I'm staying in an AirBnb room rental for the first time in a few weeks with my SO. The rental is just a room in someone's house, where there are roommates who will be there for the weekend. Is it considered rude to have sex with my SO in the room?
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posted by sockpuppetofexistentialconfusion
on Apr 5, 2013 -
29 answers
After many years of monogamy followed by several years of celibacy
(continually enforced by the fact that, out of raw fiscal necessity, I will continue to share a house and mortgage with my ex for the indefinite future), a chance encounter has left me with the opportunity to enjoy one (or, fingers crossed, more than one!) casual hookup(s) with a breathtakingly attractive near-stranger.
Can you walk me through this process -- safety, guidelines, what to do/not do or say, etc. -- like a complete newbie?
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posted by electroshock blues
on Mar 25, 2013 -
15 answers
My older brother (in his 50s) posted something on FB regarding the Steubenville rape case, which was:
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posted by HopperFan
on Mar 17, 2013 -
52 answers
What would cause my vagina to suddenly be tighter?
I've been sexually active since I was 19, and I'm 31 now. In the last 2 years I've suddenly gotten comments from multiple partners about how tight I am. In particular, a porn star I was dating, who obviously has seen his fair share of vaginas, tells me mine is the tightest he's ever felt.
Aside from this being a totally awesome sexual superpower I seem to have developed, what could have happened?
The only thing I can think of is that before these two years, I had a dry spell of about a year. I know that can tighten things up. But I've been having a decent amount of sex in the last two years - at least 1-2 times a month usually, with the exception of the three months of dating the porn star (cause, well, dating a porn star). Apparently I'm still as tight as ever. Wouldn't that tightening that resulted from the dry spell have loosened up again by now?
What's going on with my lady bits?
posted by dithmer
on Jan 16, 2013 -
16 answers
Should I pursue a casual FWB relationship with this narcissistic but very intellectually interesting and sexy jerk?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 27, 2012 -
109 answers
Does confidence
really make a difference when it comes to attraction? If so, I'd like to generate enough in time for New Year's.
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posted by Ashen
on Dec 18, 2012 -
26 answers
I have extreme negative reactions to witnessing public displays of affection (PDA) or overhearing sex (e.g. anger, disgust, heart racing, crying). I get that I need therapy, but what kind should I be looking for?
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posted by Manlee Forresiddy
on Nov 30, 2012 -
11 answers
Random thought/Someone must have made this question: Anyone know of an online site that allows you to map out areas on a (3D or 2D) human model as "hot" or "cold"?
I'm thinking of something that would allow people to map out their erogenous zones as they know them or discover them.
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posted by Decimask
on Nov 28, 2012 -
1 answer
I 'think' I want to get comfortable with not using condoms. How do I go about this?
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posted by csox
on Sep 24, 2012 -
29 answers
On Friday I got a call from my primary care physician saying that my HCV AB EIA QL (Hepatitis C) test result came back reactive. The same test in August 2011 was nonreactive. I am waiting for the referral to the GI department to be processed so I can find out what happens next. In the meantime I'm freaking out.
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posted by thrasher
on May 9, 2012 -
15 answers
I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad.
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posted by iLoveTheRain
on May 6, 2012 -
25 answers
I'm super attracted to him. My ladybusiness apparently isn't. (AROOGA AROOGA TMI NSFW alert)
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posted by dekathelon
on Apr 7, 2012 -
70 answers
Fellatio filter. Interesting topic for my first post ever... My wonderful boyfriend and I have a great sex life but he can only come from intercourse (and usually only when he sees me getting off from it) or from rough, consistent, deepthroating, the latter of which I struggle with severely and just cant seem to pull off even though I love performing "normal" oral sex. How can I give him what he needs in this area (which would make me SO happy) without feeling like I'm going to suffocate and die (dramatic, I know, but seriously what I feel). Modest details inside...
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posted by bostontina
on Feb 14, 2012 -
32 answers
Ever been engaged to someone and had a lot of fear and doubts about this decision? How did you find resolution/come to a decision about those fears?
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posted by BlueMartini7
on Feb 1, 2012 -
13 answers
I'm single and I've been saying for ages I want to have more sex. I'm getting sick of finding I'm in the mood and not being able to (really) enjoy it. A new guy I met recently has fallen madly for me, and would clearly get physical if I showed any interest in him. Truth is I don't find him physically attractive at all, and I don't think there is any chemistry for me, but he seems trustworthy and an ok person. Assuming he would be ok with sex w/o a relationship, am I crazy to shag him just because I want the sex? Have any of you girls ever done this - what was it like? Worth it?
posted by EatMyHat
on Jan 28, 2012 -
33 answers
Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make?
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posted by labandita
on Jan 22, 2012 -
107 answers
I'm involved in a new relationship with a guy that I like. He's what I would describe as very self-contained. Quiet, comes off as pretty shy, and requires a bit of effort to get to know. Things have recently started to get physical, but I'm finding myself frustrated because I have no idea how to read this guy's signals and moving things forward is up to me. What does complete silence mean?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 18, 2012 -
30 answers
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, or at least looking for opportunities to do so. The problem is, if I can't trust him not to cheat, then I also can't trust him to tell the truth if I confront him. So how do I deal with this? (details below)
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posted by myShanon
on Dec 10, 2011 -
48 answers
Should I marry the girl I like having sex with, or the one I like the rest of the time?
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posted by fraac
on Sep 16, 2011 -
102 answers
Please help me lick my wounds. I need some advice on how to get over rejection and find someone who doesn't think I'm a slut.
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posted by Ashen
on Sep 10, 2011 -
71 answers
Dating someone whose native language is different than yours - can it work? Ever dated a latin american man? Are the cultural differences too great?
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posted by BlueMartini7
on Sep 3, 2011 -
35 answers
I'm looking for reputable (i.e. with citations/bibilographies) histories or studies about the evolution of sexuality within the Judeo-Christian religions.
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posted by Doleful Creature
on Aug 18, 2011 -
12 answers
My girlfriend gets very wet during sex, so that there's no friction for my penis. This makes it hard for me to orgasm. Any techniques to solve this issue?
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posted by stedman15
on May 29, 2011 -
17 answers
My closest friend keeps telling me that we're not going to have a physical relationship. How should I handle this? Possibly NSFW.
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posted by Solomon
on May 28, 2011 -
31 answers
How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)?
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posted by patronuscharms
on Apr 22, 2011 -
62 answers
My little sister is a lesbian, and seems misinformed about some basic sexual concepts (eg: safe sex for lesbians) ....
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posted by starfyr
on Mar 14, 2011 -
46 answers
Looking for words (a phrase, a verb) to describe the type of sex that falls somewhere between the
"making love" and the straight-up
"fucking" ends of the spectrum. How do other people characterize this?
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posted by Betty's Table
on Jan 18, 2011 -
70 answers
While in Amsterdam in October of this year, at Kelly's Irish Pub, my fiancee and I heard a bizarre dance song that included the words "nookie sucky", repeated over and over as a chorus.
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posted by seancake
on Dec 26, 2010 -
8 answers
Gay guy here. I'm wondering how a woman on a date with a new romantic interest might convey the following message: "I don't want to discourage you because I find you attractive, but we're not having sex tonight because I'm on my period."
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posted by roger ackroyd
on Dec 13, 2010 -
46 answers
Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 7, 2010 -
28 answers
How do I turn my friend into my lover? He is a bit younger than me, I am recently out of a relationship, and I am not sure he is in to me. I never do well with friendships with men, and we are so close, so I have no idea if I even should try. But I really want to.
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posted by jenlovesponies
on Nov 7, 2010 -
35 answers
So I'm a late-twenties bi woman, and I'm still a virgin who's never had a boyfriend or girlfriend (I prefer guys). I'm glad I waited this long, though - even when I was 18, my Asperger's had me feeling somewhat younger socially and emotionally, and I was nowhere near ready to date or do anything. But now I've reached the point where I'm ready to start meeting some nice prospects, looking for a relationship and, yes, having sex. (NSFW)
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posted by tamagogirl
on Nov 1, 2010 -
15 answers
