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Low sex drive and ED with new girlfriend

I dated a girl for 9 years, and we broke up last year. I now have a new girlfriend and we are both very much in love. However, my libido has all but disappeared and we are unable to have sex without great difficulty. I need advice on why this has happened and how I can address it. Thank you. [more inside]
posted by lichen on Apr 3, 2013 - 20 answers

Having a hard time getting erect

I'll try to keep this short and thorough. I'm a 25 year old male, I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months, and I'm still a virgin. I've never had a ton of sexual experiences in my past (oral), but this one has me a little confused and stressed out. About 4 days ago I was with my girlfriend and we were giving each other oral, (we haven't had vaginal sex yet) I always go down on her first and then she does down on me. Now normally I get incredibly turned on, very easily, and with anything from hugging and cuddling, to kissing and foreplay. It always gives me a very full and hard erection, and in the past I've never had any problem at all about having an orgasm. However on this night while my girlfriend was going down on me, right in the middle I suddenly became soft and completely lost my erection. This has never happened to me before, and in the last 4 days, everything that normally turns me on and gives me that full erection, has barely even given me a "chubby" so to speak. I'm finding it very hard to get turned on, and its making both my girlfriend and I quite upset. [more inside]
posted by stonecutters88 on Feb 26, 2013 - 15 answers

WHY WON'T MY JUNK WORK

I desperately need help resuscitating my sex drive. Embarrassing, painful wall of text inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 7, 2013 - 21 answers

Up, even when I'm down.

Every time I wake up during the night -- which is usually 2 or 3 times -- I find that I have a raging erection. Is this normal and/or healthy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 5, 2011 - 11 answers

Why is it hard for me to gain an erection and cum?

Why is it hard for me to gain an erection and cum? [more inside]
posted by shywolf91 on Sep 3, 2011 - 19 answers

Work around for a bind?

My partner has an odd circumsion scar, what can we do to minimize irritation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2011 - 3 answers

My baggage, let me show it to you.

Some bedroom problems. Novel inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2011 - 17 answers

How can I delay female orgasm?

SexFilter: I am a woman who is orgasming too soon, too powerfully, such that it's interfering with my boyfriend's ability to do the same. What do we do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2011 - 12 answers

Hard from behind

Having trouble maintaining erections while standing, kneeling. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 28, 2010 - 7 answers

Sex(less) Kitten

Help me prove that my cat is not a masturbation addict. [more inside]
posted by spamguy on Aug 23, 2010 - 20 answers

Help me help his penis (and my sex life)

How can I tactfully tell my boyfriend that I think he has phimosis, which I feel is the main cause of his erection problems? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 31, 2009 - 19 answers

Sexual relations problem. A little NSFW but not explicit.

Sexual relations problem. A little NSFW but not explicit. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2009 - 25 answers

One-night stand question

Question from a guy about one-night stands and sex in potential, yet unestablished relationships (probably NSFW). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2009 - 20 answers

Preventing erections during massage

Some questions about getting an erection during a massage [more inside]
posted by ascetic on Apr 9, 2009 - 30 answers

Problems with sex

I'm worried about my new-ish sex life with my boyfriend. Please help me figure out if everything is alright, and if it isn't what I can do. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 19, 2009 - 24 answers

Blue Pill Blues

Does anyone know any inexpensive methods to obtain Viagra (or an equivalent)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2009 - 21 answers

Here there be orgasms. (NSFW, clearly.)

NSFW Sex Question Inside: I can't orgasm without holding my breath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2009 - 8 answers

Where did my morning wood go?

I never get morning erections anymore. Why? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 17, 2008 - 12 answers

Why can't I get an erection?

I'm 21 years old--could I have erectile dysfunction? Or could it be emotional? [more inside]
posted by names are hard on Dec 9, 2006 - 15 answers

What happened to my libido?

I'm a recently out, gay 21 year-old college student. I recently met someone and things are starting to get serious. Last night he came over and I couldn't get aroused. I've never had a problem with that before. What's going on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2006 - 14 answers

Viagra: It's Not Just For Horny College Guys Any More!

What's it like to rely on Viagra? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 24, 2006 - 17 answers

A Rising Problem

Why do I get so easily aroused? [more inside]
posted by nona on Mar 29, 2006 - 30 answers

Performance anxiety erection problem.

ErectionFilter: Anyone had performance-anxiety erection issues that they have successfully solved? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 23, 2005 - 19 answers

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