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I'm never horny.

Early twenties female, healthy, reasonably happy, who simply doesn't have any sex drive. What am I doing wrong? Details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2014 - 21 answers

The sheets... they float

My partner, for the lack of a better term, is a "squirter". NSFW details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 5, 2014 - 21 answers

Don't try so hard, but don't NOT try either!

I have trouble achieving orgasm, but it doesn't really bother me. However, apparently it bothers other people a whole lot. How can I explain all this in a way that will make sense to others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 28, 2014 - 11 answers

How to tactfully explain to people that I’m not straight?

I got married last year (!). My husband and I are both queer, and both have a history of same-sex relationships before we met one another. This hasn't caused any problems in our own relationship, but it’s causing some unexpected confusion at our LGBT-friendly church. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2014 - 34 answers

Resources on Normal and Abnormal Childhood Development?

Looking for resources for a well-educated layperson on the following topics. I'm trying to figure out if the childhood psychological/psychosocial development for a person who had early signs of sexual knowledge (age 2, already expressing complete sentences) but who expressed verbal interest only later (age 5) was normal/abnormal and if parenting or just precociousness/agency had anything to do with anything that might be considered normal/abnormal about that development path. I'm out of my depth here in research and would appreciate your help. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2014 - 3 answers

29 year old virgin: embarrassed and confused

I am a 29 year old woman. I am fit, attractive, have a good personality, have had relationships, can sustain friendship. My friends say that I am a catch, and assume that I "get around" even though I never, ever, talk about my sexual exploits...because, well, the furthest I've gone is third base. I know my life circumstances explains some of the delay (details in extended explanation), but I want to know if there's anything else that I am doing wrong? Or am I actually not the weirdo popular culture made me think I am, and more people share this experience but are too afraid to admit? I feel so incredibly embarrassed. Am I missing out on something really important to become a real person? Will my lack of experience be a problem in the future? What if I am so lacking in practice my future partners find that a problem? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2014 - 24 answers

How can I revive my sex life with my girlfriend?

My girlfriend and I have lived together for about a year and a half. We're a solid couple, we love each other a lot and generally communicate well, but our formerly awesome sex life is just non-existent now. We've talked about it, but she's just withdrawn and apologetic whenever I try to initiate things. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2013 - 28 answers

Let's talk about ... virginity!

30 year old virgin. History of sexual assault as a teen. Terrified of sex for a number of related reasons. The fear is holding me back and stunting my growth. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2013 - 29 answers

Want to enjoy sex but am turned off by myself

I don't have a low sex drive, but I rarely want to have sex. Or rather, I WANT to have sex but I don't want to be me while I'm doing it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2013 - 22 answers

It's too late to try communication

I didn't communicate with my SO before hand, and now I'm self destructing. What are my options? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 16, 2013 - 14 answers

Breath Play - Safety and the Conversation

How do I let my new partner down easy that I may not be able to do all the breath play and choking she might want? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2013 - 12 answers

Online discussion forums for BDSM?

I'm looking for websites that have discussion-areas for people who are into BDSM. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 27, 2013 - 6 answers

Channeling horniness into creativity

Hi all-- I am a female writer with a high sex drive. With most of my moods, I have figured out how to use the energy of anger or sadness or whatever to write something borne from it. But when I'm feeling horny, I really don't know what to do with it, aside from write about sex, and I want to be able to do more than that. This may sound like a silly inquiry, but I'm wondering if other artistic sorts have dealt with it.
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2013 - 12 answers

Why am I so hung up on this?!

I am heterosexual. During a party, I was asked by a roommate if I was gay. This is not the first time - I need help navigating my insecurity regarding my sexuality. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 22, 2012 - 52 answers

Not serious enough for brain Brillo

Why does my brain insist I want to kiss my best friend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2012 - 23 answers

I want to love sex again!

Help me regain my sexual confidence, after some bad experiences. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2012 - 27 answers

How to move on (and out?)

[heartbreak/confused sexuality filter] Recently admitted my romantic feelings toward a close friend, but have no idea how to pick up the pieces of my actions and move forward. Somewhat messy details within. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 17, 2012 - 11 answers

How can I cope with celibacy?

I'm a heterosexual American man in my mid-20s. I have no relationship experience, never had sex, never kissed, never held hands, blah blah blah. I'm not looking for help approaching women, I just need some ideas on how to cope with a life of loneliness. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2012 - 68 answers

I want to be a normal person

I am trying to come to terms with the fact that I'm kinky, but I feel like my life is over and I wish I could just cut this out of me and get rid of it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2012 - 53 answers

Please help me navigate a bizarre love triangle.

My girlfriend might have a girlfriend, and we might have a problem. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 3, 2012 - 55 answers

Male lesbian?

Advice and guidance for someone grappling with sexual and emotional orientation? Specific case inside. trigger warning [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2012 - 10 answers

How do I keep a friendship meaningful when it clearly requires me to distance myself emotionally?

I'm seriously stuck about my feelings for my best friend. How do I distance myself emotionally when the feelings of attachment are so intense that I can no longer concentrate enough on myself? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2012 - 19 answers

Mild Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome

Wondering whether I might have mild androgen insensitivity syndrome and that it may play a role in my sexual orientation. I haven't turned much up on this on Google. Does anyone have any expertise on the subject? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 10, 2012 - 4 answers

Follow through

How do I sleep with a woman? If I am a late 20's woman who has never done so before. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 15, 2012 - 11 answers

Circadian sexuality circus

What might cause a 'scheduled' sexuality change/shift, regularly, in a man? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2012 - 8 answers

Help me figure out how to address sexual issues

I am feeling guilty and confused about sexual issues I had with my ex. Please help give me ideas about how I should have handled this, and what I can learn from it (sorry, this is long and a bit convoluted). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 17, 2012 - 21 answers

How should I approach my girlfriend - and myself - with my evolving sexuality?

Help me figure out what's going on with my sexuality and what it means for my long-time relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2012 - 32 answers

How can I help him not be a rapist?

I need resources for helping a sexually inappropriate adolescent boy learn to respect women. Some of the details are creepy and probably triggering. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 10, 2011 - 76 answers

This must be, like, seventeenth-wave feminism.

Women of AskMe, what does pinching a man's ass mean and/or how should one react to such an event? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2011 - 43 answers

'Reverse' Bicurious, am I kidding myself?

I am a 25 year-old gay(-ish?) male living in New York City. Perhaps uncharacteristically, I have a really strong drive to have kids (of my own) and really want to do so in the next five or ten years. I'm torn about how to get there though, given relationship difficulties that hinge largely on unresolved issues relating to my sexuality. Warning: TL;DR potential, but significant context is necessary. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2011 - 21 answers

Bathroom issue after sex, but was it fromt he sex or from something else?

Bathroom issue after sex, but was it the sex's fault? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 21, 2011 - 12 answers

What else can one do to experiment with sex, besides the actual sex part?

Sex question :) What else is there to experiment with, besides the act itself? Looking for as many ideas as possible. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2011 - 20 answers

The internet is scaring me about Yaz and birth control in general. Help!

The internet is freaking me out about Yaz and I am looking for more common sense answers to my concerns rather than 'This will medicine will give you blood clots and kill you.'. More specific details inside about me, and my health and my concerns. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 2, 2011 - 15 answers

What is my sexual orientation?

Am I a lesbian? Bisexual? Or, straight but asexual? Please help. I am, obviously, very confused. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2011 - 33 answers

Is there any going back?

I think I'm a lesbian. I'm married. I have no gay friends. My family is Conservative Christian. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 16, 2011 - 46 answers

I need to stop thinking about sex for the next week and a half. Yes, really.

Short-term coping techniques for Wellbutrin-related hypersexuality? (likely NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2011 - 21 answers

Brain, what the hell

You know how awkward you feel at 12 when you're trying to talk to the cutie in your class? Well, that's me, but at 27, and with women. I'm a woman, and I'm completely lost with how this works. Maybe lost is an understatement. Could you walk me through what you did, if you experienced this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2011 - 12 answers

We live together. How do we best play withourselves separately?

Masturbation when co-habitating hacks: How do you work out "alone time" when you're living with your SO? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 18, 2011 - 42 answers

My libido was... procrastinating?

21, female, "newly-sexual" - is it really that unusual? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 4, 2011 - 10 answers

You are likely to be eaten by a grue

What kind of therapy or self-help can I do to stop picturing all sex taking place in a room where I was abused? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2011 - 7 answers

Dealing with bisexuality

Being bisexual in a relationship... How do you deal with being attracted to the other sex? How do you know you're supposed to be with the sex you're with? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2011 - 15 answers

Gay for a day?

I consider myself straight, but am interested in having sex with a girl just to see what it's like. I am under the impression that lesbians are not big fans of people like me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2011 - 21 answers

a ten year slump

my wife and i are approaching the ten year mark in our relationship, and with that comes a bit of sexual boredom. we have tried many new things, but the problem appears to be more disposition than lack of creativity. we are not very well off financially, so going down to the local sex therapist is not an option. we are simply looking for some inexpensive/free (books, blogs, etc.) suggestions that may change minds. can anyone help?
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2010 - 7 answers

It's 2010 : Where the Hell's My Orgasmatron?

Are there any systematic/scientific-method-y ways of learning more about one's sexuality (namely, personal arousal cues/triggers)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 15, 2010 - 7 answers

Getting past a stupid first

After questioning and coming to terms with my sexuality and yet a lower sex drive due to somewhat not sure causes (though I'm getting tests done out of curiosity), I was invited over for some fun. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 14, 2010 - 12 answers

Can we skip the flogging tonight, dear? I have to wash the drapes.

My hubby's kinky. I'm not. Please help us figure out a fair way to compromise in the bedroom. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2010 - 46 answers

Where is my attraction?

I'm 19 years old, a guy. I was wondering what has happened to my sexual attraction. Typically during the college and high school years in the past, I used to be more sexually attracted to different guys (yes I'm gay). Right now it's summer break and I spend most of my time at home and not really in the presence of different people. Now when I occasionally go out, I don't seem to have the sexual oomph that I've had in the past. I do have success with my self, but it doesn't seem as strong as before. What is it a problem with? Is it low sex drive? Is it that I'm going crazy? Is it that I'm not seeing enough people? Is my attraction limited to types of people and is that normal? I think it is.
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2010 - 9 answers

How do I be sexy?

I want to be sexy. Unfortunately, I'm a straight man. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2010 - 60 answers

When and how did you realize you were bisexual?

Sexuality seems to be a very fluid and complex matter, and perhaps bisexuality even more so. My question is, when and how did you realize you were bisexual? And on a side note, I'd like to hear some opinions on a unrequited love situation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 24, 2010 - 11 answers

It's Like Achieving Nirvana, Only In My Pants.

Help me stop obsessing over having an orgasm with my partner (because if I can do THAT, I might actually stand a chance of having one - d'oh! Obsessing again...) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 22, 2010 - 14 answers

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