My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We are happy and are sexually active, but we just don't have sex. I know that everybody does it at any age now, and that everywhere you turn, you are somehow reminded of it, but is that so bad? Basically, when we first got together, everything was (of course) perfect. He was a virgin but I wasn't, and he knew that. I liked the fact that we had a lot of sexual tension but that he didn't ever pressure me to do anything I didn't want to. Basically, he wanted me to make the shots. And I feel almost like it's still that way now.
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posted by xopaigexo
on Nov 29, 2011 -
29 answers
I'm female in my mid-twenties and due to circumstances have been a late entrant into dating. I've been out with several guys (ages 27 - 33) and am trying to get a better handle on how quickly things move forward in terms of physical/sexual. So while every guy, girl, and experience is different, could someone share what they might consider standard in their experience? I'd be curious to know what peoples' typical natural progressions are (for a person they're dating, not a hook up) in terms of the steps, not necessarily timing. For instance, do you generally do the first base/second base/third bases in order?
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posted by sowrite
on Nov 26, 2011 -
32 answers
Asking for a friend- I'm serious! Friend is headed to Tokyo this December, and is looking for some cool weird funny sexy sex clubs and/or shops. "More quirky than scary," she says. Any ideas?
posted by foxy_hedgehog
on Nov 26, 2011 -
4 answers
Can anybody recommend a sex positive relationship therapist in or near Chicago?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 21, 2011 -
1 answer
Help me accept my sex drive and become okay with fulfilling my sexual needs outside my sexless (and open) relationship.
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posted by chameleon
on Nov 16, 2011 -
16 answers
How can I have a more sexual relationship with my boyfriend, and stop freaking out all the time? Or, how can I accept that this is the relationship we have and it's not going to change? Warning: this is going to be both long and stupid.
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posted by krakenattack
on Nov 14, 2011 -
47 answers
Seeking advice from sensible people: how to navigate weird/awkward post-hook up situation, with bonus unplanned pregnancy.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 4, 2011 -
15 answers
I'm a twenty-something single guy in the city. I'm moderately fit and attractive; I am confident with women and get dates frequently. I'm having a hard time creating casual relationships.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 31, 2011 -
28 answers
I'm facing down 26 years years of virginity. Help me succeed at Operation: Get Laid By My Birthday.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 30, 2011 -
29 answers
I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 21, 2011 -
22 answers
Is it possible to get over some pretty big sexual chemistry if you really frigin love someone?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 21, 2011 -
21 answers
Looking for a recent article that mentions how a social network's success hinges on whether it will help get people laid. Might have been from a Facebook co-founder or about Google+, and isn't more than a month old.
posted by furtive
on Oct 20, 2011 -
4 answers
Henry Miller makes my sex life hot, True Blood makes it not. What should I be reading / watching in order to get in the mood?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 19, 2011 -
15 answers
I have accidentally discovered my boyfriend's secret fetish. He is ashamed and upset. I'm terrified of losing him. Please help me navigate this. (Some details NSFW.)
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 19, 2011 -
47 answers
My girlfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. Without getting into too much details, I have real no desire to have sex with her for reasons I'm not sure of.
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posted by Peeekay
on Oct 18, 2011 -
13 answers
Reminded of that Opie and Anthony stunt severeal years ago...We've been playing a game coming up with what we think would be the most exciting/dangerous/easiest/etc. places to have sex in 'public' in New York City.
Help me come up with the winning ideas...
Reasons for why it's dangerous/easy/exciting/amazing/practically impossible are appreciated.
posted by mittenbex
on Oct 16, 2011 -
18 answers
I'm a single female thinking of joining a threesome. Should I do this? How do I do this? (possibly NSFW details inside)
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 8, 2011 -
11 answers
Erectile Dysfunction and my boyfriend's brain. Can you help me understand what is going on and give me some tips on how to be more patient/compassionate?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 7, 2011 -
15 answers
Every time I wake up during the night -- which is usually 2 or 3 times -- I find that I have a raging erection. Is this normal and/or healthy?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 5, 2011 -
11 answers
Medical / Sexual Health Question: WTF could be causing these long-term symptoms, and HTF can I take care of them, hopefully once and for all?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 5, 2011 -
11 answers
I was set to marry "The One." He broke my heart. Sex hasn't been the same since, nor have I fallen in love. Is this just because I haven't found the right guy, or is it all in my head?
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posted by DoubleLune
on Oct 4, 2011 -
16 answers
My girlfriend is going to start sleeping with other women. I'm a man, and I'm not. Should we go back to using condoms?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 30, 2011 -
19 answers
Diminished sexual confidence with girlfriend, stuck in a Catch-22 now, how do I get my mojo back?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 27, 2011 -
23 answers
I'm straight, midthirties, a woman, considered attractive, yet haven't had sex in a very, very long time, and I'm a little worried about the effect it's having on me. NSFW inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 23, 2011 -
32 answers
You are a man and you were once shy about sex, particularly about vocalizing your wants/needs. How did you come out of your shell?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 21, 2011 -
20 answers
I had unprotected sex and performed cunnilingus. I'm uninsured. I'm asymptomatic. Where and what type of STD testing should I look for? Also, if I test clean then what is the chance that that she too is/was clean? The primary question is where can I get a general panel of STD testing cheaply (or free) given that I am currently uninsured because I'm (hopefully temporarily) unemployed. Barring other options, how much should I expect to spend at my general doctor for the proper tests? Is that worth it given my situation below?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 17, 2011 -
10 answers
Should I marry the girl I like having sex with, or the one I like the rest of the time?
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posted by fraac
on Sep 16, 2011 -
102 answers
