BDSMfilter: Newbie male bottom + experienced poly top = insecurity vortex! Help! [more inside]
Is sex vital in a marriage? Do I need a new perspective, a new conscience, counseling, or a divorce? (NSFW) [more inside]
Personal experiences where your partner was initially not very sexually adventurous, but now is? [more inside]
What's the best way to ask for photographs from someone on an online dating site? [more inside]
Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make? [more inside]
How can I best support my GF in her bisexual identity/lifestyle in a way that doesn't ignore my own needs? [more inside]
What if I don't WANT to be GGG anymore? Is my marriage doomed? [more inside]
Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice and Lions and Tigers and Bears and Hot Tubs and Hairy Chests and Press-On Nails...
Some now-former friends have decided to jump into polyamory as a solution to a big mess of relationship crazy. I think this is a terrible, terrible idea, for reasons specific to both the couple and polyamory as a whole. But how do I discuss this with them (and others) without sliding down the slippery slope of defining what other types of relationships are "right" or "wrong"? [more inside]
What semi-private places in Chicago can two lusty kids go to mess around if they can't go home? Do motels that rent by the hour actually exist? [more inside]
How can I indicate to potential female partners that I am interested in casual sex with them, and that my wife approves? [more inside]
Give me advice on how to deal with desire for men that are not my husband. [more inside]
MistressFilter: My wife thinks it would be a good idea if I saw another woman to help fulfill my sexual needs. That's loving and supportive of her, but I have one problem... how? [more inside]
Non-swingers and non-polyamorous people: Do swingers and polyamorous people creep you out? [more inside]
My girlfriend and I are friends with another couple whom we'd like to become, er, more intimate with. Unfortunately, they, like us, are very reserved, and don't tend to talk about sex, so we have no idea how to begin to broach the subject. The friendship is very important to us, and we don't want to ruin it. What should we do?