Sex à la carte
August 4, 2011 9:58 AM Subscribe
Help me compile a near-definitive list of sexual fantasies, fetishes, behaviours, etc. I'm looking to expand my sexual horizons by creating a list of sensual activities to serve as a "menu" of sorts. I want to be able to peruse the list to see what piques my interest.
Can you offer items from your own personal list? Or, perhaps you can point me to a book or website that features lists upon lists of things to try? Everything from the usual (blindfolding, handcuffing) to the obscure (blumpy-ing???) is cool.
I would search for yes/no/maybe lists for a good starter list.
Basically, they're lists that you and your partner can complete separately and then look for overlap to find things that you are both interested in.
Here's an example of one. (NSFW, obvs.)
posted by jaksemas at 10:02 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
Basically, they're lists that you and your partner can complete separately and then look for overlap to find things that you are both interested in.
Here's an example of one. (NSFW, obvs.)
posted by jaksemas at 10:02 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
Perhaps this chart may be of some assistance.
posted by matlock expressway at 10:03 AM on August 4, 2011
posted by matlock expressway at 10:03 AM on August 4, 2011
FetLife (NSFW) has what you're looking for.
posted by radioaction at 10:05 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
posted by radioaction at 10:05 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
Sexmap is graphically interesting and interactive.
posted by NoraCharles at 10:18 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
posted by NoraCharles at 10:18 AM on August 4, 2011 [2 favorites]
Seconding FetLife. Check their list of fetishes. It's constantly expanding.
posted by Dragonness at 10:22 AM on August 4, 2011 [1 favorite]
posted by Dragonness at 10:22 AM on August 4, 2011 [1 favorite]
To get really weird, though, I recommend Urban Dictionary. But, uh, use common sense about safety on anything they say :D
posted by Jacen at 10:45 AM on August 4, 2011
posted by Jacen at 10:45 AM on August 4, 2011
If you have a partner, you can go through Mojo Upgrade and maybe get some new ideas together.
posted by bink at 11:11 AM on August 4, 2011 [5 favorites]
posted by bink at 11:11 AM on August 4, 2011 [5 favorites]
If you really want to take the time to discover the outer edges of the human sexual experience, "Psychopathia Sexualis" by Dr. Richard von Krafft-Ebing is your all-in-one shop.
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 11:31 AM on August 4, 2011
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 11:31 AM on August 4, 2011
Nancy Friday's books would be an excellent resource.
posted by whimsicalnymph at 1:53 PM on August 4, 2011
posted by whimsicalnymph at 1:53 PM on August 4, 2011
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posted by Kitty Stardust at 10:01 AM on August 4, 2011