"And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson..."Can you help me become a more effective sexual mentor?
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posted by anonymous
on May 6, 2013 -
10 answers
Please share your knowledge about the customs of dating, my question being from the point of view of a sexual abuse victim, and of the reactions of men who go on dates with her.
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posted by Jireel
on Feb 1, 2013 -
37 answers
If you have experienced child sexual abuse and came to some sort of healing what do you wish you had known from the beginning? What words of advice do you have for someone just beginning to go down that path?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 19, 2013 -
17 answers
Where in Melbourne, Australia can I be tested for STIs? I live in the eastern suburbs, so the
Melbourne Sexual Health Centre isn't particularly convenient - though if it is cheaper/quicker for testing/results, I will consider making the trip there.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 18, 2013 -
4 answers
Asking for a friend (semi-NSFW): I noticed a white discharge coming from somewhere it shouldn't... What STD is this?
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posted by dkleinst
on Dec 6, 2012 -
9 answers
What type of sexual relationships do women and men enjoy? I have a question, what is healthy sex and a healthy male female relationship.
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posted by mrfawcet
on Sep 18, 2012 -
25 answers
I’m going to be working with the (presumably unaware) friend of someone who sexually assaulted me in the past, and the perpetrator also has personal information on me that I’d rather not be made public. How should I interact with the friend personally and professionally?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 19, 2012 -
14 answers
A married coworker made a pass at me - help me stop feeling like I need to peel all my skin off.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 2, 2012 -
38 answers
My sister received a dream job offer but for one thing - the man who will be her direct supervisor was definitely looking at her boobs both times she went into the office for the interviews.
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posted by pluot
on May 21, 2012 -
33 answers
Four years ago I married a great guy. We've been together a total of eight years. Sometime around when we got married...maybe a little before, I stopped wanting sex with him. I dreaded it on our wedding night/honeymoon. At first I thought it was just a phase, something to do with wedding planning burnout and general nerves. Four years later, it's even worse than it was. Otherwise, we have a good relationship, I think. We have everything in common, a shared worldview, good communication. Because of the sexual issue, we have talked numerous times about separating. I guess what I can't figure out is, why this has happened, and if our entire relationship is worth ending over it.
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posted by anonymous
on May 20, 2012 -
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When I was about 15, I remember coming across a book in a now defunct Borders that was pretty interesting. The whole premise was that it featured stories about Hollywood stars and their various sexual liaisons, their sexual quirks, and even the ages at which they lost their virginity. For example, In one of the pages on the actor Dustin Hoffman it recounted the story of the actor tricking his brother's girlfriend into having sex with him and thereby relieving him of his virginity. In another article on Clark Gable, it was revealed that he suffered from smegma and that his wife once quipped that an "inch less and he'd be the queen of Hollywood." Anyway, does anybody where I can find this book. The only title I seem to remember for it--and I am not sure if it's even correct or not--was something like "Did He or Didn't He: Stories of Hollywood's Most Notorious Sex Secrets"
posted by lackadaisical
on Apr 16, 2012 -
8 answers
Can you direct me to genuinely funny comedic soft-core or hard-core pornographies? Along the lines of naked sitcoms?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 28, 2012 -
23 answers
I think I may have been sexually assaulted in the past by my best friend in the whole world. I'm conflicted about this and I'm wondering if it's possible for us to still be friends? And if so, how?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 1, 2012 -
26 answers
I went away to boarding school in 1993/4. During 1993, a teacher there who was sexually inappropriate. I sort of lost track of him, but found out today he is now the Head Director of a school, and on the board of the Assoc. of International School Heads, It was a long time ago, and I cannot prove anything, and do not want to go in guns
half cocked, but I feel like I should say something. What are best practices here?
posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2011 -
23 answers
Women, what makes a sexual experience rank high for YOU? I'm not just asking about technique, but the whole ball of wax. What makes it the best for you?
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posted by sleeping beauty
on Aug 27, 2011 -
48 answers
I am looking for two things. (1) The first instance of the sexual use of the term "69ing." (2) If the term was in use in 1969, I am interested in finding articles or books on the effect the term had on people during the year 1969. Thanks!
posted by Sully
on Aug 11, 2011 -
18 answers
I recently found out that prior to us dating that my girlfriend had traveled to the Dominican Republic and other Caribbean countries to have sex with local men on the island. In her own words, she has not been able to maintain a stable relationship for over a year here in the states for the past 10 years. Do you think this behavior of disposable relationships is the reason?
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posted by Kevtotpac
on Aug 10, 2011 -
23 answers
Sexually attracted to men, emotionally attracted to women. My sexual orientation? I don't know. Lots of detail. I need support. Help me.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 7, 2011 -
27 answers
Where can I find a sexual enhancement gel containing visnadin? Lyriana no longer sells this product.
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posted by JJkiss
on Jan 13, 2011 -
1 answer
You're at a science-fiction and fantasy convention. As you peruse the programming schedule, you come across a panel titled "Sexual Harassment in SF&F Fandom (one hour)". What would you expect to learn from that panel?
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posted by magstheaxe
on Dec 1, 2010 -
26 answers
Girlfriend of more than a year recently went on the Pill. I said we should get STD tested before having unprotected sex; my tests came back negative but she's reluctant to get one. Should I compromise?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 29, 2010 -
46 answers
How can I stop being hypersexual, get my therapist to see that it's threatening my marriage, and start focusing on my husband again?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 6, 2010 -
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I have issues having intercourse with my partner. Everything starts out, and erect. Foreplay is no problem, but I have a tendency to start going limp during intercourse.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 31, 2010 -
12 answers
Animal cruelty bothers me way more than it should. Is this related to my childhood sexual abuse?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 31, 2010 -
35 answers
I'm looking for information on the effects of sexual slavery on adolescent sexual development.
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posted by Tsuga
on Feb 22, 2010 -
2 answers
I recently discovered my brother was sexually abusing my sister and how the hell do I deal with this over Thanksgiving weekend?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 25, 2009 -
38 answers
Why do creepy/obnoxious guys (talked about at great length in a couple fantastic recent threads) keep hitting on girls if they never have any success?
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posted by frankly mister
on Nov 9, 2009 -
78 answers
How do I properly initiate contact with a person who dumped me because he thought I may not sexually accept the way he is? How can I let him know that I'm the same way too?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 14, 2009 -
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Sexfilter! My girlfriend and I have good sex. She comes, I come, all quite brilliant and working perfectly (oh I am a man). But, during preliminary stuff (hands and mouths) I can't make her come. I don't think anyone else has with her either.
I've never had any problem with this stuff before. Quite the opposite. I know if she's on her own she'd do it lying on her front... do any girls do this? Does that mean I should be doing something differently?
posted by anonymous
on Oct 13, 2009 -
13 answers
How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors?
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posted by reenum
on Jul 8, 2009 -
54 answers
Is the theory of sublimation—the idea of channeling sexual energy into creative or physical output—still considered valid? Is there evidence that it "works"?
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posted by Busoni
on May 10, 2009 -
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My sister was molested, and the authorities haven't done a thing. Is there anything I can do to move this along?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 31, 2009 -
18 answers
I am a 30 year old male who wants more sex than my partner, which causes all kinds of frustration and resentment on both sides. What can I do to lower my libido?
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posted by anonymous account
on Jan 6, 2009 -
106 answers
How can my wife and I enjoy better sex in the morning, when I wear out quickly and she can't get on top? (Possibly NSFW)
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 23, 2008 -
12 answers
What are the underlying processes occurring during an orgasm that are the biological causes of the pleasurable sensation we associate with it? Is the sensation of orgasm a function of the nervous system, or is it something neurochemical in the brain, or both, or neither? Is the reason that certain masturbatory and/or sexual acts feel good because of nerve concentration in the erogenous areas, or is it something different or more in nature?
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posted by WCityMike
on Sep 2, 2008 -
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