Four years ago I married a great guy. We've been together a total of eight years. Sometime around when we got married...maybe a little before, I stopped wanting sex with him. I dreaded it on our wedding night/honeymoon. At first I thought it was just a phase, something to do with wedding planning burnout and general nerves. Four years later, it's even worse than it was. Otherwise, we have a good relationship, I think. We have everything in common, a shared worldview, good communication. Because of the sexual issue, we have talked numerous times about separating. I guess what I can't figure out is, why this has happened, and if our entire relationship is worth ending over it.
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posted by anonymous
on May 20, 2012 -
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Can you direct me to genuinely funny comedic soft-core or hard-core pornographies? Along the lines of naked sitcoms?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 28, 2012 -
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Where can I find a sexual enhancement gel containing visnadin? Lyriana no longer sells this product.
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posted by JJkiss
on Jan 13, 2011 -
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Girlfriend of more than a year recently went on the Pill. I said we should get STD tested before having unprotected sex; my tests came back negative but she's reluctant to get one. Should I compromise?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 29, 2010 -
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How can I stop being hypersexual, get my therapist to see that it's threatening my marriage, and start focusing on my husband again?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 6, 2010 -
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How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors?
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posted by reenum
on Jul 8, 2009 -
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Is the theory of sublimation—the idea of channeling sexual energy into creative or physical output—still considered valid? Is there evidence that it "works"?
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posted by Busoni
on May 10, 2009 -
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I am a 30 year old male who wants more sex than my partner, which causes all kinds of frustration and resentment on both sides. What can I do to lower my libido?
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posted by anonymous account
on Jan 6, 2009 -
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How can my wife and I enjoy better sex in the morning, when I wear out quickly and she can't get on top? (Possibly NSFW)
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 23, 2008 -
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What are the underlying processes occurring during an orgasm that are the biological causes of the pleasurable sensation we associate with it? Is the sensation of orgasm a function of the nervous system, or is it something neurochemical in the brain, or both, or neither? Is the reason that certain masturbatory and/or sexual acts feel good because of nerve concentration in the erogenous areas, or is it something different or more in nature?
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posted by WCityMike
on Sep 2, 2008 -
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Is it socially acceptable for girls to engage in oral sex with different guys she has only met at parties? I just recently had unprotected oral sex with a girl on the belief that she had only one partner before me and that I would be able to get a long-term relationship out of it. You know that was the first time I had any kind of sex and according to her I'm still a virgin since oral sex doesn't count as "real sex".
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 11, 2007 -
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