I'm having my tonsils removed next week and am wondering how long I should wait before giving fellatio will be safe/comfortable again? [more inside]
I'm no stranger to blow jobs, and I'm not bad at them by far, but I still want to know: what is the move that blows you/your partner's mind out of the water?
After a divorce and some time, I'm dating again and have met a super awesome guy. We're taking things slow but there's chemistry. So I need help about an issue that could come up between us. [more inside]
What is an effective way to speak to a new partner about bettering their ability to perform cunnilingus? [more inside]
If all goes well, this weekend I will have my first encounter with a Prince Albert piercing. I am very excited about this prospect, but I'm also concerned about breaking the veneers on my two front teeth. Other than the obvious "be careful!" is there anything else I should know or do? Even better, is this really not a problem I need to worry about? [more inside]
I'm a gal in my late 20s and I've never given a blowie before. Give me some tips on how to try it out without embarrassing myself too badly. [more inside]
Why can't I cum? [more inside]
Trying to be a thoughtful boyfriend and yet improve the sexual experience. How do you delicately approach the pubic hair grooming issue? More information (possibly more than you want to know) after the cut. [more inside]
I have a hang-up about performing blow-jobs due to prior sexual assault. How do I relay this to new partners? [more inside]
Now that I'm having sex I'm finding that it doesn't live up to the hype. What can I do to overcome my disappointment, and more likely, my dysfunction? NSFW. [more inside]
Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
Girl who can't come with partners. If sleeping together only winds up making everyone unhappy, why do it?
I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
My wife is very 'vanilla' when it comes to intimacy. [more inside]
Can I learn to enjoy the taste of vagina? I really want to. [more inside]
My basic question is how to do the “let’s get tested for STDs” talk/request without turning off the other person. General responses are great, and if you have the patience to read about my experience inside, specific advice and suggestions would be really nice. [more inside]
If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
Having read the ying, I am now curious about the yang: fellatio aficionados, what does it taste like to you?
Connoisseurs of Cunnilingus: What does it taste like to you? [more inside]
My partner loves going down on me. She loves kissing me once or twice, briefly sucking me like a lollipop, and is uneasy about doing anything more, which ends up being frustrating for both of us. [more inside]
Help a girl out with oral sex. [more inside]
What is the relative safety of certain sexual acts with a partner who has had one confirmed outbreak of genital herpes and no subsequent outbreaks? [more inside]
I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)