January 2013 Archives
January 31
Vintage fixed-gear bicycle store in Los Angeles
I once wandered into a store selling vintage steel road frames converted into fixed-gear bikes. I think I was in the Silverlake area, but it could have been Los Feliz or Echo Park (I had been exploring LA all that day with a free TAP Card and wasn't 100% oriented). Does anyone know what store this might have been, or where I could find a similar store in the LA area? [more inside]
Can I date your brother, too?
I had an interview for an okay-fit position. I learned a position with a better fit for my skills recently opened up in the same company, under a different manager. Should the thank you note indicate my intention to apply for the other position as well? Odds of interviewer 1 finding out I applied for job 2 are basically 100%. [more inside]
Clearly, this proves that I'm stupid
I can't seem to wrap my mind around the language of higher level math. Definitions, theorems, and proofs make me fall asleep, but I really do want to understand. Do you know of any good resources that can help me out? [more inside]
posted by lucia_engel at 8:35 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by lucia_engel at 8:35 PM PST - 19 comments
New to web hosting, what hosting services can I use?
I've recently created a small hobby site using wordpress and currently hosted on wordpress.com. It is a niche site and I will have a number of product recommendations that I feel would be valuable to monetize. I'd like to add affiliate links (specifically Amazon.com) or possibly use adsense but that's a no no on wordpress.com. Can anyone help me through the myriad of options for hosting by providing some recommendations? [more inside]
How do I create a legal agreement in Hungary?
I need to draw up an agreement that would be legally enforceable in Hungary. The catch is, the circumstances of all parties (and witnesses) signing it are such that meeting at a notary's will be very impossible. Would a document signed by both parties and two witnesses be considered legally binding in Hungary? Great thanks in advance.
Working myself to death.
How do I change my extremely destructive work habits? [more inside]
How can I support Mom through Dad's failing mental health?
My Dad is in his late 60's and through some combination of age, TIA's, and overmedication, he is at some times out of it and inappropriate, and at all times tired and lethargic. My Mom is struggling horribly with this as she's unwilling to see herself entirely as a caretaker, and she enables him with regards to alcohol and drugs, and beats up on herself over things she can't control. I'd like to support her and give her good guidance without being overly harsh. [more inside]
posted by ftm at 7:19 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by ftm at 7:19 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me find a Police concert video from the early 1980s?
There's a particular Police concert video that I'm seeking. Does anyone know which concert I'm describing? [more inside]
Is there a good way to list an ABD instead of a PhD on a resume?
About a decade ago, I had a quarter-life crisis and decided to drop out of grad school in science... how do I deal with that now? [more inside]
posted by lostguy at 6:36 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by lostguy at 6:36 PM PST - 18 comments
WD TV live hates my filing system
I have a WDTV Live box and a NAS drive. My WD live will not properly refresh the contents, insisting that folders are empty when they are not, displaying files I have deleted, and not refreshing to show files I have added. Many files show up in the list 2 or 3 times, though some only show up once. I can't force a refresh, I've tried restarting the WDTV and disconnecting and reconnecting it to the network, but it just keeps showing me the same duplicates. How can I make it work?
Help me not let the 3DS become a disaster.
What things should I be concerned about when it comes to our 11 year old having a 3DS? [more inside]
posted by Saminal at 5:50 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Saminal at 5:50 PM PST - 11 comments
Crash course in freelancing please
Some freelance programming/design work (javascript data visualization) is about to drop into my lap through a friend who has heard me talking about how much I enjoy this stuff. I'm a student and have never done this professionally, but would love to in the future. Help me not look like a rookie and make this go smoothly and professionally. [more inside]
Which job boards are worth my job-posting dollar?
I need to find a Web designer -- but one that can design for a Django environment. MeFi Jobs hasn't turned up anything, and free sites just get me spam from India. What pay-to-play posting sites are worth paying for? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 5:12 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Shepherd at 5:12 PM PST - 16 comments
The other Portland.
Resources to improve spelling and grammar?
What resources would you recommend for an adult who is a native English speaker who nonetheless struggles with grammar and spelling? I'm asking on the behalf of my boyfriend, who dropped out of middle school, and is also dyslexic. He asked if I had a book or website to recommend, but most of what I could find is geared towards kids or people learning English as a second language. He already feels insecure about all this, so recommending an ESL book seems really patronizing. He even acts sheepish asking me about grammar or how to spell something, so something he can pursue on his own would be ideal (even though I'm happy to help and don't judge him whatsoever).
Escapes from the Cultural Revolution from Mainland China to Hong Kong?
I'm looking for written narratives in the form of interviews or memoirs of people who escaped from the southern provinces of the Mainland to Hong Kong from the 1950s to the 1970s. The refugees would first journey on foot, then by swimming several hours while trying to avoid border patrol boats and sharks.
I have read memoirs of escapees who have found freedom through student visas to Western universities, so there is no need to mention those.
Do I need to replace the whole radio in my car?
I have a 1995 Toyota Corolla Conquest who's factory standard radio has just died (I think). It made a slight noise last night and cut out, and is now just flashing 01:00 on the clock with no buttons responding at all. I thought maybe the fuse had blown so I checked the radio fuse, but it doesn't look to have blown (something I suspected as a time keeps flashing on the display and I thought a blown fuse wouldn't allow any electronics to work). Also the cigarette lighter still works and that is connected/part of the radio fuse. [more inside]
I'm renting a van and moving myself. Tips, advice?
A few questions about doing a longer trip to move myself and my stuff to a different city, for someone who hasn't done it before. [more inside]
posted by Ashlyth at 3:35 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Ashlyth at 3:35 PM PST - 22 comments
Excel spreadsheet to pretty clips report?
I have an Excel spreadsheet with couple hundred rows: URLs, a few fields of identifying information (outlet, etc.), for media hits on the organization I work for. I need to make this into a pretty (or at least semi-legible to the computer illiterate) document that I can give to board members, senior staff, etc.
What I would like is to use some form of scripting to automate this. Bonus points if the script can somehow open the URL and take a screenshot of the story so that I don't have to.
I have a Mac, and both the Adobe and Microsoft suites. How do I not spend tedious hours manually doing this? Especially since I have to do it each month and quarter.
Seeking Google Wave cartoon.
Help me find the xkcd comic about Google Wave? [more inside]
posted by mark7570 at 3:15 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by mark7570 at 3:15 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me set an educational goal for my 12 year old.
My 12 year old son wants an iPhone. We agreed that if he completes some fitness goals and an educational goal we would get him one. I am trying to set the educational goal. He is pretty bright and gets straight As in school so I would like the goal to be something not school related and preferably something he probably won't get exposed to in school. I am an electrical engineer and initially thought some sort of computer programming. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated.
Vey iz mir.
Bookish Mefites, help me come up with a list of literary sad sacks. [more inside]
What's the simplest, cheapest way to get home Internet access?
I use Comcast cable service to get online, but it's expensive and I never watch TV so I'm paying for a lot that I don't use. All I want is Internet access. Is there a cheaper way? I live in the San Francisco Bay area, near Oakland.
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
I'm confused by my boyfriend's criticisms of my personality. I can't tell if they're legitimate problems I should work on in this relationship because I will encounter the same issues with most perceptive guys, or if it's a sign that he'll never fully accept who I am. [more inside]
What would you say are the chances of this being parallel thought?
A recent post into the blue brought me to the attention of an electronic act calling itself Lazerhawk. At first I was just a bit amused, having myself used the name Lazerhawk for my metal music output. But when looking at some of their official artwork.. I started to get a bit.. upset. It bears a distinct resemblance to the logo I was using for my own Lazerhawk project.
Organize my exhibits!
I'm looking for the smallest, most streamlined way to hold 15-20 documents that each have a plastic report cover (similar to this.) [more inside]
Help us name our CSA Farm...
My husband and I hoping to be the farmers running a CSA farm at a new co-housing development (similar to Prairie Crossing, Ecovillage at Ithaca, or Davis Homes). At some point we will probably need to "pitch" our business - and we have everything but a name; it will undoubtably be easier with a name... and we're at a total loss. [more inside]
posted by jrobin276 at 2:28 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by jrobin276 at 2:28 PM PST - 6 comments
Looking for fun things to do in Kauai!
Looking for fun things to do in Kauai! (and any other advice you may have about vacationing there) [more inside]
Help me start making sushi with all this cool stuff my sweetie got me
As an anniversary gift, my girlfriend got me all this cool stuff to begin learning to make sushi with. But where to begin? What is the purpose of some of these things on the left there? I get the bamboo mat but some of the other things are throwing me for a loop.
Also, what would be the very best way for a beginner to jump into this world?
Difficulty: I really dont want to sent anyone to the hospital from them eating some sushi I made.
I don't want to be humiliated again!
Help me pick out an awesome song to sing at Karaoke! [more inside]
How can I get hands-on training in home improvement locally?
Is there some kind of class, part-time apprenticeship, or in-home tutor I can use to get hands-on handyman training near Livonia, MI? [more inside]
posted by Vorteks at 1:50 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Vorteks at 1:50 PM PST - 3 comments
Can I swap MacBook Pro hard drives?
Today, I purchased a new 13" MacBook Pro, model MD101LL/A, which I believe is a June 2012 model. I have an existing, working 13" MacBook Pro from early 2011. Can I just pull the hard drive out of the old one and stick it in the new one, or should I restore from a backup? Also, what are the odds the memory in the old one will work in the new one? Both are Core i5. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 1:50 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by 4ster at 1:50 PM PST - 9 comments
Single Speaker for my Nexus 7?
I'm looking for a simple awesome speaker that I can plug my Nexus 7 tablet into. I've used a set of desk speakers in the past, but I hate how there's two of them and the cords get all tangled. I'd ideally like a single speaker that plugs into the wall; something I can blast some sweet tunes on in the kitchen, and then pick it up and move it to the bedroom with a minimum of fuss.
posted by redsparkler at 1:47 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by redsparkler at 1:47 PM PST - 13 comments
Need help identifying an album I heard/saw.
This is a case of forgetting to write something down. I was in a record shop in the Georgetown neighborhood of Seattle, and the shopkeep was spinning a record that I enjoyed a made a mental note to look the band/album up when I got home. And now a night has passed and the details I remember are coming up with nada when googled.
The details: 1. The band name was something that ended in "-ex", like Solex or Purex. I remember thinking it kinda sounded like it could be the name of a condom. 2. The clerk said it was released "last year" (he could have meant 2011 or 2012). 3. The album cover was a letterboxed (think Joy Division's "Closer") picture of a rose and a chain, the rest of the cover was red.
posted by R_Kamidees at 1:32 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by R_Kamidees at 1:32 PM PST - 6 comments
Can anyone tell me what this is?
I ordered a few USB cables and adapters online, in an envelope marked free gift was this.... thing. It's padded, plastic, baffling.
posted by Cosine at 1:31 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Cosine at 1:31 PM PST - 4 comments
Windows 8 - Worth $40 on a new desktop?
Today is the last day to buy Windows 8 (specifically, upgrade) at the discount price of $40. Is it worth it? [more inside]
San Francisco's Seafood Scene
Why isn't there more seafood in the San Francisco Bay Area? Geography, history, or something else? [more inside]
posted by graphtheory at 1:08 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by graphtheory at 1:08 PM PST - 14 comments
How do I tame this obsessed stalker cat?
Asking for my sister: Her sweet cat is being obsessively stalked by the neighbor's crazy unstable cat. What can she do to curb this? [more inside]
Renting or borrowing Macs - Bay Area
Is there an avenue in the Bay Area for renting or borrowing a Mac, especially for (grad) students? [more inside]
Where can a new skier go on a day trip near San Francisco?
I just went skiing for the first time in Colorado with some friends and loved it. Now that I'm back in the Bay Area, where can I go skiing that's beginner friendly and close enough to make it a day trip? [more inside]
posted by aloysius on the mixing boards at 12:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by aloysius on the mixing boards at 12:43 PM PST - 8 comments
What is a figure of speech that describes searching for a problem ...
I'm looking for a figure of speech that describes searching for a problem in something someone else is doing where there is no apparent issue. Sort of like a "witch hunt", but smaller in scale. Like nitpicking, but with more of the idea of looking for a critical flaw.
posted by roaring beast at 12:22 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by roaring beast at 12:22 PM PST - 38 comments
Should I pursue an MBA?
Please help me evaluate whether or not I should aim to go to business school (many personal details inside). [more inside]
Interview Outfit Help
I have a job interview next Friday. Yay! But I have questions about what is a setting-appropriate choice. [more inside]
How to leave a job after a short time
I hope this will be my last job-related question for quite a while. I want to give two weeks' notice today or tomorrow at this job and I'm not sure how to go about it. [more inside]
posted by trillian at 11:30 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by trillian at 11:30 AM PST - 7 comments
Where can I find market share for mobile phones and tablets?
I need to find device-specific US market share for mobile phones and tablets. I can find plenty of info on mobile/tablet OS and browser market share, but I need % market share for Google Nexus, iPad Mini, etc.
Innovations in non-gendered clothing
Most androgynous clothing styles skew towards the masculine. I'm trying to work out some ways might it be possible to go in the other direction. Specifically, if you have or have wanted to shift towards a more feminine presentation, what kind of clothing do you wish you could find? [more inside]
posted by velebita at 11:08 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by velebita at 11:08 AM PST - 24 comments
xml files: how to see and search them under OS X?
I need a way to see and do a simple search on two large xml files under OS X. [more inside]
posted by zadcat at 10:59 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by zadcat at 10:59 AM PST - 8 comments
Stark album cover with hand-holding?
Just trying to lay my mind on an album cover, fairly recent (last ten years) that is very simple, no prominent text - just two hands reaching across and holding each other in a shallow V, with a simple color background - I want to say light blue or turquoise. It's not obscure, just one of those moments where the brain can't access that information. Probably alt/indie artist.
Motivation for losing weight
I am grossly fat and very unhappy. I've already figured out how many calories I need to consume to lose weight and joined a gym and bought a scale (gross). I'm an emotional binge eater. How can I maintain my motivation? [more inside]
How do you take the driving test in Maryland if you don't have a car?
I want to get my driver's licence but I don't have a car. What are my options in Maryland? Are their provisions for this?
Need help with a 30th birthday gift
My husband is going to turn 30 in a couple of weeks. We don't usually give gifts on birthdays but since this is a big one I want to get him something special. I could use some help deciding what that could be! Details about him within. [more inside]
Wife has a poor prognosis cancer – How do I stay engaged?
Wife has a poor prognosis cancer – How do I stay engaged? [more inside]
60th birthday = need a red hat!
For a 60th birthday, it's an old Japanese tradition to dress the celebrant in a special red hat and vest (Here's a bonus picture of a cat in said attire). Where can I get a hold of the hat and vest in the U.S. (or some kind of reasonable approximation)? [more inside]
posted by Diagonalize at 9:40 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Diagonalize at 9:40 AM PST - 15 comments
Biographies on the influential & powerful w/ a focus on early life
My favorite kinds of biographies have political/military figures from classical antiquity or America, with a focus on their intellectual development. I really enjoyed Dreams from My Father and Plutarch's Lives because they really delve into the intellectual development of their subjects. Biographies that span someone's entire lifespan are fine, as long as early life is well covered. Any recommendations?
posted by tomtheblackbear at 9:32 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by tomtheblackbear at 9:32 AM PST - 3 comments
Best way for our 8-person co-op household to manage our money?
I live in a cooperative household in California - 8 people total - and we have a house bank account that we use to pay for communal food, toilet paper, etc. as well as rent. We all deposit $ in the account, and our house treasurer writes one big check for rent that our landlord cashes. Now the local credit union wants us to pay taxes on the money going in and out of that account, which we've never encountered in the ~5-10 years the house has been running things this way. What to do? [more inside]
Genuine shared experience ideas for dissimilar mom and daughter?
Please help me think of a shared experience my mother and I can have to celebrate her 60th birthday that does not include a spa or salon. I'd like to leave the parameters mostly open, but my budget is somewhere around $150 - $200. [more inside]
posted by smirkyfodder at 9:12 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by smirkyfodder at 9:12 AM PST - 28 comments
I Love My Freedom, but How Much Freedom is Too Much Freedom?
How do you make yourself go to sleep/do errands/be a grown-up when you have no responsibilities or schedule you need to keep? When I hear people say they loved a show and watched 3 episodes before bed because they had to work the next morning I laugh because if I love a show I might watch 10 episodes because I can. [more inside]
posted by Bunglegirl at 9:08 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Bunglegirl at 9:08 AM PST - 10 comments
Ok, enough about me, let's talk about you.
I've always been lousy at small talk, but have made great improvements in this area over the years. There's one aspect of it, though, that's currently bugging me. [more inside]
posted by Melismata at 8:57 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by Melismata at 8:57 AM PST - 29 comments
Management consultants of metafilter - tell me about your work day!
I'm in the early stages of exploring a career shift into management consulting. I've spoken to a few people in one company, but I'm interested in hearing from people who do not have to speak for their employer as well. [more inside]
Recommend me your best vacation spots near Boston
Please recommend me your best vacation spots near Boston for an early 30s couple that likes the outdoors, history, trivia, movies, books, and good Italian food -- and prefers a trip that’s a mix of active and lazy. We’ll be in the area for a about a week around Memorial Day and want to know our options beyond the city itself.
Iphone 3gs screen is locked
My iphone 3gs screen is locked keeping me from entering the passcode. When I try, the computer voice announces the action but in a very rapid cadence but still doesn't permit me to unlock the screen. The phone is relatively new and I would like to continue to use it. Any suggestions?
It's not you, it's me... Or is it?
Need strategies for not getting stuck in my own mind for hours every day over thinking a new relationship. How to know whether you are ruining things in your own head or things are not right? [more inside]
Half-Remembered Quote From Cathedral Floor
Back in 2005, I visited St. John the Divine Cathedral in New York with a friend of mine. Recently he asked if I remembered a quote engraved on the floor, something to the effect of, "Forget the [...], take up the chorus". While this sounds very familiar to me, I can't recall the full quote or the source. I remember it was part of a series of quotes engraved on the floor, mostly from (I believe) 20th-century writers and thinkers. Other than that, I'm stuck.
posted by Yiggs at 7:53 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Yiggs at 7:53 AM PST - 4 comments
What do women think men and women want in relationships?
"Men want sex" and "women want romance" -- so the stereotypes go.
To what extent does the average woman believe (or not believe) in these stereotypes? Does anyone know if there is research on this? I've been searching for hours, but haven't turned up anything yet.
Call the town now or wait for insurance?
During a windstorm, a tree fell on our detached garage last night and destroyed it (no cars were in it, but the roof is completely caved in and the walls are buckling). We live adjacent to a public high school, and the tree was/is on the school's property, not ours. I filed a claim with our homeowners insurance already and asked if I should call the town directly or if the insurance folks should do it. The call center person I spoke to recommended that I wait. The claims adjuster is supposed to call "before tomorrow evening." I'm feeling antsy. Should I just go ahead and call the town? Would I be letting myself in for any potential foul-ups in reimbursement (either from insurance or from the town)?
Career indecision-sonographer or PA? Where does baby fit in? Urgent!
I am 35, my husband is 44. I have always struggled with my career, and recently quit my job and entered a sonography program. Just before entering the program I am in, I also applied to PA school. I have been offered a place in PA school, and I do not know what to do. Lately my biology has caught up with me (baby. now.) and I do not want to put off baby much longer (we could start trying to conceive in exactly one year if I stay and complete the sonography course-I am in the second quarter of a two year course). If I switch to PA, (program is also two years but does not start until 7 months from now) it means either having a baby during my clinical year and going straight back to rotations (ouch) or putting baby off for TWO more years...also ouch. It is worth noting that I do not think that I am strong enough/career motivated enough to leave my baby for 12-14 hours per day, which is why either way, I would like to have the baby at the end of either program, so that I can stay home for a few months before starting my first job. Please see more inside. [more inside]
Is a concierge doctor worth it?
I've been very disappointed with my doctor--she's obviously rushed and makes simple mistakes (like writing me a prescription for an over-the-counter medicine, telling me I need bloodwork but then not testing for the things she said she was going to, etc). I've also felt on several occasions that she didn't really listen to what I was saying to her.
I'm thinking of joining this concierge medical center but I wanted to hear other people's experiences with this form of health care first. [more inside]
India -- gift guidance
ISO gift guidance for meetings with disability rights advocates in Mumbai. [more inside]
Sondheim Concert
The New York Philharmonic recently presented Symphonic Sondhiem at Avery Fisher Hall. Is this the same program as Symphonic Sondheim: Don Sebesky Conducts the London Symphony Orchestra that is on Amazon?
posted by Raybun at 7:05 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Raybun at 7:05 AM PST - 1 comment
What is the best Linux Distro for my mom?
I just had to replace the hard drive in my mothers computer and reinstall Windows 7. She is open to using Linux so it seems like a good time to get her to switch. [more inside]
posted by johnpowell at 5:40 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by johnpowell at 5:40 AM PST - 16 comments
Bug ID Part CMXCIXCMXCIX
This is perhaps the most innocuous, inoffensive house insect I have ever encountered. What is it? [more inside]
posted by rocketpup at 5:33 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by rocketpup at 5:33 AM PST - 16 comments
How do I stop being irrationally paranoid about getting sick?
I leave for a much much much needed vacation tomorrow that I've been looking forward to for the past two months. As more and more people around me (family, friends, coworkers) have been getting sick during this nasty flu season, I have been super paranoid about getting the flu myself just in time to spoil my vacation. I started feeling really achy and fatigued last night, but maybe it has more to do with other things? [more inside]
What additional tests should I ask the doctor for?
I went to my doctor because I could feel a mass or swelling in my abdomen just to the right of my belly button. The doctor could feel it too and called it a mass or a "feeling of fullness." Slightly gross details inside. [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 4:28 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by hazyjane at 4:28 AM PST - 12 comments
How to thank rehab facility folks helping my mom?
My mom is in a skilled nursing facility short term after a difficult surgery (she is getting better fast, yay!). There are aides and nurses who are being very good to her. What is the protocol for showing appreciation for them? Can I give cash gifts/tips to the aides? Gift cards? How about the nurses? I don't want to give offense but do want to thank people appropriately.
Moving Emergency in Montreal
I need to move today. Last week I found a mover on Kijiji. Confirming about 11 pm last night, we found out that he didn't have a vehicle. [more inside]
posted by PinkMoose at 3:44 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by PinkMoose at 3:44 AM PST - 12 comments
January 30
Should I buy my friend's car? How can we fairly value it?
One of my oldest friends is selling his 2002 VW Passat Station Wagon (GLX V6). He bought it new and has taken good care of it (I've known him for 30 years; he takes care of things). He has all of the car's records.
As it turns out, I'm in the market for a used car. The car drives beautifully. He is listing it at $6K. But a thorough pre-purchase inspection uncovered several problems, for which he is willing to take the price down. How can we find a fair value for the car? And should I buy this Volkswagen at all? [more inside]
posted by betsbillabong at 11:29 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by betsbillabong at 11:29 PM PST - 29 comments
Mom's cancer took a turn for the worse, not sure what I can do to help.
My mom has been battling colon cancer for the last 6 1/2 years, and essentially my whole family had settled into the rhythm of her treatment, and I know exactly what I could do to help, but recently her condition took a sharp downward turn, and I feel as if I'd been blindsided without any idea what I can do now. [more inside]
Tell me your American versions of Scandinavian recipes!!!!!
Please help me compile some American versions of Scandinavian recipes. My american-scandinavian mom died a few years ago and someone stole or tossed her recipe tin. Now this california girl has found herself living in Norway, can recognize the foods mom used to make, but can't remember how to cook it!!!!!!! Please please help!!!!! [more inside]
posted by misspony at 10:25 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by misspony at 10:25 PM PST - 14 comments
Costa Rica in May?
There's a deal that looks inexpensive for a trip to Costa Rica in May, to Arenal and Matapalo Beach in Guanacaste. Usually the deals have some kind of catch to them, such as off-season rainy weather, or hotels undergoing construction, or something. I can't find anything bad about this one. Is there a reason not to go in May? Or should I start getting excited about going to Costa Rica?! [more inside]
How do I navigate a salary situation at work?
I work in technology as a senior architect. I really like my firm but it is quite a bit smaller than other firms in the area and in a similar industry. I've been getting offers ~40% more from two, more established, larger firms. These are lateral moves. I'd like to stay where I'm at, but the salary increase being offered is too much to ignore. Can I bring this up with my firm, or is this a sort of take the larger offer or don't bring it up sort of situation? [more inside]
How can I most efficiently "spring clean" my laptop?
My computer is slowing down and I need to revive it! [more inside]
Load Up for Down Cape
I am traveling to Wellfleet , Cape Cod for a week this Saturday.
I would like to do a lot of cooking for my aging mother and need to do a healthy shopping on the way from Logan Airport.
I would go into Boston to Whole Circus and Trader Joes, but it is not really on the way.
Where can I go for a good grocery shop, preferably with a decent organic selection, that is in between Logan and Wellfleet, MA
Thanks!
Calling card for rare use to call UK and maybe Kazakhstan from US
I'm thinking my best option for staying in phone contact with my one or two overseas friends (mainly UK) might be a calling card. Can anyone recommend a specific card? [more inside]
How Can Living in a Multiracial Household Affect an Adopted Child
I am of one race/ethnicity; my partner is of another. No kids. How will adopting a child from a third background impact him/her? [more inside]
Is there a 70's rock song with the same sentiment as Lisa Loeb's 'Stay'?
Sorry if this seems like a stupid question, but I'm not TOO familiar with many songs of that era and genre. I'm looking for a song that conveys a sentiment similar to Lisa Loeb's 'Stay' (link to lyrics here if it helps). [more inside]
What the hell bit me?
Do house centipedes bite? Because I can't figure out what made a meal of me... [more inside]
Pennies
A friend of mine needs freshly or newish US pennies for an art project. [more inside]
Help me find this George Carlin quote about prayer?
Where can I find the George Carlin quote, "Before every football game, both teams pray they'll win. One team always loses." [more inside]
Travelling the world while running a small business.
I would like to travel the world while writing my own software (for profit). Ideally, I'd like to stay in each place for a couple of months, not just a few days or weeks. Where can I learn about the legal specifics of doing this? [more inside]
I'm not sure if I should discontinue my health insurance or not.
I'm not sure if i should discontinue my health coverage or not, and how to handle it - and if there's any way to *temporarily* discontinue my health coverage. [more inside]
How do you spot Dating Warning Phrases?
Can you help me to better distinguish cheery lovebird songs vs. the squawks of ailing canaries in my dating coal mine? [more inside]
Help, I'm the victim of a hostile takeover of my job!
I'm not her assistant but she's treating me like I am. Frankly I'm ready to just quit but I can't afford it without another job lined up. To rub salt in that wound, she's micromanaging and professionally lazy and generally gets under my skin... Help me stick it out while I look for another job! [more inside]
Question about gun etiquette
This question is for people who are familiar with gun culture & etiquette, and concerns having one's holstered gun pointing at other people. [more inside]
Deep dish is to Chicago as ______ is to San Francisco?
Every year for the Super Bowl we make food from the teams' hometowns. This is our seventh year, and it's the first time we've had difficulty finding a food for a team! (Although two years of Hoosier Pie was no fun for anybody.) [more inside]
posted by goodbyewaffles at 3:29 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by goodbyewaffles at 3:29 PM PST - 42 comments
Help me write the text for my license to be an aunt
I told my eight year-old niece that if she jumped in puddles and got her feet wet my license to be an aunt would be revoked. She now wants to see my license - I have explained that I keep it in my other wallet but that I will show it to her next week. Help! [more inside]
Final job interview this weekend. How do I disclose my felony?
Final job interview this weekend. How do I disclose the federal felony and prison time on my record? [more inside]
On-wall audiophile speaker recommendations for music?
I'm looking for recommendations for decent audiophile speakers (for music) that can be mounted on a wall. [more inside]
posted by UbuRoivas at 2:28 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by UbuRoivas at 2:28 PM PST - 8 comments
Stand in the place where you work
Should I get a standing desk? Please share your pros and cons, and any tips! [more inside]
How to discreetly monitor an employee's computer/Internet usage?
I am looking for recommendations for software to track/monitor/record someone's computer/Internet usage. Windows XP, one user account. [more inside]
Name change logistics, both practical and social.
My partner is legally changing his first and last name and doing away with his middle name altogether. Help us think of everything? We're in the US. [more inside]
I'm Done Taking This Pills
I want to be done with my pills. So I stopped taking them. Just making sure that what I'm experiencing right now is normal because if it's not I've got a phone call to make. [more inside]
No Audio Required
Please recommend movies that view coherently with the sound off. The example that I offer is 'Cast Away,' which, even during the book-ends of its series of scenes that have dialogue, every last minute point of film's exposition is conveyed through blocking, apparent emotions, and, obviously, action. [more inside]
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:24 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by herbplarfegan at 1:24 PM PST - 50 comments
Writing catchy, fun, simple Facebook updates for a company. How?!
I have just become the person In Charge of Facebook for my small company. Last week I sat down and wrote some Facebook posts that my boss thought were "too cheesy." I agreed with him. They totally were. I am a social media lover- I have a tumblr, a Facebook, etc. I know when people try too hard and used to work for a government official who Did Not Get Facebook and so I know what definitely doesn't work. I've just never been in charge of writing one. [more inside]
Mortgage Help on Underwater House While Unemployed? Yikes.
Laid off and underwater. . . are there any programs that can help me to keep paying our mortgage? [more inside]
posted by Kalatraz at 12:48 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Kalatraz at 12:48 PM PST - 6 comments
What should be used for leading?
The standard Type 1 fonts from Adobe don't have a definition of Leading. What should I use? [more inside]
How will the new web-based Office 365 affect my monthly data cap?
I have satellite internet service with a monthly download/upload allowance of 15 GB. I am a heavy Microsoft Office user. With Office 13, apparently there's a web-based subscription option, and it sounds great (5 licenses vs. 1). But will constant communication with the servers eat away at my monthly allowance? [more inside]
posted by jackypaper at 12:41 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by jackypaper at 12:41 PM PST - 1 comment
Missed a Registered Mail letter
I missed a Registered Mail letter - how do I find out who the sender was? [more inside]
How should I talk to my boyfriend about me being unhappy with him?
We've been together almost 2 years and at first I thought he was almost a perfect match for me. We got along, he made me so happy, he's so sweet, makes me laugh, and considerate. I know that every relationships get into the comfortable phase but lately I feel like he has taken me for granted and has gotten way too comfortable to the point I'm starting to lose interest in our relationship. I no longer look forward to seeing him and want to be alone, say I love you, kiss, or anything. [more inside]
posted by Asian_Hunnie at 12:11 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by Asian_Hunnie at 12:11 PM PST - 50 comments
Escrow Shortage: Pay all at once or throughout the year?
It's January, which means my mortgage servicer (Wells Fargo) has once again determined my escrow account is short by about $300. This seems legit since there was a recent property tax increase.
Outside of personal preference, is it better for me to pay this all at once, or to spread it out over the year? Is it better for Wells Fargo if I do one or the other?
Context: It's probably my tinfoil lined hat, but whenever a bank gives me a choice like this I assume one of the choices will screw me out of a little money, put me in a position to be screwed out of a little money, or put them in a position to make a little more money off of me.
posted by alana at 12:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by alana at 12:04 PM PST - 6 comments
Can you convince me that chiropractors are real science?
Lots of lumbar pain, limited options. Advise please! [more inside]
posted by TomMelee at 11:51 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by TomMelee at 11:51 AM PST - 40 comments
Doing DC/Alexandria alone
In April I'll be attending a weeklong conference in Alexandria, VA and will likely be traveling alone. I've never been to DC. What can I do (safely and cheaply) by myself? [more inside]
posted by almostmanda at 11:38 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by almostmanda at 11:38 AM PST - 23 comments
Paid a friend to help me with a project. He wants a W2. Really?
A friend in the same field as me, who was underemployed last year, helped me on a project last year. Over the whole year it was a total of 32 hours (I paid him at $50/hr). Now he's asking for a W2. I think it's pretty clear that he was not an employee (W2), but rather an independent contractor (1099). Aside from inventing a time machine to go back and clarify the terms (which I didn't think would be a problem, considering our friendship), what should I do here? What's at stake?
posted by Anonymousness at 11:29 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Anonymousness at 11:29 AM PST - 14 comments
Hoodie? HoodME!
This snowflake is woefully under-hoodied: I cannot locate a hoodie which meets my specific nitpicky criteria. Can YOU? [more inside]
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:26 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by julthumbscrew at 11:26 AM PST - 15 comments
C25K with a torn ACL?
Would it be crazy to do C25K with a torn ACL? I do not plan to get surgery to repair the ACL. [more inside]
posted by OrangeDisk at 11:19 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by OrangeDisk at 11:19 AM PST - 5 comments
What kinds of experts might be on a team sent to explore a new planet?
Assuming one already knew the planet had a safe, breathable atmosphere and a similar terrain to earth's. Also assuming the group already had team leaders, security guys, pilots, and engineers for ship/equipment operation and maintenance. Just trying to discern what KINDS of scientists (or even cultural anthropologists, etc) might prove useful to an information-gathering mission-- one in which encountering intelligent life is highly likely. [more inside]
posted by np312 at 11:02 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by np312 at 11:02 AM PST - 24 comments
Stories on cassette 20+ years ago...
Back in the mid to late 80s my dad had this casset tape series of stories that I absolutely loved. Not kids stories though. They were narrative with the person / people guiding you through the experience. The part that sticks in my mind the most is that there was this wall with a hole in it. The man tells that when he stuck his finger in he couldn't pull it back out, he could only go further in. So he kept digging and pushing himself into the wall ... and thats all I remember but it just amazed me. If anyone knows what this is I'd be eternally grateful.
The "FBI" wants $200 from me.
Can anyone help me with a malware problem in system 7, possibly related to a recent ransomware attack? [more inside]
posted by Huplescat at 10:41 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Huplescat at 10:41 AM PST - 17 comments
Should I pursue another fancy piece of paper?
Is a Master of Science in Strategic Leadership a real thing? Should I pursue it, given that it wouldn't cost me anything but time? [more inside]
Going back to school at 33 is a great idea! Right?
Recently I've been thinking of going back to school to get a Computer Science degree but I have a few questions: [more inside]
posted by Mister_Sleight_of_Hand at 10:03 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Mister_Sleight_of_Hand at 10:03 AM PST - 17 comments
Elevator question
When an interviewer asks an interviewee for a programming job to design an object-orientated elevator control system, what are they looking for in a good answer?
Which jurisdictions have databases of powers of attorney documents?
Which jurisdictions have databases of powers of attorney documents? [more inside]
I like your face; I promise I don't want to make it into a jacket
As a photographer, I often spot people on the street who are interesting to me, and of whom I'd like to make portraits. With guys, that's fairly straightforward - I just approach them and ask. However, I'm unsure about how to approach women whom I think would be good portrait subjects. How can I do this without being creepy? [more inside]
posted by gmb at 8:56 AM PST - 48 comments
posted by gmb at 8:56 AM PST - 48 comments
how to strengthen the Rectus capitis posterior minor muscles?
muscle-minded members of Mefi: how do I strengthen the Rectus capitis posterior minor muscles? [more inside]
Help me find the right shoes to fix my foot pain
I've hod ongoing pain for months in my right foot, and after seeing a doctor and getting x-rays and and MRI done, the best advice he had for me was to buy new shoes and hope the pain eventually goes away. My question is, what sort of shoes am I looking for? I spend about an hour each day walking between classes, work, and my car—aside from that, I'm not terribly active. I'm also on somewhat of a budget, but if I need to pay $100 to not have to limp around, I'll gladly pay.
At least my life makes interesting dinner party conversation!
How do people find emotional stability and inner peace when they are not tied down to any particular place? Am I just doomed to feel 'out of place' for the rest of my life? Advice from other 'Third Culture Kids'/people with international careers/etc. sought. [more inside]
Film/tv Plot: CIA(?) fake captive's plane crash death(?)
Please help me to remember where I saw this: A US agency (CIA?) captures/kills an Arab(?) terrorist(?) prince(?) (or South American drug lord?) but then makes it look like his plane crashed while taking off from a Caribbean(?) island so that their involvement is hidden and people don’t realise the CIA(?) knew he was a wrong 'un. Our hero(?) is in on the airplane plot but her/his colleague is suspicious about the crash and starts looking into it and finding holes in the story. I think they might have to kill the colleague to shut him up. [more inside]
posted by Gomoryhu at 8:23 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Gomoryhu at 8:23 AM PST - 4 comments
Car-Buying Negotiations
I love my car. It is reliable, trustworthy, and it has carried me safely through at least one rather hairy situation. Best of all, it was cheap. When I touch the dashboard, I remember the thrill of the negotiation process, and even the salesman's sweaty palm as we shook hands on a price thousands of dollars lower than what my friend paid for the exact same model. [more inside]
Can you charge different membership fees based soley on age?
A new private restaurant/club is opening in my Santa Monica, CA neighborhood. Membership fees are $1250/yr if you are under 30, $2000/yr if you are over 30. There is no justification stated for this policy, like the way auto insurance rates justify their age-based rates. Is this legal? [more inside]
Channeling horniness into creativity
Hi all--
I am a female writer with a high sex drive. With most of my moods, I have figured out how to use the energy of anger or sadness or whatever to write something borne from it. But when I'm feeling horny, I really don't know what to do with it, aside from write about sex, and I want to be able to do more than that. This may sound like a silly inquiry, but I'm wondering if other artistic sorts have dealt with it.
Why does weed make it all so easy?
Only marijuana lets me be the person I want to be. But I don't want to be dependent on drugs just to function. [more inside]
Samurai and contemporary Japanese social perceptions of disability
Asking for a friend: "I'm researching for my current WIP, and I'm stuck. I need to build a comprehensive picture of the social perceptions of disability in Japan, both currently and within Samurai culture. Help, anyone?"
Fixing a Career Derail Five Years After Graduation
I was a re-entry student graduated in 2007 with a bachelor's degree in Public Administration. My entry into the field got derailed and since 2008, I've been working out of the field, underemployed. How can I get back on track? [more inside]
Best photo hosting for organizing and sharing privately?
I'm planning to scan a large number of old family photographs, with an eye to eventually creating family photobooks. I need a wide variety of my family members to be able to access these photos in order to comment on them, and tell me who is in them, when they are from, etc. [more inside]
Help me create a fun scoring system for a party
So we've got a chocolate-tasting party next month, with about 50 people attending. We divide into dark, semi, milk and (yes, sorry, purists) white, around 20 types. I've done this before (really fun) but used paper and pen, tallying up the winners at the end of the night. This time I was thinking of giving guests a few of something to hold - poker chips? - and have them drop them into jars or something near their favorites. I'm not so hot on the poker chips in a glass jar idea, though, since you can't see them from far away, and it doesn't really have much volume in the jar. Any fun ideas?
The Grandma Moses of Startups?
I'm pushing 50, but I still have urges. Entrepreneurial urges. Ideas for products. Cool websites. Apps. Little businesses. Stuff that makes some money.
But: Every cool startup I see comes from a 12-year-old. College is middle age. 30 is elder statesman. 40 is dead. I've never done this before. Its scary. Where are my role models? Networks? Inspirations? Mentors? Resources? Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 7:06 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 7:06 AM PST - 18 comments
Is it possible to leave the UK and still apply for leave to settle?
I am hoping to (eventually) settle in the UK permanently, but one of the requirements is worrying me somewhat, and I was hoping someone could clarify under what circumstances it is possible to leave the UK for short periods of time while on a Skilled Worker Visa. [more inside]
posted by kalimac at 6:37 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by kalimac at 6:37 AM PST - 6 comments
Banking in US for an International business
My friend is Italian and living in Milan. He has developed a product that he will sell through Amazon. I want to help and get involved but not willing to risk my future to do it. [more inside]
What is the expected value function of the Gumbel distribution?
I believe that I need to use the expected value function of the Gumbel distribution to analyze some data. However, I can't find a guide of how to do this that is not written for mathematicians, beyond answers like a(n) + gamma*b(n), which isn't exactly helpful if a(n) and b(n) are not clearly defined. Or, do I even need to calculate this? [more inside]
Venice vacation part deux: Is going in August a terrible idea?
For a variety of reasons, the second half of August is turning into a better time for us to take a vacation than October, as we had originally planned. We are hoping to go to Venice. We're OK with heat and humidity. Is there some other dealbreaker I'm not aware of? [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 6:16 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by elizeh at 6:16 AM PST - 10 comments
My dad is having heart bypass surgery. Making his recovery comfortable?
My dad is having heart bypass surgery. How can we make his recovery more comfortable and more interesting? [more inside]
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 5:28 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 5:28 AM PST - 8 comments
How do real grownups host small professional-ish dinner parties?
So a little while ago I invited my supervisor over for dinner with his partner at my little studio in a couple of weeks and it just occurred to me, I've never actually done this kind of thing before and I'm not entirely sure I know how. [more inside]
posted by Blasdelb at 5:18 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by Blasdelb at 5:18 AM PST - 27 comments
Need to restore rooted Verizon Galaxy Nexus to factory settings
I've upgraded to a Galaxy S3 and I've sold my old Verizon Galaxy Nexus. It is rooted and running Cyanogenmod 10. I have Rom Manager installed. How do I wipe the data and restore it to the standard Verizon firmware?
Stray Cat Care?
How can I care for this stray cat, in Japan, when I can't take her in? [more inside]
Auto-scrolling ebooks
What's my best option for reading ebooks in an auto-scrolling format? [more inside]
posted by pete_22 at 1:36 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by pete_22 at 1:36 AM PST - 7 comments
January 29
Non-Heated Daycare Lunches
Need lot of ideas for lunches for a 1 year old. [more inside]
How do I relax more deliberately?
Even when I have free time, I find myself rarely doing the thing called "relaxing". I'm looking for how I can better relax, and what I can do to give myself a better environment to do so. [more inside]
What camera should I take to Patagonia?
My girlfriend and I are leaving for a vacation in Chile in about a week. We'll be spending most of our time hiking and seeing glaciers and penguins in southern Patagonia, with a few days in Santiago at the end. I'd like to bring a compact, versatile, weatherproof camera with great image quality, 15-20x zoom, and good low-light performance -- but compromises must be made. What kind of camera should I take with me? My budget is $300-750. [more inside]
posted by Serf at 10:30 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Serf at 10:30 PM PST - 14 comments
Another Mystery Book
I loved this book as a kid in the early 90s. Please help me identify it! [more inside]
posted by florencetnoa at 9:43 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by florencetnoa at 9:43 PM PST - 2 comments
My Google Fu has failed on this lyric
I can't believe I'm wasting a question on this, but searching the internet has failed to give me a definitive answer. In the song Some Nights by Fun, which is the proper lyric? [more inside]
posted by Ruki at 9:15 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Ruki at 9:15 PM PST - 5 comments
Your favourite clever pop culture sites/podcasts/lectures
I'm at home ill at the moment, watching lots of films and reading a lot (this week I've watched 14 films and read 2 books). I'd like to find sites (or podcasts/lectures/etc) that intelligently examine media and/or popular culture. I regularly read articles on Popmatters and sometimes the A.V. Club (but not so much). What are your favourite film/media crit resources? Podcasts? Lectures? Thank you in advance for any help!
posted by everydayanewday at 8:41 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by everydayanewday at 8:41 PM PST - 13 comments
Keeping a toddler in bed: sharing a room edition
My exactly-two-year-old (tomorrow) shares a room with his older brother. When bedtime rolls around, stories are done, and lights are out... he will not stay in bed. Looking for any ideas. [more inside]
posted by rouftop at 8:28 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by rouftop at 8:28 PM PST - 25 comments
The nuances of writing a new laptop off as a tax expense.
If I quit my job in April and start working on my own projects, can I buy a new laptop in July and write it off as a work expense on my taxes, even though I might not actually make any money from my projects until next year? [more inside]
Where can I download TT or T1 of public domain font IBM Courier?
Where can I download TT or T1 of public domain font IBM Courier? My Google-fu is exhausted. I can't find this font on my own. Help me, HiveMind! [more inside]
posted by ScarletPumpernickel at 6:56 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by ScarletPumpernickel at 6:56 PM PST - 7 comments
Kickass online business banking?
I run my small company (freelancer) and want a kickass online banking experience; minimal fees, good TOS, photo check deposits, and sure, why not, ATM reimbursements. I won't mention my brick and mortar bank (out of Boston for 'citizens') but they leave quite a bit to be desired. [more inside]
Name my university learning blog
Looking for a descriptive and short name for a blog about university study. Save me from bad puns and opaque acronyms! [more inside]
Bug I.D.
Cleaning apt. of a deceased friend. Their mattresses were on the floor - a boxspring, and a mattress on top. Found these bugs in between the boxspring and the mattress. [more inside]
posted by samoa at 5:34 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by samoa at 5:34 PM PST - 14 comments
Why are Amazon used-book vendors overpricing this book?
I'm trying to understand the logic of wildly overpriced used books on Amazon. [more inside]
posted by Bookhouse at 5:31 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Bookhouse at 5:31 PM PST - 15 comments
What's a cheap price for airfare from WashingtnDC to London in May/June?
My wife and I are planning to travel from Washington, DC to London in late May / Early June, and I'm seeing round-trip ticket prices at around $1,050 per person ($1,250 for direct flights). That seems weirdly high to me, but we've never been there before and have no real basis for comparison. Am I booking too early in the year, such that waiting a month or two will probably net me better prices? Our plan is to fly out Friday night on a red-eye and return Sunday afternoon, so unfortunately we can't get midweek pricing. [more inside]
To-do list for MBA survival
I'll be starting a full-time MBA program this fall. What can I do now to make that experience easier? [more inside]
posted by cranberry_nut at 5:07 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cranberry_nut at 5:07 PM PST - 9 comments
International Money Transfer
I would like to transfer $ 5000 from an account in Italy to my bank account here in the State. Can it be done electronically and if so, how?
posted by francesca too at 5:04 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by francesca too at 5:04 PM PST - 9 comments
Sonic sculpture (ice, pebbles on bamboo and metal) Any other examples?
The ice melts, releasing the pebbles onto the sculpture. YOUTUBE
Anyone know more about this genre of what I call sonic sculpture? [more inside]
Should I maintain renter's insurance even though I've moved out?
I moved out of my apartment, but am still on the lease, which extends for several months. I have "transferred" my renter's insurance policy to cover property and occurrences at my new apartment. This leaves me uncovered at the old place. Does this matter? [more inside]
Why do LED lightbulbs have a bulb?
While changing a bulb in one of our rooms, replacing a LED with a CFL because of a need for brighter lighting in this work area, it suddenly hit me: Why does an LED light have a bulb? In both incandescent and CFLs, the bulbs trap gas (or vacuum as the case may be.) But why an LED? It doesn't use a gas and it doesn't need to operate in a near-vacuum for efficiency. Closer examination showed that the bulb was plastic and had no lensing effect.
This question is almost answered here. Because of the question regarding heat sinks (which seem much reduced in modern LED lights, I'm guessing the answer is because they get hot. So I'm guessing that's what it is, though I also think that having a bulb makes it easier to screw into the socket. Taking these points together, I can imagine getting a burn if there was not bulb by brushing up agains an LED stalk that was on until a few seconds ago when you decided to unscrew it.
So...have I answered my own question or is there more behind the bulb?
posted by BillW at 4:41 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by BillW at 4:41 PM PST - 9 comments
when to hang on, when to bail
when to hang on, and when to bail, when there is a lot of love, but also coldness [more inside]
posted by frequently at 4:35 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by frequently at 4:35 PM PST - 11 comments
measuring simple shaft vibration at a bearing
i am trying to measure the vibration of a bearing, which is at one end of a simple fan shaft.
the fan is large but rotates at reasonably slow speed.
fan diameter approx 3m, shaft speed approx 145 rpm, 2 dodge s2000 bearings.
i am getting FFT data but when i look in the low frequency range the data is not meaningful.
i am using sample rate 4096 Hz, block time 0.125 sec. 20 sec sample time and i think the acceleromter is set up correctly.
where might i be falling over?
Trying to remember a strategy turned base video game
I once played a turned based strategy video game on my PC. You built buildings, mined minerals, set up defenses. [more inside]
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 4:19 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 4:19 PM PST - 6 comments
Desperately seeking 80s West Village Chinese restaurant
Hunan Pan was at the SE corner of Hudson & Perry when I left NY in 86; I don’t know when it closed. Does anyone know if they moved somewhere, or opened another restaurant? I was quite attached to the place for a few years, and haven’t seen a couple of dishes done quite so well anywhere else.
That's no moon
Help me create the perfect Death Star ice sphere. [more inside]
posted by Diskeater at 3:25 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Diskeater at 3:25 PM PST - 16 comments
How to help a young child further develop her logic and reasoning skills
Oh I get it! [more inside]
Failing grades == academic misconduct: true or false?
My friend is applying to university after dropping out of a different school a few years ago. At his previous school he was placed on academic suspension for a semester due to absenteeism and low grades. The Common App he's now filling out asks if he's ever been disciplined for academic misconduct. Does this qualify? Should he answer yes or no? More details below, including the exact wording of the question: [more inside]
Staying happy while digging yourself out of the hole you made
Tools for staying positive while "getting back on the wagon", so to speak. [more inside]
I need a stomach reset button
I have angered my stomach, and don't know how to get it back on track. Details that I can't believe I'm talking about inside. [more inside]
Dayta or Datta?
Help me find a dialect map for the pronunciation of the word "data". [more inside]
posted by janell at 2:26 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by janell at 2:26 PM PST - 32 comments
Tattooed hand sketching out weird and beautiful artwork.
Help me find the song of a YouTube ad featuring a beautifully tattooed hand sketching some amazing artwork? [more inside]
Earphones that sound as good as Etymotics without the cord noise?
So I love my Etymotic hf2 headphones. The sound is crisp, lush, and only just a little light in the bass. The problem is cord noise. Is there another brand or model of in-ear phones that doesn't have this problem? [more inside]
posted by seanmpuckett at 2:17 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by seanmpuckett at 2:17 PM PST - 8 comments
A list of lists
I love reading lists with exquisite explanations of the things on the list. For example Time's list of the 100 best novels of all time or top ten lists that have descriptions of why the included items are deserving of being on the list. Could I get some more lists with this kind of breakdown?
posted by holmesian at 2:06 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by holmesian at 2:06 PM PST - 8 comments
Fellow Migraineurs: How did you kick the quick fix?
Help me figure out specific techniques, distractions, etc. to employ while I stop taking pain medication for migraines. [more inside]
posted by hapax_legomenon at 2:05 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by hapax_legomenon at 2:05 PM PST - 32 comments
Quick Cape Town tourism for a Canuck leaving from Boston
What do you recommend for airlines, must-see tourist destinations and other travel tips for a late-March trip to Cape Town, South Africa? [more inside]
posted by KevCed at 2:04 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by KevCed at 2:04 PM PST - 4 comments
Sit-up guide
I can't do a single sit-up. Can someone point me in right direction? [more inside]
Now that WeEndure is shutting down...
Now that WeEndure is going away, I need somewhere to track my exercise. There are a number of places that have biking and running, but not swimming. I'd prefer simpler to the more complex sites like MapMyRun (which, again, doesn't do swimming, from what I can see). I have seen this and wondered what things are out there, four years later. Bonus: a place that I can dump all my WeEndure data into so I hit the ground running. [more inside]
Can anyone recommend a therapist or accredited counsellor in Edinburgh?
Asking for a friend. Ideally I'd like to find a well-established mainstream psychotherapist with experience of both acute and long term treatment and support of adult patient with depression. CBT, integrative and/or psychodynamic modes, and with a positive view of integrating with NHS services. Ideally also with reduced rates for low incomes, but this isn't vital.
I know about the COSCA list, but am trying to get a recommendation based on opinion or experience.
Thanks in advance.
Crockpot on High with a tea towel under it?
My mother left a crockpot with a tea towel under it on the counter today before she went to work. It was on high. It was pretty hot. Am I overreacting in thinking that this is unsafe? [more inside]
posted by heavenstobetsy at 12:56 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by heavenstobetsy at 12:56 PM PST - 21 comments
Can something that starts out wrong turn out right? (relationship wise)
Have you ever had a relationship, that maybe not DTMFA worthy, started out pretty rocky but eventually turned in to something good and healthy? Details are appreciated. [more inside]
Possible long distance relationship with military man....advice
Hoping for advice, encouragement, discouragement, honesty, etc. I just ended a marriage (shy of one year) last year and am newly single as of four months, I was in a 6 year relationship which ended because I realized my ex was not faithful and continued to question our marriage. [more inside]
posted by love2much at 12:33 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by love2much at 12:33 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me Froth my Almond Milk!
In an effort to healthify, I've replaced milk in my coffee with almond milk (unsweetened vanilla). It is awesome and yummy. I've taken to using my aerolatte to whip it into a tasty froth before adding my coffee. Add a little cinnamon on top and magic happens. So this worked great until my last purchase of almond milk (pure almond from Silk). It Will Not Froth! MY QUESTIONS:
1. Why won't it froth?
2. Could the absence of Carrageenan be the cause?
3. Should I worry about the presence of Carrageenan in my nut milk?
posted by leotrotsky at 12:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by leotrotsky at 12:27 PM PST - 13 comments
"Name that song in the commercial" question #5,684,273
Does anyone know the piano song in the Comedy Central commercial for the new season of "Workaholics"? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 12:02 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by lovableiago at 12:02 PM PST - 2 comments
How private can I keep my SSN
I hate giving out my Social Security number (other than in connection with tax reporting and where I need to have a background/credit check--where I realize it's necessary). How much do you squawk when asked for your social in other scenarios? Example inside. [more inside]
posted by Admiral Haddock at 12:01 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Admiral Haddock at 12:01 PM PST - 15 comments
I need to come up with ideas for daycare visits to our gym.
I'm the program developer at a gymnastics club, and my latest assignment has be wracking my brain. We have outside daycare groups come and visit us once a week for around an hour, and my boss wants us to add on an additional activity to make us a more appealing choice. Help? [more inside]
How do I tell my boss I can't make it to a work-related social event?
My weekend is overbooked to the tune of family vs. work. Help me figure out how to tell my very difficult boss about this the right way. [more inside]
posted by chatelaine at 11:28 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by chatelaine at 11:28 AM PST - 12 comments
The Seven Bridges of Königsberg in 200 Words or Less
Can you recommend short, easy-to-understand math writing I can read before bed? [more inside]
posted by kristi at 11:26 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by kristi at 11:26 AM PST - 12 comments
Fighting a new neighbor who wants to tear down, rebuild, and flip
A couple recently purchased a beautiful Hacienda-style home on my street. They want to tear it down and replace it with a soulless, bland, aggressively imposing mini-McMansion. Luckily, I live in a really special city with an incredibly strict design review committee. What can I do to fight them? [more inside]
posted by acidic at 11:12 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by acidic at 11:12 AM PST - 34 comments
How can you survive precarious employment?
I've historically chosen the World's Most Precarious Professions (tm). I'm about to turn 30 and I'm filled with fear and regret. How can you survive and perservere when you may end up unemployed/unemployable at any moment? [more inside]
Can I use iCloud like an external hard drive?
I'm in the final stages of my PhD and writing up my dissertation. The prospect of losing my analysis and written work is petrifying. Can iCloud be used to save documents like an external hard drive? [more inside]
posted by DorothySmith at 10:36 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by DorothySmith at 10:36 AM PST - 20 comments
Applying for nursing school and just a bit lost
I may be able to apply for nursing school as early as this fall. Yay! Can you help me come up with some resources to help guide me through the application process and assess the merits of different programs? [more inside]
Need private Blue Cross/Blue Shield health plan. Help me pick.
Need private health insurance for my partner, my workplace will be reimbursing all his private health insurance instead of adding him as family/dependent. So cost is minor issue, more concerned with good, specific coverage. We would like to go Blue Cross/Blue Shield due to previous positive experiences. Confused as to what plan will work. He works in a high-stress, very physical outdoorsy job. Without fail, he makes a few urgent care/ER visits a year and would appreciate some therapist coverage to deal with anxiety related to job. Being able to see specialists, get bloodwork and labs done without breaking the bank would be appreciated as well. Any advice? Florida here, if it matters. Looking for low deductible, fixed doctor and hospital visit costs.
Bespoke tailor in Toronto?
The other questions deal more with alterations. I would like to get a woman's suit made. I am hard-to-fit and my go-to place (Eddie Bauer) has changed their designs so they don't work for me. (The new pants are curvy -- and I am not. And the jacket is longer -- and I am, well, shorter.) [more inside]
Teach a keytarist all about the guitar.
I play piano. Recently I got a keytar (!) because I wanted to have something more portable to play, and to experiment with other sounds. The keytar has lots of cool "lead guitar" sounds, which are cool, but I have some questions that a guitarist could best answer. In the end, I want to be able to describe the kind of guitar sound I'm looking for in ways a guitarist would understand. [more inside]
Can you please help me to free my car?
Hello Everyone,
So my car is currently impounded at a private tow lot in New York City as it has been for the past 5 weeks. I only received notification from the police department by mail in the past few days.
When I called up to the tow lot this morning and spoke with the general manager, he informed me that my car has already racked up almost $1400 (!) in storage fees at $27/day. (The police document said only $17/day). He also said that he had sent a package to me on 1/26, but I still haven't received it yet. [more inside]
Need advice on archiving my CD/DVD collection.
Here's what I want to do.
1. put cd/dvd in drive of computer
2. rip it
3. software places files in folder structure I define
4. spits out cd/dvd and does it all over again.
Ultimately what I'd like to do is create a digital library of all my music and movies in one central place so my smart tv/computers/tablets/phones have access to the media whenever and wherever.
Please flood me with suggestions. I'm a noob at this.
Art/photo stock sites: have you earned anything on one?
I followed google image search to an art and photo stock site recently and became curious about the payoff, if any, for providing content to such sites. Some of the member artists have 100 - 200 pages of thumbnails, and a lot of the work looks quite professional to me. It's hard to believe anyone, let alone a pro, would go to such trouble if it didn't provide any payoff of the grocery-buying, rent-paying kind. Do any of our askme artists have any experience or war stories?
United Airlines says they have refunded my flight. They have not, advice
United Airlines says they have refunded my flight. They have not, advice? [more inside]
Why won't Excel arrange its margins to what I want?
Excel 2007 will sometimes refuse to let me move its margins in print preview mode so that the document prints 1 page wide (despite letting me print that way previously on the document). How do I fix this? [more inside]
Fiction: Someone is being drugged without them realizing it
I am looking for books or movies where someone is unknowingly drugged in such a way that it changes their behavior/personality but there are no obvious side effects like blackouts or hallucinations. [more inside]
Salary range for business intelligence/reporting analysts in NC
What is a reasonable salary range for a business intelligence/reporting analyst? Every site I have reviewed seems to indicate that the pay range is much higher than the reactions I receive when quoting my salary requirements seems to indicate. [more inside]
Meditation n00b, difficulty in remaining in the zone
So, I'm starting out on meditation, but finding it near impossible to stay focused for more than a few seconds. Any tips for not thinking about cheese et al for a while? [more inside]
posted by Wordshore at 8:55 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by Wordshore at 8:55 AM PST - 24 comments
Difference in carrying heavy bike lock on bike frame or on my body?
How does it influence my riding if I carry my 3.5 lb bike lock in my bag on my back instead of on the bike frame? Not an athlete, but I like riding fast. [more inside]
posted by arhammer at 8:39 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by arhammer at 8:39 AM PST - 19 comments
Large, Professional, Lightweight Handbag/Briefcase
I'm starting a new professional job, and I need a new, professional bag. I need something large, very lightweight, and preferably with a cross-body shoulder strap. [more inside]
posted by decathecting at 8:31 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by decathecting at 8:31 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I record live streaming video of a public event?
Our dear friends' 6 year old daughter was murdered on Dec. 14th at Sandy Hook Elementary School. The father is testifying at a public hearing in Connecticut this afternoon. This is the website from which it will be broadcast.; the event is titled "BI PARTISAN GUN VIOLENCE MENTAL HEALTH WORKING GROUP".
I have been asked to make a recording of this event. I live in Massachusetts and cannot view the event in person nor do I receive this channel on television, so recording it as it streams online is the only route open to me. I have experimented with recording the stream using VLC and SDP with no success thus far. Your help would be greatly appreciated by me and the parents.
How do you remember to take your vitamins?
Doctor recently advised that I take flaxseed or fish oil for the Omega-3 goodness, and I can't seem to get into the habit. I do not have much a morning (or evening) "routine", which I guess is working against me. You guys are grown ups (and I feel like less of one since I can't figure this out!) - how do you remember to do it?
How to assemble 500 image slices into a printable PDF
I have about 500 PNGs. Each is 8" wide and anywhere from 1" to 5" high. I need to assemble them into a PDF, as many images as possible that will fit per page without cutting off. [more inside]
posted by Wossname at 7:52 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Wossname at 7:52 AM PST - 10 comments
What can I do in my free time which could lead to a job?
What qualifications (certifications, skills, volunteer experiences, etc.) can I realistically pick up, for free, without actually being employed in the field which they would qualify me for? [more inside]
Help me think through Lead in drinking water-- math, chemistry, biology
We're buying a house (still negotiating, hence the anonymity), and we have learned that the level of lead in the water is slightly above the expected range. Not knowing whether this is a big deal, I've tried to do some math to figure out whether being over the threshold is an object of legitimate concern (or whether the range is the fruit of a hyperactive regulatory state) and the process has led me to even more questions. [more inside]
The care and keeping of anal glands.
Please explain to me how my dog's butt works. Thank you. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 7:25 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by phunniemee at 7:25 AM PST - 22 comments
Martial Arts for Weight Loss
My wife and I are thinking about starting a martial art to get in shape. Help us figure out what type of martial art we should do and where specifically we should do it in the Washington, DC area. [more inside]
Items to have for power outages
What items (gadgets) should I have on hand for power outages? [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:43 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:43 AM PST - 28 comments
Best DVD commentaries?
I'm thinking of doing a free trial of Netflix's DVD program. I love listening to commentary tracks. What are some of your favorite commentaries on film/tv show dvds (specific seasons, please!)? [more inside]
posted by litnerd at 5:01 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by litnerd at 5:01 AM PST - 37 comments
Best way to make publication-quality, digital images of my artwork?
I need to convert 16 pages of 14" x 17" artwork into digital images to submit to a book publisher. What is the best way to make high-quality digital copies of my artwork? [more inside]
posted by Nematoda at 4:41 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Nematoda at 4:41 AM PST - 6 comments
Looking for new SF books hiding in the general fiction section
I like science fiction books that are placed in the general fiction section - but for me they are hard to find on Amazon or in libraries. Examples of these kinds of books are The Sparrow, The Yiddish Policemen's Union, Oryx and Crake, Cloud Atlas and The Dog Stars ... but I need more new stuff - any suggestions?
posted by Dag Maggot at 3:03 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by Dag Maggot at 3:03 AM PST - 47 comments
Movies with telephone or phone booth scenes
Help me find movies with telephone or phone booth scenes! (even if said scene is only 10 seconds long). [more inside]
January 28
Eyewear for travel to sunny places: contacts vs. glasses?
I'm soon going on a long trip to the tropics. I wear glasses for vision correction (-2.5) and need to figure out what prescription eyewear to bring. Should I go with contact lenses or glasses? (Also considering prescription sunglasses and Transitions lenses.) [more inside]
that's a lot of cross-stitch.
I found this impressively large and intricate cross-stitch bedspread while thrifting. It's stitched on a pre-printed blue grid, it's queen- or possibly king-sized, and it appears to be backed in feedsack. Further ID and cleaning suggestions sought. [more inside]
posted by nonasuch at 11:33 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by nonasuch at 11:33 PM PST - 9 comments
2d Animation for Marketing Videos - What tools should I learn (Windows)?
If I was to go from zero to learning one tool/software for professional 2d video animation and editing (creating simple animation/transitions and splicing live/animated content) what should it be? [more inside]
posted by DaftMythic at 11:32 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by DaftMythic at 11:32 PM PST - 4 comments
How to deal with frustration toward a very sensitive and anxious friend
I have a friend who gets extremely sensitive and anxious outside her comfort zone. Sometimes it gets to be too much for me. How to deal? [more inside]
Legal document/evidence management software recommendations?
Friend is divorcing a high conflict personality (to put it more than politely). Since he is pro se, he generates a massive amount of emails and motions and false accusations etc. This results in having to collect a huge amount of documentation to be able to say in court "you're lying and here's the proof" [more inside]
posted by anon4now at 7:57 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by anon4now at 7:57 PM PST - 9 comments
How much to give, the value of wedding gift.
Close friends wedding coming up and need to know the right amount to spend on their gift registry, they have various items ranging from $40 upto $250. We're in Australia, details inside... [more inside]
What is the definition of "kand"?
What, exactly, is meant when referring to a "kand position"? [more inside]
posted by paisley sheep at 7:49 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by paisley sheep at 7:49 PM PST - 7 comments
Thoughtful small gift for a good samaritan?
My car ran out of gas this morning. I was running in the rain on the highway shoulder, eyes set on the ramp to the nearest gas station, when a very kind person pulled up to offer me a ride. I didn't even pause to assess his likelihood of being a serial killer - the guy just exuded mellow good neighborliness. I was so grateful that I jumped right in his car, figuring that he most likely was on his way in to work at the same giant company that I work for (which, happily, turned out to be true). He drove me to the gas station, and then backtracked on the highway to drop me back off at my car, where he waited to make sure all was well. Guessing he was late for work as a result, but he couldn't have been more pleasant and easygoing about this gesture (and so politely brushed off my embarrassment at running out of gas and needing to be rescued!). I found out from a colleague where he sits, and I'd love to drop off a thank-you note and an appropriate small, thoughtful gift on his desk tomorrow morning. Something to acknowledge this very personal gesture, while still remaining professional. You know, like a can of beans that says, "Here's hoping YOU never run out of gas!" Ack! Totally joking. That would be terrible. No joke gifts, just something classy and small. Would a bottle of wine be too personal for a business relationship? Thanks in advance for the help!
posted by red_rabbit at 7:26 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by red_rabbit at 7:26 PM PST - 26 comments
Have a platonic, non-alcoholic drink with me?
A few days ago I met someone who attended an early college program, and I'd love to learn more about her experience. Unfortunately, this person I met is a seventeen year old girl, I am very much neither of those, and it's apparently not unheard of for people my age to make passes at people her age. Is there any way for me to ask her for a cup of coffee (hot chocolate?) that is tactfully and yet unmistakably devoid of romantic subtext? [more inside]
How do I open up my Sony TV projectors?
I have a Sony VPL-PX40 and a Sony VPL-PX41. How can I open them up to swap the lenses? [more inside]
origami on the wall?
What's the best way to hang origami on the wall? Painter's tape? That blue putty stuff? Any suggestions welcome. [more inside]
posted by the twistinside at 7:01 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by the twistinside at 7:01 PM PST - 10 comments
Our dog has started barking at his morning food
Our 8 year old Maltese dog eats twice a day: a main amount at 7:30AM and a smaller amount at 6:30PM. We recently got an automatic feeder so we don't get pawed awake in the morning. For the first few days it was fine, but now he barks at the feeder every morning when the food comes out. Once I go into the kitchen and nudge him near it, he stops barking and eats all his food. At night, with the same food and feeder, he doesn't have an issue. Any ideas?
US customs when shipping from Canada?
If I'm ordering something online and they're based in Canada, will I have to pay customs when they ship to the US? [more inside]
How to thicken liquid, namely water or milk.
Looking for suggestions on how to thicken liquid, namely water or milk, for the purposes of photography. [more inside]
posted by phaedon at 5:06 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by phaedon at 5:06 PM PST - 25 comments
CD storage suggestions that have individual CD "slots"
One of my 17 year old Laserline CD towers broke. The one that broke held 400 CDs and my total collection is somewhere in the 800 range. I need one or more storage towers/racks to hold at least 400, and possibly all of them at some point.
Besides being able to store a lot of CDs, the other feature it needs to have is "slots". Most current storage options for large quantities of CDs, are basically empty shelves for you to fill. My CDs are in a particular oder, so if one is out, I want to be able to see the missing CDs at a glance.
Any suggestions?
Pressure Cooker Recipes
Just got a pressure cooker. Now I need to make some stuff, but what? [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow at 4:58 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by otherwordlyglow at 4:58 PM PST - 14 comments
Harmony/Polyphony
What is the difference between harmony and polyphony?
Mild stalking?
Occasionally I notice men checking out my online dating profile repeatedly, but they never send a message. It's neither here nor there really, but it strikes me as somewhat odd to hover but never reach out. Any idea why people do this? I imagine this varies from person to person, but it seemed interesting to me.
posted by amycup at 4:39 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by amycup at 4:39 PM PST - 35 comments
Advice and tips for parents of a child starting primary school
Hi there - our 5-and-a-bit year old is starting primary school next week. He is a bright, caring and generally happy type - a "good kid" - but I was wondering if there's anything, as parents, we should maybe say or do before the big day to provide him with "good vibes" about this next step in his life.
He is looking forward to school and has no problems there. We are taking him out for a special dinner on the weekend to celebrate him going to school as well. But are there any experiences, tips or other things that have worked well for fellow MeFites when their children have started school? Thanks so much.
Fire in oven element - can I still use burners?
So I had a small fire in my oven... [more inside]
posted by madamjujujive at 4:11 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by madamjujujive at 4:11 PM PST - 16 comments
What's Misha the bear's last name?
In Russian fairy tales, bears are named Misha. Or so my girlfriend, a student of Russian, says; so does Wikipedia and this New York Times blog which quotes something saying "all Russian bears are named Misha". But does this Russian bear have a last name? [more inside]
First time projector user needs help! Wireless video vs. wireless audio.
Help figuring out the best setup for a home theater projector. Total projector newb here.... [more inside]
Pasadena, CA area, is my gardener too expensive? $200/mo
We pay $200 a month for weekly service that includes all trimming, upkeep, lawn service for 3 lawns, significant pruning and leaf cleanup from 12 trees (citrus, pine, chinese elms, japanese maple, coastal oak, liquid ambars). Is this too much? What do you pay and what do you get for it? [more inside]
P.hD. problems
Everyone says "get out while you can!" RE: Ph.D.s in the humanities. But really, what else can I do? Difficulty level: somewhat debilitating emotional dysregulation & student debt. Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Oh no you didn't
Recently in a social situation I was asked my thoughts on a budgeting item and I gave it along with a solution that I had given thought to and was planning on presenting to the budget chair. (We work in different departments but run things past each other on occasion). One of the people at the gathering was a woman with political ambitions for our small town. A few days later she wrote a letter to the editor that gave my exact idea. What would you do? On the plus side it was very well received, OTH it was mine. I realize I should have said nothing and it was my mistake. I figure people that were there would know it wasn't hers and hopefully someone will point that out. Can I address it or should I leave it?
Good D&D/Pathfinder module for an all-dwarven party?
Can someone suggest a module or series of modules that is designed for, or could be adapted to, an all-dwarf party? (Other than An Unexpected Journey! But that sort of party, yes.) 3.5/Pathfinder preferred but can adapt. [more inside]
Ripping Gaiam DVD for iPad - Handbrake Not Helping
I am trying to rip a few of my favorite Gaiam yoga DVDs for my iPad. I used Handbrake, but the ripped file resulted in a distorted picture (though the sound was fine). I tried various Handbrake settings, but the result was the same. How can I make this work, and view my DVD on my own device (damn you, DRM!)?
posted by Atrahasis at 3:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Atrahasis at 3:12 PM PST - 8 comments
NYC therapist for problematic drinking.
Looking for an NYC therapist specializing in treating problematic drinking. It is for someone who is a very private person so 12-step/AA/etc. is not an option. The issue is infrequent binge drinking leading to behavior stressing an otherwise happy and healthy relationship. Anywhere in Brooklyn or Manhattan works. Looking specifically for a psychotherapist, not a psychiatrist. Insurance not an issue. Throwaway email: soothemythroat@gmail.com
How do I set up a randomly reoccurring event in my calendar?
I would like to set up a randomly reoccurring weekly event in my calendar -- either Outlook or Google -- such that it repeats every work week (M-F) between the hours of 9-5, but randomly. In other words, I want it to be at 1 pm on Monday one week, then 10 am on Friday of the following week, etc. Is there a quick and easy way to do this or must I set up a reoccurring event and then go through each week moving the appointment to what feels like a random time?
Proactive or annoying?
Because of a story in the newspaper, I discovered that a local nonprofit will soon have a job opening that sounds like a perfect fit for me. The job is not posted on their website yet, but I was thinking of emailing someone there anyway just to let them know how interested I am in the organization, the job, and the changes they've made to make the job possible. Will this result in them looking more favorably on me when the job is posted, or in them looking at me as over-eager and unprofessional?
posted by Clustercuss at 2:47 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Clustercuss at 2:47 PM PST - 16 comments
Gyms are scary
Help me get over my gym anxiety and stay motivated to exercise. [more inside]
Which is truly better? Cable or Dish Network?
One of the longest-running modern-day battles is that of Cable vs. Dish Network. Both seem to basically offer the same stuff. Most everything I read says Dish Network offers everything Cable does, except it's cheaper. Which is better and why? Does Dish Network really go out when it rains or is cloudy? Do you have experience with both and a compelling reason for one over the other? Thanks in advance.
posted by dep at 2:28 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by dep at 2:28 PM PST - 23 comments
science fiction about viruses being alive or not
Examples of fiction books or stories touching on the debate about whether viruses are living things or not?
posted by ac at 2:19 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ac at 2:19 PM PST - 8 comments
Automata simulators?
What are the best automata (formal language theory) simulators? This is mainly for teaching purposes. I have used JFLAP in past iterations of the class in question, and my google searches suggest this is still the best option, but I was wondering if there is anything newer and better that I'm not finding. Details below. [more inside]
Can this relationship be salvaged?
Not-insignificant age gap [5 years +] in our long-term relationship: she's the older one. Can it be salvaged?
I'm 28, SO is 33. We've had a great, loving, 4-year relationship. The past few months have put a heavy strain on us - work, holidays, a death in the family - this spurred her into thinking more about the future. [more inside]
PSP or PS Vita Ad Hoc Co-op/Multiplayer Games
My 10-year-old son recently purchased a second PSP for me. He has my old one, so we now have two PSPs. We have been playing the Call Of Duty: Roads To Victory multiplayer over Ad Hoc, looking for other games to play Ad Hoc. [more inside]
posted by kuanes at 1:10 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by kuanes at 1:10 PM PST - 3 comments
Laser Vision Correction Experiences in Boston/Brookline, MA?
It's 2013, it's the future, it's time to fire lasers into my eyes. Does anyone have any particularly good/bad experiences with offices in the Boston and Brookline area? Did you use Qualsight? [more inside]
Wordpress / Buddypress question about user roles
I have a Buddypress site set up with all of my contributors set up as Authors. This has worked well, up until this point, where the users want to make groups. However, the Author role doesn't have permission to create groups. I've used several role modifying plugins to try to switch it on, but none of the plugins have this option available. The current plugin I'm using for role moderation (called 'Members') has an option to add in new Wordpress actions to allow/disallow, but I'm not sure what this would be called. Further data about installed plugins, versions, etc. available upon request. For the moment let's say that simply changing all user's roles to something else isn't an option.
ID a non-Waits song on Tom Waits Pandora station
Last week a neighborhood bar played a song I loved, and trying to identify it has been driving me crazy ever since. Details:
- Chorus has the solo female voice (second soprano?) singing something very close to "I dream in alcohol" and then another phrase with the same rhythm & number of syllables.
- Backing music is somewhat like a musette, husband says (He's a fan of gypsy jazz.)
- I believe the rest of the song was in English too, but I wouldn't swear to it because of bar noise.
- Other music heard on this station: Waits (obviously), Tiger Lillies, musettes, modern chansons.
- Bartender said "It's the Tom Waits station on Pandora."
- Definitely not a Tom Waits song. [more inside]
How often is too often to bug a company MD about a job?
MD said he would talk to me about a graduate position opening up this year. Haven't heard anything yet and I do not want to let this one slip through my fingers. How communicative should I be, and by what means? [more inside]
posted by fearnothing at 12:53 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by fearnothing at 12:53 PM PST - 8 comments
Looking for portable Firewire drives that daisy chain correctly
I'm looking for bus-powered portable Firewire drives that daisy chain correctly. Desired size is 1 terabyte. [more inside]
posted by alms at 12:33 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by alms at 12:33 PM PST - 6 comments
I hope it's not dog cancer.
I took my dog to vet to get his teeth cleaned today. They saw a very obvious bump on his nose that I hadn't noticed before, told me to see a specialist ASAP, and the dental cleaning did not happen. And then I cried in the car for twenty minutes. Obviously, I'm not asking for a diagnosis via Metafilter, but how can I negotiate/maneuver with veterinary costs? [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle at 12:25 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by ablazingsaddle at 12:25 PM PST - 50 comments
High Paying, Part-Time Work
Please help me brainstorm ways to supplement my soon-to-be-radically-reduced income. [more inside]
Chrome on my work computer is killing me. Help!
I use (and love) Google Chrome both my home (Mac) and work (Win 7, 64-bit) computers. But in the last few weeks Chrome has become nigh-unusable. Basically, what's happening is that ~20 minutes after opening the browser, an attempt to access any new domain will a) take forever and b) freeze up the other tabs, so that they won't scroll or allow text selection. Restarting Chrome fixes the problem, but only for another 20 minutes or so.
I've tried the various Flash fixes out there and nothing has worked; this has only been a problem in the last few weeks or so. Please help, I really don't want to go back to firefox. Thanks!
I liked Daniel Abraham's Long Price Quartet. What else should I read?
Help me fill my reading queue!
I'm looking for engaging, character-driven fantasy/sci fi/speculative fiction books or series to read. The thing that grabbed me the most in the last year was Daniel Abraham's Long Price Quartet. What else should I read? [more inside]
What is it like to ride in a hot air balloon?
My family of four will be taking a long road trip this summer, from Chicago to Yellowstone, and I had the idea to take a hot air balloon ride somewhere around Mt. Rushmore. It looks to be really really expensive, so before I start saving the money I'd like to get perspective on the experience. For those who have taken a hot air balloon ride: what was it like? How long did it last? Was it scary (for kids or adults with height issues)? Was it worth the money you paid? [more inside]
Help me learn to like myself.
I like myself fine when nothing depends on it, but the moment I want something or someone's approval, I shrink to nothing. How do I learn to like myself for who I am? How do I deal with self-doubt and learn to take compliments? [more inside]
Possibly HIV Positive -- Now What
I may have HIV and I don't know what to do about it. [more inside]
How to compare longevity with productivity?
I have a Soundcloud account. I think it's among the better sound file sharing sites, but it can be a little pricey. I am regularly adding new content so I am always butting up against the file size limitations of my account. So, I want to have a way to look at the files in my account and decide which of them needs to go and keep the most productive ones. I want to be able to compare how long a file as been posted to number of times it has been viewed. I think that deleting a file based just on duration or views could be deceiving because I could delete an old account that is delivering consistent viewers while a new account that starts out fast could drag as time goes on. I can't tell that by just looking, so I need some help. Can I create something in Excel? I also have SPSS. Would creating crosstabs help?
News analysis
I need to do a rough and ready news analysis. I want to go to a specific news site and see the frequency of certain words and phrases before and after a certain date. Ideally, I'd be able to do this in a slightly more complex way, with combinations of words and phrases. I want to do this for free. Does such a tool exist? [more inside]
Suggestions for tablet and e-games for bedridden senior?
My 66 year old father will be bedridden for a few months. He's not tech-savvy but loves simple comp games like solitaire, free cell, etc. Would a tablet pre-loaded with games be a good gift? Recommendations? [more inside]
My crazy is escaping! Help me pull it back in.
Bad divorce, after many years of pretty much only dating men I really didn't care about, I finally met a great guy that I want to care about very much. Help me not fuck it up. [more inside]
posted by Lizlemondrop at 10:36 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Lizlemondrop at 10:36 AM PST - 14 comments
Tell me about your awesome Roth IRA.
I have a chunk of money just sitting in an account that doesn't even earn interest. I'd like to park it into an IRA, but would like to avoid spending many hours researching them. I'd love to just pick a place, transfer the money over, and be done with it. What bank/financial institution currently offers the lowest fees for the best results? Do you have one that you adore, and offers a good deal? [more inside]
posted by chowflap at 10:33 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by chowflap at 10:33 AM PST - 18 comments
Can anyone identify this indie, children's folk singer?
I've been wracking my brains trying to remember the identity of this female folk singer from the 1980s-1990s. She made at least a few albums targeted at kids, incorporating many environmental themes. And I can't for the life of me remember even enough to do a proper Google search. Gah! [more inside]
posted by valkyryn at 10:31 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by valkyryn at 10:31 AM PST - 7 comments
Emergency SMS notifications to staff
Can you recommend a service that will let me broadcast SMS notifications to all staff in an emergency? I am assuming it would be an SMS marketing service, but if there are other options I'd love to hear them. The main feature I need is that it is easy and fast to send out a notification in an emergency. [more inside]
What should I keep in mind when applying for an internal role change?
A new role has been created within my department for which I would like to be considered. What should I keep in mind when preparing my application for this internal role, given my familiarity with the company and with the hiring managers? [more inside]
posted by undercoverhuwaaah at 10:02 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by undercoverhuwaaah at 10:02 AM PST - 3 comments
Out-of-network midwife less than deductible - still bill insurance?
My chosen midwife is out-of-network for my insurance company. She also costs less than the deductible for out-of-network providers. Should I still bill my insurance company? [more inside]
posted by jillithd at 9:51 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jillithd at 9:51 AM PST - 5 comments
My white cat Lily won't stay lily white.
Lily is prone to darting out the door and coming back hours later any one of fifty shades of gray. We don't know what she's been joyously rolling in, so we try to wipe her off or bathe her, meaning one very unhappy kitty. Last night's dark stains still haven't fully come out, even with some powerful detergent. What's your best method or product for keeping a white cat clean? [more inside]
Please help this introvert make new friends!
I have been an introvert for as long as I can remember. I do have a few good friends that I enjoy talking to, but usually they were the ones who befriended me, instead of the other way around. Now, because of changes of circumstances in my life, I would like to bring more new people into my life, more actively this time. Dear hive mind, please give me some tips on how I can do it. [more inside]
Where should I park my extra cash?
I'll soon be debt free. How do I make the most of it? [more inside]
posted by futureisunwritten at 9:39 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by futureisunwritten at 9:39 AM PST - 6 comments
Manage an email-based day-by-day training course
I work on technology with a staff of about 30 teachers. I found a way to introduce new technologies that seems to work well: Each day I send out an email with a five-minute task. After about 40 of those, provided you stick with them, you're pretty strong.
Now I'd like to automate this per user. How? [more inside]
posted by argybarg at 9:36 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by argybarg at 9:36 AM PST - 1 comment
Edgy mission statements from Gen-X-targeting 90's ad agencies?
I'm looking for mission statements from 90's advertising agencies. Specifically, super "edgy" ad agencies that targeted the Gen-X demographic. The more over the top and "extreme" the better.
Worst-case scenario, I'd love to know where to start looking for them myself.
Bright and shiny me
Lets say you have 30 minutes a day for the next six months, and at the end of the six month period you have the vague goal of being an extra awesome, turned-up-to-eleven version of yourself. What types of things do you focus on? What skills/behaviours/changes to your life do you take on to achieve that goal? Big or small changes, it doesn't matter.
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:02 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 9:02 AM PST - 24 comments
How am I supposed to feel about property lines?
My wife and I bought our first house about a month ago, and for the first time in our adult lives, we have our own little back yard (typical Chicago-size, maybe 900 sqft). We don't have kids. There's a fence between our yard and one neighbor, but no fence between our backyard and the backyard of the other neighbor. They have several kids between ages 6 and 11. I've looked out the window and seen them running between our yards on a few occasions, and I've found their toys in my yard a few times. (I've just tossed them back when I have.) This isn't really a big deal in and of itself, but I get the distinct feeling that I'm going to be seeing a lot more of these kids and their toys once the weather warms up. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by ndg at 8:57 AM PST - 64 comments
posted by ndg at 8:57 AM PST - 64 comments
Has anyone done an intervention on a friend?
And if so, please tell me how you did it? What the situation was? And what kind of resources did you use?
Music to sooth a weary mind
Help me find good study music -- aka bands that sound like the Lumineers. [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 8:46 AM PST - 12 comments
Parting gifts for an awesome work team?
I got a full-time job offer and will be giving my two weeks' notice to my current freelance gig. I want to give the people I've worked with a nice little gift before leaving. It's a big company so I can't take them all out to lunch/happy hour. Any ideas on what would be appropriate and not terribly expensive?
posted by Anima Mundi at 8:38 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Anima Mundi at 8:38 AM PST - 6 comments
Please help me negotiate with my sump pump
My sump pump currently has different ideas of when and how it should work than I do. I have a couple of questions about plumbing for the sump, and a question about whether there is something I can fix that will allow me to not replace it. [more inside]
posted by OmieWise at 8:33 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by OmieWise at 8:33 AM PST - 6 comments
Deceptive marketing - what recourse do I have
An advertising company called my place of business and basically deceived one of my employees over the phone. Long story short, they made it sound like they were confirming an existing advertisement, rather than making it clear that they were soliciting new business. The charge for the service is $599. The advertising company is located in the state of NY and my business is in OR. I have submitted a complaint through the Better Business Bureau, but we have no resolution yet and the Advertising business in question is holding steady on their position that I owe them the money. I feel that their tactics were deceitful, and we would have never signed up with them if they had made it clear that is what they were trying to do. Since it looks like the BBB route is going to fail, what are my other options?
Resources for dealing with your widowed parents starting to date?
My recently-widowed father seems to have started dating. What are some resources to deal with the emotions I'm going through and the ones that will no doubt come up later? [more inside]
posted by nursegracer at 8:24 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by nursegracer at 8:24 AM PST - 14 comments
A wedding with no officiant and no wedding party. Am I insane?
I'm getting married this summer, in a small, casual, non-religious wedding. We're not planning to have a wedding party, and haven't been able to come up with any good ideas for an officiant, so we're probably going to try to do without one of those as well. Have you done something similar? How will the logistics work out here? [more inside]
Show your true colors
Sometimes someone important comes into your life (a (potential) close friend / significant other or a long lost relative). How to really get to know them? And if you only have limited time? [more inside]
How to get into academia later in life?
What possible avenues are there to get 'back' on an academic career path in your late 30s? Are there any unusual paths that I have not considered? [more inside]
Showtimes a few days before?
Movie theaters seem to only post show times on their websites for Friday-Thursday on Friday which makes it difficult to make advance plans for Friday night. Is there some other website/service that posts the times earlier? (I vaguely remember finding some site that did that, but I can't find it now). Also, why do theaters do things this way? [more inside]
posted by bluefly at 7:28 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by bluefly at 7:28 AM PST - 14 comments
Food/Cooking/Sustainability crash course
I may have an opportunity to teach a ten week class to ninth graders about food, cooking, and sustainability. These are topics that interest me and that I pursue in my spare time, but I'm realizing I don't know as much as I thought I did-- what books, resources, concepts do I need to study in order to get a real grasp on this so I can teach it well? [more inside]
posted by bonheur at 6:58 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by bonheur at 6:58 AM PST - 6 comments
Side sleepers: give your pillow reviews.
Buckwheat, down, millet, feather, foam? Which pillows have you tried and what did you think of them? How can I make an informed decision about pillows without wasting time and money? [more inside]
posted by absquatulate at 6:52 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by absquatulate at 6:52 AM PST - 40 comments
How do I play the networking game?
I lack the networking skills needed to progress further in my job. I'm trying my best, it's not working out. I need some help on how to make it happen. [more inside]
What's Next?
I quit my job teaching. Please help give me suggestions for what I should do next. [more inside]
Do I need my old passport to get a new one? Details in side.
Details:
When I was about 5 I got a US passport, my Dad was in the airforce so my brother, parents and I traveled around a lot. We'e been state side since about 1998. Since then we've not left the country.
My Fiancee and I are going the caribbean for our honeymoon on a cruise & I need a passport.
Do I need my old passport when applying for a new one? What if I can't find it?
posted by snow_mac at 6:34 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by snow_mac at 6:34 AM PST - 10 comments
Shut the French what, now?
So Sunday night at the SAG Awards, "Downton Abbey" actress Phyllis Logan hollered, "Shut the French windows!" when the show won an award. Is this a common Scottish/English saying? A pop-culture reference? Just a British version of "well, butter mah biscuits"? Any information would be appreciated.
posted by GaelFC at 6:28 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by GaelFC at 6:28 AM PST - 13 comments
Help match-make the perfect accelerometer for this research study.
I'm trying to identify the ideal activity monitoring device for a research study. Interested in both commercial devices (ex: FitBit) and clinical monitors (ActiGraph). Not a pedometer; must be an accelerometer (i.e., measure activity like playing with your kids). Wish list inside. [more inside]
New video card, blue colours are off
Upgraded my video card from a Radeon HD 5770 to a GeForce GTX 660, now the blue colors are off (in some programs) and giving a purple tint... [more inside]
How do I forward a register.com domain without the ads or fees?
I have a domain, myname.com, that I want to have forwarded to my Google Sites webpage. My old domain company did it for free but now that I signed with register.com they want either a fee to do it or I have to accept their annoying banner ad. How do I get around this? [more inside]
Mail order wedding?
Is adopting a dog sight-unseen foolish? [more inside]
posted by InkaLomax at 3:55 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by InkaLomax at 3:55 AM PST - 30 comments
WTF happened to the view counters on my Youtube "Manage Videos" page?
Hi. I've had a weird fetishy tragi-comic cartoon web series thing for about 4 years now, and I obsessively monitor how many (or how few) people are watching it. But just recently, something weird and highly annoying happened with Youtube... [more inside]
January 27
What is 90 days, really?
Doing a long-delayed errand, depositing a few checks from various and sundry rebates. One has a date of 10/30/12 and a statement on it declaring "Not valid after 90 days". 90 days after 10/30 is.... today, January 28th. If I cash the check when I go to work in the morning, and my bank accepts the check today, then processes it through to the originating bank a day or two later, will I ultimately get hit with a returned-check fee? [more inside]
posted by sesquipedalia at 11:11 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by sesquipedalia at 11:11 PM PST - 9 comments
Spending two days/nights in Seattle.
Spending two days/nights in Seattle. Hotels, restaurants, activities? Please advise. [more inside]
posted by sadtomato at 10:07 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by sadtomato at 10:07 PM PST - 18 comments
Cool-Ass Mailing Materials
Help me find awesome mailing materials, please! [more inside]
posted by unlucky.lisp at 9:51 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by unlucky.lisp at 9:51 PM PST - 11 comments
How do I become a real estate developer?
I'm well positioned (I think), to become a real estate investor. I'd like advice on how to take it to the next step. [more inside]
posted by mistermc at 9:37 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by mistermc at 9:37 PM PST - 19 comments
Birthday Boy in Frankfurt?
Our son will be turning 11 during our trip to Germany in a few weeks. We're planning on traveling from Wolfsburg to Frankfurt by train that day, and we're flying home the next morning, so where should we go in Frankfurt for a memorable birthday dinner? [more inside]
posted by ulotrichous at 9:10 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ulotrichous at 9:10 PM PST - 5 comments
What to do about mental obsession?cravings?
I have been sober for 8 months. I was on suboxone for 16 months then got off in May of last year. I have not taken pain pills in 2 years. I never attended any AA or NA program. IT is not for me. The problem is over the last 9 weeks I have been obsessing over my past use. This scares me and makes me fear I will relapse. I never want to do that stuff again, but it scares me that it is always on my brain. My therapist said sometimes it takes a year to die down. I hope I make it. Anyone have any previous experience with this?
Balancing career and adventure.
My friends are all prepping for careers, and I'm wondering how I'll balance mine with the many things I want to do that are (probably) mutually exclusive. Looking for insight. [more inside]
posted by Urban Winter at 8:45 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Urban Winter at 8:45 PM PST - 10 comments
Mutual fund families that are most tolerant of timing
Hello. I'm interested in mutual fund timing, but most fund families (Pro Funds and Direxion notwithstanding) hate the idea and throw up all sorts of limits to prevent one from doing this. Are there any reasonably tolerant fund families out there? I'm looking specifically for minimal "minimum time held" and the ability to bounce back and forth between funds, especially between a money market fund and bond funds. I know this is a bit of a Hail Mary, so thanks for any info.
A quandary. My skin doesn't like metal, but I'd like a wedding ring.
So, my skin doesn't like metal. I mean it really doesn't like metal, but I'd like to have a wedding band. What to do? [more inside]
posted by patheral at 7:31 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by patheral at 7:31 PM PST - 43 comments
Do you speak French? Could you help me translate this?
My piano teacher gave me the music for this. The video is of one of my fave pianists (Cortot) giving a masterclass on the piece and I'd really like to know what he's saying. (Hope this is the appropriate place to ask.)
posted by mermily at 6:57 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by mermily at 6:57 PM PST - 12 comments
Career Change: Extreme Makeover Edition
I used to be a lawyer, but I hated it, so I quit and became a barista. Now I'm about to get my own café, and once again I hate my job. I need to change careers again. What next? [more inside]
Where can I run Paris?
We're staying near the Hotel Le Littre from next Thursday through Sunday. Where I can I go for a nice run? [more inside]
posted by rybreadmed at 6:51 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by rybreadmed at 6:51 PM PST - 4 comments
What do we need to know about window tinting?
My partner and I want to get a car window tint job. We're more concerned about quality (materials, won't bubble, etc.) than price, so what do we need to look for? One well reputed company in town is offering "basic color stable film," "high performance stable film" and "CTX ceramic," in ascending order of cost, but we don't know one from the other. One company offers LLumar and another offers 3M--how do we choose? Is quality more or less proportional to cost? Look for a lifetime warranty? Is ceramic the preferred material? Any advice would be appreciated.
Dealing with casual bullying/racism at work?
I'd appreciate your advice on dealing with what seems to me racist joking/bantering at work -- particularly when it's directed at me. This is my first white-collar job since moving to North America, and I think this kind of "joking around" is unacceptable but this office's culture seems to tolerate it. [more inside]
posted by papafrita at 6:23 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by papafrita at 6:23 PM PST - 32 comments
Looking for a good online TV guide
As of not very long ago we have an expensive cable TV subscription and a little time to watch it, but no patience for lowest-common-denominator entertainment (we're in the US). Is there a website or even blog that can give us the lowdown on the week's and day's programming that is worth watching? We're interested in smart, thought-provoking documentaries, news-programmes and critically acclaimed movies/TV shows, especially independent and foreign ones.
Is it normal to feel nauseated while riding the metro?
Is it normal to feel nauseated while riding the metro? [more inside]
How to automate 4 different web searches for the same query?
I'm learning a language (Hungarian) and I look up new words in a bunch of websites (2 dictionaries, Google images inside of Google Translate, Forvo.com). In general, I just copy and paste each word into the URLs, but there must be some way of clicking a button and searching all four websites at once. Is there? [more inside]
posted by sdis at 4:47 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by sdis at 4:47 PM PST - 5 comments
How do you find a sane and compatible housemate from Craigslist?
I've been offered first dibs on renting a super nice house. Unfortunately I need to find at least 1 and ideally 2 people to rent it with me. Just asking around my network if they know anyone hasn't worked out. I'm pretty sure Craigslist is the next best option...what should put in my post, and ask potential people in person, to weed out the crazies? [more inside]
Figuring out guidelines for friends with benefits situation
I am starting a casual relationship/FWB situation. Previously, I'd only had sex in a relationship or a one night stand. What should I be thinking about ahead of time? What are some guidelines/general expectations that you've used in this situation? [more inside]
OMG babies are kind of boring
How do I entertain my 3-month-old without dying of tedium myself? [more inside]
posted by forza at 4:12 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by forza at 4:12 PM PST - 43 comments
Why replace the foam on speakers?
I have an old (30+ years) pair of speakers, and the foam rubber surrounding the woofers is cracking and falling off. Numerous DIY websites explain how to replace this foam, but none seem to answer the most important question: why would you bother doing this? The speakers still make sound. [more inside]
posted by wondercow at 3:55 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by wondercow at 3:55 PM PST - 3 comments
Help me fix my unsightly roots fast!
I waited too long and now my roots are coming out. I really ought to fix this tonight. I was wondering if anyone has used the root touch up product and how your results were? Also, do I really need to do a test 48 hours ahead? I've used various hair colors with no ill effects (I have no tattoos). I had a salon job, brown with highlights and cannot go there this week.
Rain booties for friend's enormous feet and platform pedals
My roommate bikes about 4 miles to work. His feet are size 13 and he uses platform (flat) pedals. He wears pretty chunky shoes. We live in Portland, OR. For HolidayGiftingTime I bought him some Sugoi Resistor booties, but within a month they have shredded and ripped to the point of uselessness. What are some other options for the large-footed, shreddy-pedaled biker? Are there any booties specifically for platform pedals? [more inside]
posted by MonsieurBon at 3:36 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by MonsieurBon at 3:36 PM PST - 5 comments
My chest doesn't get along with hair.
I'm moderately hairy in a male eastern European sort of way. I have a thin cover of fine, straight, black hair on my chest. My skin is sensitive, and pretty much at all times I have 2-3 irritated spots. [more inside]
RSS reader that sends emails
I've used some RSS readers in the past (Google Reader, Feedburner, etc.) but haven't in many years, so I'm unsure of what's out there and what will do what I want. It's pretty simple - I'd like to receive daily emails with the full text of every blog post in the blogs I subscribe to. Ideally it will be a clean, easy-to-read email, and iPhone friendly. Thanks for the help.
Another exciting round of NAME. THAT. DOG!
NAME. THIS. DOG! [more inside]
Goruck Training...Scared & Out of shape.Help!
So, my buddy signed me up for a GoRuck Challenge in May. So, my predicament is that im about 25 pounds overweight, can jog at best a total of 10 minutes, and im not that muscular (Can do about 15 pushups and no pullups). Im 38 and dont have the $$ to join a gym or crossfit. Can someone help me with putting together a workout Monday through Saturday to help me get ready for what looks to be the toughest 12-14 hours I will ever go through? Is it possible to get into incredible shape in 3 months? Is this GORuck possible for me, I dont want to chicken out but am I reaching to far here?
Trying to identify a book for a friend
Help me identify this book? Hardback, with illustrations of towns & shops; lots of detail, kind of cartoony, escalators & stairs crossing. 1960s/70s? Know it's not much to go on, but it's all he gave me. Have at it guys.
11 y.o. girl loves Dr. Who and Hobbit -- friends make fun -- help?
I know this question sounds like a very special episode of some teen show, but I really would appreciate some advice on dealing with this issue from those who have been there. [more inside]
Look.... at... me....
Sometimes when I am in a three-person conversation the other two people make lots of eye contact but I am excluded. I hate this so much! Am I doing something wrong? How do I make them include me? [more inside]
HMTL tables
I'd like to make attractive html tables (and various kinds of graphs, charts, etc) for a wordpress blog, but I don't think like a programmer. Is there a program where I can manipulate the design elements like pictures instead of code? And then plug the information into the table cells and grab the code when it all looks like what I want?
Russia and the Color Yellow
What does the Russian mind associate with the color yellow? [more inside]
posted by slowlikemolasses at 2:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by slowlikemolasses at 2:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for snappy come-backs for a recurring joke
Every time I go to my boyfriend's parents place for dinner, his dad teases me about how much (or how little) I eat. He likes me and he's just joking around....so help me come up with some good comebacks! [more inside]
The Cumberland cannot WHAT?!
Does anyone know exactly what Johnny Cash sings about "the Cumberland...." in his song "Southern Comfort"? [more inside]
posted by mister_kaupungister at 2:02 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by mister_kaupungister at 2:02 PM PST - 21 comments
Vino, por favor.
I'm in Buenos Aires, Argentina. It is just lovely. But where can I buy wine? [more inside]
posted by cheerwine at 1:52 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by cheerwine at 1:52 PM PST - 6 comments
I want my virgin hair back!
Hi all! This is yet another hair question. Within the last year, my hair has had a number of transformations. Right now, it's relatively short. I'd like to grow my hair out back to its virgin state. I'm looking for some tips, in particular, I'm looking for dye suggestions. [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 1:41 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 1:41 PM PST - 11 comments
What are the specific requirements for ordination Utah?
There are plenty of websites that ordain laypersons as ministers, but we want to a.) Find a legitimate ordination website, and b.) make sure that we can do this in Utah in Grand County. We would like a relative to marry us and she is not currently ordained. [more inside]
posted by luciddream928 at 1:20 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by luciddream928 at 1:20 PM PST - 9 comments
What vegetables should I grow in my chilly room?
Inspired by onions sprouting in my cupboard, I'd love to plant some veggies inside. I have and area about 4'x2' to plant, in front of a south facing window that gets plenty of sun. But my house isn't very warm. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by Grandysaur at 1:15 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Grandysaur at 1:15 PM PST - 8 comments
Tracking down stolen guns
About 30 years ago my dad had a large gun collection (about 100 total). They were stolen and only about 10 of them were ever recovered. He had a list of models and serial numbers that he sent to local law enforcement. I still have that list. is there any chance of recovering more of the guns? How would I go about that?
posted by DaddyNewt at 12:25 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by DaddyNewt at 12:25 PM PST - 4 comments
Can you explain the basics of art licensing to me?
Someone contacted me about using an image (an inked line drawing, which was part of a series of process scans of a more completed and colored, image), they found on my blog. She would like to use this particular image largely as-is in her new business cards. She also wants to know how much I would charge to create a logo for her new business based on the line drawing. [more inside]
posted by Glinn at 12:10 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Glinn at 12:10 PM PST - 4 comments
A Model AskMetafilter Post
When did people stop using the term "model minority"? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 11:27 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 11:27 AM PST - 27 comments
Global Warming game
Has anyone created a game - RPG, Computer, tabletop etc - that uses Global Warming as its basis? [more inside]
posted by stbalbach at 11:19 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by stbalbach at 11:19 AM PST - 10 comments
Oh, by the way, this is my two week notice!
Is it proper etiquette to turn in a resignation notice in-hand? Also, I have a great manager and have a few questions about that. [more inside]
posted by signondiego at 11:17 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by signondiego at 11:17 AM PST - 13 comments
What are you best and worst experiences with a Director?
I'm a writer who has two one-act plays on in a theatre. I am also directing them but this will be my first time working as a director. What do you think makes a good director? What positive and negative experiences have you have and what could I do to make this go brilliantly? [more inside]
posted by Nufkin at 10:49 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Nufkin at 10:49 AM PST - 10 comments
Inspiration, Strike me!
I love to stop and draw when I take walks in New York. I'm inspired by architectural details and monumental perspective, contrasts of space and light. Usually I wander aimlessly until I find an interesting spot to sit with my sketchbook, but that's a bit tougher when it's 20 degrees outside. I'm in the process of setting up weekly sketching adventures with a novice artist friend, and I feel there should be some planning involved. Help me compile a list of potentially inspiring places we can sit and sketch in the city without our fingers freezing off. [more inside]
Atkins/low-carb diet as a vegetarian without eating soy protein?
I am looking for ideas on how to achieve an Atkins/low-carb diet without meat, soy, fish or eggs. Possible? [more inside]
Help me find a ring like this?
I was watching a movie a few weeks ago and saw a ring that I need to have. My normally masterful googling skills have failed me. It doesn't have to be exactly the ring pictured (for example, the circle could be smaller, it could be gold-tone, the circle itself could instead be square or rectangular or octagonal) but I want that thing strapped to my finger ASAP.
I've searched etsy and this is the closest I've found but the leather bit is too wide for my liking. I have contacted a couple sellers on etsy whose stores include leather-based accessories and inquired about commissioning my dream ring but I have received no replies as yet.
It's times like these that make me real sad that etsy alchemy doesn't exist anymore.
posted by likeplus at 10:13 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by likeplus at 10:13 AM PST - 7 comments
Toilet flooded--is there anything I can do about it while I wait?
Maybe I should just bail out some water from the tank or something? Better explanation below. [more inside]
How to react to my girlfriend going back to her parent's every weekend?
So, my girlfriend is in her early 30s, as am I. We've been dating for almost a year; we're moving in together and it's overall great - but I'm starting to get irked that she leaves almost every saturday morning, and comes back almost every sunday night, to go to her parents who live in another state. I love her; and this is a silly problem; I don't want to make it one, but I'm at a loss on how to react...
Friends, money and jealousy.
I have a few new couple acquaintances that are on their way to becoming friends. Here's the trouble. As I get to know them more, i realize that there is a common thread about most of them. They are all quite pre-occupied with "how do i make more money" in life. [more inside]
posted by gadget_gal at 9:48 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by gadget_gal at 9:48 AM PST - 11 comments
Tips and Recommendations for visiting the Pantanal
I'm planning to visit the Pantanal wetlands later this year. Do you have any tips or recommendations for activities and tour companies? [more inside]
How best to shrink a cashmere sweater?
Spouse has a couple of 100% cashmere sweaters that are a little baggy on him all over--arms too long, too wide in torso, etc. As they are now, he won't wear them, which just seems to be a crime. They are so soft and wonderful! So, I want to try and shrink them. Any tips for how best to accomplish this? Wash in cold water, put in dryer on medium heat? Wash in warm or hot water, then dry flat? Please advise... [more inside]
Dormant herpes - when to disclose?
Hey guys,
I'm 28 and I have the HSV-1. One outbreak a year or less, got from my mom, etc.
Question: when should I disclose this to my partners, considering there's no outbreak? Options I see are: before kissing, before sex, before oral sex, and before engaging a relationship.
Knowing about asymptomatic transmission and how most of the population have it I usually don't make a big deal out of this, but I realize different people have different standards, and that culture has some relevance when it comes to this (I'm originally from another country, where I suspect herpes is less of a big deal than in the USA).
Anyways - trying to figure out the correct approach here, thanks!
Keys made for re-keyed lock have only minimal teeth. Is this ok?
I bought a used car & didn't feel ok about someone with a key being able to open or start it, so I had a locksmith re-key the locks. But the keys he made have absurdly tiny teeth. Why so small? Does this mean that a sufficiently filed down, entirely toothless key would also open it now?
Expanding my horizons via Twitter
I recently discovered Commander Chris Hadfield's excellent Twitter stream, and would love suggestions for other great "tweeters" that I am currently missing out on. [more inside]
What Android remotes work with Itunes 11?
I've checked a couple different apps, and I can't find an Android remote that works with Itunes 11. Is there one? [more inside]
posted by garlic at 8:02 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by garlic at 8:02 AM PST - 2 comments
Mops that use normal Clorox Wipes
Can I buy or customize a mop that can use standard Clorox Wipes or their generic equivalent? The standard wipes seem to clean my hardwood floors better than the made-for-mop wipes. Plus, I always have standard wipes around.
posted by n81acc at 7:58 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by n81acc at 7:58 AM PST - 3 comments
Where can I find the soundtrack to the King of Devil's Island?
I would like to acquire to soundtrack for the film King of Devil's Island? I am having difficulty doing so. I am fine with purchase or otherwise. I have scoured and came up empty. Any suggestions, oh Metafites?
posted by J0 at 7:37 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by J0 at 7:37 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me figure out how to keep working out during my upcoming NYC trip!
Before the holidays I started a new strength training regimen and I've been really consistent so far. I really, really want to keep it up during an upcoming trip to NYC in February. I haven't had much luck searching for gyms with single-visit fees or similar. Can anyone offer advice / help? [more inside]
posted by sixswitch at 5:51 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by sixswitch at 5:51 AM PST - 13 comments
What did I just watch my cat do?
Why did my cat just fall over onto her side during Standard Hairball Procedure? [more inside]
posted by Theophylactic at 4:37 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Theophylactic at 4:37 AM PST - 14 comments
End-to-end nutrition book
I would like to finally find a routine I can follow to eat healthy during the week and I am looking for book recommendations. Unfortunately, most nutrition/cooking books are very one-sided (only contain recipes, only discuss cooking skills, or only nutrition theory) and very biased towards some radical approach (vegatarian/vegan, very low-carb, very high-protein etc.). I am looking for the opposite - ideally a single book for learning about nutrition, cooking and planning your groceries and cooking so all the good advice is actually actionable considering having a 40-hour workweek; also without going into any dietetic extremes and based on sound science and actual practice. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by jarekr at 3:17 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by jarekr at 3:17 AM PST - 17 comments
The Gift of (Irrational) Fear
How do you quell irrational fears? And how do you know whether it's irrational or trying to tell you something more? [more inside]
posted by ichomp at 12:56 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by ichomp at 12:56 AM PST - 13 comments
Why doesn't command+click work correctly on Pinterest?
Stop taking me to new tabs! Pinterest, why are you the only site that overrides my Firefox preferences? [more inside]
posted by Charity Garfein at 12:21 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Charity Garfein at 12:21 AM PST - 6 comments
January 26
How to break into a CNC Machinist's position?
My Step-Daughter's Father graduated in December from a technical school in Tacoma with an associate's degree in CNC machining. He learned the lathes, multi-head machining, how to build sets and a bunch of other things as well. He also learned some of the software (Solid Works I think, and another one as well) and some of the other programming aspects of CNC milling. He's learned a ton and it would seem to me that someplace would find his knowledge valuable. [more inside]
As long as it doesn't have eye of newt.
What are your best broth recipes? [more inside]
iTunes to Android
How do I transfer my iTunes library from my desktop iMac to my Samsung Galaxy tablet?
It's alive!
I ate some sort of multi-layered, rainbow Jell-O-like snack once. What was it? Where can I find it in Boston or NYC? [more inside]
posted by topoisomerase at 9:50 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by topoisomerase at 9:50 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me find this site with Colorado map prints
I got lost on the internet and found a small business selling great-looking US map prints for under $30. I think they were CO-based, but I've lost the website! [more inside]
Did Google change its search conventions in recent months?
Another frustrated poster asked here about changes to Google search terms but it just adds to my confusion as it's precisely the recommended quotation marks that no longer work. I'm trying to find the obit. of my husband's favorite teacher, for example. I search for "Betty Goodrich" with the school and city in their own quotes and get a hundred hits for every other woman's name before Goodrich in every area but the one we're seeking. Used to be you could count on boolean search terms. What gives?
posted by R2WeTwo at 9:06 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 9:06 PM PST - 17 comments
Android car audio via USB
I want to buy an aftermarket car stereo that supports streaming audio over a USB connection. I want the audio to be streamed over USB so that I can play audio from Pandora and Google Navigation through the car stereo. [more inside]
posted by zixyer at 7:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by zixyer at 7:38 PM PST - 12 comments
What is this perpetual bruise-like pain on my shin?
This is an issue that I've been aware of for years, but have never investigated it with a doctor because it usually only hurts when I put pressure in one particular spot. (Hey, doc, it hurts when I do this...)
The spot is 3-5 inches above my ankle, along the very edge of my shin bone on the inside of my left leg. It's very tender, hurts quite a bit if that one spot is knocked or if I push on it. There's no bruise visible on the skin. [more inside]
posted by Trespassers William at 6:52 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Trespassers William at 6:52 PM PST - 16 comments
Is it possible to track the history of someone's fortune over centuries?
Let's say someone (anyone) made a fortune in the early 18th century - would it be possible to track their fortune over time to see where it is in the present day? I can imagine this being relatively simple if the money just stayed in the family, but what if you wanted to track the fortunes made during something like the Gold Rush?
What to think of a person promoting their book in a dishonest way?
I caught someone I knew promoting their book in a dishonest way. How to react? [more inside]
"Safe" is so relative.
Best statistical resources for comparing crime by neighborhoods? [more inside]
posted by ohsnapdragon at 4:54 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by ohsnapdragon at 4:54 PM PST - 9 comments
How to become an education tech person
What can I do to get started on my dream of creating a website that provides the tools that I believe should already exist for teachers? [more inside]
Diodes, transistors, resistors, oh my!
What are the best resources and references for a novice interested in modern electrical engineering? [more inside]
Pinning Excel docs to the taskbar doesn't work with Office upgrade
So I upgraded from Microsoft Office Starter 2010 to Microsoft Office 2010. I uninstalled the Office Starter program. Then things went wrong. Please help! [more inside]
Housecleaning in Beaverton
I need someone I can pay to come clean my apartment once a month, in Beaverton OR. Anyone have a recommendation? [more inside]
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 4:07 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 4:07 PM PST - 4 comments
Finally won a battle--help me win the war (against acne).
Washing my skin with just water has gotten rid of 90% of my acne. How can I get rid of the remaining 10%? [more inside]
Help me identify this bee-friendly tree
This tree is taller than our single-story house, has soft brown branches, grows long, skinny, pointy leaves in groups of three, produces bunches of tiny yellow flowers, and is full of bees. It grows very fast. The flowers and leaves don't seem to smell like anything in particular.
We're in Los Angeles. The leaves are green year-round, and the tree needs no watering.
Here's a pair of photos of the tree and a branch tip. Here's a close up of the flowers. And here's a close up of the underside of the leaves. What is it?
posted by smoq at 3:40 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by smoq at 3:40 PM PST - 17 comments
Dunes. Picnic. Italian. What film is this?
From these scant details, can you tell me what Italian short film from the 50s/60s I saw? [more inside]
posted by run"monty at 3:08 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by run"monty at 3:08 PM PST - 2 comments
What can you tell me about my head?
My partner's Grandma recently passed away, and my partner kept this brass head that she owned as a memento, because he'd always been drawn to it as a kid. Can you tell us anything about it? Pics inside! [more inside]
Football Camp for Amputee?
My sister would like to send my nephew to a football camp that will specifically aid him with developing his game with his new prosthetic. You can read more about my nephew here: Former question about Koni. I've found some amputee camps, but they either focus on soccer, or various outdoor activities, not specifically football.
Koni's fundraisers were very successful, and he will have the funds for travel, etc. if needed, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
Sincere thanks,
Jayed
Learning PHP from scratch.
So more and more I'm working with PHP. I can hack my way through most tasks using logic and reference material but I think it might be time to build a better base of understanding. [more inside]
posted by humboldt32 at 1:54 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by humboldt32 at 1:54 PM PST - 11 comments
Good reason to ask HR for my net paycheck amount?
I'm starting a new job and probably won't get a paycheck for 3 weeks. I can't stand waiting that long to find out what my paycheck amount will be after deductions, but I don't want to seem greedy and weird asking HR for that information. What's a good reason I could give them for needing to know my net biweekly earnings? [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 1:23 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by kitcat at 1:23 PM PST - 19 comments
ITIL study resources?
I need to start working on ITIL certification for my job but the official books are really expensive! Do you have any books or other resources you would recommend?
My first preference is books because I learn best by reading and taking notes. I'm not really interested in the online course and exam bundles because my company will pay for the exam, but if there is an online course that is really good, let me know.
After the Foundation certification, I would probably look to work on the Service Lifecycle modules for the Intermediate Level. Are there any good book series that start with Foundation and then continue on?
Need to sleep, would prefer to wake up
It's 'Is this a stupid idea?' time! Is it a stupid idea to take an ambien at night (~ midnight) if I have had a few drinks in the early evening (~ 7pm)? [more inside]
posted by scarylarry at 1:16 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by scarylarry at 1:16 PM PST - 12 comments
Sick kitty, low on cash.
My cat is sick. I have next to no money. Is there a really-truly-worth it pet insurance company you recommend? Or is there a place I can apply for financial assistance? [more inside]
How do I use the word 'redeem'?
I am writing copy for a loyalty program that has the usual 'earn points and redeem them for rewards' message.
However, I'm getting confused about how to use the word redeem.
Is it better/right to say 'redeem points for products such as laptops', or redeem points on products such as laptops' or 'redeem points against products such as laptops'?
I am also considering suggesting we use the word 'spend' instead. It's a simpler and older word, and less tricksy to use.
Would that be better? Any thoughts?
Frozen lysine supplements
So I left my lysine supplements in the car overnight, and the temperature dropped below freezing. Did I screw them up? Can I still take them? Sigh. [more inside]
posted by Coatlicue at 1:08 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Coatlicue at 1:08 PM PST - 6 comments
Sing, Sing a Song, Keep it Simple
Will we know the words? [more inside]
Macs stick around. What about other laptops?
I would like to save up for a new laptop. My current laptop is an original (2006) black MacBook. Should I save up for a new/refurb MacBook [Pro/Air], or are there less expensive but high-quality PC laptops out there? [more inside]
posted by WasabiFlux at 12:36 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by WasabiFlux at 12:36 PM PST - 13 comments
Best unexpected uses for laundry machine?
What are some of the most useful, unusual, time-saving, unexpected, and/or awesome things that are (safely) laundry-machine-washable? [more inside]
Take your drum and beat it... uh, clean it.
I am encountering unexpected difficulties cleaning a kit of PDP drums. I've owned several sets of drums from different manufacturers over the years, but this one is hands-down the biggest pain in the tail to clean. [more inside]
posted by Guy_Inamonkeysuit at 11:54 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Guy_Inamonkeysuit at 11:54 AM PST - 3 comments
Sewing, fabrics and craft stores in Berlin?
I'm looking for fabrics and sewing notions in Berlin. Large selection of fabrics, especially home decor would be great. Google is not helping me.
Catfilter: Cat is urpy, vet is closed, how worried should I be?
My darling dearest kitteh is 5 years old, and seems to have some kind of stomach issue. Our vet is closed til Monday, so in the meantime
-Is this a potential emergency?
-If not, how can I help her poor little belly?
Slightly gross details below. [more inside]
posted by like_a_friend at 11:19 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by like_a_friend at 11:19 AM PST - 14 comments
Streaming Video A No Go
When I stream video from almost any source, it gobbles up 100 percent of my CPU usage and becomes choppy and unwatchable. I've tried every trick in the book. Any suggestions? [more inside]
How to arrange family vacation with adult siblings but without parents?
My sister (married, one child) and I (married, no kids) want to plan a joint family vacation. We do not want our parents (divorced, both remarried) to come. Our mom is extremely sensitive/dramatic, and we are hoping to avoid a major meltdown from her. Help? [more inside]
What do I need to know about getting a colon resection?
I've put it off until it can't be put off anymore, and now, due to diverticulitis/diverticulosis, I need to have my colon resectioned. Will you please tell me things you wish you knew before you or your loved ones did the surgery? [more inside]
Single iTunes Library and 2 Macs
I need a solution to share a single iTunes library with two machines. Possibly. [more inside]
posted by terrapin at 11:14 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by terrapin at 11:14 AM PST - 7 comments
Opposite speech
Trying to find a reference about a type of conversation where what ever you say the other person will have an opposing statement, not because they disagree but because they say something "anti" in every case. "Confrontational conversation" maybe??
Our cat hates everything. Help us make him happy.
Our year-and-a-half old cat hates being touched. He's incredibly aggressive towards anyone except me and my wife (and sometimes towards us too). We've yet to find a toy that holds his attention. What would make him happy? [more inside]
posted by and so but then, we at 10:46 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by and so but then, we at 10:46 AM PST - 42 comments
Help me identify a much-loved, long lost, Duke Ellington LP record!
I am trying to find a vinyl LP 33rpm record I owned second hand in the UK in the late 1980s. I remember it being called something like "Ellington in England" or "The English Ellington", but I might be wrong! at any rate, it featured tracks from Duke Ellington's 1930s tour of England, and one of the tracks was "Ain't Misbehavin'" - a vocal, not an instrumental, version. The record I remember was most probably released in the 1970s, but could conceivably have been 1960s.
Various extensive web searches and some decent Ellington discographies have come up blank. I'm not wrong am I? I'm not remembering something that never existed? Help me, Mefite Ellingtonians!
posted by pyotrstolypin at 10:26 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by pyotrstolypin at 10:26 AM PST - 6 comments
Can you explain to me this shadow-line phenomenon in a photo?
I feel like I understand a thing or two about light, but I can't figure out how/why this particular phenomenon happens. This photo I took shows a shadow line cast by my bank (on the right) that seems to just hang in the air. [more inside]
posted by heyho at 10:16 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by heyho at 10:16 AM PST - 16 comments
Cafés in Alexandria, VA where I can hang out and read/write?
Sometimes I just want to get out of the house and read/write by myself with a cup of tea for an hour or three. Where are some cafés in or near Alexandria, Virginia where I can do that without getting nudged to leave? [more inside]
posted by capricorn at 10:02 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by capricorn at 10:02 AM PST - 6 comments
This cowardly lion wants to GRRL up
I'm in a difficult life situation, in addition to which I am having some problems with ADHD, depression and anxiety. I'm insecure to the point that I cannot accurately assess my situation, and frozen with fear. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 9:56 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by bunderful at 9:56 AM PST - 16 comments
One ticket to anywhere out of my comfort zone please!
Apparently everything I want in life is just outside my comfort zone but the problem is that it's just so.........comfortable in here. Please share your tips, strategies and resources for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. [more inside]
Learning Cantonese in Toronto?
Canto-filter: Where in downtown Toronto/ U of T area can I find semi-structured Cantonese classes for a total beginner that starts some time in the near future? I often see signs in China town for language classes, but they seem really disorganized. Can you recommend good ones? Alternatively, I am willing to work with a tutor, but how do I make sure they are good? [more inside]
Have you converted to a clover lawn?
We're starting a new backyard from scratch in the spring (new home with only dirt). We want a backyard that is compatible with our dog, and a toddler. [more inside]
PC Troubleshooting Help Please?
My son's PC, a dual boot Ubuntu / Win 7 box that I built myself about 3 years ago will not boot. It was working fine last night. When you power up the CPU fan runs for less than a second then shuts down and nothing else happens. The motherboard LED does stay lit, so there is some power getting to the board. Am I correct in guessing that replacing the power supply is my most likely route to a fix?
Help me write beautiful letters.
Rather than rely on our usual email correspondence, I would like to write some letters by hand to someone very important to me who lives very far away. [more inside]
posted by Callicvol at 8:30 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Callicvol at 8:30 AM PST - 5 comments
Reading More on the Quiet Revolution
I want to read more about the cultural history of Quebec's Quiet Revolution, a short period in which suddenly the people of the province became more secularized and the pace of life revolved less and less around their traditional Catholic faith. What are some good papers and books about this? [more inside]
How can I clone an XP drive and install that on a Windows 7 system?
I have two laptops, an old XP machine with a dying power supply, and a new Windows 7 machine that could easily store the old XP harddrive. Can I clone the XP drive and make a dual boot system on the Windows 7 machine?
English speaking person in Paris (France)
Things to do as an international living in Paris. [more inside]
I'm just a gal who caint say "No" - I'm in a terribul fix
Sex and social life is all screwy. FWB, hookups, extreme libido - need help! [more inside]
How to I deal with a co-worker that I don’t trust
Finding it hard to trust a colleague who I know has told lies and who I’m worried is trying to undermine me. [more inside]
posted by Flowerpower at 7:50 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by Flowerpower at 7:50 AM PST - 25 comments
Kyuss, We Are Scientists, Bravery, Pixies, Doors- I need similar music!
Could anyone recommend me some bands/tracks with similar(ly interesting) guitar/production?
Or alternatively, if anybody knows the influences of these bands? [more inside]
Fresh lobster, frozen, now what?
I was just gifted a fresh Caribbean lobster caught by my friend. It was put into the freezer. Now what do I do? It's whole and rather large. I've never prepared anything like this, and googling recipes isn't helping - half say I should thaw it first, half say I should stick the whole thing in boiling water. [more inside]
posted by Alpenglow at 7:38 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Alpenglow at 7:38 AM PST - 4 comments
Why isn't my husband interested in what I do?
I'm a writer married to a jazz musician. I always hoped I'd end up in this sort of arty, creative marriage. But there's a problem that is becoming overwhelming. In spite of fully expecting me to experience and support his art, my husband never, ever, reads anything I write. Not a two-page story or a blog post much less anything longer. He says he feels awful about never getting around to it (and I've made it clear it's fine if he hates it—I just want him to be willing to check it out) and he seems to be sincere... But he still doesn't read it. It really hurts me. [more inside]
Am I cut out for volunteering abroad?
I have a golden opportunity to volunteer in rural Nepal for 3 months with an established organisation. I was excited at first as I've never been to a developing country before, but now I'm terrified that I'll die in a bus accident/food poisoning/rabies/political uprising, or just not cope with lack of technology, contact with home, electricity etc. Are such fears normal, or are these signs that I probably wouldn't enjoy this and should consider not going? [more inside]
Lifetime Learning Credit or Similar?
YANMA. I am working full-time and taking part-time classes at the same University where I work. They provide a full tuition waiver and just require me to pay taxes on the amount over $5250, as required by the IRS. These taxes are taken out of my paycheck over 4 months. Can I claim this amount somehow when I file my taxes?
Help me find a hulking French-English dictionary
I'm looking for the biggest, most complete French-English dictionary available in one volume. I'm aware of Le Petit Robert, but I need French-English, not French-French. The biggest I've found so far is the Collins-Robert, but that can't be the biggest. [more inside]
Help keep me warm, mkay?
My electric heat pump is icing over something fierce, and the technicians don't really have a clue what's going on. There is one theory I'd like you to comment on, and if it makes no sense, I'd appreciate alternate theories. [more inside]
How to occupy little one in car trips?
One year old is very inquisitive and very active. I need to drive twice a week with a one hour duration each way. With a dislike of being in the car (or just being confined), little one has figured out how to undo the seat belts. Without getting new car seats, are there any good mobile toys or anything to keep this mind (and hands) happy? Stores are full of colourful toys which last all of 2 minutes. Was contemplating something along the lines of an easier version of rubik's cube. Open to all suggestions. Thank you.
(Also welcome suggestions for iPad apps - preferably ones that require some thinking rather than just play music.)
How can I make my cat less annoying?
My five year old, tough outdoorsy cat has developed a really irritating behaviour- every time I go into the kitchen he begs for food- even if his bowl is full up...any better advice than kicking him? [more inside]
Learning to live with change
Tumblr has changed and I'm having trouble finding the picture uploading functionality I was used to. Can anyone help? [more inside]
posted by jonathanbell at 3:02 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by jonathanbell at 3:02 AM PST - 2 comments
ID this plant?
Asking for a friend; please help ID this particular bit of shrubbery.
How can I use reference class forecasting at work?
My office delivers projects - about thirty a year, about four months each, give or take a few weeks if they go well. They're always late, but when planning the next project, we use the same optimistic assumptions. I think reference class forecasting (RCF) could help. Any pointers for (or links to a crash course in) using RCF to turn a spreadsheet full of historical start / end dates and milestones into more accurate forecasts? Or is this something best left to a math geek?
demissionization
Help me have fun in San Francisco but not get stuck in the Mission! What's your favorite spot? [more inside]
posted by cosmologinaut at 1:37 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by cosmologinaut at 1:37 AM PST - 6 comments
Fallacies and Errors in Inferential Statistics
I have recently been introduced to the concept of pseudoreplication as a mistake that people often make when using inferential statistics to evaluate treatment outcomes. My field (evolutionary and conservation biology) makes heavy use of inferential statistics, including techniques that are vulnerable to pseudoreplication, yet nowhere in my formal education have I been taught about how poor experimental design and lack of statistical rigor can lead to fallacies like this. My personal statistical proficiency is poor, but I am working to remedy that. To that end, could folks help me by identifying and ideally explaining whatever other potential pitfalls you can think of, and explaining how they can be avoided through careful experimental design and data-analysis?
January 25
What should I do about a scabbed over cold sore?
Metafilter has a lot of good advice about cold sore prevention (previously). What I need is advice on what to do in the middle of a full scale outbreak with a cold sore that has developed an impenetrable scab. Past experience leads me to worry that a new sore will form as soon as the scab falls off, a cycle that can go on for well over a month. Am I doing something wrong? Disgusting personal details inside. [more inside]
How do I take the best care of my favorite leather jacket?
A couple of years ago I found the best black leather jacket ever, and I diligently applied some sort of waterproofing/leather protectant spray every few months for the first year. It's been pretty well-loved since then, and is starting to show slight signs of wear--nothing major, but enough so that I don't want it to get worse. How can I restore it to its former glory and keep it protected so I don't have to think about buying another one for many years? [more inside]
gimme shellter
Is eating peanut shells on a regular basis a bad idea? [more inside]
Getting good electronic dance music in Vancouver, BC
Where does a thirty-something resident of Vancouver go for electronic dance music? [more inside]
For a traveller, where is the fastest internet in Seattle?
I will be heading to Seattle and I have about 20 GB of videos I need to upload while I'm there. Is there anywhere in the Seattle area that is accessible to the public with fast internet? Or even something like a co-working space available at a modest price?
Induction v/s Cesarean- Pre-Eclampsia at 40 weeks
I have been diagnosed with the dreaded pre-eclamsia. Good news is that we are 40 weeks! Bad news- my cervix didn't get the memo. I am being induced on Monday. Given my 'unfavorable' cervix, should I ask for a c-section or go ahead with the induction. We had originally planned a natural water birth at a birthing center, but all of that is out the window now. I just want the least stressful situation for the baby (and me). [more inside]
Diplomatic correction of "official" version of events--how?
I am going to be present at a meeting in which a group of us will be asked to make a decision based on a document with misleading information in it. I would like some advice on how to present the correct version of events without being insubordinate or seeming to call my higher-ups liars. [more inside]
Bourbon in Scotland
I'm heading to Scotland in a few months and I'd like to give my host, who's a fan of Scotch (or just whisky, there) a gift of good American Bourbon. My criteria are that it's a very good bourbon, and that it's a bourbon that he couldn't get there in Scotland. I don't know anything about bourbon, though. Want to help me out? [more inside]
posted by perrce at 7:12 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by perrce at 7:12 PM PST - 17 comments
How can I be supportive to a friend under these weird circumstances?
I'm a woman, my friend is a guy, both 30-something. We work together, and recently started having music jam sessions that have gone really well. He's been contacting me a lot, and we've opened up to each other about stuff. It's all been platonic. [more inside]
I lik ur profile
How do I get a fair size (100+ messages) corpus of first-contact messages on dating sites? [more inside]
Are kittens like babies or cats?
Should kittens be chubby, like human babies, or lean, like adult cats? [more inside]
Help: what SNL skit is my girlfriend talking about?
She is thinking of a skit that's she is pretty sure was on SNL (or maybe another show, like Mad TV) before 2000. The main character was a white guy with mullet-like brown hair who is easily offended. He challenges other guys to fight and acts really cocky, talking smack, but he can't maintain his muscle strength so he starts out trying to punch his opponent in the upper body, but his punches land farther and farther down on the opponent's body until he winds up on the ground. She thinks in one of the skits, he says something like, "Are you calling me a turkey???" He might also call his opponents turkeys. The setting of the skits might be a bar.
posted by reren at 5:50 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by reren at 5:50 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me remember this YA book.
I've been trying on and off for years to remember this YA book. Actually, I think it might be a series, but maybe not. Details within. [more inside]
posted by fozzie_bear at 5:27 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by fozzie_bear at 5:27 PM PST - 6 comments
ID Sergey Brin's Sweet Jacket
Sergey Brin was spotted on the subway wearing a really cool jacket. Any ideas where I can get that jacket? [more inside]
posted by gregr at 4:19 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by gregr at 4:19 PM PST - 5 comments
How to organize a group of caregivers to help a terminally ill friend
One of my best friends was just diagnosed with late-stage cancer. My friend's going to need a lot of help, and I want to organize people to do it. Have you organized or been part of a caregiving group? I need advice from someone who's been down this road. [more inside]
posted by feets at 4:00 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by feets at 4:00 PM PST - 10 comments
Can you use a custom CSS script in Google Chrome?
I have a custom CSS script in a special directory on my computer, for Firefox to read and parse. See: http://floppymoose.com/ Is there a way to do this in Google Chrome, and if so where is the directory to put the CSS script? [more inside]
posted by jcdill at 2:34 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by jcdill at 2:34 PM PST - 6 comments
Roma æterna
Where can I find some educated speculation about how the Roman Empire might have avoided its decline, and how it might have developed (and affected world history) had the empire not fallen? Would prefer works by historical scholars, but alternative history works would be OK if thoroughly researched and detailed.
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 2:32 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 2:32 PM PST - 19 comments
How do you retrieve a gmail draft that was deleted?
I deleted a gmail draft that I didn't mean to. Is there a way to get it back? Thanks.
How to anonymously and non-creepily help a neighbor?
I don't know my neighbor, but I do know she's going through a rough time. Can I anonymously help her without freaking her out? [more inside]
PXI Atomic clock
Does anybody make a Rubidium Beam Atomic Clock that I can plug into my PXI Chassis to discipline its 10 Mhz clock to approximately 10-10 parts.
I don't want a card that I can put a external 10 Mhz clock into, I simply don't have the space in my system.
Do some fonts render more smoothly than others in MacVim with retina?
Monaco 14pt in MacVim seems to me to look much better on retina than Anonymous Pro 14pt. Why is this? Is it just me? [more inside]
posted by doteatop at 1:19 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by doteatop at 1:19 PM PST - 9 comments
Looking for experiences with EPA Title V permits
We may need to get an EPA Title V operating permit, even though we have no intention of actually emitting any pollutants. Apparently we still need it because of the amount of solvent we use in our processes might exceed 100 tons per year. There is lots of information online about the details - so there's no need to rehash that here. What I'm really looking for is practical experience from folks that have gone through the process or are already operating with the permit. [more inside]
posted by Long Way To Go at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Long Way To Go at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
Dog ate Toll House Cookie dough...what now?
Are raw Toll House cookies deadly to a puppy? [more inside]
17" gaming laptop with 1920x1200 screen
Is anyone still manufacturing high-end laptops with 1920x1200 (not 1920x1080) screens? I'm looking for a luggable/7.5 to 8 pound size, 17" screen laptop, Ivy Bridge based Core i7 CPU with a serious dedicated GPU and 1920x1200 screen. Everything I can find uses 1920x1080. Battery life is not a concern, this would be used in a role like an occasionally relocated, folding desktop PC.
posted by thewalrus at 12:36 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by thewalrus at 12:36 PM PST - 7 comments
Reccomend a novel for my beloved girlfriend.
My girlfriend told me that recently she has become sad and preoccupied with death. She often finds her mind drifting and starts to ruminate about her life stresses and sometimes death. Please reccomend novels to spark a love of reading and hopefully give her a distraction for when these bouts of worry surface. Preferably novels that are fun, with plots to get lost in or carried away with, and not too heavy or serious. [more inside]
posted by Erred at 12:26 PM PST - 52 comments
posted by Erred at 12:26 PM PST - 52 comments
Name that house
What architectural style is this house? Or what style was it originally? It's located in the Midwest and was built in 1941. I've tried this neat tool, but nothing seems to fit. Maybe the place is just a mutt.
posted by scottatdrake at 11:47 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by scottatdrake at 11:47 AM PST - 19 comments
But I don't *want* anyone to recognize it...
How do I prevent OCR on a document (typically a PDF but I could use another document format if necessary)? I know that when I scan it from a hard copy to a PDF I can disable/stop the OCR process, but Adobe allows it to happen on any PDF I scan in, whether OCR was eliminated at scanning or not, and I have to stop that (I have work product I'd like to distribute electronically, but my boss would like to make sure it's not searchable and it's as hard as I can make it to copy).
I can use any software or process within reason.
posted by mrs. taters at 11:44 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by mrs. taters at 11:44 AM PST - 27 comments
Step into my parlor ...
Some time back I either read in a magazine or saw on TV an article about a company that provided their employees with small cottages or sheds as their work space. [more inside]
posted by Allee Katze at 11:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Allee Katze at 11:33 AM PST - 10 comments
Troubleshooting a Too-Long Wash Cycle
We have a Whirlpool Duet washing machine (about 2 years old). The cycle is taking WAY too long to complete. The load that's running now should have been done in an hour and ten minutes, so far it's been an hour and a half and there's still 30 minutes left on the timer. No error codes, and it's doing stuff the entire time - the timer just isn't counting down. What gives? [more inside]
How to index a Youtube channel on a Wordpress blog?
I've just started up a new Wordpress blog, which is all well and good. I've also got a lot of content on Youtube in a channel, quite a bit of videos, as in 200+. Most of that content is not going to be embedded in the blog, but it's useful content that I'd like to be able to index and show to a browser.
When I googled this topic, I found a WP plug-in that seemed to do precisely that, generated an XML sitemap of a Youtube channel and a URL on your blog that you could browse and see the content as thumbnails and synopsis. The plug-in unfortunately is no longer available and the developer is not interested in supporting it. [more inside]
Help me understand a particular mental illness
The short version: chronic paraphrenia. [more inside]
posted by Iosephus at 11:07 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Iosephus at 11:07 AM PST - 6 comments
Name that jar!
What would you call this type of jar? [more inside]
posted by psychostorm at 11:04 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by psychostorm at 11:04 AM PST - 15 comments
Desperately seeking transcendent Montmartre hard candy
14 months ago, I bought a bag of pink hard candies at this lovely boulangerie in the Montmartre. The flavor seems to be burnt sugar-like. They taste like the fanciest cotton candy imaginable. [more inside]
posted by Duffington at 10:53 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Duffington at 10:53 AM PST - 10 comments
Books on the history of photography?
I only really have time to read a single book on the origins of photography. What do you recommend? Think Daguerre and Talbot, no need for hundreds of pages devoted to the camera obscura. I'd also prefer something heavier on text than actual photographs.
How do I forgive?
I am struggling with deciding what the right balance is between forgiving someone even though they have not (and probably will not) acknowledge their wrong thoroughly and ceasing substantial contact with them (which will also make me sad) in order to demand the treatment that I feel I deserve. (snowflake details inside) [more inside]
posted by sb3 at 9:51 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by sb3 at 9:51 AM PST - 42 comments
End of the road...oh no, more road.
How do I stop sabotaging my own plans to leave a badly fitting job? [more inside]
Why is there a wall at this intersection in Chicago?
At what should be the three-way intersection of Paulina St. and W. Rosehill Dr. in western Edgewater in Chicago, there is a cement wall (looking north, looking south) that prevents you from turning from one of these streets onto the other, turning Paulina into a dead end. Why? [more inside]
posted by enn at 9:10 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by enn at 9:10 AM PST - 17 comments
Have you guys had enough 'what to do in NYC' questions?
My whole family is (finally) comine to visit me in NYC in late March. Help me think of things that will amuse my parents and my 20-year-old sister. PS: We are all giant nerds. [more inside]
posted by showbiz_liz at 9:08 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by showbiz_liz at 9:08 AM PST - 17 comments
Significance of Pearl Harbor in U.S. entry to WWII
What if Japan had not attacked Pearl Harbor? [more inside]
posted by mousepad at 8:54 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by mousepad at 8:54 AM PST - 20 comments
NYC - Brooklyn Bridge Swim 2013
Have you participated in the annual Brooklyn Bridge Swim (or other similar NYC SWIM event)? If you or someone close to you has, I have a few questions. [more inside]
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 8:45 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 8:45 AM PST - 9 comments
Tattoo post surgery?
I recently had reconstructive surgery on my leg. How long should I wait before I get a tattoo, or should I ever? [more inside]
posted by bluloo at 8:26 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by bluloo at 8:26 AM PST - 11 comments
Time Machine Hates My G-Drive
My G-Drive is brand new. At first, it worked great as a Time Machine backup disk. Now it won't stay connected and Time Machine is failing. Help! [more inside]
Help me find this advanced text input APP that predicts your next letter
Help me find this advanced text input APP that predicts your next letter [more inside]
Looking for an clock that won't alarm me, aesthetically or acoustically.
I want to buy a new alarm clock radio for my bedside table as the old one keeps gaining four hours or so overnight. However when I look for one, I'm presented with your basic model ugly modern electronics, and I have a Art Nouveau theme going on in my house. Can anyone help me find an alarm clock that will not look so absurdly out of place sitting next to my brass lampshade with the stained glass shade? I know there are brass alarm clocks, which would work aesthetically, but I can't bear to be woken up by an alarm, so while I don't have to have a radio alarm clock I do need an alarm that won't make me hurl the clock across the room, such as something musical. I also want to be able to see the time in the dark. And no I don't have a watch with an alarm or a cellphone, and I'm not interested in getting either. Ideas?
How to organize a team creating ONE app with two distinct users groups
The product will target two completely different groups of users, with different deadlines. Should we be separate teams or one team? What other applications are there that does something similar and how are they managed? [more inside]
posted by tedunni at 7:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tedunni at 7:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Should I buy this darbuka?
I found a used darbuka on craigslist (yay!) and have been wanting to pick up a hand drum for a while. It's 12" wide and 18" tall according to the ad, and the current owner says he thinks it is made out of aluminum. It has a sticker on it that says "World Beat Percussion" out of Pakistan, and he wants $65 for it, which I can afford. How can I know whether this a good drum at a good price? What am I looking for? [more inside]
posted by gauche at 7:04 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by gauche at 7:04 AM PST - 9 comments
Give me ammo for the next sexist conversation
I work with a group of colleagues that I get along well with, mainly male. However, certain subjects come up, my Sexism Klaxon starts going off... but any comments I make always get batted down with "chill out we're only joking" or something similar. Can you give me tips to not always come out of these conversations either seething with frustration or feeling like the Grand Ruiner Of Conversations? [more inside]
posted by greenish at 6:40 AM PST - 91 comments
posted by greenish at 6:40 AM PST - 91 comments
Statistics on Obama's campaign
Where can I find reliable data quickly about Obama's re-election campaign? Things like:
- How many volunteers
- How many door-to-door contacts or telephone calls made by volunteers
- How much money got raised through the website
Thanks!
posted by Omnomnom at 6:30 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Omnomnom at 6:30 AM PST - 5 comments
Can't find pictures of army that reveal progressively more information
I want to use this image for a critical thinking exercise in my classroom. I once saw a series of images that depict, what I remember to be a series of images that reveal more information as the frame pans backwards. But I can no longer find it. [more inside]
posted by swimbikerun at 6:28 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by swimbikerun at 6:28 AM PST - 8 comments
Why is WORD inserting a whole new line when I type an apostrophe?
Why is WORD inserting an extra line every time I type an apostrophe? [more inside]
posted by DMelanogaster at 6:12 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 6:12 AM PST - 10 comments
Is there an app or site I can use to build a wishlist from many sites?
I would like to have a site or app where I can list stuff I want to buy from many different places - ideally from any vendor on the web - and people can buy it for me without them getting my address. Does such an animal exist?
posted by By The Grace of God at 6:00 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by By The Grace of God at 6:00 AM PST - 6 comments
January 24
Does copyright law cover samples used in industrial sound design?
To what degree does copyright law cover the sounds objects make, when those sounds are actually samples? I know copyright law covers sampling in media; if I sample a song or other media, I need to check that my use of the sample aligns with various licenses. As far as I know, it doesn't cover the sounds of most other (non-media) objects: if I record the chiming sound a mechanical clock makes, as far as I know I don't need to ask anyone's permission. But what happens if my clock doesn't chime mechanically, but instead plays a sample of a chime? It's playing sound media; if I want to record it do I need to ask anyone's permission? [more inside]
posted by Michael Pulsford at 11:37 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Michael Pulsford at 11:37 PM PST - 10 comments
Recommend Fiction Books for 8-yr old. As usual, special details inside
Help me find a decent set of books for an 8-yr old niece who is heavily into reading (touch wood). Harry Potter, The Hobbit and some other books are not for her at this point. [more inside]
posted by theobserver at 11:20 PM PST - 68 comments
posted by theobserver at 11:20 PM PST - 68 comments
Using ten days to prepare for an online course, then acing it?
I’m about to start a six-month-long online course that I'd like to do really well on. The next ten days are very quiet at work.
How can I use this time to help myself prepare, given that I’ll need to be in the office for part of each of the ten days...and then keep up with the course while going back to full-time teaching? [more inside]
Modern dance film about about dancers as athletes?
Vaguely remembering a short, classic modern dance film I was shown in a college dance history course but can't remember the title or choreographer. In it the dancers (men and women) were performing stylized versions of competitive athletic events; the overall tone was upbeat, competitive, vital, playful. I think the title may have been something like "The Athletes" or "Competitors"... Era: 70s or 80s? (It's not Leni Riefenstahl)
posted by dahliachewswell at 10:48 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by dahliachewswell at 10:48 PM PST - 3 comments
Possible to compbine babysitting and music lesson? how to find teacher?
I am a mother of 3 kids, age 2,4,10. I need babysitter to take care of my kids for 1-2 hours during the weekend, so that I can run other errands. But it seems that babysitters typically look for more work (money) than 1-2hrs ($30)/job (with typical rate of $15/hr). I am willing to pay $30 to $60 per hour if the babysitter can teach the kids music, dance, gym, drawing or other arts and can involve all three of my kids. [more inside]
posted by akomom at 9:43 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by akomom at 9:43 PM PST - 22 comments
Help! File for me, s'l vous plais!
Looking for a referral for a tax preparer for personal and small creative business. I am located in Los Angeles. [more inside]
How can I make my straight hair look clean?
Pretty much every day of the past year has been a bad hair day for me. Please help. [more inside]
Breaking Societal Norms: The quintessential sociology assignment. Help!
I am taking a very new, unique class this semester at my university, which has a final project related to "breaking social norms." The teacher implied the project should most likely have some videotaping or physical results, and manipulate social norms for a better/more positive outcome. Sky is the limit on this project, there are very few guidelines and boundaries, and I'm not sure where to go with it. Suggestions? [more inside]
Cancer isn't funny, right?
How to not overreact when people joke about cancer? [more inside]
posted by thank you silence at 8:26 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by thank you silence at 8:26 PM PST - 34 comments
Should I cancel my date?
I arranged a date with one guy, then had another absolutely fantastic date in the interim, & really want to focus on that. Should I cancel the other date? [more inside]
posted by littlegreen at 7:54 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by littlegreen at 7:54 PM PST - 19 comments
Start your own rock and roll band: What was that book from the late 60s?
Back in the late 70s, I found a how-to book (ca.1967) at the local library about starting a rock and roll band. What was that book??? [more inside]
posted by 2N2222 at 7:47 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by 2N2222 at 7:47 PM PST - 4 comments
Switched to an electric razor... Will it get better?
After about 6 years of wet shaving with a DE razor, I finally got fed up with the cuts and the time requirement. I picked up a Norelco Sensotouch 3D after reading that rotary is best for people with thick beards and omni-directional hair growth, and that rotary is a less close shave than linear (I don't want too close, because I get ingrown hairs).
It's been 3 days. My face is covered in bumps, and my neck is red. Is this part of the 3-week "adjustment period"? Will it get better?
Thanks!
posted by hammurderer at 7:31 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by hammurderer at 7:31 PM PST - 17 comments
Should I be pissed off / wary of my new boyfriend?
I just discovered that my bf (official since christmas) had a party dec 1st at his house and didn't invite me to it. I found out b/c I just recently agreed for us to become fb friends (wanted to wait until it was official). We hung out on nov 30th into the day of dec 1st. He created the event on the 25th and never mentioned it at all to me. He also didn't mention it to me after the fact. The thing that really gets me is dec 1st when he was leaving my house he made up an excuse about having to do something that wasn't HOSTING this party.
We weren't officially bf and gf at the time but were hanging out 2x per week and acting like it but both knew we didn't have the title. Plus we'd been dating for many months. Now I feel like I can't really TRUST him! Am I crazy for feeling this way? [more inside]
What does a mathematician do all day?
I'm wondering, after breakfast, and a shower, and a commute, and coffee - what is next? [more inside]
posted by Lownotes at 6:52 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Lownotes at 6:52 PM PST - 23 comments
Novels of Dragons
Please recommend to me books prominently featuring dragons that will meet my rather high (and specific) standards. Lots of details to calibrate your suggestions inside. [more inside]
Help me dip all my spoons, the non-toxic way.
Trying to find a permanent, food-safe way to mark all my cutlery and cooking utensils (that won't wear off after repeated washes). [more inside]
Recommendations for a desktop printer that plays well with DVDs/CDs
My work has to produce sometimes one, sometimes two at most DVDs when we do a transfer of an older video recording to digital file. We're looking to purchase a desktop printer for use with DVDs, and I'm hoping the mefi community has recommendations! [more inside]
Wristband allergy?
My son has a rash on his wrist (yes, he has seen a doctor). We think the rash might be a reaction to an admission wristband from a local play area. But those bands are made of Tyvek, which isn't supposed to trigger allergies. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by caution live frogs at 5:29 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by caution live frogs at 5:29 PM PST - 23 comments
How to make Photoshop manage colors less stupidly on a Mac
I’m trying to get Adobe Photoshop CS3 on Snow Leopard to show me the colors I expect. I’m using it to do some basic color selection, which will ultimately be pasted into a Python script that generates data graphics for use on the web. Part of my workflow involves screen captures from a browser that get round-tripped through Photoshop and into code, so I need basic RGB hex values to stay consistent through the process. [more inside]
posted by migurski at 5:28 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by migurski at 5:28 PM PST - 4 comments
Where can I find 60s teen beat/garage records in Dallas?
I'll be in Dallas in a few weeks for a conference and I'd like to go record shopping. Specifically, I'd like to buy 60s garage records from the Dallas/Fort Worth scene. Where should I go? [more inside]
posted by kendrak at 5:07 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by kendrak at 5:07 PM PST - 4 comments
Overcoming a Stigma of Helplessness
Hey all. Posting my questions to this community has been very helpful. I'm thankful so far for the advice I've been getting.
This question has to do with something I've been struggling with my whole adulthood. I was diagnosed with clinical depression in my teens, and since then it's really limited a lot of what I can do. It didn't help much that I married a very overbearing person when I was 19 who basically took over my life for me. I left him two years ago and I've been recovering from my depression thanks to medication and a lot of self help techniques. I've started exercising and eating right, and I've lost weight, which I'm happy about. My next goal is to become self sufficient. My work ethic needs help though because I have a lot of trouble getting things done. I believe it stems from all those years I spent in deep depression and not being able to take care of myself. I procrastinate out of being overwhelmed and fearful of outcomes. I wouldn't call it laziness. It's just tough for me to learn a new way of living. Any advice on how to deal with this and improve my work ethic? I believe it's due time I start getting out of my own way.
Thank you MeFi community. :)
posted by Cybria at 4:51 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Cybria at 4:51 PM PST - 12 comments
How can I change my relationship with spending?
I want to become one of those people who dislikes buying things and enjoys saving. I'm a real spendthrift right now, but I'd really like to shift my thinking so that paying bills and saving money create pleasure, and buying things other than those expenses creates discomfort or boredom.
Currently, going out shopping will get me out of the house when nothing else will, even if it's "shopping" for cleaning supplies and I only spend ten dollars. I get a sense of relief when I make purchases and then the pleasure of looking at, say, those shiny bright new bottles of household cleaner and sponges, even though I don't neccessarily need them is pleasurable. I also feel like I have achoeved or accomplished something when I buy stuff... [more inside]
posted by windykites at 4:36 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by windykites at 4:36 PM PST - 32 comments
Where are some good value for money strip joints in London?
I am a man with certain needs, and yet I am constrained by my most unfortunate financial condition. Where might a discerning gentleman go in London to see the most flesh per pound exchanged? Preferences are given to those establishments with some standards, although if an establishment is less than reputable but has great character, I would be willing to give it a go. One for the memoirs, you understand.
How to best trim a beard with scissors?
What are your best practices and tools for trimming a beard with scissors (and without an electric trimmer)? [more inside]
posted by suprenant at 4:20 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by suprenant at 4:20 PM PST - 2 comments
PR resume building
I am a recent PR/communications graduate. I was wondering if there was a place to find freelance/volunteer opportunities in order to build my resume and experience?
Mid Career- Do I need a degree?
I'm a web designer/developer. I've been self taught my whole life, but now that I'm getting higher up in my career and more people interested in me as upper level management experience. I dropped out of college and taught myself everything I know. Now, though, I'm wondering if I need to go back to school for a degree to progress any higher. [more inside]
Jeweler needed
Can you recommend a jeweler in the Boston metro area who can resize a gold ring for me?
Where can we watch the Super Bowl in Mexico City?
My Ravens-loving boyfriend wants to watch American football next weekend. [more inside]
Help me find some games to love
Having been away from the PC gaming world for a while due to dodgy then broken laptop, I'm now looking with bemusement to find some great games. Most of the amazon/etc best-seller lists seem dominated by World of Warcraft and toys for Skylander. I'm mainly interested in RPGs and Action Adventure games. Strong plots a must. If they have fiddly controls then a nice learning curve is a must! [more inside]
Stopover between Tamarindo and Manuel Antonio in Costa Rica
In March we are going to be driving between Tamarindo and Manuel Antonio via 34 along the Pacific Coast of Costa Rica. Google Maps says it's a four hour drive. We would like to break up the drive by stopping for a night somewhere enroute. We are renting houses on the beach at either end so seashore is not a priority. Ideally we'd like some kind of jungle/bamboo/eco hotel. Lots of flora and fauna. [more inside]
New battery, no power?
Please help me think through this car battery problem. I have a new battery, but no car power. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by griseus at 2:32 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by griseus at 2:32 PM PST - 15 comments
Should I stay in LAX for a 14 hour layover?
I have a 14 hour layover starting 10PM tomorrow night at LAX before I leave on a 12:30PM plane to China the following day. I need help deciding between staying at LAX or leaving to go to a 24/7 cafe...can anyone comment on the free wifi at LAX? [more inside]
Exercise Bike
I'm looking at buying a gym quality exercise bike, which bike should I buy and what price range should I expect? [more inside]
How do we make our gigantic wedding feel intimate and special?
What are ways to make a really large wedding feel intimate and special? My boyfriend and I just engaged (yay!) and we are super excited to be married to each other. We're also super excited to have a wedding: we're taking a relatively relaxed, guests-first approach to the ceremony and reception, with the goals of the whole thing feeling (1) intimate, (2) special, (3) really, really fun. All this was eminently doable when we thought the guest list was going to be 75. But now, many difficult conversations with our parents later, we're facing down a guest list of over 250, and I'm at a loss as to how to still hit our mood/vibe/emotional atmosphere goals. [more inside]
posted by firstbest at 2:11 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by firstbest at 2:11 PM PST - 20 comments
How to deal with strange co-worker?
One of my relatives got a strange note from one of her co-workers. She was minding her own business when this guy comes by and gives her a note that says, "I'm sometimes suicidal. My niece makes me feel better, maybe you can make me feel better too." Should she tell HR? Call the cops? What does that crazy note even mean? More details below... [more inside]
posted by exhilaration at 1:58 PM PST - 58 comments
posted by exhilaration at 1:58 PM PST - 58 comments
Specific recommendations: Car camping on the central California coast?
Five of us from San Francisco and Los Angeles like to meet in the middle along the coast once a year and car-camp for a long weekend. The past few years we've had a blast at Limekiln State Park campground, but it's under new management now and they won't allow us to reserve a specific ('our') campsite. In case we can't get one of the spots we want there, we'd like some backups to make reservations with somewhere between the southern end of Monterey Bay and San Luis Obispo—any suggestions? Hang on, let me tell you what we liked about Limekiln. [more inside]
NYTimes article about home in Philadelphia
A couple years back, the New York Times ran a profile of a super-awesome home in Philadelphia. Help me track down the article again? [more inside]
posted by joyceanmachine at 1:23 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by joyceanmachine at 1:23 PM PST - 4 comments
Transfer from a private school at the beginning of next school year
Dear Interlocutors from Ask MetaFilter,
Please help me understand if the sequence of the steps I figure out to transfer my son Edoardo from a private school in New York State to the New York City public school system is correct. Unfortunately the staff of the High School Enrollment Office is very laconic.
1) I have Edoardo's current school complete the "Out of City Request Form"
2) I fax the HS Enrollment Office 2 documents as a proof we are residents in New York City
3) I enter my high school choices in priority order on my "Round 2 and New Schools Choice Form". My question is: where may I find this form?
4) I return the completed and signed "Round 2 and New Schools Choice Form" to my guidance counselor. Here my question is: who is my guidance counselor?
Best,
teebay [more inside]
posted by teebay at 1:14 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by teebay at 1:14 PM PST - 5 comments
Tax implications of being "bought out" of a percentage of a realty trust
My two sisters and I were equal beneficiaries in a realty trust. This past year, my older sister bought my 1/3 share (as well as that of my sister.) According to the legal documents, it was a "transfer of beneficial interest". Other than signing and notarizing the documents to transfer the real estate share, nothing else official occurred and my sister just paid us our fair share of the assessed market value. She is not planning on reporting the transaction. I have no idea if I owe taxes on the money I've received (and will also be receiving this year - it was divided into a few payments) and if so, what kind of tax that might be. [more inside]
posted by nekton at 1:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by nekton at 1:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Are there any other VJ softwares that allow boygrouping?
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Does anyone know if this is true or not? A Google search wasn't helpful.
Thank you.
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posted by dekathelon at 12:10 PM PST - 43 comments
posted by dekathelon at 12:10 PM PST - 43 comments
Bike Pump: Am I doing it wrong?
I've got a bike. I've got a compatible pump (two actually!). So why can't I seem to get the tires full enough to ride on? NB: I'm starting from completely flat tires (it's been a long time since I've ridden the bike). Is it not possible to hand pump bike tires all the way from flat?
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posted by RajahKing at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by RajahKing at 10:20 AM PST - 10 comments
My niece just broke her two front newly-descended adult teeth.
Today my eight-year-old niece broke her two front teeth, both diagonally so that she has a triangle-shaped hole between her teeth. They are adult teeth. They are on their way to the dentist, but I just wanted to get some information from experiences you all may have had. [more inside]
posted by anthropoid at 10:15 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by anthropoid at 10:15 AM PST - 37 comments
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I need recommendations for an attorney in the Philadelphia area, who can handle divorce and custody cases where one party (myself) is a non-US citizen, who is here on a marriage-based Green Card. The Card itself is about 2 years old.
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posted by looli at 9:45 AM PST - 45 comments
posted by looli at 9:45 AM PST - 45 comments
Can someone explain how IRA early withdrawal penalties are calculated?
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posted by tylerkaraszewski at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by tylerkaraszewski at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
will white paint make my bathroom look more clean or more dirty?
we rent in an olllllllld apartment. the fixtures in our bathroom are white, but not matching. and some of them are um, dingy white. ie, white tub liner that's a bit stained from water damage and mildew (there's no mildew on it, but it still remembers a time when there was). the bathroom doesn't get a lot of ventilation so the walls get mildew on them. we want to attack! we have bleach-cleaned the walls and want to paint them with white mildewcide paint, but is this a good idea or will it make the old-and-off-white-ness of the fixtures stand out? our landlord won't replace the tub liner and we can't afford to either, so it is staying. our dream is this but we know we can't have that. can we get close or is it just going to end up gross? any ideas?
posted by andreapandrea at 9:33 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by andreapandrea at 9:33 AM PST - 18 comments
I've got to change my ways, dress for business every day
Cluelessly-dressed 30-year-old office-working lady here. I have come to the conclusion that it is in my best interest to start leaning much more toward the business side of business casual on a daily basis.
Professional women/fashion mavens of Metafilter, could you lend me a hand with these business wear-related queries? [more inside]
posted by divined by radio at 9:23 AM PST - 48 comments
posted by divined by radio at 9:23 AM PST - 48 comments
Perioral dermatitis questions
I'm newly diagnosed with perioral dermatitis. If you have had this, then I have some questions for you. 1) How did you treat it? 2) Did it go away and stay away, or has it been a recurring problem? 3) Have you found dietary issues to be significant in causing it/helping to clear it up?
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My company is considering switching our work phones over from iOS phones to Windows Phone 8, and I've been asked to report back with how this will affect our ability to work. [more inside]
posted by Vhanudux at 9:14 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Vhanudux at 9:14 AM PST - 8 comments
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I have an array which has listing information for products on a website. The products fit into two categories (call them 'bits' and 'bobs') I need to sort the array so that it goes from a completely mixed up and randomized list to:
bit, bit, bit, bit, bit, bit, bob, bob, bob, bob, bob, bob, bit, bit, bit, bit, bit, bit
And so on, basically reorganize the array so that the list is in alternating groups of six
Array structure is basically a numbered array of keyed arrays, like so:
Array
(
[0] => Array
(
[id] => 39549
[title] => Product Name
[author] => Author Name
[price] => 7.66
[type] => bit
)
[1] => Array
(
[id] => 39549
[title] => Product Name
[author] => Author Name
[price] => 9.66
[type] => bob
)
)
posted by signsofrain at 8:36 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by signsofrain at 8:36 AM PST - 10 comments
ID Essentials - Virgin Mobile
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I blush easily, but I'm not aware that it's happening. I used be nervous in social situations, but my mind isn't anymore, though apparently my body still is. For example: the professor mentioned my name in class today as part of a hypothetical. I didn't feel nervous or anxious at all, but he commented about how red I turned. Had he not said anything, I would have been totally unaware that I was blushing. [more inside]
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I find that cheap iPad styluses get squishy-tipped quickly and stop working nearly as well. How can I avoid this? [more inside]
posted by R a c h e l at 8:08 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by R a c h e l at 8:08 AM PST - 6 comments
It's like my body doesn't want to go back.
I have been on sick leave for the past 10 days due to first the flu, and then some flu-related complications. I am due to go back on Monday and I'm panicking, literally.
The thought of going back to work made me burst out crying earlier this morning.
I strongly suspect this is less about the flu right now, and more about general unhappiness with my work situation, and anxiety, but I'm a total mess. How do I pull myself together when I only have 72 hours left? [more inside]
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How do I clean cotton napkins?
I have cotton napkins, some 100 percent, some 65 percent. And it says on the label to wash them in cold.
I want to make sure that when my child puts the napkin to her mouth that the napkin is sanitary. But I'm wondering if washing them in cold takes all the microbes out. I'm not only talking about the food, but what about my wash machine which may have just washed our family underpants. Is this common practice? Or am I missing something? Am I supposed to be washing the napkins in a bucket instead?
I wanted the convenience of washing in the washing machine, but if that is not sanitary I will do the bucket. Also, if I can do it in the machine, should I do it in warm to make sure microbes are gone? Or is cold best? Also, should I line dry or do it in the dryer.
Thanks in advance for your help.
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 7:30 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 7:30 AM PST - 29 comments
What kind of computer or tv monitor is this?
I need to rephotograph some stuff off a computer monitor and I love the texture of the screens in this clip from Moneyball, especially in the extreme close ups and player head shots. The visible honeycomb of pixels is what I'm interested in. I've shot stuff off a Cinema Display (no visible pixels really) and broadcast monitor (visible but rectangular) before and it doesn't look like this. Any idea what kind of monitor or LCD looks like this?
posted by nathancaswell at 7:14 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by nathancaswell at 7:14 AM PST - 10 comments
Low cost (free) ERP software.
We are looking for an ERP solution to a new business. Nothing complicated, we just need to be able to manage one vendor, a few customers, manage stock and issue invoices. Does anyone have a program they use they can recommmend? Free is good, or a trial and then low cost.
Trouble free switching to external monitor and back (OSX)
OS X has spaces. I can assign programmes to different spaces. What I can't have (it seems) is one of those spaces/second desktops show up on the external monitor, it is always an extension of the desktop I am using. So I get a double-wide desktop A (Mac + monitor), then swipe across and get a double wide desktop B (Mac + Monitor) when I go to a different Space. I want A on my Macbook and B on my monitor. [more inside]
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posted by Brockles at 6:25 AM PST - 4 comments
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posted by jon1270 at 5:56 AM PST - 9 comments
OMG, storytelling in journalism is changing. What to read abot this?
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posted by catch as catch can at 4:28 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by catch as catch can at 4:28 AM PST - 17 comments
Help me turn some British Pounds into US Dollars.
Last March, I went to London and returned without spending all of the Pounds I'd withdrawn from an ATM machine. Believing that the money changers in the airports are major ripoffs, I decided to hang onto the Pounds. "Surely I will run into a friend with plans to visit London soon!" Hasn't happened. Anyone have any creative ideas on how to exchange the Pounds for Dollars now? Without paying someone a ghastly percentage?
posted by starkraven at 4:19 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by starkraven at 4:19 AM PST - 16 comments
Where can you find reliable Android reviews?
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posted by sien at 4:10 AM PST - 4 comments
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posted by hoyland at 3:27 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by hoyland at 3:27 AM PST - 15 comments
Quoting from literature in conversations
Does anyone memorize quotes from literary works and use them in conversations? [more inside]
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Sorry for the squick factor but I'm curious. What happens if someone bleeds, vomits or poops in a public swimming pool? Do they just fish out the solids and let the rest disperse? Or does it all get emptied out?
5 or 6 days around Christmas time. Where to go from Sydney?
My wife and I will get the chance to go away for 5 or 6 days without kids for the first time in a decade at the end of this year. It also happens to be my partners 40th birthday.
Where should we go, from Sydney? [more inside]
posted by bystander at 3:02 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by bystander at 3:02 AM PST - 11 comments
Nutchance of making this succeed without help
I'm looking for a guide to how to set up and use Nutch, Solr and Drupal. Particularly Nutch and Solr. I have never coded before. [more inside]
posted by MuffinMan at 2:04 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by MuffinMan at 2:04 AM PST - 12 comments
Can an intermediary bank in a transaction apply currency conversion?
I have a USD account in the UK and received an incoming amount in GBP. However, it was supposed to be sent in USD from the US (so that's a cross-border transfer). The sender also claims that the amount was sent in USD. My bank claims and also the statement tells that the money came in GBP. Because of the double conversion (usd->gbp->usd) I received significantly less than if it happened without any conversion.
My only idea at the moment is that an intermediary bank applied a conversion.. Can this happen? How can I clearly find out what happened? How to avoid this from happening again?
Thanks for your suggestions!
January 23
Organisations to support for LGBT rights in Uganda?
I want to send some money to a preferably local organisation/group in Uganda that supports LGBT rights. I'm open to advocacy or direct help, and any religion or secular is fine. Please give me your recommendations, or tell me why Amnesty International is still the best option.
Books for people who like Homeland
I love the TV show Homeland. It's very different from the kinds of things I'm normally into, but now I'm hooked. I would like to find some books that would scratch the same itch, to keep me going untl next season. Ideally I'd like non-fiction, because I'd like to learn more about how all this stuff goes down, but I realize that due to the nature of the topic, it's hard to get detailed non-fiction accounts. So I'm open to fiction if it isn't really over the top. [more inside]
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You are a UK solicitor, but you are not MY UK solicitor [more inside]
Help me figure out a job title for myself?
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posted by attercoppe at 10:47 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by attercoppe at 10:47 PM PST - 8 comments
Books to prepare us for making babies?
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posted by Rash at 9:06 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Rash at 9:06 PM PST - 5 comments
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posted by misformiche at 8:27 PM PST - 14 comments
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posted by t0astie at 8:15 PM PST - 21 comments
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posted by parmanparman at 7:36 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by parmanparman at 7:36 PM PST - 3 comments
How should I go about selling a 1950s Lionel Train set?
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posted by Nickel Pickle at 7:27 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Nickel Pickle at 7:27 PM PST - 7 comments
Recommendations for therapists in the Bay Area
Hi everyone,
I am looking for recommendations for therapists in or around San Jose, CA (San Francisco would be too far) who take Kaiser insurance, or if this is even possible. I cannot change insurance, and the Kaiser therapist I talked to a year or two ago said they are allowed to prescribe medication and see patients a maximum of once a month, and I would prefer something weekly.
If anyone knows of any therapists that somehow are allowed to take Kaiser or have reasonable rates for out-of-pocket pay, I'd be very grateful. Also want to add that I don't need a specialty therapist; this is just general life ennui stuff (some days worse than others).
Thanks!
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We are trying to manually download a dropshipper's XML file of products. The file size is over 22MB and I can't open it in my web browsers Internet Explorer or FireFox (both latest). I tried asking them if they could allow me to read the directory the file's on so I could right click on it and download it manually but they refuse to do so. They told me I need to use an external program to download this XML file. I tried looking but with no luck. Could someone please help me.
Thank you so much...
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posted by skjønn at 6:06 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by skjønn at 6:06 PM PST - 5 comments
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posted by jaguar at 5:31 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by jaguar at 5:31 PM PST - 51 comments
Calling all Google Super Sleuths!!
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posted by Youremyworld at 5:18 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Youremyworld at 5:18 PM PST - 5 comments
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I'm looking for recommendations for lounges in Boston for a birthday party with around 10-15 guests. We'll all be in our early 20s.
Ideally, the place will play livelier music but not blast it to the point where I have to shout to have a conversation.
Price range is pretty flexible. In terms of location, closer to the financial district is preferable, so nothing near Allston, brookline, etc.
This would be for a Saturday night between 8 and 11 PM and I'd like to be able to make reservations.
A decent sized crowd is appreciated, as we don't want to feel like we're the only group of people in the place. [more inside]
posted by 6spd at 4:59 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by 6spd at 4:59 PM PST - 3 comments
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The house the boyfriend and I bought was already wired for surround sound, however, we don't want the receiver in the spot where the previous owners had it. The wires coming out of wall are too short for where we want it, so we would like to use wire extenders to lengthen them. However, I'm not sure what gauge the wires coming out of the wall are, so I'm not positive they're compatible with our speakers. Is there a way to tell what gauge they are, or is that sort of thing pretty standard? This is our first experience with surround sound, so we're pretty clueless, but trying to educate ourselves. [more inside]
posted by odayoday at 4:45 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by odayoday at 4:45 PM PST - 21 comments
Giant pieces of beautiful uselessness
I enjoy making large, colourful crochet blankets. I have enough blankets but I don't want to give any more away or sell them. Apart from yarn bombing, in what artistic way can I use them? It can be for private or public display. This is an example of what I make.
posted by drunkonthemoon at 4:44 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by drunkonthemoon at 4:44 PM PST - 15 comments
What is the dating world actually like?
I have a friend who insists on a certain way of understanding how men and women couple off. Basically, he sees the situation as rather animalistic, where all the women are essentially waiting to be asked out, and the first men to do so get the "choicest" women. The rest of the women are left for, well, the rest of the men. Obviously, this is pretty traditional/sexist/chauvinistic. Anyway, barring all that, he feels a constant urgency to get to women "before somebody else does," because "the best women will be taken." Of course, I understand asking someone out before someone else does, but his theory is off-putting to me.
It seems like human personalities, reasoning, circumstances, geographies, and cultures throw a monkey-wrench into his theory. Things are a lot more complicated in my mind. Do you have an alternative way of seeing the dating world, have a different experience, or are there any studies that you could point me to on this subject?
posted by uncannyslacks at 4:41 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 4:41 PM PST - 40 comments
salary requirement for administrative work
I have been working as a temp in a university staff /admin support position for several months. I make $12 an hour as a temp. They're finally about to hire me, thank goodness, but I have until tomorrow to give them my "salary requirements". What the heck am I supposed to ask for? [more inside]
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I'm a woman, 20s. I'm talking to two women - A and B. A has everything I want on paper, and there's a spark there... but there's more of a spark with B, who has next to nothing I want on paper. Is it a bad idea to pick B? [more inside]
posted by Pericardium at 4:23 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Pericardium at 4:23 PM PST - 18 comments
Debt-free or bust: maybe I wanna bust
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posted by Miss T.Horn at 4:22 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Miss T.Horn at 4:22 PM PST - 14 comments
1 week vacation, $1000, 1 Adventure
My company offers an employee escape program if you can come up the "best" idea of how to spend the $1000 and extra week vacation. I have a few ideas of what I might want to propose - but would love to see what you think: if you had a week and $1000 - what would be an incredible adventure?
Note - most employees who get chosen usually tie in some sort of service program or volunteer efforts, but sky is the limit.
I want a new drug, one that won't quit.
Didn't take my meds for a few days, then started them up again. I am like a new person. What gives? [more inside]
posted by cuppycake gumdrops at 4:16 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cuppycake gumdrops at 4:16 PM PST - 9 comments
Recommendations for group video conference w/ iOS and Android support?
I'm trying to find a way to have a group video conference between 4-7 people, that allows iOS and Android devices to connect, as well as Mac and PC users. [more inside]
Hey you're in my workspace
Advice sought on solving a workplace dispute between several departments [more inside]
posted by sock, the puppet at 4:13 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by sock, the puppet at 4:13 PM PST - 6 comments
I would like to keep my job, but I might have to sue you...
What are best practices for navigating an employment situation that maybe is heading in the direction of filing a complaint with an EEO commission? [more inside]
Help me help my daughter.
How to deal with a school's unwillingness to challenge a twice-exceptional kid? [more inside]
posted by altopower at 3:39 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by altopower at 3:39 PM PST - 25 comments
Old PC as an HTPC and File + Game Server... Help Me Make It Happen!
I have an old computer I'm thinking of turning into a home theatre PC, as well as a dedicated FTP and multiplayer game server. Can it be done, and what do I need? Tech specs and more detailed questions inside. [more inside]
Coke Is It!
Having no luck finding a video of a Coca-Cola commercial from the early to mid-80s - likely featured the lyrics, "Travelin' down a dusty road, goin' to meet a friend."
I believe it only played in movie theatres before the movie started, not on TV. Any help?
Will Carmax save my sanity or make it worse?
I'm approaching the dreaded moment that I need to buy a new (used) car. I hate the idea of negotiating with a salesperson. I love the idea of no-haggle. But I also hate the idea of getting a lemon. I've read loads of reviews of Carmax online, but they're so mixed, I don't know what to think. Can you offer insight? [more inside]
Whats the most famous example of Western architecture? In fiction?
I was reading an introduction to "The Tale of Genji," and I was struck by the claim that Genji's manor is the most well known example of the architecture of the time, even though it never existed. Are there any corollaries in the West? Elsewhere? [more inside]
What are some cool things to do in Baltimore for a day?
I've got maybe a day to kill with my wife and kid in Baltimore... never really been there before, so what are some must-see things in the area? I've vaguely heard something about cherry blossoms... when do those bloom or where is the best place to view them? I'll be going in mid-April, so I've got some time to plan. TIA!
Songs that can be played on a baby toy?
I recently bought a toy glockenspiel for my baby. At almost 9 months he's too young for it still but I have fun plinking out some songs on it while we're playing. I'm looking for songs I can play that use only the eight notes from middle C to high C, with no half steps. Any kinds of songs are welcome, and I don't need the full sheet music, just the title of the song. (If I can listen to it, that's enough.) I'd particularly like folk songs and kids' songs, but songs from any genre will make me happy as long as I can play them without missing notes. [more inside]
Stupid brain, stop it.
I am done with letting limerence rule my life. Tell me your stories of conquering limerence. How did you cope? Is it even really possible to say "no more limerence" if you're prone to it? [more inside]
What graphic/icon will look wrong when mirrored?
We need to identify the front face of a transparent glass calibration target. If the target is held wrong-way to the camera, it won't work, so we need to make it obvious to the user when it's backwards. We can certainly just write "FRONT" on it, but it's going to a lot of different countries - is there a strictly graphical way to indicate this? An icon or graphic that looks wrong when viewed from behind and therefore reversed left to right? [more inside]
posted by ftm at 2:02 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by ftm at 2:02 PM PST - 39 comments
Should I root my wife's Kindle Fire 2?
I gave my wife a Kindle Fire 2 (7") for Christmas, and I am thinking about rooting it for her. She does not seem to be too enamored with the Amazon interface, and is thinking she might like a standard, stock Android OS. I know that if we do this, we will likely lose Amazon Prime Instant Videos, which she does not use. If you have rooted a Kindle Fire 2, please share with me what you like and/or dislike about your new set-up. Thanks!
Best tools for setting up online store for CSA-type produce business?
You have an online store where customers pay in, say, monthly subscriptions. The customers are able to manage their account online. You also sell a few other items as one-offs via a webstore. None of this requires shipping as your customers pick up in person. What sorts of programs are you using? How do you deal with credit cards? What should this all cost? Any opinions about programs such as Member Assembler, CSAware, Farmigo or DeliveryBizPro? [more inside]
I love my new town, but how do I find a job here?
I'm nineteen. Four months ago, I moved out of my parents' houses to a medium-sized Midwestern city. I'm more consistently happy here than I have ever been (even despite breaking up with my long-term SO) -- I'm making friends regularly, working on interesting projects, and devouring the library. My biggest problem is that I can't find a job. [more inside]
Flower Power!
It's winter! And I need spring, summer, fall....heck, any other season than winter! I want to spend some time with flowers.
I am looking for places, specifically in the NYC metro area where I can sit with a group of flowers: maybe an indoor garden/nursery, or a flower show....or some crazy field that has flowers growing in the dead of winter (I know!) I do not want to buy flowers and watch them die in my apartment.
Do you know of anywhere that I can sit and commune with flowers? Thanks!
Wifi for Dummies, or I Have a Little Netbook
I have a small netbook (Samsung NC10), running Windows XP, that I very much like for travel. But in some places, it doesn't connect to the internet over wifi. I've never tried to figure out why, or fix it: it's so far always been somewhere I could either skip being connected for a few days or plug directly into a router. But for an upcoming trip I'd like some help with a better plan and some tools and resources. [more inside]
How do I find web development projects to work on?
I was told I can't code anymore, but I love to code. I want to keep up with cutting edge technologies, and while I'm learning -- why not develop projects that people need while getting a part-time income. One problem: Where can I find projects? [more inside]
One Too Many Cars...Most Hassle Free Way of Consolidating?
I've got 2 Mini Coopers that I love: 2006 automatic with 35k miles and sunroof that I own outright, 2011 manual with 17k miles and a Thule kayak rack that I owe about $7k on.
My older teens have moved out and I don't need to have both cars anymore, so I'm trying to figure out the quickest, most hassle-free way of having only one car. Because I work full-time and live with just my son, I really don't want to have people coming to my house as I try to sell a car on my own and I'm willing to lose a little cash if I can make some type of deal on the spot with a dealer. Again, I really do NOT want to do Craigslist and sell the car on my own.
I have a good relationship with the Mini dealer where I bought both cars. A friend suggested I bring in both cars, explain the situation, and see what they come up with.
Any other ideas about the easiest way to get me into one Mini? Ideas to make the cars more desirable to the dealer? What angles have I not considered?
posted by kinetic at 12:43 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by kinetic at 12:43 PM PST - 20 comments
Either the government or the movies are calling.
For the last four months, I've been getting anywhere between 3 and 60 calls per day on my cell phone from (555) 555-5555, at all hours. If I pick up, it's a recorded voice, somewhere between a computer and a british lady saying "one... one... one..." What the hell is going on, and how do I make it stop? [more inside]
Dance dance dance!
I love watching male ballet dancers in the New York City Ballet. What else would I enjoy watching? [more inside]
posted by LeeLanded at 12:12 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by LeeLanded at 12:12 PM PST - 13 comments
Work Goals?
I am supposed to come up with a few personal and a few team goals for a meeting at work. I am someone who always leaves the "Objective" section of resume blank because this stuff is alien to me. Anyone have any insight into management expectations with this stuff? [more inside]
posted by polywomp at 12:00 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by polywomp at 12:00 PM PST - 12 comments
Am I Being Crazy About Shiny Fabric?
Do you think that silk dupioni is the best choice of fabric for my wedding dress when I am plus-sized? I have described it in detail inside. [more inside]
Is there any sort of vogue scene in the SF bay area?
Is there any sort of vogue scene in the SF bay area?
Help me locate a hard-to-find penile constrictive device. (NSFW?)
So, a few years ago I bought a set of cock rings, and I seem to have lost two of them! Can you help me find me a similar set? [more inside]
Classic Sunglasses for a Blockhead
I'm a guy looking for sunglasses, no vision correction necessary. I like the sort of mid-century modern frames of a Warby Parker or a Classic Specs but, after try on programs from both, I'm discovering that just about all their frames are too small for my enormous head. Help? [more inside]
What can/should I do about my increasingly frequent & heavy periods?
My period is happening a lot. I'm 45. What can I do about it? Details inside. [more inside]
What to expect when returning a leased car?
We lease a Honda and the lease is ending on February 27. This is our first time leasing and we are nervous about the end-of-lease vehicle inspection. Should we expect to have to pay? [more inside]
(When) should I buy a house, Hamilton, Ontario edition
I'm in the very early stages of house-hunting in the Hamilton, Ontario area, but I'm not sure how fast I should be going. [more inside]
posted by the dief at 10:23 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by the dief at 10:23 AM PST - 4 comments
How can I try out computer monitor magnifiers?
I believe we have a need for two to five computer monitor magnifiers where I work, some for laptops and some for desktop monitors. [more inside]
2010 Ford Fusion Brake Question
The rear brakes on my 2010 Ford Fusion, which is still under warranty, have worn out in what seems to me like a premature and unusual way. I have included the details inside and would like your opinion on whether this is an issue I should press with the dealership and/or Ford, or whether I should just fix the brakes and move on. [more inside]
What's the funniest photo on the internet?
I am looking for a variety of photos to choose from for a caption contest. The contest is related to sexual health, but the photos need not be, and preferably will be fairly suitable for public viewing. [more inside]
I broke my jailbreak!
My Verizon Galaxy Nexus is unlocked, but I also broke it. Help me put it back together again! [more inside]
How come these instances of modus tollens seem so weird?
Basic logic question. The validity of modus tollens is intuitive when the antecedent and consequent in the first conditional premise aren't negative statements. But whenever the argument begins with something like "If not-p, then q", the whole thing seems less intuitive to me. Can someone explain to my very rusty brain why those instances of modus tollens are still valid? [more inside]
How to extract the addresses of a couple hundred bounced emails?
I have been running a couple of email announcement lists for a while, and want to clean out all (or most) of the addresses that are bouncing. What is a good way to do this? [more inside]
Help identifying two Southern CA trees?
Are old-school victory garden posters out in the public domain?
I love these older pics of victory garden posters (e.g.). I was wondering if anyone knew if they were out in the public domain? I'd like to use them for a Tumblr/blog post, but don't want to start ripping folks off willy nilly.
posted by Peemster at 8:09 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Peemster at 8:09 AM PST - 8 comments
Looking for photo/artistic collage journals or books.
Fan of photo collage journals like Peter Beard and the late Dan Eldon's work. Can anyone point me to other similar artists? [more inside]
Seeking experiences with LearningRx
I'm interested to hear feedback that others have had with using the LearningRx system for improving cognitive processing skill and speed. [more inside]
posted by dgran at 7:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dgran at 7:50 AM PST - 4 comments
New Audible book recomendations please!
DU's comment got me wanting to expand my Audible library. I have a few credits to burn so help me fill up my library! I love biographies and science fiction but would like broaden my listening habits. Bonus points if you can recommend any narrators that you have found enjoyable as well. [more inside]
posted by zerobyproxy at 7:28 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by zerobyproxy at 7:28 AM PST - 15 comments
Stupid question about a '69 VW Beetle I sold years ago
I know, I know: it's silly to have an argument about this, but please help! [more inside]
posted by easily confused at 7:07 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by easily confused at 7:07 AM PST - 11 comments
Help me pseudo-fast
Have you tried the 5:2 diet as discussed in this Metafilter thread? Did it work for you? Do you find it sustainable? [more inside]
posted by silly me at 6:41 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by silly me at 6:41 AM PST - 15 comments
NBYay!
Please recommend me the best books and films about basketball. [more inside]
posted by Georgina at 6:35 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Georgina at 6:35 AM PST - 23 comments
Getting out of a job before getting out of a job
I'm an admin in a big corporate firm, but I'm secretly planning to hunt for a new job in a couple weeks. I've just been asked to take on new responsibilities here. Can I get out of this, and if so, how? [more inside]
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 6:20 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 6:20 AM PST - 15 comments
Fennel toothpaste that isn't Tom's?
TorontoToothpasteFilter: When my husband was vacationing in Spain, he picked up this amazing toothpaste and we fell in love with it completely. It is flavoured with fennel, myrrh, and propolis rather than the North American **All-Mint-All-The-Time** Extravaganza, and we realised that we liked this taste much much better. Sadly, our usual stores have succumbed to the minty-fresh lobby. [more inside]
VAT misstep
UK tax filter. Help, I registered for VAT by accident and I made a wee mess. How do I best get out of it? [more inside]
Sex for dummies
Should I try to fix our sex life? If so, where do I start? [more inside]
Is "hypochlorhydria" scientifically sound or natural-health quackery?
Is "hypochlorhydria" (low stomach acid) a scientifically sound problem or some natural-health quackery? [more inside]
What's up with our electricity?
We woke up this extremely cold morning (9F/-13C) and various electric things in our condo seem to be flaky, like there's not enough power. I also noticed that the thermostat for our heat pump says "Auxiliary Heat On", which I haven't seen before. Has anyone seen something like this before? Since it's all electric, it seems like it might be related. [more inside]
posted by smackfu at 5:50 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by smackfu at 5:50 AM PST - 15 comments
Can't take the cold Northeast and wonder if Charleston would work?
Can't take the cold Northeast and wonder if Charleston would work? My husband and I recently moved from Los Angeles to the Eastern shore of Ct. for a variety of reasons mainly cost of living and seeking a closer knit community. Now that we have experienced a cold winter ( it's just starting!) we see that it isn't for us. Weather is a big deal and we thought we could handle it but the being stuck indoors, the layers of clothes, the desire to hibernate are all getting to us pretty quick. [more inside]
posted by privatechef at 5:22 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by privatechef at 5:22 AM PST - 27 comments
Am I turning crap wine into crap port with SCIENCE?
We're hitting -25C here for the next few days, so I thought I'd indulge in an experiment -- putting 2.5L of cheap kit Shiraz into a food-safe container with a loose-fitting lid outside and fishing the ice out at the end of every day. What should I expect? When should I stop?
posted by Shepherd at 3:32 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Shepherd at 3:32 AM PST - 20 comments
How do I work out steaming times?
Scaling a steamed pudding recipe up or down: how do I work out the adjusted cooking time?
posted by monkey closet at 2:04 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by monkey closet at 2:04 AM PST - 3 comments
Academy Award 2013 Shorts - show me them....
Does anyone have any links to watch the various shorts that have been nominated for this years Academy Awards? [more inside]
Did my iPod Classic finally kick the bucket?
Did my iPod Classic finally kick the bucket? It's a generic "Portable Audio Player" now, and Windows refuses to format it. [more inside]
posted by muckster at 1:53 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by muckster at 1:53 AM PST - 12 comments
January 22
What address to use when you are traveling with no fixed address
I moved out of my apartment and want to travel and work remotely most of the year before taking a new apartment. My problem is that I don't have a fixed address in the meantime. My mail is forwarded to my parents outside the US (working very well), but I need an address to use with the IRS/Licence bureau/bank, etc. Could I boldly use my previous address even if I moved out? Can I use the foreign address with the government and the state without getting in trouble? Could I still be a resident of my state even if my mailing address is abroad? Could I use a P.O. Box? Some other service?
What if I lengthen my absence from my state, at which point do I cease to be a resident of that state? (I'm a US citizen and a tourist in the countries I'm traveling to). I can use some heads up!
How can I wear supportive shoes and look cool at the same time?
I need supportive shoes for lots of walking, but I want to look good too. What's a young lady in an old lady's body to do? [more inside]
Portland/vancouver spaces for private nerd event
A good friend is getting married in Vancouver, WA. Where in Vancouver, Portland, or nearby can our group of ~15-20 friends host a boozy board & video game bachelor party for him? [more inside]
My oldest friend is an alcoholic.
She's important to me. She used to be so smart and so much fun to be around. I feel like I can't just walk away, and in any event, I don't want to. Help me figure out what to do. Avalanche of details to follow. [more inside]
posted by sevensnowflakes at 9:29 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by sevensnowflakes at 9:29 PM PST - 22 comments
Mind-blowing migrations of African animals or insects?
I'm looking for instances of animal or insect migration that occur annually within a limited geographical area in Africa. The more concentrated the accumulation of one species in a relatively small area, the better. Thanks! [more inside]
posted by np312 at 9:12 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by np312 at 9:12 PM PST - 9 comments
Nut balls!
For the cooks and bakers and candy makers out there, what do you do when you need to roll a lot of little balls of foodstuff? Are there any amazing tricks to get multiple smooth rounded orbs of delicious at a time? [more inside]
Advice on dealing with feelings of loneliness and paranoia
I'm having a hard time dealing with feelings of profound loneliness and paranoia about the states of friendships which in turn affect my dreams and my moods (being a vivid dreamer) and I don't like the affect it has on my happiness. Is there any good literature or advice that you can give to help me conquer these feelings and appreciate what I have in my friends or branch out to finding others? Any communication advice to being clear with friends and alleviating my paranoia without insulting them or sounding weird? [more inside]
Jasper v. Ford Remanufactured Engines
My '08 F-150 likely needs a different engine. I do not want an engine out of a wreck or from the junk yard or one rebuilt by a local shop. I am looking for a remanufactured engine. Does anyone have any experience with or insight into the quality difference between a Jasper Remanufactured engine versus a Ford Factory remanufactured engine? [more inside]
Help me be less of a marketing noob
What resources should I be reading to learn more about marketing? [more inside]
In Need of a Dentist in Atlanta Metro Area - Some Strings Attached
So, I find myself in a bit of a bad spot at the moment. I'm in need of some serious dental work, and faced with some major hurdles to get it done. I need to find a dentist somewhere in the Atlanta metro that fits a rather restrictive set of criteria. [more inside]
Not playing in Peoria
I have to go to Peoria, IL for a week starting February 6 to tend to the affairs of my mother, whose dementia is getting worse. I grew up there but I haven't been back for years, and when I did go back I stayed at Mom's. Now there is no room at Mom's because she's in assisted care. Where should I stay? [more inside]
posted by caryatid at 7:25 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by caryatid at 7:25 PM PST - 11 comments
Posters to finish my coworker's office makeover
One of my developers just had got an "office makeover" (mostly a much needed paint job), and now has about a half dozen Ikea RIBBA frames on the walls. Unfortunately, he hasn't figured out what to put in them. Fortunately, we're all here to help him out. [more inside]
Last Four Years of Fashion
Just woke up from a figurative 4 year coma called back-to-back babies. What NOT to wear?
What are the big no no's? What should I just discard? I'm thinking terrible ie. Crocs or Ed Hardy. [more inside]
posted by kristymcj at 7:18 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by kristymcj at 7:18 PM PST - 27 comments
Do people actually live in basements?
I'm sure you've all heard the phrase "living in your parent's basement." I was just wondering if it is common or if young adults/people actually live in basements or if it's just a saying. Where I'm from (southern california), I've never actually heard of anyone living in a basement, usually they will have a room in the house.
How do I help others see my partner as an equitable and true parent?
I am currently 21 weeks pregnant and my wife is not getting the attention, congratulations or support I get from others. How can I help others see her as a parent now and when the baby comes? [more inside]
Online degree for Child Development / Education?
Asking for a friend: can you recommend a reputable (presumably brick and mortar) university that has a good online program for child development or early childhood education? [more inside]
Video chat interview
I have a video chat interview tomorrow. Tips? [more inside]
posted by King Bee at 6:37 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by King Bee at 6:37 PM PST - 17 comments
How can I upgrade Mac OS 10.5.8 to 10.6 with a broken CD drive?
I would like to upgrade my Mac OS 10.5.8 to 10.6. I've been told that the way to do this is to order the CD from apple. However, my CD drive is broken (all else is fine with my Mac). How can I upgrade to 10.6 another way?
posted by figTree at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by figTree at 6:35 PM PST - 8 comments
Accomodations and activities in Maui, in March!
We ended up biting the bullet on tickets to Maui for our spring break in March yesterday (arriving 3/10). You guys were awesome when we went to the Big Island last year- where should we stay and what should we do in Maui? [more inside]
posted by charmedimsure at 6:19 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by charmedimsure at 6:19 PM PST - 17 comments
Help me with charity fundraising
Short version: what are the best practices when asking for charity donations? [more inside]
posted by jetlagaddict at 6:00 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by jetlagaddict at 6:00 PM PST - 6 comments
Ça me manque depuis 15 ans
Teach me how to make Cancoillotte cheese from things I can buy in an American supermarket or (unlikely) where to buy it for shipment to the USA (Nebraska). [more inside]
posted by jepler at 5:31 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by jepler at 5:31 PM PST - 13 comments
Desperate for upholsterer, UWS, NY
Looking for a recommendation for an upholsterer who serves the upper west side? Used to use Patterson Silks, but they closed. Need couches recovered, cushions, repairs and so on, lots to do!! Around 72 nd street specifically, but quality is the watch word.
What is this exotic thing?
Would anybody be kind enough to help me by translating some Japanese text of some type, that might help shed some light on a mysterious item that I have had in my posession for several years? [more inside]
posted by wats at 5:02 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by wats at 5:02 PM PST - 3 comments
My boyfriend's kid is here for a month. Should I be a presence?
My boyfriend has a kid from his previous marriage, who is now long distance. He'll be coming to stay for a month in a few months, and I'm not sure what to do! (so many snowflake details!) [more inside]
posted by euphoria066 at 4:58 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by euphoria066 at 4:58 PM PST - 22 comments
Would you recommend the Ipad Mini ?
Do you have an Ipad Mini ? - would you recommend it and why ? [more inside]
posted by sgt.serenity at 4:20 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by sgt.serenity at 4:20 PM PST - 27 comments
How do I figure out how to divvy out these projects?
I have roughly 20 people who each need a project. I have 27 projects and don't want anyone to share a project. I let the people pick their top five projects and rank them so I know who wants what. What is the best (easiest...) way for me to fairly figure out who should get what project so that the most people get their top choice, or at least one of their top choices? [more inside]
posted by pwb503 at 4:16 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by pwb503 at 4:16 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me name my: Children’s Theater Edition
I’ve been teaching private voice and piano lessons for children for the past five years, and am about to embark on the next stage of the plan: opening a children’s theater! Most of my ducks are in a row with one large exception - the name. [more inside]
posted by subsupra at 4:15 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by subsupra at 4:15 PM PST - 11 comments
10-year plans don't say what needs to be done tomorrow.
How can I better "manage my managers" who can only think in the long-term? They have lots of really great ideas which never go anywhere because they don't schedule people to work on them. [more inside]
Brain, I know it's early, but you gotta wake up!
I'm a nurse who has trouble at the start of my shifts because my brain doesn't get up and running until I've been there for at least an hour -- but the work really requires me to be at 100% from the first minute. There are plenty of questions about how to wake up your body in the morning. How do I wake up my brain? [more inside]
posted by shiny blue object at 3:48 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by shiny blue object at 3:48 PM PST - 27 comments
Rom coms where the love interest is introduced later?
The standard format for a romantic comedy has both key characters introduced very early in the script/movie -- say, in the first ten pages/minutes. I'm looking for examples of romantic comedies where one of the romantic leads is introduced later in the movie. [more inside]
Airprint works...and is lame.
Is there a better printing app for the iPad than HP eprint or Apple Airprint? One that allows you to print directly to a printer over wifi (i.e., without having another computer running and connected to the network), offers legal size printing and photo print sizes other than 4x6? Thanks!
Why won't Spotlight find things?
I do a Spotlight search for "foo." I have at least a dozen files with "foo" in the name. I do the search while looking at foo.pdf, foofighting.pdf, etc. right in the Finder right in front of me. But when running the search, none of them show up. Why?
Under System Preferences for Spotlight, I have Folders, Files, and PDF Files all checked. Any idea why Spotlight is blind to these files?
How to keep video links from clogging google search results?
How can I prevent video results from showing up in a Google search? For example, if I do a google search on "picasa os x 10.6.8 screen resolution", half the links on the first results page are youtube videos. If I want videos I can select "videos" instead of "web". But I can't figure out how to prevent videos from showing up in a regular web search.
(I'm running Firefox on a MacBook Pro 10.6.8; I get the same results using Chrome.)
Packing list for big brother
If one was moving to a country that engages in surveillance of its citizens as well as foreigners and you wanted to best protect yourself, what would you buy? [more inside]
Better fitness mags for women?
Really over Fitness and its monthly workouts. What should I subscribe to instead? [more inside]
posted by spunweb at 3:04 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by spunweb at 3:04 PM PST - 7 comments
What toys would you suggest for a cat that needs exercise but...
What toys would you suggest for a cat that needs exercise but isn't motivated by treats? She does like scratching posts/beds and chin scritches, but I don't know how to work those into an active toy.
posted by Evilspork at 2:26 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by Evilspork at 2:26 PM PST - 35 comments
Venice during acqua alta
Hubs and I are contemplating a trip to Venice in October--acqua alta season. What kind of gear would we want to manage the high waters? Like: Would we want to bring full-on rubber boots, or will we be able to get by with regular waterproof shoes? [more inside]
I've stitched it, now what do I _do_ with it?
Please help me find good ideas of how to incorporate a 4" x 5" piece of needlepoint into a project for a new baby. [more inside]
posted by sparklemotion at 1:57 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by sparklemotion at 1:57 PM PST - 16 comments
Rape isn't funny
Someone makes rape jokes at your workplace. If you could make them read and write an essay about an illuminating book on rape and sexual violence, what would that book be? [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:44 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:44 PM PST - 24 comments
24x40 poster frame on the cheap and easy?
I have a 24x40 poster that I would like to stick in a frame. I am reluctant to go to our local custom framing shop, because while they do very nice work, the price is usually in the >$100 range, which is more than I can spend right now. I've done some searching online, and haven't found great results, plus it is hard for me to assess the good vs. bad websites to purchase. Any recommendations on where I can get this size frame (or another size that my poster would look okay in - does not need to be super professional-looking), hopefully for less than $50? I can swing by a store like Target, but don't want to get into anything too complicated like looking at flea markets.
posted by rainbowbrite at 1:38 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by rainbowbrite at 1:38 PM PST - 18 comments
What do good relationships look like when they're bad?
I am in a really amazing relationship after a long, bad one. It is mutually supportive, caring, engaging, and honest—loving, in the best, most positive way. We never fight. This confuses me, and I need some reality-checking and standards for how normal good relationships are supposed to work. [more inside]
I need a help with a vaca destination in Caribbean or Central America
I am planning a vacation and tortured by all the choices. I'm thinking of the Caribbean or Central America (but open to just about anyplace). I need help narrowing it down. The trip is for my husband, my 5 year old son and me. We'd be flying from Boston and going for a week. So much more inside... [more inside]
posted by beccaj at 1:18 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by beccaj at 1:18 PM PST - 21 comments
Kansas City Living for a Baltimore Transplant
My wife and I relocated from Baltimore to KC last month and are rather homesick. We are looking for a house with some architectural value like Prairie Village Drummonds or some of the moderns in KCK. We would do anything to avoid the soulless reaches of Leawood. [more inside]
posted by extraheavymarcellus at 1:01 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by extraheavymarcellus at 1:01 PM PST - 4 comments
What is "stinky cheese"?
Help me find the name of this hard, pungent Italian cheese. [more inside]
posted by Thin Lizzy at 12:55 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Thin Lizzy at 12:55 PM PST - 20 comments
Intro to Electrical Engineering Course Online?
I'm looking for a purely online course for an introductory electrical engineering course from a legitimate certified institution for the purposes of transferring to my current institution.
posted by gzimmer at 12:53 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by gzimmer at 12:53 PM PST - 2 comments
Is there anything I can do to make my period more predictable?
I have always had a very irregular menstrual cycle. I am interested in learning about any natural ways to make it more regular. [more inside]
[for a friend filter] looking for a great private GMAT tutor in SF
I am asking on behalf of a friend. She is looking for a GMAT tutor in SF, ideally who has access to a large library of computer exams in order to practice that format (my friend has struggled with the nature of the exam...she really wishes she could directly mark up the questions!). She has done well on standardized testing in the past (ie the SATs) and currently is an SAT math tutor so she definitely has a good foundation, but she needs someone who can help her with her verbal side (this is where she really struggles with the all-computer format), as well as pacing in general.
She really appreciates your recommendations, thank you. She is willing to pay for quality. Word of mouth is so much better than Google!
Monogramed knife bag?
My love has begun getting her foot in the door in the restaurant industry and working some kitchen shifts. Currently she brings her knives to work wrapped in a towel and rubber bands. I'd like to get her a nice knife bag/roll and have it monogrammed. I need advice on good brands/places to purchase this/what to look for! Any chefs/cooks out there have any recommends? Online stores or San Francisco shops preferred.
Thanks!
posted by matt_od at 11:36 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by matt_od at 11:36 AM PST - 6 comments
Withholding in W4 - alimony/spousal support?
What withholding should I put in my W4 if I'm paying alimony/spousal support? [more inside]
British Guitar Fakebook, 1975-today
I love playing guitar, and I love British rock/pop/punk (esp. 90s Britpop era). If you were compiling a list of awesome UK music to play on guitar from, say, 1975 to today, what specific songs would you include? [more inside]
Because "come here volcano!" is absurd to yell at 2 am
NameThisDogFilter: 8 week old island pup needs a new name for his new life. Obligatory adorable puppy pictures inside. [more inside]
Shout out for help from PDX!
Dear Portland, I'll be spending three weeks in your fair city starting this coming Saturday. I'm there for a pretty particular reason- I just had foot surgery at a point in my life when I'm living with my parents, and it's turned out to be pretty toxic for me. A friend has kindly invited me to recover at her house. Looking for foot-friendly adventure and Good Times. [more inside]
Drawing what's not in front of me?
How can I learn to draw from my imagination? [more inside]
posted by kristi at 10:32 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by kristi at 10:32 AM PST - 15 comments
Survey/Interview Data Collection Tool Needed
I will be traveling to a remote location to interview key informants for a research project. I am looking for a convenient interface which to enter the data. [more inside]
What to see on Route 66, traveling to Los Angeles?
Hivemind, what sights are they are to see and/or photograph along the way? What should we not miss? What is a must see? What is out there that's unique? Ghost towns? World's largest ant? [more inside]
A Hand Grenade Thrown into a Marriage?
Asking for a specifically male perspective here: what do you wish you'd known before having kids that would have made your relationship better? [more inside]
posted by Kitty Stardust at 10:20 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by Kitty Stardust at 10:20 AM PST - 49 comments
Tiredness after exercise
Every now and then, after exercising, I get overwhelmingly tired. How can I prevent this? [more inside]
posted by Petrot at 9:59 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Petrot at 9:59 AM PST - 17 comments
Searching for a specific pair of shoes
I have had my eye on these shoes for months and despite the price tag, I'm tempted to bite the bullet. Can you help me find some comparable shoes at a lower price point? [more inside]
How can I find out more about what Polish people eat?
Can you think of any good sources of information on Polish daily eating habits, dietary trends, frequently used ingredients and dishes etc.? Bonus question: how much overlap is there with other Eastern European countries? [more inside]
B'day present for my nephew
What a cool gift I could get a 9 yr old? [more inside]
Network adapter address presets?
I am looking for something to help me quickly and easily change the IP address(es) I use on my laptop's network adapter. [more inside]
MacBook Pro i5 vs i7 -- Prius body with Lamborghini guts
Which one to get: Macbook Pro i5 duo core, i7 duo core or i7 quad core [more inside]
posted by jadepearl at 8:38 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jadepearl at 8:38 AM PST - 11 comments
Help, I've fallen, and I can't share my geocoordinates!
I'm in search of a personal medical alert product for my middle-aged mother and somewhat overwhelmed by the volume of incomplete solutions, vague descriptions, sketchy resellers, and keyword hoarding. Help me be the best geriatric technologist this side of sixty! [more inside]
posted by nominal at 8:32 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by nominal at 8:32 AM PST - 11 comments
How to take in a second cat who also eats special prescription food?
We have an old cat who eats special prescription food. We are thinking about taking in a friend's old cat who also eats special prescription food. Is there a convenient way to do this? [more inside]
Why are shampoo labels more often than not in English & French?
Now my guess is that it's so they can sell the same thing in both the U.S and Canada but why does this seem to be unique to shampoo and not other products commonly found in the supermarket like detergent?
posted by zeoslap at 8:24 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by zeoslap at 8:24 AM PST - 15 comments
Shirt garters for skirt suits?
I'd like to keep my button-down shirts tucked in to my suits better, but I mostly wear skirt suits. Traditional shirt garters clip onto your socks, so those won't do. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by asperity at 8:08 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by asperity at 8:08 AM PST - 13 comments
but *which* Clarisonic?
I want a Clarisonic - I think I want one with a body brush, which as I understand it, means the Plus or Pro. I plan on purchasing through Amazon. What do I need to know? Any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by needlegrrl at 7:54 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by needlegrrl at 7:54 AM PST - 11 comments
My couch got hit by a car. Now what?
I bought a new couch. It got delivered yesterday. The couch is damaged (though it's very minor). I'm going to call "the guy" today and "work something out." Please help me choose the best option. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 6:56 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by phunniemee at 6:56 AM PST - 26 comments
Research career post-PhD?
Defending and depositing my engineering dissertation by end of April. Strained relations with advisor and distant relations with committee. What next, and how? Please advise. [more inside]
How can I tame my eating disorder?
I have had an eating disorder for years, but only sought professional help recently. I'm on a waiting list for therapy, but I don't know how much longer it will take to get an appointment. Looking for books/hacks/advice...anything to try and get myself back under control. [more inside]
Interactive web map that shows user's location and destination
I need to publish a map for a website that shows the user's location and a pre-defined destination. [more inside]
posted by signal at 6:03 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by signal at 6:03 AM PST - 4 comments
Baseball Hat Logo Assistance
Please help me with my baseball hats - the logo/crest is "dented" [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:23 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:23 AM PST - 6 comments
I want to place hockey until the day I die. Can you help?
Calling fellow hockey players, young and old, what specific gym or off-ice training will be the most beneficial in terms of keeping me in hockey shape for as long as humanly possible? [more inside]
posted by LongDrive at 4:06 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by LongDrive at 4:06 AM PST - 6 comments
Can someone explain the movie Don't Look Now?
I loved the movie "Don't Look Now" (1973) but I have some questions about what exactly was going on. [spoilers follow, of course] [more inside]
posted by pete_22 at 3:11 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by pete_22 at 3:11 AM PST - 5 comments
CMS for book project
I'm considering writing a technical book, mostly a labour of love. I want to do the writing process online, like Bruce Eckel did for his excellent Thinking in Java years ago. In order to facilitate user feedback, Eckel had a very fine-grained commenting system, which he developed himself and called TalkBack. At the end of each paragraph there was a "comment" link that let users comment on that particular paragraph. Are there any other CMS that offers fine-grained feedback like that? I'm aware of an older (2003-2004?) Zope TalkBack implementation, but would like something more current. And if you think I'm looking for the wrong thing and should go about writing a book on the web differently, please chime in!
posted by Harald74 at 2:14 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Harald74 at 2:14 AM PST - 8 comments
I'm looking for flowcharts depicting the oddities of English
In my lab I was hired in part so as to have a native speaker of English on hand to improve the general knowledge of the language if only by osmosis. So, deciding to take my duties seriously, the other day I drew the Oh Snap Flowchart on the whiteboard of our break-room where it was a big hit, what other amusing flowcharts are there floating around the internet that I could use to explain any of the various oddities of the English language? [more inside]
posted by Blasdelb at 1:34 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Blasdelb at 1:34 AM PST - 5 comments
What are some famous works of obsession?
What are some famous works of obsession? Things like the guy who kept a detailed diary for decades, or extreme collectors, or people who have strived to do everything on a list, or perhaps some mammoth cataloging or organising effort.
January 21
Love you but not in love with you, Version 2.0?
"I don't love you, I just love how you make me feel." What does it mean to be on the receiving end of this? [more inside]
Like, if you had a tiger? What toy would you buy it.
I am looking for the worlds toughest squeaky toy. [more inside]
posted by fshgrl at 9:23 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by fshgrl at 9:23 PM PST - 22 comments
tomorrow is Oktoberfest, Butters, and polka will never die.
You liked The Dresden Files. What other books did you enjoy? [more inside]
Is it OK to ignore a job agency recruiter?
A job agency recruiter sent an e-mail about a possible job opportunity at a very large company. The recruiter mentioned that she got my information through my friend (who currently works at that company). Initially, I thought it was spam however my friend does work at that company based on a quick search on LinkedIn. I haven't spoke to my friend for 5-6 years since graduation. Also, the job agency recruiter appears to be real and has a legit profile on LinkedIn.
I am not looking for a new job at the moment. Should ignore or write 1-2 sentences back?
Thank you
my father's last wish
My father has been diagnosed with terminal cancer. He cannot receive treatment or transplant. My father is going to die in 4-8 months. On new year's eve I got engaged and now my father wants me to get married soon. March soon so he can walk me down the aisle and maybe even dance with me. [more inside]
posted by octomato at 7:43 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by octomato at 7:43 PM PST - 22 comments
In Seven Psychopaths, what did the hooker say in Vietnamese?
I feel like I should be able to find the translation with Google, but it is proving more difficult than expected. I would love to know what they were saying in the Vietnamese parts of this movie.
posted by monkeys with typewriters at 7:04 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by monkeys with typewriters at 7:04 PM PST - 2 comments
Why does nicotine replacement therapy seem to do nothing for me?
Nicotine replacements seem to do nothing to abate my cravings. Any thoughts on what the heck might be going on? [more inside]
Sex offenders: is there a male bias?
I know there may be no way to know this for sure, but my impression is that there are more male pedophiles, and in general more male sex offenders than female ones. Is there any way to ascertain this? [more inside]
posted by zadcat at 5:51 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by zadcat at 5:51 PM PST - 12 comments
Snap Out of It Existence
This is somewhat of a fairly negative post, so let me apologize now.
I have a lot of things to be happy about, and I am really struggling to feel happy. I should be grateful for all of the blessings I have, but instead I keep thinking about how much of my life has been wasted on fictional goals and trying to find something that I stand out in. [more inside]
posted by nidora at 5:20 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by nidora at 5:20 PM PST - 26 comments
Heading to Iceland with an infant
My wife and I are thinking of heading to Iceland for our summer vacation. This year will be a little different as we will be traveling with our 14month old. Since are on the East Coast the flight to Iceland is reasonably quick and Iceland is quicker than some domestic locations
We hope to rent a house in the south eastern part of Iceland in late May or early June. We will use the house as our base and do some small day trips from there. Our only goal for the vacation is to enjoy the scenery and see a few things. We are going to travel light and purchase most food and diapers there.
Any hints, tips, and tricks traveling to Iceland with an infant. What can we expect in terms of availability of conventional baby foods and diapers? Anything else we should know?
What to do about a lack of curiosity in a relationship?
I love my girlfriend. However, she's not curious, and so we don't have discussions. I don't know what to do about it, as it's rapidly starting to affect my feelings towards her. [more inside]
Name of an essay about Cuba that involves locomotives?
I read a nonfiction piece awhile back that I can't find via my google-fu. It concerns a guy visiting Cuba who meets with locomotive types in memory of (or for) his father, who was a train buff. The piece was nostalgic and colorful, and focused on the concept of Cuban train engineering effectively being frozen in time. Can anyone help?
posted by eggman at 4:47 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by eggman at 4:47 PM PST - 2 comments
I broke my friend's lamp...
I broke my friend's lamp and I am trying to find the closest possible replacement. [more inside]
How Do I Change People's First Impressions Of Me and TALK LESS?
I've asked similar questions on here, but I'm now focusing on one of my behaviours--Talking way too much, way too soon. I'm in France on exchange, and while I've made friends and calmed down a lot since my last question, I'm still in the habit of monopolizing conversations (ughhhh) and generally being an intense weirdo due to my social anxiety. I'm generally confident and extroverted and was improving on my intense-crazy communication style quite a bit, but this trip is bringing out the worst of my social anxiety bad habits. Please help! [more inside]
posted by rhythm_queen at 3:38 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by rhythm_queen at 3:38 PM PST - 16 comments
Help with a trendy Asian restaurant name?
I'd like to get some help for a new trendy, southeast Asian restaurant name. The restaurant will be limited service (fast-casual), similar to a Chipotle.
Some names that I like:
1) Papaya
2) Spice
3) Samosa
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Let me know if you have questions, and I can try to answer them.
Thanks!
Eric
12 hours with a car on Oahu!
We have 12 hours with a car, starting in Waikiki and ending at the airport. What to do? [more inside]
Best practices? My job laughs at these. Please help me leave.
I work in a very small IT company that makes custom business applications. The owner is way too involved in the day-to-day and pushes the sales guy to schedule us back to back to back for projects. We have no dedicated support staff so support for existing clients falls back to us (me and the one other developer) in addition to building new applications - and having all the meetings etc with clients. We are like half BA, half developer with no project manager anywhere in sight. I need to develop some skills that will allow me to get another job but no one here has the time or interest in creating requirements documents or making use cases. I barely have time to get my work done and am working more than 40 most weeks without overtime (I am salaried). I am getting burned out and need to leave. But the lack of actual SDLC/Agile/documentation stuff is really killing my attempts to transition to a straight BA position. [more inside]
Mired in a sea of cell phone choices, 2013 edition
I need a new phone! However, in looking at the available options, I am finding myself mired in analysis paralysis (not to mention a lot of "junk" websites full of keyword matches but zero useful content). Help narrowing down my selection, or even just finding a reliable source of sincere, information-dense reviews would be greatly appreciated. [more inside]
posted by aecorwin at 3:09 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by aecorwin at 3:09 PM PST - 15 comments
Does a Simmons Phenom Comforpedic need a matress cover for dust mites?
Does a Simmone Phenom Comforpedic need a mattress cover to protect against dust mites? [more inside]
High quality home audio setup on the cheap?
I'm moving in March and have decided I would like to put together a nice, high-quality sound setup on the cheap based around a Class-T Amp. On a whim I picked up this one for $16 and am now looking for advice on the other equipment. [more inside]
posted by lattiboy at 3:07 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by lattiboy at 3:07 PM PST - 23 comments
An Awesome Bay Area Plumber
I'm looking for recommendations of a good plumber in the Bay Area, ideally SF [more inside]
Seeking affordable financial planning/tax help!
I'd like to have a professional guide my new husband and I through filing taxes jointly, investing and saving for future goals, and so forth. How on earth do I find a financial planner to help us get started? [more inside]
posted by The Biggest Dreamer at 3:03 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by The Biggest Dreamer at 3:03 PM PST - 4 comments
Do I apply for (nearly) the same job again?
About five weeks ago, I applied for what seemed to be a great job at the university from which I recently graduated. (It's not a teaching/faculty position.) I applied about a week before the deadline and I think I'm a good candidate for it. The website, which is updated daily during the week, says that it has yet to be filled, that the selection is still in progress. However, I just saw a new job posting go up with the same title with a few small differences. I haven't been notified one way or the other as to the first job. How do I navigate applying for the newly-posted job? More specific information inside. [more inside]
Not too serious, not too silly board games
I'm looking for some board game suggestions. The target audience would never have the patience for serious German-style strategy games like Settlers of Catan. On the other hand, party games like Cranium or Apples to Apples or Cards Against Humanity are too freewheeling and silly for them.
What are some games that fall into that sweet spot between serious and silly? Examples could be Rapidough, Pictionary, Balderdash. I haven't played it but I think Ticket to Ride might also fit in here.
How to Sharper my Memory? A mental workout?
Ok, HiveMind, I want to sharper my memory. What have you tried/implemented with success? I decided to pick up Sudoku again, but, what else is good for a mental workout and more focused on memory strengthening? [more inside]
Central gas with new ducts or ductless heat pump.
Our home in Seattle contains a dozen or so electric heaters. We would like to get rid of these and upgrade to something more efficient/attractive/economical.
It seems our two options are 1) Central gas heating or 2) ductless heat pump.
To make gas heating work, we would have to install ducts. Does anyone have any experience with adding ducts to a ductless house? One possibility that has been suggested is to put the ducts on the outside of one side of the house. This would probably work in our case since all of the large rooms in our house share a common wall.
What are your thoughts/experiences with installing either gas heating with new ducts or ductless heat pump heating? I'm assuming that central gas would work just fine in a Seattle winter but I'm not sure if a ductless heat pump system would be adequate in the winter ( considering that our hope is to replace - not just augment - the existing system ).
I want to learn to reupholster furniture (chairs). Details inside.
I have an old armchair that I'd like to reupholster, but I have zero prior experience in the "furniture repair / restoration" field. I was wondering if anyone could recommend a very basic "step-by-step" guide to get me started. [more inside]
How do I deal with an incident of screwed-up spelling?
How do I deal with an incident of screwed-up spelling? [more inside]
Integrative/Holistic Medicine in Minneapolis
Do you love your doctor? I'm looking for a new general practitioner. In the past I have had best experience with doctors who use integrative or holistic to describe their approach -- though I recognize that those terms mean different things to different people. Bottom line is that I want someone who isn't going to throw pills at me right off the bat. Thanks!
What is Worth Nominating for the Hugos This Year?
I am eligible to nominate for the Hugo Awards (one of the big science fiction and fantasy awards) this year, and I want to do it right. I have about two months to read more books from last year to broaden my slate - what should I read? [more inside]
posted by restless_nomad at 12:47 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by restless_nomad at 12:47 PM PST - 11 comments
But they're 90% hole!
Kitchen Cleaning Gurus of MiFi: What's the best way to clean 1) oily gunk from between the handle and the netting of my all-metal spider, 2) a colander/strainer? Tips and tricks requested! [more inside]
Will self-publishing adversely affect my chances of finding a publisher?
So, the book is done. Woo hoo! I intend to seek an agent and a publisher, but I would also like to self-publish a small quantity for friends and family. I'm also considering self-publishing a somewhat larger quantity for local distribution. Would doing either of these things adversely affect my chance of being picked up by a traditional publisher?
Other considerations I could use help with: get an ISBN or not? E-publish? Any other guidance would be most appreciated!
winter is coming
Our offer was accepted, so it looks like we're buying a house. Our three-to-four-hour home inspection is tomorrow -- what do we we need to know going in and what do we need to be prepared to ask? I've read through the previous threads, but I was hoping to get some advice specific to the frozen north (Shorewood, WI, outside Milwaukee). [more inside]
Constant DNS lookup issues
Why do I have constant internet stability / DNS lookup issues on my laptop but not on my iPad etc.? [more inside]
posted by pravit at 11:26 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by pravit at 11:26 AM PST - 11 comments
Computer music with linux
I just discovered the wealth of audio programs for linux, and it's very exciting except I don't know how to use any of it. I'm learning linux, computer music composition, and music programs all at once. [more inside]
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 11:24 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 11:24 AM PST - 5 comments
Getting started with Polaroid
What is the best film for a Polaroid 600 Business Edition? [more inside]
posted by kittensofthenight at 11:12 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by kittensofthenight at 11:12 AM PST - 9 comments
Not the best time to question everything.
Halfway through my last year of law school and my partner of ~5 years has walked out. After months of trying to deal with an emotionally abusive relationship going seriously wrong, my life is decimated and my work for law review is behind and I'm getting angry emails all over the place. I'm having trouble just getting out of bed. Counselor through the university has let me vent a lot but I'm not feeling any better. Something needs to give, but how? [more inside]
How do I get mental health services while uninsured in Tucson, AZ?
I have mental health issues and I need to see a therapist, a psychiatrist, and have my medications prescribed/refilled regularly. I'm moving next month to be with my significant other (not married), but I'll lose my health insurance which is through my current state. Where do I get these mental health services at a reduced cost as an uninsured person in Tucson, AZ? [more inside]
How to deal with feelings of inadequacy?
I'll be blunt: I think I married a man who is too good for me. I'm having trouble dealing with my feelings of low self-worth and am tormented by insecurity. It's like the relationship version of Imposter Syndrome. [more inside]
LinkedIn Job Seeker Premium - worth the money?
Has anyone used LinkedIn premium for finding jobs? Did it expose you to more recruiters/hiring managers? And most importantly, can people besides recruiters see that you are using it (like...current coworkers)? [more inside]
Comic books for children
My five-year-old son and I just finished reading Bone, and we need a new comic to read together. I'd prefer something with an ongoing story, but good non-serial comics are also welcome.
posted by mokin at 10:21 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by mokin at 10:21 AM PST - 19 comments
Who Said It?
Paraphrased: "It's not that that half of your visitors will be on mobile devices, it's that all your visitors will be on mobile devices half the time." Who said it? I saw it on Twitter a few weeks ago and can't find it anywhere.
posted by furtive at 10:17 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by furtive at 10:17 AM PST - 1 comment
I know that California is broke, but this is getting ridiculous.
I have an extra $15.00 tacked onto my library fee. This is apparently a collections agency processing fee. Is there any way to not have to pay this exorbitant processing fee? [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle at 10:16 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by ablazingsaddle at 10:16 AM PST - 23 comments
blogs about contra dancing?
Could the hive mind recommend blogs or other writing about contra dance? I'm especially interested in discussions of technique, etiquette/custom/tradition, and calling. I've previously enjoyed Jeff Kaufman's blog and The Contra Syncretist.
posted by d. z. wang at 9:55 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by d. z. wang at 9:55 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me find this children's book!
I'm trying to track down a picture book from my childhood (late 70's-early 80's). All I remember is that the illustrations were line drawings filled in with pastel colors, and on one page there was a giant sun in pale yellow and orange (maybe spanning two pages.) Does anyone remember this book?
Who are the actors in this Sesame Street clip?
I've checked numerous places, but I can't find any credits for this Sesame Street "Triangle Detective" sketch. Does anyone recognize the actors? They both look familiar to me but I can't figure out who they are. Any eagle eyes appreciated.
What are some Toddler-friendly places in Manhattan?
My husband and I are taking my nearly 2 year old on her first trip to New York. We're going to be there to buy books and fabric, but this will take less than a day out of our three day trip. We've been to New York dozens of times, but never with a kid in tow. We'd like some suggestions for toddler-friendly shops, sites, and restaurants that we can use to break up our errands. [more inside]
posted by Alison at 9:26 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Alison at 9:26 AM PST - 19 comments
Help me find a classic men's winter coat
I'm a man in my late-30s and want a winter coat that's less Urban Outfitters, more classic and grown-up. Help? [more inside]
posted by deern the headlice at 9:12 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by deern the headlice at 9:12 AM PST - 21 comments
Kettle me up!
Tea kettles: electric vs. stove-top. Tell me which one to buy! [more inside]
posted by cooker girl at 8:46 AM PST - 70 comments
posted by cooker girl at 8:46 AM PST - 70 comments
Riddle me this.
Good puzzle book (or series of books) for bright senior mom with mild confusion/dementia? [more inside]
posted by Currer Belfry at 8:43 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Currer Belfry at 8:43 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me identify my new pup
My husband and I adopted a shelter dog last week, who we absolutely adore. When we were looking at her I asked one of the workers if they knew what kind of dog she was and they said no....just a mutt. My curiosity is getting the best of me though, and I would like to see if anyone might have some insight into what kind of breeds she might be. Pictures are here 3 photos included and she is the bigger dog in photo 1. She's about 2 years old so I'm assuming she's fully grown, also slightly under weight. As for her height, her head is about hip height (I'm 5'5"). So please someone satisfy my curiosity about our newest baby and tell me what kind of pup could she be?
posted by RubyDoom at 8:23 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by RubyDoom at 8:23 AM PST - 36 comments
Return address while in between addresses?
Return address quandary: I've left my old apartment but I haven't moved into a new one yet. I'm forwarding my mail to a POB in the meanwhile. When continuing official correspondence, what should I put down as my return address? [more inside]
posted by mirileh at 8:21 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mirileh at 8:21 AM PST - 8 comments
advice for how to present a non-fiction book to a lecture audience
I will be need to present my thesis (which is a 200 page theoretical book) to an audience in about a week. Some of the audience will have read it, but the majority will have not. The argument of the book is too complex and extended to summarize into a 10 minute presentation, so I am not sure what to present. If I try to condense it or if I select just a part to present, the result will be that the whole book will be judged based on that one part. [more inside]
Should I make my car a smart car?
We talked about smart houses before on AskMeFi, now what about smart cars? I'd like to smarten up my car a little, especially for parking. [more inside]
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 8:00 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Rosie M. Banks at 8:00 AM PST - 8 comments
Need advice on my personal life affecting my career.
I am currently undergoing a career crisis and I need some wisdom, blunt feedback, and strategies for going forward. [more inside]
A smaller car with great gas mileage?
It's time for me to get a new car. I'm leaning towards a smaller car. What should I get? [more inside]
posted by reenum at 7:41 AM PST - 55 comments
posted by reenum at 7:41 AM PST - 55 comments
Improving webex experience
I'm looking for tips and recommendations to improve the audio/video quality of online meetings.
We already have good connections/machines for online meetings - but as I'm doing more and more of those, I'd like to specifically improve experience of everyone - especially for sound & video. [more inside]
posted by motdiem2 at 2:37 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by motdiem2 at 2:37 AM PST - 8 comments
What Elmore Leonard book should I start with?
Simple enough question. I've never read any Elmore Leonard, and think I will give him a whirl. Where should I start?
posted by Alaska Jack at 1:10 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 1:10 AM PST - 18 comments
How to help a friend escape an abusive relationship...?
Friend stuck in abusive relationship and totally unable to break up. [more inside]
posted by fishingforthewhale at 1:01 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by fishingforthewhale at 1:01 AM PST - 34 comments
I have a crazy itchy spot on my foot.
Every once in awhile, I'll get this rediculously itchy spot on the sole of my foot. It's always on the exact same place, in the middle of my foot in the nook right where the ball of my foot meets the rest of my foot. It only happens on one foot, and only for about 5-10 minutes on any given day. It doesnt happen every day, but I haven't been able to figure out what's different about the days it does itch. There is no visable rash, scab, scar, discharge, flakiness, nothing. There is no visable difference in that part of my foot.
Does anyone else get this? What is it from and how do I make it go away? (And yes, it is itching now.)
January 20
Nonde nonde nonde!
Help me show my drink/party-loving friend who is visiting Tokyo a memorable time! [more inside]
How do you store mixed-media research content?
With the rise of single-format sharing sites (eg. Youtube and Vimeo for video, Pinterest and Flickr for photos), how do you consolidate assets from multiple sources in a single "project"? [more inside]
posted by felspar at 10:43 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by felspar at 10:43 PM PST - 12 comments
Fighting Gravity.
Newfangled core exercise featured on CTV, Global or CBC?
Partner and I saw a segment on one of CTV, Global or CBC (national? maybe... we're in Calgary) in which an American professor of... kinesiology, or something like it, demonstrated what he said was the perfect core exercise. Desperately trying to track it down. [more inside]
posted by ethnomethodologist at 9:28 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ethnomethodologist at 9:28 PM PST - 4 comments
help me flirt in a professional setting
How do I, a barista, flirt with one of my hot regulars? [more inside]
What do modern sailors do when their ship is docked?
Do the crews of ships such as container and bulk good carriers leave the ship and get to see the place they are visiting? If not, why not?
General descriptions of the lives of modern seafarers that illuminate this question are more than welcome. [more inside]
Sports metaphors for the unsporty
I came across the phrase "in his/her/my wheelhouse" last year for the first time and was shocked to learn there's an entire genre of writing with its own set of metaphors that I know nothing about. Sportswriting! [more inside]
posted by spamandkimchi at 6:42 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by spamandkimchi at 6:42 PM PST - 38 comments
Good web app allowing fundraising participants to accept credit cards?
I'm the director of a local road race that raises funds for our public school, and I'm looking for a reasonable online app that lets us solicit credit card donations via individual participant pages which would associate given donations with the participants who solicited them. [more inside]
Men's Tailor on the UWS of Manhattan.
Need recommendation for a tailor on or near the UWS of Manhattan, NYC . Standard stuff, mostly altering off the rack shirts, pants, and jackets, nothing too extreme but should be familiar with vintage and custom-mades. Would prefer quality over speed or cost.
Archival software naming ideas needed
Could anybody suggest some name ideas for a program (UNIX command-line/cron job, not GUI) for progressively backing up/archiving files in a directory tree to archive volumes and sending them to some remote location (i.e., Amazon Glacier, or else a server reachable by ssh)? [more inside]
Dog walkers in Cambridge, MA?
We just adopted a dog and and are looking for a good dog walker in Cambridge, MA to take out him out four times a week. We're new to the area and don't know other dog owners who could recommend someone, so we're at the mercy of Yelp. We live in the Inman Square neighborhood of Cambridge. Any suggestions would be very welcome!
How can I add phone interview audio to my existing podcasting setup?
I'm interested in making a new podcast/audio interview series for the web. What's the best way to integrate quality phone interview audio into my series, either using my existing podcasting equipment or with new equipment? [more inside]
posted by iamisaid at 5:28 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by iamisaid at 5:28 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me buy a rice strainer that clips to the bowl
I need one of these pink things. Someone online must sell one. Do you know where I can buy one? [more inside]
posted by royalsong at 5:20 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by royalsong at 5:20 PM PST - 8 comments
What is the purpose and name of this object?
My friends have a house-sit. The house's owners possess two of these objects. We don't recognize them. The blades are sharpened, and they were stored beneath the sink.
We have some strong theories, but no real answers. The owners are Bangladeshi Americans, if that helps. [more inside]
posted by eyesontheroad at 4:49 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by eyesontheroad at 4:49 PM PST - 5 comments
How to politely ask for a letter of recommendation?
How should I approach asking for a letter of recommendation when the letter writer doesn't write well in English? [more inside]
Librarians in media
What are some films or TV shows about librarians, or that feature prominent/notable characters that are librarians?
posted by Bektashi at 4:26 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Bektashi at 4:26 PM PST - 32 comments
I just want a vee neck.
Can I get cheap tee shirts tailored so they don't choke me to death? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan at 4:24 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Morrigan at 4:24 PM PST - 6 comments
Can Congress limit/stop the Supreme Court's appellate powers? Have they?
Am I reading the US Constitution Article III Section 2 correctly, when it seems to say that Congress can legislatively make exceptions to the Supreme Court having appellate jurisdiction? If I am reading it correctly, have they ever done so, or has there ever been a serious proposal to do so? Are any such exceptions in place now? What were/are the details of such exceptions? [more inside]
posted by Flunkie at 3:50 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Flunkie at 3:50 PM PST - 4 comments
Is my 2 year old's behavior normal?
Is my 2 year old's extra tantrum-y behavior normal? And if you've been there with a super difficult kid, what helped? [more inside]
posted by kpht at 3:18 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by kpht at 3:18 PM PST - 30 comments
Returning to work after maternity leave when my boss doesn't want me to.
Returning to work after maternity leave when my boss doesn't want me to. [more inside]
posted by Wantok at 3:03 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Wantok at 3:03 PM PST - 15 comments
Trying to donate a TV, or give it away for free. Failing. Help?
I have a Toshiba 35" TV from the mid-90s that still works perfectly. I still have the manual it came with, and the original remote. The TV stands on a custom TV stand that was built by the manufacturer specifically for it.
Unfortunately, I don't want it anymore, the TV weighs 165 lbs., and I cannot carry it myself. Options I've exhausted include: [more inside]
posted by tzikeh at 2:51 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by tzikeh at 2:51 PM PST - 31 comments
International move planning for the generally risk-averse!
How do people decide to do and execute big moves abroad? Is it a dumb idea to move abroad without a job in hand first? [more inside]
Can I do anything with pig skin after slow-cooking it?
I made some delicious slow-cooker pulled pork using this chow.com recipe. I cooked the pork shoulder with the skin on, believing it to add flavour. After cooking, it came right off, along with a thick layer of fat. I've looked up pork scratching recipes, but none of them take into account that I cooked it for 8 hours beforehand. I'd like to do something useful with it, but I'm not sure what. Is it destined for my tummy or the bin?
posted by Magnakai at 1:57 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Magnakai at 1:57 PM PST - 9 comments
How to get the Galaxy Nte 2's Screen to stay on.
Samsung Galaxy Note II - How can I get the screen to always stay on while charging? [more inside]
posted by sandra_s at 1:08 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by sandra_s at 1:08 PM PST - 15 comments
Help me restore a RAID5 array?
I have a software RAID5 array in Ubuntu. According to the SMART status, all the devices are okay (one has "a few bad sectors," but the health is green). I have 5 drives, but I can't get the raid to assemble! I'm about to try raid create as outlined here but it looks risky and I was hoping to see if there's something simple I'm missing. [more inside]
Do I have a right to shares after turning them down?
I accepted a higher salary in lieu of shares. Found of first week on the job the company is in talks to be sold. Am I entitled to demand shares? [more inside]
posted by DuckGirl at 12:21 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by DuckGirl at 12:21 PM PST - 22 comments
Can you help identify this Christmas Present?
Can you help identify this Christmas Present? [more inside]
posted by Fiat124 at 12:15 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Fiat124 at 12:15 PM PST - 20 comments
Flat thermal mug?
Is it possible to buy an insulated mug/single serving thermos that is flat, eg, like a liquor flask? (Or at least flatter than the norm.) [more inside]
Watching the swearing-in in Seattle
[SeattleFilter] Where to watch the inauguration? [more inside]
Best books to heal from rape / sexual assault
I've been Googling and looking through different lists of recommended books (including some recommended by orgs like RAINN) about healing from sexual trauma, but I'm looking for 1 or 2 good books that are reasonably-priced. (Many of these books seem to be out of print and therefore expensive.) This is about an assault that happened to me as an adult, so books about child abuse are out.
What I don't want: hokey, religious, new-age, preachy, textbooks, "workbooks"
My ideal book would deal with many of the symptoms of Rape Trauma Syndrome, including having "body memories" of the assault.
Hope this is descriptive enough.
Where therapy and parties collide, aka what happened to my social tact?
I ran into someone at a party that I'd previously met briefly in a clinical setting (in a position of authority), but I lacked the social tact to refrain from mentioning this. Is there anything I could have done to right the situation? [more inside]
My shoes and my heels separate when walking
My heels come up out of these gym shoes when I walk. I can't return them because I took off the tags.
Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks!
I could always publish my EOB as a found Novel...
I have been in treatment for cancer for a very long time now, as I have discussed earlier in answers on the green. This is not a cancer question, however, but an insurance paperwork question: specifically, do I need to keep it all? [more inside]
posted by pickypicky at 9:41 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by pickypicky at 9:41 AM PST - 6 comments
Did Northerners run guns to the Confederacy?
I’m trying to find out if there were any Northerners during the U.S. Civl War who ran guns to the Confederacy. I’ve done research and have found nothing about this. Any Civil War buffs out there ever hear any rumblings about this? If so, can you point me to resources?
"Google Voice" app on Canadian Nexus 7?
I have a Google Voice account and phone number, and from my desktop I am able to send & receive SMS (google.com/voice) and even make outgoing calls (gmail.com). I just got a Nexus 7, and would like to find the 'Google Voice' app, but I'm not able to. What am I missing? [more inside]
posted by jpziller at 8:45 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jpziller at 8:45 AM PST - 5 comments
Help feeling more motivated and less negative about work.
I have a pretty decent job but don't enjoy it and have started underperforming - how can I motivate myself to work harder again? [more inside]
Does Wolfram Alpha use Java?
Loading this web page I get an error saying that a plugin is disabled. I've disabled Java. How do I tell if this page is using Java?
I've placed the page's source code here if that helps answer the question.
Thanks!
Where is this video snippet from?
Help me find the source of this video clip, it begins at 2:08 here. It's a dance sequence,the one with the woman with short blond hair. Given the subject of the video it's likely from an advertisement in the late 80s - early 90s. The music playing in the background on the video is not the original music accompanying the clip.
Real diamond or fake diamond?
I am about to be engaged. We have briefly discussed the ‘engagement ring’. I do not want to come across as shallow, but I would LOVE to have an engagement ring. He doesn’t make a lot of money, so we are considering a fake diamond. Does anyone have any experience as to the best simulant out there? [more inside]
Can't compose/reply on Yahoo email 1/19/13
All day starting 1/19, cannot compose or reply, just receive -- BUT, that's only on one laptop; on my other (older) lappy Yahoo works fine and I CAN compose/reply. [more inside]
posted by noelpratt2nd at 7:29 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by noelpratt2nd at 7:29 AM PST - 10 comments
What is becoming a wedding officiant like?
My fiance and I are planning to get married next year, and we would like to ask a dear family friend to officiate the wedding. I want to know if there are any drawbacks/difficulties that we may not have thought of. [more inside]
Help me figure out the best strategy around temping
I'm just finished a research masters, and I have been doing freelance work in my field throughout that to pay the bills. My plan was to go looking for temp work next week, but I'd love some advice on how you've balanced getting temp or other jobs when your other work needs occasional daytime availability. [more inside]
What should I do in Philadelphia in a day?
I will be in Philadelphia from 9am to 5pm today with my wife to celebrate her 30th birthday. It's our first time here. What are some things that we can do and a brunch that we can have to make it memorable?
Where should a nature lover and illustrator move to?
I am in the process of moving from my abusive family's house/city to another city with the wages I have saved over the past few years, but I have been unable to choose a city. It would ideally be affordable, and have a supportive environment for artists/illustrators with natural beauty and publishing opportunities. Do any cities come to mind? Any help would be very much appreciated! [more inside]
posted by timespacewheredoifit at 3:55 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by timespacewheredoifit at 3:55 AM PST - 17 comments
(Very, very) cheap and hopefully safe
Inspired by all these threads (1, 2, 3) I was wondering which products are much cheaper than other products in the same class, but offer comparable, or exceptional performance. Generally, I would suppose these would mainly come from Chinese companies that aren't very well-established internationally. [more inside]
Are there any neverhood type apps?
I love the 1990's neverhood claymation game. Can the green recommend anything similar for iPads? [more inside]
posted by insomniax at 2:57 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by insomniax at 2:57 AM PST - 6 comments
Where is the most indoors?
Suppose we define an indoors number as the number of doorways that one must pass through to get from a given location to the outdoors. What location has the highest number? [more inside]
Microplane, yay or nay? And (warning: pun ahead) grate uses?
Should I buy a Microplane? I'm hesitating because $$ (looking at this one), and a small kitchen means I try to keep gadgets strictly to a minimum. Is it worth it, and what are the things you use your Microplane for? [more inside]
Nice places to get married somewhere in or around Seattle...
Where are nice places to get married somewhere in or around Seattle? For the place, what is the general cost? If the specifics help provide a better answer, we're trying for a late-summer, weekend ceremony and reception. Probably 55-65 people. [more inside]
Name That Song!
I've been looking for this song for years now, and I have no idea where to even start because I don't even know what language it is in. So, I'm hoping the HiveMind will be able to point me in the right direction. I've posted a sample here. [more inside]
January 19
How do I stop my old self from influencing my present self?
I want to mentally rebuild myself, so to say. There's a lot of wrong and/or conflicting info in my head. I noticed that I have too many prejudices, too many predetermined opinions about people/stuff, I do too much quick jumping to conclusions and too much judging. I want to stop doing that. [more inside]
State of Bittorrent in 2013
What's a quality Bittorrent site in 2013? Demonoid is down, and TPB has no focus on quality. My interests are in film and music, with an experimental bent.
Mythology books
I'm looking for the very best non-dry nonfiction about different mythologies, especially as they relate in a historical/societal context. Comparative mythology is awesome, but so is focusing on a specific mythology (like a book focusing solely on druids or fairies or what have you). I don't want a compilation of myths or retellings. I do want an examination of common themes within a culture or the structure of the culture's pantheon.
How do you do a background check for firearms purchases?
If an individual sells a gun to another individual, how would the seller do a background check? Is the NICS database available to private individuals? [more inside]
Career ideas for a bright teen with a physical disability?
My 19-year-old-daughter is very smart, but due to her disability can't handle a school- or workday of more than 3-4 hours. Help me brainstorm career ideas for her as she completes high school. [more inside]
posted by DrMew at 9:39 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by DrMew at 9:39 PM PST - 53 comments
Easygoing bar/lounge in or near Caesar's Palace that's open at 5 pm?
I'm stupid at wedding planning. I have a 2 hour gap between my lunch/dinner and a show I'm taking my guests to (both at Caesar's Palace in Vegas). Is there a really nice easygoing bar/lounge that's open at 5 pm in Caesar's or near Caesar's that you recommend for people to digest, chat, etc? It would be nice if they had some not too loud live music, too. Thanks!
The importance of common interests in relationships
How important are common interests in relationships? [more inside]
Interested in Online Colleges?
I feel like I'm looking in the proverbial haystack for the long-lost needle. More specifically, I am looking for long standing/respectable accredited online colleges where I could finish my BSW. No, I'm not looking for things like Everest Online or ITT Tech. Advice/experience appreciated, and of course, snowflake deets inside. [more inside]
Help me become a social media marketing expert
I want to transform my department's social media team into the campus experts on social media. What are the books, workshops, tools, websites and communities I should be looking into? [more inside]
posted by pwnguin at 7:34 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by pwnguin at 7:34 PM PST - 12 comments
How to copy/paste Cyrillic characters from PDF?
For years, I've accepted as fact that Russian-language PDFs don't play nice with other programs. That if you tried to paste copied text into Word or Notepad, you'd get gibberish characters. (I work on two laptops, one with Windows Vista and Acrobat, the other Windows 7 and Reader.) Are there any clever workarounds or programs I should know about? [more inside]
PLS assuage my guilt about refusing to beat my head on a cold shoulde
My brother assumed the worst about why I didn't attend a family event out of town. He wouldn't return my calls or texts to just talk about it. Other members of the family insist I should keep trying to 'get through'. I feel like I never deserved his anger and I don't deserve his further disdain. Help me stop torturing myself about it. [more inside]
posted by Tandem Affinity at 6:01 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Tandem Affinity at 6:01 PM PST - 24 comments
How risky is poor food handling?
What are the odds of actually getting sick from poor food handling at home? How can I convince family members their food hygiene is at worst deadly, at best simply gross. Let me know if I'm overreacting here please. [more inside]
She's having a baby!
My bestest good friend of 20 years is pregnant! YAY! I'd like to get her something simple but awesome to commemorate this. What should I send? [more inside]
posted by youandiandaflame at 5:25 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by youandiandaflame at 5:25 PM PST - 14 comments
How to make my voice sound DEEEEEP?
Metafilter, I am a tall and fit guy but my voice is high and nervous sounding. Are there any methods to deepen my sissy voice and make me a paler version of Morgan Freeman? [more inside]
posted by Sentus at 5:20 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Sentus at 5:20 PM PST - 14 comments
How to get through these next hours, these next days.
My partner just ended our relationship, what strategies can I use to get through the night and next few days? [more inside]
posted by Asherah at 4:56 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by Asherah at 4:56 PM PST - 34 comments
Ultra-simple One-liner Link-blogs, List-blogs?
What are some minimalist blogs that link to something interesting (article, video, etc), and offer minimal explanation but for a concise remark about it? [more inside]
Late 19th Century Russian Magazines
Why does Andrey Yefimitch, in Chekhov's *Ward No. 6*, read the last pages of The Doctor first? [more inside]
posted by slowlikemolasses at 4:19 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by slowlikemolasses at 4:19 PM PST - 5 comments
Recommend me some teen sci-fi TV series!
I love serious, obscure TV sci-fi aimed at twelve year olds. Please help me find more of it! [more inside]
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 3:47 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 3:47 PM PST - 44 comments
I've gotten along ok without caffeine. Would I get along better with it?
Do you think moderate daily caffeine consumption is, on the whole, a good thing? I certainly feel some positive effects on my productivity when I accidentally drink some caffeinated tea or whatnot, but I'd like to hear from people who drink tea/coffee every day. Are you glad you do? Do you wish you didn't have to, or do you think it gives you a boost you couldn't have otherwise, even with plenty of sleep? Does it have other health benefits? In short, would you recommend caffeine?
posted by malhouse at 3:35 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by malhouse at 3:35 PM PST - 39 comments
What are not-hideous clothes for a man to quickly wear to walk a dog?
Stylefilter! I love my new puppy. I love my boyfriend. I love that my boyfriend loves waking up early and taking the puppy outside. However, he doesn't love getting fully dressed at 6 am in his normal clothes, and I don't love things like track suits and crocs. Help! [more inside]
posted by amoeba at 3:35 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by amoeba at 3:35 PM PST - 30 comments
Seeking professional UK immigration advice while living in the US
How can I find a lawyer or similar professional with experience in applying for EEA Family Permits in the UK, while I am still living in the US? [more inside]
How do I attach a short wood plank onto an Ikea fiberboard tabletop?
My desk is not deep enough for me to sit comfortably with the monitor at a distance. How would I go about anchoring a wood plank onto it that will hold the counterweight of a 24" monitor sitting on the overhanging edge? This picture should explain what I mean.
Clamps? Nails? Screws? [more inside]
posted by legospaceman at 2:05 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by legospaceman at 2:05 PM PST - 17 comments
Routledge: what should I buy?
Help me book-shop! I have $150 credit with Routledge. What are your favorite books from their catalog? I'm in media/humanities but all recommendations welcome.
Fire Extinquishers
How do I go about getting fire extinguishers inspected by a reputable company? [more inside]
Some music for making money to.
I'm looking for perspectives on what music composers generally charge for work on video games and films. [more inside]
posted by hanoixan at 12:21 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by hanoixan at 12:21 PM PST - 3 comments
How to help family deal with the death of child while expecting our own?
My husband's brother just lost his baby daughter to what appears to be SIDS. It was a terrible shock and of course everyone in the family is in a lot of pain. What can we do to help at a time like this? There's an additional level of nuance in that I'm heavily pregnant and we're due in about a month; how will this affect the grieving family? What can we do be supportive while also being sensitive to the fact that it may be difficult for them to see us right now?
posted by annekate at 12:14 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by annekate at 12:14 PM PST - 13 comments
Why is Gmail is routing some of my mail away from my inbox?
Some of my mail is not ending up in my Inbox, and instead is only found in "All Mail". This includes emails from my wife, which is slightly problematic! I don't have any filters directing mail to other locations. The problem is occurring within the Gmail web app, and subsequently on my other devices too (Mail in OS X, Gmail app on iOS). Searching for a solution to the problem only results in specific client issues, or problems with Filtering.
Can you help troubleshoot?
posted by Amity at 12:00 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Amity at 12:00 PM PST - 3 comments
Source, translation of inscription, artist, and other works
Texts after midnight in a relationship?
My boyfriend and I live together. I am wondering, if it is reasonable to request, that he texts when he is out past 3am (More inside) [more inside]
Can I take advantage of $40 Windows 8 if I don't have an older Windows?
I currently don't have any version of Windows installed on my PC (it's a Mac). I would like to install Windows on a Bootcamp partition. I noticed that Microsoft has a special offer where they are selling a Windows 8 download for $40 through Jan. 31. That's a good price for me. The possible catch: Microsoft seems to be saying that I need to have an earlier version of Windows installed in order to use that download. I can't quite tell whether they are serious about this.
Do I really need to have a preexisting Windows install to take advantage of the $40 Windows 8 offer? [more inside]
posted by grobstein at 10:29 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by grobstein at 10:29 AM PST - 5 comments
Streaming live sports to iPhone?
The Arizona/ASU mens' basketball game starts in about an hour. My mother is on an airplane with wifi and wants to know if it's possible for her to watch the game on her iPhone somehow. She has a DirecTV subscription but no Nomad. [more inside]
Low cost medical diagnostics? MRI/CT/Xray/DNA Sequencing?
I want to better understand my body. So, I want data - baseline data. Going to sign up for 23andMe, and I'd also like to get some imaging done. In particular, I'd like an MRI of my body (head and torso) and any other medical diagnostics I can buy.
I'm interested in your suggestions for cheap medical imaging, and also for your suggestions on other ways to collect hard data about my body and its condition. [more inside]
posted by fake at 10:20 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by fake at 10:20 AM PST - 36 comments
Is it possible to interrupt a period that has already started?
Is it possible to interrupt a period that has already started? [more inside]
How do I find a discontinued Burt's Bees item?
The product was called Burt's Bees Carrot Seed Oil Complexion Mist. I was in love with how it felt on my skin and especially its (slight) hippie smell: subtle enough not to offend people, but hippie enough that my winter hat still wafts patchouli when I put it on. [more inside]
Newbie Anchovy Advice
I had an anchovy freak-out a few months ago, and really want to give this 'superfood' a new chance. Please help! [more inside]
posted by Draccy at 8:19 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Draccy at 8:19 AM PST - 19 comments
Stylist recommendations for shorthaired women in DC?
I need to find someone to cut my hair in DC. I’m a shorthaired and semi-androgynous hipster-lite lady in my late twenties. [more inside]
posted by vakker at 8:12 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by vakker at 8:12 AM PST - 11 comments
Guess what normal is: household income edition
Were you in a single-income doctor's family in the US during the 1990s? Help me reconstruct what lifestyle and education my siblings and I might have enjoyed if my mother hadn't been a pathologically miserly narcissist. Many, many details inside. [more inside]
Temp agencies for investment banks?
In the late nineties/early aughts I was an editor at an investment bank that everyone loves to hate. I was a part-time consultant and, while hired directly, paid through a temp agency. I was laid off in 2002. I'd like to get back into it, but I have no record of the name of the temp agency. How to hook up with a temp agency that staffs investment banks? [more inside]
Is it possible to heal from this? Or at least survive it?
If you have experienced child sexual abuse and came to some sort of healing what do you wish you had known from the beginning? What words of advice do you have for someone just beginning to go down that path? [more inside]
Double Day: Gifts for a teenager?
In February, my brother will be the age I was when he was born---or, to put it another way, I will be twice his age for the one and only time. To celebrate "double day," I would like to send him a box of double things---like double mint gum. Unfortunately, the only double thing I can think of is gum and a whole box of gum just seems a tad bit uninspiring. So hive mind, what else can I send that would fit the "double day" theme?
posted by rapidadverbssuck at 7:27 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by rapidadverbssuck at 7:27 AM PST - 27 comments
Comfy women's boots for wide, high-arched feet?
My feet are roughly the shape of a duck's. What brands of women's (fashion) boots should I investigate? [more inside]
What is the Midwestern Oxford American/Garden & Gun?
As a Midwestern expat living in the South, I have more Southern literature, magazines, blogs, and podcasts than I can shake a stick at. How do I find the Midwestern equivalents? [more inside]
Can I force Skype to use wifi on my unlocked Nexus 4?
I can't figure out whether it's possible to force Skype to use available wifi signals, rather than my data allowance, on my unlocked Nexus 4. I'm using a T-Mobile no-contract sim, and I can see why the carriers would like to discourage this, but since the phone's unlocked (bought directly from Google) I'm thinking it must be possible. Is it?
posted by oliverburkeman at 6:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by oliverburkeman at 6:15 AM PST - 8 comments
Can Rowlf understand Sprocket?
In "A Muppet Family Christmas," Rowlf meets Sprocket. Sprocket barks at him, and Rowlf responds, "Woof woof! Yeah, bark bark!" Doc says, "Don't you just hate it when you can't speak the language?" Here's the clip in question (at about 0:50.) Are the two dogs actually communicating? [more inside]
posted by wolfnote at 6:12 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by wolfnote at 6:12 AM PST - 6 comments
Hanzi: How to increase patience?
Hello,
I am currently studying Chinese. I'd be interested in any advice people could give me with regard to making my Hanzi practice more productive. [more inside]
Changing gears on a single speed bike
My new single speed is a bit too easy to ride. What are my options to make the gear harder?
Specifically, what should I ask a bike shop to change and how much should it cost? [more inside]
posted by Silentgoldfish at 2:05 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Silentgoldfish at 2:05 AM PST - 8 comments
Should he have eaten it?
My husband ate a small jar of opened caviar that has been in the fridge an undetermined amount of time (longer than several months). Internet seems to indicate caviar should be eaten with 2-4 days of opening the jar (vacuum sealed, not from a refrigerated section) but doesn't indicate if this is for flavor alone or safety. Expecting food poisoning? Should we be heading to the ER tonight? Clinic tomorrow? Wait and see? [more inside]
posted by HMSSM at 1:12 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by HMSSM at 1:12 AM PST - 16 comments
January 18
I like someone, how do I talk to them without sounding crazy?
I like a guy but I don't think of myself as attractive. Obviously, he is attractive to me, but I also think he is considered attractive by most people. People tell me that you should always aim for your own attractiveness-level, so I'm wary about this already. Plus I really don't know how to talk to him because I've placed him on this pedestal and I am completely in awe. How do I approach him? [more inside]
Should I go back to school and get a professional degree?
I'm 30. By living rent-free with my parents, I should be debt-free by early next year. Is it worth it to go back to school and get a professional degree? [more inside]
posted by srs airbag at 8:01 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by srs airbag at 8:01 PM PST - 19 comments
Should I stay or should I go now?
Please give me advice on possibly quitting my job. My boss (also my father) has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Long story inside. [more inside]
English Subtitles for "Moscow I love you."
There is a film series of short films called "cities of love." The most common one is "New York, I love you." and "Paris, j t'aime" which are all over the place. However, my friend said "Moskva, ya lyublyu tebya!" (Moscow, I love you) is really good, but I can't find the English subtitles. I already have the movie, I just need the subtitles file. (Though hints on finding the movie with subtitles is also appreciated!)
Any ideas where to look? This movie seems to be really obscure!
What is the difference between musicals and operas?
I understand that a lot of musicals are basically theatrical performances with lots of music; however, what about musicals like Les Miserables that are told entirely through song? Why don't we call them operas as well?
posted by jamincan at 7:27 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by jamincan at 7:27 PM PST - 19 comments
Melbourne: testing for STIs
Where in Melbourne, Australia can I be tested for STIs? I live in the eastern suburbs, so the Melbourne Sexual Health Centre isn't particularly convenient - though if it is cheaper/quicker for testing/results, I will consider making the trip there. [more inside]
What was helpful for you about counseling for sexual assault?
Have you gone to therapy or counseling after a rape? What outcome were you looking for? Did it help? [more inside]
What to do when your FWB turns out to have a girlfriend? Or does he?
FWB: It's fun and easy and we seem to have no problem keeping it casual-- turns out that's probably because he has a girlfriend! [more inside]
Unlocked Phone Options.
My contract for my current phone is up in April. Ideally I'd love to get a Nexus 4, unlocked and then use a Straight Talk sim for service. But the Nexus 4 is out of stock, so my question is, what is the best currently available Android phone that is unlocked and will take a Straight Talk SIM?
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 5:37 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by 922257033c4a0f3cecdbd819a46d626999d1af4a at 5:37 PM PST - 8 comments
Opera doesn't want me wasting my time
Opera won't load Facebook on my computer about 75% of the time. It tells me "Internal Communication Error: You tried to access the address http://www.facebook.com/, which is currently unavailable." I am using a Mac. Facebook is not down, and other browsers work fine. [more inside]
posted by Nattie at 5:32 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Nattie at 5:32 PM PST - 10 comments
No credit check for an apartment on the North Side of Chicago?
Poor credit and varying work hours, but mom needs a new apartment in Chicago. [more inside]
Help me find this kitchen item!
I was in a kitchenware store on holidays a few weeks ago and I saw these great silicon-type glass drainers. Of course I can't remember what they were called, nor can I describe them in ways that google will like. Can anyone help? I'm Australian and I saw them in Beechworth... [more inside]
posted by jojobobo at 5:07 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jojobobo at 5:07 PM PST - 3 comments
Which play should I see?
My in-laws gave me a gift certificate to the Guthrie Theater. It will pay for two tickets (for me and my wife) to one play. Given the cost of babysitting, tickets, and dinner, this may be the only play I will see this year. I'd like to see something by Shakespeare.
Here are my choices:
As You Like It - performed by The Acting Company;
Twelth Night - performed by Propeller; and,
Taming of the Shrew - Performed by Propeller.
Which play should I see? I'll note that I'm leaning towards either seeing As You Like It or Twelth Night, as I've seen Taming of the Shrew twice before and found the sexism made it less than enjoyable both times (I was also in a production of it during college, and found it offputting then as well.)
posted by Area Man at 5:00 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Area Man at 5:00 PM PST - 12 comments
Looking for a rental agent in San Francisco
I am looking for a rental agent in San Francisco, but I'm confused about how they work. I am looking for the equivalent of a realtor -- someone who has access to all the listings, and will show me various properties (regardless of who owns them) until I find one I like. Does this exist for renting, and do you have any recommendations for someone who does this work? [more inside]
Working in a software agency versus a large tech company
What are some differences to expect for someone working at a software agency for the first time, coming from the enterprise world? [more inside]
Why are my photos turning green on Facebook?
I carefully change my photos' color temperature using Shotwell (not accurate, but fast enough and easy), export them to smaller-sized pictures and upload to Facebook using Facebook's uploader, but the color balance is wrong. They're all green. [more inside]
Should I tell my coworker/friend about my upcoming job interview?
I just landed an interview for a job I really want, and I'm very excited about it. I'm seeing a coworker, also a very good friend, for dinner tonight. Should I tell her about it? [more inside]
posted by eleanor_of_aquitaine at 3:55 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by eleanor_of_aquitaine at 3:55 PM PST - 27 comments
How to get a plastic case made for a prototype product.
I am making a prototype of a consumer electronic device, the final product will be housed in plastic. I want to get a case made for the prototype that will resemble the final product. The case design is nothing complicated, essentially a rectangular box with some rounded corners and some holes for buttons, etc. I have designed the look of the outside of the case in adobe illustrator (top, bottom, front, rear and side views). The case will have a top shell and a bottom shell that fit together. What is the best way to go about getting maybe 2 cases made for prototypes? I am thinking either cnc or 3d printing, but I don't know what the best route to making a 3d model is from adobe illustrator or anything...
Best Kitchen Mounting System for Nexus 7?
My Nexus 7 has become a near-indispensable kitchen tool, and I'd like to find a way to mount it in the kitchen so I can use it more easily while cooking. I have zero counter space available, so a stand is out, and I can't mount it on the underside of a cabinet, either. Safe wall space is close to zero, too, so I guess that leaves me with the fridge. Are there any decent fridge-mounting systems for the Nexus 7 or other 7" tablets? Ideally I'd like something that allows me to easily insert and remove the tablet, since it won't live in the kitchen all the time.
I could probably DIY this but I'm working on so many other household projects I'd really like to be able to buy an out-of-the-box solution and be done with it, though I'd be willing to add magnets to a great non-magnetic mount.
How to be compassionate in an emergency
My partner's mother is on death's door and I'm struggling to find the words to be supportive as I should without being vapid and trite. He's making difficult decisions about life support against his mother's wishes, etc. An illness of my own has me bedridden and unable to be at his side. Any advice on what to say/what not to say to comfort/console/support him given the circumstances would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
posted by blue t-shirt at 3:10 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by blue t-shirt at 3:10 PM PST - 15 comments
My own private Rdio
I would like to create a private music streaming service for a small circle of friends, using Amazon S3, Cloudfront, an HTML5 player and a password-protected website. Is this possible? How to do it best? (Full walkthrough of the idea within.) [more inside]
posted by the brave tetra-pak at 2:56 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by the brave tetra-pak at 2:56 PM PST - 9 comments
To brew or not to brew?
My dog ate nearly a pound of coffee beans. The vet gave him some drugs to get him to vomit them up. (He'll be fine.) The beans came up largely whole/intact, and they... bagged them up for us. If we were to rinse the beans, grind, and brew them, what's the worst that happens? [more inside]
Should I get power of attorney?
My father is hospitalized and will likely go to a long-term care facility if/when he is discharged. He has a Living Will and I am his health care surrogate, but I have reservations about getting power of attorney. [more inside]
posted by Ochre,Hugh at 2:42 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Ochre,Hugh at 2:42 PM PST - 11 comments
Performance anxiety - what can I do to help?
Very excited about a new guy I'm seeing. We were getting hot & heavy and he admitted to having performance anxiety issues, that he would like to go slow, and just needs to get comfortable with me. What can I do to ease his mind... & body? Slightly NSFW. [more inside]
Looking for Wordpress conference plugin
I'm organizing a conference which has a Wordpress website. Can anyone recommend a plugin that facilitates easy setup of pages/posts with speaker bios, session descriptions, locations and times, and an attractive auto-generated conference schedule page with links to the bios and session blurbs? [more inside]
Cookie recipes sought, All kinds. That's all. Thank you.
Cookie recipes sought, All kinds. That's all. Thank you. [more inside]
A website to compare two objects of different height?
I sometimes have trouble understanding the visual differences in height of two different objects. [more inside]
Dense topographic data for a lot.
I've got Home Designer Architectural 2014 and a desire to buil a house on a steep hillside. I need topographic data for this. [more inside]
posted by cmoj at 12:41 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by cmoj at 12:41 PM PST - 12 comments
Best Windows software for writing a non-fiction book (with callouts!)
I want to write a non-fiction book with basic formatting like bulleted lists, numbered lists, along with some callouts. Think "XYZ for Dummies". I'm on Windows XP / Windows 7. Don't want to upgrade XP on my seconday machine if not absolutely necessary. [more inside]
posted by 4midori at 12:34 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by 4midori at 12:34 PM PST - 8 comments
Spoiler filter - novels/scripts where the protagonist was in a coma/dead
Spoiler filter - novels/scripts where the protagonist was in a coma/dead (etc) the whole time? [more inside]
posted by tzb at 12:33 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by tzb at 12:33 PM PST - 46 comments
DVCSFilter: A less broken alternative to Git submodules?
We keep our code in git. It's mostly great, except that we would like to include various external libraries in a more sophisticated fashion than "copy the files in" without hating our lives. I know people have come up with various alternatives to submodules. Does anyone have the experience to point me at one of these which is actually sane and will not make my coworkers want to murder me for introducing it to a shared project?
posted by brennen at 12:27 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by brennen at 12:27 PM PST - 5 comments
Voice and words don't match
What do you do when someone has trouble hearing and moderating their own tone of voice? They often come off harsher and more hostile than they intend when they are frustrated. [more inside]
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 12:01 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by PuppetMcSockerson at 12:01 PM PST - 24 comments
How to most easily square a miter saw?
I've got this Dewalt miter saw, and it seems to be slightly out of square -- neither the 0º miter or bevel is exactly square, at least with the door casing I've been cutting.
Does anyone have any tips (or links to good resources) on how to square up this sort of saw?
For what it's worth, I think I've figured out how to adjust the indicators & scale on the saw, so I'm not looking for advice on how to adjust this particular saw. Instead, I need help figuring out how to determine which direction -- and to what degree -- I need to move the scale to square it up. Advice on how to cut and match a board to test the square is just the sort of help I need.
Help me find even smaller eyeglasses!
So, I have something of an eyewear fetish. And I'm looking or something new. And small. [more inside]
posted by scblackman at 11:33 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by scblackman at 11:33 AM PST - 5 comments
Joymany
My friends went to Germany on a whim and now they are cold and miserable until their flight back in early February. I don't want them to give up hope. What are some truly awesome things that they can do in Berlin and the surrounding areas in the coming weeks? [more inside]
posted by cloeburner at 11:29 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by cloeburner at 11:29 AM PST - 38 comments
visualizing human history in the context of earth's history
Can you recommend web-based tools for visualizing human history/civilizations in the context of larger geological timescales and weather changes? [more inside]
Experience with homecare / seniorcare franchises?
I want to start a business while helping people in my city. One option would be to purchase a homecare franchise, such as Visiting Angels, Home Helpers, Senior Helpers, Comfort Keepers, etc. I understand that these franchises might cost anywhere from $50k - $150k plus ongoing fees. Alternately, I could hang out a shingle and start my own without any outside support. I have financial experience, but I have never done homecare and I have never owned or operated my own business.
Does anybody have experience or advice with related to buying or operating a homecare franchise? Does your franchise treat its members well? Does it make sense to purchase one from a well-known provider or start from scratch? I welcome all feedback and advice!
posted by 0110 at 10:51 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by 0110 at 10:51 AM PST - 8 comments
Content management systems in Ruby -- where are they at in 2013?
I'm interested in using a Ruby CMS as a substitute for the usual Wordpress or Drupal. Although I know my way around Rails, I am not sure whether there might be a good off-the-shelf way to make the control panel as easy to use for regular folks who are not programmers. [more inside]
The heck is a modular form?
For a work assignment, I need to come by a conceptual understanding of modular forms that's light on jargon and, ahem, actual math. If such a thing is possible.
posted by Zerowensboring at 10:47 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Zerowensboring at 10:47 AM PST - 13 comments
Finding helpful car reviews that don't assume I'm a racer
What resources are available to accurately assess a car or truck's performance in specific situations? I'm interested in knowing how different makes and models stack up in stop-and-go traffic or poorly-maintained roads, and it seems every review site ignores or spends little time on situations like these. [more inside]
posted by CancerMan at 10:06 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by CancerMan at 10:06 AM PST - 7 comments
How to make google TV less annoying?
I have a Sony/Google integrated TV. The screen quality is fine for how its used (no cable or antenna; mostly Netflix, Amazon, DVDs, some internet radio) but the way the OS works drives me crazy. I don't want to buy a new TV. I am very happy with Android on my phone. Is there anything that can make my Google TV user experience more friendly and efficient? [more inside]
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 9:59 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 9:59 AM PST - 6 comments
Restaurant recommendations in San Antonio
We're a couple of poor students who'll be travelling through San Antonio on our anniversary, and we'd like to get a nice memorable lunch or dinner there without going broke. We don't much care how formal it is — super-fancy and super-casual are both okay, as is anything in between — as long as the atmosphere is basically pleasant and cozy. (Bonus points for friendly neighborhood-ish joints, or places with good people-watching.) But the main thing is we're looking for the sort of restaurant where you sigh happily after the meal and say "man, I haven't had an XYZ that good in a long time." [more inside]
Food-Grade Spikenard Oil
Is spikenard inherently unsafe for human consumption? If not, where can I get some food-grade spikenard oil? If so, what is the closest equivalent spice?
posted by jedicus at 9:33 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jedicus at 9:33 AM PST - 5 comments
We're the neighbors with the barky dog. HELP!
Our dog has started staying up at night and barking loudly. We can't sleep, we can't quiet him down, and I'm really afraid he's pissing off the neighbors. [more inside]
Bar or restaurant near Dupont Circle for birthday drinks/apps/dinner
My birthday's coming up, and I'm looking for a place near Dupont Circle (DC) to get together with friends and co-workers after work on a Friday where many of us can have dinner, but which will also smoothly accomodate some people coming in and out for drinks only (and people ordering their apps and/or entrees at different times.) Basically I'd like to be there for at least 2 to 3 hours but for it to be no problem for some people to come late or leave early, and for people to feel equally welcome either to stop by for a few drinks or to arrive at any point, have dinner and stick around to possibly continue elsewhere afterwards. [more inside]
Insoles for Dressy Ballet Flats
I own, and love, Naturalizer Maude flats for working as a bank teller, where I stand at least half the day and constantly hop off and on my stool. When they're new, the comfort insole is perfect for my feet. However, after a year of use, I've squashed any cushioning they have and they're killing me. What insoles will fit into a dressy ballet flat that does not have removable insoles? [more inside]
Emperor Wu liked cake, but not exploding cake!
I have a very utilitarian relationship with food. I want to have a sensuous relationship with food. [more inside]
They make me feel like a hill giant!
Tiny coffee-shop style arm chairs? [more inside]
Crap
My boyfriend of four months just told me he loves me. I don't love him, and I don't think I will in the future, but I do LIKE him. Now what?! [more inside]
Correlating names between two spreadsheets
I need to correlate two spreadsheets which relate to the same group of people. The name data is messy, however, and I'm having a hard time matching the names. [more inside]
posted by mammary16 at 8:35 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mammary16 at 8:35 AM PST - 8 comments
Sriracha Oatmeal Cookies? OK...
The internet has failed me in a search for sriracha oatmeal cookie recipes. [more inside]
How do I get a job in San Francisco with a paper-thin resume?
I'll try to make this brief. I recently turned 23, and due to a combination of drugs and depression since getting out of high school I have essentially no work experience. This makes responding to job postings very frustrating and humiliating as my resume feels like a complete joke. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go?
I had been planning to graduate college in three years, but the opportunity to stay an extra semester has come up. Should I take it? [more inside]
posted by tooloudinhere at 8:14 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by tooloudinhere at 8:14 AM PST - 14 comments
Never loan money to friends / family / boyfriends.
This was me We broke up and he's stopped paying. Do I have any recourse? [more inside]
posted by sunshine37 at 8:02 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by sunshine37 at 8:02 AM PST - 24 comments
Family lawyer in Winnipeg
Can you recommend a good divorce lawyer in Winnipeg (MB), Canada? Or, if you can't, can you tell me how I can find one? [more inside]
posted by TheGoodBlood at 7:40 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by TheGoodBlood at 7:40 AM PST - 3 comments
Blogs/websites about upcoming fashion trends?
Are there any reliable blogs/websites that talk about upcoming fashion trends? [more inside]
posted by joeyjoejoejr at 7:33 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by joeyjoejoejr at 7:33 AM PST - 7 comments
Jobs for dilettantes?
I have bright-burning short-lived interests in many things, mostly around technology and writing. I admit it: I'm a dilettante. Is there any way I can turn this weakness into a strength? [more inside]
900 people, get off my lawn
I live in a Midwestern college town, and we are homeowners fairly close to the university campus. A large chunk of land about a block from our house has been sold to a developer. The developer plans to turn it into student housing, provided they can get the required zoning changes. I'm looking for people who've had similar experiences dealing with local governments on zoning issues, and what I, along with my neighborhood organization, can do to cope in the months to come. [more inside]
posted by sararah at 7:19 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by sararah at 7:19 AM PST - 28 comments
Chicagoans: which bars are good for groups?
My Chicago nonprofit is putting together a series of social events for our amazingly wonderful volunteers, including some bar nights. Our usual venue for such revelry recently reconfigured its space and is less group-friendly now, so we are on the hunt for great new places. Where should we explore? [more inside]
Did you say something?
I read that Justice Clarence Thomas made his first remarks ever after 7 years of silence during a Supreme Court session recently. I am curious as to why he stopped speaking during sessions. How does he or does he, ask any questions during a hearing? Does he pass his questions onto another justice? Is he an effective justice without speaking? I'm just curious, not a lawyer.
Your favorite fast casual restaurants please!
What is your absolute favorite fast casual restaurant in your city? I'm working on a project where I'm trying to get exposed to more of these by region. I would love to hear the name of your favorite soup or sandwich or burger joint in your area. [more inside]
Testing webpages on multiple platforms
Is there a tool that I can use to test my website's various pages across multiple platforms (different mobile devices, different browsers etc) without having to, you know, manually get hold of each mobile device and open up each browser and test it? [more inside]
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 5:52 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 5:52 AM PST - 11 comments
Podcasts as good as Scriptnotes, but for prose?
I've recently started listening to Scriptnotes, a great podcast by John August and Craig Mazin about screenwriting. Is there a similar podcast about novel/short story writing, or indeed writing in general? Podcasts I already subscribe to and key things I like about Scriptnotes inside. [more inside]
posted by Happy Dave at 3:41 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Happy Dave at 3:41 AM PST - 4 comments
Organic palm oil? Organic soya?
What does it mean for palm oil and soya to be 'organically farmed'? Is it ethical to buy products with organic palm oil in? (I know that in general palm oil is bad news and I try to avoid it.) [more inside]
posted by daisyk at 2:59 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by daisyk at 2:59 AM PST - 8 comments
What to do now that I've broken furniture in a subleased apartment
Broke a piece of furniture while subleasing. Moved out. Owner is coming back. What to do? I feel bad, but she doesn't even want the furniture. [more inside]
Turning an American iPhone Kiwi
I'll be going to NZ for a couple weeks in a few months and have an old iPhone 3G S that I'd like to be able to use there as a local cell phone. Can anyone suggest the best method for doing this? [more inside]
Appealing high school suspension?
Brother suspended for three days from his high school in California, due to 1. "racist comments"- from an off colour joke and 2. refusing to tell an officer his name. Is the disciplinary action taken equivalent to his behavior? How can we go about appealing it,if so? More details inside. [more inside]
posted by flying_trapeze at 12:33 AM PST - 52 comments
posted by flying_trapeze at 12:33 AM PST - 52 comments
January 17
Website font overlapping?
Occasionally I will run across a webpage that has some or all of the text look like this. It's all bunched up and completely illegible. What gives? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 11:57 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by zardoz at 11:57 PM PST - 6 comments
I wouldn't like a bag of beef or a beer or a cup of chowder...
I need some fast, easy, healthy meals that I can make while traveling. Difficulty level - ingredients often limited and I'm sick of sandwiches. Extra points for vegetarian. [more inside]
posted by Paper rabies at 11:21 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Paper rabies at 11:21 PM PST - 6 comments
I have three days in Brooklyn. What must I absolutely see and do?
In mid February I will be in Brooklyn for three days. Apart from the Brooklyn Museum what should I absolutely not miss? [more inside]
posted by lesbiassparrow at 11:05 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by lesbiassparrow at 11:05 PM PST - 13 comments
Are air purifiers useful for asthma/allergy sufferers?
Are air purifiers useful for asthma/allergy sufferers? Our 11mo son is currently sick with pneumonia, is at high risk for asthma and our doctor has recommended a air purifier. [more inside]
Bicycle, Bicycle, Wine, Bicycle, Dolmade, Wine.
Recommendation for good international LD cycling trip in March/April? [more inside]
Once Again, help me remember a movie...
The movie was released in the late 1990's early 2000's. It's a movie set in LA in the 70's or 80's. There's a murder (or beating?) at a nice house over a drug deal. [more inside]
posted by roboton666 at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by roboton666 at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
Workload management software for a consultant team?
I'm stepping into a new role at work in which I'll manage a team of consultants. Each consultant will work on a few projects at once, each with its own start date, duration, total number of hours, etc. Is there some software out there that can help me track their activity? [more inside]
posted by donblood at 8:37 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by donblood at 8:37 PM PST - 10 comments
Just because it isnt for English class doesnt meant it has to be vapid
Please direct me to some short to medium-short essays on feminism, specifically in regards to femininity. Bonus points if it makes explicit references to mainstream media. Double bonus points if it's Disney princesses. Double plus bonus point if it's sleeping beauty. [more inside]
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:17 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by FirstMateKate at 8:17 PM PST - 6 comments
Is moving out just an escape?
Is it better to approach family issues from within, or wait until you can gain an outside perspective? [more inside]
posted by cucumber patch at 8:00 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by cucumber patch at 8:00 PM PST - 31 comments
Make my child a math genius
My son is now 15 months old, and I would like for him to have the best possible mathematics education. What should I be doing now and what sort of long-term plan should I have in order to help him both to learn and to love mathematics? (He doesn't have to be a mathematician when he grows up, but really knowing mathematics is non-negotiable.) [more inside]
What to do in case of 'helicopter parents'?
I am a young adult woman living in the home she grew up in, with parents and siblings. My parents are NOT abusive - they have always provided me with a place where I felt safe and cared for. But the way they relate to me now that I've gone to college and come back has not changed since I was several years younger, and I think it's affecting me negatively. I need to figure out what my action plan is for establishing my independence, both materially and emotionally. [more inside]
Will these Macs play nice together?
I have an iMac desktop running OS X 10.6.8 and a newly acquired MacBook Air running 10.8.2 and I want to make them be as friendly with one another as possible. Can you hope me? [more inside]
MLK Day Documentary
What age-appropriate documentary should I watch with my 10yo daughter to help her understand the civil rights movement and MLK's place in it? [more inside]
posted by j_curiouser at 6:37 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by j_curiouser at 6:37 PM PST - 9 comments
They don't cover parental emergencies in Infant CPR class.
What would happen to my son if 911 were called for me? [more inside]
Please help me fix my iPod!
My wonderful iPod, going on nine years now, seems to have finally gotten to the point where I can't fix it anymore. I've replaced the hard drive, battery, hard drive cable, and logic board, and yet all it does is turn on, show the Apple logo, and turn off, repeating over and over. What else could be wrong, and how can I fix it? This is a B&W 4th gen iPod, originally 40 GB.
Lighten up a little!
How do I take life less seriously? I need things to be meaningful to get absorbed by them, but then I get so serious about it that I stress myself out! Help me get to a healthy balance. [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 5:07 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 5:07 PM PST - 8 comments
Looking for PDF software that can automatically append at creation
Looking for prompt-less PDF creation and appending [more inside]
posted by colecovizion at 4:34 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by colecovizion at 4:34 PM PST - 9 comments
Intellectually stimulating videos
Joseph Stiglitz and Paul Krugman had a discussion about economics back in October 2012 that ran for an hour and a half. What other intellectually stimulating videos exist out there? I just want to sit back and learn stuff, and so either a friendly discussion or a partisan debate (where the debaters are equally matched) could work.
posted by SollosQ at 4:25 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by SollosQ at 4:25 PM PST - 14 comments
Keep trying to remove the trap arm, cut it, or give up?
60-year-old house, trap arm and drain/vent are galvanized, trap arm is rusty and I want to remove it. Or should I cut it, or hire someone to do it for me? [more inside]
posted by davejay at 4:21 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by davejay at 4:21 PM PST - 11 comments
Did I get screwed by a local computer repair place?
I dropped off my computer to be repaired because it kept powering off randomly, and often before windows could even start booting. They told me it was a faulty power supply, which they replaced.
I received a call about fifteen minutes after I got home from a tech there telling me that they forgot to plug my DVD drive into the power supply, and that I can bring it back and have them fix it.
When I ran it at home, I noticed google chrome was missing. Another one of my programs doesn't work now, telling me that "The feature you are trying to use is on a network resource that is unavailable." 3-4 other programs that I've picked at random and tried to run work fine. [more inside]
What was/is this bizarre jewelry shop he spoke of?
Someone I met told me about this bizarre jewelry shop he went to once in NYC 15 years ago and I want to know what shop it was and if it still exists. [more inside]
History of Christianity(focus on Britain) for law degree.Where to start?
Hi.
I was wondering if anyone here could help to recommend resources for a complete beginner to better understand the history of Christianity, etc so I may have a deeper, more contextualised understanding of british history and politics. Some stuff I'd like to know better are: [more inside]
Help me to be tactful!
My husband and I visited a Montessori charter school today. We had a classroom observation as well as a tour of the entire K-8 school. After hearing such wonderful things about the school, we were ... less than impressed. [more inside]
NYC Mefites: Coop owners with experience adding outdoor space?
We own a coop apartment with unused space adjoining the unit which we'd like to try to purchase and combine with our unit as a patio. Looking for advice from anyone who has been down a similar road before to help us get our head around the process (convincing the board, establishing a fair valuation, navigating DOB/Landmarks, financing), pitfalls to watch out for, etc. [more inside]
Is it worth it to learn to socialize this way?
For various reasons, I've never been entirely comfortable with a very common type of social event -- I'd characterize it as meeting in loud spaces in the evening with strangers around alcohol. In college, they were frat parties. In business school, it's been beer blasts. In professional life, it's been bars and happy hours.
These social events are so common that I haven't been able to avoid them entirely, and I realize to some extent attending them is important because they're so common -- this is how many people meet mates, job prospects, connections. Is it worth it to force myself to get better at enjoying them, or am I completely justified in avoiding them as much as I can?
(personal details follow) [more inside]
posted by Borborygmus at 2:53 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Borborygmus at 2:53 PM PST - 27 comments
my employer is fucking me over. what can i do?
Do I have any recourse against my employer, who misled me about the terms of my hire, and can you recommend some resources to quickly find work and make him my ex-employer?
I'm in Ontario, I am already a recipient of assistance (because I) do not get enough work to be eligible for unemployment. [more inside]
posted by windykites at 2:46 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by windykites at 2:46 PM PST - 13 comments
UK Tax Software question, idiot's guide?
This is the first year my SO and I will file a Partnership Return for additional income, but I'm finding the various options almost impenetrable....help? [more inside]
Portrayals of prostitution in books and movies?
Looking for fictional characters that are engaged in mid-level prostitution [more inside]
How to let go of bad family relationships?
Asking for advice and book recommendations for letting go of bad family relationships. [more inside]
posted by yawper at 2:11 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by yawper at 2:11 PM PST - 5 comments
How to get google drive access to invites sent to a linked email account
I get google drive document invites sent to my work email, and I can't access them through my gmail account, even though I've successfully linked the two addresses in my primary google account. Any ideas? [more inside]
UK - Inherited a property with development potential. How to sell?
I have recently inherited half of a property that has development potential and am looking for some advice on what to do next. Prior to this inheritance I have never owned a home or even managed to save a small deposit for a mortgage, so I have absolutely no experience of the property market.If all goes well, selling the property could set me and my fellow beneficiary up for life - we each hope to use our shares to buy our own homes mortgage-free! This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for me and I'm anxious to get the best possible price for the sale! [more inside]
Send video files over slow, rural connections?
I'm coordinating a project that involves sending participants to remote communities in the Canadian North. The communities have varying speeds of internet connection, but in general, I've been told it's pretty slow, and sometimes bandwidth is restricted. The participants need to record video of themselves and send it to their evaluators back here in the city. What is the best (free) solution? [more inside]
posted by MissSquare at 1:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by MissSquare at 1:41 PM PST - 15 comments
We've lived together ten years and I don't even know his name.
What kind of plant is this? The coloring is similar to alternanthera dentata, but the leaf shape is wrong.
posted by roger ackroyd at 1:10 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by roger ackroyd at 1:10 PM PST - 7 comments
Characters (film, books, video games) who dual wield knives or daggers?
I participate in a play-by-post fantasy roleplaying game and my character fights with two daggers. Can you help me find resources from movies, books, or video games of characters with a similar fighting style, to help develop my own character's skills? [more inside]
posted by wintersonata9 at 1:09 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by wintersonata9 at 1:09 PM PST - 23 comments
Might I have ADD?
After reading this thread of people describing ADD/ADHD symptoms, and reading the links, and feeling like they were describing my life, I got a really, horrid sinking feeling I might actually be ADD. It's kinda wigging me out and I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Deciphering individual health insurance plans
I'm trying to figure out the best choice for individual health insurance for myself, and I'd like to have it pay for my currently-out-of-pocket therapy, but I have questions about how this works. Does therapy count as an "office visit"? Do I actually want insurance to cover therapy? (I'm in the US.) [more inside]
Software for creating an equipment library
I'm about to start running a community college multimedia lab, aimed at providing kids with the resources to make videos. I'm looking for software that'll make it (relatively) easy to administer. Specific hopes and dreams inside… [more inside]
How to resign from a voluntary position?
I have a voluntary position with the union I'm a member of, which involves a lot of extra work, which has been fine up until now. Recently, the job role has changed, with people in my position being encouraged to take on additional duties. There have also been other changes that I'm not happy with. How do I go about resigning my position without causing bad feeling, especially as I will likely need the services of the organisation in the future? [more inside]
Nail polish that will last more than a day or two?
I like to paint my nails occasionally, but I get frustrated to go to all of the trouble of applying polish (and drying and drying) only to have the nail polish chip within a day or so (or even sooner). What can I do to help my nail polish last longer? [more inside]
Is $3.79 Ok For Heating Oil?
I'm paying $3.79/gallon for heating oil in Westchester county, NY. Is that a reasonably ok price? If not, can anyone recommend another supplier (I'm using Castle).
posted by Quisp Lover at 12:48 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 12:48 PM PST - 7 comments
I Need Some Relationship Suggestions
I teach an improv workshop from time to time, and one of the most popular games that I created is "Dysfunctional Relationships." [more inside]
Where are the Victorian mommy blogs?
I'm looking for books about parenting in past times -- did the Victorians write about raising children? How about the middle ages? Even early 20th century would be interesting to me. If you have any personal insights about past parenting methods and the day-to-day of child-rearing, please share!
Bloody useless as it stands, innit?
What were the curse words George Orwell was trying to list? [more inside]
posted by komara at 12:40 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by komara at 12:40 PM PST - 7 comments
How can I make my website update itself automatically?
I'm creating a simple website. It will be a single page with a photograph and a block of text. I will need to update it with a new photograph and a new block of text at a certain time each day, say midnight. I anticipate being able to do this manually most of the time, but would like an option to somehow pre-load at least one photo and text block and have the site automatically update if needed. It would also be great to have multiple days' worth ready to go without human intervention. [more inside]
posted by The Deej at 12:35 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by The Deej at 12:35 PM PST - 9 comments
You Don't Fire Me, I Contract!
Have you convinced your corporate overlords to let you transition from a full-time employee to an independent contractor? FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, TELL ME HOW YOU DID IT. [more inside]
1989 Wasn't That Long Ago...
Buying a furnace for just one floor of a house - help! [more inside]
How is life in the US described to kids in other countries?
After reading a book on Korea written for American children, my daughter got curious about what books or websites written for kids in other countries might say about life in the United States. We were unable to find any example online. Does anyone know of a website where we could see an example (in English) of something written for kids in other countries about life in the U.S.? Or perhaps you have such a book at home and would be willing to translate and post a few snippets?
posted by DarkForest at 12:12 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by DarkForest at 12:12 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me create the perfect Contacts Manager
After years of being an Android user, I finally bought my first iPhone. I'm having trouble and getting thoroughly confused with merging and syncing all my contacts. Please help me start over and create the Ultimate Contacts Manager solution that doesn't require me to become a sync wizard. [more inside]
posted by zooropa at 12:01 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by zooropa at 12:01 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me fill in this vague recollection of a story I read?
Help me fill in this vague recollection of a story I read? I read it probably as recently as last year. I don't remember if it's a short story or an incident in a novel. [more inside]
What did we witness happening yesterday morning in Chinatown?
What did we witness happening yesterday morning in Chinatown? We were walking down Pell St. at about 10:30 am, when I noticed a large crowd huddled around one of the storefronts. It was about 20 people, all of whom looked to be locals, most if not all of them older folks. [more inside]
Identify this book...
Some stray thought reminded me of a book that I enjoyed in the early eighties (I think). It was a post-apocalypse sci-fi where people wandered around fighting each other 1-on-1 in rings. Very honor-bound with strict rules. ... [more inside]
posted by Awfki at 11:45 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Awfki at 11:45 AM PST - 2 comments
Looking for a printer in Manhattan
Looking for a solid, reliable printer in midtown Manhattan (preferably). I'm designing a program for a memorial service that will be taking place there next month but I'm located out of town and don't have any NYC designer contacts. The files will be ready well in advance so we won't need superquick turnaround. Can the hivemind recommend anyone? Thanks!
Replacement Remote for an RC boat
I have a radio control boat without a remote, very similar to the one pictured here. After much Googling, it doesn't look like a replacement is easily available. How would I go about setting up a radio control remote for this boat? What information and equipment would I need?
What equipment can I use for a food photography setup in low light?
What kind of equipment could I purchase within a $300 budget for the backdrop and lighting? My house is naturally very dark. I use white plates and minimal props for the food. My camera is a Canon 40D. I don't have much time lately so I'll spend a little more for convenience. [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 11:07 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by sunnychef88 at 11:07 AM PST - 15 comments
What's the best 101 Aruduino kit?
It's been a few years (Almost 5!) since I last sat down to monkey with an Arduino. I now need one for a physical computing class and the number of kits has exploded. What's the best kit for no more than $100?
More details inside [more inside]
Finding a tutor for front-end coding.
After a more than 10 year long hiatus spent in the business side of technology, I'm looking to get my hands dirty again. I'd like to find a tutor. [more inside]
posted by gertzedek at 10:58 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by gertzedek at 10:58 AM PST - 2 comments
How can I do a meta-analysis of just two papers?
I'm working on my first ever scientific paper: a meta-analysis of data from other studies. I've just finished my search for relevant papers. My paper is to cover two related (but different) topics (determined by my advisor). For Topic A, I have a fair number of papers (nearly 20) from which to obtain data. For Topic B, though, I only have two! Is it even possible to do a meta-analysis of two papers? If so how would I go about it? I'm asking y'all instead of my advisor because he is unavailable this week and next, and I want to go ahead and get going, at least by reviewing other meta-analyses so I can get a sense of what I need to do with the papers I've got.
Best Method to Make 1 Decent Cup of Coffee
I love coffee, and I have it every morning. But I live with only one other person, my girlfriend, and she doesn't drink coffee in the morning. And most mornings I drink 1 cup, at most 2. So it makes little sense for me to brew a pot. Suggestions? [more inside]
Roadtrip- IN, OH, PA, and NY are beautiful in January, right?
Solo January roadtrip from western Indiana to RI. Up to a week to do it in (if I really wanted to), want to visit a friend in State College, PA on the way. How can I make this the least amount of terrible? [more inside]
Recommend me books on critical / (post) marxist spatial theory
I am interested in critical theoretical and marxist spatial theory, please recommend me some books that provide a good overview or introduction to this area!
Thanks!
What are these safety devices on my windows?
Our Chicago bungalow has double-hung replacement windows on the first floor. On the top sash are little latches that seem to be designed to flip open as soon as the bottom sash is lifted, preventing the window from opening more than a few inches (either as an anti-burglary or a child-safety measure). The latches seem to be malfunctioning (they spring open when the bottom sash passes them, which doesn't prevent the window from opening but rather from closing) and I want to remove or replace them, but I can't figure out what they're called. [more inside]
posted by payoto at 10:14 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by payoto at 10:14 AM PST - 8 comments
Save my gut flora.
I'm about to bomb my body with a double dose of powerful, wide spectrum antibiotics. What can I really do to help save/repopulate my gut flora? [more inside]
posted by moira at 10:02 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by moira at 10:02 AM PST - 22 comments
Music industry - sideways moves from performing to...?
I graduated from music college in the UK about 10 years ago, and recently decided that while this time has been spent developing skills to augment my income as a freelance performer, I'd now like to consolidate those skills into a related career which would leave me more financially stable. For a long time now, I have been interested in becoming a music supervisor in the film/television industry, music researcher or working in a production music library. Whenever I have had any involvement with music rights or negotiating clearances, I've been fascinated by it but have never had the opportunity to have this as my main focus. How do I do this as someone who is not able to do long-term unpaid work experience/internships? [more inside]
posted by joboe at 9:48 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by joboe at 9:48 AM PST - 2 comments
Do the Right Thing
Chegg contacted me to ask if I wanted payment or credit for what appears to be someone else's books -- I'd like for the actual seller to earn the money, but it's hard to contact Chegg by phone or chat. [more inside]
posted by neitherly at 9:41 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by neitherly at 9:41 AM PST - 6 comments
What kind or brand of water bottle/thermos should I buy?
I want to buy a water bottle/thermos, but am not sure what is the best kind to buy. I'm primarily interested in using it in the winter for hot liquids (hence the new question - appears that MeFites previously had other requirements). It looks like there are stainless steel ones, glass ones, and potentially other types. Any thoughs about which material would be best, or recommendations about particular brands/bottles that have worked well for you? I would prefer something very easy to clean (wide mouth?), very portable (I'll be using it when on the road for research trips), that keeps liquid warm for as long as possible (ditto), and as reasonably priced as possible. Something available on Amazon Prime would be a plus! I've been given one of these, but I've never had a glass bottle before and I'm not sure I trust glass with hot liquids on a series of bumpy buses and in luggage. Thoughts?
How do I get over my narcissistic parent?
My mother is a narcissist and I need help getting over her; please read? [more inside]
posted by inaisa at 9:10 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by inaisa at 9:10 AM PST - 26 comments
I had some really encouraging fellowship last night...
Despite having no ties to the community beyond a few old facebook friends and the blogs they link to, I'm fascinated by the language quirks of modern conservative Christianity. Less so the specifically theological terms (washed in the blood, new life, etc.), but more how particular words and turns of phrase mark the speaker as belonging to the community even when they are not talking about premillenialism. [more inside]
posted by heyforfour at 9:08 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by heyforfour at 9:08 AM PST - 49 comments
How to get an ex off the mind.
How much thinking about your ex is too much, and how do you control it? [more inside]
How to eat well on a long-distance drive.
How can I successfully avoid the full-on self-destruction of my stomach on a cross country drive? [more inside]
posted by furnace.heart at 8:33 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by furnace.heart at 8:33 AM PST - 39 comments
Surfin' Bird
Real novice surfer, caught the bug last summer, but landlocked in London UK most of the time. In what ways can I train to make myself fitter for the times when I do actually get to the waves? Basically I'm looking for methods by which to become a better surfer without actually surfing. [more inside]
posted by stevedawg at 8:25 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by stevedawg at 8:25 AM PST - 9 comments
Looking for a high pressure shower head
Hi,
I'm looking for recommendations on a high pressure shower head under $30. Not looking for anything fancy, just want something that would wash away the soap as quickly as possible so I don't have to spend 30 minutes in the shower.
I saw this online and it looks promising (if it works like they show in the video)
I'm ok with buying in store (Home Depot, Menards, ACE hardware, walmart, bed bath n beyond, sears) or buying it online.
Thanks.
human fishtank on a budget
For an art project I'm looking to build a transluscent human-sized fishtank-like container. How can I accomplish this without spending thousands of dollars? [more inside]
Sister issues - can they be conquered?
I keep comparing myself to my sister, and it's making me miserable. [more inside]
Batch Changing iTunes BitRate for Existing Songs W/O Making Copy
So, I definitely want to convert all my high bit rate mp3 songs in iTunes to a lower bitrate of 190. I have the bit rate setting changed in iTunes, and I know when I right click and choose "make mp3 copy" it does exactly that. BUT, I don't want the original around anymore in iTunes and don't want to manually go through and delete them or go into the folder to do that. The threads I have looked at tell me how to do the first but don't address the issue that I still have the higher bit-rate copy in iTunes. I have a lot of music, I don't want the higher copies cluttering it. (I have a backup of the originals anyway). Is there something I am missing so it just lowers bitrate but doesn't make it a copy?
posted by snap_dragon at 7:53 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by snap_dragon at 7:53 AM PST - 6 comments
Looking for a good, accessible book about the stock market.
Posting for my sister. Can anyone recommend a good book about the stock market for a smart beginner and layperson?
Moving Up in the World of Higher Ed Administration
The president of the college that I work for recently asked to see my resume and has set up a time for me to talk about 'my future career track' at the college. I am honored, shocked, and flustered. I have no idea how to navigate this situation. [more inside]
Waxing with acne?
I have been looking forward to today's bikini wax for over a month. Yesterday, I noticed a large pimple down there. Is is still ok to get waxed? [more inside]
posted by sockermom at 7:11 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by sockermom at 7:11 AM PST - 8 comments
TIRED of being a virgin!
I'm a 20 year old girl, and I've never been in a relationship. I feel weird about that. Where do I meet guys, apart from school, and how do I get more confidence? [more inside]
Explain Severance Negotiation as if to a 5 y/o
I was just laid off this week. Am still reeling from the shock, crying at odd moments, cycling through grief, despair, relief, hurt. Though many people from the company were let go I was the only person from my department and relatively low level, so it feels quite personal, as if the big layoffs were just an excuse to get rid of me.
I will eventually have to come to grips with whether I want to remain in my industry or not but that seems like a decision best delayed to a time when I am calmer. [more inside]
Loooking for good landscape and nature photo blogs
I love great photography and nature, and I check my RSS feed a couple of times a day. I'd love to have great nature photography scattered among the news and blogs I'm reading. It's also fine if it's great photography that includes other subjects.
So, what great photography sites provide an RSS feed of images/posts?
Help me join my generation or at least get more cultural references.
This ranks up there with "non-anonymous embarrassing questions." If you wanted to feel hipper than someone today, here's your big chance. The last time I really listened to newly-produced rock music of any kind was somewhere between Casey Kasem and Nine Inch Nails. I don't even own a radio right now. I have an iTunes account....I use for free podcasts. [more inside]
Help me use my nails as an iPod touch stylus.
I've seen the Nano Nails product that is supposed to turn your fingernails into a capacative stylus. I like this idea, but they aren't out yet, and anyway I want to do my nails myself! What can I use that's lightweight to attach to my fingernail so that it conducts enough electricity to operate an iPod Touch? [more inside]
Oy-yey Lady? Oyez Man?
My grandmother (born in 1905) used to refer to herself as the "Oy-yey Lady" (I'm spelling phonetically here) every time she had to clean up something particularly gross (usually animal related). I'm wondering if it's a real word or something she made up. [more inside]
The places in the world where the walls are weak
I was thinking of this comment by humanfont - "The high Rockies are at the edge of the spirit world and not to be entered into lightly or alone." Where else is like this? [more inside]
posted by the man of twists and turns at 4:02 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 4:02 AM PST - 49 comments
How can I replace the power steering pump in my 2000 Outback?
I have a 2000 Subaru Outback. It needs a bit of work, the most costly of which is replacing the leaking power steering pump... shop says $360. Is this a repair that I can do myself? [more inside]
(How) can I get the Orpheus New Brandenburgs?
I'm ignorant about almost everything relating to this question, so I'm probably missing something obvious. I'd like to own the Orpheus Chamber Orchestra's New Brandenburgs in some medium. While I've been able to listen online, I haven't found a way to buy them digitally or physically. [more inside]
posted by you must supply a verb at 3:05 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by you must supply a verb at 3:05 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me protect my car from vandalism.
Is there a practical way to keep someone from f-cking with my car? [more inside]
January 16
Apache Trail in a rental car?
Planning to drive the Apache Trail (AZ-88) from east-to-west next week. In a rental car. [more inside]
posted by OHSnap at 10:40 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by OHSnap at 10:40 PM PST - 6 comments
Infinite freefall
If you were to somehow freefall infinitely – no ground or water below, just air forever – what would you die from? [more inside]
Can we install this car deck ourselves?
We got this bluetooth/CD deck from Santa and wonder if we should consider installing it ourselves. We're not very mechanical but we're comfortable installing RAM and network cards in our computers. We drive an older Corolla and there's an after-market CD/AM-FM in it now.
posted by R2WeTwo at 10:12 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by R2WeTwo at 10:12 PM PST - 10 comments
Where will my WA license be sent?
When renewing my WA State license online, I can specify both a residence and mailing address. Which one will it be sent to? [more inside]
posted by helios at 9:33 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by helios at 9:33 PM PST - 4 comments
How to reduce comcast internet bill, and how fast do I really need?
How to reduce comcast internet bill, and how fast do I really need? Details inside. [more inside]
Orlando hot pot or dim sum restaurants?
I am am looking for an Asian style restaurant that does a good hot pot in Orlando. Alternatively, if there aren't any that you would recommend, is there a good dim sum place? I simply don't have any options where I live that serve those.
Where the hell is my laptop hard drive?
I have lost my laptop's internal HD. Please help me find it. [more inside]
posted by unSane at 6:50 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by unSane at 6:50 PM PST - 20 comments
Looking for copies of the Sleater-Kinney Live Vault bootlegs...
Back in 2009, Sleater-Kinney.net hosted a collection of 176 live bootlegs of the band; it was stored as eight zipfiles collectively known as "The Live Vault". (archive.org shot of the Live Vault page.) Since then the site has gone offline and the recordings seem to have disappeared from the Internet. If you have copies or know who to speak to about them, I would greatly appreciate any pointers. [more inside]
posted by Going To Maine at 6:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Going To Maine at 6:45 PM PST - 5 comments
It's Not Me, It's You
I'm asking this question because I can't really verbalize it as well as I'd like to since I'm trying to look at it from all perspectives.
I've been under the management or oversight for a couple of total assholes this past year and a half. The first was the director of the graduate program I am on leave from, and the second is my current boss, a cafe owner. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:34 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by anonymous at 6:34 PM PST - 41 comments
Food delivery (especially raw meat) as a gift
Can anyone recommend a reputable and good-quality online vendor of fresh food delivery, especially meats (not beef)? [more inside]
what's the best way to leave a job if you don't already have another one
My boss and I agreed I am not right for my job. How can I be eligible for unemployment while not having a black mark of being fired for future employers? [more inside]
Did I just commit a hugely embarrasing Okcupid gaffe?
I disabled my Okcupid account. When it asked Why? I checked "I met someone on Okcupid." This is true. I'm seeing 4 someones from Okcupid - obviously nothing serious or committed and all in early or very early stages of exploration. Four is overwhelming enough without tinkering with the site further. When the form asked who I met, I listed all four.
After hitting submit I realized with terror that there is a chance okc might somehow notify these fellows that I listed them as "met someone." Please tell me I am wrong.
Find the Mystery Halloween House
A few years ago (at least 3 years but probably 5 or more), I was driving with my mom and we saw the extremely decorated house in these pictures: [more inside]
posted by jaimystery at 5:32 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by jaimystery at 5:32 PM PST - 7 comments
A very light shoulder daypack for travel?
I'm looking for a small canvas bag ideal for packing beach supplies + camera, but not a trendy messenger bag, nor a backpack. [more inside]
posted by critzer at 5:17 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by critzer at 5:17 PM PST - 12 comments
Domain registrar(s) matching these criteria, for .com and .com.au?
I have about a dozen .com and .com.au domains with GoDaddy and Name.com.au which I'd like to move, ideally to a single new registrar. Criteria below the fold: [more inside]
posted by sakahane at 4:43 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sakahane at 4:43 PM PST - 7 comments
Self-publish, Kindle Single, or publish traditionally?
Am considering publishing an unusual philosophical self-help tract written in a fiery, contrarian tone. Think Hegel meets Deepak Chopra, for lack of a less weird description. Right now the manuscript is short. I'd like it to provoke conversation, make a reputation, and build an audience. I lack these currently. Am I better off a) self-publishing, b) creating a Kindle Single, or c) publishing traditionally? C would require me to expand my manuscript to 5x its current length, but give me prestige, a (likely small) advance, wider distribution, and perhaps more publicity. The other options would be far faster and might allow me to iterate my ideas / write other pieces based on audience reaction. Any advice on which option (feel free to add options) would best serve my goals?
posted by shivohum at 4:36 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by shivohum at 4:36 PM PST - 8 comments
I found gray hair. I'm 25.
I'm a 25-year-old female with thick, dark curly hair. Every now and then I see a single gray hair making its way through. I hadn't seen any for awhile, then tonight I noticed a silvery strand near my temple. Is this normal? [more inside]
Which stovetop grill is best?
We'd like to purchase a stovetop grill. There's a whole bunch on Amazon, all with good reviews, so I'm sort of stumped. Which one should we get? [more inside]
How does this neat web effect work?
On the new White House gun violence website, there's an image of the White House that fades out as you scroll down the page. How does it work?
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 3:48 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by El Sabor Asiatico at 3:48 PM PST - 4 comments
Great, casual restaurants in Melbourne?
Fabulous, hidden gem restaurants in Melbourne? [more inside]
posted by meerkatty at 3:43 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by meerkatty at 3:43 PM PST - 16 comments
Where’s the balance between changing myself and accepting myself?
Help! I’m having trouble adjusting to college and accepting myself, and it’s stressing me out. What can I do to fix this? Lots of details inside. [more inside]
Doggy daycare dropout?
My puppy does not want to go through the door at doggy day care. Is there any likely explanation other than she just doesn't want to go there? [more inside]
posted by dilettante at 3:30 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by dilettante at 3:30 PM PST - 19 comments
Does anyone know what this says? Maybe Chinese or Japanese?
My friend found this slip in some packaging; can anyone tell us what it says? Image here.
Stay on target....stay on target
Looking for experiences related to reconnecting with estranged family for very limited purposes. [more inside]
Find That Obscure 90's Song Filter
I'm trying to track down a song I heard on a CD back in the 1990's. My goodle-fu is a-failin me. Here's what is known [more inside]
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 2:50 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 2:50 PM PST - 3 comments
What are the most comfortable contact lenses in the world?
Save me from my glasses! I'd like to find the perfect contacts. [more inside]
Waterproofing a wool coat
Can I scotch guard my coat? [more inside]
How did you make intentional community work for you?
I'm living in an intentional community similar to the ones described in this link. It is way harder than I expected. Can you tell me how you made a similar year work for you? [more inside]
Hey! I'm walkin' here!
What should a pedestrian do if hit by a car? [more inside]
Best organization for helping the mentally ill homeless in San Francisco
I'd like to donate some money to an organization that helps mentally ill homeless people in San Francisco. Which organization would give me the most "bang for my buck"? [more inside]
Maddening email client issue.
I'm having trouble with Thunderbird connecting to incoming/outgoing servers, but only intermittently. I can't for the life of me figure out how/where to isolate the problem. Can you help point me in the right direction? [more inside]
Data Driven Clinical Care - Dynamic Graphing Website
I would like advice on creating a dynamic graphing website to display clinical data on a intranet website to better aide clinicians. What my superiors are seeking is a "Data Mall." My programming/server-admin. experience is minimal, but my Linux-hobbyist mentality hates the MS Access solution that is being built. [more inside]
posted by rosswald at 1:56 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by rosswald at 1:56 PM PST - 4 comments
Dog disease-Mange
Family dog overseas has the disease Mange. Need more information around a possible cure for it. [more inside]
Simple French-language fiction?
I spent 4 years learning French in high school, and have retained just enough since then to vaguely eavesdrop on a fellow commuter's French novel the other day. I would like to brush up on my reading comprehension, and could use some suggestions for some simply written fiction to pick up. [more inside]
Ghost in the Shell 2.0 or the original version?
I have a DVD containing Ghost in the Shell 2.0 (the re-mastered version with a new score) and the 'original movie version'.
If I'm only going to watch one, which should it be? I'll be watching with Japanese dialogue and English subtitles in either case.
Gluing ABS to styrene
I need a "medium-build" adhesive to glue some fairly small (5mm) plastic components to each other, and my usual glues aren't useful here. [more inside]
Car guy needs a wagon that's fun to drive
An Audi A4 is a bit small and I can't import and RS6, what else should I look at? [more inside]
posted by VTX at 12:42 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by VTX at 12:42 PM PST - 34 comments
How can I make $800 within the week?
My car broke down on me. Needs a new alternator, battery and wiring. It costs $800 to fix. How can I come up with the money? I have $0 to my name, 1 maxed out credit card, and no way to take out a payday loan because I just started a job 4 days ago after a lengthy unemployment. I can't borrow the money or bum rides from friends/family. I'm required to drive for my job and I'm in danger of losing it. I've also just started making new friends after years without them and now I can't drive to meet anyone anywhere. I'm worried my life is going to fall apart. I have one thing that I can sell for maybe $150. Are there ways to come up with the money I'm missing? I'm freaking out. Thank you.
posted by Pericardium at 12:35 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by Pericardium at 12:35 PM PST - 38 comments
Is Bali drivable?
We're planning a trip next year and will be staying (for free!) near Lovina on the North-central coast. We'd like to rent a car for the week and day-trip to see the other parts of the island. Is this realistic and/or advisable? How are the roads in reality? [more inside]
Where is radio news guy Bill Crowley working these days?
Where is Bill Crowley -- former WCBS, WINS, and Air America Radio news guy -- working these days? I always admired Bill Crowley's ability to keep his head in the midst of madness, but I've lost track of him since Air America Radio shut down its news division. Given his long career in radio, he's kind of an unheralded treasure. I'd really like to know what he's up to these days, and to find a way to hear his voice again if possible.
Made a huge mistake at work on accident. How do I handle this?
I made an honest error at work, and people are upset (or more) at me. How do I balance taking responsibility and standing up for myself? [more inside]
My friend kicked me out, and I work with her. Help?
I woke up this morning to find a letter on the door of the room I'd been staying in, reading: "Your time is up. I want you out of my house. No matter how you take this, I want you out of my house. I don't care who you have to call, but you must be out by today. Your stuff is already outside in the living room." She was the one who let me in after this situation occurred. I have work at 4, she will be there, and all I want to do is scream and call out sick. [more inside]
Goals and To-Dos - best tools, resources?
I'm looking for the best tool to maintain a list of long-term goals and a resource for generating short-term ones. [more inside]
Iceland For Foodies?
I'm planning a trip to Iceland, probably for May, and a friend has expressed interest in coming along. I'm a bit worried ... [more inside]
Paint my kitchen!
Not literally. But I'm stuck on picking a color. Special snowflake details inside. (Possible triggers for mental health issues) [more inside]
How far is too far for a used car test drive?
I need to take the plunge and buy a new, used car and have never done the test drive before. [more inside]
posted by lpcxa0 at 10:13 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by lpcxa0 at 10:13 AM PST - 13 comments
Vacation Rentals - How to go about doing it
Looking for guidance and recommendations on renting a house for one week in Rhode Island this coming June. I'm looking to be somewhat near Bristol, RI (but can be as much as 30 miles away), near a beach, biking trails and a cute town with a few nice restaurants and attractions. Would love your recommendations on what town to look for a rental, as well as rental agencies/websites to go to to find properties and information on how one goes about doing it - should I contact the owner, how do I get a guarantee that this person/place is legitimate, and that my deposit is guaranteed.
Also, can you give me the ins and outs of renting a home for a week vacation? Tips on how to go about doing it, what to watch out for, as well as how to make the best of a one week's rental or things to do in a Rhode Island seaside town would be fun.
Thanks!
posted by BlueMartini7 at 9:51 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by BlueMartini7 at 9:51 AM PST - 7 comments
What are some movies based on longform journalism stories?
What are some movies based on longform journalism stories? So far I'm coming up with Bernie (Midnight in the Garden of East Texas in Texas Monthly), 21 (Hacking Los Vegas in Wired), and Into Thin Air (Into Thin Air in Outside) but there must be more! (I think Into the Wild was a book first and not an article, but I could be wrong.) Both names of movies and links to the articles that inspired them would be most helpful.
posted by fiercecupcake at 9:45 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by fiercecupcake at 9:45 AM PST - 28 comments
Any insight on dealing with consolidated credit or no more debt?
Has anyone had any experience in dealing with organizations like nomoredebts.org or consolidatedcredit.ca? [more inside]
Exiting as Gracefully (and Safely) as Possible
I feel that my current job threatens my personal safety. How can I leave this job as professionally as possible while protecting that safety? [more inside]
A song that describes slowly blossoming love that is held back?
What's a good song that embodies the feeling of... "you found the person with whom you want to spend a lifetime together... but you're kept from being together (not because there are other people, but other reasons)... and every day it hurts to dream about, in a sweet way."
kind of like a song that would describe Jim and Pam's tentative pre-lationship in The Office season 1 on...
thanks!
posted by dracomarca at 9:14 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by dracomarca at 9:14 AM PST - 21 comments
Help me identify southern state politician from a movie
Many years ago I recall watching a movie, where this southern state politician (supposedly based on a true character) was pulling dirty tricks during his campaign. IIRC, he for example accused his competitor of being a "humanist", along with several other carefully chosen praise words which, to his uneducated voters, sounded like insults. Does anyone know which movie I am referring to, or who this politician was?
posted by helion at 9:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by helion at 9:01 AM PST - 4 comments
Do you tip your dog walker?
I just hired a dog walker this week... and it just occurred to me today: am I supposed to be tipping? And if so, how? The weekly bill is $60; am I supposed to leave a couple of bucks a day, or could I leave $10 or $12 at the end of the week or something? Or is it more of a holiday bonus thing (in which case I feel kind of bad, because the holidays are a year away).
Some days, the owner of the business will walk my dog. Is it like a salon where you're not supposed to tip the owner, just employees?
Or am I totally over thinking this, and is dog walking not a tipping sort of service?
posted by Kriesa at 8:51 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Kriesa at 8:51 AM PST - 13 comments
Please help me phrase an uncomfortable but important email.
I thought he was attracted to me. I'm really attracted to him. Turns out he's just really excited about my creative work. Help me find the words to be honest about the attraction and the fact that I'd like to get past that imbalance so we can do all the collaborations we want to do. [more inside]
New modem or new router?
I have a Zhone wifi router/modem which I purchased from my ISP. It drops connection occasionally but regularly (a couple-few times a month) which can be fixed only by restarting the modem which is sort of a pain. Googling around suggests that my modem is a crappy router. Is it better to purchase a different router/modem or just to buy a wifi router and turn off wifi on the modem or to buy the wifi router and to run the modem in bridge mode (I have access to the web UI)? If one of the latter two, what is the current first choice for routers?
Wedge pillow for a side/stomach sleeper?
After any sort of cold/respiratory illness, I descend into a month or two of sore throat, raw/drippy/sneezy nose, and asthma-type-coughing and wheezing caused by post-nasal drip. In high school, I briefly used a wedge pillow to minimize this and I'm considering getting one again, but I'm not sure if my sleeping position is compatible with a wedge pillow. Any experiences and advice welcome. [more inside]
need a catchy phrase
My workplace, a public library, is planning to replace/ enhance the landscaping with ornamental, edible vegetables. We'll be donating the produce to the local food pantry as it comes available. What we need is a catchy promotional phrase to promote and advertise what we're doing. One early suggestion was "food, not flowers" but that's dry and sort of negative. So, give me your best, catchiest, inspired ideas!
Where can I find Tim Seibles' poem "The Groom"?
This is a short question, but the internet sucks at poetry books so I've had no luck finding out what I need to know through other channels. Where can I find Tim Seibles' poem "The Groom"? Of his books that actually have a table of contents available online, that poem doesn't appear in any of them, and of course I haven't been able to find it among the other set. Help please! I love that poem and I want to have it again.
Talk to me about ski bags
Should I get a hard case or a soft bag? Single or double? Anything else I'm not considering? [more inside]
posted by never.was.and.never.will.be. at 8:02 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by never.was.and.never.will.be. at 8:02 AM PST - 9 comments
The beatings will stop when morale improves.
How do I deal with a difficult colleague who doesn't respect me when I'm getting zero support from my boss? [more inside]
How to feel good about my financial independence?
This could come across as a stupid question to many people but I'd like to know how I can "feel & think better" about my financial independence from my partner. Sometimes I get a nagging feeling inside that I'd be a happier person if my partner just took care of everything and I didn't have to work so damn hard. I know I should embrace the fact that I have financial independence, am debt-free, good with money, savings and so on and feel good about being able to take care of myself. [more inside]
Is there a good SMTP service to send bulk emails (or other solution?)
Is there a good SMTP service to send bulk emails (or another good solution for sending bulk emails, using the tools I already have, rather than a service like Mailchimp?) [more inside]
posted by ManInSuit at 7:33 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by ManInSuit at 7:33 AM PST - 14 comments
Help me find my precious lasagna recipe or find a better one.
I need to cook a lasagna by Friday for a large party. But in the great book purge, the cookbook that has the best lasagna recipe got removed! I am prepared to buy it new on Amazon, but I can't remember the title, and my fuzzy memory is supplying only generic terms. Please help me either find this cookbook, or recommend an even more awesome lasagna recipe! Clues follow. [more inside]
posted by corb at 7:29 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by corb at 7:29 AM PST - 21 comments
Converting a personal facebook page to professional page...with issues
I want to convert a personal facebook page to a professional one. The issue is: the personal page already has a group created under it. What happens to it? [more inside]
Chart help needed: How to show proportion between two values?
What type of chart do I want to show that one number is several times as many as another? [more inside]
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 6:48 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 6:48 AM PST - 11 comments
Do small retailers use head hunters?
I was wondering how small retailers (think of a mom and pop sized clothing boutique in a high-end shopping district.) find store managers and associates.
I know that the small retailer can post an ad on craigslist or in the local paper, but will they ever use the services of a local recruiter?
More broadly, can anyone explain the economics of becoming a “head hunter”, whether for a low paying retail position, a typical corporate middle management position, or for an executive position?
Totally awesome new sexual superpower - but why?
What would cause my vagina to suddenly be tighter?
I've been sexually active since I was 19, and I'm 31 now. In the last 2 years I've suddenly gotten comments from multiple partners about how tight I am. In particular, a porn star I was dating, who obviously has seen his fair share of vaginas, tells me mine is the tightest he's ever felt.
Aside from this being a totally awesome sexual superpower I seem to have developed, what could have happened?
The only thing I can think of is that before these two years, I had a dry spell of about a year. I know that can tighten things up. But I've been having a decent amount of sex in the last two years - at least 1-2 times a month usually, with the exception of the three months of dating the porn star (cause, well, dating a porn star). Apparently I'm still as tight as ever. Wouldn't that tightening that resulted from the dry spell have loosened up again by now?
What's going on with my lady bits?
posted by dithmer at 3:32 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by dithmer at 3:32 AM PST - 19 comments
Who's the Jamie Oliver of vegetarian cooking?
I'm well aware that this opinion is not shared by everyone, but I really like Jamie Oliver's style of cooking (and, I confess, presentation on tv): simple ingredients (but the best you can get), big flavours, lots of fresh herbs, very informal. The thing is, he's not that big on vegetarian recipes, and I'm making an effort to *not* eat meat 3 or 4 times a week, so could you recommend a vegetarian Jamie Oliver please?
Note: I googled this phrase and google came up with Simon Rimmer, but I was kind of underwhelmed.
posted by Skyanth at 3:02 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by Skyanth at 3:02 AM PST - 30 comments
Best method for selling 700 cds -- in Austin
I've got maybe 700 cds, I hardly ever use them, I'm all on mp3 player now. They are taking up lots of space, they're annoying, I'm not going to listen to them. So I want to get shed of them. But how? [more inside]
posted by dancestoblue at 2:50 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by dancestoblue at 2:50 AM PST - 18 comments
Tart Cherry Juice as an Anti-inflamatory
I am on warfarin therapy permanently and, as a result, I cannot use NSAIDs (aspirin, naproxen, ibuprofen, etc.) easily. I have been thinking of tart cherry juice as an alternative.
Do you have any experience with tart cherry juice for arthritis or other pain and inflamation?
If you are on warfarin, what alternatives to NSAIDs have you tried?
January 15
about C
If C is the basic, root note of the Western musical scale, why is C not named A?
posted by gnossie at 11:53 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by gnossie at 11:53 PM PST - 11 comments
I woke up and there was a stranger in my room
I'm a female. An unknown female came into my room very late at night.
I woke up but thought it was my guy roommate's friend needing to sleep on the other bed in my room (which has happened before), so I just kept sleeping.
She slept on the other bed. She is probably in her 20's like myself.
Later my roommate told me she was homeless trying to get herself back on her feet and wasn't anybody's friend; one of my roommate's friends just met her (I don't know how & where).
Just from this info, if you were me, how would you feel about continuing to sleep in the same room with this person?
Appointing opposite party U.S. Senators
Have any U.S. Senators been appointed to fill out a term of a previous Senator who had been of a different political party? If so, who?
I brought this up because of a bar bet between some political junky friends of mine. I guess this would have to be post-17th amendment, but if you have any relevant pre-17th amendment Senate succession stories, I'd love to hear that too.
Which olive oil tastes the most olive-like?
I want to buy olive oil that actually tastes like it came from olives. Which specific brand(s) would you recommend? [more inside]
What commercial was this?
this is driving me crazy. at least ten years ago, i remember a commercial for jeans. levis, lee, wrangler, i looked for them all on youtube, to no avail. it's about some white dude, t-shirt, jeans, picking up some african-american woman for a date at her family's home. it makes a big deal about how he's white and he's definitely seen by the neighboring dudes as an interloper. can anyone remember this and/or provide a link? thanks.
What's a great textbook for complex business systems analysis?
"Logistics" is not quite the right word, but what are some very good "logistics" textbooks? [more inside]
Our roof is being redone tomorrow, worried about cats.
Our house still has its original roof from when it was built in the mid-1950s. It's finally getting replaced tomorrow -- after months of leaks in nearly every room -- but I'm worried about our two indoor cats dealing with it. I know the noise will terrify them and they will hide, but are there other things I should worry about? [more inside]
Help me put my foot down while still keeping my cool at work.
I need advice on calmly asserting that a new task that's been dumped on me is A) unsuitable for my skill set and B) unreasonable in terms of time and expectations. [more inside]
posted by andraste at 8:52 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by andraste at 8:52 PM PST - 24 comments
How do I make Tumblr work for me again?
Recent changes in Tumblr's layout have made it unusable for me. What do I do? [more inside]
Name that movie!
I remember watching a movie that was made in either the late 80s or early 90s which was set in a mental institution (or possibly rehab facility?). What was it? [more inside]
posted by cheerwine at 8:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by cheerwine at 8:06 PM PST - 9 comments
Where can i submit adult articles?
I have an adult website so I can't submit articles to normal article directories and get a link back for SEO. Is there a list of adult article directories where I can submit articles or even short stories and include a link in the article or bio?
How many people does an average person encounter in a given day?
How many people does an average person encounter in a given day? [more inside]
What was this music (Athens?) documentary?
My friend insists that she saw a documentary in which people were interviewed who lived in a house with Jeff Mangum. She thought that it was about the Elephant 6 Collective, but since we can't find any reference to that, she thinks that it might be about the Athens music scene. Do you know what it is? [more inside]
Is it possible to sell a gmail address?
I have several VERY desirable gmail addresses. Is there any way to sell/trade them for anything of value? [more inside]
What can I do about a sick person who insists on coming to work?
My clearly ill coworker refuses to go home. [more inside]
Fell for someone who lives far away. What now?
I met a guy who was only here for 2 weeks visiting. Unexpectedly, I really like him a lot, and I need some advice on what to do next. [more inside]
Where to go on a weekend getaway from Orlando
My wife and I (early 30's) are visiting my parents in Orlando for a week in mid-March. They have kindly offered to babysit our 2-year-old for a couple of nights. We will have a car and 2 nights to go somewhere. Where should we go? [more inside]
Is there a specific word or phrase for the following behavior?
I've been racking my brain trying to figure out if there is a specific word or term that defines the following behavior: when someone says "I know you don't/said (x) but ..." For example: "I know you said you don't drink coffee, but this one is really good and you should drink it" or "I know you said you're really busy with your job and new baby but I would really like you to take the time to email me and tell me what's new with you." I'm not looking for words or phrases that ambiguously describe how this behavior makes an individual feel (e.g. "annoying") but rather something that would be used as a clinical definition to refer to this particular behavior (e.g. "passive-aggressive," "gaslighting," etc.)
posted by matrushka at 6:19 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by matrushka at 6:19 PM PST - 28 comments
You Are Not My Walrus
But you might have some insight into my Ambien questions. Any suggestions on what antidepressants might work well for someone whose brain really likes Ambien? Do you find that certain activities/foods/supplements make Ambien work better? If you've tried both Ambien and another heavy-duty sleep aid, how do they compare? [more inside]
I want out of a toxic relationship with a research team. How do I do it?
Hello fellow academics. I have a situation, that I am sure you're familiar with: I want out of a research team that has been, rather pitifully, working toward a publication for the last 2 years, the end result of which is a majestic, incoherent piece of garbage that has already been rejected by various top conferences and journals. I want out but the problem is that I've done most of the work as second author and I'd rather not see my hard work be attributed to the first author on the manuscript should it somehow get published. What is the best solution in this case? [more inside]
Alternative Glue for Soft Paws?
I have used Soft Paws to prevent my two cats from scratching our furniture in the past, and they worked really well. However, either they redesigned their glue dispenser, or I've developed serious glue-handling issues, because I went through three bottles of glue spilling all over the place before I gave up. Is it safe to use Krazy Glue, or some similar product instead of the glue they provide? [more inside]
Straightforward way to reduce hardwood floor shine?
My very dark strand woven bamboo hardwood floors have a semi-glossy finish. Even after they've been freshly mopped, every speck of dust is visible and they'll look dirty the minute someone – wearing socks fresh out of the laundry, even – walks across the room. Is there any way I can change their finish to matte? [more inside]
How to determine pulse rate while running
OK, maybe the verb 'determine' is ambitious but having a close enough estimate is also good. There is a catch, I am not running on a treadmill and I do not have any gadget on my wrist or body. Is it still possible to have a nice guess of the pulse rate because, say, I want to be in the cardio zone and not in the fat burning zone. I think it is a function of age, fitness, speed and running duration but could not find an online chart for this kind of relation. And yes, I know the speed I run at.
posted by raphael19 at 4:29 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by raphael19 at 4:29 PM PST - 15 comments
Keyboard Shortcut in Illustrator
I'm watching a youtube tutorial about a plugin for Illustrator. The speaker mentions pressing the "out key" at which time this icon is displayed : Out Key. I can't figure out what he is referring to. I'm actually using a windows machine and he is on OSX, but I'm not seeing that on my macbook either. Can someone enlighten me? Thanks!
posted by meta87 at 4:22 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by meta87 at 4:22 PM PST - 3 comments
A sixties girl group canon?
I love the sound of sixties girl groups. I have this compilation but I want more. But boy there's a lot of compilations out there, often with the same songs... Are there any particularly good compilations out there worth getting? What groups were more than one-hit wonders and deserve special attention? Any great books, websites, documentaries? (Cheeky extra question: I'm also interested in 60s garage girl bands too)
Emergency in Dresden
A friend's friend announced suicide, and we think there is a good chance she may mean it. She is in Dresden, Germany, we are in ROmania, and we cannot find a relevant emergency phone number that can be called from abroad or any other way to help. Can you help? Do you know what we could do? [more inside]
Java exploits in Mac - how do I get rid of it all?
After running Avast, I discovered some infected Java files on my macbook (10.5.8). I deleted them in Avast, but how do I know if I've gotten rid of it all? Is it on my Time Machine back up? Do I need to change my passwords? Do I need to take this to a Genius Bar, or can I fix it myself? [more inside]
posted by min at 4:06 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by min at 4:06 PM PST - 3 comments
Has 12 year old cranioplasty turned me into a capacitor?
Nearly 12 years ago I underwent cranioplasty, which involved dissimilar metals being added to the inside of my skull. Could it be possible that I'm generating a low voltage current? This would explain roughly 90% of the unexplained symptoms I've noticed since that time. This seems like a case of electrochemical capacitance to me. I understand that YANMD; in fact, it may even be the case that YARNAD. That's just fine, I don't really want anyone's 'medical' advice. What I need is some advice on what questions to ask and which specialists I 'should' actually be seeing to properly diagnose and resolve these issues. [more inside]
posted by schade at 3:40 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by schade at 3:40 PM PST - 11 comments
Me and my therapist see the world differently. What to do?
I've realised that I have serious philosophical disagreements with my therapist, as in extremely conflicting world views. I've been seeing her for a year and I'm not in the best place right now, how should I respond to this realisation? [more inside]
posted by litleozy at 3:21 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by litleozy at 3:21 PM PST - 42 comments
Post-pubescent breast growth?
Why would a mid-twenties woman's breasts suddenly grow, if unrelated to birth control or pregnancy? [more inside]
How do I stop these unwelcome thoughts
I have uncontrollable visions of myself doing socially awkward things when I'm engaging in social situations with family, friends, strangers. How do I make them stop? [more inside]
Early earning ideas for an 11-year old?
What are some ideas for real earning activities for an 11-year old? Our son would love to find something he can do to top up his pocket money. Preferably something real-world, or even virtual; he likes things that have a purpose. [more inside]
posted by progosk at 3:05 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by progosk at 3:05 PM PST - 17 comments
Best simple way to affix light dots to a black t-shirt?
My son's school has a "100th day of school" t-shirt project coming up, requiring 100 of something to be on the shirt. He's a kindergartener with fine-motor issues who suggests a Pac-Man theme. I'd like him to decorate the shirt himself or at least part of it.
So, how should he get 100 colored dots in various pastel colors on a black or navy t-shirt? Ideally the dot-making wouldn't require a lot of grip strength or precision. (We adults will help with the Pac-Man, ghosts, and maze lines as needed.) Bonus points for washability, but that's not essential.
Boyfriend? What's a boyfriend?
How to introduce boyfriend to son after a divorce. Personal experiences as the girlfriend, boyfriend, or the child? Advice? [more inside]
posted by youdontmakefriendswithsalad at 2:16 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by youdontmakefriendswithsalad at 2:16 PM PST - 19 comments
Which class should I take to burn the most calories Belly, Ballet, Pole?
I am choosing between taking a belly dancing, pole dancing or beginners ballet class.
Which one will burn the most calories?
I will be a beginner in all 3
Does anyone make it back from the brink?
Have you been in a marriage or LTR where you were on the brink of breaking up but then you didn't? If so, how did that work? [more inside]
posted by dawkins_7 at 1:55 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by dawkins_7 at 1:55 PM PST - 11 comments
Best practices for scientific Python prototyping/debugging?
I'm using Python in my research now to build some models and analyze some data. I've done this with Matlab and R in the past and became fairly used to running individual lines or blocks of code at a time and doing a lot of interactive printing and plotting from the console. This behavior seems to be a bit more difficult in Python and I'm trying to find the best way to be productive. [more inside]
posted by PercussivePaul at 1:50 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by PercussivePaul at 1:50 PM PST - 11 comments
Is this toddler sadness reasonably normal?
My 2.5 year-old daughter has gently, soundlessly sobbed when I sang to her at bedtime twice now. It seemed like a deep and genuine sorrow that shocked me terribly the first time it happened. I feel extremely concerned. Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 1:31 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by kitcat at 1:31 PM PST - 39 comments
Non-counterfeit Disney trading pins on e-bay?
Does anyone know a reliable on-line re-seller of Disney pins? [more inside]
Newbie: ski OR snowboard at Windham Mountain
I'm going to get lessons to ski or snowboard for my very first time. This will be at Windham Mountain.
Either looks like fun. If I have to pick one for my first outing on this mountain, and with this mountain's beginner classes, and this season's snow, which should I choose? [more inside]
posted by zippy at 1:21 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by zippy at 1:21 PM PST - 13 comments
Novel about childhood in the American South
What was this young adult (or children's) novel I read about a girl growing up in Appalachia or the Ozarks? It might have actually been two different novels. [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 1:19 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by lunasol at 1:19 PM PST - 15 comments
Love my new job but discouraged by closely knit coworker
I got a new job and have, in record winning pace, managed to be the outsider weirdo of my team (yay!) Details below and advice on both practical and professional ways to deal welcomed. [more inside]
posted by hillabeans at 1:15 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by hillabeans at 1:15 PM PST - 33 comments
In 2013, how does Facebook spoof friend requests?
Is Facebook still spoofing friend requests? [more inside]
posted by infinitewindow at 1:14 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by infinitewindow at 1:14 PM PST - 9 comments
Where should we go on holiday in mid-February?
Me and my girlfriend want to go on holiday in mid-February. Where should we go/what should we do? [more inside]
Looking for novels featuring good parenting
I want to improve my parenting skills for my almost-2-year old. I don't have a lot of role models nearby, so I'd like to do some reading. I tend to put off reading non-fiction, even if it is well-written about a topic I am interested in. However, I will read novels even if they aren't very good and I don't really have time to read them. [more inside]
posted by SandiBeech at 12:39 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by SandiBeech at 12:39 PM PST - 15 comments
What makes an online store usable for the owners?
If you've ever paid $10 to $30 a month for a hosted online e-commerce solution, I have some questions for you about your experience. [more inside]
posted by jsturgill at 12:21 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jsturgill at 12:21 PM PST - 3 comments
should I move to Kansas City for an internet connection?
After reading the recent AP / Slashdot story on startups and Kansas City's new fiber internet infrastructure and startup promotions, I am thinking of moving to where I can get high speed internet. One commenter suggested Chattanooga. Any other suggestions? [more inside]
So... Er... How's life?
How to catch up with old friends? [more inside]
posted by dinosaurprincess at 11:44 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by dinosaurprincess at 11:44 AM PST - 9 comments
Philosophical Texts on Pain and Suffering
Which philosophers have written cogently on the quantifying of suffering? I don't mean the value of suffering, like Nietzsche and the will to power or Kierkegaard and the path to understanding or extreme utilitarianist like Pearce, arguing for the eradication of suffering. I mean texts which consider the problems of how to value and quantifies degrees of suffering.
Thanks!
What do you LOVE about being a parent?
I have a very easy time picturing the ways in which having children would negatively impact my life and career -- I can imagine the exhaustion and the chaos and the drudgery with crystal clarity -- but the good parts are much more hazy. What great stuff does your kids bring into your life? What do you love about having had a family? What makes all the difficulties and sacrifices worthwhile for you? [more inside]
Best travel related web community
I'm looking for recommendations for the best or most useful travel-based community web sites. [more inside]
It's not you, it's me - or maybe it is you? I'm not sure.
It's been 2 months. You have a great first date with a guy from internet. Chemistry! Romance! Sexual Attraction! Best first date ever. But the female has undesirable qualities. After a few more dates the female confronts the male about his intentions. He then calls her back in a passionate telephone call and says he's willing to have a go. Sadly, he seems to not really be that into her. He then again a few weeks later reiterates his fondness for the female, despite hang ups and she's now rethinking her position. [more inside]
Traffic. You silly thing.
LA Traffic Filter: How much time to head to the airport for an 8am flight on a weekday? [more inside]
She thought her period was because she ate strawberries
I've been trying to find a book I read as a kid, way back in the mid-to-late-seventies. My memories are sketchy, but this is what I've got:
About a girl growing up in a small community, maybe in the mountains, or maybe just very rural. She had an extended family which included two unmarried aunts and a grandfather. It took place over a summer. She thought her first period was the result of eating a large amount of strawberries. It was written in first-person perspective, I think. [more inside]
posted by Brody's chum at 10:36 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Brody's chum at 10:36 AM PST - 2 comments
Parking Spot for the Starship Enterprise?
What is this long squiggly line in the parking lot of Candlestick Park? [more inside]
posted by troika at 10:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by troika at 10:33 AM PST - 10 comments
Everyday Life Everywhere?
What are some good sources - blogs or books - for learning what everyday life is like in different parts of the world? [more inside]
posted by kristi at 10:19 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by kristi at 10:19 AM PST - 5 comments
Fashion emergency.
I am traveling out of town Friday morning for a family Bat Mitzvah. I had intended to go shopping for my outfit last week, but didn't due to flu symptoms, an unexpectedly heavy workload, and my characteristic sartorial ineptitude and hatred of shopping. My solution is to wear dressy black pants with a dressy blouse. I do not own such a blouse and must have one delivered to my doorstep. Is the black pants + blouse solution acceptable? What style and/or brand of blouse should I look for and where? How can I avoid looking business casual at this semi-dressy occasion? [more inside]
There's a pH war in my mouth, why can't toothpaste and food be friends?
I normally use a "natural" toothpaste, Jason Powersmile Whitening with Fluoride. I'm travelling and ran out a few days ago so I've been using a regular tube of Colgate or Crest (whichever I find). I've never had a problem with pH clashing in my mouth when eating food shortly after brushing with Jason. However, Colgate/Crest-mouth combined with food is like those childhood mornings of feeling like I've been poisoned by breakfast. I've noticed that couple of hours after I brush my teeth with Colgate/Crest, and then eaten, I still have that "freshly brushed minty" taste and sterile feel in my mouth. Why does it take so long to go away? (Does it last so long because I don't drink coffee?) And, ingredients-wise, what is it in regular toothpaste that is causing this? Why doesn't Jason toothpaste do this as severely? [more inside]
posted by mayurasana at 10:07 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by mayurasana at 10:07 AM PST - 6 comments
Sinus surgery recovery as a singer
After fighting a waxing / waning sinus infection for the past two and half years, I'm starting to accept the fact that I will probably need sinus surgery. Complication: I'm a working singer with a very busy year ahead of me. Can you help me understand the recovery process so I can figure out when to schedule this, if I need it? [more inside]
posted by KathrynT at 10:06 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by KathrynT at 10:06 AM PST - 14 comments
Teach myself Math virtually for the first time.
I'm a 21 year old college senior liberal arts major who has managed to slide by in school (and life) without ever really learning math beyond a middle school/very early high school level. For no reason in particular, I've decided that I want to get serious about bettering myself in the math department. How can I teach myself the academic math skills I missed out on? [more inside]
posted by Krazor at 10:05 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Krazor at 10:05 AM PST - 20 comments
Are you an experienced investigator? Help me be great at my job.
I am seeking professional advice from experienced investigators working on internal investigations in institutional contexts - what can I read, do, practice, etc. to be effective and successful at my new job? [more inside]
How to stop program from changing window state uncontrollably
On a Windows 7 system open windows will sometimes rapidly cycle through windowed, maximized, and full screen states. I've run out of ideas and am looking for suggestions that might fix it. [more inside]
posted by aerotive at 9:49 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by aerotive at 9:49 AM PST - 11 comments
Words, bits, or what?
After a torturously long stint in grad school, I’m trying to figure out what to do next. The only things on my resume are my education, a couple of summer jobs from the early 00’s, grad-student stuff (TAing, running a colloquium for a few years), and some part-time adjuncting. Should I 1) try to get a job in publishing or some other word-related field, or 2) pursue my burgeoning interest in computer programming? (If you’ve got a plausible 3, I’d love to hear it.) [more inside]
Looking for lesson plans - Recycling Specific
I am compiling a collection of K-12 lesson plans on waste reduction/recycling/reuse/composting etc. Where are the best places to look? [more inside]
Call before dropping by, is this a regional thing?
My fiance and I have different opinions about visiting and whether or not we should call first. I'm not saying either of us are right or wrong, but I'm wondering if it's a regional thing. [more inside]
Friend has a new boyfriend - am I overreacting? Am I too jealous?
I am jealous of the fact that my good friend is hardly around because she's got a new boyfriend. Very happy for her, but am very uncomfortable with my jealousy. Need some perspective and help dealing. [more inside]
How do cats choose where to take their naps?
My cats both seem to choose different places to sleep on different days. I can't really figure out how/why the choose where they do.
One day in the closet with a window, the other on the bed when the blinds are open, sometimes on the couch near the window, sometimes on the couch as far as possible from the windows, sometimes on the living room couch, sometimes on the family room couch, and then somedays in the no-window basement where it is completely dark.
Do you know what affects the pattern? Except maybe light/warmth?
posted by warthurton at 9:26 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by warthurton at 9:26 AM PST - 20 comments
Going out for a blog
I've been looking for good blogs about running, lately. I've found a lot of shoe-review sites, and a few gear-review sites, but I'm interested in general motivational stories of people's training, race reports, that sort of thing. Google hasn't been very helpful, so I figured I'd ask Mefi.
What blogs do you like to read about running?
posted by bowbeacon at 9:16 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by bowbeacon at 9:16 AM PST - 12 comments
Warning System for Server Failure
Sometimes, web sites go down. Our employees and clients are pretty good at noticing downtime, messaging me, and then I open a ticket with the hosting company or programmer and get it resolved. I am looking for some kind of downtime warning system. [more inside]
posted by banished at 9:07 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by banished at 9:07 AM PST - 10 comments
What games did you play in study hall?
Some friends and I are planning to spend a Saturday holding what we are calling the Study Hall Olympics: a competition planned around the stupid games kids play in study hall or on the bus or wherever they have time to kill but have to stay put (paper football, thumb wrestling, paper-rock-scissors, &c.) We've come up with a handful but I'm looking for more. When you were in school, what were the best games of this sort?
How Hard Is It Out There For a Temp?
For those who are currently working as a temporary employee (preferably in customer service or admin/office positions) -- are you able to find steady work as a temp? How are things in your area for temp work? [more inside]
Tips for a family-wide reset?
My wife (27) and I (30) are moving our small family (+2 year old son, -anything that won't fit in 6 suitcases) across the country to Portland, Oregon. In large part we're leaving all of our (supportive, loving) local family and friends looking for adventure and to consciously decide the sort of people we will be (Along with a serious upgrade of location from suburban Central Florida). Have others done a similar reset with themselves or their entire family? Any recommendations on how to be loving and charitable to family and friends while you are leaving and enjoying the next phase? Or pointers on how to meet and embrace a new set of friends and "family"? [more inside]
posted by stickwithjosh at 8:34 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by stickwithjosh at 8:34 AM PST - 19 comments
Where to restart 'Bunheads?'
Mrs. Mojo and i began watching 'Bunheads' but lost interest within four episodes. Recent comments from critics implied the show significantly improved after its beginning. Assuming you agree, where would you pick it up again?
posted by mojohand at 8:30 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by mojohand at 8:30 AM PST - 8 comments
Identifying a female-sterilization-friendly gynecologist
Looking for a gynecologist who will not give me--28, no kids, not in a relationship--a hard time about getting a tubal ligation. How I can ascertain this from the website, a phone call, or (if necessary) the first visit? Maryland/DC area. [more inside]
Ideas for Productive Workouts
I do not like working out for the sake of working out. But I do love working hard and vigorously if it means I am being productive and getting something done. Can you help me come up with ideas of working hard and having a tangible result at the end? [more inside]
Is this what they call... networking?
I recently applied for an internship at X Company. Today I found out (or, rather, suddenly remembered from a conversation a couple months ago) that someone I know actually works at X, in the specific team to which I submitted the application. Is there any way I can sort of ~casually~ (or not) bring this to their attention? Would it even make a difference? [more inside]
How do I respond to students who are unhappy with their grade?
I'm teaching a college-level creative course, and some of my students have emailed me saying they're dissatisfied with their posted grades. These students have Bs or better. Primarily I want the students to go away, but also I'd like them to understand that a B is a pretty good grade, and that the grades reflect the quality of the students' work and participation in class. I think some students expected As because it's a creative subject and (for them) an elective. Can I just not respond to these emails, or is that an instructor faux pas?
posted by Hoenikker at 7:25 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by Hoenikker at 7:25 AM PST - 49 comments
Classic, quality watch under $1000?
I want to buy my partner a watch. Where do I start? [more inside]
posted by ohsnapdragon at 7:21 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by ohsnapdragon at 7:21 AM PST - 14 comments
Birthday present for a special-snowflake 8-year-old
I have a nephew who is coming up on his eighth birthday, and need some help, probably especially from a LBGT viewpoint.... [more inside]
posted by easily confused at 7:02 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by easily confused at 7:02 AM PST - 27 comments
Question for barristers in UK!
I'm reading Zadie Smith's _NW_ right now set in London. I don't understand the references to the young lawyers speaking of being "tenants" or "tenancy." [more inside]
posted by honey badger at 6:25 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by honey badger at 6:25 AM PST - 5 comments
Service like Backupify that doesn't require Google Apps?
I am finally going to stop using a paper calendar and start using my laptop/iPhone/iPad instead. However, having used ol' reliable paper for so many years, I'm a bit paranoid about using Google calendar (or an app) and then losing all my data somehow... Is there an iPhone/iPad calendar app that would make me feel more "secure," or is there a service like Backupify that doesn't require a Google Apps account? I'd love to back up my Gmail too, if possible. (Am I just worrying too much? Is using iCloud enough? I am clearly clueless.)
How do I stop giving this high school bully space in my head?
I want to forget about this kid, but he keeps popping up in my head. How do I get over him? [more inside]
posted by handknittedsock at 5:32 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by handknittedsock at 5:32 AM PST - 20 comments
Help me with my iPhone 4 Battery Life!
I have an iPhone 4 and since the iOS 6 update, my battery life is horrible! Help! [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 5:15 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by dbirchum at 5:15 AM PST - 14 comments
Powering a work environment from a bike dynamo?
I'll soon be off on a big bike tour, and would like reccomendations for running a computer/tablet able to do actual work from a bike dynamo hub (details inside). [more inside]
posted by jaduncan at 4:59 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by jaduncan at 4:59 AM PST - 29 comments
Philosophy reading reccomendations on "Notion of freedom and humanity"
A friend of mine recently quit his job and has found himself with a lot of free time. As a method to explore his mind and world he has set himself a task to write an essay on : -
"The Notion of Freedom and Humanity"
I am no philosophy veteran but I am sure that there must be some great texts already dealing with this subject.
What research and reading material can I recommend my friend for his essay?
Is the guy I'm dating not interested and ignoring me?
I have been dating a guy and he hasn't responded to my text message for over a day, its quite unlike him. Why is he ignoring me?
I was wondering if anyone can help me understand what is happening? Has anyone had this experience before and guys in particular, what do you think? Am I over-reacting? [more inside]
Breakfast spots in Berlin?
I'll be in Berlin for about a week and would appreciate recommendations for cafes/breakfast places. I'll be staying on the border between Kreuzberg and Neukölln so places near there would be especially appreciated. [more inside]
posted by vacapinta at 2:24 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by vacapinta at 2:24 AM PST - 12 comments
My Gmail acct. hijacked to send spam
Twice recently my Gmail acct. has been hijacked by someone who is sending spam emails to some, but not contacts --seems to be only recently emailed (by me) people. The spam is an ad, as seen on Fox News for Raspberry drops weight loss aid. How do the spammers access my Gmail account? Could it be through my brand new Android cell phone? I am unaware of any other problems on my (Macbook) home computer. I have a secure WiFi router at home. No evidence malware or virus. I've changed my Gmail password, FWIW. Any suggestions on how/where to find a way from this happening again?
She was mad! And she made me love King Lear.
Australian secondary school teachers: is it madness to start a Dip Ed at 50? [more inside]
posted by Kerasia at 1:45 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Kerasia at 1:45 AM PST - 6 comments
HSV Blood Test Paranoia
No symptoms present, no evidence of exposure. To blood test or not to test? [more inside]
posted by emoemu at 12:07 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by emoemu at 12:07 AM PST - 11 comments
January 14
Reliable alternatives to AAA
I just want reliable, reasonable non-AAA roadside assistance, but thus far I've been thwarted on the "reliable and reasonable" part. C'mon, hasn't competition made this happen yet? I'm not a big fan of AAA's well-known lobbying activities, and even if I made peace with the politics, their relentless direct-mail campaign has put them on my shit list forever. [more inside]
I want to stay, but I want my house cleaned up.
What home improvements are reasonable to ask of my landlord ? (Snowflakey details inside) [more inside]
I'm ugly right now. What can I do?
I have a bad (short and growing out) haircut, and I've been having the worst acne breakout of my life for the past 5 months. I feel very unattractive. I'm now under the care of a great dermatologist, and I'm searching for a new stylist. In the meantime, I don't feel like myself. How can I get back on track? [more inside]
posted by your mom's a sock puppet at 8:58 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by your mom's a sock puppet at 8:58 PM PST - 25 comments
When to show up for a 6:30 flight from DCA?
I've got a 6:30 am flight from DCA this Wednesday. When do I have to show up? And how long will it take me via cab from Adams Morgan? [more inside]
Climate of despair
What can I do about climate change? Because so far my only action has been to feel utterly hopeless. [more inside]
What are your best painless tips for saving money?
What are your best tips for saving money in ways that don't impact your quality of life and don't require much effort?
I'm talking about things like: cut the dryer sheets in half, get twice as much out of a single box, impact on quality of laundry = 0, effort = nearly 0.
posted by bq at 8:21 PM PST - 61 comments
posted by bq at 8:21 PM PST - 61 comments
Recordings of R-rated language in a General Australian accent?
I'm learning a monologue with a General Australian accent, but I'm having trouble finding resources to check my pronunciation of the R-rated language in the monologue. Can you point me to recordings that may help? [more inside]
I love cottage cheese. Help me love it more and better.
Cottage cheese is my favorite. How can I eat it cheaply? Healthfully? And best? [more inside]
Cat sitter in Boston
I moved back to Boston a bit over a year ago. previously I was living in the suburbs in a southeastern city and had a really great pet sitter: she would come to the house to care for my pets daily when I travelled.
I have had trouble finding a similar person here. I have had a few short work-related trips, for which my building doorman sufficed. When I took a longer personal vacation, I used yelp to find a pet sitter. The person I chose was recommended but REALLY did not measure up. (ie did not show up at all:please memail me if you want who never to use).
I am looking for someone who will come to my home daily to feed/water my 2 cats. I live in Fort Point (so parking can be a challenge).
Anyone have suggestions? (note; I prefer to leave my cats in situ as vs boarding them)
posted by maryrussell at 6:36 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by maryrussell at 6:36 PM PST - 5 comments
Linkedin for the Differently-Organized?
How does one use linkedin effectively if one hasn't exactly got a career? [more inside]
Looking for an MD/psychologist to help wean me off Zoloft
Long-ago diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder, I am currently on Zoloft prescribed by my GP. Please recommend to me an MD/psychologist in Vancouver, Canada to assist me in the process of weaning off of the drug. [more inside]
Try to sink the duck!
I'm looking for this toy I always used to see in roadside restaurant stores when I was a kid. It involves being unable to sink a small toy in a box. [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 6:24 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 6:24 PM PST - 7 comments
Getaways within 3 hours of NYC?
I've asked before, but I need help! The grandparents have offered to take the kids this weekend, and so my wife and I are looking for a place to go in NYC. [more inside]
Adobe LiveCycle fields insist on printing.
I'm attempting to create a form using Adobe LiveCycle for the first time. I've made a good dent in what I'm trying to do, and everything's finally working as it should, except that one particular field insists on printing even though the "presence" is absolutely, positively marked "Visible (screen only)". [more inside]
It's like having an obnoxious in-law, but not.
My friend and his wife are visiting later this year. I enjoy my friend's company very much, but being around his wife for more than a day or two drives me nuts. Help me find some way to mitigate this without damaging our friendship in the process. [more inside]
posted by Broseph at 5:47 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Broseph at 5:47 PM PST - 19 comments
Escaping the Mommy Track
Due to a crazy series of events, I think that (on Thursday) I'm going to get an offer that is a huge step forward in my career. Help me not screw this up. [more inside]
First Time Gym User! HELP!
I have no idea how to begin using a gym! I don't have any personal trainers or anything to help me! Help! [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 at 5:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Peregrin5 at 5:39 PM PST - 13 comments
Freelance marketing from another city
I'd like references and information for how a marketing consultant can leverage his location in a big city to help small retailers who are trying to enter the market. [more inside]
My laptop eats USB flash drives
Macbook Pro, running 10.6.8 seems to render any USB flash drive unreadable, be it new or used. [more inside]
posted by tim_in_oz at 5:22 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by tim_in_oz at 5:22 PM PST - 8 comments
Can I get my old Amazon MP3 purchases to appear in Amazon Cloud Player?
Is there a way for me to get the MP3s I bought from Amazon.com before they introduced the cloud player (where you downloaded them once and that was it) to be available via cloud player now? [more inside]
posted by dhens at 4:20 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by dhens at 4:20 PM PST - 9 comments
Where can we our host our event in Chicago and San Fran?
I'm frantically looking for a certain type of event venue in San Fran and Chicago. Please help! (Snowflakey details inside.) [more inside]
Name that Song, Acoustic Edition
Yesterday I heard this song in a Chipotle, but I regularly hear a snippet of it on some NPR (specifically WGBH, Boston) program. A link to my sluggish GarageBand interpretation is attached; the actual song is at a much, much faster tempo. I don't remember any vocals.
http://www.watzatsong.com/en/name-that-tune/366507.html
What's it called?
posted by Seeking Direction at 3:44 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Seeking Direction at 3:44 PM PST - 7 comments
iLapse won't let me export all my pictures. Now what?
So I did a time-lapse and set the frame rate way too high. Now it will only export around 700 pictures to the camera roll and I can't figure out how to get the rest. Every time I get the photos from camera roll to iPhoto, iLapse just starts from the beginning again. So I can get the first 700 just fine, but not the rest. This sucks. Please tell me there's a solution! [more inside]
You Are Not My Epidemiologist, My Virologist, or My Yoga instructor
I think I have the flu--or to be more precise, I think I am fighting the flu. But as usually happens, rather than straightforwardly getting sick and then getting better, I seem stuck in the early stage of not having terribly severe symptoms (congestion etc) but being exhausted, achy, and running a very low-grade fever on and off. This may go on for two weeks or longer. I rarely get "sick".
Given that people are most contagious in the early days of flu infection, same with colds if that what it is, does this mean that I am infectious for longer than most people? And based on your opinion on that, is it (a) a good idea for me to go to hatha yoga, (b) where there's an immuno-compromised (person who is doing or has recently completed chemo) person in my class?
posted by sarahkeebs at 3:31 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by sarahkeebs at 3:31 PM PST - 11 comments
Finding a photo book publisher
I had a successful Kickstarter for a photography project, largely thanks to MetaFilter. Now I need to produce the Big Book (photos of every dot on the map in North Dakota), and, while I can print and bind it myself, I'd like to find a publisher. Where do I start? What do I say? [more inside]
posted by afiler at 3:12 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by afiler at 3:12 PM PST - 12 comments
Do I give up on bosses too easily?
I feel like I have become completely unwilling to work for people if I don't think highly of them, and I can't decide whether I have justifiably high standards or am being unreasonable. [more inside]
posted by eseuss at 3:03 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by eseuss at 3:03 PM PST - 10 comments
[Web Hosting] managed VPS vs Linode
Hi,
I have a medium-big sized website running on Wordpress. I was on the VPS-2 plan of Knownhost.
Recently my traffic went up (10-15k visits a day) and started to get many server load too high messages. I upgraded to their VPS-4 (same link) but still the server can't cope. [more inside]
posted by madeinitaly at 2:58 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by madeinitaly at 2:58 PM PST - 23 comments
Best Educational Videos?
Hi all,
I am developing online educational videos (teaching ppl how to use software) and I would love to learn about any good examples that you have seen. I have definitely watched a bunch from Khan Academy, and love their style of short and engaging videos. Are there other examples you have seen that have been engaging and instructive? Many instructional videos that I have seen that have good content are boring and wouldn't hold someone's attention very long. Thank you for your help!
College Classroom Management Strategies with a Student with Asperger’s
How do I best manage a discussion-based course where one student speaks out too frequently because of Asperger’s? I teach university courses at a school with small class sizes of approximately 10 students. One of my students this semester has Asperger’s and speaks out too frequently—usually on topic but usually to share a personal experience with the topic rather than to move the discussion forward. [more inside]
What is the best method for slow cooker caramelized onions?
What is the best method for slow cooker caramelized onions? I've been meaning to make a nice big batch but googling around gives me a very wide variety of methods. High or low. Six hours or twelve. Lid on or lid off, or lid on and then off or off and then on. Give me your tried and true method.
Adobe Acrobat replacement for Mac OS X
Seeking Adobe Acrobat replacement for Mac OS X. I have Acrobat 8 Standard for Windows, which has served me well. But Adobe only offers their "Pro" version for Mac, which costs way more than I want to spend ($450), and it's also more than I need. So I'm looking for an alternative; free is great, but willing to pay for a solid software package. Intuitive and easy-to-use is a big plus. List of features I tend to rely on most in the "More Inside" section. [more inside]
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 2:03 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Conrad Cornelius o'Donald o'Dell at 2:03 PM PST - 12 comments
Manhattan on Saturday
Can you recommend some things to do in Manhattan this Saturday. Particularly interested in a bagel spot for breakfast, late lunch/early dinner restaurant, museums, interesting film theaters, and any other ideas. [more inside]
posted by pilibeen at 2:01 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by pilibeen at 2:01 PM PST - 17 comments
ghetto lean?
Is there a term for when someone leans very far back and extends their arm to drive?
Neutrogena = glycerin soap base?
What's the difference between Neutrogena and glycerin soap base? [more inside]
Help me dress like I'm from the future
I need an awesome costume idea for a future-themed party. Things that are important: cost (cheap) and ease of construction. [more inside]
Outfoxed by FireFox
I have a blog I have had for some ten years. Now, using FireFox for some time--I prefer this browser--I find that add ons often do not work when FF upgrades to the latest version. I have FF 18.0 now, and seem to using some version of FF that automatically upgrades with each new Beta, and when it does this, addons I use do not work for some time (often fixed later). Example: at present I am no longer able to use Tidyread.
How can I get a version of FF that does not automatically upgrade without my asking? Can I revert to an earlier FF that will allow my addons to function?
Investing in Real Estate for appreciation and rental purposes
What is the most prudent way to go about choosing, managing, and strategizing my "future" real estate empire? [more inside]
Best way to keep a log about a person?
We have a person we have to deal with on an ongoing basis for a legal issue who is a bit of a PITA and we have been asked to start documenting our contact with her. How? [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 1:02 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by JoannaC at 1:02 PM PST - 11 comments
What does this bar of soap say?
My mom has a bar of soap that I probably gave her as a gift several years ago. We're trying to figure out what language, if any, the logo/brandname are in and what it means. It could be mirrored or upside down but it still doesn't look like any character set I recognize. The soap was probably purchased at a fair trade store so it could be from anywhere.
posted by ChrisHartley at 12:53 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by ChrisHartley at 12:53 PM PST - 7 comments
Any replacement for RJDJ?
I recently found one of my favorite iPhone apps of all time RJDJ the reactive ambient sound generator and "world quantizer" was discontinued by the company and taken off iTunes. Damn! I never got a chance to put it on my new phone. Are there any other reactive music apps out there like it for iPhones? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 12:41 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 12:41 PM PST - 7 comments
Weird dizzy spell - Should I do anything?
Just experienced a very weird dizzy spell...suddenly the room started spinning and I literally had to lay down on the floor of my office for about 10 minutes. [more inside]
What order to watch Star Trek?
We've decided it's time to watch Star Trek... all of it. In what order should we watch it? [more inside]
posted by unix at 12:38 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by unix at 12:38 PM PST - 41 comments
Where can I find historic currency exchange rates from 1970?
All the websites I can find using Google only go back to 1990. I am specifically looking for the exchange rate of Tunisian denars in 1970.
posted by bering at 12:07 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by bering at 12:07 PM PST - 4 comments
This is not the debtor you're looking for.
Multiple collection agencies have been calling my house for years asking for some dude we have never heard of. Telling Agency A this doesn't prevent Agencies B, C, D, and so on from calling anyway. The Attorney General told me we're SOL. What can I do? [more inside]
Is it possible to special-order enterically coated prescription meds?
Is it possible to special-order enterically coated prescription meds? I have acid-reflux, and a new med I'm taking is exacerbating it, despite omeprazole and other precautions. [more inside]
Organic fungicide vs. powdery mildew?
Gardeners of MeFi - have any of you used Safer Garden Fungicide or an equivalent product to effectively control powdery mildew in your garden?
I want to believe it will work, but I'm skeptical.
Soothe my back, stop the clicking
I'm a mid-30s female, and I am finding my back is becoming less and flexible over the years while my core and upper body are getting weaker. How can I fix this? [more inside]
posted by wingless_angel at 11:19 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by wingless_angel at 11:19 AM PST - 20 comments
Selling my photo of someone else's art
Someone has asked to license a photo I took of someone else's art. I have no right to the artist's work; I took the photo at a museum. I have no intention of licensing my photo unless and until appropriate arrangements are made with the artist and museum. How to proceed? [more inside]
What can I learn in two weeks?
I'm feeling a bit burnt out from my job, and will be moving soon, so I've requested (and was approved) for two weeks of vacation at the end of February. Originally, I thought I'd be taking a university course, but I'm not. I'd rather not waste these two weeks, so I'd like to learn something completely new. [more inside]
What kind of information should young children be protected from?
The coyotes are eating the cats! [more inside]
Use TripAdvisor Facebook app or other FB travel app? Why?
Hello. I'm curious about why Facebook members use the TripAdvisor Facebook app and / or other FB travel applications. Can you tell me why you use them? Apparently, the TripAdvisor app has 32 million users inside Facebook every month. But what's so good about it, that it attracts such a large user-base? Thanks for reading.
Help me choose a framework for my mobile app
I want to build a mobile application (iOS + Android) that communicates with a server. It'll be a fairly simple application - fill out a form or two on the mobile device and post it, along with a photo and geolocation info, to a server. My background is in Java/J2EE and I'm looking to branch out into more modern technology. What frameworks / languages / technologies would you recommend I investigate? [more inside]
posted by dudeman at 9:55 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by dudeman at 9:55 AM PST - 7 comments
Can a 65-year-old guy with a tin ear learn Mandarin?
Still working for a living, and enjoying it, but beginning to think about doing some extended traveling, perhaps in China. But to travel lengthily and effectively, it behooves me to learn the language, a task that, whatever the language, has challenged me all of my life. Do I have a shot at all of success, at my advanced age, and, if so, what does the community recommend for method, school, etc.?
posted by mudge1705 at 9:24 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by mudge1705 at 9:24 AM PST - 17 comments
Resume Advice - My 3rd most recent job was for a notorious criminal
I'm updating my resume and having a bit of a tough time deciding what to do about a questionable business/boss who was one of my most recent jobs. [more inside]
Looking for organic cotton shirts in the UK
I am looking for somewhere online (or in Edinburgh) that sells men's organic cotton long sleeve formal shirts with no pattern, ideally slim fit in a 15inch collar. They need to be shipping from the UK, or the EU in a pinch, I really don't want to order from the US. I know, this might be impossibly specific, but I figured after an hour of fruitless google it's worth asking the hive mind.
posted by stillnocturnal at 9:00 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by stillnocturnal at 9:00 AM PST - 5 comments
What non-benzodiazepine treatments exist for anxiety disorders?
What medical treatments exist for anxiety disorders that aren't classified as benzodiazepines?
Online Math Tutor
I'm a college student who is having some issues really understanding Calculus II, which is a problem as A) I am a Comp Sci major, and B) I need to take Calc III as well, and an advanced math elective as well. I've not heard good things about the school provided tutors, (IE, one is not too skilled at math, and the other is really smug and poor pedagogically) and while I could get a private tutor to help me, I was wondering if there are any good resources for online math tutors, like there are for online language tutoring over Skype. Does a directory of such tutors exist, has anyone had a good experience doing this (maybe even with names?), and how much can I expect to pay? [more inside]
posted by mccarty.tim at 8:45 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by mccarty.tim at 8:45 AM PST - 11 comments
Boston: Now What (Redux)
I have NYC-Boston down to a science. Now please help me figure out the other end of my trip to the suburbs in a sane fashion. [more inside]
posted by TravellingCari at 8:45 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by TravellingCari at 8:45 AM PST - 23 comments
closed caption / subtitle transcript availablility
Is there a place or a way that I can download the transcripts/ closed captions / subtitles for different television broadcasts? [more inside]
Memento Vita
In the past few weeks, MetaFilter has introduced me to Beate Sirota Gordon and Aaron Swartz, each of whom made the world a better place to live. I'm so happy to know of them and their work, but sad that I'm only learning of them via obituary; I celebrate them, and I want to celebrate the living, too. So help me out: who are the people I may not have heard of who, still here and still fighting, have worked or are working to make the world a better place?
Looking for effective middle-school level world religions textbooks.
I am a first-year religion teacher at a middle school. I am currently teaching christianity, and am planning on teaching Judaism and Islam to my sixth grade class. I have been looking for a textbook or curriculum I could use to help guide me. Does anybody know of one? I have seen college textbooks, but generally they are too complicated to even pull readings from.
Humanist fiction that is nourishing to the damaged soul?
Last summer I finally finished Infinite Jest, and looking back on it changed my life in a good way. Recently, I bought a George Saunders collection after reading this glowing NYT profile of his work and it is starting to do the same thing in many ways. Can you suggest other authors in a similar vein whose fiction speaks to the reality of contemporary experience in a way that is both profound and suffused with kindness? I was recommended Richard Powers, and enjoyed the book of his that I read, but didn't make the same emotional connection that I did with Saunders & Wallace.
What does an enlarged spleen mean to someone with hepatitis?
So my friend's girlfriend has had autoimmune hepatitis and primary schlerosing cholingitis, but with normal bloodwork. They recently found her spleen had enlarged. I know this is caused by either portal hypertension or high iron levels... but is there anything else to consider in terms of either cause or prognoisis. What should she do from here on out or watch for?
Will it be possible to transfer data from my busted 3GS to my new phone?
I am one of those people who is overconfident in their own technical capabilities, and I attempted a DIY screen replacement on my iphone 3GS. It worked the first time, then I had to go in again because of another issue, replaced the LCD, and I now have a black screen. Considering that the phone is password protected, is there a chance that I can transfer the data to my new loaner 3GS? Is it lost forever? I am trying to get back into the phone and reset the connectors so that I can wipe off the password protection, but so far, the phone is resisting being worked on again....Am I SOL? [more inside]
posted by lakersfan1222 at 7:59 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by lakersfan1222 at 7:59 AM PST - 2 comments
Donating to charity without being added to the mailing list?
One of my goals for 2013 is to donate a certain amount of my income to charity every month. I'm really excited about it - especially picking the groups that will receive my hard-earned $$$$$ (okay, $$$). But I'm NOT excited about the prospect of being put on mailing lists. [more inside]
posted by Elly Vortex at 7:28 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Elly Vortex at 7:28 AM PST - 16 comments
Are there good crime novels set on farms or based around agriculture?
I was wondering if there are good examples of crime novels set on farms or based around agriculture. Novels like In True Blood, or Gillian Flynn's Dark Places or the new Image Comics series Revival. I'm interested in discovering if there's more crime fiction not set in cities, but more rural and based around farming.
Piano lessons in Somerville/Cambridge/(Boston?)
Dear Hive Mind! I have succeeded at finding guitar lessons and failed at finding drum lessons in this area here before, so let's try a third instrument: I want to learn piano in the Somerville area. I love both classical and jazz. Somerville is best, the T is fine, I can car if necessary. I am a rank beginner; more on that below. [more inside]
What do I do with superfluous office space?
I have a 42 inch wide, 32 inch deep, and 28 inch tall void between my desk and the wall of my office. (see: here) My company is relatively lenient on personalizing our offices - in that image, you can see the SMB wall decals - but I'm struggling with coming up with a good use for the space. I'm pretty handy from a carpentry standpoint and I have access to power tools / a space to do some carpentry work in, so pretty much anything goes for this one. What the heck do I do with my Corner of Shame™ to turn it into a Corner of Pride™? [more inside]
posted by Mali at 6:39 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Mali at 6:39 AM PST - 7 comments
How do I verify a politician's degree?
I think a politician in my area has falsified his credentials. How do I confirm my suspicions? [more inside]
How to fit two lives into one house
I'm moving in with my SO in a couple of months. I have, roughly, twice as much stuff as he does. How can I pare it down? Any tips or tricks or advice for going from a single/flatsharing household to cohabitation when you're a packrat? [more inside]
Healthy-ish Dessert Recipes
Do you have any dessert recipes that are sugar-free? Bonus points for also being flour free. [more inside]
posted by fruitopia at 5:56 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by fruitopia at 5:56 AM PST - 29 comments
Sorry, Philip, but your Einstein is on another beach
I suddenly realized this morning that of all the recordings of Philip Glass I've got, I don't have Einstein on the Beach. And now I want to listen to it. If Amazon had only one or two versions, I'd just buy one and be done with it, but there are over half a dozen different productions to choose from... Which one should I buy, if I'm only going to buy one? [more inside]
Movin' on up
I've lived in just one city for most of my adult life. I know a lot of people who've spent their large parts of their adult lives working and living in many different cities. Those of you who've done this, how did you go about doing it? How did it work out for you? [more inside]
January 13
One last economics class to take. What are my online options?
My friend has one last class to take. Economics 10B at UC Santa Cruz. She's already clarified with the dean that she can take this lower division class at an accredited institution. Where can she get this done as quickly and painlessly as possible? BYU Online? [more inside]
Looking for short story about a doll's house and a man playing God
Someone recently emailed me trying to track down a short story he remembered reading as a kid (in Johannesburg, 1970). He thought it might be by Roald Dahl. I told him that I'm 99.9% sure it's not by Dahl, just on the basis that I've read everything he ever published. The story sounds interesting though (something about a doll's house and playing God), and I'd like to try to help him track it down if I can. Does it ring a bell for anybody? Plot description follows. [more inside]
Help me deal with a (crazy?) ex.
LTR ended without a word. We're going to have to see each other a lot. How should I handle this? [more inside]
posted by sevensnowflakes at 9:48 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by sevensnowflakes at 9:48 PM PST - 34 comments
When does "The Good Wife" get good?
Due to all the reviews, my wife and I gave Season 1 a shot and found it pretty boring... how long do you have to put up for it before it gets good?
I got an awesome used bread machine, how do I clean it?
It's a great machine, but the blade is stuck to the pan. [more inside]
posted by el io at 8:27 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by el io at 8:27 PM PST - 14 comments
"We hired someone whose skills more closely match the position."
I've had multiple interviews recently after which I received a letter or e-mail to the effect of "You did very well in the interview process, but we hired someone whose skills more closely align with this position." This is very frustrating, because I feel that I am capable of doing these jobs, and it's kept me from applying for future jobs because I'm second-guessing myself. [more inside]
I’d like to create 'The Matrix' bullet time style flipbooks on the cheap
Remember the time freeze sequences introduced in the first Matrix movie? I’d like to quickly film, edit and print a flipbook as a giveaway. [more inside]
posted by tinker at 8:09 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by tinker at 8:09 PM PST - 8 comments
Looking for a therapist in Los Angeles.
Can anyone suggest a therapist specializing in anxiety disorders in Los Angeles? [more inside]
Dog jokes
Please to give me your best dog jokes. Thanks!
High-Tech Handheld Scanner
I'm trying to find something I think I saw on TV: a handheld document scanner which requires no contact? [more inside]
Full-Credit Summer Music Schools
I'm looking to delve into an intensive full-credit curriculum at a music school or conservatory this summer after wrapping up my sophomore year at a liberal arts school (at which I will be taking three music courses this coming semester). [more inside]
posted by alexandermatheson at 6:47 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by alexandermatheson at 6:47 PM PST - 2 comments
Recommendations for a carrier/double cat carrier please!
How bad is "Blue Bird" tweetdeck?
I'm trying to figure out what Twitter client I want for Mac OS. [more inside]
posted by drjimmy11 at 6:18 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by drjimmy11 at 6:18 PM PST - 18 comments
Digital natives
I'm having a bit of a friendly argument with a friend about "digital natives" and nature vs nurture, and I was hoping you'd be able helps us elucidate who's right or if we are both wrong. Related bibliography would be appreciated too. [more inside]
How to properlly set a Patek Philippe Celestial 5102 Watch
I was recently gifted a knockoff Patek Philippe Celestial 5102 watch and am curios as to how properly set the watch's many functions. With all the face time & celestial functions I'm a bit overwhelmed. Does anyone have the instructions or know how to properly setting this watch?
posted by pgswim at 5:37 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by pgswim at 5:37 PM PST - 3 comments
Where can I find b-flute in San Francisco?
I need to find b-flute, or rolled corrugated cardboard in San Francisco. For reference I'm talking about this.
posted by matt_od at 5:08 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by matt_od at 5:08 PM PST - 3 comments
Common rules for a threesome (or foursome)
What are your rules for threesomes or foursomes? What rules can help such an encounter be successful all around, but particularly for folks new to such encounters? Any tips for how/when to negotiate rules with the other party/parties involved? [more inside]
Is it appropriate to get married for the third time?
Can I do an Angelina Jolie and get married for a third time while still maintaining my integrity? Please help me with your opinion. [more inside]
posted by Youremyworld at 4:56 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by Youremyworld at 4:56 PM PST - 38 comments
Educate me on these crime statistics
The Wikipedia page on statistics about rape shows a very high crime rate for countries like UK, US and Australia in stark contrast to, say, India. The gap can't be explained simply by under-reporting, as that exists in all these countries (even assuming different rates of under-reporting). Is it because these countries have different definitions of rape? Or something else? [more inside]
posted by vidur at 4:36 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by vidur at 4:36 PM PST - 33 comments
Bogus Vitamin B?
My psychiatrist, who practices holistic/integrative medicine, says non-food-based brands of vitamin B are useless because the body does not actually absorb them. Is this true? [more inside]
posted by shiggins at 4:11 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by shiggins at 4:11 PM PST - 22 comments
What more can I do to help my teenage son?
My 15 year old son is in 9th grade. He is not doing well in math (he's always struggled). He has no real friends to speak of. He has no desire to try any sports or extracurricular activities. He just turned 15 and doesn't seem at all interested in getting his restricted drivers license. He doesn't seem at all depressed. He tends towards the quiet side, but on the right topic he talks alot. [more inside]
posted by getyourlife at 4:10 PM PST - 47 comments
posted by getyourlife at 4:10 PM PST - 47 comments
Coffee 101: sociology and technology
I don't drink coffee and most of my friends don't either, but I'd like to be able to offer a nice cup to occasional visitors who do drink coffee. What type of small-scale coffee maker would be a good choice: some kind of drip and filter method? French press? Should I buy a small amount of decent quality ground coffee and hope that it keeps well between coffee drinkers? (And what would be a safe, crowd-pleasing choice?) Or should I just forget offering potentially mediocre coffee and offer everyone tea and tisanes?
posted by The True Wheel at 3:49 PM PST - 41 comments
posted by The True Wheel at 3:49 PM PST - 41 comments
Help me design a parachuting class (not that kind)
My husband and I (both in our 30s) will graduate in May and then move to a completely new-to-us part of the country for a fresh start. During our last semester, we want to work together on defining and figuring out what our new career paths will be in the next phase of our lives. Please help us design a program to help us ask the right questions and do the right work to help us figure out what we want! More about our specific situation within. [more inside]
Should I ask this guy out?
And is it weird to ask someone out via social website message? [more inside]
Medical question regarding physical bumps on fore arm.
I work with a person that routinely has bubble shaped rounded bumps on the underside of their fore arms. The bumps are approximately 1 1/2 inches in diameter and ~ 1/2 inch high. The person generally has two bumps on each fore arm. Some days, there are no bumps. They don't seem to bother this person in any way. I have not asked them about this condition. The person has not mentioned anything about it and I don't want to embarrass the person by inquiring. I do know that this person has a child that is diabetic.
I'm curious as to what type of medical condition, medication or injections that might generate this type of symptom.
I could not find anything like it on Google searches...
Kindle Owner's Lending Library - Any gems?
Kindle owners: Amongst all the bodice-rippers and self-published junk, have you found any gems within the Kindle Owner's Lending Library? [more inside]
Looking for a particular book
It's an old book yet famous at the time, maybe 17th to early 19th century, that deals with debunking myths, superstitions and the like. It was probably one of the earliest such books, at least one written with the Enlightenment mindset. I think. Author's last name may perhaps begin with B. Had stuff in it about how beavers don't bite off their testicles and that [insert group you dislike] do not actually smell. I know this is vague, but that's all I can remember unfortunately.
posted by Pyrogenesis at 3:14 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Pyrogenesis at 3:14 PM PST - 6 comments
Where to find strange drapery pin?
We took our draperies down to have them cleaned and lost a couple of these little pins. [more inside]
posted by Joleta at 2:01 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Joleta at 2:01 PM PST - 5 comments
What is the best camera and lens system for street photography?
I'm looking for the best quality portable camera and lens system for travel and street photography. My budget is between $8 and $10,000 for everything.
How long will it take for ice-skating lessons to "click in?"
How long will it take for ice-skating lessons to "click in?"
I already know it's not like learning to ride a bicycle, where once it "clicks" in your head, you can never go back to not knowing how. [more inside]
Name this Fish Face
Need help identifying this 1980s (?) era space type 'action' figure. [more inside]
posted by mazola at 1:56 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by mazola at 1:56 PM PST - 4 comments
Best known quality wine brands in the US?
Need to gift a wine bottle to someone who enjoys red wine. I don't know what type of red.
There are so many brands to chose from so since I don't know his taste I would prefer to give something from a recognized winery. Don't want him to think I picked the cheapest red :)
Couple of brands that come to mind:
Robert Mondavi
Kendall Jackson
Beringer
Budget: up-to $50
Quitting smoking: Life after butt
Beyond the initial challenges of quitting smoking, what are the longer-term effects? How does life actually change? [more inside]
Vitamix or bust
About to pull the trigger on buying a Vitamix, an object of lust for some time. A few questions for Vitamix-experienced folks... [more inside]
Diet changes after bowel/colo-rectal cancer, and what to do about it.
Looking for info from colo-rectal cancer survivors on what you've done to fix/deal with the diet change issues. [more inside]
Help with Tumblr API keys
When using the Tumblr API, how exactly do I get the 'access_token' and 'access_secret' keys I need to post through my account via a script. [more inside]
posted by Jezztek at 12:55 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Jezztek at 12:55 PM PST - 4 comments
Arm wax of death?
Instead of tips on avoiding a sketchy salon experience, I need tips on what to do if I had one. [more inside]
posted by manicure12 at 12:53 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by manicure12 at 12:53 PM PST - 5 comments
Why ismy iPhone giving me a headache?
I am on my 3rd iPhone in 3 months, which is annoying. What is more annoying is that when I added my songs to this third one, some of them don't show up when I select the artist, but they're there when I select all songs. [more inside]
How much electricity does a gas boiler use?
I know this question is a little bit arbitrary, but any response will be helpful.
I live in a 2 family spilt house/condo. I noticed that my electrical box is powering the OTHER unit's gas boiler. I assume that the electrical just feeds the thermostat and maybe triggering the pilot to boil the water?? (My knowledge here is limited.)
Without knowing too much about their heating use, I am trying to determine the urgency of getting an electrician to switch it from my electricity to the other unit's electrical box.
Multiple gpg keyid search (script?)
I have a file listing all my long keyID's for GPG and want to lookup the emails associated with these. [more inside]
posted by jago25_98 at 11:25 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by jago25_98 at 11:25 AM PST - 3 comments
Why u no bury poop?
Almost a month ago, my BF and I adopted two beautiful shelter kitties. Overall, they're great cats, but we're somewhat befuddled that (at least one of) the cats refuse to bury their poop when using the litter box. Is this something we should be concerned about? Details and pictures within! [more inside]
help me identify this song
I think it's a recent song - The chorus has has a woman singing in a simple voice. She sounds young and has a neutral accent - the non-chorus parts of the song I think is a reggae hip hop deal, but not sure. [more inside]
posted by spacediver at 10:28 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by spacediver at 10:28 AM PST - 5 comments
Duvet covers for him
Where can I find a bedspread appropriate for a guy in his mid-20s? [more inside]
games without reading
We're taking a 5 hour bus trip to and from NYC this weekend. My partner gets car sick from reading; what are some games or activities we can do on the bus that won't make him car sick? [more inside]
Locking a Bi-Fold door
Can anyone think of a reliable, simple and compact way to lock a two part/bi-fold door? [more inside]
Get well gift for family?
I want to send a get-well gift to a friend whose baby had surgery. I'm thinking flowers for her, but also a little gift for the baby and a bonus gift for their older child. Where could I order this online all in one package/delivery? Not sure if they allow sweets for the older child, so should not be candy focused.
Need ultra-short-term crisis strategies for staying emotionally level.
The past 3 days I have somehow managed to enter a perfect storm of personal stress. I am looking for any kind of thought-pattern-y strategies that I can use in a pinch to tell myself, so that at least temporarily, I might hold off constant weepiness. [more inside]
Love and sex have never worked for me and I don't understand why.
Straight guy here, mid-30s. I'm a relationship virgin apart from two or three very brief and superficial ones, and would be an actual virgin if not for a handful of sexual encounters, almost all of them very unsatisfying. I've always fantasized about love and sex but whenever things get real my heart and body seem to lose all interest. What's wrong with me and are there other people out there in the same boat? [more inside]
Help me find this officer's uniform from the 1955 movie "French Cancan"?
There's a character in the 1955 movie "French Cancan" who wears a very fancy uniform. He wears a light blue double-breasted jacket with white braid and bright red pants with stripes on the sides. I think it is some kind of old fashioned military dress uniform. You can see the outfit 0.26 seconds into the trailer (warning:there are 26 seconds of cancan dancing first). My question is:
(1) What sort of uniform was this? Or is it just a costume they made up for the movie?
(2) Where/how could a modern person most affordably get a similar outfit of sufficiently good quality to wear around town at fancy occasions that are not Halloween?
posted by steinwald at 7:18 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by steinwald at 7:18 AM PST - 9 comments
20 gb Google Tablet
What exactly is this:
10.1" 20GB Google Android 4.0 Tablet with Carrying Case [more inside]
posted by falsedmitri at 7:11 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by falsedmitri at 7:11 AM PST - 9 comments
Padang food in Amsterdam?
Are there any restaurants in Amsterdam that specialise in Padang/Minangkabau cuisine? [more inside]
posted by Zeinab Badawi's Twenty Hotels at 6:47 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Zeinab Badawi's Twenty Hotels at 6:47 AM PST - 9 comments
WIFI networking: two routers on the same network
Hi,
I am trying to set up a surplus router as a NAS and torrent appliance, to integrate into an existing network. The setup will use two routers, one to provide network and internet to everyone, the other will use TomatoUSB and will be dedicated to torrenting. [more inside]
What's really smart for a smart house?
I'd love to learn more about innovative uses of technology in the home, beyond media/entertainment. I'm sure there's a lot of development going on out there, but how do I keep on top of it, and how can I find out what's really worth it? [more inside]
posted by Sublimity at 5:08 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Sublimity at 5:08 AM PST - 16 comments
Short-term Internet service in London
I am studying abroad for the semester in London. My flat mates and I are looking for an Internet solution that doesn't require a contract. We picked up a 3G hotspot from Three but it isn't very fast. Is it possible to get actual broadband service without a 12- or 18-month contract?
posted by Kronios at 4:58 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Kronios at 4:58 AM PST - 12 comments
Getting what I can from a course I dropped out of.
Advice on contacting a university about credits from a half-completed MA (UK Higher Education filter). [more inside]
posted by sock of ages at 2:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by sock of ages at 2:49 AM PST - 6 comments
Large scale Land Art in Europe
Do you know of any interesting examples of Land Art in Europe? [more inside]
posted by quarsan at 1:52 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by quarsan at 1:52 AM PST - 17 comments
Why does it bother me when people try new things?
I know this sounds weird, but I've been sort of struggling with this idea for awhile now. When we're younger we do things a certain way, like the food we eat, the music we listen to, the traditions we have, they all come from our parents. But when you get older, you grow out of some of those things and into other things. I know this, but sometimes I'll be reading a health food article (for example) and I'll think something like, "doesn't the author feel weird about not eating the foods she ate when she was younger?" Because I imagine she grew up on mash potatoes and meatloaf, not quinoa salad and red snapper.
I mean I know that eating healthy is ideal, but it just makes me uncomfortable on some deep level to see people diverting from what they must've done when they were kids. I guess I mean when they're trying new things. I don't know why it should bother me so much though, especially when I am trying to adopt a healthy lifestyle myself? [more inside]
posted by Cybria at 1:13 AM PST - 50 comments
posted by Cybria at 1:13 AM PST - 50 comments
How to use up peanut butter?
I have a bunch of peanut butter that I need to use up, but I'm running out of ideas. I would particularly appreciate recipe ideas that I can use in meals, though all I can ever really think of is perhaps Thai-style chicken/noodles, or PB&J sandwiches, or fruit with peanut butter dip. I know there's also stuff like peanut butter cookies and other baking goodies, but I'm trying to avoid sugar-bombing my diet too badly. Please help me with ideas!
January 12
Camping in Tasmania
Can you recommend a good camping site in Tasmania, possibly in the east? Somewhere with a fair bit of space rather than a caravan park.
How to scope a grandma crochet blanket project?
My wife's grandmother is an amazingly talented seamstress who also crochets. She recently put out an all points bulletin request for projects, what do I need to know before I request a crocheted throw made out a material that might be outside her comfort zone and/or budget? [more inside]
Getting an IMEI from an iPhone 4 serial number
My iPhone 4 was stolen. The police detectives want the IMEI number. I never backed up the phone or synced it to my computer, so I can't access the IMEI through iTunes. I don't have the original packaging. I do, however, have the phone's serial number. Is there a way to somehow use this number to get the IMEI? [more inside]
posted by painquale at 10:05 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by painquale at 10:05 PM PST - 11 comments
Overcoming shame of virginity in 20's
I used to struggle with depression and had a complete lack of confidence. As a result I went through my teen years with such a lack of confidence that I couldn't entertain the notion that any girl would be interested in me despite several making it bluntly clear that they were. Either way I am now 21 and have started getting my life on track. I still struggle with depression but for the most part I am in a much better place with my self confidence and my life overall. The issue I have is that I am a virgin and have literally never even kissed anyone. Obviously I feel great shame over this but I am attempting to not go into a shame spiral as a result. [more inside]
Help me find some good literary criticism and analysis?
Can you help me find open-access, reputable literary criticism and analysis? [more inside]
What is and where can I get this font...
I want to use the font style in the below link in a HTML doc... what is it and where can I get it?
[Link]
posted by america4 at 9:09 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by america4 at 9:09 PM PST - 4 comments
Opinion of Continuing Ed Photo classes at NYC Fashion Institute (FIT)
I am interested in taking a few continuing ed classes at FIT related to photography, and I was wondering if anyone had experience with this (or with continuing ed at FIT in general). [more inside]
posted by NYC-BB at 7:19 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by NYC-BB at 7:19 PM PST - 7 comments
What's a Cross Keys?
When 2 roads cross, it's called a crossroads. But what's this called? [more inside]
Help me find this covered chaise lounge set up
When we were honeymooning in Maui, my husband and I spent some time on the beach in these covered chaise lounges that are rented out in front of the resorts. We loved it, especially because my husband burns easily.
I'd like to get something like this for my back yard but the only ones I've found so far are giant daybeds with huge covers that are $2000. What we used was basically two chaise lounge seats on a box platform with a cover like a collapsible awning that basically stayed in place with the help of two ropes. I'm not quite sure what these are called or what to look for. Is it something to try to make myself? I'm not handy but I live in the LA area and would hire someone if I could find the plans for one.
I can't find any more pictures than the ones linked to, it would help to know what they're called.
THANKS! (Dreaming of warmer weather!)
Looking for Books on WW1
I'm finishing up The Guns of August, by Barbara Tuchman, and while it's a really good read, it does what it says, and covers the beginning of the war. I'm interested in other books on WW1. What do you recommend? I'd like to read both a good, solid overview of the whole war, then maybe later read more in-depth books on certain parts or phases of the war. [more inside]
posted by Ghidorah at 7:06 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Ghidorah at 7:06 PM PST - 23 comments
Career change, psychotherapy, etc.
Are you a grief counselor? How does one become a grief counselor? Should I become a grief counselor? [more inside]
Does this feature which exists for Word for Windows exist in Mac Word?
If I'm using Word for Windows, I can double click at the bottom of a page to create one big page. But if I double click at the bottom of a document inside Word on MacOS it opens up the footer prompt. Does Word for Mac have a similar "join pages" feature?
posted by professor plum with a rope at 6:15 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by professor plum with a rope at 6:15 PM PST - 12 comments
Songs with a global consciousness
I wanted to pick the hive mind a bit with regards to Music that deals with global issues. My Daughter is working on a great project about modern songs that would have stories about problems in the world. The first thing I could think of was We are the World but well that just doesn't do it for her (or me really). She had some more criteria as we walked through what she would like... [more inside]
How do I choose a comforatble backpack for running
I am a very amateur jogger. I took it up a year ago and can now run 5km fairly consistently and am working my way (slowly, in every sense) up to 10km. I almost exclusively run on the way home from work so I need a backpack for my stuff. Snowflakey details inside [more inside]
How to reconcile citations?
I need to make sure that all the works I cite in my dissertation are included in the references section at the end. What is your super streamlined and efficient method? [more inside]
Forgotten Sociology Book Review in the New Yorker
Would you please help me remember either this event, book, or article? [more inside]
Contemporary Poem about Loss
I am looking for a poem that was published in Granta magazine sometime between 1992-1995. It wasn't in a poetry-only issue. [more inside]
Does this kind of swivel fastener exist?
I'm trying to make a prop for a show. The basic idea is a dowel rod-cum-sword that swivels 360 degrees. [more inside]
posted by starvingartist at 3:26 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by starvingartist at 3:26 PM PST - 7 comments
Help us name our cats.
We just acquired two new kittens from the shelter. Problem: we are stumped as to what to name them. [more inside]
posted by baby beluga at 1:32 PM PST - 78 comments
posted by baby beluga at 1:32 PM PST - 78 comments
Forwarding a suitcase from Italy to Toronto
Currently I'm in Italy. In March I'll be travelling to Scotland by train and making stops along the way. Then I'll be flying home to Toronto. My problem is that I have a lot of luggage that I needed for an extended professional stay in Italy, but which will only serve to encumber me when I go traveling. What is the best way for me to forward one large (standard checked baggage) suitcase home to Canada from Italy when I head out? I would especially appreciate any advice based on personal experience. [more inside]
Seeking movies to help me think about clothes.
I want to learn about the cultural significance of clothing, as well as how clothes are made, but I want my process to be fun. What do you think are the best popular Hollywood-style movies, in which the characters discuss what clothes mean to them? What about movies in which the characters are involved with the sewing or designing of clothing? Do garments play a major part in the plot of any movies? Any suggestions for movies that have helped you to think about clothes would be most appreciated.
Food Manufacturing Advice--lowcarb variety
So--IRL I am a busy psychologist with a busy practice and not a lot of time. In internet circles--of the lowcarb eating community variety, I have a lovely rep as the creator of a really nice low carb flour substitute for baking. Although I have made my recipe available online (requires some specialty ingredients), folks are enthusiastic enough about this concoction that they are encouraging me to go into production and to sell it. I haven't a clue what that would involve, and would likely be more interested in remaining the creative end who partners with someone who can execute the production stuff. What are the things I should be thinking about here? My questions are: [more inside]
Removing and replacing a car door seal
I have a 2002 Honda Civic and I want to remove the lower rubber seal on the front passenger door. Is there a way to do this without damaging it? [more inside]
Trying to Be Smart
Unusual combination of pending unemployment, upcoming (home equity and car) loan needs and a long boat ride requires the mefi thinktank for logistical scenarios and a bit of education about said loans. We are looking for the smartest approach to the coming year and could use more brains in the mix. [more inside]
Did this bad New York State apple rot in prison?
How do I get information about a turn-of-the-century criminal? He was my great-grandfather. [more inside]
Why won't Facebook load on my computer?
I can load any website on my MacBook except Facebook. Facebook will not load on any browser (Chrome, Safari, or Firefox) -- they all give error messages. Safari says "The server where this page is located isn't responding." Apple tech support says it's a Java problem and I just have to wait until an Apple software update allows Java again, but that seems wrong. [more inside]
posted by southern_sky at 11:14 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by southern_sky at 11:14 AM PST - 19 comments
Which home renovation/design mags to pick?
If you were to pick 3-5 magazines for inspiration, which ones would you pick? This year I have a whole-house (1931) renovation (restoration and interior design) project starting up in the Hollywood Hills. My ultimate objectives: for romance to meet bohemianism flirting with old Hollywood, plus throw in some gothic, whimsy and modern touches for good measure.
I think Architectural Digest is a classic, but Dwell is all wrong for this time period. The battery of websites I peruse regularly are great, but there's nothing quite like thumbing through a printed magazine when you're ramping up for the real deal.
Alternatives to shaving for pregnant ladies?
I hate shaving my legs. I'm a hairy lady with dark leg hair, and shaving always itches & hurts, no matter what shaving cream or lotions I use. I usually wax in the summer and ignore my legs in the winter, but my toddler would love it if we went to the pool, and I'm fifteen weeks pregnant. Can I get a leg wax while I'm pregnant? Are there other options I haven't thought about? Depilatories don't work for me, and I'm not comfortable taking my hairy hairy legs to the pool. The last time I was pregnant, I didn't go swimming; I just wore long pants or leggings the whole time. (Bikini line isn't a concern; I always wear board shorts anyway, and I have awesome maternity ones I'm excited to fit into.)
posted by linettasky at 10:59 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by linettasky at 10:59 AM PST - 27 comments
Teach me to teach piano
I have a piano, I have piano playing ability, and I have a girlfriend who wants to learn to play. How would I go about teaching her? Any recommendations for books for her to learn from, or methods for teaching? [more inside]
posted by baniak at 10:58 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by baniak at 10:58 AM PST - 5 comments
Help my 18yo niece get to Asia
What options in the USA are there for sending my 18yo niece on a trip to Asia with a group of similarly aged folks this summer. [more inside]
How best to access (possibly outmoded) Complete New Yorker DVD set?
I have a Complete New Yorker DVD set. My current Mac OS (10.7.5) doesn't support it any longer. ("PowerPC applications are no longer supported.") Is there a way to download individual issues on my ipad? (I know that, theoretically, I could go back and look at old issues via the New Yorker app, although it isn't clear how far back the electronic archive goes.) Or is there a way to view this stuff on my current Mac?
Extreme playground
Given optimal circumstance, could a person on a swing set swing 360 degrees, over the overhead bar? If not, what would the circumstances be,on this planet, where they could?
Not sure if he likes me or not.
A guy called Matt used to flirt with me a lot and said I was one of the prettiest girls he has seen, asked me out but never went through with it, making me confused. I asked him out and he said yes but in the end nothing happened. I made out with his friend (did not know they knew each other) and yesterday Matt told me that he used to like me but wanted to take things slowly, but will not do anything now because of what happened. Is that just an excuse for him to reject me? Should I should just let this go? Thank you!
Shower faucet stiil drips, despite new washers, stems, etc:
We have a shower where both the faucets drip. We have replaced internal washers, and replaced stems. Replacing either one helps, but not perfectly (usually there's still a slow drip after fixing). The drip gets worse over a period of weeks until it's nearly a trickle, at which point we take the faucets apart and do it all over again. It's gotten a little bit boring. [more inside]
posted by mattu at 9:55 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mattu at 9:55 AM PST - 13 comments
Day-Ski trips from Los Angeles
Angelenos, tell me about the best local ski areas! I want to drive up in the morning, ski and drive home all in the same day. I'm an expert skiier coming from the West side of LA, and I'm trying to figure out which ski area I should try out first. [more inside]
How to store/display 2551 cassette tapes?
My husband has come into 2551 Grateful Dead tapes. He is over the moon. I am less so because they're currently taking up space in 17 boxes in my finished basement and we have virtually no storage space. We would like to store them and ideally display them so he can see what he has. I would like them to be relatively compact and not look like junk. Any ideas?
posted by semacd at 9:24 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by semacd at 9:24 AM PST - 13 comments
Hidden Los Angeles - Suggestions for curious visitors
We will be in LA for a long a weekend, next weekend (Jan 16 - 20, 2013) visiting friends and are looking for suggestions for neat, quirky, or hidden (little known) places and experiences in LA/LA Area. Zen Gardens, Boutiques, Galleries/Gallery Openings, LA Cuisine, Street food, Flea Markets, Vintage shops, DJ gigs etc. [more inside]
posted by specialk420 at 9:23 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by specialk420 at 9:23 AM PST - 18 comments
PTSD Solutions Needed
I get triggered by loud noises. Specifically firecrackers, gunshots, sudden cars backfiring and the like. To a very major degree. [more inside]
Bootfilter: Please ID these boots!
Finding LL Cool J Song - "Leave It on the Floor"
There was a Gatorade commercial released in 2000 featuring an LL Cool J song, and I'm looking for a way to track it down. Thank you! [more inside]
F'ing gas stoves, how do they work?
After burning my second pot and almost poisoning myself by not quite turning the knob off, it's clear that I need remedial gas stove cooking classes. [more inside]
posted by Neneh at 8:02 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by Neneh at 8:02 AM PST - 29 comments
Pantene or Ponds?
Beardsmen, do you wash your beard with shampoo or facial wash?
Are Bollywood musical numbers in-story or fantasy?
In Bollywood films, should I think of the musical numbers as something that exist in-story -- that is, the characters literally stop talking and break into a dance number, then return to normal -- or as fantasies that exist only in the lead actor's mind? Or would the best way to parse them be as kind of a Greek Chorus meta-comment?
posted by Shepherd at 7:00 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Shepherd at 7:00 AM PST - 10 comments
What are the best resources/explanations of why "Time is an Illusion"?
I'm interested in doing some research about the idea that "time is an illusion" - i.e. there is no past, present or future and everything is happening in one, gigantic Now. Definitely looking for scientific resources as well as spiritual/religious/etc.
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:49 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Lipstick Thespian at 6:49 AM PST - 16 comments
Please help me identify this noisy bird
Woke up to this bird squawking in my backyard in north central Texas. Obviously the video quality is not great, but can anybody help me identify it based on its call? Mississippi Kite? Hawk? And do they eat kitties?
For perspective, its on top of a 30ft bald cypress tree. It appears to be at least 18-24 inches from head to tail.
I had a compromised Java version. How do I clean up afterwards?
My AV program found 'Exploit:Java/CVE-2012-4681' on my laptop. It's a primer that sets up my machine for future exploits, but I haven't found any further infections using AV or Housecall. What steps should I be taking to assure myself that the machine is clean, and what can I do to prevent this kind of problem in the future. [more inside]
posted by Urtylug at 5:14 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Urtylug at 5:14 AM PST - 3 comments
Sites worth paying for membership ?
I want a list of sites/communities/forums that cost money to join but worth this money. I think that initial or continuous fee is a good filter against spammers. I am already member at somethingawful, and the great Metafilter. any more recommendations are welcomed.
Analysis of a line from Shakespeare's Coriolanus
You know how sometimes when you watch (or read) a Shakespeare play, you come across a something which makes you go "Holy crap, that's one of the greatest pieces of English I've ever heard, but I'm not quite sure what it means". This happens especially often for me because I'm not a native English speaker. Well, I just watched the movie adaptation of Coriolanus a few weeks ago and I need one of the lines explained to me. [more inside]
Just moved to the UK 3 months ago from the US. Have US tax questions.
Just moved to the UK from the US in mid-October. I haven't paid any income tax in the UK yet due to not earning above the personal allowance, and I have a same-sex partner in the UK who is not a US citizen and never lived in the US, and I did a bit of cross-state moving in the US before relocating overseas, so this may make my state returns from California and my reporting of foreign bank accounts more complicated. [more inside]
posted by the_wintry_mizzenmast at 3:47 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by the_wintry_mizzenmast at 3:47 AM PST - 2 comments
Help me navigate my travel booking quandary.
I have a time-sensitive travel decision to make, and it affects the entire substance of my trip. Can you help me decide on a course of action? [more inside]
Glass in gun cases?
I have noticed that in most portable gun cases which are hard plastic on the outside with a foam core inside there seems to be pieces of shiny glass embedded in the foam. I have only noticed this in gun case foam not other types of foam for example, the foam inside couch cushions or bedding. Why would they put glass inside gun case foam?
January 11
learning to drive on somewhat short notice
I took an internship without realizing it required me to drive. The folks who interviewed and hired me assumed I knew how, only after I'd moved across the country and started work did they discover I didn't. My position won't require me to drive for the next couple of months, and my supervisor is confident I can get a license before then (she is also willing to give me lessons). I'm a little skeptical - is it reasonable to think I can learn to drive and get a license in this span of time? [more inside]
entitled.
when diana spencer married prince charles, she was since known as princess diana—so much so that i had to look up her former surname to be reminded what it was. so why is the duchess of cornwall commonly referred to still by her given name, kate middleton?
What's that movie? Super vague memories demand an answer!
Asking for a friend.
Woman dances with men who all turn into the same man, who walks away and disappears. 50's or 60's color movie (TV show?) More vague details inside! [more inside]
Meaningful work
I have a pretty powerful, patented, implementation of machine learning software (genetic programming) and left my company a few months back. I have some time and have been looking at possible jobs at various companies. However, many of them seem trivial to boring, in part because I want to do something more meaningful then analyzing social media data or ad data or (ugh!) financial data.
So the question is: What should I do? [more inside]
Can you explain the chords and harmonies in this song
I was listening to this song by disasterpeace and I was struck by how it has a different "earfeel" than other music. I don't know how to describe it, other than that it feels fatter. There's something in the way the notes harmonize that makes them resonate or something. Can someone please explain a bit of the theory behind why this sounds the way it does?
Recommend me a mechanic in Vancouver East?
I'm looking for a good mechanic around Mount Pleasant or East Vancouver. I have a 1999 toyota corolla and honestly, it's getting to the point where I know something important is going to go. [more inside]
Washing cloth diapers at home
My husband and I are planning on going from using a diaper service to washing our own cloth diapers. Any advice, or things we might not be thinking out? [more inside]
posted by Ideal Impulse at 9:15 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Ideal Impulse at 9:15 PM PST - 15 comments
Big party, Fire theme, lots of $$$
Ok, so in a alt-history type world, roughly 1950s tech, how would you decorate for a big party with the theme of Fire? [more inside]
posted by Jacen at 8:40 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Jacen at 8:40 PM PST - 9 comments
My husband is cheating on me. Now what?
I just found out. Should I confront him? [more inside]
help how does this work
So.... how does okcupid work for gay/bi women? [more inside]
There's a man with a gun over
There is or was a lefty newspaper columnist who used the phrase, There's a man with a gun over as a tagline. He wrote for a major newspaper. What is his name? No, it's not Stephen Stills....
posted by maggieb at 8:06 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by maggieb at 8:06 PM PST - 2 comments
Places to stay in Tuscany
looking for recommendations for places to stay in Tuscany in August. Prefer a B&B. Planning to stay 3-4 days in Siena to day trip from there, but would like to spend a few days in the country side. Also looking for places to stay in Venice
How to move from CA to CO - can I afford movers?
I'm moving several octogenarian cats along with a one bedroom apartment from CA to CO this summer. Unlike previous moves, I don't have a bunch of time to spend packing, moving, and unpacking. We're planning to drive with the cats and have a little extra money to hire movers. Mr. Arnicae has heard rumors of interstate moving companies that would pack up our things and then deliver them sometime in <6 weeks, depending on their schedule, but I can't find anything like that. How do I pick an economical but good moving company? And what is the replacement price at which I should sell/leave furniture/stuff rather than bothering to move it? Thanks!
How much will this repair be?
I have a 13-inch, early 2011 Macbook Pro (unibody) that fell out of my backpack and onto a sidewalk. It was in a neoprene sleeve, which helped, but the aluminum screen cover (the part with the white Apple logo on it) is rather dented. The laptop works fine, and there are no cracks on the screen at all. However, I am interested in getting this part replaced, and I have some questions about cost. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 6:21 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by 4ster at 6:21 PM PST - 7 comments
Suggestions for modern books and essays that address art and creativity?
I've been re-reading Tolstoy's "What is Art?" and Ayn Rand's "Romantic Manifesto".
I would like to read more about how we think about art and what we consider to be art as well as the relationship between the artist and society/culture.
I'm especially interested in how we think of art and what is my responsibility as an artist to the greater society and culture. [more inside]
posted by Tchad at 6:11 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Tchad at 6:11 PM PST - 20 comments
Crashed my car, should I fix or just get a new one?
I've been on a cross country road trip for over 35 days, originally departing from Los Angeles. While driving back home, I got caught in a rain/thunderstorm in Louisiana and rear-ended the car in front of me. I only have liability insurance, so the other party is taken care of but I have to take care of my own busted car. I'm wondering if it's worth getting it fixed up or just getting a new car once I get back home. [more inside]
posted by xtine at 6:11 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by xtine at 6:11 PM PST - 14 comments
Have any ~30 year old women here broken off long relationships?
Hi. So I am a 30 year old woman dating a 37 year old guy. We started dating back when I was 22 and he was 29. I was pretty young then really now I think about it. Early days were great. However we've now been in a rut for the past 8 months or so and I'm starting to question whether I should make the effort to help fix things,... or whether it might be better to breakup. What is it like to be a newly single woman in her early thirties after the breakdown of a long relationship? I had always thought we would end up married, with kids and a house together. :( [more inside]
Keeping a beard respectable
My friend is growing a beautiful bushy beard and moustache. After several months it's wonderfully luxuriant. But, it's got to the stage where he can't eat without spillage. As for soup, forget about it - he can hardly have a mouthful before he has to wield a napkin and wipe spoonfuls away. My friend is very elegant and finds this sloppiness excruciating, especially in public. [more inside]
posted by glasseyes at 5:58 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by glasseyes at 5:58 PM PST - 22 comments
Myanmar and Southeast Asia Backpacking Questions
I leave for an extended trip to Southeast Asia on Wednesday. I have a weekend in Kuala Lumpur, a month in Myanmar, and then two and a half months to work my way from Hanoi to Kuala Lumpur overland. What might I be missing in my planning? [more inside]
YouTube Brainfart
I am trying to find a silly meme-esque video: [more inside]
posted by Scattercat at 4:38 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Scattercat at 4:38 PM PST - 2 comments
Trying to create a list of jobs in a hospital, with small descriptions
I am a technology teacher who is starting a careers project with my middle schoolers next month. [more inside]
posted by aetg at 4:21 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by aetg at 4:21 PM PST - 15 comments
Am I using my CO2 Regulator wrong?
I'm trying to build my very own carbonation system. It's been done before plenty of times. I think I've got all the parts connected right, but there is no activity in the regulator when I open the tank. I don't hear a peep. How do I troubleshoot this? [more inside]
posted by amandabee at 3:51 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by amandabee at 3:51 PM PST - 18 comments
How can I dynamically generate charts showing party seating in Congress?
How can I use PHP (ideally with jQuery) to generate charts like these that Wikipedia uses to show part shares in Congress?
.svg){kind=link}
Woman escapes interrogation room using a quarter
I'm pretty sure this was a movie, a woman is in an interrogation room with two way glass. Whoever is questioning her gives her a quarter and says to call someone who cares. He leaves the room, she smashes the edge to make a sharp bit, traces a circle on the two way glass and punches through. [more inside]
posted by abitha! at 3:43 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by abitha! at 3:43 PM PST - 4 comments
Humanities PhD in Australia - advice and suggestions!
In March I will be starting my PhD (humanities - gender, fan culture and writing) but I have been out of academia for a long time. I finished my Honours in 2002, completed a Masters but since it was coursework (librarian coursework at that) it doesn't really count as far as the rigours or the demands of a PhD goes. I've started trawling Jstor and a couple of other databases I can access through the State library while I ease into it all and I was wondering: what are some of the crucial humanities texts that I've probably forgotten/missed in the past ten years?. The ones that are expected to be referred to in any thesis about gender, writing and identity, or humanities in general. I'm building my reading list/book list but don't have uni library privileges yet so I'm stuck with online/non-academic library access - unless it's something I should buy (aka Strunk and White, Judith Butler etc).
posted by geek anachronism at 3:27 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by geek anachronism at 3:27 PM PST - 10 comments
I'm in a predicament about changing jobs
I teach at an independent boarding school in the United States (aka: a private high school). It is time for me to move on to a new position, so I'm beginning a job hunt. My present school requires its faculty to sign a contract for the next academic year in February. However, private schools don't begin to post their available positions until spring. The school surely knows that this puts its faculty in a bind. What to do? More about this quandary after the jump. [more inside]
What's this I hear about Oakland's hipster ascendancy?
I'm spending all next week in Oakland, CA. Help me get an art-y, fixed-gear, artisanal taste of this city on the make. [more inside]
Massive Mold Mishap
My little brother had a jellow wrestling party in his basement with his college friends. It was a great success. However, they (he and his three roommates) left a large kiddie pool full of jello in his warm, wet, dark basement three weeks ago. Now there is giant kiddie pool full of mold in his basement. Much of the floor is also covered in mold. It's....very scary and smelly. How best to clean up? [more inside]
Which way past this impasse?
How do I reconcile my parents and my fiance? Should I even try? [more inside]
How do I deal with the aftermath of this weird lie?
My husband lied to me in a multi-part, well crafted way, about something stupid. I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable, and I don't know where to go from here. [more inside]
How do I promote my new podcast?
I just posted the second episode of my podcast and alerted my friends on social media and message boards. I want to reach out to the larger world though. The podcast is freeform (inspired by WFMU, John Peel, Henry Rollins) but so far has had a general focus of avant-garde and "new music" (inspired in part by John Schaefer's New Sounds). Are there sites/communities where I can let people know I exist without making it seem like spamming?
posted by mirepoix at 2:16 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by mirepoix at 2:16 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I find a job in Toronto?
How do I search for a job in Toronto that fits my special snowflake(but relatively modest[I hope]) requirements? [more inside]
How to salvage a friendship and is it worth it?
How do you salvage a friendship when you feel need to talk to someone but feel like there's no point as when you've asked to talk to that person about the pain they've caused you they've said they need space. Then when you try to express yourself via email (yes I know it should never be done) they respond with a vitrolic email. Or is it worth trying to salvage the firendship? [more inside]
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 2:04 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 2:04 PM PST - 21 comments
Recreate Google's "Share in Reader" bookmarklet
I want this:
1) highlight portion of any website, including embedded youtube, images, text, what have you.
2) click bookmarklet.
Optional step 3) a new window pops up, allowing me to add a note.
4) a subscribeable RSS feed receives a new entry, whose title is a link back to the website in step one, and whose body is the highlighted portion from step one as well as my note.
5) share RSS with friends.
Does it exist? [more inside]
Give me an easy way of keeping up with Chinese pop music
Is there a Chinese version of the year-end Billboard 100 charts or the Now That's What I Call Music compilations? Something where I can just buy an album every so often and have an idea of what's being played on mainstream radio in mainland China, without having to dig through music blogs? [more inside]
posted by Phire at 12:51 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Phire at 12:51 PM PST - 6 comments
What songs will make me want to be a better human?
I am making a "peace and love" playlist filled with songs that urge social consciousness and positive action. So far I have songs like "Man in the Mirror," "He Aint Heavy (He's My Brother)," "Get Together," "Imagine," etc. What are some good songs in that vein? [more inside]
What kind of briefcase do I want?
So I finally had to go and grow up, and now I need a briefcase. But I don't really know what I need to look for. [more inside]
Rain boots, but not really.
What's the best solution to fix a pair of rain boots? [more inside]
Drum and Bass and Singing
If I really like Harder by Kosheen what are some other drum and bass songs will I also like?
posted by chunking express at 11:55 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by chunking express at 11:55 AM PST - 6 comments
Their needs don’t trump mine - it’s not about “trumping” anyway! Gah!
Sometimes, people will hurt me - and then get so upset about having done so, that they want me to comfort them. Or else they become so inconsolable that we can’t move forward without talking about their feelings. How do you handle these situations when what you need is time to process your own hurt? [more inside]
posted by Someone Else's Story at 11:19 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by Someone Else's Story at 11:19 AM PST - 35 comments
Smoking Jackets for Swingin' Grade Schoolers!
Youngest Nephew (age 8) has declared that for his birthday party next week, he only wants his favorite adults to attend. We will be listening to his favorite vinyl records (he is mainly into Sinatra's Capitol years these days) and dining on omelets that he will cook for us, featuring the fancy salt and umami paste I bought his mom for Christmas. Apparently, he enjoys cooking while chomping on a bubble pipe and wearing a bathrobe that he calls his smoking jacket. This is, of course, outrageous: he must have a real smoking jacket, and his doting aunt must be the one who presents it to him. Help me help him to be Too Marvelous for Words. [more inside]
How to be a strong writer (Academic)
ok, hivemind, I am going back to school and I want to brush up on my writing.
Are there any workbooks, or maybe even online classes that you might suggest? Particularly, in the area of academic writing to be published and grammar? And, are there any books you might suggest, as well, in the general area of strengthening your writing skills and grammar? I have heard of The Elements of Style, and On Writing Well, but I do not think those are the books I am looking for. I am really look for something that addresses grammar, like when to use a semicolon, etc.
Stream music from my pc to my android phone over local wireless.
I want an app that I install on my Droid 3 phone that'll find my computer on my home wireless network and which I can point to my music folder and stream. [more inside]
posted by cthuljew at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by cthuljew at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
Half-remembered quote about poets
I read, somewhere, a quote about poets to the effect that even successful poets have day jobs, collect disability payments or come from money. I vaguely recall that this was said (or written) by a woman who was a successful [poet? writer? editor?] in her own right, and who would have had a reasonable sample size on which to base the statement. What quote am I thinking of? Who wrote or said it? My googles have been uncharacteristically ineffective in locating the quote or identifying the source.
fish tank care and feeding
My daughter (she's 3, so, really, her parents) received a 10 gallon fish tank for Christmas. I know nothing about fish. [more inside]
New Yorker Article Where Older Writer Mourns Drowned Younger Wife
Within the past 4 years, I read an article in the New Yorker written by an older writer who had recently lost his younger wife. Where can I find this? [more inside]
posted by shushufindi at 9:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by shushufindi at 9:49 AM PST - 6 comments
Men's wedding band made special.. but how?
How can I give my fiance a wedding band that matches what he wants (simple white gold comfort fit band) special in some way? [more inside]
Is my mother potentially complicit in fraud?
My generous, trusting mother was conned out of tens of thousands of dollars (gradually) by a good-for-nothing young cousin over the course of a few years. When my mother ran into financial trouble last year, she sought repayment of these "loans." The cousin insisted that she didn't have to pay back a cent and promptly disappeared. She reappeared last week with a very large check, written directly to my mother's bank, and written by some random guy. I'm worried that the cousin has simply conned somebody else ("please, my home is being foreclosed on, I really need this loan, you can even write it directly to the bank") to cover part of her debt. She isn't talking, and my trusting mother is angry that I'd suggest such a thing. (So a lawyer is out of the question.) Is my mother potentially complicit in fraud by depositing this check?
Just flu are you?
YANMDoctor. What are the chances that this recent illness was actually the flu? [more inside]
When you got everything, you got everything to lose.
I'm 23, and I've had an objectively great programming job for six months. Part of me wants to quit and become a barista or something. Am I crazy? [more inside]
How much praise is too much?
Our thirteen-month-old foster daughter's social worker is fantastic. She regularly goes above and beyond what's required for our kid's case. In the ten months we've worked with her, I've regularly thanked her for all she does to make our lives as foster parents and our foster daughter's life better, and twice I've called to tell her supervisor how great she is. Is it overkill to keep calling her boss to report that she's awesome? How can I best thank her for her service to our foster daughter? [more inside]
Help me manage my husband's controlling habits about supper!
How do I kindly and gently tell my husband that sometimes I just want to eat exactly what I want for supper and I don't want or need his help in the kitchen? [more inside]
How do you know if a federal conviction was for a felony?
How do you know if a federal conviction was for a felony? [more inside]
Red Shirts who survive.
It is commonly known that on Star Trek the red shirts die. Take a look at these dead guys or these dead guys. I need some help identifying red shirts that don't die or even red shirts who have survived a very long time. [more inside]
Graduation gift for close friend/older student?
One of my best friends is graduating soon from a MSN program. He is already well established in his career, but he took an opportunity to continue his education. He has decided to walk at the ceremony. The ceremony is out of town, and requires flying, not within driving distance. Because we love him and want to show our support, me and my family were planning on going to the ceremony, but the cost of the trip and the time off work is not really doable. Even if I went by myself, it is pretty expensive, so travel has been pretty much ruled out. We would like to get him a gift that would be meaningful and personal, since we can't be there to cheer him on. We thought about a small party, but that seems a little cheesy and routine. We would really like to do something special. Any ideas?
Moving overseas - what not to jettison?
I'm trying to move as minimally as possible, but hopefully not make my first six months miserable and broke while I replace important things I foolishly dumped. [more inside]
posted by sldownard at 7:34 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by sldownard at 7:34 AM PST - 22 comments
How Far Can Terms of Service Go for Restricting Data Access?
Law portals & content portals use their Terms of Service to restrict access to data beyond what they can restrict by means of copyright. What are the limits to this practice, and the history of enforcement? [more inside]
A swaddling predicament.
We're late to swaddle. After one successful swaddle, our son has decided that now is the week to start rolling over. I'm terrified that he will not be able to wake us if his arms aren't out right himself, but the Moro reflex still wakes him. Help us figure out this Catch-22 of swaddling. [more inside]
Reverse dictionary request
IS there a word for that method of counting where you draw four lines, then draw a diagonal when you get to five, and start a new group at six..?
posted by Abinadab at 6:35 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Abinadab at 6:35 AM PST - 10 comments
Who makes similar music to Scarlett and Gunnar on Nashville?
My wife and I have been watching the TV show Nashville and we love the songs Scarlett and Gunnar do together (YouTube example). Specifically, the sound of Scarlett's voice. We know they released the songs from the show, but we are longing for more songs with a similar sound.
posted by sgo at 6:18 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by sgo at 6:18 AM PST - 7 comments
What's the best way to tour Europe by bike?
I have a 3-4 week vacation from the army coming up and I want to spend most of it touring Europe on a bicycle. I'm in good hiking shape, but the furthest I've ever ridden my (mountain) bike is 25k two days back to pack. The vacation will probably be in April or May. Where should I go and how should I do it? [more inside]
I want to save this moment forever
I'm looking for phone apps that will allow me to easily and simply record sound and simultaneously back up the recording offsite (send it to email, save to a cloud server, etc.). [more inside]
posted by decathecting at 6:08 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by decathecting at 6:08 AM PST - 7 comments
Holidaying alone - how do you do it awesomely?
I've got my week in the Canaries booked, and I'm going with only books, music, and pen/paper for company. Have you holidayed alone, and what made it extra awesome? [more inside]
posted by greenish at 5:34 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by greenish at 5:34 AM PST - 18 comments
Safe TV series for teenage convalescent?
My 13-year old (female) cousin is at home in bed with chronic fatigue, and I'd like to send her something fun to watch, preferably with strong female characters. I thought of 'Veronica Mars' or 'Buffy' but have concluded that some of the themes are a bit too adult for her. Any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by melisande at 3:02 AM PST - 57 comments
posted by melisande at 3:02 AM PST - 57 comments
This book! Book of my youth!
I have vague memories of two fantasy/scifi novels I read back when I was a child in the early-mid 90s, and I wish to seek them out again on the basis of these memories. But I can't remember enough to be able to find them. Help me? [more inside]
posted by kafziel at 2:23 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by kafziel at 2:23 AM PST - 8 comments
Amazon Gift Cards
Can I use an Amazon Gift Card to pay for items on Amazon.com AND the Amazon App Store or do they each have their own gift card? [more inside]
posted by boby at 1:38 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by boby at 1:38 AM PST - 3 comments
How to hide my Internet usage
The Router At my new apartment tracks all my Internet usage. Is there a way to hide it? I don't know much about vpns, But are they the solution? If so I would be willing to pay for a good one. Suggestions?
posted by anonymous at 1:19 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by anonymous at 1:19 AM PST - 29 comments
January 10
How to handle a nice dog's mean moods
My wife and I have a corgi/heeler mix who will be two years old in May. She's an absolute sweetheart most of the time but gets into foul moods occasionally where she will snarl and bite. Once she's in a bad mood she tends to stay that way for a few hours. How can we correct that behavior? [more inside]
Is coconut yogurt a waste of money?
Coconuts are rich in lauric acid, which is converted into monolaurin in the body, and has strong antimicrobial properties. That being said, how do friendly probiotic strains of bacteria survive in coconut yogurt? My inquiries to the manufacturer (So Delicious Dairy Free) have gone down a black hole. [more inside]
posted by invisible ink at 9:22 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by invisible ink at 9:22 PM PST - 14 comments
Is there any connection between these debit card theft issues?
My friend and I both had our debit card numbers stolen within 2 days of each other. Is it possible that we can trace this back to one sketchy business and does it even matter if we can? [more inside]
It has been fifteen years. I can't laugh it off.
I teach and I have a nervous laugh. I cannot get rid of it. [more inside]
Ship crystal from Las Vegas to Seattle
I need to ship 36 Waterford crystal wine glasses from Las Vegas to Seattle and would like for them to arrive in no more than 36 pieces. Any ideas about how to do this? Willing to take them somewhere to get packed properly but am not that familiar with Las Vegas.
Looking for free underground hip-hop
I have an ipod that I want to fill up. I don't do torrents, and I'm not looking for anything illegal, I just want stuff that's being given away. I'm really into The Roots, The Fugees, anything by the Sandpeople Collective, Atmosphere, Nas, Angel Haze, that sort of thing. Not really into Odd Future. I know there are a zillion good underground rappers out there with free downloadable albums. Can you recommend some for me?
Why is our power bill so high?
We've been in our new house about 3 months, and our power bills feel a lot higher than they should be, based on our perceived usage. Looking for ways to track down errant usage. [more inside]
posted by hanov3r at 7:11 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by hanov3r at 7:11 PM PST - 35 comments
Dark and lovely songs
Looking for beautiful songs with good lyrics that evoke a feeling of violation, dark secrets, slow growing horror [more inside]
Social anxiety FTW
I would like to hear about experiences of overcoming social anxiety from people who have a) successfully done so or b) embraced and made a happy life despite it. [more inside]
Working in Japan as an ALT with a girlfriend
Hi people with ALT experience, finding work in Japan sure is tough. Finding work with your girlfriend? Much harder.
Where should a pair of people go to teach English in Japan? We are spending our time trying to get anywhere we can (We hear being near a city increases our happiness), however, we have been rooting for a position in Nagoya, Kanagawa as a close second. We keep hitting dead ends and are getting desperate. It looks like at this rate, we are going to save up $2,000 a piece and take a plane there in mid-april, 3 months from now, hopefully finding work in the 90 days we are legally allowed there. [more inside]
Wide Ribbed 100% Cotton Underwear that Stretched to the Moon
The underwear that got away 10 years ago is still keeping me up at night. (Melodrama) [more inside]
posted by alice_curiouse at 4:56 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by alice_curiouse at 4:56 PM PST - 9 comments
ISO a song called "Magazine" from the mid-late 90s
Asking for a friend, who says: I'm looking for a song called "Magazine" that I seem to recall was by a local San Francisco artist, popular in the 1996-1998 timeframe. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 4:44 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 4:44 PM PST - 3 comments
Why won't this cash register open?
Setting up a POS machine (Windows 7) w/ a STAR 100 on a LAN. Printer setup, check. Cash register, nope! [more inside]
Starting over
Anybody have any experience with needing to come to a fresh start? [more inside]
Have norms surrounding eating chicken changed over time?
Was there ever a period in time before widespread acceptance of germ theory, or, is there a current culture where raw or undercooked chicken is an accepted part of cuisine? [more inside]
Let's choose some music for a film project!
So I'm working on this documentary film about the "Arab Spring" (for those of you who don't know what that is, it's the massive wave of revolutions that have been taking place in the Middle East region over the past 2 years). My emphasis is on the Syrian crisis. The film contains scenes of interviews with political/religious figures, demonstration/riot montages, news footage, .. So, at this point I am choosing the music for my project. So far I'm liking the Nine Inch Nails "Ghosts" album for some of the scenes. I also listen to a lot of classical music and I'm a fan of Rachmaninoff and Beethoven (I'm thinking I could use some for the more dramatic scenes like the massacre/war crimes montages). Any suggestions/alternative music choices?
Looking for a mini flash game
I'm looking for a mini flash game that I used to play back in the day (I would say, 2006?) that if I remember correctly had graphics similar to critter crunch Their were a bunch of mini games and it looked Japanese. I have been dying to find it again, but this is all I can remember about it. I'm hoping one of you knows what I'm talking about. Anyone?
This art should communicate metaphorical bear, not literal bear
How do I improve this piece of artwork that I made out of my body hair? [more inside]
Women’s shoes with superior construction.
I am searching for beautifully crafted, durable women’s shoes made from leather that will last for years. I know this is a tough bill to fit so I am not limiting this search to any particular kind of shoe or price range. For boots, I typically look for strong welting (Goodyear method) but this is increasingly difficult to find. I love the look of Frye’s but most seem poor quality for the money. For example, the outsole and upper are simply glued together in most models (although the engineer boots look pretty solid). For heels/dress shoes, I am interested in full-grain leather instead of the bonded or “genuine” stuff. I’ve heard good things about Fluevog and Chie Mihara, but haven’t looked into them yet. Any experiences? What other brands might have these qualities? Are there high quality men’s shoe brands out there that also make shoes for women?
CollectiveAccess or Something Better?
I want some kind of collections database and need your help finding one that suits my needs! [more inside]
posted by Atreides at 2:50 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Atreides at 2:50 PM PST - 7 comments
Who makes the best pecan pie in the Phoenix area?
I'll be getting married in Phoenix in March, and in addition to the cakes (which will be made by Karsh's Bakery), my fiancée would like to have pecan pie at the wedding. But Karsh's doesn't do pie, and we'd like to collect some suggestions for where to get really good pecan pie in the Phoenix, Arizona area.
How to Find and Keep a Good Salesperson?
How do I find a salesperson? How do I pay them? What kind of freedom do I give them? How can I make it worth their while so it can be a long term relationship? I believe there are people out there interesting in helping me, but I've never been able to figure out how to find them. One man bands do everything but seem to burn out faster, and I don't want to do that. I need help. [more inside]
Rebuilding an ear drum..
My 5 year old son has lost 70% of his ear drum and a large portion of his hearing in his right ear. The Dr is talking about surgery to repair it....it's called a Tympanoplasty.... [more inside]
posted by pearlybob at 2:19 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by pearlybob at 2:19 PM PST - 9 comments
Anything I can do to keep squirrels off fruit trees?
Has anyone successfully deterred squirrels from eating the fruit off the trees in their yard? I see a lot of "squirrel repellent" sprays on the market (but I also see a lot of "eat-what-you-want-still-lose-weight" products out there too; I'm not going to take their word for it.) Also what about ultrasonic repellents, do those work? [more inside]
posted by fingersandtoes at 2:14 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by fingersandtoes at 2:14 PM PST - 20 comments
I want to read public domain books on an Android smartphone
I want to read public domain books (especially Shakespeare) on my Galaxy S3. But all of the apps I can find are giving me trouble. What's the best-designed and most convenient solution? [more inside]
posted by vogon_poet at 2:03 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by vogon_poet at 2:03 PM PST - 6 comments
Would you teach a really old but really good textbook?
I've already taught this college course on media literacy for one semester, with results that frustrated me (here's my postmortem of my syllabus, including what students did and didn't get). Specifically, my students don't seem to understand how advertising influences the content of the media. I've been trying to remember where it was I developed the foundational ideas I have on the subject... and I realized, they're in a textbook I read in high school.
In 1991.
In a book which had its last edition that year. [more inside]
posted by gusandrews at 1:44 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by gusandrews at 1:44 PM PST - 29 comments
How can I help my friend get help for suspected mental illness?
I'm sure that my friend (who lives cross-country) is dealing with un-diagnosed untreated mental illness. I'm 99% sure it's bipolar disorder, based on lots of information and evidence. I don't want this thread to be about diagnosing, but rather about how to help (I think we can agree that the steps I should take to help would be largely the same regardless of what he's grappling with, right?). [more inside]
Men's leather belts — where's the sweet spot re: "cheap" and "durable"?
All my life I've bought cheap-ass vaguely-leather-ish belts (like, the $20 ones from that rack next to the cash register at the el-cheapo big box shoe store) and they've always started to warp within three months and started falling to pieces within six. I don't think I'm unusually hard on my belts. I think the ones I'm buying just suck balls and I should bite the bullet and buy nicer ones. So: How much more would I have to spend to get one that didn't suck? What would it cost me to get a leather belt that would last two years without warping or splitting? Five years? Ten? Infinity?
posted by and so but then, we at 12:56 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by and so but then, we at 12:56 PM PST - 39 comments
Graduating with a BA in Philosophy (Canada) in April. Job search help
A few days ago I went to see my local Career Advisor at school. She said I was miles ahead of every other humanities grad as I have 15 months of work experience. She told me to contact various guilds and organizations in my area... [more inside]
Worst countries for vegetarians?
I have a long wish-list of holiday destinations, and I would like to edit it down a bit. Which countries are difficult or impossible for vegetarian/vegan travellers? And which ones are terribly hard but worth making an exception for?
What can I eat and use to grow a new plant indoors?
I already know about avocados, celery and pineapples. What else can I buy in the supermarket, eat and then plant a seed from which will grow a nice indoor plant? [more inside]
posted by neilb449 at 12:21 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by neilb449 at 12:21 PM PST - 23 comments
YANMD: Periventricular white matter on the t2 and flair sequences
YANMD: Periventricular white matter on the t2 and flair sequences. This is a result of my girlfriends MRI, I've Googled and Duck Duck Go -ed and am totally confused, Anyone know what ite means? Thanks.
One man's trash is another man's treasure.
The dumpster divers in our area seem to have crossed a line -- a private property line, that is. Would you press the issue or let it go? [more inside]
Configuring a room for a round robin activity at work
I want to set up an activity for some people I work with. There will be about 15-20 of us and basically I want it to be like speed dating only in this case, every person talks to every other person in the room for a set period of time. How would I set this up around a large conference table to make it easy for everyone to know where to go from person to person? [more inside]
Barack Obama Dance Party! Jan 21st, Washington DC!
I'm going to the Presidential Inauguration this month, in Washington DC, and I'd like to solicit tips and tricks to make the day go smooth for me. The last time I was in DC was 8 years ago, and it was for a day trip. What to do? What to avoid? What is security going to be like, will they have food and drink for sale, etc. If you went in 2009, what was it like? How did you survive the day?
Also, I have written both of my Senators for tickets, and have heard nothing back from them, so I'm going under the assumption that I didn't get any. Thus, I will probably be watching the ceremony on the National Mall. If I end up here, where's the best place to stand? I'm flying in from Seattle for this, I'm not missing it! [more inside]
posted by spinifex23 at 11:44 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by spinifex23 at 11:44 AM PST - 24 comments
Is it OK to take my kid's money as punishment for cursing?
Was I wrong to take my son's money as punishment for cursing? [more inside]
Shoes for the GoRuck Challenge
My buddies and I are signed up for a GoRuck Challenge in March, but I need advice on shoes. [more inside]
Good Tools for Sourcing and Curating news on Niche Topics?
Part of my current job involves searching and curating news articles on a variety of topics, related to alternative investing. Currently, my workflow involves scouring Google Reader, Google News, Google Alerts, and some specialized newsletters. I'd like to automate this more. Sadly, I'm struggling to find good tools to make the process easier. What does MeFi recommend?
Where can I find images that are evocative of successful relationship?
I've been looking at environments, especially my home, and seeing how they impact me in terms of imagery. I'm specifically looking for images I could place in my home that are evocative of successful relationship. [more inside]
How to leap out of bed joyous to face the day?
What are your best tips/tricks/hacks to not feel like hammered sh*t first thing in the morning? [more inside]
NYC area MLK weekend short trip filter
The girl and I are thinking about a couple of day vacation based out of NYC over MLK weekend, any thoughts? [more inside]
Is it acceptable to seek out a reference from someone in the past?
I am applying for an internship and I want to ask someone to give me a reference. However, I haven't been in contact with them for two years. We parted on good terms. Is it acceptable for me to ask them for a reference still? [more inside]
Birders: Do you think this is a common mynah? Kabul, Afghanistan.
Birders: I can't decide if this is a common mynah. What do you think? [more inside]
posted by Alaska Jack at 10:16 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Alaska Jack at 10:16 AM PST - 8 comments
How to find scraped product reviews on my own sites.
I work on a number of e-commerce websites. Of the ~6000 product reviews we have, a healthy percentage of them were manually scraped from other sites before my time. However, there is no indication and no log of which ones were scraped. [more inside]
Cultural anthropology: "ur trait" a term for universl beliefs/practices?
Some decades ago I heard the term "Ur trait" (can't be sure of the spelling) in relation to a collection of cultural beliefs or possibly culturally driven practices that are universally distributed in humans around the globe, and which are believed to reach back to the early development of humans, so that they might represent bits of a core of human culture. I'm unsure enough of the concept that I don't want to make up examples which might lead respondents on a wrong path. Googling "ur trait" didn't yield any useful answers. The concept sounds similar, but is not identical to Jung's idea of a collective unconscious, which seems to be related a little more to psychology than cultural anthropology.
I'm primarily interested in whether the phrase "ur trait" was ever in use, and secondarily in the concept it represents if not what I've described above.
posted by paphun123 at 10:04 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by paphun123 at 10:04 AM PST - 12 comments
How to continue using an almost new laptop
I have an Acer laptop with an i3 chip and the standard amount of RAM, probably 4GB that I bought in 2011. Just over a year after I bought it, and just weeks after the end of warranty, the hard drive died.
I'm wondering how hard it would be to buy a new hard drive and install Ubuntu or something like that. Is it possible?
If so, how much of a pain is it to set up drivers? Would I have to manually install drivers for nearly everything (USB ports, wireless receiver, etc)?
posted by KokuRyu at 9:50 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by KokuRyu at 9:50 AM PST - 13 comments
It-All-Goes-Downhill-After-30-Filter
Is there anything I can do to minimize, hide, or slow down the lines developing under my eyes? [more inside]
Amazing 2013 Calendar
Do you know of any amazing wall calendars for 2013? Anything movie related, funny, odd, or just generally interesting would be great.
posted by Green With You at 9:34 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Green With You at 9:34 AM PST - 12 comments
Rickenbacker in an AVClub video?
I have a recollection of one of, I think, the AVClub covers project videos where the band's bass player is playing a Jetglo Rickenbacker 4001/4003. I thought it was maybe Hospitality doing Rikki Don't Lose That Number, but it isn't. [more inside]
posted by dirtdirt at 9:11 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by dirtdirt at 9:11 AM PST - 7 comments
hanging a medicine cabinet door
my friend's triple door medicine cabinet lost a door. trying to get a replacement hinge hasn't been fruitful. can you recommend a good alternative hinge? complications inside. [more inside]
posted by ps_im_awesome at 9:05 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by ps_im_awesome at 9:05 AM PST - 2 comments
Fair internship compensation?
Asking for a friend:
I have the opportunity to have an intern work part time (sixteen hours or about twice a week) for me and I need to figure out how compensation might work here. We're a very small business and this is the first time we've dealt with internships. [more inside]
I'm renting event space for a party, how much do I tip?
I'm renting a room at a local winery for a Bar Mitzvah reception. The winery provides the location, the setup/teardown, tables/linens, and arranges the catering. I am being billed at $xx per person. How much of a tip am I supposed to leave? [more inside]
Starting up Windows 7 from scratch (twice)
I'm reformatting the hard drive of my parent's Windows 7 PC to give to somebody. That's all well and good--software is reinstalled, drivers are updated, Windows Update looks happy. When I started the machine for the first time after Windows 7 installation was complete, it did it's standard thing where it asked what the user name was, what the PC name was, basic settings, etc. Is there any way to redo that setup for the new owner when they turn it on for the first time? [more inside]
posted by jroybal at 7:54 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jroybal at 7:54 AM PST - 5 comments
Where can I buy a cheap PC with a PCI slot?
I'd like to buy a cheap desktop PC that has at least one PCI slot (not PCI Express) so that I can install this sound card. [more inside]
Help me help a frustrated 8-month old to communicate better. . .
Our daughter is eight-months old. She uses a blood-curdling scream whenever she is frustrated or wants something, which is usually her mom. The screams are so frequent--and so intense--that they have frayed the nerves of everyone else in the house. Any suggestions on how we might help her find a more effective way to express her frustration would be invaluable right now. [more inside]
posted by ajr at 7:45 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by ajr at 7:45 AM PST - 31 comments
Have you used a good temporary answering service?
Asking for recommendations for an answering service, with a live person that can answer our office phones for a week. [more inside]
posted by gemmy at 7:19 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by gemmy at 7:19 AM PST - 4 comments
Is this year's flu vaccine effective?
I keep reading stories (1, 2, and this previous question) about how bad this year's flu season is. It's been a few months since the vaccine has been available so have they been able to determine if this year's vaccine matches up with the flu strains that are spreading? Meaning, is this year's flu vaccine actually effective? When is that determination made? [more inside]
posted by exhilaration at 7:07 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by exhilaration at 7:07 AM PST - 26 comments
How to tell a reviewer they are wrong?
I am an academic, and I need advice on how to word my response to a review for a journal article. [more inside]
posted by pamplemousse of love at 7:07 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by pamplemousse of love at 7:07 AM PST - 23 comments
Resume question- is this a big deal?
I started my own business and instead of the five month gap on my resume, I wrote it down as it it were only a three month gap. I told myself that in those two months prior to starting the business I was looking for business opportunities (as well as considering full time work opportunities and also considering not working at all), and that this was in fact how I found my current business model. Do you think there is something wrong with this? [more inside]
Just putting him on skis and pushing is probably a bad idea.
So I want to get my son into skiing, but I'm not sure the best method given that he's only 3. Pointers for those who have done it or suggestions that this is ridiculous and just to wait till he's older both welcome. [more inside]
posted by katers890 at 6:40 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by katers890 at 6:40 AM PST - 36 comments
Morning motivation? Websites?
Hi all,
Does anyone have any favorite websites they go to when they need a "pick-me-up" or some confidence? I tend to get stressed before leaving for work in the morning and I think a little motivational reading might help. [more inside]
How best to come calling at Downton Abbey?
Highclere Castle has become quite famous due to the success of Downton Abbey. As a result, the castle is open to ticketed tourists on particular days over the year, mostly the summer. Now, this is all well and good, but for folks visiting from across the Atlantic, a loaded question arises:
Given that Highclere in and of itself is a very small village, which of the surrounding cities would serve best as a base of visiting operations for a day or two? [more inside]
I need help with an office phone
Good Morning Hive!
I'm having a little trouble setting up my office phone. Here's the info: [more inside]
posted by oviedo at 6:16 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by oviedo at 6:16 AM PST - 5 comments
Why does my potato chips not have one less chip in it?
Whenever I eat potato chips, I wonder how the exact number of chips (or actaully, weight) was arrived upon. After all, if they put ONE less chip in my bag of chips, I probably wouldn't notice or care, but it would save them hundreds of thousands of dollars (...probably). So my question is - how do product manufacturers decide on the precise sweet spot that gets them the highest revenue without customers dropping off? Why 35 grams and not 34?
Best prices on ski rentals & lift passes at Steamboat near the Sheraton?
Next month we're staying at the Sheraton Steamboat Resort in Steamboat Springs, CO, paid in part thanks to a conference that my spouse is attending there. We'd like to rent skis for a couple of half-day ski outings, and are wondering what the best option is. The Sheraton has its own attached rental store and we've used them in the past, but we thought they were a bit on the expensive side. Is there anything less expensive within walking distance? (We won't have a car.) [more inside]
Taking a clear photo from far away.
I would like to make a poster of the cliffs at Lion's Head, ON; however, in order to get a shot of the entire cliff without too much distortion, I would ideally be located on the other side of Isthmus Bay, about 4 km away from the cliff. How can I do this? [more inside]
posted by jamincan at 5:36 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by jamincan at 5:36 AM PST - 8 comments
Design help for 2 teens sharing a room
I have 2 teen boys who have to share a room but without bunk beds. We are a family of 6 that live in 3 bedroom home(all teen boys). The 2 that are sharing right now have been switched from their previous situation. They are 18 (college freshman) and 13. The problem is they are currently sleeping in a bunk bed (twin over full) but that's not working anymore.They've both complained about one moving too much or if one goes to sleep later the climbing into the bed is waking the other one up. Or vice versa when one has to get up much earlier then the other. Also one likes to read in bed and for some reason that causes a problem too. My thought was to place the beds on opposite sides of the room and create separate spaces. [more inside]
posted by lasamana at 5:29 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by lasamana at 5:29 AM PST - 29 comments
What was the name of this ubiquitous performance art duo from the 1980s?
Back in the late 1980s there was this weird performance art duo, a man and a woman, who seemed to turn up all over the place on TV. They were on MTV, I think they were on the Tonight Show, et al, but nobody seems to remember them and I can't find any record of them online. (No, they were not Shields and Yarnell.) [more inside]
Is Foster the People as good as Pumped up Kicks?
I used to hear a song I liked, and if I really liked it I'd buy the album. But often that has left me feeling disappointed with the quality of the album as a whole. Sometimes all the songs sound the same and the song I liked is the best possible version of that song. Sometimes the other music on the album just doesn't have the feature(s) that made me love the first song I heard from it.
So for a while I've only bought the song I liked, and maybe a few others that sound ok when I preview in iTunes.
But I'd like to buy whole albums. Hivemind, what are the awesome albums, new or old, that bear listening all the way through, again and again?
Current host of Daily Planet?
Who's the current host of Daily Planet on Discovery Canada? [more inside]
posted by cozenedindigo at 4:47 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by cozenedindigo at 4:47 AM PST - 2 comments
Like the old Twinkie mystery, but with sex.
Got a message out of the blue on a social network the other day from an ex; mentioned it to my partner (we're both big believers in transparency when it comes to random messages from exes) and we're each taking a different read from the message, so we figured we'd turn to the hivemind for input. [more inside]
posted by MarchHare at 4:37 AM PST - 60 comments
posted by MarchHare at 4:37 AM PST - 60 comments
Is there a IrfanView alternative for Mac for a specific design task?
My WineBottler version of IrfanView has stopped working for some reason, I need this for just one task: Click and drag on a picture and get the X/Y coordinates of the selection and size in one quick view.
An example: [more inside]
posted by ts;dr at 2:46 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by ts;dr at 2:46 AM PST - 9 comments
Looking for your best, most persuasive articles/anecdata on sleep apnea.
A dear friend's husband sounds like he has sleep apnea. His interrupted sleep makes him lethargic and unable to work, meaning his wife works full time and takes care of the four kids, including a special needs child. He is moody, depressed, and has migraines and irritable bowel syndrome. I would like some accessible articles and anecdotes on the risks of untreated apnea; the benefits of treatment; and how treatment is accessed in the NHS (UK). [more inside]
January 9
Where can I find a good family tree template online?
I want to create a family tree that includes my grandparents, my parents and their siblings, and all their children (my cousins), and finally my siblings children. If possible I'd also like to include everyone's spouses as well.
Ideally I want to be able to include photos, and contact information for each of them. I could certainly try to create this myself but realized someone else has probably done the same thing so I'm hoping I can spare myself the extra work.
Can anyone help me with this request?
Any Natural Ice-Skating in Europe this Winter?
I did some Ice-Skating on the frozen lakes in The Netherlands last February and it was a lot of fun and I was hoping to do it again this winter somewhere. Maybe Sweden, or Norway or somewhere in northern Europe where good ice is more likely. (Is the Elfstedentocht - 11 Cities likely to run this year?)
Where are some good (and relatively certain) Natural Ice Skating spots in the Uk, Netherlands, Scandinavia region? [more inside]
Examples of cliched business speak in the US?
What annoying words and phrases are popping up too often in the US workplace? Whenever I try to think of an example, it is at least 5 years old and people aren't really using it anymore. For example, "hit the ground running" or "the competition ate our lunch". (But those are too old.) [more inside]
posted by ErikH2000 at 10:01 PM PST - 232 comments
posted by ErikH2000 at 10:01 PM PST - 232 comments
Shipping labels to return lost items
I accidentally left a bag in someone's car, and we are now in different states. I want to make it as easy as possible for him to return it to me, as we are not even really acquaintances. [more inside]
Snow tires in Seattle?
Are dedicated snow tires a good idea for Seattlites who only occasionally visit the mountains? [more inside]
posted by rouftop at 9:57 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by rouftop at 9:57 PM PST - 8 comments
how to approach potential 9-to-5 jobs if i'll frequently be absent?
I'm looking for full-time work that's more or less within standard business hours. The problem is that I see my therapist weekly and my psychiatrist monthly. I could decrease the therapy sessions, but i'd still be missing work regularly. How do I bring this up with potential employers, and at what point in the proceedings? Or should I refrain from mentioning it? I'm in toronto if that's relevant. My doctors are only available in regular business hours.
Aching pain after root canal
I had root canals redone (by an endodontist) and crowns placed on two of my upper teeth (by my dentist) that are side by side early last year. All was well until yesterday morning, when I woke up with a dull throbbing aching pain on where those teeth are, but especially on the one tooth. It doesn't seem to be sensitive to hot and cold, but chewing on that side hurts. I already have an appointment with my dentist, but would appreciate it if anybody who knows can give me the worst, best, and most likely scenario of what I am facing so I can prepare myself. Thank you so much. Anecdotes if you experienced something similar are also appreciated.
What are your experiences with the Mac App Store in a small business?
I’m an IT Consultant / Sysadmin and my clients are Apple-centric small businesses of 1-25 employees, with most falling between 5 and 10. I prefer purchasing software direct from publishers, but I’m now running into some software that is Mac App Store only and I’m not finding a good way to manage this. [more inside]
posted by ridogi at 9:10 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ridogi at 9:10 PM PST - 14 comments
Resources for improving communication skills
Can anybody recommend a book that will teach me how to be assertive without sounding bitchy? Or, maybe it's a self-esteem issue that I'm dealing with. I'd like to communicate better. [more inside]
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:44 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by little_dog_laughing at 8:44 PM PST - 11 comments
Perception Problems
How can I improve my perception of distance and time? [more inside]
posted by Angel of Khaos at 8:36 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Angel of Khaos at 8:36 PM PST - 10 comments
Self pacing is not a skill I have in abundance
Any advice for surviving a pair of online classes? [more inside]
Gift Etiquette for work-friend birthdays
Went to birthday thing at a restaurant/bowling place for a work friend. There were 6 of us here. I consider the people there work-friends, in that I generally don't hang out with them outside of work. I was surprised that 3 of the friends gave gifts to the birthday girl, while the other guy bought her drinks and food. I tried to offer to pay for part of the entertainment cost but was begged off. So I felt like I didn't contribute much to the birthday celebration and possibly commited a faux pas in not getting a gift. I was under the impression that people at work who weren't that close don't give birthday gifts to each other.
Did I commit a faux pas? Should I give a belated gift?
You have to take off your shoes before you can take off your stockings.
I'm slowly working through the problems on Project Rosalind, a bioinformatics primer. Would you suggest working out each solution from first principles, or do you think it makes more sense to look up existing algorithms and implement those? WWaBSD? [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 7:47 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Nomyte at 7:47 PM PST - 5 comments
Ugh...friend, more than a friend, not a friend? So confused!
My best friend and I keep having drama in our friendship because of feelings. I had feelings for him, but he says he just wanted to stay friends. I told him I needed space to get rid of my feelings so we can stay friends. But he won't let me. He keeps bringing me back into his life. Even when he said he was starting a relationship with someone else. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by impactsmoothie at 7:39 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by impactsmoothie at 7:39 PM PST - 55 comments
please recommend a mid or small dog breed for 70 year old woman
I'd like to help my mom get a new dog. In the past she had a lab and then a pointer, loved them both to death, but this sort of dog is just too big and requires too much exercise for a 70-year-old woman living alone. Trouble is: she hates most small dog breeds - doesn't like the lap dog type or the Paris Hilton type dogs. I tried to convince her a Boston Terrier would be a good compromise, but she doesn't like the pointy ears and the bug eyes. [more inside]
Catering and photography- Milwaukee WI
My fiance and I are getting married this October. We have a church and reception site, but are looking for recommendations on catering and photography for a small wedding (150 people) in Wauwatosa (near Milwaukee) WI.
If you have had a negative experience, I would appreciate hearing about that as well.
Thank you!!
Whither the unshaven dead?
Can you think of any movies or tv shows that feature bearded zombies? Unless facial hair confers some sort of protective powers against post-death reanimation, it seems that there should be plenty of examples, but scanning Walking Dead images, I can't find any. (There are lots of Halloween costumes of bearded guys in zombie makeup, but I'm specifically looking for zombies from film and television.)
posted by roger ackroyd at 6:17 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by roger ackroyd at 6:17 PM PST - 14 comments
I need to do a system reset on my brain/body, right now.
I have a ton of work to do over the next few days, and I think the accumulation of poor sleep habits, stress, and caffeine have rendered me mentally impotent. I'm too tired to think clearly, but too wired to take a nap (I've tried several times in the last few hours). I've never felt like this before. I just want to wipe the slate clean somehow. Obviously a full day spa treatment or a weekend communing with nature would be nice, but I ain't got that kind of time. Any ideas? The only plus here is that I work from a computer and set my own schedule, so I'm beholden to nobody but me while I complete these work obligations. PS: I am writing this at 6pm on the west coast.
How to make layered music videos?
What software do you use to make layered music videos as simple as this, or more complex like this? [more inside]
How can I rehabilitate my marriage?
I think my husband's PTSD is triggered. He's kicked me out and is talking about divorce. Help? [more inside]
Where can I find a quiet or private place to Skype in Hong Kong?
Asking for a friend: I'm traveling in Hong Kong, near Causeway Bay, for the next few days, and I need to find a place where I can Skype/videoconference with a few people in New York during regular business hours -- meaning, 11pm - midnight, Hong Kong time. [more inside]
posted by nemutdero at 4:05 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by nemutdero at 4:05 PM PST - 6 comments
What exercise can I do with an injured knee?
[Fitness Filter] Help me find a way to get fit that won't make my injured knee explode! [more inside]
Beam Me Into 2013
What new tools, apps, or environmental changes have you started using in the last few years that have improved your life the most (or at least made it less worse)? [more inside]
posted by Andrhia at 3:59 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by Andrhia at 3:59 PM PST - 25 comments
How weird is it for an office to lack a desk?
I would like to take the big, corner desk out of my office and instead have a couch, along with a laptop table that I can use as needed. Or maybe a small stand-up desk off to the side. I am wondering what the outside perception might be, as well as any potential problems I may not have considered. [more inside]
Help my feet not get wet!
Alternative sources for grad school letters of recommendation?
I am concerned about the quantity, quality, and available sources of recommendation letters to work/industrial/occupational psychology Masters programs in The USA and Europe. (I'm North American) I want to make sure I get the most effective letters possible with my limited access to academic recommendation sources. Are there any alternatives or options that I am not or should be considering? Details inside. [more inside]
Staying Safe From the Ground Up
Recently, my roommate and I thought someone was breaking into our house. We were actually quite terrified since we heard someone testing the doorknob for a while and heard a loud pounding knock on the door late at night. While we can't fully confirm what happened, we know for sure that both of us and the roommates upstairs heard someone knocking very loudly late at night. I realize that if someone wants to break into a house, then they will. But, what can I do to feel safer? [more inside]
How can I end this relationship in the least harmful way?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 15+ years. We are no longer able to get along and function together, and we need to break up. We have an eight year old kid and financial problems. How do we handle the logistics of separating? [more inside]
How to confront parents?
How to confront parents about an event which really hurt when I was younger and continues to plague my life/our relationship now (over ten years later)? [more inside]
How to Keep My Sane during This Exchange and Have Fun
I'm on exchange in France and although I HAVE had a few fun nights, I'm generally having quite a hard time. It's my first week, so I'm aware that things will change. But what can I do to ease my way? I'm anxious, stressed, a little depressed, uncomfortable, feeling pretty low and insecure, etc. Please help me! [more inside]
posted by rhythm_queen at 2:42 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by rhythm_queen at 2:42 PM PST - 23 comments
Iconic Album Covers featuring the band
Looking for well known album covers that feature the members of the band. [more inside]
Restaurant in Brooklyn for Seven
We need a restaurant in Brooklyn in the Downtown/Cobble Hill/Carroll Gardens area that will take a reservation for 7 people for brunch this Saturday and has vegan options (but preferably not all-vegan.) [more inside]
Is there such a thing as a toilet seat pee deflector?
Warning: this question involves icky bodily fluids. Read at your own peril. My (now adult) autistic son if fine with using the bathroom unprompted on his own, but I have one recurring issue for which there must be a solution. [more inside]
Tell me what to do for a living. Thanks.
Please, tell me about magical jobs that focus on things like strategy, brainstorming, critical thinking, research, and trends/pop culture. [more inside]
DVD/CD Organization Help
I've never kept my media in anything other than their original cases, but my DVD's take up too much room and I want to put them into some sort of organizer. Any product reccomendations or advice would be appreciated! [more inside]
Animal Statues:
Can you give me examples of public statues of historic, individual animals? (eg. statue of Balto the famous sled-dog, in Central Park in NYC.) [more inside]
posted by Flood at 2:04 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by Flood at 2:04 PM PST - 50 comments
Home care for tooth awaiting its coronation?
So, I managed to break a tooth last week (whilst attempting to chew a cold gummy licorice candy that had the approximate texture of partially-cured epoxy). Saw dentist this morning, who wants to install a crown. What, if anything, can I do between now and Coronation Day, as it'll likely be at least eight weeks out? [more inside]
posted by aecorwin at 1:55 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by aecorwin at 1:55 PM PST - 8 comments
Grammar nerd question
Which is correct?
a) "Led Zeppelin is a band"
b) "Led Zeppelin are a band" [more inside]
Lime green handbag/tote
Looking for a classy lime green handbag but fallen short as of yet :( [more inside]
What has gone wrong with my squash, cucumbers, and peas?
Oh no! My winter squash, cucumbers, and peas are failing. Can anybody tell me why and what, if anything, I can do about it? Pictures inside. [more inside]
posted by Scientist at 1:22 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Scientist at 1:22 PM PST - 15 comments
Nautical Information Needed
We've been doing some research for a project and need some help finding out what a particular sign (or type of sign) means. [more inside]
Data recovery in and around Boston
Can anyone recommend a reputable and reliable Boston-area data recovery service that will provide a quote before sending in the drive? [more inside]
Quick and easy recipes with calorie information
Okay, I'm looking for websites or books that have recipes that are 20-30 minutes and have calorie information. I found a lot of quick recipe books but they often don't have calorie information. Looking for recommendations.
posted by bananafish at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by bananafish at 12:45 PM PST - 12 comments
Best way to digitize & organize CD and DVD library?
Finishing up a home organization project... I'm facing several boxes of (music) CDs, and one box of (movie) DVDs. What's the best way of digitizing & storing the music & movie files? [more inside]
posted by mark7570 at 12:37 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by mark7570 at 12:37 PM PST - 7 comments
In which I wish to acquire kickass organizational skills.
I have a small niche food business. I have no organizational skills. You can see where this is going. [more inside]
"Pigeon" "Roach" and "Rat" are right out
A New York client has asked for a group of names (3 to 6) with which to market some high-end luxury residences in Midtown. The previous theme was "theater" and they'd like something different. The residences are 30+ floors up. Unfortunately the setting is pretty sleek and anonymous. I haven't been to the city in a year and without a theme, my creative fu is completely failing. (Once I have that, the individual names will probably come.) Perhaps you have some ideas? Many thanks.
posted by 2soxy4mypuppet at 11:54 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by 2soxy4mypuppet at 11:54 AM PST - 23 comments
Non-profit job listing websites?
I freelance and a long-term contract with a client is coming to an end. I'd really like to replace this client by doing some work with a non-profit. Of course, there are a a couple of (hopefully surmountable) specifics inside. [more inside]
Stepping around marketing markups?
I've noticed that mineral oil marketed to those who will use the oil on butcher blocks is much more expensive than food grade mineral oil that is marketed to those who will use the oil as a laxative. I buy the cheaper version, thank you very much. Are there other items out there where one can save a buck or two by purchasing the more cheaply marketed version of an item?
posted by starkraven at 11:37 AM PST - 58 comments
posted by starkraven at 11:37 AM PST - 58 comments
Help me win free stuff
I'm not greedy... really... just looking for a sporting chance at some gratis gear. My fiancee recently won some sweet accessories from a wedding website, and it made me think that there may be other untapped goldmines of online giveaways out there, if one is willing to suffer a few extra spam emails a day. [more inside]
posted by Prevailing Southwest at 11:37 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Prevailing Southwest at 11:37 AM PST - 9 comments
Uncomfortable shallow tear in skin; how to prevent?
I keep getting a small, shallow tear at the top of my butt. How can I prevent it from reoccurring? [more inside]
Will Visa cover my rental car collision waiver?
Will Visa cover my rental car collision damage waiver even if it is my wife's card and the rental car is in my name? What is the best way around paying the rental company $20/day for damage waiver but still be covered? Any experience getting Visa to cover damage to rental car? [more inside]
How did recording artists achieve the lush, lounge-y 1950s sound?
Enlighten me on instrumental and recording techniques of the 1950s. [more inside]
Anonymous Creepy Letter
My wife received an anonymous creepy letter from someone out of state. [more inside]
Pimp my office PC, nonprofit style
Your job requires you to do multimedia work from time to time but gives you only a standard Windows install with Office and MS Paint to do it with. Installing anything new requires a call to IT. Your nonprofit employer currently has no budget to buy you the software you need. What cheap or free utilities, plug-ins or browser extensions do you install while waiting for the clouds to open and copies of, say, Adobe CS Master Collection and Final Cut Pro to fall from the sky? [more inside]
Help ID song...
What's the song 21 minutes into this podcast?
Cat cord chewing.
I need solutions for a cat that chomps cords.
We have tried:
Bitters spray
Bitters gel
Covering the cords with fabric bias tape then, putting bitters on them.
and
Hiding cords, he still gets to them
He's even chomping think cords, like serge protectors that plug into the wall.
I've seen those cat cord protectors, but all the reviews say they're garbage.
He does this mostly when were not home. Is there an appropriate thing to give a cat to chew on? (like with dogs)
Favorite well-written young adult novels?
Help me find more young adult novels that I'll enjoy. Snowflakey details inside. [more inside]
Things Girls Don't Understand About My Drunk Kitchen
Recommend other Youtube channels/artists, now that Jenna Marbles and My Drunk Kitchen are annoying? [more inside]
Question about password security
With email and website passwords, are successful "brute force" attacks still common, where an automated bot tries thousands and thousands of passwords on the same user account until one works? [more inside]
posted by pete_22 at 10:27 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by pete_22 at 10:27 AM PST - 17 comments
Oh website, why U no work with IE 9.0!?
Why do certain features of a website work with current versions of firefox and earlier versions of Internet Explorer (7.0 and earlier) but not IE 9.0? Details and screenshots and much... [more inside]
posted by de void at 10:26 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by de void at 10:26 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me redirect my WOW addiction to something useful. Like Guild Wars.
I'm a recovering WOW addict. I'm bored with WOW, but I also miss it. Could Guild Wars 2 be my next big addiction? [more inside]
I want to learn about the birth of dystopias, fictional and real
I'm looking for books, stories, films, documentaries, articles about the birth of dystopic societies. Examples could be a prequel to the Hunger Games (how did this fictional world come to be?), an article about people's lives in a nation where democracy was overthrown, stories about how Jews and non-Jews reacted to the early days of Hitler's rise, explorations of the slow realization that an ostensibly democratic nation is now really run by a strongman or single powerful party. [more inside]
Los Angeles: Top-level functional movement coach/postural alignment/etc?
Visiting Los Angeles at month's end, seeking a pro to troubleshoot knee problems. [more inside]
Please help me know how much I'm worth!
I need to know how much to charge a non-profit organization to set up and maintain a DB, having never done it before....and I need to give an amount before tonight! :-/ [more inside]
posted by la petite marie at 9:58 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by la petite marie at 9:58 AM PST - 7 comments
Is it the stylus or the screen?
I got myself a Lenovo tablet on super sale for Christmas. I'm interested in using it to read and annotate pdf files (mainly journal articles). The pdf reader app I'm using has the ability for freehand writing, and I'd like to try that out for margin notes (some of the papers are technical with lots of symbols, so writing is easier than typing). I bought a stylus that had pretty good reviews on Amazon, but I have to push down to make it work which is ok for highlighting, but tiring for writing. Is this a limitation of this tablet's screen? Or is there a stylus that is easier to use? [more inside]
Do I need to refrigerate douchi?
Do Chinese fermented black beans (douchi) need to be refrigerated after you open the package? I bought a half-pound cellophane package of them recently, but of course I only used a few of them when I made a recipe with them last night. Various websites seem to differ on whether or not they need to be refrigerated or whether an airtight container on a shelf will suffice; the package said nothing about storage, one way or the other. I'm generally short on fridge space, so if I can safely avoid refrigerating them, that'd be preferable. Does anybody have experience with this?
posted by Johnny Assay at 9:52 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Johnny Assay at 9:52 AM PST - 5 comments
Japanese Name Pronounciation
I'm giving a talk tomorrow where I will be covering the work of typographer Eiichi Kono. So my question is pretty simple: how does one best pronounce his name?
posted by garius at 9:07 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by garius at 9:07 AM PST - 7 comments
Cool things to do with my virtual machine?
I've just signed up for a virtual server, and I'm looking for ideas of fun things to use it for. [more inside]
Flash AS3 - Inaccessible Method
Why is this method inaccessible?
My document class (Main) has a public function setButtonStates(). I have a custom class that extends MovieClip that needs to access that function. There are 5 instances of this class on the stage at compile-time (and they are never removed) but the compiler isn't happy. It says "1195 Attempted access of inaccessible method setButtonStates through a reference with static type Main". [more inside]
posted by missmagenta at 8:49 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by missmagenta at 8:49 AM PST - 12 comments
Spinning, exploding Excel-driven web app: How or should it be?
Sometimes, I am a front-end web developer. Frequently, I meet new people at work who want to turn really complicated Excel documents into dazzlingly interactive web applications.
Besides Excel's "Save to Web App" or "Save to SharePoint" features, such people ask if I can tap into an industry to support this -- perhaps scads of agencies and web-based or downloadable tools that make "websites" or at least customizable, interactive reports from Excel spreadsheets, data, and calculations.
I'm yet to find this an abundance of examples of this. Are there? If so, what do you call them? [more inside]
posted by metajc at 8:45 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by metajc at 8:45 AM PST - 2 comments
Why won't Spanish keyboard produce "at sign"?
We have a Spanish keyboard where "@" is on the Q and AltGr is present. I'm on a Win7 machine with Office 2007. I can't type "@" using AltGr+Q, right ctrl+AltGr+Q, shift+AltGr+Q, or right ctrl+shift+AltGr+Q. Please help me figure this out! [more inside]
Toooo maaany booooks
How do you decide what books to read? Recommendations? Reviews? Go to the bookstore and read a chapter? I often find myself overwhelmed with the zillions of choices. How do you narrow it down?
posted by SampleSize at 8:01 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by SampleSize at 8:01 AM PST - 40 comments
I need a quiet place in mid-town NYC to have a phone interview.
I got the interview! But I don't have a private area at my current job to take the phone call. Can anyone recommend somewhere within a 10-minute walk from 39th Street at 8th Ave where I could count on quiet and good cell phone reception? I'd be willing to pay for it if I have to, though not what a Times Square hotel room would cost.
posted by feistycakes at 8:00 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by feistycakes at 8:00 AM PST - 7 comments
How do I interior design on the cheap
I want to learn how to furnish and decorate my apartment on a budget. What blogs should I look at? I already know about Apartment Therapy. [more inside]
Need help finding specific suggestive art print
Random Art Filter: What is this painting of two women and a tiger? [more inside]
Looking for some awesome Tumblrs
Looking for some awesome, personal Tumblrs that are fun to read [more inside]
Hoping to make my hdd time travel forward
I moved an SSD to a new system. Now I can't access files on the old hdd that were created during the time the SSD was a part of that old system. Can they be brought back to life? [more inside]
posted by peacay at 6:55 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by peacay at 6:55 AM PST - 15 comments
I can't find a great article I read online about Prince.
Some time ago - it was several years ago - I read an article online about Prince. It was a piece written by a person (a man, I'm pretty sure) who - I think - was trying to make a film or documentary about him. [more inside]
posted by Hartham's Hugging Robots at 6:39 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Hartham's Hugging Robots at 6:39 AM PST - 5 comments
Riding glasses for cyclist - what are the options?
I wear glasses and when I ride my bike the wind whips and eddies around them and makes my eyes water, so I end up riding with tears streaming down my face. [more inside]
Documentaries and other films about writers, libraries and books wanted!
I'm especially interested in films about writers of color and writers from the global south. Any kind of film is fine - need not be a documentary. But a progressive/radical/critical outlook is appreciated! Particularly looking for films that will appeal to an intelligent but not super-theorized audience - ie, that documentary about Derrida is not what we're looking for, and even the recent one about Zizek is an edge case. [more inside]
Maitake mushrooms turning unpleasantly bitter?
I made a pilaf with young hen-of-the-woods/maitake mushrooms on Monday night. It was delicious. This morning I nuked some leftovers for breakfast (it's been refrigerated for the past 36 hrs), and the mushroom pieces are now shockingly bitter. What happened? [more inside]
posted by Westringia F. at 6:27 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Westringia F. at 6:27 AM PST - 9 comments
Best/preferred exercise in 30 minutes
It you only had 30 minutes maximum a day (5-6 days per week) to exercise, what would it be? [more inside]
How do you get your photo to look like this?
I like the look some photos have of only one spot being in focus and the edge areas being a bit out of focus like the one of the iron in this collage:
http://www.funkyjunkinteriors.net/
How do I get it? How fancy of a camera do I need? Thanks!
No, my availability is NOT flexible.
I need a job on Tuesdays and Wednesdays only. What's the best way to approach my job search? [more inside]
posted by Perodicticus potto at 5:16 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by Perodicticus potto at 5:16 AM PST - 21 comments
Happiness as a choice for the clinically depressed?
I've been constantly told that key to being okay again is to "choose one's happiness" - both by strangers on the internet and the very closest people in my life. I've been diagnosed with mild-to-severe depression and anxiety for three years now (there is a bit more to that, though). Since most of the before-mentioned friends (etc) wanted me to stop taking antidepressants, I am without them for now. So, since everything I found by sending my queries to Google was meant for "normal people" who are "feeling a bit depressed", I would be grateful to know how these approaches apply to those with actual mental health issues, if they do at all. [more inside]
posted by 9080 at 3:28 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by 9080 at 3:28 AM PST - 36 comments
I'm looking for some good books/resources on board game design
I'm thinking more involved, euro style board games. I'm curious to read more about designing mechanics, balancing, etc. Are there any good books (or manifestos online) on this?
Help me beat the post-graduation blues...
Lots of life changes: graduated from college, different relationship, became a freelancer all in the last year. Feeling aimless, nostalgic, and in need of some perspective. [more inside]
January 8
Cold War - U.S. invades Russia
Did the United States ever have a plan to invade Russia or any part of the Soviet Union? [more inside]
posted by mousepad at 10:36 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by mousepad at 10:36 PM PST - 23 comments
What are some good, non-battery-draining iPhone/iPod Touch games?
I'll be on three flights in the next 11 days, and although I'd like to sleep through every flight, I doubt that'll happen. I have an iPhone 4 and a 3rd-gen iPod Touch at my disposal, so I'd like to throw some new, non-battery-killing games on them before I go. [more inside]
posted by rachaelfaith at 9:15 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by rachaelfaith at 9:15 PM PST - 14 comments
Should I end this relationship?
So I've known this guy for 3 months and have been dating him for almost 2 months. We jumped into an official relationship pretty quickly and now I'm having second thoughts. Please advice on if you think I should continue the relationship or end things now? [more inside]
posted by CheeseAndRice at 7:59 PM PST - 49 comments
posted by CheeseAndRice at 7:59 PM PST - 49 comments
How do you stay sane on two weeks of vacation a year?
I just accepted my first real job offer! I'm excited, but kind of freaking out about adjusting to a traditional working lifestyle. [more inside]
Perspective drawing calculation
If I want to draw something in one-point perspective, say, like a set of railroad tracks where the vanishing point is on the horizon, and the tracks are represented on the picture plane by an equilateral triangle (they appear that way to the viewer), the apex of the triangle being the vanishing point on the horizon and the base of the triangle is where the tracks meet the picture plane, how do I calculate where the railroad ties would be? (Given that in 3D they are evenly spaced. Also, I'm not really concerned with the thickness of the ties -- we can consider the ties to simply be horizontal lines.) [more inside]
posted by strangeguitars at 7:31 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by strangeguitars at 7:31 PM PST - 5 comments
Help me not hate trouser socks quite so much.
I hate dress socks. They are itchy, I don't like touching them (or them touching my feet), and they seem needlessly expensive. I really like cotton socks - until now, I have mostly worn the gold toe black socks, which are long-wearing, cheap to buy in bulk, and incredibly comfortable. However, I was noticing at a meeting today that they looked thick and lumpy with my nice loafers. Can you help me look a little more professional at work while staying comfortable? I want to buy a bunch of identical, decently-priced, simple black dress socks that will feel like cotton on my hand and on my feet. The ones made by gold toe get horrible reviews so I am not considering them. I'm a girl with size 7.5 feet, but I'm happy to wear men's socks (size 5.5 US) or unisex socks, whatever is comfortable. Thanks!
How can I effectively manage project tasks?
I'm a senior software developer who has been working as a project manager/project design lead for the past year. Essentially, my role is to manage the tasks involved in developing web applications. What can I do to become more effective? Are there any books on the subject? Help me improve! [more inside]
posted by MMALR at 6:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by MMALR at 6:42 PM PST - 4 comments
How to cold-contact editors of local (or national) publications?
Cold-contacting editors and publishers in Austin and elsewhere: I want to return to freelancing after several years away from the field. Problem is, my previous freelance jobs all came from lucky, completely random meetings with editors and networking based on that luck, in another city. Please help me strategize so I can make a good impression on editors I haven't met in person! [more inside]
How can an obese person get in shape for basketball?
So I'm obese, I use to play basketball in high school (I fluctuated from slightly overweight to normal weight in high school), but because of depression and anxiety, I ate my feeling and I have gotten obese. Now I'm in grad school, and on the track to losing weight, and I want to play intramural basketball. I play pickup games sometimes with some classmates and other people at the gym, but I'm so out of shape, I end up walking a lot of the game... I wasn't sure if I wanted to play intramural because I'm so out of shape it's frustrating/embarrassing not to be able to do what I use to in high school... but I decided that the only way I can get close to how I played in high school, is actually to play more. I've been doing Power 90 for the last 2 weeks, and it's helped a bit with getting me in basketball shape, but since it's not geared to get you into basketball shape, it won't get me where I want to be. Any suggestions? TIA
How do I make my dream website a reality?
So I have this idea for a website, whoop de doo. I was really excited about it, but the prospect of execution is already wearing on me, and I haven't even done anything! Where do I start? [more inside]
Magicscan scanner software installation help?
Anyone know why my installation process fails at the very end? [more inside]
So Sick of Being Sick
Any thoughts on whether this is viral/something you've heard of going around, or whether it might be time to find a new doctor soon? [more inside]
posted by rollbiz at 4:59 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by rollbiz at 4:59 PM PST - 32 comments
Thunderbolt for windows?
How do I get my windows box to work with my Thunderbolt display? I'm trying to get rid of an extra monitor. I'm willing to invest in a new motherboard and/or video card. Has anyone done it?
How can I fix/prevent damp car interior?
It's a 1999 Honda Civic Hatchback. Apparently cars of this type and age have a tendency to develop a leak around the tail lights. This leak was fixed recently but the car either hasn't dried out from that yet or is damp *again.* The windows are perpetually fogged up and often need towelling and the seats (fabric) are suspiciously cool. How to dry it out and keep it that way? Thank you!
Two Shell stations across the street from each other. Why?
In my town, there's a Shell station on one corner of the intersection. On another corner of the same intersection, another Shell. There're also two Woolworths right across the street from each other, and two Pizza Huts. Why? Does anyone out there have any idea? I mean, any ACTUAL idea, not just supposition? Maybe someone who works in marketing, or urban planning? Also, are there any resources I could read that explain these kinds of business decisions? I've looked online and can't find any information. Thanks very much.
What do you wish you'd brought to the hospital when labor started?
My wife and I have our hospital bags packed, ready to take with us when we're heading to the hospital to have the baby. We've got the various odds and ends like a change of clothes, toiletries, chapstick, devices & chargers, camera, etc. If you've done this before, what do you wish you'd brought (or what did you make sure you brought the second time)?
What bugs are these on my raspberries and how do I get rid of them?
These little moth-like things are ALL OVER my raspberry plants. I am in Canberra, Australia. They just arrived, so I don't know what damage they are going to do (yet). How screwed am I and how do I get rid of them? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 4:04 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by lollusc at 4:04 PM PST - 10 comments
Recipe for Vietnamese soy chunks?
I really like the Vietnamese flavors of the soy chunks they use in vegetarian banh mi (at places like Baoguette in NYC). Anyone have a good recipe for them?
How much contact is appropriate after a break-up?
I broke up with my then-fiancée in September 2012. What is the appropriate amount of contact after a break-up? I've struggled with finding a good balance. Give me some advice for the next go-round. [more inside]
posted by mellosphere at 3:09 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by mellosphere at 3:09 PM PST - 32 comments
Will they let her on the plane?
I was just going over our flight info-my husband and I and our two adult daughters are flying out to Texas to my son's wedding. I just noticed that our travel agent used my younger daughter's maiden name instead of her married name (she is separated but not divorced.) The travel agent is calling me back in a bit but how screwed are we? [more inside]
posted by St. Alia of the Bunnies at 3:04 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by St. Alia of the Bunnies at 3:04 PM PST - 30 comments
How do I write a blog that's professional and personal?
I work in communications and would like to start a blog that I could link to from Twitter and LinkedIn. But I'd also like to write about my personal life. How do I thread this needle? [more inside]
Where do grown-ups go on a summer vacation?
In celebration of our tenth anniversary, my husband and I would like to take a real, child-free, not-tacked-on-to-work-travel, vacation. Please, tell us where to go. [more inside]
posted by rebeccabeagle at 1:23 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by rebeccabeagle at 1:23 PM PST - 35 comments
Recommendation for a guided tour in Beijing?
I have a free day in Beijing in March and am looking for recommendations for a guided tour. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by handful of rain at 12:59 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by handful of rain at 12:59 PM PST - 4 comments
I need a new vacuum.
I need a slim battery vacuum that is great on floors AND carpet. [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 12:53 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Thrillhouse at 12:53 PM PST - 3 comments
You ordered the cupcakes, right? Right?
For our son's 2nd birthday party, my wife ordered cupcakes from a bakery online for delivery to our son's daycare but they didn't show up. My wife was crushed and was understandably angry at the bakery, especially since she said she had paid for the cupcakes. But when I tried the online ordering form, there was no place to input any payment information. However, after submitting the form the company says it would get in contact for confirmation and payment information. It looks like the company didn't follow up with my wife, but also that my wife didn't follow up with the company. Is someone clearly at fault? How should I handle both my wife and the company? [more inside]
from whence the look of music videos from the late nineties?
Many music videos from the late nineties, six underground by the sneaker pimps being the most salient example to me, have a distinctive cinematographic feel and style to them, with very high contrast (super dark blacks and popping-out, almost oversaturated whites); a lot of murky brown/green and pops of red/blue. Does this style have a name? Is it a film effect or some kind of post-processing, or both? digital? Why was it so prevalent in the late-nineties, and, correct me if I am mistaken, mostly just for music videos? [more inside]
Simple home workout routine?
I'm adding dumbells to my elliptical and I'm looking for a reasonable home workout routine that I can use as a guideline. [more inside]
posted by WinnipegDragon at 11:27 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by WinnipegDragon at 11:27 AM PST - 14 comments
What do you do exactly?
We are planning on getting our little .34 of an acre property surveyed & the boundaries staked. We are in an older neighborhood with basic lots & homes. I plan to do my due diligence and find a good surveyor at a reasonable price. What should I be asking and what should I be weary of when I call around? Also, how exactly do I find who to call? Is there a registry? Are surveyors licensed? I have already checked with the county- there are no existing surveys for our property other than the original 1950 plat map. Obviously I have no clue what I'm doing, but want to sound like I have a at least a little insight when I start getting quotes. Tips & tricks appreciated.
How do I shop long distance for a Colorado based lawyer?
I've got a potential, medical malpractice law suit regarding a now deceased sibling who lived in Breckenridge, CO, but need to find a solid lawyer from where I reside in Portland, OR. Any suggestions?
Quickly Binding Someone's Wrists For Sexytime?
My wife wants to engage in a roleplay scene where she enters a dark room and is overpowered and restrained. I'm game, but I need a little logistical help. [more inside]
Are these beans suitable for canning?
I have a recipe for cold beans soaked in oil and vinegar that I make all the time. Could I can these beans, so that I don't have to prepare them every day? [more inside]
posted by k8lin at 10:58 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by k8lin at 10:58 AM PST - 10 comments
Unbalanced swinging arms
When I walk, my left arm swings while my right arm stays almost immobile. Is there something wrong with me? [more inside]
How can I get access to readyState 3 with VBA "AJAX"?
I'm writing some VBA code (in Excel) which uses a reference to
posted by jozxyqk at 10:35 AM PST - 10 comments
Microsoft XML, v6.0, and creates a MSXML2.XMLHTTP object.
I used the clsXMLHttpMonitor example from this page as a starting-off point.
How can I access the response text when readyState = 3? [more inside]posted by jozxyqk at 10:35 AM PST - 10 comments
Mail-order pralines
Can anyone recommend a mail-order source for New Orleans pralines? [more inside]
Tips and Tricks for playing concerts?
I have a big important concert that I'm playing coming up sort of soon. I'm not even sure what to ask... but here goes. [more inside]
Perfect pedometer?
Pedometer recommendation: is there an open source alternative to Fitbit? Or should I go back to a cheap Omron? [more inside]
posted by kristi at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by kristi at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
I don't even know what a broker fee is...
My husband got a new job in NYC! I know nothing about the city, and will have only 1 day to look at apartments. Where should we focus our search? [more inside]
What are some specifically American foods (less perishable is better)?
I have a Hungarian friend with whom I exchange a large gift box every year at Christmas. She's moving to Australia to study this March, and so I want to send her a little extra care package when she moves, as I know it will be a hard relocation. In the past, I've sent her mostly non-edible goods (except for coconut M&Ms, which she loves, and Tabasco, sambal olec and Sriracha, as she hadn't tried them and we both love spicy foods). She has sent me a wealth of specifically Hungarian treats, including Erős Pista (a Hungarian spicy paste), poppy and nut cakes, Hungarian chocolates and jams, and even lozenges. I'd love to send her some typically American treats in my next box, but I can't think of what they might be!
Thanks! [more inside]
posted by mccn at 9:48 AM PST - 57 comments
posted by mccn at 9:48 AM PST - 57 comments
Help my friend get an Extrauterine pregnancy abortion in China? IKYANMD
Help my friend get an Extrauterine pregnancy abortion in China? IKYANMD [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 9:21 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 9:21 AM PST - 39 comments
Recommendations for user research facilities in New York City?
I'm trying to organize a user research project to be based on NYC and am finding it difficult to find a good facility/lab for this. Any suggestions or pointers to an online resource with a list? I saw a list on Greenbook but it was very short and only a few responded to me. [more inside]
How to divide a div into two triangles with Javascript?
Javascript question: I have a rectangular div. Imagine that div is divided from one corner to the other to make two right triangles. I would like to, on hover, have Javascript tell me which triangle my mouse is over. But my trigonometry powers are failing me, and Google is coming up short. Hope me, admin!
posted by eustacescrubb at 8:40 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by eustacescrubb at 8:40 AM PST - 6 comments
Missed 1099 form. How much trouble could I get in?
Missed 1099 form. How much trouble could I get in? (You are not my tax lawyer. Understood but seeking advice) [more inside]
What are some important life-things to memorize?
Recently, I was asked for my husband's SSN (no idea) and my license plate number (usually I know this, but it's newly registered so again, no idea). I got funny looks when I didn't know these things, which made me wonder-- what other similar information should I memorize or otherwise have readily at hand? [more inside]
How to safeguard my ring during weight loss
Losing weight (over 225 to under 210) and I'd like to lose more. I already feel my wedding ring is loose. I don't want to lose it. I don't want to get it adjusted at a jeweler.
1. I don't really trust our local jeweler.
2. Looking more for a reversible option.
The ideal answer would involve something like, "here's where you buy this great gadget that fits over your ring and it comes in various sizes.
Thanks for your time.
Outgoing phone call protocol - how does it work?
When you make a call to a service or business, say, you're calling because you have a problem or require a service -- what do /you/ say? [more inside]
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 7:12 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 7:12 AM PST - 32 comments
How to recover from a house fire.
My in-laws' house burned down last night. What do they need right now? [more inside]
Why are some backpacks smaller, but hold more liters?
Why are some backpacks smaller, but hold more liters? [more inside]
posted by deern the headlice at 6:49 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by deern the headlice at 6:49 AM PST - 16 comments
Seattle Therapist that specializes in health anxiety and anger?
I've been dealing with terrible health anxiety for several years, coupled with being incredibly short and angry with my wife when in the midst of a panic attack or uncomfortable symptoms. My wife is fed up and I need to make this better. NOW. I need recommendations for therapists that take Premera and any other ideas people have for dealing with this. [more inside]
Better to quit my job or get fired? Restaurant edition.
I'm afraid I might be fired soon, but want to stay in the restaurant industry. [more inside]
Map The Trail For A Newish Hiker
So a week on the trails in Moab has renewed my interest in hiking. Help me keep it up here in New York instead - I need to know where to go and what to bring. [more inside]
What is this key change?
In More Than a Feeling, the chorus, a simple I IV iv V (G C e D), finished off with an Eb chord - totally not in the key - and then transitioning to em7. What is this transition to Eb, which is not at all part of the key of G, called?
posted by plinth at 6:39 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by plinth at 6:39 AM PST - 11 comments
Ex-pat assignment in Malaysia
I have just accepted an ex-pat assignment to Malaysia, specifically Malacca. I have a variety of questions, some specific to my family situation: my wife is three months pregnant and we have a toddler. See inside for details. Thanks! [more inside]
posted by John Frum at 6:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by John Frum at 6:27 AM PST - 7 comments
TV Filter: 80s/90s show that had a book with an eye in the intro?
I am wracking my brain! Does anyone remember a TV show from the 80s/90s that had a book with an eye that opened and closed at the end of each episode?? Its a faint memory, but any help would be appreciated!
My skin is revolting. Help me lead the charge against this mutiny!
My newly 30 year old skin is acting like it wants to ruin my life. And my boobs are my skin's accomplice, apparently. What is happening with my hormones? [more inside]
Sony PSP screen replacement in London?
The screen on my Sony PSP (2000 edition, not Vita) has stopped working and needs replacing. Can anyone recommend a reputable repair shop somewhere in London that will do this? [more inside]
I'd like to give something to my cat sitter in a horrible situation.
My cat has died, which was horrible. Worse, I wasn't even home. I'd like to send my cat sitter something. [more inside]
posted by AmandaA at 4:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by AmandaA at 4:34 AM PST - 9 comments
How do you become an explosive/drug dog handler?
Specifically, what career progression do these folks usually follow? What training, schooling, and preparation is required to progress in this field? What is the entry-level job for this career path?
Funding for photography exhibition in London or New York?
I'm an established photographer with a large body of work in travel and performance/event, with a niche in circus arts. I've exhibited in the past, and I'm looking for resources on funding/grants to put on an exhibition in either New York or London. [more inside]
posted by felspar at 1:24 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by felspar at 1:24 AM PST - 5 comments
Why are PCs pulling IPs from the wrong router? (Diagram included)
We have two offices, front (sales) and back (paperwork) and we have our "main" router in the front, which serves the front desk computers, and then from the router we have run Ethernet to the back office into a hub which then serves a bunch of PCs, a printer, and, we would like, a Wi-Fi router (or rather a router with Wi-Fi). The purpose of the Wi-Fi router connected to the hub is only to allow Wi-Fi devices access to the network. Unfortunately, for some reason, when the router is connected to the hub, all the other PCs also connected to the hub pull their IPs from the Wi-Fi router's DHCP / use it as gateway instead of the "main router" in the front office. Why is this? [more inside]
posted by Unhyper at 1:06 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Unhyper at 1:06 AM PST - 8 comments
Please help me stay asleep before I go insane.
I am an incredibly light and difficult sleeper, but only sometimes. Other times I sleep like a rock. This happens regardless of tiredness level. How do I keep from getting into vicious cycles where everything wakes me up? [more inside]
January 7
Replace the motion of my Pop-pop's pocketwatch
So I have my father's father's retirement pocketwatch. My father gave it to me almost twenty years ago and it has never worked. Recently I pulled it out of the china cabinet and tried to fix it myself following some youtube tutorials. Unfortunately I forgot that I am clumsy and bad at not losing small things. Long story slightly longer, I lost/broke a couple pieces. At that point I took it to a jeweler/watchmaker and he could not fix my mistake. Now I'm wondering if I can just replace the entire internal mechanism of the watch while keeping the part that has my Grandpa's name on it. I'm having no luck finding anything online. [more inside]
posted by runcibleshaw at 10:43 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by runcibleshaw at 10:43 PM PST - 6 comments
Disclose sibling graduate school attendance?
My sibling is at the same graduate school to which I'm applying (she PhD, me Master's for now). The application asks how I learned about the program. Mention the family connection? [more inside]
What is the best way to get consistent angles in product photography?
"I'm shooting a large amount of products on a white background for an electronics company, and they are wanting every item to be shot solo at the exact same angle/degree, to be composited seamlessly at a later time in various group shots. [more inside]
posted by theperfectcrime at 8:30 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by theperfectcrime at 8:30 PM PST - 7 comments
Where should I go once I leave Discworld?
I'm almost done with the Discworld novels by Terry Pratchett. They've been perfect companions for the past nine months or so, and I need something to take their place. What series, with wit and a world to get lost in, should I read next?
Great first-day things for a new employee?
I'm officially a supervisor. My first-ever subordinate starts tomorrow. What are some of the best things that great bosses have done or said on your first day? Specifics inside. [more inside]
Why does this phone need more cowb3ll?
Does anyone know what is going on with the text messages shown in this image? Mrs. fireoyster's iPhone keeps getting these texts, starting about a month ago, from a number that none of us knows. They started out once every few days and are now up to two or three per day, usually eight to twelve hours apart. The string "DT" always begins each text and the string "-cowb3ll" always ends each text. Searching on the Internet has yielded no results. She does use iMessage and it functions properly. Her current number was ported from my account on Twilio; could this have something to do with it?
Exclusive Spaces Primer
I want to know more about the theory and practice of exclusive spaces for groups perceived as oppressed or subaltern, as in exclusively gay spaces, exclusively racialized spaces, trans only spaces, women only spaces, etc. [more inside]
Transgender reading list
Which books and articles are the most important for understanding transgender issues?
How to safely resell a barely used netbook?
I bought a netbook a couple of years ago and have probably used it a total of eight times since. I just resold it on Amazon and am now preparing to ship it off. I understand that under normal circumstances it's advisable to wipe the hard disc and then reinstall the operating system. My netbook has no CD drive and therefore no operating system CD. I'm told the operating system may be embedded in another disc but I don't have the savvy or patience to figure it out. [more inside]
What's this bit of Miami going to be like?
North Miami filter: In a short while I will find myself at short notice staying in a hotel in North Miami, on Biscayne Boulevard near 123rd Street. I will have a car. What kind of area have I ended up in, is there anything I should see nearby in the evening, and most importantly: is there anywhere nearby for a really good breakfast?
Sydney to LA/Chicago with a layover in... China or Korea?
Why do all (or at least, the vast majority) of flights between Sydney and the U.S. this July/August have layovers in China or Korea? How can I best go about finding a budget ticket that takes a more direct route? [more inside]
posted by jrobin276 at 5:52 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by jrobin276 at 5:52 PM PST - 17 comments
Writings on novel given names
I'm looking for writings on modern given names, name lists and/or theories on why so many parents feel compelled to give children unusually spelled variants or completely invented names instead of names from the common stock, so to speak. [more inside]
Should we invite this jerk to our wedding?
Our maid of honor slept with a friend and he treated her badly. He is now in a serious relationship with another old friend. Can we invite her and not him without hurting the friendship? [more inside]
Bear spray for home protection?
Can I keep bear deterrent pepper spray as protection against (human) home intruders? [more inside]
posted by domnit at 5:09 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by domnit at 5:09 PM PST - 11 comments
How do you get over perfectionism?
How do you get over perfectionism? [more inside]
How am I getting better?
I had a stroke the beginning of November. It was a ischemic stroke in my Pons, part of my brainstem, and afterwards I had poor control over the left side of my body. I know what happened, and why; I don't need that explained. What I don't understand is how I have improved so much. [more inside]
iPad sleeve that will work with an attached keyboard
I am looking to get my Mom and iPad sleeve or carrier, to protect it from kicks, drops, scratches and whatnot while it is in her purse. There seem to be about a zillion of these around, in so many styles that my head spins, but I think what I want is along the lines of this. The problem is it also needs to fit a Logitech Ultra Thin Keyboard Cover as well as the iPad, and I can't read that from the specs page. Does anyone have experience using a similar Bluetooth keyboard/cover with a sleeve and can recommend one that works? I'd like something small, and not aesthetically unpleasing, because Mom is going to be much more concerned about if it is light and looks nice then if she can throw it off a building. That said, I am buying it to protect the iPad. [more inside]
Getting hired as an adjunct after a break?
I have written a ton of cover letters applying to tenure track jobs, but every adjunct class I ever taught I obtained through referrals and word of mouth. I now find myself wanting to ONLY adjunct after an extended break, and have no idea how to write an inquiry letter. And I know just the folks to ask. . . [more inside]
Naturalistic Post-Apocalypse Worldbuilding
What elements are needed to write a frighteningly plausible post-apocalyptic story? [more inside]
posted by Doleful Creature at 4:25 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Doleful Creature at 4:25 PM PST - 24 comments
PhotoS[hel]p! Question on inserting an animation into an animation
Hey all!
I can use any program/format, but it is in .PSD, CS5 now. Question:
I have 2 animations, both 30 frames, how can we insert the second animation, into the first and have both play, and be able to move each individual movie (across all frames) into place? Thanks everyone, and a bit more detail below :) [more inside]
Remove my knob!
I'm trying to replace my exterior locking door knob, but I cannot get one 'half' off. There is a faceplate covering the screws on one side (the other side). I've tried looking for slots and notches based on google searching, but there is nothing, except some indentations that have no holes or anything that gives. I've used this hook-type item that comes with the new lock, but no idea how it works.
Here's as good as pic I can get. It's a Weiser lock from late 90s probably.
posted by sandmanwv at 3:39 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 3:39 PM PST - 7 comments
Do changes in US tax law make permanent life insurance attractive?
Do the new US investment taxes and increasing rates on dividends and capital gains make permanent life insurance attractive for high income individuals? [more inside]
seeking weird, wild & wonderful
What are some quirky and/or beautiful destinations within a 2 or 3 hour drive of San Diego? [more inside]
Erasing the Eternal Rug Crease
So, the good news is that the beautiful Turkish area rug I bought in Turkey arrived safe and sound about three months ago. But it was neatly folded in half longways before it was rolled, and the center crease is still there, after plenty of walking on, vacuuming, and straightening of the rug. How do I get rid of the crease?
posted by bearwife at 2:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by bearwife at 2:45 PM PST - 3 comments
Fired. Helped me get hired again.
How do I talk about being fired in future job interviews? Advice and encouragement needed. [more inside]
How to make Google Reader search return complete results?
I subscribe to a lot of feeds via Google Reader. Whenever I use the search function, I get incomplete results, even if I narrow the search to only starred items, for example. How can I get Reader to show all items that match my search? I use Windows and Firefox.
What's the etiquette on having friends visit when you're coughing?
Social-Awkwardness filter: I'm a formerly shy person who's recently been getting out there and making friends. I've been sick for the past week. A few people have asked to come over/hang out despite this. I want to know what the etiquette is when you have a persistent cough that borders on retching. Do the people who try to hang out anyway really not care or are they just being polite? Am I going to alienate people by rejecting their multiple attempts to see me? I don't understand why they wouldn't just end up being disgusted by me constantly coughing and sneezing and blowing my nose and being a sick person. [more inside]
posted by Pericardium at 2:20 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Pericardium at 2:20 PM PST - 27 comments
Best questions to pose to the interviewers in a programming interview?
What are some really good questions to pose to the interviewers at the end of a programming interview? I'm looking for ones that make the interviewers feel good about you (great question!) but ALSO make them feel good about their organization - so that everything ends on a happy note. [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 2:19 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by kitcat at 2:19 PM PST - 14 comments
Are there any two-letter acronyms that are pronounced as words?
I'm looking for any examples of two-letter acronyms that are pronounced as words in English (IT wouldn't count because it is pronounced as two individual letters). Due to the fact that the word "acronym" is widely used to refer to any abbreviation based on initial letters this seems to be quite difficult to search for. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by tomcooke at 2:15 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by tomcooke at 2:15 PM PST - 28 comments
Would a time-traveling Plato be understood in today's Greece?
What languages have seen minimal linguistic drift over the last few centuries, or even millennia? Which ones have changed dramatically? I'm also hoping for accessible, layman's answers rather than deeply technical resources. Help? [more inside]
posted by scaryblackdeath at 2:04 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by scaryblackdeath at 2:04 PM PST - 23 comments
How to survive the death of father and a divorce?
My dad died a few days before Thanksgiving and my wife just left me (2 days after my birthday) and wants a divorce. Best survival tips? [more inside]
Why don't some people speak up?
What is a word to describe a person who has a lot worth complaining about, yet doesn’t complain? [more inside]
Can't place an SNL sketch and it is driving me crazy!
My husband and I are driving ourselves insane and I've come back to AskMeFi after a hiatus because only the hive mind can help. [more inside]
posted by Sophie1 at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Sophie1 at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
Best Pedometer App?
I'm looking for an iPhone pedometer app that will count my daily steps. I'd like it to automatically run in the background all the time, so I don't have to remember to open it each day. Any suggestions?
posted by kidsleepy at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by kidsleepy at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
Selling a Chinese Rug
Please help me sell a Chinese rug that I have inherited. [more inside]
posted by Amplify at 1:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Amplify at 1:24 PM PST - 4 comments
Please name this song!
I'm trying to find this song. It is from 3'30" until 4'05". I can't make out the lyrics very well. Maybe 'Turn it up' or 'Turn me on'. I recognise it and it's driving me around the bend. Anyone?
Thanks
posted by ClanvidHorse at 12:47 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ClanvidHorse at 12:47 PM PST - 4 comments
career in communications with communication skills below par?
I love words, people, learning about the human condition. I am an emotional, artistic, warm and fuzzy person on the inside. But my shyness makes me come across as quiet and maybe even a little cold. My people skills probably aren't the best. Can I excel in a people oriented career like teacher or guidance counselor, where my true interests lie? Or does my personality doom me to work in something dry and (to me) boring at a computer? [more inside]
Abortion Payment
My male friend has impregnated his girlfriend - she has set conditions that must be met in order for her to have the abortion. [more inside]
posted by past at 12:07 PM PST - 91 comments
posted by past at 12:07 PM PST - 91 comments
Community bike shop impact studies?
Are there any studies on community bike shop impact studies on adult personal & economic self-sufficiency? [more inside]
Caller ID Spoofing
Is it possible that someone was spoofing my little sister's phone number? [more inside]
I'm the idiot on the phone help line that can't help you
I'm being forced to answer phones at work. I have NO clue and NO ability how to do this and I have to start NOW. How do I make this situation less horrible? [more inside]
Can my landlord charge me for a diagnosis?
Long story short, my dryer was not working no matter what setting I put it in, so I had my property manager send a tech over to look at it. Apparently, it worked just fine when he came over to take a look. My property manager is charging me $50 for the tech on that day. Are they allowed to do this? I don't think it's written anywhere on my contract that they can charge me over a diagnosis. I will take this to small claims court if needs be.
Using Google Voice (or similar) to forward calls and texts
I'm considering porting my personal cell phone to Google Voice so that calls and texts can be forwarded to my newly acquired work cell phone. If you've done this, please see my specific questions/concerns. [more inside]
Doesn't Apple want my business?
Can I really not use an Apple Store gift credit to buy an iTunes card? [more inside]
Planning for telnet on DHCP
I need some help on networking and ip addresses. I'm working on a project that uses a RN-XV Wifly module to connect to a home's wifi network. To use the device you will have a GUI that on the back-end telnets to the Wifly module and sends a serial string of commands. So if the Wifly address is 10.1.0.17, it would send: [more inside]
posted by BeeDo at 11:20 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by BeeDo at 11:20 AM PST - 14 comments
Songs about cops?
For my partner's birthday (happy birthday, dude!) I'd like to make a playlist of songs about cops. Help me make go beyond the obvious. [more inside]
Sanity check: loans and renting vs buying
So I'm looking to move from SF to Seattle (in part to save money) - can I get a loan and buy a place? Would that make sense? [more inside]
posted by alaijmw at 11:01 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by alaijmw at 11:01 AM PST - 13 comments
Looking for a website to plan a sports trip
I'm looking for a website where I could select a date & US city and it would tell me if professional sports teams are playing locally on that date. [more inside]
Where can I find this old pamphlet?
I am looking for a copy of a 1938 pamphlet called "Gratitude" written by Dr. Harry L. James of Chicago. There was a copy on Ebay, but it's sold now. Any chance I could find another copy (or PDF) of this thing? [more inside]
posted by mattbucher at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by mattbucher at 10:50 AM PST - 4 comments
How should a partial PhD be presented on resume when looking for a job?
I’m looking for opinions on how to best represent coursework and research taken toward a PhD on my resume. [more inside]
Simplex Double-Sided Clock Removal
I have (legal) access to a building slated to be demolished and can take whatever I want. Specifically I want to remove a Simplex clock Similar to the one here. [more inside]
posted by a_green_man at 10:20 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by a_green_man at 10:20 AM PST - 7 comments
Five days with a DSLR. What to shoot?
I am renting a DSLR camera for five days. If you were doing this, what would you shoot? [more inside]
posted by cribcage at 10:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by cribcage at 10:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Adobe's Project Rome seems to be no more. Now what do I do?
At work earlier this year I was asked to put together an infographic style chart for a quarterly report. I used Adobe's Project Rome since it was a very easy to use graphic design outfit that could be used free and in-browser. I've been using it each quarter for our reports and I last used it right before the holidays and started a rough draft. But when I went to finish it today the entire Rome program seemed to be completely gone from Adobe's website. Now what? [more inside]
I loaned some money to a person that I shouldn't have...now what?
I realize that YANML but I find myself in a dilemma and I'm not sure how to proceed. [more inside]
What do I need to know about taking my iPhone to another country?
I am going to Hawaii for a couple of weeks in February. I have recently moved from no cell phone to an iPhone 4s. I am Canadian. Basically, I have no idea what I should do about my phone when I go. Smart phones seem like they would be more useful than normal in another country/unfamiliar place, but I certainly don't want to come home to an insane cell phone bill. [more inside]
posted by joelhunt at 9:50 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by joelhunt at 9:50 AM PST - 14 comments
"Dogs' lives are too short... Their only fault, really."
I love my dog. Every once in a while, I feel utterly heartbroken that I will most likely outlive him. While it doesn't happen often and it's not overwhelming, and I realize that it is perfectly natural to be sad about something like that, can you give me advice about how to turn these thoughts into something positive? [more inside]
posted by halogen at 9:24 AM PST - 42 comments
posted by halogen at 9:24 AM PST - 42 comments
Need iOS help. Hope me!
I've used iPhones for five years or so now, but there are a few things that bug me, and I wonder if there is a trick or preference I'm missing or a third-party app I can use or what. No interest in jailbreaking or switching phones. Specific questions inside. [more inside]
Russian female bonding vs. American female bonding
How do Russian female friendships differ from American female friendships? [more inside]
posted by akka at 8:43 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by akka at 8:43 AM PST - 9 comments
Building a new (church) family in Charlotte
My family is nuts. The church I grew up in is nuts. My husband suffers from post-Southern Baptist stress disorder. Help us find a new (liberal) church home! [more inside]
Please help me navigate the world of 0% cards!
I want to transfer some of my credit card debt to a zero percent card. But which card? And how much? And is this really a good idea? [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle at 8:28 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by ablazingsaddle at 8:28 AM PST - 21 comments
Does case closed mean it's over?
Someone that lives with my father was arrested for identity theft in Franklin County, OH and went to court last week. Can anyone help sort out the current status of the case based on the Public Records search? The person involved can't be trusted to provide a reliable account. [more inside]
Which real estate agent to use in a short sale?
Does it matter which real estate agent I use in a short sale? Is legal representation a necessary first step? [more inside]
Books about people starting over
Can you recommend any good books (or films, but I prefer reading) in which a major plot point is the main character dropping out of their own life and starting again in a new location under a new identity? [more inside]
What are the best sites for streaming fitness videos?
What are the best sites for streaming fitness videos? [more inside]
In Search of Career Inspiration
Straightforward question. I have the following ideas about what I would like out of job, but is there actually a career that can tie them all togther? [more inside]
Don't look back! Don't looks back!
I'm a 29 yr old female, married, and have two children. Yet, I am terrified of the dark and being home alone. For as long as I can remember darkness has petrified me and I can't enter a room that's dark, or even look into one. When I'm home alone, no matter the time of day, I get so scared that something is following me, in the house, or about to get me. I jump at every noise and will often just stand in the middle of the room looking back and forth quickly, so nothing can sneak up on me. I'm tired of being so scared and it's hard to comfort a child who's scared when you get just as scared as them. [more inside]
posted by Sweetmag at 7:23 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by Sweetmag at 7:23 AM PST - 35 comments
Advice for chicken coop construction
Can you help me, a complete carpentry novice, build a heated chicken coop? [more inside]
Why is my bathroom so cold?
Am I losing all my heat through a large glass block window? [more inside]
How to buy a new fridge?
We need to get a new refrigerator. So which of the new refrigerator features are worth it? And how bad is bisque color really? [more inside]
posted by smackfu at 6:28 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by smackfu at 6:28 AM PST - 29 comments
WHY WON'T MY JUNK WORK
I desperately need help resuscitating my sex drive. Embarrassing, painful wall of text inside. [more inside]
Seaching for a specific poem on American culture
I'm searching for a poem.
I can hardly remember any of it. It begins with digging at a foundation or excavating a basement, and it becomes a well written criticism of American culture/politics. Something about slaves or slavery is discovered from the digging.
Help?
posted by Atticus Swanson at 5:22 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Atticus Swanson at 5:22 AM PST - 1 comment
My bazaar doesn't need your cathedral
Help me understand the essence of The Cathedral and the Bazaar in order to apply the understanding to an entirely different scenario where there is a struggle between top down and bottom up design. I have no programming knowledge after BASIC on DOS 1.0 [more inside]
posted by infini at 3:39 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by infini at 3:39 AM PST - 9 comments
Beautiful funeral home in Toronto?
Suggest a beautiful funeral home, and a separate location for a later memorial service, in Toronto? [more inside]
DOLPHINS IN SPAAAAAACE.
January 6
Help me make most of my 4 week stay in Rio de Janeiro.
Help me make most of my 4 week stay in Rio de Janeiro. [more inside]
What's the best place to live on a low budget given a life-consuming job in Manhattan near Madison Square Park? And how low can I go both before and after unintelligible-but-critically-important-tax-stuff?
What's the best place to live on a low budget given a life-consuming job in Manhattan near Madison Square Park? And how low can I go both before and after unintelligible-but-critically-important-tax-stuff? [more inside]
Not your regular fro yo
Is there someplace in the L.A. area that sells Albert Heijn's Yoghurtijs? Or somewhere I can order it? [more inside]
Boston coffee snobbery
Where can a coffee snob find fulfillment in Boston? [more inside]
Full-featured online accounting
Looking for a very robust but reasonably-priced online accounting system for small business [more inside]
How can I find debt counselling for my student loan debt?
How can I find debt counselling for my student loan debt? I've heard of debt counselling for other kinds of debt. I'm looking for someone who knows the ins and outs of the byzantine student loan bureaucracy in Canada. [more inside]
How Now Yummy Cow?
So, I'm planning to start eating meat again after 25 years as a vegetarian. I visited the farm, bought the meat and brought it home. Now what? [more inside]
posted by PorcineWithMe at 8:25 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by PorcineWithMe at 8:25 PM PST - 31 comments
vintage science and engineering book series... by cover.
Years ago I saw a flickr set (I think) of the covers of a vintage series of books on science and engineering. Each cover (under the dust jacket) was a single color and featured a simple embossed diagram of the book's topic (e.g rockets, electricity & magnetism), with no text. They were gorgeous. Please help me find the series title!
Working & renting in one state and owning a home in another
My husband and I are moving to NYC for work, but we own a condo in MA. Should we try to maintain MA as our legal, permanent domicile or should we just give in and call that our second home? What are the implications of working & renting in one state and owning a home in another? [more inside]
ow ow ow ow ow ow
Picked the worst enrollment offer for my credit card, how can I persuade the issuer to give me a break?
I was sent multiple versions of the same (or so I thought) credit card offer and accidentally applied to the one that charges interest from day one, instead of the one with 0% introductory APR for 12 months. I called customer service and got a boilerplate letter of refusal back. Now what? [more inside]
say cheese without the cheesy
What is something funny I can think about while I'm getting a portrait taken? I like to have a sincere smile when getting photographed.
posted by Jason and Laszlo at 7:12 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by Jason and Laszlo at 7:12 PM PST - 25 comments
Getting Rid of Garlic/Onion Smell and Aroma
The aroma and flavor that garlic and onion in any form yield stay in my system way longer than reasonable. I need to be able to eat these two foods to help my immune system and my sinuses function better, but I can't stand the aftermath anymore (and now that I have a boyfriend again, I'm extra sensitive to yucky breath and stuff). What can I eat or drink to counteract these side effects so I can keep onions and garlic in my diet? [more inside]
PowerDirector Audio Assistance Needed
I'm using PowerDirector 11 to make a fan edit of a movie on DVD (not for anyone else, just for myself). The first few VOB files were a dream to work with, no problems whatsoever. However, when I added the third VOB file it's only playing the DVD's commentary audio, not the actual film audio. Is there some clip setting in PowerDirector to change that? Many thanks!
posted by ktoad at 6:09 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by ktoad at 6:09 PM PST - 1 comment
How to sell myself to companies as a former academic?
Academic with non-CS background but software development experience looking to transition into the professional workforce, from an ABD Ph.D perspective. How to overcome the "lack of experience with real/big systems" question, and in general pitch myself to employers? [more inside]
Should I leave for the trip or wait for my escape?
I am trying to free myself from an unhappy family dynamic by moving out. But, without telling my family, I bought tickets for a trip to one of my favorite cities but am now having second thoughts about the trip. Should I still go, or wait a few months to make my grand departure with no hurtful follow-up acts from my crazy family? [more inside]
British Economic & Government history, Trade Unions, and Thatcher.
I have just seen the movie Iron Lady, and was wondering whether anyone here could recommend me resources to better understand the British economy and government before and during Thatcher? [more inside]
OSX calendar software sync to Google Calendar?
Is there any calendar/scheduling software for OS X and Windows that can sync info with Google Calendar? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 3:28 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by zardoz at 3:28 PM PST - 7 comments
Did I just ruin my pizza stone?
Did I just ruin my pizza stone? I washed it in water and was then told that was a big no-no...so how bad is it and is there a way to recover from it?
Any other pizza stone cleaning/storage tips would be appreciated!
posted by man down under at 3:19 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by man down under at 3:19 PM PST - 16 comments
Average tshirt sizes for elementary-aged kids
Looking for a chart or opinions on good average sizes to best suit a random sampling of elementary school kids. [more inside]
posted by artifarce at 2:58 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by artifarce at 2:58 PM PST - 2 comments
Are "silent migraines" associated with stroke risk?
Common Migraine + Aura Sans Pain = oh noes your brain explodes? (Or, is there an increased stroke risk, and is something to be discussed with a doctor?) [more inside]
Help Me Understand Why You're Such a Jerk
From a psychological point of view, what makes some people power-trippers, or just generally not nice? [more inside]
Adoption. Where do I go to learn more?
Adoption. There's too much about it on the internet. Can you help me find the wheat without dealing with too much chaff? [more inside]
"I'm in Love with a German Film Star"
Where is the sample of German from at the end of Ana Tijoux's Las Horas from the album La Bala?
Help me be a better runner.
Help me be a better runner. [more inside]
Antique Tool identification assistance requested
I have a Challenge to all antique hand tool buffs. I'd really appreciate knowing what this tool is and what it was used for...
The tool consists of a brass piece mounted to a wooden handle. The tool measures 6 3/4 " in total length. At the high point of the brass forefront, it is 1 15/16 ". The brass piece is 1 5/8 " wide. It has a tool stamp of 'IDEAL TOOL COMPANY' in raised letters on the reverse side of the upright brass fixture. I could not find anything like it on the Ideal Tool Company Antique website...
I would greatly appreciate your expert opinions as to what it is and was used to accomplish.
Thank you for your professional and generous offer to identify this hand tool piece !
posted by Jim Young at 1:07 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Jim Young at 1:07 PM PST - 8 comments
How hard is it to rent with bad credit in Toronto?
I've got poor credit, a cat, and some questions about renting in the Toronto area. [more inside]
I might not actually be brave enough to do this
How long before a photo shoot to get eyebrows done? And by what method? [more inside]
posted by not that girl at 12:33 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by not that girl at 12:33 PM PST - 13 comments
Is there a way to update things on an no-longer supported version of Ubuntu?
I'm stuck using an old no longer supported version of ubuntu (11.04) on my primary laptop because the video card is not supported by the newer distros. Is there anyway I can get updates for it or is there an alternate OS that will still support old Intel video? I've already run into snafus with ruby and firefox is no longer updating ( I can probably just switch to chrome). I don't want to spend to much time yak shaving because I would rather be getting stuff done.
posted by srboisvert at 12:28 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by srboisvert at 12:28 PM PST - 13 comments
Is writing great fiction innate or learned?
Writing fiction: is it the sort of thing where you either have "the gift," or you don't? [more inside]
When to pay credit card bill?
Is it best to pay credit card balance right away or when it's due to improve credit? [more inside]
posted by Raichle at 12:09 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Raichle at 12:09 PM PST - 11 comments
Nothing that surrounds us is object, all is subject
Looking for a source or reference for an obscure, half-remembered anecdote related to Surrealist art and photography. [more inside]
posted by majorsteel at 12:02 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by majorsteel at 12:02 PM PST - 2 comments
Mysterious Cylinder
What is the dangling cylinder? It is about a yard long. It had been attached to the telephone pole, but that pole was replaced by the one in the image, leaving the cylinder danging and joined to the new pole by a rope, as shown. [more inside]
posted by hexatron at 10:56 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by hexatron at 10:56 AM PST - 3 comments
Help me choose a protein powder, please!
Please recommend a protein powder for me: the kaleidoscopic variety available is leaving me with a deer-in-the-headlights immobility when I try to choose! [more inside]
It's not you, it's me working for you
How can you tell when it's you or the job? [more inside]
posted by girih knot at 9:34 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by girih knot at 9:34 AM PST - 16 comments
What can I seed or mirror on my server to help the world?
I lease a massive server that I am underutilizing. I'd like to use up to 8TB/month of transfer and 500GB of disk space to make the world a better place. I am already seeding Ubuntu distros, Project Gutenberg, and Pearl Jam shows, and I'm looking for more ideas.
posted by quarantine at 9:32 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by quarantine at 9:32 AM PST - 8 comments
Career advice for young couple in their 30's
Career advice for young couple in their 30's: What is their best path forward? [more inside]
Friendship breakdowns and fallouts
I am upset at a (once) close friend, how do I work out the anger on my own and get past it? [more inside]
Angelino Assistance Needed!
Recommend me some stuff to do in Los Angeles in January! [more inside]
posted by vibrotronica at 9:00 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by vibrotronica at 9:00 AM PST - 19 comments
Life insurance for dummies question
Mid thirties married male with no kids yet. Thinking about life insurance in case I do something stupid and die. Am I better off getting a term life insurance policy, a lifetime policy, or should I just take $100 a month and invest it on my own and use that for my wife if I suddenly kick the bucket? [more inside]
posted by wile e at 8:56 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by wile e at 8:56 AM PST - 10 comments
sugar-free-free gum?
Is there any chewing gum available in the U.S. that does not use artificial sweeteners? Except for Clark's Teaberry, that is... [more inside]
posted by tommyD at 8:47 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by tommyD at 8:47 AM PST - 13 comments
NYC bars/restaurants that don't pay their workers via tips?
Are there any restaurants or bars in NYC that pay their workers with proper, decent wages, rather than with tips? [more inside]
posted by suedehead at 7:35 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by suedehead at 7:35 AM PST - 29 comments
Rural Living Along The Border
Two City-Slickers Moving To A Rural US-Mexico Border Town. What Should We Expect? [more inside]
posted by Spurious at 7:13 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by Spurious at 7:13 AM PST - 29 comments
Cardio for the poor and socially anxious with bad knees?
Looking for advice on best way to get more cardio exercise, for both physical and emotional health. Limitations: poor, bad knees and socially anxious. [more inside]
posted by Sarah_Lena at 5:27 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by Sarah_Lena at 5:27 AM PST - 22 comments
Recommend me a cheap email whitelist service
Can anyone recommend a decent email whitelist provider? I'm looking for a provider who will let me set a list of allowed senders bounce any email from senders not on the list. [more inside]
posted by Solomon at 3:38 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Solomon at 3:38 AM PST - 6 comments
Ugly Family Secret: what to do?
My Dad died in early December, and I've unearthed a nasty secret while cleaning up/out his house. What do I do about this? Importantly, do I tell my Mom, who is also elderly and quite sick? (mom is in a nursing home and has been essentially quadriplegic for about 20 years). There's no real 'right answer' but I'd like people's responses.
Details below the cut. [more inside]
How to make friends and influence smart birds
How do I make friends with corvids? [more inside]
posted by digitalprimate at 2:17 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by digitalprimate at 2:17 AM PST - 13 comments
Teaching resources for a newbie TEFL teacher
I need some online teaching resources for an inexperienced new TEFL teacher [more inside]
January 5
Bad semester, discouraging. How to bounce back?
So after reaching the unpleasant realization that even if I get a 4.0 this semester, my GPA won't be as high as it was before my horrible Semester Of 2012. I am a Junior and planning to apply to med school after a gap year, so now is REALLY not the time to hit a downward trend. I had a string of grades lower than I usually perform to, and I am SO discouraged right now. I know it's my fault and I take full responsibility... [more inside]
posted by grifninetoo at 9:54 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by grifninetoo at 9:54 PM PST - 35 comments
I just skip the banquets
How do I learn to be less shy in professional situations with groups of strangers? [more inside]
My small dog has turned into Napoleon. What can I do?
My small dog has turned progressively aggressive, mostly towards bigger dogs. What could have caused this and what can I do? Halp! [more inside]
posted by Sal and Richard at 9:13 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Sal and Richard at 9:13 PM PST - 10 comments
Achieving financial literacy
I want to find a person or class to help me understand basic tenants of financial literacy -- someone who can do everything from helping me create a basic household budet to helping me understand my taxes, retirement plan options, and what to do with my employer-granted stock. [more inside]
Help me hook up!
I haven't had sex in more than three years. I am going out of my freaking mind. One of my New Year's resolutions is that I must end this dry spell. I have a friend with whom I would like to start sharing some benefits. How do I go about this? [more inside]
Tight and tidy hair?
Ladies with thick hair: what do you use to put your hair up? I'm looking for techniques and products that will reliably hold long, thick hair for hours at a time. [more inside]
posted by yawper at 7:39 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by yawper at 7:39 PM PST - 39 comments
How do I reference old cartoons in Harvard style?
I'm writing the bibliography for my dissertation which is about the animation studio UPA. I need to cite a lot of theatrical cartoons from the 1950s, which I watched on youtube. This Site give intructions for citing youtube videos, but it seems like its referring to original youtube vids, not existing films. It says to list the username of the contributor as the author, and it feels wrong to credit a John Hubley cartoon to "liquidnature13". Do I need to give the cartoon's director, year of release, and studio, as well as the contributer's username and the year it was uploaded? If so, how should I format it?
(I'm using the Harvard system)
posted by Chenko at 7:18 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Chenko at 7:18 PM PST - 5 comments
PSR worker looking for career change
Hi There. I am currently working in Idaho state as a PSR Worker. I do skills training in the public school system and with kids in the community. I enjoy working with children tremendously. I would do PSR forever, but it pays very little and there are no benefits (I work for a private agency) and I would like to find a career path that offers better pay, health insurance and a retirement plan. It would be a plus for a broad field. I am not disagreeable to the idea of pursuing additional education. Any suggestions for occupations with similar skills and duties that pay decently? (30K/year starting is totally acceptable) Thanks for reading this post and have a great day. [more inside]
Why does my son suddenly hate bedtime and will not sleep through the night?
My son (12 months) has been sleeping through the night since he was 3 months old, but now...he hates bedtime (but naps are fine) and wakes up screaming and wanting to play (usually around 1 or 2 am). What's going on? [more inside]
posted by The Hyacinth Girl at 6:47 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by The Hyacinth Girl at 6:47 PM PST - 17 comments
What was this oversized 20th century american novel?
Another episode of Ask Metafilter, book-title detectives. [more inside]
posted by kickingtheground at 5:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by kickingtheground at 5:59 PM PST - 8 comments
How to hire a stripper?
I am helping plan a bachelorette party and have some questions about the hiring of strippers. Specifically, one male and one female stripper. More specifically, in Richmond VA. [more inside]
Time To Shut It Down.
How can I do this without being a jerk? [more inside]
Please help me find a video game for my girlfriend and I
I'm looking for games that I (a lifelong gamer) can play with my long-distance girlfriend (almost zero gaming experience). Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by TypographicalError at 5:36 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by TypographicalError at 5:36 PM PST - 13 comments
Help me learn to design something useful
I'm fascinated by the smaller projects on KickStarter where a small metal item is designed and then manufactured in a machine shop. I want to have those design skills, but I'm an absolute beginner. So what do I need to learn? [more inside]
How to hide updates in Facebook ticker?
How do I hide certain updates from the Facebook ticker on my main page? (The ticker is that real-time-updating list of news on the right side of the web page.) In particular, I want to hide updates from Words with Friends (e.g. "Aunt Idontgetsettings played OLD in Words With Friends") and Spotify. [more inside]
Let's go Italy!
How do you fill the emptiness after a break up?
How do you fill the emptiness after a break up? Its now been two month since the break up and I feel like I have no interest anything anymore. I don't enjoy watching sports, my tv shows or movies like I use to. I still go to the gym and run but even time to time I am not motivated to do them. I use to complain about my job to friends and family (politics, unfairness, too much stress), but now I just go to work and I don't even complain about them anymore since all I think about is my personal stress life. I know I am depressed but do I have a bigger problem?
Gay Friendly Travel Agencies?
Have you used a gay friendly travel agency to book a vacation or give you advice on a destination? What agency/website did you use? [more inside]
Excedrin without the Tylenol?
I love Excedrin type medication for dealing with headaches, but I'm trying to avoid acetaminophen for other reasons. Is there a good caffeine + aspirin pill that doesn't have acetaminophen? Maybe ibuprofen instead of the acetaminophen? I've looked but it seems all I can find is generics that have the exact same active ingredients as Excedrin.
posted by aspo at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by aspo at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
Should I mention how little pay I would work for?
I'm willing to work an internship for little or no pay. Should I mention this fact or would it come off as desperate and unprofessional? [more inside]
posted by WCF at 3:31 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by WCF at 3:31 PM PST - 10 comments
make kobo and nook play nice without ade!
Help me read Kobo eBooks on a Nook Tablet. Snowflake problem: Ubuntu. [more inside]
posted by wintersonata9 at 3:04 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by wintersonata9 at 3:04 PM PST - 12 comments
La cucarachas... leave por favor!
I've lived in my current apartment for around a year and a half now. I moved here mostly because it was cheap and there were no real problems abound. But now... there are cockroaches. I'd say it's infested. I complained to the landlord and a pest control company came out yesterday... but today... I saw a scary cockroach! WHAT GIVES? [more inside]
posted by camylanded at 2:55 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by camylanded at 2:55 PM PST - 19 comments
Spoiler-free guide to the history behind The Tudors?
Where do I find Nitpickers Guide to The Tudors? Or something like that. [more inside]
posted by The corpse in the library at 2:17 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by The corpse in the library at 2:17 PM PST - 2 comments
Spring visit to a national park with a toddler in tow
Which national park should we hit with our toddler this spring? [more inside]
Best On The Road Tablet For Grandma?
I need to find a tablet and a good mobile data plan for my road-trippin' grandmother. [more inside]
Help me find a simple, tasty winter cocktail!
I'm looking for a couple of suggestions of simple, non-summery mixed drinks to try. I love gin and tonics. I'm not a fan of wine or whiskey/bourbon, but I'm willing to try again. In the winter, I usually drink beer, recently IPAs (now that I live in the Pacific Northwest), but I used to prefer brown ales, stouts, and porters. What shall I try when my husband and I go out to a proper bar for drinks tonight? [more inside]
posted by bluedaisy at 1:33 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by bluedaisy at 1:33 PM PST - 31 comments
Reams and reams of paper
In search of large scale scanning solutions in NYC to convert a ton of paper into PDFs. [more inside]
Awesome photographer books for a photographer
Photographers and photography buffs! Please help me find a really cool photography book (or photography-related gift) for my photographer boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by ad4pt at 12:56 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by ad4pt at 12:56 PM PST - 15 comments
Discontinued Garmin GPS unit
Is there a current production Garmin GPS unit that is equivalent to the discontinued nuvi 265WT in terms of price and features?
How do I safely uninstall MobileIron encryption on my Nexus 7?
How do I safely uninstall MobileIron encryption on my Nexus 7? [more inside]
posted by arcticseal at 12:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by arcticseal at 12:45 PM PST - 3 comments
It's the small blue journal in my second desk drawer down
If you keep a diary or other secret papers, do you have a plan for what happens to it if something happens to you? [more inside]
posted by dawkins_7 at 12:30 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by dawkins_7 at 12:30 PM PST - 27 comments
Great RPGs/JRPGs for tablet play?
Are there any really, really great RPGs/JRPGs for either the iPad or the Kindle Fire? [more inside]
Paint it white.
Advice on painting a room white from top to bottom. [more inside]
posted by no bueno at 11:03 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by no bueno at 11:03 AM PST - 19 comments
Putting jelly on the Ritz
What's the best possible cracker to support and complement homemade jalepeño jelly and cream cheese? [more inside]
How to handle a guy from texting me gracefully?
How do I stop a guy I met at a party from texting me when I already told him upfront I wasn't looking for a relationship? We may end up running into each other again in the future because we met through a meetup event. [more inside]
Does this behavioral bias have a name?
I’m interested in learning more about the phenomenon where people who experience a particular scenario become especially focused on that scenario, to the exclusion of other scenarios that may be statistically more likely, and possibly even leading to irrational or risky behavior. [more inside]
posted by payoto at 10:48 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by payoto at 10:48 AM PST - 9 comments
Crazy Cat People, I need your hacks.
Is the CatMate C50 really the only game in town for feeding wet food in a way that doesn't fill me with dread about bacteria? [more inside]
How much should I wash my wool thermals?
How can I minimize the number of wool thermals I need for everyday use in the cold, and for exercise out in the cold? [more inside]
posted by garlic at 9:44 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by garlic at 9:44 AM PST - 19 comments
Girls will be boys and boys will be girls, it's a mixed-up muddled-up shook-up world
After hearing Shawn Colvin and Mary Chapin Carpenter sing Steve Earle's 'Someday' live, I've been putting together a playlist of genderswitched cover songs. What are your suggestions? [more inside]
Would an electromagnetic pulse disrupt a carrier pigeon?
Would an electromagnetic pulse disrupt a carrier pigeon? [more inside]
posted by bleary at 9:37 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by bleary at 9:37 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me create a useful gallery site with WordPress?
I've not used WordPress for quite some time and the recent release of 3.5 with its new ways of handling media has me somewhat confuddled. [more inside]
A sheet I slit...
Help me find a mattress pad and fitted bottom sheet that will stay on my full/double bed with me wildly sleeping on top of it. [more inside]
Atypical carpet pitfalls?
Can I semi-permanently install carpet this way? [more inside]
posted by werkzeuger at 9:00 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by werkzeuger at 9:00 AM PST - 20 comments
I really regret not hanging out with him
I really regret not going to the movies with him, is there anything i can really do? [more inside]
Apathetic About Relationships
I'm only 22, but I feel like I've given up on the notion of developing fulfilling friendships or potential romantic relationships with others because of my past. How do I change my attitude so that I can hopefully develop more fulfilling relationships? [more inside]
Repurpose a phone as a repeater?
Now that we all have a handful of old hackable smartphones lying around, is there any way to build our own active repeaters or cell phone to IP gateways? [more inside]
posted by mzurer at 8:04 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by mzurer at 8:04 AM PST - 7 comments
My sister co-signed a student loan. The debtor won't pay anything, and she has now been paying $200/mo for five years. Does she have any recourse?
Ten years ago, my younger sister, at age 18.5, co-signed her then-boyfriend's student loan. He defaulted almost immediately. The creditors were after her for years, threatened wage garnishment, she negotiated with them and finally started paying them five years ago. She has now paid it down to 30k. The $200/month payment for her ex's student loans is a pretty significant fraction of her income. Is there anything that she can do legally or is she just stuck with the debt? She recognizes what she did was dumb, and that she is legally responsible for what she did. [more inside]
Found a family of cats at a service station next to busy highway
Found a family of cats (4 kittens, 2 adults) at a gas station next to a busy freeway... What is best thing to do? [more inside]
How to connect a Mac OS X and a Windows XP machine, in order to have a PHP+MysqL application running on Windows but with browser and usage from Mac OS X?
I want to connect from a Mac OS X machine to a Windows XP running XAMPP (Apache, MySQL, PHP), in order to use an application running on the Windows machine.
At the same time, I want to have the Mac OS X allowing Internet browsing, while Windows should be isolated from the Internet.
Can it be done in some way, or can you suggest a possible setup close to that purpose? [more inside]
posted by lion at 3:59 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by lion at 3:59 AM PST - 6 comments
Physical requirements of various occupations
I'm curious about the physical requirements of different occupations, especially very difficult ones. [more inside]
posted by CustooFintel at 2:30 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by CustooFintel at 2:30 AM PST - 6 comments
help an old fellow
Psych test advice ?
After pretty extensive interview.90 mins + Now through to the next round.
Any advice for a 54 y/o who really is struggling since being made redundant.I need to be a team player presumably.Honesty may not be
the best policy for a cranky old bastard.
posted by johnny7 at 2:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by johnny7 at 2:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Do you recognize this guitar piece?
Do you recognize this guitar song (http://vocaroo.com/i/s04KsreM6ql1)? [more inside]
Help me find this old Flickr Photo Browsing Site?
I've done a google search and can't seem to find this specific site I'm looking for. It was a black site, which filled the screen with decent sized flickr photos that you could click on and find photos related to that one. Not sure what the algorithm was, but I seem to recall the site ending with multiple r's. http://*rrr.com ? You may have had the option to search for tags but I can't recall. [more inside]
posted by multiphrenic at 12:18 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by multiphrenic at 12:18 AM PST - 2 comments
January 4
How to Walk across the Rock?
Is it possible to walk across Newfoundland in 3 weeks? [more inside]
posted by thisclickableme at 11:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by thisclickableme at 11:27 PM PST - 13 comments
Dê o dom da linguagem.
Interesting Portuguese-language shows on DVD? [more inside]
I Want My 80's TV
Are there any good drama series from the eighties available streaming online? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 10:28 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Sara C. at 10:28 PM PST - 26 comments
I like Kazuo Ishiguro. What other contemporary novelists/novels should I read?
My taste in novels has generally tended towards the classics but lately I feel like reading some good contemporary fiction. Please recommend some recent-ish books that are well-written and well-crafted, have emotional depth and deal with human relationships in insightful and moving ways. Kazuo Ishiguro is an example of the kind of writer I'm looking for. [more inside]
Influential Literature Around the World
Would you please inform me as to which literary works and/or authors have been most influentual upon and/or read by students before leaving secondary school, by country and/or region? [more inside]
How to approach a Masters in Computer Science
I am interested in going back to school for a masters in something, but probably comp sci. I would like some advice on how to approach this. [more inside]
Another "No Health Insurance" Question
No health insurance, no primary care doctor, really low on cash (no credit card/no bank account) need a prescription filled. What now? [more inside]
Who wrote about mapping diseases?
I read a quote the other day, and now I can't find it. It was about mapping how different forms of disease spread. It wasn't here, where would I have seen it? [more inside]
posted by Marky at 9:38 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Marky at 9:38 PM PST - 2 comments
Mac screen sharing via Messages
Three friends are using Messages on MacBooks running Mountain Lion. Friends A and B are both able to use video chat and screen sharing with Friend C. Yet Friends A and B are unable to use video chat and screen sharing with each other (the video chat/screen share menu items are grayed out.) What gives?
Looking for A Moth Podcast
Desperately, DESPERATELY looking for a segment of one episode of "The Moth" podcast I heard once and cannot find anymore.... [more inside]
posted by mreleganza at 9:32 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by mreleganza at 9:32 PM PST - 6 comments
This is a question about steak and kidney pie.
This is a question about steak and kidney pie. [more inside]
posted by Meatbomb at 9:08 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Meatbomb at 9:08 PM PST - 9 comments
Sci fi/fantasy anthology book stumper
My first name that book question. It will be a stumper. All I remember is that it was a sci fi or fantasy anthology, I read it in the 1990s (so it might have been older, but not newer), and in one story a woman walked behind the village/city town, between two mountains/hills to a Lake of Tears and cried there for some sort of loss. This is a ridiculously small amount of information, I know, but it haunts me.
etymologists - what does straw have to do with it?
"Straw man" or "Straw purchase"- What's the origin of this term? It currently refers to firearms purchase by someone legally able to buy, who deliberately diverts guns to people who are unable to legally purchase guns (typically for a fee). It can also describe alcohol sales to adults who deliberately pass the booze or beer on to minors.
What does "straw" have to do with it?
posted by citygirl at 8:42 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by citygirl at 8:42 PM PST - 10 comments
Okay to wear scarf with hood?
Can you wear a scarf with a hooded jacket or sweatshirt without looking like a jerk?
posted by rmttws at 8:10 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by rmttws at 8:10 PM PST - 19 comments
Help me clothe my feet!
One week in Panama with one pair of shoes-but which ones? [more inside]
Looking for a family law attorney in Austin, TX
Looking for a family law attorney in Austin, TX. Got any recommendations? [more inside]
80s young adult book about Egypt cats and angst
Help-me-remember-this-important-book-from-my-childhood-filter: Egypt, time travel, cats, and family dysfunction version. [more inside]
posted by palmcorder_yajna at 7:42 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by palmcorder_yajna at 7:42 PM PST - 4 comments
iMac slows to a halt but everything other device/computer+ kitchen sink works??
My old PC laptop runs perfectly as do any tablets on my apt public wi-fi. The iMac computer (Snow Leopard), slows to a halt and won't get to pages after a few times. I have done several things such as reset PRAM, gone to /Library/Preferences and moved all the files in the System Configuration folder to the Trash, and restarted Mac...The second bit helped for a week and now it is doing it again, no matter what browser. MacKeeper says the computer is alright, and airport utility just tells me I am connected to the internet. (I've done the reconnecting and assistant and diagnostics but nada...) I cannot figure this out and I have scoured the net. If somebody was downloading a ton on it, I would at least understand but any other devices work fine. My husband wants throw it out the window. Any ideas?
Opposites have attracted. Now what?
How do I reconcile a basic difference between my live-in-partner and myself about recreation? One enjoys something active now and again, the other always wants something passive. What is a happy compromise? [more inside]
How much are tickets for AFI Fest?
I've never been to a film festival, but I'm really curious about AFI Fest since I'm taking steps to move to Los Angeles in the next five years and I don't really travel (so I can't go to bigger, similar festivals like TIFF or NYFF). How much do the tickets cost? Do you have to buy a different ticket for each screening? I'm curious how much money I should budget if I want to attend.
posted by JamesAtMidnight at 6:21 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by JamesAtMidnight at 6:21 PM PST - 4 comments
Books on Ljubljana, Zagreb, Vienna and Budapest
I'm after book recommendations on Ljubljana, Zagreb, Vienna and Budapest as gifts for my father ahead of a trip. [more inside]
Are directory listing and caller ID identity linked?
With AT&T landlines, is your directory listing (i.e. what's in the phone book) necessarily the same as what people see on caller ID?
Remember this book? It's about a girl who goes to Greece and something happens to her.
Identify-a-book-filter: I'm trying to remember a children's/young adult book that I likely read 15-20 years ago in Australia. It was about a ~13 year old girl who went to a Greek island with her archaelogist parents (for a year/the summer?) and something magicky happened. [more inside]
posted by jacalata at 4:29 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by jacalata at 4:29 PM PST - 12 comments
Laptops with high pixel density displays?
What PC laptops today have high pixel density (similar to Apple's retina displays) IPS or PLS displays?
Natural childbirth in Long Island?
Natural childbirth in Long Island with Aetna insurance. Is this even doable? Do you have information that can help us? [more inside]
posted by Shutter at 4:17 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Shutter at 4:17 PM PST - 8 comments
Daddy Needs a Full-Ride Scholarship
Big screen for home theater but no tuner? Can I get it?
I just want a 60" screen that just shows the video from the home theater and devices like Roku. Does it exist? [more inside]
posted by usermac at 3:54 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by usermac at 3:54 PM PST - 18 comments
Please help me exorcise these phantom smells.
First it was urine, then feces, then smoke, now it's mold. I swear, my new house is trying to drive me away with foul odors no one else can smell. What can I do about it? [more inside]
posted by patheral at 3:49 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by patheral at 3:49 PM PST - 42 comments
Experience with Kiddie Corp child care?
Do you have experience with Kiddie Corp child care provided at a convention? [more inside]
posted by medusa at 3:23 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by medusa at 3:23 PM PST - 8 comments
"Knit 2 pult loopy K2tog" I beg you pardon?
Ok, so a friend is knitting a dog puppet out of an English language book. They are not so fluent in English, I am not fluent in knitting. They are hang up on the following instruction:
"Row 21 (eyebrow row): K2tog at the same time making loopy st 1cr, loopy st 2cr, k2sc, loopy st 3cr, k1sc, pult."
Can anyone offer any way to explain this? I think I can wrestle it into German. Thanks!
posted by From Bklyn at 3:16 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by From Bklyn at 3:16 PM PST - 8 comments
Since I couldn t find anyone who could help us, I decided
I need to have access to all 16,679 of @Horse_ebooks' tweets. Twitter and most other archives will only give me 3,200. As you can imagine this is a dire need. [more inside]
posted by six-or-six-thirty at 3:06 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by six-or-six-thirty at 3:06 PM PST - 13 comments
Light beer recipes: it's like a kitchen on a dock... cooking (with) near water.
I have 8-10 Bud Light beers in cans left over from my New Year's party. I'm not going to drink them... but can I cook with them? [more inside]
posted by 1f2frfbf at 2:47 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by 1f2frfbf at 2:47 PM PST - 31 comments
Ain't nothing like the real thing
Are there any known Motown demo recordings from 1959-1968? [more inside]
posted by timshel at 2:41 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by timshel at 2:41 PM PST - 4 comments
Calling all planners!
Is my boyfriend gay?
Am I being paranoid for worrying that my new boyfriend is gay? Also, is there a delicate way of broaching the topic or should I avoid it altogether? [more inside]
How do I work within the system in spite of the system?
Corporate dysfunction and general structure is causing my job to be difficult, and sometimes impossible. How can I cope best? [more inside]
Division of marital assets in Canada via RRSP and home equity.
Division of marital assets in Canada via RRSP and home equity. What are the pros and cons and what should be considered? [more inside]
Seamless tile creation help needed
I'm almost certainly messing up some terminology here...
I'm not a network technician but I play one on tv in grad school. How do I get the server connections I need, involving a virtual machine (VMWare Fusion) that needs to talk to an outside device? [more inside]
posted by heyforfour at 1:20 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by heyforfour at 1:20 PM PST - 15 comments
Firefox View Selection Source returns blank window
Weird problem in Firefox. View Page Source works just fine. View Selection Source returns a blank window. [more inside]
Real Life Royston Vasey?
Are there any real-life historical examples of the Small Town With A Terrible Secret horror trope? Towns where long-term, ongoing crimes (or unsavory religious practices one supposes) where purposefully covered up and kept hidden from the outside world and any attempt to investigate them resulted in the investigator being detained, thrown out, or killed?
Win7 Devices and Printers hangs up
I have a Dell laptop with Windows 7 32-bit on it and I'm having the weirdest issue with it. The "Devices and Printers" control panel window hangs every time I open it. It gets to about 90% of the way, according to the progress bar, and then stops. I can manage my printers using the Admin tools but everything else is unreachable. Is there any way to fix this short of a Windows re-install? This is a work laptop and I'd rather not have to go through our IT service department since they'll nuke everything on it that wasn't there when I got it.
Carpal Tunnel Hacks
I would like your best carpal tunnel hacks and tips. [more inside]
Help my girlfriend find the perfect pair of high quality, full-grain leather boots!
Help my girlfriend find the perfect pair of high quality, full-grain leather boots! Looking for stores in the San Francisco Bay area, as well as online retailers. [more inside]
Can I exchange a very well-intentioned but misguided gift for something I actually really do need?
Can I exchange a very well-intentioned but misguided gift for something I actually really do need? [more inside]
Network sync of computers
It’s 2013 Mefi; how do you keep your computers in sync? [more inside]
Resume help
Would like to hear your thoughts on my sciencey resume and cover letter! [more inside]
posted by waving at 11:29 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by waving at 11:29 AM PST - 11 comments
Seeking Truth Out of Fiction
Inspired by this post on the blue, I was wondering -- what are some examples of articles/blog posts where someone analyzed (presumably with tongue-in-cheek) a minor part of a fictional world in a serious way that treats the subject matter as truth, not fictional? [more inside]
Figuring out where to start with my finances
I am suddenly making a grown-up salary, with a retirement plan and everything. I need to talk to a financial professional about optimizing my taxes and retirement and building a perfect(-ish) machine that I don't need to think about too much. I don't actually know what this person is called. Am I looking for an accountant? A financial advisor? A financial planner? Or something else? Please help me overcome my laughable naïveté. Thanks! [more inside]
Kid keeps crap, adult sells as treasure
Probably extremely easy movie identification question: A genie or something similar tells a kid to hold on to all the toys and collectibles of his youth (rather than leaving home and getting a job). The child as an adult is extremely poor and speaks to the same genie, angry for receiving such poor advice. The adult later sells his collection, becoming extremely rich and bringing delight to the community with his nostalgic toys. [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 11:00 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by 2bucksplus at 11:00 AM PST - 4 comments
I think there's a crossed wire...or my car is determined to die
How could changing a car's battery cause the panel lights to come on when turning the car OFF? Or is everything in my car falling to pieces coincidentally at the same time? [more inside]
posted by Eicats at 10:53 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Eicats at 10:53 AM PST - 13 comments
It's okay, you can tell me I'm too needy.
Communication expectations in a friendship - what is reasonable to ask of a best friend? [more inside]
posted by sunshine37 at 10:52 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by sunshine37 at 10:52 AM PST - 18 comments
What causes a dull ache in sedentary limbs?
What causes a dull ache in sedentary limbs? [more inside]
Teaching junior-high philosophy
Junior-high philosophy class. Suggestions for topics, discussions, resources appreciated! [more inside]
What's wrong with my eyes?
When I take a hot shower, or am around any kind of steam, my left eye steams up like a mirror. It's like this for about 20-30 minutes. I have Keratocunus. More details inside... [more inside]
posted by bodgy at 10:04 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by bodgy at 10:04 AM PST - 7 comments
Another "One More Chance" Question
I’m considering ending my relationship. Should I give him another chance to make changes? of course it's long [more inside]
posted by Ms.Stocking at 9:24 AM PST - 47 comments
posted by Ms.Stocking at 9:24 AM PST - 47 comments
There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn
Searching for soul music songs with a particular sound - not at all peppy or perky or loving - very minor key torch songs with a boil of a beat. Songs of the scorned. [more inside]
posted by sestaaak at 8:32 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by sestaaak at 8:32 AM PST - 26 comments
Whats wrong with Apple Mail IMAP
Migrating from Thunderbird to Apple Mail (on OSX Lion). Apple Mail takes about an hour to get messages from the IMAP server whereas Thunderbird gets them instantly. What may be going on? [more inside]
posted by vacapinta at 8:04 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by vacapinta at 8:04 AM PST - 7 comments
Website Similar to Priceline? Starts with "V"
Can't remember the name of an online airfare site someone recommended me... Similar to Priceline (only you can't make bids on all fares with this one). Starts with a "V" but it's not Vayama. Thanks!
what am I doing wrong?
Guys keep rejecting me; am I hideous? [more inside]
Tips for napping?
I have trouble taking naps in the middle of the afternoon, even though I feel that they would really benefit me. Can you help me with some tips? [more inside]
posted by chrillsicka at 7:36 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by chrillsicka at 7:36 AM PST - 13 comments
Won't you wear my ring around your neck? & other adorable "vintage" expressions of love.
What are some obscure traditions or gestures that people used to express their love for one another in the 1920s-1950ish that are no longer really practiced? [more inside]
Old friends, babysitting, child with special needs?
Old friends, babysitting, child with special needs? [more inside]
Did I get pulled over because a cop was bored?
Short version: In Colorado, is "the registered owner's license is expired" probable cause to pull someone over? [more inside]
posted by Perthuz at 7:05 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Perthuz at 7:05 AM PST - 15 comments
Eye examination without vision insurance.
I don't have vision insurance anymore. I would like to get my eyes examined anyway. I have a few questions about how this works. [more inside]
posted by millipede at 7:01 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by millipede at 7:01 AM PST - 33 comments
Send me down the right path!
Online Maps for Running/Biking routes? Please share with me the best websites for creating running routes using an online map. Also looking for websites that lay out the mileage markers on some of the paths around DC area. [more inside]
I hate numbering these stupid things
I have a word document (a functional specification) with a bunch of tables and in these tables every row is a requirement. The tables are often separated by blocks of text (business logic, calculations, screen shots, data modle, etc). Each requirement needs to be numbered. I want every row in every table to be numbered in increments of 10, the numbering continuing from table to table. I don't want to have to do this manually. [more inside]
Tumblr posting problems
My Tumblr has stopped posting entries. It’s only my third day. It previews nicely but disappears when I hit the “post” button. What could the problem be? I have an email into Tumblr but their help page was so unhelpful I am not hopeful.
posted by quintno at 6:44 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by quintno at 6:44 AM PST - 9 comments
What good things come in little packages?
What are the very small things you carry around that pack a lot of functionality into a little space? [more inside]
posted by tel3path at 6:12 AM PST - 85 comments
posted by tel3path at 6:12 AM PST - 85 comments
Subaru Roadside Assistance instead of AAA?
Subaru owners (U.S.): Do you have AAA in addition to Subaru Roadside Assistance? [more inside]
With a hard g.
Problem with animated gifs or pages with a large number of images. [more inside]
Mumbuntu.
How do I protect my newborn from getting sick
I have a 4 day old baby and my 2 year old just came down with a fever (101.5 at the moment). We don't have anyone who can take the toddler for a couple of days, but I am afraid the baby or my wife might get sick. I am really worried. What should I do?
posted by crawfishpopsicle at 2:48 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by crawfishpopsicle at 2:48 AM PST - 21 comments
Stalker, No Stalking!
She isn't letting go. How worried should I be, and what should I do about it? [more inside]
How do I preserve fresh herbs for use later on?
What are the best ways to preserve an abundance of fresh herbs of any type? When our herb garden decides to produce faster than we need it to (like now!) it'd be great if I could save some for later on when its season is over. Details inside, but I'm interested in anything that has worked for you in a similar situation. [more inside]
Mike Dillard Exposed Exposed?
Mike Dillard Exposed Exposed? - I'm not quite sure where to file this, but I discovered this after clicking a random google ad. It appears that this man has literally filled the entire internet with fake exposé websites, videos, you name it. Try going as far into the search results as you can stand - my question is simply, how? (and also, why?)
posted by Astragalus at 12:40 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Astragalus at 12:40 AM PST - 5 comments
January 3
I need to buy more of the jewelry things!
I'm getting a start making jewelry and am looking for suppliers for inexpensive beads and pendants. Most of what I've been using has been cheap stuff from Fire Mountain and I've been really happy with the stuff I've gotten for them in the 75 cents to 2 dollar range but am looking for more variety. I'm more interested in pendants and other focals than beads, but I'm addicted enough to the bead part that I'll look at sites that focus on those too :) [more inside]
How to fight fair over controversial topics?
How do you deal with someone who doesn't seem to fight fair? My mother and I often have intellectual discussions about politics, religion and ethical questions, where we often have different or even contradictory views to one another. They wind up as arguments despite my best intentions - please help me to do better! [more inside]
posted by EatMyHat at 10:09 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by EatMyHat at 10:09 PM PST - 30 comments
What song sounds like This Will Be Our Year by The Zombies?
Online psychologist or help for overseas vet?
Coming undone filter: Online psychologist or help for overseas vet? [more inside]
Anxiety symptoms overlapping with hypothyroidism medication side-effects?
Anxiety symptoms overlapping with hypothyroid medication side effects? [more inside]
Ideas for country and bluegrass for a music mix?
I need to fill a memory stick full of music for an elderly gentleman of eclectic taste. I have no idea what to put on it. Help! [more inside]
Anal fleshlight
Erm, so... thoughts and recommendations for an anal fleshlight (or similar brand)? [more inside]
Spooky images glimpsed through open doors
What was this genre novel about a maze full of gruesome tableaux vivants? [more inside]
"Misty Mountain" from Hobbit OST Similar ?
"Misty Mountain" from Hobbit OST Similar? I have been loving that song since first hearing it. The OST is only about 2 min long and kinda wish they did a longer version. Any songs with similar characteristics .. the deep voice singing, chanting almost?!
Who is the artist of this painting?
My mom wants to figure out the artist of this painting. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 6:12 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 6:12 PM PST - 6 comments
Inside the Actor's 1 Bedroom
My best friend and roommate is extremely isolated and seems lost. I really want to help. What are some ways that I can? [more inside]
Concerns for living in the Arctic Circle - Advice Needed!
I need advice about the possibility living in Northern Alaska, Kotzebue/Nome/north of the 65th parallel. I have about a million logistical questions, a little disorganized, including questions about mental health problems, medications, getting specialist care. If you needed medical care on a regular basis several hundred miles away, how did you arrange that? Lots of other questions about living in the arctic! Help! [more inside]
Please help me figure out the name of this song before I self-destruct from frustration.
New or newish alternative rock song, musically interesting, featuring a male lead singer with a completely incoherent reedy voice... what isss itttt??? [more inside]
posted by Temeraria at 5:23 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Temeraria at 5:23 PM PST - 6 comments
Can I give my cat Sustagen?
Can I give my cat Sustagen? [more inside]
Calling, texting, data for American traveler in Taiwan
I am traveling to Taiwan for about two weeks very soon. I will be there with about 20 fellow students from my university. Being able to communicate amongst us while about Taipei will be pretty important. What do you recommend to use around the city? Inexpensive and easy would be great. [more inside]
Property Management in Utah
what is a good property management companies in Utah? [more inside]
TBD
I think I might be done with to-do lists. Or maybe you can help me? [more inside]
posted by Eideteker at 4:56 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Eideteker at 4:56 PM PST - 16 comments
Help me build my iguana a water fountain.
Please instruct me on how to make a small-mediumish water fountain for my iguana's enclosure with things I can purchase at the Home Depot or aquarium supply store. [more inside]
Math major wants to be a software developer.
What courses should I take if I want to be a software developer? Is knowing data structures and algorithms enough? Or should I learn computer architecture, networks, and operating systems as well? [more inside]
It's a lovely name, but...
Are these names too similar? [more inside]
Unnaturally Speaking...
Possible Dragon Naturally Speaking/Dictate purchase. I recently entered the world of OSX by buying my wife a Macbook Air. Specifically, I bought it so she could dictate some of her thoughts for a book. Now I'm thinking of buying the Dragon software, but have some questions... [more inside]
posted by kuanes at 3:35 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by kuanes at 3:35 PM PST - 10 comments
Veet-suhl-zoot-ehn; high-falootin'.
What is this non-English, possibly German word? Sounds like veetsul zooten, means emotional from an impending change. [more inside]
posted by BusyBusyBusy at 3:29 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by BusyBusyBusy at 3:29 PM PST - 10 comments
Therapists around the Pioneer Valley?
I'm looking for a therapist in Western Masasachusetts. [more inside]
You know my name?
DogNameFilter: Looking for ideas for my co-worker's new dog. Cute photos inside! [more inside]
posted by mon-ma-tron at 3:00 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by mon-ma-tron at 3:00 PM PST - 55 comments
How to have fun without the clubs?
What to do in Augusta, GA while the missus interviews since I won't necessarily be able to check into our hotel? Hitches: I'll have our two dogs with me, she's an herbivore, and we don't golf. [more inside]
Mystery Plant
What kind of plant did we wind up with in our planter box? [more inside]
Help me look a step ahead
What will the next type of major land conversion in California be? [more inside]
Weird female friend territory. Help!
I'm a married female. My female friend has admitted to having feelings for me and continually makes subtle comments. What to do? [more inside]
30th Adventure
I'll be turning 30 in April, and I'm planning a trip in celebration. There are a lot of places in the world I'd love to go just to hang out and look around, but I decidedly do NOT want to do that for this trip. I want to travel somewhere and do something active. To give you an idea of what I'm looking for, my front runner so far is a one week stay in Jamaica learning how to make wood fired pottery. What similar "enriching" type experiences are out there? [more inside]
posted by Calicatt at 1:43 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Calicatt at 1:43 PM PST - 13 comments
Baby in the air
Travel with baby filter: which of these flights is a better idea for an 8 month old baby? [more inside]
posted by kestrel251 at 1:36 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by kestrel251 at 1:36 PM PST - 19 comments
Killing wisteria softly
Neighbor's wisteria is attacking our fence and house. They refuse to do anything to keep it in check. We trim it back with hedge clippers but would like to do something a bit more effective to keep the vine on their side of the property line. This is a big old growth that is growing up onto their carport to provide shade. Looks more like a small tree than vines. All the vertical growth is heavily leaning on our shared fence and is making it warp towards my property. The final straw was when our exterminator determined that rats were using the wisteria as a way to access our roof. Is there a way to use Roundup or something similar to just kill what is on our side of the property line or will it kill the whole plant? Will it be really obvious that we did more than trim back the vine? It is all leafless right now so we were thinking it might be a good time to take preventative measures. I want to do something but I don't want to start WWIII with my neighbors, so I am looking for something less drastic than just killing their whole plant. [more inside]
... all the trouble of a B.A. in English literature
I'm considering taking online courses/doing a part time degree in English for interest reasons. Will this be worth it? [more inside]
posted by Paper rabies at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Paper rabies at 1:26 PM PST - 10 comments
Cognitive behavioral therapy
Anyone that had practiced cognitive behavioral therapy? [more inside]
The Best Gear for the Rest of Us.
What forums do you know of that discuss good gear at budget prices? I'm aware of Budget Light Forum for flashlight aficionados and Poor Man's Watch Forum for watch junkies. What else is there? [more inside]
posted by lekvar at 12:53 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lekvar at 12:53 PM PST - 5 comments
Graduating soon with a BA from a Canadian Uni. Job search help please. I have two years writing experience.
Graduating in June with a BA Philosophy. I have two years journalism experience. I'm currently searching for jobs through my network and linkedin. Help please! [more inside]
Get our wedding guests on the big yellow bus! Or whatever else works.
We're getting married in Saint Louis in May! We are interested in transportation to get our guests get to and from the reception safely. What are our options? Any recommendations? [more inside]
how much of my icloud do i own, and how long into the future?
icloud: what happens to home recordings and original songs after itunes uploads them to the icloud, from an artist rights perspective? YANML [more inside]
Help me get covered
I'm unemployed, and have not had health insurance for about 3 years. What are my best options for finding a plan that fits my needs? [more inside]
Stuff. What the heck to do with it?
What do most people do with all the cards, letters, notes, trinkets and other crap that gets collected over the years? [more inside]
2nd Home Surveillance
I have been asked to set up an Internet-based surveillance camera at our weekend house. The catch? A somewhat limited DSL connection. Comments or suggestions for an easily set-up Internet surveillance system greatly appreciated. [more inside]
¿dónde están los tacos de pescado en la playa?
Mexican restaurant on a beach in southern Los Angeles? [more inside]
Travel agent for French Polynesia?
Asking for a friend: Planning a trip to French Polynesia: Bora Bora, Tahiti, etc. Should we be using a travel agent, or can we get a good deal booking directly? Can anyone recommend a good travel agent for that part of the world? [more inside]
Please help me get all of my a/v equipment to play nice with my new hdtv.
Please help me get all of my a/v equipment to play nice with my new hdtv. [more inside]
posted by The Card Cheat at 10:58 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by The Card Cheat at 10:58 AM PST - 21 comments
Never buy X again!
I was thinking about Steve Jobs buying a closet full of black turtlenecks so he didn't have to make that decision every day. I also saw some recent charts that showed purchasing trends for different age groups, and noted that once people buy good flatware they don't make an additional purchase. It occurred to me that, at my age (mid-forties) I could conceivably purchase a lifetime supply of socks.
What are items that a person of average means could purchase in sufficient quantities to last them the rest of their life? [more inside]
Anywhere to see tropical birds in New York City Area?
My 10-year-old nephew lives in Cranford, NJ and really likes tropical birds. My wife and I said for Christmas we'd take him to the zoo hopefully to see some birds and really the only research I had done was to confirm the Prospect Park Zoo (which is the same thing as the Brooklyn Zoo??) was open in the winter, but when I look at the site there's not much mention of tropical birds. Is there anything better in the area?
When a job description sounds more like a dating profile, what's the deal?
When a job description says you "must have a sense of humor", what's really being asked for and how do you get the right message across in a cover letter? [more inside]
Is itunes match limited to 25,000 songs or as many songs as itunes actually sells?
Question about Itunes Match....I just got off the phone with an Apple Care Specialist, but I have some doubts of the answers I received as the gentlemen never truly came across as confident in any answers he gave me, as well as a lot of it contradicts stuff I have read by looking around online...Looking for confirmation and clarification... [more inside]
posted by TwilightKid at 10:01 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by TwilightKid at 10:01 AM PST - 14 comments
It's the little things ... and the pain they bring.
I need to get better at being "detail-oriented" ... So far? Not good. [more inside]
posted by nubianinthedesert at 9:58 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by nubianinthedesert at 9:58 AM PST - 17 comments
Do we find out our baby's sex?
We're pregnant! But we're on the fence about finding out the baby's sex. Parents: what did you decide? Did you regret your decision or love it? [more inside]
Siding/Paint Question
Thoughts on Rhino Shield/other "permanent" paint options for home exterior? [more inside]
No, iPad, I don't want 5 versions of the same file thanks.
I have a (hopefully easy) question about getting Dropbox and GoodNotes to work together nicely on my iPad. [more inside]
posted by no regrets, coyote at 9:53 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by no regrets, coyote at 9:53 AM PST - 4 comments
Wanted: Novels Set on the Internet
I'm looking for examples of fiction that heavily involve transcripts of online communication - forum posts, website content, emails, IM conversations, the more and more varied the better. [more inside]
Traffic Attorney in Arlington, VA?
Good traffic attorney in Arlington, Va / Fairfax county? [more inside]
Fastnacht costumes
What are the names of these Fastnacht characters? [more inside]
posted by Chrischris at 8:55 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Chrischris at 8:55 AM PST - 3 comments
I have no idea how to start writing my dissertation.
I don't know how to write my dissertation. [more inside]
Doors with pre-installed cat flaps in Toronto?
Where can we get an interior door with a pre-installed pet door/cat flap? This is in/around Toronto. [more inside]
Recommend your favorite gospel music.
Please recommend your favorite gospel artists, records, and compilations. My particular likes are inside. [more inside]
Films, shows, videos, imagery representing success and failure in American culture?
Depictions of success and failure in American culture? Films, videos, commercials, shows, songs, and other (non-literary) media requested. [more inside]
Help me spruce up a coffee table in a magical way.
Bought a cheap wooden coffee table. Want to decorate it in a weird way. Any suggestions? It's your typical rectangular shape, nothing special. Some scratches on top. Design style: eclectic. [more inside]
One of these citizenships is not like the other...
My friend, a dual Canadian/American citizen living in the UK, is discussing the terms of a trust with her (US) father. By the time she inherits, she may have given up US citizenship. Does this need to be mentioned so they can account for it now? [more inside]
MANGE!
We found out today that my lab has Sarcoptic mange. What can we do to help ease our poor, miserable dog's itching? [more inside]
Is the 1998 Toyota RAV4 5-door able to transport a queen size mattress?
Is the 1998 Toyota RAV4 5-door able to transport a queen size mattress? [more inside]
posted by gttommy at 7:50 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by gttommy at 7:50 AM PST - 7 comments
PhD students: Where, when and how do you study?
PhD students: Where, when and how do you study? [more inside]
Rental Impasse
What are best ways to advertise a rental flat in London without using an estate agent? [more inside]
Should I quit my current job?
Should I quit my current job? [more inside]
Do any stores still sell tall pants for women?
Are there any stores that still stock tall/long womens' pants and jeans in their brick and mortar stores? [more inside]
How does a "layperson" grab the attention of research scientists?
How does my friend get his prostate cancer research into the hands of the relevant researchers? [more inside]
How do I assess my parents' small business situation?
Both my parents and one of my partner's parents run small businesses, and they're not doing well. [more inside]
Trying to evade violent stalker, seeking feedback and advice
A woman I'm seeing has an ex who was abusive, and is now back in her life and an active violent threat. Help us respond appropriately. [more inside]
Just tell me what to dooooo!!!
Printable workout schedules? [more inside]
Share your Aeropress strategy or favorite Aeropress trick!
Share your Aeropress strategy or favorite Aeropress trick! Hello! I've been using my Aeropress more and more and I am totally in love with it. It really does brew an amazing cup.
I'm learning that everyone has a different preference for how they use their aeropress, though, from the temperature of the water to the amount/brand/etc of the bean, to the type of grinder (burr, etc)... to other factors that I don't even know about. [more inside]
posted by dep at 5:07 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by dep at 5:07 AM PST - 19 comments
Humidifier Recommendation for NYC apartment
I need a humidifier Recommendation for NYC apartment. Cool/Warm? Both? I've tried putting a bowl on the heater, but that's not working.
Help me find my inner unicorn tamer
Help me consider interesting and unconventional career choices out of university [more inside]
Please help me find a drag and drop photo app for Ipad
I am looking for a drag and drop photo app for the ipad. Something that will let me import to ipad via drag and dropping while allowing me view and share photos on my ipad without having to sync through Iphoto.
Keeping files if switching to a Mac
Thinking of switching from PC to Mac: how best to handle old files/drives etc? [more inside]
posted by Hartster at 3:18 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Hartster at 3:18 AM PST - 8 comments
Philly Blogs
Help me find the best-written most interesting blogs writing about Philadelphia.
I'd probably get disowned if we went to the courthouse and told them about it later...
Weddings for Dummies filter: We got engaged in July and are now slowly realizing that if we want to get married in, say, June we have to, like, do something about that. I want to be *married* but am sort of ambivalent about the wedding itself and am kind of dreading this project. What basic resources (checklists, books, etc.) would help make me feel a little more in control and organized at this point? How do people even begin this process?
Bonus points for great wedding venue suggestions in Anchorage, Alaska. [more inside]
posted by charmedimsure at 2:19 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by charmedimsure at 2:19 AM PST - 35 comments
Does EMBASSYTOWN have a happy ending? (Spoilers!)
China Miéville's EMBASSYTOWN: does it have a 'happy' ending? [Spoilers inside!] [more inside]
posted by alasdair at 1:43 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by alasdair at 1:43 AM PST - 11 comments
Planet Earth-esque documentaries focusing on cities, etc.?
I love Planet Earth, Life, and other documentaries that David Attenborough is associated with -- as much for the educational value as for the beautiful cinematography and show-not-tell approach. They're works of art in and of themselves. Are there any documentaries in a similar vein that focus on cities, architecture, landmarks, and other human creations? For example, it would be incredible to explore Tokyo through the same lens!
Pampering Products for Men
Pampering Products For Dudes [more inside]
January 2
Help get a damaged kiteboard kite back in the air
I came into a posession of a damaged kiteboard kite (photos), and want to repair it. There are two sail-length tears and a missing 50x50 panel at the top edge. I think I can make a reasonable repair with spinnaker tape, silk thread and a sailor maker's needle. My next problem is to work out how to rig it to fly it. Any suggestions? I have a budget of less than $50.00 (AUD/USD)/ €40. I figure that it could be turned into a useful practice kite.
Next steps = Job offer?
I went through four job interviews with one company last month. According to Human Resources the results for the latest interview with the COO were positive and he was just waiting for next steps -- that was two weeks ago. How and when should I follow up with regard to my job application, and do the "next steps" mean job offer, based on the feedback? [more inside]
Seattle power?
Where can I buy a laptop power adapter in downtown Seattle? [more inside]
posted by dd42 at 11:00 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by dd42 at 11:00 PM PST - 4 comments
Lets not just stand around my baby crying
My 1.5 week old baby was born a month early and is being treated for an extremely rare, incurable genetic disorder discovered last weekend via newborn screening. I haven't told anyone beyond my parents, and in the meantime everyone keeps offering to help with/visit the baby. What should I do with them? I can't bear to have the same horrible conversation over and over. [more inside]
posted by Maarika at 10:33 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by Maarika at 10:33 PM PST - 30 comments
Heat, light, sound.
Why does my heater make my apartment smell smoky? [more inside]
posted by thack3r at 10:24 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by thack3r at 10:24 PM PST - 7 comments
My apps refuse to stay open!
I just bought a new iPad 4 in Japan (along with a logitech keyboard case), and I frikkin love it! It unfortunately, however, tends to crash at the most inopportune times - I do not want this to turn into a dealbreaker. [more inside]
posted by Kamelot123 at 9:51 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kamelot123 at 9:51 PM PST - 9 comments
How comfortable are the first generation of Steelcase Leap chairs?
How comfortable are the first generation of Steelcase Leap chairs? [more inside]
Inspiring Popular Electronics Books?
When I was learning to program I enjoyed reading popular computer science books like Godel Escher Bach in my downtime for motivation and inspiration. Can anyone suggest good popular electrical/electronics books that are similarly inspiring and are suitable to be followed along while on a train or before bed? [more inside]
posted by Joe Chip at 9:03 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Joe Chip at 9:03 PM PST - 5 comments
Does this product exist: a "hard" folder / case / portfolio?
Does this product exist: a "hard" folder / case / portfolio, approximately 1" x 9" x 12"? [more inside]
posted by ridogi at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ridogi at 8:59 PM PST - 8 comments
Any decent recruitment agencies out there?
Can anyone recommend or suggest a good recruitment agency in Sydney (Australia) - specifically people who know about IT and engineering? [more inside]
posted by ninazer0 at 8:18 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ninazer0 at 8:18 PM PST - 5 comments
Remote control PC to play games?
Know any remote control programs for the PC that could work with videogames? [more inside]
posted by CelebrenIthil at 7:47 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by CelebrenIthil at 7:47 PM PST - 9 comments
I want to switch off my room lights without getting out of bed.
I am embarrassingly lazy, and wish to switch off my ceiling lights without getting out of bed. What kind of contraption can I rig, to make this happen? [more inside]
Charities that would help a woman get an operation she needs:
Are there charities that would help a poor woman get an operation she needs? [more inside]
posted by Katjusa Roquette at 6:53 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Katjusa Roquette at 6:53 PM PST - 16 comments
My sister in law should get a fabulous birthday present
I just got a great Christmas present from my sister-in-law, help me give back as good as I got. [more inside]
posted by msali at 6:34 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by msali at 6:34 PM PST - 10 comments
Fun before I'm old
What are some interesting long-term programs (in the US) I could do over a semester or summer? Free or stipend-ed preferred. [more inside]
Is there an easy way to setup a home media server?
Advice needed: is this an easy setup for a home media server so anyone can watch movies and listen to music anywhere in the house? [more inside]
help me bake wheatless goodies!
I'd like the recipes for your best wheat-free baked treats! Bonus points if they are cookies. Double bonus points if they are free of refined sugar (other natural sweeteners are fine). [more inside]
dog ear infection
My little dog seems to have an ear infection -- head tilting, ear-scratching, ear-shaking, general sadness. She has a vet appointment Saturday, for an unrelated follow-up, and I will tell the vet about it then. In the meantime, would it hurt her to give her some of the miconosol eardrops (1%) I have left over from when this happened before? [more inside]
Can I keep it? (My health insurance, that is.)
Can I keep my excellent health insurance offered through my parents company or do I have to accept the insurance offered through my workplace? [more inside]
Who are the new great composers?
Who are the next Bachs and Mahlers? [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal at 5:05 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by youcancallmeal at 5:05 PM PST - 39 comments
Midwest weekend
I want to spend this Friday, Saturday, and Sunday driving around to see/do fun, cheap things in a ~3 hour radius from Champaign, Illinois (closer is preferred). Can you help a sister out? [more inside]
Guy friend being confusing
Is my close guy friend into me, confused or just being flirty? [more inside]
posted by Butterflye1010 at 4:17 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by Butterflye1010 at 4:17 PM PST - 25 comments
Looking for an app to track and time chores!
Which Android-friendly chore tracking/timekeeping app do I need? Some tasks should be done for 30 minutes each day. Others? Only 30 minutes a week. Is there an app with a built-in timer that I can use to keep track of my chores, and then look back over previous weeks' performance to keep track of my goals? [more inside]
posted by redsparkler at 4:00 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by redsparkler at 4:00 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I get ready for these grad school interviews and what do I wear?
I've been invited to interview with a few grad schools for biochemistry and biophysics doctoral programs. Hooray! What should I expect? How do I prepare? And what the heck do I wear? Complications: extremely poor and wardrobe consists of t-shirts and blue jeans with one proper "job interview" outfit. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:37 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by anonymous at 3:37 PM PST - 22 comments
Smells like SCIENCE
After dropping chemistry post-GCSEs, I find myself reading a couple of books about perfume construction that have made me realise that molecules are interesting, and that if they're written about for a non-scientific audience, I understand and am engaged by them more. How can I learn more without being scared off by Really Hard Science? And are there other books or articles which deal with the construction of scents and smells? [more inside]
My life runs smooth like a highway. Billboard, show me the way!
I have a semi-stable dead-end job that I'm not very satisfied with and no specific career goals, and it feels like a huge void. I don't want to (and realistically can't) do what I'm doing indefinitely. Given my likes and dislikes, help me identify a field I might enjoy and the next steps to take. [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 3:32 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Nomyte at 3:32 PM PST - 18 comments
Should we get involved in SEC/ fiduciary duties investigation?
Should we get involved in SEC/ fiduciary duties investigation? [more inside]
Network switch can't access internet behind router
Why can't devices on my new 8-port switch get internet access on my network? I’ve got a new wired network set up in my house and am fine tuning it, getting everything to connect to the internet… Main computer and xbox are working (connected directly to D-Link DGL4300 Wireless router), but the Tivo and anything plugged into the new switch-based jacks aren’t getting to the internet, though they see the network. [more inside]
posted by Pantengliopoli at 3:01 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by Pantengliopoli at 3:01 PM PST - 28 comments
Help me fight the war between my head and heart.
Please help me make sense of a romantic situation, involving a co-worker, lots of mixed signals, confusion and a desire to remain best friends. Very very long explanation inside, sorry I kept it as brief as I could. [more inside]
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 3:00 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Ranting Prophet of DOOM! at 3:00 PM PST - 21 comments
Is there a way to approach unequal staff Christmas presents at my workplace that will not come off as me being jackassy?
Is there a way to approach unequal staff Christmas presents at my workplace that will not come off as me being jackassy? [more inside]
The Littlest Lifehack
What are those tiny, tiny changes ("life hacks," in the parlance of our times) that make a minute long task take thirty seconds, or a ten second task take five? Examples inside. [more inside]
Motivational Fitness Blogs
I'm looking for good inspirational fitness blogs! [more inside]
best places to start for a beginner chef
Hi,
I'd like to start cooking meals for myself more often, but I've been overwhelmed by the number of books and websites online.
Does someone know a good place to find recipes for beginner chefs, whether it be at a premium or not? Eating healthy is a priority for me as well.
Thanks!
To be or not to be informed?
I am looking for intelligent ideas to help me distinguish between what is "worthy news" and what is "gratuitous news". Can anyone point me in the direction of some good solid writing on this topic? [more inside]
posted by beccyjoe at 2:25 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by beccyjoe at 2:25 PM PST - 6 comments
Things to do on the outskirts of New Haven?
I'm going to be in New Haven, without a car, on this coming Saturday and Sunday. What to do for fun? [more inside]
posted by NucleophilicAttack at 2:19 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by NucleophilicAttack at 2:19 PM PST - 9 comments
Mattress questions: Ikea & Macy's edition
Inexpensive firm mattress options: how does the Ikea Hanestad hold up? How do firm MacyBed mattresses hold up? Can you haggle at Macy's like you can with mattress chains? (+ more discussion inside.) [more inside]
ACT therapists in Toronto?
I'm looking for an ACT therapist in Toronto. Does anyone have personal recommendations? [more inside]
posted by mendel at 1:58 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by mendel at 1:58 PM PST - 1 comment
Digital watch with an alarm that will wake me up?
I'm looking for a pretty cheap digital watch that has an alarm that will actually wake me up. [more inside]
Medical bill got returned by USPS and sent to collections: how to fix?
I recently found out a medical bill got returned by the post office and went to collections. How do I fix this? [more inside]
Hooking Up with Friends - An Beginner's Primer
I have a lot of female friends. Lately, a number of them have begun giving me romantic vibes. I have never dated a friend in my entire life - I have often become friends with people I dated, but never the other way around. How do I pursue this type of thing? (Snowflake details inside.) [more inside]
posted by wolfdreams01 at 1:46 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by wolfdreams01 at 1:46 PM PST - 25 comments
Sagrada Familia symbolism
Is there a good resource for the symbolism in Gaudi's Sagrada Familia? I am especially curious as to what the skeletons mean, but I want to know what everything represents that he included in his plans. [more inside]
Now you see them, now you don't!
RealisticInVegas[!]Filter:How long does the Penn & Teller show in Vegas last? Is it feasible to catch the show and make it to the airport for a 12:50AM flight? (Any transportation tips appreciated.) [more inside]
ITunes alternative to get music *onto* an iPhone?
Is there a clean and simple alternative to iTunes for getting music from my Macbook Air onto my iPhone 4S? [more inside]
So I'm a grown man who wants to dress like Hermione Granger, what's it to you?
I want Hermione's green trench coat from "Goblet of Fire." [more inside]
How do I rent a car?
Advice sought for Classical music to listen to when studying
Advice sought for upbeat Classical music to listen to when studying. I seem to really enjoy the violin and the cello. I like some of Yo-Yo Ma and the Red Violin soundtrack. But, I do not like the classical music that is depressing and too slow -like some of the baroque. I am looking for the type of classical music one would hear in ballet. The kind that inspires and lifts you up, and makes you happy...that is simply beautiful. Do you know what I mean Hive Mind? Thanks!! So please give me a playlist
MORE LIKE Lucille Lortel, please
Dear NYC-Hive: Visiting in Feb and would like to find listings of theatres whose offerings are like Lucille Lortel Theater in the Village. Would prefer Manhattan locations (over other boroughs). They just did "Volpone" and are doing "She Stoops to Conquer" soon. But they also do new works as well. What are similar theaters? And bonus points if you can give me a link to calendar/listings.
Teach a kid to Raspberry...
Raspberry Pi online forum or F2F user groups for kids? [more inside]
How to retrieve SSID when not in range
I need to retrieve the SSID of a wifi network that is not in range from either an iPhone or an old hard drive. [more inside]
posted by IanMorr at 12:29 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by IanMorr at 12:29 PM PST - 5 comments
Post not-so-Secret
I'd like to start a blog featuring my small collection of found (used/sent) postcards. What measures should I take for due ethical diligence? [more inside]
Game of Thrones, from TV to books
I spent my holiday break watching the first two seasons of Game of Thrones on HBO, having not read the books. Now I can't wait until late March for the third season and want to pick up with the books. Will I be able start with Storm of Swords, the third book? How closely does the show hew to the books, in terms of plot, character and chronology?
How to get out of the catch-22 of networking?
How to get out of the catch-22 of networking? I'm trying to overcome the barrier of having to give in order to get. [more inside]
American Tourist in Iran
Has anyone been to Iran as tourists recently (especially any Americans)? If so, do you have any advice or suggestions? [more inside]
posted by Falconetti at 11:52 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Falconetti at 11:52 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I renegotiate my salary in light of this job posting?
How can I renegotiate my salary in light of this job posting? [more inside]
Investing with climate change in mind
What are some investments or places that discuss investing with climate change in mind. What I mean by this is, what are some funds or investments that I should look into as the reality of climate change starts to sink in and its effects gradually become more noticeable. [more inside]
posted by mulligan at 11:45 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by mulligan at 11:45 AM PST - 7 comments
Is my space heater making me sick or am I just unlucky this year?
I know YANMD, but I am wondering if anyone has been told to cease using a space heater due to chronic pharyngitis or similar illnesses? [more inside]
posted by Young Kullervo at 11:32 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Young Kullervo at 11:32 AM PST - 13 comments
What cities can I visit that are similar to Tucson?
My girlfriend and I went to Tucson last year for a wedding. We fell in love with the place. What other towns in America could we visit that have a similar vibe? [more inside]
Too Many Photo Apps
Help me delete redundant iOs photography apps. I own too many, and it's confusing. [more inside]
posted by Quisp Lover at 11:25 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Quisp Lover at 11:25 AM PST - 9 comments
Business name help
Business Names: How similar is too similar? [more inside]
Can a federal scientists become a lawyer?
Are there ways for a federal research scientist to attend law school and remain a government employee after graduating? [more inside]
I hate funerals
My grandfather's sister-in-law died and her funeral is this weekend. My family wants me to drive my grandfather down to the funeral. I would rather stick pins under my fingers. But I know I need to do this. Help me suck it up. [more inside]
Can Twelfth Night be twerrific?
What are some fun, delicious, or delightful things my husband and I could do that would make great Twelfth Night traditions? [more inside]
To buy or not to buy...
Do I purchase a 2007 MacBook or not? [more inside]
posted by singinginmychains at 10:38 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by singinginmychains at 10:38 AM PST - 26 comments
Another 'critique my online dating profile' question...
New to the online dating game. Late-20s female, London-based. [more inside]
How do I tell my co-workers I'm getting a divorce?
How do I tell my co-workers I'm getting a divorce? [more inside]
I need salad PROTIPs
Salads. I want to eat more salads, and I don't want to pay 6+ bucks a day to do it, but I need your help. I need tips & tricks on creating, transporting and eating salad and salad dressings. Are you a bad enough dude to help me eat salad? Special snowflake deets inside. [more inside]
How can I encourage more open communication with people?
Help with encouraging communication early in a relationship? [more inside]
posted by randomnity at 10:04 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by randomnity at 10:04 AM PST - 6 comments
H61 install hell!
Getting the dreaded "Required CD/DVD drive device driver is missing" during Windows 7 install, but no drivers are working! [more inside]
posted by lattiboy at 9:37 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by lattiboy at 9:37 AM PST - 7 comments
Finding quality events when traveling.
This is kind of a search question. If you were going somewhere and wanted to know what interesting/fun events might be going on there how would you search for it? What sites would you use? What strategy would you take to figure out what was something significant vs something small and local? How would you assess the quality and what event categories do you think would be useful? If you could use some sort of data mining and could have the computer do some of the work what would you do in addition/ instead? For example, would you mine twitter feeds or facebook pages?
Boot prompt access in a Hackintosh
I need to access the boot prompt on a Mac (this is a Hackintosh using a Dell body) and the recommended approaches aren't working. [more inside]
posted by kalapierson at 9:27 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by kalapierson at 9:27 AM PST - 3 comments
Selling a Japanese Woodblock Print
I have a mid-20th century woodblock print by Japanese-American artist Ansei Uchima that I would like to sell. How should I go about selling it? [more inside]
MacOSX: Create a new user, move safest bits over from my old user?
MacbookProFilter: I migrated my old user onto my new macbook, and carried with it a bunch of problems (slow startup, rapid battery life loss, etc.). Is there a clever, systematic way to migrate chunks of my user account to a new user? [more inside]
What mobile providers are where in Africa?
Where can I find a map of mobile (cell) phone network providers across sub-Saharan Africa? [more inside]
Should I go back to school this year?
Should I go back to school this year? I know I should be figuring this out myself, but so far I can't... [more inside]
posted by Cybria at 8:25 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Cybria at 8:25 AM PST - 14 comments
To suit or not to suit?
What to wear to a non-librarian library interview? [more inside]
posted by trillian at 7:32 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by trillian at 7:32 AM PST - 14 comments
Sure this product exists, but what is it called?
I've got a modern coffee table which consists of a metal base with a large rectangular piece of glass resting on top of it. It works OK and is stable and level etc. (the glass is actually a little larger than needed--it originally went with a different piece) but I worry when guests are over and don't know to be careful with it. Especially children. Essentially, I want to place something (some type of non-slip material, something similar to a foam adhesive or caulk-like substance?) between the metal and the glass to keep it from sliding if someone pushes the glass with their feet. Don't need it permanently affixed, just something to help keep things in place. What do I search for on general shopping sites like Amazon, or elsewhere?
Confused about potentially nonconsensual sex, how to deal?
Someone had sex with me even though I said "no" multiple times, but I was drunk and my memories of the event are completely foggy, especially the moment of penetration. This happened several months ago and I have been completely ignoring it, but in the past few days told my partner and now feel completely confused. What do I call this? Is this rape or a confused moment that turned nonconsensual by accident? Especially confused about how to interact and think about the other person involved. [more inside]
Recording and Synching Music with Video
Need help choosing hardware and software and developing procedure to synchronize music tracks with live-action video. [more inside]
They don't want to use Dropbox or FTP, so what else is there?
Dead simple solutions that are not Dropbox or YouSendit or FTP for receiving large files from clients? [more inside]
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 6:53 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 6:53 AM PST - 23 comments
DTMFSBA
This is the last straw. After a major blowout on Sunday morning I'm about to end a ten-year, majorly dysfunctional, very high-maintenance relationship. I'm dumping my Craftsman Snow blower for a new one. Tell me what you love about your snow blower. [more inside]
posted by bondcliff at 6:52 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by bondcliff at 6:52 AM PST - 13 comments
Help with finding an attorney for foreclosure questions.
Help with finding an attorney for foreclosure questions. [more inside]
posted by ratherbethedevil at 6:49 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by ratherbethedevil at 6:49 AM PST - 2 comments
Are there any decent business/enterprise-class internet providers in Los Angeles?
Are there any decent business/enterprise-class internet providers in Los Angeles? [more inside]
What should I use to dye the grout on my Turkish mosaic lamp?
What should I use to darken the white grout on my Turkish mosaic lamp? [more inside]
please help me be a nice guy and still get the girl
Can the hive mind confirm that men need a dark side to seduce women ? I’m a nice guy and I’ve not been lucky in love. Have I not been lucky in love because I’m a nice guy ? [more inside]
posted by Baud at 6:01 AM PST - 68 comments
posted by Baud at 6:01 AM PST - 68 comments
what kind of help do i need to ask for at work?
Please help me articulate and figure out the help I am looking for, from my boss, at work. General tips on how to ask friends for the help you need (depression/ADD/anxiety related) are welcome. [more inside]
posted by ArgyleMarionette at 5:55 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by ArgyleMarionette at 5:55 AM PST - 2 comments
The Resignation of the Amanuensis
I need to give my resignation this week, but just learned my boss/supervisor is on bereavement leave. What's the classiest way to handle this? [more inside]
posted by this reminds me of an achewood strip at 5:44 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by this reminds me of an achewood strip at 5:44 AM PST - 11 comments
Recommendations for an Indoor Cycle around the £3-400 mark
Im looking for a good cardio workout I can do at home and have decided on investing in a indoor cycle.
Ideally it would have some sort of digital programme I could follow and it would be superb if it monitored my heart rate so as to adjust the programme based on workout objectives (e.g. weight loss)
If anyone could recomend a product or brand that would be superb
posted by toocan at 3:57 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by toocan at 3:57 AM PST - 9 comments
Relationship; and the one with her Male Friend
At the beginning of the relationship, she had asked to be exclusive. Told me she wants me to be her boyfriend. Thing's were going great. She mentions that she has a male friend visiting from out of town. Wasn't a big deal for me. Then it comes to light that he would be staying at her place for the weekend. [more inside]
posted by Nicholas Geary at 1:54 AM PST - 126 comments
posted by Nicholas Geary at 1:54 AM PST - 126 comments
January 1
Help me be a good coach.
I'm coaching a basketball team of 9 and 10 year old boys. It's just a community league, everyone plays, there are no cuts, and it's not hyper competitive. However, I do want to do the best for the players.
Two specific questions:
(1) In terms of the games, is there a fairly simple offense or set of plays that you think I could teach them and use? I played in high school, and we ran the flex, but that seems to complicated. But at the same time, I think it's good to have some concrete schemes so the kids don't end up standing around and watching.
(2) Any suggestions for practices? Drills, how to use the time, etc?
I'd love first hand advice – I've done the web searches and can find a lot of information, but I'd like to hear from actual coaches and how it's worked from you.
posted by visual mechanic at 11:30 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by visual mechanic at 11:30 PM PST - 9 comments
Help me stay sane while I try to plan lessons!
Teacher Filter: Increasing the efficiency of creating lesson plans [more inside]
Kanji wear it?
What's a good low-carb substitute for toast for the purpose of sopping up over-easy egg yolks?
What's a good low-carb substitute for toast for the purpose of sopping up over-easy egg yolks?
posted by ErWenn at 10:17 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by ErWenn at 10:17 PM PST - 40 comments
My Fat Friend Needs Help
I have a smart and productive friend, 55 years old, and he is now obese, over 400 lbs. He lives in LA, I live in San Jose. We exercised together before his move to LA 5 years ago, and he maintained a healthy weight. How do I save his life?
posted by breadbox at 10:14 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by breadbox at 10:14 PM PST - 18 comments
OSX game me
Are there any well-crafted, engaging, easy-to-learn games for the Mac? [more inside]
...stepped? ...something ...seagulls?
What are the lyrics to "Moth Wings" by Pond? I don't think there's a complete set of lyrics floating around on the internet, and even the incomplete versions don't agree with each other.
How would you tell someone else to pronounce this phrase?
I need to insert a pronuciation guide into a script for the following Latin animal name: Pachydiscus seppenradensis.
In other words, I just need something on the script page to help the person reading it pronounce it correctly. I can't rely on special symbols or anything longwinded. Just something like is found in this question.
posted by Bookhouse at 10:01 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Bookhouse at 10:01 PM PST - 3 comments
Interesting scifi / glam rock makeup looks?
Can you point me to some (non-prosthetic) scifi/fantasy makeup looks? [more inside]
posted by lemoncakeisalie at 8:55 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by lemoncakeisalie at 8:55 PM PST - 10 comments
No puppies either; my sister would kill me.
What is the most awesome gift I can give a two year old these days? [more inside]
posted by jeffamaphone at 7:40 PM PST - 47 comments
posted by jeffamaphone at 7:40 PM PST - 47 comments
Curly haircut suggestions please!
I need a new curly haircut. Hope me! [more inside]
What was this cheesy fantasy film where the antagonist rips his own face off?
Another "what movie was this?" question: a fantasy/horror film set at least partially in a castle, where the villain deliberately rips his own face off. [more inside]
posted by johnofjack at 6:26 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by johnofjack at 6:26 PM PST - 5 comments
good deal on brooks B17?
Where can I find the best deal for a Brooks B17 saddle? (Toronto) [more inside]
Why does my husband's baptism status matter to his ex-wife's current marriage?
My husband was married briefly and divorced over 20 years ago. Since then, his ex-wife has remarried, divorced again and recently remarried. My husband and his ex wife have had no contact since before the divorce. She has just (out of the blue) asked if my husband was baptized (he was not). She said she would need him to fill out some paperwork acknowledging that he hasn't been baptized so her new marriage is recognized in the Catholic church. Can someone explain what my husband's baptismal status has to do with her current marriage being recognized? They are divorced, there was one child born from their marriage. Could she be trying to have their marriage annulled?? [more inside]
Gift for a newborn baby
New parents: what is a useful gift for you/and or your newborn baby? [more inside]
Choosing a career
What kind of jobs would allow a young college graduate to do interesting intellectual work at his/her own pace without too much socializing? [more inside]
YANMD, but do I have IBS?
YANMD, but do I have IBS? How do I cope? [more inside]
posted by uncannyslacks at 4:06 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 4:06 PM PST - 17 comments
Knife the Mac
The Apple Store Genius fixed my Macbook's problem while I was in the store, but now that I'm home again I'm back to square one. Help. [more inside]
OH GOD STAY AWAY
Housemate has strep throat. How can I avoid contracting it? [more inside]
Where to go in Detroit and Chicago?
Where to go during a trip to Detroit and Chicago? [more inside]
International eReader Dilemma
Which is the best eReader for a Canadian who wants access to lots of free reading material? [more inside]
posted by snorkmaiden at 3:13 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by snorkmaiden at 3:13 PM PST - 16 comments
How can I eliminate a draft under my front door?
Getting a draft despite having weather stripping and a door sweep. How can I fix this? [more inside]
Nostalgia brain freeze.
I'm trying to find the name of a computer game I played when I was very young. Circa 1986-7 ish. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by lazaruslong at 2:54 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by lazaruslong at 2:54 PM PST - 5 comments
Installing Mountain Lion
I'm selling my mid-2010 iMac on eBay. In the ad, I want to say that I'll include a copy of Mountain Lion on a USB stick so the buyer can install the OS once they take possession of the computer. What I don't know is what will happen if the buyer doesn't yet own a copy of Mountain Lion and they try to install the copy I give them which was downloaded using my Apple ID. [more inside]
Side-scrolling adventures for iPhone
Looking for the best side-scrolling adventure (or possibly other type) games for iphone. I played a came called Cosmo when I was a kid that I found completely captivating - different challenges on every level, fun graphics, etc. I'd like something for iPhone that would recapture that sense of fun. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 2:25 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bunderful at 2:25 PM PST - 9 comments
Help me with this cookie/anxiety problem.
FoodSafetyFilter: Does old peanut butter make these delicious cookies ... OF DOOM? [more inside]
Teach me about Applied Math
I'm interested in a Masters in Applied Mathematics in the NYC area. Help me research further. [more inside]
Is this some sort of compass?
What is this mysterious art supply object? [more inside]
posted by cirrostratus at 12:27 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by cirrostratus at 12:27 PM PST - 3 comments
Fix my crummy 80s Hi Fi
Speaker and turntable both on the fritz. [more inside]
Climactic Flood Destroys Plantation in Bravo Movie
Man inherits plantation discovers half brother and wins appliances. Maybe you saw this movie on Bravo in 1994 as well? [more inside]
posted by phytage at 11:08 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by phytage at 11:08 AM PST - 3 comments
Tales of harrowing and/or redemption? Not so much. Just the facts.
What are good resources, online and offline, for information about the average experience in federal prison camps (minimum security prisons)? [more inside]
Rose Bowl Parade
Is there any place online to view pictures of the Rose Bowl parade float winners?
posted by jenh526 at 10:54 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by jenh526 at 10:54 AM PST - 2 comments
Hotmail & outlook javascript broken over satellite
Outlook.com / Hotmail.com now unusably slow over satellite [more inside]
posted by jago25_98 at 10:52 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by jago25_98 at 10:52 AM PST - 7 comments
Looking for webcam monitors/aggregators for Windows
I'm looking for a Windows app for viewing multiple remote webcams on a single screen -- something like Live Cams Pro on iOS. Ideally it would be able to categorize cameras by topic or location, support live feeds as well as static ones, and maybe be able to store timed snapshots from the cams over time (like Camembert could do back in the day). I'm not as concerned about receiving audio or controlling the cameras. [more inside]
Basic DVD/Blu-ray player?
Looking for a basic DVD + Blu-Ray player with HDMI. Doesn't need any kind of network streaming (TV and other devices handle that already). Ideally under $100. Am okay with buying used off craigslist or something if the model is known to be pretty reliable. Suggestions?
posted by curious nu at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by curious nu at 10:33 AM PST - 6 comments
Montreal visit, brief, help me plan
Looking for recommendations on everything from places to stay to things to do in Montreal. Nightlife, possibly with partner, and Sunday tourism. Help me put some structure to my rough outline of a visit. [more inside]
posted by meinvt at 10:32 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by meinvt at 10:32 AM PST - 10 comments
When can kids wake up by themselves?
So what do you do when your young child wakes up in the morning? [more inside]
Where can I find lessons for sword-and-shield fighting in SE PA/NJ
Anybody know of sword-and-board instructors or lessons in the southeast PA/NJ area? [more inside]
How to Backup my WHS?
What software should I be using to backup my WHS 2011? [more inside]
posted by MrBobaFett at 8:54 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by MrBobaFett at 8:54 AM PST - 4 comments
I want to be a level 10 Paladin, but with a mortgage!
I want to be a level 10 Paladin, but with a mortgage! [more inside]
posted by the matching mole at 8:46 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by the matching mole at 8:46 AM PST - 13 comments
Everyone Who Loves Fanfic
Please help me find examples of copyright holders (ideally, with citation) who actively encourage fanfiction. [more inside]
Poker 101
How to kick butt at poker! [more inside]
Tune into the wheelchair version of Car Talk, minus the laughter
How do you get a stripped screw outta a rusted thing? [more inside]
How do you go back to school... with bills to pay?
How do you go back to school as a 'mature' student - with bills to pay? [more inside]
Everyone loves a good sit.
Office chair recommendation? [more inside]
Poor results from Win-7 desktop search index
How can I tweak the Windows 7 search index so that I can find all files on both the SSD and the hdd? [more inside]
posted by peacay at 3:42 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by peacay at 3:42 AM PST - 6 comments
Books like The Ruins but not like House of Leaves
Please help me fill my Kindle with scary books! I'm currently reading and enjoying The Ruins by Scott Smith. It's not my usual style at all, so I'd like suggestions for what I should read next. Caveat: I am not interested in House of Leaves. [more inside]