Depressionfilter: Help me understand a sudden increase in libido and its emotional aftermath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 9 answers

Is the idea of experimenting with a same sex relationship even smart when you aren't sure it is something you would consider in a long term way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 18, 2009 - 22 answers

Previously dated men, now wants to date women. Problem: I can't tell when women are interested in me or if they just want to be friends. [more inside]
posted by Eleutherios on Oct 13, 2009 - 16 answers

Do I need to know what (or who) he did while we were broken up? Is it wrong to ask? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser on Oct 7, 2009 - 35 answers

I'm a mid-20s British male and I haven't had sex for about three years. Manual Overides are barely taking the edge off these days and the horniess is getting so bad I can't think clearly. Help me get laid. Complications inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2009 - 31 answers

How do I identify and meet women interested in a one night stand? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2009 - 19 answers

The last time I was single and dating, Ronald Reagan was president. Have recommended (and practical) safe sex practices changed in the last 25 years? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2009 - 33 answers

How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors? [more inside]
posted by reenum on Jul 8, 2009 - 54 answers

How do I make the most of a new (but doomed) relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2009 - 9 answers

How do I get back into the dating world? [more inside]
posted by plungerjoke on Jun 24, 2009 - 34 answers

Is there such a thing as a dating site for ONLY big breasted women? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2009 - 23 answers

I'm about to enter the college dating scene - or sex scene, I guess. I know to always use condoms - but what about kissing? I know diseases can spread orally, but I never hear about anyone worrying about kissing. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 15, 2009 - 25 answers

I'm in my mid 20's, and I haven't dated since high school. How do I do this right? (uh, NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 2, 2009 - 16 answers

I'm a healthy 27 year old guy, but my libido has plummeted just in the past 7 months. No other relevant changes that could explain why, and I feel totally fine otherwise. Any explanations? And how do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2009 - 11 answers

Is sleeping together right away a dealbreaker? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 6, 2009 - 42 answers

Would it be OK to ask a guy to maybe have sex with me? [more inside]
posted by oceanview on Mar 20, 2009 - 25 answers

Teach-a-Martian-to-socialize-filter: moving from flirting to "hey, come back to my place." [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2009 - 25 answers

How do you turn a particularly enjoyable one-night stand into something more? Lots of overanalysis and fairly NSFW details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2009 - 7 answers

I am looking for opinions on my lifestyle of multiple casual relationships.. Is it healthy to be inherently against a committed relationship because you enjoy the company of new people quite frequently? [more inside]
posted by Macallister Vagabond on Jan 19, 2009 - 29 answers

When it comes to the hot-'n'-heavy, which is better: going too far and being told "no," or stopping short? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 17, 2009 - 32 answers

I'm 48 (he's 61) and this is the first "casual" relationship I've ever been in. Next time I see him, I'm going to tell him it's just not working for me. How likely is it that what started out as casual can turn into something more, which is what I would like? [more inside]
posted by KCMOwriter on Nov 21, 2008 - 7 answers

I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 - 23 answers

How to best handle dating an inexperienced woman? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 15, 2008 - 27 answers

Now that I'm sober ... how the heck do I go about dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 29, 2008 - 23 answers

What are the rules of long-distance, we-met-online relationships when they transition into real life potential romance? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 8, 2008 - 17 answers

How do I healthily express and engage my sexuality without dating or casual encounters? (nsfw) [more inside]
posted by zeek321 on Oct 4, 2008 - 18 answers

Shortly after we moved to a new town, my partner fell into a deep depression. She shot me down every time I suggested that we go out and do something fun, or made amorous advances. That precipitated my own, milder depression. We're both better now, and love each other very much, but we're still in a rut, and I'm gun-shy. How can we get over this hump? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 3, 2008 - 11 answers

I'm dating a roommate, but we need an excuse to go into her bedroom after a date. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2008 - 14 answers

Should I ask my "friend" if she wants to have casual sex with me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2008 - 28 answers

Am I fair in blaming a snail's-pace relationship on my weak ability to show affection? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 15, 2008 - 24 answers

I live in DC, and I'm in my late twenties. What I've found, at a time in my life when I'm really looking for something serious - all I can find is ass. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 12, 2008 - 21 answers

Don't be desperate. Okay, how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2008 - 24 answers

I would like to go to the drive in on a date in my Audi. The problem? The persistent beep that happens with the key engaged and the seatbelt unfastened. Help me conquer this inconvenience so I can get lucky in one of the classic American dating pastimes. [more inside]
posted by rileyray3000 on May 27, 2008 - 18 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

I'm a student in the UK and have decided to take a job in the U.S. starting in the autumn. Is there any hope for me to be in a romantic relationship until then? [more inside]
posted by rwatson on Apr 20, 2008 - 7 answers

Dating a divorced man. Help me rationalize this relationship mess before I gouge my eyeballs out. [more inside]
posted by sansgras on Mar 9, 2008 - 76 answers

How do I turn my current best friend into something more? [more inside]
posted by kldickson on Feb 22, 2008 - 50 answers

Dating for Dummies, Chapter 73: Getting Physical. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 16, 2008 - 28 answers

My girlfriend and I have religious and cultural differences. How can our relationship work? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 21, 2008 - 47 answers

I'm freshly sprung on a new cutie. How do I take it slow? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2007 - 20 answers

SM question?? (very personal) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2007 - 22 answers

I don't infatuate easily, and am very slow-to-warm-up with regard to romantic interests. What's a gal like me to do in the world of speed dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 6, 2007 - 8 answers

How can I keep my head on straight as a first time "friend with benefits"? Is this just not for me? Of course there is a LONG story after the jump. Wee, come with me! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2007 - 25 answers

Dealing with annoying, persistent sexual attraction . . . help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 15, 2007 - 22 answers

If you're an obese man who's been successful in the dating scene, please give me some tips and advice. As always, there's [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 13, 2007 - 12 answers

Should I break up with my boyfriend? Or 'play the field'? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2007 - 40 answers

I'm gay, new at dating, and kind of overweight (though not morbidly so -- say ~ 20/22% body fat), though my face doesn't show it. I'm afraid dates will like me, in part based on that deceptive face, then discover my fatness during a moment of intimacy, and be repulsed. Am I being paranoid?
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2007 - 21 answers

MistressFilter: My wife thinks it would be a good idea if I saw another woman to help fulfill my sexual needs. That's loving and supportive of her, but I have one problem... how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2007 - 37 answers

Please help me not be the next 40 year old virgin! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2007 - 31 answers

I have a question to ask of heterosexual women on Metafilter: are you as shallow as I am? Do you find overweight men attractive? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2007 - 34 answers