Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce? Female, been married 10 years, left because of verbal abuse, disturbed by reawakening of my sexuality now I'm "old" (nearly 40) and unloved.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 10, 2012 -
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I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad.
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posted by iLoveTheRain
on May 6, 2012 -
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I'm becoming a clingy girlfriend, and I think it's partially because of my low self-esteem -- and partially because I'm unable to orgasm.
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posted by themaskedwonder
on Feb 2, 2012 -
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They pretty much all want it and I'm feeling very discouraged. Are there HONESTLY men out there who are sexually satisfied if their partner does NOT have an orgasm?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 1, 2011 -
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How common is it for a man to be able to reach an ejaculatory orgasm just by stimulating the frenulum of his penis?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 9, 2011 -
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I can only orgasm in one specific way. I blame a decade and a half of one type of masturbation. I’m 27, female, and a special snowflake.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 8, 2011 -
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SexFilter: I am a woman who is orgasming too soon, too powerfully, such that it's interfering with my boyfriend's ability to do the same. What do we do?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 10, 2011 -
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Wando the Reliable has carried me through multiple relationships and alone times, but I think it's time. Help me break up with my Hitachi Magic Wand.
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posted by sphallolalia
on Nov 27, 2010 -
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I know that you are not my doctor, but maybe you've had similar problems with your vag? I think mine's broken...
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 17, 2010 -
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I need to learn how to masturbate. If you're a female who learned how to orgasm/whatever after becoming aware of the fact your body can do that, come tell me how you figured it out.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 2, 2010 -
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Help me stop obsessing over having an orgasm with my partner (because if I can do THAT, I might actually stand a chance of having one - d'oh! Obsessing again...)
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posted by anonymous
on May 22, 2010 -
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SexperimentFilter: I'm a man interested in having an orgasm by prostate stimulation alone. How do I do this? Read on for OMG TMI, NSFW, and maybe even a little WTF.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 1, 2010 -
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I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received!
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 27, 2009 -
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I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people.
My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous
on Sep 1, 2009 -
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My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 18, 2009 -
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I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text)
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 25, 2009 -
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I'd like to know what other people think about while masturbating and how that differs from what they think about while having sexual intercourse.
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posted by krautland
on Jun 29, 2009 -
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When I practice my shakuhachi (bamboo flute) I'm usually easily distracted, unfocussed, and lacking energy. However, I have excellent practice after orgasm. How can I replicate this without having sex with my wife before each practice/performance?
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posted by zachawry
on Apr 14, 2009 -
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Over the last year, I've started to cry when I orgasm. While it was an occasional thing at first, it's turned into something that happens every time I come.
I really, really hate crying, and feel sick and miserable when I have. It's killing my sex drive--I no longer want to have sex, because I know that it's going to make me cry. How can I stop?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 31, 2009 -
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How can I come during sex with my boyfriend? I find it impossible to reach orgasm unless I'm doing it myself, with extreme, violent fantasies. I've tried fantasizing about the same stuff during sex, but it's hard to reconcile with the reality of my gentle, loving boyfriend, even if we have rough sex or (to a degree) act out the fantasy.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 26, 2009 -
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What would cause me to experience a flash of light in my peripheral visual field during orgasm, and should I be concerned about it?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 20, 2009 -
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