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Asked my boyfriend if he was gay, and feel awful now. Help!

Questioned my boyfriend's sexuality... realize I may have crossed a line. Help please? [more inside]
posted by Teradactyl on Apr 5, 2012 - 53 answers

Follow through

How do I sleep with a woman? If I am a late 20's woman who has never done so before. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 15, 2012 - 11 answers

How to prevent self sabotage?

Asking for a friend: How can a person get over a crippling anxiety of getting dumped? [more inside]
posted by stedman15 on Feb 20, 2012 - 11 answers

Circadian sexuality circus

What might cause a 'scheduled' sexuality change/shift, regularly, in a man? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2012 - 8 answers

Will discuss gender performativity for food.

What kind of jobs should I be looking for that are women's/gender studies related? I like working on issues more than with people. [more inside]
posted by nakedmolerats on Jan 25, 2012 - 11 answers

Help me figure out how to address sexual issues

I am feeling guilty and confused about sexual issues I had with my ex. Please help give me ideas about how I should have handled this, and what I can learn from it (sorry, this is long and a bit convoluted). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 17, 2012 - 21 answers

How should I approach my girlfriend - and myself - with my evolving sexuality?

Help me figure out what's going on with my sexuality and what it means for my long-time relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2012 - 32 answers

How can I help him not be a rapist?

I need resources for helping a sexually inappropriate adolescent boy learn to respect women. Some of the details are creepy and probably triggering. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 10, 2011 - 76 answers

I want to accept my sex drive.

Help me accept my sex drive and become okay with fulfilling my sexual needs outside my sexless (and open) relationship. [more inside]
posted by chameleon on Nov 16, 2011 - 16 answers

This must be, like, seventeenth-wave feminism.

Women of AskMe, what does pinching a man's ass mean and/or how should one react to such an event? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2011 - 43 answers

Evolution of the visual language of sex appeal

Can you recommend books/articles on the history of the visual representation of sexuality in popular culture? [more inside]
posted by abirdinthehand on Oct 8, 2011 - 6 answers

'Reverse' Bicurious, am I kidding myself?

I am a 25 year-old gay(-ish?) male living in New York City. Perhaps uncharacteristically, I have a really strong drive to have kids (of my own) and really want to do so in the next five or ten years. I'm torn about how to get there though, given relationship difficulties that hinge largely on unresolved issues relating to my sexuality. Warning: TL;DR potential, but significant context is necessary. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2011 - 21 answers

What if you're not sexually attracted to the people you fall in love with in a way that's fulfilling?

Where can I find out more about people with opposite sexual and romantic orientations? [more inside]
posted by Vrai on Sep 22, 2011 - 5 answers

Masters in Creative Sexytimes

Which grad schools in the Bay Area are open to interdisciplinary approaches, especially with regards to creativity & sexuality? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Aug 31, 2011 - 8 answers

Bathroom issue after sex, but was it fromt he sex or from something else?

Bathroom issue after sex, but was it the sex's fault? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 21, 2011 - 12 answers

Should I do this program in sexuality education?

Should I do this certificate program in sexuality education? [more inside]
posted by c'mon sea legs on Aug 19, 2011 - 6 answers

Jesus was a swinger?!

I'm looking for reputable (i.e. with citations/bibilographies) histories or studies about the evolution of sexuality within the Judeo-Christian religions. [more inside]
posted by Doleful Creature on Aug 18, 2011 - 12 answers

Birds do it, bees do it. Even educated fleas do it...oh and your grandmama.

Old people have sex? Please help me find media representations of geriatric sexuality in various media such as in commercials, movies, posters, television, newspapers, and so on. [more inside]
posted by Knigel on Aug 16, 2011 - 30 answers

What else can one do to experiment with sex, besides the actual sex part?

Sex question :) What else is there to experiment with, besides the act itself? Looking for as many ideas as possible. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2011 - 20 answers

The internet is scaring me about Yaz and birth control in general. Help!

The internet is freaking me out about Yaz and I am looking for more common sense answers to my concerns rather than 'This will medicine will give you blood clots and kill you.'. More specific details inside about me, and my health and my concerns. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 2, 2011 - 15 answers

What is my sexual orientation?

Am I a lesbian? Bisexual? Or, straight but asexual? Please help. I am, obviously, very confused. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2011 - 33 answers

Is there any going back?

I think I'm a lesbian. I'm married. I have no gay friends. My family is Conservative Christian. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 16, 2011 - 46 answers

I need to stop thinking about sex for the next week and a half. Yes, really.

Short-term coping techniques for Wellbutrin-related hypersexuality? (likely NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2011 - 21 answers

Getting sexual mojo back: monogamous female edition

I need inspiration for rekindling my dormant sexuality, now that motherhood is underway. [more inside]
posted by misoramen on May 6, 2011 - 12 answers

Teh HeteronormZ data outdated, incomplete, or other?

What scientific research has been done on the science of gay attraction and sexuality? [more inside]
posted by herbplarfegan on Apr 21, 2011 - 14 answers

Brain, what the hell

You know how awkward you feel at 12 when you're trying to talk to the cutie in your class? Well, that's me, but at 27, and with women. I'm a woman, and I'm completely lost with how this works. Maybe lost is an understatement. Could you walk me through what you did, if you experienced this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2011 - 12 answers

We live together. How do we best play withourselves separately?

Masturbation when co-habitating hacks: How do you work out "alone time" when you're living with your SO? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 18, 2011 - 42 answers

I'm gay! Oh wait, maybe I just am trying to stir up trouble in my hetero relationship.

Questioning my sexuality. In a relationship. Also, how do I get over my completely unhealthy need for drama in a relationship? I believe these two issues are conflated in my case. [more inside]
posted by tweedle on Mar 6, 2011 - 8 answers

My libido was... procrastinating?

21, female, "newly-sexual" - is it really that unusual? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 4, 2011 - 10 answers

You are likely to be eaten by a grue

What kind of therapy or self-help can I do to stop picturing all sex taking place in a room where I was abused? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2011 - 7 answers

Dealing with bisexuality

Being bisexual in a relationship... How do you deal with being attracted to the other sex? How do you know you're supposed to be with the sex you're with? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2011 - 15 answers

Gay for a day?

I consider myself straight, but am interested in having sex with a girl just to see what it's like. I am under the impression that lesbians are not big fans of people like me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2011 - 21 answers

Published research on the development of sexual fantasies

I'm wondering if there exists a published timeline that explains all the psychological changes before, during, and after puberty in regards to sexual fantasies. [more inside]
posted by antgly on Jan 28, 2011 - 5 answers

Psychological barriers to sexuality

I have some friends who have had blocks in realizing their sexualities and I'm wondering what the cause of it is. I can't seem to find much information on this topic anywhere else. [more inside]
posted by antgly on Jan 7, 2011 - 20 answers

Grief vs Sexuality

How do I reconcile my interests and passions with creativity and human sexuality, in the face of death, grief, and tragedy? Are there any thoughtful heartfelt resources from those who have talked about the two? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Jan 3, 2011 - 10 answers

Is there an Ask.MeFI for sex and sexuality?

AskMeFi is always a place you can count on getting good info and help from the community. Is there a site where you can get the same quality of answers and thoughts in regard to sex? Been looking and keep finding junk and adolescent user bases. I'm not so much looking for clinical, more along the lines of an open and *open minded* community dedicated to sex and all things sex related. A place where I could ask something on the 'fringe' side and get helpful, grown up input. Thanks
posted by mrflibble on Jan 1, 2011 - 6 answers

Openness of mind

Is there a way to expand who you are attracted to? [more inside]
posted by antgly on Dec 23, 2010 - 24 answers

Gender nonconformity and sexuality

How strong is the correlation between non gender conformity and homosexuality? [more inside]
posted by antgly on Dec 1, 2010 - 32 answers

How do you have a family that talks?

How can we develop the kind of family where things like race and sexuality and other big topics are discussed in an open, healthy, relaxed way? [more inside]
posted by flail on Nov 29, 2010 - 17 answers

How to stop being a worrywart?

How do I stop worrying? [more inside]
posted by antgly on Nov 16, 2010 - 19 answers

a ten year slump

my wife and i are approaching the ten year mark in our relationship, and with that comes a bit of sexual boredom. we have tried many new things, but the problem appears to be more disposition than lack of creativity. we are not very well off financially, so going down to the local sex therapist is not an option. we are simply looking for some inexpensive/free (books, blogs, etc.) suggestions that may change minds. can anyone help?
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2010 - 7 answers

LGBT resources for those in need

Are there any resources available for young LGBT individuals who are not able to live in their current living environment due to being kicked out or are denied entry into the home? Also it would be nice to find out about employment and college resources for us. I'm not a minor - I'm 19 years of age.
posted by antgly on Nov 1, 2010 - 22 answers

Is it worth it to get a PhD? It seems really scary.

What is getting a PhD really like? Is it worth it? I want to be a researcher in psychology, sexuality, and gender. [more inside]
posted by tweedle on Oct 15, 2010 - 48 answers

It's 2010 : Where the Hell's My Orgasmatron?

Are there any systematic/scientific-method-y ways of learning more about one's sexuality (namely, personal arousal cues/triggers)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 15, 2010 - 7 answers

Help me find my attraction! Please!

About a week ago, I was lying down on my bed not feeling well emotionally - I had been very low feeling and had lots of anxieties and stressful feeling for months. [more inside]
posted by antgly on Sep 27, 2010 - 11 answers

Getting past a stupid first

After questioning and coming to terms with my sexuality and yet a lower sex drive due to somewhat not sure causes (though I'm getting tests done out of curiosity), I was invited over for some fun. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 14, 2010 - 12 answers

Death of attraction? Hopefully not...

Not really sure how to let this out to my college counselor. In February of this year, I came out to my mom and brother. Things were better than I thought they would turn out to be. A couple of month later, my Dad somehow got the impression that we were all hiding something from him and as such, coerced me to tell him what was going on. I told him. He was somewhat judgmental of me and I completely stopped talking to him about these topics. Ever since that, I've been worried about how my future decisions will affect my relationship with my parents. [more inside]
posted by antgly on Aug 30, 2010 - 53 answers

Can we skip the flogging tonight, dear? I have to wash the drapes.

My hubby's kinky. I'm not. Please help us figure out a fair way to compromise in the bedroom. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2010 - 46 answers

Biological evidence for homosexuality?

hey... I was wondering where I can find the best evidence to prove that sexuality is biological or womb hormonally rather than child rearing caused? Just for my parents who are damn annoying. Thanks!
posted by antgly on Aug 17, 2010 - 33 answers

Where is my attraction?

I'm 19 years old, a guy. I was wondering what has happened to my sexual attraction. Typically during the college and high school years in the past, I used to be more sexually attracted to different guys (yes I'm gay). Right now it's summer break and I spend most of my time at home and not really in the presence of different people. Now when I occasionally go out, I don't seem to have the sexual oomph that I've had in the past. I do have success with my self, but it doesn't seem as strong as before. What is it a problem with? Is it low sex drive? Is it that I'm going crazy? Is it that I'm not seeing enough people? Is my attraction limited to types of people and is that normal? I think it is.
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2010 - 9 answers

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