I would like to pay him back....
August 12, 2019 3:10 PM Subscribe
Yay! Finally getting cornea transplants!
Nay! I have to ask family to cancel plans!
I've been on the waiting list for corneal transplants to restore my vision for a couple years now, I just got a call from the hospital that they have a match if I can do the surgery this week, this is awesome.
The bad part is my nephew (a very young 19) was set to fly out and spend a week with me. I've gotten him to cancel his flight and told him I will reimburse him if the airline will not.
The airline will not but he is resisting me paying him back (he is very much not rich), I feel it is right for me to pay him back for his ticket ($400).
Thoughts?
I've been on the waiting list for corneal transplants to restore my vision for a couple years now, I just got a call from the hospital that they have a match if I can do the surgery this week, this is awesome.
The bad part is my nephew (a very young 19) was set to fly out and spend a week with me. I've gotten him to cancel his flight and told him I will reimburse him if the airline will not.
The airline will not but he is resisting me paying him back (he is very much not rich), I feel it is right for me to pay him back for his ticket ($400).
Thoughts?
I like If only I had a penguin.....'s option B
posted by kathrynm at 3:33 PM on August 12, 2019 [11 favorites]
posted by kathrynm at 3:33 PM on August 12, 2019 [11 favorites]
I hope I'm not second-guessing you here, but when you say that the airline will not reimburse him, do you mean that they're not going to do *anything* for him? Or just that they won't issue a full refund? Because, in my limited experience, an airline will sometimes be able to reschedule you to a later flight at the cost of a change fee plus the fare difference (if any). Much less than a full refund, but more than nothing.
posted by mhum at 3:45 PM on August 12, 2019 [3 favorites]
posted by mhum at 3:45 PM on August 12, 2019 [3 favorites]
Yeah, assuming that they're really giving him no value at all for the ticket towards a future flight, which does seem unlikely, just pay for the ticket when he does get to come.
Good luck with the operation!
posted by praemunire at 4:09 PM on August 12, 2019 [2 favorites]
Good luck with the operation!
posted by praemunire at 4:09 PM on August 12, 2019 [2 favorites]
I like option b. I also like that you’re getting the procedure- it’s going to be great!
posted by kerf at 4:12 PM on August 12, 2019 [2 favorites]
posted by kerf at 4:12 PM on August 12, 2019 [2 favorites]
Has he mentioned there's a medical reason for the cancellation? Southwest came through for me 100% when I had to cancel a flight from DFW, and I wasn't the patient.
posted by kate4914 at 4:30 PM on August 12, 2019 [1 favorite]
posted by kate4914 at 4:30 PM on August 12, 2019 [1 favorite]
Most airlines will convert a canceled ticket to an account balance that can be used to pay for future flights. They will, of course, deduct a service fee from the balance. Maybe have one of your nephew's parents call the airline to cancel before next week?
posted by monotreme at 4:31 PM on August 12, 2019
posted by monotreme at 4:31 PM on August 12, 2019
Good luck.
If he won't let you pay him back now then put it aside in an account or bonds or something and give it to him at a later date.
posted by RolandOfEld at 5:42 PM on August 12, 2019
If he won't let you pay him back now then put it aside in an account or bonds or something and give it to him at a later date.
posted by RolandOfEld at 5:42 PM on August 12, 2019
I would try to Venmo or Zelle it to him if that is an option for you and/or him. If he turns it down, then pay for his flight next time.
Not sure of the Airline, but jetBlue will put the money in a travel bank (less some fee).
posted by AugustWest at 8:18 PM on August 12, 2019
Not sure of the Airline, but jetBlue will put the money in a travel bank (less some fee).
posted by AugustWest at 8:18 PM on August 12, 2019
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posted by If only I had a penguin... at 3:14 PM on August 12, 2019 [15 favorites]