Music for mixed feelings
June 25, 2012 11:16 PM   Subscribe

Need some song recommendations for wildly mixed feelings.

My grandma died last Thursday. I really, really want to be happy because my birthday is coming up this weekend and I get to do stuff with my friends. But at the same time the one friend I REALLY want to see is going to be out of town and may not have time to get together with me either this week or next. I need some music (preferably with lyrics) about how I feel, all mixed up inside. Help?
posted by IndigoRain to Grab Bag (7 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
 
Sorry for your loss, but I hope you get a chance to enjoy your birthday despite it all.

I'm gonna take this one literally: Red House Painters - All Mixed Up
posted by oceanview at 1:10 AM on June 26, 2012


Don't ask me why, but these are what I listen to when I have that "middling" feeling, that indecisive oddness of sad/happy or energetic/all around oddness:

Sprawl II (Mountains Beyond Mountains) by Arcade Fire

Cold Dust Girl by Hey Champ

The Rabbit by Miike Snow

Sons and Daughters and Red Right Ankle by The Decemberists

Four-Letter Word by Gossip

Tightrope by Janelle Monae

In For The Kill

Chilly Down from the movie "Labyrinth"

Ludo's rock opera about a man who's wife dies but he first goes back in time, then gets thrown into the distant future, in order to save her (might make you cry, but it's kinda awesome).
Broken Bride Part I
Save Our City
Part II: Tonight's the Night
Part III: The Lamb and the Dragon
Part IV: Morning in May

Just about anything by Metric

I would also look to Pink Floyd, Queen, the Beatles, and Simon and Garfunkel. I think they knew how to capture this feeling perfectly and classics, with a relaxing guitar and throbbing voice, are often the way to go.
Or techno yourself into oblivion and then put on LMFAO's "Sorry For Party Rockin' "
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:11 AM on June 26, 2012


Sorry my song offers don't have the lyrics that address this btw. Mine are more based on the emotions created....
Also, *hugs* my condolences. My grandpa died this past Saturday and this is what I've been listening to on repeat.
posted by DisreputableDog at 1:18 AM on June 26, 2012


One song that I love to pull me out of a funk and put me in a party mood, is the Mighty, Mighty, Bosstones-The Impression that I get.

The lyrics don't really address your issue, but the song might make you feel better.
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 5:54 AM on June 26, 2012


Kimbra - Limbo

I find Firewater's The Golden Hour works when I'm not sure what I am or want to be feeling, but a certain degree of defiance seems to be called for.
posted by EvaDestruction at 2:24 PM on June 26, 2012


1. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2. Richard Thompson's your man. Anything by him, really, but try I Want to See the Bright Lights Tonight.
posted by Perodicticus potto at 2:26 PM on June 26, 2012


Response by poster: Thank you everyone. Of course I don't expect the lyrics to address my exact situation, just you know, happy and sad at the same time.
posted by IndigoRain at 1:01 AM on June 28, 2012


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