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What to do about a sexless, but not loveless, marriage?

I have been dreading asking this question because it’s so painful, but I feel like I really need to get this sorted out so I can move on with my life. So here it is: My husband and I haven’t had sex in over a year, probably inching closer to two years by now and I wonder if I’m just fooling myself/prolonging the inevitable in staying married to him. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2014 - 27 answers

I'm never horny.

Early twenties female, healthy, reasonably happy, who simply doesn't have any sex drive. What am I doing wrong? Details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2014 - 21 answers

How can I both cure my depression and get my sex drive back?

I used to like all kinds of funky sex. Since depression came into my life a few years ago, I've been far, far less sexual. In the last few months, I can't even find the will to masturbate let alone allow my beloved to penetrate me or otherwise enjoy sexual activity with me. I don't want to be depressed anymore, and I also want to get back to embodying the sexual being I used to be. How? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 29, 2014 - 10 answers

Spontaneous Female Arousal

I'm curious to know what's going on with my body. I'm enjoying very high sex drive the last 6 months, ever since my 7th month of pregnancy. I thought it was a third trimester thing, but I wanted my husband 5 days postpartum. So what's going on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2014 - 6 answers

Libido Rollercoasters Going In Different Directions...

After years of his turning me down sexually and not wanting to touch me as I enjoy, now he's interested... and I’m not. Is there anything we can do? [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by Someone Else's Story on Mar 14, 2014 - 18 answers

Mismatched sex drives, complicated by obligations, guilt and energy

My wife and I have been together for more than 7 years, and we've always had a caring, affectionate, low-sex relationship. We have sex once every month or two, and we enjoy ourselves, but it's generally pretty quick, then doesn't happen again for another month or longer. My sex drive is decently high, but hers seems very low. We've talked fairly openly about this mis-match, but there seem to be a long list of issues. This is where I'd like input, insight, or ideas. [more inside]
posted by plato beans on Feb 26, 2014 - 21 answers

Great Sexpectations

I have a super high sex drive (female, 30) that I've been blessed/cursed with since puberty. My boyfriend is a fairly sexual person, but has a lower libido than I do (male, 41), and don't want to have sex as often as I do. I am having trouble not taking this personally. [more inside]
posted by ElectricGoat on Feb 26, 2014 - 23 answers

Can this {marriage} be saved?

I'm trying to sort out whether I am dissatisfied with my relationship, or whether other factors are at work, or both. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 15, 2014 - 14 answers

How can I revive my sex life with my girlfriend?

My girlfriend and I have lived together for about a year and a half. We're a solid couple, we love each other a lot and generally communicate well, but our formerly awesome sex life is just non-existent now. We've talked about it, but she's just withdrawn and apologetic whenever I try to initiate things. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2013 - 28 answers

Birth Control Filter: I think the pill might be lowering my sex drive. How can I tell and what I can I do about it?

Birth Control Filter: I think the pill might be lowering my sex drive. How can I tell and what I can I do about it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2011 - 16 answers

Aunt Flo and her husband Uncle Randy...

Why does my sex drive INCREASE when I get my period? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2011 - 32 answers

Ow.

I hate sex. Now what? Question is unfocused and NSFW. Sorry. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 27, 2011 - 48 answers

How do you restart your sex drive and will a hormone test help?

Help me figure out what to do about my nonexistent sex drive and if this hormone test will help me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 9, 2011 - 9 answers

My interest in having sex is essentially 0. What?

My interest in having sex is essentially 0. What? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 7, 2011 - 26 answers

Where did my libido go?

Why has going off the Pill lowered my sex drive? [more inside]
posted by Dilemma on Nov 9, 2010 - 6 answers

Hetero bed death

Are you a member of (or do you know of) a couple who actually bounced back from long-term relationship "bed death," where one partner's sex drive went through the floor? How did you (or they) do it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 19, 2010 - 40 answers

Why does the idea of sex make me so uneasy?

How to overcome feelings of sexual inadequacy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2010 - 15 answers

Loss of libido with Levlen/Levora?

Has anyone taking the birth control pill Levora/Levlen had a loss of libido? [more inside]
posted by roxie110 on Nov 12, 2009 - 15 answers

Dead libido at 24? What should I do about relationships?

Dead libido at 24? What should I do about relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymousme on Sep 15, 2009 - 74 answers

Can I safely, healthily lower my libido?

Can I safely, healthily lower my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 13, 2009 - 18 answers

Post-partum libido, where are you?

How long did it take for your libido to return to normal after giving birth? [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow on Nov 12, 2008 - 11 answers

More than once every 52 seconds

I feel my libido is too high. How can I normalize it healthily and deal with it? [more inside]
posted by StrikeTheViol on Feb 19, 2008 - 32 answers

Is it hormones or in my head?

Am I hormonally impaired? [more inside]
posted by lxs on Nov 10, 2007 - 22 answers

What have all these prescription drugs done to me?

What has a decade anti-anxiety medication done to me? [more inside]
posted by Drohan on Oct 27, 2007 - 9 answers

Here is my backwards curse: Girls I might befriend platonically always end up wanting "something more," and it ends in disaster. How can I break this pattern of causing pain?

Girls I might want to befriend are romantically/sexually attracted to me...Are platonic relationships really possible? If so, how do I get out of this pattern of disastrous endings? Most specifically, how do I relate to a new "female friend" in my life without causing pain? [more inside]
posted by consilium on Sep 1, 2007 - 28 answers

Why doesn't my b/c love me back?

Hormonal Birth Control woes... [more inside]
posted by sunshinesky on Jun 8, 2007 - 36 answers

Help me cure lesbian bed-death!

Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply. It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers

Tired of sex

I'm 21 years old and I'm tired of sex... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2005 - 24 answers

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