I am late in the dating game, and sex still doesn't interest me. Want to get past this. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2009 - 20 answers

How on earth can I give a blowjob to completion without my jaw recoiling in pain? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2009 - 17 answers

Why does my nose run when I perform oral sex on a man? (NSFW details inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2009 - 12 answers

Does anybody know a decent place for a night of sex in the Chicagoland area? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 27, 2009 - 5 answers

My luverly wife and I had a baby a few months ago. He's a great little feller. We're now ready, physically, to have sex again but... (possibly NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 26, 2009 - 9 answers

Is it stupid for me to hook up with this woman in a "friends with benefits" kinda way? (SFW after the fold for a change, and no, it's not the usual "don't want to mess up the friendship" bit) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 24, 2009 - 35 answers

How can I make my new partner come?? NSFW details follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2009 - 23 answers

How can I indicate to potential female partners that I am interested in casual sex with them, and that my wife approves? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2009 - 22 answers

A medical issue has caused memories of rape to resurface and ruin my sex life. I have no money for therapy. Do I have any options other than being a mess and making both me and boyfriend totally miserable? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 22 answers

Please shed some light on my extramarital issue. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 43 answers

Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 15 answers

Depressionfilter: Help me understand a sudden increase in libido and its emotional aftermath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 9 answers

How do I go about finding someone to sleep with on a regular basis, for fun? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2009 - 13 answers

I need advice on what to tell my partner..... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 2, 2009 - 30 answers

(RelationshipFilter) My now boyfriend used to sleep with a good friend of his, while he was dating me. How do I deal with my feelings about him hanging out with her? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 49 answers

Questions about male sexual stamina and use of viagra. NSFW more than likely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 17 answers

I feel like my life is over and I'm only 35. I feel completely stagnant and stuck, relationshipwise and jobwise. Do I need to change things or do I need to learn how to deal? Help me figure out how to be a happier person. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 34 answers

I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 19 answers

Help me get my libido in check with reality. Very long story inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 17 answers

Offer me suggestions on my open relationship. I believe in it - but still feel a little weird about it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 24, 2009 - 36 answers

Recommendations and advice sought for hooking up online in the UK. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2009 - 10 answers

Falling in love pretty quickly. First time for a lot of things. Some issues are coming up. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2009 - 14 answers

Is the idea of experimenting with a same sex relationship even smart when you aren't sure it is something you would consider in a long term way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 18, 2009 - 22 answers

When should I tell my ex I am seeing someone now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2009 - 23 answers

Harry and I got married when I was 42. Ours was a rocky relationship at its worst and absolutely riveting at its best. Even today the passion we share and yes, even the fights we occasionally have are intense, but all the laughter, that is what kept us together. We are sharing our 25th wedding anniversary on our wedding day this December. We are writing vows and I wanted to know what are the little things in relationships that made you love someone the most? I feel like all the things I want to say are cliche I need inspiration. I don't want to disappoint him.
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2009 - 13 answers

Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2009 - 10 answers

I'm a mid-20s British male and I haven't had sex for about three years. Manual Overides are barely taking the edge off these days and the horniess is getting so bad I can't think clearly. Help me get laid. Complications inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2009 - 31 answers

Looking for recommendations for sex therapy in Austin, TX. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 2, 2009 - 3 answers

your tips for sex during a woman's period, please. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 1, 2009 - 25 answers

I'm a girl in my early twenties who's recently started having sex with my first partner. I'd like to read some trustworthy sources about the side effects of oral contraceptives (worried in particular about weight gain and diminished libido) and the health risks of abortion (worried in particular about reduced fertility). Can you please recommend some reading material? (Online only -- I currently don't have access to a real library, although I do have remote access to databases my university subscribes to.) Thanks for any help you can provide!
posted by anonymous on Sep 16, 2009 - 9 answers

I've been hanging out with a girl for a while, just as friends because she's had a boyfriend for as long as I've known her. I am, of course, into her. She's intelligent and beautiful and laughs at my jokes--all that good stuff. So, I was honestly quite pleased when she started having problems with her boyfriend. Every couple of days, we'd see each other and she'd tell me about some other dick thing he'd said. She'd also started sitting closer to me, touching me on the arm when we talked, and holding on a little too long when we hugged. My experience with women is somewhat limited (I've had two serious girlfriends), but I could see that she liked me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 16, 2009 - 28 answers

Is there such thing as "sleep groping", or am I just a perv? If yes, how can I stop it and how! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 14, 2009 - 32 answers

We need suggestions on how to safely and cleanly store silicone sex toys. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 11, 2009 - 15 answers

Two questions about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2009 - 9 answers

With sex - the male-female penis-in-vagina type - I'm not really sure what to do. If he's on top, do I just lie there? If I wrap my legs around him, doesn't that impede his thrusting? What feels best to a guy? Legs over shoulders? Ankles crossed? What should I do with my hands? If I'm on top, what movements should I make? Grind? Up and down? HELP! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 7, 2009 - 28 answers

I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people. My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2009 - 22 answers

Am I addicted to pornography? If I am, what can I do? Is there a Porn Addicts Anonymous? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2009 - 23 answers

So, I think I might have two clitorises. Is this even possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 27, 2009 - 7 answers

My significant other and I have started introducing swinging to our marriage and need some advice. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 27, 2009 - 11 answers

How do I let my boyfriend know I have herpes? When should I tell him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2009 - 16 answers

Where can I get support for sexual addiction/compulsive behaviour in the UK apart from paying for a therapist or joining a 12 step programme? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 20, 2009 - 5 answers

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 18, 2009 - 39 answers

So, women-who-have-sex-with-women, what do you consider having had sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2009 - 23 answers

I'm pretty sure I stink of desperation when I'm out on dates. Please help me stop doing that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2009 - 39 answers

How do I identify and meet women interested in a one night stand? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2009 - 19 answers

couples sleeping in separate bedrooms: how do you maintain intimacy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2009 - 22 answers

I have a low sex drive. When should I bring it up with someone I am dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2009 - 33 answers

When do you tell someone you have HSV1? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2009 - 25 answers

I am quite taken by a very quality woman - one catch.. she has a degree in theology and is saving herself for marrage. It's early to tell, but let's say she's the one for me.. is there even hope? Advice from people in inter-faith relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2009 - 41 answers

How can I resensitize my penis after excessive masturbating? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2009 - 15 answers