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Should my mother's mechanic have caught a failing fuel pump earlier?

Should my mother's mechanic have caught a failing fuel pump when he repaired a closely related relay? [more inside]
posted by aaronbeekay on Mar 21, 2012 - 10 answers

Help me figure out what's going on

Needing advice from an estate lawyer or someone with thorough knowledge of how trusts work. [more inside]
posted by northxnorthwest on Mar 21, 2012 - 15 answers

how to trust?

why do people say to you "you can tell me anything" when they don't really mean it? [more inside]
posted by timsneezed on Mar 2, 2012 - 20 answers

"I think that we may safely trust a good deal more than we do." --Thoreau

I want to buy a widget in Fayette, AL in the next few days. I am not there, don't know anyone there, and can't get there. Am I out of luck? [more inside]
posted by RolandOfEld on Feb 8, 2012 - 8 answers

My GF cheated on me. How do I get to a point of clarity so I can make a decision?

Girlfriend of 3 years got blackout drunk slept with a random acquaintance while on a business trip. I need tips, methods and advice to find clarity so I can make a good decision, rather than one of impulse. I'll do my best to keep this brief, but, well, these things have details: [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 31, 2012 - 107 answers

Not sure if it's trust or communication that's the problem here.

If my boyfriend says he's coming home late by txt, and I want to know more basic information, like who he's hanging out with, maybe also where, how can I communicate my need to know (for my own peace of mind) without coming off as insecure or controlling? [more inside]
posted by Sa Dec on Jan 27, 2012 - 86 answers

How can I get over this breach of trust?

How to get over a serious breach of trust that is not infidelity? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 21, 2011 - 28 answers

Do I keep dating this guy?

Do I keep dating this guy? [more inside]
posted by dolce_voce on Dec 10, 2011 - 21 answers

How much trust should be given in a new relationship?

How much trust should be given in a new relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2011 - 27 answers

Can a 3 year relationship survive a break after trust is broken (not infidelity...but almost)?

Can a 3 year relationship survive a break after trust is broken (not infidelity...but almost)? [more inside]
posted by fezzle on Dec 8, 2011 - 38 answers

Sex and Love.

How do you get over the shock and pain of discovering you've been sleeping with someone who hasn't been in love with you for months? [more inside]
posted by These Birds of a Feather on Nov 15, 2011 - 13 answers

When long distance love crosses the borderline disorder.

The girl I love, who wants to be my wife, is 3,000 miles away from me. She is/was a cutter, may have Borderline (BPD) and lives in a country that I don't trust their mental health system. What should I do until I get her to America and a qualified therapist? OR how do I let her go gently? [more inside]
posted by DaftMythic on Nov 6, 2011 - 38 answers

Opportunities for Writers

How likely is it that writer A contacts an agent with a writing idea, which the agent rejects from writer A but then encourages writer B, who agent knows, to write it? [more inside]
posted by CollectiveMind on Nov 6, 2011 - 12 answers

About those "reformed" ex-boyfriends and girlfriends..

Reformed exes- "suck it and see", or leave it alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2011 - 22 answers

Can I get a jump?

I feel like I'm stuck in that awkward phase of a relationship between dating and when things become serious. I'm ready for something more. I'm not sure my boyfriend is, and I'm concerned. Snowflakes abound. [more inside]
posted by erstwhile on Oct 15, 2011 - 20 answers

No, trust ME. Please.

How do you deal with anti-intellectualism in a spouse? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2011 - 45 answers

Creepy or Nice? How to tell the difference!

Dating Filter: Is he creepy or just nice? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 19, 2011 - 71 answers

I don't trust my trustee.

This is a question about an inherited estate and a trustee that I suspect is not acting in my best interests. [more inside]
posted by tiny plastic sockpuppet on Aug 18, 2011 - 5 answers

How can I help my husband help himself?

How can I support my husband as he works through some issues? [more inside]
posted by your mom's a sock puppet on Jul 22, 2011 - 13 answers

I have trouble trusting and I need help

Yes, I have trust issues and I don't think my girlfriend is helping any... I'm ready for therapy... what can I expect, what can I do to make it the most helpful, and what can I do to preserve my relationship through this -- or should I? [more inside]
posted by doompuppy on Jul 18, 2011 - 32 answers

What's it like when it's nice?

What are the nice aspects of becoming intimate with a "romantic partner"? What does it feel like when it's a healthy situation? Can you give me some examples of things that are nice about sharing your life in an intimate way with your partner? [more inside]
posted by Chrysalis on Jul 13, 2011 - 24 answers

Living Trust vs Will

Living trust versus a will for a married couple with minor children and moderate assets? [more inside]
posted by John Frum on Jun 21, 2011 - 4 answers

For once [ha!], I might actually be overreacting...

I love my boyfriend and we've been talking about getting married. I'm a little wary of some things about his past and some things he's said, even though he's been nothing but wonderful to me. I'm reluctant to address them with him directly because I don't want him to feel like I'm judging his character. Are my concerns valid, or do I let this one go? [more inside]
posted by Be cool, sodapop on Jun 12, 2011 - 52 answers

Do we need a Living Trust?

In California, what are the benefits of a Revocable Living Trust and a will? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 26, 2011 - 4 answers

Wife mistrust me, what do I do?

Wife mistrusts me now over a single comment, and thinks I'm withholding family information. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by pxharder on Apr 20, 2011 - 36 answers

How should I set up this trust

What are some ways to structure a trust? I'm setting up a trust so that if I die, my child would not have a sudden, relatively large windfall. I've got life insurance, 401k and quite a bit of equity in a house, and at this time, I think it would be problematic. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2011 - 11 answers

And there are no blood tests for this, I take it...

My therapist now thinks I've got ADHD. Everyone agrees I'm bipolar. I'm self-diagnosed with medical students' disease. How do I sort this out now that I know she's biased? [more inside]
posted by Fee Phi Faux Phumb I Smell t'Socks o' a Puppetman! on Mar 1, 2011 - 22 answers

Is it really a binary decision?

Are my relationship demands unreasonable? [more inside]
posted by Turkey Glue on Feb 16, 2011 - 75 answers

Cleaning Service Trust Procedures

What should I do to increase my trust of my house cleaners? [more inside]
posted by Phredward on Feb 8, 2011 - 8 answers

What is the process for quickly selling a car willed to me?

What is the process for quickly selling a car willed to me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2011 - 8 answers

What kind of lawyer do I need, if any?

What kind of lawyer do I need, if any? Suing father for ownership of a custodial (UTMA) account. [more inside]
posted by mnemonic on Jan 16, 2011 - 17 answers

Friend is a four-letter word

{Relationship Filter} So my husband of less than a year looked up an old friend last month. Said friend happens to be married, female and goregous. They hadn't spoken in more than 10 years. They've been e-mailing, and my husband says he has no ulterior motives. I'm not so sure. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 14, 2011 - 41 answers

E-Jealousy

I believe my boyfriend may be entering in to an emotional affair with a former coworker via facebook. How do i bring this up without seeming untrusting when nothing physical has happened (yet?) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2011 - 37 answers

Can we make this work?

I told myself I would never post a relationship question, but here goes: My boyfriend had, what amounts to in my mind, an emotional affair that's been going on for the past 6 months. I need help deciding if this is worth salvaging. There are, of course, lots of details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 29, 2010 - 43 answers

How do you trust someone you are just getting to know?

Started seeing a new guy very recently. I know for a fact that he had a a boyfriend when we met; however, he claims that things haven't been working out and that they're "taking a break." How do you know whether to believe someone if you haven't known them very long? [more inside]
posted by Vinegaroon on Dec 28, 2010 - 15 answers

How to date someone who gets in your head?

Is it detrimental to date a psychiatrist (not my own) after being in an emotionally abusive relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2010 - 24 answers

Dogs hate me. Do you hate me?

I met a guy's dog recently. She started growling at me like crazy, barking, and then peed on the floor. I will admit, I am not a dog person, and they make me really nervous. I just don't want to pet your dog, and I think they can sense it. I wonder, though. Do dog people think less of people who don't like dogs? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2010 - 75 answers

Space Is The Place...Except At Work

How do I handle a nosy and pushy coworker while I plan my next step? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2010 - 17 answers

I thought that sort of thing was just between the two of us...

My girlfriend of a significant amount of time posted a naked picture of herself online without ever talking to me about it... am I wrong to be bothered by this? [more inside]
posted by doompuppy on Nov 16, 2010 - 84 answers

Trust? How to give it freely?

Any advice on how to give trust freely and not get caught in the cycle of waiting till others earn trust? [more inside]
posted by PeaPod on Oct 17, 2010 - 12 answers

Is there a list that ranks which industries people trust the most?

Is there a list somewhere that describes which industries are rated highest in public opinion? [more inside]
posted by zooropa on Oct 17, 2010 - 8 answers

Can people really be friends at work - disillusioned here.

Should I talk to my new superior “B” (also my friend who this question is about) about what I’ve found out about her clandestine strategic maneuvering? I’ve done nothing so far, but I’d love to query the hive mind for suggestions. [more inside]
posted by lonemantis on Oct 12, 2010 - 35 answers

She must have Daddy Issues.

How do I overcome my severe trust issues with men? Very long backstory inside, be warned. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 7, 2010 - 25 answers

Do I really know myself at all?

How do you know if you are being honest with yourself? What's the difference between making excuses/rationalizing and being honest about the positive/negative of a situation? [more inside]
posted by sio42 on Sep 30, 2010 - 28 answers

How do I rebuild trust and relationships with my family?

How can I rebuild my relationship with my SO and my parents when someone seems set to undermine it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2010 - 6 answers

Trying to avoid drama between protective mother and laid-back grandparents

Grandparents (my parents) want to take my precocious ~3 year old and his ~5 year old cousin out for the day, wife is nervous and wants me to go, but the grandparents are put off, how do I handle this diplomatically? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 28, 2010 - 41 answers

Normal wedding jitters, or a sign of bad things to come?

I’m engaged. Wedding date is set, I have my dress and all our vendors are booked. But, thinking about life with my fiancé is scaring me. Is this normal pre-wedding jitters, my own anxiety, or a sign that we aren’t right for each other? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2010 - 60 answers

It's another cheating question!

Some friends found my husband's active profile on a swinging website. I did not know he was doing this. Needless to say, I'm angry. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2010 - 24 answers

Elder lawyer referral needed, NYC

Recommendation needed for quality elder attorney in New York City area ( willing to travel a bit to save money). Areas of expertise would be asset management to meet requirements of assistance programs, irrevocable trusts etc, Medicaid, SSD, and Pooled Income Trusts. Any recommendations from personal experience or leads to a decent referral source would be much appreciated. [more inside]
posted by flummox on Jul 23, 2010 - 6 answers

Is he my boyfriend or a creepy sex addict?

Should I trust him? Can people really change? [more inside]
posted by osloheart on Jul 19, 2010 - 71 answers

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