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Are massage parlors cheating?

What do I do with a husband who has been getting handjobs @ massage parlors...help! [more inside]
posted by momtothreedc on Jun 13, 2012 - 64 answers

How to Handle the Hormones

Emotional cheating vs. Real Life cheating (with prostitutes!) or how to handle hormones... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 16, 2012 - 71 answers

How to confirm whether boyfriend is cheating without creating a shipload of unnecessary melodrama?

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, or at least looking for opportunities to do so. The problem is, if I can't trust him not to cheat, then I also can't trust him to tell the truth if I confront him. So how do I deal with this? (details below) [more inside]
posted by myShanon on Dec 10, 2011 - 48 answers

We started with sex. Then liked each other a lot. Now how do we slow down?

I met a girl from a club and we had sex. She had a boyfriend then (she cheated on him with me). She is now single & we have been incredibly close. I think I'm being clingy and I need help BIGTIME because I really like her. [more inside]
posted by Vandal on Apr 30, 2011 - 23 answers

How to get through/past the first few weeks

How do you stop yourself from caring whether someone you've just started seeing is sleeping with/will sleep with other people? [more inside]
posted by Chrysalis on Mar 25, 2011 - 31 answers

Why are my ovaries trying to make me cheat?

Why are my ovaries trying to make me cheat? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2011 - 22 answers

Fantasizing about other men - help!

How can I stop being hypersexual, get my therapist to see that it's threatening my marriage, and start focusing on my husband again? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 6, 2010 - 35 answers

Rape or cheating?

My girlfriend confided in my yesterday that she cheated on me with an exboyfriend almost exactly a year ago and kept it secret from me. This explains a lot of her overemotional behaviour and the tumult in our relationship over the past while, I think. But when she elaborated on the circumstances what happened sounded more like rape than anything. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2010 - 38 answers

How do you deal with sexual urges outside of your relationship?

How do you deal with sexual urges outside of your relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 29, 2010 - 38 answers

Help me move through this PLEASE

Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2010 - 12 answers

Full disclosure?

Asking for a friend… Should he tell his girlfriend about his cyber fling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 11, 2009 - 31 answers

the accidental other woman?

I got drunk at a party last night, and I ended up putting myself to bed early on in the night. A few hours after I went to bed (alone, in the host's bedroom), a male friend of mine (who has been with his girlfriend for at least the past 3-4 years) came in and laid down. He was sort of spooning/pressing up against me, and in my drunken haze I responded and we ended up having sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 5, 2009 - 48 answers

Oh boy. What have I done now.

[Relationshipfilter] Has "cheating" ever been a crucible for your relationship? [more inside]
posted by dentata on Jan 19, 2009 - 50 answers

One unhealthy relationship after another.

I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 - 23 answers

Help me figure out what to do about my relationship.

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

I'm involved in a long term relationship with a bad boy. Can I keep doing it?

I'm involved in a long term reationship with a bad boy. Can I keep doing it? [more inside]
posted by Lorna on Jun 19, 2007 - 20 answers

So a man meets this tall hot chick in a club...

I was out at a club, and a girl invited me to come to her place - tomorrow. She probably wants to have sex. My girlfriend is visiting the day after. That's the uncomplicated part. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 15, 2007 - 45 answers

How do I stop myself from cheating?

I have a girlfriend I'm in love with. But I'm also in love another girl. She's leaving town, and I want to sleep with her. Why shouldn't I? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 7, 2007 - 108 answers

Should i wait for a married guy?

If you're in love with a married man, and he says he would leave his wife, would you stay? Whilst i love him very much, i am not sure if i should believe him as surely if he really was going to leave her he would have done this by now. Is it possible to love two people at the same time?
posted by rainbow_2006 on Aug 2, 2006 - 88 answers

Am I naive to think I'm truly the "only one" for Demi Moore?

I recently ended an affair I was having with a beautiful, intelligent, charming, older, married woman (I'm Ashton's age, she's Demi's). After 3 weeks I just couldn't deal with the guilt anymore. I knew the affair was wrong, but I did it anyway. As a Catholic, I'm working on the whole reconciliation thing. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 17, 2006 - 34 answers

Why can't men keep their hands to themselves?

My ex wants me to come over and find out where we're at in our relationship. We were in a long distance relationship that ended a few months ago when I was intimate with another man (no sex, just so you know, but enough to make it cheating). When I told him, we swore we still loved eachother, but decided break up so we could have a chance to grow, and start again when we lived in the same city (likely spring '06). Since then I've found clarity, come to terms with the nearly unbearable guilt and done my best to change the part of me that went wrong. Come to find out he's been busy....very busy...with many women where he lives. I made a mistake, I know that....so it confounds me that he says he loves me but turns around and does all that stuff with all those girls? I'm very in love with this man, and I want to believe in him so badly, but I can't understand how he can hold such a double standard. Is it just too much to ask of a 24 year old, to actually live the lifestyle he expects of his partner? Is it a Man thing, that you have to get action? And, in light of all this, can I believe that he loves me or am I playing the fool.
posted by aquavit on Dec 9, 2005 - 66 answers

Betrayal and everything after

My girlfriend cheated on me this weekend. I am beside myself with grief. How do I cope, and where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2005 - 58 answers

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