My weekend is overbooked to the tune of family vs. work. Help me figure out how to tell my very difficult boss about this the right way.
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posted by chatelaine
on Jan 29, 2013 -
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Is it more important to be near family or to follow career developments? Snowflakey existential question that needs review.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 18, 2012 -
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When should I (or should I) reveal that my partner is applying for for my old job, given that I now work in a new job in the same institution? Or is the whole thing a bad idea? Managers and HR people, your input would be especially appreciated.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 17, 2012 -
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I work on a small office, my stepson also works there. He is bright but for some reason his performance is poor, he makes a lot of mistakes that costs money, and doesn't care about the job at all. The office manager told me today that they don't let him go because they hope my stepson will find another job soon and leave (he just finish a MBA) but asked me not to tell anyone. The problem is that I don't think he is looking for another job. I don't want to involve my husband. I think my stepson has a great opportunity of looking for job while he has this one. What would be the best way to get him to know it without breaking my promise of not telling anyone? Thanks!
posted by 3dd
on Sep 25, 2012 -
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A little more than a month ago, I started a full-time telecommuting job that I thought was my dream job. When I took it, I was working part-time (and had been since my son was born two years ago). This is my first full-time job since becoming a mom. I now think I made a big mistake.
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posted by trillian
on Aug 14, 2012 -
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In the last year, I've made unbelievable progress in my career and life. I'm unbelievably optimistic and excited about my future. My wife (who is super supportive) and I are about to have our first child, I make a great salary in a field I truly enjoy. And now that I'm not worried about the everything, it has finally become clear what I want...what I really want.
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posted by rickim
on Feb 29, 2012 -
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Help me stop raging about a difficult work situation.
I got promoted. My boss's stepson is being hired to take my place. He is incapable of taking over my responsibilities. Looks like this is actually going to happen and I can't stop obsessing. How do I stop thinking about this and just focus on myself??
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 22, 2012 -
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Brother was laid off by new owners, had a verbal agreement with previous owner to keep both of us, should I stay or go?
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posted by MeatFilter
on Dec 11, 2011 -
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Need coping mechanisms and/or advice for dealing with an often times soul-crushing work environment that I can't get out of for at least 1-2 years.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2010 -
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Family Business Filter: How do I negotiate a salary that reflects my value? How does a firm base salary from hourly billing rate?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 7, 2010 -
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DocFilter: For those of you who are physicians and have family life, how have you achieved balance between work and family?
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posted by sciencemandan
on Jul 10, 2009 -
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I want to read fictional and/or true stories about people being put into positions of responsibility unexpectedly for extended periods of time and how they deal with it.
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posted by reenum
on Jan 27, 2009 -
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I just got back to work after taking a week for the holidays, which is apparently a big no-no at my job because this is an insanely busy time for the office. My boyfriend and I just learned that his best friend committed suicide last night. I'd like to take off [more] work but I don't know how to tell my colleagues what's going on without sounding manipulative or lazy.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 29, 2008 -
26 answers
Is my mom really not eligible for FMLA to take care of my sister when my sister gives birth?
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posted by Monday
on Dec 27, 2008 -
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Working with my father is a nightmare. Should I quit? How do I deal with the repercussions?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 5, 2008 -
47 answers
I have a couple of ongoing problems at work and at home that require a lot of work and attention to detail. This is quite stressful for me and my family. I need to get involved in family recreational activities because otherwise both I and they will get stressed out. Nonetheless, I can't help feeling irritated and angry by these activities, even if I am the one suggesting them, because they feel like a waste of time and energy compared to the problems that need sorting out. How can I change how I feel about these things?
posted by blue_wardrobe
on Aug 14, 2007 -
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It's a nice place to work, but do I want to live there? I'm seeking advice, stories, etc. on an issue I've been struggling with for some time now on whether it's worthwhile to keep a good job that's far away from where I grew up. It's kind of a work vs. family issue, although I'm talking about "family" in the extended sense of cousins, parents, etc, as opposed to spouse 'n' kids. Of course, this is a very individual topic, and of course, there is ...
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 27, 2006 -
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AdviceFilter: I am thinking about starting a new business, but am concerned about maintaining a good work/life balance...
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posted by mooders
on Aug 10, 2006 -
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I am moving from santa cruz to portland. My girlfriend and I recently(4 months ago) had a daughter and the cost of living here is so high that we feel there is more opportunity for us up there. We have been invited to stay with my girlfriend's parents for a few months until we get settled, but i am concerned with finding a job that will pay enough to support us. I will be the sole earner so that my daughter will be able to have a parent with her all the time. Any suggestions?
I need to make at least $15/hr ... I have been doing construction related work for the last couple of years but would like to steer away from that in favor of something not so hard on the body. I'd appreciate any comments...
posted by thatjackbuilt
on Feb 13, 2006 -
19 answers
