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Low sex drive and ED with new girlfriend

I dated a girl for 9 years, and we broke up last year. I now have a new girlfriend and we are both very much in love. However, my libido has all but disappeared and we are unable to have sex without great difficulty. I need advice on why this has happened and how I can address it. Thank you. [more inside]
posted by lichen on Apr 3, 2013 - 20 answers

Might lose my girlfriend over sexual problems

I'll try to keep this as short and as informative as I can. I posted on here a little while ago about some sexual problems I've been having, mainly being about struggling to get and/or maintain an erection. Unfortunately instead of getting better things have only gotten worse. [more inside]
posted by stonecutters88 on Mar 17, 2013 - 40 answers

Getting excited with my girlfriend

I can't seem to get "excited" with thoughts (or bikini pics) of my long distance girlfriend. I am far too young to have issues with this in a general sense and I don't. I can still get turned on by other things, and videos and what not (you get the point). We haven't met yet but we will be meeting in the relative future and something sexual might happen, and probably will. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2012 - 9 answers

when does sexual attraction become objectification?

when does sexual attraction become objectification? [more inside]
posted by happyjuice on Oct 6, 2012 - 17 answers

How can I get some friction inside my very wet girlfriend?

My girlfriend gets very wet during sex, so that there's no friction for my penis. This makes it hard for me to orgasm. Any techniques to solve this issue? [more inside]
posted by stedman15 on May 29, 2011 - 17 answers

How to be ok with my boyfriend's feelings?

Crazy card alert? Please, help me sort out my relationship, MeFi world! [more inside]
posted by LemonGardot on Jul 6, 2010 - 15 answers

Craigslist Sugar Daddies have piqued my curiosity

What is the deal with men offering to be generous to a young college student who needs help or guys who claim they're normal and want a girlfriend but like paying for things? [more inside]
posted by thebazilist on Mar 21, 2010 - 23 answers

Let me slip into something more comfortable

My boyfriend is having a really bad day at work. I'm going over to his house when his day is over (which will be pretty late). What is the best way to cheer him up? [more inside]
posted by brainmouse on Nov 10, 2009 - 32 answers

How long should I wait?

Question’s about my virgin girlfriend pertaining to sex and sexuality. [more inside]
posted by RawrGulMuffins on Oct 3, 2009 - 48 answers

Help me make my girlfriend climax.

I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people. My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2009 - 22 answers

Girlfriend emotionally damaged by previous relationship?

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 18, 2009 - 39 answers

Fetish too far vis a vis my girlfriend.

Fetishes and relationships: Help me find objective, balanced, third-party information for my girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by zeek321 on Aug 2, 2009 - 11 answers

Is my girlfriend's sister justified or not in her disapproval, and why?

How can I avoid straining the relationship between my girlfriend and her sister, who disapproves of us? Also, what are some good religious / psychological / philosophical texts to help me understand and (gently) argue against the sister's point of view: that my girlfriend and I are living in sin by having sex out of wedlock? [more inside]
posted by radiosig on May 13, 2009 - 38 answers

The Conquering Hero "Comes"

My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 31 answers

Casual relationships in high school?

Casual relationships in high school? [more inside]
posted by LSK on Aug 26, 2008 - 39 answers

A kiss is just a kiss

Am I fair in blaming a snail's-pace relationship on my weak ability to show affection? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 15, 2008 - 24 answers

Danger Will Robinson! Sex life in jeopardy! Help!

So, my girlfriend and I have been in a long-term (almost 4 years) relationship with one another but, unfortunately, about a year and a half ago our sex life ground to a halt. [more inside]
posted by AsRuinsAreToRome on Jun 5, 2008 - 67 answers

Is it ok to keep posing as a virgin?

Was I "technically" raped? More importantly do I need to tell my girlfriend that I'm not a virgin? [more inside]
posted by SeparatetheLabelD on Jul 9, 2007 - 48 answers

Is sex not always, or nearly always, really good for men while they're in a relationship?

Is sex not always, or nearly always, really good for men while they're in a relationship? Warning: Severely naive question [more inside]
posted by trampesque on Jun 21, 2007 - 43 answers

Type 2 diabetic with a sex starved girlfriend

I am 33 years old and I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes about two years ago, with an initial blood sugar reading of 350. Currently, I have it under control with the help of Metformin, Glipizide, and Avandia.....I have also have now been in a monogamous new relationship with my girlfriend for about 2 months ......My dilemna... [more inside]
posted by TwilightKid on Jul 5, 2006 - 7 answers

Hot or Not

She's not sexy. [more inside]
posted by the giant pill on Nov 26, 2005 - 97 answers

Betrayal and everything after

My girlfriend cheated on me this weekend. I am beside myself with grief. How do I cope, and where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2005 - 58 answers

SexFilter: Help me hone my oral sex giving skills for my new girlfriend

I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2004 - 21 answers

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