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Dealing with insecurity in the BDSM/poly life

BDSMfilter: Newbie male bottom + experienced poly top = insecurity vortex! Help! [more inside]
posted by RockPuppet on Oct 22, 2012 - 13 answers

What to do with a sexless marriage?

Is sex vital in a marriage? Do I need a new perspective, a new conscience, counseling, or a divorce? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2012 - 42 answers

Sexual awakening: From vanilla to firecracker?

Personal experiences where your partner was initially not very sexually adventurous, but now is? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 3, 2012 - 46 answers

How do I ask potential dates for head shots on dating sites?

What's the best way to ask for photographs from someone on an online dating site? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2012 - 18 answers

Should I let my boyfriend sleep with other women?

Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make? [more inside]
posted by labandita on Jan 22, 2012 - 107 answers

Supporting a bisexual partner without ignoring my own needs

How can I best support my GF in her bisexual identity/lifestyle in a way that doesn't ignore my own needs? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2011 - 12 answers

Can GGG stand for Great, Gregarious, Genial?

What if I don't WANT to be GGG anymore? Is my marriage doomed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 31, 2010 - 36 answers

Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice and Lions and Tigers and Bears and Hot Tubs and Hairy Chests and Press-On Nails...

Some now-former friends have decided to jump into polyamory as a solution to a big mess of relationship crazy. I think this is a terrible, terrible idea, for reasons specific to both the couple and polyamory as a whole. But how do I discuss this with them (and others) without sliding down the slippery slope of defining what other types of relationships are "right" or "wrong"? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 26, 2010 - 50 answers

Lover's Lane, Chicago IL

What semi-private places in Chicago can two lusty kids go to mess around if they can't go home? Do motels that rent by the hour actually exist? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2010 - 13 answers

Nice shoes, I'm married, she's fine with it, wanna do it?

How can I indicate to potential female partners that I am interested in casual sex with them, and that my wife approves? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2009 - 22 answers

How to cope with desire for the forbidden?

Give me advice on how to deal with desire for men that are not my husband. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2008 - 14 answers

Help me commit Ethical Adultery

MistressFilter: My wife thinks it would be a good idea if I saw another woman to help fulfill my sexual needs. That's loving and supportive of her, but I have one problem... how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2007 - 37 answers

How creepy is polyamory?

Non-swingers and non-polyamorous people: Do swingers and polyamorous people creep you out? [more inside]
posted by pornucopia on Dec 9, 2005 - 121 answers

Approaching Another Couple

My girlfriend and I are friends with another couple whom we'd like to become, er, more intimate with. Unfortunately, they, like us, are very reserved, and don't tend to talk about sex, so we have no idea how to begin to broach the subject. The friendship is very important to us, and we don't want to ruin it. What should we do?
posted by anonymous on Jan 26, 2005 - 38 answers

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