How does one erase the illusion of "love" delivered by the media? [more inside]
posted by loser8008 on Jun 30, 2009 - 28 answers

I'm a boy. She's a girl. Herpes question. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 29, 2009 - 5 answers

This has happened to me in the course of sleeping with two different guys (on separate occasions) and I still don't understand the reasoning behind it. (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 29, 2009 - 36 answers

I'd like to know what other people think about while masturbating and how that differs from what they think about while having sexual intercourse. [more inside]
posted by krautland on Jun 29, 2009 - 27 answers

Find me stories (books, movies, links, anecdotes) of how two ordinary, quiet, straight middle-aged people met, and learned to care for each other. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2009 - 14 answers

How do I get back into the dating world? [more inside]
posted by plungerjoke on Jun 24, 2009 - 34 answers

TMI Filter: Is this normal vagina behavior? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 19, 2009 - 18 answers

When I was in high school (USA, late 1980's) a friend had a poem (copied from a magazine or a book) taped to the inside of her locker. It was Bukowski-esque, but I do not believe it was Bukowski. The line I recall went something like: "I either want to consume or have sex with everything in existence." Can anyone tell me what that poem was? My Google-fu has failed me, and I'd love to find the poem again (either online or in published form). Thank you!
posted by pammeke on Jun 18, 2009 - 7 answers

How do I make my hook-ups/one-night-stands more satisfying for me and my partner? Turn me into a sexual tyrannosaurus, please! [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 18, 2009 - 16 answers

What are my chances of contracting herpes? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 17, 2009 - 5 answers

If my fiancée and I are trying to conceive, what type of lubrication should we use? [more inside]
posted by Bathtub Bobsled on Jun 15, 2009 - 24 answers

Dominant in bed, submissive in life - how to get over feeling like a weirdo? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 11 answers

Dom in life, sub in bed - how to get over feeling like a hypocrite? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 37 answers

I love my husband, he is a wonderful, caring, attractive man but for some reason I don't want to have sex with him even though I'm really REALLY interested in sex. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 21 answers

Should I be concerned about a casual fling with someone with herpes? (NSFW-ish) [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2009 - 27 answers

ScotFilter. Or LedZepFilter. Why did Glasgow need it? [more inside]
posted by Joe Beese on Jun 7, 2009 - 1 answer

What is one to do when the sex has gone out of the marriage? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 4, 2009 - 67 answers

Looking for good sexy action novels. Not really interested in porn or erotic fiction where sex is the primary conceit; rather I am interest in action, thrillers, suspense, etc., but with a healthy dose of sex. Not really interested in romance either; I tried Jacqueline Carey and Emma Holly but could not get into them. I will try any other genre though. Sex with Aliens? Yeah -- that sounds interesting. I liked the Species movies. Sex with Vampires -- sounds biting. I enjoyed True Blood. I guess I am looking for good erotic thrillers in print but something I can take to the pool without looking too much like a pervert. Bonus points if it comes in an audio version so I can listen at work. Thanks!
posted by Ennui on Jun 4, 2009 - 18 answers

We'd really like to have a threesome with another woman. Where do we even begin? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2009 - 41 answers

Is there such a thing as a dating site for ONLY big breasted women? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Jun 3, 2009 - 23 answers

If I booty call/txt a guy (i'm a girl) should it be expected of me to show up to his place or should I ask him to pick me up? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 28, 2009 - 11 answers

For couples married around 5 years - how many times a month do you have sex? [more inside]
posted by blahtsk on May 27, 2009 - 31 answers

American male/female swinger couple stranded in London next month. Where's the best fun? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 25, 2009 - 2 answers

How do i get my roommate to give me and my girl some space? [more inside]
posted by oviedo on May 22, 2009 - 28 answers

Does there exist a culture where sex doesn't result in orgasm? [more inside]
posted by alice ayres on May 22, 2009 - 26 answers

Need no or low cost reconstructive surgery for friend who had a radical vulvectomy [more inside]
posted by ~Sushma~ on May 18, 2009 - 16 answers

I think I don’t like or trust my partner sexually any more. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How did you manage? Long account under cut. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 18, 2009 - 41 answers

I'm a straight male, and I have genital wart-causing HPV. I have searched high and low and can't find straightforward answers to a few questions. I need some help! [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 16, 2009 - 10 answers

I'm about to enter the college dating scene - or sex scene, I guess. I know to always use condoms - but what about kissing? I know diseases can spread orally, but I never hear about anyone worrying about kissing. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 15, 2009 - 25 answers

Why do some people's hair on their head and pubic hair not match in color? [more inside]
posted by reenum on May 14, 2009 - 30 answers

How can I avoid straining the relationship between my girlfriend and her sister, who disapproves of us? Also, what are some good religious / psychological / philosophical texts to help me understand and (gently) argue against the sister's point of view: that my girlfriend and I are living in sin by having sex out of wedlock? [more inside]
posted by radiosig on May 13, 2009 - 38 answers

SexFilter/LoveFilter: I love her, so why can't I think only of her? [more inside]
posted by the NATURAL on May 13, 2009 - 34 answers

My SO wants to have sex, I am not ready. Past reasons included I don't think I will be ready for years. What should I do before I lose this wonderful man? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 12, 2009 - 44 answers

I'm a guy, looking for recommendations for, er, personal grooming. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 12, 2009 - 18 answers

Asking for a friend… Should he tell his girlfriend about his cyber fling? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 11, 2009 - 29 answers

How herpes is infectious during the incubation period? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 11, 2009 - 7 answers

Is the theory of sublimation—the idea of channeling sexual energy into creative or physical output—still considered valid? Is there evidence that it "works"? [more inside]
posted by Busoni on May 10, 2009 - 16 answers

How can I get off from oral sex? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 8, 2009 - 25 answers

Looking for suggestions for sex therapists in NYC. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 6, 2009 - 0 answers

I'm in my mid 20's, and I haven't dated since high school. How do I do this right? (uh, NSFW) [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 2, 2009 - 16 answers

OMG-does-he-like-me-filter: help, I've fallen for my housemate! I have two requests for you, MeFites: 1) Please read my [long] story and tell me if I'm totally kidding myself about this situation; and/or 2) Tell me your own story about the time you fell for your roommate, housemate, or close friend. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on May 1, 2009 - 41 answers

Blindfold recommendations (maybe NSFW). [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 30, 2009 - 9 answers

Why do B-complex vitamins and zinc enhance orgasm? [more inside]
posted by WolfDaddy on Apr 29, 2009 - 11 answers

Post-coital ouch! Did an orgasm cause me to strain my ladyparts? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2009 - 4 answers

Is there anything I can do to be able to orgasm without a vibrator? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 28, 2009 - 11 answers

Is there any academic research showing that men can have sex without emotion, i.e. just a "hook up"? Why would this be? [more inside]
posted by monkey85 on Apr 27, 2009 - 25 answers

Question from a guy about one-night stands and sex in potential, yet unestablished relationships (probably NSFW). [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 25, 2009 - 20 answers

Ok, so I'm not quite at 40 year-old virgin territory, I'm only 23, but I've been struggling lately, and it's not because I can't find girls that want to have sex w/ me. More inside.... [more inside]
posted by mealticket on Apr 24, 2009 - 32 answers

My wife and i are working through some difficult issues. We love each other dearly, but we're no longer physically intimate. Neither one of us is willing to give up on our relationship. How do I make things work while we're trying to make things work? [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2009 - 10 answers

*ulp* Concealing vibrators. Help. [more inside]
posted by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2009 - 21 answers