We've been invited to a wedding brunch/shower at a restaurant in NYC and I've already RSVP'd that we're attending - should I be expecting that we have to pay for our meal? [more inside]
posted by Neely O'Hara on May 2, 2012 - 24 answers

How do I RSVP to this wedding shower? [more inside]
posted by roomthreeseventeen on Aug 26, 2011 - 10 answers

Late September - 2pm wedding in a Catholic church (although I'm not 100% certain it's a true Catholic ceremony), with reception at 4:30pm. Is this outfit okay to wear? [more inside]
posted by shoppingforsanity on Sep 13, 2010 - 73 answers

How do I politely say "you aren't invited to my wedding" to (almost) all of our guests. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 28, 2010 - 54 answers

WeddingFilter: Help my girlfriend and I gracefully decline a request to work the reception table. Again. And forevermore. [more inside]
posted by krippledkonscious on Apr 10, 2007 - 33 answers

Please point me toward resources to help me cope with my family and their responses to my impending (gay) engagement. My Google-fu seems to be failing me. There's more details on my specific situation inside. [more inside]
posted by fiercecupcake on Apr 3, 2007 - 35 answers

Wedding Etiquettefilter - was I invited or not? what should I do about it? [more inside]
posted by typewriter on Aug 19, 2006 - 13 answers

Dear Abby what should I do... I’m in the wedding party of a once close friend, but I’m having doubts as to whether or not I should participate. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2005 - 9 answers

Weddingfilter: Church ceremony from 2 to 3pm; reception starting at 7pm, less than a half hour of travel in between. Is it too long to make people wait? Out of towners will have hotels nearby; friends might not really have anywhere to go. [more inside]
posted by onlyconnect on Mar 30, 2005 - 30 answers

If you were going to throw out the etiquette books, forget every tradition you've ever learned and try to build an inexpensive, small (30-50 person) wedding from the ground up, what traditions would you absolutely want to hold on to? What would you throw out the door? What would you do to make it less stressful for a couple that doesn't handle crowds well? And if you've got more than a year lead time, when would you even start thinking and worrying about this? [more inside]
posted by croutonsupafreak on Oct 20, 2004 - 21 answers

Bridesmaid etiquette on gifts - What to do? (more inside) [more inside]
posted by ArsncHeart on Apr 18, 2004 - 6 answers