I'm an atheist. I don't wear this fact on my sleeve. Most of the time, I actively avoid religion as a conversational topic. There are some conversations, however, where you can't duck the topic, because you're providing support to someone who has experienced a personal tragedy, such as the death of a loved one, and in the course of that conversation, they will invoke their religious beliefs. The question I am posing is: how can I provide emotional support and maintain proper boundaries while respecting their beliefs and my own as well?
We are looking for a small city without cold winters that has a large body of water - no inland towns for us- and is vibrant, cultured and intelligent. We have lived in LA, NY and Miami and are now in Durham, Nc - finding it too woodsy and land locked and way to hot in the summer here. We both work and are in our early sixties.
I'm compiling a list of "life goals" that are framed in a specific way. Examples of what I'm looking for include:
- "Shooting your age" (in golf, shooting a score lower than your age)
- "Kicking your height" (As made "famous" by Karl Pilkington.)
- Any others? I'd really like to keep them in the format of "Blanking your blank".
Not sure how to say this, but I think that I am procrastinating on things even when I seem to be busy doing other things. I need to get to a point in my life where I am taking consistent action rather than thinking about doing things. [more inside]
Hi! Was wondering if anyone knows the name and location of the lighthouse in the Lighthouse episode of How I Met Your Mother. THANK YOU!
What can an ordinary 20-something do to help Marissa Alexander who was sentenced to 20 years for firing a warning shot? [more inside]
What should I wear and how should I behave at a dinner, where my ex will be with his new gf? [more inside]
Want to start a new business.. but don't have an idea of what to do. Help? [more inside]
How do I pick my battles in everyday life? [more inside]
What is the real name/location of The Arcadian building in the TV show "How I met Your Mother"? [more inside]
In the last few days I've received this message when trying to watch local content on CBC or Radio Canada: "The requested video cannot be displayed in your region". Perplexed because I am actually in Canada. Has my IP address been compromised? Is there a somewhat easy not too techy fix out there.
Anybody knows the music to this video of the Move your Money project? MYM is a fascinating concept, but I'd be even more happy with the music played here.
DSLR Filter- Narrowed my choices down, need an outside opinion on a couple details. [more inside]
Do you, like me, ever hold your breath for no real reason, just when you are lying around? [more inside]
Anybody know their local city rules governing advertising bicycles attached to cycle racks? What does your city do? [more inside]
Opening your own law firm? [more inside]
How can I get my dog to walk? [more inside]
If I strap a suitcase to my chest so that it's open, almost like one of those trays that an old-style 'cigarette girl' has, and walk on the street downtown, selling little odds and ends, is it legal? [more inside]
foreign phrases for "overacting" [more inside]
Back in 1996, Heather and I visited our friend Jason in Bourne End, northwest of London, and spent a few days in Lynton, in Devon. There was a funicular from Lynton to Lynmouth, and we used to take the train from Lynton down into town and wander around in search of scrumpy. As we got off the railway, at the mouth of the Lyn, we found ourselves on the west bank of the Lyn, and IIRC there was a building right about there with the best ever Victorian-latinate-lingo "please curb your dog" sign I've ever seen. [more inside]
I seem to have a very particular social skills deficit. Can you suggest software that might serve as a kind of brain prosthetic for me? [more inside]
I did a search, but didn't find that anyone asked this specific question, so here goes: I have been working on getting up the nerve to quit my job (not having another one lined up) for many months. [more inside]
what's the meaning of the title of the show curb your enthusiasm [more inside]
Does anyone know where in NYC (preferably in or near the East Village) one can have CDs/DVDs resurfaced for cheap? [more inside]
PersonalPronounFilter: What's the origin of the word "Your" in "Your Honor," "Your Majesty," and "Your Excellency" (among many others)? Why not "My Majesty" or "The Majesty?" Isn't the Queen supposed to be the source of my majesty? She sure as hell doesn't get any additional majesty from me.