I like him a lot, but I have PTSD don't feel like I have much to give in a relationship. He wants to wait, but I'm not so sure.
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posted by proximacentauri
on Dec 22, 2012 -
7 answers
In the past two years my short-term memory has gotten terrible. I forget where I put items, I forget names which I wouldn't have in the past, and I am not good at all in keeping short lists in mind. I have searched for solutions but have found no real answers.
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posted by Lugos
on Dec 16, 2012 -
9 answers
How do I deal with the stress and drama caused by my emotionally manipulative live-in sister? The emotional welfare of her two young children is also at stake. Special snowflake details inside.
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posted by BrianJ
on Dec 3, 2012 -
18 answers
My life is spiraling out of control due to constant self-sabotage. How do I start battling this problem?
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posted by tammi209
on Nov 18, 2012 -
26 answers
How do I plan for or learn to cope with huge changes in my life this year that include graduating university, getting married, moving cross country? (sorry long!!)
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posted by snowysoul
on Nov 2, 2012 -
3 answers
I do NOT want to come in to work today. My shift begins in 3 hours and I'm seriously considering just not showing up. One week working there and I already want to quit - HELP!
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posted by HiphopAnonymous
on Oct 21, 2012 -
39 answers
Give me your tried-and-true tips on eating (consistently and healthily) when anxious.
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posted by pinetree
on Sep 8, 2012 -
22 answers
I'm suddenly caregiver for my mid-70's parents after a serious car accident, and I'm completely lost, and while I'm sympathetic, I want them the heck out of my house as soon as possible.
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posted by kinetic
on Jun 7, 2012 -
22 answers
Should I be someone who takes more action when I'm under stress? If so, how do I go about becoming that person?
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posted by EatMyHat
on May 21, 2012 -
9 answers
Help graduate (medical) school not grind me down. Recommend me stress / harm reduction techniques for maintaining positivity and a general sense of optimism?
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posted by kurosawa's pal
on Feb 10, 2012 -
10 answers
How can I not get so agitated by my ill parent's moaning? I live with my parents and take care of my dad while my mom works during the day. He has had medical problems that have left him temporarily unable to move around much, and now he has a yeast infection on his butt that is making just sitting painful at times. I can hear him sometimes moaning in pain in the other room. I can't just put on headphones, because I have to be able to hear when he calls me for help. It's having almost a physical effect on me. I get disgusted and aggravated when I hear this, and the stress is keeping me from getting much done. Is there any way I can manage this?
posted by vash
on Jan 25, 2012 -
24 answers
"I'm a Pantera's box you do not wanna open."-filter:
Looking for work advice about not reacting to my perceived stories about the intent and methods of communication of my peers. Details inside...
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posted by Draccy
on Jan 10, 2012 -
17 answers
Would I know if this is as good as it gets? I know I've got it pretty good, better than most I bet...but I feel a little, I don't know, perhaps unsettled. But maybe that isn't even the right way to describe it - physically it's more liked stressed with a side order of tired. How do you know when you're at the top of your game and when you are in the place that is best for you and your family?
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posted by YukonQuirm
on Dec 13, 2011 -
14 answers
Insomnia-filter: Help this stressed-out couch-sleeper re-learn how to sleep in the bedroom (with television).
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posted by headnsouth
on Sep 26, 2011 -
18 answers
Is being borderline-weepy and extremely short-tempered a normal part of adjusting to hormonal birth control or should I call my doctor?
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posted by Blue Jello Elf
on Sep 9, 2011 -
20 answers
I'm responding to work stress by becoming (secretly) emotional and non-communicative. I can tell that my reaction is out of proportion to the situation - there is a lot of work and not enough bodies, and everyone in my group is overwhelmed - but I still feel very threatened. People get in my face - I act like I don't care, tell them "yeah, that isn't getting done." And after they leave I cry at my desk (again, secretly). How can I be more calm, cool, and effective?
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posted by bunderful
on Jul 19, 2011 -
7 answers
I'm pursuing my dream but have so much pressure that it's not even fun anymore. Is this normal, or am I being unrealistic and setting myself up for disappointment?
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posted by Jofecopa
on Jun 17, 2011 -
16 answers
Career: New job, rapidly discovering I don't like the way the place works, but need to stick it out. How to adjust my expectations in order to survive?
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posted by Franny26
on Apr 16, 2011 -
22 answers
I'll soon be working from home full time. What are some "policies" I can enact for my home office to keep my productivity, sanity and health intact?
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posted by Diplodocus
on Mar 31, 2011 -
21 answers
Is a secretarial or clerical job in a marketing agency a reletively low stress 9-5 job?
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posted by Jade_bug
on Mar 5, 2011 -
16 answers
How do you recover from academic stress? Or any other intense, brain-killing stress? I have a week and a half off between semesters and I need a plan.
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posted by carbide
on Jan 3, 2011 -
20 answers
If I am trapped in a meeting or group with a co-worker who likes to hear himself talk (I mean really pontificate)...how do I go zen on it all? How do I adjust my own frustration? He sometimes has an entourage/fan club which isn't my business but I get really frustrated when stuck with him. He also tends to show up in the same small group parties I have attended. Deep breathing doesn't seem to be helping. I'm thinking about a flask of whiskey.
posted by snap_dragon
on Nov 11, 2010 -
20 answers
I've decided to fade away from a specific friendship or at least take a break from it. The problem is, this person is my bridesmaid, my wedding is less than a month away and I have been allowing her actions to overshadow what should be a fun and joyous time for me and my fiance.
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posted by spec80
on Sep 17, 2010 -
68 answers
What can I give or do for my supervisor to show my support and help her with the stress of caring for a family member after a lung transplant?
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posted by princesspathos
on Aug 5, 2010 -
3 answers
My 58 year old dad has been having a squeezing pain in his heart. It has happened a few times, and then just goes away. He went to the emergency room, got a lot of tests done including the stress test, and they determined that his heart is healthy. He has healthy blood pressure and has a manual labor job, and so gets a lot of exercise. The doctor said it might be stress. Does anyone have experience with this? My dad is ready to just try to relieve his stress, but I am worried that it could be something else that the doctor may not have picked up on. Any solutions, including alternative medicine? Thank you!
posted by tessalations999
on Jul 10, 2010 -
18 answers
I've had to miss two weeks of university lectures due to health reasons and now have a lot of catching up to do before my exams. How do I not go crazy?
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posted by teraspawn
on May 9, 2010 -
5 answers
I'm dealing with feelings that I'm not ambitious enough and not enough of a hard worker, and I'd like some perspective on how hard is 'hard enough.'
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posted by Tehhund
on Apr 7, 2010 -
11 answers
how can i wake up in the morning without all of life's worries immediately entering my brain?
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posted by sucre
on Mar 7, 2010 -
24 answers
How can I juggle anxiety (maybe hypochondria), problems with my house itself, and still stay on top of school/work?
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posted by barbudo
on Jan 3, 2010 -
9 answers
I was recently diagnosed with adult ADHD (inattentive type) and put on Adderall. I have very, very mixed feelings about this -- hopeful, because it seems to really be helping me in multiple areas of my life, but also anxious that it is a crutch that I can't use forever. Does anyone have any insight or anecdotes to help me either (1) feel better about being on Adderall, or (2) come up with an alternative plan to manage my issues?
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posted by dumbledore69
on Oct 19, 2009 -
23 answers
