong? And can I GTFO of this without burning my bridges? Very long snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by peachpie at 2:51 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by peachpie at 2:51 AM PST - 34 comments
Spiritual sustenance
I'm looking for suggestions for spiritual sustenance: things you do to feel connected to love, purpose, and meaning. [more inside]
November 7
Looking for a "car club" (I think?)
I am looking for a Subaru enthusiasts group in the Puget Sound Area or nearby. I have an older Outback wagon, nothing fancy...and would love to find a "general" Subaru club, or more specifically, one that focuses on the off-road capabilities of Subarus of any kind. Most of the Subaru clubs I see are all about the WRXs/ pimped out street car type.
Grammar Books for a College Student with No College-Level Writing Skills
I am looking for recommendations on two books. I'm looking for a book that will teach me how to write essays and how to essentially write like a college student. I am also looking for a grammar book that will teach me VERY basic and simple grammar rules. For example, the difference between i.e. and e.g., when to use a comma, et cetera. Help is very much appreciated! [more inside]
posted by NowYouKnow at 9:35 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by NowYouKnow at 9:35 PM PST - 22 comments
There's got to be a better deal - help me find it!
Posting for a friend: Help me find the most affordable plastic snow globe kit! I need to purchase at least 200 for use in an art show next spring. I am searching for a plastic snow globe kit just like the one in these photos. [more inside]
Sudoku lovers, unite
I like to think I'm fairly good at Sudoku, but this one has me stumped. I know the interwebs is replete with automatic solvers, but I want to be able to solve this by myself. Even just the first step (!) and the thought logic behind it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, MeFi!
posted by bigasthesky at 7:22 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bigasthesky at 7:22 PM PST - 8 comments
My nephew would like to not freeze this winter, thank you.
Asking for my sister, mother of a 1.5 year old boy: "Please share your opinions about winter outerwear for a toddler. He already has a good winter coat (thank you friends from Canada), but what about the rest of it? Gloves v. mittens? Bibs v. snow pants? What's worth a significant investment, and where can you save some pennies? Your advice and recommendations, please." Additional relevant info: he is rather tall for his age, and this winter he wears a 3T. He lives in New England, so winter is for real.
Website file uploader - no PHP
A friend has asked me to fix a broken file uploading function on her website. The website is coded entirely in HTML, and the server it runs on does not support PHP scripts. [more inside]
posted by robot-hugs at 6:22 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by robot-hugs at 6:22 PM PST - 9 comments
But I don't like you - must I toast to you?
My stepsister is getting married this Saturday, a stepsister who has always presumed closeness to everyone in her stepfamily. I do not like her very much for reasons that are not relevant here. I am a bridesmaid in the wedding. She e-mailed all of the bridesmaids and in the same e-mail about our jewelry, mentioned that they'd be making time for speeches during the rehearsal dinner while the band is on a break (yes! There's a band at the rehearsal dinner, which is a whole other story...). She asked for us to let her know if anyone was interested in giving a toast. Should I? [more inside]
Family member moving to Augusta, GA. Advice, please!
A family member is moving to Augusta, Georgia before the end of the year, and we're looking for some advice on apartments and job opportunities. [more inside]
I want to wear a petticoat.
History/literature freak here. For the longest time, I've harbored a secret desire to go, in full costume, to an "historical" event that was 100% historically accurate. Where should I look? [more inside]
posted by Miss T.Horn at 3:26 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Miss T.Horn at 3:26 PM PST - 15 comments
How do I transport an insect collection in a car?
I have an insect cabinet that I need to transport from North Carolina to Georgia, and then from Georgia to Nevada. How do I do this without destroying all the beautiful fragile things within? [more inside]
posted by Pwoink at 2:58 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Pwoink at 2:58 PM PST - 6 comments
What Blogs Should I Read?
What blogs would you recommend? I'm interested in news, cooking, decorating, exercise, running, books, parenting, and other stuff. [more inside]
Help me be Smartphone enabled for 7 day Japan trip (iPhone, data, apps)
I'm traveling to Japan for a week for InterBee - which also include two days on my own.
I land at the airport...and then have to get to my hotel (different ones during the trip). My guess is that I will be doing loads of train travel. Loads of questions [more inside]
posted by filmgeek at 2:20 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by filmgeek at 2:20 PM PST - 13 comments
A guitar and a bottleneck. Amplifier optional.
There are a couple of scenes in the 1986 Walter Hill film Crossroads in which Eugene's character plays some really bluesy, laid-back, heavily-reverbed slide guitar. I really love this kind of blues guitar. Unaccompanied (by vocals or other instruments), haunting, chilled-out. Can you recommend similar performances? [more inside]
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 2:16 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 2:16 PM PST - 12 comments
Should I drop a class if my professor is pressuring me to do so?
One of my professors is pressuring me to drop his class because he "has concerns" about my ability to complete the course. I'm a straight A student, I missed a month of class due to an emergency hospitalization, and I need this class to graduate. Help me figure out what to do. [more inside]
Should I fight to get my dad into a better rehab center?
My father was in an accident two weeks ago, involving some broken bones and head trauma. He was released from the hospital yesterday to a rehab center that is awful. I’m having major difficulty getting him into a better one. What do you suggest? [more inside]
Fisher Paykel Dishwasher Hell, Drain Hose Edition
It should be a simple thing, but it isn't: How do I clean out the drain hose and drain flap on my Fisher & Paykel dishwasher? [more inside]
Offline iPad Survery / CRM Data Collection
Asking for a friend: I'm looking for the direction to go in regards to offline, iPad-based CRM/survey data collection. [more inside]
posted by Nonsteroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drug at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Nonsteroidal Anti-Inflammatory Drug at 1:21 PM PST - 2 comments
Sensitive Skin -- What are the possible causes?
Hi,
I am hoping to get to the bottom of something that has been driving my nuts ever since I was a kid.
I have hypersensitive skin to touch. It turns red (or sorta faded yellow/white) the second it is pressed. If I poke my arm with a finger I can see a circle that fades from red, yellowish to white and then it goes back to normal. All within 10-15 seconds.
I noticed it being annoying whenever I went for a haircut and scissors glided along my forehead. It would leave a red mark for the next 5-10 minutes. Secondly whenever I went in for a massage, the therapist would joke that I bruise easily and turn red within a second of being touched.
Could my blood type be the reasoning behind this? I am ' A- ' and I am just taking a wild shot at dark here. Was hoping someone with experience could clue me in to why my skin acts the way it does.
My roots are predominantly southern-european with some distant Turkish/Ottoman ancestry. Green eyes and moderately white skin complexion. I'm not Irish-white by any means but white like most southern Europeans.
Thank You for your insight!
posted by bostonhill at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by bostonhill at 1:03 PM PST - 8 comments
What anecdote has a staff adding an intentional mistake to fixate boss?
I can't remember this anecdote for the life of me. But the jist was, a very picky director / designer / CEO's people would plant an intentional piece of ugliness (something off center, something ugly) into a project, or design, or film, to fixate him, so he wouldn't tear apart any other parts of the design. [more inside]
posted by condour75 at 12:50 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by condour75 at 12:50 PM PST - 14 comments
Best place for photo printing *and* framing?
Starting to think about holiday gifts, and I have received a request for one of my photos printed and framed. What is the best way to turn a photo into a gift? (Bonus difficulty: the original photos are analogue/film with a square aspect ratio.) [more inside]
Middle distance relationship, no car, money issues? Here!
30 miles apart, without a car to have date nights and with a boyfriend unwilling to share expenses despite having little money. Result: us not doing much of anything and me feeling guilty and stuck. [more inside]
Trying to find a racing headset.
Can you help me find the headset worn by Audi's lead engineer in the "Truth in 24" movies? [more inside]
WiFi tethering: Nexus or iPhone? Which carrier?
My dumbphone died, so it's time to start from a clean slate and get a smartphone. WiFi tethering is a must-have; do I want an Android phone or an iPhone? (USA) [more inside]
posted by phliar at 11:47 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by phliar at 11:47 AM PST - 14 comments
What are these bugs and how do I kill them?
My hot pepper plant has gross little bugs on the undersides of some of its leaves since I brought it indoors for the winter last week. Pic 1, Pic 2.
I also have little fruit flies (or gnats?) that I would like to kill that live in my aloe, mint, and sage. That funnel trick everyone recommends killed some but not nearly all.
What can I spray on the plant and soil to get rid of the bugs and larvae without poisoning myself (when I eat the peppers/herbs) or the plants?
posted by rmless at 11:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by rmless at 11:33 AM PST - 10 comments
How can I babyproof this problem area?
We have a half wall in our living room that borders the staircase and we need to babyproof it. [more inside]
Updating a Wikireader
After reading about it here a few weeks ago, I bought a remaindered Wikireader for cheap on eBay. The Wikireader page offers a Win or Mac app to do the update for you, and a developer page explains how to do it manually. Problem is, either way the 7zip archives for the various Wikis time out and quit downloading only part way through, and then choke when you try to unzip them. I wonder if these data files for the Wikireader are available anywhere else other than the support site, where the download might go better, or maybe as a torrent. I've looked, but maybe I am looking in the wrong places. Everyone seems to have quit playing with these a few years ago, does anyone know of any ongoing hack/programming/repurposing efforts? Do they still sell the miniSD cards preloaded with recent updates?
How to best deliver a used kid's mountain bike from the US to Canada?
Our family of four will be flying to Vancouver, BC, soon to visit my brother and his family. One of the things we'd like to do, if it makes sense, is bring along our daughter's 20" mountain bike to give to his kids. [more inside]
posted by mosk at 10:55 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by mosk at 10:55 AM PST - 11 comments
Stock Concentrate Spoilage
I have some shelf-stable chicken stock concentrate. It's not a dry cube, but rather a sort of gel consistency. The expiration date is 10/13. I know it's just a little past the date, and I'm inclined to use it. Would you? [more inside]
posted by redfishbluefish at 10:50 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by redfishbluefish at 10:50 AM PST - 11 comments
One truck, two crazy felines, 1100+ miles to go...
So my three male kitties got neutered yesterday. They came home and spent most of the evening and night snarling and growling, keeping their distance from each other as much as possible in my tiny studio apartment. It makes sense - they were all in pain and shaking off the anesthesia. But today, everyone is feeling better: eating, playing, and acting like normal miscreants for the most part. Except that they seem to have picked up the very behaviors neutering is supposed to discourage. Aaaand in a few days, two of them are going to be traveling for 16 hours together in a dog kennel... [more inside]
Appetizer Party
I want to hold an appetizer party for four people. Can you help me plan? [more inside]
Jobs that require reading scientific journal articles?
I love reading scientific journal articles for hours on end. What careers require this? [more inside]
Looking for vegetable recipes to go with tacos
Foodies of MeFi: I need new side dishes to make for taco night! Difficulty: vegetables, but not corn, beans, green salad, or squash. [more inside]
posted by Janta at 9:28 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by Janta at 9:28 AM PST - 30 comments
What's a pretty winter vacation spot between Toronto and Chicago?
We're in Toronto. Our friends are in Chicago. We'd like to meet up roughly halfway between our cities over the Christmas break (i.e. in Michigan or Ontario), and rent a house or cottage somewhere quiet with some natural scenery. Any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by Beardman at 9:27 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Beardman at 9:27 AM PST - 10 comments
Best desserts that feature whipped cream
I'm hosting a casual dinner party this weekend, and my friend's favorite part of any dessert is whipped cream, the more decadent the better. What dessert recipes feature whipped cream as the star of the show? I'd prefer suggestions that are relatively easy/quick and not too expensive, and that don't have any hard to find ingredients (I've thought of icebox cake, but haven't been able to find the wafers for sale, and don't have the time to make my own.) Thanks!
Even meditating overwhelms me with fear and rage.
I have anxiety and depression, and I'm starting to realise that underneath that is a bubbling fount of rage. I need some suggestions for coping with and dismantling the anger I'm feeling. I didn't realise it before, but I'm angry pretty much all the time, except when I'm with my boyfriend, scared, or distracting myself via escapism. And even then, it's still there.
I'm looking in to going back to therapy, and I'm currently on antidepressants. I've tried meditating, but it just stresses me out or gives me panic attacks- to be honest, I hate it.
What are some suggestions for coping with this?
Man with a Van service in Brooklyn?
I'm moving some things from a storage unit in Brooklyn to an apartment. I don't need a full scale moving service, just one of those Man-with-a-Van services you see advertised for $25 an hour or so on Craigslist or on lamp post flyers. Rather than take a risk on an unknown, can anyone recommend a guy they've used before? [more inside]
Gagging (I think?) all the time
Since the end of august-- when I had a bout of extremely high anxiety that got me vomiting a bunch of times during panic attacks-- I have been gagging throughout the day.
I call it gagging, but I am not sure if that's right-- basically, it feels like I am about to throw up, and I dry heave, and do the gag reflex thing, but most of the time I don't actually throw anything up. This happens sometimes after I've had a normal sized meal, but more often when my stomach is empty. My stomach doesn't usually hurt or anything. I think my appetite is not as good as before and I think I've lost some weight because my clothes are too big, but I am not completely sure (things have been a whirlwind since June).
Is this bad? Is gagging the right word to describe this? I know you are not my doctors, but I don't have health insurance at the moment, so I am trying to get a sense of how badly I need to see a doctor.
Can I install a HEAVY cast iron sink in a Bowling Alley Wood countertop?
I bought this lovely '60s cast iron enamel kitchen sink on craigslist (and a "hudee ring"), and am obtaining some repurposed bowling alley wood out of which to cut a countertop. But it suddenly occurs to me that the sink may be too damn heavy... it's probably like 50 lbs or something.
Is this project doomed? And if there is anything I can do, do you think it worth the trouble? I like the sink a lot but it was only $10.
posted by qzar at 8:13 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by qzar at 8:13 AM PST - 12 comments
How to improve FPS on Final Fantasy XIV?
I just bought Final Fantasy XIV, and I can't get over 8-10 FPS, even on the title screen. My computer runs Windows 7 64-bit, has 6 gigs of RAM, has an ATI Radeon 5450 HD graphics card, has 180 gigs of hard drive space available, and is defragged once a week. I have tried running the game directly after a restart and with no background programs on. I found something online about Razer Game Booster, so I downloaded that and gave it a shot. Nothing changes the 8-10 frames per second I'm seeing. How can I fix this?
posted by srrh at 7:06 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by srrh at 7:06 AM PST - 19 comments
.NET Dev seeks AppleScript Guru
I need to export Safari history to a tab delimited text file, based on a date range. [more inside]
posted by hilaryjade at 6:53 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by hilaryjade at 6:53 AM PST - 12 comments
Wiring lights, from pull switch to wall light switch?
Need to replace pull switch light fixture so the light switch next to the door actually turns it on instead. Also where can I buy this light fixture (or a cheaper alternative)? [more inside]
I want to move to NYC and get a design/dtp job. Or graduate school.
I'm a fresh college graduated from a European academy for Graphic Design and want to move to NYC to gather more experience in the field, and live there for a while. Question about job search and accommodation. Considering doing a masters degree too. [more inside]
How many times can a defendant fire his defense attorney?
How many times can a defendant dismiss his defense attorney, probably in an attempt to delay prosecution? A little over a year ago, my next door neighbor did a Very Bad Thing. Please believe me when I say there is no doubt that he did the thing he is accused of. When he is finally convicted, he will probably go to prison for the rest of his life. [more inside]
posted by tllaya at 5:05 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tllaya at 5:05 AM PST - 7 comments
Passion over permanence
I accepted a job for an organisation I've long dreamed of working for, but it involves a considerable sacrifice - how to make the best of the situation? [more inside]
posted by socksister at 4:39 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by socksister at 4:39 AM PST - 12 comments
What type of "everyday" items should I bring back from a trip to the UK?
I'm going on a trip to Southeast England soon and I'm wondering what sort of higher quality everyday or household items I should consider shopping for. [more inside]
Ning + wiki - skills = ?
I want to make a website for a project I'm working on that includes both a Ning-like discussion forum and a wiki. Suggestions? [more inside]
November 6
10 days in Turkey and Greece in Feburary?
So, we're able to get an AMAZING deal on Airfare to Istanbul in February 16th - 25th. Looking for tips and advice for our visit. [more inside]
Pod-free espresso machine?
I am looking around for an espresso machine with which I can use my own coffee, not the pre-packaged (and overpriced) pods that come with Nespressos and the like. I could always use a Moku pot, but I want something a bit less labor intensive.
posted by zardoz at 9:51 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by zardoz at 9:51 PM PST - 25 comments
Wheelchair Users in Large Cities: What Info Helps You Get Around?
I recently moved to a large city (Seattle) from a smaller city (Omaha Nebraska). I use a manual wheelchair to get around (TiLite) Slowly, I'm learning to navigate the city. I wanted to reach out to other wheelchair users in large cities and get a feel for the kind of information you wish you'd had when you moved there that would have made getting around the city easier. I'm thinking of gathering this kind of information into a single place (website) that can help wheelchair users new to the city get around. For example:
1. How to get around all the damn hills (seattle, san francisco)
2. How the bus system works
3. where and what the hell are hillclimb assists
4. A directory of business and how accessible they are
I could go on but you get the idea.
Can I refuse to receive a package?
Somebody is sending me a package which I DO NOT WANT, and when it shows up as Delivered by the carrier, they will attempt to invoice me and charge me for it. I DO NOT WANT this item, and I would like for the carrier to NOT DELIVER it. [more inside]
I'm mad about the breadfruit.
I am going to be in Oahu in December and January, and am keen to find: (A) breadfruit; and (B) breadfruit seeds (commercially packaged). Where are they to be found? [more inside]
Why is it so hard to find a therapist in NYC?
I've been trying to book an appointment for weeks, but everyone is booked up. How do you go about finding a therapist in the city? [more inside]
Pimp my iPhone
After spending several years on an ancient Android on which running much of anything was like wading through molasses and apps crashed if you breathed wrong, I got myself an iPhone 5S. It is very shiny and I am very happy. Problem: I have no idea what apps to get. Difficulty level: free-or-cheap. [more inside]
posted by sailoreagle at 8:07 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by sailoreagle at 8:07 PM PST - 36 comments
What are some cultural examples of strong, smart, flirtatious women?
I get nervous about flirting and dating, and my friend suggested I 'fake it til I make it' by trying to imitate someone I wish I could be like. But I'm having trouble thinking of fictional characters/celebrity role models. What are some examples of women who are intellectual/feminist/strong but also forward and good at flirting? [more inside]
reverse cell phone number search
How to get information about a cell phone user with just the number when nothing comes up with cursory google search? [more inside]
What is this "green card" that my father has gotten?
What exactly has my father gotten himself, and is it legal? Is there a "green card" in BC that permits the purchase, use and possession of marijuana? [more inside]
Soundproofing a rented flimsily-built (Theatre) rehearsal space
We've rented a rehearsal space for our theatre company on the second storey of a really old shophouse. Our rehearsals are pissing off our downstairs neighbour. How can we soundproof our activities? [more inside]
posted by WalterMitty at 7:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by WalterMitty at 7:10 PM PST - 9 comments
Need Cash Money!
I lost my debit card (misplaced?) and I am leaving the country on Saturday morning. I am traveing to a third world country and I was planning on using ATMs to access my money. Is there such thing as a pre-paid card that I can use in an ATM? It's too late to have a card mailed to me, so I want to pick something up at the grocery store. I am weary about cards that say debit that can't be used in ATMs. [more inside]
posted by Duffington at 7:02 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Duffington at 7:02 PM PST - 16 comments
[Traffic] Driving on 95 on X-Mas & New Year's Day DC-BOS-DC: Bad idea?
How is driving on I-95 on Christmas and New Year's Day? [more inside]
posted by anya32 at 6:37 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by anya32 at 6:37 PM PST - 14 comments
Suddenly a 30 year-old Mercedes looks incredibly attractive to me
After riding in a friend's 30 year-old diesel Mercedes today, I want to get off the hamster wheel of monthly car payments and save that cash by trading down for a much older car. We two adults share one car between us and it will stay that way. When not being used for trips, this will be a daily driver racking up fewer than 30 miles in a week. Which car should we aim for? [more inside]
posted by ImproviseOrDie at 6:33 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by ImproviseOrDie at 6:33 PM PST - 31 comments
Best way to buy Twitter stock on IPO day?
I'm a huge fan of Twitter and surprised how quickly they're going to IPO from the announcement just a few weeks ago (the IPO is supposed to happen tomorrow). I have no idea where to start, when to try and do this, how the process works for a layman. Is there any easy way to buy a couple hundred shares of the stock on the first day? [more inside]
posted by mathowie at 6:10 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by mathowie at 6:10 PM PST - 9 comments
Wandering Kids at a Exhibition
A recent AskMe thread and this answer in particular has me re-examining an experience I had a while back, when exhibiting at a show. One of the other exhibitors had her four-year-old child along. I'm sure that if she had any other choice she would have left her child at home. But I kept feeling like her attitude about her child and their impact on the rest of the show and the other exhibitors was....lax? And I'm trying to figure out if I'm being an unfair childless jerk. In part because I hope to have my own kids someday, and if I do, I may very well be in her same position. [more inside]
Looking for a support group in Los Angeles
Looking for a support group in Los Angeles for girls/women with depression [more inside]
How much camera stuff can I take with me to Mexico?
As a tourist, how much photography gear can I take into Mexico without requiring a professional visa? [more inside]
posted by chrchr at 5:17 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by chrchr at 5:17 PM PST - 7 comments
Sleazy ex-landlord managing to elude any attempt to recoup security.
Two years ago I moved out of an apartment, with everything in good condition and good standing. My landlord ignored my requests for my security deposit, so I sued in small claims and won. Landlord has since ignored any attempt to recoup this debt, which is now - with damages and court fees - nearly $1,500. I've exhausted any resources I have to get this money back, and I'm hoping MeFites might have ideas or encouragement to help settle this in my favor. [more inside]
posted by AthenaPolias at 5:14 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by AthenaPolias at 5:14 PM PST - 16 comments
I could take or leave the cookie. This has NEVER happened before.
Why do I find a very low calorie diet easier than moderately low calorie diet? [more inside]
Quite Possibly One of the Best Problems to Have
How do I write a sincere thank you letter acknowledging a job offer, and thanking the person for their note, but avoid any language suggesting my decision one way or another? [more inside]
Coughing and balsamic
Ok, a similar question was posted here once about sulfites/vinegar aggravating asthma. My question is definitely similar, but not the same. I've searched the internet for the answer, and actually, the AskMeFi question was the closest answer I've found.
Last week I roasted beets with a balsamic dressing. I always cough a lot when I cook with or eat vinegar in general, but balsamic seems to be worse.
It's a week later, and I am still spontaneously coughing!!! What the hell?! Could it be tied to the balsamic? It is not a "sick" cough. It's like all of the sudden my lungs feel like I am still breathing balsamic, but clearly I am not.
Does anyone else on here have this problem? Could I be allergic to vinegar? Doesn't that seem an odd reaction, in any case? Help meeeeee. I'm worried I ruined my lungs.
posted by kbennett289 at 4:15 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by kbennett289 at 4:15 PM PST - 8 comments
Where can I ski in France? Difficulty level: Cheaply?
Hi, I am looking for tips or advice on how to ski cheaply in France. [more inside]
How to translate "custom" into French (mais pas "personnalisation")
I am trying to translate into French a series of phrases along the lines of "custom(-built) report", "custom(-built) query", etc. but these are not customized according to individual user preferences, but according to their organization's needs. I am trying to use it in the sense of "built-to-organization's-specification" (not out-of-the-box, but not personalization either).
In my world, "customized" = added in by the vendor, "configured" = added in by the user or admin, so it would help to end up with a term that avoids the sense of configuration.
posted by blue_wardrobe at 3:23 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by blue_wardrobe at 3:23 PM PST - 12 comments
Am I a Donna Juanita?
How real is porn/sex addiction? And is it different for women? [more inside]
Worms?!
What are these tiny worms I found? Are they dangerous? And how to I get rid of them? [more inside]
Share your secret paradises for relaxation and celebration
Where in the world can we vacation and ring in the new year? As it's Nov now, we're terrible at planning. [more inside]
posted by inevitability at 2:34 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by inevitability at 2:34 PM PST - 6 comments
Small delicious homemade snack food?
I've taken homemade butter mints and homemade cheese crackers to a couple of different parties among my friend group. Friend commented recently that she now associates me with unexpected tiny delicious homemade snack things. What other recipes should I know about? [more inside]
posted by aimedwander at 2:19 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by aimedwander at 2:19 PM PST - 31 comments
Lunchtime!
I need a plastic lunch box to take to work. Requirements inside. [more inside]
posted by griphus at 1:59 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by griphus at 1:59 PM PST - 27 comments
How to store an overwatered bay laurel until replanting?
How should I store my bare-root baby bay laurel overnight? [more inside]
posted by oinopaponton at 12:31 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by oinopaponton at 12:31 PM PST - 2 comments
What to do when your building has no hot water?
My building has had no hot water at all since yesterday morning and I'm wondering if there's anything I can do about it. [more inside]
Sending an instant play audio file to a Lotus Notes e-mail address?
I need to e-mail a small audio file to my office in such a way that it automatically plays as soon as the e-mail is opened by the recipient. Can this be done and, if so, how? I can embed the audio into a graphic if necessary or create it in any format. The file wouldn't be larger than maybe 1MB. My office uses Lotus Notes v8.5 mostly on PCs but also a few Macs.
Thanks in advance.
posted by Jamesonian at 12:03 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Jamesonian at 12:03 PM PST - 4 comments
How soon can I get back in the classroom after giving birth?
How soon can I realistically expect to go back into the classroom after giving birth? [more inside]
posted by mrfuga0 at 11:31 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by mrfuga0 at 11:31 AM PST - 45 comments
The trouble with truffles
PNW filter: has anyone had success finding truffles (the fungal kind) in the wild ? [more inside]
posted by OHenryPacey at 11:22 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by OHenryPacey at 11:22 AM PST - 8 comments
"Fake it till you make it," but how, exactly?
I am mentoring two new employees in my organization, both of whom could benefit from more confidence and "presence." They have both asked me for specific tips on how to appear more confident, even if they don't feel it. The problem is that beyond stating the obvious, such as standing up straight, looking people in the eye, etc., I am having trouble getting down to details in behaviour and appearance.
What do you do to appear more confident? And what signals do you look for when assessing the confidence level of another person? How does someone "own the room"? (One of my mentees is a twenty-something man, just out of school, and a bit geeky. The other is a female in her early forties, recently returned to the work force after maternity leave followed by a divorce, and clearly lacking in body confidence, despite being "normal" weight and quite pretty.)
posted by rpfields at 11:05 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by rpfields at 11:05 AM PST - 29 comments
Who made this candle holder, and where can I find its mate?
My mom gave me a single orange candle holder that was my late grandmother's. It was with a lot of her Fiestaware stuff, but it doesn't seem to be actual Fiestaware (and she had a lot of knockoffs). She most likely bought it in the mid to late 1940s. I would like to get another one similar to it or something sort of matching, but I'm striking out. Help!
posted by kendrak at 11:03 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by kendrak at 11:03 AM PST - 5 comments
Making a book of Favorate Tweets
There used to be a service that took your stared tweets, and make them into a book. I can't find it now and it would be awesome for all the family stories and comments I've saved over the years... [more inside]
help us plan a somewhat last minute, gay friendly winter vacation
My wife and I are planning a last minute vacation for the week between Christmas and New Year's. We will be leaving from NYC and would like to go someplace warm where we can mostly relax and lay on the beach. Budget is ~5k-6k flights included. We are happily married lesbians and are not interested in pretending to be sisters/cousins/friends on our big vacation, so we are specifically looking for lgbt friendly destinations or possibly lgbt friendly resorts in moderately lgbt friendly locales. [more inside]
Looking For Good Evening Spots In Los Angeles for Photo Shoot
I will be doing a photo shoot for my men's surfwear line Friday night. Nightlife theme of "Surfing the Lights of the City" I am looking for some good spots for the shoot with great well lit. backdrops. Either of the city or streetlife. Public spots or rooftops would be great. Some suggestions given by friends include the Arclight Theatre, old apartment rooftops in Franklin Village near Hollywood and roof tops downtown.
Any suggestions???
How can a cancer patient get free emergency dental care in Ottawa?
I am grinding my teeth at night and they are breaking. I have no income, benefits, insurance or money. I need help quite quickly. [more inside]
Did you enjoy your parental leave?
Our first child is due in the next few weeks! This isn't a question about getting ready - we've done a lot of preparation (see inside). I want to know how you enjoyed those first crazy weeks. Were you able to relax into the sleep deprivation and rhythm-less newborn life? Do you look back on those days fondly? We expect to be tired and frazzled, but we want to intentionally savor this special time. We will have ~8 weeks at home together with our baby. Tell me how you did it. [more inside]
How do you deal with a guy who has fear of commitment.
I am dating a guy for 6 months and we are super open. We moved in together. We love each other. I think he is afraid of commitment and marriage. Although he said clearly that he wants to get married and have kids, it is clear that not now. He wants to save and then jump in marriage. Although I don't have a problem with this, and he is only 26, do you think that 3 years is really going to change him or he will say the same thing. I want a family and just going to find another guy is not the option because I did that and you know what? A relationship builds in time. I am not willing to start from scratch again and again. I don't want to be looking my whole life. I am a profesional with a great career. My bf keeps saying that I am great, he loves me a ton, but my question is will e commit one day? What will make him change? Should I do something?
posted by barexamfreak at 9:04 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by barexamfreak at 9:04 AM PST - 25 comments
How to deal with gamer boyfriend
My 2 year boyfriend turned into a gamer some time ago and it's driving me crazy, because I feel that his games are more important to him than I am anymore. [more inside]
Small fridges
Does anyone make an undercounter refrigerator that's somewhere between a dorm fridge and a Sub-Zero bar fridge? [more inside]
posted by hwyengr at 8:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by hwyengr at 8:21 AM PST - 8 comments
Help me identify this YA novel I read in grade school.
I read this book sometime in the late 80s. It was a mystery solving book. I believe the protagonist(s) were kid(s). It involved a town named Staunton (like the chess pieces) and some burned paper in the base of a statue. And an ominous title implying the supernatural? I may have that last bit about the title wrong. [more inside]
posted by jeffamaphone at 8:14 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by jeffamaphone at 8:14 AM PST - 3 comments
Really in need of employment and career help
Hello. I am really in need of help and have never been set on any stable career or employment course. What can I do with very few resources (I am down to my last $100 bucks or so; I do not own a cell phone) to get a job ASAP or at least learn more about careers? Are there any lifehacks, tricks, ideas or pathways that I am missing? I know there have to be some people here who have recently had to find new jobs and know the modern job hunt a lot better than the standard advice that's outdated. What did you do when you felt between a rock and a hard place? One thing I was interested in is teaching (either substitute or full-time) but I have no clue how to become certified or where to start. My parents are really losing their patience and I have no clue how long I can be here without contributing pay from a job. [more inside]
sourcing Kim Deal ITALIA shirt circa 2005?
trying to find information about the ITALIA t-shirt Kim Deal wore for some concerts around 2005. from what I can remember about it, feels like it was more of a one-off. but hoping some fans of football, and/or of the Pixies, can shed some light. [more inside]
Where can I buy these parakeet/small animal chews in bulk?
My budgies love love love these chew toys and are about to chew their way through a third of these, made from the same stuff. But at $10 a piece, it's getting a little ridiculous. That first link says they're made of yucca -- is there somewhere I can either buy these toys in bulk, or just get ahold of tons of the raw (dried) material and cut it up myself?
Party Pics
I've been put in charge of a photo booth setup at an upcoming party, and I need some advice. We would like for people to be able to take pictures in front of a backdrop for most of the night, photo booth style with funny hats/props, and then have an "instant slide show" at the end of the party of all the pics. Talk me through the hardware setup I need to make this happen, please! I've got a canon DSLR, a laptop (both Mac and PC available) various USB cables, and a projector.
Thank you!
I've been burglarized, and I have a lot of questions!
I live on the first floor in an apartment building in a very heavily trafficked and busy urban neighborhood. It's not a terribly dangerous place, but it definitely has its illicit activity going on - it's a college town. You don't see a lot of bars on the windows or anything. At some point yesterday, somebody broke into my apartment by forcing a window open, and they weren't in my apartment long. They didn't really ransack the place, it was almost hard to tell someone had been there. I am frankly puzzled by how very little they took and what they did take as it wasn't very valuable. They did rifle through my filing cabinet and they did steal my laptop which they will need a password to use, but if they are able to get past that, they will have access to all of my online accounts and my financial information (which I have already locked down).
I'm trying to work out a checklist for everything I need to do now, and I have one complicating factor about ID. [more inside]
posted by pazazygeek at 7:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by pazazygeek at 7:05 AM PST - 9 comments
Would it be wise to transfer my 401k to bonds or cash equivalents?
Looking at the market, currently, I have the same sense of foreboding I had in late 2007. If I am operating under the assumption the Dow and other stocks are going to start tumbling over the next 1-2 years, what actions should I be taking to protect my 401k? [more inside]
Your favorite monolight.
I'm in the market for some monolights. I'm leaning towards Alien Bees, but I'm open to suggestions. I'm looking to hear of your positive or negative experiences with both them as well as anything you might suggest, as well as what mix of heads would work best for me. At the moment, I'm thinking two B800s and a B1600 (two 320w and one 640w) (or equivalent from another manufacturer) would be a good start. [more inside]
Find me the perfect media cabinet/console
Find me the perfect media cabinet/console [more inside]
Remote file management
I've been tasked to find a solution for the following: We make software for different kinds of machines. The machines are all controlled from Windows PCs connected to each machine individually. Every developer who has to test something copies their newly built software on a flash drive, walks out to the lab, makes a backup of what was running on the PC connected to that particular machine, puts in their own software, runs the tests, and in the end copies everything back like it was before. [more inside]
Minor computer upgrade.
I'm looking to upgrade my 2012 computer to be able to run some mid-range games. I'm not expecting anything spectacular. Is there a way to do this for $100 or less? I know upgrades tend to be expensive, but I'm hoping a minor upgrade to this computer won't cost as much as upgrading to the best-of-the-best out there because Technology Marches On and such. [more inside]
posted by Autumn at 4:33 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Autumn at 4:33 AM PST - 11 comments
Can this sourdough loaf be saved?
An oven problem has caused my loaf of dough to be heated, then cooled and it's now caved in. Can I save it? [more inside]
posted by cellura p at 3:11 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by cellura p at 3:11 AM PST - 6 comments
Yet another Lord of the Rings question
Who's the boss in Lothlorien? [more inside]
November 5
Is there anywhere decent to look for freelance web work?
I'm a frontend web developer with quite a long resume. I work full-time but I'd like to pick up some freelance, remote work in my spare time. I'm wondering if there are any places to look besides my personal network, Craigslist, and those awful "Rent-a-coder" sites where you get underbid by overseas folks who'll do it for $9/hr. [more inside]
posted by drjimmy11 at 10:34 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by drjimmy11 at 10:34 PM PST - 8 comments
Minecraft LAN Games (You Are Not My Tech Support Person-filter)
My wife and I wanted to play Minecraft together. Minecraft has that handy "Open game to LAN" button in single player mode. But it's not working. [more inside]
posted by Scattercat at 9:49 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Scattercat at 9:49 PM PST - 12 comments
How can I use a iphone 4s without a sim card as a ipod?
I was given a iphone 4s from a relative as a gift. I already have a nice android and thought it would be cool to just use the iphone as a ipod instead of just selling the gift and risk offending them. It came factory reset and stays on a activation screen awaiting a sim card. I can not figure out how to get past this screen and just use it as a device which is fairly easy to do with any android phone. Do I need to "unlock" or "jailbreak" the phone to bypass the sim card need or do I need to buy a sim card just to use it as a ipod with no carrier or phone functionality? Please help and recommend any useful software.
posted by isopropyl at 9:11 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by isopropyl at 9:11 PM PST - 18 comments
Macroeconomics textbook for reference purposes
I'm looking for a Macroeconomics textbook to use for future reference. [more inside]
Long Term relationship with a girl that has issues?
Is there any chance that a relationship with a girl with issues from her past could work long term? have there ever been any that have been successful? [more inside]
posted by red47Apple at 8:41 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by red47Apple at 8:41 PM PST - 54 comments
Grounding plug for laptop charger came out, how to charge my laptop?
I was using a replacement adapter with my laptop, but the grounding plug came out of the adapter and was stuck in a wall socket tonight. Is it safe to use this adapter for a few days while I wait for a new replacement adapter, or should wait to charge my laptop util the adapter comes? [more inside]
posted by filthy light thief at 8:36 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by filthy light thief at 8:36 PM PST - 8 comments
need help finding a school for a 15 year old Chinese girl
my associate in China wants his daughter to study in the US, learn better English, etc.
She's only 15, speaks just okay English (not great)....
He wants her to study here at a high school.... but i think it will have to be a private high school... and she will have to live at the school & be supervised...
Can anyone help me determine what is involved ? Does she get a foreign student temporary Visa (or something like that) ?
Also, he (& I) know nothing about this process.... so i think in terms of location, anything will do....
I need to provide him with choices, locations, costs, what accommodations they can offer, etc.
If you need more info., please feel free to ask... one problem about my (& his) position is because we are 'ignorant' about this whole matter, we're not even positive about what the right questions are....
Bankruptcy counsel recommendation in NYC
I am filing for Chapter 7 bankruptcy in New York City. Can anyone recommend a low-cost bankruptcy lawyer or other legal resource, since money is (obviously) limited? [more inside]
what do i choose for a gift from my crush that hasn't been given before?
Hi, So I really like this guy. We have been flirting for a while but we haven't kissed or even dated. Recently we had this conversation and for some reason he says that he will get me anything for $50 as long as he hasn't heard of it being given before. He says it should be one thing. [more inside]
Go Home, Little Girl
What is the parental etiquette for when someone's kid comes to your door trying play with your kid, you tell them no, we're having dinner, and kid essentially won't take no for an answer and tries to continue to get into your house? What is the best way to redirect said kiddo from this behavior again if I can't say anything to her parents? [more inside]
posted by tafetta, darling! at 6:40 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by tafetta, darling! at 6:40 PM PST - 23 comments
How do I name a thing?
I'm working on an app project and am having a really hard time doing the whole marketable memorable unique name thing. Any idea I have is absurd or taken. It's frustrating because I'm already working with a designer to bring the thing to life. It's a very visual, beautiful daily mood tracker. I might extend it to include a meditation guide. The idea is to be more tolerant and observant about your mood rather than rating how happy you are or aren't every day. [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 5:41 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by sweetkid at 5:41 PM PST - 11 comments
Why am I picking up AM stations in NYC and Boston on my car radio?
I live about an hour west of Toronto yet instead of getting CFRB 1010 from Toronto, I'm getting 1010 WINS out of New York City (albeit not terribly clear). I also can pick up WBZ 1030 from Boston and the signal is crystal clear, particularly in the evenings. I would think that since I'm in close proximity to Toronto, I'd pick up AM sations from there. CFRB 1010 does come in sometimes but not consistently. What gives?
My car is a Mini Cooper S if it matters.
If I invite someone to come over to my apartment on a fourth date...
If I invite someone to come over to my apartment on a fourth date, how is that interpreted?
I am dating a new guy who I like. I haven't kissed him yet. I think he is pretty interested because he is in touch a lot and he always schedules the next date before the end of the last one. He is pretty outgoing and I am pretty reserved. He seems pretty respectful and kind of good at reading signals. He asked what I wanted to do for our fourth date because he'd planned the previous ones.
I wanted to invite him over to cook something together, etc. Basically I want to make out with him but don't want to sleep with him at this point. If I invite him over to my apartment will that be read as, "I want to sleep with you"?
I'm new at this.
posted by mermily at 4:55 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by mermily at 4:55 PM PST - 30 comments
Lawyer's fees for a week far away from home
What would be a realistic and reasonable bill to expect from a US attorney whom you asked to travel long haul (think China) to work with a client for a week? What about a UK solicitor travelling to Australia? Assume when they get there they will put in a 35 hour week. On the travel expenses front, would business class be typically expected when travelling long haul? I know there'll be a range, but would be interested to hear estimates for mid-size and large firms.
posted by pines at 4:53 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by pines at 4:53 PM PST - 9 comments
What should I keep in my truck's toolbox?
So I have an old truck. I'd like to hear your suggestions for tools, spare parts, fluids, etc that I should keep on hand in the truck either in case something goes wrong or in case I find myself having to do something tool-related while I'm out of the house. Hit me with your best suggestions! [more inside]
Ice breakers for (queer male) group sex party
A friend and I are throwing our first (queer male) group sexytime party. We are looking for some fun getting-to-know-you activities as most of the participants have not met before. [more inside]
posted by khedron at 2:48 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by khedron at 2:48 PM PST - 6 comments
How can I block upworthy and similar sites from my facebook feed
Lately, more and more links to upworthy and a newer site named viralnova have been showing up in my facebook feed all the damned time. A friend and I were commiserating and I told her I'd look into finding a way to block it. [more inside]
posted by symbioid at 2:44 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by symbioid at 2:44 PM PST - 17 comments
What Book Did I Read?
Sometime around 1997/1998 I read a strange book and since then I've forgotten almost all the details. About the only thing I can remember is that there were some creatures who 'spoke' multiple concepts at once. [more inside]
posted by Green With You at 2:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Green With You at 2:10 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me become a temp
I'd like to leave my relatively stable (but likely dead-end) job for temp work, with the hope of landing in a position with more potential to be a career--or, at least, the potential for occasional promotions. If you've done this, I'd like to hear what worked well for you, what didn't, and what you wish you'd thought of ahead of time. [more inside]
What was this novel I read in high school?
In high school English class, I remember reading a novel but can't recall the name or really much of the plot. I don't even remember liking it, but I still need to know the title! Here are some of the details I remember.
A couple gets married, and then they have a child seven or so months later. They weren't together before the wedding, so it's known the husband isn't the father. The wife had other children from a previous marriage/relationship. I believe the grandparents also play a central role.
The father works at a furniture store or for a cabinet maker? At one point, he joins some religious group and they have a gathering at his house. Somebody leaves a water ring on a nice oak table and the party fizzles out shortly after, even though they successfully remove the ring with soap.
Any guesses?
posted by mmmbacon at 1:59 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by mmmbacon at 1:59 PM PST - 2 comments
Is is me, or does Google Docs suck?
As an experiment in avoiding Word, I decided to do our last couple of proposals in Google Docs. It wasn't the worst experience I've ever had, but Docs seems to have one quirk that is driving me nuts. Wondering if it's just me or somebody else has dealt with this and has a solution. [more inside]
The entrance examination effect
Help me name and document this social/economic phenomenon. [more inside]
Is there a multitasking kitchen appliance that actually works?
I have extremely limited kitchen space but consider both a food processor and a blender to be essential pieces of equipment, especially around holiday food prep time. I currently have a Cuisinart food processor I'm not unhappy with and a crappy compact blender that can barely handle making salad dressing, let alone crushing ice. I'd like to replace both with an all-in-one device, ideally a powerful base that I can put either a blender jar or food processing bowl on. But I'm wary of all-in-one devices because they tend to be not very good at any of the things they do. Are there any blender/food processor combos that are actually good at both? [more inside]
Help me find these old Mac software and clip art
Please help me find 68k Mac software "Solids" and some isometric 3/4 view clipart... (details in the "inside"...) [more inside]
What happens to ACA-acquired insurance if the ACA gets repealed?
Without getting into the politics or likelihood of it all, I was wondering what happens to insurance policies acquired through the ACA if the ACA somehow gets repealed? Are those people (who might have pre-existing conditions, etc) going to be left without insurance? [more inside]
Help us up our taco game!
So the fiance (eee) and I are participating in a local food festival based around a particular brand of smoker. One of the recipes we'd like to try is detailed inside and I have a rough idea of how I'd like to present it but we need ideas for a sauce and/or slaw. [more inside]
posted by brilliantine at 11:49 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by brilliantine at 11:49 AM PST - 8 comments
Are cliques the result of human nature, or a cultural/societal thing?
OK... I'm probably going to mangle this question, because I'm not a sociologist or anthropologist, or remotely knowledgeable in those fields. So, I'm probably using all my terms incorrectly.
But, long story short - it's been my experience that most behaviors that laypeople, in casual conversation, call "human nature" are really just cultural phenomena.
In other words - a behavior that someone from the United States thinks is "human nature" might be completely absent in another culture or society. It that's true - then it's not really "human behavior" at all.
So - my question - is the tendency for kids in grade school to form cliques "human nature" - or a phenomena that's specific to certain (e.g., our) cultures? [more inside]
posted by stuehler at 11:16 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by stuehler at 11:16 AM PST - 17 comments
Where to find short term ESL work in South America?
I am looking for short-term ESL volunteer or job opportunities in (Spanish-speaking) South America. Ideally 2-6 weeks, though longer is ok too. [more inside]
Audio setup with Airport Express
I have a small apartment. I would like a speaker setup for listening to music. It's an Apple apartment, so I figure the path of least resistance is to get an Airport Express and then connect speakers somehow. Can anyone recommend either (1) a specific set of powered speakers that reproduce music accurately, or (2) a separate amp to put between an input like the Express and a pair of bookshelfs like the Pioneer SP-BS22-LRs. [more inside]
posted by caek at 11:06 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by caek at 11:06 AM PST - 17 comments
My cross (design) to bear
I'm using this cross symbol in a brochure design. Cross designs are laden with meaning and symbolism, and I want to make sure this is not something with adverse associations. Anyone have any thoughts?
Streamlined way to pick an engagement ring?
We're trying to get engaged -- hooray! What advice do you have about how to streamline this whole ring thing as much as possible? [more inside]
posted by slidell at 11:00 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by slidell at 11:00 AM PST - 27 comments
Have you seen these alt. jumping stilts? (Bay Area Maker Faire 2013)
I'm trying to find more about a pair of jumping stilts that I saw at maker faire (2013 Bay Area) that are substantially different form any I've seen online. Does anyone know anything about these - they had a glossy metallic-red (almost Ironman-like?) nearly-knee-high boot instead of the usual clamps, and the spring power seemed to come from a lot of black rubber cording bunched in the rear as if a calf muscle (I don't recall the mechanism, but bungie cording suggests it's different to the blade-spring traditional design). Are these something that can be purchased, or were they a maker-crafted one-off?
I am dying to read the Amazon reviews for this one.
Help me identify this bizarre book I attempted to read as a kid. [more inside]
posted by Jess the Mess at 10:47 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Jess the Mess at 10:47 AM PST - 18 comments
Car Insurance- Get them involved or Don't get them involved?
3 years ago my husband backed into a concrete pole in a parking garage while away on business. It has rendered the hatch back useless. We are now moving and need the hatch back more than ever. For many reasons we never informed our insurance company and never fixed it. This is what our insurance is for; right? [more inside]
This is like the opposite of most DC dining questions.
Best DC-area restaurants that require a car to get to? [more inside]
Queer-friendly haircut in the Twin Cities?
Looking for a place or a particular stylist who will cut my queer hair and who may even offer suggestions about style. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Need ideas about causes and solutions for strong and unusual body odor
I have a new boyfriend who I like A LOT and am very attracted to. Right after a shower, he smells normal and good. But anytime he starts to sweat, his body gives off a strong and terrible odor. Looking for thoughts about the cause and possible solutions. [more inside]
Oh my god will our house never stay organized!
Lets say you had 500$ to spend on making your messy house more organized and to create more storage. What would you spend it on? What things would you do to solve your messy house? My husband and I have a pretty small (~850 square feet total) house that is forever cluttered and messy despite our constant attempts to keep it clean. We're fed up and are prepared to make major changes to get this house permanently organized. Help us to be one of those hyper organized households! Of course there are snowflakey details within. [more inside]
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:24 AM PST - 61 comments
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:24 AM PST - 61 comments
Need to find something that will warn me I'm posting on a Public FB post
I'm running Firefox and have greasemonkey installed. I need to find an addon, or script that will alert me to when I'm commenting on a Public post. [more inside]
Where to go from Paris for 3-4 nights?
Have miles, will travel. My brother and I need suggestions for out-of-this-world places accessible by a short to medium length plane ride (probably 4 hrs max but flexible) from Paris. What's your favorite place around those parts? [more inside]
Really? They used to call him Hansel Solo at school!
How do you get people to call you by a nickname without having to draw it to their attention? [more inside]
Handsome, but unwelcome
Help me get rid of an unwanted visitor cat and calm my freaked-out felines in the meantime. [more inside]
It's your birthday and I got you....
I need to find a present for my sister's 30th birthday and I have no idea where to start. We're not very similar and now that I'm living far away, I have even less of an idea. It also needs to be easily shippable. [more inside]
Book ID: "Celebrity" Edition
[Book Filter] Can anyone identify the book in the Pamela Anderson post marathon photo?
posted by Busmick at 8:35 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Busmick at 8:35 AM PST - 3 comments
Support Groups for adult children with estranged families?
Is there such a thing? I tried searching some, but I dunno, maybe I'm not searching right because I didn't find anything. [more inside]
Verizon Phone with Cardock like Droid X
My (Verizon) Droid X is dying. I'm looking for a new-ish used phone on Swappa, but am overwhelmed by the options. One of the features I love most about my Droid X is the car dock / vehicle mount. The dock integrates the power cable, such that I don't have to plug and unplug the cord every time I use the vehicle mount. I just put it in the cradle and it's charging. It's a small detail, but it's really nice for getting in and out of the car quickly.
Is there another, slightly newer model phone that has a similar car dock available? Or are there third-party vehicle mounts that are available that are model-specific enough to incorporate the power connector?
No tagging allowed
DIY help -- spray paint + canvas = art? My roommate and I are planning on making our own spray paint art wall hangings. Neither of us know how to use spray paint or if the kind of canvas matters. Please help us choose the right materials and give us other advice for a successful creative masterpiece! [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 7:54 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 7:54 AM PST - 13 comments
Knots, Samurais and lots and lots of water
Questions about keeping things tied underwater, and one about swimming a long, long way on a single breath. [more inside]
posted by ditto75 at 7:54 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by ditto75 at 7:54 AM PST - 10 comments
"Can't miss" food and relaxation options in Los Angeles
I recently moved to the Los Angeles metropolitan area. I am looking for recommendations of your favorite low-key restaurants and food options as well as great "relaxation" spots. [more inside]
Papers, papers everywhere, but not the one I'm looking for.
I need the mother of all paper organizers for 45 groups of paper. I'm open to DIY or partial DIY, but due to time constraints, I'd prefer a cheap purchased solution. Detailed requirements inside. [more inside]
Comprehensive machine learning text[book]?
As a post-Masters student in a technical discipline -- computer-science-related -- I find myself wishing to fill in knowledge gaps from courses that I took in school. I'm looking for one, long, comprehensive text on Machine Learning (or several shorter texts) from which to self-teach the whole ML process from beginning to end.
Topics of interest would be
- supervised, unsupervised and semi-supervised learning
- clustering, classification
etc.
Having already delved into Manning's 'Foundations of Statistical Natural Language Processing' in school I feel I've a decent knowledge of SVMs, perceptrons, clustering, (H)MMs, etc. but I'd like to learn more about general algorithm design, ML and how it has evolved over the years. Thanks! :)
posted by code_n_cakes at 7:33 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by code_n_cakes at 7:33 AM PST - 4 comments
Name that blog!
Help me name a menswear blog with a reference to monkeys. [more inside]
Financial Planning Advice for a Financially Clueless Expat
I am a 29 year old American expat, living and working abroad in BRICs for nearly 6 years now, who needs help in getting my financial act together. Due to limitations of my company- I have not been able to contribute to a 401(k) for at least five years now, and in the last few years my salary has exceeded $135k/year, so I can't even contribute to a Roth IRA. As far as I can understand, there isn't really anything more in the basic United States system for retirement that I can take advantage of… so now what? Am I really on my own now? Are there any websites with info geared towards this? Or should I get a financial/wealth planner? Or an "expat" tax accountant? Or both? How do I even start to find one? I have no idea what to look for! [more inside]
volunteering in the east bay (sf bay area)
I'm looking for a possibly regular volunteer opportunity in the east bay (oakland or berkeley) working with seniors, homeless, or needy. Tell me about the volunteer org you know of that does great work and is a great place! Some random criteria: [more inside]
Best book to learn how to write professionally and self-edit my own work
Recent job opportunity came up, and I have the chance to write semi-professionally for a small company. Think in the vein of writing movie reviews or reviewing software. Its professional writing, but there will be conceptual and thematic details involved, it's not simply writing staid copy.
I would like to find a book that helps me hone my prose, and will teach me how to better edit and improve my work. [more inside]
Games for the Variously Inebriated
I have friends who enjoy basic card games like poker and Gang of Four but are interested in trying something new. The catch is the place we're most likely to play games is out at bars with friends in various states of intoxication, and sometimes we have a bunch of people. What are some good games that work in this situation? [more inside]
posted by 23 at 6:33 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by 23 at 6:33 AM PST - 32 comments
Gift Idea for a Cyclist
Looking for a cheap gift idea/suggestion ($15) for someone who is into cycling (mountain biker). [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 4:13 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by dbirchum at 4:13 AM PST - 42 comments
November 4
The neighbour's screaming kids
I live in a terrace with shared walls. My neighbours have really loud kids and scream at them a lot. Can I ask them to keep it down or does that make me a childless uncompassionate jerk? How do I do that? [more inside]
Space heaters vs turning up the heat?
I live in a drafty old farmhouse. My roommates and I are currently waging a thermostat war--one says it's cheaper to to have the heat for the whole house at 70 than it is for him to heat his room with a space heater. I maintain that its probably way more expensive to heat the entire drafty house. Who's right? We have electric heat. [more inside]
posted by Grandysaur at 10:56 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Grandysaur at 10:56 PM PST - 26 comments
How do I weigh this giant box?
I have a large road case (2.5 / 2.5 / 3 feet) that I need to weigh. It is too big to fit on one scale. Would it work to place one scale under each of the 4 wheels and average the 4 weight readings? My physics-fu is not strong enough to figure this one out on my own. Help!
posted by TheCoug at 10:45 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by TheCoug at 10:45 PM PST - 13 comments
Language school in Beijing needs social media advice.
Please help. I work for a language school that teaches Mandarin Chinese to foreigners inside China. We specialize in one month intensive teaching for beginners. We want to increase our social media presence and have some (even though we do say so ourselves) excellent stand alone ideas to do this.
They are educational free formats that allow people to study Chinese online in creative ways. We don't know the best way to present them though. Should they be 'onsite' options through our main webpage,or would they be better served as stand alone entities with their own page and an affiliation to our main company website?
Any thoughts and shared best practice would be greatly appreciated.
Vancouver BC area: How to calculate your income tax?
BC'ers - how do you calculate the rate of income tax you should be paying? After googling I'm coming across wildly different rates for brackets, as well as terms like 'average rate' and 'marginal rate' (what are these? The internet doesn't want to tell me!) I normally do my own taxes at home (UK) but am being driven round the bend trying to get the figures for this.
I can't paint, but I want to make some paintings.
I want to make some paintings that basically look like this--basically some flat fields of hopefully compatible colors on canvas. I don't care if what I make is real art, I mainly just want to add some color to the room. I went to the craft store and was kind of confused by all the different options for paint.
Let's just assume I pick a set of colors I like -- what do I need to buy to make the painting, other than a canvas? What kind of paints, which colors, what kind of brush, what else do I need? How do I mix the colors? I'm not under any illusions that I'm going to make anything good, I just want to get some colors down on canvas in a hopefully appealing way. If I picked a palate from a site like colourlovers, is there a way to order the paints premixed in those colors or what that be a bad idea?
What to do with an unpublished, undated short story by my grandfather.
I recently found a short story written by my deceased grandfather that has no date or any hints as to when he might have written it. Am I out of luck on dating it, and should I just publish it as is with no special fanfare? [more inside]
Highfalutin' Genre Fiction
Give me your most well written genre fiction! [more inside]
How long should my teeth be sensitive after a cavity?
I got a few fillings about five weeks ago. I'm still having some temperature-related sensitivity. (More to cold than heat, but a bit to both.) Not, like, really painful, but annoying. How long is normal for this to persist? At what point would I want to contact the dentist or go in to have them look at it? And if it's a problem, what are the most likely explanations?
YANMD. Thanks!
posted by pdq at 6:16 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by pdq at 6:16 PM PST - 23 comments
How to mute an iPhone 5 microphone when recording via auxiliary cable?
Is there a way to mute or turn-off this microphone while recording audio and only record the input from the sound system? [more inside]
Making a home accessible for others in emergency
How can I deal with a ticked off strata president who is threatening to hold me personally liable for any floods to my suite? [more inside]
Jobs Involving Cities, w/o math + grad school
I love cities, I love walking around in them, I love learning about them, and I would like to make a career out of this. Caveats: I do not want to deal with math/science, and I would really rather not go to grad school. [more inside]
Overwhelming need for intimacy.
I've been really lonely the past year or two, and it's been very overwhelming how much I've missed being with someone. I romanticize women I come across and it always leads to disappointment. How do I stop doing this? [more inside]
posted by morning_television at 4:04 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by morning_television at 4:04 PM PST - 18 comments
After decades of it, I think I've had my fill. Too bad for me, eh?
How do I learn to better cope with the cumulative effects of sexual harassment? I feel like at some point I used to know how to keep it from getting under my skin, but not so much anymore. I sense a deep resentment building in my core, and I need your guidance/coping skills, please. [more inside]
posted by heyho at 4:01 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by heyho at 4:01 PM PST - 44 comments
What 3 monitors for the Ergotron LX Triple Display Lift Stand?
After reading previous AskMe threads suggesting that three monitors is best to avoid the neck strain from constantly looking left or right with two, I want to get a Ergotron LX Triple Display Stand and three monitors to go with it. The problem is it's hard to find monitors these days that will fit into the LX Triple Display's dimensional specifications. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Toddler hunger strike
I know that picky toddlers are so common they are a cliché, but I really need help with mine. He has nutritional deficiencies that have disrupted his sleep (and therefore his daytime mood) due to his unwillingness to eat anything but cheerios, crackers, and fruit. We've tried different strategies but nothing seems to work. Advice? [more inside]
posted by arcticwoman at 3:23 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by arcticwoman at 3:23 PM PST - 42 comments
Best one-pot soup, stew, or casserole recipes for crockpots?
Looking for soup, stew, or casserole recipes where I can spend ten minutes dumping stuff in the crockpot in the morning and have a full meal ready when I get home. Something like this is ideal; the only prep is chopping an onion before setting it and forgetting it until dinnertime. No dietary preferences or restrictions, but some vegetables would probably be good. I'm seeing a lot of recipes online, but am having a hard time weeding out which ones are worthwhile, and would appreciate any favorites you care to share.
posted by stellaluna at 3:21 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by stellaluna at 3:21 PM PST - 26 comments
How do you keep track of variations of your resume?
Here's a question that seems like it should be pretty basic, and yet I'm struggling! I'm applying to summer internships in many different fields (journalism, consulting, PR, etc) and am trying diligently to tailor my resume and cover letters to each individual place. But for resumes, it's frustrating to try to keep track of what belongs in each specific version. Do you have any strategies for keeping things organized? I'm thinking of making a template with allll of my experience and verbose descriptions, then trimming it down as needed every time. Any feedback on this idea, or other strategies?
Should we share our engagement in our holiday cards?
There is a significant chance that by this time next month, my boyfriend and I will be announcing our engagement to our families. We send out a holiday card every year, timed to arrive around New Year's. The cover of the card is usually a goofy photo of us (things like American Gothic, or us in a high stakes Big Wheels race). If indeed we decide to go public with our engagement, we've talked about this year's goofy photo somehow indicating that we're planning to get hitched. I think it would be fun! But I'm worried--even if we do announce our engagement, we won't have any plans yet for an actual wedding, and we certainly won't be able to invite everyone on our holiday card list to a wedding when one happens. Would the recipients of our holiday cards be likely to think that they're invited to a wedding, by virtue of having received this card?
Help me hold it together for the next 3 weeks
I have a history of anxiety, but two years ago began feeling well enough that I stopped all medication and treatment, and did fine until the past couple of weeks, when I experienced a trigger (dental pain). The teeth and the pain are getting taken care of--but the anxiety just continues to balloon out of control. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I am just a thrumming, chain-smoking ball of nerves. I missed work for the first time over this today, and know I need help.
So I am seeking it: I have scheduled an appointment with a psychiatrist--my previous one moved away--but his first available is in 3 weeks. (His office advised me to go to the ER if I needed help before the appointment.) So now I just have to hold it together between now and then so I don't completely lose my mind or miss enough work to threaten my job.
Oh, HiveMind, please help me. [more inside]
Should I get a PhD?
I'm about to finish an MPA. I find myself very drawn to a PhD in Urban Studies. Is this a bad idea? [more inside]
Help me descifer the background lyrics to George Harrison's Let It Roll
I was just listening to The Ballad of Sir Frankie Crisp (Let It Roll) by George Harrison and I noticed there are some background lyrics and I can't understand them. The very low singing voices can be cleraly heard towards the end of the song but can be heard first from the 1:30 mark. Can you help these tired ears satiate their curiosity? [more inside]
posted by omegar at 2:14 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by omegar at 2:14 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me sort some problems.
How do I make the changes I want and actually see them through? Breaking life long habits. [more inside]
First time Eulogist. Helpful hints?
A very very dear friend died unexpectedly recently and I have been asked by the family to be among the non-family members who will speak at his memorial service. I've only ever spoken at my mother's memorial service, and I cheated by reading her favorite psalm. I know some things to do and some not to do, but I think I need more thoughts from the hivemind. [more inside]
Why does my iPhone 4S only ring half of the time?
I have an iPhone 4S with IOS 7.0.3 installed and my phone only rings about half of the time. The other half of the time when someone calls, it just goes straight to my voicemail and doesn't ring at all on my end. How do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by timpanogos at 12:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by timpanogos at 12:57 PM PST - 8 comments
I would walk 500 miles... Or would I?
I walk and hike a lot for exercise and to meet my dog's needs. But I'm having trouble going longer distances without some hip pain and tiredness. I just signed up for a 12 mile hike with 2200+ feet elevation gain in early December with friends. I don't want to have to back out. How can I up my mileage? [more inside]
Xmas gift for the Singapore bound
I am looking for a Christmas gift for my 22 year old sister.
Next summer she is planning to go to Singapore for a year to join her expat boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by Omnomnom at 12:33 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Omnomnom at 12:33 PM PST - 7 comments
I think i might be cursed...
When it comes to successfully storing and backing up my large photo, video, and music collection. Drives just keep failing and i'm at a crossroads of what direction to take in dealing with all this. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Which front-loading washing machine should I buy?
I need to buy myself a washing machine for the first time. Which is fine, but the difficulties are: I've just moved to Germany, speak no German, don't have a car, and don't know anything about washing machines. I'd like to keep this under €500 if possible (can go to €600 if necessary) and obviously lower is better, but I also want a decent machine. Buying online seems to make sense given my language issues (cheers google translate) and amazon.de lists 437 items under that price. Please help me work out which one I actually want to buy. [more inside]
posted by shelleycat at 12:24 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by shelleycat at 12:24 PM PST - 12 comments
There's still time to elope and pocket the difference
It's time for us to start spending money for our wedding. How do we do this? [more inside]
What is this Australian expression?
"Cheer up, _____." What is the missing word in this Australian expression said in reference to a person striving to be fashionable by affecting that stereotypical model look--gaunt, unsmiling, and miserable? I heard it probably seven or eight years ago. It's driving me crazy!!
Is there a good free alternative to GoToMeeting?
For a not for profit political organisation based in the UK. Would like attendees to have phone and internet based options if possible, but I am aware this may not be an option. Many thanks!
I want to go deeper, IYKWIM
I would love to read an LGBT blog that's more substantive than the usual fare of today's politics and pop culture. It could cover all kinds of topics, as long as it was through an LGBT lens. Ideal would be The Toast's LGBT posts with more male and genderqueer voices (but no less feminist). A close second would be something like Ta-Nehisi Coates' blog, written by someone queer. What's out there? [more inside]
What exactly did Disney get when they acquired Lucasfilm?
I'm trying to identify what assets were acquired in Disney's purchase of Lucasfilm. Since Disney is a publicly traded company, would this information be located in any type of detailed document? One area I'm particularly wondering about is movie props from the Star Wars and Indiana Jones films - does Disney own them or did Lucas keep them?
What kind of laywer do I need?
I sold an RV in a mobile home park and the person, who currently lives in the trailer, has stopped paying. I need to know what kind of lawyer I need to talk to in order to get the trailer back. [more inside]
posted by zug at 11:32 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by zug at 11:32 AM PST - 7 comments
Sampling Design for Spatial Statistics
I'm designing an experiment to measure the influence of the proximity of one type of geographic feature on another, but I am worried that my sampling design might introduce bias where many features are in close proximity. [more inside]
Daily writing practice.
I'd like to begin a daily writing practice, to be hosted on a semi-public blog (that is, it's public but not promoted, and not for anyone but myself). [more inside]
Hungarian recipes
My kitchen is full of cabbage, and some dried Hungarian peppers (whole) and sweet Hungarian paprika (powder). What do you recommend I make?? Bonus level 1: South or Eastern Hungarian, if you know any regional specialty. Bonus level 2: vegetarian, but includes more than just the cabbage.
posted by whatzit at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by whatzit at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
Getting IMAP on Outlook.com to Work
I expected that when Outlook.com (not the MS Office app) went to IMAP that I could delete an email while viewing on my smartphone and it would be gone when I looked at my account on my computer. But it's not working that way at all. I wrote to Microsoft but, ha ha, never heard back. I searched online but didn't find out anything that answered my question. So I'm coming to all of you. If it helps I have an iPhone and use Macs for my computers.
posted by Taken Outtacontext at 9:57 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Taken Outtacontext at 9:57 AM PST - 14 comments
Bizarre 60s/70s art film ID
Probably a long shot, but here goes. In '88 or '89, I attended a scholarship-paid class at the Art Institute of Chicago. All the students were high schoolers. The class was referred to as "Time Arts" and was about multi media art.
During the workshop portion of classes, our instructor would have various films playing at one end of the studio, just as background imagery and conversation starters. Pretty sure he pulled them from the school's library. I would like to identify one of these films. My description of what I remember inside, so if you know 60s-70s avant-garde (probably short) art films, please help. [more inside]
posted by jeff-o-matic at 9:53 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by jeff-o-matic at 9:53 AM PST - 6 comments
Please recommend the best scented liquid hand soap
I want to get fantastic smelling liquid hand soap as a gift. I.e., the kind that makes you happy to smell your hands all day. [more inside]
posted by Xalf at 9:49 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Xalf at 9:49 AM PST - 31 comments
How to manage an LDR when there's no end to the distance in sight?
I have just moved to a new city for my dream job and I can’t stop crying. Long distance relationship woes inside. [more inside]
Je veux lire de l'histoire française
I'm in the middle of In Search of Lost Time. It's interesting me in French history. It's better to learn about it from non-fiction, though, since Proust mixes real figures and facts with ones he made up. What good books are there about any period of French history between 1789 and, say, 1939? Popular or academic books are fine, and they don't have to concern themselves with wars, arms races, and treaties, either. Cultural histories are good.
posted by Rustic Etruscan at 9:41 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Rustic Etruscan at 9:41 AM PST - 21 comments
I need help creating some posters. I have no idea what I'm doing.
I'm volunteering for a local organization and we're putting on an outdoor gear swap in a few weeks. Somehow I have been tasked with creating a couple of posters to publicize the event. I don't know the best way to go about doing this. While I feel I have a pretty good eye for graphic design, I'm not sure about the best software to use for creating posters or how to find good images to include. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
Should I port my cell phone number to my new employer?
I've had my cell phone number for 10 years. My new employer is a large non-profit organization (thousands of employees). They'll buy me a new phone and pay for the service. They won't just reimburse me for my service plan as my last employer did. I don't really want to carry a second phone and have a second plan. It seems that if I want to take advantage of this benefit, I'd need to use the university phone as my primary phone and port my phone number over to the university. I'm trying to figure out if I should do this. [more inside]
Female villains whose motivations aren't 'feminine'?
I've been in the mood for media with interesting villains and antiheros lately, and it suddenly occurred to me that I'd like to see some interesting female villains. But I don't want them to be Disney-villain-esque women whose motives are defined by their femininity. Suggestions? [more inside]
How many fond fools serve mad jealousy? At least one that I know of...
My amazing man-friend is doing nothing wrong...so why am I so damned insecure? Help me slay my terrible and persistent case of green-eyed monsteritis! [more inside]
posted by Dorinda at 9:02 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Dorinda at 9:02 AM PST - 22 comments
Reason some American movies open on Thursday instead of Friday?
The official release date for the film Thor: Dark World is Friday, November 8th in America. Yet, my local theater chain and presumably others will have viewings on Thursday, some as early as 8pm. Is there a particular reason for this, besides an attempt to make more money on the initial weekend opening?
Question about Verizon unlimited data plan and adding new line..
We're thinking of adding another line to our family Verizon plan - currently we have 3 people month to month, grandfathered in on unlimited data. Will we lose that if we add a new line/purchase a phone through them? [more inside]
posted by needlegrrl at 8:39 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by needlegrrl at 8:39 AM PST - 6 comments
How do I learn to budget and reduce my debt?
I'm living with just shy of $50,000 of debt. That's actually pretty crazy to say.
$18k of it is credit card debt. $22k of it is owed to the IRS (terrible decisions while freelancing). It was recently down to $20k, but I missed one of my monthly $500 schedule payments so I got hit with a sizable penalty. The rest of it is a Sallie Mae student loan. [more inside]
Better [not] call [me,] Saul!
Help! I keep getting calls from personal-injury lawyers, and I can't make them stop! [more inside]
posted by Strange Interlude at 8:20 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Strange Interlude at 8:20 AM PST - 8 comments
What's the right software for printing and tracking quarterly invoices?
I'm looking for recommendations for a piece of software that automates printing and tracking quarterly bills to a few hundred customers that receive an ongoing service from a small business. I want to be able to import all the customers from Excel or something, place them in groups that pay different rates, and then EASILY print invoices once a quarter. Each invoice should come out automatically with the current rate for the group the customer is in. As the checks come in, I want to be able to enter those against the customers so I can track who has paid and who is behind. [more inside]
posted by steveminutillo at 8:18 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by steveminutillo at 8:18 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me be a morning person - just this once!
Big job interviews tomorrow - starting way earlier than my brain usually does. Help? [more inside]
WordPress malware. I can't log in. Help!
My beloved website, MicroHorror.com, seems to have been infected with malware, and I can't log in to WordPress. Please help! [more inside]
posted by Faint of Butt at 8:14 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Faint of Butt at 8:14 AM PST - 8 comments
Found in Translation
International fiction: Help me find lists/reviews online of popular international authors. Caveat: their work must be available IN TRANSLATION to English, i.e., not originally written in English. [more inside]
School bus drivers workday pay.
I live in Boston where public school bus drivers are threatening to strike. They pickup kids and drive them to school and return they home at the end of the day. Are they paid for the down time between runs or are they only paid for actual driving time?
posted by BillyAnne at 7:51 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by BillyAnne at 7:51 AM PST - 4 comments
Audio for Sale -- lots of it
How might I distribute approximately 750MB of DRM free audio to paying customers? [more inside]
posted by popcassady at 7:19 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by popcassady at 7:19 AM PST - 4 comments
Ways To Help People in Need with Writing or Film Skills?
St. Louis friend trained as a writer and filmmaker wants to use his skills to help people in need/suffering. Does anyone in the area (the city, or St. Louis County) know of any volunteering options for him? He already has an office job, but career suggestions would be welcome, though I think volunteering is more of an immediate interest. National and local organizations anyone knows of in the area are welcome. Thanks!
Should I continue seeing this guy who is in an open relationship?
It started out casual but a few months in I have started to develop feelings - and he still has a girlfriend who he is in an open relationship with. I know I don't want a relationship with him (open or otherwise) as we are too different, but is there any way I can make this work casually without getting too emotionally involved? [more inside]
posted by pennywise_1 at 7:02 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by pennywise_1 at 7:02 AM PST - 27 comments
How, specifically, do you break up with someone?
Yet another break up question: I've decided to end it with my partner of about a year and a half, and I'll keep to the typical advice of being respectful, doing it face to face, making a clean break with no contact, etc. But what exactly do I do? Where? How? When? [more inside]
Need help finding a doctor to talk about PrEP.
I'm a 35-year-old, gay male (in Silicon Valley) who is looking to jump back into the dating pool after a long absence. A bit after reading this post on Truvada for pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) I thought I might be a candidate for it. I talked to my primary care doctor and although he though it as worth looking into, he didn't have any experience with Truvada and referred me to an infectious disease specialist. Unfortunately my experience with the specialist wasn't great; I felt like he dismissed the idea of PrEP almost out of hand and without really discussing my concerns or possible HIV risk factors. ... [more inside]
Wait a minute, that's not kosher.
I love Nathan's cheesesteak sandwiches. Friday I ended up being very disappointed after walking across campus to find they were closed. [more inside]
posted by Talia Devane at 5:51 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Talia Devane at 5:51 AM PST - 22 comments
Buying an impressive world map for my wife for christmas - how & where?
Trying to buy a classy map for my wife's christmas present. Are there any places online that are a bit more than simply a "poster print shop"? [more inside]
Setting boundries with parents, what is the best approach at 30?
I am 30 years old, I have been pretty independent (I left NY to move to VA when I was 21 to go to college and have been here since). My parents recently moved 3 miles from my house about two years ago... it is a blessing, but sometimes it is difficult. I feel I carry "guilt" that I need to keep them company or keep my Mom busy since they don't have any friends or family here, so it makes me feel like I owe them a lot of my time since they basically moved here for me. If I dont call her or see her twice a week its like I've "abandoned" them. How do I get my parents to see this without it sounding like I don't "need" them in my life as much? [more inside]
posted by BrandNewMe at 4:49 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by BrandNewMe at 4:49 AM PST - 15 comments
What happens in your mind at poetry readings?
I take poetry pretty seriously. I read poems carefully and can break them down analytically or use intuition and imagination to get what I think is meaningful personal response.
However, at live poetry readings my mind wanders and I'll grasp what's being read mostly in fragments and maybe one or two whole poems for the evening.
I'm fine with this, and see it as a partial stage in a life-long mindfulness practice. But I'm wondering what happens in other literate and intelligent people's minds when they are at readings. Do you hear the poems in their full-blown significance? Do you think about the clothes attendees are wearing, or the delivery quirks of the presenting poet, or what?
E-reader app for ipad (ios 5.1.1) that can manage DRM?
So, a patron at my library wants to read our e-books on his old ipad. The ipad can only be uppgraded to ios 5.1.1 because it's from the first generation. The app we usually recommend (bluefire reader, I´m in Sweden so no overdrive-model here) requires ios 6.0. The app must be able to manage epub with DRM. Does anyone know if such an app exists?
posted by Tawny Owl at 2:48 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Tawny Owl at 2:48 AM PST - 4 comments
I really like you, but...
I've had trouble connecting with people for most of my life, now it's just getting ridiculous.. [more inside]
November 3
Looking for mens M-1965 Jacket with extra pockets.
Can anyone recommend a mens M-1965 Jacket with in-collar hood and side pockets hidden under the lower cargo pockets? And potentially in XS? I wear a 34 Short suit if that helps with sizing.
How do I get my Finder icon back?
Not satisfied with the dated icon used for the finder on my Mac, I did a little research and discovered a way to replace the icon using System>Library>CoreServices>Dock>Finder.png. I replaced the default PNG files with an updated version. They were labeled correctly as well (finder.png, finder@2x.png) but when I inputed the dock restart command in terminal, the space where the icon was supposed to be was totally empty!
What did I do wrong and what can I do to fix it? [more inside]
Yule Be Swell! Yule Be Great!
We will be hosting a very large Yule gathering in our home next month, and I need ideas on ways to feed people affordably but impressively with simple but very elegant dishes. We set the bar pretty high last year, so the H is O. [more inside]
Hall Monitors: Separating Fact and Fiction
How did hall monitors in American schools actually work? [more inside]
posted by Ndwright at 9:19 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Ndwright at 9:19 PM PST - 18 comments
Unbreakable iPhone cables: Do they exist?
I'm looking for recommendations for iPhone cables that last longer than a month or two. I have a 4S - so the old kind of cable, not the lightning kind. [more inside]
posted by artychoke at 8:40 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by artychoke at 8:40 PM PST - 14 comments
Where can I find chocolates wrapped in sports ball foil wrappers?
I'm looking for chocolates wrapped like soccer balls, footballs, basketballs, etc etc. [more inside]
What to do on New Years in New York City? 2013
Mr. Slothhog and I will be in NYC for New Years Eve.
We are going with 3 other lovely friends.The actual holiday is one of our group's actual 40th birthday. Interest has been expressed in attending a party... Please give us input about things that will make this visit amazing, especially the ringing in of the new year!
Another midlife crisis?
I lean to the insane side of life when it comes to always trying to change. I have tried three times now to change from an enterprise programmer to SOMETHING! ANYTHING else... Here I am trying again... bound for failure? [more inside]
What science experiments can I do with a balloon full of carbon dioxide?
This Halloween I did some Halloween candy science experiments with my nieces and nephew. One of the experiments we didn't get to do (but soon will) is: Pouring Pop Rocks into a bottle of pop will make all that pent-up carbon dioxide escape but not fizz over. If you put the rocks into a balloon, then fit the balloon over the bottle's mouth and let the rocks fall in, it inflates the balloon with carbon dioxide. But what can I do with a balloon full of carbon dioxide? ...Is it a stupid idea to inhale it to see if I get a funny voice? [more inside]
posted by Jacob Knitig at 7:21 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Jacob Knitig at 7:21 PM PST - 12 comments
Mama's Going to Buy You a Mockingbird Book
I'm trying to track down a book from my childhood that is a version of the Mama's Going to Buy You a Mockingbird song. [more inside]
posted by SpacemanStix at 7:21 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by SpacemanStix at 7:21 PM PST - 6 comments
Christmas Hamper Help Needed - Wholefoods Edition
I pride myself on being the best gift giver ever and I think I have nailed the idea for my Secret Santa this year, a Wholefoods Cookbook with accompanying produce. The thing is, I don't really know what wholefoods are, and the book is a week or 2 away (being sent from OS). I need this gift in the post around mid November so want to start my shopping for the produce now. Please help me, what kinds of awesome things can I put in the hamper? It can be snacks and grocery type things for cooking. Nothing that needs to be refrigerated. Im thinking dried beans, wholemeal pasta, that kind of thing. The book is 'Cooking with Wholefoods: A guide to healthy natural ingredients, and how to use them with 100 delicious recipes... by Nicola Graimes.' Thank you.
posted by Youremyworld at 7:12 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Youremyworld at 7:12 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me find this book!
I’m trying to find a book I loved in elementary school, but I remember very little about it and I’m hoping Metafilter can help. [more inside]
Ensuring the best possible outcome for a renter's insurance claim
Mildew in our apartment destroyed a lot of my stuff, and I would like to make a claim on my renter's insurance. I am looking for advice about how to go about this to ensure that this goes as best for me as possible. [more inside]
Old Dog. New Tricks? New computer for kid...buy something I grok or not?
The 6th grader has to have a new computer. (We homeschool and half of the kiddo's classes are online.) I was very happy with the Dell that had Windows 7 (stolen out of the car this morning.) Problem: I am the IT department. I fear the windows 8 learning curve. Do I get the windows 7 laptop (super-easy for me) or do I get the 8 and the touchscreen because that's the newest tech? [more inside]
posted by gravitypanda at 6:27 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by gravitypanda at 6:27 PM PST - 11 comments
I want to see the 1527 Puerto Rico Revolt.
Trying to find paintings, statues, illustrations, etc of the 1527 Puerto Rico Revolt (as described on page 398 of volume 2 of Encyclopedia of Slave Resistance and Rebellion). Any concrete ideas? [more inside]
145:110... 132:114... 114:101... what does this page of numbers mean?
At the local dog park, someone apparently found two Post-it notes, covered in strange number pairs, and pinned them to the lost&found board because, well, they look like they might be important! Since then, there's been much speculation about what these numbers might be for, what they might mean. Rather then type it all out, I have an image of the notes themselves, here. [more inside]
Did Charles Babbage ever read Leibniz on logic?
Charles Babbage was a prominent member of the Analytical Society, and was at the very least intimately familiar with Leibniz's formulation of calculus. But did he ever read Leibniz's writings on logic? Did the Ars Combinatoria, or any of his writings on the "universal characteristic" or "calculus ratiocinator" influence Babbage's thinking about computation?
Cat suddenly afraid of my coat. Whut?
My cat seems to have developed a sudden fear of... moving dark things? Taking my black jacket off or putting it on sends her running for the bed for hours. And I just reached for my purse on the couch, and the motion of the big black purse sent her scurrying too. No idea what could have triggered this. How do I get her relax again? [more inside]
Best temp agencies in Seattle?
What temp agencies in Seattle would be best for a recent-ish college grad with not much in the way of work experience looking to get her foot in the door? [more inside]
posted by vibratory manner of working at 3:12 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by vibratory manner of working at 3:12 PM PST - 5 comments
(interesting) simple podcasts in Danish
I am trying to 'get my ear in' to Danish. Can anyone recommend some interesting, clear podcasts - largely or wholly - in Danish to help? [more inside]
Who can solve my home's moisture problem?
I have an unusual house, a winterized cabin that's fairly tightly sealed but with a crawl space beneath and no attic (cathedral ceilings). The whole space is heated with one propane stove, the kind with the fake logs and real flames, which is quite nice; a large ceiling fan on the second floor helps move the air around. I have had moisture problems -- condensation on all windows in the winter, mildew growing on certain furniture, books, shoes, etc. for the entire time I've lived here, but it seems like it's been getting slowly worse. Given my unusual HVAC set-up, what kind of specialist should I call to diagnose the problem? I know I could just buy a dehumidifier but I'd rather get to the heart of the problem.
posted by chowflap at 2:51 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by chowflap at 2:51 PM PST - 20 comments
Brain not working. Who should I take it to?
Fatigue, low mood, and cognitive sluggishness, none of which is new but which has been more acute than usual the last few weeks. YANMD, but what kind of professional should I see and what tests should I get? [more inside]
Help me learn the principles of interior design and lighting
I've got loads of inspiration from things like Pinterest and Houzz and blogs, but what I really want to learn are the basic principles of good interior design and lighting. What should I read/watch? [more inside]
Should I go to a reunion of people I haven't seen in 30+ years?
After high school, I pretty much disappeared off the radar of my crowd. I had my reasons, which weren't especially due to anyone I knew then, just my situation led me to make some changes to my locale and I lost touch with them over the years.
Now that Facebook has made looking up people so easy, my posse from high school has tracked me down and wants me to attend a party, a reunion of sorts. One of our cohort passed away unexpectedly and they put out all the stops to locate me once they got wind I was still alive and kicking. [more inside]
posted by diode at 2:23 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by diode at 2:23 PM PST - 27 comments
How do I break up with someone who has anxiety?
I've been casually dating a man for several months. I truly like him, but it's become pretty clear to me that our relationship styles are out of synch. How do I end things without seeming cliche? [more inside]
Financial planner in NYC due to a new job
I'm about to start a job where I make around a 55k salary.
I am wondering how much this will affect my life compared to the approximately 40k salary I've been getting (due to things at my job trying to play with my salary... I can't really comment on this.) [more inside]
Are my new eye bolts going to give me cancer?
I just bought a little bag of eye bolts that I intend to use to keep a screen door inside my house open. After purchasing them, I glanced at the bag and noticed a cancer warning. Uh, WTF? Is it just saying that if I ever decide to eat some eye bolts, it shouldn't be these eye bolts, or is there an actual cancer risk just from having them screwed into a door and frame in my house? And what chemical or chemicals might be involved? Details inside. [more inside]
Herman Miller Aeron Chair question.
Does anyone have enough experience with these to answer this?: I got a used one off craigslist for $200. Works fine except the vertical adjust isn't working at all. Could this be that the hydraulic cartridge needs to be replaced? I'm assuming it is but thought I'd ask around before I bought one. Thanks in advance.
Oven/Range Repair - North Orange County Edition
Hoping I could query the awesomeness of the hive mind for help with referrals to repair an older restaurant model oven/range currently living in a home in north orange county, CA. [more inside]
Getting my batch file to work?
I'm trying to set up a computer for my son. I've got it so instead of launching Windows Explorer, it instead silently loads up a batch file. My problem is working with the darn thing, and getting it to do what I want. Long story short, I want Steam Bit Picture Mode, the VoIP software Mumble, and, if I can, some form of Google Hangouts to load up on computer launch.
My current batch file is included after the break. [more inside]
posted by TrueVox at 12:41 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by TrueVox at 12:41 PM PST - 7 comments
Can you identify this vacation destination (c 1950)?
Back in the '50s my Mom took a trip with her friends to this tropical island somewhere in the Caribbean. Can anyone help me identify where these pictures were taken? Link to the gallery here.
posted by alball at 12:00 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by alball at 12:00 PM PST - 7 comments
How to get my lazy incompetent coworker fired?
How to get my lazy incompetent coworker fired? [more inside]
posted by Mountain28 at 11:45 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by Mountain28 at 11:45 AM PST - 37 comments
What's the Royal Raceway music from Wreck-It Ralph based on?
The Henry Jackman soundtrack for Wreck-It Ralph has a 10 second section at the start of the "Royal Raceway" scene which sounds maddeningly like the opening to some old BBC sports show. I can't place my finger on it. Does anyone know what the violin part is based on, or sounds similar to? Video here at 0:33 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gdnn3mY0tYQ
posted by nevan at 10:59 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by nevan at 10:59 AM PST - 6 comments
Fashion Corset Sewing for the Novice
So, I was gifted some fabulous fabric, enough for a fabulous fashion corset. Never made one, thus I am looking for suggestions for good patterns, excellent kits, books and other resources. I am a reasonably skilled intermediate sewist, with a good machine, near some excellent local shops. I fully intend to practice on less-loved fabric first.
I'm not looking for period accuracy or significant waist reduction, but I am looking to make something more corsetlike than a lightly-boned princess bodice. More steampunk outerwear than Victoria Secret underwear. Most likely I'll pick an underbust as it's intended as an over-my-clothes fashion thing. [more inside]
What can I do with an un-carved pumpkin?
Halloween has come and gone, and whoops--we forgot to carve the pumpkin. What can we do with an uncarved jack-o-lantern style pumpkin? [more inside]
Film & television about 1963.
Any suggestions for film and television, fiction or documentary about 1963, either made at the time or subsequently? [more inside]
Contemporary Spanish language fiction recommendations
I would like some recommendations for contemporary Spanish language fiction. I would like recommendations for authors who might not be well known outside of the Spanish-speaking world and not as likely to be translated, who write literary fiction. I am already familiar with authors well known outside the Spanish-speaking world, such as Borges, Mario Vargas Llosa, Isabel Allende, Gabriel García Márquez. So I would like recommendations that expand my Spanish language reading horizon. For reference, English-language authors I enjoyed reading recently include Don DeLillo, Thomas Pynchon, and Margaret Atwood. (Portuguese language recommendations are also welcome, as I can read in both languages.)
How do I get my apartment to naturally smell like pine?
I'm looking to achieve this without air mists or plug-in air fresheners. Is this possible?
Where can I get an imported Indian mango bookcase in the U.S.
Mango wood bookcases - ubiquitous in the U.K., illusory in the U.S. I'm trying to buy a mango wood bookcase that coordinates with the rest of my mango furniture, and I've found the perfect one, made by Dakota furniture. In fact, I found probably 20 retailers in the U.K. selling this same imported Indian bookcase (as well as more than a hundred on ebay.co.uk). I can't find the same thing in the U.S. for the life of me. I asked my local Indian furniture importer if he could find the same thing and import a couple for me, and he said he doesn't know how to source it. I tried writing a few U.K sellers and they neither are interested in shipping to America nor revealing their sources. Any advice, keen-witted mefites?
posted by stewiethegreat at 8:33 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by stewiethegreat at 8:33 AM PST - 3 comments
Grad school recommendation from someone I only talk to on the phone?
I'm gaining some volunteer experience in my field working for a supervisor I get along with great. I'd like him to write my recommendation letter for grad school. Problem: We've only met once in person, and that was five months ago. I've been working for him since then and communicating via phone and email.
Is it appropriate to ask him for a recommendation letter? I'm not sure if he knows *me* so much as my work, but we do have a good working relationship.
Can't determine if this is a fraudulent email or not...
I received an email at ~4:30 PM (EST) from a @ucia.gov email account. It was in regards to a scholarship program from the CIA to which I had applied, stating that they had liked my online application, and wanted to learn more about me. The problem is that I can't determine, given what I'm looking at, whether it's fraudulent or not. [more inside]
Which coin is most plentiful?
Of all coined currencies in histories, which in their day, or today (kinda two part question) were the most plentiful? Not used in transactions but just physically existed, minted minus lost.
iOS 7 shares everyone's contacts?
An office full of iPhones. As each person updates to iOS7, their Contacts show up on the other updated phones. Why? [more inside]
How to get from Toronto to Woodbridge on a Sunday, and then back again
I have a baby shower to attend at two this afternoon, on Amarone Avenue in Woodbridge. I'm presently at my home in the west end of Toronto. I had thought I could take the GO, but it seems it doesn't go to Woodbridge on Sunday. How can I get there and back on public transit?
Updating NAV and Windows 7 on laptop that I haven't used for a year
Am I likely to get a virus on a laptop that hasn't been updated for a year, while I wait for new updates? [more inside]
iOS syncing issues via Outlook/iCloud. Can it be done?
I have an iphone and an ipad which I use daily. Due to work policies, my data is setup via Outlook (not Exchange) and synced via iTunes to both devices. I use iCloud to maintain mirrored info for websites, pictures, etc but NOT contacts.
I'm getting tired of having to plug both devices in to sync them to the same data. Is there anyway to use iTunes to sync to my phone and then use iCloud to maintain data integrity across to the ipad? Or will this end up giving me duplicates in my Outlook contacts?
Help me manage my meetings better. Please!
I run an artists’ group which meets monthly. The group is made up of some very talented and creative people and has gone from strength to strength over the two years it’s been running; so much so that we are now working on collaborative projects that take quite some organising and involve finance, tax, insurance etc. Obviously, this is exciting and we want to continue to expand. However, this means that we have to have ‘business’ meetings on a regular basis and it’s become woefully evident to me that I can’t chair / facilitate these meetings for toffee. [more inside]
Can I be recommended some particular acid/minimal techno please.
Can I be recommended some music similar to the link below please.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhUvTssIEek
I already enjoy stuff like Plastikman, Mikkel metal, Burger & ink, Hardfloor, David August etc. But can't find much like the link (Coming Down Band Slow Mo Acid).
Where should I start with Captain America?
I've been following the MeFi threads that discuss Captain America religiously, and love what I read. Assembled Cap fans of MeFi, where should I start on the actual comics? [more inside]
posted by kalimac at 1:52 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by kalimac at 1:52 AM PST - 9 comments
One Second of Red Light Camera Flash = 1 Month of Worrying
Could a red light camera flash lead to an unregistered vehicle ticket due to just-expired out-of-state plates? [more inside]
Controlling phone usage
An elderly parent is suffering from an illness which impairs lucidity and judgment, and make inappropriate use of the phone (running Android Taking the phone away is a last resort. Do others have experience of managing this? Are there any technological or human hacks we could use to manage this without distressing them?
Not US based, if it matters. [more inside]
posted by sockofdreams at 12:09 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by sockofdreams at 12:09 AM PST - 21 comments
November 2
Bakery for Boston Cream Pie in the Bay Area (South Bay)?
Are there any bakeries in the southern part of the Bay Area (say from Redwood City to San Jose) that make a really excellent Boston Cream Pie? This is for a birthday request for this specific type of cake. Prefer to avoid supermarket bakeries, where I have usually found previously frozen cakes of dubious quality.
How does taking a mineral in .2% of daily value help?
I bought this product "Multiple Minerals" because I was trying to follow a particular healthy skin diet. I read that I should take Maganese, Silica and a few other things this product had but I just noticed the amounts are around .2 % of the daily allowance average. I'm confused as to how this would benefit me. Is this product a total rip off?
Probability and a rather unique deck of cards.
Each card in a certain deck has three letters on it.
The first letter is either A, B, or C.
The second letter is either D, E, F, or G.
The third letter is either H, I, J, K, or L.
Every possible combination is represented exactly once in the deck. Ergo, there are 3x4x5=60 cards in the deck.
How can I determine the probability that a hand of X cards, drawn randomly from the deck, will include at least one of each of the letters?
posted by CustooFintel at 9:44 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by CustooFintel at 9:44 PM PST - 32 comments
MERLIE
Recommend a TV (sci fi/fantasy?) show for my sister and I to marathon through. Difficulty level: not that hard, actually. [more inside]
Blues my face off!
I'm looking for some really hard, heavy blues rock to listen to because an entire playlist made up only of Led Zeppelin, the Black Keys, and Jimi Hendrix gets kind of repetitive after a while. Can anyone recommend artists along the lines of those three? I'm really looking for stuff that is loud, in-your-face, sexy, maybe psychedelic, and HARD.
posted by capricorn at 7:14 PM PST - 60 comments
posted by capricorn at 7:14 PM PST - 60 comments
Tumblr reordering acting haywire :/
I'm trying to reorder the posts on my tumblr blog and it's acting all kinds of crazy. halp me! [more inside]
Home, home on the...market
Give me your best home selling tips and tricks. [more inside]
posted by MayNicholas at 6:21 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by MayNicholas at 6:21 PM PST - 37 comments
Advice needed for job interview in research administration
I have an important job interview coming up this Tuesday, and I was hoping for some advice on how to handle the interview and, specifically, how to address my weaknesses productively while highlighting my strengths. [more inside]
Why is my CPU so hot?
...or is it?
For the last month or so, my PC (Windows 7, home-built ASUS P8B WS mobo, Xeon E3-1240 v2 Ivy Bridge, AMD FirePro V5900) has been abruptly shutting down (acting like a reset, everything immediately powers off including fans, power LED, etc, then reboots on its own) usually when doing graphically intensive things. I believe the CPU is hitting its thermal max & shutting down, but the evidence is mixed: if I take a look at the CPU temp in the BIOS monitor on restart immediately after one of these events, it's cool (40ish C) and if I continue into Windows and look at CPU temps in SpeedFan, I begin to get puzzled: Core0 through Core 3 temps vary around 30C at idle, but the "CPU" temp is up in the 80-90C range.
Why could be causing the elevated temps at idle and why the discrepancy between temps described above? [more inside]
posted by skyscraper at 5:41 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by skyscraper at 5:41 PM PST - 19 comments
I want replacement LED/CFL lightbulb same as 100 watts
Can anyone link me to some place I can buy a lightbulb the same brightness and size as a 100 watt incandescent bulb? [more inside]
I celebrate the me yet to come
Every year my boyfriend and I make up a theme for our resolution for the year. 2014 is going to be "I Sing The Body Electric." We then do things along this theme. The idea for 2014 is that we make our bodies feel awesome, inside and out. What fun and transformative things should we do? [more inside]
posted by andreapandrea at 4:45 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by andreapandrea at 4:45 PM PST - 25 comments
That belongs in a museum! ...Here's my card.
I would like to know more about how, in this day and age, major museums acquire ancient relics that have only recently been discovered. Who are the middlemen involved between someone discovering a cache of artifacts, and said objects ending up at a Smithsonian-level institution? Are there brokers for such things? Museum auctions? [more inside]
posted by np312 at 4:33 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by np312 at 4:33 PM PST - 13 comments
A mummy you can look up to.
I would like to read some stories with good-guy/gal mummies! Are there any mummy protagonists out there? Could be main or supporting characters. Could be published best seller or just pretty decent fanfic.
Wait... what?
I'm struggling to parse something that just happened between my car mechanic and I. What the hell happened? Is this a red flag? Am I being lied to or not told something, here? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 2:56 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Sara C. at 2:56 PM PST - 18 comments
My window jamb... is... crumbling! How do I fix it?
My mother's house has these recessed casement windows, and the mystery material the jamb (or maybe jamb extension?) is made of has started to crumble. Whole chunks come out when I put the air conditioners in each spring and take them out every fall, and forget about keeping the window shade hung -- I have yet to find an anchor that won't get pulled out. I'm going to take a stab at fixing it while I'm home for Thanksgiving, so I need help devising a plan of attack that can definitely be completed over a four-day weekend, even if that means it's just a stop-gap band-aid-type repair. [more inside]
How do I put up this swing set?
I'm building this a-frame swing set for our yard. The pieces are all cut, sanded and painted, the hardware is all attached, and the locations for the legs are all level. Now how do I actually put this thing up? [more inside]
Los Angeles, Hollywood Forever, Dia de los Muertos: walkup tickets?
Any know based on previous years whether the Dia de los Muertos event at Hollywood Forever cemetery in Los Angeles is likely to have available walk-up ticket sales during the evening? Or, do they typically sell out?
(All their official communications channels appear to be swamped, and I don't know anyone who's been there late in the day.)
posted by eotvos at 1:28 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by eotvos at 1:28 PM PST - 2 comments
What's this half-remembered quotation about Augustine?
In book 2 of the Confessions St. Augustine describes how he stole some pears out of pure wickedness. I have a vague memory of a prominent US Southern politician saying something about this passage like "Nobody ever made such a fuss about stealing a pear." Am I imagining this? Google searches aren't turning up anything.
Tourist in my home town, Chicago.
I'm going to spend the day exploring Pilsen tomorrow. What are your restaurant, gallery and store recommendations?
A car like a lightning bolt?
Earlier this year, while I was in Germany, I noticed an unusual car. I've never seen anything like it, and my best description of it is that it looked like a lightning bolt. Any ideas what it might be? [more inside]
Why are there so few Indonesian immigrants in America?
Why are there so few Indonesian immigrants in the USA? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 12:17 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 12:17 PM PST - 17 comments
Apple Think Different commercial pulled from Youtube by FOX complaint?
I had 2 versions of the Apple Think Different ad in a playlist from a few months ago. I went to watch them recently and the pages say "This video contains content from FOX, who has blocked it on copyright grounds."
What claim does FOX have to take these down? How can I find out more about the takedown notice. [more inside]
posted by covercash at 12:13 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by covercash at 12:13 PM PST - 4 comments
Electronicsfilter: AC adapter compatible w/ off-brand (System76) laptop?
Can you help me figure out which affordable AC adapter would be compatible with a System 76 Bonobo Extreme laptop ? [more inside]
I can see clearly now the nose-prints are gone...
We have dogs. We have window coverings. The two do not get along. Help us figure out a solution! [more inside]
Help me find a vegan/healthy-friendly, relaxing beach destination
My wife and I are looking for a 4-5 night stay in a couple of weeks. We want somewhere we can relax on the beach, that also has plenty of very healthy places to eat. Vegan-friendly choices are a plus, as are juice bars (or places that serve fresh fruit/veggie juice). [more inside]
posted by entropic at 11:10 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by entropic at 11:10 AM PST - 7 comments
"I really need you to stop existing."
A guy I went on one date with (and was a total creep to me) has crossed every boundary that I've ever set. I need to get him to leave me alone, but being direct isn't working. Help? Snowstorm inside. [more inside]
Anyone done the Michigan Basic Driver Improvement Course?
Looking for the cheapest online option and any words of wisdom from someone who has gone through the course. [more inside]
Yucky-smelling microfleece
Chemical/burning-rubber odor on new microfleece garments. What causes this, and how can I remove it? [more inside]
Best options for DC tours
Family members are coming to visit the D.C. area soon. They want to check out the monuments and museums but don't have a high tolerance for walking all day. What are the best tour options (bus, trolley, etc) to accommodate this? [more inside]
posted by JannaK at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by JannaK at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
To blog or not to blog (anonymously)
I'm starting a blog about a particular subculture. While there are a lot of blogs about this particular thing, there aren't any from the particular perspective that I'll be writing from. I'm wondering if it's best for me to write it anonymously, or to attach my name to it. Outside of my writing, I'm on the path towards a public(ish) career. [more inside]
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 9:25 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 9:25 AM PST - 17 comments
Any tips for planning a funeral?
I suppose just about everybody goes through this process at one time or another, but I (30 year-old man) and my sister (34 year-old woman) are helping my dad plan mom's funeral (after 40 years of marriage and a drawn-out battle with cancer). None of us (dad included) have really had to plan these things, and conflicted advice from different friends and loved ones isn't helping. How do we do this? (and how can this be announced online to friends and acquaintances?) [more inside]
Tips for dealing with Ritalin Crash?
Ritalin is having a good effect on me for ~3 hours. In a few weeks, I am going to take a 3.5-hour-long test. What can I do before/during the test to avoid crashing near the end of it? [more inside]
posted by alon at 9:17 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by alon at 9:17 AM PST - 18 comments
Where to learn about 12v DC electrical type stuff?
I'd like to learn about the basics of 12v electrics. I'm looking for recommendations for books, videos, websites, etc. [more inside]
Resources for animating font shapes in After Effects?
I have been asked to animate some poem titles to be projected during a theatrical performance. I'm not having any luck finding resources. I'm not even sure what I've been asked to do is possible without doing hand-drawn animation. Anyone got any places I could look? [more inside]
Resources for deciding to be a mother?
I'm looking for resources (books, websites, etc.) to help me gain a balanced perspective on whether or not motherhood is right for me, given my anxieties and health issues. [more inside]
posted by Maya Cecile at 8:16 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Maya Cecile at 8:16 AM PST - 16 comments
How can I safely rent out my house long-term?
I have a house I don't use and want to rent it out to an eager family but am a complete novice. What's a good resource for ready-made contract agreements for this? Or should I go to a lawyer and get something drafted up? [more inside]
posted by mateuslee at 7:47 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by mateuslee at 7:47 AM PST - 12 comments
Home is Where the Highway Is
What is it like owning a home near a *loud* highway or other noisy high-traffic roadway? How do you cope? Will I regret buying this house? [more inside]
How long does Clonazepam Withdrawal take to start?
I usually take 1.5 mg twice a week but this week I took it 3 times plus another .5 mg.
I want to stop now.
When do I know I am in the clear as far as withdrawal goes?
I really would like to avoid withdrawal, if it isn't too late.
I took my last dose last night.
New Job, Short Timeline
My landlord informed me last week that he's planning to sell my current flat in March and that I will have to move out sometime around then. That's not too big a deal except that I have been growing more dissatisfied in my current job due to a combination of politics and boredom. That said, there are very few jobs in my field in the local area and so moving job will also require moving house. Am I mad to try and do this by March? [more inside]
Rash and some bleeding in … someplace very uncomfortable
It's a medical question (not a "Should I go to the doctor?" but more like what to do until then). Don't read if you think you're going to be grossed out and don't want to be, but … [more inside]
Where should we celebrate New Year's Eve in Belgrade?
Where should we celebrate New Year's Eve in Belgrade? [more inside]
Once upon a time there was a... uh...
Help papa become a better bedtime storyteller. [more inside]
November 1
How to download videos in Safari 7.0 like could be done on Snow Leopard?
I'm all ready to upgrade to Mavericks (OSX 10.9) except for one thing.
On Snow Leopard (10.6.8), I am able to open Safari's "Activity window" and see most video files as they're loading there (however, not certain sites like Hulu). From that window, it's an easy Option-Click to download said video file. Safari 7.0 doesn't have this ability. Is there a Safari 7.0 add-on or something that will bring this ability back to Safari? [more inside]
What children's books have characters named Daniel?
For a project for my child's school, I need to find children's books (picture books, ideally, and appropriate for 4-8 year olds) that have a main character named Daniel. Not Danny or Dan, sadly, but Daniel. Any leads would be appreciated, since this seems to be un-Google-able.
posted by blahblahblah at 8:12 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by blahblahblah at 8:12 PM PST - 12 comments
looking for a chair that folds in three
When I was little I had this chair that folds into three parts (upper for your back, middle for bottom, and a lower part for legs). When you need to store it all folds up. The "fabric" was a bunch of plastic/vinyl "tubing" pieced together. I'm trying to find something similar but can't find it. It could be best categorized as beach furniture or maybe patio furniture.
This one comes pretty close: here, but I can't find anything else similar to it. Any ideas?
posted by eliluong at 7:57 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by eliluong at 7:57 PM PST - 10 comments
TIPPYCANOE AND TYLER TOO
What are some famous examples of historic campaign slogans and mottoes? [more inside]
posted by Mike Mongo at 7:48 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Mike Mongo at 7:48 PM PST - 35 comments
Do I need a work visa to work *remotely* from another country?
Let's say my wife is transferred by her company to work in Thailand, or China, or Australia, or anywhere outside the US. Her company gets me (her husband) a visa to live in said country with her. While in said country, I want to work remotely for a company based in the US, which does not do business in said country. My company is willing to hire me as an independent contractor.
Do I need a work visa in said country?
I realize this answer will differ from country to country, but I'm curious to see what kind of advice I can get in general on this question.
Claims about Beeswax Candles
Hoping some science oriented Mefites can shed some light on this- many people claim that burning beeswax candles produce 'negative ions' and that these have beneficial effects that include, but are not limited to things such as "negative ions relieve stress, boost energy and alertness levels, reduce the amount of dust mites and dander in the air, and they may help protect against airborne germs by attaching to positively charged ions that are holding other contaminants airborne." How much evidence if any, is there to support these claims and/or how plausible are they?
Help me exacerbate my mad writing crush on Nicole Holofcener!
Last night I saw Enough Said and it blew my mind with how great the writing was as well as the acting. What other movies would the Mefiverse recommend in this vein?
What I liked about it was the characters were deeply defined and multi-layered, behaved as real people would in their circumstances, and held each other accountable for their actions. Bonus points for having a serious lack of Hollywood veneer lacquered over the top of the movie. [more inside]
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:33 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:33 PM PST - 8 comments
Is my answer relevant to this interview question?
I'm a college student who's applying for a healthcare professional school. I went to a school interview today and was asked to address the following prompt: Describe a time when you had to deliver delicate information (verbal) and how did you go about handling this situation? What are the risks involved? [more inside]
Marathon Weekend in NYC
Help me and my kids plan a fun, low-hassle weekend in New York watching Missus_A run the marathon! [more inside]
posted by Mister_A at 5:38 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Mister_A at 5:38 PM PST - 26 comments
Not dyslexia, but what is it? Help me read more books!
I often have to repeat reading a sentence many times before the cadence of the words is correct and then makes sense: DO you want cake? do YOU want cake? do you WANT cake? do you want CAKE? [more inside]
whole-window screenshot application for Mac OS X
Hi, I am looking for a whole-window screenshot application for Mac OS X. I have and use Paparazzi, but need to take SS images of login-state dependent webpages, which Paparazzi can't do.
I would prefer an app that works as SnapzPro used to, where the SS includes all the content below the fold of a webpage and the screenshot-taking app does not need or gain independent login access to the target page.
Thanks in advance!
Please give me words for explaining my boundaries.
Can I explain to someone how their negative behaviors are putting me off, but maintain an amicable relationship with them? I get too emotional to find fair words. [more inside]
How do I teach English to students who don't speak a word?
Can you please help explain to me some techniques and procedures for teaching English to students with whom you don't share a common language? Its private tutoring and the students in this instance are two 10 year olds and they need to be speaking as much as they can in the next couple of months... and I will have them twice a week for an hour. I have an Ipad, a white board, and a copy machine....
time! time! who's got the time?
is there any place in the bay area that doesn't charge a fortune to replace a watch battery? [more inside]
Humor Among Thieves
Our house got broken into, but the thieve(s) stole slightly strange objects. Why? [more inside]
How can you tell if you did well in a coding interview?
(Aside from the recruiter calling you back, that is.) Thought I did well, but no reply so far, and I'm trying to process what's going on and calibrate my expectations in the future. [more inside]
Online career change tools, free or paid for?
I'm seeking a major mid-life career change in the mid term (1 - 3 years) and I'd like to find several online career advice or career change tools that might help me by providing feedback, ideas and and inspiration, because I'm after something entirely new. Questionnaires, that sort of thing, rather than pages of the usual advice. This will supplement my own brainstorming, networking, asking trusted friends etc. [more inside]
posted by dowcrag at 12:28 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by dowcrag at 12:28 PM PST - 6 comments
What to send sponsored child in Zimbabwe?
I'd like to send a package to my newly sponsored World Vision child (a girl) in Zimbabwe. I don't know what I should send, and I don't know what I can send. [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 12:24 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by kitcat at 12:24 PM PST - 13 comments
The Post Bulletin-News Journal Courier-Gazette Sun Times
Can you point me towards some excellent regional newspapers? [more inside]
Where do I start looking for a job?
I don't know where I should be looking in order to search for a job. (Peculiar Einstein-Bose Condensate details inside) [more inside]
Sexsomnia, anyone?
Hi everyone, last night I found out my boyfriend of ~5 months occasionally sleep... sexes? What happened was, last night, several times, he seemed to awake after falling asleep before me, when I moved or got out of bed to go to the bathroom, and say '(my name), I want to lick your pussy' then go right back to sleep. Eventually, he starting touching me in places, and I got turned on, and we ended up having sex. After, he said, 'that was great, but how did it happen?' So, no recollection - he basically woke up inside of me, according to him. [more inside]
Is high-synagogue a thing?
In a religious studies course I took eight or nine years ago, the professor mentioned a Jewish congregation in NYC whose services looked almost identical to high-church Anglican services, just with the liturgies changed out. Now that I live in the New York City area (and am dating someone who is Episcopalian-Jewish), I'm quite interested in checking this out, but nothing I can think to search for on Google is turning up the right results. Any MeFi-ites have any idea which congregation this might be?
posted by naturalog at 11:35 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by naturalog at 11:35 AM PST - 4 comments
Should I vote for Mom with Dementia?
My mom has dementia. For the last 5-6 years, I've helped her fill in her mail-in ballot. We've talked about her choices (to the best of her ability). This is the first election where I feel that she can't participate in choosing who to vote for. I've brought it up with her, but she isn't engaging at all. However, I know how she would want to vote. Voting in every election since she became old enough has been a tremendous point of pride for her. She's always been an engaged and active participant: walking precincts, helping with mailings, going to candidate forums (until the dementia really took hold).
Part of me feels like I would be honoring the person she was by casting this ballot (probably the last one), but part of me feels that by casting her ballot without any participation from her, I'm committing fraud.
What say you, wise Mefites?
posted by agatha_magatha at 11:18 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by agatha_magatha at 11:18 AM PST - 26 comments
Math for CSI
My girlfriend is applying for to work for the city as a crime lab trainee, a position they will train her for, but will be tested for basic knowledge (they are looking for someone with a two-year degree, apparently in anything). The test will include math. What do you think she will need to be sure she's solid on? [more inside]
For crying out loud, where's my libido?
I have a problem. I am a 39-year old woman whose libido declined over a couple of months when I was 33. I can't seem to get it back. I need help thinking outside the box. [more inside]
Excellent baby gifts for new parents
Friends of mine will be new parents! I want to get them a sweet-ass gift. They have a wish list but say they welcome any other gifts not on it if especially good. Veteran parents, what did you wish you had when your baby came along? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:57 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by anonymous at 10:57 AM PST - 30 comments
Fun/rewarding exercise with a focus on controlled movement?
I've never thought of myself as being in good shape, but lately I've noticed that I'm not just weak or slow, I'm also pretty uncoordinated. Now that I see it just I keep seeing it everywhere in my life, and it really bothers me. My movements are pretty twitchy and momentum-based, rather than being deliberate, something I could stop in the middle of at any moment. I want to fix this. When I think of activities that could help me develop that kind of control, I think of like martial arts, or yoga, or something, but I don't really know. I'd love to hear some suggestions. [more inside]
Looking for specific locations in Central Park, New York
Where can these locations (shot in 1968) be found? [more inside]
posted by ouke at 10:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by ouke at 10:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Laying in the sun to kill Norovirus? The Googles they do nothing?
I've got a lot of mixed information Googling about norovirus while working from home and entertaining a few previously ill but recovering and grumpy kids. [more inside]
posted by tilde at 10:14 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by tilde at 10:14 AM PST - 9 comments
My future just doesn't fit anymore
When leaving is terrifying, but staying's unbearable: please help me figure out what to do. [more inside]
posted by morninganyway at 10:09 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by morninganyway at 10:09 AM PST - 42 comments
Going off alcohol for a week. Any tips?
I'm going to not drink alcohol for the next week, and I'm looking for advice on making the transition as smooth as possible. [more inside]
Laptop buying strategy...
Last laptop I bought was from an online boutique shop about 7 years ago and am in the market for a new laptop (in fact I need three for my household right now). Stop! I don't want a recommendation on what to buy...but I do want opinions concerning laptop buying strategy. For the sake of discussion, let's presume I'm buying a Lenovo x230. The options include:
Academic discount through U (I have .edu address and am faculty)
Lenovo Outlet: incl. refurb and scratch-n-dent
ebay
other?
Any Dos and Don'ts about the process?
My friend hit on me and another friend innappropriately. What to do?
I (female, straight, single, late 20’s) had a small party a few days ago. At the end of the night, one friend (we’ll call him Joe) was lingering late. I didn’t suspect anything, until he kissed me out of nowhere. Not sure what to do in follow up, especially considering that this isn't the first time he's done this to a female friend. [more inside]
What is this movie?
I saw a movie a few years ago that was really excellent. Unfortunately, I do not remember the title, or really much of a plot. After scouring google and coming up with nothing, I've come to the great hive mind for an answer. What I remember: the central character is a young boy, who I believe grows up in a family where at one point or another in the film, each member of the family ends up in a mental institution. I think there is a mother, father, and possibly sister. I think the boy becomes a writer at the end. I believe the final shot is of an old man (the boy, grown up?) smiling, then walking up a warmly lit staircase. I know this is a long shot but, any ideas, metafilter? This has been bothering me for years. [more inside]
posted by dysh at 8:07 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dysh at 8:07 AM PST - 4 comments
inerment? innermet? enermunt?
What is the word (if any, apparently) for the misuse of a nonprofit's funds for personal uses? [more inside]
posted by cmoj at 7:44 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by cmoj at 7:44 AM PST - 11 comments
Networking (maybe?) our Macs
My wife and I use Macs, iOS devices, and Apple networking gear. We're thinking about sharing the desk where my Mac Pro is; as a result, if she needs the desk, and I need a computer, I'd have to use her MacBook Pro. What's the best way to network our computers so that we could do our work from whatever computer we're using, have music and/or programs available, etc.? Some details inside. [more inside]
Delicata Squash Me - Difficulty Level: Paleo
I just discovered delicata squash and I'm in love. I roasted some halves that I had planned to cube and put into a salad but it came out too soft and now I have about 2 cups of mashed squash. What are your favorite winter squash recipes - sweet or savory - that use mashed squash as a base? Bonus points if they can be eaten out of hand. Double bonus points (any points, really) if they don't include gluten or grains.
posted by ms_rasclark at 7:38 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ms_rasclark at 7:38 AM PST - 11 comments
Lou Reed for the complete neophyte.
So, say you've got a friend who has never heard anything by Lou Reed or Velvet Underground (seriously, like, not even Sweet Jane or Walk on the Wild Side). And you want to fix this. What is the one album / compilation / playlist you'd give them? Assume this friend has incredibly diverse music taste and is looking for music that remains relevant and powerful today, not so much for music that is "Important" solely because of the role it played in influencing others.
posted by jmstephan at 7:33 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by jmstephan at 7:33 AM PST - 16 comments
How should I proceed with this confusing crush?
What should you do when it would be inappropriate to be romantically involved with someone, yet the attraction between you is so strong it feels like the relationship is gathering momentum and heading towards the inevitable? [more inside]
Nervous cat advice: Over-grooming
How can I help my lady cat calm down and stop over-grooming during a difficult time? [more inside]
posted by Young Kullervo at 6:20 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Young Kullervo at 6:20 AM PST - 12 comments
How to algorithmically identify pretty pictures?
I would like to be able to automatically sort a large amount of images based on pretty or interesting pictures vs ugly or boring pictures (not resolution or jpeg compression or any more 'objective' measure). [more inside]
posted by signal at 6:20 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by signal at 6:20 AM PST - 18 comments
What is this heater, and how much could I expect it to cost me?
What is this type of heating unit? There are two of them in a 600 sq. ft condo I am thinking of purchasing. The listing says it is "Other/Electric." I have only ever seen something like this in a hotel. My memory of them, is that they are finicky and imprecise! I am afraid that the bills are going to get out of control. What kind of utilities might I see from such a thing? Second floor of a low-rise condo, with outside shared hallways. Toronto, so, winter. (The current owner's bills are supposedly inaccurate because they had a newborn, and were keeping it cranked up.) It's helping me decide whether I can afford this condo. (It's by the beach!) Other photos.
posted by typewriter at 5:57 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by typewriter at 5:57 AM PST - 14 comments
How long for a spider to starve
How long will a spider, trapped in a car, take to die? [more inside]
posted by Cannon Fodder at 12:59 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Cannon Fodder at 12:59 AM PST - 11 comments