Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2009 - 10 answers

Another "kinky sex hacks" question... (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by puckish on Mar 3, 2009 - 8 answers

My girlfriend loves being tied up. Unfortunately, I never was a boy scout and suck at tying knots. (nsfw) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 28, 2008 - 18 answers

KinkFilter: Is there currently any sociological research on sexual kinks, specifically long-term BDSM relationships? My friend and I were talking a couple days ago, and we were wondering if D/s dynamics were more common among certain demographics (i.e., college-educated, middle class, particular ethnic groups, certain religions, etc.), and I decided that MeFi might know if anyone was publishing on this stuff.
posted by aliceinreality on Nov 26, 2008 - 14 answers

Books and movies with BDSM overtones? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 28, 2008 - 34 answers

Kinkyelectricsex: My partner wants to bring a TENS machine into the bedroom. How safe or dangerous are these things? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2008 - 7 answers

What's a good resource for the history of laws governing BDSM pornography? [discussion, of course, potentially nsfw] [more inside]
posted by nadawi on May 13, 2008 - 6 answers

Please point me to resources that describe the phenomenon of "switching" by some BDSM participants. [more inside]
posted by Forktine on Apr 13, 2008 - 3 answers

Help for a couple starting to experiment with a D/s relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2008 - 16 answers

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

My partner wants me to dominate him. That's totally not my style, and his pickiness makes it harder, but I'm trying my best, and it's working! Up to a point. (NSFW text inside.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 12, 2007 - 49 answers

SexFilter - is kink curable? [more inside]
posted by Jake Apathy on Aug 16, 2007 - 20 answers

Help me overcome my reluctance to dominate my girl and fulfill both our fantasies. I would feel silly and disconnected dominating my girl the way she wants to be dominated in the bedroom. How can I step beyond my self-consciousness to give her what she wants while remaining sensual enough to satisfy myself? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 13, 2007 - 24 answers

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

BSDMFilter : Is it true that there are far more male bottoms then there are female tops? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2006 - 14 answers