So I am a 34 male and I knowingly asked a 19-20-21-ish-year-old on a coffee date. I mentioned the age difference to her when I did so. She said, "Sure." If we go on more dates after this date and/or become physically intimate, how can I minimize the chance that she will retrospectively feel preyed upon or taken advantage of in X years? [more inside]
I just read Sex at Dawn. It's a book that, as I understand it, questions an assumption that has held sway for most of recorded history. What other books or ideas question assumptions that span millennia? I'm looking for more well-argued cases that rock my reality and cause me to question and recontextualize, well, everything.
Help me understand this specific HPV situation regarding an intimate female friend. (I'm a guy.) [more inside]
Fetishes and relationships: Help me find objective, balanced, third-party information for my girlfriend. [more inside]
Natural, safe lubricant? NSFW [more inside]
How do I healthily express and engage my sexuality without dating or casual encounters? (nsfw) [more inside]
Clearing HPV: Help me understand this journal article, specifically the concept of rate ratio and how it translates into real-world risk. [more inside]