So, I gave birth to my first child 11 months ago. And I still have no interest in sex. What now?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 6, 2011 -
22 answers
So, Mrs. Anonymous had to have some surgery back in May that, wouldn't ya know it, has made sex a no-no until the end of July. Looking for good ideas for the re-grand-opening in a few weeks.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 30, 2011 -
24 answers
YANMD (You Are Not My Doctor) but my SO is on the pill and we're wondering if we need to supplement with other birth control methods.
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posted by nokry56
on Jun 27, 2011 -
32 answers
Coping advice for a dating trauma? Soothing words before I can see my therapist? Do I go through a job interview tomorrow?
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posted by angrycat
on Jun 26, 2011 -
33 answers
My wife and I are heading to the Netherlands on vacation. It's mostly a cultural and gastronomic tour for us nice respectable people, but if you
happened to have some recommendations for coffee shops and sex clubs, we wouldn't mind hearing them. Anon email inside, too.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 20, 2011 -
16 answers
I've been hanging out with my boyfriend for around 7 months (I'm female). He's really sweet, and we get along really well. I stay at his place a couple of times a week (more or less) and on weekends. His place only, since he lives alone and near things, and I live with roommates and further away from stuff. We're both in our 40s. I was single for an incredibly long time before hooking up with him (although occasionally having sex with various casual hookups), he's been in and out of relationships pretty regularly. We sleep together and spoon all night, sometimes he's all over me, and vice versa, and we kiss and cuddle an awful lot. But no sex. None.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 17, 2011 -
33 answers
What is going on with this lump in my genitalia? (female) Does this sound like an STD or something else?
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posted by fantoche
on Jun 14, 2011 -
26 answers
How can I regain my sexual drive? I'm 30 and since I started my sexual life at 18, I was always very active and imaginative in relation to my, hm, "performance" in bed. But things went totally downhill over the last year or so. My SO was finalizing his divorce with his ex last year, which was very stressful for both of us, plus I had a masters degree to finish, then got married and moved to another country. My dad found that he has cancer and had a very delicate op. To sum it up, a very stressful year.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 12, 2011 -
12 answers
Recommendations for erotica featuring BDSM aftercare? Help me out, Mefites, please!
posted by anonymous
on Jun 6, 2011 -
4 answers
Some things happened to me when I was a child and I'm not sure what to call them but I think they were abusive?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 5, 2011 -
20 answers
My girlfriend gets very wet during sex, so that there's no friction for my penis. This makes it hard for me to orgasm. Any techniques to solve this issue?
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posted by stedman15
on May 29, 2011 -
17 answers
My closest friend keeps telling me that we're not going to have a physical relationship. How should I handle this? Possibly NSFW.
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posted by Solomon
on May 28, 2011 -
31 answers
I believe that my wife has an inflated view of the male sex drive, which has been a bit of a source of contention over the course of our 12 year marriage. Due to a whole host of factors my wife believes "normal" men do nothing but chase their woman around the house 24/7. Are there any resources (web pages, articles, blog posts, forum posts, etc.) that might help me make my case?
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posted by anonymous
on May 16, 2011 -
38 answers
Help me figure out what to do about my nonexistent sex drive and if this hormone test will help me.
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posted by anonymous
on May 9, 2011 -
9 answers
I need inspiration for rekindling my dormant sexuality, now that motherhood is underway.
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posted by misoramen
on May 6, 2011 -
12 answers
Does this situation sound like stress-induced erectile dysfunction? What can I do about it?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 30, 2011 -
3 answers
I met a girl from a club and we had sex. She had a boyfriend then (she cheated on him with me). She is now single & we have been incredibly close. I think I'm being clingy and I need help BIGTIME because I really like her.
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posted by Vandal
on Apr 30, 2011 -
23 answers
A fetish is causing me a great deal of anxiety, could anyone help me figure out how to deal with this?
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posted by Scrimshaw
on Apr 26, 2011 -
19 answers
How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)?
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posted by patronuscharms
on Apr 22, 2011 -
62 answers
Suggest some
non-mainstream songs about sex, the erotic, and especially seduction. Bonus points if Australian.
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posted by divabat
on Apr 20, 2011 -
48 answers
My longtime boyfriend and I are coming up on an anniversary soon, and we're planning a "sinful" vacation to celebrate. We're also pretty kinky. Where in the US can we go and what can we do to have THE most (legally) debaucherous weekend imaginable?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 16, 2011 -
14 answers
Savage Inequalities? Menopause and Erotic Intimacy. I have skimmed many AskMes and haven't seen quite this combination. Dan Savage is often touted and cited, but this combination is not well covered. What do Mefites and others do when their sex life is on indefinite hold due to their female partner's menopause? What if polyamory is off the table?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 8, 2011 -
9 answers
Asking for a friend: The SO and I rushed into having sex and saying "I Love You". Now we're struggling to keep our relationship chugging along. I'm especially anxiety-ridden. How can we regain our momentum?
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posted by iLoveTheRain
on Apr 3, 2011 -
19 answers
Embarrassing question about stuff going on with my lady parts. Probably NSFW. Apologies in advance for the following grossness within.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 1, 2011 -
34 answers
Problems with my girlfriends' sexual history. How do I change the way I think?
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posted by Reaveg
on Apr 1, 2011 -
24 answers