My older brother (in his 50s) posted something on FB regarding the Steubenville rape case, which was:
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posted by HopperFan
on Mar 17, 2013 -
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How do I decide whether this relationship is worth staying and working on or leaving and working on myself?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 30, 2012 -
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An ex had a very specific sexual technique that drove me crazy. How can I request it from my current boyfriend?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 22, 2011 -
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I've been hanging out with my boyfriend for around 7 months (I'm female). He's really sweet, and we get along really well. I stay at his place a couple of times a week (more or less) and on weekends. His place only, since he lives alone and near things, and I live with roommates and further away from stuff. We're both in our 40s. I was single for an incredibly long time before hooking up with him (although occasionally having sex with various casual hookups), he's been in and out of relationships pretty regularly. We sleep together and spoon all night, sometimes he's all over me, and vice versa, and we kiss and cuddle an awful lot. But no sex. None.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 17, 2011 -
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How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)?
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posted by patronuscharms
on Apr 22, 2011 -
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Fell for someone, thought it was over and started to move on, now maybe it isn't?? Lots of complexities and juicy details inside (long, naturally)
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 22, 2011 -
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My partner has a wild sexual history and would like to incorporate threesomes into our sex life. I am not comfortable with this idea at all. Do these sort of discrepancies point to some sort of sexual incompatibility? (Many more details insides . . . NSFW.)
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posted by fignewton
on Jun 24, 2010 -
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When (and how) do I tell new romantic partners about my erectile dysfunction? How would you react to a guy telling you this?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 3, 2010 -
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Why won't my boyfriend initiate sex? He is willing enough once things get started, but he never starts them.
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posted by catatethebird
on Dec 30, 2009 -
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I was a late bloomer. I was painfully shy and didn't date until I was 24. I'm at a turning point of the longest relationship I've had (almost a year). I don't know if I'm in love or not. Or if that's even the right question.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 30, 2008 -
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My boyfriend and I met when I was very young and inexperienced, and we've been together for almost 10 years now. I've always enjoyed our sex life, especially my ability to have multiple orgasms. But wait. Now that I'm older and a bit more in touch with myself, so to speak, I've realized I hadn't really been having orgasms at all. Because I'm just starting to now. My boyfriend thinks he's losing his skills because I'm having one orgasm with him, if at all, and I've skirted around talking about it by saying that it's just different now. We're really open with each other and we talk about everything honestly, but I'm having a hard time figuring out how to gently broach this topic since I didn't when I first became aware of it. How can I share the truth and preserve his ego?
posted by anonymous
on Oct 13, 2004 -
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