Why can't I cum? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 23, 2012 - 25 answers

Trying to be a thoughtful boyfriend and yet improve the sexual experience. How do you delicately approach the pubic hair grooming issue? More information (possibly more than you want to know) after the cut. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2010 - 33 answers

I have a hang-up about performing blow-jobs due to prior sexual assault. How do I relay this to new partners? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 29, 2010 - 36 answers

Now that I'm having sex I'm finding that it doesn't live up to the hype. What can I do to overcome my disappointment, and more likely, my dysfunction? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 1, 2010 - 55 answers

Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 15 answers

I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2009 - 39 answers

My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 31 answers

My wife is very 'vanilla' when it comes to intimacy. [more inside]
posted by tdreyer1 on Dec 8, 2007 - 31 answers

Can I learn to enjoy the taste of vagina? I really want to. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 14, 2007 - 39 answers

My basic question is how to do the “let’s get tested for STDs” talk/request without turning off the other person. General responses are great, and if you have the patience to read about my experience inside, specific advice and suggestions would be really nice. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 22, 2007 - 43 answers

If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2007 - 58 answers

Having read the ying, I am now curious about the yang: fellatio aficionados, what does it taste like to you?
posted by Arthur "Two Sheds" Jackson on Dec 16, 2006 - 39 answers

Connoisseurs of Cunnilingus: What does it taste like to you? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Dec 1, 2006 - 88 answers

My partner loves going down on me. She loves kissing me once or twice, briefly sucking me like a lollipop, and is uneasy about doing anything more, which ends up being frustrating for both of us. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2006 - 34 answers

Help a girl out with oral sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2006 - 36 answers

What is the relative safety of certain sexual acts with a partner who has had one confirmed outbreak of genital herpes and no subsequent outbreaks? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 11, 2006 - 11 answers

I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2004 - 21 answers