I need evidence! I want to change two of my core beliefs about myself: (1) I will not find someone I love as much as the last girl and (2) I will not be truly happy until I find someone else. If you are single and do not believe these things about yourself, what evidence would you say backs up those beliefs for you? [more inside]
posted on Jul 5, 2008 - 20 answers

What resources exist for a motivated single mother looking to take care of herself and her little girl? [more inside]
posted on Jul 1, 2008 - 23 answers

How do I deal with loneliness? How do I accept being single? [more inside]
posted on Jun 26, 2008 - 42 answers

RelationshipFilter: Help me find some good time activities to do at home with a prospective girl friend. [more inside]
posted on Jun 20, 2008 - 39 answers

Bike Filter-What should I do with my old mountain bike? [more inside]
posted on Jun 15, 2008 - 17 answers

I want a boyfriend. But, in the meantime, I could be having sex with people. Should I? [more inside]
posted on Apr 30, 2008 - 20 answers

What's the best format for an extremely lightweight drinker to buy & store wine, to enable very gradual consumption without the wine going sour? [more inside]
posted on Apr 8, 2008 - 21 answers

A few years ago, I read about a dating service in NYC where potential mates got together for some sort of dinner or dinner party. At the time, there was a high ratio of women to men, because men who were looking for "the quick score" weren't interested in the service. Does anybody know the name of this service?
posted on Feb 22, 2008 - 5 answers

Ex-Filter: How do I rebuff an old flame's friendship with being rude? (Longish) Backstory within... [more inside]
posted on Feb 4, 2008 - 20 answers

Since I seem to be hurtling towards old maidhood, I’d like enjoy the ride as much as possible. It irritates me that single women are so often portrayed as sadsacks just marking time until they can get married, or as being eaten up with bitterness and neuroses because they never found a man. So, I’m looking for positive role models and inspiration. What examples of fabulous freewheeling women can you think of in fiction, movies and real life? [more inside]
posted on Jan 9, 2008 - 54 answers

25 year old girl that hasn't had anything past a 2nd date in 6 years, what is wrong (if anything) with me? [more inside]
posted on Dec 30, 2007 - 43 answers

Can anyone recommend a good lunchtime or after work bar in the Austin, Texas area? [more inside]
posted on Dec 26, 2007 - 11 answers

I am in my twenties, and I have given up on the idea of ever having sex again because I believe I am secretly too hideous for it. [more inside]
posted on Dec 8, 2007 - 53 answers

Can a single speed or track bicycle without a rear quick release skewer work on my minoura vfs fluid trainer? [more inside]
posted on Dec 2, 2007 - 3 answers

Books and resources for a single mother who doesn't really fit the stereotype of "mother", and is more about taking care about herself? Any other way I can help her? [more inside]
posted on Nov 7, 2007 - 8 answers

If you were single for a while and somehow got out of it, how did you? [more inside]
posted on Nov 1, 2007 - 40 answers

Shameless fangirls and boys, or plain old online music experts: can you help me find this elusive B-side Bjork single online? [more inside]
posted on Sep 14, 2007 - 7 answers

I think i'm turning into a cougar, and I need help. [more inside]
posted on Sep 10, 2007 - 47 answers

I'm an extrovert who is turning into an introvert. How can I start liking the time I spend with myself? [more inside]
posted on Sep 10, 2007 - 11 answers

Help me help my 30 year-old friend get a date or something. [more inside]
posted on Aug 15, 2007 - 35 answers

Anyone care to share their monthly grocery budget and list? Headed into maternity leave, down to one income, living in DC... [more inside]
posted on Jul 26, 2007 - 42 answers

What do you do with your life if you never get married or have kids? [more inside]
posted on Jun 27, 2007 - 82 answers

I'm a single woman and have decided it's time to think about having a baby. What are my options? [more inside]
posted on May 24, 2007 - 12 answers

pluralsfilter: Why don't we use words like "radiations"? [more inside]
posted on May 10, 2007 - 8 answers

I'm organising the hiring of a car for myself and 2 other people who are a couple. I'll be paying for the car upfront - should I ask them for half of the amount or two-thirds? [more inside]
posted on May 2, 2007 - 34 answers

Instead of going on my honeymoon, namely because I am recently and unfortunately single, I would like to take the time to treat myself to a vacation. [more inside]
posted on Mar 21, 2007 - 29 answers

Any advice for a single mother venting? She's a good mom, I've seen her and her kids. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only friend who understands. [more inside]
posted on Mar 8, 2007 - 9 answers

What are good reasons for requesting a single room in college? [more inside]
posted on Feb 13, 2007 - 42 answers

Can I, as a single woman, sit in a neighborhood bar reading a book or a magazine without looking desperate or lame? Can you suggest such a bar in the Arcadia/Central Phoenix area? [more inside]
posted on Feb 1, 2007 - 30 answers

Looking for good, free, flexible programs that I can use to simulate single transferable vote elections.
posted on Jan 9, 2007 - 2 answers

Lost in Ireland: I'm a thirtysomething single woman who would like to spend some time in Ireland, anywhere from 2 to 5 weeks, probably in March or April. What to do? [more inside]
posted on Jan 3, 2007 - 10 answers

I'm looking for way to get a CD or record single of an obscure 60s Saskatoon band. They're called Witness Inc. [more inside]
posted on Dec 11, 2006 - 3 answers

Something special to do for boyfriend who is a stressed out single parent? [more inside]
posted on Nov 25, 2006 - 9 answers

A female aquaintance of mine who is in the national guard expressed how she might soon be called to duty in Iraq/Afghanistan, however she isn't exactly willing. She claims that she will be exempt from active duty because she is a single mother (recently divorced). I wonder how accurate she is considering that she doesn't really raise any of her children full time. What do you think?
posted on Nov 16, 2006 - 10 answers

A week in Honolulu, Oahu, Hawai'i. All expenses paid. Solo. What the hell do I do until Saturday? Obviously, there's [more inside]
posted on Nov 14, 2006 - 14 answers

SingleMotherFilter: My friend's got a one year old girl, and single mom or not, she's going to provide for her -- even if it means moving to Seattle. She's not helpless: The baby's father will pay childcare expenses, and she's actually got a couple years of tech support gigs on her resume to go along with her long history of being a computer enthusiast. But neither of us know too much about actually arranging childcare or finding entry level tech jobs around Seattle. Any words of advice?
posted on Aug 29, 2006 - 9 answers

Advice for an otherwise well-adjusted person who misses being in a relationship? [more inside]
posted on Jul 19, 2006 - 24 answers

Where can I find a single-earpiece VOIP headset? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2006 - 5 answers

Two friends agreeing to marry each other if they are single by a certain age: does this really happen in real life? [more inside]
posted on May 20, 2006 - 47 answers

I am always bored on the weekends. I like to be really busy all of the time, but I am not very good at finding things that I enjoy that aren't also expensive (I have very little disposable income). Also, I dislike doing things alone, but I'm single and most of my friends are in relationships and hang out with their sig other on the weekend. What do YOU do on the weekends? I'm one of those people who likes work-type things more than play, but I don't really want to get a part-time job or anything. I guess what I'm saying is that I like things that are challenging and "suck you in."
posted on Jan 29, 2006 - 28 answers

DatingFilter: I'd like to send a message to a guy on Friendster, but I can't decide what I'd like to say. [more inside]
posted on Dec 6, 2005 - 37 answers

In the U.S., we get all caught up in the decisions that adult women make and the consequences of those decisions. (To have children, not to have children, to work, to stay home with the children, not to work, to marry, to have children without marrying, etc.) Are there similar convulsions about these cultural issues in other countries, especially non-English speaking ones? How can I learn about them? I'm curious both about how women's roles in in their societies are changing and about how those societies are reacting to the changes.
posted on Nov 30, 2005 - 6 answers

Does anyone have any recommendations of guided/escorted tour companies that run tours geared towards women? I'm looking to go on vacation, and I'll be by myself. I'd prefer to travel in a group so I have people to talk to, and I don't want to be on a bus with 19 year old college students or 55 year old couples. The tours geared for singles look a little dodgy. [more inside]
posted on Oct 17, 2005 - 6 answers

Hi, I am looking for an mp3 tagger that can find the tag for just one mp3 not a hole album. [more inside]
posted on Aug 29, 2005 - 5 answers

MonasteryFilter: I'm a 22 year old male. I've never dated, even though I've had opportunities. Is this unhealthy? [more inside]
posted on Jun 18, 2005 - 36 answers

Hi folks, I love to travel but unfortunately all the vacation deals (hotel and airfare) seem to be based on traveling for 2. Are there any special sites or methods I should look into that don't rely on traveling with someone else? I have no problem traveling alone and am open to going to almost anywhere (provided the price is right.) Please stop punishing me for being single.
posted on Apr 4, 2005 - 4 answers

My father passed away from a rare cancer last week. I'd like to send my mother regular "care packages" to ease her through this transition and let her know I'm thinking of her. [more inside]
posted on Mar 8, 2005 - 9 answers