My 14-yo son has recently come out to me as gay. Should I share anything about the "experimental" phase of my youth? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 7, 2009 - 74 answers

My husband will probably be starting hormones and this may eventually lead to gender reassignment surgery. I fully support him, however it goes. There is a lot of advice out there for how transgendered people should tell their partners or parents, but very little for how supportive partners should tell their families. Any advice? (longer story inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 13, 2009 - 8 answers

Help me be more comfortable with my (straight, female) sexuality and be more sexy [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 19, 2009 - 52 answers

I'm a dude; he's a dude. I'm in love with him, and I need to get over him. But I can't. Please help me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2009 - 22 answers

Transgender resources in San Francisco and the Bay Area? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 13, 2009 - 14 answers

Are vibrating cock rings any good? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2008 - 20 answers

I never get morning erections anymore. Why? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 17, 2008 - 12 answers

I don't like labeling my sexuality, but other people seem to want me to do so. How do I deflect them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2008 - 49 answers

Is there a Metafilter about sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 5, 2008 - 3 answers

Sex positions for overweight people? NSFW details inside [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 12, 2008 - 10 answers

I have a NSFW, but nevertheless clinical and sober, question about erection angles (question follows). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2008 - 19 answers

Can someone tell me what I am doing in my brain to cause this sensation in my body? Am I a monk? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 3, 2008 - 20 answers

I'm obsessed with sex. I think about it constantly. How can I make it stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2008 - 35 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

So it turns out my kid brother might be a furry. Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2007 - 42 answers

Parents of children or young adults with developmental disabilities: how have you dealt with sexuality issues? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2007 - 5 answers

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

I am confused about my sexuality. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2007 - 25 answers

Should I tell my long-term girlfriend (I'm male) that I have had sex with men in the past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2007 - 65 answers

Help me, if you will, loosen the ferociously tangled knot of my sexual orientation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2007 - 51 answers

Neither my boyfriend nor I have a particularly high libido, and we make love once every few weeks or so. We've discovered, though, that we really enjoy watching good movies that are also....well....hot. And I do mean good films -- not porn -- that also are sexual. (Sex & Lucia, Shortbus, etc.) We enjoy watching a film, find it arousing, and then we have great sex! I'm curious what other films are out there that tell a good story....have strong character development....and are sexy. Any recommendations?
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2007 - 73 answers

SexualityFilter: I was raised as a strict religious conservative, but have realized that's just not me and I am starting over. I'd like to learn a lot more about myself, sexually. What tips and books do you have to help give a 23 year old woman sexual knowledge and confidence? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 4, 2007 - 36 answers

My partner loves going down on me. She loves kissing me once or twice, briefly sucking me like a lollipop, and is uneasy about doing anything more, which ends up being frustrating for both of us. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2006 - 34 answers

Why don't I like to be touched on certain parts of my body? I'm a 38 year old male, and for as long as I can remember, there are places on my body I don't like to be touched. Some of them make sense, given certain events in my past, but most of them not so much. To explain... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2006 - 25 answers

My 20 year old son came out to my wife and I this morning. I want to support him and understand his lifestyle and decisions better. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 23, 2006 - 38 answers

For the last 5 years (age 18-23), I've identified myself as a gay man. Came out to my friends and family and was living okay. Now, for the last year, I've basically come to realize I'm not gay. I've lost all attraction to men and I kinda fell for a woman. I haven't talked to anyone about it (including "her"), and am now realizing I need to come out (er, again). Any ideas how to handle it with my friends, family, and "her"? I'd obviously like to minimize the humiliation, anger, hurt, etc.
posted by anonymous on Sep 6, 2006 - 27 answers

What are some good books or other materials for a woman to learn about female sexual health and how to love her body? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2006 - 14 answers

I'm currently dating a wonderful woman who has cystic fibrosis. I've been making an effort to be as informed as possible about the disease, so I can understand and/or accomodate any special needs that she might have. What do I need to know that I won't learn from the medical websites? Of extra importance is sexuality - are there any implications of the disease in the sexual arena? Thanks!
posted by anonymous on Aug 14, 2006 - 2 answers

Have any MeFites had experience dating someone of the opposite sex after previously only being attracted to members of the same sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 13, 2006 - 10 answers

Help me help my less experienced fella in bed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2006 - 18 answers

So my girlfriend got the dreaded phone call last night... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 20, 2006 - 24 answers

I've been happily (well, to various degrees) living my life as a lesbian (mostly of the soft-butch/butch) variety for many years. I think I might be genderqueer. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 12, 2006 - 15 answers

[SexFilter] After much bruising, my boyfriend and I would like to try again. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 18, 2006 - 26 answers

I am a man with a sexual problem. It's probably the opposite of what you think. Details inside, NSFW or kids. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2005 - 26 answers

My eight year old son is behaving sexually at school and at camp. I feel that it's too early for the birds and bees talk. But he has been in trouble. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2005 - 37 answers

While in Vegas talking about the presence of legalized prostitution, my partner (female) broached the subject of a threesome (thus making it two girls and one man, myself). After I ascertained she wasn't joking, I realized I didn't have the first clue about how/whether to actually make it happen (i.e. how to get in touch with a call girl who does couples, what the proper etiquette is, how much would it actually cost, how to make sure you're getting a relatively attractive girl, potential pitfalls I wasn't seeing, whether my girlfriend would actually collapse into a ball of shame afterwards, etc). Does anyone have personal experience with this sort of situation, or have resources to direct me to regarding the logistics of couples with call girls? My girlfriend explicitly said she would only do it with a paid girl because then we'd never see her again and there would be no aspect of jealousy involved, so friends are out of the question. Please only respond with serious answers (esp. to the specific questions above), since I can think of snarky jokes on my own...
posted by anonymous on Jan 25, 2005 - 23 answers