What, in your opinion, makes someone a "great guy"? Not just romantically, I mean in any sense. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2005 - 45 answers

I am a really terrible person. I lie to everyone I know, I cheat on people relentlessly, I drink excessively and do things to hurt just about everyone I know. I hate doing these things in retrospect but when it's happening, all I can focus on is how it's benefitting me at the moment.

How do I go from being an asshole who's only concern is his own self interests to being a regular human being who concerns himself with those around him? I'm afraid that if I don't fix this soon, I'm going to lose everyone in my life.
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2005 - 44 answers