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Timely queer and kink content for my facebook and twitter feed

I've just had an article published nationally, and oh boy is that addictive and fun! I want to do more, so I need ideas to pitch! I'm looking for some tweeters and some Facebook groups and posters to follow who will have awesome kink/womens'/sex-positive/sex-work/trans/lgbt/poly/etc news, criticism and analysis. Feminist and socialist feeds also a plus. Many thanks, hive mind!
posted by Mistress on Jan 21, 2014 - 8 answers

Looking for some new male + female sex positions!

Looking for some new male + female sex positions! [more inside]
posted by Sloop John B on Mar 19, 2013 - 12 answers

And if you don't kink then you're no friend of mine.

I'm kinky, but only sometimes. He's kinky, all the time, and more so than me. He also displays a focus on certain specific sex acts that I find worrying and is interfering with our sex life - not the things we do, but the things it seems he has to do to come or be happy. How do we deal with this? What do these desires of his mean? And if I'm not into the things he has to do, does it mean he's not into me? (Insecurities abound) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2013 - 28 answers

Dealing with insecurity in the BDSM/poly life

BDSMfilter: Newbie male bottom + experienced poly top = insecurity vortex! Help! [more inside]
posted by RockPuppet on Oct 22, 2012 - 13 answers

Why would you want someone to say that to you?

Why are humiliation and/or degradation sexually exciting for some? [more inside]
posted by thrasher on Oct 10, 2012 - 18 answers

I want to be a normal person

I am trying to come to terms with the fact that I'm kinky, but I feel like my life is over and I wish I could just cut this out of me and get rid of it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2012 - 53 answers

I'd totally run for International Ms Velvet. Or International Ms Fuzzy Fabric Of Any Sort.

How did leather, latex, and vinyl get to be the most popular and celebrated materials in the kink/BDSM world - as opposed to say velvet, silk, organza, lace, muslin? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Sep 25, 2012 - 24 answers

How to deal with this mismatched kink?

He's into being dominated; I'm not into dominating. He wants to visit a dominatrix; I'm terrified about what it might do to our relationship, but also worried about our sans-dominatrix relationship more generally. Help? [more inside]
posted by sock puppety puppet on Jun 22, 2012 - 26 answers

Safety First: The casual sex version

What are your safety tips for casual sexual encounters? (Probably NSFW text inside) [more inside]
posted by KinkySockPuppet on Jun 13, 2012 - 14 answers

Electric Boogaloo

Last fall, I asked you guys for some help with my OkCupid profile. Your advice worked really well for me! I've changed a fair bit since then and now that I'm getting back into dating full-time I'm going back for round 2 with the hive mind. [more inside]
posted by modernserf on May 2, 2012 - 18 answers

Yes, I Smiled, But I'm Still Not Choosing 'Pets and Animals'...

Footwear vs fashion vs kink: organic/edible shoe polishes and treatments, or home-made alternatives? [more inside]
posted by rokusan on Apr 11, 2012 - 6 answers

How do I deal with my boyfriend's secret?

I have accidentally discovered my boyfriend's secret fetish. He is ashamed and upset. I'm terrified of losing him. Please help me navigate this. (Some details NSFW.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2011 - 47 answers

Please Sir, may I have some more?

Kink-filter: How can I initiate sex while maintaining my submissive role in the bedroom? NSFW D/s details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 30, 2011 - 16 answers

What to wear to a kink con?

I'm attending a weekend-long alt-sex/kink convention. What clothing should I pack? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 31, 2011 - 10 answers

I'm freaking out, the operative word being freak

I am a woman. I enjoy anal sex. This makes me feel like a freak. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2011 - 42 answers

What do you give the girl who has everything?

I have just been seduced by a relatively older, more experienced, kinky woman who's keen to show me the darker side of pleasure. I'm a relatively inexperienced younger woman. What could I do so that *she* gets some fun out of it too? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 21, 2010 - 18 answers

What if she won't ever do what I need to do?

My fiance has basically told me, that she will NEVER/practically never be willing to do my personal fetishes with me..... I don't know what to do about that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 3, 2010 - 89 answers

Yeah, I'm kinky... is that a problem?

Should I come out of the BDSM closet? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 2, 2010 - 13 answers

Can we skip the flogging tonight, dear? I have to wash the drapes.

My hubby's kinky. I'm not. Please help us figure out a fair way to compromise in the bedroom. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2010 - 46 answers

How can I learn to be more dominant in bed?

How can I learn to be more dominant in bed? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 20, 2010 - 18 answers

How to find lovers who are into bdsm but not in the scene?

BDSMFilter: How can I find non-monogamous kinky lovers out here in the vanilla world? I've gone to munches and classes at TES (a bdsm organization here in NYC) and other bdsm groups, but I never meet people there with whom I can connect on other levels. Is there a trick to finding kinky folk in vanilla settings? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2010 - 16 answers

Is there a Rough Guide to rough sex?

She’s keen on the rough stuff – I’m new to it [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 4, 2010 - 36 answers

Wannabe Third (and general KinkFilter)

As part of my New Year's Self-Improvement Program (tm), I'm seeking out a few sexual experiences I haven't had but would like. In particular, I'd like to be the third in a heterosexual couple's threesome. I'm a mostly-straight man in San Francisco. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2010 - 8 answers

Woman looking for ways to play on my own.

Please help a single, adventurous woman step up her kink in simple, everyday ways. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2010 - 18 answers

Chasing down some hot European sex

American male/female swinger couple stranded in London next month. Where's the best fun? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2009 - 2 answers

Yar! Bare yer booty, wench!

Sexyfilter: Lesbian role-play ideas, bonus points for kinky. Yes, really. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2008 - 12 answers

Kinky Couture

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

Is kink curable?

SexFilter - is kink curable? [more inside]
posted by Jake Apathy on Aug 16, 2007 - 20 answers

Coming to terms with weird sexual fantasies

How does one come to peace with unfulfillable sexual fantasies? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2007 - 14 answers

What's my kink?

Do I have a (sexual) kink? Should I have a kink? If I do have a kink, how do I discover it? [more inside]
posted by Ethereal Bligh on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Choking - yea or neah

Kinkfilter: I know there’s a big campaign to discourage kids from playing the choking game, and I know people die from autoerotic asphyxiation all the time, but [more inside]
posted by serazin on Oct 30, 2006 - 14 answers

Help us get our freak on!

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

More male bottoms then female tops?

BSDMFilter : Is it true that there are far more male bottoms then there are female tops? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2006 - 14 answers

Theoretical explanation for kinkyness.

So has anyone tried to explain sexual kinks and fetishes? I don't mean in a cataloguing sense, but in the same sense that an evolutionary biologist explains a fish's tail shape. Where it came from, what purposes it serves, that sort of thing.
posted by kavasa on Mar 5, 2005 - 29 answers

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