Suggestions for tasteful hardcore?
November 22, 2009 3:45 PM   Subscribe

I'm looking for tasteful, high-quality hardcore porn. Does what I want even exist? NSFW obviously.

I'm a heterosexual male. Despite all of the weird fetish porn out there, I have never found "vanilla" heterosexual porn that I consider tasteful and well-made. It seems like most porn is made with unattractive, over-tanned silicon-augmented actresses and shot with flourescent lighting on a dirty matress in somebody's garage. The actors never seem to be enjoying it and there's too much time spent on cocksucking, facials, corny misogynistic banter, and that sort of thing. And what the hell is with the fixation on anal sex?

But all I really want to see is two attractive people having sex with each other and enjoying it. Ideally it would look like a mainstream movie, or at least one of those softcore porns they show on HBO. In fact, what I'm really looking for is a softcore porn with hardcore action.

As an example, I liked the unsimulated sex scenes in All about Anna, 9 songs, and Shortbus. I also like (simulated) sex scenes from actual movies because they tend to be well-shot and have attractive actresses. As far as actual porn goes, I've found some good lesbian stuff, like Abbywinters, but basically nothing as far as hetero goes.

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posted by anonymous to Computers & Internet (21 answers total) 60 users marked this as a favorite

 
You need to research bittorrent, specifically private trackers. FWIW this isn't limited to porn: Anything that falls under the category "Media X, which is a little bit like Y, but not so...plebian" is guaranteed to have a dedicated filesharing community somewhere on the internet.
posted by Inspector.Gadget at 3:48 PM on November 22, 2009


I just came in here to suggest Abbywinters, but, damn, you've covered it already!
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 3:51 PM on November 22, 2009


Come to think of it, you also might enjoy vintage porn. Worked in a porn store once and most of the stuff from the 70s was pretty palatable, compared to mainstream modern stuff, which was as you've described here.
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 3:53 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


Not videos, but look at http://snusk.tumblr.com/
posted by Xurando at 4:09 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


Check out Comstock Films. They're made with real couples in real relationships, so there's a legitimate intimacy between the participants that's very, very sexy.
posted by mostlymartha at 4:16 PM on November 22, 2009 [4 favorites]


the name you need is ivanafukalot - also the rare boy/girl scene on ifeelmyself
posted by nadawi at 4:16 PM on November 22, 2009


I don't mind a lot of the stuff over at Naughty America. There's some crap stuff over there too, as is the case with pretty much any pay-for-porn site, but I do think a lot of the stuff there will satisfy your requirements. Take a look around and see.
posted by Effigy2000 at 4:29 PM on November 22, 2009


A lot of the movies produced by Private are high budget (for hardcore) and are probably close to what you want. They tend to be fairly vanilla sex and even sometimes have a "story". The participants are not ugly either.
posted by selton at 4:44 PM on November 22, 2009


You might try out some of the movies that Jesse Jane does for Digital Playground. She doesn't do anal (though there are some scenes with actresses that do) and the production quality is quite high, though it's still porn, so "acting" between scenes is not so great. Unfortunately, she's a touch siliconish, so that might not be what you're looking for.
posted by Ghidorah at 5:01 PM on November 22, 2009


might i also suggest the video guide at babes in toyland. peeking through some of their suggestions might give you an easier time narrowing things down.
posted by nadawi at 6:01 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


Have you tried sellyoursextape and IFeelMyself?
posted by Earl the Polliwog at 6:27 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


sellyoursextape is in no way But all I really want to see is two attractive people having sex with each other and enjoying it. Ideally it would look like a mainstream movie, or at least one of those softcore porns they show on HBO.

it is actual couples doing all manner of things that aren't just fucking, but super pretty and high quality isn't their forte.
posted by nadawi at 6:46 PM on November 22, 2009


(they are real couples so you'll get "and enjoying it", it's just not at all focused, or high res, and the participants are by and large of average attractiveness. i enjoy the hell out of it, just thought i'd mention.
posted by nadawi at 6:51 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


Cheggit.net. It is a bittorrent site that users upload pirated porn to of all varieties. Not sure if they have open registration going on right now (they close it occasionally) though. If you do join, one thing to note is that you NEED to read all the rules/faqs unless you want to be banned or lose the ability to download.

They use something called a ratio and if you don't maintain a good ratio, you lose your ability to download. It is very simple to maintain though...just leave your torrent to upload more than you download and you're fine. If you learn their tag searching system you can find what you are looking for pretty easily and they also have forums where you can ask for recommendations.
posted by Elminster24 at 8:43 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


Viv Thomas is pretty good for lesbian stuff. If you're into girls that are tattooed and pierced a little, Joanna Angel seems to have a great time getting fucked pretty good. Guys and girls.

Empornium and PureTNA are other porn torrent sites, though their registrations might be closed. Just signed up for Cheggit, so they seem to be open. Happy jacking.
posted by santaliqueur at 11:00 PM on November 22, 2009


The porn I produce is couples-oriented fetish, specifically love bondage. Not fetish with the, as you put it "cocksucking, facials, corny misogynistic banter..." but fetish designed for loving couples not intent of causing or inflicting pain. I try to demonstrate that pain/ humiliation / misogyny do not have to play a role in romantic restraint play. Little plug, but i wont link it: SandraSilvers.com

I don't do hardcore b/g action in my content. HOWEVER, when I am in the mood for the more loving type of b/g porn you seem to crave, I turn to WifeysWorld.com. An actual married couple. No real lewdness. Just a real couple fucking each other and enjoying it. It's actually rather refreshing. FYI, I have no stake in their site, I've never even met them.

I applaud you for your taste and wish you luck in your search.

XO
Sandra
posted by sandra_s at 11:03 PM on November 22, 2009


Don't bother with Empornium and PureTNA. Cheggit was created by the creators of Empornium after they sold it and it started going down hill really fast. Those sites are garbage compared to the quality of Cheggit.

And Sandra, nice site--loved the previews. Is there any actual hc sex or just solo bondage?
posted by Elminster24 at 11:09 PM on November 22, 2009 [1 favorite]


I've found some good lesbian stuff, like Abbywinters, but basically nothing as far as hetero goes.

FWIW, Abby Winters has done a very limited number of hetero sets, including video. "Limited", as in "count them on one hand with fingers left over." I forget the title they go by. They are hard to find, though. They have the usual AW qualities...young, real people genuinely having fun with each other...but they certainly don't have the slick high production values you seem to want, either.
posted by Thorzdad at 3:40 AM on November 23, 2009


It may be a bit too arty, but Andrew Blake is known for his high production values. Some of it is slightly fetishy.

From the Wikipedia:

Andrew Blake's films are characterized by high production values, artistic stylization, and rigorous technique. His style has been compared to that of the seminal fashion photographer Helmut Newton, and described as "decadent, lush, opulent, unfailingly arousing, moneyed and sophisticated."
posted by bigdamnnerd at 8:30 AM on November 23, 2009 [1 favorite]


You might check out Sinclair Institute - thinly disguised as some kind of 'adult intimate education' outfit, their 'Better Sex' videos feature real couples, nicely shot, explicit, not TOO much lecturizing.
posted by DandyRandy at 8:57 AM on November 23, 2009


FWIW, Abby Winters has done a very limited number of hetero sets, including video... I forget the title they go by.

They're under "Girl Boy" (all six of them). If you're a member, you can find it under "site model lists" (under the "lists" menu), on the second page. Well worth checking out, if you can. I just wish they'd do more, since I haven't seen anything on any other site that compares.
posted by The pets.com Mascot at 10:20 AM on November 30, 2009


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