Secular version of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8?
October 7, 2020 3:31 PM   Subscribe

My partner and I really like the values expressed in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (love is patient, love is kind...) but are non religious and are looking for something to hang on the wall. Can you recommend any verse/lyrics/quotes/passages that put you in mind of this passage? Thanks in advance!
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Sonnet 116 by Shakespeare
posted by Lay Off The Books at 5:57 PM on October 7, 2020


Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernières

Les Misérables by Victor Hugo

The Ent and the Ent-wife by JRR Tolkien
posted by saeculorum at 6:12 PM on October 7, 2020


Use 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, don't cite book and verses.

Love is Not All (Sonnet XXX) Edna St. Vincent Millay

Love is not all: it is not meat nor drink
Nor slumber nor a roof against the rain;
Nor yet a floating spar to men that sink
And rise and sink and rise and sink again;
Love can not fill the thickened lung with breath,
Nor clean the blood, nor set the fractured bone;
Yet many a man is making friends with death
Even as I speak, for lack of love alone.
It well may be that in a difficult hour,
Pinned down by pain and moaning for release,
Or nagged by want past resolution's power,
I might be driven to sell your love for peace,
Or trade the memory of this night for food.
It well may be. I do not think I would.


Sonnet 116 William Shakespeare

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me prov'd,
I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

Every Day You Play Pablo Neruda

Every day you play with the light of the universe.
Subtle visitor, you arrive in the flower and the water,
You are more than this white head that I hold tightly
as a bunch of flowers, every day, between my hands.

You are like nobody since I love you.
Let me spread you out among yellow garlands.
Who writes your name in letters of smoke among the stars of the south?
Oh let me remember you as you were before you existed.

Suddenly the wind howls and bangs at my shut window.
The sky is a net crammed with shadowy fish.
Here all the winds let go sooner or later, all of them.
The rain takes off her clothes.

The birds go by, fleeing.
The wind. The wind.
I alone can contend against the power of men.
The storm whirls dark leaves
and turns loose all the boats that were moored last night to the sky.

You are here. Oh, you do not run away.
You will answer me to the last cry.
Curl round me as though you were frightened.
Even so, a strange shadow once ran through your eyes.

Now, now too, little one, you bring me honeysuckle,
and even your ******* smell of it.
While the sad wind goes slaughtering butterflies
I love you, and my happiness bites the plum of your mouth.

How you must have suffered getting accustomed to me,
my savage, solitary soul, my name that sends them all running.
So many times we have seen the morning star burn, kissing our eyes,
and over our heads the grey light unwinds in turning fans.

My words rained over you, stroking you.
A long time I have loved the sunned mother-of-pearl of your body.
Until I even believe that you own the universe.
I will bring you happy flowers from the mountains, bluebells, dark hazels, and rustic baskets of kisses.
I want to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees.
posted by theora55 at 7:36 PM on October 7, 2020 [2 favorites]


Just FYI, of the quotations saeculorum listed, the one attributed to 'Victor Hugo' is not genuine (internet suggests it's a Frankenquote from various sources, most of them not Hugo), and the Tolkien one is talking about wives who have left their husbands, possibly forever. The song is a fantasy written by the Ents imagining their lost wives coming back, but within the story they don't return and it's strongly hinted that they never will.
posted by Acheman at 4:18 AM on October 8, 2020 [1 favorite]


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