October 2014 Archives
October 31
How to invest in AI?
Any recommendations for (public or private) companies heavily engaged in artificial intelligence products and research? [more inside]
Finding alternate phrases
What resources or tools are there for finding alternative phrases? As an example, when talking about art, someone might talk about "breaking conventions", "disrupting conventions" or "challenging conventions". However, if you go to a thesaurus and look up "breaking", you have to go through a very long list of words to find these alternatives which is quite time consuming. What tools are there which, when given a short phrase, can find alternatives? I imagine that this should be possible with either machine learning or some kind of wiki.
posted by casebash at 11:24 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by casebash at 11:24 PM PST - 7 comments
Grieving a mentor
A mentor of mine passed away pretty suddenly a few weeks ago. I attended her funeral, cried, wrote out some of my thoughts, and think about her from time to time while listening to music that reminds me of her. This isn't affecting my daily function, but it has been on the back burner for a while. Now what? [more inside]
Help me find a bag big enough for all my tricks?
I'm having no luck trying to find a bag with a large bottom. Can you suggest a bag for me? [more inside]
posted by sadtomato at 9:45 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sadtomato at 9:45 PM PST - 7 comments
Power Pop Me!
Please recommend to me some awesome newish power pop artists/songs! [more inside]
I wasn't vaccinated. Now what?
Which vaccines are most important (and effective) for me to get as an adult, to fulfill the moral imperative of contributing to the herd immunity that I benefit from? [more inside]
posted by femmegrrr at 8:11 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by femmegrrr at 8:11 PM PST - 25 comments
Help me make my musical tastes more pedestrian!
I'm looking for a certain flavor of music—I guess the kids call it indie pop?—with the (often female) vocalist front and center, largely electronic production, relatively sophisticated and grown-up lyrics, and a tendency to borrow freely from dance music (while steadfastly resisting the temptation to go full-on OONSTA OONSTA). [more inside]
What does this graffiti mean, if anything?
Three pieces of graffiti popped up in our neighborhood last night, on three different garages. I'm wondering if they have any sort of meaning, or if they are local gibberish. [more inside]
Programming language for CAD
I'd like to find a programming language that compiles to line drawings. [more inside]
posted by Leon at 3:41 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Leon at 3:41 PM PST - 13 comments
RCA to HDMI
How do I connect RCA cables to a new LED flat screen TV that has only HDMI, RGB, and USB ports? [more inside]
Soup recipes to use with a stick blender
I recently bought a stick blender and made an amazing butternut squash soup, so now I want to make more blended soups. But apparently I'm kind of picky and disagreeable and don't really know what I want, so googling for recipes has left me cold. It's made a bit worse in that I hate cooking (although I'm more than competent at it), so it takes something good to capture my motivation and get me in the kitchen. But I do love warm creamy soup and I have to eat something, so: what are your prize winning, most amazing, tasty pureed soup recipes to make this winter. [more inside]
posted by shelleycat at 3:01 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by shelleycat at 3:01 PM PST - 35 comments
Best practices for freezing food?
Please give me your tips and tricks for insuring any fresh foods you are freezing (meat, bread, etc) remain in the best condition and taste the best when thawed. [more inside]
How Can I Find A Girlfriend In College, Really?
I’m not entirely sure where to post this on the Internet, because it seems that there are a million different opinions out there. It’s like asking, what’s the best diet to lose weight, when everyone will tell you his or her favorite diet. Regardless, I need some help. I need some guidance, a model to follow.
I need to know how to get laid and/or a girlfriend. Preferably, a girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by ggp88 at 2:05 PM PST - 113 comments
posted by ggp88 at 2:05 PM PST - 113 comments
Not my email.
Recently got a new iPhone 6 from Sprint. Today I went to the Find My iPhone app for the first time and someone else's email address is in the email field although it is not logged in. Why is that? No one has had access to my phone. The email address in question is timberlakejs@gmail.com if it matters. Maybe I'm dumb and this is standard, but I couldn't find any answers on Google.
I think I want a child, but don't want to ruin their life
I think I'm ready to begin trying but I'm extremely scared of ruining the child's life or even regretting having one. How do I move forward? [more inside]
Suggestions for daily humor site geared towards dementia people?
My brother and his wife both have dementia and are currently living in a memory care home and need notes from home. [more inside]
DC restaurants where grumpy middle aged men can eat meat and drink
I'm part of a group of middle-aged male librarians that get together periodically to talk shop, eat meat, and drink in DC. We're out of touch on the current restaurant explosion, have some specific requirements, and need your help, hivemind. [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 1:06 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 1:06 PM PST - 14 comments
Do warring cats become friendly after boarding?
I've heard that boarding cats away from home for a time will encourage them to become friendly toward each other when they return. Looking for whether that's true/common, how long to board and other particulars. [more inside]
Quick and dirty insulation
My mom is in the Boston area, has an uninsulated exterior wall that is under a roof and needs to put something up. Can she just nail up the insulation or should this be handled differently. [more inside]
Breaking a lease in New Albany, Ohio- Help needed for my mom
My mom needs to break her lease in New Albany. They just bought a new house. I know about tenants right in Chicago, but not in Ohio. Can any one help me with advice. Is there a residential landlord and tenant ordinance? Is there a tenant's union? thanks
People who liked Rstudio also liked [this Python IDE]
ISO Python IDE. Edit code on one side of the screen. Run code on other. That's it. [more inside]
posted by deludingmyself at 12:23 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by deludingmyself at 12:23 PM PST - 14 comments
FPS games for weak constitutions
I'm looking for recommendations for fun, entertaining, beautiful and immersive FPS games for the PC. Age is mostly immaterial, as long as they're graphically rich, but the one big caveat is that I really don't like horror or bloody violence. [more inside]
Can you help me find a pdf of a printable Chewbacca mask?
Starwars.com used to have free printable star wars masks. Of course I waited last minute to pull a costume together under the assumption that I would print a Chewbacca mask like I have done in the past. Is there a way to retrieve this pdf?
Can you find the lecture about doxxing and vigilantes?
Circa 2010 I saw a video of a talk on dangers of twitter and hacktivism. The man giving this presentation gave an example of a tweet that angered hacktivists. One of them doxxed the twitter user and found out his/her address. A flash mob of angry people showed up at the doorstep. But the wrong address had been used. Then someone died (the homeowner? someone in the crowd? I can't recall.) [more inside]
posted by Monochrome at 11:09 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Monochrome at 11:09 AM PST - 2 comments
Why does my local library never have the books it says it has?
I have a well-funded local public library. Whenever I go to look for books, the ones that are supposed to be there (according to the online catalog) are not on the shelf. This goes for about half of the books I look for. What gives? [more inside]
posted by chaiminda at 9:54 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by chaiminda at 9:54 AM PST - 32 comments
Best way to transfer photos from iOS to a PC?
I'm trying to help my parents transfer their photos from their iPhones & iPads to their PC, which runs Windows 8. I want the photos to be transferred and then deleted from their devices (each device has a few thousand photos, so manual deletion is not a realistic option). If this is your setup, what's the best solution you have found? [more inside]
Subsumed State?
Around the time of the Occupy protests, I read an article that described a concept like "Subsumed State" or "Shadow State" or something. I thought it was by Mike Konczal, but I can't find it his archives and I'm pretty sure he was referring to someone else's ideas about this. [more inside]
posted by latkes at 9:39 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by latkes at 9:39 AM PST - 3 comments
I can talk about polyphenols all day, but names escape me.
I'm a fledging dietitian ready to spread my wings. Please help me think of names for a future nutrition counseling practice and blog! [more inside]
Anyone have a non-backwashing water softener?
I have conflicting contractor opinions about whether I need to dig a dry well or get a new water softener. Can people who know a lot about water softeners or have recently purchased one help? [more inside]
What's on your home maintenance calendar?
I have a Google Calendar set up for different home maintenance tasks that benefit from being scheduled out (i.e., things that aren't necessarily visible, like "mow the lawn"). It's been just a few months since I moved in to my house and I haven't filled out the list as much as I'd like. What's on your home maintenance calendars that I might not be thinking about? [more inside]
What are the French neighbours saying?
Can anyone help me with a spot of French translation? I'm subletting in Paris and I suspect my neighbours are not keen on the idea. [more inside]
posted by teststrip at 9:10 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by teststrip at 9:10 AM PST - 16 comments
Should I try metronomic chemotherapy for my cat?
You are not my vet. However, I have seen a regular vet and a veterinary oncologist and now have some difficult choices to make and I would be very grateful for first hand accounts from people who have tried metronomic chemotherapy with their pet (especially cats) or other people's pets (if you're a vet or if you're close to someone who has gone through this sort of thing before). I am seeking advice and real-life experiences to supplement any advice regular vets or oncologists may give me. [more inside]
posted by apis mellifera at 9:09 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by apis mellifera at 9:09 AM PST - 16 comments
Is it too late to change careers, nationalities, everything?
I have a masters degree in a relatively obscure field, an even more specialized professional history, a BA in French, no relationship, and lots of consumer and student debt. What is the likelihood that a youngish 30ish woman in that situation could pick up and move to another country? [more inside]
Bag Me Please oh wise MeFites! For I cannot bag alone!
So I need a new everyday purse and I think i'm sooo special that none of the already answered questions will do. I've spent hours and days searching and am turning to you for help.
I am looking for a small bag with a short shoulder strap that is structured enough to bring to a nice dinner but not too fancy to be dropped on the floor. obnoxious branding need not apply.
More details inside! [more inside]
NYC Dinner for two, tonight near Metropolitan Opera
Two people have tickets for Die Zauberflöte at 7:30 tonight and have no plans for dinner. These two people want to eat a meal before the opera and did not make reservations. Where can they go? [more inside]
Buying a low-end Macbook?
I'm looking at buying a low-end Macbook for web browsing and MS Office (primarily Powerpoint). Basically, it's coming down to a 2009 or 2010 Macbook, as I'd prefer to run Yosemite, but I want to keep my budget below $500. I have used a friend's 2009 Macbook fairly regularly and I'm happy with its general performance, but I have a few specific questions. [more inside]
posted by Rock Steady at 8:35 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Rock Steady at 8:35 AM PST - 13 comments
Has my phone been hacked? What next?
My (never rooted) Samsung Galaxy S4 has been exhibiting some strange behavior. How can I tell if I have a virus or if there's a more innocuous explanation? [more inside]
posted by lesli212 at 8:18 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by lesli212 at 8:18 AM PST - 4 comments
Washington State Adoptee Original Birth Certificate
Washington state recently enacted a law that allows adoptees to request and receive a copy of their original birth certificate. I was adopted from Washington state, I know my birth name and my birth mother's name but I was still surprised by a couple things that were not on the copy I received. [more inside]
Roadtrip to see the Day of the Dead in Baja?
This Halloween weekend, I would like to surprise my wife with a daytrip to Mexico to see a traditional Día de Muertos observance (we live in San Diego county). I would like your help, MetaFilter. What are some good places, within a couple hours drive, for us to do so, and is there a specific time that would be best? Is this even an appropriate thing to visit as (visibly non-mexican) tourists? Help me plan this.
Recommend an obscure podcast
I'm looking for some good podcasts to fill up my podcast app, but I'm not interested in the popular ones that are routinely recommended. I'm looking for hidden gems -- well-crafted, entertaining podcasts that are homemade, not affiliated with any company or organization, purely individual labors of love. They can be on any topic, so long as they're truly obscure podcasts that you can't imagine more than a hundred people subscribing to. Thanks for any suggestions!
What percentage of trans individuals are gay/queer?
I am interested in learning to what extent individuals who identify as transexual also identify as queer or homosexual. Have there been any good studies of this? I googled but could not find much - please link me to any studies/findings about the issue.
posted by Another Fine Product From The Nonsense Factory at 7:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Another Fine Product From The Nonsense Factory at 7:44 AM PST - 8 comments
iPad water damage
After my water bottle spilled in my bag two days ago, my iPad was functioning normally, but had water spots on the screen. So I spared you folks and asked Google what to do. It's been sitting in a bag of rice for almost 24 hours. Now, the screen turns on (via both the power and home buttons) but doesn't respond to touch. And there's rice lodged in the headphone jack. I don't have any warranty or insurance on it. What do I do now?!
Making the permeable impermeable
I'm going to ditch our many-times-washed-and-bleached,-now-crusty shower curtain liner. I no longer want to use a liner. Here's our outer shower curtain. What can I do to make it, if not waterproof, less likely to allow water to seep through? Share your tricks, trick'r treaters.
Page turner recommendations for iOS/iPad
I use GoodReader for reading sheet music on an iPad (3). What wireless page turners work well with iOS (particularly with GoodReader)? I am not so much looking for Google search results that I can find on my own — but if you have experience with a page turner device and how well it works with "standard" or "common" reader apps, I'd like to hear about your positive or negative experiences!
posted by a lungful of dragon at 6:46 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by a lungful of dragon at 6:46 AM PST - 3 comments
Calling all Frontier Psychiatrists
Hey, hip mefi-ites, what, according to you, constitutes the cutting edge of music today? [more inside]
posted by mysticreferee at 6:43 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by mysticreferee at 6:43 AM PST - 14 comments
Books for Serial fans
What are some books that superfans of the podcast Serial (the first season) will thoroughly enjoy?
How do I become better at giving people gifts?
I feel great gift givers are not always the ones who devote the most time or money to this art - so what are their secrets? I'm happy to consider wisdom derived from science, literature or anecdote. Likewise I am interested in advice centred on observation, triage, shopping, timing, wrapping and so on. What makes a ninja gift giver?
Do all nurseries charge you for going on holiday?
We have recently discovered that we have to book our son into nursery at least once a week or we lose our place. If this standard? [more inside]
How much success have you had with electrolysis?
With the post 30 oestrogen slump :( I noticed I was beginning to get self conscious re: small patches (2) of increased hair growth on my face. My inner feminist barfed at going for electrolysis but I thought if I could just get it permanently sorted that would be that. [more inside]
Is it okay to walk my dog in the cemetery?
That's it really. I live near a large, park-like cemetery and I'm wondering about the etiquette of walking my dog there. It's a modern, suburban cemetery which is quite, um, active. If I were to take my dog there, he would be leashed at all times and if I saw a funeral actually occurring I would keep far away.
Would if be upsetting if a person was at the cemetery to visit the grave of a loved one and they saw me casually walking the dog as if it were any other place?
posted by Sarah Lund's Jumper at 1:37 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by Sarah Lund's Jumper at 1:37 AM PST - 30 comments
October 30
How do make peace with my career anxieties so I can update my C.V.?
I am going to defend my Ph.D. in a few months. That means I really need to be applying for jobs. But I haven't touched my C.V. in months--years, probably--because every time I think about it I get overwhelmed by waves of anxiety and despair and impostor syndrome. How do I get past that and update the damn thing so I can start sending it out? [more inside]
posted by cortisol at 11:44 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by cortisol at 11:44 PM PST - 11 comments
hurting from co-worker's joke
How would you have handled this from a co-worker? [more inside]
posted by bananaskin at 10:11 PM PST - 45 comments
posted by bananaskin at 10:11 PM PST - 45 comments
About to negotiate my first business contract. Help me get it right.
I have been offered a possible role to manage a section of a start up company. I have expertise in the area I would be managing, but I have never negotiated a contract or anything like it in business and I have no idea how it goes. I don't want to work for free, but I don't want to be inappropriately stingy with my contribution, prior to having a formal contract. [more inside]
Contact lenses in California
Is a lens fitting a requirement in California? If so, how much does one typically cost? [more inside]
Can I use whey to replace soured milk for fried chicken?
Can I use whey to replace soured milk for fried chicken? [more inside]
posted by pompomtom at 8:30 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by pompomtom at 8:30 PM PST - 8 comments
Out-of-series movies?
The Rock is a Bond movie. Galaxy Quest is a Star Trek movie. What other movies 'fit' into series, but not on purpose?
posted by the man of twists and turns at 8:00 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 8:00 PM PST - 32 comments
I fumbled the phone!
Crap! I dropped the tablet to my (fairly) new Asus Padfone X face down on the tile in the kitchen. Where do I find the parts to replace the pieces? [more inside]
Are there guides on ending a protest? (for the protesters)
I was talking about the HK protests recently, and it seems like, much like Occupy/other movements, that there's not much expectation or plan for an endgame, at least in public discussion. [more inside]
posted by Make Way for Ducklings! at 7:51 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by Make Way for Ducklings! at 7:51 PM PST - 1 comment
Seeking resources re: decades-long student loan despair.
I currently pay one full week's pay each month, $600, toward my current student loan balance of $97,000+. Though I usually just pay it and try to move on, I know it will follow me to my death and if I can't be rid of it I hope some of you can provide some kind of advice or coping strategies. I have read through a fair number of related questions. [more inside]
Brainwashing recovery resources
I'm looking for some resources for my experiences. The best term I've come up with is brainwashing. My therapists do not know of any, but had experience with working with it to an extent. [more inside]
Who played the "It's a Fact" girl?
Who's the actress that played the "It's a Fact" girl on the Kids In the Hall TV show?
posted by 2or3whiskeysodas at 6:43 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by 2or3whiskeysodas at 6:43 PM PST - 9 comments
How to clean out the "Other" storage in my iPhone 5S?
My iPhone 5S has a ton of stuff in "Other" storage (iTunes screenshot); I don't even have disk space to do the latest iOS update. I see this is a common problem, surely some of you have a solution? [more inside]
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 6:34 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 6:34 PM PST - 10 comments
Should I reach out to people I have let down?
Over the last two years, I abandoned many of my commitments due to not being able to cope with anxiety and depression. Now that I'm receiving treatment and my symptoms have almost entirely disappeared, I feel the need to reach out to some people I may have let down. What is the best way to reach out to them and apologize for letting them down, and for practically disappearing for months or years? Or should I even bother? [more inside]
posted by joebakes at 5:50 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by joebakes at 5:50 PM PST - 13 comments
Please recommend a tax accountant in Adelaide, Australia.
Can you recommend a good accountant in Adelaide? In particular, one who may have experience with foreign income and owning a small business. [more inside]
How can I explain why street harassment is wrong?
My friend does not understand what is wrong with street harassment and I am looking for some resources to direct him towards that may help enlighten him. [more inside]
posted by fishingforthewhale at 4:59 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by fishingforthewhale at 4:59 PM PST - 39 comments
7-10 days in Patagonia -- how to plan?
I'd like to take a trip to Torres del Paine (Patagonia) to hike the W. And/or see other scenic sites nearby. I want to save money by booking my own accommodation and not having a guide. Suggestions wanted. [more inside]
Non-shrinking structural resin?
I have a problem fixing a toilet seat, I hope someone here could help. [more inside]
posted by Marky at 4:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Marky at 4:09 PM PST - 6 comments
Should I put my kids on Medicaid?
Under my current health insurance, I am being forced to switch to a more expensive ACA compliant health insurance plan ... [more inside]
Midlife Crisis or Divorce?
I am in the middle of a bad case of midlife crisis which has nearly killed my marriage. I know I am not well, but I also know that I was an unhappy husband for quite a while. How can I tell the two apart? how can you make a rational decision about your life when you know you aren't rational? I am hoping some here have been in this mess before... [more inside]
Catfilter: No, kitty, the couch is not a litterbox!!!
My cat is acting really strangely and using both her actual litterbox and our sofa to use the bathroom. Why is she doing this and how can we fix it??? [more inside]
posted by incountrysleep at 3:42 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by incountrysleep at 3:42 PM PST - 11 comments
Freely Accessible Etymology Database? Or tools to help create one?
I have an idea for a project that would require the ability to search a dictionary of words and find the year of it's known introduction (as close as possible).
I am aware of etymology-online (love that site), but since, as far as I'm aware, it's just a site, and the compilers don't have a publicly accessible database, I was wondering if anybody knows of any site that actually WOULD have a freely available database (either query via an API through the web, or downloadable to self-host)? [more inside]
The science of happy long term relationships
What's current research say about what factors go into making a happy long-term relationship? In particular, I recently heard of some studies suggesting that couples who spend oodles of time together and are basically each other's best friends may be less likely to be happy than couples with separate hobbies, friends, etc. However, I can't seem to actually *find* any of those studies...anyone know of these?
Where should I publish my fixed layout ebook?
I have a fixed layout ebook with lots of photos and words. I have it in epub 3.0 (and pdf) and I'm looking for a place to "publish it" - something like a bandcamp for ebooks. [more inside]
posted by saul wright at 2:15 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by saul wright at 2:15 PM PST - 5 comments
Is this calendar NSFW?
Is a playful calendar from Pin-ups For Pitbulls inappropriate for my office? [more inside]
posted by feste at 1:50 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by feste at 1:50 PM PST - 23 comments
Should I pay off my car early so I don't need full coverage insurance?
Wondering if you could help with a risk-benefit analysis of lowering the amount of insurance on my car. I still owe money on it, but I could potentially pay it off and then save money on my insurance. BUT is the insurance good to have anyway? [more inside]
posted by bbqturtle at 1:40 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by bbqturtle at 1:40 PM PST - 22 comments
Surgical pearls
I'm interviewing for surgery residency programs, which means dress code = business formal. Help me look like the excellent, meticulous, professional scalpel-wielder I will someday become. Difficulty level: former grad student, female edition. [more inside]
posted by nemutdero at 1:34 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by nemutdero at 1:34 PM PST - 15 comments
Mom-Friendly Podcasts
I've gotten my 64 year old mother hooked on Serial, and now she's requesting more podcasts. The ones I listen to are silly comedy things that I don't think are quite her cup of tea. [more inside]
posted by something something at 1:25 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by something something at 1:25 PM PST - 26 comments
Are there any salacious history books of 1970's gameshows?
So I met a guy who used to work on a few of the celeb shows of the 1970's - the Bert Convy, Jamie Farr, Young Betty White years. He was telling some stories that were equal parts shocking and hilarious. I was wondering: IS there some sort of oral history of the shows and all their craziness at the time BESIDES Confessions of Dangerous Mind? I'd love to read about it.
How do I "sexify" my bug costume?
How do I make my cockroach costume "sexy" in a really obnoxious way. [more inside]
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 10:37 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 10:37 AM PST - 45 comments
How can I get Google to fix identical addresses?
My home address has the exact same address as a location in my same zip code. Google's default result for the search is the other address. Can I get this fixed? How? [more inside]
Continuing education requirements for PTA in Virginia
A family member is a physical therapist assistant in Virginia. They just completed a one or two-year massage therapy course at a local college (I forget the details). They want to know if the course meets their continuing education requirements. [more inside]
Real Estate Ethics - client saw apt w/ another broker first
I got a call from a client today who saw an apt with another broker. This broker has the same listing as me but is in another office (the owner of the property is using both of our offices - neither of us have exclusivity agreements). [more inside]
posted by soooo at 9:47 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by soooo at 9:47 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me decipher this Alibaba merchant's message?
I've paid for a large wholesale order that comes with several types of items. The order is shipping from China. Merchant wants to swap out one of the items bearing a licensed character image for an item without that image because "will be the customs check". What exactly is he saying? [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 9:27 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by kitcat at 9:27 AM PST - 11 comments
was I harsh, or upfront?
MeFi can't read dude's minds, but maybe it can tell me if I made the right call with this early stage dating dilemma so I can stop obsessing over it. Bottom line: I want to know if I'm coming across as abrupt and harsh when I only want to be clear and direct. [more inside]
What online game was this?
Haven't been able to find it on google due to terminology ignorance, and have relentlessly searched the JayisGames archive with no result. Turn-based browser combat game with a clicky mechanism I do not know the name of, somewhat generic supernatural theme, detective-like protagonist. [more inside]
posted by automatic cabinet at 8:49 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by automatic cabinet at 8:49 AM PST - 4 comments
Men's dress shirts: variable fit, all the freaking packaging, guilt
I find that different brands of men's dress shirts of the same size very significantly in how they fit, but you can't try them on. [more inside]
What is the best online person-finding website?
I am looking for contact information for a specific person, and since all of my leads have been exhausted, I'm thinking about using one of those sites like Spokeo to reach them. Is there any good information out there on which of these is the best and/or anecdotal information about which of them is best? [more inside]
birth certificate nonsense
My passport expired, and thus I am having a time getting the correct i-9 documentation for my new job. I am told I need originals of all documents. How do original birth certificates work? [more inside]
How to help her get back on her feet.
She would dump the two-timing jerk, but then she'd be out on the street. Help. [more inside]
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 7:26 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 7:26 AM PST - 19 comments
Good maps of this Sunday's NYC Marathon?
The organizers of this Sunday's NYC Marathon have a pretty shitty map; is there a better one available? I'm hoping for something overlaid on Google Maps or some such equivalent.
Bonus question: how do I gauge what time the elite runners would be running by a given spot?
posted by dfriedman at 6:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dfriedman at 6:42 AM PST - 5 comments
What is so distinctive about Polynesian harmony singing?
The harmony singing of Pacific Islanders is very distinctive. It has a brightness to it, almost an artificial loudness. Why? [more inside]
posted by hawthorne at 6:28 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by hawthorne at 6:28 AM PST - 9 comments
Halloween costume for a female with very short blonde hair
I am a female with short dark blonde hair. It suddenly occurs to me that I need a Halloween costume, but I hate wearing wigs and I'm not going to color my hair. What can I dress up as that makes use of this hairstyle? We've already got Claire Underwood, Switch from The Matrix, Twiggy, and Patricia from the movie Breathless on the list--so we don't need those. [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 6:27 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by elizeh at 6:27 AM PST - 23 comments
Catch Me Up on Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.
I bailed on Agents about halfway through series one. I'm now hearing that S2 is much improved and would like to start watching again whilst wasting as little time on any remaining terrible episodes as possible. Please help; possible spoileriffic details after the cut. [more inside]
Reason to feel insecure or am I just being borderline insane?!
Argh, so here goes, my first MetFilter question. I'd love some perspective here on whether I have a reason to be as worried as I am or whether, in fact, I'm overreacting - and any tips of ways to cope and not act out self-destructively would be very good. [more inside]
posted by starstarstar at 6:00 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by starstarstar at 6:00 AM PST - 31 comments
Help me keep my boyfriend's head on his neck, please!
Poor boyfriend just started grad school and has already strained his neck. Help me help him, please? [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 5:54 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 5:54 AM PST - 10 comments
massive percussion / trumpet song.
So a few years back i heard a song and just now went back to my jazzy list on youtube only to find most of the videos deleted..
the tune was as far as I remember very upbeat, featured lots of blow instruments and percussion.
and I believe it also was in a commercial at the time, and from what i've been able to research it isnt on any ok-go tune availible on spotify.
posted by xcasex at 5:08 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by xcasex at 5:08 AM PST - 5 comments
New Year's Eve in Sydney, 2014 Edition
So I'm doing my Working Holiday in Australia and I purposely started in Sydney so I could experience the big New Year's celebration here. I did NYC's ball drop in Times Square 3 years ago, and New Year's Eve is the biggest holiday of them all for me. I need the 101 on what NYE in Sydney is like, and what I should do. [more inside]
posted by signondiego at 3:46 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by signondiego at 3:46 AM PST - 13 comments
Suggestions for fans of In the Cut by Susanna Moore
I'm a huge fan of Susanna Moore's 1995 thriller, In the Cut, and have been looking for books that remind me of it in some way. [more inside]
NewLaptopFilter: Which laptop should I buy?
As my current laptop is (literally) falling to bits, I'm in the market for a new one. Very choice. So indecision. Please help me sift through the crazy amount of options out there and choose something awesome. [more inside]
posted by xchmp at 2:53 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by xchmp at 2:53 AM PST - 12 comments
how do I deal with being utterly humiliated?
I totally humiliated myself in a professional capacity, in front of lots of people. Please give me some strategies to deal and not drown in self-loathing. [more inside]
Kathmandu in December
My wife and I are going to Nepal for the first half of December.
A Nepalese friend of mine will be there so I can have a little bit of guidance, but I suspect he will be busy.
We're experienced travelers, but this one is outside my bailiwick.
I know that December is a few months from the peak HimEx, et al. foreigner crush, and not the most touristy time to be there.
I'm looking for suggestions on what to do, see, eat, buy, say, or anything else useful AskMe might know.
October 29
"Don't judge me" catchphrase
My teenage niece is using a phrase frequently and I wonder about its origin. She appends "Don't judge me" after she finds a shirt she likes when we go thrift-store shopping or after expressing an seemingly innocuous opinion such as a preference for fries over rings. She says it so often she elides the consonants, so I figure it's a verbal tic amongst her circle of friends. Where did the catchphrase come from? [more inside]
World Series radio time shifted? New to baseball
I live in the land of Giants, and I'm baseball curious. Is it possible to download world series audio that plays like it happened? AM radio with colorful announcers like when I was a kid would be ideal. [more inside]
Noumea travel suggestions?
I'm planning a long weekend in Noumea, New Caledonia the first week of December. Are there any attractions and/or shopping that previous visitors can recommend? Thanks!
Help me find the perfect desk
I'm looking for a computer desk for my room, but it needs to fit into a fairly small space width-wise (and make it down a spiral staircase to get into the room in the first place). Where can I find a computer desk that is less than 3' wide, and also has a drawer and maybe some vertical shelf space, and is cheap? Doesn't need to be particularly sturdy or high-quality, and I like a simple, modern design although I prefer wood over metal. I'm in Washington DC if that's relevant.
posted by capricorn at 7:22 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by capricorn at 7:22 PM PST - 15 comments
How to contact someone from Mars One without sounding like a spammer
I am a researcher at a university and I have an exciting idea for a research project that the Mars One project offers a unique opportunity to carry out, without requiring the mission to carry any extra equipment and that could run during the training stage, on earth, so it isn't a good fit for their "university challenge" competition. Rather I would like to contact someone from the team to discuss it. They say on the website they welcome contact from universities and scientists, but there is no information about how to contact them. [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 6:27 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by lollusc at 6:27 PM PST - 9 comments
Academics: Tell me your stories of cooperation
I am writing a script in which one of the characters is a prof (religious studies/history). I need background. Tell me your stories of cooperation/quid pro quo, between students, professors, departments, admins, schools.
Should I hire a tax lawyer, or contact the accountant, over bad return?
My accountant screwed up my 2012 tax return, to the tune of a six-figure tax bill. You are not my lawyer, or my accountant, but hopefully you can help me figure out which I should contact: a tax lawyer or the accountant? [more inside]
I need a game!
What are some good, cheap puzzle-based PC games that require strategy but not so much that I can't play it while drunk? [more inside]
How to apply for my DREAM job, without sounding too much like a fanboy.
I am about to send off my application for a job posting for what is my DREAM position. It is a 3-month paid internship with a major medical humanitarian aid organization. This is an office-based administrative position in a major Canadian city, and seems to have a lot of overlap in tasks with some of their other permanent positions, as well as their field-based positions. In terms of skills, experience, and interests, I feel as though I am a strong candidate for the position. [more inside]
Marriage counseling by Skype?
Can anyone recommend a marriage counselor who will work on Skype? [more inside]
Recommendation for international stock broker?
HI,
I'm looking for recommendations of a brokerage house that will allow me to buy international stocks directly in the local market, specifically, there're some HK stocks that I'm currently interested in. [more inside]
How do i make a clock/weather widget using UCCW app for Android phones?
I'm trying to make a clock/weather widget for my android phone using UCCW. I have my own picture i want to use, but i'm not very familiar using UCCW as of yet to make my own widgets. How do i import my own picture and add in weather, days of the week, and an analog clock that actually works?
Kid friendly music videos with great dancing.
I'm looking for music videos that feature amazing dancing in any style. Must be kid friendly/G rated, fun and engaging. [more inside]
posted by Lay Off The Books at 5:00 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Lay Off The Books at 5:00 PM PST - 24 comments
Casual or polyamorous domination and submission
So, I'm having coffee with a polyamorous women who is potentially interested in submitting to me. Help me guess what she might mean, ahead of time, so I can be more fluent when we talk. (Trigger warning: graphic consensual violence.) [more inside]
Used car has been in an accident: buy or walk away?
As per previous questions, I continue to be in the market for a used vehicle.. passed on the last two vehicles. Here's another problematic case. Mechanic found accident damage. What to do? [more inside]
posted by Gray Skies at 4:43 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Gray Skies at 4:43 PM PST - 19 comments
Media without dark themes for 8-year-old?
I'm looking for books, TV shows, and movies that avoid dark or scary themes (especially the subject of death), but would still be interesting for a bright 8-year-old. Specific recommendations and wider resources are all welcome. [more inside]
posted by Eolienne at 3:35 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by Eolienne at 3:35 PM PST - 43 comments
Overlapping Network Ports On ps4 and xbox one?
I recently bought an xbox one. I play fifa online on my ps4 and want to maximize potential performance on that. I setup ip passthrough/default server so that all traffic is allowed on the x1 and network section shows open nat. I'm trying to figure out what I should do about the ps4? Will manually port forwarding the ports here http://help.ea.com/en/article/what-online-ports-should-i-open-for-fifa-15/ cause any problems?
What are the current non-offensive terms for these activities?
My kids have asked me how to say a few things in English, but I realize the only terms I know were the racist terms used back when I was a kid. What are the current, non-offensive terms for these activities? [more inside]
posted by Bugbread at 3:23 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by Bugbread at 3:23 PM PST - 43 comments
Newly minted e-Learning professional, now what?
I'm a project manager and I'm completing my e-Learning Design and Development certificate. A lot of my projects have included a training component and I want to expand my skills in that area.
I'm reaching out to see if any Mefi e-Learning professionals have any advice for a newbie or experiences, good or bad, they'd like share. [more inside]
posted by shoesietart at 2:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by shoesietart at 2:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Military Tactics in Afghanistan/Iraq
Several years ago, in the vicinity of 2004-2006, I spoke with a former classmate of mine who was just returning from a deployment in Afghanistan or Iraq. He described a technique his unit would employ on foot patrols to disable (he said blow up) cars or trucks. [more inside]
posted by stinkfoot at 1:55 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by stinkfoot at 1:55 PM PST - 8 comments
I don't really want to be this aware of my own blood.
I sometimes like to use earplugs, but I always end up just listening to my blood loudly pulsing around in my head. This is not ideal. Does anyone have recommendations for earplugs that actually make things quiet, instead of just replacing ambient noise with the noise of my heartbeat? [more inside]
posted by Anticipation Of A New Lover's Arrival, The at 1:53 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Anticipation Of A New Lover's Arrival, The at 1:53 PM PST - 13 comments
How to cook without condensation?
Condensation pours down walls if I try and cook stews, risottos or even boil pasta in my small kitchen even with the (tiny) window and/or extractor fan on maximum. Can't get cooker hood vented to outside. How can I adapt my cooking to keep condensation to a minimum?
A Bay Area DIY writer's retreat on the cheap?
Help me discover a place in the greater Bay Area I can go for a few days to focus on a writing project. [more inside]
posted by toomuchkatherine at 12:11 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by toomuchkatherine at 12:11 PM PST - 6 comments
What do you make when life gives you big onions?
I have a bunch of big onions. I want to make something you can't make with small onions. Does such a recipe exist? [more inside]
posted by Dr Dracator at 11:58 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Dr Dracator at 11:58 AM PST - 21 comments
Sinus Pressure Relief
I had sinus surgery this week and still have splints in my nose. The weather changed today and now the pressure in my face is too much to bear. Please help! [more inside]
What's more fun than the words 'bone graft'?
Tell me about the awesomeness of pre-dental implant bone graft procedures. [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 11:45 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 11:45 AM PST - 22 comments
Private plane
I'm arranging a weekend away next year for about 30 people. It's a big treat for us all, so looking into how much to charter a plane. We'd be flying London to Berlin. Any ideas?
posted by lloyder at 11:36 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lloyder at 11:36 AM PST - 9 comments
Reading a CSV file in R, problems with escaped quotes?
I'm beginner-level with R, trying to work with a CSV file. I've noticed some rows are being interpreted incorrectly, and would like some help figuring out a way around that. I think the problem is escaped quotes not being parsed how I would like. [more inside]
posted by RobotHero at 11:19 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by RobotHero at 11:19 AM PST - 9 comments
Traffic Information and my Calendar
Trying to find a good way to automate an alert letting me know I need to leave for work to arrive on time (based on curent traffic conditions) and Google Now is failing me. [more inside]
What's the French Laundry of Paris?
So Mr. Kitty and I are doing a vacation in Paris and want to set up some amazing reservations to look forward to. We will have one big blow, out once in a decade, kind of dinner. Where should we go? [more inside]
posted by Suffocating Kitty at 10:42 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Suffocating Kitty at 10:42 AM PST - 21 comments
Recording setup for 2 people in an office
We want to capture eight hours at a time of conversation in an office, for editing later. There are two people at separate desks. What equipment is needed, within the sweet spot between "sounds good enough" and "affordable"?
The end result should be 2 separate audio files, editable in Audacity. Paint me a picture of the setup you'd use for this.
Help me merge 2 PowerPoint presentations please!
I am at a loss for this. I am trying to merge two PowerPoint slides for ease of transition at a conference. Speaker A is using Speaker A's work template that has their work logo burned on each slide, but Speaker B is from a different institution. Is it even possible to merge the two sets of slides without having Speaker A's institution on Speaker B's slides?
posted by lil' ears at 10:33 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by lil' ears at 10:33 AM PST - 2 comments
Help Save This Internship (I am the Supervisor)
I've been lucky with great interns in past years, but this semester's intern is a dud. How can I turn this situation around with only 7 weeks left? Much more beneath the cut. [more inside]
How do I deal with this morass of feelings re: holidays, travel, family
I am the only one that moved away from my extended family. I'm dealing with some built up anger/stress about always being responsible for going "home" to see my family. How did you stop feeling guilty, obligated, or responsible for visiting? [more inside]
posted by nakedmolerats at 10:09 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by nakedmolerats at 10:09 AM PST - 36 comments
LA DWP refuses to refund security deposit.
A young person moved to Los Angeles two years ago. Said tenant moved out in July of this year. Despite many phone calls and emails, the tenant has never gotten a refund of the security deposit from the LA DWP, and it is now four months later. How do we resolve this issue? [more inside]
Cars with Takata airbags but not yet subject to recall??
Takata has recalled cars in states that it deems "high humidity," because of the deadly airbag problem. But as often noted, most of the deaths involved were in non-listed states. My state, Tennessee, is just outside the designated area, and my car (old Honda Accord) is one of the troublemakers. [more inside]
posted by mmiddle at 9:27 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by mmiddle at 9:27 AM PST - 5 comments
Pants for kid that look like pants and feel like sweatpants/leggings?
My comfort-loving preschooler (boy) only likes to wear sweatpants and leggings. I am of the opinion that sweatpants should never be worn in public, and most leggings are probably not warm enough for winter. Can you help me find comfy, warm pants that also look good? [more inside]
posted by rabbitrabbit at 9:18 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by rabbitrabbit at 9:18 AM PST - 34 comments
Best health insurance plan for shuttling green card holder?
If someone is a 65+ recent green card holder with only 3 years work experience in the US and who hasn't lived continuously in the US for 5 years (but has visited every year for several months for a decade), they don't qualify for free or even paid Medicare. What is the best health insurance plan for them if they spend 5-7 months in the US, and the rest in their home country in Asia? Are they best off with an Obamacare plan, or some kind of special immigrant health insurance, or what? Thanks.
Captain's Log - Office Edition
Looking for your ideas and apps for a professional journal-keeping system. More inside! [more inside]
Best way to print ~10000 photos?
What's the most cost-effective way to print about 10000 [unique] photos? I'm enjoying going through my grandparent's photo albums, and while I'm not concerned about backups (I am extremely good about backups), I am very concerned about discoverability; I think my grandchildren someday are much more likely to find and go through a stack of physical photo albums than they are a CD in a drawer. [more inside]
She has no mouth, and she must scream
Recent news items about Hello Kitty have reminded me of a song I last heard more than a decade ago and which I cannot find today. Someone, help me locate this musical "treasure"! [more inside]
Tall, cool computer desk for small space
HomeOffice FurnitureFilter. Tall, interesting, well-constructed non-generic computer desk with shelving and storage. We like this - does anyone know anything like it - i.e with similar functionality - for a max cost of $1200? [more inside]
How to create a high res photo collage for publication?
I need a jpeg file to be imported onto a website which will be printed from there. [more inside]
posted by maxg94 at 8:29 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by maxg94 at 8:29 AM PST - 7 comments
Unscented supermarket cat litter (plus bonus points for cat name)
The good news is that we are getting a cat, but it will be this weekend! He's a young male tiger cat stray. The current caretakers say he likes unscented cat litter (will not go in the box if litter is scented). Does anyone have any recommendations for a decent supermarket litter that is clumping and unscented. I don't have time to get fancy or specialty litter with the timetable involved. [more inside]
posted by gudrun at 8:12 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by gudrun at 8:12 AM PST - 38 comments
Can you recommend a sewing pattern similar to this vintage one?
I absolutely love everything about this suit pattern. Could you help me find a modern day equivalent? [more inside]
posted by the webmistress at 8:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by the webmistress at 8:11 AM PST - 9 comments
Is there such a thing as anonymous online counseling?
I find myself unable to be fully candid speaking in person with therapists and wonder if I might do better corresponding with a therapist online by e-mail or chat or something. Does this exist? Would you recommend it? Is there a better idea? [more inside]
Insulating a double bricked house
Is it a bad idea to fill the air gap in between double brick walls? Our 100 year old house is in need of some insulation so we had a couple of companies give us a quote. One company recommended spraying Air Krete (a kind of foam insulation) in the gap between our double brick walls. The other company said this was a horrible idea and could damage our house! They said to rip out the plaster & lathe and install interior insulation. [more inside]
posted by krunk at 7:43 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by krunk at 7:43 AM PST - 14 comments
How do you arrange long layovers?
Planning a trip to middle-of-nowhere Sweden, and am flying through Stockholm. I'd like to organize a day or two layover in the city before heading to nowheresville. How do you do this? Does it have to involve phone calls, or is it possible to organize online? Would you expect it to be more or less expensive that a regular itinerary?
posted by colin_l at 7:41 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by colin_l at 7:41 AM PST - 9 comments
The boringest boots with the chunkiest heel?
I love these boots. I don't love the $395 price tag. Can you help me find something extremely similar? [more inside]
Letting the Gini out of the lamp...
Somewhere in the murky corridors of the internet I once read an article about how certain societal problems (HIV rates, road death rates, homicide rates) are higher in countries with greater income inequality (a higher Gini coefficient) than in countries that are poor but with more equally distributed wealth. Where can I read more about this? Well-written, accessible-for-a-layman book recommendations particularly gratefully received. (I'm currently reading Alain de Botton's 'Status Anxiety'.)
posted by matthew.alexander at 6:51 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by matthew.alexander at 6:51 AM PST - 5 comments
Used Records in New York City
Finally, after 10 years I'm visiting new York City again. I guess the city have changed a lot. I'm there for about 10 days, and I'm really into used records. Can MeFi recommend good shops for used (or not) records? Perhaps other shops for turntable lovers? Thanks.
A People's History of Great Britain, Canada and Australia
I'm a huge fan of Howard Zinn's book "A People's history of the United States" and I'm looking for close equivalents for Britain, Australia and Canada.
posted by asharchist at 5:58 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by asharchist at 5:58 AM PST - 15 comments
Please tell me I can still eat this.
I made some vegetarian sloppy Joes for dinner. They were SO. GOOD. Then I left them out on the for 8 hours….Help. [more inside]
posted by lettuce dance at 5:21 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by lettuce dance at 5:21 AM PST - 17 comments
Workflow for iPad video editing
I work with high school students who all have iPads. Because the ipad is so handy, and because iMovie is so easy to use, I want the students to edit their video projects on the ipad. Currently they use adobe premiere on desktop computers. I am not having any success finding simple solutions to this. [more inside]
October 28
FInding a good adviser for life insurance / long term care issues
My spouse is about 50 yo and encountering some health issues (autoimmune and others). We're about 13 years through a 20-year life insurance term, after which the renewal premiums would skyrocket even for good health. We also have about 3 years of long term care benefits through her workplace. [more inside]
Something besides Prozac for PMS?
I have a mild depression for a week out of the month. It doesn't feel like much but I don't get anything done. Now that I'm self-employed, I can't afford to have a useless week plus a week digging myself out of the hole of unfinished work and unreturned phone calls from that useless week. Help? [more inside]
Need help with Emotional Regulation
I'm flailing and feeling like I've backslid on a lot of personal progress. I don't know what's going on, and I'd like some advice for getting myself back on track. I've attempted to keep this concise. [more inside]
Relationship question: My girl friend's feeling toward her ex
I and my girl friend have been dating for eight months. I think everything is good between us so far except for few occasions where we had a disagreement in the past (my two previous questions are about those occasions). We did not have any problem recently. I introduced her to my mom, and she introduced me to hers. The major problem I have with myself is that she said she cared about her ex. [more inside]
posted by mbn1455 at 10:14 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by mbn1455 at 10:14 PM PST - 32 comments
Is this a therapy deal breaker or something I can salvage?
What do you do when a problem you've been trying to work through with other people in life suddenly becomes a problem with your therapist, too? [more inside]
Why Don't I Write in My Journal Anymore?
I started keeping a journal when I was in 4th grade. Now that I'm in my 40s, I've lost motivation to write in it. [more inside]
My house was burgled an hour ago
The thieves were interrupted and didn't get much. Jewellery, watches and the worlds crappiest HP laptop. I'm in the process of changing all my passwords, but use Chrome which I keep synced and want to remove the stolen computer from my account. Any easy way to do this? I've done a cursory search to no avail.
The irony is it was a really terrible computer, you almost need to be touching the router to get the wifi to work. Suckers, enjoy that piece of junk, I'll keep using this new Macbook Air you left behind.
Alternatives to Tamora Pierce?
My 9 year old girl is obsessed with Tamora Pierce books. What are some other books she might like equally as well? [more inside]
Who will decide the charges in the Texas Gay Bashing?
McCleish Christmas Benham was arrested at the DFW Airport by Airport police after attacking a gay man in the airport. News reports are saying he is not being charged with a hate crime. Can someone tell me definitively who would make the decision about what he is charged with?
Give me your MCU fanfic recs!
I am excited about the new announced expansions to the Marvel Cinematic Universe. Please shower me with your best fanfic recommendations for the MCU's Avengers and Guardians of the Galaxy! [more inside]
posted by nicebookrack at 8:50 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by nicebookrack at 8:50 PM PST - 20 comments
How to exercise: the bad ankle edition
I am currently waiting for ankle ligament reconstruction surgery, but still want to keep as active as possible in the meantime. My two main ways of exercising - riding my horse and playing soccer weekly - are now out of the question, what else can I do to maintain some level of activity that doesn't involve using my injured ankle too much? [more inside]
Help me find cute, affordable plus-size clothes
Between a recent fire at my apartment and a mix-up with the cleaning crew, all of my clothes are now gone except a few things I picked up at Target with a giftcard from a friend. Another friend was amazingly generous enough to send me $200 to help rebuild my wardrobe, and I am trying to figure out the most satisfying way to do so. [more inside]
Shanghai and Seoul in December
This December I'm going to Shanghai and possibly Seoul. I'd love your tips for museums, restaurants, hotels, and more! [more inside]
posted by smorgasbord at 7:05 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by smorgasbord at 7:05 PM PST - 6 comments
Kitchen and garden: Refried beans, the musical fruit...
...the more you eat them at awesome Mexican restaurants, the more you want to duplicate their magic at home. How, please? [more inside]
Making contact prints from sleeved 35mm negatives
I have several hundred pages (sleeves) of 35mm color negatives. A few years ago I started a project to scan-in all the negatives. But because of my own disorganization, the project has turned into a big mess. [more inside]
posted by akk2014 at 6:14 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by akk2014 at 6:14 PM PST - 10 comments
Can you recommend a career counsellor in Toronto?
Does anyone have a good career counsellor in Toronto that can look over my resumé and come up with a good job hunting strategy? [more inside]
posted by jmmpangaea at 6:07 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jmmpangaea at 6:07 PM PST - 3 comments
Tales from the database!
I'm looking for the spooookiest videos on YouTube. Or Vimeo. What are the scariest videos you've watched online?
I want to do all the art! But I don't know how to...
I'm a junior in college about to leave school and transfer to a nursing school. What's the best way I can currently get trained in art (a comprehensive education) before I go to nursing school? Or during. I'm willing to do either a full or part time program. I'd really prefer not to take a bunch of random classes somewhere.
New York City (tri-state) area and East Coast suggestions are greatly appreciated! Details inside. [more inside]
Have Student Debt, Will Transfer
I applied to transfer out of George Washington University for the Spring 2015 semester, and I've no idea where to go from here. [more inside]
Train from NYC to Quebec City/Montreal--would like tips and ideas
Hi, my SO and I are taking the train from NYC to Quebec City and/or Montreal between Christmas and New Year's. I have never been to Montreal or QC or taken such a long train ride, and I would welcome general tips and suggestions about the trip. We will not be renting a car, but we are savvy transit-users and walkers. More questions inside: [more inside]
posted by one more robot at 5:46 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by one more robot at 5:46 PM PST - 13 comments
Name that Quebecois pop song
In August of this year, I heard a French (presumably Quebecois) song in a karaoke bar in Montreal and for some reason it's been bugging me that I can't remember at all what it was. Can someone help me identify it based on the following sketchy and probably mis-remembered details? [more inside]
posted by mhum at 4:49 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by mhum at 4:49 PM PST - 2 comments
Chicago Mefites: 15 Year Old Chicken Mystery
Please help me remember the name of this Chicago counter-service restaurant based on my sketchy details! The last time I ate there was 15 years ago... The menu was focused around organic rotisserie chicken, and I remember it being so much more flavorful and fresh than Boston Market. [more inside]
Why did my cold oolong tea turn black when I added ginger-vinegar syrup?
My partner made Oolong tea two days ago, cooled it and put it in the fridge to drink as iced tea. Today we poured a cup, and then added a splash of homemade ginger-vinegar syrup and the liquid (the tea was a light clear brown, the syrup a darker clear brown) immediately turned into an opaque dark greeny black. Why? [more inside]
Should my kitchen sink be generating heat when it's turned off?
This morning when I went to use the kitchen sink, the floor around the sink was warm to the touch. I opened the cabinet under the sink and the air inside it was hot, and the bottles of household cleaners I store beneath the sink had condensation bubbles on the insides. The surrounding cabinets are warm too. This is is not normal.
Before I email my landlord, is there any non-negative reason this could be happening? [more inside]
posted by rogerrogerwhatsyourrvectorvicto at 3:55 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by rogerrogerwhatsyourrvectorvicto at 3:55 PM PST - 18 comments
Why do I regret turning down this job opportunity?
Four months ago I was laid off from a company where I had worked for almost 15 years. I received a severance equivalent to 30 weeks of pay. About half of that was paid to me in bi-weekly paychecks while I could still technically be called an employee of the company. The other half will be paid in a heavily taxed lump sum check in the next week or so.
more inside... [more inside]
posted by getyourlife at 3:49 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by getyourlife at 3:49 PM PST - 7 comments
Recommend Mrs Peteyjlawson a phototherapy lamp, anybody?
Hi folks, in a previous AskMeFi the idea of phototherapy for my wife's psoriasis was a popular one. So, can anybody recommend a phototherapy lamp? Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by peteyjlawson at 3:41 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by peteyjlawson at 3:41 PM PST - 2 comments
Credit impacts of renting a second apartment in another state
How do I apply for an apartment as a student when I need my husband's income to be considered? [more inside]
posted by MeFiElf at 2:55 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by MeFiElf at 2:55 PM PST - 4 comments
Looking for an online traffic counter I can query with curl
I am searching for a live traffic flow counter which is on the net and reachable by http, or some webpage that displays hourly or cumulative vehicle statistics. [more inside]
How crazy will this book signing be?
I'm thinking about going to this John Cleese book signing at a midtown NYC Barnes & Noble. Is this going to be Black-Friday crazy, or merely annoying? [more inside]
posted by PlusDistance at 2:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by PlusDistance at 2:20 PM PST - 6 comments
Merits of getting a second master's degree?
I'm interested in hearing about experiences with getting a second master's degree to pursue a subject that interests you in more depth/narrow in on your specific interests . . . [more inside]
How do you convert a Nielsen rating into the number of viewers?
According to Wiki, "A single national ratings point represents one percent of the total number, or 1,156,000 households."
But that doesn't jibe with the numbers coming from the World Series: "Kansas City's 3-2 win in Game 3 received a 7.2 rating and 12.1 million viewers, according to fast national ratings from Nielsen Media Research announced by Fox on Saturday."
What I'm really trying to figure out is how many viewers make up a 0.86 rating?
Corporate team building? SIGN ME UP!!!!
Have you ever been on a corporate team-building event you really liked? To which you would have gone even if you weren't paid? I need to organize an event for 18 guys at my company, and I hate corporate stuff and don't want it to suck. Details inside. [more inside]
Decision framework for a tough career decision
I've been freelancing for the last year, but expecting a job offer in the next few days. I am genuinely torn abut whether I want to accept. I go back and forth daily. Yesterday I was pretty strongly leaning towards taking it. Today the idea depresses me. I'd appreciate your recommendations on tools to help me make this decisions. Snowflakes follow... [more inside]
posted by dry white toast at 1:13 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by dry white toast at 1:13 PM PST - 6 comments
Tattoo filter
I want to get a tattoo! I know almost nothing about tattoos. I need some help picking out a design based on some very specific parameters. [more inside]
posted by deathpanels at 12:36 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by deathpanels at 12:36 PM PST - 19 comments
Name! That! Podcast!
My podcast network is piloting a pop culture panel show. Chat about culture high and low, fun and funny and well-informed. It needs a name. What have you got? Pithy and understandable on first glance really helps. If we use yours, we will credit you and send you a box of maximumfun.org stuff from our prize closet :).
Wedding gift for children in new blended family?
My son is creating a new little family and grandma wants to give a small, sentimental gift to the children to help them remember and celebrate the day. [more inside]
posted by raisingsand at 11:55 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by raisingsand at 11:55 AM PST - 19 comments
Cross Country Move: New Job or New Lifestyle?
I am moving across the country. Do I keep my current job and commute by plane or do I leave that job and find new work there? (... many details within...) [more inside]
Job interviews, timing, etiquette, and not shooting myself in the foot
One company wants to hire me now. Another might, or might not, but they move slowly. I'm more interested in the latter but am definitely interested in both. How do I navigate this without pissing people off, burning bridges, or ending up with zilch? [more inside]
Artificial Ingredients: Really all that harmful?
Does the average American's diet have large enough amounts of artificial ingredients to actually cause harm? I know a glass of Red 40 every day would obviously do some damage, but are the amounts we actually consume significant? Or are they merely trace amounts? Is most of this kind of thing fear-mongering?
Quick jokes for postcards?
One of my friends who lives on the other coast is going through some serious medical stuff. I've been sending him cheesy postcards with stupid stuff written on them, just to let him know I'm thinking of him and to maybe give him a laugh. I'm out of ideas though. Give me your best jokes/puns/groaners that I can fit on a postcard! They can be off-color if they're sufficiently funny. Any topic welcome.
posted by misanthropicsarah at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by misanthropicsarah at 10:25 AM PST - 28 comments
Help me find some non-bloody scary movies
This year my partner and I are planning a scary movie all nighter on Halloween, after the trick or treaters are gone. I would like to get about 4-5 scary movies that are not gory ( no Chainsaw Massacre), no zombies and no first-person documentary style horror movies. Anything else is a go, but would prefer movies made in the last decade rather than vintage stuff.
Help me scare the pants off my man! Mwahahah!
Fleas
I recently adopted a cat. He is infested with fleas. I asked the vet for suggestions and need to confirm if this combination of treatments is safe. [more inside]
posted by Librarypt at 9:56 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by Librarypt at 9:56 AM PST - 28 comments
Stepmom? Dad's wife? Her?
How do you refer to your widowed parent's new spouse, when you are talking to someone who does not know them? [more inside]
Preparing for hernia repair
I'm having a hernia repaired next week, and I'm having trouble finding much reliable information on what to expect online. What was your/your friend/your lover's hernia repair like? [more inside]
Experience with big Digital Asset Management systems?
What experiences have you had with big (a.k.a. "enterprise") digital asset management systems? Good or bad, I want to know it all. [more inside]
Houses that are open for all the world to see
I never was fond of houses with picture windows, or too many windows at all, but then I fell in love with this home... [more inside]
Business meeting at Logan (Boston)
I am trying to find a place for four people to meet for a business meeting/interview at Logan airport. [more inside]
Everyone likes cat urine questions
My three cats are urinating all over my basement and the smell is terrible. How do I deal with the smell and correct this behavior? [more inside]
Oops, I did it again :(
How can I forgive myself for exercising such poor judgment? [more inside]
Discourage clients who don't get a flu shot to protect my elderly Mother
My 87 year old Mother likes to help in my office. She is healthy, but frail. Should I mention to clients that I don't want them coming in to see me when they are sick and that I would prefer they have a flu shot? Is there some sort of proper business etiquette for this? Thanks. I'm in casual California, if that helps.
How can we keep curtain rods installed without wooden studs?
We live in a rented apartment which has big windows, big transparent sliding doors, and no coverings. To reduce light in our bedroom, we have installed some simple curtain rods. The building has a steel frame so there are no wooden studs for us to drill into. So for each curtain rod, we installed three simple brackets directly into the drywall. Unfortunately, the brackets have come out of the wall several times. How can we fix this? [more inside]
Fitbit flex overcounting steps?
Does anyone else's fitbit show what appears to be a wildly inflated number of steps per day? [more inside]
posted by Ziggy500 at 4:26 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Ziggy500 at 4:26 AM PST - 18 comments
What are the best, high-quality sites about Android?
What are the best news/opinions about Android in terms of quality of writing and analysis? I'm after sites that post relatively infrequently, but tend to produce high quality stuff when they do post: the Android equivalent of sites like MacStories, Daring Fireball, and Six Colors. (I know far more about iOS than I do Android, but should really know about both.)
posted by Richard Holden at 3:23 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Richard Holden at 3:23 AM PST - 4 comments
Winning the lottery
Is there any country, besides the US, which has a lottery for a permanent resident visa? I'm coming up short, but wondering if there are any countries that I'm missing. Thanks.
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 3:06 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 3:06 AM PST - 1 comment
October 27
Why do I have to get semi-naked to see a doctor?
So I finally got health insurance in the US and made a 'new patient' appointment for a physical. After talking the nurse through my (very limited) medical history, I was asked to undress and put on a medical gown. I then met my new doctor, talked about my medical history again, asked for a referral to a chiropractor (I have scoliosis and associated back pain, and wanted to re-establish treatment). She took my blood pressure, did the stethoscope thing on my back, and did a bit of abdomen pressing. The rest was talking. So why did I need to undress and wear a medical gown? [more inside]
posted by finding.perdita at 11:29 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by finding.perdita at 11:29 PM PST - 40 comments
If I had a photograph or two: Fair use of product photos on review sites
I've had an idea for a product review site and am trying to discern whether product photographs can be legally reproduced on the website, from where fair-use photographs should be obtained and how, if at all, they should be attributed. [more inside]
posted by Halo in reverse at 11:21 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Halo in reverse at 11:21 PM PST - 8 comments
Recommend to me British movies from the 60s and 70s about blokes & lads
For whatever reason, I find the 60s and 70s British gent as the epitome of Cool. [more inside]
How to go about getting a college degree part-time as a hobby
Could an adult will a full time career, but a few hours a week to dedicate to the purpose, pursue getting an undergraduate degree from a university just for the fun of it? And if so how? [more inside]
posted by Long Way To Go at 10:20 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Long Way To Go at 10:20 PM PST - 23 comments
What to do about my references and lack of response to possible employer
I had a job interview last week on Wednesday, October 22, 2014 and it went well. I was told that I would hear from them, even if I didn't get the job, to at least thank me for applying. So I find out on Friday , October 24, 2014 that the supervisor from this job called two of my references, but neither of them answered the phone. I was told by both of my references that they are "very busy" and would try to call back later. [more inside]
Low cost or free options for therapy and depression treatment in NYC
I'm starting to accept that I desperately need to see a therapist, but I am unemployed (recently moved here to NYC) and have no health insurance. Are there any clinics or hospitals that offer low cost therapy services?
Is dog health insurance worth it?
My fiance and I recently adopted a 10-year-old maltipoo from the shelter, and we're wondering if we should get health insurance for her. [more inside]
Free video conversion software and video editing software?
Is there such a thing as an excellent but free video conversion software and a video editing software? [more inside]
Nest/ecobee - do they actually work on SS systems w/o common wires?
We have a single stage HVAC system without a common wire. Reviews online suggest that the nest can be pretty unreliable with our kind of system. Anyone with experience who could provide their perspective? I also like the ecobee, but it appears to not work without a common wire. If neither is workable, is there a good alternative for a SS HVAC without a common wire, or should I wait for the technology to further mature? Thanks!
Like it - how to put a ring on it?
(soon-to-be) Mrs. B.F.G. and are I planning on getting married. Yay! We'd like to buy a non-diamond engagement ring somewhere in the Chicago area and are looking for recommendations, as well as ring-buying tips generally. [more inside]
I like a guy who has a girlfriend. What should I do?
I have a crush on a guy that I met in grad school several months ago. He's very nice, smart, and fairly handsome. He appeared a little awkward at first but once I got to know him, he's actually one of the few guys that I can have a long and meaningful conversation with. Although our conversations are mostly school-related, he seems to remember a lot of details from our convo, such as where I used to work a few years ago, what my goals are, etc. He recently joined the same student organization and volunteered at the same research lab with me. I'm very inexperienced in dating so I'm not sure if he's interested in me or not. However, my gut tells me that he might be interested because he often asks me to attend certain meetings or events together, he also occasionally calls me to ask questions (which he could simply ask through text or in person).
I recently found out that he has a girlfriend and they both live together so I'm assuming his relationship is pretty serious. Therefore I'm trying to keep my distance from him and not cross the line. But the more I see him/talk to him, the more I like him and I'm not sure what to do. Please advise. Thank you!
Seeking online courses to increase leadership skills
I'm leaving my job in two weeks, and have been asked to train several coworkers before I leave. They are asking how best to promote within the organization, and while I have some good tips, I'd love to find a good online course (free or not) to refer them to. I'm looking for courses on leadership, professional development, completed staff work, and the like. I've looked at Coursera but can't find much. Where else should I look?
Is this a motivation issue or what?
I think I'm dealing with some motivational paralysis, but it's a little complicated. Any ideas MeFi? [more inside]
posted by myitkyina at 5:12 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by myitkyina at 5:12 PM PST - 14 comments
She took his amplifer
So my daughter came home from college for a visit, and when she left, she took her Les Paul and the cute little Line 6 amplifier I'd been using for my synthesizer rig. So now I'm using this incident as an excuse to upgrade myself with a pair of powered monitors (and perhaps a subwoofer, too). [more inside]
posted by doctor tough love at 4:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by doctor tough love at 4:38 PM PST - 12 comments
Recommend a movie similar to this one?
I'm searching for a movie similar to John Hughes' 1987 classic, Planes, Trains & Automobiles. Something with a warm message and the same kind of comedy. Preferably something with Steve Martin or John Candy, but not necessarily. Recommendations?
I need help naming a blog
Metafilter has named cats and dogs, and roller derby babes. This should be easy.
On the book of faces I talk a lot about my life with Agent K, my 11 yo with autism. I'd like to move it over to it's own blog and talk about our life, link to interesting articles and products, post pictures, etc.
He's always been Agent K and he calls me Muh-ver, Mommy, or Heyshea. I keep a Pintrest board titled Agent K's Awesome board.
Any thoughts?
posted by FunkyHelix at 3:14 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by FunkyHelix at 3:14 PM PST - 13 comments
What causes vibrating filaments in Edison bulbs?
A bar I visited the other day had old-school Edison bulbs hanging from the ceiling, and I noticed that in several of them, the filament was vibrating. And by vibrating I mean vibrating big time — swinging back and forth a full inch or so inside the bulb multiple times a second. The bartender didn't seem to know what caused it, but seemed to think it wasn't uncommon. Any idea? [more inside]
posted by BlackLeotardFront at 2:51 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by BlackLeotardFront at 2:51 PM PST - 6 comments
Identify story/movie/TV show based on "Most scientific!" vague quote?
My daughter has a vague memory of a story in which some aliens basically worship science, so whenever they are evaluating something positively they say things like "Most scientific!" or "Very scientific!"
It rings no bells for me, other than sounding vaguely Star Trek-ish. However, she has no particular visual memory of it, leading her to theorize that maybe it's a story. Does this jog anyone's memory?
posted by jasper411 at 2:30 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by jasper411 at 2:30 PM PST - 10 comments
What kind of tree is this?
Please help me identify this tree. This is what it looks like. This tree smells amazing almost every time I pass it – like some sort of amazing candy. It smells strongest in early Fall or after rain. [more inside]
posted by TangoCharlie at 1:59 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by TangoCharlie at 1:59 PM PST - 5 comments
Vaguely remembered visual MLB game previews
I remember seeing some visual previews of MLB games (or maybe playoff series) somewhere about 4-5 years ago. The previews had offensive and defensive stats (probably advanced stats) for each team, graphed in opposition to each other. I have vague memories of what it looked like, described inside. Could you help me find them? [more inside]
Who should I talk to about long-ago debt and my credit score?
Who should I talk to about long-ago debt and my credit score? Is that the sort of thing a new credit union will do, or would that just hurt my interactions with them? [more inside]
posted by brisquette at 1:35 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by brisquette at 1:35 PM PST - 5 comments
Reuters photographic copyright woes
My spouse is trying to submit their D.Phil thesis to an online research archive. Archive wants all content to not be in breach of copyright. Thesis has a photograph in it which requires copyright permission but we're stumped on how to get it. What now? [more inside]
posted by monster truck weekend at 1:33 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by monster truck weekend at 1:33 PM PST - 12 comments
My boring bland bean soup!
I made white bean soup in the crockpot and it's okay... but how do I make it AWESOME?! [more inside]
Looking for: good short films to stimulate discussion in adult ESL class
I teach English in Spain and would like to incorporate some conversation stimulating short films in my adult classes. [more inside]
posted by maca at 12:58 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by maca at 12:58 PM PST - 11 comments
Migrating my iphone syncing from PC to Mac. Outlook/itunes questions!
I've been syncing my iphone via itunes on my windows laptop for years. I've also used the same itunes install to hold my media library (mounted via a NAS on the wifi router.) I use Outlook to manage contacts. Just got a mac mini to use as a media server. I want to sync through that now.
I'm not sure if going through icloud is the right choice. Is it? [more inside]
Please help me find this online game
I played an online indie game a couple of years ago. The game consisted of 3 panels: beginning, middle and end. There were 3 characters, a knight, a hero and (I think) a villain. You could manipulate the positions of the characters in the first and second panels to change the outcome in the third panel. I've been looking for it again for months - does anyone have an idea of what the game could be?
posted by Laura_J at 12:00 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Laura_J at 12:00 PM PST - 2 comments
Can anyone help with lyrics on these Congolese songs?
Long shot here. I'd love to perform these songs but have no idea on the words. [more inside]
Legitimate Credit and Debt Counseling
Family member is in debt and needs help getting out of debt. I've researched both Appraisen and Clearpoint but both seem to be run by a corporation. I don't know if that's a good thing or not. Some credit counseling firms have charged big fees and gotten some people in worse trouble and even deeper in debt. I don't want her to get locked into something worse. Do these really help? Are they legit?
Sorry, the dog ate it...
As kind of a part-two to this question, I have been asked to pass on my dissertation to the Manager of the Centre who helped me find my interviewees. Problem is, it’s absolute rubbish and I’m too embarrassed to let him read it. How do I decline? [more inside]
Please help me stop talking like a female chauvinist sow.
Please talk at me about the kind of terminology, phrasing, best practices and thought processes that help you not stick both feet in your mouth online (or IRL) when you are speaking to someone and are unsure of their gender, sexual orientation, relationship status, etc. [more inside]
posted by Michele in California at 10:46 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by Michele in California at 10:46 AM PST - 24 comments
Silver Lake Secrets (and Echo Park and Los Feliz)
Hello LA Mefites! I'm headed back to LA for Halloween weekend and am looking for some neighborhood-specific knowledge as we are staying in Silver Lake and want to keep driving to a (relative) minimum. Cheap eats and artistic and offbeat offerings are especially welcome. We are also free on Saturday night (November 1) if you know of any good goings-on. [more inside]
Best VOIP to replace home phone landline?
It seems like I am the last person on earth to give up my expensive residential landline. I did sign up with Vonage but quickly cancelled when I realized I was being lied to and getting conflicting answers about fees/billing (then I read the horrible reviews about their customer service). I do not like talking on my cell phone and always grab for the landline when at home if I need to make an outgoing call. I want good quality (no delays, echoes, etc.), competitive price, good customer service and reliability (yes, I want it all!). [more inside]
posted by Lylo at 10:18 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Lylo at 10:18 AM PST - 16 comments
What’s a good article on gender equality in Scandinavia?
I’m teaching a thematic unit entitled “Human Rights and International Women’s Lives” in a first-year college English course. To complete the reading list, I’m in search of a well-written article or essay on gender equality in a place where women’s rights are comparatively advanced—probably the Scandinavian countries. Anything on social policy, actual women’s lives, or the intersection of the two would be great. Recommendations? [more inside]
Breaking bad...habits with good ones?
They say you should kick a bad habit to the curb by replacing it with a good one. Well, what should that be? Let's say it should be something you can do at a desk to replace a bad Internet-related compulsion. It should preferably be something straightforward but productive that (eventually) makes you feel like you've accomplished something of value, not just a useless "tic" (so, something more meaningful than pen-spinning or card shuffling, but not something overly complex that will be given up on). Any suggestions?
Fall food in Kyoto with baby in tow
We're visiting family in Japan next month and will have a week in Kyoto. We've got historical/cultural/tourist sites figured out, but would like recommendations for food. [more inside]
Making the most out of WhiskeyFest
Hey! After years of amateur scotch/bourbon/rye drinking, I decided to take the plunge and bought a ticket to this year's WhiskeyFest.
The challenge - there are over 400 bottles to sample (I know, poor me). But with a limited amount of time (and sobriety), what should I make a bee-line for? [more inside]
posted by ericbop at 9:19 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by ericbop at 9:19 AM PST - 10 comments
Where to buy cufflinks and shirt studs online for my awesome new tuxedo?
Where to buy cufflinks and shirt studs online for my awesome new tuxedo? [more inside]
posted by saladin at 8:53 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by saladin at 8:53 AM PST - 9 comments
Space-saving furniture and storage for office/bedroom/studio & more?
What are the latest and greatest for minimalist, efficient use of space for small, multipurpose rooms? [more inside]
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:43 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:43 AM PST - 2 comments
Looking for advice to break into my career.
I am really hoping for some advice to help get me my first entry level job in a lab. Preferably relating to my forensic science/chemistry degree. [more inside]
Do you know a website or magazine that sells "new" vintage clothes?
Hi,
I'm looking for a magazine or website that sells clothes that are new but have an old fashioned look. [more inside]
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 8:17 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 8:17 AM PST - 21 comments
The Repercussions of Vengeance Peeing.
Our awesome 20lb puggle is giving us a new challenge. After a bunch of life-upheaval, Apple has taken to sneaking out in the middle of the night and peeing on the carpet in the guest room. So.... Carpet Cleaner? [more inside]
Received Chinese-language version of phone ordered on Amazon
I recently ordered the Huawei P6 mobile phone on Amazon (UK). I received it this morning, and it is clearly the Chinese version of the phone with a UK adapter included in the packaging. Will this be a big problem? Can I return it and get a refund easily? [more inside]
Zone 5 Artichoke Gardeners, Please Hope Me
I've been growing artichokes here in Michigan off and on for close to two decades. I've never successfully wintered over any of the plants and am wondering if there are any Zone 5 Mefites with a thumb greener than mine that can help with my overwintering strategies. [more inside]
Cross training for a half marathon while avoiding injuries?
I signed up for my first half marathon in mid January! I'm nervous and excited, but also injury prone. Had a really bad ankle sprain and broken toe within the past year (separate occasions), and don't want to injure myself again. How can I enjoy cross-training, training for the half, all while avoiding injuring myself over the next few months? [more inside]
Cost efficiency: Programmable thermostat vs constant temperature
I've read so much conflicting information and opinions regarding this, I have no idea what to believe.
Logic tells me that keeping the temperature high when we're home and awake, then dropping it when we're asleep or gone is the most efficient use of energy. But others have told me that the amount of work a furnace needs to go to bring a house (1450 sq ft for us) up a significant number of degrees daily is less efficient than simply maintaining a constant temperature. That doesn't make sense to me, but I've heard it from people whose opinion I respect. Help! [more inside]
Alternative to Simplyfile for Outlook on Mac
I'm helping my dad with his transition to Mac from PC, and there's one big piece of the puzzle missing. He's planning on using Outlook on the Mac (since he's used it for years on a PC), but would love a filing system like Simplyfile. While there seem to be a lot of filing systems for Apple Mail, I can't seem to find a good one for the latest version of Outlook for Mac. Any advice, hive mind? [more inside]
Help Satisfy Grandma's Curiosity About Front Yard Tombstones in NC
What's up with private homes having small graveyards in the front yard and right up on a major road in northeastern North Carolina? [more inside]
posted by letahl at 6:20 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by letahl at 6:20 AM PST - 20 comments
Backpacking near Denver or Boulder in November
Any suggestions on places near Denver or Boulder for a two-night backpacking trip in early November? [more inside]
How does FMLA work after a patient's death?
It seems like FMLA leave doesn't account for bereavement time. What, then, do I do, after the person I'm caring for (my father) dies- just pack up and immediately fly cross country and go back to work? What about dealing with his estate? [more inside]
Boardwalk Empire Finale?
I have a question about one scene in the series finale of Boardwalk Empire. Question and spoilers inside. [more inside]
posted by Silvertree at 6:07 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Silvertree at 6:07 AM PST - 5 comments
Living with friend who owes me rent
I live in a two bedroom flat which is owned by myself and my brother. She gets a discount half price, which goes to my brother. She owes several months rent, and now I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Effective substitute for Valium?
Long shot but here goes. I have an anxiety disorder and use valium as an occasional circuit breaker, essentially to have the odd night off when other coping mechanisms stop working. It works very well and is part of an agreed upon management plan with my GP and a psychiatrist, both of whom are happy with my level of use of the drug. Recent research is making me concerned about the long term effects of occasional use of the drug, however, and I would like to potentially find an alternative. [more inside]
October 26
How do you COMPLETELY disconnect a car's factory-installed panic alarm?
I need to know how to completely disconnect a factory-installed panic alarm on a 2002 Hyundai Sonata to keep it from drawing power on the battery. [more inside]
posted by LillyBird at 11:54 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by LillyBird at 11:54 PM PST - 12 comments
Just hired, soon fired?
Will taking time off just after starting a job lead to termination? Does it look really bad, or set me on the wrong foot with a new employer? Details below the fold. [more inside]
posted by stillmoving at 9:39 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by stillmoving at 9:39 PM PST - 16 comments
Can I browse files on my remote NAS using a VPN (and what is a VPN)?
If I am at home, I would like to be able to easily work with files locally that are on the remote NAS at work. I have never used a VPN before and I run my own biz, so I am not certain if I am even thinking about this correctly. [more inside]
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 8:57 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 8:57 PM PST - 9 comments
Tip Etiquette, for those being tipped.
About 8 months ago I asked a question about becoming a bartender on the fly, and the answers I received were fantastic, and really helped me become comfortable mixing drinks faster than I would have. But I have a few questions about something I didn't realize I would need help with: Tipping, or receiving tips. [more inside]
posted by ratherbethedevil at 8:56 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by ratherbethedevil at 8:56 PM PST - 25 comments
Help me reset my brain from depression
School and life have gotten tough in the past few weeks, I have become depressed and I want to prevent it from getting worse [more inside]
posted by winterportage at 8:24 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by winterportage at 8:24 PM PST - 10 comments
Is it dumb to buy a first home without a real estate agent?
I am considering buying my first home, and the potential seller has floated the idea of a private sale to the mutual friend who told me about the house. Is this a totally terrible idea? [more inside]
posted by looli at 7:45 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by looli at 7:45 PM PST - 21 comments
iTunes library: properly managing compilations
I need help in figuring out how to manage the compilation CDs in my iTunes library so that each song appears under its proper Artist listing but the entire CD line-up appears under its proper Album listing. I can't seem to get my library to do both at the same time. [more inside]
Do professional "military ethicists" exist?
Does the military have institutionalized roles in its bureaucracy for ethicists analogous to the role of 'bioethicists' in the life sciences? [more inside]
DNA Word Problem
Family legend has it that our ancestors were Separdic Jews who fled Spain for Italy during the inquisition. My great-grandparents definitely came to Ellis Island from Italy, but they are as far back as we can trace. I am interested in seeing if this is true. I need help figuring out who should get tested and what test they should take. Family tree details inside. [more inside]
posted by 1066 at 6:09 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by 1066 at 6:09 PM PST - 7 comments
What's this weird fruiting vine?
How can I learn how to make a movie?
I want to make a fullish-length movie (a video). Fiction. I'm writing the script. I know, everyone wants to do this, but... [more inside]
Best boardgames for future gamers
My boys like boardgames, and as a gamer I'm going to keep encouraging this. What are your recommendations for beginner moving to intermediate complexity games, with an emphasis on fun, communications and replayability? [more inside]
What do insurers do with two incidents of negligence?
Let's assume that you caused one fire due to negligence in your home, and then less than five years later you caused another fire due to negligence at the business you own? How would your insurance companies treat/investigate this? Let's also assume this is the second time around for the liability company.
How can a small-time employee get a promising start in the stock market?
For a small-time, late twenties employee working two jobs trying to make ends meet (and who knows next to nothing about the world of stocks and investing), how can he get involved in it without getting hurt? [more inside]
I'm Irish/Canadian. I'd like that for my common law partner too.
This is one of one things I've been meaning to get around to for years.
I'm a Canadian with an Irish passport (acquired through my Grandparents) that expired 20 years ago. I'd like to renew it and if possible, confer Irish citizenship on my common law partner. [more inside]
posted by bonobothegreat at 4:32 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bonobothegreat at 4:32 PM PST - 9 comments
What is a good, quiet bedroom fan?
White noise is fine, and soothing, perhaps even desirable, but clunking, groaning and rattling is not. Bedroom is ~12x 10 feet, bed in the middle, fan would probably be on the closest side. Budget up to a few hundred. Thanks!
Cover up those (chicken) breasts
What are some good sauces to bake chicken breasts in? [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 4:09 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by lunasol at 4:09 PM PST - 20 comments
Advice for moving on from the past?
Currently, looking for additional resources to help overcome negative experiences in my past. Yes, I'm in therapy and medical care already. [more inside]
Travelling to the U.S. from Canada: Health Insurance
My Canadian relatives often travel to the U.S. to see me, and they have become increasingly concerned about their health insurance coverage, to the point where they are considering not making any future visits. They do buy Blue Cross, but they say that it won't cover pre-existing conditions.
Is this true? What happens if one of them falls ill while they are here with something pre-existing? Any Canadians with personal experience getting sick while out of the country?
Life expectancy through history, but not skewed by infant mortality?
I want to know how long people usually lived in different historical periods, but all the charts I can find are heavily skewed by infant mortality rates. (See e.g.). Can anyone point me toward a similar break-down that removes infant mortality from the calculations?
How do I balance my desire to 'pay it forward' with common sense?
Fundamentally, how does a person learn to say 'no' kindly, even when they have more than the asker? How can I be firm, without being cruel, to those who are less advantaged? [more inside]
Should I report a rape that happened four years ago?
I was raped by S, a new friend and coworker, four years ago. The circumstances of S and I working at the same large company led me to keep it hush among some of our mutual friends and not seek legal recourse. Most of the time what happened doesn't bother me, but sometimes it resurfaces when I think about how I handled it, how he never learned anything from what happened, and that I never found any closure personally. Maybe reporting it will help put this to rest? Complication: entrepreneurship and being the face of a company after filing such a report. [more inside]
De-Un-Pimp My Apartment!
What can I do to turn a modest, sparse apartment into a living space that's delightful, useful, impressive, and comfortable? Assume I am starting very nearly from scratch. Extra points for cheapness, easy installations, things which I can move with me, and tips that will make my life easier and happier rather than just flashier. [more inside]
posted by rorgy at 12:57 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by rorgy at 12:57 PM PST - 14 comments
archival storage and protection for laserjet/inkjet/xerox material?
Looking for acid-free non-plastic translucent or transparent sleeves or envelopes to fit folded printed paper PDF event tickets of various sizes and similar containers for digest-size and legal-digest (7 x 8.5 in ) xerox zines. Any leads? Details follow. [more inside]
posted by mwhybark at 12:56 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by mwhybark at 12:56 PM PST - 5 comments
I love you so we're done
How do I maintain the resolve to cut off a great but unhealthy friendship? [more inside]
Origins of "Humans of New York" style of photography
It occurred to me recently that HONY may have been influenced by Bill Owens' Suburbia project in the '70s, which had a similar approach of photographing strangers and getting a quote from them to accompany the picture. Are there other examples of this technique in art photography? [more inside]
Out of focus
I have been shooting with a DSLR for five years and apparently I still don't get focus, nor can I find anyone IRL to explain it to me. Halp? [more inside]
posted by Sheydem-tants at 9:59 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Sheydem-tants at 9:59 AM PST - 16 comments
Finding a competent web app developer for one job
I have a piece of web software in mind which I would like to have created - it's your standard PHP/MySQL webapp, really, but there are probably nifty new technologies which could be used instead of the aforementioned combo. [more inside]
Looking for documentation for Albinon ADG zoom lens
I'm looking for documentation for a Albinar ADG MC 80-200mm f/4.5-5.6 Auto Zoom Macro Lens with a Pentax K mount. User guide, specs, marketing material, or anything else would be great.
Like AskMefi but in Spanish?
I am trying to improve my Spanish, especially the reading comprehension bit, looking for good quality discussion forums I could add to my daily reading list. [more inside]
How to proceed when things are bad?
My girlfriend and I (female) have been together nearly 6 years. Things were really solid the first 4 years or so, but for the last two years we've really been struggling. There are a lot of frustrations on both sides, but things really came to a head about 6 weeks ago. [more inside]
Is this web scraping?
So I'm doing a project where I want to do some analysis on a whole bunch of text from newspapers and magazines. [more inside]
Epilepsy in the blogosphere
I am trying to find blogs about epilepsy that are frequently updated and who have a twitter account I can hopefully follow. Majority of the one's I found have sporadic updates and don't really delve into patient/caretaker experience in depth (advocacy groups have community forums but they are all over the place). It can be for childhood or adult epilepsy diagnosis. Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated!
Adoptee DNA test for African American roots?
Which of the several commercial DNA ancestry tests would be the best for a 44 year old man trying to find his African American relatives and ancestry. The man is adopted, his biological mother is white. He's met her but she remembers few details about his African American biological father, not enough to make him findable. He is hoping that a DNA test might help him to find out more about his father and his father's family.
posted by mareli at 6:35 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mareli at 6:35 AM PST - 8 comments
There's a book for that! Multiple varieties of English version
I need a book on the different varieties of English, their spellings, grammar and punctuation and some info on vocabulary differences, too. But I'm having trouble finding one. [more inside]
Help for relieving motion sickness on the trolley/light rail?
My partner becomes motion sick shortly after getting on the trolley. She feels very nauseated within a couple of minutes. The trolley tends to accelerate and decelerate rapidly at each stop, and when the trolley is underground the ride can be fairly bumpy. Is there anything she can do to prevent or treat this, ideally without having to take medication? [more inside]
Ice cold food & drinks and its effect on metabolism. If any.
Just wondering: Thinking about increasing waist-lines and the late 20th century penchant for iced drinks. If a load of ice cold liquid hits your stomach and lowers your core body temperature, presumably your metabolism has to compensate in some way. Is there any evidence of any long term impact to metabolism?
posted by marvin at 3:23 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by marvin at 3:23 AM PST - 7 comments
October 25
Great Acoustic Covers
Any favourite Acoustic covers? Especially stuff that is wedding friendly?
posted by thelloydshow at 8:31 PM PST - 49 comments
posted by thelloydshow at 8:31 PM PST - 49 comments
What type of retirement service am I looking for?
I have too many retirement accounts at too many institutions (7 going on 9). I dislike managing them all and would like to hire someone. I don't need help planning or making decisions. I need an administrator to buy my already chosen funds as money is deposited and to give me consolidated reports once per year. Does anyone know is this type of service exists? [more inside]
Songs that contain a full stop? A momentary pause of any sound-making?
I'm looking for songs (linkable to full versions such as by YouTube) to listen to that contain what I call a full stop, whereas the production of sound halts completely for a moment before resuming. Metal, Rock, Country, Klezmer, K-pop, Mariachi, or whatever you prefer.. Examples within. [more inside]
How to Calc Capital Gains on Home Sale /down payment was partially gift?
I have some help coming my way towards down payment. Let's say... for simplicity sake ...that I am receiving $100k as gift towards down. I know the gift amount won't count as "cost" when calculating capital gain at time of sale in the future. But if I receive the "gift" in chunks of $14k from various individuals under the annual gift exclusion clause, could any of those chunked amounts be included in my cost to reduce my capital gain? Thanks. I hope this is a simple yes/no question. [more inside]
A Curious Question About Wiring
I discovered this week that the closet light in my new home is wired in a questionable way, and I need to know if this is a problem. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 3:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by 4ster at 3:57 PM PST - 8 comments
$trategies to get people to pay up?
My boss has given me the task of collecting an outstanding invoice. I have no experience doing something like this, and it is not part of my normal job description. If I'm successful, there's a cash bonus in it for me... Tips and tricks please! Thanks.
posted by tippy at 3:39 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by tippy at 3:39 PM PST - 21 comments
How to give employees unwelcome news
Half of my team makes widgets and half of my team makes sprockets. Next week, I need to tell my widget-making employees that we are cutting back on widget production and ramping up sprocket production -- they will start making sprockets 25-50% of the time. How do I make this unwelcome (but needed) change in job responsibilities suck less for my team? [more inside]
Fraught discussion of my sexual history with current partner
I'm a mid-20s dude in a solid, fulfilling relationship with a woman in her early 20s, who we'll call G. G and I see eye-to-eye on pretty much everything important, but one sticking point has come up with regards to my sexual history that's bothering us both quite a bit. [Details are probably NSFW] [more inside]
Where the hell are my keys?
I lost my keys somewhere in a very narrow geographic area yesterday, and I have no clue what could have happened. Can the hivemind think of anyplace in my path I might not have looked, or have any idea what might have happened? Steps retraced below the fold. [more inside]
Was this an abusive relationship?
I dated a guy for a couple years. There were a lot of problems. For my own self-knowledge, I'd like to know whether it was just incompatibility, or whether he was being abusive. [more inside]
Will a faulty air bag sensor prevent dealer replacement of air bag?
My car has an air bag that is subject to the big air bag recall. Will a faulty passenger side air bag sensor cause my dealer not to replace my (presumably) faulty driver's side air bag? [more inside]
posted by Rob Rockets at 1:50 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by Rob Rockets at 1:50 PM PST - 1 comment
What's Arabic for 'Kick Me?'
I have a T-shirt with text in some kind of Arabic language, and I have no idea what it says (or even what language it says it in!) There's also a small triangular logo with an antelope and the word 'Zama'. Does anyone know A) what language it is, B) what it says and C) what the context is? [more inside]
posted by Green Winnebago at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Green Winnebago at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
I need to learn to think like a criminal in seven days flat, Help!
posted by marienbad at 1:23 PM PST - 10 comments
How to achieve Calvin's hair with much longer hair
For Halloween this year, my 11 year old son is being Calvin of Calvin and Hobbes. We've sorted out his costume, but I am having a hard time figuring out what to do with his hair. My son's hair, (seen here) is much longer than Calvin's. How can we style his hair, which he has no desire to cut, into a style that still evokes Calvin?
posted by Nimmie Amee at 1:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Nimmie Amee at 1:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Does this service exist?
I made my Christmas gift list early, and I'm looking for a way to watch for sales on this specific list of items between now and early December without having to check every sale flyer for every possible store every week. Does this exist as a web service or an app? [more inside]
Does Anyone Practice Social Psychology - in Portland, Oregon?
I have two questions:
1) Has social psychology given rise to clinicians, that is, therapists whose practices use the theories and principles that come out of social psychology?
2) If so, are there any in Portland, Oregon? [more inside]
posted by ADave at 12:35 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by ADave at 12:35 PM PST - 12 comments
Help me find a story I vaguely remember -- Halloween edition
It was a scary story, maybe a folk-tale, that was part of a collection geared towards children. A child's mother is replaced by some kind of cat-like doppelganger, and the child knows because of the replacement mother's mouth (full of tiny sharp teeth) and her constant craving for fish. I believe the story was set somewhere in Asia...either China or Japan.
Sound familiar?
Best Platform / Ideas on Crowdsourcing for Exam Questions?
I have been tasked with coming up with a recommendation for a process to crowdsource questions for exams published by my company. These exams measure knowledge of various products and are specific to job role. For example, there will be one to three exams for Product X that correspond to the job roles of layman, mid-level user, and advanced user. [more inside]
What is Dish Network HDTV like?
We are ready to upgrade from our ancient TiVo to a DVR that is compatible with Dish Network and supports an HD signal (yes, we are behind the times). Before we pull the trigger, we want to know what to expect. I mean, yes, we expect it to change channels and record things, but...do you like it? Does the UI work well? Anything we should know about going in?
Renting an apartment while on Tenant Blacklist in NYC
Hi Everyone,
I searched and could not find a question about this already posted so here goes. I am looking for an apartment for the first time in 6 years and I have found myself on the tenant 'blacklist'. I had NO IDEA. [more inside]
How to make my tiny resume shine
I'm applying for a position that's similar to one I held six years ago. There are two problems I have making a resume for the job. The first is that while I've had a similar position for two years, it's my only experience in the field. The second is that all my other recent work experience is in retail (as I left my full time job to become a stay at home parent). How can I best handle this on the resume and cover letter?
Dog health issues
Our male German Shepherd dog cries from time to time, as though in pain. Trying to figure out what the reason could be. [more inside]
Can I be notified when someone dies?
Is there some service where I can set up an alert that will tell me if a death notice is posted for a certain name? Assume I know the cities/newspapers in which such a notice would likely be posted. [more inside]
How to remove the cartridge from a Glacier Bay two-handle bathroom sink?
I have a leaky Glacier Bay two-handle bathroom sink. I am attempting to replace the cartridge(s) but I am stuck, and also have a question. More to follow... [more inside]
posted by Ike_Arumba at 7:54 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Ike_Arumba at 7:54 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me pick a laptop!
my beloved macbook pro has died and the emergency replacement i bought (an hp) is the devil's own computer. i need a new laptop that will function in a few specific ways... [more inside]
First Date Strategizing
In the array of approaches out there regarding the choice of an optimal first date activity, the majority of thoughts on the subject seem to fall generally into two opposing schools of thought. I am very curious to get the AskMeFi community's thoughts on the topic as there seems to be a pretty smart bunch here. [more inside]
Marketable Skills - quickly!
I'm a woman in my early 40s with no real marketable skills that make me stand out in job hunting.
I currently have a job in Montreal, but I'm originally from Toronto and for various reasons, I'm planning on moving back. I'd like to learn some skill(s) in the next 6 months or so (planning on moving July 1) that will hopefully make a significant increase in the likelihood that I can find a job quickly once there. [more inside]
help me pants - thunder thigh edition
Hey folks I'm a reasonably fit male, 5'10" with a 32-34" waist and enormous thighs. Finding good pants is always problematic - typically they get around my trunks and are completely loose around my waist.
I've had the best luck with Lucky brand jeans, but there must be more pant options out there.
I try to dress casual chic - any tips, tricks or brand recommendations would be appreciated.
posted by askmehow at 7:08 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by askmehow at 7:08 AM PST - 13 comments
Mom: Destroying Friendships Since 2014
My son has social delays that make making friends hard. He was finally on his way to making a real friend, and I (his mother) ruined it by inadvertently alienating the other child's mother. I can't fix it. How do I live with it? [more inside]
How to boil down again to one shop?
Can you still do a week's food shopping in one go? If you have moved to going to the grocery store more than once a week to buy things to cook that day or the next few days, what do you typically run out of, or is it more of an impulse buy? If you were able to have appliances or storage to help you keep food fresh or remember to use what you bought, what would you consider getting? Assume a typical English diet: meat, potatoes, greens, bread, tea, coffee, milk etc. [more inside]
device for remotely turning on roof cables for ice dams
I have roof cables installed on my roof to help with our awful ice dams. Problem is, it is very expensive just to leave them running all the time when I am at work. But if I turn them off and a snowstorm starts while I am at work, then the ice dams form before I get home.
Can anyone suggest some kind of a remote activation device. Ideally something that would let me turn on the cables from my phone or from the web. The system is already installed on the roof, so all I need is some kind of system to turn it on and off.
Please do not suggest modifications to the roof - we have been through every type of soffit, sheathing, roofing solution over a period of 20 years - these ice dams are just an insoluble problem and the only way to control them is with the cables. So I am only looking for replies that can suggest ways to turn the cables on and off remotely. Thanks!
posted by cmp4Meta at 6:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by cmp4Meta at 6:11 AM PST - 9 comments
Where in the world is best to visit in December/January?
Can you suggest places where there's no extended shutdown over New Year, and places that appear to best advantage in December/January? [more inside]
posted by Cheese Monster at 5:28 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Cheese Monster at 5:28 AM PST - 21 comments
Masonry project problem -- is the proposed solution ok?
Adding granite toppers on our exterior stairway made the step heights hazardously uneven. Is the plan for addressing it ok? [more inside]
posted by daisyace at 4:56 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by daisyace at 4:56 AM PST - 10 comments
October 24
Places to live alone on low income
I'm bored (and miserable) where I'm currently living and interested in moving on again, but don't want to fall into the same trap of barely surviving from one paycheck to the next, if even that. Looking for personal recommendations on where a single person might afford to live alone at minimum wage without subsisting on ramen and hot dogs. Is it even possible? [more inside]
Best edition of The Wind in the Willows?
I want to buy a nice copy of The Wind in the Willows as a gift. I went to AbeBooks, and there's about a million editions, and most of them don't have extensive pictures of the guts. [more inside]
posted by erikgrande at 10:09 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by erikgrande at 10:09 PM PST - 11 comments
Do I just resign myself to being a Prozac junkie?
So, I'm too lazy to link to them, but many of my previous questions have waxed poetic on my experiences with depression, its effects on my cognition and motivation, as well as my trials with a number of treatment modalities- some pharmaceutical, some alternative, some psychological.
After years of back-and-forth experiments with nearly everything in the book, I come to the same conclusion time and again: Fluoxetine is the only thing that works.- slowly, under only the best conditions, and for a very short time before I need to up my dose. ( We're talking weeks). What's going on here? [more inside]
posted by marsbar77 at 9:51 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by marsbar77 at 9:51 PM PST - 18 comments
Confronting an alcoholic
Would I be overstepping my bounds in confronting someone I'm not well-acquainted with about going to rehab? [more inside]
posted by jenh526 at 8:02 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by jenh526 at 8:02 PM PST - 28 comments
New Dell Windows 7 / 8.1 Pro has no product key label
My new Dell desktop with Windows 7 / 8.1 Pro arrived with no product key label on the box or anywhere else. I've bought several 7 / 8 PCs (not Dell) for work and this is a first. Before I descend into Dell Hell, could someone shed some light on this? [more inside]
posted by wallabear at 7:29 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by wallabear at 7:29 PM PST - 4 comments
How best to protect a child when my ex brings him into our arguments?
How should I buffer a child from the stress of divorced parents' arguments when my ex-wife is extremely open with him about adult stresses and about what she wants? [more inside]
posted by kroshka at 6:19 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by kroshka at 6:19 PM PST - 26 comments
What is this storage space built into my foundation and what is it for?
The concrete foundation in our 1909 bungalow-ish house has some kind of a storage container built into it. What could this have been used for? [more inside]
Help me decide how to put a DVD online.
So I have this DVD with accompanying copyright information, descriptive notes and disclaimers and I'd like to put it online so others can access it. The last time I did such a thing, I ripped it and converted to FLV and used JW Player. I could do that again but I wonder if that's what people at the end of 2014 would do. Are we in a post-flash world? Could I do something similar in a different format? (Even though I have some experience with this, please "explain like I'm 5.") [more inside]
posted by Obscure Reference at 4:44 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Obscure Reference at 4:44 PM PST - 6 comments
Can you explain how feelings work?
I guess I'm 39 going on 9 but I need you to explain feelings please, and what I might be able to to about them. Can I stop/manage/fast-track the negative ones somehow? Illustrative example inside but I'd really like to hear broad principles please [more inside]
posted by Gomoryhu at 2:56 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Gomoryhu at 2:56 PM PST - 23 comments
HELP! HAL is in my IBM!!
I just picked up an IBM electric typewriter from a salvage shop. However, as you can see HERE, there's something a little bit strange going on. Any electricians out there who can give me some insight? Thanks!
Slumber party advice
My daughter is having a slumber party for her birthday. I'm used to (and comfortable with) normal birthday parties: planning lots of fun activities, yummy things to eat and keeping order with bouncing children for a few hours, but I'm worried about having a half dozen 7 & 8 year olds sleeping here. Those of you have done it -- what's your advice? Anything that would help this go well? [more inside]
posted by Margalo Epps at 2:42 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Margalo Epps at 2:42 PM PST - 18 comments
I'm 50 miles short of Gold on United's MileagePlus, when will I be gold?
More specifically: I have a four hour layover in Istanbul tomorrow (after a 15 hour flight) and would like to get free lounge access (which I would get with gold status). Will I be gold during the trip, or will I only be gold after the trip?
Stop OS X From Prompting about opening applications for the first time!
Timely Help Needed
Updated to Yosemite and now all my calendar workflows require me to click OK to allow them to be run for the first time. [more inside]
posted by terrapin at 2:22 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by terrapin at 2:22 PM PST - 3 comments
Administrative roles in oil/gas and offshore
What administrative roles are there at oil/gas plants or offshore rigs, in addition to HR and office clerks? [more inside]
Moving balances in a mutual fund
When transferring balances from one mutual fund to another in my 401k, what the is the most advantageous format to use for the transfer (percent, shares, or dollars) and why? [more inside]
posted by OrangeDisk at 1:55 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by OrangeDisk at 1:55 PM PST - 4 comments
How do I find a job recruiter to adopt me?
I'm looking for a new job - how might I get a recruiter to adopt me? [more inside]
Identify these movie deaths
The directors of the horror film The ABCs Of Death 2 were asked for their favorite movie deaths and a compilation of them was made (NSFW). I can't find a list of the films where the clips are from online and I'm trying to find out the ones I don't know [more inside]
posted by fearfulsymmetry at 1:32 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by fearfulsymmetry at 1:32 PM PST - 10 comments
Evil Circus Roustabout Costume Help
We are going to a Halloween party where the theme is "sinister circus." My husband wants to go as a wicked roustabout. He's all set with a belt full of rope and carabiners, old-fashioned, tattered clothes and oil smudges on his face. He even made up a batch of blue rock candy (which if you're a Breaking Bad fan you'll get.) Problem is... [more inside]
Keepin' Up with the Future
My role at my job is changing and I need to stay more abreast of the latest trends in IT, specifically: enterprise platforms (CRMs, CSMs, Human Resources, General Ledger, and lots more!), mobile strategy, cloud-first strategy, DaaS, and I'm sure things I don't even know about yet. I'm looking for good blogs/online resources that I can stay on top of to help me with this. Note: I do not have a CS background, but am OK reading things that require additional digging to understand. [more inside]
posted by CMcG at 1:11 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by CMcG at 1:11 PM PST - 4 comments
Give me the best short bursts of horror/VHS/halloween nostalgia you got.
I'm putting together a Halloween marathon party this weekend, with a few horror movies (about evenly split between good and cheesy selections), and lots of video interludes in between that speak to a sense of pre-2000 horror/VHS/halloween nostalgia. I need your help on the interludes.
I'm finding it hard to pick the exact vibe I'm looking for, but for examples: [more inside]
posted by Ash3000 at 12:56 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Ash3000 at 12:56 PM PST - 9 comments
More recruiters = more problems
A third-party recruiter wants me to commit to a job before negotiating salary with the company. How do I handle this? [more inside]
How can folks protect themselves in this new hacky, doxxy world?
What are some steps people can take, or some resources they can read up on to shore up their own security and protect their identity in the event that they were to become a target of hacking and online harassment? [more inside]
Planning a staff retreat- how to make it worthwhile yet fun
I am planning a staff retreat that is about 8 hours long- 9-4ish. How do I make the most of this, while also having fun aspects with no "trust falls" or cheesy aspects? We'll be in the home of one of our board members (she'll be gone) with lots of snacks and/or board games or whatever you all suggest. I hope we'll have some structure in the beginning of the day, then maybe games and getting to know you stuff. Thoughts? [more inside]
Affordable indoor water parks (or other fun outings) in the Northeast
My 13-year-old stepdaughter has gotten to the point where all she wants for holiday gifts is gift cards, which doesn't provide a lot of excitement when unwrapping gifts. My partner and I want to surprise her with a fun yet affordable overnight trip no more than about a 4 hour drive outside of NYC. She's always wanted to go to a water park with us, and Great Wolf Lodge is way out of our price range. Any suggestions for alternatives? [more inside]
posted by Neely O'Hara at 11:09 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Neely O'Hara at 11:09 AM PST - 14 comments
DIY "Aged/Distressed" Comic Cover on MDF
I want to make my own comics that look distressed and mounted on MDF like these. [more inside]
posted by chicaboom at 10:40 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by chicaboom at 10:40 AM PST - 8 comments
Team building Smeam Building
We're having our semi-annual meeting at my office and me and another co-worker have been assigned the task of coming up with two activities for the 40ish people in attendance that will take 10-15 minutes long each. Help me come up with some interesting, fun, not cliche activities for our group. [more inside]
Why is my cat eating the tissues?
My cat eats tissues. She will sit at the tissue box and pull them out and eat them... [more inside]
posted by goml at 10:12 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by goml at 10:12 AM PST - 14 comments
Fish-themed alternate URL for amazon.com
I vaguely recall there being a domain name involving the word "fish" (or something similar and ridiculous) that would redirect to amazon.com. Was this a dream? I can't find any information about it anywhere. [more inside]
How does an adjunct instructor respond to this phone call
I'm freaking out, so would like advice to stop the freakout along with anything else. My boss told me that there had been "issues of classroom management" with regards to my teaching. What those issues are, I don't know. Neither does she. But I'm getting more job responsibilities because of it. [more inside]
Walter White and Frank Underwood must be livid.
I'm thinking there must be many real people out there with the same names as fictional TV characters. They had these names before the TV show ever came into being, but because of the huge popularity of these shows, their lives must be changed. [more inside]
Running-filter: Any success with Maffetone / low heart-rate training?
I'm an experienced runner who is intrigued by the "Maffetone method", or doing the bulk of training at a very low heart rate to improve aerobic endurance. Has anyone here tried it? If so, what were your results? Would you recommend it?
posted by barnoley at 8:58 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by barnoley at 8:58 AM PST - 7 comments
Seeking help for "help-seeking"/"help seeking"/"helpseeking"
Is the term "help seeking" one word or two? If it is two words, should it be hyphenated when it's not serving as a compound adjective? [more inside]
One weird trick that the gutter cleaners don't want you to know
I don't mind cleaning my gutters (at least the ones I can reach), but I feel like there has to be a better way. Gutter enthusiasts, share your wisdom! [more inside]
New-fangled Scanner Technology
I'm looking for a document scanner setup with some fairly specific requirements... [more inside]
Not interested in icicles in my hair after swimming!
Hey swimmers. I'm loving lap swimming. And with colder weather coming, I'm wondering how to stay warm from pool to home (due to wet hair). [more inside]
posted by foxhat10 at 8:10 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by foxhat10 at 8:10 AM PST - 24 comments
Minimalist, modern gauged earrings?
I'm looking for places to buy gauged earrings, with a few specific requirements. [more inside]
Help me find a mulitivitamin that I am not allergic to
So far, the only multivitamin that I have not had a bad reaction to has been Apex Performance Multivitamin, which I last used 5 years ago. It appears to have been discontinued. [more inside]
Cardio Equipment: New or Used?
We're considering getting a piece of cardio equipment for the home, probably an elliptical. Are there any serious pitfalls to buying it used? The price difference seems pretty enormous, which always makes me suspicious. [more inside]
Macintosh Power Users -- how do you afford to keep up?
I was recently given a heavy Mac G5 Tower by my uncle. It has Mac OS 10.4 "TIGER" on it... [more inside]
Leave fulltime job to take part-time job--of course, less money
Would you leave a full-time job that is stifling, depressing and not a good fit for you to take the part-time job of your dreams? Full-time job pays $55K and part-time job pays $40K. Am I crazy to even think about doing this?
Has anybody seen this photograph? Complication: boobs.
Three or four years ago I saw a photograph in an actual newspaper of a group of wetnurses and babies in an Italian orphanage. There were some rows of buxom young women in uniform, each one seated with a breast out feeding a baby. The young women all wore a kind of nurses cap and oddly, every single one of them had dark curly hair. There was an odd juxtaposition in the picture between the uniformity of the group - and they were pretty smart - and the intimacy of the action. The date must have been 1940's or 30's.
Now I've tried googling this picture and while the searches have taken me to some unexpectedly alarming places, I've not found it. The closest I've got, in feeling and structure, is number 3 of 4 here; but this isn't it. So, consulting the diverse and extensive knowledges accumulated here, does anyone know the photograph and where I might see it again? [more inside]
posted by glasseyes at 3:51 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by glasseyes at 3:51 AM PST - 14 comments
Food safety question: Mussels with green, mealy innards?
I have a tub of cooked and marinated Mussel meat I bought today and I have just found that most of the animals are partly filled with a dark green mealy paste-like substance that looks like mud. Is this just roe? Or is it filth? [more inside]
Illegal to take photos in Belgian cabs?
Belgian natives and residents:
Last Sunday I had to take a cab from Brussels Midi to where I was staying. During the course of the ride the driver proceeded to : text, talk on his phone, smoke and blast shitty French rap. [more inside]
Can you identify this noise?
I live in a small, 10-unit apartment and have an ongoing issue with noise. There is a constant humming sound around 375 hz that is particularly loud in our apartment and on our floor. [more inside]
posted by knilstad at 12:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by knilstad at 12:47 AM PST - 4 comments
October 23
A Long Time Ago, In A Relationship Far, Far Away
When should I tell new partners about past abuse? [more inside]
How to deal with a roommate who doesn't lock the door leading outside?
I live in a shared house (not a college dorm) with 8 others. I am the only woman in the house. One of my roommates refuses to lock the door going outside despite my respectful, reasonable requests to keep the house secure and locked, and he has acted rudely towards me. I emailed the landlord but haven't heard back yet. What should I do? [more inside]
Protect my pants
I want something to protect my pants from bike grease. Holding the pant tight with a conventional pant-holding-device is not sufficient, I still get chain grease all over my right calf. [more inside]
What talisman/coin/medal is attached to this "Evil Eye" bracelet?
My (Greek Orthodox) aunt gave my mom this bracelet to give to me. It is one of those anti-"Evil Eye" bracelets. Attached to each end of the bracelet is this coin-like thing. I am having a hard time deciphering what is pictured on the coin and what it symbolizes. Any knowledgeable folks know more than Google about this? [more inside]
posted by Angel de Lune at 8:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Angel de Lune at 8:35 PM PST - 7 comments
naming ebola patients
Why/how are US patients who have contracted ebola virus disease identified by name to the newsmedia? [more inside]
In Canada, is it legal to lie about recording a conversation?
In Canada, if someone asks you if you are recording a conversation, can you lie and continue to record it? [more inside]
Generational impact of incest and intermarriage between cousins
My mother is convinced she is the product of an incentious relationship by her mother and her grandfather. Genetic testing proved inconclusice due to the poor quality of the samples available from her grandfather (my greatgrandfather) and her mother (my grandmother) as both were deceased by the time the testing was done.
My parents are first cousins (my maternal and my paternal grandmothers are sisters).
I have a child by my SO (not a relative). I constantly worry for his long-term health. This whole issue was extremly worrying to me during pregnancy, but I expected my worries to decrease once he is older, and especially as he continues to develop fine physically and mentally, developing right on target. He will soon turn 6 and I worry more than ever, every little quirk gives me sleepless nights. [more inside]
# = ♀ ?
How and when did referring to a woman as a "number" become a euphemism?
posted by Heatwole at 6:14 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Heatwole at 6:14 PM PST - 21 comments
Asking for a friend...Got fired, need health insurance, now what?
I just got fired. I was miserable and stressed and planned to have a talk with the CEO on Monday. Instead, he fired me today. I'm in California. What rights, if any, do I have? [more inside]
Need help brainstorming/planning transitions to a postacademic career
Yep, sorry, another "I quit my humanities PhD and I have no idea how the real world works" thread. Except I haven't actually quit yet; this is more like advance research. It's seeming increasingly likely that I may have to leave ABD for the sake of my mental health, so I'm looking for input on how to manage the early stages of a transition to a career (ideally arts-related) where I'll have little relevant background. This post is also an early step in my effort to encourage more constructive coping behaviors after fairly serious depression. [more inside]
Searching for Children's book about a yellow goggle sporting bird
In my twitter feed this afternoon, I happened upon a heartbreaking tweet about a new dad who has stage 4 lung cancer and only weeks to live is desperate to find a book that he remembers from his childhood to leave to his infant daughter. All he can recall is that it is about a yellow bird that wears goggles and wants to fly, but all attempts fail. [more inside]
posted by kaybdc at 5:04 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by kaybdc at 5:04 PM PST - 5 comments
Stopping in a manual transmission
6-speed manual transmission, standard clutch--not "paddle" or "semi-automatic" or "clutchless." Two ways to stop: [more inside]
"It's alive! My creature LIVES!"--Gene Wilder, Young Frankenstein
I've begun my first culture of sourdough starter and hope to keep her/him going for a long time. We need to bond. Help me with a name...
posted by TigerMoth at 4:35 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by TigerMoth at 4:35 PM PST - 33 comments
Mysterious Italian (maybe) parade, 1966
Can anyone tell me what's going on in this photo?
posted by ryanshepard at 3:40 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 3:40 PM PST - 22 comments
How to handle a double refund
I made a major appliance purchase at a major brick-and-mortar retailer via the web earlier this month. When the items were delivered they didn't fit and had to be returned. The items came in a set and, checking my credit card, it appears that, while they initialy charged my for the set, when they refunded me they refunded both for the individual items and the set. Obviously I have to give them their money back (if not legally, then ethically: it's a couple thousand dollars), but I'm concerned about the right way to go about this to avoid getting double charged the other way and to minimize my own hassle. [more inside]
'Negative' information search / disprove info?
In what way could I reliably find out whether a person still lives at a given address, while specifically NOT hearing anything about where he moved to, and NOT indicating to him that I'm seeking this info or that anyone's seeking it on my behalf? [more inside]
The roof is leaking, and the property manager couldn't care less. Help?
We rent a second-floor apartment in a two-story house. There is apparently a leak in the roof, and when there's a lot of rain (like right now, it's been pouring since last night!) water drips through our living room ceiling. It's not a HUGE leak, but it's right in the middle of the room, and the water is coming in right next to a light fixture. The property manager has been notified twice -- once a few months ago, and once today. He is ignoring us. Many many more details after the cut... [more inside]
posted by sarcasticah at 2:56 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by sarcasticah at 2:56 PM PST - 30 comments
Etsy or indie designers for tasteful, hypoallergenic dangly earrings?
I need sparkly, dangly statement earrings with posts made of sterling silver, gold-plated silver, or gold. Where can I find them for <$100/pair? [more inside]
posted by dynamiiiite at 2:32 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by dynamiiiite at 2:32 PM PST - 12 comments
Help me manage my growing sensitivity to fragrance
I've gotten increasingly sensitive to fragrance over the past couple of years, and it's starting to cause me real problems. Whenever I smell Febreze or anything with a very strong fragrance, my throat closes up, I can "taste" the smell, I sneeze and my nose runs, my eyes water, and I get a migraine that can incapacitate me for hours. I need to be able to function while travelling for my work: please help me figure out how to handle this. [more inside]
Changes are hard.
I will enter a master's program in Fall 2015 in the humanities. I want to use the next year to become as prepared as possible. [more inside]
Abusive parents still blame me
My parents were abusive and awful. I recently tried to get back in touch out of a misplaced hope for connection. They blame me (!?) for making them look bad, among other things, and want me to apologize. What should I do? [more inside]
Help us find a bar in NYC for a casual post-wedding soiree!
My husband-to-be and I plan to have a small civil wedding with immediate family in California (where we live), and would like to throw a casual party with drinks and dancing at a bar in Manhattan or Brooklyn so we can celebrate with our friends. [more inside]
gossip-averse liberal political news sources: all killer, no filler?
Hoping to find at least one ostensibly liberal news website that has not yet collapsed into a pit of Buzzfeed-ification or gossip column nonsense masquerading as current events. I don't want to read about the latest offensive off-the-cuff remark made by some random state representative or Joe the Plumber or Sarah Palin or any other totally irrelevant GOP-friendly media personality. I only want to read in-depth stories about U.S. politics with a liberal bent: candidates, issue positions, polls, all that fun stuff. Can you help? [more inside]
How demons regard Halloween in Buffy
I feel sure that one of you has got this. I know in the Buffyverse that demons generally avoid Halloween. But where is this concept is explained? Do you have a cite for it? I checked the Buffy wiki but there's no citation.
Best things to bring to chemo appointment?
I'll be accompanying my mother-in-law to her first chemo appointment tomorrow. What can I bring her to make the experience as comfortable as possible for her? [more inside]
posted by geeky at 1:43 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by geeky at 1:43 PM PST - 15 comments
What can I do with small children in Seattle early Saturday morning?
I need to entertain two small children (under 5) for several hours this Saturday starting at 8 AM. Of course, it's been raining all week, and it's likely to be raining then, and even if it's not raining, all the playgrounds will be wet with dew. All our usual haunts don't open until 10 AM. What can I do that's indoors between 8 and 10? Seattle area - I am willing to drive a bit.
Simple first aid reference
I'm looking for a simple first aid print reference for my retired parents, but there are a few preferences:
(1) Pictures!
(2) Simple English (for ESL)
(3) Large print (I suppose lots of good visuals could substitute...)
(4) Should cover both choking and CPR (Got into argument with mom that "drink water!" isn't a legit response to someone choking. She won't listen to me, so a "professional" reference is needed.)
TIA
What % of your reading do you need to remember at post-grad level?
I'm interested in doing a Chinese Studies MA but I don't know how much of my reading I need to remember. Any advice? [more inside]
"What about a golfing ghost?"
My nephews and I seek your assistance in kicking butt in a pumpkin carving contest. Pumpkin shaped snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by jaksemas at 12:46 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by jaksemas at 12:46 PM PST - 11 comments
Raw, Gritty, Live R&B Performances
Recently I've been all about Sam Cooke's Live at the Harlem Square Club, Etta James Rocks the House, and James Brown Live at the Apollo. Can you recommend other live soul or R&B recordings that have the same kind of raw energy?
Rather, uh, enthusiastic workplace (snowflake)
I need to survive here, since transferring out hasn't worked (yet). [more inside]
1970s San Francisco geography/research
Please help me with some basic research for my planned NaNoWriMo novel for November! It will be set in and around late 1970s San Francisco. I have one specific question regarding surrounding geography, and a request for general ideas/inspiration inside! [more inside]
Managing aggression between a dog and a cat?
I think my pets have sibling rivalry. [more inside]
The most LA problem I've ever had
Are my expectations with regard to my photographer unreasonable? [more inside]
posted by Aubergine at 10:34 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Aubergine at 10:34 AM PST - 19 comments
How do you organize your digital recipes?
What system do you use to organize your digital recipes from various sources? I often come across recipes from Twitter friends, Buzzfeed (20 ways to use mustard!), YouTube, Tumblr, Metafilter, etc and then I can't find them again. I know I could use a bookmarking system like Pinboard, or something more complex like Evernote, but I wondered what other people do.
How to become a more polite driver (or person)?
How can I become a more polite driver on the road? I try my best and usually succeed at the basics--using turn signals, not cutting people off--but I still run into situations on a regular basis where 5 seconds later, I think, "Man, I was kind of a jerk there." How can I learn to be aware of these situations before the fact? [more inside]
posted by serelliya at 10:18 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by serelliya at 10:18 AM PST - 16 comments
Help, Book-Sleuths of AskMe!
Trying to track down a Halloween-y children's (?) book of puzzles and such. Details within. [more inside]
What are some good goals to set in the beginning of a relationship?
I've been dating this girl for a little over a week now and we're pretty heavily into each other. We're in the puppy-love phase that most relationships start out with. It's very sweet and I'm enjoying it. I'm fairly sure I want to stay with this person longer-term. What are some things I can do in the first few weeks of our relationship to help make that happen? What do you try to get out of the first few weeks of a relationship that you're interested in maintaining? [more inside]
posted by Fister Roboto at 9:37 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Fister Roboto at 9:37 AM PST - 22 comments
The inventor of red-and-white tape
Is it true that the inventor of red-and-white barricade tape patented his invention and made a fortune off it? (My Google-fu is weak today...) [more inside]
Being your own boss
You work for yourself. How did you get there? What is it like? [more inside]
Sites similar to Bookforum's "Omnivore" blog?
Are there any blogs/websites that are similar to Bookforum's Omnivore (formerly Political Theory Daily Review)? [more inside]
Sealed ecosystems
Are there any desktop sealed ecosystems, like an ecosphere that are not so terrible for it's inhabitants? Is there a source for Bottle gardens? I'm looking for a desktop ecosystem that requires near zero maintenance.
Sitting is bad, but I must sit! Ideas for short office exercise breaks?
I'm stuck in an desk chair in an office, and I'm looking for mini routines for 5 minute exercise breaks. [more inside]
posted by mercredi at 8:43 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by mercredi at 8:43 AM PST - 9 comments
What to Expect When You're Expecting to See Conan
I have tickets to a taping of Conan tonight. What should I expect? How early should I arrive to not be shut out? How long does a taping last? How funny is Jimmy Pardo? [more inside]
Google Calendar and Outlook - making BFFs out of frenemies...
Our team is virtual and uses Google Calendar to see free/busy time between co-workers. One of our VPs loathes Google Calendar and instead uses Outlook (2010 on her laptop/2013 on her desktop). How can I get her Google Calendar to show up with two-way sync in Outlook so she doesn't have to use Chrome-native Google Calendar but we can still see her meetings? Complication below... [more inside]
posted by ovenmitt at 8:08 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by ovenmitt at 8:08 AM PST - 8 comments
Suggestions for Trick or Treat Trip from Philly to Boston
I have two kids (5 & 8) who are very excited about Halloween, but we are going to need to spend the evening of the 31st driving fro Philadelphia to Boston. I would like to stop at a couple of places on the way for them to do some Trick-or-Treating (yes, they will be in costume in the car - sorceress and cobra). So, I would love suggestions for some neighborhoods/streets that would be good places to trick or treat. Ideally in CT off of the Hutchinson River Parkway, Merritt Parkway, or I-84; or else off of the MassPike. [more inside]
posted by blahblahblah at 7:59 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by blahblahblah at 7:59 AM PST - 6 comments
Shine, little glow stick, lead us away from allergenic treats!
I'm passing out glow sticks and glowy spiders in lieu of candy for Halloween. A Facebook friend posted a link to the Teal Pumpkin Project about kids with food allergies and Halloween treats. So, yay, my treats are allergy-safe! But my house is definitely NOT a pristine allergy-free zone. Will this be an issue? I don't want to inadvertently poison some poor trick-or-treater. [more inside]
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 7:56 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 7:56 AM PST - 10 comments
Great Librivox books?
What are some great librivox audiobooks? & who are some great Librivox readers? (This exact question has been asked twice before, but since the last time was in 2011 I think it's not too gauche to ask for an update.) Thanks!
posted by Going To Maine at 7:51 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Going To Maine at 7:51 AM PST - 7 comments
Gifting games
Board game lovers! Friends birthday is coming up (super super soon), so please recommend me a board game similar to Betrayal at House on the Hill (which is one of his favorite things ever). [more inside]
posted by FirstMateKate at 7:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by FirstMateKate at 7:45 AM PST - 13 comments
Make my mornings less painful.
I'm not a morning person at all, I never have been, and I doubt I ever will be. Unfortunately, society refuses to acknowledge this, and even forces me to do things before midday. Because of this, I'd love to hear what you do that makes getting up into a somewhat pleasurable experience, rather than keep experiencing the Promethean torture I go through every morning. [more inside]
posted by Ned G at 7:22 AM PST - 63 comments
posted by Ned G at 7:22 AM PST - 63 comments
Spy fiction
I want your book recommendations. I have just finished watching the first season of The Americans, a TV series about two Russian spies who live as an American couple with two children during the Cold War, and was surprised that I loved it a lot. I want more of that, but I don't usually love this kind of tv series. So I thought, instead of looking for other tv shows like this, I could try to find some books that I like. [more inside]
What can my daughter do to relieve her itchy scalp?
My 10 year old has developed and itchy scalp. Her scalp looks normal, there's no rash, no flaking, just a constant itch that has gotten so bad that it's now disrupting her sleep. [more inside]
Looking for French Podcasts (Non-radio)
Hello,
I'm looking for some good French podcasts that aren't simply radio broadcasts, but are more conversational/comedy/interview in style. I'm thinking of podcasts like: Judge John Hodgeman, WTF, Filmspotting, Comedy Bang Bang, Savage Lovecast, Lexicon Valley, My Brother my brother and me. Does such a thing even exist in France? I'd appreciate some help if you know of anything!
Sopisticated high end asian cuisine central london
I need a high end sophisticated asian dining experiance in Central London / zone 1.
posted by adamvasco at 4:22 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by adamvasco at 4:22 AM PST - 11 comments
How can I become an entrepreneur in high tech science?
I am a recent college graduate who's been interested in combining interests in science and engineering with business. I would love to get into something entrepreneurial, but am not sure how. [more inside]
Fun coding projects for (re)learning programming?
I'm looking for interesting coding-project suggestions, preferably, but not necessarily, for execution in Python, ObjectiveC, or Unity. [more inside]
posted by vaguelyweird at 12:52 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by vaguelyweird at 12:52 AM PST - 13 comments
October 22
Help me dress powerfully and elegantly. I look quite young.
I am in my mid-thirties, but people often think I'm about 22. I could probably pass for 17 in the right outfit. Young face. On top of that, I am slightly built and female. Not short, but delicate. People call me honey and baby and ask me where I go to college. I want to look like a badass who can win venture capital funding. I want to look as powerful and effective as I really am. [more inside]
frequent topical antibiotics: triple antibiotic? iodine? chlorhexidine?
What are the odds that applying triple antibiotic ointment every month is going to breed antibiotic-resistant bacteria on my skin? I also have access to iodine and chlorhexidine. Would it help to use one of those instead? Or maybe rotate between them? [more inside]
Photoshop Elements incompatiblility?
Photoshop Elements 8 will not import RAW files from my (new) camera, a Nikon D7100. The error message states that they are the wrong type of file. The same file type is imported without trouble from the unit it replaces (Nikon D40). What is causing this?
posted by Kronos_to_Earth at 8:29 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Kronos_to_Earth at 8:29 PM PST - 8 comments
Little black book
I'm having some photos professionally taken and I would like to get them printed in a small, ideally pocket Moleskine-sized book. Where can I make that happen? [more inside]
posted by sparklemotion at 8:25 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sparklemotion at 8:25 PM PST - 4 comments
I think I'll stay here for awhile.
I was traveling through Central Europe last month and stayed in some pretty cool hostels. The staff were really cool and hung out with you, and were more like friends than your typical hostel staff. One thing I noticed is that most of them just landed there. Some have been there 3 months with the intention to stay another 6, some have been there a year. They just happened to visit for a few days and then started working at the hostel. My question: how is this done? I have a hard time believing they could get a work visa for this sort of thing, or does that exist? Or do people that do this just come on your typical 90-day tourist entry and illegally stay longer and just deal with the consequences when they leave?
How can I give my transplanted hair a softer appearance?
What products can I use to make transplanted hair look softer, flatter and less shiny? [more inside]
Source for cultural argument styles shown in graphical form?
Within the last 6 months I saw on the web an explanation of different countries/cultures styles of argument/discussion. It included simple graphical representation of the styles. They were line drawings with a horizontal (landscape) layout. [more inside]
posted by Homer42 at 7:40 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Homer42 at 7:40 PM PST - 3 comments
I'm cooking! (With a catch.)
Hi! I'm hosting a dinner party. One of the attendees is a professional chef. MeFi, what do I feed my guests? [more inside]
posted by schooley at 7:38 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by schooley at 7:38 PM PST - 26 comments
Recommend me a new video game for PS3
I'm not at all a gamer, and have only really played a small number of video games in the past. But I'm craving something new to try, and am looking for recommendations. [more inside]
How and what voice recognition software can a child use in school?
What , if any, voice recognition software would be suitable for a child who has issues writing? How do you make it work for in-class assignments? How well does IOS Dragon work? [more inside]
posted by Measured Out my Life in Coffeespoons at 6:47 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Measured Out my Life in Coffeespoons at 6:47 PM PST - 5 comments
Deadbeat suddenly wants to parent
My ex has suddenly decided he wants to parent again. He got a bit screwed when it came to holidays and summer because based on his behavior during our marriage and the divorce he wouldn't be bothered. Anyways he says he has a lawyer and is going to send me papers to sign to lower his monthly child support payment and adjust holiday visits because he is making less money than when we got divorced. This is likely true he had the best job he has ever had aside from the military when we were getting divorced. [more inside]
posted by Noyra at 6:47 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Noyra at 6:47 PM PST - 20 comments
Meet Me at...
Help me find a good LA spot for a birthday shindig! [more inside]
I am not to be trusted with small electronic devices
Tomorrow I get my new iphone 6. What is the most indestructible case I can buy? [more inside]
posted by zara at 6:08 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by zara at 6:08 PM PST - 17 comments
Weird bugbites at night. What next?
Brushed off weird bugbites once over the summer, just woke up with them again, worried about bedbugs and trying to figure out what to do about it, if anything. [more inside]
After updating Debian, thunderbird wont download my mail
I just updated from Debian Lenny to Wheezy (via Squeeze), now I can't download my emails in thunderbird [more inside]
Famous/beautiful stairs or steps in London, Madrid or Seville?
I'm looking for suggestions for some lovely steps/stairs.
April 3rd next year will be the 25th anniversary of the day my husband and I first met on the TownHall Steps here in Sydney and I want to go to some other steps to mark the occasion. [more inside]
posted by stellathon at 5:05 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by stellathon at 5:05 PM PST - 12 comments
Winning meatball recipe wanted!
Hi there. Each year at the mikedelic family holiday party we have a food throwdown. We"ve done lasagna, mac & cheese, chocolate desserts and others in previous years. This year we are doing meatballs. Please help me out with your winning meatball recipes. It doesn't have to be Italian style meatballs, maybe a Asian style with a nice dipping sauce.
Thanks!
Should my friend ask for compensation for an amateur photo shoot?
A friend of mine was recently contacted by one of her friends, a bit of a cheapskate, to take some family photos. She is kind of upset that this is all happening without any offer of recompense. I have been encouraging her to ask for some, but she's not really sure she should ask, and she doesn't know how to ask (or what to ask--if not money, something else?). [more inside]
Is this friendship doomed?
Was it unfair of me to reveal my feelings? [more inside]
posted by MeaninglessMisfortune at 3:44 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by MeaninglessMisfortune at 3:44 PM PST - 33 comments
Is my client an inadvertent spammer?
Can an employer give out an employee's personal email address to a benefit provider? [more inside]
posted by madamjujujive at 3:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by madamjujujive at 3:23 PM PST - 5 comments
Crowdfunding Deadline For Airfare I Might Not Use?
In November, other people will make a decision which will determine whether they want to appear at an event. Then, I need to use a crowdfunding site to raise the money from their fans. I'm looking at a site that shows cheap rates, which I know will rise. The crowdfunding deadline will be two months after I start the campaign. Assuming this all works out, when should the 2-month crowdfunding begin? [more inside]
How long does it take to get an "all clear" after a vasectomy?
My wife and I are a bit flummoxed. Can you help us figure out if I'm an outlier or if the procedure was unsuccessful? [more inside]
Home inspector didn't test furnace & now it needs replacement. What to?
I bought a house in August this year (2.5 months ago). Just tried turning on the heat for the first time and it does not work! I had a repair company out and was told it was in terrible shape (and super old). They would even have to special order the parts. [more inside]
What old-timey music should I listen to?
I'm a fledgling clawhammer banjo player running into a bit of a problem: finding new music to play. Can you suggest "old-timey" folk musicians? [more inside]
Can my kids share a room and get any sleep?
We are about to move to a new home where my kids (ages: 4 years and 19 months) will share a room for the first time. How can I finesse this so we all get some sleep? Difficulty level: the older one is a Wild Thing. [more inside]
American-made horror movies
Asking for a friend who is looking for recommendations of any/all American-made horror movies in the last decade that:
- are not a franchise
- are not a remake
- are not a sequel
- not torture porn
- not SAW
Skincare tips: Runner w/ calluses, dry lips, early fear of wrinkles, etc
Please help a 28 year old woman overcome her sundry skin terrors: I'm a runner who is tired of having ugly feet (callused skin, short and warped toenails). I also suffer from prescription medication-induced dry mouth that Biotene toothpaste/mouth spray only marginally help. The dry mouth contributes to my chronically chapped lips. My hormonal birth control causes vaginal dryness and I want to solve this potentially by changing HBCs instead of treating the systems with Premarin. Plus, I'm trying to take more action than ever to protect my facial skin and other skin from premature aging. [more inside]
How do you find the strength to walk away?
How do yo determine if the problem is you, or the other person, and if it is time to just give up and surrender? I am here to seek help in a relationship I feel may be emotionally abusive, but am questioning my sanity and if it was really me- how do you tell? It's easy to point the finger at someone else and push off blame, but I'm starting to blame myself. [more inside]
posted by DMVgirl at 12:00 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by DMVgirl at 12:00 PM PST - 50 comments
Looking for bar or restaurant in St Marks on Thursday night.
I'm trying to plan a small get together near work in SoHo (I work near Mercer & Houston) but don't know the area too, too well. St. Marks, just a walk away, seems like the best bet as far finding good choices but anywhere in or around the neighborhood works. [more inside]
Preventing my mother's abusive husband from holding my newborn daughter
How do I tactfully prevent my mother's abusive husband (but not my mother) from holding my newborn daughter when they visit me on Friday? [more inside]
posted by corn_bread at 11:04 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by corn_bread at 11:04 AM PST - 44 comments
Looking for an accessible online text of The Conference of the Birds
I'm looking for a copy of the original Persian text of Farid ud-Din Attar's The Conference of the Birds. [more inside]
posted by Yesterday's camel at 10:57 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Yesterday's camel at 10:57 AM PST - 3 comments
Tour de Northern California
We are (likely) headed to northern California for March 7-14. What should we do, and how should we divide our time? [more inside]
Help me find this poem by e. e. cummings. I think.
Years ago I encountered an e. e. cummings poem, a parody of The Fall of the House of Usher. At least, I think it was by e. e. cummings; it certainly had his 'words jumping around the page' style to it. Anyhow, the poem wasn't much more than a page, and had phrases such as, "The twister turned out to be sister," and, "the house came down like a ton of brick." [more inside]
posted by garisimo at 10:33 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by garisimo at 10:33 AM PST - 3 comments
Job-hunting for the first time in a while. Upgrade my employment, how?
Despite my people skills and ample experience with booze, I had to leave the food and beverage industry. I'm going to school part-time for civil engineering this spring. What positions and roles should I be looking at, especially if I want to increase my payrate? How can I best define and "sell" my skills on my resume and in person? How do I find places that will have a position for me? [more inside]
Time for an Executive E-mail Carpet Bomb for my Mazda service contract?
Local Dealership closed, low mileage, feeling screwed. [more inside]
posted by k8oglyph at 9:47 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by k8oglyph at 9:47 AM PST - 11 comments
Help me decide whether to inherit an online store?
I have an opportunity to take over an established online baby/kid's product store with a very nice website. For free. [more inside]
Liquid ink on my white carpet....help!
My monster dogs just chewed a pack of neon blue liquid ink pens on my very light carpet. There are several dark ink blobs and other smeared patches. I'm afraid to touch it to even start cleaning it up. What can anybody recommend. Bonus points for how to clean a white (now spotted blue) bull terrier!
Who are your favorite Asian or Asian American yuppies in Film and TV?
I've been tasked with writing an essay about Asian and Asian American yuppies in film/TV for an anthology about film and class/labor. Can anyone recommend films to watch (or articles to read)? [more inside]
where to escape the Texas heat with a toddler and infant?
the chirren, wife, and I want to escape the Texas summer heat next year and are trying to think about places we could go. Next summer we'll have a 3.5 yr old, and an 8 month old, and dread another summer (July & August) sweltering in the sun (100/38 daytime highs). I'm tasked with to find the intersection of all our wants/needs [more inside]
What's the tip of a neuron called?
Please don't tell me I made this up; it's one of my favorite factoids. I remember hearing a radio piece, back in maybe 2011, about the effect that stress has on the tips of neurons. [more inside]
posted by mmiddle at 8:56 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mmiddle at 8:56 AM PST - 13 comments
Advice re daughter trying to use threat to not eat breakfast as leverage
Over the last couple weeks, my 6-year-old daughter has threatened on several occasions not to eat breakfast. She isn't saying that she's not hungry. Rather, she tries to get us to change some parental decision by saying she won't eat breakfast unless we give in and let her watch her show (or whatever it is.) I don't want her thinking that restricting her food intake is a way to get ahead. Can you provide some advice? [more inside]
Optional but useful vaccinations?
I live in the UK. I've had all the normal vaccinations everyone gets as a kid, etc. I know there are all sorts of interesting vaccinations I can get if I'm travelling. What I'm wondering is - are there any useful "optional" vaccinations that are beneficial for the average UK dweller who isn't going on holiday, that the govt doesn't pay for and push?
Have you had a ganglion impar nerve block for pelvic/rectal pain?
Did it help you? For how long? What was the procedure like and any recovery? Did you have unwanted side effects? What original condition was it ordered to treat? [more inside]
Sudden acne outbreak
I've managed to reach my mid-30s with no acne and suddenly it's AcneTown all over my face. Can you help me clear it up? [more inside]
posted by Laura Macbeth at 7:51 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by Laura Macbeth at 7:51 AM PST - 28 comments
For DIY'ers... how to repair torn plastic water line to fridge?
We just bought a new fridge w/ice maker. The installation guys weren't able to install the ice maker line, since the line was torn (our last fridge didn't have an ice maker, but there was one behind the fridge.) The spare one they brought was too short, so they suggested I repair the one already in place. I tried, and failed. Help! Details inside. [more inside]
Philly-area Rehab Centers
My friend's son (8yo) was in a serious accident last weekend and sustained injury to the right side of his brain stem, resulting in extremely limited mobility on his left side. He's in the trauma unit at CHOP, but they will be moving him to an inpatient rehab facility in the next few days and the parents are looking for a comparison of two possible facilities. [more inside]
How to stop being polite and start getting real
I consider myself an exceedingly polite and considerate person, but often this makes me seem overly formal and has the (unintended?) effect of keeping people at arms' length. How can I reduce this behavior and act more casual and normal with people? [more inside]
When to step in for a dog
I'm pretty sure my boyfriend's dog has an ear infection. How to proceed? [more inside]
What if it doesn't help?
This is a sensitive question about childhood sexual abuse and whether to tell or not tell my husband, 25 year after the core of the incidents. [more inside]
Productivity coaching via phone?
I've hit a slump. I am in a very high performing profession in an executive role, but my productivity has plummeted. I'm looking to find a phone coaching resource to keep me on my game. [more inside]
Simple and practical steps to regain a sense of wonder and possibility
I was reflecting last week on how I felt last time I fell in love. Aside from a motherload of the strong feelings for the other person, I remember a strong sense of wonder and possibility. I'd like to feel this way again - but without the need to fall in love with someone. [more inside]
October 21
How can I develop emotional resilience, in a teaching context?
As a graduate teacher assigned to a difficult class, I felt like the students were personally attacking me. The general advice given to me was "Don't let it get to you" or even "Don't let it show if it does". How do you do that? More info inside. [more inside]
what shall i do with the ex i work with in the same office 3 feet away?
my ex and i have been working together for 3 or 4 years, and we dated for 1.5 year. he broke up with me a year ago. the post break up year is full of drama. i couldn't let go. the chemistry we had was awesome, and before we dated we used to be the best friends at work. sex is mind blowing good too. at the spot when we broke up we were pretty seriously. neither of us could actually move on given the fact we still see each other everyday. the reason why neither of us has left the company yet is because both of us got some tremendous opportunity or reward for our hard working in the past years for this company. i can't give it up for this break up. so i stuck to it for a year. [more inside]
posted by Freyaaaa at 11:32 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Freyaaaa at 11:32 PM PST - 24 comments
Full-blown panic mode
Lost job. Without a net. I am SO screwed... [more inside]
posted by Soap D. Spencer at 10:56 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by Soap D. Spencer at 10:56 PM PST - 34 comments
Deep inhalation causing me to feel weak (& the breaths are 'shuddering')
Wondering if anyone can help me identify the cause of this sudden change to my breathing? I don't think it's serious, and it seems to be subsiding somewhat, but I'm very curious about this phenomenon right now. Googling didn't help. Personal details inside. [more inside]
posted by onehundredand80 at 10:01 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by onehundredand80 at 10:01 PM PST - 4 comments
Toaster oven or panini press?
Our toaster oven is about to die, and we're considering replacing it with a panini press. We use the toaster oven for: toast, bagels, sausages, baking microwaved potatoes, mostly for single people meals when we don't want to heat up the big oven. We grill in the oven or a cast-iron grill pan but the press looks like it'd be better. We're concerned about ease of cleaning (we don't clean our toaster except to replace the foil lining when it gets gah) and whether it can make regular toast and baked potatoes. Small kitchen so we don't want to get both. Advice?
posted by viggorlijah at 8:48 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by viggorlijah at 8:48 PM PST - 19 comments
Grandpa's Old Spice and grandson's Ax Body Spray
I distinctly remember Drakkar Noir as being the cologne of choice in my high school years, and suspected that it was a kind of rite of passage to manhood. I don't think that many of my male classmates actually had to shave often enough to justify the purchase of other fragranced items, but they definitely sprayed Cool Water and Drakkar Noir when going to dances or on dates. Is this something that young guys still do and why did everyone in my age group (mid-30s) stop wearing cologne? Is there a U curve to men's fragrance usage over time? Are guys in their late teens and retirees over 70 years of age the most likely fragrance wearers or is that just a sampling error in my universe? What are the social norms for using cologne? How have those norms changed over the last 50 years?
posted by spamandkimchi at 8:48 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by spamandkimchi at 8:48 PM PST - 31 comments
Southwest US in February -- where to go?
We (my wife and I, that is) are tossing around the idea of a trip somewhere to the Southwest in February, when I get a week off from teaching and we'll need a week off from winter. Ideally with a mix of the outdoorsy and time spent in nice scenic towns with good (vegetarian-friendly) food, on a non-lavish budget. Never been anywhere in that part of the world. Where should we go and what should we see? [more inside]
posted by irrelephant at 8:16 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by irrelephant at 8:16 PM PST - 20 comments
Start walkin'.
I'm a guy in Los Angeles. I need some sexy, funky, S&M/leather-friendly, ankle-height black boots for rocking out on go-go platforms, cruising around at Burning Man, and generally pairing up with scandalous outfits at club nights. My budget could be up to $350 for the right pair. In-store only, because I'd really like to try them on. Where shall I go?
posted by mykescipark at 8:09 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by mykescipark at 8:09 PM PST - 8 comments
Ruud furnace clicks
We have a Ruud Achiever 90 Plus with variable speed motor. It works great heating up the house, but when it's trying to maintain the temperature (say it's set for 65 and it's currently 65), it constantly clicks. The sound is very annoying. Does anyone know what would cause this? [more inside]
posted by joebakes at 7:38 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by joebakes at 7:38 PM PST - 5 comments
Data Base Administrators: Please lend a hand to a new assistant DBA
Quick question about using MS ACCESS. Can you direct me to an online tutorial that quickly illustrates how to create or edit/manipulate and an existing report from excel data? I do have an existing report that can probably be modified, but I've never used access before. [more inside]
posted by snsranch at 7:03 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by snsranch at 7:03 PM PST - 4 comments
High processor usage for Chrome under OS X Yosemite.
How can I stop Chrome from killing my battery? [more inside]
"What has Luis Suarez done now?!"
I want to be Vampire Luis Suarez for Halloween.
I have the soccer kit, I have the fangs, I have the soccer ball. I just need some good fake blood to put around my mouth - blood that won't stain a polyester soccer shirt. [more inside]
posted by spinifex23 at 6:22 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by spinifex23 at 6:22 PM PST - 9 comments
Can I eat it, eggy edition?
I'm a dummy and left 2 dozen raw eggs in the carton overnight in my car; I forgot to bring them in after grocery shopping. They've been unrefrigerated for about 24 hours, and my car's been in various garages the whole time, probably 15-20 C. The carton says to keep refrigerated, but do they really mean it? [more inside]
Naming my new kittens after Game of Thrones characters-No Spoilers!
Hi, after the sudden and unexpected death of our beloved pet cat on Sunday, we've decided to adopt two kittens. We are finalists for the adoption and will meet them on Saturday. The kitten we are basing the adoption around is a white male shorthair. We are working on finding him a littermate or bonded kitten to come home with him. I want to name him Jon Snow after the Game of Thrones character because he is one of my favorite characters (also...winter is coming, people!). [more inside]
posted by Goldfinch at 5:58 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Goldfinch at 5:58 PM PST - 12 comments
But which John?
I'm currently using Facebook group chats in some of my community organizational work. The "seen by" function is really helpful for more timely items, but the problem is that it only shows first names - but we often have multiple people in the group with the same first name. Is there a way to tell which John or Jane has seen the message? Googlefu is failing me.
Do I want a unicorn? To-do lists (Oct-2014).
Looking for a cross-platform to-do list/outliner with the option to work offline/save locally on desktop (Mac) and Android, and to export to Google Calendar and Excel (or Word) for Mac 2011. I hate Evernote. More within! [more inside]
Car engine smoking on engine surface after repair--normal?
I had some work done on my car today. It's a 1994 Nissan Altima. I had a belt and pulley replaced, the engine gasket replaced, and the plugs and wires replaced. The oil was changed as well. Oil had leaked through the gasket and gotten on the engine, which they cleaned off. I drove 10 miles with no problems. [more inside]
Name that snake.
What kind of snake is this? My son captured a video of it today on the way home from school. Rattlesnake? King snake? Poisonous or not?
It's moving its tail like a rattler but it otherwise doesn't look like any i've seen.
Video here.
This was in southern Utah.
(And yes, he's been warned about approaching snakes in future...)
posted by mmoncur at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by mmoncur at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
Lodging options in the Florida Keys, late December?
We have tickets to fly to Fort Lauderdale in late December and are planning on driving south and spending the week in the Florida Keys. Looking for lodging recommendations, preferably with kitchen facilities. [more inside]
posted by mcstayinskool at 2:47 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by mcstayinskool at 2:47 PM PST - 4 comments
Stop hurting your sister!
11 month old "Grabby" touches 3,5 year old "Argh"'s toys, Argh reacts by pushing or dragging Grabby away. Inevitably, Grabby ends up hurt. Mom yells, banishes Argh to room. Everyone feels bad. Cycle repeats. Oviously, Mom is Doing It Wrong. What now? [more inside]
posted by Omnomnom at 2:05 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Omnomnom at 2:05 PM PST - 35 comments
What does skin biopsy reveal in lab tests?
Hi MeFi,
I've asked about skin issues before sometime last year and I still haven't found what it could be.
My dermatologist said that I have become immune/resistant to topical treatments (benzyl perox, clindamycin, clindamycin, erythromycin) and that he needed to take a sample and conduct a skin biopsy. On a first whim, he said I likely have 'Folliculitis' but he's not sure since my skin didn't respond to topical treatments.
So today he did a skin sample and I'm just curious to what exactly do lab-results show when it comes to skin biopsy. Do they look for certain bacteria or do they get an overall result of what has been in my body as far as food, drugs, liquids go?
All I really use 'recreationally' is marijuana through a vaporizer to treat my neck pain but this dermatologist is sorta ultra-conservative and a friend of the family so I'd hate have to explain stupid things to him should they even come up during the test results.
TL;dr - Do Skin Biopsy lab results show drug use or just skin bacteria?
Thanks everyone!
posted by bostonhill at 1:58 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by bostonhill at 1:58 PM PST - 6 comments
Disneyland Filter: Disney-themed iPhone game app to play in queues?
Having read every previous wonderful Ask about Disneyland in Anaheim, CA, I've discovered that some of the game apps that folks here recommended a few years ago are now nowhere to be found on iTunes or the App Store, etc. Please help me find a cool, Disneyland-themed app to play on my iPhone with my 7-year-old DS while we wait in the lines during our upcoming trip to Disneyland. [more inside]
posted by hush at 1:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by hush at 1:23 PM PST - 5 comments
The best web toys
I'm looking for the best browser-based toys and/or games that encourage exploration or play without necessarily having a goal or purpose. [more inside]
posted by overeducated_alligator at 1:17 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by overeducated_alligator at 1:17 PM PST - 8 comments
How to fairly divide time between child and new husband?
I recently got married, having been a single parent beforehand for a long time. My daughter is used to a lot more of my time than she gets now. But my new husband has also never raised a child before and is also used to getting more time from partners than he gets now. How can I fairly resolve this? I feel like I'm being torn down the middle. [more inside]
posted by sockeroonie at 1:16 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by sockeroonie at 1:16 PM PST - 40 comments
Apportioning ownership to creative ideas polished through collaboration
For very low budget, collaborative efforts, where the script is an outline and you are told to act like yourself, where there is no pay and no craft services and you are doing it because you enjoy being together, how is ownership usually apportioned? [more inside]
Job Search Blues
I've been looking for a "real job" (as they say) in my field since May and, honestly, I've had no luck so far. I've had a handful of interviews, but nothing beyond that. Now that it's October and just over five months since I've finished my program I am feeling supremely depressed about this job search. [more inside]
posted by modesty.blaise at 12:55 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by modesty.blaise at 12:55 PM PST - 11 comments
What's the best place to buy a heritage turkey in Los Angeles?
Planning ahead for Thanksgiving dinner in a new city. On Long Island my parents used to go to a local turkey farm where you could choose your bird and they'd slaughter it fresh for you. I'd love something similar in the Los Angeles area; failing that, I'm looking for the best place where I can reserve a fresh, heritage bird -- happy to pay extra for it.
posted by tweebiscuit at 12:50 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by tweebiscuit at 12:50 PM PST - 6 comments
DIY: Old ceiling light, no ground -- what's the worst that can happen?
I replaced a ceiling light in a 1950's-wired apartment. There are insulated black and neutral wires, but no ground connection (fixture has ground wire but just connected it to mounting bar). If wired backwards, what happens when I flip the switch? When I touch the fixture while power and/or switch are on? [more inside]
posted by ArgyleGargoyle at 12:13 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ArgyleGargoyle at 12:13 PM PST - 10 comments
Matching a sport coat with pants
How do you match a sport coat worn with a dress shirt (without a tie) to pants (not jeans)? [more inside]
posted by roaring beast at 12:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by roaring beast at 12:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Lunch Rotation Apps
I have a rotation of about 15 places to eat for lunch. I'd like an app that does the following: Ranks the APPs in any order, length of time (I can create the order). Whenever I eat at one of the places, I check it off and it goes back to the bottom. This exist? I have an iPhone
What are the risks/rewards to moving to a new town and "starting over"?
Married couple with small child considering moving several hours away from "home". Pros/Cons/Things to consider? [more inside]
posted by Sara_NOT_Sarah at 11:46 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Sara_NOT_Sarah at 11:46 AM PST - 23 comments
Help me identify this bar/citrus knife!
I'm trying to track down a specific bar or citrus knife that has an unusual, square shape. [more inside]
posted by gumtree at 11:39 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by gumtree at 11:39 AM PST - 3 comments
ADHD meds making me sleepy--but only sometimes.
Vyvanse makes me debilitatingly sleepy, but only occasionally. Has this happened to you? Is there another medication option I should try? [more inside]
Inexpensive sources of freeze dried meat vegetables?
I am making pouches of "just add hot water" meals, and find most freeze dried food to be very expensive-- a serving of spinach could easily cost 4-5 dollars, if I buy a big bag! Where can I find some cheaper alternatives? [more inside]
Wawanesa or Mercury car insurance
Has anyone in California used Wawanesa or Mercury car insurance? They're offering significantly lower rates than the big guys but are they sketchy? [more inside]
posted by lewedswiver at 11:07 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by lewedswiver at 11:07 AM PST - 8 comments
Aftermath of a fire
A fire broke out in my apartment early Sunday morning. Thankfully, my cat and I both escaped (we both were treated for smoke inhalation) and I had a neighbor call 911. Now I have a ton of things to do as I try to move forward, and I'm hoping some of you know of helpful resources and ideas. ( The Red Cross is taking care of my immediate needs.) More info below. [more inside]
Who leases a car for 15 years?
Back in June I bought a "special interest" car, MY '85. The story from the seller was that it was originally his neighbor's car since new, and when the neighbor passed away, the car was sold to his brother, then to him. Autocheck and Carfax, though, report the car as a leased vehicle as late as 1999. Who leases a car for 15 years? Or, once a lease, it always gets reported as a lease? Original titling state is Ohio. [more inside]
Coffee, Tea, or...
As a life-long heavy coffee drinker rivaling the Gilmore girls, about two months ago I switched to tea. I still start each day with a delicious strong cup of coffee, then switch to tea for the rest of the day. But a weird thing happened: I don't feel energized after the coffee, and it's not until my first cup of tea (whether green or black) that I feel awake. Is it the different ways caffeine act in coffee as opposed to tea? Is it psychological? What could explain this? [more inside]
How dead is my computer?
My PC, a Lenovo roughly 3 years old, froze this morning while I was navigating a web page. [more inside]
Another "Help me find this story"
The core of the story is that a (possibly Indian) guy falls asleep (or is knocked out {during a robbery?}) (possibly near a river) and lives the whole lifetime of a separate existence in a dream. He wakes up (or comes to) at the end (and tries to integrate the experience). [more inside]
posted by achrise at 10:12 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by achrise at 10:12 AM PST - 15 comments
Am i in the right here, or is what she did okay?
Me and my friend had been planning to go back to a convention since it ended in March. She invited someone else to stay with us in our room, i feel uncomfortable staying with someone i've never met, and i told her all this and even linked her to the hotels website. The rooms aren't cheap enough for him so she's telling me he's going to have to stay with us. Is this right? I don't know what else to do, i've already bought my tickets and my cosplay outfit. [more inside]
"Commercials" on NPR
I am looking for data on how many minutes there are of programming in a typical hour of public radio. [more inside]
posted by insectosaurus at 9:47 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by insectosaurus at 9:47 AM PST - 6 comments
How can I stop eating free chocolate?
My workplace has free chocolate available 80% of the time (samples coming in from various parties that coworkers leave out for the department/floor to eat) and it will get even worse when the holiday season starts. How can I resist this temptation? [more inside]
posted by rebooter at 9:37 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by rebooter at 9:37 AM PST - 45 comments
Salt of the city
At what brick-and-mortar shop in New York (downtown) or Brooklyn can I shop for high-end gourmet salts? [more inside]
Making an offer on a fixer-upper co-op apartment (NYC filter)
My husband and I are considering bidding on a fixer-upper co-op apartment in New York City, and are uncertain about how much to bid. More inside! [more inside]
How to get around in Central Asia without knowing the languages?
I'm thinking of taking a solo trip to one or more of Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan, and Kazakhstan. What's the language situation like in central Asia? How dumb an idea is this if I don't speak any Uzbek, Kazakh, or Russian (but do stick to the larger and more touristy cities and methods of transportation)? [more inside]
Adventurous travel with an infant in January?
We now have a baby, and are bemoaning the fact that we didn't do much adventurous travel before she was born. But now we realize we still can! So where should we go? [more inside]
Can a software company in California insist employees limit drinking?
Can a software company in California insist that employees participate in a system that limits drinking after hours? [more inside]
Are job fairs worth my time?
Should I attend my graduate school's job fair? [more inside]
posted by quadrilaterals at 7:42 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by quadrilaterals at 7:42 AM PST - 14 comments
1.Membership list 2.??? 3.Non-profit!
I've taken over a position as a general administrator of an artist workshop with 400+ members, and set myself the task of automating what is still a manual or paper organisation. Looking for advice on membership software and good practices - getting a bit lost among all the CRM options and features. [more inside]
posted by monocultured at 7:29 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by monocultured at 7:29 AM PST - 4 comments
Video games about universities and academic life
I'm looking for example of digital or video games - either online, free, commercial, or bought from a shop, on a PC, mac or games console - which simulate the experience of being a student, academic, lecturer or professor from an academic, social, or economic perspective. For example, the Sims 3 University Life expansion pack gives a (relatively shallow) social perspective on academic life as a student. Are there any others, especially ones with more depth or accuracy?
career help: Art, Graphic Design, Marketing?? ?
Hello all!! I'm losing sleep over this.. 24 year old almost 25.
My current situation is that I am teaching English abroad. I have a degree from a prominent university in an unrelated field (BA). I love art, especially illustration, and I also enjoy graphic design. But I can't decide between marketing and graphic design. [more inside]
Replacement for iPhoto (on iOS) Oil Painting and Watercolor filters?
The iPhoto app on iOS had two excellent photo filters that I liked a lot in certain situations: Watercolor and Oil Painting. I've seen nothing else as good as either of them in any other app (I am aware of the Waterlogue app, which also provides some interesting effects). Unfortunately, as of iOS 8.0, Apple no longer supports iPhoto for iOS. [more inside]
How did you feel at home in a new place?
Bonus if you've done this in a foreign country, and/or you work from home. [more inside]
How does a song go from Demo to Recording?
Are there any documentaries/podcasts, etc. that track the evolution of a song from demo to recording? I want to see what role a good producer plays, and what the engineer and mixer actually do. Rock on!
posted by smelvis at 6:23 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by smelvis at 6:23 AM PST - 5 comments
BEST. TUPPERWARE. EVAR.
I need to know about the most badass tupperware-type stuff. Right now we have a mixed "collection" of mason jars, to-go containers, Talenti gelato jars, and the occasional thing that's actually meant for the job, but who knows where the hell the lid for it is. [more inside]
Surviving the editorial process
If you are a writer (nonfiction or fiction), a designer, or a programmer, how do you survive the editorial process with your self-esteem intact? [more inside]
How to go from almost-black to grey hair?
When your hair is very, very grey, but you've been coloring it very dark brown for years, how do you transition to your natural (gray) color for good? [more inside]
What Are These Adhesive Bookmarks Made Of?
What is the exact material of these bookmarks? It's a type of extremely thin transparent plastic like sheeting tape - I need to know the name. Thanks.
posted by watercarrier at 2:35 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by watercarrier at 2:35 AM PST - 8 comments
I think I need more help than a profile critique...
I've been a member of OKCupid for seven years, met most of my friends and both of my partners (polyamorous) there. I've had a very healthy and fruitful relationship with the site in the past. But lately, I've been spending an absurd proportion of my time there, and getting very few results. I don't think the problem is my profile, I think it's this new fixation with getting messages... [more inside]
October 20
Help me get over my online obsession
Of all the men I meet on OK Cupid, I choose to like one 11,000 km away. How do I get over him? [more inside]
I need help figuring out reps and sets with a TRX-style workout
I recently decided to start getting some exercise with some TRX-style workout equipment, but I'm not sure how often I should be doing it. I found this video and try to hit most of the upper body sequences at least 3x a week. My problem is that I don't think I'm doing it enough to make much of a difference. [more inside]
Doctor said toddler has allergic rash, but should I get a 2nd opinion?
My 18 month old son developed a rash 3 days ago. Photos here. We are currently on holiday on Koh Chang, an island off of Thailand. I took him to the local hospital and the doctor told me that it looks like an allergy, possibly to something in the sand, and to just leave it alone and not put anything on it. However, I'm still worried. [more inside]
posted by Ariadne at 8:28 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Ariadne at 8:28 PM PST - 26 comments
Do I meet my catfish?
I am in Buenos Aires on holiday visiting a relative for two weeks, and this place is so full of emotion. [more inside]
Poor cell service -- newer handset likely to have any impact?
My well-worn Verizon iPhone 4 often doesn't ring for incoming calls when I'm inside my apartment. Is upgrading to a new phone likely to fix it, or do I need to change carriers? [more inside]
posted by Alterscape at 8:15 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Alterscape at 8:15 PM PST - 10 comments
I need to turn a phrase into a fabulous, resplendent holiday party
I just became the person to put together a 125 person holiday party (I have the caterer, location and liquor confirmed as of today) for our top-level donors. How do I execute on the phrase "looking forward towards the future" which is the somewhat vague theme that I was given from my boss to make the decorations, theme, etc, come together in one beautiful swoop? We're hiring a designer to do decorations but I am supposed to come up with what I want first to give this person direction. Our budget is reasonable but not extravagant. [more inside]
So much space, so many possibilities...
Help me figure out a wonderful, fun thing to do with our unfinished attic space. Difficulty level: renters with grad student incomes. [more inside]
posted by Bluestocking_Puppet at 7:26 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Bluestocking_Puppet at 7:26 PM PST - 5 comments
One of these days I'm gonna get costumizized
I'd really like to pull off a Travis Bickle costume for Halloween, but I'd really really like to do it without having to shave my head. Help me find the perfect mohawk wig/prosthetic/something! [more inside]
How to line up threads on a microscope slide
How to line up threads on a microscope slide [more inside]
More music like this Hal Hartley trailer, please.
I really like the music on this Ned Rifle teaser, for the upcoming Hal Hartley film. What else would I like? [more inside]
Determining the limit on how much to "help" family
How does one determine how much to help family (primarily financially) and where to draw the line? What about the ensuing guilt? [more inside]
posted by tz at 5:49 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by tz at 5:49 PM PST - 21 comments
Does a consultant need insurance?
A friend has been offered a good position by a company that contracts with large corporations for technical and business services. He’ll work as a consultant and be paid on a 1099.
The employment agreement includes a clause in which he certifies that he carries “adequate insurance, including workers compensation, general liability, and errors-and-omissions insurance.” What do these mean in this context? What’s “adequate” for an individual consultant?
Words are hard.
Nice quiet places to eat in Montreal
My girlfriend and I have an anniversary coming up and are looking for a nice, new to us, quiet place to have dinner. [more inside]
How do we stay in touch without Gchat?
My best friend and I communicate primarily on gchat and now it's getting blocked by one of our work places. Can't download any programs. Is there a hidden solution here? [more inside]
Some people say "I need a beer", I say, "I need rice"?
I've noticed that lately eating a small plate of plain, cooked brown Jasmine rice has a wonderful calming effect on me. If I've had a stressful day, just thinking about cooking up some rice in my rice cooker makes me feel happy. I love the smell of fragrant rice cooking. And when I eat it, I feel absolutely amazing. [more inside]
Tracking Parental Mobile
Is keeping a copy of a Parent's iTunes password ok - so we can track them via iDevice without their knowledge in an emergency. Fill bit icky about it - but special snowflake details inside [more inside]
Emotive books for a toddler
I'm looking for book recommendations for books filled with emotions, but not about emotions, for our toddler. [more inside]
How to get a job writing for a TV show
what's the trajectory of someone who wants to eventually write for a comedy/drama or even a kid's show? Is there an entry-level equivalent for that kind of thing? What skills are necessary besides screenwriting experience?
What use is a broken HDTV?
I have a non-functioning HDTV with no visible damage. Is there any way to wring any remaining value out of it? [more inside]
What makes the optimal wall charger for the Motorola Moto G (2nd Gen.)?
I have recently obtained a Moto G (2nd Gen.) and it comes without a wall charger, while Motorola’s support gleefully mentions (archive.today) it ‘is best to use the Motorola charger that came with your phone.’ What output does a USB power adapter need to give to charge the phone quickest and cleanest? [more inside]
posted by Martijn at 2:00 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Martijn at 2:00 PM PST - 8 comments
Naming a business (design studio)
Since the team is growing and business is going well, I'm more and more inclined towards founding a design studio (print, video, interactive). Having come up with names for a potential business many years ago, they seem silly and immature now. I don't want to choose a name and regret it down the line. [more inside]
posted by omar.a at 1:52 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by omar.a at 1:52 PM PST - 4 comments
Live in the US, moving to Canada next year - should I buy an iPhone?
I live in the US but will be returning to Canada in just under a year and I want a new iPhone. Is this a good idea? I've never owned a smartphone and so I have no idea how any of this works. [more inside]
Microwave Oven: More Power Scotty?
In a microwave oven of whatever wattage, is cooking something at 100% power for 30 seconds the same as cooking it at 50% power for a minute? [more inside]
Help Me Helpdesk Redux
Last week I AskMe'd, thinking software was our problem with becoming a productive tech-support company. Apparently most all of the software acts the same, so the problem seems to be in the management side: how does the physical process of using help-ticket software, and helping people, from the IT Helpdesk end work, and what resources can help teach us to do it right? [more inside]
posted by AzraelBrown at 12:32 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by AzraelBrown at 12:32 PM PST - 10 comments
Does advertising work anymore?
I, and likely most of you reading, consider myself jaded towards advertising. But I've been wondering, have marketers effectively come up with ways to influence people like me who routinely ignore ads? [more inside]
can you suggest a hardy climber?
I'm looking for something like ivy or wisteria than can survive in harsh heat and sunlight.
posted by Opengreen at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Opengreen at 12:01 PM PST - 11 comments
recover me!
I accidentally just deleted all the texts between me and one of my contacts. I desperately want them back! Unfortunately, I have not backed up my phone lately. Please tell me how I can get those texts back! I have an iPhone 5 running 8.0.2 on AT&T.
Music to read by.
So Awesome Mix Vol. 1 turns out to be a perfect album to drown out the sound of rain while I'm reading before bed. What other commercial mixes or soundtracks are similar (not too bouncy and without large changes in volume) and might also serve in this capacity. [more inside]
How do you measure a software engineer's productivity?
I’ve been told that my productivity at work needs to improve, and that I should think up three ways in which my manager can measure my productivity and its improvement. Difficulty level: software engineer.
Wall of snowflakes inside (longer than expected, sorry folks!) [more inside]
posted by six sided sock at 10:54 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by six sided sock at 10:54 AM PST - 32 comments
Productivity Ninjafilter: how do you keep track of articles to read?
How do you handle and keep track of articles to read later? [more inside]
Sliding door caster replacement?
I have some very old (40 years?) sliding doors which run on casters (?) one of which broke and I'm trying to figure out how to replace it. [more inside]
posted by gwint at 10:43 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by gwint at 10:43 AM PST - 3 comments
Dissertation panic - how can I get through the last two days?
My MA dissertation in due in two days. I have loads to do, I'm totally lost, and if it wasn't for the tons of time and money already invested in it I'd be at the point of giving up. How do I keep my focus for the final stretch and not have a nervous breakdown? If you have experience of surviving Dissertation Hell please let me know how you coped. [more inside]
posted by billiebee at 10:39 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by billiebee at 10:39 AM PST - 23 comments
Seeking simple WMV to MP4 file transcoder
Please help me find a simple high quality WMV to MP4 file transcoder that will run on my Mac. [more inside]
posted by alms at 10:36 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by alms at 10:36 AM PST - 10 comments
Memoirs by Archaeologists
Do you know of any compelling, well-written memoirs by archaeologists, anthropologists, or paleo-anthropologists discussing field work, preferably during the twentieth century? The more detail about day-to-day work in the field and departmental intrigues, the better! [more inside]
posted by Sonny Jim at 10:28 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Sonny Jim at 10:28 AM PST - 17 comments
Alaska For a Minute
What should I do with a few days in Alaska (based in Anchorage)? [more inside]
posted by Bunglegirl at 10:15 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Bunglegirl at 10:15 AM PST - 4 comments
Updating GoPro software on a mac
I'm trying to update my GoPro Hero 3+ black, after losing the wifi password for the app. Snag: I only have the camera, the SD card adapter is on a truck. Other snag: Finder is not allowing me permission to add/change anything on the camera. [more inside]
Help me take my albuterol!
The thought of taking medications that make one feel nervous/anxious makes me anxious because it's a focus of my anxiety problems. I'm therefore nervous about taking my albuterol inhaler (I have bronchitis, it sucks, so I should really take the inhaler). Can you give me information about what to expect in terms of restlessness, anxiety, nervousness, etc.? Duration, symptoms, etc.? I'd ask my doctor but she was totally uninterested in my special snowflake needs (university clinic, she's not my permanent doctor).
Where to see a doctor to prescribe EDS medication?
As a partial follow-up to this question, I would like to talk to someone about prescription treatment but do not have a primary doctor and I'm not sure who's best to see or how to go about making an appointment. [more inside]
Squeaky car parts: what do you do about them, and when?
I love my car. My car is in decent shape for being almost 5 years old and for just hitting the 100,000 mile mark, has never been in a wreck, oil is changed mostly on time. It's a good car. And I have a solo road trip coming up in a few days. Do I really need to get these repairs done now, or can they wait? [more inside]
Where to get this Rob Ford poster?
So this poster has re-appeared in time for the upcoming Toronto Mayoral election. Anyone know who did it or if it's possible to buy a print?
posted by GuyZero at 9:50 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by GuyZero at 9:50 AM PST - 1 comment
Road trip in Washington/Pacific Northwest around New Year's Eve
The Mr and I would like to take a 3-5 day road trip out of Seattle this December/January, including going somewhere that it would be fun to celebrate New Year's Eve. We are not interested in skiing or winter sports. We are interested in food, wine, and cultural events. [more inside]
Any suggestions for a woman who wants to stop carrying a bag?
I really enjoy the freedom of movement that comes from not carrying a bag and was wondering if you had any suggestions for a) women's clothes/unisex clothes/appealing men's jackets or other clothes with deep pockets b) some other alternative? [more inside]
Shoppin' for eyeglasses
I'm an adult who needs to buy glasses for the first time. Are there good websites for buying frames online? Not sure how to shop for glasses. ... Here's another question. One of my ears has a horrible cancerous deformity benign lump behind it that occasionally makes my sunglasses sit crooked. Is it feasible to get frames that just clamp onto the bridge of my nose? Bad idea? Can you point me to some frames that are different from the standard ear hook variety?
The Moon, Dust, a Tool, and the Temptation of Kilroy
Did any of the astronauts that walked on the Moon ever write anything on the surface? I don't mean plaques or official markers, but simply a word, name, phrase, or doodle (ex. "Kilroy was here") by using the tools at hand onto the lunar surface? [more inside]
posted by chambers at 8:28 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by chambers at 8:28 AM PST - 3 comments
That's no moon! Or maybe.
Saw a framed photo thing yesterday, very curious as to what I'm looking at. Shitty pic of the whole thing here, closeups inside. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 7:48 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by phunniemee at 7:48 AM PST - 7 comments
Is my iPhone possessed?
I typically carry my iPhone in my pants pocket and not infrequently take it out to find that it has successfully bypassed the four digit lock code needed to wake it up, activated an app, and successfully given itself several meaningless - but potentially consequential - commands. I can think of at least two reasons why this should not be possible, but it happens on average a couple times a week. What the hell is going on? [more inside]
posted by Naberius at 7:31 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Naberius at 7:31 AM PST - 16 comments
Looking for Kitchen Organizer
My friend wanted to purchase a particular Anthropologie kitchen organizer that has since sold out and I am hoping to locate something similar either online or in NYC. [more inside]
Help me get sober in a secular, woman-friendly way
I am in my early thirties, and I am finally facing the fact that I have a substantial drinking problem. Like a lot of people, I drink to mute my feelings--I have been through an awful lot of trauma, so even as I work on things there is still more hurt to feel. I am trying to formulate a recovery plan that works within my own idiosyncrasies and values, but I am not sure what is out there. [more inside]
Appropriateness of becoming friends with your therapist (after therapy)
Is it (ever) (at all) appropriate to stay in touch with a therapist -- as friends -- after therapy itself ends? [more inside]
posted by thetarium at 6:43 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by thetarium at 6:43 AM PST - 11 comments
Online bridge
I'm trying to find a way that I can play bridge with specific people online (preferably for free). While visiting my hometown I started playing bridge regularly with some of my family members. Now I have moved away and we would like to continue over the internet. In my googling I've found sites that have online bridge with real players, but I haven't found anything specifically saying that you can choose those players yourself. Does anyone have any experience with this?
posted by strangeguitars at 6:40 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by strangeguitars at 6:40 AM PST - 3 comments
I ask out of shear politeness
I have a few questions about hair salon etiquette... [more inside]
Help me spend someone else's money!
I have the opportunity to request materials related to my discipline for my community college library. What should a language teacher ask for? [more inside]
posted by chainsofreedom at 6:14 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by chainsofreedom at 6:14 AM PST - 2 comments
Help me find good working music!
I work a typical 9-5 job. Sometimes my job is routine, sometimes it is project management, sometimes it is complex thought. I am getting tired of listening to the same couple of albums at work, so I am extremely interesting in finding some new music that I could work to. [more inside]
posted by bbqturtle at 6:09 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by bbqturtle at 6:09 AM PST - 11 comments
Finding a woman's bathrobe is harder than you'd think
Can you help me find a bathrobe that suggests that I remain a feminine and attractive creature yet still fulfills my strong need for snuggly comfy clothes? I want a bathrobe that I LOVE. [more inside]
Addicted to Pure Heroine
I like Lorde's debut album, Pure Heroine, a lot. Is there an explanation beyond personal preference, from a musical perspective that explains why I find the entire album so compelling? Admittedly, the songs do sound sort of alike, but is there an actual, concrete, musical reason why I find this album so catchy? (I never got very far into theory.) Bonus: Do you know any similar songs or albums?
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 3:06 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 3:06 AM PST - 5 comments
What's the name of this song?
I feel as though I've heard this song in many places, but its lack of lyrics have made it difficult to search for. I've most recently encountered it in an episode of Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends. I suspect that it might be by Esquivel like the show's opening theme, but I haven't been able to find it based on that alone. This has been driving me crazy!
posted by mazarov at 12:58 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by mazarov at 12:58 AM PST - 2 comments
Hantavirus protocol and gardens
When we picked up the small, wooden compost bin in our community garden plot, a group of mice ran out from underneath it. Then my spouse flipped the bin face down, probably kicking up some dust. I am concerned about hantavirus exposure when the bin was upended, and also about how to clean up the site. [more inside]
Using American electronics in Japan
Hi,
I am moving to Japan soon and I can't seem to find a definitive answer on whether or not my various electronics will work in Japan. I was hoping to move my tv, speakers, consoles, and AVR but most of them are rated at 110-120V and Tokyo is rated at 100V. I have read articles saying it is fine and other saying the opposite. Can anyone point me to some credible source to help answer this question? Are there other things I need to look into besides voltage? My understanding of electricity is abysmal.
posted by Pterofractal at 12:40 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Pterofractal at 12:40 AM PST - 10 comments
October 19
What to read over my mapo tofu dinner
What are your favorite pieces of Chinese-food writing out there? (That is, English-language works about Chinese food) [more inside]
Lead paint used in Dixie dressers?
Does anyone have knowledge of the type of paint used on the Dixie dresser seen here? Or with other Dixie dressers of the same period (seems like roughly 60's-70's)? I bought that same model dresser on Craigslist and decided to strip the paint on the drawers, not realizing how old the dresser was until some googling tonight. And now I have major fears. [more inside]
Can I get a bacterial infection.. on Mars?
Can I get a bacterial infection if I got myself an unfortunate wound on Mars? [more inside]
posted by bitterkitten at 9:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bitterkitten at 9:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Sister-in-law trying to compete for title of Best Daughter-in-Law
My husband's sister-in-law (my brother-in-law's wife) is constantly trying to be the favorite daughter-in-law. If you have experienced similar competition, what did you do to reduce the level of competition or how did you cope? [more inside]
Nothing good ever comes from a visit to a phone store...
Ordered cell phone online. Picked up cell phone in person. Salesman claims order was cancelled and happily placed a new order on the spot. Am I being paranoid by smelling a rat? Details inside... [more inside]
Just take my money!
Mefites in Japan: What's the way out of this payment... difficulty? [more inside]
posted by ctmf at 8:28 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by ctmf at 8:28 PM PST - 12 comments
Is reusing disposable silverware normal?
I wash and reuse plastic silverware when I bring my lunch in and need a fork. I usually bring something that requires a fork 1-2 a month and I'll use the same fork for a few months, so maybe 2-6 times, before I inevitably lose it. I wash it once I get home and then stick it in a drawer. My boyfriend thinks I'm a weirdo. Is this at all normal? [more inside]
posted by matildatakesovertheworld at 8:10 PM PST - 52 comments
posted by matildatakesovertheworld at 8:10 PM PST - 52 comments
Pop Songs about Winter
What are your favorite popular songs about winter that do NOT mention holidays? [more inside]
Help me safely disassemble a rocking chair
Furniture makers, DIYers, other knowledgeable hive mind folks: Is it possible to safely disassemble and then reassemble this rocking chair to make it easier to ship or pack?
It's like this, only without the college degree. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by Bella Donna at 7:46 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Bella Donna at 7:46 PM PST - 5 comments
What is the unit of measurement for movement while performing a task?
I can't remember the unit of measure given in a, potentially older or not very well known, engineering textbook that focused on wise design (proper kitchen counter height/depth, doorway width decisions, funtional lighting, etc) choices. Picking up your coffee cup would be 3 %UNITNAMEHERE%. You reach for the mug, grasp the mug, and lift the mug. Three thingymabobs. What is that word? Or... am I crazy? [more inside]
posted by RolandOfEld at 7:39 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by RolandOfEld at 7:39 PM PST - 6 comments
Unripe grapefruit as lime substitute? (Because: grapefruit vivipary!)
I picked a delicious looking grapefruit from a neighbors over-burdened and neglected tree--only to find out that it had undergone vivipary--the seeds had somehow germinated and started growing inside the plant. [more inside]
posted by brenton at 7:19 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by brenton at 7:19 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me win the Flea War (not just the battle)!
I returned from a three-day trip out of town yesterday to find both cats infested with fleas. This is our third round with fleas since late July/early August. I made a trip to Petco and applied Advantage to both cats. My question is, what else can I do to make sure the fleas don't come back this time? A few key details inside. [more inside]
posted by stennieville at 6:27 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by stennieville at 6:27 PM PST - 12 comments
How to recommend SRI fund to company 401k provider?
I know about nothing about investments, but would like my 401k to be with a socially responsible investment (SRI) fund. I have an opportunity to recommend one or more funds to the 401k provider for the company I work at. I'm wondering about the best way to do it. [more inside]
posted by ErikH2000 at 6:18 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ErikH2000 at 6:18 PM PST - 6 comments
How to promote my software to investors
I created a software library that should be useful to developers , even relative beginners, writing software for a variety of fields, but mainly for Engineering (Mechanical,Architecture). Big data and business intelligence might be other fields where my software could be used.
I'm in the closed beta stage right now, my software might take a while to catch on, and I need
some cash. [more inside]
Keypad deadbolt for small business exterior door?
I need a keypad deadbolt for a nonprofit's exterior door. [more inside]
posted by fieldtrip at 5:07 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by fieldtrip at 5:07 PM PST - 4 comments
iPad profanity engraving: my silliest MF question thus far
I'd like to get my iPad engraved with:
When this baby hits 88 mph / You're gonna see some serious shit.
Apple rejected shit and sh*t, but accepts sh.t sh;t and sht. In your opinion, do any of those read as intentional substitutes rather than typos?
posted by jenmakes at 4:49 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jenmakes at 4:49 PM PST - 20 comments
Brief water leak through ceiling track lighting-- what now?
Clueless new homeowners here. After a shower and a use of the toilet upstairs, water started dripping through a screw on the track lighting in the kitchen. It started maybe 10 minutes afterwards and lasted maybe 10 minutes, maybe a cup or so of water total, then stopped. What happened? What do we do now? Call a plumber, presumably, but how urgent? An electrician too? Is there danger because of the light fixture? [more inside]
2 live dogs at the end of 2 weeks
I've offered to dog sit for a friend and the first meeting didn't quite go to plan. Please help me make this work, even if it's only for this one time. [more inside]
Am I long forgotten?
During my last year in university (a few years ago), I always chatted (online) with a girl who went to the same department as me, and after many months, she told me that she had feelings for me. [more inside]
What's the best way to proceed re: building a website for local charity?
I volunteer for a small charity that's going through some big changes, and so will (supposedly) need a website that's more customisable (?) than the cloned CMS template that we're currently using. [more inside]
friend is late to plans 95% of the time
How to handle issues regarding a friend who is typically late to nearly all our plans? [more inside]
posted by bananaskin at 3:57 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by bananaskin at 3:57 PM PST - 46 comments
Moving suburban dogs to a rural property
We've just bought a 10 acre rural property (Tasmania, Australia), and will be moving there in the next month with our two dogs. Yay for them! Except these two dogs have only ever lived in well-fenced suburban backyards and are mostly walked on leads - what are some tips for training them to stay close and not run away, once they're out on the farm? [more inside]
Feed me
I am poor and sad. What can I make for dinner? [more inside]
posted by Aranquis at 3:32 PM PST - 61 comments
posted by Aranquis at 3:32 PM PST - 61 comments
What are the prospects for international work for a Special Ed teacher
I want to work in education. I want to work with English language learners with learning disabilities. I want to find a job in Taiwan upon graduating college. Eventually I want to work in Scandinavia. I don't particularly want to work in the American education system. What is the market like for American certified teachers who want to work with these types of students in Taiwan? [more inside]
Recommend a novel or series of novels for fans of The Good Wife!
I am searching for novels that provide some of the same pleasures of CBS's acclaimed legal drama "The Good Wife," but in textual form! See inside for specifics about what makes this particular plate of procedural beans so special. [more inside]
Should I do this job interview?
Should I do this job interview, even though it could actually hurt my chances of getting the job I want? [more inside]
Never really phoned there but I'd sure like to go.
Are there inexpensive options for using my Verizon iPhone in Mexico? [more inside]
Winter is Coming: Thyme for Some Sage Advice
I have seven days to use my herb garden harvest before prepping the plants for winter. Ideas needed! [more inside]
What are these colored dice?
I recently came across a set of five six-sided dice with colored squares and triangles on each side. What are they? [more inside]
posted by moonroof at 1:37 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by moonroof at 1:37 PM PST - 7 comments
Recommendations for books on the history of science?
My question is two-fold, really. First, please recommend to me all of your favorite titles on the history of science, math, technology, and medicine. Secondly, how do you go about searching for good books in these topics? My favorite booksellers don't have a "history of science" search tag, unfortunately. Some of my past favorites and extended explanation below the fold. [more inside]
posted by backwards compatible at 1:37 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by backwards compatible at 1:37 PM PST - 30 comments
Help Me Find My Lost Cat
We lost our indoor cat at around 1am this morning from our back yard in our quiet suburban neighborhood. It's getting cold outside, and we are worried about her. What can we do to find her? More details after the jump. [more inside]
posted by Slap Factory at 12:06 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by Slap Factory at 12:06 PM PST - 25 comments
Looking for fun Halloween comics, like Chick tracts, but not religious.
Despite not being a religious person, I've always enjoyed finding and reading Jack Chick tracts, and I always enjoyed getting them at Halloween as a kid. Are there any small, Chick-like comics appropriate for kids that aren't religious, perhaps on spooky historical topics or that are just fun adventures, that I could give away along with candy for Halloween this year?
Help resolve a hygiene debate.
Should you wash your hands after touching genitals (your own and/or a partner's)? Assume the partners in question are monogamous and STD's are not a concern. [more inside]
Where to host geotagged images for easy Twitter integration?
I snap a lot of images when I'm out walking, and I'd like somewhere to host them that will allow me to post them to a Twitter feed quickly and easily. [more inside]
Night cream for persnickety skin?
My skin, which until recently has been under the delusion that it's still 16, has just realized that it's almost 40 and has decided to get a jump on its midlife crisis. Please help me find a moisturizer that won't break me out. [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 11:28 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by elizeh at 11:28 AM PST - 15 comments
How can I divide a capsule of medicine in half?
I want to take half of my 60-mg capsule now and half tomorrow (long story which is not relevant. Please don't ask about doctor's advice etc. - this question is purely technical). [more inside]
posted by DMelanogaster at 11:22 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 11:22 AM PST - 9 comments
Frequent blood draws
How to get through an extended period of frequent blood draws? [more inside]
posted by travelwithcats at 11:21 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by travelwithcats at 11:21 AM PST - 13 comments
Bear couture?
What are your favorite stores/blogs/forums/Instagram accounts focused on fashion for plus-sized *men*? [more inside]
How to keep hair clippers working smoothly throughout a haircut.
I've had the same problem with every pair of hair clippers I have ever owned: When I start running them through my hair (especially in the back), they work fine. Then, at some point, they hit a patch of hair that makes the motor modulate so that it sounds higher-pitched and faster. When the clippers are in this state, they don't cut properly until the motor ramps back down again to their normal speed. What's going on here and how can I stop my clippers from doing this? [more inside]
Problems with iPhone 5 during calls
When I'm on a call with my iPhone 5 (iOS 7), I can't use any apps anymore. The display flashes on and off, I can't use speakerphone or end a call, and the screen sometimes locks. (Restarting has done nothing.) Also, when I hold the home button and talk, Siri doesn't work anymore. It just keeps suggesting things I could ask. Google searching is suggesting a proximity sensor issue?
posted by trillian at 10:45 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by trillian at 10:45 AM PST - 4 comments
Help moving from OSX to the cloud -
Looking for suggestions or help moving a OSX disk image (.dmg) to the cloud ideally to a virtual machine, a less complicated project is moving a 8 gig Microsoft Office 2011 (mac) .olm file to the cloud and access via outlook.com, gmail.com or similar. [more inside]
online communities about home remodeling - Silicon Valley edition?
Hi folks, I'm contemplating some home remodeling work, and was wondering if any MeFites in the CA south bay area might have experience with this. Specifically I was hoping to find local online communities I can participate in for a few months to gather information and ideas, since I know very little about this whole subject and really need to learn the local resources, prices, experiences etc. Anyone know of any online forums like this or how I could go about finding one? Thanks!
posted by fingersandtoes at 9:02 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by fingersandtoes at 9:02 AM PST - 1 comment
Found a Micro SD card...how to access?
So my wife found a micro-SD card while on her morning walk. We'd like to see what's on it. [more inside]
Cross or 'X'-shaped cat kibble?
A few years ago all the kibbles started mysteriously switching to the small round pellet shape. This is less than ideal since some cats will wolf down the kibble, completely unchewed, and then throw it up. This is essentially an industrywide phenomenon due to a study showing cats will eat 40% more of the pellet shape. What manufacturers have kept a cross or other larger shape that must be chewed? [more inside]
Choosing kitties
Can a young energetic kitty and an older mellow kitty make a good pair? [more inside]
is this a valve?
Gift for a Stranger
I don't know the guest of honor. Should I buy a gift for a 50th birthday party? [more inside]
Minecraft, Java, & Forge Troubles (Mac OS X)
Young Cocoa (9yo) has asked me to install the More Nature mod for Minecraft and I have run into a loop of Kafkaesquian loopiness. [more inside]
posted by cocoagirl at 5:54 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by cocoagirl at 5:54 AM PST - 4 comments
Apartment and bug filter. Stay or leave?
My, very expensive, new apartment has something management calls box bugs and small, centipede-like black bugs. I don't know the name of this second type, they might be the young? Management has promised to call Terminex but they are adamant this isn't roaches and that as it gets colder, they'll disappear. [more inside]
That does appear to be a Ham Sandwich, lets indict it.
If you were to be on a grand jury, hearing non-violent felonies, what questions should be asked of the witnesses? [more inside]
Free "petition"-type web software?
I would like to create a web page where people can sign a sort of petition. It needs to be on my own web host, so third-party websites are not an option. [more inside]
Do you know Edward Jones?
Pre-internet examples of journalism based on leaked letters
In my neck of the woods, stories based on leaked emails are currently a thing. I would like to know about big news stories based on illicitly copied correspondence, whether letters, telegrams, memos, or other media, that predate the internet (other than the Pentagon papers, which I already know about). The older the better.
posted by i_am_joe's_spleen at 12:10 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by i_am_joe's_spleen at 12:10 AM PST - 10 comments
October 18
Hardware and Software PM tool?
Another PM looking for my snowflake scheduling tool. Challenge: hardware and software. [more inside]
How can I buy this ticket I found on ITA Matrix Software?
I found a ticket on ITA Matrix Software from Guangzhou China to Columbus Ohio. I can't seem to find the ticket on any website though, or maybe I'll have to buy the ticket through two different websites since it's two different airlines? I checked expedia, and hipmunk. Details of flights inside. [more inside]
Looking for a kick-ass northern NJ home inspector.
So has anyone in northern NJ (Essex/Passaic/Bergen counties or thereabouts) recently used a super-detailed, easy to work with home inspection company they'd recommend? Any and all info welcome. Thanks, hive!
Help: Opportunity for major physical change
On November 6 I will have my left knee replaced. Six weeks later, if all is going well, the right one will follow. My brain is spinning with possibilities for my future: lose weight! be healthier! drop some medications! shop for clothes in regular stores! go hiking with my husband! But wait! There's more! [more inside]
posted by harrietthespy at 7:19 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by harrietthespy at 7:19 PM PST - 8 comments
Neighbor's dog is a bark machine. What do?
Our new neighbors Boxer pup has been chained to a tree all day and he sounds like he's having a crisis, not to mention greatly exciting our Beagle pup and keeping the entire house awake. Hive mind, what's the best course of action here? [more inside]
2006 Mac Pro - what should I do with it?
I have a 2006 Mac Pro 1.1 (specs below the fold) which I understand can't be upgraded to current OS versions without a CPU replacement. I'm not sure if I can replace the CPU, or if that would even be sufficient to upgrade to a current Mac OS. How hard would it be to change the CPU, and what is my best option if I can't / won't change it? [more inside]
Peasants and the Eucharist
Did English peasants in the Late Middle Ages--say, 14th c.--take Communion? If so, how often? How about the other sacraments?
Will my laptop cord burn down my house?
Dog chewed laptop AC adapter so that wires are exposed. Can I fix it with duct tape? [more inside]
Hindsight is 20/20
Please help me deal with the aftermath of a disastrous remodeling job. [more inside]
posted by bendy at 3:41 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by bendy at 3:41 PM PST - 10 comments
Taipei layover, what to do and how to do it?
I'll be in Taipei on a twenty hour layover coming up and would like to leave the airport and explore. [more inside]
How do I shop for dental services (NYC)?
How do I determine whether the costs on my dental predetermination form are reasonable and/or shop around for a better deal? [more inside]
Dad was using Outlook 2013 w/provider email. Now has new computer. Help!
I'm pretty decent with computers, but this has me baffled. I tried using Outlook.com's "alias" feature, but that doesn't seem to be working. Help! [more inside]
posted by Alaska Jack at 12:52 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 12:52 PM PST - 5 comments
Seeking a Very Specific Version of the Song "Over the Rainbow"
Hi there. I'm looking for a very specific version of the song "Over the Rainbow." Details inside. [more inside]
posted by jack.brodey at 12:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jack.brodey at 12:39 PM PST - 13 comments
Dog diet with a 3-day-cycle?
Is anybody familiar with a dog diet that employs a 3-day cycle, with one day being a fast day, one day being oatmeal with olive oil and flaxseed (or something like that), and one day with raw meaty bones? [more inside]
How do I update CC info for multiple online accts after a data breach?
I am looking for the best way to coordinate credit card or other payment information for multiple online accounts... [more inside]
Is it possible to become just friends after a one night stand?
Do you think two mature adults can transition into friends after a night of passion/have you ever done it? [more inside]
How can I pay the right fare from Pearson Airport with the least hassle?
I regularly get a taxi at Toronto Pearson Airport to my home in Toronto. There's a flat fare of $47, but if I just get into a cab, about one-third of the time the driver will try to charge me $55 (the rate for the center of downtown) or a meter fare (usually closer to $60). What's the best way to avoid this? [more inside]
Longish term car rentals when you are unsure of the length of time
I need to use a car to get around Phoenix for anywhere from 2 to 6+ weeks, and I won't know how long I need it until I'm done using it. What kind of service do I use or what do I do? [more inside]
posted by rachaelfaith at 8:22 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by rachaelfaith at 8:22 AM PST - 6 comments
Best cargo cult symbolic equation editor?
You're an armchair scientist and you like reading scientific papers. A lot of the fun ones include a lot of equations. You'd like to be able to recreate those equations in a virtual blackboard. You'd select terms and be able to replace them with a library of previous equations you've made. The blackboard would enforce whatever symbolic manipulation rules are required to maintain consistency (because you sure won't be able to). If you replace a term with a number or a data input, it does the calculations necessary to display properly. What is it? [more inside]
posted by bigbigdog at 7:08 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by bigbigdog at 7:08 AM PST - 9 comments
Alternative comic shops in Denver?
We will be traveling to Denver later this month and would really like to check out some alternative comic shops, if there are any! A Google search turns up general comic shops, but results on alt comic, zine-y shops are few. Any tips on some cool places would be great! Thinking along the lines of Oily comics, etc.
Name that short story (you'll see why I don't just Google the plot)
Can anyone help me identify a literary short story I read 20-25 years ago? Description is possibly triggering/NSFW. [more inside]
English news sources for non-predominantly English countries?
Something that often frustrates me reading the newspaper or stories on the internet is that a majority of the "current serious issues" things are going to come from Western English-speaking countries. Can you recommend websites that provide English news about fairly non-English countries? (From my Australian perspective these include anywhere in Africa, Russia, India, Eastern Europe, so on.)
URLs in printed footnotes: how to access?
Is there an easy way to include links to URLs from a printed book. [more inside]
posted by bwonder2 at 2:10 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by bwonder2 at 2:10 AM PST - 8 comments
Ow ow ow my throat. Will a GP do anything? (UK)
In London for a couple weeks. New & painful sore throat. Does anyone routinely test for bacterial strep here? [more inside]
Email Group/List that multiple platforms can use
We have a family email that goes out every week to people across many email platforms. Every time someone changes their address, someone new is added (or removed :/), the onus is on each person in the group to make those updates to their own personal list. Obviously, this rarely happens with 100% accuracy, so someone always slips through the cracks.
Is there a way to have a group that can be administered to centrally in one single location, but utilized by people across multiple email platforms? [more inside]
posted by JimBJ9 at 1:55 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by JimBJ9 at 1:55 AM PST - 10 comments
October 17
Arts/Humanities salaries at MIT?
This is a long shot, but I am up for a position as an assistant professor at MIT (in an arts/humanities department), and I'm wondering if the salaries are similar to the other assistant professor salaries at MIT (average is 120K) or if they are paid much less, as at many other universities.
Thanks!
Lynch and Herzog—in book form
Looking for Lynchian and Herzogian books and authors. [more inside]
How can I digitally archive physical photographs?
I want to convert boxes of of photographs into digital files, good or excellent quality digital captures. I've accumulated 10 file boxes of photo albums, loose photos, scrap books, art and other family history kind of stuff. What are some systematic and effective ways to archive into digital images? [more inside]
posted by diode at 9:29 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by diode at 9:29 PM PST - 6 comments
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How much more footage does a director tend to shoot for a 60 minute show than for a 45-minute show (i.e., 60 minutes with commercials?)
posted by michaelh at 8:47 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by michaelh at 8:47 PM PST - 9 comments
Why do men appear to be far more likely to be married than women?
This question isn't about my life situation - I'm just genuinely curious.
Why does it seem as if there are almost no never-married straight men past the age of about 35 - but a good number of never-married straight women? Am I misperceiving things? I have of course heard of exceptions to this, but startlingly few. I would just like to clear up my perception and, if I'm onto something, better understand why this phenomenon exists.
Public health issues and friendship issues re: childhood immunizations
How do I navigate finding and sharing information about unvaccinated populations at my local school when I am friends with at least some of these people? [more inside]
posted by tk at 8:16 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by tk at 8:16 PM PST - 25 comments
Steroids will be the death of me....and my weekend
Hi, I'm a 20 year old college student (female).
I'm at home on bed rest this weekend because I had a bad reaction to steroids (prednisone) for an allergic reaction. (kind of ironic right?) I'm feeling lethargic, dizzy and nauseous. Basically I'm miserable and wish I was in the hospital.
What should I do so I can recover quickly to start going back to school Monday... and not be bored out of my mind? Should I literally stay in bed? I don't mind but it loses it's novelty after a while. [more inside]
Polyandry - tell me everything
I'm writing a dystopian sci fi novel and it's coming along sparkingly. Yay. One of the plot lines involves a shortage of women, and the development of new family units utilising polyandry. I'm looking for resources - primarily non-fiction - of both positive and negative experiences of polyandry. [more inside]
Searching for a specific QI episode
What's the episode of QI where they award retroactive points for being wrong in the past? They're having a discussion about how scientific knowledge advances so rapidly that up to 30?40?% of the facts in series 1 have been disproven, then give Alan Davies something like 850 points for it.
posted by tehloki at 6:34 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by tehloki at 6:34 PM PST - 2 comments
How to not get screwed in a divorce?
I would like to get married soon but there's one thing I'm worried about: my SO has been unemployed for the large part of a year, and I'm not certain he'd have a job when we would want to get married. I live in a equitable distribution state. I'm worried I could get really screwed over if we divorce and am looking for anecdotes/advice (not legal) on how to handle this. [more inside]
Parents Night Out!!! What should we do?
The moons have aligned and we (three couples, early 30s) have managed to secure 3 babysitters are are all going out for diner and ????? What should we do? [more inside]
posted by saradarlin at 5:13 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by saradarlin at 5:13 PM PST - 16 comments
Another Real Estate Question: Buy & Rent a Condo From Afar?
If I wanted to buy a house or condo in a distant state as an investment, and I had an opportunity to buy a place outright, with tenants and leases already in place, should I? How about outright but sans tenants? More info within. [more inside]
Hire me even though I ran out so fast you saw a blur?
I had a great second interview for a position that I believe I will excel in. I did the best I could and answered as truthfully as possible. I believe things were going well and both managers seemed receptive, yet had their poker faces on. My mistake was when I got up to leave, I grabbed my purse and forgot to shake their hands and walked out. Is it a big deal? [more inside]
posted by lunastellasol at 2:24 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by lunastellasol at 2:24 PM PST - 18 comments
How much sugar/sweetness do oak barrels add to whiskey?
The other night a friend of mine argued that aging in oak adds a minimal amount of sugar to whiskey: oak's main addition to the end product is flavour, with the majority of the sugar in whiskey being a product of the fermented mash. Is this true? Does the oak have a significant role in the sugariness and/or sweetness of the end product?
posted by wrabbit at 1:54 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by wrabbit at 1:54 PM PST - 11 comments
Boyfriend has been honest about his past – should I end it?
I’ve been with my boyfriend 6 months and our relationship is great. He’s a good guy, we treat each other well and communicate well, and we both see a future with each other in it. We’re both late 20s.
However, I’m concerned about his self control issues, and the fact he has confessed some things to me about his past / his personality that raise red flags. [more inside]
posted by pennywise_1 at 1:44 PM PST - 70 comments
posted by pennywise_1 at 1:44 PM PST - 70 comments
Paging Oliver Sacks. This was awful.
My partner had a significant mental health event in the past that nobody (neurologists or psych people) have been able to explain. It's never reappeared and there was no history beforehand, but it's a significant source of worry for both of us. Blizzard within. [more inside]
Maximize my mid-life opportunity: Open-ended, few restrictions.
I find myself in my early 40's with two careers under my belt and an itch to do something entirely different. I have no kids or spouse and no debt. What in the world shall I do? It's an embarrassment of riches and I am paralyzed. [more inside]
Surely someone can relate!
Where are the best online support groups for spouses of people with alzheimer's disease? [more inside]
My eye! My eye!
I had an eye exam by an optometrist at a boutique (non-chain) eye glass shop. This store is known for it's unique selection, and I selected an Oakley frame - with lenses ground by Oakley, and an everyday pair with the lenses ground by their usual lab. Unfortunately, my vision is a little bluury in my left eye with both pairs of glasses, and I feel nauseated when I wear them. I've only been able to wear either pair for a max of 20 minutes before I have to remove them due to the nausea and unsettled feeling. [more inside]
How to get a print of Max Ernt's "Murdering Airplane"
The title says it all.
My Google-fu has failed.
How can I get a print of Max Ernt's "Murdering Airplane"?
posted by thatwhichfalls at 12:48 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by thatwhichfalls at 12:48 PM PST - 3 comments
Dutch website recommendations for reading practice?
I'm learning Dutch and as my language skills get better I'm looking for websites to visit to get more engaging reading practice than my textbook can offer. (And something more interesting than strict news sites.) [more inside]
posted by antinomia at 11:59 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by antinomia at 11:59 AM PST - 11 comments
Perfect gift for a brand new Human who fought through a rough patch?
My very best bestie in the whole wide world just had a baby girl. Hooray! The first week of her little life was Very, Very Scary, but the stubborn little nugget fought her way through and is now home and safe and ready to get on with Life and Growing and Becoming a Someone.
I've already made a donation in her name to the amazing children's hospital that saved her life, but I'd like to send a physical gift for the little monkey, too. What should I get? [more inside]
posted by Dorinda at 11:56 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Dorinda at 11:56 AM PST - 21 comments
Non-legal legal advice aka "should I pursue this..."
None of this is legal advice. Got it. I'm trying to determine whether legal advice is even worth pursuing.
Our house was damaged by a water leakage incident which the homeowner's insurance agreed to fully cover to the tune of about 60K. We were not living in the house at the time, which was actually up for sale. More excitement below the fold! [more inside]
text that reads to different words depending on direction
What is it called when a word (or short phrase) is written in such a way that when reading it one way it says one thing, but then when you flip it upside down it reads something else (or even maybe the same thing)? The "reads different upside" is based upon how it is written (ie. how the letters are formed, creative scripting and connecting of letters, etc), not the letters (ie. the letter "O" reads the same upside down as right side up). I would love to have a ton of examples of this type of thing. [more inside]
This movie was more of house burner than a bodice ripper
Help me identify a vaguely remembered TV movie from the late 1980s. [more inside]
Looking hopelessly for a certain kind of slim-fit chinos for the office
So I'm having serious trouble finding what I thought was a totally common style of pants. What I want are men's slim fit chinos that A) do not "sit below the waist"/are not "low-rise," so you can actually tuck a dress shirt into them properly, AND B) don't have the permanent creases on the legs. I'm NOT talking about pleats: I'm talking about the permanent creases that run the entire front and back lengths of the leg, which give the pants kind of a pointy look to them (it's dressier). I've found pants that satisfy A but not B, and pants that satisfy B but not A. Thanks everyone. [more inside]
I just got a new video card hooray! It's too big for my current case boo
I just got a new video card, the Gigabyte R9 270X. At 297mm it's too big for my current case! I would love suggestions on the best case to upgrade to. [more inside]
posted by Carillon at 9:06 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Carillon at 9:06 AM PST - 12 comments
Looking for a photo map app
We're leaving on a 2 week road trip and we'd like to take photos and have them placed onto a map by location to share with people so they can see where we are. I've found that Instagram's photo map is almost what we want, but not quite, so looking for similar apps. [more inside]
posted by disaster77 at 8:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by disaster77 at 8:42 AM PST - 5 comments
Coding assignment as interview: how much is too much?
Experience-based opinions from fellow techies especially appreciated! [more inside]
posted by rada at 8:30 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by rada at 8:30 AM PST - 16 comments
Why can't my cat eat? (Also: can you get my cat to eat?)
My cat is having trouble eating. We've taken her to the vet, and everything seems fine. But she's losing weight, and we're getting very anxious and frustrated and scared and confused. Any idea what's going on? [more inside]
In-person shopping, SF Bay area, for aging dog harness
Suggestions for in-person dog harness shopping in the Bay Area? [more inside]
posted by ClaudiaCenter at 8:19 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by ClaudiaCenter at 8:19 AM PST - 4 comments
a health insurance gap. a cobra loophole.
I am going to have a health insurance gap between October 31 and December 23rd. That is a time period less than 60 days, and I hear there is a COBRA loophole, and I would like advice about it. [more inside]
getting a youth athlete "In The Zone"
How do you best motivate and encourage a youth athlete? How do you help focus a youth Athlete to get "in the zone" for an important try-out? [more inside]
posted by Flood at 7:58 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Flood at 7:58 AM PST - 6 comments
Husband laid off after 8 years. What now?
My husband was just laid off. He'll have about six months of severance ahead of him. He's 32 years old and has been in the same job for 8 years. Given his qualifications, what do you recommend we look for in terms of new jobs? Kansas City area but interested in moving, if that helps. [more inside]
posted by agress at 7:43 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by agress at 7:43 AM PST - 12 comments
Help me find this short story
It is from the point of view of a man who comes home from war after such a long time that he was believed dead. After an awkward welcome, he finds out that his wife has been sleeping with his neighbor, a young man who was like a son to him before he left to fight. He eventually kills the young man and his wife and dies from a gunshot wound after being chased by the sheriff on a mountain or mesa. What is this short story?
Help me get my first office-friendly haircut, please?
I am in need of a low-maintenance, yet chich mid-length haircut. Any ideas are greatly appreciated. [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 6:57 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 6:57 AM PST - 18 comments
Built new desktop last night. PC won't post at all
Built my first desktop last night completely on my own. A friend has helped in the past but this was my first solo experience. It was much easier than I anticipated. However that's where the easy part ended :L [more inside]
I'd arrest you if you were five feet closer!
I made it through law school without taking crim pro, I only crammed what I needed of crim pro for the bar exam, and my practice has nothing to do with criminal law. So, esteemed colleagues at the bar, can you tell me how jurisdictional lines affect police procedure at the state/local level? [more inside]
Where can I find an up-to-date comparison of XboxOne and PS4?
With the latest major patches for the XboxOne and PS4 recently released, where can I find an up-to-date side-by-side comparison of the 2 consoles? [more inside]
Is certification "really" extra?? Used car price negotiations..
Found a car I like that is listed, as a certified vehicle, with a certain price on the dealer website. We negotiated a price to my liking, I had a mechanic check it out and right before I was going to sign, the sales manager said they would *add* a certification fee. I walked out. Should I reconsider? [more inside]
posted by Gray Skies at 5:20 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Gray Skies at 5:20 AM PST - 21 comments
Does a local pharmacy keep stock of all drugs, all the time?
If I get a prescription from a doctor and take it to a pharmacy, they seem to be able to fulfill it there and then. How? Do they keep a stock of all drugs on hand? Seems unlikely but I have yet to visit one and they didn't have the stock.
How does it work?
posted by MarvinJ at 4:59 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by MarvinJ at 4:59 AM PST - 28 comments
Books That Reuse Text From Other Books
What books reuse all or part of the text of another book? I'm looking for works like Pride & Prejudice & Zombies, or A Humument, or F***ing Frankenstein, where large chunks of text are transformed but are still recognizable from the original. I am not looking for books like Wicked or The Wind Done Gone, where the story or characters are used but text is entirely original. [more inside]
posted by yankeefog at 4:18 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by yankeefog at 4:18 AM PST - 18 comments
Can you teach me everything you know about Roman goddesses?
In the American version of his autobiography, Klaus Mann uses the metaphor of Jupiter and Minerva to talk about his maternal grandparents. In the German version, he changes this to Jupiter and Juno. It seems that Jupiter and Juno are married (but are also siblings. ick), while Minerva is basically Jupiter's daughter, so Juno is a more appropriate goddess to name in the metaphor. Am I missing something? [more inside]
posted by kinddieserzeit at 12:39 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by kinddieserzeit at 12:39 AM PST - 19 comments
October 16
Foundation replacement or repair: do it or sell & move on?
This is a 'tap the judgment power of the hivemind' question.
About a year ago I bought an old house (1920s) in a 'gentrifying' neighborhood in Saskatoon. On July 1st I discovered that the basement rug and drywall were soaked: I had the basement finish ripped out down to the studs and discovered several large cracks in the foundation. I need to repair this if I want to stay, but I can't decide if it's worth it, or if I should just move. Based on what's within, what do you think? [more inside]
How to get rid of a table in Oakland
How do you get rid of furniture in Oakland? [more inside]
New relationship and starting Lexapro
Effects on libido, dosage, other factors [more inside]
posted by mermily at 8:07 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by mermily at 8:07 PM PST - 12 comments
Should I apply for this job?
About a month ago I applied for a job, but was then told that the company had been put under a hiring freeze. They recently posted another interesting looking job opening; do I bother to apply? [more inside]
Good replacement for a Nexus 4
My wife's Nexus 4 has died (due to an accident) and we are looking for a replacement. The Nexus 5 would be the obvious choice but is out of stock in the Play store (and given that the Nexus 6 has been announced may not be coming back). What should she get? [more inside]
Help us get the cat pee smell out of our basement!
We just moved into a brand new house that we love, but one of our cats peed in the basement and its making the entire house smell awful! [more inside]
Need help with EMT lingo.
Hi--I'm writing a short story in which the main character is an EMT. I would like the scene to be realistic, but I'm not an EMT. I'm specifically interested in how EMTs talk to each other on the scene of an accident. [more inside]
Invited back to interview for a different position...?
I recently had a job interview at a perfect-for-my-current-circumstances employer. I thought the interview was okay but I could've done better. Didn't hear a peep for two weeks. I received an email this Tuesday asking if I could come in this Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday to interview for a different and higher-paying position. I'm looking for some advice on how to handle interview #2 tomorrow. Confusion & mitigating circumstances inside! [more inside]
posted by cardinality at 6:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by cardinality at 6:38 PM PST - 12 comments
give me your chlorine-free underwater music systems, yearning to be free
Schmanciest hotel pool in London? [more inside]
What's new in Chicago?
I lived in Chicago for years and generally come back pretty often, but somehow it's been over a year since my last visit. What new/newish restaurants, bars, and attractions — new within the last, say, 18 months — should be at the top of my to-do list on my upcoming trip? [more inside]
Career change help needed
[Posting for a friend]
I am trying to make a career change from finance to tech. Lots of special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
I could'a been a real contender, mid-80's song, Vancouver, BC
Earworm driving me nuts for years. Vancouver, BC, mid 80's, there was a song on the radio with the lyric 'I could'a been a real contender'. Might have been local Vancouver or Canadian group.
posted by lois1950 at 5:00 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by lois1950 at 5:00 PM PST - 15 comments
PCBA Oy Vey
There are a ton of printed circuit board assembly companies in Asia. How do I choose one? [more inside]
Help with Windows Live Movie Maker
I have 3 questions about it! [more inside]
Name that tune, some obscure jazz with chanting?
I heard this song twice on college radio in the early 1990's, and I haven't heard it since. It sounds like mid-tempo jazz, but with an experimental twist... [more inside]
Trust me!
I want to make a revocable trust... [more inside]
Questions about bleeding my oil furnace
After my last oil delivery, my furnace won't run. I tried hitting the reset button on the furnace twice. Both times it ran for ~45 seconds before shutting off. What now? [more inside]
A Dad's Dilemma... A Car for a 16 Year Old: Balancing Price and Safety
So, my sweet little girl is about to turn 16 and we've started doing a little car shopping - for a Subaru. My mechanic (a SubaruGuru who I trust implicitly) made me aware of a hyper-meticulously maintained 1996 Subaru Legacy wagon with only 88K miles and in mint condition. Drove it, and it's true, it's an excellent car for it's age. Price is very affordable for us too, at a time when we don't need a lot of extra expense. I'm ready to go... but... [more inside]
Ambition: to have or not to have?
Too much ambition and you end up being disappointed for not achieving your goals. Too little, you're unattractive. How to strike a balance? [more inside]
posted by knz at 3:33 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by knz at 3:33 PM PST - 35 comments
Fun games, apps, ideas to keep my relationship with my dad vibrant.
Me and my dad don't really like to talk on the phone much or communicate extensively via email. I'm about to give him an iPhone and I was wondering if you can suggest a way to use the phone to keep in touch in a fun and fresh way. [more inside]
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 3:19 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 3:19 PM PST - 9 comments
Best options for tarting up horrid 80s wall unit?
I am going to need a bookcase in a room I am redecorating. Downstairs is a HORRIBLE 80s chipboard wall unit thing with dark, not at all convincing fakey veneer. Complication: I'm redecorating the room to a Hannibal theme. [more inside]
posted by tel3path at 3:13 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by tel3path at 3:13 PM PST - 4 comments
What do you do when you're burnt to a crisp?
I have major "failure to launch" syndrome and it's affecting my life big time. I have been in this situation for some time now and I can't see any way out. [more inside]
Help my son feel comfortable with lifeguarding
My son (16yo) completed a one week lifeguarding course but did not do the assessment. He's excellent in the water, but really uncomfortable doing the speaking to casualties side of it, especially the role play that has to be done as part of the assessment.
Do you have any tips for him to either help him feel comfortable enough to do the assessment, or any other words of advice?
We're in the UK and he'll also be reading your answers.
Thanks for any help!
posted by mgrrl at 2:55 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by mgrrl at 2:55 PM PST - 8 comments
What can I expect from an online competency assessment?
The next step in my application for a position with the city government is to take an online competency assessment. I've never seen one of these before - can anyone give me some insight? [more inside]
posted by majesty_snowbird at 2:48 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by majesty_snowbird at 2:48 PM PST - 3 comments
What is it volunteer political calling (working a phone bank) like?
A political organization wants volunteers to make get-out-the-vote calls to supporters in swing states. This seems like a good thing to do for some reasons (support a cause, get more phone confidence, try something new) and a possibly bad thing for others (possibly annoy a lot of people). Can you describe what this work is like (or point me to others' descriptions) and give feedback on the pros/cons of spending a few hours calling strangers to read a script and suggest that they vote?
How can I achieve the most comfortable bed for the lowest price? (<$250)
How can I achieve the most comfortable (hopefully portable) bed for the lowest price? (Under $250) [more inside]
What should I see during Open House Chicago?
It's Open House Chicago this weekend. Last year I focused on my area, Lakeview & Lincoln Park, and saw the churches, war memorial and some classic apartment buildings. What cool buildings should I go see this time around? My preference is for ones that are only available for the Open House. [more inside]
posted by srboisvert at 1:56 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by srboisvert at 1:56 PM PST - 7 comments
Many devices, one output?
I need help designing an audio solution for our house. [more inside]
posted by pdb at 1:48 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by pdb at 1:48 PM PST - 11 comments
Math, sweet sweet math
I have a set of data: D(t). 5000 samples. Scatter-graphing makes some patterns clear (D-mean increases with t, for instance). D and t are always positive. I want to characterize these, statistically. [more inside]
posted by IAmBroom at 1:03 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by IAmBroom at 1:03 PM PST - 11 comments
House has ADT security/monitoring - alternatives?
Moved recently. The house ADT system already installed. Don't like ADT - what are my options? [more inside]
From crap laptop to serviceable terminal desktop
I recently upgraded my main use laptop, replacing an HP Pavillion G4 that had a dead battery. The HP had lost much functionality as a laptop because it couldn't run for more than 10 minutes without being plugged in. I want to use the HP as a secondary workstation for Google Docs, reading .PDFs, and browsing the web. I have two main questions about this: what's a good OS to reformat onto the system to make this happen, and is the dead battery going to get in the way of it being a serviceable low profile desktop? [more inside]
posted by codacorolla at 12:39 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by codacorolla at 12:39 PM PST - 8 comments
Any interesting things to note driving Charleston, SC to Richmond, VA?
Work trip early next week driving from Charleston, SC, to Richmond, VA. Are there any points of interest or tips about I-95 that I should be aware of? Also interested in fun things to do in Richmond.
Make an Android tablet elder-friendly for my grandma
Family members have gotten an Android tablet for my 97-year-old grandmother. Please suggest some ways to make the tablet as friendly and easy to use as possible for someone who has computer experience, but who can be pessimistic about learning new things and can get frustrated with people trying to teach her. We're particularly interested in tablet settings and also methods for instructing her in its use, but also open to hearing about tutorials or apps that might make her experience smoother. I'm overseas, so I'll be passing along ideas to my dad. [more inside]
posted by theory at 12:14 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by theory at 12:14 PM PST - 5 comments
What could be causing these strange flickering pixels in some images?
Recently, I noticed some pixels flickering on one of my monitors. At first I assumed it was a problem with the monitor until I noticed the flickering pixels scrolled when the image scrolled (i.e., it's always the same pixel in the image regardless where the image is on the screen). So then I thought it was an animated image, but if I drag the window over to the other monitor, the flickering goes away. [more inside]
Bug out
Circumstances that be, our apartment has bed bugs. They appeared under our mattress and the landlord is bringing in exterminators. Though we are moving out and had given notice for the end of the month, I'm worried the landlord will try to ride us out and fumigate after we leave. So, if the landlord holds out on fumigation until after we leave... I've come to terms with trashing every piece of furniture, mattress, ikea thing, couch, and anything that can't be put into the dryer high for an hour. But what about my electronics? Should I just write-off everything, bag 'em, and put into a storage unit for a year? [more inside]
Is there any way to get iTunes Wifi Syncing to actually work reliably?
iTunes WiFi Syncing seems to have worked around 3% of the time I've tried to use it. Any way to increase that percentage a bit? [more inside]
Give me quiet! Bluetooth Noise isolating headphones/headset needed
Do you own headphones with these qualities? Tell me the specs! Please help me find wireless noise isolating headphones in the $50-$150 range. I will only pay near the upper end if there's a sufficient warranty and they isolate EXTREMELY well!
I want these for using at home to study and relax. Extremely snowflakey details inside: [more inside]
posted by bibliophilia at 11:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by bibliophilia at 11:11 AM PST - 9 comments
Sunlight alarm clock, or remote controllable LEDs? Adult & Kid editions
I want a sunlight alarm clock for me and one for my four-year-old. We've all been having trouble getting up in the dark and it's been negatively affecting our morning routine. So I could buy a couple. On the other hand, those remote controllable LED bulbs intrigue me. Maybe that would be more fun? Please share your experiences with either/or, and help me decide. [more inside]
Mavericks broke my second monitor
I recently upgraded my iMac to OSX 10.9.5. Since the upgrade, my second monitor (ViewSonic VG2230wm attached through a DVI-Firewaire adapter) flashes to a black screen intermittently. I am unusually dependent on that second monitor and this problem seems perfectly designed to drive me insane. Please help me preserve what is left of my sanity. [more inside]
Seattle in 48 hours!
I'll be in Seattle for 48 hours (Sunday afternoon through Tuesday afternoon) for a brief leg of a solo trip. Help me structure my time there for maximum wandery enjoyable urban exploration, with perhaps a little bit of hiking thrown in? [more inside]
posted by elephantsvanish at 9:52 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by elephantsvanish at 9:52 AM PST - 11 comments
Looking for an old clinical drug trial
I'm trying to find information on a clinical trial that I participated in, around 1990-1991, at the University of Wisconsin - Madison. Is there a resource that would help me with this? I tried ClinicalTrials.gov but it doesn't appear to have records going back that far. Thanks for any help!
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 9:45 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 9:45 AM PST - 3 comments
When shrimp attack ...me
I was making jambalaya about two weeks ago, and while shelling shrimp I poked myself with a carapace. The wound is not getting better. YANAD/YANMD [more inside]
posted by digitalprimate at 9:40 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 9:40 AM PST - 13 comments
New apartment seems mold-prone
I moved during the summer and have noticed that my new place seems to attract mold at a higher rate than other places I've lived. I'm wondering if these things should be a cause for concern, or if these are just normal things given the specific situations. [more inside]
posted by offrecord at 9:15 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by offrecord at 9:15 AM PST - 13 comments
Any tips/methods for breaking out of negative thought spirals?
I have some pretty serious anxiety issues and depression. These have been tremendously exacerbated by some rather overwhelming recent events. I'm seeing professionals for help, but I am getting stuck, for many hours a day, on these thought loops where I imagine in vivid detail the worst case scenario for whatever is bothering me. If I don't have anything to latch onto at the moment, I just feel constant general physical anxiousness. Are there any methods that have worked for you to break out of a similar cycle/pattern? Not looking for medical advice, but for anecdotal advice. [more inside]
Help me understand the societal implications of fusion power
Putting aside the question of whether or not we will actually have fusion power soon, does anyone have any science fiction or essays to help me understand the implications of fusion power? [more inside]
Can you help me align this HTML with CSS?
the jsfiddle
What I want is the p text to wrap around the dog, and the two side bars to appear on the right side starting from the top. Is this possible? Inside is a plaintext example of what I want. I'd like to make it as responsive as possible. [more inside]
posted by czytm at 8:02 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by czytm at 8:02 AM PST - 3 comments
How to advocate for a bright kid in a state with no gifted funding
My son is going to kindergarten next year in Boston Public Schools. He is very bright and I am concerned that he will be bored. How can I advocate for him given the restrictions I am under? [more inside]
posted by woodvine at 7:43 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by woodvine at 7:43 AM PST - 29 comments
Children's book about the geese at magazine beach, Cambridge MA
This is a looooooong shot. But apparently there was a children's book in the 70s about children feeding the white geese at Magazine Beach in Cambridge, MA. Don't know the author or title. Ring any bells?
Help me find more songs for this playlist!
I'm trying to build a playlist of head-nodding, chill music for 3AM drives. Help me fill this out some more! [more inside]
posted by isauteikisa at 7:27 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by isauteikisa at 7:27 AM PST - 10 comments
Is Never Good for You?
I recently moved to Copenhagen, while Mr. Nat is in Phoenix. Help us find software so we can more easily schedule skype calls. Must be multi-platform (Mac, Iphone, Android tablet, Windows, and Linux are all involved) and sync easily. [more inside]
posted by nat at 7:08 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by nat at 7:08 AM PST - 7 comments
How to plan for a Trans*-friendly public school
Are there resources available to help me help my city build a trans*-friendly high school? (bathrooms, locker rooms, etc) [more inside]
posted by jillithd at 6:50 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jillithd at 6:50 AM PST - 11 comments
Purple filter on company logo for Spirit Day
For Spirit Day, I'm trying to give my company's logo a purple filter (we're a small non-profit). I keep coming up with a million photoshop tutorials. For your purposes, our logo is on a royal blue background with white and green in the middle. Can someone talk me through how to give this all a purple glow so I can rep our company well? I have Photoshop. TIA.
Have you used retin-a for fine lines around your eyes? Did it work?
Hello. Female, 33, I've been using retin-a for years but never in the eye area. I would like to start using a very light .025 cream around that area but I'm really not sure yet, I've heard that it makes the area look crepey but that it then really improves. Have any of you beauties taken that plunge? What happened? How did it work for you?
Quirky ideas for a works dinner out.
I work in a team of six and we’re looking for something fun to do in December, in tandem with an evening meal out. Budget is under $100 per person. In past years, we’ve done a cooking evening and then eaten the results, and we’ve had a dinner in the dark and tried to guess what we’re eating – all great fun. If you’ve done a dinner with a twist, I’d love to hear about it – I may be able to find something similar here in lil’ ol’ Luxembourg...
Cloud based options for a small business currently using Lotus Approach?
How can I help a small academy get its Lotus Approach database into the cloud along with all of their other data? [more inside]
posted by jpziller at 5:22 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by jpziller at 5:22 AM PST - 2 comments
Rich Stories, Simple Games
Crusader Kings II is a lot of fun, but I don't care about the statistics or tactics in the game as much as the random events and the way the game handles fallout from them. Is there anything with a similar story-generating vibe where the interaction is simpler? [more inside]
Have writers ever changed television series based on fan discussions?
Have writers ever changed television series based on fan discussions or feedback? I have a memory that this happened with Lost, but I can't find the specific article. I may even have read it in a book. Any other suggestions? Links to articles/interviews would be helpful.
October 15
Can a Legislature administer itself?
Since the Doctrine of Ultra Vires depends on administrative law which is derived from a Legislature, can a legislature administer itself? If a Constitution Convention is ever triggered under Article V, would the Doctrine of Ultra Vires apply and prevent the convention from introducing drastic new changes to the Constitution rather than addressing a specific proposed amendment?
Should I tell people from an interview that I moved back to their city?
Okay, this is complicated but I will try to make it as simple as possible. Interviewed for a permanent position last week that I really want in a city I have been coming and going from. The day I interviewed, I got offered a temp position in the same city that let me move there for the next couple of months. I accepted the temp position but am wondering what to tell the people at the place with the permanent position. [more inside]
What is going on with this penis?
The latest entry on the tumblr Critiquing Your Dick Pics With Love shows a man competing in a small penis competition. He has some plastic-ish material around his penis. What is this? Is there some meaning or functionality behind it?
In case my question didn't make it clear, the link goes to a picture of a penis and thus is possibly NSFW
Frye boots sizing dilemma
Thanks to the magic of Zappos I am currently in possession of two pairs of Frye Belted Harness 12R boots, sizes US 9.5 and 10 (mens).
Please help me decide which size to keep. [more inside]
Unofficial Star Trek Cassette-audio Album With Warp-Sound Tracks? Warp 8
I'm looking for the title of a audio-cassette album I owned sometime in the 1990s, which had the themes of various Star Trek movies and, particularly, tracks of sound effects of the ships warping that I believe were unique to the tape (as opposed to having been taken from the films). [more inside]
posted by Quarter Pincher at 6:52 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Quarter Pincher at 6:52 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me get my almond fix
I am a huge fan of that really intense almond taste you get in certain desserts. I like eating raw and roasted almonds, in granola, sliced in cookies - but that's not the almond taste I'm talking about. I mean that strong, sharp, sweet almond taste like you get from eating Good Humor toasted almond bars and marzipan and amaretti cookies. Ben and Jerry's Mission to Marzipan was basically my favorite dessert of all time. Does that specific flavor come just from almond extract? And what are your best dessert recipes that really highlight that awesome extreme almond flavor?
posted by Neely O'Hara at 6:02 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Neely O'Hara at 6:02 PM PST - 26 comments
Best Format for Mobile Emergency Phone List
I'd like to distribute an emergency phone list with numbers that are clickable on a smartphone. [more inside]
posted by beyond_pink at 4:44 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by beyond_pink at 4:44 PM PST - 6 comments
Double zero, let it ride
I'm wondering whether a randomized computation (Monte Carlo, etc.) has ever gotten a string of very unlucky random numbers, computed an erroneous result, and caused a real-world problem. [more inside]
posted by vogon_poet at 4:30 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by vogon_poet at 4:30 PM PST - 15 comments
I am freaking out majorly over a new relationship. Help!!!
I just started dating this new guy about 5 weeks ago, and we just became exclusive. I am now freaking out about everything and need to get a handle. I don't know what's going on here. Help? [more inside]
posted by anon1129 at 4:30 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by anon1129 at 4:30 PM PST - 10 comments
Help with a Norwegian Hospital Bill
An American friend became ill while in Norway last year while on vacation, and had to spend a day in hospital. The hospital now wants >$5,000, despite the bill supposedly being paid by insurance in January (the American insurance company is supposed to have covered it all except for a nominal copayment). They keep on sending him letters from Norway. What should he do? [more inside]
Charles Dickens's early popularity in the United States?
Wondering, for an article I'm researching about a real-life Dickens fan in Maine, 1839, in what form he might have gotten his hands on early Charles Dickens stories. Would local northeastern newspapers have bought serialization rights to his stuff, then reprinted it themselves? Or would copies of Bentley's Miscellany have been shipped Stateside?
I hope that someone gets my [digital] message in a bottle.
I was on vacation this summer and found a bottle washed up with a message inside. We've finally deciphered the message and now have an email address to contact! What would be a quirky, cute way to respond? [more inside]
And what do YOU think?
Looking for best practices for getting a second opinion/shopping around for specialty clinics. [more inside]
posted by peanut_mcgillicuty at 3:30 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by peanut_mcgillicuty at 3:30 PM PST - 5 comments
The Greatest Horror Movie Music Hits?
I'm looking for songs that aren't objectively scary or spooky, but due to their use in horror/slasher/whatever movies/TV, they're now associated with scary times. "Goodbye Horses" in Silence Of The Lambs would be the ideal with "Red Right Hand" in Scream just squeeking in.
What is the appropriate file format for e-book covers on Kindle
In a nutshell, I'm trying to figure out how to make my Kindle book cover the proper file size at the lowest resolution and appropriate pixel size, and I'm coming up with a lot of conflicting and confusing suggestions. Anybody who has personally done this with successful file formatting results, please help. [more inside]
posted by LillyBird at 3:16 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by LillyBird at 3:16 PM PST - 13 comments
Morbidfilter: What Jazz greats should I see live...before they die?
So I was lucky enough to see Ray Charles before he died at the Hollywood Bowl. And Sarah Vaughn at the Blue Note in the 80's. And Ella at Radio City around the same time. But I never got to see Sinatra. Or Sammy. Or Nina Simone. Largely because I couldn't afford it. So now it occurs to me I can. And Southwest tickets aren't that expensive if I want to go anywhere in the US. So who should I see among the greats - who are still out there playing - before it's too late?
How can I clean up Danny?
My mum sent me what was my favourite toy as a toddler. He's a kind of glo-worm type toy, made from glow in the dark hard but flexible
E plastic on the face, butnover the past thirty years this has somehow developed black patches - PIC here. Can I clean these off without causing further damage? My mum tried washing him in the machine, but to no avail.
Designing Gig Posters
I'm interested in offering my illustration services up for bands' gig posters, and hopefully get to a place where I could get some repeat work in that milieu. It'd be great to make some money from it, but I don't expect it to be overly lucrative. Still, it'd be gratifying to me if I could do work for some of my favourite indie bands. The trouble is that I don't know who handles the production of posters, be it the band, their label or the clubs they play in. Does anyone have any insight into the process by which gig posters are created? I've done freelance illustration in the past, but there seem to be specific rules to this niche. [more inside]
posted by picea at 2:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by picea at 2:06 PM PST - 9 comments
Can money issues really end a relationship?
I know this may sound like a "duh" answer but when you're living it, it's not so easy and that's why I've come to the good ole internet for help from strangers. My SO is wonderful & we're very in love but this money problem keeps coming up and I could use some advice... [more inside]
Where can I get an affordable, stylish curly haircut in NJ/NY?
Hey Internet. I want to get my long, thick, curly hair cut for less than $100, preferably closer to $50, in NYC, Brooklyn, or NJ (northern/central). Help? [more inside]
posted by topoisomerase at 1:52 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by topoisomerase at 1:52 PM PST - 8 comments
What is this song from the 90s or 2000s?
Ok guys i really need your help. I heard this SRV song for the first time ever this morning (I know I know how sad poor music deprived Jenni) and I feel certain I recognize the guitar section in the beginning as being copied in a very popular song in the 1990s or early 2000s. [more inside]
posted by TestamentToGrace at 12:39 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by TestamentToGrace at 12:39 PM PST - 8 comments
Dammit, UK, because of you, we want a wet room.
Aside from size/space, what are the main interior differences/features between a British home and a North American one? [more inside]
To lease or buy my next car?
I've looked all over the internet for a lease/buy calculator that fits my situation, but they all seem to compare leasing versus a car loan. I am wondering whether to lease or buy a new car with cash. Is there ever a valid argument for leasing over a cash purchase if you can afford to pay for the car outright? [more inside]
posted by cecic at 11:56 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by cecic at 11:56 AM PST - 14 comments
What are your go-to songs for making sweet love to?
Say you're getting hot and heavy with that special person in your life, and say you'd like to play some music while you're Doing the Deed.
What's spinning on your record player? The sexier and more lust-inducing your suggestions are, the better. Thanks!
posted by Fister Roboto at 11:49 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Fister Roboto at 11:49 AM PST - 44 comments
going dutch, 21st-century-tech style
Is it reasonable for me to ask my roommate to split this month's Internet excess usage fee? [more inside]
posted by quadrant seasons at 11:47 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by quadrant seasons at 11:47 AM PST - 12 comments
Horsehair Jewelry
I am interested in making horsehair jewelry. First and foremost, I'd like to make a bracelet for my daughter for Christmas. If all goes well (i.e. it doesn't look like a 2 year old made it), it'd be kinda neat to expand and maybe sell some horsehair jewelry too. But, I don't know where to begin. [more inside]
How do I support my sister taking care of Mom?
I need some help being practical and supportive of my sister when her decision fills me with such great sadness. My youngest sister is now 18 and possibly graduating high school before the end of her senior year, which makes me very proud. She told me last night that she's wanting to become our mother's full time caregiver. This upsets me. [more inside]
posted by MuChao at 10:33 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by MuChao at 10:33 AM PST - 18 comments
Psychodynamic group therapy -- a good investment?
My therapist suggests I would benefit from psychodyamic group therapy. I am intrigued, but also reluctant. Is group therapy worth it? [more inside]
Company in turmoil; how to talk myself down off the panic ledge?
My company is undergoing the first steps into being sold. How do I stop panicking long enough to figure out my next steps? [more inside]
Recruiter encouraged me to lie, now I'm concerned about security clearan
So a while back I was going to enlist in the National Guard, and when I was going through the enlistment process, the recruiter told me to lie about my drug use because it would cause problems for me down the road. His exact words were, "if there's no record of it, they have no way of finding out." So I lied and said I have never used drugs. [more inside]
Cocktail arcade-type games for iOS designed for 2 player tabletop?
I am looking for games for iOS that are played 2-player at the same time, with the phone flat on a table, one person on each side playing against each other. I don't know what to call this so it's hard to search for more (I think of them like 80's arcade cocktail machines). So far the only ones I've found are OLO (a hybrid of shuffleboard and air hockey), TEN (same company, it's like mega tic-tac-toe) and some checkers/chess games. Are there others? What is this style of game design called?
posted by mathowie at 9:30 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by mathowie at 9:30 AM PST - 16 comments
ESL resources for non-native ASL Speaker
I'm working with a woman who is in an interesting situation. She is deaf and was born and raised in Somalia. She learned ASL when she moved to the US a few years ago. She is now trying to learn to read and write English to improve her communication skills. Are there any good English learning resources for individuals who use ASL as their primary language?
Texas Hill Country like a local
I am surprising my spouse with a trip to the Hill Country. Difficulty: I know nothing about the Hill Country. And the Hill Country is, like, bigger than my home state. Texans of MeFi, can you help me out? [more inside]
Count/noncount nouns based on size?
So, I was designing rules with some EFL students in class the other day about how to differentiate between countable and uncountable nouns. We agreed that things which are too small to reasonably count are uncountable based on sand and the idea that liquids are uncountable (under the assumption that an individual 'piece' of a liquid would be a molecule and as such very, very small). Then one of the students broke the rule by asking why individual circuits are countable even though they are extremely small. So, is there an explanation for this? Does my rule just suck? [more inside]
posted by Literaryhero at 8:14 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by Literaryhero at 8:14 AM PST - 25 comments
Osteoporosis, elevated calcium in urine, is a 2nd opinion in order?
I have on-going osteoporosis and a recent test showed I also have elevated calcium in my urine. My doctor didn't inform me about the calcium result or make any recommendations for further testing or treatment. Should I find a new doctor based on this, and if so, what specialty? [more inside]
posted by miaou at 7:56 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by miaou at 7:56 AM PST - 12 comments
Hello STL!
What's fun in St. Louis? [more inside]
I-90 East road trip, where do we stop for pie ? Diner reco needed
You are driving from Buffalo to Boston on the I-90. It’s past 9pm. You need a good diner (coffee, pie, grease) to stop at that isn’t too far off the highway or too close to Boston, to break up the drive. Where do you stop?
How do I make this awesome plastic cauldron safe for serving drinks?
I got a sweet plastic cauldron for a pre-Halloween party we're having and I'd like to serve punch out of it, but it's not watertight and I don't know that the plastic is safe for serving drinks. What's the best/easiest/cheapest/surest way to make this cauldron a punch bowl? [more inside]
Budget range - 4 month cycle trip through Europe
One thing that my wife and I would like to do soon is a longer bike trip. We have ideas about taking four months [may through august] to cycle across [mostly] western Europe. Can we afford to do this? [more inside]
What were they inhaling?
What were those high schoolers inhaling on my bus in the late 70's? [more inside]
posted by dukes909 at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dukes909 at 5:52 AM PST - 5 comments
... I'm probably overthinking this.
I am a single woman, all of whose straight male friends are taken. I find that this is the only kind of opposite-sex friendship I can cultivate, but when the guys in question are single, it's different story. I find it difficult to get to know or be friends with guys when they're single and I'm single. Thought I'd ask the Hivemind for your ideas. [more inside]
posted by sockandawe at 5:01 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by sockandawe at 5:01 AM PST - 16 comments
What can I make with Sharon fruit pulp?
What can I do with the pulp from four Sharon fruit (a.k.a. kaki or persimmon)? I just bought them but they were already so soft that when I went to cut the tops off, they turned into goop. They taste fine, though. Does anyone have a good, simple dessert recipe to use them in?
posted by daisyk at 4:52 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by daisyk at 4:52 AM PST - 12 comments
What is making my cat pee in weird places, howl, and try to get outside?
My indoor cat of 7 years has, in just the last couple of months, stopped using his litter-box to poe, walks around the house for hours howling, and tries to get outside every chance he gets. This is completely new behavior in that for 7 years he's been a great, well mannered cat. But now he's driving me insane. [more inside]
3 Years... Feeling Conflicted About The Future
I'm going to try VERY hard to keep this brief, but it will end up being stupid-long. Bear with me. Basically, I've been dating a guy for three years who I love very, very much, and has alternatively felt like the perfect match for me and like someone I may not be able to stand for 20 years. I go through periods of being very happy with him, but also periods of being very sad. [more inside]
I have to move to Austria with cats
I need to move to Austria to take care of my Mum. I am planning on going June/July next year. I have 3 cats which I do not want to live without. Is there a specific agency I go through to get them over there? It is a permanent move. Also, can anyone suggest a good, not terribly expensive, overseas moving service? Any answers will be greatly appreciated.
posted by kaoschild at 2:39 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by kaoschild at 2:39 AM PST - 2 comments
How big should a kennel for a sausage dog be?
I'm going to build a kennel for a sausage dog that isn't yet born. I don't have access to a sausage dog to measure one. Can you give me rough dimensions for a kennel for a puppy sausage dog who will one day grow into a full size sausage dog?
October 14
Bad news all around
So an evangelical, proselytizing group called The Good News Club has set up shop at my son's public elementary school and is commandeering a classroom to, and I quote, "sing songs, learn a bible lesson & memory verse, play bible lesson review games & have fun!" I am livid and want them gone, but it's clear that it's more complicated than that. Do you have any experience with this group? What is a realistic positive outcome and how can I help achieve it?
posted by rouftop at 11:55 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by rouftop at 11:55 PM PST - 33 comments
Navigating Feelings For A Taken Friend
How does one proceed when they inadvertently develop feelings for a new friend -- who is already in a relationship? [more inside]
How do I explain my most recent job dismissal on job application?
I live in the US. I am applying for a city job and the application asks if I've ever been involuntarily dismissed; if I answer yes, I am required to explain. Unfortunately, I have to answer yes (there is no way around it), and I don't know how much to reveal or how to word this explanation. [more inside]
Am I liable for things police find rental cars?
Let's say I was driving a rental car and getting pulled over. Let's say the police found something that wasn't supposed to be there. Rental cars are being driven by lots of people. Would I be held liable? Is it my responsibility to i.e. search below rear seats to make sure nothing was left? [more inside]
LSAT Offering me a letter explaining test center problems?
So there were some problems at the testing center for my Law School Admission Test. They are offering me a letter for my application that would explain this with my score. Can this look bad for me? [more inside]
posted by Deflagro at 10:01 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Deflagro at 10:01 PM PST - 12 comments
What is this type of sleeve called?
What is the opposite of a raglan sleeve? [more inside]
posted by brittanyq at 9:44 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by brittanyq at 9:44 PM PST - 4 comments
Do I go for it?
Currently employed in retail working my way through college. [more inside]
Sudden Bad Breath/Sour Taste in Mouth
About a year ago, I suddenly developed a sour taste in my mouth. What is the most likely cause? [more inside]
Financial planner in the Bay Area & knotty tax problem I'm afraid of!
I'm looking for a fee-based financial planner in the Bay Area to help me figure out one simple problem, and one knottier one. I have about $10k in CDs, and I'd like to invest it in a slightly smarter, similarly low-risk way (probably index funds) that I can add to slowly and in (relatively) small increments. I'd probably also like to start a 401k. Unrelatedly, as a child I was gifted $3k in shares of a single bluechip stock that I've never touched, and it's accrued value gradually but steadily over several decades. Recently, talking to a wiser friend, she pointed out that I've never paid taxes on it! I'm not sure how to deal with that, but probably can't avoid it much longer! How money works is confounding to me; I come from a working class background and am good at saving, but not saving wisely. Anyway, I'm primarily looking for financial planner suggestions, but if you've dealt with related stock/tax issues please share your experience and advice! Throwaway: infernalsockpuppeteer@gmail.com if you'd prefer.
Name that tune.
Please help me identify this song I heard once and can't get out of my head. (Better description and lame partial recreation within.) [more inside]
posted by Help, I can't stop talking! at 7:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Help, I can't stop talking! at 7:51 PM PST - 9 comments
How accurate are the Kentucky accents on the show "Justified"?
I've become obsessed with the TV show "Justified" and I'm curious to know whether the accents the actors use on the show are at all representative of how a person from the Harlan, KY area actually speaks.
Thanks
posted by dfriedman at 7:28 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by dfriedman at 7:28 PM PST - 3 comments
How to Stop Never Ending Summon to Constantly Cancelled Trial?
How to Stop Never Ending Summon to Constantly Cancelled Trial? [more inside]
posted by Carius at 7:18 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Carius at 7:18 PM PST - 4 comments
Help me learn the Korg Gadget iOS app
I recently downloaded the Korg Gadget app for my iPad and I'm intrigued by the possibilities. Although I've played the drums for many years I've never used any music production software. I'm somewhat overwhelmed and not quite sure how to go about learning how to create and combine tracks and "scenes" to create songs. [more inside]
Rugged Apple-style earbuds
The volume button on my iPhone earbuds just stopped working. Arg. I'd like to replace them with something more rugged. [more inside]
Creepy 1920/30s Era Music
For a Halloween party, I'm setting up a haunted speakeasy, where the devil is emcee. I'm looking for vintage sounding records that may fit. Creepy, eerie tones are preferred. I'm looking for suggestions that run the gamut between piano only tracks, haunting vocals, maybe some orchestral and even big band sounds, and possibly some organ music. These don't have to be authentically from the era, but should sound like they would fit.
posted by Unsomnambulist at 6:10 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by Unsomnambulist at 6:10 PM PST - 39 comments
Non-mushy/cliche wedding quotes?
I'm making a photo book for my sister-in-law and want to add some quotes about futures together, marriage, happiness, etc without being overly cliche or rom-com. Throw your best ones at me! [more inside]
What are the weirdest alcoholic spirits you know of?
I'd like to give someone a bottle of strange/rare/gross booze (it will be appreciated, I promise!). Do you have any suggestions? I'm NOT looking for unusual versions of standard spirits, like rare vintages of bourbon or gross-flavored vodkas, but rather liquors or liqueurs that are themselves weird or unusual. The recipient is very well-versed in booze, so things like genever and Fernet are not quite weird enough. I'm in a major US city and willing to go through some effort for this, so don't hold back!
posted by rhiannonstone at 4:53 PM PST - 119 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 4:53 PM PST - 119 comments
iPhoto library backup
i'm having trouble opening an iPhoto library without restoring my photos. i don't want to overwrite anything in my library, but want to be able to view something in a different library on my external HD. [more inside]
posted by sabh at 4:40 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sabh at 4:40 PM PST - 4 comments
Advice for switching to Windows 7
I recently purchased a new desktop PC running a clean install of Windows 7, without any other software installed. What should I know or prepare for before I get started with daily consumer use? [more inside]
posted by kittensofthenight at 4:35 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by kittensofthenight at 4:35 PM PST - 14 comments
When cats fly
We're moving (maybe you remember from my previous 100 questions on this topic) to California from Chicago and taking our cat on the plane with us. This is a new experience for both my hubby and me. I've done a lot of Googling, I've read up on United's pet policy, and read through Flyer Talk, etc. so I think I get the basic concepts but I'm specifically confused about a few things. [more inside]
posted by bleep at 4:28 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by bleep at 4:28 PM PST - 16 comments
Can't get to public wifi login screen
How can I connect to a public wifi network when the login page stubbornly refuses to appear? [more inside]
How durable is the birch veneer on IKEA furniture?
I just bought this desk from IKEA . It was a bit of a splurge, upgrading from a busted-up old kitchen table that I have been using for a desk for the last, um, well forever and never needing to worry about coffee spills and the like. Now that I have this new desk, I want to treat it right and make it look good until I am old and worn out. [more inside]
I need to photograph flooring samples. DIY light tent?
The company I work for wants to take pictures of flooring samples (artificial surfaces that look almost identical to wood). They want 4-5 boards roughly 4 ft x 8 in laid flat and then photographed. [more inside]
posted by lattiboy at 3:27 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by lattiboy at 3:27 PM PST - 3 comments
Auto Generate Word Doc Title from Text Fields?
Hello, I'd like to auto generate word 2010 document titles in a frequently used template.
Can I get word to combine two text fields in order to generate the document's name automatically upon saving? For example: {Field 1: name}, {Field 2: number}, upon saving automatically names document name_number.doc.
Is this doable?
Thanks guys.
Is this a HIPAA violation?
I work in a dental office, where staff are also patients. One of my co-workers has become pregnant, not planned and not particularly a joyous occurrence at the moment. She doesn't want to have this generally known as she is acclimating herself to her new future reality. Our boss dentist cannot keep her mouth shut. Is telling patients that her assistant is pregnant, without the express approval of that assistant, a violation of her HIPAA rights? [more inside]
Broke-Ass Godmother Needs To Pony Up
So my cousin asked me to be her new baby girl's godmother. Yay! But that means I need to get a gift. Uh-oh! Is what I got good, or should I throw in something else? [more inside]
To Seal or Not to Seal - the butcherblock, that is..
Installing a butcher block counter top on the island in our new kitchen. It comes with a "finish" from the counter top supplier. I'm not sure if I should keep the "finish" option or have it come au naturale and oil it myself. We won't be cutting directly on it and it is not near the sink. Thoughts?
Help me find super-extra-long big-and-tall polo-type shirts!
Help me find super-extra-long big-and-tall polo shirts so that I can meet work's dress code! [more inside]
Are these Philly apartments too good to be true?
Philadelphians: Are AIMCO-owned apartment complexes like The Sterling, Park Towne Place, and the Riverloft reliable places to live? Their location's hard to beat and they offer excellent amenities. They're poorly-reviewed on sites like Yelp and Google, but the things the reviewers complain about often strike me as trivial. How can I figure out if these places offer what I'm looking for? (Bonus points: have any of you lived in any of these locations yourselves?) [more inside]
What is this website about lesser-known cities?
I remember recently reading a website that highlighted smaller/lesser-known American cities and talked about why they were great places to live, as an alternative to trendy cities like Austin, Asheville, etc. The article I remember reading was about a town in Texas that had beautiful architecture, complete with lots of photos. I thought it was called something like "you should live here" or "you should move here", but those aren't turning up any Google hits. Does anyone know what this might have been?
posted by capricorn at 1:20 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by capricorn at 1:20 PM PST - 9 comments
Help expanding my musical horizons?
My music taste is quirky and mutable. Perhaps MeFites can help me find some new indie-ish wholesome-ish tunes. Details inside. [more inside]
I sold my house. Yay! Now what?
Yay! I finally sold my house and have the check from the title company in hand. I made money on the sale of the house, but I have a few questions about how to maintain my investment. For tax purposes, does this qualify as "income"? Will I be assessed a Capital Gains Tax? Is a money market the best place to keep the cash from the sale? Please help a money noob... [more inside]
posted by chatelaine at 1:01 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by chatelaine at 1:01 PM PST - 15 comments
Post-Thanksgiving Family Entertainment
Last year after Thanksgiving dinner, my little 9 year old niece and I decided to entertain the family with two activities. All in all, a huge hit, everyone laughed til they peed, there was major family bonding going on, and OMG, how do we top that this year? [more inside]
posted by HeyAllie at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by HeyAllie at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
Help us choose a Colorado home
We are moving to Colorado, primarily for extended family closeness reasons. Tell us about your favorite Colorado towns and cities! [more inside]
posted by donnagirl at 12:17 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by donnagirl at 12:17 PM PST - 11 comments
Sound off!
I'm looking for free audio files online that could be used for practicing EQ and other processing tools. [more inside]
I need to be able to plug something in…and walk around with it
I have something electrical that plugs into the wall outlet that I'd like to carry around with me and I'd like to know what my options are. I am an electrical dummy. [more inside]
Food Blog in a Haystack?
Several (five? more?) years ago, I used to read this guy's daily lunch blog. I just had the urge to look it up again, but I have no idea where to begin finding it! Googling it isn't helping me because there are bazillions of food blogs! Typing "Canadian man food blog ponytail" into the search engine is getting me nowhere fast. [more inside]
posted by orangek8 at 11:19 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by orangek8 at 11:19 AM PST - 2 comments
blue and pink and brown and and and
How should I accessorize a solid colored dress without looking like a mismatched bag lady? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 11:19 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Sara C. at 11:19 AM PST - 23 comments
Finally had the "marriage" talk with long term boyfriend
Do our expectations of when to get married one day match up? [more inside]
Help Me Identify This Pakistani Counterterrorism Expert
I'm looking for the identity of this Pakistani counterterrorism expert. In this [YT] documentary, the Chinese transliteration of his name appears as 古尼‧伊纳亚特‧欧拉‧罕‧尼亚文. Any ideas?
posted by klue at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by klue at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
Early 19th c. immigration practices?
Before Ellis Island there was Castle Garden. Before Castle Garden ...? [more inside]
Looking for a website that offers positive daily affirmations.
I would like to change my homepage to a simple clean site that offers different positive daily quotes or affirmations - geared more to success, positivity and general spirituality. I've searched Google and the ones I have found are either cluttered with ads or are more of a "healing" nature (like the one at Hay House - not exactly what I want.)
Sending up the 'Stylish Mefites' beacon
Help me style this dress for an upcoming wedding! I am looking for jewelry/shoe/hair recommendations. [more inside]
posted by troika at 10:14 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by troika at 10:14 AM PST - 14 comments
Shoe me!
Help me decide on warmer footwear with a suit, but flat or with a low heel. [more inside]
posted by ellieBOA at 9:40 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ellieBOA at 9:40 AM PST - 11 comments
URGENT: AHH! I need to a place to stay? San Fran edition
Came into San Francisco for Dreamforce (massive conference) and taking a few personal days to explore. San Fran hotels are packed with convention attendees.. where can I stay? [more inside]
The floppening of fashion
I need help finding non-floppy tops to wear to work. As a petite woman with a nice figure, all I can find is tops that are loose and baggy; I'm looking for clothes that are a little more form-fitting. [more inside]
Can I send a conker to the USA?
My friend in Utah has never had a conker. I want to send her one. It's a seed, but not a foodstuff. Is that cool with US customs/USPS?
posted by tzb at 8:58 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by tzb at 8:58 AM PST - 10 comments
Novels set in the South
I’m about to head to Clarksdale, MS on holiday for a few days and am looking for recommendations for novels to read that are set in, and evocative of, a similar geographical area. [more inside]
Is it true that below 70 LDL, cholesterol deposits recede?
A friend just had a stent put in due to 100% congestion in one blood vessel (50% congestion remains in another). He's on highest Lipitor dose (80mg), which has brought LDL down to 90. Cardiologist wants to keep him on high Lipitor plus sign him up for a trial of Alirocumab (an experimental monoclonal antibody which lowers cholesterol). The goal is an LDL of 70, because doctor says at that point the body starts a reverse process of removing cholesterol, thereby reducing the congestion. I can't find any confirmation of this anywhere. Can anyone help verify or clarify?
posted by Quisp Lover at 8:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 8:44 AM PST - 8 comments
imessage - my sister is a former apple owner
My sister had an iphone and now has an Android.
I have an iphone and an ipad.
I can send her a message from my phone. The message is green.
Messages on the ipad are blue and don't go through. Her other apple friends can text her. [more inside]
I'm looking for a book or movie that will teach me how railroads work
If one reads The Hunt For Red October one comes out of it knowing a lot about how submarines work. Watch Apollo 13 and you learn about mission control and spacecraft. What's the equivalent for the railroads? [more inside]
Mom, Grandma is playing favorites again!
My husband's brother and his wife have come to us and expressed some concern over the way Grandma is treating the grandkids. We have the same issue and none of us are sure if we should speak up. It's not life changing or anything, just something we are worried could cause animosity in the future. [more inside]
Looking for a free time-tracking, invoice-creating, web-based tool.
I do some freelancing work and I'm looking for a free time-tracking online system that lets me print invoices to .pdf twice a month. [more inside]
posted by lea724 at 6:16 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lea724 at 6:16 AM PST - 9 comments
Do any rules govern how much collection agencies can inflate debt?
I've noticed that when collection agencies buy debt, they often, though not always, significantly inflate the original debt. Do any laws govern how much they can do so? If not, how is it possible to be liable for an amount that someone has essentially made up? [more inside]
posted by corb at 6:06 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by corb at 6:06 AM PST - 4 comments
Looking for a new hobby to do at home, MANY restrictions
I'm casting about for a new at-home hobby, but need something that doesn't take up much space at all, doesn't require staring at a glowing screen or tax eyes much, and doesn't aggravate my RSI. [more inside]
Large secure package / mailbox
I am looking for a large outdoor box to receive packages securely. [more inside]
Can I get a virtual phone number in China?
I want something like a Skype-in number for China. Not Hong Kong. Like Shanghai or Beijing ideally. It would be great if it called me on my laptop (i.e. not just a callforwarding service) I have a friend over there who can't afford to call out. That possible?
posted by vizsla at 3:25 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by vizsla at 3:25 AM PST - 5 comments
October 13
Can I make OS X avoid hunting for my bluetooth mouse & keyboard?
OS X on my MacBook Pro is doing what it's supposed to do: Trying to connect with my Bluetooth mouse and keyboard. I'd like it to not do that when my MacBook isn't connected to my Thunderbolt display. Is there any way to automate this? [more inside]
posted by mph at 10:06 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by mph at 10:06 PM PST - 3 comments
My assault casts a long shadow over my medical record...
My history of sexual assault is in my medical record. My electronic medical record. This is driving me nuts and becoming a mental roadblock for me when I seek further healthcare. [more inside]
posted by gemutlichkeit at 9:40 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by gemutlichkeit at 9:40 PM PST - 41 comments
Savory quickbreads, apple or pear desserts, apple cider cocktails
I'm having a birthday party for myself Saturday, and I've put off planning far later than I normally do. Help me out, hivemind! Looking for recipes for:
1) A great savory quickbread that doesn't have onions or garlic (or anything related to those, due to allergies of a couple attendees);
2) A dessert made with apples and/or pears that can either be prepared in advance or prepared up to the point of baking in advance, and then just needs to be put in the oven;
3) Tasty cocktails involving apple cider.
Thanks!
posted by skycrashesdown at 8:54 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by skycrashesdown at 8:54 PM PST - 16 comments
Overpayment, whose responsibility?
Hey Metafilter, I have a thorny question about who has the responsibility to redress an overpayment situation, I hope you can help! [more inside]
Good bars to watch a Cowboys (vs. Giants) game near JFK airport?
This Sunday, the Cowboys are playing the Giants at 4:25pm. My flight lands at JFK at 3:30pm (fingers crossed). Are there any good/existing sports bars that are pro-Cowboys, if not neutral (e.g., pro-Jets/Steelers/Patriots), and that are within 30-45 minutes driving distance of the airport? If not (or if the flight is delayed), are there any good sports bars in JFK?
posted by unknowncommand at 7:26 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by unknowncommand at 7:26 PM PST - 3 comments
Can Edward be more than Eddie the sparkling vampire?
My husband and I are expecting our first child, a boy, in December. We're struggling with the name issue (of course). We really want to name him Edward (I love the name and it has a family connection). But there are a couple of issues with nicknames and possible negative associations. [more inside]
Car's power window won't roll up - bad switch or larger problem?
One of the power windows in my car has stopped rolling up. The windows are controlled by a dual switch in the center console. The driver's side works, and the passenger "down" works, but the passenger "up" switch does not. I tried replacing it with a new switch I ordered online, and was able to get the window 90% up, but then that new switch abruptly stopped working. Is this likely to be a case of a bad part, or is there something wrong with my electrical system? More details below. [more inside]
posted by chrisamiller at 6:50 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by chrisamiller at 6:50 PM PST - 5 comments
Can you deny owner enterance and housing if he doesn't live there?
My mother died in July. My Uncle, her brother, wants to sell the house they co-owned. I lived with my mother in the house and I am still living there now. He is like a stranger to me. I don't know him very well and he's a slimeball. I am not comfortable with him staying there. As the resident, what are my rights? [more inside]
QT on IPTV, OK?
Can you make me an IPTV ninja? I finally tried loading up some stations on XBMC/Kodi and I am digging it immensely. I'm interested in getting tips on IPTV excellence. Any users here? [more inside]
Are mountain lions freeloaders?
Do mountain lions ever eat the remains of another animal's kill, or do they eat only what they kill themselves?
posted by tzuzie at 5:53 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by tzuzie at 5:53 PM PST - 9 comments
Ethics involved in dating people your friend has dated casually?
Short version: what are the ethics involved in dating people your friend has dated casually? [more inside]
Linked in to what?
It's time to get a new job (Seattle, Unix w/ scripting). It's been seven years since the last time I changed jobs, and the the last time seemed to have more to do with luck than anything I did. My network, such as it is, is both slim and not here.
So - how does one look for a tech job in 2014? [more inside]
posted by wotsac at 5:46 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by wotsac at 5:46 PM PST - 7 comments
Small, affordable, giftable, items common in USA, but not in France
I will be leaving to France in exactly two weeks to visit my large extended family and I would like to bring gifts but can't really afford to spend big bucks. Candy? Food?
Easy personalized ways to keep track of everything and say "thank-you" after the trip also appreciated.
And of course, a question regarding dollar to euro conversions. [more inside]
posted by lovecricket at 5:17 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by lovecricket at 5:17 PM PST - 26 comments
How to stop compulsive behaviour?
I have problems with shopping compulsively. I want to stop so I can work on paying down debt, and the feelings of guilt and deception when it comes to hiding things. But I haven't found a way that sticks. Does anyone have any experience with beating addictions on a day to day basis? Or in talking yourself out of cravings? [more inside]
Dealing with a Machiavellian Boss
How do I deal with a new boss who has turned out to be extremely Machiavellian? [more inside]
posted by LN at 3:18 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by LN at 3:18 PM PST - 16 comments
Should I eat it: meal delivery edition
Food delivery company says their pre-made meals are good in the fridge for a week. This seems way too long--much longer than I would ever store homemade food. Should I trust my gut or do the professionals know something about food safety that I don't? [more inside]
posted by insoluble uncertainty at 3:10 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by insoluble uncertainty at 3:10 PM PST - 16 comments
Famous Korean dancer from the 20s or 30s?
I bought photograph in Seoul that is allegedly of a famous Korean dancer from the 20s or 30s. I'm interested in knowing more about her, so I was wondering if anyone familiar with that time period would have any ideas who she is? [more inside]
posted by noxperpetua at 2:54 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by noxperpetua at 2:54 PM PST - 2 comments
In arthritis, how is "morning stiffness" experienced?
I have some sort of arthritis that seems to be systemic and inflammatory. I read that if it's "rheumatoid arthritis" then I should probably have "morning stiffness". But no one seems interested in saying what that is. [more inside]
Name That Song: Ever Think About...
"Ever think about" call and response between a male and female singer. Ukulele/banjo, chanting, but somehow unidentifiable via Google... [more inside]
posted by greenland at 2:38 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by greenland at 2:38 PM PST - 8 comments
Please explain tailoring to me
I would like to have a few shirts made, I think? And maybe, eventually a suit? Please explain the basics of a professional tailor. [more inside]
posted by latkes at 2:24 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by latkes at 2:24 PM PST - 11 comments
après moi, le déluge
I'm in the process of entering a huge and long overdue stage of transition in my life, which is guaranteed to make me miserable for the next 2-3+ years in addition to costing me thousands of dollars. (Whee!) Since I'm lucky enough to have advance notice before the proverbial trigger is pulled, I'm trying to put together tricks and treats to make the months ahead a bit less awful. When you're having a tough time and you know it's going to last for the indefinite future, what can you do to help soften the blows? [more inside]
Doctors Hate This Quick and Easy Trick for Curing Sleep-Hangovers
Sometimes on the weekend I over-indulge in sleeping/catching up on sleep. Feels great at the time, but the issue is getting 10 or 11 hours of sleep gives me a "sleep-hangover" for the rest of the day and I'm basically out of commission for 24 hours. [more inside]
looking for a print/copy shop in Boston that you don't have to babysit
I'm looking for a print/copy shop, preferably downtown Boston, but will travel to nearby areas by T, that can do small batches (12-25) of full-color brochures that need to be folded a particular way. Apparently quite a few print shops don't do small runs, or don't do folding. Our current vendor, who I will politely not name, has left us unsatisfied on a few occasions (color not great, messed up the folding job, requiring us to refold them all).
Already tried ProPriint, and their quote was fairly expensive (~1300$ for 25 ) Ideally we'd be looking at half that amount.
I'm hoping someone can provide a "I've used VENDORX and they were AWESOME" kind of testimonial.
Coffee house music in NYC? Late night coffee shops?
I've found great music and open mics in NYC, but exclusively at bars. I miss the coffee house music of my college days, where I could sip a chai instead of a beer in a laid back atmosphere. [more inside]
posted by gregoryg at 1:11 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by gregoryg at 1:11 PM PST - 2 comments
Photo management?
I need a photo management system that allows me to tag and search photos, but I'd rather it NOT be web-based. I don't really know what to look for. [more inside]
Shoes on or off in the house?
What's the more common practice in the U.S. and elsewhere? What particular locales, religions, ethnic backgrounds, etc. are associated with a preference for shoes off or shoes on inside the house? Are there any good maps showing where one or the other practice is more common across the world or in particular countries? [more inside]
Dentist in Playa del Carmen?
I have a couple (6!) cavities to fill and would like to get it done while I'm on vacation in Mexico for 2 weeks. Any suggestions? All the threads I could find were a few years old, so I figured a new one wouldn't hurt. Thanks!
How to refer to mismatched page numbers in a PDF document?
I often need to refer a person to a specific page in a PDF document linked in an email. Sometimes the document contains page numbers on headers or footers that do not match the numbering of the PDF file. For example, the page with “12” displayed in the footer is page 16 of the PDF file, because the file includes four pages of front matter. “Page 1” as labeled in the document is the fifth page of the file, as shown in the document reader’s toolbar. [more inside]
posted by Snerd at 11:38 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Snerd at 11:38 AM PST - 7 comments
ArcGIS for Dummies
I work for a local, city-wide nonprofit and would like to create a map that displays our client density by zip code. I have never made a map and have only enough knowledge of ArcGIS to know that I don't know what the hell I'm doing. Please point me to resources on how to accomplish this, or alternately, tell me that I'm simply out of my element. [more inside]
posted by a.steele at 11:35 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by a.steele at 11:35 AM PST - 11 comments
Will this address get my letter to where it wants to go in remote Nepal?
Please help me decipher a Nepalese address so that my letter will get to its proper remote destination! [more inside]
posted by letahl at 11:25 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by letahl at 11:25 AM PST - 4 comments
Why would he think it's OK to walk through my house with his boots on?
A handyman my husband knows came by today to talk to me about what needs done at our new house. We both came in the back door where I proceeded to take my boots off. He stood there watching me but did not take his boots off nor ask me if I thought he should. He followed me into the house with his boots on, walked through the living room and upstairs the bathroom. [more inside]
posted by waving at 11:13 AM PST - 69 comments
posted by waving at 11:13 AM PST - 69 comments
Introducing Terry Pratchett to a Japanese reader
I'm exchanging emails with a Japanese woman from Tokyo. We talked about books, and I mentioned Terry Pratchett as one of my favorite authors. She said: "His work looks interesting! Do you have a recommendation?" [more inside]
posted by mortimore at 10:48 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mortimore at 10:48 AM PST - 3 comments
Primate sex crime?
From lay reading and popular science I understand that male chimpanzees are aggressive and extremely political. My question is, is the killing of adult female by adult male chimpanzees a thing? Is it a hazard of sexual contact for the female? Has it been observed, and if so, are there any explanations?
Notes: I understand anthropomorphic concerns are not relevant framing for understanding ape sex. I have no difficulty with any of the terms used here: Primate Ifo Net. I've had a quick look through here: Sexual Coercion in Primates and Humans, and it doesn't answer the question. [more inside]
posted by glasseyes at 10:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by glasseyes at 10:42 AM PST - 5 comments
Short-Term Workaround for Dying Laptop
Dad's dying of cancer. (This is horrible and I don't want to go into it.) His laptop, a Dell Studio 1555 well out of warranty running Win7, is dying more quickly than dad. What can we do to keep the laptop operational for dad to use while he's got the energy? Details and such below the fold. [more inside]
posted by bluejayway at 10:40 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by bluejayway at 10:40 AM PST - 8 comments
OCR for charts and graphs
This happens all the time in my work: I see a chart of valuable data, I want the exact numeric values or close approximations but the data is (purposely) unlabeled, or perhaps only key data is labeled. Is there a way to automatically estimate the values? [more inside]
There's a black and red spider in my car--now what?
I just found a black and red spider in my car that ran into the seatbelt hole. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by biscuits at 9:02 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by biscuits at 9:02 AM PST - 23 comments
Update: Still no car stereos with knobs?
So the tape player in my wife's '99 Corolla is dying, meaning we can't listen to Ipods through it. This is bad. We've finally come to the conclusion that we need to replace the stereo entirely with one that has an aux in. The problem is: They're all stupid. Tiny buttons and flashing lights everywhere. A bunch of stupid shit that is actively dangerous to use while driving. Any advice on anything better? [more inside]
posted by stet at 8:45 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by stet at 8:45 AM PST - 16 comments
Fiction and Non-Fiction Books About Fishing
I'd like to add to my husband's very small library of books that have to do with fishing. Not limited specifically to just fishing, but more or less general maritime activities, such as crabbing, or boat-building, or mysteries of the deep....that sort of thing. [more inside]
Replacing a glass panel with a dog door
I have an entry door with a big glass panel like this and I would like to remove the glass panel and replace it with a different panel that is glass at the top, fiberglass in the middle, and has a dog door at the bottom. [more inside]
How to limit impact of stress/anger from fights/arguments?
I had a fight with a friend through text the other day. It wasn't a huge fight in the great scheme of things, but I got much angrier than the situation called for. The stress from the fight messed me up for the rest of the day, and severely impacted my productivity level. I need advice on how to not have such a powerful reaction to upsetting events, when the reaction seemingly happens before I even have time to think. Details inside. [more inside]
Out of office, all the time
My boss travels 300+ days per year, often to countries in which internet and phone connections are unreliable or nonexistent. Communication is often bursty, sporadic, at odd hours, and tinged with anxiety. How can I better manage expectations and limit stress for both of us? [more inside]
Is my sister abusing her husband? How do I help?
My sister is out of control and her behavior is hurting her husband (physically and emotionally) and children (only emotionally). I am not sure how to help anyone in the situation or where to turn for help. Is this none of my business? Do I have a responsibility to step in? [more inside]
Internet still shrugging at this straightforward question
How many municipalities (city, town, township, parish, borough) are there in each state in the U.S.? [more inside]
Facebook Q&A
Managers at the charity I work for would like me to set up a Q&A session for a small group of people on Facebook. How do I do it? [more inside]
Help Me Help My Hair
I have very long, very curly hair, which I almost always wear pulled up. I'm tired of it and I need some help with ideas for what to do with it-- hairstyles and haircuts. [more inside]
Bring Me Your Finest Spicy Herbs
I'd like to be able to grill or bake chicken (and perhaps fish, but mostly chicken) and make it very spicy (hot) -- not Guinness-World-record spicy or anything, but definitely eye-wateringly/sinus-clearingly so. And I'd like it to taste good. And I'd like to accomplish this using dry herbs/spices/rubs rather than by slathering the meat in a sauce. Is such a thing possible? What would you recommend using?
Does Honda dealer repair warranty reciprocity exist?
Before I go down to my local Honda dealer service shop, I am curious to know if a warranty on repairs made at Dealer X are ever honored at Dealer Y? [more inside]
GPS watch instead of an iPhone for running?
I currently use Runkeeper on my iPhone to log runs and races (mostly 10k’s). Next year I’m doing a half-marathon and marathon. Is it worth getting a GPS watch & heart rate monitor? (Considering the Garmin 220 or 620.) I’m thinking about the convenience/functionality of a watch versus a phone, and the training benefits of a HRM. I’d rather not get another device unless it’s a marked improvement.
posted by Huw at 6:10 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Huw at 6:10 AM PST - 19 comments
appalachian trail yellowjacket nest + lost and found
Yellowjackets attacked us on a not-that-remote part of the Appalachian Trail yesterday at 5 PM, and had attacked others earlier. Should I tell someone? Also, if someone picked up my dropped glasses and hat, would they return them to some centralized lost and found? This is Nantahala Forest in NC, ~.5 mile N. of Tellico Gap. [more inside]
posted by amtho at 4:57 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by amtho at 4:57 AM PST - 4 comments
I want to get rid of my irrational dog racism. How?!
I admit it, I am afraid of many large dogs. Mostly, this includes boxers, rotties and pit bulls, sometimes even great danes if they're loose in yard. What can I do to alleviate this? Dogs can tell that I am afraid, I know. I feel adrenaline shoot through me when I encounter people with these dogs or dogs in a yard. I suspect that my fear is socially conditioned, and I feel bad about being a "dog racist." [more inside]
Safe to Eat? Cooked Chicken ... One Week Old
I checked archives but found no question similar to this one: Roasted a chicken last Monday. Tore it into shreds, was still warm when we put it away in the fridge. In a plastic container, somewhat airtight. However, have taken it out once and opened the container. But promptly forgot about it until today. Safe to eat?
Overcoming the motivation plateau
I've noticed this routine in so many acts of life, whether it be a new job, relationship, exercise routine, etc. At first there is excitement, new ideas, strong motivation. Then normality sets in and everything just seems to plateau out. Less excitement, boredom, loss of motivation. You keep going through the motions, doing the minimum, or perhaps you just quit.
What can/do you do in this situation? How can you get your motivation and enthusiasm back for those less-than-new parts of your life?
Am I reaching for the unreachable? Career woes....
Approaching nearly 34 in a couple of months, and have been unemployed since end of June, I'm not so sure I can afford to be fussy when it comes to applying for specific roles/industries. I read 'What colour is your parachute', and it was very informative. Identified the skills I love to use and equally use very proficiently, the environments I would like to work within, and the people I would like to work with. The reality of applying for such roles/industries I am not so sure is a logical process to follow. I worry I am being 'too fussy' as a result of reading that job.... [more inside]
Can kids toys be switched to different languages?
Do electric kids toys come with all languages, and are then switched to a particular language when they leave the factory?
posted by devnull at 1:37 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by devnull at 1:37 AM PST - 4 comments
October 12
Scheduling workouts into a busy(-ish) day
I hate excercising, so I'll take any excuse not to. But I have to be honest with myself. I'm beyond the age where I can just eat what I want, not work out, and avoid getting over weight. Far beyond. I'm much more out of shape than I should be. My pants don't fit right anymore, and it's getting worse. My last excuse for not working out is that it's hard to fit into my schedule. Please help destroy that excuse by telling me your routine. [more inside]
posted by primethyme at 10:14 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by primethyme at 10:14 PM PST - 44 comments
I feel like I cannot function without Tylenol. How can I stop this?
I have persistent headaches, backaches, depression, and anxiety. I take Tylenol to alleviate both physical and emotional pain, but now it has become so habitual that I can't stop. I'm scared of what I'm doing to my health at this point and need advice on how to stop, and other alternatives I can take to relax enough to be able to function throughout my day. [more inside]
Non-homeopathic, safe, effective teething relief?
We're looking for some proven, effective relief for our 4-month-old's gums as her teeth come in. It seems like it's impossible to find something that is both medically legitimate and doesn't contain benzocaine. We're open to herbal remedies if they're supported by more than anecdote, but we are not interested in homeopathy for our child. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Fact, fantasy, or fiction: what am I thinking.
I'm a straight female, married for 15 years, two kids. My marriage is not perfect but pretty darn good. After my kids were born, I've started fantasizing about lesbian relationships. Fantasy is great, but shoud I act on it? [more inside]
Looking for First Nations art depicting seals
I'm looking to find examples of Canadian First Nations art depicting seals. Ideally paintings, prints or sculptures from B.C. aboriginal artists. [more inside]
posted by arcticseal at 7:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by arcticseal at 7:38 PM PST - 12 comments
Cool NYC Restaurant to take Out of Town Guests??
Manhattanites and NYC'ers all over the boroughs: please help me find the perfect restaurant to bring my relatives to! [more inside]
posted by Kensational at 7:37 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Kensational at 7:37 PM PST - 11 comments
Was my friend rude to grab popcorn out of my bag without asking?
I was at the movies with two friends. We arrived early and were chatting in our seats. I like to save my popcorn for when the movie starts. So, I put a napkin over my popcorn. It's been a habit of mine since childhood (my family all does that). [more inside]
posted by starpoint at 7:27 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by starpoint at 7:27 PM PST - 55 comments
Tracking down a movie via music
Twenty five years ago (around then, early 90s), there was on HBO an advertisement promoting HBO. It consisted of a montage of recent popular movies (and maybe some older, durable classics that HBO showed back then) accompanied by a theme that was taken from a movie. The theme was choral in nature, haunting children's voices. Help me remember the movie the theme came from! [more inside]
Safety and legality of installing a DIY chandelier?
I really like this chandelier. Buy-able versions I have found are way out of my budget, but the designer posted instructions for a similar DIY version. I live in a rented apartment in NYC - are there legal/insurance/safety issues I need to be concerned about? [more inside]
Help me not fuck up this job interview.
I have a job interview Tuesday morning for a part-time, college-level language teaching job. I want the job, I'd be good at it, and I have experience teaching this subject. But I have literally zero experience with job interviews. Fellow Mefites, please share your interview wisdom generally, and specifically, help me come up with (a) a list of questions to be ready for and (b) some questions to ask on my part. [more inside]
posted by zeri at 6:06 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by zeri at 6:06 PM PST - 12 comments
Picking up a Dizi.
I would like to learn to play a dizi, but I have no clue how to buy one or where to start. I'm in Seattle and can buy one locally or online, with a target budget of $50-$100. I'd like one that is easy to play (for someone with small hands and no wind instrument experience) and where the sound is nice by itself. Any suggestions? [more inside]
How would you interpret this e-mail exchange...
...with a potential paramour met on a dating site?
Friend and I are purposely asking the community for first impressions out of context. What do you imagine the exchange (response in particular) means? [more inside]
posted by phreckles at 5:33 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by phreckles at 5:33 PM PST - 41 comments
Are Elance and oDesk worth the effort?
I'm transitioning away from regular work to freelance.
Friends have pointed me to Elance and oDesk, but the hourly rates are abysmally low! Has anyone made a success of that business model?
I am a writer, so perhaps those skills are paid less than the more technical jobs on those sites?
Puzzle me this
I'm organising a competition in which groups of people have to work together to solve a series of puzzles. I'm looking for puzzles along the lines of that hoary old favourite about the Farmer trying to cross the river with a Fox, a Chicken and Bag of Grain or the one involving the Two Guards, one of whom only tells lies and the other who only tells the truth. [more inside]
Help me find PacMan level 2 (island!), please.
I my memory, there was the basic PacMan computer game (not in arcades but on the PC at home) which at some point had a second level - same game idea but the design on the screen was a sunny, sandy island in the middle of the ocean, with treasure chests, palm trees, and maybe even pirates. I remember this fondly and (too) often and wish I could find it again. Does anybody know where to purchase this game or perhaps find it online?
Details within. [more inside]
Trouble with iOS 8 Mail (iPhone 5S)
While I had no issues on my iPhone 4 with iOS 7 getting my desired functionality, I'm having a heck of a time trying to figure out how to replicate this functionality with my iPhone 5S and iOS 8. The main problem concerns the built-in Mail app. [more inside]
posted by juliebug at 1:38 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by juliebug at 1:38 PM PST - 3 comments
How to remove banana odor from backpack.
I foolishly put a banana in a backpack (JanSport knapsack). The banana was crushed and smeared all over the inside of the large section of the backpack and set for a day. Now I cannot get rid of the rank banana odor. I've washed three times, and sponged heavily with vinegar twice. The material is some sort of synthetic, no leather. Suggestions on how to remove the lingering odor?
Name this song please .. from Wolf on Wall Street
Name this song please .. from Wolf on Wall Street
posted by bright77blue at 1:06 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by bright77blue at 1:06 PM PST - 3 comments
Stupid person fucks up kitchen wall. Film at 11.
Hi. I'm stupid. I tore a piece out of my kitchen wall. Please help me put it back. [more inside]
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 1:02 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 1:02 PM PST - 11 comments
Is this mixing board good for a home recording studio?
We have been gifted what I think is a very nice mixing board. I'm wondering if it's a good fit for a home recording studio, or if it's too much. [more inside]
How should I navigate this job situation?
I want to ask my (new*) company for a transfer to a different office. I'm not sure how this will be received, so I feel like I need to have a back up plan. I'm not sure how best to handle the timing on asking versus looking at other options. [more inside]
How do we get on top/stay on top of being clean and organized?
OK...really I want to be somewhat clean and somewhat organized. Can anyone point to a method of organizing and cleaning a household in addition to a methodical way of purging things? My goal is to get to a point of being able to maintain a certain level of organization/cleanliness. It is to the point where I am embarrassed to have anyone over. [more inside]
More visible veins on hormonal birth control?
I am currently taking Lo Loestrin Fe (low estrogen pill), which I've only been taking for seven days now. I noticed last night that my veins in my wrists are a lot more visible than usual. This morning in the shower, the same was true of the veins in my feet and legs. They are more visible and I can see some of them pretty bright blue. [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 12:03 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 12:03 PM PST - 13 comments
The windows in our house are crappy. Complication: high desert climate
We have a nice home, but our house was built in 2007 with a number of "builder-grade" elements, including the windows. When we moved in, a few had issues with some elements of the windows (tracks sliding out, locking mechanisms not working smoothly), and they've only got worse. [more inside]
Carrying a poster from France to the US: carry-on or ship?
How do I get a large poster tube from France to the US? Do I try to carry it on, or risk shipping it? [more inside]
posted by Nelson at 11:42 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Nelson at 11:42 AM PST - 10 comments
Help me find the best tights!
Help me find the best tights! [more inside]
In what style of art is the end credits for the Boxtrolls?
We saw The Boxtrolls yesterday, and I was struck by the art that played during the end credits sequence. It looks familiar, but for the life of me I can't find a name for the style or that artist. It's a sketchy sort of line drawing, black lines with color accents, lots of tall houses with ornamentation, and for some reason reminds me vaguely of 60s or 70s animation. Does anyone else know what I'm half-remembering?
posted by korej at 9:35 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by korej at 9:35 AM PST - 6 comments
Is this a carpet beetle?
Ottawa vs. Gatineau
Please help this Ontarian decide whether to move across the river. [more inside]
iPad/iPhone printing to HP Officejet 100 via Airport...
MobilePrintingFilter - I needed a diminutive printer, and only the HP Officejet 100 fit the bill. I've got it working fine from my Macbook via direct USB, via Bluetooth, and, having USB-connected it to the same Airport Extreme base station that delivers my internet connection, via Bonjour. Now all I'm missing is... printig to it from my iPad. [more inside]
Best way for a 40-year old to learn piano at home
I'm trying to find the best way to learn to play the piano well. Classical music is beautiful, but not really interested in playing that on the piano. I'm more interesting in learning to play modern hits. I feel like I need some structure and a clear path to progression. My work schedule is chaotic at best, so I don't want to get a piano teacher. I'm looking for books, videos, software (mac preferred), etc that can really help me improve my skills on my own schedule. [more inside]
Expiring Texas Buyer's Tags
I bought a car (from a dealer) in Texas in August. The buyer's tag (which is what the temporary plate is called, I think) expires on Wednesday. I still don't have the license plates. What do I do? [more inside]
Using an Android tv box - how many gb are used
I am considering the purchase of an android tv box but I have no idea how many gb of my 100 gb/month allotment would be used up on my internet service plan (using DSL modem). If for example, I was watching tv up to 3 hours daily would this exceed the 100 gb monthly limit?
Second question - is there anyone using the magic box from redrhino entertainment - is it worth the premium price of a regular quad core box?
Are excavators ever buried under large buildings to save money?
My brother claims that in large construction projects where excavators dig out underground carparks, the cost of removing the machinery exceeds the costs of replacing it so they are simply buried under all the concrete.
Can anyone please point to some kind of evidence? My googling hasn't turned up anything and there's $30 riding on it! Thanks
posted by soymilk at 2:46 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by soymilk at 2:46 AM PST - 15 comments
October 11
Eco-conscious home buyers?
When selling a house with lots of eco features that are rare in the area (large solar array, efficient dual-fuel HVAC, new insulation/sealing, etc.), how could the sellers network / advertise to reach potential buyers who care about these features? (Location is a Philadelphia suburb and price is typical for the suburb, around 300K.)
posted by kalapierson at 11:31 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by kalapierson at 11:31 PM PST - 10 comments
Oh God what have I been drinking?
I just looked inside my electric tea kettle for the first time in months and saw three large-ish blobs that look sort of like the kind of bamboo shoots you get in Chinese food. [more inside]
posted by pocketfullofrye at 10:10 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by pocketfullofrye at 10:10 PM PST - 24 comments
Help us name our baby!
We're having a baby next week and need help picking between two names. Looking for advice and experience relating to full names vs. nicknames . [more inside]
Whatever gets you out of bed in the morning
I'm looking for phrases to use when you see someone who has a strong passion the appeal of which you just cannot understand--a passion that appears to be one of the things the person lives for, one of the things that gets them out of bed in the morning. (I'm looking for secular passions, not religious ones.) Funny is good but not required. [more inside]
How long should it take me to learn how to drive?
I'm in my mid-20s and recently got my learner's permit, but I've never ever even tried to drive a car before. What are my options for actually learning this? [more inside]
posted by modesty.blaise at 6:47 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by modesty.blaise at 6:47 PM PST - 19 comments
Is it possible to find dates if you're a person seeking a person?
I am potentially interested in dating again. I had a breakup of a 1.5 year relationship around this time last year and feel emotionally over it. However, I feel like I will have a bit more challenges in regards to dating than the average person. (I'm mostly asexual, not very feminine, and a non-traditional undergraduate student in a college town). Special snowflakes inside... [more inside]
posted by sevenofspades at 5:59 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by sevenofspades at 5:59 PM PST - 16 comments
Strapless bras... in 36H?
So after serious effort with measuring and trying on a million bras, I got myself into the right size about 9 months ago -- UK 36H or 36HH, depending on the bra. Relief! However, I have developed rotator cuff tendinitis and an angry trapezius muscle and now, bra straps cause agony. I'm thinking a strapless bra might be the answer, but with my size and a few other challenges, I'm not sure this is going to be possible. Is it? [more inside]
Intersex 101?
I am very grateful that every time there's a post concerning trans issues here that the community posts a trans 101 link, and I'm wondering if any of you know of a reliable link that lists valid and non-offensive information about intersex people. Specifically, I would like to be a lot more culturally competent around issues of gender assignment at birth, surgery, helping an intersex child realize their identity, and the like.
Unscented antiperspirant/deodorant
Do you have a recommendation for an unscented antiperspirant/deodorant? [more inside]
posted by stowaway at 4:56 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by stowaway at 4:56 PM PST - 35 comments
Tell me what to look for when buying a home with an attic or basement...
We are starting to look at purchasing a home. I'm loving the idea of having a basement or converted attic or attic that could be converted. What should I be looking for to evaluate whether the basement or attic space is good? [more inside]
What was that fabric?
So, I went on a business trip and my well-loved Burberry black trench raincoat, which I bought new at a department store 5 or 6 years ago, was stolen. I would really like to replace it. The catch is that I can't figure out just what the fabric was. It was soft to the touch, almost silky, with a lustrous shine (not the high shine of a sateen), and water resistant. It definitely was not the classic Burberry cotton gabardine, which is much rougher to the touch. I failed at figuring this out via Google. Can the hive mind help?
posted by bearwife at 3:36 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by bearwife at 3:36 PM PST - 3 comments
*This* is Ceti Alpha V!!
Please help me ID this bug. 1.5 inches long. Mean looking. [more inside]
posted by popcassady at 3:29 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by popcassady at 3:29 PM PST - 5 comments
Is there a good, accessible book on advanced football strategy?
I'm looking for a book that will explain all the offensive and defensive positions, as well as the relative merit of the various formations, routes, etc. Not necessarily looking for something directed at coaches. [more inside]
Source for Box Office Figures?
My retired husband maintains an entertainment website for a hobby. One page is devoted to posting the latest box office figures including Saturday and Sunday estimates as well as the Monday final results. Unfortunately his source for this info., IMDB and BoxOffice Mojo, were today taken over by Amazon.com and are presently unavailable, he believes permanently.
Does anyone know of another, free source he might tap? He tells me that many got their data from these two, including BoxOffice Guru.
posted by R2WeTwo at 2:09 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 2:09 PM PST - 8 comments
Definitive guide(s) and resources for understanding taxes in Canada?
How can one learn about the Canadian tax system (Toronto, Ontario to be specific) in the easiest way possible? Does one need to do a ton of reading to grasp the basic concept behind how they work or are there nice videos and presentations that explain how they work? [more inside]
posted by omar.a at 1:37 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by omar.a at 1:37 PM PST - 3 comments
The Devil I Don't Know is Still a Devil
Another breaking up question, not from a relationship but from brands. Help me decide when to switch from a couple of consumer products, when the alternatives may not be any better than the one I currently use. [more inside]
posted by Xurando at 1:34 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by Xurando at 1:34 PM PST - 25 comments
Always read the fine print
I work part time, my boss asked me to cover a full timer's vacation, telling me I would be working 7:30-4 Monday-Friday. I agreed. Yesterday he surprised me by telling me I was actually supposed to work 7:30am-8:30pm that day. When I said he told me to work 7:30-4 all week he said, "Well it's been posted on the schedule." I didn't think I needed to look at the schedule. I said I wouldn't be able to stay past 4. Was I entirely in the wrong? [more inside]
posted by blackzinfandel at 1:33 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by blackzinfandel at 1:33 PM PST - 14 comments
What's the most official means of finding a DNS whois history?
This is a question about the integrity of DNS records in terms of historical accuracy. A friend of mine is an investigative journalist who's doing a critical reexamination of the Facebook origin story has come across something that doesn't quite make sense and he doesn't have the technical expertise to parse its meaning or lack thereof. [more inside]
Do learning disabilities improve but still exist?
A child I know has struggling with output (verbal, written) for quite some time. He has some other issues, too. He has diagnosed LDs. He worked hard over the summer and has improved. The school seems to think that his writing isn't a concern. This conflicts with the opinions of other specialists. How do the parents make sense of it? [more inside]
Help us winterize….
Where can we go in & around nyc to find winter clothes, preferably in one place, for good prices? [more inside]
posted by tulim at 11:01 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by tulim at 11:01 AM PST - 9 comments
Check register App for iPhone 5s
I'm looking for an iPhone App to track my spending, NOT budgeting. My salary is automatically split via direct deposit, so that most of it goes into a different account used to pay bills with the spouse. What's needed is an App to track the money in my personal account, which is used mostly for fun stuff, with a few minor things like gas or reccurring payments for Netflix, website hosting etc. Specific features are below the cut! [more inside]
Funding a mental health driven life sabbatical
A dear friend of mine has had a super lousy couple of years, suffering assault and an abusive partner, multiple major physical health issues, and some family trauma. Additionally, she is suffering from a major depressive episode, and her formerly good job has become toxic. She has asked me and another friend to help her figure out how to take a life sabbatical to focus on getting out of the toxic job and back on her feet in terms of mental health. I, in turn, turn to your collective wisdom, because, wow, am I out of my area of expertise. [more inside]
Making the breast of a bad situation
My cherished spouse was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. It's going to be a long haul. At the oncologist's office, I saw a coupon for 3 free acupuncture treatments for breast cancer patients and it got me thinking... [more inside]
How do I move on?
I'm at a crossroads in my long-term relationship. We've been dating for 2.5 years. He's been trustworthy and I've been extremely happy in this relationship. I'm 30 f, he's 31 m. We live together.
Things changed a few weeks back... [more inside]
posted by KB.Boston_implant.By way of NY at 9:07 AM PST - 64 comments
posted by KB.Boston_implant.By way of NY at 9:07 AM PST - 64 comments
Help me understand my bronchiecstasis diagnosis
I have been sick for a while now, first with pertussis and now a bad case of bronchitis. My doctors have been trying to figure out if an underlying problem is keeping me so sick. In going back over my chest x-rays from a few months ago, my primary care doctor found bronchiecstasis. I had a CT scan yesterday, though I won’t meet with my doctor to discuss the results until Monday. I’ve been reading online about bronchiecstasis, but the articles haven’t helped me to figure out what bronchiecstasis means for my life now. [more inside]
Things to do and see in and around Charleston, SC - November 8-11th
My teenage (14) daughter and I are going to a wedding in Charleston. Yay! The wedding is on a Friday, but since school is out for us part of the next week we thought we'd make a vacation of it! So we'll have Saturday through Monday free, leaving on Tuesday. What's good to do with a teenager in and around Charleston, SC? Are there any amusement parks or other cool tourist attractions within say a 3 hour drive of Charleston? Any teen-focuses Charleston-ish recommendations would be appreciated!
Laptop crashed - what might be wrong?
My MacBook Pro (15-inch, few years old) just crashed. I'm thinking I should pack up and head over to Tekserve now (my AppleCare is still in effect), but can anyone tell me what might have happened and whether it's a bad idea to try to reboot? [more inside]
Let's go hybrid shopping! Toyota/Lexus vs. Ford vs. Honda
So, I think I'm ready to give up my slightly banged-up 2005 Civic. The lady and I would like to get a hybrid, since we're mostly doing city driving (with the occasional weekend jaunt). I've been shopping around and trying a few models out, but I would appreciate any personal experience with these cars... [more inside]
Plus-sized petite tights or leggings for someone who hates tights
I would like plus-sized petite tights or leggings for wearing with winter/fall dresses or skirts that A) Are opaque B) Stretch up enough that the crotch reaches my crotch so I'm not walking around like a penguin and C) Don't slide down and bunch up elephant style at the ankles. D) Are not delicate/likely to run.
Also, I need advice on what to put on my feet when I wear these. [more inside]
posted by If only I had a penguin... at 8:02 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by If only I had a penguin... at 8:02 AM PST - 29 comments
Help my wife choose a career
Since leaving university a few years ago with a humanities degree (human geography with Spanish), my wife's mostly worked as a temp in an admin position for the same company. Her plan was to do this while deciding what she really wanted to do; two years later, and she's still no closer to making any decisions but as dissatisfied with her current work as ever... [more inside]
How would George Jetson buy a car?
What are currently the most relevant blogs / websites / articles / experts on the future of automotive retail? [more inside]
posted by eau79 at 6:13 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by eau79 at 6:13 AM PST - 1 comment
I Wanna Rock and Roll All Night, and Have My Hearing
Should I go to an upcoming show of one of my favorite musicians? I got Tinnitus from a rock show 2 weeks ago. Most of it has faded away, except for the smallest beep that I can't hear unless it's silent. I really want to see this artist, but I can't put in ear plugs without them falling out, and I was scared after getting tinnitus and don't want to damage my hearing. Help! YANMD, etc. [more inside]
Garnished. Any value in contacting creditor?
1. Is there a silver lining in that I'll be finally paying off the debt at least? Will that help me in the long run? Or is the fact that it's a garnishment super verboten?
2. Is there any value in contacting the creditor? [more inside]
Tooth and Nail
My new phone's Bluetooth insists on automatically turning itself on without any authorization or configuration. Should I be concerned about vulnerability? [more inside]
Blog network for posting reviews of startups
I'm considering posting starting a blog where I post reviews of Startups. I would like to try to get at least a few people reading my blog, so perhaps I should join a blog network. A few options of heard of are Tumblr, Wordpress.com and Medium. Does anyone have any recommendations on which site it'd be easiest to build an audience? I'd be willing to try other sites too. I'm not trying to make this commercial or anything - it'd just be nice to get some feedback.
October 10
New magazine issue notifications
I'd like a service that notifies me when a new issue of a magazine of choice comes out. Is there such a service that explicitly provides such a service or an existing solution that can be configured to provide such a service? Ideally, this wouldn't mean subscribing to the magazine, just merely a notification that a new issue from the magazine is available.
Vicarious Math Pressure
My eldest child is starting high school. She is in the most advanced math class (a version of geometry) offered by her fairly demanding high school. But my eldest is struggling during the review of algebra -- rate problems, word problems, etc. Concerned because math is cumulative, and I don't want her falling behind. What can I do to help, both with math and with preventing her from becoming discouraged? [more inside]
posted by Slap Factory at 11:41 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Slap Factory at 11:41 PM PST - 9 comments
Mission Impossible: Having a relaxing weekend
I had a rough meeting at work this afternoon and now I'm confused, sad, and hurt. Help me focus so I can move forward. [more inside]
Gender transition and grad school applications
I'm a transgender woman in my last year of an undergraduate degree. I'm currently using male pronouns and my given name in most situations, but I'm planning to come out over Christmas break and use female pronouns and a new name in the spring semester, which will be my last before graduation. If I apply to computer science grad schools after I graduate, is my transition likely to cause complications which could hurt my application? [more inside]
posted by unknot at 9:25 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by unknot at 9:25 PM PST - 9 comments
Private integrity rather than recognition
I'm looking for readings, stories of peoples' lives, anecdotes, your thoughts, or any other sort of material about the value of a "small" life of private integrity over a "larger" life of public recognition and acclaim. I'd love especially to read about people's lives, so pointers to biographical reading material would be appreciated.
Tell me your favorite screwtop wine
I love wine, but don't want to drink a whole bottle. Just a glass a night. Everything I've read, and my own experience, backs up the idea that the best way to seal wine is the screwtop and reseals as well as those fancy vacuum sealers. The only thing that seems better for a single glass is wine in a box. But I want more variety than wine in a box allows. [more inside]
Where should I live for an easy (transit) commute to downtown Seattle?
I'm hoping for a commute that's as painless and short as possible (<30min door to door). Office is near the public library (around 5th Ave and Columbia). I'll be looking for a house with a backyard and a good school district. I know traffic is a bear, and I don't love driving, so if there's any way to do this by public transit or (I wish!) walking, that would be ideal. But if I have to park, I will.
A Day in the Life of an Immigration Attorney
I need to get a feel for the experiences of an immigration attorney ... [more inside]
How to make the best use of two (only two!) mediation sessions
My spouse has long resisted going to couples’ mediation, despite on-going problems in our marriage. After a particularly bad fight a few days ago, my spouse reluctantly agreed to attend two sessions. I’m responsible for selecting the mediator. What’s the best way to extract the most benefit from just two sessions? [more inside]
How do I deliberately sound phlegmy or "froggy"?
I'm working on a roleplaying character (a Nosferatu for an upcoming Vampire game, if it matters) and I like the idea of his having a permanently phlegmy, "wet" voice. The problem is that my throat's usually fairly dry and whenever I try to pull such a voice I can only get a sentence or two out before I run through whatever moisture's there and it feels like I'm just grinding dry esophagus against itself. Is there any way to keep my throat moist and burbly without having to constantly chug fluids?
A wee history of floor polishing...???
Wooden polishing blocks, for floor polishing. Does anyone know anything about these? How about a picture? [more inside]
posted by lizbunny at 6:35 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lizbunny at 6:35 PM PST - 5 comments
Wife's work doesnt pay overtime.
Wife's work doesn't pay overtime. [more inside]
tip of my tongue
Help me find a song I heard at Forever 21... [more inside]
posted by pintapicasso at 5:22 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by pintapicasso at 5:22 PM PST - 5 comments
Dropped my iPhone in the water. How best to save it?
Well technically *I* didn't drop my iPhone 5c in the water, my 3 year old son did while playing games on the potty. It was probably in the water for 10 seconds, in an Otterbox Defender case. I took the case off, powered it off (could see water under the screen at this point), and put it in a bag of rice. No warranty, no Applecare; what can I do to maximize the chances of saving the phone?
What makes a person an alcoholic?
I think my partner drinks too much. My partner thinks I'm overreacting. Who's right? [more inside]
Creative, vegetarian dishes for a newly picky eater?
Hi all,
Please help! I am a newly picky eater, meaning I used to love all things rich and spicy, but due to recent medication changes, I absolutely can't stand the thought of so many once-loved foods. Alternatively: starch+veg+bean combos that taste good are also being sought! Thanks in advance! [more inside]
Work and job search-related depression
How can I stop feeling depressed about my job and the fact that nothing is coming up while I job search? [more inside]
Best earphones I can buy right now
What is the best pair of in-ear headphones money can buy? [more inside]
Using high-wattage Euro electrical goods in the US
I am moving to California from Europe and have a houseful of electrical items rated for 220V, 50Hz. Lamps with incandescent bulbs and things with wall-warts AFAIK just need plug adaptors (I think?). Kettles, toasters, hairdryers, clock radios etc will probably get ditched. The problem is a few expensive, high-wattage items:
fancy steam iron with integrated boiler (2200W)
- vacuum cleaner (ditto)
- coffee machine (1450W)
- laser printer (a mere 660W).
Is there any way to use these in the US short of buying 4 enormous step-up transformers? [more inside]
posted by ogorki at 3:19 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by ogorki at 3:19 PM PST - 12 comments
Where was this Magnum Ice Cream commercial filmed?
Where was the Magnum Ice Cream commercial with Rachel Bilson filmed? While some of the cars shown are American, I spy a Toyota Yaris with taillights that look very different from the US-market version, a Jeep with export taillights, and some other SUV that was certainly never sold here.
Ate two moldy muffins, because I'm an idiot. How much danger am I in?
I've gotten hooked on the bran muffins from Vons/Pavillions, and I always start my day with one. Yesterday there was some mold on one, and I just cut it off and ate it. Today I did the same, but then I did a quick Google search and found out there are all sorts of potential horrors from eating moldy bread. Now I don't know how freaked out to be. Complicating factor: I'm recovering from cancer surgery. [more inside]
Are stock market crashes inevitable before retirment?
I invest in my company's 403b retirement plan. I can use an investment calculator to estimate what things will look like by retirement, assuming a certain rate of return, and the numbers look fine. Does it make sense to assume that some sort of market crash or downturn will significantly affect this estimate before retirement in the next 30 years? [more inside]
So what's the deal with medication?
I have been in therapy for a little while for anxiety/obsessive thoughts. This has gone very well so far, but I still feel awful, and I am wondering whether I should try meds. Snowflakes after the jump. [more inside]
posted by myitkyina at 2:20 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by myitkyina at 2:20 PM PST - 17 comments
2+2= ???
A close relative is in a demanding STEM program. Test-taking causes an increase in anxiety, naturally, which in turn seems to put the squeeze on those tubes by which information moves from brain to paper. Strategies for warding off or alleviating this sensation would be appreciated. [more inside]
How do I apologize to my sister?
I feel like I've messed up my relationship with one of my sisters to a really bad point, and it's my fault. [more inside]
posted by glassrose at 1:55 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by glassrose at 1:55 PM PST - 26 comments
Re-learning to enjoy simple, often taken-for-granted pleasures
There have been threads about simple pleasures before, but I'm asking as a person fresh-out of an abusive relationship. I feel like I've been missing a lot of the little things that I used to enjoy and even took for granted, and I'm at a loss. I need be aware of simple pleasures in order to recharge myself while I do all of the emotional/psychically/mentally draining work of recovering from all this. Examples after the jump. [more inside]
posted by mingo_clambake at 1:23 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by mingo_clambake at 1:23 PM PST - 19 comments
Okay, okay. I'm getting therapy. ...How do I do this?
After struggling with a few largely non-crisis issues for the last eight years or so, I've decided to go see a therapist. I've seen a counselor before, and she's lovely, but I feel like I need more cognitive insight now. I found my current counselor by calling the local Pride Center and getting a list of names, then going with the first one who answered their phone. I want to make a more informed decision this time. [more inside]
Does this pickled roasted pepper recipe seem acidic enough?
Last year I made the best pickled roasted pickled peppers last year but I didn't process it and only kept it in the fridge so I wouldn't have worried as much about the acidity level. This year I want to process them and keep them in the pantry. Does this seem acidic enough? [more inside]
Help Me Helpdesk
The company I work for has been in the paper-scanner business (and previously microfilm) for years, but this world is moving away from hardware and into software; we're moving from canned air and screwdrivers and into a 'helpdesk' capacity. What software works best to manage this? [more inside]
Looking for great B&W photographs of women in science and literature
I'm putting together a gallery wall of B&W photographs of women in science and literature, and I'm looking for sources and great photographs with acquirable prints and/or in the public domain. [more inside]
posted by barchan at 11:56 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by barchan at 11:56 AM PST - 10 comments
Seeking ideas and recipes to use in an after-school cooking club
What things can I cook with children in an after-school club setting? Difficulty: no actual cooking possible. [more inside]
posted by schmoo at 11:55 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by schmoo at 11:55 AM PST - 24 comments
Moving an electrical switch about 3 inches up
So, my apartment complex installed a new exhaust fan in our unit. This is great! it's powerful and will be an excellent addition to the kitchen! However, they inconveniently placed the switch for the fan about 2 inches too low for comfort (pictures inside). When the oven is pushed in the switch gets covered up. Is this the sort of thing I can move myself? Or is this the sort of thing I should pay an electrician for? How much? (And for the sake of argument, let's assume my apartment complex is fine with me doing this.) [more inside]
posted by beep-bop-robot at 11:55 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by beep-bop-robot at 11:55 AM PST - 17 comments
Vancouver-themed cycling jersey?
Looking for a Vancouver BC-themed cycling jersey for sale from a local shop. [more inside]
How do I overcome the grief from my cat's death
What books/activities/other resources will help me get past this horrible sadness. [more inside]
dentist filter! What can I do?
In addition to a family history of dental troubles (alignment issues; "soft" enamel whatever that means), I did not have access to regular/good dentistry until my mid-20 (my parents' financial strain when I was a kid; nomadic life of constant moving/traveling, etc.) and so now, as a 29-year-old, I have a number of teeth of varying degrees of cavities. They are all filled, but those teeth are not perfect. I now floss and brush at least twice a day, often more, use floride rinse, and I shun sugar in my diet.
Still, in the last 3 years I've had two teeth that died and formed abscesses, each requiring a root canal and a crown, and setting me back several thousand dollars... [more inside]
What should I know about buying a used external monitor?
I want to get an external monitor, and found a Dell model I like (U2412M) on Craigslist. Is there anything I need to know, other than that it works when I plug it in? Do current monitors still get burned out pixels? Do they wear out after a certain amount of time? Is there any reason I should pay twice as much for a new monitor?
posted by three_red_balloons at 11:15 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by three_red_balloons at 11:15 AM PST - 5 comments
What (else) is wrong with my car, and can I get 2 more years out of it?
My SO and I are planning on moving to another country in 2 years. We suspect it will be easier to not take any cars with us. We currently have 2 cars, but one seems to be auditioning to join the choir invisible. [more inside]
posted by neutralmojo at 11:10 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by neutralmojo at 11:10 AM PST - 9 comments
Bathroom light turning off
You are not my electrician but I was wondering if you might experienced this problem. My bathroom has a fluorescent light with a pull switch and a ventilation fan that comes on automatically. I think they run off the same circuit. The light normally comes on fine but after a while- probably about half an hour normally- the light goes off. [more inside]
posted by KateViolet at 11:06 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by KateViolet at 11:06 AM PST - 10 comments
Identify this cartoon!
Sometime between 1990-1995, I recall watching a TV cartoon about a teenage-ish girl, her brother, and a bunch (maybe 10?) of roughly people-sized talking robots. One of the robots was baseball-themed (carried a baseball bat, etc). The girl wore a yellow-and-black striped bandana that looked like caution tape. This is all I remember about this show. Anyone else recall this cartoon?
posted by markslack at 10:58 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by markslack at 10:58 AM PST - 2 comments
How can I decrease my student loan burden? (Healthcare edition)
I work in healthcare, and am currently at a great FQHC. The site is eligible for loan forgiveness. Unfortunately, I won't be able to complete the two year minimum to have a large portion of my debt forgiven, as I am moving permanently overseas. I am likewise unable to do any public service loan forgiveness programs in the US. Are there other options that will give me credit for, say, one year worked at a low-income site? What would be the consequences of moving abroad permanently and defaulting on my loans? [more inside]
posted by pocksuppetteer at 10:45 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by pocksuppetteer at 10:45 AM PST - 5 comments
Should I get allergy shots?
I have multiple chemical sensitivity allergies, particularly to bleach and fragrances. According to the patch test, I also have less severe allergies to all the usual suspects - dander, pollen, grasses, etc. There are currently no desensitization therapies for chemical allergies like there are for the other stuff. My allergist says I should still do the allergy shot regimen because it will take my system out of constant "high-alert" mode and subsequently reduce the severity of the chemical reactions. I'm skeptical. [more inside]
Used pipes + new shower = nasty water. How to fix?
Landlord installed a new shower in my rented home. Did all plumbing himself, used second-hand (salvaged?) copper pipes and metal fittings. Now the shower water is gritty, burns my eyes, and has clogged 2 shower heads with disgusting debris (photo inside). What is causing this? [more inside]
posted by falldownpaul at 9:20 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by falldownpaul at 9:20 AM PST - 34 comments
Screwed by supervisor -- what to do?
My supervisor's incompetence jeopardized my own work goals. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by lost_lettuce at 8:56 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lost_lettuce at 8:56 AM PST - 9 comments
the standing desk vs. my health
I recently noticed visible blue veins in my legs. Ahh! Relatedly, I think, I've been working at a standing desk for 7-8 hours a day for the last few months. I love it. But now I'm concerned about some cosmetic and health risks I may be taking on by doing so. Are there ways to mitigate the harm (?) I'm doing? [more inside]
I should like to find sinister-sounding dance music. Won't you help?
Hello darlings. My, you're all looking proud and healthy today! Delightful. Today, I am looking for song recommendations - in particular, I would like sinister-sounding funk/disco songs. I shall expound on this below the cut. [more inside]
posted by FAMOUS MONSTER at 8:42 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by FAMOUS MONSTER at 8:42 AM PST - 34 comments
I have all-clad discount paranoia
Can I trust that the All-Clad pots and pans I bought at TJ Maxx yesterday are the real deal? At the time, I felt like I'd struck gold. Now I'm worried it's the fool's kind. They didn't come with any box, warranty card, or inspection card, and were absurdly cheap compared to everything I can find online--including irregulars. I'm going insane. TJ Maxx wouldn't sell counterfeits, right? [more inside]
posted by scarylarry at 8:30 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by scarylarry at 8:30 AM PST - 20 comments
Why are emails to me being opened in Tokyo?
A friend of mine uses the SIDEKICK app (through g-mail ) to let her know when and where her outgoing g-mails get opened. She has told me that in the last few days all her emails to me (I have Yahoo, she has G-mail) show they were opened multiple times in Tokyo Japan. I changed my yahoo password immediately, but she continued to see my emails were being opened in Tokyo even after i changed my password. [more inside]
Help me help my 11 year old brother grow up into an awesome person!
What can I do as his sister to help my brother grow up to an awesome person that's hardworking, successful, happy and responsible (and morally good) person. Also one who's educated and has a good amount of fun, worldly experiences. Right now I'm very afraid of him growing up and being a bad person destined for because because of all of the current situations in his life including the way he's being parented. [more inside]
Help me find the best leggings?
I'm shopping for the best. leggings. ever. Help me find them? [more inside]
posted by geeky at 7:53 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by geeky at 7:53 AM PST - 21 comments
Article on why "relating" to characters in novels is unimportant?
I'm trying to find an article I read a few months ago on how readers shouldn't focus on whether or not they relate to a character. Does anybody have any leads?
posted by mmmbacon at 7:35 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mmmbacon at 7:35 AM PST - 8 comments
Bad dog.
I am a newish dog host on DogVacay. I had a bad experience with a dog last night and am wondering what to do about it. [more inside]
Tax question - how do I (or do I) pay tax on a distribution from a K-1?
I had an interest in a limited partnership that wound-down and distributed its assets. I received a K-1 with the distribution shown in Box 19. How do I pay tax on this? [more inside]
Another "what to do in Boston" question.
Visiting Boston this weekend, and asked my friends to take me to see MIT and Harvard, but they haven't been there either. What is there to see or do that'll mean having a good time? [more inside]
Where can I buy a lightbox in NYC or Denver/Boulder?
Are there any stores in NYC where I can buy a lightbox today or in Denver/Boulder where I can buy one this weekend? [more inside]
posted by neematoad at 5:51 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by neematoad at 5:51 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me make this job decision with my BRAIN.
I've just been offered an awesome job! But I feel terrified at the prospect of quitting my current job. How do make myself feel okay about leaving a job that often isn't very good for me? [more inside]
posted by chaiminda at 5:34 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by chaiminda at 5:34 AM PST - 15 comments
P18 Urban Cuban secret track lyrics
On the excellent album Urban Cuban by P18, there was a secret track. After about 5 minutes of silence, it was appended to the last track, and wasn't shown on the cover. I now found it on youtube, here it is. But I can't find the words anywhere... I'd be grateful if a Spanish speaker helped me out! Information about the origin and style of this song and similar artists would also be welcome, I'd love to find more like it.
Help me decorate a door....
I'm going to be decorating a hotel door soon and I'm TOTALLY cheating by asking for your help.... [more inside]
posted by pearlybob at 1:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by pearlybob at 1:34 AM PST - 9 comments
October 9
What's there to do in Seattle around New Year's Eve?
A bunch of us Canadians are planning to spend 3 days and two nights in Seattle around New Year's Eve. What's there to do? [more inside]
posted by Hawk V at 11:05 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Hawk V at 11:05 PM PST - 4 comments
Migraines ruining life/career and no one believes me. What now?
I am a mid-30's woman with a very successful career in finance, or at least used I to be successful. I suffer from very frequent migraines and I'm pretty sure I'm about to be fired for all the sick days I have taken this year and also my projects and meetings that have been affected. [more inside]
Hereditary plate of beans: coping strats for overthinking family.
My overthinking things was making me unhappy... so I cut way back on it, and now I'm enjoying life more. Yay! But now I'm way less tolerant of the same behavior in family and loved ones; trying to ignore it leads to awkward, anxiety-producing silences. Boo. Insert your advice here. [more inside]
Everything was fine this morning, until...
This morning my boss sent me an unannounced meeting request and an hour later told me that I needed to watch my attitude. This makes no sense to me, what am I missing? [more inside]
posted by Youremyworld at 10:01 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by Youremyworld at 10:01 PM PST - 39 comments
Accidental hermit - when should I reply to messages?
I've been chronically ill for a few years where health dictated when I could answer people, and now that I'm mostly back at work, I am baffled by what feels like a shift in asynchronous communication etiquette. It used to be phone/text/email/letter in urgency, but people now expect a same-hour reply for everything, and I wind up with fifty conversations simultaneously. People will have different expectations but I'm looking at what's broadly accepted for 30 year olds online/offline in a modern city. [more inside]
Special effect lenses with a corrective prescription?
I've been trying to locate some "white out"-style special effect contact lenses (the kind that make your iris and pupil a milky white, like Storm in the X-Men films when she uses her powers), but I've been having a hard time finding something that fits my prescription. Does anyone know of a reputable store that sells these kinds of SFX lenses with corrective power? [more inside]
Testing out Portland and Seattle - what neighborhood to stay in.
My wife and I are planning a visit to Portland and Seattle to see if they are cities we would want to move to. What part of town should we stay in? And what parts of town should we visit? [more inside]
Spices are the spice of life
I ordered a bunch of exotic spices from Penzeys. Recommend some dishes/recipes so I can play with them! [more inside]
How do I stop asking for help?
I have my first post doc job and am feeling out of my depth most of the time. I also don't have much supervision and can easily panic with problems that I don't know how to solve. I keep reaching out to my former PhD advisor that has given clear signs that he doesn't want to help anymore. Help me stop. [more inside]
How do I deal with a relationship that'll end when I move away?
Started a relationship with someone and it feels like the closest most intimate relationship I've ever been in, but, I'm financially committed to starting a new job in another country, in a month's time. We've already talked about spending as much time together as possible before the move (and we have a trip somewhere planned our last weekend together) but I don't know what to do after I move away. [more inside]
How do you find rental apartment in Philadelphia? (Coming from NYC)
Philadelphians past and present: What is the normal way for going about finding an apartment in your city?
In New York, we would either use Craigslist or pay a broker 10-15% of the yearly rent to find us an apartment (that usually wasn't posted on Craigslist). [more inside]
I need pants pockets my hands or keys fit in.
I need help finding pants with pockets large enough to fit my hands (when I'm standing around awkwardly) or a set of keys without them falling out when I'm walking from building to building. Caveat: women's pants that are somewhat professional with straight or tapered legs . [more inside]
Best way to scan and OCR a moderate number of pages
I have ~9,000 pages I'd like scanned and OCRed, spread across 20 books. What will this cost me? [more inside]
Cheap indoor "searchlights" for a party
We're throwing a hollywood-themed party, and we'd like to have 2-4 plain white spotlights moving across the walls. To my surprise, though, I can't find anything like that for under at least a thousand dollars, even in the DJ lighting world. We don't need anything super bright or controllable, just little oscillating LED lamps. Would rather stay under $50. Please help!
Coding Dojo: worth the money?
So I'm seriously considering doing one of these newfangled coding bootcamps, Coding Dojo in particular. Before I drop a lot of money on it, I want to ask - is it worth the money? [more inside]
Help me find a job in Southern California
I like my job, but not the location. I'd like to find something similar/related to what I'm doing now in Southern California, but don't really know where I should be looking, and would like some suggestions. [more inside]
NYC EBCBS therapist recommendations?
Friends: do you know the most amazing, effective, compassionate, assertive yet gentle NYC-based therapist who accepts Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield insurance? 'Cuz that's what I'm looking for. I need to work on self-esteem and relationship issues. CBT and non-CBT suggestions desired. I am a 44 year old man. [more inside]
Help me find sexy, fashionable underwear as a xmas gift for my bf!
My boyfriend is a clotheshorse and is a big fan of sexy undies in particular. I have no fashion sense whatsoever, but I would like to spend $25 or less on saucy & fashionable underwear as part of a Christmas gift to him. His favorite colors are Pantone 138, Apricot, and Pantone 1665, Carrot. He is fond of zany patterns & designs that might traditionally be considered "loud." Halp!
How do a put together a Social Services costume?
For Halloween this year, I'd like to go as Tilda Swinton's character "Social Services" from the movie Moonrise Kingdom. Can anyone suggest online places to purchase the hat, pantsuit, shoes and a wig? Difficulty: I'm a 6'2" (slim) man. Photos for reference: one two. [more inside]
How to find quality employees without resorting to Craigslist-type sites
How to do I find quality part-time employees for my small business. [more inside]
Best ways to record Skype and phone calls?
What are the best ways to digitally record iPhone calls and Skype calls on a Mac? I do a lot of interviews and I'm always trying out new ways of recording them (legally), but I feel like the magic solution is still out there. Apps, Audacity workarounds, Google voice--what's your preferred method?
Help me help - U.S. healthcare woes
My dear friend is resigning from her job in the near future. She will move to another state in 2-3 months and plans to go without health insurance until she can find a job there. Is this as bad an idea as I think? How can I help? [more inside]
Looking for fun things to do in Japan
I'll be in Japan for 8 days, starting 10/25. Help me fill those days with awesomeness! [more inside]
Easy-reading history and politics sites
Can you recommend a website that has easy-to-understand recaps of important historical and political issues? I used to think history and politics were boring but after I returned to university and have been exposed to more of it, I've become fascinated to learn more. [more inside]
More Books With the Mystical Properties of 50 Shades of Grey
A few months back my wife read all the books in the 50 Shades of Grey series and, while she did, let's just say the getting was good. What other books could I buy her to stimulate a similar response? [more inside]
Looking for a counselor in PDX - DBT edition
I'm new to the area. A counselor, like a doctor, is a really good person to establish a working relationship with before you need one. Snowflake story inside [more inside]
The Secret Policeman's Other Museum
Berlin Filter: I'm heading to Germany soon, and I was disappointed to learn that the Stasi Museum will be closed while I'm there. What's the next best destination for a tourist curious about the inner workings of the East German secret police?
Historical situations where the seemingly right choice was very wrong
I'm looking for historical/political situations or decisions that made perfect, logical sense at the time but in retrospect seem terribly misguided or worse. These should be situations that when presented very simply, it is clear and easy to say, "Obviously XYZ is the right choice " but where in fact XYZ ends up being an awful choice.
Example and further details inside. [more inside]
Trip to Wales - am I on the right track?
My wife and I are going to Scotland to see friends and family, and since I always wanted to summit Snowdon I thought I would look into a side trip to Wales. Does this itinerary makes sense? Is there not enough or too much time? Do I need to book train tickets in advance? Finally, is the bus trip a big hassle with luggage? Any advice about Snowdon? [more inside]
vegan chilli
Any super easy vegan chilli recipes? I don't cook very often so the easier the better.
Cartographer wanted
I need two or three basic maps for a book. Nothing fancy, just basic black and white, gray for water. I’m no cartographer. Any leads, suggestions, warnings, experiences would be welcome. [more inside]
A Simple Grave for Old Men
There's a number of films and books in which an average person finds (i.e., steals) a lot of money, generally in cash, and often next to a dead bad guy. It never goes well for our hero. Two questions: 1) can you think of any additional examples beyond the titles listed inside, and 2) what can we learn from those stories to best ensure we can keep our ill-gotten gains if we find a suitcase full of cash? [more inside]
Copying calendar events to non-default calendar.
More of my coworkers and friends are moving (finally!) to using Google Calendar to invite people to events and figure out optimal schedules for everyone. However, when copying events, I'm apparently stuck with my first (default) calendar. How do I change that? [more inside]
Examples of Adoption in Film, TV and Theater
Hey There Everyone,
I'm looking for examples in movies, TV, theater, fiction, non-fiction, etc. that show older children being rescued and adopted by people who they are not related to.
Thanks so much!
I like Big Beats and I cannot lie...
I'm constructing a running playlist and looking for some rock music with a quasi-military edge featuring big, heavy drums. Like this or this. Not interested in metal. Can you find me some other examples? [more inside]
posted by Diablevert at 10:42 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Diablevert at 10:42 AM PST - 44 comments
That Guy Wasn't the Wallet Inspector
I'm looking for a wallet with very specific features. I've already made some Etsy inquiries and haven't been able to find what I need. [more inside]
Proper attire for an opera
Too many years of casual clothing-living has left me with no frame of reference. I'm attending my first opera next month and I'm wondering what the proper attire is. The opera is in Los Angeles and, if it makes any difference, I'm sitting in the nose bleed section.
posted by pibeandres at 10:28 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by pibeandres at 10:28 AM PST - 24 comments
Multi-Function Office Machine
My office is trying to upgrade our scanner. The difficulty is that the machine has to also be a fax, and I'm looking for solutions. [more inside]
posted by China Grover at 9:53 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by China Grover at 9:53 AM PST - 8 comments
Makeup for long days
How do I touch up makeup? I've been experimenting with wearing make-up more regularly and I've got some morning routines down, but I need to know how to do a midday touchup for dry skin. [more inside]
Puerto Peñasco/Rocky Point?
Looks like the last question about Puerto Peñasco/Rocky Point, Mexico, is about 10 years old. What's it like these days? Is it still possible to have a chill beach vacation there or has it gone full Spring Break?
posted by elizeh at 9:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by elizeh at 9:42 AM PST - 5 comments
Nobody remembers second-place, apparently
Where can I find the previously shortlisted nominees for the Nobel Prize for Literature? [more inside]
posted by kingoftonga86 at 9:06 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by kingoftonga86 at 9:06 AM PST - 2 comments
Java needs to make me go OO
After getting laid off due to restructuring (boo!), a contact helped me get a phone interview for a really cool position (yay!). However, it's a Java web developer role, whereas my experience is PHP/perl; I'd have to reach back 15+ years to school for the last time I did object-oriented coding myself, although I've done a lot of C# code reviewing recently.
There's going to be coding/design questions, so I'm studying like crazy. Most of the Java stuff I'm finding is either targeted towards experienced C++/C# programmers, OR total beginners ("this is an IDE, drp"). Pointers on best resources for someone who's got a coding background that's just not OO?
posted by laeren at 9:00 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by laeren at 9:00 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me find my holy grail of travel coffee mugs
Odor sensitive person seeks travel coffee mug that won't accumulate funk. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by telepanda at 8:46 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by telepanda at 8:46 AM PST - 23 comments
New to Sass (Wordpress theme development). Need help with workflow.
New to Sass (Wordpress theme development). What the what? Need help with understanding the workflow. [more inside]
How do you respond to "You're too expensive?"
Sales Question from a non-Sales Guy: How do you respond to people who say, "You're too expensive?" [more inside]
Thailand, including babies!
This Christmastime, as a side excursion from another trip, my family is going to Bangkok and Hua Hin, for a few days each. "Family" here includes my infant son, who will be about seven months old, as well as my wife and in-laws. Huzzah! I now have two related questions. [more inside]
Hemorrhoids?
YANMD. Never had hemorrhoids before, trying to figure out if that's what I'm experiencing now. [more inside]
Nice way to put GRUB2 onto flash drive with debian installed already on?
I know this would be solvable with search engine and time; humility brings me to the green.
I installed a minimal debian system on a flash drive from a debian live cd. Did not install a boot loader. How should I go about putting the boot loader on the drive?
Difficulty level: GRUB NOOB.
Links, words of wisdom and/or caution appreciated!
Community event franchises?
I'm looking for public event franchises that anyone can apply to start up in their own town. I know about Nerd Nite, Ignite, and CreativeMornings. Are there others?
should I continue with CBT?
I recently began seeing a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist for the first time. Sometimes she also refers to what we are doing as "coaching." I have a lot of resistance to her suggestions, and I'm wondering if this resistance is something I should try to work through, or if I should try to stop seeing her. [more inside]
How do I rock my new policy job?
I just landed a really exciting position as a policy analyst/lobbyist for a non-profit which does work I believe in. I want to hit the ground running. What do I need to know? (Difficulty level: I have never worked in policy/lobbying before.) [more inside]
Pretty please stop
My husband drinks 6+ beers a night and smokes 2 packs a day. I used to drink quite a bit, but when I took note of how much it drains out bank account, I cut down to 1 or none a night. In the last month he has spent over $500 on drinks and cigarettes. That is money we could be saving. How can I implore him to stop without being a nag? [more inside]
Stop Word 2011 (Mac) hiding the last row's contents in a table
I've just installed Office 2011 on a new MacBook Pro via Office 365. When I create a table in Word and write content in each row, Word hides the content of the last row when viewed on screen. Any ideas how to stop this? [more inside]
posted by dowcrag at 5:34 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by dowcrag at 5:34 AM PST - 2 comments
Paris for a 70 year old
I am visiting Paris for 5 days with my mother for her 70th birthday in two weeks time and would like some advice on how to make this trip as stress free as possible for us both, my Mum has full mobility but low energy and large crowds of people, long walks and lots of stairs are not really doable for us on this trip. [more inside]
Where to find elbow-sleeve work shirts?
Where can I find slightly fancy, office-appropriate, preferably elbow-sleeve tops? Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by woodvine at 5:30 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by woodvine at 5:30 AM PST - 17 comments
Campervan rental in Las Vegas?
Next March My girlfriend and I are planning a road trip from Las Vegas to Salt Lake City by way of some of the national parks between. The plan is to rent a camper in Vegas and drop it off in Salt Lake City at the end. I've looked, and there's dozens of companies who rent campers. Are there any companies that people can recommend in particular? Any to avoid? Thanks in advance. [more inside]
An art education for a total newbie?
I have finally found a visual art I can do! Now, I want to learn more about art, but I am not sure where to begin. Help me prepare a reading list of Kindle books and Wikipedia articles please! [more inside]
Looking for a short story about a woman with a hacked digital tattoo.
Does anyone remember a cyberpunk short story that involved a woman covered in digital tattoos? The tattoos are hacked or a virus is introduced -- by an evil corporation, I think -- and her friends have to rush to save her life. [more inside]
posted by harperpitt at 4:20 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by harperpitt at 4:20 AM PST - 11 comments
Need to buy a 30Tb hard drive, what are my options?
My question is should I go with an enormous Linux raid or a dedicated NAS, and which hardware? [more inside]
Wlan woes
My laptop cannot connect to Wlan anymore. Please help me! [more inside]
posted by LoonyLovegood at 12:51 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by LoonyLovegood at 12:51 AM PST - 6 comments
October 8
Find past unlock codes for iPhone?
I've forgotten the PIN for my credit card. It was the same as the 'swipe to unlock' code for my iPhone 5 (running iOS 7), three codes ago (ie, I've changed it twice since then). I thought I remembered the PIN, and tried to make this my new unlock code, hoping it would say 'nope, too recent' and I'd say 'a ha, that's it', but no luck (and now I have a new number to remember). Is there a way I can view past unlock codes for my iPhone? [more inside]
Challenges of measuring progress
What are good ideas how to measure progress towards life goals and future projects? [more inside]
posted by chrono_rabbit at 9:04 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by chrono_rabbit at 9:04 PM PST - 11 comments
Northern Ohio pumpkin farm
We will be driving from Chicago to Cleveland along I-90. What is the best pumpkin farm along that route? [more inside]
How do I not be a meet cute mouse?
Meet cute happens. (Yes, these actually happen IRL.) The next time I encounter my meet cute, suddenly this successful, smart, outspoken women becomes a mouse. Literally small and fuzzy and hiding in a corner if at all possible. Any concrete strategies for not doing this? HALP! Example and background after the break. [more inside]
posted by susiswimmer at 7:48 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by susiswimmer at 7:48 PM PST - 21 comments
Name that blog
I am hoping one of the masses can help me remember a photo blog I used to check regularly. I have searched my history and it doesn't go back that far. Details below: [more inside]
Sudden iTunes Woes
iTunes suddenly stops working on a fairly brand-new PC... [more inside]
What do?
I tried to make friends, I thought I did. I room with the one I once considered the closest to me, and now I'm starting to regret it. [more inside]
Finding balance between being a doormat and being too unforgiving
How do I find the middle ground between being an over-empathetic doormat and bailing from relationships at the very first sign of trouble? [more inside]
Name that chicken house!
We've built a lovely new chicken house, and it needs a sign over the door with the name. Best I can come up with is The Chook Palace. What would be a good name for my chicken house/chicken coop? [more inside]
posted by BlueHorse at 4:21 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by BlueHorse at 4:21 PM PST - 55 comments
Jobs Like Journalism, Minus the Writing
I've been working in either journalism or communications for a few years now and while I like it a lot, I feel like I still haven't quite found the right job. What are some career trajectories for someone who is really good at research, loves talking to people, and has an overwhelming sense of curiosity, but is tired of writing everyday. [more inside]
posted by forkisbetter at 4:12 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by forkisbetter at 4:12 PM PST - 14 comments
ALCO Pet carriers. Is there a modern equivalent?
My mom has had three green ALCO brand pet carriers for probably 30-40 years. They look like this and this. We still use them. They are awesome because they open from the biggest side of the box allowing you to easily shove a big, fat, ornery cat in there and close the mesh door. All modern carriers that I've seen have their door at the front, the smallest side of the box, and it's a total pain to get an animal in and out of there. Well, they certainly don't make ALCO carriers any more, and ALCO probably hasn't even existed for decades. Meanwhile, our carriers are in various stages of falling apart. I would like to know if any company makes a similar style, side-loading pet-carrier today, and, if so, where I can find it. [more inside]
posted by KinoAndHermes at 3:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by KinoAndHermes at 3:47 PM PST - 11 comments
Random Aurora Borealis Spectation Opportunity
What are the chances that on any given night between now and the end of the year I would be able to see the aurora borealis if I make it as far north as Winnipeg? By what percentage can I increase my chances by going further north? [more inside]
Almost Single Mom Questions
What should a single mom applying for income based housing try to plan for? [more inside]
Jobs for space aliens
I am wondering if there are any particular jobs or career fields out there that are more forgiving of the weaknesses of the inattentive ADHDer. Or magical hacks to make a normal office job not suck like an industrial-strength vacuum cleaner. [more inside]
Make the inside of my 4 year old stainless steel dishwasher sparkle!
I have had my dishwasher for about 4 years and this year the hard water build up has started to be very noticeable inside on the stainless steel interior. There are streaks of white, and spots inside of it, etc etc. It just looks blah. What are your suggestions for products or home remedies that I can use to make the inside of the dishwasher (somewhat) sparkly again? [more inside]
Saying "sorry" without saying "I'm still interested"
How do I apologise to a former SO, now friend, for the mistakes that ended our relationship and avoid being mis-interpreted as trying to re-visit the past? [more inside]
Divorce lawyers in Tri-Cities, WA
I am looking for a good divorce lawyer around the Kennewick, Pasco, Richland area. I need a lawyer who is willing to deal with the respondent living out of state (Louisiana). I don't know many people here since I've only been here two years and tend to be very private about my personal matters. Any good recommendations?
What's the best way to say "don't say anything"?
I'm working on a social media response protocol (similar to the Air Force classic template here), but trying to come up with a pithy Golden Rule along the lines of "If you don't say anything, you can be almost certain that you're not making things worse". But... better. Ideas? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 1:46 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Shepherd at 1:46 PM PST - 27 comments
Satellite or Cellular Internet?
I am building a new house and do not currently have access to cable or DSL. It looks like my only two options for high-speed Internet access are to use a satellite provider like Hughes Net or to use Internet data from a cell provider. I do not have any experience with either option so I am looking for suggestions. [more inside]
posted by bove at 1:23 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by bove at 1:23 PM PST - 18 comments
Finding an Audio Wizard
I recorded my friend's rock concert on MiniDisc and ended up with some audio issues. How can I find someone reliable and talented enough online who can work with audio files to bring out their best? (I live in a small town so I doubt anyone local can do it.)
posted by ktoad at 1:20 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ktoad at 1:20 PM PST - 14 comments
Good online resources for therapeutic groupwork for troubled teens..
Hi,
I'm working with very troubled and damaged teens (a relatively new client group for me). I'd prefer not to be too explicit about my role but it's a lot to do with helping them develop life skills and also manage mental health problems. But my remit is wide and includes looking at life balance /quality and leisure.. things that matter to them so.. [more inside]
My, that's a large apple you have there...
misfish and I will be in New York for the next week. It's our first time. We have a very loose itinerary. Help us fill our time with the awesomest parts of NYC! [more inside]
posted by His thoughts were red thoughts at 1:08 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by His thoughts were red thoughts at 1:08 PM PST - 22 comments
Vegan tapas/apéro snacks--recipes, ideas pls
I volunteered to bring some vegan snacks to an afterwork get together; could be anything from hummus and carrots to something more substantial. I need to be able to assemble or make it/them the day before. Thank you!
Dinner recommendations - W 49th and Broadway NYC
I find myself in the Theater District in NYC for the evening with two coworkers. Where should we eat? [more inside]
Do you have a dock that turns your android phone into a desk phone?
I am opening a small solo business. I am going to be using a virtual phone system. I am looking for a phone dock that turns my android cell phone into a desk phone with receiver AND speaker phone. [more inside]
Washing, conditioning colored hair
I have looked, on MeFi and elsewhere, and I still haven't found a shampoo or conditioner that will cleanse without stripping right down to the grey. More after the break. [more inside]
posted by whoiam at 11:17 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by whoiam at 11:17 AM PST - 30 comments
Waking up with a runny nose every morning - why and what to do.
I moved to the midwest a little over two months ago. Since then, I've been waking up most mornings with allergy-like symptoms - runny nose, sneezy. What gives? Does anyone know what's going on or what I might do about it? [more inside]
posted by Lutoslawski at 10:45 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Lutoslawski at 10:45 AM PST - 22 comments
Indoor antenna recs for heavy traffic area
I have an indoor antenna that cuts out when cars drive by. I've seen glowing reviews for some antennas but they don't mention if they are located in areas that have heavy traffic. This post provided a little help but I am looking for specific recommendations. Thanks!
Someone's Buying Me a New Car...Right?!
I was in a car accident and found out today that my car is totaled. I'm upside-down on the loan, but I have gap coverage. The problem is, I probably can't get a new car loan. Am I just screwed? [more inside]
posted by SamanthaK at 10:11 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by SamanthaK at 10:11 AM PST - 35 comments
Possible asymptomatic herpes and HPV--should I disclose?
Dude, here. 1) My ex-girlfriend of on-and-off three years had periodic oral herpes outbreaks. I've never had an outbreak. Want to kiss new girl. Do I disclose so she can make an informed decision? 2) Two ex-girlfriends in distant past had abnormal pap smears. Do I disclose? [more inside]
Am I looking at this white elephant the wrong way?
A family friend surprised my in-laws with a free trip to Cuba this Christmas. Except they can't go, and the friend is expecting my in-laws to reimburse the cost of the trip. Does this seem strange to anyone else? Is this considered normal behaviour? [more inside]
Need reliable, affordable hosting service with cPanel
It's time to move on from my mail losing/delaying hosting service, despite their generally excellent support. In 2014, who would you recommend? Must haves: reliable, under $15/month, supports WordPress, uses cPanel. Nice to have: Canadian, green, some other awesome attributes of your choice. (I could get this domain hosted free at DreamHost as an add-on to my backup domain, but I can't stand their admin panel. As an alternative, try to sell me on the DreamHost panel!)
Essay question has too many permutations or am I overthinking this?
For my son’s high school history class, he has been assigned an in-class argument/opinion essay. The teacher ended most of the lecturing this week and has given them time to prepare thesis statements for the essays. Here is where it starts to get complicated (at least to my son and me): [more inside]
posted by bionic.junkie at 9:27 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by bionic.junkie at 9:27 AM PST - 26 comments
How can I switch between two game controllers?
I have a fairly ordinary Windows 7 PC. I have two USB game controllers: a wired 360 controller, and a Logitech F710. For some games I prefer the 360 pad, for others the Logitech. This is kind of a pain because many games will only allow me to use the primary controller; i.e. the one that was plugged in first. [more inside]
Any fun and/or spooky stuff going on in Savannah next week?
So I'm going to Savannah next week! Are there any amazing events or cool places I should check out? Something Halloween-y would be great. [more inside]
posted by silverstatue at 9:10 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by silverstatue at 9:10 AM PST - 6 comments
Historical Examples of "Giving a Child to God"
In the bible we have the example of the Prophet Samuel, whose mother is so grateful for him that she gives him to God to be raised by the priest Eli.
Has this ever been a common practice – children being given over to an organized religious organization? Can anyone give me examples? More specifically, has the Vatican ever done this?
[I'm not interested in the Philomena type of stories, with young girls getting pregnant, just because I'm already aware of them.]
posted by visual mechanic at 9:00 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by visual mechanic at 9:00 AM PST - 18 comments
I have health insurance. Now what?
Asking for a friend: Please help a complete (and mostly healthy) newbie figure out how to navigate the US healthcare system in CA. Explaining like you would to a five-year-old would be great. [more inside]
Lemons!(?!)
Our awesome new flat has a large garden area attached to it. It's primarily all paving stones, excepting the borders and what appears to be an untamed lemon tree in the corner. I need help with some plant identification and basic lemon tree triage.
Difficulty level: Rome, Italy [more inside]
posted by romakimmy at 8:40 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by romakimmy at 8:40 AM PST - 12 comments
QUILTING HELP!… or really just advice.
i'm making my first quilt and would like to hear input on various batting options. this is a non-patchwork quilt meant to emulate all of the luxury bedding i've lately become obsessed with but can't afford to buy. i want the softest most luxurious quilt i can get. non-pieced, straight forward top with simple quilting and ties. i'm in the shopping stage now and will be using linen, silk or a linen/silk blend for the top and backing and i want an equally soft batting. [more inside]
posted by Conrad-Casserole at 8:36 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Conrad-Casserole at 8:36 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me start reading indie comics again
I used to read a lot of indie comics, starting in college and during my first marriage (both a looong time ago), but I stopped. Now I'd like to start again, but have no idea where to pick up and I'm looking for suggestions. [more inside]
Need Help Identifying Old Piano Song
I am working on a documentary and recorded one of the participants playing an old piano song. I can't get in touch with her anymore, and I might need to get clearance for the song if I decide to use it. It is an old tune. Anyone know what it might be?
Listen to it here.
Is it possible to do a Gantt chart with a 3rd (or more) dimension?
I'm working on project planning a multi-year, multi-department initiative. Each department will complete identical tasks but on staggered schedules. I'm hoping to find a way where I can create a single dataset that will then display task schedules across department, and department schedules across tasks. I am using microsoft project and microsoft excel. content sample inside [more inside]
Should I get masters in counseling or masters in social work?
[asking for a friend]. "I want to work with with teens and families providing individual or group therapy. Eventually I want to go into program development and management with the goal of being a program director one day. Should I go for a Masters in Social Work or Counseling?" [more inside]
Help me replace my husband's favorite belt!
I tried on my husband's favorite belt this morning and broke it. He's had this thing since he was a teenager, and we're both closer to retiring than teening at this point. I believe he bought it at a head shop in Tempe, AZ in the mid-90s.
Have you seen this belt? Is there somewhere I can purchase a new one?
posted by headspace at 7:26 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by headspace at 7:26 AM PST - 14 comments
I need to pee. Okay, I'm done. No, wait.
YANMD. Female, 30s, having trouble urinating. No pain. It feels like I've emptied my bladder, but I haven't. [more inside]
How to spin my boss' maternity leave?
My boss got pregnant right after I was hired and went on maternity leave about 9 mos after my hire date. This has not been great for our work, so I'm interviewing for new jobs. How do I spin this? [more inside]
My work cup filleth over with self-doubt. How shall I banish it?
I seem to have lost my work mojo. We also just got a new guy who I don't like/am threatened by. How do I deal with this? Snowflake melting inside. [more inside]
posted by IzzeYum at 6:19 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by IzzeYum at 6:19 AM PST - 23 comments
Professional jobs after felony conviction
A family member will soon be finished serving a prison sentence for a felony conviction. Before his arrest and long odyssey in the legal system he was a very experienced professional in an upper management position. What are the chances of him getting back into a professional track? [more inside]
What are the best resources to learn how to use Adobe Bridge?
I'm looking for recommendations of the best resources to learn how to use Adobe Bridge. Are there any particularly helpful guides in book form or online that you've used? Am looking for something comprehensive and up-to-date. Thank you!
Non-word search puzzles for ESL grandmother.
I want to buy a few non-word-search puzzle games or books for a friend's grandmother, who is ESL and has age-related difficulties (needs large print, easy-level puzzles). I want to buy something and have it shipped, I don't want to print out puzzles, and nothing electronic format. [more inside]
Is there a Big Sur of Washington State?
I'll soon be visiting Seattle for the first time, and I'd like to spend a couple of nights outside the city. I'm looking for must-see scenic, rural areas that are within a few hours' drive at most. As a frame of reference, my favorite area of California and possibly the U.S. is Big Sur. What areas of Washington should I consider? [more inside]
Did I kill my printer by trying to save ink?
Please help me save my inkjet printer. Some time ago I used the old trick of taping the ink cartridges to use the perfectly good ink left inside when the printer claims that they are "empty". It worked brilliantly and I got probably over 100 extra pages before the print quality started to diminish. Now I have replaced the cartridges, and the printer is spitting out completely blank pages. Why did this happen, and how can I fix it? [more inside]
posted by embrangled at 3:56 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by embrangled at 3:56 AM PST - 11 comments
October 7
Moving to Portland Yippee! Sorting thru cable providers Yikes!
I am moving to Portland OR at the end of the month and it seems that the three cable/internet providers all have really bad reviews. Is one less bad than the other two?
. [more inside]
I may have burned a bridge with an aquaintance. How do I fix this?
Will I know it when I hear it? Is there a magical name for my baby...
We are about a 10 days away from having our baby girl And I can't help but think the right name will just come to us in some sort of magical, "that's her name!" sort of way. I think I may have exhausted every name search site and we just can't agree....plus now I hate all our top choices [more inside]
Ideas for desensitizing during sex?
Ever since I had a vasectomy and stopped using condoms, I've become insanely sensitive during sex, often lasting all of 30 seconds before climax. I used a condom for the first time in years the other day and it was fantastic, dulling the sensations just enough to last as long as I wanted. Is it possible to accomplish that without condoms? [more inside]
Physical movement-based practices for grief?
I'm nearing the two-year anniversary of my dad's death, and a close friend just lost a family member in a tragic accident. As I remember my dad and support my friend, I am craving some sort of movement-based grief ritual - an active dance, set of motions, physical practice, to do with others, potentially at my (UU) church. [more inside]
What is really going on in Mexico?
Does anyone have a reputable account or the inside-scoop on the recent student protests/murders/disappearances/mass graves in Mexico? So surreal and terrifying. Links and anecdata welcome.
posted by j_curiouser at 9:37 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by j_curiouser at 9:37 PM PST - 2 comments
Know a District picture
At the opening of the "Colbert Report" Know a District segments, he uses a a silhouette type of profile of the Congressperson about to be introduced. The person is blanked (blacked out) but the background is still featured. The background is usually of that used for their official office photo.
So.
How does one create a picture like this?
Online linux administration course ?
Anyone have a recommendation for an online linux administration course ? [more inside]
Online Art Communities and Tutorials for a Non-Beginner?
I'm a blocked artist. I worked professionally in graphic design/animation for many years, but professional burn out kicked my butt and I've barely picked up a pencil (let alone a Cintiq) for well over a year. I'd like to get involved in drawing again, starting with baby steps cuz that's the kind of snowflake I am. [more inside]
How can I stay healthy while traveling overseas for 3 weeks?
I'll be travelling in the Middle East this December, visiting relatives (and relatives friends, I suppose) for three weeks. How can I maintain a healthy diet in a country where turning down food (even politely) is considered very rude? [more inside]
Caterpilter
What is this caterpillar-like beast eating my tomato leaves? [more inside]
posted by domnit at 7:04 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by domnit at 7:04 PM PST - 15 comments
How can I gently encourage a housemate to go live elsewhere?
My wife and I bought a house, moved in, and rented one of the bedrooms out to one of her friends. She and I later broke up, and she is now living elsewhere. Her friend still lives here, and I've since rented out the third bedroom as well. My desire is more about sharing a home with friends than about simply making money renting rooms, though divorce is expensive and the money certainly helps. My ex's friend is a perfectly reasonable tenant who pays his rent on time, doesn't trash the place, doesn't cause drama, and while he's a bit slobby he does follow through on his agreements when we negotiate about chores. He deserves better than to just be kicked out because I happen not to prefer his company. At the same time, this isn't the living situation I want and it only exists because of the chain of events leading to my divorce. How can I make progress toward organizing the home environment I want to live in without treating my ex's friend unfairly? [more inside]
FWB Becoming More - Complications
Me, female, late 20's. Him, male, early 30's. Recently moved in together and became more serious. Then, we both apparently crossed some boundaries into less fun, more complicated territory. How would you deal? Lots of details behind cut. [more inside]
Will my car pass an MA inspection?
Prominent damage to the hood (opens and closes normally). Radiator support is bent but everything under the hood is fine. Bumper is fixed, lights all work. The grille isn't particularly sturdy, but it stays in place, and there's a star about the size of a dime in the windshield. [more inside]
How to Plan for Unpredictable Irregular Expenses
Is there an easy way to track and prepare for this one irregular $20 charge that happens 7 times a year at intervals I can’t really predict? [more inside]
posted by Hermione Granger at 5:52 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Hermione Granger at 5:52 PM PST - 9 comments
best way to hang a batik tapestry?
I bought a large batik tapestry hand-painted on lightweight canvas, with raw, unfinished edges. I'd like to hang it as opposed to frame it, but it has sharp creases from being folded in my luggage. I'm afraid to iron or steam it. What are some affordable options for displaying it nicely? [more inside]
posted by egeanin at 5:41 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by egeanin at 5:41 PM PST - 6 comments
Tough Dog Toys for Chewy Pomeranian
Energetic pomeranian seeks indestructible toys. [more inside]
Bones as a building material?
How possible would it be to use ground bone as a building material? I know bones can make bone china, but can they be used to make, something more solid, say, cobblestones? or the walls to a house? A cement-like substance? Where can I find out more about the process/chemistry/engineering involved? [more inside]
Art mounting for idiots
My job is having an employee art show and I want to mount some pamphlets for display, but I don't know anything about mounting art. What's the most idiot-proof way to do this? [more inside]
posted by Sauce Trough at 3:20 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Sauce Trough at 3:20 PM PST - 6 comments
Safe, ethical alternatives to TaskRabbit in Chicago
I really need to hire someone to do the kinds of things I used to hire TaskRabbits for, but ever since they changed their system I have had no luck actually connecting with anyone. I now have no more patience for TaskRabbit. I still need to hire someone, but I want to do it safely and ethically. [more inside]
posted by bleep at 3:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bleep at 3:18 PM PST - 9 comments
How to amplify the output of my Arduino Music Shield
I bought this sound shield off ebay.
After finding the right library. I can make it play mp3s, but I can't make it very loud. I plugged in my computer speakers and turned up all the way it's just not loud enough, not nearly as loud if i had plugged it into my phone or computer. I also tried plugging it into my old stereo amp and i could get it pretty loud, but for my application I really need desktop speakers.
Is there is easy way to boost the signal, is that even what I want to do? This is where my understanding of electronics wear thin.
posted by jonclegg at 2:19 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by jonclegg at 2:19 PM PST - 5 comments
Removing wok protective coating
I just got a new carbon steel wok. I'm beginning to season it, but how do I know when I've scrubbed the protective coating off? [more inside]
Should I really keep taking this medication?
I had an abnormal ECG but my doctor advised me to keep taking stimulant medication. [more inside]
posted by whalebreath at 1:54 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by whalebreath at 1:54 PM PST - 10 comments
Capacitative or edge to edge glass touch screen monitor for Mac?
I'm looking for a standard size (22" or so) capacitive or edge-to-edge glass (LED) touch screen monitor for use with a Macbook. This is hard to find, apparently. More details on why inside. [more inside]
Shaving cream for delicate, sensitive, lady parts?
I am a very sensitive, delicate flower of a woman with very sensitive and delicate lady bits to match. I prefer to keep these lady bits smooth, but said bits are easily irritated and thrown off-balance by just about anything - including shaving cream. [more inside]
posted by Dilemma at 1:39 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by Dilemma at 1:39 PM PST - 39 comments
Learning Management/Competency Management system?
I am in charge of delivering/tracking training and compliance for 100 contractors at a government client site, and I'm hitting a point where I need a system to do it. With a new requirement to track employee achievement of competencies, I think I need something beyond a traditional learning management system (LMS).
What am I looking for, and do you have recommendations? [more inside]
Help me remember to get out and see my awesome friends more often
I'd like to make a list of all the people I know who live close enough to make casual plans with -- like getting a coffee or having dinner or seeing a movie -- and then keep track of how long it's been since I saw each person on that list. I'll set up a spreadsheet if I have to, but is there by any chance an app that will make this simpler for me? [more inside]
What happens when they make a movie about you?
My cousin was married for years to an infamous criminal and all-around bad guy--let's call him John. John is infamous only to people in and scholars of his particular professional sector; the world at large isn't aware of him. John is no longer living. ~20 years ago, a local reporter wrote a book about him, which of course included his wife, my cousin. The book made a brief stir but was quickly forgotten, my cousin has moved on, and life continues ... except I've recently heard rumors that someone may have optioned the book for a movie. So now what? [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 1:07 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 1:07 PM PST - 10 comments
Is there a way to look at all comments from one user on Youtube?
I am trying to filter to see a single user's comments on YouTube. Is there an easy way to do this?
Gift ideas for someone who is having a knee replaced
Posting for a friend: My mom's birthday is October 31 and she's getting her knee replaced on November 7. [more inside]
Financial Safety and Oversight of Stock Market Index Funds
What particular measures are in place to oversee stock market index funds and ETFs to make sure their financial management is on the up-and-up? Aside from the usual auditing that happens at all corporations are there any special procedures that apply to the fund industry? What are the chances of a significant accounting scandal at one of the major fund companies?
Help me identify a fable.
I heard this in an ethics class several years ago. I believe the original fable is Indian in origin, but I'm not sure. Here is the overview according to my memory: [more inside]
posted by boo_radley at 12:06 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by boo_radley at 12:06 PM PST - 3 comments
"The Chinese" or "Chinese people"? Confused about wording!
When referring to Chinese people, what is the correct wording to use? I'm writing a paper, and noticed a couple of times that I wrote "In this study, the Chinese..." which somehow rubbed me the wrong way (although I'm not sure why, maybe it's the definite article?!). So what should I write, "the Chinese," "Chinese people," or something else entirely?
posted by twill at 11:39 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by twill at 11:39 AM PST - 18 comments
Investment restrictions during Developer controlled HOA?
The developer of my neighborhood (a single individual) built a personal home in the neighborhood and still lives here. He was the HOA's acting president (as the developer) until the development reached 75% capacity and then had 120 days to hold a vote to transition to an Owner based HOA.
The new board has parsed the numbers and I am most concerned with insane "investment" he made to himself with the HOA's money -- resulting in a $15k loss. Can this be legal? [more inside]
posted by LeanGreen at 11:39 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by LeanGreen at 11:39 AM PST - 8 comments
Can I add coworkers on LinkedIn?
In my new job, there is a clause in the contract which says "you must not signal on your professional networking profiles that you work for company name".
Would adding colleagues count as signalling that I work for the company? [more inside]
posted by iamsuper at 11:22 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by iamsuper at 11:22 AM PST - 11 comments
Budget integrated amp or receiver?
My old receiver (some late '80s silver Pioneer or JVC box) has become afflicted with loose connection gremlins. Last time I asked about getting it dealt with, the folks at Solutions Audio said it'd probably run about $200 to repair it. I'd like to see what my options are and whether I can get something as good or better for about the same price (or a little more). [more inside]
Purse shopping in Italy
Where and what shops should I look at for purses in Venice/Milan? [more inside]
posted by jellyjam at 10:46 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by jellyjam at 10:46 AM PST - 3 comments
Can I keep it as a pet?
How bad is the mould in my apartment? (Bonus question inside!) [more inside]
Seeking sci-fi baseball story from my youth
I'm hoping the hive mind can help me identify a sci-fi baseball short-story I read a few decades ago, probably in the 1970's. [more inside]
I want to set off a mucus-removing themonuclear device in my sinuses.
For the longest time (read: years) I've been congested. My sinuses are stuffed up and there's this unpleasant backflow of mucus in my throat. It's not fun. How can I unplug my sinuses? Details inside! [more inside]
A Fandom Halloween
What are some good fandom-related Halloween treats or tricks for an artsy foodie fangirl? [more inside]
Two finger 360 degree scrolling in Adobe products on Windows?
Is there a way to enable 360 degree two finger scrolling in Adobe products for a Windows 8.1 machine? Essentially, I want it to work like it does on a Mac. [more inside]
posted by Defenestrator at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Defenestrator at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
Looking for a specific advert from around 2009 in the UK...
Hi there I am trying to find an advert from around 2009 that, as I remember it was...
1) For a mobile phone network (although not a major one); 2) Depicted a purple cartoon-like character holding a spray can or a marker; and 3) Had a "graffiti" style typeface or logo.
This advert ran on the London Underground, however, due to LU's advertising policy, it was the logo and character were edited so they bore no reference to graffiti.
Please help!
Seeking identity of apparently-obscure SF story pre-1970
Greetings - A friend of mine in his 50s recalls reading a SF short story about a priest and a scientist in a ship headed to a remote island. The priest arrives at the island, the scientist does not, but later returns to discover that the priest has taken charge of the islanders, who worship him for the scientist's microscope he brought with him. Some sort of cargo cult moralizing ensues. This was my friend's favorite story as a kid, and he desperately wants to read it again. I confess that my own Google foo has failed, though I did turn up a couple books by one Everett Bleiler that catalog various SF stories, likely before the era in which this one was written. Anyone with enough encyclopedic SF knowledge, or searching skills, who can shed light? I will convey any answer with props to the green. ...JZ
New York City Eating All the Things Filter
My group will be in NYC for the weekend of the marathon (on November 2nd). We need to eat and I would like to get restaurant recommendations for two meals in particular, the night before the race and dinner after the race. [more inside]
posted by TORunner at 8:37 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by TORunner at 8:37 AM PST - 14 comments
Because grammar is a mutable beast, I must ask this question.
My junior college (community college) composition students think I'm nuts because I claim it is not wrong to start a sentence with because. a) Who's right and b) What's the origination of the confusion? [more inside]
posted by angrycat at 7:18 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by angrycat at 7:18 AM PST - 30 comments
How can I justify buying a Hudl 2?
I have an iPad 3 (Retina) which is excellent and works well. I am potentially able to buy a new Hudl 2 tablet with Clubcard vouchers costing me £65. What can I do with it that I can't do with my iPad? [more inside]
posted by Stark at 6:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Stark at 6:17 AM PST - 7 comments
Bees and wasps
Is the distinction between a bee and a wasp different in British and American English? What about Biene/Wespe in German or cognates in other languages? [more inside]
posted by neat graffitist at 6:12 AM PST - 51 comments
posted by neat graffitist at 6:12 AM PST - 51 comments
Overcoming fear of confrontation?
Hey guys,
I have a university graduation coming up soon and am contemplating not going. Of course my parents and relatives want me to attend. The reason I don't want to go is that I had a serious falling out with a friend who was in the class and we do not speak anymore. [more inside]
posted by b3vcard at 6:05 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by b3vcard at 6:05 AM PST - 32 comments
Cash strapped business. How do I NOT give up?
I left a cushy job 7 years ago to start my own business in IT. The company posted huge losses during the first three years of operation and I even had to sell my house in order to survive and keep the company afloat. Although the business is doing increasingly better, the hardship of the past years has taken its toll on my morale and I sometimes feel that I cannot take it anymore. How do I motivate myself to keep going? [more inside]
posted by Kwadeng at 4:59 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Kwadeng at 4:59 AM PST - 11 comments
Pork makes me sick
Last couple of years i notice that 2-4 hours after eating pork, (with the exception of cured pork like bacon) I feel sick: achy, stomach ache, vaguely feverish.
My father admits he hasn't eaten pork in years but simply says; Just don't really like it i guess. But then he recalls that his father couldn't tolerate it. Made him sick.
Poking around the internet I can't really find a reasonable explanation for this.
Thoughts?
October 6
Should I end it with my great companion of a SO?
I'm unsatisfied in the passion and effort in my relationship but love the companionship. We are like best friends. However, it's been so long since I've seen makeup or hair down, or her really initiating to me. Tons of details inside... thanks for your help. My frustration has been building over a long time. [more inside]
Running on creative fumes
What do you do to rejuvenate your creative side? [more inside]
Help With Zombie Makeup, But Not Really Gross Zombie Makeup
So, my kid wants to be a zombie for Halloween. Fine. But stuff that is too scary gives him nightmares. I do not think he can deal with most of the zombie masks you can find in costume stores. And also I don't want to scare the little kids that will be at the places we are going. [more inside]
posted by emjaybee at 8:03 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by emjaybee at 8:03 PM PST - 17 comments
In a 2048 or Threes-like game, what is the highest possible score?
In one of these puzzle games like 2048 or Threes, where you merge tiles to create higher numbers, is there any way to prove what is the highest possible tile number that can be created given the rules and dimensions? [more inside]
Anything to be done? Great job but supervisor doesn't like me.
The very good news: A couple months ago I started a new job that I love. It's a high stress career, but basically my dream job. I get along well with almost all of my colleagues, including my peers, the big boss (person in charge of the organization), and big boss's second in command. [more inside]
If train B leaves the station at 3:15pm going 65mph...
Help me plan my travel from Boston to an event in NYC and back in 12 hours or less. [more inside]
posted by rip at 7:12 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by rip at 7:12 PM PST - 13 comments
How do I keep my swim cap on?
I'm swimming laps, following the 0 to 1650 program, and my swim cap always starts coming off around the 400-yard mark. I end up having to stop and fix it a lot. What could I be doing wrong? I don't know what I'm doing, please help [more inside]
How do I handle heavy-handed compliments?
I'm dating an extremely warm, sincere, and earnest person. Help me figure out how to handle his mountains of affection. [more inside]
posted by red_rabbit at 6:12 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by red_rabbit at 6:12 PM PST - 32 comments
New music recommendations
Leaving my cat alone
I am wondering if it's ok to leave my cat home alone overnight once or twice a week. [more inside]
posted by sockermom at 4:10 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by sockermom at 4:10 PM PST - 36 comments
Help me smell good
My apartment and body smell like nothing. What kind of products should I use to turn my fragrance-free self and home into something pleasantly scented? [more inside]
How do you break bad news to a prisoner by letter?
This was my AskMe about writing a friend in prison. I wrote him, and he was glad to get my letter. Yay! So what's the problem? He never stops asking me to do stuff for him and he is quickly reaching the limits of my good will. It's getting to the point where I want to either stop corresponding with him or write him and say "Stop sweating me for favors." [more inside]
How to get over intense crush while in a relationship
I’ve been experiencing intense attraction to a man who is not my spouse over the last months and not sure how to deal. This started out as your standard, cute little crush but has become obsessive and all the tools I had to my disposal to curb this do not work. [more inside]
The one book to pack
I am traveling for two weeks with a long flight. I have room for one really good book--what should I bring that will entertain me? [more inside]
converting Ikea desk into height-adjustable desk
I have this Ikea desk combination. I sit too much and want to convert it into a height-adjustable desk, without using one of the desktop models. Can I use an adjustable frame like this? Any other feedback or tips on buying an adjustable-height desk? [more inside]
posted by barnone at 3:06 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by barnone at 3:06 PM PST - 6 comments
Conversation-heavy movie/show/video in French or Japanese?
I would like to go back to speaking French and Japanese and found out that it really comes back to me better after listening to people having everyday conversations in a more "natural" setting (rather than podcasts, news, etc.). Where can I find some conversation-heavy videos to watch/listen to? [more inside]
posted by perkinite at 2:35 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by perkinite at 2:35 PM PST - 6 comments
Help my friend ID this Bradbury short
He writes: "I'm trying to remember the title of a sci-fi story by Ray Bradbury about a future where people are no longer scared of anything."
posted by komara at 2:16 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by komara at 2:16 PM PST - 3 comments
Need something to replace Picture Frame ona n ipad 2
I need to run a looping slide show of photos on my ipad 2 (IOS 8), that when someone touches the screen, it asks them for a passcode. No passcode? Continue with slideshow. You know, a basic locking picture frame. Free or Paid app recommendations requested. [more inside]
posted by sandra_s at 2:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sandra_s at 2:12 PM PST - 4 comments
Spanish/Portuguese term for Captain of Emergencies in the Age of Sail?
Years ago, someone from Portugal mentioned a concept and position on large European seafaring boats, who was on the boat to ward off disaster, or to take the helm if one occurred. They said there was a word in Portuguese for this concept - someone who is prized for being able to rescue catastrophic situations. Does anyone know this word or concept? [more inside]
posted by metasj at 1:59 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by metasj at 1:59 PM PST - 3 comments
Russian-speakers: What is Shostakovich saying in this video?
I wonder if some kind Russian-speaker could translate what Dmitri Shostakovich and Gennady Rozhdestvensky (I couldn't fit both their names into the title) are saying in this short YouTube clip. Alternatively, if an English transcript is already available somewhere and I've missed it, I'd be most grateful if you could point me toward it. Thanks! [more inside]
Non-book resources on parenting
I have a relative who is a newish parent, having recently adopted several children that were in her care as foster children for about a year prior to the adoption. As part of that process, she took parenting classes. But I think she needs more information as each child progresses through development (things like discipline, how to handle strong emotions in children, behavior issues, self-care for herself). My relative will not voluntarily read a book and she generally doesn't learn best through reading. [more inside]
No, swing dancing is not what I'm looking for
I don't want to "learn how to dance." I just want to be able to go to dance clubs. Are there classes for this in NYC? [more inside]
clickclickclickclickclickclickahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
What 'clicker' game takes the shortest amount of time to complete? [more inside]
looking for a specific gift: mile high city mug
I am looking for help locating a large souvenir coffee mug coveted by a close friend. [more inside]
Why does Imgur no longer work when I try to use it?
Have used the photo site Imgur, as thousands do..Lately, though, it no longer works for me, though it does for many others. I am told, via search on net, to empty cache, to close down addons, etc but that has not helped. Have written Imgur for help but no answer...Many others seem also to have this problem too but not everyone..Is there a quick and simple fix (I have no tech background) that might get Imgur working again for me?
World War I documentaries
I was hoping to get recommendations for World War I documentaries. [more inside]
Properly dealing with live wires inside a junction box before covering
I removed some sconces from an interior plaster wall in my house. My house is old and the wires are single strand copper wires with woven insulation, inside metal junction boxes. I would like to patch over the holes. Is it sufficient to cap the ends with wire nuts before patching? If not, what else should I do?
posted by OmieWise at 11:15 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by OmieWise at 11:15 AM PST - 14 comments
Breast pumping rights in California?
Is there a right to breast pump in private businesses in California? There is a right for breastfeeding in CA Civil Code S 43-53, but it doesn't mention breast pumping. If there is, what is the best way to lodge a complaint about being disallowed from breast pumping?
Sift this matter to the bottom....
What's the origin of the now-archaic phrase "sift this matter to the bottom," meaning to make it a priority? [more inside]
Walkers, is this a "thing"? Help me understand...
Is there some kind of instinct or reflex that causes people to walk and stop in specific ways? I feel like I actively try to avoid getting in the way of other walkers, and if I thought that there were non-conscious reasons for people getting in my way, I might be more forgiving of them. [more inside]
posted by janey47 at 10:51 AM PST - 56 comments
posted by janey47 at 10:51 AM PST - 56 comments
Buying a late-model used car
Trying to find a good late-model used hatchback car for under $10,000 and feeling a bit overwhelmed by the research. Looking for advice both on specific models and on researching certified pre-owned cars. [more inside]
DNS Woes. Redirects. Subdomains. A Name Records. Help!
I'm building a website for an awareness campaign for the New York chapter of a national non-profit. The new site will be hosted on my server. We're going to need a DNS redirect. [more inside]
Has anyone else heard of lower-case "g" gumbies?
When I was a child in the late 70's, I remember these tiny, usually pink bendy toys we called "gumbies." [more inside]
Why is my arm falling asleep at night and waking me up in pain?
I developed a really bad case of pregnancy induced carpal tunnel. It mostly went away after my son's birth, but my arms are still waking me up at night. See details for oddities. [more inside]
Help!! with contacting Zoom and Steinberg/Cubase
This question is a follow-up to this one I asked recently. Having purchased the H4n through Amazon, which came with a cd for the required Cubase program by Steinberg, I'm now trying to register as directed by product info (apparently there's a 30-day window of opportunity). What an Alice-in-Wonderland nightmare I'm in. [more inside]
posted by mmiddle at 10:17 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by mmiddle at 10:17 AM PST - 3 comments
This JPEG has a virus. Is it dangerous?
I've got a few JPEGs with viruses in them. What would need to happen for these to get executed and do stuff to my computer? [more inside]
posted by straight at 10:15 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by straight at 10:15 AM PST - 9 comments
Roof Plus
I need to replace my roof, but I also want to do some other things at the same time. Do I hire a general contractor? Or will a roofing company be able to do all of this? [more inside]
Help me make these videos play when and how I want them to.
I have three video files that I would like to play sequentially, stopping in between each. The trigger for playing the next video should be a button that when pressed, emulates a spacebar press (I have this button already). I'm trying to do this with VLC player on a Mac. [more inside]
posted by DulcineaX at 9:56 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by DulcineaX at 9:56 AM PST - 1 comment
Appropriate party music for a rally!
I'm organizing a rally for our state equality group to celebrate same-sex marriage becoming legal in our state today and our ban being lifted. I need some tunes that I can download from iTunes for the pre-rally mix to blast over the loudspeakers. I have no idea where to start. Aloe Blacc's "Love is the Answer"? [more inside]
Painful Nodule in Knee for Years - Then All of a Sudden
IKYKMD - So I have this tiny nodule that was oh so painful - right around my knee - it would be so painful and BURNING that it would keep me up at night. Then, all of a sudden, out of the blue yesterday it started itching like crazy and it just start opening up and slightly oozing something - a liquid - wasn't pus and it wasn't blood. Have absolutely zero idea what this is. Right now it's still doing it's thing. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 9:46 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by watercarrier at 9:46 AM PST - 13 comments
Job fair etiquette
I've spent a fair bit of time in the working world, and a fair bit of time at academic conferences, but never been to a job fair before. I'm going to this thing this afternoon, as a job seeker. Explain to me like I'm five what I should do once I'm there. [more inside]
posted by nebulawindphone at 9:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by nebulawindphone at 9:34 AM PST - 9 comments
Navigating Tom Waits
I really like the way Tom Waits' voice works with spiritual-inspired music, like in Come on Up to the House. What other songs (either his or by any similarly gravel-voiced singers) should I listen to? His discography is so big and diverse that Pandora doesn't quite cut it.
posted by oinopaponton at 8:09 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by oinopaponton at 8:09 AM PST - 21 comments
Wi-Fi calling Republic vs. T-mobile
I want to get a pre-paid android phone asap (for a trip), but I also want to be able to use it at home and my house is at the bottom of a hill and has no to poor coverage. I'm thinking that wi-fi calling may be a solution. [more inside]
I WANT IT ALL! Help me get it?
I am hoping to receive a job offer soon, I have a lot of things I am requesting this time around - help me make this an effective negotiation? [more inside]
posted by heavyp08 at 7:08 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by heavyp08 at 7:08 AM PST - 16 comments
Is this (used, dirty car) a contender?
On the hunt for a very good deal on a used vehicle. Getting tired of looking. Saw a car yesterday, but it was not clean and some of the vehicle information didn't match the ad. Tell me if there are too many red flags here. [more inside]
posted by Gray Skies at 6:41 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Gray Skies at 6:41 AM PST - 19 comments
Free app-based magazines?
Hi, I'm not utterly delighted w. The Economist's general tone and editorial leanings, but they don't strike me as horrid and I like all the free content -- seemingly at least most of the weekly magazine -- via the app.
Any recommendations for other good app-based magazines w. lots of free downloadable content? I'm mostly looking for news/current events/entertainment content, but I'm open. Thank you for taking a moment to help me.
Actresses 'too pretty' for their own good
Sometimes an actress is so beautiful that they get typecast into shallow 'pretty' roles for years, but then, by aging or some other quirk of fate, they get an opportunity to show their talents, and it turns out that they're also fantastic actors. This tends to befall American actresses more than their British counterparts. A canonical example of this would be Virginia Madsen in Sideways. Do you have any others? [more inside]
Communicate, communicate, communicate
I have a new project at work which involves increasing public understanding of my industry. I've got some info on how other people in my industry have done this, but I'd like to look wider than that. I've had some luck googling "science communication" and "public understanding of science" - what other industries/sectors might be relevant? I'd also love recommendations for good articles, blogs, or even examples of good communication which make something accessible without over-simplifying the story.
posted by ontheradio at 6:21 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by ontheradio at 6:21 AM PST - 5 comments
Postpartum Depression vs. Sleep Deprivation
I've struggled on and off with postpartum depression since Toddler Maarika was born, but things seem a bit more dire now that I'm on month 21 of sleep deprivation. Last week I had two blissful nights of 7 straight hours of sleep and felt amazing, but now we're back to the standard multiple wake ups per night. Is it worth trying medication for depression when the root cause is likely chronic sleep deprivation? [more inside]
posted by Maarika at 6:11 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by Maarika at 6:11 AM PST - 29 comments
Help me plan a trip to maximize language learning
I have the opportunity to go abroad for an extended period time. My goal and purpose would be to strengthen my skills in a foreign language. How can I structure this trip so that this happens? [more inside]
posted by metacognition at 5:33 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by metacognition at 5:33 AM PST - 9 comments
How to look for a job efficiently in the internet age?
The last time I went job searching was through answering ads on Monster. Everything was fairly straightforward. I would send my resume, go on an interview, get an offer or not. Now the advice is to network, use LinkedIn, find a recruiter, and figure out how to optimize keywords to defeat bot filtering while registering online. I’ve tried this without any success. Is there a better way to beat the system? Someone break this down for me. What actually works? [more inside]
Does this smell like pot to you?
A mate used to keep vials of marijuana and possibly other drugs in a backpack that I would like to use. I can't smell anything. Will I be stopped by k9 units? [more inside]
Should we make our wedding kid-friendly? If so, how?
Most of our friends have kids under age five. We're considering whether and how to make our wedding a kid-friendly event. Have you seen this done? Have you tried it? As a parent, what would help? Or do you just want a night out? Would anything make you more likely to stay overnight for more fun the next day? [more inside]
October 5
I've been bottling my feelings up, and it's about to burst.
I'm in a weird friendship situation with two friends of mine (partnered), and after a combination of odd events and miscommunications, I'm not sure what to make out of it. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by dubious_dude at 9:46 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by dubious_dude at 9:46 PM PST - 17 comments
What do I do?
I found out my beloved best friend really enjoys racist jokes... [more inside]
posted by cobain_angel at 9:34 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by cobain_angel at 9:34 PM PST - 54 comments
Resources and Research on Talking to Overwhelmed Kids
As a teacher, I regularly have contact with kids who are feeling some very strong emotions. Many of these children are coming to terms with a separation or divorce in their families. So I’m hoping that the hivemind can help me find resources about how to talk to kids about their emotions, and especially what to do when they seem flooded. [more inside]
Convert water measurement into speed measurement?
I have a hose that can put out water at 60 litres per second (16 gallons per second) and I want to know if this hose can roughly replicate a wind speed of 275 kilometres per hour (170mph). We will put an object right in front of the hose - so there will be little pressure fall-off from the hose.
Is this conversion measurement at all possible? I don't mind if the answer is a little approxiamate.
Group cloud PDF commenting system
Is there a cloud PDF hosting service that allows group commenting/highlighting? Think google docs, but for PDF commenting. Price should be free or $1/$2 per month per user.
Charlotte's Web of lies...?
I'm doing some research on Juliana pigs, miniature pigs supposed to weigh less than 70 pounds at maturity and get no taller than a labrador. [more inside]
Word phrase search engine for GRE?
Is there a way I can search for a word and then be given the most commonly used words before and after it? [more inside]
posted by laptolain at 6:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by laptolain at 6:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Back up videos from iPad
I need a quick way to get video from an iPad onto Dropbox. Help? [more inside]
Laying around like a grown-up
I dream of a sofa; a down-filled, velvety-covered, charcoal grey or peacock-colored, high-armed place to lounge, read, and nap. Do you know where my dream couch can be found? [more inside]
posted by amelioration at 4:49 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by amelioration at 4:49 PM PST - 21 comments
Why does it hurt when I sleep on my ear?
If I go to sleep in a way that places weight on my right ear, eventually it starts hurting and wakes me up. Why? [more inside]
posted by zeri at 4:37 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by zeri at 4:37 PM PST - 4 comments
Software Development Proposal and Hiring Process for n00bs
If only one of us could program, and our department was able to fully fund a research position, we'd be set. As that is not the case, how can 10-15 busy and financially strapped masters and doctoral students find and fund someone to create a piece of software to create, run, and output data for human learning experiments? Challenge level: no institutional support likely, northeast US. [more inside]
Need help translating quote into Latin
I would like the most accurate possible translation of "Damn the torpedoes!" into Latin. [more inside]
posted by tetralix at 4:08 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by tetralix at 4:08 PM PST - 9 comments
Small, sour orange fruit?
Can someone identify this fruit? It was brought back from Belize. It's about the size of a large olive. There's a large white pit inside, and the flesh is sour. The flesh is soft and smooth all over (the one pictured is a bit bruised). Googling has suggested some variety of kumquat? But the inside looks different. Thanks all!
Name that song in just a few lyrics...
I heard a song recently that sounded new and was dreamy and catchy, with a female singer, with the lyrics "grace and symmetry" or "symmetry and grace." Um, help me find her? [more inside]
posted by shortyJBot at 3:49 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by shortyJBot at 3:49 PM PST - 4 comments
Fantasy novels with strong female characters
I finally have enough time to read books again. My favorite books to read are fantasy with magic. I don't dislike sex in books, but I'm specifically not looking for erotica disguised as fantasy. My favorites have been The Witches of Eileanan and the Rhapsody series. I prefer to read female authors- can't stand GRRM, and am not super into Sci Fi. Can you help me find interesting and fun things to read?
How can I make my erections firmer?
Yes, the biological type. All details inside. [more inside]
Help me find the perfect cat bed
I got my cats this bed and this bed recently. I would like to find a combination of the two for the Ultimate Cat Bed--something with the small opening of the first combined with the wide opening of the second. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Itch relief for dermatitis herpetiformis?
Hello, can you recommend some kind of cream or treatment for DH? This would be a for a 9-year-old girl. They are manifesting as "hives" that she cannot resist scratching, and then they burst. [more inside]
posted by Lardmitten at 2:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Lardmitten at 2:47 PM PST - 11 comments
Best recovery methods for an inexplicably pulled shoulder?
One week ago, I woke up in agonizing pain and have been living with it since. We've sussed it with the aid of a doctor, but how best to get better and not live more continous weeks in agony? Achy painful snowflakes a-flurry inside. [more inside]
Not My Grandma
My husband's grandparent died. I'm wondering if I'm behaving in a decent way and need some advice. [more inside]
posted by Fairchild at 2:07 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Fairchild at 2:07 PM PST - 15 comments
Setting up a Mac Pro for Video Editing
I recently bought a preowned Mac Pro that is wiped clean except for the OS. I need some guidance on how to configure it to optimize its awesomeness for video editing. The OS is installed on a 128GB SSD. It has three other drives (2x640GB, 1x500GB). How should I use the other drives? Where should the applications live? Backup space? Scratch disk? In case it's relevant, here are some other specs: 22GB RAM, 2x2.8GHz Quad-Core Intel Xeon. Thanks!
Help me make a Wadsworth costume for Halloween
This year for Halloween I will be part of a group going as the main cast of Clue. Help me pull off an amazing Wadsworth (i.e. the butler). [more inside]
posted by jedicus at 1:47 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jedicus at 1:47 PM PST - 3 comments
Best ways to channel the zeitgeist?
What Web sites, resources or tools have you found for channeling the zeitgeist at any particular time? This would be slightly different from reading the "news." For instance, The New York Times offers a good overview of what's happening in the world, but the "Most Shared" sidebar is a far better indicator of what people are talking about. Twitter has emerged as a good resource for this, but there's such a huge amount of data there that I wouldn't know how to comb through that. [more inside]
What should I have done when I saw this homeless man today?
Today I was walking with friends when I passed a man sprawled on the street, passed out. It was pretty clear from his appearance he was both 1. probably an alcoholic (and perhaps drunk and sleeping it off?) and 2. homeless. I hemmed and hawed over calling emergency services, but the others in my party did not want to stop. I feel horrible. What should I have done? [more inside]
posted by EtTuHealy at 1:27 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by EtTuHealy at 1:27 PM PST - 41 comments
The red pill, via short videos and articles?
I’m helping to design a retreat for a small non profit and would like suggestions for short (~15 min) videos or articles that encourage shifts in thinking or attitude. The TED talk by Dan Pallotta (“The Way We Think About Charity is Dead Wrong”) is a good example. [more inside]
What does a QC/QA person do?
What does a QC/QA position entail? I'm thinking more of science or manufacturing, and not financial/tax. [more inside]
Free online college suggestions please.
So what are some of the best recommended colleges/universities that offer free online-only courses to the general public? Even better if you have experience with one and can tell me a little about it. Also, are there any colleges or universities that offer free online courses or enrollment and actually grant credits? Highly unlikely, but worth a shot. [more inside]
4 extra days in Scotland and Northern England?
Next summer, I have 4 free travel days, between St Andrews, Scotland and Liverpool, England. What should I do with those days? [more inside]
posted by Flood at 11:51 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Flood at 11:51 AM PST - 11 comments
What is this ceremonial sumo squat called?
Here's a pic. The guys around the ring squatting with their heels up.
posted by GleepGlop at 11:46 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by GleepGlop at 11:46 AM PST - 3 comments
Ow! O-owww!
Please give me more songs like LCD Soundsystem's Tribulations [more inside]
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 11:11 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by pH Indicating Socks at 11:11 AM PST - 18 comments
Pants! (Both kinds)
Fellow fat ladies of MeFi, where do you buy your work trousers and your comfortable, breathable underwear? [more inside]
posted by TwoStride at 10:48 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by TwoStride at 10:48 AM PST - 18 comments
What to make with leftover braised chicken and short rib taco filling?
I have a LOT of leftover braised chicken and guajillo-braised beef short rib (no bones) taco filling from a catered party two weekends ago. I froze it immediately so that's not the issue; figuring out what to make with it is. Please help! [more inside]
posted by hapax_legomenon at 10:14 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by hapax_legomenon at 10:14 AM PST - 12 comments
Outlook 2013 - Shortcut to dashbord metrics on email volumes?
I am trying to find an Outlook 2013 plugin or service that will give some dashbord metrics on emails sent/received between a single contact and groups. Xobni is good for the basics, but is there anything out there I can just plug in a few email address and get total number of emails/time span etc? [more inside]
posted by Funmonkey1 at 10:05 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Funmonkey1 at 10:05 AM PST - 2 comments
I have 1k and I'd like to double it safely
How do you take 1,000 dollars and make it into 2,000 safely and soundly? [more inside]
posted by Hands of Manos at 9:56 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by Hands of Manos at 9:56 AM PST - 26 comments
What books can make you super excited about topics?
What books can take someone from "Say, that's an interesting topic" and turn that into absolute enthusiasm? I'm thinking of analogies in other topics to Martin Gardner's fantastic Mathematical Games publications (or even more examples from math!)
Where can I get lenticular images?
Where can I buy a collection of lenticular images? [more inside]
My cat's breath will smell like cat food.
Yes, it's kitty food question #1,628. I'm wondering if any of the good quality cat foods mentioned in previous threads have gone south of late. (It's too bad that cats don't eat beans because I plate up a lot of them.) [more inside]
posted by Sheydem-tants at 8:35 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Sheydem-tants at 8:35 AM PST - 19 comments
crashplan pro-e on a dell poweredge r520 - issues?
Has anyone ever installed crashplan pro-e on a dell poweredge (r520 in this case) running windows server 2012 r2? [more inside]
Stargazing weekend nearish to NYC
Does such a place exist with three or four hours driving from NYC? Searching for a bed and breakfast with a telescope (that works and is pointed at something?) and a hot tub? [more inside]
How to make a Tumblr more like a regular site?
I have a Tumblr on which I post Carter family songs. Some of the songs are better than others. I'd like to be able to have a sidebar that orders the songs both alphabetically and chronologically, plus a sidebar that has a "top ten" or "top twenty," so reader-listeners who don't want to sift through three years of songs can just click on the best ones. How do I do this? [more inside]
How long does it take to register a domain name with Gandi.net?
Does anyone has experience with registering a domain name at Gandi.net and the time involved? [more inside]
How do I get there from here?
I'm pretty sure I'm not ready to date, but I'd like to be ready to date. Thoughts on how to get there? [more inside]
A good sturdy recliner
Apparently I am hard on my recliner chairs. They usually last 5 years or less. Can you help me find one that will last? [more inside]
Please teach me to make jambalaya
For the sake of argument, pretend I know nothing beyond that I'm supposed to use rice and the holy trinity and that I possess above average cooking skills and have the proper equipment. [more inside]
posted by digitalprimate at 2:17 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 2:17 AM PST - 11 comments
Document conversion
How to turn 23 PDFs of at least 65 pages each, in column format, created in QuarkXpress into Word, without having the text made into nonsense by Word deciding there's only one column when there are sometimes two and a pull quote. Any ideas? (Getting Quark is not an option). [more inside]
posted by b33j at 1:47 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by b33j at 1:47 AM PST - 8 comments
Itchy eyed dog...ideas?
My dog has been scratching around her eye for a couple of weeks now. We've been to the vet twice and she can't figure it out. Any ideas from the hive mind? [more inside]
October 4
Active dog with a sore knee
My dog had an extracapsular ACL (CCL) repair a year ago, and is limping again. I'll take her to the vet this week but I assume this is the arthritis they said might develop "later in life" (I didn't expect it to be so soon). [more inside]
I promise that I'm just going out for a walk
For the last few months, I feel like my wife has been monitoring my behaviour, moods, and trying to monitor my thoughts (almost). I feel untrusted and it's bringing me very low. I've tried addressing it with her and talking through my feelings, but it only seems to stop temporarily. Snowflakes below the fold. [more inside]
How to think of things I'm not thinking about?
If I'm obsessing about a small problem in my life, odds are, it's actually a displacement activity for something else in my life that I'm a) not thinking about and b) is actually the main source of stress. [more inside]
Help me find videos of artist/illustrator processes?
As an illustrator, I usually draw on thick watercolor paper using ink pens (rotrings) and then paint over my drawing in watercolor. I want to illustrate and sell my artwork as posters, but how can I refine my process both artistically and commercially? [more inside]
What's the difference between an exhaust hood and an exhaust fan?
Ikea sells "exhaust hoods" like this Luftig for $379, and it sells "exhaust fans" like this Luftig for $99. How are they different that's worth $280? It can't be just the extra stainless steel and faux industrial style since this Eventuell which mounts under a cabinet sells for $499. [more inside]
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 6:58 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 6:58 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me cover my air conditioner, please.
I can already feel cool air coming through the wall-mounted airconditioning unit in my apartment. Please help me cover it for the winter. Bonus if I can make it not ugly. [more inside]
Troubleshooting Gmail
Gmail is suddenly sending lots of important messages into my spam folder. I've followed the rudimentary steps I have found in their help area, but perhaps you can help me better? [more inside]
How to determine the quantity of physical pressings for an album?
I would like to know how many pressings for any given recording were produced (with ease). [more inside]
Where is the cartoon with geek secret agents: 001, license to code?
I'm trying to refind a one-panel online comic with geek secret agents. One has "001 -- license to code" or something like that. I kind of remember it as being geek & poke or that style but haven't been able to track it down. Any pointers? Different cartoons along similar lines are welcome.
Why yes I can overthink a can of trash, thank you.
In a 2-unit converted house in greater Boston, with the owner/landlord living upstairs, is the etiquette for the first-floor renter (me) to simply put my trash in outside cans/recycling bins as needed, and expect my landlord to take them to the curb on trash day? Or am I responsible for moving 'my own' trash to the sidewalk? [more inside]
posted by amy lecteur at 4:33 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by amy lecteur at 4:33 PM PST - 16 comments
What recourse do we have?
We have been trying to have gas service turned on for a week in our apartment. The gas company has been out three times, only to find that access to the shut-off valve is locked. Our maintenance man refuses to come to the building to unlock the door, since they have shown up after business hours/weekend. We pay for 24 hour maintenance. Our landlord is completely unsympathetic and won't do anything. It is getting down to 30F tonight and we have no heat. We are in NYS, if that matters. What can we do? [more inside]
Is my house killing LED bulbs, or is it bad luck?
I've been switching to LED bulbs in our house as the old bulbs burn out. But despite their advertised long lifespans, the LED bulbs seem to have been burning out fairly quickly. Am I unlucky with bulbs, or could it be another problem? [more inside]
Do blood banks share blood across borders?
I am curious as to whether blood banks share blood across national boundaries. For example, do Canadian/Mexican blood banks have access to blood products in American blood banks, and vice versa? [more inside]
posted by TheyCallItPeace at 1:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by TheyCallItPeace at 1:51 PM PST - 9 comments
Aiming for confidence in second career, despite Impostor Syndrome
I am a middle-aged person who changed careers about six years ago. I love my second career, data visualization; I have dreamed of doing this as a job for decades. I really want to excel, because I think it's a fascinating and useful field. I love to pore over the amazing, beautiful, limit-expanding work being done by others... who I then always remember are highly trained specialists, way out of my league. [more inside]
posted by GrammarMoses at 1:45 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by GrammarMoses at 1:45 PM PST - 9 comments
How do you keep your finger on the pulse of a region or topic?
How do you (personally) stay current with a subject of interest? [more inside]
posted by Michele in California at 12:48 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Michele in California at 12:48 PM PST - 12 comments
Need information about selling unwanted skin care products
While on a trip out of state my friend got caught up in the hard sales tactics of an Adore Skin Care salesperson and purchased several hundred dollars worth of their skin care products. He does not want or need them and would like some advice on reselling the items. [more inside]
Shop Once, Eat All Week
I had my life changed recently by a magazine article that showed me how to prepare a complete dinner for the whole week in 10-15 minutes per night with a few hours prep on Sunday, all for under $100. But it seems to be the only article of its kind! Please help me find more. [more inside]
posted by Bobby Bittman at 12:27 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Bobby Bittman at 12:27 PM PST - 22 comments
Suddenly wet floor in bedroom in rented apartment
My wife lives in a rented apartment in Edinburgh. For several weeks, she's heard dripping in her bedroom intermittently, but didn't really think much of it, until last night, when she woke up to a soaked carpet. [more inside]
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 12:19 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Philosopher Dirtbike at 12:19 PM PST - 8 comments
Blogs focusing on sustainable agriculture and food systems
I'm trying to collect RSS feeds from blogs or other news sources focused on sustainable agriculture and food systems. Suggestions? [more inside]
Taking The Counteroffer Still Bad Form?
I told them I was underpaid. They didn't believe me. I got another job and resigned. Now I hear they're putting together a counter offer. What to do. [more inside]
Where should I look for a rental in or around Las Vegas?
I'm may need to relocate soon to Las Vegas. I've never been there. I'm going to rent initially, maybe buy eventually. I need to narrow down my search areas, figure out where to look. More inside for my criteria. [more inside]
How Dangerous Is It To Remove Asbestos-backed Linoleum Floor Tiles?
We have some linoleum floor tiles which might be asbestos. I'd like to get rid of them.
How dangerous is this? [more inside]
posted by musofire at 10:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by musofire at 10:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Financial advice for a very fortunate 18 year old with a 401k?
There isn't any matching, but my employer does contribute a flat amount. How much of my paycheck should I contribute to this 401k? How should I operate the 401k, and what kinds of investments should I make? How much should I save or invest seperately, in other accounts? Are there any other actions I should be taking, financial or otherwise? [more inside]
posted by 207797 at 9:47 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by 207797 at 9:47 AM PST - 12 comments
Name that Cheese
My wife and I had an amazing cheese at a party last night. It was soft, about the size of a typical wedge of grocery store brie, but with a black-and-white speckled rind and a very pungent odor. Any ideas?
Please explain these symbols.
Could someone please explain the symbols on the "All Are Welcome Here Poster" on this website? I know some of the symbols, but not all.
posted by Four-Eyed Girl at 9:15 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Four-Eyed Girl at 9:15 AM PST - 6 comments
Who chooses the next bright young things?
How are "top 10 brightest" "exciting new people" "exciting new projects" lists put together? And what can a person do to get one it? [more inside]
posted by troytroy at 9:11 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by troytroy at 9:11 AM PST - 14 comments
Should it be cooking? Boating? Fashion?
Can you recommend a beautiful coffee-table book? [more inside]
posted by Cuke at 7:43 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Cuke at 7:43 AM PST - 14 comments
Moving to Maryland to go to college
I was born in Maryland and moved to Virginia for high school. I did two years worth of math/computer science courses at NVCC. I've been working 9 to 5 in DC as a programmer for the past several years, and I make $65k a year, of which I save about $15k. As far as I can tell, the only viable path to finishing a computer science degree in the area would be to use what savings I have (let's say $60k) to be a full time student at the University of Maryland for two years. This is only practical if I pay in-state tuition. The university explicitly bars those who "reside in Maryland primarily for a purpose other than that of attending an educational
institution in Maryland". If I move to Maryland, do I have any chance of being considered an in-state student after a few years? I want to be both pragmatically and ethically in the clear here. [more inside]
Getting rid of unwanted guns, aging-parent edition
I need advice on how to safely dispose of a collection of guns. Difficulty: One or more of them may not be legal to sell due to changes in the laws since they were purchased. This is in San Diego, CA. [more inside]
New wine in old bottles.
I am looking for late twentieth-century pop music covered in earlier styles. I know The Bryan Ferry Orchestra, I know The Puppini Sisters, I know Big Daddy (although that is kind of an edge case because the song and the style are only a decade apart, but it was a tumultuous decade musically). Tell me more that I have yet to learn about. [more inside]
posted by ricochet biscuit at 7:05 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by ricochet biscuit at 7:05 AM PST - 19 comments
Who's the Chuck Berry of Country?
I like country music, but I wasn't raised in it and I'd like to learn to play country guitar. Who should I learn from? [more inside]
ID a poem - arrogance and daughters
I am looking for a poem I read some years ago which included a list of negative or unfeminine qualities the author wished for (perhaps bequeathed to, but that may be an embellishment from my own faulty memory) their daughter or daughters, for example arrogance, reframed as positives. Much search engining has failed to turn it up, so it's probably from a print book. I think of this poem often so hoping someone knows what I'm talking about and can help me find it again.
Definitive Holocaust Video to Supplement Maus?
Thanks to the wonderful responses I received in the question of "What would be in your best high school english class?" I've started the year by reading Art Spiegelman's Maus. What's wonderful is that my incredibly reluctant readers are actually reading and enjoying the book, what's not wonderful is they don't seem to understand that the Holocaust was a VERY BAD THING.
I'm looking, ideally, for a 1 hour documentary that does just that. [more inside]
posted by kinetic at 4:42 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by kinetic at 4:42 AM PST - 28 comments
How to draw people to my GoFundMe page when I don't know anyone.
Trying to fund something on GoFundMe, whose whole principle is asking people you know to fund you. Facebook friends, twitter followers, real-life friends and such. But I don't really have any of those. Not in a sad way, I just don't know many people (that issue sort of comes up in the GoFundMe). So how do I get the word out? Any ideas? [more inside]
Asking off from work because you're severely depressed
Two or three times a month, I have really bad days with my depression and want desperately to go home, unable to fathom how I'm going to get through the rest of the wretched day, but of course the stigma is just too great and I can't tell anyone, so I just have to deal with it and push through until 5 o-clock. Is this how it has to be? I can't say I feel physically ill or have an emergency because of the regularity with which I have these days. Thanks everyone for any advice or comments you might have. [more inside]
October 3
Music for my opium den
Please help me find music that's mellow, percussive, and contemplative, but fades into the background and lets me concentrate on my work. [more inside]
posted by atchafalaya at 11:36 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by atchafalaya at 11:36 PM PST - 21 comments
Removing banding noise from video still
I have a video recording of a computer screen, and so the resulting video includes some wavy banding artifacts (the kind you often see when you film a monitor or TV). Small sample image. What is this artifact/noise called, and is there any way to remove it? [more inside]
Searching for a YA book about fortune tellers/gypsies?
Finally, my first askme! I dressed up as this character for Halloween when I was a kid, but for the life of me, I cannot remember the name of the book she was from or basically anything else about her, or the book really for that matter. [more inside]
posted by pandalicious at 10:46 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by pandalicious at 10:46 PM PST - 4 comments
Examples of amazing but still accessible writing?
I'm not a smart man. But I do enjoy well written things. But well written books, poems, articles or whatever sometimes seem to be to hard to get into.
Anyhow I would love to have examples of what people find to be amazing, creative and perhaps unique in the form of the written word. I don't care if it is famous or not. The best of the best of accessible yet amazingly written works. Thanks!
posted by tarvuz at 9:03 PM PST - 45 comments
posted by tarvuz at 9:03 PM PST - 45 comments
Stew would be funny but...
Walkable neighborhood and non-terrible commute - possible in LA?
Yet another entry in the "where should I live in LA" files: I got a job with an aerospace company in the El Segundo/Hawthorne area. I'm thinking about living in Palms. Will I hate my commute? Are there other places I should consider living? [more inside]
Where was "The Parallax View" filmed?
How worried should I be about my voice?
How worried should I be that I'm losing my voice? My voice started sounding crackly and husky on Monday and has got worse and worse over the week. I am a personal trainer and singer, so I rely on my voice. I have no pain and no symptoms of being unwell. Is there anything it could be besides vocal nodules? Should I visit my GP? What should I do? [more inside]
Downstairs neighbors complaining about child noise, what can we do?
We are in the beginning of an ugly situation with our new neighbors, and would like to figure out what can we do to defend ourselves. They are complaining that our child is running and want him to stop.running completely which is unrealistic given he is two years old. I am walking on eggshells and having trouble sleeping because of this, so looking for support/suggestions. [more inside]
ColdTurkey
How do I permanently delete ColdTurkey's website block from my system? [more inside]
How to illustrate effectiveness
I will be giving a presentation tomorrow. I feel pretty good about it, except for one part. I talk about how something is 60 times more effective than something else. How can I illustrate this for maximum effectiveness? It can be a verbal example or using a prop or picture (I will not have a computer available).
I shocked my partner with my computer. Why?
I was sitting in bed with my laptop about an hour ago. When I reached out to tap my partner's arm, we both felt a buzzing, dragging feeling - like touching the handle of a turned-on electric razor or something - and pulled back from each other. This only ever happens with MY laptop, regardless of what my partner is doing/holding/touching. [more inside]
posted by Ashen at 5:16 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Ashen at 5:16 PM PST - 16 comments
How best to curb a detrimental perfectionist streak?
I'm looking for approaches on how to prevent a perfectionist streak from stalling progress on personal projects. [more inside]
Ideas for fundraising for Ebola victims -- complication, new in town.
I was moved to tears by recent news reportage of the Ebola virus. (The story about the child dying on the floor and being dumped with chlorine just haunts me.) I've given money, but want to do more. The problem is I've just moved to a new place, and the only people I know are also young mothers. [more inside]
posted by caoimhe at 3:45 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by caoimhe at 3:45 PM PST - 6 comments
How do I stay positive and optimistic about finding a boyfriend?
I'm 35 in one month and have never been in a healthy (that is, at least being called a girlfriend and not only being used for sex) long term (more than 3 months) relationship. [more inside]
Du Bist so Wunderbar, Berlin....er Pils... how where do I find you?
I am having a group of friends/family over in a few weeks to watch Hertha/Paderborn, and am looking to buy a case of either Berliner Pils or Berliner Kindl (the Pilsner, not the Weisse)...
I am in Houston, TX USA and can't find any. Suggestions? My google-fu for a way to buy it from an online distributor is failing, and Spec's couldn't get it.
Best VPN for Twin Cities?
I am trying to find the best VPN services in 2014 with emphasis in the Twin Cities, but open to all options. [more inside]
posted by jadepearl at 3:19 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by jadepearl at 3:19 PM PST - 4 comments
Video of a woman speaking English with a Haitian accent?
I'd like to hear English spoken with various Haitian accents (French or Haitian Creole).
I'm having a surprisingly difficult time finding a link on YouTube.
The speaker's topic doesn't matter at all; I just want to hear some different Haitian-English accents, ideally spoken by women. Any links or search term suggestions? Thanks!
posted by pseudostrabismus at 2:42 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by pseudostrabismus at 2:42 PM PST - 7 comments
Options expiration brain-fart
Ok financial mavens, and in particular, option trading experts, what happens in this scenario? [more inside]
posted by teg4rvn at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by teg4rvn at 2:33 PM PST - 9 comments
Big city vs. smaller city
I currently live in Grand Rapids, Michigan, and I'm considering moving to a larger city, most likely Chicago. What are the differences between living in a smaller city and a larger city? [more inside]
What is this thing?
So. What IS it??
I don't know the owner, but I'm just as curious as she is.
posted by harrietthespy at 1:36 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by harrietthespy at 1:36 PM PST - 18 comments
Not so much should I eat it but rather does anyone else eat it?
There is a dish that my family grew up eating that I still make today (as do my siblings) that none of us have ever seen served anywhere else by anyone else, or heard speak of anywhere else in the world ever. [more inside]
posted by newpotato at 1:29 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by newpotato at 1:29 PM PST - 51 comments
Come on Baby, Light my Fire -- but where?!
What is the best location for a wood stove in a one-story ranch house? The options are: an insert for the fireplace in the living room, a free-standing wood stove in the unfinished basement or no woodstove at all. [more inside]
posted by RingerChopChop at 1:00 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by RingerChopChop at 1:00 PM PST - 11 comments
Earbook Recommendations!
I’m looking for some in the background audiobook recommendations, special details inside. [more inside]
posted by edbles at 12:45 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by edbles at 12:45 PM PST - 8 comments
How can I make this shrug?
I love this shrug. It's no longer available, so I would like to make one just like it. How do I do that? [more inside]
Local cat hatter sought
Does anyone know where I could find good quality men's hats (I'm thinking bowlers or top hats but I'm very open to different styles) that would fit an average-sized cat, ready for immediate pickup, in San Francisco? [more inside]
posted by prize bull octorok at 12:26 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by prize bull octorok at 12:26 PM PST - 14 comments
Help me level up as a writer
I am a 32 y/o creative writer (poetry, short fiction, essays) and arts journalist. I have an MFA and I have been very well-published in lit mags and on websites (but no book yet). I have two poetry manuscripts that I’ve circulated, and both have had some near-misses. I am very prolific and always have projects going, and I submit often. However, I feel a lack of professional traction, and I am hoping some of you have ways I can level up. [more inside]
Scandinavia or North Africa for Christmas?
A girlfriend and I are planning on going to Europe over Christmas. Based on places we haven't been, we're debating spending ten days in either, a) Scandinavia (Norway/ Sweden/ Finland/ Denmark), or, b) flying to Paris and then to Morocco. Which option is best? More info below... [more inside]
posted by Everydayville at 12:04 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Everydayville at 12:04 PM PST - 10 comments
Landscape Design Help
My front yard landscape is in dire need of an overhaul. Before I start pruning the crazy hedges, I just want to make sure I shouldn't be pulling them out altogether. Pics inside. [more inside]
is there any way to get this guy to stop harassing me on the street?
I've never met this guy, but he acts like he has the right to bother me. I just want him to leave me alone. What can I do? I hate this, it makes me feel sick. [more inside]
posted by windykites at 11:27 AM PST - 68 comments
posted by windykites at 11:27 AM PST - 68 comments
Sorting through pet insurance
I have two one year old dogs. They are in great health, but I worry about the future. I am not in the position to pay a huge vet bill for an emergency (more than $1000), but would want to do everything to keep my pets healthy and alive. [more inside]
Marriage hacks
You used to have a good, stable marriage. Now you have a fantastic marriage -- the kind of marriage where you are happy to wake up in the morning and see your spouse. How did you get to that point? [more inside]
posted by Librarypt at 10:42 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by Librarypt at 10:42 AM PST - 32 comments
Programming for Robotics
I'm just started helping the local high school's robotics team as a programming mentor. They've worked in LabView before and are trying Robot C this year as well. Are there more "modern" languages that would be easier to work with? They compete in the FIRST Robotics Competition; I don't know if that restricts the options. [more inside]
posted by yerfatma at 10:25 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by yerfatma at 10:25 AM PST - 8 comments
Damaged blender blade.. but not that damaged. Can I still use it?
I left a metal teaspoon in my new blender and nicked the blade a little bit. Do I really need to replace this immediately before using? Or is it safe to use? [more inside]
posted by citron at 10:06 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by citron at 10:06 AM PST - 13 comments
my enjoyment...not for sale!
Another word for work that is for enjoyment, not for sale. [more inside]
The ethics of having children give feedback on my middle grade novella?
I've written a middle grade novella (age target approximately 10 to 14 years, 26,000 words). I had what I thought was the rather simple idea of asking my next door neighbor kids (and friends of my son) if they could read it and give me feedback. They were enthusiastic, they'd never read a book by someone they knew. Then I thought, they are performing a valuable service for me. Shouldn't I be paying them? [more inside]
posted by dances_with_sneetches at 8:48 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by dances_with_sneetches at 8:48 AM PST - 23 comments
Which TV-show intro was this?!
Okay, so... it was a TV show in the US, in the '80s or early '90s. I'm fairly certain it was a sitcom. During the intro/ opening credits, there's a bit where one character is painting a wall or a door, and another character opens the door, and the first character rolls the paint roller over the other person's face. I can see this in my mind, but I cannot for the life of me figure out the show it came from. [more inside]
Minimizing the negative effects of sun-derived UV radiation
How long do I have to be exposed to 'bad UV' to be at risk of negative effects? [more inside]
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 8:38 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by paleyellowwithorange at 8:38 AM PST - 6 comments
How to keep food warm until lunch time
My oldest son is in elementary school and he and I are already sick of sandwiches for lunch. In daycare he could bring leftovers and reheat them there, but there is no microwave at this elementary school. So I need something to keep food warm for him until lunch time (~12:30). [more inside]
posted by katers890 at 8:35 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by katers890 at 8:35 AM PST - 27 comments
Oktoberfest in my backyard!
What beer should I serve at my own Oktoberfest? [more inside]
posted by dukes909 at 8:25 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by dukes909 at 8:25 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I make something glow in the infrared -- no flame or AC power?
For a science demonstration at my son's school, I have modified a webcam so it can detect infrared light. I would like to be able to heat up an object (I don't mind what) so that it can be seen on the infrared camera. So far, I have found that I can see a match (even after it has gone out), an IR remote control, and a gas flame. But these are all a bit tricky in the school environment. Ideally, I would have a battery powered device that would heat up a piece of metal enough that it will glow (in the IR) without anyone being able to burn themselves or set light to anything. I don't mind making the device, modifying something, or just buying something.
posted by beniamino at 7:59 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by beniamino at 7:59 AM PST - 21 comments
Just a little bit beyond keynote/powerpoint...
What relatively simple animation programs will let me both define and compose simple animations? [more inside]
Looking for a flower like goldenrod, but less allergy-inducing.
Goldenrod is my favorite color. I am looking for a flower (or flowers) to use at my May wedding that is as close to that color as possible, without being likely to cause allergic reactions for guests. I'm interested in flowers that are in bloom in late-May and which look more like wildflowers than tulips, but I am open to considering any and all goldenrod-colored flower suggestions. Thank you!
Is the top of the Cayan Tower in Dubai supposed to look unfinished?
Is the top of the Cayan Tower in Dubai really supposed to look 6-stories unfinished? Or why else aren't there any photos of the finished version of the twisted skyscraper anywhere to be found on the Internet? [more inside]
posted by purefusion at 7:11 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by purefusion at 7:11 AM PST - 6 comments
Searching for an Essay on Productivity and Fairness in Economics
I'm looking for an essay that I once read which talks about how business owners tend to let employees go or reduce their hours (and pay) as productivity increases, pocketing the difference for themselves as profit rather than sharing (any of) it with their employees. I believe it takes the stance that it would be better for everyone, in the long-run, if the owners shared at least some of the gains they realize from increased productivity with their workers. [more inside]
basic keynote question (i'm helpless)
So I have to do a couple of presentations over the next few months (the most imminent one being on Tuesday) and because OpenOffice drives me batty, I just bought Keynote... [more inside]
posted by half life at 6:24 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by half life at 6:24 AM PST - 4 comments
Runnin down a Tom Petty style
Tom Petty's not usually my go-to guy for style ideas, but I love this 4-button semi-formal western jacket he's wearing in this picture with the wonderful Regina Spektor. Does anyone have an idea where to look for such a garment, or even idea how to describe it? Thanks very much.
posted by superelastic at 5:39 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by superelastic at 5:39 AM PST - 1 comment
Easily Employed Shared Cloud Drive Solution?
Due to a new Vermont law, if a town has an official website, town committees must make their agendas available on the site within a certain amount of time, AND they must publish their minutes within 5 days of their meetings. I am the town webmaster and I am trying to think of an easy way to make this happen when nearly everyone involved is not very tech savvy. [more inside]
posted by terrapin at 5:38 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by terrapin at 5:38 AM PST - 9 comments
Productivity tips when you can work only in dribs and drabs
I am not making much progress on a few difficult writing projects that require concentration and "deep work". I tell myself that I'll wait until I have a substantial block of uninterrupted time (say, four hours or more) when I can get some serious work done. Unfortunately, such blocks of time are few and far between. [more inside]
How to stop resenting my partner's drinking
Am I overreacting to my partner's occasional drinking when trying to get sober? It makes me angry and I don't quite know exactly why. Should I ask him to stop drinking around me altogether, or is that unfair and unrealistic? [more inside]
What to include on a school election flyer?
Ima college student running for a President position in an organization. I have to make a campaign flyer. I've seen some of my classmates' flyers and they are very colorful with short slogans like "vote for me, I'm a communicator, leader, etc." I was thinking that for my flyer I would have a section where I list a few of my past leadership positions and projects. I also would list a few goals I have if elected for the position. I wanted the voters to get a good sense of who I am and what I can do through my flyer. Do I just have a wrong idea of what the election flyer is supposed to be? I just don't see how an attractive flyer with little info about a candidate would be enough for people to vote for them. I appreciate your input.
LHR passport control + London transit
From [LHR plane arrival] to [arrival at Herne Hill station], midday on a Saturday in March: help me estimate how long? [more inside]
posted by kalapierson at 12:35 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by kalapierson at 12:35 AM PST - 13 comments
October 2
Seeking secular language for powerful experience
This year someone very close to me was hurt very badly and then, to my great shock and relief, he recovered fully. I'm still processing this experience and probably always will be. I'm frustrated that the words that I have to best describe what he went through are often religious. I don't believe in god and neither does the person who was injured. I did not think that he would ever be the same again. The fact that he is is "miraculous," to be with him now is "a blessing" -- but it's not. The best-fit way I know to phrase it is "it's a miracle of modern science!" I'd appreciate help finding a truly secular vocabulary that captures the power of what he (and I) went through. [more inside]
It's been a year and he still won't sleep with me.
I am a female and my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other about once a week for over a year. I am 27 and he is 30. I know he isn't seeing anybody else, and that he likes me. Why have we still not slept together? [more inside]
What cause vacuum bottles to "lose its vacuum"?
I've had a "timolino"thermos/ travel mug from David's Tea for two years, and love it to pieces. I use it everyday, and it used to keep my tea piping hot for at least six hours. In the last few months, the thermos lost its heat-retention drastically-- now my tea is only lukewarm after 2 hours. What could have caused this? [more inside]
posted by atetrachordofthree at 8:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by atetrachordofthree at 8:09 PM PST - 6 comments
Where, specifically, to meet on a weekday morning, near Chicago
Next week, on a weekday morning, I need to meet up with a friend near Chicago. She'll be coming from Peoria in a car; I'll be coming from Logan Square, with a carry-on size suitcase and no car. We'll be driving together to Grand Rapids, Michigan. Can you suggest a specific spot that might work? [more inside]
posted by pril at 7:34 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by pril at 7:34 PM PST - 7 comments
Scar tissue from childhood surgery still causing me discomfort as adult?
The routine surgery I underwent when I was 10 still has annoying, lingering effects years later. What are my options? [more inside]
Do I really need to unplug my stuff during a thunderstorm?
Recently I got a new surge protector because, the old one didn't have enough outlets anymore and it got me thinking if I really need to unplug my stuff during a thunderstorm. I don't want to just not play my games or something just because it's storming. I only get so much free time to play games and I don't want to have it squandered by the weather. So do I really need to unplug my stuff during a storm? Right now it's storming and I unplugged everything but, my ethernet switch which I need to type this.
Why are there HEB-brand digestives?
I recently moved to Austin and have discovered that HEB sells store brand digestive biscuits--a "European-style" digestive, which tastes like it has too much butter in, and an "oatmeal digestive" which is like the offspring of a digestive and a hobnob. Is there something I don't know about HEB or Central Texas that would explain the only non-imported digestives I've seen in the US? [more inside]
Converting LaTex to HTML or Word
I have a complex document in LaTex/PDF format that I want to make available to others in a more accessible Word or HTML format. [more inside]
can random people view my stuff on facebook, pinterest and twitter?
I am on facebook, pinterest and twitter, and I was wondering if random people can just look up my stuff that I have written or even my pictures. I'm not talking about people who are logged in and are following me or my friends. I just mean random strangers.
Thanks.
How to manage high co2 in the home on the cheap.
I am coming to mefi for some out of the box ideas for remediating excess co2 in the home. It's high enough that I believe its causing problems. However, neither my husband and I are working, so can't afford the correct solution. I'm hoping metafilter can help with some out of the box ideas to deal with this cheaply temporarily. [more inside]
I am a zombie in a foreign country. How to cope? YANMD-filter
I am a 21yr old student who experiences serious fatigue.
On good days I can only describe myself as being like a toddler in how my energy levels are, as I appear to be normal until the early afternoon when my brain starts to cloud over and I need to take a two-hour nap. On bad days, such as today, I struggle to operate a keyboard and mouse because pushing the buttons is too hard.
More details below the cut. [more inside]
Twist tie me up
The green twist ties in garden stores and the green tape for supporting vines and plants,....are they green as a light spectrum issue or just to blend in with the leaves?
Help me find the name of a play
The play was set in a village in France, I think. One of the main characters was like an inquisitor for rationalism (possibly this was supposed to be set during the French revolution). I think there were some magical happenings in the village and so the inquisitor was trying to find a rational explanation for everything. The play was in English, but conceivably had been translated. That's all I've got. Is it enough for the hive mind to help me find the name of this play?
posted by sedna17 at 4:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sedna17 at 4:35 PM PST - 7 comments
That Funky Lunchbox Smell
My Mr. Bento lunchbox has a persistent odor, not unlike things you've (I've) forgotten in the back of the fridge. It's starting to permeate the little containers and into my food which is... counter-productive to me using it. How do I mitigate the funk? Difficulty: it can't be submerged or put in the dishwasher. [more inside]
posted by ApathyGirl at 4:08 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by ApathyGirl at 4:08 PM PST - 15 comments
My Geektool geeklet has mysteriously stopped working
I've been running Geektool on my iMac for years and suddenly one of my geeklets has stopped working for no apparent reason. It runs a command using curl that grabs text from a website and formats it. Oddly enough it works fine from a Terminal window. [more inside]
Hunger makes me a modern girl: food restriction edition
I'm interested in main dish recipes for someone who is vegan and also avoids:
- soy
- gluten
- nightshades (white potatoes, eggplants, bell peppers, etc.)
- acidic foods (tomatos, citrus)
Good reading about the British folk revivals?
I'm looking for recommendations of books and articles on the British folk revivals of the 20th c. [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 2:22 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 2:22 PM PST - 2 comments
How to grab an RSS feed and format it for a nice looking email
I'm helping an admin figure out how to grab links from an RSS feed that she can then repackage into an email, along with other content she'll add. What's the best way to do this? Skill level: novice [more inside]
A Fleece of Functional Options
Who is selling plain fleece clothing this year for children/teens? Mail order or big mall OK. [more inside]
posted by Buttons Bellbottom at 1:14 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Buttons Bellbottom at 1:14 PM PST - 12 comments
Click...........Click
You're on a website and you click on a link. Nothing happens. You click again and it works. What happened the first time?
I want to stand up for myself without freaking out.
I was treated like crud yesterday by the owner of a hobby store I frequent often. He's rude to his customers in general... basically a big bully. I didn't really stand up for myself yesterday since I have difficulty regulating my emotions - I have a very hard time asserting myself without going on tilt. I feel like I should stand up for myself in moments like this, but I rarely do since I don't want to cause a scene. How could I better handle myself in situations like the one from yesterday? Details inside. [more inside]
Columbia River Gorge camping in mid-October?
Visiting Portland area week after next. How's the weather for camping in the Gorge at this time of year? Where should we camp? [more inside]
Apps for Prenatal and Postpartum Care
Anyone use any phone apps to help them through pregnancy and the postpartum period? Stuff like breastfeeding apps, exercise, etc...? [more inside]
Why does copy/paste work intermittently?
I use a Dell Latitude E5440 that I have received from my employer. I am having intermittent issues with cut/copy/paste on this computer. [more inside]
Wrist Assessment
My wrist is bothering me, and I can't figure out why or what to do. [more inside]
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 11:56 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Enchanting Grasshopper at 11:56 AM PST - 8 comments
Is it finally time to move on from my long-time passion?
I recently started taking competitive Irish dance classes again after having been away from it for 4-5 years, but it's not the same as it was when I was a teen and I'm feeling like I should quit...again. Sorry, lots of details inside. [more inside]
posted by majesty_snowbird at 11:45 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by majesty_snowbird at 11:45 AM PST - 22 comments
Winter is COMING! What should I watch on Netflix?
Just got Canadian Netflix - loving it. But I need some help choosing what to watch this winter. Must satisfy both me and my guy.... [more inside]
posted by JenThePro at 11:29 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by JenThePro at 11:29 AM PST - 40 comments
Joomla handles some 404s, IIS handles others. Whu?
I have an IIS Joomla site. If you go to (say) whatever.php, whatever.htm, whatever.html, or whatever (with no extension), and the file does not exist, you end up at a Joomla 404 page. If, however, you go to whatever.asp, whatever.do, or whatever.whatever you get sent to IIS's 404 page. [more inside]
How do they do it?
What are some best practices that hotels use (housekeeping/food service etc) that I can use for my apartment living? [more inside]
Tips for first fall/winter in new home
It's getting to be fall and winter's not far behind. This is our first fall/winter in our first home. What are the practical/DIY/gardening-y things we need to do to be ready for the change in seasons? [more inside]
Live-action animal shows on Netflix
Please recommend some live-action wild animal programming on Netflix! [more inside]
replacing just the vanity
Is it possible to remove a tiled vanity (in one of those all-tile fifties bathrooms) without damaging the adjacent tile? I want to replace the vanity, but I don't want to redo the whole bathroom. [more inside]
Sackbae Yay or Nay?
Should I Get Little Big Planet 3? [more inside]
Athens in November
I will be traveling to Athens, Greece for 5 days in about a month, and need some suggestions! [more inside]
posted by Curiosity Delay at 8:32 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Curiosity Delay at 8:32 AM PST - 9 comments
Is our cat in want of company? If so, how do we pick a new cat?
We've been thinking about getting another cat to keep our current ~8 year old cat company, but we have a few complications, namely our current 3 year old human child, with another on the way, and our ~5 year old dog. [more inside]
Resources/training plans to balance strength training and cardio?
I'm looking at starting a beginner strength training program in a few week's time. But I've also taken up running in the past year, and don't want to regress on that front while I'm concentrating on the weights. I know I need to build in proper rest if I want to see improvements strength-wise, and I'm trying to figure out how to balance all this stuff. Any pointers/resources that tell you how to build a workout plan that can accommodate both goals and not leave me exhausted? [more inside]
Cable Boxes or HTPC+Extenders?
That is the great debate I've come upon; my wife and I recently purchased our first home and are slowly getting used to having multiple rooms (just moved from a studio apartment), and we'll soon have multiple TV's. I'm expecting to grow from one TV to probably three in the next few weeks, but I cant decide if the HTPC Pro's outweigh the Con's, or if I should just pay the extra monthly fees for more boxes from Comcast. Help me decide.
Advice on whether to go into teaching high school science
Hello. I'm hoping that some current or retired teachers may be able to provide some advice. Extended background information included.
I'm not asking for folks to tell me what to do but I'd love some opinions from educators.
Thanks so much. [more inside]
posted by guyarcher at 7:34 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by guyarcher at 7:34 AM PST - 27 comments
Same Day Orthopedic Care in Philly Area?
Help me find someone to figure out what's wrong with my knee in Phila, PA area. NOW. [more inside]
Dadoes, rabbets, routers, and me
Can you help me figure out my router? The woodworking kind of router, not the other kind of router. [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 4:09 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 4:09 AM PST - 18 comments
Got a bonus. What's the best way to save it?
I'm 32. For reasons too boring to get into, I just came into about $30,000, and now I'm wondering what to do with it. I don't mean like, what kind of sports car should I buy, but rather what's the best way to save it for later? [more inside]
October 1
Should I start an advisory board, and if so, how?
I run an annual, for profit, weekend long event drawing thousands of attendees, with dozens of sponsors, volunteers, and vendors. Just past our second year, the event is already a success, and growing rapidly. A few sponsors and other coordinators have expressed interest in being on an advisory board, which sounds great, but I have no experience being part of or running. My question is, how would I evaluate the need for this, what functions would an advisory board have, and what resources are available to learn how to build and manage one?
posted by Unsomnambulist at 11:54 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Unsomnambulist at 11:54 PM PST - 8 comments
What to do if I'm being paid less than agreed upon in an interview?
I recently took a part-time job tutoring at a nonprofit, and was told that I'd get paid $X/hr. Today, I was pulled aside and told by my supervisor/interviewer that I would instead get paid $Y/hr. I should have confronted her about it at the time, but I wasn't confident that I could think clearly in the moment so I asked for some time to think things over. What should I do so that I can get at least some of this back? [more inside]
posted by coolname at 11:28 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by coolname at 11:28 PM PST - 24 comments
Ebola is not spread through the air. Got it. But why not?
What prevents someone who inhales aerosolized droplet(s) of body fluids contaminated with Ebola virus from getting sick? Is there a known mechanisim involved that explains this or is it just a best guess since no cases have been observed yet that seem to involve inhalation of droplets that resulted an Ebola infection?
posted by DB Cooper at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by DB Cooper at 9:42 PM PST - 4 comments
Did I cross some kind of therapy taboo?
When I graduated college I moved to NYC alone and found myself severely depressed to the point where I could barely get out of bed. I didn't have very good insurance so I had trouble getting help. I overheard a co-worker talking about her therapist and I looked him up and contacted him. He was able to take my insurance but when I told him I found him by overhearing a co-worker, he told me he wouldn't see me anymore. I still can't figure out what I did wrong. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:55 PM PST - 58 comments
posted by anonymous at 8:55 PM PST - 58 comments
Time Warner wants to upgrade my internet for free. But they're evil too?
Will Time Warner's new free upgraded modem cost me anything? [more inside]
Can you suggest a flavor profile?
I like to keep cooked or par-cooked food in the fridge, then throw together dinner. For example, I heat up some browned ground beef, cooked spinach, whatever other veggies, with taco seasoning and serve with guacamole, and I have "Mexican." I swap out the taco seasoning and guac for
Worcestershire sauce and Parmesan cheese, and I have "English." Swap it out again for Italian seasoning and I have.., um... Italian. But that's my entire repertoire for this kind of meal. Can you suggest other flavor profiles? [more inside]
posted by OrangeDisk at 7:59 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by OrangeDisk at 7:59 PM PST - 27 comments
Ultra sparse music
I'm craving music that has as little sound as possible. I feel like the music that I've encountered all my life rarely has long chunks of silence. I want music that respects silence, tiptoes around it, and very, very rarely intrudes upon it. I want those intrusions to be perfect as well. Does anything come to mind? [more inside]
Could I have a delightful fireplace in my train?
Daydreaming about what I'd do if I were American CEO-level rich, I wondered:
Are there any laws against a wood-burning fireplace in a private train car?
posted by Monochrome at 6:59 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Monochrome at 6:59 PM PST - 5 comments
A list of food pluralizations?
I'm involved with a project that involves a database of cooking ingredients. We have a great huge list of relevant nouns, so that's fine, but we're running into trouble with the differences in pluralizations of words. [more inside]
Heavy Metal Bandcamp Design Help
I know that my bands bandcamp page can look better, but I don't know how.
What are better choices for the background color of the main page? [more inside]
posted by kittensofthenight at 5:24 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by kittensofthenight at 5:24 PM PST - 10 comments
Need info on resetting Firefox
How do I reset Firefox and still retain my present extensions and plugins?
posted by partner at 3:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by partner at 3:45 PM PST - 5 comments
I'd like to show my friend all the tweets I am following on Twitter
I set up a Twitter account and I am only following people in alternative medicine like Dr. Andrew Weil. Let's call it User: "Health News" Now I would like to share all these tweets with a friend who likes alternative medicine but she will not be able to see them unless she logs into that account. Is that right? Or is there some way I can let anyone see all the tweets that user Health News sees? [more inside]
posted by cda at 3:42 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by cda at 3:42 PM PST - 2 comments
Tote-al eclipse of the heart.
I love this purse! ... Help me find one exactly like it. [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
Mastering the impromptu nap?
I want to be able to nap at any point during the day, but I can't make myself go to sleep. Any tricks for napping at will? Difficulty level: I've got a newborn. [more inside]
Trying to organize my files/text/life, is tagging the answer?
I'm looking for a singular tool (or chain of tools?) that will help me keep track of digital files, links, text within both of those and have a tagging system (or something functionally similar) so that my collection of these is searchable. [more inside]
posted by Reasonably Everything Happens at 3:14 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Reasonably Everything Happens at 3:14 PM PST - 8 comments
Cannot locate book copyright holder.
I want to distribute photocopies of a book chapter but cannot locate the copyright holder. Can I distribute? [more inside]
can you help me find a satirical soccer team name/score thing?
I don't know where I saw this, but it was this year, probably during the World Cup. Maybe an imgur link from Reddit, maybe a tweet?
It was a list of soccer team names and scores. They were all fake names, [lovingly?] poking fun at mostly English Premier League team names, I think. Each locality and team name was more ridiculous than the last, and every score was 0-0. I don't even think it said soccer or football, but something goofy like "sportsball rankings" or similar.
That's it. Can you please help me find it?
What's this racist deed provision saying?
My friend is buying a house and received the original 1942 deed to the place, in Arizona. There's a (blatantly racist) provision we're having trouble parsing. [more inside]
Cute Japanese gifts online
I was hoping to find something like this but less expensive and maybe more authentic (?) to Japanese culture, somewhere online. [more inside]
Working From Home
I am wanting to compile a list of jobs/vocations/skills that you can do from home with the added bonus of said vocation/skill not only bringing in some sort of income, but also cutting down on expenses. [more inside]
I'm considering applying for a part-time PhD in Education. Am I crazy?
I am currently a high-school science teacher in the UK. I have recently had the crazy idea of pursuing a PhD in Education, part-time (and online) at a prestigious university (ranked top-5 in the world overall, if you are one to listen to rankings), while I continue my work as a teacher. [more inside]
posted by marcusesses at 1:33 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by marcusesses at 1:33 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me escape an abusive family and its ghosts
I grew up in a toxic family. I have cut off contact from most members, but they go to great lengths to find me. This is mentally distressing and sometimes I want to give up. How can I keep them away from me? How can I get past this shame and abuse, especially if I am unable to afford therapy? How do I (not) tell people about my family relationships?
Anon for privacy reasons, more detail and snowflakes below the fold. [more inside]
Can I eat it? Avocado Pizza edition
I made a gluten free, wonderful pizza last night, left it on the counter covered tightly-ish with a clean dishtowel and I want to eat it for breakfast (lunch?) [more inside]
Happiness in Daily Doses
What small steps/actions do you take to increase your daily happiness/contentment? I'm interested in practices that can be easily adopted in a full life of work, exercise, home & health care.
Inclusiveness and Diversity in Games
Help me understand how to make trans-inclusive games. [more inside]
posted by tocts at 11:51 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by tocts at 11:51 AM PST - 21 comments
Cheat like a fox.
I have always been really bad at really simple games, like the ones where there are generally sound mathematical strategies for playing the optimal game. I'd like to compile a little mental rolodex of simple games and their solutions so I can feel smugly superior to any small children who seek to challenge me. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 11:26 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by phunniemee at 11:26 AM PST - 16 comments
Help with Circus/Carnival themed costumes for a tall, cheap curmudgeon?
Help me put together a circus/carnival themed Halloween costume for a pub crawl. [more inside]
Necessary documents for not going to Vietnam
I have a multi-stop plane ticket that takes me (a US citizen) to Ho Chi Minh city by way of several other places. I am not planning to go all the way to Vietnam - I'm planning to throw away the rest of the ticket upon arrival in Rome. It's my understanding I *would* need a visa (or written approval for a visa upon arrival) if I were to go to Vietnam. Will airport check-in agents on the earlier flights want to see that I have a visa or VOA letter for Vietnam? [more inside]
posted by mskyle at 10:41 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by mskyle at 10:41 AM PST - 17 comments
Rats avoiding poison and traps; what now?
I've got rats in my walls. They are avoiding both the poison bait (two types) and the traps that I set in the crawlspace. What do I do now? Getting a cat is not an option. I have a terrier, but the rats don't seem to come out during the day, so he never catches them. [more inside]
Best way to clean and brighten up white sheets with a pattern?
I have some sheets I love (they are white with little dinosaurs on them), but they get dingy really fast and look dirty even when I've just washed them (they're pretty cheap but they make me happy). Seriously, even when they were new they looked kind of dingy after sleeping on them for two nights. What's the best way to get them as clean and white as possible without fading the dinosaurs? [more inside]
How can I get nail polish off of grout?
Nail polish remover could get it off the tile, but the grout stays peskily stained. What should I try next? [more inside]
Who is the ombudsman for condo complaints in Toronto, Ontario?
With what government or impartial/third-party agency can can condo residents register their complaints? [more inside]
posted by OlivesAndTurkishCoffee at 9:21 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by OlivesAndTurkishCoffee at 9:21 AM PST - 3 comments
Where does one get tattoos and/or piercings in Minneapolis these days?
I'm in this class with some people. For unrelated reasons - but the idea of a tattoo field trip is funny! - we would like to go as a small group to get some tattoo touch-up work and some simple piercings. No one has had work done in the Twin Cities recently and we're not sure where to go. [more inside]
Help finding a credible certification prep site.
Looking for extra practice exams for the CCA-505 exam and finding a bunch of sites that make guarantees but don't look very credible. [more inside]
He who controls the spice rack, controls the dinner table!
I need a wall-mounted spice rack that comes with refillable bottles and holds more than twelve bottles at a time. For some reason, the prices skyrocket 50+% above 12 bottles. Anyone have any good spice racks that fit those requirements or some search terms I can use? This is proving to be more difficult than I thought.
DIY Flipbook Animation Booth?
We'd like to set up a a Flip Book Animation Booth (similar to this http://www.alittlescene.com/) at our wedding. We're getting married in Cape Town, South Africa and haven't been able to find anyone there that does it so we're trying to figure out the logistics of setting it up ourselves. What equipment, software etc. do we need? We're willing to shlep it to SA from the US.
posted by doublenelson at 8:59 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by doublenelson at 8:59 AM PST - 2 comments
I love you, honey, but you're destroying my sleep
Live-in boyfriend and I are on completely different schedules, and he requires lots of loud alarms to wake up. But they wake me up, too. [more inside]
WTF?!?!?!?! Youare going to raise my rent 50%?!?!?!?!?!?!
How do I make a ridiculously high rent increase to catch up with the market fairly and without feeling bad about it? [more inside]
Where is the US NARA website? All I get is something strange.
According to this US government page -- this is the link for the National Archives and Records Administration (NARA). [more inside]
How to get Mail to fetch only "primary" e-mails from Gmail
Gmail does a great job of filtering spam at the site but it's all getting fetched to Mail on my iPhone & iPad. What do I do to get only "primary" mail in Mail?
What's similar to the soundtrack from Braid?
For the past few days, I've been listening to the soundtrack from Braid on repeat, and it's just... perfect for the mood that I've been in. Help me branch out, and find other music that captures the exquisite warmth of the Braid Soundtrack. [more inside]
posted by schmod at 7:25 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by schmod at 7:25 AM PST - 10 comments
Is there an anti-perspirant that won't destroy my clothes ?
I sweat a lot. A tremendous amount. I sweat when it's 68 degrees outside. I sweat every single moment of the day.
I've tried a number of stick and gel and spray antiperspirants and had varying degrees of luck with each of them. My favorite (Mitchum's gel) generally works better than most, but, after it destroyed a really nice new suit jacket within two hours of wearing - I've got to find something new.
So, here's the question: Is there any antiperspirant out there that actually reduces the sweat AND won't ruin my clothes?
Obscure Outlook bug - flag automatically changes to completed
When I try to flag an email message in Outlook for follow-up, it automatically/instantly changes to completed. What gives? [more inside]
Brushing your teeth (even flossing) in a public restroom: ok?
I never see anyone do it. Being a guy though, I only see men's restrooms. Maybe it's different in women's. I can't even remember seeing a guy brush his teeth in the restroom, let alone floss. Also, I imagine an office restroom has different oral hygiene etiquette than a restroom at say, the mall -- true?
posted by early one morning at 6:43 AM PST - 63 comments
posted by early one morning at 6:43 AM PST - 63 comments
Who and how to contact post-interview?
I need help deciding who to contact and how to contact them in regard to a job I interviewed for last week and need a decision on soon due to another offer that I've received. [more inside]
LinkedIn equivalent for creative freelancers?
I work in freelance newspaper/online journalism currently, but came into it through a sort of backdoor (via a career in corporate communications rather than via j-school). I now find myself in the situation of having regular work for clients that I absolutely love. Unfortunately, that work only comes out to about 20 or 25 hours a week and it would be fantastic if I could double my workload. [more inside]
she walks hard for the money
What kinds of jobs require a lot of (outdoor) walking? [more inside]
First bite tastes great.
When eating/drinking, the first bite tastes great, but by the 3rd bite, everything seems to have lost its taste. Why is that ? [more inside]
Where is my purse?
My wife has had the same purse for the past four years and it's amazing, but now it's falling apart and we can't find a replacement anywhere. It's Fossil and she bought it at Macy's. [more inside]
posted by zrail at 5:51 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by zrail at 5:51 AM PST - 5 comments
Restaurant (and other) suggestions for Venice?
Restaurant for six in Venice? The birthday girl wants seafood, one of us is a veggie, and and ideal price range would be about €35 per person including a decent amount of wine. [more inside]
posted by cilantro at 5:45 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by cilantro at 5:45 AM PST - 3 comments
Need help with skin picking and healing scabs...
I've been picking at my legs for a year and a half now and I think I could stop if I could just get my legs healed. Looking for suggestions of healing scabs faster and keeping myself from picking. [more inside]
Helping my mum cope with my father's death
My father passed away two days ago of a sudden heart attack. I'm in my late twenties and wondering how to go about supporting my mother through this nightmare. [more inside]
What Do You See In This OK Cupid Profile?
I'm not looking for advice about my OKC Profile so much as I want to get your impression of what it's saying. [more inside]
posted by These Five Dollar Socks Are Green at 4:50 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by These Five Dollar Socks Are Green at 4:50 AM PST - 39 comments
How to support someone who uses nonbinary pronouns at work?
I supervise a youngish person who is sort of like an intern at my job. They told me on the first day that they prefer to use a variation of their name and the pronouns "they, them, and theirs." Great! But how do I get my older coworkers to sign on for this? [more inside]
posted by chaiminda at 4:01 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by chaiminda at 4:01 AM PST - 36 comments
Rural /nice b&b area just outside north London?
I'm looking for a nice, relaxing place for a family of 4 to spend one night just outside North London. Complexities inside. [more inside]
posted by darsh at 4:00 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by darsh at 4:00 AM PST - 5 comments
Good long-form resources for debunking conspiracy theories?
I'm soon to mentor a friend through a period of personal reflective study. An area I'd like to touch on is that he persistently clings to conspiracy theories, such as those of Leonard Horowitz. It is not my place to impose my own beliefs, but as he has limited exposure to contrasting material I would like him to balance these views with the "other side" and draw his own conclusions. [more inside]
posted by tzb at 3:03 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by tzb at 3:03 AM PST - 8 comments
Can I get students to sit closer to the front of a large lecture hall?
I often teach in university lecture halls that have many more seats than there are students. Invariably, the students will fill the rows farthest from me, the professor. I think it sets up a very weird and distanced dynamic between us, but I don't know how or if I can fix it. [more inside]
posted by stinker at 2:12 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by stinker at 2:12 AM PST - 27 comments
Incompatible sex drives the norm for post children heterosexual couple?
I wanted to make that more of a question not a statement but ran out of characters.
The question is based on every close female friend that's a mother I have I realise :( talking about marital sex with terms such as it 'being the least important part of the relationship' etc. It is almost spoken about like it is something to be 'put up with'. This makes me feel bad for both parties and about permanent relationships in general. [more inside]
Exercise or ergonomics?
I'm trying to incorporate more exercise in my life by walking more, but is this necessarily better when all the increased walking is done in high heels? [more inside]
posted by hellopanda at 12:16 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by hellopanda at 12:16 AM PST - 16 comments