SexyTimeFilter: My wife and I are in our mid 20s and are starting to see a decline in the amount of sex we're having. By the time bedtime rolls around, we just want to hit the sheets, not roll in them. When do you have sex to avoid this, and what other things do you do so that sex isn't the last thing on your list? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 29 answers

I need to buy a non squeaky bed for under 500 bucks. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by rileyray3000 on Feb 8, 2010 - 9 answers

Women: Do you enjoy cum on the face? (NSFW, natch) [more inside]
posted by paddingtonb on Feb 8, 2010 - 78 answers

Where between Oakland and SFO can I have sex in my car during the day? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2010 - 12 answers

I like being humiliated, and go to great lengths to get it. Should I rather go into therapy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2010 - 11 answers

She’s keen on the rough stuff – I’m new to it [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 4, 2010 - 36 answers

I've never cried during sex. But with this guy, I do. What's this all about? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 3, 2010 - 14 answers

How do I get over my hangups with blowjobs? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 3, 2010 - 42 answers

And the Best Dildo Award goes to....? (NSFW, obviously) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2010 - 18 answers

In all of fiction and literature, what's the best (or any) example of a male character thinking furiously about baseball, algebra etc. in a desperate attempt to postpone his orgasm? [more inside]
posted by gelcap on Jan 28, 2010 - 17 answers

My partner wants to perform a certain act on me. I would like to make it easier (possibly nsfw) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 26, 2010 - 33 answers

NSFW question about how to ensure any sperm on my hand are dead after the fold... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 26, 2010 - 41 answers

What are ways I can compliment my lover in bed when I don't find him as beautiful as he does me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 26, 2010 - 25 answers

Is a totally mismatched sex drive between two otherwise well matched people who like each other a rational reason to end a relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 20, 2010 - 42 answers

Where did the whole iconography of being recently sexed, skipping down the street, bluebirds landing on shoulders, and people joining in on a complicated dance routine thing come from? [more inside]
posted by maykasahara on Jan 19, 2010 - 15 answers

How do I reassure my girlfriend regarding my inability to ejaculate? [more inside]
posted by Thirsty_Mouse on Jan 14, 2010 - 12 answers

Help this bottom become a top? [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 11, 2010 - 11 answers

My dog is interfering in bedroom activities. I need help figuring out how to handle this. [NSFW/potential TMI details] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2010 - 19 answers

Something in her vagina hurts my penis during intercourse; what might this be? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2010 - 24 answers

My sex life is amazing up until we start to actually have sex. [NSFW inside] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2010 - 18 answers

Have you heard of any bizarre aphrodisiac food ingredients? [more inside]
posted by infinitefloatingbrains on Jan 7, 2010 - 16 answers

Please share with me your best tips for keeping my raging lust in check while I'm getting to know someone I find very attractive. [more inside]
posted by velvet winter on Jan 5, 2010 - 24 answers

As part of my New Year's Self-Improvement Program (tm), I'm seeking out a few sexual experiences I haven't had but would like. In particular, I'd like to be the third in a heterosexual couple's threesome. I'm a mostly-straight man in San Francisco. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2010 - 8 answers

I'm pretty sure my girlfriend has a mild to medium case of vaginismus, though IANAD. Any tips from both guys and ladies who have dealt with this would be appreciated. Anonymous email and NSFW details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2010 - 15 answers

Please help a single, adventurous woman step up her kink in simple, everyday ways. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2010 - 18 answers

I am currently in a happy relationship with a remarkable guy. He is wonderful, loving, and all-around awesome. We've been together for some time now, and things are great--emotionally, we've very solid and better than ever. For all of these reasons, I hope we'll be together for a very long time. There's just one topic I feel the need to broach--my SO's insensitive penis. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2010 - 15 answers

What is a good argument for the immorality of terribly sadistic but ultimately consensual sex, from a secular perspective? [more inside]
posted by limon on Jan 2, 2010 - 61 answers

SexperimentFilter: I'm a man interested in having an orgasm by prostate stimulation alone. How do I do this? Read on for OMG TMI, NSFW, and maybe even a little WTF. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2010 - 7 answers

The lady I'm seeing is really shy in bed. What can I do to help her feel more comfortable? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2010 - 20 answers

Is it possible I got her pregnant through a few layers of clothing? (NSFW, YANAD, etc.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 31, 2009 - 52 answers

Why won't my boyfriend initiate sex? He is willing enough once things get started, but he never starts them. [more inside]
posted by catatethebird on Dec 30, 2009 - 38 answers

Is there such a thing as a natural inability to fantasize? [more inside]
posted by opossumnus on Dec 30, 2009 - 20 answers

I'm 27 and single. I've never had a serious boyfriend. Just throwing that out there. My brother is 24. Our 1st cousins are visiting for Christmas. One of them is male and 19, the other is female and 16. Tonight we somehow got into a huge discussion about relationships. Basically my brother and cousin (the 19-year-old) were making the following points: [more inside]
posted by starpoint on Dec 21, 2009 - 115 answers

ICan'tBelieveI'mAskingThisFilter: How does your grooming, er, down there affect sex? [Possibly NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 17, 2009 - 59 answers

How can I teach my ex what I've learned while we were apart? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser on Dec 15, 2009 - 16 answers

CasualSex-filter: I am a straight woman. I'm not into the bar/club scene whatsoever. I've never had casual sex, and want to change this. Tips for doing this as safely as possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 14, 2009 - 14 answers

female ejaculation filter: I'm so doing it wrong! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2009 - 17 answers

I've met a delightful young woman who floats my boat in many, many ways. Through a variety of circumstances, she has almost no experience at sex. She is a quick and avid learner. Please help me find resources for practical virgins who don't know much about their sexuality that want to figure out what works for them. Lean towards fun, open, smart. I want our discovery process to be a delightful, fun, awesome experience for her. Books, websites, video suggestions?
posted by jdfan on Dec 12, 2009 - 12 answers

Young male living alone--no insurance, very little discretionary income, getting married soon, and I have difficulty maintaining an erection for more than 3-4 minutes. Anything I can do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 11, 2009 - 16 answers

NSFW-Filter: My new lover's penis is rather large and we have a not insignificant height difference. Also, he was a virgin up until last week. Please advise. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 10, 2009 - 13 answers

What's the protocol on calling and/or texting for a booty call with a friend you've recently hooked up with? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2009 - 16 answers

Autoeroticafilter: Are certain self-pleasuring activities not OK? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2009 - 66 answers

Yet another pain-during-intercourse question for girls. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 3, 2009 - 15 answers

I am a straight 29-year old male who has never been in a relationship or had any sexual experience. When I find out that other people I know are entering into relationships or getting frisky, I get slammed by a whole cluster of negative emotions, and I need help coping. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2009 - 40 answers

I'm looking for some Christ-centered sex-positive how-to books. For a friend. No, really. [more inside]
posted by fuzzbean on Nov 30, 2009 - 21 answers

I am late in the dating game, and sex still doesn't interest me. Want to get past this. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2009 - 26 answers

How on earth can I give a blowjob to completion without my jaw recoiling in pain? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2009 - 19 answers

Why does my nose run when I perform oral sex on a man? (NSFW details inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2009 - 14 answers

Does anybody know a decent place for a night of sex in the Chicagoland area? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 27, 2009 - 5 answers

My luverly wife and I had a baby a few months ago. He's a great little feller. We're now ready, physically, to have sex again but... (possibly NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 26, 2009 - 9 answers