I had unprotected sex and performed cunnilingus. I'm uninsured. I'm asymptomatic. Where and what type of STD testing should I look for? Also, if I test clean then what is the chance that that she too is/was clean? The primary question is where can I get a general panel of STD testing cheaply (or free) given that I am currently uninsured because I'm (hopefully temporarily) unemployed. Barring other options, how much should I expect to spend at my general doctor for the proper tests? Is that worth it given my situation below?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 17, 2011 -
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Trying to be a thoughtful boyfriend and yet improve the sexual experience. How do you delicately approach the pubic hair grooming issue? More information (possibly more than you want to know) after the cut.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 20, 2010 -
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Now that I'm having sex I'm finding that it doesn't live up to the hype. What can I do to overcome my disappointment, and more likely, my dysfunction? NSFW.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 1, 2010 -
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My girlfriend gets an UTI after almost every time I go down on her. Help us save our sex lives!
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 21, 2007 -
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I can orgasm, but when my boyfriend's there it takes an hour and a half. What gives? Obviously not safe for work.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 29, 2006 -
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How can my boy and I have better sex? And in particular, how can I teach him to go down on me?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 21, 2006 -
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Is giving head supposed to be arousing?
She prefers this sequence: foreplay, followed by cunnilingus, and then intercourse. Trouble is, almost immediately I go down on her, I lose my erection -- does this mean I'm gay?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 14, 2006 -
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How do I improve my cunnilingus technique? I do pretty well as it is but operate under the beliefs that a) it's something you can never be too good at and b) different people like different things, so I'd love to know new things to try. What do you like to do/like to have done to you?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 26, 2005 -
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I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)
posted by anonymous
on Nov 5, 2004 -
21 answers
