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Can you help me find personal writing by bisexual men?

As a bisexual woman I've been thinking lately about the strange status of bisexual men in my society (the USA). There are surely plenty of bi men around - I've met several and dated a couple, but I've read very little in depth writing from the point of view of men who date or sleep with both men and women. [more inside]
posted by crabintheocean on Dec 29, 2008 - 15 answers

This ring, it vibrates?

Are vibrating cock rings any good? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2008 - 20 answers

Still queer, thanks for asking!

Family holidays: some help at navigating not-so-subtle gender cues? [more inside]
posted by puckish on Dec 4, 2008 - 10 answers

Where did my morning wood go?

I never get morning erections anymore. Why? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 17, 2008 - 12 answers

friendly exchange of ideas with evangelist door knockers

every weekend evangelist missionaries knock on our door for a chat. I'm wondering how to politely express my support for gay marriage, sex education, access to abortion services etc. while staying friendly and not getting in a forty minute conversation that goes nowhere. [more inside]
posted by compound eye on Nov 8, 2008 - 42 answers

Nuanced discussions of sexuality

I want to read about sexuality. [more inside]
posted by mpls2 on Aug 28, 2008 - 13 answers

What should I tell people about my sexuality?

I don't like labeling my sexuality, but other people seem to want me to do so. How do I deflect them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2008 - 49 answers

smart online sex forums: lizard brains can wait outside

Is there a Metafilter about sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 5, 2008 - 3 answers

We're big and getting busy. How can we get busier?

Sex positions for overweight people? NSFW details inside [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 12, 2008 - 10 answers

Question about erection angles

I have a NSFW, but nevertheless clinical and sober, question about erection angles (question follows). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2008 - 19 answers

What am I making my brain do to my body?

Can someone tell me what I am doing in my brain to cause this sensation in my body? Am I a monk? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 3, 2008 - 20 answers

What are the social benefits of pornography?

Does porn benefit society? Over the years we've read a lot about the ills of pornography but the world doesn't seem to be falling apart any faster than it was before the internet came along. What's the latest thinking on this? [more inside]
posted by vizsla on Jun 18, 2008 - 22 answers

How can I stop thinking about the nasty?

I'm obsessed with sex. I think about it constantly. How can I make it stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2008 - 35 answers

What else is in this invisible backpack?

I'm a straight, white, upper middle class male. I'm aware that this automatically means I generally have an easier time than people with a different sexuality/race/class/gender. That said, I'm probably unaware of what these benefits are. What does this 'privileged' status do for me that I don't even notice? [more inside]
posted by twirlypen on May 29, 2008 - 80 answers

My groin wants what my brain doesn't!

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

I think I'm straight. Now what?

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

Mom, Dad? I don't even have a closet.

How to deal when family thinks you're in the closet? [more inside]
posted by landedjentry on Apr 5, 2008 - 39 answers

How does a gay man go about dating women?

How does a gay man go about dating women? [more inside]
posted by pantheON on Mar 11, 2008 - 31 answers

Help me overthink sex and romance.

What are some good books/essays/articles about human sexuality, sexual and romantic relationships, and sexual or otherwise affection-entangled activity - with an emphasis on the theoretical? I'm thinking more along the lines of Judith Butler than The Joy of Sex - so suggestions should be at least vaguely academic. (Things like Leaves of Grass count as vaguely academic). [more inside]
posted by bubukaba on Mar 10, 2008 - 21 answers

More than once every 52 seconds

I feel my libido is too high. How can I normalize it healthily and deal with it? [more inside]
posted by StrikeTheViol on Feb 19, 2008 - 32 answers

Help me figure out what to do about my relationship.

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

SNRIs vs. libido

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Where can I find help in dealing with a sexual fetish?

Where can I find therapy which will allow me to understand / cope with / overcome a fetish? [more inside]
posted by ninepin on Nov 1, 2007 - 25 answers

My little brother is a furry?

So it turns out my kid brother might be a furry. Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2007 - 42 answers

Developmental disability and sexuality

Parents of children or young adults with developmental disabilities: how have you dealt with sexuality issues? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2007 - 5 answers

PMS. WTF.

What is the evolutionary relevance of PMS?
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Jul 2, 2007 - 49 answers

I want to come out as hetero at my gay workplace.

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. Confused!!!

This is very complicated so get comfortable....I'm a girl of 24 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in october to be with a woman. [more inside]
posted by shitontheradio on Jun 12, 2007 - 22 answers

What am I?

I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers

How best to overcome impotence?

How best to overcome impotence? I feel really horrible about myself right now. [more inside]
posted by Jake Apathy on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Help me with my (non-education related) research

I'm writing an article for a friend's zine about fictional media portrayal of adolescent and pre-adolescent sexuality - looking for examples and sources [more inside]
posted by Wroksie on May 31, 2007 - 23 answers

Should I tell my girlfriend I've had gay sex before?

Should I tell my long-term girlfriend (I'm male) that I have had sex with men in the past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2007 - 65 answers

Where's my parade?

Help me, if you will, loosen the ferociously tangled knot of my sexual orientation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2007 - 51 answers

Recommendations for films to improve your sex life?

Neither my boyfriend nor I have a particularly high libido, and we make love once every few weeks or so. We've discovered, though, that we really enjoy watching good movies that are also....well....hot. And I do mean good films -- not porn -- that also are sexual. (Sex & Lucia, Shortbus, etc.) We enjoy watching a film, find it arousing, and then we have great sex! I'm curious what other films are out there that tell a good story....have strong character development....and are sexy. Any recommendations?
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2007 - 73 answers

I am curious about how some people manage to approach nudity without the social connotations of vulnerability, sexuality, and invasiveness.

I am curious about how some people manage to approach nudity without the social connotations of vulnerability, sexuality, and invasiveness. [more inside]
posted by gregb1007 on Feb 27, 2007 - 38 answers

How do I find out whether he likes me?

Is he gay like me? Will it work out? The messy process of coming out ... [more inside]
posted by cscott on Feb 9, 2007 - 25 answers

How to become a sex goddess?

SexualityFilter: I was raised as a strict religious conservative, but have realized that's just not me and I am starting over. I'd like to learn a lot more about myself, sexually. What tips and books do you have to help give a 23 year old woman sexual knowledge and confidence? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 4, 2007 - 36 answers

Make my girlfriend more confident so we can have better sex

My partner loves going down on me. She loves kissing me once or twice, briefly sucking me like a lollipop, and is uneasy about doing anything more, which ends up being frustrating for both of us. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2006 - 34 answers

Please don't touch me there. Or there. Or there, there, there and... yes, not there either.

Why don't I like to be touched on certain parts of my body? I'm a 38 year old male, and for as long as I can remember, there are places on my body I don't like to be touched. Some of them make sense, given certain events in my past, but most of them not so much. To explain... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2006 - 25 answers

Our son came out to us today. Now what?

My 20 year old son came out to my wife and I this morning. I want to support him and understand his lifestyle and decisions better. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 23, 2006 - 38 answers

how does it feel to have your period?

how does it feel to have your period? [more inside]
posted by krautland on Oct 19, 2006 - 96 answers

What percentage of male-to-female transsexuals are lesbian in their sexual orientation after their transitions?

What percentage of male-to-female transsexuals are lesbians after their transitions? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet on Oct 4, 2006 - 10 answers

What are the best sex blogs?

What are the best sex blogs? I'm interested in reading humorous, insightful, or just interesting writing about sex. [more inside]
posted by pornucopia on Sep 19, 2006 - 22 answers

Um, coming out... again.

For the last 5 years (age 18-23), I've identified myself as a gay man. Came out to my friends and family and was living okay. Now, for the last year, I've basically come to realize I'm not gay. I've lost all attraction to men and I kinda fell for a woman. I haven't talked to anyone about it (including "her"), and am now realizing I need to come out (er, again). Any ideas how to handle it with my friends, family, and "her"? I'd obviously like to minimize the humiliation, anger, hurt, etc.
posted by anonymous on Sep 6, 2006 - 27 answers

What do Blind people find sexy?

For most people, physical attraction is visual. So how do Blind people become attracted to someone in the absence of visual stimuli? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet on Aug 30, 2006 - 13 answers

Good books about female sexual health and body issues?

What are some good books or other materials for a woman to learn about female sexual health and how to love her body? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2006 - 14 answers

Cystic Fibrosis, Dating, and Sex

I'm currently dating a wonderful woman who has cystic fibrosis. I've been making an effort to be as informed as possible about the disease, so I can understand and/or accomodate any special needs that she might have. What do I need to know that I won't learn from the medical websites? Of extra importance is sexuality - are there any implications of the disease in the sexual arena? Thanks!
posted by anonymous on Aug 14, 2006 - 2 answers

Gay to Straight Woes

Have any MeFites had experience dating someone of the opposite sex after previously only being attracted to members of the same sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 13, 2006 - 10 answers

Dr. Mefi's Sexual Advice Chat

Help me help my less experienced fella in bed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2006 - 18 answers

Perhaps I should become a Buddhist monk and leave the situation.

Wow. My sexuality is really messed up. [more inside]
posted by Jake Apathy on Jun 17, 2006 - 32 answers

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