Should I say or should I come? or, should a girl say that she didn't have an orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

My girlfriend gets an UTI after almost every time I go down on her. Help us save our sex lives! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2007 - 22 answers

Can I learn to enjoy the taste of vagina? I really want to. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 14, 2007 - 39 answers

Getting better in bed - how? NSFW inside... [more inside]
posted by Ultimate Sockpuppet the Second on Dec 31, 2006 - 19 answers

Connoisseurs of Cunnilingus: What does it taste like to you? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Dec 1, 2006 - 88 answers

I can orgasm, but when my boyfriend's there it takes an hour and a half. What gives? Obviously not safe for work. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 29, 2006 - 26 answers

How can my boy and I have better sex? And in particular, how can I teach him to go down on me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 21, 2006 - 30 answers

Is giving head supposed to be arousing? She prefers this sequence: foreplay, followed by cunnilingus, and then intercourse. Trouble is, almost immediately I go down on her, I lose my erection -- does this mean I'm gay? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 14, 2006 - 34 answers

How do I improve my cunnilingus technique? I do pretty well as it is but operate under the beliefs that a) it's something you can never be too good at and b) different people like different things, so I'd love to know new things to try. What do you like to do/like to have done to you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2005 - 31 answers

I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2004 - 21 answers