15 posts tagged with weddings by Anonymous.
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Okay, but am I *really* invited to your wedding?

A few months ago I got an invitation to the wedding of an old friend. ("old"=we were close friends a long time ago; I've seen him two or three times in the last decade and we're barely in touch online). It's far away from me, and we're not close anymore. Does he actually want me to come, or is this just a thing people do? The RSVP date is next week, so it's decision time. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 7, 2016 - 28 answers

Unenthusiastic would-be wedding attendee

My partner's former roommate is getting married and we're invited. I want to go in the interests of not rocking the boat. But I have reasons for not wanting to go. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 11, 2015 - 24 answers

should I stay or should I go

My cousin is getting married abroad, and I don't want to go. I can't come to a decision. It's not a big financial/time strain, but I don't want to go, and don't know how to respond. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2015 - 32 answers

Boycott my brother's wedding?

What’s my moral obligation here regarding my brother’s wedding? A doozy inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 27, 2013 - 96 answers


(re)met the daughter of a family friend last weekend at a wedding. We hadn't seen each other since we were 6 or 7 and she is two years younger than I am. The challenge--spent three hours together, live 600 miles apart, and I can't stop thinking about her. A few more details, but the question is "How can I see if this has potential to go somewhere?" [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2012 - 13 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about spending money on a wedding party

You live in NYC, and you want to have a party to celebrate your very simple City Hall marriage ceremony. But it's complicated. (money issues and feeling guilty inside!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2012 - 17 answers

Outdoor Colorado Weddings

I'm posting this as anonymous as I have some friends and family who read this site, and they don't know we're this serious yet. My girlfriend and I are talking about getting married this summer if we can afford it and afford living together. We're looking at possibly Saint Malo off of Highway 7, Panorama Point or doing something in Rocky Mountain National Park. We're leaning more towards a summer wedding outdoors, June or July. Saint Malo is great, but expensive for what we want ($1000 for a few hours). Panorama Point in Golden Gate State park is more feasible. We're both really practical so we want our friends and family there but not at significant cost or debt. Other then Rocky Mountain National Park or Golden Gate State park, what are some good locations in Colorado for an outdoor wedding? In terms of cost, food for < 30 guests, location, photographer etc... what should we plan to spend? We're talking about doing it on a weekday.
posted by anonymous on Oct 31, 2011 - 6 answers

an apopogy for the unforgivable

I've been invited to a wedding where I'm only going to know a couple of guests. One of them is a woman who has every right to hate my guts. Help me navigate this. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 29, 2011 - 46 answers

Do I need to go to this weddings?

My girlfriend's cousin is getting married in Baltimore. My girlfriend wants me to go. I don't want to. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2011 - 62 answers

He wants a wedding and I don't. Help!

The thought of planning a wedding makes me (female, mid-twenties) want to break out into hives. Problem: my (male, mid-twenties) partner LOVES weddings and desperately wants one. HELP! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 13, 2010 - 40 answers

WeddingFilter: "You're not invited"

How do I politely say "you aren't invited to my wedding" to (almost) all of our guests. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 28, 2010 - 54 answers

Should I just tell my parents to go to hell?

Should I just tell my parents to go to hell? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2009 - 104 answers

The piece of paper that shows you care

I don't believe in marriage. Everyone around my partner and me is getting married and she's getting depressed. How can I show my girl I love her just as much as the guys in rental tuxedos love theirs? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2009 - 132 answers

no, i can't spend $4,000 on your wedding

(Weddingfilter). Friend is having a "destination wedding" over 6,500 miles away. I can't afford to go. Friend thinks I should borrow money from my dad and go with him. I'm 27 years old, and don't really want to "borrow money from dad." [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 26, 2007 - 39 answers

Should I participate in this wedding?

Dear Abby what should I do... I’m in the wedding party of a once close friend, but I’m having doubts as to whether or not I should participate. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2005 - 9 answers

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