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Don't try so hard, but don't NOT try either!

I have trouble achieving orgasm, but it doesn't really bother me. However, apparently it bothers other people a whole lot. How can I explain all this in a way that will make sense to others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 28, 2014 - 11 answers

Multiple orgasms for men, experience?

I've read The Multi-Orgasmic Man. I find Eastern, energy-based philosophy hard to grasp, because moving energy throughout the body is very much experiential and intangible. It's not not like learning physical movements (sports, martial arts, etc.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2014 - 8 answers

Sex Visions (not an R&B album)

I'm looking for information about visions or visuals experienced during sex. Not anecdotes, but 1. rigorous scientific work that contextualizes who gets them and why, and 2. artists, writers, or poets who have used them as inspiration in any way. [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 21, 2014 - 6 answers

It's been a long, long time coming...

My relationship is great, with one small problem - no matter what my girlfriend and I try, I'm not having an orgasm. Oversharing details inside... [more inside]
posted by Ed The Sock on Jan 12, 2014 - 30 answers

“No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor. ”

Met a great guy that I fell in love with just when I thought I never would again! Now how do I tell him I've never had an orgasm with him, that I want to do something about it, and that I was faking the ones I "did have" for the first half of our relationship? Sordid details inside! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2014 - 17 answers

Why am I experiencing so many new sexual problems in my early 30's?

I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years and we've been living together (with her five year old son) for about four months. Over the last six months or so, I've had several new sexual problems that I've never experienced before. I ejaculate very quickly after penetration, my refractory period is so long that I'm basically "one and done," and my libido has decreased. I'm still very attracted to my girlfriend, and she can still turn me on, but I also have more days when I'd be perfectly happy to cuddle up and watch a movie instead of having sex, which is completely unlike how I felt a year or so ago. I'm not THAT old, and all the other parts of my relationship are going extremely well. Why am I experiencing these problems, and what can I do to solve them? [more inside]
posted by Chuck Barris on Dec 7, 2013 - 11 answers

Birth control pills and ejaculation inside vagina

I would like to know your opinions about ejaculation inside the vagina and the risks of pregnancy, while using birth control. [more inside]
posted by Emily119 on Nov 18, 2013 - 18 answers

For crying out loud, where's my libido?

I have a problem. I am a 39-year old woman whose libido declined over a couple of months when I was 33. I can't seem to get it back. I need help thinking outside the box. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 1, 2013 - 12 answers

Sit. Stay. Heel. Come.

A NSFW question about achieving a particular female orgasm... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2013 - 26 answers

Help a mental case when it comes to sex

Help me understand the psychology of Orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 17, 2012 - 11 answers

Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce?

Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce? Female, been married 10 years, left because of verbal abuse, disturbed by reawakening of my sexuality now I'm "old" (nearly 40) and unloved. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 10, 2012 - 12 answers

Help me help my girlfriend have her first orgasm

My 35 y/o girlfriend has never had an orgasm... [NSFW details] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2012 - 32 answers

As a male, I've never orgasmed from sex, teach me how

As a male, I've never orgasmed from sex, teach me how [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 15, 2012 - 14 answers

very painful orgasms

I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad. [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain on May 6, 2012 - 25 answers

Please help me be less of a clingy and unsatisfied girlfriend.

I'm becoming a clingy girlfriend, and I think it's partially because of my low self-esteem -- and partially because I'm unable to orgasm. [more inside]
posted by themaskedwonder on Feb 2, 2012 - 24 answers

give it to me baby, uh huh uh huh

Sex Filter: How do you decrease the length of your refractory period? [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain on Jan 7, 2012 - 16 answers

Honestly, guys: are you REALLY sexually satisfied without her orgasm?

They pretty much all want it and I'm feeling very discouraged. Are there HONESTLY men out there who are sexually satisfied if their partner does NOT have an orgasm? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2011 - 41 answers

Right there... oh... OHH... oh :-/

I love sex, foreplay but it takes forever to climax. [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on Oct 24, 2011 - 13 answers

Can you make me come?

Help me improve sex with my boyfriend. NSFW of course. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 15 answers

Female premature orgasm

Any advice or tips for a woman who orgasms prematurely? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 17 answers

How Many Men Have the Ability to Climax from Frenulum Stimulation?

How common is it for a man to be able to reach an ejaculatory orgasm just by stimulating the frenulum of his penis? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 9, 2011 - 13 answers

What happened to my orgasm?

Can an orgasm change? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 20, 2011 - 8 answers

Literary depictions of that special moment.

Help me find orgasms in literature. [more inside]
posted by hungrytiger on Jul 23, 2011 - 22 answers

sensate focus resources/ORGAZMS ALL NIGHT LONG!!!!!!!

Are there any books with a reasonably useful description Master's and Johnson's sensate focus method? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2011 - 2 answers

How do I stop hyperventilating during masturbation?

Help me figure out how to orgasm without hyperventilating! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2011 - 4 answers

Please Help She Bop

I can only orgasm in one specific way. I blame a decade and a half of one type of masturbation. I’m 27, female, and a special snowflake. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2011 - 16 answers

Getting her over the edge

How do I get her off? She rarely orgasms, and I feel like I'm letting her down. NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 28, 2011 - 29 answers

How can I delay female orgasm?

SexFilter: I am a woman who is orgasming too soon, too powerfully, such that it's interfering with my boyfriend's ability to do the same. What do we do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2011 - 12 answers

Please sir, can I have some more?

How do I get him to last longer in bed? [more inside]
posted by oceanview on Dec 27, 2010 - 15 answers

The spirit is willing, but is the flesh tired?

I know I'm tired -- but to the point my genitalia are falling asleep? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2010 - 9 answers

Unplugging and reconnecting

Wando the Reliable has carried me through multiple relationships and alone times, but I think it's time. Help me break up with my Hitachi Magic Wand. [more inside]
posted by sphallolalia on Nov 27, 2010 - 10 answers

Broken Vagina

I know that you are not my doctor, but maybe you've had similar problems with your vag? I think mine's broken... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 17, 2010 - 20 answers

Ready! Set! Come!

Tell me your surefire way of bringing a man to orgasm quickly. [more inside]
posted by HotPatatta on Aug 23, 2010 - 21 answers

Help me have orgasms pain-free!

NSFW: Help me have orgasms pain-free! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 3, 2010 - 7 answers

Help me learn how to orgasm/masturbate!

I need to learn how to masturbate. If you're a female who learned how to orgasm/whatever after becoming aware of the fact your body can do that, come tell me how you figured it out. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 2, 2010 - 26 answers

It's Like Achieving Nirvana, Only In My Pants.

Help me stop obsessing over having an orgasm with my partner (because if I can do THAT, I might actually stand a chance of having one - d'oh! Obsessing again...) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 22, 2010 - 14 answers

So... did you?

What exactly is the right answer for "did you come?" [more inside]
posted by dithmer on Feb 11, 2010 - 34 answers

Come what may...

And the Best Dildo Award goes to....? (NSFW, obviously) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2010 - 20 answers

The elusive hands-free male orgasm

SexperimentFilter: I'm a man interested in having an orgasm by prostate stimulation alone. How do I do this? Read on for OMG TMI, NSFW, and maybe even a little WTF. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2010 - 7 answers

help me (female) ejaculate

female ejaculation filter: I'm so doing it wrong! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2009 - 17 answers

How to help a long-term loner happy with a lady?

How can I make my new partner come?? NSFW details follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2009 - 23 answers

Did I have an orgasm-induced stroke?!

Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 15 answers

How to not be a 5 hump chump?

Questions about male sexual stamina and use of viagra. NSFW more than likely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 17 answers

"How to get an orgasm to work in my pants?"

I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 20 answers

Boyfriend cannot orgasm during sex.

After 3 years boyfriend tells me he thinks he may have a sexual dysfunction. [more inside]
posted by lwclec072 on Oct 19, 2009 - 39 answers

Am I having an orgasm?

Two questions about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2009 - 9 answers

Help me make my girlfriend climax.

I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people. My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2009 - 22 answers

Girlfriend emotionally damaged by previous relationship?

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 18, 2009 - 39 answers

Death grip has me in a tight spot.

How can I resensitize my penis after excessive masturbating? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2009 - 15 answers

Girl who can't come with partners. If sleeping together only winds up making everyone unhappy, why do it?

I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2009 - 39 answers

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