Would you like to play a (sexy) game?

September 30, 2010 3:43 PM

Entering a 'friends with benefits' relationship and looking for fun and sexy ways to get to know each others kinks.

So a friend and I have always flirted outrageously with each other and recent events have caused us to consider a 'friends with benefits' kind of relationship. We are two consenting adults who through the flirting found out we have some common kinks.

What are fun ways, games, lists of questions, whatever that we can use to get to know more about what the other person's kinks/wants/fantasies are? I mean, sure I can say, "I like X" but where is the fun in that?

So far all I've got is a game of "I never, but would have liked to...." and I think MeFi can do better than that.

I've tried googling sex games, but that wasn't what I was looking for.

TIA

posted by anonymous to Human Relations (4 answers total)

Inspired by a rerun of South Park last night: Truth or Dare. Yeah, it's for kids, but why not? Also, establish a safeword.
posted by Mister Fabulous at 3:48 PM on September 30, 2010

Sexy movie night show and tell.

If you show up with Secretary, you can talk about that.

Or, if he shows up with Pirates, you can talk about that.
posted by Cool Papa Bell at 3:57 PM on September 30, 2010

Sexmap.

My partner of four years and I each filled one out, and there were still some surprises. Some of the groupings/fetishes were weird, but I liked the four different pin options.
posted by rhapsodie at 4:22 PM on September 30, 2010 [28 favorites]

Sexy dice? One has verbs, the other has body parts. IE, you could roll "kiss + mouth"... Or something more interesting. I got mine at a mostly vanilla, run-of-the-mill, hetero focused sex shop. They should be readily available.
posted by ShadePlant at 11:40 AM on October 1, 2010