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Should I have casual gay sex?

I’m a 28 year old gay guy. Up until recently I had never considered the idea of having casual sex until now. Should I and if so how? [more inside]
posted by lifeliver7 on Nov 29, 2013 - 15 answers

Should I continue seeing this guy who is in an open relationship?

It started out casual but a few months in I have started to develop feelings - and he still has a girlfriend who he is in an open relationship with. I know I don't want a relationship with him (open or otherwise) as we are too different, but is there any way I can make this work casually without getting too emotionally involved? [more inside]
posted by pennywise_1 on Nov 4, 2013 - 27 answers

When does a casual hookup turn into dating? When does it not?

I have been seeing this guy since December about once or twice a month, and am possibly on the verge of having feelings. Trying to figure out how to reasonably navigate this. Tell me about your experiences? [more inside]
posted by anonymoosemoosemoose on Aug 13, 2013 - 9 answers

I have herpes. I want to have casual sex. How can I make this work?

I find myself at a time in my life when I would really like to have lots of casual sex. However, I have genital herpes. I know I need to disclose this to potential partners, and I know how to do that. I would like to know if there is anything I can do to improve my ability to find potential partners who will not turn me down on the basis of my STD status. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2013 - 12 answers

casual hookup etiquette for the post-serially monogamous citizen

After many years of monogamy followed by several years of celibacy (continually enforced by the fact that, out of raw fiscal necessity, I will continue to share a house and mortgage with my ex for the indefinite future), a chance encounter has left me with the opportunity to enjoy one (or, fingers crossed, more than one!) casual hookup(s) with a breathtakingly attractive near-stranger. Can you walk me through this process -- safety, guidelines, what to do/not do or say, etc. -- like a complete newbie? [more inside]
posted by electroshock blues on Mar 25, 2013 - 15 answers

Figuring out guidelines for friends with benefits situation

I am starting a casual relationship/FWB situation. Previously, I'd only had sex in a relationship or a one night stand. What should I be thinking about ahead of time? What are some guidelines/general expectations that you've used in this situation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 27, 2013 - 7 answers

How do I make my open relationship a reality?

I'm looking for practical suggestions on finding casual sex in the context of an open relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2012 - 19 answers

Tell me about your casual sex sprees

Ladies -- have you ever gone on a casual sex spree? How did it work out? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2012 - 26 answers

Safety First: The casual sex version

What are your safety tips for casual sexual encounters? (Probably NSFW text inside) [more inside]
posted by KinkySockPuppet on Jun 13, 2012 - 14 answers

How do I get over jealousy in a relationship?

I can't trust my girlfriend. I haven't been able to trust past girlfriends. Help? (snowflake details ahead) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2012 - 27 answers

She wants to be EXCLUSIVE? What a weirdo!

I feel like a freak for wanting a long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2012 - 31 answers

Should I have sex with a guy I'm not attracted to?

I'm single and I've been saying for ages I want to have more sex. I'm getting sick of finding I'm in the mood and not being able to (really) enjoy it. A new guy I met recently has fallen madly for me, and would clearly get physical if I showed any interest in him. Truth is I don't find him physically attractive at all, and I don't think there is any chemistry for me, but he seems trustworthy and an ok person. Assuming he would be ok with sex w/o a relationship, am I crazy to shag him just because I want the sex? Have any of you girls ever done this - what was it like? Worth it?
posted by EatMyHat on Jan 28, 2012 - 33 answers

Booty to Boyfriend?

Is it possible to turn a hook-up into a real realationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 31, 2011 - 47 answers

To have, or not to have casual sex: that is the question

Do I have non-monogamous sex "in the meantime"? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 12, 2011 - 40 answers

Was this a sign that I should stay far far away from casual hookups?

Was this a disastrous experience because I shouldn't have casual sex, or was it a disastrous experience because it was destined to be a trainwreck? Convoluted details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 24, 2011 - 31 answers

Good all my life, and... wow.

Met a stranger I want. Should I, and how? Mildly NSFW Dear-Penthouse-style description and query inside, written by a young female person who is a little out of her element. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2011 - 45 answers

Losing my second virginity in Vegas.

I'm British, male, in my late twenties, straight, and it's years since I last slept with a woman. Years. I'm going to be in Las Vegas in a few weeks and I'm wondering about resurrecting my lost sexuality there. Please help me think this through. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 22, 2010 - 26 answers

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

What are ways I can compliment my lover in bed when I don't find him as beautiful as he does me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 26, 2010 - 25 answers

Nice shoes, I'm married, she's fine with it, wanna do it?

How can I indicate to potential female partners that I am interested in casual sex with them, and that my wife approves? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 18, 2009 - 22 answers

Somebody to Screw Around With

How do I go about finding someone to sleep with on a regular basis, for fun? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2009 - 14 answers

Phase 1: Use Internet; Phase 2: ?; Phase 3: Hook-up.

Recommendations and advice sought for hooking up online in the UK. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2009 - 10 answers

Apart from that it's an awful idea.

What should I know about trying to have casual first-time sex at a fantasy convention? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 13, 2008 - 47 answers

How much casual sex is too much casual sex?

I want a boyfriend. But, in the meantime, I could be having sex with people. Should I? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2008 - 20 answers

When is a relationship not a relationship?

When is a relationship not a relationship? A casual-sex question. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2007 - 25 answers

love 'em and leave 'em (breathless and sweaty).

The joys of casual sex! I have recently entered into my first casual relationship, and I want to make it as fun and fantastic as possible. I have lots of questions, and I hope you'll share some of your favourite stories so I can steal the ideas of your greatest lovers. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 17, 2005 - 18 answers

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