Personal experiences where your partner was initially not very sexually adventurous, but now is?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 3, 2012 -
46 answers
I (a man) was just having sex with a ladyfriend, and reached down to make sure the condom was in tact. Low an behold, it's missing. We can't find it anywhere, and she insists it's not inside of her (I tried feeling around down there and couldn't find anything either). But we've looked all around the bed and it's not turning up. Is it possible for the condom to have slipped off inside of her without her knowing or feeling it, even after looking? How long is it safe to wait-and-see?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 2, 2012 -
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How did leather, latex, and vinyl get to be the most popular and celebrated materials in the kink/BDSM world - as opposed to say velvet, silk, organza, lace, muslin?
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posted by divabat
on Sep 25, 2012 -
24 answers
I 'think' I want to get comfortable with not using condoms. How do I go about this?
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posted by csox
on Sep 24, 2012 -
29 answers
This is a very difficult and embarrassing question to write. So please be kind. But essentially, I have been (involuntarily) celibate for many many years and it’s driving me CRAZY. How can I stop this decade-long dry streak? And if I can’t, how can I learn to make peace with it?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 24, 2012 -
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I am a 20 year old Canadian female--I had a lot of unprotected sex with a very promiscuous male around 2 years ago. How possible is it that I may have contracted HIV?
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posted by rhythm_queen
on Sep 21, 2012 -
55 answers
I have
this NSFW poster in my room. I study sexuality and art. My mom, grandmother, and 6 year old sibling are visiting me, and will want to see my room. Should I take the poster down?
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posted by Pwoink
on Sep 16, 2012 -
40 answers
My aspie husband and I have good sex, but he doesn't seem to value intimacy. Or maybe to even be capable of it.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 9, 2012 -
16 answers
Sex, guns, drugs, rocknroll, fashion blog site from a few years back? Link please?
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posted by varion
on Sep 5, 2012 -
8 answers
My boyfriend has been sneaking porn into bed to secretly look at while having sex with me (pictures on cell phone while behind me). He has been doing this for a year. How do I deal with my resulting body issues and how do we repair intimacy?
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posted by cakebatter
on Aug 31, 2012 -
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After taking some time off from romance, I found myself happily being circled by a guy I'm attracted to... but so far he appears to be the flirty "all talk, no action" sort. I've not dated many of this breed so I'm out of my element and have just been laying low and staying patiently ladylike. I'm in my 40s though, and I'm not gonna lie... I'm in the mood for some action and too old for games. My patience is wearing thin. Hope me!
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 24, 2012 -
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Should I (and if so, how should I) reveal to my upcoming quasi-blind quasi-date that I look different than he expects me to?
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posted by mauvest
on Aug 21, 2012 -
44 answers
My husband is making fetish videos of himself, and I'm not sure what to do about it (if anything)
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 23, 2012 -
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Imminent break of self imposed celibacy after a few years. Going away on romantic trip next week. Gentleman in question unaware of my choice or relationship history. How to prepare? Do I tell him this? What can I do to prepare myself?
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posted by a2
on Jul 14, 2012 -
45 answers
NSFW: How to make post-foreplay intercourse more... interesting? Also questions about submissive-leaning partners. Explicit inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 14, 2012 -
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Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce? Female, been married 10 years, left because of verbal abuse, disturbed by reawakening of my sexuality now I'm "old" (nearly 40) and unloved.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 10, 2012 -
12 answers
I want to have as little sex as possible and maximize my chances of getting pregnant. What is the best iPhone app to help me?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 8, 2012 -
17 answers
I want to have sex. WITH ANOTHER PERSON. It's been way too long and all the obvious roads to finding someone have been dead ends. Halp!
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 1, 2012 -
28 answers
All of a sudden, my, uh, dude part is not cooperating with me. This is a new problem and I don't have health insurance. Are there are any exercises or treatments that don't involve prescriptions? More inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 1, 2012 -
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Am I going to hurt my neck while masturbating? I'm female. No, not talking about erotic asphyxiation.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 27, 2012 -
9 answers
How can I learn to live with regret and self-hatred related to my lack of relationship and sexual experiences?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 27, 2012 -
32 answers
Mismatched libido: we've been together for five years, we're both mid-twenties, she says "once a month would be okay."
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posted by moonroof
on Jun 25, 2012 -
47 answers
What does it mean to say someone is "no good in bed"? What things do people do (or not do) when they're bad in the sack?
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posted by peter1982peter
on Jun 23, 2012 -
51 answers
He's into being dominated; I'm not into dominating. He wants to visit a dominatrix; I'm terrified about what it might do to our relationship, but also worried about our sans-dominatrix relationship more generally. Help?
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posted by sock puppety puppet
on Jun 22, 2012 -
26 answers
What would the ideal website of your local sexual health centre look like? Looking for links, ideas, general commentary...
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posted by ghost dance beat
on Jun 20, 2012 -
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