Looking to spice things up in the bedroom through a five senses game. A card with each sense for him/her on it is mixed and then we have an enticing way to deal with that sense. Any suggestions?
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posted by anonymous
on May 21, 2013 -
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I am a female who would love to love giving head. However, a couple of key things keep this from happening.
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posted by anonymous
on May 1, 2013 -
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How do I get rid of feelings of worthlessness, anxiety, and distance in my relationship that seem to occur when I'm not having sex?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 18, 2013 -
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I want to be a healthy, fit person, and I want my partner to want that, too. What's the selling point? How can I convince my SO to make this change with me and notice how our generally very sedentary life is sucking the life out of our relationship? Help!
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 16, 2013 -
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One of my kinks is being watched by strangers online. How can I make sure this is safe?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 30, 2013 -
8 answers
Resources, books, tips, anecdotes for a man dealing with a wife that doesn't seem to have an inherent sex drive?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 18, 2013 -
48 answers
I'm a lady and my boyfriend's penis keeps popping out during sex. How can we stop this?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 13, 2013 -
10 answers
Most recent relationship did a number on my self-confidence. Help me figure out how to regain what was lost. Details inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 11, 2013 -
17 answers
I have condom induced erectile dysfunction. I would love suggestions on condom brands or other solutions for this not to be a problem.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 11, 2013 -
23 answers
How to deal with intense anxiety from stupid and risky sexual decisions in the (pretty) distant past?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 8, 2013 -
27 answers
I slept with a person I have to deal with in an educational setting now and in the future - how to proceed when that kind of relationship ends up getting sexual by accident?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 3, 2013 -
13 answers
My husband is suffering the sexual doldrums of early middle age. Unfortunately, it's a catch-22: you have to be motivated to seek help...but when your sex drive is that low, you really don't care. How can I help him even want to have sex again?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2013 -
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I have some sexual limits or preferences that I've been told are pretty weird. Both male and female friends have told me that they are really weird (I am female). But it's just the way I am and it's not going to change. I have been having dating problems because of it. I need some advice on the best way to tell men about my limits, and the best way to find that rare person who would be fine with them.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2013 -
44 answers
Early-30s straight guy here. Shy with women, by no means a social butterfly (social moth?), so have little sexual experience - I lost my virginity relatively late and have only had a handful of very brief relationships and one-night stands since. I'd like to have some casual sex as a way of gaining confidence and learning the ropes (oh, and for fun), but haven't had any success finding it so far. Ideas?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2013 -
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I'm kinky, but only sometimes. He's kinky, all the time, and more so than me. He also displays a focus on certain specific sex acts that I find worrying and is interfering with our sex life - not the things we do, but the things it seems he has to do to come or be happy. How do we deal with this? What do these desires of his mean? And if I'm not into the things he has to do, does it mean he's not into me? (Insecurities abound)
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2013 -
28 answers
I've slept with a lot of guys and only enjoyed it with like 10% of them. Are my standards too high, or too low, or what?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 18, 2013 -
21 answers
How do I persuade my long-term partner to do what I need about half the time? He is not, I repeat not, a good American progressive who's been through therapy. He loves me and wants to satisfy me, but is not a willing participant in the "hey, let's have an open discussion" approach. What are some alternative tactics?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 17, 2013 -
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Roomies' religious convictions are colliding with my lifestyle. They're saying no sex in the house, period. They want overnight guests to sleep in a separate room. I really need the house. How do I manage this?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 15, 2013 -
52 answers
I'm getting back into dating after a long hiatus and I realized I have no idea how to protect myself from STDs without seeming like a crazy, overly-cautious prude. Help!
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 9, 2013 -
23 answers
I love him deeply, miss him terribly. He loves me more than anyone he's ever met. We go together like peas and carrots. But I broke up with him over one health problem that he can and would fix if I told him how much it bothered me. Am I nuts?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 3, 2013 -
41 answers
I am worried a recent decision I made caused psychological damage to my libido. What are my options for recovery (if needed)?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 3, 2013 -
17 answers
Hi all--
I am a female writer with a high sex drive. With most of my moods, I have figured out how to use the energy of anger or sadness or whatever to write something borne from it. But when I'm feeling horny, I really don't know what to do with it, aside from write about sex, and I want to be able to do more than that. This may sound like a silly inquiry, but I'm wondering if other artistic sorts have dealt with it.
posted by anonymous
on Jan 30, 2013 -
12 answers
I am starting a casual relationship/FWB situation. Previously, I'd only had sex in a relationship or a one night stand. What should I be thinking about ahead of time? What are some guidelines/general expectations that you've used in this situation?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 27, 2013 -
7 answers
So, a few years ago I bought a set of cock rings, and I seem to have lost two of them! Can you help me find me a similar set?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 23, 2013 -
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Straight guy here, mid-30s. I'm a relationship virgin apart from two or three very brief and superficial ones, and would be an actual virgin if not for a handful of sexual encounters, almost all of them very unsatisfying. I've always fantasized about love and sex but whenever things get real my heart and body seem to lose all interest. What's wrong with me and are there other people out there in the same boat?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 13, 2013 -
35 answers
I desperately need help resuscitating my sex drive. Embarrassing, painful wall of text inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 7, 2013 -
21 answers
We're pregnant! But we're on the fence about finding out the baby's sex. Parents: what did you decide? Did you regret your decision or love it?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 3, 2013 -
92 answers
How do I decide whether this relationship is worth staying and working on or leaving and working on myself?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 30, 2012 -
31 answers
I'm looking for practical suggestions on finding casual sex in the context of an open relationship.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 19, 2012 -
19 answers
Sometimes when I have a sexual thought, I can literally feel a buzz, a reaction in my brain just above the ears on both sides of my head, almost an electrical feeling, usually in two short pulses. What is this? Do you experience it? More details inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 12, 2012 -
7 answers
For christmas, I'd like to be able to make my girlfriend orgasm, and would appreciate some help.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 6, 2012 -
27 answers
The guy I'm dating has no problems maintaining an erection during oral sex, but once we start to have vaginal sex, he loses his erection almost instantly. We've never talked about it or acknowledged it, and I don't know how to talk to him about it.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 3, 2012 -
28 answers
On herpes and forgiveness. Nine months into our relationship, my boyfriend told me that he has HSV-2. That was almost a year ago. It still bothers me. What now?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 2, 2012 -
47 answers
I can't seem to get "excited" with thoughts (or bikini pics) of my long distance girlfriend. I am far too young to have issues with this in a general sense and I don't. I can still get turned on by other things, and videos and what not (you get the point). We haven't met yet but we will be meeting in the relative future and something sexual might happen, and probably will.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 2, 2012 -
9 answers
Unsure
When and how do you decide it’s ok for an opposite sex to sleep with your adolescent / young adult at your house?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 8, 2012 -
53 answers
A few months ago during pillow talk, I gave my husband permission to have sex with me while I was asleep. Last night he did it, and I felt far more violated than I expected. How should I deal with these feelings of resentment and regret, given that I gave him prior consent? (Possible TW.)
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 6, 2012 -
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